[woman] Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
[in foreign language]
[in English] As a witch, the Catholic Church is hella foreign to me.
[in foreign language]
Ah, si.
[in English] Generally speaking,
I think they're going to judge you.
So you don't want to throw everything.
So do your friends, like, have something against me or what?
They don't trust that in the long term
we'll be happy together.
What?
You know, it's like judging a book by its cover.
They don't know me.
Read the book first.
It's been so long since I've seen you.
I mean, we dated for a short amount of time.
You and her dated?
As soon as Callum says that him and Sophie dated in the past,
my mind just blanks out.
She lied to me.
Hey, Sophie.
My friends are looking forward to meeting you,
and now you don't want to go
all because a little piece of my back is showing?
This is my home. You are so crazy.
[Gino] Look at that.
Like, these pictures are so beautiful.
This day, I was... I was so happy.
I was so hopeful.
I need a...
I need a moment by myself.
[sniffles]
Jasmine, wait up.
[African folk song playing]
Okay. I'm like, I don't even really know what to bring
because it's raining.
I'd just bring everything.
Yeah.
[Lisa] So how was your date night last night?
[Emily] It was okay.
-It was kinda weird. -Yeah?
-It kinda ended weird. -Really?
Kobe and I went out last night
and we got into a little bit of a fight
because his friends told him that, basically,
they don't think I'm right for him.
So today, it's a little bit iffy
because Kobe's going to play handball
with his old professional handball team.
But I'm a little thrown back about going
because now I feel like his friends don't like me
and they don't even know me.
Kobe was expressing to me
that his friends have concerns about our relationship
and being married to me.
I just, I don't know what's gonna happen, because I don't really--
So what are they concerned about exactly?
Um...
Basically that I'm, like, not Cameroonian.
Well, that's not gonna change.
[Emily] No.
I just think, now that I know his friends
have some sort of feeling about me...
-Yeah. -...and feel some sort of way,
it's gonna be a little awkward, you know,
going to hang out with them
'cause I'm, like, are they just gonna put on a front?
Right.
[Emily] I really do hope Kobe's friends and I can work it out
because I really do want them to like me
and they mean a lot to Kobe, and Kobe means a lot to me.
So I'm hoping, after we talk today,
that we'll be able to hash everything out.
Let's go.
Ooh, it's a rainy day.
But at the same time,
I'm not gonna tiptoe around his friends
and, you know, pretend like nothing's wrong.
And we are here.
-[Emily] Yay! -[Lisa] Mm!
[Kobe] You guys ready?
-[David] I'm ready. -[Emily] Yeah.
Yay!
[Kobe chuckles]
[indistinct greetings]
-Yeah! -Hello!
Kobe, Kobe.
Welcome, man.
Yeah, thank you. Thank you. It's good to see you guys.
[Lisa] Hello! Nice to meet you.
[Kobe] Things have been tough
with my friends talking negatively about Emily.
But today is the perfect chance
for her to prove my friends wrong.
So I'm really hoping she'll make the most of it.
[in foreign language]
[in English]
-I told them... -[all cheering]
I just hope... I mean, it's not a competition.
There's no trophies, just like, you know...
-[man] That's what I'm talking about! -Thank you.
-[all cheering] -Okay!
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa!
For me, that you get to see
the people I used to hang out with,
the people I used to play with and how we play the game.
[Emily] I'm excited to be here.
But I mean, I have to be honest,
I am not going to play handball today.
I don't play ball.
But I'm happy that I have a uniform,
and I can wear it and I can cheer on Kobe as he plays.
Oh, my gosh, this is gonna be so fun!
I'm so excited.
My husband looks so good in his uniform.
I think he looks very hot.
With his big arms popping out of his...
Do a little flex.
Wow! Huge.
[indistinct chatter]
[crowd cheering]
I don't know. I'm very uncoordinated.
[player chuckling]
I am not good.
I can yell.
Kobe has to put a knee brace on.
-All right, be careful, babe, of your knees. -Yeah, babe.
-Don't ruin your knees. You're getting old, you know? -I know. [laughs]
You know, wife knows best.
[Kobe speaking]
I mean, I'm really excited to see Kobe play handball.
But also, you just have to be very careful.
I just don't want you to re-injure your knee, babe.
[Kobe] Yeah.
[indistinct chatter]
Are you not playing?
No, I'm gonna watch it with you. We're gonna watch Daddy.
Did you say hi to your grandpa?
Can you tell him, "Hi"?
[Emily chuckles]
[whistle blows]
-[child] Go, Daddy, go! -Whoo-hoo!
[Emily] Oh, he's open, he's open.
-[whistle blows] -[cheering]
There he is! Yay!
I know.
[child] Go, Daddy, go!
[Emily] Whoo-hoo!
[David] Go, Daddy.
Who's your grandpa? You gonna hold his hand?
Aw.
[players shouting]
-Here we go. -[Kobe] Go, go, go!
[grunts]
[David] Uh-oh, uh-oh, uh-oh, uh-oh.
[whistle blows]
[Lisa] That doesn't look good.
[Emily] All right, I'm gonna go check on Kobe.
-[Lisa] Okay. -And let us know if he's okay.
[Emily] Okay.
[indistinct chatter]
[Emily] Babe.
♪ You think you know me well ♪
♪ You've got me figured out ♪
♪ You think you know it all ♪
♪ But you know nothing ♪
[Gino] Jasmine.
Wait up!
Jasmine!
♪ You smile Like you know better ♪
♪ Who do you think you are? ♪
Jasmine!
Wait. Where are you going?
Let's talk.
What's going on here?
Are you okay?
I'm in pain.
...from six months to having our kids here
to two years.
-That's really affected me. -I know.
I'm not happy we have to wait two years.
It sucks.
[sobbing]
I don't want to lose you,
but this is the first time
that I have seriously considered
going back to Panama.
[sobs]
Because I feel like I have no, like, nothing.
Well, I mean, you have me right now.
But I don't feel that you're here with me,
you are here for me.
-I am here for you. -You don't show--
Why don't you... Why don't you think that?
I'm sorry you're feeling like this.
