Oh, my God.
..90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After?
He'll be the perfect ring-bearer.
Rich, I choose Liz.
Until you're ready to accept my choice in Liz, I can't be around you.
I don't have a choice, but I'm risking everything, like, I literally have no-one, I'm all in.
I love your mom, but she knows that I had nobody besides her...
I love her and I don't want to fight with her.
I'm not gonna apologise for something that I didn't do.
Then why did you come here?
Be quiet for a second, please.
She don't know me. You don't know me either, Shahidah.
I thought that I would be more of a priority for Sumit,
but it seems that I'm not and I'm starting to wonder, is that ever gonna change?
What are you gonna do?
Get the fuck away from me. Get away from me!
Forever. Understand?
# Are you keeping it real?
# I'm calling shotgun, I wanna see my baby run
# Oh, what's the word on the scene?
# We've been kicking up the dust, if you know what I mean #
I am going to Nigeria to go see Usman.
And meet the fam bam.
Even though, I have a 25-hour flight ahead of me, I am so excited,
because I know, when I step off that plane, I'm gonna see my boyfriend Usman, AKA SojaBoy.
This trip to Nigeria is to find out what our future holds,
because if we don't get Usman's mom's blessing
I really don't know what's gonna happen with our relationship.
I can't be his friend again.
Either I get engaged or I'll go home heartbroken and devastated
and I will never date again.
I swear, I will not date again.
Bye. I love you, Mommy.
Bye, I love you too, honey.
I don't wanna see her get hurt, I just don't.
She's got a really good heart.
Sometimes, you can't listen with your heart, you got to listen with your head. You know?
Here we go. Let's go.
'But it's pretty much out of my hands.'
You can only be a mother for so long.
(CHUCKLES)
I'm really glad you were able to come out, though.
I know it wasn't an ideal trip. There was a lot of SojaBoy talk.
Have you ever even listened to his music? Not really.
I'm such a fan, it's so bad.
This is my favourite song.
(TAPS BUTTON)
(MUSIC INTRO)
# SojaBoy # You say, you say
# Don't play no game, no
# Right now, I care for you, girl
# I see you, fine girl from the internet
It's crazy, that's my boyfriend.
# I'm not gonna lie, I would like to be your friend
# If you open it, we go there, OK... #
Actually, it's pretty good. Really? That's pretty good.
# I like the way you put it down on me, you make me high grade too #
It's so catchy. Right?
It does make me feel good to know he actually has music.
He's not one of these people just saying, "Oh, I got music coming."
It seems like he loves what he does.
I want you guys to have your own thing. You know what I mean? Like, without me.
Or we can just not.
I just really do hope that you're not gonna propose
as soon as you get there.
You don't want me to get carried away, right?
I want you to, like, trust me a little bit.
This is the chance I'm taking and I believe in this chance.
Usman is a lot younger,
so I feel what she wants versus what he wants, will end up
causing some serious issues.
And I know my mom plans on
proposing to SojaBoy,
but we'll see how that goes.
Oh, I hate this part. Oh.
It's all good.
Do you wanna come with me?
Come with me to meet his family, please. Oh, see, my schedule.
I have watched my mom get hurt a lot in the past.
She falls head over heels for a guy and things move really fast.
I don't want her to just kind of get caught up in Usman's words.
I know he has a good way of talking.
My baby.
I do love you Jamal so much.
I love you too.
You know, I want her to be happy, but I also want her to be smart.
(SOBS)
Phwoo.
It's hard to leave him. You know?
I'm OK, I'm OK.
It's a lot of emotions.
I said goodbye to my son, my one big baby, to go see my other big baby.
My heart is pounding outside of my chest now.
(SIGHS)
To Nigeria.
Usman and I have a connection like no other man I've ever been with.
I never thought I would have to fly halfway across the world to find that, but I did.
Thank you. Have a good day.
And our whole relationship is on the line right now,
because what happens if Usman's family doesn't approve of me?
I don't know.
But I have a feeling they will see the love that he has for me.
That is my hope.
Let's do it, Usman AKA SojaBoy, I am on the way!
See you soon. I love you.
# Find a way
# Things will always turn around
# If you seize the day #
# Through ourselves we send a sign
# But the messages are breaking #
I'm OK.
How about you?
Last night was very stressful.
I think that's a good idea.
Last night was a disaster.
My parents didn't take the news in a positive way that Jenny and I got married. They got shocked.
My mother said that I'm not her son anymore.
It was just... What a night.
'After that, Jenny and I had a big fight.
Jenny felt I picked my family over her, but I'd just lost my family.'
I was hoping that I will never come to a situation where I have to choose one or another.
But right now, I'm really heartbroken.
I'm... I really don't know what to do.
I just got so upset, because I just knew that you were gonna go after your parents
and I was gonna be left sitting there by myself.
I didn't know what was going on. I only knew what I thought was going on.
And by the time you came and tried to comfort me and tell me what was going on,
it was too late, I was already thinking the worst.
I was thinking I've lost him, he went to his mom. I knew it was gonna happen.
And that's why I yelled at you and lashed out at you the way that I did.
It's really disappointing to see that Sumit
hasn't really moved on from getting his parent's approval.
It's been over ten years. Come on, let's be done with it, Sumit.
But he got up and went after them
and that really hurt my feelings.
I understand everything you're saying to me right now.
It was wrong what I did, yelling at you was wrong.
I'm sorry that I yelled at you, but you have to realise
that I just went through a big thing too.
I needed you, too, at the same time.
Yeah. Yeah.
I'm sorry I yelled at you.
I have to stop saying these things that I say to you when I'm mad.
How do you feel, now that you've told them? Do you regret telling them?
You shouldn't have to.
I mean, where do we go from here now? Like, what do we do now?
Yeah.
I guess we'll figure that out when the time comes.
I understand how hard it must be to be abandoned by your own parents.
But Sumit needs to decide between
his parents and our happiness.
'I'm the one that's in this country by myself.
He's all I have, he needs to remember that.'
We are now husband and wife and he needs to behave like my husband.
If you're gonna keep being worried about your parents and getting their acceptance
and you never get their acceptance, then where does that leave me?
