1 00:00:01,170 --> 00:00:02,100 [Jenna]Previously on Unexpected... 2 00:00:02,100 --> 00:00:03,500 [Graham speaking] 3 00:00:03,500 --> 00:00:04,900 How's Easton doing? 4 00:00:04,900 --> 00:00:05,970 He's good. 5 00:00:05,970 --> 00:00:07,900 With Graham living about 30 minutes away, 6 00:00:07,900 --> 00:00:10,900 it's a lot harder for Graham and Kayleigh to be able to see each other. 7 00:00:10,900 --> 00:00:13,200 So, after the baby's born, 8 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:16,630 she's got a lot that is just gonna be on her. 9 00:00:21,730 --> 00:00:23,730 I'm Lilly. I'm 22 years old, 10 00:00:23,730 --> 00:00:25,630 and this is my fiancé Lawrence. 11 00:00:25,630 --> 00:00:28,370 We've been together for almost four years now, 12 00:00:28,370 --> 00:00:30,200 and we've been engaged for two. 13 00:00:31,170 --> 00:00:34,200 -Will you marry me? -Oh, my God, yes. 14 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:37,330 There's no one else I would want to be with. 15 00:00:37,330 --> 00:00:41,470 And I think even though my mom isn't going to like the idea, 16 00:00:41,470 --> 00:00:43,070 I'm ready to plan our wedding. 17 00:00:44,170 --> 00:00:47,900 So, from here to here, it's gonna be snow. 18 00:00:47,900 --> 00:00:49,870 I'm really excited for our baby shower. 19 00:00:49,870 --> 00:00:53,130 It's gonna be fantastic, to say the least. 20 00:00:53,130 --> 00:00:54,700 [siren blaring] 21 00:00:54,700 --> 00:00:57,370 They said my blood pressure is high. 22 00:00:57,370 --> 00:01:00,200 The doctor thinks that I have preeclampsia. 23 00:01:00,930 --> 00:01:02,700 -Bye, girl. -Bye, Jen. 24 00:01:02,700 --> 00:01:04,670 It's very hard to say goodbye to Dalanie. 25 00:01:04,670 --> 00:01:06,300 Like, we're not lesbian or anything, 26 00:01:06,300 --> 00:01:08,330 but we're, like, in a relationship. 27 00:01:08,330 --> 00:01:10,770 I'm JJ, and I'm Jenna's boyfriend. 28 00:01:10,770 --> 00:01:12,630 He got me this promise ring. 29 00:01:12,630 --> 00:01:13,800 Well, what's he promising? 30 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,470 I'm hesitant about JJ. 31 00:01:16,470 --> 00:01:17,430 I'm gonna grill him. 32 00:01:17,430 --> 00:01:18,870 -No, you're not. -Yes, I am. 33 00:01:18,870 --> 00:01:21,830 I'm worried about my dad grilling JJ on Thanksgiving. 34 00:01:21,830 --> 00:01:24,900 But there's no stopping my dad when he gets like this. 35 00:01:24,900 --> 00:01:26,800 So, good luck, JJ. 36 00:01:40,870 --> 00:01:42,270 Okay. 37 00:01:42,270 --> 00:01:43,830 I've been fully living in Myrtle Beach 38 00:01:43,830 --> 00:01:46,800 without Dalanie for about two weeks now. 39 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:50,700 I have so much less anxiety being at Myrtle, and I feel so much happier. 40 00:01:51,570 --> 00:01:53,600 And today, I'm hosting Thanksgiving. 41 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:58,970 My dad, Cathy, Andrea, JJ's mom and JJ, are all coming to dinner. 42 00:01:58,970 --> 00:02:04,600 And I intend to to make the best Thanksgiving anybody has ever seen or had. 43 00:02:05,630 --> 00:02:06,330 [grunts] 44 00:02:10,699 --> 00:02:13,270 But I have never bought a turkey before in my life, 45 00:02:13,270 --> 00:02:15,430 let alone cooked one. Besides deli. 46 00:02:16,030 --> 00:02:16,770 But... 47 00:02:18,300 --> 00:02:19,630 [chuckles] Ew. 48 00:02:22,030 --> 00:02:22,730 [Jenna] Stuffing. 49 00:02:23,430 --> 00:02:24,530 Why? Am I doing it wrong? 50 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,130 This is what Cathy told me to do. 51 00:02:29,630 --> 00:02:31,100 Stuff it in the skin. 52 00:02:31,970 --> 00:02:33,329 As much as you can. 53 00:02:33,870 --> 00:02:35,800 So I'm not really sure. 54 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,470 I think you just add some butter. 55 00:02:38,670 --> 00:02:39,829 All right, Jenny. 56 00:02:39,829 --> 00:02:41,370 We're gonna put him in the oven. 57 00:02:41,930 --> 00:02:42,900 Okay. 58 00:02:48,430 --> 00:02:49,370 [grunts] 59 00:02:51,730 --> 00:02:52,829 All done. 60 00:02:52,829 --> 00:02:55,030 [applauding] Yay! 61 00:02:55,030 --> 00:02:56,800 Okay. Ready? Let's FaceTime Dalanie. 62 00:02:58,270 --> 00:02:59,000 [line ringing] 63 00:03:00,070 --> 00:03:01,400 -[Dalanie] Hello? -[Jenna] Good morning. 64 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:02,570 [Dalanie] Hi! 65 00:03:02,570 --> 00:03:03,700 [Jenna] What are you doing? 66 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:05,070 Um... 67 00:03:06,470 --> 00:03:07,830 [Jenna] Wait, did you? 68 00:03:07,830 --> 00:03:10,970 Honestly, I feel like... I mean, I have a baby, 69 00:03:10,970 --> 00:03:13,970 and my life's a little more serious right now than Dalanie's. 70 00:03:13,970 --> 00:03:16,170 Thank God, it's not me. I'm... God bless. 71 00:03:16,170 --> 00:03:18,329 -[chuckles] -[Dalanie] I'm not ready for that. 72 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:20,170 You're just much better. 73 00:03:20,170 --> 00:03:22,270 -I got it in the bag. -Yeah, for sure. 74 00:03:22,270 --> 00:03:24,370 She is the best mom ever. 75 00:03:24,370 --> 00:03:25,530 -Yeah. -[Jenna] Thank you. 76 00:03:25,530 --> 00:03:28,200 But I do not want another baby right now. 77 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:29,130 I don't know. 78 00:03:29,130 --> 00:03:30,900 And like, what would I do 79 00:03:30,900 --> 00:03:33,300 if I had two baby daddies in two different states? 