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I'll get you the drinks.
Get the night started right.
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Habibi.
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So one medium
iced caramel frappe?
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Yeah.
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You want whipped cream
with that?
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Sure. BARISTA: Name?
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Frank.
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Awesome, Frank.
That'll be $9.50.
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What?
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What for?
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Did you add a‐‐a‐‐
a sandwich in there?
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You had the caramel frappe
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and you added whipped cream,
which is extra, so...
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All right, just
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forget about the whipped cream
and caramel.
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Just get me a frappe, please.
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No whipped cr‐‐just frappe? Yes.
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Sorry, I‐I don't think
you can just drink frappe.
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I mean just iced coffee, man.
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Oh, just coffee with ice?
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Yes, please.
Thank you very much.
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Oh, we're‐‐we're cashless.
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What do you mean,
you're cashless?
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We‐‐we don't take cash.
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We take card or reward program.
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Yeah, that's good. But...
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Hey.
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What's happening? Are you okay?
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Yeah, I'm okay. Why?
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You came in, you kissed us,
and then you sat down with us.
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Yeah. I just want to hang out
with you guys.
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Usually, you come in
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and you go upstairs
straight away.
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Something's wrong.
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Mom, nothing's wrong. Seriously.
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Uh
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I mean, there was something
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that I wanted
to talk to you guys about.
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It's not bad.
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It's not bad. I
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I actually met a woman,
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and I've been thinking about
maybe getting married.
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Her name is Zainab.
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Show me pics. What?
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Show me her pictures.
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What's her Instagram?
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Ma, I don't‐‐I don't know
her Instagram.
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Don't you want to know how we
met, or‐‐or anything about her?
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How are you going
to marry someone,
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you don't know their Instagram?
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Okay, I know it. I just
don't want you to have it.
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I know, Dad. I know.
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And I just got, you know,
promoted at work
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and, you know, I thought
maybe you guys could help us
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a little bit if we need it,
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but I don't even know,
all right?
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I don't even know.
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It's really early, and I just
want you to meet her.
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Yes, habibi, don't
worry. We will help you.
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And, inshallah, she will
give me a lot of grandchildren.
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Grandchildren?
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I didn't say kids.
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I think
you should just meet her,
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and then we'll‐‐
we'll see where it goes.
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She's really amazing,
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and I think if just our family
meets her family,
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you'll see.
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Her dad's actually my sheikh,
so...
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Dad, this is a good thing.
It's not‐‐.
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Farouk?
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Mom.
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He didn't even give me a chance
to talk.
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He's treating me like‐‐
like I'm Dena or something.
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I know, habibi. Don't worry.
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I'll talk to him.
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So the only Zainab
that I found on Instagram
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that you and your sister
are following
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is Zainab Ali.
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That's not your Zainab.
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That's my Zainab.
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But she's...
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She's what?
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Beautiful. Like Beyoncé.
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You think
she looks like Beyoncé?
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Yeah.
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Really? What about her looks
like Beyoncé exactly to you?
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The hair.
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She's wearing a headscarf.
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Beautiful hair, Beyoncé.
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So it's been, like,
uh, two weeks now
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and I can see online that
your post is still available.
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So.
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It would be very,
very kind of you
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if you got back to me, please.
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Please.
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Excuse me.
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Can I borrow your charger?
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I have a different computer.
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Sorry, could you,
like, step outside
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if you're gonna make calls?
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You're just, like, in my ear.
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Well...
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Okay, your dog is showing
clear signs
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of anxiety and depression.
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Depression? VET: Mm‐hmm.
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She is depressed?
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What for?
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What does she have
to be depressed about?
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Huh?
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Tell us. What?
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Do you have children
that you need to support?
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Huh? Or do you miss out
on your bills?
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Your mortgage?
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Maybe she left her family
and life behind
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in her homeland
and came here to chase a
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a dream that doesn't exist.
