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[school bell rings]
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[children] I pledge allegiance
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to the flag
of the United States of America.
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Watch out. We're going to school.
I gotta get them all there by 8:45
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and then go to the grocery store,
run errands, then go.
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Do you all have your lunch boxes?
I swear to God!
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- [Bobby] No!
- Mom, I forgot my backpack!
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- Don't make me pull this car over.
- I want a snack.
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You're all grounded. We're not going
to Party City anymore. It's over.
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- Wanna know who we're helping this week?
- Yeah!
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Yeah, you do.
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"Our hero this week is Jenni Seckel."
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- Hi, Miss Seckel.
- Hey, Miss Seckel.
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You got some moves this morning?
All right.
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"Six years ago, Jenni became the principal
of a charter elementary school
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and has dedicated herself
to the students and her career."
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- Aw, well, that's beautiful.
- Yeah.
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- Are you ready to be a fourth grader?
- Yes.
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{\an8}Being a principal is the best thing
that I have ever, ever done
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and probably will ever do.
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Show 'em how we stand straight and tall.
Look so proud.
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At the end of the day,
it's just real human work
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and touching, like, real lives.
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- Yeah!
- Yes! All right!
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And so, for the last six years,
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I was all-in.
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"Jenni is credited with
transforming the school
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into a fun, joyful, safe place."
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Good job.
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It's giving me, like, Matilda
during Miss Trunchbull,
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and she is like Miss Honey.
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Yay!
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[Tan] "Jenni's friends at school,
Theresa and Seymone, nominated her."
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Nice.
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{\an8}A typical day,
Jenni is just, like, everywhere.
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She's always in the hallways
talking to teachers,
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in classrooms
talking to kids and meeting with parents,
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and sometimes
she is straightening her hair...
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[Theresa chuckles]
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...because she does not take the time
to, like, put herself together
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before, like, she comes to work.
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I don't do anything but school.
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It was worth personal sacrifices
at that time,
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but, yeah, I did lose myself.
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First few years of being principal,
I gained weight,
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and I was, like, 50 pounds heavier
than I had ever been,
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and I think I just slowly started feeling
less and less comfortable with my body
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and less and less, like, good about it.
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[Tan] "Almost a year ago,
Jenni left her job as principal
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and moved into
a regional supervisory position,
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but it's been difficult for Jenni
to transition into her new role."
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"She still hasn't moved out
of the principal's office."
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"Seymone is actually the new principal."
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Now we know why
the current principal's nominating her,
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'cause she wants her
to get the hell out of the office.
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- Get out!
- It all makes sense.
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[Seymone] It's time for her
to just cut the cord
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and really start focusing on her future.
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It's funny because she'll give you
all the best advice,
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but she's not always
doing those things herself.
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{\an8}She's constantly comparing herself
to what I'm doing
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and what her friends are doing
and the milestones they're hitting.
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I've been a bridesmaid a lot of times.
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It's not like I have
that big, thriving social life here.
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I haven't really dated,
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and so I feel like, literally,
my biological clock is ticking.
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"At 35 years old, Jenni worries
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that her chances
of becoming a mom the old-fashioned way
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may be fading away."
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"Six months ago, Jenni was set
to have an insemination procedure,
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but her nerves kicked in,
and she opted out."
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I've always wanted to be a mom,
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but it felt like I would be giving up
on what I'd always seen for myself,
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and at this point,
I still wanna hold out hope for
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the fairy tale.
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It's never too late.
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Never.
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I think she definitely needs,
like, a big push.
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And that's, I think,
what led us to this place.
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"At the end of this week, Jenni is hosting
her office's first-day-of-school reception
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for regional staff and school principals."
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"It'll be the first time
she'll entertain in her home."
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- I love that bridging of her two worlds.
- [Tan] Yeah.
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"Our mission this week
is to teach this educator
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how to learn to love herself."
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Yeah!
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Ooh! We're going to school!
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Where's the school?
That's what I wanna know.
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♪ Things just keep getting better ♪
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♪ Down in New Orleans ♪
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[upbeat music plays]
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♪ Uh-huh, uh-huh ♪
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♪ Mm-hmm ♪
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- [Antoni] A school!
- [Jonathan] Yay!
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{\an8}[Karamo] This is bigger
than most charter schools.
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Welcome back, hipsters.
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You're looking so great, scholars.
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Oh, look at that,
standing straight and tall.
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{\an8}- [Jonathan] We're here!
- [Bobby] All right.
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[Antoni] Let's go charm some lunch ladies.
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Hey. How are ya?
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- I think. I don't know.
- [Jonathan] Hi.
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- [Tan laughs] Here we go!
- [women laugh]
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- We're in.
- [Jonathan] Hey!
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- [Antoni] Hi!
- Welcome! How are you?
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- Hi! Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.
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- Hello! You're Seymone?
- [Seymone] Nice to meet you.
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Saved by the Bell,
elementary school edition.
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Uh.
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Miss Seckel, please report
to the music room 2202.
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Thank you.
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Did they say me?
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[Antoni] Let's go get her!
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- Come on.
- [laughing]
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[screams]
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[laughing]
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- [Seymone] Okay, come this way!
- [Bobby] Gotta go. Gotta go.
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[Theresa] Quickly! Almost there!
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- High knees! High knees!
- [Seymone] Almost there!
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[screams]
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[cheering and laughing]
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Whoa!
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Hi!
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Hi!
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So how is it to be a kid these days, guys?
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- How's it going?
- [girl] Good.
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Your braids are amazing.
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How cute!
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[Tan] Hello!
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[cheering]
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[Jenni] Oh my God!
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[cheering]
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You haven't even met us,
and we all scared you.
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Aw.
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[Jenni] Hey, guys!
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They're all excited to see her.
They all wanna give her a hug.
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Sorry, little one.
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- [Antoni] Aw.
- [Jenni] Hey, buddy!
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I would never have dreamed
of touching the headmistress.
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Are you mad?
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- Thank you!
- [Tan] It's bizarre.
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But lovely.
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But bizarre.
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The reason y'all are here
is because I wouldn't be who I am today
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and our school wouldn't be
where it is right now
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if it weren't for Jenni Seckel.
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We're ready for her
to start giving something to herself.
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There is literally nobody else
I would have given the school to
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other than Seymone.
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- You haven't yet.
- [Bobby] Just not yet.
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- You gotta let go!
- You do.
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Miss Seckel, we're gonna work on that.
Don't worry.
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Bye!
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- [all] Bye!
- [Antoni] Let's do this
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♪ Everywhere we pull up
They turn their heads ♪
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{\an8}♪ Everywhere we pull up
They turn their heads ♪
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{\an8}[Tan] All right, we're here!
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[laughing]
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- This is my house.
- [Jonathan] Cute!
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[Bobby] A little puppa!
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He's all dressed up!
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Little boy, and he's just
the cutest little munchkin
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and his sweet little face
that looks like a little miniature version
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of the dog from NeverEnding Story!
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- [Tan] Hi, sweet pup.
- [Jonathan] He is so cute.
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He's just like
bup, bup, bup, bup, bup, bup.
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- [Antoni] Tanny, he matches you somehow.
- [Jenni] He does kind of.
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[Karamo] This is a cute home.
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- Yeah.
- [Jenni] Thanks, yeah.
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This is... this is my house.
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- [Tan] Lovely.
- [Antoni] This is way cute.
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- [Tan] Yeah.
- [Jenni] Yeah.
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[Jonathan] This is needlepoint,
like what I do.
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[Jenni] My grandmother made that.
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[Bobby] I see a lot of quotes.
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- "Be nice or leave."
- I'd better leave.
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[Jenni]
That's, like, a New Orleans staple.
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And it says YOLO, but the Cajun way,
so, like, it's clever.
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- If it's clever, it's okay?
- [Antoni] I don't get it.
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- [Jenni] Yeah, and it's gold.
- We'll see. [laughs]
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Show us around. Show us around.
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Whoa! Did you have a party in here?
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Um, nope.
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[Jonathan] It's giving, like, "I didn't
know you were coming over, okay?"
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"I didn't know
you were coming over, okay?"
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"And so I had, like, a Diet Coke or 16."
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"Okay?"
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- [Jenni] This is where I, like, live.
- How many days is this?
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[Tan] Today.
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- No, like, yesterday and today.
- [Tan] Whoa.
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- [Karamo] We're not judging.
- Is that a flatiron next to the sofa?
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Do you flatiron your hair in here?
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[Jenni] Yeah, like, while watching TV.
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I really do it
more as, like, a stress-reliever.
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- [Karamo] Got it.
- It's, like, a repetitive--
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Do you use heat protection?
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[Jenni] No.
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- [Jenni laughs]
- [Antoni] All right, I wanna see more.
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So, upstairs.
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- This is my bedroom.
- Yes.
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- [Jenni] Yeah.
- [Karamo] It's really nice.
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You don't like to make the bed
in the morning?
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- If I'm having company.
- When's the last time you had company?
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[laughs] So the bed never gets made.
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[Tan] To make your bed takes 20 seconds.
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You at home, make your damn bed.
It's gonna feel great.
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Try it for a week. I promise
you'll never go back. Life-changing.
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- [Bobby] What is this room?
- [Jenni] This is just, like, a bonus room.
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- Wow. So much light.
- [Jenni] Yeah.
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{\an8}How do you not have any plants
with all this amazing sunlight?
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{\an8}I do.
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- I killed them.
- Oh.
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That's a succulent.
Those things are hard to kill.
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Bobby's gonna do something cute with this.
I can feel it.
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I feel it too.
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He just went into his dad stance,
so it's true.
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- It is nice.
- [Tan] Oh yeah.
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- I need to investigate what's happening.
- [Bobby] Investigate the bathroom.
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[laughs]
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♪ What do we have in here? Uh-huh ♪
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♪ What do we have in here? ♪
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Oh God, you could trip
and just fall right out this window.
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My goodness!
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What do we have in here? No, no ♪
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♪ What do we have in here? ♪
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Ooh!
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Cooked cabbage, the aroma of my childhood.
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Whew!
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It's like a faint fart
with a little bit of BO.
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Ugh! Ooh! I smell things.
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But yet somehow really comforting.
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{\an8}What's going on with this hair?
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{\an8}- You wanna see it?
- Uh-huh.
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- Okay.
- [Jonathan] Okay.
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Cutie-pie patootie.
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- Do you like being blond?
- I don't think it really fit me that well.
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It was a little, like, in your face.
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Ah.
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Let me put your hair back in a bun.
For me, like, clothes, hair,
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like, I do this
'cause this really makes me happy.
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But what about you?
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What brings you joy?
What makes you feel sexy?
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What does that look like for you?
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I...
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I don't know that I've ever felt sexy.
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Like, that's not a...
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- [Jonathan] Never?
- [laughs] No!
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Sexuality is important.
It's something everybody gets to tap into.
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This week, we literally get to explore
what that means for you.
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How exciting.
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Yeah. That sounds great.
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High five. High five.
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Belly bump. [grunts]
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Yeah!
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This little container has,
like, 30% of your daily sodium intake.
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Doesn't it feel like the perfect outfit?
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[Jonathan] I love that for her.
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- [Tan] I know.
- She's safe.
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[Antoni]
I was looking through your fridge.
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{\an8}You have cabbage soup
and microwavable mac and cheese.
