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[upbeat music plays]

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[phone rings]

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{\an8}Stein.

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{\an8}I definitely think
Dan can be curmudgeonly. [chuckles]

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I'm with a customer right now.

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I kind of think
he puts on the grouch thing

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to, you know, startle people,
and then he lures them in with kindness.

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You're gonna be a movie star.
You know that, right?

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He's our friend, Dan.

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I mean, we all have friends
that we hate, right?

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I like to think
that I'm a very caring person,

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but please don't tell anybody.

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"Our hero this week
is a man named Dan Stein."

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"He is a local legend in New Orleans."

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"He's the owner
of Stein's Market and Deli,

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a local institution..."

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- [Tan] Love an institution!
- Love a deli. Love an institution.

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"...that's famous for two things.
Sandwiches and Dan Stein." Whoo!

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I've been running Stein's Market and Deli
for a little bit over 15 years now.

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{\an8}It is really the center of the community.

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[Dan] We welcome everybody.

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Annoying, not annoying.

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[Cara] He's known
for doing these crazy ad campaigns.

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I think half of New Orleans
has seen my boyfriend's tuchus.

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- Cool.
- [man] Dan, you owe me pickles.

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[Dan] I don't owe you anything.

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{\an8}Everybody in the city knows Dan Stein.

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{\an8}We're all there
to get our sandwich and get yelled at.

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"Describing Dan as a workaholic
would be an understatement."

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"The man works over 80 hours
seven days a week at his deli."

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It is all deli.

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- Kosher salt.
- All the time.

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"He's in his first serious relationship
with his girlfriend of two years, Cara."

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He's in a relationship,
with that schedule?

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I definitely have grown to love Dan a lot.

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He's nearing a fatherly figure
in our life, but he gets home really late.

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His mind is always on the deli.

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At least twice a week,

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my mom calls me because Dan
was supposed to come home for dinner

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and instead he's still at the deli.

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"His good heart and caring nature
has won her over,

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but Dan's gruff exterior
and addiction to his deli

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has caused one too many issues
in their relationship

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and Cara is one foot in and one foot out."

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- Now that makes more sense.
- Yeah. There we go.

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[Cara] He's so busy at the deli
that he can't change his clothes

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and shave his face.

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[Jonathan] "Some people use
hair products to tame their mane."

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"Dan uses his own saliva."

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[Bobby] Ew!

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[Jonathan] Hot!

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I hope he does it
after he brushes his teeth.

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Does he, like, overproduce saliva?

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'Cause you need a lot of saliva.

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- [Jonathan] I do think--
- He uses his saliva.

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Why are you all acting like that's normal?

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That's nasty as hell.

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[Cara] I've only taken Dan
to one work event.

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He was late,

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and then he was wearing
all of his deli clothes,

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and I was like,
"I am the new CEO at this job,

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and you are late,
and you have not dressed up."

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And he promptly sat down
in one of the chairs

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and fell asleep.

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That didn't go well.

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There's just moments
I need to know I can count on him

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and that the deli isn't gonna win.

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Hey, Regis, did salt go up?

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[Dan] I know I'm in a toxic,
codependent relationship with the deli.

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If I were Samson, the deli's my hair.

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There's this sort of sense of frustration

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where you just say, "Is this all I have?"

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"Is this all I'm meant to do,

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is come to this place
and never smell the roses

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and never take a break?"

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[Cara] There is a real feeling
that something has to give.

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We love Dan, and we love the deli,

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but we know that he deserves
to invest in himself a little bit.

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"Madeline wants the Fab Five
to help shape up Dan

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to be the boyfriend
he needs to be for her mom

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and help him end
his codependent relationship

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with his deli."

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Our mission this week is to turn Deli Dan
into Cara's dream man!

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- Yeah!
- Yeah!

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That's cute!

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<i>♪ Things just keep getting better ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Down in New Orleans ♪</i>

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[upbeat music plays]

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- [Jonathan] I am hungry.
- [phone rings]

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- [Jonathan] Snacks.
- [Karamo] Oh wow!

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Stein's. Can you please hold?

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[Karamo] Ooh, it smells good.

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- Hi.
- [Karamo] What does Dan look like?

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- [Bobby] Oh man.
- That him?

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Yeah, yeah.

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All right. I got a caprese
with one ounce of prosciutto.

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{\an8}[Jonathan] Look at that little picture.
He's got a lot of personality.

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{\an8}[Bobby] That's also him. Look at this.

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- [Karamo] Oh my gosh.
- [Jonathan] Oh God. He's George Costanza.

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Can you take me off speakerphone?
I can't hear a thing you're saying.

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Dan.

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[Bobby] I don't know.
Maybe we should come back later.

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[whistling]

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[Jonathan] When I was little,
if I had, like, a huge crush on someone,

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I would just ignore them
because I didn't know what to do

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and I was really nervous.

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So maybe this is just a case of, like,
Dan-Stein's-in-love-with-us nerves.

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- Can I help you?
- Honey, yes. I worked up an appetite.

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This place is gorgeous,
and look at your hazel eyes.

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- I've heard they're lovely.
- Okay. I wanna order something.

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Can I please get an egg and cheese bagel?

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- Double egg would be wonderful.
- Do you know we're here to help you?

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- Yes.
- Hi!

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- You could help me by placing an order.
- But you're so attractive.

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- Wow!
- Could I have this cookie, please?

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[Tan] I wanna make it really clear
none of us have money.

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Fine. I'll put you on account.

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You're getting a great review
on Yelp from me, honey.

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This is top tier.

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I'm looking forward to that Yelp review.

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Dan Stein would not have made it past
episode one of <i>America's Next Top Model,</i>

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not because he's hot.
Because he doesn't know how to smize.

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Where's your internal...

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That's how Tyra does it.
Come on, Dan Stein!

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I would not like anything to eat.

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The only thing I'd like
is to know more about you.

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I can person the register
if you're nervous to leave.

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- No, I will--
- I used to work at McDonald's.

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- I can do that.
- Thank you.

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[Antoni] How did a Philly man
end up in New Orleans?

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[Dan] I used to be a lawyer.
That's where I got my first legal job,

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and I stayed down here
'cause I felt comfortable.

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Are you open seven days a week?

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- No. Six days.
- Okay.

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- Are you here seven days a week?
- Oh yeah.

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[Tan] Wow.

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Do you feel you can't leave the business
because they need you

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or you just like being here all the time?

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It's probably some of the former,
but mostly the latter.

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- Look at that quad.
- [Tan] Look at that action.

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[Dan] Yeah, I've got a good base.

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[Antoni] Makes me curious
about what your home is like.

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- Are you ready to show us your house?
- [Dan] I am ready.

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- I am ready for you to leave my deli.
- [Jonathan] Let's go! Yes.

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[Jonathan] Show us your home.

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[Antoni] Let's see inside.
Is it as cool as the deli?

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- Uh, no.
- [Antoni] Oh. Oh.

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All right.

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- Whoa! Massive kitchen.
- [Bobby] It's nice!

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[Karamo] It's beautiful.

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[Bobby] Doesn't seem like
anyone lives in it.

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[Dan] I mean,
that's a good way of putting it.

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Your girlfriend doesn't come over.

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That is correct.

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- [Tan] Do you invite her?
- [Dan] Uh, no.

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By the time it's like,
"Let's get together on a weeknight,"

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it's 11:00 or 11:30, I'm leaving.

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- [Bobby] So it's a booty call.
- She's already in bed.

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It's not a booty call.

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We... we snuggle.

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[laughs]

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[Bobby] And now is this living room?

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[Dan] Not much living done in this room.

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[Tan] It feels like
you haven't quite moved in yet.

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- How long have you been here?
- Uh, probably, like, five or six years.

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Huh.

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[Dan] I don't spend a lot of time here.

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[Tan] You don't spend time
because it's like this

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or you choose to keep it like this
so you don't have to?

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I think it's the chicken and the egg.

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[Bobby] There is so much personality
going on with Dan,

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{\an8}with the paintings of himself,
the photos of himself all over the deli,

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but then you get to his house and...

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no personality.

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[Antoni] Whoa, this is huge up here.

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This is lovely!

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[Antoni] Out of seven nights, how many
nights do you spend at Cara's versus here?

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Right now, seven.

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We sleep in the same bed at night,
and that's about it.

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I think she wants a little bit more
out of the relationship.

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- Do you want more out of the relationship?
- Sure.

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[Dan] This is the bathroom.

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[Karamo] What's interesting for me
is you have these double sinks,

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and one of them is empty

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because no one ever comes here.

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[Dan] That's correct.

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- [guys] Hi!
- Oh!

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[Bobby] Hello.

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[Tan] Are you Cara?

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Aren't you a vision?

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Well, thank you.

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- [Dan] When am I getting a hug?
- Kiss him! Kiss him!

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[Jonathan] Aw. Tell us about Dan, honey.

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Oh my gosh. He's like an enigma.

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Like, I can find somebody who dresses well

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and someone who has,
like, good Southern manners,

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but to find someone with a big heart

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who leads every day and every moment
with how can he help others,

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it's DNA.

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- He's got a super big heart.
- [Cara] Yeah.

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What does he need help with?

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Balance is almost too gentle of a word.

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I'm an independent woman,
but I'm not so independent

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that I wanna be alone
on Friday and Saturday nights, right?

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And makes me feel...
sometimes disrespected almost.

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He's giving cake to the deli,
and you're getting crumbs.

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- [Cara] Right.
- Yeah.

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[Tan] Have you tried to resolve it?

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Have you spoken about it?
Dan, what has been the outcome of it?

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She's told me a couple things,
and I've tried to do better.

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[Tan] I can tell
that Dan was raised right.

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He knows
that this kind of behavior is not okay.

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Something is wrong here.

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Can I go to the bathroom?

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- Yes, please.
- Yeah!

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To investigate your situation.
Not to, like, blow it up.

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Oh, no, please.

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Bye.

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[Cara] Love y'all.

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[Tan] All right.

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He says that he doesn't dress up,
but he's got a load of ties.

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[gasps]

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Oh my!

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Naughty, naughty Dan.

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Hey, Jackie. I need to show you something.

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- [Jonathan] Okay.
- Turn around.

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- [Tan] Oh!
- Ooh! Ah!

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[Tan] Does that not hurt?

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Can I go harder?

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- [Jonathan] Ow!
- Ay! [laughs]

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Not too hard. Don't start too hard.

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Go. You can go slightly harder.

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- Ow! That stung, you bitch!
- [both laugh]

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- [Dan] First of all, where are we?
- We're in your kitchen.

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[Dan] I have a kitchen?

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- [Antoni] You don't cook here very much?
- No.

237
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{\an8}It's time to get
the ingredients together, to plan.

238
00:09:59,433 --> 00:10:04,229
There's so many interesting opportunities
for you and Cara to bond over

239
00:10:04,229 --> 00:10:06,607
that I feel like
you're not taking advantage of

240
00:10:06,607 --> 00:10:08,359
that I really kinda wanna hone in on.

241
00:10:08,359 --> 00:10:10,694
You mentioned that you spend
a lot of time at her house.

242
00:10:10,694 --> 00:10:13,489
Do you remember the last time
when, like, she came over here

243
00:10:13,489 --> 00:10:16,283
and you were in the kitchen
making something for her to eat?

244
00:10:16,283 --> 00:10:17,368
- No.
- [Antoni] Okay.

245
00:10:17,368 --> 00:10:19,078
- So--
- 'Cause it never happened.

246
00:10:19,078 --> 00:10:21,872
Would you wanna change that
and try something different?

247
00:10:21,872 --> 00:10:26,210
You know, it kind of pains me
that I've never thought of that until now.

248
00:10:26,210 --> 00:10:27,961
When you know better, you do better.

249
00:10:27,961 --> 00:10:28,879
Right.

250
00:10:28,879 --> 00:10:30,798
[Antoni]
That's all that we can do in life.

251
00:10:30,798 --> 00:10:33,592
{\an8}I just wanna say
that when I look deep into your eyes,

252
00:10:33,592 --> 00:10:35,636
{\an8}I see my grandfather's eyebrows,

253
00:10:35,636 --> 00:10:39,765
{\an8}and that makes me feel at home
and comforted and nice.

254
00:10:40,349 --> 00:10:42,309
- They're very big.
- [Jonathan] We'll trim them.

255
00:10:42,309 --> 00:10:43,936
- Thank you.
- Can I see your hair?

256
00:10:43,936 --> 00:10:44,853
Please.

