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<i>Previously on</i>
90 Day Fiance:
Happily Ever After...

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I didn't know
how lucky I was before...

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And now I don't have them
in America.

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<i>How can I be ready
to have a child with Gino</i>

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if I feel like I'm abandoning
my own children?

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Being such a, you know,
long serious procedure

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what could be like,
potentially any side effects?

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You can pop a blood vessel.

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There's a lot of
concerning things

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that I'm hearing
from Dr. Dev.

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<i>So this is much more serious
than I realized.</i>

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I'm really set on it,

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and I want you
to support me on it.
You set on it?

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I know how it was
before you moved out.

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So, like, are you
having sex yet?

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It's been months.

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I haven't really opened up
to a lot of people

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about my non existent
sex life with Rob,

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<i>because, honestly,
it's just embarrassing.</i>

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Have you ever thought
about going to therapy?

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I would rather him do it.

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You need to do it, too.

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I don't know
if I'm gonna be able
to help you tomorrow,

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but I'll try to help you
while we're here.

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I can't sit here
and allow him

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to put all those
blame on me.

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<i>He really needs to man up</i>

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<i>and take responsibility
for himself</i>

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or I'm out.

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'Cause that's
not [bleep] true.

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You're the one
who told me

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you wanted
to get a [bleep] divorce.

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- Like 20 time--
- Yeah.
Yes, and I still want that.

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- Then go, then--
Yeah. Go, go, go, go!
- Yes, I'm going to go.

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Huh?

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Uh, what are you doing?

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Theodore, I got your mom
a surprise.

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Hold on.

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We landed
yesterday in Brazil,
and even though things

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didn't go great with my dad,

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today is a very important day.

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<i>It's Thais' birthday.
John's arriving tonight.</i>

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And I'm about to see
Thais' dad, Carlos,

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for the first time
in almost two years,

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Oh!

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Did you
make a wish?

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Yes.

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Ohhh!

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No.
- What you talking about?

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I always get you a present

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- or we go out to dinner.
- Yeah.

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You know, what you do
for my birthdays?

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Do you remember
how many gifts I've gotten?

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Zero.

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No, I'm lying.
You got me a shirt.

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Like two years ago,

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Here.

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The best thing with you,
Aleesi, Theodore.

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Our family.

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Gonna meet my dad today.
That's perfect.

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Let's see.

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Mmm-hmm.

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Mmm-mmm. Ot-- Eh...

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Cheers, first.
Jesus Christ.

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It's delicious.
- Mmm.

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It's really good.

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- It's almost time to go.
- Yeah, we gotta go.

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Who likes
more birthday cake?

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I mean, you can kind of tell
who likes more birthday cake.

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I mean,
it's definitely me.

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Brazilian birthday cakes
are way better

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than American birthday cakes.
It's not even close.

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Like they're more moist,
they're more rich.

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If you want.
I want to drive.

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You can drive.

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I miss driving here.

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Got it.

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Oh, no.

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How can I--
Oh, no. I think I go--

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- You go straight and then...
- Straight.

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Straight like this.

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Yeah,
that's what I--

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Yeah, it's Jesus Christ.

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Oh, no,
I thought it was...

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Jesus. Are you sure
you want to drive?

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I mean, she wanted to drive,
but you can't even get out
of the garage.

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Everyone that goes
in the garage says

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that the garage
is really small.

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Turn the wheel.

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- What's the wheel?
- This is the wheel.

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What else would that be?

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Oh, I don't know
how to do this.

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Okay?
You can drive.

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Park straight.

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You want to drive.

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Oh, my God,
you're hilarious.

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Are you ready
to see your dad?

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Yes.

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- More than ready?
- Yeah.

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I don't know if I'm ready.

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It's bee--
You know why?

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- Because I don't know--
- Almost two years.

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I don't like going into
conversations where
people...

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Oh...

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I just still have the image
in my head where he,

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you know,
didn't bless our wedding.

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<i>If things don't go
well today with Carlos,</i>

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<i>it's definitely going to put
a strain on our marriage</i>

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<i>because you know her dad</i>

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is the most important person
in her life.

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<i>I have no desire
to ruin their relationship,</i>

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<i>but I know that he doesn't
really like me that much.</i>

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So I'm just
really worried that like,

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he's not gonna give me
a chance.

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Mmm-hmm.

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<i>I'm going to go
after Mahmoud</i>

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because this is a very--
like a crime ridden city.

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It's very dangerous.

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And I don't want him out there
on the streets late at night.

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Okay, keys...

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<i>Earlier, when Mahmoud
came back,</i>

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he refused to talk it out.

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And the only thing
he says to me is
I want a divorce

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And then he storms off.

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<i>Well, he left the phone
and the credit card</i>

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<i>and money on the table.</i>

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And now he's going out
into the night

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alone with his suitcase.

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<i>I don't know where he thinks
he's gonna go.</i>

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<i>And at this point,</i>

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I don't think he has any
intention of coming back.

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<i>He's still my husband
and I'm responsible for him.</i>

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I know that if, uh,
if the tables were turned

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and I had stormed off
and in Cairo,

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he would be combing
the streets looking for me.

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Is this like a boulevard
or okay...

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Mahmoud, Mahmoud!

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Mahmoud get in the car!

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I'm gonna go get him.

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I don't see him.
How can you possibly
get that far?

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Oh, there he is.
Okay.

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I'm gonna park right here.
How about that?

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Get in the car.

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Get in the car!

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No.
Get in the car!

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Get in
the car again!

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Get in-- Get in
the car again!

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Get in the car.

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Come on

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Don't go. Don't--

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No.
Just get in the car.

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No.
I'm not gonna stop.

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Just stop--
- No.

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Get the bag
in the car Mahmoud.

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Mahmoud,
you can't do that anymore.

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I know
this is hard for you.

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I just don't know why
you always gotta run away.

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Mahmoud.

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Listen, I need to know
exactly what you want.

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Honey, talk to me.

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You asked me to go--

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Mahmoud,
you wanted to go.

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You started
heading out the door.

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You just tell--

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You told me
you wanted divorce, Mahmoud.

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What am I supposed to do?

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You won't meet my friends.
You won't do anything.

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You asked me
100 times to get out
of your house.

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I didn't do that
at first.

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Just by yourself
in the car.

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Can I wait out here
while you are in here?

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Okay.

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<i>When Mahmoud
starts breaking down,
I feel like he's um,</i>

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being more honest
with about his feelings.

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For the first time
since he's gotten here.

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And I feel like I can
actually, like, reach him,

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like on an emotional level
at this point.

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<i>And I feel like these tears</i>

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<i>suggest that he is
capable of change</i>

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<i>and of moving forward.</i>

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<i>You know,
I still care about him.</i>

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And I'm not ready
to let go or say goodbye.

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In a relationship

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both parties have something

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that they need
to take ownership for.

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But okay--

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Never!

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<i>Manuel loves to say
that I'm the problem.</i>

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This is the definition
of gaslighting.

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I don't know. That--
I don't even know.

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The other day

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it sounded like the phone
was vibrating, like calling

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But it wasn't my phone,
and it wasn't his phone.

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<i>All guys that cheat
have two phones.</i>

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<i>♪ I have been pretending
That I'm okay ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Only you know
Why I feel this way ♪</i>

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Manuel,
if you make it out
like you're in jail,

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Oh, you won't let me
go anywhere.

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That's not [bleep] true.

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<i>♪ What the point running</i>

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<i>♪ You're not chasing me
No more ♪</i>

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Manuel and I met up
with my friend Erin,

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and she gave us
a spiritual reading.

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The reading was great.

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<i>The aftermath not so much.</i>

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Manuel used this
as an opportunity

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<i>to call me untrusting</i>

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and I don't understand
where he's coming from.

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<i>It's really annoying
how Manuel loves to say</i>

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that I'm the problem
when all I'm trying to do

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is get clear communication
with my husband.

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Honestly, my yelling
comes from being triggered

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and feeling like I wasn't
listened to as a child.

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And so--

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It's the truth.

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And so I speak
louder than most,

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so that I make sure
I'm heard.

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No, I don't
want to talk to you.

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I've been doing
a lot of man hating.

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You're kind of the enemy
right now.

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Like the epitome
of the enemy.

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No. No offense.
No offense, no offense.

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Do any of you guys
have a cigarette by chance?

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Oh, my God!

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Can I please
have a cigarette with you?

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Oh.

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You okay?

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Yeah, I'm just--

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I'm annoyed.
This is my friend Erin.

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- What's your name?
- Nice to meet you, honey.

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- Oh, you as well.
- Chauncey?

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Ashley.

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I think
what frustrates
me the most is like,

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in a relationship

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both parties
have something

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that they need
to take ownership for.

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But then it's like...

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Okay--

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Never, never.

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There was a little bit
of gaslighting.

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- Oh! A lot of it.
- You know what I mean?

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<i>Manuel makes me
feel crazy</i>

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for not trusting him,
but then, at the same time,

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<i>he's purposely leaving out
important aspects of his life.</i>

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<i>So of course,
that would lead to me
not trusting him.</i>

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This is the definition
of gaslighting.

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Well, I've worked
with a lot of couples.

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I think you have the most
important thing,
which is actual love.

249
00:17:55,620 --> 00:17:57,172
Yeah.
- Right?

250
00:17:57,172 --> 00:18:00,379
- We do have that.
- And-- And I believe that
that is worth fighting for.

251
00:18:00,379 --> 00:18:01,448
Yeah.

252
00:18:02,379 --> 00:18:03,586
Sometimes.

253
00:18:03,586 --> 00:18:06,517
And this is one of those
situations that I'll say...

254
00:18:06,517 --> 00:18:07,620
We've got to wait and see.

255
00:18:07,620 --> 00:18:09,655
The stars are aligned.

256
00:18:10,275 --> 00:18:12,103
- Okay. Okay.
- Yes. Yeah.

257
00:18:12,103 --> 00:18:13,793
- Okay.
- Truly, truly.

258
00:18:13,793 --> 00:18:15,482
- I love you, baby.
- I love you too.

259
00:18:15,482 --> 00:18:17,620
I'm sorry.
No, don't be.

260
00:18:17,620 --> 00:18:18,965
You're good.
Okay.

261
00:18:18,965 --> 00:18:20,620
- Yeah. You're good.
You're good.
- Okay. Okay.

262
00:18:20,620 --> 00:18:21,586
You're good.

263
00:18:21,586 --> 00:18:24,482
Whoo!
Let me go find him,
I suppose.

264
00:18:24,482 --> 00:18:25,551
Okay.

265
00:18:49,379 --> 00:18:50,482
No.
- No?

266
00:18:50,482 --> 00:18:51,448
No.

267
00:19:17,310 --> 00:19:18,965
<i>Manuel will never admit</i>

268
00:19:18,965 --> 00:19:21,172
that he's the cause
of an issue.

269
00:19:21,172 --> 00:19:23,793
<i>For him, it's about
winning or losing.</i>

270
00:19:23,793 --> 00:19:25,000
I'm not looking to win.

271
00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:28,068
I'm looking to be heard.

272
00:19:28,068 --> 00:19:31,000
<i>If Manuel can't open up
to his faults
in this relationship,</i>

273
00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,551
I really don't see
how this is gonna last.

274
00:19:43,413 --> 00:19:45,103
How does this look?

275
00:19:45,103 --> 00:19:46,896
Let's have some fun
in the bubble bath.

276
00:19:46,896 --> 00:19:49,000
Are you trying
to seduce me?

277
00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,275
Jasmine and I, we have
the place to ourselves.

278
00:19:51,275 --> 00:19:55,620
So I am going to try
to put the moves on her.

279
00:19:55,620 --> 00:19:57,000
Maybe this will help.

280
00:19:58,793 --> 00:20:00,482
Are my toes
turning you on?

281
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:09,793
I'm gonna
come back.

282
00:20:09,793 --> 00:20:11,379
<i>It's the morning
of my surgery.</i>

283
00:20:11,379 --> 00:20:14,000
This is something
I want for myself.

284
00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:17,275
But it's hard
because I'm not gonna
see him for a few days.

285
00:20:17,275 --> 00:20:19,586
<i>I kinda just want to put it
all behind me already.</i>

286
00:20:19,586 --> 00:20:20,758
Okay.

