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Here we go.

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[man]
<i>Previously on</i> 90 Day Fiancé:
Happily Ever After?

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We have made it to the airport

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and we are getting ready
to go where?

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-Where are we going?
-Africa.

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-Yay.
-To Africa.

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Here we go.

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[Lisa speaking]

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Listen, we need to get
a bigger house.

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It costs a lot of money
to buy a house.

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You know, you're not
even pregnant yet.

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If you are pregnant,
that's a different story.

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What Gino doesn't know
is that I had issues

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in the past getting pregnant.

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I should have told him
the truth, but I didn't.

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So this is what I'm wearing?

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Probably not ideal.

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<i>Today, Mahmoud's coming.</i>

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We have been waiting for this
day for a really long time,

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<i>but I'm feeling</i>
<i>like really anxious</i>

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because this is our
last chance.

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It's clear he doesn't fully
trust me with everything.

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<i>We've known each other</i>
<i>for 10 years</i>

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and I never met
Manuel's children.

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Yeah.

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[Rob] I would like for you
to come home

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so that we could try
to work our [bleep] out.

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In my opinion,
you're the same as before,
two and a half months ago.

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I have nothing to talk about.

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I don't know if I'll ever be
able to trust him again

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after he online-cheated
on me multiple times.

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<i>I just... I really don't want</i>
<i>the marriage to...</i>

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[sobs]

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[dramatic music playing]

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[country music playing]

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We are living the Michigan
camping life.

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Let's go.

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I'm tired.

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Yeah, I ate too many of this.

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Not on the chair or...
It's gooey.

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On the floor?

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Isn't that how you like it?

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[country music playing]

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Come into our new house.

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This says mortgage free.

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[Jasmine] You're lucky
that I love you.

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-I'll make her see lightning.
-[Jasmine laughs]

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Ooh.

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She likes that.

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You know, baby,
this is our honeymoon

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so no inhibitions, okay?

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Let me do your feet.

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They're not dirty?

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I don't mind.

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-Ooh.
-[Jasmine laughs]

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I love your feet so much.

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You like it?

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Yeah. Oh, yeah.

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Just like that, baby.

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[laughs]

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I am obsessed
with my man feet.

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-[Gino] Oh.
-You're my little baby.
[moans]

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<i>I discover that I have</i>
<i>a foot fetish.</i>

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[Jasmine speaking]

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I don't know.
One thing leads to the other

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and I always end up
sucking his toes.

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[Gino] Yes, baby.

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Thank God for my toes.

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Amen.

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[Gino] Oh, yes.

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Suck that toe.

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[Gino] Oh, gosh. I love it.

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Woo!

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Is there anything else
that you would like to try?

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[laughter]

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Yeah.

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You're so funny.

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[Jasmine speaking]

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[Gino] Oh, my gosh.

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Wow. You are wild.

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Shut up.

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You're mine.

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Oh, my God. Yeah.

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Yeah, baby.

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-[birds chirping]
-[singer vocalizing]

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[Jasmine speaking]

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How did you sleep? Look.

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[in Spanish]

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It's been not the most
luxurious honeymoon

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-but the horniest.
-[laughter]

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Our poor neighbors.

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-Wow.
-But it was very good night.

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Thank you, Jesus.

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I'm hoping
we just made a baby.

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I'm so excited.

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-Hey, you want a coffee?
-Oh, my God.

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I just picked one up for you.

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Did you brush?

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-Yeah. In the river.
-[laughs]

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Mwah.

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So how did you sleep
last night?

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I really had a good night.

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The best night.

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[bleep] place
but amazing night.

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It was unforgettable,

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wonderful.

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[Jasmine speaking]

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Now,
I wanna show you something.

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-A woman doesn't--
-Wow. You've been busy.

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I know. Let me explain.

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So it was yesterday.
This is the first...

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-Oh, wow.
-ovulation day.

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So today, you know,
that is the next day

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of my ovulation, two fish.

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-Why two fish?
-Because we have to make
love twice.

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Twice?

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Well, get ready for the fifth,

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that you have to do it
four times

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because it's the higher day.

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-Because this is the--
-Whoa.

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-This day is super important.
-That's gonna be rough.

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I'll need my blue pills
that day.

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So for six days,

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we have to make love one, two,

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three, four, five, six, seven,
eight, nine, ten,

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eleven, twelve times

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-in six days.
-Wow. That's a lot.

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During the ovulation window,

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there are days

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in which there
is the higher possibility

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of getting pregnant.

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And during those days,

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you know, you have to give me
more fish.

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I mean,
sex four times in a day,

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three times in a day,
you know, um,

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it just seems like a bit much.

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<i>Are you sure</i>
<i>you're not exaggerating?</i>

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100% sure.

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You... You're making this
such a panic and such a rush,

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it's gonna take the, uh,
the realness out of this.

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-[Jasmine] It's not--
-[Gino] That... Be natural.

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-That's a--
-It's not gonna happen
naturally...

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-[Gino] Yes, it was.
-if we don't make love

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the days that I'm ovulating.

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I don't want it
forced like this.

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[Jasmine]
We are not forcing it.

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We are planning
to have a baby and...

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I'm not the most fertile
person in the world.

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It was very hard for me
to conceive my son, JC.

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It was very hard.

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It wasn't just like,
oh, it happened.

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It wasn't like that. I even...

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I even had to go
through hormonal treatment

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to get pregnant.

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You never told me that before.

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I always knew from the very
beginning of our relationship

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that Gino wanted to have kids,

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but I was afraid
of letting him know

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that, hey, I struggled
with fertility before.

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<i>The whole thing was very hard</i>

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<i>on my relationship</i>
<i>with my ex.</i>

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<i>That's why I'm scared</i>
<i>that it will affect also</i>

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<i>my relationship with Gino.</i>

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But now that we're trying
to make a baby,

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I need to be 100% honest.

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[Jasmine speaking]

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It was very traumatic for me.

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[Gino] Baby,
don't be in such a panic.

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You're young.

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You are only in your 30s.

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The fact that I'm now
the age I am,

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it's gonna make everything
more difficult.

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Don't worry.
Everything is gonna be okay.

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I think it's gonna
naturally happen

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and you'll get pregnant
when you least expect it.

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I'm very relieved, baby, that
I finally opened my heart.

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<i>I was really nervous</i>
<i>to tell you.</i>

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I felt that you will be
so mad at me.

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No, no, no, no.

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<i>I understand why</i>
<i>you waited to tell me.</i>

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But just have some faith.

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Everything's gonna work out.

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[in Spanish]

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Aw.

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I'm gonna miss this place.

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I'm not.

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I never gonna come back.

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[upbeat music playing]

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Little fish.

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[Emily] Do it again.
Let's see a fish. Ready?

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Here we are. Layover right
before the long flight,

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"sleeping over flight".

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[upbeat music playing]

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[Emily] I know,
but where are we?

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Africa.

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-[Emily] Are you excited?
-Whoop whoop.

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[Emily] Whoop whoop.

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[singer]
<i>♪ Hey ♪</i>

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[vocalizing]

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<i>♪ Hey ♪</i>

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[vocalizing]

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[car horns honking]

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[Kobe] All right.
We're good to go.

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[Emily] We're here. Woo!

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[Kobe] Don't run me over.

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<i>Feels so good to touch down</i>
<i>in Douala, man.</i>

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I'm already getting the vibe
that, you know,

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I never had when I flew
into the United States.

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[Kobe speaking]

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But right now I feel like

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I'm full of so much energy

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just to keep going
and going and going and going.

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Like I wanna meet my people.
I wanna meet my friends.

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I wanna meet my family.

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I just wanna keep going.
Like...

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[exhales]

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it's beautiful.

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We finally made it.

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All right, baba, sit down.
Let's go.

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Oh, my word.

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[Emily]
<i>I'm excited to be here.</i>

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<i>I can't wait to meet</i>
<i>his family</i>

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<i>and to meet his friends.</i>

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And I can't wait to, you know,

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be in your home country.

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And I can't wait
to be in a bed.

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[laughs]

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I'm home, my word.

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-Hey, Kobe.
-[laughter]

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Finally, you are here.

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-Hi.
-Hey, Emily. Yo.

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Yo. Welcome to Cameroon.

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I'm happy seeing you.

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I was so happy to be here.

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Say hi.
This is daddy's best friend.

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Come give...
Come give him a big hug.

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[laughter]

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[Lisa speaking]

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-Two years.
-Two and a half years.

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I mean, the day I left.

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Yeah.

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-Oh, Scarlet.
-[Emily] Oh, Scarlet.

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I'm happy to see you.
Oh, you're grown.

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[Kobe] Finally, we are here.

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I know.

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Woo!

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I'm ready to party.

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Yeah. I'm happy.

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-Exactly, yeah.
-You look good.

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Thank you.

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[laughter]

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[Valery speaking]

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Where are we putting
all of this?

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-The car is down there.
-Uh-huh.

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It's down there with the van.

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Yes. Okay.

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-It's about to rain, so--
-And it's about to rain.

258
00:12:58,467 --> 00:12:59,567
-Let's go.
-Yeah.

259
00:12:59,567 --> 00:13:00,667
-Yeah.
-Okay.

260
00:13:00,667 --> 00:13:02,533
[Valery speaking]

261
00:13:30,467 --> 00:13:32,867
-Yeah, man.
-[Emily] It's gonna be fun.
Hop in there, babe.

262
00:13:32,867 --> 00:13:34,734
Baba, get in there. Let's go.

263
00:13:37,567 --> 00:13:39,667
[Valery in foreign language]

264
00:13:40,667 --> 00:13:41,867
[Emily] Babe, what's going on?

265
00:13:41,867 --> 00:13:43,634
-Huh?
-What's happening?

266
00:13:47,567 --> 00:13:48,834
[Emily] Oh, okay, okay.

267
00:13:49,767 --> 00:13:51,934
Okay.
We are going through the ramp.

268
00:13:54,367 --> 00:13:56,033
All right.
Where is the car at?

269
00:13:57,367 --> 00:13:58,767
Over here?

270
00:13:59,767 --> 00:14:01,667
<i>In Cameroon,</i>
<i>apparently, it's common</i>

271
00:14:01,667 --> 00:14:03,767
<i>to have people help you</i>
<i>with your luggage.</i>

272
00:14:03,767 --> 00:14:06,867
But I have never seen
so many porters in my life.

273
00:14:06,867 --> 00:14:08,567
<i>In America,</i>
<i>when you get off a flight,</i>

274
00:14:08,567 --> 00:14:10,000
<i>nobody helps you</i>
<i>with your luggage.</i>

275
00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:12,367
<i>You just buy one of those</i>
<i>trolleys and like</i>

276
00:14:12,367 --> 00:14:14,166
<i>throw everything on there</i>
<i>and go.</i>

277
00:14:14,166 --> 00:14:17,100
So it's definitely
a very different situation

278
00:14:17,100 --> 00:14:18,433
that we've been in.

279
00:14:19,100 --> 00:14:21,166
[Lisa speaking]

280
00:14:27,900 --> 00:14:29,467
Wait. Do we have enough stuff?

281
00:14:29,467 --> 00:14:31,367
Is everything in the car?

282
00:14:31,367 --> 00:14:34,100
I mean, there's no bag
sitting out. Hopefully.

283
00:14:34,100 --> 00:14:35,767
Well, I guess we'll find out
when we get there

284
00:14:35,767 --> 00:14:37,433
if we have all our bags.

285
00:14:38,367 --> 00:14:40,467
[in foreign language]

286
00:14:40,467 --> 00:14:42,200
[indistinct chatter]

287
00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:44,000
[Emily] What's happening?

288
00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,300
Kobe, they are going
to [indistinct]

289
00:14:46,300 --> 00:14:47,867
[man speaking language]

290
00:14:47,867 --> 00:14:49,266
-Babe.
-[Kobe speaking language]

291
00:14:49,266 --> 00:14:50,367
[man speaking language]

292
00:14:50,367 --> 00:14:52,533
[indistinct chatter]

293
00:14:55,767 --> 00:14:57,834
[Valery speaking]

294
00:15:00,767 --> 00:15:02,066
Baby.

295
00:15:02,066 --> 00:15:04,166
[indistinct chatter]

296
00:15:08,300 --> 00:15:11,100
[Ed] I'm excited
about the wedding. It's close.

297
00:15:11,100 --> 00:15:13,000
Are you finally ready
to marry me?

298
00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,467
We have finally set
a wedding date.

299
00:15:15,467 --> 00:15:17,066
<i>In two months,</i>

300
00:15:17,066 --> 00:15:19,000
<i>we are getting married.</i>

301
00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:20,300
Holy [bleep].

302
00:15:20,300 --> 00:15:22,467
[laughs]
That sounds about right.

303
00:15:26,667 --> 00:15:28,367
[Mahmoud speaking]

304
00:15:28,367 --> 00:15:29,500
[Nicole speaking]

305
00:15:31,266 --> 00:15:34,767
I'm just so excited to have my
husband here and by my side.

306
00:15:34,767 --> 00:15:35,934
Are you okay?

307
00:15:37,166 --> 00:15:39,767
But I start to like go
into this like doomed area

308
00:15:39,767 --> 00:15:44,166
in my mind that maybe he'll
never like life in America.

309
00:15:44,166 --> 00:15:45,967
You think you can handle it?

310
00:15:50,467 --> 00:15:52,634
[country music playing]

311
00:16:16,867 --> 00:16:19,100
[singer] <i>♪ I'm speeding down</i>
<i>The road on my motorbike ♪</i>

312
00:16:19,100 --> 00:16:20,867
<i>♪ Devil on a horseback,</i>
<i>Way out of sight ♪</i>

313
00:16:20,867 --> 00:16:23,000
<i>♪ Highway behind,</i>
<i>Highway to go ♪</i>

314
00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:25,033
Stop. Ed.

315
00:16:28,667 --> 00:16:30,567
Hi, babies.

316
00:16:30,567 --> 00:16:34,867
[singer]
<i>♪ There she goes ♪</i>

317
00:16:34,867 --> 00:16:36,834
<i>♪ Black lightning ♪</i>

318
00:16:39,100 --> 00:16:42,533
Ed, I told you you weren't
allowed to get one of these.

319
00:16:44,166 --> 00:16:46,333
I know, but...

320
00:16:47,667 --> 00:16:48,867
I borrowed it from Jack.

321
00:16:48,867 --> 00:16:50,834
[laughter]

322
00:16:51,767 --> 00:16:53,166
[Liz] But, seriously,
this is your brother's?

323
00:16:53,166 --> 00:16:54,333
-[Ed] It is.
-[Liz] Okay.

324
00:16:55,667 --> 00:16:58,467
I'm Ed. I'm 58 years young.

325
00:16:58,467 --> 00:17:01,200
And I'm from San Diego,
California.

326
00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:02,567
My name's Liz.

327
00:17:02,567 --> 00:17:04,166
I'm 31 years old.

328
00:17:04,166 --> 00:17:06,400
I'm from San Diego,
California.

329
00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:08,400
And I am engaged to Ed.

330
00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:10,967
And what is your favorite
sexual position?

331
00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,934
[laughs] Here we go, man.
Here we go.

332
00:17:16,700 --> 00:17:20,066
[laughter]

333
00:17:20,066 --> 00:17:22,367
What's wrong with the one
that we have?

334
00:17:22,367 --> 00:17:24,000
Well, it's a little small.

335
00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:25,800
'Cause you actually have
to work to push it?

336
00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:28,634
Yes. And I was sweating
way too much.

337
00:17:30,567 --> 00:17:33,667
Recently, Liz and I have moved
to my hometown

338
00:17:33,667 --> 00:17:37,000
of Bentonville, Arkansas,
and it's going pretty good.

