1 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,760 Look at this little fucker. Look at him peeing right here. 2 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:12,320 JENNY: Previously on 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After?... 3 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:14,520 Hi. Are you gonna bite me? OK. 4 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:19,120 It's the cow that she bought for Mom. 5 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:22,360 (FARUQ SPEAKS) 6 00:00:24,080 --> 00:00:28,880 I feel that his family has already judged me before they're even giving me a chance. 7 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,240 How have things been? 8 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:39,640 Yay. 9 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:45,200 In the next week? 10 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:50,800 I don't think Mrs Gwen understand how long I've been waiting for this Green Card 11 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,480 and for possibility to go home and see my friends and family. 12 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:59,880 JENNY: A vacuum cleaner? Can we get one? 13 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:09,720 Sumit has completely lost his mind. 14 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:13,960 He can go and talk to his parents, but I don't have any part of it. 15 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:20,720 The test that we did on you did come back saying that your ovarian reserve is low... 16 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,280 Wow. ..so I would not wait more than six months. 17 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,920 I felt like hearing him say that I could never have children. 18 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:31,360 You're rude... I'm not rude. 19 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:35,120 ..and you're unappreciative. You think you fucking walk this fucking planet... 20 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:39,280 Where's the $13,000 ring I bought you? Probably in a fucking bush. 21 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,360 In this moment, I realised this is it. That's the icing on the cake. 22 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,440 You're out of my life. 23 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:49,720 Do you think what you've done is fucking acceptable? 24 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:52,280 Just pull up your goddamn phone. 25 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,080 I wanna see everything. 26 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:59,240 How do you really know when it's time to end a marriage? 27 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:02,000 It's not only emotional, it's painful at this point. 28 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:06,200 Like, when is it OK for me to give up? 29 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,080 I'm going. Come. 30 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:11,040 I'm getting on my plane. Nope. Fuck you. 31 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:28,320 You have everything? Uh-huh. Are you sure? Uh-huh. 32 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:31,680 Where's your passport? 33 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,080 I'm just making sure you know where it's at. 34 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,960 Hey. Morning. 35 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,360 Morning. You ready? Yeah. 36 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:47,280 Hi, Mylah. Mylah, what you doing? 37 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,120 Look who I have for you this morning. 38 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:54,360 See Stella. Stella's here. 39 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:57,520 Hi. Oh, my goodness. 40 00:02:58,920 --> 00:03:02,320 You ready to go? You ready to go bye-bye? 41 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,800 I just got back from work a few days ago, 42 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:12,400 and I'm really excited that Yara's at home waiting for me so we can travel to Europe together. 43 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,600 I decide to wait for Jovi and go to Europe together... 44 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,800 Yara, you ready? 45 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,280 Yeah. You're excited? Of course. 46 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,800 So, how many bags y'all have, like, luggage? 47 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:40,200 One, two, three, four, five, I think. Oh, goodness. 48 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:44,480 OK. I am done. You're done? 49 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,920 Let's try to get moving. 50 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,080 So, Jovi, you learned a little bit of... 51 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:11,240 ..Ukrainian and Hungarian words? 52 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:13,440 (JOVI SPEAKS RUSSIAN) (GWEN SPEAKS RUSSIAN) 53 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,840 That's a Russian word, Jovi. I know. 54 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,160 I don't need to speak that. I got Yara. 55 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,440 No. You don't wanna tell her mom, "Hi. How are you?" Oh. 56 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:26,040 If her mom wants to communicate with me, she can learn English. (GASPS) Oh. 57 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:29,160 Jovi. Jovi. You are a dick. 58 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,360 Oh, goodness. 59 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,760 You're excited, huh? Yeah. You are. 60 00:04:41,840 --> 00:04:44,400 I'm so sad. 61 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:49,200 I'm so sad that you're excited. I'm like, "Aw." 62 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,840 Because there is a war in Ukraine, 63 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:58,400 it makes me so nervous that they're even going anywhere near there. 64 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,000 I know they're not going into Ukraine. 65 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:05,160 Just the fact that they're gonna be near there makes me a wreck. 66 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,320 It scares me. It's not good timing. 67 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:14,480 What is your initial plan? When you get there, what's the first thing you wanna do? 68 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:20,080 Right away? Your mom's gonna meet you at the airport? Mm-hm. Awesome. 69 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:22,560 Then you'll plan things with your friends, or...? 70 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:26,000 Have they made decisions on where they're going? 71 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,640 Oh, OK. 72 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:39,840 There's just a little part of me way deep down inside that is like, 73 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:43,840 "What if Yara wants to stay?" 74 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:49,080 That scares me. Knowing that she's going and she's gonna see her people again, 75 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:52,360 and it makes me nervous that she would wanna stick around. 76 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:55,760 It's emotional. 77 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,880 You took a little nap? 78 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,760 We are at New Orleans Airport right now, 79 00:06:10,840 --> 00:06:13,400 and we are finally going to Europe. 80 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,080 How do you feel? 81 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:17,680 You don't look so excited. 82 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:22,000 Mylah looks excited. She's ready to roll her bag around. 83 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:26,560 Do you have your Green Card? Yeah. All right. Good. 84 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:31,720 You gonna miss me? 85 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,160 You're coming with me whether you like it or not. 86 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,640 Jovi, obviously. Yara, I love you. 87 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:43,320 Text me. Let me know y'all good. You gotta ask her. You know I'm not gonna do it. 88 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:46,120 Shut up. You're gonna. Answer me when I text you. 89 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:47,960 OK, let's go...(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 90 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:50,000 I love you. I know. You say, "Babushka." 91 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:51,680 I love you. 92 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,840 Say, "Babushka." 93 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:58,120 Say bye-bye to Babushka. 94 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,960 (MYLAH CRIES) Oh. Bye. 95 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:10,320 We'll see Babushka after, OK? 96 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,480 All right. We are about to take off from New Orleans. 97 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,160 We have Mylah with her headset here. 98 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,600 Ready, baby? Yay. 99 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,880 Because I think Europe will be different 100 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,560 since the war's going on, 101 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:46,600 so I have no idea what to expect when we will land, 102 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:48,640 and that scares me. 103 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,160 Mylah, you can't hear if you unplug it. 104 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:13,560 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 105 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,440 It's not a bribe. That is so not a bribe. 106 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:25,280 So, the other woman brought a sheep or goat. 107 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:27,000 May I say something, please? 108 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,160 Oh, no, no, no, no, no. May I speak? 109 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:39,280 Usman and I are here to meet his family and get the blessing, 110 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,200 and it is going way worse than I ever thought it was going to go. 111 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:45,080 The cow didn't even help me. 112 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:48,360 They think I'm being disrespectful, and I'm trying to bribe them. 113 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,240 If I can't change their opinion of me, 114 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,040 I don't think I'll get this blessing, 115 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:55,200 and I will never get a second chance. 116 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,080 So what do I do now, you know? 117 00:08:59,560 --> 00:09:02,120 May I speak now? Is that OK? 118 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,760 You can go. Let me hear you. 119 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:09,800 I really wish that you can get to know me for who I am. 120 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,160 Everything I do is from my heart. 121 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:16,640 People that know me would die if they thought 122 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:19,640 that your family would think I would bribe somebody. 123 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:21,720 How dare you say that. 124 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,720 That I'd give anything as a bribe. 125 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,680 That's not my fault. That's not my problem. 