Get out of there.
-[Ava] Parker, stop. -[Hazel] Ouch!
[Danielle] Previously on OutDaughtered...
I don't get stressed out by a lot of things,
but what stresses me out is clutter.
[Adam] I mean, Danielle is clearly worked up,
and I don't think it's just the closet being messy.
-You need to chill. -Don't use those words with me.
-I'm gonna get fired up even more. -Relax.
I just can't. I can't.
Girls, I'm going for a walk.
[Danielle] Nope.
Are you good with the lighting over there?
Yeah, I mean, I... I think the lighting's really good.
Lately, I've been gettin' a lot more photography gigs
outside of the house,
but it's definitely been a big adjustment for me and Danielle.
-I need some help. We need some help. -I just don't like that.
-Honestly. -Then one of us don't work anymore.
[Riley] Hazel, watch, I can smoosh this.
-[Parker] Riley. -I've been looking at these different agencies
-to, like, help. -We need Mary Poppins.
If you put on a job description quintuplets, like...
They're like, "Heck, no."
You want a part-time job?
Oh, I'd be more than happy to help you.
If our Aunt Kiki is gonna be in charge of my sisters,
they're definitely gonna take advantage of her.
Can you all go put on dresses or something?
-Like nice dresses? -[indistinct conversation]
[Crystal] Listen to Kiki. Come on.
-No. -[Olivia] I don't want to.
Ava.
This job is not right for me.
[Adam] Did you really think Crystal could keep up
with everything going on in our house?
Nobody can.
♪ Oh, oh
♪ Whoa-oh
♪ Oh, oh
♪ Oh, oh, oh
♪ Oh, oh
♪ Oh, oh, oh
♪ Oh
♪ Oh, oh
♪ Oh, oh, oh
[kids giggling]
[Peggy] So you guys know anything about aerial silks?
[girl] I've seen them before.
[Peggy] On YouTube.
The first thing we're gonna do
is we're gonna put the silk behind our back,
and it should be at the right height for you to lean back.
-[Crystal] Yes. That's good. -[Danielle] Oh, look at Riley. Go, Riley.
-[laughs] -[Peggy] Very nice.
-Good job. -[Danielle] Oh!
-[Hazel giggling] -[Crystal chuckles]
I'm gonna do the best at aerial arts
because I'm actually flex... flexible.
Well, I'm flexibler than... than my whole family.
Okay, no one cares.
Okay. Are you guys gonna have a battle over who's first?
Because I have a way to work that out.
-Come here. -[Hazel giggles]
[Peggy] We're gonna play rock, paper, scissors.
So this is a rock.
[Danielle] Look, Ava.
This is paper.
And this is scissors.
-Okay? -[Crystal] Okay.
[Peggy] So turn around, face that way. So you can't see.
I'm gonna count one, two, three,
and you're gonna hold either the rock,
the paper or the scissors, and we'll see who wins. Ready?
One, two, three, go!
[indistinct conversation]
You asked identical twins
-to do rock, paper, scissors. -Okay, one more time.
That's what makes it fun.
-One, two, three, go. -[Danielle] Rock...
[all laughing]
Okay, let's do it again.
You guys will be tired before we start.
One, two, three, go!
-Oh... -Oh, we have scissors and rock.
[indistinct conversation]
-[Danielle] All right, y'all, listen. -Okay.
So Crystal said we should try this place out
because it's good on body and joints and...
Right, because you're not... There's no impact on your feet.
So you're floating, basically,
-the entire time you're working out. -Oh.
The past few years, my body has taken a hit
because... "Hey, guess what? You had quintuplets."
That's beautiful.
Good job.
[Danielle] I go through these waves
of I don't feel good, my joints hurt,
my back hurts, my knees hurt, my hips hurts
and all these things
and I can't work out like I used to.
And Crystal suggested aerial yoga,
so might as well try it.
[Peggy] Yes, just like that. That's great.
Okay, we're gonna go in the straddle.
And then you're gonna bring one leg across,
and the other one's going to go behind you.
-Oh, yeah, I wanna see Adam do this. -[Danielle laughing]
Okay. This foot comes across here,
and then this one goes behind you like that.
-I'm doin' it! -You're doin' it. Very good.
[Adam] I feel like a swan.
-Your leg's gotta go... Make your legs straight. -[laughing]
[Blayke] You look like a ballerina.
[Dale] Now we... Now we spin him.
[laughing]
Stop. Stop.
-Stop. -[all laugh]
-My ribbon zigged and it should've zagged. -[chuckles]
And it was torture.
So I think I'm fine bowing out on this one.
That's it. You got it.
And then you're gonna push up and go into the strap.
Hey, did you ever hear back from those people with the agency?
