(MAN SPEAKING HINDI)
NARRATOR: Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After...
(JENNY SPEAKING) SUMIT: Yeah.
(GROANING) Oh, no!
I don't wanna have to be doing all these different positions in bed.
(GROANS) (BOTH CHUCKLE)
(CHUCKLING) I just wanna make love and go to sleep.
(BOTH CHANTING)
Yeah, we're approved for a green card now.
(YARA SPEAKING)
No, I think both of us going together is better.
So, then go with your wife. I have to go to work.
Pros, cons, of having a child.
I think one of the pros for me will be like,
a child will be there for the rest of your life.
Cons...
I am very fearful that you may wanna up and leave one day.
Women have walked out on him, but I'm not his past.
(SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
(USMAN SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
(IN ENGLISH)
ELIZABETH: How'd it go? ANDREI: I don't know what to say, honestly.
The news that I got from the immigration lawyer is not what I expected.
(ANDREI SPEAKING)
(MICHAEL SPEAKING)
(SHOUTING)
I trusted you.
Ever since I signed, I do, to this man,
everything went down here.
Right now, I'm hurt, but I still love him.
(ANGELA SPEAKING)
You're so (BLEEP) jealous
over someone who was attracted to me.
ED: Liz, leave the ring, and pack your stuff and move out.
You're not ready to get married.
This is showing me that we have too many issues
that aren't resolved before we can get married.
Liz? Liz?
Liz, you there?
(UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYING)
Wish I could learn to carry stuff on my head like that.
Make my job so much easier. (LAUGHS)
Like, are you nervous about me going to Mom?
OK...
USMAN: After I came to my mom, it seems like
things are not going to be easy.
What is this called, right here, where we're at?
This is the central market.
It's very, very crowded.
(AFRICAN SONG PLAYING)
(USMAN SPEAKING)
Like, I'm meeting his family, I'm meeting his mom. Like, that's huge.
So, I wanted to do something, to, like, make her happy,
and make her life better.
(COW MOOING)
(USMAN SPEAKING)
And I'm telling you this... ..cut it open, eat all the beef,
take all the beef out and sell it, I don't care. Whatever she wants to do, it's her gift.
(COWS MOOING)
This is crazy. I've never been in anything like this before.
(USMAN SPEAKING) This side? Uh-huh.
Those are goats. (GOAT BLEATING)
(LAUGHS) Can I pet it?
Hey! OK now. (COW MOOING)
OK. Thank you.
Look at this old fucker. Look at him peein' right here.
(URINE FLOWING) OK, let's go. Let's go.
Hold on. Hi, are you gonna bite me?
(COW SNORTS) OK! I love the cow market.
I can stay there all day just trying to pet them. I've never petted a cow.
I don't need to tell you. Cow is cow, goat is goat.
I mean, I know they're not pets, but to me every animal is a pet.
(ALL SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
(IN ENGLISH) What... Why are you here
to buy cow? Like... I'm buyin' a cow for his mom,
cos I'm meeting her tomorrow.
(SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
(ABU SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
(SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
(COWS MOOING)
That one's making me laugh, cos he's...
He's so loud. I love it. He's like me.
Is that a good one? (ABU SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
How much? (IN ENGLISH) 200, that is about $500.
Ew! That's like my paycheque.
(SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
(IN ENGLISH) Erm... OK.
How much is this? 185.
You know what? Wait. Take this, count it.
(SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
(IN ENGLISH) Babe! Tomorrow they'll bring it over there.
Tomorrow, I am going to meet Usman's family.
I feel like I'm walkin' into the lion's den.
So, like, aside from fighting in Desert Storm,
this is probably gonna be the most nerve-racking experience in my whole life.
I'm kinda goin' in there with a cow, and just like, "Hi. How are you?" No plan.
And without Usman's mom's approval, he will not marry me. At all.
So, we have to get this blessing.
# Your dreams I've seen them grow #
You makin' some waffles, Mimi?
Yes. Yeah?
ELIZABETH: How many eggies do we need? (BOWL CLANKING)
Four. (CHUCKLES) Four! No, not four.
We're not making for 20 people, there's only four over here. How many?
Two! Two eggies.
Two eggies. OK, let's crack it.
# You gotta get off the ground
# How you ever gonna leave this town?
# You gotta get going right now #
Mimi, not so much.
I'm kind of like, a little bit worried now.
I don't know if...I wanna eat.
It's gonna be great, baby.
OK? You have to embrace your...minds.
Nothing to hide.
(SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
(STEFAN SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
You gonna answer all the questions, right?
(IN ENGLISH) I don't have a choice, yeah.
Today is the day of interview at the USCIS office.
I haven't slept very well last night.
(ANDREI SPEAKING)
I'll learn how to do a tie and I'll do it for you. (CHUCKLES)
You have to get involved.
Cos I'm actually a little bit nervous.
(SIGHS) Maybe you're ready to go?
(SOMBRE MUSIC PLAYING)
Babe, this is just like, the main theme
of our existence here.
What if they ask us how many times we have sex a week?
What's our answer gonna be? We have to have the same answer. None.
Zero? Yeah. Not true. (LAUGHING)
Well, let's say two. I'll say two?
Two. Two times a week.
Well, how actually we do... How much do we have?
Sometimes we have five, sometimes we don't have none.
Well, that's why we need to have the same answer.
So, we'll just lie and say... No, we're not gonna lie.
I don't... Cannot lie. Because we can't lie.
Yeah. What if they ask, what's my favourite colour?
It's purple. What is your wife's favourite flower?
Tulip. What side of the bed does your wife sleep on?
Everywhere. And I wanna (BLEEP) kick her out, like, little bit... (LAUGHS)
..cos she's fuckin' annoying, I'm gonna be like...
My interview at the immigration's
more of an... some facts that you know about each other
and details. It's... It's about way how you act.
It's like the, you know, like the energy that you present.
You think a little bit like of a...
You know, like a tight butt... You know what I mean?
Tight butt? Yeah. You already have a tight ass.
(LAUGHING)
You know, when you're going in you just like,
your body gettin' tight. It's like you're holding in a fart?
Yeah. (LAUGHING)
(SOBERLY) Yeah.
