1 00:00:08,008 --> 00:00:10,176 Well, because you're out of his league. 2 00:00:10,260 --> 00:00:14,556 MAN: Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?... 3 00:00:17,809 --> 00:00:20,937 Wow. 4 00:00:21,021 --> 00:00:24,482 I feel if I will have my boobs done, 5 00:00:24,566 --> 00:00:28,111 then me and Jovi can spend more time having sex and less time fighting. 6 00:00:28,194 --> 00:00:30,155 I have seen a change in Charlie, 7 00:00:30,238 --> 00:00:33,825 and I would like for all of my kids to be in the same place. 8 00:00:33,908 --> 00:00:36,911 Drinking is a huge problem for Charlie, 9 00:00:36,995 --> 00:00:39,456 and my mom is in denial. 10 00:00:39,539 --> 00:00:44,336 Just because he's our brother doesn't mean we have to put up with a bunch of BS. 11 00:00:44,419 --> 00:00:49,132 I'm not the type to be dealing with any baby-momma drama. 12 00:00:49,215 --> 00:00:52,427 Today, we're meeting with my ex-wife Shahidah, 13 00:00:52,510 --> 00:00:55,555 and the goal is for them to work out their differences. 14 00:00:55,638 --> 00:01:00,060 So, if things don't go well, that's your problem, not mine. 15 00:01:03,396 --> 00:01:06,608 I'm going back to Nigeria in a few days to meet Usman's family. 16 00:01:06,691 --> 00:01:09,652 So, I'm gonna propose to him on this trip. 17 00:01:09,736 --> 00:01:13,281 Have you guys talked about a second wife? I feel like I'm interrogated. 18 00:01:13,365 --> 00:01:16,659 Well, Kim, are you...? I would never ask you guys this. 19 00:01:16,743 --> 00:01:18,661 Can I walk away for a minute? 20 00:01:24,709 --> 00:01:29,089 What I understood was you weren't gonna stop us if we wanted to marry. 21 00:01:29,172 --> 00:01:31,174 (SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE) 22 00:01:51,736 --> 00:01:55,031 # BRUCE WAYNNE: Dollaz 23 00:01:59,119 --> 00:02:03,248 Well, well, well. Such a domesticated husband I have. 24 00:02:03,331 --> 00:02:06,084 Here you go. No. Continue, please. Thank you. 25 00:02:06,167 --> 00:02:09,129 It's a really nice sight. It's an extension of your ass. 26 00:02:13,550 --> 00:02:16,845 Yeah. Yay. 27 00:02:16,928 --> 00:02:19,639 Babe, do you want a drink? Mm-hm. 28 00:02:19,723 --> 00:02:22,434 This is a very important day. 29 00:02:22,517 --> 00:02:26,312 Tonight, we're having a house-warming party, and I'm very excited about that. 30 00:02:26,396 --> 00:02:28,773 Have a lot of people coming, 31 00:02:28,857 --> 00:02:32,986 and we're so excited to show off our new house to our friends. 32 00:02:33,069 --> 00:02:34,738 And family. 33 00:02:35,822 --> 00:02:38,241 Yeah. Family. 34 00:02:38,324 --> 00:02:44,372 I told you from the beginning I don't want your family here. I told you it was a bad idea. 35 00:02:44,456 --> 00:02:46,708 Well, they're coming, so it doesn't matter. 36 00:02:46,791 --> 00:02:51,713 I don't want this stuff to be spilling into my people I invited. 37 00:02:51,796 --> 00:02:56,468 They're intelligent people. They don't wanna deal with this crap. 38 00:02:56,551 --> 00:03:00,680 At the party today I'm worried about Elizabeth's family 39 00:03:00,764 --> 00:03:03,016 cos they're always bringing their problems. 40 00:03:03,099 --> 00:03:05,518 I don't wanna be part of that any more. 41 00:03:05,602 --> 00:03:10,607 I'm stress-free right now, concentrating on my work, 42 00:03:10,690 --> 00:03:13,193 and I don't wanna participate in any of that stuff. 43 00:03:13,276 --> 00:03:16,780 Cheers for us. Cheers. Cheers for our house-warming party. 44 00:03:19,115 --> 00:03:21,743 We bought a house. Cheers. 45 00:03:27,290 --> 00:03:29,876 Hello. Hi. Hi. 46 00:03:29,959 --> 00:03:32,295 Hello. Hey, hey. 47 00:03:32,379 --> 00:03:36,549 Well, hello. MARISOL: Hi. Hello. Hello, hello. 48 00:03:36,633 --> 00:03:40,387 Hi, Mimi. Hey. Oh, my gosh. This place is beautiful. 49 00:03:40,470 --> 00:03:42,389 I'm so excited. Thank you. 50 00:03:42,472 --> 00:03:45,517 Cheers. Cheers. Thank you for coming. 51 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:48,937 Enjoy the party. Enjoy the food. We have a little bit of everything. 52 00:03:49,020 --> 00:03:53,316 There's cheese, meats... And there's my friends over here. 53 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:56,903 It's important for me to surround myself with successful people 54 00:03:56,986 --> 00:04:01,991 because that's how you build yourself in society. You're not gonna hang out with scumbags. 55 00:04:08,081 --> 00:04:10,250 George is a good friend of Chuck's, 56 00:04:10,333 --> 00:04:14,754 and he works in the mortgage industry with a lot of experience, 57 00:04:14,838 --> 00:04:18,717 so maybe I can have him as investors for the future. 58 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,969 Hello. Hi. 59 00:04:21,052 --> 00:04:22,721 Hey. How's it going? 60 00:04:26,933 --> 00:04:30,437 It's so pretty. Welcome. 61 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:34,315 I really need to maintain a good relationship with these businesspeople, 62 00:04:34,399 --> 00:04:37,277 so Libby's sisters, they better not mess me up. 63 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,821 CHUCK: Happy. Happy. 64 00:04:39,904 --> 00:04:43,366 Happy's here. Happy's here. 65 00:04:46,036 --> 00:04:48,872 Come show Happy our house. 66 00:04:48,955 --> 00:04:51,875 Hi, Dada. Hey, sweetie. Come here. Come here. 67 00:04:51,958 --> 00:04:53,752 I'm being summoned over here. 68 00:04:53,835 --> 00:04:57,797 What's up, buddy? You good, man? How you been? Here you go. 69 00:04:57,881 --> 00:05:01,885 So, did you guys have a chance to really get to know each other? 70 00:05:01,968 --> 00:05:04,012 How many random people are here? 71 00:05:08,099 --> 00:05:12,645 And how clearly can you see right through the reason why they're here? 72 00:05:12,729 --> 00:05:15,315 I know. These aren't his friends. No. 73 00:05:15,398 --> 00:05:20,320 He wants something from each one of these people. It's obvious. He's an opportunist. Opportunist. 74 00:05:20,403 --> 00:05:23,823 That's exactly what it is. 75 00:05:23,907 --> 00:05:27,369 I have no idea who these people are in this house. No clue. 76 00:05:27,452 --> 00:05:31,081 I feel like Libby and Andrei barely know them, too. 77 00:05:31,164 --> 00:05:33,375 Honestly, if it were me, I would feel awkward 78 00:05:33,458 --> 00:05:36,544 inviting my immigration attorney to my house-warming party. 79 00:05:36,628 --> 00:05:38,421 So, let's go upstairs. 80 00:05:38,505 --> 00:05:41,508 I wanna show you guys Ellie's room. It's so frickin' cute. 81 00:05:41,591 --> 00:05:46,554 Oh, I can't wait. That was the one I was looking forward to seeing. Oh, my gosh. 82 00:05:46,638 --> 00:05:49,974 This is Ellie's room. Oh, my gosh. 83 00:05:50,058 --> 00:05:53,770 And I really wanted... Oh, my gosh. Look at Ellie's room. 84 00:05:53,853 --> 00:05:57,065 I really wanted to do pink and white and gold. I love it. 85 00:05:57,148 --> 00:06:00,026 I love the lamp. Look at the lamp. Isn't this so cute? 86 00:06:00,110 --> 00:06:02,237 It's actually feathers. 87 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,739 Oh, my God. I love it. 88 00:06:04,823 --> 00:06:07,534 Ellie, do you wanna go see what's next door? 89 00:06:07,617 --> 00:06:10,578 Show them next door. Come on. 90 00:06:10,662 --> 00:06:14,416 Wow. There's so much room for activities. 91 00:06:14,499 --> 00:06:18,044 So, what's this room gonna be? Oh, this is a nice room. 92 00:06:18,128 --> 00:06:21,923 This room is going to be a guest/studio. 93 00:06:22,007 --> 00:06:24,384 Wait. I have a question. Piano? 94 00:06:24,467 --> 00:06:27,429 You're gonna do something with music, then? Yes. 95 00:06:27,512 --> 00:06:30,181 I'm thinking about getting more into it, 96 00:06:30,265 --> 00:06:34,060 and I just feel like it would really be, like, a stress reliever. 97 00:06:34,144 --> 00:06:36,396 Well, I don't know if I mentioned this before, 98 00:06:36,479 --> 00:06:39,566 but I used to sing professionally... Yes. 99 00:06:39,649 --> 00:06:41,443 ..so why don't you sing something? 100 00:06:41,526 --> 00:06:44,195 I'd love to hear it. I mean, if you're OK with it. 101 00:06:46,906 --> 00:06:48,700 Honestly, like, I'm not warmed up. 102 00:06:48,783 --> 00:06:50,452 What about From This Moment? 103 00:06:50,535 --> 00:06:53,288 That's what you sang at our wedding. It was amazing. 104 00:06:53,371 --> 00:06:56,207 Oh, my gosh. What a great song. 105 00:06:56,291 --> 00:06:58,668 I don't like being put on the spot. 106 00:06:58,752 --> 00:07:01,838 You know what? I understand what you're saying, 107 00:07:01,921 --> 00:07:05,383 but I really wanna hear just a little bit. 108 00:07:07,802 --> 00:07:10,847 If you're a professional, like me, 109 00:07:10,930 --> 00:07:13,767 when somebody asks you to sing, you just turn it on. 110 00:07:13,850 --> 00:07:15,518 You really do. 111 00:07:15,602 --> 00:07:17,812 So I was a little taken aback by that, 112 00:07:17,896 --> 00:07:20,231 but, you know, maybe she's just getting started, 113 00:07:20,315 --> 00:07:22,108 maybe it's just more of a hobby 114 00:07:22,192 --> 00:07:24,611 than something she wants to do as a profession. 115 00:07:24,694 --> 00:07:26,488 You really have to put it out there. 116 00:07:26,571 --> 00:07:29,908 So, what are you thinking of doing with music, 117 00:07:29,991 --> 00:07:33,620 like, what exactly...? Is it pop, or what are you thinking of trying? 118 00:07:33,703 --> 00:07:37,415 I'm actually thinking of doing nursery rhymes. 119 00:07:40,418 --> 00:07:42,879 That's interesting. 120 00:07:42,962 --> 00:07:47,634 Yeah. I've noticed that Ellie actually likes to sing, too, 121 00:07:47,717 --> 00:07:52,514 and so I thought it might be fun to do nursery rhymes with her, and make, like, videos 122 00:07:52,597 --> 00:07:56,101 to just, like, things that we grew up listening to, 123 00:07:56,184 --> 00:07:58,311 and I'm like, "I can sing that to you." 124 00:07:58,395 --> 00:08:01,815 I just feel it will be a great way for us to bond, 125 00:08:01,898 --> 00:08:06,069 and something that I know would make me happier. Hm. 126 00:08:12,575 --> 00:08:15,745 It's a really new idea. Right. 127 00:08:15,829 --> 00:08:20,834 I know that singing nursery rhymes is kind of out there and sounds ridiculous. 128 00:08:20,917 --> 00:08:26,756 People think that I'm crazy, but there's a market for children. 129 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:31,469 Somebody's got to do it, so if I have the voice for it and I can do it, why not? 130 00:08:42,605 --> 00:08:44,315 (SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE) 131 00:10:11,945 --> 00:10:16,700 JENNY: I don't understand what Sumit's mom is saying right now, 132 00:10:16,783 --> 00:10:19,452 but it doesn't seem like it's going very well. 133 00:10:19,536 --> 00:10:25,500 But I did understand that she's still denying that she ever said that she loved me. 134 00:10:25,583 --> 00:10:28,211 That's very hurtful. 135 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,233 (JENNY SPEAKS) 136 00:12:55,316 --> 00:12:56,985 (SUMIT SPEAKS) 137 00:13:24,346 --> 00:13:29,100 This is exactly the reason why I didn't want them to come over here and for him to tell them 138 00:13:29,184 --> 00:13:33,438 because I knew that his mom was gonna get hurt, and he was going to go after her. 139 00:13:33,521 --> 00:13:38,526 I'm left sitting by myself not knowing what's happening. 140 00:13:38,610 --> 00:13:40,862 What about me? I need to be comforted too. 141 00:13:40,945 --> 00:13:47,160 It does scare me that Sumit is choosing his mom over me again. 