-Hey, Kobe. -[laughter]
[man] Previously on90 Day Fiance:
Happily Ever After.
[man] What do you think?
-Okay. -[woman] All right. Oh, my God.
I'm worried Kobe's family won't accept me,
just because I'm the White woman
who lives in America who took their son away.
And if they don't like me, then what's it gonna do
to our marriage?
Are you finally ready to marry me?
I'm ready to settle down.
Being together on and off for three years,
we have finally set a wedding date.
Holy [bleep].
[laughs] That's about right.
I'm gonna see Rob
and, like, have another chat with him at his house.
If you're gonna go back, he's gonna continue this behavior
with this online cheating.
It's an addiction.
I do wanna give Rob the benefit of the doubt.
But in order for me to trust him
again and have this loving marriage,
he needs to change.
[in Spanish]
Manuel's behavior, the secrecy,
it's not something that I can brush off anymore.
[in Spanish]
I know you're just tired,
but I'm always definitely hoping
that you'd be a lot more excited,
happy to see me, and things like that.
-I'm still happy, of course. -Instead of just like exhausted.
If I told in a way it irritates me
that you didn't sleep on the plane actually, it really does.
Mahmoud is now in America and I'm hoping
that he can give this his best effort
because there's no way that I'm moving back to Egypt.
Gino, were both the kids listed
on the fiance petition?
Unfortunately not.
Because they're not listed,
it could be a year and a half to two years
to bring them over.
Wow.
I know that this was gonna take time
but never ever two years.
I feel at this moment that I make a huge mistake.
I should have never come here.
[upbeat music playing]
[Ed] Good morning, Ryleigh.
What are you doing up early?
I know.
I wash my hands.
-Can I have a hug? -Yeah.
[singer] ♪ It's been so long
♪ La, la, la, la
♪ Ay, ay, ay
♪ La, la, la, la
Um, we're gonna make breakfast.
Okay. Breakfast.
-You wanna make it with us? -Yeah.
-Can I make some coffee? -Yeah.
[Ed] Wait. What are you gonna make?
Breakfast pizza.
The wedding is less than eight weeks away, so...
And it's very stressful.
There's a lot on our plate.
And on top of that,
today, my mom and my grandmother are coming into town
to celebrate 4th of July with us.
And they are going
to go wedding dress shopping with me.
Do you remember how to do the, um, the flour?
Yes, I do.
You remember how to do the flour
without making a mess?
-Yes. -Okay. Good.
You go up.
There you go.
[Ed] I love having Ryleigh around.
And she loves to bake
but I know I'm gonna have to mop the floor
when we're done. I just can feel it.
-Hey, you guys are making a mess. -Baby, you need to just chill.
-We just put the flour. -I know but you guys are such so messy.
-Baby, it's just a little bit right here. -Yeah, move, move. Just move.
Have you not seen yourself cook pasta?
-It's a little bit of flour. -I don't wanna make this big of a mess.
Babe, there was no mess.
I'm not doing this. If you can't have fun, just go.
Just add a little bit another time.
Look at all this right here, babe,
this whole mess right here is you
'cause you don't know how to pick up yourself after pasta.
Are you gonna smile?
Are you gonna clean your mess?
Or let this ruin your day?
Oh, you stop ruining it.
-Oh, you're being a little brat. -Either relax and enjoy.
Clean your mess or go back to bed.
I'm gonna be a little brat.
And you're pouting and you're ruining the event.
You stop being a brat 'cause you're ruining it.
[Ryleigh speaking]
What's up?
That's a great idea.
Okay. I'm going to...
Going to couples therapy in Florida
definitely gave us a good roadmap
to, you know, how we are with each other these days.
But that doesn't mean that it fixes all our problems.
Ooh, you're doing a...
-The stuffed crust? -Yeah.
[Liz] We still have issues.
We're definitely working on how we can communicate
and fight through those issues
but also the stress of the wedding's coming.
And we need to get back to work.
We cannot live off of our savings long.
So it's definitely more stressful
than what I thought it would be.
Are you ready to say you're sorry?
Are you ready to clean your stove?
Yes.
Thank you.
[upbeat music playing]
[singer] ♪ Ah, ah, ah
♪[indistinct] you let go ♪
♪ And we're lost
♪[indistinct] come to me ♪
I'm on my way to go back to Rob's apartment
which I feel like is weird because it's also my house.
But I haven't been in the apartment
for over two months.
And I'm feeling anxious to go back
just because things ended really badly last night
at the Selfie Gallery.
And I just... I'm so emotionally drained.
I really just don't want it to be in another argument.
[tense music playing]
I'm willing to see what he has to say
because I don't wanna also just be separated forever.
I do wanna be with Rob and live with him.
So for now, I'm just bringing one bag
with some of my belongings.
And if things go well, then I will stay.
But if things don't go well, then...
I don't know what my next steps will be.
Hello.
Hey, what's up?
How are you?
[Rob] What's that like? A fourth of your stuff that's at Kay's?
That's fine.
Seeing Sophie in the apartment feels good to see
that she actually cares and she wants to work on this.
But Sophie and I definitely do have a lot
we need to work through
and I definitely have to figure out a better way
to communicate with her
and to let her know how I feel
without her getting defensive
and us arguing.
Those flowers,
I had to stop, mid-traffic,
jumped out in the rain, ran over,
and probably technically stole them
off of somebody's bush.
-Be careful with them. -I just spiked myself.
There's literally... Yeah, there's a lot of thorns on that.
What is this?
That's just a list of things I think would be very helpful
from you to, uh, help us cohabitate.
I thought it was gonna be like a love letter or something.
-Like, I saw the flowers on it. -[Rob] The flowers...
-[Rob speaking] -I think it was gonna be something really cute.
The flowers is the love letter.
This is more directed towards us,
like, getting along on a daily basis.
Washing off dishes before putting in the sink.
Putting dirty clothes in bin.
Put makeup and hair products back after use.
Don't get mad at me
when you don't get what you want,
be patient and I'll likely work it out for you.
Remember that we're trying to move forward
and don't focus on the past.
Super basic. Nothing crazy.
What is the point of this?
It's like a to-do list.
You're basically just telling me
to clean up after myself.
-Thanks. -Which would be really--
Okay. That is not even ever brought up
in our argument until anything that we have going on.
Our priorities up here, my...
Being a little messy with my makeup and stuff
is like down there.
This is a piece of some of the bigger problem,
-yes, we have bigger problem. -The big problem I left because of you.
I found out all these texts, all these other girls in your phone,
I didn't leave because I was messy.
Like, I'm literally just trying to find ways
for us to have less issues.
Why can't you just clarify for me what I can do
because I don't wanna have these interactions because--
[Sophie] Stop online cheating on me,
stop controlling me.
