1 00:00:02,433 --> 00:00:03,166 - Previously on "The Real 2 00:00:03,166 --> 00:00:03,633 - Previously on "The Real Housewives of Potomac"... 3 00:00:05,333 --> 00:00:06,567 - Very trusting here. You know that? 4 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:08,500 - I know. This is a little exercise. 5 00:00:08,533 --> 00:00:10,400 I can firmly say that we are ready to hit it out of the park 6 00:00:10,433 --> 00:00:13,266 and put a little joey in this pouch. 7 00:00:13,300 --> 00:00:15,233 - Mmm. This is kind of fun, babe. 8 00:00:15,266 --> 00:00:17,166 - I'm still walking through the grief. 9 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:19,100 It's been two months, to the date, 10 00:00:19,133 --> 00:00:21,433 that I lost my father. I'm just looking forward 11 00:00:21,467 --> 00:00:23,600 to having some of the clouds lift. 12 00:00:23,633 --> 00:00:27,033 - You had lost a life that you were carrying inside of you, 13 00:00:27,066 --> 00:00:29,367 and I wasn't sensitive to that fact. 14 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,000 - The more we live, the more we kinda can relate 15 00:00:32,033 --> 00:00:34,200 to other people, so I really appreciate that. 16 00:00:34,233 --> 00:00:37,467 - You don't believe that I'm trying to get pregnant? 17 00:00:37,500 --> 00:00:41,300 - If I wanted to have a baby, I wouldn't be drinking, at all. 18 00:00:41,333 --> 00:00:43,166 - The fact that you want to judge me, who are you, 19 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:44,567 as a woman? - I don't really know you. 20 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,333 - I've had a miscarriage, and so if you think 21 00:00:46,367 --> 00:00:49,233 that it's okay to do that to me. 22 00:00:49,266 --> 00:00:51,266 What the (BLEEP)? 23 00:00:51,300 --> 00:00:53,200 [dramatic music] 24 00:00:53,233 --> 00:00:54,633 - I'm the baddest thing walkin' 25 00:00:54,667 --> 00:00:57,400 and the smartest one talkin'. 26 00:00:57,433 --> 00:00:59,300 - You can try to tear me down, 27 00:00:59,333 --> 00:01:02,433 but the grande dame never crumbles. 28 00:01:02,467 --> 00:01:04,433 - I've traded in my umbrella. 29 00:01:04,467 --> 00:01:07,166 It's all gold at the end of this rainbow. 30 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:11,667 - The shorter my hair, the shorter my patience. 31 00:01:11,700 --> 00:01:13,500 - Karma is a bitch, 32 00:01:13,533 --> 00:01:16,400 but, luckily, I'm on her good side. 33 00:01:16,433 --> 00:01:18,400 - Now that I'm marrying my prince, 34 00:01:18,433 --> 00:01:21,200 this sleeping beauty is woke. 35 00:01:21,233 --> 00:01:23,333 ♪ ♪ 36 00:01:23,367 --> 00:01:26,333 [upbeat music] 37 00:01:26,367 --> 00:01:28,066 ♪ ♪ 38 00:01:28,100 --> 00:01:29,500 - I want whoever's sitting around not doing nothing 39 00:01:29,533 --> 00:01:30,567 to come out here and help. 40 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,066 ♪ ♪ 41 00:01:32,100 --> 00:01:33,433 The box will go here. 42 00:01:33,467 --> 00:01:36,300 - Vote. Votive. Bling pens. Cards, cards. 43 00:01:36,333 --> 00:01:37,700 - Okay. In spite of the fact 44 00:01:37,734 --> 00:01:39,433 that I just got back from New Orleans, 45 00:01:39,467 --> 00:01:42,433 I have all of my family in town... 46 00:01:42,467 --> 00:01:44,166 - [laughs] 47 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:45,567 - And we're throwing a party. 48 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,300 And I'm pregnant. Lot of pressure. [laughs] 49 00:01:48,333 --> 00:01:50,433 It's crazy, 'cause it looks like it's about to rain. 50 00:01:50,467 --> 00:01:53,400 [upbeat music] 51 00:01:53,433 --> 00:02:00,433 ♪ ♪ 52 00:02:00,667 --> 00:02:03,467 - Oh, Lord, my baby is sick. 53 00:02:03,500 --> 00:02:06,467 [upbeat hip-hop music] 54 00:02:06,500 --> 00:02:07,700 ♪ ♪ 55 00:02:07,734 --> 00:02:11,333 all: G-T-Y. Team's behind him! 56 00:02:11,367 --> 00:02:14,133 [all cheer] 57 00:02:14,166 --> 00:02:15,633 - Hi, baby. - Hey. 58 00:02:15,667 --> 00:02:18,567 What are you doing? Oh. 59 00:02:20,667 --> 00:02:22,500 - Oh, my God, so did you tell Monique that you can't come? 60 00:02:22,533 --> 00:02:24,333 'Cause I told her. 61 00:02:24,367 --> 00:02:27,200 I was like, "Corey has a game, so I can't make it." 62 00:02:27,233 --> 00:02:28,433 - I haven't even thought about that. 63 00:02:28,467 --> 00:02:30,133 Let me call that girl 64 00:02:30,166 --> 00:02:31,500 so she doesn't have a heart attack. 65 00:02:31,533 --> 00:02:34,500 [dramatic music] 66 00:02:34,533 --> 00:02:39,200 ♪ ♪ 67 00:02:39,233 --> 00:02:41,600 - I think I've had, like, a total of five people 68 00:02:41,633 --> 00:02:43,433 that canceled at the last second. 69 00:02:43,467 --> 00:02:45,367 Like, don't they know these meals cost money? 70 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:46,667 ♪ ♪ 71 00:02:46,700 --> 00:02:48,533 If somebody else don't show up, 72 00:02:48,567 --> 00:02:51,133 I'm about to start sending out charges to these folks. 73 00:02:51,166 --> 00:02:53,233 - Right. - Like, for real. 74 00:02:53,266 --> 00:02:54,266 [cell phone rings] 75 00:02:54,300 --> 00:02:55,333 Hello? 76 00:02:55,367 --> 00:02:57,767 - Hey, Angel is so sick, 77 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,633 so I'm not gonna be able to make it. 78 00:03:01,667 --> 00:03:03,400 - No. I totally understand. 79 00:03:03,433 --> 00:03:04,767 You know, I'm the same way with my babies. 80 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:06,266 - Right. - Well, I hope 81 00:03:06,300 --> 00:03:08,467 she feels better. That sucks. 82 00:03:10,266 --> 00:03:13,166 [quirky music] 83 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:15,600 ♪ ♪ 84 00:03:15,633 --> 00:03:17,700 - Oh, dear? 85 00:03:19,333 --> 00:03:20,500 - You got a eyelash. 86 00:03:20,533 --> 00:03:21,600 - Does that mean I get to make a wish? 87 00:03:21,633 --> 00:03:23,166 - Yes. 88 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:24,367 Wait, did you make it? 89 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:25,667 - Yeah. - You made it already? 90 00:03:25,700 --> 00:03:27,200 - Yeah, it's the same one every time. 91 00:03:27,233 --> 00:03:28,467 - What is it? 92 00:03:28,500 --> 00:03:29,667 - I can't tell you. Then it won't come true. 93 00:03:29,700 --> 00:03:31,700 - Is it that I'll be on time? 94 00:03:35,367 --> 00:03:38,333 [upbeat music] 95 00:03:38,367 --> 00:03:41,633 ♪ ♪ 96 00:03:41,667 --> 00:03:43,266 - All right, so we have to go out, 97 00:03:43,300 --> 00:03:44,700 because the doves have to be released... 98 00:03:44,734 --> 00:03:46,500 - I didn't even know-- - Exactly at 5:30. 99 00:03:46,533 --> 00:03:48,266 - So y'all had doves too? - Yeah. 100 00:03:48,300 --> 00:03:50,166 - I didn't know all that. - All right. Come on. 101 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:51,667 - You could have just came out cheaper with some pigeons. 102 00:03:51,700 --> 00:03:53,633 - No. - [laughs] 103 00:03:53,667 --> 00:03:56,633 - I didn't know what a rainbow baby was 104 00:03:56,667 --> 00:03:58,767 until after I had the miscarriage, 105 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,233 so I thought this will be a great way 106 00:04:01,266 --> 00:04:05,000 to celebrate the fact that this baby is on the way, 107 00:04:05,033 --> 00:04:06,667 and I'm really excited. 108 00:04:06,700 --> 00:04:09,734 - What's up, girl? - What's up, girl? How are you? 109 00:04:10,767 --> 00:04:12,400 - Awesome. Thank you. 110 00:04:12,433 --> 00:04:13,700 - I'm hoping that my friends 111 00:04:13,734 --> 00:04:15,367 who have experienced miscarriage, 112 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,200 maybe this'll give them some hope 113 00:04:17,233 --> 00:04:19,700 and encourage them to keep going and don't give up. 114 00:04:19,734 --> 00:04:21,700 - I think it's around the back here, babe. 115 00:04:21,734 --> 00:04:24,500 Oh, wow. 116 00:04:24,533 --> 00:04:26,533 - I feel a little underdressed with flip-flops on. 117 00:04:26,567 --> 00:04:31,033 - Taste the Rainbow, available as virgin or spiked. 118 00:04:31,066 --> 00:04:32,734 Well, I'm not actually pregnant, so... 119 00:04:32,767 --> 00:04:34,333 Hi, babe. 120 00:04:34,367 --> 00:04:35,467 - Hey. What's up? - How are you, babe? 121 00:04:35,500 --> 00:04:36,767 Oh, you're glowing. 122 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:38,033 - Oh, you look so pretty and colorful. 123 00:04:38,066 --> 00:04:39,600 - I feel like Monique and I 124 00:04:39,633 --> 00:04:41,600 have really come out of a pretty tumultuous time. 125 00:04:41,633 --> 00:04:43,433 - Y'all ain't no friends of mine that sit there 126 00:04:43,467 --> 00:04:44,700 and say that you're concerned. 127 00:04:44,734 --> 00:04:46,300 That's, like, the word of the year. 128 00:04:46,333 --> 00:04:47,700 "I'm concerned but I'm throwing shade 129 00:04:47,734 --> 00:04:49,567 and I'm throwing hate and I'm throwing lies." 130 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,233 That's what y'all do. Bottom behind tricks. 131 00:04:52,266 --> 00:04:54,233 - And we get to vote. We get to vote. That's cool. 132 00:04:54,266 --> 00:04:56,033 - Yeah. All right. Okay. 133 00:04:56,066 --> 00:04:57,600 - This is the kind of positivity 134 00:04:57,633 --> 00:04:59,467 that I really need to have around me right now 135 00:04:59,500 --> 00:05:02,467 versus all of that bad juju of Candiace. 136 00:05:02,500 --> 00:05:04,066 - I'm, like, literally dripping. 