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Previously on
Before The 90 Days...
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I feel like
I've entered this cute world.
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You did all of this yourself.
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Yeah, plus, like, a...
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Can I use the toilet?
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This is definitely gonna
take some time to get used to.
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I have irritable bowels.
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But being here with Dempsey
in person just feels right.
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Mm.
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Build the good memories
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so that when you have disagreements,
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you will tolerate them better.
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What really matters
is what your actions are
after this meeting.
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Is she really gonna fix
what she's saying
she's gonna fix?
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Somebody has to
put the fire down.
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She needs to work that
stuff out first before...
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Excuse me. Are you guys like
celebrating something tonight?
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Your birthday?
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In past relationships,
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my girlfriends have
understood that I'm just
like a friendly guy,
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If this is how
every single day
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is to go, I'm just worrying
whether we are compatible.
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She's just
squirming around,
looking nervous.
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I don't understand this.
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This is a major
red flag for me.
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You know what?
You don't wanna...
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I went back to see if
you were on the app.
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You're not my boss.
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- Do not talk down to me.
- I don't talk with you.
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We stop now, okay?
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Okay, beat it. Bye.
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Bye! Bye!
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I'm done.
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So sorry for what happened.
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It's my responsibility to
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spend the night by
my mom's casket.
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Bye-bye.
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That really feels...
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Uh, David, he has to help me.
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And he respect me...
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that I want to be alone.
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- This mall is so big.
- Yes, it is.
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But I know where we're going.
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I'm very familiar
with this mall here.
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After the session
with our therapist yesterday,
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I'm feeling good.
I'm glad we went
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because I think it was
productive overall.
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- Smells good.
- Right?
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Of course I still have
concerns about
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the amount of arguing,
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but I think Jasmine and I
need to focus on
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creating good memories
together so we can
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improve our relationship,
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you know,
while I'm here in Panama.
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This is
where we're going.
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Today is my little sister's
Liz's 20th birthday.
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And since she has been
living with Gino and I
for these two weeks,
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that poor thing had been
dealing with all the crap
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that's going on
between Gino and I.
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So, Gino agreed on
getting her something special.
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I'm gonna take this one.
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It's very beautiful.
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Okay.
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Um...
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Okay.
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So, since I'm already here...
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You already have a ring.
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No, I lost it.
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I don't really believe that
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that she lost
the engagement ring.
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That's what I did.
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I accidentally lost it.
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That's a good question.
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Did you like the ring
that I bought you?
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It's meaningful,
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but it's not a ring
that I would ever
buy it for me.
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Or for any other person.
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He promised to
upgrade the ring.
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That never happened.
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So, even before
I lost the ring,
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sometimes I was wearing
the previous...
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That was nicer.
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That's... that's terrible,
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that you're wearing a ring
from your previous marriage,
I mean...
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But in my mind,
it's not like,
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"Oh, this represents me
being engaged to my ex."
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I'm even divorced.
I don't care about him.
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That's like me wearing like,
a necklace that my ex gave me
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- or something.
- What necklace?
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Wearing a necklace
that she gave me.
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How would you feel
if I did that?
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She gave you a necklace?
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No, I'm saying
how would you feel?
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- if I...
- Do you have a necklace?
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Stop comparing everything.
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I'm just asking
how you'd feel.
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You were being cheap
about replacing it.
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You were not giving me
a new one.
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So I found a solution.
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Oh, my God.
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Babe, you don't
need a ring now.
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What?
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I do need a ring because
I don't have a ring.
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It's Liz's birthday.
We should be focusing on that.
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I am. I already have a gift.
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What's the matter?
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What? I told you
I'd buy you a ring
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after visa approval
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And, uh, before our wedding,
not now.
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Do you know,
talking about wedding
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and all this K-1 process,
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don't use that as an excuse
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because we've been
waiting for 12 months.
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Like, why is it
taking forever?
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Okay.
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Immigration says
within 13 months.
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Eighty percent of cases
are resolved.
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We're not there
at 13 months yet.
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But I don't wanna
wait 13 months.
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I do believe that...
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No. No! I don't need a lawyer.
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Because I have waited a lot.
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We haven't hit the timing yet.
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- That's why.
- Forget about it.
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- Timing? 12 months
is more than enough.
- Tell you what.
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You give me the money
for the lawyer,
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- and I'll get one.
How does that sound?
- I knew that it was
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all about the money.
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- It is about the money.
- You don't want...
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I'm not gonna waste money.
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- Do you waste money?
- So am I a waste of money?
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It just frustrates me
that Jasmine
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even thinks I need
an immigration attorney.
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My ex-wife is from Brazil
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and I brought her here
to the US on a K-1 visa.
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I had no trouble doing it.
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So, I know
I can do this myself.
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Yeah, I feel like Jasmine's
kinda manipulating me
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by trying to convince me
to buy her a ring right now.
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And you know, it's...
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It's not what I came here for.
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What you should be doing
is spending money
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on a lawyer to get me
to the United States
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- as soon as possible.
- No.
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You do not tell me what to do.
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I'm the one that did
all the paperwork.
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I'm the one that took hours
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figuring out how to
fill everything out.
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I'm the one
that did everything.
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I know what's going on.
You're clueless.
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- Why you have to be--
- You have no clue
what's going on.
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Why you have to be
a jerk every time?
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You better change
your attitude because
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we're gonna have some
huge problems coming up.
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- But I have--
- Change your attitude.
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I have an attitude because--
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I'm not ready to buy it.
I'm not ready to buy
a ring today.
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You can buy it yourself.
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What a jerk.
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This is the
she pulls all the time.
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That's crazy.
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He knows that this K-1 visa
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topic is super sensitive
to me.
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Twelve months for me waiting
living in the limbo.
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And it's shatters my heart
to know
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that you know he's not
going to spend any money
that he has
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on something as important as
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paying for
an immigration lawyer,
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to try to accelerate
the process of me
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getting a K-1 visa,
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and finally being together.
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I'm sick and tired of
trying my best.
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And I am sick and tired
of that jerk.
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I feel like
I mean nothing to him.
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- Did you sleep well?
- Uh...
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Yeah.
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Not used to this kinda cold.
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Last night was freezing.
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Being cold is
my version of hell.
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I wanna take a shower,
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but I can't just, like,
hop in and shower.
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It doesn't have hot water.
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Gotta take a dump
at some point.
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What the hell?
Where am I supposed to go?
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I don't know.
I feel like I might be
in over my head here.
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Good morning.
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- You okay?
- Yeah.
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- Did you sleep?
- Well...
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Uh...
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I don't know.
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But you're stressed?
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I don't...
Maybe a little bit.
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What about?
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It's just very different.
Everything's very different.
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Not used to this kind of cold.
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It's my first morning
waking up at the farm.
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And Dempsey doesn't have
central heat.
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So, last night was freezing.
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It was really cold,
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and being cold is
my version of hell.
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So you don't like it?
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Oh, yeah, no, it's nice.
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It's good. It's good, yeah.
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Just uncomfortable
when you're out of
your comfort zone.
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I was so excited
to wake up this morning.
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And I was like,
"Oh, my God, like,
you're actually here."
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- Shall we get ready?
- Yeah.
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But it bothers me that
she saying that she's
uncomfortable.
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If she were to say
that she just needs
some time to, like,
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settle in 'cause
the surroundings are new,
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that's completely
different to saying
that you're uncomfortable.
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Like, what's making you
uncomfortable?
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Me, or...
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the space or what?
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Like, I wanted to
feel like, happy here.
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But, yeah, what am I
meant to do if she doesn't?
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Can't change anything.
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We use this like,
clear the energies
in the space.
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Sage in here.
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All around.
It doesn't smell the best.
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All good vibes.
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Good vibes.
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Whoo!
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- Let's go.
- Okay.
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Feel like that's
cleaning out something
in my lungs for sure.
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People would probably
describe me as
a bit hippified or...
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spiritual.
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I'm just like,
a holistic person.
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So, I protect my energy
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Every morning, I put like,
a protective bubble wrap
around me
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and a protective shield
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'cause I like to be positive.
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Feel like you're
saging me behind my back
when I'm not looking.
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Can you like, turn around?
I can sage...
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Excuse me.
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I think that needs
saging a lot, like...
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Okay. All right.
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That's been places.
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That's not offensive at all.
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You told me.
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Well, okay, I mean...
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I can do it again.
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I feel like you're really
wanting to do that a lot.
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Well, it's just that
the sage is calling it.
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- It's not me.
- The sage is calling it?
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The sage is sending--
Look how much it's smoking.
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Jesus!
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Being a slut is
not a bad thing, like...
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Well, the sage
says different.
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I'm not ashamed
or embarrassed of my history,
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my sexual history.
I'm kinda proud
of it, honestly.
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It's not that big of a deal.
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Uh, but apparently it is
for her, so.
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I know it's cold
and stuff in here
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00:20:38,965 --> 00:20:41,517
so I need to run
get some firewood
256
00:20:41,517 --> 00:20:43,517
- So I'm gonna get changed
- Yeah.
257
00:20:43,517 --> 00:20:45,275
...and let you settle in
258
00:20:45,275 --> 00:20:46,793
and I'm gonna get some wood
and come back.
259
00:20:47,620 --> 00:20:48,448
- Okay.
- Okay.
260
00:20:49,241 --> 00:20:50,758
- Yeah, I guess so.
- Yeah?
261
00:20:51,965 --> 00:20:53,689
I'll just
roam around, I guess.
262
00:21:00,689 --> 00:21:01,655
When you're
with somebody,
263
00:21:01,655 --> 00:21:03,034
you, like, think of the future
264
00:21:03,034 --> 00:21:04,620
and, you know,
what it can hold for you.
265
00:21:05,379 --> 00:21:07,206
So I'm worried that Statler
266
00:21:07,206 --> 00:21:08,758
might not get used
to farm life.
267
00:21:09,551 --> 00:21:11,413
But I really like it here.
268
00:21:13,068 --> 00:21:16,379
I love just being
in the middle of nowhere.
269
00:21:16,379 --> 00:21:18,206
It's just and easy...
easy life.
270
00:21:18,206 --> 00:21:19,689
Like, it's...
it's a slow life.
271
00:21:21,034 --> 00:21:22,862
I've always lived in caravans
272
00:21:22,862 --> 00:21:25,103
like, um, most of my life.
273
00:21:25,103 --> 00:21:27,103
My family,
we moved around a lot,
274
00:21:27,103 --> 00:21:28,275
part of
the travelling community
275
00:21:28,275 --> 00:21:30,724
that travels around
with fairground rides,
276
00:21:30,724 --> 00:21:32,758
what Americans call carnival.
277
00:21:33,793 --> 00:21:36,000
My family is part
of the Showmen's Guild.
278
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:37,724
My grandparents,
their grandparents,
279
00:21:37,724 --> 00:21:40,517
it run back for generations
and generations.
280
00:21:40,517 --> 00:21:42,172
So we go from place to place
281
00:21:42,172 --> 00:21:44,758
and we would
organize the carnivals
282
00:21:44,758 --> 00:21:46,793
with all our rides
and food stalls and...
283
00:21:46,793 --> 00:21:48,931
and then we would
pull everything down and then
284
00:22:00,413 --> 00:22:02,724
My parents
had three daughters.
285
00:22:02,724 --> 00:22:03,965
We were like best friends.
286
00:22:04,689 --> 00:22:08,310
Unfortunately, when I was 16,
287
00:22:08,793 --> 00:22:09,620
uh...
288
00:22:11,172 --> 00:22:12,344
my big sister died.
289
00:22:14,965 --> 00:22:18,137
And she was 19.
290
00:22:18,137 --> 00:22:20,137
She got carbon monoxide poison
in her sleep
291
00:22:20,137 --> 00:22:21,448
and never woke up.
292
00:22:21,793 --> 00:22:22,620
Uh...
293
00:22:28,793 --> 00:22:30,413
Yeah, so that
really affected me.
294
00:22:33,172 --> 00:22:34,931
I left home when I was 18.
295
00:22:35,931 --> 00:22:38,103
I just was so unhappy,
I couldn't...
296
00:22:38,103 --> 00:22:40,275
I just couldn't live
that life anymore
297
00:22:40,275 --> 00:22:41,758
without my sister being there.
298
00:22:41,758 --> 00:22:43,413
So I was just, like...
299
00:22:43,413 --> 00:22:45,137
staying on friend's couches,
300
00:22:45,137 --> 00:22:47,344
moved around a lot
from house to house.
301
00:22:47,344 --> 00:22:49,310
I was just so unsettled
within myself.
302
00:22:49,310 --> 00:22:51,586
I... No way... I just know
I was making me happy.