142 00:14:23,405 --> 00:14:25,824 (SADHNA SNIFFLES) 143 00:14:43,174 --> 00:14:43,435 2 00:14:15.480 -- 00:14:19.160 align:middle line:90% position:50% ED: This outfit will make or break this wedding. 144 00:14:55,937 --> 00:14:58,064 I think we have found the one. 145 00:14:58,148 --> 00:15:00,191 It looks like it was meant for your wife. 146 00:15:00,275 --> 00:15:02,402 Oh, my God. You're so awesome. 147 00:15:02,485 --> 00:15:05,655 Are you ready? Let's do it. 148 00:15:07,365 --> 00:15:09,325 Ooh. Oh, my God. 149 00:15:09,409 --> 00:15:13,997 I love it. This is the one. You're the one. 150 00:15:19,544 --> 00:15:25,842 Baby, I love the red bowtie... Mm-hm. ..the grey collar, and he can be our ring bearer. 151 00:15:25,925 --> 00:15:31,306 I'm Ed, also known as Big Ed, and I'm a very young 56. 152 00:15:31,389 --> 00:15:33,725 I'm Liz. I'm 29 years old. 153 00:15:33,808 --> 00:15:35,477 I thought you were 49. 154 00:15:38,021 --> 00:15:39,689 You look so cute. 155 00:15:39,773 --> 00:15:42,817 Liz and I have been engaged for four months. 156 00:15:42,901 --> 00:15:46,196 It was on-again, off-again for a year and a half prior to that, 157 00:15:46,279 --> 00:15:50,158 but now we're engaged for real. No more off and on. 158 00:15:52,077 --> 00:15:55,830 Oh, my God. Look, he's checking himself out. This is absolutely perfect. 159 00:15:57,874 --> 00:16:01,503 Leon. He'll be the perfect ring bearer. 160 00:16:01,586 --> 00:16:03,963 I've struggled with love all my life 161 00:16:04,047 --> 00:16:09,219 until I went into a restaurant one day and met the girl of my real dreams, 162 00:16:09,302 --> 00:16:14,224 and of course, she fell in love with me immediately. No. I dodged you for months. 163 00:16:14,307 --> 00:16:19,354 I think you're amazing, and I wanna ask you out on a date. 164 00:16:19,437 --> 00:16:23,066 Um... 165 00:16:23,149 --> 00:16:27,153 When I first met Ed, he came in kind of sad. 166 00:16:27,237 --> 00:16:31,991 The first couple months, he always brought women into the restaurant 167 00:16:32,075 --> 00:16:34,911 as a hangout or date. 168 00:16:34,994 --> 00:16:37,789 Why was that sad? I wasn't sad. 169 00:16:37,872 --> 00:16:39,874 It was never the same girl, 170 00:16:39,958 --> 00:16:45,839 but after Ed let his guard down with me, 171 00:16:45,922 --> 00:16:49,217 I got to know Ed and not Big Ed. 172 00:16:49,300 --> 00:16:51,511 So, how about lunch tomorrow? 173 00:16:51,594 --> 00:16:54,305 Brunch? 174 00:16:54,389 --> 00:16:58,143 Brunch. I love it. Brunch. OK. OK. 175 00:16:58,226 --> 00:17:02,355 There were a lot of things that I was working through 176 00:17:02,439 --> 00:17:04,649 when we were together. 177 00:17:04,733 --> 00:17:07,569 I was insecure, jealous, 178 00:17:07,652 --> 00:17:11,740 and it started to affect our ability 179 00:17:11,823 --> 00:17:14,576 to be in a functional relationship. 180 00:17:14,659 --> 00:17:18,413 So, I actually thought you were on a date, and I'm like, 181 00:17:18,496 --> 00:17:21,958 "Here we go again. I like somebody, and it's gonna fail." 182 00:17:22,042 --> 00:17:23,752 There's nothing between us. 183 00:17:23,835 --> 00:17:28,131 OK. Hold on one second. Then I saw you guys walking to your car one night. 184 00:17:28,214 --> 00:17:30,342 I'm not gonna stop hanging out, 185 00:17:30,425 --> 00:17:33,887 like, having my own life, and being independent. 186 00:17:35,263 --> 00:17:39,100 So, eventually, our fighting became too much, 187 00:17:39,184 --> 00:17:43,355 so I decided to end it once and for all. 188 00:17:43,438 --> 00:17:49,444 I basically broke up with her eight times via text. 189 00:17:49,527 --> 00:17:52,739 Shit, they were always texts. As the texter. 190 00:17:52,822 --> 00:17:55,450 Right. 191 00:17:55,533 --> 00:17:59,120 And then, Teddy passes away, my dog. 192 00:17:59,204 --> 00:18:02,082 He just kept looking at me that night 193 00:18:02,165 --> 00:18:05,585 like he knew he was going somewhere, 194 00:18:05,669 --> 00:18:09,506 and I probably dozed off for, like, maybe 30 minutes, 195 00:18:09,589 --> 00:18:12,217 and I woke up, and he was gone. 196 00:18:15,053 --> 00:18:21,059 So, Liz was one of the very first people to reach out to me. 197 00:18:21,142 --> 00:18:25,313 I just at least needed to show you 198 00:18:25,397 --> 00:18:29,234 that he was loved, and you were loved. 199 00:18:29,317 --> 00:18:31,111 One thing led to another. 200 00:18:31,194 --> 00:18:35,907 Yep. Bow, bang, hello. 201 00:18:35,990 --> 00:18:38,118 Yay. 202 00:18:38,201 --> 00:18:40,829 Sucker's gotta put up with me now. 203 00:18:52,340 --> 00:18:54,342 You look great, baby. 204 00:18:54,426 --> 00:18:57,721 How are you doing? Good. You smell good, too. 205 00:18:57,804 --> 00:19:00,724 We just finished happy hour. You just finished happy hour? 206 00:19:00,807 --> 00:19:02,726 We're about to start second happy hour. 207 00:19:02,809 --> 00:19:07,897 Now that we're engaged, we want to throw an engagement party 208 00:19:07,981 --> 00:19:11,568 to kind of celebrate this moment of us making it this far. 209 00:19:11,651 --> 00:19:15,280 So today, we're going to go out and check out a venue. 210 00:19:15,363 --> 00:19:21,661 I want great food, classy environment and Malbec. 211 00:19:27,292 --> 00:19:30,253 Oh, this is nice. We call this our sunset rooftop deck. 212 00:19:30,337 --> 00:19:32,505 This is beautiful. Sunset's that way. 213 00:19:32,589 --> 00:19:36,676 I think this might be a good space for the size of group you have. 214 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:40,221 So, you're completely private up here. I love that part. 215 00:19:40,305 --> 00:19:41,973 Why don't I let you be? 216 00:19:42,057 --> 00:19:45,268 And if you have any questions, I'll be around tonight. Very nice. 217 00:19:45,352 --> 00:19:49,481 Nice to meet you all. Thank you so much. You're welcome. 218 00:19:49,564 --> 00:19:53,068 Tawny and J.Lo are two of my best friends. 219 00:19:53,151 --> 00:19:56,196 They are my bridesmaids. 220 00:19:56,279 --> 00:20:00,492 They were with me at my darkest days through my breakup with Ed. 221 00:20:00,575 --> 00:20:05,455 Got some shots all round. These are Reposados. So fancy, Ed. 222 00:20:05,538 --> 00:20:08,583 I understand that everybody in my world 223 00:20:08,667 --> 00:20:13,213 is getting used to the idea that Ed and I are back together, but I do appreciate their support 224 00:20:13,296 --> 00:20:18,301 because I know a lot of people in Ed's world don't approve of the engagement. 225 00:20:18,385 --> 00:20:22,180 Here's to the importance of friendship... And love. 226 00:20:22,263 --> 00:20:27,268 Thank you for being a part of our wonderful day. Thank you so much for having us. 227 00:20:29,145 --> 00:20:32,273 In the beginning, I was sceptical when I got that phone call. 228 00:20:32,357 --> 00:20:35,151 Liz called, she's like, "I have something to tell you," 229 00:20:35,235 --> 00:20:36,903 and I'm like, "What?" 230 00:20:36,986 --> 00:20:40,407 And then she's like, "We're engaged," and I was shocked. 231 00:20:40,490 --> 00:20:46,579 I had very strong feelings because I saw how hurt she was and what she went through. 232 00:20:46,663 --> 00:20:50,041 I was kind of hoping she'd be like, "I would never go back with him." 233 00:20:50,125 --> 00:20:52,877 I mean, I hope he doesn't break up with her a ninth time. 234 00:20:55,588 --> 00:20:59,342 There was eight breakups. There was eight frickin' breakups. That's a lot. 235 00:20:59,426 --> 00:21:01,678 That's a lot of breakups. 236 00:21:01,761 --> 00:21:04,305 So what's gonna make it different this time? 237 00:21:04,389 --> 00:21:06,808 Good question. 238 00:21:06,891 --> 00:21:09,144 Most of it was my issues, 239 00:21:09,227 --> 00:21:13,481 so I felt I had to grow in order to be with her, 240 00:21:13,565 --> 00:21:15,900 but I realised she was what I wanted, 241 00:21:15,984 --> 00:21:18,862 and I knew I could handle it. I knew I was ready. 242 00:21:19,988 --> 00:21:26,369 And he's the one that I love, and he's the one that I want to be with. 243 00:21:28,371 --> 00:21:31,708 I love Ed because... 244 00:21:31,791 --> 00:21:35,879 Yes, we had a really rough patch for a while, 245 00:21:35,962 --> 00:21:42,344 but Ed has shown me love in ways that I've never had with any previous relationship. 246 00:21:42,427 --> 00:21:46,264 He shows his love for me too with the love that he has for my daughter, 247 00:21:46,348 --> 00:21:50,518 and I think that was the biggest thing that made me fall in love with Ed. 248 00:21:50,602 --> 00:21:54,147 And now we have a party to plan. Who's all coming? 249 00:21:54,230 --> 00:21:58,610 My grandparents are gonna, hopefully, be meeting his family. Wow. 250 00:21:58,693 --> 00:22:01,237 So, on my side, 251 00:22:01,321 --> 00:22:06,868 the announcement of our engagement didn't quite go as expected, like, I really don't know. 252 00:22:06,951 --> 00:22:10,372 My daughter, she was, naturally, shocked and upset. 253 00:22:10,455 --> 00:22:15,168 She called everybody before he... Before I had an opportunity... To call people. 254 00:22:15,251 --> 00:22:17,796 ..to tell my brothers, to tell my mom, 255 00:22:17,879 --> 00:22:20,131 and my buddy Rich, my ex-buddy Rich. 256 00:22:20,215 --> 00:22:24,886 They just don't understand that the person sitting next to me is my future. 257 00:22:24,969 --> 00:22:30,892 This is who I want, and that's the conversation I'm getting ready to have with Rich. 258 00:22:30,975 --> 00:22:33,061 I'm like, "I thought you were my friend." 259 00:22:33,144 --> 00:22:35,271 After Liz and I got back together, 260 00:22:35,355 --> 00:22:39,943 a lot of my friends and family didn't understand why. 261 00:22:40,026 --> 00:22:44,489 When we first broke up, Liz said a lot of bad things about me, 262 00:22:44,572 --> 00:22:49,661 and I think they're afraid that she's gonna do that again. 263 00:22:49,744 --> 00:22:52,956 I've tried to reach out to my daughter Tiffany, and she... 264 00:22:53,039 --> 00:22:56,292 at this moment, she's not taking my calls. 265 00:22:56,376 --> 00:23:00,463 And Rich is somebody that I've known for 15 years, 266 00:23:00,547 --> 00:23:05,510 and after we got engaged, he said a lot of bad things, 267 00:23:05,593 --> 00:23:11,558 and I wanna know why he can't accept the fact that I've chosen Liz. 268 00:23:11,641 --> 00:23:16,980 So, I'm gonna say, "Look, Rich. I thought you were my friend. 269 00:23:17,063 --> 00:23:20,442 Quit talking to my mom. Let me have a conversation..." 270 00:23:20,525 --> 00:23:24,779 Wait. Rich is talking to your mom? He talks to her, like, every day. That's bizarre. 271 00:23:24,863 --> 00:23:29,242 How does that make you feel? It's very bizarre. What is going on with your mom and you? 272 00:23:29,325 --> 00:23:32,454 So, she kind of felt like, "Oh, you're picking Liz over me." 273 00:23:32,537 --> 00:23:37,417 I'm like, "I'm picking me over me, and I'm in love with Liz." 274 00:23:37,500 --> 00:23:40,670 To be honest, we're not in a good place. 275 00:23:40,754 --> 00:23:46,801 Unfortunately, for my mom, when she found out we got engaged, 276 00:23:46,885 --> 00:23:49,971 I think her reaction was, "You gotta be kidding me." 277 00:23:50,055 --> 00:23:54,809 We, on both sides, got rid of negative people. 278 00:23:54,893 --> 00:23:57,270 His mom's no longer living at the house. OK. 279 00:23:57,354 --> 00:24:01,024 Ed, how does your mom feel about your engagement to Liz? 280 00:24:01,107 --> 00:24:05,362 She's not happy because she feels like I'm choosing Liz over her. 281 00:24:07,781 --> 00:24:11,201 I had so many people telling me how I felt about Liz, 282 00:24:11,284 --> 00:24:13,787 and they wanted me to break up with her. 283 00:24:13,870 --> 00:24:18,458 I don't like the fact that I feel like I am being blamed for something, 284 00:24:18,541 --> 00:24:22,545 and I came back into this relationship... 