Look at this little fucker. Look at him peeing right here.
JENNY: Previously on 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After?...
Hi. Are you gonna bite me? OK.
It's the cow that she bought for Mom.
(FARUQ SPEAKS)
I feel that his family has already judged me before they're even giving me a chance.
How have things been?
Yay.
In the next week?
I don't think Mrs Gwen understand how long I've been waiting for this Green Card
and for possibility to go home and see my friends and family.
JENNY: A vacuum cleaner? Can we get one?
Sumit has completely lost his mind.
He can go and talk to his parents, but I don't have any part of it.
The test that we did on you did come back saying that your ovarian reserve is low...
Wow. ..so I would not wait more than six months.
I felt like hearing him say that I could never have children.
You're rude... I'm not rude.
..and you're unappreciative. You think you fucking walk this fucking planet...
Where's the $13,000 ring I bought you? Probably in a fucking bush.
In this moment, I realised this is it. That's the icing on the cake.
You're out of my life.
Do you think what you've done is fucking acceptable?
Just pull up your goddamn phone.
I wanna see everything.
How do you really know when it's time to end a marriage?
It's not only emotional, it's painful at this point.
Like, when is it OK for me to give up?
I'm going. Come.
I'm getting on my plane. Nope. Fuck you.
You have everything? Uh-huh. Are you sure? Uh-huh.
Where's your passport?
I'm just making sure you know where it's at.
Hey. Morning.
Morning. You ready? Yeah.
Hi, Mylah. Mylah, what you doing?
Look who I have for you this morning.
See Stella. Stella's here.
Hi. Oh, my goodness.
You ready to go? You ready to go bye-bye?
I just got back from work a few days ago,
and I'm really excited that Yara's at home waiting for me so we can travel to Europe together.
I decide to wait for Jovi and go to Europe together...
Yara, you ready?
Yeah. You're excited? Of course.
So, how many bags y'all have, like, luggage?
One, two, three, four, five, I think. Oh, goodness.
OK. I am done. You're done?
Let's try to get moving.
So, Jovi, you learned a little bit of...
..Ukrainian and Hungarian words?
(JOVI SPEAKS RUSSIAN) (GWEN SPEAKS RUSSIAN)
That's a Russian word, Jovi. I know.
I don't need to speak that. I got Yara.
No. You don't wanna tell her mom, "Hi. How are you?" Oh.
If her mom wants to communicate with me, she can learn English. (GASPS) Oh.
Jovi. Jovi. You are a dick.
Oh, goodness.
You're excited, huh? Yeah. You are.
I'm so sad.
I'm so sad that you're excited. I'm like, "Aw."
Because there is a war in Ukraine,
it makes me so nervous that they're even going anywhere near there.
I know they're not going into Ukraine.
Just the fact that they're gonna be near there makes me a wreck.
It scares me. It's not good timing.
What is your initial plan? When you get there, what's the first thing you wanna do?
Right away? Your mom's gonna meet you at the airport? Mm-hm. Awesome.
Then you'll plan things with your friends, or...?
Have they made decisions on where they're going?
Oh, OK.
There's just a little part of me way deep down inside that is like,
"What if Yara wants to stay?"
That scares me. Knowing that she's going and she's gonna see her people again,
and it makes me nervous that she would wanna stick around.
It's emotional.
You took a little nap?
We are at New Orleans Airport right now,
and we are finally going to Europe.
How do you feel?
You don't look so excited.
Mylah looks excited. She's ready to roll her bag around.
Do you have your Green Card? Yeah. All right. Good.
You gonna miss me?
You're coming with me whether you like it or not.
Jovi, obviously. Yara, I love you.
Text me. Let me know y'all good. You gotta ask her. You know I'm not gonna do it.
Shut up. You're gonna. Answer me when I text you.
OK, let's go...(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
I love you. I know. You say, "Babushka."
I love you.
Say, "Babushka."
Say bye-bye to Babushka.
(MYLAH CRIES) Oh. Bye.
We'll see Babushka after, OK?
All right. We are about to take off from New Orleans.
We have Mylah with her headset here.
Ready, baby? Yay.
Because I think Europe will be different
since the war's going on,
so I have no idea what to expect when we will land,
and that scares me.
Mylah, you can't hear if you unplug it.
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
It's not a bribe. That is so not a bribe.
So, the other woman brought a sheep or goat.
May I say something, please?
Oh, no, no, no, no, no. May I speak?
Usman and I are here to meet his family and get the blessing,
and it is going way worse than I ever thought it was going to go.
The cow didn't even help me.
They think I'm being disrespectful, and I'm trying to bribe them.
If I can't change their opinion of me,
I don't think I'll get this blessing,
and I will never get a second chance.
So what do I do now, you know?
May I speak now? Is that OK?
You can go. Let me hear you.
I really wish that you can get to know me for who I am.
Everything I do is from my heart.
People that know me would die if they thought
that your family would think I would bribe somebody.
How dare you say that.
That I'd give anything as a bribe.
That's not my fault. That's not my problem.
I am not that kind of person.
And if you don't agree with me and you'll never accept me, that's fine.