257
00:10:46,730 --> 00:10:48,816
Wow, that's nice, thick hair.

258
00:10:48,816 --> 00:10:50,109
You have great hair.

259
00:10:50,109 --> 00:10:52,611
You have a great canvas to work with.

260
00:10:52,611 --> 00:10:55,614
I care less about,
like, the correct order to apply things

261
00:10:55,614 --> 00:10:56,907
and how it makes you look.

262
00:10:56,907 --> 00:10:58,992
I care more about the way that you feel.

263
00:10:58,992 --> 00:11:02,162
And, to me, like, beauty,
skincare, haircare, body care,

264
00:11:02,162 --> 00:11:04,081
all of those things, it's like an avenue

265
00:11:04,081 --> 00:11:06,917
for you to explore
your relationship with yourself.

266
00:11:06,917 --> 00:11:09,044
Let's just fill up our own cup
a little bit,

267
00:11:09,044 --> 00:11:11,839
and this can be an avenue
for you to fill up your own cup.

268
00:11:12,423 --> 00:11:17,428
We have a closet of really boring,
"It is what it is. I throw on something."

269
00:11:17,428 --> 00:11:21,682
{\an8}Then you have this,
which is actually kinda great.

270
00:11:21,682 --> 00:11:25,144
There's stuff
that anyone would feel nice in,

271
00:11:25,144 --> 00:11:27,730
but by all accounts, you never wear this.

272
00:11:27,730 --> 00:11:30,983
- That's correct.
- Is it because you don't care anymore?

273
00:11:30,983 --> 00:11:32,609
Is it because you're exhausted,

274
00:11:32,609 --> 00:11:34,862
and you just think,
"Well, I'm working all the time."

275
00:11:34,862 --> 00:11:37,114
"It doesn't matter"?
Give me the honest answer.

276
00:11:37,114 --> 00:11:39,408
- I used to be more of a preppy guy.
- [Tan] Okay.

277
00:11:39,408 --> 00:11:43,537
And the occasions
to wear said stylish clothing,

278
00:11:43,537 --> 00:11:46,165
it's not that I don't care,
although that's probably...

279
00:11:46,165 --> 00:11:48,083
But I care relatively less.

280
00:11:48,083 --> 00:11:50,586
I dress like this to dinner,

281
00:11:50,586 --> 00:11:53,839
and I know Cara would probably prefer
that I not do that.

282
00:11:53,839 --> 00:11:56,884
Is it because I need to show you
how you put a look together?

283
00:11:56,884 --> 00:11:59,636
Is it because you don't have clothes
that fit that make you feel good?

284
00:11:59,636 --> 00:12:00,804
What is it?

285
00:12:00,804 --> 00:12:02,014
All of the above.

286
00:12:02,014 --> 00:12:03,974
I just want you to have a wardrobe

287
00:12:03,974 --> 00:12:08,187
that makes it clear to Cara
that you care about her.

288
00:12:08,687 --> 00:12:10,063
She deserves that, no?

289
00:12:10,063 --> 00:12:10,981
[Dan] Yes.

290
00:12:11,690 --> 00:12:13,192
Or no, I don't know.

291
00:12:13,192 --> 00:12:15,486
[laughs] She deserves that, yes.

292
00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:19,281
I wanna know a little bit
about what was growing up like for you?

293
00:12:19,907 --> 00:12:21,700
Oy! Um...

294
00:12:21,700 --> 00:12:25,287
{\an8}I guess I didn't have a lot
to be super proud of.

295
00:12:25,287 --> 00:12:29,833
You know, I was, like,
the runt of the... of the litter.

296
00:12:29,833 --> 00:12:32,461
How do you think that messaging
still plays in your life today?

297
00:12:32,461 --> 00:12:36,173
Since I lack a certain measure
of self-esteem,

298
00:12:36,173 --> 00:12:39,343
I tend to gravitate to areas
where I feel comfortable.

299
00:12:39,343 --> 00:12:41,220
I mean, working at the deli,

300
00:12:41,220 --> 00:12:45,057
that's created the self-esteem
that I feel comfortable with right now.

301
00:12:45,057 --> 00:12:49,102
So I heard from some of the people
who work at the deli,

302
00:12:49,102 --> 00:12:50,521
we heard from Cara,

303
00:12:50,521 --> 00:12:52,105
and it's this over-general sense

304
00:12:52,105 --> 00:12:55,734
that either people think of you
as the most amazing guy

305
00:12:55,734 --> 00:12:57,194
or an asshole.

306
00:12:58,028 --> 00:12:59,655
Doesn't really bother me that much.

307
00:12:59,655 --> 00:13:02,241
There's enough people that like me
that I'm like,

308
00:13:02,241 --> 00:13:06,245
if they didn't get the right read
on me the first time, in time they will.

309
00:13:06,245 --> 00:13:07,871
[Karamo] I kind of don't believe that.

310
00:13:07,871 --> 00:13:10,332
You say, "I don't care
that people say these things,"

311
00:13:10,332 --> 00:13:12,084
but then also you have low self-esteem.

312
00:13:12,084 --> 00:13:15,546
I don't... wanna be known as an asshole,

313
00:13:15,546 --> 00:13:16,630
but I don't...

314
00:13:17,339 --> 00:13:19,550
I know that enough people
think of me and think--

315
00:13:19,550 --> 00:13:21,718
- Can we stop at that first part?
- Yeah, please.

316
00:13:21,718 --> 00:13:24,304
"I just don't wanna be known
as an asshole."

317
00:13:24,304 --> 00:13:25,722
- [Dan] Sure.
- Just say that.

318
00:13:25,722 --> 00:13:27,850
I don't wanna be known as an asshole.

319
00:13:27,850 --> 00:13:32,938
Half the people get
this guy that's, like, abrasive and tough

320
00:13:32,938 --> 00:13:34,481
and, like, maybe standoffish,

321
00:13:34,481 --> 00:13:37,693
and other half get this sweet, loving guy.

322
00:13:37,693 --> 00:13:40,821
I actually don't believe
that both guys are you.

323
00:13:40,821 --> 00:13:41,738
Mm-hmm.

324
00:13:41,738 --> 00:13:46,201
I believe that one guy is a protection,
and the other guy is who you really are.

325
00:13:46,201 --> 00:13:48,871
- I think that's what we gotta figure out.
- Yes.

326
00:13:49,496 --> 00:13:51,290
And why would you like to figure that out?

327
00:13:51,290 --> 00:13:54,918
'Cause I'm sure it'll help me grow
in some respect. [chuckles]

328
00:13:56,044 --> 00:13:57,713
- [Tan] Do we know what to do?
- [Bobby] I do.

329
00:13:57,713 --> 00:13:58,839
- [Karamo] Yes.
- [Tan] Great.

330
00:13:58,839 --> 00:14:00,883
- Do you know how to twerk?
- [gasps]

331
00:14:00,883 --> 00:14:02,467
- No.
- I'll show you.

332
00:14:02,467 --> 00:14:04,094
Lesson number one.

333
00:14:04,094 --> 00:14:06,179
[Tan] Don't you dare break the counter!

334
00:14:07,389 --> 00:14:08,891
[Jonathan] You can even do a little...

335
00:14:08,891 --> 00:14:10,434
- My gosh.
- [Karamo] Cross, like that.

336
00:14:10,434 --> 00:14:13,228
I bet this wasn't part
of how you thought this was gonna go.

337
00:14:13,228 --> 00:14:14,897
- [Karamo] It's lower back.
- Crawl up here.

338
00:14:14,897 --> 00:14:17,608
- You really want me to do a twerk?
- What's it worth to you?

339
00:14:17,608 --> 00:14:19,985
There you go. Put your hands here. Yes!

340
00:14:19,985 --> 00:14:21,194
- Up!
- Up!

341
00:14:21,194 --> 00:14:25,824
I haven't seen such bad twerking
since Tina Belcher.

342
00:14:25,824 --> 00:14:27,451
Yes! Yes!

343
00:14:27,451 --> 00:14:28,535
Gorgeous.

344
00:14:28,535 --> 00:14:30,245
Who knew Dan had moves?

345
00:14:30,245 --> 00:14:31,538
[Tan] Yeah!

346
00:14:31,538 --> 00:14:33,874
They're not great moves,
but Dan got moves!

347
00:14:33,874 --> 00:14:35,334
- Yes!
- [Jonathan] Right here.

348
00:14:35,334 --> 00:14:37,461
- You gotta pop it up.
- Give me a dollar!

349
00:14:38,045 --> 00:14:39,171
This is gonna be a week.

350
00:14:39,671 --> 00:14:40,923
He does grow on you.

351
00:14:40,923 --> 00:14:41,840
[laughing]

352
00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,468
<i>♪ I can feel it when you're near me ♪</i>

353
00:14:44,968 --> 00:14:47,721
<i>♪ Don't come too close to me ♪</i>

354
00:14:47,721 --> 00:14:50,641
<i>♪ You see this ring on my left hand? ♪</i>

355
00:14:50,641 --> 00:14:52,100
<i>♪ We can never be ♪</i>

356
00:14:52,601 --> 00:14:57,439
[Tan] I want Dan to turn up
and be an active partner with Cara.

357
00:14:57,439 --> 00:15:00,609
I want him to feel
a lot more refined and sophisticated

358
00:15:00,609 --> 00:15:03,362
for the refined and sophisticated woman
he has.

359
00:15:03,362 --> 00:15:06,073
[Karamo] If you wanna be
a successful businessperson, great,

360
00:15:06,073 --> 00:15:08,742
but you have to attend
to the other areas of your life.

361
00:15:08,742 --> 00:15:11,745
Otherwise, you'll end up
being a grumpy old man.

362
00:15:12,245 --> 00:15:13,413
Hi, Dan.

363
00:15:13,413 --> 00:15:15,165
[Bobby] I really wanna make his home

364
00:15:15,165 --> 00:15:17,459
somewhere that Cara
wants to spend the night.

365
00:15:17,459 --> 00:15:21,713
I want them to start sharing
more aspects of their life together.

366
00:15:21,713 --> 00:15:23,465
[Antoni] I want Dan to show up for Cara

367
00:15:23,465 --> 00:15:25,592
the way he's been showing up
for his business.

368
00:15:25,592 --> 00:15:29,846
I need Dan to realize that I'm sure Cara
would appreciate every once in a while

369
00:15:29,846 --> 00:15:31,473
to have a nice home-cooked meal.

370
00:15:32,057 --> 00:15:35,394
[Jonathan] My hope for Dan
is that he can unfurl his fist

371
00:15:35,394 --> 00:15:38,981
holding on
to that kind of gruff-guy persona

372
00:15:38,981 --> 00:15:41,942
and move on with some hope
and some love in his heart

373
00:15:41,942 --> 00:15:45,570
that he can share with Cara
and, most importantly, himself.

374
00:15:45,570 --> 00:15:48,907
- [inspirational music plays]
<i>- ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪</i>

375
00:15:48,907 --> 00:15:50,325
<i>♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪</i>

376
00:15:51,034 --> 00:15:53,328
<i>♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪</i>

377
00:15:53,328 --> 00:15:55,580
<i>♪ Did the summer never stop? ♪</i>

378
00:15:56,540 --> 00:15:59,001
[Tan] When Cara invites you to an event,

379
00:15:59,001 --> 00:16:02,295
do you think,
"I should dress up for that thing"?

380
00:16:02,295 --> 00:16:05,966
Uh, it probably
doesn't occasion me at first.

381
00:16:05,966 --> 00:16:08,427
When we went to Nashville together,
she's like,

382
00:16:08,427 --> 00:16:12,764
"We have to set aside a night for us
to make sure that we have your stuff."

383
00:16:13,265 --> 00:16:14,641
Am I making you wince?

384
00:16:15,350 --> 00:16:16,184
You're 50.

385
00:16:17,102 --> 00:16:19,730
- 49.9.
- Okay, close to 50.

386
00:16:20,272 --> 00:16:24,735
How is it that we've got to this place
where your girlfriend has to tell you,

387
00:16:24,735 --> 00:16:26,778
"Hey, pack appropriately"?

388
00:16:26,778 --> 00:16:30,824
Because I haven't really gone
with a girlfriend

389
00:16:30,824 --> 00:16:32,075
as opposed to going out--

390
00:16:32,075 --> 00:16:34,411
My question is this.
You turn up to the event.

391
00:16:34,411 --> 00:16:37,497
- Cara walks in looking like a vision.
- [Dan] Yeah, exactly.