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- Quite the complex. [laughs]
- Quite the complex.
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There's only a few things
I know how to make,
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things that I can prepare for one,
easily, that are healthy.
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I, like, feel
that I, like, learn something
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and, like, stick with it.
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- And you just, like, stick to it.
- Yeah. Yeah.
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Is it fair to say
that you like the highs and the lows?
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- Yeah. Yeah.
- Okay.
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You got some funky cheeses there.
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- A block of Gruyère.
- [Jenni] Mm-hmm.
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- When did you fall in love with Gruyère?
- I studied in France.
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- Shut up!
- In college. Yes.
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Why did you pick France?
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Beautiful architecture everywhere,
great food.
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Like, the whole scene is perfect to me.
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Like, what are your goals going forward?
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Like, I always saw myself as, like,
having dinner parties and all that.
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- The way the French do.
- Yes.
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Having, like, kind of
the new office people all over
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for, like,
a welcome-back-to-school party here,
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but I don't have anything
in my repertoire for that.
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I have not had people
really come to my house
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because it's kind of been like,
"Well, your house is better,"
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or, "You're a better cook."
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You seem down for anything.
Do you have any food hang-ups?
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Like, I don't like avocado.
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Gonna try not to take that one personally.
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[laughs]
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Oh, rom-com, rom-com, rom-com.
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[Tan] Oh, this is cute.
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Yes, jewelry.
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Rom-com, rom-com.
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Somebody loves a rom-com.
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[Tan] There's no way
that these are the right size.
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These are too big for her.
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[Bobby] Oh, I don't like
that there's a scale right here.
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[Tan] Don't like that at all.
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[Bobby] Seems like that's the first thing
she thinks of when she gets up.
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[Tan] I'd love you to get rid of that.
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A lot of the stuff that's in your closet
doesn't seem like it's for you.
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Um, it's quite large.
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{\an8}A little over five years ago,
I gained, like, 70 pounds,
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so started working out to fill my time
and started getting compliments,
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and so then it became about,
like, the weight loss.
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Is that important?
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- Yeah.
- Okay.
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In my mind,
if I got back to, like, where I was,
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potentially I would feel,
like, more... attractive.
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[Tan] Do you have a lot of clothes here
that are like,
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"I hope that one day, I'll fit into this"?
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I have some in there.
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- [Tan] I would love to see.
- Okay.
313
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I just bought this one
for my dad's wedding.
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- I haven't worn this one yet.
- It's lovely.
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- [Jenni] Yeah.
- [Tan] Does it make you feel nice?
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That's a no.
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It made me feel much better
than the other things I ordered,
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so yeah.
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I said we'd go onto fashion,
but I need to talk about body more.
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[laughs]
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When you look in the mirror,
what are you upset about?
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From, like, here.
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- [Tan] Okay. Okay. Torso.
- [Jenni] Mm-hmm.
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How do we feel about bum, hips?
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Oh. That's included. [laughs]
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[Tan] Okay. Okay. Okay.
What's your idea of a good body?
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My sister is, like, tiny.
328
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How is that for you?
329
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- That she's thin?
- [Tan] Yeah.
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Um...
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I mean, I always say
I wish I had her body. [laughs]
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[Tan] I understand that.
333
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However, this comparison thing
is your biggest hurdle.
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It's not the clothes.
335
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You had said your friends are married.
Now you've said your sister is slim.
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I'm hoping that we'll help you
figure out your beauty
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without basing it on what size you are.
338
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Yeah.
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Wow.
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Let's get you naked.
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I'm the fashion expert,
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00:13:58,755 --> 00:14:02,926
and I'm here to explore
your relationship with clothing.
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[laughs]
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- [Karamo] Sit with me.
- [Jenni] Okay.
345
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[Karamo] One of the things that I noticed
was that you made a lot of comments
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{\an8}about things that other people have
that you perceive you don't have.
347
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I think that that's just,
like, human nature, like, natural. Like...
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I'm not where I wanna be.
349
00:14:23,614 --> 00:14:27,534
Like, I don't have the, like,
financial freedom that I would want.
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I don't have the family.
I don't have lifestyle, you know.
351
00:14:31,538 --> 00:14:34,249
Like, in college, I had boyfriends
and dated and stuff,
352
00:14:34,249 --> 00:14:37,336
and then I came out of college
and found it just, like, so much harder.
353
00:14:37,336 --> 00:14:40,464
And then all of a sudden,
it was like, "You're young twenties."
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"Fine."
355
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Then it's, "Late twenties.
Okay, I still have time."
356
00:14:44,092 --> 00:14:47,679
And then it became more and more
of, like, a insecurity
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and then harder to put yourself out there.
You know, that snowball effect.
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I see other people having certain things,
and that, like, makes me feel...
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sad.
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- [Karamo] Got it.
- Or, like, lonely or like a failure.
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- [Karamo] Yeah.
- You know? Like, it...
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00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:03,153
Do you think you're a failure?
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00:15:06,073 --> 00:15:06,907
In...
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00:15:06,907 --> 00:15:11,203
Not failure, but, like, worry
I've made a lot of wrong decisions
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00:15:11,203 --> 00:15:14,289
that it feels, like, too late to change.
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- [Karamo] That's the same language.
- [laughs]
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00:15:16,875 --> 00:15:18,877
- It's nicer language!
- Yeah.
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00:15:18,877 --> 00:15:20,337
Same though.
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00:15:20,337 --> 00:15:24,174
It's a self-deprecation that devalues you.
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00:15:27,302 --> 00:15:31,598
I feel like somebody who tries
to be very insightful with myself,
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00:15:31,598 --> 00:15:33,767
and so, like, it's surprising
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00:15:33,767 --> 00:15:37,479
to hear somebody
who, like, has known me for not long
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00:15:37,479 --> 00:15:41,274
feel like that's
what I'm... giving off, you know?
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00:15:41,900 --> 00:15:43,402
This is actually a blessing.
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00:15:43,402 --> 00:15:44,903
Now you can course correct.
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00:15:45,404 --> 00:15:47,406
Yes. Yes.
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00:15:48,115 --> 00:15:49,533
[scatting]
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00:15:51,535 --> 00:15:53,370
♪ Wake up, slow day ♪
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{\an8}♪ Everybody got to make their way ♪
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[Bobby] This week, one of the ways
I can help Jenni
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{\an8}is nudging her
to get out of her old principal's office
382
00:16:01,962 --> 00:16:06,049
so she can really move forward
with her new career and her new life.
383
00:16:06,717 --> 00:16:10,679
[Antoni] Teachers spend so much time
around their students.
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00:16:10,679 --> 00:16:12,848
A lot of them struggle
with taking care of themselves.
385
00:16:12,848 --> 00:16:16,685
But with Jenni, this is an opportunity
for her to throw out the Lean Cuisines.
386
00:16:16,685 --> 00:16:18,395
Let's try something good.
387
00:16:20,522 --> 00:16:23,900
Jenni has such major body hang-ups.
388
00:16:24,609 --> 00:16:28,405
There's something much, much greater
that we need to tackle
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00:16:28,405 --> 00:16:31,867
than just, "Let's buy her a pretty dress,
and she'll feel great."
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00:16:32,743 --> 00:16:34,494
[Jonathan]
After all the love and validation
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00:16:34,494 --> 00:16:36,121
she gives to so many other people,
392
00:16:36,121 --> 00:16:38,457
Jenni is having the hardest time
giving it to herself.
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00:16:39,750 --> 00:16:42,210
Get in the sexy pool water. It's great.
394
00:16:43,754 --> 00:16:44,796
Jump in!
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00:16:45,672 --> 00:16:47,924
[Karamo] In life, we all compare ourselves
to other people,
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00:16:47,924 --> 00:16:49,760
but when you look at
what other people have,
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00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:51,553
you're not focusing on what you got.
398
00:16:51,553 --> 00:16:54,806
Jenni, stop looking
at the rest of the world. Look at you!
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00:16:58,268 --> 00:16:59,186
♪ Come on! ♪
400
00:16:59,186 --> 00:17:01,772
♪ Hold up, wait a minute
Can't get enough... ♪
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00:17:01,772 --> 00:17:04,191
[Bobby]
I wanted to meet you in your kingdom.
402
00:17:04,191 --> 00:17:06,568
The kids think I own the building.
[chuckles]
403
00:17:07,319 --> 00:17:09,571
[Bobby]
I kind of wanted to talk about this place.
404
00:17:10,405 --> 00:17:12,574
We're sitting
in your soon-to-be former office.
405
00:17:12,574 --> 00:17:13,742
- All right?
- Okay.
406
00:17:13,742 --> 00:17:18,121
I still see your name
over there on that plaque.
407
00:17:18,121 --> 00:17:20,082
- Yeah. Under "principal"?
- [Jenni] Yes.
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00:17:20,082 --> 00:17:22,959
I think it's time for you to move on...
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00:17:22,959 --> 00:17:25,378
- [Jenni chuckles] Okay.
- ...to your... to your new role.
410
00:17:25,378 --> 00:17:27,005
Yeah. I... It's...
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00:17:28,632 --> 00:17:31,551
For me, it's like, in a lot of ways,
412
00:17:31,551 --> 00:17:35,514
I feel more sure of myself
and, like, who I am here.
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00:17:35,514 --> 00:17:38,850
For the last seven years,
like, it's been my identity,
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00:17:38,850 --> 00:17:40,852
and then you kind of,
like, take that away,
415
00:17:40,852 --> 00:17:44,314
and it's, like,
"Who am I, then?" You know?
416
00:17:44,314 --> 00:17:46,691
Your new role,
tell me a little bit about that.
417
00:17:47,192 --> 00:17:48,693
It's awesome.
418
00:17:48,693 --> 00:17:50,112
I think it will be.
419
00:17:50,112 --> 00:17:52,697
- Um, so we have 13 schools.
- Okay.
420
00:17:52,697 --> 00:17:55,200
Schools have a lot going on.
Principals have a lot going on.
421
00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:57,577
There should be something
that we are able to say, like,
422
00:17:57,577 --> 00:17:59,996
"No matter what school of ours you go to,
423
00:17:59,996 --> 00:18:02,249
these things will be true
of your experience."
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00:18:02,249 --> 00:18:05,168
So people that used to be my peers,
all the principals,
425
00:18:05,168 --> 00:18:08,380
now, I am, like, serving them, you know?
426
00:18:08,380 --> 00:18:11,800
Like, I am trying to make
their vision come to life
427
00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:13,009
and meet their expectations.
428
00:18:13,009 --> 00:18:16,096
I'm trading some of that power
429
00:18:16,096 --> 00:18:19,391
for flexibility and more time.
430
00:18:19,891 --> 00:18:23,395
But, you know, there's a big sense of loss
for myself, you know?
431
00:18:24,312 --> 00:18:27,399
I think it's all about perspective.
What you might be losing here,
432
00:18:27,399 --> 00:18:30,569
you have so much potential
to gain in your personal life.
433
00:18:31,069 --> 00:18:35,282
I just haven't fully figured out
what my work pattern is gonna be.
434
00:18:35,282 --> 00:18:38,076
Like, there's some times
435
00:18:38,076 --> 00:18:40,078
where I'm just gonna need
to work at a desk
436
00:18:40,078 --> 00:18:42,664
and design things and create systems,
437
00:18:42,664 --> 00:18:46,001
and then there's times
where I need to go to all of the schools.
