1 00:00:00,834 --> 00:00:02,367 [woman] Previously on Unexpected... 2 00:00:02,367 --> 00:00:06,266 -[Lilly] I'm gonna miss you. -I know. You gotta go be a mama on your own. 3 00:00:06,266 --> 00:00:10,600 Feel like I needed to move out to get a sense of what motherhood really is. 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,667 But it's weird not to have my mom around all the time. 5 00:00:14,667 --> 00:00:18,300 I'd like to have a wedding. The ceremony and all of that. 6 00:00:18,300 --> 00:00:20,367 Look at this. It's bougie as hell. 7 00:00:20,367 --> 00:00:23,800 I'm worried that we're never, ever gonna be able to pay for a wedding. 8 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:25,767 -[Lawrence] We [bleep]. -Yup. 9 00:00:25,767 --> 00:00:30,800 The only advice I could give to you guys is, being patient with each other. 10 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:34,400 Growing up with a single dad, I don't know how moms really work. 11 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:38,667 But I'm actually planning on moving into Taryn's after the baby's born. 12 00:00:38,667 --> 00:00:40,700 I haven't talked to my dad about it yet 13 00:00:40,700 --> 00:00:42,867 because I'm worried he's not gonna take it that well. 14 00:00:46,700 --> 00:00:50,000 My name is Aniyah, I'm 17 and I'm pregnant. 15 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:54,200 I'm really excited for our baby shower. It's gonna be extravagant. 16 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,567 Mom, what else can we have? Let's get an elephant. 17 00:00:56,567 --> 00:00:59,533 -[Ashley] You hear what she's saying? -Oh, my gosh. 18 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:02,600 You better get used to it 19 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,266 because I got, like, a whole bucket list of things 20 00:01:05,266 --> 00:01:07,066 I wanna do before the baby gets here. 21 00:01:07,066 --> 00:01:08,467 Oh, my God. 22 00:01:10,767 --> 00:01:12,667 -[???] Yeah. -You are? 23 00:01:12,667 --> 00:01:13,967 I'm excited to meet him. 24 00:01:13,967 --> 00:01:15,600 [Jenna] JJ is my boyfriend. 25 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,166 JJ got me this ring. 26 00:01:17,166 --> 00:01:19,567 -Well, he should have called and asked me... -No, he shouldn't. 27 00:01:19,567 --> 00:01:21,600 What the [bleep] is going on right now? 28 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,333 [child] Uh-oh. 29 00:01:25,767 --> 00:01:28,500 ♪ Big, little, end of day ♪ 30 00:01:28,500 --> 00:01:30,467 ♪ Rock the room Rock the show ♪ 31 00:01:30,467 --> 00:01:34,500 -You want waffles or cereal? -Waffles. Eggs. 32 00:01:34,500 --> 00:01:35,500 Got a little microwave bacon. 33 00:01:35,500 --> 00:01:37,066 I'm not cooking eggs right now. 34 00:01:37,066 --> 00:01:39,000 -You see the time right now? -[Lawrence] What that mean? 35 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:40,700 -It's 7:20. -So? 36 00:01:40,700 --> 00:01:43,000 She's gotta be to school. 37 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:47,567 I only cook breakfast like that on the weekends. You should know that by now. 38 00:01:47,567 --> 00:01:51,734 I'm Lilly. I'm 22 years old and I'm mom to Aaliyah and LJ. 39 00:01:55,300 --> 00:01:57,433 -I'm Lawrence. -[LJ babbling] 40 00:01:59,767 --> 00:02:01,233 [LJ laughing] 41 00:02:03,100 --> 00:02:05,266 [Lilly] Hey. Come to mommy, now. 42 00:02:05,266 --> 00:02:07,000 -Go to your moms, man. -[LJ babbling] 43 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,567 You gotta be good boy for Mommy. 44 00:02:09,567 --> 00:02:11,834 I do not have the patience for this [bleep]. I really don't. 45 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,467 Okay, give him the apple juice. 46 00:02:15,467 --> 00:02:18,600 I'm Lawrence. I'm 21 years old and Lilly's fiance. 47 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,734 LJ's dad and I'm Aaliyah's step-dad. 48 00:02:26,266 --> 00:02:27,533 [LJ laughing] 49 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:30,333 Aaliyah. 50 00:02:31,667 --> 00:02:35,166 Use your listening ears and come put your clothes on. 51 00:02:35,166 --> 00:02:37,567 -Mom, can you help me? -Yes, come on. 52 00:02:37,567 --> 00:02:39,400 I'm trying to use the bath... I gotta... 53 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,266 [Lilly] Okay. I gotta get her dressed. Come on over. 54 00:02:42,266 --> 00:02:47,934 I feel like all I've done since I was 16 is, you know, stay home and raise babies. 55 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:50,900 -[woman] Good job, Lil. -[babbling] 56 00:02:50,900 --> 00:02:54,767 Like, they hand you this life and it's like, "Here you go. You're responsible for this." 57 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,567 Gonna have a baby soon. 58 00:02:58,567 --> 00:03:02,800 This is baby LJ and I'm his big sister. 59 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:04,300 Pee in my pants. 60 00:03:04,300 --> 00:03:06,500 -Did you pee your pants? -Uh-huh. 61 00:03:06,500 --> 00:03:07,634 God. 62 00:03:11,300 --> 00:03:16,000 ♪ Happy birthday to you♪ 63 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,266 I don't think I've had a moment to myself since 64 00:03:19,266 --> 00:03:22,934 September 4th, 2017 at 3:41 a.m. 65 00:03:24,700 --> 00:03:26,000 Yeah. [chuckles] 66 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,033 -[LJ whining] -No boobies. 67 00:03:29,667 --> 00:03:34,166 LJ, that's really not nice to Mommy. You're gonna give Mommy boo-boos. 68 00:03:34,166 --> 00:03:36,700 [LJ crying] 69 00:03:36,700 --> 00:03:41,000 I'm just hoping that one day LJ will wake up and not wanna breastfeed anymore. 70 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:45,567 Because trying to ween him off or go cold turkey has just been torture. 71 00:03:45,567 --> 00:03:47,166 You want milk in a cup? 72 00:03:47,166 --> 00:03:50,567 No! 73 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,667 I've already done that. I've already been putting lemon on there. 74 00:03:55,667 --> 00:03:56,834 Sour boobs. 75 00:03:56,834 --> 00:03:58,867 So he thinks it's yucky and he just literally doesn't care. 76 00:03:58,867 --> 00:04:01,166 -[LJ crying] -[Lawrence] I'm not too happy with it. 77 00:04:01,166 --> 00:04:04,000 Every time I get to hugging on Lilly, touching on Lilly, 78 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:05,433 "Mom, boob!" 79 00:04:05,433 --> 00:04:10,567 Like, you know, dude, like, suckin' on your moms boobs ain't cool no more. 80 00:04:13,266 --> 00:04:16,667 LJ, not nice. Mommy put her away now. 81 00:04:17,500 --> 00:04:21,033 -No, Mommy's putting it away now. -[LJ crying] 82 00:04:26,667 --> 00:04:28,133 Did you hit your head? 83 00:04:33,467 --> 00:04:36,767 Lawrence definitely has it very easy compared to me. 84 00:04:36,767 --> 00:04:40,400 I'm not saying that leaving the house and going to work isn't tiring. 85 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:45,266 But, um, I end up getting the [bleep] end of the stick. 86 00:04:45,266 --> 00:04:47,100 There's definitely certain days 87 00:04:47,100 --> 00:04:49,467 if I'm, like, cleaning the house, and the kids are being bad, 88 00:04:49,467 --> 00:04:52,467 and I'm stressed out, and everything's a mess and he's sitting there. 89 00:04:52,467 --> 00:04:56,200 I'm, like, in my head, like, "I'm gonna, like, punch you in the face." 90 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,166 But then, other days I don't really care. 91 00:04:59,166 --> 00:05:02,967 So even though he's not as helpful as he could be, 92 00:05:02,967 --> 00:05:05,767 he still does a hell of a lot providing. 