392
00:16:37,497 --> 00:16:39,082
And then you stand there like...

393
00:16:39,082 --> 00:16:41,835
- Uh...
- [chuckles] That's pretty much... Yeah.

394
00:16:41,835 --> 00:16:43,253
But that happens once.

395
00:16:43,253 --> 00:16:45,881
Is there a learned moment,
or a moment for learning,

396
00:16:45,881 --> 00:16:48,216
thinking, "I can't let that happen again"?

397
00:16:48,216 --> 00:16:50,552
It goes away, unfortunately.

398
00:16:50,552 --> 00:16:54,639
Maybe what I need you to do going forward
is actively tell yourself,

399
00:16:54,639 --> 00:16:57,100
"I need to do more for her."

400
00:16:57,100 --> 00:17:00,145
My relationships
haven't really gone this deep.

401
00:17:00,145 --> 00:17:03,398
This is my shot, you know, at 50.

402
00:17:03,398 --> 00:17:06,651
No way you have a successful business
without thinking ahead.

403
00:17:06,651 --> 00:17:11,073
Treat her as an extension
of your entrepreneur mind.

404
00:17:11,073 --> 00:17:13,450
You wanted to see success in the deli,
you got there.

405
00:17:13,450 --> 00:17:17,037
If you want success in a relationship,
you know how to get there.

406
00:17:17,871 --> 00:17:19,289
Gotcha. No, you're right.

407
00:17:19,289 --> 00:17:21,166
I want Dan to really start to realize

408
00:17:21,166 --> 00:17:25,378
that he has to be an active participant
in this relationship.

409
00:17:25,378 --> 00:17:27,964
Now, are you open to trying on
anything I want you to try on?

410
00:17:27,964 --> 00:17:29,841
- [Dan] Yes.
- I've got this wonderful crop top.

411
00:17:29,841 --> 00:17:32,219
- You're gonna look amazing in it.
- [Dan] That's fine.

412
00:17:32,719 --> 00:17:35,680
I just need him
to make a little bit of effort with Cara,

413
00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:38,850
and it's gonna make all the difference
to her and their relationship.

414
00:17:38,850 --> 00:17:40,393
- [Tan] Can I see?
- Yes.

415
00:17:40,393 --> 00:17:43,188
- Whoo-hoo!
- Would you like me to get my baseball cap?

416
00:17:43,188 --> 00:17:47,067
Definitely don't want your baseball cap.
You really have such lovely hair.

417
00:17:47,067 --> 00:17:49,361
- Thank you.
- I can't believe you hide it away.

418
00:17:49,361 --> 00:17:51,863
[Dan] I like it a lot.
I like the way it fits.

419
00:17:52,572 --> 00:17:56,785
Maybe the color
being a little bit more stronger...

420
00:17:56,785 --> 00:17:58,286
Would you like a poppier color?

421
00:17:58,286 --> 00:18:02,874
My whole thing used to be
everything was classic and simple,

422
00:18:02,874 --> 00:18:04,209
and then the tie would--

423
00:18:04,209 --> 00:18:05,293
- One pop.
- Pop.

424
00:18:05,293 --> 00:18:07,504
The cuffing, that seems... That's like...

425
00:18:08,004 --> 00:18:10,215
Are you gonna teach me how to do that?

426
00:18:10,215 --> 00:18:12,008
I mean, yes. It's really simple.

427
00:18:12,008 --> 00:18:16,805
So all we're doing is three rolls,
and then it makes it look more fitted.

428
00:18:16,805 --> 00:18:19,391
It looks like that person's
actually styled out their outfit.

429
00:18:19,391 --> 00:18:23,937
I wanted to get you a version of a sneaker
that isn't exactly a sneaker

430
00:18:23,937 --> 00:18:25,397
that you could wear to dinner

431
00:18:25,397 --> 00:18:28,275
and Cara thinks, "He's made an effort.
He has put in thought."

432
00:18:28,275 --> 00:18:30,068
- [Dan] "He's made an effort!"
- [Tan] Yeah!

433
00:18:30,068 --> 00:18:32,946
[Dan] The shoes
are actually growing on me.

434
00:18:32,946 --> 00:18:36,116
You've got a smile on your face,
complementing the look.

435
00:18:36,116 --> 00:18:38,368
This was not you yesterday.

436
00:18:38,368 --> 00:18:39,369
I agree.

437
00:18:39,369 --> 00:18:40,579
Great. Okay.

438
00:18:40,579 --> 00:18:43,081
The next look is already set up.
Please give that a go.

439
00:18:43,081 --> 00:18:44,749
- But so far, so good.
- [Dan] Okay.

440
00:18:44,749 --> 00:18:45,876
- Yeah.
- [Dan] Thank you.

441
00:18:45,876 --> 00:18:48,712
[Tan gasps]

442
00:18:49,337 --> 00:18:50,213
You all right?

443
00:18:50,714 --> 00:18:52,174
No, I'm not.

444
00:18:54,509 --> 00:18:56,428
- I like.
- You look hot.

445
00:18:56,428 --> 00:18:58,221
I like. I like the blue.

446
00:18:58,221 --> 00:19:02,350
I saw this color, a version of this color,
in your suit jacket

447
00:19:02,350 --> 00:19:05,103
that I'd hoped were gonna work lovely
with your hair.

448
00:19:05,103 --> 00:19:08,648
It's super chic, but also quite casual.

449
00:19:08,648 --> 00:19:09,774
It's a denim shirt.

450
00:19:09,774 --> 00:19:12,944
If you were to take the jacket off,
it's still perfectly appropriate,

451
00:19:12,944 --> 00:19:14,070
but it is still casual.

452
00:19:14,070 --> 00:19:16,656
I have never worn a shirt that...

453
00:19:16,656 --> 00:19:18,950
- A tunic, yeah.
- What's it called? Tunic?

454
00:19:18,950 --> 00:19:20,535
- A tunic shirt, yeah.
- Got it.

455
00:19:20,535 --> 00:19:23,580
[Tan] The detail makes it more interesting
than a regular chambray shirt.

456
00:19:23,580 --> 00:19:26,291
It looks very much
like the man that you are,

457
00:19:26,291 --> 00:19:29,377
which is successful, sophisticated.

458
00:19:29,377 --> 00:19:31,296
We've just made it a casual version

459
00:19:31,296 --> 00:19:34,466
so it doesn't feel
like you're dressing up as your dad.

460
00:19:34,466 --> 00:19:36,509
That's funny 'cause I guess at this point,

461
00:19:36,509 --> 00:19:40,388
I'm, like, the age of my dad
when I thought of my dad as my dad, so...

462
00:19:40,388 --> 00:19:42,307
I wonder if he dressed as stylishly.
Did he?

463
00:19:42,307 --> 00:19:43,391
Uh...

464
00:19:44,100 --> 00:19:44,935
No comment.

465
00:19:44,935 --> 00:19:45,936
[laughs]

466
00:19:45,936 --> 00:19:46,853
That's a no!

467
00:19:46,853 --> 00:19:51,024
[Tan] The way Dan is carrying himself,
it is clear he knows how good he looks.

468
00:19:51,024 --> 00:19:52,651
Ever since I got to know Dan,

469
00:19:52,651 --> 00:19:55,028
he's not held himself in a posture

470
00:19:55,028 --> 00:19:57,614
that feels appropriate
for a successful man.

471
00:19:57,614 --> 00:19:58,865
And for the first time,

472
00:19:58,865 --> 00:20:02,244
I'm seeing who he could potentially be
going forward.

473
00:20:02,244 --> 00:20:04,829
- Thanks for being open.
- [Dan] I just wanna be lovely.

474
00:20:04,829 --> 00:20:05,997
You are lovely!

475
00:20:05,997 --> 00:20:08,166
[upbeat dance music plays]

476
00:20:13,964 --> 00:20:15,006
- Hello.
- [woman] Hi!

477
00:20:15,006 --> 00:20:16,633
{\an8}- You must be Madeline.
- Madeline.

478
00:20:16,633 --> 00:20:18,051
{\an8}Hi. Catherine.

479
00:20:18,051 --> 00:20:19,552
{\an8}- Hi.
- How are you doing?

480
00:20:19,552 --> 00:20:22,097
{\an8}- I'm good.
- Thank you for coming. Take a seat. Come.

481
00:20:22,597 --> 00:20:28,812
I brought you both here
because I needed to learn more about Dan.

482
00:20:28,812 --> 00:20:30,272
When we were meeting him,

483
00:20:30,272 --> 00:20:32,732
I realized that Dan
can be a bit of an asshole.

484
00:20:32,732 --> 00:20:33,858
- Yeah.
- Yeah.

485
00:20:33,858 --> 00:20:35,026
- [Karamo] And...
- I'd say.

486
00:20:35,026 --> 00:20:37,862
But on the flip side,
everyone's like, "He's an amazing guy."

487
00:20:37,862 --> 00:20:38,780
Yeah.

488
00:20:38,780 --> 00:20:43,243
And what I really need to understand
is, like, is this behavior at the deli

489
00:20:43,243 --> 00:20:47,163
or does this affect his personal life
with friends, family, your mom?

490
00:20:47,163 --> 00:20:48,748
I mean, I think for both of us,

491
00:20:48,748 --> 00:20:51,835
we'd say we've had
a few tough circumstances with Dan

492
00:20:51,835 --> 00:20:53,086
over the years.

493
00:20:53,086 --> 00:20:56,798
So this is definitely something
that's at home and not just at the deli.

494
00:20:56,798 --> 00:20:59,926
[Karamo] I don't think Dan really
understands how his grouchy behavior

495
00:20:59,926 --> 00:21:01,511
is affecting his life.

496
00:21:01,511 --> 00:21:04,889
So there's no better people
to, like, really wake him up

497
00:21:04,889 --> 00:21:07,142
than his nominators, Cara's daughters.

498
00:21:07,142 --> 00:21:08,059
- [Catherine] Hi.
- Hi!

499
00:21:08,059 --> 00:21:10,020
[Karamo] The first time
you've seen each other.

500
00:21:10,020 --> 00:21:12,188
[Karamo]
It's so important that Dan hears this

501
00:21:12,188 --> 00:21:16,151
because, in Dan's mind, he thinks
everything's okay in his personal life.

502
00:21:16,151 --> 00:21:19,821
So I wouldn't be here
if I wasn't totally team Dan, right?

503
00:21:19,821 --> 00:21:22,699
But the first... the first few years,

504
00:21:22,699 --> 00:21:26,703
I really wasn't the most supportive
of y'all's relationship.

505
00:21:26,703 --> 00:21:27,620
I gotcha.

506
00:21:27,620 --> 00:21:29,831
Did you know that she felt this way
for all those years?

507
00:21:29,831 --> 00:21:30,749
[Dan] No.

508
00:21:30,749 --> 00:21:31,958
- You didn't?
- [Dan] No.

509
00:21:31,958 --> 00:21:35,378
How do you think the relationship
with him and your mom could be better?

510
00:21:35,378 --> 00:21:38,006
I would say,
be more, like, consistently authentic.

511
00:21:38,006 --> 00:21:39,924
[Madeline] Yeah. Reliable, right?

512
00:21:39,924 --> 00:21:43,386
She doesn't know who she's meeting,
Dan the deli man or Dan the boyfriend.

513
00:21:43,386 --> 00:21:44,888
It's just day-to-day pending.

514
00:21:44,888 --> 00:21:46,139
[Karamo] Yeah.

515
00:21:46,139 --> 00:21:48,308
[Madeline]
I think she wishes that she had someone

516
00:21:48,308 --> 00:21:51,394
who she could be
a bit more vulnerable with.

517
00:21:51,394 --> 00:21:53,980
I don't think he knows
a lot of things about her life,

518
00:21:53,980 --> 00:21:56,066
and it's just simply
because he's not there.

519
00:21:56,066 --> 00:21:57,025
[Karamo] Got it.

520
00:21:57,025 --> 00:21:59,444
[Madeline] You know,
he's coming home at 10:00, she's asleep.

521
00:21:59,444 --> 00:22:01,946
Unfortunately, they just don't have
that ability to connect

522
00:22:01,946 --> 00:22:03,948
whenever they're just
kind of meeting in passing.

523
00:22:03,948 --> 00:22:07,243
Got it. Well, this helps
because I came up with a little game!

