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[Gino] I have something
here for you, Jasmine.

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This is a promise ring.

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That I will try harder
to avoid arguments
and to give you more,

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what can I say? Meat.

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- Yes.
- [laughing]

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Your communication
was not so good in Thailand.

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I just felt like
maybe you were cheating.

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- [chuckles] What?
- [Statler] I don't know.

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Cheating?

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- 'Cause you're so into me.
- [Dempsey] Yeah.

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She gives me all of the things
that I really, really need

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like reassurance and safety.

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But tomorrow,
I'm supposed to meet her dad.

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<i>He is her best friend,</i>

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<i>so I have to have
his approval,</i>

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or our entire relationship
could be for nothing.

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[vocalizing affectionately]

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[woman speaking]

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[chuckles] What?

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No, none.

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[Amanda] None.

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<i>I had asked him</i>

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<i>when we were first
getting to know one another,</i>

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if he saw himself
having children,

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and he told me, "No."

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<i>So I feel like we
don't know each other</i>

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<i>as well as I thought.</i>

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Uh, typically,
I'm kind of the guy

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who waits for the girl
to make the first move. Like...

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Oh, I was, like, I never make
the first move. [chuckles]

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[Christian]
<i>Things are a little awkward
from the pressure</i>

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that I'm putting on myself

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<i>to finally be intimate.</i>

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Maybe it's just something
that will just happen
when it happens.

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Yeah.

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Can you imagine
what it would be like
to live my whole life

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with someone feeling
like they don't really care?

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You have to start acting
from your heart.

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[Meisha] <i>I don't think
this was anything like
I thought it was.</i>

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How could I have been
so off base?

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She's a cam pornstar.

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[Lashanti] Oh, wow.

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I... I'm angry that someone,
like, got me

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with pictures of a pornstar.

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Maybe they're working together
on their scam.

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You never know.

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I am suspicious that Carmella
and Christian

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might have some type
of connection.

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This is very common.
They work in gangs.

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[Tyray] <i>Maybe she can
lead me to him.</i>

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I've come too far
to just stop.

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All right. Grab it from here.
It's easier.

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- [Jasmine] Thank you.
- No, I mean, no, no, no,

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- I mean, grab it from here.
- Oh.

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Oh, I thought you were
gonna help me.

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Well, I'm pulling this one.

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[Jasmine] Oh, my gosh.
[chuckles]

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Jasmine and I
are trying to improve
our relationship together,

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and it's going really well.

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<i>I bought her
a simple promise ring.</i>

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<i>It seemed like
she really liked it.</i>

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<i>So I want to keep
the momentum going</i>

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<i>strong like we have
the last few days.</i>

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The therapist mentioned
that, you know,

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we should try to focus on
building good memories together.

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<i>So we decided to take
a weekend trip getaway
in Western Panama In Boquete.</i>

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And this is, like,
the perfect opportunity

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<i>for us to rekindle
our relationship,</i>

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<i>get back to the way
we used to be,</i>

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having fun,
enjoying each other and...

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...you know, that's...
That's what I want.

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I think we're gonna
make this flight, barely.

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- I hope so.
- Um...

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- And travel.
- Like, look, heavy traffic
right now.

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[Gino] I'm so sorry I caused
a little delay today.

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I was waking up
a bunch of times
throughout the night.

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[Jasmine] And that happened
for you not listening to me.

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- It was the goddamn nachos
that I told you not to order.
- [chuckles]

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- [Jasmine] Because they were
so freaking cheesy.
- [chuckles]

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- [chuckling] Geez.
- [Jasmine] Yeah.

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Yesterday, I ate some nachos,

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and it had tons
of bean dip in it.

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It was, like,
three-quarters bean dip
and maybe a quarter nachos.

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I ate all that bean dip.

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Why the day before a trip?

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Just not smart, you know.

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But they certainly
were delicious.

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[chuckles]

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[Jasmine speaking]

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I want to believe
that this trip
is gonna be good for us.

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This way, baby.

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Hurry up, babe.

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[Gino] Let's do it. Whoo!

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[Jasmine] Oh, my goodness.

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Ooh.

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<i>I hope that it can set up
the mood for</i>

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a romantic time together
with my man.

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- [Gino] We are in Boquete, babe.
- [Jasmine] Boquete.

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[birds chirping]

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Look at those mountains. Unreal.

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[Jasmine] I know.

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Baby, you know
that this trip, like,

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I want to put a lot of effort.
I know that...

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...I need to work
on a lot of things,
you know, like,

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- I promise, baby, I will.
- Same with me.

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Both of us need to work
on stuff.

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Yeah.

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Are you feeling better?

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Diarrhea.

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[chuckles]

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Feel a little better now,

112
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but maybe you can massage
my feet tonight.

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Really? I will massage
every inch of you, baby,
if you want to.

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- [chuckling] I mean, uh...
- [Jasmine chuckling]

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[Gino] <i>Jasmine means
the world to me.</i>

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And I know Jasmine feels like
we're lacking intimacy
in our relationship.

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- Okay, come, my king.
- [Gino] Yeah.

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Look at this place.

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<i>So I want to take
the extra effort to make sure</i>

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that this is a special night.

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Wow!

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This is romantic!

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- Aw.
- [Gino chuckling]

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[Gino] So, baby,
how about some wine?

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Oh, yes, please,
let's set up the mood.

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You look so sexy.

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I just want to know
what is under that robe.

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[chuckles]

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Come. Come.

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[Gina] Oh, you want me to sit?
Come next to you?

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Come, come to bed, baby.

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[exhales]

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[Jasmine] I have something
to show you.

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But you have to wait
for me here.

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Okay.

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- Good boy. [chuckling]
- [chuckling]

137
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I'll be right back.

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- Okay.
- [chuckling]

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<i>But I want to take it
to the next level.</i>

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And I'm just
crossing my fingers

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that I have
a positive reaction from him.

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00:08:03,586 --> 00:08:05,275
- Sit.
- [Gino] Whoa!

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00:08:05,275 --> 00:08:07,103
- [Jasmine] Okay, baby.
- [Gino] Those are sexy boots.

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00:08:07,103 --> 00:08:09,172
[chuckling]

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00:08:10,275 --> 00:08:11,379
It's like a...

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Do you want to take it off?

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- [Gino] Can I?
- Yes. [chuckling]

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00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:19,689
- Oh, my God!
- [laughing]

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- Wow! I get all of this?
- [chuckling]

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Hot. Sexy.

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00:08:27,379 --> 00:08:28,586
[Jasmine speaking]

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Come to bed.

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- Come.
- [Gino] Okay.

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You open.

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This is the gift.

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00:08:43,517 --> 00:08:45,344
- [Gino] Oh, my God.
- You know what it is?

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[Gino] Handcuffs?

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00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,068
- [Jasmine laughs] Yes, baby.
- [Gino] Ooh.

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00:08:49,068 --> 00:08:52,034
- [Jasmine laughing]
- [chuckling]

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[Jasmine] I also have this.

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[both laughing]

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- [Gino] Is this a whip?
- [Jasmine] Yeah.

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00:09:01,206 --> 00:09:02,482
- Yeah, it's a whip.
- [Gino] Oh, this is good.

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00:09:02,482 --> 00:09:03,896
[Jasmine speaking]

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00:09:03,896 --> 00:09:05,793
- [chuckling]
- [Gino] Okay.

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00:09:05,793 --> 00:09:07,068
[laughing]

167
00:09:08,275 --> 00:09:10,620
- [whip cracks]
- [laughing]

168
00:09:10,620 --> 00:09:12,689
Wow! [chuckles]

169
00:09:13,172 --> 00:09:14,965
Be careful with that.

170
00:09:15,379 --> 00:09:16,482
[Gino] Come to daddy.

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00:09:17,482 --> 00:09:19,137
- [Jasmine chuckling]
- [Gino] You love this [bleep].

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00:09:20,482 --> 00:09:22,103
- Yeah, this is good.
- [chuckling]

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00:09:22,103 --> 00:09:24,379
- This is good.
- [laughing]

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00:09:24,379 --> 00:09:27,620
You've been a bad, bad girl.

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00:09:27,620 --> 00:09:29,965
[laughing]

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00:09:30,620 --> 00:09:32,965
- Bad, bad girl.
- [laughing]

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00:09:33,586 --> 00:09:35,793
- Bad
- You know you deserve this.

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00:09:35,793 --> 00:09:36,793
[Jasmine laughing]

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00:09:36,793 --> 00:09:39,793
You will do as I say,
won't you?

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00:09:42,482 --> 00:09:43,620
- [whip cracks]
- [chuckles]

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00:09:43,620 --> 00:09:45,793
I never thought of Gino

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00:09:45,793 --> 00:09:48,068
<i>enjoying this this much.</i>

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00:09:48,068 --> 00:09:49,172
[Gino] I'm the one in control.

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00:09:49,172 --> 00:09:51,310
[laughing]

185
00:09:51,310 --> 00:09:53,000
I like it.

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00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:58,137
Tonight, I feel the most
desire, beautiful woman
on Earth.

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I love this game.

188
00:10:10,793 --> 00:10:12,241
[Gino] I love you.

189
00:10:12,896 --> 00:10:14,068
Oh, yes.

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00:10:14,896 --> 00:10:16,034
Mmm.

191
00:10:33,482 --> 00:10:35,620
[Amanda] It looks scary.

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00:10:35,620 --> 00:10:37,482
[Razvan speaking]

193
00:10:37,482 --> 00:10:43,172
<i>I'm feeling sad
that me and Amanda
lost one week mostly arguing.</i>

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00:10:43,172 --> 00:10:44,793
I really want to make
things work,

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00:10:44,793 --> 00:10:47,517
and to forget about
all of the fights,

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00:10:47,517 --> 00:10:49,758
and start from zero.

197
00:10:50,724 --> 00:10:53,275
<i>So tonight, I prepared
this special night</i>

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<i>going to a Romanian
traditional restaurant.</i>

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00:10:57,206 --> 00:11:02,655
I'm looking forward
to have real fun date night,
to enjoy our time, to relax.

200
00:11:04,172 --> 00:11:06,586
I'm trying. [chuckles]
I'm trying my best.

201
00:11:08,172 --> 00:11:10,241
Almost all the dishes
are Romanian.

202
00:11:12,896 --> 00:11:15,379
How can I read anything?
[chuckling]

203
00:11:15,379 --> 00:11:18,586
- Well, I can tell you.
- [both chuckling]

204
00:11:18,586 --> 00:11:21,310
They have all kind
of strange names.

205
00:11:21,310 --> 00:11:24,586
Like, steak, with pork,
with potatoes.

206
00:11:24,586 --> 00:11:29,172
It's called "After the battle
one has escaped."

207
00:11:29,172 --> 00:11:32,103
- [laughing]
- [Razvan] Yeah.

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00:11:32,103 --> 00:11:35,793
And another one, it's like
the sheep.
[mimics sheep baaing]

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00:11:35,793 --> 00:11:37,379
[laughing]

210
00:11:37,379 --> 00:11:38,758
It's called...

211
00:11:40,206 --> 00:11:42,000
[chuckling]

212
00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:45,689
As we're getting to know
each other more
on a deeper level,

213
00:11:45,689 --> 00:11:47,482
<i>there have been
some challenges.</i>

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00:11:48,793 --> 00:11:50,482
[Amanda laughing]

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00:11:51,517 --> 00:11:53,793
But there is such
a sweet side to him.

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00:11:53,793 --> 00:11:55,965
[Razvan]
And then another thing like

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00:11:58,724 --> 00:12:00,620
Why do you keep
mentioning those?

218
00:12:00,620 --> 00:12:02,482
Because this is how it called,
"The Sword of the King."

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00:12:02,482 --> 00:12:03,586
Burebista.

220
00:12:04,103 --> 00:12:05,724
[Amanda] <i>He makes me laugh.</i>

221
00:12:05,724 --> 00:12:07,172
You know, that's like
a huge thing for me.

222
00:12:07,689 --> 00:12:08,793
Very interesting.

223
00:12:12,620 --> 00:12:15,068
- [Amanda] Oh, my God.
- [both laughing]

224
00:12:16,793 --> 00:12:18,413
- [Razvan]
You don't like pork brain?
- You know exactly

225
00:12:18,413 --> 00:12:20,793
- what I'd say about that.
- This is a very,

226
00:12:27,724 --> 00:12:31,758
Well, I would have to
kindly decline.

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00:12:33,793 --> 00:12:35,310
[Razvan] Hmm.

228
00:12:36,517 --> 00:12:40,482
My parents and my brother
live in Croatia
because my father works there.

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00:12:41,896 --> 00:12:46,172
<i>I want to take Amanda
to meet my family.</i>

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00:12:46,172 --> 00:12:48,241
Me and my family,
we are very close,

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00:12:48,793 --> 00:12:51,413
<i>so it's a big deal.</i>

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00:12:51,413 --> 00:12:55,620
I feel like they
would like Amanda
because she has a good heart,

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00:12:55,620 --> 00:12:58,793
and I feel like
they will feel that.

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00:13:01,517 --> 00:13:04,172
I'm... I'm a little bit afraid
that, you know,

235
00:13:04,172 --> 00:13:06,310
Amanda can be difficult sometimes,

236
00:13:06,310 --> 00:13:10,206
and I don't want her
to be like that
with my parents.

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00:13:10,206 --> 00:13:11,344
They...

238
00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,965
And it really affect
our relationship.

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00:13:17,068 --> 00:13:18,379
[waiter speaking]

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00:13:18,379 --> 00:13:19,689
- [Razvan] Thank you.
- [Amanda] Thank you.

241
00:13:20,482 --> 00:13:22,655
- [Razvan] This looks good.
- [Amanda] Yeah.

242
00:13:23,275 --> 00:13:24,551
[Razvan speaking]

243
00:13:28,103 --> 00:13:31,172
How did your mother
and your ex-wife get along?

244
00:13:32,310 --> 00:13:34,068
[both laughing]

245
00:13:35,206 --> 00:13:38,482
- Not good at all. [laughing]
- Why?

246
00:13:38,482 --> 00:13:41,689
Because my mother
was feeling that, uh,
my ex-wife,

247
00:13:42,379 --> 00:13:45,517
uh, was so controlling,

248
00:13:45,517 --> 00:13:48,344
and for me to do

249
00:13:50,896 --> 00:13:54,275
So you think if I meet
your mom and she likes me,

250
00:13:54,275 --> 00:13:58,793
- then that's better
than your ex-wife?
- [Razvan speaking]

251
00:13:59,517 --> 00:14:01,137
[Amanda]
What if she doesn't like me?

252
00:14:02,724 --> 00:14:05,137
[Razvan speaking]

253
00:14:20,689 --> 00:14:22,689
- Yeah.
- [Razvan speaking]

254
00:14:26,103 --> 00:14:27,689
Even if I were not...

255
00:14:29,724 --> 00:14:33,482
You always...
You always wanted to move
to the United States?

256
00:14:33,482 --> 00:14:34,586
[Razvan speaking]

257
00:14:39,896 --> 00:14:41,034
I didn't know that.

258
00:14:45,896 --> 00:14:47,689
You've never said that
to me before.

259
00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:53,000
If you would have told me that
in the beginning
I would have been like,

260
00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:56,034
"Well, that's
kind of a red flag.
That's a little strange."

261
00:15:00,620 --> 00:15:02,344
You don't think
that's strange?

262
00:15:12,103 --> 00:15:13,241
[Razvan] Something.

263
00:15:14,482 --> 00:15:16,965
It's not about America.
It's about you.

264
00:15:18,896 --> 00:15:20,793
[Amanda]
You have to think of it
from my position.

265
00:15:20,793 --> 00:15:22,517
Like, I'm not trying
to come off as like,

266
00:15:22,517 --> 00:15:23,896
"Oh, I don't trust you,"
or, "I don't believe you,"

267
00:15:23,896 --> 00:15:25,000
but I have to be cautious.