438
00:18:46,001 --> 00:18:48,044
[Bobby] Sounds like your job
is about flexibility.
439
00:18:48,044 --> 00:18:51,047
I think it could be cool
to have a little space at home, maybe.
440
00:18:51,047 --> 00:18:53,425
It's a brand-new role, right?
This role didn't exist before.
441
00:18:53,425 --> 00:18:56,261
Yeah, I literally wrote
my own job description a week ago.
442
00:18:56,261 --> 00:18:57,220
It was awesome.
443
00:18:57,220 --> 00:19:01,892
So, new job, new office, flexibility.
444
00:19:01,892 --> 00:19:03,143
Elephant in the room...
445
00:19:03,727 --> 00:19:05,645
- The boxes in the room? [laughs]
- Yeah, the boxes.
446
00:19:05,645 --> 00:19:07,147
- Let's go in here.
- Okay.
447
00:19:07,147 --> 00:19:08,607
Oh, my legs are asleep.
448
00:19:08,607 --> 00:19:09,608
[laughs]
449
00:19:09,608 --> 00:19:10,525
Oh my God!
450
00:19:11,610 --> 00:19:14,821
[Bobby] Although I am here today
to rip that Band-Aid off
451
00:19:14,821 --> 00:19:16,573
and move her out of her office,
452
00:19:16,573 --> 00:19:22,204
I understand that it's more about removing
Jenni's personal and emotional baggage
453
00:19:22,204 --> 00:19:25,957
because it's taking away
all the excuses she had
454
00:19:25,957 --> 00:19:29,211
to not spend more time on herself,
to not start a family,
455
00:19:29,211 --> 00:19:32,130
to be 24/7 school Jenni
456
00:19:32,130 --> 00:19:35,508
instead of working on Jenni
outside of these four walls.
457
00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:38,386
- It's official. [laughs]
- [Bobby] Yeah?
458
00:19:39,262 --> 00:19:40,096
[Jenni] Yeah.
459
00:19:43,058 --> 00:19:45,060
[relaxing music plays]
460
00:19:48,855 --> 00:19:50,440
- [Jenni] This is amazing.
- [Antoni] Aw.
461
00:19:51,816 --> 00:19:55,028
Jenni's been spending
a lot of time being very careful
462
00:19:55,028 --> 00:19:57,405
about the types of food
that she's been eating,
463
00:19:57,405 --> 00:19:58,990
which I really respect,
464
00:19:59,491 --> 00:20:02,702
but I need her to be able
to see the joy in cooking as well.
465
00:20:02,702 --> 00:20:05,497
I was so excited
about your passion for traveling.
466
00:20:05,497 --> 00:20:08,208
- Yes.
- Especially that you were in Paris.
467
00:20:08,208 --> 00:20:10,126
And you made me think about Julia Child.
468
00:20:10,126 --> 00:20:13,797
I don't know if you knew this. She brought
French cuisine to the United States.
469
00:20:14,381 --> 00:20:19,344
The first thing she ever tried
when she was in France was sole meunière.
470
00:20:19,344 --> 00:20:20,679
Do you know what that is?
471
00:20:21,179 --> 00:20:22,013
Fish.
472
00:20:22,013 --> 00:20:23,139
It is.
473
00:20:23,139 --> 00:20:26,977
So it's a lightly dusted sole fillet
in a meunière sauce
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00:20:26,977 --> 00:20:28,436
cooked in clarified butter
475
00:20:28,436 --> 00:20:30,105
and then topped with brown butter
476
00:20:30,105 --> 00:20:32,315
and a little bit of parsley
and some capers.
477
00:20:32,315 --> 00:20:34,401
- French butter is the best!
- [Antoni] Yes!
478
00:20:34,401 --> 00:20:35,819
There's nothing better.
479
00:20:35,819 --> 00:20:37,737
So we're going full traditional French,
480
00:20:37,737 --> 00:20:41,324
but you can actually use rainbow trout
to make trout meunière.
481
00:20:41,324 --> 00:20:44,202
- Okay.
- Which is our homage to New Orleans.
482
00:20:44,202 --> 00:20:47,414
And it's something you can serve up
at your event at the end of the week.
483
00:20:47,414 --> 00:20:48,581
Yeah!
484
00:20:48,581 --> 00:20:50,875
Jenni's gonna have
principals from the district,
485
00:20:50,875 --> 00:20:52,711
old coworkers, new coworkers.
486
00:20:52,711 --> 00:20:55,171
This is a wonderful opportunity
487
00:20:55,171 --> 00:20:58,049
for her to show these people who she is
through her food.
488
00:20:58,049 --> 00:21:01,136
Gonna salt and pepper it,
just to flavor the fish.
489
00:21:01,136 --> 00:21:03,388
[Jenni] I'm glad you are.
I don't like touching raw fish.
490
00:21:03,388 --> 00:21:06,558
You don't like touching raw fish?
You get to know the food better
491
00:21:06,558 --> 00:21:09,144
if you have, like,
an intimate relationship with it.
492
00:21:09,144 --> 00:21:12,689
I don't know that that's
something I feel like I'm missing out on.
493
00:21:12,689 --> 00:21:13,606
Fair point.
494
00:21:13,606 --> 00:21:16,901
And who doesn't love
a nice trout meunière? Mmm.
495
00:21:17,569 --> 00:21:19,904
Now here comes the meunière part,
496
00:21:19,904 --> 00:21:21,072
so the flour coating.
497
00:21:21,072 --> 00:21:23,658
- You'll have to touch raw fish eventually.
- [Jenni] I can do it.
498
00:21:23,658 --> 00:21:26,077
[Antoni] And then on the other side. Beautiful.
499
00:21:26,745 --> 00:21:29,956
So skin side down
into the pan away from you.
500
00:21:29,956 --> 00:21:30,874
Okay.
501
00:21:30,874 --> 00:21:33,084
It's starting to sizzle and foam,
which is great.
502
00:21:33,084 --> 00:21:37,005
Use some butter so that it stays
nice and moist. Nice and gentle.
503
00:21:37,797 --> 00:21:40,508
So you're starting to get
this nice bubbling that happens here,
504
00:21:40,508 --> 00:21:42,385
which is telling me it's ready to flip.
505
00:21:42,385 --> 00:21:43,803
If you want... Oh, you did it.
506
00:21:43,803 --> 00:21:46,973
I was about to give you a tip,
but you got this. You figured this out.
507
00:21:47,557 --> 00:21:49,893
And we're ready to take it off of the pan.
508
00:21:50,393 --> 00:21:53,271
I could not be happier
with the browning on this fish!
509
00:21:53,855 --> 00:21:56,274
Now, moving on, grab a couple of sprigs,
510
00:21:56,274 --> 00:21:59,027
and we're just gonna
pick the leaves off the parsley.
511
00:21:59,027 --> 00:22:01,863
I was thinking about
this next big chapter in your life.
512
00:22:01,863 --> 00:22:03,114
I don't know about your life,
513
00:22:03,114 --> 00:22:06,368
but all of my friends are usually
coupled up before they have a kid.
514
00:22:06,368 --> 00:22:07,452
Yeah.
515
00:22:07,452 --> 00:22:09,621
The fact that you're considering openness
516
00:22:09,621 --> 00:22:14,042
to maybe not necessarily doing that
with a partner in the traditional sense,
517
00:22:14,042 --> 00:22:16,920
like, I just wanna get to it,
like, what's the hang-up?
518
00:22:17,420 --> 00:22:20,590
I don't know.
Like, doesn't everyone want to be in love
519
00:22:20,590 --> 00:22:24,177
and have, like, romantic partnership?
520
00:22:24,177 --> 00:22:29,432
And it is hard
to see all of my friends so happy
521
00:22:29,432 --> 00:22:33,019
and, like, wanna celebrate them,
but, like, it gets tiring.
522
00:22:33,019 --> 00:22:35,146
Not that you can't do that
when you're a single mom,
523
00:22:35,146 --> 00:22:38,691
but, like, I want that now, you know?
524
00:22:38,691 --> 00:22:42,278
I think the other thing is, like,
one of my best friends, six weeks ago,
525
00:22:42,278 --> 00:22:46,991
went through the process, got inseminated,
like, is now pregnant as a single woman.
526
00:22:47,492 --> 00:22:50,453
And when I was listening
to, like, what she is saying about that
527
00:22:50,453 --> 00:22:52,580
versus what I was saying in my head,
528
00:22:52,580 --> 00:22:54,290
it was like, this is just not...
529
00:22:54,791 --> 00:22:57,001
- You feel like she's in a different place?
- [Jenni] Yeah.
530
00:22:57,001 --> 00:23:02,340
I was recognizing
some potentially, like, negative thoughts
531
00:23:02,340 --> 00:23:04,926
that didn't feel like
the most responsible way to, like...
532
00:23:04,926 --> 00:23:06,678
- [Antoni] Your own negative thoughts?
- Yeah.
533
00:23:06,678 --> 00:23:10,181
And so I was like, "I need to work on
the way that I'm thinking about this
534
00:23:10,181 --> 00:23:14,227
and my mental approach and model
before I do this."
535
00:23:14,227 --> 00:23:17,355
[Antoni] Whether, you know,
you decide that you wanna have a kid,
536
00:23:17,355 --> 00:23:18,731
how you wanna have a kid,
537
00:23:18,731 --> 00:23:20,066
- all of that...
- Yeah.
538
00:23:20,066 --> 00:23:24,487
What I wanna encourage you to do
is figure out, like, what your path is,
539
00:23:24,487 --> 00:23:27,991
not just based on what other people
are doing for themselves.
540
00:23:27,991 --> 00:23:30,160
I want you to remember,
like, all the beautiful stuff
541
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,745
that you have going on in your life,
you know?
542
00:23:32,745 --> 00:23:35,373
It's like, I'm sitting there
in this classroom,
543
00:23:35,373 --> 00:23:38,418
and their faces lit up
when you walked into a room.
544
00:23:38,918 --> 00:23:42,088
- You really genuinely care about them.
- Yeah.
545
00:23:42,088 --> 00:23:43,882
[Antoni]
Imagine what the world would be like
546
00:23:43,882 --> 00:23:46,509
if we just told ourselves
that we were just good enough,
547
00:23:46,509 --> 00:23:49,846
'cause sometimes I feel like it can be
so much easier to judge ourselves
548
00:23:49,846 --> 00:23:52,891
for things that we don't
necessarily have control over
549
00:23:52,891 --> 00:23:56,728
than it is to embrace the things
that are already working for us.
550
00:23:57,228 --> 00:23:59,147
- I touched a nerve.
- [laughs]
551
00:23:59,147 --> 00:24:02,525
I'm sorry. I didn't mean
to make you tear up while you cook.
552
00:24:03,026 --> 00:24:04,402
- But I'm an--
- It's onions!
553
00:24:04,402 --> 00:24:07,071
I'm an emotional cook, so I apologize.
554
00:24:07,071 --> 00:24:10,742
- Where are the onions? I don't know.
- No onions in this recipe, unfortunately.
555
00:24:10,742 --> 00:24:13,912
All right, we'll step away
from the heady emotional conversation.
