1 00:00:02,252 --> 00:00:03,545 - Previously, on "The Real Housewives of Potomac"... 2 00:00:04,838 --> 00:00:06,214 - You're gonna stand in your mother----in' truth. 3 00:00:06,256 --> 00:00:07,382 - I'm standing. 4 00:00:07,424 --> 00:00:08,591 - Everything I say, I stand on. Period. 5 00:00:08,633 --> 00:00:10,093 - I'm standing on it. I'm standing on it! 6 00:00:10,135 --> 00:00:11,219 - I'm sittin', and I still stand on it. 7 00:00:14,556 --> 00:00:16,057 - I think it would be fun for everyone to do, like, 8 00:00:16,099 --> 00:00:18,143 a family fun day. - Yeah, that'll be cool. 9 00:00:18,184 --> 00:00:20,979 - Yeah. Wendy wasn't invited. 10 00:00:21,021 --> 00:00:22,397 - This is not okay. 11 00:00:22,439 --> 00:00:24,774 - I can't believe how far our relationship has fallen. 12 00:00:24,816 --> 00:00:28,528 - I did get my pathology report as a result of my biopsy. 13 00:00:28,570 --> 00:00:30,905 Guess what. We need further testing. 14 00:00:30,947 --> 00:00:32,282 - You want to say that my husband 15 00:00:32,323 --> 00:00:35,076 made you feel uncomfortable. - One hundred percent. 16 00:00:35,118 --> 00:00:37,037 - Michael Darby is available for that, 17 00:00:37,078 --> 00:00:38,663 the ass grabbing mother----er that likes to 18 00:00:38,705 --> 00:00:40,832 actually make people feel uncomfortable, 19 00:00:40,874 --> 00:00:42,542 not my husband. 20 00:00:42,584 --> 00:00:44,336 ** 21 00:00:44,377 --> 00:00:45,712 - I don't know who leaked it. 22 00:00:45,754 --> 00:00:49,215 I have no clue who could tell my personal, 23 00:00:49,257 --> 00:00:53,553 intimate business to a blog. Ugh! 24 00:01:00,977 --> 00:01:05,273 This is a nice neighborhood. 25 00:01:05,315 --> 00:01:08,109 Oh! [doorbell rings] 26 00:01:08,151 --> 00:01:08,943 Cheerio. 27 00:01:08,985 --> 00:01:10,070 - Hi. - Hi. 28 00:01:10,111 --> 00:01:12,113 - Good morning. Come in. 29 00:01:12,155 --> 00:01:13,073 It's freezing. Come inside. 30 00:01:13,114 --> 00:01:14,491 - Thank you. It really is. 31 00:01:14,532 --> 00:01:16,785 This is very nice. - Welcome. 32 00:01:16,826 --> 00:01:19,120 You've never been. Yes. - Oh, my gosh. No. 33 00:01:19,162 --> 00:01:20,538 - We're gonna sit in here. 34 00:01:20,580 --> 00:01:23,083 So, I have, like, snacks, but, you know. 35 00:01:23,124 --> 00:01:25,585 - Oh, wow. 36 00:01:25,627 --> 00:01:28,380 - I became a part of this group because Ashley 37 00:01:28,421 --> 00:01:30,423 introduced me to these girls. 38 00:01:30,465 --> 00:01:32,550 We're both young. We're both cute. 39 00:01:32,592 --> 00:01:34,594 We're both black women in the pageant world. 40 00:01:34,636 --> 00:01:40,600 But we don't have fun when Ashley chooses to be a ho. 41 00:01:40,642 --> 00:01:42,686 I will keep it positive, and I hope we could have 42 00:01:42,727 --> 00:01:45,355 more good times. 43 00:01:45,397 --> 00:01:47,273 - I'm a happy camper. I got some cheese, some wine, 44 00:01:47,315 --> 00:01:49,317 some crackers, some sushi, fruit. 45 00:01:49,359 --> 00:01:51,861 I feel like I'm a Roman emperor over here. 46 00:01:51,903 --> 00:01:55,198 - Okay, so, what is going on? I saw the things. 47 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,951 - Yeah, and it's just upsetting because, 48 00:01:57,992 --> 00:01:59,285 you know, we had a timeline. 49 00:01:59,327 --> 00:02:01,246 - So, were you gonna announce it together? 50 00:02:01,287 --> 00:02:03,289 - Yeah, we did a joint statement. 51 00:02:03,331 --> 00:02:05,625 - Oh, okay. - We've just been waiting. 52 00:02:05,667 --> 00:02:07,627 So, yeah, he's-- he flew to Vegas this morning, 53 00:02:07,669 --> 00:02:11,339 even though he got a vasectomy on Friday. 54 00:02:11,381 --> 00:02:13,800 I know. - Okay. 55 00:02:13,842 --> 00:02:15,051 - So, he's been ignoring me. 56 00:02:15,093 --> 00:02:17,220 He finally just texted me back and was like, 57 00:02:17,262 --> 00:02:19,723 "Can we please talk tomorrow? I need 24 hours." 58 00:02:19,764 --> 00:02:23,852 - So, do you think he's upset about it coming out? 59 00:02:23,893 --> 00:02:26,604 - Yeah, I think he, like, feels like he doesn't have 60 00:02:26,646 --> 00:02:28,314 any autonomy. It's a hard-- 61 00:02:28,356 --> 00:02:29,899 it's a hard thing for these men to understand, 62 00:02:29,941 --> 00:02:31,735 but, you know, c'est la vie. 63 00:02:31,776 --> 00:02:32,986 - Chile, they be in their feelings. Ooh. 64 00:02:33,028 --> 00:02:34,070 - Don't they? 65 00:02:34,112 --> 00:02:37,198 - So, how are you guys living together? 66 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,076 I thought, for the separation to be official, 67 00:02:40,118 --> 00:02:43,496 you had to be living separately, or is-- 68 00:02:43,538 --> 00:02:46,666 or can you live together and be separated and that count? 69 00:02:46,708 --> 00:02:48,877 - Yes. You just can't be in the same bed. 70 00:02:48,918 --> 00:02:50,503 - Okay. - You can be in-- 71 00:02:50,545 --> 00:02:52,130 under the same roof, especially with children. 72 00:02:52,172 --> 00:02:53,298 - Okay, okay. 73 00:02:53,340 --> 00:02:54,090 - They have so many parameters for kids. 74 00:02:54,132 --> 00:02:55,175 - Yeah. 75 00:02:55,216 --> 00:02:56,426 - But you cannot sleep in the same bed, 76 00:02:56,468 --> 00:02:58,511 and you're not meant to have sexual contact. 77 00:02:58,553 --> 00:03:00,472 So, how are you? Your hair looks good. 78 00:03:00,513 --> 00:03:02,057 - It's keeping-- it's-it's doing a lot. 79 00:03:02,098 --> 00:03:03,558 I'm just, like, in a funk, right now. 80 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:05,560 - Actually, I will say that this friendship group 81 00:03:05,602 --> 00:03:07,103 helps you get out of your funk. 82 00:03:07,145 --> 00:03:10,190 - Girl, the friendship group is why I had to cancel IVF. 83 00:03:10,231 --> 00:03:11,733 Y'all stress me out. 84 00:03:11,775 --> 00:03:13,193 - Well, you and Gizelle didn't talk 85 00:03:13,234 --> 00:03:15,403 at the family fun day, right? - Uh-uh. 86 00:03:15,445 --> 00:03:17,530 - Has Chris just said, "Let me just say I'm sorry 87 00:03:17,572 --> 00:03:19,574 if you felt some sort of way? Let's move on." 88 00:03:19,616 --> 00:03:21,534 - He's not comfortable. - What? 89 00:03:21,576 --> 00:03:24,329 - Chris doesn't really wanna be around anymore 90 00:03:24,371 --> 00:03:27,207 because of now Gizelle's-- - Really? 91 00:03:27,248 --> 00:03:28,708 - I know Gizelle. 92 00:03:28,750 --> 00:03:32,712 I have sat and listened to Gizelle scheme and plan 93 00:03:32,754 --> 00:03:37,050 all kinds of shenanigans around people in this group, 94 00:03:37,092 --> 00:03:38,218 and you know her, too, 95 00:03:38,259 --> 00:03:39,552 'cause you've known her longer than me, 96 00:03:39,594 --> 00:03:43,556 and you're closer to her. Like, that's your friend. 97 00:03:43,598 --> 00:03:46,226 - Yeah, she's-she's got some of my secrets up in that-- 98 00:03:46,267 --> 00:03:47,352 in that box. - Mm-hmm. 99 00:03:47,394 --> 00:03:48,603 I heard you was already in the street. 100 00:03:48,645 --> 00:03:52,357 I heard that you was down to the restaurant... 101 00:03:53,608 --> 00:03:55,485 - I was with a hockey player? - You were. 102 00:03:55,527 --> 00:03:56,820 That's what they said. [laughing] 103 00:03:56,861 --> 00:03:58,822 You're laughing. You're turning red! 104 00:03:58,863 --> 00:04:01,574 [laughing] 105 00:04:01,616 --> 00:04:02,909 Don't be ashamed. - Ahh! 106 00:04:02,951 --> 00:04:06,830 This city is too small! - Yes, bitch. 107 00:04:06,871 --> 00:04:09,290 - No, but we went-- it was very casual. 108 00:04:09,332 --> 00:04:10,834 I was out with my friends. 109 00:04:10,875 --> 00:04:14,295 We went to a bar, and there was a guy there, 110 00:04:14,337 --> 00:04:17,257 and we actually had dinner, and it was fun. 111 00:04:17,298 --> 00:04:19,634 I had a good time, but I am going to 112 00:04:19,676 --> 00:04:21,469 compare everybody to Michael. 113 00:04:21,511 --> 00:04:24,055 He can talk about anything, like aliens 114 00:04:24,097 --> 00:04:25,557 and all types of weird sh--. 115 00:04:25,598 --> 00:04:27,851 If you can't talk about aliens, then date is over, bro. 116 00:04:27,892 --> 00:04:29,352 You better pay this bill and let's keep it movin', 117 00:04:29,394 --> 00:04:30,854 you know. 118 00:04:30,895 --> 00:04:32,939 Oh, man, people really do talk, don't they? 119 00:04:32,981 --> 00:04:34,107 Jesus. 120 00:04:34,149 --> 00:04:35,108 - Girl, now you know people were gonna-- 121 00:04:35,150 --> 00:04:36,818 - I didn't even do nothin'! 122 00:04:36,860 --> 00:04:39,446 - Stuff that I don't even want comes to me. 123 00:04:39,487 --> 00:04:40,697 - People used to tell me so much stuff 124 00:04:40,739 --> 00:04:43,283 about Karen and Ray. - Oh, my God! 125 00:04:43,324 --> 00:04:45,869 She used to think she was sneaking outta town, 126 00:04:45,910 --> 00:04:49,414 going to restaurants. Bitch, we see you. 127 00:04:50,832 --> 00:04:54,210 - Like, with someone that wasn't Ray. 128 00:04:54,252 --> 00:04:55,670 - People say you have a boyfriend. 129 00:04:55,712 --> 00:04:58,423 Do I talk about that, blue eyes 130 00:04:58,465 --> 00:04:59,424 or whatever his name is? 131 00:04:59,466 --> 00:05:00,717 Do I? - Who? 132 00:05:00,759 --> 00:05:02,218 [laughing] 133 00:05:02,260 --> 00:05:07,807 - Anyway, so you deserve to go out and do stuff safely. 134 00:05:07,849 --> 00:05:09,434 - I'm not divorced yet, so I'll-I'll, like, 135 00:05:09,476 --> 00:05:10,435 I wanna be, like, more-- - You don't have to. 136 00:05:10,477 --> 00:05:11,770 You're separated. - I am separated. 137 00:05:13,605 --> 00:05:17,984 - Don't get me started. He's always doing stuff. 138 00:05:18,026 --> 00:05:23,239 This is, like, a highly anticipated chapter, 139 00:05:23,281 --> 00:05:25,033 and I'm excited for you. [sighs] 140 00:05:25,075 --> 00:05:26,326 - Thank you. 141 00:05:26,368 --> 00:05:30,997 - Ashley seems to be doing fine. 142 00:05:31,039 --> 00:05:35,335 She doesn't need old balls. 143 00:05:35,377 --> 00:05:38,421 She deserves young, tight ones. 144 00:05:38,463 --> 00:05:42,384 I'm manifesting a new chapter for her. 145 00:05:42,425 --> 00:05:43,468 - Okay, well, thank you, babe. 146 00:05:43,510 --> 00:05:45,387 I gotta get home to my kids. [sighs] 147 00:05:45,428 --> 00:05:46,471 - Babysitters. 