I don't want you to go back to Panama.
[Jasmine sobbing]
I'm sad.
I honestly thought that Jasmine's threats
to go back to Panama and give up on a relationship,
that she was just being melodramatic.
We haven't really even talked about the issues for over a week.
But now that I see how upset she is,
I'm really worried.
I'm really sorry
that all of this happened,
and, um, I feel bad about it.
I wanted your kids to be here, too.
How can I convince you to stay?
Are you willing to start working on it
as soon as possible?
-One. -Yes.
I can start working on the adjustment status,
...you know, ASAP,
and also, you know, the travel documents,
so you're able to travel to Panama
in, like, eight months instead of waiting two years.
That can give me, like, you know, like, the strength
to go through another year.
[Gino] Right.
Then, after that,
I can work on your children's paperwork,
and I can check with the immigration lawyer
to make sure everything's good
and then submit it.
So this time, you are open to...
Um... sure.
Uh, I can do that.
I still don't have $5,000,
but we're gonna have a lawyer look over the paperwork,
uh, once I finish it,
and before we submit it.
[Jasmine] I'm okay with it.
And you know how delicate the situation is.
Yeah.
Oh, yeah. I'm here. Don't worry.
My mic. [chuckles]
What can we do to get back to, you know...
normal again?
I'm really sorry,
and, um, I feel bad about it.
Do you want me to stay?
Yeah, I want you to stay. Of course I want you to stay.
[in foreign language]
[in English] I love you so much, you know?
[Gino] Aw. That's so beautiful.
You have no idea how much I love you.
I love Gino,
and as happy as I am that Gino is listening to me,
and trying to help me feel better...
So I heard you're going to Brazil, Thais.
-You excited? -Yeah.
Oh, my God. So excited.
It might be a good idea to check it out.
-He's saying what? -I'm just saying.
I mean, I guess he wants to go to Brazil.
I don't care if he invite himself.
I just don't want him to come.
I mean, he's a pain in my ass.
I think I have a right to be there.
I'm sorry. What can I do?
You can [bleep] keep it real with me.
-I'm keeping it real with you right now! -I married you!
I can't stand watching them argue.
It just seemed like it was getting a bit heated.
I just wanted to make sure everything's good.
[Patrick] He's up on the platform.
No weightlifter has ever lifted
this much weight before.
If he could get this weight overhead,
there'll be a new record.
He's just recovered from a knee injury, though,
so this could be a disaster.
Well, here he goes!
[straining]
Two more, Aleesi. Let's go.
[coos]
Yeah!
We did it.
[sighs] That was a good workout.
[Thais speaking foreign language]
[in English] What are you doing?
Just working out.
Oh, baby.
♪ Come to life ♪
Aw, poor Aleesi.
She's fine. She's six months now.
She's got to start training.
-Oh, yeah? -Yeah.
I'm Patrick. I'm 33 years old,
and I'm from Las Vegas, Nevada,
and this is my hot wife, Thais.
I'm 26 years old,
and I'm from Montes Claros, Brazil.
We recently moved from Dallas, Texas, to Las Vegas
with our six-month-old, Aleesi.
And, you know, we really like it here.
-I mean, I didn't ruin everything. -You did.
It just makes it harder for me.
What'd the doctor say?
He says my knee looks like it's recovering really good.
-Oh. -And I can do this now.
[groans] It's a big deal.
Oh, yeah, now you can, huh?
[Patrick] I was playing flag football.
There was a play where it felt like
a hammer hit me in my knee,
and so, surgery was the only way to fix it.
That made me so mad.
'Cause, like, you knew that you could get hurt.
[Patrick] I was a competitive weightlifter.
You don't think you're gonna get hurt playing flag football.
But that pass ended up being a touchdown.
But I told you, huh? Remember?
Every Sunday, I was like, "Be careful.
"I don't think it's a good idea."
And I can't believe, like, you got hurt
right before our trip.
It'll be fine.
The worst part of Patrick's knee surgery
is because we have this huge trip to Brazil.
It's the first time we are going to Brazil
after, like, two years since I came here
to get married with my soulmate.
-Aw, I'm your soulmate? -Yeah.
[in foreign language]
Aw.
♪ I'm a girl that's bad ♪
♪ Doing bad things ♪
[Patrick, in English] I'm half-Brazilian.
So, four years ago, I planned a trip to Montes Claros, Brazil,
to visit my dad,
and I met Thais through an app.
[Patrick] And once I saw Thais, like,
I was telling all my friends, too.
I was, like, "I got a ten. I got a ten. I got a ten."
So after our first date,
I immediately asked Thais out on a second date,
and then, you know,
that's when the magic happened.
And after a couple of years, I asked her to marry me.
We got approved from the K-1 visa,
I moved here and we started our 90 days.
[in foreign language]
[Thais laughing]
[Patrick] Mm!
-[Thais, in English] -[Patrick] I love you.
[Thais speaking]
I knew we were going to be, you know, living together,
but I mean, he's a pain in my ass.
Yeah. I mean, John was just kind of a dick.
[John] No. Crazy?
I know crazy.
No, no, no, no, no.
No bueno.
It's coming up, bro? Bachelor party.
We're gonna have, like, 100 hookers.
-[Patrick] There's no... There's no bachelor party. -You don't even know!
Hello.
[Thais] I was listening, okay.
Thais.
-[in foreign language] -[in English] No.
Okay. Okay!
For me, the biggest challenge we had was your dad.
Thais didn't tell her dad
that she was coming to the United States to get married.
He thought she was just here on vacation.
When it came to me asking him for the blessing on our marriage,
that didn't go so well.
[in foreign language]
[in English] Okay.
[in foreign language]
[in English] We just had a big mountain to climb
before we could even walk down the aisle.
But I just had so much belief in our relationship,
and I knew Thais was the only one for me.
I, Patrick, take you, Thais,
to be my wife until the end of time.
I, Thais, come back to you this day and forever.
[officiant] You may kiss the bride.
[all cheering]
[man] Now we celebrate!
After we got married, our lives changed a lot.
I mean, Thais got pregnant the same week we got married.
