Well, cheers! That's mostly foam, but whatever.
-Welcome to Brazil. -[John] Thank you.
[narrator] Previously on 90-day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
[John in baby voice] Now Johnny is happy.
[in Portuguese]
[Patrick] So he messed up his reservation at the hotel.
Do you mind if he stays here for a couple nights?
I'm not gonna lie.
It's, uh, more of a recovery than I thought,
than we thought.
It just kills me to see you going through this.
-It was my decision. -[baby cries]
I know. So, no complaining allowed.
The worst part is having my mom judge.
I know she's judging, and critiquing everything I do.
-I want to talk... -[plate clangs]
about what Valerie brought up to me.
About your ex-girlfriend.
I think we should meet her.
It makes no sense.
It makes a lot of sense.
I mean, I don't know what to expect right now
because it's a dead chapter.
I just want to know when they broke up.
That's what I want to know.
At the beach, at four, with my wife.
Love it.
[Ashley] Manuel said
[angrily]
That's odd.
What did you say?
I did put 1000 dollars in his banking account.
Holy moly.
Recently, Manuel has been asking for more money
but refuses to tell me why.
It makes me feel like there's something I don't know.
You probably should look into a postnup.
You're enjoying your power over me.
I don't enjoy showing power over you
-or anything. -Yes, you do.
[screams]
[woman screaming]
Where are you going?
[screams] Home.
Son of a bitch! You didn't tell me that!
Michael told me the embassy moved the case,
and now he's telling me that he moved it?
That's probably why I ain't got the damn visa right now.
Tell me again!
-Tell me again. -Don't!
Did you move the [bleep] to Abidjan and didn't tell me?
Like this is my last chance to make him tell me
like, "I want you."
-[door opens] -Okay, cool. [bleep] Cool.
[Sophie] Bye forever!
I'm not doing that anymore.
[crying]
["Sambafunk" plays]
[engine revs]
Time to get up, bro.
[Patrick sighing] All right.
[Thais] Jesus Christ.
-What's up? -Good morning, John.
What's up? You sleep good?
[John] All right.
John stayed over last night after we got some drinks
because he didn't make a reservation for a hotel
because he assumed he could just stay with us.
Did you guys sleep good?
[sarcastically]
-[John] Oh, it was good. Thank you. -Yeah?
[John] Yeah, thank you. It was delicious.
[stammering] I'll get a cake.
[laughing] What? What? I mean, isn't it?
I didn't leave a mess!
[Patrick] Oh, bro, you're not doing a good first impression.
Oh, my God. A mess. What mess?
[shouting]
[John] What's that?
[Thais] If you want to stay here, you gotta learn.
-Soap? Water? -[Thais] Soap, water.
-Got it. Dishes! -[Thais] And then wash.
-[Thais] Yeah. -[John] Yeah, that's easy.
-[sarcastically] Yeah, do it! -I got you, no problem!
I don't understand how the two of you have so many dishes!
It's just two of you!
[John stutters]
I ate the cake with my bare hands, no dishes.
You ate the cake with your hands.
[surprised] Yeah!
[John grunts]
[with full mouth] Pretty good!
Pretty good [bleep].
They know what they're doing in Brazil, bro.
What the hell is this fire?
How you gonna eat someone's birthday cake?
Because, you know, she doesn't eat cake.
-[Patrick] She eats cake sometimes. -I eat cake!
Guys, I've barely seen you eat cake in my life
so I figured it was open season.
I was doing you a favor.
Hey!
-[John gasps] -[baby cooing]
[John with baby voice] Who's the cutest little girl?
[John cooing]
What's up, Uncle John?
-What's up? -You wanna hold her?
You're gonna be up, you're gonna be strong like your father?
[Thais laughs]
[John] See? She's happy I'm here.
-[Thais] Mmm. -[baby cooing]
So, what are we doing today?
[Patrick] Uh, we're gonna go check out Dad's ranch.
Oh, you're gonna-- With Jose?
-[Patrick] Aha! -Oh.
We're gonna go see if, like, that's gonna be a good spot for the party.
[Patrick] For Aleesi.
Really? Okay.
Yeah, just because it's like a big space, you can have a lot of people.
You can make a lot of noise.
Interesting.
[Thais laughs]
-[Patrick] You want me to take her? -[John] Yeah, yeah.
[Thais] Let's go.
[pop music plays]
[Patrick] The ranch was a little farther than I thought.
It's out there.
[Thais sighs]
[in Portuguese]
[Patrick] Yeah, yeah. We're close. We're close.
Because if not, I can, I can, uh, stop here and pee.
Pee?
[Patrick]
-Well, I mean, I, I'd pee everywhere. -[Thais laugh]
But, you know, that's normal for a guy.
-[Patrick] We're close. -Yeah, because I'm peeing my pants.
[Patrick] All right, let's pee.
-[Thais] Oh, my God... -[Patrick] Yeah, well...
-[Thais] -[Patrick]
[Patrick] Okay, amor.
[in Portuguese]
[Thais grunts] Okay.
[Patrick laughs]
[in Portuguese]
[Thais shouting] I can't...
[laughing]
Yes!
I did my... I peed my...
[Thais laughs]
-[Patrick] No, you didn't. -[Thais laughing] I peed...
When you gotta go, you gotta go, right?
So, I mean, I can't really say anything against it,
you know, because
have I pissed on the side of the road? Many times.
[Patrick exhales] Finally, we're almost there.
[John] I mean, I'm just tagging along, but, you know, obviously,
I haven't seen your father in a while.
And I don't know.
I have so many mixed feelings and a lot of bad stuff.
All right, Aleesi.
I wanna make sure Jose isn't up to anything
because he likes his money.
He'll do anything to get it.
You know, and you know he's got money to give him.
[all laughing] You know, so...
And he knows that.
[Patrick] I know my dad isn't perfect,
but you can try to paint a better light.
[John] I'm just saying!
Sometimes you gotta, you know, put your foot down
and, you know, you're gonna hurt some feelings.
[shouting]
[Angela] I'm done, Michael.
[sighs]
Angie, Angie.
Here's the deal.
I don't want you to tell me what I want to hear
I'm telling... [sighs]
I want you to tell me what I need to [bleep] know.
Like, you moved that [bleep] without me knowing.