148 00:05:46,513 --> 00:05:48,348 - My God, you called me out tonight. 149 00:05:48,390 --> 00:05:49,849 - Jesus. 150 00:05:51,393 --> 00:05:55,355 ** 151 00:05:55,397 --> 00:05:57,148 - You guys wanna come out and have dinner! 152 00:05:57,190 --> 00:05:58,274 - Yes! - It's pretty out here. 153 00:05:58,316 --> 00:05:59,818 - Jeremiah, put the iPad while we eat. 154 00:05:59,859 --> 00:06:01,069 - Yeah. 155 00:06:01,111 --> 00:06:03,530 - Baby, what happened to the runner on the table? 156 00:06:03,571 --> 00:06:04,906 - I'll go get it. 157 00:06:04,948 --> 00:06:07,742 - We don't eat without centerpieces in this family. 158 00:06:11,746 --> 00:06:13,164 Here, Jeremiah. Here, baby. 159 00:06:13,206 --> 00:06:15,500 - Yay. - Yay. 160 00:06:15,542 --> 00:06:18,586 - Yum, yum, yum, yum, yum. My lamb is eating my food. 161 00:06:18,628 --> 00:06:19,963 - Oh, my goodness. 162 00:06:20,005 --> 00:06:23,550 - Mommy, you know why I'm cutting my cornbread? 163 00:06:23,591 --> 00:06:27,137 - Why? - So I can't choke. 164 00:06:27,178 --> 00:06:29,681 - Oh, that's smart. Here, baby, you want greens? 165 00:06:29,723 --> 00:06:31,599 - Sure. - Okay. 166 00:06:31,641 --> 00:06:34,769 How are you feeling about the soft opening, 167 00:06:34,811 --> 00:06:36,479 the results from the weekend? 168 00:06:36,521 --> 00:06:38,064 - I think the team did a phenomenal job. 169 00:06:38,106 --> 00:06:40,608 Looking forward to the grand opening event 170 00:06:40,650 --> 00:06:43,611 and then onward and upward. - I will tell you one thing. 171 00:06:43,653 --> 00:06:46,072 I don't wanna open any more clinics for a while. 172 00:06:46,114 --> 00:06:47,741 This is one has, like-- - You say that after every one. 173 00:06:47,782 --> 00:06:50,618 - Yeah. No, this one, it took the cake. 174 00:06:50,660 --> 00:06:54,330 This is lucky number 25, and the involvement 175 00:06:54,372 --> 00:06:58,918 of building out a new baby is taxing to say the least. 176 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:02,172 We want to move this over-- - In the-- in the center? 177 00:07:02,213 --> 00:07:03,506 Mm-hmm. - To the center. 178 00:07:03,548 --> 00:07:05,842 Um, I'll just call you guys back later. 179 00:07:05,884 --> 00:07:07,886 What am I missing? What am I missing? 180 00:07:07,927 --> 00:07:11,222 Not to mention the kids are running me ragged, 181 00:07:11,264 --> 00:07:13,850 and my health is a concern. 182 00:07:13,892 --> 00:07:16,394 I just don't know if I'm coming or going. 183 00:07:16,436 --> 00:07:18,104 Pray for me. 184 00:07:18,146 --> 00:07:19,898 - Mommy. - Yeah, lovey? 185 00:07:19,939 --> 00:07:22,400 - We got a challenge for you. - A challenge? 186 00:07:22,442 --> 00:07:23,568 - Mm-hmm. 187 00:07:23,610 --> 00:07:26,321 - Any of us-- look, we're dancing, 188 00:07:26,363 --> 00:07:31,618 that means you to need to tell us who was the winner. 189 00:07:31,659 --> 00:07:32,577 - Okay, we're gonna have a dance-- 190 00:07:32,619 --> 00:07:33,912 - There you go, dance off. 191 00:07:33,953 --> 00:07:34,996 - Can we do the dance contest after the s'mores? 192 00:07:35,038 --> 00:07:35,997 - Yeah, yeah. 193 00:07:36,039 --> 00:07:37,665 - That's my-- she's my daughter. 194 00:07:37,707 --> 00:07:39,292 She loves a challenge. [laughing] 195 00:07:39,334 --> 00:07:41,461 But yeah, how are you? 196 00:07:41,503 --> 00:07:43,505 - I'm-I'm fine. I'm fine. 197 00:07:43,546 --> 00:07:45,006 Well, the big elephant in the room, though, 198 00:07:45,048 --> 00:07:49,886 was quite frankly the mystery around-around your health. 199 00:07:49,928 --> 00:07:52,305 So-- but... 200 00:07:52,347 --> 00:07:53,473 - What about it? 201 00:07:53,515 --> 00:07:55,767 - Well, just what was going on. 202 00:07:55,809 --> 00:07:58,395 I mean, you were not feeling well for quite some time. 203 00:07:58,436 --> 00:07:59,688 - Right. [sighs] 204 00:07:59,729 --> 00:08:01,064 - And-and we still haven't gotten any answers, 205 00:08:01,106 --> 00:08:02,816 but at least a lot of bad things have been ruled out. 206 00:08:02,857 --> 00:08:05,193 - Yeah. It was so scary. 207 00:08:05,235 --> 00:08:08,655 So, we have ruled out cancer. Thank the Lord. 208 00:08:08,697 --> 00:08:12,033 Now, I do have to get these lymph nodes 209 00:08:12,075 --> 00:08:13,702 and these lumps removed. 210 00:08:13,743 --> 00:08:15,286 That happens in a couple months. 211 00:08:15,328 --> 00:08:17,247 And praise God that they're gonna tell me that 212 00:08:17,288 --> 00:08:20,625 it's just a-a fluke, but, um, this is where we are. 213 00:08:20,667 --> 00:08:22,127 [screaming] - Juju. 214 00:08:22,168 --> 00:08:23,420 - I will tell you I know why it had to happen. 215 00:08:23,461 --> 00:08:24,587 - Yeah, there was a reason. 216 00:08:24,629 --> 00:08:26,965 - I just feel like I'm more like 217 00:08:27,007 --> 00:08:28,341 tomorrow is a new day, right? [screaming] 218 00:08:28,383 --> 00:08:29,968 - Juju. 219 00:08:30,010 --> 00:08:32,762 - I think I can, like, chill and have some fun. 220 00:08:32,804 --> 00:08:35,390 I am gonna invite the girls to go to Miami. 221 00:08:35,432 --> 00:08:37,767 - Mmm, okay. - I need a vacation. 222 00:08:37,809 --> 00:08:40,937 Miami is dear to me because when I was adopted, 223 00:08:40,979 --> 00:08:45,483 my adopted mom lived there, and so this is where I kinda, 224 00:08:45,525 --> 00:08:46,693 like, got my roots. 225 00:08:46,735 --> 00:08:51,197 I like hot sun, fast cars, sand. 226 00:08:51,239 --> 00:08:52,574 Miami is home. 227 00:08:52,615 --> 00:08:53,783 So, I thought we could talk about, like, 228 00:08:53,825 --> 00:08:55,910 what's off limits, 229 00:08:55,952 --> 00:08:57,495 what I'm allowed to do in-in MIA. 230 00:08:57,537 --> 00:08:59,914 [laughing] - Okay, okay. 231 00:08:59,956 --> 00:09:02,709 - 'Cause, you know, it goes down in the dirty South. 232 00:09:02,751 --> 00:09:05,003 - Well, yeah. [laughing] 233 00:09:05,045 --> 00:09:07,881 - So, I went down for a girls trip 14 years ago, 234 00:09:07,922 --> 00:09:10,425 and my friend, Jacqueline, is with me. 235 00:09:10,467 --> 00:09:11,718 I've known her since we were 15. 236 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:13,428 She knows all my secrets, too. 237 00:09:13,470 --> 00:09:15,972 So, Daddy G crashed the girls trip. 238 00:09:16,014 --> 00:09:17,849 - We've had some good times in Miami. 239 00:09:17,891 --> 00:09:20,643 - Why is it so fun, Daddy G? - I can't tell. 240 00:09:20,685 --> 00:09:22,228 - Hmm? - It's X-rated. 241 00:09:22,270 --> 00:09:25,231 - Daddy G was very happily married to his ex-wife, 242 00:09:25,273 --> 00:09:26,816 so he said. 243 00:09:26,858 --> 00:09:28,860 Clearly, he wasn't 'cause he was in Miami, 244 00:09:28,902 --> 00:09:31,029 and, yeah, we had sex on the beach. 245 00:09:31,071 --> 00:09:33,948 Yeah. Mm-hmm. And we put on a show. 246 00:09:33,990 --> 00:09:35,909 We knew people were watching. 247 00:09:35,950 --> 00:09:38,703 I did everything but pussy pop on a handstand. 248 00:09:38,745 --> 00:09:40,747 I wanted to, but I didn't. 249 00:09:40,789 --> 00:09:42,123 You gonna be okay with these? - I'll hold things-- 250 00:09:42,165 --> 00:09:47,253 I'll hold things down here. [screaming] 251 00:09:47,295 --> 00:09:48,755 - Coming up next... 252 00:09:48,797 --> 00:09:52,384 - For the party, I'm gonna be totally, like, calm, Zen. 253 00:09:52,425 --> 00:09:53,593 Promise. - Please? 254 00:09:53,635 --> 00:09:54,761 - Are you gonna be able to do that? 255 00:09:54,803 --> 00:09:56,805 - She's not. - Yes! 256 00:09:56,846 --> 00:09:58,264 - I don't give a (BLEEP)! I don't give a (BLEEP)! 257 00:09:58,306 --> 00:09:59,933 I don't give a (BLEEP)! I don't give a (BLEEP)! 258 00:09:59,974 --> 00:10:01,309 - Maybe you should control your emotions. 259 00:10:01,351 --> 00:10:03,269 - I don't give a (BLEEP)! 260 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:23,248 - I thought I didn't have my keys. 261 00:10:23,289 --> 00:10:24,165 I got my keys. 262 00:10:24,207 --> 00:10:25,458 - Oh. - Okay. 263 00:10:27,377 --> 00:10:29,004 - Hi. - Welcome. 264 00:10:29,045 --> 00:10:30,755 - Hi. - How can I help you today? 265 00:10:30,797 --> 00:10:33,133 - So, the girls are gonna get manicures. 266 00:10:33,174 --> 00:10:35,677 - Sure. - And then me a pedicure. 267 00:10:35,719 --> 00:10:38,471 - Absolutely. Come this way with me, please. 268 00:10:38,513 --> 00:10:41,933 ** 269 00:10:43,685 --> 00:10:45,895 - Okay. - Thank you. 270 00:10:45,937 --> 00:10:48,857 - What are you gonna do? - Like, every other. 271 00:10:48,898 --> 00:10:50,775 - I hope you enjoy your pedicure today with us. 272 00:10:50,817 --> 00:10:53,737 - Thank you. 273 00:10:53,778 --> 00:10:55,238 - What? 274 00:10:57,574 --> 00:10:59,826 - I feel like my face was shiny. 275 00:10:59,868 --> 00:11:03,204 - You're nasty. 276 00:11:03,246 --> 00:11:04,622 - Y'all didn't get the same colors? 277 00:11:04,664 --> 00:11:07,959 - No. - No, I chose pink. She's... 278 00:11:08,001 --> 00:11:10,962 - Let's go over the checklist for the sweet 16. 279 00:11:11,004 --> 00:11:12,380 Y'all have sent out the invitations. 280 00:11:12,422 --> 00:11:13,590 - Yes. - Yeah. 281 00:11:13,631 --> 00:11:15,425 - I can't deny my kids are growing up 282 00:11:15,467 --> 00:11:16,676 right before my eyes. 283 00:11:16,718 --> 00:11:17,844 Okay. 284 00:11:17,886 --> 00:11:19,220 [gasps] - Ooh. 285 00:11:19,262 --> 00:11:21,848 - Boom! Okay, Grace, Grace, Grace. 286 00:11:21,890 --> 00:11:23,850 Grace is about to fly the coop, 287 00:11:23,892 --> 00:11:25,769 and leave me, and go to college. 288 00:11:25,810 --> 00:11:27,062 The twins are right behind her. 289 00:11:27,103 --> 00:11:29,731 So, every second that I can spend with my girls 290 00:11:29,773 --> 00:11:32,192 is uber important to me. 291 00:11:32,233 --> 00:11:34,235 Anyone last minute we might invite? 292 00:11:34,277 --> 00:11:36,196 - I sent a last minute yesterday. 293 00:11:36,237 --> 00:11:37,947 - Okay, we'll get to that. - Okay. 294 00:11:37,989 --> 00:11:39,741 - And they have let me know for a very long time 295 00:11:39,783 --> 00:11:42,452 that they want a sweet 16 par-ty. 296 00:11:42,494 --> 00:11:46,331 I cannot wait. It's just three weeks away. 297 00:11:46,373 --> 00:11:50,502 The candy table and flower wall has been ordered. 