[Veah] Previously on Before the 90 Days...
[Adnan speaking]
How would you feel
if I just got out of the shower,
and I take a photo of me without a shirt on?
So, why is it okay for you and not okay for me?
[Tigerlily] I didn't even bring up all the other issues,
like the chiropractor.
But I'm glad he's apologizing.
[Tigerlily speaking]
There's just... there's just a lot of variables
going on right now. I don't know if I... if I...
Okay, I'd wanna do the knocking on this trip.
Because that's my promise that I will indeed come back
and... and finish the entire ceremony.
[exhales deeply]
[Matilda] I know my family says they are okay with this.
-[Niles in other language] -[both laugh]
[in English]
Yesterday, you truly hurt me.
I don't understand your relationship with Rory.
[Veah] There is no romantic feelings.
He's just been there through a lot.
And...
me and Rory had a baby that passed away.
[sniffles]
[Sunny speaking]
[sniffles]
[Sunny speaking]
[Rayne] You're so scared to come near me.
And you wanna call that love?
Bull [bleep]! You're the one wanting the visa.
You're the one wanting this and that, okay?
[Rayne] Wow!
If I'm a little too much for Chidi,
I will withdraw myself out of your life.
I... I have no issue with that.
[voice shaking] You know...
it's heartbreaking to see someone that stood for you so strong
tear you down to the degree that he did.
[upbeat music playing]
[Adnan] Oh.
Perfect.
I'm so happy to be here with you, honey.
I always love your surprises.
-[Adnan speaking] -[chuckles] Yeah.
I arrived in Istanbul last night
to spend a week in Turkiye with Adnan.
Last time we are in Jordan,
we don't have a lot of time together.
[Tigerlily] We still have a lot to figure out
as husband and wife.
So, this trip is for getting to know each other,
working on our issues,
and spending quality time together.
Uh-huh.
Well, my main thing is the baby.
[both chuckle]
[Tigerlily] And I'm happy that we, like, talked last night
and made everything good.
Yeah.
In America, we have the same "happy wife, happy life."
[chuckles]
[laughs]
-[chuckles] -I know.
This trip started out with a fight
because of Adnan's rules and double standards.
But last night, Adnan apologized.
And now I just want to have fun with my husband
because I'm only here for a week.
[Adnan speaking]
I know, baby.
I am hoping.
I mean, we definitely tried.
A lot.
[chuckles]
Where are we going, baby?
[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily] Oh, my God, it's huge.
-[Tigerlily] Oh, candy! -[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily] No.
[Adnan speaking]
-Which one? -[Tigerlily] To the right.
Yeah, that one.
[shopkeeper speaking]
-Thirteen? -Yeah.
No, no. 300, no way.
-[shopkeeper] Okay. -[Adnan speaking]
It's good, 1,000?
-Cash. -[shopkeeper speaking]
[Tigerlily] Okay.
Let's see, what else?
[meows]
[Tigerlily] Ow, my feet hurt.
-Should we look at some shoes? -[Adnan] Yeah?
-[Tigerlily] Yeah, this one's not so comfy, yeah. -[Adnan] We change?
The Grand Bazaar has anything and everything
that you can imagine.
Oh, wait. It's downhill.
But it's the exact wrong place to wear stiletto heels.
[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily] Oh, my God.
Okay.
I mean, who wears gym shoes?
It's not a gym.
[chuckles]
Oh, my gosh. [exclaiming]
[Adnan] That's it.
[Tigerlily] Okay.
[Adnan] Yeah?
What about in here?
[Adnan] What about here?
[Tigerlily] Do you wanna look inside?
[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily] Hmm, that backpack is cute,
but the black one.
-[Adnan speaking] -[Tigerlily] Yeah, that one's cute.
-[Adnan] Do you like it? -[Tigerlily] Yeah.
But I need to take my coat off.
It's so hot.
[Tigerlily] Baby, I'm really hot.
-[Adnan speaking] -[Tigerlily] Yeah.
[Adnan in other language]
[shopkeeper in other language]
-Thank you. -[shopkeeper in English] See you, bye-bye.
[Tigerlily] Baby, I'm hot.
Okay. And me, too. Look, me, too.
What is it about this outfit
that I can't take my jacket off?
[Adnan speaking]
Like, what kind of place makes it okay?
Okay, but, like, now, in addition to finding shoes,
-I need to find a lighter something... -Okay, okay.
-...because I'm dying, but my feet are hurting... -[Adnan] Okay.
-...so now I don't know which one to get first. -[Adnan] Okay.
[Tigerlily] I'm hot and sweaty.
I feel like I'm about to pass out.
And now Adnan is telling me that I can't take my coat off.
-Do you like this one? -[Tigerlily] No.
-[Adnan] Thank you. -[shopkeeper] You're welcome, sir.
[Tigerlily speaking]
It's frustrating that Adnan keeps prioritizing
his rules over me and my well-being.
It...
it doesn't feel good.
My feet are gonna fall off.
And I'm gonna die of a heat stroke.
[Adnan speaking]
[singer vocalizing]
[indistinct conversation]
[singer vocalizing]
[Rayne speaking]
The last few days with Chidi have been a complete nightmare.
At this point, it doesn't make sense
for me to stay here any longer.
After the conversation at the beach,
I realized that him and I are not gonna get anywhere,
and we're just circling around.
So, we broke up.
It broke my heart, it hurts me to death,
but you can't be that stupid.
Like, it's all been in front of your face.
Like, you led me on for so long.
It doesn't even make sense.
I never felt before, like, he was using me.
It's only this visit
that I realized it must be a visa thing.
'Cause why aren't you coming at me in a loving way, you know?
Show me you really love me.
[sniffles]
I feel misled and angry that I've been
putting up with his games for so long.
I'm flying out tonight.
I moved it earlier, sooner.
'Cause it's just, to me, it's just dragging the pain further
when I'm already letting go, you know?
I haven't seen Chidi since yesterday at the beach,
but I texted him to tell him that I'm leaving.
And now, all of a sudden, he wanted to come see me,
so he's on his way to the hotel right now.
I'm not sure I have it in me to wanna see him again.
It's like, "What more can I possibly say?"
But at the same time, I'm hoping for closure.
I deserve that, you know.
-[Victoria speaking] -[Chidi speaking]
[Victoria speaking]
-[Chidi speaking] -[Victoria] Yeah.
[Chidi speaking]
[Victoria] Be careful, yeah.
Okay?
[Chidi speaking]
[Victoria speaking]
[Chidi] Okay.
[Victoria speaking]
I'll give you space to do this, okay?
So, I'll be outside.