285 00:24:24,089 --> 00:24:27,467 It wasn't fair to Liz... No. Yeah. 286 00:24:27,550 --> 00:24:30,053 ..because now she has... she's taking the blame. 287 00:24:30,136 --> 00:24:33,807 Now she's getting put as the villain, and that's not fair. 288 00:24:36,351 --> 00:24:39,145 In the past, when Ed and I would break up, 289 00:24:39,229 --> 00:24:42,482 he would talk about all our problems to everybody, 290 00:24:42,565 --> 00:24:45,151 and I always looked like the bad person, 291 00:24:45,235 --> 00:24:48,446 and they would convince him just to break up with me. 292 00:24:48,530 --> 00:24:54,661 So there is a fear that these people can come back into his life 293 00:24:54,744 --> 00:24:58,748 and convince him not to be with me. 294 00:25:02,544 --> 00:25:02,804 2 00:24:06.920 -- 00:24:09.080 align:middle line:90% position:50% Mylah, you ready to go? 295 00:25:11,052 --> 00:25:14,055 You look like such a cutie in that little dress. 296 00:25:22,939 --> 00:25:25,900 Are you excited to go to this vineyard or what? (YARA SPEAKS) 297 00:25:25,984 --> 00:25:30,488 This will be one of our first dates out we had in a while. 298 00:25:30,572 --> 00:25:32,657 It's nice to get some alone time, right? 299 00:25:34,284 --> 00:25:35,952 I mean, enjoyable time. 300 00:25:36,036 --> 00:25:38,747 It's better than sitting at home all day. 301 00:25:38,830 --> 00:25:41,332 Today, we are going to a winery. 302 00:25:41,416 --> 00:25:43,126 I am ready to drink some wine. 303 00:25:43,209 --> 00:25:45,128 Yara had a night out with her friends, 304 00:25:45,211 --> 00:25:48,590 I've been at home playing dad, so I want a day to have some fun. 305 00:25:51,968 --> 00:25:55,597 Yeah, absolutely. 306 00:25:57,766 --> 00:26:00,185 I don't think anybody will wanna buy my liver. 307 00:26:05,774 --> 00:26:08,026 I guess my mom had this idea in her head 308 00:26:08,109 --> 00:26:10,945 that people from Ukraine just cut people open 309 00:26:11,029 --> 00:26:13,865 and sold their organs. Yeah, that's what I look like. 310 00:26:13,948 --> 00:26:17,535 You told me you would cut my dick off if I cheated on you and sell it. 311 00:26:17,619 --> 00:26:19,829 Yeah, that's different. It's different? 312 00:26:25,669 --> 00:26:30,215 Yeah, so you never can get it back and put it back. Just saying. 313 00:26:30,298 --> 00:26:33,927 It would be cooler if we were going without Mylah. 314 00:26:34,010 --> 00:26:36,888 I guess it is what it is. I know. 315 00:26:36,971 --> 00:26:40,141 We went from having a babysitter to no babysitter. I know. 316 00:26:41,810 --> 00:26:46,106 Mrs Gwen is the only person who I trust with Mylah. 317 00:26:46,189 --> 00:26:49,150 So, we kind of had my mom babysitting every now and then, 318 00:26:49,234 --> 00:26:52,529 but we got into an argument 319 00:26:52,612 --> 00:26:55,699 and since then, we haven't been speaking much. 320 00:26:56,783 --> 00:27:00,578 I know it wasn't your intention to change the relationship with your mom, 321 00:27:00,662 --> 00:27:03,581 but the same time after you fight with her, 322 00:27:03,665 --> 00:27:06,209 we don't have a good relationship. 323 00:27:32,569 --> 00:27:34,696 You know, with this situation with my mom, 324 00:27:34,779 --> 00:27:38,491 I don't agree with everything from either one of y'all. I think... 325 00:27:41,244 --> 00:27:44,914 I'm in an awkward position because I have to take somebody's side. 326 00:27:49,419 --> 00:27:53,089 OK. Well, I did in the end, and you keep telling me so many times. OK. 327 00:27:54,716 --> 00:27:57,635 In my country, when you have kids, 328 00:27:57,719 --> 00:28:02,640 your mother-in-law, your mother, they just come over to your house 329 00:28:02,724 --> 00:28:04,726 and try to help without you asking. 330 00:28:04,809 --> 00:28:06,644 I honestly felt the same way. 331 00:28:06,728 --> 00:28:08,730 Why would I have to ask for a babysitter? 332 00:28:08,813 --> 00:28:11,608 People would just show up at my house to watch Mylah. 333 00:28:11,691 --> 00:28:15,695 That's how I dreamed of it to happen. I'm sure your mumma loves Mylah so much, 334 00:28:15,779 --> 00:28:21,659 but it's just the fact that she knows that I had nobody besides her... 335 00:28:27,499 --> 00:28:29,542 I agree. I understand. I took your side. 336 00:28:39,511 --> 00:28:41,638 I know. 337 00:28:41,721 --> 00:28:44,641 Let's just forget about that. Let's go out today, have fun. 338 00:28:44,724 --> 00:28:47,977 It just hurt my feelings. I know. I hear you getting emotional. 339 00:28:48,061 --> 00:28:53,024 It hurts my feelings because I love her, and I don't wanna fight with her. 340 00:28:54,150 --> 00:28:57,946 I feel like my mom sometimes thought she was around too much. 341 00:28:58,029 --> 00:29:00,573 She drove three hours to come to our house to see us, 342 00:29:00,657 --> 00:29:04,327 and she thought she was doing what we expected her to do, 343 00:29:04,411 --> 00:29:08,248 but I understand where Yara's coming from, especially when I leave for work. 344 00:29:08,331 --> 00:29:10,291 I know she needs support from my family. 345 00:29:10,375 --> 00:29:12,460 She can't do this alone. 346 00:29:12,544 --> 00:29:15,213 This is the first big fight I've ever had with my mom. 347 00:29:15,296 --> 00:29:18,216 I don't feel good about it, and it's very important for me 348 00:29:18,299 --> 00:29:21,136 to really fix this relationship with my mother. 349 00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:31,855 You thinking your mom will be here, all our problems will go away, 350 00:29:31,938 --> 00:29:33,940 and we'll have a babysitter all the time? 351 00:29:34,024 --> 00:29:38,028 Yeah, it will be a pleasure for her to stay with Mylah. We don't need to even ask. 352 00:29:42,782 --> 00:29:46,953 I wanna go too. I think we're past time that she needs to see Mylah... 353 00:29:47,037 --> 00:29:48,913 Yeah. 354 00:29:48,997 --> 00:29:53,668 ..but I don't know if the trip going there is the best idea for you without a green card. 355 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,979 (PRAYS IN OTHER LANGUAGE) (REPEATS PRAYER) 356 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,110 (PRAYS IN OTHER LANGUAGE) (REPEATS PRAYER) 357 00:31:00,193 --> 00:31:03,029 # RAPHAEL LAKE & AARON LEVY: This Is A Warning 358 00:31:16,459 --> 00:31:19,629 My name is Usman Umar, AKA Sojaboy. 359 00:31:19,713 --> 00:31:23,967 I am 33 years old, and I am from Nigeria. 360 00:31:24,050 --> 00:31:28,680 My primary job is my music that everybody know me with. Superstar Sojaboy. 361 00:31:28,763 --> 00:31:31,808 (USMAN SINGING) 362 00:32:07,510 --> 00:32:10,096 She was like, "Hey, I like your music. I'm a super fan." 363 00:32:29,074 --> 00:32:32,160 I like you a lot. Ah, I like you too. Thank you. 364 00:32:32,243 --> 00:32:35,789 Huh? Thank you, but I love you. But I'm glad... No. 365 00:32:35,872 --> 00:32:38,291 You know what I'm saying? Yeah. 366 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,771 If I should ask you, do you miss anything about me? 367 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,443 (ZARA SPEAKS) Are you sure about that? 368 00:33:05,527 --> 00:33:08,238 Yeah. I'm positive. 369 00:33:15,578 --> 00:33:18,665 So I actually invited Kimberly to come to Nigeria, 370 00:33:18,748 --> 00:33:23,461 and she come down to Nigeria, and then that is when I know the love is real, 371 00:33:23,545 --> 00:33:25,213 and she's the one for me. 372 00:33:28,508 --> 00:33:30,677 Why do I love this man so much? 373 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,429 What? 374 00:33:32,512 --> 00:33:35,265 What I appreciate about Kimberly 375 00:33:35,348 --> 00:33:40,353 is the love, the loyalty, and the support she have for me. 376 00:33:40,437 --> 00:33:43,398 I'm not going after beauty or after sexy. 377 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:55,410 And I have never had any connection and strong relationship with anyone like Kimberly. 378 00:34:08,673 --> 00:34:12,594 My family knows about Kimberly, especially my mom... 379 00:34:31,821 --> 00:34:35,533 So, when she comes, I'm bringing her to the family. 380 00:34:39,954 --> 00:34:43,875 And his opinion is very, very important to the whole family. 381 00:34:47,295 --> 00:34:51,508 So I actually went to Mohammed to help me to talk to Mom, 382 00:34:51,591 --> 00:34:56,054 so we can get the blessing, me and Kimberly, to get engaged. 383 00:35:06,272 --> 00:35:09,109 I am trying to bring her here... 384 00:35:12,237 --> 00:35:14,531 ..and then we get the blessing to get engaged. 385 00:35:15,990 --> 00:35:17,659 After getting engaged, 386 00:35:17,742 --> 00:35:21,371 there'll be visa given to me, then I'll go to America. We'll get married. 387 00:35:21,454 --> 00:35:24,124 (GASPS) 388 00:35:30,130 --> 00:35:32,674 Somehow. She's 51. 51? 389 00:35:32,757 --> 00:35:35,176 Why? 390 00:35:46,980 --> 00:35:52,902 And you know our mom, she's very eager to see your children. My children. 391 00:35:55,655 --> 00:35:57,407 So, this what I'm thinking about. 392 00:35:58,491 --> 00:36:02,579 Getting married to her doesn't mean that I'm going to be denied for having children, 393 00:36:02,662 --> 00:36:07,834 like, I can easily get another wife when I feel like I'm ready. Huh? 394 00:36:17,802 --> 00:36:20,138 She was married before. 395 00:36:20,221 --> 00:36:23,725 She have a child, and he's grown, 396 00:36:23,808 --> 00:36:27,479 and she cannot deny me for me to have that kind of joy and happiness, 397 00:36:27,562 --> 00:36:29,230 so she can't stop me. 398 00:36:29,314 --> 00:36:32,192 Are you sure? Very sure. 399 00:36:59,844 --> 00:37:02,472 So, I have the plan... 400 00:37:11,856 --> 00:37:16,986 How long do you expect yourself to start having children? 401 00:37:25,161 --> 00:37:27,497 Don't forget you are getting older. 402 00:37:30,250 --> 00:37:35,255 OK. I can make an effort. OK. 403 00:37:43,054 --> 00:37:46,266 I hope taking a second wife 404 00:37:46,349 --> 00:37:50,270 will help my family allow me to marry Kimberly 405 00:37:50,353 --> 00:37:53,982 because I can't get engaged without my family blessing, especially my mom. 406 00:37:54,065 --> 00:37:56,443 That means if they say no, it's no. 407 00:38:06,661 --> 00:38:09,581 # DANIEL FARRANT AND NICK KINGSLEY: Kill Em With Love 408 00:38:28,558 --> 00:38:33,229 What can I get you? I'm gonna get the Thai Silver Tip. Yeah. Absolutely. 409 00:38:33,313 --> 00:38:37,776 All right. We'll call those out for you at the end of the bar. Appreciate it. Thanks a lot. 410 00:38:37,859 --> 00:38:41,946 I'm pretty worried about the meeting with my ex-wife. 411 00:38:42,030 --> 00:38:44,324 Just on the ride here, 412 00:38:44,407 --> 00:38:48,578 Shaeeda had a defensive demeanour about herself, 413 00:38:48,661 --> 00:38:51,623 and it's really important to check those emotions. 414 00:38:51,706 --> 00:38:56,378 If Shaeeda and Shahidah can't put their differences to the side, 415 00:38:56,461 --> 00:38:59,255 I don't know if they'll ever get along, 416 00:38:59,339 --> 00:39:04,803 and I cannot have a toxic environment for my children. 417 00:39:04,886 --> 00:39:07,430 Mmm. 418 00:39:10,684 --> 00:39:14,729 All day? Mm-hm. Mmm. 419 00:39:17,816 --> 00:39:21,861 Is everything OK? Why you keep asking me that? 420 00:39:21,945 --> 00:39:28,076 Because, babe, I feel like every time I bring up the conversation with Shahidah, 421 00:39:28,159 --> 00:39:30,245 you don't wanna hear it. 422 00:39:30,328 --> 00:39:33,540 Um, I think... 