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<i>Previously on</i>
Before the 90 Days...

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Baby, I'm gonna take
my shirt off since
you have yours off.

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<i>He's, like,
shirtless with Shay here.</i>

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This is a double standard.

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Are you ready?

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If this relationship
may not last, it was
still a badass wedding.

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I think
we're boarding.

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Yeah, we're boarding,
all right.

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<i>Autism really hampers me
in social situations.</i>

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I'm concerned about
stepping into a new culture.

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Oh!

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<i>We have
a very strong connection.</i>

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<i>I feel it.</i>

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It's just,
I'm worried because
I really don't know

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what she's thinking.

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I just need her
to see that I'm not the person
that I used to be.

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What are
you trying to buy it for?

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Hey, what you trying
to get it for?

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<i>Victoria knows my chickens
are like family members to me.</i>

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What kind of person would
just kill somebody's family
right in front of them?

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You're going to sit here,
then I'll go get it.

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I won't eat it.

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You have to shove it down
your throat yourself.

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Ever since I was young,
I've always had
this feeling about...

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And most things
that I feel deep within
end up coming to fruition.

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I have gonorrhea.

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It's a sexually
transmitted disease.

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Yeah.

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I really messed up,
and I don't know what I
can do to make it right.

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<i>I'm freaking out
because I'm gonna meet</i>

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my boyfriend
for the first time

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but I have my ex-boyfriend
here with me.

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I wish I could see her
right now.

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Are you sure?
Because I can literally
see out that door.

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<i>♪ Suga suga too sweet</i>

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<i>♪ Caught you looking at me</i>

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<i>♪ You wanna lick
my ice cream ♪</i>

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<i>♪ My suga suga too sweet</i>

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<i>♪ My suga suga too sweet</i>

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<i>♪ You wanna lick
my ice cream ♪</i>

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<i>♪ My suga suga
too sweet, too sweet ♪</i>

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Mmm, baby, we need to get up.

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I don't even know
how I'm gonna walk
to the car today.

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Last night, we have
a wedding day,
like, big party.

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We are feeling so good,

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but also so tired
because so much dancing there.

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Yep.

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But Tigerlily only have
three days left in Jordan.

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Okay.
- Go.

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You will be ready
after 30 minute?

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Thirty minutes? No, baby.

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Why?

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I have to have a bath,

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I have to do my makeup.

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Cruz is coming over
to do my hair.

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I always need my hair done.

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You can't do it there.

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No, no, no, no.

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I think that this whole,
you know,

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husband and wife thing
is very new for Adnan,

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<i>and there are things
that he needs to get used to.</i>

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<i>Taking a long time
to get ready</i>

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<i>is just a part of who I am.</i>

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But he'll learn.

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He can do anything I ask him.

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He loves me.
This is my brother.

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Baby, this is so annoying.

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What, baby?

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Baby, I had to get
my hair done--

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I can't. I can't wait
every... every day.

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Baby, you have a wife now...

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Are you ready?

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I am ready. I am ready.
Just five minutes,
I am get ready.

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- And the Cruz make her hair,

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like, uh, five hours,
four hours, three hours
every day.

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Baby, you're a guy.

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Listen. You're a guy,
you can get ready in,
like, five minutes.

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It's okay, you can find a way.
You can do it.

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Do you want me to look ugly?

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- If you wanted someone...
- I know.

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...that only takes
five minutes--

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How are you,
Tigerlily?

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Wait.
- What?

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- Hi.
- How are you?

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- Good. How are you?
- Hi. Thank you. Hi.

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But the next time, uh--

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This is not your business,
this is my business.

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<i>I'm completely annoyed.</i>

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I spent all this time
getting ready for him,

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but Adnan's not being
patient with me.

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- You'll fix it, these things?
- No.

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- Why?
- You'll have to get
used to it, baby.

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<i>On top of
Adnan yelling at me,</i>

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I have his brother, Thaer,
complaining about my outfit,

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<i>while Adnan has
his shirt unbuttoned
to his belly button.</i>

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It is completely ridiculous.

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- Are you gonna be
in this bad mood

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for the rest of this trip?

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I don't know.

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<i>It makes me nervous</i>

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that we have only been married
for three days

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and we are already
arguing like this.

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<i>♪ Ever sense a girl
with a heart like mine ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Straight as an arrow
with a crooked smile ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Call me a fool
call me a leader ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Got my ass out
jumping on the bleachers ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Shame, shame
in a low-cut T-shirt ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Never thought much
to listen to the preacher ♪</i>

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<i>♪ You like the way my name
taste on your tongue ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Honey, be sweet
but you will get stung ♪</i>

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Ooh, the doctor's
is over here.

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There's gonna be some steps.

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Going up. One, two, three.

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<i>I've been in Nigeria
for almost a week now.</i>

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<i>Chidi and I have been
so connected,</i>

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<i>so in love, so happy.</i>

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But the other day
at the nature walk,

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it was really hard to hear
Chidi talk about
losing his sight.

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It breaks my heart.

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These are inside voices.

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<i>When we went home,
we, kind of, talked
more about it,</i>

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and I found out that he
hadn't been to an eye doctor
in over 10 years.

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That's shocking,
don't you think?

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<i>So I made an appointment
so that he could see
a specialist</i>

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<i>in hopes that there's medical
advancements that might
help him.</i>

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You can sit on the end, okay?

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Even though I'm attracted
to him so much
because he can't see,

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<i>if I could help him,
I would honestly help him
restore his eyesight.</i>

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That's how much I love him.

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- Chidi.
Chidi.

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- Male or female?

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- I'm just kidding.

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Well, I haven't seen
anything yet.

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I'm going by your voice
and your looks.

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Yeah. I've heard of technology
that has come out

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that actually can help
people see.

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I'd love to do that
for you, all right?

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Yeah, it's possible,
but let's see how it goes.

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- Mr. Chidi?
- Yeah.

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Please come inside.

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- Okay.
- Ready?

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It would completely
transform my life.

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It always seem like
a farfetched reality for me.

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<i>But Rayne's optimism
that something
can still be done</i>

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has renewed my hope.

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Okay.

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Can you see this?

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No, no.

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Okay. Cover your right side.

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- Okay. Perceive any light?
- No.

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Just relax.

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At this point,
emotion is running high.

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Good.

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Now relax. Just relax.

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Good.

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<i>I am deeply nervous...</i>

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Okay.

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Can you sit back, sir?

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Thank you.

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All right.

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Yes.

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So if it is established
that it is cataracts...

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Uh, well...

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I just got back
from the clinic.

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I never thought getting
a [bleep] was going
to give me gonorrhea.

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But here I am with an STD
and a leaky penis.

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I reached out to Faith
this morning,
but nothing back yet.

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This could be the end
of everything.

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Now we get to Matilda.

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I know that
I'm putting a lot into this.

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If this were to not work out,
it will devastate me.

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It will hurt.

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I just got back
from the clinic.

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I have to take pills
for the next week.

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One down.

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I never thought

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that getting a
from my friend was going
to give me gonorrhea.

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I really did not
expect that to happen.

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<i>I feel like I wasn't
doing anything unsafe</i>

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because she gets
tested regularly
and she seemed okay.

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But here I am with an STD
and a leaky penis.

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I really hope that after
all this, you know,
I get cleared up,

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we have some time
to think, some time to talk,

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and that me and Faith
can go back to trying
to have a future together.

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She's the one upset,
so ultimately, she's
in control of all of it.

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<i>The last I left off
with Faith,</i>

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<i>she said she wanted space,</i>

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and I haven't seen her
or spoken to her
since yesterday.

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<i>She's very upset,</i>

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<i>and I don't know if she'll
ever even talk to me again.</i>

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<i>And so now I'm getting
worried that I came
all the way out here,</i>

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and this could be
the end of everything.

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Hey, Esther.

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Hello.

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<i>How's jet lag?</i>

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It's fine. I expected to have
a lot of jet lag and I didn't.

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<i>Me and Esther are very open
about everything.</i>

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<i>We're like best friends.</i>

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So she knows how important
this relationship is to me.

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<i>Tell me.</i>

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First day was good,
and I started to get
some sense of humor.

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Little back and forth.
Little chitchat.

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We're not really
talking right now.

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Yeah.

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<i>Why aren't you talking to her?</i>

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So yesterday, Faith planned
this lovely day out,

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and then I decided it was
a great moment to tell Faith

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I have gonorrhea.

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Which, kind of, just shot
the whole day,
the rest of the night.

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<i>Wait a minute. Wait a minute.
Rewind it.</i>

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<i>How do you know
you have gonorrhea?</i>

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Well, I got a text message
from my Halloween date,

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and then I'm like, "Wow,
I do have discharge
coming out of my penis."

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Um...

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<i>That's... that's one way
to start out the morning.</i>

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<i>Wow.</i>

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And it turns out,
when I told her
I'm sleeping with people,

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she was under the impression
that only meant sleeping.

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I guess I, like, didn't, like,

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that I didn't
translate properly,

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so she's a little a pissed.

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She needs some space.

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She doesn't want
to see me right now.

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<i>Any reasonable person
would be upset.</i>

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<i>You know?</i>

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<i>But what are you going to do?</i>

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I don't know.

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Well, I got to find a way
to explain to her that...

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<i>Yeah. If Faith is
your one true love</i>

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<i>like you say, and she
wants to be exclusive,</i>

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<i>and that's a deal breaker,</i>

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<i>are you gonna be okay, um,
not exploring other people,</i>

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<i>and just being
exclusive with her?</i>

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<i>Before I came
to the Philippines,</i>

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I was hoping
I could convince Faith

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to have
a non-monogamous relationship.

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I feel like if you love
each other enough

238
00:16:51,172 --> 00:16:52,862
and your relationship
is strong,

239
00:16:52,862 --> 00:16:55,310
then sleeping around shouldn't
be an issue for each other.

240
00:16:57,793 --> 00:17:00,413
But at this point,
I can tell that Faith

241
00:17:00,413 --> 00:17:02,931
sees monogamy as
a very serious thing.

242
00:17:03,586 --> 00:17:05,034
<i>And I don't want to lose her.</i>

243
00:17:05,793 --> 00:17:07,758
<i>This is everything you wanted.</i>

244
00:17:07,758 --> 00:17:09,137
<i>Everything you dreamed of.</i>

245
00:17:13,896 --> 00:17:14,931
Yeah.

246
00:17:15,275 --> 00:17:16,275
I can do it.

247
00:17:17,931 --> 00:17:20,000
It's gonna change
my life a little bit.

248
00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:21,275
<i>I know you can do it.</i>

249
00:17:21,275 --> 00:17:23,517
But she also was
really upset last night.

250
00:17:23,517 --> 00:17:24,586
You didn't see it.

251
00:17:24,586 --> 00:17:27,275
So it's gonna be
a total battle.

252
00:17:27,275 --> 00:17:28,620
<i>Not everything comes easy.</i>

253
00:17:28,620 --> 00:17:31,310
<i>You know, you have to
fight a little.</i>

254
00:17:32,482 --> 00:17:35,620
Yeah. Now, I just, kind of,
have to hope that Faith

255
00:17:36,586 --> 00:17:37,931
gives me any kind of sign

256
00:17:37,931 --> 00:17:40,310
that it's okay to come back
and talk to her
about anything.

257
00:17:42,689 --> 00:17:43,896
<i>I love Faith
more than anything.</i>

258
00:17:43,896 --> 00:17:45,758
And so if I don't
want to lose Faith,

259
00:17:45,758 --> 00:17:49,275
I have to give up
the idea of non-monogamy.

260
00:17:49,275 --> 00:17:51,689
The only thing
I care about now
is getting back to Faith

261
00:17:51,689 --> 00:17:54,931
and showing her that I'll do
anything to make sure
that I don't lose her.

