1 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,840 I'm Slide, cos I slide into people's DM's. 2 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:10,480 Get lost. 3 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:13,720 Previously on 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After... 4 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,440 The engagement party is in how many days? 5 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:18,200 Five days. 6 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,480 I invited my mom. I invited Tiffany. 7 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,160 I'd be lying if I didn't say 8 00:00:23,240 --> 00:00:25,320 it's a little bit of a relief if they don't come. 9 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,680 I just want to say I'm sorry. 10 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,560 I really want to know what trigger you that way. 11 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,200 You told me the first wife gets all the love. 12 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,960 The second one was a baby-maker. Like, I don't get the whole story. 13 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:40,600 I don't know why you do that to me. 14 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:44,320 He just tells me things that I want to hear all the time. 15 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,040 What if we get married and I find out 16 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,680 that things aren't the way he said when he was bullshitting me? 17 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:55,800 Maybe we will go to see a fertility specialist sometime next week? 18 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:59,680 Baby, why do you need to go to see a fertility doctor? 19 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,880 When I agreed to the prenup, I added a clause. 20 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,960 If I don't get a baby by 40, he's going to pay. 21 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,400 If we go to Mom's party, are you guys coming? 22 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:12,680 We have our green card renewal coming up 23 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,280 and we're not gonna jeopardise that for a birthday party. 24 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:19,840 Good. Hopefully he gets sent back. Do you not wanna see me ever again? 25 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,640 Libby, I kind of feel like it's heading that way anyway. 26 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,920 You really think it's OK for you to leave and go to Prague? 27 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,560 You're not thinking of what's the right time for you to go and do this. 28 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,880 God, I'm so grateful for you, Rene, cos this ain't an easy trip. 29 00:01:46,960 --> 00:01:49,120 I really love him. I don't wanna leave him. 30 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:53,120 Maybe just your presence might bring him back. 31 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,840 If I found out Michael was scamming me, 32 00:01:56,920 --> 00:02:00,240 I'm coming back and pulling them visas and I'm filing for divorce. 33 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:19,960 MICHAEL: 34 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,040 MAN: 35 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,040 Good. 36 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,200 Get into the pool, big man. 37 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,240 (LAUGHTER) 38 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,200 All right, put on. 39 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,240 OK. Up front. 40 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:53,480 (LAUGHTER) 41 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:03,800 (LAUGHTER) 42 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,640 Do a strip dance for your mama. 43 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:26,760 Oh, there you go! 44 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,240 Problem. 45 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,200 Let me tell you. I don't want y'all round him. 46 00:05:13,280 --> 00:05:15,560 You're a bad influence and that one especially. 47 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,760 And you know what? That's none of your fucking business. 48 00:05:20,840 --> 00:05:23,320 It's so funny ain't it. Is that funny? 49 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,000 Is that funny? 50 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,320 Get a job? 51 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,440 Mike. Mike, Mike. 52 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:56,960 I mean... 53 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:00,600 The audience already, yeah. 54 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,080 Yeah, I did. Yeah, I did. I saw you doing this. 55 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:22,280 (DANCE MUSIC) 56 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:17,800 Please, no. 57 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,760 (GENTLE MUSIC) 58 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:06,000 Look! Ooh! 59 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:07,880 Big fishes. 60 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,000 Stingray. That's a stingray. 61 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:12,840 (CHATTERS) 62 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:14,920 (POP MUSIC) 63 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,800 (BOTH CONVERSING IN OWN LANGUAGE) 64 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,360 We decided to not go to my mom's birthday party, 65 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,000 because Charlie will be there. 66 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,960 And instead, today we took a little family trip to the manatee centre. 67 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:39,760 Yes. 68 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,920 Ellie wants to pet you. 69 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:46,760 And I have no regrets of not going to Pam's birthday party. 70 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:48,720 There you go, that's a manatee over there. 71 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:50,800 (SPEAKING ROMANIAN) 72 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,160 Mama, they're moving. Look at them! 73 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:08,360 We are landlocked in Moldova and we don't have those animals. 74 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:10,800 Do you have a word for manatee in Romanian? 75 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,600 I don't think so. I'm gonna look it up and see. 76 00:10:13,680 --> 00:10:15,760 SYNTHESISED VOICE: 'Manatee.' 77 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,520 So the answer is no, there is not. No. 78 00:10:19,680 --> 00:10:23,120 Babe, I'm so happy that we're doing this over here. 79 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,240 And not doing whatever the, you know, 80 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:31,280 like, zoo they have over there at Pam's birthday party. 81 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:35,560 I mean, I never thought, like, growing up 82 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:38,280 that I would just like not be at my mom's birthday party, 83 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:40,920 or like anybody's birthday party, for that matter. 84 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,520 There's people there that I choose to not be around. 85 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:46,880 I made that decision a while ago and I'm sticking to it. 86 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:10,680 Obviously, my family has had their issues, for so many years, 87 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,640 but, honestly, it's never gotten to this point, and right now, 88 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:15,680 it is the worst it's ever been. 89 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:18,760 Yeah, I agree. 90 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:20,640 And I don't want that, you know. 91 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,840 We're not the problem, babe. Like, we were always so close-knit 92 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:27,040 but, like the older I get, the more I realise of all the issues, 93 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,400 and how it really affects me, you know. 94 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:33,680 When I think of my family, I think of a very loud, crazy concert. 95 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:36,920 Like you can't hear yourself, you can't hear your inner thoughts, 96 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,600 and so it brought a lot of negativity in my life. 97 00:11:40,680 --> 00:11:42,240 And it does affect people, 98 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,080 like, you can't just patch things up and move on. 99 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:49,280 Let's-Let's enjoy this. Let's not spoil it. 100 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:02,640 Hi, Mother. Hi, sweet daughter. Happy birthday, Mom. Oh, thank you. 101 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:04,640 You know it takes the stress out of it 102 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,160 when you tell everybody no balloons or no presents. 103 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:08,560 (LAUGHTER) 104 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:13,320 So, I just wanna thank you guys before everybody else gets here, for coming tonight. 105 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:16,160 I appreciate you putting aside your differences 106 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:19,680 for a couple of hours to come and celebrate my birthday. 107 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:21,920 Who's not coming? 108 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:25,040 Libby and Andrei are invited as well as Charlie and Megan so... 109 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,320 Still flip a coin on that one. Well, yeah. 110 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:30,120 Babe, you know in my family, just don't ask questions. 111 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,280 Just go with it, I don't even know. 112 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,440 Expect the worst. Yeah. 113 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:39,800 When my husband set up this dinner for me for my birthday and invited all my children, 114 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:41,920 Andrei and I did have a conversation. 115 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:45,040 he said that he would not be at my birthday dinner, nor would Libby. 116 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,360 I mean, I think that she would want to be there, 117 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:52,920 but I don't know that she would actually stand up to Andrei at that point to be here. 118 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:57,920 Do you think that he's literally telling her not to come, Libby? 119 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:01,800 Yeah, absolutely. What? I just can't believe that she's listening to him. 120 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:05,000 No, but really, Mom, you weren't there that night. 121 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:09,240 At the barbecue. It was like... I have PTSD. 122 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:13,440 So, you know, I get why Libby is so hesitant. 123 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:18,840 Let me just say, you know, by us being here, 124 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,360 it doesn't mean that it's all gonna be peaches and rainbows - 125 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:26,520 I understand that. ..from here on out, because we're not there yet. 126 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:30,080 You know, I'm putting myself in this vulnerable situation. 127 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:35,280 But you are my mom, and I'm not gonna miss celebrating you on your birthday. Yeah. 128 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:38,840 I do feel a little nervous, not gonna lie. 129 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:43,080 I'm not gonna allow anyone's presence 130 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:47,160 or anything to dictate me going places or being somewhere. 131 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:53,040 But I haven't actually seen my brother or Megan since the barbecue. 132 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,920 So obviously I think there is a little PTSD 133 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,200 from that that we are experiencing. 134 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:00,360 So I am feeling a little anxious about this. 135 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,560 Where's Meme? 136 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:11,760 Hey. Oh, my goodness. Happy birthday. 137 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:13,840 Look at you guys. 138 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:17,250 2 00:14:28.360 -- 00:14:30.000 align:middle line:68% position:50% Oh, yeah. 139 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:39,520 Grandma and Grandpa. 140 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:44,800 Can you believe we drove 16 hours to be here? I can't either. 141 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:49,360 So the engagement party is a couple of days away. 142 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,560 My family's driving into town 143 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,680 and we are going to meet up with my grandparents. 144 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:57,680 We had actually gone back for their 50th wedding anniversary 145 00:14:57,760 --> 00:14:59,280 when Liz and I got back together. 146 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:02,840 But I'm nervous because I think 147 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:06,920 they were very sceptical of, you know, our relationship. 148 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:13,840 My grandparents are the most important people to me. 149 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,800 And they're like, they raised you, right? 150 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:18,360 They raised me since I was little. 151 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:23,120 My relationship with my parents isn't as tight as it is 152 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:24,800 with my grandparents. 153 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,200 My biological father was never in my life. 154 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:32,800 My mom, I love her, but she really was focused a lot on my brother. 155 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:34,480 He has a disability, 156 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:38,920 so my grandmother had me since I was a baby. 157 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:41,520 I just consider my grandparents my parents. 