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Ready? Go.

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Scream! (SCREAMS)

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Finally, we reached the top
when we got married.

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All right, ready? (SCREAMS)
Ow, my God, no!

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Since Ed and I got engaged...
I keep her on her toes.

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There's never a dull moment with Ed.

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Charlie Brown. Kick it.

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Her coming here
from another country,

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she had to adapt a lot.
Two different worlds. But...

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Nice!

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(LAUGHTER) I'm Sojaboy's girlfriend.
That's so crazy! Uh-huh.

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ED: You are my forever.

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MAN: Do you take this man
to be your husband?

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Will you love him for as long
as you both shall live? I do.

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It is my honour to pronounce them
husband and wife.

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You may kiss your bride.

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(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)

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There's that sexy baby!

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..but at this point,
I gotta do what I gotta do for me.

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What do you think
about me coming to Canada?

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Well, because you're
out of his league, I guess!

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She could get any guy
that she wants.
He realises that, yeah.

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I don't like these girls.
I think they're influencing you
in the wrong way.

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Not only are they whispering
behind your back,

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but they're making
false allegations against you

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to Homeland Security.

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I just don't know, like,
who would have tried to sabotage us.

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If there is a lot of people
from her family,

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they will make problems from us.

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Why are you yelling
when I'm sitting right here?
Just talk calmer.

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Usman wants a woman that'll
sit there and keep her mouth shut,

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and be like, 'OK.'
I'm not that chick.

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I'm gonna go, cos your ass
is pissing me off.

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I'm tired of your dishonesty.

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She was physically all over you.

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You think I'm having a relationship
with someone?

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Are you a lesbian?

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What? What you gonna do?
What? Back away from me!

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Get away from me!
Forever. Understand?

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SUMIT: Uh-oh. Uh-oh, uh-oh!
(JENNY LAUGHS)

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I haven't done this in...
I don't know how long.

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OK, wait. I think I'm getting it.
Let's go! Come on! We're skating!

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(SCREAMS)

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Ah! Don't fall, don't fall,
don't fall!

45
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Oh, no!

46
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He's from New Delhi, India,

47
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and we've been married for...
two months?

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Yay!

49
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Oh, no.

50
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You don't fell down!

51
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Woo-hoo-hoo-hoo. Uh-oh.

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Oh, oh, whoa, whoa, whoa!
No, no, no, no.

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Innocent?

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Innocent?

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And we start growing feelings
for each other,

56
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but the problem is I was using
a fake name and fake picture

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as a social media profile.

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He was, like, some white-looking guy
from London, I think, weren't you?

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Well, I didn't know that! Yeah.

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No, but I was really having
a lot of fun with you, that's why.

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So I went all the way to India
to meet him in person,

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and we continued a few more years
in a long-distance relationship,

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until I finally decided
to move to India to marry Sumit.

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Oh, my God! There you are!

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Unfortunately, we didn't get married
that time,

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because I found out
that Sumit had a secret.

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I thought you loved me.

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I thought I'm the one
you want to be with. What happened?

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So I just went ahead and left
and went back to America.

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After a while,
I finally get divorced,

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and Jenny comes back to India.

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(SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE)

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His parents were
against the marriage
from the beginning,

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but then I think they saw

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that I really, genuinely
do love their son,

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and they had a change of heart.

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(SUMIT'S FATHER SPEAKS)

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I felt like I had finally succeeded
and won over Sumit's family.

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Do we have your blessings to marry?

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I understand.

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So I took the conversation
I had with them

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as approval to get married.

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So finally we just decided,
'Let's get married,' and...

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'I don't know for how long.'

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Ugh. (CAR HORN HONKS) Ooh!

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Yeah, but I don't want
our car to get hurt.

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(SUMIT SPEAKING)

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SHAUN: Sadhna, do you feel
that it is OK

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if Sumit and Jenny get married?

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Cos we love each other, that's why.

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After the Tell All, we temporarily
moved to a new apartment

92
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which is, uh,
other side of the city.

93
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We're worried his parents
will come to find out we're married

94
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through someone else,

95
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so they'll come
and try to take him away.

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They've done it before,
and I know that they're gonna
try and do it again.

97
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Aww, thank you, so nice.

98
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So, uh... What is this?

99
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It's salty.
You know I don't like that.

100
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Can you get him?

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Coke.

102
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Salty, lemony water is actually
very common in India. Yuck.

103
00:10:01,518 --> 00:10:04,104
I'm more of a sweet person. Aww...

104
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I can't get on the salty side
of things. Don't lie.

105
00:10:07,023 --> 00:10:12,362
You don't think I'm sweet, huh?
You are super sweet actually, yeah.

106
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Kind of relaxed now, you know?
OK, we're married.
This is what we wanted.

107
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Finally we did it,
and so I feel less pressure.

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(LAUGHS WEAKLY) Yeah.

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All right, don't tell 'em,

110
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and we'll just go live our life
in a different state, then.

111
00:11:10,462 --> 00:11:12,339
I think it's gonna
hurt our happiness.

112
00:11:12,422 --> 00:11:16,634
I think it's gonna
cause problems for us.

113
00:11:22,349 --> 00:11:27,437
It's your life. Just think about
how happy we've been
this whole time.

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Am I meeting them?

115
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Oh, my God.

116
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This is gonna be a repeat

117
00:11:59,219 --> 00:12:01,763
of the other time
they came to our house,

118
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except this time
I think it'll be worse.

119
00:12:05,892 --> 00:12:08,186
He didn't come and talk to me
about this,

120
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it just was something that he did.

121
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I feel like I got...
I'm tricked into this.

122
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What the hell?
Then why did we leave the house?

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That was my whole point.

124
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'Let's be comfortable and safe,

125
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and I don't have to worry
about any of this drama going on,'

126
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and now here we go.

127
00:12:26,788 --> 00:12:31,584
See? We get married, we're happy,
and still we can't be happy.

128
00:12:34,254 --> 00:12:37,007
I know it's hard
for Jenny to understand,

129
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but I cannot keep this
from my parents,

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because they are the only people
who love me, along with Jenny,
unconditionally.

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Whatever I do, it's possible
that I might lose them,

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but I have to tell them.

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OK, well, I'll tell you
how I feel tomorrow.

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Lost my appetite.

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(UPBEAT WINTRY MUSIC)

136
00:13:17,380 --> 00:13:19,632
Charlie Brown. Kick it.

137
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(BOTH LAUGH)
I knew you was gonna fall down!

138
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Go for it. I have never
made a snow angel. Good job.

139
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You're like my guardian angel.
Don't mess it up, don't mess it up!

140
00:13:42,989 --> 00:13:48,119
Oh, my God! Yeah, wow.
I like it.

141
00:13:48,203 --> 00:13:53,291
I'm Bilal, I'm 43 years old,
and this is my wife, Shaeeda.

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Nice!

143
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I've never seen snow before.

144
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I always wanted to do this.

145
00:14:00,215 --> 00:14:03,093
Like, I've seen it done
so many times in the movies.

146
00:14:04,761 --> 00:14:08,598
Oh! We going there?
We going there? (LAUGHS)

147
00:14:08,682 --> 00:14:13,478
I'm 37 years of age,
and I am from Trinidad and Tobago.

148
00:14:13,561 --> 00:14:16,564
I love the snow! Yeah!

149
00:14:16,648 --> 00:14:18,400
She's like a big little kid.

150
00:14:18,483 --> 00:14:22,195
Shaeeda and I have been married
for seven whole weeks.

151
00:14:27,242 --> 00:14:30,412
So, have you ever tasted snow? No.

152
00:14:32,580 --> 00:14:35,291
Mmm. Tastes good. Tastes good?

153
00:14:37,210 --> 00:14:39,713
Bilal and I met each other online...

154
00:14:42,048 --> 00:14:45,051
..and, for me,
I was at a point in my life

155
00:14:45,135 --> 00:14:50,015
I was adding every gentleman, like,
'Add, accept, accept, accept.'

156
00:14:50,098 --> 00:14:51,891
'Every gentleman',
look at you! Yeah.

157
00:14:51,975 --> 00:14:55,812
'I'm getting older now.
It's time to find the one!'

158
00:14:55,895 --> 00:14:59,566
But there was something very special
about Bilal.

159
00:15:00,608 --> 00:15:03,319
Wishing you were here, as usual.

160
00:15:03,403 --> 00:15:06,156
It took...
It took about three months

161
00:15:06,239 --> 00:15:09,451
for me to say, 'You know what?
Let me go down there.'

162
00:15:09,534 --> 00:15:11,578
The one and only.

163
00:15:11,661 --> 00:15:14,456
The one and only...

164
00:15:16,416 --> 00:15:19,544
When I saw Bilal,
the first thing I said was,

165
00:15:19,627 --> 00:15:21,463
'Why is his head so small?'

166
00:15:22,547 --> 00:15:25,467
A very small head.

167
00:15:25,550 --> 00:15:29,637
But in Trinidad,
we had a really great time.

168
00:15:29,721 --> 00:15:33,224
And three days later,
we were on a beach and it was like,

169
00:15:33,308 --> 00:15:36,311
'We should get married.' Yeah.
'Yeah, we should get married.'

170
00:15:36,394 --> 00:15:38,897
'Yeah, we should get married.'
'Let's get married!'

171
00:15:38,980 --> 00:15:41,983
Yeah, that's how it happened.
That's how it happened.

172
00:15:42,067 --> 00:15:46,404
We only had seven days together,
and then I went back home,

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00:15:46,488 --> 00:15:50,158
started the visa process,
but it took two whole years.

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00:15:50,241 --> 00:15:52,077
(BOTH LAUGHING)

175
00:16:02,796 --> 00:16:08,343
After I arrived in America,
that's when the pranks started.

176
00:16:08,426 --> 00:16:11,179
Bilal, you tricked me big time.

177
00:16:11,262 --> 00:16:14,140
You bring me to this...
this old house,

178
00:16:14,224 --> 00:16:17,852
and he said, 'This is my home.'

179
00:16:17,936 --> 00:16:21,648
This is the home, babe?
This is home.

180
00:16:21,731 --> 00:16:24,442
It looked like it could
collapse on us any moment.

181
00:16:24,526 --> 00:16:26,695
I am not comfortable.

182
00:16:26,778 --> 00:16:29,531
However... A lot of things
need to be fixed. Well, yeah.

183
00:16:29,614 --> 00:16:34,077
I mean, there's a lot of things
that need to be fixed
with your attitude right now, too.

184
00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:38,873
Bilal was 100 per cent dishonest.
It was a prank just to see.

185
00:16:38,957 --> 00:16:42,085
Like, 'Hey, let's say
if I was a millionaire,

186
00:16:42,168 --> 00:16:43,837
and I lost everything tomorrow,

187
00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:46,089
like, would you still want
to be with me?'

188
00:16:46,172 --> 00:16:50,093
So it was like,
'Let's put it to the test.'
She failed miserably.

189
00:16:50,176 --> 00:16:51,845
Come on, that's tough.

190
00:16:53,805 --> 00:16:56,725
On top of him testing me
and pranking me,

191
00:16:56,808 --> 00:17:00,562
I had a lot of adjusting to do
coming into Bilal's world.

192
00:17:00,645 --> 00:17:05,233
I was fearful adjusting to,
you know, meeting his children.

193
00:17:05,316 --> 00:17:07,152
I didn't know what to expect.

194
00:17:07,235 --> 00:17:13,908
Do you want any kids? Eventually.

195
00:17:13,992 --> 00:17:16,536
When you said 'eventually',
how long is eventually?

196
00:17:16,619 --> 00:17:18,872
That is a question
your dad needs to answer.

197
00:17:21,374 --> 00:17:24,169
It was obvious
that we weren't on the same timeline

198
00:17:24,252 --> 00:17:25,920
to have a child together,

199
00:17:26,004 --> 00:17:28,798
and then he dropped a prenup on me.

200
00:17:28,882 --> 00:17:32,385
I feel as if you don't trust me.

201
00:17:32,469 --> 00:17:35,555
If I didn't trust you,
you would not be here.

202
00:17:35,638 --> 00:17:37,599
God forbid, if we didn't work out,

203
00:17:37,682 --> 00:17:40,018
do you wanna
take everything that I have?

204
00:17:41,770 --> 00:17:44,064
I ended up signing the prenup
last-minute,

205
00:17:44,147 --> 00:17:47,859
because there were two clauses
that were put in the prenup.

206
00:17:47,942 --> 00:17:52,113
That was him helping me financially
to set my business up in KC,

207
00:17:52,197 --> 00:17:54,157
and also the baby.

208
00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:58,787
Like, us starting a family
before I'm 40 years old.

209
00:17:58,870 --> 00:18:02,665
I'm 37 now,
so we have over two years.

210
00:18:02,749 --> 00:18:05,085
So the prenup got signed,

211
00:18:05,168 --> 00:18:08,922
and we can focus
on getting married! Mmm.

212
00:18:09,005 --> 00:18:13,426
Bilal, do you take Sister Shaeeda

213
00:18:13,510 --> 00:18:16,346
to be your lawful wedded wife?

214
00:18:16,429 --> 00:18:20,684
I do-oo! (LAUGHS) All right!
(LAUGHTER AND APPLAUSE)

215
00:18:20,767 --> 00:18:24,729
So I now pronounce you
husband and wife.

216
00:18:24,813 --> 00:18:27,816
(INDISTINCT)

217
00:18:27,899 --> 00:18:30,318
I think the best part
about being married

218
00:18:30,402 --> 00:18:33,363
is that you don't have to be
lonely any more.

219
00:18:33,446 --> 00:18:37,617
You don't have to sleep alone.
You have someone
that you communicate with every day.

220
00:18:37,701 --> 00:18:42,330
I don't have to spend my money
as often, too, so... (BOTH LAUGH)

221
00:18:49,295 --> 00:18:52,173
WAITER: Gonna have you right here.
Thank you.

222
00:18:52,257 --> 00:18:55,051
Be right back with some water
for you. All right, thanks.