262
00:17:55,793 --> 00:17:57,724
<i>I just hope she gives me
a second chance.</i>

263
00:18:03,689 --> 00:18:05,689
One last flight.

264
00:18:05,689 --> 00:18:09,724
Oh, there it is, B-24,
the last stop before Matilda.

265
00:18:27,172 --> 00:18:32,000
I'm just one very long
flight away from meeting
my girlfriend, Matilda,

266
00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,000
for the first time in Ghana.

267
00:18:35,310 --> 00:18:38,310
I'm probably gonna run
to her arms, not walk.

268
00:18:39,379 --> 00:18:42,172
Imagine a child running
to go get ice cream,

269
00:18:42,172 --> 00:18:44,103
that's what's gonna happen.

270
00:18:44,103 --> 00:18:47,896
<i>I have butterflies
in my stomach,
but also, I'm anxious</i>

271
00:18:47,896 --> 00:18:50,793
<i>about what is she
gonna think of me, you know?</i>

272
00:18:50,793 --> 00:18:55,275
Matilda has already told me
that she has accepted
my disability.

273
00:18:55,275 --> 00:18:59,172
However, it could be different
once we're in person.

274
00:18:59,172 --> 00:19:02,000
To quote the great Mike Tyson,
"Everyone has a plan

275
00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:03,827
until they get punched
in the face."

276
00:19:06,172 --> 00:19:09,000
In the event that I have to be
a superhero, who knows?

277
00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,413
Why am I less nervous
about that than
meeting Matilda?

278
00:19:13,103 --> 00:19:15,000
The final stretch.

279
00:19:35,620 --> 00:19:40,689
I am very excited
because my baby now
is coming to Ghana to see me.

280
00:20:35,896 --> 00:20:37,241
Yes.

281
00:21:12,620 --> 00:21:14,000
All the way from--

282
00:21:38,758 --> 00:21:40,413
We're moving.

283
00:21:40,413 --> 00:21:43,379
- Slowly but surely,
we are moving.
Yes.

284
00:21:43,379 --> 00:21:46,241
Now we get to Matilda.
We're gonna find her.

285
00:21:47,793 --> 00:21:50,931
<i>I can't believe that I'm about
to finally meet Matilda.</i>

286
00:21:52,379 --> 00:21:55,379
I know I'm-- I know that
I'm putting a lot into this.

287
00:21:55,379 --> 00:21:58,275
And if she doesn't--
If she doesn't turn out to be
who I think she should--

288
00:21:58,275 --> 00:22:00,068
Who I think she is,

289
00:22:01,172 --> 00:22:04,000
<i>it will devastate me,
it will hurt.</i>

290
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:07,241
But I can't sit here
and worry about it anymore.

291
00:22:15,310 --> 00:22:17,000
Oh!

292
00:22:31,206 --> 00:22:32,620
Here I come, Matilda.

293
00:22:34,586 --> 00:22:37,413
Oh my God! He's here!

294
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,413
My love.

295
00:22:57,793 --> 00:22:59,137
Welcome to Ghana.

296
00:23:04,931 --> 00:23:06,827
Oh, my goodness.

297
00:23:07,275 --> 00:23:09,310
<i>This is a fairy tale story.</i>

298
00:23:09,310 --> 00:23:11,379
I'm with the woman
that I love.

299
00:23:11,379 --> 00:23:12,793
I can finally see her.

300
00:23:12,793 --> 00:23:14,586
I can finally feel her.

301
00:23:14,586 --> 00:23:17,620
Be with her. Talk to her.

302
00:23:17,620 --> 00:23:20,724
There's nothing like
being able to see--
To see it for yourself.

303
00:23:21,206 --> 00:23:23,000
Wouldn't you say, Matilda?

304
00:23:26,068 --> 00:23:28,896
I know. I know you can't.

305
00:23:28,896 --> 00:23:31,413
Hey, how are you doing?

306
00:23:31,413 --> 00:23:33,172
Baby...

307
00:23:35,931 --> 00:23:38,000
Hey, hey. Don't pass out now.

308
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:39,517
Don't pass out yet.

309
00:23:39,517 --> 00:23:41,551
- Don't pass out yet.
- Let me help you.

310
00:23:43,068 --> 00:23:45,379
- Brother-in-law.
- Actually, you know,
you can pass out.

311
00:23:45,379 --> 00:23:47,103
- I can carry you.

312
00:23:50,620 --> 00:23:52,758
Oh! I'm very happy.

313
00:23:59,379 --> 00:24:00,655
So, Daddy?

314
00:24:00,655 --> 00:24:02,793
Hey, no more shooting
from the waist down, okay?

315
00:24:02,793 --> 00:24:05,206
We are in public,
you know this, right?

316
00:24:07,275 --> 00:24:11,724
- Welcome to Ghana.
- I'm so happy to be here.

317
00:24:12,793 --> 00:24:14,448
This is what happiness
feels like.

318
00:24:16,310 --> 00:24:17,862
All I can say is, "Wow."

319
00:25:16,862 --> 00:25:18,896
Ah, well...

320
00:25:23,448 --> 00:25:27,620
Right now, we are not
dealing with only cataracts.

321
00:25:39,896 --> 00:25:43,482
Your right eye is 59,
and your left eye is 63,

322
00:25:43,482 --> 00:25:47,517
against the normal,
which is 11 to 21.

323
00:25:51,586 --> 00:25:55,000
And when there's
no light perception,
it means that...

324
00:26:01,379 --> 00:26:05,827
Once they die off,
there's nothing
that can be done.

325
00:26:14,068 --> 00:26:15,241
And also...

326
00:26:34,689 --> 00:26:36,620
...is indeed heartbreaking.

327
00:26:37,655 --> 00:26:41,172
<i>And, of course, the thought
of losing my eye entirely...</i>

328
00:26:41,172 --> 00:26:44,172
...it is kind of scary.

329
00:26:44,172 --> 00:26:47,724
<i>I never really imagined
that such a thing
could happen to me.</i>

330
00:26:48,965 --> 00:26:50,275
So...

331
00:26:54,137 --> 00:26:55,517
Yes.

332
00:26:59,172 --> 00:27:01,275
I am, of course,
thankful that Rayne

333
00:27:01,275 --> 00:27:03,000
encouraged me
to go to the doctor.

334
00:27:21,068 --> 00:27:22,413
Yeah.

335
00:28:00,586 --> 00:28:02,862
Meeting Ingrid's son
last night was really special.

336
00:28:02,862 --> 00:28:04,275
And I believe it helped
our relationship,

337
00:28:04,275 --> 00:28:06,862
<i>and I would like to keep
that momentum going.</i>

338
00:28:06,862 --> 00:28:09,655
So while Ingrid's son
is at school today,
I arranged a date for us

339
00:28:09,655 --> 00:28:11,931
to go to a ranch
at the Tocantins River.

340
00:28:14,827 --> 00:28:18,172
<i>I'm hoping we can get back on
on track with romance</i>

341
00:28:18,172 --> 00:28:20,724
and a little bit
more of physicality.

342
00:28:33,379 --> 00:28:34,620
Okay.

343
00:28:50,586 --> 00:28:51,793
Wow.

344
00:28:51,793 --> 00:28:53,655
I've been to Brazil
more than 30 times,

345
00:28:53,655 --> 00:28:55,482
<i>and if people wonder why,</i>

346
00:28:55,482 --> 00:28:56,551
<i>it's because
of places like this.</i>

347
00:28:57,551 --> 00:28:59,068
<i>This country is so beautiful</i>

348
00:28:59,068 --> 00:29:01,068
<i>and this resort
is exactly what we need.</i>

349
00:29:05,586 --> 00:29:06,827
Okay.

350
00:29:57,965 --> 00:30:00,103
Hmm? Oh,

351
00:31:12,586 --> 00:31:14,896
When I was
in the rehab hospital,

352
00:31:14,896 --> 00:31:17,034
<i>I was super depressed.</i>

353
00:31:17,034 --> 00:31:18,896
<i>The bullet
burned the spinal cord.</i>

354
00:31:19,172 --> 00:31:22,000
And to know that, um,

355
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,172
I won't be getting back,
um, to normal,

356
00:31:24,172 --> 00:31:25,724
anything close to normal...

357
00:31:26,758 --> 00:31:29,413
...kind of
made me think about

358
00:31:30,551 --> 00:31:32,482
how I got into the situation.

359
00:31:32,482 --> 00:31:33,931
And...

360
00:31:34,896 --> 00:31:37,862
Maybe the tradeoff I gave
was my legs and my hands

361
00:31:37,862 --> 00:31:39,137
for selling drugs.

362
00:31:41,793 --> 00:31:45,241
<i>But, uh, in a way,
I was saved by that.</i>

363
00:33:27,862 --> 00:33:29,586
Well, I feel like
we're soulmates.

364
00:33:29,586 --> 00:33:32,206
He feels me in his heart,
his mind, his body.

365
00:33:36,482 --> 00:33:39,068
<i>I can't believe
that she even asked me
if Chidi and I were physical</i>

366
00:33:39,068 --> 00:33:41,379
at the dinner table
in front of family.

367
00:33:41,379 --> 00:33:44,275
<i>Honestly, I'm really
sick of her getting
into our business.</i>

368
00:33:48,137 --> 00:33:49,379
This is crazy.

369
00:33:49,379 --> 00:33:50,655
<i>I'm kind of freaking out</i>

370
00:33:50,655 --> 00:33:53,068
because I don't know
what I would do
if Sunny saw Rory.

371
00:33:53,068 --> 00:33:57,862
I don't want a big
explosive situation right now.

372
00:33:57,862 --> 00:34:00,137
- Wait until we exit,
until I'm gone.
- I heard you.

373
00:34:00,137 --> 00:34:01,896
- I heard you the first time.
- I will text you.

374
00:34:15,896 --> 00:34:17,103
No, no, no, no.

375
00:34:17,103 --> 00:34:19,241
Rory, are you sure
he can't see you right here?

376
00:34:20,275 --> 00:34:21,655
I don't think so.
I don't think so.

377
00:34:21,655 --> 00:34:23,000
He cannot see you right now.

378
00:34:24,137 --> 00:34:26,689
I'm stressing
the [bleep] out.
What the [bleep]?

379
00:34:33,241 --> 00:34:34,896
This is crazy.

380
00:34:34,896 --> 00:34:37,896
I'm here
in Durban, South Africa.

381
00:34:37,896 --> 00:34:41,275
I just traveled for 36 hours
to meet Sunny.

382
00:34:41,275 --> 00:34:42,965
Oh my God.

383
00:34:42,965 --> 00:34:44,689
And there's only
a glass door right there,

384
00:34:44,689 --> 00:34:47,758
so I'm kind of freaking out
because he has no idea

385
00:34:47,758 --> 00:34:50,241
<i>that I have my ex-boyfriend
here with me,</i>

386
00:34:50,241 --> 00:34:53,620
and I don't want a big
explosive situation.

387
00:34:54,896 --> 00:34:57,482
So if I text you, 777,

388
00:34:57,482 --> 00:35:00,068
that means you're good
to exit this building.

389
00:35:00,068 --> 00:35:02,275
- Wait until we exit,
until I'm gone.
- I heard you.

390
00:35:02,275 --> 00:35:04,172
- I heard you the first time.
- I will text you.

391
00:35:04,172 --> 00:35:05,413
Okay.

392
00:35:05,793 --> 00:35:07,172
My God.

393
00:35:08,275 --> 00:35:09,965
- I broke up
with you, actually.
- No, you didn't.

394
00:35:09,965 --> 00:35:11,034
- Yes, I did.
- No, you didn't.

395
00:35:11,034 --> 00:35:12,206
- That's not the point.