268
00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:26,103
I have to ask these questions,

269
00:15:26,103 --> 00:15:28,862
and I have to truly know
your intentions

270
00:15:29,517 --> 00:15:31,137
because there's so much
at stake.

271
00:15:31,724 --> 00:15:34,482
It's... It's more than
my heart.

272
00:15:34,482 --> 00:15:38,000
It's me, Junior's heart,
Alina's heart,

273
00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:41,172
bringing you into our family,
into our lives.

274
00:15:41,172 --> 00:15:47,310
So, it's even more important
that I know that you're
really with me

275
00:15:47,310 --> 00:15:49,965
because you love me,
and you're not
trying to just...

276
00:15:50,896 --> 00:15:53,758
...I don't know, like,
not be real with me.

277
00:15:57,724 --> 00:15:58,965
[Razvan speaking]

278
00:16:04,724 --> 00:16:07,862
And I don't think
Amanda trusts me.

279
00:16:08,896 --> 00:16:14,068
All I can do
is... is to be me,
and prove through that

280
00:16:14,620 --> 00:16:17,379
I... I want to be with you.

281
00:16:17,379 --> 00:16:21,379
<i>I don't know.
I know it's a hard situation
for her because of the kids,</i>

282
00:16:21,379 --> 00:16:28,000
but it makes me feel insecure
that I invest in someone
my feelings,

283
00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:34,586
and she cannot stop herself,
uh, find, reasons to argue.

284
00:16:36,724 --> 00:16:38,862
I don't know what
she really wants from me.

285
00:16:45,172 --> 00:16:46,551
You look nice.

286
00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:50,896
Today, I'm going to meet
Dempsey's dad.

287
00:16:50,896 --> 00:16:52,482
<i>She hasn't said
that I'm her girlfriend.</i>

288
00:16:52,482 --> 00:16:54,689
<i>I don't think she's said
anything about me.</i>

289
00:16:54,689 --> 00:16:57,620
So I feel like I'm walking
into really rough waters.

290
00:16:57,620 --> 00:17:00,137
[Dempsey speaking]

291
00:17:02,793 --> 00:17:04,689
Yikes. Okay. Wow.

292
00:17:06,379 --> 00:17:07,827
[Whitney] Yeah,
I'm worried about you going.

293
00:17:10,379 --> 00:17:14,172
Last week, the real Carmella
told me that she'd be open
to meeting.

294
00:17:14,172 --> 00:17:17,068
I just wanted to get, like,
the closure that I need.

295
00:17:17,068 --> 00:17:20,965
But I'm concerned about,
you know, your heart
getting broken again.

296
00:17:40,275 --> 00:17:42,068
- [Statler]
I'm gonna go shower.
- [Dempsey] Okay.

297
00:17:44,413 --> 00:17:47,310
- Can you, like,
help me set this up, or...
- Yeah, sure.

298
00:17:47,310 --> 00:17:49,965
This is my first cold shower.

299
00:17:49,965 --> 00:17:52,310
<i>I've been at Dempsey's caravan
for two days,</i>

300
00:17:52,310 --> 00:17:55,068
and things are going
really well.

301
00:17:55,068 --> 00:17:59,103
<i>I feel like she really sees me
and accepts me and gets me.</i>

302
00:17:59,103 --> 00:18:01,241
And it's heavenly.

303
00:18:01,689 --> 00:18:02,965
What do I do here?

304
00:18:04,586 --> 00:18:06,275
I want to eventually
talk to Dempsey

305
00:18:06,275 --> 00:18:09,068
about the possibility
of me moving in with her.

306
00:18:09,068 --> 00:18:12,586
But I'm still
a little concerned
about the living situation.

307
00:18:12,586 --> 00:18:16,137
- [Dempsey] Okay.
So you just turn that. Yeah.
- Just turn it.

308
00:18:17,068 --> 00:18:20,379
If you can get a cold shower,
you can do anything.

309
00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:24,586
[Statler]
<i>Since being at the farm,</i>

310
00:18:24,586 --> 00:18:27,482
<i>I have not had any
kind of bathing</i>

311
00:18:27,482 --> 00:18:31,103
because I'm really nervous
to take a cold shower.

312
00:18:31,103 --> 00:18:33,586
It's already freezing outside.

313
00:18:33,586 --> 00:18:36,034
The thought of being
freezing and wet...

314
00:18:37,103 --> 00:18:39,344
...doesn't seem like
a good mix right now.

315
00:18:41,586 --> 00:18:44,896
I think that's just so easy
for you to say

316
00:18:44,896 --> 00:18:48,793
- in the warmth of the kitchen.
- [both chuckling]

317
00:18:48,793 --> 00:18:51,448
[Statler]
Okay, it's gonna be fine.
It's gonna be fine.

318
00:18:52,482 --> 00:18:53,655
Okay.

319
00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,379
Oh. [chuckling]

320
00:19:00,413 --> 00:19:02,586
Oh, no. [chuckles] Oh, no.

321
00:19:02,586 --> 00:19:03,931
[Dempsey speaking]

322
00:19:04,586 --> 00:19:07,068
- [screaming]
- [Dempsey laughing]

323
00:19:07,068 --> 00:19:11,482
- Oh, God, no. I don't know.
I don't know about this.
- [Dempsey chuckles]

324
00:19:11,482 --> 00:19:13,862
- [Statler screaming]
- [laughing]

325
00:19:14,689 --> 00:19:16,172
[screaming]

326
00:19:16,172 --> 00:19:18,413
[Statler]
Like, my hair is freezing.
Oh, my...

327
00:19:18,413 --> 00:19:20,000
[Dempsey speaking]

328
00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:23,586
There's no chance
of that happening.

329
00:19:23,586 --> 00:19:28,689
I'm wondering
how long it takes for a person
to smell really bad,

330
00:19:28,689 --> 00:19:32,379
because cold showers
is not it. [chuckling]

331
00:19:32,379 --> 00:19:34,000
I made you a smoothie.

332
00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:35,965
Oh, thank you for that.

333
00:19:35,965 --> 00:19:38,586
It's got chia seeds in it.
That's good for your gut.

334
00:19:38,586 --> 00:19:41,655
- Make you feel good
about seeing my dad.
- [Statler] Yeah.

335
00:19:44,586 --> 00:19:46,206
I mean, if I can
get through this,

336
00:19:46,206 --> 00:19:48,172
I think I can get through
meeting your dad.

337
00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:50,586
What did I just say?

338
00:19:50,586 --> 00:19:52,482
If you can get through that
you can get through anything.

339
00:19:52,482 --> 00:19:55,482
I'm just preparing you.
It's all in the prep.

340
00:19:55,482 --> 00:19:57,655
[Statler] <i>Today,
I'm going to meet
Dempsey's dad.</i>

341
00:19:58,310 --> 00:19:59,896
I'm glad she arranged it,

342
00:19:59,896 --> 00:20:04,103
but I'm still feeling anxious
as all hell.

343
00:20:04,103 --> 00:20:05,482
<i>She hasn't said
that I'm her girlfriend.</i>

344
00:20:05,482 --> 00:20:07,482
I don't think she's said
anything about me.

345
00:20:07,482 --> 00:20:11,172
So I feel like I'm walking
into really rough waters,
and it's...

346
00:20:12,379 --> 00:20:14,344
It doesn't feel
super comfortable.

347
00:20:15,275 --> 00:20:16,758
You look nice.

348
00:20:19,482 --> 00:20:22,034
[chuckles] I'm gonna get
my makeup on.

349
00:20:26,586 --> 00:20:31,206
So, like, I know we spoke
a little bit about how

350
00:20:31,206 --> 00:20:35,172
my last ex, yeah,
he got on with her
well at first,

351
00:20:35,172 --> 00:20:38,896
and then stuff just
happened in the relationship,

352
00:20:38,896 --> 00:20:44,000
and my dad obviously then
didn't like, didn't like my ex
after that.

353
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:48,241
- I get that.
- Yeah, he just wants
me to be happy. [sniffles]

354
00:20:50,206 --> 00:20:53,068
- like, he likes you.
- [Statler] I know.

355
00:20:53,068 --> 00:20:56,482
Otherwise, it would jeopardize
a lot.

356
00:20:56,482 --> 00:20:58,482
[Statler] Like,
you wouldn't be with me?

357
00:20:58,482 --> 00:20:59,551
[Dempsey] Um...

358
00:21:03,103 --> 00:21:05,965
Yikes. Okay, wow.

359
00:21:05,965 --> 00:21:10,000
My last relationship,
it was a toxic relationship.

360
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,275
Like, I was so skinny,
I didn't eat, I was ill.

361
00:21:13,275 --> 00:21:16,000
Like my headspace
was so, so bad.

362
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:19,862
<i>And my dad obviously knew
that it ended quite badly.</i>

363
00:21:19,862 --> 00:21:23,206
So I just needed
to get to know Statler
a little bit more

364
00:21:23,206 --> 00:21:26,689
before I took the plunge
to tell my dad about

365
00:21:26,689 --> 00:21:29,068
<i>me and Statler
being in a relationship.</i>

366
00:21:29,068 --> 00:21:33,482
He worries about his girls
and I didn't want him
to worry about me.

367
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:43,379
So, we're going
to Saltburn today.

368
00:21:43,379 --> 00:21:45,793
- Saltburn?
- Saltburn-by-the-sea!

369
00:21:45,793 --> 00:21:48,103
- Saltburn-by-the-sea?
- Yeah. Yeah.

370
00:21:48,103 --> 00:21:52,068
- To have some proper good
English grub.
- [Statler] Mmm.

371
00:21:52,068 --> 00:21:54,103
- [Dempsey] Have you ever been
to the seaside?
- Mmm-hmm.

372
00:21:54,103 --> 00:21:55,413
Whereabouts?

373
00:21:55,413 --> 00:22:02,103
Salcombe, Plymouth, uh, Kingsbridge,

374
00:22:02,103 --> 00:22:05,655
- the Devon area.
- That's a lot of places.

375
00:22:06,310 --> 00:22:07,655
Yeah.

376
00:22:08,793 --> 00:22:12,379
How long did you, like,
spend in England
when you came last time?

377
00:22:12,379 --> 00:22:15,655
Probably, I think four weeks.

378
00:22:16,896 --> 00:22:20,586
Do you feel like you had,
like, the same, like,

379
00:22:20,586 --> 00:22:24,172
connection with her
as you said you do
with me?

380
00:22:24,689 --> 00:22:25,758
[Statler] No.

381
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,000
[sighs]

382
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:46,896
- What?
- What?

383
00:22:46,896 --> 00:22:50,000
- [Statler] I don't know.
- [clears throat, chuckles]

384
00:22:54,482 --> 00:22:58,758
- [Statler] What? Hmm...
- [both laugh]

385
00:23:02,379 --> 00:23:05,793
It just, I don't know,
it just came out. [giggles]

386
00:23:05,793 --> 00:23:09,413
[Dempsey] <i>So, Statler says,
"Oh, to be in love."</i>

387
00:23:09,413 --> 00:23:13,586
She was, like, I think she was
trying to imply something
without saying it,

388
00:23:13,586 --> 00:23:15,896
so I just kind of left it
at that

389
00:23:15,896 --> 00:23:18,655
<i>because we haven't said,
"I love you," yet.</i>

390
00:23:20,793 --> 00:23:25,068
<i>I feel a massive connection
with Statler, but I don't know
what to say.</i>

391
00:23:25,068 --> 00:23:28,379
In my mind, I'm thinking that,

392
00:23:28,379 --> 00:23:31,206
"Like, all her past
relationships have failed

393
00:23:31,206 --> 00:23:34,000
because she's wanted
to move too fast.

394
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,689
She's got, like,
ahead of herself."

395
00:23:36,689 --> 00:23:40,793
<i>And I'm worried that
if she's too full on
in front of my dad</i>

396
00:23:40,793 --> 00:23:42,965
that my dad won't
support the relationship.

397
00:23:46,172 --> 00:23:47,379
Oh, boy.

398
00:23:56,310 --> 00:23:57,655
[exhales heavily]

399
00:24:03,482 --> 00:24:05,655
[sizzling]

400
00:24:21,103 --> 00:24:24,482
[Tyray] <i>It's been over a month
since the meeting
with the private investigator</i>

401
00:24:24,482 --> 00:24:26,586
where I found out that
the love of my life

402
00:24:26,586 --> 00:24:28,965
was actually
a man named Christian

403
00:24:28,965 --> 00:24:31,000
who's been
catfishing me for four years

404
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,448
<i>using photos of a girl
named Carmella.</i>

405
00:24:35,793 --> 00:24:37,793
<i>I'm extremely embarrassed
about what happened.</i>

406
00:24:37,793 --> 00:24:41,586
Um, especially the fact that,
you know, I had to tell this
to my family,

407
00:24:41,586 --> 00:24:43,275
and, you know,
I love that person.

408
00:24:44,103 --> 00:24:46,000
And that's why I'm like...

409
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:47,965
That's the part that
really hurt.

410
00:24:50,206 --> 00:24:54,206
I never stopped messaging
the fake Carmella
AKA Christian.

411
00:24:54,206 --> 00:24:58,689
<i>But whoever it is,
it still ghosted me.</i>

412
00:24:58,689 --> 00:25:02,034
<i>I can't stop thinking
about how this person
was saying that they love me.</i>

413
00:25:02,482 --> 00:25:04,034
I do wanted to kind of know

414
00:25:07,379 --> 00:25:09,896
<i>So, even though
my heart's broken,</i>

415
00:25:09,896 --> 00:25:12,896
I really believe if I was
able to confront this person,

416
00:25:12,896 --> 00:25:16,137
it would give me the closure
I need in order to move on
with my life.

417
00:25:19,862 --> 00:25:23,482
<i>The PI gave me information
to contact the real Carmella.</i>

418
00:25:23,482 --> 00:25:26,793
<i>He said it was possible
that she was working
with the scammer.</i>

419
00:25:26,793 --> 00:25:28,206
<i>I reached out to her,</i>

420
00:25:28,206 --> 00:25:31,482
and amazingly
she got back to me.

421
00:25:31,482 --> 00:25:34,586
<i>I did let her know
that someone had been
using her pictures</i>

422
00:25:34,586 --> 00:25:37,793
<i>to catfish people
and that someone
actually catfished me</i>

423
00:25:37,793 --> 00:25:40,482
<i>using her photos
for the past four years.</i>

424
00:25:40,482 --> 00:25:43,172
Once she did get back,
it was just kind of like,

425
00:25:43,172 --> 00:25:44,862
it was kind of like
a sigh of relief

426
00:25:44,862 --> 00:25:48,862
because it was finally,
felt like I was getting somewhere.

427
00:25:52,965 --> 00:25:55,000
[Whitney speaking]

428
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,689
Yeah, trying to get
everything together
before this trip.

429
00:25:57,689 --> 00:25:59,586
Sorry, this is a little embarrassing.

430
00:25:59,586 --> 00:26:02,586
Don't look at
my underwear, Mom. [chuckles]

431
00:26:02,586 --> 00:26:07,172
<i>At first, I was,
had it in my mindset
I'm going to Barbados.</i>

432
00:26:07,172 --> 00:26:11,862
But the real Carmella
told me that she lives
outside of Denver.

433
00:26:11,862 --> 00:26:14,379
I asked if it was cool
if I come out and visit

434
00:26:14,379 --> 00:26:15,793
so we can talk
about what happened.

435
00:26:15,793 --> 00:26:19,482
<i>And last week she told me
she'd be open to meeting.</i>

436
00:26:19,482 --> 00:26:21,310
Are you gonna be okay
with me gone though?

437
00:26:21,310 --> 00:26:23,689
I do have Shaprea
and Lashanti with me.

438
00:26:23,689 --> 00:26:26,379
- Don't worry about me.
I'm good.
- [Tyray] Okay.