80 00:03:33,300 --> 00:03:35,030 My God, it sounds like a damn mess. 81 00:03:35,829 --> 00:03:38,530 Look. That's a frigging turkey. 82 00:03:38,530 --> 00:03:39,270 [Dalanie speaking] 83 00:03:40,329 --> 00:03:41,329 [Jenna] I think so. 84 00:03:41,329 --> 00:03:42,070 [Dalanie speaking] 85 00:03:43,270 --> 00:03:44,570 [chuckling] I did. 86 00:03:45,170 --> 00:03:45,900 [Dalanie speaking] 87 00:03:47,500 --> 00:03:49,730 Um, yeah, the penis looking thing? 88 00:03:49,730 --> 00:03:51,130 -[Dalanie speaking] -[Jenna] Yeah, look. 89 00:03:53,700 --> 00:03:54,600 [Dalanie speaking] 90 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:55,600 [laughing] 91 00:04:01,030 --> 00:04:03,400 [chuckling] I know. 92 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,930 It may not actually be a penis. 93 00:04:05,930 --> 00:04:08,070 I just hope I don't poison people today. 94 00:04:09,230 --> 00:04:12,170 Andrea and JJ are coming today. 95 00:04:12,170 --> 00:04:13,600 -[Dalanie speaking] -[Jenna] Yeah. 96 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:14,330 [Dalanie speaking] 97 00:04:17,700 --> 00:04:20,430 -She's never met my dad or Cathy. -[Luca] No. 98 00:04:20,430 --> 00:04:23,170 [Jenna] I'm just a little nervous. I don't know. 99 00:04:23,170 --> 00:04:24,500 What are they gonna talk about? 100 00:04:26,900 --> 00:04:27,600 [Jenna chuckles] 101 00:04:29,100 --> 00:04:30,270 I'm sure, Dalanie. 102 00:04:32,430 --> 00:04:33,330 [both laughing] 103 00:04:35,670 --> 00:04:39,070 Andrea is very nice. She's such a good listener. 104 00:04:39,070 --> 00:04:41,200 And I feel Andrea is just, like, 105 00:04:42,500 --> 00:04:44,670 a good person. 106 00:04:44,670 --> 00:04:50,100 She's there to support you, but not get into your business in an annoying way. 107 00:04:50,100 --> 00:04:53,070 But my dad is just super awkward, and like... 108 00:04:53,070 --> 00:04:55,930 I think the whole thing could really just blow up in my face. 109 00:05:02,930 --> 00:05:04,530 [Mandy] It's like a slop in here. 110 00:05:08,500 --> 00:05:10,630 [Kayleigh] Oh. Some went in the water, my bad. 111 00:05:11,570 --> 00:05:12,370 They'll still eat it. 112 00:05:13,170 --> 00:05:14,700 [Mandy] Have you heard from Graham's mom? 113 00:05:14,700 --> 00:05:17,570 Is she gonna assist with the baby shower? 114 00:05:17,570 --> 00:05:18,830 [Kayleigh] She might. 115 00:05:19,830 --> 00:05:21,070 Okay. 116 00:05:21,070 --> 00:05:24,130 My baby shower is coming up next week, and I'm so excited. 117 00:05:24,130 --> 00:05:26,000 And I want Graham to be there. 118 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:30,100 But Graham's mom, Bekki, has not asked anything about the baby shower. 119 00:05:30,100 --> 00:05:32,100 She's only asked what day it was. 120 00:05:33,370 --> 00:05:37,600 Honestly, I mean, in the first three years of them dating, 121 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:39,370 I never really talked to Bekki, 122 00:05:39,370 --> 00:05:41,130 except for a couple of times on the phone. 123 00:05:41,130 --> 00:05:43,100 Like, when I dropped them off, I was like, 124 00:05:43,100 --> 00:05:46,800 "This is my phone number. If you need me, let me know." 125 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:48,300 And I know that sounds terrible, 126 00:05:48,300 --> 00:05:50,400 because three years, I'm dropping my daughter off 127 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,230 at a house that I've never even stepped foot in. 128 00:05:52,230 --> 00:05:54,770 And that was a mistake. 129 00:05:59,930 --> 00:06:00,970 I don't really know. 130 00:06:02,100 --> 00:06:04,730 So, where did you do it at? [grunts uncomfortably] 131 00:06:04,730 --> 00:06:06,230 I mean, did you do it in our house? 132 00:06:06,230 --> 00:06:08,300 -No. -Okay. 133 00:06:08,300 --> 00:06:10,530 So, the only time you ever did it was at their house? 134 00:06:11,770 --> 00:06:12,570 Okay. 135 00:06:14,530 --> 00:06:16,430 Was it easier there or something? 136 00:06:16,430 --> 00:06:18,330 -[laughs] Just stop. -[chuckles] 137 00:06:19,900 --> 00:06:22,100 Just curious. I mean... 138 00:06:22,100 --> 00:06:23,630 Was you left alone more? 139 00:06:24,730 --> 00:06:26,730 -Girl. -Girl. Okay. 140 00:06:26,730 --> 00:06:28,230 [Americana music playing] 141 00:06:30,430 --> 00:06:32,070 ♪ I gotta move ♪ 142 00:06:32,700 --> 00:06:34,330 ♪ I gotta move ♪ 143 00:06:35,100 --> 00:06:37,300 ♪ Been a long time coming ♪ 144 00:06:37,300 --> 00:06:38,200 ♪ I gotta... ♪ 145 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:39,170 [Bekki] Graham! 146 00:06:39,870 --> 00:06:41,070 ♪ I gotta move ♪ 147 00:06:41,070 --> 00:06:42,130 Graham. 148 00:06:42,130 --> 00:06:43,730 ♪ I gotta move ♪ 149 00:06:44,630 --> 00:06:45,800 Graham Lee! 150 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:48,370 ♪ Yeah! I gotta move ♪ 151 00:06:48,370 --> 00:06:49,800 [music ends with crescendo] 152 00:06:51,030 --> 00:06:52,270 Yeah? 153 00:06:52,270 --> 00:06:55,370 Why do you not listen to me when I holler for you? 154 00:06:55,370 --> 00:06:57,700 I had my headset in, so I didn't hear you. [chuckles] 155 00:06:57,700 --> 00:07:01,000 When I call your name, that means come down. 156 00:07:01,900 --> 00:07:03,870 My name is Bekki. I'm 42. 