158 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:44,480 I've never introduced anyone to them. 159 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:47,160 They've known Riley's dad and everything like that, 160 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,480 but we were young and high school sweethearts. 161 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:53,880 So you are the very first person, since my split with Riley's dad, 162 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:56,120 that has ever met them. 163 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:59,080 Like, introducing you to them means a lot. 164 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:02,920 You didn't even introduce your last husband to them, yeah? No. 165 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:06,080 Yeah. So that makes me feel special, you know. 166 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:09,120 Like, this is very serious for me. 167 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:10,880 Yeah. 168 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:12,840 I feel honoured that I get to meet them, 169 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:14,480 or I got to meet them. 170 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:19,920 They're pretty quiet. Like, your grandpa told me this. 171 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:22,000 He said, "Don't try to buy her." 172 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:23,880 And then your grandma said, 173 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:27,280 "Treat her right or I'll come after you with a baseball bat." 174 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:28,960 Was she kidding or no? 175 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:33,160 I definitely know, at the age that they're at, 176 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:36,400 I don't want to disappoint them with relationships. 177 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:38,800 Just because I'm stubborn, 178 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:43,560 I don't need anyone's permission to be with who I want to be, but - 179 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,120 You put a ring on my finger. 180 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:55,960 People judge knowing that I've been divorced twice. 181 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:59,680 And there is more pressure that this could be my third marriage. 182 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:03,520 It is very important for me to show my grandparents that I am happy, 183 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:08,200 and I have a good partner, and I need to make sure 184 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:11,240 they see a huge difference in what they saw before. 185 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,880 Do they know about our breakups? 186 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:21,240 (CALLING) 187 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:26,040 Grandma. 188 00:17:26,120 --> 00:17:28,040 Hey, baby girl. Hey. 189 00:17:28,120 --> 00:17:30,320 Hey, how are you doing? 190 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:31,840 (KISSING) 191 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:34,000 Hi, Grandpa. 192 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:35,680 Hey, Grandma, how are you? 193 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:38,480 How are you, sweetheart? How's it going? Good good. 194 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:41,080 I like your hair, by the way. 195 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:43,040 She cut hers, which was up to her waist. 196 00:17:43,120 --> 00:17:45,920 I said, "You cut your hair, I'm making mine long." Oh, nice. 197 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:48,200 She's short, I'm long. She's short and I'm tall. 198 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:49,880 My mouth, my eye. 199 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:52,040 Kind of like you. Tall, short. 200 00:17:52,120 --> 00:17:54,560 (LAUGHTER) 201 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,680 So what - So what have you guys been up to? 202 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,040 I know one thing. What kind of mischief? 203 00:17:59,120 --> 00:18:02,760 We've been making love, I'm just kidding. 204 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:05,960 Um... 205 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,600 She talks about you guys all the time. 206 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:11,800 She said that, "You'd better take care of me 207 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,440 or Grandma's gonna come after you with a baseball bat." 208 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,640 I raised her to be a warrior, so be careful. 209 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:19,840 I'm OK with Ed. 210 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:23,560 But, oh, boy, they had a rough time from the beginning. 211 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:27,800 And then I was surprised that she had a ring on her finger. 212 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:32,240 Yeah. 213 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:35,600 She just got out of one bad relationship 214 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:38,800 and I was pushing her and pushing her, that's not good. 215 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:43,400 I'm all really protective of her, more than anybody. 216 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:49,920 Just let me ask you one question. 217 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:53,080 Are you marrying her 218 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:57,200 because you really, really, really, really love her? 219 00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:02,520 Or is it because she makes you feel young? 220 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:07,440 I'm marrying her cos I really, really love her. 221 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:09,800 I can't... I can't live without her. 222 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:12,120 Are you positive about that? 223 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,920 I am, I am, I'm... I heard that remark once before. 224 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:23,000 I, um... She's my forever, you know. OK. 225 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:26,440 And, I mean, she is a pain in the butt, so am I. 226 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,520 But she's who I wanna be with. 227 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:32,840 She does make me feel young, but that's not why I'm marrying her. 228 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:41,200 I'm going to love her and take care of her for the rest of her life. 229 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:43,080 Don't hurt her. 230 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:55,320 Liz has been through many heartbreaks before me, and with me, 231 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,840 and I'm sure they do not want Liz to get hurt again. 232 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:00,640 My mom and daughter and I are not talking, 233 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:05,360 so it's important that her grandparents support us. 234 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,720 So, for me, there's a lot more pressure in not failing. 235 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:11,480 So, Gramps - 236 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:15,480 (LAUGHS) You're on your knees already? 237 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:19,920 Oh, OK, now I see over your head. (LAUGHS) Who's talking? 238 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,360 That is where Liz gets it. 239 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:25,840 Well, thank you, guys. Honey, here. She's got it both. 240 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,720 My grandma and grandpa want the best for me. 241 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,440 I don't know if they'll fully be on board with it. 242 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,480 But I know that they respect me enough 243 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:35,840 and they're gonna be there and support me. 244 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:37,880 Gramps, have you caught anything yet? 245 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:39,960 Besides a sunburn, no. (LAUGHS) 246 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:46,000 I just wish that Ed's friends and family could be supportive. 247 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,080 Did you have fun, babe? I did. 248 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:51,880 BOTH: We didn't catch anything. 249 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,160 I'll get that pelican on you. 250 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,880 He'll think you're bait cos you're so little. 251 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,560 (LAUGHTER) Dang it, no more short jokes. 252 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:00,250 2 00:21:01.960 -- 00:21:03.960 align:middle line:90% position:50% (BELL DINGS) 253 00:21:10,120 --> 00:21:13,240 I can't believe... It doesn't feel real that we're finally going, 254 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,680 and we might possibly be approved for a green card today right? Yeah. 255 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:17,960 Crazy. 256 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,760 I'm really excited for this. I hope that... 257 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:30,880 I don't wanna worry about this any more. 258 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,160 We've been worrying about this for so long now. 259 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,760 Like, oh, my God. When's the interview gonna come? 260 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,680 Is the paperwork correct? Is this right? Is that right? 261 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,360 It's just, like, too much. 262 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,600 Today we are going to Yara's green card interview. 263 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:46,880 You've been waiting two-and-a-half years for this green card. I know. 264 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,880 Even though our lawyer's gonna be there, he's gonna assist us. 265 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:53,560 It's scary to think about what will happen if we fail the green card interview. 266 00:21:56,360 --> 00:21:58,360 I'm fricking nervous. So many documents. 267 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:01,120 I stayed up till three o'clock in the morning last night 268 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,280 trying to get all these documents together. 269 00:22:03,360 --> 00:22:05,960 And I couldn't find our marriage certificate anywhere. 270 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,680 I don't know. It's possible. 271 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,880 I don't know. I have... We have everything else. 272 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:20,280 We're going in here to prove our marriage and we don't have our marriage certificate. 273 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,760 No idea. 274 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,560 (SIGHS) 275 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,560 But it's all my fault, right? Yes. 276 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,040 You hold no responsibility for anything. 277 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,800 Do you remember this place? Is it that one? 278 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,480 Yep, that's it. Yeah. 279 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,120 Of course, I wanted to go to see my mom. 280 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:33,720 I was wanna go to Ukraine too and, like, I miss my country. 281 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:37,960 Once I parked the car, and I realised like we're actually about to walk into the office, 282 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,120 I'm like, "OK, we're actually really here." 283 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:55,800 Yeah I think with this going on, if we do run into issues, in the green card interview, 284 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:59,480 by that point there would be refugee status for Ukrainians hopefully. 285 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:03,880 I'm just gonna try to be optimistic and hope that everything goes good in our interview. 286 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:20,400 That was a little bit nerve-racking. 287 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,880 How do you guys feel? Good. 288 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,760 We're finally approved, like. 289 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,560 Just I was nervous sitting in there, to be honest. 290 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:32,240 "Oh, shit, he's gonna ask for the marriage certificate I don't have." 291 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:36,320 He seemed like once he saw Mylah's birth certificate, changed his mind a little bit. 292 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:37,600 Like, OK, this is legit. 293 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:51,360 You feel good? 294 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,160 Yeah, I do. So long. 295 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,440 Finally. 296 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,760 Feels good to finally have a green card, it's just like, I... 297 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,960 This is one less thing for me to worry about right now. 298 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:06,560 I can't believe it took so long, but I'm just happy we finally, finally made it to the finish line. 299 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:11,480 Yep. Even though it was delayed, the good part is you get a ten-year card instead of the two-year card. 300 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,640 That's huge. If you get your residency card 301 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,480 within two years of marriage, it's only good for two years 302 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,360 and then you got to come back and do the whole process again. 303 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,920 Because of the delay, in the processing that it took, 304 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,480 they were at two years and two weeks, and so when the officer looked it up, 305 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,480 he said, actually, I'm gonna be granting you a ten-year card. 306 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,520 Soon as you get your green card. 307 00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,040 Looking at about a week to two weeks to get it. 308 00:25:36,120 --> 00:25:38,840 So, soon as you get your green card, you're gonna be good. 309 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,760 Can come and go, as long as you don't stay out of the country for more than six months. 