[engine whirring]
[narrator] 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
- [man] See him coming down the trail? - [Gino] Mmm-hmm.
[squealing] Where's my alligator going... [imperceptible]
[Jasmine] Leandro had this crazy idea
of signing me up for a beauty pageant workshop.
Jasmine's state of mind has affected our sex life.
So if going to this workshop is gonna make her happy again,
I could see this helping us having a baby.
I would love to see you in a beauty pageant.
[intense music playing]
[speaking Portuguese]
[Patrick in English] I don't want to ask Carlos for the blessing right now
because we're already married,
and I'd rather have his respect
than, you know, get a blessing on our relationship.
This is definitely not the way that you show him respect.
[in Portuguese]
[Ed] You haven't spoken to me in three days.
- I don't know what-- - [Liz speaking]
[Ed] You know how I feel. I'm--
I don't want to move forward with marriage.
My mind's made up.
Liz, my mind's made up regardless, regardless. Regardless.
My mind is made up. Okay?
[Liz speaking]
- I don't know what to expect out of you. - [phone beeps]
Oh, she hung up.
[Kobe] Before the traditional wedding you tell us your demands.
In order to get married to your daughter.
[Lisa] I am giving them my daughter in trade for goods.
Nothing about that feels right to me.
I mean, how-- What's my-- What's the dowry for me?
The other day it sounded like a phone was vibrating, like calling.
But it wasn't my phone and it wasn't his phone.
He's got another phone.
All guys that cheat have two phones.
[Sophie] If I find out Rob actually has a secret phone,
then I'm-- I'm literally just packing all my stuff and leaving
[Ashley in Spanish]
[Ashley in English] Communicate with your wife,
let me know what you're doing and where you're going.
Don't just leave me in the mother [bleep] dark.
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Alexei speaking]
It's been difficult to stay positive with the surgery.
But what if it doesn't look the way she wants it to look?
And then she wants another one and another one...
I don't want that.
[intense music playing]
[conga drums playing]
[indistinct chatter]
[Kobe speaking]
[Emily speaking]
[upbeat music playing]
- [Emily speaking] - [Kobe] Yeah.
My family will be coming over tomorrow for the knock door,
which is part of the traditional wedding arrangements.
♪ It is fallen that door
- Oh, man. - [Emily] You loved it.
[Kobe cackles]
[Kobe] Anyway.
In Cameroon, before you get married,
the groom's parents visit
the bride's parents for the first time.
And the bride's parents, will prepare a list of things they require
before they can marry their daughter.
[Kobe speaking]
Today Lisa and David are watching over the kids
while I take Emily to the market.
Because Emily is preparing a Cameroonian dish
for my family when they come over for the knock door.
These are yams.
These are yams. Yeah.
I'm really hoping that, you know, my family loves the food,
and they will understand that she is really making an effort
to embrace the culture.
[Kobe speaking]
[Emily] So what is this thing?
[Kobe speaking]
Do I chop it up?
Yeah, you have to.
[Emily] But there's bones. Yeah?
[Kobe] Yeah. You have to take out the bones.
I mean, this market truly is amazing.
I mean, it's far different from a grocery store in America
because things like aren't refrigerated.
And it has things that I really didn't even know people would eat.
I know I'm a good cook
But making Cameroonian food for his whole family
is a little bit nerve wracking
'cause this is like the food they make every day.
So I just want to make sure I do a good job.
[Emily] Are you sure I have everything that I need?
[Kobe] Yeah, we have everything.
Make sure that I get all the ingredients here,
- and then we just go home and then... - Okay,
[Emily] Okay.
[native vocalizing music]
[Emily] In America I loved to have dinner parties
and loved to cook for big groups of people,
- [Kobe sighs] - [Emily] It was fun.
- That was an adventure. - Mmm-hmm
But here in Cameroon, I don't know the first thing
about preparing their traditional dishes.
You wanna see the stuff we got from the market?
[Lisa] Yes, I do.
Come on.
- I mean, I feel like it's-- - I was to see it all.
It's really gonna be a fun cooking lesson...
- [Lisa] Yeah. - [Kobe] ...for Emily 'cause--
All right
So, yeah.
That-- This is cow skin.
Cow skin, we call that kanda?
- Yeah? - [Kobe laughs]
Like there's just no way you make a delicious eru without using kanda.
- Honestly... - Mmm-hmm.
I'm afraid to touch it.
[Kobe laughs]
Well it's- It doesn't smell great, Kobe.
- I gotta-- I gotta be honest. - [Kobe] Yeah.
This is like what we give our dogs.
- I'm just saying. - No. [chuckles]
- Like they like to chew on it, you know. - Yeah.
Like it dries out and then you give it to the dogs.
[Kobe] Mmm-hmm.
[Lisa speaking]
[Kobe] All right. You want me to hold that while we go?
Yeah. Yeah. Why don't you do that?
All right, Let's go. [Kobe chuckling]
[Kobe speaking]
- [Emily] All right, Dave. - All right what?
- You gotta see this? - What is it?
What does this look like?
It looks like a wet croissant with something inside it.
Take a whiff of it.
[Kobe laughs]
Go ahead.
[inhales] Oh, Jesus.
[all laughing]
That's cow skin, like, we cooked with that--
That's fresh?
So this is-- This side is the inside, and this is the outside.
Oh, my God.
- Okay, interesting. - Oh.
[Emily] Oh, your sister is here.
- She is here. - [David] Hello.
- [Lisa] Hello. - [Emily] Hi!
- Oh, my God. - [Kobe laughing]
[Lisa laughs]
I wanted to chat.
[Francisca speaking]
[Emily speaking]
[Francisca] Oh, give me a hug.
It's my second time seeing Franca in person
and really being able to connect with her.
We've talked a lot on social media,
especially before I got here.
So she had offered to give me cooking lessons,
and I'm really excited because I get to have finally,
like one on one time with her, which I haven't had before.
- [Lisa] What is it? - Oh...
You're gonna love this.
- [Lisa] What is it? - [David] What's this?
[Lisa] Can I see it?
Get out of the bag.
- Oh, Jesus Christ! - [scrams]
[Kobe laughs hysterically]
[David] What the hell.
Tonight we're making eru and fufu,
and we are making tomato sauce and chicken.
And fried plantains.
Ripe plantains? Well, it's--
Ripe plantains
[kisses]
[Emily] Okay, I'll gonna move over here
so you can teach me what to do.
[Francisca] Okay.
[imperceptible]
[Emily] Or we take all the leaves off.
[Franca] Don't take flower.
[Emily] No, we don't want the flower, okay.
Like this?
- Mmm-hmm. - Ahh.
- Good. That's good, that's good. - I'm getting there.