157 00:07:03,870 --> 00:07:07,530 I'm Graham's mother and about to be a grandmother. 158 00:07:07,530 --> 00:07:11,170 The day I found out that Kayleigh was pregnant 159 00:07:11,170 --> 00:07:12,600 and Graham was gonna be a father... 160 00:07:13,070 --> 00:07:14,900 I went to sleep. 161 00:07:14,900 --> 00:07:16,870 When I woke up, I looked on my phone. 162 00:07:16,870 --> 00:07:20,770 I had several text messages, several missed calls. 163 00:07:20,770 --> 00:07:22,330 Um, and they were from Mandy. 164 00:07:23,900 --> 00:07:27,730 So, I called her, and she's like... 165 00:07:29,100 --> 00:07:32,630 "Kayleigh, uh, is," you know, "pregnant." 166 00:07:32,630 --> 00:07:35,070 And I'm like, "Huh?" 167 00:07:35,070 --> 00:07:37,300 I could not process it in my mind. 168 00:07:37,300 --> 00:07:38,930 I didn't know what to do. 169 00:07:38,930 --> 00:07:42,800 Um, Mandy was bawling and I remember I'm repeating myself, 170 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,100 saying, "I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry." 171 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:47,900 I just felt like 172 00:07:47,900 --> 00:07:51,570 it was my fault that all this happened, 173 00:07:51,570 --> 00:07:55,070 because I believe that they were having sex in my house. 174 00:07:55,070 --> 00:07:59,570 I would be gone, and then I would come home and Kayleigh would be there. 175 00:07:59,570 --> 00:08:00,970 So, they could have been alone for an hour. 176 00:08:00,970 --> 00:08:02,570 They could've been alone for two hours. 177 00:08:02,570 --> 00:08:06,630 And an hour or two hours, there's a lot of things you could do during that time. 178 00:08:07,470 --> 00:08:09,700 The food is here. Are you hungry? 179 00:08:09,700 --> 00:08:11,470 -[Graham] Yeah. -[Bekki] Good. 180 00:08:11,470 --> 00:08:14,130 I know you haven't been eating a lot here lately. 181 00:08:14,130 --> 00:08:15,870 How are you feeling today? 182 00:08:15,870 --> 00:08:17,670 Feeling better than most days. 183 00:08:17,670 --> 00:08:21,400 Just some days, I just get rocky a little bit. 184 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:24,170 After Graham figured out that he was gonna be a dad, 185 00:08:24,170 --> 00:08:26,130 I could tell he was stressed out a lot, 186 00:08:26,130 --> 00:08:28,630 but I didn't think it'd, like, impact, 187 00:08:28,630 --> 00:08:31,630 like his weight and everything, and like his health. 188 00:08:37,299 --> 00:08:39,970 [chuckles] Bro, what the crap? 189 00:08:39,970 --> 00:08:43,570 I lost 15 pounds in, like, a month, almost. 190 00:08:43,570 --> 00:08:46,670 And then, just been going down from there. 191 00:08:46,670 --> 00:08:49,600 Teach me your diet. [chuckles] I'm joking. I'm joking. 192 00:08:50,670 --> 00:08:53,370 I kind of miss the dad bod. [chuckles] 193 00:08:56,630 --> 00:08:59,300 So, how's Graham been feeling lately? 194 00:08:59,300 --> 00:09:01,270 [Kayleigh] Well, this morning, he was acting like 195 00:09:01,270 --> 00:09:03,570 he was getting a tummyache again. 196 00:09:03,570 --> 00:09:05,700 He was like, "I'll pull through. 197 00:09:05,700 --> 00:09:08,170 I'll get it together before the baby shower." 198 00:09:08,170 --> 00:09:11,970 I feel like Graham does use a lot of excuses to get out of stuff. 199 00:09:11,970 --> 00:09:15,130 He's already missed setting up for my gender reveal. 200 00:09:15,130 --> 00:09:18,030 He also didn't show up to, like, doctor's appointments, 201 00:09:18,030 --> 00:09:19,970 or even celebrate my birthday with me. 202 00:09:21,230 --> 00:09:23,270 Where are you? Are you coming? 203 00:09:23,270 --> 00:09:24,430 [Graham] No, I'm sick. 204 00:09:24,430 --> 00:09:25,870 I gotta go to the doctor. 205 00:09:27,730 --> 00:09:29,270 I can't help it. 206 00:09:29,270 --> 00:09:30,970 [Kayleigh] I just feel like no one's sick that much. 207 00:09:30,970 --> 00:09:33,800 But he better not ruin this shower for Easton 208 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:35,900 like he ruined my birthday party. 209 00:09:35,900 --> 00:09:37,900 [Bekki] So, like, what's coming up this week? 210 00:09:38,470 --> 00:09:40,000 [Graham] I got school. 211 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,300 I got Kayleigh's baby shower this weekend, 212 00:09:42,300 --> 00:09:45,200 and then today, I don't have to work. 213 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,170 [Bekki] Okay. Um, you know, I know you got 214 00:09:48,170 --> 00:09:52,000 um, some more doctor's appointments coming up. 215 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,870 So, that's gonna be some time out of school. 216 00:09:53,870 --> 00:09:57,900 And you've already got two unexcused absences. 217 00:09:57,900 --> 00:10:00,670 How many absences do I get until I get, 218 00:10:00,670 --> 00:10:03,130 like, in trouble with truancy and stuff like that? 219 00:10:03,130 --> 00:10:05,270 [Bekki] Well, you've already got a truancy letter. 220 00:10:05,270 --> 00:10:07,530 We got... I got it in the mail the other day. 221 00:10:12,230 --> 00:10:14,670 I thought I was just a failure to everybody. 