(GASPS)
Mylah, yoo-hoo!
SUMIT: 'Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After...'
Well, what's your plan?
We need to be together more than just one day a week.
Sumit hasn't mentioned anything about going back to work before.
Kind of takes the romance out of the honeymoon.
You're very smart, very bright, but you're stubborn, just like me.
I'm apologising. I'm sorry too.
OK, great.
I love him, but I know love is not enough to make a relationship work.
I would like to have everybody at my birthday party.
You want everybody to kiss and make up, I don't care.
It's a bad idea to get me in the same room with Charlie.
You're taking the coward way out.
What?
This is why I'm fucking angry -
you don't do nothing that's going to make us stay together.
This trip, to go to Nigeria right now, is crucial
because this visa could be approved at any time.
You have fucking done nothing but hurt me!
I'm going to look for a plane ticket.
And get the fuck out of this country.
I respected his culture and his religion,
but I don't get that respect back, it's not OK.
Leave me the fuck alone. I'll do whatever the fuck I want!
Hello!
Would you put it over here?
Ah, coffee's here?
Yes, yours is over there.
It's our first morning of our honeymoon here in Rishikesh.
It started off a little rough
because Sumit wants to go back to work six days a week.
We are talking about our future.
I want to go out and work for us so we can
I don't want this to ruin our time together here in Rishikesh.
We're on our honeymoon, so let's go and have some fun.
I'm going to straighten up the bed
that you made such a mess of last night.
The bed went, "Doong-doong."
The headboard was hitting the wall.
Yeah, the headboard. Even the bed was making, "Chyoom-chyoom!"
I know! I was like, "Oh, man, I hope nobody's in the next room."
We had a great night last night.
How are you supposed to explain that to them, right?
Never mind, leave it.
We can just go hang out at the river,
there's a sandy beach down there.
Uh,
What do YOU have in mind, what's your plans?
Actually, there's a lot of stuff.
One of the most famous things over here is river rafting
and bungee jumping, uh, zip lining,
uh, cliff jumping and...
OK, now you're getting crazy.
I mean, you know, I'm 63, I still want to make it to 64.
Yeah, I'm not going to push you or force you to bungee jumping.
OK, I know.
Exactly - make my bed, I have to lie in it, right?
(BOTH LAUGH)
Sumit has completely lost his mind
if he thinks I'm going to go cliff jumping or bungee jumping.
I think Sumit has forgotten how old I am.
But I'm willing to try different things
to keep up with my 33-year-old husband.
OK, the cows are, like, laying in the road.
Cooler there, yeah.
(LAUGHS) Get out of the road, you dummies!
This is the first day of our vacation,
our honeymoon here in Rishikesh.
I just want to lie on the beach and enjoy the beautiful river,
and Sumit wants to go jump off a cliff.
So, we decided to meet in the middle.
We decided to go for the zip lining, which is more safer.
That doesn't mean I'm not terrified, of course!
Hello.
You are here for the zip line? Yeah, the zip lining.
This is your first time doing any kind of adventure sport?
No, not first time. Maybe for her.
Yeah, I mean, I don't do this kind of stuff, you know?
Not a worry. This is one of the best activities
that you can start off with in the adventure field.
How old is the oldest person that you've done this with?
The oldest lady who has done it is 89 years old.
How many people have you lost?
Er, as of now, it's zero. OK, that's good (!)
We plan to keep it zero. We don't want to be the first two you lose.
What am I doing here?
The most adventurous thing I've done is getting on a plane
and flying to India, no money, no phone, to be with Sumit.
OK, yeah, let's go. Follow me.
Wow!
You're doing lots of fun today. Yes (!)
Now that I'm standing up here on the platform,
I'm looking out across the river
at the actual line I'm going to be going on,
and you can't even see the end of it.
All right, guys, you can come up. Yeah. Me first?
If you want. Ladies first!
Brave, Jenny. I know!
Phew!
Don't get nervous, don't get scared, but be careful. OK!
OK, no problem!
Yes, all right? OK.
Ready? Oh, my God!
Am I going?
Yeah, you are. Oh, no! NOW I'm scared.
You're scared? Don't be scared, OK? Just relax.
I'm scared now, I don't want to go.
I love you, and I hope I'll see you again!
Sit down, lean back. Yeah.
That's a good position, OK?
Ready? No.
Just relax, take a deep breath, and you're ready to go. (SPUTTERS)
Ready? No! I can't do it.
Aaah!
Angela! Let's go, we need to get this all packed.
I'm trying, Rene. Look, what do you think about this?
Ooh! Are you bringing this?
Does a bear shit in the woods? (LAUGHS)
I'm not prepared. Right here, right here.
Oh, my God, look - we've got to go through all these.
I asked you five days ago to pack three outfits a day.
Rene, I know.
I'm so stressed, what Michael's been putting me through,
I can't focus. But we're leaving tomorrow.
This is why I'm so happy you're here,
this is what I'm trying to figure out to unpack and repack.
What the hell?
I'm leaving for Nigeria in less than 24 hours to see my husband, Michael,
for the first time in two years.
Luckily, my friend, Rene, agreed to go to Nigeria with me,
because this trip is affecting me physically, mentally, emotionally.
I can't sleep. If I'm a mess at home, just packing,
I'm going to be a total mess in Nigeria,
and I'll need all the emotional support I can get.
Are you taking this one?
Angela and I have been friends for almost a year.
I met Angela in an airport.
She smelled cigarette smoke on me, and said, "I would love a cigarette."
We went into the airport bathroom, I paid the attendant some money
so she would leave.
We smoked and we chopped it up, and we've been friends ever since.
What do you think about this one? That one's cute.
I don't want to be cute, I want to be sexy.
