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{\an8}‪斯毕迪 你好吗?

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{\an8}‪-很高兴认识你
‪-进来吧 很高兴见到你

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‪-嗨!
‪-嘿

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‪-这些是闪耀五人组的其他成员
‪-我好激动!

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‪你需要我们帮你上台阶

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‪还是使用后面的坡道?

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‪-把我抬上去吧
‪-抬上台阶吗?

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‪一、二、三

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‪-好的 上来了
‪-你们行吗?

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‪行了

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‪还有一个台阶

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‪-大步走
‪-使劲

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‪-好厉害
‪-行了

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‪-你的裤子完蛋了!
‪-你上来了!

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‪-我们给你拿毛巾
‪-我太抱歉了

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‪-嘿
‪-进来吧

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‪欢迎来到我们家

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‪-好漂亮的房子
‪-得把你擦干

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‪-谢谢 安东尼
‪-谢谢

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‪片名:粉雄救兵

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‪(第一天)

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‪(我不是既成事实的造物
‪我是自身选择的造物)

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‪(C·G·荣格)

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‪欢迎来到我们家

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‪-嘿
‪-不好意思 抱歉 宝贝

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{\an8}‪这是我姨妈 安吉妮可

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{\an8}‪-你们好吗?
‪-阿姨好

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‪我在抖音上看到了斯毕迪

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{\an8}‪我就是觉得他分享自己的故事
‪自己的风格、自己的风范

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{\an8}‪真的非常了不起

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{\an8}‪我必须把他介绍给大家

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{\an8}‪我想成为一个激励者

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{\an8}‪鼓励大家成为最好的自己

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‪我认为可以用自己的故事
‪来激励其他人

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‪你愿意告诉我们发生了什么事吗?

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‪是什么...你是怎么变成这样的?

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‪愿意

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{\an8}‪2020年4月25日

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{\an8}‪我妈妈和姨妈在一起 我们在开车

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{\an8}‪一辆黑色福特F150在我们旁边行驶

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‪然后它撞到了我们
‪于是我们就开出路外了

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‪我妈试图控制住车子
‪但我们还是开出路外 并撞到一棵树

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‪当时情况很糟

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‪事故发生后 我昏过去了
‪等我醒来时

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‪我被直升机救走了 那一路我都醒着

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‪我在尖叫:“我不想死 我还很年轻”

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‪我心里惦记着我妈妈

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‪我的腿动不了了
‪我的身体是麻木的 有种灼烧感

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‪我们到达医院后 他们告诉我
‪需要对我的脊椎

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‪进行手术

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‪手术后 医生来了

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‪他说:“你可能再也不能走路了”

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‪你是腰部以下瘫痪吗?

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‪从胸部以下

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‪当时我心都碎了

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‪你是同天得知
‪你妈妈和姨妈都去世了吗?

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‪是的

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‪我的生活天翻地覆 受到沉重的打击

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‪你说过这是2020年的事
‪新冠疫情期间

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‪-是的
‪-是的 这点是最难的

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‪让一切变得更糟

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‪最初的两周
‪因为疫情我一个家人都见不到

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‪非常孤独

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‪我几乎每晚都在哭

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‪当然了 可怜的孩子

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‪过去几年间 生活发生了巨大的变化

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‪但在事故前 你的生活是什么样的?

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‪那时生活充满乐趣

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‪我会去参加派对 我还是个孩子

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‪什么事都很有趣

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‪我是那种真的很喜欢打篮球的孩子

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‪在新奥尔良长大 你需要一个爱好

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‪来让你远离麻烦

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‪我叫斯毕迪的原因是 我年轻时

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‪总会跑着去训练

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‪于是有个教练就说
‪“你叫什么名字?”

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‪我说:“我叫雷”

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‪然后他就开始叫我斯毕迪

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‪斯毕迪很有天赋

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‪打篮球的时候 他是控球后卫

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‪总是需要快速跑起来

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‪我的梦想是成为职业篮球运动员

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‪我最终的目标是
‪带我妈妈搬离贫民窟

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‪我的比赛我妈妈都会去看

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‪当你看到
‪为你提供动力来源的那个人时

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‪你就会竭尽全力 全力以赴

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‪我爱这项运动 我喜欢努力训练

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‪只要在球场上 我就会感到快乐

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‪-你的学习成绩如何?
‪-挺好的

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‪我确保我的学习成绩没问题
‪这样我就可以打篮球了

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‪你是班上毕业的第六名还是第七名?

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‪-什么?
‪-我是班上的第六名

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‪做得好

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‪事故之后的生活怎么样?

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‪我朋友问我想不想去派对

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‪但我会回答:“算了” 我不想去了

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‪我只是想在家里待着

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‪外出会让我有些害怕
‪就好像感觉自己不够自信 不够外向

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‪当人们看向他时
‪他整个人都自闭了起来

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‪他开始胡思乱想

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‪开始多虑起来

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‪大家不是在贬低你

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‪我觉得他应该放松下来做自己

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‪你生活的动力是什么?

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‪我就是想起我妈妈
‪她不会希望我放弃

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‪斯毕迪的事故
‪发生在他生命的关键时期

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‪他当时18岁

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‪是你展望未来的时候

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‪未来将会发生什么

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‪对他来说一切都停下来了
‪他要重构自己

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‪他在学习该如何生活

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‪给我介绍一下你住的地方

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{\an8}‪优势和劣势 特别是在无障碍方面

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‪我和家人住在一起

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‪我感觉 在妈妈和姨妈去世后

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‪我的家人没几个了

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‪我的姨妈和我的两个年轻表亲
‪就是我唯一的亲人了

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‪我住在一楼的公寓里

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‪但门前有个三层阶梯

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‪虽然是一楼 但是还是有楼梯

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‪我进屋的时候 门很窄

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‪好的

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‪不能坐着轮椅进入浴室

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‪我必须用另一把椅子去洗澡

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‪你得从一把椅子换到另一把椅子
‪再到另一把椅子

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‪是的

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‪这种种障碍

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‪让你被囚于自己家中

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‪或是被困在屋外 无法回家

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‪-是的
‪-你考虑过搬出去住吗?

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‪找个属于自己的、更加便利的住所?

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‪是的 我想过这件事

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‪试着想办法

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‪你对新家最大的希望的是什么?

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‪有张可以调节高度的床

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‪因为我现在的床

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‪我必须把自己托起来才能上到床上

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‪还要更奢华一点

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‪更奢华一点?好的 这我懂

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‪是的 你的风格

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‪我明白了 要奢华一点

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‪-是的
‪-是的

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‪斯毕迪现在肯定有些不知所措

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‪他家里的一切都令他的生活更加困难

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‪你自己做饭吗?

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‪不 我不会做饭

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{\an8}‪-你不会做饭
‪-我想学

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{\an8}‪谁给你做饭?

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‪我姨妈 她时不时给我做顿饭

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‪但我大多数时间都点快餐吃

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‪-她给你做什么吃?
‪-今天是玉米饭

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‪玉米饭是什么?

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‪-你没听说过玉米饭?
‪-没有!

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‪我们这边玉米饭的做法是
‪如果有香肠的话

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‪把香肠也放进去

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‪可能还会配上鱼肉

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‪或者是鸡肉

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‪你的家人和祖先
‪都是来自路易斯安那州吗?

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‪-是的
‪-所以你喜欢美味丰盛的舒心食物?

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‪-是的
‪-好的

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‪说到你的独立自主性

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‪搞清楚你现在过着什么样的生活

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‪你认为做饭是一件很重要
‪你也想学会的事情吗?

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‪我很想学会做饭

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‪既然我已经坐上了轮椅
‪我就必须能够照顾自己

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‪我必须多吃一些

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‪我的体重越来越轻
‪我现在实在太瘦了 所以...

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‪-明白了 你想变壮一点
‪-对

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‪我的目标是可以和你一起
‪享受厨房里的乐趣

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‪让你感到获得新的力量

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‪并能够自己做出

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‪对你有意义的东西

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‪我们可以一起做牛排和米饭吗?

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‪-牛排和米饭?
‪-是啊 你吃过铁板烧吗?

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‪人们把东西放在炙热的铁板上
‪和炒饭一样翻炒食物

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‪-你能教我怎么做这些吗?
‪-你想学什么我都会教你

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‪是的 我想学做这个

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‪我真的想跟你谈谈
‪自从事故发生后

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‪他变成的那个人

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{\an8}‪事故刚刚发生后
‪斯毕迪封闭了自己

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{\an8}‪不允许任何人打扰

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‪我看得出他有些抑郁
‪但他几乎从不想谈论这些事

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‪他不和家人谈论这些事

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‪我猜他认为大家都很悲伤

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‪都在处理各自的问题
‪但我认为他没有时间悲伤

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‪他就是没有时间

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‪因为他亲身经历了那件事

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‪所以我感觉就好像
‪他不愿再次体会到那种创伤

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‪但他应该找人谈谈

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‪也许不是和家人谈
‪但他至少应该和朋友谈谈

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‪你真是个美男子

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{\an8}‪你梳过发辫、脏辫或是蓬松卷发吗?

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{\an8}‪你做过什么发型?

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‪-我一直想编个发辫
‪-老天 那看起来肯定很可爱

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‪肯定很可爱 我太喜欢这个点子了

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‪可能会染个发

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‪宝贝 再多说点刺激的

198
00:08:06,904 --> 00:08:08,572
‪-好的!
‪-你觉得哪种颜色好就行

199
00:08:08,572 --> 00:08:12,868
‪我想用新造型震撼到我的抖音粉丝们
‪你觉得打个鼻环怎么样?

200
00:08:14,370 --> 00:08:16,080
‪我们要给你打鼻环吗?

201
00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:19,291
‪作为你新上任的模特经纪人
‪我觉得不行

202
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‪-谭!
‪-我在 杰基

203
00:08:20,834 --> 00:08:22,836
‪我们刚刚谈到打鼻环

204
00:08:22,836 --> 00:08:26,048
‪一开始我觉得:“我们之前没做过
‪我还挺喜欢 会很性感的”

205
00:08:26,048 --> 00:08:28,592
‪然后我觉得
‪“作为你的新任模特经纪人”

206
00:08:28,592 --> 00:08:31,971
‪-谭知道我是认真的
‪-人们可能会说这会限制你的发展

207
00:08:31,971 --> 00:08:35,224
‪我的天啊 我不能限制你的...
‪不能用这件事限制你的发展

208
00:08:35,224 --> 00:08:39,103
‪不 我不会...你简直就是下一届
‪《全美超模大赛》选手

209
00:08:39,103 --> 00:08:42,106
‪你听到我说的话了吗?
‪说到这个 泰拉来咯

210
00:08:42,106 --> 00:08:45,985
‪你知道他说《全美超模大赛》时
‪指的是什么吗?

211
00:08:45,985 --> 00:08:47,903
‪年轻人知道这是什么 对吧?

212
00:08:47,903 --> 00:08:50,739
‪-我听说过
‪-你当然听说过 而且你也喜欢

213
00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:52,533
‪-可能吧
‪-这是我的命令

214
00:08:52,533 --> 00:08:54,326
‪-这事没得商量
‪-这样啊

215
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‪泰拉女神啊!

216
00:08:55,828 --> 00:08:59,123
‪-忘了她在这里吧
‪-我已经想你们了 你好可爱 再见!

217
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‪斯毕迪

218
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‪-怎么了?
‪-我们聊聊衣服吧?

219
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‪好的

220
00:09:03,460 --> 00:09:07,423
{\an8}‪我们之前的节目中
‪帮过一个坐轮椅的人

221
00:09:07,423 --> 00:09:09,925
‪你穿衣服有限制吗?

222
00:09:09,925 --> 00:09:11,468
‪我不喜欢穿短裤

223
00:09:11,468 --> 00:09:13,846
‪自从我受伤之后 我的腿就变得很细

224
00:09:13,846 --> 00:09:17,099
‪我不喜欢我腿的样子
‪所以我不再穿短裤了

225
00:09:17,099 --> 00:09:19,685
‪有自己的穿衣风格吗?
‪比如极客类时尚?

226
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‪你喜欢穿特别合身的衣服?

227
00:09:22,521 --> 00:09:24,648
‪还是喜欢穿很街头风的衣服?
‪喜欢哪种?

228
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‪街头风格

229
00:09:25,816 --> 00:09:27,234
‪好的 一直穿这种衣服吗?

230
00:09:27,234 --> 00:09:29,695
‪-我可以尝试各种风格
‪-很好

231
00:09:29,695 --> 00:09:32,323
‪我觉得你的运动鞋最有意思

232
00:09:32,323 --> 00:09:34,783
‪-但我认为我们还能再锦上添花
‪-我也这么认为

233
00:09:34,783 --> 00:09:38,370
‪我坐上轮椅后 穿衣风格
‪变得更加流行时尚了

234
00:09:38,370 --> 00:09:41,415
‪我现在对自己穿的衣服更加有自信了

235
00:09:41,415 --> 00:09:44,752
‪描述一下事故前你的穿衣风格

236
00:09:44,752 --> 00:09:46,837
‪也许会穿牛仔裤

237
00:09:47,546 --> 00:09:50,007
‪还有廉价的印图T恤

238
00:09:50,507 --> 00:09:52,051
‪穿范斯牌的鞋

239
00:09:52,051 --> 00:09:52,968
‪现在呢?

