[Shaun Robinson] From Vietnam,
Romania, the United Kingdom,
Israel, the Philippines, and New York City,
on Before the 90 Days the Couples Tell All.
Violet took the pregnancy test in front of you.
You did not trust that?
There's science and then there's miracles.
Do you think that she would be capable of lying to you
about a child just to manipulate you?
Yes.
Had you been reaching out to any guys on social media?
I mean, it was more, like, flirtatious.
Hey, it's the first time I hear that.
- God meant the sex between men and woman. - Oh, [bleep] that.
Today in this world, men become a woman and woman become a man.
- Oh, sorry. - I wanna give you a big [bleep] you.
- You've seen Statler in past relationships... - Yep.
...um, does she usually move very quickly?
Yes. Almost always.
- So, what makes Dempsey special? - Uh...
I'm not 100% sure that Dempsey is special.
I feel like you want to know you, like, still got it.
- Like you want to-- - I don't even know I still got it.
What... What don't I have?
Your ego is, like, through the roof right now.
- I feel like I'm being attacked right now. - [bleep] own it.
Jasmine, do you and Dane have a sex video
from one month before Gino came to see you?
Uh...
Ooh.
We are going to call the man who catfished Tyray.
[line ringing]
[man] Hello?
[upbeat music playing]
[Meisha] Today is the big Tell All.
It's exciting.
But at the same time, you're walking into a den of wolves.
Digestive system is okay at the moment.
My nerves aren't bad, so.
Things are good. I know where the toilet is, I think I'll be okay.
Hello.
- You look like a movie star. - How are you?. So do you.
- That's crazy. - How are you?
Meisha seems nice, but she's really catholic and I'm really gay.
I know there's going to be judgment. I mean, without a doubt.
[upbeat music playing]
[Riley] I'm feeling good about going into this Tell All.
Let's go.
I'm not here to judge.
'Cause my [bleep] stinks. [laughing]
Hey, hey, hey.
- Oh, hey, Riley. - What's going on?
- Misha. - [Meisha laughing] Oh, my God.
- What's going on? Hugs. Hugs. - [Meisha] It's okay, it's okay.
- Y'all look amazing. - [Statler] You look amazing.
[Meisha] Wow, it's good to see you.
[Christian] It's really good to be back in the USA.
I think the other couples,
they probably think that I'm some boozehound, charmer, you know, playboy.
And that's just not the truth.
I'm looking forward to showing people, you know, what I'm like, uh, in person.
I feel like, not too much makes me nervous,
- but I feel like this makes me feel a little sick. - Really?
- How's it going, everybody? - [Meisha] Oh, my God.
Howdy, neighbor. Hello, hello.
[Riley] Doesn't he look matching?
[Statler] Yes, hi. Hi, Christian.
- I like this look, bro. - Thank you, appreciate it.
I love that coat, it kinda matches my shoes.
[Meisha] Oh, my gosh, it totally does.
- Yeah, we should switch. - Have a seat.
I feel like I have so many questions for everybody, like, updates.
- [Riley] It's a lot. - It's a lot.
I think, honestly, I kinda wanna speak to Nicola.
You know, my mother used to say things to me like,
"Don't use the Bible to justify your bad behavior."
I just think that Nicola needs to understand that when Meisha is sharing her feelings
and he says things like, "Where in the Bible does it say I have to do that?"
That's very dismissive and hurtful.
Hi. David.
Christian. It's very nice to meet you.
Oh, thank you, thank you so much.
I'll just let you know that, um,
I have a few people that'll be interpreting for me.
- Uh, they'll be walking with me as well. - Awesome, right on.
- [Statler] David. Hi. - [Meisha] Hi, David.
David, I have to ask, did your family see the donut hand signals?
- Yeah. - [laughing]
What made you use donut?
Oh, my gosh, Riley, you know.
Because a donut is delicious.
- No, I'm saying there's another way of explaining it. - A donut's just delicious.
- You're ridiculous. - [Statler] I get it.
Is there anybody y'all are not looking forward to seeing or talking to?
My gosh, look at you going right there with the punches.
[dramatic music playing]
[Christian] What about Amanda?
She was just so mean. I don't get it. Just didn't make sense to me.
It seemed to me that she was never content.
I will say, the one comment that really just grossed me out
was the bloody sword. I literally--
[Statler] Amanda. Hey.
- You just B-lined straight for that. - Yeah, yeah.
So, we were just chatting about you and Razvan.
[Riley] Don't worry about it.
We were, like, we thought that you was just exploring
your emotions and your feelings.
[Amanda] Looking back at it,
I feel like filming didn't get so much of the real me.
I wish I would have been more of myself
and not so concerned about what people would think of me.
And now I'm just like, I don't give a [bleep].
Like, this is me. [chuckles] Take it how it is.
To be honest, I don't feel uncomfortable talking to women
because I talk to women like they're people.
You know what I'm saying? I feel like a lot of men...
You know, [sighing] like just talk to [bleep] women like they're people.
They're people, you know?
[Amanda] Some of the other cast mates are toxic as [bleep].
I mean...
I think it's self-explanatory.
[Meisha] Who do you guys think had the most toxic relationship?
- I mean, like, genuinely not toxic. - I'm number two.
- [Meisha] What? - I'm number two on that list.
Yeah, I'd say, I'd probably, yeah, vote you number one.
I... I own it.
Sorry, Gino and Jasmine are number one.
- [Meisha] I think they're number one. - [Statler speaking]
Toxicity, yes.
I used to think that Gino was the scum of the earth,
but I now think Gino needs to be protected at all costs.
Jasmine is a horrible human. She is the poster child for a toxic partner.
Holy cow.
If you've ever been in a toxic relationship,
right, that's triggering as hell watching her stuff.
- [Meisha] Oh, it's triggering, yeah. - So, I... I... whew.
I don't even wanna be in the same room,
so I'm glad we're not gonna be in the same room as her.
Yeah, I agree.
I don't know why that, you know, that she... that she cries 24/7.
- Like, how can you stop her from crying? - [all laughing]
That makes sense. I was, like--
She's either crying or she's screaming.
- [Christian] Oh, boy. Oh, boy. Here he is. Here is is. - [Riley] Ah, Gino.
[Christian] Uh, so, Gino, were your ears burning?
- We, uh, we were talking about you a little bit. - Oh, really?
Anything can happen today and I actually have some shocking news.
[dramatic music playing]
Well, uh...
Some of us were more on your side of the couples, uh, interactions
Hi, everyone.
[Christian] Oh, [bleep].
- [Jasmine] I made it to America, bitches. - [Riley] Oh, Lord have mercy.
You were not expecting me to be here, but here I am.
This is wild.
They didn't know that I heard what they were saying.
Everyone was saying very judgmental, bad things about me.
But when I show up...
awkward silence, no one said a word.
I wanna start by letting you know that I heard everything.
[Christian] That's true.
I think we can all identify with that.
- Definitely. - Do you recognize that you're toxic?
[dramatic music playing]
I don't think anyone's put a label on anyone,
but what I have seen, Gino, I'm very worried for you.
Okay, first of all, first of all,
like, you're being very judgmental.
I love having an opinion, I'm entitled to it.