Yeah. I mean, we have a couple of interviews set up with some people.
Well, I thought Kiki was helping
with all your stuff.
-That just did not work out. -Yeah, we... Yeah, when...
That... that was just so much,
like, I had a lot to do at my house
and just jumping in and doing that...
Some of the resumes from these potential candidates we're looking at
maybe hiring to like help around the house or coming in.
And trying to line up some interviews
and actually have the first one tomorrow.
So fingers crossed.
[Peggy] And then hands up above and climb up. Very good.
All I know is I'm about to leave for VidSummit
and I'm gonna need somebody helping you
because it's gonna be, like, right in the middle of the week.
Typically, whenever you need help the most.
I've been going to VidSummit for years.
It's one of the largest video creators conferences
to meet and network in the world.
So, hopefully, we can get somebody hired before I leave for Dallas.
Just because the holidays are usually nonstop for Danielle,
just with the boutique and everything going on there,
and I would really like for her to take a little rest
before all that craziness starts.
Who's gonna be at VidSummit?
I mean, pretty much like every top creator in the world.
Uh, the Ninja Kidz are gonna be there.
Y'all are always watching videos with HopeScope,
she'll be there.
I don't even know who any of these people are.
Oh, I wanna go.
[Adam] I mean, people we...
[Blayke] Yeah. Why can't we go?
I've always wanted to start my own YouTube channel.
And so, I would love to go to VidSummit
to be able to, like, meet HopeScope,
because she's really funny
and she does, like, unboxing and stuff,
so I would love to do stuff like that.
[Danielle] It's a school week.
Like you're already having a new scheduled routine
of, like, volleyball in the morning and then, like, school.
-And then-- -I mean, it could be a...
a cool opportunity for them to go.
Adley's gonna be there from A for Adley.
[Hazel speaking]
Now all your children are gonna wanna go
-after they go tell the other sisters. -[Dale] Yeah.
My favorite YouTuber is the Ninja Kidz.
They do a lot of, uh, fun things like obstacle courses.
-They do challenges. -Like treasure hunts.
-[Danielle] Okay, so... -See, they all wanna go.
So you're just gonna keep naming people
to make them more and more wanna go?
[all laugh]
Yeah, but if you go, then he's your help.
-[Dale laughs] -[Danielle] Seriously?
Yeah, I mean, somewhat.
I mean...
[vocalizing]
Okay. Yes. Yes. Let's go.
Let's go do what we came here for
-instead of... -Exactly.
-Yeah, time to go... -...changing up the plans for the week.
...swing on them ribbons.
-So you haven't talked to her at all yet? -[Danielle] No.
[sighs] Okay.
Got her resume and information,
so now it's just... Let's chat.
Hope she likes dogs, too.
It's finally happening.
We are interviewing some potential nannies today.
- Hi. -[Adam] Hello.
Hi.
Is this Adi?
[Danielle] The first person we're talkin' with,
we've heard great things about her,
so hopefully she'll be the one.
So thanks for jumping on a call with us.
We'd love to, just, like, ask you a couple questions.
So what is your experience or work with children, kids?
You know, we are a large family, and we do have six children.
We have a 12-year-old and quintuplets who are eight-year-old.
And we have two dogs. Do you like dogs?
[Danielle] Well, uh...
Yeah, we have, actually one of our daughters
-that is actually allergic to cats. So... -Can we shave them?
Yeah. We won't be shaving cats.
[all laugh]
[Danielle] She seemed great,
but we cannot have your cats here.
We don't even have dogs
that are, like, used to seeing cats.
And so, like, who knows what that situation would be like?
[Danielle] So in my perfect world,
I'm looking to hire someone to multitask.
But it is an overwhelming list of responsibilities for sure.
Getting kids off to school in the morning,
helping making lunches, helping with homework.
And we might need more evening help
with sports and all the places we have to go.
But during the day, it's cleaning the house up,
washing towels and sheets and cleaning the kitchens
and cleaning the bathrooms, um, taking the trash out.
So it's really kind of like a full day of, um... of work.
-[Danielle] Yeah, so... -[Adam] The thing is, like, the job,
it changes a lot.
It's just so much just for us to be able to manage it all,
you know, because we're both working.
And so, you know, we just need an extra hand.
[Adam] Yeah.
Yeah.
Well, thank you so much for your time.
-All right. Thank you. -Thank you, guys.
-[Danielle] Thanks, Adi. -[Adam] Bye-bye.
[Danielle] That was interesting.
At the end of the interview, she was like,
"Yeah, this is just too much for me. I'm not..."
-She, like... -I mean, that was...
That was the first time I've ever been turned down by a woman.
So it was, like, really weird.
