Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After...
I didn't know how lucky I was before...
And now I don't have them in America.
How can I be ready to have a child with Gino
if I feel like I'm abandoning my own children?
Being such a, you know, long serious procedure
what could be like, potentially any side effects?
You can pop a blood vessel.
There's a lot of concerning things
that I'm hearing from Dr. Dev.
So this is much more serious than I realized.
I'm really set on it,
and I want you to support me on it. You set on it?
I know how it was before you moved out.
So, like, are you having sex yet?
It's been months.
I haven't really opened up to a lot of people
about my non existent sex life with Rob,
because, honestly, it's just embarrassing.
Have you ever thought about going to therapy?
I would rather him do it.
You need to do it, too.
I don't know if I'm gonna be able to help you tomorrow,
but I'll try to help you while we're here.
I can't sit here and allow him
to put all those blame on me.
He really needs to man up
and take responsibility for himself
or I'm out.
'Cause that's not [bleep] true.
You're the one who told me
you wanted to get a [bleep] divorce.
- Like 20 time-- - Yeah. Yes, and I still want that.
- Then go, then-- Yeah. Go, go, go, go! - Yes, I'm going to go.
Huh?
Uh, what are you doing?
Theodore, I got your mom a surprise.
Hold on.
We landed yesterday in Brazil, and even though things
didn't go great with my dad,
today is a very important day.
It's Thais' birthday. John's arriving tonight.
And I'm about to see Thais' dad, Carlos,
for the first time in almost two years,
Oh!
Did you make a wish?
Yes.
Ohhh!
No. - What you talking about?
I always get you a present
- or we go out to dinner. - Yeah.
You know, what you do for my birthdays?
Do you remember how many gifts I've gotten?
Zero.
No, I'm lying. You got me a shirt.
Like two years ago,
Here.
The best thing with you, Aleesi, Theodore.
Our family.
Gonna meet my dad today. That's perfect.
Let's see.
Mmm-hmm.
Mmm-mmm. Ot-- Eh...
Cheers, first. Jesus Christ.
It's delicious. - Mmm.
It's really good.
- It's almost time to go. - Yeah, we gotta go.
Who likes more birthday cake?
I mean, you can kind of tell who likes more birthday cake.
I mean, it's definitely me.
Brazilian birthday cakes are way better
than American birthday cakes. It's not even close.
Like they're more moist, they're more rich.
If you want. I want to drive.
You can drive.
I miss driving here.
Got it.
Oh, no.
How can I-- Oh, no. I think I go--
- You go straight and then... - Straight.
Straight like this.
Yeah, that's what I--
Yeah, it's Jesus Christ.
Oh, no, I thought it was...
Jesus. Are you sure you want to drive?
I mean, she wanted to drive, but you can't even get out of the garage.
Everyone that goes in the garage says
that the garage is really small.
Turn the wheel.
- What's the wheel? - This is the wheel.
What else would that be?
Oh, I don't know how to do this.
Okay? You can drive.
Park straight.
You want to drive.
Oh, my God, you're hilarious.
Are you ready to see your dad?
Yes.
- More than ready? - Yeah.
I don't know if I'm ready.
It's bee-- You know why?
- Because I don't know-- - Almost two years.
I don't like going into conversations where people...
Oh...
I just still have the image in my head where he,
you know, didn't bless our wedding.
If things don't go well today with Carlos,
it's definitely going to put a strain on our marriage
because you know her dad
is the most important person in her life.
I have no desire to ruin their relationship,
but I know that he doesn't really like me that much.
So I'm just really worried that like,
he's not gonna give me a chance.
Mmm-hmm.
I'm going to go after Mahmoud
because this is a very-- like a crime ridden city.
It's very dangerous.
And I don't want him out there on the streets late at night.
Okay, keys...
Earlier, when Mahmoud came back,
he refused to talk it out.
And the only thing he says to me is I want a divorce
And then he storms off.
Well, he left the phone and the credit card
and money on the table.
And now he's going out into the night
alone with his suitcase.
I don't know where he thinks he's gonna go.
And at this point,
I don't think he has any intention of coming back.
He's still my husband and I'm responsible for him.
I know that if, uh, if the tables were turned
and I had stormed off and in Cairo,
he would be combing the streets looking for me.
Is this like a boulevard or okay...
Mahmoud, Mahmoud!
Mahmoud get in the car!
I'm gonna go get him.
I don't see him. How can you possibly get that far?
Oh, there he is. Okay.
I'm gonna park right here. How about that?
Get in the car.
Get in the car!
No. Get in the car!
Get in the car again!
Get in-- Get in the car again!
Get in the car.
Come on
Don't go. Don't--
No. Just get in the car.
No. I'm not gonna stop.
Just stop-- - No.
Get the bag in the car Mahmoud.
Mahmoud, you can't do that anymore.
I know this is hard for you.
I just don't know why you always gotta run away.
Mahmoud.