We moved to Las Vegas, we had a baby,
and John's not living with us anymore.
I feel great not living with John,
especially now with the baby.
Leesi, let's see if you like it.
Let's see.
That's good, huh?
-Broccoli. -[Thais] Hey, you like it?
[Patrick] Oh, look at that! She went for a bite.
Dang, she's all about the broccoli.
But I'm so excited to go back to Brazil and see my family.
So my family can see her for the first time.
She just can't get enough of that.
But I'm still not on a good page with Thais' dad.
So this trip to Brazil,
like one of the most important things I'm gonna do
is talk to Carlos and, you know,
try to have some type of relationship with him.
-It's okay. -Do you burp a baby
after you feed them food like formula?
-Is that what you're supposed to do? -[doorbell ringing]
I think so.
-I do. I... I don't know. -[dog barking]
[Patrick] Who's here? Is John here?
-Oh. -Hey.
[Patrick] Well, John's here.
John's in town for work,
so decided to invite him over
so he could help me put up some baby gates.
-Hi, John. What's up? -[John] Hello!
How's Miss Aleesi?
-[Thais] Hi, John. -Hi!
Hi.
Um, it's been, you know, ups and downs
between the three of us.
Always has.
Let's go, Aleesi, time to bed.
Say bye. Bye, everyone.
[Patrick and Thais, in foreign language]
[in English]
-Right. -One day.
-Yeah.
-Not two days. -I mean...
-You know, a day. You know... -[Patrick laughing]
You know what she was saying.
I know what she was saying.
-But I know what she was thinking. -I'm being nice.
I'm being nice. You know I'm being nice.
[John] I... I know.
-Think we just... -Yeah, just like that.
-[Patrick] Bam. -Got some screws. Call it a day.
-[John] You know... -I'm back.
-We're doing good. We're doing good. -Yeah?
So, uh, I'm engaged.
Yay!
Happily engaged.
We had our doubts.
-[John] Yeah. -Still do, a little bit.
Stepdad John. That's... That's gonna be tough.
I'm pretty good. I'm pretty good, man.
So I heard you're going to Brazil, Thais.
-You excited? -[Thais] Yeah.
Oh, my God. So excited.
-You get to see your father? -Yeah.
-Get to see family. -Can't wait.
I heard there's a party.
-Yeah. -Potty?
I don't know. What's that?
You know, a party, for Aleesi.
Oh, yeah. How... How do you know this?
[John] I text my brother. We talk.
I like parties.
And I've never been to Montes Claros before.
It might be a good idea to check it out.
He's saying what? I don't...
[John] I'm not saying... I'm just saying...
I mean, I guess he wants to go to Brazil for the party.
I mean, it's an idea.
Just an idea.
You know, spend more time with my brother a little bit.
You know, I just want to go to Brazil,
you know, to support my brother.
You know, protect him from Carlos,
make sure, you know,
everything goes nice and steady.
I want this trip to be, you know, nice trip.
I don't want you to cause any trouble there.
I'm not always trouble. Not always.
Nuh...
I mean...
I mean, what's the worst that could happen?
I don't care if he invite himself.
I just don't want him to come.
This trip means a lot to me.
It's been two years since I haven't come back.
And it's already bad blood between my dad and Patrick.
I don't want more problems.
John is a disaster,
and he being around my family,
it could be a disaster.
[John] Just give it a thought.
You know?
-Maybe we'll sleep on it. -[John] Sleep on it.
-That's all I was gonna say. -[John] That's all, you know?
He's not coming.
What? Can we still see him?
I don't know if Mahmoud will like to be surprised.
I am a little worried about how he's gonna act.
We're gonna go see him tonight.
[in foreign language]
[in English] I pulled the Three of Pentacles,
which is all about working together.
[in foreign language]
[in English] I'm worried that the tarot foreshadowed
how this trip is going to go.
And the tarot is never wrong.
Never wrong.
[in foreign language]
[in English] Manuel, I'm done with this stupid-ass conversation.
♪ You know this feeling Isn't meant to last long ♪
♪ You know It's just a pack of lies ♪
♪ And can you promise me ♪
♪ I'll tell you When I'll come ♪
♪ In the end ♪
-Oh, no way! -She's here!
-Hey, Nicole! That's her! -[laughter]
-I got to give you a hug. -Hi, sweetheart.
[both kissing]
[Nicole] Today, Mahmoud and I
planned to go to dinner with my friends,
but he refused to go
because I wore a dress that he didn't like.
Mahmood has been in the US for two days
and I had no idea things were gonna be this bad.
Just seems never ending, these conflicts.
He's not coming.
-[Olha gasps] No? -No.
[Julian] What?
We were excited to meet him.
I know. Like, that's what I said.
I love my friends so much.
They're all aware of the ups and downs
that Mahmoud and I have faced since we got married,
and they want me and Mahmoud to succeed.
Lesley, I've known for around a decade.
Olha is my friend from Ukraine
and Julian is Olga's husband.
[Olha] Why he's not coming?
Well, Mahmoud's not coming
because, uh, he wants to get a divorce.
-Yeah. -[Julian] What?
Because I... My back is exposed.
Yeah.
-[Olha] I mean, is it so... -But your back's not exposed.
I don't think it's exposed.
Can I see your back one more time?
[Nicole] Yeah, sure. I'm wearing, like, a fairly modest dress.
-[Olha speaking] -With, like, degrees of modesty.
[Olha speaking]
Why didn't you just change your dress?
To appease him? Okay, so here's the deal.
So this morning, I decided it was the appropriate moment.
It was just, it felt natural to kind of, like, talk to him
about the fact that I get to make my own decisions.
Yeah.
So I laid down the law
and he said, "That's okay. Yeah, that's fine."
But then, I wore this dress and he says we're done.
But can you be so quick to jump to the divorce thing?
I didn't say divorce, he said divorce,
and he always says divorce.
[Lesley] This is unacceptable.
The way he reacted
is the unacceptable part, right?
Yes, yes, it's like a child.
[Olha] It's not good.
I'm upset that Mahmoud did not show up to dinner.