Well, that sounds really lovely. [chuckles]
[Adam] Well, it is a lot for somebody
to do that every day.
I'm just starting to come to the realization
that it's just... It's more of a... a two-person job.
[Danielle] It sounded promising,
but I think we may have scared her away.
Okay? So, like, what happens if we don't find anybody?
I mean, I don't know.
[Danielle] It's not like I'm hiring a sales associate.
I mean, these people aren't cheap.
I knew it was gonna be a difficult process,
and I was hoping we'd find someone
before Adam leaves to go to VidSummit.
But now I'm thinking we're not gonna find anyone at all.
It's a shame it didn't work out.
I mean, I guess we need to keep interviewing.
-[Adam] What did you do today? -[girl] What do you mean?
[Adam] What'd you do today at school?
-Daddy, you gotta see, uh... -[Adam] Hmm.
Um, toothpaste.
So, I'm...
Or shaving cream
uh, with a solid or liquid
-or, um... -Gas?
[indistinct conversation]
-Or both. -A what?
-That... That... -A what?
That means colloid.
-Like, collard greens? That's a vegetable. -Colloid.
Coloroid?
I've never heard that word.
It means both...
Sometimes the kids do surprise us with, like, stuff
that they come home and, like, retain.
Daddy do this.
[Blayke] Family meeting.
-[Danielle] What? -[Blayke] Family meeting.
Can you connect this to the TV?
-Connect what to the TV? -This.
-[Adam] You have a presentation? -[Blayke] Yes.
-[Adam] Oh. -Oh, today at school there was a cricket
in the hallway.
So I picked it up and it kept on jumping out of my hands.
Then someone hold the door for me so I could let it outside.
And then I kissed it.
[Adam] You what?
-Kissed a cricket? -Yes.
[Adam] It's gross.
-Okay, there, Blayke. -Thanks.
Everyone get on the couch.
-[Hazel] Why? -[Danielle] And find a seat.
What's a Blayke Busby Channel?
Just wait. So, we all know
how our family has, like, our own YouTube channel.
Well, I think that I should start my own.
-[Danielle] Oh. That kind of channel. -[Parker] Yeah.
-[Adam] What do you mean? -This is...
-"Why I want my own--" -This is... [shushes]
[Blayke] This is why I want one.
Being a big sister of quintuplets,
I could say, like, what it's like.
-So Blayke wants... -And all my friends are doing it, too.
Next.
We've had a family YouTube channel for years.
And so the quints and Blayke
have watched other creators for quite some time.
But it's like, just now they're, like...
It's startin' to, like, spark an interest
where they're actually wanting to do
like, their own stuff
and, like, create their own videos.
Momma, Daddy, look what video I made.
-[Danielle] Oh, you made a video? Let me see. -You made a video?
[Hazel on video] I do not understand
how people are not afraid of spiders.
They have eight legs and, like, 20,000 eyes.
Uh, uh, I saw a spider in my room.
-You think I'm gonna sleep in there? -[Danielle chuckles]
[Hazel] Uh, Nope. Um...
-[chuckles] -[speaking other language]
-You like making videos? -[Hazel] Mmm-hmm.
[Danielle] Aw, look at my babies.
So Blayke wants a YouTube channel.
-Well, I want my own. -I can make money.
[Parker] I can earn my own money.
What would your channel be about?
Skin care?
-Skin care? -As a eight-year-old you need skin care?
-You don't even use skin care. -[Ava vocalizing]
You don't even have skin care.
Do you even know what skin care is?
[Ava] How to eat chocolate.
How to eat chocolate is Ava's. [chuckling]
[Danielle] I don't know. It's a lot to process.
I know how to work a computer.
Yeah, but, like, we're already doing it.
So why do you need your own?
I just listed, like, five reasons already.
[Adam] Hey, you're asking for stuff of us.
You don't need to get attitude about it.
[Blayke] I don't think my parents know
that I'm actually really good at making videos,
but I don't have any social media
besides, like messages or anything like that.
I think that kids my age that have social media,
it's a important part of their life to them.
So I think I could have a great channel.
I just would need them to let me do it.
[Adam] I mean, I like the idea
that you're, like, willing and like want to do this
and want to have your own thing.
But there's a... a awful lot to that,
especially as a 12-year-old.
Yes, I know how to edit videos.
They do do stuff like that at school.
-Mmm-hmm. -[Adam] I'm not talking about just that stuff.
Blayke is at the age where, like a lot of her friends at school,
like are on social media.
It is natural for her to, like,
want and at least to ask,
if she can have a social media channel.
There's a lot longer list of things that you haven't thought about.
[Danielle] If she falls in love
with cameras and videography like Adam does...