240
00:09:52,968 --> 00:09:55,929
‪领口衬衫搭配定制的
‪耐克空军一号运动鞋

241
00:09:55,929 --> 00:09:58,515
‪一条漂亮的工装裤之类的

242
00:09:58,515 --> 00:10:02,019
‪如果你没有坐上轮椅
‪时尚对你来说还会如此重要吗?

243
00:10:02,019 --> 00:10:03,228
‪不会

244
00:10:03,228 --> 00:10:05,314
‪为什么这件事对你来说变得重要了?

245
00:10:05,314 --> 00:10:09,443
‪因为穿得时尚会增加我的自信

246
00:10:10,444 --> 00:10:12,571
‪你认为我们在哪方面的帮助

247
00:10:12,571 --> 00:10:15,240
‪能给他的生活带来最大的影响?

248
00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,701
‪我想让他多出去转转 做些事情

249
00:10:17,701 --> 00:10:19,870
‪因为他是个外向的人

250
00:10:19,870 --> 00:10:23,540
‪但我认为因为轮椅这件事
‪他需要在自信心方面有所提升

251
00:10:24,625 --> 00:10:25,501
‪感谢你的建议

252
00:10:25,501 --> 00:10:29,421
‪你为我们这周如何对他提供支持
‪给予了很多信息

253
00:10:29,421 --> 00:10:31,882
‪-谢谢你 你真的很棒
‪-谢谢

254
00:10:31,882 --> 00:10:34,802
‪是啊 你把他交给我们就对了

255
00:10:36,470 --> 00:10:38,806
‪-你在篮球队里打什么位置?
‪-控球后卫

256
00:10:38,806 --> 00:10:40,808
‪-所以你会负责投篮
‪-是的

257
00:10:40,808 --> 00:10:44,478
‪-而且你速度很快
‪-能在球场上打球简直棒极了

258
00:10:44,478 --> 00:10:45,979
‪高中篮球比赛

259
00:10:45,979 --> 00:10:49,108
‪所有观众都会高呼你的名字
‪“斯毕迪”

260
00:10:49,108 --> 00:10:52,194
‪我投进一个三分球 所有人都在欢呼
‪真的很有意思

261
00:10:52,194 --> 00:10:55,197
‪篮球曾经占据了你生命中的很大部分
‪现在呢?

262
00:10:56,365 --> 00:10:58,200
‪感觉不一样了

263
00:10:59,034 --> 00:11:00,577
‪我偶尔会看看球

264
00:11:00,577 --> 00:11:03,205
‪我就看着朋友们打球 但我会嫉妒

265
00:11:03,205 --> 00:11:05,624
‪因为我不能上场和他们一起打

266
00:11:05,624 --> 00:11:06,959
‪你想去当职业选手吗?

267
00:11:07,626 --> 00:11:08,919
‪-是的
‪-是吗?

268
00:11:08,919 --> 00:11:12,840
‪那一直是我的梦想 我也想上大学

269
00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,217
‪-是的
‪-先上大学 然后成为职业选手

270
00:11:15,217 --> 00:11:16,510
‪现在你的梦想是什么?

271
00:11:17,010 --> 00:11:17,928
‪成为一个激励者

272
00:11:17,928 --> 00:11:20,347
‪你知道要如何使用自己的故事
‪来激励其他人吗?

273
00:11:20,347 --> 00:11:21,557
‪我正在学习

274
00:11:22,307 --> 00:11:24,768
‪-你的姨妈说你不喜欢分享自己感受
‪-是的

275
00:11:24,768 --> 00:11:27,396
‪是啊 即便我们很想激励他人

276
00:11:27,396 --> 00:11:30,607
‪但在你真的说出了自己的感受

277
00:11:30,607 --> 00:11:34,570
‪能够坦然分享自己的感受
‪了解清楚自己前

278
00:11:34,570 --> 00:11:36,405
‪你心里会有一堵墙

279
00:11:37,781 --> 00:11:40,325
‪谁会帮助你调节你内心的感受?

280
00:11:40,325 --> 00:11:41,744
‪老兄 这...

281
00:11:41,744 --> 00:11:43,829
‪你有其他坐轮椅的朋友吗?

282
00:11:45,205 --> 00:11:46,331
‪-没有
‪-没有?

283
00:11:46,331 --> 00:11:48,709
‪自从出了事故之后 就一直...

284
00:11:48,709 --> 00:11:51,587
‪我一直是独自经历这一切
‪我真的不知道...

285
00:11:51,587 --> 00:11:53,630
‪我只是都放在自己心里

286
00:11:54,339 --> 00:11:56,592
‪让人们成为真正有影响力的人的是

287
00:11:56,592 --> 00:11:59,887
‪当他们能够说出
‪“这就是我当时的感受”

288
00:11:59,887 --> 00:12:01,889
‪“这就是我经历过的那些事”

289
00:12:02,389 --> 00:12:04,808
‪我要想想该如何帮助你

290
00:12:04,808 --> 00:12:07,936
‪找到你觉得自己可以展现
‪最脆弱、最真实自我的方法

291
00:12:07,936 --> 00:12:11,940
‪以此达到与你过去和现在的和解

292
00:12:11,940 --> 00:12:15,819
‪并让这引导你走向
‪你想要和应得的未来

293
00:12:15,819 --> 00:12:18,238
‪我只是想确定人生的方向

294
00:12:18,238 --> 00:12:19,656
‪我明白

295
00:12:19,656 --> 00:12:21,158
‪-我们进屋吧
‪-好的

296
00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:25,621
‪-你们在做什么?
‪-我们有计划了吗?

297
00:12:25,621 --> 00:12:28,332
‪-卡拉莫 你有计划了吗?
‪-我有个计划 你有计划吗?

298
00:12:28,332 --> 00:12:29,875
‪-我总有计划
‪-你有计划吗?

299
00:12:29,875 --> 00:12:33,837
‪我有三个计划 但我们相处
‪一段时间后 会缩小到一个

300
00:12:33,837 --> 00:12:35,672
‪-你有计划吗?
‪-很多计划

301
00:12:35,672 --> 00:12:38,926
‪-你有计划吗?
‪-我其实有个大计划

302
00:12:38,926 --> 00:12:42,095
‪我想知道 你对我们所有人的
‪期待是什么?

303
00:12:42,095 --> 00:12:43,222
‪尽你们所能

304
00:12:44,348 --> 00:12:46,600
‪-你真棒
‪-这真是个非常不错的回答

305
00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:48,435
‪-尽你们所能吧
‪-我们会的

306
00:12:48,435 --> 00:12:50,187
‪-你也会尽你之所能吗?
‪-我会的

307
00:12:50,187 --> 00:12:52,564
‪-尽可能保持开放的心态?
‪-尽力如此

308
00:12:52,564 --> 00:12:54,691
‪谭说什么你都会尝试的吗?

309
00:13:04,618 --> 00:13:07,579
‪斯毕迪想学会如何照顾自己

310
00:13:07,579 --> 00:13:08,914
‪如何给自己做饭

311
00:13:08,914 --> 00:13:11,333
‪如果他想从牛排炒饭开始学

312
00:13:11,333 --> 00:13:13,043
‪坦白说 我会鼎力支持的

313
00:13:18,549 --> 00:13:23,011
‪我想帮斯毕迪找到自己独特的打扮

314
00:13:23,011 --> 00:13:26,640
‪能够真正激发他发自内心的自信

315
00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,601
‪斯毕迪和他身体有着全新的关系

316
00:13:29,601 --> 00:13:33,355
‪敞开胸怀接受全新的自己很难
‪我这周的目标是

317
00:13:33,355 --> 00:13:37,276
‪帮助斯毕迪找到对自己身份的自信

318
00:13:37,276 --> 00:13:41,113
‪他现在的居住环境不是很轻松

319
00:13:41,113 --> 00:13:42,614
‪这周我要向斯毕迪展示

320
00:13:42,614 --> 00:13:46,493
‪在无障碍环境方面 他无需做出妥协

321
00:13:47,452 --> 00:13:50,581
‪他想通过谈论自己的经历
‪来激励其他人

322
00:13:50,581 --> 00:13:51,748
‪要做到这一点

323
00:13:51,748 --> 00:13:54,751
‪他必须面对自己的悲伤
‪了解清楚自己的经历

324
00:13:54,751 --> 00:13:56,420
‪我需要你的支持

325
00:13:56,420 --> 00:13:59,172
‪我们这里有个男主角
‪我觉得你能帮上忙

326
00:13:59,172 --> 00:14:02,217
‪我希望斯毕迪能明白
‪有适合他的支持系统

327
00:14:02,217 --> 00:14:04,177
‪一个能够理解他经历的人

328
00:14:04,177 --> 00:14:05,470
‪你要来新奥尔良吗?

329
00:14:05,470 --> 00:14:06,722
‪(第二天)

330
00:14:06,722 --> 00:14:08,932
‪(永远不要低估被人看到的力量)

331
00:14:08,932 --> 00:14:09,975
‪(布芮尼·布朗)

332
00:14:15,647 --> 00:14:18,525
‪斯毕迪 我们要去购物
‪你对此感觉如何?

333
00:14:18,525 --> 00:14:19,651
‪很好

334
00:14:19,651 --> 00:14:20,569
‪准备好了吗?

335
00:14:24,031 --> 00:14:25,949
‪我听你说过好几次了

336
00:14:25,949 --> 00:14:28,785
‪你会说“坐轮椅之前”和“坐轮椅之后”

337
00:14:28,785 --> 00:14:31,413
‪-是的
‪-你在精神方面改变了很多?

338
00:14:31,413 --> 00:14:33,332
‪毕竟我遭遇了意外

339
00:14:33,332 --> 00:14:36,168
‪这改变了我对人生的

340
00:14:36,168 --> 00:14:37,377
‪看法

341
00:14:37,377 --> 00:14:40,964
‪现在我想过无悔的人生

342
00:14:40,964 --> 00:14:43,800
‪当一个更好的自己 不断成长

343
00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:45,344
‪-是的
‪-就是这种事情

344
00:14:45,344 --> 00:14:48,305
‪你是不是有了一种“管他呢”的心态?

345
00:14:48,305 --> 00:14:50,474
‪- “管他呢 我为什么不这么做?”
‪-是的

346
00:14:50,474 --> 00:14:51,892
‪基于什么理由?

347
00:14:51,892 --> 00:14:54,186
‪我有可能活不下来 这就像是

348
00:14:54,186 --> 00:14:56,396
‪现在感觉我已经度过了最难的一刻

349
00:14:56,396 --> 00:14:58,982
‪有什么事能比我
‪遭遇车祸这件事还糟?

350
00:14:58,982 --> 00:15:02,527
‪所以我会想:“我要做这件事
‪我不在乎别人怎么说”

351
00:15:02,527 --> 00:15:06,239
‪你还是很在乎别人的看法
‪因为你不常出门了

352
00:15:06,239 --> 00:15:08,325
‪-确实
‪-你出门的时候

353
00:15:08,325 --> 00:15:10,702
‪别人的注视让你心烦吗?

354
00:15:12,537 --> 00:15:13,705
‪有一点 是的

355
00:15:14,831 --> 00:15:16,792
‪我出门的时候

356
00:15:16,792 --> 00:15:20,462
‪街上会有人对我说:“怎么回事
‪你是被枪击了吗?”

357
00:15:20,462 --> 00:15:21,755
‪这让我有点难受

358
00:15:21,755 --> 00:15:25,634
‪这让我伤心 因为不是所有
‪坐轮椅的人都是枪击造成的

359
00:15:26,843 --> 00:15:28,428
‪那让我感觉很糟

360
00:15:28,428 --> 00:15:30,430
‪那些人不应该这样和人打招呼

361
00:15:30,931 --> 00:15:33,892
‪这就是你经常待在家里的原因吗?

362
00:15:33,892 --> 00:15:35,686
‪-是的
‪-好的

363
00:15:35,686 --> 00:15:39,064
‪我们能否让你转变想法

364
00:15:39,731 --> 00:15:42,484
‪“你要是想看 我就让你看个痛快?”