439
00:26:27,206 --> 00:26:28,965
<i>I don't know what to expect.</i>

440
00:26:28,965 --> 00:26:31,965
I didn't feel like I got much
from her in our texting,

441
00:26:31,965 --> 00:26:34,206
<i>and I'm still not
100% convinced</i>

442
00:26:34,206 --> 00:26:37,000
<i>that she doesn't have anything
to do with the situation.</i>

443
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:41,068
So, I feel like
if I meet her face to face,
I could find out more.

444
00:26:43,482 --> 00:26:45,379
[Whitney] I mean,
I'm worried about you going.

445
00:26:49,103 --> 00:26:50,896
I know, you're...
I'm gonna be careful.

446
00:26:50,896 --> 00:26:54,275
That's why I'm being open
with you guys about this
whole thing in a way.

447
00:26:54,275 --> 00:26:55,551
Yeah.

448
00:26:58,896 --> 00:27:00,172
[Tyray] It could be possible

449
00:27:00,172 --> 00:27:03,172
they're just like some type
of circuit that scams people.

450
00:27:03,172 --> 00:27:05,896
I don't know for sure.

451
00:27:05,896 --> 00:27:08,586
I just want to get,
like, get perspective
on what happened.

452
00:27:08,586 --> 00:27:13,310
- 'Cause that might be
the closure that I need.
- But I'm concerned about

453
00:27:13,310 --> 00:27:15,482
you know, your heart
getting broken again.

454
00:27:15,482 --> 00:27:17,689
Just don't want that
to happen.

455
00:27:17,689 --> 00:27:20,758
Yeah, but, like,
I'm not meeting her there to,
like, fall in love with her.

456
00:27:25,103 --> 00:27:27,482
You saw her pretty face
and then you fell in love.

457
00:27:27,482 --> 00:27:28,689
No. [scoffs]

458
00:27:28,689 --> 00:27:30,862
- [Whitney] That's what it was.
- It was more than that.

459
00:27:32,068 --> 00:27:34,137
[Whitney speaking]

460
00:27:51,586 --> 00:27:52,689
- Hey.
- Oh, hey.

461
00:27:52,689 --> 00:27:54,482
- Hey!
- [Lashanti] Hi.

462
00:27:54,482 --> 00:27:56,103
- Hey, hon.
- Are you ready?
We gotta go.

463
00:27:56,103 --> 00:27:57,689
[Tyray] Yeah, I'm ready.

464
00:27:57,689 --> 00:27:59,586
- [Whitney] See you later.
- All right. I love you, okay?

465
00:27:59,586 --> 00:28:01,310
I love you too.
Take care of your brother.

466
00:28:01,310 --> 00:28:03,000
- [Lashanti] All right, Ma.
See you later.
- [Shaprea] Okay, Ma.

467
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,551
- Safe travels.
- [Tyray] All right, bye.

468
00:28:06,206 --> 00:28:08,551
- [Shaprea] Okay, go ahead.
- [Lashanti] Thank you, ma'am.

469
00:28:10,862 --> 00:28:12,034
[softly] All right.

470
00:28:12,896 --> 00:28:15,241
I am coming
at a vulnerable place.

471
00:28:17,068 --> 00:28:18,793
<i>And I don't know
how I'm gonna react</i>

472
00:28:18,793 --> 00:28:20,206
when I see the face
of the person

473
00:28:20,206 --> 00:28:21,655
that I thought
was my first love.

474
00:28:22,965 --> 00:28:25,931
[chuckles excitedly]
Now we're here at the airport.

475
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,275
<i>I am afraid
that I might end up</i>

476
00:28:30,275 --> 00:28:32,068
channeling the energy and love
that I have

477
00:28:32,068 --> 00:28:35,068
for the old Carmella
for the real Carmella.

478
00:28:35,068 --> 00:28:37,413
- [Lashanti] You ready ready?
- [Tyray] I'm ready.

479
00:28:37,413 --> 00:28:40,586
<i>But meeting her
could bring me one step closer</i>

480
00:28:40,586 --> 00:28:43,000
<i>in getting the closure
that I need.</i>

481
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,137
I know it's crazy,
but it's the last option
I have.

482
00:28:48,068 --> 00:28:50,931
This is it.
No turning back now.

483
00:28:54,862 --> 00:28:56,758
[Cleo speaking]

484
00:29:00,586 --> 00:29:01,862
Meaning what?

485
00:29:01,862 --> 00:29:05,068
- Girl, you know what I mean.
- [laughs]

486
00:29:05,068 --> 00:29:09,379
And was he comfortable
with the whole process?

487
00:29:30,586 --> 00:29:32,310
It's a really cute place.

488
00:29:33,586 --> 00:29:36,034
<i>I have a university lecture
to attend later today,</i>

489
00:29:36,034 --> 00:29:38,482
but first I'm having tea
with my friend, Jane.

490
00:29:38,482 --> 00:29:42,344
- Hi, um,
I will have a chai latte.
- [barista] Hi.

491
00:29:42,344 --> 00:29:45,000
Even though Christian
has only been here
for a short time,

492
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,896
<i>we've already had
a lot of ups and downs.</i>

493
00:29:47,896 --> 00:29:51,482
<i>So, I hope that
talking to Jane</i>

494
00:29:51,482 --> 00:29:53,344
will help me process things.

495
00:29:53,344 --> 00:29:57,172
<i>She's like a rock to me,
and she's somebody
I can rely on.</i>

496
00:29:57,172 --> 00:29:59,482
- How are things with you?
- [Jane] It's okay.

497
00:29:59,482 --> 00:30:01,586
I mean, the usual, work.

498
00:30:01,586 --> 00:30:04,379
- Workaholic.
You're a workaholic.
- Workaholic. [laughs]

499
00:30:04,379 --> 00:30:06,551
- You're a total workaholic.
- [Jane speaking]

500
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:08,275
Tell me everything.

501
00:30:08,275 --> 00:30:10,034
[Cleo] I would say,

502
00:30:10,034 --> 00:30:13,137
at the beginning,
things were a little rough.

503
00:30:13,862 --> 00:30:15,586
But I have strong feelings
for him.

504
00:30:15,586 --> 00:30:19,310
I really, really,
really like Christian and...

505
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:29,655
Okay.

506
00:30:30,896 --> 00:30:32,275
[both laughing]

507
00:30:32,275 --> 00:30:36,482
I feel like something
happened last night.

508
00:30:36,482 --> 00:30:38,172
- [Cleo] Yes.
- Spill the tea.

509
00:30:38,172 --> 00:30:40,034
[Cleo] Yesterday,
we had an amazing date.

510
00:30:40,034 --> 00:30:41,586
I actually loved it.

511
00:30:41,586 --> 00:30:47,448
We ordered some wine,
and he brought with him
the virtual reality set.

512
00:30:47,448 --> 00:30:50,482
- We played this kind of
zombie-killing game.
- Okay.

513
00:30:50,482 --> 00:30:51,896
So, that was great.

514
00:30:51,896 --> 00:30:55,448
And then after that
we got ready and,
you know, went to bed.

515
00:30:55,448 --> 00:30:59,586
But then suddenly Christian
starts to act sort of weird.

516
00:30:59,586 --> 00:31:04,068
And at that point, he said,
"I am a guy who never
ever makes the first move."

517
00:31:04,068 --> 00:31:05,862
Mmm.

518
00:31:05,862 --> 00:31:07,689
[Cleo] And I said to him,
"Well, I'm not somebody that's

519
00:31:07,689 --> 00:31:09,793
gonna make the first move,
and you know that."

520
00:31:09,793 --> 00:31:11,896
- It was obviously awkward...
- [Jane chuckles] Awkward.

521
00:31:11,896 --> 00:31:13,482
...as hell.

522
00:31:13,482 --> 00:31:16,689
But then after that,
we turned off the lights.

523
00:31:16,689 --> 00:31:19,068
He basically started to
kiss my cheek.

524
00:31:19,068 --> 00:31:25,689
And we ended up taking
our relationship to, like,
you know, the next level.

525
00:31:25,689 --> 00:31:27,482
Meaning what?

526
00:31:27,482 --> 00:31:31,448
- Girl, you know what I mean.
- [giggling]

527
00:31:31,448 --> 00:31:34,862
[chuckles] Christian and I
had sex last night.

528
00:31:36,137 --> 00:31:39,344
<i>One thing led to another
and it was really nice.</i>

529
00:31:39,344 --> 00:31:40,793
<i>I would say that our sex</i>

530
00:31:40,793 --> 00:31:44,482
was romantic, for sure,
and passionate.

531
00:31:44,482 --> 00:31:48,965
Like I felt we were
making love rather than
just having sex.

532
00:31:49,793 --> 00:31:51,689
The thing is I felt that

533
00:31:51,689 --> 00:31:54,586
all of the sort of chemistry
that we probably had

534
00:31:54,586 --> 00:31:57,482
in our head
or the infatuation,

535
00:31:57,482 --> 00:31:58,793
it was definitely there.

536
00:31:58,793 --> 00:32:01,034
- You know, the attraction...
- Mmm-hmm.

537
00:32:01,034 --> 00:32:03,068
...it was all there.

538
00:32:03,068 --> 00:32:08,517
And was he, like, comfortable
with, with the whole process?

539
00:32:11,379 --> 00:32:14,482
Like, you know,
me being the first trans woman
that he's ever dated,

540
00:32:14,482 --> 00:32:16,482
and then, of course I've got,
you know,

541
00:32:16,482 --> 00:32:18,586
kind of complexes
about the fact, you know,

542
00:32:18,586 --> 00:32:20,241
there's still certain,
you know,

543
00:32:20,241 --> 00:32:23,448
transition-related surgeries
that I'd like to get.

544
00:32:23,448 --> 00:32:25,793
I probably might be
more androgynous.

545
00:32:25,793 --> 00:32:28,137
Yes, obviously
I did feel like maybe,

546
00:32:28,137 --> 00:32:30,965
- you know,
he would be awkward about it.
- Mmm-hmm.

547
00:32:32,137 --> 00:32:34,379
But he just wasn't, you know?

548
00:32:34,379 --> 00:32:39,000
So, you know,
just a girl having a good time
and a guy having a good time.

549
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,482
- It's good.
- [Cleo] Yeah.

550
00:32:41,482 --> 00:32:44,586
<i>I am feeling super positive
after last night.</i>

551
00:32:44,586 --> 00:32:47,172
Everything just felt
super natural,

552
00:32:47,172 --> 00:32:50,000
and it gave me hope that

553
00:32:59,586 --> 00:33:03,758
[Christian] Now how do I
get this going without
burning down the whole place?

554
00:33:05,068 --> 00:33:06,724
[whispers] Okay, here we go.

555
00:33:12,275 --> 00:33:19,034
Um, yeah. Things, I guess,
I guess you could consider
things a little awkward, um,

556
00:33:19,034 --> 00:33:21,344
we were kind of at an impasse.

557
00:33:21,344 --> 00:33:26,172
But I kind of just
bit the bullet and ended up
making the first move anyway.

558
00:33:26,172 --> 00:33:30,034
[smacks lips] So, yeah,
uh, it was a good night.

559
00:33:30,965 --> 00:33:32,206
[exclaims] Oh!

560
00:33:34,793 --> 00:33:36,689
I didn't really say anything.
I just turned around

561
00:33:36,689 --> 00:33:38,379
and I just started
giving her a kiss

562
00:33:38,379 --> 00:33:41,655
and then, yeah, we hooked up.

563
00:33:43,034 --> 00:33:45,586
[Christian] Um, uh, no.

564
00:33:45,586 --> 00:33:49,586
But let's just say
we hit a couple of bases, uh,

565
00:33:49,586 --> 00:33:53,344
you could say we got a double.

566
00:33:53,344 --> 00:33:56,448
Yeah, no, uh, no home run.

567
00:33:56,448 --> 00:33:59,965
[stutters] Kind of
working our way up to that.
[chuckles]

568
00:34:03,068 --> 00:34:05,793
So, I'm glad that he made
the first move.

569
00:34:05,793 --> 00:34:07,689
But, like,
do you have a question,

570
00:34:07,689 --> 00:34:11,586
"Why in the beginning
it was being so awkward?"

571
00:34:11,586 --> 00:34:15,000
[Cleo] I don't see the reason
why he would be apprehensive
about that.

572
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,000
It just felt
super out of character.

573
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,689
Because deep down,
I know he's attracted to me.

574
00:34:20,689 --> 00:34:22,689
And maybe it was because
both of us,

575
00:34:22,689 --> 00:34:24,241
both of us were in our heads.

576
00:34:24,241 --> 00:34:26,551
And I feel he was
in his heads, head a lot.

577
00:34:32,586 --> 00:34:34,034
- So...
- [Jane] Yeah. Mmm-hmm.

578
00:34:38,482 --> 00:34:41,000
I was very surprised
that Christian said

579
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,068
he's not the person
to make the first move

580
00:34:43,068 --> 00:34:47,344
because from all
of the stories that, um,
Cleo shared to me so far,

581
00:34:47,344 --> 00:34:50,586
<i>I know he's very outgoing.
He's very extroverted.</i>

582
00:34:50,586 --> 00:34:53,379
I think considering that
Christian has never dated
a transgender woman,

583
00:34:53,379 --> 00:34:57,793
<i>I might be wrong,
but I feel like maybe
he was having some concerns</i>

584
00:34:57,793 --> 00:35:00,965
<i>with, with having a sexual
relationship with Cleo.</i>

585
00:35:00,965 --> 00:35:04,137
Uh, and that,
that is a little bit worrying.

586
00:35:04,137 --> 00:35:08,793
<i>Cleo definitely deserves
to be validated and desired
by the man she's with,</i>

587
00:35:08,793 --> 00:35:12,137
and I just hope that
he's being honest with her
about that.

588
00:35:12,137 --> 00:35:16,241
All I can say, I'd be careful,
and, and, like, try to see

589
00:35:16,241 --> 00:35:19,000
the person for who they are,
for their actions,

590
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,448
rather for who you want them
to be.

591
00:35:27,344 --> 00:35:30,034
There is a lot
that was said last night,

592
00:35:30,034 --> 00:35:33,137
and I'm feeling
just super confused.

593
00:35:33,137 --> 00:35:35,275
Okay, what do you
want me to do, Meisha?

594
00:35:35,275 --> 00:35:38,862
[Meisha] <i>We're not
communicating the same way</i>
that we have been on the phone

595
00:35:38,862 --> 00:35:40,344
and I have no idea what to do.

596
00:36:03,482 --> 00:36:05,172
- Nicola.
- [Nicola] Yes?

597
00:36:05,172 --> 00:36:08,068
- I'm gonna go down
to get coffee.
- [Nicola] Okay, sweetie.

598
00:36:15,172 --> 00:36:18,103
Oh, my Lord,
there is no coffee here.

599
00:36:19,551 --> 00:36:20,827
What is this?

600
00:36:23,275 --> 00:36:24,689
[sighs]

601
00:36:26,275 --> 00:36:31,172
Last night, Nicola and I
had the biggest fight
that we've ever had.

602
00:36:32,862 --> 00:36:35,793
<i>We're not communicating
the same way that we have been</i>

603
00:36:35,793 --> 00:36:37,689
<i>on the phone for many,
many years.</i>

604
00:36:37,689 --> 00:36:42,344
<i>And it seems like
Nicola doesn't really care
about my feelings.</i>

605
00:36:43,172 --> 00:36:45,275
And I have no idea what to do,

606
00:36:45,275 --> 00:36:48,344
and not only is that scary,
but it's really sad.

607
00:36:50,586 --> 00:36:53,034
I just had to get out
of that room right away.

608
00:36:53,034 --> 00:36:57,103
There are so many bad emotions
in that room.

609
00:36:57,103 --> 00:36:59,965
I'm, like,
trying to remain hopeful.

610
00:36:59,965 --> 00:37:02,586
I'm looking for any little
crack in the door

611
00:37:02,586 --> 00:37:06,379
that maybe
this could be salvageable.

612
00:37:06,379 --> 00:37:09,379
[sighs] But right now,
as it stands right now,

613
00:37:09,379 --> 00:37:12,068
I'm feeling
very depleted of hope.