93 00:05:05,767 --> 00:05:09,000 And there's no one else I would want to be with. 94 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:10,400 From the minute we started hanging out 95 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,467 I was just head over heels for him. 96 00:05:12,467 --> 00:05:14,266 And that never went away. 97 00:05:14,266 --> 00:05:18,467 And I think, even though my mom isn't going to like the idea, 98 00:05:18,467 --> 00:05:20,133 I'm ready to plan our wedding. 99 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:27,533 [Lawrence] Have a good day. 100 00:05:31,100 --> 00:05:33,867 -[bleep]. -October 10th, 2020. 101 00:05:34,667 --> 00:05:36,634 We've been engaged for three years? 102 00:05:38,066 --> 00:05:40,333 -That's [bleep] crazy. Two and a half. -Two. 103 00:05:41,867 --> 00:05:44,967 -Will you marry me? -Oh, my God. Yes. 104 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:47,166 I love you. 105 00:05:48,367 --> 00:05:51,567 Truth be told, I couldn't imagine planning a wedding. 106 00:05:51,567 --> 00:05:55,200 When we first got engaged that would've been, uh, horrific, you know. 107 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,166 Even now, we need a good six months 108 00:05:58,166 --> 00:06:01,467 before we're in a good place financially that we could save up to get married. 109 00:06:01,467 --> 00:06:05,934 Which gives me enough time to build up the courage to tell my mom. 110 00:06:07,500 --> 00:06:09,900 ♪ Oh, way Nobody gonna stop me ♪ 111 00:06:09,900 --> 00:06:12,066 ♪ Too hot, on fire Nobody can touch me ♪ 112 00:06:12,066 --> 00:06:14,367 ♪ Just do what I wanna do ♪ 113 00:06:14,367 --> 00:06:16,700 ♪ 'Cause I do What I wanna do ♪ 114 00:06:16,700 --> 00:06:19,900 -Going to see our baby. -Let's go see our baby. 115 00:06:19,900 --> 00:06:21,867 We're headed to our 4D ultrasound 116 00:06:21,867 --> 00:06:24,266 and we're meeting both of our families there. 117 00:06:24,266 --> 00:06:27,900 I think we have about 20 people meeting us at this ultrasound. 118 00:06:27,900 --> 00:06:29,333 -That's a lot of people. -[Aniyah chuckles] 119 00:06:32,367 --> 00:06:34,400 [Dakwon] Yeah, they all right. 120 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:37,600 My family just wanna come see what the baby look like. 121 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:40,667 Just to see what features he got from us. For real, for real. 122 00:06:40,667 --> 00:06:44,100 Um, I think both of our families are coming to see the baby. 123 00:06:44,100 --> 00:06:47,500 But my family is all up in the business of everything. 124 00:06:47,500 --> 00:06:50,667 I don't get no privacy from anything or from anybody. 125 00:06:50,667 --> 00:06:52,166 -[Aniyah chuckles] -Yeah. 126 00:06:52,166 --> 00:06:54,567 Like, when my mom went through my phone 127 00:06:54,567 --> 00:06:59,867 and she saw that, you know, we were engaging in sexual activities... 128 00:06:59,867 --> 00:07:01,867 -Wow. -...my whole family knew about it. 129 00:07:01,867 --> 00:07:03,467 Because she told them. 130 00:07:03,467 --> 00:07:05,100 It's like you walk in, "Oh, well, I heard..." 131 00:07:05,100 --> 00:07:07,000 -[both chuckle] -Right. Like... 132 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:08,767 Wow. 133 00:07:08,767 --> 00:07:12,767 -I've really gotta pee, like, so bad. -You gotta pee? 134 00:07:12,767 --> 00:07:14,900 Yes, I have to pee. 135 00:07:14,900 --> 00:07:17,667 -[mimicking water running] -Like, I feel like I gotta squeeze my toes. 136 00:07:17,667 --> 00:07:21,767 Dae, for real, stop. So then if I pee in your car, you're gonna be very upset. 137 00:07:21,767 --> 00:07:24,400 -[mimicking water running] -Drive a... 138 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:26,400 -Drive a little bit faster. -[Dakwon] I can't. 139 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:29,266 -[mimicking water running] -Stop! 140 00:07:29,266 --> 00:07:32,166 I've been basically, like, sleepwalking to the bathroom 141 00:07:32,166 --> 00:07:35,266 because they have me drinking so much water for this ultrasound. 142 00:07:35,266 --> 00:07:37,700 So his picture and his face will be clear. 143 00:07:37,700 --> 00:07:41,867 This is actually our second time getting a 3D, 4D ultrasound. 144 00:07:41,867 --> 00:07:44,667 Our first time going was when we hit six months. 145 00:07:45,367 --> 00:07:47,166 He's got his little hand up there. 146 00:07:47,166 --> 00:07:49,467 -He was really, like... -Grumpy. 147 00:07:49,467 --> 00:07:50,767 Like... 148 00:07:50,767 --> 00:07:52,567 He was covering his face. 149 00:07:52,567 --> 00:07:56,100 So I really hope, I really, really, really, really hope 150 00:07:56,100 --> 00:07:59,600 that he shows us what he looks like because everybody came here to see him. 151 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:02,367 -[Dakwon] Oh, God. -Thank you. 152 00:08:02,367 --> 00:08:05,367 -[Ashley] Hey, y'all. -I'm sorry, but I have to pee really badly. 153 00:08:05,367 --> 00:08:07,200 So excuse me. 154 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,333 Hey, Mom. It's been a long time since I've seen you. 155 00:08:11,567 --> 00:08:13,500 It seems just like eight o'clock this morning. 156 00:08:13,500 --> 00:08:17,100 My name is Toya and I am Dakwon's mother. 157 00:08:17,100 --> 00:08:22,667 We don't have any babies in our family. Lela is the youngest. 158 00:08:22,667 --> 00:08:23,767 And she's nine. 159 00:08:23,767 --> 00:08:29,567 So we're about to have a new, fresh baby. 160 00:08:29,567 --> 00:08:33,500 -This is the first great-grandbaby. -You're not a baby no more. 161 00:08:33,500 --> 00:08:37,133 -Dang! And I used to take you out spying. -[all exclaiming] 162 00:08:39,166 --> 00:08:40,367 [Blake] No, me. 163 00:08:40,367 --> 00:08:43,200 -Everybody. -[all laughing] 164 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:45,166 [sighs in relief] Okay. I'm back now. 165 00:08:47,367 --> 00:08:48,700 -Thank you. -[Aniyah] You're welcome. 166 00:08:48,700 --> 00:08:51,767 Here, drink this to get the baby up and moving. 167 00:08:51,767 --> 00:08:53,266 -[can fizzing] -Ooh. 168 00:08:53,266 --> 00:08:55,100 -Aniyah? -Mmm-hmm. 169 00:08:55,100 --> 00:08:57,967 -Are y'all ready to go back? -Mmm-hmm. 170 00:08:57,967 --> 00:09:01,100 -Is everybody coming with you. -[all] Yes! 171 00:09:01,100 --> 00:09:04,533 [indistinct chatter] 172 00:09:06,867 --> 00:09:09,533 -[Dakwon] I miss my... -[Aniyah laughing] 173 00:09:15,367 --> 00:09:18,166 [Aniyah] No, we're trying to get him up. 174 00:09:18,166 --> 00:09:21,867 Before we even get started I wanna make sure that Aniyis is awake. 175 00:09:21,867 --> 00:09:25,567 Because he's really stubborn and I need him to show his face, 176 00:09:25,567 --> 00:09:27,800 so we can show him off while we here. 177 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:29,467 [Robin] What's the baby mama dance? 178 00:09:29,467 --> 00:09:31,367 [Ashley] You gotta do it, Aniyah. 179 00:09:31,367 --> 00:09:32,700 You gotta do the baby mama dance. 180 00:09:32,700 --> 00:09:35,066 He gone move after this. 181 00:09:35,066 --> 00:09:37,200 ♪ Baby mamas This is your song♪ 182 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,700 ♪ Been pregnant For way too long ♪ 183 00:09:39,700 --> 00:09:41,767 ♪If she your baby mama ♪ 184 00:09:41,767 --> 00:09:44,600 -♪ Go ahead♪ -♪ She gonna do That baby mama ♪ 185 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,767 I'm literally doing everything that I can to wake him up 186 00:09:47,767 --> 00:09:49,667 because I'm gonna get a good picture. 187 00:09:49,667 --> 00:09:51,266 [Ashley] Aniyah, do jumping jacks. 188 00:09:51,266 --> 00:09:54,800 One, two, three, four. 189 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:58,266 Doing jumping jacks. I'm doing toe to toes. 190 00:09:58,266 --> 00:09:59,667 [all laughing] 191 00:09:59,667 --> 00:10:01,200 [woman] I know you got to show. 192 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:05,800 Like, this boy has me running outside. 193 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:07,400 [Amayra] Aniyah, I ain't about to play with you. 194 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,800 Now, hold on, let me give him a one-on-one talk real quick. 