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Previously on
Before the 90 Days...
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- Hi.
- Hi.
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I can't believe
you're actually here.
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Uh... I just think
we're both awkward people.
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I've been waiting
months to meet Dempsey
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And things are gonna
go either really right
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or really wrong.
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Yeah.
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But we don't know.
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We need to figure that out
over the next two weeks.
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But I not going to change.
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I'm going to be
the same person.
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If I go home not
engaged to you, Nicola,
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this will be over.
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You think
it's okay that you
fantasize about having sex--
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Well, if our
sexual life were better,
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then I would have
fantasized about us.
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Unbelievable.
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Here she is,
talkin' to her ex,
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fantasizing about him,
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physically seeing him,
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moved into the same
building he's in,
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so, yeah, I'm losing my trust.
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And how are we supposed
to get married without trust?
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Hi, Tiffanie.
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She's asking you a question.
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Why are you lookin' at me?
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She wants to hear it from you.
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Have I mentioned
how beautiful you are?
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Aww.
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I don't think so.
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You can
tell me again, you know.
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You're beautiful, gorgeous,
attractive... et cetera.
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After seven months
of intense conversation,
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I just met my amazing,
gorgeous girlfriend,
Dempsey, in person.
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I'm just like,
holy cow, she is better...
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better than I could
have ever imagined.
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We're heading to the hotel
where we'll stay the night.
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I'm feeling better
and all of my anxiety
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just melts away.
It's just completely gone.
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Yeah. I like Manchester.
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Mmm.
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Sometimes I get quiet and
don't know what to talk about.
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We are so awkward.
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I just, like...
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Wow! We're extremely
awkward people.
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After all this travel
that I'd had over
the past couple of days,
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it feels very surreal
that I'm actually...
finally I've met Statler,
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but it's a bit,
um, of a mind really
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when you've met someone
for seven months,
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and it's just, like,
an online thing,
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and then they're there
in person,
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and I'm just really
nervous, really nervous.
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Here we have
some stone.
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Limestone, I think it is.
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- It's so huge.
- Sorry for all my stuff.
I've kind of unpacked.
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It's lovely.
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I have
a gift for you.
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Really? I have gifts for you.
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I haven't wrapped mine
either 'cause I hadn't had
any wrapping paper.
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So, this is just
like a good gesture.
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Okay. Wow.
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This smells like an insect.
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- I can always smell
a dead insect.
- That's what the smell is.
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You wanna wash
your hands after,
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but look at it
it's actually...
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Gorgeous!
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Oh, my God!
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- These are the insects that
camouflage their bodies...
- Yeah.
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...to look
like leaves.
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So, that's
a Thailand one.
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This is, like, better than
Christmas and all of my
birthdays combined.
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I can't believe
you got me dead insects!
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And took them
all the way from Thailand,
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smelling like they do.
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It is a very
strong, intense scent.
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For a second, I thought
it was coming from you.
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- I thought it was my laundry
from Thailand.
- But...
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I thought so, too,
and I was kind of
concerned about that.
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But an insect lover
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recognizes the smell.
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This is [bleep]. Look at that.
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It's a scorpion with
a bunch of different beetles.
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They are all
from Thailand as well.
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- So, these
are all Thailand insects?
- Yeah.
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Stop it!
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That's so roma... That's
the most romantic thing
anyone's ever done!
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I'm realizing now
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that I gave you something
that I would have
wanted to receive,
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that I'm now realizing you
probably don't actually want.
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- So, here is the gift that--
- Oh, no.
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- I'm kind of embarrassed
now. Oh, boy.
- Uh...
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- It's an insect.
- It's an insect.
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- That's
hilarious.
- It's really cute.
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- It's cute.
- And it... The wings,
they move like...
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- Yeah.
- Okay.
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It's a mantis.
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It's very... Statler.
- Okay.
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She'd got
me a little metal ant.
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for our first gift.
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...do you wanna
get ready for bed?
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Yeah. I would like
to have a shower.
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Like, alone or...?
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- Yeah, alone.
- So, alone. Yeah.
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Of course, yeah.
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Wow!
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That is explosive,
but not in a bad way.
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- Are you okay?
- Yep. I'm great.
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- Bye.
- Enjoy.
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There's been a huge build-up
for months and months,
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no action.
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But it's kind of up to her.
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Hopefully, some magic
will happen tonight.
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- Hi.
- Hi.
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I'm trying
my best to reel it in,
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but her butt is
literal perfection.
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It's shaped like a peach,
like a juicy, delicious
Georgia peach.
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And it's got some,
like, huzzah to it.
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She's done
some work on that thing.
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Are you feeling awkward?
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- Me?
- Yeah.
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No, not at all. Are you?
- Yeah.
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Why is that?
Why do you feel awkward?
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'Cause we're in bed together?
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- Yeah.
- Oh.
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- If I kissed you,
that would be too--
- That'd be too much.
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That'd be too much. Okay.
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Uh, if you... if you
had to put, like, a number
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on the chances
of happy time...
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Statler.
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All right. Well, okay.
Good to know.
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Cool.
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I really like Statler.
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But, no, that's not happening.
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We're not having sex
tonight. No way.
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We hadn't even
kissed by this point
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and she's asking me
if I wanna have sex.
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Okay. Well, I'm knackered.
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- Yeah, me too.
- And I'm sure so are you.
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So... let me
figure out these lights.
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For me, sex is intimate.
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I just need to get
to know Statler
a little bit more in person.
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So, I'm just
gonna take it slow
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and see where things go.
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All right. Good night.
Good night.
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- Good day.
- Good day.
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- We did it.
- We did it.
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- Yay! Yayie.
- Yay! Our first day
meeting. Yay!
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- Mmm.
- Go to sleep.
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Stop it.
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Mmm.
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Gino and I only
have one week
and a half left together.
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These last few days
we fought so hard.
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And it just feels like
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We have to
wait a few minutes.
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Like, we are not having sex,
we are not romantic.
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And the worst part now is
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that Gino thinks
that I betray his trust
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because I'm friends
with my ex, Dane.
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Hi. Welcome.
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- Hi. How are you?
- Hi.
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- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.
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- How are you?
Please come in here.
- Sure.
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We have try
by our own to fix
a lot of our problems,
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but we haven't been able to.
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It's making me feel...
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miserable, desperate,
sad, concerned.
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So, we need
to see a therapist.
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We need it. It's a must.
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I would just
first like to say,
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usually, when you come
to get a counsel session...
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- Mmm-hmm.
- ...it takes more than once.
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So, it's hard to say
that we will accomplish
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probably everything that
you have in your minds.
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Yeah, I can't imagine.
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But, um, let's
take advantage
of our time together.
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Since I've been
in Panama, things...
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I hate to say it, but things
have been kind of rough.
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I... I thought it'd be...
it'd go better
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and I think it's a good
idea that we speak
about what's changed.
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So, tell me a little bit
about you guys.
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Yeah, sure.
Um, we've been dating
for two years and a half.
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- Wow.
- We are engaged.
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And I'm gonna travel
to United States to marry him.
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But we've been waiting
for the K-1 to be approved,
like, for 12 months
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It's a process
that is putting, like,
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a lot of pressure
on the relationship.
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So, it's... it's very hard
to maintain a conversation
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without ended up
on yelling at each other,
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uh, and I think
Gino will agree.
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Yeah. But one of the things
I have to bring up
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is that, uh, Jasmine, um,
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- she makes bad
comments all the time.
- Okay.
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She'll say
very hurtful words to me.
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And also,
I recently found out
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that Jasmine was
seeing her ex-boyfriend...
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calling him, moved into
the same building he's in.
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- Which is totally--
- They live
in the same building
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and they see each other,
you know, even recently.
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- While she's with--
- To talk about him.
To talk about him.
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Like, he's... Okay.
First of all, we have
a friendly meeting.
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It's not like,
I was like, you know,
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he found me in a hotel
or something, you know.
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And we decided to be friends
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because we had actually
amazing communication skills.
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I don't see him
as my ex-boyfriend.
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I see him as my friend.
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I... I told him part
of my frustration
is I want more intimacy.
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It's not just like
I wanna be pleased
all the time,
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it's just that...
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Like, just to give you
an example, um,
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I'm not satisfied
sexually in this relationship.
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Every time, most of the time
that I try to approach
to him physically,
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- he pushed me away and he's--
- No. No,
that's not true.
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And he has
even made comments
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about my private parts.
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A few days ago,
I was takin' a shower,
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and I wanted to be sexy,
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and I was like,
showing him my body...
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- Mmm-hmm.
- ...and he was gagging
like [imitates gagging].
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No, I wasn't.
You were showing...
I was trying to talk to you...
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talk to you and you're
showing me like,
your private parts.
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I'm saying, "Jasmine,
let me talk to you,
I'm trying to talk to you."
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- Trust me, I like seeing...
- Why do you
have to say that?
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...your private parts
and stuff. There was...
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At that moment in time,
I wanted to talk to her
at that moment.
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No, no, no.
So... so I want to understand.
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So, physically you felt
rejected and you say
like, "Uh-huh."
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Not wanted, not
good enough, ugly.
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I have my whole life
deal with insecurity issues
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because I have, like,
abandonment issues
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from my dad, which walk away
when I was three years old.
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- And I don't take
rejection, uh...
- ...easily.
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No, I don't take...
I'm sorry, like,
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you know, I don't
take rejection easily.
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And you
made me feel rejected
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and you made me feel ugly.
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And all I want is love.
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The first toxic
relationship that I had
with a man was with my dad.
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The worst thing
that you can do to me
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is showing me
that you don't love me.
242
00:14:25,206 --> 00:14:29,586
Like, I have, like, a lot
of abandonment issues.
243
00:14:29,586 --> 00:14:32,724
Deep inside, when
I love a person,
244
00:14:32,724 --> 00:14:38,275
I feel, like, so scared
of losing that person
and not having his love
245
00:14:38,275 --> 00:14:42,793
that I will do anything
just... just to feel
that I'm worthy.
246
00:14:42,793 --> 00:14:47,482
And Gino doesn't understand
how much he's hurting
me in this moment.
247
00:14:55,103 --> 00:14:57,896
We never have sex.