310 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,600 So when do you wanna go now? 311 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,760 How soon? 312 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,840 You're really not gonna wait for me to get back from work? 313 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,920 I was really thinking by this time you would change your mind 314 00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,680 about going to Prague without me. 315 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:03,440 I wanna leave to Europe to see my mom 316 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,880 and go to help people over there as soon as possible. 317 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,280 And I'm telling you, you can go to help. 318 00:26:09,360 --> 00:26:12,520 Let's wait and let's make a plan, and we're gonna go to do it. 319 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:16,800 I wanna do it with you. I'm not saying let's not do it, I'm saying let's not do it this second. 320 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,400 Not everything is about you. You know I wanna go there. 321 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:24,200 So, hopefully your family's OK, and stuff like that... Thank you. 322 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,480 Thanks for coming with us today. I appreciate it. Sure. Thank you. 323 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,960 This is my chance to help my people. I need to use that. 324 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:20,240 I brush my teeth so much that a dentist told me 325 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,760 that I am wearing away my enamel, 326 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,640 so I started to focus on brushing my tongue. 327 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,640 I don't like to see build-up of plaque on your tongue, 328 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,800 it makes me feel like, eurgh, that person has halitosis. 329 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:36,040 But, according to Bilal I am, you know taking away my taste buds. 330 00:27:36,120 --> 00:27:38,360 I just like to see a clean tongue. 331 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,560 Bilal and I went furniture shopping, 332 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,120 but it took a left turn when I started to look at baby items. 333 00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,080 It's very clear that, when it comes to babies, 334 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:01,960 we are not seeing eye to eye. 335 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:07,440 I'm getting older and I wanna see a fertility specialist, 336 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,320 but Bilal doesn't understand why. 337 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,200 (VIDEO CALL RINGING) 338 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,360 Hi, Eutris. How are you? 339 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,880 I'm so happy that we getting to catch up. 340 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,840 It's been long overdue, right? I know, right. 341 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:34,320 Eutris is definitely my best friend. 342 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,000 We met back in Trinidad. 343 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:41,480 Eutris has seen me been in several relationships that didn't work out. 344 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,960 She wants me to settle down, she wants to see me have a baby. 345 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,800 So she's the perfect person I need to talk to. 346 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,640 When are you coming to America? When are you coming to America? 347 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:58,360 Erm... April. I hope I can see you. I will be so happy. 348 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,520 It would be so good for us to do something together as well. 349 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,240 Yeah. 350 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,920 What I really call you to talk about is, like, 351 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,800 there's been a couple of hurdles, you know. 352 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:13,600 Bilal and I, we went furniture shopping, 353 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:17,880 and the store end up having this baby section next door. 354 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,240 You know, Eutris, I love kids. I love kids. 355 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:28,000 Mm-hm. Well, Bilal he's not into, like, having children right now. 356 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:32,800 He's not comfortable with trying, or even looking at baby stuff. 357 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,880 He just blanks out completely. 358 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,960 Oh. Yeah. 359 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,040 He is like, "Oh, we have to wait until happens later," you know. 360 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,560 OK. OK. 361 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,040 Yeah. 362 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,040 So, like, how are you feeling now? 363 00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:01,080 Well, although Bilal and I have in our contract, 364 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:05,160 our prenuptial agreement contract, that he's going to... 365 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,720 We're gonna postpone having children now and probably when I'm 40 - 366 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,840 Sorry, did you say, when you're 40? 367 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,840 Yes. The next three years? Yeah. 368 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,880 Well, Bilal and I we're not on the same level right now 369 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,360 when it comes to having children, the same page. 370 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,760 He's put in the contract three years' timeframe 371 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,840 before you can have kids. 372 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:34,920 Now you're feeling kind of broody, like, you know, you wanna have kids. 373 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,640 And he's basically like, being apprehensive, kind of like, 374 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,720 shying away from the topic. 375 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:45,160 Listen, Eutris, this is a ticklish situation. 376 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,840 I get that Bilal doesn't wanna talk about it. 377 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:53,320 But I'm getting older and I don't have much time left. 378 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,600 The prenup says that we have to try to have a baby by the time I am 40. 379 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:02,760 If he violates the contract, I might have to take him to court. 380 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,520 I wanted a traditional marriage. 381 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:08,680 He decided to get all contractual on me. This is the price of contracts. 382 00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:10,440 You pay. 383 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:19,120 I'm gonna give him the benefit of the doubt that he wants to have kids. 384 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,440 Don't give me that eyebrow. 385 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,080 Yeah, but he says he wants us to get to know each other. 386 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,160 Like, enjoy life before we have kids. 387 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:38,200 But, I hope by 39, I can have a baby like in my arms. 388 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,840 It happened to my friend, she had none just like you. 389 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:50,880 No kids, he had two, like Bilal, and then she keep saying to him, 390 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,280 "I wanna have kids, I wanna have kids." 391 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,000 And he was like not really being serious about it. 392 00:31:56,080 --> 00:32:00,280 And then, one day, he literally ghosted on her. 393 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,040 (GASPS) Oh, my God. Hun! 394 00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:06,040 What if Bilal does that to you? 395 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:14,640 I've always assumed that Bilal wanted to wait to have children, 396 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:18,960 but now I'm wondering if he even wants children at all. 397 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:22,320 I don't want to take a chance on Bilal not wanting kids 398 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,320 and waste the best years of my life. 399 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:29,200 I need answers now, and going to the doctor is something 400 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:32,200 that we need to do, to prepare for the future. 401 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:40,480 Oh, God. 402 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:44,250 2 00:32:47.720 -- 00:32:49.720 align:middle line:90% position:50% (DANCE MUSIC) 403 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,400 Come on, we got to go. I'm coming out. 404 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,600 Come on. (LAUGHS) 405 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:05,760 You're so silly. 406 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,480 (INDISTINCT) Yeah, thank you. Thank you. 407 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,120 (R'N'B MUSIC) 408 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,560 Hey. Hey. 409 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,520 How are you? Happy birthday. 410 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,760 Good to see you. How are you? 411 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,960 Hello. 412 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,840 I know everything. That's my best friend right there. 413 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,560 Kim at a party is the life of the party, 414 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:58,720 but I've only met a couple of Usman's friends once or twice. 415 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,720 And I still have a lot to prove to everyone, so I just know 416 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,920 that I will be on my best behaviour, 417 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,200 because Usman's concerned about taking me to see his family now. 418 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,800 Stop it. 419 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,680 SojaBoy. 420 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,760 Hey, bro, what's up? 421 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:20,920 KB 2 Effect. 422 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,480 (INDISTINCT CHATTER) 423 00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:25,040 Hi. 424 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,480 Hello. 425 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:31,840 Last night, I met one of Usman's friends, KB, 426 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,600 and I don't think I left a very good impression on him. 427 00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:36,960 Usman and I got into a huge fight 428 00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:41,240 and then I threw a milkshake at Usman and KB was right there. 429 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,920 That was not my best behaviour and I want to let him know 430 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,880 that I'm really not that kind of girl, unless I'm really upset. 431 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:51,640 Can I talk to you for a minute? 432 00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,080 Let's go over here. 433 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,240 I just wanted to tell you like the other day, 434 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,080 like, I'm really sorry about that. 435 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,640 Yeah, this is not my culture. Yeah. And I'm trying to understand it. 436 00:35:06,720 --> 00:35:09,440 Boundaries are gonna have to be set for myself. 437 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,680 (SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE) 438 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,840 (LAUGHS) You were scared. 439 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:46,480 Hello. 440 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,640 Ali, what's up? I'm good. How are you? I'm fine. 441 00:35:49,720 --> 00:35:51,520 Welcome back. What's up? 442 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,240 I'm good. Welcome. 443 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,160 Thank you. Come and sit down. 444 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,240 (CLEARS THROAT) 445 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,040 Usman did not mention to me 446 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,600 he was bringing a female friend to his birthday party. 447 00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,680 He's just sitting there and I'm like, "Who's this chick?" 448 00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,720 She's really pretty, and I'm really confident in myself, 449 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,880 but she's everything I'm not. 450 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:21,680 But I've shown him signs before that I'm not a jealous woman. 451 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,360 Maybe jealous of their age, but that's about it. 452 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:31,560 You're so rude. 453 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,320 Nice to meet you, Kim. Nice to meet you too. 454 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,080 Nice to finally meet you. Nice to meet you too. 455 00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,400 So, babe, I'm gonna talk to, I wanna talk to your friend. Who? 456 00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,560 Your girlfriend, she's the only girl here with me. My female friend? 457 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,240 Your female friend. Can we switch seats, me and you? 458 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,320 Of course. 459 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,480 So, like, Usman didn't tell me about you. 460 00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,480 He doesn't tell me he has female friends. 