195 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:16,200 Aniyis, one thing we not gonna do is waste money, okay? 196 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:19,266 -So you need to get up. -We're trying to see you. Come on. 197 00:10:20,767 --> 00:10:22,467 -Yeah. -Come on. 198 00:10:22,467 --> 00:10:24,000 DaeDae thinks I'm being dramatic 199 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:25,667 because I really wanna see his face, 200 00:10:25,667 --> 00:10:27,467 but it's just that I don't like surprises. 201 00:10:27,467 --> 00:10:29,567 It's a spoiler. Why you wanna see his face so early? Like... 202 00:10:29,567 --> 00:10:32,767 -Because I don't... -You're about see him in, like, six weeks. 203 00:10:32,767 --> 00:10:34,233 -Max. -No, like four. 204 00:10:35,767 --> 00:10:37,967 -Thirty-six weeks. -It's the same thing. 205 00:10:37,967 --> 00:10:39,800 -Six weeks. [chuckles] -It's not the same thing. 206 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,767 But, no, I need to see his face 207 00:10:42,767 --> 00:10:45,934 because I just need to know what he's looking like. 208 00:10:46,567 --> 00:10:48,166 Uh, please move. 209 00:10:48,166 --> 00:10:52,300 -[Latoya speaking] -[all laughing] 210 00:10:52,300 --> 00:10:55,667 I just felt like she was gonna put herself into pre-labor. 211 00:10:55,667 --> 00:10:58,467 So later on tonight, she may have contractions 212 00:10:58,467 --> 00:11:00,567 because she was doing a little bit too much. 213 00:11:02,367 --> 00:11:04,333 [Robin speaking] 214 00:11:05,266 --> 00:11:08,200 Okay. I drank so much water. 215 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:09,634 [Robin speaking] 216 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:19,367 Come on. 217 00:11:21,667 --> 00:11:23,066 [woman] Let's see. 218 00:11:25,567 --> 00:11:27,700 [Robin speaking] 219 00:11:27,700 --> 00:11:29,000 [Aniyah] I just wish he'd move. 220 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,667 Jesus Christ. Like, beep-beep, come on. 221 00:11:31,667 --> 00:11:32,767 [Robin] Come on. 222 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:38,967 Can you stop with doing that? 223 00:11:38,967 --> 00:11:41,867 This is not the time to sleep. 224 00:11:41,867 --> 00:11:43,700 Every time I turn around DaeDae is asleep. 225 00:11:43,700 --> 00:11:47,467 Like, he was... Even at the first ultrasound he fell asleep. 226 00:11:47,467 --> 00:11:49,533 Second ultrasound, I look back, he asleep. 227 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,400 When I'm bored I just go to sleep. 228 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:56,967 So when you have Aniyis and you just get bored out of nowhere, what, 229 00:11:56,967 --> 00:11:58,000 you gonna go to sleep? 230 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,133 I mean, if he not crying I might. 231 00:12:00,867 --> 00:12:02,266 No. 232 00:12:02,266 --> 00:12:05,333 -I might. I just might. -That's not what you do. 233 00:12:06,100 --> 00:12:07,634 [Latoya] DaeDae, talk to her. 234 00:12:10,300 --> 00:12:12,867 -Do that. -Yo. 235 00:12:12,867 --> 00:12:14,467 [all laughing] 236 00:12:14,467 --> 00:12:15,667 -He didn't like that. -What? 237 00:12:15,667 --> 00:12:18,000 -Sing his name. -[Dakwon] Aniyis. 238 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,400 Dakwon, he's in for a shock. 239 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:23,066 Um, he's in for a rude awakening. 240 00:12:23,066 --> 00:12:25,800 Everything is about the baby now. 241 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:31,500 You're absolutely... I mean, you're still important, but... 242 00:12:31,500 --> 00:12:35,367 I'm just letting you know, like, you have to put the baby's needs 243 00:12:35,367 --> 00:12:39,233 before your own needs now, so that's the way it works. 244 00:12:40,100 --> 00:12:43,166 -Wake up. Is that good enough? -[Latoya] No. 245 00:12:43,166 --> 00:12:45,166 [Aniyah] Quit being all sweet. Tell him to get up. 246 00:12:45,166 --> 00:12:47,033 [child] You are the father. 247 00:12:50,367 --> 00:12:52,767 -Hello? -[Aniyah laughing] 248 00:12:52,767 --> 00:12:56,166 I hope that DaeDae's gonna step up and be the best father he can be. 249 00:12:56,166 --> 00:13:00,166 But, um, from what I'm seeing, there's plenty of room for growth. 250 00:13:07,266 --> 00:13:09,767 -That would exactly be the advice, like. -[laughing] 251 00:13:09,767 --> 00:13:11,000 Leave him alone. 252 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:12,600 She don't like none of our dads. 253 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:14,100 She didn't want nothing to do with 'em. 254 00:13:14,100 --> 00:13:17,367 That's men. Just in general. Majority rules. 255 00:13:17,367 --> 00:13:19,367 Most of these guys don't take care of their children. 256 00:13:19,367 --> 00:13:22,634 He's not waking up. I'm sorry. I tried my best. 257 00:13:23,266 --> 00:13:25,634 So I'm gonna be very involved 258 00:13:26,867 --> 00:13:28,967 in raising Aniyis. 259 00:13:28,967 --> 00:13:32,567 I already knew that. 'Cause you mama number two. 260 00:13:32,567 --> 00:13:34,467 You don't really have a choice. 261 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:36,667 [chuckling] Girl, you can go to hell. 262 00:13:36,667 --> 00:13:39,367 I mean, you don't have a choice 'cause I live with you. 263 00:13:39,367 --> 00:13:40,900 What you gonna do? 264 00:13:40,900 --> 00:13:42,667 [sighs] 265 00:13:42,667 --> 00:13:44,900 -[Casey] Hey, everybody. -Hey, Dad. 266 00:13:44,900 --> 00:13:48,600 I kind of been putting off telling my dad that I wanna move in with Nate. 267 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:52,300 I kinda have to pull up my big girl panties and talk to him about it. 268 00:13:52,300 --> 00:13:53,967 But I'm scared. 269 00:13:53,967 --> 00:13:57,066 Ow! Ow, ow, ow, ow, ow, ow. 270 00:13:57,066 --> 00:13:58,700 -[machines beeping] -Ow! 271 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:05,867 If Aniyah's blood pressure continues to rise, it could put the baby in distress, 272 00:14:05,867 --> 00:14:10,266 and cause early labor, and even a, um, caesarean. 273 00:14:10,266 --> 00:14:12,367 Oh, Moses. 274 00:14:12,367 --> 00:14:14,333 So I'm very concerned. 275 00:14:17,166 --> 00:14:19,066 [vocalizing] 276 00:14:26,100 --> 00:14:28,467 -[Jenna] Tootie, are you excited? -[child] Yeah. 277 00:14:28,467 --> 00:14:30,600 [Jenna] Are you excited? 278 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:33,000 Thank God that that drive is done. 279 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:36,400 After sitting in the truck with my dad for, like, 10 plus hours, 280 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:39,533 I am so happy to be in Myrtle Beach. 281 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:43,166 -When's JJ gonna get in? -He's already there. 282 00:14:44,867 --> 00:14:48,400 I'm worried that my dad's gonna make my boyfriend, JJ, uncomfortable. 283 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:50,500 Just because he had one of his hissy fits 284 00:14:50,500 --> 00:14:52,367 when I told him about the promise ring, 285 00:14:52,367 --> 00:14:54,967 so I have no idea what's about to happen. 286 00:14:59,667 --> 00:15:01,166 Come on, Luca. 287 00:15:09,767 --> 00:15:11,634 Come on. Look. 288 00:15:13,100 --> 00:15:16,700 I'm JJ. I'm 19 years old and I'm Jenna's boyfriend. 289 00:15:16,700 --> 00:15:20,266 ♪ I'm not gonna let you go♪ 290 00:15:20,266 --> 00:15:23,900 JJ was, like, my boyfriend all throughout elementary school 291 00:15:23,900 --> 00:15:26,200 and in junior high. 292 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:28,800 Um, JJ was my first kiss. 293 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,567 [JJ] I think I was 10 and you were 11. 