Listen, I need to know exactly what you want.
Honey, talk to me.
You asked me to go--
Mahmoud, you wanted to go.
You started heading out the door.
You just tell--
You told me you wanted divorce, Mahmoud.
What am I supposed to do?
You won't meet my friends. You won't do anything.
You asked me 100 times to get out of your house.
I didn't do that at first.
Just by yourself in the car.
Can I wait out here while you are in here?
Okay.
When Mahmoud starts breaking down, I feel like he's um,
being more honest with about his feelings.
For the first time since he's gotten here.
And I feel like I can actually, like, reach him,
like on an emotional level at this point.
And I feel like these tears
suggest that he is capable of change
and of moving forward.
You know, I still care about him.
And I'm not ready to let go or say goodbye.
In a relationship
both parties have something
that they need to take ownership for.
But okay--
Never!
Manuel loves to say that I'm the problem.
This is the definition of gaslighting.
I don't know. That-- I don't even know.
The other day
it sounded like the phone was vibrating, like calling
But it wasn't my phone, and it wasn't his phone.
All guys that cheat have two phones.
♪ I have been pretending That I'm okay ♪
♪ Only you know Why I feel this way ♪
Manuel, if you make it out like you're in jail,
Oh, you won't let me go anywhere.
That's not [bleep] true.
♪ What the point running
♪ You're not chasing me No more ♪
Manuel and I met up with my friend Erin,
and she gave us a spiritual reading.
The reading was great.
The aftermath not so much.
Manuel used this as an opportunity
to call me untrusting
and I don't understand where he's coming from.
It's really annoying how Manuel loves to say
that I'm the problem when all I'm trying to do
is get clear communication with my husband.
Honestly, my yelling comes from being triggered
and feeling like I wasn't listened to as a child.
And so--
It's the truth.
And so I speak louder than most,
so that I make sure I'm heard.
No, I don't want to talk to you.
I've been doing a lot of man hating.
You're kind of the enemy right now.
Like the epitome of the enemy.
No. No offense. No offense, no offense.
Do any of you guys have a cigarette by chance?
Oh, my God!
Can I please have a cigarette with you?
Oh.
You okay?
Yeah, I'm just--
I'm annoyed. This is my friend Erin.
- What's your name? - Nice to meet you, honey.
- Oh, you as well. - Chauncey?
Ashley.
I think what frustrates me the most is like,
in a relationship
both parties have something
that they need to take ownership for.
But then it's like...
Okay--
Never, never.
There was a little bit of gaslighting.
- Oh! A lot of it. - You know what I mean?
Manuel makes me feel crazy
for not trusting him, but then, at the same time,
he's purposely leaving out important aspects of his life.
So of course, that would lead to me not trusting him.
This is the definition of gaslighting.
Well, I've worked with a lot of couples.
I think you have the most important thing, which is actual love.
Yeah. - Right?
- We do have that. - And-- And I believe that that is worth fighting for.
Yeah.
Sometimes.
And this is one of those situations that I'll say...
We've got to wait and see.
The stars are aligned.
- Okay. Okay. - Yes. Yeah.
- Okay. - Truly, truly.
- I love you, baby. - I love you too.
I'm sorry. No, don't be.
You're good. Okay.
- Yeah. You're good. You're good. - Okay. Okay.
You're good.
Whoo! Let me go find him, I suppose.
Okay.
No. - No?
No.
Manuel will never admit
that he's the cause of an issue.
For him, it's about winning or losing.
I'm not looking to win.
I'm looking to be heard.
If Manuel can't open up to his faults in this relationship,
I really don't see how this is gonna last.
How does this look?
Let's have some fun in the bubble bath.
Are you trying to seduce me?
Jasmine and I, we have the place to ourselves.
So I am going to try to put the moves on her.
Maybe this will help.
Are my toes turning you on?
I'm gonna come back.
It's the morning of my surgery.
This is something I want for myself.
But it's hard because I'm not gonna see him for a few days.
I kinda just want to put it all behind me already.
Okay.
♪ You set if off all right You gotta get it out ♪
♪ You wanna know 'Cause I spend time ♪
♪ Girl just let it out
Babe? - One second Jasmine
♪ And I want you to stay
♪ Don't want to throw you No deuces ♪
♪ Yeah, I just want to show You the truth... ♪
It's our first morning in Miami
and it's Jasmine's birthday
and we're gonna go check out the Gators
and the Everglades because she absolutely loves alligators.
I know she had a friend called Sneaky in Panama.
This gator that would pop out
and she would see him by the river.
So what a great way to spend her birthday in Miami.
Yeah baby.
But first,
Jasmine and I, we have the place to ourself.
So I am going to try to be romantic
with a bubble bath
and put the moves on her.
You know, like the same--
Jas-- Jasmine, who are you talking to?
I've been talking to you.
Me?
I didn't know that.
I'm sorry. I was preoccupied in here.
This is Miami vibes.