(SIGHING GRIMLY)
This meeting today is really important
because this determines...
basically, the course of the rest of our lives.
I mean... literally on the verge from possibly getting deported.
No.
You have it, baby. That's it. You have it.
Lookin' fuckin' stupid. Wiggle... You have to wiggle it.
It's hard because I'm not in front of you.
Wiggle it, adjust it.
(ANGRILY) What do you mean "adjust it"?
(SOFTLY) Baby, have some patience, will you?
What do you mean? What are you doing? Fuck off, like, seriously.
I'm getting the chills, as we're approaching the moment.
It's kind of hard to know, but in any moment of time,
er, all of the stuff that we have done here
for the past four years, er, can disappear,
and you might just, er,
you know, like, be forced to... to go.
Our fate kinda lies in the...
immigration officer's hands at this point.
Every... All the hard work that we put in all these years
and everything that we've built here could be gone in a second.
2 00:12:18.920 -- 00:12:20.600 align:middle line:90% position:50% (CARRIAGE BELL RINGING)
ED: Liz, leave the ring, and pack your stuff and move out.
You're not ready to get married.
And you're hiding something.
Liz, you there?
So, the party was going great, until...
Liz's ex... co-worker showed up at the engagement party.
And I'm convinced that she liked Liz...
in more of a romantic way.
So, I asked Liz about it, and she got upset and left.
She's been drinking, and she's out walking...
with God knows who. Maybe by herself. I've no idea.
I don't know if I'm more upset or more worried about where Liz is.
Hello.
Now, the only thing I can do is go home
and wait for Liz to come back, if she'll even come back.
(LIZ GRUNTS)
He's the most insecure person.
He doesn't believe in fucking true love.
(VOICE SHAKING) I would do anything for that man.
And you know what, I fucking threw my wedding ring
in the fucking grass and it's gone. Gone.
(SNIFFLES)
(SOBBING)
(EXHALES)
I swear, he's so jealous.
It's like he wants me to hurt him.
It's like he wants me to cheat on him. (SNIFFLES)
I'm just...over it.
(SNIFFLES)
(DOG BARKING)
(ED SPEAKING)
Whatever. You got jealous
over someone who was attracted to me.
Liz, she was a lesbian that you were in a relationship with.
She got physical with you.
When? And you denied it. When? You tell me.
You think I'm having a relationship with someone?
You did. In the past. No.
I don't wanna argue with you any more. Show me proof.
I don't wanna argue with you any more. Show me proof, Ed.
I'm tired of your dishonesty.
I wanna marry you, but I can't.
Looks like I have all - You don't wanna marry me cos you don't...
This is totally stepping back into trust issues in the past.
But I don't feel like those are issues with me
because I've never kept a relationship from him.
And I would not invite someone to my engagement party
if I've had a relationship with them.
Just like...I trusted that
he didn't bring anyone like a sugar baby.
Because when we broke up,
he always took a girl out every single night.
So, whatever he throws in my face,
I can 100% throw it back in his face.
I just can't trust you. Liz...
Are you a lesbian?
I have no physical attraction to any females. Period.
I am not attracted to anything but fucking dick.
You don't give a shit about me. You stay out till 5:00am.
You don't come to bed. You don't cuddle with me.
Liz. You don't do anything. And you're so (BLEEP) insecure
over someone being attracted to me.
Liz, you're the one that got upset,
and walked away from the restaurant and left me stranded.
You drink too much. And you just walk, start walking home.
That's dangerous. I don't need anybody, Ed!
Why are you hanging out with people you shouldn't hang out with?
I'm not hanging out with anybody! Cos you don't let me
hang out with anybody. Cos they're all trashy.
Liz, I've spent years in management.
My job has always been to read people - Ed you've been single
for 29 years, and I'm still teaching you
how to fucking kiss. You don't know...anything.
Liz, you're just mean. You're just mean. I'm mean?
I don't wanna be around you - You're insecure.
You're saying meanful, hateful things to me.
Because you called me fat.
I never called you fat. You... Yes you did.
And, you don't have a reason to call people fat, by the way.
All I said was this...
It makes no sense to go to the gym
and then go to 7-Eleven and eat nachos.
I don't eat nachos! (CHUCKLING) Yes, you do. No, literally...
there's a TV dinner down there that you eat every night.
I know, and I also eat pie, and I have a sweet tooth. I'm overweight, too.
You couldn't even fucking fit into your fucking...
Am I overweight, Ed? Liz, why are you using the F-word? Am I overweight? No.
I've never called Liz "fat".
I'll drop positive hints.
And I know I have to work on myself too, but...
I've never called her fat.
We both can definitely make healthier choices
when it comes to, you know, our intake.
And be more disciplined, you know, about working out.
Why did you call me fat? Why do you make me insecure?
Why, Ed? Why? And you're
so attracted to skinny girls, Liz, you're showing your true colours.
I'm not. I'm not! Shut up! I'm not done talking.
I am done with you speaking over me.
I am gonna put my foot down, and I can be a bitch.
Stop it! Stop it, you're drunk.
We need some time apart.
You need to figure stuff out. We don't need any time apart, Ed. Yes, we do.
No. I love you. I wanna marry you. But until I get
every single question answered,
I'm not gonna marry you. What's your question?
The woman that... Question me.
The altercation that you had grabbed,
were you in a physical relationship with her? Never.
I will find out. I'm not attracted to any women.
Liz, I don't care. This conversation's over,
go sleep it off.
The thing... I don't need a chance in hell.
I'm already guaranteed a one-way ticket
toward hell, Ed. I'm over it. (DOOR SLAMS)
2 00:19:40.400 -- 00:19:43.080 align:middle line:90% position:50% (INDIAN MUSIC PLAYING)
JENNY: I'm sad that we have to leave.
Rishikesh was so beautiful. Yeah.
I mean, I just had such an amazing time here and...
and now we have to go back to that old house.
I'm so sad to be packing up today, to leave Rishikesh,
because now I know we have to go back to the real world,
to our house, to problems.
So far this honeymoon has been interesting.
We did a lot of things that we would not normally have ever done.