[Franca] Yes.
[in English]
[Emily] It feels like the stuff we put in the kid's Easter basket.
- You know that, like fake grass? - Yeah.
[in English]
[Emily] What do I do with the fish?
- [Emily] How, though? Like this? - [Francisca] Yes.
I don't want to give anybody bone to eat.
- [Francisca] Yes. - [Kobe laughs]
This meal has to be perfect.
[Francisca] Yes.
[Emily] What would his parents think if I made,
like a bunch of like, American food
instead of Cameroonian food?
Like, what if I made meatloaf, 'cause you like meatloaf?
Meatloaf, mashed potatoes,
apple pie, homemade ice cream.
Are you sure? [chuckles]
- Yeah. You know. - I mean, we're in Cameroon.
I feel like my parents want to see that
okay, you can take care of me in the Cameroonian way.
You know, we're like, you can cook in a Cameroonian-- You know.
So it seems like they're just gonna be watching me, like--
Yeah, I mean, it's pretty much the same thing
just to make sure that, okay...
- I made the right choice. - Yeah
I mean, I'm a little intimidated
because I want to make sure that his family accepts me.
Especially because last night didn't go well
with Kobe's friends.
So I worry that if I must stuff up with his family
and then nobody in Cameroon likes me,
then this whole trip is just gonna be a [bleep] show.
Whoa, whoa!
Okay.
♪ Turn up your love
♪ Give me the dream I adore
So do you-- Do you feel good about this?
Do you feel good about it?
Yeah, that we are gonna go to therapy now.
How about you?
Yeah.
♪ Just turn it up!
♪ Turn it up
♪ Just turn it up!
[Rob] You want to elaborate on that.
How you feel about it a little bit more,
or do you just--
I don't know.
I mean, I'm just gonna see how it goes.
[Sophie] We're on our way to couples therapy,
and even now things are better since I've moved in,
me and Rob still have a lot of issues we need to sort out
I have a lot of pent up resentment
and negative feelings towards Rob
because of everything he's put me through
and the trust issues,
and we do need to talk about them.
But I'm also very nervous about how that might go.
[sighs] Let's do the damn thing.
[Sophie] I'm also so skeptical
about Rob having a second phone.
I looked for the hophone again
after Rob went to bed last night.
I checked everywhere in the house.
It wasn't there. So then I checked his car.
And I just didn't find it.
- [Rob] Hi. - Hi. Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you. I'm Rob.
I'm Vielka.
- [Rob] Nice to meet you, Vielka. - Hi. I'm Sophie.
[Sophie] For now I'm just gonna let it go
because I'm trying to utilize this time
to we actually fix our issues, and so I don't really want
to start a huge fight with him about this hophone
when I don't even have proof that there is one.
[Vielka] I would like to start by hearing a little bit about you.
How did you guys meet?
How was it at the beginning?
How was that?
You start.
Why me?
Because I always usually do all the talking.
So I want you to do more talking today.
Okay. Um, we met like, four and a half years ago.
I'm from England, London
and he's at the time he lived in LA
and I found him on social media.
Immediately I knew she was beautiful.
And I was really looking for a down to earth, you know, person.
And I felt like I had found that in Sophie.
And then about a year ago, I moved to America
and we got married.
He's like 32.
I'm 24.
[Rob] I'm 33.
- You're 33. - Mmm-hmm.
Yes.
I mean, you had just turned the age of--
I've been 33 for like eight months.
It's one of those things that makes you feel
like the other person just doesn't quite care about you.
If they don't remember your own age.
You know my bad.
I'm not gonna hold it against her.
I'm just gonna chalk it up to I just look younger.
So it's hard to say that I'm older when I look so young.
Yeah. [chuckles]
Well, he's 33. I'm 24
So like I still enjoy, like going to bars sometimes or like clubs,
and like he doesn't like to do that.
Mm hmm. So what do you think is happening
with your relationship?
What is something that you wish would be different?
We have a lot of like arguments at home,
like we bicker constantly.
I have some trust issues with him,
which I think I still like.
subconsciously like, resent him for.
Like he's never physically cheated on me
but it was online.
and so I think that's also, like affected our intimacy as well.
[Rob] It's typical that Sophie would bring up the online cheating.
And it's like I can't say nothing
'cause her feelings are valid and mine are invalid.
So I'm really hoping the therapist
can kind of help us move on from our past issues.
And understand what we could do now to move forward.
So how would you describe your sex life right now?
Uh, right now we don't have one.
Like I have a mental block of like,
what if he's thinking about the girls online?
And so I don't really wanna be physical with him?
And then he wants me to, like,
dress up every time I have sex.
- I feel like-- - You only dressed up one time to have sex.
'Cause I don't want to.
Okay, it's not even about the outfit.
It's about that's for me.
It's just about the my wife looking sexy as hell,
and she did that for me, like she knows I like it.
I'm into the costumes just because I think it's hot.
You throw on like that little sexy skirt
and you know, a little bunny ears, whatever.
And then and I come home from work
and we can get cracking.
I think she would really rock, um...
Velma from Scooby-Doo.
Is it, Velma?
Which one is the one in the orange?
That's Velma. Yeah. Velma's ass is cute. Uh...
Who else?
Nah! Not Daphne.
Daphne can go. Um...
[Rob speaking]
Not because I want her to be a maid,
but just because it's a hot ass outfit.
Is like the skirt.
And then the little duster.
The duster [bleep] hot.
At this point in our relationship,
we haven't had sex in so long
that I feel like you need to--
You need to knock that wall down.
It's so bad where she's now like,
I'm mean, she moved out three months ago.
And she's just now moving home.
- Okay. - 'Cause she finally decided
to maybe try and work on this relationship.
What made me move out was basically um...
like after we got married,
I found out he was speaking to multiple girls online.
You shouldn't be flirting, receiving naked pictures,
him telling them they look really beautiful and asking for more.
To me, that's cheating.
And it hurt like my view on myself.
The types of women that you do look online
like they don't look like me.
Like muscular, fitness, bodybuilding women.
I don't look like that.
Okay, so can you make an effort to hear her?
Because if you're gonna do that--
She's making me sound so [bleep] crazy.
You make me look so wild?
It's so crazy to like fit, like fit?
- Muscular women-- - Fitness chicks is one thing.
Bodybuilder women?
That is literally like some-- Some fetish deviant [bleep]
- There's a [bleep] - [Vielka] Rob and why--
...category of men. that like to [bleep] bodybuilder women.
And now that's who I am.
- Rob, I'm gonna kindly stop you now. - [bleep] Man, dude,
- A lot of things need to change-- - But I did change.
- The thing is, there's no conversation-- - Though, so--
You're interrupting-- You're interrupting me.
