1 00:00:06,006 --> 00:00:08,008 [country music playing] 2 00:00:11,094 --> 00:00:13,013 Aw. There's an alligator just walking around. 3 00:00:13,096 --> 00:00:14,723 This does not look like America. 4 00:00:14,806 --> 00:00:17,559 Girl, this feels like America absolutely to me. 5 00:00:22,313 --> 00:00:24,774 ♪ Hey, yeah ♪ 6 00:00:25,859 --> 00:00:27,110 ♪ All right ♪ 7 00:00:28,445 --> 00:00:30,613 ♪ Mmm, mmm, ah ♪ 8 00:00:30,697 --> 00:00:33,074 ♪ Yeah ♪ 9 00:00:33,158 --> 00:00:35,076 ♪ All right, whoo! ♪ 10 00:00:35,160 --> 00:00:39,205 ♪ Oh, things just keep getting better ♪ 11 00:00:40,081 --> 00:00:40,999 ♪ Come on ♪ 12 00:00:45,003 --> 00:00:47,839 ♪ Ooh, yeah ♪ 13 00:00:50,133 --> 00:00:51,009 ♪ Yeah ♪ 14 00:00:52,093 --> 00:00:54,596 ♪ Things just keep getting better ♪ 15 00:00:54,679 --> 00:00:57,932 ♪ Down in New Orleans ♪ 16 00:01:00,101 --> 00:01:02,520 [accordion music in Louisiana Creole playing] 17 00:01:03,938 --> 00:01:06,232 -[Karamo] Wanna know who we're helping? -[guys] Yeah! 18 00:01:06,316 --> 00:01:09,319 Okay. His name is Ernest Bartholomew. 19 00:01:09,402 --> 00:01:11,321 Welcome to New Orleans. Enjoy yourself. 20 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:16,868 [Karamo] "He is a proud Creole who grew up deep in the Louisiana bayou." 21 00:01:16,951 --> 00:01:18,536 -The intonation, Karamo. -The bayou. 22 00:01:18,620 --> 00:01:21,498 -Shiver me timbers on that "deep." -[laughs] 23 00:01:21,581 --> 00:01:24,375 Growing up in the country, man, I think that's the place to grow up. 24 00:01:27,003 --> 00:01:29,881 You know, my dad, such a special person, such a character, 25 00:01:29,964 --> 00:01:31,257 and my mom puts up with him. 26 00:01:31,341 --> 00:01:32,717 Yeah, fantastic. 27 00:01:32,801 --> 00:01:37,847 "He's 68 years old and is about to celebrate his 39th wedding anniversary 28 00:01:37,931 --> 00:01:39,140 with his wife, Miranda!" 29 00:01:39,224 --> 00:01:40,225 How sweet! 30 00:01:40,308 --> 00:01:43,144 Miranda, look, she's a wonderful woman, you know? 31 00:01:43,228 --> 00:01:45,146 Real good. Beautiful. 32 00:01:45,230 --> 00:01:50,985 Ernest has the biggest heart you will ever, ever encounter. 33 00:01:51,069 --> 00:01:52,821 [Ernest] Miranda grew up in the city. 34 00:01:52,904 --> 00:01:55,698 You know, I didn't want to marry anybody down there from the country 35 00:01:55,782 --> 00:01:58,451 because it's a close relationship, might be my cousin. 36 00:01:58,535 --> 00:02:01,538 -That is Ernest. -[chuckles] 37 00:02:01,621 --> 00:02:04,040 "Ernest and Miranda's two daughters have left the nest, 38 00:02:04,124 --> 00:02:06,376 and the distance in their marriage has grown." 39 00:02:06,459 --> 00:02:08,920 -No! -That's common, though. 40 00:02:09,003 --> 00:02:11,840 [Miranda] The girls moved out of state, 41 00:02:11,923 --> 00:02:15,677 and that's when we started having separate lives. 42 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,763 Cooking, you know, doing my butterfly garden. 43 00:02:18,847 --> 00:02:20,056 He has his garage. 44 00:02:21,057 --> 00:02:25,019 If you want to spend time with me, I'm outside messing around in my man cave. 45 00:02:25,103 --> 00:02:28,982 Ernest is tinkering on his car all the time. 46 00:02:29,065 --> 00:02:31,401 My dad's always in his man cave watching the game, 47 00:02:31,484 --> 00:02:35,446 and my mom is always in the kitchen watching cooking shows. 48 00:02:35,530 --> 00:02:38,908 It's easy to burn rubber. You just give it gas and pop the clutch. 49 00:02:38,992 --> 00:02:41,035 I'm very convinced he could live out there 50 00:02:41,119 --> 00:02:42,495 if… if we would let him. 51 00:02:42,579 --> 00:02:46,499 A lot of times, couples with kids, the kids become their everything, 52 00:02:46,583 --> 00:02:48,626 and when the kids leave, they're like, "Oh, wait." 53 00:02:48,710 --> 00:02:50,795 "We forgot we have nothing in common anymore." 54 00:02:50,879 --> 00:02:53,089 [Ernest] Miranda don't like to do the things I like to do, 55 00:02:53,173 --> 00:02:55,258 go in the boat and fishin', you know. 56 00:02:55,758 --> 00:02:59,220 She said, "They don't have no bathroom." I say, "Well, we got a bucket." [laughs] 57 00:02:59,304 --> 00:03:02,599 Riding the bicycle, enjoying the music. 58 00:03:02,682 --> 00:03:06,227 Yes. Country mouse and the city girl, you know? 59 00:03:06,311 --> 00:03:08,605 We are very, very different. 60 00:03:08,688 --> 00:03:13,026 "Miranda loves trying new cuisines, but Ernest is not interested." 61 00:03:13,109 --> 00:03:15,111 [country music playing] 62 00:03:17,572 --> 00:03:21,242 Before we got married, we would go out to eat, 63 00:03:21,326 --> 00:03:25,205 but now Ernest would much prefer to eat wild game. 64 00:03:25,288 --> 00:03:29,667 The stuff that I like to cook is nutria, muskrat, raccoon. 65 00:03:30,460 --> 00:03:33,630 I won't clean it, nor will I eat it. 66 00:03:35,006 --> 00:03:36,466 It tastes delicious. 67 00:03:38,051 --> 00:03:41,346 "Their daughter Ariel is nominating her dad before it's too late." 68 00:03:41,429 --> 00:03:43,598 Too late for what? That's ominous! 69 00:03:43,681 --> 00:03:45,016 ♪ Bah, bah, bum! ♪ 70 00:03:45,099 --> 00:03:47,602 [Ariel] My dad is very practical. 71 00:03:47,685 --> 00:03:50,271 You know, he's like, "I'll make sure she has gas in her car." 72 00:03:50,355 --> 00:03:54,108 You know, "If she needs me to pick up anything, I'll go and get it." 73 00:03:54,192 --> 00:03:55,401 We see the love. 74 00:03:55,485 --> 00:03:59,447 We just wanna see the love how my mom wants to be loved. 75 00:03:59,530 --> 00:04:02,700 Miranda wants me to dress up, look real nice and stuff. 76 00:04:02,784 --> 00:04:04,619 Yeah, I'm country, man. 77 00:04:04,702 --> 00:04:07,914 She married me, you know. Like, it was good, so this is me. 78 00:04:07,997 --> 00:04:09,707 [Karamo] "As much as Miranda loves Ernest, 79 00:04:09,791 --> 00:04:13,253 she misses her cool man who has now turned into a caveman." 80 00:04:13,336 --> 00:04:16,839 [Miranda] On a scale of one to 100, 81 00:04:16,923 --> 00:04:20,718 I love the rubber-banded beard 82 00:04:21,219 --> 00:04:22,303 zero. 83 00:04:23,930 --> 00:04:26,599 I think it's unique. You know, like, I'm one of a kind. 84 00:04:27,100 --> 00:04:30,061 "With Ernest and Miranda's 39th anniversary at the end of the week, 85 00:04:30,144 --> 00:04:32,897 Ariel is determined to help her dad get out of this rut 86 00:04:32,981 --> 00:04:34,732 and make this a special day for her mom." 87 00:04:34,816 --> 00:04:35,650 Cute. 88 00:04:36,859 --> 00:04:39,737 I would love to see them meet somewhere in the middle. 89 00:04:39,821 --> 00:04:42,073 They love each other so much. Like, he can do it, you know. 90 00:04:42,156 --> 00:04:44,075 I just don't think he knows how. 91 00:04:44,158 --> 00:04:45,159 "Our mission this week 92 00:04:45,243 --> 00:04:47,745 is to see if this country mouse can charm his spouse." 93 00:04:47,829 --> 00:04:50,999 "Meeting halfway is more fun than going the road alone." 94 00:04:51,082 --> 00:04:52,333 -Yeah! -Yeah! 95 00:04:52,417 --> 00:04:54,585 -I'm glad we're together. -Amen! 96 00:04:54,669 --> 00:04:56,671 [upbeat music playing] 97 00:05:03,052 --> 00:05:05,638 -[Tan] All right, let's do this! -[Antoni] All right, let's go! 98 00:05:05,722 --> 00:05:07,640 Honey, we're home! 99 00:05:09,559 --> 00:05:11,102 [Bobby] Ooh, look at that car! 100 00:05:11,185 --> 00:05:13,146 -[Jonathan] Cute. -[Tan] The house is really cute. 101 00:05:13,229 --> 00:05:14,272 [laughing] 102 00:05:17,608 --> 00:05:19,193 [Antoni] Where is he? 103 00:05:19,277 --> 00:05:20,903 -[Karamo] Ernest? -[Antoni] Oh! 104 00:05:21,696 --> 00:05:23,990 Is it Doctor Ernest, 'cause I see you in scrubs? 105 00:05:24,073 --> 00:05:26,326 -Yeah, I'm… I'm a masseuse. -[Karamo] Ah! 106 00:05:26,409 --> 00:05:28,953 How you doing? Karamo. Nice to meet you. 107 00:05:29,037 --> 00:05:30,538 -Nice to meet you. -[Ernest] Yes, sir. 108 00:05:30,621 --> 00:05:32,540 Okay, Ernest is cute. 109 00:05:32,623 --> 00:05:35,585 A little scruffy, a little dirty, but he's cute. 110 00:05:35,668 --> 00:05:36,878 Oh, fantastic. 111 00:05:36,961 --> 00:05:38,463 Is this car your actual car? 112 00:05:38,546 --> 00:05:42,133 I bought in 1986 for $1,500 from Voodoo Mike. 113 00:05:42,216 --> 00:05:44,093 -Oh. -Come. Come see. 114 00:05:45,136 --> 00:05:46,637 [Tan] She's really pretty. 115 00:05:46,721 --> 00:05:48,306 Look at these interiors, honey. 116 00:05:48,389 --> 00:05:49,515 Wait, let me get this. 117 00:05:49,599 --> 00:05:50,683 Oh my God. 118 00:05:50,767 --> 00:05:52,977 Let's do a photo shoot! 119 00:05:53,061 --> 00:05:54,812 Check out that pistol grip shifter. 120 00:05:54,896 --> 00:05:56,022 What's that mean? 121 00:05:56,105 --> 00:05:57,148 Four speed. Yes! 122 00:05:57,231 --> 00:05:59,859 Oh, I'm out. I don't know how to do stick shift. 123 00:05:59,942 --> 00:06:02,236 -This is gorgeous. -Yeah, fantastic. 124 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:06,491 I just clocked a massive TV, so you don't just fix things in here. 125 00:06:06,574 --> 00:06:08,743 -Like, you fully hang out in here. -Yeah. 126 00:06:08,826 --> 00:06:10,870 You and Miranda should have drive-in movie date night. 127 00:06:10,953 --> 00:06:12,747 [Jonathan] Oh my God! That's cute! 128 00:06:12,830 --> 00:06:14,123 Man, fantastic. 129 00:06:14,207 --> 00:06:16,250 You have pictures of your family everywhere. 130 00:06:16,334 --> 00:06:18,461 -[Ernest] Yes. -[Jonathan] They're so cute. 131 00:06:18,544 --> 00:06:19,837 [Bobby] Beautiful. 132 00:06:19,921 --> 00:06:21,714 [Ernest] Dominique and Ariel, yeah. 133 00:06:21,798 --> 00:06:23,257 I got two girls, okay? 134 00:06:23,341 --> 00:06:25,218 Dominique was born, firstborn. 135 00:06:25,301 --> 00:06:27,053 Miranda showed her how to go shopping. 136 00:06:27,136 --> 00:06:28,471 Second born, Ariel? 137 00:06:28,554 --> 00:06:31,182 I go… I go fishing and hunting, Ariel will come with me. 138 00:06:31,265 --> 00:06:33,476 [Karamo] I see you have a lot of photos of your daughters. 139 00:06:33,559 --> 00:06:35,812 -Is there a photo Miranda up here? -[Ernest] No. 140 00:06:35,895 --> 00:06:37,230 [Tan] Ooh. 141 00:06:37,313 --> 00:06:39,732 -[Karamo] Just was checkin'. Okay. -[Antoni] Why? 142 00:06:39,816 --> 00:06:42,485 I go through all the boxes of trash, you know, like-- 143 00:06:42,568 --> 00:06:44,362 Don't keep digging this hole, Ernest. 144 00:06:44,445 --> 00:06:45,279 It's okay. 145 00:06:45,363 --> 00:06:48,449 Look, let me tell you… Let me tell you about how I met Miranda. 146 00:06:48,533 --> 00:06:51,035 Now, you see, when I was in high school in the late '60s, 147 00:06:51,119 --> 00:06:54,080 I was working part-time at Sears in the back pricin' tools. 148 00:06:54,163 --> 00:06:56,707 -She workin' in the candy department. -Aw. 149 00:06:56,791 --> 00:07:00,461 And she go in the refrigerator to get the candy, close the door, 150 00:07:00,545 --> 00:07:01,796 hugging and kissing, you know? 151 00:07:01,879 --> 00:07:03,172 -She got… -[laughs] 152 00:07:03,256 --> 00:07:04,090 Fantastic, man. 153 00:07:04,173 --> 00:07:06,134 Oh, we all know Ernest's favorite word. 154 00:07:06,217 --> 00:07:07,927 Fantastic. 