Like, I want her to be creative,
but there's a huge, big struggle
with online bullying and we just worry about it.
Good job, baby. We'll... Me and dad will talk about it
and we'll let you know.
[Blayke] Okay.
I don't feel like a 12-year-old's ready for that.
[Danielle] Guess what?
Daddy convinced me.
We're going to Dallas.
-[gasps] -[all cheering]
Get a bag. You're gonna do clothes for tomorrow.
Riley, did you hear?
Yes. Clothes.
I really hope this is a good idea.
We made it.
-[Riley] We don't have any clothes. -[Hazel] I don't
-have clothes. -What do you mean you don't have clothes?
This is what y'all packed?
I feel like we do, we do, we do, we do.
But it's like, sometimes I just want to be just me and you.
I feel like we could deepen our marriage connection.
I mean, do you understand
at some aspect of, like, what I'm saying?
I mean, I... I think so.
♪ Wouldn't know it Unless I told you ♪
♪ So I'm just saying it Like I'm holding ♪
♪ It was rolling
♪ So maybe take it back
♪ Just a little willy rap
-♪ Just a little -♪ Yeah, yeah
[Riley] Yes.
[Riley] Luke.
-Do you have a boyfriend? -Nope.
-Yes. -No, I don't.
[Riley] You like Michael.
No, I don't. Reese does.
Then why're you blush...
Why is your face turning red?
'Cause y'all are being mean.
-[Riley] No, we're not. -[giggling]
It's true.
-You like Graham. -I don't.
They broke up.
-Oh, yeah. -Hey, girls.
-Yes? -We got some news.
[Adam] Hey, girls, come here.
-Daddy's got good news. -Ooh, yup.
Oh, rollerblades and all, huh?
[Adam] Hey, who wants to come on a little trip?
[all] Me, me!
You know how we've been talkin'
about Daddy's leavin' for VidSummit today?
-Yes. -How y'all wanna go there?
-[Hazel] Yeah. -[Danielle] Well, guess what?
Daddy convinced me.
-We're going to Dallas. -Oh.
[girls cheering]
[Riley] We were excited.
Everybody was, like, screaming and...
Yeah! It was so funny.
Does this mean I get my own channel?
-[Adam] Uh, we're still thinking about that. -No, we're just going...
But this is where you'll go to learn from some other people.
So what that means is go get a bag.
You're gonna do underwear, PJs, clothes for tomorrow
and a toothbrush. Okay, go.
Riley, did you hear?
-[Riley] Yes. -What were the things I said?
PJs, clothes.
Toothbrush.
[Adam] I'm already packed.
I just need to pack my camera bag.
All right? I'mma get my stuff done.
Originally, I was against going to Dallas for VidSummit.
But, I mean, this could be
a good learning experience for the kids
and honestly, just all of us
to see what these content creators are doing.
And so I'm gonna go with an open mind.
And I mean, who knows? Like, maybe I'll want my own channel.
[laughs]
Adam, I just realized we don't have the van.
We got to go in the rental car and your truck then.
-Oh, yeah. -We're gonna have to take two cars.
We're gonna have to take two vehicles.
That's annoying.
Being that this is, like, the only time
for some downtime before the holidays,
I really didn't think Danielle would be going for this trip.
But she said she wanted to learn
a whole lot more about this world
now that her daughters are interested in it.
So I mean, I really hope this is a good idea.
Everybody, y'all good? Y'all get in the car.
Adam, you, uh, make sure to check all the bags.
[Adam] All right. I'll count the bags.
How many bags you all have? Three?
Four?
So the trip to Dallas is only about four...
-Four and half hours away. -Only?
-[chuckles] -And...
I mean, the kids have gotten a lot better
with, like, road trips and stuff,
and bein' able to hold it.
And we can get, like, longer stretches
without having to stop so much.
But, I mean,
you just never really know, though.
All right, everybody's got a bag?
-You got everything you need? -[Riley] Yeah.
I need to take my rollerblades off.
Come on. Some with me, some with Daddy.
-[Adam] All right, buddy. -[Hazel] Daddy, which car are we going in?
-[Danielle] Get in the car. -[Adam] You're ridin' in my truck with me.
The cool kids.
-Y'all seat buckled? -[girl] Yup.
Let's rock and roll. Adam we're leavin'.
Hold on.
Daddy!
-Daddy. -My daddy.
-[indistinct conversation] -Mommy.
Mom is the most fun
because... she is.
[Danielle] Y'all excited?
-[girl 1] Mmm-hmm. -[girl 2] Yeah.
Yeah. Hey, who do y'all think we're gonna see there?
-Adley. -HopeScope.
Do y'all watch a lot of HopeScope?
I do.
She has pink hair.