I'm not like this porn addicted bodybuilder [bleep] fetish guy.
Like what [bleep]
That's not who I am.
[Sophie] In my defense, they are all pretty muscular.
You don't see these type of women just walking around.
They had like, serious fitness.
He likes to save their photos
and like all of their photos,
and he claims it's for his fitness inspiration,
which is the most ridiculous thing I ever heard in my life.
Let's be real as to why you follow them.
They pose all ass shots,
and I feel like that's again him
invalidating my feelings.
He makes me feel stupid
for feeling upset over things, and this is why I hate
being vulnerable with him
because I should be able to have emotions
and not feel like I have to hide them.
Stop lying.
If you're gonna lie. I'm not doing therapy with you.
- Be honest. Just say I'm sorry... - Lie about what?
...I hurt your feelings.
What can I do to help our relationship?
[Alexei] I'm definitely nervous and anxious about the surgery.
Sitting here, I'm thinking all kind of weird scenarios.
What if something goes wrong?
[Alexei speaking]
Maybe I should have taken a stronger stance
against Loren having the surgery.
[Ashley in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[intense music playing]
[whirring]
I'm definitely nervous and anxious about the surgery.
I mean, I gave Loren a kiss goodbye.
And then now I'm gonna have to wait for six hours during this surgery
not knowing how it's gonna go.
It's sad that the woman that I love
needs to feel like she's gotta do this surgery
and go under the knife to feel beautiful.
But I know that she's doing this to be a happier
and more confident person.
So I'm doing my best to support her.
[cell phone ringing]
[Marlene] Hi, what's going on?
Hey, Marlene, no, everything is good.
Just wanted to let you know that,
you know, the surgery started about 35, 40 min ago,
and I'm just waiting out here.
[Marlene speaking]
[Marlene chuckles]
[Alexei] Yeah. No, I didn't have any luck.
I did try, though.
I did try. But...
[Marlene speaking]
- [cross talking] - [Marlene] I know, I know, I know...
[Marlene continues speaking]
[Alexei] Yeah.
[Alexei speaking]
- [cross talking] - [Marlene] Yeah, I know.
[Marlene speaking]
[Alexei speaking]
[both chuckle]
- [Marlene] All right, honey. - [Alexei speaking]
[Marlene speaking]
I will.
- All right. Bye. - Okay. Bye.
I think what makes this procedure even more stressful
is the fact that a lot of people are relying to her,
not just me.
It's also the kids.
It's Loren's parents and sister.
So I think everybody is a little bit on edge
until we know that everything is over and surgery is success.
- [woman] Hey. - Hey.
So I just wanted to give you a little update. Okay?
Okay, Cool. So, right lipo and then injection
and then the tummy tuck is the last. Right?
That's correct. Yeah.
The incision, all of that is still coming up.
Yeah, so we have a little ways to go,
but she's doing really well.
- All right. Thank you so much. - You're very welcome.
- Get some rest. - Thank you.
[blows raspberry]
[patient monitors beeps]
[intense music playing]
[Dr. Dev speaking]
[exhales]
It was It feels like almost torture, sitting here, waiting around,
and it's a major surgery and things can happen.
So while I'm sitting here.
I'm thinking all kind of weird scenarios.
What if something goes wrong?
What if, you know, her body part looks too weird or I don't know.
She comes out all botched.
I'm starting to wonder
maybe I should have taken a stronger stance
against Loren having this surgery.
["I'm Comin' home' playing]
♪ No promises
♪ No excuses
♪ Life is the lesson what you reap what you... ♪
[in Spanish]
[Jonathan speaking]
[Manuel speaking]
[Jonathan speaking]
♪ See my kingdom They layed out for me ♪
♪ I'm Comin' home
♪ I'm Comin' home, oh
[in Spanish]
[Manuel speaking]
[Jonathan speaking]
[Manuel speaking]
[Ashley] Manuel.
[Jonathan speaking]
[in Spanish]
[Jonathan speaking]
[Ashley speaking]
[Jonathan speaking]
[in Spanish]
[in English] Manuel has been acting like a child
since we got to New York.
He's been throwing tantrums, leaving without telling me
and really trying to exclude me from his life.
I'm really tired of hearing him say
that I'm the one with the problem.
When he's the one pushing me away.
I'm just starting to wonder if he wants to be free of me.
[Jonathan in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
[Jonathan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Manuel speaking]
[imitating Ashley]
No!
- [Jonathan speaking] - [bleep]
[Ashley speaking]
[Manuel speaking]
[Jonathan speaking]
[Manuel speaking]
[intense music playing]
[sighs in exasperation]
[sobbing]
[Manuel speaking]
I definitely don't want my relationship to be over with Ed.
I don't want to give up.
I want to be with Ed.
I have absolutely no idea what I would do next
if this is the end.
["Run Baby Run" playing]
♪ Love, can't protect you now ♪
♪ The love that I can feel
♪ It'll only break you down
♪ Oh, daylight's dying
♪ Run, baby run, baby run
Five days ago, Ed completely blindsided me
and canceled the wedding.
He is completely avoiding coming home.
The other day, I didn't have enough notice
to get childcare for my daughter
and meet Ed at a bar.
But today Ed finally agreed to meet up with me
at a more appropriate location
so I can figure out what's going on.
Hey, can I get you anything?
I have water. Thank you.
I definitely don't want my relationship to be over with Ed.
Being in a committed relationship,
you-- you stick through it.
Hard is-- A 100%
So I don't want to give up.
I want to be with Ed.
I have absolutely no idea what I would do next
if this is the end.
[sobbing] And that scares me.
[Ed] So how are you doing?
Well...
[clears throat]
I want you to know that um...
I think I've been kind of just looking for an excuse--
To call off the wedding?
We both have had [bleep] marriages,
and I know we wouldn't want to end in a divorce.
And that's how-- how I saw happening,
and I didn't want to do that to you.
You know, don't you think that I should have known first?
Yeah.
You told-- And I had to find out through your friend, Ed.
I know
I don't always handle things well.
As your know.
You know how embarrassing that is. [sobbing]
[sniffing]
It's not like I want somebody else.
That's not what it is.
I just-- I want to be single.
Work on my career and...
Then you'll find someone.
You're gonna be the best version of yourself,
and it's not gonna be with me.
Liz rest assured...
[bleep]
You're a better person out here, Ed.
And I'm losing that. And I helped create that.
And I stuck with you through everything.
[sniffs]
I hate thinking about you with someone else.
I wanted to stop lying to myself that I was happy. Um...
This had more to do with me than anybody else.
I just felt myself falling out of love with Liz.
