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90 Day Fiance:
Happily Ever After?
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See him coming down
the trail?
Mmm-hmm.
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Where's my
alligator going...
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Leandro had this
crazy idea
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of signing me up
for a beauty pageant
workshop.
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Jasmine's state of mind
has affected our sex life.
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So if going to this workshop
is gonna make her happy again,
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I could see this helping us
having a baby.
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I would love to see you
in a beauty pageant.
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I don't want to ask Carlos
for the blessing right now
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because we're already married,
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and I'd rather
have his respect
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than, you know, get a blessing
on our relationship.
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This is definitely not the way
that you show him respect.
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You haven't spoken to me
in three days.
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I don't know what--
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You know
how I feel. I'm--
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I don't want to move
forward with marriage.
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My mind's made up.
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Liz, my mind's made up
regardless, regardless.
Regardless.
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My mind is made up. Okay?
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I don't know
what to expect out of you.
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Oh, she hung up.
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Before the traditional
wedding you tell us
your demands.
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In order to get married
to your daughter.
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I am giving them
my daughter in trade
for goods.
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Nothing about that
feels right to me.
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I mean, how-- What's my--
What's the dowry for me?
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The other day it sounded
like a phone was vibrating,
like calling.
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But it wasn't my phone
and it wasn't his phone.
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He's got another phone.
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All guys that cheat
have two phones.
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If I find out
Rob actually has
a secret phone,
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then I'm-- I'm literally
just packing all my stuff
and leaving
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Communicate with your wife,
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let me know what you're doing
and where you're going.
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Don't just leave me
in the mother [bleep] dark.
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It's been difficult
to stay positive
with the surgery.
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But what if it doesn't look
the way she wants it to look?
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And then she wants another one
and another one...
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I don't want that.
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Yeah.
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My family will be coming over
tomorrow for the knock door,
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which is part
of the traditional
wedding arrangements.
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♪ It is fallen that door
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Oh, man.
You loved it.
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Anyway.
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In Cameroon,
before you get married,
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the groom's parents visit
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the bride's parents
for the first time.
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And the bride's parents,
will prepare a list of things
they require
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before they can marry
their daughter.
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Today Lisa and David
are watching over the kids
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while I take Emily
to the market.
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Because Emily is preparing
a Cameroonian dish
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for my family when they
come over for the knock door.
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These are yams.
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These are yams. Yeah.
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I'm really hoping that,
you know, my family
loves the food,
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and they will understand that
she is really making an effort
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to embrace the culture.
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So what is this thing?
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Do I chop it up?
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Yeah, you have to.
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But there's bones.
Yeah?
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Yeah.
You have to take out
the bones.
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I mean, this market
truly is amazing.
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I mean, it's far different
from a grocery store
in America
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because things like
aren't refrigerated.
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And it has things
that I really didn't even know
people would eat.
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I know I'm a good cook
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But making Cameroonian food
for his whole family
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is a little bit
nerve wracking
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'cause this is like the food
they make every day.
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So I just want to make sure
I do a good job.
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Are you sure I have
everything that I need?
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Yeah,
we have everything.
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Make sure that I get
all the ingredients here,
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- and then we just go home
and then...
- Okay,
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Okay.
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In America I loved
to have dinner parties
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and loved to cook
for big groups of people,
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It was fun.
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- That was an adventure.
- Mmm-hmm
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But here in Cameroon,
I don't know the first thing
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about preparing
their traditional dishes.
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You wanna see the stuff
we got from the market?
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Yes, I do.
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Come on.
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- I mean, I feel like it's--
- I was to see it all.
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It's really gonna be
a fun cooking lesson...
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Yeah.
...for Emily 'cause--
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All right
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So, yeah.
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That-- This is cow skin.
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Cow skin,
we call that kanda?
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Yeah?
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Like there's just no way
you make a delicious eru
without using kanda.
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- Honestly...
- Mmm-hmm.
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I'm afraid to touch it.
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Well it's- It doesn't
smell great, Kobe.
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I gotta--
I gotta be honest.
Yeah.
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This is like
what we give our dogs.
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- I'm just saying.
- No.
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- Like they like
to chew on it, you know.
- Yeah.
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Like it dries out
and then you give it
to the dogs.
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Mmm-hmm.
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All right. You want me
to hold that while we go?
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Yeah. Yeah.
Why don't you do that?
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All right, Let's go.
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All right, Dave.
- All right what?
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- You gotta see this?
- What is it?
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What does this look like?
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It looks like a wet croissant
with something inside it.
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Take a whiff of it.
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Go ahead.
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Oh, Jesus.
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That's cow skin, like,
we cooked with that--
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That's fresh?
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So this is--
This side is the inside,
and this is the outside.
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Oh, my God.
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- Okay, interesting.
- Oh.
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Oh,
your sister is here.
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She is here.
Hello.
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Hello.
Hi!
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Oh, my God.
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I wanted to chat.
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Oh, give me a hug.
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It's my second time
seeing Franca in person
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and really being able
to connect with her.
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We've talked a lot
on social media,
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especially before I got here.
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So she had offered
to give me cooking lessons,
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and I'm really excited
because I get to have finally,
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like one on one time with her,
which I haven't had before.
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What is it?
- Oh...
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You're gonna love this.
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What is it?
What's this?
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Can I see it?
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Get out of the bag.
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Oh, Jesus Christ!
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What the hell.
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Tonight we're making
eru and fufu,
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and we are making
tomato sauce and chicken.
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And fried plantains.
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Ripe plantains?
Well, it's--
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Ripe plantains
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Okay, I'll gonna
move over here
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so you can teach me
what to do.
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Okay.
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Or we take
all the leaves off.
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Don't take flower.
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No, we don't want
the flower, okay.
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Like this?
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- Mmm-hmm.
- Ahh.
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- Good.
That's good, that's good.
- I'm getting there.
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Yes.
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It feels like
the stuff we put in the kid's
Easter basket.
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- You know that,
like fake grass?
- Yeah.
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What do I do
with the fish?
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How, though?
Like this?
Yes.
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I don't want to give
anybody bone to eat.
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Yes.
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This meal
has to be perfect.
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Yes.
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What would his
parents think if I made,
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like a bunch of like,
American food
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instead of Cameroonian food?
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Like, what if I made meatloaf,
'cause you like meatloaf?
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Meatloaf, mashed potatoes,
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apple pie,
homemade ice cream.
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Are you sure?
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- Yeah. You know.
- I mean, we're in Cameroon.
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I feel like my parents
want to see that
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okay, you can take care of me
in the Cameroonian way.
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You know, we're like,
you can cook
in a Cameroonian-- You know.
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So it seems like
they're just gonna be
watching me, like--
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Yeah, I mean, it's pretty much
the same thing
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just to make sure
that, okay...
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- I made the right choice.
- Yeah
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I mean,
I'm a little intimidated
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because I want to make sure
that his family accepts me.
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Especially because last night
didn't go well
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with Kobe's friends.
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So I worry that if I must
stuff up with his family
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and then nobody
in Cameroon likes me,
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then this whole trip
is just gonna be
a [bleep] show.
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Whoa, whoa!
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Okay.
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♪ Turn up your love
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♪ Give me the dream I adore
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So do you--
Do you feel good about this?
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Do you feel good about it?
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Yeah, that we are gonna go
to therapy now.
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How about you?
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Yeah.
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♪ Just turn it up!
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♪ Turn it up
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♪ Just turn it up!
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You want
to elaborate on that.
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How you feel about it
a little bit more,
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or do you just--
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I don't know.
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I mean, I'm just
gonna see how it goes.
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We're on our way
to couples therapy,
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and even now things
are better
since I've moved in,
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me and Rob
still have a lot of issues
we need to sort out
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I have a lot of
pent up resentment
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and negative feelings
towards Rob
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because of everything
he's put me through
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and the trust issues,
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and we do need
to talk about them.
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But I'm also very nervous
about how that might go.
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Let's do
the damn thing.
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I'm also so skeptical
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about Rob having
a second phone.
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I looked for the hophone again
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after Rob went to bed
last night.
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I checked everywhere
in the house.
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It wasn't there.
So then I checked his car.
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And I just didn't find it.
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Hi.
- Hi. Nice to meet you.
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Nice to meet you. I'm Rob.
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I'm Vielka.
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Nice to meet you,
Vielka.
- Hi. I'm Sophie.
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For now I'm just
gonna let it go
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because I'm trying
to utilize this time
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to we actually fix our issues,
and so I don't really want
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to start a huge fight with him
about this hophone
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when I don't even have proof
that there is one.
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I would like to start
by hearing a little bit
about you.
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How did you guys meet?
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How was it at the beginning?
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How was that?
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You start.
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Why me?
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Because I always usually
do all the talking.
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So I want you to do
more talking today.
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Okay. Um, we met like,
four and a half years ago.
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I'm from England, London
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and he's at the time
he lived in LA
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and I found him
on social media.
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Immediately I knew
she was beautiful.
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And I was really looking
for a down to earth,
you know, person.
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And I felt like I had
found that in Sophie.
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And then about a year ago,
I moved to America
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and we got married.
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He's like 32.
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I'm 24.
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I'm 33.
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- You're 33.
- Mmm-hmm.
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Yes.
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I mean, you had
just turned the age of--
254
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I've been 33
for like eight months.
255
00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:50,793
It's one of those things
that makes you feel
256
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like the other person
just doesn't quite care
about you.
257
00:12:53,689 --> 00:12:55,275
If they don't remember
your own age.
258
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You know my bad.
259
00:12:57,275 --> 00:12:58,896
I'm not gonna hold it
against her.
260
00:12:58,896 --> 00:13:01,068
I'm just gonna chalk it up
to I just look younger.
261
00:13:01,068 --> 00:13:04,172
So it's hard to say
that I'm older
when I look so young.
262
00:13:04,172 --> 00:13:05,137
Yeah.
263
00:13:06,620 --> 00:13:08,896
Well, he's 33. I'm 24
264
00:13:08,896 --> 00:13:12,482
So like I still enjoy,
like going to bars sometimes
or like clubs,
265
00:13:12,482 --> 00:13:14,034
and like he doesn't
like to do that.
266
00:13:15,793 --> 00:13:19,172
Mm hmm.
So what do you think
is happening
267
00:13:19,172 --> 00:13:20,448
with your relationship?
268
00:13:20,448 --> 00:13:22,379
What is something
that you wish
would be different?
269
00:13:23,413 --> 00:13:25,379
We have a lot of like
arguments at home,
270
00:13:25,379 --> 00:13:27,793
like we bicker constantly.
271
00:13:27,793 --> 00:13:29,275
I have some
trust issues with him,
272
00:13:29,275 --> 00:13:31,689
which I think I still like.
273
00:13:31,689 --> 00:13:33,896
subconsciously like,
resent him for.
274
00:13:37,172 --> 00:13:38,896
Like he's never
physically cheated on me
275
00:13:38,896 --> 00:13:40,275
but it was online.
276
00:13:40,275 --> 00:13:43,862
and so I think that's also,
like affected our intimacy
as well.
277
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It's typical that Sophie
would bring up
the online cheating.
278
00:13:48,379 --> 00:13:50,000
And it's like
I can't say nothing
279
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'cause her feelings are valid
and mine are invalid.
280
00:13:52,896 --> 00:13:54,793
So I'm really hoping
the therapist
281
00:13:54,793 --> 00:13:57,862
can kind of help us move on
from our past issues.
282
00:13:59,103 --> 00:14:02,275
And understand
what we could do now
to move forward.
283
00:14:03,172 --> 00:14:06,034
So how would you describe
your sex life right now?
284
00:14:07,379 --> 00:14:09,379
Uh, right now
we don't have one.
285
00:14:10,931 --> 00:14:13,172
Like I have
a mental block of like,
286
00:14:13,172 --> 00:14:14,896
what if he's thinking
about the girls online?
287
00:14:14,896 --> 00:14:17,551
And so I don't really wanna
be physical with him?
288
00:14:18,517 --> 00:14:20,172
And then he wants me
to, like,
289
00:14:20,172 --> 00:14:21,793
dress up every time
I have sex.
290
00:14:21,793 --> 00:14:23,586
- I feel like--
- You only dressed up
one time to have sex.
291
00:14:23,586 --> 00:14:24,689
'Cause I don't want to.
292
00:14:24,689 --> 00:14:27,172
Okay, it's not even
about the outfit.
293
00:14:27,172 --> 00:14:29,448
It's about that's for me.
294
00:14:31,172 --> 00:14:35,275
It's just about the my wife
looking sexy as hell,
295
00:14:35,275 --> 00:14:38,482
and she did that for me,
like she knows I like it.
296
00:14:38,482 --> 00:14:40,896
I'm into the costumes
just because I think it's hot.