222 00:10:14,670 --> 00:10:17,070 I thought I'd, like, let my family down, 223 00:10:17,070 --> 00:10:19,070 'cause I was so young having a kid. 224 00:10:19,070 --> 00:10:20,770 It's just stressful. 225 00:10:20,770 --> 00:10:23,830 I worry about school and my grades. 226 00:10:23,830 --> 00:10:27,370 Quit football, and I got a job to provide for my son. 227 00:10:27,370 --> 00:10:32,300 And I've been playing football ever since I was eight. 228 00:10:32,300 --> 00:10:36,100 I think Graham has made a lot of sacrifices, um, to be a dad. 229 00:10:36,100 --> 00:10:39,670 I feel, you know, very proud of him. 230 00:10:39,670 --> 00:10:42,270 But I don't know if Kayleigh always gives him 231 00:10:42,270 --> 00:10:44,830 the credit for the sacrifices. 232 00:10:44,830 --> 00:10:48,100 I don't think she really sees them like I do, 233 00:10:48,100 --> 00:10:50,930 'cause they're not around each other, you know, as much. 234 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:58,730 Do you think they'll come decorate at least, or help be a part of it? 235 00:10:58,730 --> 00:11:00,430 Well, I don't know. 236 00:11:00,430 --> 00:11:03,100 We're gonna have to throw this together here pretty soon. 237 00:11:03,100 --> 00:11:07,700 I mean, I'll ask, but we all know how that usually goes. 238 00:11:07,700 --> 00:11:12,870 I do feel like, uh, Graham, needs to step up a little bit more 239 00:11:12,870 --> 00:11:15,170 and, um, 240 00:11:15,170 --> 00:11:18,700 kind of be there for his little family, now, 241 00:11:18,700 --> 00:11:20,200 for Kayleigh and for Easton. 242 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,270 I also feel that, 243 00:11:22,270 --> 00:11:24,870 as a parent of a young teenager, 244 00:11:24,870 --> 00:11:29,070 Graham's mom should, you know, step up as well. 245 00:11:29,830 --> 00:11:31,500 I just hope that Graham and his mom 246 00:11:31,500 --> 00:11:33,000 are coming to help for the baby shower. 247 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:36,370 It's coming to support your kid and your grandson, 248 00:11:36,370 --> 00:11:38,500 which I think you should pull together for. 249 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,400 [Lilly] We should tell everyone 250 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,270 that we're moving ahead with wedding planning. 251 00:11:45,270 --> 00:11:46,800 We're getting married in three months 252 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:49,970 because the wedding venue of our dreams had a sudden opening. 253 00:11:49,970 --> 00:11:51,770 Three months is crazy. 254 00:11:51,770 --> 00:11:53,000 [Ashley] Come on, come on, come on, let's go. 255 00:11:55,430 --> 00:11:56,700 If I get to my baby shower 256 00:11:56,700 --> 00:11:58,630 and everybody is gone, 257 00:11:58,630 --> 00:12:00,330 I'm gonna be like, really mad. 258 00:12:03,900 --> 00:12:05,300 ♪ It's been a long ride But I'm up now ♪ 259 00:12:05,300 --> 00:12:08,800 ♪ Can't miss, no I ain't giving up, no! ♪ 260 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:12,370 -[LJ] Hurry up. -[Lilly] Hold on, buddy. 261 00:12:12,370 --> 00:12:14,030 Mommy don't wanna burn you. Back up. 262 00:12:17,070 --> 00:12:17,800 [LJ speaking] 263 00:12:21,030 --> 00:12:22,330 -[Lawrence] Hey, my love. -Hey, babe. 264 00:12:22,330 --> 00:12:23,830 -How you doing? -Good. 265 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,600 -How was your day? -All right. How was yours? 266 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,200 [Lawrence] Long day, you know. 267 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:31,570 [LJ crying, complaining indistinctly] 268 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:36,730 Okay, give her a minute, bud. 269 00:12:36,730 --> 00:12:38,270 Daddy ain't been home for two minutes, 270 00:12:38,270 --> 00:12:41,030 and y'all arguing already. Typical. 271 00:12:41,030 --> 00:12:43,930 [Lilly] Dinnertime is like witching hour for my kids. 272 00:12:43,930 --> 00:12:46,770 Once the clock hits 6:00 p.m., my kids are like, 273 00:12:46,770 --> 00:12:49,430 "Let's burn this bitch to the ground. 274 00:12:49,430 --> 00:12:52,170 Let's destroy everything, 275 00:12:52,170 --> 00:12:54,430 and put Mommy in an early grave." 276 00:12:54,430 --> 00:12:56,670 And Christmas is coming, 277 00:12:56,670 --> 00:12:58,070 which makes everything worse. 278 00:12:58,070 --> 00:13:00,800 Like, they just get overstimulated 279 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,670 with them being so excited for Santa. 280 00:13:03,670 --> 00:13:05,870 [Lawrence] What's the vibes for Christmas, Lil? 281 00:13:05,870 --> 00:13:07,570 [Lilly] Well, um, I bought stuff 282 00:13:07,570 --> 00:13:09,630 to make a nice, big breakfast for all of us. 283 00:13:09,630 --> 00:13:10,370 [LJ speaking] 284 00:13:10,930 --> 00:13:11,970 [Lilly] Um... 285 00:13:11,970 --> 00:13:13,030 [LJ speaking] 286 00:13:13,030 --> 00:13:14,430 [Lilly] And then, you know... 287 00:13:14,430 --> 00:13:16,170 -[LJ speaking] -[Lilly] I love you, too. 288 00:13:16,170 --> 00:13:17,900 I love you, too. 289 00:13:17,900 --> 00:13:22,270 And then, I figured we're gonna have Christmas lunch. 