That's very bully on you.
- [Riley] Okay. - [Jasmine] Yes.
[Riley] Okay. I got you.
[Meisha] Oh, my gosh, so cute.
[Statler] You look beautiful.
Oh, my God. Gino and Jasmine are there together. [chuckles]
Can you see me?
- You look very good. - Thank you.
What's up, Tyray?
Everyone looks amazing. You guys all look great.
[Christian] You look good too, Tyray.
Ah, thank you. [chuckles]
It's so cool to see everybody.
Meisha, can you see me?
Yes, I can see you, Nico. It's so cute.
[Shaun] Hey, guys. Hi, everyone.
- [Gino] Hi. - [producer] All right, guys, here we go.
Quiet all around.
Five, four, three, two...
Welcome to Before the 90 Days the Couples Tell All.
I'm Shaun Robinson.
And for the first time ever, we're joined by a live studio audience.
- Welcome, everybody. - [all cheering]
Yeah, that's pretty exciting.
Now, for all of our couples love led them to faraway places.
Tonight, we'll break down all of the highs and lows of their journey,
and get the latest on where their relationships stand.
I wanna mention we have several sign language interpreters
here who will be interpreting and speaking for David.
As well as our international translators
who will help keep the conversation going.
So, let's dive right in.
Gino and Jasmine, I cannot believe
I'm seeing you actually sit here together.
How are you?
- Amazing, right? - I can't believe it either.
- [laughing] - [Shaun] I know, it's been a long journey for you two.
Jasmine, the last time we saw you you were crying,
- hysterically, outside of the US Embassy... - I know.
...talking about your visa interview. What happened?
Uh, I went there prepared after waiting for 18 months for my interview,
and when the day finally arrived they say,
"Oh, I'm sorry, we have to postpone."
They said, like, "It might be something with the system."
I wanted an answer.
Even if that answer was "No, your visa's not gonna be approved,"
I wanted to have an answer.
Right. And, Gino, you didn't know what was going on?
All you knew is that you had to take down that Panamanian flag, right?
- That's all you knew, right? - Yeah.
- Exactly. - Okay. Well, there's a lot to dig into there.
David, and Sheila, welcome.
How are things between the two of you?
Uh, I'm doing well, um, Sheila and I, she's here, we're doing great.
Hi, Sheila.
[Shaun] David, you look a little bit different.
Sheila, do you like the beard or without the beard?
- Without the beard. - [all laughing]
Does that mean you're going to shave the beard, David?
No, I'm not gonna shave it. No thank you.
Okay, so we already have controversy with David and Sheila.
Amanda and Razvan,
nice to meet both you of, how are you?
- Hi, I'm good. - Hi, I'm good. Thank you.
You had a very tearful goodbye.
What happened after Amanda returned to the States?
Um...
Well...
[Shaun] Uh-oh.
We will have to dig in and see where your relationship stands today.
Christian and Cleo, nice to meet you.
- [Christian] Hey, it's great to be here. - [Cleo] Hi.
[Shaun] Hi there.
Okay, there were a lot of questions when you two left each other.
Are you two still together today?
- Yeah, absolutely. We are. - We are. Oh, yes, we are.
[Shaun] Wow, okay.
I'm actually very surprised.
Christian is the guy that likes to go to the bar and talk to other women.
If Nicola was going into bars and talking to other women
and inviting them to Thanksgiving, that would be a deal breaker for me.
They don't seem very compatible.
Christian is not on the same page, I feel.
[Shaun] Wow. Okay.
Well, we're gonna dig into this a little bit more.
But first, I'm gonna go right over to Meisha and Nicola, welcome.
How long has it been since you've seen each other?
- A year. - A year?
Yeah. One year.
We keep this relationship, you know, from far it's hard.
But, um...
I can tell you that I'm coming to USA very, very soon to visit Meisha.
- Oh, you are? Okay. - Yeah.
- Is it the K1 visa or? - [Meisha] No.
We've been waiting to see about the annulment
and then we were gonna apply for the K1 visa.
So, he's gonna come over here for now and visit. So I can touch him.
- [all laughing] - [Jasmine speaking]
Jasmine, he still doesn't know what heavy petting is.
[Shaun] All right.
I wanna go over to Tyray.
Tyray, I'm so sorry that you could not be with us in the studio. How are you?
Uh, slight headache, a little sore throat, but I'm okay.
[Shaun] Okay, good. We certainly hope that you feel better.
You know, we saw your journey take a surprising turn
when your partner of four years turned out to be a catfish.
How are you doing today with what happened in that relationship?
[Tyray] I mean, I'm good.
But it's just having people asking me if I'm okay.
That's the part where it's like, uh, like I have to relive it
and go back through it.
Well, Tyray, I can't wait to talk to you about your story.
- Statler and Dempsey. - Hi.
Um, you know, when we last saw both of you
Dempsey you decided that Statler could actually come and live with you.
Is the place big enough for the both of you?
- [chuckles] - Um...
[all laughing]
Uh... [chuckles]
- I guess we're gonna find out. [chuckling] - [Shaun] Uh-oh.
Let me go over now to Riley and Violet.
So, are you two still together today?
- No. - No?
- You're not a couple? - No.
- Oh, boy. That was a no-no. - Yeah, that was...
- [Meisha] Strong no. - Yeah. Strong no.
So, Riley, Violet was, I thought, saying that she was pregnant?
- Right. - So, what happened with that?
Gino, that's a very good question.
And we are going to find out very soon.
Now that we've gotten some quick updates,
I wanna kick things off with Gino and Jasmine.
After a delay in getting her K1 visa,
they are now living together here in the United States.
And, once again, Jasmine, good to see you in person.
- Thank you. - Okay.
So, how long have you been here in the US?
[Jasmine] Just a few days.
- Just a few days? - Yes.
I'm happy that finally the K1 visa took place and I'm here.
But I believe that when God created Michigan,
he didn't mean people to live there
because it is so cold!
Well, Jasmine, the host of this show is from the State of Michigan.
- No! - [all laughing]
Yes, born and raised in Michigan.
That's what I'm worried about. You know, is can Jasmine survive Michigan winter.
[Shaun] Yeah. Okay, I have another topic I wanna move on to.
A massive divide in Gino and Jasmine's relationship
is her ex-boyfriend Dane.
Let's take a look at how close Jasmine and Dane really are.
Including something we've never seen before.
- [Jasmine] Hi. - Hi, how are ya? Good to see you.
[Jasmine] Yes, you always look so good.
You look fantastic as well. Love the nails.
[Jasmine] We've stayed friends since the breakup.
But Gino doesn't know anything about Dane.
[line ringing]
- [Dane speaking] - Hi, baby.
Uh, I wish I could say like a honeymoon. [chuckling]
It's so embarrassing, but...
He doesn't wanna have sex with me.
Gino, how'd you feel after seeing that?
I mean...
to talk to her ex about our sex life in details, it's just not right. Period
- [Amanda] I agree. - I agree.
- [Gino] You don't do that. - [Amanda] And, Gino,
honestly, like, I don't know how you can trust her around him.
[Jasmine] You have expressed several times
that you yourself are very insecure
and that was my insecurity, okay?