339
00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,266
There are so many funny
sayings in Arkansas,

340
00:17:39,266 --> 00:17:41,567
and I actually made a list.

341
00:17:41,567 --> 00:17:42,967
[laughs]

342
00:17:42,967 --> 00:17:44,467
I am too tickled.

343
00:17:46,500 --> 00:17:48,567
Just a chicken-pickin' moment.

344
00:17:48,567 --> 00:17:49,734
[laughs]

345
00:17:51,467 --> 00:17:54,000
[laughter]

346
00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:56,800
Hey, Ryleigh, sit right here.
Sit right here, baby.

347
00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:58,800
-Okay.
-Like criss-cross applesauce.

348
00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:00,233
I trust you.

349
00:18:02,100 --> 00:18:03,400
Oh, my God.

350
00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:04,734
[mower engines revs]

351
00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:06,667
[Ryleigh laughs]

352
00:18:08,467 --> 00:18:11,467
I'm definitely living the
dream out here in Arkansas.

353
00:18:11,467 --> 00:18:12,734
We have a beautiful house.

354
00:18:13,567 --> 00:18:16,600
<i>On top of that,</i>
<i>my daughter, Ryleigh,</i>

355
00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,467
<i>she's going to be here</i>
<i>the whole summer.</i>

356
00:18:19,467 --> 00:18:22,867
And now being together on
and off for three years,

357
00:18:22,867 --> 00:18:26,767
engaged for two, we have
finally set a wedding date.

358
00:18:26,767 --> 00:18:29,934
In two months,
we are getting married.

359
00:18:30,667 --> 00:18:32,266
Holy [bleep].

360
00:18:32,266 --> 00:18:35,233
That sounds about right.
[laughs]

361
00:18:35,667 --> 00:18:36,867
We're working.

362
00:18:36,867 --> 00:18:38,367
[laughs]

363
00:18:42,266 --> 00:18:43,767
[screams]

364
00:18:43,767 --> 00:18:45,000
In all, I think we've known

365
00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,166
each other about four years.

366
00:18:47,166 --> 00:18:50,100
I was in love with Liz
since the day I met her.

367
00:18:50,100 --> 00:18:51,500
I didn't like Ed
when I met him,

368
00:18:51,500 --> 00:18:53,166
and now I'm marrying him.

369
00:18:53,166 --> 00:18:54,266
[laughs]

370
00:18:54,900 --> 00:18:57,500
I really didn't, um,

371
00:18:57,500 --> 00:19:02,467
place a lot of confidence
in her and I ever becoming,

372
00:19:02,467 --> 00:19:05,100
you know, anything other than,
you know, a friendship.

373
00:19:05,100 --> 00:19:07,634
And then she gave me
my chance.

374
00:19:09,667 --> 00:19:11,033
Can I kiss you?

375
00:19:11,467 --> 00:19:12,700
Don't make it weird.

376
00:19:12,700 --> 00:19:13,834
[chuckles]

377
00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:16,300
[clears throat]

378
00:19:16,300 --> 00:19:18,934
[mellow music playing]

379
00:19:20,867 --> 00:19:25,000
Our relationship was
definitely a rollercoaster.

380
00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:29,000
And even though
we got engaged,

381
00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,800
we still did not have anything
figured out.

382
00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:33,300
Liz and I were constantly...
You know,

383
00:19:33,300 --> 00:19:34,767
would make up and break up.

384
00:19:34,767 --> 00:19:36,467
And we even tried intensive

385
00:19:36,467 --> 00:19:38,367
therapy that we went to
in Florida.

386
00:19:38,367 --> 00:19:40,100
I didn't mean
to disrespect you

387
00:19:40,100 --> 00:19:42,800
but you should not have
injected yourself
into the situation.

388
00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,867
It made me look like
I can't defend myself.

389
00:19:44,867 --> 00:19:46,500
At least,
I had your [bleep] back

390
00:19:46,500 --> 00:19:49,166
and didn't have a problem
trying to jump in
to protect you.

391
00:19:49,166 --> 00:19:50,667
But you have no [bleep]
problem--

392
00:19:50,667 --> 00:19:52,333
[Ed] I don't know why
you're so upset.

393
00:19:52,900 --> 00:19:54,800
[bleep] you, Ed.

394
00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,266
[Ed] There you go.
Therapy's working, babe.

395
00:19:58,667 --> 00:20:01,467
Eventually, I did learn
a lot pretty quickly.

396
00:20:01,467 --> 00:20:03,700
And the therapy
that we went through

397
00:20:03,700 --> 00:20:07,667
and I think the changes
that I've made

398
00:20:07,667 --> 00:20:10,567
to be a better partner to you

399
00:20:10,567 --> 00:20:12,667
is what saved
our relationship.

400
00:20:12,667 --> 00:20:15,266
You have matured so much.

401
00:20:17,567 --> 00:20:20,800
Coming here, we have learned
about our temperaments

402
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,000
and not always being
on the same page.

403
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,567
Communication has gotten
a lot better.

404
00:20:25,567 --> 00:20:27,367
I love you.

405
00:20:27,367 --> 00:20:29,166
I will move to Arkansas
with you.

406
00:20:29,166 --> 00:20:30,967
And I have one more
thing for you.

407
00:20:31,700 --> 00:20:35,333
[chuckles] Will you marry me?

408
00:20:36,467 --> 00:20:38,500
Wow. Yes. I will marry you.

409
00:20:38,500 --> 00:20:40,333
Baby, thank you.

410
00:20:41,066 --> 00:20:43,166
[cheers and applause]

411
00:20:44,367 --> 00:20:46,500
We're a beautiful hurricane.

412
00:20:46,500 --> 00:20:50,200
And now we're calm
and the sun's coming out.

413
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:53,066
I feel like I'm on solid
ground right now.

414
00:20:53,066 --> 00:20:55,266
Communication has definitely
been much better,

415
00:20:55,266 --> 00:20:57,900
but Ed still loves
to hear his own voice.

416
00:20:57,900 --> 00:20:59,100
Hey, it's a beautiful voice.

417
00:20:59,100 --> 00:21:00,600
[laughs]

418
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:04,233
[upbeat music playing]

419
00:21:06,266 --> 00:21:07,900
[Ryleigh]
We're gonna make bracelets.

420
00:21:07,900 --> 00:21:09,533
Look, Ed.

421
00:21:10,066 --> 00:21:11,767
[gasps] How exciting.

422
00:21:11,767 --> 00:21:14,867
Okay. So can somebody read
the instructions?

423
00:21:14,867 --> 00:21:16,967
There is no instructions.
You just make bracelets.

424
00:21:16,967 --> 00:21:18,800
-To make bracelets?
-Oh, okay. Great.

425
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:20,700
[laughter]

426
00:21:20,700 --> 00:21:23,500
Ryleigh has come to stay
with us for the summer.

427
00:21:23,500 --> 00:21:26,266
<i>It's fun because she likes</i>
<i>to do fun things.</i>

428
00:21:26,767 --> 00:21:28,266
We both love board games.

429
00:21:28,266 --> 00:21:30,667
<i>And Ryleigh kinda reminds me</i>

430
00:21:30,667 --> 00:21:32,467
<i>of the relationship</i>

431
00:21:32,467 --> 00:21:34,567
I once had with my daughter,
Tiffany.

432
00:21:34,567 --> 00:21:37,166
<i>We were best friends.</i>
<i>We were inseparable.</i>

433
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,367
<i>And also too,</i>

434
00:21:39,367 --> 00:21:41,166
<i>I think, 1,000%,</i>

435
00:21:41,166 --> 00:21:44,000
having Ryleigh together
with Liz and I,

436
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,367
makes us stronger.

437
00:21:46,367 --> 00:21:49,100
-So, Ryleigh, you know the
wedding's coming up, right?
-[Ryleigh] Yeah.

438
00:21:49,100 --> 00:21:52,200
What are you most excited
about for the wedding?

439
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,467
Um, to see my family.

440
00:21:55,467 --> 00:21:57,600
-[Liz] Aw.
-[Ed] Aw, that's sweet.

441
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,100
So, I'm marrying your mommy.

442
00:22:00,100 --> 00:22:03,000
-Mmm-hmm.
-So, I'm gonna be your...

443
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,967
I gonna be your stepdad.

444
00:22:04,967 --> 00:22:06,367
Okay.

445
00:22:06,367 --> 00:22:08,467
Would you be okay with that?

446
00:22:09,567 --> 00:22:11,166
Yeah.

447
00:22:11,867 --> 00:22:13,634
-Yeah?
-[Ryleigh] Mmm-hmm.

448
00:22:15,667 --> 00:22:16,967
[Ed] Yes.

449
00:22:17,467 --> 00:22:18,734
'Cause I love you.

450
00:22:20,567 --> 00:22:22,166
<i>My favorite version of Ed</i>

451
00:22:22,166 --> 00:22:24,266
is when he's spending time
with my daughter.

452
00:22:24,867 --> 00:22:26,900
-I'm done.
-What?

453
00:22:26,900 --> 00:22:29,367
[Liz] Oh, my goodness.
I just blinked
and you're all done.

454
00:22:29,367 --> 00:22:32,000
[laughs] I'm good
at making bracelets.

455
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,967
Hey, does this look weird?

456
00:22:33,967 --> 00:22:36,300
<i>But Ed's always been</i>
<i>the fun uncle,</i>

457
00:22:36,300 --> 00:22:38,166
and Ed is going
to be a stepdad now

458
00:22:38,166 --> 00:22:39,867
and that's gonna come
with a whole

459
00:22:39,867 --> 00:22:42,166
new deal of responsibilities.

460
00:22:42,166 --> 00:22:44,900
-Go get cleaned up please?
-Plus the tap. Okay.

461
00:22:44,900 --> 00:22:47,000
-[Ed] I love you.
-[Ryleigh] Love you.

462
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,467
Bye.

463
00:22:48,467 --> 00:22:49,667
She's silly.

464
00:22:49,667 --> 00:22:51,467
-Mommy.
-[Liz] Yes?

465
00:22:52,300 --> 00:22:53,533
Ed.

466
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,166
-She blew me a kiss.
-Okay. Bye. Bye.

467
00:22:57,166 --> 00:22:58,333
She's so sweet.

468
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,867
Ed tells me all the time
that he loves Ryleigh.

469
00:23:01,867 --> 00:23:04,567
He cares for her.
That's his daughter too.

470
00:23:04,567 --> 00:23:06,834
So I...

471
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,166
am really trusting Ed that
he's up for the challenge,

472
00:23:10,166 --> 00:23:12,867
especially with Ed
being 58 now.

473
00:23:14,100 --> 00:23:16,834
Putting a lot of faith
in this.

474
00:23:17,567 --> 00:23:18,667
Ryleigh's funny.

475
00:23:18,667 --> 00:23:19,967
You're so good with her.

476
00:23:20,867 --> 00:23:22,200
[barks]

477
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:23,500
[Ed] I'm excited
about the wedding.

478
00:23:23,500 --> 00:23:24,667
It's close.

479
00:23:25,867 --> 00:23:28,100
We are a family now.
It's great.

480
00:23:28,100 --> 00:23:30,567
<i>We both love each other.</i>

481
00:23:30,567 --> 00:23:33,700
I feel a huge, you know,
sense of accomplishment,

482
00:23:33,700 --> 00:23:36,767
<i>but at the same time,</i>
<i>in the back of my mind,</i>

483
00:23:36,767 --> 00:23:38,333
I'm getting kinda worried.

484
00:23:39,867 --> 00:23:42,333
-Are you ready?
-Are you finally ready
to marry me?

485
00:23:44,066 --> 00:23:46,467
I'm ready to settle down.

486
00:23:48,367 --> 00:23:51,000
<i>I'm trying to navigate</i>
<i>having Ryleigh live here,</i>

487
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,467
making sure that Liz is happy,

488
00:23:52,467 --> 00:23:54,166
<i>and planning the wedding.</i>

489
00:23:54,166 --> 00:23:56,467
So there's a lot on my plate.

490
00:23:56,467 --> 00:23:59,634
And, at times, it can be,
you know, pretty stressful.

491
00:24:00,967 --> 00:24:03,767
<i>And when we'd get stressed,</i>
<i>that's when we argued.</i>

492
00:24:03,767 --> 00:24:05,467
<i>And in the past,</i>

493
00:24:05,467 --> 00:24:08,266
<i>a little argument</i>
<i>could lead to a breakup.</i>

494
00:24:08,266 --> 00:24:12,066
<i>It's a big deal to commit</i>
<i>to be with this person</i>

495
00:24:12,066 --> 00:24:13,567
<i>for the rest of your life.</i>

496
00:24:13,567 --> 00:24:15,266
And I've been
through a divorce.

497
00:24:15,266 --> 00:24:17,467
Liz has been through two.

498
00:24:17,467 --> 00:24:20,767
So it's not something
that we wanna do again.

499
00:24:20,767 --> 00:24:24,066
[dramatic music playing]

500
00:24:27,266 --> 00:24:30,467
The reality is how
do you lose
your own wedding band?

501
00:24:30,467 --> 00:24:32,867
If she cared about it,
she would keep it safe.

502
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:36,934
[Sophie speaking]

503
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,333
[singer]
<i>♪ Last summer night ♪</i>

504
00:24:45,066 --> 00:24:47,433
<i>♪ I'm not going crazy ♪</i>

505
00:24:48,567 --> 00:24:50,533
<i>♪ Don't recognize ♪</i>

506
00:24:51,567 --> 00:24:53,734
<i>♪ Myself lately ♪</i>

507
00:24:55,367 --> 00:24:58,433
[dramatic music playing]

508
00:25:04,467 --> 00:25:07,400
I met up with Sophie tonight,
hoping that she would
come home with me

509
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,567
and that we could start
getting our marriage
back on track.

510
00:25:09,567 --> 00:25:12,100
<i>But once again,</i>
<i>I'm watching her walk out</i>

511
00:25:12,100 --> 00:25:15,233
and walk a whole different
direction from me.

512
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,867
Even if we have problems,
she should be at home

513
00:25:38,867 --> 00:25:40,600
working on these problems
with me.

514
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,000
We should be finding ways
to get over them.

515
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,634
We are married.

516
00:25:47,100 --> 00:25:49,600
Like I actually look
at the sanctity of marriage.

517
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,667
I care about making it work.

518
00:25:52,667 --> 00:25:56,166
I care about doing everything
that we possibly can

519
00:25:56,166 --> 00:25:59,834
to make it work
before we start
tearing it apart.

520
00:26:05,567 --> 00:26:08,567
He probably is so annoyed
at me right now
and probably like,

521
00:26:08,567 --> 00:26:10,800
"Oh, she didn't come home.
She's the worst."
But it's like

522
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,667
I don't wanna move in
because like he's pressuring
me to move in.

523
00:26:13,667 --> 00:26:16,567
Like I wanna move in because
I generally feel this marriage

524
00:26:16,567 --> 00:26:20,266
is gonna work and we could be
happy together.

525
00:26:20,266 --> 00:26:22,100
He just wants me to go home
and that's it.

526
00:26:22,100 --> 00:26:23,700
I just need
to forgive everything.

527
00:26:23,700 --> 00:26:25,166
Just accept
that he doesn't treat me

528
00:26:25,166 --> 00:26:26,867
how I wanna be treated.
Accept that

529
00:26:26,867 --> 00:26:29,000
he messed up my trust.
Accept that he hurt me.

530
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,000
How are you gonna
like hurt someone

531
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,333
and just be like,
"Well, don't hurt"?

532
00:26:34,567 --> 00:26:36,166
I just thought in my head
like he would just show up

533
00:26:36,166 --> 00:26:38,200
and just be like
this really great guy again

534
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,567
and be how he used to be.
But he's the exact same.