Last night we went to a Kama Sutra class,
but it turned out to be everything the opposite of sexy.
(SUMIT SPEAKING)
Very sorry. Yeah. I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you. (CHUCKLES)
Well, I was practicing a Kama Sutra pose they taught us.
I have to practice it.
(SUMIT SPEAKING)
And I think Jenny got too excited while doing that cowgirl position.
Then we had to call the doctor.
(LAUGHING) It's leaking?
(SUMIT SPEAKING)
So basically no more cowboy pose, right?
That's what the doctor said. Cowgirl pose. Yeah. Cowgirl pose.
Maybe the cowboy is gonna work,
but the cowgirl... nah, nah, nah. (LAUGHS)
OK, no more cowgirl, only cowboy. Yeah, cowboy.
I think this is a common... common problem.
And you know that how he fixed it just by calling somebody.
And somebody pray for me and...
Everything is fine now.
Wow, that's amazing. Never heard of such a thing.
They taught us that pose and you got injured from it.
We should file a complaint against the instructor.
You should weigh people first? Oh, now you're tryna... You're calling me fat now.
Yes, you are. You know, like...
(LAUGHS)
OK. That was a good save. Yeah.
Bye, beautiful room.
Bye, Rishikesh.
So sad we're leaving the beautiful Rishikesh
and going back to the old house.
Go check on them?
How about they check on you?
Do they check on you?
See?
I'm planning to reach out to my parents
as soon as I reach back to my home.
Since I told them that Jenny and I are married,
I haven't talked to them.
You knew that there was a chance that
this could happen and you still married me anyways.
Yeah. I knew that there is a chance, but...
I mean going over there... what good does it do?
They're just being so stubborn. Yeah.
What's all of a sudden? We've been together for a long time. Yeah, it's ten years, like...
It's frustrating for me to keep seeing Sumit
worried about his family.
We should be over with this. It should be just Sumit with me.
He shouldn't be so worried about his parents any more.
He needs to be with me, that's it.
I'm gonna go make coffee. You want coffee? OK, yeah. Go with mine.
Thank you.
I hear... I hear you.
Hey, Faruk. (SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
Babe, come and see your man. Faruk. Wow. Hi, what's up?
Sit right there.
It's the night before me and Kimberly meet my family and my mom.
And my friend Faruk is coming over
to meet Kimberly because they are friends.
Faruk and Kimberly knows each other from video call.
Any time Kimberly and I had any issue, we fight or we're quarrelling,
You know, I'm nervous, I'm very nervous.
It's gonna be tough. You know... I bought her a cow today.
If I had enough money, I would have bought her a camel. But I don't have that kind of money.
I thought about it. At least I think, I think she prefer the cow
better than the camel. Yeah.
Today I stopped by to see Mom.
Like, we have a few discussion and...
it's not gonna be easy for her to accept Kimberly.
It's not gonna be easy for her.
I know... What is... wait, what, what?
She was like, Usman again...
See, this is the shit you need to tell me. Because you didn't,
excuse my language, you didn't tell me that.
Yeah, you didn't tell me that.
You did not tell me that. I'm just... When I asked you when you came home,
I asked you what happened and you were like, oh...
And this is what you do. And then I find out stuff later.
My God. So, like, did you speak up on my behalf?
Did you tell her what a good person I am? Or you just, no?
(FARUQ SPEAKING)
There was no room for that.
I don't even want to go now. Honestly.
You don't want to go to see my mom? No, because now
you're saying things that you didn't tell me.
Wait, wait, wait.
No, but you could give me a heads up.
But you could give me a...
You could give me a heads up though. How about a heads up?
And if you want me to explain, I can explain.
But when I explain that, I'm very sure that you're gonna head back to airport this night.
When Usman came home from seeing his mom today, I said, how did the visit go?
Once again, Usman's telling me what I want to hear
and he did not tell me that his mom was already
sort of against even meeting me.
I think Usman withheld this from me cos he didn't want me to be so nervous
and terrified and feel like I'm gonna throw up.
But, now I feel like I'm not prepared at all for tomorrow.
(USMAN SPEAKING)
You're the head of the relationship with me and you.
So I want you to go in there and I want you to,
I want you to be like, you know, I love her,
you know, she's gained my trust.
And this past year and whatever you've been really happy.
You need to tell them that.
So, do we bring up the fact that I'm OK with him...
well, sort of OK with him having the second wife?
Yeah, that might help. We have to bring that up tomorrow.
But I don't think it's going to be easy for you and him.
I'm... let me just say, maybe
they might kick you guys out of the house. I don't know. OK.
Anything can happen tomorrow.
(USMAN SPEAKING)
But when they see how nice and good she is...
I don't know which plan is more better than that.
Babe. Babe.
See, I have confidence in you. Who? You. Who does?
(SIGHS)
It is true that it will be difficult. But why are we here?
Mm-mm. No.
All right.
Because easy for you to say. I know when you are standing,
and I'm standing, too.
I am terrified.
I'm so scared my heart is like beating outside my chest.
I'm so nervous.
So whatever will happen... I know. I love you for that.
..I'll be by your side.
OK. Yes.
I love you, too.
(AFRICAN SONG PLAYING)
Last night I was feeling
all he's put me through in the last few months.
I got it out of my system.
And now, I'm calm this morning,
because I realised...
quit feeling sorry for my own self.
It is what it is.
There's no more talking.
I don't have no more fight left.
(SIGHS) That's it.
And I'm going to go relieve some stress.
Last night, things got so heated...
it was, like, worse than a fucking nightmare.
So, I just changed my flights,
and I'll be leaving Nigeria later today.
And you know what? As soon as I get off the plane,
I'm going to my lawyer's office and I'm filing for divorce
and pulling the visas.
Because I don't have that much time
before Michael's visa can be approved.
And right now the way Michael's been acting,
makes me feel like he's a damn scammer.
I know when I've lost the fight, I've lost it,
and it's time to go home.
Whatcha doing, girl?
Tryna figure this machine out.
Come try this one.
Oh, that one?
Got a holder for my cigarettes.
Now that's the kind of machine I like. (LAUGHS)
How do you feel? I feel good.
How are you feeling? Last night got pretty intense.