I'm not saying I'm an angel 'cause I'm not, but Gino's not an angel either.
Did you watch that? You were, like, calling him "baby."
You talk about how bad our sex is to your ex,
that's bull[bleep], you don't do that [bleep].
Feeling that rejection, of the person that you love, over and over again
I needed some validation from a male perspective.
[Shaun] Jasmine, have there been any other meetings with Dane
that Gino doesn't know about?
I'll be very honest because I choose to be honest.
- And... - [dramatic music playing]
- ...I know you're gonna get mad... - [Shaun] Uh-oh.
...but, um, I knew that I was coming to America,
and I don't know when I'm gonna go back to Panama again
and I didn't know if I will ever see Dane again.
- [Gino] Are you kidding? - And he proposed...
...a goodbye dinner.
"Goodbye dinner," what the [bleep] is that?
- [Amanda] So, you went on a date? - No, it is goodbye dinner.
A card, flowers, and dinner.
- From a friend. - [Gino] That's insane.
Did you guys have sex after that?
You did not trust her about you being the father?
I know medically where I am at.
She wanted me to chase for her and fight for her.
That is the toxic part of our whole relationship.
[Violet speaking]
Cut it out. Own your bull[bleep].
[dramatic music playing]
I didn't know if I will ever seen Dane again.
- [Gino] Are you kidding? - And he proposed...
...a goodbye dinner.
"Goodbye dinner," what the [bleep] is that?
[Jasmine] We had dinner to say goodbye.
- A dinner. - [Amanda] So, you went on a date?
No, it is goodbye dinner.
- No sex, no kiss. - [Gino speaking]
No, we went to a restaurant we had dinner--
Jasmine, when was this?
- Wait, what? - That's Valentine's Day.
- [Statler] No. No, no, no. - No, it isn't.
[Gino] You're celebrating Valentine's--
- [Shaun] Oh, my God! - [Gino speaking]
We didn't even realize.
You know when we realized it was Valentine's?
When we went to the restaurant and there were hearts everywhere.
I was like, "Oh, look it's Valentine's."
- Did you guys have sex after that? - No.
Does anybody buy the Jasmine didn't know it was Valentine's Day?
It up to you to believe it or not, I'm being honest.
[Amanda] Jasmine, did he get you a gift?
It was, um, a bouquet of flowers with a note, and that was it.
So, a card, flowers, and dinner on Valentine's Day.
That's really sad that you would do that to me.
How can you do that to me?
You think he should be okay with that still?
I don't see a problem.
- Would you be okay with it if it were reverse? - No.
I don't see a problem with me being friends with Dane.
[Gino] No, I have a big problem with it.
[Christian] Well, [clears throat], uh, I mean,
Jasmine was looking for some attention, little bit.
[Jasmine speaking]
Well, but still, I mean, I wasn't talking about intimate sexual details.
- Come on. - [Christian] I mean, [scoffs]
I could see a world where Dane said, "Well, hey, if it's really that bad,
why don't you come on downstairs to my place tonight.
And we'll just, uh, crack a bottle of wine and talk about it."
Uh, I mean, we have had so much sex in the past
that we got sick and tired of it.
That's so gross, Jasmine.
That's the reason why I don't want them two together.
We don't want that anymore. We're like, "Ugh!" It's like--
Jasmine, it should just be as simple as Gino says,
"I don't want you to see him again," and that should be it.
[Amanda] Jasmine, what if Gino gave you an ultimatum:
stop being his friend or leave the relationship, which would you choose?
That would be very unfair for him to ask me that because I have very few friends.
My inner circle is so, so small.
And Dane has been part of it even before Gino.
- And he's nothing other than a friend. - [Christian] Toxic.
So, Gino, Jasmine is constantly telling you
that she is not gonna listen to how you feel,
you have told her, "I do not like it when you talk to Dane,
I don't want you to do this, I do not want you to talk to me this way,
I do not want you to act this way when we fight."
At what point do you say to yourself,
this woman does not care how I feel?
If... If... The breaking point is if she cheats on me.
[Shaun] Jasmine, you claimed at one point
you had a sex video with Dane only to retract it later on.
Once and for all,
do you and Dane have a sex video
from one month before Gino came to see you?
[dramatic music playing]
Um...
You're not making it easy for me.
You better start standing by my side.
As somebody who's been with a narcissistic abuser,
I know that type of behavior, and that's it.
I'm not gonna feel bad. I'm gonna be myself.
Deal with it.
[dramatic music playing]
Jasmine, do you and Dane have a sex video
from one month before Gino came to see you?
Um...
- Uh-- - You did?
- Yeah, it was-- - You did a sex video?
- I told you, I told you. - No, you never told me that.
- [Jasmine] I told you about it. - What? When?
- Oh, way-- - You never told me about a sex video.
- [Jasmine] And the thing is... - [Riley speaking]
[Gino] Are you freaking kidding? That's--
I have done crazy [bleep] in the past before you
with the people that I have dated.
- That are only two people, my ex-husband and Dane. - Are you [bleep] kidding?
And we had a video...
We were drunk and we filmed each other and that was it.
- Can I see the sex video? - [scoffs] You're sick.
- Gino, don't watch that video, dude. - No, I don't wanna watch it,
- but I wanna know the date. - [Riley] Oh, the date.
If I have it in my iCloud I'm gonna show you with the date.
You got it in the iCloud? You got it in the cloud?
No, no, it's not [smacks lips] it's, uh, how do you call it? Memory stick? I don't know.
And when was the last time you talked to him?
To Dane? Uh...
After my arrival, just to let him know what I was...
You know, happening between Gino and I, all the tension.
And ever since I haven't talked to him anymore.
[Shaun] Okay, Gino and Jasmine,
we're gonna come back to you in a little bit.
But right now we are going to take a quick break.
[dramatic music playing]
You and Dane, why do you still have the video saved?
I'm gonna delete it. Is that gonna make you happy?
- Yeah, can you delete? - I'm gonna delete it.
You only save the video if you're probably planning to watch it again.
I have never watched the video again, ever.
Do you understand how
fragile she is mentally?
And you were so judgmental out there.
Like, I can take [bleep] from everyone telling me [bleep],
but you were so judgmental and you're acting like you don't know me.
Or like I have cheated on you. I'm always honest to you.
I'm not gonna feel bad about something that it's part of my past.
I have to find it and delete it, okay?
- And you don't have any other files of any of your... - No, I don't.
- ...boyfriend's sex videos and [bleep] like that? - I don't. I don't.
As somebody who's been with, like, a narcissistic abuser,
I know that type of behavior, and that's it.
You better start standing by my side
'cause trying to adapt to this whole [bleep] new country
and you're not making it easier for me, okay.
[Jasmine] Deal with it.
All right, I wanna move on now to Statler and Dempsey.
Caravan living posed some unexpected challenges for Statler.
In fact, it led to an awkward moment
that didn't make it to air until now.
Let's take a look.
[Statler] I have to pee. Like, now.
Okay.
[sighs] [groans] We're not doing that again!
I'm sitting.
I'm gonna [bleep].
Uh! Get... Oh, you're disgusting.
- Statler! - [laughing] I can't help myself.