248
00:14:57,896 --> 00:15:00,275
Like, we've been dating
for two years and a half,
249
00:15:00,275 --> 00:15:02,344
and we have
only been together...
250
00:15:03,275 --> 00:15:05,344
like, have intercourse
seven times.
251
00:15:07,724 --> 00:15:09,172
If you want better intimacy,
252
00:15:09,172 --> 00:15:11,689
we have to
stop arguing every day.
253
00:15:11,689 --> 00:15:14,482
you have to start... stop
putting me down for the--
254
00:15:14,482 --> 00:15:16,000
Let me interrupt here,
255
00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:19,965
so that we can, um,
go a little deep here.
256
00:15:22,172 --> 00:15:27,517
Gino, so you're
giving conditions that
I understand that you need,
257
00:15:27,517 --> 00:15:31,275
but you might
get her best self
258
00:15:31,275 --> 00:15:36,103
by, you know, bonding
with her intimately.
259
00:15:36,103 --> 00:15:37,551
You know what I'm saying?
260
00:15:38,620 --> 00:15:43,793
Right, but she's gonna have
to work on those things, okay?
261
00:15:43,793 --> 00:15:46,724
I don't want you to make
her think she doesn't
have to work on that stuff.
262
00:15:46,724 --> 00:15:48,000
- No. Not at all.
- 'Cause she does.
263
00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,793
- Very much so.
- Oh. Is this coming
through that way?
264
00:15:50,793 --> 00:15:51,965
Uh, yeah.
265
00:15:55,620 --> 00:15:57,275
Are you afraid of that?
266
00:15:57,275 --> 00:16:00,482
Yeah. I want to
make sure that she doesn't
think that she doesn't--
267
00:16:00,482 --> 00:16:02,896
That's... that's why
we have communication
problems, because--
268
00:16:02,896 --> 00:16:06,586
I wanna make sure
that she knows she
has to work on those things.
269
00:16:06,586 --> 00:16:10,517
And also, our intimacy
was better at one time,
270
00:16:10,517 --> 00:16:12,482
but we still had these issues.
271
00:16:12,482 --> 00:16:14,068
So, I don't think that
that's gonna work very well.
272
00:16:14,068 --> 00:16:15,172
No.
It was never good.
273
00:16:15,172 --> 00:16:16,620
- No, earlier--
- No. It was not good.
274
00:16:16,620 --> 00:16:20,689
- Yeah, it was.
- I... I like... My worst
sex has been with Gino.
275
00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:23,310
This is... These are
the kind of comments...
276
00:16:23,310 --> 00:16:24,620
Because I'm
being honest. Like, we need--
277
00:16:24,620 --> 00:16:27,413
...where I really don't
have any desire
to be with her
278
00:16:27,413 --> 00:16:28,862
- when I hear stuff like that.
- Okay.
279
00:16:29,172 --> 00:16:30,344
Period.
280
00:16:36,586 --> 00:16:39,344
I am on my period.
281
00:16:43,310 --> 00:16:44,448
Okay. So?
282
00:17:02,620 --> 00:17:03,758
She's young.
283
00:17:30,103 --> 00:17:32,068
Razvan, can you...
284
00:17:32,068 --> 00:17:34,172
- Yeah?
- ...help me
make this coffee?
285
00:17:38,379 --> 00:17:41,482
Uh... I don't
think you can use--
286
00:17:41,482 --> 00:17:42,758
This is like...
287
00:17:44,379 --> 00:17:48,206
I know. We need to buy,
uh, something else.
288
00:17:48,206 --> 00:17:51,896
- A coffee pot.
- A... coffee pot.
289
00:17:51,896 --> 00:17:53,965
So, why did you let me
pick out ground coffee?
290
00:17:53,965 --> 00:17:56,586
And you have, like, this
291
00:17:56,586 --> 00:17:59,965
European coffee pod.
292
00:18:04,379 --> 00:18:05,655
You know?
293
00:18:06,482 --> 00:18:07,758
I will buy something.
294
00:18:28,310 --> 00:18:31,448
- I just want,
like, regular coffee.
- Yeah.
295
00:18:57,068 --> 00:18:59,689
Oh, my gosh.
296
00:19:00,793 --> 00:19:02,586
I am on my period,
297
00:19:02,586 --> 00:19:05,241
so I feel bloated and I--
298
00:19:06,965 --> 00:19:09,551
Yeah.
299
00:19:21,275 --> 00:19:22,862
Okay. So?
300
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,379
Oh, my God.
- You know?
301
00:19:36,068 --> 00:19:41,068
I think that Razvan is
hoping that by us having sex,
302
00:19:41,068 --> 00:19:43,275
it'll help us connect
more emotionally.
303
00:19:44,103 --> 00:19:47,068
I get it,
but I'm not comfortable
304
00:19:47,068 --> 00:19:48,965
having sex with Razvan yet.
305
00:19:48,965 --> 00:19:52,206
Especially coming from
a marriage that
306
00:19:52,206 --> 00:19:54,965
I was in for so long
and losing my husband.
307
00:19:57,068 --> 00:19:58,172
Okay.
308
00:19:59,586 --> 00:20:02,344
Um, can you bring me
the mirror from the bathroom?
309
00:20:04,379 --> 00:20:07,379
I met Jason
when I was 19,
310
00:20:07,379 --> 00:20:11,413
so it's kind of like,
I learned things
311
00:20:11,413 --> 00:20:14,172
and, like, went through
that experience with him,
312
00:20:14,172 --> 00:20:18,793
so, you know, it's scary
for me to take that leap
313
00:20:18,793 --> 00:20:21,000
and to be with
someone intimately
314
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,689
who is not Jason.
315
00:20:23,689 --> 00:20:24,862
Thanks.
316
00:20:25,689 --> 00:20:27,689
And also, you wanted
to go swimming,
317
00:20:27,689 --> 00:20:31,172
but I do not
like that swimsuit
that you got for me.
318
00:20:31,172 --> 00:20:33,758
- So, you
want to return it?
- Yeah.
319
00:20:46,172 --> 00:20:48,862
Honestly, I don't
like that style top.
320
00:20:50,586 --> 00:20:56,068
So, um, we will go,
buy another one.
321
00:20:56,068 --> 00:20:57,413
Thanks.
322
00:20:57,413 --> 00:21:01,068
It's very sweet of Razvan
to buy me a gift.
323
00:21:01,068 --> 00:21:05,000
However, he is the first
man that has gotten me a gift
324
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,275
since I've been with Jason.
325
00:21:07,275 --> 00:21:09,379
And in the back of my mind,
326
00:21:09,379 --> 00:21:13,103
I have that kind of,
like, guilt, you know, like,
327
00:21:13,103 --> 00:21:15,655
that comes with
being with someone else.
328
00:21:17,103 --> 00:21:18,965
Oh, you look beautiful.
329
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,206
Except those big
shoes--
330
00:21:23,206 --> 00:21:24,793
Let's go!
331
00:21:39,586 --> 00:21:42,000
This is like,
such a cute little area.
332
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,103
- Here we go.
- Is this the shop?
333
00:21:50,103 --> 00:21:51,241
Yes.
334
00:22:09,206 --> 00:22:10,379
Okay.
335
00:22:17,689 --> 00:22:19,482
Maybe
something black?
336
00:22:19,482 --> 00:22:21,655
There's nothing really black.
337
00:22:22,379 --> 00:22:23,758
No?
338
00:22:25,482 --> 00:22:26,896
I like this one.
339
00:22:26,896 --> 00:22:30,172
Yeah.
340
00:22:32,482 --> 00:22:33,931
Ah, okay.
It was between--
341
00:22:35,068 --> 00:22:36,275
And she was telling me...
342
00:22:37,689 --> 00:22:38,862
Mmm-hmm.
343
00:22:44,689 --> 00:22:46,689
What are you saying?
344
00:22:46,689 --> 00:22:49,103
No, you didn't.
I don't believe you.
345
00:22:58,586 --> 00:23:00,689
- Did
she say do I like Romania?
- Yeah.
346
00:23:25,965 --> 00:23:29,000
I wouldn't live
here because I have kids
347
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:32,000
and I don't want them
to live in the city.
348
00:23:40,793 --> 00:23:42,379
She can't believe that
you have two childrens
349
00:23:42,379 --> 00:23:44,965
because you look very nice.
350
00:23:56,310 --> 00:23:57,689
What?
351
00:23:57,689 --> 00:23:59,000
No. None.
352
00:24:00,689 --> 00:24:01,793
None.
353
00:24:05,172 --> 00:24:08,689
So, you tell her
about our relationship
354
00:24:08,689 --> 00:24:10,482
when you bought
the bathing suit?
355
00:24:14,896 --> 00:24:16,448
That's sweet.
356
00:24:18,068 --> 00:24:21,689
I cannot tell if
Razvan is being serious
357
00:24:21,689 --> 00:24:25,310
when he tells this
shopkeeper that he
wants three or four children.
358
00:24:25,310 --> 00:24:27,586
I hope that he's joking.
359
00:24:27,586 --> 00:24:31,000
When Razvan and I were first
getting to know one another,
360
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:34,206
I had asked him
if he saw himself
361
00:24:34,206 --> 00:24:35,689
having children in the future
362
00:24:35,689 --> 00:24:37,206
and he told me, "No."
363
00:24:37,206 --> 00:24:38,655
That it didn't matter to him.
364
00:24:39,206 --> 00:24:43,206
So, I hope
that is still the case
365
00:24:43,206 --> 00:24:45,310
because at this
point in my life,
366
00:24:45,310 --> 00:24:48,103
I don't feel like I wanna
have any more children.
367
00:24:51,965 --> 00:24:53,275
Bye.
368
00:25:14,379 --> 00:25:15,758
Mmm.
369
00:25:18,482 --> 00:25:25,034
You... you can bring. Yes.
370
00:25:31,275 --> 00:25:34,034
Are you ready
to meet my parents later?
371
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:33,206
It's important to me that
David connect with my son.
372
00:26:33,206 --> 00:26:35,586
I want them to meet,
373
00:26:35,586 --> 00:26:41,862
but I am worried to bring
David at home because
374
00:26:41,862 --> 00:26:48,068
my family is poor and I don't
want to scare David away.
375
00:27:58,413 --> 00:27:59,655
Okay.