2 00:12:32.160 -- 00:12:34.120 align:middle line:90% position:50% Lift up through your spine.
Adjoin your hands at the centre of your heart.
Drop your hands down to your knees.
Line up your knees right underneath your hips.
As you inhale,
come forward.
Oh, God.
Something ain't right for me.
Oh, God, I'm already tired.
You're doing great.
Press into your feet. Stand tall.
You... Can I take a drink? Sure.
Typically, we drink water in yoga.
This is my water. OK.
I'm Angela. I'm 56 years old.
And I'm from Hazlehurst in Georgia, baby.
Ha ha.
Namaste, yogis.
Namaste.
Namaste, it's like a greeting.
Namaste. Namaste.
Is it your first class? Yes.
So I'd love to show you a couple of things that may help you out in your next class. Are you open to that?
Yeah. Cos I have a little bit of a bad knee.
See if this helps. OK.
So how does that feel?
Feels great. It feels real better. Like, this is a relief.
Good. I'd have came earlier if I knew.
When I got here, I was, like, stressed. Body stress, mind stress.
Why were you so stressed out?
My husband, his name is Michael and, um,
he's in Nigeria.
How did you meet your husband?
We fell in love online. Wow. Yeah.
Michael's from Lagos, Nigeria, and he's 33 years old.
Michael and I started chatting on social media.
And his smile...
Whoo!
It did something to me, honey.
Like...
Mm.
Eventually, me and Michael met in person.
Ever since then, Michael and I's whole relationship has been living in different countries.
Then, when we got married,
two years ago,
I applied for our spousal visa.
Our wedding in Nigeria was beautiful,
but it's been two long years since I've seen my husband Michael.
Because Michael and I have been waiting for the spousal visa,
but, uh, we don't know when it's gonna come in.
It's hard being long-distance.
And I was so stressed that I started putting on a lot of weight.
So I made a lifestyle change.
I had weight-loss surgery. Whoa. And I had a breast reduction,
because I was gonna lose so much weight.
I really did it for my health. I was 240lb.
I just lost over a hundred something pounds.
Wow, congratulations. Thank you.
Even though I was happy with my new body, Michael wasn't supportive with
my weight-loss surgery or my breast-reduction. At all.
Well, Michael, everything went well.
OK.
The boobs that we reduced, this is the top of it. Do you see that?
It's still big, it's still a triple D.
He's in shock. OK.
Your husband looks really hurt.
Michael wasn't even happy that the surgery was healthy for me.
All he saw was smaller breasts and he started pulling away.
My husband should make me feel loved, number one.
Protected. Sexy.
He don't do none of that.
Sounds like the relationship has definitely been tested.
Yeah.
But the biggest challenge our marriage is facing right now is
the shady shit Michael's doing.
He hardly ever calls.
When he does call, it's only about the VISA or that he needs money.
I'm gonna let you go.
Thank you. Bye-bye. See you later.
And on top of that, he's put his Instagram up,
knowing I'm against it.
He even went so far as to block me.
So I feel like he's talking to other women.
The whole time I've been in this relationship, my family has swore Michael's been scamming me.
With all the shady shit Michael's been doing lately, it's got me wondering,
for the first time, is Michael scamming me?
I just don't know.
And, more than ever, it makes me feel...
I can't trust Michael.
(RINGING TONE)
There's that sexy baby!
Ha ha ha!
How are you? I'm well, I'm well.
You look fantastic.
(LAUGHS)
I'm not used to compliments.
Makes me uncomfortable.
So what are you doing?
Well, actually, I took my first yoga class, today.
You inspired me.
No, really? Yeah.
Watching your TikToks and how you're in such good shape.
Are we gonna be doing some TikToks?
Absolutely.
Oh, my God, yes!
You are just so good.
(BOTH LAUGH)
Billy is a man of many trades.
He's from Canada and he's a painter.
All right, let me try it.
I emailed Billy for a painting that I wanted to have made for Michael.
And we befriended each other and started dancing together on TikTok.
# Dance when you wanna dance
# Sing when you wanna sing
# Live how you wanna live
# Let yourself be free #
But Billy is not your typical dancer.
He used to be, in the '80s, a male stripper.
And his title was the Original Thief Of Hearts.
And, boy, does he still have the moves and the looks.
(LAUGHS)
That's all I can do, Bill.
Billy still lives in Canada, so we haven't met each other yet.
But we talk all the time.
That's what you do to people, Billy.
With Michael being so distant to me
and making me feel like he's using me as an opportunity to come to the US,
I've had to find support
in new people.
Billy makes time for me and he listens to me.
Becoming friends with you has made my outlook look different on life.
Like, you're just an amazing man. Period.
Hey, I wanna ask you something.
It's kind of awkward, because I don't know how you feel about this.
I feel like we haven't met, what do you think about...
me coming to Canada?
I would love to see you come to Canada.
Really? Yeah, I would.
Billy, I just have one concern about coming to Canada.
What's that?
With all them dance moves that you have...
I'm gonna run out of dollar bills.
Oh, you mean, $20 bills!
Oh, shit. I'd better go take a loan out.
(LAUGHS)
I'm super excited. Give me a couple of weeks and let me get everybody settled.
I don't know how much more time I can waste waiting on Michael,
if Michael is starting to give up on our marriage.
Bye.
I've been lonely.
And I don't wanna miss doors that life might be opening for me.
Especially if...
the Michael door is closing.
Michael and I, we might really be through.
It's painful to me.
And I'm really hurt.
2 00:21:55.320 -- 00:21:57.120 align:middle line:90% position:50% # They don't know
# They don't know, they don't know
# They don't know... #
Once again, the Creole Queen is now boarding for our afternoon tour.
Welcome aboard.
Are you ready to go on the boat, Mylah?
What? No?
Hi.
Hey. Hey.
Mylah, say, "Hi, Babushka."
Hey, Mylah.
How are you doing?
Y'all doing OK?
Yeah, what about you?
Good. Thanks for coming to meet us.
Y'all a bit late. You ready?
We can go on. Yeah, let's go.
I wanted to meet with Mrs Gwen today, because after our last fight,
after Jovi fight with her, actually...