[Chidi speaking]
Okay.
[Chidi speaking]
[Victoria speaking]
[automated voice] P-L-S. A-M.
Space bar. D-O-O-W-N.
Space bar. S...
R-R-S.
Sent.
[cell phone chimes]
[Chidi] But I feel deeply nervous.
And, um, I don't wanna make her get upset.
-[Rayne] Chidi. -Yeah, babe. [chuckles]
-What's up? -Now you show up.
[Rayne] Good.
Ah. Thank you.
So, what's up?
What you came to say now?
[chuckles] Man.
Before we proceed, um, I got some stuffs for you.
I got you a...
[Rayne] Cool.
Thank you.
And I got these, too.
A necklace.
-And some earrings. -[Rayne] Mm-hmm.
[Chidi] I hope you like them.
[Rayne] It's weird to me that we just broke up,
and now he's here with gifts.
It's just him wanting to put on a image that he's not the bad guy.
It's very manipulative.
Babe, I can't thank you enough for all the love...
-and sacrifices. -Mm-hmm.
I'll miss you.
Yeah, five and a half years. What a trip, huh?
Fly all the way overseas,
and you don't even wanna spend quality time at all.
Yeah. Um, babe, it's--
I flew a long way and sacrificed a whole lot more
than you'd ever imagine to be with you, right?
And what do you think is gonna happen now?
Why are you doing this?
Hmm?
[Chidi clears throat]
All right.
Things had gotten so bad and so messy that...
Why do you make it so messy?
-I've never done anything to you, but reach for you... -Well--
-Well, please-- -...love you, try you to-- Wait, wait, let me finish.
-No, I'm still talking. -[Rayne] No, I'd like to know.
-No, I'm still talking. -[Rayne] No. No, no. I'm still-- I would like to know.
-No, I'm still talking. -What is so bad about me
that you have to put me down the way you do
and come up with sour-ass excuses
as to why you couldn't even give me
-the freaking time of day? -[Chidi exhales]
[Rayne] You're an evil person.
Who's ready?
[all exclaiming]
-[woman] Joe, here you go. Well, you must be hungry. -Thank you.
My family view me as someone who doesn't take life too seriously.
Let's go.
But even though we've only been speaking for five months,
my girlfriend, Magda, has been extremely direct with her intentions.
[Ang] Oh, God.
The question is, does she wanna move here just to move here
or does she wanna move here for you?
[Matilda speaking]
What are the tires for?
-[Niles] Hmm. -[bleats]
[Niles] Before I got to Ghana,
I saw a little bit of the house on video chat.
[Niles] What?
Where's the running water?
This is not how human beings are supposed to live.
[Matilda speaking]
♪♪ She's a certified Peng ting ♪
♪♪ And the body goes Pop like my leng did ♪
♪♪ It's a next ting Straight to the bed ting ♪
♪♪ Got her body winding beside Where my skeng is ♪
♪♪ I'm impressed with her vibes And her entrance ♪
[Niles] Good morning, Matilda.
[Matilda] Good morning.
How are you doing?
[Matilda] I'm fine.
-How are you? -I'm good.
♪♪ This girl is magical ♪
♪♪ She's like an animal ♪
-So, babe? -Yes.
How do you feel yesterday?
I-- You know what? I was very nervous.
Felt like my stomach was tied around my neck.
[laughs]
[Niles] But...
you know, it went a lot better than I was anticipating.
Yesterday was a success.
I met Matilda's family,
and I'm so relieved
that they took my decision to delay the wedding so well.
Even though we're not getting married on this trip,
we will do the knocking ceremony,
which is the traditional way of asking
for her hand in marriage.
I'm very happy.
I'm very happy, indeed.
-And she's right, I will. -[Matilda] Mm-hmm.
[Niles] Matilda's family did make me promise
that I will come back and marry Matilda as soon as possible.
But, you know, the key word here is "possible."
Make no mistake, I'm making all the effort I can
-to get back as soon as possible. -[Matilda] Mm-hmm.
-Right. -Okay.
[singer vocalizing]
[Matilda in other language]
[in English]
[Niles] We're here?
Ah, Uncle.
[man] Yeah, you are welcome. You are welcome.
[bleats]
-Hi, everybody. -[chuckles]
[Niles] Today, Matilda wants to spend
some more time with her family
and show me around.
-[in other language] -[Abena in other language]
[laughs]
Because there really was so much going on yesterday.
And to be honest with you,
nobody actually invited me inside.
[Matilda in other language]
-[in English] -[Niles] All right.
-[Matilda speaking] -[Charlotte] Hmm?
-[Matilda in other language] -[Charlotte] Hmm.
[in English]
[Niles] Oh, okay.
-It smells good nonetheless. -[Matilda] Mm-hmm.
Okay?
-[Niles] Okay. Okay, I see. -[Matilda] Mm-hmm.
What are the tires for?
[Niles] Hmm.
[bleats]
[Matilda] Let me go and show you the rest.
-[Matilda] Ah, you see? -[Niles] I see.
Before I got to Ghana, me and--
and me and Matilda used to speak on video chat...
I kind of saw a little bit of the house,
but it hits differently when you're actually in person,
and you actually get to see the conditions of the place.
[Matilda] Let me go and show you where we take our shower.
[Niles] What?
Where's the running water?
-Does this... does this... -[Matilda] It's not coming.
I know that they don't have much money,
but this house...
this is not a house.
They have dirt floors.
Barely any furniture.
[Matilda speaking]
[Niles] I just feel bad they're living like this.
That can't be comfortable.
This is not how human beings are supposed to live.
If these walls were gray,
this would be indistinguishable from a prison cell.
I know.
Niles is being insulting.
[Niles] My, oh my!
[sighs]
Hayford...
[Hayford speaking]
-Can you help me with that? -Okay. Okay.
-[Matilda] Bye. -[Niles] I'll be back.
[Matilda] Oh, God.
[woman speaking in other language]
[Matilda speaking in foreign language]
[woman speaking]
[Matilda speaking]
[Matilda speaking in English]
[upbeat music playing]
[all speaking indistinctly]
[woman 1] Can I grab that from you?
Okay, we gotta start making the manicotti.
Yep.
Joe'll be here soon. He'll be hungry.
[woman 2] Okay, do you wanna do the board?
-The cheese is coming. -[woman 1] Grab me the cheese!
I got goat cheese, or Irish cheese...
The United Nations of cheeses.
-[woman 3 laughing] -[woman 2] I got prosciutt--
[woman 1] Where's the knife? Oh, here. I need a knife.
-[man 1] Let me get you one. -[man 2] I'll start off with some wine.