That's perfectly fine. I'll go home, OK.
I know I'm not the perfect woman for him, but the love is there.
I didn't buy the cow for a bribe.
I am not that kind of person.
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
They're just not seeing me for who I am. They're not seeing anything.
It's like talking to a brick wall.
I understand that Usman's ex-wife hurt them terribly.
It didn't just hurt Usman, it hurt his family, too.
But they're stereotyping me, and this is how all Americans are,
but I'm not like her,
and I feel really dumb that I have to defend myself this much.
I can't.
I make him happy. I know that's hard to believe.
I'm willing to accept so much because I make him happy, OK.
I'm willing to let him take a second wife.
Me allowing him to have a second wife,
that's a lot for me in my culture.
I can't have children. I'm 51 years old.
I have a 26-year-old son.
She was saying that she wish I can marry from my region first.
Of course, and you should. No, first. Oh.
And have a child first.
She don't think she'll continue listening to you guys.
That you guys should just go and leave her first.
That she want you guys out. OK.
Oh, no. She walked out. That's fine.
Thank you. OK, thank you very much.
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
Bye. Thank you. Bye-bye.
I feel bad my mom leaving because...
We never expected it to be this hard.
She didn't give me the time of day.
I respect her. I respect her opinion like I said,
but I'm not gonna be the second wife.
That's not what I want. That's not what I came here for.
But we really don't know what we're gonna do now.
It was bad experience.
Like, there's just no chance. What's the point?
2 00:14:10.120 -- 00:14:12.560 align:middle line:90% position:50% Hey, where are you?
So, Ed thought that I was hooking up with a girl.
(TAWNY SPEAKS)
I just wanna find the ring and give it back to Ed,
and I don't think I can do this any more.
I wanna go back to look for the ring
because at this point, even though it doesn't mean anything to me,
I still know Ed dropped an enormous amount of money,
and I would like to give it back to him
because he told me we're never gonna get married, and...
..I don't know if this ring will ever have meaning again.
(CAR ALARM BEEPING)
(SIGHS)
(CAR ALARM STOPS)
I know that Ed will have a hard time finding true love.
Oh, hi. That's you. Hello.
I called Tawny because she saw me overcome the lowest of lows,
and I wanna see my best friend right now.
I'm pissed. I'm hurt.
He felt that I was cheating on him with her.
What the fuck? This is, like, stupid, though.
It really is.
Liz, like, I'm done with you letting him walk all over you.
I really am. I really am.
You deserve so much better.
You're a badass fucking bitch.
I just don't feel like he walks all over me, like...
I do. I'm sorry. I do feel that way.
Tonight was supposed to be the night that we proved our love,
and it's a joke.
In this moment, I would rather be single.
I intended on being single for a while,
and things just happened with Ed.
And after everything tonight,
I'm starting to second guess being in this relationship.
If Ed and I break up over this,
I definitely think that it's over for good.
I really don't know where we go from here.
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
So, today's the very first day of Ramadan.
We pray five times a day.
Our first morning prayer is right before dawn.
It's called Fajr.
Ready? Yeah.
Babe... Baby. ..this is your sauce.
This is a barbeque sauce.
I'm sure it's gonna be good, but I would season it
and put a little different sauce, whatever.
This sauce is the bomb. I'm sure. I'm sure.
The month of Ramadan is a time of fasting.
We fast from sun up to sun down,
so that we always have God on our mind.
So there's no food, there's no liquid,
no sexual relations with spouses, anything like that.
From a symbolic standpoint, when you come out of Ramadan,
you should be a new version of yourself.
Some of the little things that sometimes usually get on your nerves,
well, you try to dismiss those things,
and you try to become a better person,
and not always looking at the fault of somebody else,
but look at your own faults.
Tonight will be the first breaking of the fast for us in Ramadan,
so I've decided to invite Bilal's family.
I just wanna enjoy this special moment
with the people who I really do care about.
No, no, no. You said whipped cream.
I didn't ask for whipped cream. Yeah, that's what you said. I asked for full cream.
That means normal milk.
Got you. However, we don't call that here
cos it don't say full cream.
OK. Nothing on here says cream at all.
I think we have different ways of speaking and referring to things.
He corrects me all the time.
Like, when Bilal comes home, I'll be like...
"What you said? The word is heat. You don't say hot.
Repeat after me. I'm going to heat your food."
I'm from Trinidad. This is how I speak.
I'll be back. Thank you.
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
That's a forbidden topic right now.
I feel like Bilal is going to use Ramadan to not bring it up.
"Oh, I don't... Now is not the time."
We got the results from the doctor's office last week.
I wish he could have been like,
"OK, I sympathise with you, but this is the plan. Next."
It's still up in the air.
I think that will help apply pressure to Bilal
to finally have the conversation with me on what do we do next.
2 00:23:03.480 -- 00:23:07.400 align:middle line:90% position:50% You unpacked all your clothes. I guess now it's time for me to unpack mine.
Um, what are you up to?
If you remember, I told you that I'm going to meet my family.
OK.
Actually, I invited all of them to meet me now.
Hm.
