1 00:00:02,269 --> 00:00:05,556 ♪ 2 00:00:05,656 --> 00:00:08,775 - Previously, on "The Real Housewives of Potomac"... 3 00:00:08,876 --> 00:00:11,511 - I saw the picture of you, and the hand was empty 4 00:00:11,512 --> 00:00:13,238 where there has been a ring. - It's still empty. 5 00:00:13,338 --> 00:00:14,948 - Oh, it's still empty, right. 6 00:00:15,082 --> 00:00:16,482 - Ray and I are trying to find each other. 7 00:00:16,483 --> 00:00:18,418 He's angry because he has a new wife. 8 00:00:18,518 --> 00:00:20,454 But I won't apologize for getting well. 9 00:00:20,587 --> 00:00:21,722 - So, wait a minute, basketball. 10 00:00:21,822 --> 00:00:23,257 Like, we're going to a game, for sure. 11 00:00:23,357 --> 00:00:24,850 - I have a new client. 12 00:00:24,983 --> 00:00:28,262 Her husband is a coach at the Wizards. 13 00:00:28,362 --> 00:00:30,097 It's the last home game. 14 00:00:30,197 --> 00:00:33,358 She invited me and she said I could extend the invitation 15 00:00:33,492 --> 00:00:35,260 to all of my friends. 16 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,804 {\an8}I saw Ashley salivating over some comment 17 00:00:37,938 --> 00:00:39,373 {\an8}about my husband. 18 00:00:44,311 --> 00:00:45,771 - Um... 19 00:00:45,871 --> 00:00:47,439 I have been receiving messages 20 00:00:47,539 --> 00:00:49,883 that your husband has been on dating sites. 21 00:00:50,918 --> 00:00:52,486 - You were like, "Ooh, ha-ha-ha. 22 00:00:52,586 --> 00:00:54,379 "It's not my tea." - It's not. 23 00:00:54,513 --> 00:00:56,890 - It was me. 24 00:00:56,990 --> 00:00:58,859 - Say that to me. You don't take it to Ashley. 25 00:00:58,992 --> 00:01:02,721 And I'm utterly shocked that this is coming from you. 26 00:01:02,854 --> 00:01:05,064 - What happened? - I asked him, 27 00:01:05,065 --> 00:01:06,617 "Are you on any dating apps?" 28 00:01:06,717 --> 00:01:07,901 And he said yeah. 29 00:01:14,975 --> 00:01:16,843 {\an8}- I said, "How long have you been on it?" 30 00:01:16,977 --> 00:01:18,303 {\an8}He said a year. 31 00:01:18,403 --> 00:01:20,646 {\an8}- What? - Oh, my... 32 00:01:20,647 --> 00:01:23,016 {\an8}- Yeah. He said he felt lonely. 33 00:01:23,183 --> 00:01:24,718 {\an8}He was looking for some attention. 34 00:01:24,851 --> 00:01:26,370 {\an8}- Oh... - God... 35 00:01:26,570 --> 00:01:29,856 ♪ 36 00:01:29,990 --> 00:01:32,526 - You didn't even think it respectful enough 37 00:01:32,693 --> 00:01:34,161 to cheat like everybody else does, 38 00:01:34,261 --> 00:01:36,429 quietly and with discretion. 39 00:01:36,430 --> 00:01:38,699 You also want to humiliate me, 40 00:01:38,799 --> 00:01:41,351 is how I felt, and how I feel. 41 00:01:44,096 --> 00:01:47,432 What was interesting, though, is that the site was still up. 42 00:01:47,566 --> 00:01:49,910 Like, I literally had to ask, 43 00:01:50,043 --> 00:01:52,244 "Do you think you can delete it?" 44 00:01:52,245 --> 00:01:53,839 And he's like, "Oh, yeah." 45 00:01:53,939 --> 00:01:57,342 - I cannot believe he would be so reckless, 46 00:01:57,442 --> 00:02:00,086 not only with, like, your marriage and your heart, 47 00:02:00,087 --> 00:02:02,456 but, like, it's your family. 48 00:02:02,556 --> 00:02:04,207 - And I see you getting emotional. 49 00:02:10,497 --> 00:02:13,000 - Siena is such a daddy's girl. - I know. 50 00:02:13,100 --> 00:02:15,352 - She's gonna be 18, 51 00:02:15,452 --> 00:02:16,970 and... 52 00:02:20,874 --> 00:02:24,177 She's learning how to be a woman through me. 53 00:02:24,277 --> 00:02:26,880 - Yes. - How to be treated. 54 00:02:26,980 --> 00:02:30,942 How to carry herself, and, um, 55 00:02:31,043 --> 00:02:33,545 I don't want her thinking, like, that's okay. 56 00:02:33,645 --> 00:02:35,714 - Yes, but it's not okay. 57 00:02:35,814 --> 00:02:38,884 I think you're carrying enough already. 58 00:02:38,984 --> 00:02:40,393 - Yeah. - Because as mothers, 59 00:02:40,394 --> 00:02:42,287 we have the tendency to want to fix things. 60 00:02:42,387 --> 00:02:43,996 - Yeah. - He messed up. 61 00:02:43,997 --> 00:02:46,558 - It is his burden. - It's his burden. 62 00:02:46,658 --> 00:02:49,736 Let him carry that, Tia. - Yeah. 63 00:02:49,903 --> 00:02:53,957 ♪ 64 00:02:54,157 --> 00:03:02,715 ♪ 65 00:03:02,716 --> 00:03:04,084 - I got your work cut out for you. 66 00:03:04,184 --> 00:03:05,452 Are you ready? - Let's do it. 67 00:03:05,585 --> 00:03:08,355 {\an8}- Um, this is important to me because I know the girls 68 00:03:08,455 --> 00:03:10,123 {\an8}want to celebrate my release, right? 69 00:03:10,257 --> 00:03:12,242 {\an8}- Yes. Yeah. - But I trust nobody to do it 70 00:03:12,342 --> 00:03:13,852 {\an8}like I feel it. 71 00:03:13,985 --> 00:03:16,429 I want to transform this health center 72 00:03:16,430 --> 00:03:18,564 into, like, a soft place for us. 73 00:03:18,565 --> 00:03:20,025 Because I want them to feel like I felt 74 00:03:20,158 --> 00:03:21,567 when I left the jail. 75 00:03:21,568 --> 00:03:23,303 You know how I came out? - Oh, yeah. You're free now. 76 00:03:23,437 --> 00:03:24,496 - I-I free now. 77 00:03:24,596 --> 00:03:28,108 The party is called "Sofia Home Celebration." 78 00:03:28,208 --> 00:03:29,575 - Sofia...? 79 00:03:29,576 --> 00:03:30,877 - You remember "The Color Purple," right? 80 00:03:30,977 --> 00:03:32,871 - I do. - When Oprah was set free, 81 00:03:33,004 --> 00:03:37,317 and she came home and said, she home. I'm home. 82 00:03:37,451 --> 00:03:38,318 - Okay, so that's what we're doing. 83 00:03:38,452 --> 00:03:39,419 - So having make-- this is the home 84 00:03:39,519 --> 00:03:40,687 that I'm gonna set up for the girls. 85 00:03:40,821 --> 00:03:41,855 - Okay. 86 00:03:41,988 --> 00:03:43,856 - Sofia in "The Color Purple" went to jail. 87 00:03:43,857 --> 00:03:46,560 But she came out stronger. That's me! 88 00:03:49,463 --> 00:03:52,224 ♪ 89 00:03:52,357 --> 00:03:55,794 Think purple. Think shades of purple. 90 00:03:55,894 --> 00:03:57,471 {\an8}I'm sure Gizzy wanted to throw me a party 91 00:03:57,571 --> 00:03:59,205 {\an8}in jail jumpsuits, okay? 92 00:03:59,206 --> 00:04:01,074 {\an8}That girl is a mess. 93 00:04:01,174 --> 00:04:03,642 {\an8}- We have a little non-alcoholic Grande Dame. 94 00:04:03,643 --> 00:04:04,736 {\an8}- Ooh... 95 00:04:04,870 --> 00:04:06,012 - Sofia home. You just gonna-- - Sofia. 96 00:04:06,146 --> 00:04:07,514 - You don't know how she comin' in. 97 00:04:07,681 --> 00:04:08,982 - Okay... 98 00:04:09,149 --> 00:04:15,147 ♪ 99 00:04:15,247 --> 00:04:17,223 [dog barking] 100 00:04:17,224 --> 00:04:19,651 - Give mama a kiss. 101 00:04:19,751 --> 00:04:20,752 Ooh! 102 00:04:20,886 --> 00:04:24,096 His-his tooth hit my tooth. 103 00:04:24,097 --> 00:04:26,433 Oh, my God. 104 00:04:29,569 --> 00:04:33,172 - I think it's loose. - Is it okay? 105 00:04:33,173 --> 00:04:34,541 {\an8}Chico! 106 00:04:34,641 --> 00:04:36,268 {\an8}[dog whimpering] 107 00:04:36,401 --> 00:04:38,103 {\an8}- Why do we need a dog trainer? 108 00:04:38,236 --> 00:04:40,046 {\an8}- Because our dog is the most horrible dog 109 00:04:40,180 --> 00:04:41,998 {\an8}on the Earth. - What? 110 00:04:42,098 --> 00:04:45,552 {\an8}- Don't talk down to him. Let's lift him up. 111 00:04:45,685 --> 00:04:47,286 Come here, Chico. 112 00:04:47,287 --> 00:04:49,055 Why is he wet on the bottom? 113 00:04:49,156 --> 00:04:51,174 - Eww. - Am I missing something? 114 00:04:51,274 --> 00:04:54,294 When I adopted Arlo, Thiemo and I were living apart. 115 00:04:54,394 --> 00:04:57,289 Their relationship is challenging. 116 00:04:57,422 --> 00:04:59,265 - There's no rules in place, my friend, 117 00:04:59,266 --> 00:05:00,667 and that's not gonna work. 118 00:05:00,767 --> 00:05:05,005 - It's hard bringing a side dog into your home. 119 00:05:05,105 --> 00:05:06,973 So we're doing the best that we can. 120 00:05:08,542 --> 00:05:10,911 - So, like, what do we need to teach Arlo? 121 00:05:11,044 --> 00:05:14,681 - Number one... - Stop barking. 122 00:05:14,781 --> 00:05:16,775 How about the marking in the house? 123 00:05:16,875 --> 00:05:19,419 - And establishing who's gonna walk him when. 124 00:05:19,553 --> 00:05:21,354 - Byyye! 125 00:05:21,454 --> 00:05:22,756 [sighing] - Can you make me a coffee? 126 00:05:22,889 --> 00:05:24,257 - You're in for a treat. Of course. 127 00:05:24,357 --> 00:05:25,791 Coffee with your sugar, or... 128 00:05:25,792 --> 00:05:26,885 [laughing] 129 00:05:26,985 --> 00:05:27,961 Sugar with your coffee? 130 00:05:28,094 --> 00:05:30,462 - I would like, um, a little sugar 131 00:05:30,463 --> 00:05:32,165 and a little milk. - Okay. 132 00:05:32,265 --> 00:05:34,367 - You know I like a little milk in my coffee. 133 00:05:34,467 --> 00:05:36,636 - I drink it black. 134 00:05:36,770 --> 00:05:40,072 - I know you do. [laughing] 135 00:05:40,073 --> 00:05:43,560 I'm glad Bella's upstairs. This is too much. 136 00:05:43,660 --> 00:05:45,478 Danke. 137 00:05:45,612 --> 00:05:47,447 - Uh, in order to make this work with the dog 138 00:05:47,547 --> 00:05:51,476 I think we need-- just need to work on a few things. 139 00:05:51,576 --> 00:05:53,220 - Right, when we talk about 140 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,222 what's important for our relationship, 141 00:05:55,322 --> 00:05:56,790 for me, number one, 142 00:05:56,923 --> 00:05:58,525 communication. - Mm-hmm. 143 00:05:58,625 --> 00:06:00,427 - Number two, date nights. - Mm-hmm. 144 00:06:00,527 --> 00:06:02,896 - I think that for the last ten years, 145 00:06:02,996 --> 00:06:06,832 our priority has always been Arabella. 