[narrator] Previously, on Before the 90 Days...
[Tigerlily speaking]
[Adnan chuckles]
I'm just worried about what happens
whenever you go back to the States.
That could potentially cause trust issues.
Oh...
There are some cracks in our relationship,
and it's scary thinking about facing those
thousands of miles apart.
[Sunny] Hi, honey.
[Veah speaking]
It's really amazing to be with Sunny,
but I feel really bad and guilty
because he has no idea
I brought my ex-boyfriend to South Africa.
[Sunny] This is our bedroom.
[Veah] Oh, this is nice.
And I really want to build a relationship
before I tell him about Rory being here.
[Loren] I'm sorry I cheated on you.
I want to be in a relationship with you.
[Niles] It's going to be really hard to cancel that.
I don't know how I'm going to navigate this.
Just looking at engagement rings.
I've already proposed to Matilda over the phone,
but when I present this ring to her,
I'll tell her that we need to postpone the wedding.
I just hope she can understand that ring is a promise
for me to come back and marry her.
[in other language]
[in English] This is exactly what I've been waiting for,
but I know that being with someone in my situation
will be a total different experience for her.
[in other language]
[in English] She made it clear that she was ready to have sex,
but I didn't have a condom,
so I decided to offer oral sex.
But once I went to go kiss her stomach,
she basically, hand in the face, like, "No, stop."
For her to shut everything down,
there has to be something else going on.
The adventure begins.
I am going to Croatia to meet Bozo in real life.
Ooh! Butterflies.
I'm just going to call Bozo real quick.
[line ringing]
But I have a bad feeling
because of what happened in the past.
[line continues ringing]
He wouldn't pick up the phone,
and it came out that he was seeing someone else.
He's not picking up.
I'm getting scared.
What if I have invested all this time and energy,
and it's not going anywhere?
[in other language]
Ooh...
Ah...
Mmm-mmm.
Mmm-mmm...
[in English] The last 24 hours with Ingrid
has gone from all-time high to absolutely nothing
in a matter of moments.
After two years of talking with Ingrid,
it finally seemed real that we were taking
the relationship to the next level.
Until everything fell apart.
[in other language]
[in English] I think that
Ingrid turning me down was her out.
I think she's realizing that
she doesn't want to be intimate
with a guy with a disability.
[line ringing]
Hey, Reese.
[Brian] How are you?
Yeah?
Right now, I just need some advice,
and my sister, Reese, has been my rock my whole life.
We talk about everything.
I mean, nothing is off limits,
especially when it comes to relationships.
Man, it's hot. It's hot, hot, hot.
It's probably...
I don't know, I don't want to exaggerate,
but I'd have to say 97 every day
for the last...
every day. [laughs]
Yeah, but it's nice. I like it.
I'm having a good time.
But, yeah, things have been...
Things have been here and there, up and down,
and pretty much everywhere, right?
So we were at dinner with her friends,
but once we get back to the room,
she puts lingerie on, having a good time with it,
laughing, "How does this go?" This here and there.
Cool stuff, right? Everything good.
But I didn't have condoms.
But as soon as I went in to start at the belly button,
it was, you know, stop signs and sirens.
-"Stop." -Oh.
And that messed me up, so--
Right.
And then I tell her, "You know what?
What's wrong with you? What the hell?
I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I'm done."
You're just sending too much mixed signal.
I'm [bleep] confused.
[Brian chuckles] Yes.
[bleep]
[both chuckle]
[Brian] Yeah.
Okay, okay.
Whoosh.
I thought I was being respectful by offering that.
I thought that was a respectful move.
Oh, I never thought about that.
That's stealing home.
That's the whole God da--
Yeah, that's stealing home. You're there.
Yeah. [laughs]
-[Brian] Yeah. I got you. -[laughs]
I'm very taken aback because,
as Reese explained it to me,
oral sex can be more intimate than penetration,
for a woman.
Yeah, it took my older sister, unfortunately,
to teach me that,
but that's...
that's what sisters are for, I guess.
Uh-huh.
I do feel bad for my behavior and my reaction.
I do want to apologize to Ingrid
for everything that happened.
Yeah, I think she deserves better.
But at the same time, something's wrong.
Something's off.
I just feel like Ingrid has been standoffish
since the beginning.
So I can't get it out of my head totally
that she's not attracted to me.
And if Ingrid's not interested,
there is no reason for me to continue pursuing this.
Okay, Reese, kisses.
-I'll see you guys laters. -All right.
[Brian] Bye.
[Matilda yelping]
-[Niles] One... -[Matilda yelps]
...two...
Ooh-whee. [groans]
[Niles] ...three-- Oh.
It's our last day in Accra,
and I know for a fact that I have a lot to do today.
Whenever I'm stressed out, something that I like to do
is my morning workout routine.
Are you okay?
[chuckles]
Matilda told me that she wanted
to get a flat stomach.
She wanted to, you know, get in shape.
I can help her with that.
-[chuckles] -I'm not doing this to you.
I'm doing this for you.