No, you did. You moved it without consulting me.
I was freaked out.
-Angie. Let me... let me... -Mike. Michael, stop.
See, I can't!
-Okay! -[Angela shouting] I can't with you.
Michael made me think the embassy moved the interview,
and now I'm finding out he did.
He should have left the [bleep] where it was.
Michael's already failed two visa applications.
And moving the interview
I'm sure the embassy thought that was suspicious.
But what I'm more upset about is
Michael's doing all this crap behind my back.
Anybody would get tired of being lied to.
I'm your partner, man.
We're in this together.
-[Michael] Angie... -I'm going [bleep] home.
Where's the taxi? Are you taxi?
-Angie! -Can you take me to capital, please?
-Babe, please, please! -Stop, stop.
-Michael, This is too much. -Please, please.
Just every time with you, you're...
-Don't go! Don't go, please! -No!
-Please, please. -Back off!
Please! Let's talk in the van, please.
-Go, Michael. -Please, please.
[Angela sighs]
[sighs]
[dramatic music escalates and stops]
[dialing]
Hey, Skyla!
Hey, Mama.
What's the matter with you?
Did he get the visa?
No.
[Skyla over video call]
I'm thinking he's denied.
Okay? And listen to this.
He slipped tonight and says.
What the [bleep]?
You never told me that!
And then here's what he said.
-It's gonna take two weeks, right, to get the answer. -[over video call] Hm-mmm.
But when I said I can't stay two weeks,
he told me to go home. He'll stay here.
That's because he's not trying to leave with you, Mama.
[Skyla over video call]
It's always something!
[Skyla over video call]
[shouting angrily]
Oh, my God.
[sighs]
[Skyla's voice indistinctively via video call]
[sobbing]
The [bleep]? I'm so [bleep] confused!
[Skyla over video call]
Skyla thinks that Michael is scamming me.
As bad as I hate to say it,
at this point, I think she's right.
Because let me tell you something.
Every time I try to start trusting Michael again,
he just, he just takes advantage of it
[stuttering] and continues to lie.
The lies never stop.
Like, all these things just keep coming at me,
and it's starting to make me think.
Is he scamming me?
I need to get to the bottom of this.
[Tor'i speaking]
The fact that she's playing this cat and mouse game
is really feeling like a green card play right now, bro.
[Rob] Maybe I am her ticket.
Maybe she didn't come here with that in mind,
but she doesn't... Now, she doesn't want to leave.
I don't know.
This ain't adding up to me.
[door creaks open]
[Gino] Jasmine hasn't spoken to me
since we had this big blowup fight yesterday.
And today is my family reunion
and I don't want her to get the impression
that we're not happy and doing well together.
You're not planning acting like this at the reunion, are you?
♪ Oh, yeah ♪
♪ You better go Get it ♪
♪ Fly high, meet Mile in the sky ♪
♪ I took a couple L's But now I'm winning ♪
[Tor'i] You need help?
-[Rob] I think I got it. -Come on, I got you.
♪ So high up Never looking down ♪
Oh, see, and I can't get my head on this thing,
♪ So I'm never looking down ♪
[Rob] One of my best friends Tor'i is in town for work,
and it kind of feels like perfect timing
because he is definitely a consistent good friend,
that is, you know, he's been there for me
while I've been going through things with Sophie
a number of different times.
[Rob] You need help with that?
-You see me? This is... This is my way, boy. -[Rob laughs]
-I do this. -[Rob] Oh, yeah.
I taught you everything, you know! What you're talking about?
Yeah. Yeah. Pretty much you taught me everything I know in the gym.
-[Tor'i] Yeah, right. -Everything before that was just sports.
Hey, man, that's what sucks, but...
I know you're missing the city dog.
When you're coming back to L.A.? You're missing L.A.?
To be honest with you, I really have been thinking about moving back.
-For real? -Well, I mean, Austin was just kind of a letdown.
[Rob] A lot of why I moved out here
was so Sophie and I kind of start our lives together,
and if I don't really have confidence in that,
what's the point?
I haven't talked to Sophie since she stormed out of the apartment yesterday.
Every time Sophie and I argue
seems to always end with her being ready to call it quits.
I love her, but I hate this.
It just feels like this isn't a marriage.
This feels like a very toxic boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
I'm tired of it.
[stuttering] I'm, I'm honest. I'm so tired.
Where is she staying?
-Like, where is she staying? -Staying at her friend Kay's house.
[Tor'i] That is, that's crazy.
[Rob] Like, what can I do?
[Tor'i sighs]
You know, I only get one perspective of everything.
But from what you tell me, I think it's pretty plain
to see that she's not as invested as you are in this whole thing,
if she can't even stay home consistently.
Rob need love, man.
That's all I ever wanted, man.
And that's [bleep] me apart. That's [bleep] me apart.
And now I ain't got no girl who really just, like,
loved me like I've been looking for.
Like because we're so distant, and every time
-we would be around each other, it's like... -[Tor'i] What?
it's like we're beefing and [bleep]
Do you think like she's stepping out?
Like you think she's getting that elsewhere?
[Rob] I really hope she's not getting it elsewhere.
I mean, I've tried to address this,
and all I get is, like a very confident
"Of course not."
[Tor'i] I know me as a person.
I couldn't go months on end,
being in a committed relationship
and not want to get my rocks off.
Like, how can Sophie do that?
Like I, I think, bro, I don't know.
Outside looking at it, it doesn't look good.
The [bleep] part is Sophie and I actually get along really well.
And I mean, I did go through a lot with that girl to be together
long before she was in the States,
long before we had a green card in the picture.
I had no reason to think she [stammers]
she didn't care about me.
[Tor'i] So when did she get her green card?
[Rob] She hasn't gotten it yet.
So when did y'all file for her green card?
Was it before or after she moved out?
Before.
So if you called it quits, she wouldn't get her joint.
[Rob] It doesn't... It's not that simple.
But there ain't a thing with, like, green cards,
where you have to, like, be living with that spouse?
[stuttering] Yes, but she's, she only moved out for so long.
She's on the lease, and it's not like
she... she dipped out and she never came back.
And she doesn't talk to me.
[Tor'i talking]
It don't feel like she's actually genuinely invested.
You don't think like she's trying to stay in America?
Like at this point?