294 00:15:31,567 --> 00:15:35,767 We dated for about two years before I moved here. 295 00:15:35,767 --> 00:15:37,166 And I'm sure that if JJ never moved 296 00:15:37,166 --> 00:15:40,567 I would have lost my virginity to JJ, but he moved. 297 00:15:40,567 --> 00:15:42,934 So it was just like... 298 00:15:43,500 --> 00:15:45,066 It was a long time coming. 299 00:15:47,266 --> 00:15:48,166 [JJ chuckles] 300 00:15:49,467 --> 00:15:50,867 To have sex with JJ? 301 00:15:50,867 --> 00:15:53,767 Well, yeah, I was nervous to have sex with JJ. I told that. 302 00:15:53,767 --> 00:15:57,066 Well, JJ was the first person beside Aden 303 00:15:57,066 --> 00:15:59,367 that I had sex with after having a baby. 304 00:15:59,367 --> 00:16:02,367 So it was like, um, I didn't know... 305 00:16:03,467 --> 00:16:05,500 if my vagina was the same. 306 00:16:05,500 --> 00:16:08,700 Don't worry, it is. And all was well. 307 00:16:08,700 --> 00:16:10,233 Very nice. 308 00:16:12,867 --> 00:16:16,000 Oh, my God, no. [bleep]. I didn't move here for [bleep]. 309 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:17,266 [chuckles] 310 00:16:22,266 --> 00:16:28,066 Jenna is worried about the questions that her dad is gonna ask me. 311 00:16:28,066 --> 00:16:31,066 I am definitely anxious to meet Matt. 312 00:16:36,100 --> 00:16:37,867 Jenna, where are you gonna want this stuff? 313 00:16:37,867 --> 00:16:39,734 [Jenna] Just set it against the wall. 314 00:16:45,266 --> 00:16:49,967 My dad's being so awkward and I wish that he would just be normal and talk. 315 00:16:49,967 --> 00:16:53,500 Maybe introduce himself and be nice to JJ because at the end of the day, 316 00:16:53,500 --> 00:16:57,567 he's probably a little uncomfortable in this situation right now. 317 00:16:57,567 --> 00:17:00,200 -Where's this go? The porch? -Yeah. 318 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:03,600 -Why isn't it locked? -It was. 319 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:05,667 -Oh. -It was. 320 00:17:05,667 --> 00:17:07,300 Just keep it locked. 321 00:17:07,300 --> 00:17:10,667 My concerns with Jenna and this whole move 322 00:17:10,667 --> 00:17:13,100 are just typical concerns any father would have. 323 00:17:13,100 --> 00:17:17,166 -Is that a door? -[Jenna] Yeah, a sliding glass door. 324 00:17:17,166 --> 00:17:19,433 Is she gonna be safe? Is she in a safe neighborhood? 325 00:17:22,767 --> 00:17:24,767 And of course, I'm worried about who this guy is 326 00:17:24,767 --> 00:17:26,066 who she's moving down here for. 327 00:17:28,467 --> 00:17:31,867 -Should we sit down? -[Jenna] Okay. 328 00:17:34,166 --> 00:17:36,266 JJ, come here. 329 00:17:37,867 --> 00:17:39,266 This is JJ. 330 00:17:42,767 --> 00:17:46,033 -How long are you planning on staying for? -[Matt chuckles] 331 00:17:47,467 --> 00:17:51,433 I'm leaving tomorrow morning. But we're coming back down for Thanksgiving. 332 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,834 I don't believe that I'm a very trusting person, 333 00:18:02,266 --> 00:18:05,467 so I'm hesitant about JJ. 334 00:18:05,467 --> 00:18:08,166 Especially after her previous relationship. 335 00:18:08,166 --> 00:18:09,734 I don't wanna see her hurt again. 336 00:18:12,266 --> 00:18:16,100 Mama. 337 00:18:16,100 --> 00:18:17,734 [crying] 338 00:18:19,100 --> 00:18:20,533 [Jenna] I think Luca's tired. 339 00:18:22,500 --> 00:18:24,400 You ready? 340 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:26,667 All right. Good night. 341 00:18:26,667 --> 00:18:28,800 -[Matt] I love you. Let me give him a kiss. -[Jenna] Love you. 342 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:30,033 [Matt] Love you, buddy. 343 00:18:30,867 --> 00:18:32,567 Good night. Wanna say night-night? 344 00:18:33,867 --> 00:18:34,934 [Matt] Good night, buddy. 345 00:18:35,567 --> 00:18:36,634 Go to sleep. 346 00:18:38,667 --> 00:18:41,600 I feel bad, but I have to tend to my son. 347 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:44,467 So I kind of just have to leave JJ out there 348 00:18:44,467 --> 00:18:46,166 to fend for himself with my dad. 349 00:18:46,166 --> 00:18:48,166 This could get a little rough. 350 00:18:49,100 --> 00:18:50,934 [Matt] How do you like being around a two-year-old? 351 00:18:51,567 --> 00:18:53,467 It has its ups and downs. 352 00:18:53,467 --> 00:18:55,133 Like this part right here? 353 00:18:56,967 --> 00:18:58,400 Probably the least favorite part. 354 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,433 Yeah, well, maybe you should go help her deal with it. 355 00:19:01,567 --> 00:19:05,166 -Oh, I definitely should. -[Matt] Yeah. [chuckles] All right. 356 00:19:06,166 --> 00:19:10,567 JJ has to be acceptant of Luca. 357 00:19:10,567 --> 00:19:13,667 And, I mean, at 19 years old, I was in the Marine Corps at the time, 358 00:19:13,667 --> 00:19:15,934 but I wasn't ready to be a father. 359 00:19:16,500 --> 00:19:17,934 That wasn't... 360 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,066 where I was. 361 00:19:20,066 --> 00:19:23,066 You know what I mean? That's why it's hard for me to understand. 362 00:19:23,066 --> 00:19:27,400 But I'm spent because I just did a 10-hour ride with Jenna and a two-year-old. 363 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:31,500 And I do want to reserve judgment until I can get to know him a little bit better. 364 00:19:31,500 --> 00:19:34,300 So, I'm not done talking to him yet. 365 00:19:34,300 --> 00:19:36,367 We're coming back down for Thanksgiving, 366 00:19:36,367 --> 00:19:39,266 so I'll talk to him then about the promise ring, 367 00:19:39,266 --> 00:19:42,667 and his intentions when I can think a little more clearly. 368 00:19:50,166 --> 00:19:52,967 Do you want Parmesan cheese or peppers? 369 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,066 Parmesan? Okay. 370 00:19:58,767 --> 00:20:00,567 -Hey, Willie. -Hi, Dad. 371 00:20:00,567 --> 00:20:02,000 -[Casey] How's it going? -[Emalee] Good. 372 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:07,166 Me, my dad and my little brother live at my house right now. 373 00:20:07,166 --> 00:20:11,567 And my dad's gone a lot of the time. He works pretty far. 374 00:20:11,567 --> 00:20:15,567 So it's like I only see him in the evenings at dinner time. 375 00:20:15,567 --> 00:20:18,934 So when Nate and I hang out, it's usually at my dad's house. 376 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,567 -No, so... -[laughs] I don't know where... 377 00:20:25,567 --> 00:20:29,967 The day that we, like, he was conceived. Her dad was home. 378 00:20:29,967 --> 00:20:31,100 'Cause it was, like... 379 00:20:31,100 --> 00:20:34,367 -My dad was home when we conceived my baby. -Uh-huh. 380 00:20:34,967 --> 00:20:36,767 [laughs] That's disgusting. 381 00:20:41,667 --> 00:20:44,166 [laughing] 382 00:20:44,166 --> 00:20:46,166 Conceived is when he was made. 383 00:20:46,867 --> 00:20:48,567 Yeah. Your dad was home. 384 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,734 That's disgusting. [laughs] 385 00:20:55,700 --> 00:20:59,567 -Wh... Wh... Why? -[laughs] I need a second. 386 00:20:59,567 --> 00:21:01,166 -[Casey] Are y'all done? -[Jackson] No, no, no, no. 387 00:21:01,166 --> 00:21:02,467 [Casey] You... You don't like pepper? 388 00:21:02,467 --> 00:21:04,467 -There's some over there. -Oh. 389 00:21:04,467 --> 00:21:08,200 My name is Casey. I'm 40 years old and I'm Emalee's dad. 390 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:12,734 After I got pregnant, it took me 14 weeks to just tell my dad. 391 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,500 I originally was terrified to tell him. 392 00:21:16,500 --> 00:21:18,433 Not because I thought 393 00:21:19,100 --> 00:21:20,867 he would disown me, 394 00:21:20,867 --> 00:21:24,600 but kind of because I thought he would disown me. [chuckles nervously] 395 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:26,967 Uh, but that clearly was not the case. 396 00:21:26,967 --> 00:21:29,867 I think she's needed 397 00:21:29,867 --> 00:21:33,900 solid, rock steady figure in her life, now more than ever. 398 00:21:33,900 --> 00:21:40,066 Emalee was 10 months old when her mother and I separated. 