Give it a few days. You'll love it.
[chuckles]
-You want to get your shower now? -Mmm-hmm.
Okay.
[Matilda] Mmm-hmm.
[Niles speaking]
Today, I'm taking Matilda to the memorial
of the first president of Ghana,
to propose.
This city is actually beautiful.
[Matilda speaking]
[Niles] I am excited to give Matilda the engagement ring.
However, before I do that,
I do have to make it clear
that the wedding will not be on this trip.
I am worried about having that confrontation because,
due to my autism, I just don't know how to be tactful.
And I'm worried that I'm going to hurt her so much.
But whether she can handle it or not,
it has to happen now.
Let's get it over with.
[Niles] Mmm-hmm.
[Matilda speaking]
[Niles] I know.
[Matilda speaking]
[Niles] First president?
[Niles] What's this?
[Matilda] This is where they buried him.
[Niles] Man.
It means a lot for Niles coming here
to learn our culture.
I love this place. It's--
That's a...
-That's an understatement. -Mmm-hmm.
I I feel like I'm in my natural environment here.
Now I am a Ghanaian man.
Mmm-hmm. Yeah, I love--
So those 20 maxims I sent you, did you ever read them?
[chuckles]
Well, go ahead.
Go ahead and read them.
Yeah, right now.
-You want to sit down first? -Mmm-hmm.
I really hope that she takes some of these lessons to heart.
She's going to need them
when I break the wedding news to her.
Okay, so maxim number one.
Never do something in anger.
Next...
"Slow is right, right is fast.
The time in which it shall happen
is always on time."
Do you understand that?
[comical music playing]
And as for number nine, "Failure is not an option.
It is mandatory and required to learn."
Number 15... Number 19.
Now, number 20 is, "Pick your battles," so to speak.
Remember--
I use these 20 maxims every day
to help me approach important situations.
And I wanted to share that knowledge with you.
[laughs]
You know why I wrote this whole entire list?
I know I sometimes have crazy opinions.
Sometimes I make crazy requests.
But that's not me saying that I hate you
or that I don't love you.
-Okay. -I still love you.
I still am going to be your husband.
And with that being said, Matilda,
I want you to know something.
[tense music playing]
I love you.
And, you know...
Maybe...
[tense music builds]
[pleasant music playing]
Will you marry me?
I know.
Okay.
And also consider this a symbol of my promise
to come back to you.
Now let's make sure it fits you.
[Matilda] Ooh!
Wow.
I love you more.
[Matilda sobs]
I love you, too.
[chuckles]
Let's finish exploring before I get overwhelmed.
[Matilda speaking]
Damn, man.
[exhales]
I got so caught up in the moment,
that, you know, I didn't break the bad...
the bad news to her.
[Matilda speaking, chuckles]
I really wish I could just be allowed
to savor this moment,
but I can't let this day go by without telling her
that we have to postpone the wedding.
Ooh!
I am most comfortable when I'm making jokes.
But the difference between me and Eddie Murphy
is that I live at my mom's place.
[in other language]
[Bozo in English]
[Veah] He was just being so sweet.
So now I just feel really bad and really guilty.
I'm feeling like today has to be the day
that I tell Sunny that Rory's here.
But Sonny just gets so jealous
and out of control of his feelings.
I just really need to get off the phone right now.
I don't want him to see me video chatting you.
Hey, babe.
-Good morning. -Good morning.
-You look cute. -Thank you so much.
You, too.
[Sunny] Look that ocean.
I know from your house from Florida
where you stay, you can't get this view.
[Veah] It's beautiful.
It's my first morning in Durban,
and waking up with Sunny this morning
is, like, literally the coolest,
but the weirdest thing.
You go from being, like,
on video chat for the past year...
Now you're, like, in person.
It's so weird, you know?
I'm glad that you are here.
I mean, I'm happy that I don't need to
call you anymore to see you
-in the morning to wake up. -Me, too.
-Mee, too. -Finally, we're here.
Last night, we didn't have any sex,
but he woke me up and he was being really cute,
like hugging me and kissing me.
I think he was trying to get some...
Little action going on.
I would say, maybe one play.
[chuckles]
[Sunny] We had such a great night.
It was really amazing cuddling with you all night.
Even though you said that
my legs were like chicken legs.
You mean, because they're, like, a little prickly.
Yes.
-Chicken legs. -[both chuckle]
But take it as a compliment, and take it as like,
your boyfriend is getting to know something new.
Last night, it was little bit awkward.
I was scared to make my move,
and then I start talking to her,
holding her hands, give her kisses.
I feel like we getting closer to each other.
And I was happy because
that makes me feel like my dream life is coming true.
The ocean's looking really pretty from here.
I wanted to take you out to the beach
and all the nice places.
Yeah, let's go.
All right, I'll get ready.
-Be safe. -Thank you.
[line ringing]
Hi, Rory.
[Veah chuckles] Yeah.
I don't have long.
Sunny just ran out to grab us some--
We left the airport,
and then I'm here in a hotel that he got for us.