297
00:14:40,896 --> 00:14:43,000
You throw on
like that little sexy skirt
298
00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:44,689
and you know, a little
bunny ears, whatever.
299
00:14:44,689 --> 00:14:46,482
And then and I come home
from work
300
00:14:46,482 --> 00:14:47,586
and we can get cracking.
301
00:14:47,586 --> 00:14:49,896
I think she would
really rock, um...
302
00:14:49,896 --> 00:14:51,551
Velma from Scooby-Doo.
303
00:14:53,310 --> 00:14:54,275
Is it, Velma?
304
00:14:54,275 --> 00:14:56,793
Which one is the one
in the orange?
305
00:14:56,793 --> 00:15:00,068
That's Velma. Yeah.
Velma's ass is cute. Uh...
306
00:15:00,068 --> 00:15:01,068
Who else?
307
00:15:01,931 --> 00:15:03,172
Nah! Not Daphne.
308
00:15:03,172 --> 00:15:05,482
Daphne can go. Um...
309
00:15:09,689 --> 00:15:11,482
Not because I want her
to be a maid,
310
00:15:11,482 --> 00:15:13,896
but just because
it's a hot ass outfit.
311
00:15:13,896 --> 00:15:15,551
Is like the skirt.
312
00:15:16,275 --> 00:15:18,482
And then the little duster.
313
00:15:18,482 --> 00:15:20,758
The duster [bleep] hot.
314
00:15:21,413 --> 00:15:23,068
At this point
in our relationship,
315
00:15:23,068 --> 00:15:24,793
we haven't had sex
in so long
316
00:15:24,793 --> 00:15:27,482
that I feel like
you need to--
317
00:15:27,482 --> 00:15:29,241
You need to knock
that wall down.
318
00:15:30,586 --> 00:15:32,896
It's so bad
where she's now like,
319
00:15:32,896 --> 00:15:36,172
I'm mean, she moved out
three months ago.
320
00:15:36,172 --> 00:15:38,068
And she's just now
moving home.
321
00:15:38,068 --> 00:15:39,896
- Okay.
- 'Cause she finally decided
322
00:15:39,896 --> 00:15:42,896
to maybe try
and work on this relationship.
323
00:15:42,896 --> 00:15:45,379
What made me move out
was basically um...
324
00:15:45,379 --> 00:15:46,896
like after we got married,
325
00:15:46,896 --> 00:15:50,068
I found out he was speaking
to multiple girls online.
326
00:15:50,068 --> 00:15:53,896
You shouldn't be flirting,
receiving naked pictures,
327
00:15:53,896 --> 00:15:56,689
him telling them
they look really beautiful
and asking for more.
328
00:15:56,689 --> 00:15:58,068
To me, that's cheating.
329
00:16:00,793 --> 00:16:03,068
And it hurt like
my view on myself.
330
00:16:03,068 --> 00:16:05,896
The types of women
that you do look online
331
00:16:05,896 --> 00:16:07,551
like they don't look like me.
332
00:16:10,103 --> 00:16:12,793
Like muscular, fitness,
bodybuilding women.
333
00:16:12,793 --> 00:16:14,000
I don't look like that.
334
00:16:17,482 --> 00:16:19,965
Okay, so can you make
an effort to hear her?
335
00:16:21,793 --> 00:16:23,068
Because if you're
gonna do that--
336
00:16:23,068 --> 00:16:25,793
She's making me
sound so [bleep] crazy.
337
00:16:25,793 --> 00:16:27,379
You make me look so wild?
338
00:16:27,379 --> 00:16:28,689
It's so crazy
to like fit, like fit?
339
00:16:28,689 --> 00:16:30,379
- Muscular women--
- Fitness chicks
is one thing.
340
00:16:30,379 --> 00:16:31,620
Bodybuilder women?
341
00:16:32,586 --> 00:16:35,586
That is literally like some--
Some fetish deviant
342
00:16:39,586 --> 00:16:41,172
There's a
Rob and why--
343
00:16:41,172 --> 00:16:44,275
...category of men.
that like to
bodybuilder women.
344
00:16:44,275 --> 00:16:45,586
And now that's who I am.
345
00:16:45,586 --> 00:16:48,896
Rob, I'm gonna
kindly stop you now.
Man, dude,
346
00:16:48,896 --> 00:16:51,689
- A lot of things need
to change--
- But I did change.
347
00:16:51,689 --> 00:16:53,275
- The thing is,
there's no conversation--
- Though, so--
348
00:16:53,275 --> 00:16:54,793
You're interrupting--
You're interrupting me.
349
00:16:54,793 --> 00:16:58,482
I'm not like this porn
addicted bodybuilder
fetish guy.
350
00:16:58,482 --> 00:16:59,586
Like what
351
00:16:59,586 --> 00:17:01,137
That's not who I am.
352
00:17:02,689 --> 00:17:04,896
In my defense,
they are all pretty muscular.
353
00:17:04,896 --> 00:17:07,379
You don't see these type
of women just walking around.
354
00:17:07,379 --> 00:17:09,965
They had like,
serious fitness.
355
00:17:10,896 --> 00:17:12,689
He likes to save
their photos
356
00:17:12,689 --> 00:17:14,172
and like all of their photos,
357
00:17:14,172 --> 00:17:16,689
and he claims it's for his
fitness inspiration,
358
00:17:16,689 --> 00:17:18,793
which is the most ridiculous
thing I ever heard in my life.
359
00:17:18,793 --> 00:17:20,379
Let's be real
as to why you follow them.
360
00:17:20,379 --> 00:17:22,000
They pose all ass shots,
361
00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,000
and I feel like
that's again him
362
00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:25,379
invalidating my feelings.
363
00:17:25,379 --> 00:17:27,000
He makes me feel stupid
364
00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,172
for feeling upset over things,
and this is why I hate
365
00:17:29,172 --> 00:17:30,275
being vulnerable with him
366
00:17:30,275 --> 00:17:32,482
because I should be able
to have emotions
367
00:17:32,482 --> 00:17:34,689
and not feel
like I have to hide them.
368
00:17:34,689 --> 00:17:36,482
Stop lying.
369
00:17:36,482 --> 00:17:38,172
If you're gonna lie.
I'm not doing therapy
with you.
370
00:17:38,172 --> 00:17:39,689
- Be honest.
Just say I'm sorry...
- Lie about what?
371
00:17:39,689 --> 00:17:40,689
...I hurt your feelings.
372
00:17:40,689 --> 00:17:42,896
What can I do
to help our relationship?
373
00:17:53,379 --> 00:17:56,172
I'm definitely
nervous and anxious
about the surgery.
374
00:17:56,172 --> 00:17:58,689
Sitting here, I'm thinking
all kind of weird scenarios.
375
00:17:58,689 --> 00:18:00,000
What if something
goes wrong?
376
00:18:02,793 --> 00:18:05,000
Maybe I should have taken
a stronger stance
377
00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:07,068
against Loren
having the surgery.
378
00:18:55,379 --> 00:18:58,793
I'm definitely nervous
and anxious about the surgery.
379
00:18:58,793 --> 00:19:01,172
I mean, I gave Loren
a kiss goodbye.
380
00:19:01,172 --> 00:19:05,275
And then now I'm gonna
have to wait for six hours
during this surgery
381
00:19:05,275 --> 00:19:07,241
not knowing
how it's gonna go.
382
00:19:09,310 --> 00:19:11,379
It's sad that
the woman that I love
383
00:19:11,379 --> 00:19:14,379
needs to feel like
she's gotta do this surgery
384
00:19:14,379 --> 00:19:18,000
and go under the knife
to feel beautiful.
385
00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:21,000
But I know that
she's doing this
to be a happier
386
00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,275
and more confident person.
387
00:19:23,275 --> 00:19:25,448
So I'm doing my best
to support her.
388
00:19:29,206 --> 00:19:30,482
Hi, what's going on?
389
00:19:30,482 --> 00:19:33,758
Hey, Marlene,
no, everything is good.
390
00:19:33,758 --> 00:19:35,896
Just wanted
to let you know that,
391
00:19:35,896 --> 00:19:40,379
you know, the surgery started
about 35, 40 min ago,
392
00:19:40,379 --> 00:19:42,482
and I'm just
waiting out here.
393
00:19:47,482 --> 00:19:49,275
Yeah.
No, I didn't have any luck.
394
00:19:49,275 --> 00:19:50,482
I did try, though.
395
00:19:50,482 --> 00:19:51,896
I did try. But...
396
00:20:04,517 --> 00:20:06,862
I know, I know,
I know...
397
00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:11,172
Yeah.
398
00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,275
Yeah, I know.
399
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:23,068
All right, honey.
400
00:20:24,586 --> 00:20:25,689
I will.
401
00:20:26,793 --> 00:20:29,068
- All right. Bye.
- Okay. Bye.
402
00:20:32,758 --> 00:20:35,758
I think what makes
this procedure
even more stressful
403
00:20:35,758 --> 00:20:38,379
is the fact that
a lot of people
are relying to her,
404
00:20:38,379 --> 00:20:39,758
not just me.
405
00:20:39,758 --> 00:20:40,862
It's also the kids.
406
00:20:40,862 --> 00:20:43,068
It's Loren's parents
and sister.
407
00:20:43,068 --> 00:20:45,482
So I think everybody
is a little bit on edge
408
00:20:45,482 --> 00:20:49,275
until we know
that everything is over
and surgery is success.
409
00:20:51,379 --> 00:20:52,793
Hey.
- Hey.
410
00:20:52,793 --> 00:20:55,241
So I just wanted to give you
a little update. Okay?
411
00:20:59,586 --> 00:21:03,482
Okay, Cool. So, right
lipo and then injection
412
00:21:03,482 --> 00:21:05,586
and then the tummy tuck
is the last. Right?
413
00:21:05,586 --> 00:21:06,689
That's correct. Yeah.
414
00:21:06,689 --> 00:21:08,758
The incision, all of that
is still coming up.
415
00:21:08,758 --> 00:21:10,793
Yeah, so we have a little
ways to go,
416
00:21:10,793 --> 00:21:12,275
but she's doing really well.
417
00:21:12,275 --> 00:21:13,896
- All right. Thank you so much.
- You're very welcome.
418
00:21:13,896 --> 00:21:15,241
- Get some rest.
- Thank you.
419
00:22:04,172 --> 00:22:07,862
It was It feels like
almost torture, sitting here,
waiting around,
420
00:22:07,862 --> 00:22:11,862
and it's a major surgery
and things can happen.
421
00:22:11,862 --> 00:22:13,275
So while I'm sitting here.
422
00:22:13,275 --> 00:22:15,172
I'm thinking
all kind of weird scenarios.
423
00:22:15,172 --> 00:22:16,655
What if something
goes wrong?
424
00:22:16,655 --> 00:22:20,482
What if, you know,
her body part looks
too weird or I don't know.
425
00:22:20,482 --> 00:22:22,275
She comes out all botched.
426
00:22:26,413 --> 00:22:27,758
I'm starting to wonder
427
00:22:27,758 --> 00:22:29,896
maybe I should have taken
a stronger stance
428
00:22:29,896 --> 00:22:32,000
against Loren
having this surgery.
429
00:22:38,172 --> 00:22:40,896
♪ No promises
430
00:22:40,896 --> 00:22:44,068
♪ No excuses
431
00:22:44,068 --> 00:22:48,000
♪ Life is the lesson
what you reap what you... ♪
432
00:23:07,379 --> 00:23:12,068
♪ See my kingdom
They layed out for me ♪
433
00:23:12,068 --> 00:23:15,172
♪ I'm Comin' home
434
00:23:15,172 --> 00:23:19,862
♪ I'm Comin' home, oh
435
00:24:08,482 --> 00:24:10,172
Manuel.
436
00:24:30,758 --> 00:24:33,000
Manuel has been
acting like a child
437
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,206
since we got to New York.
438
00:24:34,206 --> 00:24:37,379
He's been throwing tantrums,
leaving without telling me
439
00:24:37,379 --> 00:24:41,034
and really trying
to exclude me from his life.
440
00:24:41,896 --> 00:24:43,275
I'm really tired
of hearing him say
441
00:24:43,275 --> 00:24:44,586
that I'm the one
with the problem.
442
00:24:44,586 --> 00:24:46,344
When he's the one
pushing me away.
443
00:24:47,379 --> 00:24:50,000
I'm just starting to wonder
if he wants to be free of me.
444
00:25:59,689 --> 00:26:00,689
No!
445
00:28:10,103 --> 00:28:12,758
I definitely don't want
my relationship to be
over with Ed.
446
00:28:12,758 --> 00:28:14,275
I don't want to give up.
447
00:28:14,275 --> 00:28:15,758
I want to be with Ed.
448
00:28:16,793 --> 00:28:19,896
I have absolutely no idea
what I would do next
449
00:28:19,896 --> 00:28:21,344
if this is the end.