137 00:05:04,100 --> 00:05:05,767 I'll be right back. - Go ahead. We'll see you. 138 00:05:09,033 --> 00:05:10,000 - Oh. 139 00:05:10,033 --> 00:05:11,533 [mischievous music] 140 00:05:11,567 --> 00:05:13,433 Oh, gosh. 141 00:05:13,467 --> 00:05:14,700 I have not seen my mother-in-law 142 00:05:14,734 --> 00:05:16,633 in about two years, 143 00:05:16,667 --> 00:05:19,000 so it'll be interesting, given our history. 144 00:05:19,033 --> 00:05:24,333 - I'm just telling you my definition of marriage. 145 00:05:24,367 --> 00:05:26,266 - I guess everybody has their own definition. 146 00:05:27,767 --> 00:05:29,734 [laughs] 147 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,467 I would love an apology. That would be nice. 148 00:05:32,500 --> 00:05:33,667 You all right? - I'm fine. 149 00:05:33,700 --> 00:05:35,066 - I'm fine. - It's hot out here. 150 00:05:35,100 --> 00:05:36,333 - Oh, there's the boss. Looking good. 151 00:05:36,367 --> 00:05:37,333 - What up? - Hey there. 152 00:05:37,367 --> 00:05:38,467 - Good. How you doing? 153 00:05:38,500 --> 00:05:39,567 - Thank you for having shorts on. 154 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:41,367 Starting to feel nervous. Yeah. 155 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,467 - This is very nice. This is a very happy occasion. 156 00:05:43,500 --> 00:05:44,734 - Beautiful. 157 00:05:44,767 --> 00:05:46,066 - Well, it's another Monique production, 158 00:05:46,100 --> 00:05:47,667 'cause it ain't mine. [laughs] 159 00:05:47,700 --> 00:05:49,667 Y'all met my mama? - No, we didn't meet your mama. 160 00:05:49,700 --> 00:05:51,700 - No. - Hi. How are you? 161 00:05:51,734 --> 00:05:54,066 - Hi. - Ashley and Michael. 162 00:05:54,100 --> 00:05:55,700 - Nice to meet you. Oh, sorry. 163 00:05:55,734 --> 00:05:57,500 - Good to see you. Very good. Yeah. 164 00:05:57,533 --> 00:06:00,066 - How are you doing, babe? - Yeah? 165 00:06:00,100 --> 00:06:02,767 - Hey. I'ma go inside, y'all. 166 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:04,066 - Your son is in there, huh? 167 00:06:04,100 --> 00:06:07,266 - I know. - No, no, no, no. 168 00:06:07,300 --> 00:06:08,433 - Oh, his beer? 169 00:06:08,467 --> 00:06:09,500 You don't like the smell of beer? 170 00:06:09,533 --> 00:06:12,700 - The beer or my cologne? 171 00:06:12,734 --> 00:06:14,133 - You don't drink alcohol? - Yeah, so... 172 00:06:14,166 --> 00:06:15,700 - Have you ever drank alcohol? 173 00:06:15,734 --> 00:06:17,600 - I only drink Jesus. 174 00:06:17,633 --> 00:06:18,700 - [laughs] 175 00:06:25,500 --> 00:06:28,467 [upbeat funk music] 176 00:06:28,500 --> 00:06:30,500 ♪ ♪ 177 00:06:32,133 --> 00:06:33,467 - I like this one. [laughter] 178 00:06:33,500 --> 00:06:36,667 ♪ ♪ 179 00:06:39,033 --> 00:06:41,100 - Hey, Ray. - How you doing? 180 00:06:41,133 --> 00:06:42,533 - Wow, you getting there, ain't you? 181 00:06:42,567 --> 00:06:45,000 - It's comin' out, yeah. - Oh, Lord. 182 00:06:45,033 --> 00:06:46,767 - Hello, Ms. Huger. 183 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:50,133 How are you doing, darling? Nice to see you and everything. 184 00:06:50,166 --> 00:06:51,767 Hi, Ray. How are you? 185 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:53,633 - Good. How you doing, baby? - Nice to see you. Yes. 186 00:06:53,667 --> 00:06:55,567 - Hi, Ray. Hi, Karen. How are you? 187 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,600 Good to see you. Good? 188 00:06:58,734 --> 00:07:01,467 - Yeah. - Date night. 189 00:07:01,500 --> 00:07:02,734 - I know. 190 00:07:02,767 --> 00:07:04,100 - How does it make you feel? 191 00:07:04,133 --> 00:07:07,033 - It's inspiring, if anything, 192 00:07:07,066 --> 00:07:11,367 knowing that she overcame it and where she is, so... 193 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,700 - I have had my ups and downs 194 00:07:13,734 --> 00:07:16,066 with Ashley, but in this group, 195 00:07:16,100 --> 00:07:17,633 we're dealing with a lot of loss. 196 00:07:17,667 --> 00:07:21,567 I lost my parents, Monique has lost her baby, 197 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,767 but in this moment, to sit here and celebrate 198 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,467 another baby, it sort of puts everything in perspective, 199 00:07:28,500 --> 00:07:30,567 if you think about it. Life goes on. 200 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,433 - Hey! If everybody can come out, 201 00:07:33,467 --> 00:07:34,700 we're gonna talk to you a little bit 202 00:07:34,734 --> 00:07:36,500 about what this party is about. 203 00:07:36,533 --> 00:07:38,734 Many of you know we suffered a miscarriage, 204 00:07:38,767 --> 00:07:42,000 and I call that our angel baby. And next thing I know, 205 00:07:42,033 --> 00:07:44,166 I share my story, and people kept saying, 206 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:47,066 "Congratulations on your rainbow baby." 207 00:07:47,100 --> 00:07:50,700 A rainbow baby is born after the loss of a previous child. 208 00:07:50,734 --> 00:07:52,700 It means that something beautiful and full of light 209 00:07:52,734 --> 00:07:57,533 has appeared in the midst of darkness and clouds. 210 00:07:57,567 --> 00:07:59,100 So I thought that was beautiful. 211 00:07:59,133 --> 00:08:00,667 I thought that this would be the perfect way 212 00:08:00,700 --> 00:08:02,600 to celebrate new life, 213 00:08:02,633 --> 00:08:04,367 to acknowledge what has happened 214 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:05,700 and not forget it but to learn from it 215 00:08:05,734 --> 00:08:08,533 and move forward. 216 00:08:08,567 --> 00:08:10,433 And we just wanted to do something 217 00:08:10,467 --> 00:08:13,433 in honor of all of the angel babies out there. 218 00:08:14,500 --> 00:08:17,533 all: Whoo! - Wow. 219 00:08:17,567 --> 00:08:20,166 - Beautiful. - Oh, my God. 220 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:23,667 [all cheering] 221 00:08:23,700 --> 00:08:26,166 - I know a lot of us women share the same story, 222 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,200 and some of us don't choose to express 223 00:08:28,233 --> 00:08:30,133 and share it with others, but I encourage you to. 224 00:08:30,166 --> 00:08:32,133 There is healing in sharing. 225 00:08:32,166 --> 00:08:36,200 I really don't think I fully dealt with my miscarriage 226 00:08:36,233 --> 00:08:38,467 until I found out I was pregnant again. 227 00:08:38,500 --> 00:08:43,433 The fear and the loss just came back to me. 228 00:08:43,467 --> 00:08:45,100 I really had to sit back and just, like, 229 00:08:45,133 --> 00:08:46,467 leave it in God's hands. 230 00:08:46,500 --> 00:08:47,767 Thanks, everybody, again, and-- 231 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:51,567 - Monique, I want to say something to y'all. 232 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,066 - [chuckles] 233 00:08:53,100 --> 00:08:54,734 So my mother-in-law, actually, 234 00:08:54,767 --> 00:08:58,633 would love to say something to you all. 235 00:08:58,667 --> 00:09:01,133 - Oh, my. - Praise the Lord, everybody, 236 00:09:01,166 --> 00:09:03,000 and I'm glad that I have a opportunity 237 00:09:03,033 --> 00:09:04,567 to say something at this time. 238 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,233 [dramatic music] 239 00:09:07,266 --> 00:09:10,633 I want to tell Monique that... 240 00:09:10,667 --> 00:09:14,166 ♪ ♪ 241 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:17,600 - Still to come, a sneak peek of what's ahead this season. 242 00:09:17,633 --> 00:09:21,066 - She just smacked me in the face with her purse. 243 00:09:21,100 --> 00:09:23,133 - What you been doing for 32 years hasn't ----ing worked. 244 00:09:23,166 --> 00:09:24,600 - This is my ----ing life! 245 00:09:24,633 --> 00:09:26,066 - Who is he talking about? 246 00:09:26,100 --> 00:09:27,567 - One of our men. 247 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,166 - Is he gay? - No, girl. 248 00:09:34,367 --> 00:09:34,633 [quirky music] 249 00:09:36,567 --> 00:09:39,633 - I'm indeed glad to see everybody here today, 250 00:09:39,667 --> 00:09:41,500 and I'm glad that I have a opportunity 251 00:09:41,533 --> 00:09:43,100 to say something at this time. 252 00:09:43,133 --> 00:09:46,734 ♪ ♪ 253 00:09:46,767 --> 00:09:50,066 I want to tell Monique that... 254 00:09:50,100 --> 00:09:53,333 ♪ ♪ 255 00:09:53,367 --> 00:09:57,033 Everything that happened behind us, I want to forget it. 256 00:09:57,066 --> 00:09:58,567 - Right. - Amen. 257 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,266 - I want to show love to my daughter-in-law, 258 00:10:00,300 --> 00:10:03,233 and also, I owe her an apology what I said... 259 00:10:03,266 --> 00:10:07,266 - Aw. - Calling her a name. 260 00:10:07,300 --> 00:10:10,633 And I want to tell her that I love her. 261 00:10:10,667 --> 00:10:12,233 - Hey, you know, we love you too, Mom. 262 00:10:12,266 --> 00:10:15,300 - And I love her husband... [laughter] 263 00:10:15,333 --> 00:10:19,100 And I love the one here, and I thank God. Amen. 264 00:10:19,133 --> 00:10:20,767 - Amen! - Whoo! 265 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:24,266 [all cheering] 266 00:10:24,300 --> 00:10:26,133 - One more time. Hallelujah! 267 00:10:26,166 --> 00:10:27,533 all: Hallelujah! 268 00:10:27,567 --> 00:10:29,200 - [laughs] This is pretty amazing. 269 00:10:29,233 --> 00:10:31,633 Really appreciate that. 270 00:10:31,667 --> 00:10:33,367 - Yes, it was. 271 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,333 Hopefully, that'll be the beginning of her, you know, 272 00:10:35,367 --> 00:10:36,700 taking that next step. 273 00:10:36,734 --> 00:10:38,233 - Thank y'all. Y'all enjoy. 