556
00:24:13,912 --> 00:24:15,038
- How about that?
- Okay.
557
00:24:15,038 --> 00:24:17,957
[Antoni] All right, so now we're
just gonna put a little of the parsley,
558
00:24:17,957 --> 00:24:20,251
and then I have
a little surprise side dish.
559
00:24:20,251 --> 00:24:22,754
This classic French lentil salad.
560
00:24:22,754 --> 00:24:26,132
Then, if you want, we can garnish
the salad with some shaved radishes.
561
00:24:26,132 --> 00:24:28,801
- [Jenni] Love 'em.
- Then grab your capers, right over there.
562
00:24:30,053 --> 00:24:32,764
Perfect. It's gonna cook
a little bit of that acid out,
563
00:24:32,764 --> 00:24:35,058
and it's gonna be really nice and lemony.
564
00:24:35,058 --> 00:24:37,185
Your brown butter
looks much better than mine.
565
00:24:37,185 --> 00:24:39,562
You can take some brown butter
and drape it over the fish,
566
00:24:39,562 --> 00:24:42,690
and what this is gonna do
is actually flavor everything.
567
00:24:42,690 --> 00:24:44,025
Yum.
568
00:24:44,025 --> 00:24:46,778
All right, there's one thing left to do.
Let's try it out.
569
00:24:46,778 --> 00:24:47,862
Okay.
570
00:24:50,865 --> 00:24:52,242
That's really good.
571
00:24:52,242 --> 00:24:55,119
- That tastes so French.
- Right?
572
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,790
Like, this tastes like a twist with the...
But that tastes, like, straight Paris.
573
00:24:58,790 --> 00:25:00,750
Damn! I'm really happy with that.
574
00:25:00,750 --> 00:25:01,960
[laughs]
575
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:03,002
Well done.
576
00:25:04,921 --> 00:25:08,967
♪ I don't care if I go make a scene ♪
577
00:25:09,801 --> 00:25:12,595
♪ Not afraid to say what I mean ♪
578
00:25:12,595 --> 00:25:14,180
{\an8}[Tan] Would you like any coffee?
579
00:25:14,180 --> 00:25:15,974
{\an8}- [Jenni] Um, yes, please.
- [Tan] Wonderful.
580
00:25:15,974 --> 00:25:19,602
So I wanna talk about your, um, wardrobe.
581
00:25:20,103 --> 00:25:24,023
You are mostly
living in T-shirts and leggings.
582
00:25:24,023 --> 00:25:25,650
It's rare that you get dressed up.
583
00:25:25,650 --> 00:25:27,986
That can't be doing anything
for your self-esteem.
584
00:25:27,986 --> 00:25:29,862
I've been in this game for long enough
585
00:25:29,862 --> 00:25:31,864
to know that
when somebody lives like that,
586
00:25:31,864 --> 00:25:33,324
they're feeling pretty shitty,
587
00:25:33,324 --> 00:25:37,829
so I wanna understand what it is
about clothes that is affecting you.
588
00:25:37,829 --> 00:25:41,416
I've just started talking about clothes,
and you're already feeling emotional.
589
00:25:41,416 --> 00:25:43,293
I wanna know what is going on.
590
00:25:43,293 --> 00:25:44,502
[poignant music plays]
591
00:25:44,502 --> 00:25:46,004
I do feel really shitty.
592
00:25:47,505 --> 00:25:49,757
I'm sorry. I know you do.
593
00:25:49,757 --> 00:25:51,050
What is it? Is...
594
00:25:52,176 --> 00:25:53,845
- How did you get here?
- I don't know.
595
00:25:55,763 --> 00:26:00,268
My first year as principal,
like, I was just so underwater,
596
00:26:00,268 --> 00:26:03,730
and then I started,
like, just gaining weight,
597
00:26:03,730 --> 00:26:08,526
and then, like, clothes didn't fit,
and that felt, like, awful.
598
00:26:08,526 --> 00:26:11,988
And so then I just started wearing,
like, T-shirts and stuff.
599
00:26:11,988 --> 00:26:15,491
Of course I understand that,
and it's a tale as old as time.
600
00:26:15,491 --> 00:26:18,494
When a person isn't feeling great
about themselves,
601
00:26:18,995 --> 00:26:22,415
the last thing they should do
is put things on that make you feel worse.
602
00:26:22,415 --> 00:26:25,710
You're punishing yourself
by not allowing yourself to be beautiful.
603
00:26:25,710 --> 00:26:28,796
However, I need to try
and get into your head
604
00:26:28,796 --> 00:26:30,590
that you are desirable at any size.
605
00:26:30,590 --> 00:26:33,134
I just need you to understand that
and believe that.
606
00:26:33,635 --> 00:26:35,303
- You see what I'm saying?
- I do see.
607
00:26:35,303 --> 00:26:39,182
No, I do see what you're saying,
but it is so hard for me
608
00:26:39,182 --> 00:26:44,604
to, like, believe that about me, you know?
609
00:26:44,604 --> 00:26:46,648
[Tan] Why is it hard
to believe it about yourself?
610
00:26:47,774 --> 00:26:50,610
I think because just, like,
the experience of the last 15 years
611
00:26:50,610 --> 00:26:53,363
has been, like,
no one has really wanted me,
612
00:26:53,363 --> 00:26:56,658
you know, and, like,
it's not that I don't meet humans.
613
00:26:56,658 --> 00:26:57,617
- [Tan] Yeah.
- You know?
614
00:26:57,617 --> 00:27:03,706
Or, like, I've never been to a bar
or a concert or a party or whatever.
615
00:27:03,706 --> 00:27:06,626
Like, not once,
and, like, it's not an exaggeration,
616
00:27:06,626 --> 00:27:10,630
has somebody, like, ever come up to me
and, like, approached me
617
00:27:10,630 --> 00:27:13,883
or, like, been interested,
like, you know, all the clichés,
618
00:27:13,883 --> 00:27:17,178
ask for a number, ask me out, like...
You know, never.
619
00:27:17,178 --> 00:27:19,180
I open up the apps,
620
00:27:19,180 --> 00:27:22,058
but it's like
I just don't even get messages, you know?
621
00:27:22,975 --> 00:27:27,313
And so that's easier to process
with, like, something superficial.
622
00:27:27,313 --> 00:27:32,068
In fact, I wonder if, like, the reason
I allowed myself to gain so much weight
623
00:27:32,068 --> 00:27:33,486
was because it was like...
624
00:27:33,486 --> 00:27:36,531
"At least there's a reason I can put...
I can attach that to this."
625
00:27:36,531 --> 00:27:38,700
- Yep.
- You are dateable.
626
00:27:38,700 --> 00:27:39,826
You are lovable.
627
00:27:39,826 --> 00:27:43,079
You are so beautiful.
And I know when we say things like this,
628
00:27:43,079 --> 00:27:45,123
people think,
"They'll say it about anyone."
629
00:27:45,123 --> 00:27:48,209
That's not true. Especially not from me.
I just wouldn't say it.
630
00:27:48,209 --> 00:27:49,627
- You are!
- [laughs]
631
00:27:49,627 --> 00:27:54,757
And I wanna show you
that you get to look beautiful now.
632
00:27:54,757 --> 00:27:55,842
Are you terrified?
633
00:27:55,842 --> 00:27:57,051
Mm-hmm.
634
00:27:57,051 --> 00:27:58,761
I promise I'll be really sensitive.
635
00:27:59,262 --> 00:28:01,973
- [Jenni] I believe that.
- Wait till you see this bikini I've got!
636
00:28:01,973 --> 00:28:03,850
- [laughs]
- That would be too far.
637
00:28:03,850 --> 00:28:05,810
We don't have that.
I promise. Come with me.
638
00:28:06,769 --> 00:28:07,603
[Tan] Can I come in?
639
00:28:07,603 --> 00:28:09,480
- [Jenni] Uh-huh. Yeah, of course.
- Great.
640
00:28:12,900 --> 00:28:13,735
No, I can't!
641
00:28:13,735 --> 00:28:15,236
- [Jenni laughs]
- Oof.
642
00:28:15,236 --> 00:28:16,863
- [Jenni] Old doors.
- [Tan] Oh, there.
643
00:28:17,780 --> 00:28:19,115
Ooh. Okay.
644
00:28:20,450 --> 00:28:21,909
Tell me what you think first.
645
00:28:21,909 --> 00:28:23,161
[Jenni] Um...
646
00:28:23,161 --> 00:28:24,912
- I don't love it.
- Tell me why.
647
00:28:25,413 --> 00:28:26,706
Um...
648
00:28:26,706 --> 00:28:29,292
I think it, like, makes me look big here.
649
00:28:29,292 --> 00:28:30,877
Oh.
650
00:28:30,877 --> 00:28:32,420
Or maybe it's, like, too trendy.
651
00:28:32,420 --> 00:28:34,964
- Yeah.
- This feels like a different person.
652
00:28:34,964 --> 00:28:36,132
Okay. Okay.
653
00:28:36,132 --> 00:28:38,676
The issue with the jacket
is it just feels very boxy,
654
00:28:38,676 --> 00:28:40,219
so let's take it off completely.
655
00:28:41,471 --> 00:28:44,223
- Explain to me what it is you're seeing.
- Like...
656
00:28:45,349 --> 00:28:46,893
It's like a... [laughs]
657
00:28:46,893 --> 00:28:49,145
You're holding it
like you're carrying a child.
658
00:28:49,145 --> 00:28:50,062
Yeah.
659
00:28:50,062 --> 00:28:52,398
- Like you are currently with child.
- Yeah.
660
00:28:52,398 --> 00:28:53,900
[Tan] You are in a senior position,
661
00:28:53,900 --> 00:28:55,902
especially the job
you're about to go into.
662
00:28:55,902 --> 00:28:59,322
I think to elevate it
and upgrade it from a legging
663
00:28:59,322 --> 00:29:00,782
would be nice for you,
664
00:29:00,782 --> 00:29:04,076
but if things aren't working,
I don't want you to feel defeated,
665
00:29:04,076 --> 00:29:07,246
because this is a time
for us to experiment and play.
666
00:29:07,246 --> 00:29:09,916
This kind of does do
what a pencil skirt would do,
667
00:29:09,916 --> 00:29:11,751
which is it's flat against your body.
668
00:29:11,751 --> 00:29:14,420
I wonder what would happen
if we put an A-line on you
669
00:29:14,420 --> 00:29:17,465
that then skims your body
and gets rid of anything you might see.
670
00:29:18,257 --> 00:29:19,425
- Shall we try it quick?
- Yeah.
671
00:29:19,425 --> 00:29:22,136
[Tan]
The only A-line I've got here is this.
672
00:29:22,136 --> 00:29:24,013
It's not about the color or the print.
673
00:29:24,013 --> 00:29:26,098
- I just wanna see the shape.
- [Jenni] The shape.
674
00:29:26,098 --> 00:29:27,099
- Okay.
- Yeah. Please.
675
00:29:27,099 --> 00:29:28,851
I'm gonna leave you for a second.
676
00:29:29,435 --> 00:29:30,269
Okay.
677
00:29:31,437 --> 00:29:34,065
Is this more in line
with what you were hoping for?
678
00:29:34,065 --> 00:29:38,277
Yeah. I never thought I would say,
like, I like the skirt more than pants.