303
00:22:52,655 --> 00:22:55,344
But then I met my friend Ben
304
00:22:55,344 --> 00:22:56,931
on the farm in Darlington,
305
00:22:56,931 --> 00:22:59,517
told him my situation
and stuff like that
306
00:22:59,517 --> 00:23:02,689
and he said, "Do you wanna
just stay and have a job?"
307
00:23:02,689 --> 00:23:04,000
So I was like,
"Yeah, all right",
308
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,000
as I literally
have nothing to lose.
309
00:23:07,379 --> 00:23:10,000
I worked for the business
which is called Kip and Nook.
310
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,896
And it's, like,
shipping containers
311
00:23:11,896 --> 00:23:13,827
converted into living spaces
312
00:23:13,827 --> 00:23:15,724
and it's like
a staycation business
313
00:23:15,724 --> 00:23:17,068
what we would call in England.
314
00:23:20,379 --> 00:23:22,172
I think everything
that happens
315
00:23:22,172 --> 00:23:24,482
to everybody in their lives
happens for a reason.
316
00:23:24,482 --> 00:23:26,517
And you can either sit
and dwell on it
317
00:23:26,517 --> 00:23:29,689
or you can be positive
and take every opportunity
318
00:23:29,689 --> 00:23:31,793
and look at
the brighter side of it.
319
00:23:31,793 --> 00:23:33,206
That way your life
would be better.
320
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,758
Jeez, what the heck's
going on out there?
321
00:23:38,413 --> 00:23:39,241
Ugh.
322
00:23:40,793 --> 00:23:42,758
Doing some kind of
construction out there.
323
00:23:46,758 --> 00:23:48,310
Ugh. Yikes.
324
00:23:49,379 --> 00:23:51,344
Little louder, please.
325
00:23:51,344 --> 00:23:53,862
I feel like I was
pretty positive last night
326
00:23:53,862 --> 00:23:56,000
because I was just,
kind of, shell-shocked,
327
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,689
but now I'm like, settled in
and it's like,
328
00:23:58,689 --> 00:24:02,379
"Wait a second."
There's like less space,
you know, realizing.
329
00:24:02,379 --> 00:24:03,586
I wanna take a shower
330
00:24:03,586 --> 00:24:05,448
but I can't just, like,
hop into the shower.
331
00:24:05,448 --> 00:24:06,793
Doesn't have hot water.
332
00:24:06,793 --> 00:24:08,379
Gotta take a dump
at some point.
333
00:24:08,379 --> 00:24:09,793
Like, I'm hoping I don't have
to take one
334
00:24:09,793 --> 00:24:12,586
while she's gone
or she's gonna walk back
and see me
335
00:24:12,586 --> 00:24:14,206
squatted in a field, like...
336
00:24:15,448 --> 00:24:16,586
or with this guy watching.
337
00:24:16,586 --> 00:24:18,482
Like, what the hell.
Where am I supposed to go?
338
00:24:20,275 --> 00:24:22,413
Dempsey doesn't know
that I wanna move in with her.
339
00:24:22,413 --> 00:24:25,413
But I'm realizing
that I'm not comfortable here.
340
00:24:25,413 --> 00:24:27,758
I am freezing cold.
341
00:24:27,758 --> 00:24:30,482
I don't feel like there's
a lot of space for me.
342
00:24:31,620 --> 00:24:33,034
I'm out in the middle
of nowhere.
343
00:24:33,034 --> 00:24:36,413
So I'm not sure
about living in her caravan.
344
00:24:36,931 --> 00:24:38,586
And that scares me
345
00:24:38,586 --> 00:24:41,034
because I don't really have
another plan.
346
00:24:41,034 --> 00:24:42,793
My lease is about to end
347
00:24:42,793 --> 00:24:45,655
and, you know, I've got
all my eggs
in this one basket.
348
00:24:47,241 --> 00:24:48,517
Oh, boy.
349
00:24:48,517 --> 00:24:50,379
I don't know, I feel like
I might be
in over my head here.
350
00:24:57,586 --> 00:24:59,000
She sent me
a message last night.
351
00:25:00,344 --> 00:25:01,206
Then I blocked her.
352
00:25:03,413 --> 00:25:05,827
"You trampled and insult me.
353
00:25:05,827 --> 00:25:07,344
You don't deserve
to be a man."
354
00:25:07,724 --> 00:25:08,689
Wow. Okay.
355
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,620
I'm not sure
if this relationship
can be salvaged
356
00:25:12,620 --> 00:25:14,206
or if I even want it
to be salvaged
357
00:25:14,206 --> 00:25:15,379
or she wants it
to be salvaged.
358
00:25:40,620 --> 00:25:42,448
It was supposed to just be
a nice...
359
00:25:43,655 --> 00:25:45,068
evening together.
360
00:25:45,620 --> 00:25:47,482
A real date, you know?
361
00:25:47,482 --> 00:25:49,655
Just enjoying
each other's company...
362
00:25:50,689 --> 00:25:52,482
and it turned into...
363
00:25:52,482 --> 00:25:54,275
It turned into fireworks.
364
00:25:55,310 --> 00:25:57,000
Uh... I don't...
365
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:58,413
It wasn't supposed to be that.
366
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,827
From last night, it was not
supposed to be that.
367
00:26:04,896 --> 00:26:07,241
I've been in Vietnam
about a week now
368
00:26:07,241 --> 00:26:10,517
and last night Violet
and I had
369
00:26:10,517 --> 00:26:12,689
a big blowout
at the restaurant
370
00:26:14,172 --> 00:26:16,310
I really wish
things didn't get so heated
371
00:26:16,310 --> 00:26:17,241
but I felt insulted.
372
00:26:19,206 --> 00:26:21,517
I'm upset more at myself
373
00:26:22,551 --> 00:26:24,379
for letting me, myself
374
00:26:24,379 --> 00:26:27,206
get so angry,
uh, get so upset,
375
00:26:27,206 --> 00:26:30,000
that I'mma have an outburst
like that in public
376
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,206
in a foreign country.
377
00:26:31,931 --> 00:26:33,241
I regret that.
378
00:26:33,241 --> 00:26:35,551
But I don't regret
telling her...
379
00:26:35,551 --> 00:26:37,758
pretty much I'm not putting up
with the nonsense any more.
380
00:26:38,344 --> 00:26:39,758
So I blocked her.
381
00:26:39,758 --> 00:26:41,000
I really have nothing
to say to her.
382
00:27:30,482 --> 00:27:31,310
Okay.
383
00:29:35,379 --> 00:29:36,793
She sent me
a message last night.
384
00:29:38,103 --> 00:29:38,931
Then I blocked her.
385
00:29:39,620 --> 00:29:40,448
I didn't even read it...
386
00:29:41,206 --> 00:29:42,206
the message from last night.
387
00:29:43,068 --> 00:29:43,896
I should read it, huh?
388
00:29:45,793 --> 00:29:47,862
"You are supposed
to protect me.
389
00:29:47,862 --> 00:29:51,413
Over here you trampled
and insult me.
390
00:29:51,413 --> 00:29:53,241
You don't deserve
to be a man."
391
00:29:53,241 --> 00:29:54,517
Wow, okay.
392
00:29:54,517 --> 00:29:57,689
Um, "If you come to Vietnam
to meet my family,
393
00:29:57,689 --> 00:29:59,862
my family is allowed
to ask you
394
00:29:59,862 --> 00:30:01,448
and when I come
to your country
395
00:30:01,448 --> 00:30:04,172
you are allowed to ask me.
396
00:30:04,172 --> 00:30:05,931
You want to know me.
397
00:30:05,931 --> 00:30:11,172
You have an uneducated,
unscrupulous attitude.
398
00:30:11,172 --> 00:30:13,275
If you're like that,
you should go away."
399
00:30:15,448 --> 00:30:16,689
So that sounds like
I'm not allowed
400
00:30:16,689 --> 00:30:18,000
to ask any questions at all.
401
00:30:20,241 --> 00:30:21,689
It's her way.
402
00:30:21,689 --> 00:30:23,896
It's everything
what she wants.
403
00:30:23,896 --> 00:30:24,931
I not built that way.
404
00:30:27,137 --> 00:30:28,206
It's really disappointing
405
00:30:28,206 --> 00:30:30,068
because for the last two years,
406
00:30:30,068 --> 00:30:31,931
Violet and I have been talking
about being together
407
00:30:31,931 --> 00:30:33,758
and being a family.
408
00:30:33,758 --> 00:30:36,551
And I'm not sure
if this relationship
can be salvaged
409
00:30:36,551 --> 00:30:38,206
or if I even want it
to be salvaged
410
00:30:38,206 --> 00:30:39,379
or she wants it
to be salvaged.
411
00:31:05,793 --> 00:31:07,758
...but it won't be
because I reach out to her.
412
00:31:08,862 --> 00:31:10,620
She will have to make a effort
to meet with me.
413
00:31:11,793 --> 00:31:12,931
She will have to apologize.
414
00:31:12,931 --> 00:31:14,000
She will have
to do the talking.
415
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,310
She will have
to explain herself to me.
416
00:31:16,310 --> 00:31:17,689
I have nothing
to explain to her.
417
00:31:49,862 --> 00:31:51,344
Like, you know,
when we got there,
418
00:31:51,344 --> 00:31:52,344
we're having a good time,
419
00:31:52,344 --> 00:31:53,482
we're getting
to know each other.
420
00:31:53,482 --> 00:31:55,000
And I still think
we're on a...
421
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:56,827
Just seemed like you were
really overwhelmed.
422
00:31:58,034 --> 00:31:59,517
I already
had some worries
423
00:31:59,517 --> 00:32:01,586
about how he's gonna deal
with the fact
424
00:32:01,586 --> 00:32:03,931
that I'm trans, but now
I'm also having to worry
425
00:32:03,931 --> 00:32:07,034
about how being on a spectrum
affects our relationship.
426
00:32:07,034 --> 00:32:09,000
And I feel like
everywhere that we go
427
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,172
this is gonna be, like,
a common occurrence.
428
00:32:12,862 --> 00:32:15,241
Don't worry.
I've got you in good hands.
429
00:32:15,241 --> 00:32:16,310
There
are cars coming.
430
00:32:18,206 --> 00:32:20,379
Our fighting
back and forth
431
00:32:20,379 --> 00:32:23,310
should not affect
Liz's birthday.
432
00:32:23,310 --> 00:32:24,586
Ah!
433
00:32:24,586 --> 00:32:26,758
Let's go!
434
00:32:26,758 --> 00:32:28,931
I hope that Jasmine
can see that too.
435
00:32:49,413 --> 00:32:51,379
So where are we going now?
436
00:32:53,448 --> 00:32:55,275
- Do they, like, sell, uh,
like, mushrooms or something?
- No.
437
00:32:57,827 --> 00:32:59,103
It's been two days
438
00:32:59,103 --> 00:33:01,310
since Christian
arrived in London
439
00:33:01,310 --> 00:33:03,000
and so far things have been
440
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,931
both good and bad.
441
00:33:04,931 --> 00:33:06,172
Have you ever
been shopping here before?
442
00:33:06,172 --> 00:33:07,103
Yeah, definitely.
443
00:33:07,103 --> 00:33:08,827
- I come here quite often.
- Right on.
444
00:33:08,827 --> 00:33:10,551
I hope we cam
kinda find us a little extra
445
00:33:10,551 --> 00:33:11,379
- or something like that.
- Yeah.
446
00:33:12,379 --> 00:33:14,137
Last night
we had our first date.
447
00:33:14,896 --> 00:33:16,931
It didn't necessarily go well.
448
00:33:16,931 --> 00:33:19,793
When we got home,
I literally passed out.
449
00:33:19,793 --> 00:33:21,103
There was not any...
450
00:33:22,137 --> 00:33:24,034
of... you know, intimacy.
451
00:33:24,034 --> 00:33:25,034
Is there anything
that you like?
452
00:33:25,034 --> 00:33:25,896
I'm trying
to see, like,
453
00:33:28,655 --> 00:33:29,482
Sure.
454
00:33:30,586 --> 00:33:33,931
I'm feeling
disappointed that right now
455
00:33:33,931 --> 00:33:35,551
I'm just hoping
that we can leave
456
00:33:35,551 --> 00:33:38,103
yesterday's date behind us
457
00:33:38,103 --> 00:33:39,620
and have
a cute morning together
458
00:33:39,620 --> 00:33:41,655
exploring one of my
favorite places in London.
459
00:33:45,896 --> 00:33:47,551
Oh, crystals.
I love me some crystals.
460
00:33:50,034 --> 00:33:51,344
Oh my God, I've been wanting
one of this
461
00:33:51,344 --> 00:33:53,034
for the longest time.
462
00:33:53,034 --> 00:33:54,793
Yeah? Right now
it probably looks like
you're showing...
