1 00:00:05,535 --> 00:00:07,254 Dating... 2 00:00:07,333 --> 00:00:10,832 the emotional minefield we all had to navigate. 3 00:00:10,924 --> 00:00:15,186 And for Ana, after a series of not-so-amazing experiences 4 00:00:15,211 --> 00:00:17,011 with guys in the past, 5 00:00:17,036 --> 00:00:21,239 she had understandably suffered from some dating PTSD, 6 00:00:21,281 --> 00:00:24,820 so she decided to ease into her relationship with Javi. 7 00:00:24,859 --> 00:00:27,127 Thank you. I had a really good time. 8 00:00:27,169 --> 00:00:28,503 Me, too. 9 00:00:28,537 --> 00:00:30,705 Keep waiting to get sick of you, and I don't. 10 00:00:30,739 --> 00:00:33,468 Oh, well, that's too bad, 'cause I'm so sick of you. 11 00:00:33,493 --> 00:00:35,143 - Oh. - Yeah. 12 00:00:35,177 --> 00:00:37,612 And even though Ana was a little hesitant 13 00:00:37,646 --> 00:00:39,714 when it came to being vulnerable, 14 00:00:39,748 --> 00:00:42,984 Javi kept surprising her in all the right ways. 15 00:00:43,018 --> 00:00:45,520 Well, uh, looks like you are home safe. 16 00:00:49,024 --> 00:00:51,659 So, I should probably... 17 00:00:51,693 --> 00:00:53,194 Yeah. Yeah. 18 00:00:53,228 --> 00:00:54,362 Good night. 19 00:00:55,531 --> 00:00:56,497 Good night. 20 00:00:56,532 --> 00:00:58,366 But after getting to know him 21 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,268 for what felt like forever... 22 00:01:00,302 --> 00:01:01,669 Hey, Javi? 23 00:01:04,106 --> 00:01:06,541 There was only one thing left 24 00:01:06,575 --> 00:01:08,910 for her to become acquainted with. 25 00:01:18,287 --> 00:01:20,021 I'm sorry. Um... 26 00:01:20,055 --> 00:01:21,322 Uh, we should stop. 27 00:01:21,356 --> 00:01:23,391 What? What's wrong? Is everything okay? 28 00:01:23,425 --> 00:01:24,192 Yeah. 29 00:01:24,226 --> 00:01:25,226 Uh, no. 30 00:01:25,260 --> 00:01:27,728 Um... 31 00:01:27,763 --> 00:01:29,864 I-I gotta be up front with you about something. 32 00:01:29,898 --> 00:01:31,566 Oh, my God. You have a girlfriend. 33 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:32,733 I knew it. 34 00:01:32,768 --> 00:01:33,701 No. 35 00:01:33,735 --> 00:01:35,236 Oh! You're having a flare-up? 36 00:01:35,270 --> 00:01:36,537 - Wow. I knew it. - Uh... 37 00:01:36,572 --> 00:01:37,772 Ooh. 38 00:01:37,806 --> 00:01:40,208 I recently, like... 39 00:01:40,242 --> 00:01:42,877 I don't know, six months ago... 40 00:01:42,911 --> 00:01:45,279 made a vow to abstain from sex. 41 00:01:48,050 --> 00:01:49,851 I'm sorry. What? 42 00:01:49,885 --> 00:01:51,219 As it turned out, 43 00:01:51,253 --> 00:01:53,888 one of Ana's fears had come true. 44 00:01:53,922 --> 00:01:55,523 I'm celibate. 45 00:01:55,557 --> 00:01:57,925 There was someone else in Javi's life, 46 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:00,728 and that someone else was God. 47 00:02:02,063 --> 00:02:05,859 ♪ Watch out, world, I'm grown now ♪ 48 00:02:05,901 --> 00:02:07,101 ♪ I'm grown ♪ 49 00:02:07,135 --> 00:02:09,703 ♪ Learn something new every day ♪ 50 00:02:09,738 --> 00:02:12,273 ♪ I don't know, so I'm-a feel my way ♪ 51 00:02:12,307 --> 00:02:14,942 ♪ Got the weight of the world on me ♪ 52 00:02:14,977 --> 00:02:18,012 ♪ But no regrets, this is what I say ♪ 53 00:02:18,046 --> 00:02:21,482 ♪ Watch out, world, I'm grown now ♪ 54 00:02:21,517 --> 00:02:23,317 ♪ I'm grown ♪ ♪ You can tell me ♪ 55 00:02:23,352 --> 00:02:28,523 ♪ My heart beating so loud ♪ 56 00:02:28,557 --> 00:02:32,260 ♪ Mama, look, I'm grown now ♪ 57 00:02:32,294 --> 00:02:35,296 ♪ I'm grown ♪ 58 00:02:38,233 --> 00:02:40,234 I'm sorry. I just don't believe you. 59 00:02:40,269 --> 00:02:42,837 If you don't want to have sex with me, then just say so. 60 00:02:42,871 --> 00:02:44,972 Ana, are you kidding me? 61 00:02:46,275 --> 00:02:47,742 I'm clearly struggling here. 62 00:02:47,776 --> 00:02:49,977 Well, then, why is this the first time that you're telling me this? 63 00:02:50,012 --> 00:02:52,513 'Cause it's not exactly something that comes up casually. 64 00:02:52,548 --> 00:02:54,248 Like, "Hey, I don't have sex. 65 00:02:54,283 --> 00:02:56,017 You want to split an appetizer?" 66 00:02:58,220 --> 00:02:59,954 I am truly sorry. 67 00:03:01,290 --> 00:03:02,924 I'm sorry I didn't tell you earlier. 