223
00:18:57,554 --> 00:19:01,558
Oh! You smell the aroma... I know!
..in the air?

224
00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:05,770
I am loving the American food,

225
00:19:05,854 --> 00:19:10,525
but I think I'm still fearful
to eat beef in America.

226
00:19:10,608 --> 00:19:13,194
It looks very pink and raw.

227
00:19:13,278 --> 00:19:18,199
I have to explain to her
that some people eat things
rare-medium, or medium well...

228
00:19:18,283 --> 00:19:21,619
Well done.
She likes her stuff burnt. No!

229
00:19:29,961 --> 00:19:32,589
Kinda tart?

230
00:19:32,672 --> 00:19:34,632
Yeah.

231
00:19:36,051 --> 00:19:39,637
You ordered an iced tea.
'Unsweetened' iced tea.

232
00:19:39,721 --> 00:19:43,224
I'll pass on the iced tea.
How about...?

233
00:19:43,308 --> 00:19:46,811
Nah. Nah, son. Don't come over here,
cos this is all me.

234
00:19:46,895 --> 00:19:50,273
Please. You do... Please!
You do this every time!

235
00:19:50,357 --> 00:19:55,612
As if it's yours. A sip.
A sip, one sip. You don't do a sip.

236
00:19:55,695 --> 00:19:57,364
One sip!

237
00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:01,868
Yeah. See, look at you.

238
00:20:04,662 --> 00:20:07,540
I see the backwash.
There's no backwash.

239
00:20:07,624 --> 00:20:10,794
You got saliva just...
Come on. (LAUGHS)

240
00:20:11,961 --> 00:20:14,297
We are still learning
about each other...

241
00:20:16,091 --> 00:20:19,969
I wouldn't necessarily say I'm OCD.
However... You are OCD.

242
00:20:20,053 --> 00:20:24,057
..there's things I definitely...
No, I like things a certain way,
clean, whatever.

243
00:20:24,140 --> 00:20:26,267
But she is, like,
on a whole 'nother level,

244
00:20:26,351 --> 00:20:31,731
like her infatuation
with the human tongue.

245
00:20:31,815 --> 00:20:33,983
Yeah, I have an obsession
with tongues.

246
00:20:34,067 --> 00:20:35,944
It has to be clean,
it has to be pink,

247
00:20:36,027 --> 00:20:39,823
it cannot be, like,
cheesy and white. Mm-hm.

248
00:20:39,906 --> 00:20:45,453
Now, we're, like, officially married
almost two months.

249
00:20:45,537 --> 00:20:50,417
(LAUGHS) I felt like
everything happened so quickly.

250
00:20:50,500 --> 00:20:56,381
It's finally, like... It's a chance
to kinda, like, whoosah. (LAUGHS)

251
00:20:56,464 --> 00:20:59,467
Just kinda relax, take things in...

252
00:20:59,551 --> 00:21:05,765
..and just look forward to, like,
what life is going to be like
in Kansas City.

253
00:21:05,849 --> 00:21:07,976
But...

254
00:21:08,059 --> 00:21:12,022
just one hurdle
that we need to, like, get over,

255
00:21:12,105 --> 00:21:15,817
and that's just what happened

256
00:21:15,900 --> 00:21:18,528
between your ex-wife Shahidah
and myself.

257
00:21:18,611 --> 00:21:20,697
I don't feel good about it. Yeah.

258
00:21:21,781 --> 00:21:25,368
The problem for me started
when Shahidah came to my home

259
00:21:25,452 --> 00:21:27,662
to try to make me sign the prenup.

260
00:21:27,746 --> 00:21:30,623
She was insinuating
that I was a gold-digger

261
00:21:30,707 --> 00:21:34,794
who wants to take money
from Bilal and his kids.

262
00:21:34,878 --> 00:21:37,589
That's a serious accusation.

263
00:21:37,672 --> 00:21:41,009
You know, the kids have been here.
Yeah. I have been here.

264
00:21:41,092 --> 00:21:43,595
So I'm coming
from that point of view

265
00:21:43,678 --> 00:21:47,515
where he needs to protect himself,
and for the children's sake.

266
00:21:47,599 --> 00:21:49,726
I have to know that, you know,

267
00:21:49,809 --> 00:21:52,729
you're not here
for just what he has.

268
00:21:52,812 --> 00:21:56,441
I think we haven't
reached an agreement
when it comes to that prenup.

269
00:21:59,402 --> 00:22:03,948
What happened in the kitchen...
It was unacceptable.

270
00:22:04,032 --> 00:22:06,201
Obviously I don't wanna see
you hurting,

271
00:22:06,284 --> 00:22:12,207
but it's like you're holding on
to hot coil, and it...

272
00:22:12,290 --> 00:22:15,418
All it's doing is
it's burning you, you know?

273
00:22:15,502 --> 00:22:18,880
So just let it go, and move forward.
I know there's a saying.

274
00:22:18,963 --> 00:22:23,510
I think it's, 'Men are from Mars,
and woman are from Venus.' Yeah.

275
00:22:29,724 --> 00:22:32,852
I'll always encourage you guys
just to get to know each other.

276
00:22:32,936 --> 00:22:39,484
Maybe it's beneficial
for you all to get together
just to talk, you know. Yeah.

277
00:22:39,567 --> 00:22:44,531
We're in each other's lives.
You should not be hostile
towards one another.

278
00:22:44,614 --> 00:22:46,741
When I came all the way here...
Mm-hm.

279
00:22:46,825 --> 00:22:50,912
I knew that you were a package,
that you come with kids,

280
00:22:50,995 --> 00:22:53,164
and you came with an ex-wife,

281
00:22:53,248 --> 00:22:56,584
and you want things to be friendly
between everyone

282
00:22:56,668 --> 00:22:58,628
for the sake of the children.

283
00:22:58,712 --> 00:23:02,298
We must address what happened.

284
00:23:02,382 --> 00:23:06,052
I will say, like anything,
you know, this...

285
00:23:06,136 --> 00:23:09,139
Have the right intentions,
you know. Yeah.

286
00:23:09,222 --> 00:23:12,559
Come into it,
positive mindset, you know,

287
00:23:12,642 --> 00:23:16,604
and hopefully
get a positive outcome. We'll see.

288
00:23:18,732 --> 00:23:22,652
I definitely think that Shaeeda
had some challenges

289
00:23:22,736 --> 00:23:25,780
in integrating to my world.

290
00:23:25,864 --> 00:23:29,951
Right now, Shaeeda
and my ex-wife Shahidah,

291
00:23:30,035 --> 00:23:32,120
there's a huge gap
between those two,

292
00:23:32,203 --> 00:23:34,164
but we need to get on the same page,

293
00:23:34,247 --> 00:23:38,543
because I wanna make sure that
that whole dynamic flows right

294
00:23:38,626 --> 00:23:41,463
for my children.

295
00:23:41,546 --> 00:23:46,009
I mean, who doesn't want peace?
You know, who wants chaos?

296
00:23:50,597 --> 00:23:52,599
(SOJABOY SONG PLAYING)

297
00:24:06,738 --> 00:24:10,742
Oh, I like that video. Sojaboy.
So that's your man, huh, Kim?

298
00:24:13,244 --> 00:24:16,998
He's a good-looking man.
Thanks, girl. You go, girl!

299
00:24:23,922 --> 00:24:26,883
So, where...
Where exactly is he from?

300
00:24:29,219 --> 00:24:30,970
Oh, he's gonna be coming here?

301
00:24:31,054 --> 00:24:32,722
Ah, wow, OK.

302
00:24:34,349 --> 00:24:38,728
I'm Kim, I am 51 years old,
and I am from San Diego, California.

303
00:24:38,812 --> 00:24:42,857
Let's see what he says
about your pearly whites.
(LAUGHS) Right?

304
00:24:43,900 --> 00:24:46,695
If you would have told me
that I would be, like, in love,

305
00:24:46,778 --> 00:24:49,114
I'd have been like,
'You are on some good drugs,

306
00:24:49,197 --> 00:24:51,491
because there's no way in hell.'

307
00:24:51,574 --> 00:24:53,243
Are you comfortable? Yeah.

308
00:24:53,326 --> 00:24:57,372
OK, good. Just relax,
and I'll be back in a few.
Thank you. You're welcome.

309
00:24:57,455 --> 00:25:01,751
I was married for 20 years.
It was bad, though. Really bad.

310
00:25:01,835 --> 00:25:04,254
After that, I said I was
never gonna get married,

311
00:25:04,337 --> 00:25:08,174
never fall in love,
just go and bang somebody out
every once in a while,

312
00:25:08,258 --> 00:25:11,428
and then I met Usman.

313
00:25:11,511 --> 00:25:13,304
# SOJABOY: Woman

314
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:21,646
I met Usman, AKA Sojaboy, online.

315
00:25:21,730 --> 00:25:27,235
He's a 33-year-old Nigerian rapper.
He's, like, an up-and-coming star.

316
00:25:27,318 --> 00:25:29,696
I don't know what I was thinking
as I DM'd him,

317
00:25:29,779 --> 00:25:31,948
but I never thought
he was gonna respond.

318
00:25:32,032 --> 00:25:35,785
And about three days later,
I looked down at my phone,

319
00:25:35,869 --> 00:25:38,705
and he was, like, video-calling me!

320
00:25:38,788 --> 00:25:40,749
No make-up on, hair all bleurgh.

321
00:25:40,832 --> 00:25:44,461
I went in the bathroom,
brushed my teeth,
put a full face of make-up on.

322
00:25:44,544 --> 00:25:46,463
I called him back,
and I'm like, 'Hey!'

323
00:25:46,546 --> 00:25:50,050
I was shaking, because it was like,
'Oh, my God, I'm talking to him!'

324
00:25:50,133 --> 00:25:53,011
We ended up talking,
I think, that day, for three hours.

325
00:25:53,094 --> 00:25:56,181
OK, go ahead and lay back,
and look at that!
Look at that smile.

326
00:25:56,264 --> 00:25:58,975
Oh, my God! Yes, girl!
They look amazing!

327
00:25:59,059 --> 00:26:01,728
That is such a difference, right?
They look great.

328
00:26:01,811 --> 00:26:03,730
They look so different. (LAUGHS)

329
00:26:03,813 --> 00:26:07,609
I started out as fan,
then I became super fan,

330
00:26:07,692 --> 00:26:11,029
then I became friend,
then I became 'potential'.

331
00:26:11,112 --> 00:26:14,157
I'm sure he'll notice them.
He'll be like, 'They look great.'

332
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,826
He better. He better, right?
He better.

333
00:26:16,910 --> 00:26:18,828
And then Usman invited me
to Tanzania

334
00:26:18,912 --> 00:26:20,789
to watch him shoot his music video.

335
00:26:20,872 --> 00:26:22,624
I knew this was, like, my chance

336
00:26:22,707 --> 00:26:25,585
to go from potential girlfriend
to girlfriend.

337
00:26:26,753 --> 00:26:29,839
Oh, my God! Kim-ber-ly!

338
00:26:31,132 --> 00:26:32,801
Oh, my God! (LAUGHS)

339
00:26:35,804 --> 00:26:37,555
Oh, my God, it's you!

340
00:26:37,639 --> 00:26:39,808
Oh, my God!

341
00:26:41,059 --> 00:26:43,978
Meeting Usman in person
was everything to me,

342
00:26:44,062 --> 00:26:46,022
but with him, he had reservations.

343
00:26:46,106 --> 00:26:47,774
He was just like, 'OK, wait.

344
00:26:47,857 --> 00:26:51,319
Let me see this woman
in person first,
and get to know her better.'

345
00:26:51,403 --> 00:26:55,115
I've explained. Why don't you
want to have sex with me?
I don't understand.

346
00:26:55,198 --> 00:26:58,326
It's not that I don't want to,
I just feel it is not yet time...

347
00:26:58,410 --> 00:27:00,078
You don't want me. Just admit it.

348
00:27:06,918 --> 00:27:12,215
I had to, like, jump through hoops
to make this man my boyfriend,

349
00:27:12,298 --> 00:27:14,009
but guess what?

350
00:27:14,092 --> 00:27:15,802
Hashtag, #IWon.

351
00:27:27,814 --> 00:27:30,483
I had one of the best nights
of my life with Usman,

352
00:27:30,567 --> 00:27:32,569
but that quickly ended,

353
00:27:32,652 --> 00:27:39,159
because I found out that Usman
was in a relationship with Zara

354
00:27:39,242 --> 00:27:41,036
when we started talking,

355
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,830
and the video and song
is about Zara.

356
00:27:43,913 --> 00:27:46,166
Why would you bring me down here

357
00:27:46,249 --> 00:27:49,085
to have...shoot a video
about another woman?

358
00:27:49,169 --> 00:27:51,296
Oh, my God.

359
00:27:51,379 --> 00:27:53,882
Oh, is it funny?

360
00:27:53,965 --> 00:27:56,217
Is this fucking funny too? Fuck you.

361
00:27:56,301 --> 00:28:00,764
Even though I was really hurt,
and I did not like the fact
that Usman lied to me,

362
00:28:00,847 --> 00:28:05,143
I still loved Usman, and I still
wanted to make things work.

363
00:28:05,226 --> 00:28:06,978
But when the trip came to an end,

364
00:28:07,062 --> 00:28:09,105
things were really shaky
with Usman and I,

365
00:28:09,189 --> 00:28:11,649
and I didn't know
how this was gonna play out.

366
00:28:18,281 --> 00:28:20,033
Can we just go?

367
00:28:21,951 --> 00:28:24,079
Bye. Bye.

368
00:28:26,623 --> 00:28:29,584
I felt like Usman and I
needed time apart after Tanzania,

369
00:28:29,668 --> 00:28:31,336
because it was so intense,

370
00:28:31,419 --> 00:28:34,255
and we still had a lot of issues
to work out.

371
00:28:34,339 --> 00:28:36,341
And then, at the Tell All,

372
00:28:36,424 --> 00:28:39,678
when I found out
about the video chat
with Usman and Zara,

373
00:28:39,761 --> 00:28:42,389
that hurt me
more than you could ever know.

