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[marching band music plays]
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[woman] ♪ Hey, yeah ♪
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♪ All right ♪
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♪ Mmm ♪
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{\an8}♪ Oh yeah ♪
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{\an8}♪ All right, whoo ♪
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{\an8}♪ Oh, things just keep getting better ♪
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{\an8}♪ Come on ♪
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♪ You came into my life now ♪
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[chorus] ♪ You came into my life now ♪
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[woman] ♪ Oh yeah ♪
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♪ Things just keep getting better ♪
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♪ All right ♪
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♪ Yeah ♪
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♪ Things just keep getting better ♪
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- ♪ Down in New Orleans ♪
- [man] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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- [man 2 speaks Louisiana Creole]
- [man 3] Yeah, keep that.
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[upbeat music plays]
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[Jonathan] Oh my gosh!
Who are we doing this week, Bobby?
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"Our heroes this week,"
and I do say "heroes..."
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[Karamo] Plot twist!
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[Bobby] "...are the fraternity brothers
of Lambda Chi Alpha."
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- [all] Ooh!
- That's right. We're doing a frat house.
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[music ends abruptly]
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Say that differently.
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We are...
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- Helping.
- Helping a frat house.
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I love it!
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[beep] yeah!
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Yeah, bro!
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- Bros! Bros! Bros!
- Lambs! Lambs!
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If I hit this one,
Josh, you're getting a mohawk.
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- [laughs]
- Oh no!
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You gotta get a mohawk.
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- Marco, is this your pizza?
- Uh...
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Whose pizza is that?
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[Bobby] "Seniors Ian and Josh Allen have
nominated themselves and their brothers
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because they want the Fab Five
to give them a wake-up call
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and push the frat in the right direction."
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{\an8}Our fraternity kind of dipped in quality.
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Our house has been
kind of in the dumps recently.
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{\an8}The fraternity is definitely, um...
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{\an8}It's... Well, it's a mess.
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[grunts]
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[Bobby] "Most of the boys in Lambda Chi
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never saw themselves
as a fraternity type."
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{\an8}I don't feel we look like a fraternity
most of the time,
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which I don't think is a bad thing.
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[Bobby]
"After getting through the pandemic,
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they formed a brotherhood
and support system."
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- That's nice.
- [Bobby] Yeah.
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[Bobby] "For many of them,
Lambda Chi Alpha is a chosen family."
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I love that the straights
even have chosen family.
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- [Bobby] Yeah.
- [Ian] So many memories at this house...
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Being able to live with
your closest friends and your brothers,
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it's a wonderful thing to have.
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- [Josh J] Food's ready.
- [Perez] They're caring.
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They want to make a difference.
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It's probably the most active chapter
in terms of what they do for the community
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with their philanthropic efforts.
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I love this. I mean,
that's what fraternities were meant to be.
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- Community organizations.
- [Bobby] Yes.
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"After two years of canceled events
due to the pandemic,
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most people at the UNO campus
have no idea Lambda Chi even exists."
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[Josh A] Not being able to have
big groups of people at our house
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definitely stunted our growth.
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We don't have an influx of money
just always coming in.
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We have to work certain events
that, like, make us money.
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It'd be better if we had a fan out here.
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Like, an actual fan that's good?
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We have a bucket list of things
before we get to that.
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[Perez] There's a good bit of them
that come from modest means.
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That makes it harder to pay dues.
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That makes it harder for them
to buy the things they need.
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Not all of us can be
from the country club, right?
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The financial standing
of the fraternity right now is not good.
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It's not as good as it used to be.
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In the '80s, our fraternity was so big
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that they bought this house
because they had the money.
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This year coming up,
we're gonna try and push as hard as we can
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to get a bunch of new members,
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especially before we leave,
when we graduate.
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"At the end of the week, the fraternity
is hosting an alumni mixer."
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"This is an important event for these guys
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to ask for alumni donations
that the fraternity desperately needs
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in order to put on events
in the upcoming semester."
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We still have some alumni
who are really good and wanna help,
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but some of them
are gonna start flaking off if we don't...
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[Ian] Give them a reason.
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...give them a reason
to come back and want to help us.
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To see that we are actively trying
to make this fraternity better.
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We wanna impress the alumni... Sorry.
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Ooh.
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Yeah... We wanna impress the alumni.
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"Our mission this week
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is to turn these sloppy joes
into proper pros."
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- Yeah!
- Whoo!
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[rock music plays]
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♪ Since we settled down ♪
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♪ And moved to this town ♪
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♪ I've been trying to mix
With the civilized crowd ♪
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[Tan] It's very quiet.
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[Antoni] Ooh, I see the Solo cups.
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- It's not opening.
- [Tan] Try a code.
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Try the password "boobs."
Like, 8-0-0... Like, spell...
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- One, two, three, four.
- No, try spelling "boobs."
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- I have two older brothers!
- [Bobby] 0-0-0-0.
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- Try "boob."
- "Boob"?
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- [Jonathan] Add an S.
- [Tan] 8-0-0...
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- [beeps]
- [Bobby] Oh my God!
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- You smart little girl!
- Yeah!
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At least we know they're all straight!
[chuckles]
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Although gay dudes like boobs too.
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It's a common misconception.
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- [Tan] Oh.
- [Antoni] Whoa!
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- Bro!
- [Tan] That hits you.
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Oh God. It stinks so bad in here.
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[Antoni] Are they asleep?
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- ["Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star" plays]
- [snoring]
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[snoring]
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[Tan whispers]
Oh my God. There's somebody on the sofa.
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[stifled giggling]
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[Jonathan] Life is coming at you fast!
You gotta get up and face the world!
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Come on, honey!
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Let's go!
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[Karamo] It's your wake-up call!
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[Tan] Come on! Who are you, kid?
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{\an8}- Josh.
- [Jonathan] You have the prettiest lashes.
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{\an8}- Nice to meet you, honey!
- [Antoni] Get up, Josh!
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Come help us find the others.
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Did y'all check the time?
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- Why don't we bang on stuff?
- [Antoni] Ooh, yeah.
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Time. To. Wake. Up.
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[Karamo] Pledge master is here.
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[Antoni] Oh, we found another one!
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{\an8}[Bobby] Here's another one!
Wake up! Wake up!
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{\an8}I'm up. I'm up. I'm up.
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{\an8}[Bobby] Yeah, it stinks so bad in here.
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{\an8}- [Karamo] Wow!
- It's not my room. Not my room.
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{\an8}[Tan] It's not your room?
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Wake up! Wake up!
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There are lost boys everywhere.
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Wake up! Wake up!
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Every boy is sleeping
in some dirty crevice.
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{\an8}[Antoni] Hello, little sleeping angel.
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Aw!
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- [Bobby] Wake up, baby!
- [Antoni] Good morning!
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Morning pizza party! Wow!
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- [Jonathan] Get up! Get up!
- Get up!
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{\an8}[Antoni] Yay!
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{\an8}Oh my gosh. Did we wake you?
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It's so dirty! Ew!
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What is all this?
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[Antoni] It's a health hazard.
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The sink and the stove
tell me it's a kitchen.
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Oh! Oh my God!
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These are massive fruit flies.
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This house is [beep] disgusting.
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{\an8}Tell me why this is a place
that you guys want to live.
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{\an8}During the school year,
this is basically like a hub.
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{\an8}It's always people passing through,
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{\an8}and they always got
something going on here.
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Okay. Okay.
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{\an8}My parents moved to Mississippi Gulf Coast
and Bay St. Louis,
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{\an8}so it's about an hour now,
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{\an8}so I'm now ten minutes away from campus.
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- This place is pretty important to you.
- Oh, hell yeah.
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But there doesn't seem to be
a lot of respect for the house.
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{\an8}Before I moved in here,
when I was a freshman and I joined,
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{\an8}the house was pretty clean.
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So you guys found it semi-nice,
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and then you guys
specifically have ruined it?
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- [Ryan] Well, me and...
- It's been ruined over the years and all...
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Just depends
on what group lives in the house.
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[Bobby] It's a frat house.
You guys party here,
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but the cleanliness, whose responsibility
is it to kind of rally the troops?
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It would probably be me.
I think it's, like, motivation.
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I'm like, "Yo, we need to do this.
We need to do that,"
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and it will last a couple days.
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We start doing it,
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but the second somebody
sees somebody not pulling their weight,
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they'll slack off,
and then it becomes contagious.
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It's like a snowball kind of effect.
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[Antoni] Oh, I can't. I can't, but I must.
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[gags]
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[coughing]
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The kitchen is, like, a mix
of apple cider vinegar and, like, ugh.
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Like old tequila.
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Just kidding.
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And that smell that oranges get
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when they start to get fuzzy
and green and moldy on the outside.
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[Jonathan screams]
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- No! [screams]
- [violins screech]
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No! No!
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There's flies everywhere! [screams]
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I don't wanna do this.
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Ugh. Just disinfect everything.
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Every one
of these children's mamas and daddies
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is gonna be ashamed
that these children are living like this.
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Couldn't have been at my house.
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No way that my sons
have been living like this.
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I'd have came in here and wrecked shop.
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[in English accent] What have we here?
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Evidence of false lashes.
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[in usual voice] What young woman
is having to operate in this madness?
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She's gonna get an eye infection.
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Lots of touching loofahs.
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[Jonathan] I want, like,
a HIPAA-certified hospital cleaner
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on my back.
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Sypha-herpa-purple-ase.
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That's what I gotta say about it in here.
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Tanny!
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Oh, wait. Tanny.
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Come back, Tanny. Come back.
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[Antoni] So this kitchen...
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You all look like you're in trouble.
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{\an8}Are you about to roast us?
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{\an8}[Antoni] I don't think I have to roast you
because what this kitchen is,
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I think, speaks for itself.
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You all haven't even had breakfast yet
'cause we literally woke you up.
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{\an8}I don't really normally wake up
till about 2:00 in the afternoon.
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{\an8}- [Ian] That too.
- [Antoni] Two is the average?
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{\an8}So I don't normally eat breakfast.
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{\an8}- Do you go to bed late?
- [Josh J] I work at night. I'm a cook.
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- I wanna own my own restaurant.
- Are you in charge of the food here?
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- Kind of. He is too.
- Gotcha.
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{\an8}About the only thing I can cook,
I can only fry an egg.
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{\an8}Okay. Do you all just buy your own food
and you come here and you share?
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Do you label things? What does it work?
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- We share food.
- Okay, so it is very much like a family.
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End of the week, what's going on?
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We have our alumni coming over.
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Is it about raising money in any way?
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We are looking
for, like, some, like, donations
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just 'cause money's
a little tight right now.
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'Cause you're students.
What does the money go towards?
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Our brotherhood retreats,
our big philanthropy events and stuff,
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other events we have.
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If you all are gonna be raising money,
you're gonna have to charm them somehow
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so they're excited to help you all out.
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Huh?
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This is safe.
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[Tan] That's actually a lovely shoe.
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If it were clean, I'd wear that shoe.
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There's cat hair
falling off this underwear. Gross.
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- Ugh. Oh.
- I know. The smell is so shocking.
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[Jonathan] I've never smelled
a litter box like this in my life.
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It smells like a dead witch's tit.
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It is... You can't say that. Poor witches.
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It's offensive to dead witches
to say that. Like...
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For everything they went through,
and they weren't even witches.
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It was just, like,
a misogynistic crazy time.
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Put it in my hand.
I don't want it to touch the floor.
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They didn't go through half of what I've
gone through just being in this house.
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You've got to change your litter box
in there, girl. It's really intense.
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Ugh!
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[Bobby] It's so gross.
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This is the one time I'm okay
with fragrance plug-ins.
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Why is the kitchen down here
instead of upstairs?
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That's the least of my concerns.
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They have a calendar here
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saying when rent is due,
but not any type of cleaning.