We are back from the honeymoon.
We had a great time, and we are back to our house.
We are back to the reality,
and I'm hoping to get back to work soon,
but today, I'm going to meet my family.
I'm very nervous and a bit scared,
but I want my parents to understand our love
and accept my relationship with Jenny.
Will you come with me over there?
No. Actually, I have a lot of unpacking to do,
and have to straighten out the closet,
and I still have to mop the floor and stuff.
So, you don't wanna go with me?
No, I don't want to.
OK.
Sumit's getting ready to go and see his family,
and he thinks he's gonna talk to them and convince them to accept me as his wife,
and I'm thinking, "What a waste of time."
He's never gonna convince them. They're never going to accept me.
And he's trying to keep me happy,
but he's trying to convince his parents to please be happy for him,
but now it's starting to get old.
He made the decision to marry me, and that part should be done.
Well, I hope everything goes fine, and they don't give you too much of a hard time.
It's been a few weeks since I told them that Jenny and I are married.
I haven't talked to my parents...
..and I'm hoping...
..now they're calmed down.
I know Jenny thinks, according to the American way,
like, your parents are mean to you and mean to your wife,
and you should just let them go,
but I cannot let that happen.
They're my parents. I know they love me.
So my efforts will never stop.
(SPEAKING IN OWN LANGUAGE)
I'm trying to hide it right now, but I am hurt.
..because I thought my parents will come, and I will talk to them.
I now have to talk to my parents through my aunt,
which is making me upset
because now I know that there's no improvement
in the relationship with my parents.
(SURAT SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
(AMIT SPEAKS)
(SURAT SPEAKS)
(SUMIT SPEAKS)
(SURAT SPEAKS)
I would say that life would be easier for me
if I would be with someone else instead of Jenny,
but I don't think that I will be as happy as I am.
(SURAT SPEAKS)
You are wrong. You're wrong.
Fuck you, Michael. I'm done. I'm getting on my plane.
Nope. Fuck you.
I didn't wanna see Michael again.
After what happened at his house last night,
I really, truly was done,
but Rene convinced me to give him a chance to right his wrongs,
but a man can't right the wrongs if in their mind they're not wrong.
And to make things worse, he won't even show his wife what's on his phone.
What am I supposed to think?
Are you scamming me? Are you cheating on me? You're doing something.
Right now, I don't know what to feel because...
(ANGELA SPEAKS)
That doesn't mean I'm gonna make the decision to stay
because Michael's gotta own up what he's done,
and if he don't...
Angie.
Michael.
Angie. Michael, I don't wanna talk right now.
Michael, don't follow me.
I'm not ready for this yet.
I didn't even wanna be here, Michael.
No, I don't know you love me.
What do you think was gonna happen when you put Instagram up? Tell me.
I said, "No."
It's a bad idea. You're not gonna have it.
You don't need a double income.
OK. Then you made your choice. You want money?
There's no... Please, please...
I don't give a goddamn about no money, bitch.
Bitch. Fuck you and your goddamn money, bitch.
You opportunist.
Why can't I trust you? Because you fucking are un-trustable.
He doesn't need to make money off of social media
because, really, how much money is he gonna make?
You've got to be, I don't know how to say this without being rude,
but interesting.
Like, he doesn't have charisma, and you know what?
(ANGELA SPEAKS)
..so maybe his plan to be an influencer
and make money off of social media is a cover-up.
The only reason my husband, Michael, would block me
is because he's flirting with women.
Yes or no?
So why the fuck do you think you can do it now?
You're not gonna do it no more.
I hate that Michael's got my mind thinking all these kind of ways,
but he's making me connect the dots because he's not gonna tell me the truth,
and the fact that he won't hand over his phone is definitely making me more suspicious.
You sound so... Let me put it this way.
I sound... Yeah. Argh.
Yeah. You're absolutely right. I'll explode.
Can I tell you why I did that?
It started out two or three videos to get your attention.
"Don't do that. Take it down." That's what I thought,
but you didn't respond.
Yeah, because like this, I can't trust you. You broke...
You broke trust so many times.
Michael, I wanna say this, and then you can talk.
Your visa is about here.
Oh, you smile? Angie.
Lou said you're about here, and you know what he told me also?
If we're having problems now with you doing this IG,
shit you knew that would upset me, "File for divorce. Pull the visas."
No. That's what you need to ask yourself.
If your heart ain't in it for you and me...
..I want no part of it.
You either put Instagram down because you want to,
because you love me, and it's hurting me...
Then you show me.
For Michael to prove to me that he loves me,
he's not a scammer, he'll take that Instagram down
because it has always caused problems,
and he needs to show his wife that I'm more important than material shit.
And I want him to do it because he sees what it's causing in our relationship.
I'm gonna give you time to think cos I'm getting ready to go.
No, no, no, no. You sit here and think about it.
If you wanna be an opportunist, you be that,
but you won't be it with me.
You know what you gotta do.
I'm going, Mike.
No, I got it.
I'll see you tomorrow or I won't.
2 00:39:46.240 -- 00:39:48.320 align:middle line:90% position:50% YARA: We finally made it to Czech Republic.