396
00:35:12,965 --> 00:35:14,172
I know right now
is not the right time

397
00:35:14,172 --> 00:35:16,482
to introduce
Rory and Sunny to each other.

398
00:35:16,482 --> 00:35:18,448
I wanna to meet him first.

399
00:35:18,448 --> 00:35:21,000
I don't want to ruin
our first moments together.

400
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,137
<i>So me and Rory
came up with a plan.</i>

401
00:35:23,137 --> 00:35:25,172
<i>When me and Sunny leave,</i>

402
00:35:25,172 --> 00:35:27,344
I'm gonna text Rory, 777,

403
00:35:27,344 --> 00:35:29,310
and then he can exit.

404
00:35:32,275 --> 00:35:34,413
777 is my lucky angel numbers.

405
00:35:35,689 --> 00:35:37,448
<i>The universe
will look out for me.</i>

406
00:35:37,448 --> 00:35:38,620
Hopefully.

407
00:35:43,965 --> 00:35:45,172
Hm-mm.

408
00:35:45,172 --> 00:35:46,586
See you in a couple of days.

409
00:35:46,586 --> 00:35:48,482
I have to see what the vibe
is like with Sunny,

410
00:35:48,482 --> 00:35:51,000
and that will determine like,
when I feel comfortable

411
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,758
- introducing you.
- Absolutely.

412
00:35:54,241 --> 00:35:56,000
Alright. I will see you.

413
00:35:58,344 --> 00:36:00,137
- Okay, bye.
- Text you. <i>Adios.</i>

414
00:36:01,379 --> 00:36:03,275
What is she
getting herself into?

415
00:36:04,862 --> 00:36:07,896
<i>There was a lot
of chaos in my life,
growing up.</i>

416
00:36:07,896 --> 00:36:11,000
So it's hard for me
to allow someone
to take care of me

417
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,896
<i>and to let my guard down.</i>

418
00:36:12,896 --> 00:36:15,034
<i>But I would say Sunny
is different for sure.</i>

419
00:36:15,034 --> 00:36:17,103
<i>And I want a future with him.</i>

420
00:36:17,103 --> 00:36:19,862
<i>I'm just really excited,
and nervous, and anxious.</i>

421
00:36:19,862 --> 00:36:20,896
I could go through
those glass doors,

422
00:36:20,896 --> 00:36:22,275
and my life
could change forever.

423
00:36:48,172 --> 00:36:49,724
Thank you.

424
00:36:57,655 --> 00:36:58,724
My favorite.

425
00:37:00,068 --> 00:37:02,379
- Thank you.
You're so sweet.
- You're welcome.

426
00:37:02,379 --> 00:37:04,482
Like, instead of getting
each other's lips,

427
00:37:04,482 --> 00:37:06,586
we got each other like,
on the side of the mouth,

428
00:37:06,586 --> 00:37:08,482
like maybe,
a little tiny bit on the lips.

429
00:37:08,482 --> 00:37:10,137
I don't know.
It wasn't really a kiss.

430
00:37:10,137 --> 00:37:12,172
<i>We're just a little awkward.</i>

431
00:37:12,172 --> 00:37:15,344
But I think we,
just will build up
to being more comfortable,

432
00:37:15,344 --> 00:37:16,931
and less awkward
with each other.

433
00:37:21,379 --> 00:37:22,965
Finally,
you have the brown chocolate.

434
00:37:22,965 --> 00:37:24,793
I know. I can't believe
I finally get to hug you.

435
00:37:24,793 --> 00:37:26,724
It feels so good.
It's like, weird.

436
00:37:27,482 --> 00:37:29,965
On the camera,
she looks so beautiful.

437
00:37:29,965 --> 00:37:32,310
But in real life,
she's more beautiful.

438
00:37:37,344 --> 00:37:38,827
Do you, now? What is it?

439
00:37:40,551 --> 00:37:42,275
Shut the [bleep] up.
You're lying.

440
00:37:44,241 --> 00:37:45,310
He's lying.

441
00:37:55,793 --> 00:37:57,413
Killing time.

442
00:37:58,482 --> 00:37:59,896
Fun, fun, fun.

443
00:38:06,793 --> 00:38:08,586
Well, how did I get
in this situation?

444
00:38:10,379 --> 00:38:13,068
I'm a grown ass man.
I'm hiding in the airport
from this kid.

445
00:38:13,448 --> 00:38:15,379
This is so weird, right?

446
00:38:15,793 --> 00:38:16,931
Thank you.

447
00:38:19,344 --> 00:38:20,793
Don't you have to go
on this side?

448
00:38:20,793 --> 00:38:22,034
No, this side.

449
00:38:22,862 --> 00:38:25,068
This is South Africa, honey.
It's not America.

450
00:38:25,758 --> 00:38:26,931
What?

451
00:38:27,241 --> 00:38:28,413
What the [bleep]?

452
00:38:29,896 --> 00:38:31,241
Stop. Okay, I get it.

453
00:38:32,586 --> 00:38:34,034
<i>I'm so excited.</i>

454
00:38:34,034 --> 00:38:36,034
I'm in this brand new country.

455
00:38:36,034 --> 00:38:38,862
<i>And it's really amazing
to be with Sunny.</i>

456
00:38:38,862 --> 00:38:41,172
<i>He's being so sweet
and so cute.</i>

457
00:38:41,172 --> 00:38:44,275
<i>And I really want to build
a relationship up with him</i>

458
00:38:44,275 --> 00:38:46,482
before I tell him
about Rory being here.

459
00:38:57,172 --> 00:38:59,586
<i>But I feel really bad
and guilty</i>

460
00:38:59,586 --> 00:39:01,689
<i>about the situation.</i>

461
00:39:01,689 --> 00:39:04,103
I feel like I'm starting
this relationship in person

462
00:39:04,103 --> 00:39:06,931
with a lie, and that was
never my intentions.

463
00:39:42,241 --> 00:39:44,275
I really, really,
really love chickens.

464
00:39:44,275 --> 00:39:47,379
And like I said,
they really do have
a wonderful personality.

465
00:39:47,379 --> 00:39:48,689
I've named all of them.

466
00:39:48,689 --> 00:39:50,482
They always pay attention.

467
00:39:50,482 --> 00:39:52,034
And they follow me everywhere.

468
00:39:52,034 --> 00:39:53,827
And they, like,
actually talk to you.

469
00:40:05,241 --> 00:40:08,034
<i>Since our trip
to the doctor yesterday...</i>

470
00:40:08,034 --> 00:40:11,413
...I feel more
connected to Rayne than ever.

471
00:40:22,172 --> 00:40:23,793
Yeah?

472
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,413
Alright.

473
00:40:26,586 --> 00:40:27,724
Hey.

474
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:29,000
Let's go.

475
00:40:31,068 --> 00:40:32,344
Yeah, I'll go down.

476
00:40:32,344 --> 00:40:33,655
I was just telling him
about the chickens.

477
00:40:33,655 --> 00:40:35,586
Thank you.

478
00:40:35,586 --> 00:40:40,931
Tonight, I asked my sister
to prepare a special meal...

479
00:40:43,379 --> 00:40:45,586
Chidi! I'm waiting.

480
00:40:46,275 --> 00:40:47,482
Yeah, We are coming.

481
00:40:48,965 --> 00:40:51,000
Rayne has always

482
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:54,862
had this fear of my family
not loving her.

483
00:40:54,862 --> 00:40:56,586
Let's fix your shirt.

484
00:40:57,482 --> 00:40:58,827
Here you go.

485
00:41:06,793 --> 00:41:07,931
Okay.

486
00:41:09,689 --> 00:41:10,827
Here's your chair.

487
00:41:11,482 --> 00:41:12,827
Thank you.

488
00:41:19,068 --> 00:41:20,724
- So you just wash hands?
Yeah.

489
00:41:22,137 --> 00:41:23,793
Oh. Okay.

490
00:41:23,793 --> 00:41:27,793
So you can pass the water
to him to wash his hands.

491
00:41:27,793 --> 00:41:29,793
There you go.
Thank you.

492
00:41:29,793 --> 00:41:30,896
Okay.

493
00:41:34,896 --> 00:41:35,827
Okay.

494
00:41:36,965 --> 00:41:38,310
- Now, or-- Right now.
Yeah.

495
00:41:39,689 --> 00:41:41,000
I got it.

496
00:41:42,103 --> 00:41:43,827
And he would
take it from there.

497
00:41:44,689 --> 00:41:46,413
Okay?
- Mm-hm.

498
00:41:48,655 --> 00:41:51,000
Honestly, since that
first day at the market,

499
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,379
I've been getting
some weird vibes off Victoria.

500
00:41:54,344 --> 00:41:56,172
<i>Yeah, it's kind of like,
a real dark energy,</i>

501
00:41:56,172 --> 00:41:57,724
<i>that vibrates
throughout my body.</i>

502
00:41:59,448 --> 00:42:01,724
I don't think she really
trusts me with Chidi.

503
00:42:02,551 --> 00:42:04,034
<i>And even though
we're all hugging,</i>

504
00:42:04,034 --> 00:42:05,275
<i>I'm like,
there's something there,</i>

505
00:42:05,275 --> 00:42:06,896
<i>even when we look
at each other in the eyes,</i>

506
00:42:06,896 --> 00:42:08,137
<i>there's something there.</i>

507
00:42:11,448 --> 00:42:12,620
So, babe.

508
00:42:14,275 --> 00:42:15,862
This is how you mold it.

509
00:42:15,862 --> 00:42:17,103
- Right?
- Mm-hm.

510
00:42:17,103 --> 00:42:19,103
Then you take it like this.

511
00:42:19,448 --> 00:42:20,517
This should...

512
00:42:30,172 --> 00:42:33,344
- It looks
like playdough.

513
00:42:33,344 --> 00:42:35,413
All right,
you can give
it a trial.

514
00:42:45,137 --> 00:42:46,931
Hot.

515
00:42:49,896 --> 00:42:51,827
It's different, yeah.

516
00:42:54,448 --> 00:42:55,793
The soup was
very spicy.

517
00:42:55,793 --> 00:42:58,172
I don't know
how that baby
was eating it.

518
00:42:58,172 --> 00:43:00,000
<i>And the garri
was really bland,</i>

519
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:01,448
and it was really
hard to swallow.

520
00:43:01,448 --> 00:43:03,103
I got it up into
a little pea-sized ball

521
00:43:03,103 --> 00:43:04,689
and it stuck
to the back
of your throat

522
00:43:04,689 --> 00:43:07,034
like a little dry
velcroed pill
in there.

523
00:43:07,034 --> 00:43:08,586
<i>I was like, you have
to be a snake</i>

524
00:43:08,586 --> 00:43:09,689
to be able
to swallow

525
00:43:09,689 --> 00:43:11,517
a golf-ball size
that big.

526
00:43:16,551 --> 00:43:18,000
- Oh, no. I'm good.

527
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,000
I'm good.

528
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:20,620
- You're good.
- Mm-hmm.

529
00:43:23,172 --> 00:43:24,517
So...

530
00:43:29,034 --> 00:43:31,172
We don't really cook,
especially in the US.

531
00:43:31,172 --> 00:43:34,000
Everything's mostly
like prepackaged,
warm-up.

532
00:43:35,448 --> 00:43:38,068
Mmm.
- We have
a big selection.

533
00:43:38,068 --> 00:43:41,379
We've got tomato soup,
cream of chicken,
cream of mushroom.

534
00:43:41,379 --> 00:43:44,551
I mean, there is
a huge selection.

535
00:43:44,551 --> 00:43:48,137
But no, when it comes
to cooking, I'm just
like hot pocket, pizza.

536
00:43:49,172 --> 00:43:51,413
I don't really cook.