..we almost never talk after that.
I miss her, so I wanna meet with her
and I wanna like, you know, talk to her.
The conflict with my mom happened about six months ago.
And, to me, the situation is really upsetting.
Before, I was talking to my mom every day, we had a very good relationship.
So, hopefully, we can fix this today.
You ready for the boat, Mylah?
Yay!
I want for that, whenever I go to work, that Yara has someone,
that can be around and can help her while I'm working.
I don't want her to be alone for three weeks.
Yeah, I really wanna fix everything with Mrs Gwen.
(HOOTER BEEPS)
Hey.
Titanic? Yeah. The Titanic sank. It's at the bottom of the ocean.
I'll go and get the drinks.
One day I go visit
and Jovi gets very angry,
telling me that I don't help Yara enough.
I thought we had a really good relationship.
For her to, kind of, just keep telling Jovi, "Your mom's not doing enough",
that hurts me, because I really thought she could pick up the phone
and call me and have that discussion.
All right. I got everybody drinks.
Thank you.
Cheers, guys. Cheers, Mylah.
Since then, it's been really, really awkward.
I don't see Mylah as much as I would like to, it's very sporadic.
It's hurtful, it really is.
(CRIES)
I'd really like to discuss what happened.
I will, in a minute.
I think we really need to talk about it and fix it.
(CONTINUES CRYING)
Like you really yelled at me. What...
What did I do to deserve that? Tell me.
I don't know. I was getting a lot of pressure from Yara.
The last time I went to work, you didn't see her the whole time I was gone. Imagine how she feels.
I got to work for a month. She's a mom 24 hours a day, she's alone.
I want you to understand that she really needs your help.
For me, I never thought...
I let y'all down.
I love being a grandma,
but I'm nobody's nanny, I'm not gonna stay at your house for a month.
I completely understand that.
And I do feel bad, because I did let out a lot of my anger on you.
I...am sorry, I should have never took out all my anger on you.
Mrs Gwen, look, so I am figuring out cultures.
I guess me growing up in a place
where grandmas, they always take the kids,
it's my mistake that I was thinking like that.
Mrs Gwen is the best mother-in-law,
but she is a different...
I don't know what...
Ukrainian grandmas do.
Maybe you and I should have had that discussion.
I want her to feel comfortable calling you and you to do the same thing from your side
and say, "Hey, I'm free today" or this week.
I understand, I understand.
OK, so we're on the same page? Yes. And we can move forward
in the right direction from here?
Yes, cos I don't want no tension. I don't, either.
I love you. I love you, too.
(HOOTER BEEPS)
So, Yara, how is your mom? How is your family?
My mom is good, she's good.
She was supposed to come here, but her...
her visa interview got cancelled.
And since she cannot come here, I wanna go back for a little bit.
In Europe?
Yeah.
It's been almost three years.
Yeah. Three years, it's a long time.
You wanna go back for a while?
I don't know for how long, we'll see there.
I just miss my family. I just can't wait to see them.
It's really been a long time. I just miss my culture.
I wanna see all that stuff. I just can't wait to go back.
I just don't think it's a good time to go to that area.
It's almost at war.
I think it's terrible, terrible timing.
There's just no reason for them to go overseas now.
There's really a terrible political situation.
With the political stuff.
My mom lives in Czech Republic.
We'll figure it out. She needs to see her family.
She can't just stay here. But it is a big deal.
If they do go over there, one of my biggest fears is that
it could be really bad.
They could be stuck there for a really long time.
I would not be happy with that. I would really have a hard time.
(SHOWER ON)
# You got the yammy
# She says she likes it #
Today is the day to see my baby.
Oh, yeah.
Today, Kimberly is arriving in Nigeria.
I try all my best to make sure that I look good all the time.
But coming to pick Kimberly up, I have to look more clean, clean, clean, clean.
And I can't wait to see how beautiful my Queen Kimberly look now.
We decided to be in the same hotel room, because...
Now I'm going to pick up Kimberly.
I'm very happy and excited to see her.
Kimberly!
Here I come!
The first time Kimberly came to Nigeria,
we really have a good time together.
But now my future is a lot of conflict, because...
I'm about to do the right thing, introducing her to my family.
And get my family blessing then we're going to get engaged.
I need to have some children, like, maybe one or two.
But now...
I don't know if actually she's OK with that.
After having a conversation with my brother, I understand that
a second wife is going to be a chance...
So we need to make sure that we put things together
and have a good argument before going into it.
With all the serious issues that this trip has, I don't want Kimberly to be so stressful about this trip.
So I decided to bring her some presents, like the way she is always bringing me.
I'm in Abuja. I'm about to see Usman. I can't wait to see him.
Hello.
I'm really happy to be in Nigeria,
but this trip is actually more important than any of the other ones that I've taken to see Usman,
because I'm gonna meet his family.
There's questions that I need answered before I go there.
I wouldn't feel comfortable going to meet them and tell them, "Yeah, I'll let him have a second wife",
if I don't entirely mean that.
There's a lot more little details that he needs to make me understand,
because this is not a typical American thing.
Hey!
Hey.
Oh, I love you. I miss you so much.
I came out of Baggage Claim and Usman kissed me. He actually lowered his mask and kissed me.
I was like, "OK, this is what we're doing at the airport, OK."
Mwah!
What is this stuff? Gifts?
Thank you.
Oh, my God, you look so handsome. I'm so happy to see you.
I'm shaking! Look at my hands.
I'm happy.
I'm gonna get the yammy tonight.
Of course I'm happy.
I'm so happy to see you.
Oh, yeah?
We're gonna have to have serious talks while I'm here.
Before we go to Sokoto.
Yeah. But I'm happy.
OK, OK.
2 00:34:22.560 -- 00:34:24.360 align:middle line:90% position:50% (BARKING) Daddy's home!
Hey, Leon. How are you doing, buddy?
Hey, baby.
How are you doing?
'Ed went to talk to Rich
and I don't know what to expect.'
But I'm nervous.
Well, you're kissing me, so you're not breaking up with me.
No!
All right, I'm gonna get in my pyjamas.