155 00:07:08,511 --> 00:07:10,638 I notice that there's a lot of food things here. 156 00:07:10,721 --> 00:07:13,307 I see a bit of organic honey, some Louisiana hot sauce. 157 00:07:13,391 --> 00:07:14,809 I like to cook. 158 00:07:14,892 --> 00:07:18,604 -In… in fact, I just cooked some raccoon. -Raccoon. Okay. 159 00:07:18,688 --> 00:07:19,772 Raccoon? 160 00:07:20,273 --> 00:07:21,190 Girl, please! 161 00:07:21,274 --> 00:07:25,069 I wanna see the grilled raccoon. Let's see it. I want raccoon gloves. 162 00:07:25,653 --> 00:07:28,739 And it's smothered down with wild onion, garlic, and hot pepper. 163 00:07:29,449 --> 00:07:31,534 Do you remember having raccoon growing up? 164 00:07:31,617 --> 00:07:33,035 -Oh yeah. -Who made it for you? 165 00:07:33,119 --> 00:07:34,370 My mama. [speaks Creole] 166 00:07:34,454 --> 00:07:36,998 Why don't you give him some? Let him try some. 167 00:07:37,081 --> 00:07:38,124 [Ernest] It's real tough. 168 00:07:38,207 --> 00:07:39,834 So it's kind of like a wet jerky. 169 00:07:39,917 --> 00:07:41,335 Antoni, don't do it. 170 00:07:41,419 --> 00:07:43,296 [Antoni] Can I have some more peppers, please? 171 00:07:44,255 --> 00:07:45,590 There we go. 172 00:07:45,673 --> 00:07:49,427 Don't do it! Don't do it! Don't do it! Don't do it! 173 00:07:50,386 --> 00:07:52,138 [Jonathan] Juicy, tender. 174 00:07:54,724 --> 00:07:55,600 Ah! 175 00:07:55,683 --> 00:07:57,727 Not only are raccoons absolutely adorable, 176 00:07:57,810 --> 00:08:01,731 they're the only animal other than humans that can do this with their hands. 177 00:08:03,232 --> 00:08:04,400 And I just ate one. 178 00:08:05,318 --> 00:08:08,070 Oh, I'm so sorry. I've been so greedy. Do you guys want a helping? 179 00:08:08,154 --> 00:08:10,114 -I just ate. -Oh, I couldn't. I'm so full. 180 00:08:10,698 --> 00:08:13,743 Stop putting everything in your mouth! [gags] 181 00:08:14,911 --> 00:08:16,037 This is my washroom, man. 182 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:17,705 [Karamo] Where you wash the scrubs. 183 00:08:17,788 --> 00:08:20,374 [Antoni] This Nancy Meyers kitchen 184 00:08:20,458 --> 00:08:25,254 is stark contrast to your living situation in the garage. 185 00:08:25,338 --> 00:08:27,840 -I really hope I get to meet Miranda. -[Karamo] This Miranda? 186 00:08:27,924 --> 00:08:30,176 [Ernest] Yeah, that's Miranda and Dominique. 187 00:08:30,259 --> 00:08:32,428 [Antoni] I love how you have so many photos of everybody. 188 00:08:32,512 --> 00:08:34,055 [Ernest] Miranda put it all up there. 189 00:08:34,138 --> 00:08:37,058 Yes and yes and yes and yes. 190 00:08:37,642 --> 00:08:39,227 This is a bedroom or an office? 191 00:08:39,810 --> 00:08:41,604 -[Ernest] I use it to study. -[Bobby] Okay. 192 00:08:41,687 --> 00:08:43,773 [Ernest] But that was Dominique and Ariel's room. 193 00:08:44,273 --> 00:08:45,733 [Jonathan] Oh my God. 194 00:08:45,816 --> 00:08:47,485 [Bobby] Where is your and Miranda's bedroom? 195 00:08:47,568 --> 00:08:49,904 -In the front. -Okay. Let's check that out. 196 00:08:49,987 --> 00:08:51,072 Lead the way. 197 00:08:51,155 --> 00:08:53,449 Where does the magic happen? 198 00:08:53,533 --> 00:08:55,993 -[Antoni] Tanny, look. -[Tan gasps] I love those. 199 00:08:56,077 --> 00:08:58,329 -[Bobby] Oh! She likes some shoes. -Whoa. 200 00:08:59,914 --> 00:09:01,499 She loves a shoe. 201 00:09:04,460 --> 00:09:06,504 Okay, I'm not mad at a bomber jacket. 202 00:09:06,587 --> 00:09:08,047 That's not bad at all. 203 00:09:08,130 --> 00:09:09,382 These are in. 204 00:09:09,465 --> 00:09:10,967 [Karamo] Did you see the blue tape? 205 00:09:11,050 --> 00:09:12,426 -[Antoni] Oh. -Oh, that's… 206 00:09:13,010 --> 00:09:14,428 Vintage. 207 00:09:14,929 --> 00:09:17,640 -[Bobby grunts] -Did it work? Did you get it? 208 00:09:17,723 --> 00:09:19,850 -Be careful. -He's pretty light. 209 00:09:19,934 --> 00:09:21,435 [Bobby] Wait! I'm gonna fall! 210 00:09:21,519 --> 00:09:23,688 -Oh God! -[laughs] 211 00:09:24,689 --> 00:09:28,192 Are you a doctor, nurse, or do you work in a hospital? 212 00:09:28,276 --> 00:09:29,402 No. It's comfortable. 213 00:09:29,485 --> 00:09:32,822 You can't find anything that you like more that's comfortable? 214 00:09:32,905 --> 00:09:35,157 -Whatever. -I wanna help. 215 00:09:35,241 --> 00:09:38,244 I'll help. Okay, tell me what Miranda thinks of what you wear. 216 00:09:38,327 --> 00:09:40,162 She likes me to dress up, well-groomed. 217 00:09:40,246 --> 00:09:41,872 -Okay. -[Ernest] I'm comfortable like this. 218 00:09:41,956 --> 00:09:43,791 -You know, it don't matter to me. -[Tan] No. 219 00:09:43,874 --> 00:09:44,959 -[Ernest] Yeah. -No. 220 00:09:45,042 --> 00:09:48,170 Sometimes you have to consider the other person in a marriage. 221 00:09:48,254 --> 00:09:50,131 We'll figure out the Miranda component later. 222 00:09:50,214 --> 00:09:53,676 So, first off, how is this less comfortable than that? 223 00:09:53,759 --> 00:09:56,512 -That's very comfortable. -Why are you in that and not this? 224 00:09:56,596 --> 00:09:59,432 I'm in the man cave, "Oh, there it is." I put it on. 225 00:09:59,515 --> 00:10:02,435 Okay. When you're not in the man cave, what are you wearing? 226 00:10:02,518 --> 00:10:05,146 -Probably jeans because I got-- -Show me. 227 00:10:05,646 --> 00:10:08,316 Nothing here. Yeah, this is pretty much dress clothes. 228 00:10:08,399 --> 00:10:09,859 The rest of your clothes are? 229 00:10:10,943 --> 00:10:13,779 This closet is only for formal wear. 230 00:10:13,863 --> 00:10:15,823 The rest of the clothes are where? 231 00:10:17,074 --> 00:10:17,908 -So… -[Ernest] Socks. 232 00:10:17,992 --> 00:10:19,118 -[Tan] Socks. -As you can see. 233 00:10:19,201 --> 00:10:20,578 T-shirts. 234 00:10:20,661 --> 00:10:22,580 I've lived almost 40 years. 235 00:10:22,663 --> 00:10:28,085 I've never seen someone use a filing cabinet as a set of drawers. 236 00:10:28,169 --> 00:10:31,589 This is mostly your actual day-to-day wear in here. 237 00:10:31,672 --> 00:10:33,591 Right. Now, you see, the… 238 00:10:33,674 --> 00:10:37,428 The waist was too big, so I put a cable tie on it, you know, 239 00:10:37,511 --> 00:10:38,638 instead of a belt. 240 00:10:38,721 --> 00:10:41,015 A cable tie works pretty good, so I zip tie it. 241 00:10:41,098 --> 00:10:41,932 No. 242 00:10:44,018 --> 00:10:46,520 -No. No one's gonna take you seriously. -[laughs] 243 00:10:46,604 --> 00:10:48,272 [Tan] This is all underwear? 244 00:10:48,356 --> 00:10:50,858 You keep your underwear clean? No holes? That's not… 245 00:10:50,941 --> 00:10:52,485 It's practically a thong! 246 00:10:52,568 --> 00:10:54,195 That's a really loose thong. 247 00:10:54,278 --> 00:10:56,447 -This can never happen again. -Right. 248 00:10:56,530 --> 00:10:58,074 Miranda's not interested in this. 249 00:10:59,075 --> 00:11:00,117 No, ma'am. 250 00:11:00,201 --> 00:11:01,661 And then talk to me about suspenders. 251 00:11:01,744 --> 00:11:04,080 You know, I wear suspenders because it's functional 252 00:11:04,163 --> 00:11:05,873 and because I like to be unique. 253 00:11:05,956 --> 00:11:07,958 So you do care about what people think! 254 00:11:08,042 --> 00:11:10,461 -Pretty much, yeah. -And yet you're still in scrubs. 255 00:11:10,544 --> 00:11:12,088 -[Ernest] Right. -We'll figure it out. 256 00:11:12,171 --> 00:11:13,422 All right. Good deal. 257 00:11:13,506 --> 00:11:17,510 Ooh, someone's got expensive taste. 258 00:11:17,593 --> 00:11:18,719 [Bobby] Speaking of pictures… 259 00:11:18,803 --> 00:11:21,514 -[Jonathan] Ooh, Let me see. -There's Miranda. 260 00:11:21,597 --> 00:11:23,683 [Jonathan] I love her Farrah Fawcett hair. 261 00:11:23,766 --> 00:11:26,644 Oh my God! That's a picture of them on their wedding. 262 00:11:26,727 --> 00:11:29,730 -[Karamo] There we go. -[Jonathan] Such young and crazy kids. 263 00:11:29,814 --> 00:11:30,856 [Karamo] They're beautiful. 264 00:11:30,940 --> 00:11:32,775 I'm gonna hold onto this photo. 265 00:11:33,359 --> 00:11:35,403 [Bobby] Some chipping paint in the living room. 266 00:11:35,486 --> 00:11:36,821 [upbeat music playing] 267 00:11:36,904 --> 00:11:37,738 Huh. 268 00:11:37,822 --> 00:11:40,241 [Bobby] One of the things that I noticed about the home 269 00:11:40,324 --> 00:11:44,036 is it feels like they've kind of given up on it. 270 00:11:45,162 --> 00:11:48,374 Just like their relationship, they've let the home grow stale. 271 00:11:48,457 --> 00:11:51,085 Oh. Okay. Okay. 272 00:11:51,168 --> 00:11:53,212 [Antoni] Oh, this is beautiful. 273 00:11:53,295 --> 00:11:56,465 -Is this your garden or Miranda's garden? -[Ernest] It's our garden. 274 00:11:56,549 --> 00:11:58,384 -[Antoni] Both of you together. -[Ernest] Yeah. 275 00:11:58,467 --> 00:11:59,969 My gosh, look at that monarch. 276 00:12:00,052 --> 00:12:03,139 [Ernest] Usually, they got about three or five flying around all the time. 277 00:12:03,222 --> 00:12:04,432 [Antoni] Other than the garden, 278 00:12:04,515 --> 00:12:08,769 is there anything else you do together that's special, just for the two of you? 279 00:12:08,853 --> 00:12:11,981 No. You know, like, it needs to start to build back up. 280 00:12:12,064 --> 00:12:14,567 -Yeah. -You know, build that relationship up. 281 00:12:14,650 --> 00:12:17,278 Add the proverbial and the literal spice, if you will. 282 00:12:17,361 --> 00:12:18,571 Yeah, sounds good. [chuckles] 283 00:12:18,654 --> 00:12:20,197 This is called a hammer. 284 00:12:20,906 --> 00:12:22,324 This is called a screwdriver. 285 00:12:22,408 --> 00:12:25,453 When you need to level something, you pull this out, 286 00:12:25,536 --> 00:12:27,329 and it tells you if it's level or not. 287 00:12:27,830 --> 00:12:29,039 You're welcome. 288 00:12:29,123 --> 00:12:31,417 -[Antoni] These are snap beans. -[Ernest] Yes. They're good. 289 00:12:31,500 --> 00:12:33,294 Really good. They have a nice sweetness. 290 00:12:33,377 --> 00:12:35,296 Ooh, those look like hotter peppers, right? 291 00:12:35,379 --> 00:12:37,631 [Ernest] Yeah. Miranda likes spicy food. 292 00:12:37,715 --> 00:12:39,592 [Antoni] What's her favorite type of protein? 293 00:12:39,675 --> 00:12:40,801 Fish. 294 00:12:40,885 --> 00:12:43,763 Wouldn't it be nice to make something for her and blow her socks off? 295 00:12:43,846 --> 00:12:46,265 Yeah. Yeah. Fantastic. 296 00:12:46,348 --> 00:12:48,976 You failed the last time we did this. Can you do it? 297 00:12:49,059 --> 00:12:51,145 -I can, but not with this pressure. -Okay, go. 298 00:12:52,104 --> 00:12:53,105 No. No. 299 00:12:53,189 --> 00:12:55,357 -No! -It's just falling down your body. 300 00:12:55,441 --> 00:12:56,317 [sobs] 301 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:57,777 Don't fail again. Get it. No. 302 00:12:57,860 --> 00:12:58,694 Hold on. Hold on. 303 00:12:58,778 --> 00:13:00,362 -Better! -[Bobby] She got better! 