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They do have a list of "broke shit."
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Um, fence, solarium windows,
back room, leaky toilet.
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- Add kitchen.
- They have the upstairs listed as broke.
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I agree with that.
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{\an8}I will say this. I could tell there was
three different colors of shat
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smeared on the side of the toilet.
There was shat from more than one person.
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I've seen enough Law and Order: SVU
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to know when there's three different types
of shit splatter in a toilet.
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On the good news,
everyone here is just absolutely stunning.
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I mean, look at you. Look at you.
I saw some false eyelashes in there.
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- Whose girlfriend is here sometimes?
- Mine.
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She must really love you
because she is like...
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She puts up with it.
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Your girlfriend is going to be such a fan
of no more shat stains on the toilet.
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Also, this is giving me extreme agita.
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- [Josh J] That's mine.
- Have you ever heard about sharticles?
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If you leave something out,
when people come in here and poop,
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their literal poop sharticles
are flying around when they flush,
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and it's getting in your toothbrush.
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We have to cover that thing up.
I'm not coming from a shaming place.
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I'm coming from, like,
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I don't want you guys
to get, like, crabs from your toilet seat.
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I don't know if crabs transfer like that.
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- But you guys gotta be careful.
- Yeah.
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This house is an international disaster.
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I was about to call you kids.
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{\an8}I'm trying hard to not, but you are
young enough to be my children.
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You were sleeping in here,
but this is not your room.
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{\an8}- He just has amazing hospitality.
- [Tan] Wonderful.
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- Are these your clothes?
- Mm-hmm.
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- All of this is mine.
- Yours.
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{\an8}- Yep.
- [Tan] We've gotta talk about this first.
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What the [beep]?!
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- [chuckles]
- [Tan] Marco's bedroom.
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There is a bed in it, but I don't know
if one would describe it as a bedroom.
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Nothing is organized.
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How are they still doing this
at 19, 20, 21?
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These are all your clothes
on here, here, this, this?
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- It all looks vintage, thrifted.
- [Marco] Yeah.
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Like, you've got some stuff
that I'm not mad at at all.
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- The pants are pretty great.
- [Demario] Yeah, those some funky pants.
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- Yeah.
- [Tan] You've got the mixer this week.
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Do you have anything that you can show me
that's a little more dressed up?
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What kind of vibe do you go for?
What do you wanna look like?
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Probably just a collared shirt
and some shorts 'cause it'll still be hot.
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If I need to, like,
look more professional,
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it's usually just collared shirt
and pants, I don't know.
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[Tan] Okay.
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[Marco] The Dickie pants with this shirt.
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- That's lovely.
- These shoes.
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- I love those shoes.
- [Marco] These are my favorite shoes.
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- [Tan] I would wear those.
- My favorite.
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I saw them. I didn't wanna touch them
because there's dirt in that corner.
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Treat them better.
They're a very nice shoe.
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[Bobby] Oh.
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I mean, this is something very important
that's just thrown out on the counter.
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You know what?
I love that they have this room
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that, like, goes through their history
of awards and photo albums and pictures
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and things about their philanthropy,
322
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but why aren't they taking care of it?
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Like, this crap is literally just shoved
in shelves covered in filth.
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Like, have some pride, boys.
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[Tan] You try in your heels!
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[Jonathan] Okay
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- Push me.
- [Tan] Go, Jackie! Go, Jackie!
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- Not into the shit!
- [Jonathan laughs]
329
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{\an8}What does it mean for you
to have this being your family?
330
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{\an8}[Demario] It's pretty nice
to have that community.
331
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Everybody's there for each other and all.
332
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I don't live here. I'm just here often.
333
00:14:17,941 --> 00:14:20,527
- But these are your brothers.
- I call these guys my family.
334
00:14:20,527 --> 00:14:24,156
I rely on them for a lot of things
and vice versa as well. Uh...
335
00:14:25,157 --> 00:14:28,243
But, you know, I couldn't ask
for a better group of guys, honestly.
336
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That's what fraternity culture
is supposed to be about, brotherhood.
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But you all are both young men.
338
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I wonder, being together,
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how much are you learning
how to become that next phase
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of what it is to be a man for you?
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00:14:42,424 --> 00:14:45,344
I came here looking for that.
It's one reason I wanted to join,
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00:14:45,344 --> 00:14:49,306
to get that, like, growing into manhood,
like, kind of tutorial.
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- Yeah, and how's it going?
- [Demario] Uh...
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It's a process.
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Y'all remind me of me when I was younger.
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You might see me put together now,
but, you know, I had the frat experience.
347
00:15:00,567 --> 00:15:01,777
I had the good times.
348
00:15:01,777 --> 00:15:04,613
But what I realized early on
is that sometimes, as young men,
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you don't know
how to get to that next level.
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- Right.
- And no one's talking about it.
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It kind of just continues
the same pattern, right?
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[Ryan] Yeah, I think
that's exactly what's going on.
353
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Just repetitive.
354
00:15:16,750 --> 00:15:18,502
Ooh! We got here in the nick of time.
355
00:15:18,502 --> 00:15:21,213
It is clear to me
that these boys are lost.
356
00:15:21,213 --> 00:15:24,758
They have no idea of what they are doing
or how to become men.
357
00:15:25,467 --> 00:15:29,096
What we've already learned about you all
is that you're nasty, but also...
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[laughing]
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[Karamo] But also, you're very kind
and vulnerable and open, and I love that.
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And I think we're stepping in
with our little family
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and little fraternity at the perfect time.
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And so if y'all are ready to get started,
we're ready to get started.
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00:15:45,821 --> 00:15:47,906
You're DFA? You're down for anything?
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00:15:47,906 --> 00:15:50,659
- Yep. Other than a bald head, yes.
- [laughing]
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[Antoni] All right.
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[Tan] So, on three, two, one.
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[all] Lambda Chi Alpha!
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{\an8}♪ Open the curtains ♪
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{\an8}♪ Try and let some light in ♪
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00:16:02,671 --> 00:16:05,173
{\an8}These boys know
how to put a look together,
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00:16:05,173 --> 00:16:08,093
but I wanna show them
how they can step it up.
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00:16:08,093 --> 00:16:10,053
Right now they look like college students,
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00:16:10,053 --> 00:16:13,265
and they don't look appropriate
for the event at the end of this week,
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00:16:13,265 --> 00:16:14,975
so that's what I'm gonna help them with.
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00:16:14,975 --> 00:16:18,687
[Antoni] If Lambda Chi Alpha wants respect
and recognition from their alumni,
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I'm gonna bring them into our kitchen
377
00:16:20,814 --> 00:16:23,066
just to show them
what a clean kitchen can look like,
378
00:16:23,066 --> 00:16:26,111
and we're gonna come up with
something perfect that they can make
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so they can ask for that money.
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00:16:27,612 --> 00:16:30,032
[Jonathan] There's just not
very much self-care around here.
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00:16:30,032 --> 00:16:34,119
Someone has got to teach these young men
the basics of grooming.
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Got to do better.
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00:16:35,412 --> 00:16:37,789
♪ You know it's not forever ♪
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00:16:37,789 --> 00:16:40,500
We don't give them enough space
to talk about their feelings
385
00:16:40,500 --> 00:16:43,420
and what they're going through,
so I wanna take the frat to a space
386
00:16:43,420 --> 00:16:46,715
where we can just come together,
relax, and connect.
387
00:16:47,883 --> 00:16:51,762
Letting their house go
into complete decay and disrepair
388
00:16:51,762 --> 00:16:55,640
is not showing me that they have any pride
in where they live
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00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:57,350
or what they're a part of,
390
00:16:57,350 --> 00:17:01,438
so these boys need to scrape,
they need to dust, they need to scrub,
391
00:17:01,438 --> 00:17:05,275
they need to sweep, they need to vacuum,
they need to wipe,
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00:17:05,275 --> 00:17:09,237
everything they have never once done
in this house before
393
00:17:09,237 --> 00:17:11,615
because it's gross!
394
00:17:12,199 --> 00:17:13,283
It's gross.
395
00:17:13,283 --> 00:17:15,368
[rock music plays]
396
00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:32,094
Oh! Smell that... not-so-fresh air.
397
00:17:32,094 --> 00:17:34,554
You know I am the one
that comes in and cleans your house up,
398
00:17:34,554 --> 00:17:36,431
and I make it all nice again.
399
00:17:37,099 --> 00:17:38,558
I'm not doing that this week.
400
00:17:38,558 --> 00:17:40,477
I'm gonna take care of the upstairs,
401
00:17:40,477 --> 00:17:43,939
but there's no way I have time
to do this as well.
402
00:17:43,939 --> 00:17:44,898
So trash first.
403
00:17:44,898 --> 00:17:46,399
I wanna see it sparkle!
404
00:17:46,983 --> 00:17:47,859
[Demario] Oh God.
405
00:17:47,859 --> 00:17:50,737
[Bobby] The fly traps
that are filled with flies,
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00:17:50,737 --> 00:17:53,240
the corners that are filled with dirt,
407
00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:56,034
the sofas that are filled
with stiff socks.
408
00:17:56,034 --> 00:17:57,661
[Ian] That is gross.
409
00:17:57,661 --> 00:17:59,412
It's all got to go.
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{\an8}[Demario] It's wet. Why is this wet?
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00:18:02,290 --> 00:18:07,045
[Bobby] I wanna make sure that they see
how easy it actually is to repair things.
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00:18:07,045 --> 00:18:07,963
I've got you.
413
00:18:09,381 --> 00:18:13,552
I'm hoping that it is gonna give them
a sense of responsibility
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00:18:13,552 --> 00:18:16,763
and make them feel proud
of the space that they live in.
415
00:18:16,763 --> 00:18:19,099
Who wants to help me
with the hole in the ceiling?
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00:18:19,099 --> 00:18:21,643
- [Demario] I'll take the honors.
- [Bobby] Almost.
417
00:18:21,643 --> 00:18:23,770
- Yeah, that's good.
- [Josh A] Go, Demario.
418
00:18:23,770 --> 00:18:26,648
Always start with a small amount.
Yeah, go in with the edge.
419
00:18:27,357 --> 00:18:29,317
[Bobby]
I can see their little faces lighting up.
420
00:18:29,317 --> 00:18:32,946
I can see that it's kind of sinking in
that it feels really nice
421
00:18:32,946 --> 00:18:35,073
to have a home that's not disgusting.
422
00:18:35,073 --> 00:18:37,784
- [Ian] I can live like this.
- [Cooper] Makes me feel accomplished.
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00:18:37,784 --> 00:18:42,581
And a place that when alumni come,
they wanna say, "Hey!"
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00:18:42,581 --> 00:18:45,709
"Let me give them some money
to keep this place looking nice!"
425
00:18:45,709 --> 00:18:48,920
Josh, there's about four pounds of pubes
on the floor in this bathroom
426
00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:50,213
{\an8}that could use vacuuming.
427
00:18:50,213 --> 00:18:52,007
{\an8}Four pounds. Ugh!
428
00:18:52,549 --> 00:18:54,593
[Marco] That shit is everywhere, bro.
429
00:18:55,218 --> 00:18:56,303
[Josh J] Oh my God.
430
00:18:58,555 --> 00:18:59,806
[Bobby] Ryan is the leader here,
431
00:18:59,806 --> 00:19:03,393
but he's taken this leadership role,
but he's not running with it.
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00:19:03,393 --> 00:19:05,937
{\an8}[Bobby] What is it about a fraternity
that drew you to it?
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00:19:05,937 --> 00:19:09,482
[Ryan] It just reminded me
of my group of friends from home,
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but even more mature.
Like, guys I can really look up to
435
00:19:12,444 --> 00:19:15,405
'cause we have a lot of alumnis
that, right out of college,
436
00:19:15,405 --> 00:19:17,616
boom, doing something good for themselves.