146 00:06:06,833 --> 00:06:08,827 And that's why we got lost. 147 00:06:08,927 --> 00:06:10,236 - Yeah. 148 00:06:10,237 --> 00:06:12,571 - You know, I know this, like, is gonna sound crazy, 149 00:06:12,572 --> 00:06:14,432 but were you on any dating sites 150 00:06:14,532 --> 00:06:16,126 when we were broken up? 151 00:06:17,193 --> 00:06:20,247 Why are you laughing? [laughing] 152 00:06:20,347 --> 00:06:23,115 I cannot imagine you on a dating site. 153 00:06:23,116 --> 00:06:24,551 - No. 154 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,922 - Yeah, so, do you remember Tia? 155 00:06:29,923 --> 00:06:30,657 - Yeah, I do. 156 00:06:30,757 --> 00:06:32,609 - We sort of came to a nice place, 157 00:06:32,709 --> 00:06:37,614 and then I showed her photos of her husband 158 00:06:37,714 --> 00:06:40,432 on a dating site. - Ooh... 159 00:06:40,433 --> 00:06:42,894 - It was probably a difficult conversation, 160 00:06:43,028 --> 00:06:45,471 but I think it was a really great thing 161 00:06:45,472 --> 00:06:47,574 from you to share it with her in private. 162 00:06:47,674 --> 00:06:48,874 You know? 163 00:06:48,875 --> 00:06:50,109 - Exactly. 164 00:06:50,110 --> 00:06:52,979 Thiemo and I made a promise to each other 165 00:06:53,079 --> 00:06:56,715 that if we were to come back together, 166 00:06:56,716 --> 00:07:01,153 we were doing our best to be best friends again. 167 00:07:01,154 --> 00:07:03,290 - That's what friends do, you know? 168 00:07:03,390 --> 00:07:06,810 - And so, to see Tia's husband on a dating site, 169 00:07:06,910 --> 00:07:09,428 I'm so grateful for my husband. 170 00:07:09,429 --> 00:07:10,697 Ex-husband, boyfriend, 171 00:07:10,830 --> 00:07:13,132 or whatever you wanna call him. 172 00:07:13,133 --> 00:07:15,936 Things are good and my family is happy. 173 00:07:20,265 --> 00:07:24,044 She said that I married up by marrying you. 174 00:07:24,177 --> 00:07:24,828 - Oh. 175 00:07:24,928 --> 00:07:25,845 {\an8}- You married up, 176 00:07:25,946 --> 00:07:26,846 {\an8}and you're trying to be prim and proper. 177 00:07:26,946 --> 00:07:28,982 {\an8}- No, I didn't marry up. - It's a problem. 178 00:07:29,082 --> 00:07:30,717 {\an8}[laughing] 179 00:07:30,884 --> 00:07:32,786 {\an8}- I think you married up. [laughing] 180 00:07:43,496 --> 00:07:45,597 {\an8}- Oh, it's open. 181 00:07:45,598 --> 00:07:48,568 {\an8}Mom? - Hi, baby. 182 00:07:48,735 --> 00:07:51,129 {\an8}How are you? - I'm good. 183 00:07:51,262 --> 00:07:53,139 {\an8}- How are the kids? - Everyone's good. 184 00:07:53,239 --> 00:07:55,808 {\an8}Now, mom, why do you still have your Christmas tree up? 185 00:07:55,809 --> 00:07:58,244 {\an8}- Uh... [laughing] 186 00:07:58,411 --> 00:08:01,514 {\an8}- Mom, you have Easter. - Yes, I'm a devout Catholic. 187 00:08:01,614 --> 00:08:03,016 You wanna drink some wine? 188 00:08:03,116 --> 00:08:04,250 - No. [laughing] 189 00:08:04,384 --> 00:08:06,753 - I have your favorite soup. - The okra soup? 190 00:08:06,886 --> 00:08:09,923 - Okra, shrimp, and-- - Oh, yes. 191 00:08:10,023 --> 00:08:13,526 Before I was taken away, my mom and I's relationship 192 00:08:13,626 --> 00:08:15,795 had really gotten to its worse point. 193 00:08:15,929 --> 00:08:18,164 {\an8}You guys always do this to me. - Oh, shut up! 194 00:08:18,264 --> 00:08:20,032 {\an8}Shut the (BLEEP) up, Wendy! 195 00:08:20,033 --> 00:08:23,869 ♪ 196 00:08:23,870 --> 00:08:26,106 You like it? - Oh, mom, this is so good. 197 00:08:26,239 --> 00:08:28,474 I will say one thing I'm very grateful for 198 00:08:28,475 --> 00:08:30,068 is our relationship. 199 00:08:30,168 --> 00:08:31,778 {\an8}- That's right. - We're closer than ever. 200 00:08:31,911 --> 00:08:35,215 {\an8}My family has rallied around me. 201 00:08:35,315 --> 00:08:38,151 {\an8}Eddie's family has rallied around us. 202 00:08:38,284 --> 00:08:40,478 I wanna take a nap. That was a lot of food. 203 00:08:41,621 --> 00:08:43,055 - Oh, you wanna come lay down here? 204 00:08:43,056 --> 00:08:44,189 - Yeah, can I? 205 00:08:44,190 --> 00:08:46,292 The world turned their back on me 206 00:08:46,459 --> 00:08:47,944 and my mom didn't. 207 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:50,730 Yeah. 208 00:08:50,830 --> 00:08:53,133 I don't wanna cry, but yeah. 209 00:08:53,299 --> 00:08:56,069 You know, I've been in the house for so long, 210 00:08:56,169 --> 00:08:58,496 making, like, a day trip here to come see you 211 00:08:58,596 --> 00:09:00,306 brings me a sense of peace, 212 00:09:00,473 --> 00:09:02,708 because, you know, 213 00:09:02,709 --> 00:09:05,145 I've started also to be around the ladies more. 214 00:09:05,278 --> 00:09:06,379 - Yes. 215 00:09:06,479 --> 00:09:10,116 - And, not all of them have been supportive. 216 00:09:10,216 --> 00:09:12,351 - Some friends ain't no friend. 217 00:09:12,352 --> 00:09:16,255 - Mm-hmm. It's almost as if they were waiting 218 00:09:16,256 --> 00:09:19,259 for my downfall. - Yes. 219 00:09:19,359 --> 00:09:21,960 That's why Karen Huger should not talk about you 220 00:09:21,961 --> 00:09:23,279 and reference me. 221 00:09:23,379 --> 00:09:25,098 {\an8}- No disrespect to your mother. I adore your mother. 222 00:09:25,198 --> 00:09:26,858 {\an8}I particularly loved when she told you 223 00:09:26,958 --> 00:09:28,835 {\an8}to shut the (BLEEP) up this season. 224 00:09:29,002 --> 00:09:31,396 - Go to the library, find another reference. 225 00:09:31,529 --> 00:09:32,839 - Ooh! - They threw you into 226 00:09:33,006 --> 00:09:35,508 the court of public opinion, 227 00:09:35,608 --> 00:09:37,310 but don't worry. 228 00:09:37,410 --> 00:09:39,746 You and Eddie will be fine. 229 00:09:39,846 --> 00:09:42,515 How is Edward holding up, though? 230 00:09:42,615 --> 00:09:45,185 - He's doing the best he can. I mean, it's tough. 231 00:09:45,285 --> 00:09:46,519 - He calls me. 232 00:09:46,619 --> 00:09:48,654 And I still keep talking to him, 233 00:09:48,655 --> 00:09:50,422 no matter what. 234 00:09:50,423 --> 00:09:51,990 - My mom loves Eddie, 235 00:09:51,991 --> 00:09:53,860 and she has been there for the both of us. 236 00:09:54,027 --> 00:09:55,628 - You two are gonna stay married, 237 00:09:55,728 --> 00:09:57,229 even if I have to come to your house 238 00:09:57,230 --> 00:09:59,098 and lay between you two in the bed. 239 00:09:59,199 --> 00:10:00,517 {\an8}- Well, we don't want that. 240 00:10:02,902 --> 00:10:07,098 {\an8}I'll let her say what she needs to say. 241 00:10:07,232 --> 00:10:08,566 I'll leave it at that. 242 00:10:09,542 --> 00:10:11,069 Mm-hmm. 243 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:14,547 So the next hearing is May 20th. 244 00:10:14,647 --> 00:10:17,250 - Mm-hmm. - It's a status hearing, 245 00:10:17,383 --> 00:10:20,587 and then potentially finding a date for trial. 246 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:21,913 - I wanna show up, 247 00:10:22,013 --> 00:10:24,924 because I know what the outcome's gonna be. 248 00:10:25,058 --> 00:10:28,895 - Hmm, yeah, I just need a tissue. 249 00:10:29,028 --> 00:10:30,597 Oh... 250 00:10:30,730 --> 00:10:33,500 I just don't like how this situation 251 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,194 has impacted so many people, you know? 252 00:10:36,294 --> 00:10:38,696 It's like the darkest moment in my life. 253 00:10:38,796 --> 00:10:40,240 - Yeah. - You know? 254 00:10:40,373 --> 00:10:42,408 I just thank God, because there were moments 255 00:10:42,542 --> 00:10:44,410 where I thought it would kill me. 256 00:10:44,577 --> 00:10:46,971 - You won't die. It's okay. 257 00:10:47,105 --> 00:10:48,548 - And I think that's why it bothers me. 258 00:10:48,648 --> 00:10:51,709 The audacity of some of these women to say that, 259 00:10:51,809 --> 00:10:53,811 "You don't look like you're going through anything." 260 00:10:53,945 --> 00:10:55,888 - They don't know what we went through. 261 00:10:55,889 --> 00:10:59,826 You guys were doing so damn----ing well. 262 00:11:02,462 --> 00:11:04,364 God forgive me. [laughing] 263 00:11:04,464 --> 00:11:05,865 Please, forgive me. 264 00:11:05,965 --> 00:11:07,867 [laughing] 265 00:11:07,967 --> 00:11:09,769 - Coming up next... 266 00:11:09,903 --> 00:11:10,728 - Hi. 267 00:11:10,828 --> 00:11:12,338 - Hi. - How are you? 268 00:11:13,323 --> 00:11:15,675 Cool, cool, cool. 269 00:11:19,612 --> 00:11:26,177 ♪ 270 00:11:26,277 --> 00:11:27,353 - All right, come on, guys. Let's go. 271 00:11:31,291 --> 00:11:32,491 - Caysen. 272 00:11:32,492 --> 00:11:33,493 You can do your Rubik's cube for a few minutes, 273 00:11:33,593 --> 00:11:36,011 but then I want you to read your book, okay? 274 00:11:36,012 --> 00:11:37,012 You never started reading. 275 00:11:37,013 --> 00:11:39,532 You've been working on that Rubik's cube. 276 00:11:39,632 --> 00:11:41,267 {\an8}- And I will keep on working on it. 277 00:11:41,367 --> 00:11:42,351 {\an8}- Well, you solved it. 278 00:11:42,352 --> 00:11:44,237 {\an8}And you're so smart, both of you. 279 00:11:44,370 --> 00:11:47,339 {\an8}Okay, mommy's gonna need to start working. 280 00:11:47,340 --> 00:11:50,525 {\an8}I've been a basketball wife for almost two decades now, 281 00:11:50,526 --> 00:11:52,170 {\an8}but right now I'm on the journey 282 00:11:52,270 --> 00:11:54,004 {\an8}to being ordained. 283 00:11:54,005 --> 00:11:57,008 {\an8}My dad is a retired pastor of 40 years, 284 00:11:57,108 --> 00:11:59,177 {\an8}and now he is part of the executive leadership 285 00:11:59,310 --> 00:12:00,720 {\an8}with the A.M.E. Zion Church. 286 00:12:00,820 --> 00:12:01,821 - Preach, pastor. Preach. 287 00:12:01,921 --> 00:12:03,156 Take your time, pastor. 288 00:12:03,289 --> 00:12:04,182 - Ah! 289 00:12:04,282 --> 00:12:05,191 It's always been a lot of pressure 290 00:12:05,291 --> 00:12:06,392 to be a pastor's daughter. 291 00:12:06,492 --> 00:12:07,385 'Cause I rebelled. 292 00:12:07,485 --> 00:12:10,330 In high school, I had bottom grills, 293 00:12:10,430 --> 00:12:13,024 and I wore Jordans and jerseys. 294 00:12:13,157 --> 00:12:14,549 My dad used to shake his head, 295 00:12:14,550 --> 00:12:16,269 but I appreciate that he allowed me 296 00:12:16,402 --> 00:12:18,438 to find who I really am. 297 00:12:18,571 --> 00:12:20,030 - Silence in the church. 298 00:12:20,031 --> 00:12:22,057 Here we go. 1, 2, 3. 