(READS) We are expecting... What?!
What... I thought we were just coming to see the Grand Canyon!
Previously on... 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After?...
This is such big news for the family.
What do you think about posting online as opposed to like telling your family in person?
Andrei is convinced that someone in my family called Immigration on him.
Are you really gonna be working seven days a week or are you gonna be hanging out with friends too?
If you come home drunk, we're gonna have a problem.
Have you guys talked at all about the baby timeline? Or...?
I think that's a difficult conversation to have now.
I need Bilal to see that, yes, I wanna get pregnant now.
I wanna be a businesswoman. I could juggle both.
Like, there's no reason you would make a decision to go look at a house without talking to me first.
I feel like this is another thing that her and her mom are talking about behind my back.
If Yara has a problem with our marriage, she should talk to me about it instead.
Seeing you get ready for this today, it's like a slap in my face.
Despite me proposing to Usman, he is still going to go on this date that his mom set up.
I know how you feel being put in the middle. I don't have to like it.
I've got screenshots of all of it.
Well, guess what, Michael.
You can't lie your way out of this. I have proof.
# I'm sick and tired of the nine to five
# Wanna spread my wings and learn to fly
Let it say you. Me but in New York. Yeah.
# It's all right, it's all right, it's all right to fly
# Fly, fly, fly
# To fly, fly, fly, fly #
You're probably overpacking.
'I have been married to Bilal for a few months.'
He knows how much I am trying to adapt to the American life
and how important it is for me to set up a yoga business and get pregnant,
but we have not made any progress
and nothing is coming together.
Tomorrow, we are going to New York for a few days to meet my best friend, Eutris,
who is flying in from London.
I have never been to New York City before.
I have been dreaming of coming to New York my entire life.
It's super frustrating to know that Bilal keeps delaying what I want,
but I'm hoping we can take a break from all the drama
and enjoy our first vacation as a couple.
Baby, we're not leaving for a month, sweetie. I know.
All I know is that New York is the fashion capital.
That's all you know about New York?
The place is extremely lively.
I think lots of noise, it's always noisy.
It's the city that never sleeps!
So you know what that means? We're not gonna sleep!
Ha ha ha!
New York is a place that I actually want to take Shai.
It's a place that she's always dreamed about going.
It's a great time to bond on this trip and do some nice romantic things,
which is why I also have to remind her, sometimes, about, you know,
if you wanted to have a child, then, you know, we may have to put
couples' goals and different things like that off to the side for a little while.
I haven't seen Eutris in a long time.
Eutris loves fashion. She's very neat, she looks very classy.
Just from the pictures I've seen, she seems that way. Yeah.
So what have you told her about me?
How you are a charming, sweet husband.
He puts you on a pedestal. He loves you so much.
That's kind of... (LAUGHS) Geez.
Eutris has never met Bilal, but Eutris knows that Bilal and I,
we are on different sides of the coin, when it comes to having children.
She knows that for sure.
Bilal and Eutris, they are both strong alpha personalities,
so I know, for sure, there could be possible clashes.
(GIGGLES)
Watch this. Look at this.
Great job. Love you. (LAUGHS)
# Get away
# Me and you got to get away
# We've hit the city limits
# With hearts as heavy
# I can't believe we're flying
# Get away, got to get away #
We're in New York!
Coming out of the airport and...
It's... It's loud!
Right? It's, it's very loud. Loud.
Love the smell!
A posey? What's a posey?
What's that?
(CHORTLES) Yeah.
It is. OK.
(GASPS) Oh, my God, babe, look at that!
Look at how many buildings. They're just, like, stacked on top of each other like Legos.
(CHUCKLES) Oh, my gosh.
I think that is the definition of a city.
It is.
I'm excited to see Eutris tonight.
I can't wait for you to meet her.
Yeah, I can't wait, too.
I think this trip will be really good.
This is a really good time for us to get away.
Kind of go on a little adventure.
You know? Have some romantic times, just me and you.
I'm hoping that when I leave this trip...
..that I'm pregnant, like, I hope we could have some news.
The doctor told us to try.
We could at least see if something happens. You know?
You wanna have some fun?
Or you wanna, like, bring baggage with you?
Yeah.
Mm-hm.
My daughter, Christina, and her wife, Jen, are finally coming to visit me in India.
My daughter gets here tomorrow,
so I am so happy.
Last night, I was standing on a chair, trying to hang some pictures.
I lost my balance, the chair was a little weak and I fell.
You can take your hand back.
Sumit had to leave work, come home and take me to the emergency room.
The doctor told me that nothing was broken,
but, this morning, the pain was very bad, it was 100%.
So, today, I came to the physiotherapist
to find out what's the prognosis.
You are having pain? Yeah.
OK.
But I fell pretty hard and I didn't break anything.
So, for 63, you've got to tell me I'm doing good. Right, Doctor?
That means your bones are quite good.
And how long is it gonna take?
Ten days she has to take the treatment. All right.
OK.
So...do you want to start the treatment right now? Yes.
Are you fine? Yeah?
Yeah. The arm is feeling a little weak.
Weak, yes. Holding it up like this, it's weak.
Your muscles are also quite weak. Yes, they are.
I know, I need to build my muscles, I know.
I have very...less strength.
OK.