304 00:13:00,446 --> 00:13:02,740 [cheering] 305 00:13:02,823 --> 00:13:05,993 -Yeah! Yay, Jackie! -[Jonathan] Yes! Yes! 306 00:13:06,076 --> 00:13:08,746 Get out of my face. You saw it! 307 00:13:09,747 --> 00:13:10,998 [Karamo] You know how to twerk? 308 00:13:11,081 --> 00:13:12,917 Oh! Oh! 309 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:15,628 Yeah! [chuckles] 310 00:13:15,711 --> 00:13:18,464 -I can tell you're a good time. -If you say it's good. 311 00:13:18,547 --> 00:13:19,465 I don't know. 312 00:13:19,548 --> 00:13:22,510 [Karamo] You might have to teach me. I don't know nothing about cars. 313 00:13:22,593 --> 00:13:25,054 This is fantastic because when I'm driving by myself, 314 00:13:25,137 --> 00:13:28,307 you know, like, about ten cars that pass gonna honk their horn 315 00:13:28,390 --> 00:13:30,267 or you know, give me a thing, you know? 316 00:13:30,351 --> 00:13:34,146 When you're driving your car, do you ever wish Miranda was next to you? 317 00:13:34,230 --> 00:13:36,690 Yes, but she says it's too loud. 318 00:13:36,774 --> 00:13:40,152 When you're here in the garage, she doesn't like to come out here. 319 00:13:40,236 --> 00:13:46,325 No. We don't do a lot of things together because we've been married 39 years. 320 00:13:46,408 --> 00:13:49,662 You know, like, and it started out good, you know, 321 00:13:49,745 --> 00:13:51,163 but now it's on… you know. 322 00:13:51,247 --> 00:13:53,624 I guess it's just life. 323 00:13:53,707 --> 00:13:56,085 Do you think Miranda is happy in your marriage? 324 00:13:57,336 --> 00:13:58,546 I would say no. 325 00:14:00,005 --> 00:14:03,092 -How does that make you feel? -It makes me feel down. 326 00:14:03,175 --> 00:14:04,677 Do you feel like it's your fault? 327 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:06,387 Well, I think it's a combination. 328 00:14:06,470 --> 00:14:08,681 It's a com… It's not all on me. 329 00:14:08,764 --> 00:14:10,015 It's not all on her. 330 00:14:10,099 --> 00:14:13,394 I want us to get back together, but, you know, like, whatever, you know? 331 00:14:13,477 --> 00:14:16,981 When we start to say the "whatever," that's sort of a defense mechanism. 332 00:14:17,064 --> 00:14:18,023 [sighs] 333 00:14:18,107 --> 00:14:20,776 -I can tell you do love your wife. -Yeah. 334 00:14:20,860 --> 00:14:24,029 It's okay to say, "I want my relationship to be strong with my wife." 335 00:14:24,113 --> 00:14:26,615 I want my relationship to be strong with my wife. 336 00:14:26,699 --> 00:14:28,409 Yes, I do. I truly do. 337 00:14:28,492 --> 00:14:30,786 -Well, then, brother, I can help you. -[Ernest] Yes, sir. 338 00:14:31,787 --> 00:14:32,788 Appreciate it, man. 339 00:14:32,872 --> 00:14:34,874 [upbeat music playing] 340 00:14:35,749 --> 00:14:37,585 -[Karamo] Baby? -[Jonathan] I hear someone. 341 00:14:37,668 --> 00:14:38,794 I have someone. 342 00:14:38,878 --> 00:14:41,130 Get on in this gorgeous bathroom, honey. 343 00:14:41,213 --> 00:14:42,798 Have fun, Ernest. 344 00:14:42,882 --> 00:14:45,217 [Jonathan] So, tell me, Ernest. You wake up topless, 345 00:14:45,301 --> 00:14:46,802 and then what happens? 346 00:14:46,886 --> 00:14:48,429 -[Ernest] Do it like this. -Oh shit. 347 00:14:50,180 --> 00:14:51,181 [gasps] 348 00:14:51,265 --> 00:14:53,434 A bubble pony on a beard? 349 00:14:54,393 --> 00:14:56,645 This straight man has style. 350 00:14:56,729 --> 00:14:58,230 Let's take it up a notch. 351 00:14:59,023 --> 00:15:00,983 I've had it, seeing this unbraided beard. 352 00:15:01,066 --> 00:15:02,902 -Was it a pandemic beard? -[Ernest] Right. 353 00:15:02,985 --> 00:15:04,069 You braiding it? 354 00:15:04,153 --> 00:15:07,072 How's Miranda gonna be able to turn you down with this braid? 355 00:15:07,156 --> 00:15:08,198 I hope she don't. 356 00:15:08,282 --> 00:15:09,909 My job here is done. 357 00:15:09,992 --> 00:15:11,827 Take your hat off, please. 358 00:15:11,911 --> 00:15:13,829 Still kind of bushy, though, you know? 359 00:15:15,289 --> 00:15:21,712 Ernest is giving skullet, which is a skull, no hair, with mullet in the back. 360 00:15:22,463 --> 00:15:25,049 -Ever had extensions in your mullet? -No. 361 00:15:25,132 --> 00:15:28,552 I'm gonna do waist-length extensions. You can be a straight man's Cher. 362 00:15:28,636 --> 00:15:29,887 We could try it out. 363 00:15:29,970 --> 00:15:32,306 [Jonathan] And while he's a really gorgeous man, 364 00:15:32,389 --> 00:15:34,099 there's a lot of look going on here, 365 00:15:34,183 --> 00:15:38,228 and I know that, between Tan and I, we can preserve a unique style 366 00:15:38,312 --> 00:15:43,651 without having, like, a full beard-skullet-mullet. 367 00:15:44,151 --> 00:15:49,156 When's the last time you got up and said, "Ernest, you're looking good today"? 368 00:15:49,239 --> 00:15:50,616 [laughs] 369 00:15:51,492 --> 00:15:53,327 -This makes me sad. -That's definitely a joint. 370 00:15:53,410 --> 00:15:55,204 [Bobby] Oh, is that the head? No. 371 00:15:55,287 --> 00:15:56,664 Your daddy had us try raccoon. 372 00:15:56,747 --> 00:15:58,040 -You're joking. -I couldn't. 373 00:15:58,123 --> 00:15:59,792 Aren't you remotely curious? 374 00:15:59,875 --> 00:16:02,044 No, I'm not. They're like little pets. 375 00:16:02,127 --> 00:16:04,213 -[Ariel] Hey. -Ariel and Miranda. 376 00:16:04,296 --> 00:16:06,590 -Very nice to meet you. -It's so nice to meet you. 377 00:16:06,674 --> 00:16:08,092 -Bobby. -Nice to meet you. 378 00:16:08,175 --> 00:16:09,802 -Very nice… -Fellow food lover. 379 00:16:09,885 --> 00:16:11,845 Oh yes. Thank you. 380 00:16:11,929 --> 00:16:14,765 -How do you feel about the raccoon? -I'm not that hungry. 381 00:16:14,848 --> 00:16:16,475 "I'm not that hungry." 382 00:16:16,558 --> 00:16:17,643 [laughs] 383 00:16:17,726 --> 00:16:19,728 [Antoni] So you're gonna show us the butterflies? 384 00:16:19,812 --> 00:16:25,234 I have been raising monarchs for over 25 years. 385 00:16:25,317 --> 00:16:26,360 -So… -[Antoni] Whoa! 386 00:16:26,443 --> 00:16:28,946 [Karamo] So with all the things that you do with the butterflies, 387 00:16:29,029 --> 00:16:31,073 are there things you wish you and Ernest did together? 388 00:16:31,156 --> 00:16:33,575 -'Cause you're a young, vibrant woman. -Yeah! 389 00:16:33,659 --> 00:16:35,577 We used to have date nights. You know-- 390 00:16:35,661 --> 00:16:37,997 -[Karamo] What kind of date nights? -Um, just dinner. 391 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:42,418 Like, for our anniversary, Ernest had a big splash of a date for us. 392 00:16:42,501 --> 00:16:44,712 -Where did he take you? -Burger King! 393 00:16:44,795 --> 00:16:47,131 -We went to Burger King! -Oh, wow! 394 00:16:47,214 --> 00:16:48,090 [Miranda] Yes, we… 395 00:16:48,173 --> 00:16:49,341 [Antoni] Were you in shock? 396 00:16:49,425 --> 00:16:50,676 -No. -[laughs] 397 00:16:50,759 --> 00:16:54,221 Uncle Karamo gonna let you know, fail, fail, fail. 398 00:16:54,304 --> 00:16:57,808 Fast-food restaurants are not anniversary dates. 399 00:16:57,891 --> 00:17:01,687 What do you hope will be different about your father or the situation? 400 00:17:01,770 --> 00:17:03,731 I think there's sometimes a miscommunication 401 00:17:03,814 --> 00:17:07,109 between, like, what my mom needs and, like, what he can give her, um, 402 00:17:07,192 --> 00:17:08,819 so I just hope, like, at the end, 403 00:17:08,902 --> 00:17:11,989 it could be, like, a reset for their, like, relationship. 404 00:17:12,072 --> 00:17:14,366 And the outside just needs a little bit of work. 405 00:17:14,450 --> 00:17:18,370 -[Tan] What are you talking about? -Now he's no longer performing surgeries. 406 00:17:18,454 --> 00:17:20,372 -Yes. -Let's get going. 407 00:17:20,456 --> 00:17:23,292 -Do I have to get my suitcase? -No. No. You just coming with us. 408 00:17:23,375 --> 00:17:25,502 -Bye! -Bye! 409 00:17:25,586 --> 00:17:26,670 [Ariel] Bye, Dad! 410 00:17:26,754 --> 00:17:29,465 They have their hands completely full. 411 00:17:30,049 --> 00:17:31,550 [Ernest] Oh, man, this is amazing. 412 00:17:31,633 --> 00:17:33,218 [upbeat music playing] 413 00:17:38,807 --> 00:17:41,769 I'm ready to figure out how we can help Ernest show up in his marriage 414 00:17:41,852 --> 00:17:43,604 the way he shows up for his car, 415 00:17:43,687 --> 00:17:46,523 which is consistent, very lovingly, 416 00:17:46,607 --> 00:17:48,484 and with so much interest. 417 00:17:48,567 --> 00:17:53,572 If Ernest wants to really woo Miranda after 39 years, 418 00:17:53,655 --> 00:17:55,824 he needs a little bit of refinement. 419 00:17:55,908 --> 00:17:56,950 He's a gentleman. 420 00:17:57,034 --> 00:17:59,328 I want him to look like a gentleman. 421 00:17:59,411 --> 00:18:02,623 This is an opportunity for him to step out of his comfort zone a little 422 00:18:02,706 --> 00:18:04,708 and show up for his wife, Miranda, 423 00:18:04,792 --> 00:18:07,211 to think about the things that make her excited. 424 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,005 [Karamo] They spent their time raising their daughters, 425 00:18:10,089 --> 00:18:11,215 and that was beautiful, 426 00:18:11,298 --> 00:18:13,342 but now the girls are grown and out the house, 427 00:18:13,425 --> 00:18:17,221 and it's time for them to reconnect and to get on the same page. 428 00:18:17,304 --> 00:18:21,433 Their bedroom, it's the farthest point on the property from the garage. 429 00:18:21,517 --> 00:18:25,395 They have this great-sized home that used to be filled with two kids, 430 00:18:25,479 --> 00:18:27,689 but now it's just the two of them, 431 00:18:27,773 --> 00:18:30,150 so I'm gonna move some things around. 432 00:18:31,693 --> 00:18:34,613 ♪ My heart is so pumping ♪ 433 00:18:34,696 --> 00:18:37,783 ♪ Pumping harder than ever before ♪ 434 00:18:37,866 --> 00:18:40,661 [Antoni] I love these trams that you have in the city. 435 00:18:40,744 --> 00:18:42,955 So there are green ones and red ones, right? 436 00:18:43,038 --> 00:18:43,914 [Ernest] Yeah. 437 00:18:45,249 --> 00:18:46,792 In the kitchen? 438 00:18:46,875 --> 00:18:48,210 In the kitchen! 439 00:18:48,293 --> 00:18:51,296 -We're gonna make a nice meal for Miranda. -Okay. Okay. 440 00:18:51,380 --> 00:18:53,173 -By we, I mean you. -Yeah, all right. 441 00:18:53,257 --> 00:18:55,551 -[Antoni] I'm gonna teach you. -Our anniversary is Saturday. 442 00:18:55,634 --> 00:18:57,344 -Yes! -Thirty-nine years. 443 00:18:57,427 --> 00:18:58,804 Thirty-nine years! 444 00:18:58,887 --> 00:19:00,013 [Ernest] Fantastic, man. 445 00:19:00,097 --> 00:19:04,518 For something like an anniversary, it's, like, the pinnacle of romanticism. 446 00:19:04,601 --> 00:19:08,397 If there's one thing you need to know about me, I'm a hopeless romantic, 447 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,567 and nothing makes me more excited than romance. 