461 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,760 Well, I guess as someone he's gonna marry like - 462 00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,680 Oh, no, no, no, no, no. 463 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,720 That's what was going through my head. 464 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,120 I'm just a cool friend, I'm just a plat, like... 465 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,600 Well like, I am 51 at the end of the day. 466 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,480 And I may be pretty and all that, but my man is 33. 467 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:47,840 I worry about that. 468 00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,960 When I'm not here, I know this is gonna sound totally crazy... 469 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,520 And I want somebody to make sure my baby's OK. 470 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,160 So I want to get your number. 471 00:37:59,240 --> 00:38:02,320 Make sure he's OK. Like I don't want to cry, but make sure he's OK. 472 00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,840 Because I can't be here. I can't get here like that. 473 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,200 You know? 474 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,440 When he told me about you today, like, he's never told me about you. 475 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,800 I was, "OK, who's this chick." 476 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,200 Just girly stuff. 477 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,920 Hey, here comes the champagne. 478 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,280 Who sent that? Happy birthday to me. 479 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,720 ALL: Happy birthday. 480 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,880 Thank you. Kim was really nice and fun. 481 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,200 But SojaBoy's a celebrity, 482 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,640 definitely is going to get any girl he wants to get in Nigeria. 483 00:38:32,720 --> 00:38:36,680 So, if I saw Usman and Kim walking down the streets, 484 00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:39,320 I definitely think something is fishy. 485 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,800 Hey. Woo! 486 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,800 And see, when I, when I say it, it sounds really old, 487 00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,400 so we'll just stay off. I love you the way you are. 488 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,280 Cheers. 489 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,240 Cheers! 490 00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:16,320 (INDISTINCT CHATTER AND LAUGHTER) 491 00:39:31,240 --> 00:39:34,240 Nigeria, baby. Nigeria. 492 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:58,000 I just landed in Nigeria and I am so nervous to see my husband 493 00:39:58,080 --> 00:39:59,680 that I haven't seen in two years. 494 00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:01,760 Look what we're doing. Yup. 495 00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,440 Rene's a bad influence. 496 00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,720 Cheers. Cheers. Look, let's do this. Cheers. 497 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,080 (LAUGHS) Nigeria, baby. 498 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:11,800 Nigeria, baby. 499 00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:15,360 I've been to Nigeria six times now. 500 00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:19,520 And this trip is different because Michael doesn't know I'm here. 501 00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:23,440 And the reason I haven't told him is because he might be scamming me. 502 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,480 I need to catch him off-guard to uncover the truth 503 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:28,560 as this visa could come in at any time. 504 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:32,440 So I need to know, is Michael in this marriage for the right reason? 505 00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,520 If not, I don't have no time to play. 506 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,920 I need to pull them visas and I need to pull them as soon as I find this out. 507 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:39,840 So, these are all ours. 508 00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:43,120 These are all ours. All of them? All of... Yeah. Thank you. 509 00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:45,880 I'm here in Nigeria with Angela 510 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,040 because every time she comes here, she has no support. 511 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,200 She's fighting all these battles by herself. Aw! 512 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:55,040 Let's go this way. Yeah, let's go this way. 513 00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:56,920 We've been through some stuff 514 00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,480 and Rene really has my best interests at heart. 515 00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:02,560 Rene don't sugar-coat shit with me. That's what I love her for. 516 00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:06,320 I need somebody to keep me grounded, keep out of fucking Nigeria jail. 517 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:10,000 (LAUGHS) We're not going to no jail. No, we're not. 518 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:15,000 No-one flies across the world if they don't love them. 519 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,640 Exactly. I'm here, that's my part. 520 00:41:17,720 --> 00:41:19,520 Showing you I love you, I'm here. 521 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,240 Now it's his job to show me how much he loves me 522 00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,000 and fix what he just destroyed. 523 00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:27,200 If Michael loves me the way I'm praying he loves me, 524 00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,960 I am hoping that he's just acting like this 525 00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:31,680 because it has been two years. 526 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,640 Maybe he's just playing immature games 527 00:41:34,720 --> 00:41:38,600 and he's not intentionally doing this because he wants a divorce. 528 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,360 Hopefully, him seeing me, 529 00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:46,520 it will rekindle what we have... or had. 530 00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,280 Thank you. 531 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:54,360 Thank you, sir. 532 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,440 OK. 533 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,640 Ain't it nice? 534 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,480 Well, I'll tell you a story. 535 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,240 Me and Michael were riding. 536 00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,520 This is when I first came 537 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,160 and he was showing me the people that sell the stuff. 538 00:42:22,240 --> 00:42:24,480 And he said they're "hookers". 539 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:28,080 And I said, "They're hookers?" He said hawkers, but he said hookers. 540 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,480 I said "Michael, you don't say hookers. 541 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,920 People will think they're selling their butt." But they're hawkers. 542 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,560 I haven't been back to Nigeria since my wedding two years ago 543 00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:40,240 due to COVID. 544 00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,600 I wish I was landing in Nigeria 545 00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:49,280 to have a romantic getaway with my husband, to give him hugs, kisses. 546 00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,760 But the reality is, this could be the end of our marriage 547 00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:54,840 if Michael doesn't clean up his act. 548 00:42:56,200 --> 00:43:01,040 This is not how I planned my future with Michael. 549 00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,080 Hi. We have reservations. 550 00:43:06,240 --> 00:43:09,080 It was good, thank you. Tired. Tired, though. 551 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:11,320 OK, I want to confirm that for your room. 552 00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:16,040 Just me and mine. Just you, OK. 553 00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,760 Yeah, I'm by myself. 554 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,680 She's with me, but she got her own room. 555 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:24,400 You might not be by yourself on the end of this trip. I'm glad you're confident. 556 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,760 Because I'm more nervous. We'll see. I don't know. 557 00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:33,440 My plan is to go surprise Michael tomorrow at his house. 558 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,560 Because if he's hiding anything from me, 559 00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:39,400 I don't want him to be able to fix it before I get there. 560 00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,720 I'm nervous because I don't know what I'm walking into. 561 00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:44,560 I don't know what he's doing. 562 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:46,440 All I know is I'm showing up 563 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,120 and he's gonna have the surprise of his life. 564 00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:53,040 He better be legit or hell has no fury. 565 00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:56,250 2 00:44:02.200 -- 00:44:04.000 align:middle line:90% position:50% Where's Meme? 566 00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,120 Look at you guys. 567 00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,240 Hey, good to see you. Thank you. 568 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,720 Thank you for coming. Yeah, of course. Hey, son. 569 00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:27,000 Hey. Happy birthday. Thank you. 570 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,520 Hi, Becky. How you doing? I love you, buddy. 571 00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,240 Charlie. Doing good? You look pretty. 572 00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,160 Yeah, thank you. How are you? What's up, Thomas? Hey. 573 00:44:35,240 --> 00:44:36,840 Good seeing you. You too. 574 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,840 Look at you guys. 575 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,200 I decided to come tonight cos it is my mom's 60th. 576 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:46,200 But it's really not about like a forgiveness thing for me. 577 00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:48,880 It's more just, we just needed to create boundaries. 578 00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,360 I think that we are establishing that. 579 00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,840 I'm crossing my fingers, praying that everything will be fine. 580 00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:02,200 What did you get? Prosecco? We got prosecco. 581 00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,520 Did you guys order appetisers yet? 582 00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:08,000 No. 583 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:14,440 So, how have you guys been? It's been a while. 584 00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,960 Yeah, we're doing good. Is Mads doing good? Yeah, he is. 585 00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:21,000 Yeah, he's growing like a weed. Good. 586 00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,960 Looks like your boys have gotten big. Yeah. 587 00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,320 How about you guys, you been doing all right? 588 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:30,400 Yeah, besides all the, you know, family drama, you know. 589 00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:32,520 We have family drama? 590 00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:36,760 You guys cancelled Charlie. Hm. 591 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,600 Our viewpoint on that is a little different. 592 00:45:42,720 --> 00:45:46,800 You know, one of the main things I want to accomplish tonight 593 00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:51,760 is get answers from Jenn and Becky about why haven't they talked to my family. 594 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:53,120 So, what did I do? 595 00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:05,120 No, it wasn't the most ideal ending, that's for sure. 596 00:46:09,240 --> 00:46:10,520 No, that's not what we said. 597 00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:12,600 We've never said that. 598 00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,160 That's what you told me. Yeah, that's what you said. 599 00:46:15,240 --> 00:46:17,320 Oh, really, Mother? 600 00:46:18,720 --> 00:46:20,920 I don't remember saying that. 601 00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:23,440 I mean, we did talk about Charlie. 602 00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,720 That is true. 603 00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:30,960 I still feel like there's some things that you have done, 604 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,920 but I think it's alcohol-induced. 605 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:37,240 Do you ever look back at any of the interaction 606 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,080 between you and Andrei or the family 607 00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:42,160 and think, "Why did I do that?" I mean - 608 00:46:42,240 --> 00:46:44,040 "I was a little too drunk." 609 00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,840 In our family isn't alcohol always involved? 610 00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:50,600 Yes. You know what I'm saying? So, you're looking at just those times 611 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:54,480 when we've had millions of great times together. 612 00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:58,160 That's the point I'm trying to make. It was a little bit more, though. 613 00:46:58,240 --> 00:47:00,360 When you initially came to the barbecue 614 00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:03,120 and you came out and you said, "Call the cops!" 615 00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,880 You don't feel that was instigating the situation with Andrei? 616 00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:12,800 How does he feel he has the right to get up at Dad's house and get in my face like that? 617 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:17,040 Charlie I - How does he feel like he has the right to do that? I don't disagree about that. 618 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:20,240 I think you guys were both in the wrong. I've said that before. 