1 00:00:05,213 --> 00:00:07,924 (GASPS) 2 00:00:08,008 --> 00:00:10,385 Mylah, yoo-hoo! 3 00:00:10,468 --> 00:00:15,265 SUMIT: 'Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After...' 4 00:00:37,829 --> 00:00:40,081 Well, what's your plan? 5 00:00:41,124 --> 00:00:44,627 We need to be together more than just one day a week. 6 00:00:44,711 --> 00:00:49,424 Sumit hasn't mentioned anything about going back to work before. 7 00:00:49,507 --> 00:00:52,802 Kind of takes the romance out of the honeymoon. 8 00:00:52,886 --> 00:00:58,516 You're very smart, very bright, but you're stubborn, just like me. 9 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:00,560 I'm apologising. I'm sorry too. 10 00:01:00,643 --> 00:01:02,520 OK, great. 11 00:01:02,604 --> 00:01:07,984 I love him, but I know love is not enough to make a relationship work. 12 00:01:10,904 --> 00:01:14,157 I would like to have everybody at my birthday party. 13 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:18,661 You want everybody to kiss and make up, I don't care. 14 00:01:18,745 --> 00:01:22,207 It's a bad idea to get me in the same room with Charlie. 15 00:01:22,290 --> 00:01:25,001 You're taking the coward way out. 16 00:01:25,085 --> 00:01:26,711 What? 17 00:01:29,255 --> 00:01:31,049 This is why I'm fucking angry - 18 00:01:31,132 --> 00:01:34,636 you don't do nothing that's going to make us stay together. 19 00:01:34,719 --> 00:01:38,473 This trip, to go to Nigeria right now, is crucial 20 00:01:38,556 --> 00:01:41,601 because this visa could be approved at any time. 21 00:01:41,685 --> 00:01:45,563 You have fucking done nothing but hurt me! 22 00:01:45,647 --> 00:01:48,191 I'm going to look for a plane ticket. 23 00:01:50,068 --> 00:01:53,029 And get the fuck out of this country. 24 00:01:53,113 --> 00:01:56,950 I respected his culture and his religion, 25 00:01:57,033 --> 00:02:00,537 but I don't get that respect back, it's not OK. 26 00:02:01,579 --> 00:02:06,167 Leave me the fuck alone. I'll do whatever the fuck I want! 27 00:02:17,887 --> 00:02:19,431 Hello! 28 00:02:20,765 --> 00:02:22,851 Would you put it over here? 29 00:02:31,234 --> 00:02:33,570 Ah, coffee's here? 30 00:02:33,653 --> 00:02:36,448 Yes, yours is over there. 31 00:02:36,531 --> 00:02:40,535 It's our first morning of our honeymoon here in Rishikesh. 32 00:02:40,618 --> 00:02:43,121 It started off a little rough 33 00:02:43,204 --> 00:02:46,791 because Sumit wants to go back to work six days a week. 34 00:02:46,875 --> 00:02:50,086 We are talking about our future. 35 00:02:50,170 --> 00:02:53,965 I want to go out and work for us so we can 36 00:02:59,304 --> 00:03:03,641 I don't want this to ruin our time together here in Rishikesh. 37 00:03:03,725 --> 00:03:08,104 We're on our honeymoon, so let's go and have some fun. 38 00:03:08,188 --> 00:03:10,648 I'm going to straighten up the bed 39 00:03:10,732 --> 00:03:13,485 that you made such a mess of last night. 40 00:03:17,155 --> 00:03:19,532 The bed went, "Doong-doong." 41 00:03:19,616 --> 00:03:21,910 The headboard was hitting the wall. 42 00:03:21,993 --> 00:03:27,248 Yeah, the headboard. Even the bed was making, "Chyoom-chyoom!" 43 00:03:29,542 --> 00:03:34,464 I know! I was like, "Oh, man, I hope nobody's in the next room." 44 00:03:35,924 --> 00:03:38,051 We had a great night last night. 45 00:03:44,974 --> 00:03:48,269 How are you supposed to explain that to them, right? 46 00:03:48,353 --> 00:03:49,896 Never mind, leave it. 47 00:03:54,651 --> 00:03:58,530 We can just go hang out at the river, 48 00:03:58,613 --> 00:04:01,825 there's a sandy beach down there. 49 00:04:04,744 --> 00:04:06,287 Uh, 50 00:04:12,210 --> 00:04:15,714 What do YOU have in mind, what's your plans? 51 00:04:15,797 --> 00:04:17,841 Actually, there's a lot of stuff. 52 00:04:17,924 --> 00:04:22,679 One of the most famous things over here is river rafting 53 00:04:22,762 --> 00:04:27,017 and bungee jumping, uh, zip lining, 54 00:04:27,100 --> 00:04:31,229 uh, cliff jumping and... 55 00:04:31,312 --> 00:04:33,481 OK, now you're getting crazy. 56 00:04:33,565 --> 00:04:37,986 I mean, you know, I'm 63, I still want to make it to 64. 57 00:04:41,364 --> 00:04:46,202 Yeah, I'm not going to push you or force you to bungee jumping. 58 00:04:49,581 --> 00:04:52,834 OK, I know. 59 00:04:52,917 --> 00:04:56,338 Exactly - make my bed, I have to lie in it, right? 60 00:04:56,421 --> 00:04:58,048 (BOTH LAUGH) 61 00:04:58,131 --> 00:05:00,717 Sumit has completely lost his mind 62 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:05,305 if he thinks I'm going to go cliff jumping or bungee jumping. 63 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,895 I think Sumit has forgotten how old I am. 64 00:05:11,978 --> 00:05:15,273 But I'm willing to try different things 65 00:05:15,357 --> 00:05:18,651 to keep up with my 33-year-old husband. 66 00:05:20,820 --> 00:05:24,449 OK, the cows are, like, laying in the road. 67 00:05:24,532 --> 00:05:26,159 Cooler there, yeah. 68 00:05:26,242 --> 00:05:29,412 (LAUGHS) Get out of the road, you dummies! 69 00:05:32,665 --> 00:05:35,460 This is the first day of our vacation, 70 00:05:35,543 --> 00:05:38,046 our honeymoon here in Rishikesh. 71 00:05:38,129 --> 00:05:42,509 I just want to lie on the beach and enjoy the beautiful river, 72 00:05:42,592 --> 00:05:45,637 and Sumit wants to go jump off a cliff. 73 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,723 So, we decided to meet in the middle. 74 00:05:48,807 --> 00:05:52,352 We decided to go for the zip lining, which is more safer. 75 00:05:52,435 --> 00:05:55,897 That doesn't mean I'm not terrified, of course! 76 00:05:55,980 --> 00:05:57,565 Hello. 77 00:05:59,984 --> 00:06:03,363 You are here for the zip line? Yeah, the zip lining. 78 00:06:03,446 --> 00:06:06,866 This is your first time doing any kind of adventure sport? 79 00:06:06,950 --> 00:06:09,536 No, not first time. Maybe for her. 80 00:06:09,619 --> 00:06:13,373 Yeah, I mean, I don't do this kind of stuff, you know? 81 00:06:13,456 --> 00:06:16,376 Not a worry. This is one of the best activities 82 00:06:16,459 --> 00:06:19,671 that you can start off with in the adventure field. 83 00:06:19,754 --> 00:06:24,175 How old is the oldest person that you've done this with? 84 00:06:24,259 --> 00:06:28,221 The oldest lady who has done it is 89 years old. 85 00:06:28,304 --> 00:06:30,765 How many people have you lost? 86 00:06:30,849 --> 00:06:34,769 Er, as of now, it's zero. OK, that's good (!) 87 00:06:34,853 --> 00:06:40,316 We plan to keep it zero. We don't want to be the first two you lose. 88 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:42,110 What am I doing here? 89 00:06:42,193 --> 00:06:46,031 The most adventurous thing I've done is getting on a plane 90 00:06:46,114 --> 00:06:49,701 and flying to India, no money, no phone, to be with Sumit. 91 00:06:49,784 --> 00:06:52,162 OK, yeah, let's go. Follow me. 92 00:06:55,999 --> 00:06:57,959 Wow! 93 00:07:03,673 --> 00:07:06,926 You're doing lots of fun today. Yes (!) 94 00:07:07,010 --> 00:07:10,263 Now that I'm standing up here on the platform, 95 00:07:10,347 --> 00:07:13,099 I'm looking out across the river 96 00:07:13,183 --> 00:07:16,686 at the actual line I'm going to be going on, 97 00:07:16,770 --> 00:07:19,689 and you can't even see the end of it. 98 00:07:19,773 --> 00:07:23,234 All right, guys, you can come up. Yeah. Me first? 99 00:07:23,318 --> 00:07:25,820 If you want. Ladies first! 100 00:07:28,156 --> 00:07:30,867 Brave, Jenny. I know! 101 00:07:30,950 --> 00:07:33,411 Phew! 102 00:07:33,495 --> 00:07:37,540 Don't get nervous, don't get scared, but be careful. OK! 103 00:07:37,624 --> 00:07:40,043 OK, no problem! 104 00:07:40,126 --> 00:07:42,003 Yes, all right? OK. 105 00:07:42,087 --> 00:07:44,422 Ready? Oh, my God! 106 00:07:44,506 --> 00:07:46,299 Am I going? 107 00:07:46,383 --> 00:07:49,302 Yeah, you are. Oh, no! NOW I'm scared. 108 00:07:49,386 --> 00:07:52,681 You're scared? Don't be scared, OK? Just relax. 109 00:07:52,764 --> 00:07:56,309 I'm scared now, I don't want to go. 110 00:07:56,393 --> 00:07:59,312 I love you, and I hope I'll see you again! 111 00:08:03,983 --> 00:08:06,778 Sit down, lean back. Yeah. 112 00:08:06,861 --> 00:08:08,947 That's a good position, OK? 113 00:08:11,533 --> 00:08:13,326 Ready? No. 114 00:08:13,410 --> 00:08:18,623 Just relax, take a deep breath, and you're ready to go. (SPUTTERS) 115 00:08:18,707 --> 00:08:22,168 Ready? No! I can't do it. 116 00:08:22,252 --> 00:08:24,754 Aaah! 117 00:08:35,056 --> 00:08:39,561 Angela! Let's go, we need to get this all packed. 118 00:08:39,644 --> 00:08:43,440 I'm trying, Rene. Look, what do you think about this? 119 00:08:43,523 --> 00:08:46,276 Ooh! Are you bringing this? 120 00:08:46,359 --> 00:08:49,320 Does a bear shit in the woods? (LAUGHS) 121 00:08:54,159 --> 00:08:57,579 I'm not prepared. Right here, right here. 122 00:08:57,662 --> 00:09:00,915 Oh, my God, look - we've got to go through all these. 123 00:09:00,999 --> 00:09:05,086 I asked you five days ago to pack three outfits a day. 124 00:09:05,170 --> 00:09:07,297 Rene, I know. 125 00:09:07,380 --> 00:09:11,217 I'm so stressed, what Michael's been putting me through, 126 00:09:11,301 --> 00:09:14,054 I can't focus. But we're leaving tomorrow. 127 00:09:14,137 --> 00:09:16,473 This is why I'm so happy you're here, 128 00:09:16,556 --> 00:09:20,310 this is what I'm trying to figure out to unpack and repack. 129 00:09:20,393 --> 00:09:22,604 What the hell? 130 00:09:22,687 --> 00:09:26,858 I'm leaving for Nigeria in less than 24 hours to see my husband, Michael, 131 00:09:26,941 --> 00:09:29,361 for the first time in two years. 132 00:09:29,444 --> 00:09:33,031 Luckily, my friend, Rene, agreed to go to Nigeria with me, 133 00:09:33,114 --> 00:09:37,911 because this trip is affecting me physically, mentally, emotionally. 134 00:09:37,994 --> 00:09:42,248 I can't sleep. If I'm a mess at home, just packing, 135 00:09:42,332 --> 00:09:44,834 I'm going to be a total mess in Nigeria, 136 00:09:44,918 --> 00:09:48,171 and I'll need all the emotional support I can get. 137 00:09:48,254 --> 00:09:50,715 Are you taking this one? 138 00:09:55,178 --> 00:09:59,099 Angela and I have been friends for almost a year. 139 00:09:59,182 --> 00:10:01,726 I met Angela in an airport. 140 00:10:01,810 --> 00:10:05,980 She smelled cigarette smoke on me, and said, "I would love a cigarette." 141 00:10:06,064 --> 00:10:10,944 We went into the airport bathroom, I paid the attendant some money 142 00:10:11,027 --> 00:10:12,946 so she would leave. 143 00:10:13,029 --> 00:10:17,158 We smoked and we chopped it up, and we've been friends ever since. 144 00:10:17,242 --> 00:10:20,161 What do you think about this one? That one's cute. 145 00:10:20,245 --> 00:10:23,498 I don't want to be cute, I want to be sexy. 146 00:10:23,581 --> 00:10:27,711 Last time I was there, I was 276lbs. 147 00:10:27,794 --> 00:10:31,214 I am going there at 164. But Rene, 148 00:10:31,297 --> 00:10:35,802 he hasn't said one word in the two years of how good I look. 149 00:10:36,845 --> 00:10:40,056 This is the first time Michael's going to see me 150 00:10:40,140 --> 00:10:42,976 since I had my surgery two years ago, in person. 