274 00:10:38,266 --> 00:10:40,133 One, two. One, two. Big fam in the house. 275 00:10:40,166 --> 00:10:41,266 - Oh, God. - Where the crew? 276 00:10:41,300 --> 00:10:42,734 Where the beat at? 277 00:10:42,767 --> 00:10:45,667 ♪ ♪ 278 00:10:45,700 --> 00:10:48,166 - Yes. Follow the balloon. 279 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:51,166 [upbeat music] 280 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:57,100 ♪ ♪ 281 00:10:57,133 --> 00:10:58,100 - Oh! 282 00:10:58,133 --> 00:11:01,700 - Hello, gorgeous! 283 00:11:01,734 --> 00:11:04,600 Hi, Hugers. - Hi, newlyweds. 284 00:11:04,633 --> 00:11:07,266 - I highly doubt that Chris is the reason that they're late. 285 00:11:07,300 --> 00:11:09,066 I mean, just because he has a brown penis 286 00:11:09,100 --> 00:11:11,000 doesn't mean he's on CPT. 287 00:11:11,033 --> 00:11:14,567 [laughs] 288 00:11:20,767 --> 00:11:22,367 - Hi. - How's it going? 289 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:24,667 - Are we coming in? - Hello, you look so cute. 290 00:11:24,700 --> 00:11:26,333 - Thank you. 291 00:11:26,367 --> 00:11:28,133 - I've admitted my wrong. 292 00:11:28,166 --> 00:11:31,300 And I did want to apologize. It's not my journey, 293 00:11:31,333 --> 00:11:33,200 but I would like to be a part of it. 294 00:11:33,233 --> 00:11:35,333 - Um, that's gonna take some time. 295 00:11:35,367 --> 00:11:37,133 - Oh! 296 00:11:37,166 --> 00:11:39,667 I'm gonna give forehead and Ashley their space, 297 00:11:39,700 --> 00:11:40,700 and I'll be over here. 298 00:11:40,734 --> 00:11:46,233 ♪ ♪ 299 00:11:46,266 --> 00:11:47,300 - Christopher, let's take a picture 300 00:11:47,333 --> 00:11:50,166 for Daddy right quick, man. 301 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:54,300 Look at Milani smiling. Look at that smile! 302 00:11:54,333 --> 00:11:56,400 Look at my little mama. 303 00:11:58,300 --> 00:12:00,600 I think I felt the baby move. 304 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,133 - Everybody doing good? - Yeah. We're good. 305 00:12:24,166 --> 00:12:25,767 - I'm so happy for you, girl. 306 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:27,266 It's all good. - Yep. 307 00:12:27,300 --> 00:12:29,033 - But I was just looking at Chris' dad, 308 00:12:29,066 --> 00:12:30,700 and I was like--it just makes me think 309 00:12:30,734 --> 00:12:32,133 about my dad, you know? 310 00:12:32,166 --> 00:12:33,700 - Yeah. - I wish he were here... 311 00:12:33,734 --> 00:12:35,367 - Yeah. - And my mom. 312 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,000 - Yeah. 313 00:12:38,033 --> 00:12:41,233 I'm sorry, girl. Aw. 314 00:12:41,266 --> 00:12:43,266 You can't help but see that. - But I'm happy for you. 315 00:12:43,300 --> 00:12:45,066 - Thank you for inviting us... - Yes. 316 00:12:45,100 --> 00:12:46,467 - Because we need to be around this. I know I do. 317 00:12:46,500 --> 00:12:48,066 - Yeah, and that's what this was all about, 318 00:12:48,100 --> 00:12:49,700 celebrating life and acknowledging 319 00:12:49,734 --> 00:12:51,100 what we've gone through to get here, you know? 320 00:12:51,133 --> 00:12:52,233 - And I heard it. 321 00:13:15,433 --> 00:13:17,133 [tapping on glass] 322 00:13:17,166 --> 00:13:18,734 - Everybody, listen up. 323 00:13:18,767 --> 00:13:20,700 I just feel like, because it's a rainbow party, 324 00:13:20,734 --> 00:13:23,066 and I, for myself, felt like it was 325 00:13:23,100 --> 00:13:25,200 a lot of healing in sharing my story 326 00:13:25,233 --> 00:13:28,667 and it allowed me to, like, move forward, 327 00:13:28,700 --> 00:13:33,266 so if anyone here would like to share their story? 328 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,700 Thank you. Okay, Ashley. 329 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,300 Thank you. 330 00:13:44,333 --> 00:13:46,233 - Thank you, Monique. I really appreciate 331 00:13:46,266 --> 00:13:48,667 that you have opened up 332 00:13:48,700 --> 00:13:52,233 your beautiful occasion for us to share. 333 00:13:52,266 --> 00:13:56,000 I feel this elation for where you are in your journey 334 00:13:56,033 --> 00:13:59,033 because I know how hard it was for you to get here. 335 00:13:59,066 --> 00:14:01,033 And then, at the same time, 336 00:14:01,066 --> 00:14:04,000 I feel like a reminder for the loss 337 00:14:04,033 --> 00:14:07,000 that Michael and I experienced just a few months ago. 338 00:14:07,033 --> 00:14:09,400 [somber music] 339 00:14:09,433 --> 00:14:14,367 The fact that, um, uh... 340 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:19,233 this was a life that we had made together, 341 00:14:19,266 --> 00:14:22,000 and it was a life that left you, 342 00:14:22,033 --> 00:14:25,367 and so it was very hard for me 343 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:27,700 to come to terms with that, in the beginning. 344 00:14:27,734 --> 00:14:31,300 And I felt like my body was, like, working against me 345 00:14:31,333 --> 00:14:34,734 when I was trying to bring a life into this world 346 00:14:34,767 --> 00:14:36,300 with the man that I love. 347 00:14:36,333 --> 00:14:40,266 And... [sighs] 348 00:14:40,300 --> 00:14:42,734 Now we are still continuing the journey, 349 00:14:42,767 --> 00:14:46,166 and I'm hoping that, you know, I'll be able to share 350 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,300 in the same joyous occasion that you both have. 351 00:14:49,333 --> 00:14:51,367 And, again, I'm very happy for you 352 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:53,300 and I love you both very much 353 00:14:53,333 --> 00:14:55,233 and I know we've had our share of differences, in the past. 354 00:14:55,266 --> 00:14:58,133 But this is such a beautiful occasion for us 355 00:14:58,166 --> 00:15:00,567 to come together, so thank you. 356 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:04,433 [applause] 357 00:15:04,467 --> 00:15:07,767 [gentle piano music] 358 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:11,200 - I think Ashley's suffering the loss of a child. 359 00:15:11,233 --> 00:15:12,767 It is changing her. 360 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,467 You can't help but change, if you lose a life, 361 00:15:16,500 --> 00:15:20,567 so my heart goes out to the Darbys on that one. 362 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:22,467 ♪ ♪ 363 00:15:22,500 --> 00:15:25,500 - Thank you so much, Ashley, for sharing that. 364 00:15:25,533 --> 00:15:28,500 [upbeat music] 365 00:15:28,533 --> 00:15:29,567 ♪ ♪ 366 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:31,166 This was so much fun. 367 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:33,100 - Wasn't it? - Like, it turned out 368 00:15:33,133 --> 00:15:34,400 even better than I imagined, like-- 369 00:15:34,433 --> 00:15:36,233 - Good. - So is y'all guys good? 370 00:15:36,266 --> 00:15:38,066 - Yeah, yeah. Very good. Very good. I like your shirt. 371 00:15:38,100 --> 00:15:39,367 - Where do you want to get to? 372 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,300 - I need to get to about probably 260, 270. 373 00:15:41,333 --> 00:15:42,767 - Well, Karen, I wanted us to have a chat 374 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:44,467 for a second, if we could. - Oh, okay. 375 00:15:44,500 --> 00:15:46,333 - While we were in New Orleans, 376 00:15:46,367 --> 00:15:51,066 watching how heartbroken Karen was about her dad passing, 377 00:15:51,100 --> 00:15:53,333 I wasn't as sympathetic to her as I could have been, 378 00:15:53,367 --> 00:15:55,066 and so for that, I was wrong. 379 00:15:55,100 --> 00:15:57,300 You and I have obviously had a rocky past, and-- 380 00:15:57,333 --> 00:15:59,467 - Very rocky. - I wouldn't say very rocky. 381 00:15:59,500 --> 00:16:02,100 - Hellfire. Brimstone. - I'd say pebbly. Pebbly. 382 00:16:02,133 --> 00:16:05,500 - Do not ever put my child's name in your mouth again. 383 00:16:05,533 --> 00:16:08,100 - Are you being indicted at all? 384 00:16:08,133 --> 00:16:09,300 You're the one who was talking about 385 00:16:09,333 --> 00:16:11,433 Ray's penis is old and dried up. 386 00:16:11,467 --> 00:16:14,100 But it would be really nice if we did an activity 387 00:16:14,133 --> 00:16:16,133 that you and I could just spend some time together, 388 00:16:16,166 --> 00:16:18,033 something that is just us that we like to do. 389 00:16:18,066 --> 00:16:20,567 - Just you and me? 390 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:22,367 I don't know. 391 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,233 I'm hopeful, but it's a lot of pain there, Ashley. 392 00:16:24,266 --> 00:16:25,433 I'm not phony, okay. 393 00:16:25,467 --> 00:16:26,600 - I never asked you to be, Karen. 394 00:16:26,633 --> 00:16:28,433 - I didn't get that from you 395 00:16:28,467 --> 00:16:31,266 and I'm loving what you're giving and I'm opened up. 396 00:16:31,300 --> 00:16:33,533 - We just start somewhere. - I'm open. 397 00:16:33,567 --> 00:16:35,367 Ashley has done so much dirt, 398 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,300 but to be honest, she has suffered loss, 399 00:16:38,333 --> 00:16:41,133 I have suffered loss, and it's unfortunate 400 00:16:41,166 --> 00:16:43,266 that this might be the one thing 401 00:16:43,300 --> 00:16:46,300 that we have in common and this may be a place 402 00:16:46,333 --> 00:16:50,133 for us to turn our relationship around. 403 00:16:50,166 --> 00:16:51,400 - Coming up next... 404 00:16:51,433 --> 00:16:53,266 - There was a conversation 405 00:16:53,300 --> 00:16:55,200 that I had with Monique about Katie. 