365
00:15:42,484 --> 00:15:43,860
‪我很乐意

366
00:15:43,860 --> 00:15:45,862
‪无论如何人们都会盯着他看

367
00:15:45,862 --> 00:15:47,447
‪我们解决不了这个问题

368
00:15:47,447 --> 00:15:50,409
‪我想让斯毕迪明白
‪他可以选择一种穿衣风格

369
00:15:50,409 --> 00:15:52,995
‪让他有种存在感 吸引人们的目光

370
00:15:52,995 --> 00:15:55,455
‪让我们找到真正代表你的风格

371
00:15:55,455 --> 00:15:56,456
‪好的

372
00:15:56,456 --> 00:16:00,210
‪说到穿衣打扮
‪斯毕迪非常不拘一格

373
00:16:00,210 --> 00:16:03,171
‪我想向他展示 他可以如何
‪通过一种穿搭方式

374
00:16:03,171 --> 00:16:04,381
‪把这些风格都展现出来

375
00:16:05,799 --> 00:16:09,261
‪这样他就可以成为镇子上
‪独树一帜的存在

376
00:16:09,261 --> 00:16:10,470
‪-准备好了吗?
‪-是的

377
00:16:14,975 --> 00:16:15,892
‪不错

378
00:16:16,393 --> 00:16:17,602
‪我愿意这样出门

379
00:16:18,353 --> 00:16:19,688
‪这种颜色很时尚

380
00:16:19,688 --> 00:16:22,816
‪-你看起来超级时尚
‪-谢谢

381
00:16:23,734 --> 00:16:26,278
‪穿这种长裤 你感觉如何?

382
00:16:26,278 --> 00:16:27,487
‪我喜欢它的颜色

383
00:16:27,487 --> 00:16:30,907
‪我喜欢它可以露出脚踝 不用穿袜子

384
00:16:30,907 --> 00:16:33,702
‪-看起来不错 非常好
‪-我也喜欢

385
00:16:33,702 --> 00:16:35,829
‪但布料会摩擦到我的轮子

386
00:16:35,829 --> 00:16:37,622
‪-确实
‪-这会很糟的

387
00:16:37,622 --> 00:16:40,917
‪当然 如果它能再修身一点
‪就不会碰到你的轮子了

388
00:16:40,917 --> 00:16:41,835
‪这样就可以了

389
00:16:41,835 --> 00:16:43,545
‪-是的
‪-很好

390
00:16:44,129 --> 00:16:47,007
‪我觉得这对社交焦虑有帮助

391
00:16:47,007 --> 00:16:48,550
‪好 具体跟我讲讲

392
00:16:48,550 --> 00:16:52,471
‪就像我一开始和你们说的那样
‪在家里的生活真的很难

393
00:16:52,471 --> 00:16:55,140
‪当我和很多人在一起时 我就是...

394
00:16:56,183 --> 00:16:58,685
‪有时我真的有点喘不过气来

395
00:16:59,770 --> 00:17:02,564
‪不知为什么 我的心都要跳出来了

396
00:17:02,564 --> 00:17:05,942
‪但我感觉这一身会给予我所需的自信

397
00:17:05,942 --> 00:17:08,528
‪去出门和大家相处

398
00:17:09,488 --> 00:17:12,574
‪我要是换上这种风格的衣服出门

399
00:17:12,574 --> 00:17:14,367
‪大家会说:“好的 我注意到你了”

400
00:17:14,367 --> 00:17:15,452
‪真的太好了

401
00:17:15,452 --> 00:17:16,828
‪-要不要再多试试?
‪-好的

402
00:17:16,828 --> 00:17:17,913
‪很好

403
00:17:20,832 --> 00:17:22,084
‪到我这边来吧

404
00:17:22,084 --> 00:17:25,378
‪如果你能回到这里的话 谢谢

405
00:17:25,378 --> 00:17:26,588
‪好了 斯毕迪

406
00:17:27,756 --> 00:17:29,091
‪嘿

407
00:17:30,050 --> 00:17:33,595
‪谭 我必须说 你还真是有两下子

408
00:17:34,638 --> 00:17:36,723
‪-我喜欢
‪-这让我太开心了

409
00:17:36,723 --> 00:17:38,600
‪正合我意 颜色很时尚

410
00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:39,810
‪我很少戴墨镜

411
00:17:39,810 --> 00:17:42,562
‪我觉得 这可以成为我的风格

412
00:17:42,562 --> 00:17:45,273
‪这是不错的配饰

413
00:17:45,273 --> 00:17:47,692
‪有时它是完成造型的完美选择

414
00:17:47,692 --> 00:17:48,985
‪是的

415
00:17:48,985 --> 00:17:52,155
‪斯毕迪在公共场合
‪越来越没有安全感

416
00:17:52,155 --> 00:17:54,533
‪但看看现在他有多开心

417
00:17:54,533 --> 00:17:58,078
‪不再是那个害羞、温顺的男孩子了

418
00:17:58,078 --> 00:18:00,163
‪这改变了房间中的气氛

419
00:18:00,163 --> 00:18:01,915
‪让我非常开心

420
00:18:01,915 --> 00:18:04,042
‪-这能吸引到某些人的目光
‪-没错

421
00:18:04,042 --> 00:18:07,295
‪我不知道那种青春版的“酷”如何形容

422
00:18:08,380 --> 00:18:10,882
‪但无论用什么词形容 就是那个词

423
00:18:10,882 --> 00:18:11,800
‪很潮

424
00:18:12,425 --> 00:18:17,305
‪噢 是“潮”这个词吗?
‪大家是说“这很潮”还是“很潮”?

425
00:18:17,305 --> 00:18:19,266
‪“很潮”或是“帅飞了”

426
00:18:19,266 --> 00:18:21,935
‪他帅飞了 而且确实很潮

427
00:18:22,435 --> 00:18:24,020
‪非常感谢

428
00:18:31,736 --> 00:18:33,071
‪很好 那里有个坡道

429
00:18:33,071 --> 00:18:34,364
{\an8}‪谢天谢地

430
00:18:36,825 --> 00:18:37,659
‪是啊

431
00:18:37,659 --> 00:18:41,079
‪我们直接开始 你来过这边吗?

432
00:18:41,079 --> 00:18:42,372
‪没有 从来没来过

433
00:18:42,372 --> 00:18:45,959
‪坦白说 我之前对你另有安排

434
00:18:45,959 --> 00:18:51,173
‪但当你问我 你能否学会
‪做炒饭或牛排的时候

435
00:18:51,173 --> 00:18:55,010
‪我特别兴奋 因为你的眼睛
‪都亮了起来 我就想:“就做这个”

436
00:18:55,010 --> 00:18:56,094
‪是的

437
00:18:56,094 --> 00:19:00,265
‪我想让你看看 炒饭有多么简单

438
00:19:00,265 --> 00:19:01,725
‪-可以吗?
‪-可以

439
00:19:01,725 --> 00:19:03,852
‪太棒了 你的操作台在这里

440
00:19:03,852 --> 00:19:08,648
‪我要教你 如何给姜和大蒜剥皮
‪然后切碎它们

441
00:19:08,648 --> 00:19:10,775
‪用勺子的头部

442
00:19:10,775 --> 00:19:14,154
‪你要剥掉所有的棕色外皮

443
00:19:14,154 --> 00:19:15,155
‪好的

444
00:19:15,155 --> 00:19:17,908
‪暴露出完整的姜

445
00:19:17,908 --> 00:19:19,784
‪-好的
‪-完美

446
00:19:19,784 --> 00:19:21,786
‪-并不完美 但...
‪-接近完美了

447
00:19:21,786 --> 00:19:22,996
‪和完美很接近了

448
00:19:22,996 --> 00:19:25,123
‪我很快意识到

449
00:19:25,123 --> 00:19:27,709
‪他是个少年 他对这方面一窍不通

450
00:19:27,709 --> 00:19:29,586
‪拜托 这确实是个挑战

451
00:19:30,712 --> 00:19:31,963
‪一切顺利

452
00:19:31,963 --> 00:19:34,883
‪你用这两根手指引导刀的运动

453
00:19:34,883 --> 00:19:36,259
‪就像是在锯东西一样

454
00:19:36,259 --> 00:19:37,969
‪有一部分永远接触到案板

455
00:19:37,969 --> 00:19:39,554
‪-我们不能这样
‪-好

456
00:19:39,554 --> 00:19:41,765
‪你现在要如何处理这些蔬菜

457
00:19:41,765 --> 00:19:43,767
‪还是用锯东西的手法

458
00:19:43,767 --> 00:19:46,645
‪一只手运刀 一只手往前推蔬菜

459
00:19:46,645 --> 00:19:49,439
‪-这些你都要这样处理
‪-这些都要吗?好的

460
00:19:49,439 --> 00:19:51,441
‪用刀要小心 因为这把刀很锋利

461
00:19:52,150 --> 00:19:53,026
‪非常锋利

462
00:19:53,026 --> 00:19:55,695
‪炒饭是个极好的机会

463
00:19:55,695 --> 00:19:58,198
‪让你吃下你所需的蔬菜和蛋白质

464
00:19:58,198 --> 00:20:01,826
‪我喜欢平均分配米、肉和蔬菜的比例

465
00:20:01,826 --> 00:20:04,788
‪-蛋白质不是好东西
‪-你说过想变得壮一些 对吧?

466
00:20:04,788 --> 00:20:07,123
‪-我想变壮
‪-这就是我们要做的

467
00:20:07,123 --> 00:20:08,833
‪我做饭速度不够快

468
00:20:11,419 --> 00:20:15,882
‪这是做饭最基础、最简单的部分

469
00:20:15,882 --> 00:20:17,467
‪我们可以开始做蛋白质食材了

470
00:20:17,467 --> 00:20:19,844
‪从如何烹饪蛋白质食材

471
00:20:20,470 --> 00:20:21,304
‪完美

472
00:20:21,304 --> 00:20:22,722
‪到如何合理地对其进行调味

473
00:20:22,722 --> 00:20:24,766
‪放一点芝麻油

474
00:20:24,766 --> 00:20:27,269
‪这种油有一种烤过的坚果味

475
00:20:27,269 --> 00:20:29,813
‪这些是大葱 所以有点辣

476
00:20:29,813 --> 00:20:33,316
‪加点酱油就当放盐了 好的

477
00:20:33,316 --> 00:20:35,694
‪-这个环形可以吗?
‪-很完美

478
00:20:35,694 --> 00:20:38,488
‪什么时候放鸡蛋 如何炒鸡蛋

479
00:20:38,488 --> 00:20:40,532
‪希望里面没有蛋壳 我会注意看的

480
00:20:40,532 --> 00:20:42,242
‪-好了
‪-你做到了

481
00:20:42,742 --> 00:20:44,661
‪这是这个年轻人现在需要的

482
00:20:45,203 --> 00:20:47,497
‪-我以前常跟妈妈一起来这里
‪-真的吗?

483
00:20:47,497 --> 00:20:49,457
‪-对
‪-我们以前总来吃铁板烧

484
00:20:50,292 --> 00:20:53,503
‪遇到重要的事情
‪我们就会来这里吃饭

485
00:20:53,503 --> 00:20:55,588
‪有时候只是来开心一下

486
00:20:55,588 --> 00:21:00,051
‪-你最喜欢点什么?
‪-日式炒饭 牛排和鸡肉

487
00:21:00,051 --> 00:21:02,012
‪-我喜欢那种日料海鲜酱
‪-我...

488
00:21:02,512 --> 00:21:05,849
‪日料海鲜酱是我最喜欢的东西

489
00:21:05,849 --> 00:21:07,517
‪现在他的妈妈不在了

490
00:21:07,517 --> 00:21:10,979
‪斯毕迪需要学会
‪如何真正让自己填饱肚子

491
00:21:10,979 --> 00:21:12,605
‪如何照顾自己

492
00:21:14,941 --> 00:21:15,984
‪真好吃

493
00:21:15,984 --> 00:21:17,193
‪真的很不错

494
00:21:17,193 --> 00:21:19,237
‪-谢谢你教给我这个
‪-不客气

495
00:21:19,237 --> 00:21:20,655
‪你做得非常好

496
00:21:21,239 --> 00:21:22,949
‪这是独立的象征

497
00:21:22,949 --> 00:21:26,411
‪如果你真的可以长期坚持
‪为自己做饭

498
00:21:26,411 --> 00:21:28,288
‪对我来说吃东西这件事很重要

499
00:21:28,288 --> 00:21:31,416
‪真的很重要 鉴于我现在的情况

500
00:21:31,416 --> 00:21:34,586
‪是的 你之前提到过变壮很重要

501
00:21:34,586 --> 00:21:36,963
‪在这方面你遇到了什么问题?

