1 00:00:05,213 --> 00:00:07,298 Oh, my God. 2 00:00:08,591 --> 00:00:10,677 ..90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After? 3 00:00:11,803 --> 00:00:13,888 He'll be the perfect ring-bearer. 4 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:17,308 Rich, I choose Liz. 5 00:00:17,392 --> 00:00:21,813 Until you're ready to accept my choice in Liz, I can't be around you. 6 00:00:22,939 --> 00:00:28,611 I don't have a choice, but I'm risking everything, like, I literally have no-one, I'm all in. 7 00:00:44,586 --> 00:00:49,257 I love your mom, but she knows that I had nobody besides her... 8 00:00:55,889 --> 00:00:59,351 I love her and I don't want to fight with her. 9 00:01:00,935 --> 00:01:03,980 I'm not gonna apologise for something that I didn't do. 10 00:01:04,064 --> 00:01:05,648 Then why did you come here? 11 00:01:12,655 --> 00:01:14,449 Be quiet for a second, please. 12 00:01:14,532 --> 00:01:17,619 She don't know me. You don't know me either, Shahidah. 13 00:01:24,501 --> 00:01:28,129 I thought that I would be more of a priority for Sumit, 14 00:01:28,213 --> 00:01:33,051 but it seems that I'm not and I'm starting to wonder, is that ever gonna change? 15 00:01:33,134 --> 00:01:35,303 What are you gonna do? 16 00:01:35,387 --> 00:01:38,223 Get the fuck away from me. Get away from me! 17 00:01:38,306 --> 00:01:40,392 Forever. Understand? 18 00:01:47,857 --> 00:01:50,151 # Are you keeping it real? 19 00:01:52,612 --> 00:01:55,657 # I'm calling shotgun, I wanna see my baby run 20 00:01:55,740 --> 00:01:58,243 # Oh, what's the word on the scene? 21 00:01:58,326 --> 00:02:02,288 # We've been kicking up the dust, if you know what I mean # 22 00:02:02,372 --> 00:02:05,208 I am going to Nigeria to go see Usman. 23 00:02:05,291 --> 00:02:07,377 And meet the fam bam. 24 00:02:12,716 --> 00:02:17,470 Even though, I have a 25-hour flight ahead of me, I am so excited, 25 00:02:17,554 --> 00:02:23,393 because I know, when I step off that plane, I'm gonna see my boyfriend Usman, AKA SojaBoy. 26 00:02:25,270 --> 00:02:29,024 This trip to Nigeria is to find out what our future holds, 27 00:02:29,107 --> 00:02:32,444 because if we don't get Usman's mom's blessing 28 00:02:32,527 --> 00:02:35,405 I really don't know what's gonna happen with our relationship. 29 00:02:35,488 --> 00:02:37,574 I can't be his friend again. 30 00:02:37,657 --> 00:02:41,828 Either I get engaged or I'll go home heartbroken and devastated 31 00:02:41,911 --> 00:02:43,705 and I will never date again. 32 00:02:43,788 --> 00:02:45,874 I swear, I will not date again. 33 00:02:45,957 --> 00:02:48,043 Bye. I love you, Mommy. 34 00:02:48,126 --> 00:02:50,211 Bye, I love you too, honey. 35 00:02:51,338 --> 00:02:54,341 I don't wanna see her get hurt, I just don't. 36 00:02:54,424 --> 00:02:56,217 She's got a really good heart. 37 00:02:56,301 --> 00:03:00,805 Sometimes, you can't listen with your heart, you got to listen with your head. You know? 38 00:03:02,307 --> 00:03:04,642 Here we go. Let's go. 39 00:03:05,977 --> 00:03:08,313 'But it's pretty much out of my hands.' 40 00:03:08,396 --> 00:03:10,482 You can only be a mother for so long. 41 00:03:10,565 --> 00:03:12,108 (CHUCKLES) 42 00:03:13,777 --> 00:03:16,696 I'm really glad you were able to come out, though. 43 00:03:16,780 --> 00:03:20,658 I know it wasn't an ideal trip. There was a lot of SojaBoy talk. 44 00:03:20,742 --> 00:03:23,870 Have you ever even listened to his music? Not really. 45 00:03:23,953 --> 00:03:26,122 I'm such a fan, it's so bad. 46 00:03:26,206 --> 00:03:27,874 This is my favourite song. 47 00:03:27,957 --> 00:03:29,501 (TAPS BUTTON) 48 00:03:29,584 --> 00:03:31,252 (MUSIC INTRO) 49 00:03:31,336 --> 00:03:34,381 # SojaBoy # You say, you say 50 00:03:34,464 --> 00:03:36,966 # Don't play no game, no 51 00:03:37,050 --> 00:03:39,844 # Right now, I care for you, girl 52 00:03:42,222 --> 00:03:44,516 # I see you, fine girl from the internet 53 00:03:44,599 --> 00:03:46,893 It's crazy, that's my boyfriend. 54 00:03:46,976 --> 00:03:49,896 # I'm not gonna lie, I would like to be your friend 55 00:03:49,979 --> 00:03:52,399 # If you open it, we go there, OK... # 56 00:03:52,482 --> 00:03:55,443 Actually, it's pretty good. Really? That's pretty good. 57 00:03:55,527 --> 00:03:59,614 # I like the way you put it down on me, you make me high grade too # 58 00:04:00,865 --> 00:04:02,534 It's so catchy. Right? 59 00:04:02,617 --> 00:04:05,829 It does make me feel good to know he actually has music. 60 00:04:05,912 --> 00:04:09,749 He's not one of these people just saying, "Oh, I got music coming." 61 00:04:09,833 --> 00:04:11,918 It seems like he loves what he does. 62 00:04:14,462 --> 00:04:18,633 I want you guys to have your own thing. You know what I mean? Like, without me. 63 00:04:18,717 --> 00:04:20,802 Or we can just not. 64 00:04:20,885 --> 00:04:24,597 I just really do hope that you're not gonna propose 65 00:04:24,681 --> 00:04:26,766 as soon as you get there. 66 00:04:26,850 --> 00:04:29,561 You don't want me to get carried away, right? 67 00:04:29,644 --> 00:04:32,063 I want you to, like, trust me a little bit. 68 00:04:32,147 --> 00:04:34,983 This is the chance I'm taking and I believe in this chance. 69 00:04:37,068 --> 00:04:39,529 Usman is a lot younger, 70 00:04:39,612 --> 00:04:43,658 so I feel what she wants versus what he wants, will end up 71 00:04:43,742 --> 00:04:45,827 causing some serious issues. 72 00:04:45,910 --> 00:04:47,996 And I know my mom plans on 73 00:04:48,079 --> 00:04:50,165 proposing to SojaBoy, 74 00:04:50,248 --> 00:04:52,334 but we'll see how that goes. 75 00:04:53,877 --> 00:04:56,171 Oh, I hate this part. Oh. 76 00:04:56,254 --> 00:04:57,672 It's all good. 77 00:04:57,756 --> 00:04:59,591 Do you wanna come with me? 78 00:04:59,674 --> 00:05:03,219 Come with me to meet his family, please. Oh, see, my schedule. 79 00:05:04,346 --> 00:05:07,432 I have watched my mom get hurt a lot in the past. 80 00:05:07,515 --> 00:05:11,686 She falls head over heels for a guy and things move really fast. 81 00:05:11,770 --> 00:05:15,357 I don't want her to just kind of get caught up in Usman's words. 82 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,525 I know he has a good way of talking. 83 00:05:18,651 --> 00:05:20,320 My baby. 84 00:05:20,403 --> 00:05:22,489 I do love you Jamal so much. 85 00:05:22,572 --> 00:05:24,240 I love you too. 86 00:05:25,700 --> 00:05:29,662 You know, I want her to be happy, but I also want her to be smart. 87 00:05:35,543 --> 00:05:37,629 (SOBS) 88 00:05:40,507 --> 00:05:42,592 Phwoo. 89 00:05:44,678 --> 00:05:46,763 It's hard to leave him. You know? 90 00:05:49,099 --> 00:05:51,184 I'm OK, I'm OK. 91 00:06:00,402 --> 00:06:02,487 It's a lot of emotions. 92 00:06:02,570 --> 00:06:06,908 I said goodbye to my son, my one big baby, to go see my other big baby. 93 00:06:09,035 --> 00:06:11,746 My heart is pounding outside of my chest now. 94 00:06:11,830 --> 00:06:13,498 (SIGHS) 95 00:06:15,709 --> 00:06:17,043 To Nigeria. 96 00:06:17,127 --> 00:06:22,007 Usman and I have a connection like no other man I've ever been with. 97 00:06:22,090 --> 00:06:27,512 I never thought I would have to fly halfway across the world to find that, but I did. 98 00:06:27,595 --> 00:06:29,681 Thank you. Have a good day. 99 00:06:29,764 --> 00:06:33,018 And our whole relationship is on the line right now, 100 00:06:33,101 --> 00:06:36,896 because what happens if Usman's family doesn't approve of me? 101 00:06:36,980 --> 00:06:38,523 I don't know. 102 00:06:40,150 --> 00:06:43,903 But I have a feeling they will see the love that he has for me. 103 00:06:43,987 --> 00:06:45,613 That is my hope. 104 00:06:45,697 --> 00:06:50,702 Let's do it, Usman AKA SojaBoy, I am on the way! 105 00:06:50,785 --> 00:06:53,538 See you soon. I love you. 106 00:06:53,621 --> 00:06:55,373 # Find a way 107 00:06:56,499 --> 00:06:59,586 # Things will always turn around 108 00:06:59,669 --> 00:07:01,755 # If you seize the day # 109 00:07:13,725 --> 00:07:17,479 # Through ourselves we send a sign 110 00:07:18,605 --> 00:07:21,941 # But the messages are breaking # 111 00:07:25,070 --> 00:07:27,155 I'm OK. 112 00:07:27,238 --> 00:07:29,324 How about you? 113 00:07:44,339 --> 00:07:46,633 Last night was very stressful. 114 00:07:50,428 --> 00:07:52,180 I think that's a good idea. 115 00:07:57,519 --> 00:07:59,396 Last night was a disaster. 116 00:07:59,479 --> 00:08:05,360 My parents didn't take the news in a positive way that Jenny and I got married. They got shocked. 117 00:08:06,528 --> 00:08:09,656 My mother said that I'm not her son anymore. 118 00:08:10,782 --> 00:08:13,493 It was just... What a night. 119 00:08:14,661 --> 00:08:17,580 'After that, Jenny and I had a big fight. 120 00:08:17,664 --> 00:08:22,877 Jenny felt I picked my family over her, but I'd just lost my family.' 121 00:08:24,587 --> 00:08:30,010 I was hoping that I will never come to a situation where I have to choose one or another. 122 00:08:31,136 --> 00:08:33,513 But right now, I'm really heartbroken. 123 00:08:33,596 --> 00:08:36,016 I'm... I really don't know what to do. 124 00:08:41,938 --> 00:08:46,693 I just got so upset, because I just knew that you were gonna go after your parents 125 00:08:46,776 --> 00:08:49,571 and I was gonna be left sitting there by myself. 126 00:08:50,780 --> 00:08:55,201 I didn't know what was going on. I only knew what I thought was going on. 127 00:08:55,285 --> 00:08:59,706 And by the time you came and tried to comfort me and tell me what was going on, 128 00:08:59,789 --> 00:09:02,625 it was too late, I was already thinking the worst. 129 00:09:02,709 --> 00:09:07,047 I was thinking I've lost him, he went to his mom. I knew it was gonna happen. 130 00:09:07,130 --> 00:09:11,343 And that's why I yelled at you and lashed out at you the way that I did. 131 00:09:16,222 --> 00:09:18,892 It's really disappointing to see that Sumit 132 00:09:18,975 --> 00:09:22,729 hasn't really moved on from getting his parent's approval. 133 00:09:22,812 --> 00:09:26,441 It's been over ten years. Come on, let's be done with it, Sumit. 134 00:09:26,524 --> 00:09:28,610 But he got up and went after them 135 00:09:28,693 --> 00:09:30,987 and that really hurt my feelings. 136 00:10:13,321 --> 00:10:16,533 I understand everything you're saying to me right now. 137 00:10:16,616 --> 00:10:19,452 It was wrong what I did, yelling at you was wrong. 138 00:10:19,536 --> 00:10:22,330 I'm sorry that I yelled at you, but you have to realise 139 00:10:22,414 --> 00:10:24,541 that I just went through a big thing too. 140 00:10:27,293 --> 00:10:30,380 I needed you, too, at the same time. 141 00:10:47,647 --> 00:10:49,733 Yeah. Yeah. 142 00:10:53,778 --> 00:10:56,239 I'm sorry I yelled at you. 143 00:10:59,034 --> 00:11:02,746 I have to stop saying these things that I say to you when I'm mad. 144 00:11:04,873 --> 00:11:09,753 How do you feel, now that you've told them? Do you regret telling them? 145 00:11:35,070 --> 00:11:37,155 You shouldn't have to. 146 00:11:57,217 --> 00:12:00,970 I mean, where do we go from here now? Like, what do we do now? 147 00:12:15,735 --> 00:12:17,404 Yeah. 148 00:12:17,487 --> 00:12:20,824 I guess we'll figure that out when the time comes. 149 00:12:23,952 --> 00:12:27,914 I understand how hard it must be to be abandoned by your own parents. 150 00:12:27,997 --> 00:12:30,458 But Sumit needs to decide between 151 00:12:30,542 --> 00:12:32,627 his parents and our happiness. 152 00:12:33,795 --> 00:12:36,923 'I'm the one that's in this country by myself. 153 00:12:37,007 --> 00:12:39,843 He's all I have, he needs to remember that.' 154 00:12:39,926 --> 00:12:43,930 We are now husband and wife and he needs to behave like my husband. 155 00:12:44,014 --> 00:12:49,060 If you're gonna keep being worried about your parents and getting their acceptance 156 00:12:49,144 --> 00:12:53,106 and you never get their acceptance, then where does that leave me? 157 00:12:56,818 --> 00:12:57,079 2 00:12:32.160 -- 00:12:34.120 align:middle line:90% position:50% Lift up through your spine. 158 00:13:06,411 --> 00:13:09,205 Adjoin your hands at the centre of your heart. 159 00:13:10,874 --> 00:13:13,376 Drop your hands down to your knees. 