679
00:29:38,277 --> 00:29:40,154
[laughing]
680
00:29:40,154 --> 00:29:43,449
This, in my opinion,
is perfect for your body shape.
681
00:29:43,449 --> 00:29:47,078
You're cinching in the waist,
and then having volume at the bottom.
682
00:29:47,078 --> 00:29:48,871
There are still gonna be some things
683
00:29:48,871 --> 00:29:52,500
that you have to convince yourself of
and believe truly,
684
00:29:52,500 --> 00:29:55,127
but self-esteem built a little, at least.
685
00:29:55,127 --> 00:29:56,671
Yeah. Like...
686
00:29:57,755 --> 00:29:58,714
[both laugh]
687
00:29:58,714 --> 00:30:00,216
- [Tan] Fun and flirty?
- Yeah!
688
00:30:00,925 --> 00:30:04,095
This is much greater than clothes.
This is how she views herself.
689
00:30:04,095 --> 00:30:06,973
This is how she allows
the world to see her.
690
00:30:06,973 --> 00:30:08,266
I don't want her to hide away.
691
00:30:08,266 --> 00:30:10,518
I want her to see
that her body is beautiful
692
00:30:10,518 --> 00:30:12,478
and should be celebrated
just the way it is.
693
00:30:13,896 --> 00:30:15,398
Gorgeous!
694
00:30:15,398 --> 00:30:17,233
On a date! She's here to meet me!
695
00:30:17,233 --> 00:30:19,819
Oh my God. I'm so excited.
I can't believe this is my date today.
696
00:30:19,819 --> 00:30:21,320
Wonderful!
697
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,699
What a world.
This blind date worked out perfectly. Oh!
698
00:30:25,199 --> 00:30:26,325
I think you look gorge.
699
00:30:26,325 --> 00:30:28,828
What does it make you feel?
What does it make you think?
700
00:30:28,828 --> 00:30:33,541
I think it, like, makes me
look like I'm confident
701
00:30:33,541 --> 00:30:36,878
and, like, not trying to, like, blend in.
702
00:30:36,878 --> 00:30:42,300
Like, even the heels, I'm like,
being tall is a little bit like a...
703
00:30:42,925 --> 00:30:44,218
Uh...
704
00:30:44,218 --> 00:30:45,761
- "They're gonna look at me."
- Mm-hmm.
705
00:30:46,345 --> 00:30:47,763
[Tan] That waist is tiny.
706
00:30:47,763 --> 00:30:51,475
- With this print, you can't see...
- No, I do feel like this looks flat.
707
00:30:51,475 --> 00:30:52,393
Flat.
708
00:30:52,393 --> 00:30:56,147
Everything that is
the problem area for you, we can't see.
709
00:30:56,147 --> 00:30:57,940
No man online can see.
710
00:30:57,940 --> 00:30:59,734
No man on a date can see.
711
00:30:59,734 --> 00:31:00,651
Doesn't exist.
712
00:31:01,235 --> 00:31:04,739
I hope that this kind of thing
helps you believe
713
00:31:04,739 --> 00:31:08,534
that it doesn't have to be
a T-shirt and leggings
714
00:31:08,534 --> 00:31:10,202
to a bikini in public.
715
00:31:10,202 --> 00:31:14,332
You can cover the areas you wanna cover
and still command an audience.
716
00:31:14,332 --> 00:31:16,918
There is a way to use clothes
to your advantage.
717
00:31:16,918 --> 00:31:19,420
- You were just not doing that before.
- Right.
718
00:31:19,420 --> 00:31:22,840
It is so nice to see Jenni
smile at herself in the mirror.
719
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:27,595
She can see that she can wear great style,
that she can feel good about herself.
720
00:31:27,595 --> 00:31:30,640
I honestly did not think
we would get to this point so soon,
721
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,141
but I'm so glad we have.
722
00:31:34,268 --> 00:31:36,729
[smooth dance music plays]
723
00:31:42,151 --> 00:31:43,903
[Jenni] Hi!
724
00:31:43,903 --> 00:31:47,823
Jenni has to start getting to a place
where she sees all the beauty,
725
00:31:47,823 --> 00:31:50,409
all the blessings,
all the things she has in her life,
726
00:31:50,409 --> 00:31:52,620
because she's been saying
negative things about herself,
727
00:31:52,620 --> 00:31:55,414
comparing herself to other people,
and she's not even realizing it.
728
00:31:57,458 --> 00:31:59,460
[Karamo]
We have arrived for our little activity.
729
00:31:59,460 --> 00:32:02,129
- [Jenni laughs] Okay.
- You know Daddy loves a metaphor.
730
00:32:02,129 --> 00:32:03,714
- All about the metaphors.
- Exactly.
731
00:32:03,714 --> 00:32:07,635
[Karamo] In front of you,
you see some windows
732
00:32:07,635 --> 00:32:10,721
that, my love,
I'm going to have you write on
733
00:32:11,305 --> 00:32:15,101
all the things that you think
are making you feel like you're stuck,
734
00:32:15,101 --> 00:32:16,769
that you're comparing yourself.
735
00:32:16,769 --> 00:32:20,147
And then once you've written,
it's time to smash that narrative.
736
00:32:20,147 --> 00:32:22,233
[gentle instrumental music plays]
737
00:32:24,610 --> 00:32:27,697
- What do you think's keeping you back?
- Oh God. I hate this.
738
00:32:27,697 --> 00:32:29,031
[Karamo] What do you think?
739
00:32:29,031 --> 00:32:30,408
Um...
740
00:32:30,408 --> 00:32:33,369
- That I'm not pretty enough.
- Boom.
741
00:32:33,369 --> 00:32:34,286
[Jenni] Okay.
742
00:32:35,454 --> 00:32:37,415
{\an8}- That it's too late.
- [Karamo] Go for it.
743
00:32:38,124 --> 00:32:40,584
{\an8}Or that I'm, like, too old. You know?
744
00:32:40,584 --> 00:32:41,544
Write it.
745
00:32:43,713 --> 00:32:47,258
All of it just, like,
leads to, like, not feeling desirable.
746
00:32:47,258 --> 00:32:48,175
Keep going.
747
00:32:49,093 --> 00:32:51,637
♪ Loving humans beckon ♪
748
00:32:51,637 --> 00:32:53,723
[vocalizing]
749
00:33:05,234 --> 00:33:06,986
I want you to stand and look at this.
750
00:33:09,780 --> 00:33:14,452
These are literally all the things
that I'm consistently hearing you say
751
00:33:15,202 --> 00:33:16,078
with all of us.
752
00:33:16,078 --> 00:33:19,081
But most importantly, and most sadly,
753
00:33:19,081 --> 00:33:21,042
these are the things
you're saying to yourself.
754
00:33:21,751 --> 00:33:23,919
This is the narrative
you're building about you.
755
00:33:24,420 --> 00:33:28,758
Yeah. It, um... it just feels really, uh...
756
00:33:31,218 --> 00:33:33,220
kind of, like,
hard to see that in writing.
757
00:33:33,804 --> 00:33:34,638
[Karamo] Yeah.
758
00:33:34,638 --> 00:33:36,348
'Cause I think, like, seeing this,
759
00:33:36,348 --> 00:33:39,852
like, does feel like
I've been putting myself down.
760
00:33:41,687 --> 00:33:43,898
[Karamo] Now it's time to say goodbye.
761
00:33:45,316 --> 00:33:48,736
If it says, "I'm not pretty enough,"
say, "I'm pretty enough." Believe it.
762
00:33:48,736 --> 00:33:51,155
- Ooh, I can't do that.
- You can do it!
763
00:33:51,155 --> 00:33:52,198
Smash it!
764
00:33:52,698 --> 00:33:54,700
Okay. I'm pretty enough.
765
00:33:55,534 --> 00:33:57,036
This is terrifying.
766
00:33:57,036 --> 00:33:58,913
Keep going. What does it say underneath?
767
00:33:58,913 --> 00:34:00,623
I am not too big.
768
00:34:00,623 --> 00:34:02,708
The reason I break...
Say, "My body is beautiful."
769
00:34:02,708 --> 00:34:04,752
[Jenni] My body is beautiful.
770
00:34:04,752 --> 00:34:06,796
I want you to scream
even louder next time.
771
00:34:07,463 --> 00:34:08,881
Let it come from your soul.
772
00:34:09,799 --> 00:34:11,133
Oh, I'm not a screamer!
773
00:34:11,133 --> 00:34:12,551
[Karamo] Too late. You are here.
774
00:34:13,135 --> 00:34:16,013
Jenni's over here swinging,
like, "No, I don't want to." [chuckles]
775
00:34:16,013 --> 00:34:18,516
"I don't..." Girl, you know
you can do better than that.
776
00:34:18,516 --> 00:34:21,143
I need you to swing that bat
777
00:34:21,143 --> 00:34:23,729
and destroy these ideas
you have about yourself.
778
00:34:24,313 --> 00:34:25,648
I am desirable.
779
00:34:27,483 --> 00:34:28,859
[Karamo] There you go.
780
00:34:28,859 --> 00:34:29,944
Scream it.
781
00:34:29,944 --> 00:34:32,071
My job is not what makes me interesting.
782
00:34:32,071 --> 00:34:32,988
Yes!
783
00:34:32,988 --> 00:34:34,198
There you go.
784
00:34:34,198 --> 00:34:35,199
Next one.
785
00:34:35,199 --> 00:34:36,659
Will someone want you?
786
00:34:36,659 --> 00:34:39,078
- [Jenni] The right person.
- [Karamo] Yes!
787
00:34:39,078 --> 00:34:40,454
There we go!
788
00:34:40,454 --> 00:34:41,914
The right person will want me!
789
00:34:42,540 --> 00:34:44,834
Ah! Ah! Ah!
790
00:34:44,834 --> 00:34:46,085
Yes, Jenni!
791
00:34:46,085 --> 00:34:47,002
Yes!
792
00:34:47,002 --> 00:34:48,963
Ah! Ah! Ah!
793
00:34:48,963 --> 00:34:52,258
It's a journey of healing.
It's a journey of growth.
794
00:34:52,258 --> 00:34:56,178
And she has taken the first step on that,
and she is looking good while doing it.
795
00:34:56,178 --> 00:34:58,347
Thank you. Thank you for that.
796
00:34:58,931 --> 00:35:02,184
I don't think I've ever broken
so many things in my life. [laughs]
797
00:35:03,060 --> 00:35:05,062
[upbeat music plays]
798
00:35:07,481 --> 00:35:09,066
[Bobby] Amazon Prime is here.
799
00:35:10,067 --> 00:35:10,985
Thanks, man.
800
00:35:12,820 --> 00:35:17,283
♪ Whoo! Okay, okay ♪
801
00:35:21,579 --> 00:35:29,003
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
802
00:35:29,003 --> 00:35:32,923
♪ I take it to the wire
Set it all on fire ♪
803
00:35:32,923 --> 00:35:35,384
[Jonathan] Welcome to Benoga Beauty Salon. Welcome.
804
00:35:35,384 --> 00:35:37,303
- [Jenni] Thank you.
- [Jonathan] Take a seat.
805
00:35:38,220 --> 00:35:41,140
Ah. So, first of all, look at this face.
806
00:35:41,140 --> 00:35:42,474
Can you stand it?