-Maybe you wanna try the homemade Sangiovese? -Let's do it.
-It's pretty good.
[woman 1] Oh, my God, this sauce...
[man 1] Ang, you look like Sophia Loren over there, turning that sauce around.
It's not easy.
[all chuckling]
-[man 2] The manicotti. -[woman 3] That smells so good.
Oh, my God. Oh, wait, I think that one's for Aunt Lisa.
-Don't hate me. -[all laughing]
-Hey! -[all] Hey!
[chuckling]
-[man 2] What's up, buddy? How are you? -What's good, man?
-Hey! -[woman 4] Joe!
Dad, happy Father's Day.
-Good to see you. -And you. Good to see you.
-Good to see you, Mom. -Joe, welcome home!
Thank you. Thank you.
Handsome Joe interview,
aka Stud-Muffin Joe,
aka Playboy Joe.
-Yes! -[producer laughing]
[chuckles]
My name is Joe. I'm 34 years old
and I live in West Palm Beach, Florida.
But I was born and raised in New Jersey.
-Joe! -[Ang] Joe!
-[woman 3] Here you go. -[Joe] Yep. Oh!
-Thank you! -[woman 3] You must be hungry.
[Joe speaking]
It always smell good in the house.
I'm just smelling now garlic and onions,
thinking about it.
So even though I've built a life in Florida,
I try to fly back as much as possible.
Joe, you gotta make the manicotti now.
-I'll put it in the thing. -Let's go!
-[Ang] You washed your hands, right? -[Joe] Uh, yeah.
[Ang] Gotta wash the hands.
[Danny] All right.
It feels great to have Joey back home.
I love having him around.
He's a good kid, fun-loving guy.
You guys ready to switch to vodka? [chuckles]
[Danny] He's had a lot of girlfriends.
Some longer than others, but, um...
he's 34 years old.
I would love for him to be married
'cause family means a lot to us.
We try to keep the traditions alive, as you can see.
That's the way we roll. [chuckles]
[woman 3] Your mom really went all out for you to come in home?
[Joe] Yeah. You know...
-Yeah. -I might lose that title.
-[chuckling] Yeah. -[both laughing]
[chuckling] Oh-oh!
[Joe] Even though I made a successful career for myself,
I feel like some of my family viewed me
as someone who doesn't take life too seriously.
I'll admit, I do go out a lot.
I like to go to bars. I like to dance.
I like to travel.
I like going out, talking to people,
spending money, meeting women.
But my priorities have shifted lately.
I got rid of all the dating apps.
And I stopped talking to anyone,
except one girl by the name of Magda.
[upbeat pop music playing]
[Joe] Five months ago,
I just happened to be video chatting with my friend,
who was in Miami.
I caught Magda in the background.
My friend, she ended up passing the phone to her
'cause she was driving, and we like,
kind of, had, like, a brief interaction.
Definitely there was an attraction,
but she told me she was just visiting,
and that she lives in Poland.
And she was on her way to an airport to go home.
So, like, I didn't think there was any chance of us meeting.
But then, like, she stayed in my head,
so I started messaging her,
which turned into, like, this every day...
talking for hours.
♪♪ My sugar honey boo ♪
♪♪ Ooh-ooh-ooh ♪
[Joe] I think she's funny, like, she's smart.
She plays volleyball.
She's, like, always doing tournaments.
I don't wanna say she's, like, perfect, but she kinda is.
She has, like, an amazing body.
Even though we're thousands of miles apart,
we talk all the time on video chat.
We do everything together,
except for pooping.
She does not wanna poop next to me.
I... poop all the time on FaceTime.
It's like my number one time to call someone... [chuckles]
'cause I'm like free. [chuckles]
So that's, like, you know, I get a lot of work done when I'm [bleep]
-Food's ready! -[all cheering]
[Joe] With having her in my life for the last five months,
we definitely have an amazing connection.
I've never really felt this way with anyone,
so pretty soon I'm gonna be flying
halfway around the world to Poland
to meet Magda for the first time.
[Danny] Joe, when do you leave?
[Joe] Next week.
-[Christine] How old is this girl? -[Tabitha] Yeah?
[Joe] Uh, 24.
Oh, [bleep] She's 23. I'm sorry.
-[Tabitha] She's 23? -Yeah.
-And I'm 34. Is that bad? -[Christine speaking]
-[chuckles] -[both] Yeah.
You said to that she's really mature, right?
-[Joe] Oh, super mature. -Yeah. Like, more mature than you.
Ah...
She's pretty, like, focused.
[Christine speaking]
-[Joe] She was, yeah. -[Lisa] Really?
-[Christine] Oh, wow. -[Joe] But, uh...
[Christine] So she doesn't have a job right now?
Correct.
[Christine] What was the reason for quitting her job?
[Joe] Uh, she wants to come here.
I mean, that's the plan.
Did you also ask her what she wants to do in the United States?
-[Joe] I did. -Okay, what did she say?
[all laughing]
[sighs]
[all laughing]
And you want him to be a father?
[all chuckling]
Magda has been extremely direct with her intentions.
She's saying she wants to come to America,
and us get married and have children very soon.
And in order for these things to happen as quick as she wants,
I would have to propose on this trip.
The idea of starting a life with her,
it is an exciting thing,
but I don't know if I'm ready for all that at this moment.
[Danny] How quick are we talking about...
popping out kids?
Um...
That's her plan.
-[Ang] Oh, God. -[Tabitha chuckling]
[Lisa] Joe, is that not a red flag?
She just wants to lock you down, Joe.
I don't know. You better rethink this.
Does she know what you do, how much you make?
Doesn't ask for money.
[Ang speaking]
Yeah, but I would like to see what the relationship is like
when she comes to America.
Now he has to work.
-She's sponging off of him. -[Lisa] And she's dependent on him.
The question is, does she wanna move here just to move here,
or does she wanna move here for you?
There's a lot of, a lot of red flags.
[Christine] She quit her job.
-She-- -She's like, fast and furious
-about wanting to have kids, which is, like, super quick. -Yeah.
-I'm not really sure what the rush is for? -[Tabitha] Yeah.
[Christine] And I think, like,
her wanting to come to America and have kids,
I wonder if that's part of the deal.
Like, maybe she feels
that she wants to have kids with him
in order to live here, kind of a thing?
I'm worried that she's using him.
[Ang] Joe, we want you to,
you know, have a wife and a child, of course,
but there's too many unknown things...
Well, that's why I wanna go there.
And see how she lives,
meet the people she lives with.
And that's when we're gonna know, after we invest the time and energy.
That's impossible,
to just be there for three weeks.