376
00:28:00,482 --> 00:28:01,551
Hello.
377
00:28:14,310 --> 00:28:17,068
My name is Aimee
378
00:28:17,068 --> 00:28:19,586
Uh, my sign name is this.
379
00:28:19,586 --> 00:28:22,172
And I do interpreting.
380
00:28:23,482 --> 00:28:26,310
It's really easier
if she's with us
381
00:28:26,310 --> 00:28:28,931
rather than using our phones.
382
00:29:00,413 --> 00:29:04,379
She's young
and I feel little jealousy.
383
00:29:07,862 --> 00:29:13,758
I would like to
find an interpreter with
a man, not a girl. Yeah.
384
00:29:18,896 --> 00:29:20,068
Yes.
385
00:29:20,068 --> 00:29:23,068
I hopefully that
I can learn...
386
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,172
- ASL.
- Yeah.
387
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,689
When I see them communicate,
388
00:30:12,689 --> 00:30:15,482
and she look with my boyfriend
389
00:30:15,482 --> 00:30:19,068
and David look at her,
and me, I was...
390
00:30:49,413 --> 00:30:50,551
Let's go.
391
00:31:07,482 --> 00:31:08,655
No, I...
392
00:31:28,103 --> 00:31:30,103
So, you're mad
because my family
393
00:31:30,103 --> 00:31:31,689
is asking you questions.
394
00:31:31,689 --> 00:31:33,655
I don't
talk with you, okay?
395
00:31:34,103 --> 00:31:35,206
I go back home.
396
00:31:35,206 --> 00:31:36,103
Okay. Beat it.
397
00:31:36,103 --> 00:31:37,172
- Yes.
- Beat it.
398
00:31:44,586 --> 00:31:46,172
Waste my time.
399
00:31:46,172 --> 00:31:47,172
Tired of this [bleep].
400
00:32:06,551 --> 00:32:10,896
She's asking, after you
told me to delete the app,
401
00:32:10,896 --> 00:32:13,034
why were you still on the app?
402
00:32:13,034 --> 00:32:15,931
- I talk with you--
- No, no, no. She asked you.
403
00:32:16,586 --> 00:32:18,379
Before I answer her--
404
00:32:18,379 --> 00:32:20,172
I can't... No! Answer her.
405
00:32:20,172 --> 00:32:21,344
Don't talk to me.
406
00:32:24,482 --> 00:32:25,655
What?
407
00:32:29,103 --> 00:32:32,793
Okay. It has nothing...
This has nothing
to do with me.
408
00:32:32,793 --> 00:32:33,965
This has to do
with you and Tiffanie.
409
00:32:40,862 --> 00:32:43,965
The app. I forgot password.
410
00:32:54,482 --> 00:32:56,965
This is another instance
where I just...
411
00:32:56,965 --> 00:32:59,655
I don't believe
anything she's saying
412
00:32:59,655 --> 00:33:01,103
and she's just squirmin'
around, lookin' nervous.
413
00:33:01,103 --> 00:33:02,689
I don't understand this.
414
00:33:02,689 --> 00:33:04,379
I really want to trust her,
415
00:33:04,379 --> 00:33:07,517
but this is a major
red flag for me.
416
00:33:10,482 --> 00:33:12,689
So, you're mad
because my family,
417
00:33:12,689 --> 00:33:16,034
someone I consider my family,
I consider my sister,
418
00:33:16,034 --> 00:33:18,000
is asking you questions?
419
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,655
And you're mad 'cause
you have to answer them.
420
00:33:20,655 --> 00:33:22,896
But when your family
asked me hard questions,
421
00:33:22,896 --> 00:33:24,482
and I answered them--
422
00:33:24,482 --> 00:33:25,793
I don't care.
423
00:33:25,793 --> 00:33:27,586
- This is a two-way street.
- Okay.
424
00:33:27,586 --> 00:33:30,172
- It's a two-way street.
- Okay. If you don't
care, we talk,
425
00:33:30,172 --> 00:33:32,275
we stop talking tonight, okay?
426
00:33:32,275 --> 00:33:36,448
Oh. You know what, Tiff?
I'll call you back.
I'll call you back.
427
00:33:36,448 --> 00:33:37,862
Yeah. You know what--
428
00:33:37,862 --> 00:33:40,758
You know what...
you know what,
you don't wanna--
429
00:33:40,758 --> 00:33:43,896
Because you did
something wrong
430
00:33:43,896 --> 00:33:46,551
- and I went back to see
if you were on the app.
- Oh!
431
00:33:46,551 --> 00:33:49,034
- Do not
talk down to me.
- Okay.
432
00:33:49,034 --> 00:33:50,896
I don't
talk with you, okay?
433
00:33:50,896 --> 00:33:52,862
We stop now, okay?
434
00:33:53,275 --> 00:33:54,448
I go back home.
435
00:33:54,448 --> 00:33:55,379
Okay. Beat it.
436
00:33:55,379 --> 00:33:57,103
- Yes.
- Beat it.
437
00:33:57,103 --> 00:33:58,241
Bye.
438
00:33:59,275 --> 00:34:01,931
Bye!
439
00:34:02,793 --> 00:34:04,379
Waste my time.
440
00:34:04,379 --> 00:34:05,827
Tired of this [bleep].
441
00:34:29,103 --> 00:34:30,551
Thank you
for that, Tiffanie...
442
00:34:33,689 --> 00:34:36,689
Yeah. This right here
was too much.
443
00:34:36,689 --> 00:34:39,758
It was... [stutters] it was
the last straw for me.
444
00:34:41,586 --> 00:34:42,758
I'm done.
445
00:34:44,034 --> 00:34:47,034
I really came here
with the best intentions
446
00:34:47,034 --> 00:34:48,862
in my heart
and in my mind.
447
00:34:48,862 --> 00:34:51,275
And I got
my ass handed to me.
448
00:34:51,275 --> 00:34:53,172
It's her way or the highway.
449
00:34:53,172 --> 00:34:54,586
And you know what?
450
00:34:54,586 --> 00:34:57,448
I'm not putting up with it.
I don't have to.
451
00:34:58,103 --> 00:35:00,172
I love you too. Bye.
452
00:35:35,551 --> 00:35:36,827
Ah. What a night.
453
00:35:43,275 --> 00:35:46,379
But I felt
a little bit insecure that
454
00:35:46,379 --> 00:35:50,793
Statler's more, um,
experienced in the
bedroom than I am.
455
00:35:50,793 --> 00:35:54,172
And I just worried she might
not wanna be with me
456
00:35:54,172 --> 00:35:56,448
if her needs
are not being met.
457
00:36:35,137 --> 00:36:36,655
Ah. What a night.
458
00:36:38,586 --> 00:36:41,206
Oh.
459
00:36:42,586 --> 00:36:45,000
We have had our first kiss
460
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:48,034
and it was... not great.
461
00:36:48,034 --> 00:36:51,344
- It was
really awkward.
- It was so awkward.
462
00:36:51,344 --> 00:36:53,034
Yeah, I think
I got teeth mostly...
463
00:36:53,034 --> 00:36:55,758
...'cause you were
smiling and laughing so hard.
464
00:36:56,241 --> 00:36:57,482
We got better at it.
465
00:36:57,482 --> 00:37:02,206
Yeah. And then,
once we got good
at kissing...
466
00:37:06,793 --> 00:37:08,896
We... we had sex.
467
00:37:08,896 --> 00:37:10,034
Yeah.
468
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,793
That kind of a bout
will turn you religious.
469
00:37:14,793 --> 00:37:19,172
Wanna have an altar
that I set up and worship it.
470
00:37:19,172 --> 00:37:22,551
Have a photo
dedicated to just it.
471
00:37:23,241 --> 00:37:26,379
And your
like heaven.
472
00:37:26,379 --> 00:37:28,034
It must be your vegan diet
473
00:37:28,034 --> 00:37:32,793
I've just... I don't think
I've ever been with a vegan.
474
00:37:32,793 --> 00:37:35,482
That's the advertisement
vegans need.
475
00:37:35,482 --> 00:37:38,586
"Do you want your
person to [bleep] 24/7?"
476
00:37:39,689 --> 00:37:43,344
"Boy, do I have
a food thing for you to try.
477
00:37:43,344 --> 00:37:44,586
Veganism!"
478
00:37:50,586 --> 00:37:53,586
Normally, I do
take things slower.
479
00:37:53,586 --> 00:37:55,034
But we had our first kiss,
480
00:37:55,034 --> 00:37:58,758
and we kissed some more,
and then one thing
led to another.
481
00:37:58,758 --> 00:38:01,275
I could feel
the connection between us.
482
00:38:01,275 --> 00:38:05,000
And we've been on this
whole build-up
of seven months.
483
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,379
So, I just thought, "Why not?"
484
00:38:08,379 --> 00:38:11,379
So, I've never, like,
had a wax done before.
485
00:38:11,379 --> 00:38:14,689
- Did you approve?
- Yeah. I thought
it was pretty smooth.
486
00:38:14,689 --> 00:38:17,793
Was yours waxed?
'Cause yours was so smooth.
487
00:38:17,793 --> 00:38:21,034
- Can I just feel it again
to make sure that--
- No. No!
488
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:27,551
It's all about the sex,
isn't it?
489
00:38:29,689 --> 00:38:31,241
I'm glad
that it happened.
490
00:38:31,241 --> 00:38:33,172
I think it brought us closer.
491
00:38:33,172 --> 00:38:35,000
But when we were having sex,
492
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:38,103
I felt a little bit
insecure that
493
00:38:38,103 --> 00:38:42,586
Statler's more, um,
experienced in the
bedroom than I am.
494
00:38:44,793 --> 00:38:47,896
She's been to,
like, sex parties
495
00:38:47,896 --> 00:38:50,758
and she likes the
whippin' and the chains
496
00:38:50,758 --> 00:38:53,586
and that's not something
I've ever done before.
497
00:38:53,586 --> 00:38:55,000
This is mine.
498
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:57,896
And I just worried
that she might not
wanna be with me
499
00:38:57,896 --> 00:39:01,551
if her... her needs
are not being met.
500
00:39:02,034 --> 00:39:03,655
Thank you. Oh, yeah.
501
00:39:06,172 --> 00:39:09,862
- Mmm. Oh, my God.