The flight was really nice.
I didn't have to watch Mylah a whole lot.
Yeah, Jovi...
Feel good, just a little bit tired, but excited.
Feels so good to be out of the United States.
I'm finally... I'm so happy to be here.
Yeah. That's me.
I feel excited to see my mom. I haven't seen her for two and a half years.
(YARA CHUCKLES) (JOVI CHUCKLES)
Ah, she got you flowers.
(OLGA SOBS) (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
She's gonna sleep for a long time, too, I think.
She's saying she looks like you. That she looks like me?
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
All right. Let's go. Let's go.
Hm?
We just had the meeting with my family, and it didn't go well.
It's so frustrating that they don't even wanna see Kimberly for who she is,
but Kimberly and I need to sit down and think what is going to help us in this situation.
If it wasn't your family and somebody would have said some of that stuff to me,
I would have been out that door. You know me.
Be like, "Excuse me."
I kept my composure pretty well.
Like, "Excuse me." Are you proud of me, though? I am.
Hey... Might be the last time... Might be the last couple of days we do it.
We just left all of that, and you're chilling.
I wish I had your confidence cos I just don't feel it right now.
I know.
This went worse than anything we could have expected.
If the tables were turned, my family and my friends would never ever judge Usman like this. Ever.
I wish his family would have opened their minds up a little bit more
instead of just seeing me as his ex-wife.
I feel like they didn't give me a fair chance.
Honestly, I never thought that they were gonna just get up and greet me with open arms
and hug me and welcome me into the family.
I just didn't know it was gonna be so hostile.
(SIGHS) Man.
(SIGHS)
I don't even know what to say, to be honest.
(GROANS)
Like, the bribe thing is what got me.
I was thinking when you said you allow me to get a second wife for me to get children...
What I'm saying here is that...
But I hope you have seen how much I love you.
I know. I know. Believe me. I totally get it.
Oh, I know. Yeah, obviously.
So...
..what she said...
Before you marry me.
You know I love you. I don't have to tell you that. Then it's over.
I'm not gonna be the second wife.
I can't. I can't let myself be like that.
But do you think...?
Cos the whole thing of marrying me first is to make me the first wife,
and then have this other woman for children.
I think that was a lot, and I respect the fact that she said that,
and that's a lot, but for me, I won't do that.
I won't be anybody's second anything.
When they said that I could be the second wife
and whoever he picks could be the first,
I was just like, "OK, OK. No." In my head, I'm like, "Hell, no."
In a way, his mom was giving me a compromise, but I can't make any more exceptions
because I have exactly what I want now, like, his love,
and I feel like the love he has for me now would change with that.
Getting the title of the first wife is so important to me
because in previous relationships, I always came second. Always.
I was always pushed to the side, and I'm not gonna let that happen to me again.
I don't care if he came here right now
and proposed to me with the biggest diamond in the world.
I'm not his second. Sorry, I can't. I know my worth.
I don't mind you being first or second. I don't care. I just wanna be with you.
I know, and I understand that, but I can't. I can't.
You can't be second? No. OK. Fine.
We're in this together.
You are in Sokoto.
Yes.
Solutions. OK.
I don't know what else I can do to prove I'm a good person, but I will. I'll do it.
Yeah. And I'm willing to fight with you,
but I'm not willing to be second anything.
So I'm willing to see what we can do in the next couple of days,
and then if things just don't, I can't.
OK.
Let's refresh our brain. OK.
Let's take that away from us. Let's have some rest.
Then in the morning... From now until morning,
I promise you I can come up with something. OK. I love you, though. I love you.
JENNY: Hi. SUMIT: Hi, baby.
How did everything go?
Can you make some tea? Sure.
Well, so...
..how did it go?
Meh.
Your parents didn't show up?
My mother didn't wanna come,
and she sent my brother and my sister-in-law and my mother's sister, my aunt...
..so that was quite surprising.
And the conversation didn't go very well
just because what the family's going through.
It has a lot to do with people are calling them
and saying that, like...
Teasing sometime, like...
Wow. Who's teasing?
Neighbours, our relatives, our friends, and...
And I don't know why they're thinking
that you are a reason for destroying a family.
See? The drama is not gonna stop.
If they would just stand up and be strong and support you, support us together as a couple,
everybody would back off and knock it off.
That will never gonna happen. Then it's time to go to America. That's what I say.
Cos there's nothing else left to do.
If they're not gonna accept me, I'm not gonna keep living here in India
and keeping you here in India for them.
I'm sorry.
I don't wanna take you from them, but it's gonna happen
because what they're doing to me is not fair. That's not right.
In America, my family doesn't do that.
They don't behave that way,
so we would be doing a lot better over there.
My daughters are there, and my grandkids are there, and they accept you,
and so we would live a very happy life there.
We would be accepted, so I think it's a good idea.
I've put up with Sumit's parents for years.
I think it's time for Sumit to make a sacrifice for me now,
and move to America and see how life is away from his parents.
What do you think?
Kind of their fault, isn't it?
Don't be afraid to leave India and experience my country.