298 00:11:50,543 --> 00:11:51,795 - Okay. 299 00:11:51,836 --> 00:11:53,546 - Uh, the photographer who did the photo shoot, 300 00:11:53,588 --> 00:11:55,674 she's gonna be your photographer for that night. 301 00:11:55,715 --> 00:11:57,175 [laughing] 302 00:11:57,217 --> 00:11:58,259 Oh, cute. 303 00:11:58,301 --> 00:12:00,387 - I love the shoulder. Do it, again. 304 00:12:00,428 --> 00:12:02,764 - For the party, I'm gonna be totally, like, 305 00:12:02,806 --> 00:12:05,684 calm, Zen. Promise. 306 00:12:05,725 --> 00:12:06,893 - Are you gonna be able to do that? 307 00:12:06,935 --> 00:12:08,687 - She's not. - Yes! 308 00:12:08,728 --> 00:12:12,482 If y'all just let me come in and say how much I love y'all. 309 00:12:12,524 --> 00:12:15,318 - She wants a speech. - Like, a mini speech. 310 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:16,778 - You have 90 seconds. 311 00:12:16,820 --> 00:12:18,238 - That's only 45 seconds a kid. 312 00:12:18,279 --> 00:12:20,323 - That's fine. Generalize. 313 00:12:20,365 --> 00:12:22,117 - Can I tell you what your father would do? 314 00:12:22,158 --> 00:12:23,785 And he and I have not discussed this. 315 00:12:23,827 --> 00:12:26,788 - What? - He's gonna be like... 316 00:12:26,830 --> 00:12:30,291 "My babies are turning 16. Adore." 317 00:12:30,333 --> 00:12:33,336 - Oh, no... - "A for admiration." 318 00:12:33,378 --> 00:12:35,213 - Yes, that's what he's gonna do! 319 00:12:35,255 --> 00:12:37,757 - Me and Jamal, we've had our ups and downs, 320 00:12:37,799 --> 00:12:40,552 but when it comes to monumental events, 321 00:12:40,593 --> 00:12:43,221 Jamal is right there, present and accounted for. 322 00:12:43,263 --> 00:12:46,725 - In Atlanta, the three of you are partners 323 00:12:46,766 --> 00:12:49,144 to own your own restaurant. 324 00:12:49,185 --> 00:12:52,313 [laughing] - Oh, my God. 325 00:12:52,355 --> 00:12:55,191 - "D for determination." - No, I would not. 326 00:12:55,233 --> 00:12:56,776 - It is really about the kids 327 00:12:56,818 --> 00:12:58,862 and what's in the best interest for them. 328 00:12:58,903 --> 00:13:00,739 "O for always optimistic." 329 00:13:00,780 --> 00:13:03,199 He's gonna go through. [laughing] 330 00:13:03,241 --> 00:13:04,743 - No. No! 331 00:13:04,784 --> 00:13:06,745 - So, if and when Ashley gets a divorce, 332 00:13:06,786 --> 00:13:08,788 I really hope that she's able to find a way 333 00:13:08,830 --> 00:13:11,499 to co-parent like Gizelle and Jamal. 334 00:13:11,541 --> 00:13:14,085 Y'all wanna see my toes? 335 00:13:14,127 --> 00:13:15,295 They look good, right? 336 00:13:15,337 --> 00:13:16,963 - Yeah. - Put your foot down. 337 00:13:17,005 --> 00:13:19,090 - Thank you. [laughing] 338 00:13:19,132 --> 00:13:21,384 - Thank you so much. 339 00:13:21,426 --> 00:13:23,136 - Um, all right. Let's get outta here. 340 00:13:23,178 --> 00:13:37,650 ** 341 00:13:37,692 --> 00:13:39,361 - Hi. How are you? - Good afternoon. How are you? 342 00:13:39,402 --> 00:13:41,654 - I'm good. I'm Robyn. I'm here to see Marla. 343 00:13:41,696 --> 00:13:43,073 - Okay. 344 00:13:43,114 --> 00:13:44,532 Let me go ahead and take you to our conference room. 345 00:13:44,574 --> 00:13:45,825 - Okay, perfect. 346 00:13:45,867 --> 00:13:47,160 - You can go ahead and have a set right there, 347 00:13:47,202 --> 00:13:48,119 and I will get Marla for you. - Okay, thank you. 348 00:13:48,161 --> 00:13:50,080 Appreciate it. - You're welcome. 349 00:13:50,121 --> 00:13:51,539 - Hi. How are you? - Hi. How are you? 350 00:13:51,581 --> 00:13:53,124 - I'm Marla. - I'm Robyn. 351 00:13:53,166 --> 00:13:55,752 - It's so nice to meet you. - Likewise. Thank you. 352 00:13:55,794 --> 00:13:57,170 - Have a seat. - Thank you for-- 353 00:13:57,212 --> 00:13:59,839 - Are you comfortable there? - I'm very comfortable. 354 00:13:59,881 --> 00:14:02,008 One of my good friends sent me a referral 355 00:14:02,050 --> 00:14:05,220 for a family law lawyer to start talking about 356 00:14:05,261 --> 00:14:07,347 the prenup and what are my options. 357 00:14:07,389 --> 00:14:11,226 Like, I don't even know what it should look like. 358 00:14:11,267 --> 00:14:14,729 - So, talk to me a little bit about what's going on now. 359 00:14:14,771 --> 00:14:16,064 - Mm-hmm. 360 00:14:16,106 --> 00:14:17,816 - And what you're thinking about for the future. 361 00:14:17,857 --> 00:14:19,359 - Okay. Let me just start by saying 362 00:14:19,401 --> 00:14:21,361 I am remarrying my ex-husband. 363 00:14:21,403 --> 00:14:22,529 - Okay. 364 00:14:22,570 --> 00:14:23,738 - We've been together since high school. 365 00:14:23,780 --> 00:14:26,074 We married in 2005. 366 00:14:26,116 --> 00:14:27,992 We had a prenuptial agreement then. 367 00:14:28,034 --> 00:14:29,953 We ended up getting divorced seven years later, 368 00:14:29,994 --> 00:14:32,789 and the prenup actually-- we didn't even need it 369 00:14:32,831 --> 00:14:34,624 because, at that time, 370 00:14:34,666 --> 00:14:37,419 we had, like, some severe financial struggles, 371 00:14:37,460 --> 00:14:39,754 so there was, like, no money to fight over anyway. 372 00:14:39,796 --> 00:14:43,466 And so, now we are on our way to get married, again. Um... 373 00:14:43,508 --> 00:14:45,760 - And does he know that you're here? 374 00:14:45,802 --> 00:14:47,762 - He knows that I'm here. - Okay. 375 00:14:47,804 --> 00:14:49,431 - He thinks it's not necessary, 376 00:14:49,472 --> 00:14:53,935 but I think it's necessary because you never know 377 00:14:53,977 --> 00:14:56,271 what can happen in a relationship. 378 00:14:56,312 --> 00:14:58,940 - In a prenuptial agreement, everything is identified, 379 00:14:58,982 --> 00:15:01,943 what you own together, what your debts are. 380 00:15:01,985 --> 00:15:04,029 Income is identified. 381 00:15:04,070 --> 00:15:06,489 So, is there a disparity in income 382 00:15:06,531 --> 00:15:08,033 between the two of you, right now? 383 00:15:08,074 --> 00:15:11,077 - Okay. So, I mean, 384 00:15:11,119 --> 00:15:13,913 yes, there is a disparity in income. 385 00:15:13,955 --> 00:15:18,251 I have some very successful businesses, 386 00:15:18,293 --> 00:15:22,505 and I would like to just keep those just out of-- 387 00:15:22,547 --> 00:15:25,425 I don't know. Like, you can't touch it, 388 00:15:25,467 --> 00:15:27,135 consider it, or you know what I, like-- 389 00:15:27,177 --> 00:15:30,472 - So, they would be excluded. - Got it. 390 00:15:30,513 --> 00:15:33,266 I think the idea of a prenup, for Juan, is, like, 391 00:15:33,308 --> 00:15:35,185 he's thinking the worst 392 00:15:35,226 --> 00:15:37,312 where I'm just trying to prevent the worst. 393 00:15:37,354 --> 00:15:40,899 Are there clauses about, like, infidelity? 394 00:15:40,940 --> 00:15:43,651 'Cause I would think, like, in the case of infidelity, 395 00:15:43,693 --> 00:15:46,237 you know, you get zero. 396 00:15:46,279 --> 00:15:48,198 - That's up to you guys. - Yeah. 397 00:15:48,239 --> 00:15:50,825 - Are you worried about that? Is there a history there? 398 00:15:50,867 --> 00:15:54,245 - Um, I mean, there-- that was definitely the reason 399 00:15:54,287 --> 00:15:56,998 for the divorce the first time. 400 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:00,627 So-- and, you know, I'm kind of a realist, 401 00:16:00,669 --> 00:16:04,756 and, you know, I know that that's never something 402 00:16:04,798 --> 00:16:08,510 you should be naive about. 403 00:16:08,551 --> 00:16:11,930 I've heard of people putting in an infidelity clause. 404 00:16:11,971 --> 00:16:14,224 As a result of our past history, 405 00:16:14,265 --> 00:16:16,101 it's worth talking about and considering, 406 00:16:16,142 --> 00:16:21,439 but I don't think Juan is gonna like this at all. 407 00:16:21,481 --> 00:16:23,274 It's a lot. It's, like, a lotta work. 408 00:16:23,316 --> 00:16:26,861 - Well, it's a lot better to do the work in advance. 409 00:16:26,903 --> 00:16:28,780 - I know. - Than do the work after, 410 00:16:28,822 --> 00:16:30,031 when you don't like each other. 411 00:16:30,073 --> 00:16:32,075 - Yeah, that's the goal. I know. 412 00:16:32,117 --> 00:16:34,828 - So, I will send you a list of everything 413 00:16:34,869 --> 00:16:37,539 that you need to get together, 414 00:16:37,580 --> 00:16:41,459 so I can start pulling stuff together, okay? 415 00:16:41,501 --> 00:16:43,044 - All right. 416 00:16:43,086 --> 00:16:44,671 Oh, it's a lot to think about. 417 00:16:44,713 --> 00:16:46,506 - Coming up next... 418 00:16:46,548 --> 00:16:48,717 - I'd like to invite you all to, quote, 419 00:16:48,758 --> 00:16:50,135 "The Burn Session." 420 00:16:50,176 --> 00:16:51,678 Sounds like some bullsh--. 421 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:52,721 Burn each other's edges 422 00:16:52,762 --> 00:16:54,472 'cause that's what's gonna happen. 423 00:17:04,858 --> 00:17:12,365 ** 424 00:17:17,120 --> 00:17:19,789 - Ooh, Lord, I gotta get a sweater. 425 00:17:20,790 --> 00:17:22,667 Ahh! 426 00:17:22,709 --> 00:17:25,545 Lordy, Lord. 427 00:17:25,587 --> 00:17:27,130 - Hi, there. - Hi. How are you? 428 00:17:27,172 --> 00:17:28,340 Thank you so, so much. 429 00:17:28,381 --> 00:17:30,133 - Here's a basket for you, for your flowers. 430 00:17:30,175 --> 00:17:31,426 - I appreciate that, but you know what? 431 00:17:31,468 --> 00:17:33,636 I'm gonna step over here and put this sweater 432 00:17:33,678 --> 00:17:37,682 over my outfit. It's cold! O-M-G! 433 00:17:37,724 --> 00:17:39,976 ** 434 00:17:40,018 --> 00:17:43,271 [groans] 435 00:17:43,313 --> 00:17:45,857 - Oh, my eyelashes are about to blow off. Ooh! 436 00:17:45,899 --> 00:17:47,317 - Hi, Ashley. 437 00:17:49,027 --> 00:17:52,322 [laughing] - I'm cold. Ooh, honey. 438 00:17:52,364 --> 00:17:54,574 I can't. - It is a tid nipply out here. 439 00:17:54,616 --> 00:17:55,867 - I had to destroy the outfit, though. 440 00:17:55,909 --> 00:17:57,327 Look, I had it all-- - Let me see what you got. 441 00:17:57,369 --> 00:17:59,287 Oh, you got your Fendi on. - Girl, but wait a minute-- 442 00:17:59,329 --> 00:18:00,747 You know what? It don't matter. 443 00:18:00,789 --> 00:18:02,332 - Are we waiting for Wendy? - We're waiting for Wendy. 444 00:18:02,374 --> 00:18:05,669 - Oh, okay, nice. - So, how are you, though? 