And I know right now, she's super stressed out and unhappy,
and it's not Nicole.
Nicole should be out with her friends
and wear what she wants, and just be herself.
Do you love him?
I [bleep] love him to the moon and back, Julian.
But does that make a difference?
-[Julian] He's just freaking out. -Yeah.
-You got to let him settle in a little bit. -Settle?
And you lay down the law, like, right...
[Julian] Well, I think you've already laid down the law.
Give him time.
If he's gonna live in LA,
he's going to have to assimilate, regardless.
[Julian] It's only been, like, two days.
-Yeah. -You know, like...
He's got to experience these things.
He can't just give up like that.
[Julian] This is his new normal.
America's got to be his new normal.
And once that becomes true,
like a month, two months,
he starts to feel normal here...
-Give him some time. -[Lesley speaking]
Meet a man.
I can show him the ropes.
I think you can get past this.
I came here with all doubt.
Based on what you just said,
I feel a lot more hope than doubt.
We were excited to see him.
I know. I know everybody was excited.
And we still want to see him.
I know everybody was excited.
Can we still see him?
[Lesley] Are we not allowed to come over? I mean...
Absolutely. Please come over.
Okay.
Show him a little bit of, like...
Show him a little bit of the world.
Mahmoud is making a big deal out of nothing.
I've been trying for the past couple of days
to get him out of this bad mood.
So I'm hoping that when he meets my friends,
he can just kind of relax, let his guard down,
have a little fun.
I don't know if Mahmoud will like to be surprised.
I am a little worried about how he's gonna act.
But my friends are, like, fun, positive people
who who could possibly cheer him up.
I mean, they cheered me up.
-[Lesley laughing] -[Olha speaking]
We're gonna go see him tonight.
-[Nicole] Yeah, you guys are gonna call me back. -We're coming over.
[Ashley] ♪ Just gonna wait For the bags ♪
♪ Wait for the bags ♪
[singing in foreign language]
[continues singing in foreign language]
[in English] Sing it with me.
[singing in foreign language]
[in English] No?
Fine.
So we just landed in New York City and the energy is up.
Everything is feeling good right now.
The Big Apple, baby.
Concrete jungle.
[laughing]
[in foreign language]
[chuckles]
[Manuel speaking]
[Ashley] Uh...
The Empire State...
The Empire State?
-Oh, the Empire State Building. -Yeah.
Maybe we'll go, boo.
[in foreign language]
Empire...
-Empire... -State...
-Building.
-[mumbles]
[Ashley] No?
[Ashley] Mm-hmm.
[in English] Do you know what "hangry" means?
[in foreign language]
[Ashley, in English] It's okay.
[Ashley, in foreign language]
[in English] Um, okay.
[in foreign language]
[Ashley] Uh-huh.
[Manuel tsks]
[in English] Okay.
[in foreign language]
[in English] Okay?
[sighs]
[Ashley] We're in New York.
I'm ready for my New York vacation.
There's just a full-on tantrum because he's hungry.
Are you or are you not about to be 37 years old?
[sighing] Okay, um...
[in foreign language]
[Manuel speaking]
[Ashley, in English] So, I pulled the Three of Pentacles,
which is all about working together,
and it's coming in upside down.
Then we pulled the Page of Cups upside down,
which is all about irrational emotion.
[in foreign language]
[Ashley, in English] Manuel, I'm done with this stupid-ass conversation.
I'm taking a shower.
Okay?
I'm worried that the tarot foreshadowed
how this trip is going to go.
Pulling those cards, the tarot was letting me know,
you've got people that are not working together,
and because these people aren't working together,
I don't know what this trip has in store.
And the tarot is never wrong.
Never wrong.
Ever.
[in foreign language]
[lock clicks]
[Manuel speaking]
[Rob] Here you are.
You're her male best friend.
You guys dated.
He thinks we're exes.
We're not really even exes, right?
I mean, if she said she wanted to date again,
I mean, I definitely wouldn't say no.
So there is an attraction.
You guys did like each other at some point.
♪ I don't need a reason Or a prayer ♪
♪ Without a shadow of doubt ♪
♪ You think you can save me ♪
♪ I'm my own messiah ♪
[Rob] Why wouldn't you tell me y'all dated?
[Sophie] We was 15.
For about a month, we tried, and we was like...
There was no... I never said I love you.
We never loved each other.
There was never strong feelings.
It was, like, a young relationship.
We tried because we had a good time together,
but it was, like, there was nothing there.
If Sophie had told me from the beginning
that her and Callum dated briefly
when they were 13, 14 years old,
and, you know, nothing happened,
and they've just been best friends ever since,
I probably would have had a different reaction.
Her just not telling me the truth,
that makes me feel like she's hiding something
or Callum is more than
who she's trying to convince me that he is to her.
You just brought your ex over here
from another country and then lied to me about it.
That's not fair.
To me, it was like an irrelevant...
We've been friends how long?
-Ten, eleven, twelve, I don't know. -It's not irrelevant.
-More than a decade ago. -It's not irrelevant.
-I'm not allowed to have any feelings? -You are!
I'm just supposed to accept everything?
-You are allowed to have feelings. Completely. -Clearly not.
I'm sorry. I should've--
[Rob] It's already [bleep] you got me meeting a guy best friend.
I just didn't think... Honestly, it sucks, like...
[Rob] And now it's your ex?
No, I promise you that when I count my exes, he's not included.
Me, too.
[Sophie] I'm sorry. Yes, when I was 15,
I did date the guy for, like, a month. If that. I'm sorry.
Again, you should have told me that [bleep] before I even met him.
Okay, I'm sorry.
-What can I do? -You can [bleep] keep it real with me.
-I'm keeping it real with you right now! -I married you.
-Oh. He's mad. -Oh, I saw that.
I saw that. Yeah, he's mad.
I can just tell what he's about.
I'm sorry for not telling you.
Okay, we've had issues.
We haven't been exactly like this,
where I tell you everything, all right?
I'm sorry.
Go, Callum.
[Rob] I'm trying.
-I am trying. -You're not trying.