I left my country and experienced yours, so...
But you like Indian life better.
I like India, but I'm struggling here with your family, though.
You don't wanna leave India and go to my country?
Not really.
No? Well, what do you want me to do, leave and go to America by myself?
Moving to America, I think that will show my family that she's taking me away from them,
and that will make the situation worse,
but if I will have a kid, that might make them happy.
This is also a good reason to stay in India.
So I don't know how she gonna feel about it,
but it might change our relationship for good.
OK. Let's see.
2 00:53:36.240 -- 00:53:37.920 align:middle line:90% position:50% Well, the food is delicious.
NEFERTARI: Mohammed says, "Real good."
So, we made it through.
Everybody's quiet. I think that's a good sign.
RAHEEM: How's your yoga?
(SHAEEDA SPEAKS)
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
So, this is your first Ramadan together being married.
Yeah, so how's that going?
We've been separated for two years... Mm-hm.
..and the first Ramadan that came, we were like,
"I hope we're gonna be reunited the following year."
Then that year came, and nothing happened,
so it feels really good that this is our first Ramadan together.
I was gonna wait for 20 years if I had to. Aw.
Listen...
No, "Aw."
So, since the wedding day, what's been happening?
Well, that's it. After the wedding, it's like, "What's next for us?"
And I was hoping...
He's looking at me like, "What are you going to say?"
I don't know. Maybe a family. Mm-hm.
We have a family.
Hm.
How long did it take for you to get...?
I know Momma... Really?
You really gonna bring me into this conversation now?
This one right here is the miracle.
So how old was you when you had this one? I was 43.
43.
How old are you? 37. Hm.
OK, so not now. When?
When do you think?
Don't cough now.
Ah, in, like, two or three.
Two or three? I think that'll be good.
Before 40. That's before 40.
We did just get married, right? I mean, I get it.
It is super frustrating that Bilal doesn't wanna talk about
how serious this is for me.
When you hear what a doctor has to say, like...
By the time I'm 40, the chances of getting pregnant is really low.
When it comes to going into details,
I don't want the whole family to get so involved,
but at the same time, I still wanna speak to Bilal's mom and his sister
so they can hear and listen, and they know exactly where I'm coming from
when I say that I really wanna get pregnant very soon.
So much has been going on since I haven't seen you guys.
Mm-hm. When it comes to having children,
I was like, "I wanna go to check out an OB-GYN,
a doctor, to see what's going on with me."
Um, so we did a blood test.
We got back that test last week, and the doctor's like,
"Your ovarian results came back very low." Mm-hm.
He also said by the time I'm 40,
the chances of having a child would be five per cent.
Whoa. Yeah. Really?
Oh, my gosh.
He was with you at the doctor's office when the doctor gave you the results?
When we came back home, we just never raise the topic again.
We never raise it. We never talk about it,
but I know for sure we need to have this conversation... Yeah.
..because I need to find out from him when will he be ready.
So...
earlier, Bilal said it was kind of, like, in the two-year frame.
Yeah, I think although the consult
said somewhere around 40 is the deadline,
I think Bilal is waiting for that 40.
He's not saying that he doesn't want any children.
He's not saying that, but his actions shows it. Hm.
I was 43 having my first child,
you know, and so I can see where she might not wanna be...
..43, maybe not even 40.
You wanna go ahead and have a baby as soon as you can, so I really could feel for her.
If she doesn't get an answer soon,
it's like, how much pressure she gonna be able to take, and how long?
So, the two of you need to have that conversation.
Now that they're kind of getting these kind of answers from the doctor,
it's something definitely that they need to discuss
and come to a conclusion on
so they're both on the same page.
Something this major could be very bad
if they can't come to an agreement.
I know he doesn't wanna be pressured into these things,
but I just don't wanna miss out on that opportunity of being a mother,
and I want Bilal to see how much it means, like, argh.
I understand.
I cannot sustain this any longer.
Bilal needs to fight his fears.
He needs to face the music.
JOVI: Ah, there's a lot of space back here for bags, at least.
We just arrived to Prague.
We're heading to the hotel. Get a shower, clean up,
and I feel full of energy now that I'm here,
so I wanna have a couple of drinks and enjoy my time in Europe.
Oh, are you tired? Of course, I am.
Go take a nap, or are you gonna go spend some time with your mom? That's what you should do.
Yeah, probably.
I have pretty good advice. Yeah.
(YARA SPEAKS) Yes.
The fuck? How's this thing work?
Jovi. What? I know. Take your hand away.
Oh. There we go. Got it. Yeah.
Nope.
Who just got a driver's licence?
It doesn't mean, just cos you went to driving school and you got a driver's licence
that you can tell me how to drive. I'm a better driver than you.
You're not a better driver than me, so do not tell me how to drive in Europe or America.
I wanna go shower.
Yeah. Did do you wanna go to eat or what? Oh, eat and shower. Both.
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
(OLGA SPEAKS)
On the drive now to the hotel, all I hear is, "(SPEAKS GIBBERISH) Jovi."
"Jovi this. Jovi that."
If you're gonna talk about me, at least speak in my language, or don't talk about me.