299 00:12:22,058 --> 00:12:26,403 - In Genesis Chapter 37, it begins the story of Joseph. 300 00:12:26,404 --> 00:12:28,806 There comes a time in the lives 301 00:12:28,906 --> 00:12:32,285 of every chosen one, every anointed one, 302 00:12:32,418 --> 00:12:34,754 where the weight of their favor 303 00:12:34,854 --> 00:12:38,483 and the light that it brings about jealousy. 304 00:12:38,583 --> 00:12:41,727 They can't understand why everything comes so easy 305 00:12:41,728 --> 00:12:43,021 for the chosen one. 306 00:12:43,154 --> 00:12:45,914 But what they don't see, they don't see the pit 307 00:12:45,915 --> 00:12:48,001 that you have to go through to get there. 308 00:12:48,101 --> 00:12:50,260 Somebody say they didn't see me in my pit. 309 00:12:50,261 --> 00:12:53,422 - They didn't see me in my pit. 310 00:12:53,423 --> 00:12:54,589 - How was that? 311 00:12:54,590 --> 00:12:56,408 - That was amazing. - That was amazing, mom. 312 00:12:56,409 --> 00:12:58,945 - That's only one part of what mommy has to do 313 00:12:59,045 --> 00:13:00,112 for my ordainment. 314 00:13:00,113 --> 00:13:02,106 I have to preach as a minister. 315 00:13:02,206 --> 00:13:04,450 {\an8}- You might need to work on preaching 316 00:13:04,550 --> 00:13:05,952 {\an8}for a longer time. 317 00:13:09,614 --> 00:13:11,349 - I'm trying to be the Drake of preaching? Listen. 318 00:13:11,449 --> 00:13:13,750 I might have been a rapper in my past life. 319 00:13:13,751 --> 00:13:15,261 Daddy has seen me rap before. 320 00:13:15,361 --> 00:13:18,064 My husband Alexis is originally from France. 321 00:13:18,197 --> 00:13:19,956 We've been married for 16 years, 322 00:13:19,957 --> 00:13:21,934 but two of those years, we were separated 323 00:13:22,035 --> 00:13:25,454 because there was infidelity on both sides. 324 00:13:25,455 --> 00:13:28,933 You wanna be able to experience life outside, 325 00:13:29,033 --> 00:13:30,043 but I got outside, 326 00:13:30,143 --> 00:13:32,437 and I realized things were not better. 327 00:13:32,537 --> 00:13:35,947 Now, like, we're more in love than we ever have been. 328 00:13:35,948 --> 00:13:37,717 [laughing] 329 00:13:37,817 --> 00:13:39,477 - It's okay. 330 00:13:39,577 --> 00:13:41,286 - Here. Let me help. 331 00:13:41,287 --> 00:13:42,755 - We've always wanted a little girl, 332 00:13:42,855 --> 00:13:44,623 and now it feels right. 333 00:13:44,624 --> 00:13:48,310 So, we're gonna try and we'll see how it goes. 334 00:13:48,311 --> 00:13:49,328 Yeah. 335 00:13:49,429 --> 00:13:50,955 - So excited for you, 'cause then you get to 336 00:13:51,089 --> 00:13:54,225 continue Grandpa's legacy, and then I get to continue it, 337 00:13:54,325 --> 00:13:59,731 and then Caysen probably will, or probably my kids. 338 00:13:59,831 --> 00:14:02,408 - Wow. You would continue Grandpa's legacy? 339 00:14:02,508 --> 00:14:03,943 - I wouldn't mind it. - Wow. 340 00:14:04,043 --> 00:14:05,778 - Somebody said that they didn't see me in my pit. 341 00:14:05,878 --> 00:14:07,405 - They didn't see me in my pit. 342 00:14:07,505 --> 00:14:09,139 - They didn't see me in my pit. 343 00:14:09,140 --> 00:14:11,342 No, no. - Can I get a "Praise the Lord"? 344 00:14:11,442 --> 00:14:14,537 - Praise the Lord. - Praise the Lord. 345 00:14:14,670 --> 00:14:20,259 ♪ 346 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:22,028 - So I thought it would be nice 347 00:14:22,128 --> 00:14:24,830 to have a poster for when Nana comes. 348 00:14:24,831 --> 00:14:26,499 - What does the poster say, though? 349 00:14:26,599 --> 00:14:29,360 {\an8}- "Welcome home, Nana", or "Welcome back." 350 00:14:29,460 --> 00:14:31,194 {\an8}What do you prefer? - Welcome back. 351 00:14:31,195 --> 00:14:32,497 {\an8}Because she doesn't live here. 352 00:14:32,630 --> 00:14:35,341 {\an8}- She will for the next three months. 353 00:14:35,441 --> 00:14:37,376 {\an8}Do it a little bit more centered. 354 00:14:37,477 --> 00:14:39,679 {\an8}My mum lives in London and my kids 355 00:14:39,779 --> 00:14:41,204 only have one grandparent. 356 00:14:41,205 --> 00:14:43,141 And so, it's really important that when she comes, 357 00:14:43,274 --> 00:14:45,042 she can stay for as long as possible. 358 00:14:45,143 --> 00:14:47,686 Of course, when we bought her ticket, 359 00:14:47,687 --> 00:14:49,655 my world hadn't fallen apart. 360 00:14:49,789 --> 00:14:51,991 And now it has. That's actually very good. 361 00:14:52,125 --> 00:14:56,853 {\an8}- I want peace and quiet. - You're so bossy! 362 00:14:56,854 --> 00:14:59,055 {\an8}- I'm dreading telling my mom about Rob, 363 00:14:59,056 --> 00:15:00,391 but it's gonna have to happen. 364 00:15:00,491 --> 00:15:04,052 And my mom's got a lot of wisdom about infidelity. 365 00:15:04,053 --> 00:15:06,297 My dad had a whole other family. 366 00:15:06,397 --> 00:15:09,300 {\an8}I explained to them, oh, that, you know, 367 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,903 {\an8}my father has two other children 368 00:15:12,003 --> 00:15:13,237 {\an8}and they were like, "Oh..." - Yeah. 369 00:15:13,337 --> 00:15:15,906 - So she's somebody that I go to for counseling. 370 00:15:15,907 --> 00:15:16,908 I need my mom. 371 00:15:17,008 --> 00:15:19,568 Okay, so, I'm thinking no sleepovers. 372 00:15:19,569 --> 00:15:21,320 - No sleepovers for three months? 373 00:15:21,420 --> 00:15:23,589 - Yeah. You can sleep at their house. 374 00:15:23,689 --> 00:15:24,957 - I have to have my pre-prom hangout 375 00:15:25,057 --> 00:15:26,526 and it has to be a sleepover! 376 00:15:26,626 --> 00:15:28,386 - Is this something that generally happens for prom? 377 00:15:28,519 --> 00:15:30,253 - Yes! Mom, prom is, like, 378 00:15:30,254 --> 00:15:32,390 the biggest event 'til my wedding. 379 00:15:32,490 --> 00:15:35,393 - Why is prom as big of a deal as your wedding? 380 00:15:35,526 --> 00:15:38,070 - That's just how us Americans do it. 381 00:15:38,171 --> 00:15:39,672 - You have to speak to your dad about it. 382 00:15:39,772 --> 00:15:42,441 {\an8}- Dad doesn't care. - Cool. 383 00:15:45,369 --> 00:15:46,604 {\an8}- I don't think so. 384 00:15:46,704 --> 00:15:48,439 We're just passing ships all the time. 385 00:15:48,539 --> 00:15:50,283 So that really isn't the time 386 00:15:50,383 --> 00:15:52,351 for you to pick that up in a room. 387 00:15:52,485 --> 00:15:54,187 At least that's what I'd like to believe. 388 00:15:54,287 --> 00:15:56,856 Remember how we don't say things like... 389 00:15:56,956 --> 00:15:58,590 - "Bro". You have to say "good morning." 390 00:15:58,591 --> 00:16:00,785 - And if you don't hear what she says, what do you say? 391 00:16:00,885 --> 00:16:01,786 - Pardon. - Pardon. 392 00:16:01,886 --> 00:16:03,688 - Good job. Be on your P's and Q's. 393 00:16:03,788 --> 00:16:06,289 And there's a lot going on right now, guys. 394 00:16:06,290 --> 00:16:09,126 - I have to go to dance, so... - Where's your dad? 395 00:16:09,227 --> 00:16:14,073 - He's here. - Hola. Hey, everybody. 396 00:16:14,173 --> 00:16:15,299 {\an8}Hi. - Hi. 397 00:16:15,399 --> 00:16:18,135 {\an8}- How are you? Sorry I'm a little late. 398 00:16:18,236 --> 00:16:20,771 They were running behind getting Chloe. 399 00:16:22,882 --> 00:16:26,886 Bad-- Traffic's pretty bad, too. 400 00:16:26,986 --> 00:16:29,646 - Would you walk away from a marriage 401 00:16:29,647 --> 00:16:31,624 because your husband had a dating profile 402 00:16:31,724 --> 00:16:34,651 and claims no relationship came out of it? 403 00:16:34,652 --> 00:16:36,496 - Ready to go? Cool, cool, cool. 404 00:16:36,596 --> 00:16:38,923 - I think for me, that's not enough. 405 00:16:39,056 --> 00:16:40,666 However, I do feel 406 00:16:40,766 --> 00:16:43,485 that it exposes bigger issues in the marriage. 407 00:16:43,486 --> 00:16:46,130 And so, right now, it's a big fat unknown. 408 00:16:50,409 --> 00:16:52,661 Don't get killed. 409 00:16:52,662 --> 00:16:54,513 - All right, bye. 410 00:16:55,982 --> 00:16:57,517 - Coming up next... 411 00:16:57,617 --> 00:16:59,285 - Well, word on the street was you weren't in treatment. 412 00:16:59,385 --> 00:17:01,287 - I made-- I made that choice. 413 00:17:01,420 --> 00:17:03,856 - T-That was the word on the curb 414 00:17:03,956 --> 00:17:05,274 - Um... 415 00:17:09,462 --> 00:17:14,534 ♪ 416 00:17:14,700 --> 00:17:18,838 - Woo, baby! The sun is shining bright! 417 00:17:18,938 --> 00:17:22,708 {\an8}Hey! - Oochie-coochie, la-la-la! 418 00:17:22,808 --> 00:17:24,677 This is a hike. We're not going to a party. 419 00:17:24,810 --> 00:17:26,712 - I like this hat. Muah! 420 00:17:26,812 --> 00:17:29,849 - What is actually hiking? - Hiking is, like, up, like, 421 00:17:30,016 --> 00:17:31,207 rocks and mountains a-and nonsense. 422 00:17:31,208 --> 00:17:32,717 - So, we're not gonna hike? - Oh, no, no, no, no. 423 00:17:32,718 --> 00:17:33,986 - So I shouldn't have said "We're going hiking"? 424 00:17:34,086 --> 00:17:35,955 - No. There's stuff that Black people do 425 00:17:36,055 --> 00:17:37,205 and then there's stuff that we don't do. 426 00:17:37,206 --> 00:17:38,690 - No, no, no, no. Black people have changed. 427 00:17:38,691 --> 00:17:40,025 - Are we hiking now? - Yes. 428 00:17:40,026 --> 00:17:42,461 [laughing] 429 00:17:42,562 --> 00:17:44,363 - How you been? - I'm well. 430 00:17:44,463 --> 00:17:46,197 - I'm gonna let you know right now, 431 00:17:46,198 --> 00:17:48,901 I've already talked to Angel this morning, but, you know, 432 00:17:49,068 --> 00:17:51,971 Adore's about to be calling, so I'm just... FYI. 433 00:17:52,071 --> 00:17:53,139 It makes me so proud. 434 00:17:53,239 --> 00:17:55,574 My girls want to follow in my footsteps. 435 00:17:55,675 --> 00:17:59,578 {\an8}Adore is now a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha. 436 00:17:59,712 --> 00:18:00,545 Thank you very much. 437 00:18:00,546 --> 00:18:03,182 I took a picture 36 years ago 438 00:18:03,282 --> 00:18:05,051 and she recreated that picture. 