445 00:18:05,710 --> 00:18:08,088 - Good, even though Michael had has procedure. 446 00:18:08,129 --> 00:18:10,006 - Michael got it snipped? - Yeah. 447 00:18:10,048 --> 00:18:11,633 - Are you happy about that? 448 00:18:11,675 --> 00:18:13,510 - Girl, I don't give two sh--s. 449 00:18:13,551 --> 00:18:15,845 Ha! I don't think I could care any less. 450 00:18:15,887 --> 00:18:17,764 Don't be calling me if you're in the ER or somethin' 451 00:18:17,806 --> 00:18:18,890 'cause your penis busted. 452 00:18:18,932 --> 00:18:20,016 You know what I'm saying? - Oh, my God. 453 00:18:20,058 --> 00:18:21,017 Hey, Wendy. 454 00:18:21,059 --> 00:18:22,560 - Hey, hey, girl. - Hey! 455 00:18:22,602 --> 00:18:24,437 [laughing] 456 00:18:24,479 --> 00:18:25,730 How are you? - I'm good. How are you doin'? 457 00:18:25,772 --> 00:18:27,315 - Hi, sweetie. - Hey, Karen, how ya doin'? 458 00:18:27,357 --> 00:18:28,942 - Frozen. - Frozen tundra. 459 00:18:28,983 --> 00:18:30,193 Hi, how are you? - Hello. 460 00:18:30,235 --> 00:18:31,778 Here's a basket for you. - Thank you so much. 461 00:18:31,820 --> 00:18:33,029 [sighs] - So... 462 00:18:33,071 --> 00:18:34,072 - We really are headed to divorce, aren't we? 463 00:18:34,114 --> 00:18:35,907 - Yeah. - It's amazing. 464 00:18:35,949 --> 00:18:38,493 - I saw the break in the news. 465 00:18:38,535 --> 00:18:41,204 - My news of my separation has hit the press. 466 00:18:41,246 --> 00:18:43,081 - Are you all right with it? You cool? 467 00:18:43,123 --> 00:18:44,374 - I don't know who leaked it, 468 00:18:44,416 --> 00:18:45,792 but I'm not ready to talk about it. 469 00:18:45,834 --> 00:18:46,876 - Okay. 470 00:18:46,918 --> 00:18:47,961 - This is my life. 471 00:18:48,003 --> 00:18:49,671 Like, this is such a personal thing, 472 00:18:49,713 --> 00:18:51,798 and for that to just sort of be ripped out 473 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:54,300 from underneath of me, is really frustrating. 474 00:18:54,342 --> 00:18:56,970 - The blogs are the blogs. This is your reality. 475 00:18:57,012 --> 00:18:58,138 - If you guys wanna follow me, 476 00:18:58,179 --> 00:18:59,431 I can show you how to pick flowers. 477 00:18:59,472 --> 00:19:00,348 - Oh, I would love that. - Yes, I would love that. 478 00:19:00,390 --> 00:19:02,183 - That's so fun. - Thank you. 479 00:19:02,225 --> 00:19:03,685 - Absolutely. 480 00:19:03,727 --> 00:19:05,311 - Ma'am, do you have any blankets? 481 00:19:05,353 --> 00:19:06,563 - I'll see what I can do. 482 00:19:06,604 --> 00:19:08,314 - I would be so thankful. 483 00:19:08,356 --> 00:19:09,691 - What you do, when you pick 'em, 484 00:19:09,733 --> 00:19:11,860 you wanna grab as far down as you can to the ground. 485 00:19:11,901 --> 00:19:12,736 - Okay. 486 00:19:12,777 --> 00:19:15,321 - Pull it straight this way. 487 00:19:15,363 --> 00:19:16,406 - Oh, you gotta put your back into it. 488 00:19:16,448 --> 00:19:17,615 - Oh, his bulb didn't come up. 489 00:19:17,657 --> 00:19:18,742 - Bulb did not come. - Okay. 490 00:19:18,783 --> 00:19:20,160 - But sometimes the bulbs do come. 491 00:19:20,201 --> 00:19:21,828 Sometimes you can replant them. 492 00:19:21,870 --> 00:19:23,413 Go ahead and explore and see what you can find. 493 00:19:23,455 --> 00:19:25,081 - I'm excited. - Thank you so, so much. 494 00:19:25,123 --> 00:19:26,416 - Okay. - Oh, I-I'm ready. 495 00:19:26,458 --> 00:19:28,418 So, this one is calling my name. 496 00:19:28,460 --> 00:19:30,378 Ahh! - Ahh! You did good. 497 00:19:30,420 --> 00:19:32,422 - I got a bulb. 498 00:19:32,464 --> 00:19:34,591 - Girl, we're not doing good. 499 00:19:34,632 --> 00:19:36,551 I'm just trying to get some inspiration 500 00:19:36,593 --> 00:19:38,720 at this tulip farm today because, damn it, 501 00:19:38,762 --> 00:19:41,598 I bought $3,000 worth of embryos. 502 00:19:41,639 --> 00:19:44,267 The landscaper-- I-I told him to plant all the stuff 503 00:19:44,309 --> 00:19:45,602 in the gray pots. 504 00:19:45,643 --> 00:19:46,978 I wanna show you. It's not alive. 505 00:19:47,020 --> 00:19:48,355 - Some of it's alive. - No, it's not, Ray. 506 00:19:48,396 --> 00:19:49,522 - But it's-it's-- none of 'em look like somethin' 507 00:19:49,564 --> 00:19:51,274 that you really need to keep, right now. 508 00:19:51,316 --> 00:19:53,068 - And hold on, hold on. 509 00:19:53,109 --> 00:19:54,194 [laughing] 510 00:19:54,235 --> 00:19:55,737 - Anxiety. - We got a bulb. 511 00:19:55,779 --> 00:19:56,780 We got a bulb! 512 00:19:56,821 --> 00:19:59,866 This tulip garden is, like, ahh. 513 00:19:59,908 --> 00:20:02,369 I'm gonna get some buds and put in my backyard 514 00:20:02,410 --> 00:20:05,497 and act like that's part of the $3,000 budget. 515 00:20:05,538 --> 00:20:06,706 Oh, God. - Wendy, you have the space. 516 00:20:06,748 --> 00:20:08,416 You can replant these in your house. 517 00:20:08,458 --> 00:20:09,584 - In my-- in-in the back, right? 518 00:20:09,626 --> 00:20:11,169 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - I should do that 519 00:20:11,211 --> 00:20:12,837 because we're about to do a pool. 520 00:20:12,879 --> 00:20:14,631 I want them to finish 521 00:20:14,673 --> 00:20:16,299 working on the house... - Oh, it got me dirty. 522 00:20:16,341 --> 00:20:17,467 - ...while the kids are still in school. 523 00:20:17,509 --> 00:20:18,677 - Right. - Right. 524 00:20:18,718 --> 00:20:20,053 - Especially with Kamrynn's newfound asthma. 525 00:20:20,095 --> 00:20:21,262 - Uh-huh. - So, I don't want her 526 00:20:21,304 --> 00:20:22,514 around, like, dust and anything like that. 527 00:20:22,555 --> 00:20:23,932 - Yeah. - No. 528 00:20:23,973 --> 00:20:26,768 And speaking of kids, I was so disappointed 529 00:20:26,810 --> 00:20:29,646 when I didn't see your babies at Robyn's event. 530 00:20:29,688 --> 00:20:31,356 - Oh, okay, so this is my thing. 531 00:20:31,398 --> 00:20:34,526 She can't have Candiace reach out to me 532 00:20:34,567 --> 00:20:36,820 to invite my minor children. 533 00:20:36,861 --> 00:20:38,488 - Y'all wanna huddle? - I do wanna huddle. 534 00:20:38,530 --> 00:20:40,782 - My thing is, 535 00:20:40,824 --> 00:20:44,411 with you and Robyn being so emotional, 536 00:20:44,452 --> 00:20:46,830 until you put that emotion aside, 537 00:20:46,871 --> 00:20:49,332 you're not gonna get back to a good place. 538 00:20:49,374 --> 00:20:53,336 - Ahh! [laughing] 539 00:20:53,378 --> 00:20:55,005 - Yes! - It's the lottery! 540 00:20:55,046 --> 00:20:56,673 Bang, bang, bang! 541 00:20:56,715 --> 00:21:00,760 - I need her to sort of meet me halfway. 542 00:21:00,802 --> 00:21:04,222 In this group, we all have misconceptions of each other. 543 00:21:04,264 --> 00:21:05,432 - We do. 544 00:21:05,473 --> 00:21:07,976 - I feel like we should come together 545 00:21:08,018 --> 00:21:09,561 in a safe space. - Okay. 546 00:21:09,602 --> 00:21:12,897 - And air out our grievances with each other. 547 00:21:12,939 --> 00:21:15,900 At first, I was hurt by not being invited to family fun day, 548 00:21:15,942 --> 00:21:18,194 but I receive that I have the tendency 549 00:21:18,236 --> 00:21:19,654 to be condescending. 550 00:21:19,696 --> 00:21:21,281 - Why were you, last week, 551 00:21:21,322 --> 00:21:22,657 trying to put it on Robyn and Gizelle? 552 00:21:22,699 --> 00:21:23,783 "What did those two say?" 553 00:21:23,825 --> 00:21:25,535 When you had the same sentiment. 554 00:21:25,577 --> 00:21:26,619 - We don't have the same sentiment, 555 00:21:26,661 --> 00:21:27,620 so let's put that on the record. 556 00:21:27,662 --> 00:21:29,164 You called her a liar. 557 00:21:29,205 --> 00:21:30,707 - I can't speak for everybody, but a lot of the women 558 00:21:30,749 --> 00:21:33,084 feel like you're a condescending bitch. 559 00:21:33,126 --> 00:21:34,878 - You go into your mode, 560 00:21:34,919 --> 00:21:36,504 and you do these little eye things, 561 00:21:36,546 --> 00:21:37,964 and you do these gestures, you know, 562 00:21:38,006 --> 00:21:41,217 and I think that it's conveyed as being condescending, 563 00:21:41,259 --> 00:21:44,637 like-like you're not genuinely listening to the person. 564 00:21:44,679 --> 00:21:47,057 - If we come together and admit our faults, 565 00:21:47,098 --> 00:21:49,684 maybe we can move forward in a positive way. 566 00:21:49,726 --> 00:21:51,394 So, I was thinking about sending a text 567 00:21:51,436 --> 00:21:53,271 through our group text thread. - Uh-huh. 568 00:21:53,313 --> 00:21:54,606 - Well, maybe you should to it separately 569 00:21:54,647 --> 00:21:55,899 to Robyn and Gizelle. - This is a group. 570 00:21:55,940 --> 00:21:57,567 - No, I think-I think I'm gonna do a group one. 571 00:21:57,609 --> 00:21:58,818 - Mm-hmm. - You just want it to be a group. 572 00:21:58,860 --> 00:21:59,819 - 'Cause I want them to know that the language 573 00:21:59,861 --> 00:22:01,196 is the same for everyone. - Okay. 574 00:22:01,237 --> 00:22:02,655 - And I don't want them to read into the language. 575 00:22:02,697 --> 00:22:04,282 - Well, but the-the nature of your relationship 576 00:22:04,324 --> 00:22:05,492 is different with them than it is 577 00:22:05,533 --> 00:22:06,951 with the other ladies in the group. 578 00:22:06,993 --> 00:22:08,620 So, you-you know, maybe if you put a little more like, 579 00:22:08,661 --> 00:22:11,414 "I know that we are not on good terms, right now. 580 00:22:11,456 --> 00:22:13,124 I really do genuinely want us 581 00:22:13,166 --> 00:22:14,542 to try to get to a better place." 582 00:22:14,584 --> 00:22:17,128 - But I will include that as a general text. 583 00:22:17,170 --> 00:22:18,254 - Right, so-- - Right, 584 00:22:18,296 --> 00:22:19,547 but you may have to go a little further. 585 00:22:19,589 --> 00:22:21,424 - Like, no, I'm not. Like, stop. 586 00:22:21,466 --> 00:22:22,926 Like, you guys are putting too much on them. 587 00:22:22,967 --> 00:22:25,762 No, no. 588 00:22:25,804 --> 00:22:27,514 - All right, let's go. Okay, we ready? 589 00:22:27,555 --> 00:22:28,848 - Like, come on. Like, y'all are acting 590 00:22:28,890 --> 00:22:30,433 like they didn't just do somethin' to my kids. 591 00:22:30,475 --> 00:22:32,060 Like, no. - Ooh. 592 00:22:32,102 --> 00:22:34,437 - Y'all-y'all are lucky I'm even sending them anything. 