406 00:16:55,233 --> 00:16:57,233 She said she looked like "Amistad." 407 00:16:57,266 --> 00:16:59,333 - Monique thinks that she's a slave? 408 00:16:59,367 --> 00:17:01,033 Yeah. That's not cool. 409 00:17:05,467 --> 00:17:06,066 [upbeat quirky music] 410 00:17:08,433 --> 00:17:10,467 [doorbell rings] 411 00:17:12,166 --> 00:17:13,633 - Hi. - Hello, my love. 412 00:17:13,667 --> 00:17:15,533 - Hi, hi, hi. Let me get your stuff. 413 00:17:15,567 --> 00:17:19,300 - Please do. It makes me think you want me to come inside. 414 00:17:19,333 --> 00:17:22,467 Hi, baby. 415 00:17:22,500 --> 00:17:25,633 I miss you sometimes, and then other times I think, 416 00:17:25,667 --> 00:17:28,333 "Well, you know, okay. Separation's good sometimes." 417 00:17:28,367 --> 00:17:31,333 - Oh, that's nice. All right. Let me get you some tea. 418 00:17:31,367 --> 00:17:34,200 Okay. You want to know where I got my shade from? 419 00:17:34,233 --> 00:17:38,100 Look at my mama, but she never gonna take it over the line, 420 00:17:38,133 --> 00:17:39,600 like Candiace's mother. 421 00:17:39,633 --> 00:17:41,533 - Why would you go over there and lick people asses 422 00:17:41,567 --> 00:17:45,166 that haven't done sh-- for you? - Why am I licking an ass? 423 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,633 - That's something my mother--my mother 424 00:17:46,667 --> 00:17:49,567 always shades me with love. 425 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:51,300 She's coming from Houston, 426 00:17:51,333 --> 00:17:54,300 and I love when my mother come to visit. 427 00:17:54,333 --> 00:17:56,300 - So what's been going on? What's happening? 428 00:17:56,333 --> 00:17:58,533 - So we all went to New Orleans. 429 00:17:58,567 --> 00:18:00,667 We had, like, a nice little cooking class. 430 00:18:00,700 --> 00:18:03,166 - Did you learn anything? 431 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:08,200 - I was the overseer, the coach, and the judge. 432 00:18:08,233 --> 00:18:10,367 - But did you make anything? - Again. 433 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,266 [laughter] 434 00:18:12,300 --> 00:18:14,734 - The answer's no. [laughter] 435 00:18:14,767 --> 00:18:16,700 - Yes, but it was nice. It was very, very nice. 436 00:18:16,734 --> 00:18:18,367 - Yeah. Well, good. That's great. 437 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:20,200 - Yeah. Ran into some of the relatives. 438 00:18:20,233 --> 00:18:21,600 - And they're all doing well, of course? 439 00:18:21,633 --> 00:18:24,467 - They're doing great. Yes. Daddy was there. 440 00:18:24,500 --> 00:18:26,200 - Yeah. I don't want to hear any more about it. 441 00:18:26,233 --> 00:18:29,100 Yes, yeah. Thank you. - You're welcome. 442 00:18:29,133 --> 00:18:30,467 My parents were married 443 00:18:30,500 --> 00:18:33,367 for about 35 years, and they got divorced. 444 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:35,166 - Some people, they break up, 445 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:36,467 and they don't ever want to speak again... 446 00:18:36,500 --> 00:18:38,500 - Right. - See again. No nothing. 447 00:18:38,533 --> 00:18:40,467 - 35 years is a long time, 448 00:18:40,500 --> 00:18:43,633 so I'm sure there's a lot of bad blood. 449 00:18:43,667 --> 00:18:45,633 However, my mother's not very emotional. 450 00:18:45,667 --> 00:18:47,500 Like, if you get upset, you can be upset 451 00:18:47,533 --> 00:18:49,233 for a little while, and then we're moving on. 452 00:18:49,266 --> 00:18:50,700 So, yes, maybe I was taught that, 453 00:18:50,734 --> 00:18:52,467 now that I think about it. 454 00:18:52,500 --> 00:18:54,300 Okay. Okay. Now we getting to the bottom of it. 455 00:18:54,333 --> 00:18:57,600 Anyway, I told you I did start going to counseling... 456 00:18:57,633 --> 00:18:59,300 - Mm-hmm. Yeah. - Which was great. 457 00:18:59,333 --> 00:19:01,500 Going and talking to him allowed me 458 00:19:01,533 --> 00:19:04,300 to think about my life in totality, 459 00:19:04,333 --> 00:19:06,500 and I feel like I've accomplished a lot. 460 00:19:06,533 --> 00:19:11,233 I feel like I am... in a good space. 461 00:19:11,266 --> 00:19:15,500 - Love it. - So I found this house. 462 00:19:15,533 --> 00:19:19,166 - Oh, dear. Uh-oh. 463 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:20,734 - I'm looking now to buy a house 464 00:19:20,767 --> 00:19:23,400 because I really want to be able to create my own, 465 00:19:23,433 --> 00:19:25,000 for me and my girls. 466 00:19:25,033 --> 00:19:26,667 Therapy has really given me the confidence 467 00:19:26,700 --> 00:19:29,667 and the motivation to take the big steps in life, 468 00:19:29,700 --> 00:19:32,467 and I'm super happy that I'm finally here. 469 00:19:32,500 --> 00:19:34,166 I did get that feeling. 470 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,300 I was like, "Oh, I like it." The property. 471 00:19:36,333 --> 00:19:39,667 - Yeah? - Okay, so the structure 472 00:19:39,700 --> 00:19:41,567 is where it goes left. 473 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,166 - Uh-oh. 474 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:48,266 - It's been sitting for almost a year. 475 00:19:48,300 --> 00:19:50,300 - Oh, my God. I can't believe-- 476 00:19:50,333 --> 00:19:52,734 - But if it's a project, what's wrong with a project? 477 00:19:52,767 --> 00:19:56,166 - Lord child, no. Don't do that to yourself. 478 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:57,367 Gizelle, that doesn't work for you. 479 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:58,500 - What? - I mean, 'cause you want 480 00:19:58,533 --> 00:20:02,200 things done like this. 481 00:20:02,233 --> 00:20:05,166 - I got this. I mean look at Robyn. 482 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:06,700 She rehabbed her investment property, 483 00:20:06,734 --> 00:20:08,433 and it is totally fine. 484 00:20:08,467 --> 00:20:10,000 [sirens wailing] 485 00:20:10,033 --> 00:20:12,500 [helicopter blades whirring] 486 00:20:12,533 --> 00:20:15,633 [hammers pounding] 487 00:20:15,667 --> 00:20:19,500 [power tool whirring] 488 00:20:19,533 --> 00:20:24,266 - All righty. 489 00:20:24,300 --> 00:20:26,400 Oof. 490 00:20:26,433 --> 00:20:28,300 I don't want to hit this tree. 491 00:20:28,333 --> 00:20:31,233 This thing is bigger than I thought. 492 00:20:31,266 --> 00:20:33,433 - Hey, Robyn. - Hey, Marcel. Whew. 493 00:20:33,467 --> 00:20:36,633 - We got to unload the toilet. - All right. 494 00:20:36,667 --> 00:20:39,033 My recommendation for next time? 495 00:20:39,066 --> 00:20:41,233 Get toilets in earlier. 496 00:20:41,266 --> 00:20:44,300 - For the women. - Especially for ladies, okay? 497 00:20:44,333 --> 00:20:45,400 - Okay. 498 00:20:45,433 --> 00:20:49,000 - [sighs] So my mother and I 499 00:20:49,033 --> 00:20:54,233 are still working hard in our real estate investing business. 500 00:20:54,266 --> 00:20:57,400 It doesn't look like it, but we're almost there, right? 501 00:20:57,433 --> 00:21:00,367 - Maybe less than a month away. - What? 502 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,400 [quirky music] 503 00:21:03,433 --> 00:21:07,533 We were expecting to be done flipping the house 504 00:21:07,567 --> 00:21:09,467 within four months, 505 00:21:09,500 --> 00:21:12,266 and now we're going on month-- 506 00:21:12,300 --> 00:21:13,467 [whispering] November, December, January, 507 00:21:13,500 --> 00:21:16,400 February, March, April, May, June... 508 00:21:16,433 --> 00:21:17,734 Ten. 509 00:21:17,767 --> 00:21:20,367 Uh-oh. It look like something wrong. 510 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:21,600 - Yeah. - We're missing-- 511 00:21:21,633 --> 00:21:23,600 - So who ordered the cabinets? - I did. 512 00:21:23,633 --> 00:21:27,266 - You did? They missed two. - Two? 513 00:21:27,300 --> 00:21:29,734 - Yes. - Oh, okay. All right. 514 00:21:29,767 --> 00:21:31,467 - Almost there. - All right. 515 00:21:31,500 --> 00:21:34,667 I mean, it's like one thing after the other. 516 00:21:34,700 --> 00:21:38,500 Everything has a price tag: $3,500 for cabinets. 517 00:21:38,533 --> 00:21:42,767 Plumbing, $2,500. Floor, $2,000. 518 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:46,667 Electricity, $500 here, $1,000 here. 519 00:21:46,700 --> 00:21:48,633 My mom and I, like, we are in it. 520 00:21:48,667 --> 00:21:50,533 - So you gonna start with these upstairs? 521 00:21:50,567 --> 00:21:52,467 - Upstairs. Yeah. - Doorknobs. 522 00:21:52,500 --> 00:21:54,600 - I feel like we can do that now while they're working. 523 00:21:54,633 --> 00:21:56,533 Just save time. 524 00:21:56,567 --> 00:21:58,467 [quirky music] 525 00:21:58,500 --> 00:22:00,333 All we need is some lights, 526 00:22:00,367 --> 00:22:03,300 some carpet, and some doorknobs. 527 00:22:03,333 --> 00:22:04,700 - Right. - So... 528 00:22:04,734 --> 00:22:08,333 This venture, it's not only important for me 529 00:22:08,367 --> 00:22:10,500 personally and professionally 530 00:22:10,533 --> 00:22:13,100 but also with respect to my relationship with Juan. 531 00:22:13,133 --> 00:22:16,000 - Robyn asked me to bring some comparable sales, 532 00:22:16,033 --> 00:22:17,667 and the price that you guys want, 533 00:22:17,700 --> 00:22:19,500 I really believe you can get it. 534 00:22:19,533 --> 00:22:21,667 This is a property right around the corner 535 00:22:21,700 --> 00:22:25,066 under contract for over $165,000. 536 00:22:25,100 --> 00:22:27,600 - Wow. This makes me feel better. 