He, like, made it, like, really romantic.
Put rose petals.
He was just being so sweet.
So now I just feel really bad and really guilty
for not telling him about you.
I'm just really scared to tell him
and really nervous to tell him,
because this information
is, like, too much for him to handle.
Like, because he's very, very jealous.
But I want us all to be, like, cool with each other,
and him just, like, look past
the fact that you're my ex-boyfriend.
Like I want him--
Everything's going so well.
Like, I don't know, maybe I shouldn't tell him.
Okay. I just really need to get off the phone right now.
Sunny's going to come back with our tea soon,
and I don't want him to see me video chatting you.
Okay.
I don't want to continue to keep this secret from him.
It's, like, eating me.
But Sunny just gets so jealous
and out of control of his feelings.
And honestly, I wish I'd just told Sunny sooner.
I feel like I got myself into a mess.
[Sunny] Hey, babe.
-Hi, baby. -I'm back.
I'm feeling like today has to be the day
that I tell Sunny that Rory's here.
But I'm really scared
that Sunny will never forgive me for this.
[both] Let's go.
[Veah] And this could be the end of our relationship.
[man over PA system]
Oh, my God.
I'm totally freaking out
because I'm on my way to meet the love of my life,
and I only have 10 minutes to make the connecting flight.
Excuse us.
And the connecting gates are not close to one another,
so this means I have to book it
[chuckles] from one end of the airport to the other
in five-inch heels.
"A..."
This way. This way.
To make matters worse,
I still haven't heard from Bozo.
So I'm just hoping that when I get there,
he is going to be at the airport waiting for me,
and I'm not doing all this for nothing.
Where there's a will, there's a way.
[bleep]
[panting]
No!
Oh, my God.
[woman speaking]
Oh, my God.
[Bozo] Mine, mine, mine, mine.
Oh!
Come on.
My name is Bozo.
I'm 38 years old, and I live in Split, Croatia.
[all speaking in other language]
[in English]
[men] Oh!
All day long. I like that. [chuckles]
If you're short, you got to be fast,
strong, versatile.
[men laughing]
I'm not all of that...
[in other language]
[Bozo in English]
[in other language]
[Bozo in English] I know a lot of people in town.
Sometimes I feel like I'm a stray dog.
When they see me in the street, they pet me.
They give me a cookie,
and they like me and I like them.
[in other language]
[both laugh]
[in English] Outside of being a funny guy,
people say I have big heart
and I'm hopelessly romantic.
I want relationship with my soulmate.
That's the thing that everybody should aim for.
[in other language]
[in English]
There was a girl.
I never took her on any trip.
I never took her special occasions.
So she left me and broke my heart.
But it was my fault.
We were together for six years,
and since then, I didn't have serious relationship.
But eight months ago,
I was swiping, swiping, swiping,
and then I met Vanja.
♪♪ I'm losing my mind Staring at your body ♪
[Bozo] Vanja from Orlando.
Her photos were so versatile.
Every single photo has a story.
The beach, dancing, smiling.
Her photos are shaking from the energy,
when you look at it, like...
♪♪ Yeah, yeah Can I have your body ♪
[Bozo speaking]
And then, when we started to text,
I was like, "Wow,
there is bigger ocean of beautiful things about that lady."
[joyful music playing]
I was excited, like, "I'm gonna meet her, that's great."
But unfortunately...
Almost a romantic movie, and it became sad drama.
[chuckles]
It was really nice,
even when we froze our, um, textings and connection
for some time.
It was, like, always nice, smooth.
Uh, because I was trying to get back with my ex-girlfriend.
We were giving each other another chance.
It didn't happen, but it's for the best.
-Aha! -[vendor in Croatian]
[Bozo mumbles]
[Bozo speaking]
[both laughing]
[amusing music playing]
[in English] I am most comfortable when I'm making jokes,
but the difference between
me and Chevy Chase, Steve Martin, Martin Short, Eddie Murphy, Martin Lawrence,
is that I live at my mom's place.
[laughing]
[in Croatian]
[Bozo in English]
"She did this. She did that. Her husband this, her husband that..."
[laughing] It's great, actually.
But not married, not having kids...
[Mom in Croatian]
[Bozo in English] They pray everywhere.
In the kitchen, the bedroom, while sleeping, while walking dog.
They are definitely praying for me to find wife and to move out. [chuckles]
[quirky music playing]
[Mom in Croatian]
-[Bozo laughs] -[Mom speaking]
[Bozo in English] It is hard for my mom that I am alone.
She wants somebody in my life that will fulfill me.
And Vanja... She has all the qualities that is really, really nice.
So probably my mom would be thrilled about Vanja.
[inhales deeply] Uh... [chuckles]
Uh, I will try to explain.
Yeah. [chuckles] It's gonna be interesting.
[Faith in Filipino]
[in English]
I know she's still upset with me.
Gonna be on this plane for about an hour.
I'm going because I love my beautiful best friend, Faith.