Yeah, probably not.
Probably means amazing human being.
Jovi, people walking in the streets.
Look at that. Oh, my goodness. People...
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
(OLGA SPEAKS)
Did you press it? You didn't press it.
Look who's there. Hey. Look, it's Daddy.
Wanna come with me? Wanna go with Daddy?
Come on. (CHUCKLES)
Come on, little girl.
Do you feel better after showering?
Yeah, I get the shower, and I was thinking Mylah will cry with my mom,
and she actually goes to her. Really?
I fell asleep, and they go to walk somewhere. Perfect.
She must remember your mom's voice from the phone.
Mylah, what you doing?
(LAUGHS)
They're getting along already, right?
If she spends a good three days with your mom, I was thinking maybe we could have her babysit.
Yeah?
Mom said she will stay with her. Perfect. That's what I wanna hear.
We definitely need a babysitter.
She understand?
She says she will. Perfect. Don't worry about.
Ask your mom if she wants to come and be Mylah's full-time babysitter in the US.
She doesn't like it because you can't return to your country
for ten years when you apply for refugee. Oh, yeah. OK.
She ask you if she can do it in Prague.
What? I don't like when y'all talk in another language speaking my name all the time.
What y'all saying about me?
Jovi, what? Why you keep saying that?
Learn the language, Jovi.
Did you say, "I love Jovi. He's the best husband in the world." Yes. I did.
We've only been here for a few hours with my mom and already
it's making me, honestly, wanna stay here for a longer time.
It's making me wanna...
I love my life in America,
but that's why I'm confused because at the same time,
I wanna spend time with my family and friends.
So, for now, I don't know for how long I wanna stay in Europe.
Let's have a cheers. Cheers. Nostrovia.
(ALL SPEAK UKRAINIAN)
Aw.
2 01:07:04.200 -- 01:07:06.920 align:middle line:68% position:50% (ED SPEAKS)
(LIZ SPEAKS)
I don't wanna decide our future based on last night,
but we have a lot of issues on both ends,
whether you admit it or not.
So, after our big blow-out at the engagement party,
I'm really upset.
I mean, she throws the ring, which is a symbol,
and she throws it in a bush.
That really hurt me more than anything she said, and then she's gone.
She leaves. She later returned with the ring and went to bed.
No words.
It's now the morning, and I wanna talk about what happened.
We're both sober,
but she is as angry, if not more, right now as she was last night.
When we first got together, you told me that you would be with a woman if it wasn't for me.
You broke my heart so bad that I didn't want to have another breakup.
Now that's in my head. I have never dated a woman.
I told you, "No," but you didn't believe me.
So, Liz, you say that, and then fast forward to last night,
one of your gay girl friends is bracing you. Where do you think my head went?
There's nothing wrong with being a lesbian.
The reason that we got in a fight was because this toxic person
that I told you to get rid of, that she's bad for you,
was invited to our engagement party
when I cut out every single one of my friends to be with you,
including my mom and my daughter.
Don't put that on me. Well... Do not put that on me.
I haven't done anything to betray your trust. Get over it.
Liz, since day one, I've had an issue with the people that are in your life.
I don't want a girlfriend, let alone a fiancee, let alone a wife,
that wants to have a girls night out, that wants to be in a bar.
You want a wife? I am home with you.
Stop making it seem like I'm this little party animal
when we know who the party animal is. I'm not saying that.
You drink to a point where you can't stand up.
You drink every single night. I've never drank to the point where I can't stand up.
You told me when you were drunk the other night
that you would rather sleep with Alex and fuck her than me.
What have you told me when you're drunk? You said that.
To hurt you back? You tell me the same thing.
I never say I would sleep with someone else. Bullshit.
Right. Oh, whatever.
I've never said that I'm gonna go screw someone else.
I was probably drunk. I don't remember. It's not OK.
You accuse me of something cos you're insecure.
You're always gonna be that way.
And I'm sorry for not letting you walk all over me any more.
If I'm with the right woman, I'm not insecure.
You're obviously not the right woman.
You should have never put a ring on my finger, then.
You made it clear I'm not the right woman.
It's not on your finger now cos you threw our engagement ring into the bush.
Stop telling me you're not gonna marry me. I don't need the ring. Go return it, please.
I'm asking you nicely to leave. Oh, please.
I'm happy to leave.
Whatever.
I think I rushed... I mean...
Liz and I are separated for six months.
Teddy dies. I'm vulnerable.
She comes over.
48 hours, we're engaged.
And I did move too fast. I really think I made a big mistake.
And Richard told me from day one,
"You're gonna be miserable for the rest of your life."
It's pretty much over.
I'm the one who's always making changes, not him.
The only thing that's really changed is he speaks for himself now,
but all his behaviour stuff is still there.
I do love her.
Yeah. I don't like... We don't like to fight.
This sucks, but Liz said a lot of things...
Anyway, sorry. I just...
I just feel that I...
..don't have any...
I don't have anywhere to go, like, emotionally.
Like, I don't...
I lost half my family that were close to me...
..and I gave them up to be with Liz, and now I don't get to be with Liz.
