SUMIT:
ANGELA: Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?:
Now that we're married, I can apply for a spousal visa for you,
and we could even go to America together.
Your first priority will always be your parents, it'll never be me.
I want to check some blood work on you
and see whether your eggs are healthy,
see if there's something going on there. Sounds like you're saying,
it's probably best to wait a couple of years.
It's a little frustrating that Bilal keeps wanting to delay
trying for a baby, even after what the doctor said.
What did you send Ed off for?
He's getting stuff done for the party.
I've got some surprises for everybody.
No, we're not getting married - it's not one of THOSE surprises.
I'll stop it - can't get married tonight.
I do worry that this could be my third marriage,
and it ending up in a divorce.
You can't get to half these places,
so you can't have sex with her to have kids anyway.
Nothing has been the same since the barbecue for any of us.
There's one common denominator, and it's not me, it's Andrei.
I'm literally fucking afraid that
there's going to come a day where I don't get to talk to my sister.
If it happened to me, it can happen to you.
I think my sisters are afraid to confront him
because they don't want to be cancelled.
RENE: Michael, why don't you come out?
Rene, that's all right, we'll just tow the fucking car.
I love him, but you will not fucking take me for granted.
Michael, come out! She's taking your car apart. How about that?
MY car. Tell him I'll break the windows next.
You got the wrong motherfucker!
Today's the day. The day for what?
The day that you learn how to drive in America. (LAUGHS)
If you can drive in Trinidad, you can drive in any part of the world.
Which is why you had so many accidents? I didn't have
SO many accidents.
How many accidents? One little accident.
One? Yeah.
Shaeeda and I are still trying to get to an agreement
about when to start trying to get pregnant.
Today, the results are coming from the fertility test.
Ready? Yeah.
Shi, she's pretty anxious about what it means for her,
so now might be a great opportunity to take her mind off that.
Why are you taking...
Why are you taking your shoes off?
Seriously. And then you put it in your... Yeah.
OK, these are leather. Why they're not on your feet?
Because I have a heavy foot.
When you have a heavy foot, and you have on shoes, especially boots,
you're going to go so fast. When she presses the gas, it goes.
It's making my heart drop a bit.
I'm a good driver, I've been driving for 17 years of my life.
But in America, you drive on the right.
In Trinidad, we drive on the left. This is the first time
I'm driving on the other side.
She's always wanted to learn how to drive on the RIGHT side of the road.
(LAUGHS) Don't shade my country.
Can you just have more confidence in me? Jeez Louise!
You're not even watching, you almost hit this car. There's no car.
There IS a car directly behind you.
I'm staying on the right, so I'm going across like this.
People tend to slow down when you're going around a curve, just FYI (!)
Babe, you are...
I was not going to hit that rock!
You are literally about to hit... You are exaggerating!
No, I'm not exaggerating. Did you see how close you are?
Listen, I'm not learning to drive, I know how to drive.
It's all good. Hey, hey - calm down for a second, stay still. Yeah.
Don't mess my car up.
You're starting to irritate me.
I'm driving!
(SIGHS) Oh, God!
This is so frustrating.
I don't need that right now. (LAUGHS)
I'm already supernervous.
All I can think about is the results of my bloodwork
and our chances of having a baby.
Everything is a problem. Like, chill!
We have a meeting with Dr Mirabile, a video call.
I am 100% ready to have children.
Bilal, he's not... Mm, mm! That speaks for itself.
From day one, I told him that I would like to be a mother
and I don't want to wait long.
So many things came out of our last appointment with Dr Mirabile.
He was talking about, when a man and woman, they are of a certain age,
things start to slow down, it's just how the body works.
I just need to know my chances of getting pregnant.
It's always good to be in the know, and I need to know.
Hey, Doc. Hey there. How are you guys?
We're good. Doing good.
Doing good? Yeah.
You guys ready to go through some labs? Yes, we are.
Yes, we are - we are ready for the results.
Mm-hm.
(SIGHS)
I will get back with you on that.
But the eggs have been there since before birth.
That's when we get concerned.
We'll wait on the remaining bloodwork,
then we can get back together and talk about that.
Um, I think we... We have been trying, you know.
Trying what?
She um... We have not been trying.
When we are intimate, we are using a condom,
but there has been a little oopsie here and there,
so the possibility of a bun being in the oven could be real.
I'm not trying to give it too much energy
so that Bilal does pay attention to it, I'm just keeping it low.
We are not trying to have any children right now at all,
like, zero per cent.
So, we're not there or we are there?
I hope we will compromise on the time.
I don't want to wait, although we have it in the contract -
wait until I'm 40.
You know, I think we really need to make that decision
because her age is going up.
Obviously, fertility does decrease as we get older.
Yeah.
Um, I mean... (LAUGHS)
I mean, our life could change a year from now, things could be different.
Things can change overnight. Yeah, for sure.
A child, you know, always should bring happiness.
You know, I also know that... um, how she is at times.
She sometimes gets emotional - you get emotional at times.
It gives me a little feeling of, like...
..will you abandon me, you know, type of thing?
There's been times where, you know,
you'll no longer say, "I want to be with you," stuff like that.
To be real, that stuff scares me as well.
I've been divorced, I never want to go through that again,
let alone have a child, you know? Sure.
Any time you've been through a relationship before
and things don't work out, you get a divorce,
and you have children, that makes it way worse.
When you start something new in a relationship
and you're hoping things work out
and you're thinking about having children,
then the other person talks about leaving every now and then,
when you get into an argument, that makes me back up.
It does make me want to run, too - it makes me a little hesitant,
and I'm hesitant, for sure.