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You know,
some dogs can be very sensitive
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to human emotions,
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so it's possible
that there's someone struggling
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in your household.
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Yeah.
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That's right.
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My son.
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His name is Ramy.
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This is his sheikh's dog.
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Mm‐hmm. Mm.
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Look, Mr. Hassan, this is
what I'm gonna do for you.
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I'm going to prescribe
a mild dose of Xanax
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twice daily
until her symptoms subside.
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Got it?
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You know, my son,
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he talks to this sheikh of his,
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and
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he's supposed to be
his future father‐in‐law.
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The problem is,
he barely knows these people.
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And what about me?
I'm his father.
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What about our connection?
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And I think he needs‐‐.
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Look, Mr. Hassan,
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I have a bleeding parakeet
in the next room,
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so I'm gonna have to
make this quick,
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but I'd like to refer you
to a doctor for people.
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I think I know someone
that you can talk to.
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I'll just write it here.
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Here you go.
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Okay. Have a good day.
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Thank you.
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Habibi, I know you are worried
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about this marriage thing.
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He just wants you
to keep an open mind and meet.
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Merci, habibi.
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By the way, did you talk
to the stupid new girl
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at your office?
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Oh, what are you talking about?
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That was supposed to be
fixing the problem
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with the checks?
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Oh, yes, yes.
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I sent her an email and, uh
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I will follow up on Monday.
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Good. Mm.
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'Cause this is really crazy.
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She should be fired, by the way.
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We haven't gotten checks
for almost two months now.
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Look at this.
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What is it?
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Wow.
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Let's do it!
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Go!
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Oh!
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Oh!
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Good. I'm goalkeeper, yeah?
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Shoot!
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My name is Maysa,
and I am Ramy's mother.
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My pronouns are she/her.
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Does anybody have food allergy
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or pronouns I should know about?
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Okay.
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Dena. Hmm?
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- Yeah.
- It's okay, Dena.
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‐ I can do the‐‐
‐ Oh, no. Please.
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Um, I'll do it.
Would you like sugar?
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Um, no, thank you. DENA: Great.
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Mm.
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So, um, Dena, are you a student?
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Are you working?
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Yeah, I just started
my first semester
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at law school.
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Oh. Um, immigration law, right?
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Yeah.
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It's really amazing.
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Our teacher has
this great approach.
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It's, like, really spiritual,
and we get to‐‐.
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Dena, enough about yourself.
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We should talk about Ramy.
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Okay.
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So, Sheikh, Zainab,
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we are very happy
about this wedding.
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Possible wedding.
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This possible wedding.
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We're happy to meet you both.
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Thank you so much.
We're very happy to be here.
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Your home is beautiful,
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and your taste for fashion
is impeccable.
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Thank you.
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Um, maybe we should talk
about the logistics
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of this possible wedding?
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We have a big family
back in Egypt,
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and the earlier we plan things,
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the better it is for everyone.
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Mom, I don't‐‐I don't think
we really need to worry
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about Egypt right now.
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Like, maybe we could just focus
on the people in this room?
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Yes.
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I'm happy with the enthusiasm,
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but perhaps
we should take our time
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with this decision.
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I think it'd be good
if we used this time
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just to talk
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and get to know each other
a bit.
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I agree.
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So, uh, Brother Farouk,
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Ramy was telling me
you're a sales manager.
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Yes.
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How do you like your work?
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I heard you've been there
for a long time.
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Sorry I'm late.
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Mom, you invited Uncle Naseem?
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Yeah. What the fuck is this?
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Farouk, you have to lock
the door.
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There are so many immigrants
in this neighborhood now.
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As-salamu alaykum.
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Uh, wa alaykumu s-salam.
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You guys say that, yes?
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Yes.
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Do you prefer this? No?
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I'm sorry,
who is this gentleman?
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Uh, sorry.
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This is my Uncle Naseem
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and I didn't know
that he was coming.