-Yeah. -[chuckles]
But it is frustrating because at the end of the day,
the one thing we don't have is time.
[tense music playing]
I'm happy, too.
No, never.
[powerful music playing]
I'm packing up to go to Leyte.
It's an island in the Philippines.
It's where Faith's family lives.
It's gonna be a great time.
Now that we're talking.
Two days ago, I told her I had gonorrhea,
and that's how she realized I was sleeping with other people.
Didn't go over very well.
So now that I've been reset to friend versus boyfriend, um...
it's a step backward,
but I still got the ring, still got the dream
and hopefully, just a matter of time
before I go back in the boyfriend zone
so that I can find out if me and Faith
are really gonna be together forever.
You want red taxi today?
-Yeah. -Yeah?
[Faith in Filipino]
[in English]
Yeah, that's how I like it.
[Loren] Yeah, me and you play on the beach?
-I'm happy to be alone. -Uh-huh.
I mean, I don't think gonorrhea gonna spread on the beach.
[both chuckling]
-No, it's not leaking anymore. -Okay.
I take the pills, it's no leaking. It's good to go.
-Oh, yeah... -No more sludge.
[intriguing music playing]
I think we're here.
[Faith speaking]
-Yeah? -Ah...
I'm so very excited to see my family again.
I'm going because I love my beautiful best friend, Faith.
-Yeah. -[chuckles]
Right, for right now.
[calming music playing]
[Faith speaking]
[Loren speaking]
-Yeah? -Yeah.
Let's go.
[Loren] I can't wait to say hello to Baybay.
-Yes, the city of beauty and... -...beauty and serenity.
Serenity.
[Faith speaking]
Yeah, this looks like home to me.
'Cause I spent my whole life in the country.
And then Las Vegas is desert. Nothing like this.
-Desert? -Las Vegas. Yeah, desert.
Nine months?
-Ah? Almost nine months? -Yeah.
[laughing] Vegas makes people crazy.
I mean...
-Well, I'm done sleeping with people, right? Yeah. -Yes.
[laughing] I mean...
[Loren chuckles]
-No, I'm usually bottom. -Huh?
I don't... Bottom.
My penis, I don't use it, like, in the bedroom.
[amusing music playing]
-Really? -Yeah.
[laughing]
You're bottom, I'm bottom.
-We're... -No. Please stop.
[both laughing]
[Faith speaking]
[in Filipino]
[In English]
[laughing]
If that's what you like, I can be top.
I can do both.
I don't know.
I know. Not right now, but...
-We'll see, we'll see... -[chuckles]
[Loren] I prefer being bottom.
But when it comes to, like, sex acts,
pretty much I will do anything for her.
I'm just happy to see her relaxed and having fun.
I feel like our relationship has a chance.
[Faith] Over here.
[in Filipino]
[Faith in English] Loren and I will be staying in a hotel in Leyte
because my family's home doesn't have room for us.
[Loren] Hello.
[in Filipino]
-[in English] I have a reservation, ma'am. -Ah, okay.
-Loren and Faith. -[woman] Okay.
So this is your keycard, sir Loren.
[Loren] We have two rooms or one room?
[Faith] We have one room.
Because before I, uh... I booked this hotel,
-I thought that it would be... -Yeah.
...together in one room.
-So...do you have a extra room available tonight? -Uh...
-Okay, ma'am, uh, let me check it for you. -[Faith] Okay.
...calendar.
Uh, yes, ma'am. We have available room for you.
-Yeah. -[Loren] Yeah, that's fine.
Here's your keycard, ma'am.
-You're in the room 8124. -Okay.
-Thank you. -Okay.
-So this is your key. So let's go. -[Loren] Okay.
[tense music playing]
It is frustrating that even though I don't have a lot of money,
and I did pay for this trip to Leyte,
and now, she's booking two rooms...
But I know she's still upset with me,
and sleeping in separate rooms is how she's showing it.
Oh, you have a big room.
-You won't even know I'm here. -Yeah.
Yeah, I know.
-Good night. -Good night.
But at the end of the day,
sleeping in separate rooms slows down the relationship process,
the partner building process.
And the one thing we don't have is time.
[Sunny speaking]
[Veah] I'm not.
-[Sunny speaking] -[Veah] Sunny.
[Sunny speaking]
-[Veah] Sunny, stop, stop. -[Sunny] You...
-[Veah] I want you. -[Sunny speaking]
[upbeat music playing]
Oh, it is windy.
-Yeah, it is. -Oh, wow, it's really pretty out here.
Look at the palm trees.
-This is our ride? -[Sunny] Yeah.
-Are you fine? -Yep.
-This is beautiful over here. -Yeah.
I see a coconut.
-[chuckling] -Sunny, please.
I really want a coconut.
I wish I could do that. [laughing]
[Sunny speaking]
Come, hold my hand.
[chuckles] I've been waiting for that.
I'm just nervous to ask you that.
-If you can hold my hand? -Mmm-hmm.
-[horn honks] -[Veah] That's cute.