437
00:19:17,616 --> 00:19:19,618
- What are you, uh, majoring in?
- [Ryan] Business.
438
00:19:19,618 --> 00:19:23,622
I wanna be CEO, head honcho,
like, Mr. President of an organization.
439
00:19:23,622 --> 00:19:27,042
Kind of getting on-the-job training
of, you know, managing people.
440
00:19:27,042 --> 00:19:29,794
- You took on this leadership role, right?
- Yep.
441
00:19:29,794 --> 00:19:33,298
What do you think
you could do different in the future
442
00:19:33,298 --> 00:19:35,967
to make sure it doesn't get like this
and it's maintained?
443
00:19:35,967 --> 00:19:38,553
Make sure people are accountable
for things, really.
444
00:19:38,553 --> 00:19:41,181
Good. I'm not a super huge stickler
445
00:19:41,181 --> 00:19:43,892
about your personal space
getting a little messy sometimes.
446
00:19:43,892 --> 00:19:48,563
It's the common spaces that you guys
owe it to each other to keep it clean.
447
00:19:48,563 --> 00:19:50,440
- Yep.
- [Bobby] This looks completely different.
448
00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:53,902
I want you to take care of your space.
It's not just about keeping things clean.
449
00:19:53,902 --> 00:19:57,155
These are life lessons for everything
you're gonna do in the future.
450
00:19:57,155 --> 00:19:58,657
So bring it in?
451
00:19:58,657 --> 00:20:00,992
High fives? High fives! [grunts]
452
00:20:00,992 --> 00:20:02,202
Good job! Good job!
453
00:20:02,202 --> 00:20:03,703
I'm proud of you guys!
454
00:20:03,703 --> 00:20:05,956
- We can do it!
- There we go.
455
00:20:05,956 --> 00:20:08,041
[funky music plays]
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00:20:14,172 --> 00:20:15,924
♪ Five, four, three, two, one ♪
457
00:20:15,924 --> 00:20:17,092
♪ Ready or not ♪
458
00:20:17,092 --> 00:20:18,927
♪ Here I come ♪
459
00:20:20,220 --> 00:20:21,388
Get some pep in your step!
460
00:20:21,388 --> 00:20:22,681
- My bad!
- What's taking so long?
461
00:20:22,681 --> 00:20:23,765
We've got shopping to do.
462
00:20:26,309 --> 00:20:29,312
It's very clear
that these boys want each other's success,
463
00:20:29,312 --> 00:20:33,066
so I want to teach them
how to give advice to each other
464
00:20:33,066 --> 00:20:35,235
and how they can look more mature.
465
00:20:35,235 --> 00:20:38,238
I know this might seem just like a mixer
at the end of this week.
466
00:20:38,905 --> 00:20:43,243
These men are mostly professionals, right?
This is a massive networking opportunity.
467
00:20:43,243 --> 00:20:45,912
I wanna make sure
they don't just think, "They're kids."
468
00:20:45,912 --> 00:20:48,581
"They haven't found themselves."
I want them to know you are ready.
469
00:20:48,581 --> 00:20:49,958
You're taking yourself seriously,
470
00:20:49,958 --> 00:20:52,794
and you're looking for support
going forward.
471
00:20:52,794 --> 00:20:56,423
When you are going to really connect
with people who could change your life,
472
00:20:56,423 --> 00:20:58,091
you're gonna dress appropriately.
473
00:20:58,091 --> 00:20:59,134
- Yes?
- Yes.
474
00:20:59,134 --> 00:21:03,263
Okay. We're gonna play a game
where you can ransack the store.
475
00:21:03,263 --> 00:21:06,558
You are going to choose what you think
is appropriate for this event.
476
00:21:07,142 --> 00:21:10,520
Express has so many options
that are gonna work well for you.
477
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,731
I want you to go for business casual.
478
00:21:12,731 --> 00:21:15,650
So, for example, you wanted
to ordinarily wear a T-shirt.
479
00:21:15,650 --> 00:21:18,278
Could you wear a polo instead?
A button-up instead?
480
00:21:18,278 --> 00:21:22,115
If you're gonna wear a sneaker,
could you wear a shoe or a boot instead?
481
00:21:22,115 --> 00:21:23,950
You're going to shop for five minutes.
482
00:21:23,950 --> 00:21:26,411
Choose whatever you want
based on what I've told you.
483
00:21:26,411 --> 00:21:30,498
We're also going to rate
who does the best job.
484
00:21:30,498 --> 00:21:31,916
- Oh no.
- All right.
485
00:21:31,916 --> 00:21:32,917
All right.
486
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:35,628
Five minutes. Let's go!
487
00:21:35,628 --> 00:21:37,297
[upbeat music plays]
488
00:21:38,131 --> 00:21:39,299
♪ Hey, hey ♪
489
00:21:39,299 --> 00:21:41,926
Look at them saunter
as if it's not five minutes.
490
00:21:42,886 --> 00:21:44,679
Move, man! Move your ass!
491
00:21:45,388 --> 00:21:46,639
Pink would pop, yeah.
492
00:21:46,639 --> 00:21:48,725
{\an8}I actually like those pants.
That isn't bad.
493
00:21:48,725 --> 00:21:50,852
{\an8}But I can't tell if that coordinates.
494
00:21:50,852 --> 00:21:53,021
{\an8}- I'm colorblind as shit.
- Okay, I'll help you.
495
00:21:53,021 --> 00:21:55,315
What do you think it's gonna say?
496
00:21:55,315 --> 00:21:56,983
- Will you be memorable?
- Yes.
497
00:21:57,942 --> 00:21:58,943
Good question to ask.
498
00:21:58,943 --> 00:22:00,195
Is this green?
499
00:22:00,195 --> 00:22:05,408
That is, like... It's like gray,
but, like, it's got a little bit of green.
500
00:22:05,408 --> 00:22:07,077
Medium? There we go.
501
00:22:07,077 --> 00:22:08,203
Lord, so many choices.
502
00:22:08,203 --> 00:22:11,956
I love that you're looking for accessories
in the women's wear department. Yes!
503
00:22:11,956 --> 00:22:13,583
Women's pants are better too.
504
00:22:13,583 --> 00:22:14,793
They sure are.
505
00:22:15,377 --> 00:22:17,712
All right, kids! That's a ten, nine,
506
00:22:17,712 --> 00:22:19,756
eight, seven,
507
00:22:19,756 --> 00:22:21,508
six, five,
508
00:22:21,508 --> 00:22:23,093
four, three,
509
00:22:23,093 --> 00:22:25,178
two, done!
510
00:22:25,678 --> 00:22:26,679
Boys, you ready?
511
00:22:28,014 --> 00:22:28,848
- Yep.
- Yep.
512
00:22:28,848 --> 00:22:31,017
Oh my! Oh my! Oh my!
513
00:22:31,017 --> 00:22:33,228
Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow!
514
00:22:34,270 --> 00:22:36,689
All right, everyone,
there's a whiteboard for all of you.
515
00:22:36,689 --> 00:22:38,942
One by one, you're gonna stand here.
516
00:22:38,942 --> 00:22:41,528
We're gonna write down a score
between one to five.
517
00:22:42,237 --> 00:22:43,613
- Sound good?
- Mm-hmm.
518
00:22:43,613 --> 00:22:44,906
All right.
519
00:22:47,283 --> 00:22:49,744
- A bold one!
- This is how you make a five, guys.
520
00:22:52,705 --> 00:22:53,706
Hit it!
521
00:22:53,706 --> 00:22:54,666
We got a five.
522
00:22:54,666 --> 00:22:55,708
[Tan] Ooh!
523
00:22:55,708 --> 00:22:56,751
- Five.
- [Tan] Wow.
524
00:22:57,335 --> 00:22:58,545
{\an8}- Next.
- I gave him a five.
525
00:22:58,545 --> 00:23:00,630
{\an8}- You broke my scale.
- That's what that means?
526
00:23:00,630 --> 00:23:01,714
- [Josh J] Yeah.
- [gasps]
527
00:23:01,714 --> 00:23:03,133
Boys. Rate him.
528
00:23:03,883 --> 00:23:06,302
- I didn't know you guys were so close.
- [laughs]
529
00:23:06,970 --> 00:23:09,264
{\an8}The shirt really gives off
either dad vibes
530
00:23:09,264 --> 00:23:11,474
or, like, Chechnyan gangster vibe.
531
00:23:11,474 --> 00:23:13,560
[Tan laughs]
532
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:14,769
That's very specific!
533
00:23:14,769 --> 00:23:17,147
You can see they are brothers.
They know each other well.
534
00:23:17,147 --> 00:23:18,148
Okay, next.
535
00:23:18,982 --> 00:23:22,402
Hopefully that will give them
the permission to be a lot more honest.
536
00:23:22,402 --> 00:23:24,863
I don't wanna be too nice,
but I don't wanna be too mean.
537
00:23:24,863 --> 00:23:26,906
You be whatever you wanna be.
538
00:23:26,906 --> 00:23:29,242
If it's mean, it's mean.
If it's nice, it's nice.
539
00:23:30,034 --> 00:23:32,745
- I'm sorry! [laughs]
- Oh no!
540
00:23:32,745 --> 00:23:35,748
But the chain
is, like, too thick for your neck.
541
00:23:35,748 --> 00:23:37,792
{\an8}You look like you'd be on Soul Train.
542
00:23:37,792 --> 00:23:39,252
[laughs]
543
00:23:43,465 --> 00:23:46,217
I'm giving you a five
'cause this just screams Cooper.
544
00:23:46,217 --> 00:23:47,385
Wow!
545
00:23:47,385 --> 00:23:50,805
I did a five, too, 'cause I honestly
wasn't expecting any of it.
546
00:23:50,805 --> 00:23:52,557
- Um...
- [Tan laughs]
547
00:23:52,557 --> 00:23:55,018
You gave him five
'cause you're shocked that he did so well?
548
00:23:55,018 --> 00:23:56,519
- [Demario] Yeah.
- [laughs]
549
00:23:56,519 --> 00:23:58,897
- Marco.
- [Josh A] Four.
550
00:23:58,897 --> 00:24:02,692
I feel like you look better when you wear
something that's, like, "pop."
551
00:24:02,692 --> 00:24:04,319
- Four.
- [gasps]
552
00:24:04,319 --> 00:24:05,487
Five.
553
00:24:05,487 --> 00:24:06,529
Why a five?
554
00:24:06,529 --> 00:24:08,948
I also like,
like, neutral-color-type stuff.
555
00:24:08,948 --> 00:24:10,992
[Tan] I'm flabbergasted.
556
00:24:10,992 --> 00:24:14,704
I was expecting to be so disappointed
in what they might choose.
557
00:24:14,704 --> 00:24:15,622
Next, please.
558
00:24:15,622 --> 00:24:21,294
However, almost everyone is so close
to being great with their outfits.
559
00:24:21,294 --> 00:24:23,046
Can I make a couple of tweaks?
560
00:24:23,046 --> 00:24:24,839
- Sure, whatever you think, man.
- Okay.
561
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:29,052
- Collar.
- Just to make it look a little chicer.
562
00:24:29,969 --> 00:24:32,764
The shades, you don't need.
The necklace, you don't need.
563
00:24:34,390 --> 00:24:35,391
The two is now a 3.5.
564
00:24:35,391 --> 00:24:36,643
- That's a four.
- That helps.
565
00:24:36,643 --> 00:24:38,978
So the colors actually
work really well together.
566
00:24:38,978 --> 00:24:40,897
You've got a polka dot and a stripe.
567
00:24:40,897 --> 00:24:43,650
You've mixed two classic prints.
Works every time. Next!
568
00:24:43,650 --> 00:24:47,153
The shirt is extremely large for the pant.
569
00:24:47,153 --> 00:24:51,533
And then the brown of the shoe
is a little too dressed up for this look.