68 00:03:02,958 --> 00:03:05,193 I am sorry that I am just springing this on you. 69 00:03:05,227 --> 00:03:07,361 I'm sorry that we can't have sex. 70 00:03:07,396 --> 00:03:10,631 I just wish you'd told me 71 00:03:10,666 --> 00:03:12,700 so I didn't embarrass myself 72 00:03:12,734 --> 00:03:15,703 by preemptively ripping my shirt off. 73 00:03:17,573 --> 00:03:19,240 Honestly, I think I was just worried 74 00:03:19,274 --> 00:03:21,242 that it would change things 75 00:03:21,276 --> 00:03:23,844 or that you would walk away. 76 00:03:25,614 --> 00:03:27,148 Okay, um... 77 00:03:28,984 --> 00:03:30,117 I am gonna walk away... 78 00:03:30,152 --> 00:03:31,819 Mm-hmm. 79 00:03:31,853 --> 00:03:33,654 ...to go put on another shirt, 80 00:03:33,689 --> 00:03:36,557 because this is just a lot for me to process right now 81 00:03:36,592 --> 00:03:39,927 while I'm just standing here in my... my date bra. 82 00:03:39,962 --> 00:03:41,963 So... excuse me. 83 00:03:41,997 --> 00:03:43,464 Yep. 84 00:03:47,603 --> 00:03:49,103 - I gotta go. - Oh, no, no, no. 85 00:03:49,137 --> 00:03:51,272 Stop playing. You know I have that meeting in 10 minutes. 86 00:03:51,306 --> 00:03:54,575 Forget the meeting. Okay? The BSU's a joke. 87 00:03:54,610 --> 00:03:56,944 Uh, a joke that you used to be treasurer of. 88 00:03:56,979 --> 00:03:59,847 Yeah, until I got sick of being around a bunch of fake-ass woke people 89 00:03:59,881 --> 00:04:01,449 who did nothing but plan barbecues... 90 00:04:01,483 --> 00:04:03,049 ...and spoken word nights. 91 00:04:03,074 --> 00:04:04,819 They literally would argue about who's gonna bring the potato salad 92 00:04:04,853 --> 00:04:06,087 to the next meeting. 93 00:04:06,121 --> 00:04:07,830 Stop being a hater, okay? 94 00:04:07,855 --> 00:04:10,658 At least we're getting together to discuss some important issues 95 00:04:10,692 --> 00:04:12,093 and engage with each other. 96 00:04:12,127 --> 00:04:13,694 That's what I'm trying to do, babe. 97 00:04:13,729 --> 00:04:15,796 Trying to engage... nakedly, 98 00:04:15,831 --> 00:04:17,131 now, here, in this bed. 99 00:04:17,165 --> 00:04:20,368 How about I promise to engage nakedly with you later 100 00:04:20,402 --> 00:04:23,371 if you come with me to this meeting now? 101 00:04:24,373 --> 00:04:26,474 You seriously think I can be bribed with sex? 102 00:04:29,011 --> 00:04:30,711 Pass me my Crocs, would you? 103 00:04:30,746 --> 00:04:33,748 Wait. So, celibate, as in no sex? 104 00:04:34,750 --> 00:04:36,517 No mouth stuff? No hand stuff? 105 00:04:36,551 --> 00:04:38,219 Yeah, Vivek, much like how you live your life. 106 00:04:38,253 --> 00:04:40,755 Correction... there is one who is now consistently 107 00:04:40,789 --> 00:04:42,590 engaging me in sexual intercourse. 108 00:04:42,624 --> 00:04:44,258 - Huh? - Your boy's outchea. 109 00:04:44,293 --> 00:04:45,860 And in there. 110 00:04:45,894 --> 00:04:46,894 Ew. 111 00:04:46,928 --> 00:04:49,463 All right. That's enough of his lies. 112 00:04:49,498 --> 00:04:51,332 Look, I don't get what the big deal is. 113 00:04:51,366 --> 00:04:52,700 You love God, too. 114 00:04:52,734 --> 00:04:55,136 Yes, because I was raised a good Catholic. 115 00:04:55,170 --> 00:04:58,372 And even though I don't go to church as much as I should... 116 00:04:58,407 --> 00:05:01,475 Look, in my mind, this whole celibacy thing is... 117 00:05:01,510 --> 00:05:03,044 reserved for priests and nuns. 118 00:05:03,078 --> 00:05:03,844 Mm. 119 00:05:03,879 --> 00:05:05,313 But Javi just... 120 00:05:05,347 --> 00:05:08,582 loves God and wants to... 121 00:05:08,617 --> 00:05:12,153 quiet the distractions so he can hear Him more clearly. 122 00:05:12,187 --> 00:05:14,055 Wow. Now I want to [bleep] him. 123 00:05:14,089 --> 00:05:15,389 I mean, you can try. 124 00:05:15,424 --> 00:05:18,559 Look, as someone who is, again, consistently getting it in, 125 00:05:18,593 --> 00:05:21,395 your guy's either crazy or some sort of superhero. 126 00:05:21,430 --> 00:05:23,297 Okay, how long are we going to entertain this charade 127 00:05:23,332 --> 00:05:25,032 that Vivek is having sex? 128 00:05:25,067 --> 00:05:26,734 What's your endgame here, bro? 129 00:05:26,768 --> 00:05:28,169 Whatever. Okay, my point is, 130 00:05:28,203 --> 00:05:30,037 all guys have this drumbeat in our heads, 131 00:05:30,072 --> 00:05:32,373 telling us we need sex, okay? 132 00:05:32,407 --> 00:05:36,410 The one that goes "I... need... to... bust. 133 00:05:36,445 --> 00:05:38,379 Here. There. 