126 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:31,720 I am not that kind of person. 127 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:35,640 And if you don't agree with me and you'll never accept me, that's fine. 128 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:38,120 That's perfectly fine. I'll go home, OK. 129 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,560 I know I'm not the perfect woman for him, but the love is there. 130 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:44,520 I didn't buy the cow for a bribe. 131 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,360 I am not that kind of person. 132 00:09:49,560 --> 00:09:51,240 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 133 00:09:58,560 --> 00:10:01,840 They're just not seeing me for who I am. They're not seeing anything. 134 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:03,560 It's like talking to a brick wall. 135 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:07,080 I understand that Usman's ex-wife hurt them terribly. 136 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,880 It didn't just hurt Usman, it hurt his family, too. 137 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,160 But they're stereotyping me, and this is how all Americans are, 138 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:14,840 but I'm not like her, 139 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,240 and I feel really dumb that I have to defend myself this much. 140 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:24,760 I can't. 141 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:33,200 I make him happy. I know that's hard to believe. 142 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:38,040 I'm willing to accept so much because I make him happy, OK. 143 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,480 I'm willing to let him take a second wife. 144 00:10:41,560 --> 00:10:43,400 Me allowing him to have a second wife, 145 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,200 that's a lot for me in my culture. 146 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,200 I can't have children. I'm 51 years old. 147 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:49,240 I have a 26-year-old son. 148 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,760 She was saying that she wish I can marry from my region first. 149 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:28,760 Of course, and you should. No, first. Oh. 150 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,880 And have a child first. 151 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:27,600 She don't think she'll continue listening to you guys. 152 00:12:27,680 --> 00:12:30,080 That you guys should just go and leave her first. 153 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:36,600 That she want you guys out. OK. 154 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,080 Oh, no. She walked out. That's fine. 155 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,720 Thank you. OK, thank you very much. 156 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,000 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 157 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:51,200 Bye. Thank you. Bye-bye. 158 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:06,200 I feel bad my mom leaving because... 159 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,240 We never expected it to be this hard. 160 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:20,040 She didn't give me the time of day. 161 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:23,640 I respect her. I respect her opinion like I said, 162 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:25,640 but I'm not gonna be the second wife. 163 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:28,400 That's not what I want. That's not what I came here for. 164 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:31,080 But we really don't know what we're gonna do now. 165 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:33,040 It was bad experience. 166 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:35,360 Like, there's just no chance. What's the point? 167 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:48,250 2 00:14:10.120 -- 00:14:12.560 align:middle line:90% position:50% Hey, where are you? 168 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:21,520 So, Ed thought that I was hooking up with a girl. 169 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:34,160 (TAWNY SPEAKS) 170 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:46,080 I just wanna find the ring and give it back to Ed, 171 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:48,960 and I don't think I can do this any more. 172 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:00,560 I wanna go back to look for the ring 173 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,720 because at this point, even though it doesn't mean anything to me, 174 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:07,000 I still know Ed dropped an enormous amount of money, 175 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:10,040 and I would like to give it back to him 176 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:13,760 because he told me we're never gonna get married, and... 177 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:19,040 ..I don't know if this ring will ever have meaning again. 178 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:31,960 (CAR ALARM BEEPING) 179 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:33,640 (SIGHS) 180 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:50,120 (CAR ALARM STOPS) 181 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:31,960 I know that Ed will have a hard time finding true love. 182 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:06,520 Oh, hi. That's you. Hello. 183 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:11,880 I called Tawny because she saw me overcome the lowest of lows, 184 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:17,160 and I wanna see my best friend right now. 185 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:19,640 I'm pissed. I'm hurt. 186 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,200 He felt that I was cheating on him with her. 187 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,960 What the fuck? This is, like, stupid, though. 188 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:27,800 It really is. 189 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:31,960 Liz, like, I'm done with you letting him walk all over you. 190 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:34,760 I really am. I really am. 191 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:36,440 You deserve so much better. 192 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:38,120 You're a badass fucking bitch. 193 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:40,680 I just don't feel like he walks all over me, like... 194 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:44,840 I do. I'm sorry. I do feel that way. 195 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:53,640 Tonight was supposed to be the night that we proved our love, 196 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:56,400 and it's a joke. 197 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,760 In this moment, I would rather be single. 198 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:01,320 I intended on being single for a while, 199 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:03,360 and things just happened with Ed. 200 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,240 And after everything tonight, 201 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:11,040 I'm starting to second guess being in this relationship. 202 00:18:11,120 --> 00:18:14,280 If Ed and I break up over this, 203 00:18:14,360 --> 00:18:17,400 I definitely think that it's over for good. 204 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:20,360 I really don't know where we go from here. 205 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:47,120 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 206 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:03,240 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 207 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:15,840 So, today's the very first day of Ramadan. 208 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,240 We pray five times a day. 209 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,880 Our first morning prayer is right before dawn. 210 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:22,600 It's called Fajr. 211 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,000 Ready? Yeah. 212 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:50,480 Babe... Baby. ..this is your sauce. 213 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,240 This is a barbeque sauce. 214 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:01,040 I'm sure it's gonna be good, but I would season it 215 00:20:01,120 --> 00:20:03,120 and put a little different sauce, whatever. 216 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,680 This sauce is the bomb. I'm sure. I'm sure. 217 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,200 The month of Ramadan is a time of fasting. 218 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:14,200 We fast from sun up to sun down, 219 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:17,600 so that we always have God on our mind. 220 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:21,480 So there's no food, there's no liquid, 221 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:24,640 no sexual relations with spouses, anything like that. 222 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:29,200 From a symbolic standpoint, when you come out of Ramadan, 223 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,520 you should be a new version of yourself. 224 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:35,240 Some of the little things that sometimes usually get on your nerves, 225 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,200 well, you try to dismiss those things, 226 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,400 and you try to become a better person, 227 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:42,000 and not always looking at the fault of somebody else, 228 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:43,800 but look at your own faults. 229 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:54,800 Tonight will be the first breaking of the fast for us in Ramadan, 230 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,200 so I've decided to invite Bilal's family. 231 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:00,400 I just wanna enjoy this special moment 232 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:03,400 with the people who I really do care about. 233 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:11,000 No, no, no. You said whipped cream. 234 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:14,960 I didn't ask for whipped cream. Yeah, that's what you said. I asked for full cream. 235 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,880 That means normal milk. 236 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:22,760 Got you. However, we don't call that here 237 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:24,600 cos it don't say full cream. 238 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:27,920 OK. Nothing on here says cream at all. 239 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:34,640 I think we have different ways of speaking and referring to things. 240 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,200 He corrects me all the time. 241 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,480 Like, when Bilal comes home, I'll be like... 242 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:45,920 "What you said? The word is heat. You don't say hot. 243 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:50,000 Repeat after me. I'm going to heat your food." 244 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,040 I'm from Trinidad. This is how I speak. 