And this is alligator vibe
because I want the alligators to feel like I belong to them.
Like I'm part of their family.
- Oh, my God. - But, I don't know.
But I love alligators.
They're actually my favorite animal.
And I get so excited every time I see them.
Do you miss sneaky?
You have no idea, baby.
I wonder if he's thinking about me.
As much as I'm thinking about him,
Um, so I'll go with the pink.
Do you think that the alligators
are gonna feel triggered by pink?
But they're gonna eat you so fast it's not going to matter.
Okay, come here for a second.
I have to show you something.
How does this look?
Maybe this will help.
Are you trying to seduce me?
Aren't my toes turning you on?
They did at the campsite.
Just look at my toes for a second, would you?
It's very seductive.
Let's have some fun in the bubble bath before we go.
I mean this-- You're so sexy.
And I-- Thank you for the feet dance.
You know, I got a bomb in there, and nice soap.
I mean, what do you say?
- Yes, baby. - But--
I know.
But I was checking the weather,
and if we don't leave the house in the next two hours,
it's gonna rain.
- And I really wanted to-- - Baby I just made a
- freakin bubble bath. - And it's--
- In the bath-- - You know, how hard it is to say no to you.
Why are you playing so hard to get
I know that Gino wants to get me pregnant.
And I feel bad because when it comes to sex,
I've been avoided Gino.
I cannot think about having a baby right now.
I'm scared of telling Gino the truth,
because it's hard to-- to be honest
when you know that that's gonna hurt your partner.
So...
as much as I want to be honest,
I am very, very scared.
Eventually, yeah, we're gonna have the quickie.
I'm gonna feel you all the [bleep] you like on the jacuzzi.
But not today.
♪ Something about Feeling the sun ♪
♪ The world Is spinning around ♪
♪ We could live In this very moment ♪
♪ Never come back down
Mommy needs one big, good picture
for her boo boo, okay?
You wanna sit next to Asher?
Okay, can you sit over there, then?
Okay. Can you look at me and say cheese...
Or not.
♪ Oh Oh live a little louder
♪ Oh Oh Laugh a little longer ♪
When is Mommy coming home?
What day?
Shabbat
Right?
Okay, so you need to be
really good for Abba, okay?
It's the morning of my surgery,
and while this is definitely what I want,
I have some jitters.
I'm about to go into a major surgery.
This is life changing.
Alexei is getting ready to take the kids to daycare
while I do some last minute things around the house.
Last minute chores, picking up a few things,
keeping my mind occupied
before I say goodbye to my babies.
Ooh.
Ari...
I love you.
You be a good girl.
Give Mama a kiss, Ashie
She's screaming--
- I know. - I got your shoes.
Thank you for my shoes.
Shiky is done.
Okay, Shiky.
You were waiting for me.
Okay. Let's wipe. Wipe, Wipe.
I'm gonna come back.
Come on, let's go.
Underwear. Hurry up!
I'm gonna come back. Okay, baby?
I'll only be gone for a few days
while I recover at a hotel.
And the boys know that the doctor
is gonna be fixing a boo boo.
I'm scared.
I have a role and responsibility to be their mama first.
But I made this decision
because I want to look my best, so I feel my best,
and that's what I want them to see.
Hmm. Good, boys.
You be good, okay? Let's go.
You're gonna help Abba.
Let me see those muscles.
Oh, it's just junk. Okay. Thank you.
I'll leave it here, okay?
Okay, you will pay with it.
I will play with it.
Ashie, come on.
I love you.
Bye.
Okay.
It's hard.
I didn't want my kids to see me cry.
But it's hard because I know when I get home
I'm not gonna be able to carry them,
and I'm not gonna see them for a few days.
But [gasps] like...
I kind of just want to put it
all behind me already, at this point.
I don't know like this
just made me realize how happy I am doing it now.
When they're older, they're gonna really understand,
like they just-- Okay, bye.
Bye mama. See ya.
I just I have to be positive going.
I cannot stress right now. I really can't.
Babe. Yeah.
All right. That's it.
Okay.
How are you feeling?
Um, I'm trying to stay occupied
by doing the rest of the laundry.
So I'm having this emotional moment
and I hear Alexei blowing his nose.
Cleaning his nose out.
The whole building
could hear him cleaning his nose out.
I don't think I need to defend myself on this.
I gotta blow my nose. I gotta blow my nose.
If it's stuck deep, you've gotta blow hard.
What the hell. What? You're washing all the last towels now?
Yes. - There's no towels hanging.
Guess what? They're right in the closet there.
This is what you're gonna have to do when I can't do it.
You're gonna have to-- You don't know where anything is like that.
This house is not that big, honey.
I can find the towels if I need to. Okay?
Once you called me when you were on your phone.
Where's my phone?
Yes, by the way, you're gonna be right here.
It's not like I can't find it, and I can't ask you.
Okay. - Are you done packing?
Ah, yes. I need to get chargers and my medicine.