Now I'm fucked. Like, now...
Now I'm really... I have my dogs.
JOVI: This really is beautiful.
TALMADGE: It is beautiful, man.
I wish we were doing this in Ukraine, though, man. Oh, man. I know.
Hello, sir. How are you? Can we get two beers, please? Yes.
Talmadge is one of my friends.
He's from Georgia, but he's been living out of the US for probably the last ten years,
and he's now located in Germany.
Talmadge and I met first in the US,
and we just kind of connected and hit it off.
We both like to travel, so we became kind of travel buddies.
All right. Let's set up shop here, I guess. Yes, sir.
He's come to Prague to meet up with us
so we can catch up and spend some time together while we're here.
Well... Cheers, dawg. Yeah, cheers.
Good seeing you. Travelling again, right?
Mm-hm. Never ends.
I know. Feels good to be back at it.
The time since we been together, man. Yeah.
Since Ukraine, man. It's been a while, dude. Yeah.
Like 2000-what?
2018 we were in Ukraine. Yeah. 2018, man. It's crazy.
The last time I saw Jovi was when we were in Ukraine.
When me and Jovi were there, we just travelled around,
we went to different bars,
I'd try to get him fired up and have a good time, you know.
Now he's with Yara.
I was kind of dumbfounded that he actually met someone
cos we were single, travelling, crazy friends.
You know, strip clubs and, you know.
And his new travel buddy was Yara, so I was like, "Damn."
So now where's my travel buddy going?
I feel good to be back here.
I feel like Yara's happy, for sure. Seeing her mom and getting back to her normal...
I know they were gonna cry when they saw each other. Oh, yeah.
Luckily for her that her mom works here in Prague,
and we're able to see her in a different place,
but our biggest situation is Yara has family in western Ukraine,
and she wants to bring them to America.
She's OK to take in whoever wants to come, if they wanna come,
but I don't think it's easy.
America is taking refugees.
We don't know where we stand and the way that falls right now.
Whether or not her mom could come or her niece or her nephew, or... Can you come over?
Yeah, you have to go through a visa programme, probably. Get the visa. It's not like,
"OK. You can go to America tomorrow." It's not like that. Yeah, yeah.
So, like, if her family was to come to the States,
are you gonna put them in your house? Are you gonna rent them an apartment?
I have no fucking idea. No idea? No.
I've been thinking about it, and if we threw her mom, her sister, her nephew, her niece...
Imagine throwing four more people in my house.
We live in a pretty small place. We live in a two-bedroom place. It's not huge. Yeah.
Where are these people gonna sleep?
We have another bedroom. Are they all gonna sleep in the same room?
I don't want somebody sleeping in my bedroom. Exactly.
It's not easy. She might think, "Everybody come live with us,"
but if they wanted to eat somewhere, she has to get in the car and go with them. Can't drive.
They can't drive yet, and they can't order food for their self because they don't speak English.
And then you going for work, and then... Oh, yeah.
..it's gonna be her dealing with it. It's gonna put a lot of stress on her.
You wouldn't turn them away, though?
The big picture is a lot harder than at first glance.
I already have a lot going on in my own life.
To take all these other people in would just be, like, chaotic.
Is it something that you feel like you're obligated to do because of Yara?
Exactly. Exactly. Yeah.
I think if her family comes to America,
it's gonna be crazy hard.
For Jovi, he's gonna have to support everything that they do.
He's gotta support everything financially. It's gonna be a big lifestyle change,
and I feel for Jovi and Yara, man, like, a lot.
I feel for them, like... It's not easy, you know?
Does Yara ever complain about certain things in America,
like our culture versus Ukraine culture...
Yeah. ..like the food? She hates everything about Louisiana.
She hates the fried food.
She's like, "Why does everybody gotta eat everything fried in Louisiana? It's so bad for you."
I get it. I feel terrible for the fact that she came to Louisiana, and she hates it.
It wasn't my intention, but it's a big change.
I think this trip is our next big step into making her realise,
"OK. I'm not stuck in America now."
Even if her mom can't come to the US for now,
we can still travel to meet her mom in another country.
Do you think one day she wants to leave America and go to Europe,
or maybe move here with her mom? Here?
I don't wanna think about that, honestly.
That's one thing I've been worried about. Her seeing her mom.
I feel like after we spend a couple of weeks here,
she's gonna be indulged in this European culture.
She's gonna be like, "I wanna stay here."
So, if Yara asked you to move to Europe...
..would you do it or not?
No. I mean...
I don't think that's realistic, honestly. No?
It's not feasible right now. Yeah.
I have a job in the US. We have a business in the US.
Another thing too,
I don't know if you understand the Green Card process,
but Yara coming here for an extended period of time is not feasible
because she has to spend 180 days in the US
or her Green Card status can get revoked.
Wow. Yeah.
To get up and move to Europe and not have a plan, I don't think that's a good idea.
You gotta have money to live life, right? Exactly.
So you gotta be close to work, so...
She has to understand, like, I have a job in the US.
I've had my job before we met. You're right. It's tricky.
It's a weird situation, man, you know?