It damn sure did.
Seeing how I acted last night, you know, I ask myself...
should I have done that differently?
I do apologize for, you know,
what I did to his car. But you know what?
All of the shady stuff Michael's trying to pull,
really makes me think that he's been talking to other women
on social media.
And when you're hurt,
you don't sit there and sugar-coat shit, do you?
You wanna try a light one, or... Yeah.
We're not tryna be body builders.
Use one on this side too. OK.
Thank God you didn't have one of these last night.
I did what I did, but he brought that drama out of me, man.
Did you talk to him today?
No, and he keeps texting me.
Like, you know, I showed up to Nigeria,
didn't give him warning.
He said I had no right there without giving him heads-up.
Well, I didn't know a wife has to give her husband heads-up...
Right. Right. ..to go see her husband.
Yeah. And you know what upset me too?
When you knocked on the door, he should've just came outside
and it would have been over right then, and you wouldn't have been pissed.
Reflecting back on last night... that's not a proud moment.
I'm not condoning the behaviour, but I'm also accepting it,
because at the time of the moment, I know where Angela was emotionally.
And Michael's behaviour didn't necessarily
help the situation.
You know, Rene, what I'm remorseful for
about last night is that my marriage has gotten to this point.
Like, even no matter what he's done and I get upset,
Michael's always had my feelings in him, you know?
There's no sorrys no more. He's cocky.
Did you see how he loved the car more than he loved me?
Yeah. He was pretty pissed over...
Over his car.
Just like he loves social media, more than he loves me.
I'm not tolerating it.
Like, why should I keep putting effort
and all this energy in trying to change him,
if he really just used me for the visa.
I knew you were gonna come here and raise hell and be pissed,
and you got that. And now it's time to have a conversation,
to say, "OK, Michael. I was pissed when I saw you.
I'm over that part. Let's move on, let's have a conversation.
Meet me at a restaurant tomorrow. Just you and I."
You even sit apart from him from the table, if he's not trusting it. I'm not doing all of that.
There's nothing left to save, Rene.
I know every relationship has its problems,
but this is just too much.
Michael exhausts me. I'm 56 years old.
I can't afford to keep wasting valuable time on Michael.
I deserve to be with somebody that
brings me happiness and joy that's missing in my life.
Are you gonna honestly feel good
getting on a plane and not seeing him face-to-face?
I mean be ho... 100% honest.
I'm not gonna be happy... with this kind of Michael.
You're just done. I gave it all.
Mm-hm. We're almost there with the visa.
And...
..I'm not... I've worked hard. I might give it a shot.
(SIGHS) Don't get upset because...
I'm not.
I feel bad what Angela's going through.
But this is a long way to come for love.
We came here for her to work on her marriage,
and as her friend it wouldn't be good
if I just let her leave
and she didn't get answers, and had unfinished business.
I need her to stay, I need her to talk to him.
And to feel like
she knows whether her marriage is worth staying in or not.
I'm just tired, I'm ready to just go home.
Forget it. Forget about it.
But you cannot just leave here on that level of last night.
It's been less than 24 hours.
We went to bed at five o'clock this morning.
It's very emotional for you.
Very emotional for him.
He needs to take it all in.
You have a few more days that you booked here.
Stay till tomorrow or the next day.
Just chill. (SIGHS)
I don't know.
You can't get on a plane and not have a conversation with that man.
You can't leave it like that.
As your friend I know, you'll get home
and you're gonna have a whole bunch of "What if's." "I was in Nigeria.
Why didn't I do this this way?"
You gotta do it.
If I leave Nigeria today, I will never see Michael again.
And honestly, I don't know if I'm ready for that.
But the fact of the matter is, the visa is a ticking clock.
I don't wanna be with a scammer
and give him any opportunity to come to America.
I really at this point don't know what to do.
How do you really know when it's time to end a marriage.
It's not only emotional, it's painful at this point.
Like, when is it OK
for me to give up?
I will think about it.
Like, I can't promise that right now.
2 00:38:29.080 -- 00:38:30.720 align:middle line:90% position:50% # She knows
# God knows I could never hurt you, baby
# I know it's overdue
Oh, it's a good day.
Are you really sure you wanna go to the doctor's appointment?
# She knows, she don't gotta be Gotta be a hero
# A hero not that
# She knows... #
SHAEEDA: We're here.
BILAL: We are here. Yeah.
Today we have an appointment
at Dr Mirabile's office to get the results
for the anti-mullerian hormone test.
And that's the test that will determine how many egg cells I have left.
I'm aiming for the doctor to give me good news
stating that I'm still 100% fertile.
(SIGHS)
You're ready? Mm-hm.
I do think, kind of putting the cart before the horse maybe a little bit,
erm, because there hasn't been any issues. Er, thank God.
And some of the things she's told to me
about her and her family, like, pretty fertile.
You know, needless to say. Mm-hm.
So hopefully, that will continue to be the same way.
After you my lady.
RECEPTIONIST: Hi. How are you? Hello.
Checking in for an appointment today?
Yes, with Dr Mirabile. Do you wanna have a seat over here?
They'll be out shortly to get ya. All right. Thank you. Thank you.
Any time a doctor calls you into the office,
rather than giving you the results virtually,
sometimes you do tend to think something could shift and go wrong.
I am a lot nervous,
but I'm trying to just contain myself.
You good?
Nauseous? Mm-hm.
Nervous nerves.
Dr Mirabile's here to see you now.
All righty.
Thank you. Thank you.
Hi, Dr Mirabile. Hey.
DR MIRABILE: Have a seat.
Well, we've got some things to talk about.
We did the blood work and I talked to you the other day Yes.
about the AMH or the anti-mullerian hormone.
It's testing the amount of eggs that you have left
to be fertilised. OK.
But the test that we did on you did come back...
saying that your ovarian reserve is low.
This is not a predictor that you can get pregnant.
Mm-hm. It just means that, hey, time is of the essence
as far as getting things going
if we wanna have a natural child birth spontaneously.
Is that, like, typical, or normal around that...
you know, the age factor, and everything like that?
Statistics show that at the age of 40
you have about a five percent chance
every cycle to get pregnant, so... Five seems very low.