Aaah. No, not really.
Just relax. OK.
(GROANS)
It's not too bad. It's just like...
like a little something is sticking you.
Really? Eurgh!
I don't know about you, but I can feel it from here!
It's nothing.
We'll keep them for five to ten minutes. OK.
Thank you. Thank you.
It's helping a lot.
I'll take the needles home and...
I'll pound them in your ass.
You will when I'm done with you.
But this is the reason why you can't work seven days a week.
Accidents happen. You need to be more available for me.
Really?
(GROANS)
I depend on you so much.
If I was back in America and this was happening to me,
I would have my family around.
And now I feel like I'm needing them more and more every day.
OK? OK.
2 00:13:19.360 -- 00:13:21.840 align:middle line:90% position:50% # We don't wanna be loved
# We don't wanna know where we're going
# We don't wanna make a plan
# We don't wanna be the difference #
OK.
Fareedet is young enough to give me children. She is from my region. She is Muslim.
And... She's beautiful, actually.
So Fareedet is a good match for me,
but I love Kimberly.
I don't know what to do, actually.
2 00:20:01.520 -- 00:20:04.520 align:middle line:90% position:50% Look, Ellie, we're here. Look, there they are.
# Baby we're just animals
# Let your wild side take control #
We're here.
Let's go pet some alpacas.
It's almost been a full day since my pregnancy announcement via social media
and I haven't heard from anyone from my family in Florida.
Hey. I'm Chuck. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you.
Hi. Elizabeth. Elizabeth, I'm Brian.
Stefan. I'm Andrei. Hi, Andrei. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you.
Yesterday, we went to the Grand Canyon.
Today, we found a really cool alpaca farm.
Ellie loves animals.
I don't think she's familiar with this animal yet,
so I think she just thinks we're going to see, like, a big cow or something.
Come right on this way to the tour.
Thank you.
So right over here is the Chief. He's one of our main studs, here on the ranch.
Oh, he's a stud.
Look at this teeth. Look, Mommy, look at his teeth.
Chief has four girlfriends already on the ranch.
I've seen a llama in person before.
At the zoo? I don't think I've seen an alpaca, specifically.
Look at that baby!
A baby. What's he doing?
And I don't think that they spit, like llamas do.
They do spit. Well, they do, but I think llamas,
they do it, like, more or something.
They spit worse than your sisters, that's for sure.
I'm getting a little sleepy. I'm gonna go sit down.
I'll walk with you. All right. Happy?
Oh, yeah, yeah.
That's a good girl.
Being here in Arizona and getting the announcement,
just to me and Stefan,
it's fantastic, because it's just another way for us to connect.
I'm just a little concerned that her sisters and her mom wasn't there.
When you have relationship issues, you know, you start to hold a grudge
and you start to, you know, hunker down and put your feet in cement.
I understand that, but I wanna get these issues resolved.
How are you feeling? Tired.
I burn out really easily.
So how's this, the pregnancy, gonna affect the things that you're doing,
like your singing career, things like that?
I think I'm gonna put it at a stop for now.
Right.
And just focus on being pregnant, so... Right.
So...yesterday...
was unbelievable.
I'm really glad that, you know, you shared this news
the way you wanted to share it.
The only thing that disappointed me is the family wasn't there to share in it.
You know? I'm just speaking from the heart.
I know my sisters might be hurt, about finding out on social media that I'm pregnant,
but I'm also hurt about some of the decisions that they've made lately.
For example, going to my mom's birthday,
when we had decided to not do that.
The last time I saw them, they had some harsh words about my husband.
We have our green-card renewal coming up.
We're not gonna jeopardise that for a birthday party.
Good. Hopefully, he gets sent back! Red flags.
"Hopefully, he gets sent back"? Do you not wanna see me ever again?
I kind of feel it's heading that way, anyway, to be honest with you.
Listen, when you're going through tough times in life, you need your family with you.
I'm just thinking about your situation. You're pregnant.
You know, I've been doing a lot of thinking about this.
I was gonna stay out of it.
As far as your relationship with your sisters.
I figured, over time, that you guys would, you know, fix that,
but this has gone too far.
The last thing I wanna see, as a dad, is you
and your sisters and your mom,
on the out when the baby comes.
Yeah.
You know...
five years ago, I got diagnosed with cancer.
And, you know, the first operation, I almost died on the operating table.
And the Lord did not spare my life to see my family fracture like this.
Yeah, it just seems like the older everyone gets, the more difficult they become.
I'm telling you, when I get back to Tampa,
I am going to ask everybody to go to therapy.
Like, family therapy?
Yes. I want this fixed.
Are you and Andrei open to it?
I'd be willing to do at least one session, to see how it is,
but if there's a lot of fighting going on and it's negative,
I probably wouldn't continue.
There was definitely a time where my family was close.
Especially when Becky, Megan and I were all pregnant at the same time.
And so we kind of leaned on each other more.
And I really miss that.
And when this baby arrives, I want things to be on good terms,
because having your family right there with you is just even better
to enjoy this new baby's presence.
So I think that this therapy session would be worth a shot.
Hopefully, everyone can just,
you know, put their differences aside.
Yeah. And just forgive
and love.
It's that simple.
We'll see.
# I wanna feel this way forever... #
Oh, cute. It's all pink. I love it.