There's no shovel. We gotta go. I gotta go, I'm sorry.
- [Dempsey laughing] - [Statler] Okay, we're gonna just...
I have to [bleep] at this point.
No light? There's no light. Okay.
- [laughing] - Okay. Oh, God!
[laughing maniacally]
It's like I'm giving birth to the Devil.
[Shaun] Oh, my gosh.
Dempsey, have you ever had anyone, let alone a girlfriend,
do something like that right in front of you?
Are you still planning on living on the farm together in the caravan?
- No. - You're not?
We are not planning on living at the farm.
But we are excited for something that's coming up soon,
so looking forward to that.
Okay, so you've got some big news to share?
- Yeah. Guess you'd say big news, yeah. - [Shaun] Okay.
This is terrifying to me.
This is like a massive thing for me as well.
[Shaun] Statler, you've mentioned that you've had
an adventurous sex life.
Even doing it in church during mass.
- Yeah. - What?
That's a big sin. Very big sin.
[dramatic music playing]
- Okay, so you've got some big news to share? - [Statler] Yeah.
We decided to look into buying a camper van,
um, so we can travel around different countries in Europe.
And, yeah, just travel in a van full time. [chuckles]
- [Shaun] Wow. - [Jasmine] That's like a dream.
- That's like the ultimate lesbian dream, yeah. - [Dempsey chuckles]
- Call me a lesbian then, that sounds like a good time. - [laughing]
She's been selling all of her things,
I haven't sold a single thing that I own.
I'm just pulling it all until the last second, uh,
because it's just too overwhelming.
[Riley speaking]
What're you gonna do for work?
So, I work from home, so I can work anywhere in the world.
[Shaun] Dempsey, what are you gonna do for work?
- Um, so I'm just gonna do bits of work here and there, um-- - [Shaun] Okay.
For a couple of months, I'll be the bread winner.
[Shaun] Couple of months you're gonna be the bread winner?
[Statler] Yep.
[Shaun] Statler, this is a huge move.
Do you have any hesitations about it at this point in your life?
I have, yeah, a ton of hesitations.
I really would like a partner who's also financially independent.
[clears throat]
Have you girls agreed on that? Like...
We talked about finances, at this point no.
When do you plan on going on this, uh, grand Euro trip?
In a couple of weeks.
This is more Dempsey's thing.
Where she just kind of does whatever she wants in the moment.
- And I'm just holding on for dear life. - Following her lead.
Yes.
So, Statler, you were really concerned
about the cramped quarters of the caravan,
what about the van?
This is downsizing it by, like, a million.
Yeah, this is gonna be even smaller than that.
But I'm trying to push myself because I'm trying to grow as a person.
- [Shaun] Right. - And I think this will do it.
But a working toilet?
But there will be a working toilet, I'm insisting on that.
[Shaun] Well, trying new things is a part of growth.
Dempsey is a spiritual person and we saw her use of sage to help clean Statler.
But there was another previously unseen part of that process.
Check this out.
Thou shall not enter anymore.
- Thou shall not enter. - This is a private area for me and thee.
- I feel like I should up for this. - Oh, yeah, we could, whoo.
- Hey! - [both laughing]
- Just maybe don't burn my vagina off, that's be nice. - Sorry, sorry.
- Okay. - Okay, wait a second. What's that?
So, you're gonna put your hand in and choose an egg.
So, I'm just gonna... What the [bleep]?
This a necklace?
You put it in and, uh, it cleanses all the energies
that, uh, no longer serve your vagina.
Like all the sexual people you have been with in the past.
I'm not sure I'm, like, wide enough for this. Ugh!
[groans] Should we get some, like, lube?
- Just think of me. - I am [bleep].
Let me tell you, it's [bleep] as the [bleep] desert in here.
Ooh, gah!
- Gah! - [Dempsey] Oh, she's in.
I don't know about this, she feels like she wants to come out.
[Dempsey] She's too pure for your vagina at the moment.
Once you get used to her then the demons will just start to fall out.
[Statler] Baby steps to the spiritual pool.
[Shaun] Statler, how uncomfortable was that?
- That was really... - [Dempsey laughing]
Once Dempsey stops laughing. That was really uncomfortable, yeah.
Do you feel cleaner afterwards, Statler?
Did you feel like... What are they supposed to do?
I felt something, but I think it was just the egg.
Uh, I felt like a chicken maybe, but, um, not cleaner, no.
Statler, you've mentioned that you've had an adventurous sex life,
going to sex parties,
a busy elevator, and even doing it in church during mass.
- [Jasmine speaking] - Yeah.
- [Jasmine] How is the...? - What?
Jesus.
- [Cleo speaking] - [Jasmine speaking]
[Christian] I think we're all curious about this aspect of it.
This was years ago. I was in my, you know, early 20s.
- I was wild, crazy, drunk, right. - Yeah, I'm not judging.
[both laughing]
[Shaun] Nicola, what are you thinking about this conversation?
[Jasmine] Oh, my gosh, Nicola's not gonna be happy about it.
[Riley] His face is so serious right now.
I think it's not respectable conversation, you know, when you are mocking God.
And doing stuff like that in the church that's, I mean,
a sin that you need to ask God forgiveness on your knees.
I mean, why you have to go to church and do it in the church?
I mean, that's a big sin.
- I agree. It's a very, you know, um, disrespectful. - [Jasmine speaking]
I was worried that you were going to say that you had sex in a church.
- No, that's one of my no-go's. - That's what I thought was coming.
That's, like, one of my no-go's.
Dempsey, anything about Statler's sexual past that upset you?
No, I think everybody's entitled to their own past, um, not bothered at all.
[Shaun] Well, Statler admits that she has a tendency to rush into relationship.
So, we wanted to find out more about Statler's dating history
from someone who knows her very well.
Please welcome Statler's friend, Natali.
I love Statler a lot and I do know that she has this part of her heart
that is really, really deeply needing to feel love back.
That's just her personality.
But it seems like maybe this is just, like, a fun time for Dempsey,
so that absolutely concerns me.
- Hey, Statler. - Hey.
Okay, Natali, you've seen Statler in past relationships,
um, does she usually move very quickly?
Yes. Almost always.
You know, if she's in it, she's in it 100%. She's not gonna half-ass anything.
Uh...
[dramatic music playing]
I'm not 100% sure that Dempsey is special.
Do you have any red flags? 'Cause I feel like there should be.
I do have concerns for Statler.
We have a very difficult time communicating.
I absolutely think we can benefit from couples therapy.
Okay, Dempsey, are you onboard for couples therapy?
Do you wanna answer that Dempsey, or?
[Jasmine speaking]
Uh...
I'm not 100% that Dempsey is special. To be honest.
[Shaun] Dempsey, um, how do you feel
hearing Statler's very good friend
say this about your relationship?
Um, [chuckles] her opinion's invalid to me. [chuckles]
Why would you say that the opinion of Statler's good friend is invalid to you?
Just because it is. [chuckles]
Yeah. That felt maybe a bit on the aggressive side [chuckles] to be honest.
I mean, I'm not, like, I'm very support of Statler.
So, I don't know about my opinion being invalid.
I'd like to think it matters, what I think.