And then my, like, toiletries.
How are you feeling?
Yeah, I mean, I'm okay.
Obviously, all of my concerns for this surgery
have not magically vanished since last night.
But Loren really does feel like she needs the surgery
so she can feel like a whole person again.
I know she really needs my support.
So I'm gonna be there for her
positive and good thinking.
And everything will go well.
I'm a little nervous, but I'm here to support you.
It's all good.
We're gonna get through the day.
Hottie with a body.
I don't think I'll be happy for a few weeks,
You better be happy.
I don't care. You play happy.
Okay.
All right, let's go get me a new body.
It's happening.
I'm going for my mommy makeover
that I've waited so long for.
This is a really good thing for us.
Individually, as a couple, as a family.
I'm not going to feel uncomfortable anymore.
As much as people were very anti elective surgery,
this is something I want for myself,
and I'm so excited to finally do it.
I want to get into my zone.
And I feel like once I walk into that office,
I'll feel comfortable
until they call my name and they're like, okay, let's go.
Okay, I've got my evil eye bag.
Positive energy, let's do this.
God be with us.
I like these ones.
Mmm-hmm.
I've definitely been clairvoyant in the past.
I knew that I was something
I just didn't know the word for it.
- Paranoid. - I don't think--
Paranoid is a word.
No, I think it's--
like my dreams are like something's warning me about something.
Me and my dad, we've always had a very good relationship.
Yeah, he's a super dad, but he also can be super scary, too.
♪ And they use to color on People's faces ♪
♪ But they see us together When we walk in places ♪
♪ Like a rainbow Inside our room ♪
Here you go.
Found some boots for you.
Yeah, they're my size.
They're kind of cute.
♪ Baby, Let's make them jealous ♪
♪ Oh, make everybody Else envious ♪
It's hot.
Texas-- It's like probably a 100 degrees out here today.
Sophie moved back in a few days ago,
and I think things have been going a lot better.
I am not dripping.
I really like flea markets,
and I know Sophie likes to shop.
You know, a flea market is better than taking you to the mall.
- You know. - Is it?
It is in the fun department.
It's in the interesting department.
There you go.
That's just your outfit.
- So stick that-- - It's kind of fashion--
Stick that on top.
You're not funny.
We don't have flea markets in England.
It's like, it's kind of just like
an outdoor mall with, like secondhand stuff.
That kind of sounds like a flea market.
I mean, I would be surprised
if there were no flea markets in London.
I think maybe you just haven't ever been in that part of town.
Yeah, probably not.
Hey. Hey, what's going on?
I like these ones.
It's almost heart shaped, too.
Yeah? Yeah.
I think I'm drawn to this one.
Oh, okay.
It matches your outfit.
Protect.
Mmm-hmm
Oh, okay. I'll have, like a dream.
About something and then like it will happen the next day.
That's true. See, I'd be knowing things
before I even know them.
Uh-huh.
I've definitely been clairvoyant in the past.
His online cheating and I had a dream.
And then he did, like, it is definitely like clairvoyancy, I guess.
Do you even know what that meant before today,
I knew that was something
I shouldn't know the word for it.
- Paranoid. - I don't think--
Paranoid is a word.
No, I think it's like my dreams are like something's warning me
about something to try and tell me
Honestly, I don't really have nice dreams.
Group A best.
What would you suggest for helping improve like relationships?
Like communicating.
Do you think so?
We bicker constantly,
and he doesn't listen to me.
- And he-- doesn't listen-- - What don't I listen to you?
- You don't listen to me. - Name one thing that I don't listen.
You don't listen or understand.
Yeah.
Hmm.
He already did that.
And his grievances to me was just I'm messy.
If I wrote a list of my grievances to him,
it would be like 50, like serious things.
So we--
I wrote down the most basic things,
- the most basic things-- - Yeah, but I am saying yours chores list.
But if exactly we could go on and on, too.
But I'm not going to say all that.
I think you try to win the argument
rather than for us to fix the problems.
That's the single mindedness
that he's stuck on that.
Yeah.
Yeah
Whatever helps the relationship.
I appreciate what he's saying about the relationship advice.
I mean, overall things have been good between us,
but I would say that Sophie and I probably need a little more
than just some crystals to help us in the long run.
He feels like a wise like old owl.
- Yeah. - I think his advice is good.
We definitely need to explore other avenues
when it comes to communication and listening to each other.
Because clearly what we're doing is just not working.
Glad you stopped by.
Thank you, Doug. You're real cool people, man.
I'm gonna definitely keep you in mind.
Come back and get another one.
Yeah. We need to cleanse the house and all that too.
I appreciate that. All right, Doug.
- Have a good day. - You too.
I think the flea market was definitely worth the trip.
You got life advice from Doug.
So you probably won't find that at the mall.
Let's go sit over there on the bench.
- Okay? - For the picnic table.
Come on,
There you go.
We're meeting my dad for the first time in two years
Now I'm so excited.