I am super nervous to talk to Ed.
Not that I don't think we're very strong in our relationship right now.
But every time he's always hung out with Rich,
he always broke up with me.
I don't think that Ed ever really thought for himself in the past.
So it scares me. It makes me panic.
I don't know if I want to know how it went.
There were fireworks.
I've never seen him that...unhinged.
He doesn't want us together.
But I, I called him out on...
his relationship with my mom,
how that's not helping us.
He's sad that he lost a friend.
But I called him out.
OK, but do you want him in your life?
You're my priority.
For me, right now, I'm not OK with him.
OK.
I'm not ready for Rich to come back into Ed's life.
Anytime Ed and I would try to talk about something, it was always,
"Rich said this", "Rich thinks this".
It got to the point where I'm like, am I dating you or am I dating Rich?
So I'm very uneasy with Rich's motives
to still kind of try to tear us apart.
I only want your acceptance, your daughter's acceptance
and Leon's.
It's been hard to, you know, lose Rich as a friend. I mean, to be honest...
I'm...
I'm luckier to have Liz, but, yeah, I do miss Richard.
We did a lot of things together. He was kind of my right arm.
I know this is hard on you.
I mean, I'm not gonna close the door,
but I'm choosing my, my soulmate.
I choose you.
# Hey, hey, hey
# Oh, we're just getting started
# Hey, hey, hey
# Oh, we're just getting started #
Hey. Hi.
Our relationship hasn't always been smooth sailing for us.
And because of that,
a lot of people in my life still haven't met Ed.
And I have friends and family that I want to introduce him to.
And one of those good friends is my friend Bery.
Bery, Ed. Hey, Bery. How you doing?
Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you.
Bery is protective, so he's gonna get down to the root of
his questions and then make his opinion there.
So it depends on how well...
your charm and humour works.
I just hope I don't have to body-slam him!
I'm just kidding.
I'm glad to finally meet you, cos I never could put a...
The face to the story. Exactly, yeah.
So I want all the dirt on this one!
No, Liz is awesome. She's pretty great.
If there's someone who knows me pretty well, it's Bery.
Liz told me a little bit about you. My dad was in the Air Force.
Also, I was in the Marine Corps. Oh, sorry.
Yeah.
So, "semper fi", right? Yeah.
What does that mean, "semper fi"? "Always faithful." Always faithful.
Oh, OK.
'I've known Liz 14 years.'
She was the first girl that was ever allowed to come over to my house. My parents were strict.
We just clicked so much on so many levels.
I have seen Liz through a lot of bad relationships, so I definitely want to see her be happy again.
A question for you, Ed.
This getting back together, what does make this different?
Um, to be honest, I...
hadn't, I haven't been in a serious relationship in 30 years.
So I had a lot of...
insecurity that I was dealing with.
But I love her.
I wanna take care of her.
Really? I bought her a new car. Oh, yeah.
My biggest thing is...
I want to hear it from you,
like man-to-man, that you're willing to sacrifice for her.
100%.
You know, and there are days when I make her frustrated,
but I'm gonna fight for her.
Our journey's pretty crazy. Ed's jealousy was a huge issue.
I felt possessed for a little while.
And we would fight a lot about that.
But, seeing his growth, I do feel a huge change in our trust.
We're no success story yet.
But I definitely didn't seeing us being where we are today.
Excuse me, one second, I'm gonna go use the potty.
(GROANS) She hates it when I say that.
I'm like, "Use big words." I go, "Baby, I got to go pee-pee."
So...better this time around?
Yeah.
You said you guys weren't talking at all. No, we hated each other. Yeah.
I was worried that you were, like, believing the things he was saying.
So I had a conversation with him about that, too.
I said, "Are you just feeding me this?" Right. "Or do you mean it?"
And I've seen a huge change in him. A huge change.
Well, I mean, take time to, like, grow together some more.
Yeah. I don't wanna see you go through all the hurt and stuff you've been going through.
Well, I have never been happy the way that I'm happy now.
Good. And...
he's made me grow actually, too. Right.
I love to see you where you are now. I know. As opposed to where you were then.
That was rough. Yeah.
I didn't expect to...
..love him as much as I fell for him.
Yeah. So that break-up was...
rough.
I just get scared when we do fight, because I'm like, "Oh, my gosh, is he gonna break up with me?"
Well, he would be a damn fool, if he broke up with you, that's for sure.
'Liz, when she loves, she loves with all her heart.
That can be dangerous, people can take advantage of her.'
I wanna make sure that she knows she's able to have her guard down
and be vulnerable with him and he's not gonna hurt her.
(LAUGHS)
Um..
Well...
I'm glad I finally met you. Yeah, likewise.
She means a great deal,
so I want her to have stability
for the rest of her life.
But I do like what I've heard so far today and how far you've come.
Thank you.
I'll be watching you, of course.
'It means a lot to have...
my best friend be supportive.'
And for me, right now, I don't, you know, really have a lot of local family support. You know?
But family is family, you know, my mom
and my daughter, you know, I hope they come around.
But one thing we know is we love each other and we want to be together.
We're just trying to figure out how we do that.
# Do what you want to me
# What have I got to lose?
# We're a catastrophe
# Both of us black and blue #
Last night was horrible.
The fight with Bilal's ex-wife, Shahidah, is still lingering on my mind.
Bilal is angry with me, because he didn't like how I acted.
He felt, like, I should have handled that situation differently.
And he still will not talk to me.
So I'm trying to see if I could make him something, so that I could break the ice.
That for me?
Thank you.
You're welcome.
Well, that's why I'm here at home,
because the office is closed today.
Last night, the car ride was silent, because I didn't have much to say.
Peace has been thrown out the door.
The worst-case scenario was what happened.
Bilal?
Yeah?
We need to talk about what happened.
Here's the thing, Shi.
You are my wife.
I expect...
the best from you.
You really disappointed me yesterday.
Like, she sat down, like, you didn't even give her a chance to speak.
Like, you, you came with force.
I'm sorry if I disappointed you,
but, at the same time,
you have to understand
when she came into my house, she didn't give me a chance to speak.
OK?