245 00:21:52,120 --> 00:21:55,000 I'll be back. Thank you. 246 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,120 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 247 00:22:07,360 --> 00:22:10,800 That's a forbidden topic right now. 248 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:14,000 I feel like Bilal is going to use Ramadan to not bring it up. 249 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,400 "Oh, I don't... Now is not the time." 250 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:20,440 We got the results from the doctor's office last week. 251 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,680 I wish he could have been like, 252 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,680 "OK, I sympathise with you, but this is the plan. Next." 253 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:28,240 It's still up in the air. 254 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,920 I think that will help apply pressure to Bilal 255 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:47,320 to finally have the conversation with me on what do we do next. 256 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:56,250 2 00:23:03.480 -- 00:23:07.400 align:middle line:90% position:50% You unpacked all your clothes. I guess now it's time for me to unpack mine. 257 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:24,480 Um, what are you up to? 258 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:30,440 If you remember, I told you that I'm going to meet my family. 259 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,600 OK. 260 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:38,800 Actually, I invited all of them to meet me now. 261 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:40,680 Hm. 262 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,360 We are back from the honeymoon. 263 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:48,080 We had a great time, and we are back to our house. 264 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,760 We are back to the reality, 265 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:53,320 and I'm hoping to get back to work soon, 266 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:56,600 but today, I'm going to meet my family. 267 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:02,760 I'm very nervous and a bit scared, 268 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,920 but I want my parents to understand our love 269 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,800 and accept my relationship with Jenny. 270 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:13,040 Will you come with me over there? 271 00:24:13,120 --> 00:24:15,880 No. Actually, I have a lot of unpacking to do, 272 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,080 and have to straighten out the closet, 273 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,760 and I still have to mop the floor and stuff. 274 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,560 So, you don't wanna go with me? 275 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,000 No, I don't want to. 276 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:42,520 OK. 277 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,400 Sumit's getting ready to go and see his family, 278 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:51,280 and he thinks he's gonna talk to them and convince them to accept me as his wife, 279 00:24:51,360 --> 00:24:53,480 and I'm thinking, "What a waste of time." 280 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,920 He's never gonna convince them. They're never going to accept me. 281 00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,200 And he's trying to keep me happy, 282 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:04,840 but he's trying to convince his parents to please be happy for him, 283 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:08,280 but now it's starting to get old. 284 00:25:08,360 --> 00:25:13,240 He made the decision to marry me, and that part should be done. 285 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:20,080 Well, I hope everything goes fine, and they don't give you too much of a hard time. 286 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:26,800 It's been a few weeks since I told them that Jenny and I are married. 287 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,960 I haven't talked to my parents... 288 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,800 ..and I'm hoping... 289 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,280 ..now they're calmed down. 290 00:25:37,360 --> 00:25:41,160 I know Jenny thinks, according to the American way, 291 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:44,560 like, your parents are mean to you and mean to your wife, 292 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,680 and you should just let them go, 293 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,360 but I cannot let that happen. 294 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,640 They're my parents. I know they love me. 295 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,560 So my efforts will never stop. 296 00:26:07,360 --> 00:26:08,960 (SPEAKING IN OWN LANGUAGE) 297 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:58,360 I'm trying to hide it right now, but I am hurt. 298 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:09,000 ..because I thought my parents will come, and I will talk to them. 299 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,000 I now have to talk to my parents through my aunt, 300 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,920 which is making me upset 301 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:19,080 because now I know that there's no improvement 302 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,640 in the relationship with my parents. 303 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:32,840 (SURAT SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 304 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,240 (AMIT SPEAKS) 305 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,480 (SURAT SPEAKS) 306 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,040 (SUMIT SPEAKS) 307 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,320 (SURAT SPEAKS) 308 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,280 I would say that life would be easier for me 309 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,560 if I would be with someone else instead of Jenny, 310 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:31,240 but I don't think that I will be as happy as I am. 311 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:35,240 (SURAT SPEAKS) 312 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:53,160 You are wrong. You're wrong. 313 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:04,320 Fuck you, Michael. I'm done. I'm getting on my plane. 314 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,000 Nope. Fuck you. 315 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:09,600 I didn't wanna see Michael again. 316 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,760 After what happened at his house last night, 317 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,560 I really, truly was done, 318 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:18,680 but Rene convinced me to give him a chance to right his wrongs, 319 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,640 but a man can't right the wrongs if in their mind they're not wrong. 320 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:27,240 And to make things worse, he won't even show his wife what's on his phone. 321 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,880 What am I supposed to think? 322 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,400 Are you scamming me? Are you cheating on me? You're doing something. 323 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:38,920 Right now, I don't know what to feel because... 324 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,120 (ANGELA SPEAKS) 325 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,840 That doesn't mean I'm gonna make the decision to stay 326 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,640 because Michael's gotta own up what he's done, 327 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,200 and if he don't... 328 00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:58,880 Angie. 329 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,080 Michael. 330 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,600 Angie. Michael, I don't wanna talk right now. 331 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,440 Michael, don't follow me. 332 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,400 I'm not ready for this yet. 333 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,440 I didn't even wanna be here, Michael. 334 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,400 No, I don't know you love me. 335 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,720 What do you think was gonna happen when you put Instagram up? Tell me. 336 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,160 I said, "No." 337 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,560 It's a bad idea. You're not gonna have it. 338 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,240 You don't need a double income. 339 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,600 OK. Then you made your choice. You want money? 340 00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:36,760 There's no... Please, please... 341 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,480 I don't give a goddamn about no money, bitch. 342 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,600 Bitch. Fuck you and your goddamn money, bitch. 343 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,960 You opportunist. 344 00:34:47,240 --> 00:34:50,400 Why can't I trust you? Because you fucking are un-trustable. 345 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:55,760 He doesn't need to make money off of social media 346 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,320 because, really, how much money is he gonna make? 347 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,840 You've got to be, I don't know how to say this without being rude, 348 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,680 but interesting. 349 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:07,480 Like, he doesn't have charisma, and you know what? 350 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:09,280 (ANGELA SPEAKS) 351 00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,160 ..so maybe his plan to be an influencer 352 00:35:12,240 --> 00:35:14,960 and make money off of social media is a cover-up. 353 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,680 The only reason my husband, Michael, would block me 354 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:19,840 is because he's flirting with women. 355 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,200 Yes or no? 356 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,920 So why the fuck do you think you can do it now? 357 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:38,920 You're not gonna do it no more. 358 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:44,320 I hate that Michael's got my mind thinking all these kind of ways, 359 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:48,280 but he's making me connect the dots because he's not gonna tell me the truth, 360 00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:53,040 and the fact that he won't hand over his phone is definitely making me more suspicious. 361 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,720 You sound so... Let me put it this way. 362 00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,600 I sound... Yeah. Argh. 363 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,520 Yeah. You're absolutely right. I'll explode. 364 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,360 Can I tell you why I did that? 365 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:27,160 It started out two or three videos to get your attention. 366 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,480 "Don't do that. Take it down." That's what I thought, 367 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:42,040 but you didn't respond. 368 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,960 Yeah, because like this, I can't trust you. You broke... 369 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:56,640 You broke trust so many times. 370 00:36:56,720 --> 00:36:59,000 Michael, I wanna say this, and then you can talk. 371 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,840 Your visa is about here. 372 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,880 Oh, you smile? Angie. 373 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,880 Lou said you're about here, and you know what he told me also? 374 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:19,880 If we're having problems now with you doing this IG, 375 00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:23,760 shit you knew that would upset me, "File for divorce. Pull the visas." 376 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,440 No. That's what you need to ask yourself. 