I'm excited to meet YouTubers like HopeScope.
If I met HopeScope,
maybe she could convince my parents
on letting me have a channel.
[cell phone ringing]
Oh, look who it is.
Are all yours asleep, like mine?
[Danielle] No, we've been partying.
We're full on party people.
We're full on party people, yeah, Ava.
Mom's fun.
Right, girls?
When are we gonna get there?
[Adam] Here at the hotel.
-Oh, finally. -Finally.
Oh, let's get out and stretch, get all your stuff.
Expectations for VidSummit,
honestly, it's always been in LA.
And for us in Texas and having, like a family of 8,
like it's not very conducive for like me to like,
load all my kids on an airplane
and, like, just go over there for, like a three-day conference or whatnot.
And so just to be able to have them here, I mean, I'm just like over the moon.
Gosh, we have this room next door, too.
We made it.
Yeah, we're gonna have fun.
[Adam] We're gonna meet all kind of cool people.
Whoever's changing needs to change now.
-[Riley] We don't have any clothes. -We don't have clothes.
What do you mean you don't have clothes?
[Danielle] You better have clothes. Give me that backpack.
How do you not have clothes? You're freaking carrying a massive backpack.
Ooh, this is squishy?
This is what y'all packed?
What the heck?
Where's clothes at, Riley?
You never told us to pack clothes.
Yeah.
Daddy, I said, make sure they go get their bags packed.
You told me to count the bags.
I didn't say count the bags.
I said, go make sure they've packed their bags.
-Danielle, Danielle-- -They do this--
Every single trip, you pack all their clothes.
Stuffed animals are way important than clothes.
You don't need clothes to live.
-More animals. -Y'all know we're going overnight.
Y'all didn't put any clothes in here.
[Danielle] Does anybody have clothes?
[Hazel] No.
No. But I brought a blanket.
[Danielle] Hurry! We gotta hurry. Let's go.
All right.
It's gonna be crazy. There's a lot of people here.
We're at the annual VidSummit,
and I've always wanted Danielle
and the kids to come 'cause it's the biggest like
video creator summit probably in the world.
[Danielle] What's the plan?
Y'all want to make videos and all this kind of stuff?
Well, this is where all those creators come to, like, learn from each other.
So hopefully we'll get to meet some of them,
and y'all can ask all kind of questions.
Adley is probably here somewhere.
[Danielle] Maybe.
[Blayke] Well, her booth might be here,
but I don't know if she's here.
Okay. Come on.
I mean, it took a lot longer to get to VidSummit than we had originally anticipated
just because we had to go buy new clothes.
But we're still getting here at the tail end of the first day.
-[indistinct conversation] -You've got some energy.
[Blayke] Oh. It's from all that candy she ate.
-She only gave her half of it. -No, it is not. Maybe it is.
So we're gonna cram in whatever we can,
and tomorrow we'll just do what we missed today.
The girl over there in the blue shirt, that's Nastya.
[Adam] Hi!
Hello. I'm Riley.
-I'm Danielle. -I'm Nastya.
[Danielle] Nastya.
So how long have you been doing YouTube?
[Danielle] Six years.
You have any advice for us?
Nastya has 100 million followers.
-We should. -We should?
I used to watch Nastya when we were like...
four or five.
[Danielle] In a little while.
[Hazel] How long is a little while?
I found out my friend Priscilla is putting on a couples retreat
for some friends of ours, and it could be interesting.
So I'm looking forward to hearing more about it.
This place is ginormous!
-Oh, look! Look! -Look, there's A for Adley.
[Riley] Adley.
[Danielle] Whoa! Knock, knock.
Hi!
[Shaun] Yeah! Are you guys having fun?
[girls] Yes.
Being right here.
[Shaun] Being right here? Hanging out?
-Right here. -[Shaun] Yes!
[Danielle] They want to each have their own channels now.
-Yeah, that sounds like a lot. -[Danielle] Yeah, that's a lot.
I have one kid with one channel and it's a crazy mess.
Cuckoo crazy.
[Shaun] It's cuckoo crazy.
[Blayke] Today's been okay mostly,
but most of the YouTubers we met today were...
YouTubers my sisters like.
And I haven't seen HopeScope yet,
and I'm really upset because I wanted to meet her.
[Shaun] There's a really cool YouTube video
where you make slime and then put it on your mom.
You guys should try and film that one.
Oh, yeah? You guys gonna go to the trampoline park?
[all] Yes.
Let's go it!
[Riley] It was really cool to meet Adley.
[Adam] See you later.
It was really expiring... [stammers]
It is really expiring to meet her.
Inspiring.
[Adam] I heard the Ninja Kidz are in here.
[all] Hi, guys!