570
00:24:51,533 --> 00:24:55,161
If you changed the shoe and had
a looser pant, I'd be all about it.
571
00:24:55,161 --> 00:24:57,247
- You know what I'm gonna do.
- Belt?
572
00:24:57,247 --> 00:24:58,414
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
573
00:24:58,414 --> 00:25:00,166
[Tan] I don't love a belt to match a shoe,
574
00:25:00,166 --> 00:25:03,294
but it looks like you tried to match them,
and the colors are slightly off.
575
00:25:03,294 --> 00:25:04,712
I'm proud of all of them.
576
00:25:04,712 --> 00:25:07,173
It gives me hope
that they really do understand
577
00:25:07,173 --> 00:25:08,841
what this does for their self-esteem,
578
00:25:08,841 --> 00:25:11,928
what this does, potentially,
for networking, their careers,
579
00:25:11,928 --> 00:25:13,429
and how people perceive them.
580
00:25:13,429 --> 00:25:15,306
I really, really like it, Marco.
581
00:25:15,306 --> 00:25:19,269
{\an8}I'm gonna give you
a "Nailed it!" five out of five.
582
00:25:19,269 --> 00:25:21,354
- [beep] all y'all!
- [Tan] Yeah!
583
00:25:21,354 --> 00:25:22,814
[beep] all y'all. No.
584
00:25:23,731 --> 00:25:26,359
♪ No, it wouldn't be the first time
They doubted me ♪
585
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,070
♪ But also shattering expectations
I gotta be ♪
586
00:25:29,070 --> 00:25:30,905
♪ One step ahead at all times ♪
587
00:25:30,905 --> 00:25:34,284
♪ 'Cause I know my abilities
Are like a gold mine, yeah ♪
588
00:25:34,284 --> 00:25:36,202
♪ So I ain't got time for naysayers ♪
589
00:25:36,202 --> 00:25:39,205
♪ But they coming for my spot
I'm a game changer ♪
590
00:25:40,248 --> 00:25:42,625
[Antoni] We're gonna make
the most iconic sandwich of all.
591
00:25:42,625 --> 00:25:46,379
It's actually my personal favorite,
and it was born right here in New Orleans.
592
00:25:46,379 --> 00:25:48,006
Can anyone guess what it is?
593
00:25:48,006 --> 00:25:49,299
Muffuletta.
594
00:25:49,299 --> 00:25:52,635
- [Antoni] Have you had a muffuletta?
- [Josh A] It's my favorite.
595
00:25:52,635 --> 00:25:53,886
- Your favorite?
- [Josh A] Yes.
596
00:25:53,886 --> 00:25:56,180
- [Antoni] You ever made one?
- No. This is gonna be fun.
597
00:25:56,180 --> 00:25:58,600
This is now gonna be
a symbol for your fraternity,
598
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,102
for coming together,
for combining a bunch of ingredients
599
00:26:01,102 --> 00:26:02,687
and turning it into a muffuletta.
600
00:26:02,687 --> 00:26:03,855
A muffulambda.
601
00:26:04,439 --> 00:26:08,067
[Antoni] So basically it's cured meats
and then cheese,
602
00:26:08,067 --> 00:26:10,778
vegetables that are nice
and pickley and vinegary
603
00:26:11,362 --> 00:26:14,699
between one of these
perfectly beautiful sesame loaves.
604
00:26:14,699 --> 00:26:17,410
Grab your towels,
put them over your shoulder.
605
00:26:17,994 --> 00:26:20,121
We have a very long road
to get these young men
606
00:26:20,121 --> 00:26:21,706
to where they need to be,
607
00:26:21,706 --> 00:26:24,834
but one thing I'm very inspired by
is a sense of brotherhood.
608
00:26:24,834 --> 00:26:26,794
As a brotherhood,
they have a responsibility
609
00:26:26,794 --> 00:26:30,214
to lift each other up to be
the best versions of themselves possible.
610
00:26:30,214 --> 00:26:32,967
And these are college guys.
Who doesn't love a sandwich?
611
00:26:32,967 --> 00:26:36,054
So we have black kalamata olives.
612
00:26:36,054 --> 00:26:37,930
Green olives that have been pitted.
613
00:26:37,930 --> 00:26:41,059
Giardiniera.
It's pickled, so it's crunchy and acidic.
614
00:26:41,059 --> 00:26:44,896
Josh, you're the one with the most work
because you're literally a cook.
615
00:26:44,896 --> 00:26:47,357
You have some shallots
and some fresh garlic.
616
00:26:47,357 --> 00:26:49,984
I have some roasted red peppers,
chili flakes,
617
00:26:49,984 --> 00:26:52,111
parsley, not traditionally found.
618
00:26:52,111 --> 00:26:56,199
I love to add it 'cause it's super fresh,
and it adds a nice sharp pepperiness.
619
00:26:56,199 --> 00:26:59,035
Although the prosciutto
isn't going into the olive salad,
620
00:26:59,035 --> 00:27:00,328
we need it nicely chopped up
621
00:27:00,328 --> 00:27:03,373
'cause there's nothing worse
than having a big pull of prosciutto,
622
00:27:03,373 --> 00:27:06,125
and then it's just,
like, a complete chaotic mess.
623
00:27:06,125 --> 00:27:07,293
- Heard that.
- Right?
624
00:27:07,293 --> 00:27:09,420
Okay. How are your knife skills?
625
00:27:09,420 --> 00:27:10,463
Uh...
626
00:27:10,463 --> 00:27:11,464
We'll find out!
627
00:27:13,216 --> 00:27:15,510
I make eggs and bacon,
and that's literally it.
628
00:27:15,510 --> 00:27:17,220
[Antoni] Curl your fingers when cutting.
629
00:27:17,220 --> 00:27:19,681
That way, you're gonna prevent
from cutting off the tips.
630
00:27:19,681 --> 00:27:20,973
Look what Josh is doing.
631
00:27:20,973 --> 00:27:23,017
- [Josh J] Like this.
- That's great.
632
00:27:24,227 --> 00:27:27,980
What are you gonna miss about each other
when all this is done and you've moved on?
633
00:27:27,980 --> 00:27:31,150
[Josh A] The thing that I will miss
is the special award that we have
634
00:27:31,150 --> 00:27:32,443
called Freeman.
635
00:27:32,944 --> 00:27:34,779
And the Freeman award goes to the guy
636
00:27:34,779 --> 00:27:37,782
who does the stupidest thing
in the past week.
637
00:27:37,782 --> 00:27:41,202
Like walking into a window
while holding a platter of watermelon
638
00:27:41,202 --> 00:27:42,787
and wiping out on the watermelon?
639
00:27:42,787 --> 00:27:45,039
- Shitting your pants at the bar.
- Or eating a cigarette!
640
00:27:45,039 --> 00:27:47,125
- Or shitting your pants at the bar!
- Yeah.
641
00:27:47,125 --> 00:27:50,920
One of you mentioned it when we met,
just the idea of chosen family,
642
00:27:51,421 --> 00:27:56,092
and I always kind of just assumed as being
part of, like, the LGBTQIA+ environment
643
00:27:56,092 --> 00:28:00,763
that that's something that we own,
but I realize it isn't exclusive to us.
644
00:28:00,763 --> 00:28:03,558
And the fact that, like,
you actually made a decision
645
00:28:03,558 --> 00:28:06,394
to be in this thing together
makes it all the more important
646
00:28:06,394 --> 00:28:07,770
because it came out of choice.
647
00:28:07,770 --> 00:28:09,564
- [Ian] Home away from home.
- Yeah.
648
00:28:10,314 --> 00:28:13,651
[Antoni] Whenever you're done chopping up,
you can plop the ingredients one by one.
649
00:28:13,651 --> 00:28:15,194
Salt Bae that shit.
650
00:28:17,029 --> 00:28:18,906
I'm gonna grab olive oil.
651
00:28:18,906 --> 00:28:20,867
Yes, you get that garlic.
652
00:28:20,867 --> 00:28:25,204
You just add some of the brine
and then lemon juice and the oregano.
653
00:28:25,872 --> 00:28:27,290
Are we ready to assemble this?
654
00:28:27,290 --> 00:28:28,374
- [Ryan] Yeah!
- Okay.
655
00:28:28,374 --> 00:28:30,543
The messy part now. I'm gonna go ahead,
656
00:28:30,543 --> 00:28:33,337
and all this extra oil that's here
that has all the flavors
657
00:28:33,337 --> 00:28:37,383
and the brininess and the acid,
I'm just gonna drizzle some of this oil.
658
00:28:37,383 --> 00:28:40,011
If little bits fall in,
that's totally fine.
659
00:28:40,011 --> 00:28:42,764
And then, with the back end of the spoon,
660
00:28:42,764 --> 00:28:45,808
you wanna try to get
as much of the surface as possible.
661
00:28:45,808 --> 00:28:47,185
And then we're gonna assemble.
662
00:28:48,394 --> 00:28:50,980
So there are tons of sandwich rules.
663
00:28:50,980 --> 00:28:53,858
Lighter, less dense ingredients,
you want those on the top.
664
00:28:53,858 --> 00:28:58,029
You have your options here.
We can use the Genoa or the soppressata.
665
00:28:58,029 --> 00:29:00,114
And then we have Mortadella.
666
00:29:00,114 --> 00:29:02,158
Mortadella is fancy bologna.
667
00:29:02,158 --> 00:29:03,159
Bougie bologna.
668
00:29:03,159 --> 00:29:04,118
[laughs]
669
00:29:04,118 --> 00:29:05,536
The chopped prosciutto.
670
00:29:05,536 --> 00:29:07,997
A little bit goes a long way
with prosciutto.
671
00:29:07,997 --> 00:29:09,081
And then for cheese,
672
00:29:09,081 --> 00:29:11,751
we're gonna be doing provolone
and a little bit of mozzarella.
673
00:29:11,751 --> 00:29:14,587
Three slices should suffice.
674
00:29:14,587 --> 00:29:16,172
Now the olive salad.
675
00:29:16,172 --> 00:29:19,258
So I don't want too much of the liquid
to pour out on the side.
676
00:29:19,258 --> 00:29:21,511
Try to drain any of the excess oil.
677
00:29:21,511 --> 00:29:24,555
Shit's gonna get messy,
but that's fine 'cause so is life.
678
00:29:25,431 --> 00:29:26,974
So we take the top part of the bread.
679
00:29:27,558 --> 00:29:28,392
Oh bam!
680
00:29:28,392 --> 00:29:30,061
[Antoni] Press it down nicely.
681
00:29:30,061 --> 00:29:33,231
There's, like, two schools of thought.
Toasted or untoasted.
682
00:29:33,231 --> 00:29:34,232
[all] Toasted.
683
00:29:34,232 --> 00:29:35,775
We want toasted?
684
00:29:35,775 --> 00:29:38,110
- Any sandwich is better toasted.
- Okay.
685
00:29:38,611 --> 00:29:41,614
[Antoni] If you're gonna be asking people
to donate money and to help you
686
00:29:41,614 --> 00:29:46,035
and showing your alumni
what outstanding young gentlemen you are,
687
00:29:46,035 --> 00:29:47,203
you have to live that.
688
00:29:47,203 --> 00:29:49,372
You have to take pride
in everything that you do.
689
00:29:49,372 --> 00:29:51,666
[Antoni] Oh, it smells so good!
690
00:29:52,875 --> 00:29:55,294
[Ian] This might be the best thing
I ever did in my life.
691
00:29:55,294 --> 00:29:56,212
[Antoni] Wow.
692
00:29:56,212 --> 00:29:59,966
And if they do, I'm so confident
it'll come back tenfold.
693
00:29:59,966 --> 00:30:03,010
- [Antoni] Cheers!
- Happy muffulambda eating.