2 00:10:30.680 -- 00:10:33.520 align:middle line:73% position:50% Ellie, come here. (CHILD WHINGES)
Nail polish? Yes!
Did she eat it? No!
OK, then, I don't care.
(CHILD HOWLS)
Just go, baby, you're going to be late. I'll deal with it.
All right, babe. Love you. OK, love you.
(CHILD WHINGES)
It's been a couple of days since Pam's birthday party,
and I don't have any regrets, not being there,
it was the smart decision to make.
Today, I'm meeting with my immigration attorney
to discuss the upcoming interview with UCIS.
My immigration attorney wants me to meet with her in person.
I don't know why she didn't give me a call.
It must be something important, I need to go and see her.
Well, hello, hello! Hey, Andrei!
How's it going? I'm doing good. You ready?
Er, yes!
How's everything going? Good, I'm not complaining.
What are we doing this time?
All right, so, the good news is, you have an interview,
the bad news is, you have an interview.
Right. What I mean by that is, normally,
95% of my cases like yours don't get interviewed,
they get an approval letter and Green Card in the mail.
I've never had a case where there was a child together,
and they call you for an interview, I've never had a case like that.
Why would they not believe us?
I don't think it has anything to do with your marriage,
I think it has more to do with your past in Moldova.
Here's the thing. I fear that they saw something
in the Moldovan records that would have made you ineligible
to get a Green Card, but they were overlooked
or they didn't dig deep into it.
I fear that they're going back to that original Green Card application
and saying, "You know what? Somebody made a mistake here."
I mean, look, it's just... It was my past.
I already... If I get a...
I got a background check, it was clean, right?
For immigration, nothing is in the past.
They can review it, and they can say, "No, this is too risky for us."
Don't let me find out something that I don't know.
If you have ever been arrested
anywhere in the world, you've got to tell me.
In Moldova, I was a cop there. As a cop, you have a lot of cases.
If they call you in on some kind of...as a witness,
does that matter?
Were you a witness
or were you someone that they were investigating?
I was part of an interior investigation
into the police department.
Somebody questioned our work, know what I mean?
You went in front of a judge and you testified for yourself? Yeah.
I said, "I did my work right," everything was cool.
Did they ever say that you did something wrong?
Er, no.
This is the federal government, like, federal police officers.
They have the right to dig into all your past. Wow, wow, wow.
I'm just thinking what might have gone wrong,
cos this is just very, very weird right now.
Could someone have complained about you?
Do you have any enemies here in America?
(SCOFFS) There is a lot of people that I'm not getting along,
that's for sure.
Are they willing to go that low, like, below the belt,
and do stuff like this? It happens all the time.
No.
Yeah, exactly - they can make a baseless claim,
but it's the Office's job to find out if it's true.
But as far as I know, it's innocent until proven guilty.
That's in criminal court, if you're an American.
You don't have any Constitutional rights cos you're not American.
Unbelievable, that's just crazy. Yeah.
I'm very concerned that something unusual is happening in his case.
Something is in that file that's causing these issues,
that concerns me.
I've seen clients that have been arrested at interviews,
given deportation letters.
At any point,
Andrei could erase everything they've already accomplished.
Now you understand how important that interview is.
That officer, alone, can take away your Green Card
and put you into deportation.
That's not fair! In fact, that officer has the power
to forever bar you from the United States.
Believe me, I've seen it happen.
Wow.
It's kind of devastating to hear that
Yeah.
I am very, very stunned by the news that she said.
It's weird that we are getting called into the office.
Baby!
Why do you always leave your shoes in the middle of the floor?
Just tripped over your shoe.
(LAUGHS) It's not a big shoe, actually!
Are you wearing this jacket today?
Then why was it thrown on the bed, if you're not wearing it?
It's an option?
Um, I'm going to take a walk, and then I'm going to talk to Christina.
You want to talk to her by yourself, or...
Yeah, I think it should just be me and her. Ah.
OK.
We had a great night last night at the ceremony,
but I told Sumit that
going to America to be near my family might be the best option.
It's been over two years now since I've seen my daughter
or any of my family.
I get emotional sometimes when I think about them, I miss them.
I'm going to call and catch up with my daughter Christina today.
Hi, Christina!
Hi, Mom.
How are you doing? Looking gorgeous and beautiful.
I'm good, thanks, Mom. You too! Where are you? It's pretty.
Isn't it beautiful? We're in Rishikesh, on our honeymoon!
Oh, congratulations!
A lot of people come here and take yoga,
and they go to the temples and meditation.
That's cool, Mom.
Yeah, but I've been going through a lot,
and I haven't seen you guys in over two years now.
I was talking to him. I said, "You know what would be really nice?"
getting Sumit his spousal visa and get him to America
so he can see my country and where I come from
and how it is where I live.
That'd be supercool, Mom. That'd be supercool, for real.
Well, let's see. I know that
the borders are going to be opening up here pretty soon.
I don't know the total logistics of everything,
but Jennie and I want to come out and spend time with you guys,
especially as a married couple. Hopefully, fingers crossed,
it's looking more likely, coming to visit.
Yeah!
Oh, my God, Christina! (LAUGHS)
I am so excited, I'm so happy.
I pray that she can come to India.
How happy that will make me, nobody will understand.
Maybe Sumit will see how happy I am with my daughter around,
and maybe that'll convince him to come to America.
To be honest with you, I kind of want to have a one-on-one with Sumit
because I have something that I need to say to him.
I just want to make sure that he knows that
yeah, now you guys are married,
but there's still a lot that comes with being married.
I know it's fun and everything,
but you still have a family to think about.