448 00:19:11,650 --> 00:19:13,026 So I want you to lean into that. 449 00:19:13,110 --> 00:19:16,321 But Miranda is more communicative. See, I'm bad in English, man. 450 00:19:16,405 --> 00:19:19,741 You know, I just communicate to just satisfy people, you know? 451 00:19:19,825 --> 00:19:21,243 Like, I do whatever I can. 452 00:19:21,326 --> 00:19:23,078 We all communicate in different ways. 453 00:19:23,162 --> 00:19:24,454 -Yeah. [chuckles] -[Antoni] Yeah. 454 00:19:24,538 --> 00:19:26,206 -We're gonna figure it out. -Yeah, okay. 455 00:19:26,290 --> 00:19:28,709 You're gonna make the perfect meal for Miranda. 456 00:19:28,792 --> 00:19:30,127 When she's tasting the food, 457 00:19:30,210 --> 00:19:33,297 she's gonna know you were thinking about her when you were making it. 458 00:19:33,380 --> 00:19:34,715 -Isn't that romantic? -Yeah. 459 00:19:34,798 --> 00:19:35,883 -[Antoni] Are you down? -Yes. 460 00:19:35,966 --> 00:19:37,009 [Antoni] Let's get started. 461 00:19:37,968 --> 00:19:40,345 We literally picked these from your garden. These are yours. 462 00:19:40,429 --> 00:19:42,222 I'm gonna actually put you to work right away. 463 00:19:42,306 --> 00:19:43,891 -Want me to clean 'em? -[Antoni] You know. 464 00:19:43,974 --> 00:19:47,102 So we call this blanching, when we throw the vegetable into the water 465 00:19:47,186 --> 00:19:48,937 so that it softens a little. 466 00:19:49,021 --> 00:19:50,272 -We're gonna take these… -Shoop! 467 00:19:50,355 --> 00:19:51,190 Shoop! 468 00:19:51,273 --> 00:19:53,358 -So we're just gonna mix 'em around. -[Ernest] Yes. 469 00:19:53,442 --> 00:19:55,485 Soften them up for about a minute or so. 470 00:19:55,569 --> 00:19:57,696 So Ernest definitely isn't a picky eater. 471 00:19:57,779 --> 00:20:01,700 I mean, the man enjoys raccoon voluntarily. 472 00:20:01,783 --> 00:20:04,578 It's more about having him lean into things 473 00:20:04,661 --> 00:20:06,830 that aren't just dishes that he likes. 474 00:20:06,914 --> 00:20:09,082 It's an opportunity to think about his wife. 475 00:20:09,166 --> 00:20:10,459 Put 'em in the ice bath. 476 00:20:11,251 --> 00:20:13,295 -So that it stops it from cooking. -[Ernest] Yeah. 477 00:20:13,378 --> 00:20:15,714 Look how they're still really nice and beautiful and bright. 478 00:20:15,797 --> 00:20:18,634 -[Ernest] I never knew that. -I got beautiful king salmon. 479 00:20:18,717 --> 00:20:20,719 It's really nice and lean with the skin on. 480 00:20:20,802 --> 00:20:22,679 I know you're more accustomed to grilling, 481 00:20:22,763 --> 00:20:25,015 but I'm gonna teach you how to make it on a pan 482 00:20:25,098 --> 00:20:27,392 so the skin can be nice and crispy. Are you down with that? 483 00:20:27,476 --> 00:20:29,686 -Yes. -I'm actually gonna bring this over here. 484 00:20:29,770 --> 00:20:34,524 So olive oil in one pan and then sesame oil for the snap beans. 485 00:20:34,608 --> 00:20:36,735 So these are gonna heat up pretty quickly. 486 00:20:36,818 --> 00:20:39,363 I'm gonna season the salmon very simply. 487 00:20:39,446 --> 00:20:41,240 -Just a little bit of salt. -Okay. 488 00:20:41,323 --> 00:20:44,076 [Antoni] First thing I'm gonna put in is our onions. 489 00:20:44,159 --> 00:20:47,704 We're gonna grab our peppers, just for a little bit of sweetness. 490 00:20:47,788 --> 00:20:50,082 So I'm gonna ask you to mix those around a little. 491 00:20:50,916 --> 00:20:53,126 Get you a towel in case you need to use it. 492 00:20:53,210 --> 00:20:54,378 Yes, sir. 493 00:20:54,461 --> 00:20:56,880 So I'm gonna go ahead and put these skin-side down. 494 00:20:57,381 --> 00:20:58,757 Pan needs to be nice and hot. 495 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,885 If you put that fish on a cold pan, the skin is gonna stick to it, 496 00:21:01,969 --> 00:21:03,303 and it's gonna fall apart. 497 00:21:03,387 --> 00:21:07,015 And then I'm gonna put in a bit of garlic and a bit of ginger. 498 00:21:07,099 --> 00:21:10,102 [vocalizing] 499 00:21:10,185 --> 00:21:11,937 [Antoni] Now we can mix everything together. 500 00:21:13,605 --> 00:21:14,439 Perfect. 501 00:21:15,023 --> 00:21:17,734 We can go ahead and put our soy in there, our tamari soy. 502 00:21:17,818 --> 00:21:18,735 [Ernest] All of it? 503 00:21:18,819 --> 00:21:21,029 Yep. This is gonna be our salt component. 504 00:21:21,113 --> 00:21:23,448 I know that you have dishes that you make 505 00:21:23,532 --> 00:21:26,201 that are, like, very you and where you come from. 506 00:21:26,285 --> 00:21:28,996 I just wanna make it clear, I don't want to change any of that, 507 00:21:29,079 --> 00:21:30,998 but I think romance is, like, 508 00:21:31,081 --> 00:21:33,500 if I'm making food and I'm thinking about my partner… 509 00:21:33,583 --> 00:21:34,418 Yeah. 510 00:21:34,501 --> 00:21:36,878 …and what he wants to have, that's what makes it special. 511 00:21:36,962 --> 00:21:39,840 That's what I want Miranda to feel when you're cooking for her. 512 00:21:39,923 --> 00:21:40,757 Oh yeah. 513 00:21:40,841 --> 00:21:43,677 You're gonna take this brush, and we're just gonna lightly glaze it 514 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,972 with this cumin, agave, and tamarind glaze. 515 00:21:47,055 --> 00:21:47,889 [Ernest] Fantastic. 516 00:21:47,973 --> 00:21:50,559 [Antoni] This is gonna caramelize and add a sweetness to it. 517 00:21:53,186 --> 00:21:55,647 Our last step here, we have our herb situation. 518 00:21:55,731 --> 00:21:57,858 Know how to squeeze a lemon so the seeds stay in? 519 00:21:57,941 --> 00:22:00,235 The seeds, it don't make no difference to me. 520 00:22:00,319 --> 00:22:03,488 -I chew on them. -Maybe it makes a difference to Miranda. 521 00:22:03,572 --> 00:22:06,116 I'm gonna squeeze it like this, then the juice comes out, 522 00:22:06,199 --> 00:22:09,161 but the seeds, in theory, should stay in. 523 00:22:09,244 --> 00:22:11,204 Let's start out with a bit of beans. 524 00:22:11,288 --> 00:22:13,707 And then, salmon right on top. 525 00:22:14,499 --> 00:22:16,626 Put a little bit of these herbs on top here. 526 00:22:16,710 --> 00:22:17,794 Put some herbs on yours. 527 00:22:17,878 --> 00:22:19,171 You're just dumping 'em on. 528 00:22:20,464 --> 00:22:21,631 So we have our plates. 529 00:22:21,715 --> 00:22:23,258 Hey, you got skin. 530 00:22:23,342 --> 00:22:24,885 You can have some. Here, take it. 531 00:22:24,968 --> 00:22:26,803 -My dad'll eat any skin. -Same here. 532 00:22:26,887 --> 00:22:29,806 -Very good. -What's better than crunchy salmon skin? 533 00:22:29,890 --> 00:22:30,807 Come with me. 534 00:22:31,558 --> 00:22:35,729 Hopefully I set up Ernest for success so that no mistakes are made 535 00:22:35,812 --> 00:22:38,523 and so that he's ready to blow Miranda's pants off. 536 00:22:38,607 --> 00:22:40,025 Not literally… but maybe. 537 00:22:40,817 --> 00:22:42,736 -How are the beans? -Fresh. 538 00:22:42,819 --> 00:22:44,446 My favorite part is the salmon. 539 00:22:44,529 --> 00:22:47,949 So now your favorite fish is also Miranda's favorite fish? 540 00:22:48,033 --> 00:22:48,867 No. 541 00:22:48,950 --> 00:22:52,829 I'll eat it, like, 'cause it's good, but that's not my favorite fish. You know? 542 00:22:52,913 --> 00:22:55,207 Is this something you think you'll be able to make? 543 00:22:55,290 --> 00:22:56,583 Oh yeah. 544 00:22:56,666 --> 00:22:58,668 -I want you in that kitchen. -Oh man, yeah. 545 00:22:58,752 --> 00:23:03,131 I want you sautéing the beans, patting dry the salmon, 546 00:23:03,215 --> 00:23:07,010 and she's, like, "That's my husband of 39 years!" 547 00:23:07,094 --> 00:23:08,595 She'll get a big kick out of that. 548 00:23:08,678 --> 00:23:10,263 Tell me about the setting. 549 00:23:10,347 --> 00:23:11,973 You know, like, I could set up… 550 00:23:12,057 --> 00:23:14,351 -I got a piece of plywood. -Yep. 551 00:23:14,434 --> 00:23:16,895 You know, put it on two buckets, that's a table. 552 00:23:16,978 --> 00:23:20,315 Maybe a white tablecloth over that just to make it a little more elegant. 553 00:23:20,399 --> 00:23:22,192 -Right. -Where are you gonna enjoy this? 554 00:23:22,275 --> 00:23:23,402 Somewhere in between. 555 00:23:23,485 --> 00:23:26,363 Her kitchen is her place, my man cave is my place, 556 00:23:26,446 --> 00:23:28,615 so it'd be in the middle, for both of us. 557 00:23:28,698 --> 00:23:30,075 What do we call that? 558 00:23:30,158 --> 00:23:31,701 Compromise! 559 00:23:31,785 --> 00:23:33,370 -That's a good word. -I love that. 560 00:23:33,453 --> 00:23:34,579 Fantastic. 561 00:23:34,663 --> 00:23:37,749 ♪ Friend, don't come on a Saturday night ♪ 562 00:23:37,833 --> 00:23:39,876 ♪ Looking for a place to go ♪ 563 00:23:40,460 --> 00:23:43,713 ♪ Huh, fun, fun, fun Till the morning light ♪ 564 00:23:43,797 --> 00:23:46,341 It's obvious that Miranda loves family photos, 565 00:23:46,425 --> 00:23:49,678 so I wanna do this really cool gallery wall. 566 00:23:49,761 --> 00:23:52,431 Thirty-nine photos for 39 years. 567 00:23:52,514 --> 00:23:55,517 ♪ And ooh ♪ 568 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,061 ♪ She was standing right in front of me… ♪ 569 00:23:58,645 --> 00:24:01,815 Thank you for joining me today. You have no idea what we are doing. 570 00:24:01,898 --> 00:24:04,067 [Miranda] No, we don't, but thank you for having us. 571 00:24:06,194 --> 00:24:08,155 [Karamo] What do you think your lady would like? 572 00:24:08,238 --> 00:24:10,907 -I have no idea. -39 years, you gotta have a little idea. 573 00:24:11,616 --> 00:24:14,911 It breaks my heart to hear that Ernest knows his wife is unhappy, 574 00:24:14,995 --> 00:24:16,538 but he doesn't know what to do about it. 575 00:24:16,621 --> 00:24:18,957 -[Ernest] Look what I got for you. -Well, thank you. 576 00:24:21,418 --> 00:24:25,547 Ariel, she said that she doesn't like where your relationship is right now. 577 00:24:25,630 --> 00:24:26,590 Yeah. 578 00:24:27,299 --> 00:24:32,304 When we talked, I asked Ernest, does he think you're happy? 579 00:24:33,221 --> 00:24:35,265 -And he said, "No." -Right. 580 00:24:35,974 --> 00:24:37,684 [Karamo] Are you happy in your marriage? 581 00:24:38,477 --> 00:24:40,479 [emotional music playing] 582 00:24:43,857 --> 00:24:46,443 I don't feel seen or heard. 583 00:24:46,526 --> 00:24:47,861 Why don't you feel seen? 584 00:24:47,944 --> 00:24:51,239 Because I have made an effort 585 00:24:52,032 --> 00:24:57,287 to get you to see the importance that I give to things. 586 00:24:57,370 --> 00:24:59,414 And when that stopped working, 587 00:24:59,498 --> 00:25:04,377 then I gave up on trying to appeal to you 588 00:25:04,461 --> 00:25:06,671 to see how it made me feel. 589 00:25:06,755 --> 00:25:07,631 Right. 590 00:25:09,090 --> 00:25:10,717 But, you see, like, for me, you know, 591 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:14,221 like 90% of the things you ask me to do, I always do. 592 00:25:14,304 --> 00:25:16,181 -[Miranda] You're ver-- -I'll take care of it. 593 00:25:16,264 --> 00:25:18,934 That's true. You're very task-oriented. 