And your chances will decrease as you get older,
more sooner than somebody else, so...
When I heard Dr Mirabile said
that my ovarian's reserves were low,
I felt like hearing him say that I can never have children.
Those results mean that...
(SIGHS)
..that fertility is compromised.
All I could think about is how much time now.
Right, you're born with about a million eggs.
There's probably about 2.5% of those million eggs left.
So, you know, I would definitely say
I would not wait more than six months,
if you do wanna try to get started in having a baby,
because every month your reserve is gonna be going down.
The numbers are low
and it could hinder a successful pregnancy.
You know, I think Shaeeda's biggest fear is that
it's gonna be too late or never.
I would never encourage someone to have a baby to stay together.
But in a case like this, you know,
I think that they need to make a really, you know,
a definite decision for both of their sake.
How much more do we wait?
I don't know what that reserve will be
six months from now or two years from now.
Oh, doc. (SIGHS)
So, it brings up a whole new way of looking at
discussing whether or not you guys want to get pregnant at this time.
It's always hard to... you know, see someone you love,
you know, erm, you know, kinda get emotional.
Er, at the same time, erm, you know, there's a lot
that goes into having children.
Anybody who has a child knows that.
So it's not a matter of, like, "Oh, let's just get at it," you know.
There are things we can talk about that you can do.
Artificial reproduction is still an option,
but I would suggest, if you do wanna try to get started
in having a baby, I would try for six months.
If we don't get pregnant in six months spontaneously,
then we can look at other options.
I can send you out to talk about freezing eggs,
erm, and, you know, that sort of thing.
So the rest is left up to you guys. Yeah.
This has absolutely changed Bilal's plans of wait until 40.
I really don't have much time.
And I feel like this is my life now.
Bilal and I, we have to try to have a baby now.
If Bilal is not willing,
that is definitely going to be a deal breaker in our relationship.
KIM: So I ordered these ones.
I like this one, but I like this one better. This one goes with the veil.
OK. I vote the green. All right.
Why am I so nervous? I'm like shaking, so nervous.
Look. I've calmed down. Huh? I've calmed down a little bit.
Yes. We're getting that blessing today. OK.
I mean, I'm just gonna be me. I can't be anything else but me, you know?
Have you ever been not you? Mm-mm.
Today I'm going to meet Usman's mom and the family,
and to try to get her blessing so I can marry Usman.
And I feel... I feel scared,
I feel like I'm gonna vomit, I feel nervous,
and I just feel like
I just want them to like me so bad.
I've never had to try to convince anybody to like me
as much as I want his mom to like me.
Because, if I'm not going to get his mom's blessing,
there's no relationship.
(USMAN SPEAKING) I know.
We're going to see my mom right now. I know, I know.
(INDISTINCT CONVERSATIONS)
Ah! Oh, it's pretty here. There's a lot of people that live around here, huh?
OK, so you got to put this veil on, right? Huh?
You got to put the veil on?
Wait. I'm so nervous.
I know that this is not what his mom wants for him.
I'm 18 years older than him, I can't have children,
I'm gonna take her baby to America.
So I'm going to be trying to prove
I am truly, 100% committed to this relationship
and how deeply in love with Usman I am.
I'm nervous.
(EXHALES SHARPLY) OK.
And if all else fails,
I'm really hoping when the cow gets here,
that they'll see, like, what a good person I am
and be like, "Hey! Oh, my God, she bought us a cow."
(WHISPERS) OK, give me a second.
Give me a second. OK.
All right. Ready? You go first. Come on. Let's go. You go first.
No, we'll go in together. No, you go first. Let's go together. OK.
(SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
FARUQ: Er, Usman.
(ALL SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE) KIM: Hello.
Come on, sit down. Thank you.
(MOHAMMED SPEAKING) Thank you.
You are welcome. (LAUGHS) I'm nervous.
You are welcome. (LAUGHS) Yeah, I'm nervous. A little bit. Be calm.
Mmm, this is the first sister.
Hi. Hello. Umm, that's my mother. You know her. I know her. (CHUCKLES)
This Mohammed, my brother. Hello. And this is Faruq.
OK. Yeah, so.
Mohammed is an elder brother like a father.
Then Safeeya is like elder sister.
(SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
(IN ENGLISH)
So, I need a prayer.
So, Usman. (SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE) Mmm.
(SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
(FADIMATU SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
(SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
Our mom, she's very, very eager
to see her grandchildren from you.
(MOHAMMED SPEAKING)
(SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
(IN ENGLISH)
Wow.
She is a good person.
Nobody can take that away from her.
I... I'm just like... she... it is testified.
She's a good person.
(KNOCK ON DOOR)
(SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
(MAN SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
Oh, oh, oh, erm, it's... (CHUCKLES)
(IN ENGLISH)
(SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
(IN ENGLISH) Do you know what I'm thinking? (SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
It's not a bribe. That... that is so not a bribe, I... So,
that other woman brought a... a sheep or goat.
Now you're bringing a cow? May I say something, please?
(SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
May I speak? (SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
May I say something, please?
Erm... Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
2 00:52:50.920 -- 00:52:54.360 align:middle line:90% position:50% JENNY: My legs aren't stretched out from that long drive from Rishikesh.
I've been sitting the whole time.
Thank you.
SUMIT: Yeah.
It's a nice biggie. Well, it's not really big.
It's just kind of more wide. (MAN SPEAKING)
Wait, we have one, but you know,
we can always always look at a nicer, newer one.
Let's find stuff for the kitchen.
We're gonna look for kitchen.
Honeymoon is over, back to the reality.
It means that we have to go back to our old house.
Yeah, and if we have to go back to that old house,
we definitely need to do some upgrades.
Our things need to be improved.
Er, first is this one, or... this one is having a... A drawer.
A drawer where you can put, like... You know what? That one's good for, like,
your... Cutlery and spice, edible spice box. Mm.
Because, like, when your mom came over, and everything was...
she was talking about everything's on the kitchen counter.
(WOMAN SPEAKING OTHER LANGUAGE)
(MAN SPEAKING)
OK.
She started putting everything on the window sill, underneath the window.