450
00:28:33,965 --> 00:28:39,931
♪ Love, can't protect
you now ♪
451
00:28:42,862 --> 00:28:45,655
♪ The love that I can feel
452
00:28:46,586 --> 00:28:50,344
♪ It'll only break you down
453
00:28:52,586 --> 00:28:57,448
♪ Oh, daylight's dying
454
00:28:57,448 --> 00:29:01,241
♪ Run, baby run, baby run
455
00:29:06,137 --> 00:29:08,965
Five days ago,
Ed completely blindsided me
456
00:29:08,965 --> 00:29:10,068
and canceled the wedding.
457
00:29:12,103 --> 00:29:15,551
He is completely
avoiding coming home.
458
00:29:15,551 --> 00:29:17,172
The other day,
I didn't have enough notice
459
00:29:17,172 --> 00:29:18,965
to get childcare
for my daughter
460
00:29:18,965 --> 00:29:21,103
and meet Ed at a bar.
461
00:29:21,103 --> 00:29:24,482
But today Ed finally agreed
to meet up with me
462
00:29:24,482 --> 00:29:25,896
at a more
appropriate location
463
00:29:25,896 --> 00:29:27,655
so I can figure out
what's going on.
464
00:29:32,379 --> 00:29:33,965
Hey, can I get you anything?
465
00:29:33,965 --> 00:29:35,655
I have water. Thank you.
466
00:29:38,172 --> 00:29:41,275
I definitely don't want
my relationship to be
over with Ed.
467
00:29:41,275 --> 00:29:42,862
Being in a
committed relationship,
468
00:29:42,862 --> 00:29:44,448
you-- you stick through it.
469
00:29:45,344 --> 00:29:48,448
Hard is-- A 100%
470
00:29:49,103 --> 00:29:51,689
So I don't want to give up.
471
00:29:51,689 --> 00:29:53,241
I want to be with Ed.
472
00:29:53,241 --> 00:29:56,448
I have absolutely no idea
what I would do next
473
00:29:56,448 --> 00:29:57,655
if this is the end.
474
00:29:58,379 --> 00:30:00,655
And that scares me.
475
00:30:07,965 --> 00:30:09,310
So how are you doing?
476
00:30:18,896 --> 00:30:20,000
Well...
477
00:30:23,586 --> 00:30:26,172
I want you
to know that um...
478
00:30:27,586 --> 00:30:30,965
I think I've been
kind of just looking
for an excuse--
479
00:30:32,448 --> 00:30:34,241
To call off the wedding?
480
00:30:41,482 --> 00:30:44,862
We both have had
marriages,
481
00:30:46,344 --> 00:30:50,482
and I know we wouldn't want
to end in a divorce.
482
00:30:50,482 --> 00:30:53,931
And that's how--
how I saw happening,
483
00:30:53,931 --> 00:30:55,862
and I didn't want
to do that to you.
484
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,344
You know, don't you think that
I should have known first?
485
00:31:02,068 --> 00:31:03,344
Yeah.
486
00:31:07,448 --> 00:31:10,448
You told-- And I had
to find out through
your friend, Ed.
487
00:31:16,344 --> 00:31:17,448
I know
488
00:31:20,586 --> 00:31:23,655
I don't always
handle things well.
489
00:31:23,655 --> 00:31:24,793
As your know.
490
00:31:28,241 --> 00:31:30,655
You know how
embarrassing that is.
491
00:31:37,586 --> 00:31:39,448
It's not like
I want somebody else.
492
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:42,034
That's not what it is.
493
00:31:42,034 --> 00:31:46,068
I just--
I want to be single.
494
00:31:47,551 --> 00:31:49,206
Work on my career and...
495
00:31:52,344 --> 00:31:54,000
Then you'll find someone.
496
00:31:59,551 --> 00:32:01,758
You're gonna be the best
version of yourself,
497
00:32:01,758 --> 00:32:03,620
and it's not gonna be with me.
498
00:32:06,379 --> 00:32:08,103
Liz rest assured...
499
00:32:12,379 --> 00:32:15,758
You're a better person
out here, Ed.
500
00:32:19,896 --> 00:32:22,655
And I'm losing that.
And I helped create that.
501
00:32:22,655 --> 00:32:25,758
And I stuck with you
through everything.
502
00:32:32,482 --> 00:32:35,344
I hate thinking about you
with someone else.
503
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:45,827
I wanted to stop
lying to myself
that I was happy. Um...
504
00:32:46,655 --> 00:32:49,655
This had more to do with me
than anybody else.
505
00:32:49,655 --> 00:32:53,758
I just felt myself
falling out of love with Liz.
506
00:32:54,586 --> 00:32:58,448
You know,
as hard as it is on Liz,
507
00:32:58,448 --> 00:33:02,758
You know, I wanted to take
the least painful approach.
508
00:33:05,103 --> 00:33:07,965
And this definitely wasn't
the least painful way.
509
00:33:13,379 --> 00:33:16,241
So we have some time
left on our lease.
510
00:33:16,241 --> 00:33:18,965
I just wanna help you,
you know, figure things out.
511
00:33:18,965 --> 00:33:21,827
And I just want to be
cordial to you and Riley.
512
00:33:24,482 --> 00:33:26,827
I want you to be happy,
and I want you to--
513
00:33:27,482 --> 00:33:28,689
You're a lot younger
than I am.
514
00:33:28,689 --> 00:33:30,344
You have your whole life
ahead of you.
515
00:33:32,896 --> 00:33:35,241
If you ever meet
anybody like me, just run.
516
00:33:36,689 --> 00:33:39,137
I don't want to meet
anybody else.
517
00:33:49,689 --> 00:33:52,137
♪ I can't
518
00:33:53,275 --> 00:33:54,448
I am sorry.
519
00:33:54,448 --> 00:33:57,448
♪ Waiting for you
520
00:33:59,965 --> 00:34:03,241
♪ Nor I
521
00:34:04,103 --> 00:34:08,344
♪ Don't even know you...
522
00:34:10,896 --> 00:34:13,896
I went from
about to be getting married
523
00:34:13,896 --> 00:34:16,965
to single
and completely alone.
524
00:34:18,551 --> 00:34:21,965
I think it's really
to give three years
525
00:34:21,965 --> 00:34:25,689
to yourself to someone
and have it end like this.
526
00:34:25,689 --> 00:34:29,000
He really made me feel
that no matter how hard
things got out here,
527
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:30,793
we would always
work through it.
528
00:34:30,793 --> 00:34:34,068
And knowing
everything that I gave up,
529
00:34:34,068 --> 00:34:37,241
I think the hardest part
is just having to start over.
530
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,413
I don't have any choice
but to walk away.
531
00:34:52,551 --> 00:34:53,862
Where did you park?
532
00:34:55,068 --> 00:34:56,965
Far away from you.
533
00:34:56,965 --> 00:35:03,241
♪ When you're falling
534
00:35:05,275 --> 00:35:09,448
♪ When you're
falling down ♪
535
00:35:13,896 --> 00:35:16,551
Okay, so now
we're going to do
a little demonstration.
536
00:35:16,551 --> 00:35:19,827
You drop your hands down
and start your walk.
537
00:35:21,241 --> 00:35:22,172
Wow.
538
00:35:22,172 --> 00:35:24,448
Jasmine if you could
please join me.
539
00:35:24,448 --> 00:35:27,103
I came to this worship
feeling like nobody,
540
00:35:27,103 --> 00:35:31,862
but right now, I mean,
Jasmine the queen mode
541
00:35:31,862 --> 00:35:33,655
I like it.
542
00:35:37,586 --> 00:35:38,482
♪ Hey
543
00:35:38,482 --> 00:35:40,758
♪ I think she knows that
544
00:35:40,758 --> 00:35:43,103
♪ But I'm gonna show it
545
00:35:43,103 --> 00:35:44,551
♪ Show it all...
546
00:35:45,482 --> 00:35:48,379
I have to practice
my beauty queen smile
547
00:35:48,379 --> 00:35:51,103
because I open my mouth
like an alligator to be--
548
00:35:51,103 --> 00:35:52,896
Just be yourself.
549
00:35:52,896 --> 00:35:55,344
You have
a very beautiful smile.
550
00:35:55,344 --> 00:35:57,448
♪ The good vibes
are taking over ♪
551
00:36:03,448 --> 00:36:05,275
So this is the place, right?
552
00:36:05,275 --> 00:36:06,413
Yeah.
553
00:36:07,172 --> 00:36:08,586
This is it.
554
00:36:08,586 --> 00:36:10,448
Ah! Perfect.
555
00:36:13,448 --> 00:36:15,965
Today we're going
to the beauty pageant workshop
556
00:36:15,965 --> 00:36:19,241
that Leandro's friend
Willina is hosting.
557
00:36:20,068 --> 00:36:22,137
So I understand
my title in classic...
558
00:36:22,137 --> 00:36:23,586
Hello?
559
00:36:23,586 --> 00:36:25,758
Hi.
Jasmine!
560
00:36:25,758 --> 00:36:27,413
- How are you?
- Hi.
561
00:36:28,551 --> 00:36:29,655
Nice to meet you.
562
00:36:29,655 --> 00:36:31,344
My God, you're so gorgeous.
563
00:36:31,344 --> 00:36:33,896
You are so gorgeous.
You look amazing.
564
00:36:33,896 --> 00:36:35,551
I love this set on you.
565
00:36:35,551 --> 00:36:38,655
Thank you. My husband
help me pick it up.
566
00:36:39,344 --> 00:36:40,793
Nice to meet you. Gino.
567
00:36:40,793 --> 00:36:42,413
Yes, this is Gino.
568
00:36:43,551 --> 00:36:44,586
Leandro signed you up,
569
00:36:44,586 --> 00:36:46,965
but I wasn't sure if you were
gonna show up.
570
00:36:46,965 --> 00:36:48,965
I wasn't sure myself.
571
00:36:48,965 --> 00:36:52,655
Trust me.
You are going to want
to join this pageant.
572
00:36:52,655 --> 00:36:57,482
I'm scare because
I don't look at myself
as a beautiful woman.
573
00:36:57,482 --> 00:37:01,137
I have always struggled
with my body image
and confidence.
574
00:37:01,137 --> 00:37:02,275
- So...
- Oh, come on.
575
00:37:02,275 --> 00:37:04,896
You know
you're very beautiful.
576
00:37:04,896 --> 00:37:08,793
You have this
passionate personality.
577
00:37:08,793 --> 00:37:10,344
You're gonna
knock them dead.
578
00:37:10,344 --> 00:37:13,689
I-- I don't have faith
in myself
579
00:37:13,689 --> 00:37:14,827
but thank you.
580
00:37:16,034 --> 00:37:17,965
- Let's meet
some of the girls.
- Yes.
581
00:37:17,965 --> 00:37:19,448
- Are you down for that? Yes?
- Yeah. Yes.
582
00:37:19,448 --> 00:37:22,965
Let's meet the beauty queens.
Oh, my God!
583
00:37:22,965 --> 00:37:24,689
So we have Sklouchere.
584
00:37:24,689 --> 00:37:26,137
Jasmine. Nice to meet you.
585
00:37:26,137 --> 00:37:28,103
- Sklouchere,
nice to meet you too.
- Sklouchere.
586
00:37:28,103 --> 00:37:29,482
This is Dallas.
587
00:37:29,482 --> 00:37:30,758
- Nice to meet you, Jasmine.
- Jasmine.
588
00:37:30,758 --> 00:37:32,000
- I'm so glad you're here.
- Nice to meet you.
589
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,103
- Thank you so much--
- This is Mariant.
590
00:37:34,103 --> 00:37:35,344
My pleasure beautiful.
591
00:37:35,344 --> 00:37:36,655
Oh.
592
00:37:36,655 --> 00:37:38,862
You are beautiful.
My gosh.
593
00:37:38,862 --> 00:37:41,275
And of course,
our Miss Angela Posillico.
594
00:37:41,275 --> 00:37:43,896
- Nice to meet you.
- And welcome.
Beautiful to have you here.
595
00:37:43,896 --> 00:37:45,344
Thank you.
Thank you so much.
596
00:37:45,344 --> 00:37:47,000
This is my husband.
597
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,034
- Gino.
- Hello.
598
00:37:48,034 --> 00:37:49,655
Hi Gino.
Nice to meet you.
599
00:37:49,655 --> 00:37:52,034
Yes, he's gonna be around.
600
00:37:52,034 --> 00:37:54,758
I hope that doesn't
bother you girls.
601
00:37:54,758 --> 00:37:55,862
- Right?
- No, not at all.
602
00:37:55,862 --> 00:37:57,344
Okay.
603
00:37:57,344 --> 00:37:59,551
I am happy that you're here,
604
00:37:59,551 --> 00:38:01,551
and I truly
appreciate it, baby.