151 00:10:43,059 --> 00:10:46,771 I hope I look so good to Michael that he's going to regret 152 00:10:46,855 --> 00:10:50,734 how he's been treating me and what he's been doing to me. 153 00:10:50,817 --> 00:10:55,071 I want to save this marriage, but the reality is, 154 00:10:55,155 --> 00:11:00,702 if I find out Michael's scamming me, this marriage is over immediately. 155 00:11:04,039 --> 00:11:05,707 (PHONE ALERT) 156 00:11:05,790 --> 00:11:08,335 Are you taking this? 157 00:11:08,418 --> 00:11:11,671 Why is your phone going off? That's him. 158 00:11:13,506 --> 00:11:17,719 Little fucker. He says, "You see how you're controlling, huh? 159 00:11:17,802 --> 00:11:21,598 You ain't God, Angela. Send me money, I'll take it down." 160 00:11:21,681 --> 00:11:24,684 Who's saying that? Michael, it's on my Instagram. 161 00:11:24,768 --> 00:11:26,895 You see what I'm saying? 162 00:11:26,978 --> 00:11:29,481 Do not answer that. 163 00:11:29,564 --> 00:11:32,901 Michael knows how I feel about this damn Instagram, 164 00:11:32,984 --> 00:11:35,278 and he still put it back up. 165 00:11:35,362 --> 00:11:39,157 He also is telling me he'll take down his Instagram 166 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:40,784 if I send him $5,000. 167 00:11:40,867 --> 00:11:43,953 What fucking husband does that? 168 00:11:44,037 --> 00:11:47,874 This is what he does all the time. He's doing this to make me upset. 169 00:11:47,957 --> 00:11:52,003 The way he's making these moves... You see what's in my head - 170 00:11:52,087 --> 00:11:58,343 "Are you just using me as an opportunity to get over here?" 171 00:11:58,426 --> 00:12:03,098 That's what he's got in my head now because of how you've treated me. 172 00:12:03,181 --> 00:12:06,476 You ain't doing it for love. When we get there, 173 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:09,938 and you see Michael, you've got to have a plan. 174 00:12:10,021 --> 00:12:11,898 Well, Rene... Mm? 175 00:12:11,981 --> 00:12:14,025 ..let me tell you. 176 00:12:14,109 --> 00:12:16,361 What? 177 00:12:17,987 --> 00:12:20,365 He doesn't know I'm coming. 178 00:12:22,701 --> 00:12:24,911 Oh, no! It's a surprise. 179 00:12:25,995 --> 00:12:28,164 Oh, yeah! 180 00:12:29,207 --> 00:12:33,420 I'll meet you face-to-face, I ain't got time to argue on the phone. 181 00:12:33,503 --> 00:12:36,172 So, I'm going to travel with you. 182 00:12:36,256 --> 00:12:39,801 (LAUGHS) Yeah, you are! We're going to go to Nigeria, 183 00:12:39,884 --> 00:12:42,429 and we're just going to surprise him? 184 00:12:42,512 --> 00:12:45,181 "Hello, motherfucker!" 185 00:12:45,265 --> 00:12:47,434 Why don't you tell him you're coming? 186 00:12:47,517 --> 00:12:50,061 If my husband don't want me to look at his IG 187 00:12:50,145 --> 00:12:54,107 when you ain't supposed to have it up, when I surprise him, 188 00:12:54,190 --> 00:12:56,609 he can't erase numbers on that phone, 189 00:12:56,693 --> 00:12:59,404 he can't erase emails, he don't have time. 190 00:12:59,487 --> 00:13:01,281 I want to surprise him because 191 00:13:01,364 --> 00:13:06,286 I'm going through the motherfucking phone, that's how I roll. 192 00:13:07,662 --> 00:13:12,876 Angela's plan of surprising Michael, actually, I kind of like it. 193 00:13:12,959 --> 00:13:15,795 He's been a real shithead to her. 194 00:13:15,879 --> 00:13:20,633 I'm hoping I can just be there to help her, 195 00:13:20,717 --> 00:13:25,180 because she's on a wild, wild roller coaster with this. 196 00:13:25,263 --> 00:13:28,725 I'm not wasting no more time on this shit. 197 00:13:31,770 --> 00:13:34,814 Any frigging time. 198 00:13:34,898 --> 00:13:38,610 I don't have time for him to be approved, 199 00:13:38,693 --> 00:13:44,949 then you don't deserve to be here with me. Oh, my goodness. (SIGHS) 200 00:13:45,033 --> 00:13:47,452 I get why you want to do the surprise, 201 00:13:47,535 --> 00:13:50,288 I just hope it's all worth it, Angela. 202 00:13:51,331 --> 00:13:52,874 Showing up in person, 203 00:13:52,957 --> 00:13:57,128 I don't know if it's going to help or hurt our relationship. 204 00:13:57,212 --> 00:13:59,881 All I can tell you is, this is the last resort 205 00:14:04,594 --> 00:14:08,598 I only want Michael in the United States if he loves me. 206 00:14:08,682 --> 00:14:11,351 If he don't, I don't want him here. 207 00:14:18,149 --> 00:14:18,410 2 00:13:49.600 -- 00:13:53.200 align:middle line:90% position:50% Don't go out. I'll do whatever the fuck I want. 208 00:14:32,122 --> 00:14:34,833 Let me walk, just let me walk. OK. 209 00:14:34,916 --> 00:14:37,794 I took Kimberly to meet my friend, KB, 210 00:14:37,877 --> 00:14:40,255 in order to talk about the second wife. 211 00:14:40,338 --> 00:14:45,176 It is so unfortunate that become the fight between me and her. 212 00:14:45,260 --> 00:14:50,056 If I cannot calm her down, and she keep on acting the way she is, 213 00:14:53,101 --> 00:14:56,104 Just leave me alone. OK, fine. 214 00:15:06,448 --> 00:15:07,991 (SNIFFLES) 215 00:15:08,074 --> 00:15:12,078 I can't go on with somebody disregarding me or laughing, 216 00:15:12,162 --> 00:15:13,830 I can't go on with that. 217 00:15:13,913 --> 00:15:17,292 I feel like I have to stand up for myself. 218 00:15:17,375 --> 00:15:20,170 Who cares if he's mad? I'm angry too. 219 00:15:22,672 --> 00:15:25,717 After how tonight went, everything is on the line - 220 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,053 the trip to Sokoto, my relationship. 221 00:15:28,136 --> 00:15:30,847 I feel like it's all on the line now. 222 00:15:34,267 --> 00:15:36,436 But I don't want to lose him. 223 00:15:46,488 --> 00:15:49,908 I didn't come down here to be this unhappy. 224 00:15:55,330 --> 00:15:57,791 What am I here for? 225 00:16:01,795 --> 00:16:05,131 And I have every right to ask questions. 226 00:16:07,384 --> 00:16:10,053 I was more upset that I had to talk to somebody 227 00:16:10,136 --> 00:16:12,764 that's in a totally different relationship 228 00:16:12,847 --> 00:16:14,808 than the one we would have been in. 229 00:16:14,891 --> 00:16:18,520 His wives live together. That's crazy! I don't relate to that. 230 00:16:18,603 --> 00:16:22,524 I'm sorry. I'm very sorry for anything that has happened 231 00:16:22,607 --> 00:16:24,609 and you feel like. I'm sorry. 232 00:16:24,693 --> 00:16:27,320 I'm just telling you, if we love each other, 233 00:16:27,404 --> 00:16:29,781 we'll find a way to live with each other. 234 00:16:39,916 --> 00:16:41,668 That's not right! 235 00:16:41,751 --> 00:16:45,588 I threw the stuff because you never let me finish a thought. 236 00:16:45,672 --> 00:16:49,300 I felt that you made me look stupid in front of your friends. 237 00:16:49,384 --> 00:16:53,805 At the time that we are about to go and meet my family, 238 00:16:53,888 --> 00:16:57,017 that's when you do this? No, no, no, no. 239 00:16:59,978 --> 00:17:03,565 Just go on with your life, and let me go and live my life. 240 00:17:03,648 --> 00:17:06,359 I think that would be better. 241 00:17:13,825 --> 00:17:18,705 I flew... This trip took me longer than Zanzibar took me. 242 00:17:18,788 --> 00:17:23,209 Bought all new clothes, got my hair done, got my nails redone. 243 00:17:23,293 --> 00:17:27,339 For what? Because believe it or not, in the past two years, 244 00:17:27,422 --> 00:17:28,965 I have made you my life. 245 00:17:29,049 --> 00:17:33,678 I've put everything on the back burner, and you know this. 246 00:17:57,744 --> 00:18:02,207 If this is how we're going to go, I want to end it, period. 247 00:18:09,339 --> 00:18:12,634 Whether she likes it or not, she already knew about it, 248 00:18:12,717 --> 00:18:15,387 and she has to abide with that. 249 00:18:15,470 --> 00:18:19,432 I'm worried about how Kimberly will act when she gets angry. 250 00:18:19,516 --> 00:18:21,810 I'm not going to take that all the time. 251 00:18:21,893 --> 00:18:26,356 Maybe we just need to understand, this relationship 252 00:18:26,439 --> 00:18:28,566 is not going to be possible. 253 00:18:35,407 --> 00:18:37,867 Do you mean, continue with me? 254 00:18:49,045 --> 00:18:52,924 Really work it, uh! Pop that booty, here we go. 255 00:18:59,305 --> 00:19:01,391 Back, pop! 256 00:19:03,435 --> 00:19:06,980 Yes, ooh! 257 00:19:07,063 --> 00:19:08,982 (EVERYONE CHEERS) 258 00:19:09,065 --> 00:19:14,237 All right, thank you so much. You are all bad bitches, let's go! 259 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:16,448 Woo! 260 00:19:16,531 --> 00:19:19,159 (LAUGHS) You're so good! 261 00:19:19,242 --> 00:19:24,622 A few nights ago, Ed and I tried to do a photo shoot with each other, 262 00:19:24,706 --> 00:19:26,750 turned into an argument. 263 00:19:26,833 --> 00:19:33,006 I was so embarrassed because it happened in front of my friend, Alex. 264 00:19:33,089 --> 00:19:36,718 I need to sit down for a second, catch my breath. 265 00:19:36,801 --> 00:19:38,762 I'm so frustrated, 266 00:19:38,845 --> 00:19:42,766 cos I thought he was excited to teach me about photography. 267 00:19:42,849 --> 00:19:44,392 (SIGHS) 268 00:19:46,478 --> 00:19:48,021 Um... 269 00:19:49,189 --> 00:19:52,609 Did you like it? Oh, my gosh, I loved it! 270 00:19:52,692 --> 00:19:56,237 I can't do any of those moves. How did you find this place? 271 00:20:00,784 --> 00:20:04,120 I needed something to just make me feel better. 272 00:20:04,204 --> 00:20:07,165 I loved it. I've never been here with a friend. 273 00:20:07,248 --> 00:20:09,959 Yay! You're the first person I've brought. 274 00:20:10,043 --> 00:20:12,962 It's a different vibe when you come with someone. 275 00:20:13,046 --> 00:20:15,715 You feel more comfortable. Yeah. 276 00:20:15,799 --> 00:20:21,137 The photo shoot - how are you doing after that, are you guys OK? 277 00:20:23,139 --> 00:20:24,974 I feel like 278 00:20:25,058 --> 00:20:28,895 he doesn't want to see me grow or succeed. 279 00:20:28,978 --> 00:20:31,940 I just, like... I want him to realise 280 00:20:32,023 --> 00:20:35,694 I feel like I'm the one person so far that's been in his life 281 00:20:35,777 --> 00:20:38,488 that's never needed anything from him. 282 00:20:38,571 --> 00:20:42,617 Maybe that's why you fight. Do you think he wants you to need him more, 283 00:20:42,701 --> 00:20:45,370 it makes him feel in control? Yeah. 284 00:20:45,453 --> 00:20:50,333 The more you go away from that, he doesn't have the hold on you. 285 00:20:50,417 --> 00:20:54,629 One of the biggest issues in my and Ed's relationship is, 286 00:20:54,713 --> 00:21:00,176 Ed is very insecure with himself, and he gets so defensive and bossy, 287 00:21:00,260 --> 00:21:02,679 which can come off as controlling. 288 00:21:02,762 --> 00:21:09,894 Does Ed let you have alone time, me time, and like, be yourself? 289 00:21:09,978 --> 00:21:12,647 I've kind of figured out 290 00:21:12,731 --> 00:21:17,986 he lets me have me time when I'm going to work out. 291 00:21:18,069 --> 00:21:21,322 He's supportive of you working out? Yeah. 292 00:21:21,406 --> 00:21:25,118 I've put on a couple pounds since we've been back together. 