What I'm trying to get you to understand about this situation,
it has nothing to do with her, per se,
Because if it's not her today, it will be somebody else tomorrow, somebody else next week.
What I'm trying to get you to understand is that you cannot let
other people
dictate your behaviour.
Yes, I should want peace.
But, at the same time, everyone has their limit.
She's not all negative.
I wouldn't have married her if she was that way. Oh, God.
You have to stand up for me, sometimes. You know? I'm your wife.
You have to know what side you're on, to be quite honest.
You know how important it is to have peace.
Don't let...
anybody or anything
take you away from...
who you're supposed to be.
I'm trying to rectify the situation, so that you and I can have a better relationship.
This is hard,
because I don't see myself as doing anything wrong.
What is this point right here?
Is this blaming her or is this take and acknowledge for yourself?
I take full responsibility for my actions.
I don't want to be her enemy.
Like, I don't want her to think that I hate her.
If you want me to be the bigger person
and if you would like me to apologise to her, I will do that.
'Now that we are married,
I am expecting Bilal to stand up for me.'
I also understand how important it is to form peace with the mother of his children.
'I don't want it to affect our marriage.'
I just hope, in the future, Bilal could show me that he has my back
and he's going to be on my side.
2 00:47:44.520 -- 00:47:46.960 align:middle line:90% position:50% Aah. I don't miss the driving here.
Oh, my God, this guy! This guy, Usman!
Oh, God, see, I cannot look.
I can't with this driving, I cannot.
Just stress free.
For now! Till we fight. I think forever. Till we fight.
Mm.
I'm thirsty.
We're gonna drink champagne tonight. We have to celebrate me being here.
(CHUCKLES)
So are you like...
Like, are you nervous about, like, me meeting your family and stuff?
OK. We'll talk about the rest later, then.
I hope so.
(SIGHS) Oh, it feels good in here.
This is nice.
OK.
Samosas.
All right. Thank you.
You're welcome.
We're in the same room, like there's no more conversations about that, we're in the same room.
No question anymore. And I'm, like, excited to see where tonight goes.
So...I got you a couple of things. Here they are.
Are you ready for this?
Whoo!
I wear your shirts all the time.
Why can't you wear me?
That's so cute.
I got one with your favourite picture on it, too.
I got you this little bracelet.
No, this one's mine.
"Her king." And this one says, "His queen."
I'll wear this one. You wear this one.
You see? You know I always get us couple stuff.
Do you like it?
You're welcome.
I'm not. That's not why I did it.
People think that, like, I'm his sugar mama.
I don't need to buy his love. I already have it.
That's just me, that's just me.
Her king. His queen.
It's not about what I can buy, it's about what's in my heart.
And how good the yammy is, that's what's important.
Thank you.
Oh, my God, this looks so good.
It looks really good.
Oh, you want yammy before we eat?
How many nicknames do you have for our sex life?
How many? Name them.
OK, OK, all right.
No, no, no. Come on.
(GIGGLES)
You're so crazy!
Wait.
Aaah!
(GIGGLES)
You're so crazy. You're crazy.
I'm so glad to be here.
You bet.
I love you.
# I'm a cool dude, if I'm icy
# But I can make it warm up, even on an ice day
# Maybe it's her, it's the Maybelline #
Thank you, baby.
I did tell Liz's friends
that I've made mistakes with Liz in the past
and I've broken her heart several times,
but I'm really committed to having Liz be a part of my life.
What's up?
Eddie!
What's up, brother? How you doing, man?
Give it up. Good to see you. I need another Vespa.
Nice to see you again. Hey, Liz. How you been? Good.
Being in a scooter club and riding a scooter is something I've done for years.
We do charity events. We go on huge community rides.
And I'm inviting Liz to be a part of my scooter life.
I remember our first date.
You asked me if you could pick me up on the scooter and I said no.
She said no. This time I'm definitely trying to like be open-minded.
So we call that Ed and Liz 1.0.
This is Liz and Ed 2.0.
So I wanted to bring Liz down because I want her to know that this is not just a hobby.
It's an obsession. Last time, when you came and got the black one,
I said, "You've got enough bikes, man. You don't need another one."
My daughter called him out. She goes, "Ed, you have four Vespas
and at most you only need two, because of you and Mommy.
Three, but I can't drive one yet!"
Right. "So why do you have four?"
Maybe there's gonna be a little sister or brother. You never know!
Whoa. A brother!
Um...
You got a lot of people out there. I think it's wheels up in three minutes.
Something like that. OK. All right? Let's do it. Thanks so much. Great.
'Kids are a huge commitment. It's scary.'
It was kind of real direct, like, "Are you gonna have kids?" I'm like, "What?!"
You know, like... I mean, you just took the level of the party like...
We really need to sit down and dissect this conversation, so we know how to answer, Ed.
I have never rode with anyone on the back of my scooter.
Aw! So she was kind of the first.
And I can kind of get in there and snuggle. It's kind of...
It's kind of, like, sexy.
Pull over and cop a squat.
You wanna jump off?
That was nice, baby.
It was really good. It's a nice drive.
Is that what you think?
That was fun.
I'm happy you invited me along for that.
I want you to be a part of my life.
I really like TC.
Oh, me, too. A nice family you have there. Yeah.
The kid conversation is always weird.
I don't know. With your age, would you ever want another kid?
See, that's the thing, like...
I just wanna be a part of Ryleigh's life.
I want to be her stepdad.
But, I mean...
I'll always keep my options open.
My boys are frozen.
(LAUGHS)
They're like, "Mommy, where was I?" "Up in Los Angeles, in a freezer!"
(GIGGLES)
When Liz and I first started dating the first time,
you know, I told her that I'm...
you know, thinking about getting...
a vasectomy.
At first, it was fine, like, "OK."
But then it came down to...
"Well, I would always want the option,
if I did want to have a child with you, one day."
Which made me feel good. You know?
So I found a cryo bank in Los Angeles.
My boys are frozen.
So I have ten years to make...
make a choice.
I mean, we have a kid right now. Leon is our...
He's kind of our test run. Let's see if we screw that up.
There is an age difference between Liz and I and...
talking about having or wanting to have kids,
I mean, she has plenty of time.