537
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,793
Yeah, we worry
because Chidi is
a Black man.

538
00:43:59,793 --> 00:44:03,413
<i>He eats,
um, African food.</i>

539
00:44:04,689 --> 00:44:07,275
<i>It's
going to be difficult
for Chidi because</i>

540
00:44:07,275 --> 00:44:08,758
there's a limit
to what Chidi can

541
00:44:08,758 --> 00:44:10,758
do for himself
when it comes
to cooking.

542
00:44:10,758 --> 00:44:12,689
So, it's going
to be very bad
for him

543
00:44:12,689 --> 00:44:15,379
<i>since Rayne
doesn't cook.</i>

544
00:44:15,379 --> 00:44:17,172
Mmm.

545
00:44:24,482 --> 00:44:26,172
Oh, yeah.
He already is.

546
00:44:26,172 --> 00:44:28,172
Like they hear
about him so much

547
00:44:28,172 --> 00:44:29,620
every day
of their lives.

548
00:44:29,620 --> 00:44:31,758
Like they've heard it
for, like, the last five
and a half years.

549
00:44:31,758 --> 00:44:33,517
Every day, literally.

550
00:44:35,034 --> 00:44:37,275
What do you usually
tell them?

551
00:44:38,379 --> 00:44:40,862
I told him
that I feel like
we're soulmates.

552
00:44:40,862 --> 00:44:44,034
That he feels me
in his heart,
his mind, his body,

553
00:44:44,034 --> 00:44:46,206
just so deep
and spiritual.

554
00:44:50,137 --> 00:44:51,241
Huh?

555
00:44:53,965 --> 00:44:56,034
- God ordained.
- God ordained.

556
00:44:56,034 --> 00:44:58,620
God ordained.
- God... okay.

557
00:45:05,965 --> 00:45:07,413
Oh, no, never.

558
00:45:12,172 --> 00:45:13,586
<i>I can't
believe that she
even asked me,</i>

559
00:45:13,586 --> 00:45:14,896
<i>if Chidi and I
were physical</i>

560
00:45:14,896 --> 00:45:17,034
<i>at the dinner table
in front of family.</i>

561
00:45:17,034 --> 00:45:18,172
That's private.

562
00:45:19,551 --> 00:45:20,896
<i>Honestly,
I'm really sick</i>

563
00:45:20,896 --> 00:45:22,310
<i>of her getting
into our business.</i>

564
00:45:29,275 --> 00:45:31,275
Why do you look
so angry?

565
00:45:32,758 --> 00:45:34,793
- I'm not angry.
- No, but I see you
all the time,

566
00:45:34,793 --> 00:45:35,965
and I'm
just saying,
like, throughout

567
00:45:35,965 --> 00:45:38,793
this whole time,
you've been looking
real angry.

568
00:45:42,068 --> 00:45:43,586
Honestly, okay?

569
00:45:43,586 --> 00:45:45,034
There's no reason
to be angry.

570
00:45:45,034 --> 00:45:46,551
Even if you
don't like
something I say,

571
00:45:46,551 --> 00:45:48,000
there's no reason
like...

572
00:45:50,172 --> 00:45:51,758
Yeah, yeah. She's stressed.

573
00:45:51,758 --> 00:45:53,689
No, I'm just...
that's why
I asked you.

574
00:45:53,689 --> 00:45:54,827
Yeah.

575
00:45:55,172 --> 00:45:56,172
No, no. She's not.

576
00:45:56,172 --> 00:45:58,586
She's not. A 100 percent,
you understand?

577
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:37,517
I am
deeply worried.

578
00:46:46,896 --> 00:46:48,482
Nothing bugs me
any more.

579
00:46:48,482 --> 00:46:50,000
When I don't
get along
with people,

580
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:51,827
I move on.
I don't linger.

581
00:47:07,862 --> 00:47:10,275
Is my outfit
not okay?

582
00:47:12,586 --> 00:47:14,379
She has
to dress the way

583
00:47:14,379 --> 00:47:16,000
that you want her
to dress.

584
00:47:17,379 --> 00:47:20,137
But I'm in the car
and you're creating
a lot of tension.

585
00:47:20,137 --> 00:47:22,103
In Jordan, the man
is the man.

586
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:37,241
Baby, stop.

587
00:47:37,241 --> 00:47:38,793
Let's just all
settle down.

588
00:47:41,586 --> 00:47:43,482
Adnan is angry.

589
00:48:10,344 --> 00:48:12,344
Are we fighting
right now?

590
00:48:12,344 --> 00:48:13,896
- Are we fighting?
- What are we talking about?

591
00:48:15,344 --> 00:48:17,275
But I'm in the car
and you're creating

592
00:48:17,275 --> 00:48:20,379
a lot of tension
and you're making
me anxious.

593
00:48:20,379 --> 00:48:24,103
So I'm making it my business
because you're making it
my business.

594
00:48:25,655 --> 00:48:28,000
<i>We're in the car
driving to Petra</i>

595
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:29,379
<i>for our honeymoon,</i>

596
00:48:29,379 --> 00:48:31,482
<i>but Adnan is
so angry</i>

597
00:48:31,482 --> 00:48:33,448
about how long
that I took

598
00:48:33,448 --> 00:48:35,586
to get ready.

599
00:48:35,586 --> 00:48:38,172
<i>I've never seen him
like this before,</i>

600
00:48:38,172 --> 00:48:40,000
<i>and I don't
like it.</i>

601
00:48:41,793 --> 00:48:43,862
My brother
tell Tigerlily,

602
00:48:43,862 --> 00:48:46,379
"Why you are
dressed like this
in Jordan?

603
00:48:46,379 --> 00:48:48,137
This is not good
for Jordan."

604
00:48:48,137 --> 00:48:51,241
I said,
"This is
my business.

605
00:48:51,241 --> 00:48:53,000
I will say it.
Not you."

606
00:48:58,172 --> 00:49:00,586
- You're trying
to protect Tigerlily?
Yeah.

607
00:49:00,586 --> 00:49:02,586
Can you explain
to me
what is wrong

608
00:49:02,586 --> 00:49:04,000
with Tigerlily's
outfit?

609
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,586
It's not this...

610
00:49:06,586 --> 00:49:08,551
Oh, you don't,
you... okay.

611
00:49:08,551 --> 00:49:11,000
- Yeah. It's...
cover more.
- Okay.

612
00:49:18,241 --> 00:49:19,862
So do you
think that...

613
00:49:19,862 --> 00:49:22,241
Is my outfit okay?
Or should

614
00:49:22,241 --> 00:49:24,275
I have worn
something else?

615
00:49:34,172 --> 00:49:35,413
So, it's not okay?

616
00:49:36,275 --> 00:49:38,000
It's not okay.

617
00:49:38,379 --> 00:49:39,724
Yeah.

618
00:49:41,275 --> 00:49:42,862
She has to dress
the way

619
00:49:42,862 --> 00:49:44,275
that you want her
to dress?

620
00:49:44,275 --> 00:49:45,448
Yeah.

621
00:49:45,448 --> 00:49:46,862
No matter
where she goes?

622
00:49:46,862 --> 00:49:48,137
Yeah.

623
00:49:50,862 --> 00:49:52,793
In Jordan, man is
the man.

624
00:49:52,793 --> 00:49:54,758
- In Jordan, in American.
Everywhere.

625
00:49:54,758 --> 00:49:56,068
Everywhere.

626
00:49:56,068 --> 00:49:58,137
In the States
that's very conservative.

627
00:49:58,137 --> 00:49:59,206
Yeah.

628
00:50:02,896 --> 00:50:04,758
I feel that
Adnan's rules

629
00:50:04,758 --> 00:50:06,379
- are a lot
to handle.
- Yeah.

630
00:50:06,379 --> 00:50:10,172
<i>Tigerlily
needs to dress
a certain way.</i>

631
00:50:10,172 --> 00:50:13,482
<i>She can't
be alone
with other men.</i>

632
00:50:15,275 --> 00:50:17,000
<i>I just
really hope
that Tigerlily</i>

633
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,034
<i>doesn't lose
her voice
in this marriage.</i>

634
00:50:19,034 --> 00:50:22,137
She's being
this passive
Tigerlily...

635
00:50:22,137 --> 00:50:24,482
Which is not
really her.

636
00:50:25,448 --> 00:50:27,034
Is this something
that she'll be able

637
00:50:27,034 --> 00:50:29,482
to wear
in the States, Adnan?

638
00:50:31,896 --> 00:50:34,068
Are you okay
if I wear this
in the US?

639
00:50:34,068 --> 00:50:35,689
Or is it only
in Jordan?

640
00:50:45,586 --> 00:50:49,379
Next time
before I leave,

641
00:50:49,379 --> 00:50:52,448
like, next time
before like,
when you see

642
00:50:52,448 --> 00:50:54,965
me wearing
something then
just tell me.

643
00:50:54,965 --> 00:50:56,896
- Okay.
- It's just like
it's gonna be

644
00:50:56,896 --> 00:50:59,896
a learning process
for me,

645
00:50:59,896 --> 00:51:01,517
to know, baby.

646
00:51:03,689 --> 00:51:05,551
I don't
really understand

647
00:51:05,551 --> 00:51:08,896
all the rules
about the Muslim
dress code.

648
00:51:08,896 --> 00:51:10,379
Here we are.

649
00:51:10,379 --> 00:51:12,482
<i>The issue is
I am learning</i>

650
00:51:12,482 --> 00:51:14,862
<i>these rules
from Adnan,</i>

651
00:51:14,862 --> 00:51:16,896
and they are
not clear.

652
00:51:17,482 --> 00:51:19,482
<i>I am not even
showing anything.</i>

653
00:51:19,482 --> 00:51:21,275
<i>I have
long sleeves on.</i>

654
00:51:21,275 --> 00:51:23,655
<i>Am I supposed
to wear
a trash bag?</i>

655
00:51:23,655 --> 00:51:25,862
A big old sack?

656
00:51:25,862 --> 00:51:27,896
All right,
we're all
checked in.

657
00:51:27,896 --> 00:51:29,482
I'm excited
about Petra.

658
00:51:29,482 --> 00:51:32,137
We'll see y'all
early tomorrow.

659
00:51:32,137 --> 00:51:33,689
Y'all have
a good night.
Okay.

660
00:51:33,689 --> 00:51:37,551
Of course,
it is important
that Adnan feels

661
00:51:37,551 --> 00:51:39,896
like I'm
respecting him.

662
00:51:39,896 --> 00:51:43,103
<i>But he can't
just place all
these rules on me</i>

663
00:51:43,103 --> 00:51:47,206
and expect me
to just go
along with it.

664
00:51:48,482 --> 00:51:50,034
<i>This is not
gonna be</i>

665
00:51:50,034 --> 00:51:51,827
that kind
of relationship.

666
00:51:54,862 --> 00:51:57,310
I know.
Me too, baby.

667
00:52:01,862 --> 00:52:03,448
You have to try
to do your best

668
00:52:03,448 --> 00:52:05,000
and be
a good husband.

669
00:52:07,241 --> 00:52:09,689
<i>I really
want to tell
Matilda tonight</i>

670
00:52:09,689 --> 00:52:11,586
<i>about postponing
the marriage,</i>

671
00:52:11,586 --> 00:52:13,689
but I'm not quite sure

672
00:52:13,689 --> 00:52:15,689
how I'm going
to break it to her.

673
00:52:43,413 --> 00:52:45,000
Oh, there's no
air conditioning.

674
00:52:45,862 --> 00:52:47,241
Well,
this is my...
the first thing

675
00:52:47,241 --> 00:52:49,413
- that's different
from America.