287
00:20:28,448 --> 00:20:32,793
<i>♪ You set if off all right
You gotta get it out ♪</i>

288
00:20:32,793 --> 00:20:35,344
<i>♪ You wanna know
'Cause I spend time ♪</i>

289
00:20:35,344 --> 00:20:37,103
<i>♪ Girl just let it out</i>

290
00:20:37,103 --> 00:20:39,965
Babe?
- One second Jasmine

291
00:20:42,241 --> 00:20:44,275
<i>♪ And I want you to stay</i>

292
00:20:44,275 --> 00:20:46,448
<i>♪ Don't want to throw you
No deuces ♪</i>

293
00:20:46,448 --> 00:20:49,068
<i>♪ Yeah, I just want to show
You the truth... ♪</i>

294
00:21:01,103 --> 00:21:03,103
It's our first morning
in Miami

295
00:21:03,103 --> 00:21:05,000
<i>and it's Jasmine's birthday</i>

296
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,586
and we're gonna go
check out the Gators

297
00:21:07,586 --> 00:21:12,000
<i>and the Everglades
because she absolutely
loves alligators.</i>

298
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:16,655
I know she had a friend
called Sneaky in Panama.

299
00:21:16,655 --> 00:21:18,379
<i>This gator
that would pop out</i>

300
00:21:18,379 --> 00:21:21,379
and she would see him
by the river.

301
00:21:21,379 --> 00:21:25,344
So what a great way
to spend her birthday
in Miami.

302
00:21:26,034 --> 00:21:28,137
Yeah baby.

303
00:21:28,137 --> 00:21:29,275
<i>But first,</i>

304
00:21:29,275 --> 00:21:31,758
Jasmine and I,
we have the place to ourself.

305
00:21:31,758 --> 00:21:36,000
So I am going to try
to be romantic

306
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:37,482
<i>with a bubble bath</i>

307
00:21:37,482 --> 00:21:40,241
<i>and put the moves
on her.</i>

308
00:21:48,137 --> 00:21:49,103
You know, like the same--

309
00:21:49,103 --> 00:21:51,000
Jas-- Jasmine,
who are you talking to?

310
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:52,862
I've been talking to you.

311
00:21:53,275 --> 00:21:55,103
Me?

312
00:21:55,103 --> 00:21:56,275
I didn't know that.

313
00:21:56,275 --> 00:21:58,241
I'm sorry.
I was preoccupied in here.

314
00:21:59,758 --> 00:22:01,172
This is Miami vibes.

315
00:22:01,172 --> 00:22:03,172
And this is alligator vibe

316
00:22:03,172 --> 00:22:07,172
because I want the alligators
to feel like I belong to them.

317
00:22:08,172 --> 00:22:10,000
Like I'm part
of their family.

318
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,724
- Oh, my God.
- But, I don't know.

319
00:22:19,275 --> 00:22:21,172
But I love alligators.

320
00:22:21,172 --> 00:22:24,482
They're actually
my favorite animal.

321
00:22:24,482 --> 00:22:27,482
And I get so excited
every time I see them.

322
00:22:27,482 --> 00:22:28,586
Do you miss sneaky?

323
00:22:28,586 --> 00:22:30,896
You have no idea, baby.

324
00:22:30,896 --> 00:22:33,655
I wonder
if he's thinking about me.

325
00:22:33,655 --> 00:22:35,551
As much as I'm thinking
about him,

326
00:22:40,482 --> 00:22:42,379
Um, so I'll go
with the pink.

327
00:22:42,379 --> 00:22:44,172
Do you think
that the alligators

328
00:22:44,172 --> 00:22:46,551
are gonna feel
triggered by pink?

329
00:22:46,551 --> 00:22:49,068
But they're gonna
eat you so fast
it's not going to matter.

330
00:22:50,068 --> 00:22:52,379
Okay, come here for a second.

331
00:22:52,379 --> 00:22:53,551
I have to show you something.

332
00:22:59,275 --> 00:23:00,620
How does this look?

333
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,137
Maybe this will help.

334
00:23:11,448 --> 00:23:13,275
Are you trying
to seduce me?

335
00:23:17,241 --> 00:23:18,862
Aren't my toes
turning you on?

336
00:23:20,551 --> 00:23:22,103
They did at the campsite.

337
00:23:23,344 --> 00:23:25,413
Just look at my toes
for a second, would you?

338
00:23:26,137 --> 00:23:27,586
It's very seductive.

339
00:23:27,586 --> 00:23:30,551
Let's have some fun
in the bubble bath
before we go.

340
00:23:31,448 --> 00:23:34,482
I mean this--
You're so sexy.

341
00:23:34,482 --> 00:23:37,620
And I-- Thank you
for the feet dance.

342
00:23:39,551 --> 00:23:42,689
You know,
I got a bomb in there,
and nice soap.

343
00:23:42,689 --> 00:23:44,655
I mean, what do you say?

344
00:23:46,793 --> 00:23:48,000
- Yes, baby.
- But--

345
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,034
I know.

346
00:23:54,482 --> 00:23:56,137
But I was checking
the weather,

347
00:23:56,137 --> 00:23:59,344
and if we don't leave
the house in the next
two hours,

348
00:23:59,344 --> 00:24:00,379
it's gonna rain.

349
00:24:00,379 --> 00:24:03,172
- And I really wanted to--
- Baby I just made a

350
00:24:03,172 --> 00:24:04,862
- freakin bubble bath.
- And it's--

351
00:24:04,862 --> 00:24:08,724
- In the bath--
- You know, how hard
it is to say no to you.

352
00:24:10,551 --> 00:24:12,827
Why are you playing
so hard to get

353
00:24:17,586 --> 00:24:21,379
I know that Gino
wants to get me pregnant.

354
00:24:21,379 --> 00:24:24,551
<i>And I feel bad because
when it comes to sex,</i>

355
00:24:24,551 --> 00:24:26,241
<i>I've been avoided Gino.</i>

356
00:24:26,241 --> 00:24:29,275
I cannot think about
having a baby right now.

357
00:24:29,275 --> 00:24:31,586
<i>I'm scared of telling Gino
the truth,</i>

358
00:24:31,586 --> 00:24:34,482
because it's hard
to-- to be honest

359
00:24:34,482 --> 00:24:37,344
when you know that
that's gonna hurt
your partner.

360
00:24:37,344 --> 00:24:39,275
So...

361
00:24:39,275 --> 00:24:41,241
as much as
I want to be honest,

362
00:24:41,241 --> 00:24:43,965
I am very, very scared.

363
00:24:48,275 --> 00:24:50,344
Eventually, yeah,
we're gonna
have the quickie.

364
00:24:50,344 --> 00:24:53,172
I'm gonna feel you
all the [bleep] you like
on the jacuzzi.

365
00:24:53,172 --> 00:24:54,620
But not today.

366
00:25:00,896 --> 00:25:03,655
<i>♪ Something about
Feeling the sun ♪</i>

367
00:25:03,655 --> 00:25:06,275
<i>♪ The world
Is spinning around ♪</i>

368
00:25:06,275 --> 00:25:08,896
<i>♪ We could live
In this very moment ♪</i>

369
00:25:08,896 --> 00:25:11,103
<i>♪ Never come back down</i>

370
00:25:11,103 --> 00:25:12,896
Mommy needs one big,
good picture

371
00:25:12,896 --> 00:25:14,241
for her boo boo, okay?

372
00:25:16,482 --> 00:25:18,068
You wanna sit next to Asher?

373
00:25:18,068 --> 00:25:21,137
Okay, can you
sit over there, then?

374
00:25:21,137 --> 00:25:23,862
Okay. Can you look at me
and say cheese...

375
00:25:26,586 --> 00:25:27,758
Or not.

376
00:25:28,379 --> 00:25:31,000
<i>♪ Oh Oh live a little louder</i>

377
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,448
<i>♪ Oh Oh
Laugh a little longer ♪</i>

378
00:25:34,448 --> 00:25:35,896
When is Mommy
coming home?

379
00:25:35,896 --> 00:25:37,068
What day?

380
00:25:39,965 --> 00:25:41,689
Shabbat

381
00:25:41,689 --> 00:25:42,758
Right?

382
00:25:43,655 --> 00:25:44,793
Okay,
so you need to be

383
00:25:44,793 --> 00:25:46,517
really good for Abba, okay?

384
00:25:48,551 --> 00:25:49,965
<i>It's the morning
of my surgery,</i>

385
00:25:49,965 --> 00:25:52,034
and while this is definitely
what I want,

386
00:25:52,034 --> 00:25:53,172
I have some jitters.

387
00:25:53,172 --> 00:25:55,275
I'm about to go into
a major surgery.

388
00:25:55,275 --> 00:25:57,068
This is life changing.

389
00:25:57,068 --> 00:25:59,551
<i>Alexei is getting ready
to take the kids to daycare</i>

390
00:25:59,551 --> 00:26:02,172
<i>while I do some last minute
things around the house.</i>

391
00:26:02,172 --> 00:26:05,689
Last minute chores,
picking up a few things,

392
00:26:05,689 --> 00:26:07,482
keeping my mind occupied

393
00:26:07,482 --> 00:26:09,344
before I say goodbye
to my babies.

394
00:26:09,344 --> 00:26:11,344
Ooh.

395
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:13,758
Ari...

396
00:26:14,793 --> 00:26:16,344
I love you.

397
00:26:16,965 --> 00:26:18,517
You be a good girl.

398
00:26:19,172 --> 00:26:21,344
Give Mama a kiss, Ashie

399
00:26:22,758 --> 00:26:23,793
She's screaming--

400
00:26:23,793 --> 00:26:25,172
- I know.
- I got your shoes.

401
00:26:25,172 --> 00:26:26,586
Thank you for my shoes.

402
00:26:26,586 --> 00:26:28,241
Shiky is done.

403
00:26:29,482 --> 00:26:31,000
Okay, Shiky.

404
00:26:34,448 --> 00:26:36,344
You were
waiting for me.

405
00:26:36,344 --> 00:26:38,448
Okay. Let's wipe.
Wipe, Wipe.

406
00:26:40,379 --> 00:26:41,793
I'm gonna come back.

407
00:26:41,793 --> 00:26:43,103
Come on, let's go.

408
00:26:43,103 --> 00:26:44,137
Underwear. Hurry up!

409
00:26:45,655 --> 00:26:47,931
I'm gonna come back.
Okay, baby?

410
00:26:50,379 --> 00:26:52,172
I'll only be gone
for a few days

411
00:26:52,172 --> 00:26:53,586
while I recover at a hotel.

412
00:26:53,586 --> 00:26:55,482
<i>And the boys know
that the doctor</i>

413
00:26:55,482 --> 00:26:57,068
<i>is gonna be fixing
a boo boo.</i>

414
00:26:57,586 --> 00:26:58,931
<i>I'm scared.</i>

415
00:26:58,931 --> 00:27:01,758
<i>I have a role
and responsibility
to be their mama first.</i>

416
00:27:02,275 --> 00:27:03,793
<i>But I made this decision</i>

417
00:27:03,793 --> 00:27:07,034
<i>because I want
to look my best,
so I feel my best,</i>

418
00:27:07,034 --> 00:27:08,655
and that's what
I want them to see.

419
00:27:15,379 --> 00:27:17,172
Hmm. Good, boys.

420
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,379
You be good, okay?
Let's go.

421
00:27:20,379 --> 00:27:21,862
You're gonna
help Abba.

422
00:27:21,862 --> 00:27:24,275
Let me see those muscles.

423
00:27:24,275 --> 00:27:25,965
Oh, it's just junk.
Okay. Thank you.

424
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,000
I'll leave it
here, okay?

425
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,068
Okay,
you will pay with it.

426
00:27:32,068 --> 00:27:33,379
I will play with it.

427
00:27:33,379 --> 00:27:34,586
Ashie, come on.

428
00:27:34,586 --> 00:27:36,034
I love you.

429
00:27:36,034 --> 00:27:37,068
Bye.

430
00:27:45,551 --> 00:27:46,758
Okay.

431
00:27:51,862 --> 00:27:53,068
It's hard.

432
00:28:02,896 --> 00:28:04,551
It's hard.

433
00:28:04,551 --> 00:28:07,034
I didn't want my kids
to see me cry.