605
00:38:01,551 --> 00:38:05,172
But he's gonna be surrounded
by all these beautiful women.
606
00:38:05,172 --> 00:38:07,000
I'm just saying.
607
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,896
- I only have eyes for you.
Don't worry.
- Better
608
00:38:15,758 --> 00:38:18,344
Just a little bit about
Miss International World.
609
00:38:18,344 --> 00:38:19,896
We are more than a pageant.
610
00:38:19,896 --> 00:38:21,896
We empower all women
through a crown.
611
00:38:21,896 --> 00:38:23,758
We like to make dreams
become a reality.
612
00:38:25,103 --> 00:38:30,103
Okay, so this workshop
is intended to help you guys
613
00:38:30,103 --> 00:38:32,586
with your preparation
for the pageant.
614
00:38:32,586 --> 00:38:34,482
I know you ladies probably
have a lot of questions.
615
00:38:34,482 --> 00:38:35,551
So who wants to go first?
616
00:38:35,551 --> 00:38:36,827
What questions
do we have here?
617
00:38:39,482 --> 00:38:41,965
So is is there an age limit?
618
00:38:41,965 --> 00:38:44,275
'Cause I just turned 37,
619
00:38:44,275 --> 00:38:47,103
and I look at myself
like too old for--
620
00:38:47,103 --> 00:38:48,655
You look so young.
621
00:38:48,655 --> 00:38:49,862
Oh, look at Dallas.
622
00:38:49,862 --> 00:38:51,689
She's over here.
Like, what are you--
623
00:38:51,689 --> 00:38:53,482
A woman
never tells her age.
624
00:38:53,482 --> 00:38:55,137
But I'll be 44 in January.
625
00:38:55,137 --> 00:38:56,241
What?
626
00:38:57,137 --> 00:38:58,586
She looks great.
627
00:38:58,586 --> 00:39:00,172
Age is only a number.
628
00:39:00,172 --> 00:39:02,793
Nothing that you should
identify with ever.
629
00:39:02,793 --> 00:39:04,068
No.
- Ever.
630
00:39:09,758 --> 00:39:11,758
Which is hair loss.
631
00:39:11,758 --> 00:39:14,862
and just by looking
at your hair all of you girls
632
00:39:14,862 --> 00:39:17,275
like It's so perfect
and amazing.
633
00:39:17,275 --> 00:39:21,586
I um... I might even
lose all of it.
634
00:39:21,586 --> 00:39:24,758
I-- I wanted
to shave it like,
a few days ago.
635
00:39:24,758 --> 00:39:26,000
- Actully--
- Oh, no. Don't do that.
636
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,000
No.
I was so close to do it.
637
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,241
That's completely
normal.
638
00:39:29,241 --> 00:39:31,241
And I'm--
Jasmine.
639
00:39:31,241 --> 00:39:34,206
Your alopecia is something
that you should not
worry about, not one bit.
640
00:39:35,103 --> 00:39:36,655
Do you know how many of us
641
00:39:36,655 --> 00:39:39,655
that are possibly
wearing wigs, clip ins?
642
00:39:39,655 --> 00:39:41,689
These are all things
that we do to enhance
643
00:39:41,689 --> 00:39:43,620
the beautifulness
that we already have.
644
00:39:44,275 --> 00:39:45,793
Don't let it define you.
645
00:39:45,793 --> 00:39:48,862
And don't let it stop you
from anything.
646
00:39:48,862 --> 00:39:50,965
That was beautiful.
- That was very touching.
647
00:39:50,965 --> 00:39:53,068
Beautiful.
That was
so beautiful.
648
00:39:56,689 --> 00:39:58,689
I need you
to stop that. Okay?
649
00:39:58,689 --> 00:40:01,448
I feel
so ugly lately
- No, you're not ugly.
650
00:40:01,448 --> 00:40:02,551
You're beautiful.
651
00:40:02,551 --> 00:40:04,655
I don't like
what I see in the mirror.
652
00:40:04,655 --> 00:40:05,862
You don't like it,
but we do.
653
00:40:07,344 --> 00:40:09,241
Focus on the things
you like about yourself.
654
00:40:10,586 --> 00:40:12,172
I like my-- I'm gonna
sound so weird.
655
00:40:12,172 --> 00:40:13,862
You love your arms?
- I like my arms.
656
00:40:13,862 --> 00:40:16,586
I like my arms too
they're muscular.
657
00:40:16,586 --> 00:40:19,551
Well, you know what I mean,
just admiring those things
658
00:40:19,551 --> 00:40:21,965
that I find so beautiful
in my body
659
00:40:21,965 --> 00:40:24,655
helps me to focus
on the positive things.
660
00:40:25,689 --> 00:40:27,241
When Jasmine
walked in the room,
661
00:40:27,241 --> 00:40:29,862
I was like, wow,
this girl is a goddess.
662
00:40:29,862 --> 00:40:31,241
She's perfect.
663
00:40:31,241 --> 00:40:35,379
I just don't understand
how she can find herself
not pretty.
664
00:40:35,379 --> 00:40:38,241
I definitely think
that Jasmine
should participate
665
00:40:38,241 --> 00:40:40,482
because this will be a push
for her to feel
666
00:40:40,482 --> 00:40:42,137
so much better about herself.
667
00:40:42,137 --> 00:40:44,758
She really should
have something like this
in her life.
668
00:40:46,379 --> 00:40:48,896
This, all these words
meant a lot to me.
669
00:40:48,896 --> 00:40:50,965
I-- I really mean it.
670
00:40:50,965 --> 00:40:54,000
Thank you so much.
You're an amazing,
gorgeous women.
671
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,862
I was-- I was really
needing that in my life.
672
00:40:58,689 --> 00:41:00,689
Okay, so now we're gonna do
a little demonstration
673
00:41:00,689 --> 00:41:02,862
to make sure you guys
give your best
674
00:41:02,862 --> 00:41:05,551
when it comes
to the runway walk.
675
00:41:05,551 --> 00:41:09,551
You drop your hands down
and start your walk.
676
00:41:09,551 --> 00:41:10,655
Wow!
677
00:41:13,793 --> 00:41:16,482
This workshop
is a positive experience.
678
00:41:16,482 --> 00:41:20,862
I feel so encouraged
by listening
to the older women.
679
00:41:21,862 --> 00:41:24,965
And it's this sense
of sisterhood
680
00:41:24,965 --> 00:41:28,620
I was not expecting it
to be this good.
681
00:41:30,241 --> 00:41:32,172
Yes, Queen.
682
00:41:32,172 --> 00:41:33,827
Wow!
683
00:41:35,551 --> 00:41:37,000
Jasmine, if you could
please join me.
684
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:38,724
Oh, my!
685
00:41:39,655 --> 00:41:40,689
Should I start walking?
686
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:43,758
We're gonna do it
with the crown and the sash.
687
00:41:43,758 --> 00:41:45,724
Oh, my God!
Yeah.
688
00:41:49,586 --> 00:41:50,655
How does that feel?
689
00:41:50,655 --> 00:41:52,137
- Good.
- Good?
690
00:41:52,137 --> 00:41:56,000
They put a sparkling
crown on me
and I'm like, okay--
691
00:42:03,482 --> 00:42:06,482
- Yay!
- Oh, My--
Oh, my goodness!
692
00:42:06,482 --> 00:42:07,862
It looks amazing.
693
00:42:07,862 --> 00:42:09,655
Look at you. Wow.
694
00:42:09,655 --> 00:42:12,689
I came to this workshop
feeling like nobody,
695
00:42:12,689 --> 00:42:17,793
but right now, I mean,
Jasmine the queen mode.
696
00:42:17,793 --> 00:42:19,448
I like it.
697
00:42:19,448 --> 00:42:23,448
I don't know
how it took me 37 years
698
00:42:23,448 --> 00:42:26,103
to get into this
beauty pageants.
699
00:42:26,103 --> 00:42:27,793
I'm so good at it.
700
00:42:27,793 --> 00:42:31,275
Okay. 5, 6, 7, 8.
701
00:42:31,275 --> 00:42:33,103
One foot in front
of the other.
702
00:42:33,103 --> 00:42:35,000
Interact with your public.
703
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:36,862
You look
like a beauty queen.
704
00:42:36,862 --> 00:42:38,758
There she is, the queen.
705
00:42:38,758 --> 00:42:41,241
Yeah.
It's the
international world.
706
00:42:42,379 --> 00:42:43,965
That was nice.
707
00:42:43,965 --> 00:42:45,896
Thank you for letting me
wear your crown.
708
00:42:45,896 --> 00:42:47,172
It's such an honor.
709
00:42:47,172 --> 00:42:48,551
You don't want
to take it off. See?
710
00:42:48,551 --> 00:42:51,241
Yeah, I wanted
to steal it, but...
711
00:42:54,655 --> 00:42:55,896
Leandro was right.
712
00:42:55,896 --> 00:42:59,000
Coming to this workshop
was amazing.
713
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,482
Like I needed motive
that's gonna wake me up
714
00:43:01,482 --> 00:43:03,344
from this state
of depression.
715
00:43:03,344 --> 00:43:06,103
Jasmine has what it takes
to be a beauty queen
716
00:43:06,103 --> 00:43:08,551
like she has, like,
She's like, the whole package.
717
00:43:08,551 --> 00:43:10,758
Well, I'm a highly
competitive person.
718
00:43:10,758 --> 00:43:11,862
I always win.
719
00:43:11,862 --> 00:43:14,551
And you never know
if it goes well.
720
00:43:14,551 --> 00:43:17,551
And I want to try
more beauty pageants.
721
00:43:17,551 --> 00:43:19,655
Why not?
722
00:43:22,482 --> 00:43:24,586
Well, ladies,
I look forward to getting
723
00:43:24,586 --> 00:43:27,103
all of your applications
so thank you again.
724
00:43:27,103 --> 00:43:28,793
And we look forward
to seeing you soon.
725
00:43:28,793 --> 00:43:30,068
Thank you.
726
00:43:34,586 --> 00:43:37,068
John just got here,
so I'm gonna go meet up
with him. Okay?
727
00:43:37,068 --> 00:43:38,413
You're being selfish.
728
00:43:55,241 --> 00:43:56,862
I know.
Shh... calm down.
729
00:43:57,793 --> 00:44:00,586
This surgery seems
to be 10 times harder
730
00:44:00,586 --> 00:44:02,655
than what she went through
with the C sections.
731
00:44:02,655 --> 00:44:05,448
She will barely be able
to get out of her bed.
732
00:44:05,448 --> 00:44:08,068
Oh, my God. You're
stressing me out. Relax.
733
00:44:25,103 --> 00:44:26,103
Can you open?
734
00:44:29,862 --> 00:44:31,482
I know, baby.
735
00:44:31,482 --> 00:44:33,310
Give me the-- My purse.
736
00:44:45,965 --> 00:44:47,965
My birthday
started off great,
737
00:44:47,965 --> 00:44:50,448
and I had high hopes
that, you know,
738
00:44:50,448 --> 00:44:52,172
things with my dad
would be great.
739
00:44:52,172 --> 00:44:54,241
But I'm still frustrated
with Patrick.
740
00:44:54,241 --> 00:44:58,655
Because I mean,
Patrick refuses to ask
my dad for the blessing.
741
00:44:58,655 --> 00:45:00,724
And I just want this day
to be over.
742
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:04,655
All right,
let's get out of here.
743
00:45:13,448 --> 00:45:16,034
Well, it went pretty good
meeting your dad today.
What do you think?
744
00:45:23,586 --> 00:45:24,551
From me?
745
00:45:26,344 --> 00:45:27,172
Like what?
746
00:45:27,172 --> 00:45:28,931
I didn't lie to him.
747
00:45:30,103 --> 00:45:31,482
No. But he means--
748
00:45:31,482 --> 00:45:34,965
You know, I might have
not have, like, talked to him.
But like--
749
00:45:41,965 --> 00:45:44,379
I do understand
what he was asking for.
750
00:45:44,379 --> 00:45:47,551
Yes, I did. I don't want
to get his blessing right now.
751
00:45:49,034 --> 00:45:50,241
That's crazy.
752
00:45:53,172 --> 00:45:56,344
It's disrespectful
when someone asks you
753
00:45:56,344 --> 00:46:01,862
for the blessing
in person and-- and you
didn't say anything.
754
00:46:04,586 --> 00:46:07,000
So, like,
I didn't want to just, like,
755
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,965
show up after two years
of not seeing the guy
756
00:46:09,965 --> 00:46:12,551
and, like, show him my baby
and be like,
757
00:46:12,551 --> 00:46:14,103
"Hey, could I have your
blessing now?"
758
00:46:14,965 --> 00:46:16,551
Like we don't talk.