293 00:21:25,201 --> 00:21:28,496 Does he want you to lose weight, does he say that? 294 00:21:28,580 --> 00:21:32,417 Mm, not exactly, but he's brought up the point 295 00:21:32,500 --> 00:21:36,004 of, like, past pictures of myself. 296 00:21:38,089 --> 00:21:41,634 He will look through photos and be like, 297 00:21:41,718 --> 00:21:45,055 "Do you ever think about being back to that size?" 298 00:21:45,138 --> 00:21:47,891 It's insulting, I don't feel pretty. 299 00:21:47,974 --> 00:21:51,519 That's why I started dance classes when we broke up before, 300 00:21:51,603 --> 00:21:54,689 cos I'd see the type of girls he was hanging out with. 301 00:21:54,773 --> 00:21:57,984 I would hope that Ed would love me no matter what. 302 00:21:58,068 --> 00:22:01,279 I've loved him at his heaviest and his smallest. 303 00:22:01,363 --> 00:22:06,284 I never thought I'd feel so insecure about myself, the way I do now. 304 00:22:06,368 --> 00:22:10,622 When Ed and I broke up, I got really thin again. 305 00:22:10,705 --> 00:22:14,084 He wants you to be that weight? Does he understand 306 00:22:14,167 --> 00:22:17,253 that's not a healthy mental space for you to be? 307 00:22:17,337 --> 00:22:19,339 I don't think he's one to talk. 308 00:22:19,422 --> 00:22:21,675 You're stunning and beautiful. 309 00:22:21,758 --> 00:22:25,595 You don't need to lose a pound, you should tell him that. 310 00:22:25,679 --> 00:22:29,224 I'd be pissed if my boyfriend told me to go to the gym. 311 00:22:29,307 --> 00:22:31,351 There's a message behind that. 312 00:22:31,434 --> 00:22:35,480 If you don't like the way she looks, that's your problem. 313 00:22:35,563 --> 00:22:39,651 The gym is the only time where there's no questions asked - 314 00:22:39,734 --> 00:22:42,404 I can be gone for three hours, and I'm good. 315 00:22:42,487 --> 00:22:46,741 That's the only thing he'll let you do without, "Where are you?" 316 00:22:46,825 --> 00:22:48,827 When he's not checking in. 317 00:22:48,910 --> 00:22:53,498 Mm. But anything else, trying to have girl time 318 00:22:53,581 --> 00:22:55,750 is very, like, "Who are you with?" 319 00:22:55,834 --> 00:23:01,172 It's just, like... He shouldn't have to give you permission 320 00:23:01,256 --> 00:23:03,049 to go have girl time. 321 00:23:03,133 --> 00:23:06,761 It sounds really controlling to me 322 00:23:06,845 --> 00:23:10,265 how he tells her what she can and can't do, 323 00:23:10,348 --> 00:23:14,019 what he's comfortable with, that's not fair. 324 00:23:14,102 --> 00:23:17,605 I worry about them, because if she's not able to be herself, 325 00:23:17,689 --> 00:23:20,817 and he tries to restrict or control her, 326 00:23:20,900 --> 00:23:24,863 you can build up a lot of resentment in a relationship. 327 00:23:24,946 --> 00:23:27,198 I love him, 328 00:23:27,282 --> 00:23:32,495 but I definitely see, like, he just projects a lot of things. 329 00:23:32,579 --> 00:23:34,247 His insecurities onto you. 330 00:23:34,330 --> 00:23:38,418 Sucks. Yeah. That's not a fair burden for you to carry. 331 00:23:38,501 --> 00:23:43,757 That's probably a lot of why you guys fought during the photo shoot. 332 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,383 Yeah. 333 00:23:47,385 --> 00:23:50,638 I think that Ed is scared to be loved, 334 00:23:50,722 --> 00:23:52,849 I think he's scared to get hurt. 335 00:23:52,932 --> 00:23:57,812 He's insecure about that, and when Ed has insecurities, 336 00:23:57,896 --> 00:24:00,607 there are some control issues that can come up 337 00:24:00,690 --> 00:24:06,279 that can make me question if I can see a future with him. 338 00:24:06,363 --> 00:24:10,909 That breaks my heart, you should not feel like that. 339 00:24:11,451 --> 00:24:11,712 2 00:23:46.240 -- 00:23:50.400 align:middle line:73% position:50% I think the war change so much about me. 340 00:24:51,574 --> 00:24:54,119 I'm miserable all the time. 341 00:24:54,202 --> 00:24:57,539 I'm terrified for my friends and family in Ukraine. 342 00:24:57,622 --> 00:25:01,126 People are already dying, kids are dying. 343 00:25:10,051 --> 00:25:12,137 To get food? 344 00:25:15,056 --> 00:25:18,351 Yara has been having a really hard time. 345 00:25:19,394 --> 00:25:22,772 Hasn't been sleeping a lot, hasn't been eating a lot. 346 00:25:22,856 --> 00:25:28,445 Do you want to put Mylah's toy together, get your mind off things? 347 00:25:28,528 --> 00:25:30,613 Yeah, I'll get it. 348 00:25:32,198 --> 00:25:35,827 She's been really nervous, she's been crying a lot, 349 00:25:35,910 --> 00:25:39,664 she's been on the phone all day with friends and her family. 350 00:25:39,748 --> 00:25:43,668 Even though I don't like it, I understand what she's doing. 351 00:25:43,752 --> 00:25:47,589 I've just been trying to support her in whatever way I can. 352 00:25:47,672 --> 00:25:49,924 I support her country too. 353 00:25:50,008 --> 00:25:56,097 All right, Mylah, we'll put your new toy together, your new kitchen, OK? 354 00:25:56,181 --> 00:25:58,350 (BABY BABBLES) 355 00:25:58,433 --> 00:26:00,518 Will that make you happy? 356 00:26:02,437 --> 00:26:03,980 (GASPS) 357 00:26:04,064 --> 00:26:05,607 What? 358 00:26:14,324 --> 00:26:19,537 What's the latest, have you talked to anyone about what's going on? 359 00:27:25,061 --> 00:27:30,108 Do you think your family's going to leave or they're going to stay? 360 00:27:35,238 --> 00:27:40,702 Everybody must be so terrified, not knowing what's their next step. 361 00:27:44,873 --> 00:27:48,084 Are any of your friends going to try to get out of Kyiv? 362 00:27:50,545 --> 00:27:54,674 It's completely blocked to where they can't leave? 363 00:28:00,263 --> 00:28:05,101 No, I'm just... I'm sorry, I'm just trying to ask a question. 364 00:29:37,986 --> 00:29:40,071 You're doing good. 365 00:30:49,099 --> 00:30:51,184 KIM: Where are you going? 366 00:30:57,899 --> 00:30:59,442 OK. 367 00:31:16,334 --> 00:31:19,004 I've only been here a couple days, 368 00:31:19,087 --> 00:31:22,382 and this was the biggest argument we've had in two years. 369 00:31:22,465 --> 00:31:25,051 This trip is for me to meet his mom 370 00:31:25,135 --> 00:31:27,470 and get her blessing on being engaged, 371 00:31:27,554 --> 00:31:30,890 but I don't even know if I'm going to do that now. 372 00:31:32,934 --> 00:31:36,479 I don't know if I want to go home, I don't know if I want to stay, 373 00:31:36,563 --> 00:31:39,357 I don't know if he wants me to go home. 374 00:31:39,441 --> 00:31:42,402 I really don't know where things stand. 375 00:31:47,532 --> 00:31:50,535 Good afternoon, sir. Afternoon. How are you? 376 00:31:50,618 --> 00:31:53,413 Fine, thank you. Please can I have some coffee? 377 00:31:53,496 --> 00:31:55,915 All right, sir. I'll be here. 378 00:32:35,163 --> 00:32:39,751 I'm still pissed, I'm still mad at her, but I don't know. 379 00:32:39,834 --> 00:32:42,420 I don't know. But I told her that. 380 00:33:59,789 --> 00:34:01,332 Mm-hm. 381 00:34:12,093 --> 00:34:17,932 I told her that, if this is how she is, honestly, I just want to quit. 382 00:34:18,016 --> 00:34:21,978 I'm not ready to put myself into any crazy relationships any more. 383 00:34:22,062 --> 00:34:24,564 I have done that before, and I'm done. 384 00:34:40,372 --> 00:34:42,749 That's the end of it, yeah. 385 00:34:48,588 --> 00:34:50,674 Oh, OK. 386 00:35:03,269 --> 00:35:06,481 I'll be expecting you there, please. 387 00:35:06,564 --> 00:35:09,693 I don't know what's going to happen next. 388 00:35:09,776 --> 00:35:12,237 Oh, OK. Mm. 389 00:35:14,864 --> 00:35:17,742 To attend the birthday party? 390 00:35:22,330 --> 00:35:23,873 OK. 391 00:35:40,348 --> 00:35:42,434 Mm-hm. Yeah. 392 00:35:47,981 --> 00:35:48,241 2 00:34:24.120 -- 00:34:26.160 align:middle line:90% position:50% Ready? No. 393 00:35:54,487 --> 00:35:58,742 Just relax, take a deep breath. (BREATHES SHALLOWLY) 394 00:36:02,662 --> 00:36:04,456 No, I can't do it! 395 00:36:04,539 --> 00:36:08,168 My God, I'm so scared for her. 396 00:36:08,251 --> 00:36:10,253 Aaah! 397 00:36:11,838 --> 00:36:14,716 Yeah, you can do it! Oh, my God. 398 00:36:14,799 --> 00:36:16,926 Oh, no! 399 00:36:19,637 --> 00:36:23,683 I can't do it, I'm too scared. Let him go first. All right. 400 00:36:23,767 --> 00:36:26,811 Really, you get scared all of a sudden? 401 00:36:26,895 --> 00:36:30,523 When you're seeing how far you're going to go, it's scary. 402 00:36:34,986 --> 00:36:39,157 I'm afraid too! (LAUGHS) It's scary once you get up there! 403 00:36:39,240 --> 00:36:41,368 How are you feeling, good? 404 00:36:41,451 --> 00:36:46,373 Scared? Little bit, but yeah, I can make it easily. 405 00:36:46,456 --> 00:36:50,085 You set, you ready to go? Yeah, I'm ready to go. 406 00:36:50,168 --> 00:36:52,253 Bye, baby! 407 00:36:53,463 --> 00:36:55,006 Woo! 408 00:36:56,633 --> 00:36:58,551 Whoa! 409 00:37:00,095 --> 00:37:02,389 Awesome! 410 00:37:06,935 --> 00:37:09,437 Brake, brake. 411 00:37:11,147 --> 00:37:13,942 Perfect! You did it well. 412 00:37:14,025 --> 00:37:16,277 Wow! How was it, sir? 413 00:37:16,361 --> 00:37:19,781 It's great, it's awesome. Awesome? 414 00:37:19,864 --> 00:37:22,909 At first, I was a bit scared. Whew! OK. 415 00:37:25,787 --> 00:37:29,457 Did he make it? OK. Yeah. 416 00:37:29,541 --> 00:37:33,753 I feel better, seeing Sumit make it to the other side, 417 00:37:33,837 --> 00:37:36,214 but I still don't want to do this. 418 00:37:36,297 --> 00:37:40,552 I'm going to get stuck in the middle of this river, hanging there, 419 00:37:40,635 --> 00:37:43,888 and I'm going to have to be rescued, I just know it. 420 00:37:43,972 --> 00:37:46,349 Am I going? Yeah! 421 00:37:46,433 --> 00:37:48,393 Oh, my God! 422 00:37:48,476 --> 00:37:50,270 You ready? Go! 423 00:37:50,353 --> 00:37:53,106 If you're scared, scream! Wooo! 424 00:37:55,525 --> 00:37:58,278 Woo-hoo-hoo! 425 00:37:58,361 --> 00:38:01,239 Wooo! 426 00:38:01,322 --> 00:38:06,870 Woo! Woo-hoo-hoo! 427 00:38:06,953 --> 00:38:11,541 Wooo! 428 00:38:11,624 --> 00:38:14,085 Woo! (LAUGHS) Brake, brake! 429 00:38:15,754 --> 00:38:17,839 Perfect, ma'am. 430 00:38:17,922 --> 00:38:21,634 Oh, my God! (LAUGHS) You've done it! (LAUGHS) 431 00:38:21,718 --> 00:38:23,303 I did it! 432 00:38:23,386 --> 00:38:27,182 How was it, ma'am? Oh, my. Amazing! (LAUGHS) 433 00:38:27,265 --> 00:38:29,351 Amazing? OK! 434 00:38:31,102 --> 00:38:33,146 Wow, wow, wow! 435 00:38:33,229 --> 00:38:36,649 My heart is pounding, woo! Man. 436 00:38:36,733 --> 00:38:38,401 Oh, man. 437 00:38:38,485 --> 00:38:41,821 I can't believe that I did that. 438 00:38:41,905 --> 00:38:45,825 I am thinking about jumping out of an aeroplane now. 439 00:38:45,909 --> 00:38:48,787 No, we're not jumping out of an aeroplane. 440 00:38:48,870 --> 00:38:53,708 Are you feeling a little more younger now? 441 00:38:53,792 --> 00:38:57,128 Hey, you know what? I AM still young. 442 00:38:57,212 --> 00:38:59,547 You are. Yeah. 443 00:39:05,261 --> 00:39:07,764 Yeah! 444 00:39:07,847 --> 00:39:09,432 Yeah. 445 00:39:09,516 --> 00:39:12,143 Jenny did great on the zip line. 446 00:39:12,227 --> 00:39:15,939 I think it's time to go for a new adventure on our honeymoon. 