[Shaun] Does it surprise you to hear her say that, Statler?
Yeah, it surprises me, but it's also Dempsey's...
She's just sometimes... I don't know. [chuckles]
- [Shaun] She's sometimes what? - Opinionated.
What Dempsey is picking up on maybe
is that I have had some reservations about this whole thing.
So I don't know whether I like Dempsey as a person or not
but I do have concerns for Statler
so maybe that's why the defensiveness.
[Shaun] Okay, but why did you say
that Dempsey is not special?
I haven't really had a chance to meet her in person yet
or see them together.
Until then, you know, all I really know
is what Statler has told me.
Dempsey, how are you feeling right now?
- Me? I'm fine. - [Shaun] Yes.
No, you look super annoyed right now, Dempsey.
- We need you to be honest. - [Jasmine] Babe, did your face change color?
[scoffs]
She just... just like this with people sometimes.
No, I'm not, Statler.
- Don't try and make excuses. - Okay.
I feel like I'm sensing,
probably other people are too, tension right away.
Do you have any red flags?
Are there any reservations? 'Cause I feel like there should be.
We have a very difficult time communicating sometimes.
So it's hard for us to have these big discussions because...
one of us shuts down, always.
I absolutely think
we can benefit from couples therapy.
- Um... - Okay, Dempsey, are you on board
for couples therapy?
Do you wanna answer that Dempsey or...
Um, I wasn't, but we have spoken about it.
Um...
- [Statler] Couple's workbooks. - [Shaun] Okay.
We kind of are meeting halfway
- by doing that first. - [Shaun] Okay.
- If our communication still is complete [bleep], you know, - [Shaun] Uh-huh.
...I guess the couple's therapist
is gonna be a last resort.
[Shaun] Well, we've seen you argue
about one big decision. Having kids.
Have you talked anymore about that?
Yes, we're on the same page.
That we both don't know if we want children.
So you went from not having any
to "I don't know"
and Dempsey, you went from, "I definitely want them"
- to "I don't know", is that right? - [chuckles]
Yeah. [chuckles]
I don't know. I mean, it seemed like
they both had made up their minds
and they were fundamentally incompatible.
Like, that's the kind of thing you put on your dating profile
and you wouldn't even swipe...
if somebody wants kids and you don't.
Um, but if they are truly undecided,
like they seem now, that's different.
Natalie, what advice would you give to Dempsey?
I mean, I think she already knows this,
but I would just say take good care of her.
She has just the best heart.
And I love her and I just...
She'll give you the world. Just take good care of her.
Thank you.
[Shaun] Well, Natalie, thank you so much
for joining us and for speaking so candidly
about your friend Statler.
We appreciate it.
- Take care. Thank you. - Yup. You're welcome.
She's my best friend. I want her to be happy.
But it's still really hard to tell if they're the right fit.
[Shaun] Well, Statler and Dempsey,
I hope you two are able to keep working
on your communication with each other
and we look forward to seeing what's next for you.
Thank you.
[Shaun] It is time now to move over to Meisha and Nicola.
It took then seven long years to finally meet in person.
Clearly, it was worth the wait
since they ended up getting engaged
during Meisha's visit to Israel.
But will Meisha have to wait another seven years
to marry Nicola?
- We are going to find that out right now. - [chuckles]
[Shaun] Meisha, you said you haven't seen each other
in person for over a year now.
What has that time been like for you?
Well, of course, it's...
You know, every year is agonizing.
But after you meet and then you're ripped apart again,
I think that it even hurts even more.
Just a different sort of longing.
[Shaun] So when do you plan to see each other again?
- In what, Nicola? - [Nicola] Well...
uh, in next week.
- [Meisha] What? - [Nicola] Next week.
- [Meisha] Next week? - [Nicola] Yes.
On Sunday I have a flight to New York.
[Meisha] He is meeting me here in New York
and we're flying to Minnesota together.
When he get to the US, though, we gotta do, like,
the real American thing.
- Like, Nicola needs to be broken in. - [Shaun] Yes.
Beer garden, state fair, like, he's gotta, like,
get in the real world.
[Shaun] So let's talk about the big issue
between the two of you and that is the annulment.
Um, you have been waiting for it for a very long time.
Meisha, can you give us an update?
So, yeah, uh...
I've been waiting for the annulment
for a year and a half
and basically, um, the tribunal...
for the archdiocese would decide
if I could ever marry again.
You're really leaving that up to
a bunch of old dudes, though, to decide that for you?
In my faith, yes. And I... And that won't make sense
to a lot of people, but yes,
I put... I put all my faith in mother church.
I trust God. I trust God. Don't worry about it.
I trust God.
And, Nicola, I did not tell you this...
But I did actually receive an answer from...
the tribunal about my case.
And...
Um...
[Shaun] Do you think your mom and Nicola
are a great couple?
He is different than someone
that my mom would usually go for.
I do feel like he's going to come in
and judge the hell out of you.
We just don't wanna feel like we're kinda trapped in our own home.
- So you caught her in the lies first. - [Riley] Yes.
[Shaun] Why didn't you just break off
- the relationship at that point? - [Riley] Because I did.
- Why didn't you just say... Uh-huh. - I did. I did break it off.
And she went through my family...
begging them to... That I contact her.
Nicola, I did not tell you this...
But I did actually receive an answer from...
the tribunal.
And... Um...
I just wanna let you know that no matter what they said,
I love you,
and it does not change how I feel about you.
- But fortunately, they gave me the annulment - [man] Nice.
- [all applauding] - ...and my...
Oh, my God!
- [man] That's excellent. - [Shaun] Breaking news. Breaking news. [laughs]
Congrats. Wow.
It is nothing but a celebration
when you get to Minnesota with me.
[Shaun] How do you feel about that, Nicola?
Amazing. I love it so much.
We prayed for it everyday.
I mean, Meisha and I in our rosary.
[Jasmine] Nicola, you're gonna lose your virginity.
[all laughing]
[Jasmine] Yeah! [laughs]
- So happy! - [Nicola] Oh, my God. Yeah, Jasmine.
[Jasmine] I'm happy for you, Nicola.
You deserve to enjoy sex.
[Nicola] Thank you so much, Jasmine.
Now that the annulment has come through,
what's your timeline for getting married?
I... I personally am ready now.
I've been ready for years and years.
So I'm ready...
- now, like... - [Shaun] Nicola?
- Uh-- - Same, same. Same. But...
Sex have to be only between husband and wife,
not between boyfriend and girlfriend.
- Ah, [bleep] that. - [Nicola] That's...
[Riley laughing]
I respect you. You... That's your faith.
I mean, it's not my faith, it's my sexuality, but okay.
My faith say husband and wife.
That's the catholic, uh, faith.
We have to wait until we get married
and do it in proper way and God way
[Meisha] Yes, Nicola, we know that.
- But you will sleep in my bed - [woman laughs]
...in my bedroom and I have a very big bed
so don't worry about it.
We'll put pillows in between us.
You'll be just fine.
[laughs]
[Shaun] Well, as we discussed,
Nicola is a 46 year old virgin and not ashamed of it.
Meisha, on the other hand, is not a virgin.