Last time I was there, I was 276lbs.
I am going there at 164. But Rene,
he hasn't said one word in the two years of how good I look.
This is the first time Michael's going to see me
since I had my surgery two years ago, in person.
I hope I look so good to Michael that he's going to regret
how he's been treating me and what he's been doing to me.
I want to save this marriage, but the reality is,
if I find out Michael's scamming me, this marriage is over immediately.
(PHONE ALERT)
Are you taking this?
Why is your phone going off? That's him.
Little fucker. He says, "You see how you're controlling, huh?
You ain't God, Angela. Send me money, I'll take it down."
Who's saying that? Michael, it's on my Instagram.
You see what I'm saying?
Do not answer that.
Michael knows how I feel about this damn Instagram,
and he still put it back up.
He also is telling me he'll take down his Instagram
if I send him $5,000.
What fucking husband does that?
This is what he does all the time. He's doing this to make me upset.
The way he's making these moves... You see what's in my head -
"Are you just using me as an opportunity to get over here?"
That's what he's got in my head now because of how you've treated me.
You ain't doing it for love. When we get there,
and you see Michael, you've got to have a plan.
Well, Rene... Mm?
..let me tell you.
What?
He doesn't know I'm coming.
Oh, no! It's a surprise.
Oh, yeah!
I'll meet you face-to-face, I ain't got time to argue on the phone.
So, I'm going to travel with you.
(LAUGHS) Yeah, you are! We're going to go to Nigeria,
and we're just going to surprise him?
"Hello, motherfucker!"
Why don't you tell him you're coming?
If my husband don't want me to look at his IG
when you ain't supposed to have it up, when I surprise him,
he can't erase numbers on that phone,
he can't erase emails, he don't have time.
I want to surprise him because
I'm going through the motherfucking phone, that's how I roll.
Angela's plan of surprising Michael, actually, I kind of like it.
He's been a real shithead to her.
I'm hoping I can just be there to help her,
because she's on a wild, wild roller coaster with this.
I'm not wasting no more time on this shit.
Any frigging time.
I don't have time for him to be approved,
then you don't deserve to be here with me. Oh, my goodness. (SIGHS)
I get why you want to do the surprise,
I just hope it's all worth it, Angela.
Showing up in person,
I don't know if it's going to help or hurt our relationship.
All I can tell you is, this is the last resort
I only want Michael in the United States if he loves me.
If he don't, I don't want him here.
2 00:13:49.600 -- 00:13:53.200 align:middle line:90% position:50% Don't go out. I'll do whatever the fuck I want.
Let me walk, just let me walk. OK.
I took Kimberly to meet my friend, KB,
in order to talk about the second wife.
It is so unfortunate that become the fight between me and her.
If I cannot calm her down, and she keep on acting the way she is,
Just leave me alone. OK, fine.
(SNIFFLES)
I can't go on with somebody disregarding me or laughing,
I can't go on with that.
I feel like I have to stand up for myself.
Who cares if he's mad? I'm angry too.
After how tonight went, everything is on the line -
the trip to Sokoto, my relationship.
I feel like it's all on the line now.
But I don't want to lose him.
I didn't come down here to be this unhappy.
What am I here for?
And I have every right to ask questions.
I was more upset that I had to talk to somebody
that's in a totally different relationship
than the one we would have been in.
His wives live together. That's crazy! I don't relate to that.
I'm sorry. I'm very sorry for anything that has happened
and you feel like. I'm sorry.
I'm just telling you, if we love each other,
we'll find a way to live with each other.
That's not right!
I threw the stuff because you never let me finish a thought.
I felt that you made me look stupid in front of your friends.
At the time that we are about to go and meet my family,
that's when you do this? No, no, no, no.
Just go on with your life, and let me go and live my life.
I think that would be better.
I flew... This trip took me longer than Zanzibar took me.
Bought all new clothes, got my hair done, got my nails redone.
For what? Because believe it or not, in the past two years,
I have made you my life.
I've put everything on the back burner, and you know this.
If this is how we're going to go, I want to end it, period.
Whether she likes it or not, she already knew about it,
and she has to abide with that.
I'm worried about how Kimberly will act when she gets angry.
I'm not going to take that all the time.
Maybe we just need to understand, this relationship
is not going to be possible.
Do you mean, continue with me?
Really work it, uh! Pop that booty, here we go.
Back, pop!
Yes, ooh!
(EVERYONE CHEERS)
All right, thank you so much. You are all bad bitches, let's go!
Woo!
(LAUGHS) You're so good!
A few nights ago, Ed and I tried to do a photo shoot with each other,
turned into an argument.
I was so embarrassed because it happened in front of my friend, Alex.
I need to sit down for a second, catch my breath.
I'm so frustrated,
cos I thought he was excited to teach me about photography.
(SIGHS)
Um...
Did you like it? Oh, my gosh, I loved it!
I can't do any of those moves. How did you find this place?
I needed something to just make me feel better.
I loved it. I've never been here with a friend.
Yay! You're the first person I've brought.
It's a different vibe when you come with someone.
You feel more comfortable. Yeah.
The photo shoot - how are you doing after that, are you guys OK?
I feel like
he doesn't want to see me grow or succeed.
I just, like... I want him to realise
I feel like I'm the one person so far that's been in his life
that's never needed anything from him.
Maybe that's why you fight. Do you think he wants you to need him more,
it makes him feel in control? Yeah.
The more you go away from that, he doesn't have the hold on you.
One of the biggest issues in my and Ed's relationship is,
Ed is very insecure with himself, and he gets so defensive and bossy,
which can come off as controlling.
Does Ed let you have alone time, me time, and like, be yourself?
I've kind of figured out
he lets me have me time when I'm going to work out.