439 00:18:05,151 --> 00:18:06,918 How great is that? She loves me. 440 00:18:06,919 --> 00:18:08,254 I did something right. 441 00:18:08,421 --> 00:18:10,739 I do love the fact that, like, now Adore calls me 442 00:18:10,740 --> 00:18:11,891 with her little boyfriend. 443 00:18:12,024 --> 00:18:14,727 - Do you haze him like you haze your friends?? 444 00:18:14,860 --> 00:18:19,031 - Yeah, why can't I? They're all a hot mess. 445 00:18:19,165 --> 00:18:21,400 Kal, there's so much going on. - Like what? 446 00:18:21,500 --> 00:18:24,503 - Can we talk about our English muffin, Tia? 447 00:18:24,604 --> 00:18:26,739 Remember a couple months ago when I sent you those pictures 448 00:18:26,872 --> 00:18:29,942 of her husband and I said, "Ain't no way on God's Earth 449 00:18:30,042 --> 00:18:31,601 that this man is on dating sites"? 450 00:18:31,602 --> 00:18:34,447 - I thought it was AI. - 1,000%. 451 00:18:34,547 --> 00:18:37,116 So we're all together and Tia and Ashley start talking. 452 00:18:37,216 --> 00:18:38,050 And Ashley's like, "Yeah, 453 00:18:38,150 --> 00:18:40,720 well, I have some information about Rob." 454 00:18:40,820 --> 00:18:42,287 - But how did Ashley get the information? 455 00:18:42,288 --> 00:18:43,255 - I showed it to her. 456 00:18:43,422 --> 00:18:46,092 - But, Gizelle, that's not a friend. 457 00:18:46,225 --> 00:18:47,275 - No, no, no, no, no... - You can't do that! 458 00:18:47,276 --> 00:18:48,593 - No, no, no, no. - No! 459 00:18:48,594 --> 00:18:50,262 - I showed it to her because I'm like, 460 00:18:50,396 --> 00:18:51,597 "Do you think this is true?" 461 00:18:51,697 --> 00:18:53,765 - But it looks shady with you going to Ashley first. 462 00:18:53,766 --> 00:18:55,767 - Okay, fine, fine, fine. - And you know Ashley 463 00:18:55,768 --> 00:18:56,869 is gonna blow it up. 464 00:18:56,969 --> 00:18:59,472 - I didn't know that. Ashley-- - Ashley, Gizelle? 465 00:18:59,572 --> 00:19:01,790 [laughs] Really? 466 00:19:01,791 --> 00:19:05,444 I would have showed Tia the picture first. 467 00:19:05,544 --> 00:19:07,646 - Yeah. Kal is right. 468 00:19:07,747 --> 00:19:09,974 Kal always is the voice of reason. 469 00:19:10,107 --> 00:19:12,985 I do need to be a friend to Tia and let her know. 470 00:19:13,152 --> 00:19:14,086 We just need to talk this out. 471 00:19:14,186 --> 00:19:16,304 She needs to understand my perspective. 472 00:19:16,305 --> 00:19:17,923 I am not here to hurt her. 473 00:19:18,024 --> 00:19:19,290 You've kind of grilled me today, 474 00:19:19,291 --> 00:19:20,459 and I don't even know if I like it. 475 00:19:20,626 --> 00:19:22,428 - You're, like, analyzing it. 476 00:19:22,561 --> 00:19:23,963 Seeing it a little different now. 477 00:19:24,096 --> 00:19:25,131 You're opening up. 478 00:19:25,264 --> 00:19:26,798 - Kal, how many times I gotta go like this? 479 00:19:26,799 --> 00:19:28,801 I'm wide open, Kal. Wide. 480 00:19:28,901 --> 00:19:30,803 - Oochie-coochie, la-la-la. And close it. 481 00:19:30,970 --> 00:19:32,530 [laughing] 482 00:19:32,697 --> 00:19:40,346 ♪ 483 00:19:44,141 --> 00:19:45,518 {\an8}- Hi, Robyn. - Hi! 484 00:19:45,651 --> 00:19:47,019 {\an8}- How are you? - I'm good. How are you? 485 00:19:47,153 --> 00:19:48,344 {\an8}- Good. - You look pretty. 486 00:19:48,345 --> 00:19:50,690 {\an8}- Oh, thank you. You look good. - Thanks. 487 00:19:50,823 --> 00:19:53,359 {\an8}- Sorry I'm late. I ran into a patch of traffic. 488 00:19:53,492 --> 00:19:54,659 {\an8}- Oh, it's the worst. - Oh, my God. 489 00:19:54,660 --> 00:19:56,361 We were just here last week, 490 00:19:56,362 --> 00:19:57,797 'cause Karter wanted to go to the mall. 491 00:19:57,930 --> 00:20:00,014 It was like, on his bucket list. 492 00:20:00,015 --> 00:20:01,200 [laughs] Isn't that crazy? 493 00:20:01,300 --> 00:20:02,802 - Not a bucket list. - It's so crazy. 494 00:20:02,902 --> 00:20:04,770 Because, like, our generation, we went to the mall. 495 00:20:04,870 --> 00:20:06,671 - That's all we did. Oh, my... 496 00:20:06,672 --> 00:20:09,508 - I'm like, okay. - Well, thank you for coming. 497 00:20:09,642 --> 00:20:11,043 - Absolutely. - I appreciate you being here. 498 00:20:11,143 --> 00:20:14,879 - Robyn reached out to get together. 499 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:18,032 I initially didn't want to because the Robyn I know 500 00:20:18,033 --> 00:20:21,870 has always been Gizelle's lackey. 501 00:20:21,871 --> 00:20:23,222 {\an8}(BLEEP) yourself. 502 00:20:23,322 --> 00:20:24,548 {\an8}- Oh, I will (BLEEP) myself, okay? 503 00:20:24,648 --> 00:20:25,624 {\an8}- (BLEEP) yourself, just like that, 504 00:20:25,724 --> 00:20:27,358 {\an8}with your whiskey breath. - (BLEEP) you! 505 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:29,061 - But I'm interested 506 00:20:29,228 --> 00:20:31,230 in what the time away from this group 507 00:20:31,330 --> 00:20:33,032 has done to Robyn. 508 00:20:33,165 --> 00:20:36,535 - I wanted to just let you know where I am. 509 00:20:36,669 --> 00:20:38,219 - Okay. - These past couple years, 510 00:20:38,220 --> 00:20:39,371 being away from the group have been 511 00:20:39,505 --> 00:20:41,740 extremely peaceful for me, you know? 512 00:20:41,841 --> 00:20:43,576 So I come in peace. - Yeah, yeah. 513 00:20:43,709 --> 00:20:45,226 - I don't know where you are. 514 00:20:45,227 --> 00:20:47,546 I did notice when I walked in the room at the Wizards game... 515 00:20:47,646 --> 00:20:49,414 - I turned my back on you. - You just, like, 516 00:20:49,415 --> 00:20:50,716 acted like you didn't see me. 517 00:20:50,850 --> 00:20:52,718 - I just didn't know what to think. 518 00:20:52,852 --> 00:20:55,720 Especially given the energy from the podcast. 519 00:20:55,721 --> 00:20:59,758 {\an8}- Yeah. The mug shots were, like... 520 00:20:59,859 --> 00:21:01,759 {\an8}A little sinister looking, like... 521 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:03,829 Well, I don't-- - Why is Wendy laughing? 522 00:21:03,929 --> 00:21:05,730 - When I think about where we left off, 523 00:21:05,731 --> 00:21:07,900 there weren't any unresolved issues. 524 00:21:08,067 --> 00:21:10,703 It was just toxicity within the group. 525 00:21:10,803 --> 00:21:14,273 And I think the toxicity just didn't really allow us 526 00:21:14,373 --> 00:21:18,878 to interact as normal people should. 527 00:21:18,978 --> 00:21:21,938 So, it's a clean slate for me. 528 00:21:21,939 --> 00:21:24,917 - Okay, um, well, thanks for saying that. 529 00:21:25,017 --> 00:21:26,018 - Oh, right, that's yours. 530 00:21:26,118 --> 00:21:27,853 - Thank you so much. Now, what is that? 531 00:21:27,953 --> 00:21:29,788 - That's the ahi tuna. - Robyn-Robyn, that's raw. 532 00:21:29,889 --> 00:21:31,389 - Oh, you don't like sushi? 533 00:21:31,390 --> 00:21:32,591 - No. - Okay. 534 00:21:32,725 --> 00:21:34,560 - That's, like, you're eating, like, cooch. 535 00:21:34,693 --> 00:21:36,929 [laughing] - No, girl! 536 00:21:37,062 --> 00:21:38,631 So, how's things at home with Eddie? 537 00:21:38,764 --> 00:21:41,400 Are you guys okay? - We are good now. 538 00:21:41,500 --> 00:21:43,968 Um, when everything happened... - Yeah. 539 00:21:43,969 --> 00:21:45,938 - Robyn, that was rough. - Oh, yeah, I can imagine. 540 00:21:46,038 --> 00:21:47,473 - It was rough. Yeah. 541 00:21:47,606 --> 00:21:49,608 You individually each have your stress. 542 00:21:49,742 --> 00:21:52,278 You're probably super short with one another. 543 00:21:52,378 --> 00:21:53,445 - Yep. 544 00:21:53,579 --> 00:21:57,148 - Probably, "Why are we in this situation?" 545 00:21:57,149 --> 00:21:59,552 - He's so used to me, like, cracking out on him 546 00:21:59,652 --> 00:22:00,820 that he's like-- - Mm-hmm, he's waiting. 547 00:22:00,953 --> 00:22:02,421 - Yeah, he's-- he's like... [laughs nervously] 548 00:22:02,521 --> 00:22:04,890 - He's on pins and needles. - I think he has PTSD. 549 00:22:04,990 --> 00:22:08,459 - I'm really surprised that she's being this open with me 550 00:22:08,460 --> 00:22:10,229 about what's going on in her marriage. 551 00:22:10,329 --> 00:22:11,964 And, I get the feeling 552 00:22:12,064 --> 00:22:14,767 that Wendy is kind of maybe blaming Eddie. 553 00:22:14,900 --> 00:22:17,236 If you were on some Bonnie and Clyde sh--, 554 00:22:17,336 --> 00:22:18,270 like, you're in this together, 555 00:22:18,370 --> 00:22:20,506 but if you're saying there's some issues, 556 00:22:20,639 --> 00:22:23,909 then that means you might have been blindsided. 557 00:22:24,009 --> 00:22:25,678 - Yeah, it was a lot. 558 00:22:25,845 --> 00:22:28,314 So if you and Gizelle go and talk about me on your podcast, 559 00:22:28,447 --> 00:22:29,647 I'm not foolin' with y'all. 560 00:22:29,648 --> 00:22:32,284 - If it's in the news, we gonna talk about it. 561 00:22:32,384 --> 00:22:33,519 - Are you gonna talk about it? 562 00:22:33,619 --> 00:22:36,188 Or are you gonna talk about, like, "Girl..." 563 00:22:36,288 --> 00:22:38,657 - I-I hear you and it's how we talk about it. 564 00:22:38,824 --> 00:22:41,093 - It's 1,000% how you talk about it. 565 00:22:41,193 --> 00:22:41,994 - Gizelle is my girl. 566 00:22:42,161 --> 00:22:43,095 We're still very, very close friends. 567 00:22:43,195 --> 00:22:45,179 - Yeah. - But I'm not with the bullsh--. 568 00:22:45,180 --> 00:22:46,866 - Okay, good. - At all. I'm not. 569 00:22:46,966 --> 00:22:48,334 - Okay. - You saw the other night, 570 00:22:48,467 --> 00:22:50,836 Gizelle and Ashley, they were wrong. 571 00:22:50,970 --> 00:22:52,304 Tia was about to go through something 572 00:22:52,404 --> 00:22:54,373 that she didn't even know. - Had no clue. 573 00:22:54,473 --> 00:22:56,809 - That type of stuff, I can't get with that. 574 00:22:56,909 --> 00:23:00,545 I cannot find a good defense of Ashley or Gizelle. 575 00:23:00,546 --> 00:23:02,681 I don't know how we got to this place, 576 00:23:02,815 --> 00:23:04,849 but I don't really like it. 577 00:23:04,850 --> 00:23:10,155 - Well, I-I'm glad to meet Robyn 2.0. 