How am I controlling?
-I have... I heard you-- -Do you or do you not
count the toilet roll papers of how many I've used?
-Because you literally use the whole roll a day. -Okay. I'm a woman.
Women use more toilet paper than men.
Okay. But that's just very inconsiderate.
You count toilet roll papers of people using it. That's weird
It's not a day.
-so you doing this... -Okay.
for hours, using a whole roll of toilet paper...
-I'm just saying. -how dare I think that you should do
-that little differently. -[Sophie] Monitor my toilet paper use.
That's why I like to be at Kay's.
That's great. Kay takes care of you
so much better than I ever have.
That's crazy.
You shout at me in the home even now,
okay? You raise your voice on me.
You have [bleep] issues.
I think what will fix the marriage is you get
some [bleep] therapy 'cause you have issues.
I am willing in every way possible that I can think of
to do whatever you would like me
to do to make... To help you
be comfortable with me and whatever it is
you would... Like, I've been willing.
I feel like if I stay over, we're gonna argue.
Okay. I'm sorry that I made a list, but stay over.
It takes one thing for one of us to start arguing.
Like, why do I have to beg my wife to stay?
You don't have to beg, but you have to... I would...
I would like us to do it like progressively.
You don't want me to feel like I'm being forced
and rushed back into it, okay?
Obviously, Rob is upset and does want me to stay,
but I feel like me and Rob have already argued
and because I know how me and Rob are,
I just don't wanna make things worse
and for us to have a step back.
-I'm going, okay? -Mmm-hmm.
Oh, both arms this time. That's new.
-That's not new. -It is new.
-No. -I saw you yesterday.
You gave me the little one arm hug.
You don't think I noticed all that [bleep]?
Okay.
You're spiraling.
I'm going.
Goodbye.
-[Ashley] Hello. -[Louis] Hey, guys, how are you doing?
[in Spanish]
-This is the couple bike. -[Ashley in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
I don't want you to deal with the process
for my children's visa
because I don't want more mistakes like this.
Don't sit there and criticize me
for all the hard work that I've done.
I'm not criticizing you.
I'm disappointed.
And that is worse than being upset.
[singer] ♪ Chasing my gravity Upstream ♪
♪ I know this ain't healthy
♪ For my therapy
[in Spanish]
-Yeah. -Okay.
-[in Spanish] -Yeah.
-Up. -Up.
[in Spanish]
-In. -In.
Like inside.
[Manuel] Inside?
Like in the hole, in my mouth.
Inside.
[laughs]
[singer] ♪ Little fires, Little fires everywhere ♪
♪ Little fires, Little fires everywh-e-re ♪
-[in Spanish] -Yeah... [in Spanish]
Today, we're going to the motorcycle shop
because Manuel had a motorcycle
back in Ecuador
and he talks a lot about motorcycles and wanting one.
And since Manuel and I hit a roadblock
about how he is shedding me
out of his children's lives,
I'm thinking maybe if I change my tactics a little bit
and show Manuel that I have his best intentions at heart,
he will let me in more and trust me more
around this very sensitive topic.
Instead of like...
[mimics cat purring]
I pull back, right?
[in Spanish]
Motorcycle.
Motor...
cycle.
Motorcycle.
[Manuel] Motorcycle.
-[Ashley in Spanish] -[Manuel] Yeah, motorcycle.
[Ashley] Motorcycle.
-Yeah. -[in Spanish]
-[Ashley] Yes. -[in Spanish]
Okay?
[in Spanish]
Okay.
[in Spanish]
Stop being so dramatic, Manuel.
[sighs]
-Oh, my God. -Oh, yeah.
-Hi. -[Louis] Hey, guys, how are you doing?
-Welcome to Cortese. -[Ashley] Yes.
All right. So who rides bikes? Which one of you guys?
-This guy. -Oh, yeah.
-Come on, we'll go around. Let's walk this way. -[Ashley] Oh, this way?
And we'll just start with what you're familiar with.
Have a seat on this one.
-It's only 500cc. -[in Spanish]
-[Ashley] Am I supposed to be on this part? -Oh, yeah.
-Yeah. -Oh, my God. No, no, no. Please...
[in Spanish]
[laughing]
[Ashley] He said I was squishing his pee-pee.
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
This bike would be comfortable
in that 60-mile-an-hour window.
Do you have family? You got family here?
[in Spanish]
If he's gonna run around from Rochester
head to throughway, go towards New York,
go see family,
the bike's very capable of doing it.
[in Spanish]
For me in the first 90 days,
that surprised me a little bit
that Manuel had a lot of family.
I knew there was some. I didn't realize there was,
oh, as much as there is.
[in Spanish]
Let me show you a bike
-that you would sit comfortable on. -Okay.
[Ashley in Spanish]
-Put your leg over the bike. -Okay.
Oh, okay.
Now, you sit in.
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Louis] Man, this is a love story.
Yeah.
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
-This bike... -[in Spanish]
-this is the couple bike. -[Ashley in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
He said he wants space.
-[in Spanish] -[speaking Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
Females look at everything, in my opinion,
with eyes of romance
and guys look at it as I'm married,
but I'm still gonna have my adventure.
And that fire in his eyes
with being on a bike
and once it's there, it doesn't leave,
he'll chase that the rest of his air breathing days.
-Sure. -[in Spanish]
Yes. He's like very soon we'll be back here.
-[Louis] I'll be here. -Thank you so much.
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
We're having another argument
about Manuel not wanting to include me in his life.
Manuel keeps things close to the cuff
and so this whole New York thing,
him saying that he wants to go by himself.
Why?
I'm just gonna have to insert myself,
so I can figure this out.
-[mumbling] -[in Spanish]
No
[Manuel in Spanish]
You're acting stank.
[dramatic music playing]
[singer] ♪ I think it's time To call it, call it ♪
♪ Said I'm okay I'm okay, but I'm not okay ♪
♪ On the inside, It's tearing the hell up ♪
I'm just super overwhelmed right now.
I'm sad.
[singer] ♪ And you keep telling me
♪ It's in my head, In my head ♪
♪ But they kept telling me
♪ The flags are red, Flags are red ♪
Gino and I just left the immigration lawyer
who gave us...
very bad news.
Since Gino didn't include my children's name
on my K-1 visa process,
it might take two years
to bring them to America,
and I cannot even think about it.
I'm disappointed.
And that is worse than being upset.
I'm very disappointed.
[sniffles]
Are you doing okay?
[Jasmine] Like I never thought in a million years
like it was gonna take two years.
[Gino] Don't say it's going to take two years.
That is the worst case.
It can be before that.