524
00:22:07,243 --> 00:22:08,328
[vocalizes]

525
00:22:08,328 --> 00:22:09,454
[both chuckle]

526
00:22:09,454 --> 00:22:12,374
I came up with questions
that I asked your lady.

527
00:22:12,374 --> 00:22:14,459
[game show music plays]

528
00:22:15,335 --> 00:22:18,797
{\an8}So are you ready to play this game?

529
00:22:19,881 --> 00:22:21,299
[laughing]

530
00:22:21,299 --> 00:22:23,760
What is Cara's favorite candy?

531
00:22:24,677 --> 00:22:28,515
- I'm drawing a blank on her favorite.
- [Karamo humming]

532
00:22:28,515 --> 00:22:29,808
- [Karamo] Red ball.
- [Dan] Yeah.

533
00:22:29,808 --> 00:22:32,227
Now the reason I have this here
is as a visual aid

534
00:22:32,227 --> 00:22:34,521
for you to see, like,
"what I know, what I don't know."

535
00:22:34,521 --> 00:22:37,107
You're not helping my self-esteem issues.
[chuckles]

536
00:22:37,107 --> 00:22:39,109
How does Cara like her tea or coffee?

537
00:22:39,109 --> 00:22:42,362
Tea, not coffee.
She likes it with a lot of milk.

538
00:22:42,362 --> 00:22:44,239
- [Madeline] Yeah!
- Boom. We'll go for that.

539
00:22:44,239 --> 00:22:45,865
- Ladies, yes?
- Yeah, that was good!

540
00:22:45,865 --> 00:22:47,659
Can we start asking them questions?

541
00:22:47,659 --> 00:22:48,827
[Karamo] Yes, exactly.

542
00:22:48,827 --> 00:22:51,162
What's her most prized possession?

543
00:22:51,663 --> 00:22:53,248
Her artwork?

544
00:22:53,248 --> 00:22:54,916
[imitates buzzer]

545
00:22:54,916 --> 00:22:57,961
- Her teddy bear!
- [Karamo] Did you know there's a bear?

546
00:22:57,961 --> 00:22:59,212
Yeah. Me.

547
00:22:59,212 --> 00:23:00,630
[all laugh]

548
00:23:00,630 --> 00:23:02,799
What sibling is she closest to?

549
00:23:02,799 --> 00:23:04,801
- Give me a red ball.
- [Karamo laughs] Okay.

550
00:23:04,801 --> 00:23:06,803
- [buzzing]
- [Karamo] What was her first job?

551
00:23:06,803 --> 00:23:09,597
What is something
she has always wanted to do but hasn't?

552
00:23:09,597 --> 00:23:11,975
What would she consider
to be her greatest strength?

553
00:23:11,975 --> 00:23:14,686
- [buzzing]
- What is she most proud about herself?

554
00:23:14,686 --> 00:23:19,149
She's proud that she's been able
to provide for her family.

555
00:23:19,149 --> 00:23:20,233
- Yeah.
- Totally.

556
00:23:20,233 --> 00:23:22,068
- [ding]
- We couldn't have said it better.

557
00:23:22,068 --> 00:23:23,820
What is her love language?

558
00:23:23,820 --> 00:23:25,196
Quality time.

559
00:23:25,905 --> 00:23:27,949
- [ding]
- You knew that one. Good job.

560
00:23:27,949 --> 00:23:29,909
- Oh, I know it.
- [laughs]

561
00:23:29,909 --> 00:23:31,744
I don't spend enough time with her.

562
00:23:31,744 --> 00:23:35,206
With this game, Dan can see
he needs to pay more attention to Cara.

563
00:23:35,206 --> 00:23:38,334
He's definitely spending way too much time
at the deli and being late.

564
00:23:38,918 --> 00:23:42,297
I think she wants somebody
who's gonna be there for her.

565
00:23:42,964 --> 00:23:44,466
It's what we always do.

566
00:23:44,466 --> 00:23:46,926
A big thing that my mom and I
talk about about y'all

567
00:23:46,926 --> 00:23:49,262
is enjoying the little nothings of life.

568
00:23:49,262 --> 00:23:52,390
She wants to hold your hand.
She wants to watch movies on the couch.

569
00:23:52,390 --> 00:23:56,436
- She wants to do the little things.
- She sees you have the potential to do it.

570
00:23:56,436 --> 00:23:58,771
- Otherwise, she wouldn't bother.
- I know.

571
00:23:58,771 --> 00:24:00,607
[Karamo] They want you to win,

572
00:24:00,607 --> 00:24:04,194
but there has to be some acknowledgement
so that the growth can start to happen.

573
00:24:04,194 --> 00:24:05,862
- It's gonna take work.
- [Karamo] Yeah.

574
00:24:05,862 --> 00:24:08,114
- Are you willing to do that work?
- [Dan] Yeah.

575
00:24:08,114 --> 00:24:09,032
I feel terrible.

576
00:24:09,032 --> 00:24:13,953
This was an opportunity for Dan to realize
he has to do more work on himself

577
00:24:13,953 --> 00:24:16,122
so that his relationships can flourish.

578
00:24:16,122 --> 00:24:20,043
You never wanna know you've hurt people
and that you have to make changes.

579
00:24:20,043 --> 00:24:21,211
Changes is work.

580
00:24:21,211 --> 00:24:24,255
I need you to go home,
and I need you to write down

581
00:24:25,048 --> 00:24:27,467
the ways that you've been
impacting people negatively

582
00:24:27,467 --> 00:24:30,094
and the ways
that you can be better for them.

583
00:24:30,094 --> 00:24:31,513
He's finally got it.

584
00:24:31,513 --> 00:24:33,097
He's ready to do the work.

585
00:24:33,097 --> 00:24:35,517
[Catherine] Bye, Daniel. Oh!

586
00:24:36,100 --> 00:24:38,937
- We love you. We're rooting for you.
- [Dan] Thank you.

587
00:24:38,937 --> 00:24:42,440
<i>♪ If I fall, are you gonna catch me? ♪</i>

588
00:24:43,149 --> 00:24:45,610
{\an8}[Bobby] Your home itself, awesome.

589
00:24:45,610 --> 00:24:47,362
But the thing
that stands out to me the most

590
00:24:47,362 --> 00:24:50,823
is obviously
it's not really somewhere you live, right?

591
00:24:50,823 --> 00:24:51,908
Correct.

592
00:24:51,908 --> 00:24:55,119
But I want you
to start thinking of it more

593
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,331
'cause I almost feel
like it's an area in your life

594
00:24:58,915 --> 00:25:00,708
where you haven't grown up yet.

595
00:25:01,376 --> 00:25:02,335
Fair enough. Yes.

596
00:25:02,335 --> 00:25:05,463
[Bobby] I wanted to take Dan shopping
with me today to help him realize

597
00:25:05,463 --> 00:25:10,510
that his home is not a place
that feels like a home at all.

598
00:25:10,510 --> 00:25:13,721
And if he wants to take his relationship
with Cara to the next level,

599
00:25:13,721 --> 00:25:19,310
he needs to be
a fully formed, fully functioning adult.

600
00:25:19,310 --> 00:25:21,062
And right now, he's not.

601
00:25:21,062 --> 00:25:22,814
[Dan] My house is very sparse.

602
00:25:22,814 --> 00:25:25,525
There's nothing I feel super proud of,

603
00:25:25,525 --> 00:25:27,235
and I'm glad that you're helping me

604
00:25:27,235 --> 00:25:33,032
because I'm looking at a bunch of stuff
and I'm somewhat lost.

605
00:25:33,032 --> 00:25:33,950
[Bobby laughs]

606
00:25:33,950 --> 00:25:38,121
Coming home to a space
that has had zero effort put into it

607
00:25:38,121 --> 00:25:39,414
can't be a good feeling.

608
00:25:39,414 --> 00:25:43,376
[Bobby] I was thinking two little chairs
like this out on your balcony

609
00:25:43,376 --> 00:25:46,045
for you and Cara to have
when you come home

610
00:25:46,045 --> 00:25:48,214
and just have your guys' special moment.

611
00:25:48,214 --> 00:25:49,215
[Dan] These are nice.

612
00:25:49,215 --> 00:25:51,467
- That table's kind of cool too.
- [Bobby] Cool, right?

613
00:25:51,467 --> 00:25:53,094
I figured you'd like that.

614
00:25:53,094 --> 00:25:55,513
- It reminds me a bit of your deli.
- Yeah, it does.

615
00:25:55,513 --> 00:25:57,265
You've been doing this how long now?

616
00:25:57,265 --> 00:25:58,600
- Fifteen years.
- Yeah.

617
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,393
- [Bobby] And you were a lawyer before?
- Yeah.

618
00:26:00,393 --> 00:26:03,563
What made you decide one day,
"I don't wanna be a lawyer anymore?"

619
00:26:04,063 --> 00:26:08,192
My father wanted me to be a lawyer,
and I wanted to make my dad happy.

620
00:26:08,192 --> 00:26:12,447
And then, uh,
I did private practice one summer.

621
00:26:12,447 --> 00:26:14,032
I really didn't like it,

622
00:26:14,032 --> 00:26:16,826
and, in fact, they were gonna
give me an offer the last day,

623
00:26:16,826 --> 00:26:20,371
and during the exit interview, I said,
like, "I don't really like it here,"

624
00:26:20,371 --> 00:26:23,374
and I didn't get the offer,
and my father was pretty pissed.

625
00:26:23,374 --> 00:26:25,668
My brother's a urologist
at the Cleveland Clinic.

626
00:26:25,668 --> 00:26:28,796
- My father's proud of him.
- Your dad should be proud of you too.

627
00:26:28,796 --> 00:26:31,716
He's... I don't know
if he's as proud, but he's--

628
00:26:31,716 --> 00:26:34,010
He doesn't... he doesn't hate me.

629
00:26:34,010 --> 00:26:36,679
I think, you know,
I have some self-esteem issues,

630
00:26:36,679 --> 00:26:39,223
and a lot of my lack of self-esteem

631
00:26:39,223 --> 00:26:42,935
has translated itself
into my over-dedication to work.

632
00:26:42,935 --> 00:26:45,647
Have you been looking for somebody

633
00:26:45,647 --> 00:26:48,358
that you can kind of
hand the reins to a little bit,

634
00:26:48,358 --> 00:26:52,111
to where maybe you could focus more
on your relationship?

635
00:26:52,862 --> 00:26:53,738
Um...

636
00:26:53,738 --> 00:26:56,157
I have not been outwardly looking.

637
00:26:56,157 --> 00:26:57,700
So, for me,

638
00:26:57,700 --> 00:27:01,454
what I see is you could get away
from behind the counter

639
00:27:01,454 --> 00:27:04,457
and doing the stuff that you're doing
in the evening.

640
00:27:04,457 --> 00:27:05,375
Yes.

641
00:27:05,375 --> 00:27:09,754
I mean, that is actually one thing,
is having some more front-hand work

642
00:27:09,754 --> 00:27:11,547
so that I can do my other stuff.

643
00:27:11,547 --> 00:27:13,216
[Bobby] I get where Dan's coming from.

644
00:27:13,216 --> 00:27:14,967
I had stores of my own for years.

645
00:27:14,967 --> 00:27:17,637
I worked there seven days a week,

646
00:27:17,637 --> 00:27:20,682
and I lost my passions
for anything else in life.

647
00:27:20,682 --> 00:27:26,187
And eventually, I started to realize
it was affecting not only my marriage,

648
00:27:26,187 --> 00:27:27,897
but friendships as well.

649
00:27:27,897 --> 00:27:30,191
I finally had to take a step back.

650
00:27:30,191 --> 00:27:33,403
Do you think this making your house
a little less Peter Pan

651
00:27:33,403 --> 00:27:37,031
and more the grown-up,
successful business owner that you are

652
00:27:37,031 --> 00:27:39,117
will help your life and your relationship?

653
00:27:39,117 --> 00:27:41,035
I do. I really think it'd be nice

654
00:27:41,035 --> 00:27:45,331
to... to walk into a place which I'm like,
"Damn, this is kind of cool."

655
00:27:45,331 --> 00:27:46,958
- [Bobby] Yeah?
- [Dan] Yeah.

656
00:27:47,709 --> 00:27:50,670
<i>♪ Once in a lifetime ♪</i>

657
00:27:51,796 --> 00:27:55,133
<i>♪ This is once in a lifetime ♪</i>

658
00:27:56,008 --> 00:27:57,844
I had a chat with Cara,

659
00:27:57,844 --> 00:28:02,306
and I wanted to get to know,
like, what her very favorite things are,

660
00:28:02,306 --> 00:28:05,184
and she was like, "Pasta alla Norma."