160 00:13:15,587 --> 00:13:19,549 Line up your knees right underneath your hips. 161 00:13:20,675 --> 00:13:22,594 As you inhale, 162 00:13:22,677 --> 00:13:24,596 come forward. 163 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:26,514 Oh, God. 164 00:13:26,598 --> 00:13:28,683 Something ain't right for me. 165 00:13:28,767 --> 00:13:30,852 Oh, God, I'm already tired. 166 00:13:32,103 --> 00:13:33,688 You're doing great. 167 00:13:43,239 --> 00:13:45,825 Press into your feet. Stand tall. 168 00:13:45,909 --> 00:13:48,078 You... Can I take a drink? Sure. 169 00:13:51,331 --> 00:13:54,042 Typically, we drink water in yoga. 170 00:13:54,125 --> 00:13:56,211 This is my water. OK. 171 00:13:57,921 --> 00:14:00,090 I'm Angela. I'm 56 years old. 172 00:14:00,173 --> 00:14:02,550 And I'm from Hazlehurst in Georgia, baby. 173 00:14:02,634 --> 00:14:03,927 Ha ha. 174 00:14:04,969 --> 00:14:07,055 Namaste, yogis. 175 00:14:07,138 --> 00:14:09,015 Namaste. 176 00:14:11,518 --> 00:14:14,229 Namaste, it's like a greeting. 177 00:14:14,312 --> 00:14:16,898 Namaste. Namaste. 178 00:14:16,981 --> 00:14:19,359 Is it your first class? Yes. 179 00:14:19,442 --> 00:14:24,614 So I'd love to show you a couple of things that may help you out in your next class. Are you open to that? 180 00:14:24,698 --> 00:14:27,409 Yeah. Cos I have a little bit of a bad knee. 181 00:14:27,492 --> 00:14:29,953 See if this helps. OK. 182 00:14:30,036 --> 00:14:32,372 So how does that feel? 183 00:14:32,455 --> 00:14:35,875 Feels great. It feels real better. Like, this is a relief. 184 00:14:35,959 --> 00:14:38,336 Good. I'd have came earlier if I knew. 185 00:14:38,420 --> 00:14:42,382 When I got here, I was, like, stressed. Body stress, mind stress. 186 00:14:42,465 --> 00:14:44,551 Why were you so stressed out? 187 00:14:45,885 --> 00:14:48,805 My husband, his name is Michael and, um, 188 00:14:48,888 --> 00:14:51,558 he's in Nigeria. 189 00:14:51,641 --> 00:14:53,810 How did you meet your husband? 190 00:14:53,893 --> 00:14:57,063 We fell in love online. Wow. Yeah. 191 00:14:58,189 --> 00:15:02,068 Michael's from Lagos, Nigeria, and he's 33 years old. 192 00:15:04,863 --> 00:15:08,408 Michael and I started chatting on social media. 193 00:15:08,491 --> 00:15:10,160 And his smile... 194 00:15:10,243 --> 00:15:11,828 Whoo! 195 00:15:11,911 --> 00:15:13,997 It did something to me, honey. 196 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:15,749 Like... 197 00:15:15,832 --> 00:15:18,043 Mm. 198 00:15:18,126 --> 00:15:20,670 Eventually, me and Michael met in person. 199 00:15:20,754 --> 00:15:26,259 Ever since then, Michael and I's whole relationship has been living in different countries. 200 00:15:26,343 --> 00:15:28,219 Then, when we got married, 201 00:15:28,303 --> 00:15:29,888 two years ago, 202 00:15:29,971 --> 00:15:32,057 I applied for our spousal visa. 203 00:15:46,363 --> 00:15:49,616 Our wedding in Nigeria was beautiful, 204 00:15:49,699 --> 00:15:55,038 but it's been two long years since I've seen my husband Michael. 205 00:15:55,121 --> 00:15:59,501 Because Michael and I have been waiting for the spousal visa, 206 00:15:59,584 --> 00:16:03,588 but, uh, we don't know when it's gonna come in. 207 00:16:03,672 --> 00:16:06,549 It's hard being long-distance. 208 00:16:06,633 --> 00:16:10,303 And I was so stressed that I started putting on a lot of weight. 209 00:16:10,387 --> 00:16:12,389 So I made a lifestyle change. 210 00:16:12,472 --> 00:16:15,558 I had weight-loss surgery. Whoa. And I had a breast reduction, 211 00:16:15,642 --> 00:16:18,019 because I was gonna lose so much weight. 212 00:16:18,103 --> 00:16:20,730 I really did it for my health. I was 240lb. 213 00:16:20,814 --> 00:16:23,525 I just lost over a hundred something pounds. 214 00:16:23,608 --> 00:16:26,695 Wow, congratulations. Thank you. 215 00:16:26,778 --> 00:16:30,949 Even though I was happy with my new body, Michael wasn't supportive with 216 00:16:31,032 --> 00:16:34,661 my weight-loss surgery or my breast-reduction. At all. 217 00:16:34,744 --> 00:16:36,579 Well, Michael, everything went well. 218 00:16:36,663 --> 00:16:38,456 OK. 219 00:16:38,540 --> 00:16:42,502 The boobs that we reduced, this is the top of it. Do you see that? 220 00:16:47,465 --> 00:16:49,634 It's still big, it's still a triple D. 221 00:16:49,718 --> 00:16:51,636 He's in shock. OK. 222 00:16:53,847 --> 00:16:56,307 Your husband looks really hurt. 223 00:16:56,391 --> 00:17:00,478 Michael wasn't even happy that the surgery was healthy for me. 224 00:17:00,562 --> 00:17:04,107 All he saw was smaller breasts and he started pulling away. 225 00:17:04,190 --> 00:17:07,193 My husband should make me feel loved, number one. 226 00:17:07,277 --> 00:17:09,154 Protected. Sexy. 227 00:17:09,237 --> 00:17:11,698 He don't do none of that. 228 00:17:11,781 --> 00:17:15,326 Sounds like the relationship has definitely been tested. 229 00:17:15,410 --> 00:17:16,745 Yeah. 230 00:17:19,039 --> 00:17:22,917 But the biggest challenge our marriage is facing right now is 231 00:17:23,001 --> 00:17:24,961 the shady shit Michael's doing. 232 00:17:25,045 --> 00:17:27,213 He hardly ever calls. 233 00:17:27,297 --> 00:17:31,760 When he does call, it's only about the VISA or that he needs money. 234 00:17:31,843 --> 00:17:33,803 I'm gonna let you go. 235 00:17:33,887 --> 00:17:36,097 Thank you. Bye-bye. See you later. 236 00:17:37,223 --> 00:17:40,560 And on top of that, he's put his Instagram up, 237 00:17:40,643 --> 00:17:42,687 knowing I'm against it. 238 00:17:42,771 --> 00:17:45,190 He even went so far as to block me. 239 00:17:46,316 --> 00:17:48,818 So I feel like he's talking to other women. 240 00:17:54,199 --> 00:17:59,204 The whole time I've been in this relationship, my family has swore Michael's been scamming me. 241 00:17:59,287 --> 00:18:03,708 With all the shady shit Michael's been doing lately, it's got me wondering, 242 00:18:03,792 --> 00:18:06,378 for the first time, is Michael scamming me? 243 00:18:07,420 --> 00:18:09,297 I just don't know. 244 00:18:10,590 --> 00:18:13,968 And, more than ever, it makes me feel... 245 00:18:14,052 --> 00:18:15,804 I can't trust Michael. 246 00:18:15,887 --> 00:18:19,307 (RINGING TONE) 247 00:18:21,101 --> 00:18:23,186 There's that sexy baby! 248 00:18:28,358 --> 00:18:30,568 Ha ha ha! 249 00:18:30,652 --> 00:18:33,571 How are you? I'm well, I'm well. 250 00:18:33,655 --> 00:18:35,615 You look fantastic. 251 00:18:35,699 --> 00:18:36,991 (LAUGHS) 252 00:18:37,075 --> 00:18:38,868 I'm not used to compliments. 253 00:18:38,952 --> 00:18:40,787 Makes me uncomfortable. 254 00:18:41,913 --> 00:18:44,207 So what are you doing? 255 00:18:44,290 --> 00:18:48,670 Well, actually, I took my first yoga class, today. 256 00:18:48,753 --> 00:18:50,463 You inspired me. 257 00:18:50,547 --> 00:18:52,424 No, really? Yeah. 258 00:18:52,507 --> 00:18:55,677 Watching your TikToks and how you're in such good shape. 259 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,846 Are we gonna be doing some TikToks? 260 00:18:57,929 --> 00:18:59,431 Absolutely. 261 00:19:02,851 --> 00:19:04,936 Oh, my God, yes! 262 00:19:05,020 --> 00:19:06,604 You are just so good. 263 00:19:06,688 --> 00:19:08,773 (BOTH LAUGH) 264 00:19:11,651 --> 00:19:14,779 Billy is a man of many trades. 265 00:19:14,863 --> 00:19:17,866 He's from Canada and he's a painter. 266 00:19:17,949 --> 00:19:19,367 All right, let me try it. 267 00:19:19,451 --> 00:19:23,413 I emailed Billy for a painting that I wanted to have made for Michael. 268 00:19:23,496 --> 00:19:27,542 And we befriended each other and started dancing together on TikTok. 269 00:19:28,668 --> 00:19:31,129 # Dance when you wanna dance 270 00:19:31,212 --> 00:19:33,298 # Sing when you wanna sing 271 00:19:33,381 --> 00:19:35,467 # Live how you wanna live 272 00:19:35,550 --> 00:19:37,635 # Let yourself be free # 273 00:19:41,139 --> 00:19:43,641 But Billy is not your typical dancer. 274 00:19:43,725 --> 00:19:47,145 He used to be, in the '80s, a male stripper. 275 00:19:47,228 --> 00:19:50,982 And his title was the Original Thief Of Hearts. 276 00:19:52,233 --> 00:19:55,695 And, boy, does he still have the moves and the looks. 277 00:19:55,779 --> 00:19:57,030 (LAUGHS) 278 00:20:01,826 --> 00:20:03,620 That's all I can do, Bill. 279 00:20:08,500 --> 00:20:12,545 Billy still lives in Canada, so we haven't met each other yet. 280 00:20:12,629 --> 00:20:15,215 But we talk all the time. 281 00:20:15,298 --> 00:20:17,717 That's what you do to people, Billy. 282 00:20:19,469 --> 00:20:21,471 With Michael being so distant to me 283 00:20:21,554 --> 00:20:25,809 and making me feel like he's using me as an opportunity to come to the US, 284 00:20:25,892 --> 00:20:28,561 I've had to find support 285 00:20:28,645 --> 00:20:30,313 in new people. 286 00:20:30,397 --> 00:20:33,983 Billy makes time for me and he listens to me. 287 00:20:34,067 --> 00:20:38,196 Becoming friends with you has made my outlook look different on life. 288 00:20:38,279 --> 00:20:41,199 Like, you're just an amazing man. Period. 289 00:20:49,207 --> 00:20:51,084 Hey, I wanna ask you something. 290 00:20:51,167 --> 00:20:55,005 It's kind of awkward, because I don't know how you feel about this. 291 00:20:56,589 --> 00:21:00,552 I feel like we haven't met, what do you think about... 292 00:21:00,635 --> 00:21:03,138 me coming to Canada? 293 00:21:05,932 --> 00:21:08,476 I would love to see you come to Canada. 294 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,521 Really? Yeah, I would. 295 00:21:11,604 --> 00:21:15,316 Billy, I just have one concern about coming to Canada. 296 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,068 What's that? 297 00:21:18,570 --> 00:21:21,573 With all them dance moves that you have... 298 00:21:21,656 --> 00:21:24,242 I'm gonna run out of dollar bills. 299 00:21:24,325 --> 00:21:26,411 Oh, you mean, $20 bills! 300 00:21:26,494 --> 00:21:28,997 Oh, shit. I'd better go take a loan out. 301 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:30,749 (LAUGHS) 302 00:21:30,832 --> 00:21:36,254 I'm super excited. Give me a couple of weeks and let me get everybody settled. 303 00:21:39,674 --> 00:21:44,429 I don't know how much more time I can waste waiting on Michael, 304 00:21:44,512 --> 00:21:49,017 if Michael is starting to give up on our marriage. 305 00:21:49,100 --> 00:21:50,435 Bye. 306 00:21:52,187 --> 00:21:54,272 I've been lonely. 307 00:21:55,565 --> 00:21:59,736 And I don't wanna miss doors that life might be opening for me. 308 00:21:59,819 --> 00:22:01,404 Especially if... 309 00:22:01,488 --> 00:22:03,281 the Michael door is closing. 310 00:22:07,452 --> 00:22:10,580 Michael and I, we might really be through. 311 00:22:12,248 --> 00:22:14,125 It's painful to me. 312 00:22:23,843 --> 00:22:25,929 And I'm really hurt. 313 00:22:51,162 --> 00:22:51,423 2 00:21:55.320 -- 00:21:57.120 align:middle line:90% position:50% # They don't know 314 00:22:53,456 --> 00:22:55,500 # They don't know, they don't know 315 00:22:55,583 --> 00:22:57,752 # They don't know... # 316 00:22:59,170 --> 00:23:03,341 Once again, the Creole Queen is now boarding for our afternoon tour. 317 00:23:03,425 --> 00:23:04,968 Welcome aboard. 318 00:23:05,051 --> 00:23:07,137 Are you ready to go on the boat, Mylah? 319 00:23:07,220 --> 00:23:08,888 What? No? 320 00:23:16,187 --> 00:23:17,731 Hi. 321 00:23:17,814 --> 00:23:19,482 Hey. Hey. 322 00:23:19,566 --> 00:23:21,443 Mylah, say, "Hi, Babushka." 323 00:23:21,526 --> 00:23:23,069 Hey, Mylah. 324 00:23:23,153 --> 00:23:25,238 How are you doing? 325 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,367 Y'all doing OK? 326 00:23:30,493 --> 00:23:32,579 Yeah, what about you? 327 00:23:33,705 --> 00:23:35,790 Good. Thanks for coming to meet us. 328 00:23:35,874 --> 00:23:38,335 Y'all a bit late. You ready? 329 00:23:38,418 --> 00:23:40,503 We can go on. Yeah, let's go. 330 00:23:40,587 --> 00:23:45,258 I wanted to meet with Mrs Gwen today, because after our last fight, 331 00:23:45,342 --> 00:23:47,635 after Jovi fight with her, actually... 