694
00:30:03,010 --> 00:30:03,970
[Antoni] Boom.
695
00:30:07,431 --> 00:30:08,391
[Ian] Oh hell yeah.
696
00:30:09,684 --> 00:30:10,810
Oh, this is gas.
697
00:30:10,810 --> 00:30:13,646
This is the best muffuletta
I've ever had in my entire life.
698
00:30:13,646 --> 00:30:16,065
- [Antoni] Damn good.
- We all did this, and it was done fast.
699
00:30:16,065 --> 00:30:19,110
Is this something you think you can make
at the end of the week
700
00:30:19,110 --> 00:30:20,486
when you have the alum come by?
701
00:30:20,486 --> 00:30:21,445
- I mean...
- Yeah.
702
00:30:21,445 --> 00:30:23,990
- [Antoni] Who's gonna lead the way?
- Josh.
703
00:30:23,990 --> 00:30:26,284
Yes! And you all are gonna support him?
704
00:30:26,284 --> 00:30:28,411
- [Demario] Of course.
- [Cooper] I got the olives.
705
00:30:32,331 --> 00:30:35,167
You can tell this fraternity
really means a lot to them,
706
00:30:35,167 --> 00:30:37,211
but they need to show that.
707
00:30:37,211 --> 00:30:41,799
So I wanna zhuzh it up
and make it look really sophisticated,
708
00:30:41,799 --> 00:30:45,136
like a frat house
that they can take pride in.
709
00:30:46,053 --> 00:30:48,055
[rock music plays]
710
00:30:48,806 --> 00:30:50,016
♪ Ball ♪
711
00:30:50,016 --> 00:30:52,518
♪ Throw me up against the wall ♪
712
00:30:52,518 --> 00:30:53,436
♪ When I stumble... ♪
713
00:30:53,436 --> 00:30:55,271
[Jonathan] Come on in, boys.
714
00:30:59,734 --> 00:31:01,485
Say hi to everyone.
715
00:31:01,485 --> 00:31:02,862
Take your seats, class.
716
00:31:02,862 --> 00:31:03,905
Come on in.
717
00:31:03,905 --> 00:31:05,656
Yes. Yes. Yes.
718
00:31:05,656 --> 00:31:07,992
Everybody, check their toxic masculinity
at the door.
719
00:31:07,992 --> 00:31:10,036
Okay, now jump on in, everybody.
720
00:31:10,536 --> 00:31:13,122
You get a makeover!
You get a makeover! You get a makeover!
721
00:31:13,122 --> 00:31:15,416
- Look how pretty your eyes are.
- Thank you.
722
00:31:15,416 --> 00:31:17,043
[Jonathan] Oh my God.
723
00:31:17,043 --> 00:31:20,838
Your beard is...
724
00:31:20,838 --> 00:31:22,590
I know it's really big.
725
00:31:22,590 --> 00:31:26,218
Yes. You're giving me, like,
"I escaped my Amish family,
726
00:31:26,218 --> 00:31:29,513
like, six months ago,
and I just started using electricity."
727
00:31:30,598 --> 00:31:32,433
I can't...
You know, you're too cute for this.
728
00:31:32,433 --> 00:31:33,809
I definitely wanna, like...
729
00:31:34,769 --> 00:31:35,770
- Trim it?
- Yeah.
730
00:31:35,770 --> 00:31:36,729
You see this part?
731
00:31:36,729 --> 00:31:38,898
Like, the shortest piece
that naturally grows
732
00:31:38,898 --> 00:31:41,901
dictates the longest
that your hair should be.
733
00:31:41,901 --> 00:31:44,487
I think you have
such a handsome face underneath this.
734
00:31:44,487 --> 00:31:46,614
I like how you have your beard.
735
00:31:46,614 --> 00:31:48,532
- You're willing to go down like this?
- Yeah.
736
00:31:49,116 --> 00:31:51,994
So, prettiest curls on the planet.
737
00:31:51,994 --> 00:31:54,372
Tell me about you.
What do you want with your life?
738
00:31:54,372 --> 00:31:56,499
- I'm a film major.
- A film major!
739
00:31:56,499 --> 00:31:59,085
You're giving artist.
You're giving, like, you know,
740
00:31:59,085 --> 00:32:01,253
"I march to the beat
of my own drummer, honey."
741
00:32:01,253 --> 00:32:04,423
- When's the last time you had a haircut?
- Uh, three and a half years ago.
742
00:32:04,423 --> 00:32:07,259
{\an8}I like having the long hair,
like, with the curls and stuff,
743
00:32:07,259 --> 00:32:09,470
{\an8}but it's just nicer
when it's, like, only, like...
744
00:32:09,470 --> 00:32:10,388
Oh shit.
745
00:32:10,388 --> 00:32:12,556
I kind of wanna get rid of this beard.
746
00:32:12,556 --> 00:32:14,850
Like a little très Harry Styles
in your life.
747
00:32:14,850 --> 00:32:16,852
[rock music plays]
748
00:32:18,813 --> 00:32:21,816
We're gonna do a big change on you.
The facial hair has got to go.
749
00:32:21,816 --> 00:32:23,567
Even the mustache?
750
00:32:23,567 --> 00:32:24,610
Girl, bye.
751
00:32:24,610 --> 00:32:25,611
Oh.
752
00:32:26,487 --> 00:32:28,614
Is dyeing an option?
I wanted to get blond tips.
753
00:32:28,614 --> 00:32:30,199
Do you wanna do some highlights?
754
00:32:30,199 --> 00:32:31,701
- Yeah.
- Okay. So much to do.
755
00:32:32,952 --> 00:32:34,078
That feels good!
756
00:32:35,079 --> 00:32:36,580
- Hey, Ian.
- [Ian] What's up, kitten?
757
00:32:36,580 --> 00:32:37,498
[laughs]
758
00:32:37,498 --> 00:32:40,334
[Jonathan] I imagine this is what
your guys' wedding days will be like.
759
00:32:40,334 --> 00:32:44,714
And you'll all be each other's best men?
Aw!
760
00:32:48,843 --> 00:32:50,302
[in English accent] Much better.
761
00:32:50,302 --> 00:32:52,013
- We're taking this off.
- [Josh A] Let's.
762
00:32:52,013 --> 00:32:53,639
- [Jonathan] Are we ready for this?
- Yeah!
763
00:32:53,639 --> 00:32:56,142
Okay. Three, two, one.
764
00:32:57,226 --> 00:32:58,436
[Josh A] Oh my God.
765
00:32:58,436 --> 00:33:00,980
[chuckles] Yeah, let's go.
766
00:33:00,980 --> 00:33:01,981
[Jonathan] Yes.
767
00:33:03,024 --> 00:33:05,818
I don't know what I look like,
but it feels a little funny.
768
00:33:05,818 --> 00:33:07,945
♪ Ain't no shame to style on 'em ♪
769
00:33:08,529 --> 00:33:09,405
♪ Hey, uh ♪
770
00:33:09,405 --> 00:33:12,158
- ♪ You know that I'm gonna shine on it ♪
- [humming]
771
00:33:12,158 --> 00:33:13,743
♪ I'm gonna shine on it... ♪
772
00:33:18,873 --> 00:33:20,458
[Ian] I feel much lighter already though.
773
00:33:20,458 --> 00:33:21,792
- [Jonathan] You do, right?
- Yeah.
774
00:33:22,835 --> 00:33:25,337
[Jonathan] Sexy! Everyone's looking sexy.
775
00:33:25,337 --> 00:33:27,298
♪ Ain't no shame to style on 'em... ♪
776
00:33:27,298 --> 00:33:28,632
Dreamy, bitch.
777
00:33:28,632 --> 00:33:29,675
Yes.
778
00:33:29,675 --> 00:33:32,928
♪ I'm gonna shine on it ♪
779
00:33:33,721 --> 00:33:35,431
[Jonathan]
Move your head upside down again.
780
00:33:36,015 --> 00:33:37,892
Yes, Jack Harlow.
781
00:33:37,892 --> 00:33:39,643
[Jonathan] We are just having so much fun.
782
00:33:39,643 --> 00:33:41,604
We are thriving.
We are spreading our wings.
783
00:33:41,604 --> 00:33:43,022
We are getting into big changes.
784
00:33:43,022 --> 00:33:45,107
- I'mma see you on a beach, Josh.
- [Josh J] Thanks.
785
00:33:45,107 --> 00:33:46,567
[Cooper] You could be on Baywatch.
786
00:33:46,567 --> 00:33:49,528
[Jonathan] I love you guys
giving each other compliments.
787
00:33:49,528 --> 00:33:51,238
You gotta show the homies love.
788
00:33:51,238 --> 00:33:54,408
[Jonathan] Look how sweet it is to just
see young people explore and have fun
789
00:33:54,408 --> 00:33:55,659
and look, nobody got hurt.
790
00:33:55,659 --> 00:33:57,078
They're adorable.
791
00:33:57,578 --> 00:34:00,998
Here's the new you
in three, in two, in one.
792
00:34:00,998 --> 00:34:02,500
Oh, I like it.
793
00:34:02,500 --> 00:34:05,252
Movie beauty montage!
794
00:34:08,089 --> 00:34:10,674
- And there you are.
- Oh hell yeah.
795
00:34:10,674 --> 00:34:12,426
♪ Baby, I'm a bombshell ♪
796
00:34:12,426 --> 00:34:14,887
- Thanks for trusting us with your hair.
- [Ian] I needed it.
797
00:34:14,887 --> 00:34:17,181
- [Jonathan] You look great.
- I trust the professionals.
798
00:34:17,181 --> 00:34:18,766
♪ Bombs away... ♪
799
00:34:19,683 --> 00:34:21,393
Oh snap. This is new.
800
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:26,023
- I dig it.
- Right?
801
00:34:26,732 --> 00:34:29,026
♪ Too hot to handle ♪
802
00:34:29,026 --> 00:34:30,027
♪ Oh... ♪
803
00:34:30,027 --> 00:34:31,028
Oh shit.
804
00:34:34,657 --> 00:34:36,367
- Yeah, that looks nice.
- Right?
805
00:34:36,367 --> 00:34:38,994
Three, two, one.
806
00:34:38,994 --> 00:34:40,079
Whoa!
807
00:34:40,079 --> 00:34:40,996
Holy shit.
808
00:34:40,996 --> 00:34:42,081
That's so different.
809
00:34:42,081 --> 00:34:44,375
- [Jonathan] Right?
- I like it though. Yeah, this is good.
810
00:34:47,461 --> 00:34:49,630
Boys! We are looking what?
811
00:34:49,630 --> 00:34:51,298
[all] Gorgeous!
812
00:34:51,298 --> 00:34:53,342
[Jonathan] And we love it!
813
00:34:53,342 --> 00:34:55,427
[acoustic guitar music plays]
814
00:35:03,477 --> 00:35:05,521
[Cooper]
♪ Campfire ladies, sing your song ♪
815
00:35:05,521 --> 00:35:06,564
♪ Doo da ♪
816
00:35:06,564 --> 00:35:07,523
[Josh A] ♪ Doo da ♪
817
00:35:07,523 --> 00:35:09,692
- Y'all picked a nice spot.
- [Karamo] Nice out here.
818
00:35:09,692 --> 00:35:12,236
- I've never came here.
- [Karamo] Know how to start a fire?
819
00:35:12,236 --> 00:35:13,863
[Cooper] Yeah, I grew up camping.
820
00:35:13,863 --> 00:35:17,658
[Karamo] I'm not an outdoorsy type of guy.
Y'all about to show me something.
821
00:35:17,658 --> 00:35:18,993
Cooper knows what he's doing.
822
00:35:18,993 --> 00:35:21,579
[Karamo] It is clear to me
that these boys are lost.
823
00:35:21,579 --> 00:35:23,122
They need some guidance.