Hello.
Beautiful, they're so pretty.
So do you need a ring?
Well, I was... I wanted to buy my daughter a ring.
My daughter is coming to India.
I haven't seen her in over two years.
She's flying in today. I just wanted to get her something special.
You know, a kind of mother-daughter thing.
I'm looking for maybe gold. Do you... Do you sell gold?
OK.
Today, my daughter and Jen, my daughter-in-law, they're coming to India.
This visit is a very special occasion.
I haven't seen my daughter or Jen in over two years,
since the country went on lockdown, because of COVID.
That's pretty. I like the little flower.
What I'm interested in getting for her is something gold,
because, in America, it's more like
14 to 18 carat gold, but here, in India, it's 22 carat gold,
so I'm gonna buy some 22 carat gold,
something for my daughter today.
So, if I... If I don't know her ring size...
OK. These are so pretty.
Look at how pretty that is. Yeah.
It looks small, like it would fit her.
Yeah, so if it's too small for me, it will definitely fit her.
Yeah. That's so cute.
Yeah, I like all of them.
Yeah, I do, too. I know my daughter would like any one of these rings.
Yes.
OK, that's a real diamond.
Yeah. OK, now we're gonna get pricey!
(LAUGHS) Yikes!
This one is cute, but I don't want to give her, like, diamonds.
So can I... Can I just have a moment to decide, please?
OK, yeah, sure.
This one, I like the flower. Yeah.
It's 22 carat gold and I'm excited to give her something that's 22 carat gold.
So, uh, the price?
So I think I'm gonna choose this one for my daughter.
Don't you think that's gonna be a big gift that you're planning to give to Christina?
Yeah, but it's a big occasion. She's coming after so long.
I am, too. I'm not much confident about it.
Yeah, I don't know how hard of a time she's gonna give you.
Like, I don't really know what to expect, because I haven't seen her in so long.
I think they just wanna make sure everything is OK.
I'm very close to my daughter and I do talk to her and tell her everything.
So I have vented to her a lot.
Basically, just about Sumit lying to me that he was married
and delaying us getting married ourselves.
And then going through so much with his parents.
So I'm pretty sure she's gonna come and wanna really have a good talk with Sumit.
If you want, I can buy her this gift.
You buy it for her? Yeah.
Maybe that's how she will be... (LAUGHS) Don't bribe her!
You know, I just wanna gift her something,
kind of a mother-daughter kind of thing.
When she looks down at her finger, she thinks of Mom.
That's why I kind of want to buy it, but it's sweet for you to wanna buy that for her.
Thank you. That's very cute.
And this. Thank you.
Yay! I'm so excited to give this to her.
2 00:31:51.640 -- 00:31:53.640 align:middle line:90% position:50% I didn't get to wear a lot of shit.
Last night was an all-time low.
Michael has lied to me about taking down the Instagram.
He's calling a random girl on his Instagram, his "person".
But what upsets me the most is my own husband doesn't have the desire
to fix this relationship.
And you can't fight a battle that don't wanna fucking be won.
I'll probably always love Michael,
but there's more left to do.
I'm literally exhausted.
Anybody that's been married knows that it's not a straight path,
that it's very confusing.
Being with Michael five years and married to him for over two years,
it is hard to let go,
because I've invested not only my heart, my finances, my family.
I'm 56 now.
Like, who wants to admit you made another mistake at my age?
(PHONE RINGS)
That's Michael calling.
(COUGHS)
Well, how the fuck do you think I am?
Michael, we've done talked. I'm sick now and I'm going home.
Michael...
I'll meet you somewhere and talk, but that doesn't mean nothing.
Send me the address. Bye.
(ENDS CALL)
I'm just so confused right now.
Like, I realise that I've threatened so many times to leave him and I don't.
I am so hurt,
but I still love my husband.
I really, at this point, don't know what to do.
(HORNS BEEPING)
Honestly...
I want the effort from him that I put in this relationship.
So I'm going up here, see what he's got to say.
I'm gonna try my best to shut my fucking mouth.
It can't always be me fixing this relationship for things I haven't done.
At this point, the only thing that can make me happy is Michael showing me real love
and showing me that he wants to make this marriage work.
Like, it's not what Michael can say anymore,
because everything he says is a lie.
Actions show your truth.
So if he wants me to believe anything, he needs to show me not tell me.
I'm gonna let him talk,
then I'll decide what I'm doing.
Hello, Michael.
Thank you.
Go ahead. I'm listening.
OK?
You should have never put it up.
I love you. I always have loved you.
But you've run me through the wringer.
Don't tell me what I wanna hear. Tell the fucking truth.
I know when you're lying. Do you understand that?
As a matter of fact, let me see your phone, Michael. I wanna see who you've been talking to.
I just... I wanna see. Let me see...
Don't do nothing, just get the phone.
Michael taking down his Instagram, this is what I wanted the whole time.
I'm glad that he took it down,
but am I still sceptical?
Of course I am, because he still has a problem with lying.
Angie, come on now, I don't like it.
I'm your wife, I've got that right.
What women do you have on this phone?
A-N-G-E-L-L-E. Who is that? That's a girl.
Don't, don't dare...
A girl?
I'm gonna call it.