If you think that would cause
some complications in their relationship, well,
you'd be right. Watch this.
[Nicola] Meisha...
My God, Meisha.
- What you-- - Oh, my gosh, Nicola, what?
Wake up. Morning, sweetie pie.
Kissing and hugging, of course.
Um...
Heavy petting?
What's that, heavy petting?
Heavy petting?
[all laughing]
- Okay, all right. - [laughing]
[Meisha] Okay. Oh...
Nicola is missing a golden opportunity right now
to make this moment a little bit flirty and fun.
Putting this Dead Sea mud on me,
like you would spackle a wall.
Okay.
So the way that I'm putting this on you...
do you wanna, like, put it on me again, anywhere?
[clears throat]
- [Nicola] You just-- - That's not the right answer to me, really.
Sex, you learn in Israel when you are in the fifth grade.
They explain to you about women and men.
When the time will come to do sex with Meisha,
I think I will be ready for it.
- [man] I don't know about that. - [Riley] No, you won't.
- No, you won't. - [Shaun] What do you think, Riley?
[Riley] We know he won't.
- [Shaun] He won't be? - No.
He's gonna... Listen.
- [chuckles] - I give you... I give you 38.7 seconds, bro.
- [Shaun chuckles] Oh, Riley. - I, uh... That's a good over under.
- [man chuckles] - [Shaun] Really?
- Uh, Nicola, what makes you think... - Yes.
...that you know so much about...
the woman's body and how to please her.
Well, it's not a rocket science
that you need to go
and to learn how to sleep with woman.
You gotta study, bud.
If it's been this long, you got some learning to do.
- I can give you a class. [chuckling] - [indistinct chatter]
- [Christian] It's not easy. - [woman] Nicola, there is a learning curve.
[Jasmine] It's more than putting
- banana in the donut, okay? - [woman] It's more.
[Jasmine] That's the easiest part
but satisfying a woman sexually,
takes more than you might think of.
So don't feel so confident
because you understand the anatomy of a woman
based on you fifth grade science class.
- Yeah, that's embarrassing that think that. - I don't even think
- they teach about the clitoris - See that's what I was
- ...in fifth grade. - ...trying to get at.
If God made the sex between men and women,
why it have to be hard?
I'm not saying that I am expert,
but I will learn.
Meisha, you will teach me.
[Jasmine] Uh, Meisha...
so do you think he's gonna be good
- when he performs? - [man chuckles]
Yes, when you can actually, like,
lay by each other
and kind of, I can crawl on him and...
Have clothes on, but I can crawl on him and...
Yeah, I... I feel like I'm smart enough
to be able to put two and two together
that I'm not worried.
- [Jasmine] He has a proper equipment. - [Meisha] He does.
[all laughing]
Listen, the minute we get married,
I can't wait to consummate that marriage
and I will hold nothing back.
- [clicks tongue] - And he just needs to be popped open.
So I feel like for me
- this one is in for it and I love it. - [all laughing]
[Meisha] I am so excited.
It's gonna be like this,
"Oh, Meisha, I love you, Meisha.
- Ow, ow, ow - [all laughing]
- [Shaun] Oh, gross. [laughing] - [Riley] ...ow!" [laughs]
That's exactly what's gonna happen.
He's gonna need inhaler.
- [all laughing] - He's gonna...
- [woman] I don't know, he is... - He's gonna...
- [speaking indistinctly] - [all laughing]
I think it's gonna start on their knees
and it's gonna end on their knees
but not in a sexual way.
It's gonna be very, like, guilty and, like,
"Oh, gosh. What have we done?"
[all laughing]
I feel he's gonna be very weird about it.
Oh, my God. No way.
When she's my wife, I promise you,
two times a day.
Oh, my God!
[Nicola laughing]
[Jasmine] It's a sin?
[Nicola] Yeah, it's, of course.
- Man-made... Man-made chemicals. - [Jasmine] Why, Nicola?
[Nicola] Because it's not natural.
Jasmine...
- See, now! - [Nicola] Jasmine, I don't--
I don't use...
- I don't take blue pills, Nicola, okay? - [Nicola] Listen...
- I don't think-- - It's Gino.
I... I don't always use
- the blue pills, Jasmine. - [Nicola] I don't think I need...
[Gino] I don't always use the blue pill.
Night one, coming up soon.
- [indistinct chatter] - [Jasmine] Yes, that's what I was thinking.
[all laughing]
[Shaun] Okay, well...
There's another key component
to Nicola and Meisha's relationship.
Meisha's daughters Morea and Svea,
they express doubts about whether their mom could be happy
with someone so super catholic.
Now they're here to tell us if their views have changed
now that their mom is engaged.
Please welcome Morea and Svea.
[all applauding]
[Shaun] Hi, ladies.
- [woman 1] Hi. - [woman 2] Hi.
[Shaun] Well, uh, welcome.
[both] Thank you.
[Shaun] So, first of all, do you think
your mom and Nicola are a great couple?
Um, he is...
different than someone my mom would usually go for.
Do you see Nicola being a good step-dad to you?
I mean...
Um...
We just don't wanna feel judged.
You know, we're... We're still teenagers.
We're still gonna live our teenage lives.
Um, we just don't...
wanna feel like we're kinda trapped in our own home.
[Shaun] Statler, what are you feeling?
Why are you nodding?
I do feel like he's going to come in
and judge the hell out of you.
And then you're not gonna want to be
at your home anymore,
and you're gonna have this breaking of a relationship
with your mom.
I just hope that you're not just, like,
"This is the guy and he's catholic
and he's really into his beliefs",
like, please, just...
There's other fish in the sea.
I do feel like he's going to come in
and judge the hell out of you.
And you're gonna have this breaking
of a relationship with your mom.
[Morea] It's just been, like, us three for so long.
We don't want anything to come in the middle of that.
Um, I think at the end of the day,
that's most important to us.
[Shaun] Nicola, let's say when you guys
are all living together...
they wanna bring a boy over to the house and hangout.
Is that okay?
Isn't that gonna be your home too, Nicola?
Do you believe him? What do you... What do you feel?
Uh, I mean, one can only hope that he's telling the truth.
I do think he is always gonna voice his concerns...
to her and, um...
I don't know if that's gonna make her more hard on us.
[Meisha] I can totally understand why...
there's worry about judgement, but...
You will never have to worry about that,
because I'll check that. I'll handle that.
[exhales]
[Shaun] Well, it's clear that Nicola and Meisha care for each other deeply,
but that doesn't mean they always see eye to eye.
Let's see what they have to say
after we revisit some of their moments of friction.
[Meisha] I'm here for one reason and one reason only,
to meet you and get answers
about what we've invested in our lives now
for almost seven years.
I think you should go to sleep, Meisha.
- Does that mean you're done with this conversation? - Yeah.
- What if I'm not done? - [laughs]
- What if I'm not done with that? - [laughs]
The problem with you, Meisha,
you never want to be done with any conversation.
When you start to talk, you never stop.
[Nicola speaking]
It's important for me to show to Meisha that I'm the man.
A woman cannot control a man.
I want to feel like Nicola is proud...
happy I'm here and cares
- that I'm here. - Mmm-hmm.
I do.