377 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:32,360 If your heart ain't in it for you and me... 378 00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:37,280 ..I want no part of it. 379 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,720 You either put Instagram down because you want to, 380 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,920 because you love me, and it's hurting me... 381 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:46,160 Then you show me. 382 00:37:46,240 --> 00:37:48,400 For Michael to prove to me that he loves me, 383 00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,840 he's not a scammer, he'll take that Instagram down 384 00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,160 because it has always caused problems, 385 00:37:53,240 --> 00:37:57,440 and he needs to show his wife that I'm more important than material shit. 386 00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:01,760 And I want him to do it because he sees what it's causing in our relationship. 387 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:05,120 I'm gonna give you time to think cos I'm getting ready to go. 388 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:10,000 No, no, no, no. You sit here and think about it. 389 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,200 If you wanna be an opportunist, you be that, 390 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,200 but you won't be it with me. 391 00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,240 You know what you gotta do. 392 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,680 I'm going, Mike. 393 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,560 No, I got it. 394 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,240 I'll see you tomorrow or I won't. 395 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:18,250 2 00:39:46.240 -- 00:39:48.320 align:middle line:90% position:50% YARA: We finally made it to Czech Republic. 396 00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,760 The flight was really nice. 397 00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,080 I didn't have to watch Mylah a whole lot. 398 00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,640 Yeah, Jovi... 399 00:39:58,240 --> 00:40:01,080 Feel good, just a little bit tired, but excited. 400 00:40:02,720 --> 00:40:05,600 Feels so good to be out of the United States. 401 00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,000 I'm finally... I'm so happy to be here. 402 00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,120 Yeah. That's me. 403 00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:24,680 I feel excited to see my mom. I haven't seen her for two and a half years. 404 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,200 (YARA CHUCKLES) (JOVI CHUCKLES) 405 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,400 Ah, she got you flowers. 406 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:44,760 (OLGA SOBS) (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 407 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,480 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 408 00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,200 She's gonna sleep for a long time, too, I think. 409 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,480 She's saying she looks like you. That she looks like me? 410 00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:10,920 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 411 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:38,200 All right. Let's go. Let's go. 412 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,640 Hm? 413 00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:20,320 We just had the meeting with my family, and it didn't go well. 414 00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:24,680 It's so frustrating that they don't even wanna see Kimberly for who she is, 415 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:30,640 but Kimberly and I need to sit down and think what is going to help us in this situation. 416 00:43:30,720 --> 00:43:34,400 If it wasn't your family and somebody would have said some of that stuff to me, 417 00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,160 I would have been out that door. You know me. 418 00:43:37,240 --> 00:43:38,840 Be like, "Excuse me." 419 00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:40,520 I kept my composure pretty well. 420 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,240 Like, "Excuse me." Are you proud of me, though? I am. 421 00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:51,080 Hey... Might be the last time... Might be the last couple of days we do it. 422 00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,520 We just left all of that, and you're chilling. 423 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:57,520 I wish I had your confidence cos I just don't feel it right now. 424 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:01,080 I know. 425 00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,800 This went worse than anything we could have expected. 426 00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:14,200 If the tables were turned, my family and my friends would never ever judge Usman like this. Ever. 427 00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:18,440 I wish his family would have opened their minds up a little bit more 428 00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,960 instead of just seeing me as his ex-wife. 429 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,200 I feel like they didn't give me a fair chance. 430 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:28,520 Honestly, I never thought that they were gonna just get up and greet me with open arms 431 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,120 and hug me and welcome me into the family. 432 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,400 I just didn't know it was gonna be so hostile. 433 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:38,640 (SIGHS) Man. 434 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,240 (SIGHS) 435 00:44:50,240 --> 00:44:53,520 I don't even know what to say, to be honest. 436 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:55,640 (GROANS) 437 00:44:55,720 --> 00:44:57,800 Like, the bribe thing is what got me. 438 00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:02,240 I was thinking when you said you allow me to get a second wife for me to get children... 439 00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:08,840 What I'm saying here is that... 440 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:18,560 But I hope you have seen how much I love you. 441 00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:21,960 I know. I know. Believe me. I totally get it. 442 00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:27,000 Oh, I know. Yeah, obviously. 443 00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:30,520 So... 444 00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:33,160 ..what she said... 445 00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,000 Before you marry me. 446 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:46,920 You know I love you. I don't have to tell you that. Then it's over. 447 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,600 I'm not gonna be the second wife. 448 00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,920 I can't. I can't let myself be like that. 449 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:52,600 But do you think...? 450 00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,920 Cos the whole thing of marrying me first is to make me the first wife, 451 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,120 and then have this other woman for children. 452 00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:01,520 I think that was a lot, and I respect the fact that she said that, 453 00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,360 and that's a lot, but for me, I won't do that. 454 00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:08,720 I won't be anybody's second anything. 455 00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:13,480 When they said that I could be the second wife 456 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,080 and whoever he picks could be the first, 457 00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:19,960 I was just like, "OK, OK. No." In my head, I'm like, "Hell, no." 458 00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:24,200 In a way, his mom was giving me a compromise, but I can't make any more exceptions 459 00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:27,880 because I have exactly what I want now, like, his love, 460 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:31,600 and I feel like the love he has for me now would change with that. 461 00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:36,400 Getting the title of the first wife is so important to me 462 00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,960 because in previous relationships, I always came second. Always. 463 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:44,120 I was always pushed to the side, and I'm not gonna let that happen to me again. 464 00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,000 I don't care if he came here right now 465 00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:48,720 and proposed to me with the biggest diamond in the world. 466 00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:52,400 I'm not his second. Sorry, I can't. I know my worth. 467 00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,680 I don't mind you being first or second. I don't care. I just wanna be with you. 468 00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:01,480 I know, and I understand that, but I can't. I can't. 469 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,520 You can't be second? No. OK. Fine. 470 00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,520 We're in this together. 471 00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,200 You are in Sokoto. 472 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:14,600 Yes. 473 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,320 Solutions. OK. 474 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:22,400 I don't know what else I can do to prove I'm a good person, but I will. I'll do it. 475 00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,560 Yeah. And I'm willing to fight with you, 476 00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:26,600 but I'm not willing to be second anything. 477 00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:30,320 So I'm willing to see what we can do in the next couple of days, 478 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,960 and then if things just don't, I can't. 479 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,600 OK. 480 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,920 Let's refresh our brain. OK. 481 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:19,880 Let's take that away from us. Let's have some rest. 482 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,560 Then in the morning... From now until morning, 483 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:27,920 I promise you I can come up with something. OK. I love you, though. I love you. 484 00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:45,880 JENNY: Hi. SUMIT: Hi, baby. 485 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,760 How did everything go? 486 00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,600 Can you make some tea? Sure. 487 00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:02,880 Well, so... 488 00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,160 ..how did it go? 489 00:49:08,720 --> 00:49:10,800 Meh. 490 00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:40,840 Your parents didn't show up? 491 00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:46,960 My mother didn't wanna come, 492 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:52,960 and she sent my brother and my sister-in-law and my mother's sister, my aunt... 493 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:55,920 ..so that was quite surprising. 494 00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:02,000 And the conversation didn't go very well 495 00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:05,800 just because what the family's going through. 496 00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:10,720 It has a lot to do with people are calling them 497 00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:12,400 and saying that, like... 498 00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:21,480 Teasing sometime, like... 499 00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:24,160 Wow. Who's teasing? 