463
00:33:54,793 --> 00:33:56,034
You're... you're honed
right in on that.
464
00:33:56,310 --> 00:33:57,137
Yes.
465
00:33:59,586 --> 00:34:00,896
Sure, yeah.
She went right there.
466
00:34:00,896 --> 00:34:02,689
- I probably go over here or...
- So what would
that be good for?
467
00:34:08,758 --> 00:34:09,586
Like,
a relationship?
468
00:34:10,724 --> 00:34:12,379
Oh, I need me
some of that.
469
00:34:13,896 --> 00:34:15,241
Right on.
470
00:34:15,241 --> 00:34:16,689
- Let me get it for you.
I'll buy for you.
- No. No baby.
471
00:34:16,689 --> 00:34:18,931
No,
I'll buy for you.
Something you can remember me.
472
00:34:18,931 --> 00:34:19,862
I'll buy it to you.
473
00:34:19,862 --> 00:34:20,758
- All right.
- Yeah.
474
00:34:20,758 --> 00:34:21,724
Thank you. I appreciate that.
475
00:34:24,448 --> 00:34:25,275
Oh, thank you.
476
00:34:30,034 --> 00:34:31,103
- Thank you.
- Yeah, absolutely.
477
00:34:32,689 --> 00:34:34,103
Cool.
478
00:34:34,103 --> 00:34:35,586
- Have a nice day.
Have a good lunch.
- You too. Take care. Goodbye.
479
00:34:37,206 --> 00:34:38,103
Here.
480
00:34:38,103 --> 00:34:39,689
Our first date
481
00:34:39,689 --> 00:34:41,689
wasn't exactly flawless.
482
00:34:42,620 --> 00:34:44,862
Her being autistic,
she's told me
483
00:34:44,862 --> 00:34:47,482
some of the things
that can affect her
484
00:34:47,482 --> 00:34:48,896
on a daily basis.
485
00:34:48,896 --> 00:34:50,241
But, being in person
486
00:34:50,241 --> 00:34:52,103
noticing these things
487
00:34:52,103 --> 00:34:54,000
and experiencing them
with her,
488
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,620
there's things that I need
to learn more about
489
00:34:56,620 --> 00:34:58,103
and understand more
about her as well.
490
00:35:06,517 --> 00:35:08,896
And maybe
last night at the bar
491
00:35:08,896 --> 00:35:10,068
I was pushing her too hard
492
00:35:10,068 --> 00:35:11,482
to do something
that she wasn't
comfortable with.
493
00:35:12,689 --> 00:35:15,793
But I hope that we can kinda
turn things around.
494
00:35:15,793 --> 00:35:17,965
I'd like to order
the half-ribs.
495
00:35:17,965 --> 00:35:20,758
- She's going to get
the cod and chips.
- Okay.
496
00:35:20,758 --> 00:35:21,931
Because I don't want last night
497
00:35:21,931 --> 00:35:23,931
to be something
that kinda overshadows
498
00:35:23,931 --> 00:35:24,793
the rest of our trip together.
499
00:35:25,448 --> 00:35:26,620
Oh, thank you.
500
00:35:26,620 --> 00:35:27,724
- Oh, wonderful.
- Have fun.
501
00:35:27,724 --> 00:35:28,586
Thank you, brother.
502
00:35:30,137 --> 00:35:32,931
- All right. Well,
these chips are for sharing.
- Yes.
503
00:35:32,931 --> 00:35:34,931
Let me cut you
a little piece of...
504
00:35:35,827 --> 00:35:36,931
There you go.
505
00:35:36,931 --> 00:35:38,000
- Let's try. You wanna feed me?
- Yeah.
506
00:35:38,275 --> 00:35:39,103
Do it.
507
00:35:42,137 --> 00:35:44,413
- Mmm.
- How is it? Do you like it?
508
00:35:44,413 --> 00:35:45,724
I like that a lot.
I need that whole thing.
509
00:35:45,724 --> 00:35:46,827
Yeah, so you liked it a lot?
510
00:35:47,379 --> 00:35:48,586
I'm so happy.
511
00:35:48,586 --> 00:35:50,448
This is literally
one of my favorite
British foods so...
512
00:35:50,448 --> 00:35:52,620
- Okay, I guess probably good
for a hangover too.
- It's like a... Yeah.
513
00:35:53,448 --> 00:35:54,241
Oh, that's perfect today.
514
00:35:55,724 --> 00:35:57,689
- Those were huge drinks.
I mean, they...
- Yeah.
515
00:35:57,689 --> 00:35:59,275
They're pretty heavy handed
on the porch there.
516
00:36:01,103 --> 00:36:02,655
It felt like, you know,
when we got there,
517
00:36:02,655 --> 00:36:04,482
we're having a good time,
we're getting to know
each other,
518
00:36:04,482 --> 00:36:05,413
you know, out and about.
519
00:36:05,413 --> 00:36:07,034
And, I would say,
they were, um...
520
00:36:07,034 --> 00:36:08,827
Just seemed like
you were really overwhelmed.
521
00:36:10,862 --> 00:36:12,068
Maybe it's just me being...
522
00:36:12,689 --> 00:36:14,241
cliche or...
523
00:36:15,586 --> 00:36:17,862
I don't know,
boring or whatever,
524
00:36:17,862 --> 00:36:19,034
but I feel,
525
00:36:19,034 --> 00:36:21,206
like, a first date
with a girl,
526
00:36:21,206 --> 00:36:24,862
you kind of wanna make it
about you two.
527
00:36:24,862 --> 00:36:27,379
And you felt the need
528
00:36:27,379 --> 00:36:28,586
to make it about
529
00:36:28,586 --> 00:36:31,206
- a larger group of girls.
- But I didn't.
530
00:36:31,206 --> 00:36:33,689
I didn't... I didn't care
about talking to those girls.
531
00:36:33,689 --> 00:36:35,241
You know, like I don't
want you to feel like
532
00:36:35,241 --> 00:36:36,517
I was giving you, like,
the cold shoulder.
533
00:36:38,448 --> 00:36:39,896
But you didn't
not really include me
534
00:36:39,896 --> 00:36:42,206
in the conversation
other than mentioning my name.
535
00:36:45,448 --> 00:36:47,379
I wouldn't go on
a first date with you
536
00:36:47,379 --> 00:36:50,137
and then start talking to,
like, a group of dudes
537
00:36:50,137 --> 00:36:51,172
and sit next to them
538
00:36:51,172 --> 00:36:54,000
and tell them I'm from Italy
and everything
539
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,068
when I'm literally there
to get to know you.
540
00:36:56,896 --> 00:36:58,379
I get that.
541
00:36:58,379 --> 00:37:00,103
I mean, I...
I feel kind of stupid.
542
00:37:02,413 --> 00:37:04,137
Of course, I already
had some worries
543
00:37:04,137 --> 00:37:05,310
about how,
544
00:37:05,310 --> 00:37:07,620
you know, he's gonna deal
with the fact that I am trans
545
00:37:07,620 --> 00:37:09,068
but now I'm also having
to worry
546
00:37:09,068 --> 00:37:11,448
about how
being on the spectrum
547
00:37:11,448 --> 00:37:13,793
affects our relationship
and I fear
548
00:37:13,793 --> 00:37:15,275
that if I let him know
549
00:37:15,275 --> 00:37:16,689
that I wasn't
100 per cent comfortable
550
00:37:16,689 --> 00:37:17,724
in that place,
551
00:37:17,724 --> 00:37:19,655
I could turn him off.
552
00:37:19,655 --> 00:37:21,206
You know, at some point
through the night
553
00:37:21,206 --> 00:37:22,413
I did have a good time.
554
00:37:23,758 --> 00:37:26,137
I just did not
like the place...
555
00:37:26,137 --> 00:37:29,896
and I feel that was, like,
the biggest issue for me.
556
00:37:29,896 --> 00:37:31,827
Those parts
which I really enjoy,
557
00:37:31,827 --> 00:37:34,586
because there's more freeway
and you can move around.
558
00:37:34,586 --> 00:37:38,551
But that place was so tiny
and claustrophobic.
559
00:37:38,551 --> 00:37:39,413
Sure.
560
00:37:41,068 --> 00:37:42,310
I was kinda worried
the date would
561
00:37:42,310 --> 00:37:44,655
damper on the rest
of our trip, in a way.
562
00:37:44,655 --> 00:37:46,931
- Why?
- I don't know. I... I...
I feel like
563
00:37:46,931 --> 00:37:49,379
you'd have fears
that everywhere that we go
564
00:37:49,379 --> 00:37:50,724
this is gonna be, like,
a common occurrence
565
00:37:50,724 --> 00:37:52,551
or might be hesitant to go out
566
00:37:52,551 --> 00:37:53,620
to a place again with me.
567
00:37:55,172 --> 00:37:57,931
But, like, the way you feel...
568
00:37:57,931 --> 00:37:59,206
like, it matters to me too.
569
00:38:06,241 --> 00:38:08,724
Like, I... I wanna make sure
570
00:38:08,724 --> 00:38:10,379
you're able to experience
as much of the things
571
00:38:10,379 --> 00:38:11,379
that you would want to.
572
00:38:22,310 --> 00:38:23,310
I'm sensitive.
573
00:38:23,310 --> 00:38:26,172
I can be very picky
about certain things.
574
00:38:31,517 --> 00:38:34,551
This trip isn't just about me,
it's about us.
575
00:38:34,551 --> 00:38:36,103
I didn't come here
to just go see London
576
00:38:36,103 --> 00:38:37,827
and have you join me
577
00:38:37,827 --> 00:38:39,206
you know, as my arm candy.
578
00:38:39,206 --> 00:38:40,896
You know, I came here
to have a good time with you.
579
00:38:42,551 --> 00:38:44,724
I just want you
to be happy and I...
580
00:38:44,724 --> 00:38:46,448
I am. I mean,
this has been fun.
581
00:38:46,448 --> 00:38:47,310
This has been nice.
582
00:38:49,379 --> 00:38:52,137
I like Christian
and, of course, I hope
583
00:38:52,137 --> 00:38:53,275
that things will work out.
584
00:38:53,965 --> 00:38:55,275
But I do worry
585
00:38:55,275 --> 00:38:57,827
whether this is all
proving to be
a little too much for him.
586
00:38:59,379 --> 00:39:00,482
You're not gonna
dampen my sparkle
587
00:39:00,482 --> 00:39:02,344
by just being who you are,
you know, and telling me
588
00:39:02,344 --> 00:39:03,586
that something's
uncomfortable for you.
589
00:39:05,275 --> 00:39:07,206
Last night I have learnt
something about you
590
00:39:07,206 --> 00:39:10,620
and, like, going forward,
it's definitely gonna be
591
00:39:10,620 --> 00:39:11,793
a situation
that I'm not gonna forget.
592
00:39:14,241 --> 00:39:15,275
It... It's trial and error.
593
00:39:27,448 --> 00:39:29,206
Oh!
594
00:39:37,724 --> 00:39:40,586
Coco, take care of the house.
595
00:39:40,586 --> 00:39:43,551
All right,
so let's go have
a good birthday for Liz.
596
00:39:43,551 --> 00:39:45,413
- She deserves it.
- Yes, I know.
597
00:39:46,241 --> 00:39:47,034
All right.
598
00:39:53,689 --> 00:39:54,896
Do you feel one...
599
00:39:54,896 --> 00:39:56,206
one year wiser now?
600
00:39:59,586 --> 00:40:00,862
What?
601
00:40:00,862 --> 00:40:03,379
Do you feel... But may be
you can tell her, but...
602
00:40:03,379 --> 00:40:05,379
Do you feel one...
one year wiser?
603
00:40:14,793 --> 00:40:16,275
Oh, it's just a saying.
604
00:40:22,034 --> 00:40:23,413
I've had a lot of time
605
00:40:23,413 --> 00:40:25,068
to think about what happened
606
00:40:25,068 --> 00:40:26,758
this morning
at the jewelry store.
607
00:40:27,965 --> 00:40:31,862
And Jasmine's behavior
was not okay today.
608
00:40:31,862 --> 00:40:33,689
But, you know,
I've been reflecting
609
00:40:33,689 --> 00:40:35,758
on myself and I believe
610
00:40:35,758 --> 00:40:37,000
I could have
handled it better.
611
00:40:40,896 --> 00:40:42,586
I feel like I'm the president
or something in this car.
612
00:40:43,758 --> 00:40:45,620
I just reacted to her anger
613
00:40:45,620 --> 00:40:47,068
with, you know,
anger of my own,
614
00:40:47,586 --> 00:40:48,896
which is exactly
615
00:40:48,896 --> 00:40:51,448
what the therapist told me
not to do.