374
00:28:42,472 --> 00:28:47,185
You didn't know
that Usman had called Zara? Nope.

375
00:28:47,268 --> 00:28:49,604
Like, what the fuck is that? Like...

376
00:28:49,688 --> 00:28:51,356
Kimberly, calm down.

377
00:28:54,317 --> 00:28:57,529
I need a minute. Can you hear me?

378
00:29:01,116 --> 00:29:05,870
I felt like I couldn't trust him.
It hurt, it hurt me.

379
00:29:05,954 --> 00:29:09,582
It hurt me.
But then, like, he called me,

380
00:29:09,666 --> 00:29:13,670
and just kept apologising
and saying he was sorry,

381
00:29:13,753 --> 00:29:18,258
and he was like, 'Hey, I miss you,
I want to talk to you in person,

382
00:29:18,341 --> 00:29:20,510
I want you to come to Nigeria.'

383
00:29:20,593 --> 00:29:24,014
And then I really thought about it,
and I was like, 'I love this man.

384
00:29:24,097 --> 00:29:27,142
Like, I want to find out
what our future holds.'

385
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,855
While I was in Nigeria,
I wanted to find out,

386
00:29:31,938 --> 00:29:35,108
'Are we really boyfriend
and girlfriend?
Does he really love me?'

387
00:29:35,191 --> 00:29:37,861
Love you. Love you.

388
00:29:37,944 --> 00:29:40,071
He treated me like a total queen.

389
00:29:40,155 --> 00:29:44,659
And now? I am 100 per cent confident
in this relationship with this man.

390
00:29:44,743 --> 00:29:48,038
He has proven it to me,
time and time again,

391
00:29:48,121 --> 00:29:50,290
or, as he says,
'Time without numba.'

392
00:29:52,125 --> 00:29:53,793
I love when he says that.

393
00:29:57,839 --> 00:29:59,632
Hey! How are you?

394
00:29:59,716 --> 00:30:02,052
Hey, so good to see you.
You too. You look good.

395
00:30:02,135 --> 00:30:06,139
Vanessa and Alyssa
are my absolute best friends.

396
00:30:06,222 --> 00:30:08,224
In the past, they were not happy

397
00:30:08,308 --> 00:30:10,560
about me getting in a relationship
with Usman,

398
00:30:10,643 --> 00:30:12,520
but I trust and respect
their opinion.

399
00:30:12,604 --> 00:30:14,606
Do y'all notice anything different?

400
00:30:15,774 --> 00:30:18,735
Ooh, I see! Like, dang!

401
00:30:18,818 --> 00:30:21,821
It's better, right? It's better.
Ooh, yeah. Looks real good.

402
00:30:21,905 --> 00:30:24,240
Cos remember I was telling you
that in Nigeria,

403
00:30:24,324 --> 00:30:26,659
Usman made a comment
about my teeth were yellow?

404
00:30:26,743 --> 00:30:29,120
You got it done because of that?
Kinda.

405
00:30:29,204 --> 00:30:32,290
I've always been
self-conscious about it,
you know? Yeah.

406
00:30:32,374 --> 00:30:35,502
I feel like you literally
just got back from Nigeria.

407
00:30:35,585 --> 00:30:40,423
I've heard, like,
two things about it.
It was amazing. We got so close.

408
00:30:40,507 --> 00:30:42,425
He's invited me to come back...

409
00:30:43,593 --> 00:30:46,763
..to meet his family this time,
and his mom. Oh, OK.

410
00:30:46,846 --> 00:30:49,391
That's serious. That's good.

411
00:30:49,474 --> 00:30:51,685
I'm going back to Nigeria
in a few days.

412
00:30:52,852 --> 00:30:55,647
Really? Yeah.

413
00:30:55,730 --> 00:30:59,859
The fact that he invited me
over there to meet his family
really means a lot to me...

414
00:31:01,486 --> 00:31:04,114
..so I'm gonna propose to him
on this trip.

415
00:31:09,953 --> 00:31:11,955
You're gonna propose to him?

416
00:31:12,038 --> 00:31:15,542
I am. I love him. I wanna do it.

417
00:31:17,711 --> 00:31:20,463
I just think it would be different
for me to do it.

418
00:31:22,257 --> 00:31:25,677
What does that mean, though?
Like, are you moving to Africa?

419
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:28,221
No, I'd do the K-1 with him,
and bring him here.

420
00:31:30,932 --> 00:31:32,976
Last time we talked, like,

421
00:31:33,059 --> 00:31:37,480
you mentioned it
that he does want kids, so... Mm-hm.

422
00:31:38,523 --> 00:31:42,193
..have you guys talked about...
a second wife?

423
00:31:42,277 --> 00:31:46,698
Obviously I can't have children,
so we would have a second wife

424
00:31:46,781 --> 00:31:48,825
that he would have children with.

425
00:31:49,909 --> 00:31:53,329
I know it sounds crazy,
but, like, women there,

426
00:31:53,413 --> 00:31:55,957
they're brought up to do this,
you know what I mean?

427
00:31:56,041 --> 00:31:58,626
I'm the first wife, right? Mm-hm.

428
00:31:58,710 --> 00:32:01,421
You know, I get all the love,
I get all the good stuff.

429
00:32:01,504 --> 00:32:04,549
I get to travel.
I still get to do me,
I still get to be Kim,

430
00:32:04,632 --> 00:32:06,509
I would just be
married to him, right?

431
00:32:07,969 --> 00:32:10,847
I cannot believe that Kim
is entertaining the thought

432
00:32:10,930 --> 00:32:13,058
of being in a polygamous marriage.

433
00:32:13,141 --> 00:32:15,935
I don't think Usman
could really have separate feelings,

434
00:32:16,019 --> 00:32:18,438
or no feelings,
towards his second wife,

435
00:32:18,521 --> 00:32:20,231
the mother of his children,

436
00:32:20,315 --> 00:32:22,692
and I think Kim is being unrealistic

437
00:32:22,776 --> 00:32:27,238
about him being able
to separate feelings completely
from this woman.

438
00:32:27,322 --> 00:32:31,534
If he gets that K-1, does he get
to bring those kids over with him?

439
00:32:31,618 --> 00:32:34,162
No. Why not?
They're not gonna come live with me.

440
00:32:34,245 --> 00:32:37,332
But why... Not with my son.
Why wouldn't he want his kids here?

441
00:32:37,415 --> 00:32:39,167
Because that's not how it is there.

442
00:32:39,250 --> 00:32:43,088
Like, I've read the Islamic law...
Who are you? Like, what?

443
00:32:44,130 --> 00:32:47,676
Like, you're just...
I think you're moving too fast.

444
00:32:47,759 --> 00:32:52,514
And you're entitled to your opinion,
just like you're entitled to yours.
Thanks! Appreciate that.

445
00:32:52,597 --> 00:32:54,766
But I'm entitled
to live my life, too.

446
00:32:55,934 --> 00:32:57,811
I know how judgmental they can be,

447
00:32:57,894 --> 00:33:00,772
but don't think I don't lie in bed
and have thoughts like,

448
00:33:00,855 --> 00:33:03,441
'What will I do when he has kids?
What's my role?'

449
00:33:03,525 --> 00:33:07,112
I do have these questions.
But I feel like I get so defensive,

450
00:33:07,195 --> 00:33:09,197
because it's like...
I know the man Usman.

451
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,157
I know the man
that makes me so happy.

452
00:33:11,241 --> 00:33:14,119
I'm not a perfect person, right?

453
00:33:14,202 --> 00:33:17,288
But I feel like I'm interrogated,
in a way.

454
00:33:18,623 --> 00:33:20,542
Look at the questions
you're asking me.

455
00:33:20,625 --> 00:33:24,671
I would never ask you...
But are you asking them?
I would never ask you guys this!

456
00:33:24,754 --> 00:33:27,590
And now we're talking
about this second wife shit?

457
00:33:29,467 --> 00:33:32,470
Can I walk away
for a minute, please?

458
00:33:42,856 --> 00:33:47,485
# FRIENDS OF THE FRIENDLESS:
Kongrats

459
00:33:54,784 --> 00:33:56,453
ANDREI: Come on.

460
00:34:01,082 --> 00:34:02,751
Oh!

461
00:34:04,961 --> 00:34:07,339
That's not where I was aiming.

462
00:34:07,422 --> 00:34:10,717
Daddy's not a pro yet,
but you're gonna be a pro now,
for sure.

463
00:34:14,137 --> 00:34:15,930
That's how we are in business.

464
00:34:23,438 --> 00:34:26,983
Ellie, here's one more. Here.

465
00:34:27,067 --> 00:34:29,569
There you go. Good job!

466
00:34:29,652 --> 00:34:34,157
I'm Andrei, I'm 35 years old,
I'm from Chisinau, Moldova,

467
00:34:34,240 --> 00:34:37,827
and this is my wife Elizabeth,
and we have been married
for four years.

468
00:34:37,911 --> 00:34:41,289
Tss-ah! (LAUGHS)

469
00:34:41,373 --> 00:34:45,877
Try it again. Whoo!

470
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,713
We live in Tampa, Florida
with our daughter Eleanor.

471
00:34:48,797 --> 00:34:50,674
She is almost three years old.

472
00:34:50,757 --> 00:34:52,676
Hit it hard.

473
00:34:52,759 --> 00:34:55,178
Baby, she looks just like you.

474
00:34:55,261 --> 00:34:57,847
Little Daddy girl.

475
00:35:02,352 --> 00:35:05,271
We met when I was planning
a trip to Ireland.

476
00:35:05,355 --> 00:35:08,692
I wanted to meet people,
so I downloaded a dating app.

477
00:35:08,775 --> 00:35:11,820
And then this photo of a hot guy
in a bathing suit popped up,

478
00:35:11,903 --> 00:35:13,655
and so we matched.

479
00:35:13,738 --> 00:35:16,282
We spoke via video chat
and over the phone,

480
00:35:16,366 --> 00:35:20,328
every day, all day,
and then I flew out to meet him.

481
00:35:25,250 --> 00:35:29,045
When I first landed in Dublin,
we went back to your apartment...

482
00:35:32,007 --> 00:35:35,468
..then made out. (LAUGHING) Yes.

483
00:35:37,637 --> 00:35:41,975
We got engaged, and we decided
to apply for the K-1 visa.

484
00:35:42,058 --> 00:35:46,438
Having only 90 days to get married
was kind of fast for us,

485
00:35:46,521 --> 00:35:49,399
but we managed through,
cos we loved each other.

486
00:35:49,482 --> 00:35:51,151
Right, baby?

487
00:35:51,234 --> 00:35:53,194
You're sexy.

488
00:35:53,278 --> 00:35:56,322
That's all I'm thinking about.
I didn't hear what you said.

489
00:35:56,406 --> 00:35:59,409
Just looking
at how sexy you are. OK.

490
00:36:03,913 --> 00:36:06,833
Recently, one of
the most amazing things

491
00:36:06,916 --> 00:36:09,127
that comes into our success

492
00:36:09,210 --> 00:36:13,131
is us getting a new house.
A new house! Whoo!

493
00:36:13,214 --> 00:36:15,550
It means a lot for me
to own a house in America,

494
00:36:15,633 --> 00:36:19,220
because being an immigrant,
to own a house is a huge step.

495
00:36:19,304 --> 00:36:22,265
It symbolises
my America dream itself.

496
00:36:22,349 --> 00:36:27,187
So, what do you think? Happy?
I like it. It looks great.

497
00:36:27,270 --> 00:36:31,399
Welcome to my crib. (ALL LAUGH)
Wow, nice.

498
00:36:31,483 --> 00:36:34,778
This is the main...
This is the kitchen!

499
00:36:34,861 --> 00:36:36,905
..the main thing over here,
the kitchen.

500
00:36:36,988 --> 00:36:39,741
Oh, man, this is the party room,
right here. Yeah. Nice.

501
00:36:39,824 --> 00:36:42,369
This is where you spend
all your time. It's so open.

502
00:36:42,452 --> 00:36:47,290
We got pocket doors,
so you can open them all the way
and they'll be hidden into the wall.

503
00:36:48,333 --> 00:36:50,001
I have been doing well by myself.

504
00:36:50,085 --> 00:36:54,381
Last year, I decided that I have to
get back into the workforce,

505
00:36:54,464 --> 00:36:57,050
and I got my real estate licence,

506
00:36:57,133 --> 00:37:00,762
and, you know, I asked some help
from Chuck.

507
00:37:00,845 --> 00:37:03,765
Chuck runs a very successful
real-estate business

508
00:37:03,848 --> 00:37:05,517
with the rest of the family,

509
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:09,437
but they were not happy
about me asking for a loan

510
00:37:09,521 --> 00:37:11,231
to start my own company.

511
00:37:11,314 --> 00:37:14,651
So, he said, 'I want you
to set me up in business,

512
00:37:14,734 --> 00:37:16,945
and loan me $100,000...'
BECKY: What?

513
00:37:17,028 --> 00:37:20,615
'..so I can start flipping houses.'
JENN: Shut up. MEGAN: $100,000?

514
00:37:20,699 --> 00:37:24,703
I've got one thing to say:
Fuck him. What?

515
00:37:24,786 --> 00:37:27,372
All right, I'm leaving.

516
00:37:27,455 --> 00:37:31,543
Chuck realised that
Charlie is never gonna accept me
in the family business,

517
00:37:31,626 --> 00:37:35,839
so Chuck took me under his wing,
and he decided to mentor me
one-on-one.

518
00:37:35,922 --> 00:37:38,967
I'm thankful, because
we would not be here right now

519
00:37:39,050 --> 00:37:41,469
if he hadn't done that.

520
00:37:41,553 --> 00:37:45,015
So, have they seen the house?
Have your sisters seen it?

521
00:37:45,098 --> 00:37:48,101
No, not yet. No? They have an idea.
I've shown them pictures.

522
00:37:48,184 --> 00:37:51,771
They haven't been here.
They have nice houses too.
Get ready for jealousy.