-I'm not trying? -You shut down and walked away.
[Callum] Yeah, it just seemed like it was getting a bit heated.
-I just wanna make sure everything's good. -He thinks we're exes.
We're not really even exes, right?
-It's barely anything. -Yeah, I mean--
Yeah, I wouldn't even go as far as exes.
Like, you know, we were kids.
Like, we messed around as kids.
Well, the lack of communication is a big deal to me.
Yeah.
Because my ex ended up with her male best friend.
-So she knows that I already have a thing about that. -[Callum] Yeah.
And then here you are. You're her male best friend.
Didn't know you guys dated.
So there is an attraction.
You guys did like each other at some point.
Call it what you want.
If you knew what it was like,
and I'm sure you've got it with friends where you...
-All right. Well, I appreciate I appreciate your input. -And I do get why...
I appreciate your input.
I'm gonna finish talking to her.
I just wanted to make sure everything's good out here.
I feel like this isn't the same situation
that Rob had with his ex.
His ex cheated with her best friend at the time,
and me and Callum never even slept together.
It's someone I briefly dated
way before I even ever knew Rob.
But I realize now this is triggering for him.
I feel bad.
I didn't prepare him for the situation
and maybe I did mess up.
But right now I don't know what else I can even do
besides keep apologizing to him.
I'm sorry.
No, you're not. You're just sorry
that it all came out like this.
You just was hoping to slide by
and get this one over on me.
I wasn't trying to get anything over on you.
[woman] No.
Yeah.
Y'all have fun. I'm going home.
No.
Well, I don't know...
What can I do?
Nothing. You've already done it.
So, what was going on?
Is he mad?
[Sophie] Very mad.
Obviously, I did not mean to hurt Rob,
and it does hurt me to see Rob upset,
and I feel like we keep trying to take a step forward
and then just end up taking steps backwards.
I don't really know what the solution is.
-Where did he go? -He's gone.
I haven't seen my family for almost two years.
John is inviting himself.
How you were talking about this with John
and didn't told me anything?
I told him that we were going to Brazil
and that we're having a party.
And so you want John come with us.
-Yours tell you what to do. -Well, it's not easy.
I mean, I talk to her like, "Yo, try as much as you can
not to, you know, be that bossy."
♪ I let you under my skin ♪
♪ I'm only human ♪
So what do you think?
You know what I think already.
You don't want him to come?
No, because like doesn't make sense.
It hasn't been too long since John moved out.
Then, finally, Patrick and me moved here in Las Vegas.
And now he's coming to Brazil with us.
Like, I can't believe I can get away from this guy.
I haven't seen my family for almost two years.
And like that's the time to see my family...
-No, I get it. -...my friends.
And, like, why John?
Like...
Like, he's inviting himself.
Like, who does that?
John does that.
How you were talking about this with John
and didn't told me anything?
I wasn't planning anything.
So you guys didn't talk about this?
No. I told them that we were going to Brazil
and that we're having a party.
I mean, I get it. I mean,
I think John just wants to come
and, you know...
have some time with us.
So you want John come with us?
No, I'm just trying to-- I'm trying to understand--
No. You were trying to explain.
-You were-- -Well, I'm trying to understand
from his perspective.
Like maybe that's what he's thinking.
No, I get everything you said.
Like, he wants to have time with us. I get that.
But like in Brazil, like...
No. If he wants to have time with us,
like having time here...
I think what would be good is,
you know, if John does come and gets to meet your family
and gets to be around you more and around us more,
like, it would help, you know,
-your guys' relationship-- -You really think?
Like, it's so naive.
-What? -You really think it would be like that?
I don't forget like the way that John is, you know.
-I know. -Like, I just don't want to mix him with my family.
Well, I mean...
I think I-- I'm gonna leave it up to you.
You want John go with us?
My family is really small,
so, I mean, you know, I'd like to spend time with my dad
and, you know, it'd be nice if John was there
so he could be there for the party.
I don't know. But if you want this...
What? If I want this, what?
[sighs] Yeah. If you want this...
fine.
So you're gonna tell John that he can go to Brazil?
Yes.
Yay!
I think I'm giving in
because, you know, it's part of our marriage.
You know, making compromise is important for us.
I think we both do a good job with that.
But now, you have to, you know,
make compromise with me
that you have to keep an eye on him.
You keep John out of trouble.
[Patrick] I'm gonna try.
You better. Because if John messes anything up,
that's on you.
Oh, my God.
John's a pain in my ass.
[indistinct chatter]
Hi.
How is your leg?
But it's okay. I mean, I didn't...
Yeah. I mean, I don't know.
I need to...
You need to put it up, because if it's up and elevated,
-then it's better. -Yeah.
I know. I know how to take care of my leg, babe.
-I mean, you don't need to be telling me that-- -I know.
-I'm just trying to help you. -Thank you,
but, actually, I know how to handle that.
-You don't have to-- -Okay. All right.
I mean, I'm just following doctor's orders over here.
Uh, Emily, are you okay?
[Emily] Oh, yeah, I'm okay.
I'm just checking on him to make sure he's okay.
Okay.
You know, his knee and everything.
Okay. No, it's fine.
Yeah. You know, wife knows best.
All right.
I know you're concerned about me,
but if I tell you to let it go, just let it go.
You got hurt, and I love you.
Well...
Yeah, this is the first time my mom, dad,
everybody like sees me playing.
[Aloysius speaking]
was telling you that-- she told you that you were not supposed to play
because you have a problem with your knee.
I mean, well, you know, that's how Emily is.
Do you see my problem with white lady?
It's just that they are bossy.
-Really bossy. Really bossy. -Yes. They're just...
[Kobe] Well, it's not easy.
I mean, I talk to her like, "Yo, try as much as you can
not to, you know, be that bossy."
I want it to be better.
I want a situation where my friends should be happy for me.
But I'm just hoping that she knows she can do better.
She can-- She can improve on the culture.
I mean, I don't know what the future holds.
You know?
You know, there's one thing, you know, I want to bring up.
You're still interested to have a baby, right?
[Jasmine] Now that my children won't be here for two years,
I cannot think about anything else.