616
00:40:51,448 --> 00:40:53,103
So I really don't know
617
00:40:53,103 --> 00:40:54,862
where I stand
with Jasmine right now
618
00:40:54,862 --> 00:40:57,172
but our fighting
back and forth
619
00:40:57,172 --> 00:41:00,517
should not affect
Liz's birthday.
620
00:41:00,517 --> 00:41:02,827
And I hope that Jasmine
can see that too.
621
00:41:04,862 --> 00:41:06,827
Are you, uh, excited
to ride the bicycles?
622
00:41:08,862 --> 00:41:10,000
What do you call this,
the causeway?
623
00:41:12,862 --> 00:41:14,344
Yes,
this is a causeway.
624
00:41:15,551 --> 00:41:17,068
How come
you never took me here?
625
00:41:18,379 --> 00:41:20,586
Gino, we just came here
a few days ago.
626
00:41:22,310 --> 00:41:23,482
How you don't remember?
627
00:41:24,275 --> 00:41:25,068
Uh-huh.
628
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:27,931
Sure it was me?
629
00:41:31,344 --> 00:41:32,758
I'm still mad
at Gino
630
00:41:32,758 --> 00:41:34,172
for the argument we have
631
00:41:34,172 --> 00:41:35,517
this morning
at the jewelry store.
632
00:41:36,448 --> 00:41:37,551
It is one thing
633
00:41:37,551 --> 00:41:40,000
that he doesn't wanna
spend money on the ring,
634
00:41:40,586 --> 00:41:42,413
but it is another thing
635
00:41:42,413 --> 00:41:44,931
refusing to pay
for an immigration lawyer.
636
00:41:46,103 --> 00:41:48,586
It feels like Gino
has no urgency
637
00:41:48,586 --> 00:41:50,517
to bring me to United States.
638
00:41:50,517 --> 00:41:52,758
So I feel like
I'm more invested
639
00:41:52,758 --> 00:41:54,793
on this relationship
than he is.
640
00:41:57,034 --> 00:41:58,241
We're here.
641
00:42:02,379 --> 00:42:04,689
Even though
I'm still mad at Gino,
642
00:42:04,689 --> 00:42:06,586
it's my sister's birthday
643
00:42:06,586 --> 00:42:09,724
and she deserve to have
a good evening.
644
00:42:09,724 --> 00:42:11,586
So now I just wanna have fun.
645
00:42:13,275 --> 00:42:15,310
These are
such cool little bikes.
646
00:42:16,758 --> 00:42:17,758
- Oh!
- I like this one.
647
00:42:19,206 --> 00:42:22,724
- Uh, Liz can go in
- Yeah.
648
00:42:22,724 --> 00:42:25,241
- Okay.
- If you want to,
you know,
649
00:42:25,241 --> 00:42:27,206
you can even paddle,
paddle to help us.
650
00:42:28,379 --> 00:42:30,862
Wait, don't go without me.
651
00:42:30,862 --> 00:42:32,482
Wait.
652
00:42:35,068 --> 00:42:36,034
You ready?
653
00:42:38,379 --> 00:42:40,896
Uh, don't worry,
I've got you in good hands.
654
00:42:40,896 --> 00:42:42,344
You're in good hands.
655
00:42:42,344 --> 00:42:44,896
you got Liz. Fire power.
Good hands, I was just...
656
00:42:44,896 --> 00:42:47,827
hit by a branch.
657
00:42:47,827 --> 00:42:51,172
I'm glad I'm with someone
like you that has strong legs.
658
00:42:51,172 --> 00:42:53,586
All right, ready, let's go.
It's gonna cross this.
659
00:42:53,586 --> 00:42:54,655
Are you sure about...
660
00:42:55,448 --> 00:42:56,758
You have-- We have--
661
00:42:56,758 --> 00:42:58,551
- Babe-- Babe,
there are cars coming.
- Don't worry.
662
00:42:59,862 --> 00:43:01,620
- Go ahead.
- You have
the brakes.
663
00:43:03,551 --> 00:43:05,793
Let's go.
664
00:43:09,103 --> 00:43:10,689
- Ah!
- Let's go.
665
00:43:10,689 --> 00:43:13,310
Whoo!
666
00:43:14,241 --> 00:43:16,551
Is this fun or what?
667
00:43:17,103 --> 00:43:18,241
Eh.
668
00:43:21,413 --> 00:43:24,103
Babe-- Gino, if you're tired,
let me know.
669
00:43:24,103 --> 00:43:26,310
I don't want you to have
a heart attack.
670
00:43:26,310 --> 00:43:31,034
Baby, you think
I'm some kind of old,
shriveled up prune.
671
00:43:31,034 --> 00:43:32,896
- Yes, you never have--
- I'm not.
672
00:43:32,896 --> 00:43:34,931
But you have-- never have
conditions for sex.
673
00:43:34,931 --> 00:43:36,758
Why would you have
for riding bike?
674
00:43:36,758 --> 00:43:38,551
I don't have what?
675
00:43:38,551 --> 00:43:43,103
- You never have good
physical condition for sex.
- Yes, I do.
676
00:43:43,103 --> 00:43:45,862
- I'm always in condition,
you always orgas--
- Why--
677
00:43:45,862 --> 00:43:46,896
Now, um...
678
00:43:46,896 --> 00:43:48,827
Baby, that's something
we need to talk about.
679
00:43:50,655 --> 00:43:51,482
Why?
680
00:43:53,586 --> 00:43:54,724
Okay, just for the record,
681
00:43:55,724 --> 00:43:57,310
when we have sex,
682
00:43:57,310 --> 00:43:59,275
I have never had an orgasm
with you.
683
00:44:01,482 --> 00:44:02,793
Yes, you have.
684
00:44:02,793 --> 00:44:03,896
- I--
- I fake it.
685
00:44:05,482 --> 00:44:06,551
No, you don't. I--
686
00:44:06,551 --> 00:44:07,827
- I fake it.
- No, you don't.
687
00:44:07,827 --> 00:44:09,103
I swear to God.
688
00:44:09,103 --> 00:44:10,034
No, you don't.
689
00:44:10,034 --> 00:44:12,689
I fake my orgasms,
I'm telling you.
690
00:44:12,689 --> 00:44:14,034
Why are you...
691
00:44:14,034 --> 00:44:16,103
What?
692
00:44:23,965 --> 00:44:27,275
This is the mood
that I was hoping for tonight.
693
00:44:27,275 --> 00:44:30,448
Liz and Jasmine are laughing, smiling.
694
00:44:31,068 --> 00:44:32,034
Let's go.
695
00:44:32,034 --> 00:44:34,965
It's moments like this
that prove that
696
00:44:34,965 --> 00:44:36,793
we can put
our differences aside
697
00:44:36,793 --> 00:44:39,034
and have a good time together.
698
00:44:40,620 --> 00:44:42,448
Oh, no.
699
00:44:42,448 --> 00:44:44,000
Did we cause that?
700
00:44:44,862 --> 00:44:45,689
Is that our fault?
701
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,620
Whoo! I love this thing.
702
00:45:18,241 --> 00:45:19,689
I mean,
this is like the point
in the evening
703
00:45:19,689 --> 00:45:22,275
where, you know, you put on
the baby making playlist.
704
00:45:22,275 --> 00:45:24,206
- Baby making?
- Yeah.
705
00:45:24,206 --> 00:45:26,241
Not sure how that's gonna work
with me.
706
00:45:26,862 --> 00:45:27,896
I feel like, you know,
707
00:45:27,896 --> 00:45:29,103
things are a little bit
more awkward
708
00:45:29,103 --> 00:45:32,068
because I've never been
with a trans woman before.
709
00:45:32,068 --> 00:45:34,517
Are we gonna be compatible
intimately?
710
00:45:35,068 --> 00:45:35,896
I mean, I think...
711
00:50:53,172 --> 00:50:54,068
Mmm.
712
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:05,034
Hi.
713
00:52:05,034 --> 00:52:06,413
- Yeah, yeah.
- You hugging?
714
00:52:06,413 --> 00:52:07,827
- Sure.
- Oh, my God.
715
00:52:07,827 --> 00:52:11,103
Ben is my friend,
I love him very much.
716
00:52:11,103 --> 00:52:12,241
I'm feeling nervous,
717
00:52:12,241 --> 00:52:14,448
because I can't imagine
being with someone
718
00:52:14,448 --> 00:52:16,000
that Ben doesn't get
along with.
719
00:52:17,931 --> 00:52:20,275
Dating app.
I like, uh, English girls.
720
00:52:45,310 --> 00:52:47,103
- This is the farm.
- Yeah.
721
00:52:47,103 --> 00:52:48,862
Is it as cold
as you thought?
722
00:52:48,862 --> 00:52:52,137
It's colder.
Yeah, a lot colder.
723
00:52:52,137 --> 00:52:55,931
Everything's different, huh?
- Yeah.
724
00:52:55,931 --> 00:52:59,586
Statler seems
a little bit nervous
about the caravan.
725
00:52:59,586 --> 00:53:01,344
I think that she has
this perception
726
00:53:01,344 --> 00:53:04,310
that it's just like
a dirty little farm
that stinks.
727
00:53:04,827 --> 00:53:05,862
And, uh,
728
00:53:05,862 --> 00:53:09,482
it's actually
a very beautiful place
to live.
729
00:53:09,482 --> 00:53:12,586
And people
from all over England
come and stay.
730
00:53:12,586 --> 00:53:14,000
It's stunning.
731
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:17,241
So I'm super excited to show
Statler around the farm,
732
00:53:17,241 --> 00:53:18,517
introduce her to people,
733
00:53:18,517 --> 00:53:22,172
and get to know a bit
more about my life,
734
00:53:22,172 --> 00:53:24,344
and my way of living.
735
00:53:24,344 --> 00:53:26,275
There's like,
some smoke coming out
of there.
736
00:53:26,275 --> 00:53:27,275
- What is that?
- Oh, yeah.
737
00:53:27,275 --> 00:53:28,379
So that's the containers.
738
00:53:28,379 --> 00:53:30,931
That's like, the staycation,
where the people stay.
739
00:53:30,931 --> 00:53:32,310
The guest's in there.
740
00:53:32,310 --> 00:53:34,448
- Wow, that's nice.
- And like, they have hot tubs.
741
00:53:34,448 --> 00:53:36,000
- That's really cool.
- Yeah, it's really cool.
742
00:53:37,379 --> 00:53:38,724
A typical day for me,
743
00:53:38,724 --> 00:53:41,137
I would get up
around 5:30,
744
00:53:41,137 --> 00:53:43,172
clean like, the containers.
745
00:53:43,172 --> 00:53:46,482
So I do like, housekeeping,
I do the cooking.
746
00:53:46,482 --> 00:53:48,310
I love cooking.
747
00:53:48,310 --> 00:53:50,620
- So excited for you
to see in here.
- So--
748
00:53:50,620 --> 00:53:52,275
- Yeah.
- It's such
a cool space.
749
00:53:55,172 --> 00:53:56,310
After you.
750
00:53:56,310 --> 00:53:58,758
Wow,
this is really modern.
751
00:53:58,758 --> 00:54:00,482
Yeah,
it's cool, isn't it?
752
00:54:00,482 --> 00:54:01,896
Yeah, very cool.
753
00:54:01,896 --> 00:54:03,241
This is like,
a chill out area.
754
00:54:03,241 --> 00:54:06,344
So in-- in--
on the night time,
I come in here,
755
00:54:06,344 --> 00:54:07,620
talk to the guests,
756
00:54:07,620 --> 00:54:08,931
and we like, make pizzas.
757
00:54:08,931 --> 00:54:11,344
Well, I make pizzas.
The guests eat the pizzas.
758
00:54:11,344 --> 00:54:13,000
Ah, very nice.
759
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:16,241
And then,
this space is super cool,
in here.
760
00:54:16,241 --> 00:54:17,758
Yeah,
we can play pool in here.
761
00:54:17,758 --> 00:54:19,827
The guests come in here
and play pool.
762
00:54:19,827 --> 00:54:22,241
- Nice.
- Jenga,
and then the TV.
763
00:54:22,241 --> 00:54:24,034
- You like it?
- Yeah, it's awesome.
764
00:54:25,172 --> 00:54:26,965
- Ben!
- Oh, my God.
765
00:54:26,965 --> 00:54:28,068
- Hi.
- Dempsey, you look good.
766
00:54:28,068 --> 00:54:29,172
- Yes.
- Long time.
767
00:54:34,275 --> 00:54:35,827
I've missed them hugs.
768
00:54:39,034 --> 00:54:40,137
- Hi.
- Statler.
769
00:54:40,137 --> 00:54:41,034
- This is--
Yeah, this is Statler
- Yeah.