447 00:39:16,022 --> 00:39:17,565 Uh-oh. 448 00:39:22,946 --> 00:39:24,489 Yeah (!) 449 00:39:45,677 --> 00:39:49,931 Well, of course I've heard of that, who hasn't? (LAUGHS) 450 00:40:18,793 --> 00:40:22,005 What do you mean, we can do that here, what do you mean? 451 00:40:22,088 --> 00:40:26,176 What do you mean, we can do that here? It sounds weird, 452 00:40:26,259 --> 00:40:30,347 but we can go and learn something about the Kama Sutra. 453 00:40:31,890 --> 00:40:35,268 I don't need to learn anything about it. 454 00:40:35,352 --> 00:40:38,521 At this age, I think I know everything I need to know. 455 00:40:38,605 --> 00:40:41,191 I don't need to be taught anything about... 456 00:40:41,274 --> 00:40:45,278 You talking about different sex positions and sexual... 457 00:40:45,362 --> 00:40:51,076 Things... When I've looked at books about it, different sex positions 458 00:40:51,159 --> 00:40:53,453 and stuff, isn't it? 459 00:40:53,536 --> 00:40:56,539 I've seen the book, obviously. Oh! 460 00:40:56,623 --> 00:41:01,336 To me, it's just a book of different sex positions. 461 00:41:09,511 --> 00:41:13,515 Yeah, I think we are like a young couple 462 00:41:13,598 --> 00:41:15,934 which has recently got married. 463 00:41:16,017 --> 00:41:18,770 A young couple? One of us is. 464 00:41:18,853 --> 00:41:24,067 We are a married, so I think it's the perfect time 465 00:41:24,150 --> 00:41:27,862 to experiment together, on our honeymoon. 466 00:41:27,946 --> 00:41:30,615 I don't know, I just want to... 467 00:41:30,699 --> 00:41:34,994 Let's just make love and go to sleep. (BOTH LAUGH) 468 00:41:42,669 --> 00:41:46,131 Connecting with each other? We connect pretty well. 469 00:41:46,214 --> 00:41:49,342 Yeah, we do, actually, we connect. 470 00:41:49,426 --> 00:41:52,470 I don't know, I just don't feel like 471 00:41:52,554 --> 00:41:56,391 someone needs to come and teach me something 472 00:41:56,474 --> 00:41:59,769 about what I do in my private life with you. 473 00:41:59,853 --> 00:42:02,522 I don't think we need to be taught that. 474 00:42:02,605 --> 00:42:05,442 We've got it figured out pretty well between us, 475 00:42:05,525 --> 00:42:10,530 and we're doing just fine, I just don't think I need to be taught. 476 00:42:10,613 --> 00:42:15,118 Actually, maybe it's, like, something I need. 477 00:42:15,201 --> 00:42:17,245 Do you? Do you think so? 478 00:42:17,328 --> 00:42:18,872 No. OK, then, thank you. 479 00:42:18,955 --> 00:42:20,623 I think you're fine. 480 00:42:21,750 --> 00:42:25,378 Let's talk about it some more later, OK? 481 00:42:25,462 --> 00:42:29,507 OK, we can figure it out. We'll talk about it. 482 00:42:29,591 --> 00:42:31,801 What? 483 00:42:31,885 --> 00:42:34,012 I was interested in adventure, 484 00:42:34,095 --> 00:42:38,058 but I'm going to go do Kama Sutra yoga class in front of people? 485 00:42:38,141 --> 00:42:40,352 No, thank you. 486 00:42:40,435 --> 00:42:43,229 First zip lining and now Kama Sutra? 487 00:42:43,313 --> 00:42:46,274 I'm not sure if I know who Sumit is right now. 488 00:42:46,358 --> 00:42:49,444 Our age difference has never been an issue for us, 489 00:42:49,527 --> 00:42:53,323 but now, I'm a little worried about what his expectations are 490 00:42:53,406 --> 00:42:56,785 of us spending time together here. 491 00:43:07,837 --> 00:43:11,841 Plie, up. Woo! 492 00:43:11,925 --> 00:43:14,761 We're your cheerleaders on the set. 493 00:43:21,184 --> 00:43:23,144 Ooh! Wow, Brielle. 494 00:43:23,228 --> 00:43:26,564 Squeeze, turn. Squeeze, hold. That was better. 495 00:43:26,648 --> 00:43:28,650 BB is such a good dancer. 496 00:43:28,733 --> 00:43:31,903 All right! 497 00:43:31,986 --> 00:43:36,074 Today, I'm meeting my sisters at Jenn's girl's dance studio. 498 00:43:36,157 --> 00:43:39,327 We're going to watch Brielle take one of her lessons. 499 00:43:39,411 --> 00:43:44,874 Jenn's girls are incredible dancers, and Jenn is a total dance mom. 500 00:43:44,958 --> 00:43:47,794 She has had them dancing since they could walk. 501 00:43:47,877 --> 00:43:50,338 It's 7, 8. It's 1, 2. 502 00:43:50,422 --> 00:43:51,965 A 3, a 4. 503 00:43:52,048 --> 00:43:55,760 Good. Double turn and out. 504 00:43:55,844 --> 00:43:59,931 This is good for Brielle, doing her stuff in front of the audience. 505 00:44:00,015 --> 00:44:02,392 EVERYONE: Woo! Nice, good, awesome. 506 00:44:02,475 --> 00:44:04,310 Yeah! (LAUGHS) 507 00:44:04,394 --> 00:44:09,482 All right, so, why don't we go in the other room to go over your leaps? 508 00:44:10,942 --> 00:44:14,779 So, I wanted to tell you guys what happened yesterday. 509 00:44:14,863 --> 00:44:16,406 Andrei met with Mom 510 00:44:16,489 --> 00:44:21,327 and talked to her about how she behaved at the housewarming party, 511 00:44:21,411 --> 00:44:24,122 and like, they basically got into it. 512 00:44:24,205 --> 00:44:26,499 I get both sides. I think where... 513 00:44:26,583 --> 00:44:29,544 I really do too. ..where Andrei's gone wrong is 514 00:44:29,627 --> 00:44:34,132 being disrespectful towards Mom. He says the same about her. 515 00:44:34,215 --> 00:44:39,554 But at the end of the day, she's just trying to be a mom. 516 00:44:39,637 --> 00:44:43,475 If we go to Mom's party, are you guys coming? 517 00:44:43,558 --> 00:44:45,685 What do you mean? 518 00:44:47,812 --> 00:44:52,025 We are in the same situation as you, with Charlie, creating boundaries. 519 00:44:52,108 --> 00:44:57,238 I'm just doing it for Mom. It's her 60th, and I'm like, OK. 520 00:44:57,322 --> 00:45:02,285 What changed? You guys were pretty set on your decision. Time. 521 00:45:02,369 --> 00:45:05,121 If he's going to be there, so be it. 522 00:45:05,205 --> 00:45:07,248 I'm not going to allow him 523 00:45:07,332 --> 00:45:11,002 to keep me from doing things that I want to do. 524 00:45:11,086 --> 00:45:14,339 So, all of your words went to shit. 525 00:45:14,422 --> 00:45:18,134 You're dishonouring and disrespecting your own word 526 00:45:18,218 --> 00:45:20,679 by putting yourself in that environment 527 00:45:20,762 --> 00:45:24,265 and subjecting yourself to that. No. 528 00:45:24,349 --> 00:45:27,268 My sisters seemed to be on my husband's side 529 00:45:27,352 --> 00:45:29,187 at the housewarming party. 530 00:45:29,270 --> 00:45:33,608 Maybe my mom has been chirping in their ears and got into their head, 531 00:45:33,692 --> 00:45:37,946 and they changed their mind without having a reason why they did it 532 00:45:38,029 --> 00:45:39,698 or what their motive was. 533 00:45:39,781 --> 00:45:44,035 I think you're taking it to another level that it doesn't have to be. 534 00:45:44,119 --> 00:45:46,955 And you're doing it really aggressively. 535 00:45:47,038 --> 00:45:50,583 Do you think Charlie's just going to attack you? 536 00:45:50,667 --> 00:45:52,836 He has before. Why wouldn't he? 537 00:45:52,919 --> 00:45:56,840 He sends me awful text messages all the time about my husband. 538 00:45:56,923 --> 00:45:58,466 Still? Yes! 539 00:45:58,550 --> 00:46:01,970 You're saying this via text, what would you say in person? 540 00:46:02,053 --> 00:46:07,600 I'm not going to subject myself to that for a fricking birthday party. 541 00:46:08,643 --> 00:46:12,355 I've already made my decision - I'm not coming. 542 00:46:12,439 --> 00:46:14,733 Hopefully you guys have a good time. 543 00:46:14,816 --> 00:46:19,654 I still am quite baffled at my sisters' responses. 544 00:46:19,738 --> 00:46:24,576 I don't have a problem with forgiving someone and forgetting, 545 00:46:24,659 --> 00:46:28,621 but if this particular person keeps hurting my husband 546 00:46:28,705 --> 00:46:34,085 and doesn't show any sign of remorse or change in their behaviour, 547 00:46:34,169 --> 00:46:37,881 then no way would I subject myself to that, that's foolish. 548 00:46:37,964 --> 00:46:42,594 They'll come out of that party and not feel good about themselves. 549 00:46:42,677 --> 00:46:46,806 You're making a mistake. Andrei is forcing you to make the mistake, 550 00:46:46,890 --> 00:46:49,642 and you don't see it. Think whatever you want. 551 00:46:49,726 --> 00:46:53,563 You and Andrei are slowly distancing yourselves 552 00:46:53,646 --> 00:46:58,360 from everybody in the family. You're building an island. 553 00:46:59,611 --> 00:47:02,864 It's just such a shit show all the time. 554 00:47:02,947 --> 00:47:07,911 It's like I can't get done coping with one situation 555 00:47:07,994 --> 00:47:10,830 before there's a new one in my family. 556 00:47:10,914 --> 00:47:16,127 Now it's Andrei - he's creating a wall around him and my sister, 557 00:47:16,211 --> 00:47:19,964 and frankly, I feel stupid that I'm kind of surprised by it. 558 00:47:20,048 --> 00:47:24,803 I think that, by you guys not coming, 559 00:47:24,886 --> 00:47:29,974 it's then creating a bigger issue than what it has to be. 560 00:47:30,058 --> 00:47:31,935 What do you have to lose by going? 561 00:47:32,018 --> 00:47:35,647 Andrei has his Green Card renewal coming up. 562 00:47:35,730 --> 00:47:38,108 If he has anything on his record 563 00:47:38,191 --> 00:47:42,028 that could jeopardise his Green Card getting renewed, 564 00:47:42,112 --> 00:47:45,532 like, God forbid, they see each other and get into a fight, 565 00:47:45,615 --> 00:47:48,743 and it's reported, that goes against his Green Card. 566 00:47:48,827 --> 00:47:52,163 Does he feel like he'll fly off the handle? 567 00:47:52,247 --> 00:47:55,959 Were you there last year at the barbecue? Yes, we were there! 568 00:47:56,042 --> 00:48:01,506 My husband almost fought my brother, and we almost fought Megan. 569 00:48:01,589 --> 00:48:04,884 It's not worth jeopardising your Green Card. 570 00:48:04,968 --> 00:48:09,931 I don't see that happening at Mom's birthday dinner at a restaurant. 571 00:48:10,015 --> 00:48:15,061 The fact of the matter is, we have our Green Card renewal coming up, 572 00:48:15,145 --> 00:48:18,982 and we're not jeopardising that for a birthday party, that's it. 573 00:48:19,065 --> 00:48:21,735 Why does he have a renewal interview? 574 00:48:21,818 --> 00:48:25,321 I thought they just renew it. Why is his different? 575 00:48:25,405 --> 00:48:30,410 Sometimes they make you come in for interview, everybody's different. 576 00:48:30,493 --> 00:48:35,498 Good. Hopefully, he gets sent back. (LAUGHS) Red flag. 577 00:48:35,582 --> 00:48:40,587 I know my sisters have not really been much of a fan of Andrei, 578 00:48:40,670 --> 00:48:43,965 but joking about his deportation is just rude. 579 00:48:44,049 --> 00:48:46,343 Who the fuck talks like that? 580 00:48:46,426 --> 00:48:49,929 Not a sister, that's supposed to support you. 581 00:48:50,013 --> 00:48:52,223 Hopefully, they'll realise that 582 00:48:52,307 --> 00:48:55,018 Andrei is not the problem, it's Charlie. 583 00:48:55,101 --> 00:49:00,106 Hopefully he gets sent back? What a stupid fucking thing to say. 584 00:49:00,190 --> 00:49:03,360 Do you not want to see me ever again? 585 00:49:03,443 --> 00:49:08,490 Because I would move to Moldova. It's heading that way anyway. 