619 00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,280 I think you guys both handled it poorly. 620 00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:30,440 I think in order for Charlie to really improve is to admit, like, 621 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,920 drinking too much or his outlandish behaviour. 622 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:38,560 So I don't know how it's gonna be going forward. 623 00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,160 There might be another crazy night. 624 00:47:41,240 --> 00:47:43,720 I don't wanna sit here talking about the past. 625 00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:48,640 I think it's better just to leave and go spend our day separately. 626 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,760 Nothing's been the same since that day at the barbecue for any of us. 627 00:47:55,840 --> 00:48:00,040 There's one common denominator and it's not me, it's Andrei. 628 00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:04,240 He fights with you, he fights with you, he fights with me. 629 00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:05,920 He fights with everybody. 630 00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:08,840 I'm not saying that he's innocent at all, he's not. 631 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,560 I'm not going around trying to turn my family against other siblings, 632 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:14,280 I'm not doing that. 633 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:18,720 He definitely has a big influence on Libby, we can all agree on that. 634 00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:23,560 He does, but is Andrei a master manipulator? 100%. 635 00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:27,160 Has he smelt blood in the water with dad and picked up on it 636 00:48:27,240 --> 00:48:30,960 and wrapped around his finger, 100%. Thank you, thank you. I know that. 637 00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:34,160 I came here because I wanted to get some more answers like. 638 00:48:34,240 --> 00:48:37,080 Process everything that happened? Are you cool with me again? 639 00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:43,960 Charlie, you're our brother. We love you, period. That's not - 640 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:46,560 For the last year-and-a-half it didn't seem like that. 641 00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:49,040 We're all from the same two parents. Right. 642 00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,240 The issues that we have, they're not unique. 643 00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:55,720 But we have to figure it out because we're a family. 644 00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:57,400 And if we don't figure it out, 645 00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:59,880 Andrei is the kind of guy who will keep Libby from us. 646 00:48:59,960 --> 00:49:02,840 He's already threatening Mom. She's gonna let that happen? 647 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,880 She probably will, Charlie, because she's married to him. 648 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,560 And she doesn't see it. No. 649 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:14,440 I'm fucking afraid that I'm gonna come a day 650 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:17,920 where I don't get to talk to my sister. 651 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:22,080 Well, if it happened to me, it can happen to you. 652 00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:27,880 I think my sisters are starting to realise that, you know, Andrei is the problem. 653 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:31,680 But I think they're scared to confront him and Libby 654 00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:34,400 because they don't wanna be cancelled. 655 00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:36,280 They don't wanna be the next one. 656 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:47,600 So, what are we doing right now? 657 00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:50,800 Now? Are you taking me to a clothes place? Yeah. 658 00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,280 OK, babe, here we are. 659 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,560 Yay. Yay. 660 00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:59,640 Yay. You like when I do that, huh? 661 00:49:59,720 --> 00:50:01,520 Because I respect. 662 00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:08,840 This way your hand. 663 00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:10,920 Don't be silly. 664 00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:34,080 Because she's not from here, but she's trying to dress like that. 665 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:36,040 That means she accepts the culture here. 666 00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:37,920 Hello. 667 00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:42,280 Hey, welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome. 668 00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,480 Welcome to Alik's Furnitures and Boutique. 669 00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:48,000 Thank you. What do you like? 670 00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,960 Um, so, she's my baby, and I'm taking her to my family. 671 00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,640 Yes. So something our culture. 672 00:50:54,720 --> 00:50:56,480 So, I'm not from here. 673 00:50:56,560 --> 00:51:00,240 I was just gonna wear like a long like shirt or whatever. 674 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:01,920 Why? OK, something like this? 675 00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:05,480 Do you like something like this? It's beautiful, like that. 676 00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:08,320 OK. And then like pants under it, or something. No. No? 677 00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,200 This is our thing. It's your thing. 678 00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,680 This our thing. It's not my thing, it's your thing. 679 00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:15,840 I'm converting you. No. I'm not converting? 680 00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:20,000 Not all the way, no. No, but like, you should wear something like this and you say yes. 681 00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:22,360 Does it have to be these or can I pick one of those? 682 00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:24,320 You can pick from here. I like this green. 683 00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,880 OK, fine. OK, you like this green? I love the green. 684 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,600 Let me bring it down. We're getting your mom something. 685 00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,000 I'm leaving you guys to do your thing. OK. 686 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:35,720 Wow. You choose a nice colour. That's beautiful. Yeah, it is. 687 00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:41,520 When I go to Sokoto, I have to be more modest in my dress, 688 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:44,280 which I already knew, but I still have to be true to Kim. 689 00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:45,960 Like, let me do my thing. 690 00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:49,960 I'll just throw a veil over it so I can be respectful to his mother. 691 00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:51,960 That's beautiful. Yeah. 692 00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:56,640 No. 693 00:51:56,720 --> 00:51:58,720 I'm not wearing a dress. 694 00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:04,360 Let me show you some of our traditional materials. Good, show her. Yeah. 695 00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:07,080 Let me get it for you. Oh, my gosh. Can I see this for a second? 696 00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:09,640 Babe, I'm dying. Are you? 697 00:52:09,720 --> 00:52:11,520 Should I get you one? Yes. 698 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,080 Before I go to Sokoto. Sokoto's hotter than this. 699 00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,360 Yes, like ten times. 700 00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:19,040 OK, let me show you how they use to tie this one. 701 00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:22,120 I don't know. Babe - Just take a look. I love you, but... 702 00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,560 Take a look. Just you do like this. 703 00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:28,400 No. I would get so lost in that thing. 704 00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,480 I would be... That's beautiful, though. 705 00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:33,760 What's that called? (SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE) 706 00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:36,040 (REPEATS) Yes. (SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE) Veil. 707 00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:40,040 Babe, you know what? So, I feel like we should get something like this. 708 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,640 Because this is what our women wear. Just try. 709 00:52:42,720 --> 00:52:45,240 OK, let's try. OK. 710 00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:48,240 Any country you go to and you put on their outfit... 711 00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:55,880 So, when you're meeting my family, try to just look like them for once, 712 00:52:55,960 --> 00:53:00,120 so that they can appreciate you for trying to be like one of them. 713 00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,000 To show them you respect their outfit. 714 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:04,080 Why are you sweating? Cos it's hot. 715 00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,040 This is not my country. It's hot here. 716 00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:07,720 You're putting more layers on me. 717 00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:09,520 You know what? I'm dying right now. 718 00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:14,200 No. I do it for you. Oh, my. No. 719 00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:16,000 Are you the one? No, stop it. 720 00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,280 What? Usman, stop it. 721 00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:20,440 Take a look there. I don't like the colour. 722 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:22,160 You look like a model. No, I don't. 723 00:53:22,240 --> 00:53:24,200 Mm! You're dumb. 724 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:27,320 I think Hausa women dress beautifully. 725 00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:30,800 I love all the material and the lace and the glitter. 726 00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:33,080 I just don't want to be hot, uncomfortable. 727 00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:36,080 I'd rather dress in my own clothes and keep my hair covered. 728 00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:45,120 It's just not my thing. Dresses have never been my thing. 729 00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,520 Why not? I just don't wear a dress. 730 00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:52,160 So I just have to do things my way but with your culture blended in. 731 00:53:52,240 --> 00:53:53,840 You know what I mean? Mm-hm. 732 00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:57,440 I have an outfit planned. 733 00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,440 You know that red thing we got, that you bought me in Zanzibar? 734 00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,560 The long one? This would be beautiful over it. 735 00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,960 I'd rather do that. I'm more comfortable like that. 736 00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:07,960 Cos I had bought my own head wraps, but I'll wear this for you. 737 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:09,600 OK. OK? Yeah. 738 00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:11,400 I wanna get your mom something too. 739 00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,600 So this one for your mom. So maybe not this today. 740 00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:17,480 But I definitely want these two. OK. 741 00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:19,640 Is that OK? You understand? I'm OK. 742 00:54:19,720 --> 00:54:23,240 I'm not trying to be disrespectful to you. Babe, I'm fine. 743 00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:27,320 I am nervous about Kimberly meeting with my family 744 00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:31,000 because today Kimberly is being so difficult. 745 00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,720 But she should be respectful of my family 746 00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:36,600 in order for us to get the blessing to be married. 747 00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:39,160 Thank you. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. 748 00:54:39,240 --> 00:54:43,240 Thank you for coming to Alik's. When next time you come for... 749 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,040 I'll come back. Maybe. 750 00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:48,360 (SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE) Thank you so much. Thanks. Bye-bye. 751 00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:50,440 Thank you, thank you. 752 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:55,250 2 00:55:03.560 -- 00:55:07.680 align:middle line:90% position:50% I'm ready for a drink. Are you OK if I come with you guys, right? 753 00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:22,480 It should just be me and you, and you invited your girls 754 00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:25,360 to go do something with them, so what I'm supposed to do? 755 00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:31,560 We left the green card interview, and we got approved for a green card. 756 00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:34,440 So I was really hoping that Yara and I could, you know, 757 00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:36,480 go out, have drinks and celebrate. 758 00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:39,920 But no she wants to hang out with her friends, by herself. 759 00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:44,680 I wanna fucking have fun too, not just you. 760 00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:12,880 You guys, Yara's here. 761 00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:16,640 Hey. Hey, you guys. What's up? 762 00:56:16,720 --> 00:56:19,440 Hey, everybody. Hi, Jovi. Welcome to girls' drinks. 763 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:21,320 How are y'all? Good to see y'all. 764 00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:25,680 I thought you were gonna stay with Mylah today? No, not today. OK. 765 00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:28,640 We dropped Mylah off to my mom, so, I'm here. 766 00:56:28,720 --> 00:56:31,280 I mean, we're used to you showing up every time, so... 767 00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:33,680 We should name him Jovina. 