770
00:54:41,034 --> 00:54:42,241
- You hugging?
- Yeah, sure, sure.
771
00:54:42,241 --> 00:54:43,448
- Hi-- How are you--
- Oh, my God.
How you doing?
772
00:54:43,448 --> 00:54:44,517
- You all right?
- How are you?
Yeah, good. How are you?
773
00:54:44,517 --> 00:54:46,517
- How's things?
- Yeah, good,
you know.
774
00:54:47,241 --> 00:54:49,310
Ben is my friend.
775
00:54:49,310 --> 00:54:52,344
He owns the company
where I work.
776
00:54:52,344 --> 00:54:55,068
He's like a main character
in my life,
777
00:54:55,068 --> 00:54:56,758
I love him very much.
778
00:54:56,758 --> 00:54:59,896
He's seen me go through,
through a lot.
779
00:54:59,896 --> 00:55:02,310
So I'm feeling nervous
at this point,
780
00:55:02,310 --> 00:55:06,482
because I know that
Statler can be quiet
and awkward at times.
781
00:55:06,482 --> 00:55:08,034
And I can't imagine
being with someone
782
00:55:08,034 --> 00:55:09,448
that Ben doesn't get
along with.
783
00:55:11,068 --> 00:55:11,931
Ah.
784
00:55:11,931 --> 00:55:12,965
So where are you
actually from?
785
00:55:12,965 --> 00:55:13,896
You're obviously
from the States,
786
00:55:13,896 --> 00:55:15,137
I can hear
you've got a bit of a twang.
787
00:55:15,137 --> 00:55:16,413
Yeah.
788
00:55:16,413 --> 00:55:17,758
- You've got a little bit
of an accent.
- Ah.
789
00:55:17,758 --> 00:55:19,103
Yeah, I'm from Texas.
790
00:55:19,103 --> 00:55:21,379
- No way.
- Yeah, yeah.
791
00:55:21,379 --> 00:55:24,482
So, you guys,
how did you exactly meet?
792
00:55:24,482 --> 00:55:26,931
Uh, dating app. Yeah.
793
00:55:26,931 --> 00:55:29,034
- No way.
- I like, uh, English girls.
794
00:55:31,310 --> 00:55:33,724
So you came all the way here
just to see Dempsey?
795
00:55:33,724 --> 00:55:35,655
Just for her, yeah.
796
00:55:35,655 --> 00:55:38,241
- Wow.
- I think it was just the--
the last thing, you know?
797
00:55:38,241 --> 00:55:40,931
'Cause our-- our conversations
are going so well,
798
00:55:40,931 --> 00:55:42,620
- the emotional thing
was there.
- Mmm-hmm.
799
00:55:42,620 --> 00:55:44,551
So it was just
the physical thing
that was missing and--
800
00:55:44,551 --> 00:55:45,551
Sure.
801
00:55:45,551 --> 00:55:46,896
She blushes a lot,
doesn't she?
802
00:55:46,896 --> 00:55:48,137
And she's also
fidgeting an awful lot
803
00:55:48,137 --> 00:55:49,344
- with her scarf.
- Yeah.
804
00:55:49,344 --> 00:55:50,931
So it means
you've already had
the physical already.
805
00:55:50,931 --> 00:55:52,413
- And you've been here for...
- Ben.
806
00:55:52,413 --> 00:55:54,000
What,
I'm just saying like,
807
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:56,103
you've only been here a day
and you're already physical.
808
00:55:56,103 --> 00:55:57,379
Like, it's mad.
809
00:55:57,379 --> 00:55:59,551
Like,
I'm a fast mover, but like.
810
00:56:01,310 --> 00:56:03,172
Well,
one thing lead to another.
811
00:56:03,172 --> 00:56:05,103
- We had a little kiss
and then it just...
- I get that.
812
00:56:07,068 --> 00:56:09,655
I actually haven't seen
Dempsey this excited
in a long time.
813
00:56:09,655 --> 00:56:11,724
- But like-- Yeah.
- Oh, wow, well,
that's a good sign, isn't it?
814
00:56:11,724 --> 00:56:14,172
You're like,
super like, cool, poker face,
calm and collected,
815
00:56:14,172 --> 00:56:16,068
- hands in pockets,
like, just...
- Yeah.
816
00:56:16,068 --> 00:56:18,241
And Dempsey's just like,
fun around everywhere.
817
00:56:20,206 --> 00:56:21,827
A cyber relationship.
818
00:56:21,827 --> 00:56:23,793
I think it--
I think it's nuts, for me.
819
00:56:23,793 --> 00:56:26,482
Nevermind different countries overseas.
820
00:56:26,482 --> 00:56:29,862
And plus, I'm super surprised
that they hooked up.
821
00:56:29,862 --> 00:56:31,310
Statler's super different
to Dempsey.
822
00:56:31,310 --> 00:56:34,482
Like, I would say
they are chalk and cheese.
823
00:56:35,965 --> 00:56:37,448
Chalk and cheese.
824
00:56:37,448 --> 00:56:39,137
So chalk,
as in like a whiteboard,
825
00:56:39,137 --> 00:56:40,068
chalking,
826
00:56:40,068 --> 00:56:41,724
and cheese,
as in like cheese you'd eat.
827
00:56:41,724 --> 00:56:44,379
So basically,
they're just two opposites
to each other.
828
00:56:44,379 --> 00:56:46,551
I mean,
Dempsey looks super happy,
829
00:56:46,551 --> 00:56:49,034
but they've been
chatting online for like,
however long,
830
00:56:49,034 --> 00:56:50,793
and then they've hung out
for two days.
831
00:56:50,793 --> 00:56:52,172
You can't be fully sure
of someone
832
00:56:52,172 --> 00:56:54,862
when you've only known someone
for 48 hours.
833
00:56:54,862 --> 00:56:56,689
Give it a week,
give it two weeks' time.
834
00:56:56,689 --> 00:56:57,689
Things may be very different.
835
00:56:59,137 --> 00:57:00,137
How was Thailand, by the way?
836
00:57:00,137 --> 00:57:01,379
Ah, I absolutely loved it.
837
00:57:01,379 --> 00:57:03,827
- It's so nice, yeah.
- How'd you get on?
838
00:57:03,827 --> 00:57:06,241
Things were going good,
my dad left,
839
00:57:06,241 --> 00:57:09,034
made my way up North
to Chiang Mai.
840
00:57:09,034 --> 00:57:10,896
- Stayed in, like,
the hostels and stuff...
- Yeah?
841
00:57:10,896 --> 00:57:11,965
...making friends.
842
00:57:14,724 --> 00:57:17,586
What did you think to Dempsey
being in Thailand for so long?
843
00:57:17,586 --> 00:57:19,586
Did you chat to her much?
You keep in touch, or...
844
00:57:22,206 --> 00:57:25,724
Ah, the communication
was kind of crappy
towards the end,
845
00:57:25,724 --> 00:57:28,241
but she was living
her best life, so...
846
00:57:28,241 --> 00:57:30,206
- Yeah, definitely,
you've gotta let her be.
- Yeah.
847
00:57:33,586 --> 00:57:35,586
The communication being off
in Thailand
848
00:57:35,586 --> 00:57:38,344
did make me feel
pretty rejected.
849
00:57:38,344 --> 00:57:41,620
I felt like she was, you know,
just wild and free and...
850
00:57:41,620 --> 00:57:42,724
It makes me
kind of question, like,
851
00:57:42,724 --> 00:57:44,275
did some stuff happen there?
852
00:57:45,379 --> 00:57:47,896
I do still feel insecure.
853
00:57:47,896 --> 00:57:51,172
So I'm trying
to work up my nerves
to ask her tonight.
854
00:57:51,172 --> 00:57:53,103
But I'm feeling
pretty anxious about it.
855
00:57:55,379 --> 00:57:57,103
I haven't seen Dempsey
for so long either,
856
00:57:57,103 --> 00:57:58,448
- and obviously like--
- I missed you.
857
00:57:58,448 --> 00:57:59,689
- Come here, you.
- Mmm.
858
00:57:59,689 --> 00:58:00,758
And then, uh,
859
00:58:00,758 --> 00:58:02,000
obviously now,
I was thinking that--
860
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:03,103
I was expecting her
to be happy,
861
00:58:03,103 --> 00:58:04,000
'cause she's been away.
862
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:05,310
- I've never been happier.
- Not this happy.
863
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:07,103
Oh.
864
00:58:07,103 --> 00:58:09,103
- That's good.
- Yeah.
865
00:58:12,724 --> 00:58:14,482
Typically, I'm the guy
who waits for the girl
866
00:58:14,482 --> 00:58:16,758
- to make the first move, like...
- Oh.
867
00:58:16,758 --> 00:58:19,000
Christian has always been
very forward,
868
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:20,172
and you know, flirtatious.
869
00:58:20,172 --> 00:58:22,344
So, for him to now say that
870
00:58:22,344 --> 00:58:24,000
he's somebody
who likes to wait,
871
00:58:24,517 --> 00:58:25,758
I don't buy it.
872
00:58:25,758 --> 00:58:28,275
Like, if I go in for a kiss,
and the girl like, denies it,
873
00:58:28,275 --> 00:58:29,827
like, I feel like,
really crushed.
874
00:58:29,827 --> 00:58:31,448
Well, we've kissed before.
875
00:58:34,517 --> 00:58:36,241
She's beautiful,
but she's crazy.
876
00:58:36,241 --> 00:58:37,551
She's--
877
00:58:38,896 --> 00:58:40,482
Okay.
878
00:58:40,482 --> 00:58:42,758
At this moment,
I don't know where we're at.
879
00:58:42,758 --> 00:58:44,896
And last night,
I wanted to take
a flight home.
880
00:58:44,896 --> 00:58:46,827
I got very angry
and I blocked her.
881
00:58:46,827 --> 00:58:49,172
Come on.
You need to apologize.
882
00:58:49,172 --> 00:58:52,000
- Yeah, I mean--
- She should be the one
who blocking you.
883
00:59:01,896 --> 00:59:04,793
♪ You are the one
That makes me feel young ♪
884
00:59:04,793 --> 00:59:07,103
♪ You are the one for me ♪
885
00:59:11,172 --> 00:59:12,344
- I do, I found it.
- Oh, cool.
886
00:59:15,172 --> 00:59:16,655
Might bust the candles out.
887
00:59:16,655 --> 00:59:19,551
- I'll just make it like,
a little more romantic.
- Oh.
888
00:59:19,551 --> 00:59:21,689
I mean,
this is probably like
the point in the evening
889
00:59:21,689 --> 00:59:22,689
where, you know,
you put on the--
890
00:59:22,689 --> 00:59:24,379
like the sexy sex music.
891
00:59:24,379 --> 00:59:27,689
Do we have any
sexy sex music?
892
00:59:30,931 --> 00:59:33,275
- That'd be kind of weird,
wouldn't it?
- Yeah.
893
00:59:33,275 --> 00:59:35,724
No, I do not have like,
a baby making playlist.
894
00:59:36,482 --> 00:59:37,827
Baby making?
895
00:59:37,827 --> 00:59:39,448
Yeah, you know,
something special,
896
00:59:39,448 --> 00:59:41,310
some cute music to play.
897
00:59:41,310 --> 00:59:43,724
Not sure how that's gonna work
with me.
898
00:59:43,724 --> 00:59:45,103
Uh-- oh, really? Okay.
899
00:59:45,103 --> 00:59:47,448
That's good to know.
Noted. Um...
900
00:59:47,448 --> 00:59:48,482
I'm gonna grab
the candles, too.
901
00:59:48,482 --> 00:59:50,000
Gotta find a lighter.
902
00:59:50,689 --> 00:59:51,517
Cool.
903
00:59:58,517 --> 01:00:01,862
- Here's the bottle, ma'am.
- Nice.
904
01:00:01,862 --> 01:00:04,310
I really wanna do
something special
just for the two of us.
905
01:00:04,310 --> 01:00:06,551
So I suggested
that we stay in tonight,
906
01:00:06,551 --> 01:00:08,275
and hopefully fix
some mistakes
907
01:00:08,275 --> 01:00:09,448
that we had last night.
908
01:00:10,896 --> 01:00:12,103
Cheers to...
909
01:00:12,103 --> 01:00:14,137
- A romantic night in. Yeah.
- ...a romantic night in.
910
01:00:16,896 --> 01:00:18,310
So what should we do?
911
01:00:18,310 --> 01:00:22,344
Well, I actually did bring
something kind of special,
912
01:00:22,344 --> 01:00:25,310
something that
maybe you haven't
experienced before.
913
01:00:25,310 --> 01:00:27,310
Oh, seems nice.
914
01:00:27,310 --> 01:00:29,000
Gotta go upstairs,
I will be right back.