578 00:23:10,289 --> 00:23:13,359 Um... So how's your cooch taste? 579 00:23:13,492 --> 00:23:14,627 [laughs] Not-not-- 580 00:23:14,727 --> 00:23:18,029 No, I don't mean like that. [laughing] 581 00:23:18,030 --> 00:23:19,365 - Coming up next... 582 00:23:19,498 --> 00:23:21,967 - I do want us to step up for Wendy. 583 00:23:22,067 --> 00:23:24,369 - I'm not a scammer. [sighs] 584 00:23:24,370 --> 00:23:25,904 I'm not a criminal. 585 00:23:30,092 --> 00:23:34,972 ♪ 586 00:23:35,072 --> 00:23:37,715 {\an8}- Hi! - Morning, how are you? 587 00:23:37,716 --> 00:23:39,969 {\an8}- How are you? - I'm well, thank you. And you? 588 00:23:40,069 --> 00:23:41,478 {\an8}[kisses] 589 00:23:41,578 --> 00:23:43,856 - I have this for you. - Cheers. 590 00:23:43,989 --> 00:23:46,191 We're gonna bring some flowers to your life. 591 00:23:46,325 --> 00:23:48,559 - Oh, hopefully not prickly ones. 592 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,988 - No, never. - Well, never? 593 00:23:51,088 --> 00:23:52,331 - Not today. - Okay. 594 00:23:52,498 --> 00:23:54,767 ♪ 595 00:23:54,867 --> 00:23:56,702 - After five, they cost a dollar. 596 00:23:56,835 --> 00:23:57,770 - Okay. - And I think I got it, 597 00:23:57,870 --> 00:23:58,903 so pick as many as you want. 598 00:23:58,904 --> 00:24:00,505 - Oh, well, I'm gonna pick everything. 599 00:24:00,506 --> 00:24:01,506 [laughs] 600 00:24:01,507 --> 00:24:02,599 - I wanna do right by Tia. 601 00:24:02,733 --> 00:24:04,943 I brought Tia in this group, 602 00:24:04,944 --> 00:24:06,744 if I brought the Rob of it all 603 00:24:06,745 --> 00:24:09,498 to this platform, I would be then crucified as, 604 00:24:09,598 --> 00:24:11,916 "Gizelle hates husbands and wants to ruin families", 605 00:24:11,917 --> 00:24:16,055 because I have been accused of that for years. 606 00:24:16,188 --> 00:24:19,424 {\an8}Ray wants to be with Erika Liles for a night. 607 00:24:19,425 --> 00:24:20,825 {\an8}- Oh, girl, please. 608 00:24:20,826 --> 00:24:23,329 {\an8}- Gizelle told me there is this fabricated article 609 00:24:23,429 --> 00:24:25,530 {\an8}about Eddie having an affair. 610 00:24:25,531 --> 00:24:27,858 {\an8}- There was a situation in which Chris made me feel 611 00:24:27,958 --> 00:24:30,461 {\an8}completely uncomfortable. 612 00:24:30,594 --> 00:24:32,770 - This is a bit of work. - You wanna sit over here? 613 00:24:32,771 --> 00:24:34,672 I brought us some, like, little treats. 614 00:24:34,673 --> 00:24:36,642 - Oh, did you? 615 00:24:36,742 --> 00:24:38,694 - Okay... 616 00:24:38,794 --> 00:24:39,803 Tia, I don't ever want you to think 617 00:24:39,937 --> 00:24:41,347 I didn't treat you nicely, now. 618 00:24:41,447 --> 00:24:45,376 - Well, the day i-is early. - Okay. 619 00:24:45,476 --> 00:24:48,871 Um, the other night was a lot. 620 00:24:48,971 --> 00:24:52,816 Did I get this information about Rob? Yes. 621 00:24:52,950 --> 00:24:54,093 I was wrong. 622 00:24:54,226 --> 00:24:56,662 You should have gotten that information from Gizelle. 623 00:24:56,762 --> 00:24:57,763 - Yeah. 624 00:24:57,896 --> 00:24:59,890 - Gizelle was just thinking about Gizelle, 625 00:24:59,990 --> 00:25:01,158 and I apologize for that. 626 00:25:01,291 --> 00:25:04,036 I should have thought more importantly about you 627 00:25:04,136 --> 00:25:05,470 and your children. - And my children. 628 00:25:05,471 --> 00:25:08,065 Gizelle was completely out of order. 629 00:25:08,165 --> 00:25:09,807 But this apology 630 00:25:09,808 --> 00:25:12,243 seems like she genuinely has reflected 631 00:25:12,244 --> 00:25:14,379 on her behavior and she is sorry. 632 00:25:14,380 --> 00:25:16,548 I need a friend who's gonna think about me first, 633 00:25:16,648 --> 00:25:17,850 before they think about themselves. 634 00:25:17,950 --> 00:25:19,176 - For sure. - It's the first time 635 00:25:19,309 --> 00:25:22,413 Gizelle and I have ever had a hiccup in our relationship. 636 00:25:22,513 --> 00:25:24,655 And so, I'm not gonna throw the baby out 637 00:25:24,656 --> 00:25:25,849 with the bath water. 638 00:25:25,983 --> 00:25:27,793 I'm more angry with Rob. 639 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,913 But do you understand that what you do from here on out 640 00:25:31,013 --> 00:25:33,657 determines whether or not you take me in this or not. 641 00:25:34,691 --> 00:25:36,101 - Don't ever talk about me on your podcast. 642 00:25:36,201 --> 00:25:39,696 - I don't have any reason to bring this up 643 00:25:39,830 --> 00:25:42,006 unless you bring this up. - That's fair. 644 00:25:42,007 --> 00:25:44,175 - Okay, so, are we putting anything 645 00:25:44,176 --> 00:25:46,945 in Rob's, um, coffee in the morning? 646 00:25:47,046 --> 00:25:48,981 What are we doing? - It's interesting. 647 00:25:49,114 --> 00:25:51,682 I think he's very afraid because I've been quite calm, 648 00:25:51,683 --> 00:25:53,210 which I think is even scarier. - Ooh! 649 00:25:53,343 --> 00:25:55,487 - I just kind of held it all in. - Yeah, yeah. 650 00:25:55,654 --> 00:25:59,290 - Waited for the twins to go to sleep and said, 651 00:25:59,291 --> 00:26:01,459 "Are you on a dating app?" 652 00:26:01,460 --> 00:26:03,228 - And he said...? - Yes. 653 00:26:03,328 --> 00:26:05,022 [gasps] 654 00:26:05,122 --> 00:26:06,665 - But y'all have been married for a long time. 655 00:26:06,765 --> 00:26:08,901 Nothing like this ever. 656 00:26:09,001 --> 00:26:11,795 - When we first got married, 657 00:26:11,895 --> 00:26:14,272 I did catch him on a dating site 658 00:26:14,273 --> 00:26:15,741 when I was pregnant for Siena. 659 00:26:15,841 --> 00:26:18,810 So now I wonder, "Has it always been the case? 660 00:26:18,811 --> 00:26:21,446 Or is this just the second time you've been caught?" 661 00:26:21,447 --> 00:26:23,015 The way that I justified it then 662 00:26:23,148 --> 00:26:24,908 was before we got married, 663 00:26:25,042 --> 00:26:25,851 it was, like, long distance. 664 00:26:26,018 --> 00:26:28,219 He was in Atlanta, and I was in L.A. 665 00:26:28,220 --> 00:26:30,047 I never really asked 666 00:26:30,147 --> 00:26:32,324 when he had established the account. 667 00:26:32,424 --> 00:26:34,693 It was just like, "This is inappropriate." 668 00:26:34,827 --> 00:26:37,396 - I-I do wanna give a little credit to my ex-husband 669 00:26:37,529 --> 00:26:40,324 that he had sense enough to cheat i-in private. 670 00:26:40,424 --> 00:26:42,633 But when it was uncovered to me, 671 00:26:42,634 --> 00:26:43,635 I had to say to myself, 672 00:26:43,735 --> 00:26:46,104 "This is a lifestyle", or "This is a one off." 673 00:26:46,205 --> 00:26:47,206 - Mm-hmm. 674 00:26:47,339 --> 00:26:48,807 - And once I figured out this is a lifestyle, 675 00:26:48,907 --> 00:26:49,942 I had to figure out, 676 00:26:50,042 --> 00:26:52,436 do I want to bury my head in the sand 677 00:26:52,569 --> 00:26:54,880 or separate? 678 00:26:55,013 --> 00:26:57,349 Give yourself 365 days. - Okay. 679 00:26:57,449 --> 00:26:59,551 - Have you told the kids? - Uh, I haven't. 680 00:26:59,651 --> 00:27:02,054 Actually, Wendy also gave me some really good advice. 681 00:27:02,221 --> 00:27:04,790 Wendy said, "Let him clean it up." 682 00:27:04,890 --> 00:27:06,825 I know that you guys have always had, 683 00:27:06,925 --> 00:27:07,893 like, a rocky start, 684 00:27:08,026 --> 00:27:10,928 but as you find it on your heart 685 00:27:10,929 --> 00:27:11,930 to show me support, 686 00:27:12,064 --> 00:27:14,832 I do want us to step up for Wendy. 687 00:27:14,833 --> 00:27:16,026 - But are we going to act like 688 00:27:16,126 --> 00:27:20,172 Wendy did not potentially commit a crime? 689 00:27:20,272 --> 00:27:22,699 I just can't wrap my head around that. 690 00:27:22,799 --> 00:27:23,876 - We're not the judge and jury. 691 00:27:23,976 --> 00:27:25,911 - But the evidence is not in her favor. 692 00:27:26,044 --> 00:27:27,137 - Yeah. - If it were me, 693 00:27:27,271 --> 00:27:28,580 Wendy would run me down to the ground. 694 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,249 - You think so? - Abso-freaking-lutely. 695 00:27:30,349 --> 00:27:32,376 - Have you had that experience with her? 696 00:27:32,476 --> 00:27:35,521 - I'm not a scammer. I'm not a criminal, 697 00:27:35,621 --> 00:27:37,422 so I haven't given her that to give. 698 00:27:37,589 --> 00:27:39,591 - I just think it's in poor taste. 699 00:27:39,691 --> 00:27:41,593 But, babe, we can't call her a scammer or criminal 700 00:27:41,727 --> 00:27:42,786 unless she's been charged. 701 00:27:42,886 --> 00:27:45,397 Even if you think it, don't say it out loud. 702 00:27:45,497 --> 00:27:47,157 - She's been arrested. 703 00:27:47,291 --> 00:27:49,768 Do I feel like slamming this in Wendy's face? No. 704 00:27:49,868 --> 00:27:51,270 I don't need to kick Wendy when she's down. 705 00:27:51,403 --> 00:27:53,230 She down! - She is down. 706 00:27:53,330 --> 00:27:54,898 - All the way on the ground, laying flat. 707 00:27:54,998 --> 00:27:56,909 - Yeah. - Starfish. 708 00:27:57,075 --> 00:28:07,519 ♪ 709 00:28:12,524 --> 00:28:15,027 - Beautiful You, okay. 710 00:28:15,127 --> 00:28:18,095 Hello-- Oh! The Grand Dame is back 711 00:28:18,096 --> 00:28:20,799 like she never left, okay. 712 00:28:20,966 --> 00:28:23,919 As I'm pulling up to this shady parking lot... 713 00:28:24,019 --> 00:28:25,437 [eerie whistling] 714 00:28:25,537 --> 00:28:27,598 No nothin' outside... 715 00:28:27,698 --> 00:28:28,807 I'm actually brought back 716 00:28:28,974 --> 00:28:31,001 to where Karen did her vow renewal. 717 00:28:32,002 --> 00:28:33,745 {\an8}- It's ugly. 718 00:28:33,845 --> 00:28:35,272 - Oh, um, all right. 719 00:28:35,372 --> 00:28:37,674 Her invitation makes no sense. 720 00:28:37,774 --> 00:28:40,485 Your guests should not have to try to guess. 721 00:28:40,586 --> 00:28:42,379 It's not a jigsaw puzzle. 