593 00:22:34,479 --> 00:22:36,022 [sighs] - Oh. 594 00:22:36,064 --> 00:22:38,983 Yeah, but you're the one doing the inviting. 595 00:22:39,025 --> 00:22:40,485 Coming up next... 596 00:22:40,527 --> 00:22:42,028 Do you just wanna turn a blind eye? 597 00:22:42,070 --> 00:22:43,530 Because if that's the case, then just say so. 598 00:22:43,571 --> 00:22:44,364 Just say. - Well, I mean, you would know. 599 00:22:44,406 --> 00:22:45,240 - Just say. 600 00:22:45,281 --> 00:22:47,033 - Ooh. - Ooh. 601 00:22:52,372 --> 00:22:55,417 ** 602 00:22:59,879 --> 00:23:02,674 - Let's roll this knee. 603 00:23:04,384 --> 00:23:06,136 - It's like a massage. 604 00:23:06,177 --> 00:23:10,140 - Oh, like what you do for me for, like, two minutes. 605 00:23:10,181 --> 00:23:13,852 You gave me a back massage that turned into other things. 606 00:23:13,893 --> 00:23:15,270 - It's usually how that ends up. 607 00:23:15,311 --> 00:23:16,730 - You gave me a coochie massage. I wanted a back massage. 608 00:23:19,024 --> 00:23:20,483 - Hi. 609 00:23:20,525 --> 00:23:22,485 - Yes, eye patches. 610 00:23:22,527 --> 00:23:24,571 - I had to go into self-care mode. 611 00:23:24,612 --> 00:23:26,531 I cannot participate in wine time. 612 00:23:26,573 --> 00:23:27,866 I'm just gonna say. - Why? 613 00:23:27,907 --> 00:23:31,953 - Because I just recovered from a day-long migraine 614 00:23:31,995 --> 00:23:34,205 from drinking too much wine. - Oh, yeah. 615 00:23:34,247 --> 00:23:36,332 - But I'm gonna get y'all some glasses. 616 00:23:37,542 --> 00:23:39,002 Bow-bow-bow-bow. 617 00:23:39,044 --> 00:23:41,212 - Why didn't you put them in the Olivia Pope glasses? 618 00:23:41,254 --> 00:23:42,380 - Girl. - Right, exactly. 619 00:23:42,422 --> 00:23:43,548 - Chris, thank you. 620 00:23:43,590 --> 00:23:44,632 We're simple people. - We can drink-- 621 00:23:44,674 --> 00:23:46,217 drink from anything. 622 00:23:46,259 --> 00:23:47,218 Cheers, dears. 623 00:23:47,260 --> 00:23:49,095 - Cheers. 624 00:23:49,137 --> 00:23:52,724 - So, um, you know I'm doing a re-release of "Deep Space," 625 00:23:52,766 --> 00:23:54,559 like a deluxe version. - Right. 626 00:23:54,601 --> 00:23:57,562 - And I recorded a bunch of new songs. 627 00:23:57,604 --> 00:23:59,939 - Right. - And we've chosen a single. 628 00:23:59,981 --> 00:24:02,442 - Okay. - It's called "Insecure," 629 00:24:02,484 --> 00:24:08,114 and Trina agreed to do the feature. 630 00:24:11,534 --> 00:24:12,786 - Who? 631 00:24:12,827 --> 00:24:14,204 - You don't know who the baddest bitch is? 632 00:24:14,245 --> 00:24:15,789 - If it's not Beyonce, I can't tell you who is singing. 633 00:24:15,830 --> 00:24:17,874 [Laughing] - I cannot. 634 00:24:17,916 --> 00:24:20,085 Just so raggedy. - Chris, stop judging me. 635 00:24:20,126 --> 00:24:24,673 - I'm excited to give my listeners new music, 636 00:24:24,714 --> 00:24:26,925 but I'm not ready quite yet 637 00:24:26,966 --> 00:24:29,260 to just put "Deep Space" on the shelf. 638 00:24:29,302 --> 00:24:30,470 So, what do you do? 639 00:24:30,512 --> 00:24:34,057 You do a "Deep Space" deluxe featuring Trina. 640 00:24:34,099 --> 00:24:37,268 I feel like I'm the baddest bitch over here. 641 00:24:37,310 --> 00:24:38,687 - Wow. - And she agreed 642 00:24:38,728 --> 00:24:40,271 to do the music video, so we're gonna do a video. 643 00:24:40,313 --> 00:24:41,940 - Wow! 644 00:24:41,981 --> 00:24:44,317 - I didn't believe it until her team 645 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,153 sent over the contract, and I was like, what? 646 00:24:47,195 --> 00:24:51,449 So, yeah, but-- so, we got an invite. 647 00:24:51,491 --> 00:24:52,826 - Who is "we?" 648 00:24:52,867 --> 00:24:54,703 - The girls, not you. - Oh, good. 649 00:24:54,744 --> 00:24:56,204 - Wendy sent us this. 650 00:24:56,246 --> 00:24:58,415 "Hi, ladies, I know some of us are not 651 00:24:58,456 --> 00:25:00,166 in the best place, at the moment. 652 00:25:00,208 --> 00:25:02,627 I'd like to invite you all to, quote, 653 00:25:02,669 --> 00:25:05,630 "'The Burn Session,'" with a fire emoji. 654 00:25:05,672 --> 00:25:07,340 "This will be a safe space where we can each 655 00:25:07,382 --> 00:25:10,301 speak uninterrupted," lies, "And from the heart." 656 00:25:10,343 --> 00:25:11,511 [laughing] - Right. 657 00:25:11,553 --> 00:25:13,471 - "We will, in turn, receive what was said 658 00:25:13,513 --> 00:25:14,806 from a place of love. 659 00:25:14,848 --> 00:25:16,725 - It sounds like it has good intentions 660 00:25:16,766 --> 00:25:19,519 to get some stuff off your chest. 661 00:25:19,561 --> 00:25:21,104 - But for it to have good intentions, 662 00:25:21,146 --> 00:25:23,523 everyone has to have good intentions. 663 00:25:23,565 --> 00:25:24,899 - And everybody does not. 664 00:25:24,941 --> 00:25:27,152 What in the mean girls is going on? 665 00:25:27,193 --> 00:25:29,279 Burn each other's edges 'cause that's what's gonna happen. 666 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,532 What's also just weird, 667 00:25:32,574 --> 00:25:35,160 is that Ashley was over here. 668 00:25:35,201 --> 00:25:36,786 - This sounds like a girl conversation. 669 00:25:36,828 --> 00:25:38,246 I'll let you guys talk about Ashley. 670 00:25:38,288 --> 00:25:39,706 [laughing] 671 00:25:39,748 --> 00:25:44,419 - I do not want to have beef with anyone, 672 00:25:44,461 --> 00:25:46,713 especially not Ashley. - Right. 673 00:25:46,755 --> 00:25:47,672 - Like, her divorce is, like-- 674 00:25:47,714 --> 00:25:49,799 - I saw on Twitter. 675 00:25:49,841 --> 00:25:51,676 I mean, honestly, good for her. 676 00:25:51,718 --> 00:25:53,136 Like-- - That's what I said. 677 00:25:53,178 --> 00:25:56,473 Go out here and be a ho-ho safely. 678 00:25:56,514 --> 00:25:58,516 [laughing] 679 00:25:58,558 --> 00:26:07,192 ** 680 00:26:08,443 --> 00:26:09,903 - Okay. 681 00:26:09,944 --> 00:26:11,738 So, I can drink a bottle of water in an hour. 682 00:26:11,780 --> 00:26:14,783 Kidney stones are real, okay? 683 00:26:14,824 --> 00:26:16,701 - Is it uncomfortable? 684 00:26:16,743 --> 00:26:18,870 - Oh, honey, ha-ha-ha. 685 00:26:18,912 --> 00:26:20,330 As a woman who has had three children, 686 00:26:20,372 --> 00:26:23,291 I would say it's the closest thing to childbirth. 687 00:26:23,333 --> 00:26:24,542 - What causes them? 688 00:26:24,584 --> 00:26:27,045 - They think this one is because of lack of water 689 00:26:27,087 --> 00:26:28,588 because I've been ripping and running. 690 00:26:28,630 --> 00:26:30,340 I'm not going to take in water 691 00:26:30,382 --> 00:26:32,676 because I need to use a frickin' bathroom. 692 00:26:32,717 --> 00:26:36,888 Kidney stones is something I have struggled with for years. 693 00:26:36,930 --> 00:26:40,058 I told you I have, um, kidney stones. 694 00:26:40,100 --> 00:26:41,851 - That's right. Chris has them. 695 00:26:41,893 --> 00:26:43,061 - Does he? - I kept one. 696 00:26:43,103 --> 00:26:45,105 He passed one half the size of this olive. 697 00:26:45,146 --> 00:26:46,690 - Whoa! 698 00:26:46,731 --> 00:26:48,108 - Wendy, I mean, it's no good booking all these gigs and stuff 699 00:26:48,149 --> 00:26:51,361 if, you know, if you're gonna be in all this pain. 700 00:26:51,403 --> 00:26:53,363 - I am juggling the kids, 701 00:26:53,405 --> 00:26:56,282 I'm looking at the potential of a new restaurant, 702 00:26:56,324 --> 00:26:57,867 and I'm still teaching 703 00:26:57,909 --> 00:26:59,619 and doing my political commentary. 704 00:26:59,661 --> 00:27:01,621 I have so much on my plate. 705 00:27:01,663 --> 00:27:03,289 - Did you see the text from Karen? 706 00:27:03,331 --> 00:27:04,541 - What'd she say? 707 00:27:04,582 --> 00:27:05,792 - "I'm with Gizelle, Robyn, Candiace, and Mia. 708 00:27:05,834 --> 00:27:07,919 We are on the way. See you soon." 709 00:27:07,961 --> 00:27:09,629 - I hope you like the sprinter I got ya. 710 00:27:09,671 --> 00:27:11,506 ** 711 00:27:11,548 --> 00:27:12,590 - Hi. - Hi. 712 00:27:12,632 --> 00:27:14,384 - Hi, Robyn. Come on in. - How are you? 713 00:27:14,426 --> 00:27:17,929 - Top knot action, so cute. - Oh, yeah. 714 00:27:17,971 --> 00:27:19,931 Yeah, I'm only here to be nosey. 715 00:27:19,973 --> 00:27:22,183 - Good morn'ting. - Good morning, Gizelle. 716 00:27:22,225 --> 00:27:24,519 - Who is gettin' drunk today? 717 00:27:24,561 --> 00:27:26,229 - Hi. 718 00:27:26,271 --> 00:27:28,773 - Yesterday, Robyn told me she wasn't coming. 719 00:27:28,815 --> 00:27:29,941 - Okay. 720 00:27:29,983 --> 00:27:31,067 - So, I'm just happy to see her. - I said-- 721 00:27:31,109 --> 00:27:33,319 - I didn't think any of y'all would come 722 00:27:33,361 --> 00:27:35,905 because nobody responded. - I know. I know. 723 00:27:35,947 --> 00:27:37,198 It's the fakest invitation I've ever seen. 724 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:38,950 - Yeah. - I had a hard time. 725 00:27:38,992 --> 00:27:42,037 - Considering that I'm not in the best place 726 00:27:42,078 --> 00:27:45,331 with some of the women I think it's good for us 727 00:27:45,373 --> 00:27:46,708 to come separately. 728 00:27:46,750 --> 00:27:48,460 That way, we can hash out all our issues 729 00:27:48,501 --> 00:27:51,921 once we're at the burn session, not while we're in the van. 730 00:27:53,006 --> 00:27:54,382 Are you a wine drinker? 731 00:27:54,424 --> 00:27:55,592 - I am. - You are? 732 00:27:55,633 --> 00:27:57,052 - You know, I've been trying to be sober. 733 00:27:57,093 --> 00:27:59,054 Not-- it's not been working, especially going through 734 00:27:59,095 --> 00:28:00,472 a difficult time in my life. 735 00:28:00,513 --> 00:28:02,223 It's just not reality sustainable for me. 736 00:28:02,265 --> 00:28:04,976 - Mm-hmm. At least you, um, understand that. 737 00:28:05,018 --> 00:28:06,644 - Yeah. I mean, you have to have grace with yourself, 738 00:28:06,686 --> 00:28:08,146 and I hope that you do, too. 739 00:28:08,188 --> 00:28:11,775 - I feel like our world has glorified 740 00:28:11,816 --> 00:28:13,068 being booked and busy. 741 00:28:13,109 --> 00:28:15,987 And before, I was not necessarily okay with it, 742 00:28:16,029 --> 00:28:17,155 I knew something had to change, 743 00:28:17,197 --> 00:28:19,491 but it wasn't a top priority for me. 744 00:28:19,532 --> 00:28:21,159 Two days ago, I got a call. 745 00:28:21,201 --> 00:28:22,744 My mom was rushed to the hospital. 