824
00:35:23,122 --> 00:35:25,833
They need to understand
how to express what they're feeling
825
00:35:25,833 --> 00:35:27,835
so that they can start growing together.
826
00:35:27,835 --> 00:35:30,838
What have y'all been
taught about what it means to be a man?
827
00:35:30,838 --> 00:35:33,924
Just taking care
of, like, a family, for sure.
828
00:35:33,924 --> 00:35:36,302
And make sure
you're financially stable as well
829
00:35:36,302 --> 00:35:39,138
'cause being able to be reliable
is one of the big things I hear about
830
00:35:39,138 --> 00:35:40,681
as far as becoming a man.
831
00:35:40,681 --> 00:35:43,559
Well, it's funny,
not once did you say yourself.
832
00:35:44,059 --> 00:35:44,894
Uh, yeah.
833
00:35:44,894 --> 00:35:47,021
That's the way our culture teaches men.
834
00:35:47,021 --> 00:35:49,857
You take care of everything else,
and that's your value.
835
00:35:49,857 --> 00:35:52,651
Even though some might say,
"Make sure you're good as well,"
836
00:35:52,651 --> 00:35:54,570
no one teaches you how to be good.
837
00:35:54,570 --> 00:35:56,405
And a lot of what it is
to be good is, like,
838
00:35:57,114 --> 00:36:00,743
checking in on, like, how you're feeling.
Those things affect your mental health.
839
00:36:00,743 --> 00:36:02,203
How often do you offer support
840
00:36:02,203 --> 00:36:04,288
and have a chance
to come together and talk?
841
00:36:04,288 --> 00:36:07,750
I feel like with guys especially,
it's just instilled into us.
842
00:36:07,750 --> 00:36:09,793
You don't say nothing until somebody asks.
843
00:36:09,793 --> 00:36:12,338
Sometimes it's hard
to express myself and, like,
844
00:36:14,006 --> 00:36:15,758
find a chance to, really.
845
00:36:15,758 --> 00:36:17,551
So, hold on, do y'all ask about him?
846
00:36:17,551 --> 00:36:19,553
I don't do it enough. I'm his big brother.
847
00:36:19,553 --> 00:36:21,263
Y'all wanna ask him a question?
848
00:36:21,263 --> 00:36:22,681
[Marco] What be going on with you?
849
00:36:22,681 --> 00:36:24,683
On a daily basis,
what be going through your head?
850
00:36:24,683 --> 00:36:26,393
There's just, like, a lot going on
851
00:36:26,894 --> 00:36:29,939
'cause, like, over the summer,
I've been working two internships,
852
00:36:29,939 --> 00:36:32,358
and I've been having
the two summer classes,
853
00:36:32,358 --> 00:36:34,485
all while, like, taking the bus and...
854
00:36:35,152 --> 00:36:37,488
A lot of financial things all going on.
855
00:36:37,488 --> 00:36:38,530
[Karamo] Like what?
856
00:36:39,198 --> 00:36:41,033
Keep it coming, Demario. Keep it coming.
857
00:36:41,033 --> 00:36:41,951
Trying to, like...
858
00:36:42,826 --> 00:36:44,954
[voice breaking]
It's pretty much self-improvement.
859
00:36:45,579 --> 00:36:46,789
That's what I'm trying to do.
860
00:36:46,789 --> 00:36:48,624
[Karamo]
There's a lot going on in your life.
861
00:36:50,834 --> 00:36:52,461
You're feeling the stress of the world.
862
00:36:52,962 --> 00:36:54,713
[Demario]
I'm trying to figure everything out.
863
00:36:56,590 --> 00:36:58,801
You feel you're losing that battle
of figuring things out?
864
00:36:58,801 --> 00:36:59,927
[Demario] There's setbacks.
865
00:37:01,011 --> 00:37:04,431
There's a point where I got a car,
and then I crashed it the second day.
866
00:37:06,183 --> 00:37:09,186
Then it's back to no car again
and taking the bus everywhere.
867
00:37:10,980 --> 00:37:11,814
[sighs]
868
00:37:15,776 --> 00:37:18,821
[Ryan] Every time we see Demario,
there's a smile on his face.
869
00:37:18,821 --> 00:37:22,032
You wouldn't even know
that he was going through that stuff.
870
00:37:22,032 --> 00:37:25,244
He comes around
and brightens up the room, and I love it.
871
00:37:25,244 --> 00:37:26,287
I love you,
872
00:37:26,287 --> 00:37:29,456
and I didn't even know
you was going through that.
873
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,876
And shame on me for not asking too.
874
00:37:33,669 --> 00:37:36,297
I definitely see the need
to talk about it more to you all.
875
00:37:36,297 --> 00:37:37,840
And I will do so.
876
00:37:40,426 --> 00:37:43,304
As men, you're taught
to hold it all on your shoulders,
877
00:37:43,304 --> 00:37:44,221
figure it all out,
878
00:37:45,180 --> 00:37:48,809
but then you hold everything inside,
and it just starts to eat away at you.
879
00:37:50,019 --> 00:37:52,980
[Cooper] We've all had nights
where we've been sitting with each other,
880
00:37:52,980 --> 00:37:57,109
we just start breaking down in our laps,
while the others try to help comfort us.
881
00:37:57,109 --> 00:38:00,863
I gotta tell you, it should never
get to the place where you break down.
882
00:38:00,863 --> 00:38:02,281
It's like, hold it in,
883
00:38:02,281 --> 00:38:05,034
and one day
the emotions just get the best of you,
884
00:38:05,034 --> 00:38:06,785
and it just explodes.
885
00:38:06,785 --> 00:38:10,080
This conversation has definitely
made me think more about my position
886
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,583
'cause my position
is literally brotherhood chair,
887
00:38:12,583 --> 00:38:14,626
so, like, I feel like I've kind of...
888
00:38:14,626 --> 00:38:15,711
Not, like...
889
00:38:15,711 --> 00:38:16,920
Kind of failed everyone,
890
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,089
not, like, checking up
on everyone and stuff.
891
00:38:21,717 --> 00:38:22,551
You're good.
892
00:38:22,551 --> 00:38:24,261
[Karamo] What's causing the emotion?
893
00:38:25,804 --> 00:38:29,266
I just hate to see my...
all my friends like this, man.
894
00:38:29,266 --> 00:38:30,392
Like, I don't know.
895
00:38:33,979 --> 00:38:36,648
Plus, like, I deal with my own stuff, too,
896
00:38:36,648 --> 00:38:39,943
so, like, I don't feel like
I've really ever opened up to anyone.
897
00:38:40,444 --> 00:38:42,988
Why have you been unsure about opening up?
898
00:38:42,988 --> 00:38:46,075
I get anxiety,
like, just thinking about bringing it up.
899
00:38:46,075 --> 00:38:48,911
I really don't even know
what I'm feeling half the time.
900
00:38:49,995 --> 00:38:51,955
'Cause most people don't know the emotion.
901
00:38:51,955 --> 00:38:54,625
[Ryan] That's what I was about to say.
In your head, it's gibberish,
902
00:38:54,625 --> 00:38:56,835
so how are you supposed to explain it
to somebody?
903
00:38:56,835 --> 00:38:59,254
But also just,
it's hard feeling comfortable
904
00:38:59,254 --> 00:39:00,964
for me putting it on someone else.
905
00:39:00,964 --> 00:39:02,841
We don't know where they're at.
906
00:39:02,841 --> 00:39:06,095
Like, and sometimes, if someone's
under, like, a crazy mental load,
907
00:39:06,095 --> 00:39:09,932
it is not the best time
to dump yours on them.
908
00:39:09,932 --> 00:39:13,977
And I guess it's just instilled in me
that, like, nobody can help me but me.
909
00:39:13,977 --> 00:39:17,231
Even whenever somebody's giving me advice
or I'm ranting to 'em,
910
00:39:17,231 --> 00:39:20,275
it's pissing me off because you don't know
what I'm going through.
911
00:39:20,275 --> 00:39:23,946
You don't know this exact situation.
It all just boils, boils, boils,
912
00:39:23,946 --> 00:39:25,948
and then it gets to the point
where I just...
913
00:39:25,948 --> 00:39:28,075
I either shut down completely or I just...
914
00:39:28,575 --> 00:39:30,577
Yeah, I just shut down completely.
915
00:39:31,870 --> 00:39:33,372
[Karamo] You're not alone in that.
916
00:39:33,372 --> 00:39:36,542
As men, we're taught
that you have to solve the problem.
917
00:39:36,542 --> 00:39:41,296
But what we know about emotions
is that when you're in a safe place,
918
00:39:41,296 --> 00:39:43,340
someone doesn't
have to solve your problems.
919
00:39:43,924 --> 00:39:47,428
In these moments where you're feeling
like, "I don't even know what to say."
920
00:39:47,428 --> 00:39:50,931
"I don't wanna put it on somebody else.
I don't wanna bother them,"
921
00:39:50,931 --> 00:39:53,267
it's, "Hey, can we come together?"
922
00:39:54,017 --> 00:39:58,480
"And I might just gibber for a bit,
but I don't need y'all to solve that."
923
00:39:58,981 --> 00:40:01,775
It's okay for men
just to be able to express their emotions
924
00:40:01,775 --> 00:40:03,777
without another man
feeling they have to solve it.
925
00:40:03,777 --> 00:40:06,029
Because the thing is
that I see all of y'all.
926
00:40:06,029 --> 00:40:08,615
You have not stopped
having tears come down your eyes.
927
00:40:09,700 --> 00:40:13,620
I see the stress in your eyes. You've been
playing with sticks this entire time.
928
00:40:13,620 --> 00:40:16,290
Yeah. [laughs]
929
00:40:16,290 --> 00:40:19,751
All of this is what the pent-up
of, like, what wants to come out,
930
00:40:20,627 --> 00:40:22,796
but y'all are, like, not letting it out.
931
00:40:22,796 --> 00:40:26,383
And my brother right here in the middle,
when people do this,
932
00:40:27,551 --> 00:40:29,470
it's because they're holding it even more.
933
00:40:29,470 --> 00:40:31,805
But I need you to know
you gotta let it out,
934
00:40:31,805 --> 00:40:34,975
and I don't know what it is,
and you might not even know what it is.
935
00:40:35,517 --> 00:40:37,311
Exactly. I don't know what it is.
936
00:40:37,311 --> 00:40:39,605
Y'all gotta be able
to talk about these things.
937
00:40:39,605 --> 00:40:42,357
It's coming out a lot now
because this has never happened.
938
00:40:42,357 --> 00:40:44,443
You have to be able
to listen to each other more.
939
00:40:44,443 --> 00:40:46,987
This is a step in brotherhood,
of coming together,
940
00:40:46,987 --> 00:40:49,281
and of y'all growing
and becoming better men.
941
00:40:51,450 --> 00:40:53,452
If someone would've had this for me at 21,
942
00:40:53,452 --> 00:40:55,162
Jesus! Hoo!
943
00:40:55,662 --> 00:40:58,207
Some of the pressure I was feeling,
things I was going through,
944
00:40:58,207 --> 00:41:00,584
some of them mistakes I made,
I wouldn't have made.
945
00:41:00,584 --> 00:41:03,462
But y'all have an opportunity
to be there for each other.
946
00:41:05,172 --> 00:41:08,050
This is what it is to be a man.
It's taking care of yourself.
947
00:41:09,259 --> 00:41:11,637
The more it festers on the inside,
the worse it gets.
948
00:41:11,637 --> 00:41:14,932
You're right.
I've never experienced a moment like this.
949
00:41:14,932 --> 00:41:16,141
[Cooper] Yeah. For real.
950
00:41:16,141 --> 00:41:19,436
I've never cried in front of someone
about my problems before.
951
00:41:19,436 --> 00:41:21,688
Y'all have done a great job with this.