Yeah, of course, I understand.
You want to make sure everything is fine. I mean, I'm still your mom!
You want to come and make sure Mom's OK, I understand. Yeah.
My daughter doesn't really know Sumit as her mom's husband,
so of course she's going to have concerns and doubts,
and she's worried.
If she wants to have a talk, go for it.
However she's feeling, she can say to him.
Everything is going great, everything is fine,
except Sumit did ask me if I wanted to do one weird thing,
which I...I'm not too cool with.
He wants to actually take a Kama Sutra yoga class
for couples tonight.
(LAUGHS)
What, a Kama Sutra class?
I don't know!
Like, I don't know.
We haven't talked about it again since then.
Maybe he's wanting to try new things. I don't know, Christina.
Maybe that would be kind of good for your relationship,
to bond a little bit more.
You guys have been together for a long time.
Maybe you guys need to change some things up and spice it up a little.
(LAUGHS) Maybe. This is weird, talking to my daughter about.
Mom, do they have those stores over there, those type of stores?
Those little... Those cute, little toy stores?
Yeah. (LAUGHS) Not that I've seen, and I don't think so.
Probably, you've just got to get on a site and order. (BOTH LAUGH)
He said, "Let's just go, let's just try the class."
Well, go, Mom - have fun with it, I guess.
I mean, try new things! (LAUGHS)
Hey, you know what, Mom? You never know -
it could be enlightening, it could open a whole nother,
I don't know, role for you two. (LAUGHS)
I don't know, I'm just feeling kind of weird.
Maybe it's a generational thing.
Sumit's cool with it, you seem to be OK with it.
Maybe it's just me, I don't know.
I don't know, maybe I should consider doing something like this,
because I don't want him to get bored with me.
I would hope that, after only a few months of being married,
he's not already getting bored, I mean, that's...
..that's not a good sign.
I miss you guys so, so, so, so, so much!
(LAUGHS)
Bye!
2 00:23:32.560 -- 00:23:36.720 align:middle line:90% position:50% Leon's being a ladies' man right now. Mm-hm! (LAUGHS)
Leon has a wine stain on his head. I wouldn't doubt
if there is a wine stain on him.
I imagine he likes to stick his head in our glass. (LAUGHS)
So, what are you wearing tonight?
I'm wearing a very white dress. OK!
People might get mistaken that
they're there for a surprise wedding.
I'm finally not as stressed out, and excited to kind of
just let loose. Yeah.
Today's the big day - it's our engagement party.
I'm excited to meet people on Ed's side that I've never met before,
and I am really excited for a great night.
Poor Ed's going to look so short to me, with my shoes. (LAUGHS)
It's the first step to, like, the beginning of a long journey.
Yeah, it's the first thing that we're doing, being engaged
or moving forward to marriage.
Big changes have been made on both parts.
I want to show people that Ed and I are in love,
and what we have is real. Yeah.
An engagement party was never talked about in my other two marriages.
I got married at the age of 19, straight out of high school.
My second marriage was just a joke. (LAUGHS)
We were in Vegas, and just walked into the courthouse.
So, I'm really excited to have this moment.
Ed and I have had plenty of ups and downs, break-ups, tears, crying.
We've had to really make sacrifices on both ends.
But I finally feel like I met my true love.
I got a nice vest for tonight, I had to have it altered.
I'm going to stop by my tailor here and pick it up.
Tonight, for me, it's a big deal.
I have a lot of close friends that are coming.
Liz has all of her work buddies and friends.
Then, of course, Grandma and Grandpa drove out from New Mexico
as well, and then her mom came down from LA.
I want everybody to really enjoy themselves.
I just want them to know, this is the real deal.
And your family is here. My family is here, yes.
My family knows our break-ups.
My family knows the heartbreak and everything like that.
Out of all my family members, my mom is the most opinionated
about me marrying Ed.
My mom's issues with Ed have to do with age,
and I'm pretty sure there's more,
but my mom and I haven't talked about her issues.
I'm not exactly that close to her, but I hope that she can be there
for her daughter the way she should be.
This is us really telling the world,
"Look, we're here and we're together."
I'd be pleasantly surprised if my mom showed up.
We're on shaky ground right now, and she doesn't accept Liz.
I did invite my mom and my daughter.
They didn't RSVP, but I want to believe that, deep down inside,
they know how important this is to me, and maybe they'll come.
They could see Liz and I interacting,
and that it is really love.
Hopefully, they'll come around to the idea
of Liz and I being together.
It would mean the world if they showed up.
I'm going to be by Ed's side, and just be our normal selves. Yeah.
I'm prepared for questions or, like...
You might get drilled. Yeah.
But I will say this, I'm not taking crap tonight.
No. I'm not.
Ed and I have broken up eight times,
so a lot of Ed's friends and family
are not supportive of our engagement.
Rich is not invited to the engagement party,
but Ed's mom and daughter, we'll see if they come.
I hope that, no matter their reservations,
they can keep it to themselves.
Tonight's about love, so I'm hoping to just be in an environment
where people are here to support us.
I'm not dealing with drama,
you will be escorted out if I have to deal with that.
Throwing 'em out the door! There's a place and time.
You guys have a lovely celebration. Yeah.
Michael, come out! She's taking your car apart. How 'bout that?
How 'bout that?
Michael! Get your butt outta there - your car's getting jacked up.
Michael's done it - he's really got me questioning if he's scamming me.
I gave Michael one last chance to take down that damn Instagram,
and he had the nerve to text me, "LOL, no."
Michael, get out here -
your car is getting destroyed.
It's the middle of the night, and I'm tired,
but I'm really exhausted from Michael's constant disrespect.