915
01:00:32,137 --> 01:00:34,068
We're having
this cozy night in,
916
01:00:34,068 --> 01:00:37,137
you know, it's more intimate,
we can actually talk,
917
01:00:37,137 --> 01:00:38,965
and not having the pressure
918
01:00:38,965 --> 01:00:41,172
of being surrounded
by a lot of people.
919
01:00:41,172 --> 01:00:44,103
So, this is definitely
feeling more like,
920
01:00:44,103 --> 01:00:47,379
a first date to me
than yesterday.
921
01:00:47,379 --> 01:00:50,103
So I would be open
to him making the first move,
922
01:00:50,103 --> 01:00:51,620
and I hope he does.
923
01:00:54,448 --> 01:00:55,551
Ooh, what's that?
924
01:00:56,241 --> 01:00:57,793
Okay, so,
925
01:00:57,793 --> 01:01:02,448
this is VR headset.
926
01:01:02,448 --> 01:01:05,000
- I've never ever
tried VR before.
- Very cool.
927
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:06,793
It's like, really techy,
really cool.
928
01:01:07,931 --> 01:01:10,551
I brought my VR headset
with me.
929
01:01:10,551 --> 01:01:13,206
Having her experience
VR for the first time,
930
01:01:13,206 --> 01:01:15,896
is definitely something
that brings us back
931
01:01:15,896 --> 01:01:18,172
to when we were first
starting to talk.
932
01:01:18,172 --> 01:01:19,758
We both enjoy video games
a whole lot,
933
01:01:19,758 --> 01:01:23,000
and I think
it's really romantic
sharing hobbies together,
934
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:24,689
or things that we both find interesting.
935
01:01:26,655 --> 01:01:28,275
- Oh, my God.
- Okay, stay right here,
don't move.
936
01:01:28,275 --> 01:01:29,344
- All right.
- No-- No matter what,
937
01:01:29,344 --> 01:01:31,965
nothing can hurt you,
it's not real.
938
01:01:31,965 --> 01:01:34,862
It's hard to believe
when it's literally 3D.
939
01:01:38,310 --> 01:01:40,758
Why does it not die?
940
01:01:40,758 --> 01:01:41,793
Well, they're zombies.
941
01:01:45,413 --> 01:01:46,206
Good shot.
942
01:01:47,068 --> 01:01:48,517
You're crack shot, babe.
943
01:01:50,896 --> 01:01:52,586
It's so much fun.
944
01:01:52,586 --> 01:01:53,931
It's incredible,
945
01:01:53,931 --> 01:01:55,655
It literally feels
like reality,
946
01:01:55,655 --> 01:01:58,103
but with less detail...
947
01:02:01,275 --> 01:02:03,172
...which makes it
less overwhelming.
948
01:02:03,172 --> 01:02:06,517
But I actually think
virtual reality was really
cool for me.
949
01:02:06,862 --> 01:02:08,413
Very nice.
950
01:02:08,413 --> 01:02:10,000
There you go.
Shoot 'em right in the face.
951
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:12,103
Yep. Yeah,
you're doing really good.
952
01:02:12,103 --> 01:02:14,241
- Like, I'm just having
a good time.
- Cool.
953
01:02:20,103 --> 01:02:21,551
- Actually, you look--
You look kind of cool.
- All right.
954
01:02:23,827 --> 01:02:25,241
Oh, that sucks.
955
01:02:26,034 --> 01:02:27,689
I think I did pretty well,
956
01:02:27,689 --> 01:02:29,482
'cause I got to like,
the next stage.
957
01:02:29,482 --> 01:02:30,724
Yeah,
you did pretty good.
958
01:02:30,724 --> 01:02:32,241
- You got a little--
- My hair looks
really crazy, yeah.
959
01:02:32,241 --> 01:02:33,344
No, your hair looks fine.
960
01:02:33,344 --> 01:02:35,310
It's just,
your face is a little red.
961
01:02:35,793 --> 01:02:36,620
Cool.
962
01:02:37,827 --> 01:02:39,965
- Let's cheers
to a good day now.
- That's right.
963
01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:49,620
There are times
where I feel like,
964
01:02:49,620 --> 01:02:50,793
you know,
things are a little bit
more awkward
965
01:02:50,793 --> 01:02:51,862
than they should be.
966
01:02:51,862 --> 01:02:54,758
And a lot of that stems
just from the pressure
967
01:02:54,758 --> 01:02:58,551
that I'm putting on myself
to finally be intimate.
968
01:02:58,551 --> 01:02:59,793
Babe?
969
01:02:59,793 --> 01:03:01,413
I'm just getting changed,
I'll be out in a second.
970
01:03:02,793 --> 01:03:05,034
But I really
wanna take things slow,
971
01:03:05,034 --> 01:03:08,068
because I've never been
with a trans woman before.
972
01:03:08,068 --> 01:03:11,000
Are we gonna be compatible
intimately?
973
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:13,068
Am I gonna be comfortable
with her anatomy?
974
01:03:13,068 --> 01:03:15,206
I just don't know
how that's all gonna go.
975
01:03:15,206 --> 01:03:17,517
So, if we were to rush
into intimacy,
976
01:03:17,517 --> 01:03:20,206
and I wasn't comfortable
with it,
977
01:03:20,206 --> 01:03:22,000
or she wasn't comfortable
with it,
978
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:24,310
I don't want it to be,
you know, be a deal breaker.
979
01:03:32,896 --> 01:03:34,000
Oh, you look cute.
980
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:36,172
- Can you give a little twirl?
- Sure.
981
01:03:37,068 --> 01:03:38,689
- Thanks.
- You look cute, too.
982
01:03:38,689 --> 01:03:40,724
Thank you.
983
01:03:40,724 --> 01:03:41,724
- Cool.
- Yeah.
984
01:03:48,758 --> 01:03:50,517
- How do you--
- What up?
985
01:03:50,517 --> 01:03:51,758
Huh?
986
01:03:51,758 --> 01:03:53,206
- What up?
- Nothing, nothing.
I'm just, uh...
987
01:03:54,793 --> 01:03:58,034
just, uh,
getting ready for bed, um...
988
01:04:01,965 --> 01:04:03,896
- I had a great time tonight.
- Yeah?
989
01:04:03,896 --> 01:04:04,896
- Yeah.
- Yeah, me too.
990
01:04:04,896 --> 01:04:06,448
That-- That's definitely
why you're fun.
991
01:04:06,448 --> 01:04:08,034
You know, just a night in,
992
01:04:08,034 --> 01:04:09,758
good company
and playing video games.
993
01:04:09,758 --> 01:04:11,758
- And a bottle of wine.
- Yeah.
994
01:04:11,758 --> 01:04:13,379
Yeah, made up for yesterday.
995
01:04:14,103 --> 01:04:14,965
Yeah.
996
01:04:17,068 --> 01:04:21,793
I mean, I feel like
this is like a weird question.
997
01:04:23,344 --> 01:04:26,068
I mean, I think we
both are obviously
attracted to each other.
998
01:04:27,586 --> 01:04:29,896
I have a feeling
but I might be wrong, but...
999
01:04:29,896 --> 01:04:31,448
No, no you're right.
You're totally right.
1000
01:04:32,241 --> 01:04:34,517
But also I don't mind like
1001
01:04:34,517 --> 01:04:37,137
the fact that we're still
hanging out and getting to
know each other in person.
1002
01:04:37,137 --> 01:04:41,655
Yeah, same and obviously
it's good to know that
1003
01:04:41,655 --> 01:04:44,137
I guess we both you know
are attracted to each other.
1004
01:04:45,758 --> 01:04:47,551
Yeah, definitely.
1005
01:04:49,586 --> 01:04:52,448
Yeah, I don't want you
to think that like, I'm less
attracted to you because
1006
01:04:52,448 --> 01:04:54,517
I haven't tried
to like initiate
1007
01:04:54,517 --> 01:04:56,586
anything intimate, uh,
1008
01:04:56,586 --> 01:05:00,137
typically I'm kind of the guy
who waits for the girl to make
the first move like...
1009
01:05:00,137 --> 01:05:04,137
Oh... Oh well that is not...
'cause I never
make the first move.
1010
01:05:06,275 --> 01:05:09,965
Okay, all right. I get that
like I totally get that but
at the same time it's like
1011
01:05:09,965 --> 01:05:13,482
I kind of like to feel
wanted and
1012
01:05:13,482 --> 01:05:16,379
you know, like if I go
in for a kiss and
the girl like
1013
01:05:16,379 --> 01:05:18,448
denies it, like I feel
like really crushed.
1014
01:05:18,448 --> 01:05:19,689
We have kissed before.
1015
01:05:19,689 --> 01:05:21,827
Well, I know that but
like if I was
1016
01:05:21,827 --> 01:05:24,172
you know so like, you know
start grabbing your legs
1017
01:05:24,172 --> 01:05:26,655
grabbing your butt, and all of
a sudden like, you're like,
1018
01:05:26,655 --> 01:05:28,103
"Yeah, I think we're moving
a little too fast."
1019
01:05:28,103 --> 01:05:30,275
It'll kind of like,
set me back a little bit.
1020
01:05:33,103 --> 01:05:36,965
I don't know, maybe
it's just something that
you know, we'll just have to
1021
01:05:36,965 --> 01:05:38,344
let happen when it happens.
1022
01:05:38,344 --> 01:05:40,620
Well it's... Well it's like
we'll just have to see
I guess.
1023
01:05:42,448 --> 01:05:44,275
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1024
01:05:46,241 --> 01:05:48,620
Okay, um, see ya. I'm getting
the paycheck.
1025
01:05:48,620 --> 01:05:50,137
I'll get the lights.
1026
01:05:51,758 --> 01:05:54,827
What I think that I've known
about Christian since the
beginning was that
1027
01:05:54,827 --> 01:05:58,862
you know, affection and PDA
are super vital things to him.
1028
01:06:02,310 --> 01:06:06,068
And since the beginning
of our, you know, talking
to each other, Christian
1029
01:06:06,068 --> 01:06:09,241
has always been very forward
and, you know flirtatious
1030
01:06:09,793 --> 01:06:11,413
for him to now to say,
1031
01:06:11,413 --> 01:06:13,896
that he's somebody who
likes to wait
1032
01:06:13,896 --> 01:06:16,000
for women to make the
first move
1033
01:06:16,000 --> 01:06:17,931
I don't buy it.
1034
01:06:17,931 --> 01:06:20,000
And of course that makes
me quite insecure.
1035
01:06:25,310 --> 01:06:27,068
- Good night.
- Good night, baby.
1036
01:06:46,482 --> 01:06:48,379
- Hey!
- Hello, this is
gonna be great.
1037
01:06:48,379 --> 01:06:50,379
Hi, I'm Riley.
1038
01:06:50,379 --> 01:06:52,689
Nice to meet you.
Thank you for this.
1039
01:06:52,689 --> 01:06:56,275
- Thank you, thank you.
This is going to be great.
- Yeah.
1040
01:06:56,275 --> 01:06:58,620
I haven't spoken
to Violet since the
fight last night
1041
01:06:58,620 --> 01:07:02,310
but I'm already here in
Vietnam and not gonna
sit in the hotel.
1042
01:07:02,310 --> 01:07:07,034
So, tonight I decided that
I'm going to venture out in
the Ho Chi Min City.
1043
01:07:07,034 --> 01:07:09,137
So, I hired a tour guide
to take me around on his bike.
1044
01:07:10,655 --> 01:07:12,482
This is crazy.
1045
01:07:27,724 --> 01:07:31,172
You know,
it's really weird because
I ride motorcycles but,
1046
01:07:31,172 --> 01:07:34,310
riding in a city like,
Ho Chi Minh City
1047
01:07:34,310 --> 01:07:37,793
and with all the activity
on the road, I'm losing
my mind.
1048
01:07:37,793 --> 01:07:39,448
I'm enjoying myself.
1049
01:07:39,448 --> 01:07:42,758
I just wanna make
it from A to B.in one piece.
1050
01:07:59,793 --> 01:08:01,758
Ho Chi Minh city
is a beautiful city
1051
01:08:01,758 --> 01:08:05,724
and it really sucks that,
I'm not experiencing this
with Violet right now.
1052
01:08:05,724 --> 01:08:08,000
At this moment I don't
know where we're at
1053
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:11,241
and last night to be
honest I wanted to take
a flight home.
1054
01:08:11,241 --> 01:08:13,310
But I had time to think
about it and I
1055
01:08:13,310 --> 01:08:16,758
feel bad about my reaction
to things.
1056
01:08:16,758 --> 01:08:21,413
In the past I've had girl
friends that were not very
honest with me.