A friend? Is this the same friend that's on his social media that he called his "person"?
And if it is...
I'm gonna find out right damn now.
You're scared? You're hiding something?
Then get over it, I'm gonna look.
Because if you want a wife, this is who you got.
I will always be in your... (BLEEP) ..business.
You always can be in mine, I don't care.
I will always be in your fucking business.
(RINGING TONE)
(RINGING TONE CONTINUES)
How many times have I told you not to be having women on your phone?
Hello.
Hey, this is Angela, Michael's wife.
I'm just wondering why your number is in my husband's phone. That's all.
Watch your step.
All right, let's go sit there. Out here? Yeah, this is us.
It feels so good that we're out here without Mylah.
We can enjoy our time together, finally, and...
If date wasn't our date spending together.
Can we please enjoy our night?
OK.
I was pretty surprised yesterday that Yara and her mom set up
apartment shopping without talking to me about it.
She's concerned about her future, in case our marriage doesn't work out.
I don't see where this is coming from
and I'm still pretty upset about it.
But Yara and I are going out tonight to meet with my friend T.
He's from Georgia and he's now located in Germany.
He's come to meet us in Prague.
I'm excited for Yara to meet him for the first time.
What's up? What's up?
Ah, you made it. It's good, man.
Good to see you. How are you?
This is my wife, Yara.
Nice to meet you. This is my friend, Talmadge.
We just call him T, cos nobody knows how to pronounce his name.
'Talmadge and I had a fun past.'
He took me to Ukraine for the first time.
We partied for, like, 17 days in a row, we went out, we went to strip clubs, whatever.
Normally, Yara doesn't really like any of my friends,
so I'm not sure how they're gonna jive.
It feels good for me to get to see my friend for the first time in a long time.
I want her to understand that and respect that.
So...you must have been the one
who took away my travel partner here.
(CHUCKLES) So explain that one.
Kind of.
So are you friends with Jovi cos you are drinking just like Jovi drinks?
Absolutely. Kind of! My partner has gotta be able to drink. We gotta be able to hang.
I feel it, so you'll probably go to a strip club together, stuff like that? Right?
Yeah, all the strip clubs in Ukraine. Makes sense.
He spent a lot of time in Ukraine, too. He loves the people there, he loves the country.
Good people from Ukraine.
Me and Jovi, you know, are good travel buddies.
I thought he was just gonna be a single traveller, like me.
I didn't think that Jovi would meet a girl
and then they would just carry on a relationship,
so I was super surprised that that actually happened.
If he'd never convinced me to go to Ukraine, I'd have never went with you.
We have a crazy story in Ukraine.
When we went to, uh, meet these girls.
That you told me to go meet, because you were running late.
And so I showed up.
I was like, "I'm Jovi's friend."
It was just so super, super...
kind of crazy awkward.
Why? He was coming to meet me with two other girls.
So... Yeah.
Just a few.
We need to change what we're talking about here! OK?
No, no, tell me more. Tell me more. I wanna know all of the story.
Nothing happened, though. I know you... You...
How do you know? Checking what he was doing in his bedroom?
We both had a previous life. OK?
So is this one gonna be forever?
Or... We together four years already.
We have a baby.
I get my green card already and I still don't leave him.
Yeah, but you just got it, so there's still time.
Yesterday, she tries to tell me already she's looking at apartments in Prague.
It doesn't mean that I want to divorce you.
Right after you get your green card. That's not good.
We call that "red flags" in America.
Oh, really? Red flags.
OK.
Why would you try to come to Prague and buy an apartment and not let my boy know?
You didn't tell me until we were leaving. You're hiding it.
But you didn't tell me till the day we were going there.
Jovi, you are hearing what you want to hear.
I tell you I will never hide anything from you.
You hid this from me.
To me it sounds like bullshit, so...
Yeah. What? You're not even married.
You have to know how family really works.
I don't know how it works,
but I know how trust... and how people communicate.
If you don't know something about something, you shouldn't talk about it.
'I think that her going behind his back is a little sketchy.'
It's like, you know, everything that she's thinking,
everything that's going on, you know, in her head,
he should know the same thing.
In some of the things that she says, it seems a little on the selfish side.
So, what's y'all's plans next, after y'all leave here in Prague?
So we will go to visit her over there.
Talmadge, he does live in Germany.
So can he come with us too or what?
What you think?
What? You don't want him to come with us?
If you don't want him to come, just say.
And they need my help and emotional support. OK? I understand that.
If he doesn't come with me, I'm stuck there on my own with nobody who speaks my language.
(SIGHS)
But he can come? He can do whatever he want.
I understand that, too, so no big deal.
Specifically because he thinks that they will go out and they will party or something.
In reality, of course, the reason why we're going to Germany is to meet my best friend, Karina.
She escaped from the war. This is important.
Cheers to Germany. Cheers to Munich.
Cheers, bro. They like to drink beer in Munich. Let's have a good time.
2 00:46:10.400 -- 00:46:13.200 align:middle line:90% position:50% Baby, the sling is in the way. Can you help me take it off?
Are you sure that you want to take it off?
It's annoying me. It's actually making my arm hurt worse. I'm better with it off.
And I need to clean.
I didn't get a chance to mop the floor yet. See? I mopped it last night.