661
00:28:05,184 --> 00:28:09,605
I wanna do something
that's just, like, so out of the box

662
00:28:09,605 --> 00:28:11,858
and drastic and different for Cara.

663
00:28:11,858 --> 00:28:15,027
Yeah, that's great because, like, it's...
Yeah, and I'm making eggplant.

664
00:28:15,027 --> 00:28:17,321
- [Antoni] And it's unexpected, right?
- Absolutely.

665
00:28:17,321 --> 00:28:21,033
If you don't like eggplant,
try a nice Norma sauce.

666
00:28:21,534 --> 00:28:25,413
It's basically crisped-up eggplants
in a very simple tomato sauce.

667
00:28:25,413 --> 00:28:29,167
It's a wonderful vegetarian meal
that's hearty, fresh,

668
00:28:29,167 --> 00:28:32,044
and, most importantly, Cara loves it.

669
00:28:32,879 --> 00:28:35,923
[Antoni] I picked up amazing ingredients,
all from your deli.

670
00:28:35,923 --> 00:28:37,008
[Dan] Okay.

671
00:28:37,008 --> 00:28:41,471
So it's not lost on me that you have
this wealth of product and resources

672
00:28:41,471 --> 00:28:44,640
available at your very own deli
to make amazing meals at home.

673
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:46,601
And I'm here to encourage you
to do more of that.

674
00:28:46,601 --> 00:28:47,935
Let's start with the eggplant.

675
00:28:47,935 --> 00:28:50,146
I'm gonna ask you
to cut these into rounds.

676
00:28:50,146 --> 00:28:52,690
Probably about a half inch or so.

677
00:28:53,399 --> 00:28:55,026
[Dan] Explain what that means.

678
00:28:55,026 --> 00:28:57,236
- Okay, great. You want me to start?
- [Dan] Absolutely.

679
00:28:57,236 --> 00:29:00,156
Sorry. I'm assuming
that you're super adept in the kitchen.

680
00:29:00,156 --> 00:29:02,825
- You're assuming completely wrong.
- Okay. Got it.

681
00:29:02,825 --> 00:29:06,037
You can lead with the tip,
then probably a half inch.

682
00:29:07,079 --> 00:29:10,166
[Dan] This is more prep work
than I've probably done in a long time.

683
00:29:10,166 --> 00:29:11,876
When Cara cooks for me,

684
00:29:11,876 --> 00:29:15,129
it shocks me how wonderful a meal
she can throw together.

685
00:29:15,129 --> 00:29:16,798
- [Antoni] She's a good cook?
- Very good.

686
00:29:16,798 --> 00:29:18,716
Oh, she made chili the other night

687
00:29:19,217 --> 00:29:22,261
and, uh, just sent me
with a little thing of chili

688
00:29:22,261 --> 00:29:24,430
and some chips and stuff like that.

689
00:29:24,430 --> 00:29:26,057
Isn't it nice to, like, show up

690
00:29:26,057 --> 00:29:28,851
and, like, your partner
just has everything ready for you?

691
00:29:28,851 --> 00:29:30,603
Oh my God. That was wonderful.

692
00:29:30,603 --> 00:29:33,481
It, like, feels good
when you make something from scratch too.

693
00:29:33,981 --> 00:29:36,776
- [Dan] Humble.
- I feel like that's actually enough.

694
00:29:36,776 --> 00:29:37,860
You've had enough?

695
00:29:37,860 --> 00:29:39,487
No, I'm saying the eggplant.

696
00:29:39,487 --> 00:29:41,948
- You've had enough of watching this?
- [chuckles]

697
00:29:41,948 --> 00:29:43,324
You're actually doing great.

698
00:29:43,324 --> 00:29:47,078
I basically covered
the entire surface area with oil,

699
00:29:47,078 --> 00:29:50,414
and my goal is for these
to get a beautiful golden brown.

700
00:29:50,414 --> 00:29:52,750
I'm gonna get some
of these Calabrian chilies out

701
00:29:52,750 --> 00:29:54,210
and then ask you to chop them up.

702
00:29:54,210 --> 00:29:57,880
They're gonna kind of, like, fall apart
and disintegrate a little in the pan.

703
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,550
San Marzano tomatoes.

704
00:30:00,550 --> 00:30:03,052
- [Dan] What am I doing exactly?
- [Antoni] Breaking it apart.

705
00:30:03,052 --> 00:30:04,804
We have your beautiful penne.

706
00:30:04,804 --> 00:30:06,430
You can dump the whole thing right in.

707
00:30:06,430 --> 00:30:09,350
So I'm actually gonna
slide this off the heat.

708
00:30:09,350 --> 00:30:12,061
I'm gonna gently salt the eggplant.

709
00:30:12,645 --> 00:30:17,275
So I'm gonna go ahead and take all
of this wonderful garlic and the chilies.

710
00:30:18,568 --> 00:30:19,652
Beautiful.

711
00:30:19,652 --> 00:30:22,446
As you're doing that,
I'm gonna add a bit of dried oregano.

712
00:30:22,446 --> 00:30:25,449
- We're gonna put the eggplant in there.
- [Dan] Okay.

713
00:30:25,449 --> 00:30:28,369
[Antoni] Go ahead and put that in there.

714
00:30:28,369 --> 00:30:30,496
So we're gonna let that sit for a second.

715
00:30:31,539 --> 00:30:32,790
Is that enough cheese?

716
00:30:33,291 --> 00:30:35,334
That's definitely enough cheese.

717
00:30:35,334 --> 00:30:37,461
- [Dan] Never enough cheese.
- [Antoni laughs]

718
00:30:37,461 --> 00:30:40,423
And you're gonna get the garnishes ready.
Some basil leaves.

719
00:30:40,423 --> 00:30:43,885
Cara's a big garnish person.
She always says, "I'm cooking dinner."

720
00:30:43,885 --> 00:30:46,053
"Do you have any basil at the deli?
Are you..."

721
00:30:46,053 --> 00:30:49,140
She actually...
If she isn't growing it in our garden.

722
00:30:49,140 --> 00:30:51,350
- Do you feel like she's the one?
- Yeah.

723
00:30:52,101 --> 00:30:53,728
- Really?
- Yeah.

724
00:30:54,812 --> 00:30:56,606
You seem more happy about that than me.

725
00:30:56,606 --> 00:31:00,359
Because what's better in the world
than finding your person?

726
00:31:00,943 --> 00:31:03,529
Finding the person
that makes you wanna be better.

727
00:31:04,113 --> 00:31:06,908
- The one that makes you happy.
- I like the way you just said that.

728
00:31:06,908 --> 00:31:10,036
- "Makes me wanna be better." Yeah.
- So what do you wanna do differently?

729
00:31:10,036 --> 00:31:11,787
Like, we're here for a reason.

730
00:31:11,787 --> 00:31:14,582
Uh, I mean, at this point, it's...

731
00:31:15,124 --> 00:31:17,293
it's listen, and when I need to be there,

732
00:31:17,293 --> 00:31:21,130
when she probably, you know,
would like more time from me.

733
00:31:21,130 --> 00:31:27,094
It's like... a nice, dramatic, if you will,
gesture of love.

734
00:31:27,929 --> 00:31:29,138
[Dan] Is this what she wanted?

735
00:31:29,138 --> 00:31:31,474
This was the first thing
that came out of her mouth,

736
00:31:31,474 --> 00:31:33,976
and then she started listing
a whole bunch of other things.

737
00:31:33,976 --> 00:31:35,645
Can I have that list or no?

738
00:31:35,645 --> 00:31:39,607
I'll write it down for you, but you should
be asking her so you can surprise her.

739
00:31:39,607 --> 00:31:40,650
Good point.

740
00:31:40,650 --> 00:31:41,859
Remember to be creative

741
00:31:41,859 --> 00:31:44,362
in figuring out ways
on how to remind her of that.

742
00:31:44,362 --> 00:31:47,073
Everyone wants to feel special.
Everybody wants to feel loved.

743
00:31:52,787 --> 00:31:54,330
- Delicious.
- Wow.

744
00:31:54,330 --> 00:31:57,458
- [Dan] I really appreciate you doing this.
- [Antoni] Of course!

745
00:31:57,959 --> 00:31:58,960
Thanks.

746
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,462
- You know exactly how to make this?
- I got a book in the car.

747
00:32:02,046 --> 00:32:04,632
- I'm gonna write it all down. [chuckles]
- Okay.

748
00:32:04,632 --> 00:32:06,342
[upbeat music plays]

749
00:32:06,342 --> 00:32:07,718
<i>♪ Ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ya ♪</i>

750
00:32:07,718 --> 00:32:09,762
<i>♪ Why don't you take control? ♪</i>

751
00:32:09,762 --> 00:32:11,055
<i>♪ Try, ay, ay, ay, ay, ya ♪</i>

752
00:32:11,055 --> 00:32:12,807
<i>♪ And be unstoppable ♪</i>

753
00:32:12,807 --> 00:32:17,478
<i>♪ Yeah, you gotta shimmy, shimmy, shake ♪</i>

754
00:32:17,478 --> 00:32:20,439
<i>♪ Oh, just like an earthquake, yeah ♪</i>

755
00:32:20,439 --> 00:32:23,025
<i>♪ You know you gotta pay attention now ♪</i>

756
00:32:23,025 --> 00:32:24,652
[Jonathan] Get comfortable. Take a seat.

757
00:32:24,652 --> 00:32:27,488
- [Dan] Smells great.
- It's actually me that you're smelling.

758
00:32:27,488 --> 00:32:29,740
- You smell great.
- I'm kidding. Can I take your hat off?

759
00:32:29,740 --> 00:32:30,783
- Please.
- Okay.

760
00:32:30,783 --> 00:32:32,785
The prognosis is great.

761
00:32:32,785 --> 00:32:34,578
That's the first positive.

762
00:32:34,578 --> 00:32:36,622
No, it's so good.
Why are we covering up in a hat?

763
00:32:36,622 --> 00:32:38,708
I never wanna see a... hat on you again.

764
00:32:38,708 --> 00:32:39,625
Okay.

765
00:32:39,625 --> 00:32:41,419
- [Jonathan] Do you get what I'm saying?
- Yes.

766
00:32:41,919 --> 00:32:44,839
- [Jonathan] We are gonna scrub your knees.
- Wow. Really?

767
00:32:44,839 --> 00:32:47,341
[Jonathan] That is
an accumulation of dead skin.

768
00:32:47,341 --> 00:32:49,135
Patty, I need some exfoliant.

769
00:32:49,135 --> 00:32:53,723
Dan's knees are the color
of a hardwood floor,

770
00:32:53,723 --> 00:32:55,307
and I am just not understanding

771
00:32:55,307 --> 00:32:58,477
why Dan's knees
are the color of maple syrup

772
00:32:58,477 --> 00:33:01,564
when no other part of his body
is the color of maple syrup.

773
00:33:01,564 --> 00:33:04,191
[Dan] How come this dead skin
doesn't just fall off?

774
00:33:04,191 --> 00:33:06,736
[Jonathan] One could be
that you need to change out your loofah.

775
00:33:06,736 --> 00:33:09,530
It could also be
that you're just not spending enough time.

776
00:33:09,530 --> 00:33:11,824
- [Dan] And it's called exfoliant?
- [Jonathan] Yes.

777
00:33:11,824 --> 00:33:14,702
If you use it once a week,
it's gonna keep getting it off.

778
00:33:15,202 --> 00:33:16,871
Come over here. I'm gonna wash your hair.

779
00:33:16,871 --> 00:33:19,415
Feel how I'm rubbing this
through your scalp, this oil?

780
00:33:19,415 --> 00:33:21,500
- Yes.
- It's really soothing for your scalp.

781
00:33:21,500 --> 00:33:23,836
Especially for you
'cause you wear a lot of hats.

782
00:33:23,836 --> 00:33:25,421
So is this a pre-wash?

783
00:33:25,421 --> 00:33:27,631
[Jonathan] Exactly, it's a pre-wash oil.

784
00:33:27,631 --> 00:33:30,134
Ooh, you know
what you could also do for Cara?

785
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,847
You could do this for her
and give her a little scalp massage.

786
00:33:34,847 --> 00:33:36,432
And you guys could get freaky.

787
00:33:37,433 --> 00:33:40,061
But pre-wash scalp oil
is for external use only.