[Sunny speaking]
Let's go.
-This nice? -[Veah] This is really pretty. I love this.
[Sunny] There's the ocean.
You see all the ships that get inside from here.
[Veah] Oh, yeah.
Are you ready for something, baby?
Yeah, where are you taking me?
There's a small surprise for you.
It's, like, little bit like a Titanic moment.
-[giggles] -But we are not dying.
[Veah] This is, like, just cute. I love this.
-[Sunny] Hello. -[boatman] Hi. How are you guys?
Don't be scared. I'm here.
[grunting] Oh, my God.
[romantic music playing]
This is really cute.
I know it is cute.
-This is really pretty. -Yeah.
Really romantic.
It is super romantic.
-Can I get a hug? -Mmm-hmm.
Thank you so much.
-I'm really happy that you're here finally. -I'm happy, too.
[Sunny] In Internet, I was feeling so comfortable.
But being with you in real life, it's totally different.
I know. It is kind of different, huh?
[Veah] Mmm-hmm.
-You happy? -Yeah.
-I'm glad. -[giggling]
Baby, there's a bridge coming.
I think we have a good opportunity to do something.
Do what?
Um, close your eyes. [giggles]
There, I closed my eyes so I didn't make you nervous. [laughing]
-Here, I'll give you another kiss. -Okay.
[Sunny speaking, laughing]
Thank you.
I'm never gonna forget about this moment.
This is an amazing moment that we are creating together.
I really do appreciate you for everything you're doing.
You're coming here, spending time with me.
Is there anything that could ever change how you feel about me?
No, never.
There's nothing.
There's nothing gonna change.
-Unless you wanted to change something. -Okay.
No. This is really cute.
I want to come clean about the Rory situation.
I know that that's the right thing to do in my heart.
But a part of me doesn't want to tell him,
and I just want to keep going on
and living in, like, this happy paradise that we're in right now.
I'm glad you like it.
Yeah, it was really fun. I love stuff like this.
[tense music playing]
[Sunny] Oh, no, no, no.
-[Veah] I'm not. -[Sunny speaking]
-[Veah] Sunny. -[Sunny speaking]
-[Veah] Sunny, stop! -[Sunny speaking]
-[Veah] Come back. -[Sunny speaking]
-[Veah] Stop! Stop. -[Sunny speaking]
-[Veah] I want to talk to you. -[Sunny] I don't want to talk about it.
[Veah speaking]
What type of support? What the [bleep] support you talking about?
Because I didn't feel comfortable flying on the airplane alone
-because I never been out of my country. -So, did you tell me?
Did you tell me?
No, I didn't tell you because you were gonna flip the [bleep] out.
[bleep], you are [bleep] crazy because
you're bringing your ex to see your new boyfriend.
-And, huh? -I was going to tell you. I was.
When? When I find it out, then you gonna tell me?
-No, I was going... Going to tell you tonight. -"Tonight"?
I was trying to find the right time to tell you, I was.
-[Sunny] Oh. -[Veah] Me and Rory are just friends.
We don't talk to each other in any weird way. Nothing.
I saw the pictures with you.
[Sunny breathes deeply]
[poignant music playing]
[Sunny speaking]
-You bringing your ex... -[Veah] I didn't say you were dumb.
You make me to feel like I'm a dumb right now.
-You have the ex-boyfriend-- -I don't wanna be with him.
-So why the [bleep]-- -If I wanted to be with him,
then I would have been with him.
-So... -I would not come all this way--
We both live in the US.
-I could have been with him if I wanted. -Okay, so--
I don't want to be with him.
-I came all the way to your country... -Okay, okay.
-...your city to be with you. -Okay.
I haven't even been talking to him very much since we've been here.
No, no, no. This [bleep], I'm not playing with you. Go back home.
-Just, I'm done with you. -[Veah] I don't want to lose you.
-[crying] I want you. -[Sunny speaking]
[Veah sniffling]
[charming music playing]
-Babe. -Yes, honey?
Okay. Thank you.
Yeah.
All right, I'm gonna go check on Shay,
make sure she's all packed up so we can be at the lobby.
-Okay. -[Cruz] All right, 'cause I'm good.
-Come on, baby. -Mmm.
[sighs] Okay.
[objects clatter]
I don't wanna go.
I knew that I would be emotional leaving,
but I didn't know, like, the extent of it.
[somber music playing]
I'm happy to go see my children.
I haven't seen them in a week.
But it's so difficult to say goodbye to Adnan
because we've gotten closer and you know, I'm his wife now.
[Tigerlily sniffling] Okay.
I want all those things, too, honey,
but, like, talking about it just makes it sad
because I'm leaving now. [crying]
[sniffles]
[Tigerlily groans, sighs]
-It's okay, baby. Let's go. -Mmm.
I just don't know, like, when.
[sniffles] And that's the part that makes it so hard, baby.
-I feel like my heart is in, like, two pieces. -It's okay, it's okay.
-No, no, babe. -It's like one is in the US.
[crying] And the other one is with you here.