You know, half of me is like, I don't wanna...
I don't wanna rob Liz of something that she would want
and I don't wanna wake up one day
and regret not having another child.
What about you?
I don't know.
Sometimes, I think I want one.
But I don't want to have more kids, if they can't be set up for a little bit of success.
Nobody can afford their rent. Nobody...
Yeah.
And it's tough, so I worry about Ryleigh, when she's older.
How was your first pregnancy? What was that like?
I went through most of the ending of my pregnancy by myself.
That must have been tough.
And then...
I lost two other babies after Ryleigh.
Aw. So...
I don't want to put my body through that.
Or...not be able to go full-term with a child again.
So...
Yeah. And...
I also only have...
one tube left.
So I want another baby, but, at the same time, getting pregnant,
for me, is like a health scare.
That's hard.
'Sometimes, I do wonder if I'll ever want another baby.'
But going through a miscarriage is really hard.
And...
I don't ever want to be in a position to have a kid
and raise it by myself again.
I would definitely need to know
that Ed and I are in this all the way through
to consider having a kid.
Hi, Lou. Oh, hi, Angela.
Good to see you, you look good. Good to see you too.
What can I do for you today?
I don't know. I'm very confused right now.
Me and Michael's not getting along.
He's pulling some shabby stuff.
I said, "Let me go talk to my lawyer." Right.
The way Michael's acting right now, our marriage is in trouble.
Because with all the shady behaviour he's pulling,
I just can't trust him.
I've never questioned if Michael was using me to get to America,
because I always knew he loved me.
But, lately, he's not proving it,
so I'm beginning to think... he's been scamming all along.
I wanted to get an update on Michael's spousal visa,
because, at this point, right now,
even though I wanna go visit Billy in Canada, I can't go nowhere
until I know...
from my point of view,
where I stand in this marriage.
What's going on now, with you and Michael?
Well, Lou, honestly, it's been probably...
five months, maybe, he hasn't told me he loved me.
It's been really since I've had surgery, he hasn't...
He's always wanted to see my boobs.
He's always... You know, we don't do phone sex. Like...
It's just weird.
As an attorney, one of my principle responsibilities is to counsel my clients
concerning the law.
However, sometimes, people do get me confused with a therapist.
Angela tends to reveal
details about her personal life that I really don't care to know.
Well, you're running into the typical problems with a long-range romance.
Just be careful that...
you don't read too much into things. OK?
But he, he asked me for money right after Christmas, I told him no.
We got bills to pay. They come first.
And when I told him no, it just seems like...
I don't know what happened.
He started putting his Instagram up.
We had an agreement. He's betrayed me by that Instagram.
And then I asked him to take it down.
Let me show you...what he said.
Now what husband says that to your wife?
I send Michael money, so he can buy groceries, make payments on his car,
because I'm the one that didn't want Michael to work, so many things can go wrong in Nigeria.
But, lately, Michael's been asking me, to send more money.
And I just told him, right now, I can't,
because I have to take care of these grandkids.
And instead of him trying to understand my point of view,
the first thing he did was put up his Instagram.
Knowing damn well it would trigger me, because I've always been sensitive about his social media,
because of how he did me in the past.
I found the Instagram account.
Why the hell are you following all them freaking women?
I have no reason.
So you're telling me, you don't look at their big booties,
you don't look at their poses, you don't look at their faces?
I'll get it off my page. OK? I don't wanna lose you.
This is why I feel like maybe he is scamming me,
because all he's doing is rubbing salt into an open damn wound.
And that's not the Michael I fell in love with. I can't trust him.
He's never been like that about money.
I'm starting to think... maybe he really is a scammer.
Now, I could be wrong, because I'm upset and I'm hurt deeply in my heart.
But is this his real colours that he's showing?
Is this his true how he is?
I don't think I want him here.
I'm not surprised,
concerning the money that Michael is asking from Angela.
I believe that, ultimately, that is his expectation,
that Angela will be the source of his money.
I don't see how this ends up coming to
the happily ever after that she's looking for.
Where do you wanna go at this point?
I don't know what to do, Lew.
I wanna see where we're at with the visa.
OK, so we could pull the petition, but that's a drastic option.
You've got to make a decision.
I believe that the visa will not take very long.
If it were to come in tomorrow, it wouldn't surprise me. Oh, my God, Lew.
Michael could come any time. It could be next month.
Oh, my God.
I don't know if that's good news or not for me right now, Lew.
You need to make a decision before this happens.
And we don't have long, do we? That's right, we do not have long.
We have run the gamut, trying to get Michael into the country.
And we are getting very close to the finish line.
'Angela really does have to think about it,
but she doesn't have too much time.'
..our life would be different.
Like, I know he wouldn't be that person he is over there.
But what if... What if he is that kind of person?
Right, the tiger is not gonna change his stripes
just because he comes to the US.
I just thought Michael was different.
And I'm hoping he is.
I don't know, right now,
if Michael is just being stupid and trying to get my attention.
Or is he really just showing me his true damn colours?
These last two years apart have been hell.
But if Michael comes over to the US
and leaves me,
I don't even know if I can bear that heartache.
So you let me know what you want me to do.
I just got to think on this.
2 01:04:40.240 -- 01:04:42.240 align:middle line:75% position:50% (GASPS)
(GASPS) There he is! (SQUEALS) There's the doggy!
Woof!
Look who is here!
Hi, Mylah. (GASPS) Who's that?
(LAUGHS) Who's that?
You gonna come to me?
No? No. Are you serious right now?
Where you come from? I went to get something. Get what?
All right, sit down.
I am sitting down! What?
I have something to tell you. To tell me what?
Don't scare me.
No, but it's, like, super important. I want you to be prepared for this before I tell you.
What the fuck you have? What you wanna tell me?
(GASPS)
You know what that is?
I'm sorry, I already opened it.
(GASPS) You have your Green Card interview.
(SQUEALS)
Are you happy? Oh, my goodness! I know.
Finally!
Oh, my goodness!
Mylah! Yoo-hoo!
I know. I was so happy when I found out.
Do you know that your mama has a Green Card now?