594 00:25:19,017 --> 00:25:19,935 Yes. 595 00:25:20,018 --> 00:25:23,647 Somehow, in relationships, we always get to this place where we think doing this… 596 00:25:23,730 --> 00:25:25,148 [scoffs] 597 00:25:25,232 --> 00:25:27,484 …is better than actually leaning in. 598 00:25:27,567 --> 00:25:28,401 Yeah. 599 00:25:28,485 --> 00:25:31,279 When you give up trying, you're giving up the relationship. 600 00:25:31,363 --> 00:25:33,406 And I don't think you wanna give up that relationship. 601 00:25:33,490 --> 00:25:34,699 No. I don't. 602 00:25:35,534 --> 00:25:37,911 Well, what's… what's… what's the key? 603 00:25:37,994 --> 00:25:39,412 What's the answer? 604 00:25:39,496 --> 00:25:41,248 You ever heard of the five love languages? 605 00:25:41,331 --> 00:25:45,252 So the five ways that we need to feel loved in our relationships. 606 00:25:45,335 --> 00:25:48,088 So, for instance, there's words of affirmation. 607 00:25:48,171 --> 00:25:51,800 So some people like to wake up and be like, "Girl, you fine." 608 00:25:51,883 --> 00:25:53,760 There's also quality time, 609 00:25:53,843 --> 00:25:55,262 receiving gifts, 610 00:25:55,345 --> 00:25:56,471 physical touch, 611 00:25:56,555 --> 00:26:00,684 and then there's acts of service. "You need that done? I'll do it for you." 612 00:26:00,767 --> 00:26:03,019 Is acts of service the way you need to be loved? 613 00:26:03,103 --> 00:26:04,396 That's not it. 614 00:26:04,980 --> 00:26:06,690 [Karamo] So this entire time, 615 00:26:07,274 --> 00:26:09,568 you think, by doing this chore, 616 00:26:09,651 --> 00:26:12,904 that you're showing her, "Look, I'm still here, baby. I'm trying." 617 00:26:12,988 --> 00:26:15,365 -Acts of service are great, Ernest. -Yes. 618 00:26:15,448 --> 00:26:17,993 [Karamo] But Miranda is saying she needs something else. 619 00:26:18,076 --> 00:26:19,035 Right. 620 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:20,579 And what do you need? 621 00:26:20,662 --> 00:26:22,706 Quality time and a lot of touch. 622 00:26:23,290 --> 00:26:25,792 Do you feel like you get quality time and touch? 623 00:26:25,875 --> 00:26:29,004 Uh, you know, recently, no, it wasn't like that. 624 00:26:31,298 --> 00:26:32,257 Used to be. 625 00:26:32,340 --> 00:26:33,466 What do you need? 626 00:26:33,550 --> 00:26:36,052 I need quality time. 627 00:26:36,636 --> 00:26:39,723 I do need touch and affirmation. 628 00:26:40,223 --> 00:26:41,474 -Words. -Well-- 629 00:26:41,558 --> 00:26:43,977 I know the communication is difficult. 630 00:26:44,811 --> 00:26:46,438 The words, I'm not good with words. 631 00:26:46,521 --> 00:26:50,817 I just need you to let me know that you need me, 632 00:26:51,401 --> 00:26:54,779 because your independence is sometimes very lonely. 633 00:26:56,698 --> 00:27:00,827 And I do feel alone in our marriage. 634 00:27:07,042 --> 00:27:07,959 [sighs] 635 00:27:12,005 --> 00:27:14,633 [crying] You know, she's special to me. 636 00:27:17,677 --> 00:27:20,639 And I know, for sure, I could get it back together. 637 00:27:21,556 --> 00:27:23,600 I know, 'cause we special. 638 00:27:27,103 --> 00:27:28,855 Can you say to your wife, "I need you?" 639 00:27:30,231 --> 00:27:31,358 I need you. 640 00:27:36,071 --> 00:27:37,155 I need you too. 641 00:27:39,324 --> 00:27:41,534 Now, on the flip side, because a relationship is two, 642 00:27:42,369 --> 00:27:46,665 he said he needs more quality time and touch. 643 00:27:46,748 --> 00:27:47,749 And you both said that. 644 00:27:48,750 --> 00:27:51,336 When was the last time you all held hands? 645 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,382 -When I was in the hospital? -I didn't even know you remembered that. 646 00:27:55,465 --> 00:27:57,926 -So this is where the actions come in. -Right. 647 00:27:58,009 --> 00:28:00,762 -So I think holding hands is a nice start. -Yeah. 648 00:28:02,389 --> 00:28:03,765 [chuckles] 649 00:28:03,848 --> 00:28:05,600 -You did it on the sly. -[Ernest chuckles] 650 00:28:05,684 --> 00:28:07,102 Let me see them holding hands. 651 00:28:07,185 --> 00:28:09,145 Oh! You sly with it! 652 00:28:09,229 --> 00:28:12,065 I see the player in you now and why you got such a pretty lady. 653 00:28:12,148 --> 00:28:13,525 [Ernest] Oh man. 654 00:28:13,608 --> 00:28:14,484 -Yeah. -I do see it. 655 00:28:15,485 --> 00:28:18,530 This is something that's simple, that even in your busy schedule, 656 00:28:18,613 --> 00:28:20,990 if you can say, "I need you," 657 00:28:21,074 --> 00:28:25,161 and if you can also stop and just hold hands for two minutes, 658 00:28:25,245 --> 00:28:26,663 it's gonna be the first steps 659 00:28:26,746 --> 00:28:30,125 into you communicating the same way in your love languages, 660 00:28:30,208 --> 00:28:31,710 because what's going on right now 661 00:28:31,793 --> 00:28:34,462 is not two people who really don't wanna be in this. 662 00:28:34,546 --> 00:28:37,340 It's two people who just forgot how to be in this. 663 00:28:37,424 --> 00:28:38,550 Yes. 664 00:28:38,633 --> 00:28:40,385 [Karamo] Ernest is so willing. 665 00:28:40,468 --> 00:28:43,263 You can see that he loves his wife and he wants to change, 666 00:28:43,346 --> 00:28:46,933 and that's the first step in reconnecting with someone you love, 667 00:28:47,016 --> 00:28:48,643 that desire to be better. 668 00:28:49,269 --> 00:28:51,229 We were going through a box in your house, 669 00:28:52,147 --> 00:28:53,481 and I saw this. 670 00:28:53,565 --> 00:28:55,650 [laughing] 671 00:28:55,734 --> 00:28:56,901 [Karamo] Do you remember that? 672 00:28:56,985 --> 00:28:58,653 [Miranda] I do remember it, yes. 673 00:28:58,737 --> 00:29:00,280 But I want you to look at that. 674 00:29:00,363 --> 00:29:01,698 [Miranda] Mm-hmm. 675 00:29:01,781 --> 00:29:03,533 [Karamo] Look how close those two were. 676 00:29:04,033 --> 00:29:06,161 Those two people knew they needed each other. 677 00:29:06,244 --> 00:29:08,121 Yeah, man, that's fantastic. 678 00:29:09,205 --> 00:29:10,707 I remember these people. 679 00:29:11,916 --> 00:29:13,042 [Karamo] They're not gone. 680 00:29:14,252 --> 00:29:16,254 [upbeat music playing] 681 00:29:18,131 --> 00:29:20,133 [yodeling] 682 00:29:28,850 --> 00:29:30,727 [Tan] Have you been to Rubensteins before? 683 00:29:30,810 --> 00:29:33,271 Yeah. I think twice in my lifetime. 684 00:29:34,898 --> 00:29:36,483 -After you. -Thank you, sir. 685 00:29:40,403 --> 00:29:43,406 -When was the last time you came shopping? -I couldn't remember. 686 00:29:43,490 --> 00:29:45,074 I think about 30 years. 687 00:29:46,409 --> 00:29:48,703 Like, 30 years since you went into a store? 688 00:29:48,787 --> 00:29:52,081 Yes, 'cause my wife, she would get anything for me. 689 00:29:52,165 --> 00:29:54,375 The end of this week, it's your anniversary. 690 00:29:54,459 --> 00:29:57,170 You're putting together something beautiful, right, Ernest? 691 00:29:57,253 --> 00:29:58,880 What do you think she wants? 692 00:29:58,963 --> 00:30:01,800 What she would like is nice clothes for me to wear 693 00:30:01,883 --> 00:30:03,384 and go out with her, hang out with her. 694 00:30:03,468 --> 00:30:05,386 Have you ever considered blowing her mind? 695 00:30:05,470 --> 00:30:06,971 Not really. 696 00:30:07,055 --> 00:30:10,600 -You've had 39 years to do that. -[chuckles] 697 00:30:10,683 --> 00:30:12,143 -You see where I'm going? -Yeah. Yeah. 698 00:30:12,227 --> 00:30:14,521 Why have you not? Be honest. I just wanna know. 699 00:30:14,604 --> 00:30:18,066 Because it's not in me. You know, like, I'm more of a casual guy. 700 00:30:18,149 --> 00:30:20,318 -You have a wonderful woman. -[Ernest] Yeah, fantastic. 701 00:30:20,401 --> 00:30:23,905 Who has stuck with you for a long time, because you're clearly a wonderful man. 702 00:30:23,988 --> 00:30:25,907 However, I think she's just thinking, 703 00:30:25,990 --> 00:30:28,576 "After all this time, I want my husband to be my husband." 704 00:30:28,660 --> 00:30:30,662 -[Ernest] Right. -"Not the garage's husband." 705 00:30:30,745 --> 00:30:33,581 -Right, truly. -Truly, like, real talk. 706 00:30:33,665 --> 00:30:35,625 I've been letting her down. Really, I have. 707 00:30:35,708 --> 00:30:37,669 [Tan] So I wanna do something for you 708 00:30:37,752 --> 00:30:40,880 where it makes it really clear to your wife you care. 709 00:30:40,964 --> 00:30:43,299 I know you don't wear a lot of formal clothes. 710 00:30:43,383 --> 00:30:45,343 -You don't need to in the garage. -Right. 711 00:30:45,426 --> 00:30:48,221 But, like, for a formal situation, like a wedding reception. 712 00:30:48,304 --> 00:30:49,681 -Or an anniversary? -[Ernest] Yeah. 713 00:30:49,764 --> 00:30:51,808 -[Tan] Maybe you need something for that. -Yeah. 714 00:30:51,891 --> 00:30:55,687 [Tan] So anytime you wanna go for a suit, but you don't wanna feel super fancy, 715 00:30:55,770 --> 00:30:59,399 I would suggest something deconstructed. That means it hasn't got a lining. 716 00:30:59,482 --> 00:31:02,944 It's a little looser, and so you don't feel so restricted. 717 00:31:03,027 --> 00:31:06,322 If you've got, let's say, for example, a T-shirt and a pair of jeans on, 718 00:31:06,406 --> 00:31:08,116 and she wants to go out for dinner, 719 00:31:08,199 --> 00:31:10,368 just throw on a jacket, and you're good to go. 720 00:31:10,451 --> 00:31:13,329 -You don't have to make a major effort. -That'd definitely work. 721 00:31:13,413 --> 00:31:16,040 -[Ernest] Can I see these ones on, please? -[Ernest] Yes. 722 00:31:16,666 --> 00:31:19,210 Love those. Leave them just here. We'll pick them up later. 723 00:31:19,294 --> 00:31:22,297 You did say that you like your suspenders 'cause it's your thing. 724 00:31:22,380 --> 00:31:24,841 [Ernest] Yeah. I don't see a lot of people that wears them. 725 00:31:24,924 --> 00:31:27,635 I love these versions. I love that you wanna be unique, 726 00:31:27,719 --> 00:31:29,929 that you're considering how you present yourself. 727 00:31:30,013 --> 00:31:32,056 What I don't wanna see again is zip ties. 728 00:31:32,140 --> 00:31:34,017 Zip ties started before the suspenders. 729 00:31:34,100 --> 00:31:37,520 I'm sure they did, and they needed to die a long time ago. 730 00:31:37,604 --> 00:31:38,438 [laughs] 731 00:31:38,521 --> 00:31:41,399 Don't wanna see zip ties on your pants ever again. 732 00:31:41,482 --> 00:31:43,192 -Are you ready to try on? -[Ernest] Yes. 733 00:31:44,027 --> 00:31:45,904 Whoo-hoo! All right, come on out. 734 00:31:45,987 --> 00:31:48,781 If you can just park yourself right here for me. 735 00:31:49,657 --> 00:31:50,783 Bam, bam, bam. 736 00:31:51,367 --> 00:31:53,036 Mmm, mmm, mmm. Now, 737 00:31:54,078 --> 00:31:56,831 does that feel a little bit more Ernest for you? 738 00:31:56,915 --> 00:31:57,749 Yes. 739 00:31:58,416 --> 00:31:59,834 It's fantastic, man. 740 00:32:00,418 --> 00:32:02,170 [Tan laughs] 741 00:32:02,253 --> 00:32:03,129 I love it. 742 00:32:03,212 --> 00:32:05,715 [Tan] You're just gonna walk around town snapping those, are you? 743 00:32:05,798 --> 00:32:07,008 I love that he loves it. 744 00:32:07,091 --> 00:32:10,011 He clearly is feeling himself. 