1057
01:08:21,413 --> 01:08:24,103
And, I've been hurt.
1058
01:08:24,103 --> 01:08:27,206
So, I'm already there were
I don't necessarily trust
1059
01:08:27,206 --> 01:08:30,034
everything I'm told,
everything I see.
1060
01:08:30,034 --> 01:08:33,758
So, I might have been
a little too sensitive within
the situation,
1061
01:08:33,758 --> 01:08:37,379
but I want to navigate
this with the most clarity
going forward.
1062
01:08:37,379 --> 01:08:38,586
All right, thank you.
1063
01:08:39,517 --> 01:08:40,689
Thank you.
1064
01:08:40,689 --> 01:08:44,172
Are you... you doing anything?
1065
01:08:44,172 --> 01:08:46,344
How about you
go out with me?
1066
01:08:46,344 --> 01:08:48,310
How about you come have
a cigar with me, because uh...
1067
01:08:48,310 --> 01:08:49,827
Yeah, I'm here by myself.
1068
01:08:50,862 --> 01:08:52,000
All right.
1069
01:08:53,586 --> 01:08:54,896
Oh, wow.
1070
01:08:56,689 --> 01:08:59,896
Wow, this is... wow.
1071
01:08:59,896 --> 01:09:02,068
- Nice place, huh?
- Yes, nice.
1072
01:09:02,068 --> 01:09:03,241
We chose a good one.
1073
01:09:05,655 --> 01:09:07,551
- We gotta sit here.
- Wow.
1074
01:09:10,103 --> 01:09:11,793
- Hi.
- Hi. How are you today?
1075
01:09:11,793 --> 01:09:13,965
- Good, how are you?
- I'm good thanks.
1076
01:09:15,724 --> 01:09:17,586
Can we do
1077
01:09:18,827 --> 01:09:21,310
two double shot um,
1078
01:09:22,517 --> 01:09:23,793
- Cube of ice.
- Yes.
1079
01:09:23,793 --> 01:09:25,620
- Uh, you want.
- The same?
1080
01:09:25,620 --> 01:09:27,620
- Same, same.
- Yeah.
1081
01:09:27,620 --> 01:09:29,068
All right, thank you.
1082
01:09:29,068 --> 01:09:31,000
- Uh, cheers.
- Cheers.
1083
01:09:33,793 --> 01:09:36,068
- So how long have you
been here?
- Six days.
1084
01:09:36,068 --> 01:09:38,137
You know, I came
to meet someone.
1085
01:09:38,137 --> 01:09:39,551
- Wow.
- Yeah.
1086
01:09:39,551 --> 01:09:42,379
She's beautiful
but she's uh, she's crazy.
1087
01:09:44,793 --> 01:09:46,206
Uh, okay.
1088
01:09:46,206 --> 01:09:48,206
I don't know. I don't
understand women here.
1089
01:09:49,275 --> 01:09:52,310
We had a argument, 'cause uh,
1090
01:09:52,310 --> 01:09:57,793
my friend who I consider
my sister, asked
her a question.
1091
01:09:57,793 --> 01:09:59,482
What did she ask?
1092
01:10:00,655 --> 01:10:02,620
Um, I met her on an app.
1093
01:10:02,620 --> 01:10:04,724
- And uh... Yeah.
- Dating app? All right.
1094
01:10:04,724 --> 01:10:07,931
And one day I said,
let me see your
sister on the app
1095
01:10:07,931 --> 01:10:09,827
and I went on the app
and she was still on the app.
1096
01:10:09,827 --> 01:10:12,068
- Okay.
- So my friend
asked her
1097
01:10:12,068 --> 01:10:13,275
- Uh...
- what happened?
1098
01:10:14,448 --> 01:10:15,827
So the thing is...
1099
01:10:22,586 --> 01:10:24,000
Okay.
1100
01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:26,655
So from what I'm understanding
she would have been
more accepting
1101
01:10:26,655 --> 01:10:28,551
of that question if that
came from my father
1102
01:10:29,793 --> 01:10:31,413
than a friend.
1103
01:10:31,413 --> 01:10:33,965
- Who have the right,
real right.
- Who has the real right.
1104
01:10:33,965 --> 01:10:35,206
Yeah.
1105
01:10:35,206 --> 01:10:39,068
I don't know if I...
if she tries to explain
that to me
1106
01:10:39,068 --> 01:10:42,137
and I just wasn't hearing it
because I was so upset.
1107
01:10:42,137 --> 01:10:44,413
When her tone to me,
how she was speaking to me
1108
01:10:46,310 --> 01:10:47,206
- Right?
- Yeah.
1109
01:10:51,379 --> 01:10:52,931
Yeah, yeah.
1110
01:10:54,448 --> 01:10:55,517
Yeah.
1111
01:10:55,517 --> 01:10:58,448
- I regret it. I regret
my action.
- All right.
1112
01:10:58,448 --> 01:11:01,551
You need to apologize.
I think.
1113
01:11:01,551 --> 01:11:05,344
Well, last night when
it happened, I got very angry
and I blocked her.
1114
01:11:05,344 --> 01:11:07,206
I think I blocked her.
1115
01:11:07,206 --> 01:11:10,344
- Come on she should be the one
whose blocking you.
- Yeah, I mean...
1116
01:11:14,137 --> 01:11:15,827
Even when I think
I'm right, I'm wrong.
1117
01:11:18,379 --> 01:11:21,965
- So, here's what you
need to do.
- Okay, I'm listening.
1118
01:11:21,965 --> 01:11:23,793
- You need to unblock her
as you know.
- Yeah.
1119
01:11:33,172 --> 01:11:36,655
Thank you, I'm listening.
You know, 'cause I... I
1120
01:11:36,655 --> 01:11:41,655
I came here to discover
our relationship
1121
01:11:41,655 --> 01:11:43,000
to hopefully move it forward.
1122
01:11:45,482 --> 01:11:46,310
That's if she forgives me.
1123
01:11:49,827 --> 01:11:50,724
Biggest.
1124
01:11:51,310 --> 01:11:52,793
Ah!
1125
01:11:52,793 --> 01:11:58,137
Even though, Violet hasn't
been really open
about her past,
1126
01:11:58,137 --> 01:12:02,724
I'm starting to realize that
maybe I've been going about
it the wrong way.
1127
01:12:02,724 --> 01:12:05,379
I need to rethink my approach
when it comes to Violet.
1128
01:12:05,379 --> 01:12:09,620
But in the meantime,
I'm making the first move
unblocking her
1129
01:12:09,620 --> 01:12:12,965
accepting my part
and my role in what happened.
1130
01:12:12,965 --> 01:12:16,620
Because, at the end of the
day I don't wanna throw away
the last two years
1131
01:12:16,620 --> 01:12:18,862
and we owe it to each other
to make this thing work.
1132
01:12:19,965 --> 01:12:22,206
I hope that she's
open to meeting with me
1133
01:12:22,206 --> 01:12:25,034
because after everything that
happened last night, I'm just
hoping that I...
1134
01:12:26,103 --> 01:12:27,000
don't lose her.
1135
01:12:28,931 --> 01:12:30,517
Cheers. Thank you, Tommy.
1136
01:12:30,517 --> 01:12:33,206
- You're... You're the best
tour guy ever.
- Thanks.
1137
01:12:37,379 --> 01:12:40,034
So, before we have ice-cream
1138
01:12:41,413 --> 01:12:43,724
I have something here
for you Jasmine.
1139
01:12:45,103 --> 01:12:46,275
What is it?
1140
01:12:50,551 --> 01:12:51,517
Well...
1141
01:13:01,413 --> 01:13:02,965
Yay.
1142
01:13:02,965 --> 01:13:05,931
- Look man, no hands.
- Gino!
1143
01:13:06,931 --> 01:13:08,448
Always with
the stupidity.
1144
01:13:14,931 --> 01:13:17,241
- Whoo!
- Strong finish.
1145
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:19,724
The brakes.
1146
01:13:19,724 --> 01:13:21,620
- Brake.
- Okay.
1147
01:13:28,068 --> 01:13:29,517
Uh, that was fun.
1148
01:13:32,068 --> 01:13:35,413
Tonight,
Jasmine and I put our
differences aside
1149
01:13:35,413 --> 01:13:37,275
and now we're feeling
good and positive.
1150
01:13:39,137 --> 01:13:41,689
Hey, whose up for
an ice-cream?
1151
01:13:41,689 --> 01:13:44,517
Liz, do you like ice-cream?
1152
01:13:48,931 --> 01:13:52,586
Obviously,
one good night is not gonna
fix all of our problems.
1153
01:13:52,586 --> 01:13:56,551
But I just wanna get
back on track.
1154
01:13:56,551 --> 01:14:00,482
It's like, what the
therapist told us, improving
our relationship
1155
01:14:00,482 --> 01:14:03,689
focusing on ourselves
and trying to improve
on ourselves.
1156
01:14:03,689 --> 01:14:05,517
Instead of pointing
the finger at each other.
1157
01:14:09,206 --> 01:14:10,103
So...
1158
01:14:10,862 --> 01:14:12,275
Before we have ice cream,
1159
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:16,172
I have something for you
here, Jasmine.
1160
01:14:18,344 --> 01:14:19,275
What is it?
1161
01:14:23,517 --> 01:14:24,344
Well...
1162
01:14:26,655 --> 01:14:27,965
I think you might like it.
1163
01:14:29,379 --> 01:14:31,862
If I can open it. Um...
1164
01:14:39,551 --> 01:14:40,448
It's a ring.
1165
01:14:44,655 --> 01:14:46,103
This is a promise ring,
1166
01:14:48,344 --> 01:14:50,103
that I will try harder
1167
01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:54,275
to do better and you know...
1168
01:14:54,275 --> 01:14:56,862
avoid arguments with you
as much as I can
1169
01:14:57,482 --> 01:15:02,241
and to uh, give you more
1170
01:15:02,241 --> 01:15:05,000
uh, what do I say, meat.
1171
01:15:07,379 --> 01:15:12,206
And, uh... you know,
1172
01:15:12,206 --> 01:15:15,620
you know, all the things
the counsellor told us.
1173
01:15:15,620 --> 01:15:19,724
You know, do better
so we can have
a better future
1174
01:15:20,275 --> 01:15:21,724
be married and be happy.
1175
01:15:23,758 --> 01:15:24,724
What do you think?
1176
01:15:26,206 --> 01:15:27,034
Do you like it?
1177
01:15:29,517 --> 01:15:30,448
I do.
1178
01:15:31,344 --> 01:15:33,724
Oh, baby.
1179
01:15:41,103 --> 01:15:43,620
I snuck away
when we were
1180
01:15:43,620 --> 01:15:46,413
at the plaza where they
have the bikes.
1181
01:15:46,413 --> 01:15:49,793
There was like
a vendor selling many
different things.
1182
01:15:49,793 --> 01:15:52,068
And then I see this ring
and it just stood out
and I was like
1183
01:15:52,068 --> 01:15:54,758
"Wow, you know,
I wanna get this for Jasmine."
1184
01:15:54,758 --> 01:15:56,344
I thought he was going to pee.
1185
01:15:59,137 --> 01:16:01,655
Go and get us
ice-cream.
1186
01:16:01,655 --> 01:16:03,758
It's the promise ring,
it's not engagement ring.
1187
01:16:03,758 --> 01:16:06,689
But when Jasmine
gets to the U.S.A
1188
01:16:06,689 --> 01:16:09,517
I will buy an engagement
ring for Jasmine.
1189
01:16:10,482 --> 01:16:12,517
But you know what,
1190
01:16:12,517 --> 01:16:15,965
I like the ring because,
it has two hearts,
1191
01:16:16,965 --> 01:16:18,827
one heart represent you
1192
01:16:18,827 --> 01:16:21,517
- and the other heart is me.
- Yeah.
1193
01:16:21,517 --> 01:16:25,931
Uh... You are romantic,
I like when he is romantic.
1194
01:16:25,931 --> 01:16:27,103
He surprise me.
1195
01:16:32,758 --> 01:16:34,275
Like she's holding?
1196
01:16:35,931 --> 01:16:37,344
Okay.
1197
01:16:38,275 --> 01:16:41,310
Uh, for me, um...
1198
01:16:55,068 --> 01:16:57,482
Me, I'll order mine after.
1199
01:17:01,689 --> 01:17:03,482
I'll order mine later.
1200
01:17:09,620 --> 01:17:10,896
I used to know the word.
1201
01:17:12,206 --> 01:17:14,034
We have had
a lot of arguments
1202
01:17:14,034 --> 01:17:20,379
but just seeing that
this time it's Gino the one
you know, making the effort
1203
01:17:21,172 --> 01:17:22,586
means a lot.