But that's... I... I leave that for like,
cute little flowers and decorative stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I didn't want that either. You can, er,
you can put anything anywhere else, wherever you want,
as long as it's clean.
I think I clean the house very nicely. Really?
I do what I do. And if it's not good enough, I'm sorry.
Then you can hire a maid. Yeah, I'm accepting it.
Erm, and what does the man do?
(SUMIT SPEAKING)
Well, our marriage is not traditional.
Like, we don't live a traditional Indian marriage.
Wait a minute. A vacuum cleaner?
Hey, can we get one? Then I don't have to sweep any more.
Er, vacuum cleaner. (CHUCKLES)
What we use, we use a broom.
Er, and that you can, like,
That's what I say, vacuum cleaners can be expensive, and...
But then it's like, do you know the...
er, how broom costs? Which is hardly a dollar.
And how much a vacuum cleaner costs.
The way if you mop, er, with the disinfectants and all that,
so that will make your house more cleaner and hygienic.
And I swear, I have been doing
since we've been living in that house.
Who cleans your mom's floors?
She... she had a maid.
OK, then let's get - Yeah, that's what... OK, then hire a maid.
She can do a better job than me is what you're saying basically. So then, get a maid.
You're... you're out of your mind.
Comparing to the regular Indian housewife,
(LAUGHING)
OK, so I mean if we get a...
if we get a vacuum cleaner, I mean...
some of the things in the house I can clean easier.
..and still house is dirty...
So you're saying even after I clean the house, it's still dirty?
You're saying that? You're more than welcome
to mop the floor and sweep it yourself.
You're taking it really wrong way.
No, I'm not. I'm just trying to say, like,
I spent a lot of time cleaning the house and...
I don't want to spend money
where the things are not very useful.
Why are we standing here arguing? This is enough.
That's enough. That's enough.
Let's just go get the cabinet. Yeah.
Sumit has completely lost his mind.
It doesn't matter what his parents think about my house, that it's a big mess.
He can go and talk to them all he wants to, but I'm not, I don't have any part of it.
But now I'm worried that he wants me to be
the traditional "Indian wife" for them.
Which is never gonna happen.
This is not the married life I expected.
BOTH: Thank you.
# I'm praying for an angel To come
# I'm waiting for a star To fall
# Safe within the eye of the storm
# But it always hits me Like a cannon ball #
I am getting all my stuff together.
Because I have to go to work for a few weeks.
(YARA SIGHS)
So have you thought more about what you're gonna do?
Like, what you're going to do whenever I leave.
(YARA SPEAKING)
Why can't you wait for we could take this trip together?
I'm asking you to please wait until I get back.
I don't think it's a smart decision.
Yara's plan is that if her green card comes in while I'm at work,
then she's gonna go to Europe without me.
I understand, she sees her family and friends fleeing Ukraine and she wants to help them,
but I think she's thinking irrationally.
I would normally be OK with Yara getting on a flight and going to Europe without me
but, er, with the war in Ukraine happening right now,
I don't feel comfortable with Yara going to Europe alone,
or taking Mylah.
The situation can change so fast.
Does this go on for another two weeks?
Is the war over? I think me going to work for a few weeks,
gives us time to understand what's gonna happen there.
And it gives us the opportunity to go there safely.
It's so hard to be sitting here and not be able to do anything.
And it's so hard to be far away from your friends and family
when you know that they are struggling.
That's one of the reason why I wanna travel as fast as possible.
But I am conflicted because Jovi is my emotional support.
And I don't want to travel without him.
I just think it's smarter as a family,
I go do my three weeks of work,
I come home, and then we travel together.
OK. I will wait for you.
I feel really bad for Yara right now with everything going on.
Er, she's very emotional. You know, it's a bad time for me to leave to go work.
This is gonna be one of the hardest times for her to be alone, but...
I hope that it makes her feel better
knowing that when I get home from work, we're gonna travel to Europe together.
Thank you. Love you.
Hey, Mylah.
(YARA SPEAKING)
Hi! Ohh.
Oh, my goodness.
Mrs Gwen had planned a day to spend with me and Mylah,
and I honestly feel so good to spend a day with her.
How you doing? Hi. I'm Monica.
We're gonna be doing some painting today.
And you have your choice... Cool.
..of this welcome doorhanger,
or this framed "This is us" 3D sign.
Woah! Yay!
Mylah! Wow!
(YARA SPEAKING)
Yay.
(LAUGHS)
I'll be right back, OK? Mmm-hm.
Thank you. You're welcome.
So how have things been?
(GASPS) Yay!
That's so exciting.
I pass interview. And I get my green card in mail after a week.
Really? Yeah. That's wonderful.
I'll worry about it when the time comes.
(GASPS) In the next week?
Are you serious?
No, no, no, no, no. I don't think next year, but...
..I didn't think right now.
I'm excited for Yara that after all this time
she finally got her green card.
She is so ready to go see her mom, but it makes me so nervous.
I want them to see each other.
But the timing is terrible. The war.
I wouldn't want them to be that close.
I'm... it just scares me.
I know that you've been wanting to go for a long time,
what if they try to drop a bomb, and it's...
it misses... (YARA SPEAKING)
What if it misses Ukraine?
We're talking about you going somewhere, they're at war.
You're gonna leave Mylah with me, right?
Why?
I'm sorry, you're right. It wasn't...
I wasn't thinking about that. I was just thinking about her not going
to Europe right now.
I definitely think Yara's emotions are getting the best of her.
These last few weeks have been crazy.
Of course, she wants to be there and help.
And now, she has that option.
I do have the fear of
once she sees them, will she want to come back?
How long are you planning to be there?
I don't know, Mrs Gwen. (CHUCKLES)
Are you serious? Yeah.
You got what you want, you're going home. Yes.
OK, now I'm not happy with you. You're being selfish right now.
You're not thinking about my mom.
I need to see my mother. How can I see her?
(SIGHS)
I love my life in America.
But I want to go to back to Europe.
I want to see my friends and family
and I want to help them during this time.
And I want to stay as long as possible.
I don't see this a problem. Why would this be a problem?
Because Jovi goes to work all the time and...
And when he's gone, does it really matter where I am?