332 00:23:49,179 --> 00:23:52,599 ..we almost never talk after that. 333 00:23:52,682 --> 00:23:54,976 I miss her, so I wanna meet with her 334 00:23:55,060 --> 00:23:57,645 and I wanna like, you know, talk to her. 335 00:23:57,729 --> 00:24:01,316 The conflict with my mom happened about six months ago. 336 00:24:01,399 --> 00:24:04,527 And, to me, the situation is really upsetting. 337 00:24:04,611 --> 00:24:09,032 Before, I was talking to my mom every day, we had a very good relationship. 338 00:24:09,115 --> 00:24:11,910 So, hopefully, we can fix this today. 339 00:24:13,036 --> 00:24:14,913 You ready for the boat, Mylah? 340 00:24:14,996 --> 00:24:16,664 Yay! 341 00:24:18,416 --> 00:24:22,170 I want for that, whenever I go to work, that Yara has someone, 342 00:24:22,253 --> 00:24:25,799 that can be around and can help her while I'm working. 343 00:24:25,882 --> 00:24:28,468 I don't want her to be alone for three weeks. 344 00:24:28,551 --> 00:24:32,347 Yeah, I really wanna fix everything with Mrs Gwen. 345 00:24:36,101 --> 00:24:38,061 (HOOTER BEEPS) 346 00:24:41,606 --> 00:24:42,732 Hey. 347 00:24:45,193 --> 00:24:48,947 Titanic? Yeah. The Titanic sank. It's at the bottom of the ocean. 348 00:24:51,866 --> 00:24:53,660 I'll go and get the drinks. 349 00:24:56,996 --> 00:24:59,082 One day I go visit 350 00:24:59,165 --> 00:25:02,043 and Jovi gets very angry, 351 00:25:02,127 --> 00:25:05,630 telling me that I don't help Yara enough. 352 00:25:05,714 --> 00:25:09,050 I thought we had a really good relationship. 353 00:25:09,134 --> 00:25:14,806 For her to, kind of, just keep telling Jovi, "Your mom's not doing enough", 354 00:25:14,889 --> 00:25:18,852 that hurts me, because I really thought she could pick up the phone 355 00:25:18,935 --> 00:25:21,187 and call me and have that discussion. 356 00:25:22,313 --> 00:25:24,274 All right. I got everybody drinks. 357 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,068 Thank you. 358 00:25:27,152 --> 00:25:29,237 Cheers, guys. Cheers, Mylah. 359 00:25:31,114 --> 00:25:34,367 Since then, it's been really, really awkward. 360 00:25:34,451 --> 00:25:38,788 I don't see Mylah as much as I would like to, it's very sporadic. 361 00:25:38,872 --> 00:25:40,957 It's hurtful, it really is. 362 00:25:43,168 --> 00:25:45,754 (CRIES) 363 00:25:45,837 --> 00:25:49,382 I'd really like to discuss what happened. 364 00:25:49,466 --> 00:25:51,134 I will, in a minute. 365 00:25:51,217 --> 00:25:54,012 I think we really need to talk about it and fix it. 366 00:25:57,724 --> 00:25:59,809 (CONTINUES CRYING) 367 00:26:05,106 --> 00:26:07,817 Like you really yelled at me. What... 368 00:26:07,901 --> 00:26:10,570 What did I do to deserve that? Tell me. 369 00:26:10,653 --> 00:26:13,740 I don't know. I was getting a lot of pressure from Yara. 370 00:26:13,823 --> 00:26:19,079 The last time I went to work, you didn't see her the whole time I was gone. Imagine how she feels. 371 00:26:19,162 --> 00:26:22,832 I got to work for a month. She's a mom 24 hours a day, she's alone. 372 00:26:22,916 --> 00:26:26,252 I want you to understand that she really needs your help. 373 00:26:26,336 --> 00:26:28,505 For me, I never thought... 374 00:26:28,588 --> 00:26:30,256 I let y'all down. 375 00:26:30,340 --> 00:26:32,550 I love being a grandma, 376 00:26:32,634 --> 00:26:37,222 but I'm nobody's nanny, I'm not gonna stay at your house for a month. 377 00:26:37,305 --> 00:26:39,224 I completely understand that. 378 00:26:39,307 --> 00:26:43,520 And I do feel bad, because I did let out a lot of my anger on you. 379 00:26:43,603 --> 00:26:48,274 I...am sorry, I should have never took out all my anger on you. 380 00:26:49,943 --> 00:26:53,446 Mrs Gwen, look, so I am figuring out cultures. 381 00:26:53,530 --> 00:26:55,782 I guess me growing up in a place 382 00:26:55,865 --> 00:26:59,077 where grandmas, they always take the kids, 383 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,664 it's my mistake that I was thinking like that. 384 00:27:04,165 --> 00:27:06,876 Mrs Gwen is the best mother-in-law, 385 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:08,837 but she is a different... 386 00:27:38,199 --> 00:27:40,702 I don't know what... 387 00:27:40,785 --> 00:27:43,079 Ukrainian grandmas do. 388 00:27:43,163 --> 00:27:46,833 Maybe you and I should have had that discussion. 389 00:27:46,916 --> 00:27:51,796 I want her to feel comfortable calling you and you to do the same thing from your side 390 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,549 and say, "Hey, I'm free today" or this week. 391 00:27:54,632 --> 00:27:56,718 I understand, I understand. 392 00:27:58,094 --> 00:28:01,431 OK, so we're on the same page? Yes. And we can move forward 393 00:28:01,514 --> 00:28:03,475 in the right direction from here? 394 00:28:03,558 --> 00:28:06,770 Yes, cos I don't want no tension. I don't, either. 395 00:28:06,853 --> 00:28:08,938 I love you. I love you, too. 396 00:28:21,493 --> 00:28:22,911 (HOOTER BEEPS) 397 00:28:22,994 --> 00:28:25,997 So, Yara, how is your mom? How is your family? 398 00:28:26,081 --> 00:28:27,957 My mom is good, she's good. 399 00:28:28,041 --> 00:28:30,627 She was supposed to come here, but her... 400 00:28:30,710 --> 00:28:33,088 her visa interview got cancelled. 401 00:28:33,171 --> 00:28:37,133 And since she cannot come here, I wanna go back for a little bit. 402 00:28:37,217 --> 00:28:38,885 In Europe? 403 00:28:40,178 --> 00:28:42,263 Yeah. 404 00:28:42,347 --> 00:28:44,432 It's been almost three years. 405 00:28:44,516 --> 00:28:46,893 Yeah. Three years, it's a long time. 406 00:28:46,976 --> 00:28:49,312 You wanna go back for a while? 407 00:28:49,396 --> 00:28:52,732 I don't know for how long, we'll see there. 408 00:28:52,816 --> 00:28:55,944 I just miss my family. I just can't wait to see them. 409 00:28:56,027 --> 00:28:59,572 It's really been a long time. I just miss my culture. 410 00:28:59,656 --> 00:29:03,535 I wanna see all that stuff. I just can't wait to go back. 411 00:29:04,661 --> 00:29:08,123 I just don't think it's a good time to go to that area. 412 00:29:08,206 --> 00:29:10,208 It's almost at war. 413 00:29:12,085 --> 00:29:15,755 I think it's terrible, terrible timing. 414 00:29:17,007 --> 00:29:21,761 There's just no reason for them to go overseas now. 415 00:29:21,845 --> 00:29:25,598 There's really a terrible political situation. 416 00:29:28,810 --> 00:29:30,437 With the political stuff. 417 00:29:33,940 --> 00:29:36,026 My mom lives in Czech Republic. 418 00:29:36,109 --> 00:29:39,237 We'll figure it out. She needs to see her family. 419 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,449 She can't just stay here. But it is a big deal. 420 00:29:42,532 --> 00:29:46,703 If they do go over there, one of my biggest fears is that 421 00:29:46,786 --> 00:29:48,538 it could be really bad. 422 00:29:48,621 --> 00:29:51,458 They could be stuck there for a really long time. 423 00:29:51,541 --> 00:29:56,046 I would not be happy with that. I would really have a hard time. 424 00:30:10,352 --> 00:30:12,312 (SHOWER ON) 425 00:30:17,650 --> 00:30:19,736 # You got the yammy 426 00:30:19,819 --> 00:30:22,113 # She says she likes it # 427 00:30:25,575 --> 00:30:28,953 Today is the day to see my baby. 428 00:30:31,748 --> 00:30:33,416 Oh, yeah. 429 00:30:35,627 --> 00:30:38,213 Today, Kimberly is arriving in Nigeria. 430 00:30:38,296 --> 00:30:41,633 I try all my best to make sure that I look good all the time. 431 00:30:41,716 --> 00:30:46,304 But coming to pick Kimberly up, I have to look more clean, clean, clean, clean. 432 00:30:46,388 --> 00:30:50,892 And I can't wait to see how beautiful my Queen Kimberly look now. 433 00:31:00,485 --> 00:31:03,905 We decided to be in the same hotel room, because... 434 00:31:18,753 --> 00:31:20,839 Now I'm going to pick up Kimberly. 435 00:31:20,922 --> 00:31:23,299 I'm very happy and excited to see her. 436 00:31:31,099 --> 00:31:33,184 Kimberly! 437 00:31:33,268 --> 00:31:35,353 Here I come! 438 00:31:37,230 --> 00:31:40,191 The first time Kimberly came to Nigeria, 439 00:31:40,275 --> 00:31:42,819 we really have a good time together. 440 00:31:42,902 --> 00:31:46,614 But now my future is a lot of conflict, because... 441 00:31:46,698 --> 00:31:50,869 I'm about to do the right thing, introducing her to my family. 442 00:31:50,952 --> 00:31:54,664 And get my family blessing then we're going to get engaged. 443 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,425 I need to have some children, like, maybe one or two. 444 00:32:05,508 --> 00:32:07,010 But now... 445 00:32:29,157 --> 00:32:32,285 I don't know if actually she's OK with that. 446 00:32:35,455 --> 00:32:39,709 After having a conversation with my brother, I understand that 447 00:32:39,793 --> 00:32:42,087 a second wife is going to be a chance... 448 00:32:46,174 --> 00:32:49,469 So we need to make sure that we put things together 449 00:32:49,552 --> 00:32:52,472 and have a good argument before going into it. 450 00:32:52,555 --> 00:32:58,812 With all the serious issues that this trip has, I don't want Kimberly to be so stressful about this trip. 451 00:32:58,895 --> 00:33:04,150 So I decided to bring her some presents, like the way she is always bringing me. 452 00:33:17,372 --> 00:33:22,585 I'm in Abuja. I'm about to see Usman. I can't wait to see him. 453 00:33:29,300 --> 00:33:30,969 Hello. 454 00:33:32,554 --> 00:33:34,639 I'm really happy to be in Nigeria, 455 00:33:34,723 --> 00:33:39,853 but this trip is actually more important than any of the other ones that I've taken to see Usman, 456 00:33:39,936 --> 00:33:42,022 because I'm gonna meet his family. 457 00:33:42,105 --> 00:33:44,899 There's questions that I need answered before I go there. 458 00:33:44,983 --> 00:33:49,904 I wouldn't feel comfortable going to meet them and tell them, "Yeah, I'll let him have a second wife", 459 00:33:49,988 --> 00:33:51,614 if I don't entirely mean that. 460 00:33:51,698 --> 00:33:56,036 There's a lot more little details that he needs to make me understand, 461 00:33:56,119 --> 00:33:59,039 because this is not a typical American thing. 462 00:34:04,419 --> 00:34:06,755 Hey! 463 00:34:08,923 --> 00:34:10,592 Hey. 464 00:34:14,554 --> 00:34:16,222 Oh, I love you. I miss you so much. 465 00:34:28,693 --> 00:34:33,990 I came out of Baggage Claim and Usman kissed me. He actually lowered his mask and kissed me. 466 00:34:34,074 --> 00:34:37,619 I was like, "OK, this is what we're doing at the airport, OK." 467 00:34:37,702 --> 00:34:39,371 Mwah! 468 00:34:40,663 --> 00:34:42,165 What is this stuff? Gifts? 469 00:34:44,709 --> 00:34:46,753 Thank you. 470 00:34:46,836 --> 00:34:50,590 Oh, my God, you look so handsome. I'm so happy to see you. 471 00:34:54,678 --> 00:34:56,471 I'm shaking! Look at my hands. 472 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:02,686 I'm happy. 473 00:35:02,769 --> 00:35:04,229 I'm gonna get the yammy tonight. 474 00:35:04,312 --> 00:35:06,398 Of course I'm happy. 475 00:35:07,524 --> 00:35:09,150 I'm so happy to see you. 476 00:35:23,206 --> 00:35:24,874 Oh, yeah? 477 00:35:25,834 --> 00:35:28,628 We're gonna have to have serious talks while I'm here. 478 00:35:28,712 --> 00:35:30,797 Before we go to Sokoto. 479 00:35:31,172 --> 00:35:33,049 Yeah. But I'm happy. 480 00:35:42,559 --> 00:35:44,185 OK, OK. 481 00:35:45,895 --> 00:35:46,156 2 00:34:22.560 -- 00:34:24.360 align:middle line:90% position:50% (BARKING) Daddy's home! 482 00:35:54,571 --> 00:35:56,948 Hey, Leon. How are you doing, buddy? 483 00:36:05,206 --> 00:36:07,250 Hey, baby. 484 00:36:07,334 --> 00:36:09,419 How are you doing? 485 00:36:09,502 --> 00:36:11,588 'Ed went to talk to Rich 486 00:36:11,671 --> 00:36:14,382 and I don't know what to expect.' 487 00:36:14,466 --> 00:36:16,968 But I'm nervous. 488 00:36:20,305 --> 00:36:23,725 Well, you're kissing me, so you're not breaking up with me. 489 00:36:23,808 --> 00:36:25,268 No! 490 00:36:25,352 --> 00:36:27,645 All right, I'm gonna get in my pyjamas. 491 00:36:27,729 --> 00:36:29,814 I am super nervous to talk to Ed. 492 00:36:29,898 --> 00:36:34,235 Not that I don't think we're very strong in our relationship right now. 493 00:36:34,319 --> 00:36:37,697 But every time he's always hung out with Rich, 494 00:36:37,781 --> 00:36:39,866 he always broke up with me. 495 00:36:41,284 --> 00:36:45,038 I don't think that Ed ever really thought for himself in the past. 496 00:36:45,121 --> 00:36:47,624 So it scares me. It makes me panic. 