This is so good.
- Yeah.
502
00:39:11,482 --> 00:39:15,137
So, we're gonna go
to the farm where you live.
503
00:39:15,137 --> 00:39:18,689
Am I gonna have, like,
any space for like...
I brought, like, suitcases.
504
00:39:18,689 --> 00:39:20,344
Yeah,
I have a spare room.
There's plenty of space.
505
00:39:20,344 --> 00:39:21,551
- Oh, really?
- Yeah.
506
00:39:22,344 --> 00:39:24,034
This is gonna be
an experience.
507
00:39:26,758 --> 00:39:28,000
Yeah.
508
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,241
But I'm looking
forward to it.
509
00:39:31,241 --> 00:39:33,103
Today, we're going back
to Darlington,
510
00:39:33,103 --> 00:39:35,482
where I live
and work on a farm.
511
00:39:35,482 --> 00:39:40,586
And I'm worried that
Statler's not gonna
adjust to my way of livin'
512
00:39:40,586 --> 00:39:44,448
because I'm, like,
pretty much off-grid living.
513
00:39:46,689 --> 00:39:49,000
Can I come and take a shower
with you really quick?
514
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:50,689
Yeah.
515
00:39:50,689 --> 00:39:52,793
Dempsey lives out
in the middle of nowhere.
516
00:39:52,793 --> 00:39:56,172
And I'm anxious
to stay at her place,
517
00:39:56,172 --> 00:40:00,862
I'm nervous, I'm feeling...
I'm feeling un... unexcited.
518
00:40:02,172 --> 00:40:04,482
I'm not sure
the circumstances
519
00:40:04,482 --> 00:40:07,482
that are going
to be awaiting me
in this caravan.
520
00:40:07,482 --> 00:40:09,137
I'm concerned about space,
521
00:40:09,137 --> 00:40:11,379
I'm concerned
about sanitation,
522
00:40:11,379 --> 00:40:13,172
that it's gonna be cold,
523
00:40:13,172 --> 00:40:16,310
and that I'm just not
gonna be comfortable there.
524
00:40:17,344 --> 00:40:19,241
I'm a city girl
525
00:40:19,241 --> 00:40:21,172
and I'm not used to
any of this stuff.
526
00:40:21,172 --> 00:40:22,862
I just don't wanna offend her
527
00:40:22,862 --> 00:40:24,793
if I get there to the caravan
528
00:40:24,793 --> 00:40:27,034
and then I'm like,
"Uh, this isn't gonna work."
529
00:40:27,034 --> 00:40:29,586
Ugh. This is a lot.
530
00:40:29,586 --> 00:40:31,103
Geez.
531
00:40:48,482 --> 00:40:52,793
Nico, why do you
have these monkeys
532
00:40:52,793 --> 00:40:54,344
hanging from your--
533
00:41:05,482 --> 00:41:09,379
Last night, Nicola and I
had a pretty good time
in downtown Haifa.
534
00:41:09,379 --> 00:41:12,172
Happened to be here,
go into a dance club,
535
00:41:12,172 --> 00:41:16,586
and it was really great
to see him come out
of his shell a little bit.
536
00:41:16,586 --> 00:41:19,379
So, I feel like we're moving
out of the desert now,
537
00:41:19,379 --> 00:41:21,931
and starting to get
on the right track.
538
00:41:23,896 --> 00:41:27,103
Can you tell me a little bit
about this Catholic village?
539
00:41:27,103 --> 00:41:29,862
This village, if we
go back to history...
540
00:41:34,586 --> 00:41:36,344
Today, Nicola is taking me
541
00:41:36,344 --> 00:41:38,655
to an area called
the Catholic village.
542
00:41:40,379 --> 00:41:42,586
This is an important
place for Nicola
543
00:41:42,586 --> 00:41:45,379
because it's where
he goes to church.
544
00:41:45,379 --> 00:41:47,896
And it's also where his
best friend, Wasim, lives.
545
00:41:47,896 --> 00:41:50,034
And after we do
some touring together,
546
00:41:50,034 --> 00:41:53,275
Nicola plans on
introducing me to Wasim.
547
00:41:53,275 --> 00:41:56,137
It'll be the first time
that I'm meeting someone
in Nicola's life
548
00:41:56,137 --> 00:41:58,034
that actually knows about me.
549
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:01,344
Oh, Nicola, I so wish
I had my hair dryer.
550
00:42:01,344 --> 00:42:05,103
- Why? What are you gonna do?
- You are so sweaty
right now. Like, you're--
551
00:42:05,103 --> 00:42:06,137
Why are you wincing?
552
00:42:06,137 --> 00:42:07,620
Don't
lift up your arms.
553
00:42:10,586 --> 00:42:13,931
- This is the church
I pray every Sunday, Meisha.
- Oh, my God.
554
00:42:15,379 --> 00:42:18,000
Oh.
555
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:19,586
Oh, my gosh.
556
00:42:19,586 --> 00:42:21,000
I think
it's so great for Meisha
557
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,103
to see where
I pray every week.
558
00:42:24,344 --> 00:42:27,689
Come, see something here.
Be careful, Meisha.
559
00:42:27,689 --> 00:42:29,965
Being Catholic
is everything for me,
560
00:42:29,965 --> 00:42:32,482
and that's what make
me and Meisha
561
00:42:32,482 --> 00:42:34,758
also to have
a strong relationship.
562
00:42:44,793 --> 00:42:47,586
- Look
at this view, Meisha.
- Oh, my...
563
00:42:48,689 --> 00:42:49,689
Yeah.
564
00:42:50,862 --> 00:42:52,034
Oh.
565
00:42:52,689 --> 00:42:53,862
Of course.
566
00:42:57,379 --> 00:42:58,758
Yeah.
567
00:42:58,758 --> 00:43:01,793
I feel like I'm closer
to God in my faith.
568
00:43:01,793 --> 00:43:05,344
- And it is so amazing!
- I love it.
569
00:43:05,344 --> 00:43:06,793
You want to go down?
570
00:43:06,793 --> 00:43:08,586
- Yeah.
- 'Cause
the sun is so hot.
571
00:43:08,586 --> 00:43:10,241
- Let's go. Let's go.
- Should we go?
Okay. Let's go.
572
00:43:10,241 --> 00:43:11,344
No, no, no, no, no.
573
00:43:13,034 --> 00:43:14,137
Oh, okay.
574
00:43:14,137 --> 00:43:17,034
It's very dangerous.
One by one, sweetie pie.
575
00:43:17,034 --> 00:43:20,448
It's great to show Meisha
all these important sites.
576
00:43:21,689 --> 00:43:23,896
Put your head down.
It's become more hard now.
577
00:43:23,896 --> 00:43:25,034
Oh, my gosh.
578
00:43:25,034 --> 00:43:26,862
Imagine if someone
was really tall,
579
00:43:26,862 --> 00:43:28,793
- going up and down here.
- Yeah.
580
00:43:28,793 --> 00:43:32,034
It's the history
of the Catholic people
here in the Holy Land.
581
00:43:32,034 --> 00:43:34,896
This is where every
Catholic need to see.
582
00:43:34,896 --> 00:43:38,793
Also, in this village,
my friend, Wasim, was here.
583
00:43:38,793 --> 00:43:41,034
He and Meisha
met in the farm.
584
00:43:41,034 --> 00:43:44,034
But today, they will
meet in real life.
585
00:43:44,034 --> 00:43:46,034
So, I think it's
a great day today.
586
00:43:59,862 --> 00:44:00,965
Meisha?
587
00:44:01,586 --> 00:44:04,482
Oh! Hi!
588
00:44:05,896 --> 00:44:08,758
- Hello.
- It's so good to see you.
589
00:44:08,758 --> 00:44:10,586
Say hi to Biscuit.
590
00:44:12,482 --> 00:44:15,034
- Nice eyes.
- It's so nice to meet you.
591
00:44:16,103 --> 00:44:18,103
In the flesh.
Good! I mean...
592
00:44:18,103 --> 00:44:21,586
Sorry, I have to like arch
my back, so I can hold...
593
00:44:21,586 --> 00:44:24,241
No.
594
00:44:24,241 --> 00:44:25,758
Let's just go, sit down.
You wanna go back over here?
595
00:44:27,034 --> 00:44:29,586
- No. Oh,
Wasim, be on my side.
- Please.
596
00:44:29,586 --> 00:44:32,241
Be on my side
on this one.
597
00:44:32,241 --> 00:44:34,827
God, Meisha. I don't know
what to do with you.
598
00:44:36,103 --> 00:44:37,586
Oh, my God.
599
00:44:37,586 --> 00:44:39,241
Every cat she see
in the street,
600
00:44:39,241 --> 00:44:41,241
she thinks she is
the mother of the cat.
601
00:44:41,241 --> 00:44:42,965
And I don't like it.
602
00:44:44,241 --> 00:44:46,241
First time you
meet Wasim in person
603
00:44:46,241 --> 00:44:49,000
and you are holding
a small cat in your hand
604
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:52,137
and playing with him
instead to talk with
a person, you know?
605
00:44:54,172 --> 00:44:56,965
He likes you.
606
00:44:56,965 --> 00:44:58,689
At some point, I would
love to meet your wife.
607
00:45:01,482 --> 00:45:02,482
I know.
608
00:45:02,482 --> 00:45:05,586
She's busy.
Yeah, I get it.
609
00:45:05,586 --> 00:45:08,137
Tell him where we
have been, where I took you.
610
00:45:08,137 --> 00:45:10,482
Or since you came from Israel.
611
00:45:10,482 --> 00:45:15,000
Um, well, Nazareth.
612
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:16,896
It's a lot of, uh,
beautiful places there.
613
00:45:16,896 --> 00:45:20,586
- Yeah, for sure.
- Tell him about
the view from our hotel.
614
00:45:20,586 --> 00:45:22,034
Oh, it's spectacular.
615
00:45:22,034 --> 00:45:23,862
Is it a nice hotel?
616
00:45:23,862 --> 00:45:27,241
Yeah, but you have to see
our room look like the forest.
617
00:45:32,689 --> 00:45:37,793
I never saw a woman
brought with her all America
618
00:45:37,793 --> 00:45:41,758
and make a messy
place in my room.