614
00:37:27,172 --> 00:37:28,758
Meisha,

615
00:37:28,758 --> 00:37:30,655
you say you want to
go drink coffee,

616
00:37:30,655 --> 00:37:32,103
but why you don't come back?

617
00:37:32,862 --> 00:37:33,931
Yeah.

618
00:37:38,275 --> 00:37:39,965
[slowly] I'm not sad.

619
00:37:39,965 --> 00:37:43,344
It's just that there is a lot
that was said last night.

620
00:37:44,448 --> 00:37:49,172
We went to bed not good,
in a good space.

621
00:37:49,172 --> 00:37:52,275
So, it's not sad,
it's more like there is a lot,

622
00:37:52,275 --> 00:37:57,551
and I'm feeling
just super confused,
like, what to do here.

623
00:37:59,586 --> 00:38:01,551
Okay, what do you
want me to do, Meisha?

624
00:38:01,551 --> 00:38:04,862
In order to fix this problem,
problem between us, honesty.

625
00:38:04,862 --> 00:38:06,862
Whatever you want,
I will do for you.

626
00:38:07,758 --> 00:38:11,172
Nico, do you know
what the problem is?

627
00:38:11,172 --> 00:38:12,275
Do you know?

628
00:38:12,275 --> 00:38:15,172
- I think I know, Meisha.
- [Meisha] Okay, what?

629
00:38:15,172 --> 00:38:21,482
You, you don't like
certain way how I behave.

630
00:38:21,482 --> 00:38:24,758
And I really want to
work on it, Meisha,
because I love you.

631
00:38:24,758 --> 00:38:28,862
Because I love you,
and I want this relationship
to work out for us.

632
00:38:31,793 --> 00:38:35,275
This morning,
still there is the tension
between me and Meisha.

633
00:38:35,275 --> 00:38:40,103
<i>I realized that
some of the problem that
me and Meisha experiencing</i>

634
00:38:42,275 --> 00:38:44,241
<i>I am little bit shy.</i>

635
00:38:50,275 --> 00:38:53,965
<i>And I think that's what
maybe Meisha want, you know?</i>

636
00:38:53,965 --> 00:38:55,448
<i>The affection.</i>

637
00:38:55,448 --> 00:38:59,172
So, I think I need to
start changing for Meisha.

638
00:39:00,379 --> 00:39:03,482
I am happy
that you came down here,

639
00:39:03,482 --> 00:39:05,965
and that there is
a different tone with you

640
00:39:05,965 --> 00:39:08,172
right now than there was
last night.

641
00:39:08,172 --> 00:39:12,172
So for me, my, my fear is that

642
00:39:12,172 --> 00:39:14,103
you don't care about
how I feel, you're,
you're not--

643
00:39:14,103 --> 00:39:16,275
I don't even know if
you're ever, like, listening,

644
00:39:16,275 --> 00:39:20,482
and the only reason
I'm tolerating this

645
00:39:20,482 --> 00:39:25,896
is because I do know
that Nicola that I've been
talking to

646
00:39:25,896 --> 00:39:29,172
for almost seven years,
that's the person
I'm wondering,

647
00:39:29,172 --> 00:39:33,344
"is that who it is,
or is this Nicola here
that doesn't really care?"

648
00:39:35,275 --> 00:39:37,758
[softly] Forgive me,
if I hurt you.

649
00:39:37,758 --> 00:39:41,965
Forgive me, if I did something
to you wrong.

650
00:39:41,965 --> 00:39:47,931
[clicks tongue]
I think I need to be
more gentle with you.

651
00:39:48,689 --> 00:39:53,965
More sweet, like you like.

652
00:39:53,965 --> 00:39:57,379
You're such a good to me,
Meisha, you teach me
a lot in life.

653
00:39:57,379 --> 00:39:59,275
You love God so much.

654
00:39:59,275 --> 00:40:01,034
Your laugh,

655
00:40:01,034 --> 00:40:04,482
Look how you laugh.
Ha-ha-ha-ha. I mean,
I love this laugh. [laughs]

656
00:40:04,482 --> 00:40:06,241
It's so cute!

657
00:40:07,551 --> 00:40:09,620
You're very friendly
with people.

658
00:40:10,103 --> 00:40:11,896
You have a good heart.

659
00:40:11,896 --> 00:40:13,758
I don't see
many women like you.

660
00:40:13,758 --> 00:40:15,241
Beautiful!

661
00:40:19,275 --> 00:40:21,344
- [Meisha] That's so sweet.
- I'm crazy about you.

662
00:40:26,034 --> 00:40:29,344
I know you have experience,
but relationship need time.

663
00:40:30,689 --> 00:40:34,034
I like this, that there was
a little bit more tenderness,

664
00:40:34,034 --> 00:40:36,379
and that we could
get somewhere.

665
00:40:36,379 --> 00:40:42,551
And I love how you care
about me over the phone,
how you've loved me.

666
00:40:42,551 --> 00:40:47,172
I can't get my mind off of
how it's always been
for seven years,

667
00:40:47,172 --> 00:40:48,862
and that's why I'm still here.

668
00:40:50,896 --> 00:40:55,862
Neither one of us know
what's gonna happen
in the end, right?

669
00:40:55,862 --> 00:40:58,482
God will give us
the grace, Meisha, you know?

670
00:40:58,482 --> 00:41:00,068
He will always do what's best.

671
00:41:01,172 --> 00:41:04,896
Yeah, I will do everything,
Meisha, that you will be happy.

672
00:41:04,896 --> 00:41:08,068
I really concern
what you're feeling.

673
00:41:09,896 --> 00:41:12,379
[Meisha] <i>Hearing Nicola say
the reasons why he loves me,</i>

674
00:41:12,379 --> 00:41:15,379
<i>it certainly doesn't fix
all of our problems
at this point,</i>

675
00:41:15,379 --> 00:41:19,034
but what it does is
it kinda brings us
back to center

676
00:41:19,034 --> 00:41:20,862
where we can
take a deep breath

677
00:41:20,862 --> 00:41:24,275
and hopefully
continue building.

678
00:41:24,275 --> 00:41:28,103
<i>I do love him,
and I want to believe</i>

679
00:41:28,103 --> 00:41:29,965
that we have
a future together.

680
00:41:29,965 --> 00:41:32,758
<i>But we only have
one week left.</i>

681
00:41:32,758 --> 00:41:34,758
<i>I have to start
seeing a person</i>

682
00:41:34,758 --> 00:41:37,275
<i>who is loving
and caring of me.</i>

683
00:41:37,275 --> 00:41:40,172
<i>That really is going to
depend on Nicola</i>

684
00:41:40,172 --> 00:41:43,862
having an ability
and willingness
to change a little bit.

685
00:41:43,862 --> 00:41:45,379
I will never give up on you.

686
00:41:45,379 --> 00:41:47,482
- [church bell tolling]
- [Nicola] That's what
I will tell you, and look,

687
00:41:47,482 --> 00:41:49,275
- the church bell, Meisha.
- Yes, I know.

688
00:41:49,275 --> 00:41:50,620
- That's mean--
- I love that.

689
00:41:57,758 --> 00:42:01,034
My lease is up back home
pretty much, like,

690
00:42:01,034 --> 00:42:02,689
a month after I come back.

691
00:42:02,689 --> 00:42:06,172
So, I'm considering
moving over here.

692
00:42:07,275 --> 00:42:09,689
[Richard] <i>Statler wants to
move to England.</i>

693
00:42:09,689 --> 00:42:11,896
Just a complete
and utter shock.

694
00:42:11,896 --> 00:42:14,172
<i>Things need to slow down.</i>

695
00:42:16,103 --> 00:42:19,241
[crying]

696
00:42:20,172 --> 00:42:21,551
[Jane clicks tongue] Aw.

697
00:42:22,275 --> 00:42:24,689
<i>Christian and I
got into an argument</i>

698
00:42:24,689 --> 00:42:27,482
and it's really broken
my trust in him.

699
00:42:27,482 --> 00:42:29,551
<i>I feel like
I've been manipulated.</i>

700
00:42:29,551 --> 00:42:31,758
And I don't know
who he is anymore.

701
00:42:52,689 --> 00:42:54,551
[Dempsey speaking]

702
00:42:54,551 --> 00:42:57,068
I feel a bit lightheaded
all of a sudden.

703
00:42:58,241 --> 00:43:00,137
[sniffs] Fish and chips
would be good.

704
00:43:00,137 --> 00:43:01,896
Just don't talk about
food right now, probably.

705
00:43:01,896 --> 00:43:04,000
I'm feeling sick.

706
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,793
<i>We were just
driving to the pier
to meet Dempsey's dad</i>

707
00:43:06,793 --> 00:43:08,275
for the first time

708
00:43:08,275 --> 00:43:10,862
and I'm nervous as all hell.

709
00:43:12,689 --> 00:43:14,551
<i>Here I am
about to meet her dad</i>

710
00:43:14,551 --> 00:43:17,551
and he has no clue
that we're in a relationship.

711
00:43:17,551 --> 00:43:21,379
There's a part of me
that wants to just sprint off.

712
00:43:21,379 --> 00:43:23,241
Boom, off to the boardwalk,

713
00:43:23,241 --> 00:43:24,551
maybe into the ocean,

714
00:43:24,551 --> 00:43:26,344
<i>to never be seen again,</i>

715
00:43:26,344 --> 00:43:29,379
and I'm wishing
I wore black pants

716
00:43:29,379 --> 00:43:31,448
just in case
I accidentally [bleep] myself.

717
00:43:32,068 --> 00:43:33,551
[both chuckling]

718
00:43:33,551 --> 00:43:34,793
Hi.

719
00:43:34,793 --> 00:43:36,448
- Hiya. You all right?
- Yeah.

720
00:43:36,448 --> 00:43:38,068
[both speak muffled]

721
00:43:38,068 --> 00:43:39,379
[Dempsey] Mwah.

722
00:43:39,379 --> 00:43:40,586
- Hello.
- Hello. Hi.

723
00:43:40,586 --> 00:43:42,000
- This is Statler.
- Nice to meet ya.

724
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:43,448
Nice to meet you.

725
00:43:43,448 --> 00:43:45,379
- It's like...
- [Richard] okay.

726
00:43:45,379 --> 00:43:46,965
I'll sit there and...

727
00:43:50,344 --> 00:43:52,344
- How've you been?
- Good.

728
00:43:52,344 --> 00:43:53,862
- All right?
- Erm...

729
00:43:55,689 --> 00:43:57,551
[chuckles nervously]

730
00:43:58,448 --> 00:44:00,758
Er, yeah. How's your coffee?

731
00:44:01,586 --> 00:44:03,241
[both laugh nervously]

732
00:44:07,689 --> 00:44:10,862
Well, it's just a little bit
awkward, isn't it?

733
00:44:13,689 --> 00:44:16,793
Erm... so you know,
when I told you about
Statler a little bit?

734
00:44:16,793 --> 00:44:18,241
- You know,
we were talking and stuff?
- Yeah?

735
00:44:18,896 --> 00:44:20,448
Er...

736
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:23,068
[Richard] And?

737
00:44:23,068 --> 00:44:24,689
[Dempsey] Er...

738
00:44:24,689 --> 00:44:27,137
- We're in
a relationship. Yeah.
- Yeah?

739
00:44:32,655 --> 00:44:35,448
[sighs] Erm,
around seven months.

740
00:44:36,448 --> 00:44:37,448
Oh.

741
00:44:38,689 --> 00:44:41,137
[Richard] Long distance
relationship, then?

742
00:44:41,137 --> 00:44:42,862
[Dempsey speaking]

743
00:44:50,896 --> 00:44:52,241
[chuckling] "Why not?"

744
00:44:52,241 --> 00:44:53,241
Why not?

745
00:44:53,241 --> 00:44:54,310
I know you don't get it.

746
00:44:59,172 --> 00:45:01,068
You can...
You can join in any time.

747
00:45:01,068 --> 00:45:03,517
- [all laughing]
- [Dempsey speaking]

748
00:45:04,379 --> 00:45:06,000
So we both
liked each other on the app

749
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:10,000
and then, uh, we just
started talking and,
you know, getting, kind of,

750
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,551
like, emotional and deep
about things and...

751
00:45:12,551 --> 00:45:15,586
- Of course,
I want to meet her in person.
- [Richard] Okay.

752
00:45:15,586 --> 00:45:19,344
So I'm here and, you know,
things are even better
in person, I feel.

753
00:45:20,793 --> 00:45:22,137
Statler's quite
an awkward person.

754
00:45:22,137 --> 00:45:23,482
I'm quite
an awkward person. Yes.

755
00:45:23,482 --> 00:45:25,172
- [Richard] Oh, yeah?
- Yeah. Yeah.

756
00:45:25,172 --> 00:45:27,482
- Ooh. Eeh.
- [Dempsey chuckling]

757
00:45:27,482 --> 00:45:29,206
[Dempsey and Statler laughing]

758
00:45:30,482 --> 00:45:32,517
- Fish and chips. Yeah.
- [Richard] Yeah. Traditional.

759
00:45:36,137 --> 00:45:37,655
[Statler] Not this time.

760
00:45:37,655 --> 00:45:40,068
Have you been
to England before?

761
00:45:40,068 --> 00:45:44,206
Yeah. Yeah, I've, uh...
[laughing nervously]

762
00:45:45,448 --> 00:45:48,206
- I... I...
- [Dempsey] Statler has a thing
for English girls.

763
00:45:50,793 --> 00:45:52,275
[Statler laughs awkwardly]

764
00:45:52,275 --> 00:45:55,689
- So, this is my second time
coming to England to meet...
- [Richard] Okay.

765
00:45:55,689 --> 00:45:57,551
To meet an Englishwoman.

766
00:46:00,896 --> 00:46:06,068
Dempsey, she said
she'd been messaging
an American girl,

767
00:46:06,068 --> 00:46:10,655
but I wasn't aware
there was any sparks
of a relationship

768
00:46:10,655 --> 00:46:12,241
till today.

769
00:46:13,448 --> 00:46:15,448
[Richard] Yeah. I want, er...

770
00:46:17,241 --> 00:46:19,655
I want, uh,
fish and chips and peas.

771
00:46:19,655 --> 00:46:20,655
[Dempsey] All right.

772
00:46:20,655 --> 00:46:25,137
Dempsey's last relationship
wasn't a good one.

773
00:46:25,137 --> 00:46:26,448
It ended badly.

774
00:46:27,137 --> 00:46:29,068
<i>Erm, I'm very protective.</i>

775
00:46:29,068 --> 00:46:31,551
<i>I want just the best for her.</i>

776
00:46:31,551 --> 00:46:34,551
So, I hope she never has to
go through that again.

777
00:46:36,586 --> 00:46:42,482
What about your, erm,
previous relationship
with the, er, Brit?

778
00:46:42,482 --> 00:46:45,896
You know, we talked
for a couple of months first
before I came over

779
00:46:45,896 --> 00:46:49,655
and, uh, I was gonna
move to England

780
00:46:49,655 --> 00:46:51,793
'cause I was,
you know, in love.

781
00:46:51,793 --> 00:46:55,068
But she said, you know,
that that's too fast for her.

782
00:46:55,068 --> 00:46:58,068
So at that point,
she just kind of ended
the relationship and...

783
00:47:03,793 --> 00:47:04,758
[Statler chuckles]

784
00:47:05,655 --> 00:47:08,172
My lease is up back home,

785
00:47:08,172 --> 00:47:11,551
uh, well, pretty much
like a month after
I come back.

786
00:47:11,551 --> 00:47:14,344
So Dempsey and I haven't
really talked about it,

787
00:47:15,482 --> 00:47:18,379
but it might be
something I'm considering,
moving over here

788
00:47:18,379 --> 00:47:20,137
and moving in with her.

789
00:47:21,379 --> 00:47:22,896
I know it's pretty fast.

790
00:47:22,896 --> 00:47:24,137
Pretty fast.