497 00:36:49,501 --> 00:36:52,253 I don't know if I want to know how it went. 498 00:36:53,380 --> 00:36:55,256 There were fireworks. 499 00:36:55,340 --> 00:36:58,760 I've never seen him that...unhinged. 500 00:36:58,843 --> 00:37:01,846 He doesn't want us together. 501 00:37:01,930 --> 00:37:04,140 But I, I called him out on... 502 00:37:04,224 --> 00:37:06,643 his relationship with my mom, 503 00:37:06,726 --> 00:37:08,812 how that's not helping us. 504 00:37:08,895 --> 00:37:10,980 He's sad that he lost a friend. 505 00:37:12,107 --> 00:37:14,067 But I called him out. 506 00:37:14,150 --> 00:37:16,903 OK, but do you want him in your life? 507 00:37:19,614 --> 00:37:21,700 You're my priority. 508 00:37:22,909 --> 00:37:25,161 For me, right now, I'm not OK with him. 509 00:37:26,538 --> 00:37:28,206 OK. 510 00:37:28,289 --> 00:37:32,002 I'm not ready for Rich to come back into Ed's life. 511 00:37:32,085 --> 00:37:36,464 Anytime Ed and I would try to talk about something, it was always, 512 00:37:36,548 --> 00:37:38,842 "Rich said this", "Rich thinks this". 513 00:37:38,925 --> 00:37:42,887 It got to the point where I'm like, am I dating you or am I dating Rich? 514 00:37:42,971 --> 00:37:46,016 So I'm very uneasy with Rich's motives 515 00:37:46,099 --> 00:37:49,227 to still kind of try to tear us apart. 516 00:37:49,310 --> 00:37:53,481 I only want your acceptance, your daughter's acceptance 517 00:37:53,565 --> 00:37:55,358 and Leon's. 518 00:37:57,527 --> 00:38:02,365 It's been hard to, you know, lose Rich as a friend. I mean, to be honest... 519 00:38:02,449 --> 00:38:04,117 I'm... 520 00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:08,246 I'm luckier to have Liz, but, yeah, I do miss Richard. 521 00:38:08,329 --> 00:38:11,958 We did a lot of things together. He was kind of my right arm. 522 00:38:12,042 --> 00:38:14,336 I know this is hard on you. 523 00:38:14,419 --> 00:38:17,130 I mean, I'm not gonna close the door, 524 00:38:17,213 --> 00:38:19,341 but I'm choosing my, my soulmate. 525 00:38:20,467 --> 00:38:22,344 I choose you. 526 00:38:28,224 --> 00:38:30,810 # Hey, hey, hey 527 00:38:30,894 --> 00:38:33,480 # Oh, we're just getting started 528 00:38:33,563 --> 00:38:35,732 # Hey, hey, hey 529 00:38:35,815 --> 00:38:38,401 # Oh, we're just getting started # 530 00:38:40,695 --> 00:38:42,364 Hey. Hi. 531 00:38:43,615 --> 00:38:47,952 Our relationship hasn't always been smooth sailing for us. 532 00:38:48,036 --> 00:38:49,913 And because of that, 533 00:38:49,996 --> 00:38:53,541 a lot of people in my life still haven't met Ed. 534 00:38:53,625 --> 00:38:57,796 And I have friends and family that I want to introduce him to. 535 00:38:57,879 --> 00:39:01,007 And one of those good friends is my friend Bery. 536 00:39:01,091 --> 00:39:03,426 Bery, Ed. Hey, Bery. How you doing? 537 00:39:03,510 --> 00:39:05,804 Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. 538 00:39:05,887 --> 00:39:09,099 Bery is protective, so he's gonna get down to the root of 539 00:39:09,182 --> 00:39:12,018 his questions and then make his opinion there. 540 00:39:12,102 --> 00:39:14,062 So it depends on how well... 541 00:39:14,145 --> 00:39:16,147 your charm and humour works. 542 00:39:16,231 --> 00:39:18,650 I just hope I don't have to body-slam him! 543 00:39:18,733 --> 00:39:20,402 I'm just kidding. 544 00:39:22,862 --> 00:39:26,241 I'm glad to finally meet you, cos I never could put a... 545 00:39:26,324 --> 00:39:28,493 The face to the story. Exactly, yeah. 546 00:39:28,576 --> 00:39:30,954 So I want all the dirt on this one! 547 00:39:31,037 --> 00:39:33,456 No, Liz is awesome. She's pretty great. 548 00:39:33,540 --> 00:39:37,293 If there's someone who knows me pretty well, it's Bery. 549 00:39:39,170 --> 00:39:42,924 Liz told me a little bit about you. My dad was in the Air Force. 550 00:39:43,008 --> 00:39:45,844 Also, I was in the Marine Corps. Oh, sorry. 551 00:39:45,927 --> 00:39:47,595 Yeah. 552 00:39:48,805 --> 00:39:51,182 So, "semper fi", right? Yeah. 553 00:39:51,266 --> 00:39:55,145 What does that mean, "semper fi"? "Always faithful." Always faithful. 554 00:39:55,228 --> 00:39:57,313 Oh, OK. 555 00:39:58,565 --> 00:40:00,650 'I've known Liz 14 years.' 556 00:40:00,734 --> 00:40:04,696 She was the first girl that was ever allowed to come over to my house. My parents were strict. 557 00:40:04,779 --> 00:40:07,657 We just clicked so much on so many levels. 558 00:40:07,741 --> 00:40:14,039 I have seen Liz through a lot of bad relationships, so I definitely want to see her be happy again. 559 00:40:14,122 --> 00:40:16,416 A question for you, Ed. 560 00:40:16,499 --> 00:40:19,878 This getting back together, what does make this different? 561 00:40:21,254 --> 00:40:23,340 Um, to be honest, I... 562 00:40:23,423 --> 00:40:27,010 hadn't, I haven't been in a serious relationship in 30 years. 563 00:40:27,093 --> 00:40:28,970 So I had a lot of... 564 00:40:29,054 --> 00:40:31,348 insecurity that I was dealing with. 565 00:40:31,431 --> 00:40:33,224 But I love her. 566 00:40:33,308 --> 00:40:34,976 I wanna take care of her. 567 00:40:35,060 --> 00:40:36,978 Really? I bought her a new car. Oh, yeah. 568 00:40:39,147 --> 00:40:40,815 My biggest thing is... 569 00:40:40,899 --> 00:40:42,692 I want to hear it from you, 570 00:40:42,776 --> 00:40:46,279 like man-to-man, that you're willing to sacrifice for her. 571 00:40:47,447 --> 00:40:49,324 100%. 572 00:40:49,407 --> 00:40:52,911 You know, and there are days when I make her frustrated, 573 00:40:52,994 --> 00:40:55,080 but I'm gonna fight for her. 574 00:40:57,832 --> 00:41:02,420 Our journey's pretty crazy. Ed's jealousy was a huge issue. 575 00:41:02,504 --> 00:41:04,798 I felt possessed for a little while. 576 00:41:04,881 --> 00:41:07,884 And we would fight a lot about that. 577 00:41:07,967 --> 00:41:13,181 But, seeing his growth, I do feel a huge change in our trust. 578 00:41:13,264 --> 00:41:15,892 We're no success story yet. 579 00:41:15,975 --> 00:41:20,146 But I definitely didn't seeing us being where we are today. 580 00:41:20,230 --> 00:41:22,649 Excuse me, one second, I'm gonna go use the potty. 581 00:41:22,732 --> 00:41:24,609 (GROANS) She hates it when I say that. 582 00:41:24,693 --> 00:41:28,154 I'm like, "Use big words." I go, "Baby, I got to go pee-pee." 583 00:41:31,282 --> 00:41:33,785 So...better this time around? 584 00:41:33,868 --> 00:41:35,328 Yeah. 585 00:41:35,412 --> 00:41:39,624 You said you guys weren't talking at all. No, we hated each other. Yeah. 586 00:41:39,708 --> 00:41:44,671 I was worried that you were, like, believing the things he was saying. 587 00:41:44,754 --> 00:41:47,674 So I had a conversation with him about that, too. 588 00:41:47,757 --> 00:41:51,761 I said, "Are you just feeding me this?" Right. "Or do you mean it?" 589 00:41:51,845 --> 00:41:55,181 And I've seen a huge change in him. A huge change. 590 00:41:55,265 --> 00:41:59,352 Well, I mean, take time to, like, grow together some more. 591 00:41:59,436 --> 00:42:04,566 Yeah. I don't wanna see you go through all the hurt and stuff you've been going through. 592 00:42:04,649 --> 00:42:08,278 Well, I have never been happy the way that I'm happy now. 593 00:42:08,361 --> 00:42:10,030 Good. And... 594 00:42:10,113 --> 00:42:12,032 he's made me grow actually, too. Right. 595 00:42:12,115 --> 00:42:16,619 I love to see you where you are now. I know. As opposed to where you were then. 596 00:42:16,703 --> 00:42:19,247 That was rough. Yeah. 597 00:42:19,330 --> 00:42:21,416 I didn't expect to... 598 00:42:22,751 --> 00:42:25,879 ..love him as much as I fell for him. 599 00:42:25,962 --> 00:42:28,048 Yeah. So that break-up was... 600 00:42:28,131 --> 00:42:29,799 rough. 601 00:42:33,970 --> 00:42:39,809 I just get scared when we do fight, because I'm like, "Oh, my gosh, is he gonna break up with me?" 602 00:42:39,893 --> 00:42:43,271 Well, he would be a damn fool, if he broke up with you, that's for sure. 603 00:42:43,355 --> 00:42:46,608 'Liz, when she loves, she loves with all her heart. 604 00:42:46,691 --> 00:42:50,236 That can be dangerous, people can take advantage of her.' 605 00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:54,491 I wanna make sure that she knows she's able to have her guard down 606 00:42:54,574 --> 00:42:57,827 and be vulnerable with him and he's not gonna hurt her. 607 00:42:59,954 --> 00:43:01,623 (LAUGHS) 608 00:43:01,706 --> 00:43:03,041 Um.. 609 00:43:03,124 --> 00:43:04,417 Well... 610 00:43:04,501 --> 00:43:07,170 I'm glad I finally met you. Yeah, likewise. 611 00:43:07,253 --> 00:43:09,339 She means a great deal, 612 00:43:09,422 --> 00:43:12,175 so I want her to have stability 613 00:43:12,258 --> 00:43:14,552 for the rest of her life. 614 00:43:14,636 --> 00:43:19,015 But I do like what I've heard so far today and how far you've come. 615 00:43:19,099 --> 00:43:20,767 Thank you. 616 00:43:20,850 --> 00:43:23,269 I'll be watching you, of course. 617 00:43:26,022 --> 00:43:28,316 'It means a lot to have... 618 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,694 my best friend be supportive.' 619 00:43:32,654 --> 00:43:38,827 And for me, right now, I don't, you know, really have a lot of local family support. You know? 620 00:43:38,910 --> 00:43:41,162 But family is family, you know, my mom 621 00:43:41,246 --> 00:43:44,416 and my daughter, you know, I hope they come around. 622 00:43:44,499 --> 00:43:48,670 But one thing we know is we love each other and we want to be together. 623 00:43:48,753 --> 00:43:52,007 We're just trying to figure out how we do that. 624 00:43:57,846 --> 00:44:00,974 # Do what you want to me 625 00:44:01,057 --> 00:44:03,935 # What have I got to lose? 626 00:44:04,019 --> 00:44:06,896 # We're a catastrophe 627 00:44:06,980 --> 00:44:09,858 # Both of us black and blue # 628 00:44:27,334 --> 00:44:29,127 Last night was horrible. 629 00:44:29,210 --> 00:44:34,049 The fight with Bilal's ex-wife, Shahidah, is still lingering on my mind. 630 00:44:34,132 --> 00:44:38,470 Bilal is angry with me, because he didn't like how I acted. 631 00:44:38,553 --> 00:44:42,891 He felt, like, I should have handled that situation differently. 632 00:44:42,974 --> 00:44:45,268 And he still will not talk to me. 633 00:44:45,352 --> 00:44:50,023 So I'm trying to see if I could make him something, so that I could break the ice. 634 00:44:50,106 --> 00:44:51,775 That for me? 635 00:44:52,901 --> 00:44:55,153 Thank you. 636 00:45:02,952 --> 00:45:04,621 Thank you. 637 00:45:04,704 --> 00:45:06,831 You're welcome. 638 00:45:13,963 --> 00:45:16,508 Well, that's why I'm here at home, 639 00:45:16,591 --> 00:45:19,719 because the office is closed today. 640 00:45:24,599 --> 00:45:28,937 Last night, the car ride was silent, because I didn't have much to say. 641 00:45:29,020 --> 00:45:32,524 Peace has been thrown out the door. 642 00:45:32,607 --> 00:45:36,152 The worst-case scenario was what happened. 643 00:45:46,913 --> 00:45:48,707 Bilal? 644 00:45:48,790 --> 00:45:50,458 Yeah? 645 00:45:50,542 --> 00:45:53,294 We need to talk about what happened. 646 00:45:55,630 --> 00:45:57,716 Here's the thing, Shi. 647 00:45:57,799 --> 00:45:59,509 You are my wife. 648 00:46:00,635 --> 00:46:02,303 I expect... 649 00:46:02,387 --> 00:46:04,472 the best from you. 650 00:46:04,556 --> 00:46:06,850 You really disappointed me yesterday. 651 00:46:06,933 --> 00:46:10,979 Like, she sat down, like, you didn't even give her a chance to speak. 652 00:46:11,062 --> 00:46:12,939 Like, you, you came with force. 653 00:46:15,025 --> 00:46:17,110 I'm sorry if I disappointed you, 654 00:46:17,193 --> 00:46:19,279 but, at the same time, 655 00:46:19,362 --> 00:46:21,448 you have to understand 656 00:46:21,531 --> 00:46:26,619 when she came into my house, she didn't give me a chance to speak. 657 00:46:26,703 --> 00:46:28,246 OK? 658 00:46:28,329 --> 00:46:32,667 What I'm trying to get you to understand about this situation, 659 00:46:32,751 --> 00:46:35,253 it has nothing to do with her, per se, 660 00:46:35,337 --> 00:46:40,967 Because if it's not her today, it will be somebody else tomorrow, somebody else next week. 661 00:46:41,051 --> 00:46:45,013 What I'm trying to get you to understand is that you cannot let 662 00:46:45,096 --> 00:46:47,182 other people 663 00:46:47,265 --> 00:46:49,351 dictate your behaviour. 