745 00:32:10,094 --> 00:32:11,721 I wouldn't be mad at this at all 746 00:32:11,804 --> 00:32:14,223 if you ended up wearing this on a date with the lovely Miranda. 747 00:32:14,307 --> 00:32:19,729 However, you could start the date looking extra swaggy. 748 00:32:21,689 --> 00:32:22,523 Fantastic. 749 00:32:22,607 --> 00:32:24,859 Tell me what makes it work for you. 750 00:32:24,943 --> 00:32:28,154 Well, it fits good, and the material feels well. 751 00:32:28,237 --> 00:32:29,155 Real comfortable. 752 00:32:30,031 --> 00:32:33,576 [Tan] When was the last time you saw yourself looking wonderful? 753 00:32:33,660 --> 00:32:34,786 Very long time. 754 00:32:34,869 --> 00:32:36,829 Is it nice seeing yourself this way again? 755 00:32:36,913 --> 00:32:37,747 Yes. 756 00:32:37,830 --> 00:32:41,709 What's the point of wasting it on scrubs when you can look as good as this? 757 00:32:41,793 --> 00:32:43,503 -Ready to try something else? -[Ernest] Yes. 758 00:32:47,256 --> 00:32:49,050 Ooh, I already love. 759 00:32:49,133 --> 00:32:50,301 Fantastic. 760 00:32:50,385 --> 00:32:52,220 Are you just being nice to me? 761 00:32:52,303 --> 00:32:53,930 -No. -Last one, you said fantastic too. 762 00:32:54,013 --> 00:32:58,017 [Ernest] Well, this is more fantastic than the other one, I think. 763 00:32:58,101 --> 00:33:00,603 -Tell me what you like about it. -Well, it's camouflage. 764 00:33:00,687 --> 00:33:02,063 -Like I'm a hunter. -[Tan] I know. 765 00:33:02,146 --> 00:33:05,692 This is more comfortable and looks like it's more simple. 766 00:33:05,775 --> 00:33:07,443 You know, like, 'cause I'm simple. 767 00:33:07,527 --> 00:33:10,613 Could you actually see yourself wearing things like this 768 00:33:10,697 --> 00:33:11,948 for hangouts with Miranda? 769 00:33:12,031 --> 00:33:15,618 Yes, and, you know, I just know I'll blow her mind, 770 00:33:15,702 --> 00:33:18,788 'cause, you know, like, it's… it's… it's blowing my mind, 771 00:33:18,871 --> 00:33:21,499 you know, like… Man. 772 00:33:23,042 --> 00:33:24,127 I… Oh. 773 00:33:24,210 --> 00:33:28,339 Everybody that knows me is going, "Ernest?" 774 00:33:28,423 --> 00:33:29,841 -Yes. -[laughs] 775 00:33:29,924 --> 00:33:31,801 [Ernest] And I know it. Yeah, man! 776 00:33:31,884 --> 00:33:34,053 [Tan laughs] 777 00:33:34,137 --> 00:33:37,557 Well, wait. I want you to try on the glasses that I pulled for you earlier. 778 00:33:38,307 --> 00:33:44,439 I mean, Ernest, you look so darn good. 779 00:33:44,522 --> 00:33:46,774 Hopefully, you'll look at your closet and think, 780 00:33:46,858 --> 00:33:49,902 "I wanna get dressed up. I wanna make an effort for my wife." 781 00:33:49,986 --> 00:33:51,529 For sure. She deserves it. 782 00:33:51,612 --> 00:33:53,281 -[Tan] She deserves it. -She does. 783 00:33:53,364 --> 00:33:55,324 -Can I give you a hug, Ernest? -Sure, you can, man. 784 00:33:55,408 --> 00:33:57,285 Because I'm really, really happy. 785 00:33:57,368 --> 00:33:59,996 -And you're made me really, really proud. -[Ernest] Yeah. 786 00:34:00,079 --> 00:34:03,374 The way you keep raising your eyebrows at yourself in the mirror is amazing. 787 00:34:03,458 --> 00:34:04,417 [laughs] 788 00:34:04,500 --> 00:34:06,753 Watch out. Watch out. 789 00:34:06,836 --> 00:34:09,213 [swanky music playing] 790 00:34:11,382 --> 00:34:13,134 [Jonathan] Okay, we're here. 791 00:34:13,217 --> 00:34:15,762 Gorgeous Bluenote Barbershop. 792 00:34:16,888 --> 00:34:18,181 Go ahead, gorgeous. 793 00:34:18,681 --> 00:34:20,016 This is Invee. 794 00:34:20,099 --> 00:34:22,185 -How you doing, sir? -[Jonathan] We love Invee so much. 795 00:34:22,268 --> 00:34:23,102 He's the best. 796 00:34:23,770 --> 00:34:25,730 -Ernest, can I take your hat off? -Sure. 797 00:34:25,813 --> 00:34:28,274 He actually has what we lovingly call a skullet. 798 00:34:28,775 --> 00:34:31,778 I don't know if it's because I was your mom in a past life, 799 00:34:31,861 --> 00:34:35,615 I just think it's, like, so adorable, this little curly hair right here, 800 00:34:35,698 --> 00:34:37,450 but his wife doesn't like it! 801 00:34:37,533 --> 00:34:39,577 Today is a story of, like, compromise 802 00:34:39,660 --> 00:34:43,664 and making sure that Miranda, your wife, 803 00:34:43,748 --> 00:34:47,126 still wants to hold your hand. 804 00:34:47,210 --> 00:34:48,044 [Ernest] Oh yeah. 805 00:34:48,127 --> 00:34:51,130 With your shirts off, in a very respectful way. 806 00:34:51,214 --> 00:34:53,341 I don't think that's gonna make a diff-- 807 00:34:53,424 --> 00:34:54,884 -[Jonathan] It does! -It does? 808 00:34:54,967 --> 00:34:57,386 [Jonathan] It absolutely does. 809 00:34:57,470 --> 00:34:58,429 [laughs] 810 00:34:58,513 --> 00:35:01,432 -She said that she misses you. -[Ernest] Yeah. 811 00:35:01,516 --> 00:35:03,684 And you guys live together! 812 00:35:03,768 --> 00:35:07,980 Yeah, but, you know, she's a cook, watching the Cooking Channel. 813 00:35:08,064 --> 00:35:10,858 I'm in my man cave, watching sports. 814 00:35:10,942 --> 00:35:13,194 But what if you guys just sat next to each other 815 00:35:13,277 --> 00:35:15,029 for, like, one TV show a week? 816 00:35:15,113 --> 00:35:17,573 Just as long as they don't have any good sporting events on. 817 00:35:17,657 --> 00:35:20,159 My husband watches figure skating and gymnastics with me 818 00:35:20,243 --> 00:35:21,494 even though he hates it. 819 00:35:21,577 --> 00:35:24,956 He's obsessed with gardening, and I was like, "Ugh, gardening." 820 00:35:25,039 --> 00:35:26,916 -Like, "Kick me in the face." -[laughs] 821 00:35:26,999 --> 00:35:29,669 Turns out there's this TV show called Gardeners' World 822 00:35:29,752 --> 00:35:32,255 that I thought I hated, but it's actually really cute, 823 00:35:32,338 --> 00:35:34,549 so maybe there might be a cooking personality you like. 824 00:35:34,632 --> 00:35:36,259 But you'll never know if you don't try it. 825 00:35:36,342 --> 00:35:38,427 -Right. -Can I take your bubble pony out? 826 00:35:38,511 --> 00:35:39,428 [Ernest] Yeah. 827 00:35:39,512 --> 00:35:41,097 I love how you style your beard. 828 00:35:41,180 --> 00:35:42,473 [Ernest] I got style, man. 829 00:35:42,557 --> 00:35:44,642 [Jonathan] You got such good style. 830 00:35:44,725 --> 00:35:45,726 You really do. 831 00:35:45,810 --> 00:35:48,396 It might be unique, but it's one of a kind. 832 00:35:48,479 --> 00:35:49,772 [Jonathan] Here's the thing. 833 00:35:49,856 --> 00:35:53,484 If Ernest had his skullet and his beard because he loved them, 834 00:35:53,568 --> 00:35:55,778 and that was his personal style… 835 00:35:58,114 --> 00:35:59,407 I would clap it out. 836 00:35:59,490 --> 00:36:02,243 So I think, like, a nice little square thing on him 837 00:36:02,326 --> 00:36:03,286 could be really nice. 838 00:36:03,369 --> 00:36:05,121 But that's not how we've arrived here. 839 00:36:05,204 --> 00:36:08,457 We've actually arrived at this style due to neglect. 840 00:36:09,208 --> 00:36:12,086 I'm gonna start by cutting his mullet off, then we'll shape it. 841 00:36:12,170 --> 00:36:13,588 It's coming off, Ernest. 842 00:36:15,131 --> 00:36:16,591 Oh Lord. 843 00:36:19,427 --> 00:36:22,638 ♪ Don't it feel so good to be alive ♪ 844 00:36:22,722 --> 00:36:23,890 [Jonathan] Ooh. 845 00:36:24,390 --> 00:36:25,933 Hello, jaw. 846 00:36:26,684 --> 00:36:29,604 I do love your big-ass mustache. 847 00:36:30,188 --> 00:36:33,149 Should we do a little handlebar on him for fun? 848 00:36:33,232 --> 00:36:34,150 Yeah, for sure. 849 00:36:34,233 --> 00:36:37,361 [Jonathan] You are giving me men's magazine, 850 00:36:37,445 --> 00:36:39,572 Men's Fitness, Men's Health. 851 00:36:39,655 --> 00:36:42,909 -What's your favorite thing about Miranda? -[Ernest] She's just all around. 852 00:36:42,992 --> 00:36:46,078 You know, like, her mind, you know, like, the way she thinks. 853 00:36:46,162 --> 00:36:46,996 Mm-hmm. 854 00:36:47,079 --> 00:36:49,790 -What's your favorite physical thing? -[Ernest] Miranda? 855 00:36:49,874 --> 00:36:51,042 Her lips. 856 00:36:51,125 --> 00:36:52,668 -[Jonathan] Ooh! -[laughs] 857 00:36:52,752 --> 00:36:54,045 Curveball! 858 00:36:54,128 --> 00:36:56,839 -She does have a pretty smile. -Yeah. 859 00:36:56,923 --> 00:37:00,051 Because here's the thing. Everyone wants to feel wanted and needed. 860 00:37:00,134 --> 00:37:01,469 -Right. -By their partner. 861 00:37:01,552 --> 00:37:02,929 -[Ernest] Right. -You included. 862 00:37:03,012 --> 00:37:06,265 So that means that you both have to celebrate your partner more. 863 00:37:06,349 --> 00:37:07,558 -I will. -[Jonathan] Yeah! 864 00:37:07,642 --> 00:37:10,186 You'll be able to show up for Miranda better. 865 00:37:10,269 --> 00:37:11,604 -That makes sense, right? -Yes. 866 00:37:11,687 --> 00:37:13,397 Yes. Yes. Yes. 867 00:37:13,481 --> 00:37:17,109 -This is a mustache wax that I like. -[Ernest] Okay. 868 00:37:17,193 --> 00:37:19,070 I just took a little teeny tiny bit. 869 00:37:19,153 --> 00:37:21,822 Then you take your index finger, set the hair on there, 870 00:37:21,906 --> 00:37:25,576 and I just like, push the wax on my finger to, like, bend it upwards. 871 00:37:26,702 --> 00:37:28,496 And, my God, does he look gorgeous? 872 00:37:28,579 --> 00:37:31,374 Have we done such a good job, or have we done such a good job? 873 00:37:31,457 --> 00:37:32,583 -Look at him! -[Invee] Right? 874 00:37:32,667 --> 00:37:34,085 You are so cute. 875 00:37:34,168 --> 00:37:35,127 Do you know? 876 00:37:36,254 --> 00:37:37,964 -[Ernest] Yeah. -You do, right? 877 00:37:38,047 --> 00:37:40,174 -'Cause you are… -[Ernest] Gorgeous? 878 00:37:40,258 --> 00:37:41,342 -You are… -[Ernest] Gorgeous. 879 00:37:41,425 --> 00:37:42,510 -You are… -[Ernest] Gorgeous. 880 00:37:42,593 --> 00:37:45,304 -Yes, you are! Ready to see your new look? -[Ernest] Yes. 881 00:37:45,388 --> 00:37:47,056 Ready? Three, two, one. 882 00:37:49,016 --> 00:37:50,226 Oh! [chuckles] 883 00:37:50,309 --> 00:37:52,436 Lord! Watch out! 884 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:53,646 [Jonathan] Right? 885 00:37:53,729 --> 00:37:54,855 When we take this off… 886 00:37:54,939 --> 00:37:58,109 -Yes, indeed. -Oh my gosh! 887 00:37:58,192 --> 00:38:00,111 Oh yeah, Miranda, you gonna be surprised. 888 00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:03,447 Oh, I like this. Yes. 889 00:38:03,531 --> 00:38:05,908 -[Jonathan] That gave me chills. -That's unique. I like that. 890 00:38:05,992 --> 00:38:08,619 ♪ Oh, I got love running in my soul ♪ 891 00:38:08,703 --> 00:38:11,831 ♪ I got your love running in my soul ♪ 892 00:38:11,914 --> 00:38:14,583 ♪ I got love running in my soul ♪ 893 00:38:14,667 --> 00:38:17,712 ♪Gonna make me smile ♪ 894 00:38:17,795 --> 00:38:20,631 ♪ Oh, I got love running in my soul ♪ 895 00:38:20,715 --> 00:38:23,592 ♪ I got your love running in my soul ♪ 896 00:38:23,676 --> 00:38:26,304 ♪ I got love running in my soul ♪ 897 00:38:26,387 --> 00:38:29,724 ♪ Gonna make me smile ♪ 898 00:38:30,391 --> 00:38:31,392 ♪ Whoa, yeah ♪ 899 00:38:33,269 --> 00:38:37,273 -I'm excited for you to see the house. -I sure hope I don't pass out, man. 900 00:38:37,356 --> 00:38:38,232 [laughs] 901 00:38:38,316 --> 00:38:39,650 -[horn honks] -[Ernest laughs] 902 00:38:39,734 --> 00:38:43,487 -[Bobby] Ooh! They're here! -Let's go! Put the produce down. 903 00:38:43,571 --> 00:38:44,613 [Tan] Whoo-hoo! 904 00:38:44,697 --> 00:38:45,948 [Bobby] Hello! 