[sniffs]
Because after this long--
- Oh, my God, Meisha, why're you crying now? - Listen...
Just let me be me.
Nicola...
Did you hear what I just said?
[Nicola] Meisha thinks she is the victim.
What I done to her that she cry?
She think Nicola is always need to change,
and everything is good with me,
'cause I'm Meisha, I have experience, I know what is good
and Nicola...
[Shaun] Meisha...
Aw, Meisha don't cry now.
[Nicola] She know that I apologized to her
and if anyone was insulting for my word,
any woman in the world,
I... I apologize for that too.
[Shaun] Ladies... How did you feel
hearing some of the things Nicola said?
[Morea] I don't want my mom to be married to somebody who just
doesn't really care that she's upset about something,
that isn't really listening to her when she's bringing those concerns to him
and down the line, you know,
if we did have this, um,
daughter-father relationship with Nicola,
is that how he's gonna treat us when we have concerns
and we then come to him and we're upset.
[Shaun] Meisha...
First of all, you know, nothing would ever come between us.
You have to know that. Nothing.
Nobody, nothing. Ever.
And I can only hope and I don't know but, I can really hope
that one day you can see what I see in this person.
I'm still seeing him invalidating your emotions,
on this stage in present day,
and it's concerning.
Nicola, when you said, "I need to show Meisha
I am the man."
What does that mean to you?
[Shaun] What... What does that mean, then?
Oh, I'm sorry.
Not in this day and age.
I feel like I'm hearing two things though.
I... I feel like I'm hearing, the woman needs to follow the man,
but also, at Meisha's home,
with her two daughters,
you know, you're gonna... you're gonna let Meisha take the reins on that one.
So, how do you reconcile that?
I'm hearing two things, too, "Bull" and "[bleep]."
[exhales]
[Nicola speaking]
Then how are they equal? How are they equal?
Can I weigh in on this?
I actually agree with him.
I think that the, you know, biblically, like,
the man is to lead the house and to be that
and the woman is to be his equal
but also to follow her husband
and, you know, like, go along with that
and God being the, um,
overall top of the household in general.
[Christian] Well, there is one way to turn them off of religion,
and that's to be judgmental
and to, you know, force his beliefs.
[Shaun] Meisha, do you see any conflict down the line?
[Meisha] My daughters are strong women, thanks be to God.
They would put Nicola in his place like that,
even without momma bear stepping in.
And I would. I would not hesitate.
And he's smiling and he's laughing
and it's just a little inconsiderate.
Um, I know it's been--
Yeah, yeah, apologize.
I just hope that you're aware
and hope that you're not just like, "This is the guy
and he's Catholic and he's really into his beliefs
and I got to go with him."
There are other Catholic dudes.
So don't just feel like he's the only dude,
just 'cause you've known him for seven years.
Like, please, just... There's other fish in the sea.
Jesus makes fish multiply or whatever. I mean, there's many.
It's just... I know I can't walk away from him.
And, you know, the nice thing right now
is that Nicola is coming to the United States
and we get to spend time together on my turf, in my world,
with my family, with my friends,
who are not shy and they will weigh in
and they will say everything.
I think, just the biggest thing is that, time will tell.
We just have to meet him in person
to see what he's really gonna be like.
[Shaun] Ladies, thank you. Thank you so much.
[both] Thank you.
Love you both.
- Love you. - You too.
[Shaun] Nicola and Meisha, you've taken some huge steps in this relationship.
Hopefully, Nicola's upcoming visit is everything you hope it will be.
Let's take a break.
[man] Break.
[all talking indistinctly]
[line ringing]
Hi, Nicola.
That was so awkward. How are you?
[Meisha] When I think about where my relationship is headed right now,
I... I have a lot of nerves,
because for me there's... there's no way out, as they say.
So I have to be smart about this
and it's a mess.
I'm only concerned about Meisha, you know,
choosing to be with Nicola
and settling for less
just because of their religious part of it.
I'm very religious, so I'm not Catholic,
but, like, I agreed a lot with what Nicola said.
Like, pretty much everything.
You know what I mean, about, like, God being
above everything in the house and then the man
and the wife, you know, like, I agree with that.
And, I feel like,
you know, what God wants to happen, will happen
- and that-- - 100% be with a Catholic dude,
just one that treats you well
and is emotionally intelligent,
and, like, doesn't freak out every time you cry or have an emotion.
I can't believe you're just totally okay, like...
[Nicola speaking]
Yeah.
You can't think for one second
you could walk in that house
and try to judge them.
I know, but... I know but I'm a packaged deal.
So, you know, it does... It does cross over a little bit.
[Meisha] Not everything has to be a biblical sermon.
I love it. I love the Bible, you love the Bible. Everyone knows.
- That's... I have to take-- - Yes, but... Can you--
Nicola... but--
I know and I love that but listen to me.
That can be like an affront.
Like, that's just like a cover.
It's a wall.
So they don't have to get to know you.
They have to get to know you.
- He comes across as a very unexperienced person... - [Amanda] Yeah.
...when it comes to relationship with woman
because listen to what he was saying like,
"I understand how women function..."
- [Amanda] Yeah. - ...because of some [bleep] fifth grade Science class.
- [Amanda laughs] - [Jasmine] So you understand?
Yeah, I feel like when he gets here,
it's definitely gonna be
- like an experience for them. - [Gino] Yeah.
I think she's gonna make her decision.
Yeah, I think so too.
It's common for Americans that are dating abroad
to just hire someone to take a look into the person.
[Meisha] I literally can't believe this.
I would absolutely not be able to handle that relationship.
When you're in love with the...
the idea of your love,
it's hard to let it go.
For me, it's bizarre.
Ugh, Lord, have mercy on my soul.
And now, I want to move on
to Riley and Violet.
We all know the elephant in the room is Violet's pregnancy
but first, I wanna look back at some other issues they faced.
Riley and Violet's relationship took a shocking turn
once he returned to America.
There were plenty of moments
before Riley left Vietnam that were cause for concern.
Let's take a look.
She's asking after you told me to delete the app,
Yeah. I forgot password.
So, you're mad because my family is asking you question?
Okay, we stop now.
To be totally honest with you,
I did call a private investigator.
- But I didn't do it. - Oh, my God.
You know, I thought about it for a quick second,
and I-- But I didn't do it.
In my country, with my culture,
it is something that we do.
What?
[Riley] We check on people
to make sure that they are who they say they are.
And it is a common thing in our-- in my country.
[speaking Vietnamese]
[Riley] That was rough, right?
- [Shaun] That was, uh... Yeah, that was pretty rough. - Yeah.
[Shaun] One of the things that Riley said was very interesting.
He said it's common for Americans
to hire private investigators
to look into their partner's past.
Does anybody agree with Riley's statement.
I was in shock. I was like, "Do you know?"
[Riley] Let me explain. What I'm saying is that,
it's common for Americans that are dating abroad
to just hire someone to take a look at the person
and just make sure before they dive all the way in.
I agree with Riley.
I feel like if he had suspicions about something
and he, you know, went with his gut to do that,
I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
I mean, she wasn't answering his questions, you know.
I... I totally thing that's justified.