134 00:05:38,413 --> 00:05:40,081 Everywhere." 135 00:05:41,950 --> 00:05:43,684 Bye, losers. 136 00:05:43,719 --> 00:05:46,354 Okay, well, it seems like your problem might just solve itself. 137 00:05:46,388 --> 00:05:48,823 One more sexy date night in that El Camino, 138 00:05:48,857 --> 00:05:50,191 and he just might break. 139 00:05:50,225 --> 00:05:51,792 Yeah. 140 00:05:51,827 --> 00:05:53,828 But this is something he believes in, 141 00:05:53,862 --> 00:05:55,629 and I don't want him to break his vow for me. 142 00:05:56,698 --> 00:05:58,632 Well, maybe this will be a good thing for you. 143 00:05:58,667 --> 00:06:00,468 I mean, you've always complained about guys 144 00:06:00,502 --> 00:06:03,104 only wanting to date you to smash, and now you're with a guy 145 00:06:03,138 --> 00:06:05,206 who doesn't need to smash you to be with you. 146 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,108 You're right. 147 00:06:07,142 --> 00:06:10,511 This thing with Javi isn't a problem. 148 00:06:10,545 --> 00:06:12,713 It actually is a refreshing change of pace 149 00:06:12,748 --> 00:06:14,715 from the losers of my past. 150 00:06:14,750 --> 00:06:17,118 So... yeah, I'm... 151 00:06:17,152 --> 00:06:18,519 I'm gonna try it. 152 00:06:18,553 --> 00:06:20,020 Yeah. 153 00:06:20,055 --> 00:06:21,489 Good luck. 154 00:06:25,260 --> 00:06:26,627 Yo! What are you doing here, man? 155 00:06:26,661 --> 00:06:28,262 I didn't know you were in the BSU. 156 00:06:28,296 --> 00:06:31,031 Oh, nah, but I've been going to these little cultural clubs 157 00:06:31,066 --> 00:06:34,135 and getting free plates of food and knowledge. 158 00:06:34,169 --> 00:06:35,503 - You feel me? - Okay, let's get started. 159 00:06:35,537 --> 00:06:37,805 The first order of business, uh... 160 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,307 we'd like to thank everybody that came out to the barbecue last week. 161 00:06:40,342 --> 00:06:41,742 Turnout was great. 162 00:06:41,777 --> 00:06:44,712 But, uh, next time, can we... can we respect the sign-up sheet 163 00:06:44,746 --> 00:06:46,714 so that everybody's not bringing potato salad? 164 00:06:46,748 --> 00:06:47,848 See? What'd I tell you? 165 00:06:47,883 --> 00:06:48,983 I mean, I ain't mad at it. 166 00:06:49,017 --> 00:06:50,084 Second order of business... 167 00:06:50,118 --> 00:06:51,986 the administration has cut our budget. 168 00:06:52,020 --> 00:06:53,621 - Oh, my God! - Again. 169 00:06:53,655 --> 00:06:57,090 Wait, so, that's why there's no pimentos in the potato salad? 170 00:06:57,115 --> 00:06:58,893 My feeling is, the administration's probably 171 00:06:58,927 --> 00:07:00,861 a little salty about our petition asking them 172 00:07:00,896 --> 00:07:03,664 to stop investing our tuition dollars in private prisons. 173 00:07:03,698 --> 00:07:04,865 Wait, what? What are... 174 00:07:04,900 --> 00:07:06,567 - What are they doing? - I don't know. 175 00:07:06,978 --> 00:07:08,612 I'm sorry. Excuse me for interrupting. 176 00:07:08,637 --> 00:07:09,675 Can you run that back, please? 177 00:07:09,700 --> 00:07:11,551 You're saying they're investing in private prisons? 178 00:07:11,575 --> 00:07:12,580 - Cal U? - Yeah. 179 00:07:12,605 --> 00:07:13,850 Thought that was just some Harvard shit. 180 00:07:13,875 --> 00:07:16,343 Wait. I missed this knowledge. Why are they doing this? 181 00:07:16,378 --> 00:07:18,012 Because, unfortunately, 182 00:07:18,046 --> 00:07:20,281 it's an incredibly lucrative investment for them. 183 00:07:20,315 --> 00:07:21,615 Yeah, at our expense. 184 00:07:21,650 --> 00:07:23,384 We all know that there's a disproportionate amount 185 00:07:23,418 --> 00:07:25,419 of black and brown people that are locked up, right? 186 00:07:25,446 --> 00:07:27,007 So, it's easy to make money off our backs 187 00:07:27,031 --> 00:07:28,255 while we're in there performing cheap labor. 188 00:07:28,256 --> 00:07:30,724 And the fact is, the more of us that are in there... 189 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:32,153 the more money they make. 190 00:07:32,178 --> 00:07:33,561 This is like modern-day slavery. 191 00:07:33,595 --> 00:07:35,629 That we are funding with our tuition dollars. 