537 00:22:27,633 --> 00:22:31,667 I'm excited to see what happens with our relationship 538 00:22:31,700 --> 00:22:34,667 when I start proving my success. 539 00:22:34,700 --> 00:22:40,567 ♪ ♪ 540 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:42,533 [drill clicks] [music stops abruptly] 541 00:22:42,567 --> 00:22:46,367 What the (BLEEP)? We don't have power. 542 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,300 Like, seriously. Why? 543 00:22:49,333 --> 00:22:50,700 Coming up next... 544 00:22:50,734 --> 00:22:52,500 - You say a lot of little slick stuff, 545 00:22:52,533 --> 00:22:56,433 and they're not meant to be friendly. 546 00:23:02,633 --> 00:23:03,100 [upbeat music] 547 00:23:05,433 --> 00:23:09,533 ♪ ♪ 548 00:23:09,567 --> 00:23:11,500 - Christopher, can you get Mommy's ball out the closet 549 00:23:11,533 --> 00:23:13,433 and bring it to me? Thank you. 550 00:23:13,467 --> 00:23:15,066 - How do you think everything went yesterday? 551 00:23:15,100 --> 00:23:17,033 - I prayed, and thank the Lord that it did go well. 552 00:23:17,066 --> 00:23:18,500 - I thought it went good. 553 00:23:18,533 --> 00:23:20,033 I thought you did a good job talking. 554 00:23:20,066 --> 00:23:21,533 - You know, I definitely appreciated-- 555 00:23:21,567 --> 00:23:22,767 - I really like that we're trying to work 556 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:24,166 to the right direction, you know? 557 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:25,667 - Yeah. No. 558 00:23:25,700 --> 00:23:28,100 I definitely appreciated the apology, for sure. 559 00:23:28,133 --> 00:23:30,233 I mean, a lot has happened, so it's, like, not just 560 00:23:30,266 --> 00:23:31,767 sweep it under the rug and forget about it, 561 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,633 but definitely, like, deal with whatever it is. 562 00:23:34,667 --> 00:23:36,500 Move forward. 563 00:23:36,533 --> 00:23:39,233 Keep going, and just, you know, get on a better page. 564 00:23:39,266 --> 00:23:40,600 My mother-in-law, I guess 565 00:23:40,633 --> 00:23:43,133 she wanted to make a public apology, 566 00:23:43,166 --> 00:23:45,166 since she publicly embarrassed me. 567 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,600 So for that, I'll say it was sincere, 568 00:23:47,633 --> 00:23:49,100 but damage has been done, 569 00:23:49,133 --> 00:23:51,533 and it's not just the name-calling. 570 00:23:51,567 --> 00:23:54,000 It's just, you know, you say a lot of stuff, Mrs. Samuels. 571 00:23:54,033 --> 00:23:55,533 - I know it. 572 00:23:55,567 --> 00:23:57,000 - You say a lot of little slick stuff. 573 00:23:57,033 --> 00:23:58,734 [dramatic music] 574 00:23:58,767 --> 00:24:01,266 - No. Now, that's an incorrect word. 575 00:24:01,300 --> 00:24:03,066 I'm not--I'm expressing myself. 576 00:24:03,100 --> 00:24:05,266 - Sometimes you take little shots and little jabs, 577 00:24:05,300 --> 00:24:08,166 and they're not meant to be friendly. 578 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:12,133 ♪ ♪ 579 00:24:12,166 --> 00:24:15,266 - You should know me and you know who I am 580 00:24:15,300 --> 00:24:18,567 and you know how I express myself, so you should do this. 581 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:20,567 I'm not telling you what to do, but know what I'm sayin', 582 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,266 it should have been like this. That's my mama, 583 00:24:23,300 --> 00:24:25,700 and my mama can say whatever she wants to say. 584 00:24:25,734 --> 00:24:27,300 - No. I don't think that anybody can just say 585 00:24:27,333 --> 00:24:29,066 what they want to say to people 586 00:24:29,100 --> 00:24:30,300 and then it hurts them and then, "That's my mom," 587 00:24:30,333 --> 00:24:31,567 or, "That's my dad, and they can say 588 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:32,734 what they want." No. That's not-- 589 00:24:32,767 --> 00:24:34,033 - Respect. Respect me. Who I am. 590 00:24:34,066 --> 00:24:35,233 - Listen, Mom. Mom, listen. 591 00:24:35,266 --> 00:24:36,700 - He knows what I'm talking about. 592 00:24:36,734 --> 00:24:39,567 - No, I don't. Let me handle this, Ma. 593 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,700 I want all of us to get along. You probably don't know this, 594 00:24:42,734 --> 00:24:45,767 but it's times I might hadn't talked to you in a month, 595 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,200 and Monique is the one getting on my case. 596 00:24:49,233 --> 00:24:51,033 "When the last time you talked to your mama?" 597 00:24:51,066 --> 00:24:53,266 So it's not like she's fighting against you. 598 00:24:53,300 --> 00:24:55,166 She's really with you, you know what I'm saying? 599 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,100 So let's work together, 600 00:24:57,133 --> 00:24:59,266 because it's not like we got a bunch of crackheads 601 00:24:59,300 --> 00:25:01,033 running around in the family stealing TVs. 602 00:25:01,066 --> 00:25:03,300 We don't have that issue, all right? 603 00:25:03,333 --> 00:25:05,600 So what my point is, let's just be family 604 00:25:05,633 --> 00:25:07,300 and have a good time together, 605 00:25:07,333 --> 00:25:09,600 because tomorrow ain't promised for none of us, you know? 606 00:25:09,633 --> 00:25:11,767 - Right. - You know, we're celebrating 607 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:13,600 another baby on the way, 608 00:25:13,633 --> 00:25:18,300 and it's like, you know, time out for all of the issues. 609 00:25:18,333 --> 00:25:20,166 - You are my family, 610 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,567 and we have lost too much time. - Yes. I agree with that. 611 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,767 - Too much time for this. - 'Cause I want my kids 612 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:26,200 to be able to spend time with their grands, 613 00:25:26,233 --> 00:25:28,000 like they should. 614 00:25:28,033 --> 00:25:29,767 I grew up with my grands and my great-grands, 615 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,133 so I want my kids to have that same opportunity. 616 00:25:32,166 --> 00:25:35,700 - Sometimes we go astray, but God have to bring us back, 617 00:25:35,734 --> 00:25:37,533 and so God is bringing us back now. 618 00:25:37,567 --> 00:25:39,300 - No doubt. I agree. - It's time to move on. 619 00:25:39,333 --> 00:25:40,700 Let's move forward. 620 00:25:40,734 --> 00:25:42,734 [upbeat music] 621 00:25:42,767 --> 00:25:44,266 - ♪ Whoo! ♪ 622 00:25:44,300 --> 00:25:48,100 ♪ ♪ 623 00:25:48,133 --> 00:25:49,567 - Why don't you have a seat over there? 624 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,200 - Thank you. - Thank you. 625 00:25:51,233 --> 00:25:52,767 - ♪ Hey! ♪ 626 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,100 - It's so nice to see both of you. 627 00:25:54,133 --> 00:25:56,233 - You too. - Nice to see you. 628 00:25:56,266 --> 00:25:57,700 Can we call you Doctor? 629 00:25:59,100 --> 00:26:02,233 So could you explain what your condition is? 630 00:26:02,266 --> 00:26:05,066 - I'm a little nervous to talk you about it, because... 631 00:26:05,100 --> 00:26:07,133 Michael and I recently did conceive, 632 00:26:07,166 --> 00:26:09,633 but then I lost the baby after a couple of weeks. 633 00:26:09,667 --> 00:26:11,533 - Couple weeks. - It was early miscarriage, 634 00:26:11,567 --> 00:26:14,567 but I've had one before, so I had one ten years ago, 635 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,333 and it was around the same time. 636 00:26:16,367 --> 00:26:18,133 So now I'm starting to think 637 00:26:18,166 --> 00:26:19,767 that there may be something going on with my body 638 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:23,233 that is preventing the zygote from embedding itself. 639 00:26:23,266 --> 00:26:24,633 - Right, right. 640 00:26:24,667 --> 00:26:27,000 May I ask your age, Michael? - 59. 641 00:26:27,033 --> 00:26:31,233 59, sometimes it's a good idea to check, like, sperm check. 642 00:26:31,266 --> 00:26:35,066 [mischievous music] 643 00:26:35,100 --> 00:26:36,367 - How did we get to that so quickly? 644 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,567 [laughter] 645 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,700 - No, because we actually--right after, 646 00:26:40,734 --> 00:26:42,133 when Michael and I started trying, 647 00:26:42,166 --> 00:26:44,100 we conceived within two months. 648 00:26:44,133 --> 00:26:45,667 - Oh, very quick. - Yes. 649 00:26:45,700 --> 00:26:46,734 So I don't think there's, like, 650 00:26:46,767 --> 00:26:49,066 a problem with the conception, 651 00:26:49,100 --> 00:26:50,700 so that's why I'm willing to try it again. 652 00:26:50,734 --> 00:26:53,166 But I want to make sure that I prime everything... 653 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:54,600 - Yes, yes. - To be right. 654 00:26:54,633 --> 00:26:56,133 - Yes, yes. 655 00:26:56,166 --> 00:26:57,367 - The first time that I got pregnant, 656 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:02,100 I was 19, and it was not planned. 657 00:27:02,133 --> 00:27:05,133 I actually was planning to have an abortion, 658 00:27:05,166 --> 00:27:09,300 but then I had the miscarriage, and I was sad. 659 00:27:09,333 --> 00:27:11,734 Now, trying to have a baby 660 00:27:11,767 --> 00:27:14,133 knowing that I was pregnant before 661 00:27:14,166 --> 00:27:16,033 makes me just feel like--almost, like, 662 00:27:16,066 --> 00:27:18,133 ashamed of myself for that. 663 00:27:18,166 --> 00:27:22,266 I've just got to keep in mind this is for the greater good. 664 00:27:22,300 --> 00:27:24,133 - So this is supposed to stimulate the uterus. 