791
00:47:32,551 --> 00:47:33,758
- Heya.
- [Dempsey] Hello!

792
00:47:38,172 --> 00:47:39,310
[Statler] Yum.

793
00:47:40,551 --> 00:47:41,793
There we go, guys.

794
00:47:41,793 --> 00:47:43,655
- [Dempsey] Are we all good?
- [Richard] Yeah,
we're all good.

795
00:47:43,655 --> 00:47:45,068
- Here?
- Yeah.

796
00:47:45,068 --> 00:47:46,137
[Statler] It's fish and chips.

797
00:47:47,551 --> 00:47:49,068
The most English meal.

798
00:47:49,068 --> 00:47:50,655
- [Richard] It is.
- [Statler] I guess.

799
00:47:50,655 --> 00:47:51,965
- [chuckles]
- [Richard] It is.

800
00:47:53,068 --> 00:47:55,689
[Richard] <i>Statler seems
a really, really nice girl</i>

801
00:47:55,689 --> 00:47:57,758
for the short time
that I met her today.

802
00:48:02,068 --> 00:48:04,862
<i>Statler wants
to move to England.</i>

803
00:48:06,448 --> 00:48:08,344
Just a complete
and utter shock.

804
00:48:14,551 --> 00:48:17,068
<i>They just need to
take a step back.</i>

805
00:48:17,068 --> 00:48:18,655
Things need to slow down.

806
00:48:21,137 --> 00:48:22,137
[Statler] Cool, okay.

807
00:48:22,137 --> 00:48:23,862
- I'm gonna go to the bathroom.
- [Richard] Okay.

808
00:48:26,689 --> 00:48:28,862
[Dempsey speaking]

809
00:48:34,379 --> 00:48:36,000
[Richard] I think she's...
Yeah, she's a nice girl.

810
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:37,137
Yeah, she's nice.

811
00:48:37,137 --> 00:48:38,344
My only concern is...

812
00:48:39,551 --> 00:48:42,448
she rushed here before,
she's told me that.

813
00:48:57,448 --> 00:48:58,448
Yeah.

814
00:49:00,793 --> 00:49:02,655
<i>When my dad says that</i>

815
00:49:02,655 --> 00:49:03,689
Statler might be

816
00:49:03,689 --> 00:49:04,586
rushing things,

817
00:49:04,586 --> 00:49:07,793
<i>it definitely
starts to weigh on me.</i>

818
00:49:07,793 --> 00:49:10,482
<i>It's true that
her relationships have failed</i>

819
00:49:10,482 --> 00:49:14,068
based on Statler
pushing things too quickly.

820
00:49:14,068 --> 00:49:17,379
<i>I'm worried Statler
rushes relationships</i>

821
00:49:17,379 --> 00:49:19,448
<i>because she's craving love.</i>

822
00:49:19,448 --> 00:49:22,000
<i>So, I think
we need to slow down</i>

823
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:25,172
<i>and I need
to take a step back.</i>

824
00:49:25,172 --> 00:49:28,379
I want to make sure
that she's in the relationship
for the right reasons,

825
00:49:28,379 --> 00:49:30,793
not just because
she wants to be with somebody,

826
00:49:30,793 --> 00:49:32,310
but because
she wants to be with me.

827
00:49:37,586 --> 00:49:39,068
[Amanda] <i>I'm feeling nervous</i>

828
00:49:39,068 --> 00:49:40,689
<i>about meeting
Razvan's friends.</i>

829
00:49:40,689 --> 00:49:42,000
Hey!

830
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:43,551
I can be a jealous person,

831
00:49:43,551 --> 00:49:46,137
<i>and she's, like,
wearing a thong bikini.</i>

832
00:49:46,137 --> 00:49:47,896
I look in your eyes

833
00:49:47,896 --> 00:49:49,896
and after I look
in Razvan eyes was like,

834
00:49:49,896 --> 00:49:52,068
"I love you so much,
but I want to kill you
right now."

835
00:49:53,275 --> 00:49:55,517
It's a toxic relationship.

836
00:50:20,034 --> 00:50:21,482
Hi.

837
00:50:25,137 --> 00:50:26,206
[Amanda] Mm-hmm.

838
00:50:27,896 --> 00:50:31,034
Last night after we got home
from our date night,

839
00:50:31,034 --> 00:50:34,034
Razvan and I
did not talk about things.

840
00:50:34,034 --> 00:50:37,758
<i>So I am very much
still processing him
keeping his dream</i>

841
00:50:37,758 --> 00:50:40,586
about always wanting
to come to America from me.

842
00:50:41,793 --> 00:50:44,620
<i>I know
I'm a very guarded person,</i>

843
00:50:44,620 --> 00:50:50,034
but I have to be
very careful of my decisions

844
00:50:50,034 --> 00:50:54,000
because they don't
only affect myself,
they affect my children.

845
00:50:56,241 --> 00:50:57,310
So, you know...

846
00:51:16,206 --> 00:51:17,758
Okay. Thank you.

847
00:51:20,344 --> 00:51:21,896
[chuckling]
You don't seem okay.

848
00:51:21,896 --> 00:51:23,103
[chuckling] I'm fine.

849
00:51:24,586 --> 00:51:28,137
It does kind of
feel like the more
I spend time with him,

850
00:51:28,137 --> 00:51:31,517
the more, kind of,
concerns I have.

851
00:51:31,517 --> 00:51:35,413
But I know that
he is a good person,
truly, in his heart

852
00:51:35,413 --> 00:51:38,448
and I do want
the relationship to work.

853
00:51:39,413 --> 00:51:41,000
I feel good about today.

854
00:51:41,586 --> 00:51:44,103
It's nice, I think, and...

855
00:51:55,586 --> 00:51:59,482
And I think it'll be nice
to feel more relaxed

856
00:52:00,965 --> 00:52:02,241
and to meet some people.

857
00:52:02,241 --> 00:52:03,551
Hmm. Okay.

858
00:52:07,965 --> 00:52:09,793
[Razvan] <i>It still feels that</i>

859
00:52:09,793 --> 00:52:12,310
Amanda doesn't trust me 100%.

860
00:52:30,310 --> 00:52:32,034
[indistinct chatter]

861
00:52:32,586 --> 00:52:33,620
[man] Enjoy. Enjoy, please.

862
00:52:33,620 --> 00:52:36,103
[Diana] Enjoy, guys.

863
00:52:39,103 --> 00:52:41,034
- [Razvan] Oh, here's Diana.
- Hey!

864
00:52:41,034 --> 00:52:43,586
- [Razvan chuckles] Hey.
- Look at you!

865
00:52:44,413 --> 00:52:45,620
- Nice to see you, Razvan.
- Nice to see you.

866
00:52:45,620 --> 00:52:46,758
- How are you?
- Good.

867
00:52:48,137 --> 00:52:50,517
So this is
your American girlfriend!

868
00:52:50,517 --> 00:52:52,000
Yeah, this is Amanda.

869
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,620
- Hi. Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.
You look great.

870
00:52:54,620 --> 00:52:56,586
[chuckling] Oh, thank you.
So do you.

871
00:52:57,689 --> 00:53:00,206
- [Diana] How is everything?
- Good. Very good.

872
00:53:00,206 --> 00:53:01,620
[Amanda] <i>I'm feeling nervous</i>

873
00:53:01,620 --> 00:53:03,896
<i>about meeting
Razvan's friends,</i>

874
00:53:03,896 --> 00:53:06,793
especially a female friend
that I've never even heard of.

875
00:53:06,793 --> 00:53:08,965
Let's go to eat something.

876
00:53:09,689 --> 00:53:12,620
[Amanda] <i>I can be
a jealous person,</i>

877
00:53:12,620 --> 00:53:15,137
<i>and she's, like,
wearing a thong bikini.</i>

878
00:53:15,137 --> 00:53:20,586
So it's like added levels
of stress and anxiety to me.

879
00:53:25,517 --> 00:53:27,793
Uh, no I didn't bring...

880
00:53:27,793 --> 00:53:29,172
I didn't bring a swimsuit.

881
00:53:31,034 --> 00:53:32,413
[Razvan speaking]

882
00:53:32,413 --> 00:53:35,689
- [laughing] Why would you...
- [Diana] Okay.

883
00:53:37,137 --> 00:53:38,310
Okay, I understand.

884
00:53:38,896 --> 00:53:39,862
[Razvan] What?

885
00:53:40,620 --> 00:53:41,482
- Nothing.
- It's true.

886
00:53:41,482 --> 00:53:43,206
- [laughter]
- [Amanda] Okay.

887
00:53:45,034 --> 00:53:49,517
I have no idea
why Razvan just announces
to this pool party,

888
00:53:49,517 --> 00:53:52,103
like, that I'm on my period.

889
00:53:52,103 --> 00:53:56,413
<i>I just want, like,
to just crawl into
my skin right now.</i>

890
00:53:56,413 --> 00:53:58,034
Oh, my gosh.

891
00:53:58,793 --> 00:54:01,034
[Diana] So what you did
in these days?

892
00:54:01,034 --> 00:54:02,379
We were in town, you know.

893
00:54:02,379 --> 00:54:05,034
I show her the town and...

894
00:54:08,896 --> 00:54:12,034
Mm, Amanda, you're ready
to meet, uh, his parents?

895
00:54:12,034 --> 00:54:13,241
[Amanda] Um, yeah.

896
00:54:13,241 --> 00:54:18,000
- But they do not
speak English, so...
- [Diana] Mm!

897
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:19,413
Razvan's
gonna have to translate,

898
00:54:19,413 --> 00:54:22,137
and I don't know
if he's gonna
say the right thing.

899
00:54:22,137 --> 00:54:24,517
- He might just
leave things out.
- Maybe.

900
00:54:24,517 --> 00:54:25,862
Maybe.

901
00:54:25,862 --> 00:54:27,103
- [chuckles]
- You better not.

902
00:54:32,379 --> 00:54:33,689
- [man] Yeah.
- [mock growls]

903
00:54:33,689 --> 00:54:34,965
[laughter]

904
00:54:34,965 --> 00:54:36,655
Like a cat. [growls]

905
00:54:38,379 --> 00:54:39,517
You like Romania?

906
00:54:39,517 --> 00:54:42,413
Um... Like,
I'm not used to, like, a city.

907
00:54:42,413 --> 00:54:44,241
Like, where I live
is, like, a town.

908
00:54:44,241 --> 00:54:45,827
[Razvan] But she's getting
used to it.

909
00:54:47,689 --> 00:54:49,482
- Am I?
- Yeah, you told me.

910
00:54:58,620 --> 00:54:59,862
[Diana] Okay.

911
00:55:03,241 --> 00:55:04,482
So, can I take
your girlfriend?

912
00:55:04,482 --> 00:55:06,241
Because I want to
talk with her.

913
00:55:06,241 --> 00:55:07,793
- [Razvan chuckles]
- Come on, Amanda.

914
00:55:07,793 --> 00:55:09,310
Let's go for a walk.

915
00:55:09,310 --> 00:55:10,482
- [Amanda] Yeah.
- [Diana] Come.

916
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:15,965
So...

917
00:55:18,241 --> 00:55:19,517
[Diana sighs]

918
00:55:19,517 --> 00:55:21,034
How can I say?

919
00:55:21,034 --> 00:55:25,000
- How it's working
with your relationship?
- Um, I mean...

920
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:25,965
You fight.

921
00:55:25,965 --> 00:55:29,103
We have some fights.
We just met, you know.

922
00:55:30,862 --> 00:55:31,827
[Diana] Yeah, but...

923
00:55:36,241 --> 00:55:37,206
Yeah.

924
00:55:46,034 --> 00:55:47,689
No, I'm in love with him.

925
00:55:47,689 --> 00:55:49,344
If I didn't love him

926
00:55:49,344 --> 00:55:51,034
and I didn't think
it was worth

927
00:55:51,034 --> 00:55:54,000
leaving my kids at home
for three weeks, you know...

928
00:55:56,586 --> 00:55:59,137
...was because
when I look in your eyes,

929
00:55:59,137 --> 00:56:01,413
and after I look
in Razvan eyes was like,

930
00:56:01,413 --> 00:56:03,689
"I love you so much,
but I want to kill you
right now."

931
00:56:05,103 --> 00:56:07,137
This kind of eye contact,

932
00:56:07,137 --> 00:56:10,793
it's when
it's a toxic relationship.

933
00:56:10,793 --> 00:56:13,482
- [laughs sarcastically]
- Because toxic people do that.

934
00:56:19,137 --> 00:56:22,310
I don't think
our relationship is toxic.

935
00:56:22,310 --> 00:56:24,517
I think we love
each other very much,

936
00:56:24,517 --> 00:56:26,137
and like I said, we...

937
00:56:26,137 --> 00:56:31,310
Uh, sorry. How is possible
to love a person in six days?

938
00:56:31,310 --> 00:56:34,482
- Yeah. Yeah.
- It's a little bit hard
for me to understand.

939
00:56:35,793 --> 00:56:38,000
[Amanda] <i>It is difficult
to hear Diana</i>

940
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,862
call my relationship
with Razvan toxic.

941
00:56:41,862 --> 00:56:45,896
<i>I don't know if Diana
has any ulterior motives,</i>

942
00:56:45,896 --> 00:56:48,034
<i>if she, like,
has a crush on Razvan,</i>

943
00:56:48,034 --> 00:56:50,241
or, I don't know.

944
00:56:50,241 --> 00:56:54,413
Maybe that's the reason
she's so critical
about our relationship.

945
00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:57,137
[Diana] I'm just
a good friend.

946
00:56:57,137 --> 00:56:59,586
And he suffered a lot
in the past.

947
00:57:01,689 --> 00:57:05,965
And after, his heart
was like a prison.

948
00:57:07,137 --> 00:57:08,379
Yeah.

949
00:57:09,379 --> 00:57:11,551
And I don't want you
to play with him.

950
00:57:18,896 --> 00:57:20,275
I think this is not love.

951
00:57:25,034 --> 00:57:28,482
<i>I think it's impossible
to love a person
in a short time,</i>

952
00:57:29,689 --> 00:57:33,034
and I don't think this will be
a healthy relationship,

953
00:57:33,034 --> 00:57:36,034
and I think it's not working.

954
00:57:36,034 --> 00:57:38,586
I just want you
to be careful with him.

955
00:57:39,137 --> 00:57:40,137
- You understand?
- Yeah.

956
00:57:40,137 --> 00:57:45,275
It's very hard
to find boys like Razvan.

957
00:57:49,241 --> 00:57:53,517
It makes me so happy, baby,
that you ejaculate

958
00:57:53,517 --> 00:57:55,482
for the very first time.

959
00:57:55,482 --> 00:57:59,137
Last night, we tried things
that I never thought.

960
00:57:59,137 --> 00:58:00,793
- [laughs]
- [Jasmine chuckles]

961
00:58:00,793 --> 00:58:01,758
[Jasmine] I'm in shock.

962
00:58:02,517 --> 00:58:04,034
It's, like, truly amazing.

963
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,689
- Hey.
- Happy Valentine's Day.

964
00:58:08,689 --> 00:58:09,965
Mwah.

965
00:58:09,965 --> 00:58:12,448
I didn't expect
me to fall in love this soon.

966
00:58:13,241 --> 00:58:14,620
Oh, yeah!

967
00:58:14,620 --> 00:58:17,862
Obviously, the next step
is talking about
if I can move in,

968
00:58:17,862 --> 00:58:19,586
and I hope she's on
the same page as I am.

969
00:58:43,103 --> 00:58:44,413
<i>Buenos dias.</i>

970
00:58:44,413 --> 00:58:46,965
[chuckling] Buenos
dias, baby.

971
00:58:46,965 --> 00:58:48,068
Wasn't it comfortable

972
00:58:48,068 --> 00:58:50,586
sleeping in this
super comfortable bed
last night?

973
00:58:50,586 --> 00:58:53,000
- So amazing.
- Yes. It was super awesome.