That's not enough time.
I dated your father for 11 years
-before we got married. -[Joe] How long?
-[Tabitha] Eleven? -Eleven years.
I had to make sure.
[all laughing]
Oh, man.
I'm definitely ready for the type of relationship my parents have.
Like, I want a happy marriage.
But is that even possible with someone
that I've only spoken to on the phone for five months?
At the end of the day, it's, like, scary
to only have three weeks
of getting to know her,
to make the decision.
If I do want to pursue this, if I do wanna...
have her come to America or marry her,
I do not know if three weeks
is the right amount of time
to make a decision that will affect the rest of my life.
-[Lisa] She's got a plan, Joe. -Yeah.
And your life is gonna take a drastic change.
And are you prepared for that?
[Veah] I'm so nervous to meet your friends.
I want you to be cool with them.
My friends are really worried about me dating someone
so different from my culture.
[man speaking]
[Sunny speaking]
And now I feel like, was he holding something back from me?
[upbeat music playing]
[Sunny speaking]
[Veah] So what is cricket?
[Sunny] It's, like, almost like baseball.
Yeah, I'm really excited to meet your friends.
It's kind of a big deal.
I'm really glad that Sunny has forgiven me for the Rory situation.
We have made it, and--
Oh, I'm so nervous to meet your friends,
but I'm kind of excited.
I'm a little nervous because there's still some tension between us.
But I definitely feel like this is a really good sign
that Sunny wants me to meet his friends,
and he wants to get past everything and move forward with us.
Hello.
Hey.
-Hi. -Hi, guys. I'm Veah.
-[Ali] Hello. How are you? -Hello, how are you?
Good. Nice to meet you.
My friends are from all over, but we are all Muslim.
They are really worried about me dating
someone so different from my culture.
But I'm hoping they're gonna give Veah
a chance to get to know her more better.
I've never seen it before.
[Ali speaking]
-Come on. -[chuckles]
[Sunny] Don't do that.
You're gonna hit the ball, not my ass.
So, you're gonna watch me...
Let's play, guys.
[man] Run!
-[indistinct shouting] -[man] Sunny!
[Veah] It's pretty cute to see this side of Sunny.
A man that plays sports is kind of hot. Yeah.
[chuckles]
So, you're gonna play now.
Ah! I missed it. [chuckles]
Hold the bat little bit tight,
like you're hitting someone.
-Yeah, hit it! -[Veah] Ah!
-[chuckles] I'm scared that the ball's gonna hit me. -Watch the ball first.
[Veah chuckling]
-So, you know how to play. -Am I... am I good at playing cricket?
No, but...
Trust me, you're not.
-The honesty. -Honesty? You're not.
Okay, let's do it together.
-You made it! -[both chuckling]
It's their turn.
We're gonna go that side and they're gonna hit.
[Ali speaking]
[Sunny's friends chuckle]
-[Veah] So close. -It's a wide.
[Ali speaking]
-[Veah] Hi, babe. -Hi.
-[Veah] Hi, Ali. -Nice to see you.
-You think that's weird, huh? -[chuckling] Yeah.
But I'm here now.
It's pretty cool, actually.
I love Durban.
But this place is beautiful.
I haven't met Dad yet.
To meet his parents, I might cover my tattoos
because I wanna be respectful of his parents.
Of course, I want them to like me. That's his parents.
Like, she's here now. I'm gonna try to teach her my culture.
[Ali speaking]
He never said I had to be Muslim.
I'm focusing on us right now, not the religion.
[Veah] I feel completely blindsided
by Ali telling me that I need to be Muslim to be with Sunny.
Sunny's never told me that.
But he's not disagreeing with Ali in this moment.
So now I feel like, was he holding something back from me?
If he feels like that,
that should have been something I knew a long time ago.
So that doesn't really sit well with me.
-Explain-- -[Veah] Ali, I don't really wanna be Muslim.
And I did tell him that because I know Muslim women,
they're not really allowed to leave their house.
[Ali speaking]
I'm trying.
You know, we've been fighting, so...
[Sunny] She came and...
she bring her also, ex-boyfriend here.
Um...
It just made me feel more comfortable
to not come alone.
I just brought him for support.
[Ali speaking]
[Sunny] No, I'm not ready yet, Ali.
And I have so much doubt, I do,
around that ex-boyfriend.
I was mad about everything, even now,
but I'm trying to understand
because I don't wanna ruin the time that she's here.
We're working on everything.
[Ali speaking]
[Niles] That is some incredible balance
-and, or neck strength. -[Matilda] Mmm-hmm.
[Niles] What do I say?
[Matilda in foreign language]
[in foreign language]
[in English]
-[in foreign language] -[laughing]
[continues laughing]
[upbeat music playing]
[Matilda in English]
[Niles] Um, I don't think I can carry it like that.
I have no idea how you're walking across this terrain
-with that still on your head. -Mmm-hmm.
-That hasn't even budged. -[chuckles]
[Matilda] I'm taking Niles to the market
to sell plantain with me.
[Niles] That is some incredible balance
-and, or neck strength. -[Matilda] Mmm-hmm. [chuckles softly]
In my town, we always carry the plantains in my head.
It's something that I learned when I was little.
[Niles] Don't worry. If you...
If you do need help, I'm here.
[Matilda] Okay.
-[Niles] Oh, we're here. -[Matilda pants] Uh-huh.
[Matilda yelling in foreign language]
[in English]
-[Niles] What do I say? -[chuckling]
[Matilda in foreign language]
-[repeats in foreign language] -[Matilda chuckles]
-[Matilda in English] Yes. -[both speaking foreign language]
[in English] You want me to do that?
But, shout.
-[in foreign language] -[chuckling]
[laughing]
[in English]
Nah! [chuckles] I ain't embarrassing...
-I'm not embarrassing myself one time today. -[Matilda chuckling]
Give me that bag.
Okay. Put it...
[in foreign language]
[Matilda in English]
Like, when you went to my mom's place,
you were saying that
"This house look like prison.
Is this the way you take your shower?
It's no good."
-Yeah. -It hurts me that day.
I'm sorry.
If my mom was passing by,
you could have hurt her.
And I don't want that to happen.
I'm sorry.
[Niles] I was afraid of this
all along.
I think Matilda is starting to understand
that autism affects me in a big way.
Not the least of which is my...
Me being forthcoming with the truth.
Even when I know what I'm supposed to do,
actually following through is difficult.
This is an example of how dating,
having relationships, it's not easy for me.
It... It just isn't.
That's kind of why you see me mask a lot.
You know that? Because...
if I say what... Uh, if I... If I just... If I unmask, people get offended.