788
00:33:40,061 --> 00:33:41,437
Understood.

789
00:33:43,064 --> 00:33:44,190
There we go.

790
00:33:44,190 --> 00:33:45,775
Hair hydrator.

791
00:33:48,069 --> 00:33:53,074
- Do you derive your worth from your work?
- Yes.

792
00:33:53,074 --> 00:33:57,995
As a nonbinary bad bitch myself,
I'm not into, like, this or that.

793
00:33:57,995 --> 00:34:01,874
I don't think that you have to really
change your priorities, like, so, so much.

794
00:34:01,874 --> 00:34:05,294
I think you have to make room
for both Cara, like, and your work.

795
00:34:05,294 --> 00:34:07,254
But I think it's probably hard
for you to do that

796
00:34:07,254 --> 00:34:11,550
because, like, where you derive a lot
of your self-worth is, like, your job.

797
00:34:13,177 --> 00:34:15,471
Yes. It's definitely an issue.

798
00:34:15,471 --> 00:34:20,101
Like, I heard her say something like,
"You get home at 10:00. I need 7:30."

799
00:34:20,101 --> 00:34:21,769
That doesn't have to be every night

800
00:34:21,769 --> 00:34:24,188
'cause now if she's getting that
no nights a week...

801
00:34:24,188 --> 00:34:25,981
I mean, I'm a genius at negotiation.

802
00:34:25,981 --> 00:34:29,110
You should be like,
"I can give you 7:30 three nights a week,"

803
00:34:29,110 --> 00:34:32,279
and she'll be like, "I'd love that,"
and you'll be like, "Great!"

804
00:34:32,279 --> 00:34:33,531
No, you're right.

805
00:34:33,531 --> 00:34:37,118
You know,
understanding what the deli is for me

806
00:34:37,118 --> 00:34:43,040
is trying to find another energy source
that obviously involves Cara.

807
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,417
[Jonathan] We gotta get
this language of love happening.

808
00:34:45,417 --> 00:34:47,419
We gotta make some time in Dan's life

809
00:34:47,419 --> 00:34:49,755
for him to be the man
that Cara needs him to be.

810
00:34:49,755 --> 00:34:52,675
- Its nose's go time.
- Uh-oh.

811
00:34:52,675 --> 00:34:55,010
- You got enough wax? [laughs]
- [Jonathan] Yeah, I do.

812
00:34:55,010 --> 00:34:59,306
One, two, three. Ah!

813
00:34:59,306 --> 00:35:00,808
I'm exhausted.

814
00:35:00,808 --> 00:35:02,685
The straights have worn me out.

815
00:35:02,685 --> 00:35:03,936
Who's a cutie pie?

816
00:35:04,436 --> 00:35:06,063
- Me?
- [Jonathan] Dan is!

817
00:35:06,063 --> 00:35:06,981
Thank you.

818
00:35:06,981 --> 00:35:10,818
- I really appreciate this. Thank you.
- [Jonathan] Oh my God. You're so welcome.

819
00:35:11,402 --> 00:35:12,862
- Ready to see the new you?
- I am.

820
00:35:12,862 --> 00:35:14,613
All right. Here's the new Dan.

821
00:35:14,613 --> 00:35:16,824
In three, in two, in one.

822
00:35:16,824 --> 00:35:17,992
Here you are.

823
00:35:18,909 --> 00:35:22,246
- Look at your knees. They're better, no?
- Absolutely, they are. Yeah.

824
00:35:22,246 --> 00:35:23,581
But look at your cute face.

825
00:35:25,749 --> 00:35:26,584
I like it.

826
00:35:26,584 --> 00:35:30,546
You do look noticeably more relaxed
and, like, happier now.

827
00:35:30,546 --> 00:35:31,463
Yeah.

828
00:35:31,463 --> 00:35:33,632
[Jonathan]
Just take that hour for yourself

829
00:35:33,632 --> 00:35:35,384
'cause when you don't show up
for yourself,

830
00:35:35,384 --> 00:35:37,887
it's really hard
to show up for another person.

831
00:35:37,887 --> 00:35:39,722
And I want you to show up for Cara.

832
00:35:39,722 --> 00:35:43,267
The little time I got to spend with her,
I just adore her. She has amazing energy.

833
00:35:43,267 --> 00:35:45,728
You know who else I adore
who also has great energy?

834
00:35:46,353 --> 00:35:49,023
This guy. And I mean,
look at how handsome you are.

835
00:35:49,023 --> 00:35:50,524
- Thank you.
- [Jonathan] So let's go.

836
00:35:50,524 --> 00:35:52,401
- Let's go.
- Here's your hat.

837
00:35:52,401 --> 00:35:55,738
If you put it on now, I'll come unglued
in a way you've never seen.

838
00:35:55,738 --> 00:35:58,991
Look how cute you look.
It makes your pecs stick out more.

839
00:35:58,991 --> 00:36:00,117
[Dan] Thank you.

840
00:36:00,117 --> 00:36:03,245
<i>- ♪ Whoa, whoa, yeah ♪
- ♪ Yeah ♪</i>

841
00:36:03,245 --> 00:36:06,290
<i>♪ I'm ready to believe in you ♪</i>

842
00:36:07,541 --> 00:36:11,212
<i>- ♪ Whoa, whoa, yeah ♪
- ♪ Yeah ♪</i>

843
00:36:11,212 --> 00:36:14,256
<i>♪ I'm ready to believe in you ♪</i>

844
00:36:15,591 --> 00:36:16,550
<i>♪ Whoa ♪</i>

845
00:36:16,550 --> 00:36:19,220
- [Antoni] Are you nervous at all?
- [Dan] A little bit.

846
00:36:19,220 --> 00:36:24,099
I'm actually nervous at how I'm gonna look
trying to cook dinner tonight. [laughs]

847
00:36:24,808 --> 00:36:26,810
[horn honking]

848
00:36:26,810 --> 00:36:28,604
[Jonathan] They're here! He's here.

849
00:36:29,313 --> 00:36:30,981
Let's do it. You ready?

850
00:36:30,981 --> 00:36:32,524
- [Dan] I'm ready.
- [Antoni] All right.

851
00:36:32,524 --> 00:36:34,610
Oh my God! Look at you!

852
00:36:34,610 --> 00:36:37,446
- [Karamo] You look so handsome.
- [guys] Wow!

853
00:36:37,446 --> 00:36:40,157
- [Karamo] And you know it!
- [Bobby] You look ten years younger too.

854
00:36:41,742 --> 00:36:43,244
Looks great, Jonny.

855
00:36:43,244 --> 00:36:44,954
[Jonathan] Oh, you look great, honey.

856
00:36:44,954 --> 00:36:46,956
You would've been proud of me
this morning.

857
00:36:46,956 --> 00:36:48,582
[Jonathan] I would've? I can tell.

858
00:36:48,582 --> 00:36:50,668
Yeah, I washed the knees
with the washcloth.

859
00:36:50,668 --> 00:36:51,961
[Tan] You look so handsome.

860
00:36:51,961 --> 00:36:53,462
- Thank you.
- [Tan] Ready for this?

861
00:36:53,462 --> 00:36:55,547
[upbeat music plays]

862
00:36:56,715 --> 00:36:57,841
Wow.

863
00:36:57,841 --> 00:36:59,176
[Bobby] What do you think?

864
00:36:59,176 --> 00:37:00,511
[Dan] Wow.

865
00:37:01,553 --> 00:37:03,764
This is night and day.

866
00:37:03,764 --> 00:37:04,974
It looks wonderful.

867
00:37:05,724 --> 00:37:06,558
This is...

868
00:37:07,309 --> 00:37:08,602
- Move out the way.
- [all laugh]

869
00:37:08,602 --> 00:37:10,437
- [Karamo] I know! I wanna see it.
- [Tan] Yeah.

870
00:37:10,437 --> 00:37:12,356
[Bobby] I wanted to create spaces

871
00:37:12,356 --> 00:37:15,025
where you could not only have
moments with yourself,

872
00:37:15,025 --> 00:37:16,151
but also with Cara.

873
00:37:16,151 --> 00:37:18,779
A place where you can entertain,
and this becomes a home,

874
00:37:18,779 --> 00:37:22,825
and more, you know, the deli
is less the center of your life

875
00:37:22,825 --> 00:37:24,535
and just a stop.

876
00:37:24,535 --> 00:37:25,661
[Tan] It's gorgeous.

877
00:37:26,370 --> 00:37:27,454
It's so nice.

878
00:37:27,454 --> 00:37:28,872
It's... Yeah.

879
00:37:28,872 --> 00:37:30,791
- I wanna spend time here.
- [Antoni] Wow.

880
00:37:30,791 --> 00:37:31,917
Hey.

881
00:37:32,418 --> 00:37:33,711
[Karamo] You didn't before.

882
00:37:33,711 --> 00:37:36,839
- Oh, no. You saw before.
- [Karamo] Yeah, we hear you.

883
00:37:37,756 --> 00:37:40,676
- [Dan] It's very warm. It's welcoming.
- [Bobby] You ready to see more?

884
00:37:40,676 --> 00:37:41,760
- [Dan] Yes.
- [Bobby] Okay.

885
00:37:44,138 --> 00:37:45,014
Oh wow.

886
00:37:45,014 --> 00:37:46,348
- Right?
- Yeah.

887
00:37:47,099 --> 00:37:47,933
Wow.

888
00:37:47,933 --> 00:37:49,560
[Bobby] Before, in your house,

889
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,938
nowhere to entertain,
nowhere except for the bed to cuddle.

890
00:37:52,938 --> 00:37:55,399
- [Karamo] You see yourself cuddling here?
- [Dan] Absolutely.

891
00:37:55,399 --> 00:37:57,776
- [Karamo] You do know how to, right?
- Oh yeah.

892
00:37:57,776 --> 00:37:59,862
- Sure? I'm not sure if I believe you.
- Yes.

893
00:37:59,862 --> 00:38:02,114
[Karamo] I'm not sure.
Wanna cuddle me just to show me?

894
00:38:02,114 --> 00:38:03,615
Hi, I'm Cara.

895
00:38:04,116 --> 00:38:05,909
[laughing]

896
00:38:05,909 --> 00:38:07,911
- I just got off of work.
- [Tan] The final test.

897
00:38:07,911 --> 00:38:09,663
Oh my God!

898
00:38:09,663 --> 00:38:11,165
- Yeah!
- [guys] Oh!

899
00:38:11,790 --> 00:38:14,501
You actually are a good cuddler.
This is, like, very strong.

900
00:38:14,501 --> 00:38:16,378
- [Bobby] You ready to see more?
- [Dan] Yeah.

901
00:38:18,005 --> 00:38:19,757
Oh wow. [chuckles]

902
00:38:19,757 --> 00:38:20,966
It's wonderful.

903
00:38:20,966 --> 00:38:21,884
[Tan] Whoa!

904
00:38:21,884 --> 00:38:24,803
[Karamo] Oh, you painted the bed black.
The tree!

905
00:38:24,803 --> 00:38:28,265
[Bobby] The big, tall tree
makes the ceiling seem super tall.

906
00:38:28,265 --> 00:38:29,683
And also the chandelier.

907
00:38:29,683 --> 00:38:31,560
[Dan] The chandelier is beautiful.

908
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,980
- Nice.
- [Antoni] There we go!

909
00:38:34,980 --> 00:38:36,690
- There he is.
- [Tan laughs]

910
00:38:37,274 --> 00:38:39,777
[Antoni] I, for one,
didn't know there was a balcony.

911
00:38:39,777 --> 00:38:42,613
[Bobby] Right?
It had absolutely nothing on it.

912
00:38:42,613 --> 00:38:44,656
Now it's a special little place

913
00:38:44,656 --> 00:38:47,368
for Cara and Dan
to go out and have alone time.

914
00:38:47,951 --> 00:38:49,578
- This is so nice.
- Yeah?

915
00:38:49,578 --> 00:38:51,330
Yeah. This is so beautiful.

916
00:38:51,955 --> 00:38:53,874
This is...

917
00:38:53,874 --> 00:38:56,043
- Sorry. I'm a... a little...
- [Bobby] It's okay.

918
00:38:56,043 --> 00:38:56,960
A little in awe?

919
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:58,462
A little taken aback, yeah.

920
00:39:00,005 --> 00:39:02,007
Just when you've been
wandering into a place...