I'm knocking on his door, I'm calling his name,
and he won't even come out the damn house.
Do you know how that makes me feel, as his wife?
I'm not just coming across the damn street,
I have flew across the world.
Michael really is not who he presents himself to be.
I've never hid who I am.
I'm a fighter, I'll be a fighter till the day I die.
Before she ruins your whole car, talk to me.
Y'all going to let him do this shit to me?
I can calm her down. You got the wrong American!
You got the wrong motherfucker, man. Tell him to come out!
That ain't his car.
You ain't paid shit. The law says this is my car.
I got my marriage certificate.
The law says I have every right to fuck with my car.
I trusted you.
What do you mean, what have YOU been doing?
Let him talk calmly, let him calm down. Wait, wait.
This bitch,
You want to baby a man, you want to baby a man that broke my heart?
Fuck him, fuck his family.
If his family loved me, they would see past Michael's bullshit.
Hell, if they don't know Michael lies,
and if they don't know their brother,
Ever since I signed "I do" to this man, everything went downhill.
My kids, they all told me,
"Don't come to Nigeria" five years ago, four years ago.
They all were against me with Michael.
Is that really who Michael is, and I just didn't see it?
I'm done with it, I'm done.
You will not come on my fucking visa.
Let's go outside, let's go outside.
How dare you!
Angela, let's go.
I trusted you. I'll be back to get my car, motherfucker!
Embarrassed? Yeah, I'm fucking embarrassed!
I'm done, I'm going home.
I'm packing my shit, I'm going to the airport,
I'm getting the fuck out of Nigeria, and I don't never want to look back.
I fight because I do believe in my marriage,
I really take that serious.
My intention was to give him the benefit of the doubt.
I really had hopes that we would click again.
Right now, I'm hurt but I still love him.
2 00:33:00.960 -- 00:33:02.960 align:middle line:90% position:50% Sit on it.
Sit on it, it's... (LAUGHS)
This is why we make a good team.
We did it. We did it!
We have to go. Says who?
They don't stop planes for SojaBoy.
But they will stop plane for Kimberly. (LAUGHS) No, they won't.
After the argument, we had a dinner.
I'm worried that Usman's not going to respect my boundaries
about having a second wife live in America,
but Usman and I are flying out today to Sokoto to get his mom's blessing.
I'm really nervous because
Usman's mom has the power to end this relationship.
I'm older, I'm American, I can't have children.
I am certainly not the ideal choice for his mom.
What do you think?
No. Wait, babe, I want you to wear one.
No, I'm not wearing one. Why not?
Cos I'm not. No, you're messing my make-up too. OK, OK.
Which one is better on me? This one.
No, I can't cover up this beautiful hair.
Bye-bye! Bye, room! Bye, yammy room, sort of.
That is where the Islamic religion is most strong.
Here we go! Here we go.
It's not too hot right now.
Do I look like a sweaty mess though?
Be like, "OK?" Can I do that here?
Do you want to? No.
Bibi. Nice to meet you.
Bibi, he is my very close friend.
We've been together right from primary school.
He's my Sokoto family.
Bibi always makes sure that I'm doing good, he takes care of me.
You have to say "Kimberly". Kim... (LAUGHS)
Not "Kimberlin".
Kim-BER-ly. Kim-BAH-ly?
Well, Kim-BER-ly.
It is hot here.
It's really pretty here.
(GASPS) Camels! That's a camel.
Yes! (LAUGHS)
Oh, this is pretty. You like it?
That's beautiful.
Thank you, Bibi! Thank you!
International superstar. (LAUGHS) I love you for that, babe -
I love you for that.
Oh, yeah, this is nice.
Thank you, thank you. This is really nice.
Ah! It feels good to sit down.
It's been a long trip.
He knows that we're tired.
Oh, bye. No, no, no! We don't do that here.
Oh, I'm sorry!
We don't do that here. Oh. I don't know, I don't know.
I will tell you now. Sorry.
OK.
Actually, that is how it is. OK, I didn't know that.
How do you feel right now?
I'm nervous. Why?
I just want them to like me, Usman.
What do I do when I meet your mom? I don't want to hug her, I'm scared.
You just be like, "Ah, Mom, Mom, Mom, Mom."
Just... Shake my head?
Yeah, just show some kind of respect. Of course!
I'll be fine, don't worry about me. I'm going to go take a shower. OK.
OK? OK.
It's really starting to hit me that I'm going to meet his family,
like, oh, my God, what did I get myself into?
What do we do if your mom says no, what happens,
is there any way we can get around that?
Our whole relationship is at stake if we don't get his mom's blessing.
We want to get married, and I want to bring him to America.
That won't happen if his mom says no.
(SIGHS)
Don't let us bother you, OK? You just chill right there (!)
Leaving his poop everywhere.
Yes, very beautiful.
Today, I'm taking Jenny for the most famous Lakshman Jhula,
a very important bridge of Rishikesh.
Jenny and I are on honeymoon from last few days.
I want to keep doing exciting things together.
This river is really beautiful, I really am impressed by it.
Isn't it very calming, like?
Hello. Hi.
Uh, two chai and one pakora.
One sugar, one without sugar. OK, thank you.
Thank you.
How was the conversation, like, with your daughter?
Well, I have some good news. Oh!
All right. I think they're going to be coming to India to visit us.
Oh, my God! Isn't that amazing?
That's amazing. Like, after a long time, we're going to see them.
I want them to know you better, they've only met you one time.
I'm happy for Jenny that her daughter is coming to visit her.