But if... If I mask, people say I'm lying.
Well, when do I tell the truth?
And when do I mask?
[Matilda] If it was me, you can say the truth.
I... I won't lie and say that...
That it'll... That I'll be able to do that, like, overnight.
And I will try not to mask any more.
-And I... I don't want you to-- -But I will do best.
And I don't want you to leave me because I'm saying this.
-What? -Right? I said, "I don't want you to leave me."
I won't.
I won't. I'm glad... I'm glad you're talking to me,
telling me... Telling me what you want.
That's actually, uh, a big relief.
In the past,
people have just given up on me
when things got difficult.
They would always just expect me to...
improve on my own. Matilda's teaching me
how I should be treating her.
And that's...
I am overjoyed that she's willing to do that for me.
[car hoots distantly]
[Matilda speaking]
Right.
[Niles] Mmm-hmm. Okay.
[Matilda speaking]
-You want this to be a little bit bigger than-- -Yes.
-...this, and I... -That... That the... That the knocking,
I want it to big... To big one.
Uh, And how many people would that be?
Let me just... How... How many people am I looking at here?
Maybe like 90 people.
-Ninety? -Uh-huh. My friends, my mom's friends,
my sister's friend will be coming.
-[imperceptible] -[Niles] In such short notice? Such short notice?
-[Matilda] For the-- -So... So, I'm just a little...
I'm just gonna point out that I'm not a magical genie
that can just magic... Magic up more money, you know?
So, I'll see what we can swing,
what... What we can manage by... By Saturday.
But, again, I'm going to have to--
My God!
I didn't really budget for our ceremony this size on this trip.
I was hoping that postponing the marriage
would give me a little bit more time
to get some funds together. But...
the costs for this trip are...
Well, they're adding up.
Much more than I expected them to.
Good grief.
My financial situation
is not the best right now.
At the same time,
I've already disappointed Matilda and her family once.
[sighs] I don't know what's gonna happen if I disappoint them again.
When y'all say that y'all are a...
When you guys say that these weddings are big deals,
you are... You're not kidding, are you?
You guys aren't kidding.
[Joe] Magda is a little mad at me right now...
[Stephanie] So, she demand
-that you share your location? -She did.
That's crazy, man.
-[Rob] It shows a lack of trust, though. It's sad. -[Stephanie] A lack of trust.
-It's mental. -Joe is out of his damn mind.
[Rob] Everything is moving way too quickly
without them really even knowing each other.
[Rob speaking]
[upbeat music playing]
[Joe] I just got back from New Jersey,
and I'm leaving for Poland in a few days.
And I think it's going to be amazing.
But I am a little stressed out
with how concerned my family are
about this trip and about, you know,
how fast we're moving with everything.
[cell phone dialing]
Good morning, my friend! How are you today?
[man speaking over phone]
[Joe] Do me a favor. If you bring your check on Monday,
-then we can maybe get it done-- -[man over phone] Yeah.
...the next day or that week.
-[man speaking] -All right. Sounds good, buddy. Have a good day.
-[man] Thank you, sir. See you soon. -All right, bye.
Besides Magda, my true love is working.
I love to make money and being successful.
I love a lifestyle where I can buy what I want,
I can travel where I want.
[chuckles] I've always been a hustler, yeah.
[hammering]
Currently, I am a realtor,
focusing on more lavish and luxurious homes.
My career is blossoming,
which is a big win for myself.
And it's also a win for Magda,
being that we're talking about all these things together in life,
[cell phone ringing]
Hello?
[Magda, over phone] Hi, baby. How are you?
Hey, I'm good. How are you?
[Magda] I'm good. I just finished my training...
Oh, I'm training, too.
I'm training with some chocolate chip cookies right now.
[Magda laughs]
-Yeah... -Did you play volleyball today?
[Magda] Of course...
-Did you win? -...like always. Of course.
[laughs]
You know that I miss you, right?
And I'm looking forward to seeing you?
And that you're beautiful.
[Magda] I miss you, too, baby.
But, uh...
A lot of things?
Like fun things to talk about?
[Magda speaking]
Okay.
She tells me she was stressed,
and there's a lot of things we have to talk about.
That's, like, my least favorite conversation ever.
But it doesn't surprise me Magda wants to have a talk.
Things have been a little tense in the last few days,
and she's not too happy with me right now.
Okay. All right.
That sounds good. I got to get back to work.
Enjoy your movie night.
[Magda] Okay.
-Miss you. -Bye. Miss you, too.
[upbeat music playing]
[woman] Wow.
[man speaking]
[woman 1] Oh, no.
[women whooping]
-[man speaking] -[laughter]
[woman 1 laughs]
-[woman 2] Hey. -Okay, now I'm ready.
-[Joe] Drinks for the boys! -[laughs]
Most of my friends in Florida, I grew up with
in New Jersey.
And we've known each other for a very long time.
[Joe continues narrating]
Growing up, all we did was make fun of each other.
You had to be, uh, quick in New Jersey.
[Stephanie] Are you getting excited for your trip?
-Yeah. -You're going there very shortly.
[Joe] I know.
-[Jill speaking] -Ooh.
[Joe] Maybe. It's hard to tell
when you've never met a person.
But she is, like, super nice and she has a good heart.
And I can tell that. I'm a very good reader of energies.
But things are a little tense
because she's a little mad at me right now.
[Jill] What do you mean?
We got into a huge fight, uh...
Because when we first met,
she stopped talking to everyone, apparently.
But I didn't know this, and I was still talking to other women.
So...
I had sexual intercourse...
two and a half months ago.
[Jill] With whom?
-[man] Two months ago? -[Joe] It doesn't matter with whom.
-How was that received by Magda? -It wasn't received well.
She was not happy about it.
-You know, like-- -Did you tell her right when you did it,
or was that after the fact?
Oh, it was way after the fact.
She just asked me.
A few days ago, Magda asked me, out of the blue,
about the last time
I had sex with another girl,
and I was very honest with her.
I didn't even think it was, like,
something wrong I did.
Because at that point, we were just, in my eyes, getting to know each other.
[Stephanie] Did you have a conversation
for her to stop talking to other guys?
Like, "Were you supposed to stop talking--"
[Joe] No, no, no. We never had that conversation.
We never put titles. That's why I didn't know.
But now, I'm fully committed. It took me a little bit.
-He's a committed man now. -I believe it, just because he's been so miserable.
-It's true... -[Alex chortles]
[Joe speaking]
I know, I know his-- I know him.
[Alex] Joe is a sexual person.
So...