664 00:46:58,860 --> 00:47:00,945 Yes, I should want peace. 665 00:47:01,029 --> 00:47:05,784 But, at the same time, everyone has their limit. 666 00:47:31,101 --> 00:47:32,769 She's not all negative. 667 00:47:32,852 --> 00:47:36,773 I wouldn't have married her if she was that way. Oh, God. 668 00:47:38,274 --> 00:47:42,612 You have to stand up for me, sometimes. You know? I'm your wife. 669 00:47:42,696 --> 00:47:46,199 You have to know what side you're on, to be quite honest. 670 00:47:46,282 --> 00:47:48,993 You know how important it is to have peace. 671 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:51,955 Don't let... 672 00:47:52,038 --> 00:47:54,124 anybody or anything 673 00:47:54,207 --> 00:47:56,418 take you away from... 674 00:47:56,501 --> 00:47:59,212 who you're supposed to be. 675 00:48:07,637 --> 00:48:12,559 I'm trying to rectify the situation, so that you and I can have a better relationship. 676 00:48:15,854 --> 00:48:17,605 This is hard, 677 00:48:17,689 --> 00:48:21,026 because I don't see myself as doing anything wrong. 678 00:48:21,109 --> 00:48:23,028 What is this point right here? 679 00:48:23,111 --> 00:48:27,198 Is this blaming her or is this take and acknowledge for yourself? 680 00:48:31,995 --> 00:48:35,081 I take full responsibility for my actions. 681 00:48:37,208 --> 00:48:39,294 I don't want to be her enemy. 682 00:48:39,377 --> 00:48:42,505 Like, I don't want her to think that I hate her. 683 00:48:42,589 --> 00:48:44,883 If you want me to be the bigger person 684 00:48:44,966 --> 00:48:48,511 and if you would like me to apologise to her, I will do that. 685 00:48:51,056 --> 00:48:53,767 'Now that we are married, 686 00:48:53,850 --> 00:48:58,021 I am expecting Bilal to stand up for me.' 687 00:48:58,104 --> 00:49:03,568 I also understand how important it is to form peace with the mother of his children. 688 00:49:03,651 --> 00:49:06,488 'I don't want it to affect our marriage.' 689 00:49:06,571 --> 00:49:11,201 I just hope, in the future, Bilal could show me that he has my back 690 00:49:11,284 --> 00:49:14,162 and he's going to be on my side. 691 00:49:28,593 --> 00:49:28,854 2 00:47:44.520 -- 00:47:46.960 align:middle line:90% position:50% Aah. I don't miss the driving here. 692 00:49:49,489 --> 00:49:51,783 Oh, my God, this guy! This guy, Usman! 693 00:49:51,866 --> 00:49:53,702 Oh, God, see, I cannot look. 694 00:49:53,785 --> 00:49:55,870 I can't with this driving, I cannot. 695 00:49:57,706 --> 00:49:59,374 Just stress free. 696 00:49:59,457 --> 00:50:03,545 For now! Till we fight. I think forever. Till we fight. 697 00:50:06,381 --> 00:50:07,924 Mm. 698 00:50:08,008 --> 00:50:09,676 I'm thirsty. 699 00:50:09,759 --> 00:50:13,638 We're gonna drink champagne tonight. We have to celebrate me being here. 700 00:50:17,225 --> 00:50:19,144 (CHUCKLES) 701 00:50:19,227 --> 00:50:21,104 So are you like... 702 00:50:21,187 --> 00:50:25,483 Like, are you nervous about, like, me meeting your family and stuff? 703 00:50:31,614 --> 00:50:34,534 OK. We'll talk about the rest later, then. 704 00:50:39,497 --> 00:50:41,291 I hope so. 705 00:51:18,453 --> 00:51:20,955 (SIGHS) Oh, it feels good in here. 706 00:51:22,332 --> 00:51:24,417 This is nice. 707 00:51:36,971 --> 00:51:38,306 OK. 708 00:51:40,141 --> 00:51:41,893 Samosas. 709 00:51:47,065 --> 00:51:48,817 All right. Thank you. 710 00:51:49,943 --> 00:51:51,194 You're welcome. 711 00:51:51,277 --> 00:51:56,366 We're in the same room, like there's no more conversations about that, we're in the same room. 712 00:51:56,449 --> 00:52:00,286 No question anymore. And I'm, like, excited to see where tonight goes. 713 00:52:01,496 --> 00:52:04,416 So...I got you a couple of things. Here they are. 714 00:52:08,503 --> 00:52:10,422 Are you ready for this? 715 00:52:11,589 --> 00:52:12,924 Whoo! 716 00:52:13,008 --> 00:52:14,884 I wear your shirts all the time. 717 00:52:14,968 --> 00:52:16,845 Why can't you wear me? 718 00:52:18,263 --> 00:52:19,514 That's so cute. 719 00:52:19,597 --> 00:52:22,142 I got one with your favourite picture on it, too. 720 00:52:22,225 --> 00:52:24,310 I got you this little bracelet. 721 00:52:24,394 --> 00:52:26,021 No, this one's mine. 722 00:52:26,104 --> 00:52:28,815 "Her king." And this one says, "His queen." 723 00:52:28,898 --> 00:52:30,984 I'll wear this one. You wear this one. 724 00:52:31,067 --> 00:52:33,570 You see? You know I always get us couple stuff. 725 00:52:35,113 --> 00:52:36,781 Do you like it? 726 00:52:38,908 --> 00:52:40,994 You're welcome. 727 00:52:50,879 --> 00:52:52,797 I'm not. That's not why I did it. 728 00:52:52,881 --> 00:52:55,258 People think that, like, I'm his sugar mama. 729 00:52:55,342 --> 00:52:57,594 I don't need to buy his love. I already have it. 730 00:53:02,015 --> 00:53:05,101 That's just me, that's just me. 731 00:53:12,067 --> 00:53:13,943 Her king. His queen. 732 00:53:16,404 --> 00:53:19,324 It's not about what I can buy, it's about what's in my heart. 733 00:53:19,407 --> 00:53:22,202 And how good the yammy is, that's what's important. 734 00:53:26,748 --> 00:53:28,166 Thank you. 735 00:53:29,709 --> 00:53:31,795 Oh, my God, this looks so good. 736 00:53:32,837 --> 00:53:34,339 It looks really good. 737 00:53:36,049 --> 00:53:37,967 Oh, you want yammy before we eat? 738 00:53:39,094 --> 00:53:41,888 How many nicknames do you have for our sex life? 739 00:53:41,971 --> 00:53:43,598 How many? Name them. 740 00:53:53,149 --> 00:53:55,276 OK, OK, all right. 741 00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,612 No, no, no. Come on. 742 00:54:01,700 --> 00:54:03,576 (GIGGLES) 743 00:54:03,660 --> 00:54:05,537 You're so crazy! 744 00:54:05,620 --> 00:54:06,955 Wait. 745 00:54:09,582 --> 00:54:11,042 Aaah! 746 00:54:11,126 --> 00:54:12,585 (GIGGLES) 747 00:54:12,669 --> 00:54:15,505 You're so crazy. You're crazy. 748 00:54:18,216 --> 00:54:19,759 I'm so glad to be here. 749 00:54:19,843 --> 00:54:21,386 You bet. 750 00:54:21,469 --> 00:54:23,221 I love you. 751 00:54:29,477 --> 00:54:31,146 # I'm a cool dude, if I'm icy 752 00:54:31,229 --> 00:54:33,857 # But I can make it warm up, even on an ice day 753 00:54:33,940 --> 00:54:36,234 # Maybe it's her, it's the Maybelline # 754 00:54:50,415 --> 00:54:52,083 Thank you, baby. 755 00:54:53,209 --> 00:54:55,295 I did tell Liz's friends 756 00:54:55,378 --> 00:54:58,381 that I've made mistakes with Liz in the past 757 00:54:58,465 --> 00:55:01,301 and I've broken her heart several times, 758 00:55:01,384 --> 00:55:05,180 but I'm really committed to having Liz be a part of my life. 759 00:55:07,682 --> 00:55:09,225 What's up? 760 00:55:09,309 --> 00:55:10,977 Eddie! 761 00:55:11,061 --> 00:55:13,480 What's up, brother? How you doing, man? 762 00:55:13,563 --> 00:55:16,399 Give it up. Good to see you. I need another Vespa. 763 00:55:16,483 --> 00:55:19,486 Nice to see you again. Hey, Liz. How you been? Good. 764 00:55:19,569 --> 00:55:24,324 Being in a scooter club and riding a scooter is something I've done for years. 765 00:55:24,407 --> 00:55:28,870 We do charity events. We go on huge community rides. 766 00:55:28,953 --> 00:55:31,956 And I'm inviting Liz to be a part of my scooter life. 767 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:34,334 I remember our first date. 768 00:55:34,417 --> 00:55:38,171 You asked me if you could pick me up on the scooter and I said no. 769 00:55:38,254 --> 00:55:42,425 She said no. This time I'm definitely trying to like be open-minded. 770 00:55:42,509 --> 00:55:45,428 So we call that Ed and Liz 1.0. 771 00:55:45,512 --> 00:55:47,806 This is Liz and Ed 2.0. 772 00:55:49,474 --> 00:55:53,728 So I wanted to bring Liz down because I want her to know that this is not just a hobby. 773 00:55:53,812 --> 00:55:57,273 It's an obsession. Last time, when you came and got the black one, 774 00:55:57,357 --> 00:56:00,610 I said, "You've got enough bikes, man. You don't need another one." 775 00:56:00,694 --> 00:56:04,114 My daughter called him out. She goes, "Ed, you have four Vespas 776 00:56:04,197 --> 00:56:07,075 and at most you only need two, because of you and Mommy. 777 00:56:07,158 --> 00:56:08,952 Three, but I can't drive one yet!" 778 00:56:09,035 --> 00:56:10,745 Right. "So why do you have four?" 779 00:56:10,829 --> 00:56:14,374 Maybe there's gonna be a little sister or brother. You never know! 780 00:56:14,457 --> 00:56:15,917 Whoa. A brother! 781 00:56:16,001 --> 00:56:17,335 Um... 782 00:56:17,419 --> 00:56:21,548 You got a lot of people out there. I think it's wheels up in three minutes. 783 00:56:21,631 --> 00:56:27,012 Something like that. OK. All right? Let's do it. Thanks so much. Great. 784 00:56:28,179 --> 00:56:31,307 'Kids are a huge commitment. It's scary.' 785 00:56:31,391 --> 00:56:35,979 It was kind of real direct, like, "Are you gonna have kids?" I'm like, "What?!" 786 00:56:36,062 --> 00:56:40,025 You know, like... I mean, you just took the level of the party like... 787 00:56:40,108 --> 00:56:45,864 We really need to sit down and dissect this conversation, so we know how to answer, Ed. 788 00:56:54,706 --> 00:56:59,627 I have never rode with anyone on the back of my scooter. 789 00:56:59,711 --> 00:57:01,796 Aw! So she was kind of the first. 790 00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:05,216 And I can kind of get in there and snuggle. It's kind of... 791 00:57:05,300 --> 00:57:07,052 It's kind of, like, sexy. 792 00:57:07,135 --> 00:57:09,262 Pull over and cop a squat. 793 00:57:11,056 --> 00:57:13,141 You wanna jump off? 794 00:57:17,312 --> 00:57:18,980 That was nice, baby. 795 00:57:19,064 --> 00:57:21,358 It was really good. It's a nice drive. 796 00:57:21,441 --> 00:57:23,109 Is that what you think? 797 00:57:25,278 --> 00:57:26,946 That was fun. 798 00:57:27,030 --> 00:57:29,991 I'm happy you invited me along for that. 799 00:57:30,075 --> 00:57:31,826 I want you to be a part of my life. 800 00:57:31,910 --> 00:57:33,787 I really like TC. 801 00:57:33,870 --> 00:57:36,664 Oh, me, too. A nice family you have there. Yeah. 802 00:57:38,833 --> 00:57:41,795 The kid conversation is always weird. 803 00:57:41,878 --> 00:57:45,674 I don't know. With your age, would you ever want another kid? 804 00:57:45,757 --> 00:57:48,051 See, that's the thing, like... 805 00:57:48,134 --> 00:57:51,971 I just wanna be a part of Ryleigh's life. 806 00:57:52,055 --> 00:57:54,683 I want to be her stepdad. 807 00:57:54,766 --> 00:57:56,434 But, I mean... 808 00:57:56,518 --> 00:57:59,062 I'll always keep my options open. 809 00:58:00,605 --> 00:58:02,273 My boys are frozen. 810 00:58:02,357 --> 00:58:04,025 (LAUGHS) 811 00:58:04,109 --> 00:58:08,947 They're like, "Mommy, where was I?" "Up in Los Angeles, in a freezer!" 812 00:58:09,030 --> 00:58:10,532 (GIGGLES) 813 00:58:11,658 --> 00:58:14,577 When Liz and I first started dating the first time, 814 00:58:14,661 --> 00:58:16,746 you know, I told her that I'm... 815 00:58:16,830 --> 00:58:19,124 you know, thinking about getting... 816 00:58:19,207 --> 00:58:21,084 a vasectomy. 817 00:58:21,167 --> 00:58:23,253 At first, it was fine, like, "OK." 818 00:58:23,336 --> 00:58:25,422 But then it came down to... 819 00:58:25,505 --> 00:58:28,383 "Well, I would always want the option, 820 00:58:28,466 --> 00:58:31,594 if I did want to have a child with you, one day." 821 00:58:31,678 --> 00:58:33,638 Which made me feel good. You know? 822 00:58:33,722 --> 00:58:36,016 So I found a cryo bank in Los Angeles. 823 00:58:36,099 --> 00:58:38,184 My boys are frozen. 824 00:58:38,268 --> 00:58:40,562 So I have ten years to make... 825 00:58:40,645 --> 00:58:42,313 make a choice. 826 00:58:42,397 --> 00:58:45,066 I mean, we have a kid right now. Leon is our... 827 00:58:45,150 --> 00:58:48,403 He's kind of our test run. Let's see if we screw that up. 828 00:58:49,654 --> 00:58:52,866 There is an age difference between Liz and I and... 829 00:58:52,949 --> 00:58:55,910 talking about having or wanting to have kids, 830 00:58:55,994 --> 00:58:57,871 I mean, she has plenty of time. 831 00:58:57,954 --> 00:59:00,582 You know, half of me is like, I don't wanna... 