399 00:21:40,066 --> 00:21:44,767 She would disappear and not talk to us for months at a time. 400 00:21:44,767 --> 00:21:48,767 And then she moved to Alaska and didn't tell me or my brother. 401 00:21:48,767 --> 00:21:52,266 Once I was old enough to really comprehend all of the things 402 00:21:52,266 --> 00:21:54,767 that she had put all of us through, 403 00:21:54,767 --> 00:21:57,967 I basically was like, "She's not trying to make an effort 404 00:21:57,967 --> 00:21:59,667 "to be a part of my life." 405 00:21:59,667 --> 00:22:03,266 And as her child, I don't think it's my responsibility to be 406 00:22:04,100 --> 00:22:06,266 the bigger person in this situation. 407 00:22:07,100 --> 00:22:09,066 And I don't owe her anything. 408 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,700 Which led to us not ever talking at all. 409 00:22:12,700 --> 00:22:19,367 It's probably the main thing in my life that has caused me the most pain and trauma. 410 00:22:19,367 --> 00:22:21,967 But at the same time, it's also made me almost 411 00:22:21,967 --> 00:22:23,867 want to be a mother more. 412 00:22:23,867 --> 00:22:29,734 So I can give my kid everything that I never got emotionally from my own mom. 413 00:22:31,300 --> 00:22:33,166 -[Casey] How was your day? -[Emalee] Good. 414 00:22:33,166 --> 00:22:35,567 Um, the principal came up to me. 415 00:22:35,567 --> 00:22:38,467 She basically said she's gonna do what she can 416 00:22:38,467 --> 00:22:40,467 to make sure that I graduate. 417 00:22:40,467 --> 00:22:42,266 But I told her that I have plans 418 00:22:42,266 --> 00:22:44,367 to take time off when the baby's first born 419 00:22:44,367 --> 00:22:46,500 because it'll be easier for breastfeeding. 420 00:22:46,500 --> 00:22:47,800 Sure. 421 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,934 Oh, he just kicked me really hard. Um... 422 00:22:53,166 --> 00:22:55,634 [Emalee] Yeah. Way to make it about yourself. 423 00:22:56,467 --> 00:22:58,000 Feel right here. 424 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,066 That's someone's body part. 425 00:23:00,066 --> 00:23:02,767 -It's a human being inside of another human being. -You can literally see 426 00:23:02,767 --> 00:23:04,333 the lump of it. 427 00:23:05,700 --> 00:23:10,767 The thought that there's an actual human growing inside of you, it's just off. 428 00:23:10,767 --> 00:23:12,767 Like there's a penis inside of me. 429 00:23:12,767 --> 00:23:14,667 Like, that I grew myself. 430 00:23:15,667 --> 00:23:16,834 Isn't that weird? 431 00:23:17,367 --> 00:23:18,634 Yeah, and... 432 00:23:18,634 --> 00:23:21,166 But, like, how cool is that? I've grown a penis and you've never. 433 00:23:21,166 --> 00:23:22,300 You just got the penis. 434 00:23:22,300 --> 00:23:23,734 -Well, it... -I grew it. 435 00:23:27,166 --> 00:23:28,700 That's gross. 436 00:23:39,166 --> 00:23:42,667 I kind of been putting of telling my dad that I want to move in with Nate. 437 00:23:42,667 --> 00:23:43,967 Just because... 438 00:23:45,066 --> 00:23:47,667 I don't want to hurt his feelings, I guess you could say. 439 00:23:47,667 --> 00:23:50,367 But now that Westley will be coming soon, 440 00:23:50,367 --> 00:23:53,934 I kind of have to pull up my big girl panties and tell him. 441 00:23:58,500 --> 00:24:00,433 Um, so... [clears throat] 442 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,467 Um, my plan as of now... 443 00:24:08,300 --> 00:24:11,567 Um, immediately after Westley's born, 444 00:24:12,567 --> 00:24:14,533 I think I'm gonna stay at Nate's house. 445 00:24:16,066 --> 00:24:18,600 That way I have Nate there 24/7 for his help. 446 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:22,166 And so I have his mom, Taryn, there. 447 00:24:22,166 --> 00:24:25,133 Um, so she can kind of give me that motherly help. 448 00:24:26,867 --> 00:24:30,000 -And I've talked to Taryn about it too. -Well, I'd hope so. 449 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:31,433 Right, it's her house. 450 00:24:32,100 --> 00:24:34,000 But... 451 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,567 I am 18, so I never really asked your, like, permission. 452 00:24:39,266 --> 00:24:43,000 But I would still like to know how you feel about it. 453 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:48,367 Well, any father that has a daughter would agree that age doesn't matter. 454 00:24:48,367 --> 00:24:52,100 -That you're 18 or not. Um... -Mm-hmm. 455 00:24:52,100 --> 00:24:54,533 [Casey] But there's concern there, that plan. 456 00:24:55,166 --> 00:24:56,400 [Emalee] Yeah. 457 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:58,900 [Casey] Finding out about Emalee's plans, it's saddening. 458 00:24:58,900 --> 00:25:01,467 Why didn't you tell me? Why didn't you come to me? 459 00:25:01,467 --> 00:25:03,367 It's not personal, I promise. 460 00:25:03,900 --> 00:25:06,567 I just think Taryn could 461 00:25:06,567 --> 00:25:10,967 give a little bit more advice and help with me and the baby 462 00:25:10,967 --> 00:25:14,467 rather than my dad because Taryn's breast-fed. 463 00:25:14,467 --> 00:25:16,867 -My dad's obviously not. -Didn't work out. 464 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:18,900 Yeah. [chuckles] 465 00:25:18,900 --> 00:25:23,166 -I think you should talk to Taryn a little bit. -[Casey] All right. 466 00:25:23,166 --> 00:25:25,800 [Emalee] Plan a lunch or something. I'm sure she'd be okay with it. 467 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,000 She's single, you know. 468 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:30,266 Yeah, I mean, I'm all for making it more awkward. 469 00:25:30,266 --> 00:25:32,634 -So... -No, that was a joke. 470 00:25:36,100 --> 00:25:38,533 "How do you guys know each other?" Well... 471 00:25:39,567 --> 00:25:42,567 -[chuckles] -Do I find his mother attractive? Yes. 472 00:25:43,867 --> 00:25:46,700 Does it make him uncomfortable and my daughter uncomfortable? 473 00:25:46,700 --> 00:25:48,000 Probably. 474 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:49,567 Um, I'm used to it. 475 00:25:49,567 --> 00:25:51,867 So you don't think it's weird? 476 00:25:51,867 --> 00:25:53,367 No, I definitely think it would be weird 477 00:25:53,367 --> 00:25:55,066 if my mom and your dad were dating, but... 478 00:25:55,066 --> 00:25:56,967 If they were doing the dirty? 479 00:25:56,967 --> 00:25:59,834 -Yeah, that would be weird. No. -[Emalee] In the same house. 480 00:26:00,667 --> 00:26:02,700 It's just gross. 481 00:26:02,700 --> 00:26:05,367 [Casey] But I'm trying to not let that distract me. 482 00:26:05,367 --> 00:26:09,767 I want to see if I can try to get everything out there, 483 00:26:09,767 --> 00:26:12,567 so Taryn and I can work on the same page 484 00:26:12,567 --> 00:26:16,100 as far as the baby 'cause it's coming up quick. 485 00:26:16,100 --> 00:26:17,333 But I'm still... 486 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,867 human and his mom, she is a cougar. 487 00:26:21,867 --> 00:26:23,867 -I won't deny that. -It's gross. 488 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:27,333 [Lilly] My nerves are shot. 489 00:26:28,100 --> 00:26:31,066 LJ, don't spit apple juice in Gram's car. 490 00:26:31,066 --> 00:26:32,667 -[Lilly] It's okay. -Mm-mm. 491 00:26:32,667 --> 00:26:37,567 My mom, I think sometimes she definitely doesn't trust my, like, parenting decisions. 492 00:26:37,567 --> 00:26:39,266 You're son took a bath at apple juice. 493 00:26:39,266 --> 00:26:41,000 -[Lilly] It's fine. -[Kim] No. 494 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:44,166 I do respect her input, but it's also my life 495 00:26:44,166 --> 00:26:46,934 and I'm going to do things the way I want. 496 00:26:52,266 --> 00:26:55,467 ♪ This is my house This is my crib ♪ 497 00:26:55,467 --> 00:26:59,767 ♪ This is where we kick it This is where we do What we do ♪ 498 00:26:59,767 --> 00:27:02,066 -Hello. -[Lilly] Grandma! 