-She's not, though, -[Tor'i] But, hey...
Like, I don't feel like that's type of girl she is.
[Tor'i] But this is the thing.
The fact that she's playing this cat and mouse game with you
is really feeling like a green card play right now, bro.
Like she's stringing you along this whole way
just to make sure she gets that.
[Rob] Honestly, if she was playing me this whole time,
I have to give it up to her because, God damn!
Like it ain't like I met her six months before
I brought her to America to marry me.
I think Rob is having a really hard time
accepting that Sophie could be in it for a green card.
He doesn't want to look stupid or feel like
he's been living a lie over the last three or four years.
He feels like he knows this person in and out
but I think it's pretty clear.
They both don't know each other,
and I think he needs to face it.
This ain't adding up to me.
It don't add up.
Actions aren't aligned with what she's saying.
That's what I'm trying to get you to understand.
This is a green card play, fam.
The idea that Sophie's here for a green card is just...
it's almost impossible to believe.
If she really wanted a green card,
she'd have found some rich sucker.
I'm like, "Why would you choose a guy
who doesn't have a bathroom in his apartment?"
But now, maybe I am her ticket.
Maybe she didn't come here with that in mind,
but now she doesn't want to leave.
I don't know.
But that reality of how much we've put into this,
how far we've come,
how great it is when we are in a good place,
it's so hard to let go of. I can't help it.
Like I know how bad I look.
Like I know how [bleep] whack this [bleep] is.
-Yeah. -And I just still have hope.
For what?
-Like... Like... -What?
Did you just say you have hope?
Hope for what, bro?
For us to work it out, man.
You simpin' right now, my dawg.
A hundred percent are enabling this behavior.
The concept of divorce is just...
Is what?
It's not what I ever wanted.
Hey, life ain't a fairy tale, my G.
I tried to warn you, bro.
I tried to tell you,
see what you need to see before you lock it in.
But you locked it in.
And, yeah, here we are.
You liked it, you put a ring on it. [chuckles]
And now it ain't looking too good for you, my G.
♪ I ain't trippin' On yesterday ♪
♪ Forgetting all of My mistakes ♪
♪ And now I'm on my own, yeah ♪
Can you do me a really big favor?
Let's try to have a positive experience
with my family today.
[woman] What can I help you with?
I'm just here to pick up an order.
-Okay. -It's for Gino.
[woman] Let me go and check if that's ready for ya.
Do you wanna have something to drink while you're waiting?
[Jasmine speaking]
-Okay. -[Jasmine] Thank you.
-I'll try lemonade. -Sure. I'll be right back.
Thank you.
[Gino] Jasmine hasn't spoken to me
since we had this big blow-up fight yesterday.
Because I haven't paid the pageant fee yet
and she got really upset.
To the point where, like,
she threw a smoothie at me.
She was out of control.
And now today is my family reunion,
and I'm a little bit concerned
because all the arguing and fighting
between Jasmine and I,
I don't want her to give the impression
that we're not happy or doing well together.
You're not... You're not planning
on acting like this at the reunion, are you?
Ignoring me?
You know, the feeling of tension between us.
What?
This family reunion is really important to me.
All my family is gonna be there.
You know, I don't want to walk into the family reunion
and have them see that we have tension between us.
Are you planning to apologize?
For calling me crazy, for calling me insane.
What do you mean apologize?
I think you should apologize.
-Are you serious? -Yes.
You were yelling and screaming at me.
And why are you throwing smoothies at me?
-You got it all over. -What do you mean...
You got it all over my brand new shoes.
These shoes are a week old.
You got your smoothie all over my brand new shoes.
That's unacceptable behavior.
I didn't throw it at you.
I threw it on the floor because I didn't want it
and you happened to be there.
That's the angriness I'm talking about.
Because you made me feel that way, Gino.
-You can't act like that. -I don't want...
I don't want to.
But you made me act that way.
-That's not how a woman acts. -I don't want to.
Listen.
At the moment that I exploded...
Because I feel like you have all the powers,
and I'm like a freaking dog.
That I have to obey your orders.
Now, don't sit there saying that I...
-The only thing that I do... -...order you around,
I tell you what to do and order you around.
This is why I raised my voice.
-Because you don't listen. -That is not true.
I've been trying to help you out
since you've been here, and I've done so much for you,
and I want you to start appreciating that.
I hear the [bleep] word "appreciate" one more time
and I'm gonna lose my [bleep].
I can't believe the audacity from Gino.
I don't know what he wants me to do.
Make a monument in the house,
put candles and pray him with flowers?
Honestly, this is ridiculous.
When he is the one that led me to this state of mind
by sabotaging my beauty pageant,
breaking up his promises.
Gino has this sense of entitlement.
It's like he's the American hero
that traveled to a third world country
and saved me from my misery.
[bleep] you, Gino. You're not.
Please try to make this a positive experience.
I don't want to be arguing and fighting
in front of my family.
That's all I'm asking.
I'm not telling you to do something.
-I'm saying try. -Yes, you are.
-I'm saying try. -You say try,
but if I don't act accordingly
you get mad at me and you're putting expectations on me.
No, I'm saying try.
The only person I care about her expectations
is my mother,
because I came to this world through her vagina.
That [bleep] hurts.
That's not a good attitude.
[bleep] it.
I don't have anything other than a [bleep] husband
that keeps complaining about me
and trying to control my life.
So from now on,
I'm not gonna play the happy wife
if I don't feel happy.
If he's not making me happy.
[bleep] that.
-Here we go. -[Gino] Oh, wow.
-You guys rock! -[laughter]
[Jasmine] You carry up that. I'm not carrying [bleep].
I need you to help me. Can you help me?
-No. -Wow.
That's pretty sad.
In a marriage, you're entitled to half of his savings,
and he's obligated to pay for half of your debts.
About 100k.
[speaking Spanish]
♪ They say that life's What's happening♪
♪ And you're mad At what you do...♪
[both speaking Spanish]
-Okay. -Okay.
♪ Shake up the day ♪
♪ And we kick in to play ♪
♪ Until the night Turns into day♪
♪ Push up the beat Keep it movin' ♪
[both speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] Well, remember, you can always say,
if you don't know what's going on, "I object."
[both speaking foreign language]
[in English] "I object."
I ajapt.