665 00:27:24,166 --> 00:27:25,300 - Okay. 666 00:27:25,333 --> 00:27:27,433 - Okay, so this is uterus point. 667 00:27:27,467 --> 00:27:29,166 - I feel a little pinch. 668 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,266 - Yes, but that's all. 669 00:27:31,300 --> 00:27:34,300 - Oh, yeah. Oh. Oh, wow. - Okay? Okay? 670 00:27:34,333 --> 00:27:37,700 - Yeah, I felt that one the most. 671 00:27:37,734 --> 00:27:39,667 - Just relax and about 30 minutes 672 00:27:39,700 --> 00:27:41,200 and I come back and remove them. 673 00:27:41,233 --> 00:27:44,166 - Awesome. - I'm looking forward to this. 674 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:45,734 - You're looking forward to having a baby with me? 675 00:27:45,767 --> 00:27:47,400 - Yeah. 676 00:27:47,433 --> 00:27:49,133 I'm not looking forward to those sleepless nights, 677 00:27:49,166 --> 00:27:52,233 but I'm looking forward to everything else. 678 00:27:52,266 --> 00:27:55,266 - I really want to bring a life into this world, 679 00:27:55,300 --> 00:27:59,266 and I really want to experience motherhood. 680 00:27:59,300 --> 00:28:02,200 It is incredibly painful seeing my husband 681 00:28:02,233 --> 00:28:06,333 have the most emotional reaction 682 00:28:06,367 --> 00:28:08,300 to us having lost a baby, 683 00:28:08,333 --> 00:28:10,400 and I can't imagine what will happen 684 00:28:10,433 --> 00:28:12,767 if we experience it again together. 685 00:28:15,333 --> 00:28:18,734 - Still to come, a sneak peek of what's ahead this season. 686 00:28:18,767 --> 00:28:20,633 - Guess what? (BLEEP) Karen too. 687 00:28:20,667 --> 00:28:22,734 - You green-eyed liar. - Security! 688 00:28:22,767 --> 00:28:24,200 - Get it together, Gizelle. 689 00:28:24,233 --> 00:28:26,000 - This has nothing to do with that. 690 00:28:26,033 --> 00:28:27,433 - Yes, it does! - No, it doesn't! 691 00:28:31,533 --> 00:28:32,000 [upbeat music] 692 00:28:34,333 --> 00:28:40,433 ♪ ♪ 693 00:28:40,467 --> 00:28:44,166 - Have some BBQ today. How are you? 694 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,767 - Fine. How are you? Good, good. 695 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,300 - Where your wife? 696 00:28:48,333 --> 00:28:49,433 Where's the wifey-poo? - I thought she was 697 00:28:49,467 --> 00:28:51,266 gonna be with you. - Really? 698 00:28:51,300 --> 00:28:52,367 - Well, I mean, at the same time maybe, I don't know. 699 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,100 - I'm hungry. 700 00:28:54,133 --> 00:28:55,300 - We can certainly sit down and eat, though. 701 00:28:55,333 --> 00:28:57,166 - We can? - Yes, at a table. 702 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,066 - I halfway like you better than her anyway. 703 00:28:59,100 --> 00:29:01,066 - Well, most people do, but that's okay. 704 00:29:01,100 --> 00:29:06,166 - Candiace can be a lot, but I truly enjoyed her 705 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:09,500 in New Orleans, and I really view her as a little sister. 706 00:29:09,533 --> 00:29:11,266 - They are the best chicken wings you will eat, I promise. 707 00:29:11,300 --> 00:29:13,066 - Ever? - Ever in life. 708 00:29:13,100 --> 00:29:15,500 - And I haven't been to her husband's restaurant. 709 00:29:15,533 --> 00:29:17,500 I need to check out this barbecue pit. 710 00:29:17,533 --> 00:29:21,467 Oh, thank you. Oh, I'm so excited. 711 00:29:21,500 --> 00:29:23,233 Just to thoroughly embarrass you... 712 00:29:23,266 --> 00:29:25,000 - Okay. - Candiace informed us 713 00:29:25,033 --> 00:29:27,033 of a whole lot of sexual things about you guys 714 00:29:27,066 --> 00:29:29,133 that I didn't want to know anything about, Chris. 715 00:29:29,166 --> 00:29:32,767 I didn't want to know. - [laughs] 716 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,100 - I am so late. I'm sorry. Hi, babe. 717 00:29:35,133 --> 00:29:36,533 - It's so good to see you. - How are you? 718 00:29:36,567 --> 00:29:38,333 - I'm good. - Are you keeping 719 00:29:38,367 --> 00:29:40,133 my friend entertained? - Yeah, I got her situated. 720 00:29:40,166 --> 00:29:42,333 Here, you can have my seat. Can I get you something? 721 00:29:42,367 --> 00:29:45,233 - I will just have the rib mac and cheese. 722 00:29:45,266 --> 00:29:46,400 - And a sweet tea? 723 00:29:46,433 --> 00:29:47,600 - Yes, please. - Okay. 724 00:29:47,633 --> 00:29:49,433 - Thank you. - You are welcome. 725 00:29:49,467 --> 00:29:52,367 - Hi. Oh, my God. Okay, well, I'm loving the wings. 726 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,233 It's very, very good. - Yes, yes, yes. 727 00:29:55,266 --> 00:29:57,233 Well, Chris is actually coming out with a cookbook. 728 00:29:57,266 --> 00:30:00,066 - What? - Oh, yeah, and then 729 00:30:00,100 --> 00:30:01,533 I want to have all the ladies over next week 730 00:30:01,567 --> 00:30:03,500 to test out the recipes. 731 00:30:03,533 --> 00:30:07,100 - Yes. We want to try the food. - They're gonna love it. 732 00:30:07,133 --> 00:30:08,533 What's happening now? 733 00:30:08,567 --> 00:30:10,367 - Oh, this is the baby back mac and cheese. 734 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,166 This is so good. You should try it. 735 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,400 - Okay, so you went to the rainbow party. 736 00:30:14,433 --> 00:30:17,000 - I did. Yes, yes, yes. - I was sad to have missed it. 737 00:30:17,033 --> 00:30:18,300 - It was a really nice party, overall. 738 00:30:18,333 --> 00:30:19,467 - Okay. - It was really, really sweet. 739 00:30:19,500 --> 00:30:21,233 Monique gave a speech... 740 00:30:21,266 --> 00:30:23,633 - Okay. - And offered up the microphone 741 00:30:23,667 --> 00:30:27,166 to have anyone who wanted to share their miscarriage story, 742 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:28,500 and then Ashley took the mic, 743 00:30:28,533 --> 00:30:32,333 and I immediately was like, "Oh, here we go. 744 00:30:32,367 --> 00:30:38,633 It was very like-- you know, and I just-- 745 00:30:38,667 --> 00:30:43,300 - Did--okay. Okay. - No tears, but all this-- 746 00:30:43,333 --> 00:30:45,600 - Was Michael crying? - I don't hell know. 747 00:30:45,633 --> 00:30:48,633 He was gone. I just don't buy it. 748 00:30:48,667 --> 00:30:53,333 I'm just not--I'm not purchasing the merchandise, 749 00:30:53,367 --> 00:30:56,633 so while I'm incredibly sympathetic to any woman 750 00:30:56,667 --> 00:30:58,567 who has dealt with a miscarriage, 751 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,600 let us not forget her good old husband Michael 752 00:31:01,633 --> 00:31:03,467 did tell us that he wants to be out here, 753 00:31:03,500 --> 00:31:07,133 you know, putting his mouth on people's penises. 754 00:31:07,166 --> 00:31:11,467 However, I'm just gonna keep it to myself for now. 755 00:31:11,500 --> 00:31:14,467 I still think that there's some mutiny and some bullsh-- afoot. 756 00:31:14,500 --> 00:31:18,066 - So you really don't think she's trying to get pregnant? 757 00:31:18,100 --> 00:31:22,433 - I think that, in general, Ashley is always on bullsh-- 758 00:31:22,467 --> 00:31:27,400 with her intentions to get pregnant. 759 00:31:27,433 --> 00:31:30,166 - I would encourage you to give her the benefit of the doubt 760 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,567 and not squint your eyes. 761 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,533 Candiace, why are you in her business like that? 762 00:31:34,567 --> 00:31:36,300 Ashley getting pregnant 763 00:31:36,333 --> 00:31:38,633 is between Ashley and Michael's penis, 764 00:31:38,667 --> 00:31:40,333 and we've all seen Michael's penis... 765 00:31:40,367 --> 00:31:43,300 [laughs] 766 00:31:43,333 --> 00:31:46,066 So actually it's between Ashley and everybody. 767 00:31:46,100 --> 00:31:47,567 Now, listen. - Yes. 768 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,133 - 'Cause I want to back up. - Oh, where are we going? 769 00:31:50,166 --> 00:31:52,100 - Let's talk about New Orleans really quickly. 770 00:31:52,133 --> 00:31:54,300 - New Orleans, overall amazing. - I'm glad you enjoyed it. 771 00:31:54,333 --> 00:31:56,734 - For the most part, you know. There were some hiccups. 772 00:31:56,767 --> 00:31:58,200 - Except there were some little hiccups, you know. 773 00:31:58,233 --> 00:32:00,367 - Yeah, there was a conversation 774 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,266 that I had with Monique. 775 00:32:02,300 --> 00:32:05,567 She just has some really funny things to say about Katie. 776 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,300 - Are they fun? It's funny? - I guess Monique and Katie 777 00:32:08,333 --> 00:32:09,734 had first met two years ago or something. 778 00:32:09,767 --> 00:32:11,667 - Yeah at, like, a charity event. 779 00:32:11,700 --> 00:32:13,467 - Right, so Katie was, like, you know, dressed to the nines 780 00:32:13,500 --> 00:32:15,600 and had her evening gown and stuff going on, 781 00:32:15,633 --> 00:32:18,600 and so Monique was kind of comparing 782 00:32:18,633 --> 00:32:20,233 that to how Katie looks now, 783 00:32:20,266 --> 00:32:22,567 and she said she looked like "Amistad." 