290 00:13:22,270 --> 00:13:26,230 So, what do you think about Christmas Day, 291 00:13:26,230 --> 00:13:29,500 we should tell everyone that we're, you know, 292 00:13:29,500 --> 00:13:32,430 really actually moving ahead with wedding planning? 293 00:13:32,430 --> 00:13:34,800 Mmm-hmm. That's a good idea. 294 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,370 Yeah, everybody will be here, and they get the info in person. 295 00:13:37,370 --> 00:13:39,730 I can hear Sandy scream now. 296 00:13:39,730 --> 00:13:41,800 [screams] 297 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:43,530 [mimicking] "My baby gettin' married." 298 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:45,530 What y'all want, boy? 299 00:13:45,530 --> 00:13:48,530 [Lilly] And you know my mom. I don't think she's gonna be happy. 300 00:13:48,530 --> 00:13:50,830 You know, she just hates marriage. 301 00:13:50,830 --> 00:13:55,230 Our current relationship status is still engaged. 302 00:13:55,230 --> 00:13:57,600 We've been holding off to save money 303 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,300 so we can have a kick ass wedding. We don't want no cheap... 304 00:14:01,230 --> 00:14:02,370 [bleep] 305 00:14:02,370 --> 00:14:04,170 But we're getting married in three months 306 00:14:04,170 --> 00:14:07,570 because the wedding venue of our dreams had a sudden opening. 307 00:14:07,570 --> 00:14:09,170 So, I'm gonna take it. 308 00:14:09,170 --> 00:14:10,570 But I'm nervous to tell my mom, 309 00:14:10,570 --> 00:14:12,800 because even when we were scouting the wedding venue, 310 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:14,700 she was still trying to talk me out of it. 311 00:14:16,330 --> 00:14:19,900 All in all, you're looking at a budget of about $15,000. 312 00:14:19,900 --> 00:14:21,530 -[Lawrence] $15,000? -[man] Mmm-hmm. 313 00:14:21,530 --> 00:14:25,170 You're feeling like this is absolutely certain, 314 00:14:25,170 --> 00:14:26,870 that Lawrence is... 315 00:14:26,870 --> 00:14:30,800 -And you are going to work out forever. -[Lilly] Yeah! 316 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,530 [Kim] Marriage is a serious, serious thing. 317 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:35,400 They're already together, 318 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:36,530 -they're already living together. -Yeah. 319 00:14:36,530 --> 00:14:38,400 [Sandy] So, what can anybody say? 320 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:42,530 My mom and Glenn have been engaged since, I think, 2009. 321 00:14:42,530 --> 00:14:46,200 But my mom and my biological dad 322 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,270 have still been married all these years, 323 00:14:49,270 --> 00:14:52,800 even though they've been separated for, like, 20 years. 324 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,830 It's just been too expensive for them to get divorced. 325 00:14:56,470 --> 00:14:57,600 I think that's a big part 326 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,900 of why she's so against marriage in the first place. 327 00:14:59,900 --> 00:15:01,570 But regardless of what she thinks, 328 00:15:01,570 --> 00:15:03,770 I still wanna marry Lawrence. 329 00:15:05,230 --> 00:15:09,100 So, the deposit's due and, um, we have to start planning. 330 00:15:09,100 --> 00:15:12,770 But with the holidays, it is becoming a little stressful. 331 00:15:13,370 --> 00:15:14,500 [Lawrence] A little stressful? 332 00:15:15,500 --> 00:15:17,200 It's not that I don't wanna get married. 333 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:20,100 It's just, three months is a very short time 334 00:15:20,100 --> 00:15:22,300 to come up with the money we need. 335 00:15:22,300 --> 00:15:24,930 I believe we need to save at least, like, $20,000-- 336 00:15:24,930 --> 00:15:26,370 -Thirty. -Something like that. 337 00:15:27,230 --> 00:15:29,200 -At least like 20. -Thirty. 338 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:31,570 -More so 20. -Thirty. 339 00:15:31,570 --> 00:15:33,770 -Maybe 20. -Thirty-five. 340 00:15:35,270 --> 00:15:38,200 How much did you spend on Christmas? 341 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:40,730 I didn't spend that much. I really didn't spend that much. 342 00:15:40,730 --> 00:15:43,130 -What is "not that much"? -Just... Enough. 343 00:15:43,130 --> 00:15:45,330 I spent enough, and we're good. 344 00:15:46,430 --> 00:15:48,600 Christmas is gonna be nice. 345 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,870 [Lawrence] Christmas is gonna be nice or expensive? 346 00:15:50,870 --> 00:15:52,500 Christmas is my favorite holiday 347 00:15:52,500 --> 00:15:54,370 and my favorite time of the year, 348 00:15:54,370 --> 00:15:55,530 and I like to celebrate it. 349 00:15:55,530 --> 00:15:57,470 And, you know, I like to go all out for my kids 350 00:15:57,470 --> 00:15:58,800 if I'm able to do it. 351 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:02,100 And while I'm still on God's green Earth, able to spoil my kids. 352 00:16:02,100 --> 00:16:05,030 I'm gonna spoil my kids 'cause that's what I like to do. 353 00:16:05,030 --> 00:16:08,030 I'm worried about Lilly's overspending on Christmas. 354 00:16:08,030 --> 00:16:10,630 Money really doesn't matter when it comes to Christmas. 