-Ob-ject. -Object.
-Yes. Yes. Yes. -Okay.
Today, Manuel and I are both meeting with the lawyer
to talk about getting a post nuptial agreement.
Since coming back from New York,
there's still some underlying trust issues
that need to be dealt with.
I think seeing a lawyer is a smart move
to protect both of us financially
in case things go south again.
-Hello. -[woman] How are you?
[Ashley] Good. Good.
[speaking Spanish]
Hi. How are you, guys?
-Hey. -Hi. I'm Mike.
-Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. Hi.
Nice to meet you. Manuel.
-Hi. -This is Carlos.
-He's our interpreter. -[Carlos speaking in Spanish]
So what brings you in today?
[Ashley] We just had some questions.
Potentially doing a post nuptial agreement.
Okay.
Why do you think a post nuptial agreement
is something you guys want to we talk about?
Uh, we got married about a year ago
and he's from Ecuador.
And since he's been here,
One of my issues has been that, um...
Manuel was a little on the secretive side.
and like I want to feel like there's trust,
especially around money,
because what do they say about divorce?
It's either sex or money, you know?
And so let's try to not make there be any issues
around these really sensitive topics.
And sometimes I worry that
I don't get as much transparency as is needed.
And that's kind of why we're here.
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
It's important to understand when two people get married,
we consider that as a financial partnership.
[Ashley] Mm-hmm.
[Mike] And in the event of a divorce,
it helps identify
the parameters of your marriage
and what's marital property
and what's not marital property.
A lot of times people come see me
for a post nuptial agreement
when they want to define who gets what
in the event they do divorce.
I've done post nuptial agreements before
for people who are in a good and strong relationship.
But sometimes it's an indication
of some underlying problems.
Uh, Manuel, do you work?
-[Manuel speaking Spanish] -[Ashley] We're waiting.
Yeah. We're waiting on his paperwork.
-I work. -Where do you work?
-What do you do? -So I'm an entrepreneur.
I work for myself.
I run an online spiritual business.
And I started my business about four years ago.
So you had the business before you got married?
-[Ashley] Right. -Okay.
So from a traditional sense,
we would probably call that separate property.
We don't divide separate property.
So separate property
is not subject to equitable distribution,
only marital property is.
But what happens is, as you're working that business
during the course of the marriage,
you're adding value to the business...
-[Ashley] That's exactly... -...during the course
-of the marriage. -...what I was wondering about.
So what happens if, five years into the future,
and we cross the million dollar mark.
And we break up.
What happens then?
Typically without a post nuptial agreement,
the court would consider that as marital property,
so both of you would be entitled
to half of the value of that.
So if what the lawyer is saying is true,
that he is entitled to half
of my earnings during the marriage
as my business grows,
then we really need to look hard
at this post nuptial agreement.
Because I have put my blood,
sweat and tears in my business,
and I don't want him to have any of it
unless I give it to him.
I love Manuel
and I have no intention of divorcing him.
But if he keeps demanding money
and leaving out details,
I feel like I have every right to protect myself.
One question.
[speaking Spanish]
[Carlos]I like to save money
and only spend on what's necessary.
Y-Yeah. You know, you describe, um,
really a classic example that I see a lot.
One spouse spends a little bit more money than the other.
Marital property includes debts and assets.
And so let's say that you have $50,000
in your bank account,
because you didn't have a post nuptial agreement
and because this money was earned during the marriage,
it's half hers.
In a traditional sense of a marriage,
being a joint financial partnership,
you're entitled to half of his savings
and he's obligated to pay for half your debts.
So he also inherited my student loan debt.
[Mike] Well, he didn't, though.
That's typically separate property.
How much student loan debt do you have?
-About 100k. -[Mike] Yeah.
[speaking Spanish]
No.
Am I interpreting correctly what they're talking?
[both speaking Spanish]
Wow.
[Alex] Hi, Ma.
[speaking other language]
Israel is like war with Hamas.
My mom and my brother are in Israel,
so I'm worried about them.
It's affecting us strongly.
But I could definitely see myself
go back and do something.
I don't get why you just can't let it go.
I guess I'm gonna ask the questions
that I need the answers to.
[Emily] Today we're going to meet up
with Kobe's ex-girlfriend.
And just, you know,
see if they were still dating when he knocked me up.
Okay. Is that her?
Which one is she? Tell me now.
[seagull squawks]
[TV playing indistinctily]
They're shooting on the South again.
And there was something up North,
but I don't know.
They don't know what it is yet.
[toy squeaks]
It's a nightmare.
[Alex] About a week ago in Israel,
there's a war started.
So Israel is right now at war with Hamas.
My mom and my brother are in Israel,
and my dad is here, so I'm worried about them.
We're glued to the screens.
We're glued to the news.
And we're getting first-hand reports
from friends that are there and from family that is there.
It's affecting us... strongly.
I'm just like in a fog.
[Alex] I think I want to call my mom
and see how she's doing over there
just to make sure they're prepared
and everything is there, you know?
Yeah.
The bomb shelter is ready.
The food, everything is organized.
I know they are.
But just double check, you know.
Yeah. Okay.
It's hard to be away from Israel right now.
And I feel torn,
and I feel like maybe I should do more.
And it's like feelings of guilt
and unsettled.
And that is, it's scary.
It's really scary.
And to be strong and not cry in front of your kids,
it's so hard.
Hey, boys.
[baby babbling]
Come here, boys.
Come. You wanna go say hi to Savta?
[babies babbling]
[cell phone ringing]
[Loren] I can't imagine what Alex is going through.
He is so stressed with work,
taking care of me, taking care of the kids.
And now he has to worry about
all of his family that are in Israel.
Like I... [sighs]
I don't know how he's keeping it together.
[cell phone ringing]
[all speaking foreign language]
[Loren chuckles]
[Alex's father speaking foreign language]
[Alex speaking foreign language]
[Alex speaking]
[cell phone beeps]
[Alex sighs]
[exhales] [in English] But she's okay.
She's strong, she's fine, they're prepared.
But I mean, it feels weird being here
while it's going on there.
If I served in the IDF,
I did my three years, I was in the Air Force,
but because I'm not living there anymore,
I'm not considered to be in the reserve.
I'm not gonna get called back.
But I still can go and volunteer
and help and do stuff.