586 00:49:08,573 --> 00:49:10,992 He's already threatening Mom. 587 00:49:11,076 --> 00:49:17,123 He might threaten to keep you and, you know, Ellie away from me. 588 00:49:17,207 --> 00:49:20,335 Literally, I actually have that fear. 589 00:49:24,422 --> 00:49:24,683 2 00:47:48.600 -- 00:47:51.880 align:middle line:90% position:50% Last night, Usman took me to go meet his friend, KB, 590 00:49:54,619 --> 00:49:59,416 who has two wives. He wanted me to talk to him and ask him questions. 591 00:49:59,499 --> 00:50:02,919 Usman and I got into a fight, I threw a milkshake at him, 592 00:50:03,003 --> 00:50:05,088 and it escalated from there. 593 00:50:07,799 --> 00:50:12,137 I woke up this morning, and I felt really bad about that. 594 00:50:12,220 --> 00:50:15,557 I really shouldn't have lost control of my emotions, 595 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,393 even though I feel like he disrespected me. 596 00:50:18,476 --> 00:50:22,939 I'm too old to be throwing things to handle my problems. 597 00:50:27,652 --> 00:50:29,320 Hey. 598 00:50:29,404 --> 00:50:30,947 Hey! 599 00:50:31,031 --> 00:50:33,658 Hi. What are you doing? 600 00:50:33,742 --> 00:50:38,288 Just having, you know - taking fresh air. 601 00:50:39,456 --> 00:50:40,999 OK. 602 00:50:41,082 --> 00:50:43,460 How are you? 603 00:50:44,878 --> 00:50:47,672 I just want to say I'm sorry, you know? 604 00:50:49,549 --> 00:50:51,509 Your coffee, ma'am. Thank you. 605 00:50:51,593 --> 00:50:54,471 Please enjoy your coffee. Mm-hm. 606 00:50:57,265 --> 00:50:59,434 Thank you. You're welcome. 607 00:50:59,517 --> 00:51:04,773 Please don't forget - what you have in there is coffee and hot water. 608 00:51:04,856 --> 00:51:08,318 I'm not going to do it again, I promise you. 609 00:51:09,819 --> 00:51:13,365 I'm really sorry that I acted like that, that's not who I am. 610 00:51:13,448 --> 00:51:16,868 I mean, I'm sorry about, like, everything. 611 00:51:16,951 --> 00:51:21,414 Last night was the the first night, except for when I threw water on you. 612 00:51:21,498 --> 00:51:24,918 But last night was the first night you've seen me like that. 613 00:51:25,001 --> 00:51:26,961 What triggered you that way? 614 00:51:27,045 --> 00:51:29,422 You knew that I would have questions, 615 00:51:29,506 --> 00:51:32,342 that we'd have to talk about this face-to-face. 616 00:51:32,425 --> 00:51:38,181 I felt like you told me that the first wife gets all the love 617 00:51:38,264 --> 00:51:41,351 and the second one was just a baby maker. 618 00:51:41,434 --> 00:51:45,188 I don't get the whole story. I get the things you want me to hear 619 00:51:45,271 --> 00:51:47,899 because you don't want to hurt me. 620 00:51:47,982 --> 00:51:52,404 The subject matter didn't get me mad, it's the way you're handling it. 621 00:51:52,487 --> 00:51:55,990 I am very sorry if I offended you in any way. 622 00:51:56,074 --> 00:52:00,537 I don't want my relationship with Usman to end, 623 00:52:00,620 --> 00:52:04,749 but with Usman not telling me the whole way things would go 624 00:52:04,833 --> 00:52:07,711 with the second wife makes me really emotional. 625 00:52:07,794 --> 00:52:11,631 I came down here, I'm willing to let this happen 626 00:52:11,715 --> 00:52:13,258 so we can be together, 627 00:52:13,341 --> 00:52:17,178 and it's like he just tells me things I want to hear all the time. 628 00:52:17,262 --> 00:52:19,723 How do I know if Usman's telling the truth 629 00:52:19,806 --> 00:52:23,852 or bullshitting me because he thinks that's what I want to hear? 630 00:52:23,935 --> 00:52:26,688 What if we get married, and I find out that 631 00:52:26,771 --> 00:52:30,608 things aren't the way he said when he was bullshitting me? 632 00:52:30,692 --> 00:52:33,862 You know, like, I'm so worried, 633 00:52:33,945 --> 00:52:38,783 I'm confused about what happened last night. 634 00:52:38,867 --> 00:52:42,120 This should happen some time ago, not now. 635 00:52:42,203 --> 00:52:45,457 You should have been honest about the second marriage 636 00:52:45,540 --> 00:52:47,083 from the beginning. 637 00:52:47,167 --> 00:52:49,002 This is changing my life. 638 00:52:49,085 --> 00:52:51,713 This is your custom, this isn't mine. 639 00:52:51,796 --> 00:52:55,759 I love you enough to accept it, but I need to understand it too, 640 00:52:55,842 --> 00:52:58,553 and you disregard that with me. 641 00:52:58,636 --> 00:53:01,639 I don't know why you do that to me. 642 00:53:01,723 --> 00:53:05,268 Nobody has been in your corner more than me. 643 00:53:06,853 --> 00:53:10,065 OK. I said I wasn't going to cry. 644 00:53:10,148 --> 00:53:12,817 You know I don't want you crying. 645 00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:17,864 I am very sorry. 646 00:53:20,241 --> 00:53:24,162 I wish I was 30 years younger, you know what I mean, 647 00:53:24,245 --> 00:53:27,165 and I could have your children, but I can't. 648 00:53:27,248 --> 00:53:31,044 I didn't come down here for myself, all of this is for you. 649 00:53:31,127 --> 00:53:36,216 Coming here, even talking to somebody about this, all of this is for you. 650 00:53:38,635 --> 00:53:40,720 But it is. 651 00:53:44,099 --> 00:53:46,184 Do not say that. 652 00:53:46,267 --> 00:53:50,647 If you're seeing that, then you're seeing it in the wrong way. 653 00:53:50,730 --> 00:53:53,024 I'm here for you and you're here for me. 654 00:53:53,108 --> 00:53:56,820 If you're saying you're here for me, what is it I'm doing for you? 655 00:53:56,903 --> 00:54:00,865 You don't see anything I do for you. Of course I do. 656 00:54:00,949 --> 00:54:04,119 But how many women from America would come here, 657 00:54:04,202 --> 00:54:07,747 fall in love with somebody 18 years younger than them, 658 00:54:07,831 --> 00:54:11,209 then be OK with them taking a second wife? 659 00:54:11,292 --> 00:54:14,462 I don't feel you give me enough credit for that at all. 660 00:54:14,546 --> 00:54:19,509 Kimberly is always acting as if I'm not doing anything 661 00:54:19,592 --> 00:54:25,724 to compromise to this relationship, or I'm not fighting for this. 662 00:54:25,807 --> 00:54:28,935 She doesn't understand that I'm doing all this 663 00:54:29,019 --> 00:54:32,480 for us to get the blessing, and that would be difficult. 664 00:54:38,445 --> 00:54:43,199 And I'm worried because I know they're not going to like her. 665 00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:51,958 Am I still going? 666 00:54:52,042 --> 00:54:55,337 Do you want me to go? Do you want to come? 667 00:54:55,420 --> 00:54:58,423 Do you want me to go? I want you to come. 668 00:55:04,637 --> 00:55:06,222 No. 669 00:55:06,306 --> 00:55:08,016 It's not... I might get mad, 670 00:55:08,099 --> 00:55:11,644 but you'll never see that side of me again. OK, but... 671 00:55:11,728 --> 00:55:14,272 If I get mad, I'll talk to you in private, 672 00:55:14,356 --> 00:55:16,733 I won't do it in front of people. Good. 673 00:55:16,816 --> 00:55:20,528 You'll never see that side of me again ever. 674 00:55:20,612 --> 00:55:22,155 OK. 675 00:55:22,238 --> 00:55:24,699 You know I love you, right? 676 00:55:24,783 --> 00:55:27,619 Can I get some fuckin' yammy just some time? 677 00:55:27,702 --> 00:55:30,955 Is that what you want? It's been two days. 678 00:55:31,039 --> 00:55:33,041 OK, bend down. (LAUGHS) 679 00:55:33,124 --> 00:55:36,544 Bend down now! We're outside, there's people around. 680 00:55:36,628 --> 00:55:38,755 I'm just saying... You're so dumb. 681 00:55:38,838 --> 00:55:44,260 Behave yourself well, after birthday party, you're getting yammy tonight. 682 00:55:47,013 --> 00:55:49,683 You're so dumb! I love you. 683 00:55:49,766 --> 00:55:52,477 I love you. 684 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:57,649 Kimberly knows that she is wrong, and she apologised, 685 00:55:57,732 --> 00:56:00,735 but if I take Kimberly to my birthday party 686 00:56:00,819 --> 00:56:04,864 and she acts the same way she did in front of KB, 687 00:56:04,948 --> 00:56:08,576 I won't take Kimberly to meet my family, 688 00:56:08,660 --> 00:56:11,371 and honestly, the relationship will break. 689 00:56:11,454 --> 00:56:13,998 Are you going to hold my hand? 690 00:56:14,082 --> 00:56:16,543 Love you. Do you? 691 00:56:16,626 --> 00:56:18,712 I do. 692 00:56:29,889 --> 00:56:31,975 OK, who did the poopies? 693 00:56:32,058 --> 00:56:34,811 Leon? Leon, sit. 694 00:56:34,894 --> 00:56:36,980 Good boy. 695 00:56:41,234 --> 00:56:43,445 Who went poo-poo on the pad? 696 00:56:44,654 --> 00:56:46,740 You're learning. 697 00:56:46,823 --> 00:56:52,287 During the photo shoot, Liz said that I'm trying to show off, 698 00:56:52,370 --> 00:56:58,084 and to me, that is total BS. That's just her being a baby sissy waa-waa. 699 00:56:58,168 --> 00:57:04,466 But at the same time, I didn't react very well to it. 700 00:57:04,549 --> 00:57:07,677 I think I embarrassed her in front of her friends. 701 00:57:07,761 --> 00:57:14,225 I have to be more sensitive to make this work with Liz. 702 00:57:16,269 --> 00:57:18,355 (LINE RINGS) 703 00:57:18,438 --> 00:57:22,275 The engagement party is right around the corner, 704 00:57:22,359 --> 00:57:27,030 and I've sent invites to my mom and daughter, but no reply. 705 00:57:27,113 --> 00:57:31,493 Even though we have unresolved issues, 706 00:57:31,576 --> 00:57:34,704 I would like to reconcile with my mom and my daughter, 707 00:57:34,788 --> 00:57:38,249 and have them come to the engagement party. 708 00:57:40,502 --> 00:57:44,464 VOICEMAIL: Your call has been forwarded to a voice-message system. 709 00:57:44,547 --> 00:57:47,759 Please record your message. (BEEP) 710 00:57:47,842 --> 00:57:50,804 Hi, Mom, it's Ed. Hope you're doing well. 711 00:57:50,887 --> 00:57:53,431 We sent out our engagement invitations, 712 00:57:53,515 --> 00:57:56,393 and I'm calling to see if you'll be coming. 713 00:57:56,476 --> 00:57:59,688 Love you, and I'll talk to you soon. Bye-bye. 714 00:58:07,153 --> 00:58:09,239 Um, I don't know. 715 00:58:09,322 --> 00:58:11,741 I think she's just so upset. 716 00:58:11,825 --> 00:58:16,287 My therapist is like, "You're doing the right thing - 717 00:58:16,371 --> 00:58:20,917 tell them you love them. In time, they'll come around." 718 00:58:21,001 --> 00:58:23,086 (CLEARS THROAT) 719 00:58:34,014 --> 00:58:37,475 I'm still not happy about the photo-shoot tiff, 720 00:58:37,559 --> 00:58:41,396 but I am working really hard 721 00:58:41,479 --> 00:58:47,068 to get over it and move on because we are planning an engagement party, 722 00:58:47,152 --> 00:58:51,698 and we don't have a lot of time to get on the same page. 723 00:58:51,781 --> 00:58:55,618 I'm hoping that a fun date night can help. 724 00:58:55,702 --> 00:59:01,791 So, what are our names going to be, who do you want to be? 725 00:59:01,875 --> 00:59:04,210 Who do you think I'm going to be? Stella. 726 00:59:04,294 --> 00:59:06,880 I'm totally going to be Stella. 727 00:59:06,963 --> 00:59:10,008 We usually do date night at least once a week. 728 00:59:10,091 --> 00:59:13,762 Role play, it's just kind of peppered in. 729 00:59:13,845 --> 00:59:17,182 We never plan it, it's just out of the ordinary. 730 00:59:17,265 --> 00:59:20,060 I know, at the end of the night, I'll bag you. 731 00:59:20,143 --> 00:59:21,811 Wow, thanks (!) 