192 00:07:35,664 --> 00:07:36,964 Yeah, it's nothing we don't know. 193 00:07:36,998 --> 00:07:39,200 Which is why we filed the petition three weeks ago 194 00:07:39,234 --> 00:07:40,468 with the Dean. 195 00:07:40,502 --> 00:07:42,102 How did I not know this? 196 00:07:50,124 --> 00:07:52,159 This is the only thing that's gonna make that edible. 197 00:07:53,695 --> 00:07:55,429 They should put how bland their food is 198 00:07:55,463 --> 00:07:57,676 in a brochure to give people a heads-up. 199 00:07:57,762 --> 00:08:00,626 Even thinking about the food at Spelman is making me homesick. 200 00:08:00,668 --> 00:08:02,536 Hey, you should roll with us this weekend. 201 00:08:02,570 --> 00:08:04,538 We're gonna hit up our dad's soul food truck, 202 00:08:04,572 --> 00:08:06,558 and it's the closest thing to a home-cooked meal 203 00:08:06,605 --> 00:08:09,240 without actually having to go home. 204 00:08:09,266 --> 00:08:11,200 Damn. You serious? 205 00:08:11,243 --> 00:08:12,243 Mm-hmm. 206 00:08:12,277 --> 00:08:13,244 I'd love that. 207 00:08:13,278 --> 00:08:15,079 Yeah? 208 00:08:21,019 --> 00:08:22,119 You good over there? 209 00:08:23,788 --> 00:08:25,656 Feels like you could ease up on that pillow. 210 00:08:26,725 --> 00:08:28,058 Oh. Yup. 211 00:08:28,093 --> 00:08:29,093 I'm fine. 212 00:08:33,632 --> 00:08:36,033 Okay. I think I'm gonna go. 213 00:08:36,067 --> 00:08:37,768 No, no, no, no, no, no, no! It's off. It's off. Sorry. 214 00:08:37,802 --> 00:08:41,338 I-I... totally forgot that scene was in this movie. 215 00:08:41,373 --> 00:08:43,540 Uh... let's just do something else. 216 00:08:43,575 --> 00:08:44,675 We can, uh... 217 00:08:44,709 --> 00:08:46,076 play a game. 218 00:08:46,111 --> 00:08:48,913 Jenga. Jenga's pretty unsexy. 219 00:08:48,947 --> 00:08:51,015 I think you and I playing anything right now 220 00:08:51,049 --> 00:08:54,285 is gonna be a pretty bad idea. 221 00:08:54,319 --> 00:08:55,986 Look, it's late. 222 00:08:56,021 --> 00:08:57,254 It's all good. 223 00:08:57,289 --> 00:08:58,923 - See you tomorrow. - Uh... 224 00:08:58,957 --> 00:09:01,492 O-Okay. I'll see you tomorrow. 225 00:09:04,930 --> 00:09:06,764 Come on. 226 00:09:06,798 --> 00:09:08,465 What are you doing? 227 00:09:08,500 --> 00:09:11,068 Trying... to respect your boundaries? 228 00:09:11,102 --> 00:09:13,370 Ana, we've been kissing each other good night 229 00:09:13,405 --> 00:09:15,773 the whole time I have been celibate. 230 00:09:15,807 --> 00:09:17,675 So get over here. 231 00:09:17,709 --> 00:09:18,676 Now. 232 00:09:18,710 --> 00:09:20,544 - Okay. - Thank you. 233 00:09:32,691 --> 00:09:33,891 Mm. 234 00:09:33,925 --> 00:09:35,659 Um... 235 00:09:35,694 --> 00:09:36,760 Good night. 236 00:09:36,795 --> 00:09:38,529 Good night. 237 00:09:48,139 --> 00:09:50,074 Vivek! Yes! 238 00:09:50,108 --> 00:09:51,809 Vivek! 239 00:09:51,843 --> 00:09:52,876 Ohh! Vivek! 240 00:09:52,911 --> 00:09:55,879 My God, why hast Thou forsaken me? 241 00:10:00,922 --> 00:10:05,055 After a long, sleepless, sexless night, 242 00:10:05,088 --> 00:10:07,723 Ana decided to channel her frustrations 243 00:10:07,759 --> 00:10:10,828 into the one place that could still satisfy her. 244 00:10:10,862 --> 00:10:12,262 Are you cooking us bacon? 245 00:10:12,297 --> 00:10:14,798 No. I'm cooking me bacon, and I'm gonna eat it all. 246 00:10:14,833 --> 00:10:17,001 'Cause no one's ever gonna see me naked again. 247 00:10:17,035 --> 00:10:18,535 If I let you show me your naked body, 248 00:10:18,570 --> 00:10:19,869 can I have some of that bacon? 249 00:10:22,741 --> 00:10:24,875 - Remember it fondly. - All righty. 250 00:10:24,909 --> 00:10:27,211 You should really get that mole on your thigh checked out. 251 00:10:27,245 --> 00:10:29,813 Guys! I feel like a dude. 252 00:10:29,848 --> 00:10:31,315 I'm starting to hear that drumbeat 253 00:10:31,349 --> 00:10:32,883 that Vivek talked about in my head. 254 00:10:32,917 --> 00:10:34,585 No. That was definitely his headboard. 255 00:10:34,619 --> 00:10:37,588 That little lying Ninja Turtle has actually been getting it in. 256 00:10:37,622 --> 00:10:39,423 No, seriously, it's like, 257 00:10:39,457 --> 00:10:42,226 now that I can't have it, that's all I think about. 