Ever since Jenny told me that she wants to move to America,
I'm nervous about it because I don't want to leave India.
I'm hoping that, after spending time with Christina,
she will stop thinking about going back to America.
As we were making our wishes last night to Ma Ganga,
I just kind of wished for it, I think. Yeah?
Then today, she said, "Mom, we're coming."
It's true, it really happens! It's really impressive.
I kind of told on you - I told my daughter that
you want me to go to the Kama Sutra couple yoga class.
(LAUGHS NERVOUSLY)
She's like, "Well, go for it, Mom!"
Wow!
She's like, "You never know, it might be fun."
I don't want to be the one that has such a closed mind.
I'm not saying that we have any bad relationship, we er...
..good with each other, everything is going fine,
just to bring some excitement to the relationship.
That's what I was worried about.
(LAUGHS)
But I mean, Kama Sutra? I know what Kama Sutra is.
How are they going to teach us that in yoga class?
Basically, it's meant to er, educate about sex.
It's educational and it's sexy, you know?
You know, I'm older than you, and I feel like I already know everything.
I don't really feel like I need to be taught
what kind of position to use, to be in.
My experience level when it comes to sex is pretty high.
I mean, I'm 63 years old - I would hope so.
I mean, I'm not comfortable, doing all of this,
but I'm afraid it might jeopardise our relationship
if I'm not open to trying new things with him.
Are you getting bored with me, or what's going on with you?
I'm worried a little bit about...
What's on your mind -
are you changing the way you're feeling, or what's happening?
You know what? When you get married, and you feel like that, OK,
We have to think about the future, we have to make a good future.
We could try it. If it gets too weird for me, if I'm comfortable,
I'll probably just want to get up and leave the class.
It's very important, now we are married,
for Jenny and I to keep trying to spice up our sex life.
then why not trying doing some new stuff?
Thank you.
Which way to this freaky class?
2 00:45:10.600 -- 00:45:12.600 align:middle line:90% position:50% (GUESTS CHEER)
Thank you. How you doing? I'm doing good.
Today, finally, is our engagement party.
It feels so good to be in a room full of people that support us.
I'm getting a little nervous cos there is a lot of people here.
I'm excited, feeling good - feeling like a celebrity.
I'm a mix between Danny DeVito and George Clooney.
You're Amal to George Clooney.
I think you would be Jason Sudeikis.
Oh, I love him! He's cute, a ton of personality. Yes.
Yes, yeah. Yeah.
This is for Liz. Oh, my God!
WOMAN: Her colour.
I do know that. (LAUGHS)
ALEX: Liz is a jeweller, Liz helped Ed pick out this ring.
You look great. Thank you, as do you.
LIZ: All right, let's celebrate now. ED: Let's celebrate.
Cheers, bitch! Cheers, bitch.
I'm not going to lie, I do hope, you know, that
my mom and daughter walk through that door,
and they can see and support me marrying Liz.
Hey, you guys. Hey, baby girl!
Baby girl.
Hey, Mom, how are you?
I mean, Grandma. I can call you "Mom" or "Grandma", right?
And I'm just going to...
(LAUGHS)
ED:
I've only met her mom, like, twice.
I think she accepts who we are,
but she's still, you know, kind of looking at me with one eye.
She's having a harder time accepting, you know, Liz and I.
And I promise I'm going to take really good care of her.
Personally, I had concerns.
What my daughter had gone through just before you...
..I wanted her to take a break to figure out who she was again.
So, I was concerned.
She... She means the world to me,
and I just wanted... want her to be happy.
But um, you have taken care of her,
and you have broughten my baby girl back from a dark, dark place.
I am very grateful for that.
I don't think I've ever cried
when my mom has opened up about her true feelings to me.
My mom may have never been there to give me the life that she wanted,
that my grandmother gave to me, but the fact that she loves me
and just wants my happiness with Ed means a lot to me.
I'm very shocked to have her blessing.
Welcome to the family. Thank you so much, you guys. Cheers.
To everybody, to love. I'm sorry you chose me.
I'm not. (EVERYONE LAUGHS)
You know, over the past month,
I felt a lot of scepticism with Liz's family,
but they're welcoming me into the family, it's a good feeling.
I guess my daughter and my mom, most likely, aren't coming.
I think, one day, they will regret it when they do get to know Liz,
but I have to respect the fact that they're just not ready.
The question also is, well, are they ever going to be ready?
Well, cheers to you and Ed! (EVERYONE CHEERS)
(TOOTS HORNS)
Dude, that's awesome. Man!
Obviously, something happened, and that's really fucked up.
No, there's nothing there.
So, the party's kind of wrapping up,
and I see a friend of Liz grab her by the arm.
I know her, she's a lesbian, and this looks like an emotional fight.
It's the way that people that have been intimate look at each other.
I'm like, "What's going on here?"
I want to figure out what's going on.
Seriously?
Go fuck yourself.
No, go have fun, if that's what you're going to think.
All right, bye. Liz? Liz!
Liz!
Hey, baby. What you making?
I'm just going to stick with a salad for now.
A salad?
I want to be very careful what I eat -
I don't want anything to hinder my chances of, you know,
getting pregnant, and I hear that it starts with your diet, so...
OK (!)
I reviewed my bloodwork with the doctor today,
and my hormone level is fine,
but my egg-fertility results are still not back,
and I'm getting pretty anxious.
I know Bilal loves me, but it's never a good feeling
to have someone that you love don't really trust you.
It makes me so upset to think that
he does not trust me enough to stay with him if we have a baby together.
I want to focus on us and also having a child.
Like, we are all one unit.
I don't want to have a child by myself,
I want to have a child, like, WE are having a child.