523
00:37:51,855 --> 00:37:54,899
Oh, their jealousy is already there.

524
00:37:54,983 --> 00:37:58,069
Once Andrei started working
one-on-one with my dad,

525
00:37:58,153 --> 00:38:00,363
and didn't have to interact
with my siblings,

526
00:38:00,447 --> 00:38:03,241
we were very hopeful
things would start to get better

527
00:38:03,324 --> 00:38:04,993
within the family business.

528
00:38:05,076 --> 00:38:08,204
But, honestly,
the more successful Andrei got,

529
00:38:08,288 --> 00:38:10,165
they just became more jealous.

530
00:38:10,248 --> 00:38:13,960
Why would you split the profits
with someone you're mentoring?

531
00:38:14,044 --> 00:38:17,672
If that's what they decided
together as a deal,
that's up to them.

532
00:38:17,756 --> 00:38:21,760
No, they're not happy with anything.
I'm sick of you being
such a fucking asshole!

533
00:38:23,428 --> 00:38:25,096
My dad was really upset,

534
00:38:25,180 --> 00:38:27,057
so he wanted
to get everyone together,

535
00:38:27,140 --> 00:38:29,225
so he had a family barbecue,

536
00:38:29,309 --> 00:38:32,145
but Charlie came in ready to fight.

537
00:38:32,228 --> 00:38:35,106
(INDISTINCT SHOUTING AND SCREAMING)

538
00:38:37,025 --> 00:38:40,362
Stop! Stop! Stop.

539
00:38:40,445 --> 00:38:43,448
For me, the hardest part
about that day

540
00:38:43,531 --> 00:38:47,452
was just simply seeing
how hurt my dad was.

541
00:38:47,535 --> 00:38:51,206
(SOBBING) This is
my worst nightmare.

542
00:38:51,289 --> 00:38:54,376
I thought I was gonna see
my family to get...

543
00:38:56,127 --> 00:38:58,171
..healed tonight, but it got worse.

544
00:39:00,590 --> 00:39:05,136
Since the Tell All,
nobody in the family
has been talking to Charlie,

545
00:39:05,220 --> 00:39:08,515
and he is no longer part of
family real-estate business.

546
00:39:08,598 --> 00:39:10,475
I've seen Jenn and Becky
a few times,

547
00:39:10,558 --> 00:39:13,186
but we try to avoid each other
as much as possible.

548
00:39:14,896 --> 00:39:20,485
And this is Ellie's room!
Ellie's room, wow. Ellie's room!

549
00:39:22,570 --> 00:39:25,990
The barbecue ended up being
one of the worst days of my life.

550
00:39:26,074 --> 00:39:28,451
I'm a cancer survivor,

551
00:39:28,535 --> 00:39:34,165
and I didn't survive cancer
to see my family
fighting on my back porch.

552
00:39:34,249 --> 00:39:37,711
And a big, big, big closet!

553
00:39:37,794 --> 00:39:41,089
It's put a strain on things.

554
00:39:41,172 --> 00:39:43,633
This is the most fractured
that we have ever been.

555
00:39:43,717 --> 00:39:46,970
We have plenty of rooms over here.

556
00:39:47,053 --> 00:39:50,807
That room over there,
we're gonna transform it
into a studio.

557
00:39:54,394 --> 00:39:57,105
And she can sing, like,
in her spare time.

558
00:39:57,188 --> 00:39:59,649
Cos you know how she loves to sing.

559
00:39:59,733 --> 00:40:01,985
Studio? If she's...

560
00:40:05,071 --> 00:40:09,409
Singing. Singing? Yeah. Mm-hm.
Are you gonna start singing? Yep.

561
00:40:09,492 --> 00:40:14,998
So, is this gonna be a hobby,
or are you gonna try
to make a career out of this, or...

562
00:40:15,081 --> 00:40:18,418
What's going on? Well, I don't know.
I'll just take it as it comes.

563
00:40:18,501 --> 00:40:21,087
If a studio over there
is not gonna work out,

564
00:40:21,171 --> 00:40:24,007
then when we have a second child...
Second child?

565
00:40:24,090 --> 00:40:28,386
Can you just... (LAUGHS)
..put a cork in it?

566
00:40:28,470 --> 00:40:30,847
Tie your mouth, please. Hush.

567
00:40:30,930 --> 00:40:34,976
This is something
that we haven't discussed yet
as a couple.

568
00:40:35,060 --> 00:40:37,771
He's trying to make decisions
for me.

569
00:40:37,854 --> 00:40:39,773
Let's not get ahead
of ourselves here.

570
00:40:39,856 --> 00:40:43,151
I thought I was just looking
at your new house...
OK. Yes, you were.

571
00:40:43,234 --> 00:40:45,779
..and now I'm learning
you're having a second child,

572
00:40:45,862 --> 00:40:49,157
and starting a singing career?
What about your commitment to me?

573
00:40:50,450 --> 00:40:53,787
Right now, let's fucking do that,
cos... Just stop.

574
00:40:53,870 --> 00:40:56,998
You fucking stop, stop for a second,
do a little bit of listen,

575
00:40:57,082 --> 00:40:59,876
cos you're going ahead,
I'm saying we'll have a studio...

576
00:40:59,959 --> 00:41:04,381
Excuse me. Do not cuss
in front of your daughter.

577
00:41:04,464 --> 00:41:06,716
Enough.

578
00:41:12,555 --> 00:41:18,353
We just started talking about it.
Nothing has been finalised yet.

579
00:41:18,436 --> 00:41:21,398
One step at a time.

580
00:41:22,524 --> 00:41:26,403
I've never really envisioned
working for my dad my whole life,

581
00:41:26,486 --> 00:41:31,282
and so recently, I've been kind of
toying with the idea of what I love,

582
00:41:31,366 --> 00:41:33,034
and that's singing,

583
00:41:33,118 --> 00:41:35,537
so that's something
that I want to get more into.

584
00:41:35,620 --> 00:41:38,456
But my dad's business
is very important to me,

585
00:41:38,540 --> 00:41:41,084
and I've put a lot of time
and effort into it,

586
00:41:41,167 --> 00:41:43,253
so I don't want to make
any rash decisions,

587
00:41:43,336 --> 00:41:47,173
and I'm certainly not gonna let
my husband make decisions for me.

588
00:41:54,931 --> 00:41:57,058
# ROMY: Blessing the Bride (Baisa)

589
00:42:24,586 --> 00:42:26,254
Hi.

590
00:42:38,391 --> 00:42:41,978
I woke up this morning, like,
in the worst mood...

591
00:42:43,355 --> 00:42:45,607
..from what we talked about
last night.

592
00:43:27,524 --> 00:43:29,859
I think it's such a bad idea.

593
00:43:36,574 --> 00:43:38,284
It's just that...

594
00:43:38,368 --> 00:43:40,870
I'm just remembering
the last time that they came,

595
00:43:40,954 --> 00:43:44,749
and how mean your mom was to me,
and I just...

596
00:43:44,833 --> 00:43:46,501
That was just so hard.

597
00:43:46,584 --> 00:43:49,713
It was so hard for me,
and now I have to
go through that again.

598
00:43:52,507 --> 00:43:54,175
Do you like...?

599
00:43:56,302 --> 00:43:59,305
Do you like a kid? Son...

600
00:43:59,389 --> 00:44:03,101
smaller, younger than your daughter?
That's not...

601
00:44:03,184 --> 00:44:05,103
You don't need to talk about age.

602
00:44:05,186 --> 00:44:07,147
We love each other.

603
00:44:09,774 --> 00:44:11,568
I can make them understand

604
00:44:11,651 --> 00:44:14,988
that you chose
a different path in life,

605
00:44:15,071 --> 00:44:18,366
like, you didn't choose their path,
you chose your own path.

606
00:44:21,578 --> 00:44:23,663
If I say anything?

607
00:44:30,879 --> 00:44:34,174
Then why should I even be there
if I can't even talk?

608
00:44:38,678 --> 00:44:40,472
Yeah, I am,
and I would like to talk,

609
00:44:40,555 --> 00:44:43,350
but you're telling me not to talk.

610
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:48,605
Your parents have to accept
that I have things to say,

611
00:44:48,688 --> 00:44:50,815
that I can't just sit there
and be quiet!

612
00:44:52,567 --> 00:44:57,614
I'm supposed to just sit there
and be quiet, and, you know,
take all the abuse? Like...

613
00:44:57,697 --> 00:45:00,075
How...? That's not good for me.

614
00:45:00,158 --> 00:45:04,913
How can he even say that to me?
How do you tell me not to even talk?

615
00:45:11,586 --> 00:45:13,254
Yeah, but I would like it

616
00:45:13,338 --> 00:45:15,840
if you would be more, like,
with me on my side,

617
00:45:15,924 --> 00:45:17,759
stay with me, you're with me.

618
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:33,483
And if I'm sitting there
crying or upset, then what?

619
00:45:33,566 --> 00:45:36,277
You're gonna be so busy
hugging your parents,

620
00:45:36,361 --> 00:45:38,780
what, I'm just gonna sit there
and cry by myself?

621
00:45:41,116 --> 00:45:42,909
See, this is what I'm worried about.

622
00:45:42,992 --> 00:45:45,203
I think you're
more on your parents' side.

623
00:45:49,791 --> 00:45:52,127
I'm just thinking
what's gonna happen!

624
00:45:52,210 --> 00:45:56,756
Just listen to me. How come
I always have to listen to you?
You don't listen to me ever.

625
00:45:58,466 --> 00:46:00,301
I know what's gonna happen!

626
00:46:00,385 --> 00:46:02,220
You're like, 'Oh, well, you know,

627
00:46:02,303 --> 00:46:05,056
they're...they'll accept it,
everything will be fine.'

628
00:46:05,140 --> 00:46:07,767
You know that's not
how it's gonna go.

629
00:46:15,483 --> 00:46:17,402
OK, so, anyways...

630
00:46:18,820 --> 00:46:21,281
..I'll see you
when you're ready to go.

631
00:46:38,965 --> 00:46:40,633
I don't know!

632
00:46:45,513 --> 00:46:47,849
I don't want you to forget me
sitting there.

633
00:46:50,101 --> 00:46:51,853
Then I'm gonna be there, then!

634
00:46:53,855 --> 00:46:55,940
All I'm saying, can I say anything,

635
00:46:56,024 --> 00:46:58,485
or do I have to just sit there?

636
00:47:09,954 --> 00:47:11,873
OK.

637
00:47:14,125 --> 00:47:18,296
I hope my parents will be happy
after seeing me happy,

638
00:47:18,380 --> 00:47:22,842
and that's why Jenny being there

639
00:47:22,926 --> 00:47:25,804
as my wife is important.

640
00:47:25,887 --> 00:47:28,181
OK, well, then,
treat me as your wife, then.

641
00:47:28,264 --> 00:47:30,809
Don't abandon me for your family.

642
00:47:30,892 --> 00:47:33,019
When you tell them
that we're married,

643
00:47:33,103 --> 00:47:35,105
it's gonna re-ignite the anger,

644
00:47:35,188 --> 00:47:38,400
and things are gonna
get really, really ugly, I think.

645
00:47:58,420 --> 00:48:00,964
KIM: I just don't feel good
about this situation.

646
00:48:01,047 --> 00:48:02,841
These are supposed to be my friends.

647
00:48:02,924 --> 00:48:04,968
I don't interrogate their lives
like that,

648
00:48:05,051 --> 00:48:08,304
so why is it my life
that's being interrogated like this?

649
00:48:08,388 --> 00:48:10,932
I don't know
all the answers, obviously.

650
00:48:11,016 --> 00:48:13,810
I know how I feel about him.
Why can't that be enough?

651
00:48:13,893 --> 00:48:16,688
Why do I have to answer
all this tonight?

652
00:48:17,981 --> 00:48:19,649
I don't know.

653
00:48:21,276 --> 00:48:24,320
It's stupid. I don't even know
why she gets so mad at us.

654
00:48:24,404 --> 00:48:26,072
OK.

655
00:48:31,494 --> 00:48:34,581
I feel like every time
I talk about Usman, or any time...

656
00:48:34,664 --> 00:48:37,792
like, I know this is big,
talking about a proposal
or whatever,

657
00:48:37,876 --> 00:48:39,544
but it's, like, negative.

658
00:48:39,627 --> 00:48:42,881
You know how protective
we are of you,

659
00:48:42,964 --> 00:48:47,344
because you have been
in some shitty relationships
where you didn't get treated well.

660
00:48:47,427 --> 00:48:50,764
Why do you think we're so defensive?
Who was protective of you then?

661
00:48:50,847 --> 00:48:53,516
So this is our job.
So then we ask the question.

662
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,978
You're throwing stuff out about
a second wife and freakin' kids,

663
00:48:57,062 --> 00:48:59,522
and you want us
to not ask any questions?

664
00:48:59,606 --> 00:49:01,775
OK, I guess it's a lot.

665
00:49:01,858 --> 00:49:04,069
BOTH: It's a lot.
It is very... It's a lot.

666
00:49:06,696 --> 00:49:09,449
The moment she doesn't hear
something she wants to hear,

667
00:49:09,532 --> 00:49:11,701
she can throw a fit?
That's not OK.

668
00:49:11,785 --> 00:49:13,453
My two-year-old doesn't do that.

669
00:49:13,536 --> 00:49:15,372
Maybe she gets so defensive with us

670
00:49:15,455 --> 00:49:18,792
because she doesn't have
enough confidence
in her relationship yet.

671
00:49:18,875 --> 00:49:23,463
She wants us to believe she does,
and she wants to believe she does,

672
00:49:23,546 --> 00:49:27,467
but it's not...
It's just not there yet.

673
00:49:27,550 --> 00:49:31,221
So, I know the first time
you went to go visit him,

674
00:49:31,304 --> 00:49:35,558
you found out that he had been
talking to some lady...

675
00:49:35,642 --> 00:49:40,355
Mm-hm. Now you guys
are 100 per cent committed? Mm-hm.