It could have been avoided, if we have had,
you know, an attorney advising us.
I feel bad that I missed one, one thing.
Gino, you didn't miss one, one thing.
You missed the thing,
the most important part of the process.
Yeah, it was important.
Exactly. That's why we needed a lawyer.
I don't want you to tell me right now
that you are gonna deal with the process
for my green card
or for my children's visa
because I don't want...
I don't want more mistakes like this.
-You are not a lawyer and that's the part that... -[Gino] I mean--
Wow. That's pretty strong statement.
We are hiring a lawyer.
I'm super mad at Gino because I knew
that something like this was gonna happen
and I wish I have done something about it before.
He insisted on knowing how to do it
and to trust on him, and here we are.
The least that Gino could do right now
after [bleep] up
could be, "You know what, babe?
Don't worry, we're gonna hire a lawyer
because we are not gonna take the risk
to make this process longer."
I busted my ass to get you to this country.
Don't sit there and criticize me for all the hard work
-that I've done. -[Jasmine] I'm not criticizing you.
And it's not that we are talking about a fortune, you know.
-It's a very reasonable amount of money. -[Gino] Yeah. It's money
I don't have right now.
-I can't believe you. -[Gino] I can do it myself.
Whether the lawyer does it or me,
that two years that he's mentioned is not gonna change.
[sighs] You promised
that once I was here,
you know, we were gonna do all the process
-to bring my kids. You promised, Gino. -Yeah.
I said we will work on it together, yes.
That's why, please hire a lawyer, Gino.
-And I'm not... But I'm not gonna use a lawyer. -[Jasmine] I cannot...
take that risk.
-No. -Look at what we just--
I don't have money for a lawyer.
[dramatic music playing]
Do you need a shirt like this?
-Yeah? -[laughs]
-Shut up. What are you doing? -[Nicole laughs]
I definitely took my country for granted
before I moved to Egypt.
Anything goes here. Just hoping that eventually,
he'll feel comfortable here.
I'm not like that. I'm from Egypt, honey.
[laughs]
Welcome to Cameroon.
Driving over here, man, it's crazy.
I can't even watch this.
Like, we're not even in a lane.
-[horn honks] -[gasps]
Oh, my gosh.
[singer] ♪ I'll run with you
♪ To the space
♪ Where no one goes
Mahmoud, I brought the donuts.
-Okay, sweetie. -Are you hungry?
Yeah.
[singer] ♪ Let's get lost In each other ♪
♪ Let's get under the cover
What kind do you want?
-What's this? -That one's coconut.
-Then I'll go with this one. -Okay.
This is our first morning together, and last night,
Mahmoud did not sleep in his new pajamas.
In fact, he didn't really wear anything to bed.
Even though Mahmoud was tired and grumpy
from the flight,
the night ended well, so.
[laughing]
-It's good? -Mmm-hmm.
So sweet.
You wanna try this one?
-Yeah. -I mean, I think the sweetest
will be those, but...
-It seems so crazy. -[chuckles]
[Nicole] How are you feeling this morning?
I'm feeling much better than yesterday.
-[Nicole] Yeah. You seem like it. -Yeah.
So I think today we're gonna go to Santa Monica Pier.
I think you're gonna love it.
Okay. That sounds good.
[Nicole] Yeah.
[Mahmoud speaking]
-Oh, yeah. Yeah, you should. -Yeah.
You ready?
[upbeat music playing]
[Nicole] You wanna go in here?
This is a little beach shop.
[Mahmoud] Okay.
-Do you want one? -No.
You're [indistinct]
Do you need a shirt like this?
-Yeah? -[laughs]
[Nicole] It even has the back, too.
Shut up. What are you doing?
[Nicole] I definitely took my country for granted
before I moved to Egypt.
I just love it, like, I just love everything about it
because anything goes here.
I would love to see Mahmoud in a bikini shirt.
He could wear that to bed, I should've went
and got that for his pajamas.
[laughs]
-Try this one? -No way.
-Why? -I'm not like that.
I'm from Egypt, honey.
[laughs]
-I love you. -I love you.
So what do you think, Mahmoud?
-I know it is. I know it is. -Yeah.
And I do appreciate
that you moved away
from everything you know and love to be with me.
I totally understand. I did this before and it was...
It was hard on me but for different reasons.
So if there's anything that I can do
to make your experience better or your life better,
let me know.
Okay, sweetie.
-Okay? -Yeah.
I understand that Mahmoud is missing his family,
and I totally understand that.
But I want him to be as excited as I am.
I've been dreaming of a life here with him in LA.
Just hoping that eventually, he'll feel comfortable here.
[dramatic music playing]
[traditional music playing]
Do they know we're coming in traditional outfits, babe?
No. They do not know that.
It'd be a big surprise.
Should we dress your dad up in American clothes
since we're dressed in Cameroonian clothes?
[Emily] So you're like, "Hell no."
[traditional music playing]
Oh, my gosh.
I can't even watch this.
Like, we're not even in a lane.
Driving over here, man, nah.
-It's crazy. -It's crazy, I tell you.
[Emily] Today, we are traveling to Buea
to meet Kobe's family.
And we are very excited,
we are dressed in our traditional clothing
because this first meeting is very important
and I do wanna make a good first impression.
I just hope it is enough for all of us
to feel like a family.
I hope we do everything right,
I hope, you know, I hope it all goes well.
[Lisa] Oh. Here's a motorcycle with four people on it.
[Kobe] Yeah.
[David] They'd see a White guy.
[laughing]
I'm not sure if that's what he said,
but it didn't say all good.
"Look at those crazy Americans."
[Kobe laughs]
[David] Okay. I'm just gonna make one basic observation.
-[Kobe] Yeah? -[David] I have not seen one White person.
-[laughing] -I have not seen one.
[Kobe] Welcome to Cameroon.
[David] Yeah.
[Emily] Okay. We are out of traffic.
-We're going under the bridge. -Yay!
Thank, gosh.
[Kobe] This is a checkpoint.
This is where the request
for a passport and stuff like that,
but now they're not stopping us.
[David speaking]
[Kobe] They would... They just predict like,
"Okay, let's stop this car, let's stop that car."
The country is not really stable right now
because of the war.
[David speaking]
[Kobe] We're good on gas.
-We are good on gas. -[Emily speaking]
[Lisa speaking]
Yeah. People can be hiding over there.
[Lisa] Like to what? To rob you, shoot you?
[Kobe] Yeah, to rob you, to maybe steal your car.
[Lisa] Like, that, like, makes me nervous.
Like, how safe are we?
[Emily speaking]
I know Cameroon is not as,
you know, as safe or as perfect
as, you know, they would want it to be,
but man,
Emily and her parents are a little freaked out,
and that might not translate well
if they act this way around my family
because my family is really proud
of our Cameroonian culture.