[somber music playing]
[Adnan speaking]
I love you.
[Adnan speaking]
Tigerlily will apply to my spousal visa. But...
[Tigerlily speaking]
[Adnan speaking]
[in Arabic]
-[in English] -[Tigerlily] Good morning, Thaer.
[Thaer in Arabic, in English]
Oh! [grunts] Oh, my God, this is heavy.
[upbeat music playing]
I don't know if I'm ready to go back yet.
I still feel like I need to see a lot more.
What was your favorite part of your trip, Tigerlily?
[Tigerlily speaking]
[Shay] It was pretty cool seeing you guys meet.
Yeah, it was exciting.
And I may or may not have gotten a little teary-eyed.
Don't be sad. There'll be, uh, more times.
[Shay] Definitely.
-You guys got the whole future to look forward to. -Yes.
[Tigerlily] On this trip, there has been some issues between us.
And I'm worried. Being so far apart, they'll become bigger issues.
But then last night, I saw Adnan get teary
and that really showed me how much I mean to him.
And it was important for me to see that.
It made me hopeful that what we have
is strong enough to get through anything.
[Shay] Good job.
That's professional parking right there.
[car door opens]
[emotional music playing]
-[speaks indistinctly] -Say your goodbyes.
I'll start...
[Shay] All right...
Of course.
-[Shay] Okay. -Goodbye, Thaer.
[Thaer] Goodbye.
-It was so nice meeting you. -Goodbye, yeah. Yeah, I'm too.
[Tigerlily crying]
["I Don't Wanna Let You Go" playing]
Go and...
I love you so much.
I can't, baby, I can't.
♪♪ I just want to let you know ♪
♪♪ I don't wanna let you go ♪
I'm just so heartbroken that we're having to say goodbye to each other.
We don't know when we're going to see each other again.
And... And that part is just really scary.
[crying] I don't wanna go at all.
We are gonna be starting a family.
We're going to have a life in the US.
But without a visa, everything just stops,
and it's just painful.
[Adnan clears throat]
I will come soon, I promise.
♪♪ I don't wanna say goodbye ♪
♪♪ You don't wanna see me cry ♪
[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily crying]
♪♪ What I put you through ♪
[Tigerlily] Okay.
♪♪ I don't wanna let you go ♪
♪♪ No ♪
♪♪ I don't wanna let you go ♪
[in Brazilian Portuguese]
[cheerful music playing]
[sighs, grunts]
[Brian] It's been two days since me and Ingrid had an argument
and I'd stormed out of the hotel room.
[sighs]
After talking with my sister Reese,
I definitely have more insight into where things have... Are going wrong for me.
I was hurt and confused on why Ingrid didn't want to be intimate.
It just felt like I was rejected.
And so I pouted and ran out of the room.
And... it's not fair. It's not... It's not nice.
[both in Portuguese]
[Brian in English] I mean, I definitely need to talk to her and apologize,
but also get clarity.
Even though I didn't handle the situation very well,
I still can't help but to think
that Ingrid is just not into me.
Maybe it's because of my disability. I don't know.
But I can't continue chasing this relationship
if she's not willing to be intimate with me.
[both conversing in Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking]
[in English] It's very confusing for me. It's difficult.
[in Portuguese]
[Ingrid] Uh...
-[Ingrid speaking] -[in English] Okay.
[both continue in Portuguese]
[sighs softly]
[voice shaking]
[in English] Roller-coaster ride.
[in Portuguese]
Um...
[in English] They have sharks.
[in Portuguese]
-[in English] Let's go! -Let's go, baby, please.
[chuckling]
[Brian in English] I'm feeling positive that me and Ingrid have cleared the air.
She's special to me and... and this is worth saving,
and... and we need to communicate better.
And if we can get that under control,
I think things will start to look up for us.
I'm hoping that a change of scenery...
gives us that spark that we need
because I would like to leave Brazil
knowing that we have plans for our future, something serious,
something that we can build on.
-[Ingrid chuckles] -[in Portuguese]
[in English] Let's go.
[in Portuguese]
Me, I'm 51 years old.
I'm ready. I'm ready for my happily ever after.
And I hope this is it.
[Ingrid in Portuguese]
[Brian in Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking]
-[Brian speaking] -[Ingrid chuckles]
[Loren speaking]
Would you want that?
[Faith speaking]
[Niles] Um...
I'll need to talk to you about the actual wedding.
[exhales]
Before tonight ends, I must tell Matilda the truth.
[knock on door]
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] I'm ready...
[Loren] What do you mean what am I doing?
Making the bed.
You said actions speak louder than words,
so making a bed, that's a first step.
-Right? It's something nice. -Yeah.
[both chuckling]
[Loren] It's my first morning in Leyte.
Even though me and Faith are getting along better,
I am worried.
[Loren] I know she's still upset with me.
So, I need to make every second count while I'm in Leyte.
And I can prove to Faith that...
I can be the man she wants me to be.
[Loren] Yeah! It's amazing.
[Loren] A razor?