434
00:28:09,896 --> 00:28:12,068
<i>But it's hard because I know
when I get home</i>

435
00:28:12,068 --> 00:28:13,896
<i>I'm not gonna be able
to carry them,</i>

436
00:28:13,896 --> 00:28:16,448
and I'm not gonna see them
for a few days.

437
00:28:16,448 --> 00:28:19,344
But [gasps] like...

438
00:28:19,965 --> 00:28:21,655
I kind of just
want to put it

439
00:28:21,655 --> 00:28:23,724
all behind me already,
at this point.

440
00:28:25,793 --> 00:28:26,896
<i>I don't know like this</i>

441
00:28:26,896 --> 00:28:30,862
just made me realize
how happy I am doing it now.

442
00:28:30,862 --> 00:28:34,241
When they're older,
they're gonna
really understand,

443
00:28:34,241 --> 00:28:36,103
like they just--
Okay, bye.

444
00:28:36,103 --> 00:28:37,827
Bye mama. See ya.

445
00:28:39,379 --> 00:28:41,344
<i>I just I have to be
positive going.</i>

446
00:28:41,344 --> 00:28:43,965
<i>I cannot stress right now.
I really can't.</i>

447
00:28:52,896 --> 00:28:54,862
Babe.
Yeah.

448
00:28:55,655 --> 00:28:57,034
All right. That's it.

449
00:28:57,551 --> 00:28:58,517
Okay.

450
00:28:59,241 --> 00:29:00,793
How are you feeling?

451
00:29:00,793 --> 00:29:03,689
Um, I'm trying
to stay occupied

452
00:29:03,689 --> 00:29:06,103
by doing the rest
of the laundry.

453
00:29:13,655 --> 00:29:16,137
<i>So I'm having this
emotional moment</i>

454
00:29:16,137 --> 00:29:18,551
and I hear Alexei
blowing his nose.

455
00:29:18,551 --> 00:29:19,689
Cleaning his nose out.

456
00:29:19,689 --> 00:29:21,000
The whole building

457
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:22,827
could hear him
cleaning his nose out.

458
00:29:23,689 --> 00:29:25,689
I don't think I need
to defend myself on this.

459
00:29:25,689 --> 00:29:28,000
I gotta blow my nose.
I gotta blow my nose.

460
00:29:29,655 --> 00:29:31,758
If it's stuck deep,
you've gotta blow hard.

461
00:29:33,655 --> 00:29:37,034
What the hell.
What? You're washing
all the last towels now?

462
00:29:37,034 --> 00:29:39,137
Yes.
- There's no towels hanging.

463
00:29:39,137 --> 00:29:42,137
Guess what?
They're right
in the closet there.

464
00:29:42,137 --> 00:29:45,068
This is what you're gonna
have to do when I can't do it.

465
00:29:45,068 --> 00:29:47,655
You're gonna have to--
You don't know where
anything is like that.

466
00:29:47,655 --> 00:29:50,000
This house
is not that big, honey.

467
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,586
I can find the towels
if I need to. Okay?

468
00:29:52,586 --> 00:29:54,275
Once you called me
when you were on your phone.

469
00:29:54,275 --> 00:29:55,448
Where's my phone?

470
00:29:55,448 --> 00:29:57,689
Yes, by the way,
you're gonna be right here.

471
00:29:57,689 --> 00:30:00,724
It's not like I can't find it,
and I can't ask you.

472
00:30:02,034 --> 00:30:03,896
Okay.
- Are you done packing?

473
00:30:03,896 --> 00:30:06,241
Ah, yes. I need
to get chargers
and my medicine.

474
00:30:06,241 --> 00:30:08,551
And then my,
like, toiletries.

475
00:30:09,344 --> 00:30:10,724
How are you feeling?

476
00:30:15,862 --> 00:30:17,965
Yeah, I mean, I'm okay.

477
00:30:22,172 --> 00:30:24,862
Obviously, all of my concerns
for this surgery

478
00:30:24,862 --> 00:30:27,586
have not magically vanished
since last night.

479
00:30:27,586 --> 00:30:31,103
But Loren really does feel
like she needs the surgery

480
00:30:31,103 --> 00:30:34,000
<i>so she can feel
like a whole person again.</i>

481
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,241
<i>I know she really needs
my support.</i>

482
00:30:36,241 --> 00:30:37,965
<i>So I'm gonna
be there for her</i>

483
00:30:38,689 --> 00:30:40,482
positive and good thinking.

484
00:30:40,482 --> 00:30:41,862
And everything
will go well.

485
00:30:43,551 --> 00:30:46,655
I'm a little nervous,
but I'm here to support you.

486
00:30:46,655 --> 00:30:47,482
It's all good.

487
00:30:47,482 --> 00:30:48,862
We're gonna
get through the day.

488
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,689
Hottie with a body.

489
00:30:59,379 --> 00:31:01,103
I don't think I'll be happy
for a few weeks,

490
00:31:01,103 --> 00:31:02,758
You better be happy.

491
00:31:02,758 --> 00:31:04,413
I don't care.
You play happy.

492
00:31:07,896 --> 00:31:09,000
Okay.

493
00:31:09,689 --> 00:31:12,172
All right, let's go
get me a new body.

494
00:31:16,448 --> 00:31:17,586
It's happening.

495
00:31:17,586 --> 00:31:19,241
I'm going for my
mommy makeover

496
00:31:19,241 --> 00:31:21,620
that I've waited
so long for.

497
00:31:24,586 --> 00:31:27,344
This is a really
good thing for us.

498
00:31:27,344 --> 00:31:29,965
Individually, as a couple,
as a family.

499
00:31:30,965 --> 00:31:33,172
I'm not going to feel
uncomfortable anymore.

500
00:31:33,172 --> 00:31:36,103
As much as people were
very anti elective surgery,

501
00:31:36,103 --> 00:31:38,275
this is something
I want for myself,

502
00:31:38,275 --> 00:31:41,172
and I'm so excited
to finally do it.

503
00:31:41,172 --> 00:31:42,586
<i>I want to get into my zone.</i>

504
00:31:42,586 --> 00:31:45,034
And I feel like
once I walk into that office,

505
00:31:45,034 --> 00:31:46,689
I'll feel comfortable

506
00:31:46,689 --> 00:31:50,379
until they call my name
and they're like,
okay, let's go.

507
00:31:50,379 --> 00:31:52,275
Okay, I've got my
evil eye bag.

508
00:31:52,275 --> 00:31:55,448
Positive energy,
let's do this.

509
00:31:56,482 --> 00:31:58,448
God be with us.

510
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,551
I like these ones.

511
00:32:11,034 --> 00:32:12,586
Mmm-hmm.

512
00:32:12,586 --> 00:32:15,586
<i>I've definitely been
clairvoyant in the past.</i>

513
00:32:15,586 --> 00:32:17,000
I knew
that I was something

514
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,379
I just didn't know
the word for it.

515
00:32:18,379 --> 00:32:19,344
- Paranoid.
- I don't think--

516
00:32:19,344 --> 00:32:20,275
Paranoid is a word.

517
00:32:20,275 --> 00:32:21,689
No, I think it's--

518
00:32:21,689 --> 00:32:23,655
<i>like my dreams are like
something's warning me
about something.</i>

519
00:32:36,241 --> 00:32:39,482
Me and my dad, we've always
had a very good relationship.

520
00:32:39,482 --> 00:32:42,862
Yeah, he's a super dad,
but he also can be
super scary, too.

521
00:32:50,586 --> 00:32:52,000
<i>♪ And they use to color on
People's faces ♪</i>

522
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,275
<i>♪ But they see us together
When we walk in places ♪</i>

523
00:32:54,275 --> 00:32:57,034
<i>♪ Like a rainbow
Inside our room ♪</i>

524
00:32:57,034 --> 00:32:58,068
Here you go.

525
00:32:58,068 --> 00:32:59,344
Found some boots for you.

526
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,068
Yeah, they're my size.

527
00:33:01,068 --> 00:33:02,000
They're kind of cute.

528
00:33:03,448 --> 00:33:05,275
<i>♪ Baby,
Let's make them jealous ♪</i>

529
00:33:05,275 --> 00:33:08,103
<i>♪ Oh, make everybody
Else envious ♪</i>

530
00:33:12,793 --> 00:33:14,000
It's hot.

531
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,448
Texas-- It's like probably
a 100 degrees out here today.

532
00:33:18,379 --> 00:33:20,034
Sophie moved back
in a few days ago,

533
00:33:20,034 --> 00:33:22,655
and I think things have been
going a lot better.

534
00:33:27,275 --> 00:33:28,344
I am not dripping.

535
00:33:30,689 --> 00:33:32,103
<i>I really like
flea markets,</i>

536
00:33:32,103 --> 00:33:34,448
and I know
Sophie likes to shop.

537
00:33:34,448 --> 00:33:37,689
You know, a flea market
is better than taking you
to the mall.

538
00:33:37,689 --> 00:33:38,758
- You know.
- Is it?

539
00:33:39,862 --> 00:33:42,137
It is in the fun department.

540
00:33:42,137 --> 00:33:44,206
It's in the interesting
department.

541
00:33:50,275 --> 00:33:51,551
There you go.

542
00:33:52,448 --> 00:33:54,379
That's just your outfit.

543
00:33:54,379 --> 00:33:55,965
- So stick that--
- It's kind of fashion--

544
00:33:55,965 --> 00:33:57,413
Stick that on top.

545
00:33:59,896 --> 00:34:01,172
You're not funny.

546
00:34:01,172 --> 00:34:04,172
<i>We don't have
flea markets in England.</i>

547
00:34:04,172 --> 00:34:05,172
It's like,
it's kind of just like

548
00:34:05,172 --> 00:34:08,241
an outdoor mall with,
like secondhand stuff.

549
00:34:09,965 --> 00:34:12,448
That kind of sounds
like a flea market.

550
00:34:12,448 --> 00:34:13,758
I mean,
I would be surprised

551
00:34:13,758 --> 00:34:15,448
if there were no
flea markets in London.

552
00:34:15,448 --> 00:34:18,206
I think maybe you just
haven't ever been
in that part of town.

553
00:34:20,379 --> 00:34:21,862
Yeah, probably not.

554
00:34:29,689 --> 00:34:31,448
Hey.
Hey, what's going on?

555
00:34:33,275 --> 00:34:34,689
I like these ones.

556
00:34:34,689 --> 00:34:36,379
It's almost
heart shaped, too.

557
00:34:36,379 --> 00:34:37,758
Yeah?
Yeah.

558
00:34:43,551 --> 00:34:44,758
I think I'm drawn
to this one.

559
00:34:57,896 --> 00:34:58,862
Oh, okay.

560
00:34:58,862 --> 00:34:59,965
It matches
your outfit.

561
00:34:59,965 --> 00:35:01,068
Protect.

562
00:35:03,275 --> 00:35:04,241
Mmm-hmm

563
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,137
Oh, okay.
I'll have, like a dream.

564
00:35:07,137 --> 00:35:09,758
About something and then like
it will happen the next day.

565
00:35:13,586 --> 00:35:15,862
That's true.
See, I'd be knowing things

566
00:35:15,862 --> 00:35:17,172
before I even know them.

567
00:35:17,172 --> 00:35:18,344
Uh-huh.

568
00:35:28,655 --> 00:35:30,965
<i>I've definitely been
clairvoyant in the past.</i>

569
00:35:30,965 --> 00:35:32,482
His online cheating
and I had a dream.

570
00:35:32,482 --> 00:35:36,827
And then he did,
like, it is definitely
like clairvoyancy, I guess.

571
00:35:37,689 --> 00:35:40,310
Do you even know
what that meant before today,

572
00:35:40,862 --> 00:35:42,172
I knew that was something

573
00:35:42,172 --> 00:35:43,586
I shouldn't know
the word for it.

574
00:35:43,586 --> 00:35:44,655
- Paranoid.
- I don't think--

575
00:35:44,655 --> 00:35:46,034
Paranoid is a word.

576
00:35:46,034 --> 00:35:48,000
No, I think it's like
my dreams are like
something's warning me

577
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:49,275
about something to try
and tell me

578
00:35:49,275 --> 00:35:50,620
Honestly, I don't really
have nice dreams.

579
00:35:51,241 --> 00:35:52,586
Group A best.