You make me crazy. (CLEARS THROAT)
2 01:06:48.080 -- 01:06:51.960 align:middle line:90% position:50% LIZ: I'm already guaranteed a (BLEEP) one-way ticket toward hell, Ed.
I'm over it.
Everybody told me she's gonna,
"If you stay with her, you're gonna be miserable for the rest of your life."
This is all of my decision. This is all my choice.
This is what I gave up. I gave up my daughter, my mom,
Rich.
I'm not allowed.
Sit down. My friend Apoorva - I never even heard of her.
You told me I'm not allowed to talk to her. I never even heard of her.
No, you don't want me to have friends.
I can't have Grace. My friend was her daughter,
cos Liz is jealous. I never said that.
I'm not allowed to have girlfriends.
I'm jealous? I'm jealous? Oh yeah, you are.
All of my friends are women, I'm not gonna apologize for that.
All of my friends are men, and you don't like that.
No, they're not, most of them are gay women, most of them.
Am I gay? Am I gay? I don't know, you tell me.
At this point, Liz, I do not know.
I think you are bisexual.
There's been too many coincidences with you.
Too many coincidences? You told me that you would be with a woman.
I never said that. And don't deny. Yes, you did. I never ever, ever said that.
I said you would make me want to go the other way.
I never said that I would get with another woman.
I don't know where these accusations are coming from
because Ed's completely in control.
I have a curfew. I don't go out with friends.
So, I don't know how Ed thinks I cheated on him with a woman.
When you get drunk, you make a fool out of yourself.
You try to walk home from a restaurant in this neighbourhood.
You're gonna get murdered. You think that I'm scared?
How does that make me feel as your, as your fiance?
You think I want something to happen to you?
You don't know what independence is.
I don't want that. I don't want somebody like you.
I don't want that. You don't want someone who's...
I don't want somebody that I have to work it out... that makes poor decisions,
and I'm tired of babysitting you. I'm so sorry,
because the whole time that we were separated, you just looked for attention.
You took people out on $200 dates.
You are a sad fucking puppy.
You're not that attractive by the way. Liz...
And I loved you for that. Look at you, Liz, you're rude.
I'm not rude. No, you think you fucking walk this fuckers' planet -
Where is that $13,000 ring I bought you? Where's it at?
Probably in a (BLEEP) bush.
Oh, I hope you're kidding.
Why? It's not like you gave a shit about me.
You threw a $13,000 ring in the bush?
Are you kidding me? Yeah, a 100 percent.
That was a $13,000 ring which means nothing to her.
In this moment I realised, this is it. That's the icing on the cake.
The ring is a symbol of, you know, our love.
And even though she's mad, it's the worst possible thing she could have done.
You threw a $13,000 ring in a bush. You're, you are dumb.
You are, you're dumb. I'm dumb? I'm dumb?
What am I supposed to do to prove to you - You could've used that money
to help your grandparents out financially.
So, you want me to pawn the ring?
Well, I would rather you do that than throw it in a bush. I don't need your money.
You're not getting anything, you're out of my life.
I know that I'm innocent in this,
and I'm so sorry that you're insecure.
So, you want me to leave? No. I'm gone tomorrow. I'm gone tomorrow. OK.
Thank you for the therapy session. I'm so sorry for your insecurities. It's good.
I'm sorry that you try to walk home from a restaurant like you always do.
I'm not sorry, cos I'm a fucking independent person. I don't need security.
Because you put yourself in harm's way. You know what, Ed,
you thought that I was cheating on you with her.
Go to bed, I'm done. Conversation over.
You're insecure. I'm innocent.
I'm completely innocent, and I'm done proving my point. Yes, OK.
I'm completely innocent. OK. Good night. You're welcome.
(ELIZABETH SIGHS)
Don't act like somebody is fucking dead, OK?
Baby, we just started doing so well.
Don't say anything, don't you fucking dare.
We went for an interview at the USCIS office and got grilled.
We were hoping to get my permanent green card approved,
but it didn't happen.
You know, like, they didn't say no.
But they didn't give us a yes at the same time.
I don't know. I guess we need more proof.
I don't know how much more proof you need.
It's not about the proof, Lib. But I don't get it, I don't know.
(SIGHS SOFTLY)
I just thought we have...
One question that, kind of, made things
take a turn for, like, the worse...
It was, "When did you and your husband meet?"
And I think that, that's a very relative question, like,
me on the phone or face-to-face. So...
my answer was different.
And they were like, "That's not the right answer."
And I was like,
"Look, this is my husband. I know when we met, I was there."
I said, like, to just answer the questions.
Why you stumbling? Do not hound me right now.
Why are you stumbling? Look at yourself.
Don't you dare hound me right now.
Come on, like, what the fuck? Well, I did my best, like I told you.
I was not giggling.
You were just, like... No, I nervously answered.
You're not gonna sit there and blame me. I'm not blaming on you...
Yes, you are. I said, like, it might be a fucking problem.
Well, you said it was gonna be a problem before we went in there.
So clearly, you had some idea.
Going through all of it again, you want to make sure that you say something right.
They know all the answers.
They're just looking for you to mess up.
I know, but it's just the pressure for me,
like, the pressure is so much.
OK, they don't understand that, OK?
Pressure or no pressure - What do you want me to do?
I just asked you to... There's nothing that I can do.
I did as much as I could... We have to...
to just - to the best of my ability.
I wasn't laughing, I was just trying to lighten the mood.
Like, it's so serious. You just get the...
If something happens, it's gonna be like, this is no joke,
so, we're gonna have to, we have to get out.
Just thinking about Ellie, like, I want her to grow up here.
We have plenty opportunities everywhere. Believe me.
If my husband was deported 100 fucking percent,
I would be there with him and so with Ellie.
But at the same time, raising Ellie in Moldova,
like, that's a completely different life, and I just
never thought that it would be something
that we would have to do but at this point, like, it's,
it really is a possibility.
So, she's not gonna know any of my family here. Great. Great.
That's fucking even better.
I believe that somebody from Libby's family...
Erm, because they hate me. They hate that I'm working with Chuck.
And it's in their own benefit if I would not be here today.