759
00:46:16,551 --> 00:46:18,448
There's no relationship there.
760
00:46:32,137 --> 00:46:33,206
You're being selfish.
761
00:46:34,379 --> 00:46:35,655
I don't think
I'm being selfish.
762
00:46:35,655 --> 00:46:38,241
Yeah, you are
because you were there.
763
00:46:38,241 --> 00:46:41,034
- What do you want me to do?
Get on my knees and beg him.
- When-- When he's--
764
00:46:43,482 --> 00:46:45,448
I feel like
Patrick is making it
765
00:46:45,448 --> 00:46:50,448
more complicated
than you know, it would be.
766
00:46:52,862 --> 00:46:55,068
So it makes things harder.
767
00:46:55,793 --> 00:46:58,551
Well, I mean,
if I had it my way,
768
00:46:58,551 --> 00:47:01,448
we'd probably
never be in this mess.
769
00:47:01,448 --> 00:47:05,275
For me, I feel
like the blessing
is just little too late.
770
00:47:05,275 --> 00:47:09,068
And you know,
whether I get it or not,
it's not that important.
771
00:47:09,068 --> 00:47:11,586
But earning his respect,
man to man
772
00:47:11,586 --> 00:47:14,758
is definitely something
you know I want to do.
773
00:47:14,758 --> 00:47:17,896
I just I don't think
why would he give me
774
00:47:17,896 --> 00:47:20,206
a blessing if he doesn't
even respect me?
775
00:47:25,758 --> 00:47:28,551
I'm not gonna just do
what he wants me to do.
776
00:47:29,344 --> 00:47:30,241
Like it doesn't work
like that.
777
00:47:30,241 --> 00:47:32,068
I have to feel
good about it.
778
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,862
John just got here,
so I'm gonna go meet up
with him. Okay?
779
00:47:47,379 --> 00:47:48,724
Just go.
780
00:47:51,862 --> 00:47:53,344
I know.
781
00:47:53,344 --> 00:47:54,413
Hold on.
782
00:48:00,275 --> 00:48:01,344
Great.
783
00:48:09,379 --> 00:48:12,068
I feel so upset
that you know, Patrick
784
00:48:12,068 --> 00:48:15,758
preferred to stay with John
on my birthday than with me.
785
00:48:15,758 --> 00:48:17,862
- I don't prefer
to leave you alone.
- You did.
786
00:48:17,862 --> 00:48:18,862
It's just you-- You--
787
00:48:18,862 --> 00:48:20,551
- Need your space.
- That's my birthday.
788
00:48:20,551 --> 00:48:22,241
I know,
but you're all upset.
789
00:48:22,241 --> 00:48:24,862
So I figured
I'd give you some time
790
00:48:24,862 --> 00:48:28,241
and John just got here.
I gotta make sure
that you, know he's okay.
791
00:48:33,103 --> 00:48:35,758
You're supposed to take him.
He's your kid, too.
792
00:48:35,758 --> 00:48:37,551
Well, you can
take the dog.
793
00:48:40,379 --> 00:48:42,448
You can't leave
the dog here.
794
00:48:57,586 --> 00:48:59,448
♪ Meet me in my dreams
795
00:48:59,448 --> 00:49:02,758
♪ Prittiest thing
that I've ever seen ♪
796
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:13,137
♪ Eye to eye
and tooth to tooth ♪
797
00:49:13,137 --> 00:49:16,551
♪ Body to body
your body is the best ♪
798
00:49:55,965 --> 00:49:57,000
It's food?
799
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:57,965
Yeah.
800
00:49:57,965 --> 00:50:00,517
Oh, my God. Thank you.
Thank you so much.
801
00:50:12,586 --> 00:50:14,551
So Loren ordered
herself food
802
00:50:14,551 --> 00:50:17,413
that was just delivered
for after surgery.
803
00:50:21,586 --> 00:50:23,000
That's funny.
804
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:24,034
Classic Loren moves.
805
00:50:24,034 --> 00:50:25,448
She ordered herself food.
806
00:50:25,448 --> 00:50:27,551
She just ordered
herself a toast.
807
00:50:29,448 --> 00:50:32,586
You know,
as many other things,
she's in charge of this, too.
808
00:50:32,586 --> 00:50:34,551
Even in the middle
of the surgery,
809
00:50:34,551 --> 00:50:36,172
Loren getting cut open
810
00:50:36,172 --> 00:50:38,758
and she's still taking care
of everything like it's crazy.
811
00:51:14,137 --> 00:51:16,068
Hey.
- Alex. She's all done.
812
00:51:16,068 --> 00:51:17,068
She's doing great.
813
00:51:17,068 --> 00:51:18,172
That's it.
- She's good.
814
00:51:18,172 --> 00:51:19,655
She's good. Yeah.
Whoa!
815
00:51:19,655 --> 00:51:20,655
It's been a long day.
816
00:51:20,655 --> 00:51:22,137
- It hasn't been--
- You have been waiting.
817
00:51:22,137 --> 00:51:23,758
Yeah, have a seat, please.
818
00:51:23,758 --> 00:51:25,689
Forget about me.
How was it for you, like...?
819
00:51:25,689 --> 00:51:28,862
It was great.
We were in the zone and uh...
820
00:51:28,862 --> 00:51:31,344
She looks awesome.
She woke up great.
821
00:51:31,344 --> 00:51:32,586
So she's in recovery
right now.
822
00:51:32,586 --> 00:51:33,862
- Missing...
- Yeah.
823
00:51:33,862 --> 00:51:35,896
So we ended up getting
really good quality fat,
824
00:51:35,896 --> 00:51:37,068
so that made me happy.
825
00:51:38,482 --> 00:51:39,862
Yeah. Happy fats.
826
00:51:39,862 --> 00:51:42,482
So that's--
that's good stuff, too.
We call it liquid gold.
827
00:51:42,482 --> 00:51:46,482
Yeah, So everything went
perfectly by the plan...
828
00:51:46,482 --> 00:51:48,344
Perfectly by the plan, yeah.
829
00:51:48,344 --> 00:51:50,000
Okay, I'm pumped.
Yeah.
830
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:51,448
So you're up now
for duty.
831
00:51:51,448 --> 00:51:53,862
Now it's my duty to work
Yes, I know.
832
00:51:53,862 --> 00:51:55,827
I'm ready.
You're ready. Good.
833
00:51:56,862 --> 00:51:58,965
I'm very happy,
it all went well.
834
00:51:58,965 --> 00:52:00,172
So I want to go see her,
835
00:52:00,172 --> 00:52:02,896
see how she's getting
out of the anesthesia.
836
00:52:02,896 --> 00:52:04,965
I just want
to get her out of there.
837
00:52:04,965 --> 00:52:07,379
Go to a room
and try to settle in.
838
00:52:07,379 --> 00:52:09,758
You think she's gonna sleep,
like through the night,
839
00:52:09,758 --> 00:52:11,344
or is she gonna be in pain?
How is she gonna--
840
00:52:11,344 --> 00:52:13,241
She'll be sore, uh for sure.
She'll be sore?
841
00:52:13,241 --> 00:52:15,551
It's that area
by the scarring.
842
00:52:15,551 --> 00:52:17,448
She'll be sore.
And then,
with the muscle tightening,
843
00:52:17,448 --> 00:52:20,965
she's gonna she's gonna
feel like a corset has been
put around her.
844
00:52:20,965 --> 00:52:24,448
We're also gonna give you
a a little breathing machine.
845
00:52:24,448 --> 00:52:27,862
And so it'll--
Angela's gonna teach you
846
00:52:27,862 --> 00:52:30,965
and her how to do
these exercises to...
847
00:52:30,965 --> 00:52:33,379
We expand
and kind of keep things open.
Okay.
848
00:52:33,379 --> 00:52:36,172
All right, so I still need
to go through some training.
849
00:52:36,172 --> 00:52:38,241
- Little bit. Yeah. Yeah.
- A little bit. Okay.
850
00:52:38,241 --> 00:52:40,241
- Thank you.
Thank you so much.
- No problem.
851
00:52:40,241 --> 00:52:42,241
Thanks for waiting.
You were great.
852
00:52:42,241 --> 00:52:43,551
I'm excited for you guys.
853
00:52:43,551 --> 00:52:44,793
- I'm excited--
- All right, I'm here
if you guys need anything.
854
00:52:44,793 --> 00:52:45,931
- Thank you so much.
- Okay.
855
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,655
All right.
856
00:52:48,655 --> 00:52:52,758
The recoveries
from the C sections
were intense,
857
00:52:52,758 --> 00:52:55,482
but this surgery
seems to be 10 times harder
858
00:52:55,482 --> 00:52:57,586
than what she went through
with the C sections.
859
00:52:57,586 --> 00:52:59,689
Basically, Loren is not going
to be able to do nothing.
860
00:52:59,689 --> 00:53:00,620
Nothing at all.
861
00:53:00,620 --> 00:53:02,965
I'm gonna have to feed her
and shower her
862
00:53:02,965 --> 00:53:06,482
and she will barely be able
to get out of her bed.
863
00:53:08,862 --> 00:53:10,275
Ready for you?
Yes.
864
00:53:10,275 --> 00:53:11,758
All Done. Good.
865
00:53:11,758 --> 00:53:13,448
Phew.
Okay. I'm ready?
- This way.
866
00:53:14,793 --> 00:53:16,586
So I'm glad
that the surgery is over.
867
00:53:16,586 --> 00:53:20,551
But I'm starting to realize
that the hard part
is just beginning.
868
00:53:20,551 --> 00:53:21,965
How is she doing, though?
Doing great.
869
00:53:21,965 --> 00:53:23,241
Is she
in a lot of pain?
870
00:53:23,241 --> 00:53:24,758
She has a little,
which is normal.
871
00:53:24,758 --> 00:53:26,172
Hey, babe.
872
00:53:26,172 --> 00:53:27,655
Why are you
shaking so much?
873
00:53:27,655 --> 00:53:28,896
Are you cold?
874
00:53:28,896 --> 00:53:30,448
Hi, babe.
875
00:53:33,448 --> 00:53:34,758
I did it.
876
00:53:34,758 --> 00:53:36,241
I know shh, calmed down.
877
00:53:36,241 --> 00:53:39,068
Calmed down,
calmed down. Shh relax.
878
00:53:39,068 --> 00:53:41,965
Oh, my God, you're stressing
me out. Relax.
879
00:53:44,689 --> 00:53:46,206
That's it. Shh...
880
00:53:50,137 --> 00:53:52,103
The women that you
follow or entertain...
881
00:53:52,103 --> 00:53:54,448
- Are fitness checks.
- Are more muscular
than me, is what I meant.
882
00:53:54,448 --> 00:53:57,172
They're not--
I don't have the same
body type.
883
00:53:57,172 --> 00:54:00,551
When I do watch porn
because I haven't had sex
in [bleep] forever.
884
00:54:00,551 --> 00:54:02,448
I watch normal
885
00:54:02,448 --> 00:54:04,448
And I'm not
watching anything
886
00:54:04,448 --> 00:54:07,586
that isn't what I would
have if I could have
what I really want,
887
00:54:07,586 --> 00:54:08,620
which is Sophie.
888
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,034
As much as
you want to change,
889
00:54:20,034 --> 00:54:21,482
change is going to be
very hard
890
00:54:21,482 --> 00:54:23,689
with all this anger
and resentment.
891
00:54:23,689 --> 00:54:26,344
'Cause when we're angry,
we start blaming each other.
892
00:54:26,344 --> 00:54:28,448
We lack empathy.
893
00:54:28,448 --> 00:54:31,620
And we start complaining
more than asking
for what we really need.
894
00:54:39,689 --> 00:54:42,206
It's frustrating when
he's the one that hurt me.
895
00:54:42,206 --> 00:54:45,379
And then now, like, this
shouldn't be like argument.
896
00:54:45,379 --> 00:54:47,517
He should be, "I'm sorry."
What, like, "What can I do?"
897
00:54:48,241 --> 00:54:50,275
The women that you
follow or entertain...
898
00:54:50,275 --> 00:54:52,586
- Are fitness checks.
- ...Are more muscular
than me, is what I meant.
899
00:54:52,586 --> 00:54:54,862
They're not--
I don't have
the same body type.
900
00:54:55,655 --> 00:54:58,172
That's I wasn't trying
to have a go at you.
901
00:54:58,172 --> 00:54:59,793
I and I'm open
to how you feel.
902
00:54:59,793 --> 00:55:01,517
- I know, I get it.
- I have a problem
with what you said.
903
00:55:01,517 --> 00:55:02,413
I understand.
I understand.
904
00:55:02,413 --> 00:55:03,586
I want to hear
how you feel.
905
00:55:03,586 --> 00:55:07,379
I want to validate Rob
because there are a lot
906
00:55:07,379 --> 00:55:09,482
of judgment around sex.