I don't know what to do at this moment.
[Gino] Are you ready for some good food?
Italian food is my favorite.
That's why I have you.
-[laughs] -Yeah.
♪ The way she's looking everybody's grooving ♪
[Gino] Hello.
-Hi. -[man] Welcome to Rose's.
How many tonight?
-Uh, two please. -Two.
-Yes, please. -Okay.
Right this way, please.
Thank you.
Now that Gino agree on having an immigration lawyer help us,
things been better lately at home.
So I'm going to take her out on a much needed date.
I cannot actually remember
when was the last time
that you took me out for dinner.
[Gino] What?
We had, like, two salads.
Remember all-you-can-eat salad?
When I took you out.
Well, more than salad.
It was the whole freaking salad bar
where they had all kinds of stuff in there,
and not just salad.
You look so beautiful tonight.
I feel like, um, I don't know,
I'm dating the USA president.
-[Jasmine] Oh, my goodness. -All right.
All right. Enjoy.
-Thank you. -Thank you.
[Jasmine] Okay, baby. Bon appetit.
[Gino] How is it?
This tastes so good. My goodness.
Wow. Let me try this.
This is gonna be my game.
The ones that gets first to the end of the fettuccini wins.
-Oh, crap. -[Jasmine laughs]
Fettuccine is gonna have a special meaning
for us from now on.
We will never see those freaking fettuccine
the same way ever,
because you will remember the day we were racing,
eating the fettuccini so our lips could meet
and our tongues.
Wow, that sounds pretty good.
Oh, I think it's mine.
Mmm.
-[server] Good for now? -No, we're good.
-All right. Enjoy. -Thank you.
Holy cow.
You're adding salad to your pasta?
-Yeah. -And what's that red sauce?
I was gonna ask for ketchup, but...
this is an Italian restaurant,
so they gave me this.
-[Gino laughs] God. -Mmm. Mmm.
Where do you get your appetite from?
-This is-- -Wow.
I'm so happy tonight.
I really love when we are not fighting,
when we are getting along.
That's why I marry you.
I enjoy your company.
I enjoy your company all the time.
I wanted to express my gratitude...
uh, for everything you're doing for my children.
Aw.
It's not easy for my children
not to be with me like eight months.
Still a lot, but they know that Mommy loves me.
She's with Papa Gino.
I understand.
So, baby, you know, there's one thing, you know,
I want to bring up that you said when we were arguing.
-Um... -Yes, baby?
You said I wasn't ready to be a father, you know,
and that really hurt me because...
you've always told me before that I am ready.
So now you're saying I'm not.
I'm sorry that...
what I said hurt you.
But I was mad, okay?
-I felt that way that day. -I know you were mad,
but you can't say hurtful things because you're mad.
-I-- -You have to watch what you say.
I know.
You're still interested to have a child, right?
You still want to have a baby.
Um...
[sighs]
Children are exhausting, baby.
So it's going to be tough and we are not getting any younger.
When I had my children, I was in my 20s.
Now I'm 37, closer to my 40s,
I can tell you I don't have the same energy.
-I don't. -No.
I don't. And now I think about you,
it's gonna be pretty heavy.
And messy. So is that what you want?
Yeah. Yeah.
-You're ready? -I wouldn't have been asking about it
and I wouldn't have said yes in the first place
if I wasn't serious.
-I told you multiple times already. -Okay.
-I don't know why you keep asking me the same questions.
I don't know what to do at this moment.
I don't want to upset Gino,
but I cannot think about anything else
when I have so much in my mind going on.
[Ashley speaking in foreign language]
♪ We're heading out for good times ♪
♪ We're going where the light shines brighter ♪
[Manuel and Ashley speaking in foreign language]
♪ We're heading out for good times ♪
[Manuel speaking in foreign language]
[Ashley speaking in foreign language]
[in English] We just got to New York City this morning,
and Manuel decided to throw a hissy fit
because he's hangry,
which triggers this whole argument.
But I hope it's just one of these pouty moods
and he'll get over it
'cause we are planning to meet
with Manuel's friend, Jonathan, for dinner.
Manuel has known Jonathan for years,
since they were children.
And I met Jonathan actually when I met Manuel
my first time in Ecuador.
Jonathan is great. He's fun.
So hopefully his mood is changing.
The moody Manuel...
[speaks in foreign language]
[Manuel speaking in foreign language]
[Ashley speaking in foreign language]
[Ashley speaking in English] We're staying in Queens
because we heard through the grapevine
that there's a large Equatoriano population
and the food's good.
[Manuel speaking in foreign language]
[Ashley in English] Don't get carried away.
[speaking in foreign language]
-[in English] Yeah. -[in English] Okay.
[speaking in foreign language]
[Manuel speaking in foreign language]
[Ashley] Jonathan!
[in English] Hi!
-Hey, Ashley. -[speaking in foreign language]
[Ashley in English] Good to see you.
[Manuel and Jonathan speaking in foreign language]
[Ashley in English] Oh, wow!
[Jonathan speaking in foreign language]
[in English] Yes!
[speaking in foreign language]
[Manuel speaking]
I'm still salty as hell about last night.
So she really needs to do something to make it up to me
if she thinks this relationship is gonna work.
[man speaking]
So wait. The girlfriend here still thought they were dating?
Yeah, yeah.
Because he told me when he was dating me, he was single.
So I'm like, "But did he lie?"
♪ It's the last time ♪
♪ The last time ♪
♪ I told you and I'll tell you again ♪
♪ You think I'm a fool and you thought I'd be chasing you ♪
I wanted last night to be like just Rob, me,
and all my other favorite people,
and like everyone can have a good time.
And it just didn't really go how I expected it to go.
I kind of [bleep] up.
So I do feel like really bad about that.
I hate that I hurt Rob when he found out
that I did date Callum briefly when I was younger.
So this morning, I had to have a talk with Callum.
I can't really be friends with guys I used to date.
And I know with us, it's different.
You not just a guy I used to date.
But it's like I do feel like
we can't talk as much as we do.
You can't just cut me out of your life.