355 00:16:10,630 --> 00:16:12,200 Christmas is a magical time. 356 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:13,900 Money matters. 357 00:16:13,900 --> 00:16:15,700 It's either money is gonna grow on trees 358 00:16:15,700 --> 00:16:18,930 or you gotta pull the money out your ass or something, I don't know. 359 00:16:18,930 --> 00:16:20,470 I don't know where all this money coming from. 360 00:16:20,470 --> 00:16:21,670 I'll pull it out my ass. 361 00:16:22,230 --> 00:16:22,970 [snickers] 362 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:29,100 ♪ I feel alive so send me One more time ♪ 363 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:33,100 [line ringing] 364 00:16:33,100 --> 00:16:34,030 [boy] Ma. 365 00:16:34,900 --> 00:16:36,700 [Ashley] What is it? 366 00:16:36,700 --> 00:16:39,230 [boy speaking] 367 00:16:39,230 --> 00:16:40,870 [Ashley speaking] 368 00:16:42,430 --> 00:16:45,200 -Don't forget the, um, computer on-- -[Ashley] Huh? 369 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,430 Don't forget the computer on the bed. 370 00:16:48,500 --> 00:16:49,300 [Ashley speaking] 371 00:16:50,500 --> 00:16:51,470 Okay. 372 00:16:52,230 --> 00:16:54,570 So, today is the day of my baby shower, 373 00:16:54,570 --> 00:16:57,700 and Aniyis is still in my belly 374 00:16:57,700 --> 00:17:00,330 healthy, fighting, kicking. 375 00:17:00,330 --> 00:17:04,069 After I went to the doctor a couple of days ago because I wasn't feeling good, 376 00:17:04,069 --> 00:17:06,800 I was a little worried that they were gonna keep me and induce me, 377 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:09,000 because of how high my blood pressure was. 378 00:17:19,970 --> 00:17:21,700 Dak, are you sleeping? 379 00:17:21,700 --> 00:17:23,300 You're always sleeping. 380 00:17:23,300 --> 00:17:25,829 The doctors told me that they're not going to keep me 381 00:17:25,829 --> 00:17:27,069 and induce me right now. 382 00:17:27,069 --> 00:17:31,230 But if my blood pressure goes up again, then they will. 383 00:17:31,230 --> 00:17:32,370 And I went home. 384 00:17:33,300 --> 00:17:34,430 So, all of that is great, 385 00:17:34,430 --> 00:17:37,870 but what's not great is that my mom is supposed to be 386 00:17:37,870 --> 00:17:40,300 picking me up from my grandma's house, 387 00:17:40,300 --> 00:17:41,630 so we can go to the baby shower. 388 00:17:41,630 --> 00:17:45,470 But she still isn't here, which isn't really surprising. 389 00:17:45,470 --> 00:17:48,670 But it's not helping, like, my stress level or my blood pressure, 390 00:17:48,670 --> 00:17:52,700 because we were supposed to be at my baby shower, like, an hour ago. 391 00:17:53,730 --> 00:17:55,270 At what time y'all supposed to start? 392 00:17:55,270 --> 00:17:56,530 [Aniyah] It was supposed to start at 3:00. 393 00:17:56,530 --> 00:17:58,130 [Trey] Is everybody already there? 394 00:17:58,130 --> 00:17:59,630 My mama not there. 395 00:17:59,630 --> 00:18:00,530 [Jade speaking] 396 00:18:00,530 --> 00:18:02,300 [Aniyah] She's at home, getting dressed. 397 00:18:04,130 --> 00:18:06,000 -Yeah. -[Jade speaking] 398 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:08,170 Y'all weren't on time anyway. 399 00:18:08,170 --> 00:18:09,900 [Jade] Well, I was waiting for y'all, but... 400 00:18:09,900 --> 00:18:11,400 [Trey] I wasn't planning on being on time, 401 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:13,000 nor was I planning to stay the whole time. 402 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,200 -[Aniyah chuckles] -So... 403 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:17,270 -[Aniyah] Oh, my God. -I'm going according as planned. 404 00:18:17,270 --> 00:18:19,770 [Aniyah] I wanted to be on time, I planned to be on time. 405 00:18:19,770 --> 00:18:23,730 But, in my family, big things like this never go as planned. 406 00:18:23,730 --> 00:18:25,370 There's always something. 407 00:18:28,330 --> 00:18:29,730 [Ashley speaking] 408 00:18:29,730 --> 00:18:32,470 Come on, come on, come on. Let's go. Y'all gotta get upstairs. Come on. 409 00:18:32,470 --> 00:18:33,330 Come on, come on. 410 00:18:37,730 --> 00:18:41,800 My mom finally gets here and she was all over the place. 411 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:44,400 This is probably gonna be a whole other hour 412 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:47,400 for her to get herself ready, and my brothers ready. 413 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,200 It's typical. That's what we go through every day. 414 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:51,000 Anytime we're going somewhere 415 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:55,830 it's always everybody running like a chicken with their head cut off. 416 00:18:55,830 --> 00:18:58,500 I'm just really trying to breathe and just stay calm. 417 00:19:07,630 --> 00:19:08,330 [Latoya speaking] 418 00:19:12,470 --> 00:19:15,130 There's forks and plates over there to the left. 419 00:19:17,730 --> 00:19:18,430 [Wanda speaking] 420 00:19:20,470 --> 00:19:21,500 ...we don't play this. 421 00:19:21,500 --> 00:19:24,300 Yeah, we're normally punctual. We're normally... 