500 00:50:24,240 --> 00:50:29,800 Neighbours, our relatives, our friends, and... 501 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,600 And I don't know why they're thinking 502 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:41,080 that you are a reason for destroying a family. 503 00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:46,520 See? The drama is not gonna stop. 504 00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:51,480 If they would just stand up and be strong and support you, support us together as a couple, 505 00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,120 everybody would back off and knock it off. 506 00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:02,160 That will never gonna happen. Then it's time to go to America. That's what I say. 507 00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:06,320 Cos there's nothing else left to do. 508 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,720 If they're not gonna accept me, I'm not gonna keep living here in India 509 00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:11,640 and keeping you here in India for them. 510 00:51:11,720 --> 00:51:13,320 I'm sorry. 511 00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:16,400 I don't wanna take you from them, but it's gonna happen 512 00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,760 because what they're doing to me is not fair. That's not right. 513 00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:24,040 In America, my family doesn't do that. 514 00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:25,720 They don't behave that way, 515 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,560 so we would be doing a lot better over there. 516 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:38,160 My daughters are there, and my grandkids are there, and they accept you, 517 00:51:38,240 --> 00:51:41,680 and so we would live a very happy life there. 518 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,280 We would be accepted, so I think it's a good idea. 519 00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:49,000 I've put up with Sumit's parents for years. 520 00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:53,120 I think it's time for Sumit to make a sacrifice for me now, 521 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:56,520 and move to America and see how life is away from his parents. 522 00:51:58,280 --> 00:51:59,880 What do you think? 523 00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:17,920 Kind of their fault, isn't it? 524 00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:22,360 Don't be afraid to leave India and experience my country. 525 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:24,680 I left my country and experienced yours, so... 526 00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,440 But you like Indian life better. 527 00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:32,960 I like India, but I'm struggling here with your family, though. 528 00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:35,920 You don't wanna leave India and go to my country? 529 00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:41,320 Not really. 530 00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:45,960 No? Well, what do you want me to do, leave and go to America by myself? 531 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:55,880 Moving to America, I think that will show my family that she's taking me away from them, 532 00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,280 and that will make the situation worse, 533 00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:02,960 but if I will have a kid, that might make them happy. 534 00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:05,880 This is also a good reason to stay in India. 535 00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:15,800 So I don't know how she gonna feel about it, 536 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:20,480 but it might change our relationship for good. 537 00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,200 OK. Let's see. 538 00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:30,250 2 00:53:36.240 -- 00:53:37.920 align:middle line:90% position:50% Well, the food is delicious. 539 00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:41,760 NEFERTARI: Mohammed says, "Real good." 540 00:53:52,720 --> 00:53:54,320 So, we made it through. 541 00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:56,680 Everybody's quiet. I think that's a good sign. 542 00:53:59,720 --> 00:54:03,520 RAHEEM: How's your yoga? 543 00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,920 (SHAEEDA SPEAKS) 544 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:13,360 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 545 00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:21,920 So, this is your first Ramadan together being married. 546 00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,720 Yeah, so how's that going? 547 00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:26,880 We've been separated for two years... Mm-hm. 548 00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:30,480 ..and the first Ramadan that came, we were like, 549 00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:33,240 "I hope we're gonna be reunited the following year." 550 00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:35,440 Then that year came, and nothing happened, 551 00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:39,560 so it feels really good that this is our first Ramadan together. 552 00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:43,480 I was gonna wait for 20 years if I had to. Aw. 553 00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:45,920 Listen... 554 00:54:47,240 --> 00:54:50,120 No, "Aw." 555 00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:56,560 So, since the wedding day, what's been happening? 556 00:54:56,640 --> 00:55:00,600 Well, that's it. After the wedding, it's like, "What's next for us?" 557 00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,360 And I was hoping... 558 00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:08,400 He's looking at me like, "What are you going to say?" 559 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:13,840 I don't know. Maybe a family. Mm-hm. 560 00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:16,480 We have a family. 561 00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:21,280 Hm. 562 00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:23,640 How long did it take for you to get...? 563 00:55:23,720 --> 00:55:25,520 I know Momma... Really? 564 00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:30,680 You really gonna bring me into this conversation now? 565 00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:33,720 This one right here is the miracle. 566 00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:36,360 So how old was you when you had this one? I was 43. 567 00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,000 43. 568 00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:44,720 How old are you? 37. Hm. 569 00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:53,000 OK, so not now. When? 570 00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:54,680 When do you think? 571 00:55:55,720 --> 00:55:58,160 Don't cough now. 572 00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,040 Ah, in, like, two or three. 573 00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,400 Two or three? I think that'll be good. 574 00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:09,240 Before 40. That's before 40. 575 00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:12,000 We did just get married, right? I mean, I get it. 576 00:56:15,720 --> 00:56:19,280 It is super frustrating that Bilal doesn't wanna talk about 577 00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:22,040 how serious this is for me. 578 00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:24,480 When you hear what a doctor has to say, like... 579 00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:30,040 By the time I'm 40, the chances of getting pregnant is really low. 580 00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:31,920 When it comes to going into details, 581 00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,080 I don't want the whole family to get so involved, 582 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:39,720 but at the same time, I still wanna speak to Bilal's mom and his sister 583 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:43,760 so they can hear and listen, and they know exactly where I'm coming from 584 00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:47,600 when I say that I really wanna get pregnant very soon. 585 00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:52,800 So much has been going on since I haven't seen you guys. 586 00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:56,320 Mm-hm. When it comes to having children, 587 00:56:56,400 --> 00:57:00,640 I was like, "I wanna go to check out an OB-GYN, 588 00:57:00,720 --> 00:57:03,840 a doctor, to see what's going on with me." 589 00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:07,240 Um, so we did a blood test. 590 00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:13,160 We got back that test last week, and the doctor's like, 591 00:57:13,240 --> 00:57:18,640 "Your ovarian results came back very low." Mm-hm. 592 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:21,880 He also said by the time I'm 40, 593 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:25,880 the chances of having a child would be five per cent. 594 00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:28,320 Whoa. Yeah. Really? 595 00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:30,960 Oh, my gosh. 596 00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:38,000 He was with you at the doctor's office when the doctor gave you the results? 597 00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:43,280 When we came back home, we just never raise the topic again. 598 00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:45,840 We never raise it. We never talk about it, 599 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:50,440 but I know for sure we need to have this conversation... Yeah. 600 00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:54,880 ..because I need to find out from him when will he be ready. 601 00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,200 So... 602 00:57:57,280 --> 00:58:02,400 earlier, Bilal said it was kind of, like, in the two-year frame. 603 00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:06,400 Yeah, I think although the consult 604 00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:09,640 said somewhere around 40 is the deadline, 605 00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,240 I think Bilal is waiting for that 40. 606 00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:15,040 He's not saying that he doesn't want any children. 607 00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:20,640 He's not saying that, but his actions shows it. Hm. 608 00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:25,080 I was 43 having my first child, 609 00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:28,360 you know, and so I can see where she might not wanna be... 610 00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:31,560 ..43, maybe not even 40. 611 00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:35,680 You wanna go ahead and have a baby as soon as you can, so I really could feel for her. 612 00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,960 If she doesn't get an answer soon, 613 00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:41,280 it's like, how much pressure she gonna be able to take, and how long? 614 00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:45,840 So, the two of you need to have that conversation. 615 00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:52,040 Now that they're kind of getting these kind of answers from the doctor, 616 00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,760 it's something definitely that they need to discuss 617 00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:58,040 and come to a conclusion on 618 00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,440 so they're both on the same page. 619 00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:05,640 Something this major could be very bad 620 00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,480 if they can't come to an agreement. 