[Emily speaking]
[Kobe] Honey, when we get there, you'll see.
Just a simple bungalow.
I don't know if I'm ready for this.
I'm trying my best to make sure
that this meeting goes well,
but it's a two-way street.
Buea is right up there.
Now we're here.
-[Lisa] Oh, my goodness. -[Emily] We're here!
[Lisa] Is this your all family in blue?
-[Kobe] Yeah. -[Lisa] Ah!
I honestly feel like there's some blockages in his throat.
What do you think we can do to open up this chakra?
[in Spanish]
Manuel and I are struggling with communication,
so I'm enlisting
some otherworldly witchy help today.
[in Spanish]
[rock music playing]
[singer] ♪ Well, the devil
♪ Got a hold on me
♪ She got me worried
♪ Won't let me be
♪ Because she's evil
♪ Evil...
[Manuel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
Manuel and I are struggling with communication
because Manuel has been secretive
about his family and kids.
And our fight at the motorcycle shop
is a great example
of our lack of communication and disconnect.
So I'm enlisting
some otherworldly witchy help today.
-I love this store. -[Clementina] Thank you.
What brings you in?
[in Spanish]
But he is getting used to the whole thing.
He's getting used to it.
Manuel and I don't just come from different worlds,
we come from different spiritual planes.
[in Spanish]
I honestly feel like there's some blockages in his throat.
[in Spanish]
[laughs]
I'm not just like English, Spanish, Spanish, English,
but in general around communication.
I think there's some blockages there.
I think Manuel keeps information from me
-on purpose. -[Clementina] Hmm.
[in Spanish]
-[Ashley in Spanish] -[Manuel in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
Little does he know, it was my witch powers
that got him here.
We had some hiccups in that... In that K-1 visa.
I had to do some ritual work.
The day after I did some ritual work,
we heard back from those people.
The day after.
-Mmm-hmm. -Yeah.
[in Spanish]
[Clementina in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Clementina in Spanish]
-Yeah. -[Clementina] Obatala,
it's one of the seven African powers
-so it can clear his mind. -[Ashley] Okay.
And this one to open up the roads.
-Okay. -So you just put the contents in,
add it in a bath.
[in Spanish]
-Okay. -[Ashley] Oh, he said okay.
Yes. This is... This is great.
Okay. So I'm just gonna put these here.
[Ashley] Awesome.
So I want you to understand why we're here...
[in Spanish]
There are certain parts of your life
that you keep me separate from.
[in Spanish]
Okay.
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] Thank you so much.
[in Spanish]
[suspenseful music playing]
[Sophie speaking]
[Rob speaking]
Yes. He's coming
and I want you to meet him.
I really don't know much about this guy.
The fact that he's gonna fly
all the way across the ocean to see her
and I don't [bleep] like it.
I wouldn't fly across the ocean
to go see my best guy friend.
-[Nicole] You like that? -[Mahmoud] Hmm?
[Nicole] The girl in purple.
[Nicole speaking]
It makes me feel like I'm not good enough.
Maybe I'm not Muslim enough for him.
What?
[singer] ♪ It's a good day
♪ To wear your heart On your sleeve ♪
♪ Oh, it's a good day To show yourself ♪
♪ It's a good day To get back in the ring ♪
[Rob] This is the pink she's gonna want the most.
[singer] ♪ Wake up And do the right thing ♪
♪ Get on the right track, Spend a good time... ♪
So it's been a couple days since I've seen Sophie
and I'm trying to switch things up a bit this time.
I'll admit that I've been lacking a little bit
when it comes to romance,
she's dying to get me to do soft,
sweet things.
So tonight I'm not gonna...
I'm not gonna give Sophia a chore list.
We're gonna go on a date, learn a two-step,
and hopefully, it wins her over a little bit.
Hello.
Hey.
-You look so nice. -You look really nice.
Yeah, I got you a rose.
-Oh, thank you. -Trying to pick the right pink.
I appreciate it.
-I like the outfit. -Thanks. I like yours too.
Come and sit down for a second.
Okay.
Last time you came by,
I kind of think I ruined it a little bit
-with the list of things. -Yes.
So I have something else I wanted to read to you.
This time I'm gonna read it.
It's a poem and I'm not a poet,
so it's probably gonna be pretty corny.
I still just try to come up with something nice.
Okay.
You deserve love every single day
in every little and big way.
So here's my vow that I'll keep too,
I'll do my part in loving you.
Let me give you the love you deserve,
let me in and let love preserve.
Together, we'll make a lifetime of memories
and build this road to endless possibilities.
Oh, that was really nice.
Thank you.
That was very sweet.
You're welcome.
Did you write that yourself?
-I came up with it myself. -No one helped you?
-Nobody helped me. -You're like a poet.
-I'm not a poet. -That was really nice.
I liked your monotone reading it.
How was I supposed to read it?
"You are the love of my life.
Thank you for..." Or whatever you put.
-I tried. All right? -"You deserve..."
No, I'm joking. It was really good.
I kind of didn't have high expectations for it,
but I was really surprised
when I found out it was like a love poem.
It's just really sweet
and he's never done anything like this
for me before.
It's an amazing step
and if it continues like this, I will move home
and then we can start to do more things
like this as a couple.
[upbeat music playing]
[Sophie] This bar's very different from what I'm used to.
Like, I see everyone's
like actually wearing cowboy hats and cowboy boots.
When I lived in England,
I would see people wear it for Halloween.
I didn't know that was actually just like close
for people that lived in Texas.
I never thought that I would be embracing
the country style like this,
but I'm from the country
and I like horseback riding.
Yee-haw! [laughs]
Those of you here for a dance lesson,
-come on up. -That's us.
[Wyatt] And make a little horse shoe right here.
Welcome to the little Longhorn Saloon.
My name is Wyatt.
So all the two-steps are lead follow.
We're gonna separate you all
into leaders and follows.
-You're the leader and I follow. -You the leader.
All right. You got to go over there.
-So you're here. -Okay.
And you come on this side.
So if I'm doing this rhythm slow, slow, quick, quick,
it looks like this.
Slow, slow,
quick, quick, stop.
[Sophie] Rob is a really good dancer.
Like, you know, he's very talented.
[Rob] Yeah. I let the music move me.
It's like...
[chuckles]
All right, here we go.
One, two, one, two, three, four.
Slow, slow.
Now, quick... Yeah. Okay.
Slow, slow.
-All right. Hold on. -Okay, okay. Stop.
I'm not, like, much of a dancer
so, I felt kind of ridiculous.
But even though obviously this feels a bit goofy,
I feel like it's nice for us to have fun together.