We're married, you know. So I have to respect how he feels, too.
I think I just need space to, like, fix...
you know, me and Rob.
It's very difficult for me to lose such a long friendship.
But if it comes to what do I choose,
my friendship with Callum or my marriage with Rob?
Then I'm gonna choose my marriage with Rob.
I texted Rob to meet me at the Congress Bridge.
I'm hoping my sacrifice with losing Callum
shows that I do prioritize him
and then we're able to actually get past this.
Sophie.
Hello.
You doing good?
I wouldn't say I'm good.
Yeah, we can try to.
It's a little dark, though.
Have you ever seen the bats?
No.
[Rob] The South Congress Bridge,
it's like an Austin local attraction.
It's like 1,500,000 bats will come out from under the bridge
within 30 min of sunset.
I have tarantulas at the house.
So the things that go crawl in the night
that other people are afraid of
don't really scare me.
Sophie scares me.
Because Sophie's got a hold on me
that's unhealthy.
But, I mean, I'm still salty as hell about last night.
So she really needs to do something very quickly
to make it up to me
if she thinks this relationship is gonna work.
You know, I tried last night to do what you want to do.
But then it was like...
a setup for things to not go well.
I'm really sorry that I didn't, you know,
explain to you like the whole extent of our friendship.
I do consider you.
I want to believe you. I just don't know if I feel it.
So I've already, you know, talked to Callum.
And I've already said that, like, I obviously respect you,
and I prioritize you over my friends, over anyone else.
To be honest, that's the first thing you said
in a long time that makes me feel like...
there is hope.
But I cannot fix this alone.
I'm here with you, and I'm also trying.
[Rob] Then...
when are you coming home?
I've gone back and forth a lot about moving back in with Rob.
I'm not 100% sure, but I feel like right now,
it could potentially be the last chance we have
to actually mend things between us.
And I just want things to be good again.
So you'll be sleeping at the house tomorrow night.
Yeah.
You'll see.
All right.
That's all I've been wanting.
Ultimately, the night was successful.
We got somewhere.
And now she says she's coming home.
And, uh, I think that makes for a good night.
But like, to be honest with you,
I was a little disappointed there were no bats.
Yep.
Yeah.
Yes.
Okay.
[man] Stay back. Contender one. Contender one.
[audience cheering]
Come here, mama. Let's go.
[Emily] Excuse me.
[Kobe] During the game, I injured my knee,
and Emily just came around and treated me like a baby,
and that's really embarrassing.
I asked him only for one thing before coming on this trip.
"Don't be so bossy when we get to Cameroon."
And she hasn't listened.
[man] She's so bossy.
-We have 18 players. -We have 18 players.
-Eighteen players. -I think next time, we should also maintain--
[Emily] Hi!
Hi, Emily.
[Valery] So do you really enjoy the game?
I did. It's very intense.
I will try.
-Yes, it's better you try... -[Aloysius] It's a very nice game.
...because Kobe was really a good player.
[Emily] Seeing Kobe play handball,
it was great to see with my own eyes today,
especially because he means a lot to the team
and his friends.
Now I feel like it's more important than ever
to try to get them to change their minds about me
and we get along, especially for Kobe,
because this is like his second family.
[Aloysius speaking]
So it must have really hard when he moved away
-and went to China. -To China.
It was really hard.
[Aloysius] Yes.
Oh, then I took him away
'cause I brought him to America.
Yes.
Um, but he did say, you know, his friends had some concerns
about our relationship and me, per se.
Yes, um...
[Emily] Mmm-hmm.
Uh-huh.
[sarcastically] Yes. All of them.
But we're also very family-driven,
very good housewives,
very good mothers, very good wives.
So we're all of that, too.
[Aloysius speaking]
[Valery] We just-- We just have that concern
he will lose his dignity as a Cameroonian man.
I mean, I do treat Kobe like a king.
But like I'm also his queen.
I'm just trying to be helpful.
-And wouldn't do that here. -[Aloysius] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
-'Cause it's embarrassing. -Yes, embarrassing.
Okay.
I can't believe how they see me caring for my husband as embarrassing.
They're judging me when I'm trying to look out for Kobe, their best friend.
I really don't wanna have any bad feelings towards Kobe's friends,
but just knowing that they have bad feelings about me
and think our relationship isn't gonna last,
it just makes me feel like they aren't even giving me a shot.
Emily, do you know my concern?
-Do you know my concern? -Yes. What's your concern?
[Aloysius speaking]
[Valery speaking]
[Emily] I am trying to understand the culture,
but I don't really need, you know,
my husband's friends filling his mind with ideas
that his wife isn't gonna make him happy.
[Aloysius speaking]
Yeah.
Oh, yeah, me. Yeah.
-Even though I was pregnant, though. -Yeah.
-With his son. -Yeah.
It came to me as a surprise.
So wait. The girlfriend here still thought they were dating...
-Yeah, yeah, yeah. -...while he was in China?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
This is news to me.
[Valery speaking]
No, I'm not jealous. I'm just trying to figure out,
was he dating this girl when he met me?
Because he told me when he was dating me, he was single.
So I'm like, "But did he lie?"
After having this conversation with Kobe's friends,
I definitely feel like we did not make progress.
I feel like they still think I'm a bossy...
woman who will not be submissive.
And I was really hoping this talk would resolve things.
But now I just feel like they're making more problems between Kobe and I.
When I met Kobe in China, he told me that he was single.
So are his friends trying to sabotage our relationship?
Or does Kobe have something to tell me?
Great hanging out with you.
Nice to meet you.
Great game.
I'm gonna find Kobe and we're gonna leave.
-So... -[Valery] Okay.
It's your welcome party.
-Thank you so much. -[laughing]
Why didn't you come?
He's sitting here smiling, and it makes me look bad,
like I lied to them.
You're a [bleep] liar.
-Mahmoud, tell the truth. -Whoa.
Yeah, tell the truth.
♪ The mystery in you just pulls me in ♪
♪ But there's a crazy crazy lie ♪
♪ Just below your skin ♪
[Nicole] For Nicole?