But from just knowing Joe, historically,
the fact that he's giving such a big commitment,
and without even having sex with her yet,
I think, is a good sign for things to come.
[Joe] Yeah, so...
She was upset that I didn't stop talking to girls,
so I had to start sharing my location.
-She-- -So, she demanded you share your location?
[Joe] She did.
That's crazy, man.
[Joe] I didn't think she was a jealous person.
But, uh, my location is being shared.
It's a little scary, right?
[Alex speaking]
[Joe] You know, knows a little, nothing too crazy.
Well, does she know that you and Jill have dated?
No, not at all.
Oh, my God. No. 'Cause,
um, you're talking about something that's six years ago.
Jill and I have dated for, like,
under a year.
And it was so long ago. It was almost seven years ago.
So, I didn't think it was important to tell Magda.
But, judging by the way Magda reacted
about me being with another girl
when we first started talking,
[clicks tongue] I do not think Magda's gonna be happy
that I'm friends with an ex.
I think Magda's gonna have some reservations
about how friendly you are with your girlfriend.
And now, you know, you...
hooking up with someone
when she, in her mind, thought you guys were exclusive.
-[Rob] This is a big risk, Joey. -Yeah.
This is absolute insanity.
-[Rob] It's mental. -[Stephanie] Joe is out of his damn mind.
I think the location request was absolutely ridiculous.
[Rob] It shows a lack of trust...
-[Stephanie] A lack of trust. -...I would say, if you need that.
I'm worried that, you know, manipulation could come into effect.
It just feels like everything is moving way too quickly
without them really even knowing each other.
There has to be some type of motive.
[Stephanie] If her intentions aren't pure in Poland,
then it'll break him.
I'm sending you with my blessing.
You deserve... You deserve the best, Joe.
[Joe] Yeah.
-Good luck, kid. -[Joe] Thank you.
[Tigerlily] We had, you know, an issue
-with the chiropractor. -[Adnan] Okay.
But he's a doctor. So, like...
Yes, he is.
-Do you not see that that's messed up? -I, uh...
[foghorn blowing]
[Adnan] Okay, baby.
[foghorn blowing]
Baby, it's so pretty!
[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily speaking]
[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily] At the Grand Bazaar,
I was just really hot and my feet were hurting.
But Adnan said that he had another surprise for me.
So, we just left,
-so we could go see my surprise. -[camera shutter clicks]
[camera shutter clicks]
My feet still hurts,
but I couldn't have really worn
any different shoes with this outfit.
[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily speaking]
[Adnan speaking]
Yeah, okay.
[Tigerlily] Oh, my gosh.
-Babe-- -[Adnan] Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
[Tigerlily laughs]
[Adnan] Come here.
[Tigerlily] Even though I'm a little annoyed about Adnan not caring
about my comfort...
[Adnan] Are you like the surprise, baby?
[Tigerlily] Ooh, it's so cute.
...It's so sweet
that Adnan just keeps surprising me
with romantic gesture after romantic gesture.
Uh...
And plus, I'm really happy about being on a boat,
because now I get to sit down.
[chuckles sheepishly]
-[Adnan] Mmm! -[Tigerlily] Oh, my goodness!
[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily] It's beautiful, honey. Look at that.
It's so pretty.
-It's so pretty. -[Adnan speaking]
It is.
[Tigerlily chuckles]
[man reciting call to prayer distantly]
[Adnan speaking]
[man continues reciting call to prayer]
[Tigerlily] You know,
I don't know that much about your religion.
But I think it's a very, like, respectful--
-Yeah? -...religion.
But there's some things that I would want
to know more.
-Mmm. -Like... clothing.
Is it part of the religion?
Like, women don't show certain parts? Or...
[Adnan speaking]
No, but I can't.
Because before, you said,
"No, that's not okay." So, it's so confusing.
[Tigerlily] Okay. Tell me, honey.
[Adnan] Eh...
"Some food"?
Okay?
[Adnan speaking]
[chuckling]
[chuckling] Okay. You're comparing my body to food?
Yeah.
-Oh, my God. I'm so confused. -[chuckles softly]
[Adnan narrating]
It's not hard to understand.
All the Muslim women and wives,
they understand that. Why she not?
No. I didn't understand, honey.
I have another question.
Like when it comes to me having a doctor that...
-A man. You don't like it? -Yeah.
Is it part of the religion?
If... Uh...
Okay.
But then we had, you know, an issue
with the chiropractor--
-Okay. -...but he's a doctor. So, like...
Yes, he is.
Okay. So--
[chuckles]
I understand, baby.
I will do that. But what I'm saying is,
I feel like you don't think
that I've made a lot of changes.
And you're not acknowledging my changes.
And it bothers me
because there's just, like, this double standard there.
For example, I have to change my swimwear,
but you're not willing to change your swimwear.
Do you not see that that's messed up?
You know what?
Oh. So, now I have a small mind?
-So small mind. -[sarcastically]
[Tigerlily] So, how do you think I feel?
But why do you care?
Don't you care about what your wife thinks
more than what other people will think?
Even after I do everything that you ask of me,
and now I'm asking you to do something,
are you telling me "Yes," or "No"?
Answer that.
Wearing the shirt in the water,
-You will do it? -Okay.
Are you being sarcastic?
I'm gonna hold you to that.
You know that, right?
But it's stupid.
I'm a guy. I don't need to do it.
[Tigerlily speaking]
Okay.
[Adnan narrating]
[Hayford speaking]
If it was that easy, I think they would be in Ghana with me right now.
My parents don't really support my relationship,
because they're afraid Matilda is taking advantage of me.
[Matilda speaking]
[upbeat music playing]
[Matilda] We are here.
-[Hayford] Hey. -[Enoch] Uh, hey!
[Hayford] Matilda!
-[Matilda] Hi! -[Niles] Hi, everybody.
Hi, Niles.
-How are you doing? -[Hayford] Oh, we are cool.
Yeah. Which seat do you want to sit?
[Enoch] Nice... Nice to meet again.
-[Niles] It's nice to meet you again, too. -Yeah. Welcome.
[Hayford] Have a seat, have a seat.
Have a seat.
[Niles giggles]
-[Matilda laughs] -Have a seat.
[Niles] Just like a true brother and sister.
[laughter]
-Okay. Do you need something? -Um...
-You're okay, right? -I'll just share what you're... You're having.
-[Matilda] Okay. Cool. -[Hayford] You're gonna share together?
-[Matilda] Uh-huh. -Mmm.
[Matilda] Mmm-hmm.
[man] Hey, wow.
-Wow. -[Matilda] Mmm-hmm. Thank you.
Do you know the funny part?