807
00:35:42,474 --> 00:35:43,934
I can stand it, yeah. [laughs]
808
00:35:43,934 --> 00:35:45,311
[Jonathan] I can't!
809
00:35:45,311 --> 00:35:47,229
- Let's talk about your hair.
- [Jenni] Okay.
810
00:35:47,229 --> 00:35:50,608
It's giving me health, vitality,
so let's keep you long.
811
00:35:50,608 --> 00:35:52,234
- Okay.
- And then for your color...
812
00:35:52,234 --> 00:35:55,446
When you didn't love your color,
part of it was it felt too bold.
813
00:35:55,446 --> 00:35:57,656
Yeah, like, compliments
make me uncomfortable.
814
00:35:57,656 --> 00:35:59,867
- So I don't really like--
- What's that mean?
815
00:35:59,867 --> 00:36:02,036
The thought that
immediately goes to my head,
816
00:36:02,036 --> 00:36:04,371
when people who know me are like,
"You look good,"
817
00:36:04,371 --> 00:36:07,166
it kind of feels like,
"Am I trying too hard right now?"
818
00:36:07,166 --> 00:36:09,418
Like, I hate that trying-too-hard feeling,
819
00:36:09,418 --> 00:36:13,088
but I also think there's a difference
between, like, vanity
820
00:36:13,088 --> 00:36:15,799
and taking back the narrative
of being proud of your sexuality,
821
00:36:15,799 --> 00:36:18,302
being proud of who you are,
and not apologizing for that,
822
00:36:18,302 --> 00:36:22,389
and I specifically think women,
especially women who are educators
823
00:36:22,389 --> 00:36:24,725
and, like, are in more,
like, caregiving roles,
824
00:36:24,725 --> 00:36:27,061
aren't allowed to express
that side of themselves,
825
00:36:27,061 --> 00:36:30,689
and then if they do, they're made to feel
this shame about it or something.
826
00:36:30,689 --> 00:36:34,818
So you can determine
wherever you wanna inhabit that spectrum.
827
00:36:34,818 --> 00:36:36,987
Maybe some people
think you're trying too hard,
828
00:36:36,987 --> 00:36:40,366
but it could be some people think that
even when you're doing nothing.
829
00:36:40,366 --> 00:36:41,283
Yeah.
830
00:36:41,283 --> 00:36:46,580
So I was thinking about, like, embracing,
more of, like, a ballsy, bold color.
831
00:36:47,289 --> 00:36:48,791
Let's make you a redhead.
832
00:36:48,791 --> 00:36:53,545
Like, a soft, natural red
like Julianne Moore.
833
00:36:54,338 --> 00:36:55,547
So if we go ginge,
834
00:36:55,547 --> 00:36:58,092
which I am really
a ******* huge advocate for...
835
00:36:58,092 --> 00:37:01,136
It's kind of my thing. I'm really good
at it. I'm kind of sought after.
836
00:37:01,136 --> 00:37:02,388
Reds, it's my thing.
837
00:37:02,388 --> 00:37:04,682
I'm sought after for my redheads.
It's a thing.
838
00:37:04,682 --> 00:37:08,310
I married a ginger, obsessed with reds.
People used to come to me for reds.
839
00:37:08,310 --> 00:37:10,396
I don't wanna toot my own horn, but I am...
840
00:37:10,396 --> 00:37:12,773
Really, like, it's kind of my thing.
841
00:37:13,607 --> 00:37:14,942
I'm really good at redheads.
842
00:37:14,942 --> 00:37:16,485
So I am a little excited, okay?
843
00:37:16,485 --> 00:37:19,196
It'll be fun!
It'll be really hot. Let's do it.
844
00:37:19,697 --> 00:37:22,032
I definitely am ready to change.
845
00:37:22,032 --> 00:37:23,784
Everything in me is like, "No!"
846
00:37:23,784 --> 00:37:25,744
But then, yeah, do it.
847
00:37:25,744 --> 00:37:27,871
[Jonathan]
Have you seen that thing on TikTok, like,
848
00:37:27,871 --> 00:37:31,417
"When it feels the scariest to jump,
that's when you jump."
849
00:37:31,417 --> 00:37:33,127
I don't have TikTok.
850
00:37:33,127 --> 00:37:36,672
How will you tell the kids not to eat
Tide Pods if you don't go on TikTok?
851
00:37:37,172 --> 00:37:38,132
[Jenni] I'm convinced.
852
00:37:38,132 --> 00:37:42,845
I know that it's a big change for her,
but, honey, we are fully going red.
853
00:37:42,845 --> 00:37:44,054
It is here. It is now.
854
00:37:44,054 --> 00:37:46,432
Give me Debra Messing. Give me Emma Stone.
855
00:37:46,432 --> 00:37:47,933
Redhead vibes!
856
00:37:47,933 --> 00:37:49,184
It is time.
857
00:37:49,184 --> 00:37:51,061
Oh my God, I'm so excited!
858
00:37:51,061 --> 00:37:52,479
Jenni, you got this.
859
00:37:53,063 --> 00:37:54,606
Dry cut commencing.
860
00:37:55,232 --> 00:37:56,066
[laughs]
861
00:37:56,066 --> 00:37:58,569
[Jonathan] Oh my God.
This looks so much better already.
862
00:37:58,569 --> 00:38:02,823
I'm gonna do a little face-framey thing
that, like... celebrating sexiness.
863
00:38:04,199 --> 00:38:06,118
Okay, I'm gonna mix up our color.
Are you ready?
864
00:38:06,118 --> 00:38:08,829
Yeah. I'm only minorly scared. [chuckles]
865
00:38:09,496 --> 00:38:11,540
[Jonathan] I'm gonna do
a few highlights really fast.
866
00:38:11,540 --> 00:38:13,000
Doing it.
867
00:38:13,584 --> 00:38:16,003
Your hair color's gonna be really pretty.
868
00:38:16,003 --> 00:38:18,172
♪ I'm gonna get loud again ♪
869
00:38:18,172 --> 00:38:20,466
♪ I'm gonna go party with my friends ♪
870
00:38:23,177 --> 00:38:25,679
[Jonathan] Would you do me a favor
and flip your head upside down?
871
00:38:26,263 --> 00:38:29,183
Yes. This is
how we get that good volume, honey.
872
00:38:29,183 --> 00:38:30,434
[Jenni] Or do I...
873
00:38:30,434 --> 00:38:33,604
I love that you intuitively knew
to not give me,
874
00:38:33,604 --> 00:38:37,649
like, some wimpy-ass,
like, basic-bitch hair flip.
875
00:38:37,649 --> 00:38:39,109
Like, you were, like... ha!
876
00:38:39,109 --> 00:38:40,277
[laughs]
877
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,155
[Jonathan] Rounding third base.
878
00:38:43,155 --> 00:38:45,574
If you cannot celebrate
your inner hot sexiness after this,
879
00:38:45,574 --> 00:38:46,867
I don't know what to tell you.
880
00:38:46,867 --> 00:38:47,785
[laughs]
881
00:38:47,785 --> 00:38:50,788
For years, Jenni has been struggs to sexy,
882
00:38:50,788 --> 00:38:53,874
but now with this red hair, honey,
take a number and get in line
883
00:38:53,874 --> 00:38:56,877
because this is
New Orleans' hottest bachelorette.
884
00:38:57,378 --> 00:38:59,546
Watch out, world. Jenni's comin' for ya.
885
00:39:00,130 --> 00:39:04,259
I want you to not be afraid to be seen
and to be proud of who you are.
886
00:39:04,259 --> 00:39:06,428
Thank you for trusting me.
This was really fun.
887
00:39:06,428 --> 00:39:08,972
Are you ready to see the new you?
Here she is.
888
00:39:08,972 --> 00:39:10,516
It's happening. Ready?
889
00:39:10,516 --> 00:39:13,102
Three, two, one...
890
00:39:13,602 --> 00:39:16,230
♪ I call thunder, thunder ♪
891
00:39:16,814 --> 00:39:18,607
♪ When you're around ♪
892
00:39:18,607 --> 00:39:21,568
I do think that it just looks
so much more full and happy.
893
00:39:21,568 --> 00:39:23,028
So full, yeah.
894
00:39:24,822 --> 00:39:28,784
[Jonathan] Ooh!
895
00:39:28,784 --> 00:39:30,244
[laughing]
896
00:39:31,078 --> 00:39:34,248
♪ Oh, it's about to break ♪
897
00:39:34,248 --> 00:39:36,708
♪ I can feel it deep inside of me ♪
898
00:39:36,708 --> 00:39:39,878
♪ Oh, it's about to break ♪
899
00:39:39,878 --> 00:39:42,047
♪ Like a wave, like an earthquake ♪
900
00:39:42,047 --> 00:39:45,175
♪ Oh, it's about to break ♪
901
00:39:45,175 --> 00:39:48,470
♪ I can feel it deep inside of me ♪
902
00:39:48,470 --> 00:39:49,847
[horn honks]
903
00:39:49,847 --> 00:39:51,473
[Antoni] They're here. They're here.
904
00:39:51,473 --> 00:39:53,225
Yay!
905
00:39:53,225 --> 00:39:55,269
Let's go in!
906
00:39:55,269 --> 00:39:56,979
Oh my God!
907
00:39:56,979 --> 00:39:59,731
- [Antoni] Whoa!
- [Karamo] Look at that hair!
908
00:39:59,731 --> 00:40:01,316
This red is beautiful.
909
00:40:01,316 --> 00:40:03,152
- [Tan and Antoni] So good!
- Stunning!
910
00:40:03,152 --> 00:40:04,319
- [Tan] Get up here!
- Yeah!
911
00:40:04,319 --> 00:40:05,737
The dark hair looks so good.
912
00:40:05,737 --> 00:40:07,781
- [Antoni] But don't look inside.
- [Jenni] Hi!
913
00:40:07,781 --> 00:40:10,617
- But wait till you see your house.
- [Bobby] It looks so good.
914
00:40:10,617 --> 00:40:12,578
I don't know if I'm ready,
but, yes, I'm ready.
915
00:40:12,578 --> 00:40:13,662
[Tan] It's gorge.
916
00:40:15,122 --> 00:40:16,999
Holy shit! [laughs]
917
00:40:16,999 --> 00:40:18,208
[Antoni] Yes!
918
00:40:18,959 --> 00:40:21,003
- [Jenni] Oh my God!
- [Bobby] What do you think?
919
00:40:22,546 --> 00:40:24,381
[Jenni] Oh my God!
920
00:40:25,966 --> 00:40:28,552
Oh my God! Um...
921
00:40:28,552 --> 00:40:32,097
[Bobby] You've got
a new little dining area in here.
922
00:40:32,097 --> 00:40:33,307
New bookcases.
923
00:40:33,307 --> 00:40:35,726
You are a genius.
924
00:40:35,726 --> 00:40:38,020
- Oh my God! [laughs]
- [Bobby] Mwah!
925
00:40:38,020 --> 00:40:39,563
[Jonathan] Is that light fixture new?
926
00:40:39,563 --> 00:40:40,814
- [Bobby] Yes.
- [Karamo] Gorge.
927
00:40:40,814 --> 00:40:43,567
- [Bobby] Ready to see more?
- Oh my God.