580
00:35:54,551 --> 00:35:57,965
What would you suggest
for helping improve
like relationships?

581
00:35:57,965 --> 00:35:59,172
Like communicating.

582
00:36:00,275 --> 00:36:01,413
Do you think so?

583
00:36:13,586 --> 00:36:15,689
We bicker constantly,

584
00:36:15,689 --> 00:36:17,275
and he doesn't listen to me.

585
00:36:17,275 --> 00:36:20,275
- And he-- doesn't listen--
- What don't I listen to you?

586
00:36:20,275 --> 00:36:21,689
- You don't listen to me.
- Name one thing
that I don't listen.

587
00:36:21,689 --> 00:36:23,172
You don't listen
or understand.

588
00:36:26,275 --> 00:36:27,241
Yeah.

589
00:36:31,965 --> 00:36:32,931
Hmm.

590
00:36:33,965 --> 00:36:35,172
He already did that.

591
00:36:35,172 --> 00:36:37,896
And his grievances to me
was just I'm messy.

592
00:36:37,896 --> 00:36:40,344
If I wrote a list
of my grievances to him,

593
00:36:40,344 --> 00:36:42,655
it would be like 50,
like serious things.

594
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,275
So we--

595
00:36:45,275 --> 00:36:48,103
I wrote down
the most basic things,

596
00:36:48,103 --> 00:36:50,034
- the most basic things--
- Yeah, but I am saying
yours chores list.

597
00:36:50,034 --> 00:36:52,482
But if exactly
we could go on and on, too.

598
00:36:52,482 --> 00:36:53,896
But I'm not
going to say all that.

599
00:36:53,896 --> 00:36:55,586
I think you try
to win the argument

600
00:36:55,586 --> 00:36:57,379
rather than for us
to fix the problems.

601
00:36:57,379 --> 00:36:59,275
That's the single
mindedness

602
00:36:59,275 --> 00:37:00,931
that he's stuck on that.

603
00:37:06,344 --> 00:37:07,310
Yeah.

604
00:37:10,275 --> 00:37:11,241
Yeah.

605
00:37:35,103 --> 00:37:36,068
Yeah

606
00:37:40,241 --> 00:37:42,206
Whatever helps
the relationship.

607
00:37:44,068 --> 00:37:46,655
I appreciate what he's
saying about
the relationship advice.

608
00:37:46,655 --> 00:37:49,896
<i>I mean, overall things
have been good between us,</i>

609
00:37:49,896 --> 00:37:53,586
but I would say that
Sophie and I probably
need a little more

610
00:37:53,586 --> 00:37:56,172
<i>than just some crystals
to help us in the long run.</i>

611
00:37:56,172 --> 00:37:58,793
He feels like
a wise like old owl.

612
00:37:58,793 --> 00:38:01,068
- Yeah.
- I think his advice
is good.

613
00:38:01,068 --> 00:38:03,448
We definitely need
to explore other avenues

614
00:38:03,448 --> 00:38:06,000
<i>when it comes to communication
and listening to each other.</i>

615
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,206
Because clearly
what we're doing
is just not working.

616
00:38:09,793 --> 00:38:11,000
Glad you stopped by.

617
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,172
Thank you, Doug.
You're real cool people, man.

618
00:38:13,172 --> 00:38:14,275
I'm gonna definitely
keep you in mind.

619
00:38:14,275 --> 00:38:16,103
Come back
and get another one.

620
00:38:18,896 --> 00:38:21,034
Yeah. We need to cleanse
the house and all that too.

621
00:38:22,068 --> 00:38:23,448
I appreciate that.
All right, Doug.

622
00:38:24,344 --> 00:38:26,275
- Have a good day.
- You too.

623
00:38:26,275 --> 00:38:28,965
<i>I think
the flea market was definitely
worth the trip.</i>

624
00:38:28,965 --> 00:38:30,379
You got life advice
from Doug.

625
00:38:30,379 --> 00:38:32,482
So you probably
won't find that at the mall.

626
00:38:48,586 --> 00:38:50,172
Let's go sit over there
on the bench.

627
00:38:50,172 --> 00:38:52,034
- Okay?
- For the picnic table.

628
00:38:52,965 --> 00:38:54,241
Come on,

629
00:39:05,172 --> 00:39:06,413
There you go.

630
00:39:16,172 --> 00:39:19,034
We're meeting
my dad for the first time
in two years

631
00:39:23,689 --> 00:39:25,172
Now I'm so excited.

632
00:39:26,655 --> 00:39:29,758
Just sit with her
and I'll push you guys.

633
00:39:29,758 --> 00:39:31,275
<i>Me and my dad
we've always</i>

634
00:39:31,275 --> 00:39:33,689
<i>had a very good
relationship,</i>

635
00:39:33,689 --> 00:39:36,448
it's like we always
talk every single day.

636
00:39:36,448 --> 00:39:38,517
I'm definitely
a daddy's girl.

637
00:39:51,172 --> 00:39:52,448
Look at this.

638
00:39:53,137 --> 00:39:55,000
Oh, he's
already crying.

639
00:41:17,896 --> 00:41:19,241
Yeah, let's sit down

640
00:41:20,344 --> 00:41:22,103
Seeing my dad
for the very first time

641
00:41:22,103 --> 00:41:23,137
after two years.

642
00:41:23,137 --> 00:41:25,551
I am just so emotional.

643
00:41:25,551 --> 00:41:27,275
It's an amazing feeling.

644
00:41:27,275 --> 00:41:31,000
It was like missing
and, you know, exciting

645
00:41:31,896 --> 00:41:35,103
and just excited to see him
with my daughter.

646
00:42:03,689 --> 00:42:05,172
My dad
never forgot my birthday.

647
00:42:05,172 --> 00:42:07,862
Never like every
single year like he--

648
00:42:07,862 --> 00:42:12,655
The first one that
calls, my daughter
happy birthday.

649
00:42:12,655 --> 00:42:16,379
Yeah, he's a super dad,
but he also can be
super scary, too.

650
00:42:16,379 --> 00:42:18,862
<i>I mean, Carlos has pretty much
ignoring me right now,</i>

651
00:42:19,586 --> 00:42:21,862
and that makes me
even more nervous.

652
00:42:21,862 --> 00:42:24,068
<i>And I know I have
to make things right,</i>

653
00:42:24,068 --> 00:42:26,206
<i>but I really don't know
what to do.</i>

654
00:42:45,586 --> 00:42:46,655
Mm-hmm.

655
00:43:16,586 --> 00:43:19,413
Probably, we do
need time to think.

656
00:43:40,793 --> 00:43:41,758
Come on.

657
00:43:42,689 --> 00:43:44,068
This doesn't really work.

658
00:43:52,068 --> 00:43:54,103
<i>♪ I'll never know</i>

659
00:43:55,103 --> 00:43:57,172
<i>♪ I'll never know</i>

660
00:43:58,103 --> 00:43:59,448
I'm gonna
make you some tea.

661
00:44:00,172 --> 00:44:01,344
All right?

662
00:44:01,344 --> 00:44:03,000
And I want you
to go get in the bed.

663
00:44:13,068 --> 00:44:14,793
<i>So, I have Mahmoud back home,</i>

664
00:44:14,793 --> 00:44:16,655
<i>and it is such a relief
to have him here</i>

665
00:44:16,655 --> 00:44:18,344
<i>and off of the streets.</i>

666
00:44:19,034 --> 00:44:20,793
<i>All of the chaos</i>

667
00:44:20,793 --> 00:44:22,793
in the last few days
has me thinking

668
00:44:22,793 --> 00:44:24,793
that everything's
kind of doomed.

669
00:44:24,793 --> 00:44:26,862
But this isn't the first time
I've thought that.

670
00:44:27,862 --> 00:44:29,793
<i>And tonight,
chasing him down the street,</i>

671
00:44:29,793 --> 00:44:31,344
<i>trying to find him,</i>

672
00:44:31,344 --> 00:44:33,862
<i>I'm mad as hell
and frustrated,</i>

673
00:44:33,862 --> 00:44:35,241
<i>but I still love him.</i>

674
00:44:36,275 --> 00:44:37,896
So, I mean,
maybe past the anger,

675
00:44:37,896 --> 00:44:39,275
there's some hope.

676
00:44:39,275 --> 00:44:41,137
So maybe if I just calm down,

677
00:44:41,137 --> 00:44:43,137
I'll kind of know
what I need to do.

678
00:44:44,551 --> 00:44:46,000
Mahmoud, help me, please.

679
00:44:48,896 --> 00:44:49,862
Thank you.

680
00:45:01,965 --> 00:45:03,068
Mahmoud.

681
00:45:05,689 --> 00:45:07,241
Why you have
to take off like that

682
00:45:07,241 --> 00:45:08,655
two nights in a row?

683
00:45:12,034 --> 00:45:14,448
You told me
at least 20 different times

684
00:45:14,448 --> 00:45:15,620
you wanted a divorce.

685
00:45:20,655 --> 00:45:21,896
No, I brought my friends over

686
00:45:21,896 --> 00:45:23,344
because they wanted
to meet you.

687
00:45:33,103 --> 00:45:34,172
Mahmoud! Like--

688
00:45:34,172 --> 00:45:36,103
So what? Like, I keep
alcohol in the freezer.

689
00:45:36,103 --> 00:45:38,034
When people come over,
that's what you offer.

690
00:45:38,034 --> 00:45:40,551
- So--
- And you can't tell me
I can't be American.

691
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:43,379
And you're going
to have to learn

692
00:45:43,379 --> 00:45:45,586
how to be Muslim here, okay?

693
00:45:45,586 --> 00:45:47,689
- I--
- And just because
you don't participate in it

694
00:45:47,689 --> 00:45:49,758
doesn't mean
that it doesn't exist.

695
00:46:17,275 --> 00:46:19,758
Last four years,
I've tried extremely hard.

696
00:46:19,758 --> 00:46:21,586
- I know you did a lot.
- I've tried to adapt.

697
00:46:21,586 --> 00:46:23,448
- Not saying--
- I've tried to change.

698
00:46:23,448 --> 00:46:25,103
I tried to do everything.
You knew, and you never--

699
00:46:25,103 --> 00:46:27,827
I never saw the same
on your side.

700
00:46:28,758 --> 00:46:30,758
- Right?
- No, I changed a lot, Nicole.

701
00:46:33,586 --> 00:46:35,000
But, like, after what happened
last night,

702
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:36,137
I don't feel in love

703
00:46:36,137 --> 00:46:37,931
or any, like, respect.

704
00:46:38,965 --> 00:46:40,620
From-- Yeah.

705
00:46:43,758 --> 00:46:45,482
<i>Before he came
to America,</i>

706
00:46:45,482 --> 00:46:48,000
Mahmoud said that he would

707
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:51,896
<i>give his best effort
to embrace life here.</i>

708
00:46:51,896 --> 00:46:54,379
And then he just kind of
went right back

709
00:46:54,379 --> 00:46:57,551
to the way he was

710
00:46:57,551 --> 00:46:58,724
before we had the talk.

711
00:46:59,896 --> 00:47:02,172
<i>You know, me and Mahmoud,
we love each other,</i>

712
00:47:02,172 --> 00:47:04,896
<i>but we have this baggage</i>

713
00:47:04,896 --> 00:47:07,551
that we don't know
how to kind of, um...

714
00:47:08,586 --> 00:47:10,103
work it out.

715
00:47:10,103 --> 00:47:11,931
<i>Because it's always
getting in the way</i>

716
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:14,344
on both sides.

717
00:47:18,241 --> 00:47:21,137
Probably we do need
time to think,

718
00:47:22,586 --> 00:47:24,344
'cause I just don't think
it's healthy for either of us

719
00:47:24,344 --> 00:47:25,413
to be...

720
00:47:26,379 --> 00:47:28,551
going through this
day in and day out.

721
00:47:33,551 --> 00:47:36,172
Yes, this is why
I don't want to leave now.

722
00:47:38,275 --> 00:47:39,241
So...

723
00:47:40,275 --> 00:47:42,862
I will stay here
for just a few days

724
00:47:42,862 --> 00:47:43,862
um,

725
00:47:44,896 --> 00:47:47,965
before I decide
to leave or what.