You love me?
-Yes. -I love you too.
-That's nice. -That's good. That's good.
-Okay. Let's just calm down. -Yeah. I know.
I'm, like, here. I'm, like, waiting for the music to stop.
It's such a easy thing and we are, like, stressed.
I'm, like, depressed right now.
-I can't do. -All right. Hold on. One more time.
Okay.
[upbeat music playing]
Slow, quick, quick, slow, slow.
-Hello? -[laughs]
-What was it? Rounding down. -Okay. Hello?
Rounding down.
[Sophie] So I'm just having an amazing time with Rob.
A lot of my, like, friends and family don't like Rob
because they don't see, like, his goofy,
like, fun side that I see.
Like, I don't know. I just hope
that, like, Rob can keep the same energy he had today.
We can have, like, more good days than bad.
-You ready? -All right. You do it.
-I don't wanna do it. -Slow... I can't do it alone.
I mean if you're gonna ruin my mood.
I'm not gonna ruin your mood.
But, yeah...
um, stop doing that. You're cutting me off.
Stop it. Robert, stop.
-Sorry. -I'm trying to talk to you.
I'm listening.
-What you gonna say? -No.
[Sophie] Yes. Callum is coming.
-Coming where? -To meet us.
-When? -Tomorrow.
And I want you to meet him.
[Sophie] Callum is my longest friend.
I've known him since I was about, like, 14 years old.
He does travel a lot.
And recently, he told me he's planning a trip to the US
and so I told him that he should come
to Austin to visit me.
Are you stepping with me or am I stepping myself?
No, you're stepping by yourself right now.
Since I've been living at Kay's house,
I haven't told Rob about Callum coming to visit me
just because we've had so much other drama
that I just haven't found the right time to tell Rob.
But I know it's something
that I shouldn't really hide from him.
How exactly am I meeting this guy?
We'll probably just go to, like, the pool
and I'll bring my friends.
So it's not just, like, me, you, and Callum.
I don't sound... It doesn't sound like
I have much of a choice.
I value my friends obviously,
and they're part of my life.
So, obviously, I want you to make an effort with them.
I'm a nice guy.
-Debatable. -To who?
Find me one person who thinks I'm not a nice guy.
-Me. -Besides you.
My mom, my friends, everyone that I know.
It's just 'cause you tell that I'm not a nice guy.
No. Well, Callum's gonna meet you
and he can decide for himself.
-Yeah? -Sure.
Thank you. I appreciate you.
I really don't know much about this guy.
The fact that he's gonna fly
all the way across the ocean to see her,
it doesn't make me feel very good at all.
I don't even think I'd...
I wouldn't fly across the ocean
to go see my best guy friend.
It's not necessarily flying across the ocean to see me.
He was coming to America anyway.
What does this guy look like?
[Sophie] He's a British guy.
I mean he has brown hair.
[chuckles]
Is he ugly?
[Sophie] He's not ugly.
You are my type. Callum doesn't look like you.
If this dude doesn't look like a [bleep] like Gollum,
then I don't [bleep] like it.
Okay. Well, he's coming to visit anyway,
so it's a good opportunity for you to show
that you are able to fit into my life
and be okay with the people that are important to me.
My dad is saying that he thinks
that this is the best moment
to do a traditional marriage.
We're gonna get married? Again?
Because we didn't get married
in a traditional way in Cameroon,
my dad doesn't fully look at you as my wife.
[traditional music playing]
[singing foreign language]
[Emily] Are we gonna make it up here?
[Kobe] No, we're here.
[woman] Oh!
[kid speaking]
[Emily] Yeah, they do match you.
-Wait. Don't-- -[Kobe] So with daddy, okay?
[Emily] Oh.
-[Kobe speaking] -I know.
Are you excited, Baba?
Whoa.
[traditional music playing]
-[Emily] Hello, everyone. -[Kobe speaking]
[Emily] Look, he's out there, come and look.
You should give him a hug.
-Come on. -[Kobe laughs]
Tonight, we are meeting Kobe's family
and I'm a little bit stressed
because I think if Kobe's family doesn't accept me,
it's going to just be
in Kobe's head from then on out
that, like, my family doesn't accept this relationship.
I mean, if my family didn't want me to be with Kobe,
I don't know how I could live with that
because my family's such an important part of my life.
It's such a exciting moment,
but also a nerve-wracking one at the same time.
There you go.
[Isadore speaking foreign language]
[Kobe in foreign language]
-[Antoinette] Yeah, welcome. -Hello. Thank you.
Hello. It's so nice to meet you.
-Hello. -Good to see you.
[indistinct]
[Kobe] Tonight at my dad's house,
there were just so many people here.
The relatives, my siblings, and relatives' kids,
so there's just so many people.
[laughing]
[woman] Yay!
It's so nice to meet you.
Hello.
[Kobe] I have 10 siblings.
It's been a while
since we all unite at my dad's house
under the same roof.
It's a blessing.
[singing foreign language]
Oh, thank you.
[singing foreign language]
[Emily] Whoo!
[singing foreign language]
[Emily] Whoo!
[cheers and applause]
All right, guys, let's go in and see what is happening.
[Emily] Okay. Let's go see.
-[Kobe] Yup. -[Emily] I'm excited.
[Kobe] Oh, okay.
[Isadore chanting foreign language]
[Emily] Oh, look at your grandma.
[Kobe] That's your... That's your grandma.
Okay.
[David speaking foreign language]
He's giving this for so much joy in his heart,
-with so much love. -[David] Aw.
[Isadore speaking foreign language]
[Kobe] He's very, very happy.
Me too.
[Kobe] So that's like a peace plan.
You guys are welcome.
[in foreign language]
He's giving this in honor of his dad.
[sobbing]
You're okay.
-It's okay. -I mean, I never thought of a day like this,
like it was gonna happen,
but I'm so happy.
It's overwhelming.
Yeah. It's a big honor for us.
Thank you. We're very, very happy.
[Isadore speaking foreign language]
Thank you for taking my son like your son.
[in foreign language]
He never knew that I could get a wife.
[laughing]
[Isadore in foreign language]
[Isadore speaking foreign language]
[Kobe] Bon appetit, enjoy your meal.
-Thank you. -[Emily] Bon appetit.
You know, I'm so happy that the kids, and I,
and my parents are here
to come finally meet you, guys.
[in foreign language]
He said, like, he's prayed
that he never knew you guys were gonna be here,
but God has made it possible.
So, he thinks that this is the best moment
to do a traditional marriage.
He wants us to honor tradition.
[clears throat] We're gonna get married?
Again?
[in foreign language]
That is a blessing that comes from the ancestors.