928
00:40:44,943 --> 00:40:49,156
I mean, I never would've thought black,
but this is amazing. Oh my God.
929
00:40:49,156 --> 00:40:51,325
If you wanna do black walls
in a small space,
930
00:40:51,325 --> 00:40:54,161
you have to balance it
with a lot of light colors.
931
00:40:54,161 --> 00:40:56,955
So light sofa, light rug,
light art on the wall.
932
00:40:56,955 --> 00:40:59,666
I actually had a custom painting
made for you from Minted.
933
00:40:59,666 --> 00:41:00,959
[Jenni] Oh my gosh.
934
00:41:00,959 --> 00:41:04,838
It's the City of New Orleans
created by a local New Orleans artist.
935
00:41:04,838 --> 00:41:06,131
[Tan] Not meant to sound harsh,
936
00:41:06,131 --> 00:41:08,425
but it doesn't look
like a college dorm anymore.
937
00:41:08,425 --> 00:41:12,137
It looks like
a New York penthouse or something.
938
00:41:12,137 --> 00:41:13,597
- Let's go upstairs!
- Yeah!
939
00:41:16,058 --> 00:41:18,602
- [Jenni] Oh my gosh.
- [Tan] It's lovely.
940
00:41:19,645 --> 00:41:21,772
Oh my gosh, it's beautiful.
941
00:41:21,772 --> 00:41:24,858
- [Bobby] Like it?
- [Jenni] I love it.
942
00:41:24,858 --> 00:41:27,444
And, like, repositioning it like this.
943
00:41:27,444 --> 00:41:29,738
It makes it feel much more spacious.
944
00:41:29,738 --> 00:41:33,534
When you have sleepovers,
like, no one wants to feel trapped in bed.
945
00:41:33,534 --> 00:41:34,952
[Antoni] Like slumber parties?
946
00:41:34,952 --> 00:41:36,370
- Yes.
- Yeah.
947
00:41:36,370 --> 00:41:38,163
- It's gorgeous.
- It feels calming.
948
00:41:38,163 --> 00:41:39,748
- Yeah.
- So nice.
949
00:41:41,333 --> 00:41:45,087
[Bobby] This was a space
that wasn't really that usable.
950
00:41:45,087 --> 00:41:46,505
And with your new job,
951
00:41:46,505 --> 00:41:49,675
I wanted to give you a space
where you could work from home.
952
00:41:49,675 --> 00:41:52,886
If this desk does not say "momager."
953
00:41:52,886 --> 00:41:56,014
You are literally, like, kicking ass
and taking names on this desk.
954
00:41:56,014 --> 00:42:02,062
This is truly the most spectacular thing
that anybody has ever done for me.
955
00:42:02,646 --> 00:42:03,981
You deserve it.
956
00:42:07,025 --> 00:42:11,071
Your energy today is so different
from when we first found you.
957
00:42:11,071 --> 00:42:13,407
You were, I call it "American happy,"
958
00:42:13,991 --> 00:42:15,534
which is smiley, smiley,
959
00:42:15,534 --> 00:42:18,120
but there's so much inside
you've not quite processed.
960
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:19,162
Yeah.
961
00:42:19,162 --> 00:42:23,250
And I know our time together
at the house was really bloody hard,
962
00:42:23,250 --> 00:42:24,835
and I would like to believe
963
00:42:24,835 --> 00:42:27,588
that we've at least got you
thinking a little differently.
964
00:42:27,588 --> 00:42:28,755
You have, for sure.
965
00:42:28,755 --> 00:42:29,798
- [Tan] Good
- For sure.
966
00:42:29,798 --> 00:42:32,134
Good, so are you ready to try on?
967
00:42:32,134 --> 00:42:33,051
Yes.
968
00:42:33,051 --> 00:42:35,304
- All right, kids, ready for this?
- Yeah!
969
00:42:35,304 --> 00:42:36,471
- Okay.
- We're so excited.
970
00:42:36,471 --> 00:42:37,764
It's so chic.
971
00:42:37,764 --> 00:42:39,516
Would you join me, please?
972
00:42:40,684 --> 00:42:41,643
[Karamo exclaims]
973
00:42:41,643 --> 00:42:42,853
Yeah!
974
00:42:42,853 --> 00:42:45,772
[Jonathan] Did you steal my stuff
in my closet, queen?
975
00:42:45,772 --> 00:42:47,274
[laughing]
976
00:42:47,274 --> 00:42:50,360
- [Tan] Love, right?
- Colors with your hair and your skin!
977
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:54,573
Do you want me to try that shoe on for you
to make sure that it fits me too?
978
00:42:55,657 --> 00:42:57,701
That shoe's so cute, Tan.
979
00:42:57,701 --> 00:42:59,953
This outfit just shows
she's no longer hiding away.
980
00:42:59,953 --> 00:43:02,039
There's no reason to be a wallflower.
981
00:43:02,039 --> 00:43:04,916
Like, you're gorge. You are successful.
982
00:43:04,916 --> 00:43:08,253
With the way you walked into the room,
like, you're feeling yourself.
983
00:43:08,253 --> 00:43:09,880
[Jonathan] I want the students watching
984
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,341
to, like, turn the TV on mute
for just a second,
985
00:43:12,341 --> 00:43:15,969
but this is a master class
in tasteful titty. Okay?
986
00:43:15,969 --> 00:43:17,804
- I know.
- It is like the perfect...
987
00:43:17,804 --> 00:43:20,849
It's like I'm curious,
but you're not gonna get in trouble.
988
00:43:20,849 --> 00:43:23,977
Like, it violates no dress codes,
but I'm like, "Okay."
989
00:43:23,977 --> 00:43:26,438
Something that is great,
but we're not giving it all away.
990
00:43:26,438 --> 00:43:28,440
- Tasteful titty master class, okay?
- [Tan] Yes.
991
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,192
How do you feel completely?
992
00:43:30,192 --> 00:43:32,027
Like a different person.
993
00:43:32,027 --> 00:43:32,944
Like...
994
00:43:33,737 --> 00:43:35,364
I really keep looking in the mirror,
995
00:43:35,364 --> 00:43:37,783
and also kind of like,
"Who's that? I don't know."
996
00:43:38,450 --> 00:43:39,743
- [Tan] It's Jenni!
- [laughing]
997
00:43:39,743 --> 00:43:41,078
It's the new Jenni Seckel!
998
00:43:41,078 --> 00:43:43,038
- And she was always there.
- [Karamo] Exactly.
999
00:43:43,038 --> 00:43:44,456
- Wait, before...
- [Antoni] Yeah.
1000
00:43:44,456 --> 00:43:46,792
I have a little something for you guys.
Hold on.
1001
00:43:46,792 --> 00:43:48,877
- [Bobby] Okay.
- Is it snacks?
1002
00:43:48,877 --> 00:43:50,087
[laughing]
1003
00:43:51,254 --> 00:43:52,381
Oh!
1004
00:43:52,381 --> 00:43:54,299
- What? Is it Christmas?
- [Jonathan] Let me help.
1005
00:43:54,299 --> 00:43:56,885
Each one of you has been so, so special,
1006
00:43:56,885 --> 00:44:00,681
and I wish there was a million more ways
to express to you guys,
1007
00:44:00,681 --> 00:44:02,808
like, how much a nugget
from each one of you
1008
00:44:02,808 --> 00:44:07,396
that is, like, completing
a whole new narrative in my head.
1009
00:44:07,396 --> 00:44:08,647
- Oh!
- [Tan] So lovely.
1010
00:44:08,647 --> 00:44:12,442
Bobby, this is for you because you have
given me such a beautiful new home,
1011
00:44:12,442 --> 00:44:16,363
and I hope that when you go to your home,
you take just a tiny piece of New Orleans.
1012
00:44:16,363 --> 00:44:17,739
- Thank you.
- Yep.
1013
00:44:18,240 --> 00:44:19,908
Oh, Jenni!
1014
00:44:19,908 --> 00:44:21,576
Tan, the best compliment you gave me
1015
00:44:21,576 --> 00:44:24,079
was talking about
it's okay to take my time,
1016
00:44:24,079 --> 00:44:25,789
and so this is for your baby.
1017
00:44:25,789 --> 00:44:27,874
- [Fab Five] Aw!
- Jenni!
1018
00:44:27,874 --> 00:44:30,210
Thank you so much.
That is so lovely of you.
1019
00:44:30,210 --> 00:44:32,379
Jonathan, one of the things
that's so inspiring
1020
00:44:32,379 --> 00:44:35,882
is, like, you really use your platform
to, like help others,
1021
00:44:35,882 --> 00:44:39,010
and it's a little bit
for the activist in you too.
1022
00:44:39,010 --> 00:44:40,095
Thank you.
1023
00:44:40,095 --> 00:44:41,596
This is for you.
1024
00:44:41,596 --> 00:44:43,974
I think you saw in me
1025
00:44:43,974 --> 00:44:47,853
things that, like, people
who are closest to me have not seen
1026
00:44:47,853 --> 00:44:49,312
so fast.
1027
00:44:49,312 --> 00:44:54,025
It was scary,
but it was just so enlightening.
1028
00:44:54,025 --> 00:44:56,445
And I really appreciate
you sharing a piece of yourself,
1029
00:44:56,445 --> 00:44:58,280
and so this is a piece of New Orleans.
1030
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:03,285
Okay, and for you, with our love of food
and all things gourmand,
1031
00:45:03,285 --> 00:45:04,911
I really wanna start hosting.
1032
00:45:04,911 --> 00:45:07,539
You've given me the tools
to feel proud of that
1033
00:45:07,539 --> 00:45:10,459
and, like, see it now
as a gift and something special,
1034
00:45:10,459 --> 00:45:14,045
and so the next time you make a meal,
I hope you can use this.
1035
00:45:14,045 --> 00:45:16,006
- Thank you.
- [Tan] That is so lovely.
1036
00:45:16,006 --> 00:45:18,258
- [Jonathan] We're so proud of you.
- [Jenni] Thank you.
1037
00:45:18,258 --> 00:45:20,886
[Jonathan] We hope for your future
that you can see and celebrate
1038
00:45:20,886 --> 00:45:23,472
the beauty that you have
the way everyone around you sees you,
1039
00:45:23,472 --> 00:45:25,515
which is just,
like, it's time to celebrate.
1040
00:45:25,515 --> 00:45:28,351
- [Tan] And you can start that tonight.
- [Antoni] Do you feel prepared?
1041
00:45:28,351 --> 00:45:32,481
- Yeah, but I don't want you to leave!
- [Tan] We don't wanna leave.
1042
00:45:32,481 --> 00:45:34,858
It's like this weird dichotomy
of, "No, I'm ready,"
1043
00:45:34,858 --> 00:45:38,612
and then like, "No. If I say no,
you have to keep staying?"
1044
00:45:39,738 --> 00:45:41,490
- [Tan] Good luck tonight, my love.
- Have fun.
1045
00:45:41,490 --> 00:45:43,200
- [Bobby] Love you!
- [Jenni] Thank you!
1046
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:45,577
- [Jonathan] We love Jenni Seckel!
- Bye!
1047
00:45:45,577 --> 00:45:47,454
- [Fab Five] Bye!
- [Antoni] Bye, Jenni.