676
00:52:49,413 --> 00:52:51,034
<i>I finally landed
in Ghana</i>

677
00:52:51,034 --> 00:52:52,896
<i>and met Matilda
for the first time.</i>

678
00:52:52,896 --> 00:52:54,344
<i>It's just
so amazing</i>

679
00:52:54,344 --> 00:52:55,793
<i>to be
in her presence.</i>

680
00:52:55,793 --> 00:52:56,965
It's indescribable.

681
00:52:56,965 --> 00:52:58,586
That's the only way
I can say it.

682
00:53:00,586 --> 00:53:01,758
Yes.

683
00:53:03,413 --> 00:53:04,620
Yeah.

684
00:53:04,620 --> 00:53:06,689
How do you
see Ghana?

685
00:53:06,689 --> 00:53:09,482
It's...
it's an experience.
It's new for me.

686
00:53:09,482 --> 00:53:11,896
- I'm trying
to take it all in.

687
00:53:11,896 --> 00:53:13,689
I couldn't balance
stuff on my head
like that.

688
00:53:13,689 --> 00:53:16,068
I'm not
coordinated enough
to do that.

689
00:53:17,379 --> 00:53:20,586
I might need
a day
to really just...

690
00:53:20,586 --> 00:53:22,000
just let it
sink in.

691
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:23,931
Here I am.
With you.

692
00:53:27,275 --> 00:53:29,241
Right now,
I'm just
hyper focused

693
00:53:29,241 --> 00:53:31,551
on... taking in
the environment

694
00:53:31,551 --> 00:53:34,137
and enjoying
my time
with Matilda.

695
00:53:34,137 --> 00:53:36,344
<i>But I know
that I'm gonna have</i>

696
00:53:36,344 --> 00:53:38,034
<i>to come clean
eventually to her,</i>

697
00:53:38,034 --> 00:53:39,965
concerning postponing
the marriage.

698
00:53:39,965 --> 00:53:41,793
Wait, wait, wait,
wait, wait, wait.

699
00:53:43,896 --> 00:53:45,137
Aw.

700
00:53:47,413 --> 00:53:49,137
Oh. Okay.

701
00:53:49,137 --> 00:53:51,551
- Thank you.
- You're very welcome.

702
00:53:51,551 --> 00:53:53,344
Also, let me know
if you don't
like me

703
00:53:53,344 --> 00:53:54,724
opening doors
for you, okay?

704
00:53:55,172 --> 00:53:56,103
Okay, good.

705
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,413
I really
want to tell
Matilda tonight,

706
00:53:59,413 --> 00:54:01,689
<i>but I'm not
quite sure</i>

707
00:54:01,689 --> 00:54:03,758
how I'm going
to break it to her.

708
00:54:03,758 --> 00:54:06,896
I want to say
I have a plan,
but I don't.

709
00:54:08,896 --> 00:54:10,103
Oh, okay.

710
00:54:13,379 --> 00:54:15,586
I'll try that.
I think I should
try that.

711
00:54:15,586 --> 00:54:17,241
Yeah. Yeah.
You should try it.

712
00:54:26,241 --> 00:54:28,310
- Okay.

713
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:38,620
Okay.

714
00:54:41,172 --> 00:54:43,000
- That's a snail.
Mmm-hmm

715
00:54:43,551 --> 00:54:45,000
Pick it.

716
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:47,000
Just...
just eat it?
Mm-hmm.

717
00:54:48,344 --> 00:54:50,275
Chew it.
Chew it. Eat it.
- Okay.

718
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:57,827
It's fantastic.

719
00:55:00,413 --> 00:55:01,965
Then you're enjoying
the food, right?

720
00:55:01,965 --> 00:55:03,344
I am.

721
00:55:03,344 --> 00:55:07,379
So, I came
with Matilda in Accra
to meet you,

722
00:55:07,379 --> 00:55:09,862
you know,
because I have
to protect Matilda.

723
00:55:09,862 --> 00:55:13,000
She's my sister
and I love her.

724
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:15,206
You have to try
to do your best

725
00:55:15,206 --> 00:55:16,896
and be
a good husband.

726
00:55:16,896 --> 00:55:18,034
You understand?

727
00:55:18,034 --> 00:55:19,896
As far
as I understand
from my duties

728
00:55:19,896 --> 00:55:23,000
as a man,
don't cheat,
don't lie to her.

729
00:55:23,586 --> 00:55:24,896
Don't mistreat her.

730
00:55:24,896 --> 00:55:26,000
Yeah,
you are right.

731
00:55:36,310 --> 00:55:38,103
What do you mean
by quick temper?

732
00:55:39,862 --> 00:55:41,517
Yeah, you get angry
or you get mad.

733
00:55:41,517 --> 00:55:43,896
But you know,
don't hide anything
from Matilda

734
00:55:43,896 --> 00:55:45,448
and make her happy.

735
00:55:45,448 --> 00:55:46,896
If you treat
her good,

736
00:55:46,896 --> 00:55:49,448
you're not gonna
see anything.

737
00:55:49,448 --> 00:55:51,310
Do you understand?

738
00:55:52,379 --> 00:55:54,000
I think we can
manage it.

739
00:55:54,655 --> 00:55:56,103
Okay. Okay.

740
00:55:58,000 --> 00:55:59,793
<i>From
our conversations,
I could see</i>

741
00:55:59,793 --> 00:56:01,896
<i>that Matilda was
pretty strong-willed,</i>

742
00:56:01,896 --> 00:56:06,000
but temper issues,
I never really got
that from her.

743
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:08,793
<i>And when it comes
to telling her</i>

744
00:56:08,793 --> 00:56:10,379
<i>that we have
to postpone
the wedding...</i>

745
00:56:10,379 --> 00:56:12,137
Right now,
the courage is

746
00:56:12,137 --> 00:56:13,448
kind of leaving
me here.

747
00:56:14,586 --> 00:56:15,793
I just don't
want anything

748
00:56:15,793 --> 00:56:18,000
to ruin
our first night together.

749
00:56:30,620 --> 00:56:32,034
<i>I can't wait
to spend some</i>

750
00:56:32,034 --> 00:56:34,689
one on one time
with Matilda.

751
00:56:34,689 --> 00:56:37,896
<i>But even though
we both have
had sex before,</i>

752
00:56:37,896 --> 00:56:40,206
<i>we want
to make sure
that we do things</i>

753
00:56:40,206 --> 00:56:41,689
<i>the right way
this time around,</i>

754
00:56:41,689 --> 00:56:44,206
and refrain
from having sex
until marriage.

755
00:56:45,068 --> 00:56:46,896
<i>It's gonna
be hard to control
our urges,</i>

756
00:56:46,896 --> 00:56:48,517
<i>because have
I mentioned</i>

757
00:56:48,517 --> 00:56:50,103
I'm heterosexual today?

758
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,034
And that I have
a very
beautiful woman

759
00:56:54,034 --> 00:56:55,724
in my bed
with me?

760
00:56:58,206 --> 00:56:59,827
Oh, God.

761
00:57:03,068 --> 00:57:04,517
You have
to get some sleep.

762
00:57:04,517 --> 00:57:06,172
Don't wait for me.

763
00:57:08,379 --> 00:57:10,206
Oh, but I will.

764
00:57:10,206 --> 00:57:11,517
But I will wait.

765
00:57:11,517 --> 00:57:13,965
- Why?
- Oh, no reason.

766
00:57:13,965 --> 00:57:16,413
After all,
nothing's gonna
happen tonight.

767
00:57:22,206 --> 00:57:25,034
To be honest,
being with Niles
in person,

768
00:57:25,034 --> 00:57:28,413
<i>it's even better
than what
I imagined.</i>

769
00:57:28,965 --> 00:57:31,448
This man is
very handsome.

770
00:58:08,862 --> 00:58:12,068
Loren has broken
my heart, and now
I don't know,

771
00:58:12,068 --> 00:58:13,586
if I can
ever forgive him.

772
00:58:21,620 --> 00:58:22,896
Hey.

773
00:58:22,896 --> 00:58:25,206
Wait. So,
you're allowed
to shake girls' hands,

774
00:58:25,206 --> 00:58:27,517
but I can't shake
Cruz's hand?

775
00:58:27,517 --> 00:58:29,310
<i>I am so angry.</i>

776
00:58:29,310 --> 00:58:31,896
It's a complete
double standard.

777
00:58:31,896 --> 00:58:33,896
So, you have
different rules
than me?

778
00:58:33,896 --> 00:58:35,275
Not different rules.'
I told you before.

779
00:58:35,275 --> 00:58:37,068
Then what is it, then?

780
00:58:37,068 --> 00:58:39,068
You make me
so angry
and so stressful.

781
00:58:39,068 --> 00:58:40,448
I can't.

782
00:59:11,103 --> 00:59:13,000
<i>I still
haven't talked to Loren</i>

783
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:15,000
since I found out
he was sleeping

784
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:16,448
with other women.

785
00:59:23,965 --> 00:59:26,000
My friends have
no idea

786
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:27,344
what's been
going on.

787
00:59:27,344 --> 00:59:28,827
They had plans
to come
do my nails

788
00:59:28,827 --> 00:59:30,586
<i>and meet
Loren today.</i>

789
00:59:30,586 --> 00:59:32,000
<i>And I didn't
want to cancel</i>

790
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:34,206
<i>because I need
their support.</i>

791
00:59:34,206 --> 00:59:36,068
But I don't know
what to say.

792
00:59:36,068 --> 00:59:37,551
It's humiliating.

793
01:02:08,586 --> 01:02:10,068
<i>This is exactly</i>

794
01:02:10,068 --> 01:02:11,620
<i>what I was
worried about</i>

795
01:02:11,620 --> 01:02:13,724
<i>with having
a boyfriend.</i>

796
01:02:13,724 --> 01:02:16,620
<i>That I would
end up heartbroken.</i>

797
01:02:16,620 --> 01:02:19,241
And now
Loren has broken
my heart.

798
01:03:38,551 --> 01:03:41,482
<i>But I'm not sure
if Loren can fix this.</i>

799
01:03:42,344 --> 01:03:45,275
I don't know
if I can ever
forgive him.

800
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:16,724
And how'd y'all sleep?

801
01:04:17,172 --> 01:04:18,379
Horrible.

802
01:04:18,379 --> 01:04:20,137
Oh.
- So horrible sleep.

803
01:04:20,137 --> 01:04:22,793
Really?
- I'm dream, uh...

804
01:04:22,793 --> 01:04:25,896
I have people here
in the room.

805
01:04:25,896 --> 01:04:28,482
So creepy, and so horrible
and so weird.

806
01:04:28,482 --> 01:04:30,137
I slept like a baby.

807
01:04:30,137 --> 01:04:32,586
Here, you can...
You can wear this tonight.

808
01:04:32,586 --> 01:04:34,000
Thank you.
Thank you so much.

809
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:35,689
- It's for me?
- Yes... Yes.

810
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:37,275
I always am sure

811
01:04:37,275 --> 01:04:39,482
whenever I go to
different places

812
01:04:39,482 --> 01:04:41,103
that I protect myself.

813
01:04:41,103 --> 01:04:42,862
I wear crystals.

814
01:04:42,862 --> 01:04:44,310
- Thank you so much.
Yes.

815
01:04:44,310 --> 01:04:45,482
Here, Tigerlily.

816
01:04:45,482 --> 01:04:47,689
This will protect you
at night, too.

817
01:04:47,689 --> 01:04:48,931
Perfect.

818
01:04:48,931 --> 01:04:50,758
I love it.

819
01:04:50,758 --> 01:04:52,517
Do you want me
to help you put this on?

820
01:04:52,517 --> 01:04:54,000
Yeah. Oh, wait. Wait.

821
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:55,517
I don't know if you can.

822
01:04:56,689 --> 01:04:58,034
- Baby.
Can I put this on,

823
01:04:58,034 --> 01:04:59,413
or you want to do it?