502
00:21:36,963 --> 00:21:38,673
‪在我遭遇意外之后

503
00:21:40,508 --> 00:21:42,677
‪我一直因食欲不振而苦苦挣扎

504
00:21:42,677 --> 00:21:46,097
‪这是脊髓损伤会造成的症状

505
00:21:46,097 --> 00:21:48,933
‪有时候我需要吃开胃药

506
00:21:48,933 --> 00:21:51,770
‪只是把斯毕迪形容为
‪“需要适应这种生活”

507
00:21:51,770 --> 00:21:54,022
‪真的是太轻描淡写了

508
00:21:54,022 --> 00:21:57,525
‪我们每天都习以为常的这些小事

509
00:21:57,525 --> 00:21:59,861
‪斯毕迪都必须严肃对待

510
00:21:59,861 --> 00:22:02,238
‪我锻炼的时候 不管哪次

511
00:22:02,238 --> 00:22:04,574
‪我都会用力 我想要长肌肉

512
00:22:04,574 --> 00:22:08,370
‪但我吃的不够多 不够我身体成长

513
00:22:08,370 --> 00:22:10,914
‪当然了 你想长肌肉 你想变壮

514
00:22:10,914 --> 00:22:14,125
‪如果这就是你的目标 这种炒饭
‪你每周都要吃几次

515
00:22:14,125 --> 00:22:16,294
‪牛肉、鸡蛋和胡萝卜

516
00:22:16,294 --> 00:22:18,630
‪我真的没有开玩笑

517
00:22:18,630 --> 00:22:20,965
‪-我要在家里多做几次这种料理
‪-是吗?

518
00:22:20,965 --> 00:22:23,343
‪你提醒了我
‪烹饪到底是多么简单而快乐的事

519
00:22:23,343 --> 00:22:26,429
‪你知道做完饭后什么不快乐吗?
‪洗盘子

520
00:22:27,597 --> 00:22:29,099
‪(第三天)

521
00:22:29,099 --> 00:22:33,019
‪(别让你不能做的事
‪妨碍到你能做的事)

522
00:22:33,019 --> 00:22:33,978
‪(约翰·伍登)

523
00:22:38,441 --> 00:22:39,442
‪进来吧

524
00:22:39,442 --> 00:22:41,027
‪欢迎光临

525
00:22:41,861 --> 00:22:43,947
‪亲爱的!不幸的是

526
00:22:43,947 --> 00:22:45,615
‪你的脸真的很帅气

527
00:22:45,615 --> 00:22:47,909
‪这不是你的错 太可爱了

528
00:22:47,909 --> 00:22:49,702
{\an8}‪我们之前说过发辫的事

529
00:22:49,702 --> 00:22:51,329
{\an8}‪我确实喜欢漂亮的发辫

530
00:22:51,329 --> 00:22:53,123
{\an8}‪我们还说到了颜色

531
00:22:53,123 --> 00:22:54,833
{\an8}‪颜色的有趣之处在于

532
00:22:55,333 --> 00:22:58,086
{\an8}‪你可以在接发上染色

533
00:22:58,086 --> 00:23:01,464
‪我喜欢这种方法 因为这样就不用
‪对你自己的头发进行漂色

534
00:23:01,464 --> 00:23:04,050
‪或是为了维持颜色一直对自己的头发

535
00:23:04,050 --> 00:23:05,218
‪进行补色

536
00:23:05,218 --> 00:23:08,888
‪我这里有个朋友 她非常棒
‪她会帮你编发辫

537
00:23:08,888 --> 00:23:11,766
‪有时理发师给我剪头发时
‪我的眼睛会不舒服

538
00:23:11,766 --> 00:23:13,476
‪-被碎发扎到了 亲爱的
‪-是的

539
00:23:13,476 --> 00:23:15,937
{\an8}‪给你刮小胡子的时候呢?

540
00:23:15,937 --> 00:23:18,523
‪噢 我要留着胡子 已经开始长出来了

541
00:23:20,024 --> 00:23:21,109
{\an8}‪我要留着!

542
00:23:21,818 --> 00:23:25,196
‪你就像:“这是我20岁的纪念
‪我得留着它”

543
00:23:25,196 --> 00:23:27,407
{\an8}‪-好的 去洗头发吧
‪-好的

544
00:23:27,407 --> 00:23:30,285
‪你好可爱 走吧 给你洗头去

545
00:23:30,285 --> 00:23:33,121
‪这是斯毕迪事故后
‪第一次正式来到

546
00:23:33,121 --> 00:23:35,165
‪美发沙龙

547
00:23:35,165 --> 00:23:36,958
‪这是两年间长出来的头发

548
00:23:36,958 --> 00:23:39,210
‪是的 很好 是的 放松

549
00:23:39,210 --> 00:23:41,296
‪是的

550
00:23:41,296 --> 00:23:45,258
‪亲爱的 能做的有很多 但能展现出
‪斯毕迪的英俊潇洒多棒啊

551
00:23:50,054 --> 00:23:52,182
‪不要担心 完成后会很可爱的

552
00:23:52,182 --> 00:23:54,851
‪当他只吹一半的头发时
‪有一种利尔·纳斯的感觉

553
00:23:54,851 --> 00:23:56,394
‪我的头发就好像被电击过一样

554
00:24:00,148 --> 00:24:02,442
‪所以我们要好好设计一下

555
00:24:02,442 --> 00:24:05,570
‪很别致、很经典、但也很流行的风格

556
00:24:05,570 --> 00:24:07,780
‪顶着一头蜜金色的接发 好家伙

557
00:24:07,780 --> 00:24:10,450
‪大家都会跟着你 想和你约会

558
00:24:10,450 --> 00:24:12,535
‪-也许吧
‪-可不是“也许”哦

559
00:24:12,535 --> 00:24:14,037
‪已经发生了 我已经感觉到了

560
00:24:14,037 --> 00:24:16,456
‪他是如此坚强 如此勇敢

561
00:24:16,456 --> 00:24:20,585
‪我只想给予斯毕迪很多很多的爱

562
00:24:20,585 --> 00:24:23,171
‪他这个发型能保持三周吧?

563
00:24:23,171 --> 00:24:25,006
‪他绝对可以保持三周

564
00:24:25,006 --> 00:24:27,425
‪然后就得重做发型了

565
00:24:27,926 --> 00:24:29,219
‪想让他感到自己很帅气

566
00:24:29,219 --> 00:24:32,013
‪给他一个让他自信的发型

567
00:24:32,013 --> 00:24:34,724
‪-看起来如何?
‪-简直太棒了 我都受不了了

568
00:24:35,308 --> 00:24:38,102
‪让他更大胆 准备好出门见人

569
00:24:38,102 --> 00:24:39,604
‪因为这是他应得的

570
00:24:39,604 --> 00:24:41,481
‪-这个绑在你下巴上
‪-好的

571
00:24:42,065 --> 00:24:45,485
‪我不知道编发辫
‪头顶上还要用这种东西

572
00:24:45,485 --> 00:24:48,029
‪-你今天学到新东西了
‪-确实如此

573
00:24:50,990 --> 00:24:52,659
‪你的热情所在是什么?

574
00:24:52,659 --> 00:24:55,745
‪健身是我的热情之一
‪我可以成为一名训练员

575
00:24:55,745 --> 00:24:58,706
‪噢 你完全可以成为一名训练员

576
00:24:58,706 --> 00:25:00,166
‪我觉得自己可以成为教练

577
00:25:00,166 --> 00:25:02,293
‪你完全可以成为一名教练

578
00:25:02,293 --> 00:25:04,420
‪我还在试图搞清楚所有的事

579
00:25:04,420 --> 00:25:06,839
‪你不用把所有事都搞清楚

580
00:25:06,839 --> 00:25:11,427
{\an8}‪而且你刚刚经历了创伤事件
‪要处理很多事情

581
00:25:11,427 --> 00:25:13,429
{\an8}‪对于命运对你的安排

582
00:25:13,429 --> 00:25:15,974
{\an8}‪要保持开放的心态

583
00:25:15,974 --> 00:25:19,477
{\an8}‪因为我认为你是个很有天赋的人
‪你很有潜力

584
00:25:19,477 --> 00:25:20,687
‪我正在为此努力

585
00:25:20,687 --> 00:25:23,398
‪有时候可以更开放、更直接一些

586
00:25:23,398 --> 00:25:25,692
‪你是不是不想表现出脆弱

587
00:25:25,692 --> 00:25:27,402
‪不想表现出自己的感情?

588
00:25:27,402 --> 00:25:31,531
‪我想表现得更脆弱一些
‪真的允许其他人来帮助我

589
00:25:31,531 --> 00:25:33,866
‪-是的
‪-多谈谈我自己的处境

590
00:25:33,866 --> 00:25:36,035
‪我现在根本不谈

591
00:25:36,035 --> 00:25:38,997
‪因为感觉和家里人说这些很奇怪

592
00:25:38,997 --> 00:25:42,917
‪你有没有接受过心理咨询
‪或是考虑过去接受心理咨询?

593
00:25:43,835 --> 00:25:45,086
‪并没有 但是...

594
00:25:45,086 --> 00:25:47,964
‪能够向他人求助需要很大的勇气

595
00:25:48,548 --> 00:25:51,801
‪我20几岁就感染了艾滋病毒

596
00:25:51,801 --> 00:25:54,304
‪我当时真的很抑郁 心情...

597
00:25:54,304 --> 00:25:56,806
‪心情差极了 我需要心理咨询

598
00:25:56,806 --> 00:26:00,018
‪我那时不想求助于别人
‪当我这样做了后 就开始觉得好多了

599
00:26:00,602 --> 00:26:03,146
‪我当时抑郁的时候思考了很多事

600
00:26:03,146 --> 00:26:04,731
‪比如说:“这有什么意义?”

601
00:26:04,731 --> 00:26:07,150
‪我觉得我从那种生活中学到的是

602
00:26:07,150 --> 00:26:09,027
‪把你最严重的痛苦

603
00:26:09,027 --> 00:26:11,321
‪转变为目标

604
00:26:11,321 --> 00:26:13,281
‪如果你能和专业人士谈谈

605
00:26:13,281 --> 00:26:17,035
‪这会帮助你更好地处理
‪自己经历的感情

606
00:26:17,035 --> 00:26:18,244
‪好的

607
00:26:18,244 --> 00:26:21,080
‪我觉得有时候我们会认为
‪求助他人

608
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,458
‪或表现出脆弱 是一种弱者的表现

609
00:26:23,458 --> 00:26:26,377
‪但其实这是最坚强的人才能做到的事

610
00:26:26,377 --> 00:26:29,130
‪说到美好的目标
‪现在你的发辫已经弄好了

611
00:26:29,130 --> 00:26:32,467
‪我们简直太成功了
‪谁能这么厉害啊?

612
00:26:32,467 --> 00:26:35,678
‪虽然我不能很明确地
‪对这些创伤经历感同身受

613
00:26:35,678 --> 00:26:39,474
‪但我对感性、积极性和抑郁
‪都能够感同身受

614
00:26:39,474 --> 00:26:42,310
‪并说出:“不 我不用独自面对这些”

615
00:26:44,270 --> 00:26:47,440
‪现在盯住他的镜头
‪对着摄像机来个飞吻

616
00:26:48,232 --> 00:26:49,442
‪我做不到

617
00:26:49,442 --> 00:26:53,237
‪你可以的 你是个抖音网红 亲爱的!
‪你得习惯上这种事

618
00:26:53,738 --> 00:26:57,116
‪亲爱的 世界就在那里
‪给他们一个吻

619
00:26:59,202 --> 00:27:01,621
‪你难道不想给那些在家里的人
‪抛一个媚眼吗?

620
00:27:05,375 --> 00:27:06,209
‪亲爱的

621
00:27:06,209 --> 00:27:07,710
‪我的天啊

622
00:27:09,879 --> 00:27:12,715
‪你是最可爱、最贴心的男孩
‪你知道吗?

623
00:27:12,715 --> 00:27:14,509
‪保持住自己的可爱、甜蜜感的一面

624
00:27:14,509 --> 00:27:17,303
‪我们必须集中精神
‪我们会向你展示你的新造型

625
00:27:17,303 --> 00:27:20,056
‪准备好了吗 三、二、一

626
00:27:20,056 --> 00:27:21,265
‪这是崭新的你

627
00:27:22,725 --> 00:27:24,143
‪好的

628
00:27:24,143 --> 00:27:25,395
‪怎么样?

629
00:27:25,395 --> 00:27:26,938
‪不错 我喜欢

630
00:27:26,938 --> 00:27:29,399
‪有哪个模特经纪人正在看这个吗?

631
00:27:29,399 --> 00:27:32,735
‪敲敲你的电视机屏幕
‪因为斯毕迪太帅气了

632
00:27:32,735 --> 00:27:33,861
‪他太令人惊艳了

633
00:27:33,861 --> 00:27:37,448
‪从来没想过
‪自己这辈子还能变得这么帅气

634
00:27:37,448 --> 00:27:41,285
‪我不介意你舔一下嘴唇
‪这就...是的 这样不错

635
00:27:41,285 --> 00:27:43,663
‪-怎么了 老兄?
‪-我的天啊

636
00:27:43,663 --> 00:27:46,124
‪斯毕迪感受到自己那一面了

637
00:27:46,124 --> 00:27:49,877
‪下次我不想费那么大力气
‪让你展现出模特的一面了 好吧?