[Danielle] They watch y'all's channel all the time.
-Awesome! I'm so glad we could meet you guys. -[girl] Yeah.
[Ashton] You guys want to check out the park?
-Come follow me this way. -[Danielle] All right. Let's go!
♪ One, two, three, go!
♪ Jump, jump
[Hazel speaking]
[cell phone chimes]
[kids speaking indistinctly]
I mean, I love seeing Adam and the girls, like all having fun.
But I do know that when I get back home,
I'm gonna have a lot of things waiting for me.
-[Ashton] One, go-- Oh! -[Danielle] Uh-oh!
[Danielle] I mean, I don't wanna bring down the fun,
but, I mean, it's always on my mind, and I know I'm just
gonna have to pay later for stepping away for these few days.
Girlies, y'all don't need all these stuffed animals, right?
Everybody's good?
You're gonna have about ten minutes of quiet time, okay?
Play on iPads, whatever.
Good talk.
So the girls didn't get to see everyone that they wanted to see today.
But tomorrow we've got a long day ahead of us,
so hopefully we'll get to see more.
What did you think about it?
I mean, it was fun.
The kids had fun, and it was definitely a different perspective
of like, that whole world.
But it was interesting.
As a mom, my first priority is my children
and keeping them safe, and, I don't know,
um, I'm still kind of nervous about all of it,
because I'm not really yet okay with this whole,
like, online world with the girls being involved in it.
But we'll, you know, see what we get out of tomorrow
and where we go from there.
Dude, what a long day!
How're you feeling?
I mean, it's a lot to just, like,
get up and go away for one night
and I feel overwhelmed at times.
Like it's not like it's bad.
It's just it's lost in translation.
Did you get the bags? Did you check the bags? [chuckling]
And I think a lot of that is just communication.
You don't see things or understand things the way that I do,
and I clearly don't understand and see things the way that you do either.
But we need to, like, be replenished ourselves.
I feel like we could deepen our marriage connection.
Oh, you're wanting to spice things up.
I mean, I don't wear lingerie anymore.
This is what... This is...
This is okay to you?
My hips hurt.
I feel like I have a rash on my leg right now.
How do I share that with you
that keeps it sexy?
You know, life is busy.
It's an extreme, and we've recently have just been trying to find, like,
the right balance.
I tend to have this great problem that I love to take on way too much,
and it sometimes affects my mental and physical health.
And we need some time to, like, get away together
and talk about things and prioritize that.
I want us to be able to go and do an overnight
or a trip different than we've always done.
Something that's marriage-worthy, marriage bonding...
I mean, do you understand, like,
some aspect of like, what I'm saying?
I mean, I think so.
We are at this, like stage in life,
both of us are just like burning at both ends
and like the distance sets in, and it's always better
to recenter yourself,
and us growing as a couple is, is healthy for both of us.
Boop!
Are we doing interviews?
-We are! -Can I come be a part of it?
When Blayke saw HopeScope her face, like, lit up.
That was an amazing moment.
It was worth going just for that, honestly.
[Adam] So the very first talk today is Mindy McKnight.
You know, she's juggling six kids just like you.
I always think of my life as a teeter-totter,
and my family's on one end and work is on the other.
The trick is that when it gets too kiltered one way or the other,
to rebalance.
♪ On the rise Better make way ♪
♪ Never late Always on time ♪
-And then we're going back down. -Back down.
[Riley] And then our mom is coming up.
My name is Hazel Grace Busby, and I'm here at Dallas.
We're gonna go find people to interview.
[Danielle speaking]
-[Hazel] Ducky. -[Riley] Ducky.
What is it that you're doing here?
[duck speaking]
A family.
Meeting that duck. It was kind of cool.
Are you having fun?
You can learn how to live stream and interview people.
You wanna gonna go check out their booth?
-Okay. -[Hazel] Thank you for the interview.
[duck speaking]
Here at VidSummit. I know the kids are gonna be,
like, super excited about day two because one of the people
that Blayke watches the most, you know, HopeScope, is going to be here.
And so, like, our kids are going to be absolutely floored
whenever they get to meet her.
Okay, so, Riley, you're going to interview Blayke.
Blayke, what do you do when your friend's over?
We play volleyball outside.
I've never see you do that.
-Hey, guys! -[girls] Hello!
What are you doing? Are you doing interviews?
You are. Can I come be a part of it?
-[girls] Yes. -Oh, my gosh.
When Blayke saw HopeScope her face like lit up.
That was an amazing moment.
It was worth going just for that, honestly.
Do you guys want to be YouTubers now, after coming to this?
Yes.
I've been doing it for six years now.
-Six years. -Yeah, and I started out just reviewing clothes.