And you know, those thoughts
did cross my mind for a second.
I feel very...
I don't know, torn, I guess.
I feel like it's a weird time.
You know, it's very hard.
[sniffs]
And you just never think that this would happen.
-Like... -But I can go still.
There's plenty of volunteers that do stuff for the...
you know, for anything.
anybody... anybody helps.
You know what the craziest part is?
Is that, like, I'm... I'm obviously against it,
but I understand it, so I'm not fully against it.
[kisses]
It's really hitting everybody deep.
Um, so it's putting a lot of pressure on us.
A lot of stress, that's for sure.
[sniffles]
But the time comes where it needs to be
every man standing,
then, yes, I'll go there for sure.
[Loren sniffles]
And it's very scary right now.
I'm shaking.
I dream about it.
I have nightmares.
I haven't slept.
It'll be okay.
I'm sick over this. [sighs]
It is still pretty outside, all the greenery.
-Yeah. -But hopefully it brightens up once we get to the beach
so we can have a nice little beach day.
You can't have a beach day when you're gonna meet my ex.
It's like, seriously.
Things, is really weird.
I just want to get to hear her side of the story.
[Kobe] Oh.
It's like you're about to get married to me, yet you don't trust me.
Today we're going to Seme Beach in Limbe,
to meet up with Kobe's ex-girlfriend,
who he was with for seven years
and just, you know, see if they were still dating when he knocked me up.
I feel like it's just important because I don't like being lied to,
and I just want to really know the truth about what happened.
[Emily] Thank you.
[Emily] Kobe had told me that he was not with anybody when I met him.
And so, obviously, I believe my husband.
But then his best friend when I came to Africa says
that Kobe was still with his ex-girlfriend
and didn't leave her until after he knocked me up.
So then I'm like, "Okay, wait, What is it? Did you just lie to me about it?"
Or was he just keeping her as backup if he came back to Cameroon
like, I really don't know. So that's why I want to get to the bottom of it.
[Emily] It is so pretty. I like the...
The noise it makes when the rocks go down.
[Kobe] Uh-huh.
...especially like young love, you bring your girlfriend
over here to Summer Beach and have fun.
Did you used to bring your ex here?
-I mean, we're meeting her here, so now I'm like-- -Oh, come on.
Do you have memories with her here?
She is just so determined about knowing the time frame
that we broke up and stuff like that,
[Kobe chuckles]
I don't get it why you just can't let it go.
I guess I'm gonna ask the questions that I need the answers to.
Then I would say, "Thank you for meeting us."
And then I would take it up with you.
You wouldn't care if someone came up to you and was like,
"When you were with Emily, she was dating someone else."
I'll take your word because I love you, because I trust you.
Okay, so then what if it was true? What if someone said that?
-And I was like, "Oh, yeah-" -I would have found out.
Exactly. I'm finding out for myself.
I feel like Kobe is not happy about me digging into the past.
I'm like, I understand that. And like I said, I love him.
He's my husband, he's the father of my children.
But like, I just want to know if I was lied to five years ago.
I need to find out. I won't let it go until I find out.
What time is it? When is she coming?
I mean, she's gonna be here very soon.
-Did you even ask her to come? -Of course, I did.
Hey, is that her?
Did she bring a friend?
Which one is she? Which one is she? Tell me now.
I'm sick and tired of her getting angry,
and saying hurtful things to me.
That's wearing me out to the point where
I have a hard time being intimate with you.
Gino has a lot of deep sexual issues,
That is the reality, and that is the truth.
[bass guitar playing]
-How are you doing? -Good to see you.
-[singers yell] Down south! -[audience whooping]
-[Gino] Yeeey! I love it! -[man] Great job. Loved it!
Today is my annual family reunion.
[audience cheering]
And it is a tradition to play live Italian music
during the family reunion.
[Jasmine] I'm not an expert, but that's not Italian music playing.
But it's still so wonderful to hear.
I'm, I'm just saying.
[Gino] You guys did so amazing. It's wonderful.
My Uncle Marco was in a band.
[Jasmine] I love Uncle Marco.
And actually, he's the reason why I show up to this family reunion.
It's not because you were asking me or obligating me to do so.
I do it only because of Uncle Marco.
-How are you doing? -Uncle Marco!
[Uncle Marco] Lovely to see you.
-[two women scream in delight] -[Uncle Marco] Gino!
Dana, Tony, Tony,
Tony, Anthony, Tony.
How many Tonys in the family?
-A lot! My grandpa was Tony. -Oh, my god!
-Another Tony? -Yeah.
All tight, I know everybody's hungry.
Let's go get something to eat.
That's what the family party is all about.
[in Italian] Mangia, mangia!
[Jasmine] Since I got to America,
things with Gino's family have not been easy.
In the beginning, they didn't trust me and my love for Gino,
but it has gotten better since the wedding.
[Dana] Some meaty lasagna.
-[Jasmine] It was so good. -Meatballs are really good.
-[Dana] I'm so sorry I forgot your sausage. -No problem.
So your birthday just passed. How was your birthday?
Oh, we went to Miami.
-[Michelle] Yes? -[Dana] You love Miami, don't you?
[Jasmine] I love Miami.
I enjoy so much because, I'm gonna be honest,
I've been going through a lot lately, and I ended up
deciding to participate in a beauty pageant. [laughs]
No, you did? Oh, my gosh!
-[all voicing surprise] -[Uncle Marco] Right.
I didn't say you can't do it.
I said I had to try to find a way to get the money.
Because we have a lot of other financial things going on.
-[Sandy] How much is it? -$1,200.
That's not too bad, Gino.
Uh, well, I don't agree with that.
Let's try to have a positive day.
Don't be negative and arguing and showing tension.
You know, I'm sorry, Gino, but I'm not gonna sit here
in front of your family because you asked me to.
And tell them like everything is going well,
because that's not the reality.
And it's important to be honest with the family
because family it's gonna give you feedback, you know.
I'm going all out, busting my butt for her
and trying to make her happy and support her,
ever since she'd been here.
It's not fair to me to be the bad guy, you know, and I'm not.
She thinks I'm controlling her.
And that's not true.
Back in Panama, I used to be like a super independent person.
and whatever I wanted to do, I have too--
[Gino] But you have to have--
To beg, I need this money, to explain, to justify--
You need to have patience 'cause you just came to this country, it's a process.