638
00:27:49,877 --> 00:27:50,962
‪好的

639
00:27:50,962 --> 00:27:53,631
‪我看到的 是一种自信的转变

640
00:27:53,631 --> 00:27:56,884
‪这让我粉雄的心真的很开心

641
00:27:58,970 --> 00:28:01,597
‪哦 太可爱了!

642
00:28:05,184 --> 00:28:07,937
{\an8}‪(闪耀五人组总部
‪路易斯安那州新奥尔良)

643
00:28:07,937 --> 00:28:09,147
‪太好了 小谭

644
00:28:09,147 --> 00:28:11,441
‪-挺好的吧?
‪-是啊 我们以后也会这样的

645
00:28:11,441 --> 00:28:12,358
‪是的

646
00:28:12,358 --> 00:28:14,110
‪嘿 各位 你们猜我邀请了谁!

647
00:28:14,110 --> 00:28:17,029
‪-嘿!
‪-韦斯利 你好

648
00:28:17,029 --> 00:28:18,406
‪看 是韦斯利!

649
00:28:18,406 --> 00:28:19,741
{\an8}‪嘿 大家好!

650
00:28:21,284 --> 00:28:24,162
{\an8}‪现在出现在斯毕迪生活中的人
‪都是健全人

651
00:28:24,162 --> 00:28:27,623
‪我想让他见见能够理解他处境的人

652
00:28:27,623 --> 00:28:30,126
‪可以和他聊聊 给他提供指引的人

653
00:28:30,126 --> 00:28:31,544
‪这就是我邀请韦斯利的原因

654
00:28:31,544 --> 00:28:35,882
‪我教导那些残疾人
‪想要与众不同很正常

655
00:28:35,882 --> 00:28:38,134
‪轻松自在地做自己

656
00:28:38,718 --> 00:28:40,511
‪今天我已焕然一新

657
00:28:40,511 --> 00:28:45,391
‪我想让所有人知道
‪是的 我是残障人士 但并不残缺

658
00:28:48,144 --> 00:28:51,898
‪自从我们在《家庭问答》里
‪被打得落花流水之后就没再见过面了

659
00:28:52,398 --> 00:28:53,858
‪你好 亲爱的

660
00:28:53,858 --> 00:28:56,444
‪看看你 你看起来真不错 小子!

661
00:28:56,444 --> 00:28:57,403
‪我尽力了

662
00:28:58,738 --> 00:29:00,364
‪你成功了

663
00:29:04,202 --> 00:29:06,329
‪你过得好吗?好久不见

664
00:29:06,329 --> 00:29:07,705
‪我想说生活很美好

665
00:29:07,705 --> 00:29:10,583
‪我一直在探索我的本质

666
00:29:10,583 --> 00:29:12,376
‪感觉现在无比自由

667
00:29:12,376 --> 00:29:14,170
‪是的 你的那个组织怎么样了?

668
00:29:14,170 --> 00:29:17,006
‪“不全然残疾”正在蓬勃发展

669
00:29:17,006 --> 00:29:19,926
‪我们已经和许多其他平台有了合作

670
00:29:19,926 --> 00:29:21,260
‪传达出了我们的理念

671
00:29:21,260 --> 00:29:24,263
‪对我们能做的事情感到非常兴奋

672
00:29:24,263 --> 00:29:26,974
‪我们这周帮助的这个家伙 斯毕迪
‪我们一见到他

673
00:29:26,974 --> 00:29:28,267
‪就知道你必须来

674
00:29:28,267 --> 00:29:31,354
‪没有其他人能像你一样
‪真正地与这个人产生共鸣

675
00:29:31,354 --> 00:29:32,438
‪并引导他

676
00:29:32,438 --> 00:29:34,774
‪你知道 我很期待和斯毕迪的见面

677
00:29:35,525 --> 00:29:38,402
‪-这发型看起来真不错
‪-嘿!

678
00:29:38,402 --> 00:29:41,280
‪进来吧 这是我们的朋友
‪我们让你们见一面

679
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:42,490
‪你知道韦斯利吗?

680
00:29:44,116 --> 00:29:46,369
‪你好吗 你们都好吗?

681
00:29:46,369 --> 00:29:47,787
‪嘿 伙计!

682
00:29:47,787 --> 00:29:49,205
‪你好吗?

683
00:29:49,205 --> 00:29:51,666
‪你好吗 亲爱的?
‪你看起来很帅气

684
00:29:52,166 --> 00:29:54,043
‪我邀请韦斯利来

685
00:29:54,043 --> 00:29:56,879
‪是因为我认为你需要一个人

686
00:29:56,879 --> 00:29:58,506
‪能与你聊天 和你共情

687
00:29:58,506 --> 00:30:02,009
‪理解你如何想用自己的声音
‪来激励其他人

688
00:30:02,009 --> 00:30:05,012
‪但也能说出来
‪“你还有需要克服的困难

689
00:30:05,012 --> 00:30:06,931
‪需要踏上属于你自己的治愈之路”

690
00:30:06,931 --> 00:30:10,560
‪我对你做了一些调查
‪我看了你的抖音 我看到你了

691
00:30:11,519 --> 00:30:12,478
‪你是个抖音网红

692
00:30:12,478 --> 00:30:16,607
‪我看到你在社交媒体上做的那些工作
‪我真的...我知道这种旅程

693
00:30:17,108 --> 00:30:18,568
‪可以是很美妙的

694
00:30:18,568 --> 00:30:22,947
‪我今年庆祝了自己坐轮椅第十年
‪真的是“庆祝”

695
00:30:22,947 --> 00:30:24,323
‪我们会让你进入这个阶段

696
00:30:24,323 --> 00:30:27,451
‪韦斯利在这里时 你有哪方面

697
00:30:27,451 --> 00:30:28,744
‪想向他学习的吗?

698
00:30:28,744 --> 00:30:29,787
‪有的

699
00:30:30,413 --> 00:30:32,915
‪我和你们说过的社交焦虑

700
00:30:32,915 --> 00:30:33,833
‪是的

701
00:30:33,833 --> 00:30:36,836
‪参加派对或走进餐厅时
‪大家都会盯着你

702
00:30:37,545 --> 00:30:41,966
‪-想看就让他们看个痛快
‪-我昨天就是这么说的!

703
00:30:41,966 --> 00:30:44,886
‪英雄所见略同

704
00:30:44,886 --> 00:30:47,555
‪-好了 准备好出门了吗?
‪-我们一会见

705
00:30:47,555 --> 00:30:48,890
‪-再见
‪-再见

706
00:30:50,308 --> 00:30:52,310
‪你一直想搬出去住

707
00:30:52,310 --> 00:30:54,478
‪所以我今天要做的

708
00:30:54,478 --> 00:30:58,107
‪就是和韦斯利叔叔一起
‪带你去看房

709
00:30:58,107 --> 00:30:59,025
‪好的

710
00:30:59,025 --> 00:31:02,904
‪这样一来 他就可以和你分享
‪需要注意的事情

711
00:31:02,904 --> 00:31:04,405
‪我可以谈谈室内设计

712
00:31:04,405 --> 00:31:06,240
‪-你兴奋吗?
‪-很好 我很兴奋

713
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:11,954
‪今天我想向斯毕迪展示
‪他能够找到一件房子 既便利

714
00:31:11,954 --> 00:31:14,749
‪又可以满足他独立生活的需求

715
00:31:14,749 --> 00:31:18,377
‪我首先会关注周围环境本身

716
00:31:18,377 --> 00:31:20,796
‪有多少个无障碍停车位

717
00:31:20,796 --> 00:31:23,215
‪-是的
‪-有没有坡道

718
00:31:23,215 --> 00:31:25,676
‪最近大家都在这么说

719
00:31:25,676 --> 00:31:28,304
‪“走进赞美你的人群
‪不要留在只是容忍你的圈子里”

720
00:31:28,304 --> 00:31:31,557
‪因为如果我周围到处都是障碍

721
00:31:31,557 --> 00:31:34,852
‪唯一能去的地方就是房间里
‪那我会有自由的感觉吗?

722
00:31:34,852 --> 00:31:35,937
‪没错

723
00:31:40,149 --> 00:31:42,902
‪我们要进入的就是这栋楼

724
00:31:44,779 --> 00:31:46,197
‪真的吗?

725
00:31:46,197 --> 00:31:47,657
‪-不会吧!
‪-是的

726
00:31:47,657 --> 00:31:49,158
‪哇哦

727
00:31:49,825 --> 00:31:51,953
‪这种事经常发生吧?

728
00:31:51,953 --> 00:31:55,456
‪是啊 这种人行道?你都进不去前门

729
00:31:56,916 --> 00:31:59,126
‪我没看到无障碍停车位

730
00:31:59,126 --> 00:32:02,046
‪所以我就停这里吧

731
00:32:02,046 --> 00:32:04,048
‪这里看起来是最方便的位置

732
00:32:04,048 --> 00:32:07,385
‪即便严格地说这不算残疾人车位
‪第一个缺点

733
00:32:07,385 --> 00:32:09,095
{\an8}‪(如果发生火灾 请使用楼梯)

734
00:32:09,095 --> 00:32:11,305
‪-好了 就是这个房间
‪-好的

735
00:32:15,226 --> 00:32:18,187
‪我不会认为这些算是...

736
00:32:18,187 --> 00:32:19,271
‪-无障碍的?
‪-对

737
00:32:19,271 --> 00:32:20,815
‪-不行
‪-不行

738
00:32:20,815 --> 00:32:22,775
‪-微波炉
‪-微波炉太高了

739
00:32:22,775 --> 00:32:24,360
‪-对
‪-还有橱柜

740
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,529
‪-这件屋子是带家具的
‪-是的

741
00:32:26,529 --> 00:32:30,157
{\an8}‪但你可不想用这些家具来过日子

742
00:32:30,157 --> 00:32:32,827
{\an8}‪-会让你寸步难行
‪-卧室

743
00:32:33,327 --> 00:32:36,163
‪这里看起来有些窄 但还算可以?

744
00:32:36,163 --> 00:32:38,165
‪进卫生间会是个问题

745
00:32:39,208 --> 00:32:41,794
‪-我估计你的轮椅进不去
‪-我试试看

746
00:32:43,045 --> 00:32:44,922
‪不行 根本进不去

747
00:32:44,922 --> 00:32:47,091
‪这件公寓有优点吗?

748
00:32:47,091 --> 00:32:49,218
‪这个衣柜有个优点

749
00:32:49,218 --> 00:32:51,220
‪-有些架子很低
‪-是的

750
00:32:51,220 --> 00:32:52,888
‪-至少有一排是矮的
‪-只有一排

751
00:32:52,888 --> 00:32:55,391
‪-大多数架子都很高
‪-而且你也进不去

752
00:32:55,391 --> 00:32:58,352
‪这是我硬想出来的 也许能算是...

753
00:33:01,772 --> 00:33:04,275
‪有三个残疾人车位

754
00:33:04,775 --> 00:33:06,152
{\an8}‪(无障碍入口位于后门)

755
00:33:08,988 --> 00:33:12,491
‪-你看 这是个好兆头
‪-绝对是个好兆头

756
00:33:14,368 --> 00:33:15,453
‪-噢 不错
‪-很好

757
00:33:15,453 --> 00:33:17,288
‪-是啊
‪-看看这个低台面!

758
00:33:17,288 --> 00:33:19,123
‪但有很多高的橱柜

759
00:33:19,623 --> 00:33:20,833
‪-这很好
‪-是的

760
00:33:20,833 --> 00:33:24,754
‪所以要特别注意的是
‪你的旋钮在这里

761
00:33:24,754 --> 00:33:26,464
‪如果你的旋钮在这里

762
00:33:26,464 --> 00:33:29,383
‪你就需要从滚烫的炉头伸过手去关它

763
00:33:29,383 --> 00:33:31,719
‪-你就会烫到胳膊
‪-我这么干了很多年

764
00:33:31,719 --> 00:33:34,513
‪我跟你学的 我之前没想过这点

765
00:33:35,931 --> 00:33:38,642
‪漂亮而开放的客厅
‪走廊很漂亮、很宽阔

766
00:33:38,642 --> 00:33:40,061
‪这里真的不错

767
00:33:40,061 --> 00:33:42,188
‪-这是卧室
‪-哦 很好

768
00:33:42,855 --> 00:33:46,692
‪甚至衣柜也是 所有的东西都很低

769
00:33:46,692 --> 00:33:49,195
‪你可以把自己的鞋子放在这排

770
00:33:49,695 --> 00:33:52,031
‪-这是洗手间
‪-真不错!

771
00:33:52,531 --> 00:33:54,116
‪挺宽敞的

772
00:33:54,116 --> 00:33:55,785
‪宽敞最重要了

773
00:33:55,785 --> 00:33:58,496
‪-我喜欢这点 水池下面有个空间
‪-你能够到吗?