974
00:58:53,655 --> 00:58:54,862
And it makes me
so happy, baby,

975
00:58:54,862 --> 00:58:59,379
that you ejaculate
for the very first time.

976
00:59:01,655 --> 00:59:03,586
- [laughs]
- [Jasmine chuckles]

977
00:59:03,586 --> 00:59:05,758
Um, I'm in shock. [chuckles]

978
00:59:06,862 --> 00:59:08,379
It's, like, truly amazing.

979
00:59:10,310 --> 00:59:12,586
I was starting to doubt

980
00:59:12,586 --> 00:59:14,586
that it will
ever be possible...

981
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:19,137
<i>Only masturbation.</i>

982
00:59:19,137 --> 00:59:20,586
<i>But last night,</i>

983
00:59:20,586 --> 00:59:23,379
we tried things
that I never thought.

984
00:59:24,965 --> 00:59:26,068
Like, he...

985
00:59:30,103 --> 00:59:31,862
I gave him the golden shower.

986
00:59:32,965 --> 00:59:35,137
[both laughing]

987
00:59:35,137 --> 00:59:37,896
Gino was like this
on the Jacuzzi

988
00:59:37,896 --> 00:59:40,310
and he was, like,
"Give it to me, baby."

989
00:59:40,310 --> 00:59:42,034
And when he said it,
I was like...

990
00:59:42,034 --> 00:59:45,931
like a dog, just,
you know, my leg like this,
peeing on him.

991
00:59:46,310 --> 00:59:47,379
Ready, baby.

992
00:59:55,793 --> 00:59:58,586
I see the horses!

993
00:59:58,586 --> 00:59:59,896
- [Jasmine] They're so cute.
- [Gino] Aw.

994
00:59:59,896 --> 01:00:01,586
Which one
do I get to pick out?

995
01:00:01,586 --> 01:00:02,724
[both chuckle]

996
01:00:04,965 --> 01:00:07,206
[Jasmine] <i>Today, I arranged
a super fun activity.</i>

997
01:00:07,206 --> 01:00:11,413
<i>We're going horseback riding
in the Panamanian wilderness.</i>

998
01:00:11,413 --> 01:00:15,275
I have never done
horseback riding before,

999
01:00:15,275 --> 01:00:18,241
<i>but I love animals and nature,</i>

1000
01:00:18,241 --> 01:00:21,379
and it's very important for me

1001
01:00:21,379 --> 01:00:25,413
to have new experiences
with my fiancé.

1002
01:00:25,413 --> 01:00:28,793
The therapist said,
"Collect good memories."

1003
01:00:28,793 --> 01:00:30,965
[Gino] I've never been
on a horse before.

1004
01:00:30,965 --> 01:00:32,965
They're not gonna kick me
if I approach 'em
from behind, right?

1005
01:00:32,965 --> 01:00:36,655
Okay, to go to the back,
you have to tell them
that you're in the back.

1006
01:00:36,655 --> 01:00:38,413
- [Gino] Oh, really?
- It's really important. Yes.

1007
01:00:38,413 --> 01:00:39,448
Uh...

1008
01:00:40,034 --> 01:00:41,862
So, okay.

1009
01:00:41,862 --> 01:00:42,965
I'm here.

1010
01:00:43,517 --> 01:00:44,965
- [guide] Yes.
- I'm here.

1011
01:00:44,965 --> 01:00:46,137
[guide] Okay.

1012
01:00:46,137 --> 01:00:48,379
[Gino] You're a good horse,
you're a good horse.

1013
01:00:48,379 --> 01:00:50,413
[guide] Okay, ready?

1014
01:00:50,413 --> 01:00:51,689
[Gino] Hopefully,
I can get up on him.

1015
01:00:51,689 --> 01:00:53,137
[guide] We have the stairs.
No problem.

1016
01:00:53,137 --> 01:00:54,413
[Gino] Oh, the stairs
will help. Yeah, right?

1017
01:00:54,413 --> 01:00:56,103
[Gino giggles]

1018
01:00:56,103 --> 01:00:58,689
<i>I've never been
horseback riding before,</i>

1019
01:00:58,689 --> 01:01:01,137
<i>but after last night,
you know, pulling out</i>

1020
01:01:01,137 --> 01:01:04,413
the whips and chains
with Jasmine, you know,

1021
01:01:04,413 --> 01:01:06,310
<i>it was so fun and exciting
and it was like...</i>

1022
01:01:06,310 --> 01:01:08,034
I felt, like, so in control.

1023
01:01:08,034 --> 01:01:10,517
[Jasmine]
You're my cowboy, baby!

1024
01:01:10,517 --> 01:01:12,137
[Gino] Oof. Here we go!

1025
01:01:12,137 --> 01:01:14,413
Let's rock it! [chuckles]

1026
01:01:14,413 --> 01:01:17,896
So today, I'm feeling
pretty sexy and strong
on the horse.

1027
01:01:17,896 --> 01:01:18,862
<i>Hopefully...</i>

1028
01:01:22,965 --> 01:01:25,310
Whoo! Is this fun or what?

1029
01:01:25,310 --> 01:01:27,137
[Jasmine] I love it, baby.

1030
01:01:27,137 --> 01:01:29,551
Doesn't it feel great
to be out here? The air...

1031
01:01:30,482 --> 01:01:33,241
You know,
breathing the air,
it's so good here.

1032
01:01:33,241 --> 01:01:34,206
Come on.

1033
01:01:34,206 --> 01:01:35,793
[guide speaking]

1034
01:01:35,793 --> 01:01:37,517
- [Gino] Huh?
- Wait, wait, wait.

1035
01:01:37,517 --> 01:01:39,241
- What?
- [guide beckoning]
Wait, wait, wait.

1036
01:01:39,241 --> 01:01:40,413
It should be sweet.

1037
01:01:40,413 --> 01:01:41,724
- If it's sweet,
it's ready. Yeah.
- For me?

1038
01:01:42,379 --> 01:01:43,413
- Oh, wow.
- Yes.

1039
01:01:43,413 --> 01:01:44,482
I can just eat into it?

1040
01:01:44,482 --> 01:01:45,689
[guide] Yes, go, bite.

1041
01:01:45,689 --> 01:01:47,448
- This way.
- [Gino] Wow, thank you.

1042
01:01:47,896 --> 01:01:49,068
[guide] You're welcome.

1043
01:01:54,586 --> 01:01:56,896
- [guide] So how is
the guava? It's sweet?
- [spitting]

1044
01:01:56,896 --> 01:01:58,724
- [Jasmine] I like it.
- [guide] Nice.

1045
01:02:00,517 --> 01:02:03,862
[Jasmine] Baby,
I cannot think of
any other person than you

1046
01:02:03,862 --> 01:02:06,103
to collect
these memories with.

1047
01:02:06,103 --> 01:02:08,758
- [Gino] Aw! You're so cute.
- [Jasmine] I love you, baby!

1048
01:02:08,758 --> 01:02:09,724
I love you!

1049
01:02:11,862 --> 01:02:14,103
Yeah, it feels good to...

1050
01:02:14,103 --> 01:02:15,206
You know,
we're doing those things

1051
01:02:15,206 --> 01:02:17,034
that the counselor
was suggesting

1052
01:02:17,034 --> 01:02:19,310
and things seem to be
coming together
during this trip.

1053
01:02:19,310 --> 01:02:22,275
Like, our bond...
I feel like our bond
is coming back.

1054
01:02:22,275 --> 01:02:23,896
[sing-song] Ooh,
we're going to the river!

1055
01:02:23,896 --> 01:02:27,275
[Jasmine] This is a whole
new adventure, baby.

1056
01:02:27,275 --> 01:02:29,379
- [Gino] Yeah!
- [Jasmine laughs]

1057
01:02:29,379 --> 01:02:31,103
[Jasmine speaking]

1058
01:02:31,103 --> 01:02:32,034
"Yeah."

1059
01:02:32,034 --> 01:02:33,655
Whoo!

1060
01:02:35,586 --> 01:02:36,655
[horse nickers]

1061
01:02:36,655 --> 01:02:38,034
[guide speaking]

1062
01:02:38,034 --> 01:02:40,206
- Uh, do you mind, baby--
- Hey, how does
this helmet come off?

1063
01:02:40,206 --> 01:02:42,655
- Yes, wait.
Let me help you. Here.
- [laughs]

1064
01:02:42,655 --> 01:02:43,965
- Just here.
- Okay.

1065
01:02:43,965 --> 01:02:46,103
- [Jasmine] You look good
with it though.
- Okay, thank you.

1066
01:02:46,103 --> 01:02:47,034
Thank you. You're welcome.

1067
01:02:47,034 --> 01:02:48,137
[Jasmine] Aw.

1068
01:02:48,137 --> 01:02:49,965
[Gino] Yeah,
maybe I'll take a picture.

1069
01:02:50,517 --> 01:02:51,586
Ready?

1070
01:02:52,379 --> 01:02:53,448
[shutter clicks]

1071
01:02:53,965 --> 01:02:55,655
- Okay.
- He posed!

1072
01:02:55,655 --> 01:02:57,965
- You're amazing!
- He turned his head.

1073
01:02:57,965 --> 01:02:58,965
[Jasmine kisses]

1074
01:03:00,206 --> 01:03:02,034
[both] Aw!

1075
01:03:02,034 --> 01:03:03,000
I love it.

1076
01:03:03,586 --> 01:03:05,000
Can you send those pictures?

1077
01:03:05,689 --> 01:03:07,586
I'd like to send to my family.

1078
01:03:08,586 --> 01:03:10,275
- Your family.
- Yeah.

1079
01:03:12,517 --> 01:03:14,862
Uh, I sent it to you. Um...

1080
01:03:17,517 --> 01:03:19,689
Don't take me...
Don't take it wrong,

1081
01:03:19,689 --> 01:03:21,862
but once in the United States,

1082
01:03:23,379 --> 01:03:27,310
I don't want your family
to be too involved

1083
01:03:27,310 --> 01:03:30,310
because sometimes I feel like
they don't liking me.

1084
01:03:31,965 --> 01:03:33,310
Like, for example...

1085
01:03:36,655 --> 01:03:38,413
<i>Before Gino came to Panama,</i>

1086
01:03:38,413 --> 01:03:42,379
Gino's cousin Dana
texted me on social media

1087
01:03:42,379 --> 01:03:46,758
something that I considered
highly inappropriate and rude.

1088
01:03:46,758 --> 01:03:48,862
<i>Like, interrogating me,</i>

1089
01:03:48,862 --> 01:03:52,310
<i>like, accusing me
of me not really loving Gino.</i>

1090
01:03:52,310 --> 01:03:53,689
<i>That's huge.</i>

1091
01:03:53,689 --> 01:03:57,413
And I address it
with Gino at that time,

1092
01:03:57,413 --> 01:03:58,862
but I haven't forgotten.

1093
01:04:03,793 --> 01:04:05,896
All right, well,
don't generalize
about my family

1094
01:04:05,896 --> 01:04:08,241
because of one message
that you got.

1095
01:04:08,241 --> 01:04:11,206
Okay, so if they call me,
like, a whore, they call me,

1096
01:04:11,206 --> 01:04:12,517
"You're a freaking
sugar babe."

1097
01:04:12,517 --> 01:04:14,206
They're not gonna do that.
They're not like that.

1098
01:04:14,206 --> 01:04:16,034
[Jasmine] But that's,
like, the direction

1099
01:04:16,034 --> 01:04:17,896
your cousin Dana is taking.

1100
01:04:17,896 --> 01:04:20,689
You're coming up
with all these things
that they're gonna do bad

1101
01:04:20,689 --> 01:04:22,344
and you haven't even
met 'em in person yet.

1102
01:04:23,310 --> 01:04:25,206
- I just want you...
- It wasn't a personal attack.

1103
01:04:25,206 --> 01:04:28,517
You should talk to your family
and tell them

1104
01:04:28,517 --> 01:04:34,379
that I don't take any kind
of criticism slightly.

1105
01:04:35,379 --> 01:04:36,758
You understand?

1106
01:04:39,310 --> 01:04:43,413
You know, I think
you need to talk to Da--
have a chat with Dana,

1107
01:04:43,413 --> 01:04:45,241
so that maybe
you can clear the air...

1108
01:04:45,241 --> 01:04:46,517
or he can
clear the air with you.

1109
01:04:46,517 --> 01:04:48,482
- He has to-- I do not think...
- He will-- He can clear...

1110
01:04:48,482 --> 01:04:49,793
- I think he'll--
- I didn't respond.

1111
01:04:49,793 --> 01:04:52,206
He'll clear the air with you.
I would think so.

1112
01:04:53,793 --> 01:04:57,034
Would you agree
to have, you know...

1113
01:04:57,034 --> 01:05:00,965
Would you agree
to talk to Dana this weekend
through video call?

1114
01:05:02,103 --> 01:05:04,310
- He's talked to you
a couple of times.
- Okay, let's, let's...

1115
01:05:04,310 --> 01:05:05,724
I agree.

1116
01:05:07,896 --> 01:05:12,137
I am really happy
that Jasmine agreed
to talk with my cousin Dana.

1117
01:05:12,137 --> 01:05:15,689
I don't want to be
in the middle between
my family and Jasmine,

1118
01:05:15,689 --> 01:05:18,034
<i>especially when
she comes to the US,</i>

1119
01:05:18,034 --> 01:05:22,137
but I'm a little worried,
you know, what could happen.

1120
01:05:22,137 --> 01:05:25,379
<i>Jasmine is not easy
to win over,</i>

1121
01:05:25,379 --> 01:05:26,793
<i>and so, yeah,</i>

1122
01:05:26,793 --> 01:05:28,103
you know, it could blow up.

1123
01:06:00,206 --> 01:06:01,379
Good morning.

1124
01:06:01,379 --> 01:06:04,206
- Morning.
- Happy Valentine's Day.

1125
01:06:04,206 --> 01:06:06,689
- Happy Valentine's Day.
- Mwah.

1126
01:06:06,689 --> 01:06:08,103
What are you doing?

1127
01:06:08,103 --> 01:06:10,793
I'm getting some,
uh, massage oil...

1128
01:06:10,793 --> 01:06:12,482
- Am I getting a massage?
- ...for your feet.

1129
01:06:12,482 --> 01:06:13,517
[chuckles]

1130
01:06:13,517 --> 01:06:15,793
[Statler] Uh, I know
you have to work today.

1131
01:06:15,793 --> 01:06:17,034
So I thought
I would just give you

1132
01:06:17,034 --> 01:06:19,034
a little something, something.

1133
01:06:19,034 --> 01:06:20,379
You're so kind.

1134
01:06:22,310 --> 01:06:23,896
- Ooh, that's really nice.
- Is it?

1135
01:06:23,896 --> 01:06:24,965
Yeah.

1136
01:06:24,965 --> 01:06:26,896
What can I say?
I'm a professional.

1137
01:06:26,896 --> 01:06:29,482
[both laughing]

1138
01:06:30,758 --> 01:06:33,758
I thought, uh,
yesterday went really well
with your dad.

1139
01:06:35,517 --> 01:06:36,862
[Dempsey] Mm-hmm.

1140
01:06:36,862 --> 01:06:39,689
Like, I was so nervous
before I met him,

1141
01:06:39,689 --> 01:06:42,586
but then he ended up
being, like, really cool.

1142
01:06:43,517 --> 01:06:45,413
I'm glad that you think
it went well.

1143
01:06:45,413 --> 01:06:47,310
Yeah, I think so.
Think it went really well.

1144
01:06:47,310 --> 01:06:50,862
Probably the best
first meeting-the-parents
I've ever had.

1145
01:06:50,862 --> 01:06:52,206
- Wow.
- Yeah.

1146
01:06:53,896 --> 01:06:55,758
So, very happy about that.

1147
01:06:55,758 --> 01:06:56,758
[Dempsey] Mm-hmm.

1148
01:06:57,793 --> 01:07:00,275
<i>I think my dad likes Statler,</i>

1149
01:07:00,275 --> 01:07:02,379
<i>but my dad is just concerned</i>

1150
01:07:02,379 --> 01:07:05,517
that, erm, things might be
moving a little bit fast.