[Jasmine] Gino is an American citizen.
I mean, I have always been a very independent woman.
And now I don't have a driver's license. I cannot work.
I'm at Gino's mercy for everything.
She hasn't really been doing anything here.
She hasn't been going out.
I just took her to the movies.
I take her to the gym every day. That's a lot! [chuckles]
-It's not a lot! -It is a lot to take someone, drive someone back and forth.
It could be a lot, but she actually flew from Panama
-to the United States to live here. -[Dana] To be with you.
So driving her to the gym really isn't bad.
It's a lot of work. Okay? It is.
You knew that she went and worked out every day.
Taking her to the gym is not that big of a deal.
It's a big deal for me because it's a lot of driving back and forth.
But you're not working!
That is your job.
That's what you stayed home for.
[Michelle] I get frustrated with Gino
because he said he wanted to spend time with Jasmine.
You know, he wanted to stay home from work,
but really, Gino wants to do fantasy football
and do what Gino wants to do.
So I think he's not listening to what she's saying
because she's telling him her problems with him,
but he's either ignoring it,
or he's not doing anything about it.
Ever since we came back from Miami,
your attitude has changed toward me.
[Gino] That is not true at all.
I'm sick and tired of her getting angry,
And say hurtful things to me, like you do.
That's wearing me out to the point where I have a hard time
being intimate with you because all the hurtful things you say to me.
Very hurtful!
I don't want to be affectionate with someone like that.
So it has not been good.
I know that I'd started this conversation
about certain problems we're having as a couple,
But going from there, to talk about our sexual issues.
Shut the [bleep] up.
Gino has a lot of deep sexual issues.
Just a suggestion.
You just need to let all this crap go.
[Uncle Marco] If you look at it, you have an advantage.
You have the awareness that this is going on
and you can learn to either resolve it,
cope with the situation,
or end it.
[speaking Spanish]
He'd rather flip this around on me,
when he's the one that has had shady behavior with money.
[speaking Spanish]
Um...
[speaking Spanish]
[attorney] No, you don't have to pay it. It's her responsibility.
[attorney 2] He has.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] What world do you live in?
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] I can't live with those debts.
[speaking Spanish]
Manuel, I got three different degrees.
[speaking Spanish]
All of them. Because I work for myself.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] And you're still spending money on coffee, hair and nails and stuff like that?
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] Ask her how much she's saved.
[lawyer 1] How much have you saved?
Um, I save probably a couple hundred a month.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] Saved? Where?
[speaking Spanish]
I think I've saved a couple of hundred a month.
One thing that he's not getting, is like there are bills.
I do all the budgeting, and I do all the bills for the household.
So he might be saying, "Oh, if we get a 3K check, I'm spending 2K."
But what he's not asking
is how much of that 2K is going on the bills.
To be honest, I don't think Manuel understands how common student loan debt is,
but he'd rather fight and blame me
to flip this around on me when he's the one
that has had shady behavior with money.
So let me say this,
I mean, you guys are talking about a lot of issues between the two of you.
-[Ashley] Yes. -Like budget-wise?
-Yes. -I'm not a therapist, I'm no good at handling
the relationship between the two of you.
My job is to help the two of you
resolve whatever the legal issues are between you,
help you identify them.
I think Ashley and Manuel have a lot of concerns with each other
and whose responsibility it was to provide for them and pay their bills.
I'm not here to solve their personal problems.
Typically, when people see me, it's too late and I'm doing an agreement.
Or we're identifying assets that need to be divided.
The last person you want to get
a relationship advice from is your divorce attorney.
[speaking Spanish]
If you want to actually draft an agreement,
I'd be happy to have you come back.
We can put the terms down
um, and understand what it is that you guys want me to do.
So that would be the next step, that we would just come back,
-sit down and start the process of drafting. -Absolutely.
[speaking Spanish]
Thank you so much for your time.
[speaking Spanish]
Absolutely. Nice to meet you.
[speaking Spanish]
If I leave Rob, I just don't know from there.
like what the [bleep] I'm gonna do in my life now.
Like I thought I fell in love with this certain type of person,
and it feels like he's turned into someone completely different.
-[knock on door] -Who is it?
Michael, Michael.
[Angela] Michael better clear all these questions hanging over our marriage.
Because if he leaves me with one shred of doubt
that he's been scamming me this whole time,
game over.
So what do you got to say, Michael?
-[Kae in sing-song voice] I got us our favorite wine. -[Sophie] Nice.
Y'all know I like me some alcohol.
Soph, I need your help. I'll hold my feet.
-Want me to hold your foot? -Yeah, my feet are stuck under the bed
[Sophie laughs] Poor Claire!
[Sophie] I haven't seen Rob or been back at the apartment
since I left yesterday during our fight.
My mom's actually in town, so I've asked her
to come spend the night with me and Kae.
I don't really know what my next move is from here.
Like, obviously, I'm still pissed about how he treated me,
and I think I just really need some space
to think about what I'm gonna do.
-There you go. -There.
So how did you hurt your leg again?
[Claire speaking]
And I just said to him every bad thing.
I said, "You don't clean your teeth at night."
-[Sophie] Oh, God. -[both giggle]
-You took an L on that one. -You took an L.
-It means you took an L, like you took a loss. -Yeah.
[all laugh]
[Sophie sighs]
Right. You're not happy.
I've already filled Kae and my mom in
about everything that happened between me and Rob last night.
I'm still in a weird headspace about it.
It's in such a cycle now of me leaving and coming back
and him saying something to upset me and we're arguing.
And I don't know how much longer I can really do it.
Last night was just very emotionally overwhelming for me.
And like at the beginning of the costume shop, we was having such a good time.
It's just when I see the nice side of him,
I'm just like, "Oh, that's the Rob that I love."
I just wish he'd be like that all the time.
-Yeah. -Like it's the thing like he's not a bad person,
and it's like, look, okay, say, I think all right,
I don't wanna be with him anymore.
-You know, like I just-- -Be happy.
We don't need men.
-We can be happy on our own. -I know that.
If I leave Rob, I don't wanna, like,
I have to like I don't know if I can stay here,
if I can go home, and I feel like I'm like,
-you know, I have you, I have my friends here. -I know.