774
00:33:59,580 --> 00:34:01,165
‪很好

775
00:34:02,124 --> 00:34:03,084
‪很好

776
00:34:03,084 --> 00:34:06,003
‪浴缸很一般

777
00:34:06,003 --> 00:34:08,672
‪-是的
‪-我不会说谎的 我不喜欢

778
00:34:08,672 --> 00:34:10,716
‪-没有扶手
‪-是的

779
00:34:10,716 --> 00:34:12,510
‪前开门的洗衣机和烘干机

780
00:34:13,010 --> 00:34:14,887
‪-我不会开这个门
‪-好的

781
00:34:14,887 --> 00:34:18,307
‪如果从另一边开门 就更方便了

782
00:34:18,307 --> 00:34:19,683
‪你不用凑合

783
00:34:19,683 --> 00:34:22,728
‪你应该拥有和其他人一样的便利生活

784
00:34:22,728 --> 00:34:24,063
‪就是这样

785
00:34:24,063 --> 00:34:25,231
‪(第四天)

786
00:34:25,231 --> 00:34:28,442
‪(最苦恼的莫过于
‪心中藏事却无法倾诉)

787
00:34:28,442 --> 00:34:29,443
‪(玛雅·安格鲁)

788
00:34:34,865 --> 00:34:37,451
‪看看外面的这些小孩子
‪以前我也是其中一员

789
00:34:42,665 --> 00:34:44,834
‪-你说以前你也是其中一员
‪-是的

790
00:34:44,834 --> 00:34:46,919
‪清晨 深夜

791
00:34:47,503 --> 00:34:50,297
‪投篮 和其他人一起比赛

792
00:34:50,297 --> 00:34:53,050
‪有时候我会后悔 我希望我...

793
00:34:53,050 --> 00:34:54,927
‪能够回到过去 做出不同的选择

794
00:34:54,927 --> 00:34:58,514
‪因为我妈过去总是会
‪在一些小事上督促我

795
00:34:58,514 --> 00:35:00,432
‪-督促你什么?
‪-加倍努力

796
00:35:00,432 --> 00:35:02,726
‪投入更多时间 更加努力

797
00:35:02,726 --> 00:35:04,979
‪我真的很感激我妈妈

798
00:35:04,979 --> 00:35:07,773
‪因为她支持我的篮球梦

799
00:35:07,773 --> 00:35:12,611
‪我的目标是给我妈妈买个房子
‪可计划赶不上变化

800
00:35:13,237 --> 00:35:16,949
‪你认为你对你妈妈的过世

801
00:35:16,949 --> 00:35:20,494
‪和你失去双腿运动能力这件事
‪有过恰当的缅怀吗?

802
00:35:21,203 --> 00:35:22,329
‪不 没有过

803
00:35:22,329 --> 00:35:23,622
‪我想应该是没有过

804
00:35:24,456 --> 00:35:26,709
‪你觉得自己
‪为什么没有花时间做这件事?

805
00:35:27,710 --> 00:35:30,504
‪因为我想去把它忽视掉

806
00:35:30,504 --> 00:35:33,716
‪如果你开始面对这些悲伤
‪你害怕会发生什么?

807
00:35:33,716 --> 00:35:35,926
‪我不知...我无法解释

808
00:35:35,926 --> 00:35:36,927
‪我们有足够的时间

809
00:35:38,345 --> 00:35:41,015
‪因为在没有找到某种方法
‪来释放自己感情的情况下

810
00:35:41,015 --> 00:35:44,643
‪我不能让你就这么离开

811
00:35:44,643 --> 00:35:47,897
‪我试图让你踏上一段旅程
‪在那些痛苦的时刻

812
00:35:47,897 --> 00:35:49,773
‪你能够谈谈你当时的感受

813
00:35:54,069 --> 00:35:56,488
‪我发生车祸的时候 看到我妈妈...

814
00:35:57,323 --> 00:35:59,450
‪我从未目睹过死亡

815
00:35:59,450 --> 00:36:01,160
‪亲眼目睹死亡

816
00:36:01,827 --> 00:36:03,871
‪看到我妈妈的样子

817
00:36:03,871 --> 00:36:04,788
‪很难受

818
00:36:04,788 --> 00:36:06,373
‪是的

819
00:36:06,373 --> 00:36:08,125
‪看到我妈妈和我姨妈

820
00:36:08,125 --> 00:36:09,460
‪是那些画面

821
00:36:09,460 --> 00:36:10,753
‪是的 那些画面

822
00:36:10,753 --> 00:36:13,005
‪我觉得我永远都不会明白的

823
00:36:13,005 --> 00:36:16,926
‪在这么勤劳、美好的人身上
‪会发生如此的悲剧

824
00:36:16,926 --> 00:36:20,429
‪我只是想逃避 因为这些让我难受

825
00:36:20,930 --> 00:36:22,348
‪我为此责怪上帝

826
00:36:22,348 --> 00:36:24,058
‪-你会这样?
‪-因为...

827
00:36:24,892 --> 00:36:26,644
‪我一直在努力走正途

828
00:36:26,644 --> 00:36:29,396
‪从来没有惹过麻烦
‪从来都不是个坏孩子

829
00:36:29,980 --> 00:36:32,608
‪这样的事情竟然会
‪毫无征兆地发生在我的身上...

830
00:36:32,608 --> 00:36:35,027
‪你多久问一次这个问题
‪“为什么是我?”

831
00:36:35,694 --> 00:36:38,322
‪我试着让积极的日子多于消极的日子

832
00:36:38,864 --> 00:36:41,533
‪但有时候你摆脱不掉这种日子

833
00:36:41,533 --> 00:36:45,579
‪有那么几次 我想自杀

834
00:36:46,538 --> 00:36:47,539
‪是吗?

835
00:36:47,539 --> 00:36:51,043
‪我看着镜子里的自己 开始哭泣

836
00:36:51,043 --> 00:36:53,671
‪-好的
‪-因为我要永远这样生活下去

837
00:36:56,048 --> 00:36:58,050
‪-对不起 我只是...
‪-没关系的

838
00:37:02,888 --> 00:37:03,931
‪太沉重了

839
00:37:05,808 --> 00:37:08,185
‪我很久没谈过这些事了

840
00:37:10,396 --> 00:37:12,815
‪-对不起
‪-你无需道歉

841
00:37:14,358 --> 00:37:17,611
‪哭出来吧 因为你现在的悲伤
‪有所不同

842
00:37:18,112 --> 00:37:21,031
‪现在你正在接受自己的愤怒之情

843
00:37:23,158 --> 00:37:25,869
‪你不必过着永远处于愤怒状态的生活

844
00:37:26,829 --> 00:37:31,250
‪你必须能说出来:“等等
‪我内心的力量足够强大

845
00:37:31,750 --> 00:37:33,335
‪我有能力

846
00:37:33,335 --> 00:37:35,629
‪克服这些负面的情绪

847
00:37:35,629 --> 00:37:37,840
‪虽然会很辛苦、很艰难

848
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,468
‪有时我会因为不得不继续战斗
‪而筋疲力尽”

849
00:37:42,678 --> 00:37:43,804
‪你能做到的

850
00:37:45,306 --> 00:37:48,976
‪年轻黑人在这个国家已经够难的了

851
00:37:48,976 --> 00:37:51,145
‪斯毕迪已经尽其所能

852
00:37:51,145 --> 00:37:55,607
‪确保自己走在他母亲和他自己
‪希望的正路上

853
00:37:55,607 --> 00:38:00,529
‪而经历过那种事让他崩溃了

854
00:38:00,529 --> 00:38:03,282
‪有时你看到我凝望远方

855
00:38:03,282 --> 00:38:05,659
‪那就是我在追溯那些记忆

856
00:38:05,659 --> 00:38:08,120
‪有时会有记忆闪回

857
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,831
‪我真的想找到一个能和我聊聊的人

858
00:38:10,831 --> 00:38:12,624
‪从现在开始出发

859
00:38:12,624 --> 00:38:16,045
‪开始做你需要做的事

860
00:38:16,045 --> 00:38:18,005
‪这样你就可以开始悲伤和治愈的过程

861
00:38:18,005 --> 00:38:21,467
‪你所经历的事情不能止步于此

862
00:38:21,467 --> 00:38:24,887
‪我想让斯毕迪明白的是
‪即便你失去了很多

863
00:38:24,887 --> 00:38:27,931
‪你依然有希望获得一个美好的未来

864
00:38:28,432 --> 00:38:31,643
‪这就是他的治愈和悲伤之旅

865
00:38:31,643 --> 00:38:33,312
‪我知道他会成功的

866
00:38:33,312 --> 00:38:37,316
‪我把你带出来也为了和你打一场球

867
00:38:37,316 --> 00:38:38,233
‪是吗?

868
00:38:38,233 --> 00:38:40,778
‪我邀请了几个朋友和我们一起玩

869
00:38:40,778 --> 00:38:43,155
‪-来吧
‪-看看你还能不能碾压全场

870
00:38:43,655 --> 00:38:45,282
‪-也许吧
‪-也许?

871
00:38:45,282 --> 00:38:46,658
‪你们好啊?

872
00:38:46,658 --> 00:38:49,495
‪好吧 我从四年级起就没打过球过了

873
00:38:50,454 --> 00:38:53,123
‪-你以为我走了吗?
‪-我还以为你走了

874
00:38:53,123 --> 00:38:54,958
‪我建议我们打二对二

875
00:38:54,958 --> 00:38:57,127
‪-二对二
‪-我觉得我们应该给他们上一课

876
00:38:57,127 --> 00:39:02,424
‪但首先 我给你带来了这个绑带

877
00:39:02,424 --> 00:39:04,468
‪-绑在腰上?
‪-绑在你的胸口

878
00:39:04,468 --> 00:39:07,429
‪如果你做好了打球的准备

879
00:39:07,429 --> 00:39:09,181
‪你可以试试这个

880
00:39:09,181 --> 00:39:10,516
‪这是个支持护具吗?

881
00:39:10,516 --> 00:39:11,683
‪-是的
‪-用来支持

882
00:39:11,683 --> 00:39:14,853
‪我的伤是在胸椎C8的位置
‪所以我的核心...

883
00:39:14,853 --> 00:39:16,772
‪-系紧点
‪-我的伤是胸部以下瘫痪

884
00:39:16,772 --> 00:39:20,401
‪-因为伤势 我的核心无力
‪-好了

885
00:39:20,901 --> 00:39:22,277
‪-有用吗?
‪-是的

886
00:39:22,277 --> 00:39:24,154
‪-你准备好了吗?
‪-我害怕又紧张

887
00:39:24,154 --> 00:39:27,908
‪-你们感觉怎么样?
‪-我觉得我已经准备好大展身手了

888
00:39:27,908 --> 00:39:29,910
‪对于斯毕迪来说 会感觉有些害怕

889
00:39:29,910 --> 00:39:32,788
‪在轮椅上打篮球会大不一样

890
00:39:32,788 --> 00:39:33,831
‪你们准备好了吗?

891
00:39:38,210 --> 00:39:39,628
‪保持自信

892
00:39:39,628 --> 00:39:41,046
‪你在做什么?

893
00:39:42,256 --> 00:39:44,091
‪-什么?
‪-你的投篮进了

894
00:39:44,091 --> 00:39:45,634
‪斯毕迪一旦上了手

895
00:39:46,593 --> 00:39:49,430
‪那种害怕的感觉就消失了
‪那个篮球运动员又回来了

896
00:39:49,430 --> 00:39:50,431
‪他不会投篮

897
00:39:52,933 --> 00:39:54,643
‪我拿到了 进攻 来吧!

898
00:39:55,894 --> 00:39:59,523
‪-你还是要盖他帽啊!
‪-我是加拿大人 脸皮薄盖不了帽

899
00:39:59,523 --> 00:40:00,566
‪上篮!

900
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,279
‪你终于找到了快乐

901
00:40:05,279 --> 00:40:08,699
‪就在那一刻
‪斯毕迪释放了自己的感情

902
00:40:08,699 --> 00:40:11,785
‪让自己获得重返球场的动力

903
00:40:11,785 --> 00:40:13,704
‪再次体验到其中的快乐

904
00:40:15,122 --> 00:40:16,290
‪很好

905
00:40:16,290 --> 00:40:18,041
‪我还是宝刀未老呢

906
00:40:18,542 --> 00:40:19,710
‪球技永远不会消失

907
00:40:19,710 --> 00:40:21,003
‪这个家伙确实会投篮

908
00:40:21,003 --> 00:40:22,838
‪好的 这个家伙确实会投篮

909
00:40:26,258 --> 00:40:27,676
‪你的球技一点都没退步

910
00:40:28,552 --> 00:40:29,678
‪天啊 老实说

911
00:40:29,678 --> 00:40:33,432
‪我在离开前必须和你聊聊

912
00:40:33,432 --> 00:40:35,767
‪不仅是脊髓损伤方面的事

913
00:40:35,767 --> 00:40:37,269
‪还有你刚刚踏上的旅程

914
00:40:37,269 --> 00:40:41,732
‪我能理解你现在经历的一切

915
00:40:42,483 --> 00:40:45,944
‪我刚受伤的时候 非常厌恶自己

916
00:40:45,944 --> 00:40:49,448
‪非常的抑郁 有很多自杀的念头

917
00:40:50,115 --> 00:40:53,911
‪我曾经每天醒来时
‪都会暴打自己的腿

918
00:40:53,911 --> 00:40:56,622
‪你知道我的意思吗?
‪我控制不了自己

919
00:40:56,622 --> 00:40:57,539
‪是的

920
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,666
‪卡拉莫提到了这件事

921
00:40:59,666 --> 00:41:02,753
‪为什么一个好人会遇到
‪如此悲惨的事情?