732 00:59:21,895 --> 00:59:24,981 Even though I'm failing, I know you're a sure thing. 733 00:59:25,065 --> 00:59:28,485 You just called me a sure thing! (LAUGHS) 734 00:59:28,568 --> 00:59:33,156 Liz and I just started doing this one night, very organically. 735 00:59:33,239 --> 00:59:36,910 She's like, "Why don't you try and pick me up?" 736 00:59:36,993 --> 00:59:40,538 "I want to know why you've been single for 30 years. 737 00:59:40,622 --> 00:59:43,083 Pick me up, and try to take me home." 738 00:59:43,166 --> 00:59:46,169 She found out why I was single for 30 years. 739 00:59:46,252 --> 00:59:48,672 Like it! 740 00:59:48,755 --> 00:59:51,132 Oh, wow, this is nice! 741 00:59:51,216 --> 00:59:54,928 OK, well, let the games begin. Right. See ya, loser! 742 00:59:55,011 --> 00:59:57,764 See ya! Go easy on me. 743 00:59:58,807 --> 01:00:01,768 We're used to dive bars. 744 01:00:01,851 --> 01:00:06,606 This is a completely nice, romantic scenery to do a role play. 745 01:00:06,690 --> 01:00:10,318 If I reject him, he has to do it all again. 746 01:00:10,402 --> 01:00:12,737 I'm kind of excited tonight. 747 01:00:16,741 --> 01:00:18,827 Well, hello. 748 01:00:18,910 --> 01:00:21,705 Is this seat taken? 749 01:00:21,788 --> 01:00:23,415 No, it's open. 750 01:00:23,498 --> 01:00:25,583 Are YOU taken? 751 01:00:25,667 --> 01:00:27,752 No. (LAUGHS) Thank God! 752 01:00:27,836 --> 01:00:32,799 Would you like an old fashioned? I would love an old fashioned. 753 01:00:34,134 --> 01:00:37,804 I'm Slyde, with a Y, 754 01:00:37,887 --> 01:00:40,473 cos I slide into people's DMs. 755 01:00:40,557 --> 01:00:42,976 Get lost - bad. No, bad? OK. 756 01:00:43,059 --> 01:00:45,854 One more time. (LAUGHS) 757 01:00:50,358 --> 01:00:52,694 How are you doing? Can I help you? 758 01:00:52,777 --> 01:00:54,904 Yeah, are you OK? Am I OK? 759 01:00:54,988 --> 01:00:59,993 Yeah - you look like an angel that fell from heaven. Get out. 760 01:01:00,076 --> 01:01:01,828 Can I help you? Sure. 761 01:01:01,911 --> 01:01:05,540 I wanted to come by and find out if you know CPR. 762 01:01:05,623 --> 01:01:08,209 If I know CPR? 763 01:01:08,293 --> 01:01:11,254 Yeah, you just stole my heart. Get out. 764 01:01:11,338 --> 01:01:15,258 Is your dad a boxer? Cos you're a total knockout. 765 01:01:15,342 --> 01:01:19,262 Was that seriously something that was in your notes? No. 766 01:01:19,346 --> 01:01:22,640 Oh, hey. Do you believe in love at first sight... 767 01:01:22,724 --> 01:01:24,768 I actually do not. 768 01:01:24,851 --> 01:01:27,896 ..or should I walk by again? (LAUGHS) 769 01:01:29,898 --> 01:01:31,691 I'm Clyde. You're Clyde? 770 01:01:31,775 --> 01:01:33,943 What's your name? Stella. 771 01:01:34,027 --> 01:01:36,780 Stella? Hi, Stella! Can I sit down? 772 01:01:36,863 --> 01:01:39,616 You have two minutes. 773 01:01:40,658 --> 01:01:44,704 I guess the big, burning question is, are you single? 774 01:01:44,788 --> 01:01:47,832 I CAN be single. Whoa! 775 01:01:47,916 --> 01:01:51,378 So, can I buy you dinner? You can buy me dinner. 776 01:01:51,461 --> 01:01:54,005 I love you. I love you. 777 01:01:54,089 --> 01:01:57,926 I really do think Ed and I do bring the best out in each other. 778 01:01:58,009 --> 01:02:02,931 He can frustrate me, and we do have issues, 779 01:02:03,014 --> 01:02:05,684 but I do love him. 780 01:02:05,767 --> 01:02:10,188 This is why I want to work so hard for this relationship. 781 01:02:12,065 --> 01:02:14,609 Thanks, babe. You're welcome. 782 01:02:17,404 --> 01:02:20,782 God, the engagement party is in how many days? 783 01:02:20,865 --> 01:02:23,284 Five days. 784 01:02:23,368 --> 01:02:27,205 I invited my mom, I invited Tiffany. 785 01:02:31,334 --> 01:02:35,547 I don't want... I tell them I want them there, I love you, 786 01:02:35,630 --> 01:02:37,549 don't turn your back on me. 787 01:02:37,632 --> 01:02:41,219 I don't think you've turned your back on THEM. At all. 788 01:02:41,302 --> 01:02:44,639 I don't want any regrets in 20 years. 789 01:02:44,723 --> 01:02:47,976 It's a lose-lose situation. 790 01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:53,648 They come, it'll be hard. They don't come, it's hard. 791 01:02:53,732 --> 01:02:57,736 If Tiffany and Norma came, I do see unwanted drama, 792 01:02:57,819 --> 01:03:03,992 but for Ed to not have his family there, it does make me really sad. 793 01:03:04,075 --> 01:03:05,910 But I'd be lying if I didn't say 794 01:03:05,994 --> 01:03:08,830 it's a little bit of a relief if they don't come. 795 01:03:08,913 --> 01:03:13,084 I kind of feel like us announcing that we're engaged, 796 01:03:13,168 --> 01:03:15,170 it threw everybody for a loop. 797 01:03:15,253 --> 01:03:19,966 Nobody saw it coming, so it's like a bomb went off - pshew! 798 01:03:20,050 --> 01:03:22,302 Now the dust has settled. 799 01:03:22,385 --> 01:03:26,264 You're like a different person you were a year ago. 800 01:03:26,348 --> 01:03:29,559 You're a different person than you were a year ago too. 801 01:03:29,642 --> 01:03:31,728 It has a lot to do with 802 01:03:31,811 --> 01:03:36,941 me finally shutting up and listening to who you are 803 01:03:37,025 --> 01:03:40,111 and letting you be who you are. 804 01:03:40,195 --> 01:03:43,198 (LAUGHS) We're still working on both of those. 805 01:03:43,281 --> 01:03:45,950 I thought we were there, no? No. 806 01:03:48,787 --> 01:03:53,416 Liz has been the hardest, most wonderful thing in my life. 807 01:03:53,500 --> 01:03:56,378 I mean, she is a pain in the ass. 808 01:03:56,461 --> 01:04:02,300 But look at me! I mean, I cannot imagine dating myself. I wouldn't. 809 01:04:02,384 --> 01:04:06,805 Baby, are you ready for the rest of the night? (BOTH LAUGH) 810 01:04:06,888 --> 01:04:10,517 I take the guest room, you take the bedroom. 811 01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:13,103 Baby! I thought you liked me. I DO like you. 812 01:04:13,186 --> 01:04:18,817 You know, I have a lot of my heart invested in her. 813 01:04:18,900 --> 01:04:21,027 With the engagement party, 814 01:04:21,111 --> 01:04:24,447 I don't feel like we have anything to prove to anybody. 815 01:04:24,531 --> 01:04:29,494 It's to show the world that we love each other and we're engaged. 816 01:04:29,577 --> 01:04:33,123 So, am I gettin' any? I'm a sure thing (!) 817 01:04:33,206 --> 01:04:35,500 (BOTH LAUGH) 818 01:04:35,583 --> 01:04:37,627 Love you. 819 01:04:37,836 --> 01:04:38,096 2 01:02:08.840 -- 01:02:10.840 align:middle line:90% position:50% You're a superstar. 820 01:05:00,108 --> 01:05:03,028 You want to go run, Mylah? 821 01:05:03,111 --> 01:05:05,196 Go play. 822 01:05:07,323 --> 01:05:10,368 Since the war started in Ukraine a week ago, 823 01:05:10,452 --> 01:05:13,955 I'm trying my best to do whatever I can to support Yara. 824 01:05:14,039 --> 01:05:18,168 I'm worried that I'm going to be leaving to go to work in a few days, 825 01:05:18,251 --> 01:05:20,920 and she's not going to have me to help her out. 826 01:05:21,004 --> 01:05:22,714 She's very emotional, 827 01:05:22,797 --> 01:05:27,218 she's superfocused on getting her friends to a safe place, 828 01:05:27,302 --> 01:05:29,387 making sure her family is safe. 829 01:05:29,471 --> 01:05:31,556 We discussed with my lawyer, 830 01:05:31,639 --> 01:05:36,644 is there anything we can do to help her friends and family in Ukraine. 831 01:05:42,734 --> 01:05:44,819 President Biden has said that 832 01:05:44,903 --> 01:05:47,655 they're going to grant refugee status. 833 01:05:47,739 --> 01:05:52,369 I don't know what that process is, but you, as a Green Card holder, 834 01:05:52,452 --> 01:05:55,663 can apply for your immediate relatives - 835 01:05:55,747 --> 01:05:58,750 your mother and brothers and sisters. 836 01:06:04,005 --> 01:06:05,632 You would get the Green Card 837 01:06:05,715 --> 01:06:08,385 probably around a week after the interview. 838 01:06:08,468 --> 01:06:12,889 If it's only a week, what are you going to do if I'm at work? 839 01:06:17,227 --> 01:06:20,438 How do you feel about the meeting with the lawyer - 840 01:06:20,522 --> 01:06:22,816 do you feel good, do you feel nervous? 841 01:06:22,899 --> 01:06:26,861 I'm picturing your family here - they can't speak English. 842 01:06:26,945 --> 01:06:30,365 It'll take them nine or ten months to get a work permit. 843 01:06:30,448 --> 01:06:33,618 It's something we really need to think about. 844 01:06:33,702 --> 01:06:37,372 How's this going to work, if we have a house full of people? 845 01:06:37,455 --> 01:06:41,167 We already have a small enough place for me, you, and Mylah. 846 01:06:41,251 --> 01:06:45,672 I don't know how realistic it is that they can live with us so fast. 847 01:06:45,755 --> 01:06:50,969 It's going to be expensive, their money's going to go fast here. 848 01:06:51,052 --> 01:06:53,930 We're going to have to support them. 849 01:06:55,056 --> 01:06:56,641 I know. 850 01:06:57,684 --> 01:07:01,855 This is my family, Jovi. They need my help right now. 851 01:07:01,938 --> 01:07:06,568 It's about other people's lives right now. I understand, 852 01:07:06,651 --> 01:07:11,740 I just want you to understand it's going to take a lot of your time. 853 01:07:12,907 --> 01:07:16,995 I'm not saying I want to leave your family in danger, 854 01:07:17,078 --> 01:07:19,539 I'm just trying to make sure that 855 01:07:19,622 --> 01:07:22,792 we both understand the entire situation. 856 01:07:36,681 --> 01:07:42,062 What do you think about what the lawyer said about um, travelling - 857 01:07:42,145 --> 01:07:45,398 in your head right now, do you really think it's OK 858 01:07:45,482 --> 01:07:49,944 for you to leave and go to Prague before I get back from work? 859 01:07:50,987 --> 01:07:54,866 I'm only going to work for three weeks. 860 01:07:54,949 --> 01:08:00,121 You get your Green Card, you wait two more weeks, and I'm home. 861 01:08:00,205 --> 01:08:04,125 You can't wait for me? Everybody's going to still need help. 862 01:08:04,209 --> 01:08:06,753 You can help them in three weeks. 863 01:08:08,713 --> 01:08:10,799 What do you mean, no? 864 01:08:23,311 --> 01:08:26,523 I know people need help right now, but 865 01:08:26,606 --> 01:08:28,566 imagine how that will be for me. 866 01:08:28,650 --> 01:08:31,236 I'll come home from work, you're in Europe, 867 01:08:31,319 --> 01:08:35,448 I'm worried about what you're doing, where you are. 868 01:08:37,909 --> 01:08:41,287 I'm just telling you, I would feel more comfortable 869 01:08:41,371 --> 01:08:45,709 if you waited till I got off work, and I could go with you. 870 01:08:49,379 --> 01:08:52,048 You're not thinking the situation through, 871 01:08:52,132 --> 01:08:56,636 of what's really the right decision, the right time for you to do this. 872 01:08:56,720 --> 01:09:00,181 If I'm there with you, I can make more rational decisions, 873 01:09:00,265 --> 01:09:03,435 determine what's safe for our family. 874 01:09:03,518 --> 01:09:07,355 I'm only going to work for three weeks, then we'll go together. 