He's supportive of you working out? Yeah.
I've put on a couple pounds since we've been back together.
Does he want you to lose weight, does he say that?
Mm, not exactly, but he's brought up the point
of, like, past pictures of myself.
He will look through photos and be like,
"Do you ever think about being back to that size?"
It's insulting, I don't feel pretty.
That's why I started dance classes when we broke up before,
cos I'd see the type of girls he was hanging out with.
I would hope that Ed would love me no matter what.
I've loved him at his heaviest and his smallest.
I never thought I'd feel so insecure about myself, the way I do now.
When Ed and I broke up, I got really thin again.
He wants you to be that weight? Does he understand
that's not a healthy mental space for you to be?
I don't think he's one to talk.
You're stunning and beautiful.
You don't need to lose a pound, you should tell him that.
I'd be pissed if my boyfriend told me to go to the gym.
There's a message behind that.
If you don't like the way she looks, that's your problem.
The gym is the only time where there's no questions asked -
I can be gone for three hours, and I'm good.
That's the only thing he'll let you do without, "Where are you?"
When he's not checking in.
Mm. But anything else, trying to have girl time
is very, like, "Who are you with?"
It's just, like... He shouldn't have to give you permission
to go have girl time.
It sounds really controlling to me
how he tells her what she can and can't do,
what he's comfortable with, that's not fair.
I worry about them, because if she's not able to be herself,
and he tries to restrict or control her,
you can build up a lot of resentment in a relationship.
I love him,
but I definitely see, like, he just projects a lot of things.
His insecurities onto you.
Sucks. Yeah. That's not a fair burden for you to carry.
That's probably a lot of why you guys fought during the photo shoot.
Yeah.
I think that Ed is scared to be loved,
I think he's scared to get hurt.
He's insecure about that, and when Ed has insecurities,
there are some control issues that can come up
that can make me question if I can see a future with him.
That breaks my heart, you should not feel like that.
2 00:23:46.240 -- 00:23:50.400 align:middle line:73% position:50% I think the war change so much about me.
I'm miserable all the time.
I'm terrified for my friends and family in Ukraine.
People are already dying, kids are dying.
To get food?
Yara has been having a really hard time.
Hasn't been sleeping a lot, hasn't been eating a lot.
Do you want to put Mylah's toy together, get your mind off things?
Yeah, I'll get it.
She's been really nervous, she's been crying a lot,
she's been on the phone all day with friends and her family.
Even though I don't like it, I understand what she's doing.
I've just been trying to support her in whatever way I can.
I support her country too.
All right, Mylah, we'll put your new toy together, your new kitchen, OK?
(BABY BABBLES)
Will that make you happy?
(GASPS)
What?
What's the latest, have you talked to anyone about what's going on?
Do you think your family's going to leave or they're going to stay?
Everybody must be so terrified, not knowing what's their next step.
Are any of your friends going to try to get out of Kyiv?
It's completely blocked to where they can't leave?
No, I'm just... I'm sorry, I'm just trying to ask a question.
You're doing good.
KIM: Where are you going?
OK.
I've only been here a couple days,
and this was the biggest argument we've had in two years.
This trip is for me to meet his mom
and get her blessing on being engaged,
but I don't even know if I'm going to do that now.
I don't know if I want to go home, I don't know if I want to stay,
I don't know if he wants me to go home.
I really don't know where things stand.
Good afternoon, sir. Afternoon. How are you?
Fine, thank you. Please can I have some coffee?
All right, sir. I'll be here.
I'm still pissed, I'm still mad at her, but I don't know.
I don't know. But I told her that.
Mm-hm.
I told her that, if this is how she is, honestly, I just want to quit.
I'm not ready to put myself into any crazy relationships any more.
I have done that before, and I'm done.
That's the end of it, yeah.
Oh, OK.
I'll be expecting you there, please.
I don't know what's going to happen next.
Oh, OK. Mm.
To attend the birthday party?
OK.
Mm-hm. Yeah.
2 00:34:24.120 -- 00:34:26.160 align:middle line:90% position:50% Ready? No.
Just relax, take a deep breath. (BREATHES SHALLOWLY)
No, I can't do it!
My God, I'm so scared for her.
Aaah!
Yeah, you can do it! Oh, my God.
Oh, no!
I can't do it, I'm too scared. Let him go first. All right.
Really, you get scared all of a sudden?
When you're seeing how far you're going to go, it's scary.
I'm afraid too! (LAUGHS) It's scary once you get up there!
How are you feeling, good?
Scared? Little bit, but yeah, I can make it easily.
You set, you ready to go? Yeah, I'm ready to go.
Bye, baby!
Woo!
Whoa!
Awesome!
Brake, brake.
Perfect! You did it well.
Wow! How was it, sir?
It's great, it's awesome. Awesome?
At first, I was a bit scared. Whew! OK.
Did he make it? OK. Yeah.
I feel better, seeing Sumit make it to the other side,
but I still don't want to do this.
I'm going to get stuck in the middle of this river, hanging there,
and I'm going to have to be rescued, I just know it.
Am I going? Yeah!
Oh, my God!
You ready? Go!
If you're scared, scream! Wooo!
Woo-hoo-hoo!
Wooo!
Woo! Woo-hoo-hoo!
Wooo!
Woo! (LAUGHS) Brake, brake!
Perfect, ma'am.
Oh, my God! (LAUGHS) You've done it! (LAUGHS)
I did it!
How was it, ma'am? Oh, my. Amazing! (LAUGHS)
Amazing? OK!
Wow, wow, wow!
My heart is pounding, woo! Man.
Oh, man.
I can't believe that I did that.
I am thinking about jumping out of an aeroplane now.