746 00:28:22,786 --> 00:28:23,953 - Oh, no. 747 00:28:23,995 --> 00:28:25,538 - And so... 748 00:28:28,500 --> 00:28:29,501 I'm a mama's girl, 749 00:28:29,542 --> 00:28:31,878 so I don't wanna get emotional but... 750 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:33,963 My mom went to a routine doctor's appointment. 751 00:28:34,005 --> 00:28:35,465 They did some labs on her. 752 00:28:35,507 --> 00:28:38,760 Certain things were elevated, so they admitted her. 753 00:28:38,802 --> 00:28:42,138 In that moment, a light bulb went off, 754 00:28:42,180 --> 00:28:45,266 and I realized if I don't take care of myself, 755 00:28:45,308 --> 00:28:48,311 in 30 years, I'm going to be my mom. 756 00:28:48,353 --> 00:28:50,772 - Yeah. 757 00:28:50,814 --> 00:28:52,649 Coming up next... 758 00:28:52,691 --> 00:28:56,027 A friend was at the spring party, 759 00:28:56,069 --> 00:28:58,363 and she said that, you know, 760 00:28:58,405 --> 00:29:00,532 Chris was being a little bit flirty with her. 761 00:29:00,573 --> 00:29:02,325 ** 762 00:29:06,413 --> 00:29:07,580 [thunder] 763 00:29:20,301 --> 00:29:22,887 - This is beautiful. I love. 764 00:29:22,929 --> 00:29:24,139 You-you got the umbrella? - Yeah, girl. 765 00:29:24,180 --> 00:29:25,807 - 'Cause the way this weather is weathering... 766 00:29:27,517 --> 00:29:29,978 - Oh, Lord. 767 00:29:30,020 --> 00:29:31,938 Well, welcome to the vineyard. 768 00:29:31,980 --> 00:29:33,857 - Hello. Welcome, ladies. - Hi. How are you? 769 00:29:33,898 --> 00:29:35,191 - How are you? Welcome to Bluemont. 770 00:29:35,233 --> 00:29:36,443 - Oh, thank you so much. 771 00:29:36,484 --> 00:29:39,154 So, I have reservations for Osefo. 772 00:29:39,195 --> 00:29:40,572 - Right this way. - Thank you so much. 773 00:29:40,613 --> 00:29:43,408 - Right up the stairs. - This is so cute. 774 00:29:43,450 --> 00:29:45,660 - Right this way, ladies. - Aww. 775 00:29:45,702 --> 00:29:47,120 This is so nice. 776 00:29:47,162 --> 00:29:48,455 Hi. - Hi. How are you? 777 00:29:48,496 --> 00:29:50,498 - We're super excited to be here. 778 00:29:50,540 --> 00:29:52,584 - Do you guys want some bubbles or anything to start? 779 00:29:52,625 --> 00:29:53,918 - What's that-- - I'll go with the flow. 780 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,003 - Come here. Come here. 781 00:29:55,045 --> 00:29:57,964 - Okay, he got somethin' special for you. 782 00:29:58,006 --> 00:29:59,049 ** 783 00:29:59,090 --> 00:30:00,717 - Oh, are we here? 784 00:30:00,759 --> 00:30:02,552 - I hope so. - Looks like it. 785 00:30:02,594 --> 00:30:06,848 I'm on a ashy-ass party bus from 1985. 786 00:30:06,890 --> 00:30:07,932 - Let me go and jump in the fire 787 00:30:07,974 --> 00:30:10,560 and get burnt by a person who hates me. 788 00:30:10,602 --> 00:30:11,936 - We've been in this bus for several hours, 789 00:30:11,978 --> 00:30:14,147 and I'm hungry. 790 00:30:15,774 --> 00:30:18,318 - Here we go, ladies. 791 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:21,488 - Thank you. - Watch your step, please. 792 00:30:22,489 --> 00:30:24,574 [laughing] 793 00:30:24,616 --> 00:30:25,992 - Thank you very much. 794 00:30:26,034 --> 00:30:28,203 We all know what happens 795 00:30:28,244 --> 00:30:32,415 when you send wild boars to wineries. 796 00:30:32,457 --> 00:30:33,750 - Uh-uh! Uh-uh! Uh-uh! - Do you want me to? 797 00:30:33,792 --> 00:30:36,836 Do you want me to? - Monique! Come on, Monique! 798 00:30:36,878 --> 00:30:37,837 - Get off of me. 799 00:30:37,879 --> 00:30:39,047 - What the (BLEEP) just happened? 800 00:30:39,089 --> 00:30:40,298 - Y'all better not bring her around me. 801 00:30:40,340 --> 00:30:41,466 I'm gonna kill her. - Okay, let's go. 802 00:30:41,508 --> 00:30:44,594 - So, why, Wendy, would you subject me 803 00:30:44,636 --> 00:30:46,304 and my magical blackness 804 00:30:46,346 --> 00:30:49,182 to another winery situation? 805 00:30:49,224 --> 00:30:51,309 Disaster is afoot. 806 00:30:51,351 --> 00:30:54,771 - Here we are. We're at the vineyard. 807 00:30:54,813 --> 00:30:56,106 - I'm just ready to eat. 808 00:30:56,147 --> 00:30:57,524 - Welcome. 809 00:30:57,565 --> 00:30:59,150 - Hi. Hey, Ash. - Hello. What's going on? 810 00:30:59,192 --> 00:31:02,737 - You look so-- - Hey, guys. Hi. 811 00:31:02,779 --> 00:31:04,864 - Hello. - Welcome, welcome. 812 00:31:04,906 --> 00:31:07,325 Welcome, everyone. Welcome to burn. 813 00:31:07,367 --> 00:31:08,493 - I don't wanna burn. 814 00:31:08,535 --> 00:31:09,828 - Let's enjoy some champagne. 815 00:31:09,869 --> 00:31:11,788 - Um, ladies, everyone can have a-a glass of this 816 00:31:11,830 --> 00:31:12,956 and then can have a seat. 817 00:31:12,997 --> 00:31:15,750 There are no assigned seats. 818 00:31:17,043 --> 00:31:18,336 - All right, ladies. Welcome to Bluemont. 819 00:31:18,378 --> 00:31:20,046 There's some menus on the table. 820 00:31:20,088 --> 00:31:21,297 - Okay. - So, take a minute 821 00:31:21,339 --> 00:31:22,340 to look at that. - We-we can do it, right now. 822 00:31:22,382 --> 00:31:23,508 - Yes. - You tell me, girl. 823 00:31:23,550 --> 00:31:24,884 - Okay. All right. - Two of each flatbread, 824 00:31:24,926 --> 00:31:26,845 spinach dip. - Okay. 825 00:31:26,886 --> 00:31:28,430 - Crab dip. - Yes, ma'am. 826 00:31:28,471 --> 00:31:29,681 - And can we get the cheese, the cheese plate? 827 00:31:29,723 --> 00:31:31,057 - Yeah, cheese board. - I want the baked brie. 828 00:31:31,099 --> 00:31:32,183 - Baked brie. - Yes. Mm-hmm. 829 00:31:32,225 --> 00:31:33,018 - The brie, yeah. - All right. 830 00:31:33,059 --> 00:31:35,311 I'll be right back, ladies. 831 00:31:35,353 --> 00:31:39,649 - Um, Ashley, the memes about your separation 832 00:31:39,691 --> 00:31:42,527 has gotten outta hand on the internet. 833 00:31:43,403 --> 00:31:45,655 - I know. - Are you okay? 834 00:31:45,697 --> 00:31:48,283 - It is nice to know that, you know, people support me. 835 00:31:48,324 --> 00:31:49,951 - Yeah. - Just not really at the expense 836 00:31:49,993 --> 00:31:51,244 of the father of my children, is all. 837 00:31:51,286 --> 00:31:52,579 - Right. - One hundred percent. 838 00:31:52,620 --> 00:31:54,247 - He's not really being communicative, right now. 839 00:31:54,289 --> 00:31:55,999 He Facetimed the kids yesterday. 840 00:31:56,041 --> 00:31:57,334 - Okay. - And then once-- 841 00:31:57,375 --> 00:31:58,793 once the kids walked away, he hung up the phone. 842 00:31:58,835 --> 00:32:01,004 - This is tough now that it's out there in the world, 843 00:32:01,046 --> 00:32:02,088 in social media and all that. 844 00:32:02,130 --> 00:32:03,882 I get it. - It's a very tough spot. 845 00:32:03,923 --> 00:32:06,092 - Listen, the trolls are trolling that Michael Darby, 846 00:32:06,134 --> 00:32:07,969 and I'm not really mad at 'em, 847 00:32:08,011 --> 00:32:10,221 but I've been there. 848 00:32:10,263 --> 00:32:12,349 It's just not a good feeling to know everybody thinks 849 00:32:12,390 --> 00:32:14,809 your husband is a creep. 850 00:32:14,851 --> 00:32:16,895 - So, tell us. What exactly is a burn session? 851 00:32:16,936 --> 00:32:18,271 - Okay, okay. 852 00:32:18,313 --> 00:32:19,647 - I'm not sure what I signed up for. 853 00:32:19,689 --> 00:32:24,152 - So, chile, you're gonna each get a notebook, 854 00:32:24,194 --> 00:32:26,446 and then whoever is in the hotseat, 855 00:32:26,488 --> 00:32:28,782 you write down whatever you have to say to them. 856 00:32:28,823 --> 00:32:31,743 You tell them what you have to say about them 857 00:32:31,785 --> 00:32:34,788 and then take the paper. 858 00:32:34,829 --> 00:32:35,955 You burn it. 859 00:32:35,997 --> 00:32:37,957 - So, the person who is being spoken to-- 860 00:32:37,999 --> 00:32:38,958 - Mm-hmm. 861 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:39,959 - Are they allowed to speak back? 862 00:32:40,001 --> 00:32:41,044 - Yes. - They are, 863 00:32:41,086 --> 00:32:43,838 but the real goal is to take ownership 864 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,049 of what was perceived. 865 00:32:46,091 --> 00:32:47,717 - I've known Wendy for two years, 866 00:32:47,759 --> 00:32:50,345 and she's never been accountable for anything. 867 00:32:50,387 --> 00:32:52,639 - What's so funny, the life you're living now, 868 00:32:52,681 --> 00:32:54,557 is exactly God paying you back 869 00:32:54,599 --> 00:32:56,601 for all the bullsh-- you've done. 870 00:32:56,643 --> 00:32:59,354 With the couples trip, Eddie is gonna be there, 871 00:32:59,396 --> 00:33:02,649 and your pa-- your luggage is gonna be there. 872 00:33:02,691 --> 00:33:03,817 - Ahh! 873 00:33:03,858 --> 00:33:05,819 - If, Wendy, you're going to be accountable 874 00:33:05,860 --> 00:33:09,656 for your past transgressions, I'm all ears. 875 00:33:12,283 --> 00:33:14,285 [crickets chirping] 876 00:33:14,327 --> 00:33:15,662 - It takes two people to tango. 877 00:33:15,704 --> 00:33:17,914 She needs to take ownership, too. 878 00:33:17,956 --> 00:33:19,582 - There is a rumor out. 879 00:33:19,624 --> 00:33:22,502 It's-- it was very much, like, supposedly, 880 00:33:22,544 --> 00:33:24,629 Eddie has a girlfriend or somethin'. 881 00:33:27,007 --> 00:33:28,049 - I have some table side service with flatbreads for ya. 882 00:33:28,091 --> 00:33:29,759 - That is so nice. Thank you so much. 883 00:33:29,801 --> 00:33:31,761 - Thank you. 884 00:33:31,803 --> 00:33:33,930 - And we're gonna pass around the papers and a pen. 885 00:33:33,972 --> 00:33:35,140 - Okay. - Take one. 886 00:33:35,181 --> 00:33:36,266 Pass it down. 887 00:33:36,307 --> 00:33:38,727 I like theatrics. 888 00:33:38,768 --> 00:33:40,020 The burn session 889 00:33:40,061 --> 00:33:42,022 is about to commence. - Goodbye. 890 00:33:42,063 --> 00:33:43,148 - Okay. 891 00:33:43,189 --> 00:33:46,860 - So, first in the hotseat will be me. 892 00:33:46,901 --> 00:33:48,111 - Okay. 893 00:33:48,153 --> 00:33:50,071 - Since we don't want this to be a pile on, 894 00:33:50,113 --> 00:33:51,698 I will add a extra layer. 