Not right now. No.
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] Yeah.
Yeah, it's cute.
Beard, mustache.
A little scruff.
Yeah.
Whether or not a transwoman is taking hormones or not,
I can't always tell.
I definitely don't ask.
But I prefer my sex partners have female penises,
which only can happen when you take hormones.
So if Faith's penis hasn't transitioned into a female penis,
it will affect the physical aspect of the relationship.
But if she's willing to take hormones,
then we can fix that really quick.
But, I mean, out of all the things to worry about,
that's not something I really care about at this moment.
It's good.
Why you don't just work at a resort here?
Yeah.
[Loren] Yeah.
Yeah.
[Loren] Yeah.
How much would the house cost, that you're talking about?
Like, the average little house?
Like, 100,000 pesos?
'Cause I've looked it up.
What do you mean? In case I move here...
for you.
I don't care.
Wherever you are.
Would you want that?
Right? Get some money,
buy your family a house,
-live in Leyte? -Mmm-hmm.
With your family?
-Mmm-hmm. -Yeah.
Faith's hopes and her dreams,
they're all fairly achievable.
I know by American standards, I don't have any money.
But I put a lot of thought into this.
If I work my butt off and try really hard,
I could eventually save up the 2,000-plus dollars
to help Faith and her family buy a house.
And so, even though I'm just in the friend zone...
I love her. And if we become a family,
then her problems are my problems.
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] Very excited.
You picked out the boat.
You picked out the island.
I love it.
[Faith speaking]
[in foreign language]
[in English] Do you wanna go on the front and do it?
-No. -We can do it. Why? It's okay.
So? [chuckles]
Can I kiss you on the cheek?
Kissing, but not on the lips. Yeah?
Like, here or there.
On your ear, on your neck.
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] Uh-huh.
[Faith speaking]
I'm nervous about letting my mom know about Vanja
because she will pressure me to tell her things
that I'm not ready to deal with.
[Veah] Why can't I just be friends with him?
-That's the question! -I didn't want it to ruin our time.
I feel like all my fears are coming true.
Just... I feel like I messed everything up.
Sunny, please talk to me.
No. I'm not doing anything.
I can't trust her,
so how can I be with her?
[Andjelka speaking in foreign language]
[laughs]
[Andjelka speaking]
[in English]
But I really need to tell that to my mom today
because Vanja, she's arriving tomorrow,
so I'm... [chuckles] seeking for the best moment.
I can envision future with Vanja,
and, of course, I wanna share excitement with my mom,
but it's a lot of pressure...
because she will be super excited about it.
She will plan the wedding.
I don't want my mom get hopes up and it's all for nothing.
And we have...
special connection over the Internet,
and, uh, I wanna, uh,
see her in person so much.
[in foreign language]
[Bozo speaking]
[Andjelka speaking]
[Bozo speaking]
[Andjelka speaking]
[in English] In my life, I made money playing basketball.
It is not too much.
But after some time,
I was, uh, replaced
by other better, taller players.
[in foreign language]
[Bozo speaking in English]
[Sunny] No, no, no. This [bleep] time, I'm not playing with you.
Go back home.
Just... I'm done with you.
[Veah] I don't wanna lose you.
-I want you. -[Sunny] [bleep] yourself.
I don't need you.
[Sunny] I can't deal with this. Let me drop you
because I'm not gonna leave you here.
I'm not ass [bleep] like you.
-[Veah] I'm not going home. -[Sunny] Okay. It's up to you.
I came all the way to South Africa to see you. I'm not [bleep] leaving.
[Sunny] I'll... I'll do for you whatever you need.
Just... I don't need you.
[Veah] Today was such a great day with Sunny,
and I was building up the confidence
and the nerve to tell him about Rory being here.
But then we were just sitting on the stairs.
I'm on my phone. I'm texting.
And Sunny is, like, questioning me
about who I'm texting.
And then Sunny ends up just snatching my phone up
out of my freaking hands,
and seeing a picture of me and Rory on the airplane
coming to South Africa.
And I just never wanted him to find out like this.
He's just so angry that he won't even talk to me.
And I feel like all my fears are coming true.
This is just a disaster.
[Sunny speaking]
Sunny, I only brought my ex-boyfriend, so...
-he could fly with me. -[Sunny] Okay.
And I wasn't gonna go,
-like, hang out with him alone together. -Mmm-hmm.
We can still have good memories.
-We can still have a good time. -No, wait...
But there's no feelings there.
That's what I want you to understand.
We don't have feelings for each other, Sunny.
Sunny... we don't--
Then why can't I just be friends with him?
[Veah] I didn't find the perfect moment.
I didn't want it to ruin our time,
and then that's the truth.
[Sunny speaking]
Yes, I do!
[Veah] No, I'm not, Sunny. I'm--
You see...
[exhales] Such bull [bleep]
This is horrible what she did.
How could you bring your ex-boyfriend here with you?
That makes me to ask a lot of questions to myself,
like, what type of game she's playing
because how could she even hide Rory?