No, we're not jumping out of an aeroplane.
Are you feeling a little more younger now?
Hey, you know what? I AM still young.
You are. Yeah.
Yeah!
Yeah.
Jenny did great on the zip line.
I think it's time to go for a new adventure on our honeymoon.
Uh-oh.
Yeah (!)
Well, of course I've heard of that, who hasn't? (LAUGHS)
What do you mean, we can do that here, what do you mean?
What do you mean, we can do that here? It sounds weird,
but we can go and learn something about the Kama Sutra.
I don't need to learn anything about it.
At this age, I think I know everything I need to know.
I don't need to be taught anything about...
You talking about different sex positions and sexual...
Things... When I've looked at books about it, different sex positions
and stuff, isn't it?
I've seen the book, obviously. Oh!
To me, it's just a book of different sex positions.
Yeah, I think we are like a young couple
which has recently got married.
A young couple? One of us is.
We are a married, so I think it's the perfect time
to experiment together, on our honeymoon.
I don't know, I just want to...
Let's just make love and go to sleep. (BOTH LAUGH)
Connecting with each other? We connect pretty well.
Yeah, we do, actually, we connect.
I don't know, I just don't feel like
someone needs to come and teach me something
about what I do in my private life with you.
I don't think we need to be taught that.
We've got it figured out pretty well between us,
and we're doing just fine, I just don't think I need to be taught.
Actually, maybe it's, like, something I need.
Do you? Do you think so?
No. OK, then, thank you.
I think you're fine.
Let's talk about it some more later, OK?
OK, we can figure it out. We'll talk about it.
What?
I was interested in adventure,
but I'm going to go do Kama Sutra yoga class in front of people?
No, thank you.
First zip lining and now Kama Sutra?
I'm not sure if I know who Sumit is right now.
Our age difference has never been an issue for us,
but now, I'm a little worried about what his expectations are
of us spending time together here.
Plie, up. Woo!
We're your cheerleaders on the set.
Ooh! Wow, Brielle.
Squeeze, turn. Squeeze, hold. That was better.
BB is such a good dancer.
All right!
Today, I'm meeting my sisters at Jenn's girl's dance studio.
We're going to watch Brielle take one of her lessons.
Jenn's girls are incredible dancers, and Jenn is a total dance mom.
She has had them dancing since they could walk.
It's 7, 8. It's 1, 2.
A 3, a 4.
Good. Double turn and out.
This is good for Brielle, doing her stuff in front of the audience.
EVERYONE: Woo! Nice, good, awesome.
Yeah! (LAUGHS)
All right, so, why don't we go in the other room to go over your leaps?
So, I wanted to tell you guys what happened yesterday.
Andrei met with Mom
and talked to her about how she behaved at the housewarming party,
and like, they basically got into it.
I get both sides. I think where...
I really do too. ..where Andrei's gone wrong is
being disrespectful towards Mom. He says the same about her.
But at the end of the day, she's just trying to be a mom.
If we go to Mom's party, are you guys coming?
What do you mean?
We are in the same situation as you, with Charlie, creating boundaries.
I'm just doing it for Mom. It's her 60th, and I'm like, OK.
What changed? You guys were pretty set on your decision. Time.
If he's going to be there, so be it.
I'm not going to allow him
to keep me from doing things that I want to do.
So, all of your words went to shit.
You're dishonouring and disrespecting your own word
by putting yourself in that environment
and subjecting yourself to that. No.
My sisters seemed to be on my husband's side
at the housewarming party.
Maybe my mom has been chirping in their ears and got into their head,
and they changed their mind without having a reason why they did it
or what their motive was.
I think you're taking it to another level that it doesn't have to be.
And you're doing it really aggressively.
Do you think Charlie's just going to attack you?
He has before. Why wouldn't he?
He sends me awful text messages all the time about my husband.
Still? Yes!
You're saying this via text, what would you say in person?
I'm not going to subject myself to that for a fricking birthday party.
I've already made my decision - I'm not coming.
Hopefully you guys have a good time.
I still am quite baffled at my sisters' responses.
I don't have a problem with forgiving someone and forgetting,
but if this particular person keeps hurting my husband
and doesn't show any sign of remorse or change in their behaviour,
then no way would I subject myself to that, that's foolish.
They'll come out of that party and not feel good about themselves.
You're making a mistake. Andrei is forcing you to make the mistake,
and you don't see it. Think whatever you want.
You and Andrei are slowly distancing yourselves
from everybody in the family. You're building an island.
It's just such a shit show all the time.
It's like I can't get done coping with one situation
before there's a new one in my family.
Now it's Andrei - he's creating a wall around him and my sister,
and frankly, I feel stupid that I'm kind of surprised by it.
I think that, by you guys not coming,
it's then creating a bigger issue than what it has to be.
What do you have to lose by going?
Andrei has his Green Card renewal coming up.
If he has anything on his record
that could jeopardise his Green Card getting renewed,
like, God forbid, they see each other and get into a fight,
and it's reported, that goes against his Green Card.
Does he feel like he'll fly off the handle?
Were you there last year at the barbecue? Yes, we were there!
My husband almost fought my brother, and we almost fought Megan.
It's not worth jeopardising your Green Card.
I don't see that happening at Mom's birthday dinner at a restaurant.
The fact of the matter is, we have our Green Card renewal coming up,
and we're not jeopardising that for a birthday party, that's it.
Why does he have a renewal interview?
I thought they just renew it. Why is his different?
Sometimes they make you come in for interview, everybody's different.
Good. Hopefully, he gets sent back. (LAUGHS) Red flag.
I know my sisters have not really been much of a fan of Andrei,
but joking about his deportation is just rude.
Who the fuck talks like that?