768 00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:35,880 (LAUGHTER) 769 00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,360 Not surprised that he came. 770 00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:42,440 I think he has control issues, 771 00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:45,440 like he just wants to put her in this little box and watch her. 772 00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:51,840 So I guess it does kind of seem accepted that he's just gonna show up, at every occasion. 773 00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:54,000 Cheers, guys. Cheers. 774 00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:56,840 It's great to see you, Yara. It's good to see you too, Jovi. 775 00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:58,720 Yeah you too, Jovi. Thanks. 776 00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:00,600 Wait, so you had an appointment today? 777 00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:03,280 We're approved for a green card now. Awesome. 778 00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:05,440 How do you feel now that you're official? 779 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:12,120 She wants to go tomorrow. Like, she wants to go while I'm at work. 780 00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:16,080 That's what I'm telling her. 781 00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:18,240 Yeah. No I understand her, think about you - 782 00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:21,040 Think if this was Louisiana and you went to visit her family 783 00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,080 and you were trying to get back to your mom. 784 00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:26,320 I understand that perspective. I don't think it's safe for her. 785 00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:28,480 You're not comfortable with Yara going. 786 00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:31,640 No I think both of us going together is better. 787 00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:34,480 So then go with your wife. I have to go to work. 788 00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:36,760 You can't - I'm going to work for three weeks. 789 00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:41,040 Three weeks is way too long. We don't know when her green card's gonna come. 790 00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:44,640 I'm from Ukraine, I understand that her heart is with Ukraine. 791 00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:47,640 She shouldn't leave you, you should go with her. 792 00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:54,160 Yeah. 793 00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,440 I honestly feel like I wanna go to the bathroom so bad. 794 00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:03,960 We can talk to Jovi. We'll take care of Jovina. 795 00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:08,880 You need him alive? Yeah. No promises. 796 00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:16,240 So, I wanna ask you guys, she respects all of your opinions. 797 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,080 She hangs out with you all, all of y'all have fake boobs. 798 00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:20,960 All of a sudden, Yara wants fake boobs. 799 00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:23,040 I told her. I told her. 800 00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:28,640 We never told her to get fake breasts. 801 00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:30,720 No? That's not what I heard? 802 00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:34,560 I didn't tell her. I said I'm doing the same thing. She's like, "You know what?" 803 00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:36,400 So it was you. No, well, see? All right. 804 00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:39,400 What I'm really trying to get across to you guys, 805 00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,560 if you can help me to support her in waiting a little bit 806 00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:45,280 to go to Europe, I would appreciate it. 807 00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,120 She takes your opinion for everything. 808 00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:50,120 And it's a lot better than coming from me. 809 00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:53,520 As a father, as a husband, 810 00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:56,000 I think that I need to be a little bit controlling 811 00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:57,840 and I can't let Yara be a loose cannon. 812 00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:01,440 If she makes an irrational decision that affects my family, 813 00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:03,680 I should have some involvement with that. 814 00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:14,320 No, I mean, maybe, I'm just trying to be protective. 815 00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:33,160 I feel like you're a tad bit controlling. 816 00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:36,840 Listen, this has nothing to do with trying to control her, or whatever. 817 00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:40,480 This is about me making sure that she's safe when she goes there. 818 00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:44,000 There's nothing wrong she can do going back to help her people. 819 00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:47,120 Like, I don't know why you would even bring this up right now. 820 00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,360 Well, you're here today and it's all women. 821 00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:51,840 Yeah I'm here today because I have a baby-sitter 822 00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:55,360 I wanted a day with Yara, and she wanted to come with the girls, 823 00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:57,360 I was like OK, I'm gonna tag along. 824 00:59:57,440 --> 01:00:01,280 I wanna understand is he coming from an angle of worry for her, 825 01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:03,760 or is this just another control tactic? 826 01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:06,320 I understand she's probably being a bit impulsive. 827 01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:09,800 So I want her protected and I would love to side with Jovi, 828 01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:13,560 I just don't know if that's his true motive, is to keep her safe. 829 01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:17,560 Barely. 830 01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:21,680 They're worried that I'm being too controlling over you. 831 01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:25,240 Just telling them I'm worried about you when you come to New Orleans 832 01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:27,800 and I'm worried if you go to Prague without me too. 833 01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:31,480 I wanna know where you're at, I wanna know that you're safe, 834 01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:33,800 because, of course, I wanna protect my family. 835 01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:36,840 If you don't appreciate that I'm sorry, but it's just how I feel. 836 01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:45,560 Yeah, no, but I can't trust for you to go to Prague - 837 01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:23,760 We'll go right up here. OK. 838 01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,240 I feel like I'm in a high chair. 839 01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:36,440 Well, I am, but... (BOTH LAUGH) 840 01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:38,800 So, what did you send Ed off for? 841 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:41,920 He's getting stuff done for the party. 842 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:43,520 After fishing, 843 01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,720 I wanna just spend some one-on-one time with my grandparents. 844 01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:50,000 Since Ed and I got back together, we do everything together. 845 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:51,480 So it would be nice 846 01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:56,400 because I feel like I have some time to talk, I can have a conversation. 847 01:01:56,480 --> 01:02:01,800 Ed kind of likes to take over most conversations. 848 01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:04,800 It will be fun, I've got some surprises for everybody. 849 01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:06,280 We'll see. 850 01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:12,880 No, we're not getting married, that's not one of those surprises. 851 01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:17,400 They're faking us out. (LAUGHS) 852 01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:20,320 Surprise. This is not our engagement party. 853 01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,200 Oh, I'll stop it. 854 01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:26,480 I'll stop it, I'll go, "No, they can't get married tonight, 855 01:02:26,560 --> 01:02:28,600 when I'm not ready." 856 01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:32,400 Five years from now, I'm not ready. (LAUGHTER) 857 01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:34,520 I can say that I'm happy. 858 01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:36,960 I've known Ed now for about a year-and-a-half. 859 01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:41,640 The way that I speak about him, you'd never catch me speaking about him this way before. 860 01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:46,120 They need a little more time to get used to each other. 861 01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:48,200 Yeah. Because Ed's been single for... 862 01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:52,520 I don't know how long. 863 01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:55,600 I think it will work out as long as they pay attention to each other. 864 01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:57,960 The world was against us getting married. Yeah. 865 01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:00,360 Just like them. And we made it. 866 01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:05,920 I have another question for you. This is a very important question. 867 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:08,560 Your age difference. 868 01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:11,160 The age difference got us a little bit. 869 01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:16,040 Him being that much older than you, 870 01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:19,520 are you willing to take care of him 871 01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:22,440 when he's not able to? 872 01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:25,760 Something to think about. 873 01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:30,160 It's already crossed my mind multiple times. 874 01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:32,720 Not so much as like taking care of him, 875 01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:35,800 but so much as like, I'm scared to lose him. 876 01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:38,840 Because he's older. 877 01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:41,360 Yeah, I would take care of him. 878 01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:44,280 OK. 879 01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:48,360 Because people get hurt, they get sick and all that good stuff. 880 01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,960 Ed is definitely a kid, younger at heart than me. 881 01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:57,480 But the truth is he is almost 30 years older than me. 882 01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:01,000 And the one thing that scares me the most about my age difference 883 01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:05,160 with Ed is just that he can be taken away from me. 884 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:12,800 Sometimes I think too much about losing Ed due to age. 885 01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:19,720 It can make me second-guess being in this relationship 886 01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:23,320 but I don't ever wanna go back to how I felt not having him there. 887 01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:27,320 As much as I can think negative about the situation, 888 01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,600 I still try to think about the positive. 889 01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:39,920 Ed has a temper and I can have a temper. 890 01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:45,320 There's been arguments where temperaments have not been healthy. 891 01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:50,240 I have to remember that him being single for so long... 892 01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:55,280 He's always... It's always just been about him. 893 01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:57,960 So we break up because it was his way or no way. 894 01:04:58,040 --> 01:05:01,760 And that wasn't gonna work for me after my last marriage. 895 01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:04,320 Yeah, it ain't your way only it's - Yeah. 896 01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:08,520 ..compromise. That's something you both got to learn is to compromise. 897 01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:13,200 We've had our ups and downs, just like they're going to. 898 01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,440 Every relationship is like that. 899 01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:18,600 But the thing is, think about each other. 900 01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:22,240 Forget the world, just each other. 901 01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:28,960 It still scares me that Ed will one day hurt me again. 902 01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:31,160 Scares me that one day he'll... 903 01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:38,160 ..find a way to, like, ruin something good. 904 01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:41,240 But I have to not worry about that, 905 01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:44,320 I have to trust that he's made the changes that he has made. 906 01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:48,960 I know if it does happy again, that's it. 907 01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,440 And I don't wanna be a disappointment to Riley. 908 01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:59,680 I'm really nervous about my third marriage ending up in a divorce. 909 01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:04,640 I do worry about the one day after getting married 910 01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:07,080 where we get into an argument, 911 01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:11,840 because of insecurity and Ed will wanna take a break. 