1048
00:45:47,454 --> 00:45:48,455
♪ You better get ♪
1049
00:45:48,455 --> 00:45:49,456
♪ Move ♪
1050
00:45:49,456 --> 00:45:50,499
♪ Out my way ♪
1051
00:45:50,499 --> 00:45:52,334
♪ I ain't got the time to say ♪
1052
00:45:52,334 --> 00:45:54,127
- ♪ Move ♪
- ♪ Out my way ♪
1053
00:45:54,127 --> 00:45:56,421
♪ I ain't got the time today ♪
1054
00:45:56,421 --> 00:45:57,839
♪ Ooh ♪
1055
00:45:58,715 --> 00:46:00,217
♪ Everybody move out my way ♪
1056
00:46:00,217 --> 00:46:02,219
- ♪ Move ♪
- [doorbell rings]
1057
00:46:02,219 --> 00:46:03,929
[upbeat music plays]
1058
00:46:06,348 --> 00:46:08,892
[laughing]
1059
00:46:09,434 --> 00:46:13,230
- Oh my God!
- Oh my God! Oh my God! Oh my God!
1060
00:46:13,230 --> 00:46:15,982
Oh my God, Jenni. You look amazing!
1061
00:46:16,483 --> 00:46:17,609
Oh my God.
1062
00:46:18,985 --> 00:46:20,654
- I can't believe it!
- [laughing
1063
00:46:20,654 --> 00:46:23,907
- Oh my God, your hair.
- Look at your ******* house!
1064
00:46:23,907 --> 00:46:25,951
So good!
1065
00:46:25,951 --> 00:46:28,411
[Jenni] And, like, they put a built-in.
1066
00:46:28,411 --> 00:46:30,205
All new. Like, a whole new facade.
1067
00:46:30,205 --> 00:46:31,998
And a wine rack!
1068
00:46:31,998 --> 00:46:33,792
- [Jenni] Isn't it amazing?
- [Theresa] Jenni!
1069
00:46:33,792 --> 00:46:35,919
[Jenni] If I ever have a man here,
it's gonna be like,
1070
00:46:35,919 --> 00:46:38,213
"This is the life
you have to be able to give me."
1071
00:46:38,213 --> 00:46:39,130
[laughing]
1072
00:46:39,130 --> 00:46:40,298
Okay!
1073
00:46:41,132 --> 00:46:42,884
[Jenni] We have to cook the fish.
1074
00:46:42,884 --> 00:46:46,555
[Theresa] Look at you,
little chef de cuisine here.
1075
00:46:46,555 --> 00:46:50,100
Somebody said to me before I went into it,
like, "You're so brave,"
1076
00:46:50,100 --> 00:46:52,644
and I was like,
"I'm not, like, brave for doing this."
1077
00:46:53,812 --> 00:46:55,438
- [laughing]
- [indistinct chatter]
1078
00:46:56,606 --> 00:46:58,024
Hey!
1079
00:46:58,024 --> 00:46:59,860
Oh my God!
1080
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:05,156
But I was blown away that I've never felt,
and I feel really brave now.
1081
00:47:05,824 --> 00:47:07,534
[laughing]
1082
00:47:07,534 --> 00:47:09,077
I love a redhead!
1083
00:47:09,661 --> 00:47:12,289
I've never felt so seen in my whole life.
1084
00:47:12,789 --> 00:47:13,874
Spin.
1085
00:47:14,708 --> 00:47:16,710
Jenni!
1086
00:47:16,710 --> 00:47:18,295
- You're about to get snatched up.
- Wow.
1087
00:47:19,045 --> 00:47:21,798
- [Jenni] Look at the fish!
- [guests] Wow.
1088
00:47:21,798 --> 00:47:24,092
- [woman] Look at the fish!
- Isn't it so good?
1089
00:47:24,843 --> 00:47:27,721
Now that Jenni is feeling fantastic,
1090
00:47:27,721 --> 00:47:30,515
she's commanding a space,
commanding her room,
1091
00:47:30,515 --> 00:47:32,142
and it's so lovely to see
1092
00:47:32,142 --> 00:47:34,895
that finally,
she's seeing what we're seeing.
1093
00:47:34,895 --> 00:47:38,064
- I feel like this is, like, updated Jenni.
- [woman] Yeah.
1094
00:47:38,064 --> 00:47:40,358
The woman we met in that school
is not the woman here.
1095
00:47:40,358 --> 00:47:43,445
This woman, she's a boss
that now believes it and owns it.
1096
00:47:44,154 --> 00:47:48,199
Jenni is in her power.
She's into celebrating herself, her time.
1097
00:47:48,783 --> 00:47:51,578
She's got the goods.
Now she's starting to see it.
1098
00:47:52,078 --> 00:47:55,999
There isn't a specific road map
to where you need to be at a certain age,
1099
00:47:55,999 --> 00:48:00,337
so right now is the perfect time
for her to start her next chapter.
1100
00:48:00,337 --> 00:48:03,882
Okay, I just wanted to take a minute
and just thank you guys so much
1101
00:48:03,882 --> 00:48:05,926
for not just being here tonight,
1102
00:48:05,926 --> 00:48:10,221
but, like, supporting me
the last seven years.
1103
00:48:10,221 --> 00:48:12,140
So thank you for supporting me,
1104
00:48:12,140 --> 00:48:17,062
and I'm really excited to, like, see
how to get the life that I want
1105
00:48:17,062 --> 00:48:18,271
and that I deserve.
1106
00:48:18,271 --> 00:48:20,190
[cheering]
1107
00:48:22,025 --> 00:48:23,026
Yay!
1108
00:48:26,905 --> 00:48:29,491
{\an8}♪ And I would do anything... ♪
1109
00:48:29,491 --> 00:48:31,076
{\an8}- [Tan] Boys, you ready?
- [Antoni] Yeah.
1110
00:48:31,076 --> 00:48:33,703
- [Karamo] Yeah.
- [Tan screams]
1111
00:48:33,703 --> 00:48:35,664
[mimicking Tan]
How are you all doing, idiots?
1112
00:48:35,664 --> 00:48:38,375
Tan, oh my God, you look so cute!
1113
00:48:38,375 --> 00:48:39,626
- [Karamo] Oh my God.
- Tanny!
1114
00:48:39,626 --> 00:48:41,920
- Look at Jackie.
- [Antoni] A little more...
1115
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,172
[laughing]
1116
00:48:44,172 --> 00:48:46,716
- This keeps falling off.
- [Antoni] I would never!
1117
00:48:46,716 --> 00:48:50,220
We'll get sent to the principal's office
for doing this, Jackie.
1118
00:48:50,220 --> 00:48:51,137
What are we doing?
1119
00:48:51,137 --> 00:48:53,473
[in exaggerated English accent]
Shall we call Jenni Seckel?
1120
00:48:53,473 --> 00:48:55,350
[Tan] Hi, Jenni!
1121
00:48:55,350 --> 00:48:58,478
- [as Tan] Hello. You look beautiful.
- You switched hair!
1122
00:48:58,478 --> 00:49:00,563
You did a really beautiful job
on her hair.
1123
00:49:00,563 --> 00:49:02,565
- [Tan] Your hair!
- Am I doing you proud?
1124
00:49:02,565 --> 00:49:04,859
- You look absolutely gorgeous.
- Yes, Tanny.
1125
00:49:04,859 --> 00:49:07,195
[in own voice] In all seriousness,
my love, how are you?
1126
00:49:07,195 --> 00:49:09,531
- Great.
- How was your event?
1127
00:49:09,531 --> 00:49:10,657
It was very fun,
1128
00:49:10,657 --> 00:49:12,826
and then we went
out on the town afterward.
1129
00:49:12,826 --> 00:49:14,160
- Yes!
- [Bobby] I love it.
1130
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:15,495
I've had brunch here.
1131
00:49:15,495 --> 00:49:17,247
I had a colleague over last night.
1132
00:49:17,247 --> 00:49:19,666
You better work! It's like you are living!
1133
00:49:19,666 --> 00:49:21,334
[Jenni] Oh my God, every day.
1134
00:49:21,334 --> 00:49:23,378
- Good for you.
- That's major!
1135
00:49:23,378 --> 00:49:27,716
It's insane how different I feel
in the last, like, three weeks.
1136
00:49:27,716 --> 00:49:28,925
- Yeah.
- I feel lighter.
1137
00:49:28,925 --> 00:49:32,887
Like, I wake up in the morning,
and I'm not only thinking about work.
1138
00:49:32,887 --> 00:49:36,099
I also have other things
I think about and do.
1139
00:49:36,099 --> 00:49:39,602
Like what? Are you dating now?
Is that what else you're thinking about?
1140
00:49:39,602 --> 00:49:42,272
I have two dates lined up for this week.
1141
00:49:42,272 --> 00:49:43,565
Yeah!
1142
00:49:43,565 --> 00:49:44,858
Get out there, mama!
1143
00:49:44,858 --> 00:49:46,901
- What do I have to lose?
- Amen.
1144
00:49:47,402 --> 00:49:51,656
And, Tan, not in, like, a fake
"American happy" way that you told me.
1145
00:49:51,656 --> 00:49:55,076
[as Jonathan] As an American, I can say
I can tell that you're truly happy.
1146
00:49:55,076 --> 00:49:56,953
[laughing]
1147
00:49:58,163 --> 00:50:00,415
- We love you, and we're so happy for you.
- Yeah.
1148
00:50:00,415 --> 00:50:02,709
You deserve everything
that's coming towards you.
1149
00:50:02,709 --> 00:50:04,252
Wish me luck on the dates!
1150
00:50:04,252 --> 00:50:05,628
[Fab Five] Yeah!
1151
00:50:05,628 --> 00:50:07,505
- She don't need the luck!
- Bye, sweetheart!
1152
00:50:07,505 --> 00:50:09,591
- [Karamo] She got this.
- She's radiating.
1153
00:50:09,591 --> 00:50:11,176
- Yeah, she was.
- It's beautiful.
1154
00:50:11,176 --> 00:50:12,510
- High five!
- Good job, kids.
1155
00:50:12,510 --> 00:50:14,220
- High five!
- High five.
1156
00:50:15,180 --> 00:50:17,098
[Antoni] We were never good at that part.
1157
00:50:17,849 --> 00:50:19,851
[upbeat music plays]
1158
00:50:22,228 --> 00:50:25,607
Want the waves without the heat?
Try this heatless wave set.
1159
00:50:25,607 --> 00:50:27,942
Gives waves for days,
and your hair doesn't get damaged.
1160
00:50:27,942 --> 00:50:30,528
Ah! Plus, if you have textured hair,
1161
00:50:30,528 --> 00:50:32,363
this is a great way
to preserve your blow-dry.
1162
00:50:33,823 --> 00:50:37,619
Also, if you're like, "I don't wanna
spend money," just use tights.
1163
00:50:37,619 --> 00:50:38,745
Almost works the same.
1164
00:50:38,745 --> 00:50:41,664
Look at that technique on TikTok.
It's genius. [chuckles]
1165
00:50:42,749 --> 00:50:43,792
Ah!
1166
00:50:49,547 --> 00:50:50,715
[alarm rings]
1167
00:50:54,010 --> 00:50:56,471
Heatless waves? How cool!
1168
00:50:56,471 --> 00:50:59,599
["Move" by Vanacore Music plays]