1151
01:07:05,517 --> 01:07:07,517
I have to go to work soon.

1152
01:07:07,517 --> 01:07:08,896
Oh, yeah.

1153
01:07:08,896 --> 01:07:11,758
[Dempsey] <i>Statler
can be a bit full-on,</i>

1154
01:07:11,758 --> 01:07:13,586
and it concerns me that, erm,

1155
01:07:13,586 --> 01:07:18,000
Statler, erm,
has an ex from England,

1156
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:19,965
<i>and she got into things
too quickly.</i>

1157
01:07:19,965 --> 01:07:23,034
Now I'm, like, kind of
thinking in my head that,

1158
01:07:23,034 --> 01:07:27,655
yeah, I do think that
we should take things
a bit slower.

1159
01:07:29,793 --> 01:07:31,689
- See you soon.
- Have a good one.

1160
01:07:31,689 --> 01:07:32,655
Bye.

1161
01:07:33,965 --> 01:07:35,068
[door closes]

1162
01:07:37,862 --> 01:07:40,689
[Statler] <i>I'm usually single
on Valentine's Day,</i>

1163
01:07:40,689 --> 01:07:43,655
so to finally have someone
to spend Valentine's Day with,

1164
01:07:43,655 --> 01:07:44,965
it's very exciting to me.

1165
01:07:44,965 --> 01:07:47,034
I am a romantic at heart,

1166
01:07:47,034 --> 01:07:48,793
and so this is, like, my day

1167
01:07:48,793 --> 01:07:50,310
to do whatever
the heck I want,

1168
01:07:50,310 --> 01:07:52,068
and I have a lot of ideas.

1169
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:56,241
Oh, yeah!

1170
01:07:56,241 --> 01:07:59,758
<i>After we got back from meeting
Dempsey's dad yesterday,</i>

1171
01:07:59,758 --> 01:08:01,965
<i>I told her that
I needed to run to the store</i>

1172
01:08:01,965 --> 01:08:03,413
<i>to get a few things
for myself,</i>

1173
01:08:03,413 --> 01:08:06,793
but I actually went
and got some stuff
for Valentine's Day today,

1174
01:08:06,793 --> 01:08:08,827
<i>and now it's crunch time.</i>

1175
01:08:15,034 --> 01:08:16,000
Okay.

1176
01:08:20,137 --> 01:08:22,275
Today, I am putting on
a scavenger hunt

1177
01:08:22,275 --> 01:08:23,896
because it's Valentine's Day

1178
01:08:23,896 --> 01:08:27,517
and I want things to be
as romantic as possible
for Dempsey.

1179
01:08:27,517 --> 01:08:29,793
I want to, like,
end on a fire scene

1180
01:08:29,793 --> 01:08:32,793
with a couple of drinks
and, uh,

1181
01:08:32,793 --> 01:08:35,689
some s'mores,
some candles, some roses.

1182
01:08:35,689 --> 01:08:38,137
Really make the romance big

1183
01:08:38,137 --> 01:08:41,000
because things are just going
better than I expected.

1184
01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:44,137
I didn't expect me
to fall in love this soon.

1185
01:08:44,137 --> 01:08:46,103
Um, it's just like,

1186
01:08:46,103 --> 01:08:48,034
obviously the next step is,

1187
01:08:48,034 --> 01:08:49,206
you know, asking

1188
01:08:49,206 --> 01:08:51,103
or talking about
if I can move in.

1189
01:08:51,103 --> 01:08:53,206
And I hope, I think,

1190
01:08:53,206 --> 01:08:54,931
she's on the same page
as I am.

1191
01:08:56,689 --> 01:08:59,103
<i>Even though
I've been in England
for only a week,</i>

1192
01:08:59,103 --> 01:09:01,965
<i>I'm confident
that I love Dempsey.</i>

1193
01:09:01,965 --> 01:09:04,793
I even kind of told her
I love her yesterday,

1194
01:09:04,793 --> 01:09:06,206
but she didn't say it back.

1195
01:09:06,206 --> 01:09:09,413
<i>Um, I don't know
if she was just stressed</i>

1196
01:09:09,413 --> 01:09:11,413
because we were on our way
to meet her dad,

1197
01:09:11,413 --> 01:09:16,000
<i>but I definitely feel
like I need to tell her
in a more proper way.</i>

1198
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:19,517
I need to actually say
the three words, "I love you,"

1199
01:09:19,517 --> 01:09:22,862
so she knows that it's legit
and not just word vomit.

1200
01:09:24,379 --> 01:09:25,965
Let's see.
Where should I do it?

1201
01:09:30,689 --> 01:09:33,793
Honestly, this could be
one of the most important
days of my life

1202
01:09:33,793 --> 01:09:35,965
and I need it to go perfectly.

1203
01:09:36,379 --> 01:09:37,862
[sighing] Okay.

1204
01:09:39,586 --> 01:09:41,482
I feel like I'm selling roses.

1205
01:09:43,137 --> 01:09:44,896
- [door opening]
- Would anybody like a rose?

1206
01:09:44,896 --> 01:09:46,862
Fivepence for one.

1207
01:09:47,862 --> 01:09:49,206
<i>But I am anxious.</i>

1208
01:09:49,206 --> 01:09:50,965
I'm scared.
I'm feeling insecure.

1209
01:09:50,965 --> 01:09:54,896
<i>Because last time I did this,
with my ex,</i>

1210
01:09:54,896 --> 01:09:57,000
she said it was
just too much too fast

1211
01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:58,482
and she ended things.

1212
01:09:59,655 --> 01:10:03,000
<i>I thought I was devastated
with my ex,</i>

1213
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:07,000
but losing Dempsey
would be ten times worse.

1214
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:09,482
<i>I'm pretty sure
that's the definition
of insanity,</i>

1215
01:10:09,482 --> 01:10:11,517
<i>to do the same thing twice</i>

1216
01:10:11,517 --> 01:10:13,034
<i>and expect
a different outcome.</i>

1217
01:10:13,034 --> 01:10:15,206
<i>So, yeah, I'm a little crazy,</i>

1218
01:10:15,206 --> 01:10:17,689
but I think Dempsey
is worth the gamble.

1219
01:10:17,689 --> 01:10:18,965
That's everything.

1220
01:10:19,689 --> 01:10:22,793
Uh, s'mores, lighting, roses.

1221
01:10:22,793 --> 01:10:27,034
All I need is for her
to say she's... she loves me,

1222
01:10:27,034 --> 01:10:29,344
and she wants me
to move in with her.

1223
01:10:34,896 --> 01:10:36,000
[Jane speaking]

1224
01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:37,517
I'm obviously
feeling very agitated

1225
01:10:37,517 --> 01:10:44,586
and confused as to why
was he so vague
with the producers

1226
01:10:44,586 --> 01:10:46,275
and was not
transparent at all.

1227
01:10:47,103 --> 01:10:49,482
For him to go on
and lie about our intimacy

1228
01:10:49,482 --> 01:10:51,793
<i>feels extremely confusing.</i>

1229
01:10:51,793 --> 01:10:54,862
At this point,
my trust in him
is, like, zero percent.

1230
01:11:15,103 --> 01:11:16,344
[Jane] Hey!

1231
01:11:17,655 --> 01:11:18,758
Oh, babe.

1232
01:11:18,758 --> 01:11:20,275
[Cleo] Thank you so much
for coming.

1233
01:11:20,275 --> 01:11:21,241
[Jane] How are you?

1234
01:11:24,379 --> 01:11:26,103
No, no, no. That's all right.

1235
01:11:26,103 --> 01:11:28,931
- You okay?
- Uh, not really.

1236
01:11:28,931 --> 01:11:31,551
I feel like I've been, like,
so deluded, to be honest.

1237
01:11:31,551 --> 01:11:32,724
[Jane] Mm-hmm.

1238
01:11:38,103 --> 01:11:39,620
[Jane clicks tongue] Aw.

1239
01:11:45,103 --> 01:11:46,275
[Cleo sobs]

1240
01:11:46,275 --> 01:11:48,724
I just feel like
I'm so stupid.

1241
01:11:48,724 --> 01:11:49,827
Aw.

1242
01:11:49,827 --> 01:11:51,620
I don't wanna see you cry.

1243
01:11:51,620 --> 01:11:53,000
All right. [chuckles]

1244
01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:56,551
No, you can cry,
but I don't want to
see you be so sad.

1245
01:11:59,620 --> 01:12:02,827
Would you mind
coming to the Airbnb with me?

1246
01:12:02,827 --> 01:12:04,275
Whatever you need.

1247
01:12:04,275 --> 01:12:05,172
Thank you.

1248
01:12:05,172 --> 01:12:06,379
What happened?

1249
01:12:06,379 --> 01:12:09,344
Maybe it's best
if we talk about it,
like, in the car.

1250
01:12:09,344 --> 01:12:10,862
Yeah.

1251
01:12:10,862 --> 01:12:13,655
[Cleo] <i>I'm feeling
very frustrated and upset.</i>

1252
01:12:13,655 --> 01:12:15,931
Christian and I got into
a bit of a argument

1253
01:12:17,103 --> 01:12:18,931
and it is something
that I feel, at the moment,

1254
01:12:18,931 --> 01:12:21,862
has really broken
my trust in him.

1255
01:12:21,862 --> 01:12:25,000
<i>Yesterday, it was
a very nice moment for us.</i>

1256
01:12:25,758 --> 01:12:27,655
I thought that
our relationship

1257
01:12:27,655 --> 01:12:29,620
is gonna be so much better.

1258
01:12:29,620 --> 01:12:32,931
<i>And now I don't understand
what is going on.</i>

1259
01:12:32,931 --> 01:12:36,827
I don't necessarily know
if I know who he is anymore.

1260
01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:40,517
[Jane speaking]

1261
01:12:41,482 --> 01:12:42,655
[Cleo sighs]

1262
01:12:42,655 --> 01:12:44,620
Well, basically
what happened, like,

1263
01:12:44,620 --> 01:12:46,827
you know that yesterday,

1264
01:12:46,827 --> 01:12:49,000
Christian and I
have been, you know,

1265
01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:51,275
- intimate for first time.
- Mm-hmm.

1266
01:12:51,275 --> 01:12:53,862
- And I thought
it was pretty special.
- Mm-hmm.

1267
01:12:53,862 --> 01:12:56,103
And, you know, after that,

1268
01:12:56,103 --> 01:13:00,103
we talked about
how we really care
about each other

1269
01:13:00,103 --> 01:13:04,344
and, you know,
we agreed that we should
be openly transparent

1270
01:13:04,344 --> 01:13:07,241
about the fact
that we had sex.

1271
01:13:07,241 --> 01:13:08,172
[Jane] Mm-hmm.

1272
01:13:08,931 --> 01:13:11,241
And then at some point today,

1273
01:13:11,241 --> 01:13:13,827
he messaged me and he says,

1274
01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:18,103
"Have you told people
that we were intimate?"

1275
01:13:18,103 --> 01:13:19,862
And I said,
"Yes, of course I did."

1276
01:13:19,862 --> 01:13:21,931
Why... You know,
"Why, have you not?"

1277
01:13:21,931 --> 01:13:23,551
And he said,

1278
01:13:23,551 --> 01:13:26,931
"Yeah, no, I didn't
really talk about it
to the cameras.

1279
01:13:26,931 --> 01:13:28,551
I just said that we made out,

1280
01:13:28,551 --> 01:13:30,827
we hooked up
or 'hit second base.'"

1281
01:13:31,448 --> 01:13:32,586
Okay.

1282
01:13:32,586 --> 01:13:36,000
And I'm obviously feeling
very agitated and confused

1283
01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:41,379
as to why was he so vague
with the producers

1284
01:13:41,379 --> 01:13:43,310
and was not
transparent at all.

1285
01:13:44,172 --> 01:13:46,000
<i>Christian and I have shared</i>

1286
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:48,379
what I felt was like
a magical moment together.

1287
01:13:48,379 --> 01:13:51,827
Um, you know,
really close intimacy.

1288
01:13:51,827 --> 01:13:55,103
I let myself be vulnerable
with Christian those nights,

1289
01:13:55,103 --> 01:13:59,000
so for him to go on and lie
about our intimacy today

1290
01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:02,103
feels extremely confusing
and upsetting,

1291
01:14:02,103 --> 01:14:05,551
and I feel like
I've been manipulated.

1292
01:14:05,551 --> 01:14:08,000
So, like, I was literally
about to enter the lecture,

1293
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:09,931
but I was like,
"Okay, I'm gonna
have to call him."

1294
01:14:09,931 --> 01:14:12,241
- Mm-hmm.
- I just... I needed to hear
what he had to say.

1295
01:14:12,241 --> 01:14:14,310
- Mm-hmm.
- And we talked.

1296
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:16,206
And he just kept saying,

1297
01:14:16,206 --> 01:14:18,275
you know,
"It was probably best
to not talk about it

1298
01:14:18,275 --> 01:14:21,620
to protect you," or to...

1299
01:14:21,620 --> 01:14:23,620
"Because I don't feel
it's anyone's business."

1300
01:14:27,275 --> 01:14:29,620
Yeah. That's, that's,
that's what I'm feeling.

1301
01:14:31,068 --> 01:14:32,931
And I said to him
that I feel that...

1302
01:14:37,931 --> 01:14:43,758
...but one place is,
maybe he doesn't want people,

1303
01:14:43,758 --> 01:14:45,103
or his family,

1304
01:14:45,103 --> 01:14:49,551
to be able to know
that he has been intimate
with a trans woman

1305
01:14:49,551 --> 01:14:51,862
because he's scared
of having...

1306
01:14:51,862 --> 01:14:53,862
You know, he doesn't
want to hear their opinions.

1307
01:14:53,862 --> 01:14:54,862
And such as...

1308
01:14:54,862 --> 01:14:56,275
You know, similarly
to when he was saying,

1309
01:14:56,275 --> 01:14:58,551
"Oh, we shouldn't have
public displays of affection"

1310
01:14:58,551 --> 01:14:59,862
when he arrived at the airport

1311
01:14:59,862 --> 01:15:01,000
because, you know,

1312
01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:02,275
"I'm afraid of people

1313
01:15:02,275 --> 01:15:03,862
or what
they will be thinking."

1314
01:15:03,862 --> 01:15:05,931
- So, by keeping
it all vague...
- Hmm.

1315
01:15:05,931 --> 01:15:07,758
...he's, in a sense,
still getting to

1316
01:15:07,758 --> 01:15:09,827
live whatever
he wants to in his life

1317
01:15:09,827 --> 01:15:14,448
and without necessarily
having to deal
with the backlash.

1318
01:15:15,275 --> 01:15:17,862
I don't want to be
anyone's secret lover.

1319
01:15:17,862 --> 01:15:19,241
I have no interest in that.

1320
01:15:19,241 --> 01:15:20,724
I would rather just be alone.

1321
01:15:22,275 --> 01:15:25,620
<i>There's been, you know,
a few instances where</i>

1322
01:15:25,620 --> 01:15:30,172
Christian's insecurity
is about what
other people think...

1323
01:15:36,482 --> 01:15:40,379
<i>It really hurts because
I thought we were past that.</i>

1324
01:15:40,379 --> 01:15:42,000
You know, now I'm wondering,

1325
01:15:42,000 --> 01:15:44,758
is he starting to, like,
crack under this pressure?

1326
01:15:44,758 --> 01:15:46,344
Is... is that
what's happening?

1327
01:15:46,344 --> 01:15:49,379
<i>And I'm feeling
disappointed and sad</i>

1328
01:15:49,379 --> 01:15:53,620
and also frustrated that
things have taken this turn.

1329
01:15:54,724 --> 01:15:56,827
[Jane] From everything
you told me,

1330
01:15:56,827 --> 01:15:58,862
like, it sounds like

1331
01:15:58,862 --> 01:16:01,344
he's not taking into account
your emotions,

1332
01:16:02,206 --> 01:16:04,000
and he just does
whatever he wants.