621 00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:13,840 I know he doesn't wanna be pressured into these things, 622 00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:17,240 but I just don't wanna miss out on that opportunity of being a mother, 623 00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:20,720 and I want Bilal to see how much it means, like, argh. 624 00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:24,040 I understand. 625 00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:28,320 I cannot sustain this any longer. 626 00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:30,400 Bilal needs to fight his fears. 627 00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,200 He needs to face the music. 628 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,680 JOVI: Ah, there's a lot of space back here for bags, at least. 629 01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:13,120 We just arrived to Prague. 630 01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:15,960 We're heading to the hotel. Get a shower, clean up, 631 01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:18,680 and I feel full of energy now that I'm here, 632 01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:21,800 so I wanna have a couple of drinks and enjoy my time in Europe. 633 01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:27,360 Oh, are you tired? Of course, I am. 634 01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:31,760 Go take a nap, or are you gonna go spend some time with your mom? That's what you should do. 635 01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:34,920 Yeah, probably. 636 01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:37,560 I have pretty good advice. Yeah. 637 01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:44,960 (YARA SPEAKS) Yes. 638 01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:46,800 The fuck? How's this thing work? 639 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:52,880 Jovi. What? I know. Take your hand away. 640 01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:58,480 Oh. There we go. Got it. Yeah. 641 01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:08,760 Nope. 642 01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:11,000 Who just got a driver's licence? 643 01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:20,560 It doesn't mean, just cos you went to driving school and you got a driver's licence 644 01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:24,320 that you can tell me how to drive. I'm a better driver than you. 645 01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:28,840 You're not a better driver than me, so do not tell me how to drive in Europe or America. 646 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,240 I wanna go shower. 647 01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:40,760 Yeah. Did do you wanna go to eat or what? Oh, eat and shower. Both. 648 01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:42,680 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 649 01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:51,560 (OLGA SPEAKS) 650 01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:02,600 On the drive now to the hotel, all I hear is, "(SPEAKS GIBBERISH) Jovi." 651 01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:04,280 "Jovi this. Jovi that." 652 01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:08,400 If you're gonna talk about me, at least speak in my language, or don't talk about me. 653 01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:12,760 Yeah, probably not. 654 01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:15,600 Probably means amazing human being. 655 01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:20,560 Jovi, people walking in the streets. 656 01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:22,800 Look at that. Oh, my goodness. People... 657 01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:24,880 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 658 01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:27,040 (OLGA SPEAKS) 659 01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:34,120 Did you press it? You didn't press it. 660 01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:54,360 Look who's there. Hey. Look, it's Daddy. 661 01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:57,320 Wanna come with me? Wanna go with Daddy? 662 01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:00,600 Come on. (CHUCKLES) 663 01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:03,160 Come on, little girl. 664 01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:06,440 Do you feel better after showering? 665 01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:09,960 Yeah, I get the shower, and I was thinking Mylah will cry with my mom, 666 01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:13,200 and she actually goes to her. Really? 667 01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:17,080 I fell asleep, and they go to walk somewhere. Perfect. 668 01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:19,720 She must remember your mom's voice from the phone. 669 01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:40,360 Mylah, what you doing? 670 01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:42,040 (LAUGHS) 671 01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,440 They're getting along already, right? 672 01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:49,000 If she spends a good three days with your mom, I was thinking maybe we could have her babysit. 673 01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:54,040 Yeah? 674 01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:57,320 Mom said she will stay with her. Perfect. That's what I wanna hear. 675 01:04:57,400 --> 01:04:59,000 We definitely need a babysitter. 676 01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:02,960 She understand? 677 01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:07,400 She says she will. Perfect. Don't worry about. 678 01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:12,000 Ask your mom if she wants to come and be Mylah's full-time babysitter in the US. 679 01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:24,560 She doesn't like it because you can't return to your country 680 01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:28,560 for ten years when you apply for refugee. Oh, yeah. OK. 681 01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:33,560 She ask you if she can do it in Prague. 682 01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:53,240 What? I don't like when y'all talk in another language speaking my name all the time. 683 01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:57,800 What y'all saying about me? 684 01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:03,240 Jovi, what? Why you keep saying that? 685 01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:06,600 Learn the language, Jovi. 686 01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:10,320 Did you say, "I love Jovi. He's the best husband in the world." Yes. I did. 687 01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:15,440 We've only been here for a few hours with my mom and already 688 01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:18,440 it's making me, honestly, wanna stay here for a longer time. 689 01:06:18,520 --> 01:06:20,720 It's making me wanna... 690 01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:27,040 I love my life in America, 691 01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:30,040 but that's why I'm confused because at the same time, 692 01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:34,000 I wanna spend time with my family and friends. 693 01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:37,640 So, for now, I don't know for how long I wanna stay in Europe. 694 01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:40,560 Let's have a cheers. Cheers. Nostrovia. 695 01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:44,920 (ALL SPEAK UKRAINIAN) 696 01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:52,360 Aw. 697 01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:53,250 2 01:07:04.200 -- 01:07:06.920 align:middle line:68% position:50% (ED SPEAKS) 698 01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:14,320 (LIZ SPEAKS) 699 01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:32,960 I don't wanna decide our future based on last night, 700 01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:35,560 but we have a lot of issues on both ends, 701 01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:38,120 whether you admit it or not. 702 01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:48,560 So, after our big blow-out at the engagement party, 703 01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:50,240 I'm really upset. 704 01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:53,320 I mean, she throws the ring, which is a symbol, 705 01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:55,680 and she throws it in a bush. 706 01:07:55,760 --> 01:08:00,160 That really hurt me more than anything she said, and then she's gone. 707 01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:04,360 She leaves. She later returned with the ring and went to bed. 708 01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:06,400 No words. 709 01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:10,200 It's now the morning, and I wanna talk about what happened. 710 01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:12,080 We're both sober, 711 01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:18,280 but she is as angry, if not more, right now as she was last night. 712 01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:25,040 When we first got together, you told me that you would be with a woman if it wasn't for me. 713 01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:29,160 You broke my heart so bad that I didn't want to have another breakup. 714 01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:32,920 Now that's in my head. I have never dated a woman. 715 01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:35,080 I told you, "No," but you didn't believe me. 716 01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:38,160 So, Liz, you say that, and then fast forward to last night, 717 01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:43,240 one of your gay girl friends is bracing you. Where do you think my head went? 718 01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:46,320 There's nothing wrong with being a lesbian. 719 01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:49,760 The reason that we got in a fight was because this toxic person 720 01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,760 that I told you to get rid of, that she's bad for you, 721 01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:54,560 was invited to our engagement party 722 01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:57,600 when I cut out every single one of my friends to be with you, 723 01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:59,280 including my mom and my daughter. 724 01:08:59,360 --> 01:09:03,080 Don't put that on me. Well... Do not put that on me. 725 01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:07,080 I haven't done anything to betray your trust. Get over it. 726 01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:11,880 Liz, since day one, I've had an issue with the people that are in your life. 727 01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:15,160 I don't want a girlfriend, let alone a fiancee, let alone a wife, 728 01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:18,880 that wants to have a girls night out, that wants to be in a bar. 729 01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:21,880 You want a wife? I am home with you. 730 01:09:21,960 --> 01:09:25,120 Stop making it seem like I'm this little party animal 731 01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:28,080 when we know who the party animal is. I'm not saying that. 732 01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:31,120 You drink to a point where you can't stand up. 733 01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:35,160 You drink every single night. I've never drank to the point where I can't stand up. 734 01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:37,560 You told me when you were drunk the other night 735 01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:40,440 that you would rather sleep with Alex and fuck her than me. 736 01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:43,240 What have you told me when you're drunk? You said that. 737 01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,400 To hurt you back? You tell me the same thing. 