258 00:10:42,260 --> 00:10:43,594 You always want what you can't have... 259 00:10:43,628 --> 00:10:44,828 like me with bacon. 260 00:10:44,863 --> 00:10:46,263 You're eating bacon. 261 00:10:46,297 --> 00:10:48,732 You know, when Doug and I were trying not to mess around, 262 00:10:48,767 --> 00:10:51,402 the thing we had to do was just not be together at all. 263 00:10:51,436 --> 00:10:53,437 But I'm not trying to take a break from him. 264 00:10:53,471 --> 00:10:54,872 - We're in a relationship. - Mm. 265 00:10:54,906 --> 00:10:57,074 Despite how much I like him, I just... 266 00:10:57,108 --> 00:10:59,109 I don't know if I'm strong enough to do this. 267 00:10:59,144 --> 00:11:01,779 Morning, ladies. Don't mind me. 268 00:11:01,813 --> 00:11:03,981 Just... rehydrating. 269 00:11:04,983 --> 00:11:06,383 Ooh! Bacon. 270 00:11:06,418 --> 00:11:08,218 You have to look at Ana naked for that bacon. 271 00:11:08,253 --> 00:11:09,219 Mm-hmm. 272 00:11:09,254 --> 00:11:10,320 Pass. 273 00:11:10,355 --> 00:11:12,289 I'm in a relationship. 274 00:11:14,225 --> 00:11:17,561 I can't believe he's having sex and I'm not. 275 00:11:17,595 --> 00:11:19,229 Okay, forget Vivek. 276 00:11:19,264 --> 00:11:21,732 I just don't want you to make the same mistake that I made with Doug 277 00:11:21,766 --> 00:11:24,635 by not letting Javi know how you really feel, okay? 278 00:11:24,669 --> 00:11:27,504 If you don't think you can do this, he deserves to know. 279 00:11:27,539 --> 00:11:29,006 It just... 280 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:30,441 It sucks. 281 00:11:30,475 --> 00:11:33,510 He was afraid that if he told me, things would change, 282 00:11:33,545 --> 00:11:35,879 and... they have. 283 00:11:35,914 --> 00:11:38,882 Aww. You know what never changes? 284 00:11:38,917 --> 00:11:40,617 How hella good bacon is. 285 00:11:42,420 --> 00:11:44,388 Let me get another peek at that mole, boo. 286 00:11:55,733 --> 00:11:57,134 Okay, so, whatever you do, 287 00:11:57,168 --> 00:11:58,535 when you get to the front of the line, 288 00:11:58,570 --> 00:12:01,004 do not look Cousin Marcus in his eye. 289 00:12:01,039 --> 00:12:02,372 It activates him. 290 00:12:02,407 --> 00:12:04,475 What does... What does that even mean? 291 00:12:04,509 --> 00:12:06,310 An explanation is not gonna save your life. 292 00:12:06,344 --> 00:12:07,311 Just don't do it. 293 00:12:07,345 --> 00:12:08,679 Hey! 294 00:12:08,713 --> 00:12:10,347 - Daddy! - Daddy! 295 00:12:10,381 --> 00:12:12,802 Hey, guys, the kimchi cornbread is going fast. 296 00:12:12,827 --> 00:12:14,561 Should I have Cousin Marcus save you a piece? 297 00:12:14,586 --> 00:12:15,422 - Yes. - Yes, please. 298 00:12:15,454 --> 00:12:17,788 Well, Dad, this is our friend Jillian. 299 00:12:17,814 --> 00:12:19,482 Hi. It's nice to meet you. 300 00:12:19,524 --> 00:12:20,791 Everything smells amazing. 301 00:12:20,825 --> 00:12:22,126 Well, I started this truck 302 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:25,262 so I could get my babies to come visit me more often. 303 00:12:25,296 --> 00:12:27,598 Do you know how proud I am of these girls? 304 00:12:27,632 --> 00:12:30,701 How proud everybody in our neighborhood is? 305 00:12:30,735 --> 00:12:32,603 If my babies go to the Olympics, 306 00:12:32,637 --> 00:12:35,439 then the whole family and all of South Central 307 00:12:35,473 --> 00:12:36,874 are going to the Olympics. 308 00:12:36,900 --> 00:12:38,500 Okay, Dad, do you have to give this speech 309 00:12:38,533 --> 00:12:40,777 - to everybody we introduce you to? - Yes, I do. 310 00:12:40,812 --> 00:12:42,779 And I will tell it to anybody who will listen. 311 00:12:45,083 --> 00:12:47,484 Just got back from the Dean's office. 312 00:12:47,519 --> 00:12:48,852 It's worse than we thought. 313 00:12:48,887 --> 00:12:51,488 Bro, this... this... this is a Cheesecake Factory menu. 314 00:12:51,523 --> 00:12:53,090 Whatever. Listen, what I'm trying to say is 315 00:12:53,124 --> 00:12:54,825 that this investment stuff with our endowment, 316 00:12:54,859 --> 00:12:56,360 it's... it's not just in private prisons. 