You know, as hard as it is on Liz,
You know, I wanted to take the least painful approach.
And this definitely wasn't the least painful way.
So we have some time left on our lease.
I just wanna help you, you know, figure things out.
And I just want to be cordial to you and Riley.
I want you to be happy, and I want you to--
You're a lot younger than I am.
You have your whole life ahead of you.
If you ever meet anybody like me, just run.
I don't want to meet anybody else. [sobbing]
["When You're Falling" playing]
♪ I can't
[whispers] I am sorry.
♪ Waiting for you
♪ Nor I
♪ Don't even know you...
[Liz] I went from about to be getting married
to single and completely alone.
I think it's really [bleep] to give three years
to yourself to someone and have it end like this.
He really made me feel that no matter how hard things got out here,
we would always work through it.
And knowing everything that I gave up,
I think the hardest part is just having to start over.
I don't have any choice but to walk away.
Where did you park?
Far away from you.
♪ When you're falling
♪ When you're falling down ♪
[woman] Okay, so now we're going to do a little demonstration.
You drop your hands down and start your walk.
Wow.
Jasmine if you could please join me.
I came to this worship feeling like nobody,
but right now, I mean, Jasmine the queen mode
I like it.
♪ Hey
♪ I think she knows that
♪ But I'm gonna show it
♪ Show it all...
[Jasmine] I have to practice my beauty queen smile
because I open my mouth like an alligator to be--
- Just be yourself. - [Jasmine laughs]
[Gino] You have a very beautiful smile.
♪ The good vibes are taking over ♪
So this is the place, right?
Yeah.
This is it.
[Jasmine] Ah! Perfect. [chuckles]
Today we're going to the beauty pageant workshop
that Leandro's friend Willina is hosting.
So I understand my title in classic...
[Jasmine] Hello?
- [Gino] Hi. - [gasps] Jasmine!
- How are you? - Hi. [laughs]
Nice to meet you.
My God, you're so gorgeous.
You are so gorgeous. You look amazing.
I love this set on you.
Thank you. My husband help me pick it up.
Nice to meet you. Gino.
[Jasmine] Yes, this is Gino.
Leandro signed you up,
but I wasn't sure if you were gonna show up.
I wasn't sure myself. [laughs]
Trust me. You are going to want to join this pageant.
I'm scare because I don't look at myself as a beautiful woman.
I have always struggled with my body image and confidence.
- So... - Oh, come on.
You know you're very beautiful.
You have this passionate personality.
You're gonna knock them dead.
I-- I don't have faith in myself
but thank you.
- Let's meet some of the girls. - Yes. [whispers]
- Are you down for that? Yes? - Yeah. Yes.
Let's meet the beauty queens. Oh, my God! [squeaks]
So we have Sklouchere.
Jasmine. Nice to meet you.
- Sklouchere, nice to meet you too. - Sklouchere.
This is Dallas.
- Nice to meet you, Jasmine. - Jasmine.
- I'm so glad you're here. - Nice to meet you.
- Thank you so much-- - This is Mariant.
My pleasure beautiful.
[Jasmine chuckles] Oh.
You are beautiful. My gosh.
And of course, our Miss Angela Posillico.
- Nice to meet you. - And welcome. Beautiful to have you here.
Thank you. Thank you so much.
This is my husband.
- Gino. - Hello.
- Hi Gino. - [Gino] Nice to meet you.
Yes, he's gonna be around.
I hope that doesn't bother you girls.
- Right? - No, not at all.
- [Jasmine] Okay. - [Gino chuckles]
I am happy that you're here,
and I truly appreciate it, baby.
But he's gonna be surrounded by all these beautiful women.
I'm just saying.
[Jasmine continues speaking]
- I only have eyes for you. Don't worry. - Better
[Jasmine speaking]
Just a little bit about Miss International World.
We are more than a pageant.
We empower all women through a crown.
We like to make dreams become a reality.
Okay, so this workshop is intended to help you guys
with your preparation for the pageant.
I know you ladies probably have a lot of questions.
So who wants to go first?
What questions do we have here?
So is is there an age limit?
'Cause I just turned 37,
and I look at myself like too old for-- [chuckles]
You look so young.
Oh, look at Dallas.
She's over here. Like, what are you--
A woman never tells her age.
But I'll be 44 in January.
What?
[Mariant] She looks great.
[Dallas] Age is only a number.
Nothing that you should identify with ever.
- [Angela] No. - Ever.
[Jasmine speaking]
Which is hair loss.
and just by looking at your hair all of you girls
like It's so perfect and amazing.
I um... I might even lose all of it.
[chuckles] I-- I wanted to shave it like, a few days ago.
- Actully-- - Oh, no. Don't do that.
No. [chuckles] I was so close to do it.
[woman] That's completely normal.
- And I'm-- - [Dallas] Jasmine.
Your alopecia is something that you should not worry about, not one bit.
Do you know how many of us
that are possibly wearing wigs, clip ins?
These are all things that we do to enhance
the beautifulness that we already have.
Don't let it define you.
And don't let it stop you from anything.
- [Willina] That was beautiful. - That was very touching.
- [Angela] Beautiful. - [Willina] That was so beautiful.
[sobbing]
I need you to stop that. Okay?
- [Jasmine] I feel so ugly lately - No, you're not ugly.
[Willina] You're beautiful.
I don't like what I see in the mirror.
You don't like it, but we do.
[laughing]
Focus on the things you like about yourself.
I like my-- I'm gonna sound so weird.
- [Willina] You love your arms? - I like my arms.
I like my arms too they're muscular.
Well, you know what I mean, just admiring those things
that I find so beautiful in my body
helps me to focus on the positive things.
[Willina] When Jasmine walked in the room,
I was like, wow, this girl is a goddess.
She's perfect.
I just don't understand how she can find herself not pretty.
I definitely think that Jasmine should participate
because this will be a push for her to feel
so much better about herself.
She really should have something like this in her life.
This, all these words meant a lot to me.
I-- I really mean it.
Thank you so much. You're an amazing, gorgeous women.
I was-- I was really needing that in my life.
Okay, so now we're gonna do a little demonstration
to make sure you guys give your best
when it comes to the runway walk.
You drop your hands down and start your walk.
[Jasmine] Wow!
This workshop is a positive experience.
I feel so encouraged by listening to the older women.
And it's this sense of sisterhood
I was not expecting it to be this good.
[Willina] Yes, Queen.
- Wow! - [Gino laughs]
Jasmine, if you could please join me.
Oh, my! [chuckles nervously]
Should I start walking?
[laughing]
We're gonna do it with the crown and the sash.
- Oh, my God! - [Gino] Yeah.
How does that feel?
- Good. - Good?