423 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,044 ..peace is something that's vital for me. 424 00:39:38,128 --> 00:39:41,506 Like, when you got to saying even in the car, like, you know, 425 00:39:41,589 --> 00:39:44,342 to the degree where it only matters if you happy... 426 00:39:44,426 --> 00:39:48,471 It's like, "Well, what about me? Hello? Here. Over here." 427 00:39:48,555 --> 00:39:51,266 At the same time, you kind of get upset how I feel. 428 00:39:52,642 --> 00:39:57,313 Shahidah definitely insinuated that I am here for the wrong reasons, 429 00:39:57,397 --> 00:39:59,441 like I'm here to take what Bilal has, 430 00:39:59,524 --> 00:40:03,361 and she thought it was best that we sign a prenup, 431 00:40:03,445 --> 00:40:06,781 but I'm not gonna take any food away from her kids' mouths. 432 00:40:06,865 --> 00:40:12,662 I have to know that you're not here for just what he has. 433 00:40:12,746 --> 00:40:17,250 I have a life in Trinidad. I'm very known in my community, 434 00:40:17,334 --> 00:40:21,921 so me trying to get what he has has nothing to do with that, 435 00:40:22,005 --> 00:40:25,925 but I understand you have concerns from a mother protecting your children. 436 00:40:26,009 --> 00:40:28,970 You know, the kids have been here, I have been here, 437 00:40:29,054 --> 00:40:33,183 so I'm coming from that point of view where he needs to protect his self, 438 00:40:33,266 --> 00:40:35,268 and for the children's sake. 439 00:40:36,853 --> 00:40:42,317 Her approach was very aggressive, very hostile. 440 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,612 Why try to bully me, you know, 441 00:40:45,695 --> 00:40:49,532 because you have the upper hand as the American woman? 442 00:40:49,616 --> 00:40:51,951 Like, that is not right, and it's not fair, 443 00:40:52,035 --> 00:40:55,747 so I felt like... (SIGHS) 444 00:41:08,176 --> 00:41:11,805 After that day, I said, 445 00:41:11,888 --> 00:41:16,810 "I'm not gonna make anyone bully me or take advantage of me ever again in my life." 446 00:41:31,366 --> 00:41:33,326 (SPEAKS OTHER LANGUAGE) 447 00:41:33,410 --> 00:41:36,413 How are you? I'm good. That's good. 448 00:41:40,125 --> 00:41:41,793 So...? 449 00:41:41,876 --> 00:41:45,839 What's going on? Nothing much. 450 00:41:55,223 --> 00:41:58,435 The last meeting that I had with Bilal, 451 00:41:58,518 --> 00:42:04,649 he told me that I overstepped the friendship bound with Shaeeda. 452 00:42:04,733 --> 00:42:07,569 I was just trying to look out for his wellbeing 453 00:42:07,652 --> 00:42:11,114 and his best interests, as well as the kids'. 454 00:42:18,913 --> 00:42:22,625 Apologising for what? No. 455 00:42:24,377 --> 00:42:27,505 So, how's everything going with y'all? 456 00:42:27,589 --> 00:42:30,842 I'm good. I was just looking forward to meeting you again, 457 00:42:30,925 --> 00:42:33,219 hopefully on pleasant terms. 458 00:42:33,303 --> 00:42:38,308 So, we had an engagement with when you came to my home. 459 00:42:41,019 --> 00:42:43,188 I felt disrespected. 460 00:42:43,271 --> 00:42:47,484 OK. What did I say to make you hurt and upset? 461 00:42:47,567 --> 00:42:50,070 I think it's not what you say but how you said it. 462 00:42:53,823 --> 00:42:59,829 Uh, Shaeeda.. Uh, Shahidah... ...did I yell at you? 463 00:43:01,581 --> 00:43:05,710 I don't know if you don't see yourself when you're angry, but you were not peaceful. 464 00:43:05,794 --> 00:43:09,214 You came with the boxing gloves on. 465 00:43:10,882 --> 00:43:14,386 I'm not about to sit here and stand for that cos that's not what I did. 466 00:43:23,770 --> 00:43:28,233 Shahidah wants to sit here and be a victim. 467 00:43:28,316 --> 00:43:32,320 She wants to get away with her bad behaviour, and I'm not going to put it to rest. 468 00:43:32,404 --> 00:43:36,741 Acknowledge that you hurt my feelings, apologise, and move on. 469 00:43:36,825 --> 00:43:42,539 You're not gonna play me out to be a liar when I'm not lying. 470 00:43:42,622 --> 00:43:46,918 I think, as people, sometimes we may do things, we may say things 471 00:43:47,002 --> 00:43:52,799 that another person may take it another different way. 472 00:43:52,882 --> 00:43:57,303 I mean, it's like you came ranting and raving. 473 00:43:57,387 --> 00:43:59,681 I was just, like, standing in the kitchen like, 474 00:43:59,764 --> 00:44:01,808 "I don't want her coming back." 475 00:44:01,891 --> 00:44:04,060 I was ready to ban you from my home. 476 00:44:04,144 --> 00:44:07,105 I was like, "She can't come back here and behave like that." 477 00:44:07,188 --> 00:44:11,943 Ban me from... My home. ..from your home? Yeah. OK. 478 00:44:12,027 --> 00:44:16,614 That's to tell you how hurt and upset I was. 479 00:44:21,536 --> 00:44:26,249 This conversation is no longer a conversation. It's just an argument. 480 00:44:26,332 --> 00:44:30,587 Honestly, I'm not saying much because I'm trying to stay neutral. 481 00:44:30,670 --> 00:44:35,759 I want to get along with my ex-wife, we have children, and we wanna make sure all that is peaceful, 482 00:44:35,842 --> 00:44:37,677 but also, I wanna support my wife. 483 00:44:37,761 --> 00:44:40,388 It's the person I sleep in a bed with every night. 484 00:44:40,472 --> 00:44:44,059 You guys are grown adults, 485 00:44:44,142 --> 00:44:50,190 and there shouldn't be any bad blood between either one of y'all. 486 00:44:50,273 --> 00:44:53,026 I don't want it to be, like, bad blood between us. 487 00:44:53,109 --> 00:44:57,197 I was looking to get to know you, have a good relationship with you. 488 00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,200 I was actually hoping for us to be cordial with each other. 489 00:45:00,283 --> 00:45:03,244 I wanted us to be compatible for the sake of the kids, 490 00:45:03,328 --> 00:45:09,334 but I just want you to acknowledge the fact that when you came inside my home, you came with rage, 491 00:45:09,417 --> 00:45:11,461 you were not cordial, you were not polite. 492 00:45:11,544 --> 00:45:13,755 That's all I want, for you to acknowledge it. 493 00:45:13,838 --> 00:45:15,799 That's not true. 494 00:45:20,845 --> 00:45:23,723 I'm not gonna apologise for something that I didn't do. 495 00:45:23,807 --> 00:45:25,809 Then why did you come here? 496 00:45:25,892 --> 00:45:30,855 I came here to actually clear the air, but I'm not apologising... 497 00:45:30,939 --> 00:45:33,233 I'm done. I'm literally done. 498 00:45:41,324 --> 00:45:43,702 Real quick. Real quick. 499 00:45:52,836 --> 00:45:56,172 Why don't we go get some more Champagne? 500 00:45:56,256 --> 00:45:58,550 That sounds like a great idea. 501 00:46:09,853 --> 00:46:12,897 Overall, our house-warming party has been a success so far, 502 00:46:12,981 --> 00:46:17,569 except the awkward grilling about me wanting to do nursery rhymes, 503 00:46:17,652 --> 00:46:19,821 but it's been a great night. 504 00:46:19,904 --> 00:46:22,949 Good to see you. It was very nice to meet you. Thank you. 505 00:46:23,033 --> 00:46:25,368 GEORGE: Thank you very much for having us. 506 00:46:25,452 --> 00:46:30,081 It was nice to see my sisters and my mom have a good time, 507 00:46:30,165 --> 00:46:35,795 and it was nice to see my husband mingle and network with everybody there, 508 00:46:35,879 --> 00:46:39,090 and I feel like everyone had a good time. 509 00:46:39,174 --> 00:46:41,551 Jenn, are you cleaning? What's happening? 510 00:46:41,634 --> 00:46:45,305 I am cleaning cos I'm trying to get the fuck out of here. What's happening? 511 00:46:45,388 --> 00:46:48,892 That was a great house-warming. I feel very warm towards your home. 512 00:46:48,975 --> 00:46:52,354 And the caterer was impeccable. And there was no drama. 513 00:46:52,437 --> 00:46:56,691 Because you keep your mouth shut. Because I kept my mouth shut? 514 00:46:56,775 --> 00:47:01,154 Everybody kept their mouth shut. There was one person that wasn't here, 515 00:47:01,237 --> 00:47:04,532 so, I'm just saying, it might have something to do with that. 516 00:47:06,576 --> 00:47:08,328 Loud person? 517 00:47:08,411 --> 00:47:13,750 I don't think that that would be an issue. Mom, you're in la-la land. 518 00:47:13,833 --> 00:47:17,045 At a house-warming party? No. Charlie would not be an issue. 519 00:47:17,128 --> 00:47:20,632 I understand it's your son and you have your rose-coloured glasses on, 520 00:47:20,715 --> 00:47:22,634 but you need to be realistic. 521 00:47:22,717 --> 00:47:27,472 It's not even that. Andrei... It is that. ..I think you and Charlie need to bury the hatchet. 522 00:47:27,555 --> 00:47:29,307 Uh, no. 523 00:47:29,391 --> 00:47:32,018 Until the guy gets help for his issues... 524 00:47:32,102 --> 00:47:35,814 That's what it is. ..there's no gonna be hatchets involved. 525 00:47:35,897 --> 00:47:40,568 So, what are the issues? We've told you this. Alcohol issues. 526 00:47:40,652 --> 00:47:43,488 Everybody here tonight was drinking alcohol. 527 00:47:45,323 --> 00:47:47,200 Do we abuse the alcohol? 528 00:47:53,206 --> 00:47:56,668 Charlie drinks every day, and it's just a major problem, 529 00:47:56,751 --> 00:48:00,005 and it's probably gonna end up very bad for him. 530 00:48:00,088 --> 00:48:02,841 And for everybody surrounding him who cares about him, 531 00:48:02,924 --> 00:48:05,427 they get used to living like that, 532 00:48:05,510 --> 00:48:07,721 but it doesn't work out with me. 533 00:48:07,804 --> 00:48:10,056 And meeting with him is a completely bad idea 534 00:48:10,140 --> 00:48:14,227 because we did that before. I'm not doing that again. 535 00:48:14,310 --> 00:48:16,896 Pam is delusional. 536 00:48:16,980 --> 00:48:20,191 Nobody drinks as much as Charlie. 537 00:48:20,275 --> 00:48:22,444 Andrei, I beg to differ. 538 00:48:22,527 --> 00:48:27,949 You and Charlie both drank morning till evening in Moldova. You're literally insulting me. 539 00:48:28,033 --> 00:48:33,121 Don't put my husband in a boat with Charlie. Hold on. They're two different people. 540 00:48:33,204 --> 00:48:34,956 You're insulting me right now. 541 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,792 I'm not drinking every day. But you act differently. 542 00:48:37,876 --> 00:48:40,420 The alcohol affects him differently. 543 00:48:40,503 --> 00:48:43,298 That means he has a problem. 544 00:48:43,381 --> 00:48:46,718 I said he does have an issue, 545 00:48:46,801 --> 00:48:49,346 but he needs to realise that himself. 546 00:48:49,429 --> 00:48:53,808 Mom, but if everyone around him is enabling him and sticking their heads in the sand, 547 00:48:53,892 --> 00:48:57,979 he's never gonna come to that realisation. 548 00:48:58,063 --> 00:49:02,567 I'm actually shocked that, for once, we are agreeing with Andrei. 549 00:49:02,650 --> 00:49:06,404 One thing that we can agree on and come together on... 550 00:49:06,488 --> 00:49:08,448 Yeah. ..is the Charlie issue. 551 00:49:08,531 --> 00:49:13,078 Like, he's not blood related. He can see it for what it is. 552 00:49:13,161 --> 00:49:17,832 It is refreshing to have somebody else... That can see it for what it is. 553 00:49:17,916 --> 00:49:21,753 ..see it and help prove to our parents, like, "Hello. Wake up." Exactly. 554 00:49:23,630 --> 00:49:26,424 I don't see how this is accomplishing anything. 555 00:49:26,508 --> 00:49:28,510 The issue is, yes, Charlie drinks... 556 00:49:28,593 --> 00:49:31,638 You guys drink the same amount. I've seen it happen. 557 00:49:31,721 --> 00:49:33,598 No. Charlie does get aggressive... 