676
00:49:40,438 --> 00:49:43,441
Fully? Yes. So, like,
going into this,

677
00:49:43,525 --> 00:49:47,862
you guys are fully... Yes.
..committed to each other.
100 per cent. 100 per cent.

678
00:49:47,946 --> 00:49:51,491
OK. 100 per cent. How do you know?
I just...know.

679
00:49:51,574 --> 00:49:54,202
100 per cent. I just know.

680
00:49:54,285 --> 00:49:57,956
Just please promise me
that before you propose... Mm-hm.

681
00:49:58,039 --> 00:50:03,378
..make sure that he's not talking
to any other woman right now. OK.

682
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:09,801
The second wife, the kids,
you have to ask these questions,

683
00:50:09,884 --> 00:50:11,845
and answer them with Usman.

684
00:50:11,928 --> 00:50:14,097
You need to know,
at the end of the day,

685
00:50:14,180 --> 00:50:16,224
the reason that we ask you
these things...

686
00:50:16,307 --> 00:50:18,977
We're just looking out
for your best interest. I know.

687
00:50:19,060 --> 00:50:23,273
But I take it like... You know me.
You shouldn't. You shouldn't.

688
00:50:23,356 --> 00:50:26,735
I don't really like it
when my friends are questioning me.

689
00:50:26,818 --> 00:50:30,697
I get really defensive
when it comes to Usman.
However, I do understand it.

690
00:50:30,780 --> 00:50:33,658
I have questions
about the relationship.

691
00:50:33,742 --> 00:50:37,620
What's gonna happen
when we do get married,
with the second wife and everything?

692
00:50:37,704 --> 00:50:41,458
I wanna propose. I do wanna spend
the rest of my life with Usman,

693
00:50:41,541 --> 00:50:44,961
but until I get answers
to my questions,
none of that will happen.

694
00:50:47,839 --> 00:50:48,100
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JOVI: Put the red one in.
MYLAH: Red. Red. Yeah! Good job!

695
00:51:22,791 --> 00:51:25,377
Can I have a bite?
Thank you, sweetheart.

696
00:51:26,461 --> 00:51:31,424
Damn, look at you! Sexy woman. Yup.

697
00:51:35,970 --> 00:51:39,182
Goodbye, Mylah. Oh!

698
00:51:41,726 --> 00:51:45,355
Can't take you with me, OK?
You be good for Dada.

699
00:51:45,438 --> 00:51:50,902
My name is Yara, I'm 27 years old,
and this is my husband Jovi.

700
00:51:50,985 --> 00:51:55,532
You're getting old. Oh, my gosh, no.

701
00:51:55,615 --> 00:51:59,452
She's like, 'Don't go
without your purse.' You go with me?

702
00:51:59,536 --> 00:52:01,204
That's her purse. I know.

703
00:52:01,287 --> 00:52:03,331
You take your purse
so you go with me?

704
00:52:04,833 --> 00:52:08,670
I'm from New Orleans, Louisiana,
and she's from Kyiv, Ukraine.

705
00:52:08,753 --> 00:52:11,756
I know you love your mama so much.

706
00:52:12,799 --> 00:52:15,218
We've been married for two years,

707
00:52:15,301 --> 00:52:18,888
and we have a baby, Mylah,
and she's 17 months old now.

708
00:52:20,724 --> 00:52:25,520
Mylah, are you coming with me?
I'm really curious why you're
wearing shoes in my house right now.

709
00:52:28,565 --> 00:52:31,192
Oh, they're fucking dirty!
They're not.

710
00:52:31,276 --> 00:52:35,822
I feel like those shoes
have already been on Bourbon Street.
You know I hate Bourbon Street.

711
00:52:35,905 --> 00:52:38,992
Yara and I actually met
on a travel app.

712
00:52:39,075 --> 00:52:42,287
# HELENA: Do It To 'Em

713
00:52:42,370 --> 00:52:45,081
When I saw Yara's profile
for the first time,

714
00:52:45,165 --> 00:52:49,044
she had some
really attractive pictures up...
Of course I did.

715
00:52:53,923 --> 00:52:57,469
I'd actually talked to a few girls
from Ukraine on this app,

716
00:52:57,552 --> 00:53:01,181
and they were like,
'Oh, yeah, if you pay for my flight,
I'll meet you,'

717
00:53:01,264 --> 00:53:04,267
'If you buy me an iPhone,
I'll meet you,' or something, so...

718
00:53:04,351 --> 00:53:06,102
Yara, she didn't ask me for money,

719
00:53:06,186 --> 00:53:08,521
she didn't ask me to pay for her
to get to me...

720
00:53:10,732 --> 00:53:12,400
One trip!

721
00:53:13,735 --> 00:53:16,112
Yeah. Good job.

722
00:53:25,872 --> 00:53:29,209
Now I have a beer belly.
..and now he has a beer belly.

723
00:53:29,292 --> 00:53:33,797
We talked for three months
on WhatsApp,
and then we met in Budapest.

724
00:53:35,340 --> 00:53:38,176
The first day was super awkward.

725
00:53:43,390 --> 00:53:47,060
I didn't trust her. I had my wallet,
passport, cellphone under my pillow,

726
00:53:47,143 --> 00:53:49,062
so that she couldn't take my shit.

727
00:53:50,605 --> 00:53:54,609
The next day was definitely better.
(LAUGHS)

728
00:53:54,693 --> 00:53:58,822
And then, I guess about four
or five months after that,

729
00:53:58,905 --> 00:54:01,241
we... I proposed to her.

730
00:54:03,576 --> 00:54:06,246
Yeah, we're not really romantics,
to be honest.

731
00:54:07,497 --> 00:54:10,208
But for us,
if we want to be together,

732
00:54:10,291 --> 00:54:12,335
the only option for me
was come to the US.

733
00:54:12,419 --> 00:54:15,964
So I applied for a K-1 visa,
and I was approved.

734
00:54:26,141 --> 00:54:27,809
Finally!

735
00:54:33,064 --> 00:54:34,816
Ah, good to finally see you.

736
00:54:34,899 --> 00:54:38,737
My first impression of New Orleans:

737
00:54:38,820 --> 00:54:43,283
'I hate it. This is dirty,
this is nasty, I hate it.'

738
00:54:52,876 --> 00:54:54,753
Fucking like an alcoholic.

739
00:55:02,761 --> 00:55:05,805
..and not just about you,
and about your fucking alcohol!

740
00:55:08,767 --> 00:55:11,227
Yeah, some of
our biggest fights started

741
00:55:11,311 --> 00:55:13,063
as soon as you landed in America.

742
00:55:13,146 --> 00:55:14,939
Yeah, but we love each other, and...

743
00:55:18,777 --> 00:55:23,198
Yeah, we're stuck.
'Stuck', OK.

744
00:55:24,657 --> 00:55:27,619
I now pronounce you
husband and wife.

745
00:55:27,702 --> 00:55:30,747
Kiss your bride, my friend.
Let's hear it for them, everybody!

746
00:55:30,830 --> 00:55:34,292
(APPLAUSE AND CHEERING) Yeah!

747
00:55:39,589 --> 00:55:42,258
Seven months after the wedding,
I had Mylah.

748
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:47,013
It was the best experience
of my life.

749
00:55:49,140 --> 00:55:53,311
After Mylah was one month,
Jovi was then to go back to work.

750
00:55:53,395 --> 00:55:55,355
I work with underwater robotics,

751
00:55:55,438 --> 00:55:58,608
and my normal schedule is working
one month on, one month off.

752
00:55:58,692 --> 00:56:01,319
And when I came home,
Yara had moved from New Orleans

753
00:56:01,403 --> 00:56:05,407
to north of New Orleans,
in the middle of the woods.

754
00:56:05,490 --> 00:56:07,367
I did it for keep Mylah safe

755
00:56:07,450 --> 00:56:11,162
and move you from all of those
parties and drinks in New Orleans.

756
00:56:11,246 --> 00:56:16,960
I understand that,
but having a baby didn't mean,
'Our lives have to end now.'

757
00:56:17,043 --> 00:56:19,838
I mean, I miss the old Yara.

758
00:56:24,259 --> 00:56:26,845
You were fun. Don't get me wrong,
you're a good mom,

759
00:56:26,928 --> 00:56:28,638
but you're not fun any more.

760
00:56:59,586 --> 00:57:02,088
I don't go to strip clubs
like I used to.

761
00:57:06,801 --> 00:57:11,014
Is that what you did,
tried to move me as far away
from the club as possible? Yes.

762
00:57:11,097 --> 00:57:15,143
Hey, Mylah. Hey! Oops. Oops!

763
00:57:15,226 --> 00:57:18,730
Come to Mommy.
You give Mama a kiss?

764
00:57:18,813 --> 00:57:20,940
(KISSING NOISE)
Say, 'Bye bye, Mama.

765
00:57:21,024 --> 00:57:25,987
You go... Go out with your friends.
Me and Dada will have fun, right?'
Mylah!

766
00:57:33,244 --> 00:57:35,663
Such a little boss.
No, she has your personality.

767
00:57:35,747 --> 00:57:39,751
If she don't like something,
she drops it on the floor,
just like Jovi.

768
00:57:44,089 --> 00:57:45,840
When you gonna let me have fun?

769
00:57:45,924 --> 00:57:49,094
Well, you had fun for all this time
when I was pregnant,

770
00:57:49,177 --> 00:57:51,388
and also, I think,
once Mylah grow up.

771
00:57:52,972 --> 00:57:55,225
I'm just a babysitter now, what?

772
00:57:55,308 --> 00:57:58,895
Please, why would you
play this game with me now?

773
00:58:01,106 --> 00:58:02,857
I just got home from work,

774
00:58:02,941 --> 00:58:04,776
but, you know, now she's going out

775
00:58:04,859 --> 00:58:06,695
with these new friends
she just made.

776
00:58:06,778 --> 00:58:08,947
It seems to be her new routine.

777
00:58:09,030 --> 00:58:12,158
I understand that she watches
the baby when I'm at work,

778
00:58:12,242 --> 00:58:16,121
but at the same time,
I would love to come home
and have fun with my friends,

779
00:58:16,204 --> 00:58:19,332
or, even more importantly,
spend time with Yara.

780
00:58:20,417 --> 00:58:24,087
You think this is fair?
You can just go out
and do what you want,

781
00:58:24,170 --> 00:58:26,840
and I get stuck at home
with the baby all the time.

782
00:58:26,923 --> 00:58:30,176
I think that, you know, both of us
should be doing the same thing.

783
00:58:32,345 --> 00:58:35,306
Look, I don't like these girls,
I don't...

784
00:58:35,390 --> 00:58:37,809
I think they're influencing you
in the wrong way.

785
00:58:37,892 --> 00:58:40,979
They stay out all night.
They never fucking go home.

786
00:58:41,062 --> 00:58:44,315
That's not the kind of people
you want to hang out with.

787
00:58:44,399 --> 00:58:46,943
Jovi, my best friends
stay in Ukraine,

788
00:58:47,027 --> 00:58:48,695
where you take me from.

789
00:58:53,533 --> 00:58:55,368
I mean, I want
to come home from work

790
00:58:55,452 --> 00:58:57,120
and spend time with my family.

791
00:58:57,203 --> 00:59:02,751
I want to spend time with you too,
but if I go for two hours out,
it shouldn't be a big deal for you.

792
00:59:02,834 --> 00:59:06,129
Two hours turns into six... When?
..and six turns into eight. When?

793
00:59:06,212 --> 00:59:08,423
Every time you go out
with these girls.

794
00:59:10,091 --> 00:59:12,093
I'm just saying,
don't make this a habit.

795
00:59:12,177 --> 00:59:14,429
Just stop it.

796
00:59:22,479 --> 00:59:25,065
Live my boring life at home. Yeah.
Dad life now.

797
00:59:25,148 --> 00:59:29,903
I feel like I'm so much different,
because I don't go to party.

798
00:59:29,986 --> 00:59:34,115
I have a few drinks with my friends,
talk and go home...
What are you talking about?

799
00:59:34,199 --> 00:59:36,993
I don't go to lose my shit
in the strip club,

800
00:59:37,077 --> 00:59:39,537
so that's a different story
right now.

801
00:59:39,621 --> 00:59:42,707
Different kind of partying?
Yes, it is.

802
00:59:42,791 --> 00:59:45,502
OK. Tell Mylah goodbye,

803
00:59:45,585 --> 00:59:48,505
and you can go
and hang out with your friends
and have fun.

804
00:59:48,588 --> 00:59:51,383
You make me feel
like I'm a shitty person

805
00:59:51,466 --> 00:59:54,469
because I wanna get out
and have fun.

806
00:59:55,804 --> 00:59:59,099
Just be reasonable.
Can you come home
by a decent time tonight?

807
01:00:01,559 --> 01:00:03,228
Go out and have fun.

808
01:00:03,311 --> 01:00:06,314
Me and Mylah are gonna stay here,
play, have a good time.

809
01:00:06,398 --> 01:00:08,817
You go do what you wanna do.
That's fine with me.

810
01:00:10,819 --> 01:00:15,073
You want to put it inside, Mylah?
Put it in. Your turn.

811
01:00:15,156 --> 01:00:16,825
(SNIFFS BACK TEARS)

812
01:00:19,119 --> 01:00:21,538
Put that one in. Here.

813
01:00:33,008 --> 01:00:35,802
I'm jealous,
because I'm stuck at home,

814
01:00:35,885 --> 01:00:38,847
and all the friends
get to hang out with Fun Yara.

815
01:00:38,930 --> 01:00:41,516
I would definitely rather
Yara and I go out together,

816
01:00:41,599 --> 01:00:44,602
but we don't find time
for each other any more.

817
01:00:44,686 --> 01:00:47,272
My honest opinion?

818
01:00:47,355 --> 01:00:50,859
I think if we didn't have Mylah,
we'd probably be divorced already.

819
01:00:52,694 --> 01:00:55,613
But if Yara and I
continue to move forward,

820
01:00:55,697 --> 01:00:57,741
and not have enough time
to spend together

821
01:00:57,824 --> 01:00:59,743
and have some free time
for ourselves,

822
01:00:59,826 --> 01:01:01,745
our marriage is gonna fail.