499 00:27:02,066 --> 00:27:04,066 How's my baby? 500 00:27:04,066 --> 00:27:06,567 -Hi, Grandma. -[Kim] Hi, baby. 501 00:27:06,567 --> 00:27:09,467 -Gonna go get Mouse? -[Lilly] Yeah. 502 00:27:09,467 --> 00:27:11,767 Do you feel up to driving? 503 00:27:11,767 --> 00:27:12,767 -[Lilly] Sure. -It's raining. 504 00:27:12,767 --> 00:27:15,066 -I think I can do it. -[Kim] Okay. 505 00:27:15,066 --> 00:27:19,266 I am here to drive with Lilly to pick Aaliyah up from school 506 00:27:19,266 --> 00:27:22,266 because Lilly only has her driving permit. 507 00:27:22,266 --> 00:27:25,467 She is so focused on her kids 508 00:27:25,467 --> 00:27:28,600 that she hasn't focused on growing up herself. 509 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,567 Not having a license is one example. 510 00:27:31,567 --> 00:27:33,834 She's still a kid in a lot of ways. 511 00:27:37,100 --> 00:27:38,200 Yep, fix your mirrors. 512 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,066 Right, we can't do that. 513 00:27:41,667 --> 00:27:44,900 Hang on, buddy. Grandma's just lowering it. Wait a minute. 514 00:27:44,900 --> 00:27:46,166 Okay. 515 00:27:48,100 --> 00:27:50,867 Can you see with all this here? 516 00:27:50,867 --> 00:27:54,934 You wanna wipe it off then. You never wanna drive unless it's good. 517 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:03,867 We can't have that. You'll crash. Can I have this, bud? 518 00:28:03,867 --> 00:28:08,100 LJ, Grandma's just gonna take this for a minute. You keep turning it up. 519 00:28:08,100 --> 00:28:10,634 -Is he doing it or does it go on automatic? -Yeah, he's doing it. 520 00:28:12,467 --> 00:28:16,834 Don't turn it up, LJ, okay? Mommy's gotta drive and we wanna be safe. 521 00:28:17,867 --> 00:28:22,567 My mom is just a very, like, overly cautious person. 522 00:28:22,567 --> 00:28:24,867 And I'm not saying it's bad. I'm cautious too, 523 00:28:24,867 --> 00:28:28,100 but I feel like kids need to experience things. 524 00:28:28,100 --> 00:28:31,000 Everyone should experience things that my mom, 525 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,834 like, would completely rule out if it was up to her. 526 00:28:34,667 --> 00:28:36,867 Especially when it comes to my engagement. 527 00:28:36,867 --> 00:28:40,500 -Oh, my god! -[Kim] Wow! 528 00:28:40,500 --> 00:28:42,467 You're just starting your life together. 529 00:28:42,467 --> 00:28:46,200 Not that I'm saying anything's wrong with your relationship or anything like that, 530 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,400 but it's just when you get to know somebody, it takes time. 531 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,867 And you guys keep doing all these things on warped speed. 532 00:28:52,867 --> 00:28:54,100 You can see it from here. 533 00:28:54,100 --> 00:28:56,967 -It's blinding me. -Yeah, gotta get my sunglasses on. 534 00:28:56,967 --> 00:29:00,700 [Lilly] And even though we've been together for almost four years now, 535 00:29:00,700 --> 00:29:03,433 she's just still not on board with me getting married. 536 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:06,200 [car horn honks] 537 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:07,634 Whoa. [chuckles] 538 00:29:08,100 --> 00:29:09,967 We made it. 539 00:29:09,967 --> 00:29:11,600 We're gonna get Mouse. 540 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,533 Our little Mousie's coming out. 541 00:29:15,867 --> 00:29:17,967 -[woman] All right. -[Lilly and Kim] Hi! 542 00:29:17,967 --> 00:29:19,400 -[woman] Have a happy holiday. -You too. 543 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:20,400 -Same to you. -[woman] See you in the new year. 544 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,100 -Yes, thank you. -[Kim] Merry Christmas. 545 00:29:22,100 --> 00:29:23,867 All right, now Mommy's driving, 546 00:29:23,867 --> 00:29:28,367 so we gotta remember to be a little quiet. Okay? 547 00:29:28,367 --> 00:29:32,166 Me and my mom, we have very different parenting styles. 548 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,066 [whispering] Yes. 549 00:29:34,066 --> 00:29:35,634 [chuckles lightly] 550 00:29:36,500 --> 00:29:40,300 I just, like... I always remember my mom being, 551 00:29:40,300 --> 00:29:43,000 like, the most patient person in the world. 552 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,567 Like, she would never lose her cool with me. 553 00:29:45,567 --> 00:29:47,700 But... not that she loses her cool with my kids, 554 00:29:47,700 --> 00:29:49,567 but you can just tell as she got older, 555 00:29:49,567 --> 00:29:52,967 -her patience has very much decreased. -Yeah, it's true. 556 00:29:52,967 --> 00:29:55,700 Like, she cannot take the bull [bleep]. 557 00:29:55,700 --> 00:30:01,033 Your kids are like... I love them but, they're like wild animals. 558 00:30:02,667 --> 00:30:05,767 And... And you don't seem to tell them. 559 00:30:05,767 --> 00:30:07,300 Like, "No, don't do this," 560 00:30:07,300 --> 00:30:10,266 "Don't do that." Like, "Don't climb on the table. Don't." 561 00:30:10,266 --> 00:30:13,467 [Lilly] It's hard because I really try to do the gentle parenting. 562 00:30:13,467 --> 00:30:15,767 Like, "Hey, please, don't do that." 563 00:30:15,767 --> 00:30:18,166 But you do that for so long that everything's destroyed. 564 00:30:18,166 --> 00:30:21,467 -[LJ babbling] -Whoo! God. 565 00:30:21,467 --> 00:30:23,100 Everything. The whole house. 566 00:30:23,100 --> 00:30:26,166 You've got the whole house is destroyed. 567 00:30:28,166 --> 00:30:29,467 Destroyed. 568 00:30:29,467 --> 00:30:31,934 So it's... it's pretty bad. 569 00:30:33,967 --> 00:30:35,900 Mom, LJ's spitting. 570 00:30:35,900 --> 00:30:38,634 [Kim] LJ, don't spit apple juice in Gram's car. 571 00:30:39,900 --> 00:30:41,667 Mm-mm. 572 00:30:41,667 --> 00:30:45,266 It's caca. You're gonna get my car all caca'd right up. 573 00:30:45,266 --> 00:30:46,767 -[Lilly] It's fine. -[Kim] No. 574 00:30:46,767 --> 00:30:48,934 Your son took a bath at apple juice. 575 00:30:53,967 --> 00:30:55,667 [Lilly] My mom is my best friend, 576 00:30:55,667 --> 00:30:59,667 but she definitely still views me as, like, her teenaged daughter. 577 00:30:59,667 --> 00:31:04,100 Like, I think sometimes she definitely doesn't trust my parenting decisions. 578 00:31:04,100 --> 00:31:06,500 [Kim] Give this to Gram. This is caca. 579 00:31:06,500 --> 00:31:08,100 [LJ shrieks] 580 00:31:08,100 --> 00:31:12,567 I've never told my mom to back off or, like, leave me alone 581 00:31:12,567 --> 00:31:15,567 'cause I just... You know, I do respect her input, 582 00:31:15,567 --> 00:31:19,800 but it's also my life and I'm going to do things the way I want. 583 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,867 And that includes marrying the man that I love. 584 00:31:23,467 --> 00:31:24,867 [Casey] Is this vodka? 585 00:31:24,867 --> 00:31:26,000 [Taryn chuckles] 586 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,567 Casey called me to invite me to go and have lunch with him. 587 00:31:28,567 --> 00:31:33,400 So how do you feel about her wanting to come stay with us after the baby's born? 588 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:35,100 I think it's a horrible idea. 589 00:31:35,100 --> 00:31:36,867 Yeah, that's my honest opinion. 590 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:42,834 [vocalizing] 591 00:31:45,467 --> 00:31:48,000 ♪ Bad boy, let's get away ♪ 592 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,000 ♪ Say what you're gonna say ♪ 593 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,700 ♪ We're going our own way ♪ 594 00:31:51,700 --> 00:31:53,266 -Hi. For two. -[hostess] Two? 595 00:31:53,266 --> 00:31:55,066 -Okay, I'll get you over here. -[Taryn] Thank you. 596 00:31:56,700 --> 00:31:59,567 When Casey called me to invite me to go and have lunch with him, 597 00:31:59,567 --> 00:32:05,734 it was kind of shocking because, uh, he has not reached out prior to this. 598 00:32:06,767 --> 00:32:09,166 I am feeling a little anxious. 