726
00:47:50,482 --> 00:47:52,275
So it's fine you can stay here

727
00:47:52,275 --> 00:47:54,965
until you can figure out
what your plan is.

728
00:47:54,965 --> 00:47:55,965
Like if you still have hope

729
00:47:55,965 --> 00:47:58,344
that... maybe we can
work it out.

730
00:47:58,344 --> 00:47:59,275
Mmm.

731
00:47:59,275 --> 00:48:01,103
Or if you want to go to Egypt,

732
00:48:01,103 --> 00:48:02,482
or what it is
that you want to do

733
00:48:02,482 --> 00:48:03,965
with your life, okay?

734
00:48:03,965 --> 00:48:06,068
Okay,
thank you for that.
- You have a place to stay.

735
00:48:06,068 --> 00:48:07,413
- Thank you.
- All right?

736
00:48:09,379 --> 00:48:10,965
I'm not going to share
a bed with you.

737
00:48:12,586 --> 00:48:14,724
In the living room, you can
have your own space.

738
00:48:15,586 --> 00:48:16,724
There's no fighting.

739
00:48:17,344 --> 00:48:18,551
House rules.

740
00:48:19,482 --> 00:48:23,413
I'm not going to try
to bother you when I'm here.

741
00:48:23,965 --> 00:48:25,344
- Okay?
- Okay.

742
00:48:56,344 --> 00:48:57,482
Thank you.

743
00:48:57,482 --> 00:48:59,068
You're welcome.
You need another pillow?

744
00:48:59,068 --> 00:49:00,379
No, I'm good.

745
00:49:00,379 --> 00:49:01,275
Okay, good night.

746
00:49:01,275 --> 00:49:02,379
Good night.

747
00:49:38,758 --> 00:49:40,965
Don't talk to me, Manuel.

748
00:49:50,655 --> 00:49:51,965
<i>♪ Out of my mind
Going insane ♪</i>

749
00:49:51,965 --> 00:49:54,000
<i>♪ It's got me out of my mind</i>

750
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,413
<i>♪ Going insane</i>

751
00:49:56,827 --> 00:49:58,206
<i>♪ Going insane</i>

752
00:49:58,206 --> 00:49:59,965
<i>♪ It's got me out of my mind</i>

753
00:50:00,344 --> 00:50:01,206
<i>♪ Going insane</i>

754
00:50:01,206 --> 00:50:03,517
<i>♪ I'm not even gonna trip</i>

755
00:50:03,517 --> 00:50:04,517
<i>♪ Trip-trip</i>

756
00:50:04,517 --> 00:50:06,344
<i>♪ I just try to get a grip</i>

757
00:50:06,344 --> 00:50:07,827
<i>♪ Grip-grip</i>

758
00:50:07,827 --> 00:50:09,689
<i>♪ I'm not even gonna trip</i>

759
00:50:09,689 --> 00:50:10,896
<i>♪ Trip-trip</i>

760
00:50:10,896 --> 00:50:12,896
<i>♪ I just gotta get a grip</i>

761
00:50:12,896 --> 00:50:14,413
<i>♪ Grip-grip</i>

762
00:50:18,068 --> 00:50:20,413
I'm really irritated
right now,

763
00:50:20,413 --> 00:50:21,724
to be honest with you.

764
00:50:23,448 --> 00:50:25,137
Manuel left this morning.

765
00:50:25,620 --> 00:50:27,000
I was in my sleep.

766
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:28,379
I heard him on the phone,

767
00:50:28,758 --> 00:50:31,000
like, <i>"Démelo",</i>

768
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:32,758
which is like, "Talk to me",

769
00:50:33,413 --> 00:50:34,551
"Tell me."

770
00:50:34,965 --> 00:50:36,448
And then he was gone.

771
00:50:37,620 --> 00:50:38,896
And then...

772
00:50:39,344 --> 00:50:41,206
I waited like, an hour.

773
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:43,724
No text message, no nothing.

774
00:50:44,482 --> 00:50:45,517
I call him

775
00:50:45,517 --> 00:50:47,758
and he's grabbing breakfast

776
00:50:47,758 --> 00:50:49,310
with [bleep] Jonathan.

777
00:50:49,689 --> 00:50:50,724
And I'm just like,

778
00:50:50,724 --> 00:50:52,655
"Just send me a text message.

779
00:50:52,655 --> 00:50:54,896
Let me know what you're doing
and where you're going.

780
00:50:56,517 --> 00:50:57,862
Give me a heads up.

781
00:50:57,862 --> 00:51:00,379
Don't just leave me
in the [bleep] dark."

782
00:51:00,379 --> 00:51:03,034
This is where my issue lies.

783
00:51:03,034 --> 00:51:05,206
Communicate with your wife.

784
00:51:05,206 --> 00:51:08,206
He tries to pull this card,
like he can't do anything.

785
00:51:08,206 --> 00:51:10,896
It's not that
you can't do anything.

786
00:51:10,896 --> 00:51:13,034
Just communicate
with your wife.

787
00:51:14,241 --> 00:51:16,344
You say you want
to be married.

788
00:51:16,344 --> 00:51:19,000
You say you want
a lifelong relationship.

789
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,965
But are you willing
to put in...

790
00:51:21,965 --> 00:51:24,379
the time, work,
effort, and energy

791
00:51:24,379 --> 00:51:28,310
that it requires to create
a healthy marriage?

792
00:51:28,310 --> 00:51:30,000
'Cause one thing I will say is

793
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:33,724
I am not going to be
in an unhealthy relationship.

794
00:51:34,068 --> 00:51:35,137
Period.

795
00:51:35,586 --> 00:51:36,551
Period.

796
00:53:19,413 --> 00:53:21,000
Ooh-la-la-la-la.

797
00:54:11,862 --> 00:54:13,482
Okay?

798
00:54:13,482 --> 00:54:15,620
Okay. Okay.
Okay.

799
00:54:15,620 --> 00:54:18,172
I'm not talking to you!

800
00:54:50,034 --> 00:54:51,137
Don't talk to me.

801
00:54:51,137 --> 00:54:52,827
No. I don't want
to talk to you.

802
00:54:52,827 --> 00:54:54,758
Get away from me.
Get away from me.

803
00:54:55,137 --> 00:54:56,448
Get away from me.

804
00:55:02,172 --> 00:55:03,137
Manuel.

805
00:55:19,068 --> 00:55:20,551
<i>I feel like
he creates problems</i>

806
00:55:20,551 --> 00:55:22,034
<i>and then blames them on me.</i>

807
00:55:22,034 --> 00:55:23,448
<i>I feel like he, like,</i>

808
00:55:23,896 --> 00:55:26,241
almost sabotaged this,

809
00:55:26,241 --> 00:55:28,482
so that he can go do
what he wants to do.

810
00:55:29,551 --> 00:55:32,620
<i>Because, like, he wanted
to be here without me,</i>

811
00:55:32,620 --> 00:55:34,413
and now he's got his wish.

812
00:56:11,413 --> 00:56:12,517
Oh, my God.

813
00:56:12,517 --> 00:56:13,896
Who's my little baby?

814
00:56:14,827 --> 00:56:17,482
Who's my [babbling]?

815
00:56:17,482 --> 00:56:20,241
This is
the most exciting birthday

816
00:56:20,241 --> 00:56:21,724
I have ever had.

817
00:56:21,724 --> 00:56:23,965
But I have
to tell you something.

818
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:37,068
This is the first time seeing
Carlos in over two years,

819
00:56:37,068 --> 00:56:39,310
and it doesn't seem like
time has changed

820
00:56:39,310 --> 00:56:40,965
anyway he feels about me.

821
00:56:57,620 --> 00:56:58,758
It's hot.

822
00:56:58,758 --> 00:56:59,689
You're hot, baby.

823
00:56:59,689 --> 00:57:01,344
I love it out here.

824
00:57:10,034 --> 00:57:11,000
Is that a pigeon?

825
00:57:11,448 --> 00:57:12,413
What the heck?

826
00:57:13,862 --> 00:57:16,620
I know that Jasmine loves,

827
00:57:16,620 --> 00:57:18,000
loves a beach

828
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:19,344
and alligators.

829
00:57:19,344 --> 00:57:21,413
And I want to do
something amazing

830
00:57:21,413 --> 00:57:22,655
<i>for her birthday.</i>

831
00:57:22,655 --> 00:57:25,862
<i>So I have plans
to take her to the beach</i>

832
00:57:25,862 --> 00:57:28,344
and also to see
some alligators

833
00:57:28,344 --> 00:57:30,482
or try to see some alligators.

834
00:57:30,482 --> 00:57:33,413
I just want
to make her feel happy again.

835
00:57:33,413 --> 00:57:34,931
<i>I love it, baby.</i>

836
00:57:35,896 --> 00:57:38,172
<i>The sunshine,</i>

837
00:57:38,172 --> 00:57:40,862
<i>the clear blue sky.</i>

838
00:57:40,862 --> 00:57:42,586
If I close my eyes

839
00:57:42,586 --> 00:57:46,000
while I'm walking on the sand,

840
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:49,586
I can feel
like I'm in Panama.

841
00:57:55,068 --> 00:57:56,137
Really?

842
00:57:58,413 --> 00:58:01,413
When I was a kid--
I'll tell you something crazy,

843
00:58:01,413 --> 00:58:04,793
I used to love,
enjoy collecting insects.

844
00:58:07,620 --> 00:58:08,620
Insect?

845
00:58:08,620 --> 00:58:09,655
You're kidding.

846
00:58:10,551 --> 00:58:11,689
Spiders,

847
00:58:11,689 --> 00:58:12,758
bees,

848
00:58:13,275 --> 00:58:14,241
ants.

849
00:58:15,241 --> 00:58:16,793
I would collect them

850
00:58:16,793 --> 00:58:19,310
and put bees in an aquarium,
watch them fight.

851
00:58:19,310 --> 00:58:21,448
I'd catch spiders,
put them in a jar,

852
00:58:21,448 --> 00:58:23,344
a bunch of them together,
watch them fight.

853
00:58:23,344 --> 00:58:24,931
That's actually what...

854
00:58:25,275 --> 00:58:27,206
serial killers do.

855
00:58:27,206 --> 00:58:29,586
Serial killer? You think
I'm a serial killer?

856
00:58:54,655 --> 00:58:56,344
What is that?

857
00:58:56,344 --> 00:58:58,172
Wow.

858
00:58:58,172 --> 00:58:59,827
Is that a alligator head?

859
00:58:59,827 --> 00:59:01,000
Or a crocodile?

860
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:02,034
Yes, ma'am.

861
00:59:03,931 --> 00:59:05,275
This is an alligator.

862
00:59:05,275 --> 00:59:07,724
I have heard
that alligators are
very friendly.

863
00:59:07,724 --> 00:59:08,655
Yeah, well, they are more--

864
00:59:08,655 --> 00:59:10,000
I wouldn't say
they are friendly.

865
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:11,137
Not-- Not friendly.

866
00:59:11,137 --> 00:59:13,448
They are more docile.
They are not as aggressive.

867
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:15,448
Can I kiss it?

868
00:59:15,448 --> 00:59:17,068
It's up to you.

869
00:59:20,862 --> 00:59:21,724
Okay, if you're ready

870
00:59:21,724 --> 00:59:22,965
to take a tour
in the Everglades,

871
00:59:22,965 --> 00:59:24,379
so we'll see what we can
find out there.

872
00:59:24,379 --> 00:59:25,551
- Yeah, let's do it.
- Yes.

873
00:59:25,551 --> 00:59:27,206
Let's cross our fingers

874
00:59:27,206 --> 00:59:29,448
that alligators will
come out.
I'm ready.

875
00:59:30,793 --> 00:59:32,827
Don't think
that alligators are
so friendly,

876
00:59:32,827 --> 00:59:35,448
because you might end up
losing your hand.

877
00:59:36,862 --> 00:59:39,000
This one, right?
Yes, ma'am.

878
00:59:40,517 --> 00:59:43,000
If you really love me,
you will protect me.

879
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:45,241
Well,
if Jasmine uses

880
00:59:45,241 --> 00:59:46,793
her powerful voice,

881
00:59:46,793 --> 00:59:50,275
she will scare
any alligator away in seconds.

882
00:59:50,275 --> 00:59:52,827
<i>I have
a very delicate voice.</i>

883
00:59:52,827 --> 00:59:54,103
Feminine.