952
00:41:21,688 --> 00:41:23,774
It is the hardest thing,
953
00:41:23,774 --> 00:41:27,152
for men, but especially younger men,
to do what y'all did today.
954
00:41:27,152 --> 00:41:29,821
Y'all have no idea
how ahead of the curve y'all are.
955
00:41:30,322 --> 00:41:32,950
I need y'all to get up,
be there for each other right now.
956
00:41:32,950 --> 00:41:34,368
Shake it off now. [chuckles]
957
00:41:34,368 --> 00:41:35,369
[Demario] My man, Coop.
958
00:41:35,369 --> 00:41:36,912
- Bro.
- Brother.
959
00:41:38,956 --> 00:41:41,083
- [Karamo] I got you, chief.
- [Josh J] Come talk to me.
960
00:41:41,750 --> 00:41:44,753
I apologize in case I made it seem...
961
00:41:44,753 --> 00:41:46,171
[Cooper] Come here, Demario.
962
00:41:46,171 --> 00:41:48,632
[Ryan] Whatever you need,
bro, you can talk to me.
963
00:41:48,632 --> 00:41:50,300
- Appreciate that.
- [Ryan] I love you, man.
964
00:41:52,386 --> 00:41:55,514
You are my best friends.
I don't know where I'd be without all you.
965
00:41:56,181 --> 00:41:57,015
[Demario] It's crazy.
966
00:41:57,015 --> 00:41:59,518
[Cooper] This has been
the, like, wildest weekend of my life.
967
00:41:59,518 --> 00:42:01,186
- [Ian] Right?
- [Karamo laughs]
968
00:42:01,186 --> 00:42:03,272
[energetic rock music plays]
969
00:42:11,238 --> 00:42:13,699
♪ Ooh, oh, ooh , oh ♪
970
00:42:13,699 --> 00:42:19,079
♪ Ooh, oh, ooh, oh, ooh, oh ♪
971
00:42:19,079 --> 00:42:22,124
[Fab Five] Yay!
972
00:42:22,124 --> 00:42:23,584
Aw.
973
00:42:23,584 --> 00:42:25,168
- Hey!
- [Antoni] Ah!
974
00:42:25,168 --> 00:42:28,130
- [Jonathan] You guys look so good!
- [Karamo] They look so handsome.
975
00:42:28,130 --> 00:42:30,007
[Tan] Barely recognize them.
976
00:42:30,007 --> 00:42:33,010
- Are you guys ready to see your house?
- Yes.
977
00:42:33,010 --> 00:42:34,469
[Bobby] All right.
978
00:42:34,469 --> 00:42:37,055
- Oh sh... What the [beep]?!
- Holy...
979
00:42:37,681 --> 00:42:39,725
- [Josh J] Oh my goodness.
- [Ryan laughs]
980
00:42:41,268 --> 00:42:42,477
[Josh A] Son. What?
981
00:42:44,646 --> 00:42:46,315
[Cooper] This ain't the same house.
982
00:42:46,315 --> 00:42:48,233
[Josh A] Oh my God.
983
00:42:48,233 --> 00:42:49,943
[Josh J] This is so cool.
984
00:42:50,527 --> 00:42:51,486
[Demario] Book club!
985
00:42:51,486 --> 00:42:53,780
- [Ian] This is insane.
- That's beautiful.
986
00:42:54,948 --> 00:42:56,742
This is like a whole different world.
987
00:42:57,534 --> 00:43:00,329
[Bobby] New gaming area or theater room.
988
00:43:00,329 --> 00:43:02,623
[Jonathan] That's theater seating, y'all.
989
00:43:02,623 --> 00:43:03,790
- Dude.
- Oh my God.
990
00:43:03,790 --> 00:43:06,918
- [Marco] Bro, look at the popcorn machine.
- [Josh A] This is amazing.
991
00:43:06,918 --> 00:43:08,003
[Marco] Big-ass TV!
992
00:43:08,003 --> 00:43:10,255
[Ryan]
Talk about movies nights at the house.
993
00:43:10,255 --> 00:43:15,344
Ryan, are you shocked-happy, or are you
thinking of all the chores to assign?
994
00:43:15,344 --> 00:43:17,137
- Shocked-happy.
- [laughs]
995
00:43:17,137 --> 00:43:19,931
- I love it. This is great.
- [Josh A] This is insane.
996
00:43:19,931 --> 00:43:21,391
- Ready to see more?
- [all] Yes.
997
00:43:21,975 --> 00:43:24,519
- [Ryan] I don't even wanna step on it.
- Oh!
998
00:43:24,519 --> 00:43:25,604
[Demario] Yo.
999
00:43:25,604 --> 00:43:27,689
- [Ryan] Holy cow!
- [Demario] Yo.
1000
00:43:27,689 --> 00:43:29,358
[Marco] This is nuts, yo.
1001
00:43:29,358 --> 00:43:33,654
[Bobby] This is now an area
where you can actually eat, hang.
1002
00:43:33,654 --> 00:43:35,364
This is so fantastic.
1003
00:43:35,364 --> 00:43:37,532
- I love this table so much.
- [Cooper] Awesome.
1004
00:43:38,033 --> 00:43:40,285
All kinds of new appliances.
Coffee makers.
1005
00:43:40,285 --> 00:43:42,829
You guys can be
distinguished gentlemen now.
1006
00:43:42,829 --> 00:43:44,164
[Josh A] Espresso machine?
1007
00:43:44,164 --> 00:43:47,376
- [Marco] This is insane.
- This is amazing, man. This is so nice.
1008
00:43:47,376 --> 00:43:49,920
[Bobby] We got one more space
for you guys to see.
1009
00:43:51,755 --> 00:43:54,758
Oh my God.
1010
00:43:55,342 --> 00:43:56,385
[Cooper] No way!
1011
00:43:56,385 --> 00:43:59,680
[Bobby] So now this is the place
you guys can come out, play games.
1012
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:00,639
You can read.
1013
00:44:00,639 --> 00:44:04,851
This is the place to have a nice,
civilized game of chess or tic-tac-toe.
1014
00:44:05,435 --> 00:44:07,270
[Tan] It's so tastefully done, Bobby.
1015
00:44:07,270 --> 00:44:09,398
Oh, wow. I didn't even notice
the lighting until now.
1016
00:44:09,398 --> 00:44:11,858
The most exciting thing?
There's stuff to clean with!
1017
00:44:11,858 --> 00:44:13,443
[Bobby] Yes! Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1018
00:44:13,443 --> 00:44:15,737
You've got a whole cleaning station
over there.
1019
00:44:15,737 --> 00:44:18,281
You have no excuses.
1020
00:44:18,281 --> 00:44:19,491
Optimism!
1021
00:44:19,491 --> 00:44:22,285
What do you think the alumni will think
when they see this?
1022
00:44:22,285 --> 00:44:23,912
They're all gonna shit themselves.
1023
00:44:23,912 --> 00:44:25,205
[laughs]
1024
00:44:26,748 --> 00:44:29,084
Kitchen's a little different
than you last remember.
1025
00:44:29,084 --> 00:44:30,335
[Josh J] Yeah, just a little.
1026
00:44:30,335 --> 00:44:32,796
Like, have room
to, like, chop up stuff now.
1027
00:44:32,796 --> 00:44:34,005
- [Antoni] Yeah!
- It's awesome.
1028
00:44:34,005 --> 00:44:37,384
Speaking of chopping, I want you
to have a really good set of knives
1029
00:44:37,384 --> 00:44:38,802
to get you started.
1030
00:44:40,595 --> 00:44:42,514
So these are beautifully sharpened.
1031
00:44:42,514 --> 00:44:44,975
I understand how precious
knives are to a chef.
1032
00:44:44,975 --> 00:44:46,059
Gosh.
1033
00:44:46,059 --> 00:44:48,854
They're yours to practice with
and to hone in on your craft.
1034
00:44:48,854 --> 00:44:50,647
- Thank you so... This is awesome.
- Of course.
1035
00:44:50,647 --> 00:44:52,607
- You're very welcome.
- I love 'em.
1036
00:44:52,607 --> 00:44:54,943
You just made my heart melt.
Can I give you a hug?
1037
00:44:54,943 --> 00:44:55,944
Of course!
1038
00:44:56,987 --> 00:44:58,739
Boys, how you feeling about tonight?
1039
00:44:58,739 --> 00:45:01,241
I don't really see
how it could go wrong, honestly.
1040
00:45:01,241 --> 00:45:04,578
We are going to demolish
formal rush this year.
1041
00:45:04,578 --> 00:45:07,581
- [Ian] It's almost unfair at this point.
- Yeah, I mean, it kind of is.
1042
00:45:07,581 --> 00:45:09,499
[Tan]
I want you to have the unfair advantage,
1043
00:45:09,499 --> 00:45:12,919
so I have a new wardrobe
for every one of you
1044
00:45:12,919 --> 00:45:17,466
that will make sense for the future
that you want outside of these four walls.
1045
00:45:17,466 --> 00:45:19,426
- Yes? Yes?
- [all] Yes.
1046
00:45:19,426 --> 00:45:21,720
This couch makes me
wanna have some snacks.
1047
00:45:21,720 --> 00:45:23,263
- Like some Swedish Fish.
- [Tan] Kids?
1048
00:45:23,263 --> 00:45:24,723
- [all] Yeah?
- You ready to see 'em?
1049
00:45:24,723 --> 00:45:26,224
- Yeah!
- [Tan] Me too!
1050
00:45:26,224 --> 00:45:27,684
Come and show the boys.
1051
00:45:28,393 --> 00:45:31,188
- I like the little cuff at the bottom.
- Oh!
1052
00:45:31,188 --> 00:45:34,191
- [Karamo] Look at you!
- [Tan] Doesn't he look so handsome?
1053
00:45:34,191 --> 00:45:35,484
- [Antoni] Yeah.
- [Karamo] Yeah!
1054
00:45:35,484 --> 00:45:37,235
[Jonathan] Cute!
1055
00:45:37,235 --> 00:45:39,321
[cheering]
1056
00:45:39,321 --> 00:45:41,490
[Karamo] Yes! Yes! Boom!
1057
00:45:41,490 --> 00:45:42,491
Yes!
1058
00:45:42,491 --> 00:45:43,533
Swagged out.
1059
00:45:43,533 --> 00:45:45,327
Oh!
1060
00:45:45,327 --> 00:45:46,411
Yeah!
1061
00:45:46,411 --> 00:45:48,371
[Bobby] Love a print with a suit.
1062
00:45:48,371 --> 00:45:49,331
[cheering]
1063
00:45:49,331 --> 00:45:52,000
[Jonathan] Okay, you're really
giving me sexuality, honey.
1064
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,628
It's great.
Are they doing their swimsuit looks next?
1065
00:45:55,212 --> 00:45:56,087
[Bobby] Love this.
1066
00:45:56,087 --> 00:45:59,841
You are so cute, I can't stand it.
1067
00:45:59,841 --> 00:46:01,927
Look at your cute little fitted outfit.
1068
00:46:01,927 --> 00:46:03,053
[Josh A] Uh! Uh!
1069
00:46:03,053 --> 00:46:04,971
[Karamo] You're giving me BDE energy.
1070
00:46:04,971 --> 00:46:07,682
- [all cheering] Yeah!
- Yeah! Look at him!
1071
00:46:07,682 --> 00:46:10,310
[chanting] Cooper! Cooper! Cooper!
1072
00:46:10,310 --> 00:46:11,728
[Karamo] You look good!
1073
00:46:11,728 --> 00:46:12,687
Did...
1074
00:46:13,980 --> 00:46:17,275
Where did the fraternity boys go?
'Cause these are all models.
1075
00:46:17,275 --> 00:46:20,487
We have had a lot of fun
getting to know you guys,
1076
00:46:20,487 --> 00:46:23,323
and not only have you guys
cleaned up really well,
1077
00:46:23,323 --> 00:46:25,951
but I think
you've also learned a lot as well.