823
01:01:17,177 --> 01:01:19,137
ELIZABETH: Well, hello.

824
01:01:19,220 --> 01:01:22,724
Oh, my gosh. You made it. Ohh!
Don't 'Well, hello' me!

825
01:01:27,103 --> 01:01:31,483
How's it going?
Hello, bitches, minus Mom.
Mom can be a bitch.

826
01:01:31,566 --> 01:01:34,986
You should have heard
what Mom was saying
about you earlier. Right?

827
01:01:35,070 --> 01:01:37,197
It was all good.

828
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:40,825
I have been distancing myself
from my family recently,

829
01:01:40,909 --> 01:01:43,119
just because of
everything that happened

830
01:01:43,203 --> 01:01:44,954
at the family barbecue last year.

831
01:01:45,038 --> 01:01:47,916
It's been probably about
at least half a year

832
01:01:47,999 --> 01:01:51,211
since I have spent time
with just my sisters and my mom,

833
01:01:51,294 --> 01:01:54,255
so I'm actually
looking forward to this,

834
01:01:54,339 --> 01:01:57,509
and since there will be
no male testosterone around,

835
01:01:57,592 --> 01:02:00,804
I am hoping that this will be
a lot more peaceful

836
01:02:00,887 --> 01:02:03,098
than the last family gathering.

837
01:02:03,181 --> 01:02:06,184
So, Becky, anything new,
any new pregnancy ne...

838
01:02:06,267 --> 01:02:07,936
I guess not - you're drinking.

839
01:02:08,019 --> 01:02:10,855
I am ovulating.
Ooh, OK, cheers to that.

840
01:02:10,939 --> 01:02:13,942
You know we're trying.
Cheers to ovulation. I know, cheers.

841
01:02:16,444 --> 01:02:20,949
So, what's going on with you?
Yeah, so...we recently
joined a tennis club.

842
01:02:21,032 --> 01:02:23,034
You did? You did? Yes. Wow.

843
01:02:23,118 --> 01:02:25,704
Do they even play tennis in Moldova?

844
01:02:25,787 --> 01:02:28,373
They do, but it's not popular.
(RUMBLING OVERHEAD)

845
01:02:28,456 --> 01:02:30,375
Right, so you just joined, and...

846
01:02:30,458 --> 01:02:32,210
(THUNDERCLAP)
(ALL SCREAMING)

847
01:02:32,293 --> 01:02:34,713
(SCREAMS, LAUGHS)

848
01:02:34,796 --> 01:02:37,090
Oh, grab my purse.
(SCREAMING CONTINUES)

849
01:02:37,173 --> 01:02:40,010
Where's my purse, Jenn?
Oh, my gosh!

850
01:02:42,012 --> 01:02:44,639
I had one sip of my mimosa
I just ordered,

851
01:02:44,723 --> 01:02:47,726
and then literally, like,
a minute later, it was like...

852
01:02:47,809 --> 01:02:50,270
Usually it's sprinkles.
Like, can I get a warning?

853
01:02:50,353 --> 01:02:53,815
Oh, my gosh. All right.

854
01:02:53,898 --> 01:02:56,526
That was the excitement for today.
WAITER: All right.

855
01:02:56,609 --> 01:02:58,653
Food will be out shortly.
ALL: Thank you.

856
01:02:58,737 --> 01:03:00,947
I don't remember
what we were talking about.

857
01:03:01,031 --> 01:03:04,242
That was such a monsoon.
What were we talking about?
I don't know.

858
01:03:06,036 --> 01:03:10,081
Oh, yeah, you joined a tennis club.
It was so cute,
because she was so excited,

859
01:03:10,165 --> 01:03:12,167
and she seems more social too
after that,

860
01:03:12,250 --> 01:03:14,502
and I want her
to come out of her shell. Yeah.

861
01:03:14,586 --> 01:03:18,006
I really want Ellie
to do as many things as she can,

862
01:03:18,089 --> 01:03:20,175
so she can figure out
what she likes.

863
01:03:20,258 --> 01:03:23,887
And also, too,
we are in a place right now

864
01:03:23,970 --> 01:03:30,143
where I can
do what I wanna do, you know?

865
01:03:31,895 --> 01:03:33,772
Like singing.

866
01:03:33,855 --> 01:03:36,733
Is that still your passion?
Wait, really, Libby?

867
01:03:36,816 --> 01:03:39,152
I want to just, like,
do something that I like,

868
01:03:39,235 --> 01:03:43,656
so I'm not stressed,
so that doesn't seep into Ellie,
you know what I mean?

869
01:03:43,740 --> 01:03:48,036
In the recent months,
I have been trying to figure out
what really makes me happy,

870
01:03:48,119 --> 01:03:50,497
and to not be as stressed.

871
01:03:50,580 --> 01:03:54,918
And singing is something
that I have loved to do
ever since I was a small child,

872
01:03:55,001 --> 01:04:00,590
and it would mean really a lot to me
to follow my passion.

873
01:04:00,674 --> 01:04:05,220
I mean, from the time
you were, like, three years old,
you'd sing around the house... Yeah.

874
01:04:05,303 --> 01:04:07,555
..so I'm not surprised
that's still something

875
01:04:07,639 --> 01:04:09,307
that's in the back of your mind.

876
01:04:09,391 --> 01:04:11,351
Have you talked to Andrei
about singing?

877
01:04:11,434 --> 01:04:14,020
He's supportive of it.
He knows I have a great voice.

878
01:04:14,104 --> 01:04:15,855
He wants me to do it. OK.

879
01:04:15,939 --> 01:04:18,024
What's your goal?
What's your end game?

880
01:04:18,108 --> 01:04:20,527
I don't know.
We just started talking about it.

881
01:04:20,610 --> 01:04:23,196
But I just don't like his approach.

882
01:04:23,279 --> 01:04:28,368
He's... It's like he's giving me
permission to step down from working
and do my own thing.

883
01:04:28,451 --> 01:04:31,246
Like, I don't need his permission.
No, you're not asking.

884
01:04:31,329 --> 01:04:34,749
I'm a grown woman.
You're telling him
what you want to do.

885
01:04:34,833 --> 01:04:36,668
That's so cute. You should be like,

886
01:04:36,751 --> 01:04:39,796
'Aww, that's so cute. You think
you have that much control?'

887
01:04:39,879 --> 01:04:43,049
You really just need his support.
That's it. That's it. Yeah.

888
01:04:44,551 --> 01:04:46,720
I'm excited that my sister told us

889
01:04:46,803 --> 01:04:53,018
that she's wanting
to re-imagine her singing career,

890
01:04:53,101 --> 01:04:59,399
but Andrei is usually the one
to get in the way of her plans.

891
01:04:59,482 --> 01:05:01,818
It seems a little suspicious,

892
01:05:01,901 --> 01:05:04,863
and almost makes me think, like,
'What's in it for him?'

893
01:05:08,616 --> 01:05:13,204
I also wanted to talk about Charlie.

894
01:05:16,833 --> 01:05:19,252
You know, I know
that he misses everybody.

895
01:05:19,336 --> 01:05:22,589
Are you guys at the point
where you're, like, ready to...

896
01:05:22,672 --> 01:05:27,052
you know, to talk to him,
to allow him to apologise?

897
01:05:27,135 --> 01:05:29,220
We have said, many times,

898
01:05:29,304 --> 01:05:31,973
how we feel
about Charlie's situation,

899
01:05:32,057 --> 01:05:35,560
and that he needs to get help,
and that we want him to get help.

900
01:05:36,603 --> 01:05:38,605
Then we'll come back around.

901
01:05:38,688 --> 01:05:40,940
But he still is not doing
those things. No.

902
01:05:42,192 --> 01:05:45,362
Drinking is definitely
a huge problem for Charlie,

903
01:05:45,445 --> 01:05:48,907
and my mom is 100 per cent
in denial.

904
01:05:48,990 --> 01:05:51,618
As a mother,
she doesn't want to believe

905
01:05:51,701 --> 01:05:55,455
that there might be
something wrong with her child.

906
01:05:57,040 --> 01:06:00,293
My sisters and I, right now,
miss my brother Charlie,

907
01:06:00,377 --> 01:06:02,545
and his wife Megan, too,

908
01:06:02,629 --> 01:06:06,216
cos she was, like, another sister
for me, Becky and Jenn,

909
01:06:06,299 --> 01:06:09,010
but we don't want
to be involved in it,

910
01:06:09,094 --> 01:06:11,096
and, like, for our mental health,

911
01:06:11,179 --> 01:06:16,101
that's something that we choose
as adults, and that's OK.

912
01:06:18,728 --> 01:06:22,482
Why should we say,
'Oh, let's just forget about it,
sweep it under the rug,'

913
01:06:22,565 --> 01:06:24,651
like our family fucking does
all the time,

914
01:06:24,734 --> 01:06:26,611
and just, 'Kum ba yah'?

915
01:06:26,695 --> 01:06:29,698
So, saying that comes across to me
very judgmental.

916
01:06:29,781 --> 01:06:32,575
I mean, I know he has his issues...
No, it's reality.

917
01:06:32,659 --> 01:06:34,994
Everybody...
How the fuck is that judgemental?

918
01:06:35,078 --> 01:06:36,830
This is very manipulative, Mom.

919
01:06:39,124 --> 01:06:42,377
But at the same time, you know,
he's your brother, and hopefully -

920
01:06:42,460 --> 01:06:44,462
We're not saying
that we're perfect, Mom!

921
01:06:44,546 --> 01:06:48,550
..I've had to do that.
Just cos he's our brother,
we don't have to put up with BS.

922
01:06:48,633 --> 01:06:52,345
I never said you did. We're adults,
with our own families
to think about...

923
01:06:52,429 --> 01:06:54,889
I get that. We're not seeping
toxicity into that.

924
01:06:54,973 --> 01:06:58,351
Let me ask you...
It's not fair for you to say,
'You're judgmental.'

925
01:06:58,435 --> 01:07:01,563
We see there's an issue,
and we're protecting ourselves
from it.

926
01:07:01,646 --> 01:07:06,026
So what I would like to do
is having some type of a mediator

927
01:07:06,109 --> 01:07:07,777
or somebody come in,

928
01:07:07,861 --> 01:07:09,779
where we can all talk together

929
01:07:09,863 --> 01:07:11,823
and just throw everything
on the table.

930
01:07:11,906 --> 01:07:15,326
No, you and Dad...
We don't need to be a part of it!
Yes, you do.

931
01:07:15,410 --> 01:07:17,078
There's gotta be some way

932
01:07:17,162 --> 01:07:19,039
that you guys
can find a common ground

933
01:07:19,122 --> 01:07:20,874
and get past all of this.

934
01:07:20,957 --> 01:07:22,625
But you're not understanding.

935
01:07:22,709 --> 01:07:25,712
You are ignoring
the elephant in the room. Right.

936
01:07:25,795 --> 01:07:28,840
He has a problem. If someone drinks
every single day...

937
01:07:28,923 --> 01:07:32,302
This is why it's gotten worse.
..that's a disease,
that's a problem.

938
01:07:33,553 --> 01:07:36,556
I don't wanna be
around my drunk brother any more,

939
01:07:36,639 --> 01:07:38,350
for the time being.

940
01:07:38,433 --> 01:07:41,770
I love him to death,
and it breaks my heart
that he has a problem.

941
01:07:41,853 --> 01:07:44,439
I totally get that. The thing is,
you guys,

942
01:07:44,522 --> 01:07:48,651
I have a big birthday coming up,
and I'm not telling you
to let down your guard,

943
01:07:48,735 --> 01:07:50,987
I'm not telling you
not to have boundaries up,

944
01:07:51,071 --> 01:07:52,947
but I would like for all of my kids

945
01:07:53,031 --> 01:07:57,243
to be in the same place
at the same time for my birthday,

946
01:07:57,327 --> 01:08:00,622
and I don't think
that's asking too much.

947
01:08:04,834 --> 01:08:08,004
Well, it is, unfortunately,
at this point in time. It's not, no.

948
01:08:08,088 --> 01:08:12,133
For one day, for a couple of hours,
put your differences aside,

949
01:08:12,217 --> 01:08:14,260
and you guys all be there...

950
01:08:14,344 --> 01:08:17,097
I don't think
that's asking too much,

951
01:08:17,180 --> 01:08:21,393
for a couple of hours... Mom, it is.
..for my birthday. It is a lot.

952
01:08:22,769 --> 01:08:25,772
I feel really bad
being stuck in the middle
of everybody,

953
01:08:25,855 --> 01:08:29,359
because I love
all of my kids the same,
just as any mom would.

954
01:08:29,442 --> 01:08:31,486
My hope and prayer
is that they will all

955
01:08:31,569 --> 01:08:36,282
at least be able
to be at my birthday party together.

956
01:08:39,202 --> 01:08:43,707
I just pray that, somehow,
we can work through this,

957
01:08:43,790 --> 01:08:45,875
get a counsellor, talk about it...

958
01:08:45,959 --> 01:08:48,378
Did you find a counsellor for him?
You and Dad...

959
01:08:48,461 --> 01:08:53,341
(EMPHATICALLY) You can get
a counsellor and go with Charlie!

960
01:08:53,425 --> 01:08:56,261
You can do that!
I think you have anger issues.

961
01:08:56,344 --> 01:09:00,265
You're, like... Because you and Dad
are so fucking frustrating!
Oh, my gosh, Mom!

962
01:09:00,348 --> 01:09:03,435
I have anger issues?
You're banging on the table!

963
01:09:03,518 --> 01:09:06,646
She's trying to get through to you!
This conversation's over.

964
01:09:06,730 --> 01:09:09,399
I mean, we're not getting anywhere.

965
01:09:13,111 --> 01:09:15,864
# EMAN8: Clean

966
01:09:25,623 --> 01:09:29,044
You look nice. Thank you.
Look like a mocha.