824
01:05:00,965 --> 01:05:03,000
<i>Out of respect
for my husband,</i>

825
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:05,827
<i>I've changed
how I interact with men,</i>

826
01:05:05,827 --> 01:05:07,689
<i>especially Cruz.</i>

827
01:05:07,689 --> 01:05:09,448
<i>And it's hard because,</i>

828
01:05:09,448 --> 01:05:11,517
Cruz and I
have known each other

829
01:05:11,517 --> 01:05:13,310
for a really long time,

830
01:05:13,310 --> 01:05:16,862
and before we would hug
when we saw each other.

831
01:05:17,862 --> 01:05:20,655
I just don't think you know
how awkward...

832
01:05:20,655 --> 01:05:22,517
- It's hard.
- ...it is in the US.

833
01:05:30,379 --> 01:05:31,517
Okay, guys.

834
01:05:34,275 --> 01:05:36,172
I am very excited.

835
01:05:36,172 --> 01:05:38,344
We're actually
on time today.

836
01:05:38,344 --> 01:05:39,551
Before sunset.

837
01:05:39,551 --> 01:05:40,689
- All right.
- Let's go.

838
01:05:40,689 --> 01:05:42,137
Let's go. Let's do it.
- I need my ticket.

839
01:05:48,586 --> 01:05:52,379
<i>Because I plan
very exciting day.</i>

840
01:05:52,379 --> 01:05:54,862
We'll meet
you guys outside by the car.

841
01:05:55,034 --> 01:05:56,758
Okay.

842
01:05:56,758 --> 01:06:00,517
Petra is one of the seven
wonders in the world.

843
01:06:00,517 --> 01:06:03,310
<i>It's ruins, an old city...</i>

844
01:06:06,413 --> 01:06:07,931
<i>It's amazing.</i>

845
01:06:13,482 --> 01:06:14,827
You excited?

846
01:06:14,827 --> 01:06:15,862
I'm very excited.

847
01:06:15,862 --> 01:06:16,724
- Very excited, yeah.
- This is gonna be fun.

848
01:06:16,724 --> 01:06:19,275
I'm going to Petra
and three time.

849
01:06:19,931 --> 01:06:21,655
Hey!

850
01:06:27,793 --> 01:06:28,827
- Ready.

851
01:06:28,827 --> 01:06:31,172
- I need my Google translator.
Hi.

852
01:06:32,379 --> 01:06:33,310
- Wait, so you're allowed...
- Yeah.

853
01:06:33,310 --> 01:06:34,448
...to shake girl's hands,

854
01:06:34,448 --> 01:06:36,586
but I can't shake
Cruz's hand?

855
01:06:39,275 --> 01:06:40,620
The same thing that I do.

856
01:06:40,620 --> 01:06:42,655
And I just say hi.

857
01:06:43,482 --> 01:06:46,172
I guess we can
shake hands now, Cruz.

858
01:06:46,172 --> 01:06:48,793
- And maybe we can even hug.

859
01:06:48,793 --> 01:06:50,034
I don't want to
get in trouble.

860
01:06:50,034 --> 01:06:51,517
Let go of my hand.

861
01:06:52,827 --> 01:06:54,655
Let go of my hand.
No, no.

862
01:06:55,758 --> 01:06:59,827
I am feeling
completely betrayed.

863
01:07:00,965 --> 01:07:02,862
<i>Him shaking Shay's hand,</i>

864
01:07:02,862 --> 01:07:05,586
<i>it's a complete
double standard.</i>

865
01:07:05,586 --> 01:07:08,965
Adnan's having
these rules for me,

866
01:07:08,965 --> 01:07:10,310
<i>but at the same time,</i>

867
01:07:10,310 --> 01:07:13,137
<i>he just thinks that the rules
don't apply to him,</i>

868
01:07:13,137 --> 01:07:15,068
and I don't like that.

869
01:07:22,931 --> 01:07:24,793
It's a problem because

870
01:07:24,793 --> 01:07:26,862
it's disrespectful to me.

871
01:07:26,862 --> 01:07:28,000
Okay.
If I did that,

872
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:30,448
if I shook a guy's hand
in front of him,

873
01:07:30,448 --> 01:07:32,000
he would be so angry.

874
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:33,034
Yeah.

875
01:07:33,448 --> 01:07:35,137
Yeah.

876
01:07:36,655 --> 01:07:39,103
- I feel... I feel they...
- I've met your family

877
01:07:39,103 --> 01:07:40,068
at the wedding.

878
01:07:40,068 --> 01:07:42,275
Your uncles
and your different people,

879
01:07:42,275 --> 01:07:44,068
they didn't shake my hand.

880
01:07:44,068 --> 01:07:46,206
So, you have
different rules than me?

881
01:07:46,620 --> 01:07:47,655
Not different rules.

882
01:07:47,655 --> 01:07:49,758
- I told you before.
- Then what is it, then?

883
01:07:49,758 --> 01:07:52,931
Why you didn't
tell me last night?

884
01:07:52,931 --> 01:07:55,689
"No, Shay is not your family."

885
01:07:55,689 --> 01:07:58,103
She is your family.
That's fine.

886
01:08:00,724 --> 01:08:02,413
- Tell me like this...
- These are your rules.

887
01:08:02,413 --> 01:08:03,896
These aren't even my rules.

888
01:08:03,896 --> 01:08:06,241
Why would I be making up
my own whatever?

889
01:08:06,241 --> 01:08:07,827
This is your thing.

890
01:08:08,931 --> 01:08:11,172
I don't like
when I see you like this.

891
01:08:11,172 --> 01:08:12,448
Yeah, yeah.

892
01:08:12,448 --> 01:08:14,827
First, you make me so angry
and so stressful. I can't...

893
01:08:14,827 --> 01:08:16,275
- Well, it's your fault.
- ...I can't do anything now.

894
01:08:16,275 --> 01:08:17,551
It's your fault

895
01:08:17,551 --> 01:08:18,758
- that you put me like this.
- You can... you can fix it,

896
01:08:18,758 --> 01:08:21,482
but without this face.

897
01:08:21,482 --> 01:08:23,896
- I don't like this face.
- What's wrong with
my face now?

898
01:08:23,896 --> 01:08:26,103
Now, there's something wrong
with my face. Okay.

899
01:08:28,551 --> 01:08:29,896
<i>I am so surprised,</i>

900
01:08:29,896 --> 01:08:31,758
my sweet wife...

901
01:08:31,758 --> 01:08:33,931
she is so mad with me...

902
01:08:48,620 --> 01:08:50,551
I didn't mean
to cause any drama.

903
01:08:50,551 --> 01:08:52,655
- I just did it instinctively.
- No, I know you didn't.

904
01:08:52,655 --> 01:08:54,310
I know. I know exactly.

905
01:08:54,310 --> 01:08:55,862
This is just what we do
in the US.

906
01:08:55,862 --> 01:08:57,517
I get it.

907
01:08:57,517 --> 01:09:01,206
It should be different for him
because this is his life.

908
01:09:03,137 --> 01:09:04,586
<i>Based on this fight,</i>

909
01:09:04,586 --> 01:09:06,310
<i>there's some double standards</i>

910
01:09:06,310 --> 01:09:09,344
<i>that Tigerlily
probably wasn't seeing before</i>

911
01:09:09,344 --> 01:09:10,862
<i>and now she is.</i>

912
01:09:11,586 --> 01:09:13,655
<i>But at the same time,</i>

913
01:09:13,655 --> 01:09:15,068
they're already married,

914
01:09:15,068 --> 01:09:17,620
so it's a little too late.

915
01:09:17,620 --> 01:09:19,000
Now you just have to
deal with stuff.

916
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:20,206
Yeah.

917
01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:25,413
- Okay? But...
I know he does.

918
01:09:25,413 --> 01:09:28,931
But I just think it's really
hypocritical that, like...

919
01:09:28,931 --> 01:09:31,275
he's telling me
that I can't do things

920
01:09:31,275 --> 01:09:33,655
while he's doing them himself.

921
01:09:33,655 --> 01:09:37,275
Don't get angry and do
all of these things you do it.

922
01:09:39,965 --> 01:09:41,689
Because I'm mad at you.

923
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:44,896
Whenever you shake
another girl's hand

924
01:09:44,896 --> 01:09:45,931
- in front of me...
- It's okay. You got...

925
01:09:45,931 --> 01:09:47,000
...and I'm not allowed to.

926
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:48,586
- You are next to me.
- That makes me [bleep]...

927
01:09:48,586 --> 01:09:49,586
I am not alone.

928
01:09:49,586 --> 01:09:50,793
You are next to me.

929
01:09:50,793 --> 01:09:52,068
That's even worse.

930
01:09:53,758 --> 01:09:56,965
I am just feeling so angry.

931
01:09:56,965 --> 01:09:58,275
Where are you going?

932
01:09:58,275 --> 01:10:00,413
I said everything
that I needed to say.

933
01:10:00,413 --> 01:10:04,068
It's a big problem
when you leave your husband.

934
01:10:04,068 --> 01:10:06,275
<i>I'm not going to
be in a relationship</i>

935
01:10:06,275 --> 01:10:09,000
<i>with someone
that doesn't respect me.</i>

936
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:11,137
There's no way I can do that.

937
01:10:11,655 --> 01:10:13,172
So big a problem here.

938
01:10:13,586 --> 01:10:15,172
You met Lily,

939
01:10:15,172 --> 01:10:16,620
now this is the tiger.

940
01:10:23,034 --> 01:10:24,827
Oh, this is nice.

941
01:10:24,827 --> 01:10:26,931
I like these roses
you put on the bed.

942
01:10:26,931 --> 01:10:28,310
The candles?

943
01:10:28,310 --> 01:10:30,172
You're really going all out.

944
01:10:30,793 --> 01:10:32,275
<i>He's being so romantic.</i>

945
01:10:32,275 --> 01:10:34,689
I don't want to continue
to keep this secret from him

946
01:10:34,689 --> 01:10:36,000
<i>about Rory being here.</i>

947
01:10:36,896 --> 01:10:38,448
So, um...

948
01:10:47,172 --> 01:10:49,344
Make sure you're
staying in your lane, okay?

949
01:10:49,344 --> 01:10:51,551
I don't like driving
right now,

950
01:10:51,551 --> 01:10:53,275
because I can't
hold your hand.

951
01:10:54,275 --> 01:10:55,206
We're gonna die.

952
01:10:55,206 --> 01:10:56,551
I don't want to die.

953
01:10:56,551 --> 01:10:57,896
Don't hold my hand.

954
01:11:05,931 --> 01:11:07,689
I'm just nervous
because you are next to me.

955
01:11:07,689 --> 01:11:09,000
That is the reason.

956
01:11:11,137 --> 01:11:13,241
To finally be together
with Sunny,

957
01:11:13,241 --> 01:11:16,034
it just feels so different.

958
01:11:16,034 --> 01:11:17,241
<i>Even though I've talked to him</i>

959
01:11:17,241 --> 01:11:19,793
and we've built a relationship
for the past year, I...

960
01:11:19,793 --> 01:11:21,689
It's different in person.

961
01:11:21,689 --> 01:11:23,310
<i>It's like, no,
you're starting over with...</i>

962
01:11:23,310 --> 01:11:25,379
like you're comfortability
with them.

963
01:11:27,689 --> 01:11:29,586
How do we turn the AC on
up in here?

964
01:11:30,137 --> 01:11:31,724
- You feel hot?
- Yeah.

965
01:11:31,724 --> 01:11:33,655
This is excitement, honey.

966
01:11:33,655 --> 01:11:36,586
I want to make your heart beat
a little bit faster.

967
01:11:36,586 --> 01:11:37,931
Because...