317 00:12:56,394 --> 00:12:58,095 Wait, they own the Cheesecake Factory, too? 318 00:12:58,129 --> 00:13:00,097 No, man. Why are you so hungry all the time? 319 00:13:00,131 --> 00:13:02,432 'Cause I'm not having sex. Okay? 320 00:13:02,467 --> 00:13:03,534 I feel you. 321 00:13:03,568 --> 00:13:05,269 Why you think I'm so husky, bro? 322 00:13:05,303 --> 00:13:06,770 I get no ass. 323 00:13:06,804 --> 00:13:09,072 Look, my apologies for the lack of ass being thrown your guys' way. 324 00:13:09,107 --> 00:13:11,408 I really am sorry. But we have a real problem here. 325 00:13:11,442 --> 00:13:14,244 The doctors say it's hereditary, but I know the truth. 326 00:13:14,279 --> 00:13:15,879 Can you focus, man? Please? 327 00:13:15,914 --> 00:13:17,681 Look, I am trying to tell you that these companies 328 00:13:17,715 --> 00:13:19,249 that are investing in these private prisons 329 00:13:19,284 --> 00:13:22,219 are also funding the school security on campus. 330 00:13:22,245 --> 00:13:23,053 - What? - Yeah. 331 00:13:23,078 --> 00:13:24,330 Wait, are you serious? 332 00:13:24,355 --> 00:13:26,156 Yo, we gotta file another petition, bro. 333 00:13:26,183 --> 00:13:27,757 No. No more petitions, man. 334 00:13:27,782 --> 00:13:29,193 They're obviously not doing anything. 335 00:13:29,227 --> 00:13:31,221 We need to think big. You know? 336 00:13:31,246 --> 00:13:32,429 We need to do something that'll get people to notice, 337 00:13:32,463 --> 00:13:34,898 'cause e-everyone should be talking about this, and they're not. 338 00:13:34,933 --> 00:13:36,333 Well, in our defense, 339 00:13:36,367 --> 00:13:39,636 we are a campus organization, funded by the administration 340 00:13:39,671 --> 00:13:41,738 that you're gonna piss off a whole bunch if you talk about this. 341 00:13:41,773 --> 00:13:43,106 Well, let 'em get pissed. 342 00:13:43,141 --> 00:13:45,008 So they can cut more of our budget? 343 00:13:45,043 --> 00:13:46,743 We have to play the game with these people, bro. 344 00:13:46,778 --> 00:13:48,282 You play the game if you want to. 345 00:13:48,307 --> 00:13:50,280 You know, help the BSU in whatever way you think you know how. 346 00:13:50,307 --> 00:13:53,309 Me? I won't be able to respect myself unless I do something. 347 00:14:05,031 --> 00:14:07,154 - Hey. - Wow. 348 00:14:07,178 --> 00:14:10,814 Coming to meet me in the car in your sweatpants. 349 00:14:10,859 --> 00:14:12,393 This can't be good. 350 00:14:13,562 --> 00:14:15,830 Look, I just want to be honest. 351 00:14:16,329 --> 00:14:18,099 I'm having a really tough time 352 00:14:18,133 --> 00:14:20,134 trying to do this celibacy thing with you. 353 00:14:20,168 --> 00:14:21,202 I get it. 354 00:14:21,236 --> 00:14:23,504 It's not easy for me, either. 355 00:14:23,538 --> 00:14:25,573 But it is a commitment that I made to God, 356 00:14:25,607 --> 00:14:27,708 and I really want to stick with it. 357 00:14:27,743 --> 00:14:29,277 And you should. 358 00:14:29,311 --> 00:14:31,846 I just don't know how I can be with you 359 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:33,614 a-and stick with it, too. 360 00:14:35,250 --> 00:14:38,085 It took me a really long time to make this decision, 361 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,988 so I'm not asking you to just jump into it blindly. 362 00:14:41,023 --> 00:14:44,258 Believe me, I know... It's not for everyone. 363 00:14:44,293 --> 00:14:47,094 So... 364 00:14:47,129 --> 00:14:48,796 as sad as it makes me... 365 00:14:52,668 --> 00:14:53,801 ...you're off the hook. 366 00:14:54,870 --> 00:14:56,871 Javi. 367 00:14:56,905 --> 00:14:59,307 That's the thing... I don't want to be let off the hook. 368 00:15:00,409 --> 00:15:03,711 I really like you, and I don't want this to end. 369 00:15:03,745 --> 00:15:05,212 I guess... 370 00:15:05,247 --> 00:15:06,947 Look, what I'm trying to ask is... 371 00:15:06,982 --> 00:15:09,250 where do you get your strength from? 372 00:15:24,966 --> 00:15:28,836 So, after asking Javi where he got his strength from, 373 00:15:28,870 --> 00:15:31,872 Ana was witnessing it firsthand. 374 00:15:31,907 --> 00:15:34,342 And even though she was raised with religion, 375 00:15:34,376 --> 00:15:37,278 this was unlike any church she'd ever seen before. 376 00:15:37,312 --> 00:15:38,779 I mean, that's something you would say... 377 00:15:38,814 --> 00:15:42,183 Does the priest always have his chest out like that? 378 00:15:42,217 --> 00:15:43,517 Yeah, it's pretty much always. 