Not a sister, that's supposed to support you.
Hopefully, they'll realise that
Andrei is not the problem, it's Charlie.
Hopefully he gets sent back? What a stupid fucking thing to say.
Do you not want to see me ever again?
Because I would move to Moldova. It's heading that way anyway.
He's already threatening Mom.
He might threaten to keep you and, you know, Ellie away from me.
Literally, I actually have that fear.
2 00:47:48.600 -- 00:47:51.880 align:middle line:90% position:50% Last night, Usman took me to go meet his friend, KB,
who has two wives. He wanted me to talk to him and ask him questions.
Usman and I got into a fight, I threw a milkshake at him,
and it escalated from there.
I woke up this morning, and I felt really bad about that.
I really shouldn't have lost control of my emotions,
even though I feel like he disrespected me.
I'm too old to be throwing things to handle my problems.
Hey.
Hey!
Hi. What are you doing?
Just having, you know - taking fresh air.
OK.
How are you?
I just want to say I'm sorry, you know?
Your coffee, ma'am. Thank you.
Please enjoy your coffee. Mm-hm.
Thank you. You're welcome.
Please don't forget - what you have in there is coffee and hot water.
I'm not going to do it again, I promise you.
I'm really sorry that I acted like that, that's not who I am.
I mean, I'm sorry about, like, everything.
Last night was the the first night, except for when I threw water on you.
But last night was the first night you've seen me like that.
What triggered you that way?
You knew that I would have questions,
that we'd have to talk about this face-to-face.
I felt like you told me that the first wife gets all the love
and the second one was just a baby maker.
I don't get the whole story. I get the things you want me to hear
because you don't want to hurt me.
The subject matter didn't get me mad, it's the way you're handling it.
I am very sorry if I offended you in any way.
I don't want my relationship with Usman to end,
but with Usman not telling me the whole way things would go
with the second wife makes me really emotional.
I came down here, I'm willing to let this happen
so we can be together,
and it's like he just tells me things I want to hear all the time.
How do I know if Usman's telling the truth
or bullshitting me because he thinks that's what I want to hear?
What if we get married, and I find out that
things aren't the way he said when he was bullshitting me?
You know, like, I'm so worried,
I'm confused about what happened last night.
This should happen some time ago, not now.
You should have been honest about the second marriage
from the beginning.
This is changing my life.
This is your custom, this isn't mine.
I love you enough to accept it, but I need to understand it too,
and you disregard that with me.
I don't know why you do that to me.
Nobody has been in your corner more than me.
OK. I said I wasn't going to cry.
You know I don't want you crying.
I am very sorry.
I wish I was 30 years younger, you know what I mean,
and I could have your children, but I can't.
I didn't come down here for myself, all of this is for you.
Coming here, even talking to somebody about this, all of this is for you.
But it is.
Do not say that.
If you're seeing that, then you're seeing it in the wrong way.
I'm here for you and you're here for me.
If you're saying you're here for me, what is it I'm doing for you?
You don't see anything I do for you. Of course I do.
But how many women from America would come here,
fall in love with somebody 18 years younger than them,
then be OK with them taking a second wife?
I don't feel you give me enough credit for that at all.
Kimberly is always acting as if I'm not doing anything
to compromise to this relationship, or I'm not fighting for this.
She doesn't understand that I'm doing all this
for us to get the blessing, and that would be difficult.
And I'm worried because I know they're not going to like her.
Am I still going?
Do you want me to go? Do you want to come?
Do you want me to go? I want you to come.
No.
It's not... I might get mad,
but you'll never see that side of me again. OK, but...
If I get mad, I'll talk to you in private,
I won't do it in front of people. Good.
You'll never see that side of me again ever.
OK.
You know I love you, right?
Can I get some fuckin' yammy just some time?
Is that what you want? It's been two days.
OK, bend down. (LAUGHS)
Bend down now! We're outside, there's people around.
I'm just saying... You're so dumb.
Behave yourself well, after birthday party, you're getting yammy tonight.
You're so dumb! I love you.
Kimberly knows that she is wrong, and she apologised,
but if I take Kimberly to my birthday party
and she acts the same way she did in front of KB,
I won't take Kimberly to meet my family,
and honestly, the relationship will break.
Are you going to hold my hand?
Love you. Do you?
I do.
OK, who did the poopies?
Leon? Leon, sit.
Good boy.
Who went poo-poo on the pad?
You're learning.
During the photo shoot, Liz said that I'm trying to show off,
and to me, that is total BS. That's just her being a baby sissy waa-waa.
But at the same time, I didn't react very well to it.
I think I embarrassed her in front of her friends.
I have to be more sensitive to make this work with Liz.
(LINE RINGS)
The engagement party is right around the corner,
and I've sent invites to my mom and daughter, but no reply.
Even though we have unresolved issues,
I would like to reconcile with my mom and my daughter,
and have them come to the engagement party.
VOICEMAIL: Your call has been forwarded to a voice-message system.
Please record your message. (BEEP)
Hi, Mom, it's Ed. Hope you're doing well.
We sent out our engagement invitations,
and I'm calling to see if you'll be coming.
Love you, and I'll talk to you soon. Bye-bye.
Um, I don't know.
I think she's just so upset.
My therapist is like, "You're doing the right thing -
tell them you love them. In time, they'll come around."
(CLEARS THROAT)
I'm still not happy about the photo-shoot tiff,
but I am working really hard
to get over it and move on because we are planning an engagement party,
and we don't have a lot of time to get on the same page.
I'm hoping that a fun date night can help.
So, what are our names going to be, who do you want to be?
Who do you think I'm going to be? Stella.
I'm totally going to be Stella.
We usually do date night at least once a week.
Role play, it's just kind of peppered in.