1333
01:16:05,931 --> 01:16:08,448
I mean, do you think
he genuinely cares about you?

1334
01:16:09,241 --> 01:16:11,068
Up until yesterday,

1335
01:16:11,862 --> 01:16:14,103
I had my doubts at times,

1336
01:16:14,103 --> 01:16:15,551
but I always chose to believe

1337
01:16:15,551 --> 01:16:18,379
that him deciding
to come here and meet

1338
01:16:18,379 --> 01:16:22,068
was enough of a proof
that he cared.

1339
01:16:22,068 --> 01:16:24,275
But the way
he's going about things,

1340
01:16:24,275 --> 01:16:30,000
I would say, at this point,
my trust in him is, like,
nearly zero percent.

1341
01:16:30,758 --> 01:16:33,931
But my heart,
it's still there,

1342
01:16:33,931 --> 01:16:37,379
and I know
it's probably wrong,

1343
01:16:37,379 --> 01:16:39,551
[sighs] but there's
one part of me

1344
01:16:39,551 --> 01:16:41,931
that still wants
to give him a chance.

1345
01:16:44,482 --> 01:16:46,000
So, you just got to meet him.

1346
01:16:47,758 --> 01:16:49,655
[Cleo] <i>I'm feeling
very anxious</i>

1347
01:16:49,655 --> 01:16:51,862
<i>about confronting Christian.</i>

1348
01:16:51,862 --> 01:16:54,862
He needs to be
able to separate

1349
01:16:54,862 --> 01:16:57,379
what people think about us

1350
01:16:57,379 --> 01:17:01,103
<i>from his own feelings
about our relationship.</i>

1351
01:17:01,103 --> 01:17:02,551
<i>If he can't do that,</i>

1352
01:17:02,551 --> 01:17:06,137
there's a slim chance
of this relationship
working out.

1353
01:17:12,275 --> 01:17:14,275
[Tyray] Oh, man.
My heart is racing.

1354
01:17:14,275 --> 01:17:16,344
Like, it's finally here,
you know?

1355
01:17:17,620 --> 01:17:20,172
<i>I don't know
how I'm gonna react
when I see this person,</i>

1356
01:17:20,172 --> 01:17:21,413
or how she's gonna react.

1357
01:17:22,482 --> 01:17:24,241
<i>Or what if she doesn't
show up at all</i>

1358
01:17:58,827 --> 01:18:00,517
Um, feeling nervous.

1359
01:18:00,517 --> 01:18:02,620
Mixed emotions, actually.

1360
01:18:02,620 --> 01:18:04,620
Still debating
whether I want to go or not.

1361
01:18:04,620 --> 01:18:07,517
Might just have to lock myself
in the bathroom. [chuckles]

1362
01:18:08,896 --> 01:18:11,517
My sisters and I
landed in Denver

1363
01:18:11,517 --> 01:18:13,068
and in a few hours
I'm gonna be

1364
01:18:13,068 --> 01:18:15,000
<i>meeting the real Carmella,</i>

1365
01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:17,586
the one I thought
I was talking to
for four years.

1366
01:18:18,724 --> 01:18:21,206
<i>Meeting the real Carmella
is a big deal</i>

1367
01:18:21,206 --> 01:18:24,241
<i>because she could
be easily involved
with Christian</i>

1368
01:18:24,241 --> 01:18:26,724
<i>and this whole catfish scheme.</i>

1369
01:18:26,724 --> 01:18:30,482
Maybe she knows him
and maybe she could
lead me to him.

1370
01:18:33,034 --> 01:18:36,896
So it's confusing
and it's also, like,
weird to--

1371
01:18:36,896 --> 01:18:37,896
It's kind of hard to explain,

1372
01:18:37,896 --> 01:18:41,206
but I do feel excitement
to be meeting her.

1373
01:18:41,206 --> 01:18:42,724
You know,
I'm meeting the person

1374
01:18:42,724 --> 01:18:43,793
that is the image
of the person

1375
01:18:43,793 --> 01:18:46,137
I thought that I was
in love with, you know.

1376
01:18:46,137 --> 01:18:47,689
So it's kind of,
like, a mixed bag

1377
01:18:47,689 --> 01:18:50,586
because,
at one point, I'm like,
"This is the real her,"

1378
01:18:50,586 --> 01:18:52,758
but then at the same time,
I'm like, "I don't know her."

1379
01:18:54,344 --> 01:18:56,448
If I do feel like
I'm catching feelings
or anything like that,

1380
01:18:56,448 --> 01:18:59,620
I just have to remind myself
the reason that I'm here:

1381
01:18:59,620 --> 01:19:01,724
to meet and talk
about what happened.

1382
01:19:01,724 --> 01:19:02,896
I believe
that she's gonna think

1383
01:19:02,896 --> 01:19:04,413
I'm some type
of loser, honestly.

1384
01:19:04,413 --> 01:19:06,517
That's, that's pretty much
what I have in my mind.

1385
01:19:06,517 --> 01:19:09,517
She's gonna be like,
"Wow, this guy got played
and embarrassed,"

1386
01:19:09,517 --> 01:19:13,620
and then, you know,
"I'm just gonna help him."

1387
01:19:13,620 --> 01:19:14,517
[chuckles]

1388
01:19:14,517 --> 01:19:16,379
And that's...
that's nice of her.

1389
01:19:17,620 --> 01:19:20,241
If it turns out that Carmella
isn't involved in this scam,

1390
01:19:20,241 --> 01:19:22,586
<i>I do feel like
I owe her something.</i>

1391
01:19:22,586 --> 01:19:25,586
<i>She really didn't
have to agree to meet.</i>

1392
01:19:26,344 --> 01:19:28,344
<i>So just in case,
I went with my sisters</i>

1393
01:19:28,344 --> 01:19:30,896
to get her a little something
to show my gratitude.

1394
01:19:30,896 --> 01:19:33,586
- They have a lot of
jewelry up here, too.
- [Tyray] Oh, jewelry.

1395
01:19:33,586 --> 01:19:35,068
That's, like,
an easy gift, I think.

1396
01:19:35,068 --> 01:19:38,344
[Shaprea speaking]

1397
01:19:38,344 --> 01:19:40,862
- What are you trying to do?
- Yeah, what do you need
to send her a gift for?

1398
01:19:42,344 --> 01:19:44,448
I think you guys are thinking
too much into it. [chuckles]

1399
01:19:44,448 --> 01:19:45,724
[Shaprea speaking]

1400
01:19:45,724 --> 01:19:47,896
[sighs] So, candle it is.

1401
01:19:47,896 --> 01:19:49,689
- Just this.
- Gift her that candle.

1402
01:19:51,896 --> 01:19:53,793
[knock on door]

1403
01:19:54,896 --> 01:19:55,793
[Tyray] Oh, hey, guys.

1404
01:19:55,793 --> 01:19:56,827
- [Lashanti] Oh, hey.
- [Shaprea] Hello.

1405
01:19:56,827 --> 01:19:58,586
- You look nice.
- Oh, thanks. You, too.

1406
01:19:59,827 --> 01:20:03,586
I'm feel like
it's important to give
the real Carmella a gift

1407
01:20:03,586 --> 01:20:05,517
just to show my gratitude,

1408
01:20:05,517 --> 01:20:07,517
<i>but I don't want her
to get the wrong idea</i>

1409
01:20:07,517 --> 01:20:10,034
and I don't want her think
I'm some type creep
or anything like that.

1410
01:20:10,034 --> 01:20:12,379
So it's all sorts of things
going through my mind.

1411
01:20:13,206 --> 01:20:14,586
[Lashanti] So...
So, how you feeling?

1412
01:20:15,448 --> 01:20:17,724
Nervous, scared, anxious?

1413
01:20:17,724 --> 01:20:21,965
I'm mainly nervous
because I don't really know,
like, you know,

1414
01:20:21,965 --> 01:20:23,241
I don't know what to expect,

1415
01:20:23,241 --> 01:20:25,448
and I'm just nervous
about what I'm gonna say.

1416
01:20:25,448 --> 01:20:29,241
I don't know
if she's connected
with this, you know.

1417
01:20:29,241 --> 01:20:31,517
So that's where I'm at.
I just, I just don't know.

1418
01:20:31,517 --> 01:20:33,517
And where are you guys going?

1419
01:20:33,517 --> 01:20:34,965
Um, to a lounge.

1420
01:20:34,965 --> 01:20:37,000
Did she suggest a place
or you?

1421
01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:38,827
Um, I was looking online.
I suggested it.

1422
01:20:38,827 --> 01:20:39,965
- [Shaprea] Oh, okay.
- [Lashanti] Okay.

1423
01:20:41,689 --> 01:20:43,137
- [chuckles]
- [chuckles] I'll keep it on.

1424
01:20:44,827 --> 01:20:48,413
Tyray appears to be nervous,
a little anxious.

1425
01:20:48,965 --> 01:20:49,827
- Good luck.
- Cheers.

1426
01:20:49,827 --> 01:20:51,000
- Good luck, yeah.
- Cheers.

1427
01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:52,586
Got it.

1428
01:20:52,586 --> 01:20:54,827
[Lashanti] <i>I think
he has a lot of reasons
to be nervous.</i>

1429
01:20:54,827 --> 01:20:56,793
<i>He doesn't even
know this person.</i>

1430
01:20:56,793 --> 01:20:59,827
<i>She could be
some catfish woman
behind the catfish</i>

1431
01:20:59,827 --> 01:21:01,620
- All right.
- Just let us know
when you make it back.

1432
01:21:01,620 --> 01:21:02,896
[Tyray] All right.

1433
01:21:02,896 --> 01:21:06,068
He definitely
will feel a type of way
when he sees her face...

1434
01:21:06,068 --> 01:21:08,827
- Mm-hmm.
- ...because she is
the face of the person

1435
01:21:08,827 --> 01:21:09,896
that he been talking to.

1436
01:21:09,896 --> 01:21:11,689
So I just don't know
how that's really gonna go.

1437
01:21:13,000 --> 01:21:14,310
[Tyray] Phew!

1438
01:21:14,310 --> 01:21:15,241
Oh, man.

1439
01:21:15,241 --> 01:21:17,068
So slippery. Hello. Ooh.

1440
01:21:17,068 --> 01:21:19,137
Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
I can't get up. Hey.

1441
01:21:34,965 --> 01:21:38,586
Oh, man. My heart is racing
and it's overwhelming.

1442
01:21:38,586 --> 01:21:40,724
[chuckles] Like,
it's finally here, you know?

1443
01:21:40,724 --> 01:21:42,206
This whole journey.

1444
01:21:42,206 --> 01:21:43,965
And it's, like,
gonna come to an end,

1445
01:21:43,965 --> 01:21:45,862
or maybe a new beginning.

1446
01:21:47,413 --> 01:21:49,241
Heading to meet
the real Carmella

1447
01:21:49,241 --> 01:21:50,620
is heartbreaking because,

1448
01:21:50,620 --> 01:21:53,689
<i>you know, I envisioned me
actually, you know,</i>

1449
01:21:53,689 --> 01:21:55,862
meeting the Carmella
I was in love with,
my Carmella.

1450
01:21:57,620 --> 01:21:58,896
Thank you. Appreciate it.

1451
01:21:58,896 --> 01:22:00,206
[man] You're welcome.

1452
01:22:00,206 --> 01:22:02,793
[Tyray] <i>And even though
I'm focused
on confronting her,</i>

1453
01:22:02,793 --> 01:22:05,172
<i>I also have
all this excitement
and butterflies</i>

1454
01:22:05,172 --> 01:22:07,000
<i>my thinking about meeting her</i>

1455
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:09,689
<i>because she is the image
of the person</i>

1456
01:22:09,689 --> 01:22:11,413
I've been talking to
for four years.

1457
01:22:16,206 --> 01:22:18,344
- [server] Hi. How are you?
- Hey. Hello.
I'm good. How are you?

1458
01:22:18,344 --> 01:22:20,241
Good! I've got a menu
for you there.

1459
01:22:20,241 --> 01:22:21,344
Okay, thanks.

1460
01:22:21,344 --> 01:22:22,896
You're welcome.
Are you meeting anybody?

1461
01:22:22,896 --> 01:22:23,827
Uh, supposedly.

1462
01:22:23,827 --> 01:22:25,793
- [both laugh]
- Hopefully.

1463
01:22:25,793 --> 01:22:27,448
- Can I just get water for now?
- Yeah, of course.

1464
01:22:27,448 --> 01:22:28,896
- All right, thanks.
- [server chuckles]

1465
01:22:31,206 --> 01:22:32,413
[inhales nervously]

1466
01:22:47,689 --> 01:22:49,103
- Oh, thanks.
- [server] You're welcome.

1467
01:23:04,172 --> 01:23:05,241
[slurping]

1468
01:23:16,137 --> 01:23:17,137
[Tyray] <i>I'm really anxious.</i>

1469
01:23:17,137 --> 01:23:19,344
<i>I'm nervous. I'm afraid.</i>

1470
01:23:19,344 --> 01:23:21,586
<i>The seconds
are just going by so slow.</i>

1471
01:23:22,965 --> 01:23:24,517
<i>I don't know
how I'm gonna react</i>

1472
01:23:24,517 --> 01:23:26,655
when I see this person,
or how she's gonna react.

1473
01:23:30,517 --> 01:23:32,827
<i>Or what if she doesn't
show up at all</i>

1474
01:23:32,827 --> 01:23:34,344
and they just played me again?

1475
01:23:34,344 --> 01:23:35,689
<i>That would crush me.</i>

1476
01:23:49,310 --> 01:23:51,103
[Statler]
Happy Valentine's Day.

1477
01:23:52,241 --> 01:23:55,965
In my heart,
I know I'm ready
to move in with her.

1478
01:23:55,965 --> 01:23:57,344
<i>I don't want to wait
any longer</i>

1479
01:23:57,344 --> 01:24:00,103
to find out
if she feels the same way.

1480
01:24:00,103 --> 01:24:02,965
You know, I have, like,
a month until my lease is up.

1481
01:24:02,965 --> 01:24:04,793
I'm not planning
on renewing it.

1482
01:24:04,793 --> 01:24:07,965
So I think the next step
is, like, move in with you.

1483
01:24:11,620 --> 01:24:13,482
I have Jasmine here.

1484
01:24:19,413 --> 01:24:21,137
[Dana speaking on phone]

1485
01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:33,620
I mean,
why would I have sex with you
and express those feelings

1486
01:24:33,620 --> 01:24:35,689
and then lie?

1487
01:24:35,689 --> 01:24:37,344
Well, you kind of did.

1488
01:24:37,344 --> 01:24:38,413
Not in my mind.

1489
01:24:39,344 --> 01:24:40,413
<i>She called me a manipulator.</i>

1490
01:24:40,413 --> 01:24:42,448
<i>She called me a gaslighter.</i>

1491
01:24:42,448 --> 01:24:44,413
<i>And it's really
leaving me thinking,</i>

1492
01:24:44,413 --> 01:24:46,068
is this even a relationship
that I can be in anymore?

1493
01:24:46,068 --> 01:24:47,586
I'm... [sighs]

1494
01:24:49,620 --> 01:24:51,793
[speaking Tagalog]

1495
01:24:55,137 --> 01:24:56,689
[David signing]

1496
01:25:01,586 --> 01:25:03,137
[interpreter speaking Tagalog]

1497
01:25:10,068 --> 01:25:13,689
[in English] Maybe you think
she wants your money?

1498
01:25:16,689 --> 01:25:18,689
[Razvan speaking]

1499
01:25:33,344 --> 01:25:35,034
[Tyray] <i>After what
I've been through,</i>

1500
01:25:35,034 --> 01:25:38,137
<i>I can't trust anything unless</i>
I see it with my own two eyes.

1501
01:25:38,137 --> 01:25:39,620
[door opens]

1502
01:25:39,620 --> 01:25:40,448
Who...