Just sit with her and I'll push you guys.
Me and my dad we've always
had a very good relationship,
it's like we always talk every single day.
I'm definitely a daddy's girl.
Look at this.
Oh, he's already crying.
Yeah, let's sit down
Seeing my dad for the very first time
after two years.
I am just so emotional.
It's an amazing feeling.
It was like missing and, you know, exciting
and just excited to see him with my daughter.
My dad never forgot my birthday.
Never like every single year like he--
The first one that calls, my daughter happy birthday.
Yeah, he's a super dad, but he also can be super scary, too.
I mean, Carlos has pretty much ignoring me right now,
and that makes me even more nervous.
And I know I have to make things right,
but I really don't know what to do.
Mm-hmm.
Probably, we do need time to think.
Come on.
This doesn't really work.
♪ I'll never know
I'm gonna make you some tea.
All right?
And I want you to go get in the bed.
So, I have Mahmoud back home,
and it is such a relief to have him here
and off of the streets.
All of the chaos
in the last few days has me thinking
that everything's kind of doomed.
But this isn't the first time I've thought that.
And tonight, chasing him down the street,
trying to find him,
I'm mad as hell and frustrated,
but I still love him.
So, I mean, maybe past the anger,
there's some hope.
So maybe if I just calm down,
I'll kind of know what I need to do.
Mahmoud, help me, please.
Thank you.
Mahmoud.
Why you have to take off like that
two nights in a row?
You told me at least 20 different times
you wanted a divorce.
No, I brought my friends over
because they wanted to meet you.
Mahmoud! Like--
So what? Like, I keep alcohol in the freezer.
When people come over, that's what you offer.
- So-- - And you can't tell me I can't be American.
And you're going to have to learn
how to be Muslim here, okay?
- I-- - And just because you don't participate in it
doesn't mean that it doesn't exist.
Last four years, I've tried extremely hard.
- I know you did a lot. - I've tried to adapt.
- Not saying-- - I've tried to change.
I tried to do everything. You knew, and you never--
I never saw the same on your side.
- Right? - No, I changed a lot, Nicole.
But, like, after what happened last night,
I don't feel in love
or any, like, respect.
From-- Yeah.
Before he came to America,
Mahmoud said that he would
give his best effort to embrace life here.
And then he just kind of went right back
to the way he was
before we had the talk.
You know, me and Mahmoud, we love each other,
but we have this baggage
that we don't know how to kind of, um...
work it out.
Because it's always getting in the way
on both sides.
Probably we do need time to think,
'cause I just don't think it's healthy for either of us
to be...
going through this day in and day out.
Yes, this is why I don't want to leave now.
So...
I will stay here for just a few days
um,
before I decide to leave or what.
So it's fine you can stay here
until you can figure out what your plan is.
Like if you still have hope
that... maybe we can work it out.
Mmm.
Or if you want to go to Egypt,
or what it is that you want to do
with your life, okay?
Okay, thank you for that. - You have a place to stay.
- Thank you. - All right?
I'm not going to share a bed with you.
In the living room, you can have your own space.
There's no fighting.
House rules.
I'm not going to try to bother you when I'm here.
- Okay? - Okay.
Thank you.
You're welcome. You need another pillow?
No, I'm good.
Okay, good night.
Good night.
Don't talk to me, Manuel.
♪ Out of my mind Going insane ♪
♪ It's got me out of my mind
♪ Going insane
♪ It's got me out of my mind
♪ Going insane
♪ I'm not even gonna trip
♪ Trip-trip
♪ I just try to get a grip
♪ Grip-grip
♪ I'm not even gonna trip
♪ Trip-trip
♪ I just gotta get a grip
♪ Grip-grip
I'm really irritated right now,
to be honest with you.
Manuel left this morning.
I was in my sleep.
I heard him on the phone,
like, "Démelo",
which is like, "Talk to me",
"Tell me."
And then he was gone.
And then...
I waited like, an hour.
No text message, no nothing.
I call him
and he's grabbing breakfast
with [bleep] Jonathan.
And I'm just like,
"Just send me a text message.
Let me know what you're doing and where you're going.
Give me a heads up.
Don't just leave me in the [bleep] dark."
This is where my issue lies.
Communicate with your wife.
He tries to pull this card, like he can't do anything.
It's not that you can't do anything.
Just communicate with your wife.
You say you want to be married.
You say you want a lifelong relationship.
But are you willing to put in...
the time, work, effort, and energy
that it requires to create a healthy marriage?
'Cause one thing I will say is
I am not going to be in an unhealthy relationship.
Period.
Ooh-la-la-la-la.
Okay?
Okay. Okay. Okay.
I'm not talking to you!
Don't talk to me.
No. I don't want to talk to you.
Get away from me. Get away from me.
Manuel.
I feel like he creates problems
and then blames them on me.
I feel like he, like,
almost sabotaged this,
so that he can go do what he wants to do.