Last night and this morning, also.
My daughter and Jen should be arriving any minute now.
And I cannot wait to see them.
It's been two years or more since I've seen them.
Sumit is gonna be working, so this is the perfect time.
And I just miss her
and I need her here with me right now.
Let's get some happiness and joy back into my life.
I don't want anybody to see...
Jenny's bad housekeeping skills?
(DOORBELL RINGS) (GASPS) They're here!
Mom! (SQUEALS AND LAUGHS)
(EXCITED SQUEALING)
Hi, Jen. Hi, Sumit. How are you? Good.
Nice meeting you once again. You too.
Oh, my God!
I know.
It's so good to see you. Aw!
Oh, my God.
Just seeing my daughter, it's so incredible.
I can't believe she's finally here.
I just don't want to let her go. I wanna just keep hugging her forever.
I can't believe you're here.
I can't believe you're here! (LAUGHS)
Jen!
(SQUEALS) Jen!
(LAUGHS)
Oh, my God, I'm so glad to see you guys.
Well... It's cute in here, Mom.
Since you were coming, we've been decorating.
It looks great. I did that. Like, all the cleaning and decoration. He's gonna take all the credit.
I did nothing. I broke my shoulder and sat on the couch. That's why.
I'm here in support of my mom.
She did just get married. She didn't have anybody there to support her on her side.
'I want her to feel like she has family.'
Well this is, this is where we eat. You hungry? Oh, yeah. Starving.
I ultimately just want my mom to be happy.
I want her to feel loved and be in love.
I want her to feel comfortable, taken care of.
But, in the back of my mind, I still have...
reservations.
I just kind of wanna watch Sumit
and make sure that everything is OK
and that his intentions are, actually, you know, good.
I'm so happy that you came, Christina.
I wanted to do something for you since you were coming. You know?
So I went and bought you something today. You did? Yes, I did.
Really? Mom? So you can wear this
and every time you see it, you'll think of Mom.
(GASPS) Oh, Mom, that's so pretty!
And that ring is 22-carat gold.
That is what we wear here in India.
Thank you. So every time you look at it, you'll think of Mom.
Thank you, Mom.
You're welcome.
I love you. I love you, too.
It's beautiful. Sumit...
Sumit, it's from him, too, actually.
Thank you, Sumit. You're welcome.
He wanted to pay for it. Thank you so much. You're welcome. It's beautiful.
Yeah, having my first beer with Pops!
(LAUGHTER)
Cheers. Cheers. Cheers.
Thank you for cooking, Sumit. Yeah. You're welcome.
I hope you like it, too.
Hey, that's awesome.
So, married life, how's it been?
It's fine, it's... It's the same as not being married. I mean, the only difference is that
I don't have to worry every month, "Am I gonna have to leave India?"
You know, the visa thing. Yeah. Mm-hm.
Do you think his mom will ever accept you?
Even in time, with time?
No. She is, like, set in her ways, damn it.
"This is the culture, this is India and I see it no other way.
I'm not accepting this, I will never accept this.
And Jenny needs to go back to America."
And that's it. End of story.
They might accept him back,
but me, they'll never accept me.
I don't see it ever happening.
Because, you know, my mom is out here by herself,
so I do want her to feel accepted.
The only way that she can really do that is by you, 100%, holding her up.
As opposed to just letting it happen and saying, "Oh, that's just the family
and that's how they are and that's what they do."
That's you guys accepting that and saying that it's OK.
It's not right, it's disrespectful.
'Being here for my mom right now is definitely important.'
Sumit is here, he has his family, this is his country,
but my mom is an American woman in a foreign country.
At this point, it should be, if you don't like my relationship and you don't want my wife
to be a part of it, I can't be a part of the family.
This is my wife, this is who I love. If you can't accept it, you don't accept me.
So what I feel and want would just be for my mom to feel comfortable,
happy and welcome anywhere she is, but have the 100% support of you.
That's, that's all.
Everything went well. My mom is so happy about that, which is the most important thing.
Both Fareedet and Kim want to be the first wife at the same time,
so I don't know how this will actually work out.
I'm here, just sitting in the hotel room.
Then the reality hit me, like, this fucker just went to go meet this woman.
It's been like...
three or four hours, three hours, I guess.
It's nerve-racking and horrendous. If I was in Usman's shoes,
I wouldn't have went on a date while he was there with me, I would have waited,
until after he left, back to his country.
Hello. Hey.
So...how was your little excursion today?
It was fine. Oh, yeah? What does that mean?
Like, what happened? Walk me through it.
Me and the lady, we speak, you know, we spoke a lot, so...
She's not ugly. She's not, like... She's fine.
She's OK, but...
like...
that's not love, you know.
So what did you tell your mom, after you met this, uh, girl?
So my mom was asking me...
do I like the lady.
I was like, "She's beautiful, she's nice."
"I need time to think about it."
Do you think, like... She knows that, like...
I'm here, while you went to go meet this other woman, right.
So she knows I'm here. She knows I know about it. So do you think that's gonna help?
OK.
I knew Usman was not gonna disobey his mom.
I knew he was gonna go, whether I proposed or not,
but following his mom's orders on this is what we need to do
to get her blessing.
This is just going to show his mom how committed I am,
allowing him to marry this second wife, to have children.