♪ Look into my eyes ♪
♪ I'm hypnotized ♪
[Nicole] Mahmoud didn't want to go to the restaurant to meet my friends.
My friends deeply want to meet him.
And so we're all gonna go to my house.
We're taking separate ride shares back to my apartment.
And so now I have a minute to kind of compose myself.
Mahmoud can finally meet Olha and Lesley.
He's heard so much about them
in the last four years that we've been married.
We're here.
[Nicole] Hey, guys.
-Are you ready? -I'm ready.
[Olha speaking]
Yeah, he's coming. We're coming.
[Olha and Lesley laughing]
I want Mahmoud to kind of learn American culture.
And by having my friends over,
they can show him a nice time
and, like, kind of show him the ropes
so that he can understand that I'm not trying to rebel against him.
I'm just trying to show him life here.
But I'm a little bit nervous.
I never know if after we argue,
if he's gonna be in a good mood
or still in the same mood.
It's always like a gamble.
[Lesley] I'm gonna put this here.
-Hey, Mahmoud. -Hi.
My friends are here,
so if you want to come out and meet 'em, you should.
[Mahmoud speaking]
-Hi. Hi, how are you? -[Lesley] Hi, Mahmoud!
-Come on. Hi! -Hi.
No, no, no.
Hi, how are you?
I'm good. How are you?
[Lesley] We missed you tonight.
-How are you, man? -Hi. I'm good.
-How are you? -It's nice to meet you, man.
It's nice-- so nice to meet you.
[Lesley] Come out of hiding. Come say hi.
-Okay. -Come meet with us.
[Olha speaking indistinctly]
[Lesley] Welcome.
-Thank you. -[Lesley laughing]
It's good to finally meet you.
-Oh, yeah. -[Olha] Good deal, right?
How do you like LA so far?
-It's nice, yeah. -Yeah?
It hasn't been sunny.
-So wait till the sun comes out. -Wait till the sun comes out.
[Lesley] Yeah.
Um, can I have a beverage?
Yeah. What do you-- What would you like, actually?
You know me. Tequila's good.
-You want some tequila? -Yeah. Please.
[Olha speaking]
[Nicole] You want a shot of vodka?
-Okay. -With the vodka.
-[laughs] Mahmoud, I'm sorry. If you would not mind. -Do you want yours with water?
-That's okay. You can do whatever you want. -I'm sorry. Yeah?
Mahmoud, would you like some tea or something?
-No. -Okay.
Mahmoud didn't know that I keep alcohol in the house.
I never tried to hide it.
It was just in the freezer.
I definitely feel uncomfortable pouring drinks for my friends
because I know that that would not be something
that Mahmoud's ever seen.
And I sort of don't want to do it.
But then it's a part of my culture
to have good hospitality.
So I am going to pour them a drink
and just maybe have a soda water myself.
Sorry it's all different glasses.
[Lesley] Oh, no, that's fine.
[Olha] Don't worry. Thank you so much, Nicole.
-Yeah. -Thank you.
[Lesley] Cheers, Mahmoud.
-Welcome to the US and LA. -Welcome to LA.
-Thank you. -[Julian] Welcome to America.
Thank you so much.
Yes. It's your welcome party.
Thank you so much.
[laughing]
I'm so happy to meet you.
-Yeah. And you could have went and met them. -We're so glad.
And then when you didn't go, they decided--
-[Lesley] We're coming to you. -They decided to come.
Oh, thank you. It's so nice.
-We had to-- -It's been like four years of anticipation.
Yeah, it's true.
[Julian] Why didn't you come?
[Lesley] You look tired.
-You look exhausted, actually. -Yeah.
[Nicole] You're a [bleep] liar.
-Mahmoud, tell the truth. -Whoa.
Yeah, tell the truth.
Okay. We'll-- uh...
[Lesley] It's okay.
I can't hide my feelings anymore.
-I understand you, Nico. -Yeah.
-I understand. -Yeah.
He was supposed to be there with me.
The only reason for the dinner was for them to meet him
and show him a little bit of America.
But he's the crazy guy,
who wants to get a divorce over a dress.
And now he's sitting here smiling
and being all nice with my friends,
saying, "Oh, I was tired. That's why I couldn't come."
And it's embarrassing.
It makes me look bad, like I...
like lied to them
and made everything more dramatic than it was.
Um, but, I mean, like what happened?
Like...
Nothing. Just like we have like a little fight with...
that morning--
[Nicole] Oh, just a little one, right?
Just a little one where you said we were going to,
you know, get a divorce.
-Just a little, tiny fight. -Yeah.
[Mahmoud speaking]
[Lesley] That took a turn.
Little hateful little [bleep]!
Hey, hey.
[Nicole] No, I don't even want to be near him.
[Emily] Next time on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
Ari's first birthday party. We did it.
-Our last first birthday. -Definitely.
You don't have one stretch mark.
You don't have one cellulite. And you're getting lipo.
I want to be able to look in the mirror
and feel comfortable and feel confident.
Everybody's telling me, "You look great.
I can't believe you had three babies."
And I so appreciate that.
But it goes in one ear and out the other
because I don't feel comfortable.
God forbid something were to happen.
[line ringing]
[Carlos speaking in foreign language on phone]
[Patrick speaking in foreign language]
[in English] I just got to Brazil
and your dad's already calling me names.
[Thais speaking in English]
You-- you have to stop.
You have to stop!
-[tires screeching] -[Patrick] No, I don't have to stop.
You have to stop! Jesus.
I know how it was before you moved out. So, like...
are you having sex yet?
It's been months.
Red flag. Something's wrong with him downstairs.
How did you end up with this man again?
I heard about your days before you met me.
"My days"?
But why would you propose to me if you were dating someone?
I don't know. There's just a loss of words.
I don't know.
A few nights ago, Ed and I got into an argument.
I go to bed, I wake up, and he's gone.
I have no idea what's happening.
No, no, no, no. No, no, no, no.
-Please stop. -Please let me go.
-Mahmoud. -Hey.
-Please let-- -Just take a walk.
-I'm trying to go. -[Nicole] Mahmoud.