-I have a life here, so I just-- -If your one scare
is just going back home, that's not a good reason to stick with Rob.
There's a lot of reasons why I don't want to leave Rob. One of it is that.
Another reason is that I'm like I'm holding on to, like the old version of Rob.
[Sophie] Yeah.
-[Sophie] Mm-hmm. -[Claire] Do you truly believe
that he could be that guy that you fell in love with?
I don't know.
[Claire]
Then you've gotta accept he ain't [bleep] changing.
-Period. -Yeah.
This is what you're gonna have to put up with forever.
And slowly and surely, trust me,
he will chip at you until... Look at your little face.
You're sad.
-I'm not sad. -You are sad, Soph.
Before I moved to America, everyone loved Rob.
My friends loved Rob.
And for me, like, I thought I fell in love
with this certain type of person,
and it feels like he's turned into someone completely different.
It's like I don't even see, like, the good parts that I loved anymore.
I just see this person who's always angry
and not doing anything to make me happy,
and just all the traits I liked, they're just not... it's not there.
♪ Used to be The two of us together ♪
♪ You made me feel so high Do you remember? ♪
[crying] I just need one second.
♪ Never felt so low So low ♪
["Angel Fall" by Nineoneone playing]
[knocking on door]
[Angela] Who the [bleep] is that then?
Who is it?
♪ Angel fall♪
Hello?
-[knocking on door] -Who is it?
[Michael] Michael. Michael.
Sit down.
Sit down. Sit down.
[Michael sighs]
[sighs]
I'm still pissed about all the half truth
that Michael's been talking about the visa process.
And after talking to Skyla,
I'm starting to think, "Is she right?"
Maybe he is scamming me.
We just need to wait.
[laughing]
I don't wanna hear nothing he has to say.
I don't wanna hear, "I love you."
I don't wanna hear, "You want a drink?"
I'm just exhausted
with all of his lies and his stories.
-The thing is this-- -The thing is this.
-Goodnight. Go to bed. -Angie.
Don't say a word. Don't say... You're still my husband.
-You're... Michael. -Okay.
Sleep there. You're still my husband.
That doesn't mean nothing.
Goodnight.
I'm so frustrated at this situation.
And don't even... If you gotta piss, hang it out the door.
[door slams]
Michael has a history of lying and cheating,
and this is a old wound that he will never let heal.
What am I supposed to think right now?
We're supposed to be in this together
come hell or high water.
Come tomorrow, Michael better bring his A game
and clear all these questions hanging over our marriage.
Because if he leaves me with one shred of doubt
that he's been scamming me this whole time, game over.
[Jose speaking]
[Patrick] Why does that have to happen?
I don't want to say I'm psychic, but I called it. Called it.
Why you ask too much for things?
I smell [bleep].
["Cultura Brasileira" by Drumagick playing]
[Thais speaking]
We made it, Aleesi.
[John] It looks nice. Peaceful.
[Patrick] It's beautiful here.
We just got to my dad and stepmom's ranch.
And the goal for today is to see if this is gonna be
a good place for Aleesi's party.
I'm envisioning that there's gonna be a lot of people.
So, the ranch has plenty of space for 'em.
And then maybe if we can get some of the animals together,
we can make like a little petting zoo for any of the kids.
[Thais] Hi. Hi. [speaking foreign language]
-[Patrick in English] Hey, Dad. -Hey!
-Whoa! [chuckles] -[chuckles]
[both speaking foreign language]
Aye!
[all speaking foreign language]
[laughing]
-[in English] Big, huh? -Huh?
-Big now, huh? -[Jose] Yeah.
[all laughing]
-How you been? Good? -[Jose] Good. Good.
[John] The last time I seen Jose, probably 20 years.
We didn't have the best of relationship.
You can't really trust the guy, 'cause as far as I grew up,
uh, you know, he's never came in on anything he's ever said.
I mean, he'd give you a... a moped for Christmas,
and then, uh, he'd sell it two months later.
[chuckles] You know?
So, who knows?
[speaking foreign language]
[Jose in English] So, when do you plan to do the party?
[Patrick] Soon. Before we leave.
[Jose speaking]
[Patrick] Okay.
[Patrick] What?
Well, it sounds expensive to put the rocks--
No! No.
[Patrick] So, what do you want to do?
[Jose]
[Patrick] Why does that have to happen?
I mean, I don't want to say I'm psychic, but I called it.
Called it.
Just saying, it was like, "Hello, good to see you."
Then, like, within ten minutes,
it's like, "Yeah, you know what? I gotta fix this."
-[Thais] Yeah. -That's my dad.
[Patrick] Uh-huh.
-We? I don't-- -Oh, and you know what?
Trim the trees. That's it.
[Patrick] Dad, that's a lot.
No.
-Yeah, it is. -No. No, no.
I don't think for the party
-it makes sense, um... -[John speaking]
...to, you know, fix things.
[chuckles] Okay.
[Thais] It's just, you know, more extra money for do this,
'cause we have to buy the food,
we have to buy, you know, tables, chairs.
I need the money, no?
Well, yeah. I mean, that's... that's what I was assuming,
you're asking us to pay for all of it.
[Jose] Well...
[John]
[Jose] Yeah.
-[Jose] Well, yeah. -[chuckles] Oh, yeah.
[Jose] So, how you think I make money?
[John] I don't know how you make money.
Don't you get money from your properties?
-Not much. -Not much?
-[John] You have assets. -[Jose] Uh, yes.
[John] So, you have money coming in.
You just put it other places.
You're hoarding your money.
-No. -[John chuckles] Yeah. Yeah.
[Jose laughs]
For a man with no money, you got some nice clothes, though.
[speaking foreign language]
-[in English] No, no, no. -[John in English] Yeah.
-I know. I know. Yeah. -No, John.
Why you ask too much for things?
Probably because I need help with the money.
-So, we have to support you? -[Jose] No.
The apartment support me.
-You don't want the apartment? -[Thais] We are paying for the apartment.
-We are renting. -Yeah.
It means that we are support you if we pay the... for the apartment.
There's nothing wrong with helping out family.
I mean, he's my dad.
I don't know, Thais. I smell [bleep].
No, it's not.
[Patrick] Why are you being so difficult about this?