619
00:45:41,758 --> 00:45:43,206
I wasn't expect it.
620
00:45:44,172 --> 00:45:46,482
- She'd put her tag--
- Ah, here's my wife.
621
00:45:46,482 --> 00:45:47,586
- It's May!
- Hi.
622
00:45:47,586 --> 00:45:49,862
- Hi.
- Hi.
623
00:45:49,862 --> 00:45:52,379
- Hi, Meisha. How are you?
- It's so
nice to meet you.
624
00:45:52,379 --> 00:45:55,241
- Nice to meet you. May.
- Pleasure's all mine.
625
00:45:58,586 --> 00:46:01,241
Oh, oh.
626
00:46:04,103 --> 00:46:05,793
I think,
you know, for me,
627
00:46:05,793 --> 00:46:11,241
I had no idea coming here
how Nicola would be,
like, with me,
628
00:46:11,241 --> 00:46:14,758
as a woman by him, and...
629
00:46:14,758 --> 00:46:16,793
But I think, day by day,
630
00:46:16,793 --> 00:46:18,379
we're just trying
to, like, work through,
631
00:46:18,379 --> 00:46:21,379
- you know, everything that
needs to be worked through.
- Yeah.
632
00:46:21,379 --> 00:46:22,655
What about you, Nicola?
633
00:46:30,034 --> 00:46:32,793
So, my whole family
knows all about Nicola.
634
00:46:32,793 --> 00:46:34,965
But what I found out
when I got to Israel
635
00:46:34,965 --> 00:46:38,551
is that Nicola's older brother
did not know anything about...
636
00:46:41,379 --> 00:46:43,379
So, what can you
do for Meisha
637
00:46:43,379 --> 00:46:44,896
to make her very happy,
638
00:46:44,896 --> 00:46:46,448
especially with your family?
639
00:46:47,793 --> 00:46:48,896
Leave the family alone.
640
00:46:48,896 --> 00:46:51,000
It's between me
and Meisha, not family.
641
00:46:52,896 --> 00:46:57,793
But I loved Wasim's question
about, what could you do
642
00:46:57,793 --> 00:47:00,448
to make Meisha happy
in regards to that?
643
00:47:00,862 --> 00:47:02,551
Just think about it.
644
00:47:05,241 --> 00:47:08,241
Do you know
how much I sacrifice
for her in the 48 hours?
645
00:47:08,241 --> 00:47:11,000
And she still... she keep
begging me about my mom
646
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,103
and my brother
like a crazy Meisha.
647
00:47:16,482 --> 00:47:19,482
It's a little wearing
to hear Nicola always
648
00:47:19,482 --> 00:47:21,379
basically insinuate
that I'm crazy
649
00:47:21,379 --> 00:47:23,344
because I want
to meet his family before
650
00:47:23,344 --> 00:47:25,482
spending my
entire life with him.
651
00:47:25,482 --> 00:47:28,482
And... I would have loved
for Nicola to take
652
00:47:28,482 --> 00:47:32,275
this opportunity with his
best friend to showcase
653
00:47:32,275 --> 00:47:34,793
what we've built over
seven years of talking
654
00:47:34,793 --> 00:47:36,655
and be excited about us.
655
00:47:37,896 --> 00:47:40,793
But instead,
he's being dismissive
656
00:47:40,793 --> 00:47:43,379
and a little insulting to me.
657
00:47:43,379 --> 00:47:46,482
This is a side that I've never
seen of Nicola before,
658
00:47:46,482 --> 00:47:48,103
and it is concerning.
659
00:47:52,586 --> 00:47:54,862
He just old me,
he wants to have children.
660
00:47:54,862 --> 00:47:57,862
Sometimes I think
you're looking too far
into the future.
661
00:48:00,758 --> 00:48:02,965
It is if it's the person that
you're supposed to be with.
662
00:48:15,586 --> 00:48:16,551
Wow.
663
00:48:48,172 --> 00:48:50,000
I'm going out
for some fresh air.
664
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,241
- I'll be back soon.
- All right.
665
00:48:55,172 --> 00:48:58,379
I'm still really taken back
by Razvan's comment,
666
00:48:58,379 --> 00:49:01,000
of him wanting to have
children of his own.
667
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,620
I understand why
he wants that, but...
668
00:49:04,172 --> 00:49:07,482
I'm really surprised because
669
00:49:07,482 --> 00:49:10,275
I absolutely do not want
to have any more children,
670
00:49:10,275 --> 00:49:14,413
and I was very direct
and clear before
I came to Romania.
671
00:49:15,586 --> 00:49:18,379
Honestly, I feel
a little bit misled,
672
00:49:18,379 --> 00:49:21,448
and it's making me
second guess myself.
673
00:49:25,172 --> 00:49:26,655
Hi.
674
00:49:26,655 --> 00:49:27,758
Hey, what are you doing?
675
00:49:35,551 --> 00:49:37,862
Um, it's going okay.
676
00:49:37,862 --> 00:49:39,689
He's, like, so loving,
I feel like.
677
00:49:39,689 --> 00:49:41,931
Like he always wants
to hold my hand.
678
00:49:42,758 --> 00:49:45,344
And he's so much
cuter in person.
679
00:49:50,275 --> 00:49:52,793
Uh, like a hundred times more.
680
00:50:01,344 --> 00:50:02,931
We have not had sex yet.
681
00:50:09,275 --> 00:50:12,758
Yeah, I mean, when I came here
I wasn't sure, like,
682
00:50:12,758 --> 00:50:14,379
if I was gonna feel
comfortable, like,
683
00:50:14,379 --> 00:50:17,172
sleeping in the bed,
like, the first night,
684
00:50:17,172 --> 00:50:20,482
but I did decide to, like,
sleep in the bed
with him that night.
685
00:50:20,482 --> 00:50:22,655
I mean, and it was nice,
like, we just cuddled,
686
00:50:22,655 --> 00:50:24,931
but, I mean, of course
it makes me, like,
687
00:50:25,862 --> 00:50:29,379
bring up those thoughts, like,
I'm doing something
688
00:50:29,379 --> 00:50:31,448
I shouldn't be doing,
you know.
689
00:50:33,758 --> 00:50:34,862
Yeah.
690
00:50:34,862 --> 00:50:37,896
But I think I'm kind
of getting over that guilt,
691
00:50:37,896 --> 00:50:40,724
you know, like, it's okay
to be happy, you know.
692
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:46,172
But there are some
communication things, like
693
00:50:46,172 --> 00:50:49,000
I think it was like the second
day that I was here,
694
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,827
he told me that he has
a visa appointment and...
695
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:56,862
No, so he made an appointment
696
00:50:56,862 --> 00:50:58,655
and I said,
"If you're approved,
697
00:50:58,655 --> 00:51:02,344
when do you plan on wanting
to come to the United States?"
698
00:51:02,344 --> 00:51:04,758
He said
one week after I leave.
699
00:51:04,758 --> 00:51:07,896
So, I said, "That's
way too soon," and...
700
00:51:07,896 --> 00:51:10,482
I don't think he's ready
for, like, to be around me,
701
00:51:10,482 --> 00:51:12,482
like, as a mom,
you know what I mean?
702
00:51:12,482 --> 00:51:17,137
It's gonna be probably
hard for him to see, like, me.
703
00:51:19,344 --> 00:51:20,793
Yeah.
704
00:51:20,793 --> 00:51:24,448
Yeah. And also,
he just told me today,
705
00:51:24,448 --> 00:51:28,448
that he wants to have children
or a child in the future.
706
00:51:28,448 --> 00:51:31,172
And when we first got
together, I asked him,
707
00:51:31,172 --> 00:51:34,000
and he said it didn't
matter to him either way.
708
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,586
And I said, "Well, I'm
probably not having
any more children."
709
00:51:36,586 --> 00:51:38,172
And he was like,
"Okay, I'm fine with that."
710
00:51:38,172 --> 00:51:41,482
And today, he was like,
"I want to have
more kids though."
711
00:51:55,862 --> 00:51:58,344
It is if it's your... like,
712
00:51:58,344 --> 00:52:00,241
your person that you're
supposed to be with.
713
00:52:03,965 --> 00:52:06,379
I don't know, that's why
I'm here, to see, like,
714
00:52:06,379 --> 00:52:07,931
if it is, in person.
715
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,655
He would
not propose to me tonight.
716
00:52:15,655 --> 00:52:19,000
I think, if anything,
he would wait to see, like,
717
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,344
how the next weeks go.
718
00:52:24,862 --> 00:52:27,586
Before I arrived,
like, I was so sure that
719
00:52:27,586 --> 00:52:30,862
everything was gonna
go great and perfect.
720
00:52:30,862 --> 00:52:34,896
And to get here and have
so many problems and concerns,
721
00:52:34,896 --> 00:52:36,862
I don't know,
it doesn't feel good at all.
722
00:52:44,655 --> 00:52:47,793
Yeah, I'm going to try.
723
00:52:47,793 --> 00:52:52,103
I feel like we don't know each
other as well as I thought,
724
00:52:52,103 --> 00:52:55,103
and think with any
new relationship,
725
00:52:55,103 --> 00:53:00,068
there are some things that
you don't fully let go of
726
00:53:00,068 --> 00:53:03,586
until you know 100%
that you can trust them,
727
00:53:03,586 --> 00:53:07,862
and it's still kind of
early for me to be
728
00:53:07,862 --> 00:53:11,172
completely vulnerable
with Razvan.
729
00:53:11,172 --> 00:53:14,758
I'm working on it,
but he has to show me
730
00:53:14,758 --> 00:53:16,448
that I can trust him.
731
00:53:21,068 --> 00:53:23,241
All right.
I love you. Have a good day.
732
00:54:53,379 --> 00:54:54,758
I love David.
733
00:54:54,758 --> 00:54:58,172
We are planning
to having a family,
734
00:54:58,172 --> 00:55:01,965
so I am not
looking for his money.
735
00:55:01,965 --> 00:55:04,862
But I'm worried
he will think that
736
00:55:04,862 --> 00:55:07,000
my relationship with him
737
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:10,655
is because my house
is not good.
738
00:55:59,862 --> 00:56:01,068
Welcome to my house.
739
00:56:10,689 --> 00:56:11,827
Ah.