967
01:09:36,301 --> 01:09:38,303
(BILAL SPEAKING)

968
01:09:38,386 --> 01:09:40,055
As always.

969
01:09:42,432 --> 01:09:46,770
Today, Shaeeda and I,
we're meeting
with my ex-wife Shahidah,

970
01:09:46,853 --> 01:09:50,357
and the goal is for them to be able
to work out their differences,

971
01:09:50,440 --> 01:09:53,568
because my children
mean everything to me,

972
01:09:53,651 --> 01:09:55,487
so it's very important to make sure

973
01:09:55,570 --> 01:09:58,531
that my new wife,
my ex-wife, their mother,

974
01:09:58,615 --> 01:10:00,367
get along in peace.

975
01:10:00,450 --> 01:10:05,538
It's something that's so important
for our entire family.

976
01:10:07,832 --> 01:10:11,294
I am going into this meeting
open-minded,

977
01:10:11,378 --> 01:10:13,171
and I do look forward to an apology.

978
01:10:13,254 --> 01:10:15,882
I just wanna put this to rest.

979
01:10:17,717 --> 01:10:22,347
Think...peace is a good thing...
Yeah. ..on many different reasons.

980
01:10:23,473 --> 01:10:27,686
And I'm praying that I don't have to
go through this again.

981
01:10:27,769 --> 01:10:32,357
Like, after today,
we can squash this,

982
01:10:32,440 --> 01:10:35,151
I accept the apology
and we move forward.

983
01:10:35,235 --> 01:10:36,903
Right.

984
01:10:38,154 --> 01:10:40,990
For the sake of Bilal
and his children,

985
01:10:41,074 --> 01:10:45,787
it would be good for Shahidah and I
to just, you know, move past this.

986
01:10:45,870 --> 01:10:49,332
At the same time,
I'm not a second-class citizen.

987
01:10:49,416 --> 01:10:52,127
I'm not the second wife,
I am the wife.

988
01:10:52,210 --> 01:10:55,046
So I'm not going to be
pushed around.

989
01:10:56,381 --> 01:11:00,135
After that incident happened,
you know,

990
01:11:00,218 --> 01:11:03,847
I met with Shaeeda,
as you remember...

991
01:11:03,930 --> 01:11:05,640
Shahidah!

992
01:11:05,724 --> 01:11:07,434
Uh, yeah.

993
01:11:07,517 --> 01:11:10,353
Our names are similar,
but she doesn't have my name.

994
01:11:12,856 --> 01:11:15,275
Bilal took a very long time
to let me know

995
01:11:15,358 --> 01:11:17,235
that his ex-wife's name
was Shahidah.

996
01:11:17,318 --> 01:11:19,070
And the first thing, I was like,

997
01:11:19,154 --> 01:11:21,614
'Is he some sort of
serial name dater?'

998
01:11:21,698 --> 01:11:25,910
I have...a Rolodex

999
01:11:25,994 --> 01:11:31,082
of people that I have dated
named Shaeeda.

1000
01:11:31,166 --> 01:11:33,084
Whatever. That is a joke.

1001
01:11:33,168 --> 01:11:35,211
Stale joke. Dry humour.

1002
01:11:37,297 --> 01:11:39,632
Any time I think about her,

1003
01:11:39,716 --> 01:11:42,427
I do get upset at how she reacted
in my kitchen.

1004
01:11:42,510 --> 01:11:47,474
I felt like she was bold-faced,
abrasive, unkind.

1005
01:11:47,557 --> 01:11:51,436
Yeah. Like, just talking about it
is getting me upset.

1006
01:11:52,771 --> 01:11:54,773
I never did anything to her.

1007
01:11:54,856 --> 01:11:59,569
Like, I... I came in this
open-minded, with a big heart.

1008
01:11:59,652 --> 01:12:02,405
I was disrespected in my own home.
Mm-hm.

1009
01:12:02,489 --> 01:12:05,283
You know, she was
very much inquisitive,

1010
01:12:05,367 --> 01:12:07,952
asking questions
that was none of her concern.

1011
01:12:08,036 --> 01:12:11,539
You wanna continue to hold on to it?
Then you hold on to it.

1012
01:12:12,791 --> 01:12:16,169
Or you wanna grow from it,
and move on from it?

1013
01:12:18,171 --> 01:12:19,923
If she'd never acted that way,

1014
01:12:20,006 --> 01:12:22,592
I wouldn't have
anything negative to say.

1015
01:12:23,635 --> 01:12:27,097
You're a Muslim, right? Yes.

1016
01:12:27,180 --> 01:12:29,683
We make mistakes, right?

1017
01:12:29,766 --> 01:12:34,896
And then we apologise,
and...what's the Muslim thing to do?

1018
01:12:36,731 --> 01:12:40,402
I know, it's...it's good to move on
and move forward,

1019
01:12:40,485 --> 01:12:44,531
but at the same time,
I'm nobody's fool.

1020
01:12:44,614 --> 01:12:46,950
A divorced wife
will not walk into a man's house

1021
01:12:47,033 --> 01:12:52,163
and just...tell his new,
upcoming wife whatever she wants.

1022
01:12:56,876 --> 01:13:01,881
I have given up a lot
to be here with Bilal.

1023
01:13:01,965 --> 01:13:04,134
I am new. I am your wife.

1024
01:13:04,217 --> 01:13:10,015
You should always try to see it
from my point of view.

1025
01:13:10,098 --> 01:13:14,602
I don't want Bilal to jeopardise
the relationship he has
with his children,

1026
01:13:14,686 --> 01:13:18,481
but I'm worried that
he's not going to be on my side.

1027
01:13:18,565 --> 01:13:22,235
The reality is that we're going to
be in each other's lives,

1028
01:13:22,318 --> 01:13:27,741
but I don't want the children to see
you guys going back and forth,
and bickering, and all that.

1029
01:13:27,824 --> 01:13:31,244
That's not good for them.
That's not a healthy relationship.

1030
01:13:31,327 --> 01:13:33,913
I bought both of you-all
the same book...

1031
01:13:35,874 --> 01:13:38,710
..and it relates to
just how blended families, you know,

1032
01:13:38,793 --> 01:13:41,504
can get along and get together,

1033
01:13:41,588 --> 01:13:45,967
and knowing that we're not always
gonna see eye-to-eye on things.

1034
01:13:46,051 --> 01:13:47,886
Bilal is a bookworm. He loves books.

1035
01:13:47,969 --> 01:13:50,972
He makes me read a book or two
every month,

1036
01:13:51,056 --> 01:13:53,767
and he bought his ex-wife Shahidah
and myself a book

1037
01:13:53,850 --> 01:13:59,189
about divorced people who...
learning to co-exist.

1038
01:13:59,272 --> 01:14:03,026
Bilal probably thought,
giving me that book,

1039
01:14:03,109 --> 01:14:05,653
everything's supposed to be
hunky-dory.

1040
01:14:05,737 --> 01:14:08,698
At the end of the day,
you have to deal with her.

1041
01:14:08,782 --> 01:14:11,159
You share children with her, not me.

1042
01:14:11,242 --> 01:14:13,036
I didn't travel all the way here

1043
01:14:13,119 --> 01:14:16,748
to have anyone, or anything,
disturbing my peace.

1044
01:14:16,831 --> 01:14:20,877
So if things don't go well,
that's your problem, not mine.

1045
01:14:22,420 --> 01:14:24,172
That sounds like a supportive wife.

1046
01:14:25,382 --> 01:14:32,097
Bilal... I am not the type to be
dealing with any baby-mama drama.

1047
01:14:34,099 --> 01:14:35,767
I refuse to be a part of that.

1048
01:14:39,187 --> 01:14:41,940
Of course I want to be
on Shaeeda's side,

1049
01:14:42,023 --> 01:14:45,110
but when I first met Shae,
I let her know

1050
01:14:45,193 --> 01:14:48,363
it was a priority to make sure
I have peace with my ex-wife,

1051
01:14:48,446 --> 01:14:53,368
because my children
are my top priority.

1052
01:14:53,451 --> 01:14:56,788
So she has to agree
with having peace.

1053
01:14:56,871 --> 01:14:58,540
If things don't go well today...

1054
01:15:00,417 --> 01:15:03,545
..I could be looking
at a very steep uphill battle.

1055
01:15:17,100 --> 01:15:21,521
Hey! Hi, love! Hey!

1056
01:15:26,735 --> 01:15:29,487
How have y'all been?
We've been good.

1057
01:15:29,571 --> 01:15:31,698
Waiting for you
to get out of the house...

1058
01:15:31,781 --> 01:15:34,367
Yeah. ..and have some fun
with us! OK, right?

1059
01:15:53,345 --> 01:15:56,556
Oh, my goodness, I feel like
it's been forever before I get out.

1060
01:15:56,639 --> 01:16:00,185
That's the mom life.
Trust me, I'm dealing
with a whole thing right now,

1061
01:16:00,268 --> 01:16:02,187
but I at least get to go out.
(LAUGHS)

1062
01:16:02,270 --> 01:16:04,105
My husband is not really like that,

1063
01:16:04,189 --> 01:16:06,941
because he's jealous
that he needs to get out too, so...

1064
01:16:07,025 --> 01:16:09,444
Yeah. ..you know?
No, he had enough time out,

1065
01:16:09,527 --> 01:16:12,530
and you had to carry the baby
for nine months...

1066
01:16:12,614 --> 01:16:15,367
Exactly! ..so we get nine months
of girl time! Exactly!

1067
01:16:15,450 --> 01:16:17,911
I was like, 'You need to be
happy for me,

1068
01:16:17,994 --> 01:16:21,039
I finally have friends
that can go out!'

1069
01:16:21,122 --> 01:16:23,500
Jovi's being extremely selfish.

1070
01:16:28,254 --> 01:16:30,799
But when he's gone,
it's like a single mom,

1071
01:16:30,882 --> 01:16:32,842
I never had time for myself,

1072
01:16:32,926 --> 01:16:36,262
and I think he just needs
to support me a little bit more.

1073
01:16:36,346 --> 01:16:40,475
I'm telling you, Jovi always
gets jealous for me to get out,

1074
01:16:40,558 --> 01:16:43,853
but when he gets out,
he will come home
five o'clock in the morning.

1075
01:16:43,937 --> 01:16:46,564
Wait, is he still going
to the strip club, though?

1076
01:16:46,648 --> 01:16:49,984
Not so often,
because now we live
far away from the strip club.

1077
01:16:50,068 --> 01:16:54,489
He just cannot get it. If I get out,
then he wants to get out too.

1078
01:16:54,572 --> 01:16:58,868
When I very first met Yara,
the first time ever,

1079
01:16:58,952 --> 01:17:01,538
we're at this dinner
with, like, six women,

1080
01:17:01,621 --> 01:17:04,749
and Jovi was supposed to be
babysitting Mylah.

1081
01:17:04,833 --> 01:17:09,587
He called a babysitter
to come get Mylah - his mom -

1082
01:17:09,671 --> 01:17:11,631
and he's like,
'I'm coming, I'm coming!'

1083
01:17:11,715 --> 01:17:13,633
We do need to take
a girls' vacation.

1084
01:17:13,717 --> 01:17:17,387
I think it'd be fun to either go to
Los Angeles or Miami,

1085
01:17:17,470 --> 01:17:20,390
we go have our girls' night...
Uh-huh. ..you know?

1086
01:17:23,018 --> 01:17:26,896
He will literally track my location
all day long, where I am.
Oh, my gosh, no.

1087
01:17:26,980 --> 01:17:30,275
You do not...
You share location? He...

1088
01:17:30,358 --> 01:17:33,445
He made me do that! Look...
He check every second where I am.

1089
01:17:33,528 --> 01:17:38,616
He's like, 'Oh, what you doing
so long in, like, Saks Avenue mall?
Go out from there.'

1090
01:17:38,700 --> 01:17:41,619
'Oh, what you doing so long
in Target?' Stop. 'Go out.'

1091
01:17:41,703 --> 01:17:44,456
Yes. I've never shared location
with a man.

1092
01:17:44,539 --> 01:17:46,624
It's not normal, right?
It's not normal.

1093
01:17:46,708 --> 01:17:48,918
When I first moved to America,

1094
01:17:49,002 --> 01:17:51,004
Jovi asked me to share location
with him,

1095
01:17:51,087 --> 01:17:52,797
because New Orleans was so scary,

1096
01:17:52,881 --> 01:17:55,091
and he was scared
that I may get kidnapped.

1097
01:17:55,175 --> 01:17:57,635
But he continued
to check my location.

1098
01:18:06,102 --> 01:18:09,356
I don't understand why
he has this kind of trust issue.

1099
01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:11,107
Because you're out of his league.

1100
01:18:11,191 --> 01:18:13,568
You're beautiful, young...
Oh, my goodness!

1101
01:18:13,651 --> 01:18:15,487
..and, yes, that's how it works.

1102
01:18:15,570 --> 01:18:17,822
Men literally will come up to you
and be like,

1103
01:18:17,906 --> 01:18:20,742
'You, I want you. You and your baby,
come move in with me,

1104
01:18:20,825 --> 01:18:23,036
I will take care of you,'
and Jovi knows it.

1105
01:18:23,119 --> 01:18:25,163
Oh, my goodness!

1106
01:18:25,246 --> 01:18:27,749
I'm just saying, he's not, like,
crazy-attractive.

1107
01:18:27,832 --> 01:18:30,502
He's cute, and you guys
look so cute together,

1108
01:18:30,585 --> 01:18:33,463
but I'm just saying
she's cuter than him,
for sure. Yeah.

1109
01:18:33,546 --> 01:18:36,049
There's so much more
of the world to explore.

1110
01:18:36,132 --> 01:18:40,053
And then he's at the strip club
all night, so I'm just, like...

1111
01:18:40,136 --> 01:18:42,055
I mean, she's stunning.
She's gorgeous.

1112
01:18:42,138 --> 01:18:44,933
And, like, she's so young,
she's so beautiful...

1113
01:18:45,016 --> 01:18:48,853
She could totally
get any guy that she wants.
He realises that, yeah.