No matter how much Yara loves it here in Europe,
she needs to understand that she came here to America to marry me,
and it's the life that she wanted, so she needs to understand that.
I need to remind her this was the deal.
I understand that she's in an emotional state right now due to the war,
due to the separation with her family, but this is what we agreed on.
We have a life in America.
Got a little bit left. Let's drink these. Cheers. Let's finish it.
Let's hit another bar. Another bar? Yeah, another bar. Let's do it.
We're bar-hopping, baby. Let's bar-hop.
2 01:19:38.160 -- 01:19:41.440 align:middle line:90% position:50% KIM: Oh, it's nice out, huh? USMAN: Yeah.
I still feel a little, like,
I don't know, like, out of it from yesterday, you know what I mean? Mm-hm.
(SIGHS) You wanna sit over here?
Where? Over here. OK.
So...
Babe, I will show you something today.
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
You'll never find this kind of person
anywhere in Nigeria except my region. Wow.
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE) (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
Usman is one of the cleanest people I've ever met,
and I do like a smooth, put-together man,
but I'm getting frustrated because we're supposed to be coming up with a plan
to get his mom's blessing, and Usman's getting a pedicure and manicure. What is that?
How much does this cost?
Um, $2, $3.
Do you know how much I pay for these? I know.
And my feet? I know. It's, like, $150 every time. Yeah. It's crazy.
Babe, I just wanna ask you, like, how you feeling now?
I woke up this morning with a mindset, like,
"OK. We got this. We can do this," you know? Mm-hm. But can we?
Are you listening? I'm listening.
You know I love you more than anything, you know? He's done, babe.
I'm glad your nails look pretty. (SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
(SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE)
When your mom walked out yesterday...
Mm-hm. ..I felt like all the air just left my body.
Yeah. And I feel like she'll never understand how we are together.
Like, nobody sees how crazy we are and how funny we are and how in love we really are.
I feel like they didn't give me a chance. They didn't give me a chance.
Well, like, she was talking about...
..having a young lady first, which I know you're not cool with that.
I won't stick to being anybody's second anything. That wasn't our plan.
We wanna get engaged.
We wanna start the K-1 visa paperwork.
We wanna get you over with me in America. Mm-hm.
Then be married. That was what we talked about.
So, what do we do now?
I think we just need to tell them our plan.
What if they say no again after that, then what? What are we gonna do?
Babe. Should we take it day by day, and we only have a couple days?
But, like, we have a plan,
and I'm not gonna differentiate from that plan.
I'm not gonna be your second wife. I refuse.
And if I leave here single, I leave here single.
I love you, and I'll be heartbroken...
Babe. Uh-huh. No, sir. But you ain't telling me that...
I think I have done what I have never done in my life.
After I tell the whole world that I'm not gonna be with any older lady, and here I am.
But it happened natural,
and I was giving you from fan to superfan, friend, potential girlfriend.
That I find out that you love me and I love you, too, and we go into relationship.
You're not begging me. I'm not begging you.
I don't mean it like that. That's how it sound.
That's not fair to me. I'm not the one telling you to be second wife.
I'm telling you to let them know that I'm not gonna be anybody's second anything.
The heart.
Then maybe you should go be with them. Fine.
I'll talk to you later. If that's what you want, fine then.
Telling me she'll break up. At your age, at my age, you telling me to break up.
If we break up, you think I have anything to regret?
You need to understand that I don't need anything from any woman.
(SNIFFLES)
I'm not meeting anybody. I'm not seeing his family. I'm not doing this.
I'm not doing anything. He doesn't deserve it.
That was fucked up. That's a fucked up thing to say to me.
I'm tired of the little fucking comments like he's doing me a favour.
Talking about he can have a hundred at this time like I'm some ugly fucking bitch.
Fuck him.
Let him find one that's as good as I am. Let him find one that's as fucking loyal as I am.
Fuck him for saying that.
But he loves me so much.
Does he?
Is all this fake? You know?
I can't... (SIGHS)
I just don't even know...
I don't even think I want the blessing now.
I just don't even think... I just don't care.
I don't know.
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MICHAEL: Next time on 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After?...
We have a life back in the US.
If this was your intention, you should have brought it up to me sooner, not bring it up to me now.
I'm surprised that she's trying to go behind my back to plan all this with her mom.
ANDREI: What do you mean it's not the best timing?
LIBBY: We have found out some big news.
But we are not telling Libby's family, that's 1,000 per cent.
We cannot trust any of those people.
They're here to destroy me.
They don't like I'm here to protect myself.
(SUMIT SPEAKS)
Are you gonna be working seven days, or are you gonna be hanging out with your friends?
You come home drunk, we're gonna have a problem.
Please believe me.
I'm sorry, but I don't trust you.
OK. You're questioning me, like, I think it's you.
It's very clear that this isn't going to work out.
Why you telling me that you wanna break up with me in my town?
I was telling you what my boundary was.
I've dealt with this in past relationships,
and I will never ever in my life
let a man manipulate me again.
I'm not against anybody having Instagram.
This a dumb thing to get in a fight over.