They put a sparkling crown on me and I'm like, okay--
[imitating pageant crying]
[laughs]
- Yay! - Oh, My-- Oh, my goodness!
It looks amazing.
Look at you. Wow.
I came to this workshop feeling like nobody,
but right now, I mean, Jasmine the queen mode.
I like it.
I don't know how it took me 37 years
to get into this beauty pageants.
I'm so good at it.
Okay. 5, 6, 7, 8.
One foot in front of the other.
Interact with your public.
[Gino] You look like a beauty queen.
There she is, the queen.
- [Gino] Yeah. - [Dallas] It's the international world.
That was nice.
Thank you for letting me wear your crown.
It's such an honor.
You don't want to take it off. See?
Yeah, I wanted to steal it, but...
[all laughing]
[Jasmine] Leandro was right.
Coming to this workshop was amazing.
Like I needed motive that's gonna wake me up
from this state of depression.
[Gino] Jasmine has what it takes to be a beauty queen
like she has, like, She's like, the whole package.
Well, I'm a highly competitive person.
I always win.
And you never know if it goes well.
And I want to try more beauty pageants.
Why not? [laughs]
Well, ladies, I look forward to getting
all of your applications so thank you again.
And we look forward to seeing you soon.
Thank you.
John just got here, so I'm gonna go meet up with him. Okay?
You're being selfish.
[Thais speaking]
[Loren sobbing]
[Alexei shushing]
[Loren speaking]
[Alexei] I know. Shh... calm down.
This surgery seems to be 10 times harder
than what she went through with the C sections.
She will barely be able to get out of her bed.
Oh, my God. You're stressing me out. Relax.
[intense music playing]
[Thais] Can you open?
[baby cooing]
I know, baby.
Give me the-- My purse.
[sighs wearily]
[Thais] My birthday started off great,
and I had high hopes that, you know,
things with my dad would be great.
But I'm still frustrated with Patrick.
Because I mean, Patrick refuses to ask my dad for the blessing.
And I just want this day to be over.
All right, let's get out of here.
Well, it went pretty good meeting your dad today. What do you think?
[Thais speaking]
From me?
[Thais speaking]
Like what?
I didn't lie to him.
No. But he means--
You know, I might have not have, like, talked to him. But like--
- [Patrick] I do understand what he was asking for. - [Thais cross talking]
Yes, I did. I don't want to get his blessing right now.
[Thais] That's crazy.
It's disrespectful when someone asks you
for the blessing in person and-- and you didn't say anything.
So, like, I didn't want to just, like,
show up after two years of not seeing the guy
and, like, show him my baby and be like,
"Hey, could I have your blessing now?"
Like we don't talk.
There's no relationship there.
[Thais speaking]
You're being selfish.
I don't think I'm being selfish.
Yeah, you are because you were there.
- What do you want me to do? Get on my knees and beg him. - When-- When he's--
I feel like Patrick is making it
more complicated than you know, it would be.
[Thais continues speaking]
So it makes things harder.
Well, I mean, if I had it my way,
we'd probably never be in this mess.
For me, I feel like the blessing is just little too late.
And you know, whether I get it or not, it's not that important.
But earning his respect, man to man
is definitely something you know I want to do.
I just I don't think why would he give me
a blessing if he doesn't even respect me?
[sighing]
I'm not gonna just do what he wants me to do.
Like it doesn't work like that.
I have to feel good about it.
[phone vibrating]
John just got here, so I'm gonna go meet up with him. Okay?
[in Portuguese]
[Thais in English] Just go.
[in Portuguese]
[Patrick] I know. [speaking Portuguese]
Hold on.
[Patrick speaking]
[in English] Great.
[groans]
[in English] I feel so upset that you know, Patrick
preferred to stay with John on my birthday than with me.
- I don't prefer to leave you alone. - You did.
It's just you-- You--
- Need your space. - That's my birthday.
I know, but you're all upset.
So I figured I'd give you some time
and John just got here. I gotta make sure that you, know he's okay.
[Patrick in English]
You're supposed to take him. He's your kid, too.
[Patrick] Well, you can take the dog.
You can't leave the dog here.
[sighs wearily]
["Meet Me In My Dreams" playing]
♪ Meet me in my dreams
♪ Prittiest thing that I've ever seen ♪
[Alexei speaking]
♪ Eye to eye and tooth to tooth ♪
♪ Body to body your body is the best ♪
[music stops]
[patient monitors beeps]
[Dr. Dev speaking]
[woman speaking]
[Alexei speaking]
It's food?
Yeah.
Oh, my God. Thank you. Thank you so much.
So Loren ordered herself food
that was just delivered for after surgery.
[chuckles]
That's funny.
Classic Loren moves.
She ordered herself food.
She just ordered herself a toast.
You know, as many other things, she's in charge of this, too.
Even in the middle of the surgery,
Loren getting cut open
and she's still taking care of everything like it's crazy.
[Dr. Dev speaking]
- [Alexei] Hey. - Alex. She's all done.
She's doing great.
- [Alexei] That's it. - She's good.
- She's good. Yeah. - [Alexei] Whoa!
It's been a long day.
- It hasn't been-- - You have been waiting.
Yeah, have a seat, please.
Forget about me. How was it for you, like...?
[Dr. Dev] It was great. We were in the zone and uh...
She looks awesome. She woke up great.
So she's in recovery right now.
- Missing... - Yeah.
So we ended up getting really good quality fat,
so that made me happy.
[Alexei chuckles]
[Dr. Dev] Yeah. Happy fats.
So that's-- that's good stuff, too. We call it liquid gold.
Yeah, So everything went perfectly by the plan...
- [cross talking] - Perfectly by the plan, yeah.
- Okay, I'm pumped. - [Dr. Dev] Yeah.
So you're up now for duty.
Now it's my duty to work Yes, I know.
- I'm ready. - [Dr. Dev] You're ready. Good.
[Alexei] I'm very happy, it all went well.
So I want to go see her,
see how she's getting out of the anesthesia.
I just want to get her out of there.
Go to a room and try to settle in.
You think she's gonna sleep, like through the night,
or is she gonna be in pain? How is she gonna--
- She'll be sore, uh for sure. - [Alexei] She'll be sore?
It's that area by the scarring.
She'll be sore. And then, with the muscle tightening,
she's gonna she's gonna feel like a corset has been put around her.
We're also gonna give you a a little breathing machine.
And so it'll-- Angela's gonna teach you
and her how to do these exercises to... [inhales]
- We expand and kind of keep things open. - [Alexei] Okay.
All right, so I still need to go through some training.
- Little bit. Yeah. Yeah. - A little bit. Okay.
- Thank you. Thank you so much. - No problem.