We never plan it, it's just out of the ordinary.
I know, at the end of the night, I'll bag you.
Wow, thanks (!)
Even though I'm failing, I know you're a sure thing.
You just called me a sure thing! (LAUGHS)
Liz and I just started doing this one night, very organically.
She's like, "Why don't you try and pick me up?"
"I want to know why you've been single for 30 years.
Pick me up, and try to take me home."
She found out why I was single for 30 years.
Like it!
Oh, wow, this is nice!
OK, well, let the games begin. Right. See ya, loser!
See ya! Go easy on me.
We're used to dive bars.
This is a completely nice, romantic scenery to do a role play.
If I reject him, he has to do it all again.
I'm kind of excited tonight.
Well, hello.
Is this seat taken?
No, it's open.
Are YOU taken?
No. (LAUGHS) Thank God!
Would you like an old fashioned? I would love an old fashioned.
I'm Slyde, with a Y,
cos I slide into people's DMs.
Get lost - bad. No, bad? OK.
One more time. (LAUGHS)
How are you doing? Can I help you?
Yeah, are you OK? Am I OK?
Yeah - you look like an angel that fell from heaven. Get out.
Can I help you? Sure.
I wanted to come by and find out if you know CPR.
If I know CPR?
Yeah, you just stole my heart. Get out.
Is your dad a boxer? Cos you're a total knockout.
Was that seriously something that was in your notes? No.
Oh, hey. Do you believe in love at first sight...
I actually do not.
..or should I walk by again? (LAUGHS)
I'm Clyde. You're Clyde?
What's your name? Stella.
Stella? Hi, Stella! Can I sit down?
You have two minutes.
I guess the big, burning question is, are you single?
I CAN be single. Whoa!
So, can I buy you dinner? You can buy me dinner.
I love you. I love you.
I really do think Ed and I do bring the best out in each other.
He can frustrate me, and we do have issues,
but I do love him.
This is why I want to work so hard for this relationship.
Thanks, babe. You're welcome.
God, the engagement party is in how many days?
Five days.
I invited my mom, I invited Tiffany.
I don't want... I tell them I want them there, I love you,
don't turn your back on me.
I don't think you've turned your back on THEM. At all.
I don't want any regrets in 20 years.
It's a lose-lose situation.
They come, it'll be hard. They don't come, it's hard.
If Tiffany and Norma came, I do see unwanted drama,
but for Ed to not have his family there, it does make me really sad.
But I'd be lying if I didn't say
it's a little bit of a relief if they don't come.
I kind of feel like us announcing that we're engaged,
it threw everybody for a loop.
Nobody saw it coming, so it's like a bomb went off - pshew!
Now the dust has settled.
You're like a different person you were a year ago.
You're a different person than you were a year ago too.
It has a lot to do with
me finally shutting up and listening to who you are
and letting you be who you are.
(LAUGHS) We're still working on both of those.
I thought we were there, no? No.
Liz has been the hardest, most wonderful thing in my life.
I mean, she is a pain in the ass.
But look at me! I mean, I cannot imagine dating myself. I wouldn't.
Baby, are you ready for the rest of the night? (BOTH LAUGH)
I take the guest room, you take the bedroom.
Baby! I thought you liked me. I DO like you.
You know, I have a lot of my heart invested in her.
With the engagement party,
I don't feel like we have anything to prove to anybody.
It's to show the world that we love each other and we're engaged.
So, am I gettin' any? I'm a sure thing (!)
(BOTH LAUGH)
Love you.
2 01:02:08.840 -- 01:02:10.840 align:middle line:90% position:50% You're a superstar.
You want to go run, Mylah?
Go play.
Since the war started in Ukraine a week ago,
I'm trying my best to do whatever I can to support Yara.
I'm worried that I'm going to be leaving to go to work in a few days,
and she's not going to have me to help her out.
She's very emotional,
she's superfocused on getting her friends to a safe place,
making sure her family is safe.
We discussed with my lawyer,
is there anything we can do to help her friends and family in Ukraine.
President Biden has said that
they're going to grant refugee status.
I don't know what that process is, but you, as a Green Card holder,
can apply for your immediate relatives -
your mother and brothers and sisters.
You would get the Green Card
probably around a week after the interview.
If it's only a week, what are you going to do if I'm at work?
How do you feel about the meeting with the lawyer -
do you feel good, do you feel nervous?
I'm picturing your family here - they can't speak English.
It'll take them nine or ten months to get a work permit.
It's something we really need to think about.
How's this going to work, if we have a house full of people?
We already have a small enough place for me, you, and Mylah.
I don't know how realistic it is that they can live with us so fast.
It's going to be expensive, their money's going to go fast here.
We're going to have to support them.
I know.
This is my family, Jovi. They need my help right now.
It's about other people's lives right now. I understand,
I just want you to understand it's going to take a lot of your time.
I'm not saying I want to leave your family in danger,
I'm just trying to make sure that
we both understand the entire situation.
What do you think about what the lawyer said about um, travelling -
in your head right now, do you really think it's OK
for you to leave and go to Prague before I get back from work?
I'm only going to work for three weeks.
You get your Green Card, you wait two more weeks, and I'm home.
You can't wait for me? Everybody's going to still need help.
You can help them in three weeks.
What do you mean, no?
I know people need help right now, but
imagine how that will be for me.
I'll come home from work, you're in Europe,
I'm worried about what you're doing, where you are.
I'm just telling you, I would feel more comfortable
if you waited till I got off work, and I could go with you.
You're not thinking the situation through,
of what's really the right decision, the right time for you to do this.
If I'm there with you, I can make more rational decisions,
determine what's safe for our family.
I'm only going to work for three weeks, then we'll go together.