738 01:09:45,480 --> 01:09:47,920 I never say I would sleep with someone else. Bullshit. 739 01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:51,600 Right. Oh, whatever. 740 01:09:51,680 --> 01:09:54,400 I've never said that I'm gonna go screw someone else. 741 01:09:54,480 --> 01:09:57,360 I was probably drunk. I don't remember. It's not OK. 742 01:09:57,440 --> 01:10:00,160 You accuse me of something cos you're insecure. 743 01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:01,840 You're always gonna be that way. 744 01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:04,920 And I'm sorry for not letting you walk all over me any more. 745 01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:08,120 If I'm with the right woman, I'm not insecure. 746 01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:10,200 You're obviously not the right woman. 747 01:10:11,240 --> 01:10:14,160 You should have never put a ring on my finger, then. 748 01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:16,840 You made it clear I'm not the right woman. 749 01:10:16,920 --> 01:10:20,800 It's not on your finger now cos you threw our engagement ring into the bush. 750 01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:25,360 Stop telling me you're not gonna marry me. I don't need the ring. Go return it, please. 751 01:10:25,440 --> 01:10:28,120 I'm asking you nicely to leave. Oh, please. 752 01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:29,800 I'm happy to leave. 753 01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:38,760 Whatever. 754 01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:47,400 I think I rushed... I mean... 755 01:10:48,440 --> 01:10:51,120 Liz and I are separated for six months. 756 01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:53,400 Teddy dies. I'm vulnerable. 757 01:10:53,480 --> 01:10:55,920 She comes over. 758 01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:58,480 48 hours, we're engaged. 759 01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:04,600 And I did move too fast. I really think I made a big mistake. 760 01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:09,240 And Richard told me from day one, 761 01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:11,880 "You're gonna be miserable for the rest of your life." 762 01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:17,360 It's pretty much over. 763 01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:22,480 I'm the one who's always making changes, not him. 764 01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:27,320 The only thing that's really changed is he speaks for himself now, 765 01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:31,320 but all his behaviour stuff is still there. 766 01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:41,280 I do love her. 767 01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:46,640 Yeah. I don't like... We don't like to fight. 768 01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:52,120 This sucks, but Liz said a lot of things... 769 01:11:57,040 --> 01:11:59,600 Anyway, sorry. I just... 770 01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:09,800 I just feel that I... 771 01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:14,320 ..don't have any... 772 01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:17,160 I don't have anywhere to go, like, emotionally. 773 01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:18,840 Like, I don't... 774 01:12:20,280 --> 01:12:23,320 I lost half my family that were close to me... 775 01:12:25,840 --> 01:12:29,240 ..and I gave them up to be with Liz, and now I don't get to be with Liz. 776 01:12:29,320 --> 01:12:30,920 Now I'm fucked. Like, now... 777 01:12:32,520 --> 01:12:36,480 Now I'm really... I have my dogs. 778 01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:55,400 JOVI: This really is beautiful. 779 01:12:55,480 --> 01:12:57,560 TALMADGE: It is beautiful, man. 780 01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:00,920 I wish we were doing this in Ukraine, though, man. Oh, man. I know. 781 01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:15,800 Hello, sir. How are you? Can we get two beers, please? Yes. 782 01:13:18,280 --> 01:13:20,440 Talmadge is one of my friends. 783 01:13:20,520 --> 01:13:25,320 He's from Georgia, but he's been living out of the US for probably the last ten years, 784 01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:28,120 and he's now located in Germany. 785 01:13:28,200 --> 01:13:31,760 Talmadge and I met first in the US, 786 01:13:31,840 --> 01:13:33,960 and we just kind of connected and hit it off. 787 01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:37,120 We both like to travel, so we became kind of travel buddies. 788 01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:40,680 All right. Let's set up shop here, I guess. Yes, sir. 789 01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:42,640 He's come to Prague to meet up with us 790 01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:46,000 so we can catch up and spend some time together while we're here. 791 01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:48,240 Well... Cheers, dawg. Yeah, cheers. 792 01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:50,440 Good seeing you. Travelling again, right? 793 01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:52,760 Mm-hm. Never ends. 794 01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:56,200 I know. Feels good to be back at it. 795 01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:58,800 The time since we been together, man. Yeah. 796 01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:01,880 Since Ukraine, man. It's been a while, dude. Yeah. 797 01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:04,080 Like 2000-what? 798 01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:08,080 2018 we were in Ukraine. Yeah. 2018, man. It's crazy. 799 01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:12,320 The last time I saw Jovi was when we were in Ukraine. 800 01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:15,680 When me and Jovi were there, we just travelled around, 801 01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:17,360 we went to different bars, 802 01:14:17,440 --> 01:14:20,560 I'd try to get him fired up and have a good time, you know. 803 01:14:20,640 --> 01:14:23,520 Now he's with Yara. 804 01:14:23,600 --> 01:14:26,680 I was kind of dumbfounded that he actually met someone 805 01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:29,240 cos we were single, travelling, crazy friends. 806 01:14:29,320 --> 01:14:31,160 You know, strip clubs and, you know. 807 01:14:31,240 --> 01:14:34,240 And his new travel buddy was Yara, so I was like, "Damn." 808 01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:36,640 So now where's my travel buddy going? 809 01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:38,560 I feel good to be back here. 810 01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:43,880 I feel like Yara's happy, for sure. Seeing her mom and getting back to her normal... 811 01:14:43,960 --> 01:14:48,240 I know they were gonna cry when they saw each other. Oh, yeah. 812 01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:52,160 Luckily for her that her mom works here in Prague, 813 01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:54,600 and we're able to see her in a different place, 814 01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:57,720 but our biggest situation is Yara has family in western Ukraine, 815 01:14:57,800 --> 01:15:00,480 and she wants to bring them to America. 816 01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:04,040 She's OK to take in whoever wants to come, if they wanna come, 817 01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:05,720 but I don't think it's easy. 818 01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:08,400 America is taking refugees. 819 01:15:08,480 --> 01:15:12,200 We don't know where we stand and the way that falls right now. 820 01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:16,400 Whether or not her mom could come or her niece or her nephew, or... Can you come over? 821 01:15:16,480 --> 01:15:20,560 Yeah, you have to go through a visa programme, probably. Get the visa. It's not like, 822 01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:24,240 "OK. You can go to America tomorrow." It's not like that. Yeah, yeah. 823 01:15:24,320 --> 01:15:28,680 So, like, if her family was to come to the States, 824 01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:32,920 are you gonna put them in your house? Are you gonna rent them an apartment? 825 01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:35,640 I have no fucking idea. No idea? No. 826 01:15:35,720 --> 01:15:40,360 I've been thinking about it, and if we threw her mom, her sister, her nephew, her niece... 827 01:15:40,440 --> 01:15:42,800 Imagine throwing four more people in my house. 828 01:15:42,880 --> 01:15:46,960 We live in a pretty small place. We live in a two-bedroom place. It's not huge. Yeah. 829 01:15:47,040 --> 01:15:48,720 Where are these people gonna sleep? 830 01:15:48,800 --> 01:15:52,040 We have another bedroom. Are they all gonna sleep in the same room? 831 01:15:52,120 --> 01:15:55,960 I don't want somebody sleeping in my bedroom. Exactly. 832 01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:59,080 It's not easy. She might think, "Everybody come live with us," 833 01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:03,560 but if they wanted to eat somewhere, she has to get in the car and go with them. Can't drive. 834 01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:08,360 They can't drive yet, and they can't order food for their self because they don't speak English. 835 01:16:08,440 --> 01:16:11,240 And then you going for work, and then... Oh, yeah. 836 01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:15,200 ..it's gonna be her dealing with it. It's gonna put a lot of stress on her. 837 01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:17,280 You wouldn't turn them away, though? 838 01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:24,160 The big picture is a lot harder than at first glance. 839 01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:26,680 I already have a lot going on in my own life. 840 01:16:26,760 --> 01:16:30,160 To take all these other people in would just be, like, chaotic. 841 01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:34,120 Is it something that you feel like you're obligated to do because of Yara? 842 01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,120 Exactly. Exactly. Yeah. 843 01:16:39,880 --> 01:16:44,240 I think if her family comes to America, 844 01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:46,760 it's gonna be crazy hard. 845 01:16:46,840 --> 01:16:50,560 For Jovi, he's gonna have to support everything that they do. 846 01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:54,840 He's gotta support everything financially. It's gonna be a big lifestyle change, 847 01:16:54,920 --> 01:16:57,880 and I feel for Jovi and Yara, man, like, a lot. 848 01:16:57,960 --> 01:17:01,480 I feel for them, like... It's not easy, you know? 849 01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:05,960 Does Yara ever complain about certain things in America, 850 01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:08,320 like our culture versus Ukraine culture... 851 01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:11,680 Yeah. ..like the food? She hates everything about Louisiana. 852 01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:13,360 She hates the fried food. 853 01:17:13,440 --> 01:17:18,320 She's like, "Why does everybody gotta eat everything fried in Louisiana? It's so bad for you." 854 01:17:18,400 --> 01:17:22,360 I get it. I feel terrible for the fact that she came to Louisiana, and she hates it. 855 01:17:22,440 --> 01:17:24,760 It wasn't my intention, but it's a big change. 856 01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:28,360 I think this trip is our next big step into making her realise, 857 01:17:28,440 --> 01:17:30,160 "OK. I'm not stuck in America now." 858 01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:32,360 Even if her mom can't come to the US for now, 859 01:17:32,440 --> 01:17:35,600 we can still travel to meet her mom in another country. 860 01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:38,600 Do you think one day she wants to leave America and go to Europe, 861 01:17:38,680 --> 01:17:41,000 or maybe move here with her mom? Here? 862 01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:43,280 I don't wanna think about that, honestly. 