558 00:49:33,682 --> 00:49:37,394 That's not the point. ..and he needs help with that. OK. 559 00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:42,065 I feel like Andrei and Charlie are the same person 560 00:49:42,148 --> 00:49:44,192 because they're very alpha male. 561 00:49:44,275 --> 00:49:47,779 I would like to see them work through their issues as adults, 562 00:49:47,862 --> 00:49:53,368 and then my hope really is to have the whole family come together 563 00:49:53,451 --> 00:49:56,329 in helping Charlie deal with whatever he's going through 564 00:49:56,413 --> 00:50:00,500 so that he can put all these things behind him. 565 00:50:00,583 --> 00:50:04,754 Are you willing to work with me to help him? 566 00:50:04,838 --> 00:50:07,841 I am not willing to help him. Fuck Charlie. 567 00:50:07,924 --> 00:50:10,510 I did not ask... Fuck this life. 568 00:50:10,593 --> 00:50:14,431 In my house, in my territory, he is not welcome, 569 00:50:14,514 --> 00:50:18,518 and so are you gonna be not welcome if you're not gonna listen to me. 570 00:50:18,601 --> 00:50:23,189 You're gonna be in denial... What? ..and you're gonna put in the same category as Charlie. 571 00:50:23,273 --> 00:50:26,234 Stop. Stop. Stop. OK. So that's bottom line. 572 00:50:26,317 --> 00:50:28,570 I'm not gonna stop. I'm telling you my truth. 573 00:50:28,653 --> 00:50:32,449 I'm not willing... Stop. Baby, can you take a deep breath? 574 00:50:32,532 --> 00:50:35,535 Can we please just take a deep breath? 575 00:50:39,039 --> 00:50:40,707 Fuck Charlie. 576 00:50:44,836 --> 00:50:48,673 She literally accused me in there of me being a problem. 577 00:50:48,757 --> 00:50:53,887 I want her to realise that if she puts me in a category with her son... 578 00:50:58,516 --> 00:51:00,935 I'm over this, I think everybody's over this, 579 00:51:01,019 --> 00:51:02,687 and we're moving forward. 580 00:51:04,481 --> 00:51:08,943 Good night, girls. Bye, Andrei. Thanks for having us. Thank you. 581 00:51:10,779 --> 00:51:13,406 # ROSE HART: Alone 582 00:51:13,490 --> 00:51:16,576 Almost there. 583 00:51:27,462 --> 00:51:29,464 I don't know how Usman drives in Nigeria. 584 00:51:29,547 --> 00:51:32,676 I almost had a heart attack driving this car down the block. 585 00:51:32,759 --> 00:51:36,096 I am not the best driver in San Diego. Sorry. 586 00:51:37,681 --> 00:51:39,849 I'm picking up Jamal from the airport. 587 00:51:39,933 --> 00:51:41,601 He lives in New York, 588 00:51:41,685 --> 00:51:44,354 and he's coming to see his mom before I go to Nigeria. 589 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,400 My biggest accomplishment in my life is Jamal, 590 00:51:48,483 --> 00:51:52,654 but my relationship with my ex-husband was so toxic, 591 00:51:52,737 --> 00:51:57,701 and I never told Jamal all this until Jamal was older. 592 00:51:57,784 --> 00:52:00,704 Jamal was shocked, and he said, 593 00:52:00,787 --> 00:52:03,748 "How the fuck did you put up with that?" 594 00:52:03,832 --> 00:52:10,338 And the only reason I did is because I wanted Jamal to have that stable family environment. 595 00:52:10,422 --> 00:52:14,426 I wanted the white picket fence. I wanted all of that for Jamal. 596 00:52:17,137 --> 00:52:19,389 Hey. 597 00:52:19,472 --> 00:52:21,558 JAMAL: Hello. 598 00:52:21,641 --> 00:52:25,478 Oh, my God. Oh, my God. It's so nice to give you a hug. It's been so long. 599 00:52:25,562 --> 00:52:27,564 I missed you. I missed you, too. 600 00:52:27,647 --> 00:52:29,649 Aw. Are these for me? Yeah. 601 00:52:29,733 --> 00:52:31,401 Wow. 602 00:52:31,484 --> 00:52:33,737 I'm really excited to see my mom. 603 00:52:33,820 --> 00:52:36,990 It's been too long. It almost feels weird seeing her again. 604 00:52:37,073 --> 00:52:39,200 You're like a stranger now. Am I a stranger? 605 00:52:39,284 --> 00:52:41,536 A little bit. I gave birth to you. 606 00:52:41,619 --> 00:52:43,955 I'm so glad you're home. 607 00:52:44,039 --> 00:52:45,707 Feels good to be back. 608 00:52:46,833 --> 00:52:48,626 # JULIAN EMERY: Gone To Hollywood 609 00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:57,844 Oh, they're beautiful, Jamal. Yeah. Please take care of them. 610 00:52:57,927 --> 00:53:01,681 I do. I do. Not you. Her. No, she doesn't. 611 00:53:03,767 --> 00:53:08,563 I live with my mother. She's 78 years old. 612 00:53:08,646 --> 00:53:13,193 She has some health issues, so I take care of her for the most part, 613 00:53:13,276 --> 00:53:16,821 but we butt heads like this all the time. 614 00:53:16,905 --> 00:53:21,117 So, I kind of need to talk to you two about something. What? 615 00:53:23,328 --> 00:53:27,832 I haven't told my mom or Jamal that I'm planning to propose to Usman, 616 00:53:27,916 --> 00:53:31,961 but I know Jamal hasn't been supportive of my relationship, 617 00:53:32,045 --> 00:53:34,589 so I really don't know what's going to happen. 618 00:53:36,424 --> 00:53:39,177 So, you know I'm going to Nigeria, right? 619 00:53:39,260 --> 00:53:42,180 I'm going to meet Usman's family this time, like, his mom, 620 00:53:42,263 --> 00:53:45,975 but there's a reason I'm going to meet his mom. 621 00:53:46,059 --> 00:53:48,561 I'm going to go over there, I'm going to propose, 622 00:53:48,645 --> 00:53:52,565 and apply for the K-1 visa to bring him here. 623 00:53:52,649 --> 00:53:54,901 What? That's not how it works. 624 00:53:54,984 --> 00:53:56,653 Why can't I do it? 625 00:53:57,779 --> 00:54:01,282 The man is supposed to propose. But a woman does it. I've seen it. 626 00:54:02,992 --> 00:54:07,539 We'll be engaged for a while because it's the paperwork that takes a long time with this K-1, 627 00:54:07,622 --> 00:54:09,958 and then we'll get married here. 628 00:54:10,041 --> 00:54:12,043 You're serious? Yeah. 629 00:54:14,212 --> 00:54:17,424 It's important for me to get Jamal's approval before I go to Nigeria, 630 00:54:17,507 --> 00:54:22,929 but I understand why Jamal has tons of doubts about the relationship after the tell-all. 631 00:54:23,013 --> 00:54:27,058 You didn't know that Usman had called Zara? 632 00:54:27,142 --> 00:54:29,269 I did not. 633 00:54:29,352 --> 00:54:33,523 I find that mad disrespectful to my mom 634 00:54:33,606 --> 00:54:38,028 because she did all this shit for you. Like, what the fuck is that? 635 00:54:38,111 --> 00:54:39,779 Can you hear me? 636 00:54:40,905 --> 00:54:43,116 Why you clapping at her like that? 637 00:54:43,199 --> 00:54:47,037 When I found out about Usman and Zara, I was pissed, 638 00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,165 but I think the tell-all actually made us a bit stronger. 639 00:54:50,248 --> 00:54:53,084 Usman apologised to me, 640 00:54:53,168 --> 00:54:56,546 and the only reason I gave him another chance is cos I love him. 641 00:54:58,757 --> 00:55:03,803 It's only your third trip to go see him 642 00:55:03,887 --> 00:55:06,306 and you're talking about marriage. 643 00:55:06,389 --> 00:55:09,768 I feel like after he called Zara when my mom left, 644 00:55:09,851 --> 00:55:14,356 I expected better, but me, to be honest, I never trusted him. 645 00:55:14,439 --> 00:55:19,486 She expects me to feel completely comfortable with it and support her, 646 00:55:19,569 --> 00:55:24,032 but I just don't really see enough reasons for them to get into this engagement now. 647 00:55:24,115 --> 00:55:28,787 It seems like she's already had this planned and I just feel left out about it. 648 00:55:28,870 --> 00:55:31,331 I just want you to be happy. 649 00:55:31,414 --> 00:55:33,333 I know, and I am happy. 650 00:55:33,416 --> 00:55:38,380 If he already makes you happy with how things are, then why do you wanna push it and get married? 651 00:55:38,463 --> 00:55:42,300 The marriage part is because I love him and I want to show him that I love him. 652 00:55:42,384 --> 00:55:44,719 Just like he's shown me, you know? 653 00:55:44,803 --> 00:55:47,263 I just don't want it to be a one-way street. 654 00:55:47,347 --> 00:55:50,892 But it's not a one-way street, Mom, and you see it when I talk to him. 655 00:55:50,975 --> 00:55:53,269 I have to see it when you're together. 656 00:55:53,353 --> 00:55:58,441 I've never seen Kimberly so in love with anybody like she is with Usman, 657 00:55:58,525 --> 00:56:01,152 unless maybe it was back when she was in high school. 658 00:56:01,236 --> 00:56:03,488 I don't wanna see her get hurt 659 00:56:03,571 --> 00:56:08,743 because when she puts her heart into something, she puts it in all the way. 660 00:56:09,869 --> 00:56:11,746 I want your support so bad. 661 00:56:11,830 --> 00:56:15,583 Unfortunately, I can't bring him here so you can see what a wonderful guy he is. 662 00:56:15,667 --> 00:56:19,587 I have to get him here, and in order to do that, we have to be engaged. 663 00:56:19,671 --> 00:56:22,132 So, he needs a visa to get here... 664 00:56:22,215 --> 00:56:25,427 So, I mean, OK. ..and if y'all get married, he'll have one? 665 00:56:25,510 --> 00:56:27,595 It's like a lightbulb just went off. 666 00:56:27,679 --> 00:56:29,556 So you think he's with me for that? 667 00:56:29,639 --> 00:56:33,351 I didn't say that out loud. But you just said a lightbulb went off. 668 00:56:33,435 --> 00:56:35,895 And it's not like he's scamming me to get the K-1. 669 00:56:35,979 --> 00:56:39,774 I'm the one that brought the K-1 up. I brought it up to him. 670 00:56:39,858 --> 00:56:42,068 Do you think I'm dumb? 671 00:56:43,695 --> 00:56:46,906 I just don't think you should rush over there and propose to him. 672 00:56:46,990 --> 00:56:49,409 But I feel, in my heart, this is what I wanna do. 673 00:56:49,492 --> 00:56:52,912 And who knows, maybe he'll propose to me first. I mean, I don't know. 674 00:56:52,996 --> 00:56:57,417 I'm going to meet his mom. I have to get her blessing. That's how it's done in his culture. 675 00:56:57,500 --> 00:57:02,547 It's kind of crazy. What if you don't get her blessing? Then everything's off? I don't know. 676 00:57:02,630 --> 00:57:05,425 I don't know yet. It's ridiculous. 677 00:57:05,508 --> 00:57:09,637 But, you know, he loves me. What does he do to show that? 678 00:57:09,721 --> 00:57:13,558 Because I... Just being with him, like, the way he is with me. 679 00:57:13,641 --> 00:57:17,270 I think one of my biggest concerns is I don't really know Usman. 680 00:57:17,354 --> 00:57:19,481 I've had a few conversations with him. 681 00:57:19,564 --> 00:57:23,860 He is an entertainer, and he knows how to get people on his side, 682 00:57:23,943 --> 00:57:25,612 he knows the right things to say, 683 00:57:25,695 --> 00:57:29,574 and I just hope my mom can figure out what is true and what is not. 684 00:57:31,576 --> 00:57:36,081 I've just seen you get your heart broken way too many times to count. 685 00:57:36,164 --> 00:57:40,335 This kind of relationship, you have to admit, is 100 per cent not normal. 686 00:57:40,418 --> 00:57:42,754 Yeah. It's a big risk, 687 00:57:42,837 --> 00:57:47,634 and it's more risk than reward, I feel like, when you're looking at it from my eyes. 688 00:57:47,717 --> 00:57:50,470 Honestly, like, I'm 51 now. 689 00:57:50,553 --> 00:57:53,431 I wanna live my life the way I think I should live my life 690 00:57:53,515 --> 00:57:55,433 without judgment from other people, 691 00:57:55,517 --> 00:58:00,271 so if I want to go and marry this dude, then that's on me. All right. 692 00:58:02,232 --> 00:58:04,442 Jamal's opinion really does mean a lot to me, 693 00:58:04,526 --> 00:58:06,528 but I'm still gonna do what I wanna do. 694 00:58:07,779 --> 00:58:11,741 The love doesn't stop because we don't get somebody's approval. 