968
01:11:41,206 --> 01:11:42,310
Foreplay.

969
01:11:42,517 --> 01:11:43,862
Let's play.

970
01:11:43,862 --> 01:11:45,862
Do you know what foreplay is?

971
01:11:46,206 --> 01:11:48,034
Yeah, just play.

972
01:11:48,034 --> 01:11:50,137
Wait... No,
what's foreplay mean?

973
01:11:51,862 --> 01:11:52,896
I don't know.

974
01:11:53,655 --> 01:11:54,862
Foreplay means...

975
01:11:54,862 --> 01:11:56,551
four people playing together.

976
01:11:57,931 --> 01:11:59,620
No. Stop!

977
01:11:59,620 --> 01:12:00,724
Are you lying?

978
01:12:01,137 --> 01:12:02,344
I don't know.

979
01:12:03,103 --> 01:12:05,000
So, foreplay is like...

980
01:12:05,517 --> 01:12:07,172
what you do before sex.

981
01:12:09,275 --> 01:12:11,000
Kissing, touching,

982
01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:12,034
hugging.

983
01:12:12,793 --> 01:12:14,379
Come on.

984
01:12:14,379 --> 01:12:16,965
I thought she's talking about,
she wanted to play four play,

985
01:12:16,965 --> 01:12:18,620
like, four people
gonna play together

986
01:12:18,620 --> 01:12:19,620
and something like that.

987
01:12:21,413 --> 01:12:23,379
- Four play.
- That's what foreplay is,

988
01:12:23,379 --> 01:12:24,965
is when four people
play cards.

989
01:12:29,448 --> 01:12:30,931
Okay.

990
01:12:30,931 --> 01:12:32,793
Let's get to the hotel.

991
01:12:36,344 --> 01:12:37,172
<i>It would be cute</i>

992
01:12:37,172 --> 01:12:39,655
if he wasn't
super experienced.

993
01:12:39,655 --> 01:12:41,137
I could teach him some things.

994
01:12:42,172 --> 01:12:45,000
<i>But I don't think that we're
going to do anything tonight.</i>

995
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:47,172
Even though we've done
things on video chat,

996
01:12:47,172 --> 01:12:49,448
it's weird in person.

997
01:12:49,448 --> 01:12:50,827
<i>I definitely need
a little bit of time</i>

998
01:12:50,827 --> 01:12:53,517
just to get more comfortable
with him before...

999
01:12:56,034 --> 01:12:57,137
Surprise.

1000
01:12:57,137 --> 01:12:58,172
Did you like the place?

1001
01:12:58,172 --> 01:12:59,586
Yeah, it's cute.

1002
01:13:02,034 --> 01:13:04,034
Baby, are you hungry?

1003
01:13:04,448 --> 01:13:05,689
Um, yes.

1004
01:13:06,413 --> 01:13:07,517
Come, sit.

1005
01:13:07,517 --> 01:13:10,172
It's my turn to
treat you like a queen.

1006
01:13:10,172 --> 01:13:11,206
Okay.

1007
01:13:14,137 --> 01:13:15,034
What is this?

1008
01:13:15,034 --> 01:13:16,827
This is like, kind of bread

1009
01:13:16,827 --> 01:13:18,586
we normally eat
with the bread.

1010
01:13:18,586 --> 01:13:20,689
There's a chicken curry
for you.

1011
01:13:20,689 --> 01:13:23,000
It's a lot of hard work
I did on that.

1012
01:13:31,206 --> 01:13:33,068
I appreciate it,
but I don't want to eat it.

1013
01:13:37,344 --> 01:13:39,000
<i>I don't wanna
offend Sunny,</i>

1014
01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:40,655
but I've always been
very particular

1015
01:13:40,655 --> 01:13:42,000
what I will put in my body.

1016
01:13:43,241 --> 01:13:44,137
This look bad?

1017
01:13:44,137 --> 01:13:45,413
No. It's just...

1018
01:13:45,413 --> 01:13:47,586
I'm weird about what I eat.
I'm really picky.

1019
01:13:47,586 --> 01:13:48,689
I told you this.

1020
01:13:49,137 --> 01:13:50,137
Call me sheltered,

1021
01:13:50,137 --> 01:13:52,000
but I've just never
eaten curry before.

1022
01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:54,000
I don't know
what's even in curry.

1023
01:13:54,551 --> 01:13:56,689
<i>I'm tired, I'm jet lagged,</i>

1024
01:13:56,689 --> 01:13:58,034
<i>and I just don't want to
eat something</i>

1025
01:13:58,034 --> 01:13:59,655
I don't know what it is
right now.

1026
01:14:01,931 --> 01:14:02,965
I appreciate it,

1027
01:14:02,965 --> 01:14:05,034
but I just don't wanna eat it.

1028
01:14:05,034 --> 01:14:07,000
- Sorry.
- Well, okay, that's cool.

1029
01:14:07,000 --> 01:14:08,000
I will eat it myself.

1030
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:09,275
I love my food.

1031
01:14:09,827 --> 01:14:11,448
So, uh...

1032
01:14:11,448 --> 01:14:12,655
I'll show you a bedroom.

1033
01:14:12,655 --> 01:14:14,413
Just a minute, I need time.

1034
01:14:14,413 --> 01:14:15,965
Okay. I'll sit here and wait.

1035
01:14:15,965 --> 01:14:17,517
Okay. Thank you.

1036
01:14:26,931 --> 01:14:29,206
Food is really important
in my culture,

1037
01:14:29,206 --> 01:14:31,448
<i>like making a food with love.</i>

1038
01:14:36,448 --> 01:14:38,275
She refused to even try it.

1039
01:14:38,275 --> 01:14:39,586
That makes me sad.

1040
01:14:48,482 --> 01:14:49,655
- Are you ready?
Mm-hm.

1041
01:14:49,655 --> 01:14:50,586
This is something else,

1042
01:14:50,586 --> 01:14:52,275
- I want to surprise you.
Show me.

1043
01:14:52,275 --> 01:14:54,827
But you have to
close your eyes for that.

1044
01:14:54,827 --> 01:14:56,206
Hmm.
- I will hold this.

1045
01:14:56,206 --> 01:14:57,620
I don't trust you.

1046
01:14:57,620 --> 01:14:58,896
I'll hold it myself.

1047
01:14:58,896 --> 01:15:00,068
Okay.

1048
01:15:00,517 --> 01:15:02,172
Be ready.

1049
01:15:02,172 --> 01:15:03,793
- Are you ready?
Mm-hm.

1050
01:15:03,793 --> 01:15:04,827
You sure?

1051
01:15:04,827 --> 01:15:06,000
Mm-hm.

1052
01:15:08,620 --> 01:15:11,551
This is gonna be
our bedroom.

1053
01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:13,724
Oh, this is nice.

1054
01:15:15,103 --> 01:15:17,482
I like these roses
you put on the bed.

1055
01:15:18,068 --> 01:15:19,689
You're trying to be
all romantic.

1056
01:15:19,689 --> 01:15:21,896
- I am.
- The candles?

1057
01:15:21,896 --> 01:15:24,000
You're really going all out.

1058
01:15:27,206 --> 01:15:28,517
Thank you.

1059
01:15:29,137 --> 01:15:31,310
- So, um...
- Tell me.

1060
01:15:31,310 --> 01:15:33,517
I'd...

1061
01:15:34,482 --> 01:15:36,172
Can I join with you?

1062
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:38,137
Not tonight.

1063
01:15:38,137 --> 01:15:39,655
I'm really tired.

1064
01:15:40,793 --> 01:15:41,827
Okay.

1065
01:15:42,551 --> 01:15:43,448
Okay.

1066
01:15:43,448 --> 01:15:44,413
Bye.

1067
01:15:44,413 --> 01:15:45,827
Enjoy your shower.

1068
01:15:50,379 --> 01:15:51,655
<i>I think
it's really cute</i>

1069
01:15:51,655 --> 01:15:53,551
<i>that Sunny has done all this.</i>

1070
01:15:53,551 --> 01:15:54,931
<i>He's being so romantic,</i>

1071
01:15:54,931 --> 01:15:56,724
<i>he's being so sweet,</i>

1072
01:15:56,724 --> 01:15:58,137
<i>but I just keep
thinking, like,</i>

1073
01:15:58,137 --> 01:16:00,586
<i>that I haven't told him
about Rory being here.</i>

1074
01:16:01,413 --> 01:16:02,379
You ready for bed?

1075
01:16:02,379 --> 01:16:04,206
Yeah.

1076
01:16:04,206 --> 01:16:06,620
<i>I don't wanna continue
to keep this secret from him,</i>

1077
01:16:06,620 --> 01:16:08,172
but I'm in a situation

1078
01:16:08,172 --> 01:16:09,206
where it's like,

1079
01:16:09,206 --> 01:16:11,310
"Where do I tell him?
How do I tell him?"

1080
01:16:12,689 --> 01:16:14,965
<i>I'm just really scared that
Sunny will never forgive me.</i>

1081
01:16:14,965 --> 01:16:17,068
He could break up with me
and send me home,

1082
01:16:17,068 --> 01:16:18,724
<i>and can mess up everything</i>

1083
01:16:18,724 --> 01:16:20,931
<i>that I've had planned
for the past year.</i>

1084
01:16:23,965 --> 01:16:25,034
Good night.

1085
01:16:25,034 --> 01:16:26,586
Thank you.
Sweet nightmares.

1086
01:16:26,586 --> 01:16:28,034
You too.

1087
01:16:30,586 --> 01:16:32,724
I was just wondering
if you would feel comfortable

1088
01:16:32,724 --> 01:16:34,896
to, like, stay in
a hotel room with me.

1089
01:16:35,758 --> 01:16:36,931
Like, you even say yourself,

1090
01:16:36,931 --> 01:16:38,482
"We're soulmates.
We're meant to be."

1091
01:16:38,482 --> 01:16:41,413
So, I don't see the issue
with you being alone with me.

1092
01:16:45,896 --> 01:16:46,931
Hey, hey!

1093
01:16:46,931 --> 01:16:47,862
You care more...

1094
01:16:47,862 --> 01:16:48,965
- No, don't shout.
- ...about the world

1095
01:16:48,965 --> 01:16:50,413
- and your family think...
- No.

1096
01:16:50,413 --> 01:16:51,551
...versus us.

1097
01:17:17,827 --> 01:17:19,413
<i>Dinner with Chidi's
family last night</i>

1098
01:17:19,413 --> 01:17:20,793
<i>was really tense.</i>

1099
01:17:23,379 --> 01:17:26,000
Victoria's starting
to show clues to

1100
01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:28,517
maybe as to why I might have
some deep down issue

1101
01:17:28,517 --> 01:17:30,655
<i>when it comes to sisters.</i>

1102
01:17:30,655 --> 01:17:32,724
<i>Questioning me
if Chidi and I were physical,</i>

1103
01:17:32,724 --> 01:17:34,172
<i>it was the last straw.</i>

1104
01:17:34,172 --> 01:17:36,103
<i>That's disrespectful.</i>

1105
01:17:36,517 --> 01:17:38,103
My gut is never wrong.

1106
01:17:38,517 --> 01:17:39,896
Never wrong.

1107
01:17:42,758 --> 01:17:44,551
So much negative energy here,

1108
01:17:44,551 --> 01:17:47,896
so I'm gonna talk to him
about getting a hotel room.

1109
01:17:51,448 --> 01:17:53,896
I think he would stay with me.
It's just, uh,

1110
01:17:53,896 --> 01:17:55,620
he would be really hesitant
and scared over

1111
01:17:55,620 --> 01:17:58,000
what his sister
and the husband are thinking.

1112
01:18:02,689 --> 01:18:04,827
Good morning, Chidi.