422 00:19:24,300 --> 00:19:28,170 If we are late, it's gonna be maybe 30 minutes. 423 00:19:28,170 --> 00:19:31,800 It's not gonna be hours and hours and hours. 424 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:33,130 [phone ringing] 425 00:19:36,530 --> 00:19:38,900 Everyone's calling me. Like, okay. 426 00:19:39,500 --> 00:19:40,370 Hi. 427 00:19:40,370 --> 00:19:41,600 [Latoya over phone] 428 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:44,870 -Um, we're trying to figure that out now. -[Latoya] Okay. 429 00:19:48,270 --> 00:19:51,400 Um, I guess my mom. I don't know. 430 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:54,170 -[Latoya] Oh. -I don't know. I don't know. [laughs] 431 00:19:54,170 --> 00:19:55,070 [Latoya speaking] 432 00:19:55,070 --> 00:19:57,500 -Okay. -I'll see you when I get there. 433 00:19:57,500 --> 00:19:58,800 -[Latoya speaking] -Bye. 434 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:00,630 -[Latoya speaking] -Bye. 435 00:20:00,630 --> 00:20:03,770 It seemed like DaeDae's mom was, like, a little annoyed. 436 00:20:03,770 --> 00:20:08,170 But, like, I thought my mom would have communicated with DaeDae's mom. 437 00:20:08,170 --> 00:20:11,000 I don't feel like anyone should be asking me anything 438 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,930 about the baby shower, because I don't know. 439 00:20:13,930 --> 00:20:17,570 Like, I'm just showing up. Like, everyone else should know everything. 440 00:20:17,570 --> 00:20:18,830 They shouldn't ask me. 441 00:20:20,070 --> 00:20:21,830 DaeDae's mom said, "Are you doing games?" 442 00:20:22,430 --> 00:20:23,870 She said she... [chuckles] 443 00:20:23,870 --> 00:20:25,370 She said she don't know. 444 00:20:25,370 --> 00:20:27,700 Let me tell you something. Come here. 445 00:20:27,700 --> 00:20:30,600 -Can you stop? I'm not-- -I gotta finish getting dressed. 446 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:31,470 Come here. 447 00:20:32,930 --> 00:20:34,170 Can you stop? 448 00:20:35,230 --> 00:20:37,600 I put my time, money and energy 449 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:40,500 into this baby shower, so nobody's gonna be telling me anything 450 00:20:40,500 --> 00:20:41,770 that needs to be done 451 00:20:41,770 --> 00:20:43,330 outside of what I want done. 452 00:20:48,870 --> 00:20:50,330 [Aniyah] If I get to my baby shower 453 00:20:50,330 --> 00:20:52,430 and everybody is gone, 454 00:20:52,430 --> 00:20:54,200 it's gonna be a very big problem. 455 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,330 A very big problem. 456 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,600 What time are JJ and Andrea coming over? 457 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,470 Um, I think a little bit later. 458 00:21:03,470 --> 00:21:04,670 Is she excited to meet us? 459 00:21:06,370 --> 00:21:08,430 I don't want to make them cry 460 00:21:08,430 --> 00:21:10,070 'cause it's scary. 461 00:21:10,070 --> 00:21:12,470 [laughs] You don't have no idea what I'm talking about. 462 00:21:12,470 --> 00:21:17,000 Every day. Every day I am talking to him about something that's upsetting me 463 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:18,630 and all he does is... 464 00:21:19,130 --> 00:21:21,200 It irritates me so much! 465 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,800 ♪ My, my, my ♪ 466 00:21:27,630 --> 00:21:30,900 ♪ You got into my mind ♪ 467 00:21:30,900 --> 00:21:33,500 ♪ Stay, should I? Another is here ♪ 468 00:21:33,500 --> 00:21:35,100 -[Nate] Hello. -[girl] Hi! 469 00:21:35,100 --> 00:21:36,130 -How are you? -[Nate] Good. 470 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:38,500 All right, for sure. 471 00:21:39,430 --> 00:21:41,830 Today is Emalee's 39-week appointment 472 00:21:41,830 --> 00:21:44,630 and she decided there wasn't really a reason for me to go 473 00:21:44,630 --> 00:21:46,570 just because it was a little check-up. 474 00:21:46,570 --> 00:21:49,130 But since Westley can be born any day now, 475 00:21:49,130 --> 00:21:52,770 and, um, this could be our last chance to go do something on our own, 476 00:21:52,770 --> 00:21:56,330 we decided that we would go get ice cream after her appointment. 477 00:21:58,270 --> 00:21:59,870 -Hey. -[Emalee] It's so cold. 478 00:21:59,870 --> 00:22:02,370 [Nate chuckling] How was it? 479 00:22:02,370 --> 00:22:03,370 You're bad. 480 00:22:09,470 --> 00:22:14,330 Most of the time, I'm fine with Nate not being at my appointments. 481 00:22:14,330 --> 00:22:18,530 But I still wish he was there today because I did get pretty upset. 482 00:22:18,530 --> 00:22:24,100 Today, they told me I have no progress being made as far as having the baby. 483 00:22:24,100 --> 00:22:27,270 I'm hoping that the ice cream will help me not think about 484 00:22:27,270 --> 00:22:30,300 the giant metal clamp that was shoved up my cooter-cat. 485 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,030 [Nate] Oh, man. 486 00:22:33,030 --> 00:22:34,400 [Emalee speaking] 487 00:22:39,670 --> 00:22:40,670 Mmm-hmm. 488 00:22:49,030 --> 00:22:50,870 -Guess what she told me. -Hmm? 489 00:22:59,430 --> 00:23:04,870 When Emalee told me that having sex can induce labor, I got all happy and excited, 490 00:23:04,870 --> 00:23:07,430 and I thought it was like the best day ever. 491 00:23:07,430 --> 00:23:10,370 They'll put their wieners in holes any time of the day. 492 00:23:11,030 --> 00:23:13,200 [both laughing] 493 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,270 And I was like, "Why would I ever want to do that? 494 00:23:15,270 --> 00:23:16,970 Because that's why I'm here in the first place." 