535
00:26:40,567 --> 00:26:42,100
And it's just like...
It's frustrating,

536
00:26:42,100 --> 00:26:45,000
'cause like that whole amount
of time

537
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,867
I've been away
did absolutely nothing.

538
00:26:49,300 --> 00:26:50,800
I know he wants
to work things out

539
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,100
and I'm glad, but I just...

540
00:26:52,100 --> 00:26:55,400
I don't know if I want to.

541
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,834
[dramatic music playing]

542
00:27:08,767 --> 00:27:09,867
No mama today.

543
00:27:11,867 --> 00:27:15,567
You all just still living
in a single-parent home.

544
00:27:15,567 --> 00:27:18,300
[singer]
<i>♪ I keep my hopes up ♪</i>

545
00:27:18,300 --> 00:27:23,066
<i>♪ I'm walking the streets,</i>
<i>Over bodies ♪</i>

546
00:27:25,767 --> 00:27:27,166
Right where I left it.

547
00:27:27,166 --> 00:27:30,300
[singer]
<i>♪ This is the moment ♪</i>

548
00:27:30,300 --> 00:27:35,266
<i>♪ It's the moment</i>
<i>We take from the main line ♪</i>

549
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:47,767
The reality is how do you lose
your own wedding band?

550
00:27:47,767 --> 00:27:50,500
That's the end of the...
That's the end of the story.

551
00:27:50,500 --> 00:27:52,533
Like how do you lose
your own wedding band?

552
00:27:53,667 --> 00:27:55,934
If she cared about it,
she would keep it safe.

553
00:27:56,867 --> 00:27:59,467
[singer]
<i>♪ This is the moment ♪</i>

554
00:27:59,467 --> 00:28:02,166
<i>♪ It's the cold</i>
<i>It's the flames ♪</i>

555
00:28:02,166 --> 00:28:05,133
<i>♪ It's the fog lights ♪</i>

556
00:28:07,100 --> 00:28:10,367
<i>♪ This is the moment ♪</i>

557
00:28:10,367 --> 00:28:15,066
<i>♪ It's the moment</i>
<i>We take from the main line ♪</i>

558
00:28:15,066 --> 00:28:18,166
[dramatic music playing]

559
00:28:26,100 --> 00:28:28,834
[singer]
<i>♪ This moment ♪</i>

560
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,333
<i>♪ Closing in ♪</i>

561
00:28:38,767 --> 00:28:41,934
<i>♪ Oh ♪</i>

562
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,166
<i>It's been six months</i>
<i>since I've seen Mahmoud</i>

563
00:28:49,166 --> 00:28:51,567
and I can't believe
I'm actually gonna see

564
00:28:51,567 --> 00:28:55,000
my husband on, like,
American soil today.

565
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,967
<i>I've been waiting</i>
<i>for this day for so long</i>

566
00:28:57,967 --> 00:28:59,667
and just like, "Oh, I can't
wait to see him."

567
00:28:59,667 --> 00:29:01,767
It's so weird
he's gonna be here actually.

568
00:29:01,767 --> 00:29:04,867
[dramatic music playing]

569
00:29:23,700 --> 00:29:26,266
-[Mahmoud speaking]
-[Nicole speaking]

570
00:29:26,266 --> 00:29:27,567
[Mahmoud speaking]

571
00:29:29,100 --> 00:29:31,033
[Nicole speaking]

572
00:29:34,767 --> 00:29:36,467
-[Mahmoud speaking]
-[Nicole speaking]

573
00:29:36,467 --> 00:29:38,667
[Mahmoud speaking]

574
00:29:38,667 --> 00:29:40,133
[Nicole speaking]

575
00:29:43,266 --> 00:29:45,600
[Mahmoud speaking]

576
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,567
-I'm good.
-[Mahmoud speaking]

577
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:51,767
Mmm-hmm.

578
00:29:51,767 --> 00:29:53,500
[Mahmoud speaking]

579
00:29:53,500 --> 00:29:55,567
-Yeah. Let's get out of here.
-Yeah.

580
00:29:56,567 --> 00:29:58,467
-I love you.
-I love you.

581
00:29:58,467 --> 00:29:59,533
Are you okay?

582
00:30:00,700 --> 00:30:02,567
-You're American now, huh?
-Yeah.

583
00:30:02,567 --> 00:30:03,667
Yeah?

584
00:30:04,166 --> 00:30:05,900
I'm so happy.

585
00:30:05,900 --> 00:30:08,100
I just saw him
and I just went running

586
00:30:08,100 --> 00:30:09,734
and I just wanted to--

587
00:30:11,900 --> 00:30:14,066
Yeah. I just...
We were running to him.

588
00:30:16,467 --> 00:30:18,767
-[Mahmoud speaking]
-Come here. Don't be shy.

589
00:30:18,767 --> 00:30:21,266
I'm not shy. I'm just
like tired. Like... Yeah.

590
00:30:21,266 --> 00:30:23,567
[chuckles]

591
00:30:23,567 --> 00:30:26,066
I noticed you didn't wanna
kiss me on my lips.

592
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,266
[chuckles]

593
00:30:34,567 --> 00:30:35,600
Yeah.

594
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:36,900
Mahmoud's in America.

595
00:30:36,900 --> 00:30:38,433
I can do whatever
I want to him.

596
00:30:39,467 --> 00:30:41,567
[Mahmoud speaking]

597
00:30:47,567 --> 00:30:49,567
-[Mahmoud speaking]
-What?

598
00:30:49,567 --> 00:30:51,367
[Mahmoud speaking]

599
00:30:51,367 --> 00:30:53,767
-What are you talking about?
-[Mahmoud speaking]

600
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,634
I wanted to look nice
for you, honey.

601
00:31:01,667 --> 00:31:05,533
[laughs] Just don't even
ruin a nice moment.

602
00:31:09,467 --> 00:31:11,533
[chuckles]

603
00:31:15,367 --> 00:31:17,767
I know the rules here.
I know how things work.

604
00:31:17,767 --> 00:31:21,266
Whereas like... In Egypt,
I don't know like how far

605
00:31:21,266 --> 00:31:23,634
you can take it, but here,
nobody cares, so...

606
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,367
Oh, we gotta find a crosswalk.
Mahmoud, no. Come on.

607
00:31:35,367 --> 00:31:37,634
You have to get...
Go on the crosswalk here.

608
00:31:38,567 --> 00:31:40,100
Oh, there is one.
We can cross right here.

609
00:31:40,100 --> 00:31:42,500
-This line across
the street...
-Yeah.

610
00:31:42,500 --> 00:31:43,867
that's where you cross, okay?

611
00:31:43,867 --> 00:31:45,433
Ah, okay.

612
00:31:46,066 --> 00:31:47,700
Okay. Here.

613
00:31:47,700 --> 00:31:49,634
Go across, honey. Go.

614
00:31:51,767 --> 00:31:53,767
<i>When you cross the street</i>
<i>in Cairo,</i>

615
00:31:53,767 --> 00:31:55,867
<i>there are no crosswalks</i>

616
00:31:55,867 --> 00:31:58,100
and so you have to like

617
00:31:58,100 --> 00:32:00,200
just weave in and out of like

618
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,700
fast-moving vehicles,

619
00:32:02,700 --> 00:32:06,166
<i>motorcycles,</i>
<i>camels sometimes.</i>

620
00:32:06,166 --> 00:32:07,667
It's terrifying.

621
00:32:09,166 --> 00:32:11,867
Like I'm from a small town
and so my parents were like,

622
00:32:11,867 --> 00:32:13,700
"You can... If you see
a car anywhere,

623
00:32:13,700 --> 00:32:16,467
you cannot cross the street.
Like if you hear one even,

624
00:32:16,467 --> 00:32:19,300
like you cannot
cross the street."

625
00:32:19,300 --> 00:32:21,800
Honey, you gotta shut it hard.
Let me show you, okay?

626
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,867
-It's not like the Egypt cars.
-Oh, okay.

627
00:32:24,867 --> 00:32:27,800
<i>I really wanna make sure</i>
<i>that he's safe</i>

628
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,066
<i>and I just want him</i>
<i>to know the rules here in LA</i>

629
00:32:31,066 --> 00:32:34,000
so he can understand
that life in the US

630
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,066
<i>is different than in Egypt.</i>

631
00:32:38,700 --> 00:32:40,500
[Nicole speaking]

632
00:32:40,500 --> 00:32:42,367
[Mahmoud speaking]

633
00:32:42,367 --> 00:32:44,166
I'm still like...

634
00:32:44,166 --> 00:32:46,867
-[chuckles]
-[Mahmoud] You know?

635
00:32:46,867 --> 00:32:48,600
[Nicole] Uh, Mahmoud,
are you wearing your seatbelt?

636
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,900
No.

637
00:32:50,900 --> 00:32:53,100
Uh, you have to... You have
to wear your seatbelt here.

638
00:32:53,100 --> 00:32:55,700
-[chuckles]
-We can get in trouble
with the police.

639
00:32:55,700 --> 00:32:58,667
Okay. I don't want
any trouble.

640
00:32:58,667 --> 00:33:00,266
[Nicole] Yeah, you have to.

641
00:33:00,266 --> 00:33:01,467
You have to wear it.

642
00:33:05,367 --> 00:33:06,867
[car horn honks]

643
00:33:16,166 --> 00:33:17,834
[tires screeches]

644
00:33:23,367 --> 00:33:24,800
[Nicole] Now,
this is downtown, honey.

645
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:25,767
[Mahmoud] Ah.

646
00:33:33,100 --> 00:33:34,734
[chuckles]
You like Egypt better?

647
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:42,400
-Quiet?
-[chuckles]

648
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:43,834
Yeah.

649
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,767
-[Nicole] This is our street.
-[Mahmoud] Mmm-hmm.

650
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,133
-You like it?
-It's nice.

651
00:34:22,100 --> 00:34:25,266
[dramatic music playing]

652
00:34:25,266 --> 00:34:29,266
[Nicole] <i>I'm just so excited</i>
<i>to have my husband here</i>
<i>and by my side.</i>

653
00:34:29,266 --> 00:34:31,600
<i>And I was, of course,</i>
<i>hoping that the reunion</i>

654
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:33,667
<i>was gonna be like happier.</i>

655
00:34:33,667 --> 00:34:36,000
But I know
from personal experience
just how exhausting

656
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:37,166
the flight from Egypt can be.

657
00:34:37,166 --> 00:34:39,867
<i>And I know he's homesick.</i>

658
00:34:39,867 --> 00:34:41,467
<i>I just hope that Mahmoud</i>

659
00:34:41,467 --> 00:34:44,066
<i>really is just exhausted</i>

660
00:34:44,066 --> 00:34:46,166
<i>and that's it,</i>
<i>because I start</i>

661
00:34:46,166 --> 00:34:49,266
to like go into this
like doomed area in my mind

662
00:34:49,266 --> 00:34:51,433
that maybe he'll never, um...

663
00:34:52,300 --> 00:34:53,967
maybe he'll never like it

664
00:34:53,967 --> 00:34:56,600
and it's like
a huge concern of mine.

665
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:59,200
Think you can handle it,
living on this street?

666
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:00,233
[scoffs]

667
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,233
[in Spanish]

668
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,066
[in Spanish]

669
00:35:17,900 --> 00:35:20,767
Manuel's behavior,
the secrecy.

670
00:35:20,767 --> 00:35:23,567
And it's not something
that I can brush off anymore.

671
00:35:23,567 --> 00:35:25,166
[in Spanish]

672
00:35:36,166 --> 00:35:38,166
[dramatic music playing]

673
00:35:38,166 --> 00:35:41,100
[singer]
<i>♪ I don't wanna beg you</i>
<i>To love me ♪</i>

674
00:35:41,100 --> 00:35:43,800
<i>♪ Won't you feel me? ♪</i>

675
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,533
-Okay.
-[in Spanish]

676
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,867
[singer]
<i>♪ What if I keep you</i>
<i>On your toes? ♪</i>

677
00:35:52,867 --> 00:35:56,266
<i>♪ What if I give you</i>
<i>The right dosage? ♪</i>

678
00:35:56,266 --> 00:35:59,333
I think it's time, you know,
we talked about the kids.

679
00:36:00,500 --> 00:36:02,100
-[Manuel] Yeah.
-Yeah.

680
00:36:02,100 --> 00:36:03,233
[Manuel] Okay.

681
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,400
Talking to my family
at the Lilac Festival today

682
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,200
is somewhat of an eye-opener

683
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,300
<i>that Manuel's behavior,</i>

684
00:36:14,300 --> 00:36:16,767
<i>the secrecy is the problem</i>

685
00:36:16,767 --> 00:36:19,467
and that it is weird

686
00:36:19,467 --> 00:36:21,300
how he alienates me
from his kids

687
00:36:21,300 --> 00:36:23,834
and it's not something
that I can brush off anymore.

688
00:36:27,467 --> 00:36:29,967
[in Spanish]

689
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,867
I've tried respecting
Manuel's privacy in the past.

690
00:36:34,867 --> 00:36:37,166
But we've been married
for almost a year now

691
00:36:37,166 --> 00:36:41,800
and we've made zero progress
with the children,

692
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,634
with me connecting
with the children.

693
00:36:46,667 --> 00:36:48,967
It's frustrating
to say the least.

694
00:36:52,367 --> 00:36:54,467
[in Spanish]

695
00:37:03,500 --> 00:37:06,634
[in Spanish]

696
00:37:08,500 --> 00:37:11,333
[Ashley in Spanish]

697
00:37:23,867 --> 00:37:26,367
[Manuel in Spanish]

698
00:37:32,567 --> 00:37:33,734
Okay?

699
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:38,233
[in Spanish]

700
00:37:58,567 --> 00:38:02,667
I am not understanding

701
00:38:02,667 --> 00:38:04,700
how you operate

702
00:38:04,700 --> 00:38:09,066
and how you can continue
in this cycle.

703
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,433
[in Spanish]

704
00:38:15,967 --> 00:38:17,367
[scoffs]

705
00:38:19,567 --> 00:38:21,367
-Okay, Manuel.
-Yeah.

706
00:38:21,367 --> 00:38:24,166
[in Spanish]

707
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:28,533
[in Spanish]

708
00:38:43,567 --> 00:38:44,567
[in Spanish]

709
00:38:44,567 --> 00:38:46,133
[screams]

710
00:38:48,900 --> 00:38:50,433
I see deflection.

711
00:38:51,467 --> 00:38:54,533
Loads and loads of deflection.

712
00:38:55,500 --> 00:39:01,100
-[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]

713
00:39:01,100 --> 00:39:02,200
Yeah.

714
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:03,400
It looks like...

715
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,233
[in Spanish]

716
00:39:06,367 --> 00:39:08,634
[in Spanish]

717
00:39:13,967 --> 00:39:17,433
Okay. [in Spanish]

718
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,133
[tense music playing]

719
00:39:34,700 --> 00:39:37,867
[in Spanish]

720
00:39:46,166 --> 00:39:49,166
[in Spanish]

721
00:40:07,100 --> 00:40:09,100
-Whatever!
-Huh.

722
00:40:09,100 --> 00:40:11,567
-Whatever.
-[in Spanish]

723
00:40:11,567 --> 00:40:13,333
[in Spanish]

724
00:40:20,467 --> 00:40:21,567
[in Spanish]

725
00:40:24,500 --> 00:40:26,767
-[Ashley in Spanish]
-[in Spanish]

726
00:40:26,767 --> 00:40:29,467
[in Spanish]

727
00:40:29,467 --> 00:40:31,166
[makes sound]

728
00:40:32,767 --> 00:40:33,734
Ciao.

729
00:40:35,066 --> 00:40:36,266
[in Spanish]

730
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,433
[Ashley] Hi, Rico Suave.

731
00:40:51,467 --> 00:40:53,800
Your dad is a nutcase.