Because, like, he wanted to be here without me,
and now he's got his wish.
Oh, my God.
Who's my little baby?
Who's my [babbling]?
This is the most exciting birthday
I have ever had.
But I have to tell you something.
This is the first time seeing Carlos in over two years,
and it doesn't seem like time has changed
anyway he feels about me.
It's hot.
You're hot, baby.
I love it out here.
Is that a pigeon?
What the heck?
I know that Jasmine loves,
loves a beach
and alligators.
And I want to do something amazing
for her birthday.
So I have plans to take her to the beach
and also to see some alligators
or try to see some alligators.
I just want to make her feel happy again.
I love it, baby.
The sunshine,
the clear blue sky.
If I close my eyes
while I'm walking on the sand,
I can feel like I'm in Panama.
Really?
When I was a kid-- I'll tell you something crazy,
I used to love, enjoy collecting insects.
Insect?
You're kidding.
Spiders,
bees,
ants.
I would collect them
and put bees in an aquarium, watch them fight.
I'd catch spiders, put them in a jar,
a bunch of them together, watch them fight.
That's actually what...
serial killers do.
Serial killer? You think I'm a serial killer?
What is that?
Wow.
Is that a alligator head?
Or a crocodile?
Yes, ma'am.
This is an alligator.
I have heard that alligators are very friendly.
Yeah, well, they are more--
I wouldn't say they are friendly.
Not-- Not friendly.
They are more docile. They are not as aggressive.
Can I kiss it?
It's up to you.
Okay, if you're ready
to take a tour in the Everglades,
so we'll see what we can find out there.
- Yeah, let's do it. - Yes.
Let's cross our fingers
that alligators will come out. I'm ready.
Don't think that alligators are so friendly,
because you might end up losing your hand.
This one, right? Yes, ma'am.
If you really love me, you will protect me.
Well, if Jasmine uses
her powerful voice,
she will scare any alligator away in seconds.
I have a very delicate voice.
Feminine.
Powerful.
Powerful voice.
Yeah.
Oh, my gosh, look.
Oh, my goodness.
Wait, wait, wait.
See him coming down the trail?
Wow. This is happening.
This is a big male. He's getting right at 10 feet.
Oh, my God.
Mmm.
Who's my little baby?
You are the most beautiful creature I have ever seen.
I love you.
This is such an amazing experience.
Like, this is the most exciting birthday
I have ever had.
I'm so happy to hear that.
I never thought of this.
Mm-hmm.
But I have to tell you something.
Okay.
Leandro had this crazy idea
of...
signing me up
for a beauty pageant workshop
- because-- Yeah. - Oh, really?
- Beauty pageant workshop? - You weren't up in yesterday,
and we were talking.
And I explained to him,
like, how all this situation with my children affected
- my alopecia-- - Uh-huh.
...and the way that I see myself.
And I'm having, like, low self-esteem issues.
And he was saying that what I need is
to focus my energy on other things.
I spoke to Leandro,
and he is very aware
that I'm actually dealing with depression.
My alopecia has gotten worse.
I don't feel pretty.
I don't feel sexy.
I trust on Leandro's judgment,
and I want to do something for myself
to give, like, a boost to my happiness
and to get my confidence back.
He knows the person that hosts
this beauty pageant workshop.
Mm-hmm.
It's just,
you know, and-- at the beginning,
I was hesitant, but--
You in a beauty pageant?
That would be pretty.
I thought that you were going to be against it.
No! I would love to see you in a beauty pageant.
You have a top-notch personality.
You're very smart.
You're a-- you know, very beautiful woman,
very much in shape.
You could easily win the beauty pageant.
Thank you for having so much faith in me, but...
it's tomorrow.
- Tomorrow? - Tomorrow.
- What's tomorrow? - The workshop, you know?
- Oh, workshop. - It's a workshop.
It's in Fort Lauderdale.
Not that far.
That's-- okay, that's excellent.
So we should do that then.
I love you, baby.
Okay, if you think you're ready, why don't you take
a few more last pictures, and then we're going--
- Okay. - ...to get out of here before it turns dark on us.
How's that sound? Okay.
Say "Sneaky".
Sneaky!
Jasmine's state of mind has affected me,
our marriage,
and our sex life.
So if going to this beauty pageant workshop is
going to drag Jasmine out of her depression
and make her happy again,
then I could see this...
possibly helping our intimacy.
Because...
the fact that Jasmine's, you know, down on herself,
it does have a big impact, really, on...
us having a baby or not.
This is the first time seeing Carlos
in over two years,
and it doesn't seem like time
or his beautiful granddaughter has changed
any way he feels about me.
I feel like if I had the opportunity
and knew how important it was
to get the blessing,
I totally would have done it.
And so, you know, I wish I could go back
and do things differently,
but we can't.
should?
Like...
And then...
Immediately?
Imediatamente.
That's a tough one. Imediatamente.