907
00:55:09,482 --> 00:55:12,586
Uh, so he's just afraid
that he's gonna be judged.
908
00:55:16,379 --> 00:55:19,862
I feel like Sophie is here
to convince the therapist
909
00:55:19,862 --> 00:55:21,758
that I have
some sort of kink.
910
00:55:21,758 --> 00:55:23,551
I'm not into girls
who have buff arms.
911
00:55:23,551 --> 00:55:25,344
I'm not into girls
who have the like the--
912
00:55:25,344 --> 00:55:27,448
You know the necks,
and every--
913
00:55:27,448 --> 00:55:30,000
That's not--
I'm not into any of that.
914
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:33,206
And when I do watch porn
because I haven't had sex
in [bleep] forever.
915
00:55:33,206 --> 00:55:37,068
I watch very very
normal.
916
00:55:37,068 --> 00:55:41,241
And what I like
is Sophie's body.
917
00:55:41,241 --> 00:55:44,448
So I was like,
I'm not watching anything
that isn't--
918
00:55:44,448 --> 00:55:46,310
That what isn't
what I would have
919
00:55:46,310 --> 00:55:48,758
if I could have
what really want.
Which is Sophie.
920
00:55:49,862 --> 00:55:51,965
I see your wish
to change things.
921
00:55:51,965 --> 00:55:53,758
And I think
you love your partner.
922
00:55:53,758 --> 00:55:56,034
But I'm gonna invite you
to be vulnerable,
923
00:55:56,034 --> 00:55:58,000
and that's the hard work.
924
00:55:58,000 --> 00:55:59,448
It's easier
to express anger.
925
00:55:59,448 --> 00:56:01,310
It's the first impulse
we have.
926
00:56:01,310 --> 00:56:03,896
If I want my partner
to listen to me
927
00:56:03,896 --> 00:56:05,931
my show is to be vulnerable.
928
00:56:07,793 --> 00:56:10,241
I'm sorry, it upset me
and it triggered me.
929
00:56:12,103 --> 00:56:14,896
And I appreciate you
trying to open up,
930
00:56:14,896 --> 00:56:16,068
and that's what I want.
931
00:56:16,068 --> 00:56:18,862
When I bring up
like the online cheating
932
00:56:18,862 --> 00:56:20,034
or like anything like that,
933
00:56:20,034 --> 00:56:22,379
it's not because I'm trying
to make you feel bad.
934
00:56:22,379 --> 00:56:24,965
It's because I'm looking for,
like reassurance.
935
00:56:24,965 --> 00:56:29,103
I'm comparing myself
to like girls you like online,
936
00:56:29,103 --> 00:56:32,000
and then
it makes me insecure.
937
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,655
And then when I'm insecure,
I'm, like, mad at you.
938
00:56:35,655 --> 00:56:38,517
Like, in that moment,
I just want you to be like,
939
00:56:38,517 --> 00:56:39,689
"Oh, I love you."
940
00:56:39,689 --> 00:56:41,482
You know, I just like,
reassure me that
941
00:56:41,482 --> 00:56:45,000
like you think I'm beautiful
or like I'm what?
942
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:46,172
Everything that you want?
943
00:56:46,172 --> 00:56:48,620
And I feel like you never
tell me things like that.
944
00:56:50,655 --> 00:56:52,241
Just say something
nice to me.
945
00:56:52,241 --> 00:56:53,965
I can say
something nice to you.
946
00:56:53,965 --> 00:56:55,758
- But that doesn't mean you're
gonna wanna have sex with me.
- The only nice thing
947
00:56:55,758 --> 00:56:57,379
you've said to me
in months is, "You look nice."
948
00:56:57,379 --> 00:56:58,896
Sophie,
that's not true...
-"You look nice."
949
00:56:58,896 --> 00:57:00,862
- ...and on top of that--
-"You look nice."
950
00:57:00,862 --> 00:57:02,068
On top of that--
Like,
it's so, like...
951
00:57:02,068 --> 00:57:03,793
You could tell your friend
you look nice,
952
00:57:03,793 --> 00:57:05,413
you can tell your mom
you look nice.
953
00:57:06,896 --> 00:57:08,517
Like, you need to tell me
something you tell, like,
954
00:57:08,517 --> 00:57:10,137
your wife
that you're obsessed with.
955
00:57:12,241 --> 00:57:13,689
I married this girl.
I love her.
956
00:57:13,689 --> 00:57:16,862
I... I find her
the most beautiful woman
in the world.
957
00:57:16,862 --> 00:57:19,413
So it... it sucks.
And it hurts to hear that
958
00:57:19,413 --> 00:57:21,862
my wife doesn't feel like
she's attractive to me.
959
00:57:21,862 --> 00:57:26,034
But I think the fact that
we have been struggling
with intimacy
960
00:57:26,034 --> 00:57:29,965
has made it harder for me
to say these things
961
00:57:29,965 --> 00:57:33,551
that Sophie would
probably love to hear
because, um,
962
00:57:33,551 --> 00:57:36,758
you know, it's like I say,
"Damn, you're so beautiful."
963
00:57:36,758 --> 00:57:39,310
But then it seems like
that's where it ends.
964
00:57:41,689 --> 00:57:45,965
Like I... My... My fear is
that I can sit there and try,
965
00:57:45,965 --> 00:57:49,000
but it's never,
since you don't even
know what that looks like,
966
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:51,000
it's never quite gonna be it.
967
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:53,689
You can try right now
to say something nice.
968
00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:58,620
You want me to try to
make you feel good right now?
Yeah.
969
00:58:01,241 --> 00:58:05,620
You have beautiful lips.
I love your eyes.
Your gorgeous body.
970
00:58:05,620 --> 00:58:07,000
You make me warm inside.
971
00:58:09,620 --> 00:58:11,758
I would just want to
take you home and
972
00:58:11,758 --> 00:58:13,068
do some things to you.
973
00:58:13,068 --> 00:58:15,758
It's like, this is mine.
I love it.
974
00:58:19,517 --> 00:58:21,896
Yeah, that's good.
Do that every day.
975
00:58:21,896 --> 00:58:23,620
Well, not every day,
but most days.
976
00:58:24,310 --> 00:58:25,655
"Or else."
977
00:58:25,655 --> 00:58:28,551
No. But that already makes me
feel like I like you again.
978
00:58:30,620 --> 00:58:31,931
Like now feel nice.
979
00:58:33,034 --> 00:58:34,413
Was that difficult for you?
980
00:58:36,896 --> 00:58:39,000
Yeah, a little bit.
It was difficult?
981
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:40,068
Like, I think those things.
982
00:58:40,068 --> 00:58:41,620
But I don't, like,
say those things.
983
00:58:41,620 --> 00:58:43,758
Do you
like to hear that?
- Yes.
984
00:58:43,758 --> 00:58:46,241
Yeah. So this is what I call
being intentional.
985
00:58:46,241 --> 00:58:48,517
It may not come natural,
but we know it works
986
00:58:48,517 --> 00:58:50,379
for my partner,
so I'm going to do it.
987
00:58:50,379 --> 00:58:52,034
And you did great.
988
00:58:52,034 --> 00:58:53,689
You did fantastic.
989
00:58:53,689 --> 00:58:54,758
Thanks.
990
00:58:54,758 --> 00:58:56,551
How do you feel like
doing after this session?
991
00:58:56,551 --> 00:58:58,965
What? What are you
inspired to do?
992
00:58:58,965 --> 00:59:01,931
I'm gonna try to say
what I think more.
993
00:59:02,793 --> 00:59:04,965
I mean, when you walk out
of the bathroom,
994
00:59:04,965 --> 00:59:06,413
booty bouncing,
I'm gonna be like,
995
00:59:06,413 --> 00:59:11,379
"Damn, you got
the beautiful fat ass and
love that ass, like..."
996
00:59:11,379 --> 00:59:12,344
That's how it's gonna sound.
997
00:59:12,344 --> 00:59:13,586
I don't know
what you want me to say,
998
00:59:13,586 --> 00:59:15,862
but that's how
it's gonna sound, okay.
999
00:59:15,862 --> 00:59:17,758
I would be like, you know,
you come down looking good,
1000
00:59:17,758 --> 00:59:21,172
I'll be like, "Damn, [bleep],
looking nice today, baby.
I love those."
1001
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:29,310
What about you,
Sophie?
1002
00:59:30,379 --> 00:59:32,862
A bunny?
1003
00:59:32,862 --> 00:59:35,862
Word? The bunny?
1004
00:59:35,862 --> 00:59:37,965
You just buy the outfits then.
1005
00:59:37,965 --> 00:59:39,655
- And I'll just wear them.
- Sure.
1006
00:59:40,448 --> 00:59:42,310
This is all I ever
even wanted from Rob.
1007
00:59:42,310 --> 00:59:44,862
Like, even though
he's struggling,
it's still, you know,
1008
00:59:44,862 --> 00:59:46,689
me seeing that
he's really trying
1009
00:59:46,689 --> 00:59:48,793
to make me happy
or make me smile.
1010
00:59:48,793 --> 00:59:51,344
And so in the future,
when I am feeling insecure
1011
00:59:51,344 --> 00:59:53,000
or I am having trust issues
with Rob,
1012
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:56,586
he kind of knows now
how to make me feel better
about the situations.
1013
00:59:56,586 --> 01:00:00,241
I feel like it's a good step
towards me being able
to trust him again.
1014
01:00:01,310 --> 01:00:04,000
Let's close this moment with
a physical action you wanna
1015
01:00:16,551 --> 01:00:18,000
You can hug me.
1016
01:00:21,793 --> 01:00:22,862
Yeah, you can.
1017
01:00:34,379 --> 01:00:36,000
Rob and Sophie's
biggest challenge
1018
01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:38,103
is that they don't trust
to open up to each other.
1019
01:00:38,103 --> 01:00:40,448
There has been pain
that has not healed.
1020
01:00:41,275 --> 01:00:43,103
They really need to learn
1021
01:00:43,103 --> 01:00:44,965
that keeping
the passion alive,
1022
01:00:44,965 --> 01:00:48,758
keeping their
relationship happy
is a constant work,
1023
01:00:48,758 --> 01:00:50,241
and love is not enough.
1024
01:00:51,379 --> 01:00:53,758
And any last words?
1025
01:00:56,034 --> 01:00:57,758
I guess we'll see
what happens next.
1026
01:01:04,379 --> 01:01:08,344
So your family essentially
paying us a bride price,
1027
01:01:09,103 --> 01:01:13,137
it feels like
we're selling our daughter.
1028
01:01:13,137 --> 01:01:17,206
I get it
that it's his tradition.
It's not my tradition.
1029
01:01:17,206 --> 01:01:20,344
So, what would happen then
if we don't want to ask
a bride price?
1030
01:01:35,827 --> 01:01:37,068
You want
some more bubble?
1031
01:01:37,793 --> 01:01:40,310
Are you ready? Okay.
1032
01:01:42,586 --> 01:01:45,000
Whoa! Let's go get it.
Come on.
1033
01:01:52,862 --> 01:01:53,931
Get it.
1034
01:01:59,310 --> 01:02:00,965
Get it, mama!
1035
01:02:00,965 --> 01:02:02,413
Oh, no.
Get it,
get it, get it.
1036
01:02:02,413 --> 01:02:03,379
Get it, mama.
1037
01:02:03,379 --> 01:02:05,000
Bonjour.
Bonjour.
1038
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:06,551
- Morning.
- Bonjour.
1039
01:02:07,172 --> 01:02:08,896
Coffee.
Bonjour, monsieur.
1040
01:02:08,896 --> 01:02:09,827
Coffee.
1041
01:02:12,689 --> 01:02:14,172
Hello.
- How are you guys?
1042
01:02:14,172 --> 01:02:15,275
You guys had a good sleep?
1043
01:02:15,275 --> 01:02:17,241
- Good sleep.
- Yeah. Yeah.
1044
01:02:17,241 --> 01:02:19,413
Ready for coffee.
1045
01:02:19,413 --> 01:02:21,551
Oh. Already?
- I got my list started.
1046
01:02:21,551 --> 01:02:22,793
I need some help.
1047
01:02:22,793 --> 01:02:24,655
- All right, I mean--
- I wanna make sure
it's appropriate.
1048
01:02:25,586 --> 01:02:28,000
The knock door
is the first part of
1049
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,206
the traditional
wedding process,
1050
01:02:30,206 --> 01:02:32,620
where my parents would come by
with an elder
1051
01:02:32,620 --> 01:02:36,724
to ask Emily's parents
for permission to marry Emily.
1052
01:02:36,724 --> 01:02:39,275
I could use some coffee
this morning.
1053
01:02:40,551 --> 01:02:43,034
So you know,
my dad is coming over
for the knock door,
1054
01:02:43,034 --> 01:02:45,620
and I'm pretty sure you're
prepared about the list.