732
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:54,734
Yeah.

733
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,667
<i>Confronting Manuel</i>
<i>for answers about the kids</i>

734
00:40:59,667 --> 00:41:02,467
<i>have just led</i>
<i>to more questions.</i>

735
00:41:02,467 --> 00:41:06,700
It only sparks
my spidey senses even more

736
00:41:06,700 --> 00:41:10,400
to figure out what's going on,
what's happening.

737
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,667
<i>Are you hiding something?</i>
<i>Is there more I need to know?</i>

738
00:41:13,667 --> 00:41:15,600
So now I'm even
more determined

739
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,967
to pry into his past.

740
00:41:19,367 --> 00:41:21,433
Open that bitch wide open.

741
00:41:26,767 --> 00:41:30,600
[in Spanish]

742
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:32,600
[Jasmine]
<i>My mom is really sick.</i>

743
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:36,667
<i>Should I take a plane back</i>
<i>to Panama right now?</i>

744
00:41:36,667 --> 00:41:38,133
I don't know what to...

745
00:41:40,166 --> 00:41:41,367
[sobs]

746
00:41:41,367 --> 00:41:43,467
[in Spanish]

747
00:41:47,867 --> 00:41:50,166
Well, so much for blending in.

748
00:41:50,166 --> 00:41:51,900
You're our security guard.

749
00:41:51,900 --> 00:41:53,567
You have to stay by us.

750
00:41:54,367 --> 00:41:55,900
[man] Where the hell
are we going?

751
00:41:55,900 --> 00:41:57,767
This is insane.

752
00:41:57,767 --> 00:42:00,233
Welcome to Cameroon, monsieur.

753
00:42:02,266 --> 00:42:05,100
[singer]
<i>♪ I feel reconnected ♪</i>

754
00:42:05,100 --> 00:42:07,367
<i>♪ This luck just leveled up ♪</i>

755
00:42:07,367 --> 00:42:10,066
<i>♪ So good, reinvented ♪</i>

756
00:42:10,066 --> 00:42:12,200
<i>♪ I just can't get enough ♪</i>

757
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,200
<i>♪ Like this in the system ♪</i>

758
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,567
<i>♪ Hopped up, ready to go ♪</i>

759
00:42:17,567 --> 00:42:20,266
<i>♪ Face up, okay, sister ♪</i>

760
00:42:20,266 --> 00:42:22,300
<i>♪ I love the way</i>
<i>You've worked ♪</i>

761
00:42:22,300 --> 00:42:24,000
Ah, yes.

762
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:25,867
Oh, my.

763
00:42:25,867 --> 00:42:30,000
[singer] <i>♪ I wanna get</i>
<i>Into my hideaway ♪</i>

764
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:34,767
<i>♪ Where everythin' is rollin'</i>
<i>Like it's always been ♪</i>

765
00:42:36,100 --> 00:42:37,333
Okay.

766
00:42:39,166 --> 00:42:41,066
<i>Now that I'm back</i>
<i>from my honeymoon,</i>

767
00:42:41,066 --> 00:42:43,867
<i>I need to focus on my kids.</i>

768
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,867
[phone rings]

769
00:42:48,867 --> 00:42:51,100
<i>I really miss Panama a lot,</i>

770
00:42:51,100 --> 00:42:53,900
and I'm very excited
about bringing in

771
00:42:53,900 --> 00:42:56,333
my children here
to the United State.

772
00:42:59,667 --> 00:43:04,567
This is all that I pray for,
for years.

773
00:43:04,567 --> 00:43:07,367
-[Cecilia in Spanish]
-Mami!

774
00:43:07,367 --> 00:43:09,066
[in Spanish]

775
00:43:11,100 --> 00:43:12,567
[in Spanish]

776
00:43:12,567 --> 00:43:15,600
-[laughing]
-[Zuellen in Spanish]

777
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:18,734
[Jasmine in Spanish]

778
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,233
[in Spanish]

779
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:47,533
[Zuellen in Spanish]

780
00:44:00,567 --> 00:44:06,967
[in Spanish]

781
00:44:10,867 --> 00:44:12,667
[dramatic music playing]

782
00:44:12,667 --> 00:44:14,166
Before coming to America,

783
00:44:14,166 --> 00:44:17,200
Gino promised bringing
my children here.

784
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:20,233
So he better keep
that promise.

785
00:44:21,367 --> 00:44:24,567
<i>And, you know,</i>
<i>we need to understand</i>

786
00:44:24,567 --> 00:44:26,233
<i>that if he doesn't...</i>

787
00:44:26,667 --> 00:44:27,734
Um...

788
00:44:31,667 --> 00:44:34,567
There is no freaking way
on Earth I'm staying here.

789
00:44:34,567 --> 00:44:36,467
<i>Without my kids,</i>

790
00:44:36,467 --> 00:44:38,600
the only way is that I die

791
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,533
and you have to...

792
00:44:40,900 --> 00:44:44,066
[in Spanish]

793
00:44:47,767 --> 00:44:48,834
Yeah.

794
00:44:49,266 --> 00:44:55,133
[in Spanish]

795
00:45:00,900 --> 00:45:09,834
[in Spanish]

796
00:45:13,867 --> 00:45:17,867
[in Spanish]

797
00:45:20,367 --> 00:45:22,266
I'm very worried
about my mom's health.

798
00:45:22,266 --> 00:45:25,800
He hasn't been
feeling well lately

799
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:30,166
<i>and no one knows</i>
<i>what's really going on.</i>

800
00:45:30,166 --> 00:45:33,066
<i>So this whole situation</i>
<i>is very scary.</i>

801
00:45:33,066 --> 00:45:36,200
Honestly, all I want
is to buy a ticket and go home

802
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,000
<i>and be with my mom</i>

803
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:41,400
because there are days
in which I cry

804
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,000
because I wanna hug her

805
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,233
<i>and that's not</i>
<i>physically possible.</i>

806
00:45:45,567 --> 00:45:46,767
[sniffles]

807
00:45:48,100 --> 00:45:52,066
[in Spanish]

808
00:45:54,467 --> 00:46:00,100
[in Spanish]

809
00:46:02,467 --> 00:46:06,233
[in Spanish]

810
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,333
[in Spanish]

811
00:46:14,467 --> 00:46:16,567
[in Spanish]

812
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,233
[in Spanish]

813
00:46:41,166 --> 00:46:43,934
[in Spanish]

814
00:47:03,300 --> 00:47:07,066
[Zuellen in Spanish]

815
00:47:07,767 --> 00:47:14,066
[in Spanish]

816
00:47:17,667 --> 00:47:19,767
[in Spanish]

817
00:47:19,767 --> 00:47:22,867
[dramatic music playing]

818
00:47:22,867 --> 00:47:24,934
I really miss my family.

819
00:47:26,867 --> 00:47:29,500
<i>Now my mom is really sick,</i>

820
00:47:29,500 --> 00:47:33,266
and now I'm a crappy mom,
I'm a crappy daughter,

821
00:47:33,266 --> 00:47:36,467
<i>should I take a plane back</i>
<i>to Panama right now?</i>

822
00:47:36,467 --> 00:47:38,066
And I don't know.
I don't know.

823
00:47:38,066 --> 00:47:39,867
I'm so confused.

824
00:47:39,867 --> 00:47:41,533
I don't know what to do.

825
00:47:44,567 --> 00:47:47,734
[sobbing, sniffles]

826
00:47:48,367 --> 00:47:50,367
Oh, my gosh.

827
00:47:50,367 --> 00:47:52,634
I feel so bad right now.
I'm sorry.

828
00:47:53,700 --> 00:48:11,367
[in Spanish]

829
00:48:14,266 --> 00:48:16,700
[tense music playing]

830
00:48:16,700 --> 00:48:20,367
[indistinct shouting]

831
00:48:20,367 --> 00:48:22,333
-[Kobe speaking
in foreign language]
-Baby...

832
00:48:23,767 --> 00:48:25,233
[Emily] What's happening?

833
00:48:29,266 --> 00:48:31,867
[Kobe speaking]

834
00:48:31,867 --> 00:48:33,867
[indistinct chatter]

835
00:48:33,867 --> 00:48:37,367
Kobe and I and my family
just landed in Cameroon.

836
00:48:37,367 --> 00:48:39,667
<i>And what's happening</i>
<i>at the airport right now</i>

837
00:48:39,667 --> 00:48:41,967
<i>is complete chaos.</i>

838
00:48:41,967 --> 00:48:44,767
<i>There was, like, a bunch</i>
<i>of people yelling at Kobe</i>

839
00:48:44,767 --> 00:48:46,266
<i>and his best friend Valery.</i>

840
00:48:46,266 --> 00:48:48,133
But I really don't know
what's going on.

841
00:48:49,367 --> 00:48:51,900
[Valery speaking]

842
00:48:51,900 --> 00:48:54,000
[indistinct chatter]

843
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:55,333
Hey...

844
00:48:59,467 --> 00:49:00,767
Okay.

845
00:49:00,767 --> 00:49:04,066
[indistinct chatter]

846
00:49:05,166 --> 00:49:06,734
Come here, baby.

847
00:49:08,266 --> 00:49:09,533
Yes.

848
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:15,667
Wow.

849
00:49:15,667 --> 00:49:18,967
Oh, my gosh. What a circus.

850
00:49:18,967 --> 00:49:22,133
-Is this how it is, normally?
-Yeah.

851
00:49:23,266 --> 00:49:25,967
[suspenseful music playing]

852
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,266
Kobe, what were all those
guys saying to you

853
00:49:29,266 --> 00:49:31,133
when they were all crowded
around you?

854
00:49:37,700 --> 00:49:39,867
-Okay. Is this
what you want to watch?
-That's crazy.

855
00:49:39,867 --> 00:49:42,467
-Yeah.
-So, they're not gonna
follow us, right?

856
00:49:42,467 --> 00:49:45,467
I mean, these guys
in the motorcycle?

857
00:49:45,467 --> 00:49:46,634
Okay.

858
00:49:50,967 --> 00:49:53,300
-[David] Yeah, I see.
-I mean, it was like a mob.

859
00:49:53,300 --> 00:49:56,433
[suspenseful music playing]

860
00:49:57,500 --> 00:49:59,200
[Kobe] <i>There are usually</i>
<i>so many guys out there</i>

861
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:00,567
<i>just trying</i>
<i>to hustle like this.</i>

862
00:50:00,567 --> 00:50:03,400
Sometimes, it doesn't really
matter how much you give them.

863
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:06,266
Just the gesture of giving
that is really appreciated.

864
00:50:06,266 --> 00:50:07,767
<i>So the moment I told them</i>

865
00:50:07,767 --> 00:50:10,266
that that was what I had
for them,

866
00:50:10,266 --> 00:50:11,900
I mean, they had to leave

867
00:50:11,900 --> 00:50:13,667
and understand that,
okay, I've tried at least

868
00:50:13,667 --> 00:50:15,600
to offer them something.

869
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:17,567
Where the hell are we going?

870
00:50:26,867 --> 00:50:30,233
You're our security guard,
so you have to stay by us.

871
00:50:33,100 --> 00:50:35,266
<i>Well, so much</i>
<i>for blending in.</i>

872
00:50:36,767 --> 00:50:39,900
We've been in the Cameroon
for just a couple of hours

873
00:50:39,900 --> 00:50:42,166
and it's pretty shocking.

874
00:50:42,166 --> 00:50:43,600
<i>This is very foreign to us.</i>

875
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,066
<i>We've never had</i>
<i>this experience.</i>

876
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:56,300
No, I'm excited.
Everything has just been

877
00:50:56,300 --> 00:50:58,100
very overwhelming so far

878
00:50:58,100 --> 00:50:59,967
and, you know,
we're not used to it.

879
00:50:59,967 --> 00:51:03,367
So it's just another thing
that we're learning.

880
00:51:03,867 --> 00:51:05,333
This is insane.

881
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,533
Welcome to Cameroon, Monsieur.

882
00:51:14,767 --> 00:51:17,300
You are gonna go back,
he's gonna continue
this behavior.

883
00:51:17,300 --> 00:51:19,000
This online cheatin',

884
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:20,667
he did it multiple times
on you.

885
00:51:20,667 --> 00:51:23,667
So, it's like an addiction.

886
00:51:23,667 --> 00:51:25,767
I'm kind of skeptical still

887
00:51:25,767 --> 00:51:28,367
about whether he actually does
have an addiction

888
00:51:28,367 --> 00:51:30,166
or whether he's just a dick

889
00:51:30,166 --> 00:51:31,934
that likes
to watch a lot of porn.

890
00:51:35,967 --> 00:51:37,767
[singer] <i>♪ Don't wanna</i>
<i>Overcomplicate it ♪</i>

891
00:51:37,767 --> 00:51:40,867
<i>♪ Don't wanna face</i>
<i>The things you hated ♪</i>

892
00:51:40,867 --> 00:51:44,200
<i>♪ Even 'cause I can't</i>
<i>Explain this ♪</i>

893
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:47,367
<i>♪ Feelin'</i>
<i>That you're desecrated ♪</i>

894
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,066
<i>♪ Ooh ♪</i>

895
00:51:50,066 --> 00:51:53,133
<i>♪ See all the way ♪</i>

896
00:51:56,100 --> 00:51:57,367
-Hello.
-[Sophie] Hey.

897
00:51:57,367 --> 00:51:58,834
Oh, my God, you look so cute.

898
00:52:00,066 --> 00:52:03,166
My mom's in town
visiting her boyfriend
so we're meeting up.

899
00:52:03,166 --> 00:52:05,700
I don't really know
why she chose a bookstore

900
00:52:05,700 --> 00:52:08,367
because I've literally
never seen her read a book

901
00:52:08,367 --> 00:52:09,634
in my life.

902
00:52:10,767 --> 00:52:12,467
Yeah, it's a nice place.

903
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:15,266
[Sophie] Yeah.

904
00:52:16,700 --> 00:52:19,367
I have no idea what
that means, gen fiction.

905
00:52:20,266 --> 00:52:21,834
<i>But I feel</i>
<i>like I wanna read that.</i>

906
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:24,066
Do you read?

907
00:52:24,767 --> 00:52:27,066
-No...
-[chuckles]

908
00:52:28,700 --> 00:52:31,367
-What?
-So, John the other night

909
00:52:31,367 --> 00:52:33,200
said the L-word.

910
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:34,834
No.

911
00:52:38,867 --> 00:52:41,100
That's really nice.
I don't know.

912
00:52:41,100 --> 00:52:42,767
He seems like
he'll be nice to you.

913
00:52:42,767 --> 00:52:45,367
Oh, he's really nice.
He's so sweet.

914
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:48,367
I am happy
to see my mom in love

915
00:52:48,367 --> 00:52:49,667
and everything's
going really well

916
00:52:49,667 --> 00:52:51,266
in her relationship.

917
00:52:51,266 --> 00:52:53,100
It is also
just kind of ironic,

918
00:52:53,100 --> 00:52:56,400
like she has this amazing
relationship that's going well

919
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,467
and my marriage
is basically failing.

920
00:52:59,467 --> 00:53:02,900
<i>Last night was the first time</i>
<i>I've seen Rob in two months.</i>

921
00:53:02,900 --> 00:53:04,567
We met to try
and work things out

922
00:53:04,567 --> 00:53:06,100
but it just ended up
going horribly

923
00:53:06,100 --> 00:53:08,667
and ended up
in yet another argument.

924
00:53:08,667 --> 00:53:10,567
I wanna hear about your stuff.

925
00:53:11,567 --> 00:53:13,033
You look really sad.

926
00:53:13,767 --> 00:53:16,066
Because I'm like
emotionally drained.

927
00:53:17,066 --> 00:53:19,066
So what actually happened
last night?