895 00:33:51,740 --> 00:33:55,285 If you don't feel as though you have something bad to say, 896 00:33:55,326 --> 00:33:58,455 you can speak positivity into them or thank them 897 00:33:58,496 --> 00:34:01,207 for something they have done for you in your life. 898 00:34:01,249 --> 00:34:02,625 - Yeah, I got nothin' nice to say, 899 00:34:02,667 --> 00:34:04,878 so I'd rather just not say anything. 900 00:34:04,919 --> 00:34:06,296 - Okay. So, I'll start. - Okay, thank you. 901 00:34:06,338 --> 00:34:08,173 - So, while I've wanted to be close to you 902 00:34:08,214 --> 00:34:09,549 and develop a friendship with you, 903 00:34:09,591 --> 00:34:12,052 I've always felt like you had, like, a barrier up. 904 00:34:12,093 --> 00:34:13,345 - Mm-hmm. 905 00:34:13,386 --> 00:34:15,221 - But I feel like today we've penetrated that 906 00:34:15,263 --> 00:34:16,473 a little bit. - Aww. 907 00:34:16,514 --> 00:34:18,683 - My affirmation for you, is that you continue 908 00:34:18,725 --> 00:34:21,227 on this journey to be open. - Hmm. 909 00:34:21,269 --> 00:34:22,771 - And you really help your friends 910 00:34:22,812 --> 00:34:26,107 to feel close to you and heard by you. 911 00:34:26,149 --> 00:34:27,901 - Aww. 912 00:34:27,942 --> 00:34:29,569 Candiace, go. 913 00:34:29,611 --> 00:34:31,071 - Okay, so, I didn't write anything down 914 00:34:31,112 --> 00:34:33,573 because you're my friend. I can say this from the heart. 915 00:34:33,615 --> 00:34:34,741 - Aww. 916 00:34:34,783 --> 00:34:38,495 - So, I met you, and I recognized your wall 917 00:34:38,536 --> 00:34:43,416 because I can have a wall, but I will say that, this year, 918 00:34:43,458 --> 00:34:46,920 you, for whatever reason, have opened up more. 919 00:34:46,961 --> 00:34:49,964 You are trusting us, 920 00:34:50,006 --> 00:34:51,383 some of us. - Mm-hmm. 921 00:34:51,424 --> 00:34:54,260 - And my affirmation for you would be (BLEEP) bitches. 922 00:34:54,302 --> 00:34:55,387 Get money. That's it. - Hello. 923 00:34:55,428 --> 00:34:57,097 Okay, Karen, go. - All right. 924 00:34:57,138 --> 00:34:58,598 So, Wendy, I'm gonna stay seated. 925 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,266 You and I started off on a rocky path. 926 00:35:00,308 --> 00:35:01,434 - Yes. 927 00:35:01,476 --> 00:35:02,602 - Dr. Wendy was in the room. 928 00:35:02,644 --> 00:35:03,728 That's what she calls herself, right? 929 00:35:03,770 --> 00:35:05,438 So, I'm like, doctor of what? 930 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,691 - You were talking about me being a doctor 931 00:35:07,732 --> 00:35:10,610 and mimicking me, and you don't even have one degree. 932 00:35:10,652 --> 00:35:12,487 - But we've made so much progress. 933 00:35:12,529 --> 00:35:14,447 So, yeah, continued growth to you. 934 00:35:14,489 --> 00:35:16,116 - Thank you, Karen. - Amen. 935 00:35:16,157 --> 00:35:17,617 - Mm-hmm. - So, so, mine, 936 00:35:17,659 --> 00:35:19,119 you might wanna burn. - That's fine. Go ahead. 937 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,413 - Okay. 938 00:35:21,454 --> 00:35:22,539 Well, I mean, here's the thing. 939 00:35:22,580 --> 00:35:25,542 Sometimes you are very dismissive. 940 00:35:25,583 --> 00:35:26,793 - Thank you. Thank you. - A real friend woulda told her 941 00:35:26,835 --> 00:35:28,628 that her mom was the one being messy. 942 00:35:28,670 --> 00:35:31,631 - Um, are you talking? Shut up. 943 00:35:31,673 --> 00:35:35,385 - I am proud of you for hosting this situation 944 00:35:35,427 --> 00:35:37,971 because until today, 945 00:35:38,013 --> 00:35:40,432 I felt like there was no self-accountability. 946 00:35:40,473 --> 00:35:42,017 - Mmm. - So, I'm not-- 947 00:35:42,058 --> 00:35:43,893 I'm not gonna be shady, but I'm just gonna burn this 948 00:35:43,935 --> 00:35:45,395 'cause we gotta burn it down. - Go for it. Go for it. 949 00:35:45,437 --> 00:35:46,312 - All right. 950 00:35:46,354 --> 00:35:48,773 - I really do wanna like her. 951 00:35:48,815 --> 00:35:51,317 She's just really hard to ----in' like, 952 00:35:51,359 --> 00:35:53,278 and I think she's gonna receive it 953 00:35:53,319 --> 00:35:54,529 because she wants friends. 954 00:35:54,571 --> 00:35:56,114 - Oh, look at that. 955 00:35:56,156 --> 00:35:58,992 * Ahh * 956 00:35:59,034 --> 00:36:00,201 Robyn. 957 00:36:00,243 --> 00:36:02,829 - Um, so, honestly, at this point, 958 00:36:02,871 --> 00:36:05,999 we are oil and water, and I am fine with that. 959 00:36:07,334 --> 00:36:08,668 - Okay. 960 00:36:08,710 --> 00:36:11,463 - So... - Gizelle, your turn. 961 00:36:11,504 --> 00:36:12,672 - Ditto that. 962 00:36:12,714 --> 00:36:15,050 Um, also a little bit of a ditto with Mia. 963 00:36:15,091 --> 00:36:19,721 It's like, uh, you went on a Gizelle "I hate" train 964 00:36:19,763 --> 00:36:20,764 for a year. 965 00:36:20,805 --> 00:36:23,058 Then you see me and try to hug me, 966 00:36:23,099 --> 00:36:24,517 very fake and phonily. 967 00:36:24,559 --> 00:36:25,560 - Hi, Gizelle. You look beautiful. 968 00:36:25,602 --> 00:36:26,728 - No. No, thank you. No, thank you. 969 00:36:26,770 --> 00:36:27,771 - How are you doin'? - No hugs. No hugs. 970 00:36:27,812 --> 00:36:29,189 - How you doin'? - Oh, I'm beautiful. 971 00:36:29,230 --> 00:36:30,023 - Good. 972 00:36:30,065 --> 00:36:32,067 - So, I'm good on you. 973 00:36:32,108 --> 00:36:33,360 - Okay. - Do you hear that? 974 00:36:33,401 --> 00:36:35,945 - I heard everything you said. 975 00:36:35,987 --> 00:36:41,409 With Robyn, you said that "we are oil and vinegar." 976 00:36:41,451 --> 00:36:42,702 - Water. - Water. 977 00:36:42,744 --> 00:36:43,703 - Oil and vinegar go together. - Oh, oh, okay. 978 00:36:43,745 --> 00:36:44,996 - Oil and water. - Oh, okay, sorry. 979 00:36:45,038 --> 00:36:50,168 So, I own the role I played in making you feel 980 00:36:50,210 --> 00:36:52,379 as though we are oil and water. 981 00:36:52,420 --> 00:36:53,880 - Well, okay, yes. Can I say-- 982 00:36:53,922 --> 00:36:56,174 I just wanna say, 'cause Robyn has been specific 983 00:36:56,216 --> 00:36:58,510 with the ways that she feels 984 00:36:58,551 --> 00:36:59,552 she was hurt by you. - Oh, wait. 985 00:36:59,594 --> 00:37:00,970 I can only speak to this, though. 986 00:37:01,012 --> 00:37:02,097 - Well, okay. So, and that-- - Don't nobody got time 987 00:37:02,138 --> 00:37:03,890 to be writing a soliloquy and a sermon. 988 00:37:03,932 --> 00:37:05,433 - But-but, Robyn, you-- - You know what you did to her. 989 00:37:05,475 --> 00:37:07,227 - Robyn, you say-- - Good God! 990 00:37:07,268 --> 00:37:08,728 - Okay. - Just speak on it. 991 00:37:08,770 --> 00:37:11,064 She said you're gonna own what you did. 992 00:37:11,106 --> 00:37:12,524 What'd you do? 993 00:37:12,565 --> 00:37:14,025 - Well, she needs to tell her. - She needs to tell me. 994 00:37:14,067 --> 00:37:16,444 - Please don't tell anyone I tried to fight you anymore, 995 00:37:16,486 --> 00:37:18,446 because that is not who I am. 996 00:37:18,488 --> 00:37:19,406 - I heard that you said you felt like 997 00:37:19,447 --> 00:37:20,573 Robyn was trying to fight you. 998 00:37:20,615 --> 00:37:22,033 - She was approaching me, 999 00:37:22,075 --> 00:37:24,077 and if you approach me to the extent 1000 00:37:24,119 --> 00:37:26,913 that someone has to physically restrain you, 1001 00:37:26,955 --> 00:37:27,956 then yeah. 1002 00:37:27,997 --> 00:37:29,332 - Please be careful in your words, 1003 00:37:29,374 --> 00:37:30,709 because that is dangerous. 1004 00:37:30,750 --> 00:37:32,252 - It's dangerous for you-- - You're-you're paint-- 1005 00:37:32,293 --> 00:37:33,503 - To be held back. - You're painting me as a thug. 1006 00:37:33,545 --> 00:37:35,714 I was not held back. - You were held back. 1007 00:37:35,755 --> 00:37:37,590 Maybe you were so drunk you don't remember. 1008 00:37:37,632 --> 00:37:38,925 - I was not held back. - She was not. 1009 00:37:38,967 --> 00:37:41,177 - Okay. So, we are going to move forward. 1010 00:37:41,219 --> 00:37:42,554 - Why are we moving forward? 1011 00:37:42,595 --> 00:37:44,014 - Let us move on to Ashley. - Nobody had to-- 1012 00:37:44,055 --> 00:37:46,057 - But let's just-- let's just dispel that one at least. 1013 00:37:46,099 --> 00:37:47,642 - I'm not gonna dispel it, 'cause that's my truth 1014 00:37:47,684 --> 00:37:48,727 to talk about. - No, that is not your truth! 1015 00:37:48,768 --> 00:37:49,894 - That's my truth. - It's a lie. 1016 00:37:49,936 --> 00:37:52,063 No one had to touch me. I'm not a thug. 1017 00:37:52,105 --> 00:37:54,232 I don't put my hands on people. - No one called you a thug. 1018 00:37:54,274 --> 00:37:55,608 - You are projecting on yourself. 1019 00:37:55,650 --> 00:37:57,027 - I'm telling you-- - Okay. 1020 00:37:57,068 --> 00:37:58,319 - By you telling people-- - So, what I'm going to do-- 1021 00:37:58,361 --> 00:37:59,612 - That I tried to fight you-- - Is you're next. 1022 00:37:59,654 --> 00:38:00,280 - That's painting me as a thug. - You're next. 1023 00:38:00,321 --> 00:38:01,489 - Hold on. I need-- 1024 00:38:01,531 --> 00:38:02,449 I need a moment. - Charrisse is on the phone. 1025 00:38:02,490 --> 00:38:03,783 - I need everyone to be quiet. 1026 00:38:03,825 --> 00:38:06,578 Charrisse? - Yes, love. 1027 00:38:06,619 --> 00:38:09,289 - At the dance studio, 1028 00:38:09,330 --> 00:38:11,541 did you put one finger on me 1029 00:38:11,583 --> 00:38:14,085 to prevent me from touching Wendy? 1030 00:38:15,712 --> 00:38:17,630 - Stand ten toes down. - Give me something. 1031 00:38:17,672 --> 00:38:19,090 - Everything I say-- - I'm standing. 1032 00:38:19,132 --> 00:38:20,675 - I stand on. period. - I'm standing on it. 1033 00:38:20,717 --> 00:38:22,135 - I'm sittin'-- - I'm standing on it. 1034 00:38:22,177 --> 00:38:23,511 and I still stand on it. - Okay, please, no. No, no, no. 1035 00:38:23,553 --> 00:38:24,554 - I'm standing on it! - What you're not gonna do-- 1036 00:38:24,596 --> 00:38:25,847 what you're not gonna do-- - No, no. 1037 00:38:25,889 --> 00:38:26,014 No, we're gonna sit down. - I'm standing on it. 1038 00:38:30,352 --> 00:38:32,062 - No. - Thank you. 1039 00:38:32,103 --> 00:38:33,772 I love you, too. Bye. 1040 00:38:33,813 --> 00:38:35,106 - So, why the lies? 1041 00:38:35,148 --> 00:38:37,275 - My truth, your truth. - The lies! 1042 00:38:37,317 --> 00:38:38,526 She just said-- - No. 1043 00:38:38,568 --> 00:38:40,195 - She didn't touch Robyn! - You are horrible! 