You don't have a Green Card yet! Let me explain. I know, I will go to interview.
You know that's important? Yes.
You understand you have to go? They're gonna try to do everything they can
to tell you that you're not here like you should be.
So you think that there can be a possibility that they would tell me no?
Of course. They're trying to look at every different angle, make sure that we have a real relationship,
which we do, but we have to prove all that stuff to them.
How can I prove that my relationship is real? Like, what should I...
They will ask me your favourite colour...
What is your favourite colour? I don't know!
We have a baby. Right? That should be enough.
You don't think that's a thing? It's a big thing!
Pink?
It's beige!
Beige? Yeah. Whose favourite colour is beige?
Oh, my goodness.
What's my favourite food? Your favourite food is...
this chicken...chicken Parmesan.
Which is my favourite food? Salad.
Grilled chicken Caesar salad.
No. It's not my favourite.
So it sounds like we're gonna fail this fucking interview.
Give me a hug. Were you excited? Yes!
OK, Jovi, bye-bye!
You know I have to go with you to the interview?
OK, OK, after...
In two weeks, pack your shit and leave this house.
Ohh!
It's exciting, right? Yes.
Hi. Hi. How are you?
Good.
Can I get a cappuccino?
For here. For here.
Now that I finally have my Green Card interview, I cannot wait to share this news with my mom.
The last time when I saw her was
in October 2019.
It was before I get married, before I will get pregnant and have Mylah.
As soon as I get my Green Card, I am booking my flight to Europe.
Um... The banana bread or the keto blondie.
Give me the keto. The keto blondie? Yeah.
So the plan was to go home, to go to Ukraine and see my mom over there,
but the plan is changing right now,
because Russia may invade Ukraine
and, honestly, that's making me really nervous.
I can't imagine, in 2022, there can be a war.
Especially with Russia. No, we just like...
We call each other brothers-and-sisters country.
I think it's still scary, but...
I just hope for the best and I wanna see my family very soon.
Bye-bye. Ciao, ciao.
Oh, my night was boring. Why?
Cos I didn't get no yammy last night.
Like you owe me?
Yes.
I arrived in Abuja last night and even with the champagne and the fancy hotel room
and just being with my man,
I'm disappointed because we both fell asleep.
Mr No Yammy King! That's your new name.
But I am looking for some alone time with Usman before I go to meet his family.
What are we doing today?
Oh, that would be fun. Yeah.
OK, yeah, let's go have fun, let's go and enjoy that.
OK? OK. Because I'm terrified. (LAUGHS)
Even though we have a lot of difficult works to do in this trip,
but, the first couple of days, we just have to have fun time, we have to enjoy ourselves.
Before we face the battle.
I'm glad we're doing fun stuff,
but when I was on the plane I wrote a list of things I need to ask you about, like, the second-wife thing.
But one thing you know about me is that I have the best interest of you.
Because you know me, if you know who is Usman.
Who is Usman? Usman Umar,
AKA SojaBoy, AKA African Ambassador,
AKA Soja's Nation, AKA... How many names do you have?
How come I only have Kimberly? ..AKA Face Of Arua.
Queen Kimberly.
But now I'm potential fiancee. That's different.
(LAUGHS) Right?
All right, here we go.
I don't think Usman is generally a thrill-seeker unless he's in the bedroom.
But I feel like he's doing it, because he knows, like, I do things like this at home.
I'm a little bit of a thrill-seeker. I've jumped out of a plane
72 times when I was in the military.
I went skydiving...two times
and I bungee-jumped one time.
So I kind of like the excitement of,
like, challenges and games and stuff like that.
You can go first.
I can go?
I won! I won at go-karting. Uh, no, no. I won.
No, no. I won!
And then your little car broke down and I just kept spanking your ass. OK, OK.
Wait, wait. Like that. I always win.
Cheers! The people of Nigeria are loving me. I won.
Who would have thought that I would be here getting ready to meet your family? It's so crazy to me.
No.
I mean, I know you're gonna be there, but we'll see.
We say our relationship is like a battle, because Usman has to get a blessing from his mom.
And I feel a lot of pressure to convince her that I'm the woman for him.
So it's hard to be...
completely 100% confident in this relationship,
because that needs to happen before we make any decision on our future.
So you're not worried about going to Sokoto? Not one thing?
So is Abuja somewhere you would see yourself having a family? Like, your second wife and kids?
No, no. No, no, no. No.
As far as this whole second-wife thing, I don't want it to be in the same city.
Like, I think it would be better if we're separate.
No. But when I come to Nigeria - While you're in Nigeria. ..I don't have to see her.
I would never wanna see the other wife. I'm not a sister wife.
And I have every right
to say where Usman's second wife can or cannot live,
because I would be the first wife.
I think it would be better if she stays... You know?
Wait, wait, wait.
Usman is not taking the second-wife thing seriously.
Like, I already don't want that mental image in my head and now you say something like that?
If he's gonna be sleeping with another woman while I'm in Abuja,
I'm gonna make him bleach his dick every time he comes near me after that.
Don't say it like that. You need to understand my culture, too.
I'm very fucking independent. I'm proud of that. I know you're The Man
in our relationship, but when you tell me, like, I'm going to do this and I'm going to do that,
no, boo, I'm gonna do things my way, too.
Are we?
Are we having a good time right now?
I asked you one question.
One question.
I asked you where she would live, that's all I asked you.
If we decide to build a home together in Abuja, you and I,
I don't think your second wife should be there.
I'm entitled to my opinion.
I'll just stay on my ass in San Diego.
2 01:18:33.440 -- 01:18:35.440 align:middle line:90% position:50% Lea, where's your brother?
Say, "Hi, brother." Here, Stacey.
Are you a mama's boy?
He is a mama's boy.
Hi to princess!
So, baby, you kind of surprised me when you're like, "Why don't we get another dog?"
But I think it was a smart idea.
Leon has anxiety separation.
So do I. And...
So do I. Like his dad.
He barks non-stop.
So do I. He's so...
He's never quiet when we leave the house.
So I thought about getting another dog, to help calm that anxiety.
I need you to stop giving them treats when they don't deserve them.
But they like them.