Promise not to say anything, I'm telling you.
I'm not gonna say shit to anyone. So, you're fucking...
Stop telling me what to do, I'm not an idiot. Just listen to me.
Whatever it was, whatever who was. It's stupid,
cos they know I'll be leaving. No, they're fucking mean.
So they're not gonna see me either or Ellie. They don't fucking care.
Snap out of it, legit.
I just don't know, like, who, like, who would have said anything.
Who would have tried to do that to sabotage us?
So it doesn't make any sense to me. The thing is, we have...
There's a lot of people from the family,
then probably somebody's gonna say something.
You don't need to (BLEEP) cry right now, OK? (EXHALES)
I'm just so, so tired of everything
that we have gone through. You don't need to whimper.
So tired. If it's not my family, it's immigration.
Fuck your family. I don't give a fuck about it.
If it's not immigration, it's my family. This is so tiring.
From the moment you got here, it's been an issue.
It's an issue for everybody else, not for us.
And I fucking hate when I don't know what's gonna happen. Me too.
We'll wait and see. I need to know what's going on, I have a daughter.
What are we gonna do?
And you're OK with that?
Like, we're just out getting to the point
where everything is great.
There's got to be a way that we can fight it, like...
We do the fuck-up things that we need to do, and, like, and if it's,
it's like game over, it's game over.
(SIGHS)
2 01:18:21.440 -- 01:18:23.280 align:middle line:90% position:50% RENE: All right, come out so I can see.
Now, if you don't like it, tell me.
Oh, I love.
# When you walked away
# Yeah, you sent me straight
# On the other side #
I don't wanna overdo it, cos I don't want...
I want him to see the hard work I've done.
And then again, I don't want him to see too much to make him want it.
Right? Right, right, right. Perfect. So, it's not over and under.
Oh, my God, perfect. Wait, look at the back though. OK, go ahead.
Nice.
Got a little jiggle in the wiggle. (LAUGHS)
So, how are you feeling?
(SCOFFS)
I feel like I'm doing this for nothing.
But I'm not. At least he can see what he's gonna miss. How about that shit?
I decided I'm not wasting any more time.
I'm done.
Like, I've had it with Michael.
I can't take it any more. My heart can't take it any more.
I'm only a phone call away.
But Rene wants to have a conversation with Michael.
A civil conversation,
because she thinks that I'll be full of regrets
if I didn't talk to Michael one last time.
So, I did call Michael and he agreed to meet for drinks.
My plan when I get there is to let Michael talk.
I don't want to listen to him because he's like a broken record.
But, this is what I gotta do. I'm gonna let him talk.
It's time to see, er,
which way he wants to go because I've done showed him my way.
I am worried to see Michael again because
it won't take much for him to trigger my temper.
(ANGELA SPEAKING)
You know how that makes me feel? That he doesn't care about me.
And I feel like Michael's flirting with women.
So, I don't feel like any conversation right now can save our marriage.
Like, I don't wanna pull the visa. But if he is using me,
Michael leaves me no choice.
(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
MICHAEL: I have never been so angry in my life.
She didn't tell me she's coming to Nigeria.
She's stormed my house, my family house, unnoticed...
(SIGHS)
It's crazy.
Can I get a waitress, please?
Hello. WAITRESS: Good evening. What would you like to drink?
Can I get three shots of vodka and one Heineken, please?
All right, no problem.
You better talk cos you know what you did.
You admit you're wrong.
I started it?
Do you think what you've done is fuckin' acceptable?
Text messages, "Oh, you're in pain. Laugh out loud." Is that funny to fuckin' you?
The difference between you and I, I have a fuckin' heart.
I'm a mean bitch, I'll fight in a goddamn minute, and I fucking will.
You have no heart, man.
If you think you gonna keep that Instagram,
you got the wrong bitch, man.
Oh, I didn't say nothing I wanted to say.
That was just the goddamn appetizer, motherfucker.
(MICHAEL SPEAKING)
I have?
Just pull up your goddamn phone.
So that I can look, I'm your wife.
Put that phone in my purse and we'll talk.
You got bitches in your phone, you're scared. Let me see.
I wanna see everything.
Your DMs in Instagram.
Can I see your phone? No, no, let's talk.
Can I see your phone, please? So, is that a no?
The whole phone.
(ANGELA SPEAKING)
You see how it's simple.
Put the goddamn purse out there.
Look at that hand on this motherfucker's purse.
You're so scared.
Come on, it don't take a genius.
Nobody's protective of their phone, unless you got something to hide.
Especially from their wife. I'm tired.
Like, this ain't a game.
I don't give a fuck what you like.
Yeah, thank you.
I'm real for you. You're fake to me, man.
That's heart fucking breaking.
I'm going... Nah, fuck you, bitch.
I'm getting on my plane. No, fuck you.
You have hurt me, what I've been through with this man.
Is he worth it any more?
I'm tired of being strong. I'm tired of being, like,
I gotta not show my emotions. (SOBS)
(SNIFFLES)
(YARA SPEAKING)
JOVI: Oh, she got you flowers.
NARRATOR: Next time on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After...
(SOBBING)
Seriously, your mama, she wants to come
and be Mylah's full-time babysitter in the US.
(OLGA SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
(SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
What y'all saying about me?
So, since the wedding day, like, what's been happening, like?
I don't know maybe...a family. Mm-hm.
(SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
BILAL: We have a family.
Bilal needs to face the music,
it's either we have this conversation now,
or there might not be a later to have this conversation.
I haven't talked to my, er, parents
since I told them that Jenny and I are married.
(SPEAKING FOREIGN LANGUAGE)
Like this, I can't trust you. You broke, you broke trust too many times.
You told me when you were drunk the other night
that you would rather sleep with Alex and fuck her than me.
And what'd you tell me when you're drunk? I just...
I just said you had the small dick. That's what I said.
Oh, I was probably drunk. I don't remember anything.
I am not gonna be your second wife, I refuse that.
And if I leave here single, I leave here single.
Fine, if that's what you want, fine then. I'll talk to you later.
If we broke up, you think I have anything to regret?
If Kimberly breaks up with me, the reality is that...
So, who's losing? (SOBBING)