722 00:28:42,512 --> 00:28:44,514 Do you guys know who Sophia is? 723 00:28:46,491 --> 00:28:48,359 - Okay. 724 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:49,961 Hello. - Hey, how are you? 725 00:28:49,962 --> 00:28:51,388 - Good. You look nice. 726 00:28:51,521 --> 00:28:52,531 - So do you. 727 00:28:52,664 --> 00:28:53,698 Now, did you have purple? 728 00:28:53,699 --> 00:28:55,292 I don't have a lot of purple. 729 00:28:55,392 --> 00:28:56,601 - I know. It's not a common color. 730 00:28:56,602 --> 00:28:58,069 - Hi, ladies. - Hello, hello. 731 00:28:58,070 --> 00:28:59,037 - Hi. - Is this our purple? 732 00:28:59,171 --> 00:29:01,298 - Yes, this is as purple as it's going to get. 733 00:29:01,398 --> 00:29:03,307 Why am I in a strip mall in Bowie? 734 00:29:03,308 --> 00:29:04,626 Potomac is here 735 00:29:04,726 --> 00:29:07,946 with, like, flowers and grass that's cut, 736 00:29:08,046 --> 00:29:10,782 and then Bowie's all the way over here. 737 00:29:10,882 --> 00:29:12,817 I don't know what the landscaping is over here. 738 00:29:12,818 --> 00:29:14,752 No shade to Bowie. I'm just saying. 739 00:29:14,753 --> 00:29:16,305 - Did you get a book? 740 00:29:16,405 --> 00:29:17,623 - No, I didn't. 741 00:29:17,723 --> 00:29:18,756 - Oh, okay, perfect. 742 00:29:18,757 --> 00:29:19,816 Thank you. - Okay. 743 00:29:19,916 --> 00:29:21,526 Oh, if I take a shot of Tirzepatide now, 744 00:29:21,660 --> 00:29:23,729 how much would I lose before I leave here? 745 00:29:23,862 --> 00:29:25,897 - Um, I appreciate that I even get 746 00:29:26,031 --> 00:29:28,066 this little bit of time to talk to you, Tia, 747 00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,470 because I've had a lot of thoughts about you. 748 00:29:31,570 --> 00:29:33,271 I am learning to be 749 00:29:33,272 --> 00:29:35,239 a little bit softer, honestly. 750 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,876 And I can take ownership that when I was on stage, 751 00:29:37,976 --> 00:29:39,678 you feel it was at your expense. 752 00:29:39,778 --> 00:29:40,979 - That's a getting to know you process 753 00:29:41,079 --> 00:29:41,838 with the two of you. 754 00:29:41,938 --> 00:29:43,273 Like, knowing her levels. - Yes. 755 00:29:43,407 --> 00:29:44,408 - Like, oh, this is a kiki. 756 00:29:44,508 --> 00:29:46,509 Ashley-- - Wait, so that was a kiki? 757 00:29:46,510 --> 00:29:48,445 I would hate to see your bottom low. 758 00:29:48,578 --> 00:29:50,187 - Oh, ooh... - Yes. 759 00:29:50,188 --> 00:29:51,656 {\an8}- Hi. - Hi. 760 00:29:51,657 --> 00:29:52,891 {\an8}- Robby D! Of course you have purple. - Robyn had purple. 761 00:29:52,991 --> 00:29:54,359 {\an8}Yeah. - Karen's not here yet. 762 00:29:54,459 --> 00:29:55,677 - I noticed. 763 00:29:55,777 --> 00:29:57,846 - Yeah, didn't she say she was retiring Grande Dame? 764 00:29:57,946 --> 00:29:58,955 Isn't this a little Grande Dame? 765 00:29:59,089 --> 00:30:00,590 - It does say the Grande Dame is back 766 00:30:00,691 --> 00:30:02,300 like she never left. - Oh, it does. 767 00:30:02,434 --> 00:30:03,794 - Is she here? Is she gone? 768 00:30:03,927 --> 00:30:06,370 - What is with the theme? The Sophia Home? 769 00:30:06,371 --> 00:30:07,406 - Who's Sophia? 770 00:30:07,506 --> 00:30:09,341 - This is from a scene... 771 00:30:09,441 --> 00:30:10,876 - Uh-huh. - ...from The Color Purple. 772 00:30:10,976 --> 00:30:13,545 [laughter] - Oh, my goodness. 773 00:30:13,645 --> 00:30:15,605 I did not connect-- - Yeah. 774 00:30:15,706 --> 00:30:18,884 - Sofia went to jail for 11 years. 775 00:30:18,984 --> 00:30:20,419 She's Sofia, y'all. - Is she the one that said, 776 00:30:20,552 --> 00:30:21,753 "All my life..."? 777 00:30:21,887 --> 00:30:23,205 - We struggling trying to figure this out. 778 00:30:23,305 --> 00:30:24,314 - Hello. - Hi. 779 00:30:24,448 --> 00:30:25,857 - Hello, how are you? 780 00:30:25,957 --> 00:30:27,125 - How you doing? - Hi, guys. 781 00:30:27,259 --> 00:30:28,060 - Good. - Hey. 782 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:29,219 - Hey, Robyn. - Yes, violet. 783 00:30:29,319 --> 00:30:31,555 - You look beautiful. - I like your hair straight. 784 00:30:31,655 --> 00:30:34,266 - I'm confused about the invite. 785 00:30:34,399 --> 00:30:35,499 - Where are we? 786 00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:37,134 I feel like we could be a girl group. 787 00:30:37,135 --> 00:30:39,104 - I feel like I'm gonna go get my blood drawn. 788 00:30:39,237 --> 00:30:41,940 It's the phlebotomist's office. That's where we are. 789 00:30:42,074 --> 00:30:43,400 - Our guest of honor has arrived. 790 00:30:43,500 --> 00:30:44,393 You can just grab a glass 791 00:30:44,493 --> 00:30:45,736 and we'll go to the [indistinct]. 792 00:30:45,836 --> 00:30:47,738 - Okay, thank you. - Thank you. 793 00:30:47,838 --> 00:30:50,615 {\an8}- In typical Karen fashion, nothing is making sense. 794 00:30:50,716 --> 00:30:52,517 {\an8}- Stop talking about Karen Huger all day. 795 00:30:52,617 --> 00:30:54,786 {\an8}- Karen Huger invited us to a meeting 796 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,855 {\an8}to talk about Karen Huger. 797 00:30:56,955 --> 00:30:58,923 {\an8}- All right, you want-- All right, I'll sit back down. 798 00:30:58,924 --> 00:31:01,526 {\an8}[cheers] 799 00:31:03,128 --> 00:31:04,863 [screams] 800 00:31:07,466 --> 00:31:09,400 - I just don't know how we relate ourselves 801 00:31:09,401 --> 00:31:11,036 to Sofia from The Color Purple. 802 00:31:11,136 --> 00:31:12,804 - Doesn't Karen have a plantation? 803 00:31:12,938 --> 00:31:15,757 - Plantation!? Oh, geez. 804 00:31:15,857 --> 00:31:19,144 - All right, ladies, introducing Sophie Home. 805 00:31:19,277 --> 00:31:21,505 - We should do a line. - Okay, Sophie Home. 806 00:31:21,605 --> 00:31:23,115 Oh, my God-- - Oh, she really did. 807 00:31:23,215 --> 00:31:24,649 [laughter] - Really? 808 00:31:24,750 --> 00:31:26,343 - Sofia Home. 809 00:31:30,489 --> 00:31:34,493 - All right, ladies, introducing Sophie Home. 810 00:31:34,593 --> 00:31:38,187 - All my life I had to fight. 811 00:31:38,188 --> 00:31:40,197 Till you do right by me, 812 00:31:40,198 --> 00:31:43,502 everything you think about is going to crumble. 813 00:31:43,635 --> 00:31:44,828 Sofia home now. 814 00:31:44,961 --> 00:31:48,205 Things about to change 'round here. 815 00:31:48,206 --> 00:31:49,966 {\an8}- Oh, my God-- - Oh, she really did. 816 00:31:50,066 --> 00:31:52,310 {\an8}She really did it. - She really is Sofia. 817 00:31:52,410 --> 00:31:54,037 {\an8}- Oh, my God. - Sofia home. 818 00:31:54,137 --> 00:31:55,514 {\an8}- Sofia home. [laughter] 819 00:31:55,647 --> 00:31:57,349 {\an8}- What? Really? 820 00:31:57,449 --> 00:31:59,209 {\an8}- I'm so confused. - So good to see you. 821 00:31:59,309 --> 00:32:01,586 {\an8}- I'm so confused. 822 00:32:03,755 --> 00:32:06,349 - Sofia was not comin' home to a med spa, ma'am. 823 00:32:06,483 --> 00:32:07,083 No way. 824 00:32:07,184 --> 00:32:08,685 - Oh, yes, oh, well, 825 00:32:08,819 --> 00:32:10,195 Sofia didn't actually have a bag. 826 00:32:10,328 --> 00:32:12,087 Okay, let's put a bag like this. 827 00:32:12,088 --> 00:32:13,832 - This makes no sense. - No sense, Karen. 828 00:32:13,932 --> 00:32:14,890 Explain. - No sense. 829 00:32:14,891 --> 00:32:16,468 - This is my soft era, 830 00:32:16,601 --> 00:32:19,004 and I'm home. - Okay, soft. 831 00:32:19,104 --> 00:32:22,072 - I have transformed this health center 832 00:32:22,073 --> 00:32:23,424 into a spa for you. 833 00:32:23,425 --> 00:32:25,168 I have robes for everyone. 834 00:32:25,268 --> 00:32:27,937 There are a "pelethora" of services here. 835 00:32:27,938 --> 00:32:29,405 - It's plethora. 836 00:32:29,406 --> 00:32:30,515 - Plethora. - Yes. 837 00:32:30,615 --> 00:32:31,842 - Plethora. 838 00:32:31,942 --> 00:32:33,718 However, I've chosen... 839 00:32:33,852 --> 00:32:34,853 for everyone. - Okay. 840 00:32:34,953 --> 00:32:36,746 - Ashley, there's something called the sex bag. 841 00:32:36,847 --> 00:32:38,790 {\an8}It's actually a liquid IV... 842 00:32:40,158 --> 00:32:42,285 {\an8}- Thank you, Karen. [laughter] 843 00:32:42,385 --> 00:32:44,429 - Tia, just relax and have a massage. 844 00:32:44,529 --> 00:32:45,455 Wendy? - Yes. 845 00:32:45,555 --> 00:32:47,232 - I would love for you to get a massage 846 00:32:47,332 --> 00:32:48,692 just to relax and take care of yourself. 847 00:32:48,792 --> 00:32:50,202 - I-I need it. 848 00:32:50,302 --> 00:32:53,705 I'm gonna take this massage as an intermediary. 849 00:32:53,805 --> 00:32:55,874 But deep down inside, Karen, 850 00:32:55,974 --> 00:32:57,200 you owe me an apology. 851 00:32:57,300 --> 00:32:58,435 - And Gizelle. - Yes. 852 00:32:58,535 --> 00:32:59,970 - T-shape. - What's that? 853 00:33:00,070 --> 00:33:02,772 - It firms up wrinkles and cellulite. 854 00:33:02,906 --> 00:33:04,708 If it lifts the craters in your legs 855 00:33:04,808 --> 00:33:06,710 that fell out on the sofa in New York, we'd be good. 856 00:33:06,810 --> 00:33:07,853 - You were only there for eight seconds. 857 00:33:07,986 --> 00:33:09,054 - And I saw all that. 858 00:33:09,154 --> 00:33:12,114 {\an8}What we don't do is put on a Forever 21 dress at 55 859 00:33:12,115 --> 00:33:13,474 {\an8}and hikes your leg up 860 00:33:13,475 --> 00:33:15,393 {\an8}and let the people see the craters. 861 00:33:15,494 --> 00:33:17,262 You know they gonna have a lot to say. 862 00:33:17,395 --> 00:33:21,166 - And for Robyn, a liquid IV for just energy. 863 00:33:24,594 --> 00:33:26,004 - Is she lethargic? 864 00:33:26,104 --> 00:33:27,304 {\an8}- Robyn, you gotta get out the bed. 865 00:33:27,305 --> 00:33:29,841 {\an8}Go do something. - All right, it's the pandemic. 866 00:33:29,941 --> 00:33:31,076 {\an8}- What? 867 00:33:31,176 --> 00:33:32,302 - Well, she's thirsty. 868 00:33:32,402 --> 00:33:34,170 - Oh... 869 00:33:34,271 --> 00:33:35,614 - You know, I'm not thirsty. 