[Isadore speaking foreign language]
So, the only thing
that can separate you guys can be death.
How long does it take to plan a tradition...
We don't have... We're not here for...
-[Kobe] I know. -a very long time.
[Emily] And, like, do I need to plan?
Like, do I do anything or no?
So, we still have to sit and fix a date.
So when?
I know we don't have enough time,
but we'll try as much as we can
just to make sure the event takes place.
-Okay. -[Kobe] Yeah.
Because we didn't get married
in a traditional way in Cameroon,
my dad doesn't fully,
you know, look at you as my wife.
It is just so wild.
We've been together for so long.
We have kids.
Like, obviously, we're... I mean, we're married,
but I feel like this is such a surprise.
I mean, that's exciting. I was...
I didn't know we were coming here for a wedding.
I would like to talk to Ed before the wedding day.
I just like when you guys talk.
I don't want... I don't...
I don't want you to be like too straightforward
because I give that to him enough.
Ed has to show my mom that he's changed
because I fought so hard to be here, to be with Ed.
[in Spanish]
We're doing the ritual bath today
because we need to work on Manuel's communication.
-Woo. -Oh. [bleep].
[Manuel speaking]
[in Spanish]
[dramatic music playing]
[singer] ♪ It's true love
Yeah.
[singer] ♪ It's true love
[woman] Hello. Welcome to Violet.
You must be our bride?
-I am. I'm Liz. -[woman] Nice to meet you.
Today I have my daughter,
my mom, and my grandmother all together.
And I'm gonna take all the ladies
wedding dress shopping
and I am just so excited
to be Mrs. Big Ed.
So I don't want anything too flashy,
um, not ball gown but...
So that's yes.
Okay.
Ed and I have a modest budget for the wedding,
so it is not my intention to buy anything right away.
I'm a very, very, very stingy shopper.
So I just wanna try things on,
get some ideas.
I don't have to buy anything today.
I can always get something later,
but I am less than two months away right now.
[woman] This is one of my favorites.
That's a bohemian dress.
-[Liz] Yes. -This one.
That's where the style... Yeah, that's...
[woman] The style that you're wanting?
-Yes. -[woman] Okay. Perfect.
My family's wary of me marrying Ed
and my mom is not a big fan of Ed,
especially since the engagement party.
I mean, she doesn't like the way
Ed's treated me in the past.
So I need my family to be able to see
what I see in Ed,
why he does make me happy.
I'm gonna go try this on.
-Okay. -Okay.
See you guys in a minute then.
[woman] All right. Are we ready?
-[Patty] We're ready. -[woman] Okay.
Are you excited?
Yeah, sorta, making her happy.
-I know. -As long as they communicate,
no matter how loud or how low,
as long as they communicate.
I'm still on the fence.
I am still on the fence.
Our priority for her is her happiness.
I see things that maybe for me
I would've never put up with.
He's not listening. He comes in and talks to me.
He asks me how I feel. He immediately shuts me down.
He never lets me speak.
[Patty speaking]
My daughter, she doesn't put up with a lot,
but she puts up with a lot from him
because she's more willing to give a chance than I am.
But she needs to be happy, she deserves to be happy.
[woman] All right. Are you guys ready?
-Always. -Yes.
Oh, wow.
[Lavina] Oh, my God.
I'm really shocked that I actually like this one.
-[Lavina] Oh, my God. -[Patty] It looks beautiful on you.
[Lavina] Look at that.
Oh, my.
That is amazing.
-Thank you. -[indistinct]
Thank you.
You're welcome.
-Thank you. -Thank you.
Thank you for driving 16 hours again.
-[laughter] -My pleasure.
I'm gonna drink to that because I'm shocked
that this wedding's actually happening.
[Patty] So are we.
I would like to talk to Ed before the wedding day,
just so that the uncomfortableness
that's between us goes away.
But I don't wanna go backwards,
I just wanna move forward 'cause...
I know. And I...
That's all I want is for you guys to move forward.
So if we could clear the air
so that he can just relax a little bit.
So maybe I need to, uh...
I just like when you guys talk,
I don't want you... I don't...
I don't want you to be like too straightforward
'cause I give that to him enough.
Everything's gonna be okay, baby.
Yeah, let's put this down so we don't spill that.
I just... I'm hard enough on him enough
and so is everybody else, and I just...
I don't want you to be hard on him.
-I'm not gonna be hard. -Even though he knows that he's...
He knows he's given you a reason to be upset.
-I just... -[Patty] But he doesn't know
that I know the good things that he does too.
I mean, I know what he's done.
Ed has a tendency to self-sabotage our relationship,
especially when things are going well,
but I know Ed has changed.
We are better at communication and listening.
And even though I can see it and I can feel it,
I'm just really hoping that with them being here,
they can see how much Ed and I have improved.
[gasps] Oh, yes.
[Patty] Oh, that's cute.
[Lavina] It looks really pretty on you.
[Liz] I think this is more of my style.
-[Lavina] How do you feel? -Huh?
I feel like this is exactly the style
that I was imagining.
I mean, the other one was pretty,
but this one's nicer.
This one fits you better.
Okay. So I have this veil.
This kind of matches the beading
that's on the straps.
I like the straps.
-Grandma? -[Lavina] Yes.
-It's you. -[Liz] Mmm-hmm.
-Mom? -It is you all the way.
Ryry?
[laughter]
Okay. Are you saying yes to the dress?
I need to see the price first.
-[laughter] -[woman] Okay.
[woman speaking]
-[Ryleigh] Mommy? -[Liz] Yes.
[laughter]
Um, this dress is about a grand.
It just is way more than what I ever imagined spending.
But this is it and this is the dress.
And I just, I love it,
because even though I have been married,
I've never had this experience,
like I fought so hard to be here,
to be with Ed, so I'm excited
but I'm anxious because tomorrow
is the 4th of July party
and Ed has to show my mom that he's changed.
It's extremely important.
Um, they're about to be his family,
his family's about to be my family,
so this is a huge deal.
[upbeat music playing]
I'm gonna speak a lot of English today, okay?
But if you have any questions or if you're lost,
just raise your hand and then we'll try to slow it down.
[man] All right.
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Guillermo] Okay.
[singer] ♪ We can do it over here We can do it ♪
♪ Got the whole squad living Like a movie just... ♪
[Guillermo] What are things that we eat at a cafe?
-What food? -[Manuel] Food.
-[Guillermo] Food. -[woman] Bagel.
[Guillermo] Bagels.
Okay.
Uh, rice?
-[Guillermo] Rice? -[in Spanish]
Uh, here in the US you may not find that.
I think you'll find it more in a restaurant.
Oh, yeah.
[in Spanish]
Manuel, have you been at a restaurant here in the US
where you've done the ordering?