740
00:56:29,482 --> 00:56:30,448
...here.
741
00:56:42,103 --> 00:56:43,068
Okay.
742
00:57:21,172 --> 00:57:23,000
Mm.
743
00:57:25,586 --> 00:57:26,586
This is my mom.
744
00:57:35,689 --> 00:57:37,551
Um... nice meeting.
745
00:57:39,241 --> 00:57:40,655
Nice meeting you.
746
00:57:42,862 --> 00:57:44,000
Nice meeting you too.
747
00:58:27,862 --> 00:58:28,965
Oops.
748
00:59:02,379 --> 00:59:04,655
This'll be where
we'll be staying.
749
00:59:04,655 --> 00:59:06,379
Oh, the bedroom.
750
00:59:06,379 --> 00:59:08,137
Certain rooms are a bit small.
751
00:59:09,275 --> 00:59:11,172
That's just
like a toilet room.
752
00:59:11,172 --> 00:59:13,137
Can I use the toilet?
This toilet?
753
00:59:18,482 --> 00:59:19,655
I don't think I could
live here long-term.
754
00:59:32,448 --> 00:59:34,000
Speak to me, darling.
755
00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:35,862
- Darling.
- Darling.
756
00:59:48,344 --> 00:59:51,620
Are you ready to, like,
get the wood in the fire?
757
00:59:51,620 --> 00:59:53,517
Ready to get
the wood in the fire?
758
00:59:53,517 --> 00:59:55,137
For sure, I'd do that again.
759
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:58,344
- Are you nervous?
- Yeah.
760
00:59:59,172 --> 01:00:02,413
A bit nervous, but, yeah,
I'm excited to,
761
01:00:03,137 --> 01:00:05,344
to see it all,
see how you live.
762
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:08,275
I think things
are going really well,
763
01:00:08,275 --> 01:00:10,137
between the two of us so far.
764
01:00:10,137 --> 01:00:13,793
And, I'm looking forward
to spending quality time,
765
01:00:13,793 --> 01:00:15,034
just me and Statler.
766
01:00:24,172 --> 01:00:27,448
From Manchester, the car ride
to the farm is two hours.
767
01:00:27,448 --> 01:00:30,034
It's out of the city,
it's quiet.
768
01:00:30,034 --> 01:00:32,344
In the morning, you can
hear the birds chirping.
769
01:00:33,793 --> 01:00:36,344
But, because I went
to Thailand for five weeks,
770
01:00:36,344 --> 01:00:38,103
my place hasn't been cleaned,
771
01:00:42,896 --> 01:00:45,896
And this is the first
time anybody's stayed
in my caravan,
772
01:00:45,896 --> 01:00:47,551
so I'm feeling
really nervous
773
01:00:47,551 --> 01:00:48,793
for Statler to come back
774
01:00:48,793 --> 01:00:51,896
and not knowing
what the vibe is.
775
01:00:51,896 --> 01:00:54,551
You think I'm gonna
get to meet your friends?
776
01:00:54,551 --> 01:00:56,344
Yeah, I think so.
777
01:00:56,344 --> 01:00:57,241
Think so?
778
01:00:57,241 --> 01:00:59,896
- Yeah, I think so.
- Okay. Nice. Good.
779
01:00:59,896 --> 01:01:01,862
And, uh, what about your dad?
780
01:01:02,896 --> 01:01:04,517
He's your best friend,
you know?
781
01:01:04,517 --> 01:01:08,793
You've worked him up to be
this great, big person
in your life and...
782
01:01:08,793 --> 01:01:11,793
- Um...
- Just 'cause
783
01:01:11,793 --> 01:01:14,517
I like you a lot
and I'm serious
784
01:01:15,172 --> 01:01:16,586
- about us.
- Yeah, I guess.
785
01:01:17,724 --> 01:01:18,896
You guess?
786
01:01:18,896 --> 01:01:21,793
That makes me think
you're less serious now.
787
01:01:21,793 --> 01:01:25,862
He knows that we're, like,
speaking, but he
doesn't know, like...
788
01:01:27,068 --> 01:01:28,344
- It's serious.
- ...who you are.
789
01:01:30,344 --> 01:01:33,689
I'm really confused why
she hasn't told her dad.
790
01:01:33,689 --> 01:01:35,862
Just because this
is her best friend,
791
01:01:36,793 --> 01:01:39,551
and yet, here you spent
a lot of time in Thailand
792
01:01:39,551 --> 01:01:42,896
together with just him.
Like, I should be a hot topic.
793
01:01:42,896 --> 01:01:45,517
So, it's
kind of concerning. It's like,
794
01:01:45,517 --> 01:01:49,551
am I really your biggest
priority as you're
telling me I am? Or
795
01:01:49,551 --> 01:01:50,965
who am I to you?
796
01:01:53,241 --> 01:01:58,344
Has your dad liked your,
like, previous girlfriends?
797
01:01:58,344 --> 01:02:02,034
Um, my first one, no,
my second, yes, and then, no.
798
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:06,310
I didn't
tell my dad about
799
01:02:06,310 --> 01:02:08,310
me and Statler
being in a relationship,
800
01:02:08,310 --> 01:02:10,034
'cause my dad
is superprotective.
801
01:02:11,551 --> 01:02:13,620
My dad has seen me through
bad relationships.
802
01:02:13,620 --> 01:02:15,344
He's seen me at my lowest.
803
01:02:15,344 --> 01:02:18,517
I still feel that I need
to get to know
804
01:02:18,517 --> 01:02:21,310
Statler a little bit more
in person
805
01:02:21,310 --> 01:02:23,965
before I introduce
her to my dad.
806
01:02:29,551 --> 01:02:31,000
Finally here.
807
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:32,310
Oh, my God,
808
01:02:38,793 --> 01:02:40,000
was that?
809
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:41,448
You have animals out here?
810
01:02:41,448 --> 01:02:42,413
Animals?
811
01:02:42,413 --> 01:02:44,241
Like,
coyotes or wolves?
812
01:02:44,620 --> 01:02:46,000
No.
813
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:49,310
- You don't have any, like,
wild animals here?
- No.
814
01:02:52,448 --> 01:02:54,137
I need to go back to the gym.
815
01:02:57,620 --> 01:02:58,689
Yes.
816
01:02:59,068 --> 01:03:00,241
Okay, thank you.
817
01:03:03,344 --> 01:03:04,379
Wow.
818
01:03:06,551 --> 01:03:07,862
This is very nice.
819
01:03:09,068 --> 01:03:12,448
I feel like I've
entered this cute world.
820
01:03:12,448 --> 01:03:14,275
- You did all
this yourself.
- Yes.
821
01:03:14,275 --> 01:03:16,551
That's insane.
Almost finished.
822
01:03:16,551 --> 01:03:18,103
If you want to
come down here...
823
01:03:18,448 --> 01:03:19,413
Yeah.
824
01:03:20,068 --> 01:03:21,620
This is my spare room.
825
01:03:21,620 --> 01:03:23,724
I started to decorate before
I went to Thailand,
826
01:03:23,724 --> 01:03:25,172
but I haven't finished it yet.
827
01:03:25,172 --> 01:03:27,517
- It's very nice.
It's very nice.
- But it's getting there.
828
01:03:28,551 --> 01:03:30,724
This will be...
829
01:03:30,724 --> 01:03:32,275
where we'll be staying.
830
01:03:32,275 --> 01:03:35,793
- Oh, the bedroom.
- Sorry, the bed
is not made up.
831
01:03:35,793 --> 01:03:37,620
I'm actually very
impressed with the caravan.
832
01:03:37,620 --> 01:03:40,000
It's more modern
than I thought it would be.
833
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:42,172
But certain rooms
are a bit small
834
01:03:42,172 --> 01:03:45,172
for two people
to kind of navigate.
835
01:03:45,172 --> 01:03:47,000
Dempsey doesn't know
that I left America
836
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,896
with the intention that,
if things went well
between us,
837
01:03:49,896 --> 01:03:51,724
that I would be moving
to England,
838
01:03:51,724 --> 01:03:54,448
but I don't think I could
live here long-term.
839
01:03:54,448 --> 01:03:56,620
Things are a little,
a little tight.
840
01:03:58,068 --> 01:04:00,793
And... that's
just like a toilet room.
841
01:04:00,793 --> 01:04:02,241
A toilet room. Okay, cool.
- Yeah.
842
01:04:02,241 --> 01:04:03,620
Could I use the toilet?
This toilet?
843
01:04:03,620 --> 01:04:07,448
You can, like, go for
number one on the toilet,
844
01:04:07,448 --> 01:04:10,172
but, like, just across
where I work,
845
01:04:10,172 --> 01:04:11,413
you'll just walk over there.
846
01:04:11,620 --> 01:04:12,689
Okay, so...
847
01:04:17,034 --> 01:04:19,793
I do have
irritable bowels.
848
01:04:20,620 --> 01:04:23,724
And knowing that the bathroom
is a ways off
849
01:04:23,724 --> 01:04:25,172
kinda freaks me out.
850
01:04:25,172 --> 01:04:27,896
I mean, it's okay
for the time being,
851
01:04:27,896 --> 01:04:29,517
but it's definitely not ideal.
852
01:04:30,413 --> 01:04:31,724
You want to sit down?
853
01:04:31,724 --> 01:04:33,344
- Of course,
I want to sit down.
- This'll be like the first...
854
01:04:33,344 --> 01:04:36,724
- This is like the famous
couch you always sat on.
- Yeah, it is.
855
01:04:36,724 --> 01:04:39,034
That's cool.
It's all very cute.
856
01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:45,241
Oh, nice.
857
01:04:48,620 --> 01:04:51,620
A real country winter.
This is like, a movie.
858
01:04:51,896 --> 01:04:53,000
Are you hungry?
859
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:56,137
- I've got no food in at all.
- No food?
860
01:04:56,137 --> 01:04:58,793
Well, I have a banana,
I think that I packed.
861
01:04:58,793 --> 01:05:01,620
And we have the chocolate
from... that you got me.
862
01:05:01,620 --> 01:05:03,068
Do you wanna eat some?
863
01:05:03,068 --> 01:05:04,586
Let me get
the chocolate really quick.