922
00:41:02,753 --> 00:41:04,546
‪我不知道我做错了什么

923
00:41:04,546 --> 00:41:05,631
‪是的

924
00:41:05,631 --> 00:41:09,468
‪这些疑惑、问题
‪“为什么是我”的想法都很重要

925
00:41:09,468 --> 00:41:13,347
‪但重要的是要改变
‪你对发生在你身上事的看法

926
00:41:13,931 --> 00:41:15,849
‪“我为什么要忍受这种生活?”

927
00:41:15,849 --> 00:41:18,477
‪然后你会问:“为什么不呢?”

928
00:41:20,437 --> 00:41:21,522
‪我的人生很棒

929
00:41:21,522 --> 00:41:24,942
‪但如果我的双腿还能动
‪就不会有现在的人生

930
00:41:25,901 --> 00:41:28,820
‪一切都不一样了
‪但我认为这就是它的美妙之处

931
00:41:28,820 --> 00:41:32,282
‪你使用的词语和穿着打扮
‪已经很积极了

932
00:41:32,282 --> 00:41:34,493
‪但我想让你真的相信这点

933
00:41:34,493 --> 00:41:38,914
‪为了能够接受这一切
‪你必须找到内心的爱 属于你自己的

934
00:41:38,914 --> 00:41:40,832
‪属于这新生命中的爱

935
00:41:40,832 --> 00:41:45,379
‪有很多人在排队等待你的带领

936
00:41:45,963 --> 00:41:50,425
‪别让自己遇到的挑战
‪阻止你成为自己能够成为的人

937
00:41:51,009 --> 00:41:53,428
‪因为只有你自己才能打败你

938
00:41:54,972 --> 00:41:58,100
‪我听到了一些很有智慧的话 真的!

939
00:41:58,100 --> 00:41:59,768
‪我喜欢韦斯利的智慧

940
00:41:59,768 --> 00:42:03,355
‪这不是我们谈话的结束

941
00:42:03,355 --> 00:42:06,900
‪我计划让大家经常和你聊聊
‪帮助你塑造出新的自己

942
00:42:06,900 --> 00:42:08,694
‪你有很大的潜力

943
00:42:08,694 --> 00:42:12,447
‪我等不及想见识到
‪你会成长为何等优秀的人

944
00:42:12,447 --> 00:42:14,950
‪我喜欢这点 我爱你 那么...

945
00:42:14,950 --> 00:42:18,203
‪-我也爱你 兄弟
‪-好的 兄弟 我们就在这里

946
00:42:21,665 --> 00:42:23,500
‪-谢谢你
‪-也谢谢你

947
00:42:23,500 --> 00:42:26,920
‪-我很高兴你们俩认识了
‪-我也是

948
00:42:27,546 --> 00:42:28,880
‪好了 去吃塔克吗?

949
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,675
‪在了解斯毕迪之后
‪你可能更想吃铁板烧

950
00:42:33,969 --> 00:42:35,887
‪(全新的斯毕迪)

951
00:42:35,887 --> 00:42:38,890
‪(你今天的样子不重要
‪重要的是你明天会成为谁)

952
00:42:38,890 --> 00:42:40,100
‪(韦斯利·汉密尔顿)

953
00:42:48,859 --> 00:42:50,360
‪-我就知道!
‪-那是我们的鲍比

954
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:51,403
‪鲍比!

955
00:42:51,403 --> 00:42:52,863
‪-嘿!
‪-鲍比在这里做什么?

956
00:42:52,863 --> 00:42:54,531
‪嘿 鲍比

957
00:42:54,531 --> 00:42:55,574
‪嗨 孩子们

958
00:42:55,574 --> 00:42:57,242
‪你好吗?

959
00:42:58,619 --> 00:43:00,370
‪-你行吗 好的
‪-可以

960
00:43:00,370 --> 00:43:02,289
‪我扶稳你了 我的朋友 小心头

961
00:43:02,289 --> 00:43:03,624
‪-你还好吧?
‪-是的

962
00:43:03,624 --> 00:43:05,083
‪好了 伙计 谢谢

963
00:43:05,083 --> 00:43:06,293
‪我们出发了

964
00:43:06,293 --> 00:43:08,170
‪拜托 你还能再可爱些吗?

965
00:43:08,170 --> 00:43:10,797
‪-你认得这个吗?
‪-对 是我的车

966
00:43:10,797 --> 00:43:14,843
‪你的车在这里
‪因为这里是你的新停车场

967
00:43:14,843 --> 00:43:18,430
‪-真的吗?
‪-我和闪耀五人组给你找了间公寓

968
00:43:20,557 --> 00:43:23,435
‪-已经付了你明年的房租
‪-我的天

969
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:27,481
‪谢谢你 抱一下

970
00:43:28,357 --> 00:43:30,233
‪-谢谢你们
‪-我等不及要进去看看了!

971
00:43:30,233 --> 00:43:33,612
‪这太疯狂了 我会尽量不哭
‪太疯狂了 谢谢你们

972
00:43:33,612 --> 00:43:36,990
‪-不客气
‪-斯毕迪 你完全配得上这一切

973
00:43:37,699 --> 00:43:39,409
‪-你妈妈在指引着我们
‪-是的

974
00:43:39,409 --> 00:43:41,244
‪每一步都在她的指引之下

975
00:43:41,244 --> 00:43:42,204
‪我相信这点

976
00:43:42,204 --> 00:43:44,748
‪她现在肯定在高兴地看着你

977
00:43:44,748 --> 00:43:47,292
‪-谢谢你 我能再拥抱你一下吗?
‪-可以

978
00:43:47,292 --> 00:43:48,335
‪谢谢你们

979
00:43:48,335 --> 00:43:51,254
‪虽然现在超级热
‪但是我们应该集体拥抱一下

980
00:43:51,254 --> 00:43:52,464
‪谢谢你们

981
00:43:52,464 --> 00:43:59,096
‪18岁时 他曾有过那么多梦想
‪都在一瞬间被夺走了

982
00:43:59,096 --> 00:44:00,013
‪我们走吧

983
00:44:00,013 --> 00:44:02,599
‪我无法想象这个孩子经历了什么

984
00:44:02,599 --> 00:44:06,937
‪但看到他现在脸上的笑容
‪我感到非常开心

985
00:44:08,814 --> 00:44:11,108
‪-是这间吗?
‪-进去吧

986
00:44:11,692 --> 00:44:14,945
‪我的天!

987
00:44:15,821 --> 00:44:18,198
‪我的天啊

988
00:44:19,157 --> 00:44:22,619
‪真的太温馨了

989
00:44:22,619 --> 00:44:24,830
‪你们做得太棒了!

990
00:44:25,539 --> 00:44:28,375
‪我调整了一些东西
‪我把水池下的柜子拆了

991
00:44:28,375 --> 00:44:30,919
‪-我把角度弄成这样 你用起来更舒服
‪-谢谢

992
00:44:31,420 --> 00:44:34,673
‪我们还安装了很多
‪让生活更轻松的东西

993
00:44:35,173 --> 00:44:38,176
‪Alexa 放下客厅遮光板

994
00:44:38,176 --> 00:44:39,261
‪好的

995
00:44:40,011 --> 00:44:40,887
‪哇哦!

996
00:44:40,887 --> 00:44:41,930
‪什么?

997
00:44:44,641 --> 00:44:46,351
‪我以为你在开玩笑 鲍比!

998
00:44:46,977 --> 00:44:50,480
‪Alexa 关闭客厅灯光

999
00:44:51,815 --> 00:44:52,816
‪好的

1000
00:44:55,235 --> 00:44:56,570
‪-我要这个
‪-对吧?

1001
00:44:56,570 --> 00:44:58,655
‪我给你设置好了应用程序
‪这样你就可以

1002
00:44:58,655 --> 00:45:00,699
‪用手机应用程序控制一切了

1003
00:45:00,699 --> 00:45:01,616
‪好的

1004
00:45:02,284 --> 00:45:06,204
‪斯毕迪真的很想让我在
‪他最喜欢的铁板烧店

1005
00:45:06,204 --> 00:45:07,998
‪教他做牛排炒饭

1006
00:45:07,998 --> 00:45:12,335
‪我对电器都很无感 除了这个东西

1007
00:45:12,335 --> 00:45:14,337
‪这是史上最好用的电饭锅

1008
00:45:14,337 --> 00:45:16,339
‪你可以往里面放谷物 燕麦片

1009
00:45:16,339 --> 00:45:17,799
‪说到燕麦片

1010
00:45:17,799 --> 00:45:19,092
‪这个超级棒

1011
00:45:20,552 --> 00:45:21,470
‪是啊

1012
00:45:23,764 --> 00:45:25,348
‪-准备好看其他东西了吗?
‪-是的

1013
00:45:25,348 --> 00:45:26,933
‪好 我想带你去看洗手间

1014
00:45:32,856 --> 00:45:34,149
‪前开门洗衣机

1015
00:45:34,149 --> 00:45:38,236
‪真正的男子汉都自己洗衣服

1016
00:45:39,654 --> 00:45:41,448
‪你有个无障碍淋浴间

1017
00:45:41,448 --> 00:45:44,576
‪这样你就可以完全独立生活
‪不依赖他人

1018
00:45:44,576 --> 00:45:45,911
‪我的天啊

1019
00:45:46,745 --> 00:45:48,580
‪我可以直接坐轮椅进去
‪转移到淋浴室

1020
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,125
‪我之前必须换两把椅子
‪才能进到淋浴间

1021
00:45:52,626 --> 00:45:53,543
‪而且...

1022
00:45:53,543 --> 00:45:56,755
‪-这会节省很多时间
‪-节省很多时间、很多精力

1023
00:45:56,755 --> 00:45:57,756
‪我喜欢这个

1024
00:46:05,222 --> 00:46:06,973
‪我把门拆了 换成了帘子

1025
00:46:06,973 --> 00:46:09,226
‪这样你就不用开关门了

1026
00:46:09,726 --> 00:46:12,437
‪天啊 太棒了
‪我从来没见过这样的东西

1027
00:46:12,437 --> 00:46:15,190
‪-都是你的
‪-我从没见过这样的床

1028
00:46:15,190 --> 00:46:16,858
‪-好漂亮
‪-就像宇宙飞船一样

1029
00:46:16,858 --> 00:46:18,026
‪谢谢你 鲍比

1030
00:46:18,026 --> 00:46:20,028
‪这会让生活变得轻松多了

1031
00:46:20,862 --> 00:46:21,738
‪你的衣柜

1032
00:46:21,738 --> 00:46:23,240
‪这是最有趣的地方之一

1033
00:46:23,907 --> 00:46:25,033
‪这太疯狂了

1034
00:46:25,033 --> 00:46:29,329
‪因为你看起来很喜欢颜色
‪所以我们选用了很多不同的颜色

1035
00:46:29,830 --> 00:46:32,249
‪你在店里看起来很喜欢这件衣服

1036
00:46:32,249 --> 00:46:37,796
‪所以我们给你准备了一系列色彩缤纷
‪俏皮有趣的针织衫

1037
00:46:37,796 --> 00:46:40,215
‪-这件
‪-是不是特别棒?

1038
00:46:40,215 --> 00:46:42,801
‪一堆不同的裤子

1039
00:46:42,801 --> 00:46:45,220
‪都是瘦腿裤 所以符合你的要求

1040
00:46:45,220 --> 00:46:46,555
‪也不会碰到你的轮子

1041
00:46:47,973 --> 00:46:50,934
‪终于说到各式各样的衬衫了

1042
00:46:51,852 --> 00:46:54,187
‪取决于你想怎么搭配

1043
00:46:54,187 --> 00:46:55,647
‪-我们给你穿上吧?
‪-好的

1044
00:46:58,358 --> 00:47:00,277
‪各位 准备好了吗?
‪斯毕迪要出来了

1045
00:47:00,277 --> 00:47:01,570
‪是的

1046
00:47:02,487 --> 00:47:04,281
‪好的 斯毕迪 出来吧!

1047
00:47:04,781 --> 00:47:07,200
‪太牛了

1048
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:08,952
‪-我喜欢这个颜色
‪-好家伙!

1049
00:47:08,952 --> 00:47:10,787
‪你看起来帅得要死!