599 00:32:09,166 --> 00:32:13,667 Um, having not had a real conversation with him 600 00:32:13,667 --> 00:32:17,166 about Emalee, Nate having a baby, 601 00:32:17,166 --> 00:32:19,400 I don't know the direction it's gonna go, 602 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:22,800 I don't know how he feels towards Emalee wanting to move in with us. 603 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:26,567 So I hope we're on the same page with everything together. 604 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:31,867 [Casey] How's it going? 605 00:32:31,867 --> 00:32:34,100 -Good. How are you? -[Casey] Good. 606 00:32:34,100 --> 00:32:37,867 My relationship with Taryn is very minimal to this point. 607 00:32:37,867 --> 00:32:40,367 Greetings and salutations type stuff. 608 00:32:40,367 --> 00:32:43,233 My thoughts on Taryn are that she's hot. 609 00:32:43,767 --> 00:32:46,066 Blonde hair, big booty. 610 00:32:46,066 --> 00:32:48,166 Shh. 611 00:32:48,166 --> 00:32:50,367 That's my baby's grandma. 612 00:32:50,367 --> 00:32:51,834 Show some respect. 613 00:32:53,867 --> 00:32:54,934 [chuckles] 614 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:57,600 -How are you doing? -[Casey] Good. How are you? 615 00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:58,767 -I'm good. -[Casey] Yeah? 616 00:32:58,767 --> 00:33:00,100 Yeah. 617 00:33:06,066 --> 00:33:10,166 The laws of attraction are not there for your convenience. 618 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:15,000 But I'm trying to not let that distract me 619 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,667 when we need to talk about what's important and relevant. 620 00:33:17,667 --> 00:33:22,567 Which is I need some reassurance that she can provide a safe space 621 00:33:22,567 --> 00:33:24,233 for the baby and Emalee. 622 00:33:28,867 --> 00:33:30,700 -[both] Thank you. -[server] You're welcome. 623 00:33:30,700 --> 00:33:31,634 [Casey] Is this vodka? 624 00:33:32,066 --> 00:33:34,200 [Taryn chuckles] I wish. 625 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,367 -We are grandparents now. So cheers to that. -[Casey] Yeah. 626 00:33:37,367 --> 00:33:38,734 -[glasses clink] -[Taryn] Whoo. 627 00:33:39,567 --> 00:33:41,166 -[Casey] And here we are. -Yeah. 628 00:33:41,166 --> 00:33:43,100 -[Casey] I mean... -Two weeks out. 629 00:33:43,100 --> 00:33:47,467 Or any second. You never know. 630 00:33:47,467 --> 00:33:51,834 So how do you feel about her wanting to come stay with us after the baby's born? 631 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:57,300 Um, I mean, I think it's a horrible idea. 632 00:33:57,300 --> 00:33:59,567 -She's my only daughter, you know, it's like... -Yeah. 633 00:33:59,567 --> 00:34:01,133 ...uncharted territory. 634 00:34:02,266 --> 00:34:03,634 Yeah, that's my honest opinion. 635 00:34:06,867 --> 00:34:10,600 I think it'll be beneficial to have Taryn's support. 636 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:15,567 But I can also see it being... a lot at once 637 00:34:15,567 --> 00:34:18,900 because I've only ever lived with my dad. 638 00:34:18,900 --> 00:34:20,900 So not only am I having a baby, 639 00:34:20,900 --> 00:34:24,367 but I'm moving in with my boyfriend full time, 640 00:34:24,367 --> 00:34:29,467 dealing with his mom, who I love but it's, like, what do I do with her? 641 00:34:29,467 --> 00:34:32,200 Because I'm not used to a mom figure around. 642 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,767 So, it's just a lot all at once. 643 00:34:35,767 --> 00:34:38,800 [Taryn] When they brought it up to me about wanting to stay with me, 644 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,700 I went back and forth. Well, he is only 16 years old, 645 00:34:41,700 --> 00:34:45,967 but I also don't want him to miss out on all the newborn stages. 646 00:34:45,967 --> 00:34:48,266 And that first year of life goes so quick. 647 00:34:48,266 --> 00:34:51,266 -And they change... -A lot of teen parents don't get to be a part of that. 648 00:34:51,266 --> 00:34:53,000 Yeah. 649 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:57,000 Of course I have reservations with letting my son's girlfriend move in. 650 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,667 But at the same time, I want Nate to be involved. 651 00:34:59,667 --> 00:35:03,100 And I want them to be able to raise their baby together. 652 00:35:03,100 --> 00:35:05,367 So if that means that they move in with me, 653 00:35:05,367 --> 00:35:07,467 then that means they move in with me. 654 00:35:07,467 --> 00:35:09,800 At least, this way I can keep an eye on him. 655 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:13,367 And Emalee too for that matter. 656 00:35:13,367 --> 00:35:17,767 The only thing really that her and I have had any, like, headbutting about 657 00:35:17,767 --> 00:35:20,266 is she wants to take time off from school 658 00:35:20,266 --> 00:35:21,634 and I don't like it. 659 00:35:22,867 --> 00:35:25,900 Why create that path for yourself when you have the support, 660 00:35:25,900 --> 00:35:30,867 you have the household to provide for your kid right now. 661 00:35:30,867 --> 00:35:35,233 Continue doing something that's for you to support that child. 662 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:36,834 Yeah. 663 00:35:38,266 --> 00:35:39,800 So at lunch with Taryn, 664 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:44,800 she expressed concern that you would like to take some time off from high school 665 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,600 after the baby is born. 666 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:51,667 Yeah. I mean, Taryn, um, she has the right to her own opinions. 667 00:35:51,667 --> 00:35:53,467 But at the end of the day, she has to realize 668 00:35:53,467 --> 00:35:56,200 that it's mine and Nate's life and our baby, 669 00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:59,100 and that we will do whatever we want. 670 00:35:59,100 --> 00:36:03,300 For Emalee, I think moving in with Taryn is, ultimately... 671 00:36:03,300 --> 00:36:06,166 It's a trial by fire type of experience. 672 00:36:06,166 --> 00:36:09,467 Until you're knee deep in it, you don't know how you're gonna react. 673 00:36:12,367 --> 00:36:16,667 I'm gonna go ahead and pay for the meal. 674 00:36:16,667 --> 00:36:20,700 I'm sure we'll have more conversations in the future and... 675 00:36:20,700 --> 00:36:22,567 Some good, some bad, I'm sure. 676 00:36:22,567 --> 00:36:23,800 [Taryn] Yeah. 677 00:36:28,500 --> 00:36:31,100 The doctor said that they may have to induce her tonight, 678 00:36:31,100 --> 00:36:33,000 but I know that's not what she wants. 679 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:34,333 Ow. 680 00:36:35,367 --> 00:36:36,867 I'm very worried. 681 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:38,667 Oh, God. 682 00:36:47,567 --> 00:36:49,533 I'm at the hospital because 683 00:36:50,567 --> 00:36:53,233 my stomach's being really tight all day. 684 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,533 And it hurts really badly. 685 00:36:57,867 --> 00:37:00,867 And I can't breathe and my butt hurts. 686 00:37:05,266 --> 00:37:07,667 It was my grandma's idea for us to go to the hospital. 687 00:37:07,667 --> 00:37:10,300 My mom didn't think it was that serious 688 00:37:10,300 --> 00:37:15,266 because she said I'm pregnant so, like, obviously I'm gonna hurt sometimes. 689 00:37:15,266 --> 00:37:17,066 But I was hurting all day. 690 00:37:17,066 --> 00:37:19,066 To the point where I was crying. 