-[chortles] -What happened?
[Matilda speaking]
[speaking in other language]
[man] Wow.
[in English]
[Hayford] Is that true?
[Niles] I... I had to, like, no, you laughed at me enough for them.
-[Matilda laughs] -[Niles] Thank you.
[Matilda] Saturday.
[Hayford speaking]
-[Enoch] 90? -Yeah, maybe 90.
That's right.
[Matilda] Yes.
Enoch, as it is, I'm gonna have to tell her to reduce her guest list,
-as it is. -[Enoch laughs]
[laughing] I will not reduce. I will not reduce anything.
[Niles] Okay, so Matilda...
[Matilda] Because we didn't, we did not do the traditional one.
[Matilda speaking]
That's the thing, I thought it was just your... just your family.
Yes, but, and the thing is,
and my family isn't exactly small either.
But since they weren't here,
I thought, okay, well, that's at least 15 people.
I didn't have... that I didn't have to, well, get food for.
Mat, look at me. My question is, they are not going to come, right?
They're not physically here, no.
[Hayford speaking]
So maybe we can call them on WhatsApp or Zoom.
-[Hayford] You know? Because... -[Enoch] Yes.
[Hayford speaking]
Mat, if it was that easy, I think they would be in Ghana with me right now.
-That's all I'm gonna tell you. -Then you have to--
You have to talk to them.
I have explained to Matilda that my parents don't really support our relationship,
because they're afraid that Matilda is taking advantage of me.
I think Matilda's been holding on to hope that they'd change their minds.
Sadly, though, [sighs] I'm pretty confident,
that my parents are not going to participate in this knocking ceremony.
[Hayford speaking]
Well, maybe Mr. Arc.
-[Enoch] Okay. -Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[Niles] Yeah.
[Niles] Mr. Arc is an elder within the community,
and he runs a center for disabled people, nearby.
[Niles] Before I came here, Matilda got me in contact with Mr. Arc
because we work in similar fields,
and from there friendship has blossomed.
-Wow. -[Niles] I just need to make sure that,
I know this kinda short notice...
[Enoch speaking]
[Niles] I have talked to Mr. Arc
but I never mentioned, this, right here.
mostly because I didn't know to mention it at the time.
-You have to be, hurry up and tell... -Maybe, maybe today.
-Tell them, to go... -Maybe today, you have to see Mr. Arc.
-Today? -Today. You know a...
[Enoch] It's the life.
-Maybe. If not today, maybe... -[Hayford] Tomorrow.
[Niles] Tomorrow.
[Matilda speaking]
[Veah] You never told me that I have to be Muslim and I don't want to be Muslim.
So that just made me feel confused and like, a little bit attacked.
I'm not gonna let somebody force religion on me.
So this could be a big problem for us in the future.
Do you want me to convert to your religion?
It's quite unfortunate, that all this are coming out from your mouth.
Yeah, it is, unfortunate for you.
[Chidi speaking]
[calming music playing]
[Sunny] Do you like the cricket?
[Veah] I did. Yeah, it was fun.
[Veah] I don't think that Ali really understands me.
You know, I want him to like me because,
-you guys are so... -He will like you, he likes you.
-[Veah] You guys are so close. -[Sunny] He has started liking you.
I just feel like, Ali did a little bit attack me.
And I didn't really know how to respond.
I don't appreciate when people just give their opinions on our relationship
or my tattoos or how I cover myself.
I don't think that's a topic that's just open for discussion,
especially, Ali insisting that I needed to convert.
That's like, way out of the line.
I felt like, he was trying to kind of like, forced me
to like, make it feel like, oh, well, you can't be with Sunny
if you're not Muslim...
[Veah] And like, you never told me that I have to be Muslim,
and I don't want to be Muslim.
So that just made me feel confused and like, a little bit attacked.
No, actually, he wasn't attacking you.
[Sunny] That's how he see it.
[Veah] Yeah, and that's okay.
I was just hearing him out, I guess.
But I think that's kind of between me and you.
You know, and us to figure out, right?
But do you want me to convert to your religion?
I said, let's focus on ourselves for now.
[Sunny] Then when we know that we are very happy,
then we can see where we can go from here, you know?
I'm really trying to get an answer out of Sunny,
like, does he want me to convert to Islam or not?
[Veah] And he's brushing it off, and I'm not sure how to handle this,
because I don't want to convert to Islam.
I'm not going to let somebody like, force religion on me.
So this could be a big problem for us in the future.
What are we going to do the rest of the day?
-Would you like to go for a swimming? -Oh, yeah.
And have some good time together?
Yeah, I'd love to go swimming. I love swimming.
[Veah] But the last thing I want to do is fight with him.
So I'm just gonna try to let it all go and have a peaceful night.
[upbeat music playing]
[Veah speaking]
We need to take everything out of our memories,
everything, every stress, every problem and just focus on us.
[Veah speaking]
There's definitely a vibe going on between us.
[Sunny chuckles]
[Sunny speaking]
[Veah speaking]
[Sunny speaking]
[Veah speaking]
[Sunny] Yeah.
[Veah speaking]
[Sunny speaking]
-[Sunny speaking] -[Veah chuckles]
[Veah speaking]
[Veah] To have this night in the pool with Sunny.
This is so perfect.
He's making the moves like things are going good.
Like, this is kind of what we needed, you know?
After all our fighting.
[Veah] Me and Sunny have some things to figure out.
The conversation of religion has to happen.
Getting over the Rory situation and our trust issues,
that's going to be something that takes time.
[Veah and Sunny speaking]
At this point, I don't want any more drama.
I just want to focus on us.
[Veah] This is our first time showering together in person,
so I definitely think Sunny and I are going to get closer.
[intense music playing]
[Rayne] What is so bad about me, that you have to put me down
the way you do and come up with sour ass excuses
as to why you couldn't even give me the freaking time of day?
[Rayne] You're an evil person.
[Chidi speaking]
Yeah, it is. Unfortunate for you.
[Chidi speaking]
All the time I had tried to engage you,
you never allowed me.
-[Chidi] Let me tell you now, the only time... -[chuckles]
-Go ahead. -[Chidi] The only time I have ever
enjoyed this relationship...
[Chidi speaking]
That was-- That has been the only time.
[Rayne] Dang, and you asked me to marry you.
You are the biggest scammer I've ever come across.
[Rayne] And one of the worst.
You want to play me off for a freaking fool?
Invite me all the way over here.
You're gonna be nothing.
Now, but a bitch to me.
Do you understand that?
I don't give a [bleep] what you say.
-[Rayne] You don't even deserve this respect as a man. -Wait, wait, wait.