That's how I want it to be. Right.
I just want you to look at it from both sides.
Yes, but it cannot be I wanting a child now
and you like, "We have to wait," I want us to be on the same page.
What Dr Mirabile said - make a list,
and see the pros and cons, but we have to agree on it.
What do you think about us starting... I grabbed this.
We can draw a big T. Yeah.
"Pros, cons". OK.
One of the pros for me will be, like,
motherhood change a lot of people for better.
Some people be like, "Since I've become a mother, I've changed,"
they love unselfishly, things like that.
A con um, could be added stress.
You say "added stress", right? Yeah.
But I think that a child can help you destress.
When you come home and see you have little babies that love you
after having a terrible day,
that's, for some people, the most satisfying.
Baby, you get irritated right now if you don't get ten hours of sleep.
A baby, or an infant - it's not the same.
They'll tell you when to wake up, when you can sleep.
It's a baby, not a monster!
You make it look like it's going to be some sort of fuzzy animal.
It's a baby!
No, when they poop, after the third, fourth time...
It's cute! The third and fourth time.
After that, this odour starts to happen.
Everybody thinks that I'm a germophobe,
but it's kind of more her.
I have nieces and nephews, I've changed their poopy diapers
all the time. Have you actually changed a diaper?
Has it ever, when you're wiping it, got on your hand by accident?
Urgh, it's nasty! (LAUGHS)
It's like, oh, my God,
how does this beautiful human being smell like this, you know?
That's a pro for me - a child will be there in your life
for the rest of your life. Legacy.
Cons - there's a financial burden.
This is temporary! Finances is continuous!
Yeah, but in your American culture, you kick your kids out by 18.
College is not free, baby.
This is not your country, baby.
Exactly - everything.
This is America, baby - nothing is free.
Why are you getting so irate with this conversation?
I'm not getting irate. You don't even want to finish pros and cons!
All your cons are temporary, my pros is forever - legacy,
change your life, love - these last for the rest of your life.
Baby... Your cons is limited - finances...
..listen for a second. Now, I'm fearful, the fact that
sometimes, when there's problems that arise,
you're quick to want to run for the hills.
Why am I saying that though - am I saying it out of the blue
or because it's based off of experience? Yeah,
I probably did say that, but have I done it?
I mean, people say things when they're angry.
There's limits to things though - like saying the D-word, "divor-"
Those are hard words you should never say.
I am very fearful and scared of
having children with the thought that you may want to up and leave one day.
Having been, I guess, dumped before in previous relationships,
I am going into having a child with my eyes wide open.
One of my biggest fears is that she will leave,
because she threatened to do it before.
I understand your point,
but I don't have intentions of, like, you know, leaving
(SIGHS) You know what is MY fear?
My fear is that every year will be the same conversation,
time will be passing, and there will be no baby.
He has been hurt before and women have walked out on him
but I'm not his past.
At the same time, I'm not going to live my life without a baby.
Whether Bilal and I stay together or not,
I'm not going to allow anyone to waste my time.
2 00:58:05.480 -- 00:58:10.400 align:middle line:81% position:50% I really can't believe you're bringing me here, making me do this!
Yeah. You and your great ideas!
Oh, namaste.
I'm so excited that Jenny is ready to go for a Kama Sutra class.
I hope this class will help us grow our relationship better.
I mean, I barely do normal yoga.
One time I did with his mom, and that was a little disastrous!
Oh, ah! (LAUGHS)
SAHNA:
You got me on that one. No way! (LAUGHS)
I don't want to do all these different positions, poses in bed.
But, I mean, we're here on our honeymoon together,
we're going to do it together.
(LAUGHS) That's exactly right too -
I'm going to make sure he doesn't do Kama Sutra yoga
with some other person.
It's like this, this over here.
You have to.
I can't do that! (LAUGHS)
Can you touch your forehead to your knees?
By standing and bending? No.
I can do that. Can you keep your leg behind your... No.
I can do that.
Do we have to do that too? Yeah.
Oh! (LAUGHS)
OK (!)
(STRAINS AND LAUGHS)
BOTH: (CHANTING) Ohhhm.
(LAUGHS)
(EVERYONE CHANTS)
No, we don't say "om".
Yeah, I don't think we need to "om", I don't think so.
So, how was it?
We could try the Cowgirl/Cowboy one - yee-haw! (LAUGHS)
Giddy-up, horsey! (BOTH LAUGH)
I don't know, but you're warm!
Yeah, we will laugh a lot, for sure.
We'll put on a hat or something.
OK, we'll go home and start practising, let's go.
I'll remember, I'll teach you, don't worry.
I think it's a one-and-done class.
It did no harm to try and do something new.
Let's see whether they are beneficial or not.
I plan on attacking him tonight - probably jump on top of him
and ride him like a pony. (BOTH LAUGH)
A pony? Thank you (!)
I just want to make love and go to sleep!
Being a Muslim, any time you want to do something, you have
at the back of your mind that
It's just about making my mom happy.
She gives command and orders.
She be like, "Usman?" "Yes, Mommy?" "I want to eat chicken now,"
so I make sure that Mom eats chicken. (LAUGHS)
The most important reason why I do come to Sokoto is because
we need the blessing from my family and my mom so we can get engaged.
Without my family blessings,
my relationship with Kimberly, it is over.
I'm going to go and meet my mom one-on-one first
in order to help my mom to understand who Kimberly is
before she meets Kimberly tomorrow.
Abuja.
Mm (!)
Mm.
Oh.
I had a similar story like this when I brought my ex,
and I'm worried my mom will not approve our relationship
because of what happened.