I got a list.
1055
01:02:45,620 --> 01:02:47,896
It's only like 60 pages.
1056
01:02:49,482 --> 01:02:51,724
Emily's parents
need to come up
with a list of things
1057
01:02:51,724 --> 01:02:53,344
that they request
from my family
1058
01:02:53,344 --> 01:02:56,275
before we can
get married, traditionally.
1059
01:03:01,241 --> 01:03:04,068
Okay, the first thing
is a goat.
Okay.
1060
01:03:04,068 --> 01:03:05,448
Is that okay?
1061
01:03:05,448 --> 01:03:07,689
And we won't take it
home with us,
1062
01:03:07,689 --> 01:03:09,689
but we can maybe leave it here
1063
01:03:09,689 --> 01:03:11,931
- and they can have it
as a pet or...
- Okay.
1064
01:03:11,931 --> 01:03:14,103
- ...or eat it.
- Good.
1065
01:03:14,103 --> 01:03:16,103
Okay, a liter of palm oil.
1066
01:03:16,103 --> 01:03:18,482
- I just feel
that's traditional.
- Okay.
1067
01:03:18,482 --> 01:03:20,896
It's very common
for a Cameroonian
1068
01:03:20,896 --> 01:03:23,448
to request, like,
a bag of rice.
1069
01:03:45,310 --> 01:03:48,862
- Okay. An umbrella.
- Umbrella?
1070
01:03:49,586 --> 01:03:51,931
- We need an umbrella.
- Okay, good.
1071
01:03:51,931 --> 01:03:54,413
Okay. I want a wooden cane.
1072
01:03:54,413 --> 01:03:56,172
- Okay.
- And some African shirts.
1073
01:03:56,172 --> 01:03:59,379
- Just regular shirts.
Two shirts.
- Two shirts?
1074
01:03:59,379 --> 01:04:01,586
So everything on here
seems okay?
1075
01:04:01,586 --> 01:04:04,137
And so, this is it.
This is all we ask for.
1076
01:04:04,137 --> 01:04:07,172
And then also,
there's usually another one,
bride price.
1077
01:04:07,172 --> 01:04:09,793
Like, the amount of money...
When do I ask
for that?
1078
01:04:09,793 --> 01:04:12,000
Same. It has to be
on your list.
Okay.
1079
01:04:13,034 --> 01:04:17,379
So your family essentially
paying us a bride price?
1080
01:04:17,379 --> 01:04:19,068
What does that mean?
1081
01:04:19,068 --> 01:04:22,310
Just kind of like appreciation
of what you guys have done.
1082
01:04:22,310 --> 01:04:24,206
Like, you guys have
raised your daughter
1083
01:04:24,896 --> 01:04:26,586
to be who she is.
1084
01:04:26,586 --> 01:04:28,551
How much
are we talking about here?
1085
01:04:28,551 --> 01:04:31,482
It depends on you.
It's something
that is negotiable.
1086
01:04:31,482 --> 01:04:35,034
But that bride price
has to be there.
Okay.
1087
01:04:35,827 --> 01:04:38,551
I just have to say that
I don't like it.
1088
01:04:39,896 --> 01:04:41,793
Well, this is our tradition
1089
01:04:41,793 --> 01:04:43,068
and whatever thing
you have on that list
1090
01:04:43,068 --> 01:04:45,379
is just part
of honoring the tradition.
1091
01:04:45,379 --> 01:04:47,275
I understand that.
1092
01:04:47,275 --> 01:04:49,448
It's just the whole
principle of the thing for me.
1093
01:04:49,448 --> 01:04:53,000
It feels like
we're selling our daughter.
1094
01:04:54,206 --> 01:04:57,275
I mean, hones...
I, honestly, don't get it.
1095
01:04:58,724 --> 01:05:01,965
- You have
no problem with this?
- I don't have a problem with.
1096
01:05:01,965 --> 01:05:03,827
- It's fulfilling a tradition.
- It's... it's...
This is something that
1097
01:05:03,827 --> 01:05:07,275
has been done for
a million years in Africa.
1098
01:05:07,275 --> 01:05:09,965
And my dad brought this up
and said, "Listen..."
1099
01:05:17,655 --> 01:05:19,000
So, like, if we don't do it,
1100
01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:21,827
then the ancestors
are gonna curse you or what?
1101
01:05:27,620 --> 01:05:29,482
We have to respect
this part of the culture.
1102
01:05:31,724 --> 01:05:33,896
There's a lot of things
that could go wrong
1103
01:05:33,896 --> 01:05:35,965
in our relationship.
1104
01:05:44,517 --> 01:05:47,655
And I mean,
I don't want my kids
not doing well in life
1105
01:05:47,655 --> 01:05:50,034
because of what I didn't do.
1106
01:05:50,034 --> 01:05:55,034
Emily, you feel fine
somebody taking money
from someone for Scarlett?
1107
01:05:55,896 --> 01:05:57,551
No. I mean, I feel like,
1108
01:05:57,551 --> 01:05:59,034
I'm already married
to this guy.
1109
01:05:59,034 --> 01:06:01,310
I've been married to him
for two and a half years
and we have two kids.
1110
01:06:01,310 --> 01:06:02,827
I don't...
I think it's just
1111
01:06:02,827 --> 01:06:05,000
- doing what his dad--
- Well, I think there are times
in your life
1112
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:06,689
you have to stand
on principle.
1113
01:06:07,620 --> 01:06:10,620
I mean, I want this whole
knock door to go well,
1114
01:06:10,620 --> 01:06:13,655
because more people
on Kobe's side
are more skeptical
1115
01:06:13,655 --> 01:06:15,965
about our relationship
than I thought.
1116
01:06:15,965 --> 01:06:18,206
So, like, I need everyone
1117
01:06:18,206 --> 01:06:20,517
to just go along
with the tradition.
1118
01:06:21,310 --> 01:06:22,689
The definition
of the bride price,
1119
01:06:22,689 --> 01:06:25,000
it's not like
you're buying Emily.
1120
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:27,310
- It's a sign of appreciation.
- Appreciation.
1121
01:06:27,310 --> 01:06:31,310
And this is... We're not...
We're not selling her
too Kobe.
1122
01:06:31,310 --> 01:06:33,344
Well, either way,
it feels like we're taking
money for a person.
1123
01:06:33,344 --> 01:06:34,862
That's what it feels like.
1124
01:06:36,482 --> 01:06:38,689
I feel like no one
has my back on this.
1125
01:06:38,689 --> 01:06:43,275
I feel like people
think I'm ridiculous
for not getting it.
1126
01:06:43,275 --> 01:06:48,137
I get it
that it's his tradition.
It's not my tradition.
1127
01:06:48,137 --> 01:06:53,689
I don't want to really be
an active participant
in taking money for Emily.
1128
01:06:54,586 --> 01:06:55,827
So what would happen then?
1129
01:06:55,827 --> 01:06:58,586
If we don't want to ask
a bride price,
what would happen?
1130
01:07:01,724 --> 01:07:05,172
There has to be a bride price
for a traditional marriage
to take place.
1131
01:07:11,241 --> 01:07:16,000
Personally, I haven't decided
if this is gonna happen,
this part of the tradition.
1132
01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:20,275
In the end,
we are given money
and they're taking Emily.
1133
01:07:20,275 --> 01:07:21,344
What is that?
1134
01:07:22,655 --> 01:07:24,241
I don't want to offend
your parents,
1135
01:07:24,241 --> 01:07:26,586
but I also don't want to
compromise my beliefs.
1136
01:07:33,379 --> 01:07:35,482
You look great in big boobs.
1137
01:07:35,482 --> 01:07:36,586
Really?
1138
01:07:40,172 --> 01:07:42,000
Something's off with her
right now.
1139
01:07:43,068 --> 01:07:44,793
Your eyes are bugging out.
1140
01:07:48,413 --> 01:07:49,620
Really?
1141
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:24,344
I'm very proud
of you.
1142
01:08:24,344 --> 01:08:26,965
Everything went well.
The doctor said everything
went well.
1143
01:08:29,620 --> 01:08:31,655
They're gonna hurt
for a while, babe.
1144
01:08:33,034 --> 01:08:34,758
Try not to shake.
1145
01:08:34,758 --> 01:08:37,275
Yeah.
Do your breathing.
Relax. Yeah.
1146
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:39,586
Real deep. Don't shake.
1147
01:08:42,172 --> 01:08:43,965
Don't even talk. Just breathe.
1148
01:08:43,965 --> 01:08:46,551
What?
1149
01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:50,344
Huh?
1150
01:08:52,620 --> 01:08:55,586
What truck? Stop talking.
Relax. Just breathe.
1151
01:08:57,103 --> 01:08:58,344
Thank you.
1152
01:08:58,344 --> 01:09:00,620
Where's your hand?
1153
01:09:02,379 --> 01:09:04,172
You woke up.
1154
01:09:07,103 --> 01:09:08,965
That's it.
1155
01:09:08,965 --> 01:09:12,931
Seeing her like this,
it's difficult
to stay positive.
1156
01:09:12,931 --> 01:09:17,137
I don't want her to suffer,
I don't want her to shake
and be in pain.
1157
01:09:17,137 --> 01:09:19,448
Usually, Loren is very strong
and in charge,
1158
01:09:19,448 --> 01:09:21,517
so to see her all, you know,
1159
01:09:21,517 --> 01:09:25,758
banged up
right after the surgery,
it's very heartbreaking.
1160
01:09:27,758 --> 01:09:30,000
Ow.
1161
01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:31,275
Oh, my God.
1162
01:09:34,551 --> 01:09:36,689
So snatched, babe.
1163
01:09:36,689 --> 01:09:38,172
Delicious.
1164
01:09:38,172 --> 01:09:40,931
Delicious?
Delicious.
1165
01:09:40,931 --> 01:09:43,413
You look great.
1166
01:09:43,413 --> 01:09:45,275
- You look great, honey.
- You'll love it. You'll see.
1167
01:09:46,137 --> 01:09:48,689
- You look great in big boobs.
- Really?
1168
01:09:48,689 --> 01:09:51,275
And the doctor said
it went so great.
1169
01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:59,000
Something's off with her
right now.
1170
01:09:59,896 --> 01:10:01,793
Your eyes are bugging out.
1171
01:10:04,862 --> 01:10:06,275
Really?
1172
01:10:07,448 --> 01:10:10,620
It's a great relief
to actually hear her asking
1173
01:10:10,620 --> 01:10:12,965
if she's snatched
and making these jokes.
1174
01:10:12,965 --> 01:10:14,586
And it's funny right now.
1175
01:10:14,586 --> 01:10:16,310
But it's gonna be
a whole different story
1176
01:10:16,310 --> 01:10:18,413
once this medication
wears off.
1177
01:10:18,413 --> 01:10:22,448
And even though I'm worried
about how I'm gonna get
through the recovery process,
1178
01:10:22,448 --> 01:10:26,275
right now, I'm just thinking,
"How am I gonna get through
this first night even?"
1179
01:10:33,379 --> 01:10:36,482
Let me, uh, just put this
down here on the seat.
1180
01:10:43,379 --> 01:10:45,517
What do you feel?
When you try to stretch out?
Yeah.
1181
01:10:45,517 --> 01:10:47,482
Don't try yet.
- I'm not.
1182
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:50,758
Me and Loren are staying
at a hotel
1183
01:10:50,758 --> 01:10:53,000
just a few blocks away
from the office.
1184
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:54,793
We have quite a drive
back home,
1185
01:10:54,793 --> 01:10:56,103
and we decided
it would be best
1186
01:10:56,103 --> 01:10:58,206
to stay close
for the first couple of days.
1187
01:10:58,206 --> 01:11:02,482
So, Loren's mom is gonna be
taking care of the kids
together with my dad.
1188
01:11:03,551 --> 01:11:05,517
Okay.
1189
01:11:05,517 --> 01:11:08,241
No arms, remember.
- No arms. From the back.
1190
01:11:08,241 --> 01:11:10,275
Hold on.
1191
01:11:10,275 --> 01:11:12,620
Yes. Yes. Okay, got it.
1192
01:11:13,413 --> 01:11:16,103
Get up higher
on the chair, babe. Get up.
1193
01:11:18,862 --> 01:11:20,413
Try to sit on the thingy.
1194
01:11:21,620 --> 01:11:22,758
Okay.
1195
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:25,103
All right.
1196
01:11:25,965 --> 01:11:27,655
All right, thank you.
1197
01:11:27,655 --> 01:11:28,793
Bye, guys.
1198
01:11:39,310 --> 01:11:41,379
Well, yeah,
you sure did, honey-bunny.
1199
01:11:43,586 --> 01:11:45,482
Now is the hard time.