832 00:59:00,665 --> 00:59:03,918 I don't wanna rob Liz of something that she would want 833 00:59:04,002 --> 00:59:06,838 and I don't wanna wake up one day 834 00:59:06,921 --> 00:59:10,050 and regret not having another child. 835 00:59:10,133 --> 00:59:12,427 What about you? 836 00:59:12,510 --> 00:59:14,179 I don't know. 837 00:59:14,262 --> 00:59:16,639 Sometimes, I think I want one. 838 00:59:17,807 --> 00:59:23,438 But I don't want to have more kids, if they can't be set up for a little bit of success. 839 00:59:23,521 --> 00:59:25,940 Nobody can afford their rent. Nobody... 840 00:59:26,024 --> 00:59:27,692 Yeah. 841 00:59:27,776 --> 00:59:32,197 And it's tough, so I worry about Ryleigh, when she's older. 842 00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:35,200 How was your first pregnancy? What was that like? 843 00:59:37,952 --> 00:59:42,332 I went through most of the ending of my pregnancy by myself. 844 00:59:42,415 --> 00:59:44,376 That must have been tough. 845 00:59:44,459 --> 00:59:46,211 And then... 846 00:59:46,294 --> 00:59:48,588 I lost two other babies after Ryleigh. 847 00:59:48,672 --> 00:59:50,215 Aw. So... 848 00:59:54,010 --> 00:59:56,721 I don't want to put my body through that. 849 00:59:56,805 --> 01:00:00,975 Or...not be able to go full-term with a child again. 850 01:00:01,059 --> 01:00:02,727 So... 851 01:00:04,104 --> 01:00:06,189 Yeah. And... 852 01:00:06,272 --> 01:00:08,358 I also only have... 853 01:00:08,441 --> 01:00:10,318 one tube left. 854 01:00:10,402 --> 01:00:14,197 So I want another baby, but, at the same time, getting pregnant, 855 01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:16,366 for me, is like a health scare. 856 01:00:16,449 --> 01:00:18,201 That's hard. 857 01:00:18,284 --> 01:00:20,036 That's hard. 858 01:00:22,247 --> 01:00:25,500 'Sometimes, I do wonder if I'll ever want another baby.' 859 01:00:25,583 --> 01:00:28,378 But going through a miscarriage is really hard. 860 01:00:28,461 --> 01:00:30,130 And... 861 01:00:30,213 --> 01:00:33,758 I don't ever want to be in a position to have a kid 862 01:00:33,842 --> 01:00:35,927 and raise it by myself again. 863 01:00:36,011 --> 01:00:38,096 I would definitely need to know 864 01:00:38,179 --> 01:00:41,099 that Ed and I are in this all the way through 865 01:00:41,182 --> 01:00:43,560 to consider having a kid. 866 01:00:59,868 --> 01:01:01,995 Hi, Lou. Oh, hi, Angela. 867 01:01:02,078 --> 01:01:04,372 Good to see you, you look good. Good to see you too. 868 01:01:13,006 --> 01:01:15,717 What can I do for you today? 869 01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:18,678 I don't know. I'm very confused right now. 870 01:01:18,762 --> 01:01:21,139 Me and Michael's not getting along. 871 01:01:21,222 --> 01:01:23,308 He's pulling some shabby stuff. 872 01:01:23,391 --> 01:01:26,227 I said, "Let me go talk to my lawyer." Right. 873 01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:31,399 The way Michael's acting right now, our marriage is in trouble. 874 01:01:31,483 --> 01:01:34,736 Because with all the shady behaviour he's pulling, 875 01:01:34,819 --> 01:01:36,696 I just can't trust him. 876 01:01:36,780 --> 01:01:40,367 I've never questioned if Michael was using me to get to America, 877 01:01:40,450 --> 01:01:42,369 because I always knew he loved me. 878 01:01:42,452 --> 01:01:44,746 But, lately, he's not proving it, 879 01:01:44,829 --> 01:01:48,958 so I'm beginning to think... he's been scamming all along. 880 01:01:49,042 --> 01:01:52,796 I wanted to get an update on Michael's spousal visa, 881 01:01:52,879 --> 01:01:54,964 because, at this point, right now, 882 01:01:55,048 --> 01:01:58,677 even though I wanna go visit Billy in Canada, I can't go nowhere 883 01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:00,637 until I know... 884 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:02,597 from my point of view, 885 01:02:02,681 --> 01:02:04,766 where I stand in this marriage. 886 01:02:06,518 --> 01:02:09,437 What's going on now, with you and Michael? 887 01:02:09,521 --> 01:02:12,399 Well, Lou, honestly, it's been probably... 888 01:02:12,482 --> 01:02:15,652 five months, maybe, he hasn't told me he loved me. 889 01:02:16,736 --> 01:02:19,864 It's been really since I've had surgery, he hasn't... 890 01:02:19,948 --> 01:02:22,033 He's always wanted to see my boobs. 891 01:02:23,910 --> 01:02:27,497 He's always... You know, we don't do phone sex. Like... 892 01:02:28,623 --> 01:02:30,500 It's just weird. 893 01:02:32,460 --> 01:02:37,215 As an attorney, one of my principle responsibilities is to counsel my clients 894 01:02:37,298 --> 01:02:39,175 concerning the law. 895 01:02:39,259 --> 01:02:44,264 However, sometimes, people do get me confused with a therapist. 896 01:02:44,347 --> 01:02:46,307 Angela tends to reveal 897 01:02:46,391 --> 01:02:50,228 details about her personal life that I really don't care to know. 898 01:02:52,814 --> 01:02:57,736 Well, you're running into the typical problems with a long-range romance. 899 01:02:57,819 --> 01:02:59,904 Just be careful that... 900 01:02:59,988 --> 01:03:02,615 you don't read too much into things. OK? 901 01:03:02,699 --> 01:03:06,870 But he, he asked me for money right after Christmas, I told him no. 902 01:03:06,953 --> 01:03:09,164 We got bills to pay. They come first. 903 01:03:09,247 --> 01:03:12,083 And when I told him no, it just seems like... 904 01:03:12,167 --> 01:03:14,252 I don't know what happened. 905 01:03:14,336 --> 01:03:16,755 He started putting his Instagram up. 906 01:03:16,838 --> 01:03:20,091 We had an agreement. He's betrayed me by that Instagram. 907 01:03:20,175 --> 01:03:22,594 And then I asked him to take it down. 908 01:03:22,677 --> 01:03:24,596 Let me show you...what he said. 909 01:03:30,352 --> 01:03:32,729 Now what husband says that to your wife? 910 01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:39,361 I send Michael money, so he can buy groceries, make payments on his car, 911 01:03:39,444 --> 01:03:44,532 because I'm the one that didn't want Michael to work, so many things can go wrong in Nigeria. 912 01:03:44,616 --> 01:03:48,161 But, lately, Michael's been asking me, to send more money. 913 01:03:48,244 --> 01:03:50,538 And I just told him, right now, I can't, 914 01:03:50,622 --> 01:03:53,458 because I have to take care of these grandkids. 915 01:03:53,541 --> 01:03:56,878 And instead of him trying to understand my point of view, 916 01:03:56,961 --> 01:03:59,714 the first thing he did was put up his Instagram. 917 01:03:59,798 --> 01:04:05,512 Knowing damn well it would trigger me, because I've always been sensitive about his social media, 918 01:04:05,595 --> 01:04:07,681 because of how he did me in the past. 919 01:04:08,807 --> 01:04:11,559 I found the Instagram account. 920 01:04:11,643 --> 01:04:15,105 Why the hell are you following all them freaking women? 921 01:04:15,188 --> 01:04:17,065 I have no reason. 922 01:04:17,148 --> 01:04:20,276 So you're telling me, you don't look at their big booties, 923 01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:23,738 you don't look at their poses, you don't look at their faces? 924 01:04:23,822 --> 01:04:26,908 I'll get it off my page. OK? I don't wanna lose you. 925 01:04:28,076 --> 01:04:31,329 This is why I feel like maybe he is scamming me, 926 01:04:31,413 --> 01:04:35,041 because all he's doing is rubbing salt into an open damn wound. 927 01:04:35,125 --> 01:04:39,004 And that's not the Michael I fell in love with. I can't trust him. 928 01:04:39,087 --> 01:04:41,256 He's never been like that about money. 929 01:04:41,339 --> 01:04:45,010 I'm starting to think... maybe he really is a scammer. 930 01:04:49,514 --> 01:04:53,685 Now, I could be wrong, because I'm upset and I'm hurt deeply in my heart. 931 01:04:53,768 --> 01:04:56,521 But is this his real colours that he's showing? 932 01:04:56,604 --> 01:04:58,273 Is this his true how he is? 933 01:04:59,399 --> 01:05:01,276 I don't think I want him here. 934 01:05:02,610 --> 01:05:04,487 I'm not surprised, 935 01:05:04,571 --> 01:05:09,659 concerning the money that Michael is asking from Angela. 936 01:05:09,743 --> 01:05:13,496 I believe that, ultimately, that is his expectation, 937 01:05:13,580 --> 01:05:16,666 that Angela will be the source of his money. 938 01:05:16,750 --> 01:05:20,170 I don't see how this ends up coming to 939 01:05:20,253 --> 01:05:24,215 the happily ever after that she's looking for. 940 01:05:24,299 --> 01:05:27,260 Where do you wanna go at this point? 941 01:05:27,344 --> 01:05:29,429 I don't know what to do, Lew. 942 01:05:29,512 --> 01:05:32,015 I wanna see where we're at with the visa. 943 01:05:32,098 --> 01:05:35,894 OK, so we could pull the petition, but that's a drastic option. 944 01:05:37,437 --> 01:05:39,731 You've got to make a decision. 945 01:05:39,814 --> 01:05:42,609 I believe that the visa will not take very long. 946 01:05:42,692 --> 01:05:46,946 If it were to come in tomorrow, it wouldn't surprise me. Oh, my God, Lew. 947 01:05:47,030 --> 01:05:50,075 Michael could come any time. It could be next month. 948 01:05:50,158 --> 01:05:52,077 Oh, my God. 949 01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:55,955 I don't know if that's good news or not for me right now, Lew. 950 01:05:57,791 --> 01:06:00,251 You need to make a decision before this happens. 951 01:06:00,335 --> 01:06:04,089 And we don't have long, do we? That's right, we do not have long. 952 01:06:05,674 --> 01:06:10,011 We have run the gamut, trying to get Michael into the country. 953 01:06:10,095 --> 01:06:13,682 And we are getting very close to the finish line. 954 01:06:13,765 --> 01:06:16,768 'Angela really does have to think about it, 955 01:06:16,851 --> 01:06:19,354 but she doesn't have too much time.' 956 01:06:22,190 --> 01:06:24,275 ..our life would be different. 957 01:06:24,359 --> 01:06:28,863 Like, I know he wouldn't be that person he is over there. 958 01:06:30,073 --> 01:06:33,201 But what if... What if he is that kind of person? 959 01:06:33,284 --> 01:06:36,955 Right, the tiger is not gonna change his stripes 960 01:06:37,038 --> 01:06:39,416 just because he comes to the US. 961 01:06:39,499 --> 01:06:42,043 I just thought Michael was different. 962 01:06:42,127 --> 01:06:44,629 And I'm hoping he is. 963 01:06:44,713 --> 01:06:46,798 I don't know, right now, 964 01:06:46,881 --> 01:06:50,719 if Michael is just being stupid and trying to get my attention. 965 01:06:50,802 --> 01:06:53,930 Or is he really just showing me his true damn colours? 966 01:06:54,014 --> 01:06:57,267 These last two years apart have been hell. 967 01:06:58,435 --> 01:07:00,729 But if Michael comes over to the US 968 01:07:00,812 --> 01:07:02,897 and leaves me, 969 01:07:02,981 --> 01:07:06,192 I don't even know if I can bear that heartache. 970 01:07:06,276 --> 01:07:08,862 So you let me know what you want me to do. 971 01:07:08,945 --> 01:07:10,697 I just got to think on this. 972 01:07:15,285 --> 01:07:15,545 2 01:04:40.240 -- 01:04:42.240 align:middle line:75% position:50% (GASPS) 973 01:07:30,091 --> 01:07:33,011 (GASPS) There he is! (SQUEALS) There's the doggy! 974 01:07:33,094 --> 01:07:34,721 Woof! 975 01:07:41,269 --> 01:07:42,896 Look who is here! 976 01:07:42,979 --> 01:07:45,440 Hi, Mylah. (GASPS) Who's that? 977 01:07:45,523 --> 01:07:47,609 (LAUGHS) Who's that? 978 01:07:47,692 --> 01:07:49,694 You gonna come to me? 979 01:07:49,778 --> 01:07:52,155 No? No. Are you serious right now? 980 01:07:52,238 --> 01:07:55,450 Where you come from? I went to get something. Get what? 981 01:07:55,533 --> 01:07:58,244 All right, sit down. 982 01:07:58,328 --> 01:08:00,163 I am sitting down! What? 983 01:08:00,246 --> 01:08:02,874 I have something to tell you. To tell me what? 984 01:08:07,587 --> 01:08:09,255 Don't scare me. 985 01:08:12,676 --> 01:08:16,888 No, but it's, like, super important. I want you to be prepared for this before I tell you. 986 01:08:16,971 --> 01:08:19,474 What the fuck you have? What you wanna tell me? 987 01:08:25,814 --> 01:08:27,899 (GASPS) 988 01:08:27,982 --> 01:08:30,068 You know what that is? 989 01:08:33,655 --> 01:08:36,241 I'm sorry, I already opened it. 990 01:08:36,324 --> 01:08:38,952 (GASPS) You have your Green Card interview. 