928
00:53:20,100 --> 00:53:21,834
What do you think happened?

929
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:27,900
[Claire speaking]

930
00:53:27,900 --> 00:53:29,767
[Sophie] Literally
the exact thing.

931
00:53:29,767 --> 00:53:31,266
It was nice
to see him at first

932
00:53:31,266 --> 00:53:32,600
and I was really happy
when he walked in

933
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:33,867
and he was happy to see me.

934
00:53:33,867 --> 00:53:36,100
But then, after, like,
not even two minutes

935
00:53:36,100 --> 00:53:37,367
of us, like,
being happy together,

936
00:53:37,367 --> 00:53:39,066
it was ruined by us,
like, arguing

937
00:53:39,066 --> 00:53:40,767
and then him going
around in circles

938
00:53:40,767 --> 00:53:42,567
-and just--
-So what were you
arguing about?

939
00:53:42,567 --> 00:53:44,800
He wants to make me
seem horrible for moving out.

940
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:46,600
Like he doesn't understand
why I moved out.

941
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:47,867
But I'm like,
"But you literally,

942
00:53:47,867 --> 00:53:49,333
like, hurt me a lot."

943
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:51,634
[Claire] So what
are you gonna do?

944
00:53:52,467 --> 00:53:54,200
Have another chat with him
at his house

945
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:55,634
and then see how it goes.

946
00:53:56,066 --> 00:53:57,166
Wow.

947
00:53:58,100 --> 00:54:00,467
Even though things
ended really badly last night

948
00:54:00,467 --> 00:54:02,166
and I stormed off,

949
00:54:02,166 --> 00:54:04,166
Rob reached out to me
this morning asking

950
00:54:04,166 --> 00:54:06,467
<i>if I can have a chat with him</i>
<i>about moving back in.</i>

951
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:09,000
It's very confusing for me

952
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:12,467
because I feel like
we left off on such bad terms

953
00:54:12,467 --> 00:54:15,567
that kind of feels
like pointless

954
00:54:15,567 --> 00:54:17,567
to have this chat
about me moving in.

955
00:54:17,567 --> 00:54:20,934
<i>But I do know that, like,</i>
<i>I can't keep running away.</i>

956
00:54:22,166 --> 00:54:23,600
I mean, it might go
all though.

957
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:25,066
-[Claire] No, it won't.
-It might.

958
00:54:25,066 --> 00:54:26,300
-[Claire] It won't.
-You never know.

959
00:54:26,300 --> 00:54:28,000
It won't.

960
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:29,667
Well, I mean, we'll see.
Like, you don't know,

961
00:54:29,667 --> 00:54:30,800
-I don't know.
-I do.

962
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:32,200
No, you don't.

963
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:35,867
[Claire speaking]

964
00:54:35,867 --> 00:54:37,900
[Sophie speaking]

965
00:54:37,900 --> 00:54:39,867
-[laughs]
-I just...

966
00:54:39,867 --> 00:54:42,400
That's what I'm trying to...
I just want him to do that.

967
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:44,567
Like, I'm not 100% sure
I'm going back today.

968
00:54:44,567 --> 00:54:46,100
I'm not gonna argue
all night, for what?

969
00:54:46,100 --> 00:54:47,266
[Claire] Well,
you might go back today.

970
00:54:47,266 --> 00:54:48,834
Yeah, if it goes well.

971
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:52,066
I'm really trying.
No one can say I'm not trying.

972
00:54:52,066 --> 00:54:54,100
It's kind of sad
that you've gotta try

973
00:54:54,100 --> 00:54:56,567
to be with the person
that you love.

974
00:54:56,567 --> 00:54:59,200
-She'd just be like--
-Yeah, but it's a marriage.

975
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,567
That's not as easy
as just like your boyfriend.

976
00:55:01,567 --> 00:55:03,500
[dramatic music playing]

977
00:55:03,500 --> 00:55:06,734
[Claire speaking]

978
00:55:30,367 --> 00:55:32,867
You're gonna go back, he's
gonna continue this behavior,

979
00:55:32,867 --> 00:55:35,066
and this behavior
with this online cheatin',

980
00:55:35,066 --> 00:55:37,100
-the secret textin'.
-[Sophie] Mmm-hmm.

981
00:55:37,100 --> 00:55:39,266
[Claire] He did it
multiple times on you.

982
00:55:39,266 --> 00:55:42,100
So, it's like an addiction.

983
00:55:42,100 --> 00:55:44,200
-You're literally--
-Yeah, but I don't know
if he has an addiction.

984
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,433
I think he just likes
attention from people.

985
00:55:47,300 --> 00:55:48,767
[Claire] You know
what I put you through

986
00:55:48,767 --> 00:55:50,233
with addiction and everything?

987
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,100
Just because his drug
of choice,

988
00:55:53,100 --> 00:55:57,000
for want of a better word,
is sex and porn
or whatever it is,

989
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:58,467
it's the same behavior
and all that.

990
00:55:58,467 --> 00:56:00,166
And I don't wanna see you
go through that.

991
00:56:00,667 --> 00:56:03,400
[dramatic music playing]

992
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:06,467
[Sophie] <i>I didn't have a very,</i>
<i>like, stable childhood.</i>

993
00:56:06,467 --> 00:56:08,266
<i>It was just my mom</i>
<i>raising me.</i>

994
00:56:08,266 --> 00:56:11,133
And the whole time growing up,
she wasn't clean.

995
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:14,100
You know,
she's, like, overdosed before

996
00:56:14,100 --> 00:56:15,667
and I've had to...

997
00:56:15,667 --> 00:56:18,634
I've had to, like,
basically save her life.

998
00:56:20,266 --> 00:56:23,233
And I do believe things
can be better with us.

999
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,367
<i>I don't know whether</i>
<i>or not my mom is right</i>

1000
00:56:26,367 --> 00:56:28,500
<i>about him having</i>
<i>a porn addiction</i>

1001
00:56:28,500 --> 00:56:30,266
or whether he's just a dick

1002
00:56:30,266 --> 00:56:31,567
that likes
to watch a lot of porn.

1003
00:56:32,667 --> 00:56:36,100
<i>I do wanna give Rob</i>
<i>the benefit of the doubt.</i>

1004
00:56:36,100 --> 00:56:39,467
<i>He's still my husband</i>
<i>and I still love him.</i>

1005
00:56:39,467 --> 00:56:41,467
But in order for me
to trust him again

1006
00:56:41,467 --> 00:56:44,533
and have this loving marriage,
he needs to change.

1007
00:56:45,667 --> 00:56:47,367
I would love you to be happy
and have this,

1008
00:56:47,367 --> 00:56:49,000
like, happy ever after
with him,

1009
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:51,433
but I think
you're just wasting your time.

1010
00:56:59,867 --> 00:57:02,467
Do you think Mommy and Ed
are gonna get along

1011
00:57:02,467 --> 00:57:05,467
-in business together?
-Um...

1012
00:57:05,467 --> 00:57:08,100
-sometimes.
-[Liz laughs] Sometimes?

1013
00:57:08,100 --> 00:57:09,867
<i>I'm really feeling</i>
<i>the pressure</i>

1014
00:57:09,867 --> 00:57:12,400
to get this real estate deal
off the ground.

1015
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:14,000
I need an income stream,

1016
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,166
<i>because I don't</i>
<i>really wanna tell her</i>

1017
00:57:16,166 --> 00:57:18,367
that we're under water
right now.

1018
00:57:20,166 --> 00:57:21,700
-[David] What do you think?
-Okay.

1019
00:57:21,700 --> 00:57:23,266
-[Lisa] All right.
-All right. Yeah.

1020
00:57:23,266 --> 00:57:26,200
As beautiful as these
Cameroonian clothes are,

1021
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:29,567
like, I feel
a little disingenuous

1022
00:57:29,567 --> 00:57:30,800
putting them on

1023
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:32,567
<i>and showing up</i>
<i>to meet Kobe's family</i>

1024
00:57:32,567 --> 00:57:34,667
and not knowing anything
about their culture.

1025
00:57:36,867 --> 00:57:39,634
[upbeat music playing]

1026
00:57:42,367 --> 00:57:44,266
So what time
is our client comin'?

1027
00:57:44,266 --> 00:57:47,100
She should be here any moment.

1028
00:57:47,100 --> 00:57:50,000
[singer] <i>♪ You love so hard,</i>
<i>From a kiss so soft ♪</i>

1029
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:52,667
<i>♪</i> [indistinct]
<i>I know I'm not ♪</i>

1030
00:57:52,667 --> 00:57:54,333
What do we know
about our client?

1031
00:57:54,867 --> 00:57:56,867
She's very successful.

1032
00:57:56,867 --> 00:57:58,467
Moving to Arkansas,

1033
00:57:58,467 --> 00:58:00,767
both Ed and I
are living off our savings.

1034
00:58:00,767 --> 00:58:03,066
And I gave up my partnership

1035
00:58:03,066 --> 00:58:06,100
in the restaurant in San Diego

1036
00:58:06,100 --> 00:58:07,867
because there's just no way
I would have been able

1037
00:58:07,867 --> 00:58:10,166
to be a partner
moving states away.

1038
00:58:10,166 --> 00:58:12,500
So here in Bentonville,
Liz and I are planning on,

1039
00:58:12,500 --> 00:58:14,467
once we'd pass
our state boards

1040
00:58:14,467 --> 00:58:15,767
to become real tourists,

1041
00:58:15,767 --> 00:58:17,667
<i>so we can start working</i>
<i>as a team</i>

1042
00:58:17,667 --> 00:58:20,600
to list homes and sell homes.

1043
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:22,967
We definitely wanna go big
on advertisement

1044
00:58:22,967 --> 00:58:24,567
because it's all word
of mouth.

1045
00:58:24,567 --> 00:58:26,100
It's networking.

1046
00:58:26,100 --> 00:58:27,867
So we've talked
about billboards,

1047
00:58:27,867 --> 00:58:30,367
and signage, and...

1048
00:58:30,367 --> 00:58:32,166
Big analysts aren't just sexy

1049
00:58:32,166 --> 00:58:35,567
-but they sell real estate.
-[chuckles]

1050
00:58:35,567 --> 00:58:37,567
Is she represented?
Does she have representation?

1051
00:58:37,567 --> 00:58:39,166
-No, neither.
-Okay.

1052
00:58:39,166 --> 00:58:40,700
-Well, hello.
-Well, hello.

1053
00:58:40,700 --> 00:58:42,233
[Ryleigh] Hi.

1054
00:58:43,367 --> 00:58:44,900
Would you like to buy a house?

1055
00:58:44,900 --> 00:58:46,667
-[Ryleigh] Yes.
-I'm Ed.

1056
00:58:46,667 --> 00:58:48,200
-Hi.
-[Ed] Very nice to meet you.

1057
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:49,834
Your hands are
very cold. And--

1058
00:58:50,700 --> 00:58:52,667
-This is my fiancée.
-[Liz laughs]

1059
00:58:52,667 --> 00:58:55,200
Also known as Liz and Mommy.

1060
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:56,600
-Mommy.
-[laughter]

1061
00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:58,166
That's not your mommy.

1062
00:58:58,166 --> 00:59:00,567
You gotta pretend
like you don't know us.

1063
00:59:00,567 --> 00:59:04,166
-Yeah.
-I can't have fun... Okay.

1064
00:59:04,166 --> 00:59:08,000
Ed and I need some practice
dealing with clients.

1065
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:11,066
<i>So we are going to do</i>
<i>a practice house tour</i>

1066
00:59:11,066 --> 00:59:14,000
with one of the toughest
clients I know.

1067
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,467
Here is the, um...

1068
00:59:16,467 --> 00:59:18,567
<i>It's a kind</i>
<i>of an open plan format.</i>

1069
00:59:18,567 --> 00:59:21,100
We have our living room

1070
00:59:21,100 --> 00:59:23,266
and our gourmet kitchen.

1071
00:59:23,266 --> 00:59:25,367
This is a four-bedroom,
two baths,

1072
00:59:25,367 --> 00:59:27,767
fenced-in backyard,

1073
00:59:27,767 --> 00:59:29,867
comes with a gas fireplace,

1074
00:59:29,867 --> 00:59:31,767
as well as air conditioning.

1075
00:59:31,767 --> 00:59:34,166
Is there anything,
Liz that I left out?

1076
00:59:34,166 --> 00:59:35,500
It's a brand new house.

1077
00:59:35,500 --> 00:59:36,867
Nobody has lived here before

1078
00:59:36,867 --> 00:59:38,567
except for the current owners.

1079
00:59:38,567 --> 00:59:40,333
Right. Brand new.

1080
00:59:43,066 --> 00:59:44,400
We love the area.

1081
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:46,567
It's super-family-oriented.

1082
00:59:46,567 --> 00:59:50,367
There's great schools,
biking trails.

1083
00:59:50,367 --> 00:59:51,734
Do you like the mountain bike?

1084
00:59:52,100 --> 00:59:53,767
No.

1085
00:59:53,767 --> 00:59:56,667
If somebody would've told us
that we both

1086
00:59:56,667 --> 00:59:58,567
are gonna be
real estate agents a year ago,

1087
00:59:58,567 --> 01:00:00,166
I would have said
you're fully [bleep].

1088
01:00:00,166 --> 01:00:01,700
There's no way I'm movin'.

1089
01:00:01,700 --> 01:00:03,367
There's no way
I'm gettin' married.

1090
01:00:03,367 --> 01:00:05,900
There's no way
we're gonna live in a house.

1091
01:00:05,900 --> 01:00:08,166
There's no way
we'll have three dogs.

1092
01:00:08,166 --> 01:00:10,367
<i>It has a lot to do</i>

1093
01:00:10,367 --> 01:00:13,567
<i>with us taking control</i>
<i>of our lives.</i>

1094
01:00:13,567 --> 01:00:14,700
<i>It feels really good.</i>

1095
01:00:14,700 --> 01:00:17,533
It's just everything
I have wished for.

1096
01:00:18,567 --> 01:00:20,233
How do we do?

1097
01:00:20,767 --> 01:00:22,200
And be honest.

1098
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:23,734
Okay...

1099
01:00:26,066 --> 01:00:27,767
[Ed laughs]

1100
01:00:27,767 --> 01:00:30,934
I mean, she should have
done some of the talking.

1101
01:00:32,300 --> 01:00:35,000
Do you think Mommy and Ed
are gonna get along

1102
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:37,767
-in business together?
-Um...

1103
01:00:37,767 --> 01:00:40,767
-sometimes.
-[Liz laughs] Sometimes?

1104
01:00:40,767 --> 01:00:42,700
<i>I feel like real estate</i>
<i>would be a good business</i>

1105
01:00:42,700 --> 01:00:45,066
<i>to go into with each other.</i>

1106
01:00:45,066 --> 01:00:47,300
But I'm also nervous
because we've tried

1107
01:00:47,300 --> 01:00:49,567
to work together before.

1108
01:00:49,567 --> 01:00:51,800
-It looks like
she has no neck.
-[Ed] No.

1109
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,166
There's nothing wrong
with this picture at all.

1110
01:00:54,166 --> 01:00:55,700
-[Liz] Okay. Well--
-You're not here

1111
01:00:55,700 --> 01:00:57,266
-to critique my work?
-[Liz] No, no, no.

1112
01:00:57,266 --> 01:00:58,567
-[Ed] I'm trying to teach you
what I'm doing.
-[Liz] I'm not critiquing you.

1113
01:00:58,567 --> 01:01:00,266
You didn't really teach me
anything.

1114
01:01:00,266 --> 01:01:02,100
-[Liz] So...
-Okay. I'm sorry babe.

1115
01:01:02,100 --> 01:01:03,967
[Liz speaking]

1116
01:01:04,567 --> 01:01:06,166
In this business,

1117
01:01:06,166 --> 01:01:08,266
I'm not going
to be Ed's employee.