912 01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:13,760 But if Ed and I take a break, 913 01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:16,520 I'm never gonna get back together with him again. 914 01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:20,520 Well, I know you've done him a lot of good. 915 01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:23,000 And I know he's done you a lot of good. 916 01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:25,680 That's why I hope you two can make it. 917 01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:27,440 Yep. 918 01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,720 It's so hot, I wish I could just take my boobs out 919 01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,080 and rest them on your air conditioning. 920 01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:52,080 Excuse me, not in Nigeria. Isn't it like haram? 921 01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:53,920 I'll be like... Mwah-mwah-mwah! 922 01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:05,400 Last night was fun, huh? 923 01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:09,360 Yeah, it was. The party last night went well. 924 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:13,440 All my friend enjoy it, and Kimberly enjoyed the party too, 925 01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:15,720 which is one of the most important thing. 926 01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:18,560 And then all my friends they have seen the love. 927 01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:24,160 I think it is high time now to take Kimberly to my family tomorrow. 928 01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:29,480 But, before that, I want to have a romantic dinner with Kimberly. 929 01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:33,200 I had a good time. 930 01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:36,840 Too good of a time, that's why I'm hung-over today. 931 01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:39,760 But I feel fine, I felt fine when I woke up this morning. 932 01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:41,880 Yeah. You know? You know why? What? 933 01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:45,640 Cos I almost ended up in somebody else's hotel room last night, 934 01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:48,600 through the headboard. You know what I mean? 935 01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:01,080 Babe. 936 01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:02,880 I wanna talk. 937 01:08:02,960 --> 01:08:04,960 Huh? You wanna talk? Yeah. 938 01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:07,640 OK, you talk babe. I wanna talk about the - 939 01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:09,280 OK. ..second wife thing. 940 01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:11,680 This is you and I though I don't - A wife's a wife. 941 01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:15,320 I don't wanna argument, we don't need to argue, I just wanna talk. 942 01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:19,040 After talking to Usman's friend, KB, it's obvious 943 01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:22,440 I still have a lot of questions and I need to get some answers straight. 944 01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:27,160 But every time I bring the second wife topic up to Usman, 945 01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:29,040 it's like a sore subject. 946 01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:32,920 He like, pushes past it, or he doesn't answer the questions fully. 947 01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:36,920 I want him to hear me this time and not just make a joke out of it. 948 01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:42,440 This... This is amazing. 949 01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:44,240 You like it? Feels so good, yes. 950 01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:46,520 Best water around here, so, you know. I love it. 951 01:08:46,600 --> 01:08:48,640 I wrote down questions so I can have clarity 952 01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:50,480 and I make sure I don't miss anything. 953 01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:53,520 Because this is it before we go to Sokoto. 954 01:08:53,600 --> 01:08:56,760 Babe, this is not good hangover food. 955 01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:58,840 Try it. I'm scared. 956 01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:01,480 Eurgh! I can't... 957 01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:03,240 This is, no I got it. 958 01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:04,720 OK. 959 01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:09,720 Mm. You like it? 960 01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:11,880 Very, very spicy. 961 01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:16,400 Do you wanna finish this, babe? 962 01:09:18,440 --> 01:09:21,480 So... Yeah, ask me a question, babe, I'm ready for that. 963 01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:24,640 There's no point going to meet your mom and talk about her blessing 964 01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:28,480 with an engagement if we can't come to an agreement on this second wife. 965 01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:30,360 You know what I'm saying? Mm-hm. 966 01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:53,320 Who picks her? Like, does your family choose a woman for you? 967 01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:55,840 My family will be in the position to do that. 968 01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:59,760 Maybe. When you have kids, right, like, what is my role? 969 01:09:59,840 --> 01:10:04,280 Would you be upset if I don't want to like have involvement with them? 970 01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:07,560 If you wanna see them, you can see them, if you don't wanna see them, 971 01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:11,280 I don't have to blame you, but I feel like, that is not how... 972 01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:18,800 If I say, "I don't wanna see Jamal," you know, like, "He's not my son," 973 01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:20,520 would you be happy? No. Good. 974 01:10:20,600 --> 01:10:23,920 I mean, what you said, was a really good point for me, 975 01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:26,200 and it made me see it now, you know what I mean? 976 01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:30,120 I would be upset if you didn't like Jamal or you didn't wanna be around Jamal. 977 01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:34,360 As long as we are going to be husband and wife in future, 978 01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:49,480 She's not gonna be from America. You don't know. I told you that. 979 01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:52,600 I told you that. No, you don't know. That was it. No, you don't know. 980 01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:55,240 If I have an American lady who live in America... 981 01:10:58,600 --> 01:11:00,880 ..I don't think I should be deprived from that. 982 01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:02,440 You're not gonna do that. 983 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:04,880 You have to listen... Oh, my God. 984 01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:06,400 That's a deal breaker for me. 985 01:11:06,480 --> 01:11:10,800 It's like if this, whoever your second wife is from America, 986 01:11:10,880 --> 01:11:13,320 it's not happening. I told you this. 987 01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:17,560 I just feel like if the second wife is from America, 988 01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:19,920 it's like too close to home for me. 989 01:11:20,000 --> 01:11:23,920 There has to be boundaries between me and the second wife. 990 01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:26,360 When he comes to the States, that's my time with him. 991 01:11:26,440 --> 01:11:30,600 I'm not trying to be controlling, but I have a say so in this too. 992 01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:38,680 I came here to have a conversation. I didn't come for fucking yelling. 993 01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:41,400 Then why you doing this? All I said was that on the phone 994 01:11:41,480 --> 01:11:45,640 and on video chats and stuff, you always said that you wouldn't marry anybody from America. 995 01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:49,600 That's what you told me. Then, when I asked you this little question I wrote down, 996 01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:51,400 it's like now that changed. 997 01:11:51,480 --> 01:11:54,760 I'm accepting a lot, and these questions came from the heart. 998 01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:58,560 What the fuck do you mean I'm not accepting a lot? You're not accepting it, no. 999 01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:04,200 What are you doing at 80? I will tell you. Yeah. 1000 01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:06,680 You want me to tell you? Yeah. I'm 33 years old. 1001 01:12:06,760 --> 01:12:09,040 I'm an artist. 1002 01:12:14,320 --> 01:12:16,720 You love me, you're not doing me a fucking favour. 1003 01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:19,520 If I love you at your age, and you love me at my age, 1004 01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:21,640 do you think you are doing favour for me? 1005 01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:25,480 I thought Usman and I have equal love in our relationship. 1006 01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:28,880 But Usman acts like he is like the prize to be won. 1007 01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:31,680 And he doesn't understand the sacrifices that I've made 1008 01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:33,240 in this relationship. 1009 01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:35,640 If Usman doesn't understand that, 1010 01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:38,120 then I don't think this relationship is gonna work. 1011 01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:46,240 I'll marry a second wife because I want to have a child. God help me. 1012 01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:50,400 So she can be from America, Jamaica, Europe, Nigeria, Mauritius. 1013 01:12:50,480 --> 01:12:52,280 You can't get to half of these places. 1014 01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:55,400 So why you can't go and have sex with her to have kids anyway. 1015 01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:16,240 All right. 1016 01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:19,250 2 01:13:27.280 -- 01:13:30.000 align:middle line:90% position:50% So, this street right here... Yeah. 1017 01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:32,920 ..it's called State Line. State Line. 1018 01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:37,640 So we're right now in Missouri, that block is Kansas. 1019 01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:39,520 Are you serious? 1020 01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:41,200 Oh, wow. 1021 01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:48,960 Thanks for coming with me, 1022 01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:51,920 because although we have not been trying to have children, 1023 01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:54,960 I'm looking at what is the possibility 1024 01:13:55,040 --> 01:13:59,560 or the chances of me falling into, like, high risk pregnancy. 1025 01:13:59,640 --> 01:14:05,360 I mean you're already technically in those years of more higher risk, 1026 01:14:05,440 --> 01:14:08,840 whether we did it right now or not. 1027 01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:13,640 After talking to Eutris, 1028 01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:16,280 I'm starting to worry about Bilal's intentions. 1029 01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:17,960 Does he really wanna have a baby? 1030 01:14:18,040 --> 01:14:23,640 The prenup says I have until 40 to start trying to conceive a child. 1031 01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:26,040 But maybe it's too late. 1032 01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:30,840 So today we are meeting with a fertility doctor, 1033 01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:34,080 and maybe if Bilal listens to what the doctor has to say, 1034 01:14:34,160 --> 01:14:37,840 he will take me wanting a child more seriously. 1035 01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:40,840 Hi. How are you? Hello. Hi. 1036 01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:43,480 I have an appointment with Dr Mirabile. OK. 1037 01:14:43,560 --> 01:14:46,480 I'll get you checked in and they'll be up to get you shortly. 1038 01:14:46,560 --> 01:14:49,160 OK, thank you. All righty, sounds good. Thank you. 1039 01:14:56,640 --> 01:15:00,280 It's 1,000% strange to me that we're at a fertility clinic 1040 01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:03,600 and we haven't even started trying to have a child. 1041 01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:05,760 Dr Mirabile is ready to see you guys. 1042 01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:07,240 Ah, thank you. All right. 1043 01:15:09,760 --> 01:15:14,320 Now is about taking the emotions out of it and looking at it hard facts. 1044 01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:21,200 Hello. Hi. Hi. How are you? 1045 01:15:21,280 --> 01:15:23,280 How you doing, Bilal. Awesome, Doctor. 1046 01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:27,240 Jim Mirabile. I'm Shaeeda. Nice to meet you. 1047 01:15:27,320 --> 01:15:29,720 So tell me what's going on with you guys? 1048 01:15:29,800 --> 01:15:32,640 Well, Bilal and I recently got married. OK. 1049 01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:35,240 So, I wanna have children. 1050 01:15:35,320 --> 01:15:38,160 Terrific. Yeah. Great. 1051 01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:40,040 We-W JUST got married. 1052 01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:43,840 About eight weeks ago. Sure, sure. 1053 01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:47,920 Would my age affect chances of fertility? 1054 01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:50,560 We are no longer spring chickens. 1055 01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:53,560 How old are you? I'm 37 years of age. 1056 01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:58,000 OK, so here they call that advanced maternal age. 1057 01:15:58,080 --> 01:16:02,360 When I see somebody that is 35 or older, you know, 1058 01:16:02,440 --> 01:16:05,040 I think let's give them, you know, six months 1059 01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:07,360 you have to have a chance of trying first. 1060 01:16:07,440 --> 01:16:11,120 So you recommend trying first. 1061 01:16:11,200 --> 01:16:13,280 Before doing. Oh, yeah, yeah. 1062 01:16:13,360 --> 01:16:17,880 Where are you guys at with trying at this point? 1063 01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:21,320 We are zero when it comes to trying. 