I don't want to ask Carlos for the blessing right now
because it just wouldn't be authentic.
I haven't seen the guy in two years.
I've barely talked to him.
I barely have any time with him.
And I'd rather have his respect
than, you know, get a blessing on our relationship.
I don't get this.
This is definitely not the way that you show him respect.
Like, that's just going to ruin everything.
Mm-hmm. You know, that's my plan.
We just need to find the phone.
I'm going to just check behind the tarantulas, actually.
If I find out Rob actually has
a secret phone, the marriage is finished.
That's, you know, "Goodbye, Rob, forever".
One of them's moving!
♪ Looking for an answer
♪ Reaching for a sign
♪ Somewhere in the distance
♪ A heart is still alive
Right now, I'm just trying to make the place look
a little bit more clean,
'cause... obviously Rob is constantly bothering me
about having to tidy,
so I'm just making sure that, like...
I'm at least trying.
♪ Holding on to something
♪ To bring me home
I don't hate cleaning.
I just hate being told to clean.
I just feel like I'm a grown adult.
No one should tell me to clean,
except my mom, but, like, no one else.
- Hello. - Hello.
Hello, How are you?
I'm okay. Not too bad.
You look nice.
Oh, thank you. You look beautiful.
Thanks.
My mum's been back in Mexico
for a couple of weeks now,
but I haven't told her
that I've actually moved back in with Rob.
I do tell her everything,
but I'm trying to make this marriage work.
And I don't want to add
outside influences and judgments.
And when it comes to Rob,
she has nothing positive, really, to say.
Um,
yeah, so basically, there's something
that I want to tell you.
Oh, God.
What?
- Um-- - What?
Yeah, I've moved back in with Rob.
I think it was, like, two weeks ago.
Whoa, whoa, whoa.
Why wouldn't you tell me this?
It's not a big deal. It's my husband.
So, like, it's not crazy
that I moved in with my husband.
We're working on our issues.
He's agreed to go to couples therapy with me.
So I think that would--
Yeah, I think that would really help... us.
After our trip to the flea market,
me and Rob realized that our relationship needs
more than just the positive energy
from the crystals.
So we decided to give couples therapy a try,
and we've actually made an appointment
to see someone tomorrow.
I think at this point,
we're both willing to at least try
and find happiness between us in our relationship.
Yeah.
For me, trust is the biggest issue
that I have with Rob.
Like, has any weird stuff been going on anymore,
that cheating stuff?
Are you suspicious of anything?
Um...
I don't know that. I don't even know.
The other day,
we was on the bed,
and I heard a vibration.
Like, it sounded like a phone was vibrating,
like, calling.
But it wasn't my phone, and it wasn't his phone.
And then he has this speaker,
and it was Rob's voice on the voicemail.
But his phone was on, like, airplane mode,
- and his Bluetooth was off. - Oh, my God.
I don't know whose phone that is.
It's not even on blue-- It's on airplane mode.
Your recording has reached
the maximum length...
Damn, he's got another phone!
All guys that cheat have two phones.
I don't think he has another phone.
Why would he have it on the bed when I'm there?
Oh, Sophie, wake up and smell the cookie cakes.
I don't think it's a ho phone.
No, now I'm thinking about it, that was really strange.
That was, like, vibrating,
and it wasn't either of our phones.
Since I've moved back in,
I was just going to start to trust him again.
But I'm starting to realize
that Rob actually might have a ho phone.
He's been known to talk to women online
and hide it from me.
He knows I check his actual phone.
So if he was to continue to talk to other women,
he'd have to have a second phone that I don't check.
So I'm just feeling a lot of feelings.
And I'm just like, "Well, now I need
to find the ho phone".
We just need to find the phone.
I'm gonna just check behind the tarantulas, actually.
Look, he has spiders.
Ew.
It's disgusting.
I don't even...
Oh, my God.
I'm gonna be pissed if it's not here, 'cause...
I dropped the book on the thing!
One of them is moving!
No. I will find--
If there's a phone I will find the phone.
I'm not going to confront Rob about this yet,
because we're working on our relationship,
and I'm not going to make our marriage even worse
by having this big argument if I haven't seen any proof.
But if I find out
Rob actually has a secret phone,
then I'm literally...
just packing all my stuff and leaving.
I'm not giving him the opportunity
to try lie to me.
The marriage is finished.
That's, you know, "Goodbye, Rob, forever".
Yeah.
All right, baby girl, come with me.
Perfect.
It's been difficult to stay positive
with the surgery.
What if it doesn't look the way she wants it to look,
and then she wants another one
and another one?
All right there, love. Go ahead.
I'll see you soon.
We're going to take great care of her, man. Yes.
Oh, my God, here we are.
Here we are.
my head is killing me.
Don't worry, you're not going to feel it soon.
Hello, welcome.
- Hi, how are you? - Hi.
Go ahead and have a seat, okay?
We'll be right with you.
Today's surgery day.