How did she manage to do everything?
That makes me feel like she can do more horrible things.
I can't trust her.
And this makes me to wonder what I'm doing with this woman.
I wanna go home.
[Veah] Sunny, do you wanna talk to me?
There's nothing we can talk about.
You already messed up everything in the first place.
You're lying, and you don't accept that you're lying.
And you don't wanna apologize.
And that makes me to not trust you more.
[Veah] I understand and accept what the [bleep] I did.
-[scoffs] -[Veah] But--
I'm putting pajamas on.
Yeah, I wanna fight for this relationship.
That's what I came here for. And I want to fix this.
But I feel like he can't understand me.
And I don't know how to prove to him...
that I was going to tell him.
-[Sunny] I'm done for today. -[Veah] Come out the bathroom and shut the door.
No. I'm not doing anything.
How do I tell Sunny, at this point...
that I wasn't just trying to lie to him,
that I was going to tell him...
that I brought Rory?
There's no way. He just doesn't believe me.
Like, I feel like he wants nothing to do with me.
I don't know what to say. I just...
I feel like I messed everything up.
Bye-bye. Have fun
[sighs]
I don't find any reason to be here anymore
because there's nothing left for me.
I'm gonna go home.
Whenever we had a fight,
I've been patient,
I tried to understand.
Right now, I lose my patience of everything.
She knows how much I'm trying to win her heart.
And she didn't even feel that this guy is trying, doing everything.
"How could I keep a secret like that?"
[texting]
[engine starts]
[Sunny speaking]
I want to give you the best that I possibly can,
and getting married on this trip...
I can't... I can't exactly do that.
[Matilda speaking]
Hmm. [chuckles]
[Niles] Aw.
-[Matilda speaking] -[server speaking]
[Niles] Matilda has been asking to go to the club,
and this has just never been the setting
that I've enjoyed,
because it's too much noise and stimulation to handle
with my autism.
[Matilda speaking]
I'm okay now.
Surprisingly, this place isn't that bad.
There's not too many people, so it's not too loud,
especially since I have my earbuds with me.
The noise-cancelation earplugs,
it's like I put a shield up between all of the stimulation
that's coming down on my skull,
enough so that I can work through it.
And that's really important because I need to focus right now,
especially since I'm already stressed out
because before tonight ends, I must tell Matilda the truth,
that we have to postpone the wedding.
[exhales]
[Matilda speaking]
You want me to surprise you again?
[chuckling]
So far, my surprises
-have been pretty good, haven't they? -Mmm-hmm.
Niles proposed to me,
so today I'm very happy.
In Ghana, we don't have this type of proposal.
-[Matilda] Mmm-hmm. -Yes.
It--
[Matilda and Florence chuckle]
[Niles] Two of those, please.
[Matilda] Okay. Thank you.
-Well, I love that they got a sense of humor over here. -[chuckles softly]
So...
-today was a doozy, wasn't it? -Mmm-hmm. [chuckles softly]
I... I was too.
-[Niles] I know. -Mmm-hmm.
[exhales]
Um, I'm okay.
I'm okay.
But I'll need to talk to you about the actual wedding.
Um...
I don't think we can necessarily do it on this trip.
Because I want to give you
the best that I possibly can and...
there's just not enough time for getting to know you.
So getting married on this trip,
I can't... I can't exactly do that.
Maybe I... Maybe I wasn't clear,
and I'm sorry, but I told you--
I want you to show them that... that ring.
That's my... That's my commitment to getting...
to getting married to you.
A... a little bit later. It won't be too far...
too much far... farther out.
[man] Next time on Before 90 Days...
So disappointed.
I'm on my way to see Bozo,
but at this point I'm worried.
It's been an entire day, and since I've heard anything.
He didn't message me while I was flying.
What if he changed his mind about us?
So, you're really okay with me meeting your family tomorrow?
But I am very nervous.
[Loren] Faith's family's opinion of me
is a huge factor in whether or not
me and Faith move forward in this relationship.
Do you think you're going to tell them what I did?
It's just... that's gonna be a whole thing.
It's not just, like, not shaking someone's hand
or not wearing some revealing top.
It's a lot.
Over the last two months,
Adnan became more controlling.
We just keep running into issue after issue.
I was upset, so I didn't take his calls
and it literally, like, sent him into the hospital.
[Niles] I told you that I couldn't get married on this trip.
[Matilda] When?
So many times.
You didn't tell me that. Stop that. Stop lying.
Me and you knew that, when you come to Ghana,
we will get married.
I said we will... We will get... I...
We will plan that.
Stop.
How can you say that to me?
[both in Portuguese]
[Brian in English] Before we leave Gurupi,
I asked Ingrid if she could arrange something
with her parents, so we could finally meet.
[in Portuguese]
[chuckles]
[Rayne] I only wish we never have fought,
and I could have still been with Chidi.
[Chidi] I don't think it's a matter of if I want her back
because that's my utmost desire.
Oh.
[voice shaking] I'm... I'm sorry. I...