Uh...
I didn't tell my mom about getting blessing
to get engaged with Kimberly
because I think it's better if Kimberly and I will be together.
We are doing this together, so why should I ask her alone? But
I cannot even imagine how difficult is it going to be to get a blessing.
The relationship with my ex
really affects the way my mom sees Kimberly.
I will still bring Kimberly to meet my mom.
We have to tell my mom that this is the woman, and I really love her.
We'll just go in tomorrow, and we'll pray hard tonight.
Right. So, that appraisal came in a little low.
What's up?
What do you guys think about this tile?
What's the square footage of that? Um, I think it was, like, 7,000,
something like that.
I absolutely love my job.
I've been in real estate for a little more than 15 years.
I love just the feeling to be able to help people
or improve the community.
When it comes to my personal life, I'm not as forthcoming.
Lisa and Stacy, they know I have someone really special in my life,
but I haven't shared all the details about everything.
What y'all have planned later on tonight?
I'm going down to a house at 4:30.
Well, I have a lunch date coming up. Oh, 'scuse us!
Who's your lunch date with? My boo thang.
This mysterious woman of yours?
(She's probably not even real.) (LAUGHS)
I've been catfishing all of y'all! I love it.
There has been a lot going on
with, you know, the whole testing for fertility.
Shaeeda and I, we're still waiting for the egg-count results,
so she's nervous.
I want to take Shaeeda's mind off of things,
so I invited her to the office, we're having lunch.
I'm superexcited to meet her.
Yeah? We're going to grill her.
We're going to get all the scoop about you and how you guys met.
You - we need to figure you out.
Bilal came in the fall to our brokerage and our team,
and we were all, like... Intrigued.
..intrigued - he was very mysterious and quiet.
We were all like, "Let's set Bilal up with someone, he's cute."
We have some single people, and we're like, "Ooh!"
But someone in our office interjected, "He may be off-limits."
You're going to lunch? (DOORBELL)
That might be her right there. Let's go!
(LAUGHS) Let me take my glasses!
Don't run to the door! Act natural. (LAUGHS)
Hey, baby! How are you doing? (LAUGHS)
I told them we were about to go to a lunch date. Here's the...
Hi! How are you?
Nice to meet you. I'm Stacy.
Hi! I'm Lisa. So good to meet you.
I've heard so many good things about you guys.
Take a seat, come hang out with us. We have questions!
Oh, Lord! (LAUGHS) Yeah.
So, what's going on? We're so happy you're here. Oh, thank you.
We want to know scoop though. How long did you date,
like, from far away - how long did that go on?
Because of COVID, that made us date two years, you know?
So, not meeting for two years?
Almost two years, almost two years.
You will have to move on with your life. I was telling him,
"I'm 37, I don't have any kids. Like, my clock is ticking."
Coming from someone... I got married and had kids right away.
I didn't get to do those things then,
but now that my kids are in college, I do those things.
You all have gotten to do those fun things,
but now is your time to have babies together.
So, if you're ready, and you all are married...
Wait, we haven't even seen the ring.
This is the wedding ring. It's stunning. I'll take one!
I don't wear my wedding ring cos I don't have a wedding ring.
Shaeeda's here, and we're married,
but she hasn't gotten me a wedding ring yet.
Instead of me paying for a ring myself, she'd rather hold off
so that she could buy me a ring.
OK, so, tell us about you!
Oh, we love yoga!
Oh, my God! Yay!
We would love to introduce you to people. Right.
And that expands so much for you. Yeah.
Then, if and when you get pregnant, you can go into other yoga.
There's no reason why you could not expand your business
while you have the baby. We've had babies and kept our careers.
Thank you so much!
Bilal makes it look like life stops when a child comes.
I do yoga - I can handle a baby, do my yoga.
So, you want babies? I want babies!
We'll talk about it. He don't want babies!
He doesn't want babies? Don't say "baby".
It's getting hot in here. You see?
She wants to have a child yesterday, whereas, for me,
I'm like, "We've been apart for two years, let's enjoy each other.
Let's travel, let's do those fun things," then...
But women are the ones that have the timeline -
we have a point in our time that is safe and healthy to have a baby.
There is a timeline. You can be laid-back with YOUR timeline.
She's the one that has to carry the baby!
I just feel like, as a woman,
you need to listen to her a little bit more about this.
It truly does come down to biology and your body and, you know -
how terrible would you feel if you all missed the opportunity?
Oh, God! Yeah, I would feel very...
So, maybe listen a little bit more to what her needs are with this.
I had some of the top saleswomen in this city
on Shaeeda's side - they're selling, they're selling hard,
and I'm losing badly.
I'm trying to negotiate! It's all about negotiating.
I just want to make sure that Shaeeda and I, we're both on the right page.
Being divorced and having a child
is something that I definitely do not want to have to do again.
2 01:15:55.120 -- 01:15:57.080 align:middle line:90% position:50% Lib! Baby?
I'm home. How'd it go?
The news I got from the immigration lawyer is not what I expected.
It's totally going to be a shock for my wife.
She's going to have a lot of thoughts and worries
about what's going to happen.
Hopefully, we can get through with this together
and we can just tackle it, as we always do, our problems.
How'd it go?
Uh...
I don't know what to say, honestly.
What do you mean, you don't know what to say? Uh...
Emel said that it's weird that we're getting called in
to the immigration office right now.
So, what does that mean?
It means, like, you know, like, they have, like, a concern
where something's going on, this is not clear right now.
I'm confused. I thought you were just going there for her to prepare you
on what to say in interview.
Now she's telling you the interview is suspicious? She DID prepare me.