1078
00:46:25,951 --> 00:46:28,662
Not only on how to take pride
in the space that you live,
1079
00:46:28,662 --> 00:46:32,332
but also we took you guys
from boys to men this week.
1080
00:46:32,332 --> 00:46:34,334
Yes. You've been thoroughly yassified.
1081
00:46:34,334 --> 00:46:35,669
Yes.
1082
00:46:35,669 --> 00:46:39,422
You guys have something big tonight.
How are you feeling? Are you nervous?
1083
00:46:39,422 --> 00:46:40,757
I'm more prepared now.
1084
00:46:40,757 --> 00:46:43,593
- Less nervous than I was beforehand, so...
- [Marco] Yeah, for real.
1085
00:46:43,593 --> 00:46:45,220
You should be so proud of yourselves.
1086
00:46:45,220 --> 00:46:49,432
If this is what the future of men
look like for our nation,
1087
00:46:49,432 --> 00:46:51,685
I am very excited about where we're going.
1088
00:46:51,685 --> 00:46:53,854
I could not echo that more.
1089
00:46:53,854 --> 00:46:55,438
I was really scared about it.
1090
00:46:55,438 --> 00:46:58,859
I have not always had young men,
especially when I was your guys' age,
1091
00:46:58,859 --> 00:47:00,277
be, like, the kindest to me.
1092
00:47:00,277 --> 00:47:03,989
And this was a very healing experience,
and I just am very inspired by you guys,
1093
00:47:03,989 --> 00:47:05,532
and I'm very proud of you guys.
1094
00:47:05,532 --> 00:47:08,034
These past few days
have been very eye-opening
1095
00:47:08,034 --> 00:47:11,037
about how I take care of myself,
how I take care of my friends,
1096
00:47:11,037 --> 00:47:14,583
and I just wanna say thank you
from the bottom of my heart.
1097
00:47:14,583 --> 00:47:17,210
This changed my life.
Honestly, this changed my life.
1098
00:47:17,210 --> 00:47:19,754
This has been amazing. Amazing.
1099
00:47:19,754 --> 00:47:21,965
Thank you all so much. It has been great.
1100
00:47:22,465 --> 00:47:24,259
Like, it was truly magical.
1101
00:47:24,259 --> 00:47:27,679
[Ryan] Especially thank you
to the moment we all shared yesterday
1102
00:47:27,679 --> 00:47:29,681
and just you helping us along the way.
1103
00:47:29,681 --> 00:47:32,934
It's one of the reasons we're so strong.
It's 'cause we know we have each other.
1104
00:47:32,934 --> 00:47:35,562
Just keep being there for each other.
On that note...
1105
00:47:35,562 --> 00:47:38,565
- We gotta get out of here so you guys can...
- We're gonna miss you all!
1106
00:47:38,565 --> 00:47:41,234
...start entertaining in your new home.
Good luck tonight, guys.
1107
00:47:41,234 --> 00:47:42,402
- [Tan] Bye!
- Bye, guys.
1108
00:47:42,402 --> 00:47:43,695
- Bye!
- Bye, guys.
1109
00:47:43,695 --> 00:47:45,780
[upbeat music plays]
1110
00:48:01,129 --> 00:48:03,381
[Ryan] Everybody who's in there cooking,
knock it out.
1111
00:48:03,381 --> 00:48:06,384
Everybody else, let's try to get
this place up here looking straight.
1112
00:48:06,384 --> 00:48:10,055
We're about to bring some alumni in.
As many conversations as possible.
1113
00:48:10,055 --> 00:48:13,433
Meet as many guys as you can.
If you know 'em, say, "What's up?"
1114
00:48:13,433 --> 00:48:15,518
Go to the ones you don't know.
Let's get to work.
1115
00:48:19,689 --> 00:48:22,400
[Josh J] That looks beautiful.
Don't skimp on the olives.
1116
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:23,693
[Ryan] Hello. Welcome. Hello.
1117
00:48:23,693 --> 00:48:25,028
- How we doing?
- John Person.
1118
00:48:25,028 --> 00:48:27,197
John, I'm Ryan Parker.
It's nice to meet you.
1119
00:48:27,197 --> 00:48:30,784
Oh my God! Oh my God! [laughs]
1120
00:48:30,784 --> 00:48:32,827
Welcome to the newly designed house.
1121
00:48:32,827 --> 00:48:34,329
- [man] Yeah.
- Look at this room!
1122
00:48:34,329 --> 00:48:35,705
Hello, hello!
1123
00:48:35,705 --> 00:48:37,874
- Hello.
- Welcome to the new kitchen.
1124
00:48:37,874 --> 00:48:39,292
Y'all making these?
1125
00:48:39,292 --> 00:48:40,210
- All of 'em.
- Yeah.
1126
00:48:40,210 --> 00:48:41,795
This is not a fraternity house.
1127
00:48:41,795 --> 00:48:43,129
[laughing]
1128
00:48:43,129 --> 00:48:45,590
Gotta look great for the occasion.
I see you did too.
1129
00:48:46,716 --> 00:48:49,010
- [man] Why didn't we think of that?
- [laughs]
1130
00:48:49,010 --> 00:48:52,472
- [Ryan] Look right here.
- Oh, no! That's so funny.
1131
00:48:52,472 --> 00:48:55,725
Just wanted to ask
if there's anyone that you know,
1132
00:48:55,725 --> 00:48:59,020
or if you would be comfortable
with some kind of donation?
1133
00:48:59,020 --> 00:49:01,815
- Absolutely.
- Well, thank you. I really appreciate it.
1134
00:49:01,815 --> 00:49:04,693
I am so proud
of how far these boys have come.
1135
00:49:04,693 --> 00:49:07,195
[Jonathan] Watching these young people
step into this journey
1136
00:49:07,195 --> 00:49:08,822
with whole, full hearts,
1137
00:49:08,822 --> 00:49:10,073
asking questions,
1138
00:49:10,073 --> 00:49:11,449
supporting each other,
1139
00:49:11,449 --> 00:49:14,285
and also being kind to themselves
at the same time,
1140
00:49:14,285 --> 00:49:15,787
it's really heartwarming.
1141
00:49:15,787 --> 00:49:19,749
Because the true test of being a man
is how vulnerable you can be,
1142
00:49:19,749 --> 00:49:22,752
how loving you can be,
how understanding you can be.
1143
00:49:22,752 --> 00:49:26,339
[Tan] It is so hard
to find your chosen family,
1144
00:49:26,339 --> 00:49:28,133
and that is what they are to each other.
1145
00:49:28,133 --> 00:49:30,552
They're caring. They're loving.
They support each other.
1146
00:49:30,552 --> 00:49:34,097
They have each other to rely on,
so they can share their fears,
1147
00:49:34,097 --> 00:49:36,391
their anxieties,
their hopes for the future.
1148
00:49:36,391 --> 00:49:38,560
Because your brothers can teach you.
1149
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:40,812
That's what it is. Each one teach one.
1150
00:49:40,812 --> 00:49:42,022
And here we go.
1151
00:49:42,022 --> 00:49:43,523
The cycle continues.
1152
00:49:43,523 --> 00:49:46,026
Cheers to Lambda Alpha, everybody!
1153
00:49:46,026 --> 00:49:47,944
- Come on now! Yeah!
- Lambda Alpha!
1154
00:49:47,944 --> 00:49:48,903
Cheers!
1155
00:49:48,903 --> 00:49:50,989
[rock music plays]
1156
00:49:53,408 --> 00:49:56,453
You only have one chance
to make a good first impression.
1157
00:49:56,453 --> 00:49:58,246
And it starts with the right handshake.
1158
00:49:58,246 --> 00:50:01,541
Lock eyes, lock hands,
two to three shakes.
1159
00:50:01,541 --> 00:50:03,543
- Not too hard.
- Ah!
1160
00:50:03,543 --> 00:50:04,878
Not too soft.
1161
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:06,755
Just right.
1162
00:50:06,755 --> 00:50:08,798
It's a greeting, not a competition.
1163
00:50:08,798 --> 00:50:10,800
[chimes tinkling]
1164
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:13,261
- [beep]
- I don't want anyone saying I'm dramatic.
1165
00:50:13,261 --> 00:50:16,473
No! No!
1166
00:50:16,473 --> 00:50:19,726
I [beep] hate dirty [beep] fingernails!
1167
00:50:19,726 --> 00:50:21,728
{\an8}We shouldn't be on here telling lies.
1168
00:50:21,728 --> 00:50:23,563
{\an8}Not all things keep getting better.
1169
00:50:23,563 --> 00:50:25,315
{\an8}Tanny!
1170
00:50:25,315 --> 00:50:28,568
{\an8}- Some things progressively get worse!
- I was gonna say.
1171
00:50:28,568 --> 00:50:30,153
♪ Way too much fun ♪
1172
00:50:30,153 --> 00:50:31,071
♪ Party's on ♪
1173
00:50:31,071 --> 00:50:32,572
♪ Just keeps getting better ♪
1174
00:50:33,198 --> 00:50:34,741
- [beep]
- We'll make muffulettas.
1175
00:50:34,741 --> 00:50:36,159
[laughing]
1176
00:50:36,159 --> 00:50:37,202
Muffulettas.
1177
00:50:37,202 --> 00:50:39,079
I'm crying! [laughing]
1178
00:50:39,079 --> 00:50:40,163
Muffulettas.
1179
00:50:40,997 --> 00:50:42,582
- Nailing it!
- Yeah, you got this.
1180
00:50:42,582 --> 00:50:44,834
- [laughs]
- What the [beep] is happening?
1181
00:50:44,834 --> 00:50:45,960
- Muffs.
- [beeps]
1182
00:50:50,298 --> 00:50:52,133
Oh, uh... [mumbles]
1183
00:50:52,133 --> 00:50:53,134
[laughs]
1184
00:50:53,134 --> 00:50:56,846
I don't know if I would've been willing
to take on these seven boys in a fight.
1185
00:50:56,846 --> 00:50:59,974
I think I have about five more minutes
till I lose consciousness.
1186
00:50:59,974 --> 00:51:01,601
[laughing]
1187
00:51:01,601 --> 00:51:04,395
Or, actually, JK.
I would totally take them on in a fight.
1188
00:51:08,691 --> 00:51:10,902
I mean, Karamo always seemed old.
1189
00:51:10,902 --> 00:51:13,446
Back in my day,
it was called raising the roof. Hey!
1190
00:51:13,446 --> 00:51:15,031
He seems really old today.
1191
00:51:15,031 --> 00:51:16,741
We are six months apart!
1192
00:51:16,741 --> 00:51:19,494
You ain't that much younger, Bobby!
You old too!
1193
00:51:19,494 --> 00:51:20,662
[laughing]
1194
00:51:20,662 --> 00:51:21,871
You're a dick!
1195
00:51:23,081 --> 00:51:25,250
♪ I feel like getting a little ♪
1196
00:51:25,250 --> 00:51:26,584
♪ Crazy ♪
1197
00:51:27,085 --> 00:51:28,711
[laughing] Stop!
1198
00:51:28,711 --> 00:51:30,505
[laughing]
1199
00:51:30,505 --> 00:51:33,133
I'm done. It's fine. I'm so good now.
1200
00:51:33,133 --> 00:51:35,135
I think we've all
been gargling bong water.
1201
00:51:35,135 --> 00:51:36,052
[laughing]
1202
00:51:36,052 --> 00:51:38,221
♪ Never ever wanna stop ♪
1203
00:51:38,221 --> 00:51:40,557
♪ It's only just begun ♪
1204
00:51:40,557 --> 00:51:42,892
♪ This is way too much fun ♪
1205
00:51:44,644 --> 00:51:46,938
♪ Way too much fun ♪