905 00:38:46,032 --> 00:38:48,409 Come on, you handsome man. Good to see you, sir. 906 00:38:48,492 --> 00:38:49,660 How are you? 907 00:38:49,744 --> 00:38:52,038 -[Ernest] Great. -Your beard looks so good! 908 00:38:52,121 --> 00:38:54,290 -[Bobby] Ready to see your new place? -Yes. 909 00:38:54,915 --> 00:38:56,792 Oh Lord! 910 00:38:56,876 --> 00:38:59,378 [laughing] 911 00:38:59,462 --> 00:39:00,671 [Ernest] Man, look at… 912 00:39:00,755 --> 00:39:02,173 [jazzy music playing] 913 00:39:03,966 --> 00:39:06,469 Hot dog! [laughs] 914 00:39:08,929 --> 00:39:11,682 [Bobby] So made this much more comfortable. 915 00:39:11,766 --> 00:39:13,100 We painted. 916 00:39:13,184 --> 00:39:15,311 [Ernest] I told Miranda I was gonna take care of it. 917 00:39:15,394 --> 00:39:16,312 I'm glad I didn't. 918 00:39:16,395 --> 00:39:18,105 [laughing] 919 00:39:19,148 --> 00:39:20,024 [Bobby] And then… 920 00:39:20,107 --> 00:39:21,567 [Ernest] Oh! 921 00:39:21,650 --> 00:39:25,488 -[Jonathan] No more cracking paint, honey. -[Bobby] Miranda's gonna be very happy. 922 00:39:26,530 --> 00:39:28,407 Come and see your new bedroom. 923 00:39:28,491 --> 00:39:30,284 Oh! Whoa! 924 00:39:30,868 --> 00:39:31,702 Oh! 925 00:39:31,786 --> 00:39:33,329 [jubilant music playing] 926 00:39:35,081 --> 00:39:38,042 [Bobby] You might ask yourself, "Wait, where's the bed?" 927 00:39:38,125 --> 00:39:39,668 -[Ernest] Yeah. -I gave this to Miranda. 928 00:39:39,752 --> 00:39:42,171 -Yeah, she needs it. It's good. -[Bobby laughs] 929 00:39:42,838 --> 00:39:45,841 -How do you think Miranda's gonna feel? -[Ernest] I don't think she'll faint. 930 00:39:45,925 --> 00:39:47,385 But it'd come close to it. 931 00:39:47,885 --> 00:39:52,014 -[Antoni] Bobby, this room is beautiful. -[Jonathan] I'm so obsessed with this. 932 00:39:52,098 --> 00:39:55,017 -[Bobby] All right, you ready to see more? -Ooh! Wait. 933 00:39:55,101 --> 00:39:56,519 -[Tan laughs] -All right. 934 00:39:56,602 --> 00:39:58,020 -[Karamo] He's ready. -I'm ready now. 935 00:40:00,231 --> 00:40:01,857 Oh man! 936 00:40:07,738 --> 00:40:09,824 Oh man! [laughs] 937 00:40:11,492 --> 00:40:14,078 [Bobby] This was your desk. You had a great desk already. 938 00:40:14,161 --> 00:40:15,663 I reused a lot of your furniture 939 00:40:15,746 --> 00:40:18,082 'cause you had a lot of really beautiful pieces. 940 00:40:18,833 --> 00:40:20,251 Lord have mercy. 941 00:40:20,334 --> 00:40:22,211 -[Bobby] You remember these? -[Ernest] Oh man. 942 00:40:22,294 --> 00:40:24,630 [mellow music playing] 943 00:40:28,926 --> 00:40:30,136 Oh! 944 00:40:30,219 --> 00:40:32,805 [Bobby] Every year, I want you to take a selfie together 945 00:40:32,888 --> 00:40:35,057 to show the memories you're still making. 946 00:40:35,141 --> 00:40:36,475 Oh man! Y'all good. 947 00:40:36,559 --> 00:40:37,643 [Bobby laughs] 948 00:40:37,726 --> 00:40:40,146 -Thank you. -Y'all outstanding, man. 949 00:40:40,229 --> 00:40:41,272 [laughs] 950 00:40:41,355 --> 00:40:43,649 -Oh man. -[Karamo] Oh. 951 00:40:43,732 --> 00:40:44,984 [Bobby] You deserve this. 952 00:40:45,067 --> 00:40:46,819 You good? You're good. 953 00:40:46,902 --> 00:40:48,404 [Ernest] Man! 954 00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,283 Oh! Oh! 955 00:40:52,366 --> 00:40:53,659 Ooh! 956 00:40:53,742 --> 00:40:55,953 [upbeat music playing] 957 00:40:59,707 --> 00:41:01,083 Oh boy! [chuckles] 958 00:41:03,294 --> 00:41:05,337 -[Bobby] You're starting a new life. -[Ernest] Right. 959 00:41:05,421 --> 00:41:09,300 But I didn't want to get rid of a lot of the memories you made, so… 960 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,844 -I kept this. -[Ernest laughs] 961 00:41:12,845 --> 00:41:15,055 [Bobby] Look, it's the girls' height measurements. 962 00:41:15,139 --> 00:41:20,060 I never told y'all to keep that, you know. I'm so glad you did. [sighs] 963 00:41:20,144 --> 00:41:21,770 Lord! Lord! Lord! 964 00:41:21,854 --> 00:41:22,897 Man! [chuckles] 965 00:41:23,606 --> 00:41:24,482 Fantastic. 966 00:41:24,565 --> 00:41:26,692 Oh Lord! Lord! Lord! 967 00:41:27,735 --> 00:41:28,819 [Bobby] I put the door there 968 00:41:28,903 --> 00:41:31,614 so there is a connection from your space together 969 00:41:31,697 --> 00:41:33,574 into your spaces outside. 970 00:41:33,657 --> 00:41:35,659 A door? [chuckles] 971 00:41:36,285 --> 00:41:38,662 [Bobby] This home has had a lot of memories. 972 00:41:38,746 --> 00:41:39,997 And this room specifically. 973 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,166 This is where your amazing daughters grew up. 974 00:41:42,249 --> 00:41:44,585 But I wanted to put you guys back here 975 00:41:44,668 --> 00:41:46,462 because I want this to be closer 976 00:41:46,545 --> 00:41:48,339 to that place you wanna hang out all the time. 977 00:41:48,422 --> 00:41:49,924 -[Ernest] Outstanding. -[Antoni] Ernest? 978 00:41:50,007 --> 00:41:52,092 -[Ernest] Yeah? -[Antoni] You can't handle what's next. 979 00:41:52,176 --> 00:41:53,177 I'm ready. 980 00:41:55,179 --> 00:41:56,430 Oh man! 981 00:41:56,514 --> 00:41:58,891 [upbeat music playing] 982 00:41:58,974 --> 00:42:00,976 Oh Lord! Lord! 983 00:42:01,060 --> 00:42:02,478 Oh man! 984 00:42:08,192 --> 00:42:09,818 -[Bobby] A whole new world. -[Ernest] Yeah. 985 00:42:09,902 --> 00:42:15,449 So I wanted to bridge the gap between man cave garage and house, 986 00:42:15,533 --> 00:42:18,202 so you guys have that space where you can come in the middle. 987 00:42:18,285 --> 00:42:21,163 Now y'all can have either dinner just the two of you, 988 00:42:21,247 --> 00:42:23,499 you can have the girls over, 989 00:42:23,582 --> 00:42:25,501 you can have friends over. 990 00:42:26,001 --> 00:42:28,879 -What do you think of it all? -That's gonna blow Miranda's mind. 991 00:42:28,963 --> 00:42:30,714 This is outstanding. 992 00:42:31,340 --> 00:42:32,424 [Tan] What do you think? 993 00:42:32,508 --> 00:42:33,384 Fantastic. 994 00:42:33,467 --> 00:42:36,428 First off, I actually really like your overalls. 995 00:42:36,512 --> 00:42:39,139 On a casual day when you just wanna hang out, wear 'em. 996 00:42:39,223 --> 00:42:40,099 Oh yeah. 997 00:42:40,182 --> 00:42:42,977 But remember this is about Miranda, not just you. 998 00:42:43,060 --> 00:42:43,894 Right. 999 00:42:43,978 --> 00:42:47,273 So one day a week, you are going to dress nicely. 1000 00:42:47,356 --> 00:42:48,232 [Ernest] For sure. 1001 00:42:48,315 --> 00:42:50,568 That means something from this closet. 1002 00:42:50,651 --> 00:42:52,152 -[Ernest] For sure. -Not the garage. 1003 00:42:52,236 --> 00:42:53,904 For sure. [chuckles] 1004 00:42:53,988 --> 00:42:56,615 -All right, kids. Ready for this? -[guys] Yeah! 1005 00:42:56,699 --> 00:42:58,826 [Tan] Okay, Ernest, sir, will you please join us? 1006 00:42:58,909 --> 00:43:00,828 This is what he's gonna wear for his date. 1007 00:43:00,911 --> 00:43:02,538 -Yay, date! -For his anniversary. 1008 00:43:02,621 --> 00:43:03,706 Yay, anniversary! 1009 00:43:03,789 --> 00:43:06,041 -[Tan] Sir, would you join me, please? -Ernest! 1010 00:43:06,125 --> 00:43:07,376 [guys] Ah! 1011 00:43:07,459 --> 00:43:08,836 [laughing] 1012 00:43:08,919 --> 00:43:11,005 [Karamo] Wow. 1013 00:43:11,088 --> 00:43:12,214 Fantastic, man. 1014 00:43:12,298 --> 00:43:13,924 [Tan] He's 68! 1015 00:43:14,008 --> 00:43:14,842 So cute. 1016 00:43:14,925 --> 00:43:16,135 [Karamo] You look great! 1017 00:43:16,218 --> 00:43:17,595 I know. I feel great too. 1018 00:43:17,678 --> 00:43:19,430 You actually can make a ton of money modeling. 1019 00:43:19,513 --> 00:43:20,598 Fantastic. 1020 00:43:20,681 --> 00:43:22,600 I didn't want just suspenders that are functional. 1021 00:43:22,683 --> 00:43:25,894 I wanted ones that look lovely, which is why we got leather suspenders. 1022 00:43:25,978 --> 00:43:27,229 -[Ernest] Yes. -And the hat. 1023 00:43:27,313 --> 00:43:29,982 I love a little pork-pie hat, but a summer version? 1024 00:43:30,065 --> 00:43:31,942 I can tell how much you love this outfit. 1025 00:43:32,026 --> 00:43:35,195 Just the way that you were carrying your hands in your pockets. 1026 00:43:35,279 --> 00:43:36,989 It is so Ernest, and I love it. 1027 00:43:37,072 --> 00:43:39,491 -Gee, it's outstanding. -[Antoni] Good, right? 1028 00:43:39,575 --> 00:43:42,328 -Outstanding. Yes. -[Bobby] How do you think Miranda'll feel? 1029 00:43:42,411 --> 00:43:45,205 -It will definitely turn her on. -Whoo! 1030 00:43:45,289 --> 00:43:46,665 -Okay. -Yeah! 1031 00:43:47,583 --> 00:43:49,084 -Come on, kids. -Yeah. 1032 00:43:49,168 --> 00:43:52,129 This is the time when we leave you to enjoy your evening. 1033 00:43:52,212 --> 00:43:53,881 This is your anniversary tonight. 1034 00:43:53,964 --> 00:43:57,051 We need this to be your reset button, and you've turned up for that. 1035 00:43:57,134 --> 00:43:59,094 -For sure. -At the beginning of this week, 1036 00:43:59,178 --> 00:44:00,763 what were you hoping would happen? 1037 00:44:00,846 --> 00:44:04,099 That Miranda and I would hook together. 1038 00:44:04,183 --> 00:44:06,101 -Yeah. -Contact, you know? 1039 00:44:06,185 --> 00:44:07,853 I mean, what y'all did for me? 1040 00:44:08,604 --> 00:44:09,938 Lord. Lord. Lord. 1041 00:44:10,022 --> 00:44:11,940 I really appreciate. 1042 00:44:12,024 --> 00:44:14,735 Appreciate it to the top, man. To the top. 1043 00:44:14,818 --> 00:44:16,070 -Bring it in here. -[Ernest] Yes. 1044 00:44:16,153 --> 00:44:18,113 -[Jonathan] Tell the girls bye. -[Ernest] I will. 1045 00:44:18,197 --> 00:44:19,073 We're gonna miss you. 1046 00:44:19,156 --> 00:44:21,700 Enjoy your anniversary. I hope you have a wonderful time. 1047 00:44:21,784 --> 00:44:23,202 -I sure will. -Yeah. 1048 00:44:23,285 --> 00:44:25,287 -Come on. Need a hand, Jackie? -No, I got it. 1049 00:44:25,371 --> 00:44:26,997 -You feeling good? -[Jonathan] Yeah. 1050 00:44:27,581 --> 00:44:28,874 [Tan] Have fun! 1051 00:44:28,957 --> 00:44:30,042 I sure will. 1052 00:44:30,626 --> 00:44:32,086 -Bye! -Bye, Ernest! 1053 00:44:32,169 --> 00:44:33,253 [Bobby] Bye, supermodel. 1054 00:44:33,337 --> 00:44:34,338 [Jonathan] Have fun! 1055 00:44:34,421 --> 00:44:35,839 [Karamo] He's so cute! 1056 00:44:35,923 --> 00:44:37,925 [swanky music playing] 1057 00:44:47,518 --> 00:44:49,520 [Bobby] ♪ What you doing? ♪ 1058 00:44:49,603 --> 00:44:51,689 Are you all hungry for some raccoon skewers? 1059 00:44:51,772 --> 00:44:54,733 -I'm done. You said raccoon skewers? -[Bobby and Karamo] Bye! 1060 00:44:54,817 --> 00:44:56,360 It's chicken, you Muppets. 