Today, this to me was like...
I don't know, it was, it was like...
It just hit me, like, "Fuck!"
And it's something I signed on for, which is fine,
but I'm not ready for this yet, either.
I just proposed to you last night. You know what I'm saying?
Like, this is so soon. You know?
Like, I don't even feel like...
..we've had time to even enjoy the fact that I proposed to you.
And you're not even wearing your ring, that's lovely (!)
That you said you wouldn't take off. And now you're not even wearing it.
Thanks for that.
I think that I've really been, um,
very graceful while I've been here.
I've been very respectful. I've been very unselfish.
I know what is at stake here. You know what I'm saying?
I know this is a hard position for you to be in. I am very well aware of that.
And I didn't mean to upset you.
The whole plan is for us to get Usman's mom's blessing.
So I have to have faith and hope that Usman's mom will have
a little bit more respect for me for letting Usman go on this little date.
I want her to know that I'm OK with Usman taking a second wife, as long as I'm the first wife,
but there's no more sacrifices Kim can do.
All the trips I've made, coming over here
and dealing with Usman's brother, Faruq, who was so difficult,
I totally believe I deserve their mom's blessing.
Now let me remind you how important you are to me.
Let me remind you how I place you as my number one.
I'm sorry.
I just get frustrated.
2 00:59:04.080 -- 00:59:06.080 align:middle line:90% position:50% A little chilly.
# Only in New York
# On Fifth Avenue...
Lights, camera, action! This is it. (SIREN BLARES)
# ..simply crawls from the street with walls
# To Harlem, where music plays...
Babe, what's that?
Um, that's for, like, the kitchen and everything.
So you'll see them slide dishes down there.
Oh, wow, I see that little Ninja Turtle chef just came up and walked... A Ninja Turtle chef!
Yeah, New York, Ninja Turtles. Right? (LAUGHS)
# ..only in New York
# Can you rise to the top...
A flower for the lady?
Thank you. There you go.
No thorns on it. Yeah.
Just for you. Thank you.
# ..like the Empire State
# You gotta be great when you get your shot...
Seeing it on television, it doesn't do it justice, compared to seeing it right now. Like, wow.
# ..only in New York #
The energy in New York is insane.
This place is beautiful, like, beau-ti-ful.
This is like pinnacle of romance, the epitome of romance.
Baby...
how's your feet feeling?
Why? They must be tired.
Because you've been running through my mind all day!
Aw! Ba-boom-boom ching! Or whatever.
Wow, babe, it's perfect. You like it? I love it.
Everybody's singing and dancing!
The right way? (LAUGHS)
Bilal, I just don't want this day to end.
Like, I have the perfect rose,
the perfect guy.
The who? The perfect guy. Nice. I thought I heard you say that.
We're in Times Square, I'm with you, we're gonna see Eutris.
And it will be us...
doing grown people business in bed.
I'm, I'm, I'm...
High five! Up top, up top.
That will produce something called "a baby".
Uh... Let's go meet Eutris.
(CHUCKLES)
We're in New York City.
So many things to see.
We're in the heart of everything,
but, Shai, she's still focused on one thing.
She thinks that we're gonna make this trip about making a baby,
which is not the case.
I hope dinner with Eutris will...
just take her mind off of the baby thing.
You know? Even if just for a little while.
Is this your friend here? Eutris!
Oh, my God!
Oh, my beautiful friend!
Oh, my God, I haven't seen her since... So happy to see you.
You look so beautiful. I have missed you.
Bilal. Pleasure to meet you. My best friend, Eutris.
Pleasure to meet you. Nice to meet you.
You as well. I've heard a lot about you.
I'm sure.
Hopefully, good things. Well, we'll see about that.
..I know, basically, that they're married and he was married before.
I think the only concern I have,
basically, is the fact that Shaeeda...
Thank you.
Of course.
Enjoy your dinner. Thank you.
This is nice. It's beautiful.
Nice ambience.
Yeah.
So, Eutris, what do you think about my husband?
Well...it's a bit early still.
I just have to say.
Uh-huh. OK. All right. (LAUGHS)
How do you feel about that?
How do I feel about having a conversation?
How do you feel about having a conversation?
Really?
Um... Well...
Why are you hesitating?
Well, uh, sometimes...
A relationship is between, usually, two individuals.
Mm-hm. So, sometimes,
there are certain things you may not want to discuss with everybody
who is not in that couple.
It's not about me. It's about you and marriage to my friend. Exactly.
It's about us. Not really about you.
Bilal, relax.
You want me to relax? Yeah.
Just relax. I was very relaxed.
Cos you... You looked like you was really getting angry.
I was actually, because I think you're being really mean and really rude.
I was answering...
the questions.
Wasn't I?
You look very tense.
I'm very tense? Yeah.
Trust me, you have not seen tense from me, at all. OK.
How many times have I told you not to be having women on your phone?
Hello.
Hey, this is Angela, Michael's wife.
So I'm going through Michael's phone and I find a woman in his contacts.
Michael says it's his friend.
Kind of makes me wonder is that the same friend on your social media that you call your "person"?
If it is, he's in trouble. If it ain't, he's in trouble.
The girl shouldn't be in his damn phone. I don't fucking know her.