1204
01:17:22,586 --> 01:17:25,965
But I know that I cannot
put all the blame on Gino.
1205
01:17:25,965 --> 01:17:28,206
I also need to work
1206
01:17:28,206 --> 01:17:30,413
on a lot of things to make
this work.
1207
01:17:37,241 --> 01:17:38,655
- That one?
- Which one.
1208
01:17:38,655 --> 01:17:41,241
I didn't... I didn't touch it
with my tongue, I promise.
1209
01:17:46,931 --> 01:17:50,482
Our communication was
not so good in Thailand.
1210
01:17:50,482 --> 01:17:53,689
There is unresolved
stuff between us.
1211
01:17:53,689 --> 01:17:56,137
I thought you were
meeting other people
1212
01:17:56,551 --> 01:17:57,551
cheating.
1213
01:18:18,793 --> 01:18:21,068
I am available.
1214
01:18:21,068 --> 01:18:22,379
You like mashed
potatoes?
1215
01:18:22,379 --> 01:18:24,965
- I love mashed potatoes.
- I know.
1216
01:18:24,965 --> 01:18:27,517
Tonight, Dempsey
is making me dinner
for the first time.
1217
01:18:27,517 --> 01:18:30,862
So this is gonna be my
first vegan meal
made by Dempsey.
1218
01:18:30,862 --> 01:18:34,862
But I think her level
of cooking is different
than mine.
1219
01:18:34,862 --> 01:18:37,206
I'm more of like a
microwave person.
1220
01:18:37,206 --> 01:18:40,344
So, I'm not very good
at chopping things
1221
01:18:40,344 --> 01:18:43,689
not super great and helping
but I'm gonna give it my all.
1222
01:18:44,206 --> 01:18:45,379
Am I doing it right?
1223
01:18:45,379 --> 01:18:47,931
Jesus, wow, you're good
at this.
1224
01:18:49,103 --> 01:18:50,620
Here's your garlic slice.
1225
01:18:50,620 --> 01:18:52,344
- Thank you.
- I love garlic.
1226
01:18:53,379 --> 01:18:54,689
I don't know,
I kind of like it.
1227
01:18:54,689 --> 01:18:56,000
You like it raw.
1228
01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:57,000
I love it raw.
1229
01:18:58,724 --> 01:19:00,862
- Really?
- I dare you to eat
the full garlic.
1230
01:19:02,206 --> 01:19:03,931
I know, I like them apples.
1231
01:19:03,931 --> 01:19:05,241
Oh, it's rough. It's rough.
1232
01:19:07,103 --> 01:19:08,689
Shut up.
1233
01:19:11,862 --> 01:19:13,310
Why is it spicy?
1234
01:19:13,310 --> 01:19:15,758
- Because it's garlic. Yeah.
- Oh.
1235
01:19:15,758 --> 01:19:18,793
Oh, God, 'cause my tongue...
my tongue is on fire.
1236
01:19:18,793 --> 01:19:20,482
You have a hospital nearby?
1237
01:19:24,275 --> 01:19:27,448
- Oh, that's not good.
- No!
1238
01:19:36,172 --> 01:19:37,517
I'm dead.
1239
01:19:37,517 --> 01:19:41,620
Oh, Christ. It still hurts.
It seriously hurts,
still hurts.
1240
01:19:43,068 --> 01:19:46,931
Things are going
really well. I feel very
comfortable with her.
1241
01:19:46,931 --> 01:19:49,758
- Do you want some wine?
Maybe, yeah.
- Maybe.
1242
01:19:49,758 --> 01:19:51,172
It's probably a good idea.
1243
01:19:51,172 --> 01:19:55,482
But there is unresolved
stuff between us.
1244
01:19:55,482 --> 01:19:59,586
So, I feel like in order
for us to have a good
foundation to start off with
1245
01:19:59,586 --> 01:20:02,413
we just need to have
everything that's in the past,
sorted out.
1246
01:20:02,413 --> 01:20:03,482
Yeah, okay.
1247
01:20:03,482 --> 01:20:05,827
- Cheers.
- Cheers to you as well.
Mostly you.
1248
01:20:06,517 --> 01:20:07,689
Mmm-hmm.
1249
01:20:08,586 --> 01:20:10,000
Okay.
1250
01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:13,931
- We're feeling the love,
the good energy.
- Feeling...
1251
01:20:13,931 --> 01:20:15,172
Yeah.
1252
01:20:15,172 --> 01:20:18,379
I wasn't expecting things
to go so well
as they're going.
1253
01:20:18,379 --> 01:20:19,896
Why?
1254
01:20:19,896 --> 01:20:24,655
Because, um, our communication
was not so good in Thailand
I thought.
1255
01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:28,862
Yeah, it wasn't.
I'm sorry about that.
1256
01:20:29,862 --> 01:20:32,620
Yeah, I just felt like
maybe you were,
1257
01:20:32,620 --> 01:20:35,344
doing other things
meeting other people.
1258
01:20:36,827 --> 01:20:40,275
- Cheating. I don't know.
- What? Cheating?
1259
01:20:40,275 --> 01:20:41,241
Mmm-hmm.
1260
01:20:41,965 --> 01:20:43,931
Why would you say that?
1261
01:20:43,931 --> 01:20:47,689
It's like we went from
a lot of communication,
like we talked everyday
1262
01:20:47,689 --> 01:20:51,517
but as soon as your dad left
it just went like
it just went downhill.
1263
01:20:52,206 --> 01:20:54,241
I told you before I went like,
1264
01:20:54,241 --> 01:20:55,862
I'm not going to be speaking
to you as much
1265
01:20:55,862 --> 01:20:58,965
the time is so different,
I don't have Wi-Fi there.
1266
01:20:58,965 --> 01:21:02,310
Wasn't gee, it blows my
mind that you
would think that.
1267
01:21:02,310 --> 01:21:04,551
- Oh, you didn't meet
anyone else.
- No.
1268
01:21:04,551 --> 01:21:07,310
It doesn't even cross
into my mind.
1269
01:21:08,241 --> 01:21:10,344
To meet anybody else.
1270
01:21:10,344 --> 01:21:12,482
Right, but that's easy
for someone to say
1271
01:21:12,482 --> 01:21:14,517
everyone has said that,
you know what I mean.
1272
01:21:14,517 --> 01:21:16,241
I'm just used to,
1273
01:21:16,241 --> 01:21:17,689
people are saying
that and then
1274
01:21:21,275 --> 01:21:24,862
I have cheated on someone
once. Yeah.
1275
01:21:27,862 --> 01:21:29,689
- So, I've never cheated
on anybody,
- Yep.
1276
01:21:30,172 --> 01:21:31,137
ever.
1277
01:21:32,724 --> 01:21:36,172
It's a bit of a
red flag for her to say,
yes, she cheated
1278
01:21:36,172 --> 01:21:39,344
because I'm a massive trusting
person. I don't believe
in cheating
1279
01:21:39,344 --> 01:21:40,827
I've been cheated
on in the past
1280
01:21:41,517 --> 01:21:43,206
It's not something that,
1281
01:21:43,206 --> 01:21:45,586
would even cross my
mind to do.
1282
01:21:46,896 --> 01:21:49,896
I do think that if I'm
gonna be getting accused of
1283
01:21:49,896 --> 01:21:51,793
doing things that
I haven't done
1284
01:21:51,793 --> 01:21:53,827
and just there's
no trust there
1285
01:21:53,827 --> 01:21:55,862
it could just ruin
the whole thing.
1286
01:21:57,241 --> 01:21:59,000
Why would you even feel
that I would even,
1287
01:21:59,862 --> 01:22:01,103
do something like that?
1288
01:22:01,793 --> 01:22:04,448
I guess, I'm just um...
1289
01:22:04,448 --> 01:22:08,068
putting my past relationships
on to you.
1290
01:22:08,068 --> 01:22:10,068
Where I... Where I have
been cheated on.
1291
01:22:10,965 --> 01:22:12,448
I'm not gonna do that.
1292
01:22:12,448 --> 01:22:14,103
- 'Cause you're so into me.
- Yeah.
1293
01:22:16,310 --> 01:22:17,206
Oh!
1294
01:22:18,931 --> 01:22:23,137
This is just embarrassing.
I... I'm embarrassed that I'm
not healed as I should be.
1295
01:22:25,827 --> 01:22:29,241
Can't be south
about stuff. You just
have to learn from that.
1296
01:22:29,241 --> 01:22:31,413
I want us to grow together,
I don't want us to go
1297
01:22:31,413 --> 01:22:33,482
back, I want us to go forward.
1298
01:22:33,482 --> 01:22:35,965
Like, you make me laugh
so much, you make me happy.
1299
01:22:37,517 --> 01:22:38,896
You really make me happy.
1300
01:22:40,517 --> 01:22:42,000
You make me happy too.
1301
01:22:44,758 --> 01:22:45,724
Sorry.
1302
01:22:51,275 --> 01:22:53,344
It's extremely hard
for me to trust people.
1303
01:22:53,344 --> 01:22:58,448
Just from like, being adopted
and being rejected like a lot
during my life.
1304
01:22:58,448 --> 01:23:02,551
But, she gives me
all the things that I really
really need.
1305
01:23:02,551 --> 01:23:05,000
Like, reassurance and safety.
1306
01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:07,655
And at the end of this
whole trip,
1307
01:23:07,655 --> 01:23:10,862
I want to convince her
to let me move in with her.
1308
01:23:11,827 --> 01:23:15,172
By tomorrow, I'm supposed
to meet her dad.
1309
01:23:15,172 --> 01:23:18,896
Which makes me extremely
nervous because he is her
best friend
1310
01:23:18,896 --> 01:23:20,620
and he doesn't know
anything about me.
1311
01:23:21,862 --> 01:23:23,896
I have to have his approval
1312
01:23:23,896 --> 01:23:26,517
or our entire relationship
could be for nothing.
1313
01:23:34,827 --> 01:23:37,448
Next time on,
Before The 90 days...
1314
01:23:37,448 --> 01:23:41,275
Do you know, he is
so into having a super
romantic night.
1315
01:23:43,827 --> 01:23:45,482
Oh, my God.
1316
01:23:45,482 --> 01:23:46,793
Uh-huh, ah...
1317
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:50,793
You've been a bad, bad girl.
1318
01:23:53,310 --> 01:23:55,827
There was lot that was
said last night.
1319
01:23:55,827 --> 01:23:59,344
And I'm feeling just
super confused.
1320
01:23:59,344 --> 01:24:01,206
Okay, what do you
want me to do with you?
1321
01:24:01,206 --> 01:24:05,000
We are not communicating
the same way that we have
been on the phone and I have
1322
01:24:05,000 --> 01:24:06,896
no idea what to do.
1323
01:24:06,896 --> 01:24:08,862
You don't care
about how I feel.
You're not...
1324
01:24:08,862 --> 01:24:10,724
I don't even know
if you're ever like listening.
1325
01:24:12,689 --> 01:24:13,965
Hey!
1326
01:24:13,965 --> 01:24:16,689
I'm nervous about
meeting Razwan's friends
1327
01:24:16,689 --> 01:24:19,448
especially a female friend
that I've never even heard of.
1328
01:24:23,241 --> 01:24:24,517
I'm in love with him.
1329
01:24:24,517 --> 01:24:27,413
When I look in your eyes
and after I look was,
in Razwan's eyes
1330
01:24:27,413 --> 01:24:30,275
it was like, "I love you
so much but I want
to kill you right now."
1331
01:24:31,068 --> 01:24:33,103
It's a toxic relationship.
1332
01:24:35,137 --> 01:24:38,758
I am about to meet her
dad and he has no clue that
we're in a relationship.
1333
01:24:42,068 --> 01:24:45,758
- Yeah, yeah.
- Statler has a thing for
English girls.
1334
01:24:45,758 --> 01:24:49,931
So this my second time
coming to England to meet
an... an English woman.
1335
01:24:53,034 --> 01:24:54,413
Things needs to slow down.
1336
01:24:56,931 --> 01:24:58,000
You okay?
1337
01:25:01,655 --> 01:25:02,758
What happened?
1338
01:25:06,172 --> 01:25:08,482
I feel like I have
been manipulated.
1339
01:25:08,482 --> 01:25:12,689
At this point, there's a slim
chance of relationship
right now.
1340
01:25:16,655 --> 01:25:17,931
I'm worried about you going.
1341
01:25:20,724 --> 01:25:23,827
Last week, the real Carmella
told me she'd be open
to meeting.
1342
01:25:27,206 --> 01:25:28,275
It could be possible.
1343
01:25:29,344 --> 01:25:31,931
I don't know what to expect
but meeting her
1344
01:25:31,931 --> 01:25:34,862
could bring me one step
closer in getting the
closure that I need.