1118
01:01:08,266 --> 01:01:10,100
We are going to be equals.

1119
01:01:10,100 --> 01:01:12,667
I feel like this
is just great for Ed and I.

1120
01:01:12,667 --> 01:01:14,300
Ed's a social butterfly.

1121
01:01:14,300 --> 01:01:17,266
<i>Ed has so many strings</i>
<i>in sales.</i>

1122
01:01:17,266 --> 01:01:19,767
<i>And I'm really good</i>
<i>at the contracts,</i>

1123
01:01:19,767 --> 01:01:21,867
<i>the budget, the fine details.</i>

1124
01:01:21,867 --> 01:01:24,867
We are both gonna bring
something to the table.

1125
01:01:25,967 --> 01:01:28,166
So are you ready
to make an offer?

1126
01:01:29,100 --> 01:01:30,800
Um...

1127
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:32,266
[Ed] Do you wanna think
about it?

1128
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:35,333
[Liz] You'll do it?

1129
01:01:37,667 --> 01:01:40,066
-[laughs]
-Oh, my gosh.

1130
01:01:40,066 --> 01:01:41,667
All right, Little Miss,

1131
01:01:41,667 --> 01:01:43,634
it was a pleasure doing
business with you.

1132
01:01:45,166 --> 01:01:46,634
-Thank you, Ms. Woods.
-Bye.

1133
01:01:47,100 --> 01:01:48,867
-Bye.
-[laughs]

1134
01:01:48,867 --> 01:01:52,266
She was a pretty easy client
to deal with.

1135
01:01:52,266 --> 01:01:54,100
But I think
we'll be a good balance

1136
01:01:54,100 --> 01:01:55,800
because you're very serious,

1137
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:59,467
so you'll cover all
of the logistics

1138
01:01:59,467 --> 01:02:02,300
and the legal stuff,

1139
01:02:02,300 --> 01:02:04,233
like, "Oh, I want a TV."

1140
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:07,867
She wants a TV
that has to be in the...

1141
01:02:07,867 --> 01:02:09,200
In the... In the offer.

1142
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:10,667
If you let them talk.

1143
01:02:10,667 --> 01:02:13,367
If I let them talk, but...

1144
01:02:13,367 --> 01:02:15,500
But, yeah, we can never argue
in front of a client

1145
01:02:15,500 --> 01:02:16,867
-that's important.
-Mmm-hmm.

1146
01:02:17,867 --> 01:02:20,400
Since Liz and I had moved
to Arkansas,

1147
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,800
<i>we've kinda been</i>
<i>living off savings.</i>

1148
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:26,000
Big house, you know,
a lot of expenses

1149
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,166
and, I mean, we have a big
wedding not only to plan for

1150
01:02:29,166 --> 01:02:31,367
but to pay for.

1151
01:02:31,367 --> 01:02:34,166
<i>I wanna give Liz</i>
<i>the best wedding possible.</i>

1152
01:02:34,166 --> 01:02:35,600
<i>And I don't really</i>
<i>wanna tell her</i>

1153
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:38,000
that we're under water
right now.

1154
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:40,367
<i>So I'm really feeling</i>
<i>the pressure</i>

1155
01:02:40,367 --> 01:02:43,000
to get this real estate deal
off the ground.

1156
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:44,900
I need an income stream.

1157
01:02:44,900 --> 01:02:48,066
[dramatic music playing]

1158
01:02:49,700 --> 01:02:52,834
[percussive music playing]

1159
01:02:59,467 --> 01:03:01,400
[man] Hello, hello.

1160
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:03,600
-[Lisa] Good morning.
-[man] Hello.

1161
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:06,100
-Bonjour, bonjour.
-Bonjour, bonjour.

1162
01:03:06,100 --> 01:03:07,567
Good morning.

1163
01:03:07,567 --> 01:03:09,600
[Kobe] Oh, how was your night?
Your first night in Cameroon?

1164
01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:11,767
-I loved it.
-You got a good night's sleep?

1165
01:03:11,767 --> 01:03:13,266
Slept like a baby.

1166
01:03:13,266 --> 01:03:16,367
[percussive music playing]

1167
01:03:19,467 --> 01:03:21,200
-[Kobe] Where is Scarlett?
-[Emily] Hi. Where are you?

1168
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:22,700
[Kobe] Where is Scarlett?
There she is.

1169
01:03:22,700 --> 01:03:25,100
-[Emily] Ah!
-[Kobe] All ready.

1170
01:03:25,100 --> 01:03:27,166
It's time to go.
We don't have enough time.

1171
01:03:27,166 --> 01:03:28,767
-We need to get to Buea.
-[David] All right.

1172
01:03:28,767 --> 01:03:30,066
-Kobe, you stay here.
-[Kobe] Yeah.

1173
01:03:30,066 --> 01:03:31,800
Okay.
Are we shopping here, babe?

1174
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:33,700
Not here. We... On the way.

1175
01:03:33,700 --> 01:03:35,166
[Emily] Oh, on the way. Okay.

1176
01:03:36,166 --> 01:03:37,834
[Kobe] You wanna go
see your grandpa?

1177
01:03:38,767 --> 01:03:40,667
We arrived
Cameroon yesterday...

1178
01:03:40,667 --> 01:03:45,266
[Kobe speaking]

1179
01:03:45,266 --> 01:03:48,166
And today we are driving
two hours to Buea,

1180
01:03:48,166 --> 01:03:49,667
which is where
my family lives.

1181
01:03:50,567 --> 01:03:53,333
And I cannot wait
to see my family again.

1182
01:03:54,667 --> 01:03:57,467
Okay. So it begins.

1183
01:03:57,467 --> 01:04:00,800
-Oh, look at Cameroon now.
-[Lisa] I know.

1184
01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:03,166
We didn't get
to see it last night.

1185
01:04:03,166 --> 01:04:05,333
There's, like, so much
to look at.

1186
01:04:07,467 --> 01:04:08,900
-[Emily] <i>You did?</i>
-[Lisa] <i>You did?</i>

1187
01:04:08,900 --> 01:04:10,166
-[Koban] <i>Yeah.</i>
<i>-I saw a girl</i>

1188
01:04:10,166 --> 01:04:11,834
with carrots on her head.

1189
01:04:13,100 --> 01:04:15,266
<i>-Wow.</i>
-[Lisa] <i>So I noticed, Kobe,</i>

1190
01:04:15,266 --> 01:04:16,800
-all the shacks?
-It's a... Oh, yeah.

1191
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:18,567
-They're the--
-[Lisa] Like, people
live in them?

1192
01:04:18,567 --> 01:04:21,200
[Kobe] <i>Yeah. So it's a hustle</i>
<i>in town.</i>

1193
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:24,000
It's not easy living here.

1194
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:25,667
<i>Houses are expensive.</i>

1195
01:04:25,667 --> 01:04:28,166
[percussive music playing]

1196
01:04:28,166 --> 01:04:30,767
[Emily] <i>Cameroon so far</i>
<i>is very flat.</i>

1197
01:04:30,767 --> 01:04:32,166
It reminds me of Kansas,

1198
01:04:32,166 --> 01:04:33,767
like there's no hills
in Douala.

1199
01:04:33,767 --> 01:04:36,867
<i>And I was expecting</i>
<i>probably a lot more animals.</i>

1200
01:04:36,867 --> 01:04:39,967
-[Kobe] <i>Yeah.</i>
<i>-Like</i> The Lion King
<i>with, like,</i>

1201
01:04:39,967 --> 01:04:42,567
the freakin' huge savannah,

1202
01:04:42,567 --> 01:04:43,667
giraffes and lions.

1203
01:04:43,667 --> 01:04:47,500
If a lion pass by me,

1204
01:04:47,500 --> 01:04:49,767
-or like a hippo...
-Yeah?

1205
01:04:49,767 --> 01:04:50,834
that'd be
the coolest thing ever.

1206
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:54,900
[Lisa] Oh, I like her dress.
That's some pretty colors.

1207
01:04:54,900 --> 01:04:57,200
Those are very pretty.

1208
01:04:57,200 --> 01:04:59,600
I want something like that.

1209
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:00,500
[Kobe speaking]

1210
01:05:17,166 --> 01:05:19,500
"Oh, they're white.
They're from America

1211
01:05:19,500 --> 01:05:20,867
and they are wearing our...

1212
01:05:20,867 --> 01:05:22,166
You know, culture outfit,"

1213
01:05:22,166 --> 01:05:24,066
just means that,
"This is a good family.

1214
01:05:24,066 --> 01:05:26,567
This is... They've accepted
our son and...

1215
01:05:26,567 --> 01:05:27,834
For who he is."

1216
01:05:30,967 --> 01:05:33,066
[Valery speaking]

1217
01:05:34,767 --> 01:05:36,100
-[Emily] Hello.
-Hello.

1218
01:05:36,100 --> 01:05:37,433
-[Lisa] Walk on here?
-[Emily] We're here.

1219
01:05:38,567 --> 01:05:40,233
-[Lisa] Okay.
-This is an African shop.

1220
01:05:41,667 --> 01:05:42,667
Hey, Kobe...

1221
01:05:42,667 --> 01:05:43,734
[Valery speaking]

1222
01:05:46,667 --> 01:05:47,800
-[Emily] Just us?
-Yeah, yeah.

1223
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:49,600
Yeah. So I mean,
let's just go and see

1224
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,767
whatever you like then
and we can talk about that.

1225
01:05:51,767 --> 01:05:53,066
[Emily] Okay.

1226
01:05:53,066 --> 01:05:55,600
Babe, it's all so pretty
and it's all handmade, yeah?

1227
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:57,567
[Kobe] Yeah.
Everything is handmade.

1228
01:05:57,567 --> 01:05:58,667
-[Lisa] Wow.
-[Kobe] Original.

1229
01:05:58,667 --> 01:05:59,800
[Emily] I love it.

1230
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:00,700
I want a bag.

1231
01:06:00,700 --> 01:06:02,567
-[Kobe] Okay.
-Absolutely, okay?

1232
01:06:02,567 --> 01:06:04,100
Let's just walk around and see
if you like something

1233
01:06:04,100 --> 01:06:05,433
-and then--
-[Emily] I want everything.

1234
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:09,300
[Kobe speaking]

1235
01:06:09,300 --> 01:06:11,467
Look at this one right here.

1236
01:06:11,467 --> 01:06:13,567
This design is people

1237
01:06:13,567 --> 01:06:15,500
from the grassland region
of Cameroon.

1238
01:06:15,500 --> 01:06:16,700
[David] I'll try it on.

1239
01:06:16,700 --> 01:06:18,567
[Kobe] I think, Dad,
that'll be good on you.

1240
01:06:18,567 --> 01:06:21,166
[David] This is gonna be good?
I'm trusting you, man.

1241
01:06:21,166 --> 01:06:23,567
Cameroon has almost 254 tribes

1242
01:06:23,567 --> 01:06:26,567
and all those tribes have
different traditional outfits.

1243
01:06:26,567 --> 01:06:29,166
My dad is the western
region of Cameroon,

1244
01:06:29,166 --> 01:06:30,867
and my mom is from
the northwest region

1245
01:06:30,867 --> 01:06:32,867
of Cameroon, so that's why

1246
01:06:32,867 --> 01:06:34,467
<i>we are getting these outfits</i>

1247
01:06:34,467 --> 01:06:35,834
<i>to blend the culture</i>
<i>together.</i>

1248
01:06:36,867 --> 01:06:38,100
[David] What do you think?
I feel...

1249
01:06:38,100 --> 01:06:40,166
I feel
like I'm a native Cameroonian.

1250
01:06:40,166 --> 01:06:42,166
-[Emily] Yes. You look good.
-[Lisa] You look... Yeah.

1251
01:06:42,166 --> 01:06:43,767
-[David] Oh, yeah. Hey.
-[Emily] Oh, boy.

1252
01:06:43,767 --> 01:06:44,867
[David] Give me
the whole nine yards here.

1253
01:06:44,867 --> 01:06:46,266
-[Emily] Wow.
-[Lisa] Oh, now you're a king.

1254
01:06:46,266 --> 01:06:48,000
Okay. All right.
Yeah. All right.

1255
01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:49,667
[Kobe] Well,
this part goes behind,

1256
01:06:49,667 --> 01:06:51,300
this one stays back.

1257
01:06:51,300 --> 01:06:52,667
-[Valery] This one go back.
-[Kobe] Yeah.

1258
01:06:52,667 --> 01:06:53,800
-It stays back.
-Oh, okay.

1259
01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:56,000
All good. I don't wanna...
I don't wanna look silly.

1260
01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:58,300
-[laughs]
-[David] Okay.

1261
01:06:58,300 --> 01:06:59,667
-All right.
-Yeah.

1262
01:06:59,667 --> 01:07:01,467
-[Emily] Oh, my gosh.
-Wakanda.

1263
01:07:01,467 --> 01:07:03,867
[laughs] Man.

1264
01:07:05,166 --> 01:07:06,300
Dad is done.

1265
01:07:06,300 --> 01:07:07,567
[Emily] Seriously,
you look great.

1266
01:07:07,567 --> 01:07:08,567
[Kobe] Whoa.

1267
01:07:08,567 --> 01:07:09,500
[David] That one's...
That one's too big.

1268
01:07:09,500 --> 01:07:10,467
How's this, Dave?

1269
01:07:10,467 --> 01:07:11,467
[Emily] Just let them
wear gray now, yeah?

1270
01:07:11,467 --> 01:07:12,467
[David] Oh, I love it.
I love it.

1271
01:07:12,467 --> 01:07:13,800
[Lisa] So it won't be
offensive to anyone

1272
01:07:13,800 --> 01:07:15,300
if we wear these things?

1273
01:07:15,300 --> 01:07:17,867
[Kobe] No.
We are getting this outfit

1274
01:07:17,867 --> 01:07:19,166
before meeting my parents.

1275
01:07:19,166 --> 01:07:21,233
It's just some sort of,
like, respect.

1276
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:26,000
-Okay.
-[Emily] Ooh, I like that hat.

1277
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,166
Koban, come, come.

1278
01:07:28,166 --> 01:07:29,433
We'll have to take it.

1279
01:07:32,166 --> 01:07:33,567
-[David] Oh.
-[Lisa] It looks like a crown.

1280
01:07:33,567 --> 01:07:35,767
-I love it.
-[David] Cleopatra.

1281
01:07:35,767 --> 01:07:37,200
I like it too.

1282
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:38,900
I have to have it.

1283
01:07:38,900 --> 01:07:41,700
My favorite part
about Cameroonian clothing

1284
01:07:41,700 --> 01:07:43,600
is definitely, like,
the bright colors

1285
01:07:43,600 --> 01:07:45,367
<i>and the patterns.</i>

1286
01:07:45,367 --> 01:07:48,567
I like to embrace
the culture of my husband.

1287
01:07:48,567 --> 01:07:50,700
Hey, babe, what do you think?

1288
01:07:50,700 --> 01:07:52,200
[Emily] Wow.

1289
01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:54,166
-Very good.
-[Lisa] It looks good.

1290
01:07:54,166 --> 01:07:55,567
All right.

1291
01:07:55,567 --> 01:07:57,900
Kobe wears Cameroonian clothes
all the time

1292
01:07:57,900 --> 01:08:01,100
in Salina,
and you always look sexy.

1293
01:08:01,100 --> 01:08:04,767
Really, you look
the most sexy naked but...

1294
01:08:04,767 --> 01:08:07,667
-[laughs]
-clothing is optional.

1295
01:08:07,667 --> 01:08:08,934
Oh.

1296
01:08:10,066 --> 01:08:11,767
Okay.

1297
01:08:11,767 --> 01:08:13,200
Oh, my God. You're looking...