1044 00:38:40,236 --> 00:38:41,571 You are hor-ri-ble! 1045 00:38:41,613 --> 00:38:42,489 - Why are you yelling? 1046 00:38:42,530 --> 00:38:43,740 - Because you are horrible! 1047 00:38:43,782 --> 00:38:44,991 - You-- maybe you should control your emotions. 1048 00:38:45,033 --> 00:38:46,034 - Because I don't-- I don't give a (BLEEP)! 1049 00:38:46,076 --> 00:38:47,369 [laughing] I don't give a (BLEEP)! 1050 00:38:47,410 --> 00:38:48,995 I don't give a (BLEEP)! I don't give a (BLEEP)! 1051 00:38:49,037 --> 00:38:54,876 ** 1052 00:38:58,838 --> 00:39:00,632 - You are hor-ri-ble! 1053 00:39:00,674 --> 00:39:01,883 - Maybe you should control your emotions. 1054 00:39:01,925 --> 00:39:03,218 - I don't give a (BLEEP)! [laughter] 1055 00:39:03,259 --> 00:39:04,177 I don't give a (BLEEP)! I don't give a (BLEEP)! 1056 00:39:04,219 --> 00:39:07,681 I don't give a (BLEEP)! I'm out. 1057 00:39:07,722 --> 00:39:09,891 - Robyn, if I knew your middle name, Dixon. 1058 00:39:09,933 --> 00:39:11,101 - I said what I had to say. 1059 00:39:11,142 --> 00:39:13,353 This is some phony-ass bullsh--. 1060 00:39:15,063 --> 00:39:17,816 She literally brought us here 1061 00:39:17,857 --> 00:39:20,652 on the strength of wanting to get to a better place, 1062 00:39:20,694 --> 00:39:21,903 and the fact that 1063 00:39:21,945 --> 00:39:23,905 she still wants to try to prove me wrong, 1064 00:39:23,947 --> 00:39:26,700 like, there's no moving forward here. 1065 00:39:26,741 --> 00:39:28,076 - I don't see why Robyn got up. 1066 00:39:28,118 --> 00:39:31,788 It's sorta broken, what you tried to attempt here. 1067 00:39:31,830 --> 00:39:33,039 - If she's in her feelings 1068 00:39:33,081 --> 00:39:34,582 and doesn't want to deal with phony, fake sh--, 1069 00:39:34,624 --> 00:39:35,875 then she can-- then she can step-- 1070 00:39:35,917 --> 00:39:36,751 then she step out. - This isn't phony and fake. 1071 00:39:36,793 --> 00:39:37,961 I brought people to the table 1072 00:39:38,003 --> 00:39:40,171 who have difference of opinions together. 1073 00:39:40,213 --> 00:39:41,840 - Honestly, all the screaming came 1074 00:39:41,881 --> 00:39:42,757 from your side of the table. 1075 00:39:42,799 --> 00:39:43,883 I'm trying to figure out why. 1076 00:39:43,925 --> 00:39:45,343 - I like to talk loud, damn it. 1077 00:39:45,385 --> 00:39:47,095 I'm just making sure everybody can hear me in the group. 1078 00:39:47,137 --> 00:39:49,055 - It doesn't help the group to move forward, Gizelle. 1079 00:39:49,097 --> 00:39:50,390 - It doesn't. 1080 00:39:50,432 --> 00:39:52,559 - We went straight to hell in a basket from jump. 1081 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,227 They wouldn't even follow her directions. 1082 00:39:54,269 --> 00:39:57,605 The evil spirit of the winery belongs to Gizelle and Robyn. 1083 00:39:57,647 --> 00:39:58,732 - No-- - She was addressing 1084 00:39:58,773 --> 00:39:59,816 her response. 1085 00:39:59,858 --> 00:40:01,609 - That's not how therapy works, actually. 1086 00:40:01,651 --> 00:40:02,986 If you look at therapy-- - Oh, this is therapy? 1087 00:40:03,028 --> 00:40:04,195 - That's not how it works. - I didn't know I was-- 1088 00:40:04,237 --> 00:40:05,655 - We need a therapist, if we're in therapy. 1089 00:40:05,697 --> 00:40:06,740 - I didn't know I was with a therapist. 1090 00:40:06,781 --> 00:40:07,490 Actually I'm in a therapist session? 1091 00:40:07,532 --> 00:40:08,533 - No. - No, we're not. 1092 00:40:08,575 --> 00:40:09,534 - We're not in a therapy session. 1093 00:40:09,576 --> 00:40:11,286 - We're in a winery, a vineyard. 1094 00:40:11,327 --> 00:40:12,954 That's where we are. - And this is real dumb. 1095 00:40:12,996 --> 00:40:14,539 - And we're having a burn session, 1096 00:40:14,581 --> 00:40:16,332 but some people have opted out. 1097 00:40:16,374 --> 00:40:17,792 - Who's the therapist? 1098 00:40:17,834 --> 00:40:19,252 It damn sure ain't you, Wendy. 1099 00:40:19,294 --> 00:40:21,004 You-- I know you got a whole lotta degrees, 1100 00:40:21,046 --> 00:40:22,547 but it ain't in psychology. 1101 00:40:22,589 --> 00:40:24,466 You're a doctor of just being whack. 1102 00:40:27,010 --> 00:40:29,262 - It's some fake-ass people up in there. 1103 00:40:29,304 --> 00:40:30,472 - This is enough. 1104 00:40:30,513 --> 00:40:31,514 - I do have something that I would like... 1105 00:40:32,557 --> 00:40:35,477 - Okay. - Oh, sh--. 1106 00:40:35,518 --> 00:40:36,603 Oh, Lord. [sighs] 1107 00:40:36,644 --> 00:40:40,648 - So, my friend was at the spring party. 1108 00:40:40,690 --> 00:40:41,816 - Mm-hmm. 1109 00:40:41,858 --> 00:40:43,651 - And she said that, you know, 1110 00:40:43,693 --> 00:40:45,987 Chris was being a little bit flirty with her. 1111 00:40:46,029 --> 00:40:48,156 She was standing at the bar ordering a drink, 1112 00:40:48,198 --> 00:40:52,410 and he came up, and he was, like-like, just being 1113 00:40:52,452 --> 00:40:53,995 a little bit flirtatious. - Can I ask a question? 1114 00:40:54,037 --> 00:40:56,122 What is-- what is the purpose of this? 1115 00:40:56,164 --> 00:40:59,834 Because we were together in my home. 1116 00:40:59,876 --> 00:41:01,086 - This-this came to me recently. 1117 00:41:01,127 --> 00:41:01,961 - This came to you after you were at my house? 1118 00:41:02,003 --> 00:41:03,838 - Correct. It really did. 1119 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,423 - Okay, and you couldn't have called me? 1120 00:41:05,465 --> 00:41:07,425 - Mmm. - Texted me? 1121 00:41:07,467 --> 00:41:08,468 Approached me? - I knew I was 1122 00:41:08,510 --> 00:41:09,803 going to be seeing you. 1123 00:41:09,844 --> 00:41:10,970 So, wouldn't you rather me tell you to your face? 1124 00:41:11,012 --> 00:41:12,847 - I have come to you privately 1125 00:41:12,889 --> 00:41:15,725 because I wanted to be respectful of you. 1126 00:41:15,767 --> 00:41:17,352 It starts right there, and you can just go 1127 00:41:17,394 --> 00:41:19,854 scroll down. - Okay. 1128 00:41:19,896 --> 00:41:23,566 He was asking who he can take to a hotel nearby? 1129 00:41:23,608 --> 00:41:26,361 As you wanna call Michael a predator every which way, 1130 00:41:26,403 --> 00:41:29,656 okay, if your husband-- - Well, it's-it's documented. 1131 00:41:29,698 --> 00:41:31,700 Is it not true? - It is not true, 1132 00:41:31,741 --> 00:41:33,993 as proven to be not true in the court of law. 1133 00:41:34,035 --> 00:41:36,204 - You don't have enough going on in your own lives, 1134 00:41:36,246 --> 00:41:38,331 so you wanna bring drama to my door. 1135 00:41:38,373 --> 00:41:40,250 This is now the third time somebody is coming to me 1136 00:41:40,291 --> 00:41:41,876 in the group 1137 00:41:41,918 --> 00:41:44,212 to tell me some bullsh-- about my husband. 1138 00:41:44,254 --> 00:41:45,547 - But why are you getting defensive, 1139 00:41:45,588 --> 00:41:47,716 if it just happened? - Because I see the pattern, 1140 00:41:47,757 --> 00:41:49,300 and I'm not going to ignore the pattern. 1141 00:41:49,342 --> 00:41:50,677 - But could-- has anyone said anything 1142 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:52,595 about Chris in the past? - Not to my face. 1143 00:41:52,637 --> 00:41:53,763 - No, they have not. 1144 00:41:53,805 --> 00:41:54,973 - Not to my face. - Do you think that maybe 1145 00:41:55,015 --> 00:41:56,891 Chris' behavior is a little bit different, 1146 00:41:56,933 --> 00:41:58,852 and he's-he's doing things-- - No. 1147 00:41:58,893 --> 00:42:00,103 - A little bit differently-- - No, I don't. 1148 00:42:00,145 --> 00:42:01,396 - For whatever reason? - I think-I think you're 1149 00:42:01,438 --> 00:42:03,064 taking a page out of-- - Because Mia also said-- 1150 00:42:03,106 --> 00:42:04,649 - Your book or-- - That she felt that Chris 1151 00:42:04,691 --> 00:42:06,109 was looking at her at the spring party. 1152 00:42:06,151 --> 00:42:07,235 - What? 1153 00:42:09,487 --> 00:42:11,614 - Unh, unh, unh. 1154 00:42:11,656 --> 00:42:14,034 Go, baby. Go, Gordon. 1155 00:42:14,075 --> 00:42:15,577 But I didn't say that it was sexual, 1156 00:42:15,618 --> 00:42:16,870 but he definitely was staring. 1157 00:42:16,911 --> 00:42:18,455 - Chris is not doing any of these. 1158 00:42:18,496 --> 00:42:19,706 - He did. - He's not-- 1159 00:42:19,748 --> 00:42:20,957 he's not doing these things. - Just remember-- 1160 00:42:20,999 --> 00:42:22,083 the pendulum always swings-- - Where you all-- 1161 00:42:22,125 --> 00:42:23,001 - The other way, okay? - Oh, no, no, no. 1162 00:42:23,043 --> 00:42:24,753 - It-it don't feel good, huh? 1163 00:42:24,794 --> 00:42:26,880 - Uh-huh. There it is. There it is. 1164 00:42:26,921 --> 00:42:27,922 - What did she say? 1165 00:42:27,964 --> 00:42:29,924 - I shoulda kept my good eye 1166 00:42:29,966 --> 00:42:32,510 on that bulbous-ass-forehead bitch. 1167 00:42:32,552 --> 00:42:34,262 I knew she wasn't no good, 1168 00:42:34,304 --> 00:42:36,389 and I went against my better judgment, 1169 00:42:36,431 --> 00:42:37,849 and look at us now. 1170 00:42:37,891 --> 00:42:40,477 It comes from a place of vindictiveness. 1171 00:42:40,518 --> 00:42:41,728 - No! - Nastiness. 1172 00:42:41,770 --> 00:42:42,937 - No! - And evilness. 1173 00:42:42,979 --> 00:42:44,105 - Girl, as I said-- 1174 00:42:44,147 --> 00:42:45,315 - You're a lying-ass-- - And I brought it 1175 00:42:45,357 --> 00:42:46,399 - Vindictive bitch! - To this-this platform! 1176 00:42:46,441 --> 00:42:47,650 - Do you just wanna turn a blind eye? 1177 00:42:47,692 --> 00:42:49,110 Because if that's the case, then just say so. 1178 00:42:49,152 --> 00:42:50,612 - Well, I mean, you would know. - Just say. Just say. 1179 00:42:50,653 --> 00:42:51,654 - Ooh. - Ooh. 1180 00:42:51,696 --> 00:42:52,864 - Actually, I address my husband 1181 00:42:52,906 --> 00:42:55,116 and my relationship very well, okay? 1182 00:42:55,158 --> 00:42:57,577 Now, whether you do or not, that remains to be seen. 1183 00:42:57,619 --> 00:43:00,121 I've also heard that Chris has been in some other DMs 1184 00:43:00,163 --> 00:43:03,458 that are not quite as innocuous and innocent as mine. 1185 00:43:03,500 --> 00:43:12,008 **