You know, I'm not sure if it's common,
but I totally agree with him for doing it.
Maybe she was trying to, like, conceal some things from him.
So I think it was a good idea that he did hire a private investigator.
My man.
In my defense, my main reason for wanting to do this,
is because she doesn't communicate.
She lies. I've caught her in major lies.
No like, "I think she's lying."
I caught her, receipts, having lied.
I literally can't believe this.
Because if someone ever said to me,
"I'm hiring a private investigator on you."
I would absolutely not be able to handle that relationship.
Yeah, me either.
The trust isn't there from the beginning, so...
I just-- For me, it's bizarre.
- So you caught her in the lies first? - [Riley] Yes.
Why didn't you just break off the relationship at that point?
- Why didn't you just say... - I did. I did. I did break it off.
- [Shaun] Uh-huh. - And she went through my family,
begging them that I contact her.
But you didn't have to though.
Right. I know I didn't have to.
But then, you also...
When you're in love with the...
the idea of your love,
it's hard to let it go.
Okay, now I wanna bring out Riley's friend, Tiffanie.
She got an up close look at the relationship problems
and even contributed by pressing Violet with some uncomfortable questions.
Please welcome Tiffanie, everyone. Hi, Tiffanie.
[applause]
Yo. [giggling]
- [Riley] What up, yo? - [Tiffanie] How are you?
- I like your shoes. - Thank you, of course.
[Shaun] All right, Tiffanie, you've been backstage,
listening to the conversation.
What is a question that you have for Violet today
that you still need answered?
Well, she never answered why she didn't delete the app.
Why didn't you delete the app?
I don't understand that.
[speaking Vietnamese]
Oh, Lord, have mercy on our soul.
Riley, was Violet's profile
still active?
Or was it just like she had just not deleted it?
It's-- It was active.
- It said-- - Active meaning she had reached out to other people?
It tells you how long ago they were active.
- Wow. - [Shaun] Okay.
It was, like, two days ago active.
Ooh!
[Shaun] She took the pregnancy test in front of you.
You did not trust that.
Even if you take a home pregnancy test,
don't you go to the doctor to confirm?
[speaking Vietnamese]
The timeline, the dates are not making sense.
Oh, my gosh.
I believe that she would lie to get me to commit.
[sobbing]
Was Violet's profile still active?
Or was it just like she had just not deleted it?
It was, like, two days ago active.
[bleep]
[speaking Vietnamese]
Let me tell you something. I've been in online dating.
And whenever I have met someone online,
and I'm not interested on that person,
I keep my app because I wanna keep my options open.
- You think Violet was keeping her possibilities open? - Absolutely. Yes.
Who here thinks that Violet was keeping her options open?
- [Christian] I'm on the fence. - I'm sorry.
- [Christian] I'm on the fence. - [Riley] Yeah?
Well, when Riley returned to America,
it seemed like the relationship had come to an end.
But only days later, Violet told Riley
- she was pregnant. - [Tiffanie] Mmm.
[Shaun] Let's look at that shocking moment.
Come on.
[Riley] Since I've been home, Violet now is claiming that
she's a couple of months pregnant.
'Cause of the medication I am on,
my...
It's a one-- less than 1% chance.
Being that I'm on this medication,
less than 1% chance that I can conceive.
I told her. I said, "Listen, I will support you.
"Whatever you wanna do. Let's go and confirm this.
"And, you know, get the test so I can get the results.
-"So I can understand what's going on." - Right.
I called the international hospital.
And I said I found a pre-natal doctor.
And she wouldn't go.
- Oh. - She wouldn't do it.
She said, "No, I have my own doctor."
So, in the midst of all this. We're talking here, right? We're speaking.
And she comes out of nowhere and is like,
"Why don't you just ask me to marry you already?"
[gasps]
-"Let's get married." - She wants to get married?
Oh, my gosh.
You have all this suspicious
about the person you are dating, you don't trust,
and you are having sex? Unprotected sex?
[Riley] It was the last night I was there.
We could not get along.
I did not expect her to come near.
I didn't expect that to happen.
She showed up on her own.
So, Riley, why did you keep the fact
that you and Violet had sex a secret?
- 'Cause she asked me to. - Okay.
She said, "Please don't tell anybody that this happened."
[speaking Vietnamese]
[Tiffanie] Anyone going away,
who'd been talking to someone for two years,
- please bring protection. - [Jasmine] Yeah.
[Violet speaking Vietnamese]
[in English] Sorry.
[sniffles]
[sobbing]
What I'm saying is that
there's science,
and then there's miracles.
[Shaun] I'm sorry that you're so upset, Violet.
But can you tell us what happened?
[speaking Vietnamese]
[Shaun] So she took the pregnancy test in front of you?
You did not trust that, right?
I'm saying that even if--
I mean, I'm not a woman
but I'm a reasonable human being.
Even if you take a home pregnancy test,
don't you go to the doctor to confirm?
[speaking Vietnamese]
[Riley] That's not true.
I called the International hospital,
I spoke to the pre-natal doctor,
I put a card on file with them.
But she said she had her own doctor.
Why did you want her to go to a different doctor?
Because he didn't speak English.
I needed the International hospital. The doctors speak English.
The timeline, the dates are not making sense.
[Shaun] So you didn't believe the timeline?
I didn't believe the timeline.
And, uh, that it was with me.
What do you think her ultimate goal would have been
to lie about you being the father?
I think-- I fell-- And it's just my opinion
that she didn't like me
so easily to walk away from 'em.
When she was, like-- She wanted me to chase her and fight for her.
That is the toxic part of our whole relationship
that I'm to a point now where I believe
that she would lie to get me to commit.
And not only is the dates are not making sense
but I know, medically, where I am at.
This is not something I made up.
[speaking Vietnamese]
Oh, my God.
Just cut it out.
Own your [bleep]!
[sobs]
Do you think she will be capable of lying to you
about a child
- just to manipulate you? - Yes.
[Shaun] Violet, can you tell me
if you are pregnant with Riley's child?
Hmm.
[Shaun] Next time on the Before the 90 Days Tell All...
I'm literally just acting the way I am.
I like to entertain people.
But sometimes they are not entertained.
Your best friend is probably the mirror.
Seriously?
She was being constantly mean to Razvan.
Listen, that's not me being mean.
That's me processing my emotions.
Are you sure about that?
Respectfully, you don't know me.
So shut the [bleep] up.
[Shaun] David had a translator named Amy.
[speaking Filipino]
David, have you been in contact with Amy
since you all left the Philippines?
No.
Uh-oh.
[speaking Vietnamese]
Would you like this to end in you and Violet getting back together?
Well, Violet is coming to the US.
[Shaun] Oh, really?
- [all] Okay. - [laughing]
Okay.
[Christian] Okay. Surprise!
Tyray, I know that you've never had a chance
to speak to Christian directly.
But since filming, we've been able to dig up a new phone number for him.
I'm okay calling him.
Wow.
- [phone ringing] - [Shaun] Here we go.
Hello.
Christian referred to himself
- as a wolf on the prowl. - Oh, boy.
I didn't feel like I was doing anything wrong.
The woman at the bar is here today.
Oh, my God, Christian.
Hello, Cleo.