884
00:59:54,862 --> 00:59:56,000
Powerful.

885
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:57,482
Powerful voice.

886
01:00:11,172 --> 01:00:12,551
Yeah.

887
01:00:27,068 --> 01:00:28,689
Oh, my gosh, look.

888
01:00:29,862 --> 01:00:31,482
Oh, my goodness.

889
01:00:31,482 --> 01:00:32,655
Wait, wait, wait.

890
01:00:32,655 --> 01:00:34,000
See him coming down the trail?

891
01:00:36,068 --> 01:00:37,344
Wow.
This is happening.

892
01:00:44,206 --> 01:00:46,137
This is a big male.
He's getting right at 10 feet.

893
01:00:49,896 --> 01:00:50,931
Oh, my God.

894
01:00:55,310 --> 01:00:56,310
Mmm.

895
01:00:56,310 --> 01:00:57,586
Who's my little baby?

896
01:00:58,965 --> 01:01:02,034
You are the most
beautiful creature
I have ever seen.

897
01:01:02,034 --> 01:01:03,241
I love you.

898
01:01:06,586 --> 01:01:08,586
This is
such an amazing experience.

899
01:01:08,586 --> 01:01:11,379
Like, this is
the most exciting birthday

900
01:01:11,379 --> 01:01:12,724
I have ever had.

901
01:01:12,724 --> 01:01:14,000
I'm so happy to hear that.

902
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,344
I never
thought of this.

903
01:01:19,551 --> 01:01:20,551
Mm-hmm.

904
01:01:22,068 --> 01:01:24,793
But I have
to tell you something.

905
01:01:25,827 --> 01:01:27,206
Okay.

906
01:01:27,206 --> 01:01:31,000
Leandro had
this crazy idea

907
01:01:31,965 --> 01:01:32,931
of...

908
01:01:33,413 --> 01:01:34,551
signing me up

909
01:01:34,551 --> 01:01:36,896
for a beauty pageant workshop

910
01:01:36,896 --> 01:01:38,103
- because-- Yeah.
- Oh, really?

911
01:01:38,103 --> 01:01:40,000
- Beauty pageant workshop?
- You weren't up in yesterday,

912
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,275
and we were talking.

913
01:01:41,275 --> 01:01:42,689
And I explained to him,

914
01:01:42,689 --> 01:01:46,448
like, how all this situation
with my children affected

915
01:01:46,448 --> 01:01:47,965
- my alopecia--
- Uh-huh.

916
01:01:47,965 --> 01:01:49,517
...and the way
that I see myself.

917
01:01:49,517 --> 01:01:53,655
And I'm having, like,
low self-esteem issues.

918
01:01:54,517 --> 01:01:56,344
And he was saying
that what I need is

919
01:01:56,344 --> 01:01:58,931
to focus my energy
on other things.

920
01:02:00,068 --> 01:02:02,344
<i>I spoke to Leandro,</i>

921
01:02:02,344 --> 01:02:03,793
<i>and he is very aware</i>

922
01:02:03,793 --> 01:02:06,862
<i>that I'm actually dealing
with depression.</i>

923
01:02:06,862 --> 01:02:09,379
My alopecia has gotten worse.

924
01:02:09,379 --> 01:02:11,206
I don't feel pretty.

925
01:02:11,206 --> 01:02:13,068
I don't feel sexy.

926
01:02:54,620 --> 01:02:57,000
I trust on Leandro's judgment,

927
01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:59,517
<i>and I want to do
something for myself</i>

928
01:02:59,517 --> 01:03:03,000
to give, like, a boost
to my happiness

929
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,000
<i>and to get my confidence back.</i>

930
01:03:07,379 --> 01:03:10,896
He knows the person that hosts

931
01:03:10,896 --> 01:03:13,068
this beauty pageant workshop.

932
01:03:19,965 --> 01:03:21,034
Mm-hmm.

933
01:03:23,413 --> 01:03:24,586
It's just,

934
01:03:24,586 --> 01:03:26,379
you know, and--
at the beginning,

935
01:03:26,379 --> 01:03:27,551
I was hesitant, but--

936
01:03:27,551 --> 01:03:29,551
You in a beauty pageant?

937
01:03:29,551 --> 01:03:30,586
That would be pretty.

938
01:03:30,586 --> 01:03:32,896
I thought that you were
going to be against it.

939
01:03:34,379 --> 01:03:36,551
No! I would love to see you
in a beauty pageant.

940
01:03:37,655 --> 01:03:39,793
You have
a top-notch personality.

941
01:03:39,793 --> 01:03:40,862
You're very smart.

942
01:03:40,862 --> 01:03:43,758
You're a-- you know,
very beautiful woman,

943
01:03:43,758 --> 01:03:44,896
very much in shape.

944
01:03:44,896 --> 01:03:47,034
You could easily win
the beauty pageant.

945
01:03:47,034 --> 01:03:49,965
Thank you for having
so much faith in me, but...

946
01:03:50,310 --> 01:03:52,103
it's tomorrow.

947
01:03:52,103 --> 01:03:53,413
- Tomorrow?
- Tomorrow.

948
01:03:53,413 --> 01:03:55,689
- What's tomorrow?
- The workshop, you know?

949
01:03:55,689 --> 01:03:56,931
- Oh, workshop.
- It's a workshop.

950
01:03:56,931 --> 01:03:59,482
It's in Fort Lauderdale.

951
01:03:59,482 --> 01:04:00,931
Not that far.

952
01:04:00,931 --> 01:04:02,068
That's-- okay,
that's excellent.

953
01:04:02,068 --> 01:04:03,827
So we should do that then.

954
01:04:04,379 --> 01:04:05,724
I love you, baby.

955
01:04:07,448 --> 01:04:08,931
Okay, if you think you're
ready, why don't you take

956
01:04:08,931 --> 01:04:10,241
a few more last pictures,
and then we're going--

957
01:04:10,241 --> 01:04:12,068
- Okay.
- ...to get out of here
before it turns dark on us.

958
01:04:12,068 --> 01:04:13,517
How's that sound?
Okay.

959
01:04:13,517 --> 01:04:14,931
Say "Sneaky".

960
01:04:14,931 --> 01:04:16,620
Sneaky!

961
01:04:19,206 --> 01:04:21,689
Jasmine's state of mind has
affected me,

962
01:04:21,689 --> 01:04:22,724
our marriage,

963
01:04:23,103 --> 01:04:24,448
and our sex life.

964
01:04:26,620 --> 01:04:30,000
<i>So if going to this
beauty pageant workshop is</i>

965
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:32,758
going to drag Jasmine
out of her depression

966
01:04:32,758 --> 01:04:33,931
<i>and make her happy again,</i>

967
01:04:33,931 --> 01:04:34,965
<i>then I could see this...</i>

968
01:04:35,586 --> 01:04:37,586
possibly helping our intimacy.

969
01:04:38,241 --> 01:04:39,689
<i>Because...</i>

970
01:04:39,689 --> 01:04:42,965
<i>the fact that Jasmine's,
you know, down on herself,</i>

971
01:04:42,965 --> 01:04:45,517
it does have a big impact,
really, on...

972
01:04:46,586 --> 01:04:48,724
us having a baby or not.

973
01:05:33,310 --> 01:05:34,862
<i>This is
the first time seeing Carlos</i>

974
01:05:34,862 --> 01:05:36,068
<i>in over two years,</i>

975
01:05:36,068 --> 01:05:37,655
and it doesn't seem like time

976
01:05:37,655 --> 01:05:40,931
or his beautiful granddaughter
has changed

977
01:05:40,931 --> 01:05:43,068
any way he feels about me.

978
01:05:43,068 --> 01:05:44,931
I feel like if I had
the opportunity

979
01:05:44,931 --> 01:05:46,724
and knew how important it was

980
01:05:46,724 --> 01:05:47,827
to get the blessing,

981
01:05:47,827 --> 01:05:49,448
I totally would have done it.

982
01:05:49,448 --> 01:05:52,103
And so, you know, I wish
I could go back

983
01:05:52,103 --> 01:05:54,034
and do things differently,

984
01:05:54,034 --> 01:05:55,068
but we can't.

985
01:06:03,275 --> 01:06:05,448
should?

986
01:06:12,413 --> 01:06:13,379
Like...

987
01:06:23,448 --> 01:06:24,413
And then...

988
01:06:32,448 --> 01:06:33,655
Immediately?

989
01:06:33,655 --> 01:06:36,379
<i>Imediatamente.</i>

990
01:06:36,379 --> 01:06:37,758
That's
a tough one.
<i>Imediatamente.</i>

991
01:08:28,275 --> 01:08:30,172
I don't want to ask Carlos
for the blessing right now

992
01:08:30,172 --> 01:08:32,344
because it just wouldn't
be authentic.

993
01:08:32,344 --> 01:08:34,344
I haven't seen the guy
in two years.

994
01:08:34,344 --> 01:08:35,344
I've barely talked to him.

995
01:08:35,344 --> 01:08:37,517
I barely have
any time with him.

996
01:08:37,517 --> 01:08:40,172
And I'd rather
have his respect

997
01:08:40,172 --> 01:08:43,034
than, you know, get a blessing
on our relationship.

998
01:08:43,034 --> 01:08:44,931
I don't get this.

999
01:08:44,931 --> 01:08:48,275
This is definitely not the way
that you show him respect.

1000
01:08:48,275 --> 01:08:51,206
Like, that's just going
to ruin everything.

1001
01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:10,068
Mm-hmm.
You know, that's my plan.

1002
01:09:37,034 --> 01:09:39,206
We just need
to find the phone.

1003
01:09:42,827 --> 01:09:45,413
I'm going to just check behind
the tarantulas, actually.

1004
01:09:45,413 --> 01:09:48,103
If I find out Rob actually has

1005
01:09:48,103 --> 01:09:50,103
<i>a secret phone,
the marriage is finished.</i>

1006
01:09:50,103 --> 01:09:52,310
That's, you know,
"Goodbye, Rob, forever".

1007
01:09:54,000 --> 01:09:56,000
One of them's moving!

1008
01:10:00,517 --> 01:10:01,862
<i>♪ Looking for an answer</i>

1009
01:10:02,310 --> 01:10:04,551
<i>♪ Reaching for a sign</i>

1010
01:10:05,206 --> 01:10:08,000
<i>♪ Somewhere in the distance</i>

1011
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:10,862
<i>♪ A heart is still alive</i>

1012
01:10:11,793 --> 01:10:13,482
Right now, I'm just trying
to make the place look

1013
01:10:13,482 --> 01:10:14,620
a little bit more clean,

1014
01:10:14,620 --> 01:10:17,827
'cause... obviously Rob is
constantly bothering me

1015
01:10:17,827 --> 01:10:19,344
about having to tidy,

1016
01:10:19,344 --> 01:10:20,965
so I'm just making sure
that, like...

1017
01:10:21,620 --> 01:10:23,241
I'm at least trying.

1018
01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:28,482
<i>♪ Holding on to something</i>

1019
01:10:28,482 --> 01:10:30,586
<i>♪ To bring me home</i>

1020
01:10:31,724 --> 01:10:32,793
I don't hate cleaning.

1021
01:10:32,793 --> 01:10:35,275
I just hate being
told to clean.

1022
01:10:35,275 --> 01:10:36,793
I just feel like
I'm a grown adult.

1023
01:10:36,793 --> 01:10:38,103
No one should
tell me to clean,

1024
01:10:38,103 --> 01:10:40,586
except my mom,
but, like, no one else.

1025
01:10:49,965 --> 01:10:52,172
- Hello.
- Hello.

1026
01:10:52,172 --> 01:10:53,827
Hello, How are you?

1027
01:10:53,827 --> 01:10:55,310
I'm okay. Not too bad.

1028
01:10:55,655 --> 01:10:56,517
<i>You look nice.</i>

1029
01:10:56,517 --> 01:10:58,517
Oh, thank you.
You look beautiful.

1030
01:10:58,517 --> 01:10:59,413
<i>Thanks.</i>

1031
01:10:59,413 --> 01:11:01,344
<i>My mum's been back in Mexico</i>

1032
01:11:01,344 --> 01:11:02,344
for a couple of weeks now,

1033
01:11:02,344 --> 01:11:03,344
but I haven't told her

1034
01:11:03,344 --> 01:11:05,275
that I've actually moved
back in with Rob.