[in Spanish]
So let's say you want to order...
[speaking Spanish]
Can you say that in English?
Chicken rice?
Learn to say the whole thing.
Can I please have the...?
Chicken con rice?
Say it in the sentence that we have in front of here.
Let's try it again.
[in Spanish]
Coffee, rice, chicken.
Thank you, thank you so much.
[in Spanish]
Okay. Let's move on.
[harmonious music playing]
[Ashley in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
Okay. [in Spanish]
[Ashley] Now, we have to crush up this...
[in Spanish]
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Okay.
[in Spanish]
We're doing the ritual bath today
because we need to work on Manuel's communication.
And I do a lot of spellwork under a walnut tree
because black walnut kills everything around it.
And so I want that tree to just suck up
any energy that we no longer want.
-[in Spanish] -Yeah...
[in Spanish]
Oh, [bleep].
[Manuel speaking]
[in Spanish]
-Getting weird. -Weird.
-Yeah. Get weird. -Mmm-hmm.
He picks up quick, huh?
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Ashley] No, this is good.
The tree is a protector.
There's a whole raccoon family in there.
It's not a bad omen and witches are known to work
with the earth, so literally, did I call them here?
Okay.
Okay. [in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
But I've been simmering on some of the things you've said
since the Lilac Fest.
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
I'm left in the dark,
so how am I supposed to create this relationship?
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
It really is upsetting that Manuel
never told his family that I'm a witch.
It's like he wants me to lie to his family
about who I am and I find it a little insulting
because it is a huge part of my identity.
[in Spanish]
Yeah, but this is kind of what I'm talking about
with the secretive stuff.
This is Manuel's thing,
you know, leaving out details.
[in Spanish]
[tense music playing]
Like, we did not know
we were coming here for a wedding.
[Kobe] Yeah. You have to get married
the right way, you know, the ancient ways.
I am so happy that we're in Cameroon
with Kobe and to meet his family
but I do think that this wedding
is like the ultimate test for them to accept me.
You barely smiled today at all.
You like that? The girl in purple.
My husband is stopping dead in his tracks
to stare at this woman.
That makes me feel like I'm not Muslim enough for him.
[soft percussive music playing]
-Did you have so much fun with your cousins? -Yeah.
You were playing the whole time.
Are you tired from playing all night
or did you get some good sleep?
[boy speaking]
-You did? -Yeah.
-Whoa. -Coffee delivery.
[David] Bonjour, bonjour.
[Emily] Much needed.
-[Kobe] Wow. -[Emily] Thank you.
Well, it was so exciting to meet your family last night.
-[David] Yeah, it's cool. -It was so fun.
-[Emily] I know. It was so cool. -[David] Your dad...
Your dad was so, so emotional. Or he wasn't...
Showed that emotion but he had a really good...
-[Kobe] Yeah. -[Lisa] Well, Kobe was emotional.
-[Emily] I know. -Yeah.
-The thing is that-- -[Lisa] But Kobe doesn't cry.
-[Kobe laughs] -Remember?
[David] I've heard that before.
[Emily] My husband cries more than me.
[laughs]
[Lisa] Let's talk about this wedding.
[Emily] Yeah, let's...
-What dress am I gonna wear? -Like, we did not know
we were coming here for a wedding.
-[Kobe] Yeah. -[David] Yeah. Let's...
-So... -[David] What happened there?
My dad, he was telling me based on culture,
you have to get married the right way,
you know, the ancient ways.
It's like getting blessings from our ancestors,
the people who came before him.
I am so happy that we're in Cameroon
with Kobe and to meet his family
but I do think that this wedding
is like the ultimate test for them to accept me,
because it just like basically seals the deal,
um, being married in Cameroon doing it the traditional way.
And I'm worried
because just planning our wedding in America
took so much time and effort and energy
that I don't know how I'm gonna pull it off
in another country
and I only have two weeks to do it.
So what happens on the wedding day?
-Yeah. -[Emily] Step by step, babe.
-Let's go. All right. -Okay.
So the day before the traditional wedding,
we will come here with my parents.
-[David] What? -Like knock door.
And we'll tell you that, "Okay,
um, we're interested in your daughter."
-[David] Okay. -But we kind of know
-that you're married and have children. -[Kobe] Exactly.
But now this is like the traditional way.
-[David] Okay. -[Lisa] Okay.
[Kobe] That goes on. We'll bring like a drink.
And then you guys will prepare like foods.
So we have to prepare food?
Prepare food for us.
What if we make traditional American food?
-I don't think your dad would like that. -[David] No.
It's like you guys have accepted the culture,
so traditional dishes will be,
you know, well appreciated everywhere.
So this visit is to introduce ourselves
that we're coming to get married to your daughter
and then you tell us your demand.
You have to make a list of what you want, right, babe?
What do you need from us
in order to get married to your daughter?
[Lisa] Yeah.
[Kobe speaking]
And also it's negotiable.
Oh, I love making lists.
[chuckles] Her family is the one making the lists,
like, she's not the one.
She has nothing to say about that.
[Emily] I'm gonna have everything on that list.
I wonder how much it would be to ship a goat to America.
It takes a lot to ship, you know, animals across.
Well, I think too.
Did you ever think we were gonna get a dowry
-for one of our daughters? -[Lisa] No.
-[laughter] -I mean...
Yeah, how much do you think I'm worth?
I mean, how... What's my... What's the dowry for me?
[David] Well, more than one plantain.
-[Kobe laughs] -What?
[David] We should be giving them money.
Here. Take her.
[Lisa] Kobe just keeps saying it's tradition, it's tradition.
And I get that.
I understand they've been doing this
for hundreds or years.
But I definitely have questions
about this whole knock door situation.
It feels to me like I am giving them my daughter
in trade for goods.
Nothing about that feels right to me.
On the wedding day,
are all your brothers and sisters there
like all the people that were there last night or--
[Kobe] Yeah. I think on the wedding day,
-a lot of the people... All my friends... -[David] Yeah.
there gonna be a lot of people.
Are we gonna know how many people?
Uh, we can just work on 100 people.
-So do we... A hundred people? -A hundred people?
[laughs]
There wasn't 100 people at your first wedding.
Oh, my God, this sounds like it's gonna be wild.
I do love that I'm getting a glimpse into Kobe's world
but I didn't realize how there is much more to do
in a traditional wedding,
because, like, I don't know how to be a Cameroonian wife.
Also, like, I don't know how to cook
any of his traditional food.
So, like, I don't know how I'm gonna do it.
But it's really important for me to show Kobe's family
that I want to be a part of their culture.
So I'm willing to try and prove myself
for our relationship.
[Kobe] Gonna be fun. It's a fun thing.