875 01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:11,568 When we get there, I will do what I can to support whoever needs help, 876 01:09:11,651 --> 01:09:14,904 do what we need to do and get things done. 877 01:09:18,324 --> 01:09:22,579 What are you going to do, what's your plan? 878 01:09:25,373 --> 01:09:30,128 You can take the next three weeks right now and make a plan, 879 01:09:30,211 --> 01:09:33,631 the same plan you're planning on doing when you get there, 880 01:09:33,715 --> 01:09:36,885 and do it whenever I am there with you. 881 01:09:39,721 --> 01:09:42,724 So, are you going to wait for me or not? 882 01:09:49,814 --> 01:09:51,358 (SIGHS) 883 01:10:02,452 --> 01:10:03,995 (KISSES) 884 01:10:04,079 --> 01:10:06,748 Hey! Give me a kiss some more. 885 01:10:06,831 --> 01:10:09,584 Oh, your best friend now. (KISSES) 886 01:10:09,668 --> 01:10:11,753 We're all best friends. 887 01:10:16,758 --> 01:10:21,221 My name is Ellie. And my name is Daddy. What's your name? 888 01:10:21,304 --> 01:10:23,014 Daddy? Yeah. 889 01:10:23,098 --> 01:10:26,559 Baby, you are the cutest daddy in the world. (LAUGHS) 890 01:10:26,643 --> 01:10:28,186 Eee! 891 01:10:28,269 --> 01:10:30,605 After meeting with my sisters today, 892 01:10:30,689 --> 01:10:33,817 finding out that we're not on the same page 893 01:10:33,900 --> 01:10:36,528 with my mom's birthday party, 894 01:10:36,611 --> 01:10:40,323 because Charlie's going to be there, is disheartening. 895 01:10:40,407 --> 01:10:43,159 It's hard to not be there on my mom's birthday, 896 01:10:43,243 --> 01:10:47,330 but this is the best decision until things get resolved with Charlie. 897 01:10:47,414 --> 01:10:50,250 I met with my sisters today 898 01:10:50,333 --> 01:10:55,046 and talked to them about, like, the whole party situation. 899 01:10:55,130 --> 01:10:56,798 They are deciding to go. 900 01:10:56,881 --> 01:10:58,967 Babe, I don't really even care. 901 01:10:59,050 --> 01:11:05,015 Maybe we should just get rid of a cancer, and you can survive, 902 01:11:05,098 --> 01:11:07,100 right? 903 01:11:07,183 --> 01:11:10,270 I think it's easy for my family to blame 904 01:11:10,353 --> 01:11:15,066 my husband for everything that's been going on in the family recently 905 01:11:15,150 --> 01:11:17,652 because he is an outsider looking in. 906 01:11:17,736 --> 01:11:20,822 He's sticking the mirror in their face like, 907 01:11:20,905 --> 01:11:24,451 "This is what's going on," and they don't like it. 908 01:11:24,534 --> 01:11:27,871 Staying away from Charlie has its price, 909 01:11:27,954 --> 01:11:32,167 but your family is supposed to be sacred, something you can trust, 910 01:11:32,250 --> 01:11:34,294 it shouldn't be like this. 911 01:11:38,173 --> 01:11:40,258 Right, babe. 912 01:11:53,396 --> 01:11:56,566 Pull your legs back. Damn, that's hot. 913 01:12:01,905 --> 01:12:05,325 My butt look good too? (CHUCKLES) Real hot. 914 01:12:05,408 --> 01:12:09,704 It was kind of my idea to start doing feet pictures, 915 01:12:09,788 --> 01:12:12,791 because I'm like, "You have really sexy feet." 916 01:12:12,874 --> 01:12:15,752 A lot of people like that, you can sell those. 917 01:12:15,835 --> 01:12:20,173 I had no idea how idea how big the foot-fetish industry is, but wow. 918 01:12:20,256 --> 01:12:23,635 Last year alone, I made over $70,000. 919 01:12:24,844 --> 01:12:27,722 We're good for the day, that was a good shoot. 920 01:12:27,806 --> 01:12:34,020 If I can work from home and do this on the side, I can be, you know... 921 01:12:34,104 --> 01:12:36,773 It takes two seconds to take a picture. Yeah! 922 01:12:36,856 --> 01:12:40,860 I get pedicures every couple of weeks. I absolutely support her. 923 01:12:40,944 --> 01:12:44,948 I make more money doing this than I did working for your family. 924 01:12:45,031 --> 01:12:46,991 It's crazy. 925 01:12:47,075 --> 01:12:51,621 I like doing photo shoots with you. Me too, I like that you help me. 926 01:12:51,705 --> 01:12:53,331 Easy money. It is. 927 01:12:53,415 --> 01:12:56,126 Did you talk to your mom? 928 01:12:56,209 --> 01:12:59,671 Yeah, she planned a birthday-party dinner. 929 01:12:59,754 --> 01:13:03,174 Is everyone going to go? That's the thing. 930 01:13:03,258 --> 01:13:05,885 Whenever she invites me to something, I go, 931 01:13:05,969 --> 01:13:08,263 then they don't show up because of me. 932 01:13:08,346 --> 01:13:12,142 She knows it's bullshit, it's just disappointing. I mean... 933 01:13:12,225 --> 01:13:15,103 Cos it ends up hurting my mom. 934 01:13:15,186 --> 01:13:17,022 Since the barbecue, we haven't 935 01:13:17,105 --> 01:13:19,774 interacted with our family except our mom. 936 01:13:19,858 --> 01:13:22,110 My dad is Team Andrei now. 937 01:13:22,193 --> 01:13:24,821 It's like, "OK, you choose him over me, 938 01:13:24,904 --> 01:13:29,117 and destroy my character." What kind of dad is that? 939 01:13:29,200 --> 01:13:33,038 I 100% want to be there for your mom, 940 01:13:33,121 --> 01:13:36,750 but like, those girls used to be my best friends, 941 01:13:36,833 --> 01:13:40,420 and they just stopped talking to me for no reason at all, 942 01:13:40,503 --> 01:13:45,508 no explanation besides, "Charlie's toxic." What is that? 943 01:13:45,592 --> 01:13:49,304 This narrative, Charlie being toxic, is bullshit. Exactly. 944 01:13:49,387 --> 01:13:51,973 "Oh, Charlie drinks too much." 945 01:13:52,057 --> 01:13:55,393 Bro, whenever we get together... Everyone's drinking! 946 01:13:55,477 --> 01:13:57,979 They accuse me of drinking too much, 947 01:13:58,063 --> 01:14:00,815 then, Andrei, you want to hang out with my dad 948 01:14:00,899 --> 01:14:04,694 and do shots and get drunk with him, bro? And get shredded. 949 01:14:04,778 --> 01:14:09,199 I'm not an alcoholic, but do I drink when we get together? Yeah. 950 01:14:09,282 --> 01:14:11,576 But I don't drink every day. 951 01:14:11,659 --> 01:14:14,245 Andrei and Libby try to put labels on me 952 01:14:14,329 --> 01:14:19,459 to justify what they're doing to our family, it's bullshit. Mm-hm. 953 01:14:19,542 --> 01:14:23,713 Like, when did I, like, drink too much, 954 01:14:23,797 --> 01:14:26,549 and then, like, try to fight people? 955 01:14:26,633 --> 01:14:28,843 I don't remember any of it. 956 01:14:28,927 --> 01:14:32,305 I got rowdy at the wedding, who doesn't do that? Yeah. 957 01:14:32,389 --> 01:14:34,766 They can do and say whatever they want, 958 01:14:34,849 --> 01:14:37,560 but Charlie's got to be a fuckin' angel boy. 959 01:14:37,644 --> 01:14:42,273 You're also not sitting around, like, talking about people 960 01:14:42,357 --> 01:14:45,110 with the rest of the group, behind their back. 961 01:14:45,193 --> 01:14:49,614 I'm not going to my family members, trying to turn them against somebody. 962 01:14:49,698 --> 01:14:53,660 Ever since Andrei has arrived, my family has changed. 963 01:14:53,743 --> 01:14:57,372 I don't know why he tries to turn my family against me. 964 01:14:57,455 --> 01:15:02,168 Maybe because I did work with my dad, and he needed to push me out 965 01:15:02,252 --> 01:15:04,421 to secure money for HIS family. 966 01:15:04,504 --> 01:15:08,842 If my dad's going along with that, I don't need to be part of that. 967 01:15:08,925 --> 01:15:10,969 Or take orders from the new guy. 968 01:15:11,052 --> 01:15:16,057 Like I'm going to be like, "Oh, I miss Chuck!" Come on. (LAUGHS) 969 01:15:16,141 --> 01:15:20,228 Andrei has fought with literally everyone - your sisters, 970 01:15:20,311 --> 01:15:24,733 your sisters' husbands, your dad, you, your mom, me. 971 01:15:24,816 --> 01:15:30,572 Libby's changed. He tries to control her - what she does, what she says. 972 01:15:30,655 --> 01:15:34,868 OK, Andrei turns you against me, how does that work? 973 01:15:34,951 --> 01:15:38,121 Your siblings and your dad need to wake up and realise 974 01:15:38,204 --> 01:15:40,707 what Andrei is doing to the entire family, 975 01:15:40,790 --> 01:15:44,544 cos we have not done anything to them. If my dad would step up 976 01:15:44,627 --> 01:15:48,214 like, "Nah, bro, this is bullshit, Charlie's my son..." Yes. 977 01:15:48,298 --> 01:15:50,717 ..it would be different. 978 01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:55,055 I'll prove that I'm not the one that starts fights with everybody. No! 979 01:15:55,138 --> 01:15:57,849 I'm not the instigator. 980 01:15:59,559 --> 01:16:04,314 This whole situation with my family would have never happened 981 01:16:04,397 --> 01:16:06,274 if Andrei didn't come here. No. 982 01:16:06,358 --> 01:16:09,402 Like, he is the catalyst for all this. 983 01:16:09,486 --> 01:16:13,823 The only thing that will open their eyes is when it happens to them. 984 01:16:13,907 --> 01:16:18,578 Then they'll realise who's doing this. It's not me. Yeah. 985 01:16:18,661 --> 01:16:22,832 Until they wake up and see what Andrei has done, 986 01:16:22,916 --> 01:16:25,085 I don't see anything changing. 987 01:16:25,168 --> 01:16:29,339 I'm going to make them prove to me what I did wrong. 988 01:16:30,382 --> 01:16:32,592 I'm going to defend myself. 989 01:16:35,220 --> 01:16:35,480 2 01:14:46.800 -- 01:14:50.960 align:middle line:73% position:50% I'm actually amazed by everything, I love it all. 990 01:18:02,849 --> 01:18:05,727 In America, we don't attend ceremonies 991 01:18:05,810 --> 01:18:07,729 like they do here in India. 992 01:18:07,812 --> 01:18:12,192 It seems like there's a reason and a belief for everything. 993 01:18:12,275 --> 01:18:16,863 It's like you're on a whole new level of life here in India. 994 01:18:19,532 --> 01:18:21,618 Thank you. 995 01:18:25,538 --> 01:18:30,085 Look at the pretty flowers. What are those for? 996 01:18:30,168 --> 01:18:34,381 These are the offerings for the River Ganges. 997 01:18:34,464 --> 01:18:36,007 Can we buy one? 998 01:18:36,091 --> 01:18:38,468 You want one? Yeah. 999 01:18:42,138 --> 01:18:44,224 Very beautiful. 1000 01:18:51,064 --> 01:18:54,901 Shall we go and float our boats? (BOTH LAUGH) 1001 01:19:09,749 --> 01:19:13,044 My wish is for us to have a happy marriage 1002 01:19:13,128 --> 01:19:18,174 and for your family, your parents, to accept me as your wife. 1003 01:19:25,890 --> 01:19:27,434 (LAUGHS) 1004 01:19:27,517 --> 01:19:29,060 OK? 1005 01:19:33,481 --> 01:19:35,567 So... Ooh! 1006 01:19:38,570 --> 01:19:40,447 Oh. 1007 01:19:40,530 --> 01:19:42,407 Oh, no! 1008 01:19:44,492 --> 01:19:48,455 It's going to catch the flowers on fire. Oh, no! 1009 01:19:48,538 --> 01:19:50,331 Aw! (LAUGHS) 1010 01:19:50,415 --> 01:19:53,335 I hope we're still going to get our wishes. 1011 01:19:53,418 --> 01:19:55,503 How come something always happens? 1012 01:19:55,587 --> 01:20:00,383 If we're trying to go further in our relationship, move past things, 1013 01:20:00,467 --> 01:20:02,927 something always stops us. Here we go - 1014 01:20:03,011 --> 01:20:05,972 we're at the river, and the boat gets stopped. 1015 01:20:06,056 --> 01:20:09,392 I just was like, "Oh, well, here we go." 1016 01:20:12,896 --> 01:20:17,150 I know that we came for the ceremony here at the Ganges River, 1017 01:20:17,233 --> 01:20:21,571 but really, I think that something drew us here, 1018 01:20:21,654 --> 01:20:26,826 and we should leave something behind here. 1019 01:20:26,910 --> 01:20:30,372 For me, that would just be our whole struggle... Yeah. 1020 01:20:30,455 --> 01:20:33,708 ..everything I was going through with your parents. 