691 00:37:19,767 --> 00:37:22,634 In my opinion, when you're pregnant, 692 00:37:24,066 --> 00:37:28,567 your body doesn't function like it does on a regular basis. 693 00:37:28,567 --> 00:37:31,100 So it was just uncomfortableness. 694 00:37:31,100 --> 00:37:34,066 It wasn't nothing to be scared of. 695 00:37:34,066 --> 00:37:35,734 [video chat ringing] 696 00:37:36,266 --> 00:37:37,567 [video chat chimes] 697 00:37:37,567 --> 00:37:39,066 Hey. 698 00:37:46,667 --> 00:37:47,834 Dang. 699 00:37:48,667 --> 00:37:52,500 The doctor thinks that I have preeclampsia. 700 00:37:52,500 --> 00:37:55,600 Preeclampsia's not something that I've researched, 701 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,767 so I don't know too much about it. 702 00:37:57,767 --> 00:38:01,166 I don't know either, but from the looks of the doctors' faces 703 00:38:01,166 --> 00:38:03,567 and what they're seeing, I know that it's not good. 704 00:38:03,567 --> 00:38:05,367 Just not a good thing to have. 705 00:38:05,367 --> 00:38:07,800 They said my blood pressure is high. 706 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,367 And my feet are really swollen. 707 00:38:10,367 --> 00:38:12,233 The nurse, she, um... 708 00:38:13,367 --> 00:38:16,567 she took my blood and she said 709 00:38:16,567 --> 00:38:19,934 the results are gonna determine if they induce me or not. 710 00:38:20,367 --> 00:38:21,667 Hm. 711 00:38:21,667 --> 00:38:26,066 Worst case scenario is that I would have to have my baby right now. 712 00:38:26,066 --> 00:38:29,533 But I don't want to be induced at all, whatsoever. 713 00:38:30,367 --> 00:38:33,333 I really just wanna let him come on his own. 714 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:38,133 And that's not tonight. So [chuckles] he doesn't need to come. 715 00:38:39,066 --> 00:38:42,100 We don't even have a car seat. [laughing] 716 00:38:42,100 --> 00:38:45,467 How are we taking him home? Taking him home in? 717 00:38:45,467 --> 00:38:49,000 My baby shower is two days away and I'm nervous 718 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:52,467 because, like, as of right now, pre-baby shower, 719 00:38:52,467 --> 00:38:53,767 we're not ready. 720 00:38:53,767 --> 00:38:57,767 But we're going to be ready, come the baby shower 721 00:38:57,767 --> 00:39:00,667 because we'll basically have most things. 722 00:39:00,667 --> 00:39:03,400 At least we'll have a car seat. That's a start. 723 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,200 Somebody gonna buy it. [chuckles] 724 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,400 I just know somebody's gonna buy it. 725 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,567 I'm hoping somebody's gonna buy it. 726 00:39:09,567 --> 00:39:12,166 Aniyis, stop moving 'cause we mad at you. 727 00:39:13,166 --> 00:39:14,867 Got me going through all this stuff. 728 00:39:17,100 --> 00:39:21,233 I really look a mess. Like, I'm not prepared. Like... 729 00:39:25,266 --> 00:39:26,600 [Aniyah laughs] 730 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:30,000 I wanna be fully pampered before I go into labor. 731 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:34,800 I gotta make sure my hair is done, eyebrows done, nails done, armpits waxed. 732 00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:35,867 [whispering] Coochie waxed. 733 00:39:35,867 --> 00:39:38,000 That's a little extra. 734 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:42,667 It's not being extra. Everything has to be in tip-top condition 735 00:39:42,667 --> 00:39:44,767 because the doctors and the nurses, 736 00:39:44,767 --> 00:39:46,767 they just all up in your business. 737 00:39:46,767 --> 00:39:49,667 And, like, you don't have no privacy. Like... 738 00:39:49,667 --> 00:39:53,066 And then they try to make you feel like it's okay, but you know it's not okay. 739 00:39:53,066 --> 00:39:56,867 But they gonna make you feel like it's okay, so you feel even worse. Like... 740 00:39:56,867 --> 00:39:58,634 I don't need that going on. 741 00:40:00,367 --> 00:40:01,767 [Aniyah] But I'm just saying. 742 00:40:01,767 --> 00:40:03,367 I just gotta look good. 743 00:40:07,266 --> 00:40:08,333 [Dakwon groans] 744 00:40:09,166 --> 00:40:10,767 [Aniyah speaking] 745 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:12,734 You gotta stay up. 746 00:40:14,767 --> 00:40:17,066 I feel like I gotta throw up so bad. 747 00:40:17,467 --> 00:40:18,967 And my butt hurts. 748 00:40:18,967 --> 00:40:20,567 [machine beeping] 749 00:40:20,567 --> 00:40:24,467 DaeDae, are you sleeping? You always sleeping! 750 00:40:24,467 --> 00:40:27,567 This is not the time to sleep. 751 00:40:27,567 --> 00:40:30,734 'Cause then if something happens, you asleep. 752 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:32,066 Ow. 753 00:40:32,066 --> 00:40:34,100 He's gonna get about three pillows to the face 754 00:40:34,100 --> 00:40:37,266 if he think he's about to go to sleep and I'm in pain. 755 00:40:37,266 --> 00:40:38,333 Uh-uh. 756 00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:43,400 Oh, God. 757 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,467 And then, when it comes to my mom, 758 00:40:45,467 --> 00:40:48,000 she's not gonna let anything, like, bad happen to me. 759 00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,600 Like, she's gonna make sure that I'm okay. 760 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:53,667 But I don't know if she would, like, be holding my hand and, like, talking to me 761 00:40:53,667 --> 00:40:55,300 and, you know, doing all of that. 762 00:40:55,300 --> 00:40:57,467 Oh, my Jesus Christ. 763 00:40:59,367 --> 00:41:02,367 -[Ashley] Stop. -Ow, ow, ow, ow, ow. 764 00:41:03,166 --> 00:41:04,166 Ow. 765 00:41:05,266 --> 00:41:06,433 [Ashley speaking] 766 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:14,367 If Aniyah's blood pressure continues to rise, 767 00:41:14,367 --> 00:41:17,467 it is possible that it could put the baby in distress 768 00:41:17,467 --> 00:41:22,000 and cause early labor and even a cesarean. 769 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,233 So that's just something to be concerned about. 770 00:41:27,100 --> 00:41:29,500 [woman] Next time on Unexpected... 771 00:41:29,500 --> 00:41:31,467 So how's Graham been feeling lately? 772 00:41:31,467 --> 00:41:35,166 Well, this morning he was acting like he is getting a tummy ache again. 773 00:41:35,166 --> 00:41:38,967 Being a 15-year-old and having a girl pregnant, it's just stressful. 774 00:41:38,967 --> 00:41:42,867 I didn't think it'd, like, impact his health. 775 00:41:42,867 --> 00:41:45,066 [Lilly] What do you think about Christmas day, 776 00:41:45,066 --> 00:41:49,066 we should tell everyone that we're moving ahead with wedding planning? 777 00:41:49,066 --> 00:41:51,066 We're getting married in three months 778 00:41:51,066 --> 00:41:53,800 because the wedding venue of our dreams had a sudden opening. 779 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:55,634 Three months is crazy. 780 00:41:56,567 --> 00:41:59,100 Are you gonna still be doing everything for Aniyah 781 00:41:59,100 --> 00:42:01,567 or are you gonna let her, like, grow up? 782 00:42:01,567 --> 00:42:04,367 DaeDae's mom is being really irritating. 783 00:42:04,367 --> 00:42:06,734 I don't like to be asked a lot of questions. 784 00:42:08,066 --> 00:42:09,867 -I'm Matt. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 785 00:42:09,867 --> 00:42:11,967 I'm Andrea and I'm JJ's mom. 786 00:42:11,967 --> 00:42:15,266 What do you know about that promise ring that JJ... Like, what is that? 787 00:42:15,266 --> 00:42:17,066 I don't know anything about it. 788 00:42:17,066 --> 00:42:20,467 I don't know that I would've ever pictured him at 19 789 00:42:20,467 --> 00:42:22,867 being with someone that already had a child. 790 00:42:22,867 --> 00:42:26,266 I definitely see Jenna as my wife someday. 791 00:42:26,266 --> 00:42:27,667 [whispering] Don't say that.