1298
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:14,567
-[David] Hey.
-good.

1299
01:08:14,567 --> 01:08:15,567
Yeah.
Thank you, thank you so much.

1300
01:08:15,567 --> 01:08:17,200
-[Emily] Oh, go to Valery.
-Look at this guy.

1301
01:08:17,200 --> 01:08:18,467
[Valery]
Koban, you're looking good.

1302
01:08:18,467 --> 01:08:19,567
Like a king.

1303
01:08:19,567 --> 01:08:20,567
[Emily] What do you say?
Hello?

1304
01:08:20,567 --> 01:08:22,767
You're like a queen. Oh.

1305
01:08:24,100 --> 01:08:26,066
-[Valery speaking]
-[Emily] Do I?

1306
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:28,767
Oh, thank you.

1307
01:08:28,767 --> 01:08:30,100
I feel like a court jester.

1308
01:08:30,100 --> 01:08:31,100
Especially
with the hat, right?

1309
01:08:31,100 --> 01:08:32,467
-His hat, it's like--
-Yeah.

1310
01:08:32,467 --> 01:08:34,266
We'd blend
right in there, right?

1311
01:08:34,266 --> 01:08:37,066
[laughter]

1312
01:08:37,066 --> 01:08:38,300
Okay.
Off we go to see grandpa.

1313
01:08:38,300 --> 01:08:39,867
You got his hat?

1314
01:08:39,867 --> 01:08:42,967
[tense music playing]

1315
01:08:45,100 --> 01:08:48,767
<i>As beautiful as this</i>
<i>Cameroonian clothes are,</i>

1316
01:08:48,767 --> 01:08:53,567
there is part of me that feels
a little disingenuous

1317
01:08:53,567 --> 01:08:56,200
putting them on
and showing up at their house

1318
01:08:56,200 --> 01:08:58,467
<i>and not knowing anything</i>
<i>about their culture.</i>

1319
01:08:58,467 --> 01:09:00,066
Hi, everyone.

1320
01:09:00,066 --> 01:09:02,667
I just wanna be one big,
happy, blended family,

1321
01:09:02,667 --> 01:09:04,800
<i>but I'm worried</i>
<i>that they won't accept me</i>

1322
01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:06,767
<i>and they'll disapprove</i>
<i>of this marriage,</i>

1323
01:09:06,767 --> 01:09:08,467
just because
I'm the white woman

1324
01:09:08,467 --> 01:09:11,000
who lives in America,
who took their son away.

1325
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:12,867
<i>And if they don't like me,</i>
<i>then what's it gonna do</i>

1326
01:09:12,867 --> 01:09:15,033
with our marriage?

1327
01:09:16,467 --> 01:09:18,133
Oh, sneezy, sneezy.

1328
01:09:21,567 --> 01:09:23,166
What is this, honey?

1329
01:09:23,166 --> 01:09:25,100
Oh, that's for, like,
when I, uh,

1330
01:09:25,100 --> 01:09:26,667
do listings for the clothes.

1331
01:09:28,166 --> 01:09:30,166
[Nicole] Because it's a...
it's a plastic doll.

1332
01:09:33,200 --> 01:09:35,166
[Nicole]
<i>Mahmoud's now in America.</i>

1333
01:09:35,166 --> 01:09:38,767
<i>And I'm hoping that he can</i>
<i>give this his best effort.</i>

1334
01:09:38,767 --> 01:09:39,967
<i>I mean,</i>
<i>he doesn't like living</i>

1335
01:09:39,967 --> 01:09:41,367
<i>with all these naked women</i>

1336
01:09:41,367 --> 01:09:44,000
but she lived here
before he did,

1337
01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:45,834
so it's gonna stay.

1338
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:50,867
And I did all the paperwork
for a petition myself.

1339
01:09:50,867 --> 01:09:53,934
Were both the kids listed
on the fiancée petition?

1340
01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:58,600
I did not have the children
on the K-1 petition.

1341
01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:00,800
<i>I'm hoping that Jasmine</i>
<i>can help him</i>

1342
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,767
to make a wise decision
to maintain our services

1343
01:10:03,767 --> 01:10:05,400
in order to get the guidance

1344
01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:07,467
<i>and proper help</i>
<i>that they need.</i>

1345
01:10:07,467 --> 01:10:09,600
Google didn't tell you
what to do?

1346
01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:10,834
No.

1347
01:10:13,767 --> 01:10:15,767
[singer]
<i>♪ I see the future ♪</i>

1348
01:10:15,767 --> 01:10:18,333
<i>♪ So they glow on your eyes ♪</i>

1349
01:10:20,266 --> 01:10:22,533
<i>♪ I know what I can find ♪</i>

1350
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:27,767
-[Nicole speaking]
-[Mahmoud speaking]

1351
01:10:27,767 --> 01:10:31,066
That's all
you have to say, okay?

1352
01:10:34,166 --> 01:10:35,367
[Nicole] Okay.

1353
01:10:36,066 --> 01:10:38,300
[singer]
<i>♪ We can be free ♪</i>

1354
01:10:38,300 --> 01:10:41,433
<i>♪ And find our paradise ♪</i>

1355
01:10:44,100 --> 01:10:45,400
Welcome home, sweetheart.

1356
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:46,834
Okay. Thank you.

1357
01:10:51,867 --> 01:10:53,367
[Nicole] <i>It's amazing</i>
<i>to have Mahmoud</i>

1358
01:10:53,367 --> 01:10:54,900
<i>here with me in America.</i>

1359
01:10:54,900 --> 01:10:57,266
And I can't wait
to show him everything.

1360
01:10:57,266 --> 01:11:00,367
<i>Like the Hollywood sign</i>
<i>or Hollywood Boulevard.</i>

1361
01:11:00,367 --> 01:11:04,100
Then I want him to eat
good food and meet my friends.

1362
01:11:04,100 --> 01:11:06,667
But what I'm most excited
about honestly

1363
01:11:06,667 --> 01:11:08,900
is just having him here
with me,

1364
01:11:08,900 --> 01:11:10,500
<i>walking hand-in-hand.</i>

1365
01:11:10,500 --> 01:11:12,266
<i>That's what I'm most</i>
<i>excited about.</i>

1366
01:11:14,767 --> 01:11:16,667
-What do you think, honey?
-[Mahmoud] It's nice, honey.

1367
01:11:16,667 --> 01:11:18,166
-[Nicole] It's your new home.
-[Mahmoud] Yeah.

1368
01:11:19,100 --> 01:11:20,300
[Nicole] So welcome home,
sweetheart.

1369
01:11:20,300 --> 01:11:22,166
-[Mahmoud] Thank you, sweetie.
-[Nicole] Mmm-hmm.

1370
01:11:22,166 --> 01:11:24,467
Have you seen
the bedroom or anything yet?

1371
01:11:28,100 --> 01:11:29,667
It's for decoration.

1372
01:11:29,667 --> 01:11:31,734
-[Mahmoud] Okay, honey.
-[Nicole] Yeah.

1373
01:11:33,467 --> 01:11:35,467
Yeah. We take them off.
Like, when I...

1374
01:11:35,467 --> 01:11:37,000
when I go to sleep,
I put them all over here.

1375
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:38,667
-All right.
-Yeah.

1376
01:11:38,667 --> 01:11:40,734
[Mahmoud speaking]

1377
01:12:02,367 --> 01:12:03,467
[Nicole] What?

1378
01:12:06,900 --> 01:12:08,967
[laughs]

1379
01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:12,166
It looks weird?

1380
01:12:12,166 --> 01:12:13,667
You don't like
your wife's artwork?

1381
01:12:13,667 --> 01:12:15,700
No. [laughs]

1382
01:12:15,700 --> 01:12:18,367
<i>I mean,</i>
<i>I painted in art school</i>

1383
01:12:18,367 --> 01:12:20,367
and then I don't know,
it's just, like, um,

1384
01:12:20,367 --> 01:12:22,667
it's a weird kind of woman.

1385
01:12:22,667 --> 01:12:27,367
And, uh, she has, like,
some hair down there

1386
01:12:27,367 --> 01:12:30,433
and, uh, he didn't like
my painting very much.

1387
01:12:31,967 --> 01:12:33,433
It's okay.

1388
01:12:38,467 --> 01:12:39,867
What is this, honey?

1389
01:12:39,867 --> 01:12:41,600
Uh, that's for, like,
when I, uh,

1390
01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:43,400
do listings
for the clothes and--

1391
01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:45,567
[Mahmoud speaking]

1392
01:12:45,567 --> 01:12:47,800
[Nicole] Because, uh, she...
It doesn't matter.

1393
01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:49,266
She's a plastic doll.

1394
01:12:50,767 --> 01:12:53,834
[Mahmoud speaking]

1395
01:12:56,367 --> 01:12:58,367
You know, I didn't even think
about it, really, like,

1396
01:12:58,367 --> 01:13:00,700
it's just so,
like, everyday kind of things.

1397
01:13:00,700 --> 01:13:02,900
Like, I mean,
just like a nude painting

1398
01:13:02,900 --> 01:13:04,166
<i>and a naked mannequin</i>

1399
01:13:04,166 --> 01:13:06,900
<i>is just kind of whatever</i>
<i>to me.</i>

1400
01:13:06,900 --> 01:13:08,400
<i>So maybe</i>
<i>he doesn't like living</i>

1401
01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:09,867
<i>with all these naked women</i>

1402
01:13:09,867 --> 01:13:12,767
but she lived here
before he did,

1403
01:13:12,767 --> 01:13:14,634
so it's gonna stay.

1404
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:18,567
I got you
just a little something.

1405
01:13:18,567 --> 01:13:20,867
[chuckles] What is it?

1406
01:13:24,166 --> 01:13:25,700
Okay, honey. This is so nice.

1407
01:13:25,700 --> 01:13:26,800
You like it?

1408
01:13:26,800 --> 01:13:28,000
You like it, really?

1409
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:29,867
I think so.

1410
01:13:29,867 --> 01:13:31,100
Well, I wanted to get you
something so you would...

1411
01:13:31,100 --> 01:13:32,800
-Okay.
-you would go to bed

1412
01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:34,166
with, you know, some pajamas.

1413
01:13:34,166 --> 01:13:35,634
-Thank you.
-[laughs]

1414
01:13:36,867 --> 01:13:39,767
[Mahmoud speaking]

1415
01:13:55,900 --> 01:13:57,867
[Nicole] Do you want me
to make you pizza?

1416
01:13:57,867 --> 01:13:59,100
Yes, okay.

1417
01:13:59,100 --> 01:14:00,367
-Yeah.
-Okay.

1418
01:14:00,367 --> 01:14:01,667
Do you wanna sit down
or something?

1419
01:14:01,667 --> 01:14:03,266
-Yeah.
-[Nicole] Be careful.

1420
01:14:03,266 --> 01:14:05,767
Be careful.

1421
01:14:05,767 --> 01:14:07,634
You should have slept
on the plane.

1422
01:14:17,867 --> 01:14:20,367
I know you're just tired
but I was like...

1423
01:14:20,367 --> 01:14:21,467
I was definitely hoping

1424
01:14:21,467 --> 01:14:23,433
that you'd be
a lot more excited.

1425
01:14:25,100 --> 01:14:26,567
Happy to see me
and things like that...

1426
01:14:26,567 --> 01:14:27,867
[Mahmoud] I'm just tired,
of course.

1427
01:14:27,867 --> 01:14:28,900
instead of just,
like, exhausted.

1428
01:14:28,900 --> 01:14:30,100
But I told you...
Anyway, it irritates me

1429
01:14:30,100 --> 01:14:31,400
that you didn't sleep
on the plane actually,

1430
01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:32,500
it really does.

1431
01:14:32,500 --> 01:14:34,333
But...
Like, really, irritates me.

1432
01:14:40,667 --> 01:14:42,467
I promise.

1433
01:14:42,467 --> 01:14:44,567
<i>I'm sure that now</i>
<i>that Mahmoud's going through</i>

1434
01:14:44,567 --> 01:14:49,667
this process of moving here
to a new country

1435
01:14:49,667 --> 01:14:53,867
that maybe he'll kind
of understand more clearly

1436
01:14:53,867 --> 01:14:57,934
and fully what I went through
to do the same thing in Egypt.

1437
01:14:59,500 --> 01:15:01,500
And Mahmoud's now in America

1438
01:15:01,500 --> 01:15:04,800
<i>and I'm hoping that he can</i>
<i>give this his best effort</i>

1439
01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:07,233
because there's no way
that I'm moving back to Egypt.

1440
01:15:11,166 --> 01:15:13,200
Tonight,
I hope you get some sleep.

1441
01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:15,767
I'm gonna take these plates
and clean up.

1442
01:15:15,767 --> 01:15:17,800
-[Mahmoud] Okay.
-And then,

1443
01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:20,734
you can go take a shower
and get ready.

1444
01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:25,166
For bed.

1445
01:15:25,166 --> 01:15:26,967
Okay.

1446
01:15:29,166 --> 01:15:31,266
-I love you.
-I love you.

1447
01:15:41,166 --> 01:15:42,300
The government says

1448
01:15:42,300 --> 01:15:43,967
while your green card
is pending,

1449
01:15:43,967 --> 01:15:46,100
you can travel in and out
the United States.

1450
01:15:46,100 --> 01:15:48,266
But unfortunately,
the processing time

1451
01:15:48,266 --> 01:15:52,433
is gonna be, on average,
eight to twelve months.

1452
01:15:53,500 --> 01:15:55,066
Wow.

1453
01:15:55,066 --> 01:15:57,066
[Jasmine] <i>I'm stuck here</i>
<i>in the United States</i>

1454
01:15:57,066 --> 01:15:58,667
<i>without my children.</i>

1455
01:15:58,667 --> 01:15:59,900
This is a nightmare...

1456
01:15:59,900 --> 01:16:01,967
[Jasmine speaking]

1457
01:16:08,467 --> 01:16:09,767
[singer]
<i>♪ I'm tired of living ♪</i>

1458
01:16:09,767 --> 01:16:11,734
<i>♪ In two places</i>
<i>At the same time ♪</i>

1459
01:16:13,266 --> 01:16:16,000
<i>♪ It's like</i>
<i>Whenever my heart is ♪</i>

1460
01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:20,934
<i>♪ Somewhere else</i>
<i>Living a separate life, oh ♪</i>

1461
01:16:28,467 --> 01:16:32,467
I'm pretty glad
that we are finally gonna see

1462
01:16:32,467 --> 01:16:35,800
an attorney because
I'm really looking forward

1463
01:16:35,800 --> 01:16:41,600
to understand how this process
with my kids is gonna work.

1464
01:16:41,600 --> 01:16:44,066
Today, we are meeting
with an immigration lawyer

1465
01:16:44,066 --> 01:16:47,400
to discuss bringing
my kids to the United States

1466
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:50,367
and to find out when I can
travel back to Panama

1467
01:16:50,367 --> 01:16:54,100
<i>to see my mom</i>
<i>and my children.</i>

1468
01:16:54,100 --> 01:16:56,367
[Gino] For me, I mean,
I need to know, like,

1469
01:16:56,367 --> 01:16:58,166
if I can use
existing documents

1470
01:16:58,166 --> 01:17:00,200
or do I need to create
new ones?

1471
01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:02,266
That's a huge question
on my part.

1472
01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:11,100
No, because I've put too much
hard work into this

1473
01:17:11,100 --> 01:17:12,834
and I've done
a great job on it.

1474
01:17:14,266 --> 01:17:17,400
<i>I want the kids here</i>
<i>just like Jasmine does,</i>

1475
01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:19,567
but right now,
I don't have the money

1476
01:17:19,567 --> 01:17:22,867
to pay for a lawyer to do
the paperwork for her children

1477
01:17:22,867 --> 01:17:25,367
<i>because our wedding put us</i>
<i>in a little bit of debt.</i>

1478
01:17:25,367 --> 01:17:27,800
Plus, we're trying
to have a baby.