695 00:58:11,825 --> 00:58:14,828 Am I supposed to just stop loving him and walk away? 696 00:58:19,582 --> 00:58:22,669 I've sacrificed so much for everybody else 697 00:58:22,752 --> 00:58:26,172 that, like, why can't I just be happy now? 698 00:58:26,256 --> 00:58:29,134 I just want to be happy, 699 00:58:29,217 --> 00:58:31,803 and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. 700 00:58:38,268 --> 00:58:41,896 # MS TRINITI: Bounce Back 701 00:58:47,318 --> 00:58:49,904 JOVI: All right. We made it. 702 00:58:53,491 --> 00:58:55,952 I don't know. 703 00:58:56,036 --> 00:58:57,996 OK. 704 00:59:10,842 --> 00:59:12,802 Where is it? 705 00:59:12,886 --> 00:59:16,139 Hey. Welcome. This is La Serendipity Vineyards. 706 00:59:16,222 --> 00:59:17,891 So glad you're here. All right. 707 00:59:17,974 --> 00:59:20,101 Let's go into the wine-tasting area. 708 00:59:20,185 --> 00:59:21,895 Yeah. Let's get some wine. 709 00:59:21,978 --> 00:59:24,731 It's so beautiful, so peaceful out here. 710 00:59:24,814 --> 00:59:27,359 Welcome. All right. Thank you. 711 00:59:27,442 --> 00:59:29,194 A date back in the day was fun. 712 00:59:29,277 --> 00:59:31,488 We would go to dinner, party all night, 713 00:59:31,571 --> 00:59:34,449 sleep till ten or eleven in the morning. 714 00:59:34,532 --> 00:59:37,285 Now it's like... go to dinner at five, 715 00:59:37,369 --> 00:59:39,621 we have to leave at six, be home by six-thirty 716 00:59:39,704 --> 00:59:42,290 so we can give Mylah a bath, put her to sleep, 717 00:59:42,374 --> 00:59:47,045 and then wake up at six when Mylah wakes up. It's like, "Oh, my God." 718 00:59:50,882 --> 00:59:53,051 Don't lie. 719 00:59:54,177 --> 00:59:55,845 Cheers. 720 00:59:58,306 --> 01:00:01,059 That's very good. This is the kind of wine... 721 01:00:01,142 --> 01:00:03,395 It's good. ..that I like to drink. 722 01:00:03,478 --> 01:00:06,564 It's called the poor man's Champagne. Not too sweet? 723 01:00:06,648 --> 01:00:08,400 I don't like sweet wine. 724 01:00:08,483 --> 01:00:12,445 I think sweet wine is not a wine, it's a dessert. 725 01:00:12,529 --> 01:00:15,407 All right. You guys ready to explore on your own? 726 01:00:15,490 --> 01:00:17,742 Yeah, let's do it. Yay. All right. 727 01:00:17,826 --> 01:00:19,494 This way. 728 01:00:19,577 --> 01:00:22,789 All right. Are we gonna be a bit? Yeah, a little while. 729 01:00:22,872 --> 01:00:25,166 I'm just gonna grab the bottle. 730 01:00:25,250 --> 01:00:27,669 Are you kidding me? What? 731 01:00:27,752 --> 01:00:31,756 It's a tasting place. You shouldn't just grab a bottle for you. 732 01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:33,508 Why not? 733 01:00:33,591 --> 01:00:38,680 I feel like I'm a grandpa now. Just like an old parent. What do you wanna do? Go party with Mylah? 734 01:00:38,763 --> 01:00:42,767 Cry me a river, honey. You stay at home. You're a dad now. 735 01:00:44,227 --> 01:00:47,689 (GRUNTS) How nice is this? 736 01:00:47,772 --> 01:00:51,151 You're not even breastfeeding any more. You can drink wine now. Yeah. 737 01:00:57,741 --> 01:01:01,286 Your boobs? They look horrible. You don't agree? 738 01:01:01,369 --> 01:01:04,330 They don't look the same way they did before you had a baby, 739 01:01:04,414 --> 01:01:06,583 but I think you look great. 740 01:01:12,922 --> 01:01:15,342 Yours look good too. You look good naked. 741 01:01:18,178 --> 01:01:19,846 OK, but I don't like it, 742 01:01:19,929 --> 01:01:24,392 so I think that I need to fix it if I don't like something. 743 01:01:33,818 --> 01:01:35,945 Like sex, you mean? Yes. 744 01:01:36,029 --> 01:01:38,156 But now you understand? What's so hard? 745 01:01:38,239 --> 01:01:40,909 I still like the way you look. But I don't. 746 01:01:40,992 --> 01:01:44,621 That's OK. My opinion's the only one that matters, right? 747 01:01:44,704 --> 01:01:47,332 You're so selfish. I still love to have sex with you. 748 01:01:47,415 --> 01:01:51,378 I feel good about the way your body looks. I don't want to have sex with myself. 749 01:01:52,504 --> 01:01:58,093 You don't think I will be more attractive if I have this bigger boobs? 750 01:01:58,176 --> 01:02:01,012 Yeah, it'll be nice to have boobs like a stripper. No. 751 01:02:02,347 --> 01:02:04,516 I like fake boobs. 752 01:02:05,642 --> 01:02:08,186 Oh, my gosh. 753 01:02:14,984 --> 01:02:17,320 OK. 754 01:02:21,783 --> 01:02:23,910 I mean, it's not perfect. 755 01:02:23,993 --> 01:02:29,165 There's a lot worse out there. I think you look great the way you are. 756 01:02:29,249 --> 01:02:32,836 I feel great about her body. She's dedicated to being in the gym, 757 01:02:32,919 --> 01:02:36,506 but in reality, her boobs don't look great. 758 01:02:36,589 --> 01:02:39,092 They've... Mylah breastfed for so long, 759 01:02:39,175 --> 01:02:41,636 it's inevitable what's going to happen with that. 760 01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:45,390 I can see how there's room for improvement there. 761 01:02:45,473 --> 01:02:49,519 I go out with my friends, they look all nice and pretty, and me... 762 01:02:49,602 --> 01:02:52,313 So you wanna be like your friends, basically? No. 763 01:02:52,397 --> 01:02:56,026 Listen, I think there's a lot we need to plan and discuss. 764 01:02:56,109 --> 01:02:59,696 I don't want you to do it cos you wanna be like your friends. 765 01:02:59,779 --> 01:03:01,948 I don't wanna do it because of my friends. 766 01:03:02,032 --> 01:03:06,161 I'm not a person who will do everything because of friends... I don't know. 767 01:03:06,244 --> 01:03:09,456 You hang out with these girls, and now you wanna get a boob job. 768 01:03:09,539 --> 01:03:12,334 No. I wanna get it done because it's about my feelings. 769 01:03:12,417 --> 01:03:16,755 I don't wanna be like nobody. I wanna be like me. OK. If you say so. 770 01:03:23,762 --> 01:03:28,058 Life for Yara since she's met a few friends has, honestly, gotten better. 771 01:03:28,141 --> 01:03:31,061 She went through a lot of depressing moments, 772 01:03:31,144 --> 01:03:36,858 but I feel like if it wasn't her friends influencing her, she would have brought it up sooner. 773 01:03:36,941 --> 01:03:39,986 Just all of a sudden, she starts hanging out with these girls, 774 01:03:40,070 --> 01:03:43,406 "Oh, yeah. I wanna get my boobs done. 775 01:03:43,490 --> 01:03:45,867 Maybe I'll get Botox," whatever, you know? 776 01:03:45,950 --> 01:03:48,286 She sees it with them, and she wants it too. 777 01:03:50,246 --> 01:03:52,248 You're gonna have to drive. 778 01:03:52,332 --> 01:03:55,043 I'm gonna drink these. As usual. 779 01:03:55,126 --> 01:04:00,674 I'm trying to be understanding, and I hope they don't have a negative influence on Yara. 780 01:04:18,900 --> 01:04:21,361 Real quick. Real quick. 781 01:04:30,453 --> 01:04:32,372 So what? I don't care. 782 01:04:32,455 --> 01:04:35,375 And don't say, "So what?", cos you don't know me. 783 01:04:35,458 --> 01:04:37,961 You're putting something on me that did not happen. 784 01:04:38,044 --> 01:04:42,882 I don't care. (BILAL SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE) I'm not trying to be a bully to you, 785 01:04:42,966 --> 01:04:45,051 but you're not gonna back me into a corner. 786 01:04:45,135 --> 01:04:47,804 You're a bully. No, I'm not. 787 01:04:47,887 --> 01:04:50,098 Yes. You are a bully. 788 01:04:52,475 --> 01:04:56,354 OK. I'm done. I'm done. 789 01:04:56,438 --> 01:05:00,900 You are a bully. No, I'm not, but you need to watch who you're talking to, OK? 790 01:05:00,984 --> 01:05:04,029 Be quiet for a second, please. No. Can I say something? 791 01:05:04,112 --> 01:05:08,366 And I'm not gonna do that with her because she don't know me. 792 01:05:08,450 --> 01:05:11,995 You don't know me, either, Shahidah. You better get her... No. 793 01:05:12,078 --> 01:05:14,789 ..cos I will reach across that table and wring you out. 794 01:05:14,873 --> 01:05:18,335 Go ahead. That's how you wanna conduct yourself as a Muslim woman? 795 01:05:18,418 --> 01:05:21,963 Yes. What kind of example are you setting for your 16-year-old daughter? 796 01:05:22,047 --> 01:05:24,507 Listen. You don't know who you're talking to. 797 01:05:45,945 --> 01:05:48,656 I can't even put words into my mouth right now. 798 01:05:48,740 --> 01:05:51,409 That's the feeling of how things went. 799 01:05:53,661 --> 01:05:57,874 I have no idea what's gonna happen now, what to do, or anything. 800 01:06:31,116 --> 01:06:33,743 If Shahidah would have come open-minded 801 01:06:33,827 --> 01:06:36,287 with humility to apologise, 802 01:06:36,371 --> 01:06:41,209 I would have said, "You know what? It happens. We could be friends." 803 01:06:44,087 --> 01:06:46,715 I don't feel good right now 804 01:06:46,798 --> 01:06:49,426 cos I know Bilal is, like, super upset, 805 01:06:49,509 --> 01:06:55,515 but I'm proud I stand up for myself, and I was diplomatic in my response. 806 01:07:00,437 --> 01:07:03,606 If the relationship is going to be toxic, I don't need it. 807 01:07:03,690 --> 01:07:05,650 I don't need that in my life. 808 01:07:48,693 --> 01:07:51,112 Wow. The city looks so nice. 809 01:08:06,795 --> 01:08:10,590 I'm, like, so, so angry right now. 810 01:08:12,676 --> 01:08:17,806 Things happen, but to even happen in public makes it more embarrassing. 811 01:08:19,182 --> 01:08:24,354 If I start talking right now, I may say something I may regret. 812 01:08:31,403 --> 01:08:31,663 2 01:05:49.600 -- 01:05:52.840 align:middle line:90% position:50% This is the ring that I'm going to use to propose to Usman. 813 01:08:41,746 --> 01:08:44,082 This determines it all, right here. 814 01:08:44,165 --> 01:08:47,168 You know, it's either a yes or a no. 815 01:08:54,384 --> 01:08:56,219 I'm leaving tomorrow to go to Nigeria 816 01:08:56,302 --> 01:08:59,514 to see my boyfriend Usman, AKA Sojaboy. 817 01:09:01,891 --> 01:09:06,771 And Usman's finally taking me to meet his family, and it's a huge step in our relationship. 818 01:09:15,238 --> 01:09:18,283 Hey. 819 01:09:18,366 --> 01:09:21,703 Nothing. Do you notice anything different? 820 01:09:26,499 --> 01:09:29,711 Do you think you'll kiss me now in public? 821 01:09:32,130 --> 01:09:33,798 Oh, now you will. 822 01:09:34,924 --> 01:09:38,553 When Usman first brought up this whole teeth thing, I was really hurt, 823 01:09:38,636 --> 01:09:42,640 but I didn't realise how bad my teeth were until I got them done, 824 01:09:42,724 --> 01:09:45,769 and I was like, "Damn." I don't know. They looked like butter. 825 01:09:45,852 --> 01:09:50,231 Even though I was really hurt, I do hope on this trip that he's more affectionate with me 826 01:09:50,315 --> 01:09:52,442 about the whole 'kissing in public' thing. 827 01:09:52,525 --> 01:09:54,652 I talked to my mom and Jamal. 828 01:09:54,736 --> 01:09:57,364 Now everybody knows I'm coming to meet your family. 829 01:09:57,447 --> 01:09:59,824 The way they took it was, like, concern, 830 01:09:59,908 --> 01:10:04,037 but, like, I don't need Jamal's support 831 01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:06,956 or my friend's support to marry you, you know what I mean? 832 01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:08,708 Cos I'm gonna do me regardless. 833 01:10:25,475 --> 01:10:28,436 So, does your family know I'm coming at all? 834 01:10:32,774 --> 01:10:34,734 So, do you have any concerns? 835 01:11:00,844 --> 01:11:05,890 Basically, the bottom line is if we don't have your mom's blessing, it's just over? 836 01:11:20,655 --> 01:11:23,658 I am used to family involvement, 837 01:11:23,742 --> 01:11:29,080 but I will be damned if I ask anybody to approve my 51-year-old self for anything. 838 01:11:29,164 --> 01:11:31,332 Sorry. 839 01:11:31,416 --> 01:11:34,169 If we don't get Usman's mom's blessing, 840 01:11:34,252 --> 01:11:37,172 it'll end our relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. 