[upbeat music playing]
Come on. Let's go.
[Mahmoud] Okay. Let's do it.
[singer] ♪ Look me in the eyes
♪ When you cry for my...
-[Mahmoud speaking] -Huh?
These are seagulls.
-Seagulls? -Seagulls.
Me and Mahmoud are visiting the Santa Monica Pier,
and he's tired and homesick
but, you know, I just want him
to just have a little fun today.
Honey, what's wrong?
[Mahmoud] I'm just told you, honey.
I'm just, like, missing my family.
Just it. But just...
There's nothing wrong, okay?
-[Nicole] I need you to talk to me. -[Mahmoud] Yeah.
If it were... If it were to get better,
maybe I can help you, please?
[Mahmoud speaking]
Okay?
[Nicole] So you barely smiled today at all,
-so, like... And I just don't wanna be, -I am smiling.
you know, this to be an experience
where we just are unhappy
-and sad and miserable... -No, I'm happy.
I'm happy... So happy I'm here now with you.
[Nicole] Mmm-hmm.
-You like that? -[Mahmoud] Hmm?
[Nicole] The girl in purple.
[Mahmoud speaking]
[Nicole] You know what I saw.
[indistinct chatter]
[Nicole speaking]
[Mahmoud speaking]
[Nicole] I saw what happened.
Ugh.
[Mahmoud speaking]
I've been married to the man for so long,
I know when he gets excited,
and my husband is stopping dead in his tracks
to stare at this woman.
It definitely triggered some insecurities.
It makes me feel like I'm not good enough,
like, maybe I'm not Muslim enough for him.
After that little incident, Mahmoud...
What?
[tense music playing]
If you wanna be a little womanizer,
you can go back to [bleep] Egypt.
-Yeah. -Okay. If... I will. I'm done.
-I'm not gonna hang out. Okay. -Okay. Okay. Good. Good.
[dramatic music playing]
[Mahmoud] I'm done.
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Do you understand how different
your list of priorities is from mine?
You're [bleep] screwed up in your [bleep] dumb head.
Wow. Wow. What an ass.
No, you're the ass.
I wish I have never met you.
I wanna go back to Panama.
[sobs]
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[sobs]
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Yeah. So because of the wedding
and how costly it was,
I can't afford a lawyer.
Of course I want her kids here
just as much as she does.
But I can't afford
an immigration lawyer right now.
I feel bad about my mistake
but she's putting all the blame on me.
Really, both of us are responsible.
We made a mistake and it... And it cost us,
and we have to, like, do the best we can
to try to fix it.
So I'm gonna do that myself
and get them here as soon as we can.
I...
When it comes to have my kids here with me,
Gino, like, money means nothing.
No. No, I'm not...
-No. I'm gonna do it. -[Jasmine] I can't believe this from you, Gino.
-[Gino] I'm gonna do it. -What kind of...
What kind of evil person you are.
No, I'm not evil. I'm not evil at all.
-Do you love me? -I've been busting my ass
to get you to this country
and I get no [bleep] appreciation for what I've done.
-[Jasmine] So what do you want me... -That pisses me off.
[Jasmine speaking]
No, but all I get is a lot of bull[bleep],
-uh, negative feedback... -[Jasmine] Is it... Do...
-for something that I busted my ass for. -[Jasmine] Gino. Gino. Gino.
So this is bull[bleep] to you? Me crying over my kids
because I'm not gonna see them in two [bleep] years?
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I'm begging you. I'm begging you.
[Gino] Yeah, and I'm telling you,
-I don't have-- -I'm begging you.
-And I'm telling you
I don't have five [bleep] thousand dollars
to pay for a lawyer.
I'm going to do it myself.
Do you understand how different
your list of priorities is from mine?
We are not on the same page.
And I don't know if our marriage
can survive that, Gino.
You are absolutely not ready to be a father.
-You don't give a [bleep] about me. -[Gino] Oh, bull[bleep].
-[Jasmine] All you care is about you... -How I--
[Jasmine] and you being okay. And you--
You're [bleep] screwed up in your [bleep] dumb head.
Wow. Wow. What an ass.
No, you're the ass.
I wish I have never met you.
You ruined my [bleep] life.
I wanna get divorced with you.
-I don't wanna be married to you... -Yeah.
and I'm going [bleep] back to Panama.
And you're so... You will never make me happy.
-Yeah. -I'm not a [bleep] priority in your life.
[sobs] I want my kids.
[sniffles] I wanna be with them.
[Gino] You're putting all of this
on my shoulders and blaming me.
You just as much as me
to get your kids over to United States.
-I'm blaming myself. I know. -You should've been just as involved...
-[Jasmine] I'm blaming myself. -with bringing your kids to the United States as me.
Yes, yes, I'm blaming myself.
It's my fault. It's my fault.
[sobbing]
I should have never come without them.
It's my fault. I know that.
I know it is my fault.
That's why I feel so mad.
[Gino] I can totally understand Jasmine being upset
because I know she wants her kids here.
I'm gonna do everything in my power
to bring them here.
But for her to say I'm not cut out to be a father
because I wanna do this myself
and I don't have $5,000 to give to a lawyer right now,
I have a problem with that.
And it's not fair.
That's bull[bleep].
[sobbing]
I have never seen this side of Gino, you know.
I wanna go back to Panama.
Gino's not a good husband to me
and he's not gonna be a good dad.
I don't wanna have kids with him anymore.
I should have never dragged my kids into this.
Never.
[sobs]
[woman] Next time on90 Day Fiance:
Happily Ever After.
[Ashley] Wow.
Okay. [in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
-[Ashley in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[priest] The Lord be with you.
The Catholic church is hella foreign to me.
[in Spanish]
[man speaking]
Yeah, she always wanna take the lead.
My friends don't understand that I'm not living in Africa,
I'm living in America where the culture is different.
[dramatic music playing]
-[Sophie] Hello. [laughs] -Hello, gorgeous.
[Rob] Oh, hell, no...
[Rob speaking]
She lied to me.
[Sophie] This is Rob.
[Callum speaking]
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This one.
I hope she didn't come here just to yell at me
because our relationship
doesn't work when the family is not supporting us.
You seem to be a little bit tense.
I do?
Big time.
Where are you?
[Mahmoud speaking]
I can't even imagine if this falls apart in one day.
Tell me where you are.
[Mahmoud] I take a Lyft and I walked,
-just like that, so... -You took a Lyft?
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[Jasmine] Oh, my gosh.
I was so happy that day. So happy.
I feel mad at myself for thinking
that I was gonna have, like, a happy life.
That's not gonna happen.
I need a... I need a moment by myself.
-[sniffles] -Okay.
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