864
01:05:06,172 --> 01:05:08,896
This is definitely gonna take
some time to get used to,
865
01:05:08,896 --> 01:05:11,689
and I'm going to be out
of my comfort zone,
866
01:05:11,689 --> 01:05:15,000
but even though there's
a level of awkwardness,
867
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:17,000
Dempsey could be
the love of my life.
868
01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:18,344
- Oh, wow.
- Mmm.
869
01:05:18,344 --> 01:05:19,551
These are actually...
870
01:05:19,551 --> 01:05:21,137
- They're good.
- Really good. Yeah.
871
01:05:22,137 --> 01:05:23,448
I know it's really fast,
872
01:05:23,448 --> 01:05:28,068
but being here with Dempsey
in person just feels right.
873
01:05:28,068 --> 01:05:30,793
I'm ready to start the rest
of my life with Dempsey.
874
01:05:30,793 --> 01:05:34,172
I'm just hoping she's
as into me as I am into her.
875
01:05:35,724 --> 01:05:38,482
I am just so
turned on, honestly,
876
01:05:39,068 --> 01:05:39,931
by this.
877
01:05:39,931 --> 01:05:41,413
- You're something else.
- Just a little.
878
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:42,965
Mmm.
879
01:07:26,068 --> 01:07:27,103
Oh.
880
01:07:31,517 --> 01:07:33,137
Okay. Ah, okay.
881
01:07:54,206 --> 01:07:55,310
Yeah.
882
01:08:26,793 --> 01:08:28,793
Hello.
883
01:08:34,344 --> 01:08:36,000
Nice to meeting you.
884
01:11:02,068 --> 01:11:03,586
Thank you
for coming here.
885
01:12:33,310 --> 01:12:35,379
One thing is to disagree...
886
01:12:37,965 --> 01:12:39,586
We don't know how to argue.
887
01:12:39,586 --> 01:12:42,413
Somebody has to
put the fire down.
888
01:12:42,413 --> 01:12:43,965
Well, it's not easy.
889
01:12:44,689 --> 01:12:45,241
Do you want
this to work, Gino?
890
01:13:06,068 --> 01:13:07,137
And...
891
01:13:07,137 --> 01:13:09,344
These are
the kind of comments...
892
01:13:09,344 --> 01:13:10,965
- Because
I'm being honest.
- ...where I really don't
893
01:13:10,965 --> 01:13:13,310
have any desire
to be with her.
894
01:13:13,310 --> 01:13:14,482
I'm gonna stop you.
895
01:13:15,413 --> 01:13:18,241
I think
there are many things
896
01:13:18,241 --> 01:13:20,172
that are going on
at the same time.
897
01:13:21,206 --> 01:13:23,413
So, I know it's very hard.
898
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:25,965
One thing is to disagree.
899
01:13:25,965 --> 01:13:28,517
Another thing is to insult
900
01:13:28,517 --> 01:13:29,620
- and say things
that you cannot--
- Yeah.
901
01:13:29,620 --> 01:13:31,586
We don't know how to argue.
902
01:13:31,586 --> 01:13:33,344
So for that, like, Jasmine,
903
01:13:33,344 --> 01:13:35,137
you would probably
need to go out,
904
01:13:35,137 --> 01:13:37,724
write it down
before you come to Gino,
905
01:13:37,724 --> 01:13:40,793
because it's going to come out
the worst it can.
906
01:13:40,793 --> 01:13:44,344
And another thing
you need to work on is...
907
01:13:46,344 --> 01:13:49,344
A couple cannot move further
908
01:13:49,344 --> 01:13:51,103
where there's revenge
909
01:13:51,103 --> 01:13:52,965
because that builds
910
01:13:52,965 --> 01:13:54,896
bad feelings, you know.
911
01:13:54,896 --> 01:13:56,000
Mmm-hmm.
912
01:13:56,344 --> 01:13:58,137
Gino,
913
01:13:58,137 --> 01:14:00,344
this is something, like,
I always tell couples.
914
01:14:00,344 --> 01:14:02,103
I tell them...
915
01:14:02,103 --> 01:14:06,517
It's easiest to work on
what you can do yourself
916
01:14:06,517 --> 01:14:09,000
and not what you want
the other person to do.
917
01:14:10,000 --> 01:14:11,620
So you're not the one
with the...
918
01:14:11,620 --> 01:14:14,965
- with the, uh,
um, anger issues...
- Right.
919
01:14:14,965 --> 01:14:16,724
...she's the one,
so, what can you do
920
01:14:16,724 --> 01:14:19,586
so that it doesn't
blow out of proportion?
921
01:14:19,586 --> 01:14:21,862
You know what I'm saying?
Like, if she starts,
922
01:14:21,862 --> 01:14:24,413
somebody has to
put the fire down.
923
01:14:25,620 --> 01:14:27,344
- Can you do that?
- Uh, I can
924
01:14:27,344 --> 01:14:29,724
try to be more calm
925
01:14:29,724 --> 01:14:32,793
instead of, you know,
putting more fuel in the fire.
926
01:14:32,793 --> 01:14:34,724
- Um, it's...
- Do you...
do you take--
927
01:14:34,724 --> 01:14:36,620
- ...not easy.
- It isn't.
928
01:14:36,620 --> 01:14:39,137
- But it's something
I can try to work on.
- Sure.
929
01:14:39,137 --> 01:14:40,724
Let's just reverse this.
930
01:14:40,724 --> 01:14:45,344
Jasmine, sometimes when we
want a relationship to work,
931
01:14:45,344 --> 01:14:47,655
there are some sacrifices
that we need to do.
932
01:14:49,103 --> 01:14:51,517
This boyfriend from before,
933
01:14:51,517 --> 01:14:54,620
what are you willing to do
or compromise
934
01:14:54,620 --> 01:14:57,137
- on your part,
now that you know...
- Mmm-hmm.
935
01:14:57,137 --> 01:14:59,931
...that he gets hurt?
936
01:15:02,241 --> 01:15:04,862
If you
want me to...
937
01:15:07,517 --> 01:15:10,310
But if you don't want me
to ever talk to him again...
938
01:15:10,896 --> 01:15:12,034
Fine.
939
01:15:13,034 --> 01:15:15,068
I would also like to add,
940
01:15:15,068 --> 01:15:17,896
you know, no one matters to me
like you do.
941
01:15:17,896 --> 01:15:20,689
Otherwise, I wouldn't be here
asking for therapy.
942
01:15:20,689 --> 01:15:23,862
I would just pretend
that everything is fine.
943
01:15:23,862 --> 01:15:26,517
The reason why I'm here,
because this relationship
944
01:15:26,517 --> 01:15:28,206
that we have is genuine.
945
01:15:29,206 --> 01:15:30,655
I'm here for love.
946
01:15:35,103 --> 01:15:36,862
What you're saying,
947
01:15:36,862 --> 01:15:39,241
can you see how
948
01:15:39,241 --> 01:15:42,896
all of this, that even though
you have these issues,
949
01:15:42,896 --> 01:15:44,586
you want this to work.
950
01:15:45,137 --> 01:15:46,793
That's the first step.
951
01:15:47,793 --> 01:15:50,103
Because that's the floor
952
01:15:50,103 --> 01:15:51,965
where you can stand up.
953
01:15:54,482 --> 01:15:57,896
And I wanna leave you
with one idea, which is,
954
01:15:57,896 --> 01:16:00,620
don't talk about this
all the time.
955
01:16:00,620 --> 01:16:03,206
- Yeah.
- Enjoy. You're together.
Go out.
956
01:16:03,206 --> 01:16:06,965
Try those romantic walks
or romantic getaway.
957
01:16:07,413 --> 01:16:10,103
And build the good memories,
958
01:16:10,103 --> 01:16:13,241
so that when you have
the disagreements
959
01:16:13,241 --> 01:16:15,793
you will be able
to tolerate them better.
960
01:16:17,793 --> 01:16:19,413
Do you want
this to work, Gino?
961
01:16:19,965 --> 01:16:21,862
Yes, and I love
962
01:16:22,310 --> 01:16:23,689
Jasmine very much.
963
01:16:25,000 --> 01:16:27,000
I'm gonna definitely try
my hardest
964
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:28,896
on my side to make it work.
965
01:16:28,896 --> 01:16:31,793
Um, and I'm just hoping
Jasmine does the same.
966
01:16:32,482 --> 01:16:34,000
That's a good start.
967
01:16:35,862 --> 01:16:40,103
I do appreciate
Jasmine acknowledging
her anger problems.
968
01:16:40,103 --> 01:16:44,103
And also being willing
to give up her relationship
with her ex.
969
01:16:44,103 --> 01:16:48,689
But now, what really matters
is what your actions are
after this meeting.
970
01:16:48,689 --> 01:16:50,793
Is she really gonna...
971
01:16:50,793 --> 01:16:53,482
fix what she's saying
she's gonna fix or work on?
972
01:16:54,137 --> 01:16:57,862
Just take it
one thing at a time.
973
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:06,965
Can you imagine
what it would be like
to live my whole life
974
01:17:06,965 --> 01:17:10,034
with someone feeling like
they don't really care?
975
01:17:15,862 --> 01:17:17,413
Anyone can be
my [bleep] tour guide.
976
01:17:43,448 --> 01:17:44,758
Yeah.
977
01:17:44,758 --> 01:17:46,275
I mean--
978
01:17:48,206 --> 01:17:50,379
Yeah, I am a little bit,
I guess.
979
01:17:50,862 --> 01:17:53,379
A little tired. But...
980
01:17:53,379 --> 01:17:55,862
I have to get out
of these nasty clothes...
981
01:17:55,862 --> 01:17:58,172
...and then,
are you just gonna...
982
01:17:58,931 --> 01:18:00,862
- chill?
- Yeah.
983
01:18:00,862 --> 01:18:02,827
Do you wanna change, stinky?
984
01:18:02,827 --> 01:18:04,379
- Soon.
- Okay.
985
01:18:04,379 --> 01:18:06,172
Okay, good.
986
01:18:08,689 --> 01:18:11,827
I was really hoping that,
in front of Wasim
and Wasim's wife,
987
01:18:11,827 --> 01:18:14,310
that Nicola
would be affectionate
988
01:18:14,310 --> 01:18:17,206
and excited
about our relationship and,
989
01:18:17,206 --> 01:18:18,827
"Meisha's finally here."