1064 01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:25,720 OK. He doesn't wanna, like, try right now. 1065 01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:28,360 There's a lot right now that's happening. 1066 01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:31,720 I mean, you just came to a whole new country. 1067 01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:34,720 We just got married, there's a lot of firsts, a lot of new stuff, 1068 01:16:34,800 --> 01:16:37,080 and a lot of women go through post-partum. 1069 01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:41,680 And I don't want you worrying about that right now. 1070 01:16:41,760 --> 01:16:45,120 You know it might sound a little juvenile but maybe 1071 01:16:45,200 --> 01:16:48,160 you get a piece of paper, put the pros and the cons together. 1072 01:16:48,240 --> 01:16:51,000 And make the decision about doing this. Right. 1073 01:16:53,480 --> 01:16:55,200 Lots of couples have this conflict. 1074 01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:58,840 I've seen couples actually split up. 1075 01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:03,400 They both have to be into this to bring another life into this world. 1076 01:17:03,480 --> 01:17:05,520 It's got to be right for them. 1077 01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:07,720 So any medical problems? 1078 01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:10,880 I have no medical problems that I'm aware of. 1079 01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:14,040 And we've never been pregnant before? Never been pregnant before. 1080 01:17:14,120 --> 01:17:15,880 OK, how are you cycles? 1081 01:17:15,960 --> 01:17:18,400 I have a regular monthly cycle, which is good, 1082 01:17:18,480 --> 01:17:21,640 like everyone 21 days my period comes on time, as you see. 1083 01:17:23,200 --> 01:17:25,480 How many, 21 days or 28 days? 1084 01:17:25,560 --> 01:17:27,360 21. Yeah. 21, OK. 1085 01:17:27,440 --> 01:17:31,080 OK, so a little bit brief with that. 1086 01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:36,520 Because a typical cycle is about 26 to 30 days. 1087 01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:38,120 Yeah. 1088 01:17:38,200 --> 01:17:41,720 So if we're ovulating it's really a short time period. 1089 01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:45,800 And we'd probably monitor you 1090 01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:48,080 and I'd wanna check some blood work on you too. 1091 01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:53,280 Thyroid, a couple of hormone levels, see whether your eggs are healthy 1092 01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:55,480 and ready to be impregnated 1093 01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:58,680 and see if there's something going on there. OK. 1094 01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:04,880 A 21 day cycle doesn't cut it as far as ovulation and getting pregnant. 1095 01:18:04,960 --> 01:18:09,560 Day 14 you would ovulate and an egg is available for sperm to fertilise. 1096 01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:13,160 If it's not there, we're not gonna get a pregnancy. 1097 01:18:13,240 --> 01:18:16,240 It's something going on with her that we need to test further. 1098 01:18:16,320 --> 01:18:20,000 I think, you know, emotionally together, you know, 1099 01:18:20,080 --> 01:18:21,880 you guys you know make a decision. 1100 01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:25,080 Like are we gonna do, you know, the wait the two years 1101 01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:28,520 and go through the ups and downs of just getting married and everything? 1102 01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:31,560 Or is it something that we need to say, "Hey. You know what?" 1103 01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:35,760 Your risks increase as you get older - Yeah. 1104 01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:40,280 ..for fertility. That's my fear, that the risk increase as I get older. 1105 01:18:40,360 --> 01:18:44,360 Right. I definitely wanna get some labs today just to help - 1106 01:18:44,440 --> 01:18:46,560 Of course. ..see, you know, what's going on. 1107 01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:48,040 OK. Sure, sure. 1108 01:18:48,120 --> 01:18:52,360 Any other questions or concerns about that? 1109 01:18:52,440 --> 01:18:56,520 It sounds like you're saying it's probably best to wait a couple of years. 1110 01:18:58,600 --> 01:19:00,240 If we're not ready, definitely. 1111 01:19:00,320 --> 01:19:04,560 You don't wanna bring a baby into the world that you're not ready for. 1112 01:19:04,640 --> 01:19:08,880 But, you know, there are risks as a woman gets older, 1113 01:19:08,960 --> 01:19:12,000 it's something you really need to sit down and talk about that. 1114 01:19:12,080 --> 01:19:13,560 And make that decision. 1115 01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:19,480 I'm worried about my menstrual cycle 1116 01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:22,680 and the doctor's telling me that there could be a problem 1117 01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:24,760 when it comes to having a child. 1118 01:19:24,840 --> 01:19:28,960 It's a bit frustrating to know that Bilal keeps wanting 1119 01:19:29,040 --> 01:19:31,040 to delay trying for a baby. 1120 01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:32,840 Even after what the doctor said. 1121 01:19:32,920 --> 01:19:37,920 He did not marry a 22 year old, or a 30 year old, 1122 01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:42,280 he married someone who is 37 years old, and really wants a baby. 1123 01:19:43,840 --> 01:19:46,760 We have to deal with it, not run from it. 1124 01:20:07,080 --> 01:20:09,520 I can't believe this. 1125 01:20:16,680 --> 01:20:19,800 I was gonna wait to see Michael tomorrow, surprise him. 1126 01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:21,600 I told him to take down his Instagram, 1127 01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:23,880 and gave him another chance to do it on his own. 1128 01:20:23,960 --> 01:20:28,520 And he responded with laugh emoji saying, "Laugh out loud." 1129 01:20:30,920 --> 01:20:33,000 What's so funny about someone's pain? 1130 01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:38,040 You know how that makes me feel? That he doesn't care about me. 1131 01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:41,280 Like, who does something like this to their wife? 1132 01:20:41,360 --> 01:20:44,480 I'll tell you who does, someone that's not in it for love. 1133 01:20:44,560 --> 01:20:46,160 A scammer. 1134 01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:48,920 (KNOCKING ON DOOR) 1135 01:20:51,480 --> 01:20:53,880 You ready? Thank you. 1136 01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:57,680 Michael's getting ready to get his ass in some trouble. 1137 01:20:57,760 --> 01:21:02,400 Because little does he know I'm right down the fucking road. 1138 01:21:02,480 --> 01:21:05,240 What I got to get, Rene? 1139 01:21:05,320 --> 01:21:08,120 Cigarettes my purse, let's go. Your ID. 1140 01:21:09,480 --> 01:21:11,520 Should I have my marriage certificate too? 1141 01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:13,840 You should have your marriage certificate. OK. 1142 01:21:13,920 --> 01:21:15,960 Don't get us into Nigerian jail. 1143 01:21:17,280 --> 01:21:19,960 I came to Nigeria to find out if Michael loves me, 1144 01:21:20,040 --> 01:21:22,480 or is he using me to get to America? 1145 01:21:22,560 --> 01:21:25,720 Let's go. You wanna do this, we're gonna do this. 1146 01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:31,120 I need answers before his visa application is approved 1147 01:21:31,200 --> 01:21:33,080 and I don't have time to waste. 1148 01:21:33,160 --> 01:21:35,400 I'm bringing this marriage certificate with me, 1149 01:21:35,480 --> 01:21:39,080 which, my understanding lets me, being his wife, 1150 01:21:39,160 --> 01:21:42,160 own all his possessions that he own as well. 1151 01:21:42,240 --> 01:21:47,200 And if I have to show proof that I am his wife 1152 01:21:47,280 --> 01:21:50,960 and I have the right to anything that he owns, 1153 01:21:51,040 --> 01:21:52,840 I can do it, legally. 1154 01:21:55,840 --> 01:21:57,840 I'm getting nervous. 1155 01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:00,960 Can you imagine being humiliated by someone you love 1156 01:22:01,040 --> 01:22:05,400 that will throw you to the side for own personal gain? 1157 01:22:05,480 --> 01:22:08,080 For likes on a social media app. 1158 01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:10,440 You know, making fun of my pain. 1159 01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:14,600 I cannot believe this shit this fucker puts me through. 1160 01:22:17,440 --> 01:22:22,640 Angela puts out a lot and she expects the same in return. 1161 01:22:22,720 --> 01:22:26,280 And when she doesn't get it, it's very disappointing. 1162 01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:30,040 At this point, he just makes her so frustrated 1163 01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:32,360 that there is no more reeling in. 1164 01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:38,560 He text me again. 1165 01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:40,240 He did. What did he say? 1166 01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:42,800 "Laughing out loud shaking my head again." 1167 01:22:42,880 --> 01:22:44,880 (SIGNS) Oh, Lord. 1168 01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,680 Well, one good thing is we know he's awake. 1169 01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:50,520 Right, y'all, hush, hush, hush. 1170 01:22:50,600 --> 01:22:53,600 You're not calling him are you? Hush, hush, hush. 1171 01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:55,560 Sh! 1172 01:22:55,640 --> 01:22:57,760 (Give me a light.) 1173 01:22:57,840 --> 01:22:59,560 Are you awake? 1174 01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:03,000 Are you awake? Answer yes or no? 1175 01:23:03,080 --> 01:23:05,080 Stay awake. 1176 01:23:06,360 --> 01:23:09,560 You're ready to get the shock of your fucking life. Stay awake. 1177 01:23:09,640 --> 01:23:12,800 I'm gonna show you I ain't playing with you no more. 1178 01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:15,400 See, one thing you don't know about me, Michael, 1179 01:23:15,480 --> 01:23:19,920 you can't manipulate a woman that's strong and been fucking strong for all of her life. 1180 01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:21,600 Bitch. 1181 01:23:21,680 --> 01:23:23,480 (HANGS UP) 1182 01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:27,960 Angela, you were kind of, you know, 1183 01:23:28,040 --> 01:23:30,640 stirring the pot with him a little bit. 1184 01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:33,360 I wanna stir it. I'm getting ready to fucking see a man 1185 01:23:33,440 --> 01:23:36,000 I ain't seen in two years, and he's talking shit to me. 1186 01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:38,400 And I don't take shit from no-one. 1187 01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:43,440 I took 30 years to want to remarry because, you know what? 1188 01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:45,600 I've been through a lot of heartaches. 1189 01:23:45,680 --> 01:23:48,800 And who wants to go through that at 50? 1190 01:23:48,880 --> 01:23:54,840 When I met Michael, I truly felt that he was the love of my life. 1191 01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:59,800 I never ever imagined that he could hurt me like this. 1192 01:23:59,880 --> 01:24:02,200 Oh, fuck, we're getting close, I know this road. 1193 01:24:02,280 --> 01:24:04,280 (EXHALES SHARPLY) 1194 01:24:04,400 --> 01:24:06,960 He's to the left, right up here. Look. 1195 01:24:07,040 --> 01:24:10,960 There's a big thick gate, look, to the left, to the left, babe. 1196 01:24:13,200 --> 01:24:15,200 It's really shit, man. Fuck him. 1197 01:24:30,280 --> 01:24:32,080 Hello? 1198 01:24:35,600 --> 01:24:38,920 That's my car by the way, Rene. Yeah. You see that car? 1199 01:24:39,000 --> 01:24:42,080 I'm a Nigerian woman, married, my car. 1200 01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:44,960 Michael, come out! 1201 01:24:50,000 --> 01:24:53,640 He's scared. Michael, why don't you just come out? 1202 01:24:53,720 --> 01:24:55,640 She just wants to talk. Come out. 1203 01:24:57,080 --> 01:24:59,160 Are you fucking kidding me? 1204 01:24:59,240 --> 01:25:03,520 I love you, but you will not fucking take me for granted. 1205 01:25:03,600 --> 01:25:07,600 You don't respect my family, I don't respect nobody. 1206 01:25:25,560 --> 01:25:28,240 Michael, answer the fucking door. Rene! 1207 01:25:28,320 --> 01:25:30,880 That's all right, we'll just tow the fucking car. 1208 01:25:30,960 --> 01:25:34,040 See that car? This is my car. 1209 01:25:34,120 --> 01:25:37,240 Come out, she's taking - How about that? 1210 01:25:37,320 --> 01:25:38,960 ..your car apart. 1211 01:25:39,040 --> 01:25:40,680 My car. 1212 01:25:40,760 --> 01:25:43,200 Michael. Come on, Michael. 1213 01:25:43,280 --> 01:25:45,680 I paid for this car, bitch. 1214 01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:48,280 Tell him I'll break the windows next. 1215 01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:50,080 You got the wrong motherfucker. 1216 01:25:57,440 --> 01:26:00,440 Next time on 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After... 1217 01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:06,800 Yeah. I don't wanna be doing all these different positions in bed. 1218 01:26:06,880 --> 01:26:09,880 Don't move. (GIGGLES) 1219 01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:20,880 I just wanna make love and go to sleep. 1220 01:26:20,960 --> 01:26:23,080 BOTH: Om! 1221 01:26:23,160 --> 01:26:28,960 My fear is that time will be passing and there will be no baby. 1222 01:26:29,040 --> 01:26:34,080 Now I'm fearful that you're quick to wanna run for the hills. 1223 01:26:34,160 --> 01:26:38,840 She threatened to leave and when you start something new 1224 01:26:38,920 --> 01:26:41,600 but then the other person talks about, you know, leaving 1225 01:26:41,680 --> 01:26:45,160 when you get into an argument, it makes me a little hesitant. 1226 01:26:45,240 --> 01:26:47,440 And I'm hesitant. 1227 01:26:48,720 --> 01:26:50,720 (SPEAKING OWN LANGUAGE) 1228 01:26:58,400 --> 01:27:00,520 What do we do if your mom says no? 1229 01:27:00,600 --> 01:27:02,400 We cannot get married if she say no. 1230 01:27:03,840 --> 01:27:07,000 95 percent of my cases like yours just get an approval letter 1231 01:27:07,080 --> 01:27:08,880 and you get the green card in the mail. 1232 01:27:08,960 --> 01:27:10,600 That's why it's very unusual. 1233 01:27:10,680 --> 01:27:12,440 Why would they not believe us? 1234 01:27:12,520 --> 01:27:15,240 Could someone have complained about you? 1235 01:27:15,320 --> 01:27:17,400 Somebody might have reported me to USCIS. 1236 01:27:25,320 --> 01:27:28,560 Seriously. Something's being hid from me. 1237 01:27:28,640 --> 01:27:31,640 And I wanna get to the bottom of this, like, right away. 1238 01:27:31,720 --> 01:27:34,120 Don't tell later. Well, go fuck yourself. 1239 01:27:34,200 --> 01:27:38,400 No, no, no. No. Baby. Go have fun if that's what you're gonna think. 1240 01:27:38,480 --> 01:27:40,360 Liz, Liz, Liz. 1241 01:27:40,440 --> 01:27:43,080 I'm done. Piece of shit. 1242 01:27:50,160 --> 01:27:51,840 I trusted you. 1243 01:27:51,920 --> 01:27:56,160 Ever since I signed "I do" to this man, everything went downhill. 1244 01:27:56,240 --> 01:27:58,920 You will not come on my fucking visa. 1245 01:27:59,000 --> 01:28:00,960 I'm the queen. 1246 01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:02,880 Subtitles by Deluxe