I'm really excited about this
because I'm finally doing
what I want for myself,
so I feel good about myself. But...
I'm really nervous.
I'm emotional.
Like, my palms are sweating, actually.
This is it.
This is what I've waited for for a very long time, and...
it's a five-hour surgery ahead of me,
and then a long road of recovery.
Loren?
Yes. - Hi, come on in, please.
Hi.
I'm coming in, too, or am I staying out?
Yes, you're more than welcome to come. Okay.
- Yes. - Come in.
Hello.
How we doing?
How did we sleep last night?
Huh? I didn't. I did not.
Yeah. Well, you're going to get
plenty of rest after the surgery.
Now, once we get you back there,
you'll be nice and relaxed.
We have the bed warm for you,
some nice relaxing music.
Just a couple of reminders. After the surgery,
make sure you don't do any heavy lifting.
So take it easy with the arms.
Stay hydrated.
The recovery for the surgery is
as important as doing the surgery.
Um, if she does anything that is--
involving heavy lifting, stretching, reaching,
we can pop the whole suture line.
She will literally hear a pop-pop-pop-pop.
These are all catastrophes we want to avoid.
But if it happens,
then we have to bring her back to surgery
to repair everything.
It is going to set her back
by three to six months.
For some of the markings, I'd like to start,
if you don't mind, kind of just to the side,
and we'll just kind of mark your arms out a little bit.
We have to do quite a bit of marking,
and that's just our roadmap for the surgery.
Oh, we'll start with some pink for some good juju.
He likes the tuchus.
- Tuchus is in the no-touch zone. - Off limits.
That's off limits.
He's giving me all his no-touch zones.
Ridiculous, this guy.
I'm going to draw the abs on right now.
So, you know, your abs have spread out.
- Yeah. - You know, they should be somewhere over here,
so they've spread out.
And, you know, you talk about the bulge--
Tighten your muscles for me.
So, you know, you have a good muscle tone,
so we're going to really--
The goal is to simulate your muscles
as always being tight.
Honey.
And then we want to make sure that, you know,
you have the C-section scar
- and everything is kind of pulling in and tight. - Yes.
And also above the C-section,
I have that pouch
- that's going to go away, right? - The pouchy area.
That's gone, yeah.
We're going to de-pouch you.
No more pouches-- - Alex.
- for your belly. - Are you so excited?
Ah, I like can't wait for this more than anything.
It's been difficult to stay positive
with the surgery,
knowing deep down that she's already beautiful.
But at the end of the day,
I just want my wife to be happy and confident.
All right, so...
Got to get undressed.
So even though I have my concerns,
I will support whatever she does.
But I hope also it looks the way she wants it to look.
You know what I mean? What if it doesn't look
the way she wants it to look
and then she wants another one
and another one or something like that?
What if it starts a whole thing?
That's not the Loren that I fell in love with.
I don't want that.
This is nothing...
Not yet. This is just like a little--
Something to relax you a little bit.
What do you like to drink?
Tequila. This is three shots of tequila.
Atta girl. Ooh.
Yeah. That's what got me pregnant three times.
Oh!
That's the trick, huh? I don't know.
All right, baby girl, come with me.
Watch your robe.
We got you, baby.
Perfect.
We got you, baby.
You starting to feel a little bit--
I told you, they're fantastic.
Everyone loves them.
That hit fast?
That's it? You're there?
All right, puppy. Hugs and kisses here, okay?
Hugs and kisses. Okay, baby. Yada.
All right. Yada. Go ahead.
I'll see you soon.
We're gonna take great care of her, man.
Yes, I know, I know.
Thank you, guys. Thank you.
All right. All right.
You're gonna love this.
Next time on 90 Day Fiancé,
Happily ever after?...
Oh, Jesus!
What the hell?
So your family essentially paying us a bride price,
it feels...
like we're selling our daughter.
So what would happen then
if we don't want to ask a bride price?
The types of women that you do look online,
they don't look like me.
Like muscular, fitness, bodybuilder women.
It's typical that Sophie would bring up
the online cheating.
And it's like, I can't say nothing
'cause her feelings are valid and mine are invalid.
I'm not like this porn-addicted,
bodybuilder, fetish guy.
Like, what the [bleep]?
That's not who I am.
Sitting here, I'm thinking
all kinds of weird scenarios.
What if something goes wrong?
He's pushing me away.
I'm just starting to wonder if he wants to be free of me.
John just got here, so I'm going
to go meet up with him, okay?
I feel so upset
that Patrick preferred to stay with John
on my birthday than with me.
I don't want to give up.
I want to be with Ed.
I have absolutely no idea
what I would do next if this is the end.
I don't want to meet anybody else.
There is one very important thing
that you are not aware of.
I'm not in the same page as you are.
What do you mean you're not on the same page?
I haven't told Gino
that I don't want to have a baby with him.
And it really destroys me.
Like, I feel so bad.
Where are you going?
I'm going to bed.
I can't do this thing.