921
00:39:02,007 --> 00:39:04,760
Like, it's one, wandering
into five or six years,

922
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,721
you're just unaware or capable

923
00:39:07,721 --> 00:39:13,268
of what you could possibly have done
with the place to make it look like this.

924
00:39:13,769 --> 00:39:14,603
- [Bobby] Yeah?
- Yeah.

925
00:39:14,603 --> 00:39:17,689
It's just...
Yeah, this is really ******* great.

926
00:39:18,357 --> 00:39:19,525
This is wonderful.

927
00:39:20,025 --> 00:39:22,778
And obviously
it takes somebody with your skill level

928
00:39:22,778 --> 00:39:26,907
to be able to see and, uh... heal.

929
00:39:26,907 --> 00:39:28,951
Do you feel this is a bit healing?

930
00:39:31,078 --> 00:39:34,623
I don't know if the word is "heal."
You know, it makes it...

931
00:39:35,124 --> 00:39:36,208
You know...

932
00:39:36,208 --> 00:39:39,420
Yeah. If things are inflamed,
they're hard to touch.

933
00:39:39,420 --> 00:39:42,339
If things are less inflamed,
they're more approachable.

934
00:39:43,465 --> 00:39:44,341
[Bobby] Agreed.

935
00:39:44,341 --> 00:39:46,468
- You're the best, man.
- [Dan] Thank you, Bobby.

936
00:39:47,136 --> 00:39:48,887
- [Karamo] How you been?
- [Dan] I'm all right.

937
00:39:48,887 --> 00:39:50,472
Good. Good, good, good.

938
00:39:50,472 --> 00:39:56,645
I made a big list
of all the issues that Cara might feel

939
00:39:56,645 --> 00:40:00,315
from the way
that I have been acting towards here.

940
00:40:01,024 --> 00:40:04,361
Causing her to feel-- or be alone
when she doesn't want to be.

941
00:40:04,361 --> 00:40:07,030
I make her feel less important
than she should feel.

942
00:40:07,030 --> 00:40:09,908
I raise her stress level
because she cannot rely on me.

943
00:40:10,492 --> 00:40:13,370
I'm not inflicting pain on her
because I want to.

944
00:40:13,370 --> 00:40:14,329
I hurt too.

945
00:40:14,830 --> 00:40:15,956
Always.

946
00:40:15,956 --> 00:40:19,877
And the best way for me not to hurt
is to stay in my business.

947
00:40:19,877 --> 00:40:22,629
Working in the store is my ibuprofen.

948
00:40:23,338 --> 00:40:26,341
- And being at the store is my hot bath.
- Yeah.

949
00:40:26,341 --> 00:40:29,094
I appreciate you making me
more aware of this.

950
00:40:29,094 --> 00:40:30,345
- [Karamo] Yeah.
- I do.

951
00:40:30,929 --> 00:40:35,392
And I see a potential path
to fixing the issues.

952
00:40:35,392 --> 00:40:37,978
You are a pretty damn exceptional man

953
00:40:37,978 --> 00:40:41,565
of how you love others
and how you built something that's great.

954
00:40:41,565 --> 00:40:42,858
I'm just so happy for you,

955
00:40:42,858 --> 00:40:45,819
and for what's gonna happen
and the steps you're about to take.

956
00:40:45,819 --> 00:40:48,071
You can be a successful businessperson

957
00:40:48,071 --> 00:40:51,617
without leaving the other areas
of your life unattended.

958
00:40:51,617 --> 00:40:53,327
This is where the growth happens.

959
00:40:53,327 --> 00:40:55,037
Now he can start to change.

960
00:40:55,037 --> 00:40:57,956
Oh! I really do appreciate you.

961
00:40:57,956 --> 00:40:59,374
What's going on tonight?

962
00:40:59,374 --> 00:41:01,710
- I'm... I'm cooking dinner.
- [Antoni] Yes!

963
00:41:01,710 --> 00:41:04,880
You know how to make the pasta alla Norma.

964
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:06,298
- Right?
- Right.

965
00:41:06,298 --> 00:41:08,926
But, when they get here,
you have to have a little bite

966
00:41:08,926 --> 00:41:11,678
to sort of, like, introduce them
to your new home with.

967
00:41:11,678 --> 00:41:13,597
I thought we could make bruschetta.

968
00:41:13,597 --> 00:41:15,474
- [Dan] Okay.
- [Antoni] Just a little different.

969
00:41:15,474 --> 00:41:17,100
It actually has strawberries in it.

970
00:41:17,100 --> 00:41:19,269
Got a beautiful Italian loaf
and a baguette.

971
00:41:19,269 --> 00:41:22,022
- And you're gonna drizzle...
- [Dan] A little bit of the olive oil.

972
00:41:22,022 --> 00:41:24,149
[Antoni]
A little bit of the olive oil. Excellent.

973
00:41:24,149 --> 00:41:28,529
So now you're gonna grab those two pieces
and just put 'em right into that toaster.

974
00:41:28,529 --> 00:41:29,571
We have some basil,

975
00:41:29,571 --> 00:41:31,949
we have some parm
from your deli, of course,

976
00:41:31,949 --> 00:41:33,617
and we have a garlic clove.

977
00:41:33,617 --> 00:41:36,411
Little bit of balsamic
for some nice acidity.

978
00:41:36,995 --> 00:41:38,413
Little bit of olive oil.

979
00:41:38,956 --> 00:41:40,707
If you can mix that around, please.

980
00:41:42,709 --> 00:41:43,835
This couldn't be easier.

981
00:41:45,420 --> 00:41:46,255
Mm.

982
00:41:47,839 --> 00:41:50,551
- So...
- Are you gonna teach me table manners too?

983
00:41:50,551 --> 00:41:52,177
[chuckles]

984
00:41:52,177 --> 00:41:55,097
- I only have a week with you.
- I don't know if you...

985
00:41:55,097 --> 00:41:58,183
I probably don't come off,
but I'm really appreciative of this.

986
00:41:58,183 --> 00:41:59,893
- I'm trying.
- Hug it out.

987
00:41:59,893 --> 00:42:01,728
- [upbeat dance music plays]
- Thank you.

988
00:42:02,229 --> 00:42:04,648
- All right, kids, ready for this?
- [all] Yeah!

989
00:42:05,315 --> 00:42:06,650
[Karamo] Wow, mister!

990
00:42:06,650 --> 00:42:07,943
- Holy shit!
- [Bobby] Love this.

991
00:42:07,943 --> 00:42:10,237
- Where's the runway?
- [Tan] You can give us a runway!

992
00:42:10,237 --> 00:42:12,823
You really are giving,
like, young Brendan Fraser.

993
00:42:12,823 --> 00:42:14,491
- I'm gonna rip his top off.
- [Bobby] Yes!

994
00:42:14,491 --> 00:42:16,743
- Yes!
- Let him get past. His runway!

995
00:42:16,743 --> 00:42:18,161
- Excuse me, sir.
- There we go.

996
00:42:18,161 --> 00:42:19,079
Oh my God.

997
00:42:19,079 --> 00:42:21,206
[Tan] His pants bring out his ass.
Like, he's got a--

998
00:42:21,206 --> 00:42:22,833
[Karamo] I was gonna say the same thing.

999
00:42:22,833 --> 00:42:24,876
[Tan] Sorry to objectify you,
but isn't that nice?

1000
00:42:24,876 --> 00:42:27,337
- Didn't know you had a booty.
- Apology accepted.

1001
00:42:27,337 --> 00:42:28,589
All right, thanks.

1002
00:42:28,589 --> 00:42:30,007
What is he wearing tonight?

1003
00:42:30,591 --> 00:42:33,302
- Shall we try on some other looks?
- That is what I wanna see.

1004
00:42:33,302 --> 00:42:34,678
[Tan] Let's do it. Thank you.

1005
00:42:34,678 --> 00:42:36,346
- All right, kids.
- [Bobby] Yes.

1006
00:42:36,346 --> 00:42:38,056
- Ready for date look?
- Absolutely.

1007
00:42:38,056 --> 00:42:39,349
- Good.
- [Antoni] Can't wait!

1008
00:42:40,183 --> 00:42:42,436
- [Bobby] Very dashing.
- [Tan] Look how handsome he looks!

1009
00:42:42,436 --> 00:42:44,563
You're so adorable!

1010
00:42:44,563 --> 00:42:47,357
The brown because I wanted
to bring out the beautiful color

1011
00:42:47,357 --> 00:42:49,151
of his hair and eyes.

1012
00:42:49,151 --> 00:42:51,612
The blue compliments the brown perfectly.

1013
00:42:51,612 --> 00:42:53,030
It fits you amazing.

1014
00:42:53,030 --> 00:42:54,823
[Bobby]
What do you think Cara's gonna think?

1015
00:42:54,823 --> 00:42:56,074
Oh, she's gonna love it.

1016
00:42:56,575 --> 00:42:57,409
I mean,

1017
00:42:57,409 --> 00:43:00,120
compared to what she's been getting
for, like, two years!

1018
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,080
- [laughing]
- How could she not?

1019
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:03,582
He looks like a different man.

1020
00:43:03,582 --> 00:43:06,293
First of all, he's smiling so much more
than he has before.

1021
00:43:06,293 --> 00:43:08,670
[Tan] He looks like a gentleman.

1022
00:43:08,670 --> 00:43:12,257
He's looking amazing.
My loins are <i>boiling.</i>

1023
00:43:12,758 --> 00:43:15,844
- Tell us about the week, how you found it.
- First, I wanna thank you.

1024
00:43:16,553 --> 00:43:17,888
I like this. This is great.

1025
00:43:17,888 --> 00:43:20,390
You found my look.

1026
00:43:20,390 --> 00:43:22,601
- I feel comfortable.
- That makes me so happy.

1027
00:43:22,601 --> 00:43:24,394
Physically and mentally.

1028
00:43:24,394 --> 00:43:28,982
And then also,
thank you all for the, uh, pep talks

1029
00:43:28,982 --> 00:43:30,734
in between the specific help.

1030
00:43:30,734 --> 00:43:32,110
[chuckling]

1031
00:43:32,110 --> 00:43:36,615
Um, they brought some issues up
that I need to make myself aware of

1032
00:43:36,615 --> 00:43:38,825
and that I have been made aware of

1033
00:43:38,825 --> 00:43:41,870
and that I'm gonna try to... remedy,

1034
00:43:41,870 --> 00:43:45,916
starting with, you know, tonight
when I, uh, take care of Cara.

1035
00:43:45,916 --> 00:43:49,628
I think what you have displayed
is an extreme amount

1036
00:43:49,628 --> 00:43:52,589
of vulnerability, humility, and love,

1037
00:43:52,589 --> 00:43:55,842
and you are just a gracious man
who deserved every bit of this week.

1038
00:43:55,842 --> 00:43:58,553
I do hope
that you can take a little bit of time

1039
00:43:58,553 --> 00:44:00,806
to celebrate how far you've come,

1040
00:44:00,806 --> 00:44:03,141
celebrate what a great guy you are.

1041
00:44:03,141 --> 00:44:05,310
Cara's gonna be here soon.
We should get out.

1042
00:44:06,186 --> 00:44:08,647
Uh, just get real nasty with her,
you know?

1043
00:44:08,647 --> 00:44:10,107
[laughing]

1044
00:44:10,107 --> 00:44:12,234
- [Dan] Thank you.
- Good luck, my friend.

1045
00:44:12,234 --> 00:44:13,819
[Karamo] You're welcome, man.

1046
00:44:13,819 --> 00:44:16,113
Just to let you know,
and this is a pro tip,

1047
00:44:16,113 --> 00:44:18,949
you can still twerk in suits.
Give it to me, Daddy!

1048
00:44:18,949 --> 00:44:21,660
- Give it to me, Daddy!
- [Bobby] Johnny, you're missing this!

1049
00:44:21,660 --> 00:44:23,286
[laughing]

1050
00:44:24,746 --> 00:44:28,250
<i>♪ Every day's a new day
To find my way again ♪</i>

1051
00:44:28,250 --> 00:44:29,960
<i>♪ Rise and shine or do or die ♪</i>

1052
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,254
<i>♪ I'm coming back home again ♪</i>

1053
00:44:32,254 --> 00:44:35,632
<i>♪ I've been lost in outer space
Swimming through an ocean ♪</i>

1054
00:44:35,632 --> 00:44:37,509
<i>♪ Every day's a new day ♪</i>

1055
00:44:37,509 --> 00:44:39,845
<i>♪ To pick up the pieces
And do it all over again ♪</i>

1056
00:44:39,845 --> 00:44:40,846
[Dan] Who is it?