863 01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:46,400 That's one thing I've been worried about. Her seeing her mom. 864 01:17:46,480 --> 01:17:49,000 I feel like after we spend a couple of weeks here, 865 01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:53,000 she's gonna be indulged in this European culture. 866 01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:55,480 She's gonna be like, "I wanna stay here." 867 01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:59,720 So, if Yara asked you to move to Europe... 868 01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:04,600 ..would you do it or not? 869 01:18:07,560 --> 01:18:09,280 No. I mean... 870 01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:11,520 I don't think that's realistic, honestly. No? 871 01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:13,240 It's not feasible right now. Yeah. 872 01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:16,080 I have a job in the US. We have a business in the US. 873 01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:18,360 Another thing too, 874 01:18:18,440 --> 01:18:21,280 I don't know if you understand the Green Card process, 875 01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:24,320 but Yara coming here for an extended period of time is not feasible 876 01:18:24,400 --> 01:18:27,160 because she has to spend 180 days in the US 877 01:18:27,240 --> 01:18:29,760 or her Green Card status can get revoked. 878 01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:31,960 Wow. Yeah. 879 01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:36,240 To get up and move to Europe and not have a plan, I don't think that's a good idea. 880 01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:39,040 You gotta have money to live life, right? Exactly. 881 01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:41,360 So you gotta be close to work, so... 882 01:18:41,440 --> 01:18:44,600 She has to understand, like, I have a job in the US. 883 01:18:44,680 --> 01:18:49,000 I've had my job before we met. You're right. It's tricky. 884 01:18:49,080 --> 01:18:51,160 It's a weird situation, man, you know? 885 01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:56,040 No matter how much Yara loves it here in Europe, 886 01:18:56,120 --> 01:19:00,000 she needs to understand that she came here to America to marry me, 887 01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:04,440 and it's the life that she wanted, so she needs to understand that. 888 01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:06,480 I need to remind her this was the deal. 889 01:19:06,560 --> 01:19:10,040 I understand that she's in an emotional state right now due to the war, 890 01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:13,320 due to the separation with her family, but this is what we agreed on. 891 01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:15,960 We have a life in America. 892 01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:19,480 Got a little bit left. Let's drink these. Cheers. Let's finish it. 893 01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:23,120 Let's hit another bar. Another bar? Yeah, another bar. Let's do it. 894 01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:26,000 We're bar-hopping, baby. Let's bar-hop. 895 01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:28,250 2 01:19:38.160 -- 01:19:41.440 align:middle line:90% position:50% KIM: Oh, it's nice out, huh? USMAN: Yeah. 896 01:19:41,520 --> 01:19:43,880 I still feel a little, like, 897 01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:48,200 I don't know, like, out of it from yesterday, you know what I mean? Mm-hm. 898 01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:50,400 (SIGHS) You wanna sit over here? 899 01:19:50,480 --> 01:19:53,280 Where? Over here. OK. 900 01:19:56,840 --> 01:19:58,480 So... 901 01:19:58,560 --> 01:20:00,720 Babe, I will show you something today. 902 01:20:00,800 --> 01:20:04,600 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 903 01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:08,600 You'll never find this kind of person 904 01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:10,960 anywhere in Nigeria except my region. Wow. 905 01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:15,320 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 906 01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:27,520 Usman is one of the cleanest people I've ever met, 907 01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:30,080 and I do like a smooth, put-together man, 908 01:20:30,160 --> 01:20:33,800 but I'm getting frustrated because we're supposed to be coming up with a plan 909 01:20:33,880 --> 01:20:39,160 to get his mom's blessing, and Usman's getting a pedicure and manicure. What is that? 910 01:20:40,920 --> 01:20:43,040 How much does this cost? 911 01:20:43,120 --> 01:20:46,640 Um, $2, $3. 912 01:20:46,720 --> 01:20:48,960 Do you know how much I pay for these? I know. 913 01:20:49,040 --> 01:20:55,000 And my feet? I know. It's, like, $150 every time. Yeah. It's crazy. 914 01:20:59,440 --> 01:21:03,280 Babe, I just wanna ask you, like, how you feeling now? 915 01:21:03,360 --> 01:21:05,440 I woke up this morning with a mindset, like, 916 01:21:05,520 --> 01:21:09,800 "OK. We got this. We can do this," you know? Mm-hm. But can we? 917 01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:14,480 Are you listening? I'm listening. 918 01:21:14,560 --> 01:21:18,840 You know I love you more than anything, you know? He's done, babe. 919 01:21:18,920 --> 01:21:21,480 I'm glad your nails look pretty. (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 920 01:21:21,560 --> 01:21:23,680 (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) 921 01:21:33,920 --> 01:21:35,880 When your mom walked out yesterday... 922 01:21:35,960 --> 01:21:39,720 Mm-hm. ..I felt like all the air just left my body. 923 01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:44,000 Yeah. And I feel like she'll never understand how we are together. 924 01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:48,400 Like, nobody sees how crazy we are and how funny we are and how in love we really are. 925 01:21:53,880 --> 01:21:57,280 I feel like they didn't give me a chance. They didn't give me a chance. 926 01:21:57,360 --> 01:21:59,440 Well, like, she was talking about... 927 01:22:00,480 --> 01:22:05,400 ..having a young lady first, which I know you're not cool with that. 928 01:22:05,480 --> 01:22:09,440 I won't stick to being anybody's second anything. That wasn't our plan. 929 01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:11,120 We wanna get engaged. 930 01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:13,240 We wanna start the K-1 visa paperwork. 931 01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:16,240 We wanna get you over with me in America. Mm-hm. 932 01:22:16,320 --> 01:22:19,000 Then be married. That was what we talked about. 933 01:22:20,840 --> 01:22:22,440 So, what do we do now? 934 01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:27,920 I think we just need to tell them our plan. 935 01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:31,680 What if they say no again after that, then what? What are we gonna do? 936 01:22:31,760 --> 01:22:34,800 Babe. Should we take it day by day, and we only have a couple days? 937 01:22:39,160 --> 01:22:41,200 But, like, we have a plan, 938 01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:43,480 and I'm not gonna differentiate from that plan. 939 01:22:43,560 --> 01:22:45,640 I'm not gonna be your second wife. I refuse. 940 01:22:45,720 --> 01:22:47,960 And if I leave here single, I leave here single. 941 01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:51,120 I love you, and I'll be heartbroken... 942 01:22:51,200 --> 01:22:54,600 Babe. Uh-huh. No, sir. But you ain't telling me that... 943 01:23:04,160 --> 01:23:08,000 I think I have done what I have never done in my life. 944 01:23:08,080 --> 01:23:13,040 After I tell the whole world that I'm not gonna be with any older lady, and here I am. 945 01:23:13,120 --> 01:23:15,920 But it happened natural, 946 01:23:16,000 --> 01:23:20,600 and I was giving you from fan to superfan, friend, potential girlfriend. 947 01:23:20,680 --> 01:23:25,840 That I find out that you love me and I love you, too, and we go into relationship. 948 01:23:32,440 --> 01:23:34,440 You're not begging me. I'm not begging you. 949 01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:36,840 I don't mean it like that. That's how it sound. 950 01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:07,200 That's not fair to me. I'm not the one telling you to be second wife. 951 01:24:07,280 --> 01:24:11,160 I'm telling you to let them know that I'm not gonna be anybody's second anything. 952 01:24:27,240 --> 01:24:28,880 The heart. 953 01:24:28,960 --> 01:24:31,120 Then maybe you should go be with them. Fine. 954 01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:34,000 I'll talk to you later. If that's what you want, fine then. 955 01:24:34,080 --> 01:24:37,840 Telling me she'll break up. At your age, at my age, you telling me to break up. 956 01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:40,480 If we break up, you think I have anything to regret? 957 01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:44,320 You need to understand that I don't need anything from any woman. 958 01:25:14,480 --> 01:25:16,800 (SNIFFLES) 959 01:25:32,880 --> 01:25:36,160 I'm not meeting anybody. I'm not seeing his family. I'm not doing this. 960 01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:38,680 I'm not doing anything. He doesn't deserve it. 961 01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:45,000 That was fucked up. That's a fucked up thing to say to me. 962 01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:48,280 I'm tired of the little fucking comments like he's doing me a favour. 963 01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:52,520 Talking about he can have a hundred at this time like I'm some ugly fucking bitch. 964 01:25:52,600 --> 01:25:54,200 Fuck him. 965 01:25:54,280 --> 01:25:58,520 Let him find one that's as good as I am. Let him find one that's as fucking loyal as I am. 966 01:25:58,600 --> 01:26:00,200 Fuck him for saying that. 967 01:26:05,600 --> 01:26:07,280 But he loves me so much. 968 01:26:08,840 --> 01:26:10,880 Does he? 969 01:26:10,960 --> 01:26:13,400 Is all this fake? You know? 970 01:26:13,480 --> 01:26:15,400 I can't... (SIGHS) 971 01:26:15,480 --> 01:26:17,400 I just don't even know... 972 01:26:17,480 --> 01:26:19,560 I don't even think I want the blessing now. 973 01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:21,800 I just don't even think... I just don't care. 974 01:26:23,680 --> 01:26:25,280 I don't know. 975 01:26:25,360 --> 01:26:27,840 Subtitles by Deluxe 976 01:26:27,920 --> 01:26:31,240 Champagne? JOVI: Yeah. 977 01:26:31,320 --> 01:26:35,160 MICHAEL: Next time on 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After?... 978 01:26:40,040 --> 01:26:41,640 We have a life back in the US. 979 01:26:41,720 --> 01:26:46,720 If this was your intention, you should have brought it up to me sooner, not bring it up to me now. 980 01:26:46,800 --> 01:26:50,880 I'm surprised that she's trying to go behind my back to plan all this with her mom. 981 01:26:53,720 --> 01:26:57,120 ANDREI: What do you mean it's not the best timing? 982 01:26:57,200 --> 01:26:59,800 LIBBY: We have found out some big news. 983 01:26:59,880 --> 01:27:04,040 But we are not telling Libby's family, that's 1,000 per cent. 984 01:27:04,120 --> 01:27:05,920 We cannot trust any of those people. 985 01:27:06,000 --> 01:27:07,720 They're here to destroy me. 986 01:27:07,800 --> 01:27:10,240 They don't like I'm here to protect myself. 987 01:27:10,320 --> 01:27:12,720 (SUMIT SPEAKS) 988 01:27:14,360 --> 01:27:18,440 Are you gonna be working seven days, or are you gonna be hanging out with your friends? 989 01:27:27,720 --> 01:27:30,960 You come home drunk, we're gonna have a problem. 990 01:27:31,040 --> 01:27:33,440 Please believe me. 991 01:27:33,520 --> 01:27:36,680 I'm sorry, but I don't trust you. 992 01:27:36,760 --> 01:27:40,520 OK. You're questioning me, like, I think it's you. 993 01:27:40,600 --> 01:27:43,160 It's very clear that this isn't going to work out. 994 01:27:44,960 --> 01:27:48,000 Why you telling me that you wanna break up with me in my town? 995 01:27:48,080 --> 01:27:49,960 I was telling you what my boundary was. 996 01:27:50,040 --> 01:27:52,720 I've dealt with this in past relationships, 997 01:27:52,800 --> 01:27:54,880 and I will never ever in my life 998 01:27:54,960 --> 01:27:57,400 let a man manipulate me again. 999 01:27:59,160 --> 01:28:01,400 I'm not against anybody having Instagram. 1000 01:28:01,480 --> 01:28:04,720 This a dumb thing to get in a fight over.