1113
01:18:05,482 --> 01:18:07,551
Babe, good morning.

1114
01:18:07,551 --> 01:18:08,793
You're reading
your bible?

1115
01:18:08,793 --> 01:18:09,827
Yep.

1116
01:18:10,103 --> 01:18:11,137
That's cool.

1117
01:18:11,137 --> 01:18:13,103
Interesting, right?
Yeah.

1118
01:18:13,103 --> 01:18:14,586
That's a trip
how you learned that.

1119
01:18:14,586 --> 01:18:15,793
Yeah, um,

1120
01:18:15,793 --> 01:18:17,965
- but it's not
actually difficult.

1121
01:18:19,206 --> 01:18:20,655
You know, I was thinking,

1122
01:18:20,655 --> 01:18:22,206
- you and me go for a walk.
Yeah.

1123
01:18:26,517 --> 01:18:27,379
Okay,
I'll wait for you

1124
01:18:27,379 --> 01:18:28,482
- in the living room.
- All right.

1125
01:18:29,758 --> 01:18:32,827
After last night's dinner,
I was very worried

1126
01:18:32,827 --> 01:18:35,965
about Rayne's state of mind
regarding my sister.

1127
01:18:37,862 --> 01:18:39,482
It's real nice outside
and cloudy...

1128
01:18:40,482 --> 01:18:41,827
...and the water's running
down the street,

1129
01:18:41,827 --> 01:18:44,620
and the chickens are all over
and there's people all over.

1130
01:18:57,965 --> 01:19:00,206
You wanna sit down?
Right here, there's a place.

1131
01:19:01,137 --> 01:19:02,379
Of course.

1132
01:19:07,241 --> 01:19:09,103
Yeah. This is nice.

1133
01:19:11,827 --> 01:19:13,827
So, about, um, last night,

1134
01:19:13,827 --> 01:19:16,517
I wanted to apologize
because I did, um,

1135
01:19:16,517 --> 01:19:18,896
raise my voice a little bit.

1136
01:19:18,896 --> 01:19:21,482
But it was only out of,
of obvious frustration.

1137
01:19:21,482 --> 01:19:22,793
You know?

1138
01:19:24,034 --> 01:19:25,862
Sometimes, yes,

1139
01:19:25,862 --> 01:19:28,758
we have differences
and, uh, we have issues,

1140
01:19:28,758 --> 01:19:31,482
but unless we get over them,

1141
01:19:31,482 --> 01:19:33,931
it will still be difficult
to carry on.

1142
01:19:35,241 --> 01:19:36,448
Do you understand?

1143
01:19:39,137 --> 01:19:41,034
I appreciate your sister,

1144
01:19:41,034 --> 01:19:42,724
but I don't know if, uh,

1145
01:19:42,724 --> 01:19:46,793
our problem will be resolved
in the end of all this,

1146
01:19:46,793 --> 01:19:48,965
so I was just wondering
if you would feel comfortable

1147
01:19:48,965 --> 01:19:51,344
to, like, stay in
a hotel room with me.

1148
01:19:57,103 --> 01:19:58,793
You don't look enthused.

1149
01:20:01,862 --> 01:20:03,586
Um, it's not a bad thing.

1150
01:20:03,586 --> 01:20:05,689
It's not a bad idea.

1151
01:20:06,586 --> 01:20:07,862
So, you'll do it?

1152
01:20:09,172 --> 01:20:10,275
Um...

1153
01:20:10,724 --> 01:20:12,034
I just, um...

1154
01:20:27,517 --> 01:20:29,344
- Um...
- I'm good. I get it. Okay?

1155
01:20:29,344 --> 01:20:31,206
It's not that
I'm uncomfortable.

1156
01:20:31,206 --> 01:20:33,000
I'm just uncomfortable
with the situation

1157
01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:35,172
because I came
so freaking far

1158
01:20:35,172 --> 01:20:38,137
to see my soulmate
that I'm supposed to marry,

1159
01:20:38,137 --> 01:20:40,034
that he wants to
marry me so bad.

1160
01:20:40,034 --> 01:20:41,413
I'm just looking for that

1161
01:20:41,413 --> 01:20:43,586
little bit of quality time
alone with you.

1162
01:20:45,241 --> 01:20:46,551
Well, um,

1163
01:20:46,551 --> 01:20:47,551
remember...

1164
01:20:50,551 --> 01:20:51,586
You understand?

1165
01:20:52,448 --> 01:20:53,413
Like, you even say yourself,

1166
01:20:53,413 --> 01:20:55,344
"We're soulmates.
We're meant to be."

1167
01:20:55,344 --> 01:20:57,620
Like, you believe
God has ordained us, so...

1168
01:20:57,620 --> 01:21:00,344
I don't see the issue
with you being alone with me.

1169
01:21:03,620 --> 01:21:05,034
- Do you understand?
No. You know what?

1170
01:21:05,034 --> 01:21:06,413
- No. I don't want to
argue, okay?
- No. No.

1171
01:21:06,413 --> 01:21:07,896
- No, I will not argue.
- Shh. Shut up there.

1172
01:21:07,896 --> 01:21:10,000
I'm trying to be nice to you.

1173
01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:12,172
Since you might think that
maybe I'm such an animal,

1174
01:21:12,172 --> 01:21:13,379
- I might jump on you...
- No.

1175
01:21:13,379 --> 01:21:15,965
- ...I want to promise on your
entire life...
- No.

1176
01:21:15,965 --> 01:21:17,862
...that the entire trip
I'm here,

1177
01:21:17,862 --> 01:21:20,758
I'm not gonna touch you
in any sexual way.

1178
01:21:20,758 --> 01:21:23,000
I just wanna hang out
with you, okay?

1179
01:21:51,862 --> 01:21:52,827
You know,

1180
01:21:52,827 --> 01:21:54,655
I love you,

1181
01:21:54,655 --> 01:21:58,137
and I would do anything
to keep you and to have you,

1182
01:21:58,793 --> 01:22:00,241
but...

1183
01:22:04,413 --> 01:22:06,068
- And you know
what the sad part is...
- We are not...

1184
01:22:06,068 --> 01:22:07,689
- We are not spiritual beings.
- ...is you care more about
what people think.

1185
01:22:07,689 --> 01:22:09,137
- No, it's not what...
- Hey, hey!

1186
01:22:10,206 --> 01:22:12,551
- You care more
about the world...
- Now, don't shout.

1187
01:22:12,551 --> 01:22:14,965
- ...and what people and your
family think...
- No.

1188
01:22:14,965 --> 01:22:16,206
...versus us.

1189
01:22:16,206 --> 01:22:17,310
Oh.

1190
01:22:17,310 --> 01:22:19,379
- It's all about believing.
Okay, okay.

1191
01:22:19,379 --> 01:22:20,310
Do you understand?

1192
01:22:20,310 --> 01:22:22,827
Well, I'm not gonna come
to your beliefs,

1193
01:22:22,827 --> 01:22:24,689
because I'm far beyond

1194
01:22:24,689 --> 01:22:26,137
your little beliefs.

1195
01:22:27,448 --> 01:22:29,517
- I am on a different
spiritual plane.
Oh.

1196
01:22:31,758 --> 01:22:33,310
And now that I know
that you see me

1197
01:22:33,310 --> 01:22:35,689
as too much of a temptation
by staying with me in the room

1198
01:22:35,689 --> 01:22:38,068
shows me that you're
just not ready for me, right?

1199
01:22:38,068 --> 01:22:39,586
Like, I know.
Like, I can sit here now...

1200
01:22:39,586 --> 01:22:41,068
and be like, "Oh,
you're my soulmate."

1201
01:22:41,068 --> 01:22:42,103
Maybe I was just...

1202
01:22:52,965 --> 01:22:55,034
Never one time
did you ever say,

1203
01:22:55,034 --> 01:22:57,034
"I'm in love with you?"

1204
01:22:57,034 --> 01:22:58,379
<i>Why do you have me here?</i>

1205
01:22:58,379 --> 01:23:00,241
<i>No, I'm just saying...</i>

1206
01:23:00,241 --> 01:23:01,413
<i>- I'm not answering to you.</i>
<i>No, I'm serious.</i>

1207
01:23:01,413 --> 01:23:02,896
<i>I wasted a lot of money,</i>

1208
01:23:02,896 --> 01:23:03,965
<i>- a lot of time...</i>
<i>I don't...</i>

1209
01:23:03,965 --> 01:23:05,758
<i>Don't say no.</i>
<i>I respect you.</i>

1210
01:23:05,758 --> 01:23:07,827
<i>I wasted
a lot of money</i>

1211
01:23:07,827 --> 01:23:09,896
<i>to come over here,
so respect me.</i>

1212
01:23:09,896 --> 01:23:11,413
<i>I... I am sorry.</i>

1213
01:23:11,413 --> 01:23:14,000
<i>No, I'm serious...</i>

1214
01:23:17,103 --> 01:23:19,034
<i>But I still love Rayne,</i>

1215
01:23:19,034 --> 01:23:21,413
and I don't want to lose her,

1216
01:23:21,413 --> 01:23:22,586
<i>but I'm worried that</i>

1217
01:23:22,586 --> 01:23:24,724
<i>if I don't go with her
to the hotel...</i>

1218
01:23:27,000 --> 01:23:29,724
So, I don't know what to do.

1219
01:23:34,689 --> 01:23:36,758
<i>Next time
on</i> Before the 90 Days...

1220
01:23:38,551 --> 01:23:41,896
<i>I'm super confident
in every aspect of my life,</i>

1221
01:23:41,896 --> 01:23:44,000
<i>but when it comes
to relationships...</i>

1222
01:23:49,517 --> 01:23:50,517
<i>I'm intrigued.</i>

1223
01:23:50,517 --> 01:23:53,965
Now, I am going to Croatia
to meet Bozo,

1224
01:23:53,965 --> 01:23:56,793
but I'm worried because
of what happened in the past.

1225
01:23:56,793 --> 01:24:01,206
Like, you don't even know
anything about this
other woman.

1226
01:24:37,482 --> 01:24:38,689
<i>I think
we're past the point</i>

1227
01:24:38,689 --> 01:24:39,758
<i>of snowballing here.</i>

1228
01:24:39,758 --> 01:24:40,862
At this point,

1229
01:24:40,862 --> 01:24:42,896
it's turning into
an avalanche.

1230
01:24:42,896 --> 01:24:45,758
Uh, Matilda,
I have a confession to make.

1231
01:24:50,655 --> 01:24:52,482
<i>He's not used to
having a woman</i>

1232
01:24:52,482 --> 01:24:54,551
call him out on his behavior.

1233
01:25:02,931 --> 01:25:04,172
No.

1234
01:25:06,896 --> 01:25:07,827
I do love you,

1235
01:25:07,827 --> 01:25:09,000
and I do care about you.

1236
01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:11,620
I want to be
in a relationship with you.

1237
01:25:12,344 --> 01:25:14,344
But...

1238
01:25:16,275 --> 01:25:18,034
Maybe like, once a week.

1239
01:25:24,551 --> 01:25:25,896
Did I not always tell you

1240
01:25:25,896 --> 01:25:28,000
that I always had a feeling
about sisters?

1241
01:25:28,000 --> 01:25:29,620
Like I said,
even if it's family,

1242
01:25:29,620 --> 01:25:31,551
you need to tell them
when they're wrong.

1243
01:25:34,137 --> 01:25:36,034
- Chidi, you better
stick up for me here.
You, you...

1244
01:25:36,034 --> 01:25:37,413
- you know something...
- You better stick up for me!

1245
01:25:37,413 --> 01:25:38,586
You can't see,

1246
01:25:38,586 --> 01:25:39,551
but I...

1247
01:25:39,551 --> 01:25:40,758
I'm done.