870 00:33:35,747 --> 00:33:37,908 - That's not nice. That's not nice. 871 00:33:38,008 --> 00:33:39,808 - Stayed on. - Stop being mean. 872 00:33:39,809 --> 00:33:40,977 - What treatment are you getting? 873 00:33:41,111 --> 00:33:42,002 - Yeah, what are you getting? 874 00:33:42,003 --> 00:33:43,688 - I'm having the laser services. 875 00:33:43,788 --> 00:33:45,506 - Laser!? - I was told... 876 00:33:45,507 --> 00:33:48,175 that I have a jungle up my track, 877 00:33:48,176 --> 00:33:49,060 so I've been working on it here. 878 00:33:49,194 --> 00:33:50,028 {\an8}[overlapped conversations] - A jungle? 879 00:33:50,128 --> 00:33:51,655 {\an8}- Who told you that? - My husband. 880 00:33:51,755 --> 00:33:53,265 {\an8}- Okay, so you're out of retirement. 881 00:33:53,365 --> 00:33:55,700 {\an8}You're retired. - For now, hell, yes. 882 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:57,127 {\an8}- For what? - Like, you're celibate? 883 00:33:57,260 --> 00:33:58,470 {\an8}- Yeah. - Oh. 884 00:33:58,570 --> 00:34:00,521 - I certainly walk around in my... 885 00:34:00,522 --> 00:34:01,363 things to try and keep the marriage alive. 886 00:34:01,364 --> 00:34:03,141 - Well, I saw your body-- - Yes. 887 00:34:03,241 --> 00:34:04,943 - Nobody cleans the house 888 00:34:05,076 --> 00:34:06,478 unless they're expecting guests. 889 00:34:06,578 --> 00:34:08,380 She's expecting somebody to see that house. 890 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,015 And I don't think Ray is giving her the action. 891 00:34:11,016 --> 00:34:12,117 [laughter] 892 00:34:12,217 --> 00:34:14,477 - The hair is, like, sprouting out of your butt? 893 00:34:14,611 --> 00:34:16,546 - It is an ambitious track growing. 894 00:34:16,646 --> 00:34:18,473 [laughter] 895 00:34:20,050 --> 00:34:23,694 - You're the first man touched my feet in 15 years. 896 00:34:23,695 --> 00:34:25,855 I gotta go home and tell my husband. 897 00:34:25,989 --> 00:34:26,965 [laughter] 898 00:34:27,065 --> 00:34:28,433 - You get some fat reduction. 899 00:34:28,566 --> 00:34:29,768 - What do you suggest? 900 00:34:29,901 --> 00:34:31,102 - I mean, the tummy always feels good. 901 00:34:31,236 --> 00:34:32,528 - Okay, let's do that. 902 00:34:32,529 --> 00:34:34,038 - All right, I'm gonna get an IV with you ladies. 903 00:34:34,039 --> 00:34:34,973 - Oh, yay, come on. 904 00:34:35,073 --> 00:34:36,533 - I'm gonna get one with you. 905 00:34:38,068 --> 00:34:39,202 - Hi, ladies. 906 00:34:39,336 --> 00:34:40,470 - Hey, Karen. - Hi, Karen. 907 00:34:40,570 --> 00:34:42,314 - I was just gonna check in on you guys. 908 00:34:42,414 --> 00:34:43,881 Everything's light and renewed, reset. 909 00:34:43,882 --> 00:34:45,417 - Can I ask a question? - Yes, baby. 910 00:34:45,517 --> 00:34:47,217 - Are you gonna keep this hair color? 911 00:34:47,218 --> 00:34:49,788 - I think I look like a foxy gray woman. I may. 912 00:34:49,921 --> 00:34:51,555 - So, you're getting laser up your ass. 913 00:34:51,556 --> 00:34:53,525 Like, who is this treatment to please? 914 00:34:53,625 --> 00:34:55,225 - Oh, me first. - Who second? 915 00:34:55,226 --> 00:34:56,252 - Ray Ray. 916 00:34:56,386 --> 00:34:57,362 - I notice you don't have your ring on. 917 00:34:57,462 --> 00:34:59,431 So is there an issue between you and Ray? 918 00:34:59,531 --> 00:35:01,032 - Uh, Ray and I are working through things. 919 00:35:01,132 --> 00:35:02,367 We've been through a lot. - So-- 920 00:35:02,467 --> 00:35:03,560 but that don't mean you have to take your ring off. 921 00:35:03,660 --> 00:35:05,637 - Robyn, thou, who has been through a divorce 922 00:35:05,770 --> 00:35:06,771 and remarried the same man, 923 00:35:06,871 --> 00:35:08,873 I would think you would be patient with me. 924 00:35:08,974 --> 00:35:10,442 - No, no, no. - And give me this grace-- 925 00:35:10,542 --> 00:35:11,935 - Right, but-- - To have a moment, 926 00:35:12,068 --> 00:35:13,243 and do it like I do it. - Right, but-- 927 00:35:13,244 --> 00:35:14,946 - Okay, thank you very much. 928 00:35:16,781 --> 00:35:17,907 - Something ain't right in the water. 929 00:35:18,041 --> 00:35:21,319 I'm lasering my ass for Ray, but I'm not wearing my ring. 930 00:35:21,453 --> 00:35:22,721 And we're not in a good place. 931 00:35:22,821 --> 00:35:24,922 Like, that's kinda conflicting. 932 00:35:24,923 --> 00:35:26,440 - It is making a very big statement. 933 00:35:26,441 --> 00:35:28,251 You're letting everyone know where you stand. 934 00:35:28,351 --> 00:35:29,285 - Yeah. 935 00:35:29,419 --> 00:35:30,778 - How was your massage? - It was good. 936 00:35:30,779 --> 00:35:32,956 {\an8}Let's sit, because I've been meaning to talk to you. 937 00:35:33,723 --> 00:35:36,501 {\an8}- Go ahead. Go in, go in, go ahead. 938 00:35:36,634 --> 00:35:39,371 [screaming] 939 00:35:39,471 --> 00:35:41,206 Sofia home. 940 00:35:41,306 --> 00:35:43,440 - How is Rob? How are y'all? 941 00:35:43,441 --> 00:35:45,477 - We're cordial. There's good morning, 942 00:35:45,577 --> 00:35:48,079 good evening, Hi, how's your day? 943 00:35:48,179 --> 00:35:50,273 - Oh. - There's pleasantries. 944 00:35:50,407 --> 00:35:51,615 [laughter] 945 00:35:51,616 --> 00:35:53,151 - So how long have you been married? 946 00:35:53,251 --> 00:35:55,053 - Um, it all blurs together 947 00:35:55,153 --> 00:35:59,149 because our first marriage was in 2005. 948 00:35:59,249 --> 00:36:01,809 The second one, I can never remember the date. 949 00:36:01,810 --> 00:36:05,822 - We were married 16 when we got a divorce. 950 00:36:05,922 --> 00:36:08,600 And we've come back together. 951 00:36:08,700 --> 00:36:10,268 - So are you remarried? 952 00:36:10,368 --> 00:36:12,470 - We aren't remarried just yet. 953 00:36:12,570 --> 00:36:14,139 - I still believe that Stacey has 954 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,107 a complicated relationship with the truth. 955 00:36:16,207 --> 00:36:17,609 Stacey is very curated. 956 00:36:17,709 --> 00:36:19,493 For who, or what, I'm not sure, 957 00:36:19,494 --> 00:36:21,379 but for somebody. 958 00:36:21,513 --> 00:36:22,380 - Can I say something? 959 00:36:22,514 --> 00:36:23,882 You're gonna come out of this stronger. 960 00:36:24,015 --> 00:36:25,675 - Thank you, as are you. 961 00:36:25,775 --> 00:36:28,153 - There's a world that you guys could come out 962 00:36:28,253 --> 00:36:29,954 of this together stronger. 963 00:36:30,055 --> 00:36:31,423 - Yeah, well, do you know what? 964 00:36:31,556 --> 00:36:33,725 It's so funny because I had opened up to Courtney 965 00:36:33,858 --> 00:36:35,018 and she had told me-- - Oh, how is she? 966 00:36:35,118 --> 00:36:35,994 - She's great. - Oh, good. 967 00:36:36,094 --> 00:36:37,195 - I thought she'd be here today, 968 00:36:37,295 --> 00:36:39,179 but maybe Karen didn't invite her. 969 00:36:39,180 --> 00:36:40,632 - Hmm... - But she told me 970 00:36:40,732 --> 00:36:43,016 that she and her husband had been separated 971 00:36:43,017 --> 00:36:45,503 for two years and-and came back together. 972 00:36:45,603 --> 00:36:47,297 Looking at them, you never would've thought. 973 00:36:47,430 --> 00:36:49,307 So that was an encouraging story. 974 00:36:49,441 --> 00:36:50,975 When you're speaking to somebody 975 00:36:51,076 --> 00:36:52,777 on the other side of difficulty. 976 00:36:52,911 --> 00:36:54,746 - I mean, your best friend Stacey, 977 00:36:54,879 --> 00:36:56,180 her-her husband got-- - There you go. 978 00:36:56,181 --> 00:36:57,749 Did you say best friend? - Yes, I did. 979 00:36:57,882 --> 00:36:59,541 - Um... - Speaking it into existence. 980 00:36:59,542 --> 00:37:01,152 - Thanks to me. - And I will say 981 00:37:01,252 --> 00:37:03,370 that I am rallying our friends 982 00:37:03,371 --> 00:37:04,322 to support you. - Oh. 983 00:37:04,422 --> 00:37:06,491 - And Gizelle said she wants to support you 984 00:37:06,591 --> 00:37:08,692 in whatever you need. - Mm-hmm. 985 00:37:08,693 --> 00:37:10,886 - I think the resistance you're getting from her 986 00:37:10,887 --> 00:37:14,599 is her toeing the line of wanting to show support, 987 00:37:14,732 --> 00:37:16,835 but also feeling like you're a scammer. 988 00:37:16,968 --> 00:37:20,697 ♪ 989 00:37:26,978 --> 00:37:28,805 - The resistance you're getting from her 990 00:37:28,905 --> 00:37:32,650 is her toeing the line of wanting to show support, 991 00:37:32,750 --> 00:37:35,553 but also feeling like you're a scammer. 992 00:37:35,653 --> 00:37:36,913 'Cause that is the word she used, 993 00:37:37,013 --> 00:37:38,314 and I hate to tell you that, 994 00:37:38,414 --> 00:37:40,817 but she's very clear about her position. 995 00:37:40,917 --> 00:37:42,919 - And, I don't want someone who has that position... 996 00:37:43,052 --> 00:37:44,696 - Yeah. - ...to be around me 997 00:37:44,829 --> 00:37:45,829 during this time, 998 00:37:45,830 --> 00:37:48,257 because I only need positivity. 999 00:37:48,258 --> 00:37:50,235 Who does that? 1000 00:37:50,335 --> 00:37:51,870 Gizelle has shown me who she is. 1001 00:37:51,970 --> 00:37:53,830 It's not cute, it's not funny. 1002 00:37:53,930 --> 00:37:57,242 It's actually giving... enemy. 1003 00:37:57,342 --> 00:38:00,778 As far as my friends like you and Stacey... 1004 00:38:00,912 --> 00:38:02,839 - Is that all you feel you have in this group? 1005 00:38:02,939 --> 00:38:04,916 Just Stacey and I? - I mean, who-who else is left? 1006 00:38:05,049 --> 00:38:06,251 - Karen? - Oh, Karen and I, 1007 00:38:06,351 --> 00:38:07,744 we have to have a conversation. 1008 00:38:07,844 --> 00:38:09,687 [screaming] - All done. 1009 00:38:09,788 --> 00:38:12,290 - Do you guys just use the word "friends" willy-nilly now? 1010 00:38:12,390 --> 00:38:13,283 - No. - Okay. 1011 00:38:13,383 --> 00:38:14,559 - I-I do think we should be measured 1012 00:38:14,659 --> 00:38:16,252 using that word, yeah. - Yeah. 1013 00:38:18,863 --> 00:38:20,431 {\an8}- Phew. - Hi, ladies. 