When we get there, I will do what I can to support whoever needs help,
do what we need to do and get things done.
What are you going to do, what's your plan?
You can take the next three weeks right now and make a plan,
the same plan you're planning on doing when you get there,
and do it whenever I am there with you.
So, are you going to wait for me or not?
(SIGHS)
(KISSES)
Hey! Give me a kiss some more.
Oh, your best friend now. (KISSES)
We're all best friends.
My name is Ellie. And my name is Daddy. What's your name?
Daddy? Yeah.
Baby, you are the cutest daddy in the world. (LAUGHS)
Eee!
After meeting with my sisters today,
finding out that we're not on the same page
with my mom's birthday party,
because Charlie's going to be there, is disheartening.
It's hard to not be there on my mom's birthday,
but this is the best decision until things get resolved with Charlie.
I met with my sisters today
and talked to them about, like, the whole party situation.
They are deciding to go.
Babe, I don't really even care.
Maybe we should just get rid of a cancer, and you can survive,
right?
I think it's easy for my family to blame
my husband for everything that's been going on in the family recently
because he is an outsider looking in.
He's sticking the mirror in their face like,
"This is what's going on," and they don't like it.
Staying away from Charlie has its price,
but your family is supposed to be sacred, something you can trust,
it shouldn't be like this.
Right, babe.
Pull your legs back. Damn, that's hot.
My butt look good too? (CHUCKLES) Real hot.
It was kind of my idea to start doing feet pictures,
because I'm like, "You have really sexy feet."
A lot of people like that, you can sell those.
I had no idea how idea how big the foot-fetish industry is, but wow.
Last year alone, I made over $70,000.
We're good for the day, that was a good shoot.
If I can work from home and do this on the side, I can be, you know...
It takes two seconds to take a picture. Yeah!
I get pedicures every couple of weeks. I absolutely support her.
I make more money doing this than I did working for your family.
It's crazy.
I like doing photo shoots with you. Me too, I like that you help me.
Easy money. It is.
Did you talk to your mom?
Yeah, she planned a birthday-party dinner.
Is everyone going to go? That's the thing.
Whenever she invites me to something, I go,
then they don't show up because of me.
She knows it's bullshit, it's just disappointing. I mean...
Cos it ends up hurting my mom.
Since the barbecue, we haven't
interacted with our family except our mom.
My dad is Team Andrei now.
It's like, "OK, you choose him over me,
and destroy my character." What kind of dad is that?
I 100% want to be there for your mom,
but like, those girls used to be my best friends,
and they just stopped talking to me for no reason at all,
no explanation besides, "Charlie's toxic." What is that?
This narrative, Charlie being toxic, is bullshit. Exactly.
"Oh, Charlie drinks too much."
Bro, whenever we get together... Everyone's drinking!
They accuse me of drinking too much,
then, Andrei, you want to hang out with my dad
and do shots and get drunk with him, bro? And get shredded.
I'm not an alcoholic, but do I drink when we get together? Yeah.
But I don't drink every day.
Andrei and Libby try to put labels on me
to justify what they're doing to our family, it's bullshit. Mm-hm.
Like, when did I, like, drink too much,
and then, like, try to fight people?
I don't remember any of it.
I got rowdy at the wedding, who doesn't do that? Yeah.
They can do and say whatever they want,
but Charlie's got to be a fuckin' angel boy.
You're also not sitting around, like, talking about people
with the rest of the group, behind their back.
I'm not going to my family members, trying to turn them against somebody.
Ever since Andrei has arrived, my family has changed.
I don't know why he tries to turn my family against me.
Maybe because I did work with my dad, and he needed to push me out
to secure money for HIS family.
If my dad's going along with that, I don't need to be part of that.
Or take orders from the new guy.
Like I'm going to be like, "Oh, I miss Chuck!" Come on. (LAUGHS)
Andrei has fought with literally everyone - your sisters,
your sisters' husbands, your dad, you, your mom, me.
Libby's changed. He tries to control her - what she does, what she says.
OK, Andrei turns you against me, how does that work?
Your siblings and your dad need to wake up and realise
what Andrei is doing to the entire family,
cos we have not done anything to them. If my dad would step up
like, "Nah, bro, this is bullshit, Charlie's my son..." Yes.
..it would be different.
I'll prove that I'm not the one that starts fights with everybody. No!
I'm not the instigator.
This whole situation with my family would have never happened
if Andrei didn't come here. No.
Like, he is the catalyst for all this.
The only thing that will open their eyes is when it happens to them.
Then they'll realise who's doing this. It's not me. Yeah.
Until they wake up and see what Andrei has done,
I don't see anything changing.
I'm going to make them prove to me what I did wrong.
I'm going to defend myself.
2 01:14:46.800 -- 01:14:50.960 align:middle line:73% position:50% I'm actually amazed by everything, I love it all.
In America, we don't attend ceremonies
like they do here in India.
It seems like there's a reason and a belief for everything.
It's like you're on a whole new level of life here in India.
Thank you.
Look at the pretty flowers. What are those for?
These are the offerings for the River Ganges.
Can we buy one?
You want one? Yeah.
Very beautiful.
Shall we go and float our boats? (BOTH LAUGH)
My wish is for us to have a happy marriage
and for your family, your parents, to accept me as your wife.
(LAUGHS)
OK?
So... Ooh!
Oh.
Oh, no!
It's going to catch the flowers on fire. Oh, no!
Aw! (LAUGHS)
I hope we're still going to get our wishes.
How come something always happens?
If we're trying to go further in our relationship, move past things,
something always stops us. Here we go -
we're at the river, and the boat gets stopped.
I just was like, "Oh, well, here we go."