991 01:08:39,035 --> 01:08:40,620 (SQUEALS) 992 01:08:40,704 --> 01:08:43,289 Are you happy? Oh, my goodness! I know. 993 01:08:44,958 --> 01:08:46,334 Finally! 994 01:08:46,418 --> 01:08:48,503 Oh, my goodness! 995 01:08:48,586 --> 01:08:51,089 Mylah! Yoo-hoo! 996 01:08:51,172 --> 01:08:53,717 I know. I was so happy when I found out. 997 01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:57,345 Do you know that your mama has a Green Card now? 998 01:08:57,429 --> 01:09:01,933 You don't have a Green Card yet! Let me explain. I know, I will go to interview. 999 01:09:02,017 --> 01:09:03,935 You know that's important? Yes. 1000 01:09:04,019 --> 01:09:08,148 You understand you have to go? They're gonna try to do everything they can 1001 01:09:08,231 --> 01:09:11,067 to tell you that you're not here like you should be. 1002 01:09:11,151 --> 01:09:14,946 So you think that there can be a possibility that they would tell me no? 1003 01:09:15,030 --> 01:09:20,452 Of course. They're trying to look at every different angle, make sure that we have a real relationship, 1004 01:09:20,535 --> 01:09:23,663 which we do, but we have to prove all that stuff to them. 1005 01:09:23,747 --> 01:09:27,625 How can I prove that my relationship is real? Like, what should I... 1006 01:09:27,709 --> 01:09:30,128 They will ask me your favourite colour... 1007 01:09:30,211 --> 01:09:32,839 What is your favourite colour? I don't know! 1008 01:09:32,922 --> 01:09:35,175 We have a baby. Right? That should be enough. 1009 01:09:37,802 --> 01:09:41,264 You don't think that's a thing? It's a big thing! 1010 01:09:43,141 --> 01:09:44,601 Pink? 1011 01:09:44,684 --> 01:09:46,353 It's beige! 1012 01:09:46,436 --> 01:09:49,856 Beige? Yeah. Whose favourite colour is beige? 1013 01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:53,943 Oh, my goodness. 1014 01:09:58,740 --> 01:10:02,077 What's my favourite food? Your favourite food is... 1015 01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:05,288 this chicken...chicken Parmesan. 1016 01:10:05,372 --> 01:10:07,457 Which is my favourite food? Salad. 1017 01:10:09,709 --> 01:10:11,795 Grilled chicken Caesar salad. 1018 01:10:11,878 --> 01:10:13,963 No. It's not my favourite. 1019 01:10:14,047 --> 01:10:17,217 So it sounds like we're gonna fail this fucking interview. 1020 01:10:17,300 --> 01:10:19,844 Give me a hug. Were you excited? Yes! 1021 01:10:20,970 --> 01:10:22,639 OK, Jovi, bye-bye! 1022 01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:30,814 You know I have to go with you to the interview? 1023 01:10:30,897 --> 01:10:32,440 OK, OK, after... 1024 01:10:32,524 --> 01:10:35,360 In two weeks, pack your shit and leave this house. 1025 01:10:35,443 --> 01:10:36,778 Ohh! 1026 01:10:36,861 --> 01:10:38,780 It's exciting, right? Yes. 1027 01:10:58,550 --> 01:11:00,635 Hi. Hi. How are you? 1028 01:11:00,719 --> 01:11:02,387 Good. 1029 01:11:02,470 --> 01:11:04,556 Can I get a cappuccino? 1030 01:11:06,224 --> 01:11:07,600 For here. For here. 1031 01:11:08,727 --> 01:11:14,065 Now that I finally have my Green Card interview, I cannot wait to share this news with my mom. 1032 01:11:15,191 --> 01:11:17,277 The last time when I saw her was 1033 01:11:17,360 --> 01:11:19,237 in October 2019. 1034 01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:23,491 It was before I get married, before I will get pregnant and have Mylah. 1035 01:11:23,575 --> 01:11:27,203 As soon as I get my Green Card, I am booking my flight to Europe. 1036 01:11:31,249 --> 01:11:34,461 Um... The banana bread or the keto blondie. 1037 01:11:35,587 --> 01:11:38,006 Give me the keto. The keto blondie? Yeah. 1038 01:13:31,578 --> 01:13:35,790 So the plan was to go home, to go to Ukraine and see my mom over there, 1039 01:13:35,874 --> 01:13:37,792 but the plan is changing right now, 1040 01:13:37,876 --> 01:13:40,170 because Russia may invade Ukraine 1041 01:13:40,253 --> 01:13:43,381 and, honestly, that's making me really nervous. 1042 01:14:01,775 --> 01:14:05,528 I can't imagine, in 2022, there can be a war. 1043 01:14:13,787 --> 01:14:17,165 Especially with Russia. No, we just like... 1044 01:14:17,248 --> 01:14:21,211 We call each other brothers-and-sisters country. 1045 01:14:40,313 --> 01:14:42,816 I think it's still scary, but... 1046 01:14:42,899 --> 01:14:47,070 I just hope for the best and I wanna see my family very soon. 1047 01:14:50,532 --> 01:14:52,617 Bye-bye. Ciao, ciao. 1048 01:15:19,728 --> 01:15:21,813 Oh, my night was boring. Why? 1049 01:15:21,896 --> 01:15:24,399 Cos I didn't get no yammy last night. 1050 01:15:26,317 --> 01:15:27,986 Like you owe me? 1051 01:15:28,069 --> 01:15:29,362 Yes. 1052 01:15:29,446 --> 01:15:34,534 I arrived in Abuja last night and even with the champagne and the fancy hotel room 1053 01:15:34,617 --> 01:15:36,494 and just being with my man, 1054 01:15:36,578 --> 01:15:39,456 I'm disappointed because we both fell asleep. 1055 01:15:39,539 --> 01:15:42,250 Mr No Yammy King! That's your new name. 1056 01:15:42,334 --> 01:15:47,339 But I am looking for some alone time with Usman before I go to meet his family. 1057 01:15:48,465 --> 01:15:50,133 What are we doing today? 1058 01:15:52,635 --> 01:15:54,471 Oh, that would be fun. Yeah. 1059 01:15:56,973 --> 01:15:59,684 OK, yeah, let's go have fun, let's go and enjoy that. 1060 01:15:59,768 --> 01:16:02,270 OK? OK. Because I'm terrified. (LAUGHS) 1061 01:16:02,354 --> 01:16:06,149 Even though we have a lot of difficult works to do in this trip, 1062 01:16:06,232 --> 01:16:11,654 but, the first couple of days, we just have to have fun time, we have to enjoy ourselves. 1063 01:16:11,738 --> 01:16:13,615 Before we face the battle. 1064 01:16:19,162 --> 01:16:21,456 I'm glad we're doing fun stuff, 1065 01:16:21,539 --> 01:16:26,670 but when I was on the plane I wrote a list of things I need to ask you about, like, the second-wife thing. 1066 01:16:29,089 --> 01:16:34,260 But one thing you know about me is that I have the best interest of you. 1067 01:16:34,344 --> 01:16:37,097 Because you know me, if you know who is Usman. 1068 01:16:37,180 --> 01:16:39,265 Who is Usman? Usman Umar, 1069 01:16:39,349 --> 01:16:42,310 AKA SojaBoy, AKA African Ambassador, 1070 01:16:42,394 --> 01:16:45,730 AKA Soja's Nation, AKA... How many names do you have? 1071 01:16:45,814 --> 01:16:48,858 How come I only have Kimberly? ..AKA Face Of Arua. 1072 01:16:49,984 --> 01:16:51,528 Queen Kimberly. 1073 01:16:52,904 --> 01:16:55,865 But now I'm potential fiancee. That's different. 1074 01:16:55,949 --> 01:16:58,326 (LAUGHS) Right? 1075 01:17:12,841 --> 01:17:15,218 All right, here we go. 1076 01:17:16,845 --> 01:17:21,016 I don't think Usman is generally a thrill-seeker unless he's in the bedroom. 1077 01:17:21,099 --> 01:17:25,270 But I feel like he's doing it, because he knows, like, I do things like this at home. 1078 01:17:25,353 --> 01:17:29,065 I'm a little bit of a thrill-seeker. I've jumped out of a plane 1079 01:17:29,149 --> 01:17:31,276 72 times when I was in the military. 1080 01:17:31,359 --> 01:17:33,903 I went skydiving...two times 1081 01:17:33,987 --> 01:17:36,072 and I bungee-jumped one time. 1082 01:17:36,156 --> 01:17:38,241 So I kind of like the excitement of, 1083 01:17:38,324 --> 01:17:41,161 like, challenges and games and stuff like that. 1084 01:17:41,244 --> 01:17:42,787 You can go first. 1085 01:17:45,832 --> 01:17:47,500 I can go? 1086 01:18:21,993 --> 01:18:24,788 I won! I won at go-karting. Uh, no, no. I won. 1087 01:18:24,871 --> 01:18:26,456 No, no. I won! 1088 01:18:26,539 --> 01:18:30,919 And then your little car broke down and I just kept spanking your ass. OK, OK. 1089 01:18:31,002 --> 01:18:32,921 Wait, wait. Like that. I always win. 1090 01:18:35,215 --> 01:18:38,551 Cheers! The people of Nigeria are loving me. I won. 1091 01:18:41,262 --> 01:18:46,101 Who would have thought that I would be here getting ready to meet your family? It's so crazy to me. 1092 01:18:50,605 --> 01:18:52,148 No. 1093 01:18:52,232 --> 01:18:54,984 I mean, I know you're gonna be there, but we'll see. 1094 01:18:57,904 --> 01:19:03,993 We say our relationship is like a battle, because Usman has to get a blessing from his mom. 1095 01:19:04,077 --> 01:19:08,581 And I feel a lot of pressure to convince her that I'm the woman for him. 1096 01:19:08,665 --> 01:19:10,375 So it's hard to be... 1097 01:19:10,458 --> 01:19:14,087 completely 100% confident in this relationship, 1098 01:19:14,170 --> 01:19:18,842 because that needs to happen before we make any decision on our future. 1099 01:19:18,925 --> 01:19:21,678 So you're not worried about going to Sokoto? Not one thing? 1100 01:19:31,312 --> 01:19:36,526 So is Abuja somewhere you would see yourself having a family? Like, your second wife and kids? 1101 01:19:36,609 --> 01:19:38,695 No, no. No, no, no. No. 1102 01:19:51,666 --> 01:19:56,421 As far as this whole second-wife thing, I don't want it to be in the same city. 1103 01:19:56,504 --> 01:19:59,257 Like, I think it would be better if we're separate. 1104 01:19:59,341 --> 01:20:03,636 No. But when I come to Nigeria - While you're in Nigeria. ..I don't have to see her. 1105 01:20:05,847 --> 01:20:09,809 I would never wanna see the other wife. I'm not a sister wife. 1106 01:20:09,893 --> 01:20:13,104 And I have every right 1107 01:20:13,188 --> 01:20:16,733 to say where Usman's second wife can or cannot live, 1108 01:20:16,816 --> 01:20:18,985 because I would be the first wife. 1109 01:20:19,069 --> 01:20:22,822 I think it would be better if she stays... You know? 1110 01:20:22,906 --> 01:20:24,324 Wait, wait, wait. 1111 01:20:33,166 --> 01:20:36,378 Usman is not taking the second-wife thing seriously. 1112 01:20:36,461 --> 01:20:41,758 Like, I already don't want that mental image in my head and now you say something like that? 1113 01:20:41,841 --> 01:20:45,095 If he's gonna be sleeping with another woman while I'm in Abuja, 1114 01:20:45,178 --> 01:20:48,932 I'm gonna make him bleach his dick every time he comes near me after that. 1115 01:20:49,015 --> 01:20:52,894 Don't say it like that. You need to understand my culture, too. 1116 01:20:52,977 --> 01:20:57,023 I'm very fucking independent. I'm proud of that. I know you're The Man 1117 01:20:57,107 --> 01:21:02,153 in our relationship, but when you tell me, like, I'm going to do this and I'm going to do that, 1118 01:21:02,237 --> 01:21:04,531 no, boo, I'm gonna do things my way, too. 1119 01:21:08,326 --> 01:21:09,744 Are we? 1120 01:21:11,454 --> 01:21:13,081 Are we having a good time right now? 1121 01:21:14,374 --> 01:21:16,167 I asked you one question. 1122 01:21:16,251 --> 01:21:17,335 One question. 1123 01:21:18,294 --> 01:21:21,506 I asked you where she would live, that's all I asked you. 1124 01:21:23,383 --> 01:21:26,177 If we decide to build a home together in Abuja, you and I, 1125 01:21:26,261 --> 01:21:29,097 I don't think your second wife should be there. 1126 01:21:29,180 --> 01:21:31,349 I'm entitled to my opinion. 1127 01:21:34,728 --> 01:21:37,022 I'll just stay on my ass in San Diego. 1128 01:21:46,990 --> 01:21:47,251 2 01:18:33.440 -- 01:18:35.440 align:middle line:90% position:50% Lea, where's your brother? 1129 01:21:56,916 --> 01:21:59,419 Say, "Hi, brother." Here, Stacey. 1130 01:22:06,051 --> 01:22:08,136 Are you a mama's boy? 1131 01:22:08,219 --> 01:22:10,013 He is a mama's boy. 1132 01:22:10,096 --> 01:22:11,765 Hi to princess! 1133 01:22:13,099 --> 01:22:17,228 So, baby, you kind of surprised me when you're like, "Why don't we get another dog?" 1134 01:22:17,312 --> 01:22:19,606 But I think it was a smart idea. 1135 01:22:21,024 --> 01:22:23,401 Leon has anxiety separation. 1136 01:22:23,485 --> 01:22:25,153 So do I. And... 1137 01:22:25,236 --> 01:22:27,322 So do I. Like his dad. 1138 01:22:27,405 --> 01:22:29,282 He barks non-stop. 1139 01:22:29,366 --> 01:22:31,242 So do I. He's so... 1140 01:22:31,326 --> 01:22:34,245 He's never quiet when we leave the house. 1141 01:22:34,329 --> 01:22:39,250 So I thought about getting another dog, to help calm that anxiety. 