841 01:11:37,255 --> 01:11:40,258 I'm not gonna let that happen without a fight. 842 01:11:45,305 --> 01:11:51,019 I'll text you later. OK. I love you. Bye. All right. I love you. Bye. Bye. 843 01:11:51,102 --> 01:11:55,315 # RAF RILEY & ASHTON CASEY & MARC WILLIAMS: Heart Like Mine 844 01:11:59,319 --> 01:12:01,446 Jamal. Yeah? 845 01:12:01,529 --> 01:12:03,990 Come spend time with your mom before she leaves. 846 01:12:04,074 --> 01:12:06,076 All right. Coming. 847 01:12:08,912 --> 01:12:12,332 Packing for the big trip? I'm packing for the big trip. 848 01:12:12,415 --> 01:12:14,376 Crazy, right? Yeah. 849 01:12:14,459 --> 01:12:18,630 Even though I've really tried to show Jamal what this relationship means to me, 850 01:12:18,713 --> 01:12:21,216 he's refusing to give me any kind of approval, 851 01:12:21,299 --> 01:12:26,137 so this is my last chance to get Jamal's blessing before I leave to go to Nigeria. 852 01:12:26,221 --> 01:12:27,889 Do you wanna wear this? 853 01:12:30,684 --> 01:12:33,103 I would rather burn it. (KIM AND JAMAL LAUGH) 854 01:12:33,186 --> 01:12:35,897 What's this? It's a shirt. 855 01:12:35,980 --> 01:12:38,149 It's cute. 856 01:12:38,233 --> 01:12:40,485 Is this cute? What is that? (GASPS) 857 01:12:42,153 --> 01:12:45,031 You're not taking this. I am taking this. Are you serious? 858 01:12:45,115 --> 01:12:48,785 Are you actually taking this? Yeah. What are you talking about? 859 01:12:48,868 --> 01:12:50,787 Are your eyes burning? No comment. 860 01:12:50,870 --> 01:12:52,622 I wish I did not just see that. 861 01:12:52,706 --> 01:12:54,958 You're disgusting. I'm not disgusting. 862 01:12:55,041 --> 01:12:59,671 You just don't like to think of your mom getting yummy, but it's cool. 863 01:12:59,754 --> 01:13:03,633 I felt like I threw up in my mouth. I did not like the image of that. 864 01:13:03,717 --> 01:13:07,429 I did not like the thought that he may see that on her, 865 01:13:07,512 --> 01:13:09,556 which is why I took it out the suitcase, 866 01:13:09,639 --> 01:13:11,808 and I hope that she did not see that. 867 01:13:11,891 --> 01:13:15,020 Like, aren't you excited to see your mom this happy? 868 01:13:15,103 --> 01:13:18,189 You do seem very happy. I am. I will give you that one. 869 01:13:21,276 --> 01:13:26,531 Honestly, I would like a little bit of positivity. I feel like I've been very positive. Really? 870 01:13:26,614 --> 01:13:30,702 Yeah. For one, I didn't burn the red thing you just showed me, 871 01:13:30,785 --> 01:13:33,329 and it's not like... Get out of my suitcase. 872 01:13:33,413 --> 01:13:36,499 I never said not to go to Nigeria. 873 01:13:36,583 --> 01:13:42,797 I just said maybe don't ask a man that you barely know to get engaged with you. 874 01:13:44,966 --> 01:13:46,926 I love him. 875 01:13:47,010 --> 01:13:51,264 I don't know why that is so hard for people to understand, and he loves me. 876 01:13:51,348 --> 01:13:55,143 We have this connection that you don't know cos you haven't met him in person. 877 01:13:55,226 --> 01:14:00,231 Do you not find it concerning that he was basically in the same situation with his ex 878 01:14:00,315 --> 01:14:03,651 where she was also a white woman, she was older, 879 01:14:03,735 --> 01:14:06,905 and they were planning on applying for visas, 880 01:14:06,988 --> 01:14:10,241 he was gonna get a Green Card, and now...? 881 01:14:10,325 --> 01:14:12,577 He wasn't gonna get a Green Card from her. 882 01:14:12,660 --> 01:14:17,707 It sounds like y'all are in the same situation, except y'all... it hasn't been that long. 883 01:14:17,791 --> 01:14:20,752 Why did he pick you? 884 01:14:20,835 --> 01:14:23,963 Maybe he thought I was pretty? Maybe he thought I was nice? 885 01:14:24,047 --> 01:14:26,633 I'm sure that he had a lot of attention from women. 886 01:14:26,716 --> 01:14:30,178 He didn't have to answer me. He didn't have to respond when I'd text him. 887 01:14:30,261 --> 01:14:32,972 I mean, maybe he just has a type. 888 01:14:33,056 --> 01:14:34,724 Nobody thinks that. 889 01:14:34,808 --> 01:14:36,476 Maybe he likes... He told me... 890 01:14:36,559 --> 01:14:39,646 His friends told me he's always liked older women. 891 01:14:39,729 --> 01:14:41,940 So he's never said what his type is? 892 01:14:42,023 --> 01:14:45,527 He's told me that himself, too, that he's always liked curvy women... 893 01:14:45,610 --> 01:14:49,531 White? ..white women, American women, and he's always liked older women. 894 01:14:49,614 --> 01:14:55,620 I have a type. I date black men. You never dated someone this young. No. Not this young. 895 01:14:55,704 --> 01:14:57,539 He's almost my age. 896 01:14:57,622 --> 01:15:00,583 OK. Do you not think about that? 897 01:15:00,667 --> 01:15:05,797 If they got engaged, Usman would be able to come to the United States, 898 01:15:05,880 --> 01:15:07,924 he would be able to make his brand bigger, 899 01:15:08,008 --> 01:15:11,720 and as far as my mom, I don't feel like too much would change. 900 01:15:11,803 --> 01:15:14,431 I don't feel like the give and take is really even. 901 01:15:14,514 --> 01:15:18,226 Like, I wish he could come here so you could just get to know him. 902 01:15:18,309 --> 01:15:20,228 But he can't unless you marry him. 903 01:15:20,311 --> 01:15:23,982 It sounds to me like you think Usman's just in this for the Green Card. 904 01:15:24,065 --> 01:15:28,403 I didn't say that. But that's what it sounds like. 905 01:15:28,486 --> 01:15:30,989 I love him, and I wanna see him succeed in America. 906 01:15:32,782 --> 01:15:36,369 I think his music is good. I think he's talented enough. 907 01:15:36,453 --> 01:15:38,121 Why not bring it here? 908 01:15:38,204 --> 01:15:41,958 So this marriage is more like... It's everything. ..a business decision. 909 01:15:42,042 --> 01:15:45,420 No, it's not just that, but it would help him. 910 01:15:45,503 --> 01:15:49,966 I love him. He loves me. It's a marriage. It will be a real, real, real marriage. 911 01:15:54,012 --> 01:15:57,390 Usman is with me because he loves me. He's not with me for a K-1 visa. 912 01:15:57,474 --> 01:16:01,770 I 100 per cent believe in Usman's music career, 913 01:16:01,853 --> 01:16:05,774 and bringing him to the States would make his music career just go even higher. 914 01:16:05,857 --> 01:16:10,653 I don't think now I'm going to propose until after I meet his mom. 915 01:16:11,780 --> 01:16:15,116 But y'all really put a lot of thoughts in my head, 916 01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:19,954 so I really need to make sure everything is everything before I do it, and I might not do it, 917 01:16:20,038 --> 01:16:21,706 but I'm prepared. 918 01:16:21,790 --> 01:16:24,417 I really appreciate the honesty and all that, 919 01:16:24,501 --> 01:16:27,545 and I know you'll support me. I'm your mom, and you love me. 920 01:16:27,629 --> 01:16:31,049 I know you won't like it, but I know you'll support me. Support what? 921 01:16:31,132 --> 01:16:34,636 I know you'll support me. You'll always be there for me. 922 01:16:34,719 --> 01:16:39,307 I will support you... I know. ..but I'm not always gonna support your decisions. I know. 923 01:16:39,391 --> 01:16:43,937 I think my mom does feel like she wants to prove everyone wrong 924 01:16:44,020 --> 01:16:46,064 and that it is a good relationship, 925 01:16:46,147 --> 01:16:50,860 so she's probably gonna ignore the red flags and not ask those tough questions. 926 01:16:50,944 --> 01:16:54,197 I don't think she's even asking herself those tough questions. 927 01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:57,534 She just really wants to live in this fantasy world 928 01:16:57,617 --> 01:17:01,830 that everything's gonna be fine, but she's gonna do what she thinks is best for her. 929 01:17:01,913 --> 01:17:05,709 At the end of the day, whatever decision she makes, I'm gonna be there for her 930 01:17:05,792 --> 01:17:07,460 for the better or for the worse. 931 01:17:09,379 --> 01:17:12,882 I'm tired of thinking about it. I wanna be excited about my trip. 932 01:17:12,966 --> 01:17:15,844 Can we be happy that I'm going? I'm really excited to go. 933 01:17:15,927 --> 01:17:18,513 Now, it's time... I'm gonna focus on my trip, 934 01:17:18,596 --> 01:17:23,226 I'm gonna go meet his fam, I'm gonna kill it, and then we'll see what happens after that. 935 01:17:23,309 --> 01:17:24,978 OK. 936 01:17:29,482 --> 01:17:32,235 # SAM CLINES AND JERRY THOMAS: Shake These Voices 937 01:17:49,711 --> 01:17:52,756 I am heading to meet up with Rich. 938 01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:58,261 Your friends, I know, are there to protect you. 939 01:17:58,345 --> 01:18:01,389 I think he somehow feels he's protecting me, but from what? 940 01:18:01,473 --> 01:18:05,810 Most of my friends and my family aren't about Liz and I being together, 941 01:18:05,894 --> 01:18:09,689 and Richard has been my friend for 15 years, 942 01:18:09,773 --> 01:18:15,570 and the minute he found out that Liz and I were back together and engaged, 943 01:18:15,653 --> 01:18:17,739 I mean, he turned his back on me. 944 01:18:17,822 --> 01:18:21,076 There was no warning. We were there supporting you... 945 01:18:21,159 --> 01:18:24,746 Right. ..while you're crying, and the last thing you told me about Liz is, 946 01:18:24,829 --> 01:18:27,123 "I'm good. I'm moving on." 947 01:18:27,207 --> 01:18:31,211 This is the first relationship Ed's had since his divorce, and he's desperate. 948 01:18:31,294 --> 01:18:33,755 They're both insecure, and they're both selfish. 949 01:18:35,382 --> 01:18:38,968 It's been about four months since I've seen Richard. 950 01:18:41,513 --> 01:18:45,934 Rich had such a huge impact on me breaking up with Liz. 951 01:18:47,060 --> 01:18:53,066 Richard, to this day, still does not approve of Liz and I's relationship 952 01:18:53,149 --> 01:18:56,277 cos we did a lot of shitty things to each other, 953 01:18:56,361 --> 01:18:59,781 and he's still stirring up trouble with my family and my friends. 954 01:19:01,616 --> 01:19:04,494 So, I want my relationship with Liz to be successful, 955 01:19:04,577 --> 01:19:10,083 and Richard either needs to get on the train or jump off. 956 01:19:11,334 --> 01:19:13,336 Hey. 957 01:19:13,420 --> 01:19:15,672 What's up? 958 01:19:15,755 --> 01:19:17,841 I asked Richard to meet up with me tonight. 959 01:19:17,924 --> 01:19:20,260 He's having me meet him in this park. 960 01:19:20,343 --> 01:19:22,387 I'm not quite sure why we're meeting here. 961 01:19:22,470 --> 01:19:24,973 It's a dark, creepy park. 962 01:19:25,056 --> 01:19:27,809 It kind of feels like I'm making a drug deal. 963 01:19:28,935 --> 01:19:31,855 How are you? Good. 964 01:19:37,777 --> 01:19:40,280 I think in four months I haven't seen you. 965 01:19:42,198 --> 01:19:46,745 A little surreal seeing Ed in person after four months. 966 01:19:46,828 --> 01:19:50,957 A lot hasn't been said in this time period, and it's overdue. 967 01:19:52,125 --> 01:19:54,377 Liz definitely fears my influence 968 01:19:54,461 --> 01:19:57,047 because I've been there the whole time, 969 01:19:57,130 --> 01:19:59,507 and I'm always gonna tell him the truth. 970 01:20:00,675 --> 01:20:03,261 I think Liz, she's an opportunist, 971 01:20:03,345 --> 01:20:06,306 she's not here for the right reasons, 972 01:20:06,389 --> 01:20:09,893 and that was my initial reaction when I found out that they got engaged. 