990
01:18:19,586 --> 01:18:23,482
But, instead,
I felt embarrassed.
991
01:18:23,482 --> 01:18:25,206
It's not at all
what I thought it would be
992
01:18:25,206 --> 01:18:27,655
and it makes me think
about our whole relationship.
993
01:18:28,965 --> 01:18:32,655
Meisha,
Meisha, Meisha.
994
01:18:33,275 --> 01:18:35,068
So, how was your
day today, Meisha?
995
01:18:36,482 --> 01:18:37,965
Um,
996
01:18:37,965 --> 01:18:40,310
like, today,
one of the things that
997
01:18:40,310 --> 01:18:42,068
I sometimes notice
998
01:18:42,068 --> 01:18:45,655
and get a little
heavyhearted about is that
999
01:18:45,655 --> 01:18:48,068
you just aren't experienced
1000
01:18:48,068 --> 01:18:50,103
with having a woman
around you all the time.
1001
01:18:50,103 --> 01:18:52,931
Like, me saying to you
a lot like,
1002
01:18:52,931 --> 01:18:54,379
"Are you
listening to me, Nicola?"
1003
01:18:54,379 --> 01:18:56,275
Like, "Did you just hear
what I said?"
1004
01:18:56,275 --> 01:18:58,862
And often
the response to that is,
1005
01:18:58,862 --> 01:19:01,310
"I didn't."
1006
01:19:01,310 --> 01:19:06,000
I want to feel
like Nicola is proud...
1007
01:19:08,689 --> 01:19:11,448
happy I'm here and cares
1008
01:19:12,206 --> 01:19:14,000
- that I'm here.
- Mmm-hmm.
1009
01:19:14,931 --> 01:19:16,000
I do.
1010
01:19:23,103 --> 01:19:25,586
Because after this long...
1011
01:19:25,586 --> 01:19:28,103
- Oh, my God, Meisha,
why're you crying now?
- Listen.
1012
01:19:28,103 --> 01:19:30,000
Just let me be me.
1013
01:19:35,482 --> 01:19:37,965
If someone feels bad
about something, Nicola,
1014
01:19:37,965 --> 01:19:41,965
is it better
that you wrap your arms
around that person and...
1015
01:19:41,965 --> 01:19:43,310
No, no, no, no.
Don't do... 'cause I...
1016
01:19:43,310 --> 01:19:44,827
- Okay. Okay.
- Stop, stop,
stop, stop.
1017
01:19:45,068 --> 01:19:47,068
No, don't.
1018
01:19:47,068 --> 01:19:51,068
You, Nicola,
have to start acting
from your heart.
1019
01:19:51,068 --> 01:19:53,482
Not... I can't mechanically
tell you all the time
1020
01:19:53,482 --> 01:19:54,965
how to treat me.
1021
01:19:54,965 --> 01:19:58,034
Because, can you imagine
what it would be like for me
1022
01:19:58,034 --> 01:19:59,862
to live my whole life
with someone
1023
01:19:59,862 --> 01:20:02,275
feeling like
they don't really care?
1024
01:20:05,551 --> 01:20:07,965
- Can you imagine?
- But I do care a lot
about you, Meisha.
1025
01:20:07,965 --> 01:20:09,206
- But I have to--
- Why you say I don't care?
1026
01:20:09,206 --> 01:20:11,931
- But I have to
feel that, Nicola.
- What... what...
1027
01:20:20,103 --> 01:20:23,965
Took me? I'm not talking about
the places you drive me.
1028
01:20:23,965 --> 01:20:26,103
Anyone can be
my [bleep] tour guide.
1029
01:20:33,034 --> 01:20:34,206
Nicola...
1030
01:20:34,206 --> 01:20:36,655
...did you hear
what I just said?
1031
01:20:38,689 --> 01:20:41,862
Meisha thinks
she is the victim.
1032
01:20:41,862 --> 01:20:45,379
I don't think she cry
for good reason.
1033
01:20:45,379 --> 01:20:47,482
What I done to her
that she cry?
1034
01:20:47,482 --> 01:20:50,172
She thinks,
"Nicola is always
need to change.
1035
01:20:50,172 --> 01:20:52,103
And everything is good
with me.
1036
01:20:52,103 --> 01:20:54,689
'Cause I am Meisha,
I have experience,
1037
01:20:54,689 --> 01:20:56,137
I know what is good.
And, Nicola...
1038
01:21:01,965 --> 01:21:05,103
You think the problem
is only from my side.
1039
01:21:05,103 --> 01:21:07,206
But I see also
problem from your side.
1040
01:21:07,206 --> 01:21:08,758
But, guess what?
1041
01:21:08,758 --> 01:21:10,689
I become quiet.
1042
01:21:10,689 --> 01:21:12,758
Because I want
this relationship to work.
1043
01:21:12,758 --> 01:21:15,965
I'm not like you,
always attacking this,
this, this, this, this.
1044
01:21:15,965 --> 01:21:18,965
I become humble and absorb.
1045
01:21:18,965 --> 01:21:21,310
Like Jesus Christ
on the cross.
1046
01:21:21,310 --> 01:21:24,689
He absorb the persecution,
1047
01:21:24,689 --> 01:21:26,103
the humility.
1048
01:21:26,103 --> 01:21:28,379
You know how many things
I can tell you, Meisha,
that I don't like?
1049
01:21:41,275 --> 01:21:44,482
I'm telling you
how I feel about something.
1050
01:21:44,482 --> 01:21:46,931
Me, too. I told you how I feel
about something, too.
1051
01:21:46,931 --> 01:21:48,965
I never said one thing
1052
01:21:48,965 --> 01:21:50,586
to attack your character.
Not one.
1053
01:21:50,586 --> 01:21:52,551
Not a single thing.
1054
01:21:52,551 --> 01:21:54,931
If every time I share
how my heart feels,
1055
01:21:54,931 --> 01:21:58,379
you go, "Oh, you better not
tell me how you feel
or you're gonna be selfish,
1056
01:21:58,379 --> 01:22:00,310
and I'm gonna tell you
that you're blaming me,"
1057
01:22:00,310 --> 01:22:02,758
that means I can never ever
1058
01:22:02,758 --> 01:22:04,689
ever tell you how I feel.
1059
01:22:04,689 --> 01:22:07,482
Do you know
that no relationship
in the history of ever
1060
01:22:07,482 --> 01:22:10,172
would ever work
with people not being able
to constantly,
1061
01:22:10,172 --> 01:22:11,724
through life,
tell each other how they feel?
1062
01:22:22,931 --> 01:22:24,000
Go.
1063
01:22:31,482 --> 01:22:34,068
It's weird
to me that a very
simple conversation
1064
01:22:34,068 --> 01:22:37,965
about how someone's feeling
could be blown up to, like,
1065
01:22:37,965 --> 01:22:39,689
"You're so emotional,
you're so sensitive."
1066
01:22:39,689 --> 01:22:42,103
It's just...
It just rattles my brain
1067
01:22:42,103 --> 01:22:43,965
because I can't...
1068
01:22:43,965 --> 01:22:47,000
I cannot, for the life of me,
make sense of that.
1069
01:22:59,758 --> 01:23:01,827
I think when you spend
1070
01:23:02,482 --> 01:23:06,655
so many years
invested with somebody
1071
01:23:06,655 --> 01:23:08,448
that you love
and you care about
1072
01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:12,689
and you really,
truly believe
1073
01:23:12,689 --> 01:23:14,758
that it is a certain way.
1074
01:23:16,827 --> 01:23:19,586
And then, all of a sudden
you start to go,
1075
01:23:19,586 --> 01:23:23,172
"I don't think
this was anything
like what I thought it was."
1076
01:23:23,965 --> 01:23:26,310
This is a personality type.
1077
01:23:26,310 --> 01:23:29,448
This is how
a brain is hardwired
1078
01:23:30,310 --> 01:23:32,482
and that's tragic to me.
1079
01:23:32,482 --> 01:23:34,103
If this is
the way that it goes,
1080
01:23:34,103 --> 01:23:36,482
how could I
have been so wrong?
1081
01:23:36,482 --> 01:23:39,172
How could I
have been so off-base?
1082
01:23:47,172 --> 01:23:50,172
Next time on
Before the 90 Days...
1083
01:23:50,172 --> 01:23:52,206
I mean,
this is probably,
like, the point in the evening
1084
01:23:52,206 --> 01:23:54,310
- where, you know, you put on
the baby making playlist.
- Yeah.
1085
01:23:54,310 --> 01:23:56,931
- "Baby making"?
- Yeah, you know...
1086
01:23:56,931 --> 01:24:00,172
Not sure that
that's gonna work with me.
1087
01:24:00,172 --> 01:24:01,689
There are times
where I feel
1088
01:24:01,689 --> 01:24:03,379
like, you know, things are
a little bit more awkward
1089
01:24:03,379 --> 01:24:06,000
because I've never been
with a trans woman before.
1090
01:24:06,000 --> 01:24:08,758
Are we gonna be
compatible intimately?
1091
01:24:08,758 --> 01:24:09,896
I mean, I think...
1092
01:24:15,758 --> 01:24:17,379
Is this fun or what?
1093
01:24:17,379 --> 01:24:19,379
I got you in good hands.
1094
01:24:19,379 --> 01:24:21,172
After the session
with our therapist,
1095
01:24:21,172 --> 01:24:23,310
Jasmine and I
need to focus on
1096
01:24:23,310 --> 01:24:25,379
creating good memories together
1097
01:24:25,379 --> 01:24:27,586
and improve
our relationship overall.
1098
01:24:27,586 --> 01:24:28,758
You never had
1099
01:24:28,758 --> 01:24:30,103
good physical condition
1100
01:24:30,103 --> 01:24:32,827
- for sex.
- Yes, I do.
And you always orgasm.
1101
01:24:37,103 --> 01:24:40,586
Our communication was
not so good in Thailand.
1102
01:24:40,586 --> 01:24:43,758
There is unresolved stuff
between us.
1103
01:24:43,758 --> 01:24:47,551
I thought you were meeting
other people, cheating.
1104
01:24:50,689 --> 01:24:52,379
I...
1105
01:24:56,827 --> 01:24:58,379
No. I blocked her.