1035
01:11:05,275 --> 01:11:07,000
<i>I do tell her everything,</i>

1036
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:09,344
<i>but I'm trying to make
this marriage work.</i>

1037
01:11:09,344 --> 01:11:10,793
<i>And I don't want to add</i>

1038
01:11:10,793 --> 01:11:12,793
<i>outside influences
and judgments.</i>

1039
01:11:12,793 --> 01:11:14,620
<i>And when it comes to Rob,</i>

1040
01:11:14,620 --> 01:11:17,482
she has nothing positive,
really, to say.

1041
01:11:19,172 --> 01:11:20,827
Um,

1042
01:11:20,827 --> 01:11:22,000
yeah, so basically,
there's something

1043
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:23,482
that I want to tell you.

1044
01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:26,310
Oh, God.

1045
01:11:26,310 --> 01:11:27,275
What?

1046
01:11:30,620 --> 01:11:31,793
- Um--
<i>- What?</i>

1047
01:11:32,689 --> 01:11:34,310
Yeah, I've moved
back in with Rob.

1048
01:11:35,310 --> 01:11:37,448
<i>I think it was, like,
two weeks ago.</i>

1049
01:11:37,827 --> 01:11:39,689
<i>Whoa, whoa, whoa.</i>

1050
01:11:40,931 --> 01:11:42,758
<i>Why wouldn't you tell me this?</i>

1051
01:11:42,758 --> 01:11:45,172
It's not a big deal.
It's my husband.

1052
01:11:45,172 --> 01:11:46,620
So, like, it's not crazy

1053
01:11:46,620 --> 01:11:48,689
that I moved in
with my husband.

1054
01:11:49,413 --> 01:11:51,000
We're working on our issues.

1055
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:54,241
He's agreed to go
to couples therapy with me.

1056
01:11:54,241 --> 01:11:55,655
So I think that would--

1057
01:11:55,655 --> 01:11:58,655
Yeah, I think that would
really help... us.

1058
01:11:59,689 --> 01:12:00,758
After our trip
to the flea market,

1059
01:12:00,758 --> 01:12:03,068
me and Rob realized
that our relationship needs

1060
01:12:03,068 --> 01:12:04,793
more than just
the positive energy

1061
01:12:04,793 --> 01:12:06,310
from the crystals.

1062
01:12:06,310 --> 01:12:09,000
<i>So we decided to give
couples therapy a try,</i>

1063
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:10,620
and we've actually made
an appointment

1064
01:12:10,620 --> 01:12:11,793
to see someone tomorrow.

1065
01:12:11,793 --> 01:12:13,000
<i>I think at this point,</i>

1066
01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:14,724
<i>we're both willing
to at least try</i>

1067
01:12:14,724 --> 01:12:17,689
and find happiness between us
in our relationship.

1068
01:12:34,275 --> 01:12:35,206
Yeah.

1069
01:12:35,206 --> 01:12:37,275
For me, trust is
the biggest issue

1070
01:12:37,275 --> 01:12:39,241
that I have with Rob.

1071
01:12:39,241 --> 01:12:41,931
Like, has any weird stuff been
going on anymore,

1072
01:12:41,931 --> 01:12:42,896
that cheating stuff?

1073
01:12:42,896 --> 01:12:44,482
Are you suspicious
of anything?

1074
01:12:45,862 --> 01:12:46,827
Um...

1075
01:12:49,241 --> 01:12:51,275
I don't know that.
I don't even know.

1076
01:12:51,275 --> 01:12:53,000
The other day,

1077
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:54,413
we was on the bed,

1078
01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:56,310
and I heard a vibration.

1079
01:12:56,310 --> 01:12:58,862
Like, it sounded like
a phone was vibrating,

1080
01:12:58,862 --> 01:13:00,068
like, calling.

1081
01:13:00,068 --> 01:13:02,310
But it wasn't my phone,
and it wasn't his phone.

1082
01:13:02,310 --> 01:13:04,448
And then he has this speaker,

1083
01:13:04,448 --> 01:13:06,896
and it was Rob's voice
on the voicemail.

1084
01:13:06,896 --> 01:13:09,482
But his phone was on,
like, airplane mode,

1085
01:13:09,482 --> 01:13:11,379
- and his Bluetooth was off.
<i>- Oh, my God.</i>

1086
01:13:20,310 --> 01:13:21,758
I don't know
whose phone that is.

1087
01:13:35,137 --> 01:13:37,275
It's not even
on blue-- It's on
airplane mode.

1088
01:13:37,275 --> 01:13:38,965
<i>Your recording has reached</i>

1089
01:13:38,965 --> 01:13:40,620
<i>the maximum length...</i>

1090
01:13:51,896 --> 01:13:53,517
<i>Damn, he's got another phone!</i>

1091
01:13:53,517 --> 01:13:55,965
<i>All guys that cheat
have two phones.</i>

1092
01:13:55,965 --> 01:13:58,689
I don't think he has
another phone.

1093
01:13:58,689 --> 01:14:00,724
<i>Why would he have it
on the bed when I'm there?</i>

1094
01:14:00,724 --> 01:14:03,896
Oh, Sophie, wake up
and smell the cookie cakes.

1095
01:14:07,586 --> 01:14:09,137
I don't think it's a ho phone.

1096
01:14:24,827 --> 01:14:27,000
No, now I'm thinking about it,
that was really strange.

1097
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:28,379
That was, like, vibrating,

1098
01:14:28,379 --> 01:14:30,275
and it wasn't
either of our phones.

1099
01:14:32,000 --> 01:14:33,517
<i>Since I've moved back in,</i>

1100
01:14:33,517 --> 01:14:35,517
<i>I was just going
to start to trust him again.</i>

1101
01:14:35,517 --> 01:14:37,172
But I'm starting to realize

1102
01:14:37,172 --> 01:14:40,000
that Rob actually might
have a ho phone.

1103
01:14:40,758 --> 01:14:42,241
<i>He's been known
to talk to women online</i>

1104
01:14:42,241 --> 01:14:43,482
<i>and hide it from me.</i>

1105
01:14:43,482 --> 01:14:44,965
He knows I check
his actual phone.

1106
01:14:44,965 --> 01:14:48,068
So if he was to continue
to talk to other women,

1107
01:14:48,068 --> 01:14:50,586
he'd have to have
a second phone
that I don't check.

1108
01:14:50,586 --> 01:14:52,655
So I'm just feeling
a lot of feelings.

1109
01:14:52,655 --> 01:14:53,965
And I'm just like,
"Well, now I need

1110
01:14:53,965 --> 01:14:55,413
to find the ho phone".

1111
01:14:57,034 --> 01:14:59,206
We just need
to find the phone.

1112
01:15:02,827 --> 01:15:05,275
I'm gonna just check behind
the tarantulas, actually.

1113
01:15:08,103 --> 01:15:10,034
Look, he has spiders.

1114
01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:14,103
Ew.

1115
01:15:15,103 --> 01:15:16,551
It's disgusting.

1116
01:15:16,551 --> 01:15:18,448
It's disgusting.
It's disgusting.

1117
01:15:18,448 --> 01:15:19,862
I don't even...

1118
01:15:23,896 --> 01:15:25,448
Oh, my God.

1119
01:15:25,448 --> 01:15:26,931
I'm gonna be pissed
if it's not here, 'cause...

1120
01:15:27,931 --> 01:15:32,068
I dropped the book
on the thing!

1121
01:15:34,896 --> 01:15:36,931
One of them is moving!

1122
01:15:47,275 --> 01:15:48,206
No. I will find--

1123
01:15:48,206 --> 01:15:50,275
If there's a phone
I will find the phone.

1124
01:15:58,448 --> 01:16:00,517
I'm not going to confront Rob
about this yet,

1125
01:16:00,517 --> 01:16:02,586
because we're working
on our relationship,

1126
01:16:02,586 --> 01:16:04,448
and I'm not going to make
our marriage even worse

1127
01:16:04,448 --> 01:16:06,689
by having this big argument
if I haven't seen any proof.

1128
01:16:06,689 --> 01:16:08,448
<i>But if I find out</i>

1129
01:16:08,448 --> 01:16:10,793
<i>Rob actually has
a secret phone,</i>

1130
01:16:11,206 --> 01:16:13,137
then I'm literally...

1131
01:16:13,137 --> 01:16:15,000
just packing all my stuff
and leaving.

1132
01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:17,586
<i>I'm not giving him
the opportunity</i>

1133
01:16:17,586 --> 01:16:18,827
<i>to try lie to me.</i>

1134
01:16:18,827 --> 01:16:19,965
<i>The marriage is finished.</i>

1135
01:16:19,965 --> 01:16:21,827
<i>That's, you know,
"Goodbye, Rob, forever".</i>

1136
01:16:32,379 --> 01:16:33,379
Yeah.

1137
01:16:39,724 --> 01:16:41,448
All right, baby girl,
come with me.

1138
01:16:41,448 --> 01:16:43,379
Perfect.

1139
01:16:43,379 --> 01:16:45,034
It's been difficult
to stay positive

1140
01:16:45,034 --> 01:16:46,241
<i>with the surgery.</i>

1141
01:16:46,241 --> 01:16:48,206
What if it doesn't look
the way she wants it to look,

1142
01:16:48,206 --> 01:16:49,655
and then she wants another one

1143
01:16:49,655 --> 01:16:51,000
<i>and another one?</i>

1144
01:16:53,965 --> 01:16:55,620
All right there, love.
Go ahead.

1145
01:16:55,620 --> 01:16:57,000
I'll see you soon.

1146
01:16:57,000 --> 01:16:58,517
We're going to take
great care of her, man.
Yes.

1147
01:17:12,344 --> 01:17:13,275
Oh, my God,
here we are.

1148
01:17:13,275 --> 01:17:15,206
Here we are.

1149
01:17:15,206 --> 01:17:17,000
my head is killing me.

1150
01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:20,413
Don't worry, you're not
going to feel it soon.

1151
01:17:32,172 --> 01:17:33,310
Hello, welcome.

1152
01:17:33,310 --> 01:17:35,000
- Hi, how are you?
- Hi.

1153
01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:36,620
Go ahead
and have a seat, okay?

1154
01:17:36,620 --> 01:17:37,827
We'll be right with you.

1155
01:17:41,482 --> 01:17:43,482
<i>Today's surgery day.</i>

1156
01:17:43,482 --> 01:17:45,034
<i>I'm really excited about this</i>

1157
01:17:45,034 --> 01:17:46,965
<i>because I'm finally doing</i>

1158
01:17:46,965 --> 01:17:48,793
<i>what I want for myself,</i>

1159
01:17:48,793 --> 01:17:50,896
<i>so I feel good
about myself. But...</i>

1160
01:17:51,310 --> 01:17:53,000
I'm really nervous.

1161
01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:54,206
I'm emotional.

1162
01:17:54,206 --> 01:17:56,482
Like, my palms are
sweating, actually.

1163
01:17:56,862 --> 01:17:58,068
This is it.

1164
01:17:58,068 --> 01:18:01,000
This is what I've waited for
for a very long time, and...

1165
01:18:01,965 --> 01:18:03,827
it's a five-hour surgery
ahead of me,

1166
01:18:03,827 --> 01:18:06,137
and then a long road
of recovery.

1167
01:18:06,931 --> 01:18:08,413
Loren?

1168
01:18:08,413 --> 01:18:09,310
Yes.
- Hi, come on in, please.

1169
01:18:09,310 --> 01:18:11,000
Hi.

1170
01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:12,758
I'm coming in, too,
or am I staying out?

1171
01:18:12,758 --> 01:18:14,379
Yes, you're
more than welcome to come.
Okay.

1172
01:18:29,655 --> 01:18:30,758
- Yes.
- Come in.

1173
01:18:31,862 --> 01:18:33,310
Hello.

1174
01:18:33,689 --> 01:18:35,206
How we doing?

1175
01:18:36,137 --> 01:18:37,655
How did we sleep last night?

1176
01:18:38,724 --> 01:18:40,034
Huh?
I didn't. I did not.

1177
01:18:40,034 --> 01:18:41,965
Yeah. Well,
you're going to get

1178
01:18:41,965 --> 01:18:43,827
plenty of rest
after the surgery.