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I‐‐I did not invite him.
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He's my brother.
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I need all the information
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on who is joining this family.
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Pleasure to meet you.
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Brother Ramy speaks of you
often.
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Mashallah.
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Wow. Impressive.
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He speaks Arabic too.
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Naseem.
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What prison did you convert in?
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I'm sorry, Sheikh. I‐‐.
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Ah.
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We all battle
our own stereotypes.
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Mm‐hmm.
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For example,
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Muslims in the black community
so often are frustrated
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trying to share
the true teachings of Islam
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when so many of our
Arab brothers and sisters
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open up liquor stores
in our neighborhoods.
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The shameful hypocrisy is, um,
difficult to explain away.
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We're also not the ones
bombing stuff.
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Zainab. Hmm.
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I never thought of it that way.
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Hi. I'm Zainab, by the way.
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Salams.
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Salams.
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Very cool. Very hip‐hop.
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Maybe we should go back
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to the wedding talk
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and discuss expenses.
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Mom, I think, like,
if we do move forward,
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we'll just do a small
katb kitab.
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I'll pay for as much of it
as I can.
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Oh, and, um, I'm also
gonna pay for some as well.
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Ramy, Zainab,
that is very thoughtful,
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but if we decide
to take that step‐‐.
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Fine.
Farouk and I will pay for this.
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The whole thing.
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Mom, no one's asking you
to pay for the whole thing.
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I will do anything
for you to be happy.
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Please stop.
Stop what you're doing.
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I'll pay for half.
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I have to be honest,
it's much better
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than Ramy bringing home
a Korean.
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I like this brother.
I like his daughter.
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I really like the music
your people make, you know?
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I will pitch in for half
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and Farouk will cover
the other half.
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Maybe we could just talk.
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I know you owe me
a lot of money, Farouk.
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It's okay.
You just add this to the tab.
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Enough.
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You're all just talk, talk
in this house.
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And I'm the one who has to do.
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You each want something
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and I'm responsible
to make this thing happen.
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Like there's a dog up there.
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Someone needs to walk her
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before she ruins the house
even more.
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Who's the someone? It's me.
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And by the way, that's your dog.
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Farouk.
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I think he's excited
about the wedding.
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Mm‐hmm.
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Dad.
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What‐‐what's going on?
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I lost my job, Ramy.
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When you're a father, you
have to think of everything.
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When I look at you
and your mom and your sister,
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I want you to enjoy
living in the now.
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I cannot live in the now.
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I have to live in the future.
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I have to see what's coming
and plan,
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protect.
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Sheikh, you
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you really don't have to do
that.
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You hosted.
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If you were at my home,
I'm sure you'd do the same.
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I wanted to apologize
for my actions in there.
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You and your daughter deserve
much better than this.
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Please forgive me.
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It's clear to me that you
care deeply about our children.
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If anything, your actions
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show that you're a serious
and thoughtful man.
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I admire that.
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And I must admit,
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not everyone can handle
a brother‐in‐law like yours.
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Oh.
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Oh, yeah.
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You know, my son,
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since the day he was born,
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every moment in my life
has been dedicated
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to making sure that he succeeds.
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Handing him over just like that
to Zainab and the real world...
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Is very hard for me.
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It feels like
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the outcome will no longer be
in my hands.
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We must remember the outcome
is never in our hands.
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When the subject of marriage
was broached,
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I admit I had some resistance.
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But I've seen a change
in your son.
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I trust that my daughter
is her own woman.
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And if they're doing this
with Allah on their hearts,
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that's all we can ask for.
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If you trust
that I raised a daughter
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that can help your son
reach his goals,
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I trust
that you've done the same.
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I think it's our duty
to support this union,
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to guide them,
show them the way.
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I'd be honored to go on
that journey with you, Brother,
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share that responsibility.
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The honor is mine, Sheikh.
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20 camels.
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What?
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The dowry.
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Serious?
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Okay.