1050
00:47:10,787 --> 00:47:14,416
‪我不知道自己更喜欢这件衬衫
‪还是首饰 你在闪闪发光

1051
00:47:15,166 --> 00:47:16,084
‪全场最佳

1052
00:47:16,084 --> 00:47:18,545
‪-是的 全场最佳
‪-全场最佳 不是平庸角色

1053
00:47:18,545 --> 00:47:19,504
‪噢 我喜欢这句话

1054
00:47:20,589 --> 00:47:22,966
‪你要是想炫耀一下你帅气的容颜

1055
00:47:22,966 --> 00:47:24,426
‪那里是你的抖音角

1056
00:47:24,926 --> 00:47:26,970
‪你把漂亮的手机放在那里

1057
00:47:26,970 --> 00:47:29,055
‪我们迫不及待地想看到你的作品

1058
00:47:29,055 --> 00:47:30,473
‪你看起来棒极了 斯毕迪

1059
00:47:30,473 --> 00:47:31,683
‪-谢谢
‪-特别帅气

1060
00:47:31,683 --> 00:47:35,478
‪听着 我在楼上屋顶
‪还有为你准备的一个惊喜

1061
00:47:36,396 --> 00:47:38,982
‪你们先去屋顶 然后我去找你们

1062
00:47:38,982 --> 00:47:41,067
‪-我们先聊一下
‪-好吧

1063
00:47:42,861 --> 00:47:45,196
‪你经历了我无法想象的事

1064
00:47:45,780 --> 00:47:51,536
‪你一直很善良 充满爱心
‪是一个了不起的年轻人

1065
00:47:53,413 --> 00:47:57,500
‪能够向你表达出这一点
‪就像昨天我们聊过的那样

1066
00:47:57,500 --> 00:48:00,837
‪你看到我哭了
‪老实说 我好久没哭过了

1067
00:48:00,837 --> 00:48:02,923
‪我在抖音上展示自己有多不容易

1068
00:48:02,923 --> 00:48:04,758
‪但内心深处 我在想什么

1069
00:48:04,758 --> 00:48:06,217
‪我从未向人们展示过

1070
00:48:06,217 --> 00:48:08,970
‪不要丢失这种表达自己脆弱的能力
‪因为我保证

1071
00:48:08,970 --> 00:48:11,181
‪那就是你力量的源泉

1072
00:48:11,181 --> 00:48:13,767
‪那就是你达成目标需要的动力

1073
00:48:14,851 --> 00:48:17,228
‪-你明白了吗?
‪-我明白了 我保证

1074
00:48:18,521 --> 00:48:20,565
‪好了 我们去楼上吧

1075
00:48:21,149 --> 00:48:24,903
‪因为我认为
‪你会喜欢这最后一个小惊喜的

1076
00:48:32,327 --> 00:48:33,703
‪我邀请了你的家人

1077
00:48:36,164 --> 00:48:37,666
‪你看起来棒极了!

1078
00:48:38,959 --> 00:48:40,919
‪等等 莱兰妮!

1079
00:48:45,674 --> 00:48:46,591
{\an8}‪亲爱的!

1080
00:48:46,591 --> 00:48:48,343
‪我们有个惊喜给你

1081
00:48:48,343 --> 00:48:49,844
{\an8}‪(莱兰妮 斯毕迪的表妹)

1082
00:48:49,844 --> 00:48:51,513
{\an8}‪一个新泳池

1083
00:48:51,513 --> 00:48:52,681
‪新泳池!

1084
00:48:54,933 --> 00:48:56,559
{\an8}‪-这是怎么回事?
‪-那是什么?

1085
00:48:56,559 --> 00:48:58,895
{\an8}‪我知道你看起来很帅 我喜欢

1086
00:48:58,895 --> 00:49:01,064
‪我也喜欢 是的

1087
00:49:01,064 --> 00:49:02,399
‪-让我看看
‪-让我看看

1088
00:49:02,399 --> 00:49:03,566
‪好的!

1089
00:49:04,484 --> 00:49:06,820
‪-好了
‪-你看起来很棒 是的!

1090
00:49:07,404 --> 00:49:09,781
‪我们有个庆祝的小传统

1091
00:49:09,781 --> 00:49:13,785
‪我想让你思考一下
‪你和我们在一起时学到的东西

1092
00:49:13,785 --> 00:49:16,871
‪然后我想让你思考一下
‪你对未来的计划

1093
00:49:17,372 --> 00:49:19,374
‪问问自己:“如果那样呢?
‪为什么是我?”

1094
00:49:19,374 --> 00:49:21,626
‪现在是你决定这些问题答案的时候了

1095
00:49:21,626 --> 00:49:24,921
‪为什么不能是我?你们给了我一个
‪全新的角度 就像韦斯利一样

1096
00:49:24,921 --> 00:49:26,548
‪那场车祸改变了我的人生

1097
00:49:26,548 --> 00:49:30,176
‪为什么不向积极的方向
‪改变我的人生呢?

1098
00:49:30,176 --> 00:49:31,928
‪-是的
‪-这样看的话

1099
00:49:31,928 --> 00:49:33,805
‪那场车祸赐予了我新生

1100
00:49:34,305 --> 00:49:37,976
‪你会缅怀自认为本该拥有的人生

1101
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,479
‪但是你赋予这个新人生的目标越多

1102
00:49:41,479 --> 00:49:44,399
‪你就越能治愈自己
‪而不是沉浸在对旧生活的悲伤里

1103
00:49:45,275 --> 00:49:48,945
‪我们要以你妈妈和姨妈的名义
‪放飞一些蝴蝶

1104
00:49:49,738 --> 00:49:52,115
‪这样她们就能围绕在你周围 看着你

1105
00:49:53,867 --> 00:49:56,286
{\an8}‪-让我们以她们的名义放飞蝴蝶吧
‪-我爱你 妈妈

1106
00:49:57,829 --> 00:49:58,955
‪噢 它们好漂亮

1107
00:49:58,955 --> 00:49:59,998
‪它们太漂亮了

1108
00:50:01,124 --> 00:50:02,834
‪蝴蝶!

1109
00:50:06,421 --> 00:50:07,422
‪真美

1110
00:50:07,422 --> 00:50:08,631
‪真好

1111
00:50:09,549 --> 00:50:11,509
‪让它们飞走吧

1112
00:50:11,509 --> 00:50:13,178
‪看看你身上落着什么

1113
00:50:13,178 --> 00:50:15,388
‪它们喜欢你的运动鞋 没错

1114
00:50:15,388 --> 00:50:17,015
‪你可以摸摸它 莱莱

1115
00:50:20,435 --> 00:50:22,937
‪现在 是我们说再见的时候了

1116
00:50:22,937 --> 00:50:24,355
‪-很可惜
‪-是的

1117
00:50:24,355 --> 00:50:27,192
‪让你在新家与家人共度

1118
00:50:27,192 --> 00:50:28,610
‪美好时光

1119
00:50:28,610 --> 00:50:29,527
‪好的

1120
00:50:29,527 --> 00:50:32,489
‪我们爱你
‪你是个了不起的年轻人

1121
00:50:33,698 --> 00:50:35,992
‪他说不想让自己成为家人的负担

1122
00:50:35,992 --> 00:50:38,119
‪你们可以聊聊 你要不断分享感受

1123
00:50:38,119 --> 00:50:40,538
‪-我爱你们 谢谢你们
‪-我们也爱你

1124
00:50:40,538 --> 00:50:41,581
‪我们也爱你

1125
00:50:41,581 --> 00:50:44,167
‪-我希望我们可以一辈子保持联系
‪-我也希望

1126
00:50:44,751 --> 00:50:46,461
‪-没问题
‪-没问题

1127
00:50:46,461 --> 00:50:49,255
‪-继续努力
‪-嘿 谢谢 卡拉莫

1128
00:50:49,255 --> 00:50:51,925
‪悲伤不是一天时间就能消除的东西

1129
00:50:51,925 --> 00:50:55,553
‪这是一个需要时间的旅程
‪斯毕迪已经踏上了这个旅程

1130
00:50:55,553 --> 00:50:58,932
‪大大的拥抱 来吧 所有人!

1131
00:51:02,393 --> 00:51:03,937
‪噢 这对你来说很不错

1132
00:51:04,771 --> 00:51:07,148
‪哇哦!

1133
00:51:07,732 --> 00:51:08,733
‪不错!

1134
00:51:08,733 --> 00:51:13,530
‪这些衣服、发型、这间漂亮的公寓

1135
00:51:13,530 --> 00:51:16,574
‪还教了斯毕迪如何给自己做饭

1136
00:51:17,158 --> 00:51:19,953
‪这不会一下子解决他所有的问题

1137
00:51:19,953 --> 00:51:21,496
‪这周我所能希望的是

1138
00:51:21,496 --> 00:51:24,374
‪我们给他提供了满载希望的工具

1139
00:51:25,208 --> 00:51:27,377
‪这是卧室 最棒的就是这里

1140
00:51:27,377 --> 00:51:30,213
‪国王的待遇 噢 太棒了!

1141
00:51:30,213 --> 00:51:31,714
‪等等 这些照片!

1142
00:51:31,714 --> 00:51:34,551
‪重点是要接受你和你所经历的一切

1143
00:51:34,551 --> 00:51:38,096
‪斯毕迪教会了我
‪在面对这些问题时 什么叫风度

1144
00:51:38,096 --> 00:51:41,850
‪什么叫坚强 什么叫勇气

1145
00:51:41,850 --> 00:51:43,268
‪我给你们看样东西

1146
00:51:43,268 --> 00:51:46,062
‪Alexa 打开卧室遮光板

1147
00:51:46,771 --> 00:51:47,647
‪好的

1148
00:51:50,150 --> 00:51:51,860
‪-看看这个!
‪-看看这个!

1149
00:51:51,860 --> 00:51:54,612
‪我知道只要他下定了决心

1150
00:51:54,612 --> 00:51:56,072
‪便无所不能

1151
00:51:56,072 --> 00:51:58,825
‪天空任鸟飞 他可以随心所欲

1152
00:51:58,825 --> 00:52:01,077
‪我喜欢这个地方

1153
00:52:01,077 --> 00:52:02,871
‪-她很喜欢
‪-我喜欢

1154
00:52:03,371 --> 00:52:04,455
‪接下来呢?

1155
00:52:05,540 --> 00:52:06,624
‪谁知道呢?

1156
00:52:07,584 --> 00:52:08,585
‪我不知道

1157
00:52:09,836 --> 00:52:11,629
‪但我知道会很精彩

1158
00:52:15,049 --> 00:52:18,469
{\an8}‪抖音粉丝们 你们好吗?
‪感谢老天 给了我这个美妙的机会

1159
00:52:18,469 --> 00:52:22,056
{\an8}‪有人教会了我
‪悲伤是治愈过程中非常重要的一部分

1160
00:52:22,056 --> 00:52:25,476
{\an8}‪当生活对你大打出手时

1161
00:52:25,476 --> 00:52:27,812
{\an8}‪要忠于真实的自我 永不放弃

1162
00:52:27,812 --> 00:52:31,191
{\an8}‪有时当你没有正确地体会悲伤
‪就会看不清自己人生的方向

1163
00:52:31,191 --> 00:52:32,609
{\an8}‪看不清自己心灵的渴望

1164
00:52:32,609 --> 00:52:35,278
{\an8}‪你就会自怨自艾

1165
00:52:35,278 --> 00:52:38,573
{\an8}‪生活对我来说就像坐过山车一样艰难

1166
00:52:38,573 --> 00:52:41,576
{\an8}‪但我在这里 我还在这里
‪我正在继续努力向前

1167
00:52:41,576 --> 00:52:43,369
{\an8}‪我已经做好讲述自己故事的准备

1168
00:52:44,037 --> 00:52:46,497
‪(#粉雄潮流贴士)

1169
00:52:47,165 --> 00:52:48,750
‪(看到残障人士)

1170
00:52:48,750 --> 00:52:50,501
‪残疾会影响到每一个人

1171
00:52:50,501 --> 00:52:53,588
‪这不是一个假设
‪但当它影响到你的人生时

1172
00:52:53,588 --> 00:52:57,425
‪不管是你还是你的爱人
‪一瞬间就会永远改变你的生活

1173
00:52:57,425 --> 00:52:59,385
‪不是所有的残障都能一眼看出来

1174
00:52:59,385 --> 00:53:02,597
‪但我们的共同点是
‪希望大众能注意到我们

1175
00:53:02,597 --> 00:53:05,391
‪我们也是人类 不只是有残疾的人类

1176
00:53:05,391 --> 00:53:07,602
‪每个人都应该得到爱和尊重

1177
00:53:07,602 --> 00:53:08,853
‪阿门

1178
00:53:08,853 --> 00:53:12,774
‪嘿!这才对嘛 厉害!

1179
00:54:11,916 --> 00:54:16,921
‪字幕翻译:七月