She said, "Look, we have an interview." She's concerned
Who would say these things?
If somebody calls in and they say that you doing something wrong
or your marriage is, like, it's not valid,
We have been going through immigration for years,
probably four or five years now.
We've had so many interviews, we've had so much paperwork
to fill out, so many offices to visit.
Right now, it feels like we're back at square one, and we shouldn't,
we should be going upward, not backwards.
Emel mentioning that it could be maybe someone reported us,
I don't know who would do that. I'm dumbfounded, I have no idea.
What we have to do is... Why are we hearing this,
what does this mean, then?
She's saying, basically, the case scenario,
somebody says something and we cannot prove, but it's otherwise,
She says we have to... we have to be prepared for that.
That doesn't make sense, we haven't done anything,
and nothing is fake here.
There's people that are so fake, you can tell by looking at them.
We are not one of them.
Someone is whispering in immigration office's ears,
and we have a fucking problem.
I'm just thinking, I hope it's not your damn family over here,
trying to ruin our relationship.
No way! They wouldn't even know who to call.
No way, babe.
They don't know anything about... Babe...
They know zero about immigration.
It doesn't matter!
When my wife tells me that
none of her family are capable of reporting me to USA,
I say, just laugh in my mind, it's completely nonsense.
They're always, always bringing me trouble.
Your friend, Marcel... Marcel, yes.
..we met him. What are you investigating?
You guys work together. What he told us really worried me.
Tell us your side of the story - did you get forced off the police force?
Why would they do that? That means I would have to leave too.
They're jealous, babe - look at us!
Like, they're jealous of us all the time.
(SIGHS) OK, so, what do we need to expect -
are we going to go in, and they're going to be like,
"You have to leave immediately?" This is insane.
There'll be three officers in one room
interrogating us, or it might be separate rooms.
I'm just so over this,I can't wait until you have your citizenship.
That's far away.
Having to explain yourself over and over and over again -
why you love somebody, how did you meet him. Up yours. Sorry, but...
Not the right attitude, babe.
If we're going there, we have to be very, very humble people.
If they don't like you or they don't see the right attitude or whatever,
think you're sneaky, you're doing stupid stuff,
then it might be game over.
This interview next week really scares me.
This interview is really important.
We have to make sure that we're fully prepared.
My mind can't get off of it, I don't know how to focus on anything else.
If we had to move to Moldova, we'd be starting over.
This is serious stuff, like, this is our home.
ED: Liz, Liz? Liz!
Liz!
The party's going so well
until I see Liz's ex-coworker grab her by the arm.
I thought it was romantic.
When Liz and I broke up, she had told me that I had hurt her so bad
that she would want to be with a woman.
I asked Liz about it, and she got upset and left.
It's done, it's done.
I'm done! He's a piece of shit, he's so fucking insecure.
I'm pissed, embarrassed, and I'm worried about Liz.
I just went back cos we had all of our stuff.
I had to close out the tab.
All I knew was, Liz went that way.
I think that Liz is um, drunk and she's not thinking.
I'm trying to call Liz, she's not picking up the phone.
I'm worried about her safety, that's all I'm worried about.
But this is showing me that we have too many issues
that aren't resolved before we can get married.
(LINE RINGS)
You know what? His mom wins, Rich wins,
his daughter wins. (CRIES)
My family's in town. They say,
"Oh, are you really going to take care of him?
He's older than you are."
I would 100% take care of him,
but if I were to be fragile tomorrow,
I don't think he would take care of me
in the way that I would take care of him,
(LINE RINGS)
Liz, Liz? Done, over it.
Can I...
Liz? Liz, Liz, Liz!
Don't pinpoint on the fact that I'm drunk, Ed.
You know what? Have a good night. You're embarrassing yourself.
I'm not embarrassing myself.
You're so jealous over someone who was attracted to me!
Liz, you're drunk, and there was something going on there -
she was getting physical with you. No, she wasn't!
Something's going on, and if you don't want to tell me what, fine.
Until I know everything I need to know about you, I can't marry you.
You know what's going to happen? We're fucking fighting,
you're going to fucking contact Richard tomorrow,
you're going to contact Tiffany, contact Norma, and say,
"Oh, my God, you were so right about her."
Leave the ring and pack your stuff and move out.
You're not ready to get married.
I'M not ready? You don't even know what a fucking marriage is, Ed!
I want to marry you, I want to spend the rest of my life with you,
but until I know everything about you, Liz, I'm not going to...
We can't, that would be foolish.
You're hiding something, and I'm going to find out about it.
Liz, are you there?
(CRIES)
A vacuum cleaner - can we get one?
Sumit has completely lost his mind.
This is not the married life I expected.
How have things been?
(GASPS) Yay!
In the next week?
I don't think Mrs Gwen understand
how long I been waiting for this Green Card
and for possibility to go home and see my friends and family.
Hi, Doctor. Have a seat.
We've got some things to talk about.
Any time a doctor calls you into the office,
you think something could go wrong.
The test that we did on you did come back.
It could hinder a successful pregnancy.
She's a good person, and I actually want to be around her.
I feel that his family has judged me before they've given me a chance.
I'm just thinking about Ellie - I want her to grow up here.
We have plenty of opportunities everywhere, believe me.
What are we going to do?
I'm just tired and ready to just go home.
You can't get on a plane and not have a conversation with that man.
How do you know when it's time to end a marriage?
It's not only emotional, it's painful.
When is it OK for me to give up?
I'm tired of your dishonesty. You got jealous
over someone who was attracted to me. She got physical with you.
You think I'm having a relationship? Are you a lesbian?
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