1142 01:22:39,334 --> 01:22:44,631 I need you to stop giving them treats when they don't deserve them. 1143 01:22:44,714 --> 01:22:46,383 But they like them. 1144 01:22:46,466 --> 01:22:48,551 It's not a, not a meal. 1145 01:22:48,635 --> 01:22:50,512 It's a reward. 1146 01:22:50,595 --> 01:22:52,681 You hear that? It's a reward. 1147 01:22:52,764 --> 01:22:56,226 Because she comes in and then she goes to potty in the house. 1148 01:22:56,309 --> 01:23:01,231 And you're rewarding behaviour that shouldn't be rewarded. Tell her that. 1149 01:23:01,314 --> 01:23:03,400 Tell her. 1150 01:23:03,483 --> 01:23:05,610 Got to go potty outside, Lea. 1151 01:23:05,694 --> 01:23:09,030 You hear that? You have to go potty outside. OK? 1152 01:23:19,124 --> 01:23:21,918 It's pretty dark. I know, it is pretty dark. 1153 01:23:22,002 --> 01:23:24,796 But, again, I brought some extra lighting. 1154 01:23:24,879 --> 01:23:29,050 I need you to carry all the equipment up that big hill, right there. 1155 01:23:29,134 --> 01:23:31,219 I'll show you a proper gun show. 1156 01:23:31,302 --> 01:23:33,179 (CHUCKLES) 1157 01:23:33,263 --> 01:23:37,934 Liz's friend Alex wants to have some professional photos done. 1158 01:23:38,018 --> 01:23:42,480 I'm a professional photographer. I did it for about 18 years. 1159 01:23:42,564 --> 01:23:45,066 And, um, I was quite successful 1160 01:23:45,150 --> 01:23:49,195 and I became, kind of, a fashion-cover photographer. 1161 01:23:49,279 --> 01:23:51,990 So I have six photo covers to my name. 1162 01:23:52,073 --> 01:23:55,618 Liz has expressed an interest in learning photography 1163 01:23:55,702 --> 01:24:00,040 and so I wanted to, kind of, teach her something about what I do. 1164 01:24:02,625 --> 01:24:04,711 So, babe, can I have you hold that? 1165 01:24:07,172 --> 01:24:11,051 I wanna find hobbies with Ed. I love doing hobbies with him. 1166 01:24:11,134 --> 01:24:14,637 And that's why I'm taking an interest in it so much. 1167 01:24:14,721 --> 01:24:19,225 My friend Alex is a professional model. She asked Ed 1168 01:24:19,309 --> 01:24:21,478 to take some photos of her. 1169 01:24:21,561 --> 01:24:25,065 I thought she'd be a good fit, because it would make me feel 1170 01:24:25,148 --> 01:24:29,444 a little bit more loosened up, working with someone that we already know. 1171 01:24:29,527 --> 01:24:33,114 I really want to learn and ask questions. 1172 01:24:33,198 --> 01:24:35,742 I'll do a couple of practice shots. 1173 01:24:35,825 --> 01:24:39,579 And then, if I have to adjust my ISO, I'll do that. 1174 01:24:39,662 --> 01:24:44,501 My F-stop is at 2.8. I don't want to get too technical with that. 1175 01:24:44,584 --> 01:24:46,670 We'll get into that another day. 1176 01:24:46,753 --> 01:24:48,838 Always take off the lens cap! 1177 01:24:51,049 --> 01:24:52,592 Let's have fun. 1178 01:24:52,676 --> 01:24:57,180 I know how to use a camera pretty well, but definitely not at... 1179 01:24:57,263 --> 01:24:59,724 You mean, an iPhone or a camera? 1180 01:24:59,808 --> 01:25:03,061 I know how to use a camera pretty well, Ed. 1181 01:25:03,144 --> 01:25:08,066 I just don't know the extent of his professional cameras. 1182 01:25:08,149 --> 01:25:10,068 Hey, there she is! Hello. 1183 01:25:10,151 --> 01:25:11,820 Hi. How are you? 1184 01:25:11,903 --> 01:25:13,571 So good. Hi! 1185 01:25:14,698 --> 01:25:18,326 Hello. How are you? Hi. Good to see you. This is so pretty. Yeah. 1186 01:25:18,410 --> 01:25:22,455 I'm ready to go. You look amazing. I brushed my hair. You look great. 1187 01:25:22,539 --> 01:25:25,166 Why don't I just have you sit here for a minute? 1188 01:25:25,250 --> 01:25:27,961 And I might use Liz to adjust the lighting. 1189 01:25:28,044 --> 01:25:31,965 So that's kind of what she's doing. Yeah, perfect. OK. Sounds good. 1190 01:25:32,048 --> 01:25:34,426 Babe, can you do me favour? 1191 01:25:34,509 --> 01:25:38,680 Can you pull this light in, about four inches toward Alex? 1192 01:25:39,931 --> 01:25:41,599 OK, perfect. Right there. 1193 01:25:42,726 --> 01:25:44,310 OK, so here we go. 1194 01:25:44,394 --> 01:25:46,730 Drop your head just a little bit more. 1195 01:25:46,813 --> 01:25:49,107 Nice, beautiful, nice. 1196 01:25:49,190 --> 01:25:51,693 Play with your hair again. Nice. 1197 01:25:51,776 --> 01:25:56,114 So I'm at 396. I'm gonna drop it to 380. Again, these are just numbers to you. 1198 01:25:56,197 --> 01:25:58,992 But what I'm trying to do is just correct my light. 1199 01:26:00,577 --> 01:26:04,164 It's a lot easier when, um, your subject is beautiful. 1200 01:26:06,166 --> 01:26:09,169 All right... Oh, that's kind of cute. Do that again. 1201 01:26:09,252 --> 01:26:11,338 OK. Nice. OK. Kind of lean into it. 1202 01:26:11,421 --> 01:26:14,257 Kind of just have some fun, play with the camera. 1203 01:26:14,341 --> 01:26:16,426 Hello. Nice. 1204 01:26:16,509 --> 01:26:19,262 I definitely came into this hoping that... 1205 01:26:19,346 --> 01:26:22,432 I was gonna learn, um, some techniques, 1206 01:26:22,515 --> 01:26:26,394 but I'm definitely feeling like Ed is just showing off. 1207 01:26:26,478 --> 01:26:31,858 I think it's possible that Ed does like photography, cos he does get to flirt with women. 1208 01:26:31,941 --> 01:26:35,362 I just really thought that he'd be engaging more with me. 1209 01:26:35,445 --> 01:26:38,031 OK, drop your chin all the way down. 1210 01:26:39,199 --> 01:26:41,284 Nice. OK, OK. 1211 01:26:41,368 --> 01:26:43,161 Perfect. OK, breathe. 1212 01:26:43,244 --> 01:26:46,247 See how you can... There's, like, a vertical line, 1213 01:26:46,331 --> 01:26:49,959 right through her eyebrow, through the front of her chest. 1214 01:26:50,043 --> 01:26:52,128 I look for a line. 1215 01:26:52,212 --> 01:26:54,673 That's my style, not yours. 1216 01:26:54,756 --> 01:26:58,301 But you might find different things that work for you. 1217 01:26:58,385 --> 01:27:00,470 It looks like she has no neck. 1218 01:27:00,553 --> 01:27:02,639 No, no, it doesn't. 1219 01:27:02,722 --> 01:27:07,102 Well, like here. I mean, that's just my thought. No, it doesn't. It... 1220 01:27:07,185 --> 01:27:09,270 Don't ever say that in front of her. 1221 01:27:09,354 --> 01:27:12,482 No, there's nothing wrong with this picture. At all. 1222 01:27:12,565 --> 01:27:14,067 OK. Well... 1223 01:27:14,150 --> 01:27:18,279 You're not here to critique my work. I'm not. I'm trying to teach you what I'm doing. 1224 01:27:18,363 --> 01:27:22,534 I'm trying to tell you what I like. Right, but it's what the model wants. 1225 01:27:22,617 --> 01:27:24,494 OK. And then I just, you know, 1226 01:27:24,577 --> 01:27:27,080 I've done this long enough where I know. 1227 01:27:27,163 --> 01:27:29,249 OK? All right. Well... 1228 01:27:30,583 --> 01:27:32,252 Moving along. 1229 01:27:34,462 --> 01:27:38,883 As sweet as she is, Liz has a hard time being told what to do. 1230 01:27:38,967 --> 01:27:41,344 She wants instant gratification. 1231 01:27:41,428 --> 01:27:45,765 Like, she wants to be able to take a perfect picture, like, right now. 1232 01:27:45,849 --> 01:27:47,934 'But photography is a lot of work.' 1233 01:27:48,018 --> 01:27:49,686 This is just you... 1234 01:27:49,769 --> 01:27:52,439 Oh, my God. That's just you being natural. 1235 01:27:52,522 --> 01:27:54,899 See? It's easy. I'm kind of speechless. 1236 01:27:56,109 --> 01:28:00,071 You know, part of my job is to build the model's confidence. 1237 01:28:00,155 --> 01:28:04,659 Saying that she looks like she has no neck is just unprofessional. 1238 01:28:04,743 --> 01:28:06,828 'And that kind of pissed me off.' 1239 01:28:06,911 --> 01:28:09,622 And I'm sure Liz didn't mean to, but, um... 1240 01:28:09,706 --> 01:28:12,542 I get teased about my neck all the time. 1241 01:28:12,625 --> 01:28:14,627 So I'm a little sensitive to that. 1242 01:28:14,711 --> 01:28:16,296 So, babe, do you wanna... 1243 01:28:18,131 --> 01:28:20,967 The camera's set. You can just have fun. (LAUGHS) 1244 01:28:21,051 --> 01:28:23,511 I think that you didn't use your two ears. 1245 01:28:23,595 --> 01:28:25,263 To listen. 1246 01:28:25,347 --> 01:28:28,058 Babe, you're the student, I'm training you. 1247 01:28:28,141 --> 01:28:31,436 You didn't train me. The whole time, you were training her. 1248 01:28:31,519 --> 01:28:35,357 It took me 18 years to get here. Well, you're not listening to how I feel. 1249 01:28:36,483 --> 01:28:38,735 You didn't really teach me anything. 1250 01:28:38,818 --> 01:28:40,904 OK, sorry, babe. 1251 01:28:40,987 --> 01:28:42,655 You OK? 1252 01:28:42,739 --> 01:28:45,533 Here, let's look at these again, so... 1253 01:28:48,203 --> 01:28:49,871 We are stunning. 1254 01:28:49,954 --> 01:28:52,123 Alex, I'll see you tomorrow. OK. 1255 01:28:53,249 --> 01:28:56,252 That's what I'm talking about. I really like that. 1256 01:28:57,629 --> 01:29:00,006 You're pretty, so it's easy. Thank you. 1257 01:29:00,090 --> 01:29:03,301 It makes my job a lot easier. Thank you. That was so fun. 1258 01:29:03,385 --> 01:29:05,679 Ed doesn't care about my opinions. 1259 01:29:05,762 --> 01:29:09,516 And I don't feel like Ed is being a good partner right now. 1260 01:29:10,850 --> 01:29:12,811 These are awesome. 1261 01:29:12,894 --> 01:29:16,231 I'm so embarrassed to be fighting in front of my friend. 1262 01:29:16,314 --> 01:29:18,566 So I'm just out of here. Ed really... 1263 01:29:19,693 --> 01:29:21,945 ..pisses me off. 1264 01:29:22,028 --> 01:29:24,739 You actually know what you're doing! (LAUGHS) 1265 01:29:28,743 --> 01:29:31,579 Wow. Happy honeymoon! 1266 01:29:32,706 --> 01:29:34,624 ..90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After? 1267 01:29:34,708 --> 01:29:36,960 Just do your little sexy poses you do at home. 1268 01:29:42,215 --> 01:29:43,925 Well, what's your plan? 1269 01:29:54,644 --> 01:29:57,480 We need to be together more than just one day a week. 1270 01:30:02,527 --> 01:30:06,197 Maybe we will go to see a fertility specialist next week? 1271 01:30:06,281 --> 01:30:09,409 Baby, why do you want to talk about this stuff right now? 1272 01:30:09,492 --> 01:30:11,536 Because I just want a baby. 1273 01:30:11,619 --> 01:30:14,956 She's jumping the gun, we are not ready to have a child. 1274 01:30:15,040 --> 01:30:17,125 When one of these happen... 1275 01:30:17,208 --> 01:30:19,836 life as you know stops. 1276 01:30:21,129 --> 01:30:24,382 I would like to have everybody at my birthday party. 1277 01:30:24,466 --> 01:30:28,345 Charlie will be there. You want everybody to kiss and make up and... 1278 01:30:28,428 --> 01:30:30,096 That's not the solution. 1279 01:30:30,180 --> 01:30:32,849 I want the same thing of the girls that I ask of you. I don't care. 1280 01:30:32,932 --> 01:30:36,519 Pam needs to understand that I will not change my mind about Charlie. 1281 01:30:36,603 --> 01:30:38,229 You're taking the coward way out. 1282 01:30:39,981 --> 01:30:42,275 You weren't my fiancee in that photoshoot. 1283 01:30:42,359 --> 01:30:45,779 You were somebody that I was teaching my technique to. 1284 01:30:45,862 --> 01:30:49,699 You weren't even talking to me. You were talking to her and showing off. 1285 01:30:49,783 --> 01:30:51,993 I'm not just your assistant. That's immature. 1286 01:30:55,663 --> 01:30:58,291 Nobody wants to screw their dad at night. 1287 01:30:59,709 --> 01:31:02,170 If I have four wives plus you... 1288 01:31:02,253 --> 01:31:04,130 like I have three more... 1289 01:31:05,632 --> 01:31:06,883 Aaah! 1290 01:31:06,966 --> 01:31:10,470 He's talking about his third and fourth wife. Uh-uh. Disrespectful. 1291 01:31:10,553 --> 01:31:13,848 Nice to meet you, but I'm gonna go. Your ass is pissing me off! 1292 01:31:14,974 --> 01:31:16,559 Wow. 1293 01:31:16,643 --> 01:31:18,353 What? 1294 01:31:20,855 --> 01:31:22,649 This is why I'm fucking angry. 1295 01:31:22,732 --> 01:31:24,275 Because you don't do nothing 1296 01:31:24,359 --> 01:31:26,111 that's gonna make us stay together. 1297 01:31:26,194 --> 01:31:29,531 He might think it's a game. Or he might really be through. 1298 01:31:29,614 --> 01:31:31,282 It gets me upset. 1299 01:31:33,243 --> 01:31:36,746 You fucking did nothing but hurt me. 1300 01:31:38,248 --> 01:31:39,374 I'm done. 1301 01:31:39,457 --> 01:31:40,834 subtitles by Deluxe