Thanks for waiting. You were great.
I'm excited for you guys.
- I'm excited-- - All right, I'm here if you guys need anything.
- Thank you so much. - Okay.
[Alexei] All right.
The recoveries from the C sections were intense,
but this surgery seems to be 10 times harder
than what she went through with the C sections.
Basically, Loren is not going to be able to do nothing.
Nothing at all.
I'm gonna have to feed her and shower her
and she will barely be able to get out of her bed.
[blows raspberry]
- [nurse] Ready for you? - [Alexei] Yes.
All Done. Good.
- [Alexei] Phew. Okay. I'm ready? - This way.
So I'm glad that the surgery is over.
But I'm starting to realize that the hard part is just beginning.
- How is she doing, though? - [nurse] Doing great.
[Alexei] Is she in a lot of pain?
[nurse] She has a little, which is normal.
[Alexei] Hey, babe.
Why are you shaking so much?
Are you cold?
[Loren] Hi, babe. [sobbing]
[Alexei shushing]
I did it. [shivering]
I know shh, calmed down.
Calmed down, calmed down. Shh relax.
Oh, my God, you're stressing me out. Relax.
That's it. Shh...
The women that you follow or entertain...
- Are fitness checks. - Are more muscular than me, is what I meant.
They're not-- I don't have the same body type.
[Rob] When I do watch porn because I haven't had sex in [bleep] forever.
I watch normal [bleep]
And I'm not watching anything
that isn't what I would have if I could have what I really want,
which is Sophie.
As much as you want to change,
change is going to be very hard
with all this anger and resentment.
'Cause when we're angry, we start blaming each other.
We lack empathy.
And we start complaining more than asking for what we really need.
It's frustrating when he's the one that hurt me.
And then now, like, this shouldn't be like argument.
He should be, "I'm sorry." What, like, "What can I do?"
The women that you follow or entertain...
- Are fitness checks. - ...Are more muscular than me, is what I meant.
They're not-- I don't have the same body type.
That's I wasn't trying to have a go at you.
I and I'm open to how you feel.
- I know, I get it. - I have a problem with what you said.
I understand. I understand.
I want to hear how you feel.
I want to validate Rob because there are a lot
of judgment around sex.
Uh, so he's just afraid that he's gonna be judged.
I feel like Sophie is here to convince the therapist
that I have some sort of kink.
I'm not into girls who have buff arms.
I'm not into girls who have the like the--
You know the necks, and every--
That's not-- I'm not into any of that.
And when I do watch porn because I haven't had sex in [bleep] forever.
I watch very very normal. [bleep]
And what I like is Sophie's body.
So I was like, I'm not watching anything that isn't--
That what isn't what I would have
if I could have what really want. Which is Sophie.
I see your wish to change things.
And I think you love your partner.
But I'm gonna invite you to be vulnerable,
and that's the hard work.
It's easier to express anger.
It's the first impulse we have.
If I want my partner to listen to me
my show is to be vulnerable.
I'm sorry, it upset me and it triggered me.
And I appreciate you trying to open up,
and that's what I want.
When I bring up like the online cheating
or like anything like that,
it's not because I'm trying to make you feel bad.
It's because I'm looking for, like reassurance.
I'm comparing myself to like girls you like online,
and then it makes me insecure.
And then when I'm insecure, I'm, like, mad at you.
Like, in that moment, I just want you to be like,
"Oh, I love you."
You know, I just like, reassure me that
like you think I'm beautiful or like I'm what?
Everything that you want?
And I feel like you never tell me things like that.
Just say something nice to me.
[Rob] I can say something nice to you.
- But that doesn't mean you're gonna wanna have sex with me. - The only nice thing
you've said to me in months is, "You look nice."
- [Rob] Sophie, that's not true... -"You look nice."
- ...and on top of that-- -"You look nice."
- On top of that-- - [Sophie] Like, it's so, like...
You could tell your friend you look nice,
you can tell your mom you look nice.
Like, you need to tell me something you tell, like,
your wife that you're obsessed with.
I married this girl. I love her.
I... I find her the most beautiful woman in the world.
So it... it sucks. And it hurts to hear that
my wife doesn't feel like she's attractive to me.
But I think the fact that we have been struggling with intimacy
has made it harder for me to say these things
that Sophie would probably love to hear because, um,
you know, it's like I say, "Damn, you're so beautiful."
But then it seems like that's where it ends.
Like I... My... My fear is that I can sit there and try,
but it's never, since you don't even know what that looks like,
it's never quite gonna be it.
You can try right now to say something nice.
- You want me to try to make you feel good right now? - [Sophie] Yeah.
You have beautiful lips. I love your eyes. Your gorgeous body.
You make me warm inside.
I would just want to take you home and
do some things to you.
It's like, this is mine. I love it.
[Sophie] Yeah, that's good. Do that every day.
Well, not every day, but most days.
"Or else."
No. But that already makes me feel like I like you again.
Like now feel nice.
Was that difficult for you?
- Yeah, a little bit. - [Sophie] It was difficult?
Like, I think those things.
But I don't, like, say those things.
- [woman 1] Do you like to hear that? - Yes.
Yeah. So this is what I call being intentional.
It may not come natural, but we know it works
for my partner, so I'm going to do it.
And you did great.
You did fantastic.
Thanks.
How do you feel like doing after this session?
What? What are you inspired to do?
I'm gonna try to say what I think more.
I mean, when you walk out of the bathroom,
booty bouncing, I'm gonna be like,
"Damn, you got the beautiful fat ass and love that ass, like..."
That's how it's gonna sound.
I don't know what you want me to say,
but that's how it's gonna sound, okay.
I would be like, you know, you come down looking good,
I'll be like, "Damn, [bleep], looking nice today, baby. I love those."
[speaking in English]
[woman 1] What about you, Sophie?
- [speaking in English] - A bunny?
- [chuckles] - [Rob] Word? The bunny?
You just buy the outfits then.
- And I'll just wear them. - Sure.
This is all I ever even wanted from Rob.
Like, even though he's struggling, it's still, you know,
me seeing that he's really trying
to make me happy or make me smile.
And so in the future, when I am feeling insecure
or I am having trust issues with Rob,
he kind of knows now how to make me feel better about the situations.
I feel like it's a good step towards me being able to trust him again.
Let's close this moment with a physical action you wanna
[speaking in English]
You can hug me.
[speaking in English]
Yeah, you can.
Rob and Sophie's biggest challenge
is that they don't trust to open up to each other.
There has been pain that has not healed.
They really need to learn
that keeping the passion alive,
keeping their relationship happy is a constant work,
and love is not enough.
And any last words?
[Rob] I guess we'll see what happens next.