I know that we came for the ceremony here at the Ganges River,
but really, I think that something drew us here,
and we should leave something behind here.
For me, that would just be our whole struggle... Yeah.
..everything I was going through with your parents.
I would like to leave all that behind now
and just move forward with our life.
Now that we're married, we can also get a spousal...
I can apply for a spousal visa for you,
and we could even go to America together, you and I.
That's something that we need to start considering and looking into -
what's it going to take, what's the cost going to be,
how long will that take, what's the process?
I would love you to go and see America, that's where I'm from,
go and find out, what is it like where Jenny's from.
We can think about it.
We can just uh, consider that, see if it's a possibility.
I would love to show Sumit how I am in the US.
We're more free-thinking.
You're basically free to live together as a couple,
you don't have to have the whole family involved.
You need to understand what the situation is.
It's going to America or I try to convince my parents.
This is what I'm talking about -
your first priority will always be your parents.
It will never be me, I will never be your first priority.
Let's see.
Phew!
OK.
I haven't seen my husband in two years.
Today is the day I'm leaving to go to Nigeria with my friend, Rene.
Michael don't have a damn clue that I'm about to board this plane
and go to Nigeria, and boy, is he in for a surprise.
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
BOTH: Hey! What are you doing?
I'm trying to straighten up cos we'll be gone.
Good morning! Hey.
You're talking all that America.
Oh, my God! I don't want to go to Nigeria without representing!
I brought you a present.
Rene, you know I love my... Oh, my God. Holy shi-
You always know. Isn't that cute?
That ain't cute, that's the mother country.
Oh, my God, you're packed! Look!
I'm impressed. What time did you go to bed? About two, 2:30.
I really haven't slept in several months because of Michael,
but the more I'm nervous, the more I'm energised.
This is make up or break up.
It all depends on if Michael is really scamming me.
If he is, I'll get on that plane, and make this trip to Canada
to see my friend, Billy.
I deserve to be with somebody that wants to be with me for me.
I'm not wasting no more of my time.
Rene, while I was packing,
I'm going to show you something I found. Move that, I'll show you.
Read it, Rene. "Marriage Act And Matrimonial Causes Act".
It's in this book - everything he owns, when I'm in Nigeria,
belongs to me. OK, take that.
Michael and I are married under the Christian law in Nigeria.
When I'm in Nigeria, everything that Michael owns belongs to me as well.
Technically, I do have the right to take Michael's belongings,
especially his phone.
We'll bring this.
I don't want to treat my husband this way,
but I need to uncover the truth,
to prove Michael's using me to get to America.
I'm having anxieties right now.
Like, this could be goodbye, really.
He doesn't care about people's feelings. I know.
I'm to the point where,
you either step up and love me the way you said or go.
I'm tired of him.
Honestly, I don't know how to feel about this trip.
It's been two years since I've seen my husband,
and I'm kind of excited, but then again,
I am mad as hell because you have hurt me.
Don't cry. We don't need to be starting going to Nigeria crying.
We've had our fights, but I never, ever imagined we'd be in this mess.
If I found out Michael was scamming me,
that means our whole relationship has been a fake,
and the most terrible thing is that he fooled me.
Oh, Jesus! Oh, my God!
I never have nobody there with me, I've got to fight everybody.
Now I've got somebody. That's going to understand...
You've been with me! ..what you're going through.
Going to Nigeria does not mean just seeing Michael,
I'll have to face his family and his friends.
Who knows what type of lies Michael's been telling about me?
I have no clue whose side they're on right now.
That's why I'm so grateful to have Rene with me,
because one thing I do know, she'll have my back and be in my corner.
God, I'm so grateful for you, Rene! cos this ain't an easy trip.
I can't put my finger on how he's going to react.
He probably won't give a shit, that's what I'm worried about.
I don't want to leave him, I really love him,
but you don't get forward
unless you realise what you done wrong in your past.
Well, maybe your... Maybe just your presence might bring him back.
Oh, shit - here we go, Rene.
Oh, my gosh, I'm just so nervous!
I want to fix this marriage, but it's a two-way street.
I pray to God, when I do see him, that he shows me how he loves me.
If he doesn't, this is really the last straw for me -
I'm coming back and pulling them visas and filing for divorce.
I've already invested so much in this relationship.
I'm terrified that all of this has been for nothing.
Hey-hey!
All I can do at this point is
go over there and lead with my heart.
Ohh, fishies! (LAUGHS) Fishie!
JENNY: Next time on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?...
I just want to thank you for putting aside your differences
to come and celebrate my birthday.
I do feel a little nervous, not gonna lie.
I haven't seen my brother or Megan since the barbecue.
There is a little PTSD from that.
It's the birthday girl! Hey, look at you guys!
Hey, baby girl!
LIZ: I consider my grandparents my parents.
I'm feeling really nervous.
I think they're already very sceptical and cautious.
Are you marrying her because you rea-ea-eally love her
or because she makes you feel young?
I'm accepting a lot.
What are you doing?
You're not doing me a fucking favour. I love you at your age
and you love me at my age. Do you think you are doing favour for me?
Any medical problems? I have a regular monthly cycle,
every 21 days.
Twenty-one days or 28 days? Twenty-one.
Twenty-one? Yeah.
We are meeting with a fertility doctor.
I'm wondering if there could be a problem
when it comes to having a child.
She wants to go while I'm at work. Think if this was Louisiana,
and you were trying to get back to YOUR mom.
I can't let Yara be a loose cannon.
I feel like you're a tad bit controlling.
Michael! Why don't you come out?
Rene, whatever! We'll just tow the fucking car.
I love him, but you will not fucking take me for granted.
Michael, come out, she's taking your car apart!
MY car. You got the wrong motherfucker!
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