784 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:26,600 - When I first met her, she was very primmed and proper, 785 00:32:26,633 --> 00:32:30,300 and now it's like she's turned into Ashley on steroids, 786 00:32:30,333 --> 00:32:32,600 like, free spirit, like, I mean... 787 00:32:32,633 --> 00:32:35,633 - Really? - "Amistad," "Give us free." 788 00:32:35,667 --> 00:32:38,400 - Right, right. And you laughed? 789 00:32:38,433 --> 00:32:40,133 - I don't think I laughed. 790 00:32:40,166 --> 00:32:43,133 [laughs] Shut up. 791 00:32:44,367 --> 00:32:46,500 - Monique thinks that she's a slave? 792 00:32:46,533 --> 00:32:48,133 Oh, okay. 793 00:32:48,166 --> 00:32:49,667 Why, because she had her hair wrapped up? 794 00:32:49,700 --> 00:32:51,300 - Yeah, we were all wrapped up. - So we all wrapped up. 795 00:32:51,333 --> 00:32:52,600 - Right, right, right. - We black women. 796 00:32:52,633 --> 00:32:54,266 That's what we do. We wrap our hair up. 797 00:32:54,300 --> 00:32:55,500 - Mm-hmm. - You were wrapped up. 798 00:32:55,533 --> 00:32:56,700 - I was. - She was braided up. 799 00:32:56,734 --> 00:32:58,166 - Yeah. - I was wigged up, 800 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,467 but Katie's a slave? 801 00:33:00,500 --> 00:33:03,633 Yeah. That's not cool. That's borderline asshole-ish. 802 00:33:03,667 --> 00:33:06,333 - [sighs] 803 00:33:06,367 --> 00:33:11,767 I just--I should have just shut the (BLEEP) up, like... 804 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:13,333 - You didn't hear it from me. 805 00:33:13,367 --> 00:33:14,734 - Who else did I hear it from, Jesus? 806 00:33:14,767 --> 00:33:16,400 - A bird. - You came from Jesus? 807 00:33:16,433 --> 00:33:18,233 - I did. - I heard it from Jesus. 808 00:33:18,266 --> 00:33:21,567 [both laugh] 809 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,567 [upbeat music] 810 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:28,533 ♪ ♪ 811 00:33:28,567 --> 00:33:30,633 - Hello. - Afternoon. 812 00:33:30,667 --> 00:33:32,333 What brings you in today? 813 00:33:32,367 --> 00:33:34,667 - I'm here to do a class with my friend Karen. 814 00:33:34,700 --> 00:33:37,333 We're here to do a healing session. 815 00:33:37,367 --> 00:33:39,166 - Ooh. Wha! 816 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,400 - Because meditation and especially yoga 817 00:33:41,433 --> 00:33:43,567 and spirituality has helped me so much, 818 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,266 I know that Karen is going through a very 819 00:33:45,300 --> 00:33:46,500 challenging time right now. 820 00:33:46,533 --> 00:33:47,667 Hi, there. - Good to see you. 821 00:33:47,700 --> 00:33:49,467 - So glad you could make it. 822 00:33:49,500 --> 00:33:51,567 - Well, thank you for inviting me. I'm excited. 823 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:53,667 - Yeah. Me too. So I hope that she will also 824 00:33:53,700 --> 00:33:58,300 benefit from a little bit of Zen-like atmosphere. 825 00:33:58,333 --> 00:34:00,000 - Hello, ladies. - Hello. How are you? 826 00:34:00,033 --> 00:34:01,467 - Awesome. I'm Terry. - I'm Karen. 827 00:34:01,500 --> 00:34:02,767 - Nice to meet you. - Very nice to meet you. 828 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,333 - Hi. I'm Ashley. - Hi, Ashley. 829 00:34:04,367 --> 00:34:05,567 I'm a hugger, but you guys are-- 830 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:06,700 - We can hug. 831 00:34:06,734 --> 00:34:08,433 - You know what my friend told me? 832 00:34:08,467 --> 00:34:10,400 She said, people don't breathe when they hug. 833 00:34:10,433 --> 00:34:13,633 Like, when you actually go to hug someone you should like-- 834 00:34:13,667 --> 00:34:15,300 [inhales] 835 00:34:15,333 --> 00:34:17,000 [exhales] 836 00:34:17,033 --> 00:34:18,734 [quirky music] 837 00:34:18,767 --> 00:34:20,734 - [whispers] Okay, that's-- 838 00:34:20,767 --> 00:34:23,433 - Oh, my. Thank you. 839 00:34:23,467 --> 00:34:25,300 - So breathe in. 840 00:34:25,333 --> 00:34:27,567 Oh. 841 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:31,300 All right. - [exhales] 842 00:34:31,333 --> 00:34:33,567 I need you to let me go now. 843 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:37,300 [mysterious music] 844 00:34:37,333 --> 00:34:39,767 Oh, wow. This is exciting, so peaceful. 845 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:41,734 - Yes. - Is this really salt? 846 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:43,567 - This is pink Himalayan salt. 847 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:47,066 It's ground down so fine that you don't feel it 848 00:34:47,100 --> 00:34:48,633 but you breathe it in. 849 00:34:48,667 --> 00:34:51,300 It helps you to release any resistance 850 00:34:51,333 --> 00:34:53,333 because of the negative ions. It's natural. 851 00:34:53,367 --> 00:34:55,700 It's from the earth, and so if you're feeling like 852 00:34:55,734 --> 00:34:58,600 there's a bunch of stuff going on in your life, 853 00:34:58,633 --> 00:35:00,400 you're going to easily let it go. 854 00:35:00,433 --> 00:35:01,600 - This is perfect for Karen and I 855 00:35:01,633 --> 00:35:03,300 because I had a miscarriage 856 00:35:03,333 --> 00:35:04,700 and Karen lost both of her parents, 857 00:35:04,734 --> 00:35:08,233 and so that feeling of loss and sadness 858 00:35:08,266 --> 00:35:10,533 I would just--we put all of our differences aside, 859 00:35:10,567 --> 00:35:12,700 because they were so minimal and menial. 860 00:35:12,734 --> 00:35:14,600 - She's done better than me. 861 00:35:14,633 --> 00:35:17,600 You take your fake marriage and ram it up your ass, okay? 862 00:35:17,633 --> 00:35:19,333 Your husband always crying when he around you. 863 00:35:19,367 --> 00:35:20,667 You make him miserable. 864 00:35:20,700 --> 00:35:22,467 - So I'm gonna just sit next to you, dear. 865 00:35:22,500 --> 00:35:24,367 Usually I will touch one 866 00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,633 or several of the seven major chakras. 867 00:35:26,667 --> 00:35:30,367 So the diaphragm is the space that a lot of people 868 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,266 like to shove a lot of energy. 869 00:35:32,300 --> 00:35:34,266 I'm feeling like you have a ton of stuff 870 00:35:34,300 --> 00:35:36,300 in your diaphragm, so... 871 00:35:36,333 --> 00:35:38,400 - Well, I didn't go to the bathroom this morning. 872 00:35:38,433 --> 00:35:40,367 [laughter] 873 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:41,600 - This is a new Karen. 874 00:35:41,633 --> 00:35:43,066 Karen doesn't usually do poo talk, 875 00:35:43,100 --> 00:35:45,266 so we're really making leaps and bounds. 876 00:35:45,300 --> 00:35:47,734 - Constipation is a major part of my grief. I'm just saying. 877 00:35:47,767 --> 00:35:50,500 - And I'll touch your back too. 878 00:35:57,567 --> 00:35:59,734 - I don't think so, but okay. 879 00:35:59,767 --> 00:36:01,734 - This kind of-- what you're doing is, 880 00:36:01,767 --> 00:36:03,467 you're holding that. 881 00:36:03,500 --> 00:36:06,300 - That's who I am though. - Just be open, babe. 882 00:36:06,333 --> 00:36:08,000 Open to the process. 883 00:36:08,033 --> 00:36:10,066 - Ah. 884 00:36:10,100 --> 00:36:13,066 This is some bullsh--. I'm just saying. 885 00:36:13,100 --> 00:36:16,600 - As being an intuitive, I'm also a psychic medium. 886 00:36:16,633 --> 00:36:18,500 - Oh, Lord. 887 00:36:18,533 --> 00:36:22,533 - So your dad is saying, "You got this, baby girl." 888 00:36:24,567 --> 00:36:28,600 I felt him come in and I was holding him back... 889 00:36:30,700 --> 00:36:33,100 But he is right here. 890 00:36:38,033 --> 00:36:43,333 I'm--but I want you to know how--I want you to know. 891 00:36:43,367 --> 00:36:47,000 I want you to know. I want you to know. 892 00:36:47,033 --> 00:36:49,433 I can hear him, and he's saying-- 893 00:36:49,467 --> 00:36:51,633 - I know. - He's saying, "You got this." 894 00:36:51,667 --> 00:36:53,100 - I know I have. 895 00:36:58,734 --> 00:36:59,200 [tender music] 896 00:37:00,567 --> 00:37:02,567 - Your dad is right here. 897 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:06,767 ♪ ♪ 898 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:10,066 I'm s-- 899 00:37:10,100 --> 00:37:12,667 I can hear him, and he's saying-- 900 00:37:12,700 --> 00:37:15,000 - I know. - He's saying, "You got this." 901 00:37:15,033 --> 00:37:17,000 - I know I have. - And he's saying, 902 00:37:17,033 --> 00:37:21,000 just because he's not here, you got this. 903 00:37:21,033 --> 00:37:25,767 - Oh, I know that, Daddy. I just miss you. 904 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:33,033 ♪ ♪ 905 00:37:33,734 --> 00:37:36,700 - Your platform is missing, meaning your dad 906 00:37:36,734 --> 00:37:40,066 was the space of the energy to hold you. 907 00:37:40,100 --> 00:37:43,133 - My parents, they were my platform. 908 00:37:43,166 --> 00:37:44,700 - Right, right. - They still are. 909 00:37:44,734 --> 00:37:50,767 I just now am putting my arms around the loss. 910 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:52,600 ♪ ♪ 911 00:37:52,633 --> 00:37:57,567 Losing parents, not one but two, 912 00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:02,200 ----ing sucks, and so my platform has shifted. 