973 01:20:11,311 --> 01:20:14,773 I know you're mad, you know? 974 01:20:14,856 --> 01:20:19,527 I know you want me to be happy for you, like that, but are you sure, Ed? 975 01:20:19,611 --> 01:20:21,529 This is the person you want to be with? 976 01:20:21,613 --> 01:20:23,490 This person that tried to destroy you, 977 01:20:23,573 --> 01:20:26,034 that tried to take you down, you know? 978 01:20:26,117 --> 01:20:28,286 Well, Richard, what about what I did to her? 979 01:20:28,370 --> 01:20:31,039 I mean, I broke up with her eight times via text... 980 01:20:31,122 --> 01:20:35,460 I... ..but in my heart, after six months of therapy, 981 01:20:35,543 --> 01:20:39,631 and six months of total separation, I realised that's who I wanted to be with. 982 01:20:41,174 --> 01:20:44,594 I tell you I'm engaged and it was just hate. 983 01:20:44,678 --> 01:20:47,097 Dude. Yeah, but you just come out of the blue... 984 01:20:47,180 --> 01:20:49,307 It came out of the blue for me too. 985 01:20:49,391 --> 01:20:51,351 Because you're impulsive. 986 01:20:51,434 --> 01:20:56,981 If you walk across the street and you got hit by a car once, wouldn't I say, 987 01:20:57,065 --> 01:21:02,654 "Hey, Ed. Are you sure you wanna cross this fucking street again? You got hit the last time"? 988 01:21:02,737 --> 01:21:06,866 Rich, I choose Liz. That's it, and you can't accept it. 989 01:21:09,577 --> 01:21:14,958 I'm choosing her over everyone. My mom doesn't accept her. My daughter doesn't accept her. 990 01:21:15,041 --> 01:21:18,086 What about your mom right now? Mom's giving me the guilt trip. 991 01:21:18,169 --> 01:21:21,256 I'm like, "Mom. I love you..." Your mom called me yesterday. 992 01:21:21,339 --> 01:21:24,884 She calls and you talk to her every day. Don't you think that's weird? 993 01:21:26,011 --> 01:21:31,141 Well, no. I do. Not as close as we've been as friends and family. 994 01:21:31,224 --> 01:21:33,601 Let my mom adopt you as her son. 995 01:21:33,685 --> 01:21:36,896 She likes you more than I do. I just don't need to see it. 996 01:21:36,980 --> 01:21:41,276 Richard and my mom were sort of close when we were friends, 997 01:21:41,359 --> 01:21:43,862 but now that Liz and I are back together, 998 01:21:43,945 --> 01:21:49,701 he has formed this new level of a relationship with my mom. 999 01:21:49,784 --> 01:21:52,579 Who talks to somebody else's mom on a daily basis? 1000 01:21:52,662 --> 01:21:55,373 That's kind of weird. 1001 01:21:56,499 --> 01:21:59,836 I love my mom to death, but me being with Liz is not gonna hurt you, 1002 01:21:59,919 --> 01:22:03,548 it's not gonna hurt my daughter, it's not gonna hurt my mom. 1003 01:22:03,631 --> 01:22:07,010 Well, can you still... Period. Can you still at least help her...? 1004 01:22:07,093 --> 01:22:09,346 I've done everything I can. 1005 01:22:11,639 --> 01:22:13,641 I don't know about that, dude. 1006 01:22:14,768 --> 01:22:18,605 I need Rich to stop putting ideas in my mom's head. 1007 01:22:18,688 --> 01:22:20,982 It's impeding our relationship. 1008 01:22:22,817 --> 01:22:26,571 I'm very worried that, God forbid, something should happen. 1009 01:22:26,654 --> 01:22:29,199 She's 82 years old, 1010 01:22:29,282 --> 01:22:34,287 and I wouldn't want her leaving this world being mad at me. 1011 01:22:37,374 --> 01:22:42,629 Until you're ready to accept my choice in Liz, I can't be around you. 1012 01:22:42,712 --> 01:22:45,006 (SIGHS) 1013 01:22:49,219 --> 01:22:53,973 After 15 years of friendship, it's hard to swallow. 1014 01:22:54,057 --> 01:22:59,646 I can just look into his eyes and I know I'm not talking to my friend, you know? 1015 01:22:59,729 --> 01:23:02,315 There's somebody else that I'm talking to now, 1016 01:23:02,399 --> 01:23:04,818 and there's some influence there, 1017 01:23:04,901 --> 01:23:08,154 but it's his life. He's gotta figure this out. 1018 01:23:10,448 --> 01:23:15,078 I'm choosing to be with Liz, you don't support it, so what do you wanna talk about? That's it. 1019 01:23:15,161 --> 01:23:17,038 That's it? I go my way. You go yours. 1020 01:23:17,122 --> 01:23:19,290 And that's so OK with you? 1021 01:23:19,374 --> 01:23:21,042 It's an ultimatum. 1022 01:23:21,126 --> 01:23:26,631 You're saying, "Either you accept my decision of who I'm gonna be with or you're out of my life." 1023 01:23:26,715 --> 01:23:29,843 Richard is someone that's been very important to me in my life, 1024 01:23:29,926 --> 01:23:33,388 somebody that I trusted more than my own brother, 1025 01:23:33,471 --> 01:23:39,394 and it's hard to have to have a conversation with someone 1026 01:23:39,477 --> 01:23:41,604 that will most likely end our friendship. 1027 01:23:43,273 --> 01:23:46,276 But if I want my relationship with Liz to work, 1028 01:23:46,359 --> 01:23:48,445 I don't have a choice. 1029 01:23:48,528 --> 01:23:50,196 I'm risking everything. 1030 01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:53,575 I have... I literally... And I know it sounds sad. 1031 01:23:53,658 --> 01:23:56,494 I literally have no-one. I'm all in. 1032 01:24:02,542 --> 01:24:02,803 2 01:21:01.480 -- 01:21:04.920 align:middle line:73% position:50% OK. OK. This is bad, but what the fuck do you wanna do? 1033 01:24:32,781 --> 01:24:34,741 Well, good, it's bad. Good. 1034 01:24:37,577 --> 01:24:43,208 I said I know you're gonna go with your parents, and I'm gonna be left by myself. 1035 01:24:43,291 --> 01:24:47,462 You guys talk Hindi and you don't tell me what's being said. 1036 01:24:47,545 --> 01:24:49,756 You think I don't need to be comforted? 1037 01:24:49,839 --> 01:24:53,259 You think I'm fine? You think I'm OK? 1038 01:24:53,343 --> 01:24:55,804 You think everything is OK with me? 1039 01:24:55,887 --> 01:25:00,517 Why does everybody think it's OK for me to sit here and take all this abuse 1040 01:25:00,600 --> 01:25:03,520 and not say anything, and I'm not supposed to feel anything, 1041 01:25:03,603 --> 01:25:06,022 I'm not supposed to care? 1042 01:25:19,202 --> 01:25:22,831 Sumit telling his parents that we got married 1043 01:25:22,914 --> 01:25:27,460 turned out exactly as I knew it would - a disaster. 1044 01:25:27,544 --> 01:25:30,588 I knew that his parents were gonna react the way they did, 1045 01:25:30,672 --> 01:25:34,676 and he was gonna take after them, and I was gonna be sitting here all by myself. 1046 01:25:34,759 --> 01:25:37,303 He needs to think about how I'm feeling 1047 01:25:37,387 --> 01:25:39,848 because I am his wife now, 1048 01:25:39,931 --> 01:25:44,227 and so his loyalty should be with me. 1049 01:25:48,732 --> 01:25:50,400 Go away. 1050 01:25:51,526 --> 01:25:55,613 Go away. The fuck you gonna do? 1051 01:25:55,697 --> 01:25:57,365 Get the fuck away from me. 1052 01:25:57,449 --> 01:26:00,785 Get away from me. For ever. For ever. 1053 01:26:00,869 --> 01:26:02,537 Understand? 1054 01:26:02,620 --> 01:26:04,497 You think I'm not hurting? 1055 01:26:04,581 --> 01:26:06,833 Do you think I'm not fucking hurting? 1056 01:26:06,916 --> 01:26:09,044 Do you think I'm not hurting? 1057 01:26:09,127 --> 01:26:11,004 Do you think none of that hurt me? 1058 01:26:19,137 --> 01:26:21,431 Why don't you care about me a little bit too? 1059 01:26:22,515 --> 01:26:26,186 How about I'm upset too? 1060 01:26:28,688 --> 01:26:31,066 And I did. I sat out there. 1061 01:26:35,612 --> 01:26:38,156 So I'm not supposed to have any emotions at all? 1062 01:27:21,324 --> 01:27:24,619 Listen. This is the thing, OK? 1063 01:27:24,703 --> 01:27:28,039 You're sitting here, and you're talking with your parents, 1064 01:27:28,123 --> 01:27:32,168 I can't understand anything that's being said... Can I talk? 1065 01:27:32,252 --> 01:27:36,631 So, I'm sitting here, I'm like... All I can do is imagine and think what they're saying. 1066 01:27:36,715 --> 01:27:38,383 I have no idea. 1067 01:27:38,466 --> 01:27:42,345 But I'm sitting here, like, being quiet. 1068 01:27:42,429 --> 01:27:46,850 If I say anything, I'm gonna just make the whole situation worse. 1069 01:27:46,933 --> 01:27:51,563 It's hurting me too. This whole thing is hurting me too. 1070 01:27:56,401 --> 01:28:01,114 Why do you think it's easy for me to sit here and take all this, watch all of this? 1071 01:28:01,197 --> 01:28:04,075 Why do you think it's easy for me? 1072 01:28:04,159 --> 01:28:06,619 I came for you. 1073 01:28:31,311 --> 01:28:33,063 I know Sumit loves me, 1074 01:28:33,146 --> 01:28:35,273 and we've spent our entire relationship 1075 01:28:35,357 --> 01:28:38,026 trying to convince his parents to let us be together, 1076 01:28:38,109 --> 01:28:42,572 but I thought this was all over with once we finally got married. 1077 01:28:42,655 --> 01:28:45,200 I thought that I would be more of a priority to him, 1078 01:28:45,283 --> 01:28:47,702 but it seems that I'm not, 1079 01:28:47,786 --> 01:28:51,289 and I'm starting to wonder - is that ever gonna change? 1080 01:28:57,337 --> 01:28:59,589 You don't know because I'm sitting here quiet. 1081 01:28:59,673 --> 01:29:01,800 You don't know how I'm feeling inside. 1082 01:29:08,682 --> 01:29:10,934 You know, this is hard on me too. 1083 01:29:11,017 --> 01:29:12,811 I'm... Listen. 1084 01:29:20,985 --> 01:29:22,696 Your parents just hate me. 1085 01:29:22,779 --> 01:29:25,615 I'm upset too. This isn't easy for me, either. 1086 01:29:56,521 --> 01:29:59,315 subtitles by Deluxe 1087 01:30:01,985 --> 01:30:06,156 JOVI: Next time on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?... 1088 01:30:06,239 --> 01:30:11,244 The biggest challenge our marriage is facing is the shady shit Michael's doing. 1089 01:30:11,327 --> 01:30:13,788 He might be scamming me, 1090 01:30:13,872 --> 01:30:19,085 and I've had to find support in new people. 1091 01:30:19,169 --> 01:30:22,505 There's that sexy baby. (MAN SPEAKS) 1092 01:30:25,884 --> 01:30:30,472 I gotta work for a month, she's alone, and I want you to understand that she needs your help. 1093 01:30:30,555 --> 01:30:32,390 I went to meet with Mrs Gwen today. 1094 01:30:32,474 --> 01:30:34,809 I want for that, whenever I got to work, 1095 01:30:34,893 --> 01:30:37,270 that Yara has someone that can help her. 1096 01:30:37,354 --> 01:30:42,108 I love being a grandma, but I'm nobody's nanny. 1097 01:30:44,152 --> 01:30:46,279 As far as this whole second-wife thing, 1098 01:30:46,363 --> 01:30:48,406 I don't want to be in the same city. 1099 01:30:48,490 --> 01:30:51,743 I think it will be better if we're separate. 1100 01:30:54,746 --> 01:30:56,790 Come on, you sharing the same dick. 1101 01:30:56,873 --> 01:31:02,003 Like, I already don't want that mental image in my head, and now you say something like that? 1102 01:31:02,087 --> 01:31:05,507 I almost threw this whole plate at you just now. Huh? 1103 01:31:05,590 --> 01:31:09,636 Here's the thing, Shaeeda - you disappointed me yesterday. 1104 01:31:14,224 --> 01:31:17,018 I don't see myself as doing anything wrong. 1105 01:31:18,561 --> 01:31:23,650 I just knew that you were gonna go after your parents, and I was gonna be left sitting there by myself. 1106 01:31:29,114 --> 01:31:32,909 Sumit needs to decide between his parents and our happiness. 1107 01:31:34,327 --> 01:31:37,247 ED: Nice. Beautiful. Nice. 1108 01:31:37,330 --> 01:31:39,708 It's a lot easier when your subject's beautiful. 1109 01:31:41,835 --> 01:31:44,796 It looks like she has no neck. Babe, you're the student. 1110 01:31:44,879 --> 01:31:46,756 I'm training you. You didn't train me. 1111 01:31:46,840 --> 01:31:48,967 The whole time you were training her. 1112 01:31:49,050 --> 01:31:51,720 I don't feel like Ed's being a good partner right now. 1113 01:31:51,803 --> 01:31:53,722 You're not listening to how I feel. 1114 01:31:53,805 --> 01:31:56,141 He really pisses me off.