So your family essentially paying us a bride price,
it feels like we're selling our daughter.
I get it that it's his tradition. It's not my tradition.
So, what would happen then if we don't want to ask a bride price?
[speaking in English]
[Kobe] You want some more bubble?
- Are you ready? Okay. - [kid speaking]
Whoa! Let's go get it. Come on.
[kid clamoring]
Get it.
Get it, mama!
- Oh, no. - [Emily] Get it, get it, get it.
Get it, mama.
- Bonjour. - [Emily] Bonjour.
- Morning. - Bonjour.
- Coffee. - [Kobe] Bonjour, monsieur.
Coffee.
[indistinct]
- [Emily] Hello. - How are you guys?
You guys had a good sleep?
- Good sleep. - Yeah. Yeah.
- [speaking in English] - Ready for coffee.
- [Kobe] Oh. Already? - I got my list started.
I need some help.
- All right, I mean-- - I wanna make sure it's appropriate.
The knock door is the first part of
the traditional wedding process,
where my parents would come by with an elder
to ask Emily's parents for permission to marry Emily.
I could use some coffee this morning.
[Kobe] So you know, my dad is coming over for the knock door,
- and I'm pretty sure you're prepared about the list. - [Dave] I got a list.
- It's only like 60 pages. - [Kobe chuckles]
Emily's parents need to come up with a list of things
that they request from my family
before we can get married, traditionally.
[speaking in English]
- Okay, the first thing is a goat. - [Emily] Okay.
- [speaking in English] - [Dave] Is that okay?
And we won't take it home with us,
but we can maybe leave it here
- and they can have it as a pet or... - Okay.
- ...or eat it. - Good.
Okay, a liter of palm oil.
- I just feel that's traditional. - Okay.
It's very common for a Cameroonian
to request, like, a bag of rice.
[speaking in English]
- Okay. An umbrella. - Umbrella?
- We need an umbrella. - Okay, good.
Okay. I want a wooden cane.
- Okay. - And some African shirts.
- Just regular shirts. Two shirts. - Two shirts?
- So everything on here seems okay? - [speaking in English]
And so, this is it. This is all we ask for.
And then also, there's usually another one, bride price.
- Like, the amount of money... - [Dave] When do I ask for that?
- Same. It has to be on your list. - [Dave] Okay.
So your family essentially paying us a bride price?
What does that mean?
Just kind of like appreciation of what you guys have done.
Like, you guys have raised your daughter
to be who she is.
How much are we talking about here?
It depends on you. It's something that is negotiable.
- But that bride price has to be there. - [Dave] Okay.
I just have to say that I don't like it.
Well, this is our tradition
and whatever thing you have on that list
is just part of honoring the tradition.
[Lisa] I understand that.
It's just the whole principle of the thing for me.
It feels like we're selling our daughter.
I mean, hones... I, honestly, don't get it.
- You have no problem with this? - I don't have a problem with.
- It's fulfilling a tradition. - It's... it's... This is something that
has been done for a million years in Africa.
And my dad brought this up and said, "Listen..."
[speaking in English]
So, like, if we don't do it,
then the ancestors are gonna curse you or what?
[speaking in English]
We have to respect this part of the culture.
There's a lot of things that could go wrong
in our relationship.
[speaking in English]
And I mean, I don't want my kids not doing well in life
because of what I didn't do.
Emily, you feel fine somebody taking money from someone for Scarlett?
No. I mean, I feel like,
I'm already married to this guy.
I've been married to him for two and a half years and we have two kids.
I don't... I think it's just
- doing what his dad-- - Well, I think there are times in your life
you have to stand on principle.
I mean, I want this whole knock door to go well,
because more people on Kobe's side are more skeptical
about our relationship than I thought.
So, like, I need everyone
to just go along with the tradition.
The definition of the bride price,
it's not like you're buying Emily.
- It's a sign of appreciation. - Appreciation.
And this is... We're not... We're not selling her too Kobe.
Well, either way, it feels like we're taking money for a person.
That's what it feels like.
I feel like no one has my back on this.
I feel like people think I'm ridiculous for not getting it.
I get it that it's his tradition. It's not my tradition.
I don't want to really be an active participant in taking money for Emily.
So what would happen then?
If we don't want to ask a bride price, what would happen?
There has to be a bride price for a traditional marriage to take place.
[speaking in English]
Personally, I haven't decided if this is gonna happen, this part of the tradition.
In the end, we are given money and they're taking Emily.
What is that?
I don't want to offend your parents,
but I also don't want to compromise my beliefs.
[speaking in English]
You look great in big boobs.
Really?
[Alexei chuckles]
Something's off with her right now.
Your eyes are bugging out.
Really?
[speaking in other language]
- [shudders] - [shushes]
- [speaking in English] - [Alexei] I'm very proud of you.
Everything went well. The doctor said everything went well.
[speaking in English]
They're gonna hurt for a while, babe.
- Try not to shake. - [Loren speaking]
[Alexei] Yeah. Do your breathing. Relax. Yeah.
Real deep. Don't shake.
[shushes]
Don't even talk. Just breathe.
- [speaking in English] - [Alexei] What?
[Alexei] Huh?
[speaking in English]
What truck? Stop talking. Relax. Just breathe.
Thank you.
- Where's your hand? - [speaking in English]
You woke up.
That's it. [shushes]
Seeing her like this, it's difficult to stay positive.
I don't want her to suffer, I don't want her to shake and be in pain.
Usually, Loren is very strong and in charge,
so to see her all, you know,
banged up right after the surgery, it's very heartbreaking.
- [Loren] Ow. - [shushes]
[whispers] Oh, my God.
[speaking in English]
[Alexei] So snatched, babe.
Delicious.
- Delicious? - [Alexei] Delicious. [chuckles]
- [speaking in English] - You look great.
- You look great, honey. - You'll love it. You'll see.
- You look great in big boobs. - Really?
And the doctor said it went so great.
Something's off with her right now.
Your eyes are bugging out. [chuckles]
Really?
It's a great relief to actually hear her asking
if she's snatched and making these jokes.
And it's funny right now.
But it's gonna be a whole different story
once this medication wears off.
And even though I'm worried about how I'm gonna get through the recovery process,
right now, I'm just thinking, "How am I gonna get through this first night even?"
Let me, uh, just put this down here on the seat.
[speaking in English]
[indistinct chatter]
[Loren speaking]
- What do you feel? When you try to stretch out? - [Loren] Yeah.
- [Alexei] Don't try yet. - I'm not.
Me and Loren are staying at a hotel
just a few blocks away from the office.
We have quite a drive back home,
and we decided it would be best
to stay close for the first couple of days.