I would buy 'em and then, like, tell everybody what I liked about it,
and then it just kind of turned into other stuff, and it's so fun.
-But it's still hard. -[Danielle] Yeah.
[Hope] What about you, Blayke? What would you do?
Um, I would do things on my point of view of our family.
Yeah, that would be fun.
[Blayke] Hearing HopeScope talk about her channel is really inspiring,
but it definitely does sound like a lot of work
since she's been doing it for six years.
What a dream to have this many fun sisters.
It's like built-in best friends all the time.
[Riley] I wish I had one baby brother.
-I miss having one. -One baby brother.
-Too much girls. -That would make things so complicated in our house.
[Riley speaking]
[Hope] It was so good to meet you guys.
-Thank you. -It was so good to see you guys.
-Thank you. -[Adam] Thanks.
Blayke... Blayke, like, is...
She's like starstruck.
She couldn't wipe the smile off her face.
-[Danielle] I know. -That's funny.
[Adam] I mean, to see your kids have the opportunity
to be able to, like, meet somebody
that they genuinely watch all the time, and they're just super nice.
And to have that chance to get to hang out for a little bit...
was a cool moment.
Let's go.
So the very first talk today is Mindy McKnight.
You know, she's juggling six kids just like you.
The most relatable person here.
I'm excited to hear from her then.
Let's go. Let's go inside.
It's right here in the main hall.
I thought it'd be a really good thing for Danielle
just to hear Mindy McKnight's talk,
her having six kids,
and, you know, the struggles of that,
just so that she can have a little bit more insight
as far as like seeing what the potential of things could be.
I started as a mom doing hairstyles on my bathroom counter on my kids.
And it just hit a nerve with all the other moms, I guess, and took off.
I always think of my life as a teeter-totter,
and my family is on one end and work is on the other.
And at different points in time,
it's tipping one way or the other.
The trick is that when it gets too kiltered one way or the other to rebalance.
Did I ever think I would come to VidSummit and listen to someone
like Mindy McKnight, who is a mom who has a bunch of kids,
who owns her businesses, has a channel.
I just feel like I just found my best friend
via the, like, content creators' circle
because everything that she's saying I'm like,
that's exactly, exactly what I've been...
trying to figure out.
-There's Mindy, right there. -Hi!
Hey. Hi, guys.
Nice to meet you guys.
The mom with six kids. I'm like, oh, there's someone that's actually...
-[Adam] Yeah. -...can think a little bit like me.
Yeah, well, you get it. And I have twins, too.
-God! See? -So, I mean, I totally get the multiples.
-[Danielle] Yeah. -It's hard.
-On the daily, right? Just the mom. -The daily grind.
How are you guys balancing it?
[Danielle] It's definitely hard.
Every single day there's something that's like,
"Oh, I didn't know that was going to happen today."
Or then something throws it and it throws everything else off.
All the dominoes fall.
Yeah. I think the mom-guilt is real.
-Yeah. -[Mindy] I think it's just really important to know
when you can't do it anymore by yourself.
And get help.
-I'm there. I'm there. -[Mindy] Yeah.
Whether it's mental health, like a therapist or nanny,
or a house cleaner, like whatever.
I don't know. I mean, it was just really nice being able to
hear from someone that I can relate to.
So it's been an exhausting whirlwind of two days,
but I think it was worth it.
And I've got a lot to do when we get home.
Well, I'm sure you're busy, so I really appreciate meeting you.
-Thank you. Bye, guys! -[Adam] Yeah. Thanks.
I'll definitely be sending you a message.
Okay.
It's hard because, like, just the way that my mind works,
I mean, like when something happens, like you want to fix it.
Do I need to call, like, the doctor or something?
And there's like, nothing I can do.
♪ What y'all know About this here? ♪
♪ Maybe something makes Up for this clear ♪
♪ I ain't sayin' you Gotta like my style ♪
♪ But I'm gonna keep Doin' it till the lights Go out ♪
[groans] Okay, girls, I got Chinese food.
Egg-drop soup.
-What about orange chicken? -Hey, guys, who had fun in Dallas?
[girls] Me!
Did y'all have fun meeting people y'all like to watch?
-[girls] Yeah, yeah. -[Danielle] Yeah?
-Yes. -Why were you all super shy?
You were like starstruck?
What is starstruck?
Like you saw someone on TV, and you're like, [gasps] "They're real.
They're here."
-Oh! Look, she's alive. -Look at you.
-Hey. -She's not dead.
[Danielle] Did you have fun in Dallas?
-Yeah. -[Danielle] What was your favorite part?
[Riley] I had so fun!
Meeting all the YouTubers.
When Blayke saw HopeScope, she kept her smile on her face.
[Blayke] 'Cause she's smart.