1014 00:38:20,532 --> 00:38:21,958 {\an8}- Hello. 1015 00:38:22,058 --> 00:38:24,736 {\an8}- Did everyone enjoy their treatment? 1016 00:38:24,869 --> 00:38:25,737 {\an8}- Very much so. - Yes. 1017 00:38:25,870 --> 00:38:26,696 {\an8}- It was so good. 1018 00:38:26,796 --> 00:38:27,630 - Look at Karen hooking us up. 1019 00:38:27,730 --> 00:38:30,200 - Karen! - Everyone's happy. 1020 00:38:30,300 --> 00:38:32,544 - Alrighty, good to see everyone today. 1021 00:38:32,644 --> 00:38:34,470 I'm Chef Janae. - Hi, Chef. 1022 00:38:34,604 --> 00:38:35,580 - As you see coming out, 1023 00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:36,639 we're gonna have shrimp cocktails. 1024 00:38:36,773 --> 00:38:38,140 - Oh, I just take one? - Yes. 1025 00:38:38,141 --> 00:38:39,250 - Oh, I thought you were givin' me the whole plate, okay. 1026 00:38:39,384 --> 00:38:41,144 - No, we're gonna pass it around. 1027 00:38:41,277 --> 00:38:43,313 - I never imagined that I'd be sitting, 1028 00:38:43,446 --> 00:38:45,456 enjoying this delicious shrimp cocktail, 1029 00:38:45,590 --> 00:38:47,317 still smelling the singes 1030 00:38:47,450 --> 00:38:49,460 of Karen's booty hairs getting lasered 1031 00:38:49,594 --> 00:38:50,827 just in the room next door. 1032 00:38:50,828 --> 00:38:53,331 - Well, Stacey has five. - Shh! 1033 00:38:53,464 --> 00:38:54,598 - I still smell it. 1034 00:38:54,599 --> 00:38:56,893 You know, it still has a little aroma to it. 1035 00:38:56,993 --> 00:38:57,994 - I'm not mad at you, Stacey. 1036 00:38:58,127 --> 00:38:59,804 Bon appetit. 1037 00:38:59,904 --> 00:39:00,830 - I have one thing to say. 1038 00:39:00,930 --> 00:39:01,905 Oh, Lord. - Okay. 1039 00:39:01,906 --> 00:39:03,441 This is very important... - Okay. 1040 00:39:03,541 --> 00:39:05,143 - ...to me. Everybody knows I work with 1041 00:39:05,243 --> 00:39:06,844 the National Brain Tumor Society, 1042 00:39:06,978 --> 00:39:08,905 and I am heading to the Hill. 1043 00:39:09,005 --> 00:39:10,247 I'm going to speak to Congress. 1044 00:39:10,248 --> 00:39:11,149 - Yes! 1045 00:39:11,282 --> 00:39:13,351 - So, I would like a little advice 1046 00:39:13,484 --> 00:39:14,811 from Wendy on that, 1047 00:39:14,911 --> 00:39:17,288 as you have stepped your feet in these rooms. 1048 00:39:17,422 --> 00:39:18,523 - Yes. 1049 00:39:20,350 --> 00:39:22,184 - Gizelle, you got some nerve. 1050 00:39:22,185 --> 00:39:24,761 You gonna ask for my skill set, 1051 00:39:24,762 --> 00:39:28,833 but you use inflammatory language against me. 1052 00:39:28,933 --> 00:39:30,193 I'll do that. - Okay. 1053 00:39:30,326 --> 00:39:31,002 - That's it. 1054 00:39:31,135 --> 00:39:33,363 She's lucky that I'm more empathetic. 1055 00:39:33,463 --> 00:39:35,539 But, chile, you just digging yourself 1056 00:39:35,540 --> 00:39:37,033 deeper and deeper into a hole. 1057 00:39:37,166 --> 00:39:39,277 - I would love some champagne, please. 1058 00:39:39,377 --> 00:39:40,703 - Gotcha, no problem. 1059 00:39:40,803 --> 00:39:42,772 - Karen, I have to say, I commend you so much 1060 00:39:42,872 --> 00:39:44,607 for maintaining your sobriety 1061 00:39:44,707 --> 00:39:45,850 when there is alcohol around. 1062 00:39:45,950 --> 00:39:49,888 - It is hard, but it's not worth the risk. 1063 00:39:49,988 --> 00:39:51,614 Any questions, you guys go ahead and ask me, 1064 00:39:51,714 --> 00:39:53,882 and I'll let you know if I'm comfortable talking about it. 1065 00:39:53,883 --> 00:39:56,494 - Was there a silver lining while you were there? 1066 00:39:56,628 --> 00:39:58,295 - Knowing that I could make it through it. 1067 00:39:58,296 --> 00:39:59,956 - It must have been quite the adjustment. 1068 00:40:00,056 --> 00:40:01,566 - It-It is. All my liberties were gone. 1069 00:40:01,699 --> 00:40:03,559 - Yeah. - So-- and-and a steel door 1070 00:40:03,693 --> 00:40:04,893 being shut behind you. 1071 00:40:04,894 --> 00:40:08,206 Um, I'm working with women who are released 1072 00:40:08,306 --> 00:40:10,341 and don't have anyone like I did 1073 00:40:10,475 --> 00:40:11,743 to go home to. - Yeah. 1074 00:40:11,876 --> 00:40:13,477 - It's really hard on them. - Mm-hmm. 1075 00:40:13,478 --> 00:40:15,913 - When I talk to young women who had to fight for their lives 1076 00:40:15,914 --> 00:40:17,749 and take a life to do that, 1077 00:40:17,882 --> 00:40:19,742 I thought I would be afraid of that. 1078 00:40:19,842 --> 00:40:22,553 I wasn't, because she was no different from me. 1079 00:40:22,654 --> 00:40:24,389 Just life was different for her. 1080 00:40:24,489 --> 00:40:26,658 If it could happen to me, it could happen to anybody. 1081 00:40:26,758 --> 00:40:29,761 I'm just grateful that I'm here to talk about it. 1082 00:40:29,894 --> 00:40:31,729 - Karen, to be quite honest with you, 1083 00:40:31,863 --> 00:40:34,364 I think you're being disingenuous. 1084 00:40:34,365 --> 00:40:36,401 You're saying you wanna help women 1085 00:40:36,501 --> 00:40:38,094 that have been through that when you literally have 1086 00:40:38,227 --> 00:40:40,997 a woman at your table who is going through that. 1087 00:40:41,097 --> 00:40:42,332 - I don't know what you're going through, 1088 00:40:42,432 --> 00:40:43,540 because when you come around us-- - But then you show-- 1089 00:40:43,541 --> 00:40:44,442 - You act like everything is okay. 1090 00:40:44,575 --> 00:40:45,510 I don't know. - But then-but then-- 1091 00:40:45,643 --> 00:40:47,678 When we're in New York, you're kicking me 1092 00:40:47,679 --> 00:40:48,938 while I'm down, 1093 00:40:49,072 --> 00:40:51,349 you bring up my mom, which is a slap in the face. 1094 00:40:51,449 --> 00:40:52,917 - Do I want you to shut the (BLEEP) up 1095 00:40:53,051 --> 00:40:55,852 and protect yourself? Yeah, I do. 1096 00:40:55,853 --> 00:40:57,855 I could have chosen a better word, maybe. 1097 00:40:57,956 --> 00:40:59,056 - I just don't understand-- - Hold on a minute. I let you talk. 1098 00:40:59,057 --> 00:41:00,258 - ...how you tell me to shut the (BLEEP) up. 1099 00:41:00,358 --> 00:41:01,893 - I let you talk. - When you were in this hot seat, 1100 00:41:01,993 --> 00:41:03,452 you didn't even show up to the reunion. 1101 00:41:03,453 --> 00:41:04,429 - Shh... - You didn't even come. 1102 00:41:04,529 --> 00:41:05,430 - No, but our charges are very different. 1103 00:41:05,530 --> 00:41:06,963 - I came! - I was sick. 1104 00:41:06,964 --> 00:41:08,465 {\an8}- Karen has checked herself 1105 00:41:08,466 --> 00:41:11,702 {\an8}into a private recovery center. 1106 00:41:11,703 --> 00:41:13,196 {\an8}- That's great. 1107 00:41:13,296 --> 00:41:15,365 - What was more important, showing up for a camera 1108 00:41:15,465 --> 00:41:17,240 or taking care of myself, so that I never 1109 00:41:17,241 --> 00:41:18,434 have this----ing happen to me again? 1110 00:41:18,534 --> 00:41:19,944 - Well, word on the street was you weren't in treatment. 1111 00:41:20,078 --> 00:41:21,771 - I made-I made that choice. 1112 00:41:23,106 --> 00:41:24,540 - That-that was the word on the curb. 1113 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,308 - Yeah, the word on the street 1114 00:41:26,309 --> 00:41:27,819 was you weren't in treatment. 1115 00:41:27,952 --> 00:41:30,121 - Karen says she went to two rehabs, 1116 00:41:30,221 --> 00:41:32,314 but the streets have said that she didn't go 1117 00:41:32,315 --> 00:41:33,816 to no-hab, okay? 1118 00:41:33,916 --> 00:41:38,488 {\an8}- Rehab may mean spending a couple weeks at home 1119 00:41:38,588 --> 00:41:39,822 {\an8}having a nice bath. 1120 00:41:39,956 --> 00:41:41,490 {\an8}I mean, I don't know. 1121 00:41:41,491 --> 00:41:43,166 {\an8}- So what I'm gonna do is check you in this moment 1122 00:41:43,167 --> 00:41:44,227 {\an8}and say, you know what? - You can't check sh--. 1123 00:41:44,327 --> 00:41:45,661 {\an8}- Right now-- - Just take accountability 1124 00:41:45,795 --> 00:41:46,804 {\an8}that you've been a bad friend. 1125 00:41:46,904 --> 00:41:48,231 {\an8}- No, that's what you did. 1126 00:41:48,331 --> 00:41:51,000 {\an8}when you checked me about me not being in treatment 1127 00:41:51,134 --> 00:41:52,335 {\an8}when I know where I was. 1128 00:41:52,435 --> 00:41:53,503 {\an8}- Now you're tryin' to flip it. - No, that-- no. 1129 00:41:53,603 --> 00:41:55,004 {\an8}- You do not tell another grown woman 1130 00:41:55,104 --> 00:41:56,072 {\an8}to shut the (BLEEP) up. - I did-I did apologize. 1131 00:41:56,172 --> 00:41:57,280 {\an8}- Does that make sense to you? 1132 00:41:57,281 --> 00:41:58,074 {\an8}- It makes a whole lot of mother----in' sense. 1133 00:41:58,174 --> 00:41:59,409 {\an8}- Okay, so this is done, then? 1134 00:41:59,509 --> 00:42:02,253 {\an8}- That's right. That's how that's done. 1135 00:42:02,387 --> 00:42:03,178 {\an8}We good? - We're great. 1136 00:42:03,179 --> 00:42:04,706 {\an8}- Oh-oh, okay. Okay. 1137 00:42:04,839 --> 00:42:12,429 {\an8}♪ 1138 00:42:12,430 --> 00:42:15,199 - Next time, on "The Real Housewives of Potomac". 1139 00:42:15,333 --> 00:42:17,001 - Special delivery. 1140 00:42:17,135 --> 00:42:18,436 - Oh, my goodness. 1141 00:42:18,536 --> 00:42:20,805 Do you see, like, what Arlo brought you? 1142 00:42:20,938 --> 00:42:22,864 - I can't even. 1143 00:42:22,865 --> 00:42:25,034 - You are the one that started this sh--. 1144 00:42:25,134 --> 00:42:27,445 You're the messy one. - You're the messy one. 1145 00:42:27,545 --> 00:42:28,646 You're the messy one. 1146 00:42:28,780 --> 00:42:30,381 - One day you call me a scammer. 1147 00:42:30,515 --> 00:42:32,550 Next day you're saying, Wendy doesn't deserve 1148 00:42:32,683 --> 00:42:33,950 to be kicked when she's down. 1149 00:42:33,951 --> 00:42:36,712 - Don't tell other people what I say to you. 1150 00:42:36,846 --> 00:42:38,189 - If you-- - As a matter of fact, don't worry about it. 1151 00:42:38,289 --> 00:42:40,558 'Cause I won't be telling you sh--.