[Thais] We are married, and it's my money too.
It's not just you... about you.
I understand, but it's, you know, it... it's...
The money means more to him than it does to us.
I just don't know why you expect so much from him
when you weren't even there for him, you know?
Oh, John. Don't say that.
-[John] It's true. -Huh.
[John] I think for the first time in my life,
I'm on Thais' side.
I don't think you should be helping him.
Well, that's what family's about.
Of course, if Jose really needs the money,
I would want to help him.
I would do the same with my dad.
He knows that Patrick has money,
and he's always taking from Patrick,
and he thinks Patrick's a bank.
You are the one who brought up the sex topic.
You're sitting there talking about how I'm totally different after Miami.
I had to explain to 'em the reason why.
[Jasmine] Our sex life has been very complicated.
The truth is, he doesn't enjoy intimacy with me.
He prefer other things.
♪ I've tried I've really tried ♪
♪ But I can't Keep you satisfied ♪
♪ When you count The heartaches♪
♪ And just roll the die... ♪
-[person] Bye, guys. -[Gino] Bye.
[speaking foreign language]
[song playing in English]
♪ I'm just a waste of tears And compromise ♪
♪ You think that I'm greedy Greedy ♪
♪ So greedy, greedy ♪
♪ You think that I'm greedy ♪
[Jasmine in English] Come, baby. Oh, look at you.
It's cold.
Yeah, it's a bit cool out tonight.
I enjoyed the... the family reunion.
Um...
I thought it could have been better.
I felt like, you know, the conversation was...
not positive, and a lot, you know, about our personal life,
and I don't think we should broadcast
our problems to the entire family.
Now your family can see who you really are.
[Gino] You're absolutely wrong.
My family, I think, understood me when I said
you say very, very hurtful things
that really, really affect my affection with you.
-Some things that you can't take back. -May...
-Thank you for bringing-- -That you can't take back.
-Thank you for bringing that point in. -[Gino] Yeah.
You know why? Because you're talking about,
"Oh, we shouldn't be telling them our very private problems--"
Well, you started it. I had to let them know the truth.
You are the one who brought up the sex topic.
You're sitting there talking about how I'm totally different after Miami.
I had to explain to 'em the reason why.
Gino is trying to blame me for telling his family...
After our wedding, we were trying to have a baby,
and our sex life was very passionate.
But then we stopped.
But this is the gaslighter in Gino.
He always makes me yell at him
so that he has an excuse to avoid having sex with me
because he doesn't enjoy intimacy with me.
He prefer other things.
I take it personal. I feel undesired.
Like, completely worthless.
-No, it's not a sexual problem. -You do.
-[Gino] I'm telling you what it is. -You do.
-You are saying very hurtful things. -[Jasmine] You do.
[Gino] No, you say very hurtful things
-that I am shocked to even hear. -[Jasmine]
Do you know? Do you know what the big problem is?
I know what... I just told you what the problems are.
-Are you deaf? -It is your addiction to pornography.
-[Gino] Don't sit there and try to lie about-- -Yes, you do.
-Don't lie about this. -Yes, you do. I'm not lying.
-[Gino] Yes, you are lying. -I'm not lying.
-You are way outta-- -[Jasmine] I'm not lying.
-Yes, you are. -And I don't give a [bleep].
-And I said it. -You're a liar.
I'm not addicted to porn.
Uh, have I watched porn before?
Yes, but I'm not addicted to it.
She thinks I'm addicted to porn
because I'm not being intimate with her.
She wants to put the blame on me.
And she's not taking responsibility herself
of her actions and what she's doing to me.
Your problem with sex started long before you ever met me.
No. Sorry.
You know, now I understand.
You don't understand anything. You don't listen to me!
-That's your problem. -[Jasmine] I do.
No, you don't. You don't [bleep] listen.
-I do. And you don't have to-- -[Gino] No, you don't.
You don't have to curse. No one is yelling.
You talk about no yelling. Why are you yelling?
[Gino] Because you're not listening to me.
I'm telling you what the problem is, and you're not getting it.
[Jasmine] The word addicted is a big word.
he said, like "Oh, I couldn't wait for you and I masturbated."
It is so hard for me to understand
that you are in a long distance relationship.
Well, I hope you change your attitude at home soon
because all this arguing and yelling at me and starting arguments with me,
that's not gonna help the situation right now,
and that's not gonna fly.
So, what is... [chuckling] Wh... What?
I... I'm telling you the facts.
That's the thing, looking at my eyes...
-[Gino] You are always starting [bleep]. -...I [bleep] to lie.
And I per... Now I get it,
why you never marry someone from your culture.
Because all American is gonna keep up with this [bleep].
And I'm not gonna keep up with that.
I'm not gonna do this anymore.
I'm just wasting time.
Typical of Gino.
[narrator] Next time on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
I'm feeling nervous.
If anything happens, put the baby in between 'em.
We should have put Aleesi in a referee shirt.
[chuckles]
[speaking foreign language]
[in English] She brought a friend.
It's a little bit nerve racking
because I don't know what I'm gonna find out.
So, you were not single after you proposed to me.
Why wouldn't you just tell me the truth in the beginning?
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley] Manuel's secrecy is kind of at an all-time high right now.
The vague answers are, frankly, just not gonna cut it anymore.
[speaking Spanish]
Now my mom and I are back in Arkansas to get the rest of the things out of my house.
I know there's still gonna be some type of hurt when I see Ed,
and I don't want to backtrack.
[dog barking]
Do you know what is, like, a real man?
Real men are providers.
Let me tell you what a real woman is.
A real woman is one that's calm
and gentle, and not bitchy.
[Jasmine speaking]
I'm not a freaking dog.
That... That's a good question.
[Sophie] My mom and Rob haven't seen each other since my wedding,
and I'm kind of a bit worried about how tonight's gonna go.
I don't think she should stay with you.
At the end of the day, it's not your decision.
[Sophie] Mum. Mum. Stop, Mom. Stop.
[Angela] You've been shady, man.
Doing all this [bleep] by yourself
like it's your visa only, then telling me I can leave.
Like, who does that?
-Angie-- -Matter of fact, let me see your phone.
The [bleep] is this?
30,000K contribution. "Michael. Payment. Payment."
What is this?
[bleep] out of here.