379 00:15:43,552 --> 00:15:45,686 It's a relationship, and as with any relationship, 380 00:15:45,721 --> 00:15:47,722 the only way to make it grow 381 00:15:47,756 --> 00:15:51,292 is to tend to it, nurture it, and update it. 382 00:15:51,326 --> 00:15:54,462 The way we have to update our phones is the same way 383 00:15:54,496 --> 00:15:57,298 we have to update our relationship with Jesus. 384 00:15:57,332 --> 00:16:00,034 I want you to know something... 385 00:16:00,068 --> 00:16:02,937 God has updates for you. 386 00:16:02,971 --> 00:16:05,740 Slide into your neighbor's DMs, tell them "Hallelujah"! 387 00:16:05,774 --> 00:16:07,508 Hallelujah! 388 00:16:07,542 --> 00:16:11,312 To have a more gratifying and personal connection to God, 389 00:16:11,346 --> 00:16:15,182 you are also the only one who can unlock your own fate. 390 00:16:19,788 --> 00:16:21,589 Last one. 391 00:16:21,623 --> 00:16:23,124 All right, now, you sure that's enough? 392 00:16:23,158 --> 00:16:24,992 You think people will notice? 393 00:16:25,026 --> 00:16:27,061 You know what? I think they will. 394 00:16:28,196 --> 00:16:30,398 Okay, great. 395 00:16:30,432 --> 00:16:32,466 You know, you didn't have to do this with me. 396 00:16:32,501 --> 00:16:33,734 I appreciate it. 397 00:16:33,769 --> 00:16:36,237 I know the BSU doesn't get down like that, so... 398 00:16:36,271 --> 00:16:38,773 Well, I'm not here with the BSU, all right? 399 00:16:38,807 --> 00:16:39,840 I'm here with you. 400 00:16:40,942 --> 00:16:42,209 - One more poster. - Yeah. 401 00:16:44,212 --> 00:16:46,180 Okay, so... 402 00:16:46,214 --> 00:16:48,449 after leaving your family's food truck, 403 00:16:48,483 --> 00:16:49,617 I did some thinking. 404 00:16:49,651 --> 00:16:51,452 Listening to your dad talk about 405 00:16:51,486 --> 00:16:54,221 how your entire neighborhood is rooting for you guys, 406 00:16:54,256 --> 00:16:55,556 it made me realize 407 00:16:55,590 --> 00:16:58,692 that you're the perfect subject for my film project. 408 00:16:58,727 --> 00:17:00,161 How much does it pay? 409 00:17:00,195 --> 00:17:02,263 It's... a student... film. 410 00:17:02,297 --> 00:17:03,731 I'll pay you in hot sauce. 411 00:17:03,765 --> 00:17:05,232 Do we have to learn a lot of lines? 412 00:17:05,267 --> 00:17:07,868 No. No, it's a documentary. 413 00:17:07,903 --> 00:17:09,370 About what? 414 00:17:09,404 --> 00:17:11,038 About you! 415 00:17:11,072 --> 00:17:14,675 Two sisters from South Central who go to the Olympic trials. 416 00:17:14,709 --> 00:17:15,910 It's perfect. 417 00:17:15,944 --> 00:17:17,711 I mean, think of all the little black girls 418 00:17:17,746 --> 00:17:19,947 that'll be inspired by your story. 419 00:17:19,981 --> 00:17:21,982 Well, people have said 420 00:17:22,017 --> 00:17:24,418 that we are the Venus and Serena of track. 421 00:17:24,453 --> 00:17:25,553 Mm-hmm. 422 00:17:25,587 --> 00:17:28,155 I mean, I said it. I'm "people." 423 00:17:28,190 --> 00:17:29,290 Okay. 424 00:17:29,324 --> 00:17:31,559 So... then, you'll do it? 425 00:17:31,593 --> 00:17:33,861 It is union? Because I'm SAG. 426 00:17:33,895 --> 00:17:36,430 When I was 3, I was in a local Food 4 Less commercial. 427 00:17:36,465 --> 00:17:38,532 I was "Girl in Shopping Basket Number Two." 428 00:17:43,839 --> 00:17:45,139 Sir. 429 00:17:45,173 --> 00:17:47,541 We're gonna need you to remove these fliers immediately. 430 00:17:47,576 --> 00:17:48,576 Why? 431 00:17:48,610 --> 00:17:50,177 We're just gonna need you to remove them. 432 00:17:50,212 --> 00:17:52,613 But why my fliers? What about the others? 433 00:17:52,647 --> 00:17:54,482 The Agricultural Club, the Environmental Club? 434 00:17:54,516 --> 00:17:56,784 Sir, they're not littering the entire campus. 435 00:17:56,818 --> 00:17:59,019 Okay, but there's no rule that says I can't put these up here, 436 00:17:59,054 --> 00:18:01,021 and as a student here, I'm well within my right to do so. 437 00:18:01,056 --> 00:18:02,890 Okay, well, we're gonna need to see your student ID. 438 00:18:02,924 --> 00:18:04,258 I just told you that I go to school here 439 00:18:04,292 --> 00:18:05,960 and I'm putting these up about the tuition that I pay. 440 00:18:05,994 --> 00:18:07,495 Think I'm some random guy who gives a damn 441 00:18:07,529 --> 00:18:08,996 about where Cal U's students' money goes? 442 00:18:09,030 --> 00:18:10,397 Put two and two together, man. 443 00:18:10,432 --> 00:18:12,132 Hey. Is everything okay? 444 00:18:12,167 --> 00:18:15,269 No, it's not okay. These two officers are harassing me for no reason. 