It's not a, not a meal.
It's a reward.
You hear that? It's a reward.
Because she comes in and then she goes to potty in the house.
And you're rewarding behaviour that shouldn't be rewarded. Tell her that.
Tell her.
Got to go potty outside, Lea.
You hear that? You have to go potty outside. OK?
It's pretty dark. I know, it is pretty dark.
But, again, I brought some extra lighting.
I need you to carry all the equipment up that big hill, right there.
I'll show you a proper gun show.
(CHUCKLES)
Liz's friend Alex wants to have some professional photos done.
I'm a professional photographer. I did it for about 18 years.
And, um, I was quite successful
and I became, kind of, a fashion-cover photographer.
So I have six photo covers to my name.
Liz has expressed an interest in learning photography
and so I wanted to, kind of, teach her something about what I do.
So, babe, can I have you hold that?
I wanna find hobbies with Ed. I love doing hobbies with him.
And that's why I'm taking an interest in it so much.
My friend Alex is a professional model. She asked Ed
to take some photos of her.
I thought she'd be a good fit, because it would make me feel
a little bit more loosened up, working with someone that we already know.
I really want to learn and ask questions.
I'll do a couple of practice shots.
And then, if I have to adjust my ISO, I'll do that.
My F-stop is at 2.8. I don't want to get too technical with that.
We'll get into that another day.
Always take off the lens cap!
Let's have fun.
I know how to use a camera pretty well, but definitely not at...
You mean, an iPhone or a camera?
I know how to use a camera pretty well, Ed.
I just don't know the extent of his professional cameras.
Hey, there she is! Hello.
Hi. How are you?
So good. Hi!
Hello. How are you? Hi. Good to see you. This is so pretty. Yeah.
I'm ready to go. You look amazing. I brushed my hair. You look great.
Why don't I just have you sit here for a minute?
And I might use Liz to adjust the lighting.
So that's kind of what she's doing. Yeah, perfect. OK. Sounds good.
Babe, can you do me favour?
Can you pull this light in, about four inches toward Alex?
OK, perfect. Right there.
OK, so here we go.
Drop your head just a little bit more.
Nice, beautiful, nice.
Play with your hair again. Nice.
So I'm at 396. I'm gonna drop it to 380. Again, these are just numbers to you.
But what I'm trying to do is just correct my light.
It's a lot easier when, um, your subject is beautiful.
All right... Oh, that's kind of cute. Do that again.
OK. Nice. OK. Kind of lean into it.
Kind of just have some fun, play with the camera.
Hello. Nice.
I definitely came into this hoping that...
I was gonna learn, um, some techniques,
but I'm definitely feeling like Ed is just showing off.
I think it's possible that Ed does like photography, cos he does get to flirt with women.
I just really thought that he'd be engaging more with me.
OK, drop your chin all the way down.
Nice. OK, OK.
Perfect. OK, breathe.
See how you can... There's, like, a vertical line,
right through her eyebrow, through the front of her chest.
I look for a line.
That's my style, not yours.
But you might find different things that work for you.
It looks like she has no neck.
No, no, it doesn't.
Well, like here. I mean, that's just my thought. No, it doesn't. It...
Don't ever say that in front of her.
No, there's nothing wrong with this picture. At all.
OK. Well...
You're not here to critique my work. I'm not. I'm trying to teach you what I'm doing.
I'm trying to tell you what I like. Right, but it's what the model wants.
OK. And then I just, you know,
I've done this long enough where I know.
OK? All right. Well...
Moving along.
As sweet as she is, Liz has a hard time being told what to do.
She wants instant gratification.
Like, she wants to be able to take a perfect picture, like, right now.
'But photography is a lot of work.'
This is just you...
Oh, my God. That's just you being natural.
See? It's easy. I'm kind of speechless.
You know, part of my job is to build the model's confidence.
Saying that she looks like she has no neck is just unprofessional.
'And that kind of pissed me off.'
And I'm sure Liz didn't mean to, but, um...
I get teased about my neck all the time.
So I'm a little sensitive to that.
So, babe, do you wanna...
The camera's set. You can just have fun. (LAUGHS)
I think that you didn't use your two ears.
To listen.
Babe, you're the student, I'm training you.
You didn't train me. The whole time, you were training her.
It took me 18 years to get here. Well, you're not listening to how I feel.
You didn't really teach me anything.
OK, sorry, babe.
You OK?
Here, let's look at these again, so...
We are stunning.
Alex, I'll see you tomorrow. OK.
That's what I'm talking about. I really like that.
You're pretty, so it's easy. Thank you.
It makes my job a lot easier. Thank you. That was so fun.
Ed doesn't care about my opinions.
And I don't feel like Ed is being a good partner right now.
These are awesome.
I'm so embarrassed to be fighting in front of my friend.
So I'm just out of here. Ed really...
..pisses me off.
You actually know what you're doing! (LAUGHS)
Wow. Happy honeymoon!
..90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After?
Just do your little sexy poses you do at home.
Well, what's your plan?
We need to be together more than just one day a week.
Maybe we will go to see a fertility specialist next week?
Baby, why do you want to talk about this stuff right now?
Because I just want a baby.
She's jumping the gun, we are not ready to have a child.
When one of these happen...
life as you know stops.
I would like to have everybody at my birthday party.
Charlie will be there. You want everybody to kiss and make up and...
That's not the solution.
I want the same thing of the girls that I ask of you. I don't care.
Pam needs to understand that I will not change my mind about Charlie.
You're taking the coward way out.
You weren't my fiancee in that photoshoot.
You were somebody that I was teaching my technique to.
You weren't even talking to me. You were talking to her and showing off.
I'm not just your assistant. That's immature.
Nobody wants to screw their dad at night.
If I have four wives plus you...
like I have three more...
Aaah!
He's talking about his third and fourth wife. Uh-uh. Disrespectful.
Nice to meet you, but I'm gonna go. Your ass is pissing me off!
Wow.
What?
This is why I'm fucking angry.
Because you don't do nothing
that's gonna make us stay together.
He might think it's a game. Or he might really be through.
It gets me upset.
You fucking did nothing but hurt me.
I'm done.
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