Aw. She was excited to meet her.
So did y'all learn something about making videos?
-[Hazel] Yeah. -It's-- It's fun.
But sometimes it's not fun.
-[Danielle] Oh. -Oh, really?
[Olivia] Yeah, it's hard sometimes.
-You don't say. -[Blayke] Yeah, there's a lot more work
-than I thought that there was going to be. -[Olivia] Uh-huh.
At first, I thought having a YouTube channel was gonna be fun.
But after, like, I met HopeScope,
I kind of want to learn more about it before I do it.
I think for now... we're not going to start
with a bunch of different channels right now.
[Riley] But what about Blayke's channel?
We're going to talk a little bit more about that.
I mean, we have a family YouTube channel,
so if, like, y'all want to make videos, we can do that, too.
We'll just try to manage it under that one channel right now.
-[Danielle] Cool? -[Adam] Cool?
Yeah.
-[Riley] Uh-huh. -[Olivia] Cool.
All right. I still want you to be like,
use your creativity and create stuff and do what y'all like.
Obviously, online safety played a big part in our decision,
but, you know, also a big part of it is just the fact that
it's a lot of work to do all these individual channels.
And y'all thank Mommy for letting y'all go to Dallas and seeing all the cool stuff.
[girls] Thank you.
I think I want to have one someday,
but I think I'll be better when I'm older.
With school and volleyball,
it might be a little too much for me right now.
All right, let's eat.
Line up. I'm first.
-All right, cafeteria style. -[Blayke] I'm second.
[Riley] I'm first.
-I'm 9,559. -Line up. Line up.
-Everybody, line up! -[girls speaking indistinctly]
Hey, I'm gonna go get coffee.
[grunts]
[chuckles]
Hey, Riley. Thanks for getting up.
Welcome.
Delightful.
[laughing]
Why do y'all have this much energy in the mornings?
Hey, y'all need to start getting ready for school.
I'm gonna go get Mommy.
No, don't... Do not wake Mommy up with that.
[giggles]
[Adam] Babe, are you getting up?
[Danielle] I can't.
Huh? What's wrong?
I don't feel good. I just...
Like you just have a headache?
No, I'm just hurting everywhere.
My joints hurt and my... my muscles, and just inflammation.
So I need you to just get the kids to school.
Going through this journey of just like Danielle's like autoimmune stuff...
It's hard because, like, just the way that my mind works,
I mean, like, you just want to... When something happens,
like, you want to fix it.
Is there any medicine that you need?
[Danielle] No.
My body hurts and I just... need some downtime.
[Adam] Danielle's autoimmune disorder,
you know, it just kind of comes and goes.
Headaches to pain and inflammation.
And there's, like, nothing I can do.
Riley, you really need to get up and start getting ready for school.
Hey, girls.
Hey, y'all, help me out this morning, okay?
Mommy's not feeling good.
Today was one of those days
where we have interviews set up for potential candidates for hiring a nanny.
But the stress has gotten to Danielle today.
So I'm just gonna have to go ahead
and, like, cancel those appointments and reschedule.
No.
It's way too much this morning.
For her to have a bad day like any given day,
like, I have to be prepared all the time.
Like you just never know when it's gonna hit.
It's frustrating.
But like I don't want her to think I'm frustrated at her.
I'm frustrated with this situation that, like no one understands.
Do I need to call, like, the doctor or something?
No, I don't need you to call the doctor.
I just... My body is inflamed right now, and I just... I'm hurting.
All right. I'll get the girls to school.
-Let's see. -[Adam] Next time on OutDaughtered...
What does R.I.P. stand for?
[Blayke] Rest in peace.
I don't get it.
I mean, I think I can say the Busbys love Halloween...
Probably just dad and kids.
[woman shouting hysterically]
[man shouts]
So we'll do a little cleaning and all that, and then have a little party.
I came over to help watch all of the girls.
-Ava, no! -[Blayke] Ava!
[indistinct conversations]
But I think there's so much that needs to be done.
I've encouraged Danielle to even consider getting two people to help.
Here, Bo. Don't get that.
Get a paper towel.
[Danielle] So we've got this retreat coming up,
so we'll see how that goes.
Does anybody know, of the marriages that fail,
what percent fail because of communication issues?
-[Danielle] A lot. -98%.
As her partner, I want to do what I can to help her
because the more she's stressed,
the more pain she starts getting.
And there's days when I literally can't get out of bed.
-Yeah. -I think it does freak Adam out a little bit.
Last time we were together, we were talking about therapy,
and maybe that you could use some help.
I don't like the word help.
Being emotional is hard because I don't feel like I was taught these things.
-I just run from the... -Openness.
[Danielle] Yeah.