1200
01:11:46,965 --> 01:11:50,172
Yeah, I want some fresh air.
I need it. I need it.
1201
01:11:50,172 --> 01:11:52,310
Fresh air smells like weed.
1202
01:11:52,310 --> 01:11:54,758
- I need it.
- Good Miami fresh air.
1203
01:11:55,655 --> 01:11:58,000
Today was a really
exhausting day
1204
01:11:58,000 --> 01:12:00,482
but this night
is just starting.
1205
01:12:02,103 --> 01:12:04,482
Okay, this is the entrance
right here.
1206
01:12:06,551 --> 01:12:08,965
I helped Loren
through recoveries before.
1207
01:12:08,965 --> 01:12:11,379
This time Loren will need help
with everything,
1208
01:12:11,379 --> 01:12:13,413
including wiping her butt.
1209
01:12:13,413 --> 01:12:15,310
So, this is a new level.
1210
01:12:19,482 --> 01:12:21,551
I just hope
that she recovers quickly.
1211
01:13:06,655 --> 01:13:09,482
I can't have
a serious conversation
with Manuel
1212
01:13:09,482 --> 01:13:12,448
about where things stand
without him leaving
1213
01:13:13,482 --> 01:13:16,000
And it really hurts
that he'd rather push me away
1214
01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:17,965
than talk to me
about how he's feeling.
1215
01:14:13,275 --> 01:14:15,551
I don't want
to listen, Jonathan.
1216
01:14:15,551 --> 01:14:17,310
I'm not listening
to this.
1217
01:14:33,275 --> 01:14:34,689
Okay.
1218
01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:46,655
I'm tired of this.
I'm so tired of this.
1219
01:14:46,655 --> 01:14:49,172
I'm, like, I'm done.
I'm done.
1220
01:14:58,482 --> 01:14:59,793
No, I'm over it.
1221
01:16:03,827 --> 01:16:05,344
Manuel, yes.
Get in the car.
1222
01:16:05,344 --> 01:16:06,517
What?
1223
01:16:14,931 --> 01:16:16,034
Oh, my God.
1224
01:16:16,931 --> 01:16:19,241
It's funny that Manuel
is telling me to accept
1225
01:16:19,241 --> 01:16:21,275
when I make a mistake
and apologize to him
1226
01:16:21,275 --> 01:16:22,482
when he can't accept that
1227
01:16:22,482 --> 01:16:25,068
he should have just
communicated with me
from the jump.
1228
01:16:25,068 --> 01:16:28,551
This is activating me.
It's triggering me.
It's hurting me.
1229
01:16:28,551 --> 01:16:33,862
Especially because of things
that have happened to me
in the past.
1230
01:16:33,862 --> 01:16:37,068
But I've done
a lot of self-reflection
inside of this relationship
1231
01:16:37,068 --> 01:16:39,275
on, like what I feel like
I could do better,
1232
01:16:39,275 --> 01:16:42,482
and I just don't feel
the same energy from Manuel.
1233
01:16:43,620 --> 01:16:46,137
But he doesn't give a
about the behavior.
1234
01:16:46,137 --> 01:16:50,275
And I'm not dealing
with Manuel acting like this
in Rochester.
1235
01:16:50,275 --> 01:16:51,827
Like, it's not happening.
1236
01:16:52,758 --> 01:16:54,551
Okay. Okay.
1237
01:17:02,068 --> 01:17:04,206
I'm [bleep] so done with this.
1238
01:17:07,344 --> 01:17:11,034
I absolutely think
this pageant would be
great for you.
1239
01:17:11,862 --> 01:17:14,931
But what...
what if you get pregnant?
1240
01:17:14,931 --> 01:17:18,379
Then you would have to drop
out of the pageant, right?
1241
01:17:18,379 --> 01:17:22,448
I haven't told Gino that
I don't want to have a baby
with him right now.
1242
01:17:22,448 --> 01:17:25,931
Uh, there is
one very important thing that
1243
01:17:25,931 --> 01:17:28,724
- you are not aware of.
- What?
1244
01:17:44,379 --> 01:17:45,482
What are you making
over there?
1245
01:17:45,482 --> 01:17:48,275
I'm gonna do my own version
of margaritas.
1246
01:17:48,275 --> 01:17:51,137
Oh, yeah?
- Yes... The Jasmaritas.
1247
01:17:51,137 --> 01:17:54,000
Jasmaritas? That...
That sounds better.
1248
01:18:02,551 --> 01:18:04,172
You know how much tequila
to pour in?
1249
01:18:04,172 --> 01:18:06,068
Yeah,
I have a measure.
1250
01:18:07,724 --> 01:18:09,206
Wow.
What?
1251
01:18:09,206 --> 01:18:11,241
One for extra kick.
I love it.
1252
01:18:11,241 --> 01:18:13,793
The only way to do
a Jasmarita is if
1253
01:18:13,793 --> 01:18:16,275
me, Jasmine, I make it.
Absolutely.
1254
01:18:18,862 --> 01:18:20,655
It is our last night in Miami,
1255
01:18:20,655 --> 01:18:24,620
so, we're having our last
dinner party here
with Leandro.
1256
01:18:24,620 --> 01:18:26,724
Gino.
Leandro.
1257
01:18:26,724 --> 01:18:28,793
You got the...
Yeah.
1258
01:18:30,310 --> 01:18:32,758
Look at you,
you saved the day.
Yeah.
1259
01:18:35,724 --> 01:18:36,931
It's not
a margarita.
1260
01:18:38,758 --> 01:18:41,000
Oh,
"Jasmarita". Okay.
Okay.
1261
01:18:47,379 --> 01:18:49,517
Her Jasmarita is...
1262
01:18:50,931 --> 01:18:53,137
Tastes so strong. I mean,
it's got a lot of pop in it.
1263
01:18:56,965 --> 01:18:59,206
- What do you think?
- It's good.
1264
01:18:59,206 --> 01:19:01,586
Well, Jasmaritas
are not for pussies.
1265
01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:09,862
She's a slutty margarita.
1266
01:19:09,862 --> 01:19:13,275
It's a little watery,
but It's really good.
1267
01:19:16,241 --> 01:19:18,172
A little too much water.
1268
01:19:18,172 --> 01:19:19,931
I didn't put water.
1269
01:19:19,931 --> 01:19:23,034
I put ice and I put tequila.
1270
01:19:23,034 --> 01:19:24,655
I... Ice is water.
1271
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:29,551
Cheers to Jasmine's...
1272
01:19:44,000 --> 01:19:45,275
No,
no, no. It's...
1273
01:19:47,344 --> 01:19:49,068
Anus is asses.
1274
01:19:54,103 --> 01:19:56,103
I'm gonna start
cooking the food.
1275
01:19:56,103 --> 01:19:58,172
Cook.
Cook for your wife.
1276
01:19:58,172 --> 01:19:59,344
Ciao.
1277
01:20:29,482 --> 01:20:32,137
Right, baby? Baby?
Huh?
1278
01:20:32,137 --> 01:20:34,862
I... I'm telling Leandro
in Spanish, of course,
1279
01:20:34,862 --> 01:20:39,000
that...
that it was very inspiring,
very touching, right?
1280
01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:40,689
Yeah.
- How do you like it? Tell him.
1281
01:20:40,689 --> 01:20:43,413
Yeah. I mean,
these women were incredible,
1282
01:20:43,413 --> 01:20:46,724
and they...
just very inspiring, you know?
Yeah.
1283
01:20:56,000 --> 01:20:57,482
Baby...
- Huh?
1284
01:20:57,482 --> 01:21:01,344
...Leandro is asking
if I want to participate
into the contest.
1285
01:21:01,344 --> 01:21:03,068
Oh,
the beauty pageant contest?
Yeah.
1286
01:21:03,068 --> 01:21:07,241
I absolutely think
this pageant would be
great for you.
1287
01:21:07,241 --> 01:21:10,206
Help your self confidence
and everything.
1288
01:21:10,206 --> 01:21:14,379
But, it's just that
we're trying to get
pregnant, right?
1289
01:21:16,413 --> 01:21:18,448
What... What if you
get pregnant?
1290
01:21:19,896 --> 01:21:22,517
Then you would have to drop
out of the pageant, right?
1291
01:21:29,517 --> 01:21:33,379
I haven't told Gino that
I don't want to have a baby
with him right now.
1292
01:21:34,413 --> 01:21:36,413
And it really destroys me.
1293
01:21:36,413 --> 01:21:40,896
Like, I feel so bad
because I love him so much.
1294
01:21:40,896 --> 01:21:43,965
I mean,
he is the love of my life.
1295
01:21:43,965 --> 01:21:48,413
And lately he has been
actually very lovely,
caring and supportive.
1296
01:21:48,413 --> 01:21:51,689
But if I tell him the news,
that's gonna change
1297
01:21:51,689 --> 01:21:57,620
and it scares me because
I really need Gino in my life
right now.
1298
01:21:58,896 --> 01:22:04,517
Uh, there is
one very important thing that
you are not aware of.
1299
01:22:04,517 --> 01:22:06,034
Very important thing.
1300
01:22:06,034 --> 01:22:08,931
Yes, for us, as a couple.
1301
01:22:12,551 --> 01:22:14,586
I'm not in the same page
as you are.
1302
01:22:15,724 --> 01:22:18,172
What do you mean
you're not in the same page?
1303
01:22:20,793 --> 01:22:24,034
I don't feel ready
to have a baby.
1304
01:22:39,275 --> 01:22:41,862
So are you saying
you don't want to have a baby
at all?
1305
01:22:52,310 --> 01:22:53,482
I don't know.
1306
01:22:54,448 --> 01:22:57,103
- I don't know.
I cannot say yes.
- You "don't know"?
1307
01:22:57,103 --> 01:22:58,689
Exactly. I don't know.
1308
01:23:01,206 --> 01:23:03,172
You're just kind of
like telling me
this is what we're...
1309
01:23:03,172 --> 01:23:05,137
This is...
This is the way it is
1310
01:23:05,137 --> 01:23:09,862
and without talking
to me first about
what we could do?
1311
01:23:21,827 --> 01:23:23,000
Where are you going?
1312
01:23:24,551 --> 01:23:25,724
I'm going to bed.
1313
01:23:30,206 --> 01:23:32,000
I just... I can't do this.
1314
01:23:32,000 --> 01:23:34,172
I can't...
I can't do this anymore.
1315
01:23:49,034 --> 01:23:52,896
Still to come on 90 Day Fiance:
Happily Ever After.
1316
01:23:52,896 --> 01:23:54,482
Mwah!
1317
01:23:59,758 --> 01:24:01,482
I think as long as everybody
gets along,
1318
01:24:01,482 --> 01:24:02,965
we're gonna get along.
1319
01:24:02,965 --> 01:24:05,068
So far, so good, right?
1320
01:24:05,068 --> 01:24:06,172
Ish?
1321
01:24:26,068 --> 01:24:27,931
Schoolgirl outfits,
I like the blue one.
1322
01:24:31,862 --> 01:24:33,586
I like when he wears, like,
tight shirts?
1323
01:24:33,586 --> 01:24:35,551
You like a little bit,
a little bit of this action?
1324
01:24:36,413 --> 01:24:37,586
Uh oh, uh oh.
1325
01:24:39,137 --> 01:24:40,827
What, you think I should
cover my nipples?
1326
01:24:43,517 --> 01:24:47,206
So, Ashley gave Manuel $1,000.
1327
01:24:47,206 --> 01:24:49,344
Where's the money going, exactly?
1328
01:24:53,344 --> 01:24:57,206
That Manuel's in contact
with his ex right now.
1329
01:25:05,034 --> 01:25:06,068
Okay.
1330
01:25:07,862 --> 01:25:10,000
I just want
all your furniture out of here.
1331
01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:11,517
Well, maybe you should have
been a man.
1332
01:25:11,517 --> 01:25:12,344
Maybe you should have done
1333
01:25:12,344 --> 01:25:13,758
a better job
raising your daughter.
1334
01:25:13,758 --> 01:25:16,793
Oh, I did a fantastic job
raising my daughter.
1335
01:25:16,793 --> 01:25:21,724
He is going to die
a very, very lonely old man.
1336
01:25:21,724 --> 01:25:22,931
You're a [bleep] child.
1337
01:25:22,931 --> 01:25:23,965
Goodbye.
1338
01:25:23,965 --> 01:25:27,793
I hate you,
I [bleep] hate you so much!
1339
01:26:05,758 --> 01:26:07,034
Yeah, see ya.
1340
01:26:28,758 --> 01:26:30,275
All this stuff.
1341
01:26:31,137 --> 01:26:32,241
Get that phone!
1342
01:26:33,241 --> 01:26:34,379
No, it's mine!
1343
01:26:34,379 --> 01:26:35,206
Help!