1179
01:18:44,689 --> 01:18:46,517
Now, once we get
you back there,

1180
01:18:46,517 --> 01:18:47,827
you'll be nice and relaxed.

1181
01:18:47,827 --> 01:18:49,344
We have the bed warm for you,

1182
01:18:49,344 --> 01:18:51,689
some nice relaxing music.

1183
01:18:51,689 --> 01:18:54,793
Just a couple of reminders.
After the surgery,

1184
01:18:54,793 --> 01:18:57,034
make sure you don't do
any heavy lifting.

1185
01:18:57,034 --> 01:18:59,241
So take it easy with the arms.

1186
01:18:59,241 --> 01:19:00,827
Stay hydrated.

1187
01:19:01,724 --> 01:19:03,896
The recovery
for the surgery is

1188
01:19:03,896 --> 01:19:06,206
as important
as doing the surgery.

1189
01:19:06,206 --> 01:19:09,172
<i>Um, if she does
anything that is--</i>

1190
01:19:09,172 --> 01:19:11,862
involving heavy lifting,
stretching, reaching,

1191
01:19:11,862 --> 01:19:14,000
we can pop
the whole suture line.

1192
01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:16,000
She will literally hear
a pop-pop-pop-pop.

1193
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:18,206
These are all catastrophes
we want to avoid.

1194
01:19:18,206 --> 01:19:19,172
But if it happens,

1195
01:19:19,172 --> 01:19:20,931
then we have to bring her
back to surgery

1196
01:19:20,931 --> 01:19:21,862
to repair everything.

1197
01:19:21,862 --> 01:19:23,172
It is going to set her back

1198
01:19:23,172 --> 01:19:24,551
by three to six months.

1199
01:19:24,551 --> 01:19:26,482
For some of the markings,
I'd like to start,

1200
01:19:26,482 --> 01:19:28,482
if you don't mind,
kind of just to the side,

1201
01:19:28,482 --> 01:19:31,000
and we'll just kind of
mark your arms out
a little bit.

1202
01:19:31,000 --> 01:19:33,206
We have to do
quite a bit of marking,

1203
01:19:33,206 --> 01:19:36,379
and that's just our roadmap
for the surgery.

1204
01:19:36,379 --> 01:19:38,724
Oh, we'll start with some pink
for some good juju.

1205
01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:43,551
He likes the tuchus.

1206
01:19:46,344 --> 01:19:47,896
- Tuchus is in
the no-touch zone.
- Off limits.

1207
01:19:47,896 --> 01:19:49,137
That's off limits.

1208
01:19:49,137 --> 01:19:50,758
He's giving me
all his no-touch zones.

1209
01:19:50,758 --> 01:19:52,379
Ridiculous, this guy.

1210
01:19:57,206 --> 01:19:59,586
I'm going to draw
the abs on right now.

1211
01:19:59,586 --> 01:20:02,034
So, you know,
your abs have spread out.

1212
01:20:02,034 --> 01:20:03,551
- Yeah.
- You know, they should be
somewhere over here,

1213
01:20:03,551 --> 01:20:04,655
so they've spread out.

1214
01:20:04,655 --> 01:20:07,137
And, you know, you talk
about the bulge--

1215
01:20:07,137 --> 01:20:08,551
Tighten your muscles for me.

1216
01:20:08,551 --> 01:20:10,241
So, you know, you have
a good muscle tone,

1217
01:20:10,241 --> 01:20:11,758
so we're going to really--

1218
01:20:11,758 --> 01:20:13,689
The goal is
to simulate your muscles

1219
01:20:13,689 --> 01:20:14,896
as always being tight.

1220
01:20:17,206 --> 01:20:18,793
Honey.

1221
01:20:18,793 --> 01:20:20,241
And then we want
to make sure that, you know,

1222
01:20:20,241 --> 01:20:21,655
you have the C-section scar

1223
01:20:21,655 --> 01:20:24,034
- and everything is kind of
pulling in and tight.
- Yes.

1224
01:20:24,034 --> 01:20:25,310
And also above the C-section,

1225
01:20:25,310 --> 01:20:26,724
I have that pouch

1226
01:20:26,724 --> 01:20:27,931
- that's going
to go away, right?
- The pouchy area.

1227
01:20:27,931 --> 01:20:29,344
That's gone, yeah.

1228
01:20:29,862 --> 01:20:31,103
We're going to de-pouch you.

1229
01:20:31,103 --> 01:20:32,689
No more pouches--
- Alex.

1230
01:20:32,689 --> 01:20:34,551
- for your belly.
- Are you so excited?

1231
01:20:39,724 --> 01:20:43,068
Ah, I like can't wait for this
more than anything.

1232
01:20:45,241 --> 01:20:46,965
It's been difficult
to stay positive

1233
01:20:46,965 --> 01:20:48,172
with the surgery,

1234
01:20:48,172 --> 01:20:50,931
knowing deep down
that she's already beautiful.

1235
01:20:51,448 --> 01:20:52,482
But at the end of the day,

1236
01:20:52,482 --> 01:20:55,310
I just want my wife
to be happy and confident.

1237
01:20:55,310 --> 01:20:56,931
All right, so...

1238
01:20:56,931 --> 01:20:58,241
Got to get undressed.

1239
01:21:00,068 --> 01:21:01,896
<i>So even though
I have my concerns,</i>

1240
01:21:01,896 --> 01:21:03,586
I will support
whatever she does.

1241
01:21:04,793 --> 01:21:08,931
<i>But I hope also it looks
the way she wants it to look.</i>

1242
01:21:08,931 --> 01:21:10,413
<i>You know what I mean?
What if it doesn't look</i>

1243
01:21:10,413 --> 01:21:11,482
<i>the way she wants it to look</i>

1244
01:21:11,482 --> 01:21:13,034
and then she wants another one

1245
01:21:13,034 --> 01:21:14,758
and another one
or something like that?

1246
01:21:14,758 --> 01:21:16,862
What if it starts
a whole thing?

1247
01:21:19,241 --> 01:21:21,931
That's not the Loren
that I fell in love with.

1248
01:21:21,931 --> 01:21:23,275
I don't want that.

1249
01:21:25,206 --> 01:21:26,551
This is nothing...

1250
01:21:26,551 --> 01:21:28,034
Not yet.
This is just like a little--

1251
01:21:28,034 --> 01:21:29,034
Something
to relax you a little bit.

1252
01:21:29,034 --> 01:21:30,379
What do you
like to drink?

1253
01:21:30,379 --> 01:21:31,896
Tequila.
This is
three shots of tequila.

1254
01:21:31,896 --> 01:21:33,448
Atta girl.
Ooh.

1255
01:21:33,448 --> 01:21:34,896
Yeah.
That's what got me
pregnant three times.

1256
01:21:34,896 --> 01:21:36,172
Oh!

1257
01:21:36,172 --> 01:21:37,827
That's the trick, huh?
I don't know.

1258
01:21:37,827 --> 01:21:39,344
All right, baby girl,
come with me.

1259
01:21:39,344 --> 01:21:40,862
Watch your robe.

1260
01:21:41,310 --> 01:21:42,413
We got you, baby.

1261
01:21:43,724 --> 01:21:45,000
Perfect.

1262
01:21:45,379 --> 01:21:46,482
We got you, baby.

1263
01:21:46,482 --> 01:21:47,862
You starting to feel
a little bit--

1264
01:21:47,862 --> 01:21:49,931
I told you, they're fantastic.

1265
01:21:49,931 --> 01:21:51,551
Everyone loves them.

1266
01:21:54,137 --> 01:21:55,379
That hit fast?

1267
01:21:55,379 --> 01:21:56,551
That's it? You're there?

1268
01:21:56,551 --> 01:21:58,172
All right, puppy.
Hugs and kisses here, okay?

1269
01:21:58,172 --> 01:22:00,448
Hugs and kisses.
Okay, baby. <i>Yada.</i>

1270
01:22:13,137 --> 01:22:14,896
All right. Yada. Go ahead.

1271
01:22:14,896 --> 01:22:15,827
I'll see you soon.

1272
01:22:17,482 --> 01:22:18,724
We're gonna take
great care of her, man.

1273
01:22:18,724 --> 01:22:20,000
Yes, I know, I know.

1274
01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:21,724
Thank you, guys.
Thank you.

1275
01:22:21,724 --> 01:22:23,137
All right.
All right.

1276
01:22:55,379 --> 01:22:57,000
You're gonna love this.

1277
01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:58,724
<i>Next time
on</i> 90 Day Fiancé,

1278
01:22:58,724 --> 01:23:00,517
Happily ever after?...

1279
01:23:00,517 --> 01:23:02,034
Oh, Jesus!

1280
01:23:03,965 --> 01:23:05,413
What the hell?

1281
01:23:07,103 --> 01:23:11,241
So your family essentially
paying us a bride price,

1282
01:23:11,241 --> 01:23:12,344
it feels...

1283
01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:14,758
like we're selling
our daughter.

1284
01:23:14,758 --> 01:23:16,413
So what would happen then

1285
01:23:16,413 --> 01:23:18,068
if we don't want
to ask a bride price?

1286
01:23:22,379 --> 01:23:24,724
The types of women
that you do look online,

1287
01:23:24,724 --> 01:23:26,068
they don't look like me.

1288
01:23:26,068 --> 01:23:28,517
Like muscular, fitness,
bodybuilder women.

1289
01:23:29,517 --> 01:23:31,206
<i>It's typical
that Sophie would bring up</i>

1290
01:23:31,206 --> 01:23:32,586
<i>the online cheating.</i>

1291
01:23:32,586 --> 01:23:34,000
And it's like,
I can't say nothing

1292
01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:36,896
'cause her feelings are valid
and mine are invalid.

1293
01:23:36,896 --> 01:23:38,965
I'm not like
this porn-addicted,

1294
01:23:38,965 --> 01:23:40,793
bodybuilder,
fetish guy.

1295
01:23:40,793 --> 01:23:42,068
Like, what the [bleep]?

1296
01:23:42,068 --> 01:23:43,275
That's not who I am.

1297
01:23:49,206 --> 01:23:50,689
<i>Sitting here,
I'm thinking</i>

1298
01:23:50,689 --> 01:23:51,965
all kinds of weird scenarios.

1299
01:23:51,965 --> 01:23:53,310
What if something goes wrong?

1300
01:24:21,793 --> 01:24:23,620
<i>He's pushing me away.</i>

1301
01:24:23,620 --> 01:24:26,206
I'm just starting to wonder
if he wants to be free of me.

1302
01:24:30,379 --> 01:24:31,827
John just got here,
so I'm going

1303
01:24:31,827 --> 01:24:33,068
to go meet up with him, okay?

1304
01:24:39,206 --> 01:24:40,241
<i>I feel so upset</i>

1305
01:24:40,241 --> 01:24:43,172
that Patrick preferred
to stay with John

1306
01:24:43,172 --> 01:24:45,413
on my birthday than with me.

1307
01:25:00,068 --> 01:25:01,551
I don't want to give up.

1308
01:25:01,551 --> 01:25:02,724
I want to be with Ed.

1309
01:25:02,724 --> 01:25:05,344
<i>I have absolutely no idea</i>

1310
01:25:05,344 --> 01:25:07,793
what I would do next
if this is the end.

1311
01:25:07,793 --> 01:25:10,482
I don't want
to meet anybody else.

1312
01:25:19,379 --> 01:25:21,586
There is one
very important thing

1313
01:25:21,586 --> 01:25:23,206
that you are not aware of.

1314
01:25:23,206 --> 01:25:25,827
I'm not in the same page
as you are.

1315
01:25:25,827 --> 01:25:27,551
What do you mean
you're not on the same page?

1316
01:25:28,724 --> 01:25:29,862
<i>I haven't told Gino</i>

1317
01:25:29,862 --> 01:25:32,000
<i>that I don't want
to have a baby with him.</i>

1318
01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:34,068
And it really destroys me.

1319
01:25:34,068 --> 01:25:35,965
Like, I feel so bad.

1320
01:25:37,551 --> 01:25:38,551
Where are you going?

1321
01:25:39,068 --> 01:25:40,241
I'm going to bed.

1322
01:25:40,241 --> 01:25:41,482
I can't do this thing.