1057
00:44:40,846 --> 00:44:42,055
[Cara] It's me!

1058
00:44:42,597 --> 00:44:43,598
[Madeline] Oh my God!

1059
00:44:43,598 --> 00:44:45,225
- [Catherine] Oh my God!
- [Madeline] Dan!

1060
00:44:45,225 --> 00:44:46,685
[Catherine and Madeline laughing]

1061
00:44:46,685 --> 00:44:49,604
- You look so handsome.
- Oh my God!

1062
00:44:50,272 --> 00:44:51,690
I feel so strange.

1063
00:44:52,274 --> 00:44:54,151
- Aw!
- [chuckles]

1064
00:44:54,860 --> 00:44:56,570
You look so...

1065
00:44:57,154 --> 00:44:58,280
Oh!

1066
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,157
And looking fresh.

1067
00:45:00,157 --> 00:45:02,284
- Oh my gosh!
- Dan!

1068
00:45:03,618 --> 00:45:05,245
Look at your house! Look at you!

1069
00:45:05,245 --> 00:45:07,539
- I know.
- Look at your suit!

1070
00:45:07,539 --> 00:45:09,124
Let me give you a tour.

1071
00:45:09,958 --> 00:45:13,462
- [Madeline] Unbelievable!
- [Catherine] It looks insane in here.

1072
00:45:13,462 --> 00:45:15,380
[Cara] I'm truly gobsmacked.

1073
00:45:15,380 --> 00:45:16,298
[Dan] Yeah.

1074
00:45:17,841 --> 00:45:20,510
- [gasps]
- No! [laughs]

1075
00:45:21,094 --> 00:45:22,596
[Cara] Oh my... I'm...

1076
00:45:22,596 --> 00:45:25,098
Oh my gosh!

1077
00:45:25,807 --> 00:45:27,517
Catch me here. [laughs]

1078
00:45:27,517 --> 00:45:28,560
Oh, the pi...

1079
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,021
Everything looks fabulous!

1080
00:45:31,021 --> 00:45:32,272
- You're slaying.
- I'm slaying?

1081
00:45:32,272 --> 00:45:33,356
[laughing]

1082
00:45:33,356 --> 00:45:34,274
I'm slaying.

1083
00:45:34,274 --> 00:45:36,193
- We're moving to your house.
- My house?

1084
00:45:36,193 --> 00:45:37,736
No, your house is still really nice,

1085
00:45:37,736 --> 00:45:40,697
but we can definitely
come over here sometimes,

1086
00:45:41,323 --> 00:45:43,158
as long as I come home earlier.

1087
00:45:43,909 --> 00:45:47,537
Wait till you see my bedroom.

1088
00:45:48,497 --> 00:45:51,541
Oh my gosh!

1089
00:45:51,541 --> 00:45:53,794
- [Madeline] Daniel, this is swanky.
- [Dan] Yeah.

1090
00:45:53,794 --> 00:45:54,878
Ladies first.

1091
00:45:54,878 --> 00:45:56,630
Oh my gosh.

1092
00:45:56,630 --> 00:45:58,423
Thank you, Daniel.

1093
00:45:58,423 --> 00:46:00,342
- [Cara] Wow.
- [Madeline] The view! Oh my gosh.

1094
00:46:00,342 --> 00:46:01,468
[Catherine] It's gorgeous.

1095
00:46:01,468 --> 00:46:04,221
[Madeline] I hope
that y'all just, like, sit out here,

1096
00:46:04,221 --> 00:46:07,307
drink a glass of wine,
and enjoy each other.

1097
00:46:07,307 --> 00:46:08,475
Oh my God.

1098
00:46:09,518 --> 00:46:10,894
[Dan] All right, who wants what?

1099
00:46:17,234 --> 00:46:20,237
- The garlic rubbed on both sides...
- That's what they told me to do.

1100
00:46:20,237 --> 00:46:23,073
So good. Really delicious, Dan. Thank you.

1101
00:46:23,073 --> 00:46:24,199
This is amazing.

1102
00:46:24,950 --> 00:46:26,034
- Cheers.
- Kind of?

1103
00:46:26,034 --> 00:46:28,328
I've never had this many people
in my room like--

1104
00:46:28,328 --> 00:46:32,707
- We're proud of you. This is incredible.
- Thank you guys for making me do this.

1105
00:46:32,707 --> 00:46:35,669
Everything that was in you,
we're seeing finally.

1106
00:46:35,669 --> 00:46:38,046
- We're actually getting to know that Dan.
- Well, I...

1107
00:46:38,046 --> 00:46:40,340
But we wanna give you guys
some time to talk.

1108
00:46:40,340 --> 00:46:41,299
[Catherine] Yeah.

1109
00:46:41,299 --> 00:46:42,300
Bring it in here.

1110
00:46:42,801 --> 00:46:44,010
[Catherine] I love you.

1111
00:46:44,010 --> 00:46:46,471
It's, like, a lot of hugs this weekend.

1112
00:46:46,471 --> 00:46:48,306
[Madeline] The most hugs we've ever had.

1113
00:46:49,391 --> 00:46:51,351
- So proud of you.
- [mouths] Thank you.

1114
00:46:53,103 --> 00:46:54,688
- [Cara] We're alone!
- [chuckles]

1115
00:46:54,688 --> 00:46:56,189
[laughs]

1116
00:46:57,732 --> 00:46:59,192
[Dan] We're having eggplant.

1117
00:46:59,192 --> 00:47:02,028
- [Cara] So you made eggplant just for me?
- I did.

1118
00:47:02,028 --> 00:47:02,946
[Cara laughs]

1119
00:47:02,946 --> 00:47:04,281
- [Dan] Cheers.
- Cheers.

1120
00:47:04,281 --> 00:47:05,782
- I love you.
- I love you.

1121
00:47:10,287 --> 00:47:11,538
[Cara] That's delicious!

1122
00:47:11,538 --> 00:47:13,290
- It's, like, really good!
- [Dan] Yeah.

1123
00:47:14,332 --> 00:47:16,376
- This is all really nice.
- [Cara] Yeah.

1124
00:47:16,376 --> 00:47:17,669
[Dan] And this is great,

1125
00:47:17,669 --> 00:47:19,296
but, you know, I mean,

1126
00:47:19,296 --> 00:47:24,384
I, frankly, quite frankly, think
it's gonna take more work on my behalf,

1127
00:47:24,384 --> 00:47:26,094
and they made me, like, realize,

1128
00:47:26,094 --> 00:47:28,513
"What do you think the impact is on Cara?"

1129
00:47:28,513 --> 00:47:33,894
It's, like, showing up late.
Not giving her enough time.

1130
00:47:35,854 --> 00:47:37,564
Not being there when she needs.

1131
00:47:37,564 --> 00:47:39,566
I don't mean to hurt you.

1132
00:47:39,566 --> 00:47:41,151
- I know that.
- [Dan] I know you do.

1133
00:47:41,151 --> 00:47:43,153
- I've always known that.
- [Dan] I know.

1134
00:47:43,737 --> 00:47:45,196
I'mma try to be better.

1135
00:47:46,489 --> 00:47:47,741
Now you can make pasta,

1136
00:47:47,741 --> 00:47:50,619
and before
you could only make reservations.

1137
00:47:50,619 --> 00:47:54,205
- I couldn't even make the reservations.
- You couldn't even make reservations!

1138
00:47:54,205 --> 00:47:55,165
[both laugh]

1139
00:47:55,165 --> 00:47:57,709
I hope that this week
we have really showed Dan

1140
00:47:57,709 --> 00:48:00,629
that there's so much more to life
than work.

1141
00:48:00,629 --> 00:48:04,883
To really find happiness,
you need a well-rounded life.

1142
00:48:04,883 --> 00:48:08,011
Here's to trying to be better.

1143
00:48:08,595 --> 00:48:11,014
I think you're pretty amazing, Dan Stein.

1144
00:48:12,223 --> 00:48:13,266
[chuckles]

1145
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:17,145
[phone ringing]

1146
00:48:17,145 --> 00:48:18,271
[quirky music plays]

1147
00:48:18,271 --> 00:48:20,523
Stein's Deli. What can I do for you?

1148
00:48:20,523 --> 00:48:23,985
[Jonathan] <i>Hi, yeah, I was wondering
if you had any hot meat</i>?

1149
00:48:24,569 --> 00:48:26,613
<i>'Cause I went cold turkey.</i>

1150
00:48:27,656 --> 00:48:29,282
Looking for some hot meat?

1151
00:48:29,783 --> 00:48:32,285
[laughing]

1152
00:48:32,744 --> 00:48:34,037
[Tan] Hi, Dan Stein!

1153
00:48:34,037 --> 00:48:35,997
Wow, what a nice button-up shirt.

1154
00:48:35,997 --> 00:48:37,290
You look pretty.

1155
00:48:37,290 --> 00:48:38,875
Hi... hi, everybody.

1156
00:48:38,875 --> 00:48:41,086
<i>Why aren't you guys here?
Are you afraid of me?</i>

1157
00:48:41,086 --> 00:48:44,130
I was wondering why <i>you're</i> there
because it's after 5:00,

1158
00:48:44,130 --> 00:48:46,466
and I think you should be
spending time with Cara.

1159
00:48:46,466 --> 00:48:48,927
I have a date with her
at eight o'clock tonight,

1160
00:48:48,927 --> 00:48:50,929
but I appreciate your concern.

1161
00:48:50,929 --> 00:48:53,390
[Bobby] We love you,
and we're so glad you're doing well.

1162
00:48:53,390 --> 00:48:55,266
- Bye, honey.
- It was good to see you.

1163
00:48:55,266 --> 00:48:57,018
- Thank you.
- [Antoni] <i>Take care of yourself.</i>

1164
00:48:57,018 --> 00:48:58,228
I will. I will try.

1165
00:48:58,228 --> 00:48:59,813
I will try to keep doing it.

1166
00:49:01,189 --> 00:49:02,565
- He's so sweet.
- Yeah.

1167
00:49:02,565 --> 00:49:04,693
[quirky music winds down]

1168
00:49:04,693 --> 00:49:06,778
[energetic music plays]

1169
00:49:10,115 --> 00:49:11,783
No time to iron your shirt?

1170
00:49:11,783 --> 00:49:12,784
Don't sweat it.

1171
00:49:12,784 --> 00:49:14,536
Steam it whilst you shower.

1172
00:49:15,829 --> 00:49:17,497
[disco music plays]

1173
00:49:21,292 --> 00:49:23,003
See? Perfect.

1174
00:49:28,967 --> 00:49:32,053
- Let's talk about me?
- [man] All things... all things Dan Stein.

1175
00:49:32,053 --> 00:49:35,098
All right, well,
why wasn't I talking about me before?

1176
00:49:35,098 --> 00:49:36,433
Talk about fashion?

1177
00:49:36,433 --> 00:49:39,227
I was watching
the fashion channel last night.

1178
00:49:39,227 --> 00:49:41,021
{\an8}[man] Were you really? Looking for inspo?

1179
00:49:41,021 --> 00:49:43,398
{\an8}- [beep] ...no.
- [man laughs]

1180
00:49:43,398 --> 00:49:45,734
{\an8}Uh, underwear, foo--

1181
00:49:45,734 --> 00:49:48,319
{\an8}[man] We don't... we don't need
to talk about underwear.

1182
00:49:48,319 --> 00:49:50,739
We don't have to talk about underwear?
Why not?

1183
00:49:50,739 --> 00:49:54,951
[man] Let's talk about something I think
you are gonna be more interested in, okay?

1184
00:49:54,951 --> 00:49:57,454
Have I been not interested
in any of this other stuff?

1185
00:49:57,454 --> 00:49:59,289
Coffee from my coffee people?

1186
00:49:59,289 --> 00:50:00,498
That's delicious.

1187
00:50:00,498 --> 00:50:02,751
I get one though.
You can't have more than one,

1188
00:50:02,751 --> 00:50:07,047
or else I'm gonna be agitated
and pooping all day.

1189
00:50:07,047 --> 00:50:09,174
Want me to stand up
on the chair and say that?

1190
00:50:09,174 --> 00:50:10,425
Or something like that?

1191
00:50:10,425 --> 00:50:11,760
I just, um...

1192
00:50:12,927 --> 00:50:14,012
What was the question?

1193
00:50:14,012 --> 00:50:16,097
[cheerful instrumental music plays]