1114
01:18:54,484 --> 01:18:56,361
What about your dad?
Wait, wait, wait.

1115
01:18:56,444 --> 01:18:59,823
You just said Jovi reminds you
of your mom? What does that mean?

1116
01:18:59,906 --> 01:19:03,284
He have the same reactions.
I guess that's why
I get in love with him,

1117
01:19:03,368 --> 01:19:08,123
because he will be like,
'Yara! We need to do this right now,
go and do it.'

1118
01:19:08,206 --> 01:19:11,835
So you like to be told
what to do? Yes.

1119
01:19:13,169 --> 01:19:15,714
Me too. I'm like that. Really? Yes.

1120
01:19:15,797 --> 01:19:18,758
Whenever I'm having sex,
I think it's so sexy.

1121
01:19:18,842 --> 01:19:20,927
(ALL LAUGH)

1122
01:19:21,011 --> 01:19:23,513
Has your sex life started back?

1123
01:19:23,596 --> 01:19:26,391
For me, when it comes down to it,
after you have a child,

1124
01:19:26,474 --> 01:19:29,811
it's, like, so hard to introduce
back into the relationship.

1125
01:19:37,986 --> 01:19:40,655
Oh. Seventeen?

1126
01:19:43,825 --> 01:19:45,577
Stop.

1127
01:19:54,210 --> 01:19:56,671
Like... Like a banana titty?

1128
01:19:56,755 --> 01:19:58,715
How do you think I felt?
I had twins.

1129
01:19:58,798 --> 01:20:02,510
I literally have empty ziplock bags
taped to my chest. Oh, my God.

1130
01:20:02,594 --> 01:20:05,805
It's swaying in the wind.
And I'm jealous of her! Look at her.

1131
01:20:05,889 --> 01:20:07,724
I know, are you kidding me?

1132
01:20:07,807 --> 01:20:12,312
I have a breast aug, obviously,
and I will tell you,

1133
01:20:12,395 --> 01:20:15,106
the number one regret
is not going big enough.

1134
01:20:15,190 --> 01:20:18,443
I don't wanna look like
Pamela Anderson.
I don't need it like this.

1135
01:20:18,526 --> 01:20:20,737
But if... You would be
a cute Pamela, though.

1136
01:20:38,421 --> 01:20:41,091
I think feeling more confidence
with my body

1137
01:20:41,174 --> 01:20:45,804
will help the relationship
with me and myself,
and I need that.

1138
01:20:45,887 --> 01:20:48,306
I feel like I need to do it,
because it's just...

1139
01:20:48,390 --> 01:20:50,183
it's bothering me, like, I cannot...

1140
01:20:50,266 --> 01:20:53,061
It's your confidence.
It's your body. It's who you are.

1141
01:20:56,648 --> 01:20:58,525
How do you look? Yeah.

1142
01:20:58,608 --> 01:21:00,276
What does he think?

1143
01:21:02,237 --> 01:21:05,323
So... He tells you that?
Yeah, he can tell me... No!

1144
01:21:05,407 --> 01:21:08,034
He's so open
about saying anything...

1145
01:21:08,118 --> 01:21:11,579
Very blunt. He told you
that your breasts don't look nice?

1146
01:21:11,663 --> 01:21:15,458
Yeah. So I definitely feel
like they don't look nice.
Well, then he can pay...

1147
01:21:15,542 --> 01:21:19,921
He can pay for you
to get your new boobs done, so...

1148
01:21:20,005 --> 01:21:22,132
How am I supposed to feel sexy

1149
01:21:22,215 --> 01:21:25,802
if my own husband giving me
ugly comments about my boobs?

1150
01:21:25,885 --> 01:21:30,306
A woman wants her man
to find her looking sexy,
and she wants to feel sexy.

1151
01:21:30,390 --> 01:21:33,518
But to be honest, our sex life
wasn't so much good

1152
01:21:33,601 --> 01:21:35,311
since we have Mylah,

1153
01:21:35,395 --> 01:21:37,480
and I feel if I will have
my boobs done,

1154
01:21:37,564 --> 01:21:39,774
then me and Jovi can more reconnect.

1155
01:21:39,858 --> 01:21:42,444
And then maybe we will spend
more time having sex,

1156
01:21:42,527 --> 01:21:44,487
and less time fighting.

1157
01:21:44,571 --> 01:21:46,698
We're gonna spice up the sex life.

1158
01:21:46,781 --> 01:21:50,702
Let me help you out
and remind you of who you are,
what you have.

1159
01:21:50,785 --> 01:21:52,746
The pussy is power.

1160
01:21:55,582 --> 01:21:57,500
Did she just say,
'The pussy is power'?

1161
01:21:57,584 --> 01:22:01,671
It always has been.
Oh, my gosh, yes. Ahh!

1162
01:22:01,755 --> 01:22:05,967
Oh, my goodness. OK, let's cheers.
Here's to ta-tas!

1163
01:22:08,887 --> 01:22:09,147
2
01:18:59.960 -- 01:19:01.840 align:middle line:90% position:50%
I'll need a bath after this.

1164
01:22:27,238 --> 01:22:28,907
Yeah, really.

1165
01:22:41,753 --> 01:22:45,006
OK, now I'm all sweaty,
and now I'm gonna get mad.

1166
01:22:45,090 --> 01:22:47,342
I don't like to be sweaty.

1167
01:22:49,511 --> 01:22:53,723
Today, I have invited my parents
over to our old house,

1168
01:22:53,807 --> 01:22:58,520
and I'm gonna tell them
about getting married with Jenny.

1169
01:22:58,603 --> 01:23:01,856
My brother and sister-in-law
are coming.

1170
01:23:02,941 --> 01:23:05,360
It's important for us
to clean the house,

1171
01:23:05,443 --> 01:23:07,612
because my mother
is a clean freak person,

1172
01:23:07,696 --> 01:23:10,031
so we have a lot to do right now.

1173
01:23:14,577 --> 01:23:17,789
OK, well, I can't get
into the corners.

1174
01:23:23,128 --> 01:23:25,422
The last time Sumit's parents
came to our house

1175
01:23:25,505 --> 01:23:27,298
and they stayed with us,

1176
01:23:27,382 --> 01:23:31,344
all I got was criticised
about how dirty my house was.

1177
01:23:31,428 --> 01:23:33,096
I mean, I'm a grown woman.

1178
01:23:33,179 --> 01:23:35,765
I don't need her
to come in my house and judge me.

1179
01:23:35,849 --> 01:23:38,101
I don't need to be judged.

1180
01:23:45,358 --> 01:23:47,610
I know. Me too.

1181
01:23:49,988 --> 01:23:53,450
I wanna be here as Sumit's wife,
because I wanna support him,

1182
01:23:53,533 --> 01:23:56,244
but I think this is
a really bad idea.

1183
01:23:56,327 --> 01:23:58,830
I think that they're gonna
take Sumit away from me,

1184
01:23:58,913 --> 01:24:02,459
and all hell's gonna break loose.

1185
01:24:02,542 --> 01:24:04,836
Sweating again.
I just got done sweating,

1186
01:24:04,919 --> 01:24:07,130
and now here I am again, sweating.

1187
01:24:07,213 --> 01:24:09,507
(DOORBELL)

1188
01:24:11,509 --> 01:24:13,678
Anything. OK, OK, OK.

1189
01:24:13,762 --> 01:24:15,513
My parents never like Jenny,

1190
01:24:15,597 --> 01:24:18,767
and I know it's gonna
really break their heart.

1191
01:24:18,850 --> 01:24:24,105
I just hope that they can see
how Jenny and I are happy together,

1192
01:24:24,189 --> 01:24:29,486
and I hope that I don't have to
lose the relationship
with my parents.

1193
01:24:29,569 --> 01:24:31,738
(GREETINGS IN OWN LANGUAGE)

1194
01:25:03,687 --> 01:25:07,190
Hi, everyone! Hi. Hello!

1195
01:25:07,273 --> 01:25:09,317
Chai for everyone.

1196
01:25:16,324 --> 01:25:19,452
I'm so hot from being
in the kitchen. Ugh.

1197
01:25:24,916 --> 01:25:27,168
Just making chai and feeling hot?

1198
01:25:27,252 --> 01:25:29,587
I've been in the kitchen
for a while.

1199
01:25:44,978 --> 01:25:46,813
(MOTHER REPEATS LINE)

1200
01:26:05,623 --> 01:26:07,542
So, how's everybody been?

1201
01:26:10,670 --> 01:26:12,339
Congratulations.

1202
01:26:18,553 --> 01:26:22,932
Sumit told me not to talk,
but he's not saying anything at all.

1203
01:26:23,016 --> 01:26:27,228
It's making me more nervous,
and it's very awkward,

1204
01:26:27,312 --> 01:26:29,522
and I'm more and more sweaty.

1205
01:26:29,606 --> 01:26:33,318
I wish he would start talking,
so we can get this over with.

1206
01:26:35,779 --> 01:26:37,447
Umm...

1207
01:26:39,616 --> 01:26:41,326
So...

1208
01:26:42,619 --> 01:26:45,288
Remember the last time
you guys were here?

1209
01:26:45,372 --> 01:26:49,751
And we went and had that nice talk
in the park?

1210
01:26:51,086 --> 01:26:54,005
Well...what happened with that?

1211
01:26:54,089 --> 01:26:55,757
Nothing ever became of it,

1212
01:26:55,840 --> 01:26:58,051
I never saw you guys again
after that.

1213
01:27:02,347 --> 01:27:08,269
OK, what I understood was
that you guys were accepting me,

1214
01:27:08,353 --> 01:27:10,980
and that you love me...

1215
01:27:14,901 --> 01:27:18,613
..and you weren't going to stop us
if we wanted to marry,

1216
01:27:18,697 --> 01:27:23,076
and that things
were gonna get better.

1217
01:27:50,186 --> 01:27:52,647
You did say it.

1218
01:29:04,219 --> 01:29:08,098
SHAEEDA: This season
on 90 Day Fiance:
Happily Ever After?

1219
01:29:08,181 --> 01:29:11,643
Look at this little fucker.
Are you going to bite me? OK.

1220
01:29:11,726 --> 01:29:16,481
INSTRUCTOR: Line up your knees
right underneath your hips.

1221
01:29:16,564 --> 01:29:19,359
ANGELA: I'm confused.

1222
01:29:19,442 --> 01:29:23,446
I've had a lifestyle change,
and I've lost a ton of weight.

1223
01:29:23,530 --> 01:29:26,950
I'm sexy, I'm confident,
and I can get any man I want.
Facts.

1224
01:29:27,033 --> 01:29:29,202
Got my mojo back.

1225
01:29:29,285 --> 01:29:33,039
Baby, is that you making noises,
or the dog? (LAUGHS)

1226
01:29:33,123 --> 01:29:36,126
Our sex life is just
on a whole different level.

1227
01:29:36,209 --> 01:29:38,878
Let's put it this way:
she now calls me 'Daddy'.

1228
01:29:38,962 --> 01:29:40,672
Oh, my God!

1229
01:29:40,755 --> 01:29:42,799
All right, Princess!

1230
01:29:48,888 --> 01:29:51,933
Sorry, but I'm not gonna apologise
for something I didn't do.

1231
01:29:52,017 --> 01:29:55,311
I'm not gonna be pushed around
by his ex-wife.

1232
01:29:55,395 --> 01:29:58,565
This will get real left, real quick.
Come on, just... No, you...

1233
01:30:00,275 --> 01:30:02,402
How are you feeling?

1234
01:30:07,407 --> 01:30:10,118
Russia is on Ukrainian borders.

1235
01:30:25,800 --> 01:30:27,635
I would like to
leave all that behind

1236
01:30:27,719 --> 01:30:30,597
and move to America together,
you and I.

1237
01:30:40,982 --> 01:30:44,944
Your behaviour has really
turned our family upside-down.

1238
01:30:45,028 --> 01:30:48,073
Andrei has such a huge grasp
on my sister,

1239
01:30:48,156 --> 01:30:50,742
it's like we don't know Libby
any more.

1240
01:30:50,825 --> 01:30:52,494
It's about your fucking jealousy.

1241
01:30:52,577 --> 01:30:55,497
Andrei, you honestly think
I'm jealous of you? Yes.

1242
01:30:55,580 --> 01:30:58,249
SHUT THE FUCK UP!
Fuck off! Fuck you.

1243
01:31:00,919 --> 01:31:04,631
I'm in a fucking country by myself.
You don't think this is a lot?

1244
01:31:08,343 --> 01:31:11,471
You know how much money
I've spent on this trip,

1245
01:31:11,554 --> 01:31:13,848
trying to impress this dude,
for what?

1246
01:31:16,643 --> 01:31:18,603
Leave me the fuck alone.
Don't go out...

1247
01:31:18,687 --> 01:31:22,148
I'll do whatever the fuck I want.
I'm single.

1248
01:31:22,232 --> 01:31:23,900
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)

1249
01:31:24,943 --> 01:31:27,737
This is my new life.
There's no turning back now,

1250
01:31:27,821 --> 01:31:29,906
so tonight, I'm gonna get fucked up.

1251
01:31:29,989 --> 01:31:31,825
Seriously?

1252
01:31:31,908 --> 01:31:33,576
No, go fuck yourself.

1253
01:31:34,619 --> 01:31:36,830
I am done. I'm done with him.

1254
01:31:36,913 --> 01:31:40,583
He doesn't give a shit
about anything. I'm over it!

1255
01:31:42,419 --> 01:31:47,966
WOMAN: Michael! Come out!
How about that?
She's taking your car apart!

1256
01:31:48,049 --> 01:31:50,427
Ever since I signed 'I do'
to this man,

1257
01:31:50,510 --> 01:31:52,595
everything went downhill.

1258
01:31:55,015 --> 01:31:56,891
Hey, hey, hey, hey!

1259
01:31:56,975 --> 01:31:59,853
Fuck you, boy, I'm the queen.

1260
01:32:00,895 --> 01:32:02,981
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