445 00:18:15,303 --> 00:18:16,804 What? 446 00:18:16,838 --> 00:18:17,872 Ma'am, put your phone away. 447 00:18:17,906 --> 00:18:19,306 No, I will not. 448 00:18:19,341 --> 00:18:21,041 Technically, she's your boss, so you can't tell her what to do 449 00:18:21,076 --> 00:18:23,310 because her tuition dollars pay for your salary. 450 00:18:23,345 --> 00:18:26,580 Look, I don't know anything about your tuition dollars. 451 00:18:26,615 --> 00:18:28,549 All I know is, the chancellor called 452 00:18:28,583 --> 00:18:30,050 and asked that you remove the offending material, 453 00:18:30,085 --> 00:18:31,485 or you will be removed from the campus. 454 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:34,355 The material's not offensive, man. I-It's the truth. 455 00:18:34,389 --> 00:18:37,091 And I'm not taking it down, so I guess you'll have to arrest me. 456 00:18:37,125 --> 00:18:39,159 Fine. Turn around, put your hands behind your back. 457 00:18:39,194 --> 00:18:41,061 Are you kidding me? This is some bullshit, man! 458 00:18:41,096 --> 00:18:42,096 You guys hear that? 459 00:18:42,130 --> 00:18:43,497 He's arresting me for letting you know 460 00:18:43,532 --> 00:18:45,799 that your tuition dollars pay for their salary, 461 00:18:45,834 --> 00:18:47,501 and not only that, but private prisons 462 00:18:47,536 --> 00:18:49,169 that incarcerate people of color. 463 00:18:49,204 --> 00:18:51,672 All for some posters, man. This is stupid! 464 00:19:02,717 --> 00:19:04,251 You haven't really said anything. 465 00:19:04,286 --> 00:19:06,086 You're making me a little nervous. 466 00:19:06,121 --> 00:19:07,755 Did the service freak you out? 467 00:19:08,757 --> 00:19:11,492 Yeah. Kinda did. 468 00:19:11,526 --> 00:19:14,361 But, like, in a good way. 469 00:19:14,396 --> 00:19:15,963 It was really amazing. 470 00:19:17,132 --> 00:19:20,134 Thank you. Thank you for bringing me to your church. 471 00:19:20,168 --> 00:19:23,203 I can... I can see how this would give you strength. 472 00:19:25,674 --> 00:19:28,609 I really want that relationship with God 473 00:19:28,643 --> 00:19:31,078 that he was talking about. 474 00:19:31,112 --> 00:19:34,815 So I want to try to go on this journey with you. 475 00:19:34,849 --> 00:19:36,483 Vows and everything. 476 00:19:36,518 --> 00:19:38,519 You'd actually do that for me? 477 00:19:38,553 --> 00:19:40,154 No. 478 00:19:40,188 --> 00:19:42,089 I'm doing it for me. 479 00:19:46,728 --> 00:19:49,930 It turned out Ana's biggest challenge with Javi 480 00:19:49,965 --> 00:19:51,632 ended up being the catalyst 481 00:19:51,666 --> 00:19:55,202 that re-ignited the beliefs she had lost sight of. 482 00:19:55,236 --> 00:19:56,604 And moving forward, 483 00:19:56,638 --> 00:19:59,640 she was excited to build a brand-new relationship 484 00:19:59,674 --> 00:20:02,142 with someone special in her life, 485 00:20:02,177 --> 00:20:05,012 and that someone special was God. 486 00:20:08,514 --> 00:20:09,614 Oh, hi. 487 00:20:09,648 --> 00:20:12,279 Uh, everyone, this is Heidi. 488 00:20:12,326 --> 00:20:13,790 Heidi, these are my roommates. 489 00:20:13,815 --> 00:20:15,743 Hi, roommates! 490 00:20:15,814 --> 00:20:16,814 Ehh... 491 00:20:16,849 --> 00:20:18,916 Wow! Heidi! 492 00:20:19,918 --> 00:20:20,918 We've heard so much. 493 00:20:20,953 --> 00:20:24,288 Uh... so very... very much. 494 00:20:24,315 --> 00:20:26,082 Oh, well, I hope it was all good. 495 00:20:26,124 --> 00:20:27,758 It sounded great. 496 00:20:28,927 --> 00:20:30,595 Well, um, actually, if any of you 497 00:20:30,629 --> 00:20:33,164 happen to run across, like, a cute, little, lace pink bra, 498 00:20:33,198 --> 00:20:35,132 that's, uh... that's actually my, uh, my date bra, 499 00:20:35,167 --> 00:20:36,934 and I think I left it somewhere in the backyard. 500 00:20:36,969 --> 00:20:38,536 So you can just give it to Vivy. 501 00:20:40,806 --> 00:20:42,273 Okay. 502 00:20:42,307 --> 00:20:44,408 I'm pretty sure I'm wearing her date bra. 503 00:20:47,379 --> 00:20:48,679 Mm-hmm. 504 00:20:48,714 --> 00:20:50,117 Jazlyn. 505 00:20:50,141 --> 00:20:51,741 Synced & corrected by kinglouisxx www.addic7ed.com