913 00:38:02,233 --> 00:38:05,066 They're not here. They're not here. 914 00:38:05,100 --> 00:38:09,133 It's like I know what's important now, 915 00:38:09,166 --> 00:38:13,000 and what's important to me is my family and my friends 916 00:38:13,033 --> 00:38:17,734 that I let close to me. 917 00:38:17,767 --> 00:38:19,667 - This is a great step, 918 00:38:19,700 --> 00:38:22,533 because once you step into opening up this space to share, 919 00:38:22,567 --> 00:38:24,233 it's the truth that comes out. 920 00:38:24,266 --> 00:38:28,066 It really will allow you to see the good things 921 00:38:28,100 --> 00:38:31,600 that you may not really be seeing because you're in pain. 922 00:38:31,633 --> 00:38:34,500 ♪ ♪ 923 00:38:34,533 --> 00:38:39,767 - Talking about my father is very difficult, 924 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,600 but it's healing to feel his presence in the room 925 00:38:42,633 --> 00:38:44,033 with me right now, 926 00:38:44,066 --> 00:38:48,700 and it is healing to talk about it. 927 00:38:48,734 --> 00:38:51,000 - This is what this is about. - Thank you. 928 00:38:51,033 --> 00:38:53,700 - So I want you to enjoy the extra time that we have here. 929 00:38:53,734 --> 00:38:55,633 Let go of those things that you feel that you're afraid of. 930 00:38:55,667 --> 00:38:57,066 - Thank you. Thank you. 931 00:38:57,100 --> 00:38:58,100 - I'll see you both again, okay? 932 00:38:58,133 --> 00:38:59,600 - Thank you. 933 00:38:59,633 --> 00:39:00,700 - Come on back. - That was beautiful. Wow. 934 00:39:00,734 --> 00:39:02,633 - Thank you. - Thank you. 935 00:39:02,667 --> 00:39:04,367 - Oh, wow. - This was good, Ashley. 936 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:05,734 This was very good. 937 00:39:05,767 --> 00:39:08,200 Just opening up. It was good juju. 938 00:39:08,233 --> 00:39:10,033 - I need to hear that too. 939 00:39:10,066 --> 00:39:12,233 I just feel so overwhelmed, too, and I get stuck myself. 940 00:39:12,266 --> 00:39:13,767 I'm having so much self-doubt right now. 941 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:15,166 I don't think I've ever felt this... 942 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:16,300 - Really? - Doubtful about myself, 943 00:39:16,333 --> 00:39:17,600 in my life. 944 00:39:17,633 --> 00:39:19,300 - Why? - Just, you know-- 945 00:39:19,333 --> 00:39:21,734 - You seem to have more purpose when I hear you talk, 946 00:39:21,767 --> 00:39:24,767 especially about, you know, you wanting to be a mom. 947 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:31,100 - I just feel, like, this overwhelming, like, anxiety 948 00:39:31,133 --> 00:39:32,767 because I've had two miscarriages. 949 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,700 And so I'm like, "What if that means that, you know, 950 00:39:34,734 --> 00:39:36,400 I'm not meant to be a mother?" 951 00:39:36,433 --> 00:39:39,734 Like, what if my body is not meant to carry a child? 952 00:39:39,767 --> 00:39:42,734 [somber music] 953 00:39:42,767 --> 00:39:45,233 ♪ ♪ 954 00:39:45,266 --> 00:39:49,266 It's very scary for me. 955 00:39:49,300 --> 00:39:53,133 I'm just afraid that my husband, you know, 956 00:39:53,166 --> 00:39:58,200 he's 60 years old almost, and I'm afraid that, 957 00:39:58,233 --> 00:40:01,133 ultimately, I'm gonna end up alone. 958 00:40:01,166 --> 00:40:04,300 - Is that really what's going on with you? 959 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:10,266 So Michael's 60. Ray was 50 when Rayvin was born, 960 00:40:10,300 --> 00:40:12,166 and let me tell you, that is the best gift. 961 00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:17,300 I gave him his only biological child in this world, 962 00:40:17,333 --> 00:40:20,633 but his baby gave him reason, so it could keep 963 00:40:20,667 --> 00:40:25,300 Michael--that baby will keep Michael young, Ashley. 964 00:40:25,333 --> 00:40:28,133 - I really need to hear that. - Okay. 965 00:40:28,166 --> 00:40:30,700 - Yeah. 966 00:40:30,734 --> 00:40:35,367 - This has been truly something I will never forget. 967 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:36,767 - If you had asked me a year ago 968 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,033 if I would be opening up to Karen, 969 00:40:39,066 --> 00:40:40,700 I would have said hell to the no, 970 00:40:40,734 --> 00:40:43,700 but the fact that we are here and sharing this moment, 971 00:40:43,734 --> 00:40:47,200 it shows a lot about how far Karen and I have come. 972 00:40:47,233 --> 00:40:48,667 I care about her 973 00:40:48,700 --> 00:40:50,433 and I want her to get to a good place 974 00:40:50,467 --> 00:40:53,233 and also for us to get to a good place together. 975 00:40:53,266 --> 00:40:55,200 - High five. - I really appreciate this, 976 00:40:55,233 --> 00:40:56,700 Karen. Come here, baby. Come here. 977 00:40:56,734 --> 00:40:58,333 - Let's leave the good juju in the room. 978 00:40:58,367 --> 00:41:00,300 - Boob to boob. Boob to boob. Boob to boob. 979 00:41:00,333 --> 00:41:02,066 - No. No boob to--oh, my God. See? This is where you lose me. 980 00:41:02,100 --> 00:41:04,200 This is where you lose--I'm running. I'm running. 981 00:41:04,233 --> 00:41:05,734 - Still to come this season 982 00:41:05,767 --> 00:41:07,333 on "The Real Housewives of Potomac"... 983 00:41:07,367 --> 00:41:09,066 - Let's pray. 984 00:41:09,100 --> 00:41:11,200 - Gracious Lord, we thank you for this day. 985 00:41:11,233 --> 00:41:13,100 We thank you for friendship. 986 00:41:13,133 --> 00:41:15,467 - We don't have to be friends. - We thank you for peace. 987 00:41:15,500 --> 00:41:19,200 Get the (BLEEP) out! Let us find forgiveness. 988 00:41:19,233 --> 00:41:21,200 - Karma is a bitch, honey. The bar of soap? 989 00:41:21,233 --> 00:41:22,700 You might want to help your husband. 990 00:41:22,734 --> 00:41:24,367 - And let us not shade each other to death. 991 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,100 - Let's go to the Caymans! 992 00:41:27,133 --> 00:41:28,200 [boat horn blares] 993 00:41:28,233 --> 00:41:30,066 - Whoo! - Ah! 994 00:41:30,100 --> 00:41:33,233 - They are taking the title for drama and nonsense. 995 00:41:33,266 --> 00:41:35,333 - He's talking about wanting a baby, and I'm like, "Uh-uh." 996 00:41:35,367 --> 00:41:38,300 - Is it a deal-breaker? Do I need to talk to Juan? 997 00:41:38,333 --> 00:41:40,166 - Gizelle being messy is a train 998 00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:41,767 that always arrives on time. 999 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,734 - Old Gizelle, she back, so guess what? 1000 00:41:43,767 --> 00:41:45,166 (BLEEP) Karen too. 1001 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,266 - You green-eyed liar. - Security! 1002 00:41:47,300 --> 00:41:48,667 - Get it together, Gizelle. 1003 00:41:48,700 --> 00:41:50,133 - This has nothing to do with that. 1004 00:41:50,166 --> 00:41:51,667 - Yes, it does! - No, it doesn't. 1005 00:41:51,700 --> 00:41:53,300 - You don't want to face what I'm saying to you. 1006 00:41:53,333 --> 00:41:55,100 - I'm not gonna have that. 1007 00:41:55,133 --> 00:41:57,500 - She just smacked me in the face with her purse. 1008 00:41:57,533 --> 00:41:59,467 - Candiace is just a brat. 1009 00:41:59,500 --> 00:42:01,333 - What you've been doing for 32 years hasn't ----ing worked. 1010 00:42:01,367 --> 00:42:03,266 - This is my ----ing life! 1011 00:42:03,300 --> 00:42:04,700 - I'm your ----ing husband, and you don't listen to me. 1012 00:42:04,734 --> 00:42:06,266 - I don't listen to sh--. 1013 00:42:06,300 --> 00:42:08,100 - What happens if the marriage fails? 1014 00:42:08,133 --> 00:42:10,133 Are you back to being a little girl again? 1015 00:42:10,166 --> 00:42:11,400 - Who you calling a little girl? 1016 00:42:11,433 --> 00:42:12,767 - I'm talking to you. 1017 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,333 - Walk away. - I will drag you. 1018 00:42:14,367 --> 00:42:17,200 - Drag my ass. - Michael walked past us 1019 00:42:17,233 --> 00:42:19,367 and was like, "Yeah, I would suck his dick." 1020 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,767 - Who was he talking about? - One of our men. 1021 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:23,200 - Is he gay? - No, girl. 1022 00:42:23,233 --> 00:42:24,367 - Why would you want 1023 00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,100 to have a baby... - Right. 1024 00:42:26,133 --> 00:42:28,333 - With a man who wants to be having fellatio 1025 00:42:28,367 --> 00:42:30,367 with other men allegedly? 1026 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,734 - Where there's smoke there's fire, honey. 1027 00:42:32,767 --> 00:42:34,166 - A cameraman accused Michael 1028 00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,166 of assaulting him while filming. 1029 00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,000 - The case search said probable cause. 1030 00:42:39,033 --> 00:42:40,767 - That's not tea. That's facts. 1031 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,233 - You really think she's naive? - I think that she's stupid. 1032 00:42:43,266 --> 00:42:44,767 - You need to fill the void in your heart 1033 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:46,266 and not between your legs, okay? 1034 00:42:46,300 --> 00:42:48,200 - It's you in the hot seat right now. 1035 00:42:48,233 --> 00:42:51,166 Handle your business, lady. - You are so ----ing sideways. 1036 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,200 - He admitted that there was contact. 1037 00:42:53,233 --> 00:42:55,166 - Don't ----ing put your finger in my face. 1038 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,066 - And Lord, bless us as we journey together through 1039 00:42:58,100 --> 00:43:01,367 these little friendships, in Jesus' name. Amen. 1040 00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,033 - For more of "The Real Housewives of Potomac," 1041 00:43:04,066 --> 00:43:06,200 head over to bravotv.com.