I'm just wondering why your number is in my husband's phone. That's all.
Can you hear me?
No, he's not your friend. You need to find your own friend. He's married now.
(ANGELLE ENDS CALL) Yeah.
Your friend.
See how your friend treated your wife?
Unbelievable.
I don't give a fuck...
She still has your number, five years, six years now?
Was she pretty?
You don't want me to find out what you did.
Have you cheated? You better tell me now.
Finding a woman in his contacts doesn't confirm a relationship or nothing.
But why am I just finding out about this? Like, what is he doing behind my back?
I wanna be able to believe you.
You did all this shit to me, what would you feel like, Michael?
(VOICE BREAKS) How would you have felt, Michael?
How would you have felt?
What Michael's put me through in these past months,
it's overwhelming.
And then, when he comforts me, that's what I want from him,
but there's a little part of me, no, a lot of part of me that says,
he's putting on an act just to make me believe that he cares.
This is what lying has got me to.
I don't know what to believe from the man no more.
If you give me a reason to trust you.
Next time you do something to go make me crazy,
think about the consequences before you do them.
I'm looking for you to just be honest with me and stop lying to me.
If it upsets your wife, don't do it. We've come this far, Michael.
How about we do what we've been doing? Stay together on the phone,
miss each other, talk to each other.
Do you understand that?
Mm.
Are you gonna stay with me?
Or are you gonna go back home?
I love you.
I was just thinking...
would I be a good cowboy or what?
That's no problem. Would you be a good cowboy? Yeah, you would.
Marshmallows? Yes.
Sticks? Damn, those are, like, some serious sticks over there.
Well, you won't burn your hands. It's nice and long.
Tonight is our last night in Arizona,
so my dad and Andrei's dad, Stefan, are gonna be watching Ellie.
So it gives Andrei and I some alone time together.
With the new baby coming, it's definitely gonna happen less and less.
So it's nice to just have a moment between the two of us.
Stop.
(GIGGLES)
Here. Thank you.
'We don't get date nights too often.'
We need to do, like, a baby moon or something, before the next baby comes.
What's a baby moon?
It's a vacation you take before the baby gets here.
Like a honeymoon. Oh, my God, vacation, vacation. A honeymoon before the baby.
I think this is definitely a very American thing to do.
There's push presents, a baby moon. What else?
Mm-hm, you're learning! You better give me a push present this time.
I'm just saying... Because I pushed really hard with Ellie.
Oh, yeah, yeah. OK.
Cheers. Marshmallow cheers. To Arizona.
Cheers.
I loved it.
Next is the gender reveal. Yeah.
We come up with something super epic.
Yeah. I know we will. The problem is who is gonna be there?
The people that...
actually matter.
I'm looking at Libby, the fact that
nobody reached out to her
the day after sharing the news on social media.
Honestly, like, literally, in six months, I'll be having a baby.
Where is that gonna be? Is it gonna be here? Is it gonna be in Moldova?
Yeah. You know, are we gonna be able to rekindle things with the family?
If they're willing and they're open and they don't act, like, proud.
I don't think we should keep trying.
Fuck them, you know? They're just haters.
I've thought a lot about what my dad said today and I think that therapy might be a good idea.
Although I'm still upset with my mom and my sisters, I don't wanna feel this way.
Maybe at therapy, we can finally talk to each other
and they can really understand why I'm hurt.
Then we can move forward before the baby is born.
But I'm worried that Andrei won't be on the same page.
So what I talked to my dad about today...
Yeah.
He knows some people that are therapists.
Yeah. So he wants to talk to them
and see if they'd be willing to intervene.
I think therapy can be good.
If you have the right person and actually take their advice,
make some, you know, alterations in your life.
In your life or in somebody's else life?
Well, that's what I'm saying. It can be good if your heart is open to it.
I don't know, like, even how to approach this therapy. You know? I'm kind of like...
I kind of don't care about these people.
You know what I mean? Yeah, but that's my family.
Why not? Like, come on. Do we get respect? No.
Why should I respect them?
I mean, baby, I don't think that
the right approach is to just go in and, like, make fun of everybody.
We want resolution here.
Not to add to it.
'Therapy is not common to do in Moldova, honestly.
This is a completely new thing for me in America.
In my country, we say things directly and we don't pretend.'
So, if you don't like a person,
you would not hang out with that person, just because,
you know, like, he's a brother, he's an uncle or somewhere else.
So, if you don't like to hang out with these people, plus they're toxic,
and they're interfering with your mental health,
then you need to get rid of those people.
Babe...
I mean, if these are the last few months that we have here in America,
I really don't wanna spend it with, like, turmoil with my family.
Babe, we'll see how it's gonna go.
We wouldn't really see them at all, ever, if we lived in Moldova.
That's fine with me.
Well, that's the point of therapy.
That's what my dad is saying.
I'm willing to go and say some stuff. You know what I mean?
I think it's worth a shot. Yeah.
But I don't think that you should go in with that mindset.
Babe, I'm doing this for you. OK?
I'll see it on the spot.
2 01:15:50.600 -- 01:15:54.560 align:middle line:75% position:50% Me, too.
I know, I can tell your energy is low today, I see it.
I mean, it's the last day, so we have to pull it together for this.
So I need you to... Come on, we got this.