1479
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:31,000
<i>So this is an informational</i>
<i>meeting only</i>

1480
01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:33,367
<i>with an immigration lawyer.</i>

1481
01:17:33,367 --> 01:17:36,533
[dramatic music playing]

1482
01:17:41,867 --> 01:17:44,767
Hello. How are you guys doing?
My name's Anthony.

1483
01:17:44,767 --> 01:17:47,166
-Jasmine. Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.

1484
01:17:47,166 --> 01:17:48,867
-Gino. Nice to meet you.
-Anthony Ray.

1485
01:17:48,867 --> 01:17:50,367
Please, take a seat.
Let's get started.

1486
01:17:50,367 --> 01:17:51,834
Thank you so much. Yes.

1487
01:17:53,166 --> 01:17:55,667
[Anthony] So, thank you guys
for coming in today.

1488
01:17:55,667 --> 01:17:56,667
-First...
-[Gino] Yeah.

1489
01:17:56,667 --> 01:17:58,200
I'll let you guys tell us
exactly,

1490
01:17:58,200 --> 01:17:59,467
you know,
where you guys are at,

1491
01:17:59,467 --> 01:18:01,266
and then we'll talk about
the next steps, all right?

1492
01:18:01,266 --> 01:18:02,667
-[Gino] Yeah, that's great.
-[Jasmine] Awesome. Yeah.

1493
01:18:02,667 --> 01:18:04,100
Okay. Who wants to start?

1494
01:18:04,100 --> 01:18:06,100
She's from the country
of Panama.

1495
01:18:06,100 --> 01:18:07,667
-[Anthony] Yes.
-And I brought her here

1496
01:18:07,667 --> 01:18:09,700
-on a K-1 visa...
-Mmm-hmm.

1497
01:18:09,700 --> 01:18:11,967
and I did all the paperwork
for a petition myself,

1498
01:18:11,967 --> 01:18:15,467
and it worked out great
because she's her now.

1499
01:18:15,467 --> 01:18:17,000
-Oh. So you're a...
-[Jasmine] So he did it...

1500
01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:18,467
semi-expert?

1501
01:18:18,467 --> 01:18:22,467
-[Gino] Semi-expert, yeah.
-[laughter]

1502
01:18:22,467 --> 01:18:25,266
But before getting into that,
I have some other concerns...

1503
01:18:25,266 --> 01:18:26,600
-Go ahead.
-if you let me speak.

1504
01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:28,100
-Absolutely.
-Go ahead, sorry.

1505
01:18:28,100 --> 01:18:30,567
One of the things
that concerns me is that

1506
01:18:30,567 --> 01:18:33,567
I'm not allowed to travel
outside the United States,

1507
01:18:33,567 --> 01:18:37,100
and as a Panamanian, you know,
I have family, I have kids.

1508
01:18:37,100 --> 01:18:39,200
So when you file
the application

1509
01:18:39,200 --> 01:18:40,567
to adjustment of status

1510
01:18:40,567 --> 01:18:42,100
or your green card
application,

1511
01:18:42,100 --> 01:18:43,467
what you're gonna file
with that

1512
01:18:43,467 --> 01:18:44,900
is your travel document.

1513
01:18:44,900 --> 01:18:46,867
It's called an advance parole.

1514
01:18:46,867 --> 01:18:49,600
The government says while
your green card is pending,

1515
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:51,166
you can travel
in and out the United States.

1516
01:18:51,166 --> 01:18:52,900
[Jasmine] Oh, my gosh.
I'm allowed then?

1517
01:18:52,900 --> 01:18:54,767
-[Anthony] You are allowed.
-Oh, my gosh.

1518
01:18:54,767 --> 01:18:56,700
[Anthony] That's the good...
That's the good news.

1519
01:18:56,700 --> 01:18:57,767
Oh, Anthony, yeah.

1520
01:18:57,767 --> 01:18:58,900
[Anthony]
But there are some...

1521
01:18:58,900 --> 01:18:59,967
That's the good news.

1522
01:18:59,967 --> 01:19:02,600
But unfortunately,
right now, the processing time

1523
01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:06,834
is gonna be, on average,
eight to twelve months.

1524
01:19:08,400 --> 01:19:09,767
Obviously,
having a professional

1525
01:19:09,767 --> 01:19:11,266
to put everything together,

1526
01:19:11,266 --> 01:19:13,700
make sure you have
everything together

1527
01:19:13,700 --> 01:19:15,867
and address all the issues
is gonna make sure

1528
01:19:15,867 --> 01:19:18,233
that everything
goes a lot quicker.

1529
01:19:20,467 --> 01:19:23,567
I'm having a panic attack
right now, at this moment.

1530
01:19:24,567 --> 01:19:27,367
<i>In my mind, I thought</i>
<i>that it was gonna take,</i>

1531
01:19:27,367 --> 01:19:30,266
worst-case scenario,
the most, three months?

1532
01:19:30,266 --> 01:19:31,867
<i>I'm stuck here</i>
<i>in the United States</i>

1533
01:19:31,867 --> 01:19:32,867
<i>without my children.</i>

1534
01:19:32,867 --> 01:19:34,000
<i>It sucks.</i>

1535
01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:36,166
But hopefully,
with the lawyer's help,

1536
01:19:36,166 --> 01:19:38,000
the process can be faster

1537
01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:41,033
so I can see my children
and my mom sooner.

1538
01:19:42,367 --> 01:19:45,567
So, regarding the kids,
they're not here?

1539
01:19:45,567 --> 01:19:47,567
Why aren't they here?

1540
01:19:47,567 --> 01:19:50,467
I wanna be, like,
brutally honest, Anthony.

1541
01:19:50,467 --> 01:19:53,867
The truth is that
there were rough patches

1542
01:19:53,867 --> 01:19:55,166
in our relationship
and there was a lot...

1543
01:19:55,166 --> 01:19:56,467
-[Anthony] Yeah.
-of struggle.

1544
01:19:56,467 --> 01:19:58,600
I wanted to make sure

1545
01:19:58,600 --> 01:20:01,200
that this is what I want
for my kids...

1546
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:02,767
-Absolutely.
-[Jasmine] for my children.

1547
01:20:02,767 --> 01:20:04,967
And now is when I'm like,
"Yes, I feel like

1548
01:20:04,967 --> 01:20:07,934
this is a safe environment
to bring my kids."

1549
01:20:08,967 --> 01:20:11,100
So Gino,
were both the kids listed

1550
01:20:11,100 --> 01:20:13,233
on the fiancée petition?

1551
01:20:14,767 --> 01:20:17,500
I did not have the children
on the K-1 petition.

1552
01:20:17,500 --> 01:20:21,200
I'm not an expert, of course,
but the idea I thought

1553
01:20:21,200 --> 01:20:22,600
was to bring Jasmine over

1554
01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:25,166
and then
have her children follow.

1555
01:20:25,166 --> 01:20:28,066
But when I file
her adjustment of status soon,

1556
01:20:28,066 --> 01:20:29,100
can I put her...

1557
01:20:29,100 --> 01:20:30,900
Both her children
on adjustment of status

1558
01:20:30,900 --> 01:20:33,667
and file it
with her children on there?

1559
01:20:33,667 --> 01:20:36,300
Google didn't tell you
what to do?

1560
01:20:36,300 --> 01:20:38,433
No. I couldn't... No.

1561
01:20:40,767 --> 01:20:44,800
Adjustment of status
allows you to adjust a status.

1562
01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:46,834
You have to have one
before you can adjust it.

1563
01:20:47,967 --> 01:20:50,967
-Okay.
-So since they're not here,

1564
01:20:50,967 --> 01:20:52,667
they can't adjust it.

1565
01:20:52,667 --> 01:20:56,266
She has a status,
the K-1 status,

1566
01:20:56,266 --> 01:20:57,767
that allows her to adjust

1567
01:20:57,767 --> 01:21:01,000
or change it
to a green card status.

1568
01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:02,800
So what you should
have done in this case,

1569
01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:04,266
even if you didn't wanna bring
the kids

1570
01:21:04,266 --> 01:21:06,600
over right away,
you wanna include them...

1571
01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:10,000
Everyone on that petition,
get that approved,

1572
01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:11,667
and then later
when they're ready,

1573
01:21:11,667 --> 01:21:13,767
you just contact
the National Visa Center

1574
01:21:13,767 --> 01:21:15,800
and say like,
"Hey, we're ready to go."

1575
01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:18,000
But because
they're not listed,

1576
01:21:18,000 --> 01:21:21,934
it's gonna be impossible
to, you know, bring them over.

1577
01:21:25,166 --> 01:21:28,367
You know, we see this problem
all too often and, you know,

1578
01:21:28,367 --> 01:21:32,300
I think Gino hears it
but is it really sinking in?

1579
01:21:32,300 --> 01:21:34,867
<i>I'm hoping that Jasmine</i>
<i>can help him</i>

1580
01:21:34,867 --> 01:21:37,567
to make a wise decision
to retain our services

1581
01:21:37,567 --> 01:21:39,166
in order to get the guidance

1582
01:21:39,166 --> 01:21:41,367
<i>and proper help</i>
<i>that they need.</i>

1583
01:21:41,367 --> 01:21:44,166
We don't want another screw-up
or mess up the process again.

1584
01:21:45,867 --> 01:21:48,266
We're gonna need to look at...

1585
01:21:48,266 --> 01:21:50,200
Looking
at the immigrant petition

1586
01:21:50,200 --> 01:21:51,767
and then get them
the immigrant visas

1587
01:21:51,767 --> 01:21:53,367
to bring them over.

1588
01:21:53,367 --> 01:21:57,166
We charge about $5,000,
and that's your filing fees.

1589
01:21:58,100 --> 01:21:59,200
Mmm-hmm.

1590
01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:01,066
That's to represent you

1591
01:22:01,066 --> 01:22:05,100
for the next 12 to 14 months.

1592
01:22:05,100 --> 01:22:06,967
It's gonna take
a little bit longer though.

1593
01:22:08,967 --> 01:22:11,100
How long is long?

1594
01:22:11,100 --> 01:22:12,700
Hopefully it goes sooner,

1595
01:22:12,700 --> 01:22:15,433
but it could be a year
and a half to two years.

1596
01:22:17,367 --> 01:22:19,066
-[sighs]
-Wow.

1597
01:22:19,066 --> 01:22:21,934
[dramatic music playing]

1598
01:22:29,266 --> 01:22:31,600
If I would've had both
on the petition...

1599
01:22:31,600 --> 01:22:34,100
-[Anthony] Included--
-we would've been good to go?

1600
01:22:34,100 --> 01:22:35,567
-Absolutely.
-Wow.

1601
01:22:35,567 --> 01:22:38,233
We could have them
sitting here in six months.

1602
01:22:39,667 --> 01:22:40,934
[sniffles]

1603
01:22:44,700 --> 01:22:46,000
How am I gonna tell them

1604
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:48,600
that it might take about
two years to come here?

1605
01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:52,567
[dramatic music playing]

1606
01:22:56,867 --> 01:22:58,266
[sniffles]

1607
01:22:58,266 --> 01:22:59,467
This is a nightmare...

1608
01:23:01,367 --> 01:23:04,734
[Jasmine speaking]

1609
01:23:18,166 --> 01:23:19,934
[dramatic music playing]

1610
01:23:25,367 --> 01:23:28,300
[singing in foreign language]

1611
01:23:28,300 --> 01:23:32,467
[Ed]
<i>Next time on</i> 90 Day Fiancé:
Happily Ever After?

1612
01:23:32,467 --> 01:23:35,300
My dad is saying
that he thinks

1613
01:23:35,300 --> 01:23:39,000
that this is the best moment
to do a traditional marriage.

1614
01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:41,467
We're gonna get married?
Again?

1615
01:23:41,467 --> 01:23:43,767
Because we didn't get married
in a traditional way

1616
01:23:43,767 --> 01:23:47,266
in Cameroon, my dad doesn't
fully look at you as my wife.

1617
01:23:49,700 --> 01:23:50,767
[Sophie] What is this?

1618
01:23:50,767 --> 01:23:52,667
This is more directed
towards us,

1619
01:23:52,667 --> 01:23:54,867
like, getting along
on a daily basis.

1620
01:23:54,867 --> 01:23:56,200
"Don't get mad at me

1621
01:23:56,200 --> 01:23:58,000
when you don't get
what you want

1622
01:23:58,000 --> 01:23:59,400
[indistinct] but I will try
and move forward

1623
01:23:59,400 --> 01:24:00,834
and don't focus on the past."

1624
01:24:02,300 --> 01:24:04,634
Super-basic. Nothing crazy.

1625
01:24:05,367 --> 01:24:06,767
What is the point of this?

1626
01:24:08,500 --> 01:24:09,667
I honestly feel

1627
01:24:09,667 --> 01:24:11,467
like there are some blockages
in his throat.

1628
01:24:11,467 --> 01:24:15,200
What do you think we can do
to open up the chakra?

1629
01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:18,867
[in Spanish]

1630
01:24:18,867 --> 01:24:20,467
[Ashley] <i>Manuel and I</i>
<i>are struggling</i>

1631
01:24:20,467 --> 01:24:22,000
<i>with communication.</i>

1632
01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:23,367
So I'm enlisting

1633
01:24:23,367 --> 01:24:26,367
some otherworldly
witchy help today.

1634
01:24:26,367 --> 01:24:28,734
[in Spanish]

1635
01:24:32,266 --> 01:24:33,767
[Ed] Give me one second.
Can I do something?

1636
01:24:33,767 --> 01:24:35,300
You're getting
flour everywhere.

1637
01:24:35,300 --> 01:24:37,066
There was no mess.

1638
01:24:37,066 --> 01:24:38,400
[Ed] Mommy's being a crybaby.

1639
01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:41,467
Neither of us wanna fight
in front of Ryleigh,

1640
01:24:41,467 --> 01:24:43,767
but we still have issues.

1641
01:24:43,767 --> 01:24:44,900
You're pouting
and you're ruining the event.

1642
01:24:44,900 --> 01:24:47,934
Stop. You stop being a brat
because you're ruining it.

1643
01:24:49,000 --> 01:24:52,100
You barely
smiled today at all.

1644
01:24:52,100 --> 01:24:53,467
You like that?

1645
01:24:53,467 --> 01:24:55,266
The girl in purple.

1646
01:24:55,266 --> 01:24:58,967
My husband
is stopping dead in his tracks

1647
01:24:58,967 --> 01:25:00,767
to stare at this woman.

1648
01:25:00,767 --> 01:25:04,100
It makes me feel like
I'm not Muslim enough for him.

1649
01:25:04,100 --> 01:25:05,700
If you want an Arab woman,

1650
01:25:05,700 --> 01:25:08,066
you can go back
to [bleep] Egypt. Yeah.

1651
01:25:08,066 --> 01:25:10,000
Okay. I would... I'm done now.

1652
01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:11,967
Okay.

1653
01:25:11,967 --> 01:25:13,667
[dramatic music playing]

1654
01:25:14,500 --> 01:25:17,066
You promised
that we were gonna do

1655
01:25:17,066 --> 01:25:19,967
all the process to bring
my kids, you promised.

1656
01:25:19,967 --> 01:25:21,667
-I'm telling you--
-And I'm telling you

1657
01:25:21,667 --> 01:25:23,600
I don't have
five [bleep] thousand dollars.

1658
01:25:23,600 --> 01:25:25,266
[cries]

1659
01:25:25,266 --> 01:25:26,967
I wanna go back to Panama...

1660
01:25:26,967 --> 01:25:28,600
[cries]