-[Chidi] Wait. -You learn to shut your mouth, okay?
Wait.
-[Chidi] This is the reason. -[Rayne] And I don't--
-[Rayne] Yes, this is the reason. -[Chidi] You see?
-[Chidi] This is the reason I can't continue again. -[Rayne] This is the reason--
-[Chidi] It's over. -[Rayne] I don't need to hear you.
-[Chidi] I'm tired. -[Rayne] It's over.
-[Rayne] You say whatever you want to say -[Chidi] Yeah.
-[Rayne] to make your little ass feel better, okay? -[Chidi] No!
[Rayne] You take your stuff, you go home.
-[Rayne] Your babysitter's right there. -[Chidi] Yeah.
[Chidi] I can't express myself.
-Have a good time. I love you. -Yeah.
-[Rayne] Bye. -I love you too.
[Rayne] Yeah, yeah.
[bleep]
[Chidi speaking]
[automated voice] Door is closing.
[Victoria speaking]
Rayne will always be Rayne.
So everything has come to a final end.
I never had desired that this whole thing would have ended this way.
[sniffs]
Everyone in my life knew how much I loved him.
How much I wanted to do everything.
How much I put off for him.
He should have never led me on.
He should have never told me...
He should have never told me that he loved me.
[Rayne sniffing]
[Rayne] I deserve so much more.
[Chidi speaking]
[Victoria] All right.
-Shall we go now? -Yeah.
[Chidi speaking]
Find someone that will love me, cherish me,
hear me out, understand me and accept me the way I am.
[Joe] Now, what else do I need?
Oh, condoms. Should I grab some?
[Magda speaking]
[Joe] Hearing Magda say she doesn't want to have sex until she comes to America.
It does make me feel a little uneasy,
especially with how planned out she has everything.
[Magda speaking]
♪♪ Oh, baby ♪
♪♪ What are you drinking? What you want? ♪
♪♪ We spend it all We empty vaults ♪
♪♪ Trick yourself out And I'm ready ♪
[phone ringing]
-[Joe] Hi. -[Magda] Baby.
Hey, how are you?
[Magda] I'm good.
[Joe] So I'm stopping at...
The store, real quick.
to get some things before I leave tomorrow.
[Magda speaking]
[Joe] Candies? Yeah, we can do candies.
[Magda speaking]
[Joe] Magda and I are always on the phone throughout the day,
But ever since we had our disagreement,
about the last time I had sex,
we've definitely been on the phone a lot more often.
[Joe] Okay, candies.
We'll see what else they have.
I think she's a little suspicious
and might be keeping little tabs on me.
But, I'm going to Poland tomorrow and I'm hoping that Magda,
once I get out there, she can see how committed I am.
I want her to see that I want us to work
And that, you know, we can be in a successful relationship.
[Joe] Okay.
Um, let me see what they have, I'm gonna switch you to video,
so you can look at it.
[Magda] Okay.
[Joe] Do you see me?
Hi. [laughs]
[Magda] Yeah, I see you.
Do I look beautiful?
[Magda] Yes. I miss you so much.
[Joe] Aww. I miss you too. Okay.
[Joe] It's been five months,
since I've been talking to Magda.
I'm very excited to finally be able to,
you know, hold her, touch her, kiss her,
smell her, feel her, um, use all the senses.
Instead of just two.
[Joe] Right? Vision and hearing.
[Joe] What do I need?
[Joe] Toothpaste.
Do you floss?
-You have shampoo? -[Magda] For women.
-Do you have shampoo? -[Magda] For women.
Of course I have, baby.
-Okay, but I should get men's, right? -[Magda] Aww.
you have to buy some shampoo...
[both laugh]
I'm joking, babe, of course.
You know, Magda is pretty quick.
She can take, take a joke and she can dish it back.
[Joe] What about a walker?
-I could test it out. -[laughs]
[Joe] It's pretty nice.
[both laughing]
I definitely feel like me and Magda have chemistry
It's really good over the phone.
And I think, it will be even better in person.
That, you know, we'll click.
[Joe] Okay, so we've got mouthwash, deodorant, toothpaste,
um...
[Joe] Yeah. What else do I need?
Oh, condoms. Should I grab some?
No babe.
Oh, you have enough?
No!
I...uh...
[Magda speaking]
Yeah.
[Magda speaking]
[Joe] Okay, yeah. No, I get it. I get it.
I'm sorry for even bringing it up.
We won't worry about condoms.
To be honest, I'm kind of shocked.
Magda is saying she doesn't wanna have sex at all during this trip.
[Joe speaking]
We've been talking about kids and so many things in the future,
and it's such an important factor.
-[clerk] Here, you're all set? -[Joe] I'm all set, thank you very much.
[Joe] I respect her and don't want to push her, obviously.
But I did not expect her to say that the day before I leave to Poland.
[Joe] Thank you very much. Appreciate it.
[clerk] Thanks for coming in.
It does make me feel a little uneasy,
[Joe] Especially with how controlling and planned out she has everything.
[Joe] All right. I think we're ready now.
[Magda] Okay, sounds great.
-Call me later. -[Joe] All right, I will.
Maybe there are some more red flags
than I've been willing to see,
[Joe] just because I've been blocking everything out
and not really listening to anyone's concerns.
[car door closes]
[Joe] It's definitely starting to hit me that this could be like a big mistake.
[knocking at door]
[suspenseful music playing]
[knocking at door]
[phone ringing]
[Joe's voicemail] Hi, you've...
[producer speaking]
[phone ringing]
[camera operator speaking]
[man] Next time on, 90-Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days.
-[Brian in other language] -[Ingrid laughs]
[Brian in English] At this point, I only have a few days left in Brazil
and we've got to solidify this relationship.
[Brian] I need a partner.
[both in other language]
[in English] Faith is my life.
-Oh, okay. -[Faith's mother] Handsome.
[Faith] My family, all seem to be charmed by Loren,
but they don't know what's really going on.
[speaking in other language]
[producer speaking in English]
-[phone ringing] -[Joe's voicemail] Hi, you've reached...
[knocking at door]
[Magda speaking]
[chuckles]
So we have to talk about a lot of things face to face.
[Vanja speaking]
Whoa!
[Vanja speaking]
[Bozo] I just wanted this to be fun night.
But it became totally opposite.
Yeah, you know what? I'm just [bleep] done with this.
You need to see that you're not supposed to be here.
I'm not the [bleep] problem.
You guys are the one with the [bleep] problem, not me.
[Veah] You guys just need to calm down.
I'm not sending Rory home.
You leave her alone.
[Veah] Sunny.