So, Loren's mom is gonna be taking care of the kids together with my dad.
Okay.
- [nurse] No arms, remember. - No arms. From the back.
- [Loren speaks indistinctly] - [nurse] Hold on.
Yes. Yes. Okay, got it.
Get up higher on the chair, babe. Get up.
Try to sit on the thingy.
Okay.
All right.
All right, thank you.
Bye, guys.
[Loren speaking]
[Alexei] Well, yeah, you sure did, honey-bunny.
Now is the hard time.
Yeah, I want some fresh air. I need it. I need it.
Fresh air smells like weed.
- I need it. - Good Miami fresh air.
Today was a really exhausting day
but this night is just starting.
Okay, this is the entrance right here.
I helped Loren through recoveries before.
This time Loren will need help with everything,
including wiping her butt.
So, this is a new level.
- [Alexei speaking in English] - [Loren groans softly]
I just hope that she recovers quickly.
[speaking in other language]
[in English] I can't have a serious conversation with Manuel
about where things stand without him leaving
And it really hurts that he'd rather push me away
than talk to me about how he's feeling.
[speaking in other language]
[all speaking in other language]
[chuckles]
[Manuel speaking]
- [in English] I don't want to listen, Jonathan. - [speaking in other language]
[in English] I'm not listening to this.
[speaking in other language]
[in English] Okay. [continues speaking in other language]
[in English] I'm tired of this. I'm so tired of this.
- I'm, like, I'm done. I'm done. - [speaking in other language]
[Jonathan and Manuel speaking in other language]
[Ashley, in English] No, I'm over it.
[groans]
[speaking in other language]
[Ashley, in English] Manuel, yes. Get in the car.
What?
[chuckles]
[speaking in other language]
[in English] Oh, my God.
It's funny that Manuel is telling me to accept
when I make a mistake and apologize to him
when he can't accept that
he should have just communicated with me from the jump.
This is activating me. It's triggering me. It's hurting me.
Especially because of things that have happened to me in the past.
But I've done a lot of self-reflection inside of this relationship
on, like what I feel like I could do better,
and I just don't feel the same energy from Manuel.
But he doesn't give a [bleep] about the behavior.
And I'm not dealing with Manuel acting like this in Rochester.
Like, it's not happening.
- Okay. Okay. - [speaking in other language]
[Ashley, in English] I'm [bleep] so done with this.
I absolutely think this pageant would be great for you.
But what... what if you get pregnant?
Then you would have to drop out of the pageant, right?
I haven't told Gino that I don't want to have a baby with him right now.
Uh, there is one very important thing that
- you are not aware of. - What?
What are you making over there?
I'm gonna do my own version of margaritas.
- [Gino] Oh, yeah? - Yes... The Jasmaritas.
Jasmaritas? That... That sounds better.
You know how much tequila to pour in?
[Jasmine] Yeah, I have a measure.
- [Gino] Wow. - [Jasmine] What?
[Gino] One for extra kick. I love it.
The only way to do a Jasmarita is if
- me, Jasmine, I make it. - [Gino] Absolutely.
It is our last night in Miami,
so, we're having our last dinner party here with Leandro.
- [Leandro] Gino. - [Gino] Leandro.
- You got the... - [Leandro] Yeah.
[Jasmine exclaims]
- [Gino] Look at you, you saved the day. - [Leandro] Yeah.
[Jasmine] It's not a margarita.
[speaking in other language]
- [in English] Oh, "Jasmarita". Okay. - [Jasmine] Okay.
[sniffs]
Her Jasmarita is...
Tastes so strong. I mean, it's got a lot of pop in it.
- What do you think? - It's good.
Well, Jasmaritas are not for pussies.
[both laugh]
[speaking in English]
She's a slutty margarita.
It's a little watery, but It's really good.
[speaking in English]
A little too much water.
I didn't put water.
I put ice and I put tequila.
I... Ice is water.
Cheers to Jasmine's...
[speaking in other language]
[exclaiming]
[in English] No, no, no. It's...
[speaking in other language]
Anus is asses.
[all chuckling]
[speaking in English]
I'm gonna start cooking the food.
[Jasmine] Cook. Cook for your wife.
Ciao.
[Leandro speaking in other language]
- [in English] Right, baby? Baby? - [Gino] Huh?
I... I'm telling Leandro in Spanish, of course,
that... that it was very inspiring, very touching, right?
- [Gino] Yeah. - How do you like it? Tell him.
Yeah. I mean, these women were incredible,
- and they... just very inspiring, you know? - [Jasmine] Yeah.
[Leandro speaking in other language]
- [Jasmine] Baby... - Huh?
...Leandro is asking if I want to participate into the contest.
- [Gino] Oh, the beauty pageant contest? - [Jasmine] Yeah.
I absolutely think this pageant would be great for you.
Help your self confidence and everything.
But, it's just that we're trying to get pregnant, right?
What... What if you get pregnant?
Then you would have to drop out of the pageant, right?
I haven't told Gino that I don't want to have a baby with him right now.
And it really destroys me.
Like, I feel so bad because I love him so much.
I mean, he is the love of my life.
And lately he has been actually very lovely, caring and supportive.
But if I tell him the news, that's gonna change
and it scares me because I really need Gino in my life right now.
Uh, there is one very important thing that you are not aware of.
Very important thing.
Yes, for us, as a couple.
I'm not in the same page as you are.
What do you mean you're not in the same page?
[Jasmine sighs]
I don't feel ready to have a baby.
So are you saying you don't want to have a baby at all?
I don't know.
- I don't know. I cannot say yes. - You "don't know"?
Exactly. I don't know.
You're just kind of like telling me this is what we're...
This is... This is the way it is
and without talking to me first about what we could do?
Where are you going?
[Gino] I'm going to bed.
I just... I can't do this.
I can't... I can't do this anymore.
[narrator] Still to come on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After.
Mwah!
I think as long as everybody gets along,
we're gonna get along.
So far, so good, right?
Ish?
[cheering]
Schoolgirl outfits, I like the blue one.
I like when he wears, like, tight shirts?
You like a little bit, a little bit of this action?
[chuckles]
Uh oh, uh oh.
What, you think I should cover my nipples?
So, Ashley gave Manuel $1,000.
Where's the money going, exactly?
That Manuel's in contact with his ex right now.
Okay.
I just want all your furniture out of here.
Well, maybe you should have been a man.
Maybe you should have done
a better job raising your daughter.
Oh, I did a fantastic job raising my daughter.
He is going to die a very, very lonely old man.
You're a [bleep] child.
Goodbye.
I hate you, I [bleep] hate you so much!
Yeah, see ya.
All this stuff.
Get that phone!
No, it's mine!
Help!
[bleep]