We got it. Right? Mm-hm.
We got this.
Yesterday, Usman met up with this lady,
that his mom, potentially, wants to be his first wife.
And then today, out of nowhere,
Usman's brother, Mohammed, called Usman and said that his mom
needed to meet with us right away.
I have no idea what this is about and I'm really nervous.
Like, I feel sick, I'm so nervous.
Babe, I love you. You know I love you, right?
You love me. Right?
We love each other. I do. Let's just do this.
Mrs Kim. Hi. How are you? Good morning, fine.
OK.
When Usman tells me that his family has a note for me,
I'm like, "What the fuck is going on?"
I'm thinking in my head, this has to be like a whole new set of demands.
This whole situation is just terrifying.
Either Usman or Kimberly have no right to anyone's properties or money unless willingly.
If the couple decides to move to the United States of America, Kimberly must allow Usman
to visit his family in Nigeria every quarter.
As I'm reading this note, it just hit me, this is the blessing.
This is huge, huge.
I agree.
Yeah!
You're so short compared to me.
(LAUGHTER)
Usman's mom gave us her blessing.
BOTH: Yay!
I can't compare this feeling. I've never felt
so completely in love with somebody as I do at this moment with Usman.
I just wanna go home and drink and sleep now. I'm so tired.
This has exhausted me!
But you're worth it. You're worth every single struggle.
Thank you.
You look very tense. I'm very tense? Yeah.
Trust me, you have not seen tense from me, at all. OK.
Are you OK? I'm great. Yeah.
We're in New York. We're having dinner with Shaeeda's friend, Eutris.
And she's coming out of the gate, like, just so aggressive
and just, you know, rude.
The feeling that I have right now is Eutris...
it seems like she doesn't like me very well.
This is comical for me, like, very comical.
But I don't think we should be so presumptuous.
It sounds like you're...
What's the word they say in London?
I don't know. What are you trying to say?
What's the word... Oh. Nosy. That's it.
Nosy? Yeah. Really? You think I'm snotty?
Ooh! I didn't say that. You said it.
Hm... That's interesting.
So I'm really worried that maybe she's overlooking some sort of
personality that he may have, that might be a problem in the future
and she's just not aware of it.
So you think I'm putting my nose where it's not meant to be? About my best friend?
About your best friend? Mm-hm.
So I can ask you anything I want.
I sit down with her father. I sit down with her mother.
Mm-hm. All of her sisters.
But you didn't sit down with me. Yeah. Her best friend.
Um... Here's the thing...
If I...
I would say something, if I intend on saying it.
I'm a very confident person.
Really? So... Do you not have anything to hide?
Absolutely not. OK. Good.
You ordered this one. Yeah. Thank you.
This is mine. Thank you.
Fruit punch.
Cheers. ALL: Thank you.
Are you OK?
It's just important for my best friend and my husband to get along,
because, on a very serious note,
y'all are two people who I really care about.
I just want y'all to mesh.
Shaeeda...
Um, it's funny, because...
your demeanour,
you know, your energy, like, your energy right now...
What about my energy now? How you're looking,
uh, it's very...
It's just different.
It was more so like, "Who's this guy?" You know?
Not even like, "I'm sure that she's probably picked out a really good guy."
Let me get a chance. So you assumed that I'm thinking she didn't pick out a good guy?
Well, you... I didn't assume anything. You said it out of your mouth.
I'm very defensive?
Interesting. Mm.
Here's the thing with that.
If she is your best friend,
I'm sure she's told you all the things that I do for her.
You should be happy. I beg your pardon?
Are you saying, basically, that,
because you do things for her, then it's like...
I should be thankful, because nobody else would have done it for her?
I said... OK, listen, listen, listen, listen.
I'm happy for my people that I love.
Listen, babe, what are you ordering?
Eutris, what are you ordering?
Cos I wanna go ahead and order.
He's making me lose my appetite, to be honest, hun.
Well, you can lose your appetite.
I'm trying to compose myself. Just give me a second.
'So I don't know how we're gonna move on.
I need to speak with her, you know, about it.'
This is very serious.
So...
Yeah.
I got the blessing!
Yes!
Next time on... 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After?...
(READS) Kimberly must allow Usman to marry a young lady in the future to enable him to have children.
In the United States, that's prohibited.
You would lose your green card, if it were found that you were a polygamist.
If Usman can't take a second wife, then I don't think he'll marry me.
What if Shaeeda was to tell you that she's pregnant in six months' time?
You wanna stay in Europe? While I go back home to work? Yes.
I'm getting pretty mad, because I feel like,
every day, she's coming up with any reason to try to be
away from me in a foreign country.
So, Liz, do you have... Do you have concerns about meeting the big group?
I have worries of what Ed's family might think about me,
because, if they don't agree with us being together, I think it will be
very hard for Ed to move forward with marriage.
Sorry, touchy subject.
I know.
Uh, yeah, I do have something to tell you.
This thing about Billy...
You guys posted this Instagram,
but you didn't bother to tell us.
I found out Libby was pregnant
the same time the entire world did.
You know? So it's hurtful.
It's about your fucking jealousy. You honestly think I'm jealous of you? Yes.
Shut the fuck up!
Show... You have no fucking respect!
Back away from me.
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