1061 00:44:56,443 --> 00:44:57,444 [Karamo] Okay. 1062 00:44:57,528 --> 00:44:58,946 [Antoni] Hello. 1063 00:44:59,029 --> 00:45:01,949 -[Antoni] Can I wear the raccoon hat? -[Karamo] Won't you mess up your hair? 1064 00:45:02,032 --> 00:45:04,702 -Are you gonna be Davy Crockett? -So you know, this is vintage. 1065 00:45:04,785 --> 00:45:06,412 It's not new. 1066 00:45:06,495 --> 00:45:08,956 It's a little homage to Ernest. 1067 00:45:09,039 --> 00:45:10,040 -Hi! -Hi! 1068 00:45:10,124 --> 00:45:13,043 -[Jonathan] Should we go watch Ernest? -I already have beverages set up. 1069 00:45:13,127 --> 00:45:14,253 Let's go. Come on, Neon. 1070 00:45:14,336 --> 00:45:15,754 Aw. 1071 00:45:15,838 --> 00:45:19,967 -Who's ready for Ernest and Miranda? -[Antoni] Yay! 1072 00:45:20,050 --> 00:45:22,845 -I am! -[Jonathan] Their big anniversary! 1073 00:45:24,596 --> 00:45:27,391 Look at how cute his little mustache is! 1074 00:45:27,474 --> 00:45:30,602 -That man is good lookin'. -[Jonathan] So cute. 1075 00:45:31,395 --> 00:45:34,398 -[Karamo] She looks beautiful. Both do! -Oh, I love that dress. 1076 00:45:34,481 --> 00:45:35,357 Are you ready? 1077 00:45:35,441 --> 00:45:36,483 [Miranda] Hey! Yeah! 1078 00:45:36,567 --> 00:45:37,609 Are you sure? 1079 00:45:37,693 --> 00:45:38,736 [Miranda] Yes! 1080 00:45:38,819 --> 00:45:40,320 -Come on in. -[Miranda] Hi. 1081 00:45:41,780 --> 00:45:43,115 Look at you! 1082 00:45:43,198 --> 00:45:44,783 Ah! Sookie-sookie now! 1083 00:45:44,867 --> 00:45:47,411 -[Miranda] Hot model. -[Ariel] Oh my God! 1084 00:45:47,494 --> 00:45:49,288 [Ernest] They want me to model. 1085 00:45:49,371 --> 00:45:52,082 They say, "Ern, you can make some money." I say, "What?" 1086 00:45:52,166 --> 00:45:53,751 You are a model, Ernest! 1087 00:45:53,834 --> 00:45:55,711 -You better own it, Tyson Beckford! -[Tan] Wow. 1088 00:45:55,794 --> 00:45:57,880 Look at you! 1089 00:45:57,963 --> 00:46:01,008 Aw, you look so good. 1090 00:46:01,091 --> 00:46:02,426 Yes, affection! 1091 00:46:03,385 --> 00:46:04,636 Look at you. 1092 00:46:04,720 --> 00:46:09,141 The way she's looking at him, I imagine that was her 40 years ago. 1093 00:46:09,224 --> 00:46:11,935 -Show us around, guy. -Come and see. 1094 00:46:12,853 --> 00:46:14,104 What?! 1095 00:46:14,188 --> 00:46:15,856 [guys] Ah! 1096 00:46:15,939 --> 00:46:17,691 Yes, Miranda! Yes! 1097 00:46:17,775 --> 00:46:19,651 -[Jonathan] So cute! -No! 1098 00:46:19,735 --> 00:46:22,154 Here comes a happy cry, I'm telling you. 1099 00:46:22,237 --> 00:46:23,113 [Miranda] Oh! 1100 00:46:23,197 --> 00:46:24,615 [Antoni] Bobby, this room is epic. 1101 00:46:24,698 --> 00:46:27,826 -[Bobby] Aw, I'm so glad she likes it. -Oh my God. 1102 00:46:27,910 --> 00:46:30,996 You finally have room for your shoes, Mom. Look, all these shoes. 1103 00:46:31,079 --> 00:46:33,165 She wasn't expecting anything for her. 1104 00:46:33,248 --> 00:46:34,541 Yeah. 1105 00:46:35,834 --> 00:46:37,169 [laughs] 1106 00:46:37,252 --> 00:46:40,088 [Miranda] Oh my, my, my. 1107 00:46:44,134 --> 00:46:45,886 Holy smokes. 1108 00:46:46,470 --> 00:46:48,347 I just don't have words. 1109 00:46:49,056 --> 00:46:51,600 And I usually have lots of words! 1110 00:46:52,392 --> 00:46:54,478 [upbeat music playing] 1111 00:46:55,729 --> 00:46:56,605 Look. 1112 00:46:56,688 --> 00:47:00,025 When we first started, you know, as it goes on… 1113 00:47:00,108 --> 00:47:02,736 -It just chronicles the years. Right? -[Ernest] Yeah. 1114 00:47:02,820 --> 00:47:06,281 Look. The empty spot, future. 1115 00:47:06,365 --> 00:47:07,533 Yeah. 1116 00:47:07,616 --> 00:47:10,369 [Antoni] I don't think I've ever wanted to have a family more. 1117 00:47:10,452 --> 00:47:12,996 I want that. I wanna look at a wall, look at the photos, 1118 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,165 and see your entire life. 1119 00:47:15,249 --> 00:47:17,292 [Ariel] We're ready. Open it! 1120 00:47:19,461 --> 00:47:20,420 [Ernest chuckles] 1121 00:47:21,171 --> 00:47:23,382 Oh wow! 1122 00:47:30,097 --> 00:47:30,931 A door? 1123 00:47:31,014 --> 00:47:32,558 [Ernest laughs] 1124 00:47:32,641 --> 00:47:33,767 [laughs] 1125 00:47:33,851 --> 00:47:35,602 You seen your closets. 1126 00:47:35,686 --> 00:47:36,979 This is mine. 1127 00:47:39,565 --> 00:47:41,942 Ernest, you have clothes! 1128 00:47:42,818 --> 00:47:44,695 Are you gonna wear these? 1129 00:47:44,778 --> 00:47:46,405 For sure! For sure! 1130 00:47:46,488 --> 00:47:47,573 Oh. 1131 00:47:49,324 --> 00:47:50,450 [Karamo] Yes! 1132 00:47:50,534 --> 00:47:51,618 [Ernest] Ready? 1133 00:47:51,702 --> 00:47:52,744 -[Miranda] Yes. -Set… 1134 00:47:54,997 --> 00:47:58,750 -[chuckles] -Oh, guys! 1135 00:47:58,834 --> 00:48:00,544 Look. [chuckles] 1136 00:48:00,627 --> 00:48:03,130 Oh, guys! 1137 00:48:03,213 --> 00:48:06,258 The week of growth was for him, but this is all for her. 1138 00:48:06,341 --> 00:48:08,719 Are you serious? 1139 00:48:09,219 --> 00:48:11,889 -Oh my goodness! -And look. 1140 00:48:13,891 --> 00:48:15,893 [Antoni] The little butterflies! 1141 00:48:15,976 --> 00:48:17,185 They have a home now. 1142 00:48:21,940 --> 00:48:23,859 -Look at that one. -[Ernest] Yeah, you love it. 1143 00:48:23,942 --> 00:48:24,985 [Miranda chuckles] 1144 00:48:27,112 --> 00:48:28,405 Aw. 1145 00:48:28,488 --> 00:48:29,781 [Ariel] This is all for you. 1146 00:48:29,865 --> 00:48:31,700 Oh, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. 1147 00:48:31,783 --> 00:48:33,285 [Ernest] Thanks a whole bunch, girl. 1148 00:48:33,368 --> 00:48:34,995 [Ariel] Yeah, no, enjoy it. 1149 00:48:35,078 --> 00:48:37,205 -I love you. -[Ernest] I love you too, girl. 1150 00:48:37,956 --> 00:48:40,918 -Mmm. -[Miranda] Absolutely beautiful. 1151 00:48:41,001 --> 00:48:43,503 I think we could spend a lot of time out here. 1152 00:48:43,587 --> 00:48:44,922 Enjoy the rest of your night. 1153 00:48:45,005 --> 00:48:46,214 -We sure will. -Thank you. 1154 00:48:46,298 --> 00:48:47,758 -[Ariel] I love you guys. -Thank you. 1155 00:48:47,841 --> 00:48:48,884 We sure will. 1156 00:48:48,967 --> 00:48:51,303 [Tan] I hope my kids are as sweet as Ariel one day. 1157 00:48:51,386 --> 00:48:52,763 -[Jonathan] So sweet! -Yeah. 1158 00:48:52,846 --> 00:48:54,306 [Ernest] All right. 1159 00:48:54,389 --> 00:48:56,600 -Look at this. -What are you cooking? 1160 00:48:56,683 --> 00:48:58,352 Okay, so this is a big moment 1161 00:48:58,435 --> 00:49:01,313 because, as we all know, the kitchen is Miranda's turf. 1162 00:49:01,396 --> 00:49:02,230 [Ernest] For you? 1163 00:49:03,649 --> 00:49:04,733 [Miranda] Salmon! 1164 00:49:04,816 --> 00:49:05,859 -Yes! -[Ernest] Fantastic. 1165 00:49:05,943 --> 00:49:07,027 [Bobby] Oh! 1166 00:49:07,110 --> 00:49:08,987 Hey, a departure in protein for him. 1167 00:49:11,782 --> 00:49:12,616 [Ernest] Oh yeah. 1168 00:49:12,699 --> 00:49:14,201 Shake and bake. 1169 00:49:14,826 --> 00:49:15,744 Good job. 1170 00:49:15,827 --> 00:49:19,414 -[Miranda] Oh, that's from the garden. -[Ernest] Yes. Fantastic. 1171 00:49:21,208 --> 00:49:24,002 [Karamo] It seemed like a salmon dish is pretty easy to cook. 1172 00:49:24,086 --> 00:49:26,797 It's a lot quicker than raccoon stew, I'll tell you that. 1173 00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,216 -[Tan] He plated that up really nicely. -He did. 1174 00:49:31,134 --> 00:49:32,719 [Miranda] Delicious. Thank you. 1175 00:49:32,803 --> 00:49:35,013 -[Ernest] I amaze myself. -[chuckles] 1176 00:49:35,097 --> 00:49:38,392 He decided to compromise and make something that Miranda likes. 1177 00:49:38,475 --> 00:49:40,477 -To us. -To us. 1178 00:49:41,395 --> 00:49:42,938 You really look good. 1179 00:49:43,021 --> 00:49:45,357 You look like your old self. 1180 00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,359 -My old self? -But new self. 1181 00:49:47,442 --> 00:49:48,610 -I'm back. -New self. 1182 00:49:48,694 --> 00:49:51,446 -[Ernest] Yes. -Glad to meet you, Mr. Bartholomew. 1183 00:49:51,530 --> 00:49:52,656 [Ernest] Good. 1184 00:49:52,739 --> 00:49:53,991 [Miranda chuckles] 1185 00:49:54,074 --> 00:49:55,784 [Ernest] I love you, girl. 1186 00:49:55,867 --> 00:49:57,911 It will change. 1187 00:49:59,454 --> 00:50:01,039 You wanna marry me? 1188 00:50:01,123 --> 00:50:02,416 -Marry you again? -[Ernest] Yes. 1189 00:50:02,499 --> 00:50:03,375 [Miranda] Yes. 1190 00:50:04,001 --> 00:50:04,960 [Miranda chuckles] 1191 00:50:05,794 --> 00:50:07,129 Aw! 1192 00:50:07,963 --> 00:50:08,964 [Karamo] Look at that. 1193 00:50:09,047 --> 00:50:10,716 That's so lovely. 1194 00:50:10,799 --> 00:50:12,718 [romantic piano music playing] 1195 00:50:12,801 --> 00:50:14,136 [chuckles] 1196 00:50:14,720 --> 00:50:16,805 Ernest looks good, he feels good, 1197 00:50:16,888 --> 00:50:21,643 but he also finally understands how Miranda needs him to show up for her. 1198 00:50:21,727 --> 00:50:24,521 You can find somebody who lets you be who you are, 1199 00:50:24,604 --> 00:50:27,399 but, on the flip side, figure out what makes them spark, 1200 00:50:27,482 --> 00:50:29,693 what they're passionate about, what they love. 1201 00:50:29,776 --> 00:50:32,904 ♪ We got a love ♪ 1202 00:50:32,988 --> 00:50:35,157 ♪ Can't be broken ever ♪ 1203 00:50:35,240 --> 00:50:37,284 ♪ So throw it away ♪ 1204 00:50:37,367 --> 00:50:39,953 ♪ We got a love… ♪ 1205 00:50:40,037 --> 00:50:42,831 It doesn't matter how long you've been married, 1206 00:50:42,914 --> 00:50:46,084 you still need to show up for your partner. 1207 00:50:46,168 --> 00:50:48,920 Remind them of why they married you. 1208 00:50:49,421 --> 00:50:51,673 ♪ So be a fool ♪ 1209 00:50:51,757 --> 00:50:53,759 ♪ Oh, I don't wanna lose you ♪ 1210 00:50:53,842 --> 00:50:56,595 ♪ I just want you every way ♪ 1211 00:50:56,678 --> 00:50:59,014 ♪ I know it's true ♪ 1212 00:50:59,097 --> 00:51:01,516 -♪ You're so ♪ -♪ My arms are open ♪ 1213 00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:03,393 ♪ I'm begging you ♪ 1214 00:51:04,811 --> 00:51:07,314 ♪ Oh, I'm begging you ♪ 1215 00:51:07,898 --> 00:51:11,485 ♪ To come back and stay ♪ 1216 00:51:13,445 --> 00:51:15,447 [quirky music playing] 1217 00:51:18,658 --> 00:51:19,701 [Karamo] Voodoo. 1218 00:51:19,785 --> 00:51:21,953 It's an often misunderstood practice. 1219 00:51:22,037 --> 00:51:24,873 The religion was brought to Louisiana by enslaved West Africans 1220 00:51:24,956 --> 00:51:26,833 via the Caribbean Corridor. 1221 00:51:26,917 --> 00:51:30,754 It's a religion connected to nature, ancestors, and spirit. 1222 00:51:30,837 --> 00:51:32,881 The core belief of New Orleans Voodoo 1223 00:51:32,964 --> 00:51:37,094 is that one god doesn't interfere in our daily lives, but the spirits do. 1224 00:51:37,969 --> 00:51:39,513 Right, babies? [chuckles] 1225 00:51:39,596 --> 00:51:41,181 Hi, Antoni. 1226 00:51:41,264 --> 00:51:45,018 Antoni. Antoni. Antoni. Antoni. 1227 00:51:45,102 --> 00:51:47,104 [laughs] 1228 00:51:47,687 --> 00:51:49,856 ["When the Saints Go Marching In" playing] 1229 00:53:02,304 --> 00:53:03,597 [Ernest] Fantastic!