1021 01:20:33,792 --> 01:20:36,878 I would like to leave all that behind now 1022 01:20:36,961 --> 01:20:39,798 and just move forward with our life. 1023 01:20:41,800 --> 01:20:46,429 Now that we're married, we can also get a spousal... 1024 01:20:46,513 --> 01:20:49,015 I can apply for a spousal visa for you, 1025 01:20:49,099 --> 01:20:53,520 and we could even go to America together, you and I. 1026 01:21:40,608 --> 01:21:46,072 That's something that we need to start considering and looking into - 1027 01:21:46,156 --> 01:21:50,326 what's it going to take, what's the cost going to be, 1028 01:21:50,410 --> 01:21:54,289 how long will that take, what's the process? 1029 01:21:54,372 --> 01:21:58,126 I would love you to go and see America, that's where I'm from, 1030 01:21:58,209 --> 01:22:02,464 go and find out, what is it like where Jenny's from. 1031 01:22:06,968 --> 01:22:09,262 We can think about it. 1032 01:22:09,346 --> 01:22:13,516 We can just uh, consider that, see if it's a possibility. 1033 01:22:18,063 --> 01:22:20,940 I would love to show Sumit how I am in the US. 1034 01:22:21,024 --> 01:22:22,734 We're more free-thinking. 1035 01:22:22,817 --> 01:22:26,571 You're basically free to live together as a couple, 1036 01:22:26,654 --> 01:22:29,657 you don't have to have the whole family involved. 1037 01:22:29,741 --> 01:22:33,703 You need to understand what the situation is. 1038 01:22:33,787 --> 01:22:39,209 It's going to America or I try to convince my parents. 1039 01:22:39,292 --> 01:22:41,753 This is what I'm talking about - 1040 01:22:41,836 --> 01:22:45,632 your first priority will always be your parents. 1041 01:22:45,715 --> 01:22:50,053 It will never be me, I will never be your first priority. 1042 01:22:52,430 --> 01:22:54,516 Let's see. 1043 01:23:07,737 --> 01:23:09,280 Phew! 1044 01:23:13,118 --> 01:23:14,661 OK. 1045 01:23:25,088 --> 01:23:28,008 I haven't seen my husband in two years. 1046 01:23:28,091 --> 01:23:32,887 Today is the day I'm leaving to go to Nigeria with my friend, Rene. 1047 01:23:32,971 --> 01:23:37,517 Michael don't have a damn clue that I'm about to board this plane 1048 01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:41,312 and go to Nigeria, and boy, is he in for a surprise. 1049 01:23:41,396 --> 01:23:43,982 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 1050 01:23:44,065 --> 01:23:46,735 BOTH: Hey! What are you doing? 1051 01:23:46,818 --> 01:23:51,031 I'm trying to straighten up cos we'll be gone. 1052 01:23:51,114 --> 01:23:52,907 Good morning! Hey. 1053 01:23:52,991 --> 01:23:55,410 You're talking all that America. 1054 01:23:55,493 --> 01:23:59,372 Oh, my God! I don't want to go to Nigeria without representing! 1055 01:23:59,456 --> 01:24:01,249 I brought you a present. 1056 01:24:01,332 --> 01:24:05,295 Rene, you know I love my... Oh, my God. Holy shi- 1057 01:24:05,378 --> 01:24:08,423 You always know. Isn't that cute? 1058 01:24:08,506 --> 01:24:12,093 That ain't cute, that's the mother country. 1059 01:24:12,177 --> 01:24:14,888 Oh, my God, you're packed! Look! 1060 01:24:14,971 --> 01:24:19,809 I'm impressed. What time did you go to bed? About two, 2:30. 1061 01:24:19,893 --> 01:24:23,521 I really haven't slept in several months because of Michael, 1062 01:24:23,605 --> 01:24:26,900 but the more I'm nervous, the more I'm energised. 1063 01:24:26,983 --> 01:24:31,363 This is make up or break up. 1064 01:24:31,446 --> 01:24:36,034 It all depends on if Michael is really scamming me. 1065 01:24:36,117 --> 01:24:39,996 If he is, I'll get on that plane, and make this trip to Canada 1066 01:24:40,080 --> 01:24:42,165 to see my friend, Billy. 1067 01:24:42,248 --> 01:24:46,211 I deserve to be with somebody that wants to be with me for me. 1068 01:24:46,294 --> 01:24:51,091 I'm not wasting no more of my time. 1069 01:24:51,174 --> 01:24:53,551 Rene, while I was packing, 1070 01:24:53,635 --> 01:24:57,472 I'm going to show you something I found. Move that, I'll show you. 1071 01:24:57,555 --> 01:25:03,478 Read it, Rene. "Marriage Act And Matrimonial Causes Act". 1072 01:25:03,561 --> 01:25:07,607 It's in this book - everything he owns, when I'm in Nigeria, 1073 01:25:07,691 --> 01:25:09,442 belongs to me. OK, take that. 1074 01:25:09,526 --> 01:25:14,739 Michael and I are married under the Christian law in Nigeria. 1075 01:25:14,823 --> 01:25:20,203 When I'm in Nigeria, everything that Michael owns belongs to me as well. 1076 01:25:20,286 --> 01:25:24,416 Technically, I do have the right to take Michael's belongings, 1077 01:25:24,499 --> 01:25:26,501 especially his phone. 1078 01:25:26,584 --> 01:25:28,169 We'll bring this. 1079 01:25:28,253 --> 01:25:31,297 I don't want to treat my husband this way, 1080 01:25:31,381 --> 01:25:33,800 but I need to uncover the truth, 1081 01:25:33,883 --> 01:25:37,721 to prove Michael's using me to get to America. 1082 01:25:37,804 --> 01:25:41,349 I'm having anxieties right now. 1083 01:25:41,433 --> 01:25:44,894 Like, this could be goodbye, really. 1084 01:25:51,151 --> 01:25:54,571 He doesn't care about people's feelings. I know. 1085 01:25:54,654 --> 01:25:56,906 I'm to the point where, 1086 01:25:56,990 --> 01:26:01,911 you either step up and love me the way you said or go. 1087 01:26:07,917 --> 01:26:10,712 I'm tired of him. 1088 01:26:14,299 --> 01:26:17,510 Honestly, I don't know how to feel about this trip. 1089 01:26:17,594 --> 01:26:20,472 It's been two years since I've seen my husband, 1090 01:26:20,555 --> 01:26:23,058 and I'm kind of excited, but then again, 1091 01:26:23,141 --> 01:26:26,353 I am mad as hell because you have hurt me. 1092 01:26:26,436 --> 01:26:31,900 Don't cry. We don't need to be starting going to Nigeria crying. 1093 01:26:33,443 --> 01:26:39,991 We've had our fights, but I never, ever imagined we'd be in this mess. 1094 01:26:40,075 --> 01:26:42,619 If I found out Michael was scamming me, 1095 01:26:42,702 --> 01:26:46,081 that means our whole relationship has been a fake, 1096 01:26:46,164 --> 01:26:50,251 and the most terrible thing is that he fooled me. 1097 01:27:00,887 --> 01:27:03,056 Oh, Jesus! Oh, my God! 1098 01:27:15,151 --> 01:27:19,489 I never have nobody there with me, I've got to fight everybody. 1099 01:27:19,572 --> 01:27:22,784 Now I've got somebody. That's going to understand... 1100 01:27:22,867 --> 01:27:26,579 You've been with me! ..what you're going through. 1101 01:27:26,663 --> 01:27:30,000 Going to Nigeria does not mean just seeing Michael, 1102 01:27:30,083 --> 01:27:32,919 I'll have to face his family and his friends. 1103 01:27:33,003 --> 01:27:37,007 Who knows what type of lies Michael's been telling about me? 1104 01:27:37,090 --> 01:27:40,218 I have no clue whose side they're on right now. 1105 01:27:40,301 --> 01:27:43,638 That's why I'm so grateful to have Rene with me, 1106 01:27:43,722 --> 01:27:49,060 because one thing I do know, she'll have my back and be in my corner. 1107 01:27:49,144 --> 01:27:54,399 God, I'm so grateful for you, Rene! cos this ain't an easy trip. 1108 01:27:54,482 --> 01:27:57,652 I can't put my finger on how he's going to react. 1109 01:27:57,736 --> 01:28:01,614 He probably won't give a shit, that's what I'm worried about. 1110 01:28:01,698 --> 01:28:04,617 I don't want to leave him, I really love him, 1111 01:28:04,701 --> 01:28:06,453 but you don't get forward 1112 01:28:06,536 --> 01:28:10,123 unless you realise what you done wrong in your past. 1113 01:28:10,206 --> 01:28:15,587 Well, maybe your... Maybe just your presence might bring him back. 1114 01:28:25,972 --> 01:28:28,141 Oh, shit - here we go, Rene. 1115 01:28:28,224 --> 01:28:30,769 Oh, my gosh, I'm just so nervous! 1116 01:28:32,103 --> 01:28:36,024 I want to fix this marriage, but it's a two-way street. 1117 01:28:36,107 --> 01:28:41,488 I pray to God, when I do see him, that he shows me how he loves me. 1118 01:28:41,571 --> 01:28:45,158 If he doesn't, this is really the last straw for me - 1119 01:28:45,241 --> 01:28:49,579 I'm coming back and pulling them visas and filing for divorce. 1120 01:28:54,584 --> 01:28:59,547 I've already invested so much in this relationship. 1121 01:28:59,631 --> 01:29:04,427 I'm terrified that all of this has been for nothing. 1122 01:29:08,431 --> 01:29:10,517 Hey-hey! 1123 01:29:25,281 --> 01:29:27,534 All I can do at this point is 1124 01:29:27,617 --> 01:29:30,537 go over there and lead with my heart. 1125 01:29:51,599 --> 01:29:56,646 Ohh, fishies! (LAUGHS) Fishie! 1126 01:29:56,730 --> 01:30:01,693 JENNY: Next time on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?... 1127 01:30:01,776 --> 01:30:06,823 I just want to thank you for putting aside your differences 1128 01:30:06,906 --> 01:30:09,367 to come and celebrate my birthday. 1129 01:30:09,451 --> 01:30:12,162 I do feel a little nervous, not gonna lie. 1130 01:30:12,245 --> 01:30:16,583 I haven't seen my brother or Megan since the barbecue. 1131 01:30:16,666 --> 01:30:19,419 There is a little PTSD from that. 1132 01:30:19,502 --> 01:30:23,631 It's the birthday girl! Hey, look at you guys! 1133 01:30:23,715 --> 01:30:25,842 Hey, baby girl! 1134 01:30:25,925 --> 01:30:28,928 LIZ: I consider my grandparents my parents. 1135 01:30:29,012 --> 01:30:30,930 I'm feeling really nervous. 1136 01:30:31,014 --> 01:30:35,018 I think they're already very sceptical and cautious. 1137 01:30:35,101 --> 01:30:40,315 Are you marrying her because you rea-ea-eally love her 1138 01:30:40,398 --> 01:30:44,152 or because she makes you feel young? 1139 01:30:45,570 --> 01:30:47,238 I'm accepting a lot. 1140 01:30:49,407 --> 01:30:51,493 What are you doing? 1141 01:30:55,914 --> 01:31:00,126 You're not doing me a fucking favour. I love you at your age 1142 01:31:00,210 --> 01:31:04,047 and you love me at my age. Do you think you are doing favour for me? 1143 01:31:04,130 --> 01:31:07,425 Any medical problems? I have a regular monthly cycle, 1144 01:31:07,509 --> 01:31:09,302 every 21 days. 1145 01:31:09,386 --> 01:31:12,263 Twenty-one days or 28 days? Twenty-one. 1146 01:31:12,347 --> 01:31:14,766 Twenty-one? Yeah. 1147 01:31:14,849 --> 01:31:18,061 We are meeting with a fertility doctor. 1148 01:31:18,144 --> 01:31:21,815 I'm wondering if there could be a problem 1149 01:31:21,898 --> 01:31:24,401 when it comes to having a child. 1150 01:31:28,238 --> 01:31:31,908 She wants to go while I'm at work. Think if this was Louisiana, 1151 01:31:31,991 --> 01:31:35,495 and you were trying to get back to YOUR mom. 1152 01:31:35,578 --> 01:31:38,248 I can't let Yara be a loose cannon. 1153 01:31:38,331 --> 01:31:42,127 I feel like you're a tad bit controlling. 1154 01:31:42,210 --> 01:31:44,337 Michael! Why don't you come out? 1155 01:31:44,421 --> 01:31:48,008 Rene, whatever! We'll just tow the fucking car. 1156 01:31:48,091 --> 01:31:51,761 I love him, but you will not fucking take me for granted. 1157 01:31:51,845 --> 01:31:55,724 Michael, come out, she's taking your car apart! 1158 01:31:55,807 --> 01:31:58,685 MY car. You got the wrong motherfucker! 1159 01:31:58,768 --> 01:32:00,854 subtitles by Deluxe