495 00:23:16,970 --> 00:23:18,670 Yeah. 496 00:23:18,670 --> 00:23:24,230 And then she felt for his head and his head is down where it's supposed to be. 497 00:23:24,230 --> 00:23:27,930 And then she checked to see if I dilated any more, but I didn't. 498 00:23:33,570 --> 00:23:37,070 Well, your cervix is just supposed to dilate when you get this far. 499 00:23:37,070 --> 00:23:38,370 Mmm-hmm. 500 00:23:38,370 --> 00:23:41,300 You start off at a one, which is the size of, like, a Cheerio. 501 00:23:41,300 --> 00:23:42,530 Mmm-hmm. 502 00:23:42,530 --> 00:23:45,400 And then a ten is, like, the opening of a Clorox wipe bottle. 503 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,170 That's a ten. 504 00:23:47,170 --> 00:23:49,770 You don't have no idea what I'm talking about. 505 00:23:51,370 --> 00:23:52,330 It's fine. 506 00:23:52,330 --> 00:23:53,530 -No, it's not. -Why not? 507 00:23:53,530 --> 00:23:55,330 Because you need to be educated. 508 00:23:58,570 --> 00:24:00,130 In moments like these, 509 00:24:00,130 --> 00:24:04,770 that's when I remind myself, like, he really is a 16-year-old boy. 510 00:24:04,770 --> 00:24:05,930 Unfortunately... [chuckles] 511 00:24:07,100 --> 00:24:10,730 a lot of the time, it feels like I have to take on 512 00:24:10,730 --> 00:24:14,600 the role of mothering him, I guess. 513 00:24:18,330 --> 00:24:19,900 Well, because it's, like, hard to breathe. 514 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,570 [Emalee laughing] 515 00:24:24,270 --> 00:24:25,700 My point proven. 516 00:24:29,430 --> 00:24:30,730 Shh. Stop talking. 517 00:24:35,500 --> 00:24:38,530 ...I don't like when they check my cervix 'cause it's scary. 518 00:24:38,530 --> 00:24:39,400 Mmm-hmm. 519 00:24:43,130 --> 00:24:44,800 Your nose ring is like... 520 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,830 -Then fix it. -No, it's not, like... 521 00:24:49,230 --> 00:24:51,230 -Stop! -It's just like, there's like... 522 00:24:52,370 --> 00:24:53,770 Use your big boy words, Nate. 523 00:24:53,770 --> 00:24:56,130 I'm trying. So you know where, like, you can open it... 524 00:24:56,130 --> 00:24:57,670 It connects. It's not connected, right? 525 00:24:57,670 --> 00:24:59,100 -Yeah. -Oh. 526 00:24:59,100 --> 00:25:00,330 It's really making me mad. 527 00:25:00,330 --> 00:25:01,600 That's what you're focused about, 528 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,470 when I'm telling you about my panic attacks? 529 00:25:03,470 --> 00:25:05,030 It was after your panic attack. 530 00:25:07,430 --> 00:25:10,630 Every day. Every day I'm talking to him about something 531 00:25:10,630 --> 00:25:12,770 that's upsetting me, and all he does is... 532 00:25:14,900 --> 00:25:15,630 Like... 533 00:25:16,430 --> 00:25:17,670 Why are you doing that? 534 00:25:18,500 --> 00:25:20,970 Because it irritates me so much. 535 00:25:20,970 --> 00:25:23,530 Well, I don't like being yelled at all the time. 536 00:25:23,530 --> 00:25:25,900 -You're not being yelled at all the time. -Yeah, I am. 537 00:25:25,900 --> 00:25:27,600 You sound like a poor little... 538 00:25:30,670 --> 00:25:31,870 [Emalee laughing] 539 00:25:31,870 --> 00:25:33,230 Oh, my goodness. 540 00:25:37,500 --> 00:25:38,230 What? 541 00:25:41,370 --> 00:25:44,670 Because, it's... You're the one that's making fun of me. 542 00:25:44,670 --> 00:25:46,070 I'm not even making fun of you. 543 00:25:46,070 --> 00:25:47,700 You're literally just laughing at me. Were you not? 544 00:25:47,700 --> 00:25:49,500 I'm laughing with you. 545 00:25:49,500 --> 00:25:50,570 I wasn't laughing. 546 00:25:50,570 --> 00:25:51,800 I was laughing for you. 547 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:52,570 Cool. 548 00:26:03,770 --> 00:26:04,730 Are you ready? 549 00:26:07,770 --> 00:26:11,100 I'm tired of her calling me immature, when I've stepped up the best I can. 550 00:26:11,870 --> 00:26:13,200 Okay, do you want this or not? 551 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:15,500 No? 552 00:26:15,500 --> 00:26:19,270 I do think it's kind of unfair because I love her. 553 00:26:19,270 --> 00:26:22,930 But I feel like the work that I do for Emalee just gets overlooked 554 00:26:22,930 --> 00:26:27,500 and I'm worried that when the baby comes, things will get harder and worse for us. 555 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:29,400 And we might not make it. 556 00:26:31,770 --> 00:26:33,000 ♪ How you get so lavish? ♪ 557 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:34,470 ♪ I say it's a habit ♪ 558 00:26:34,470 --> 00:26:36,270 ♪ Living the life of luxury ♪ 559 00:26:36,270 --> 00:26:37,430 ♪ And everyone can't have it ♪ 560 00:26:37,430 --> 00:26:39,370 ♪ I'm so fluffy, yeah ♪ 561 00:26:39,370 --> 00:26:40,970 ♪ I'm so saucy, yeah ♪ 562 00:26:40,970 --> 00:26:42,370 ♪ I've got the juice, yeah ♪ 563 00:26:42,370 --> 00:26:44,600 ♪ It's what I do, yeah ♪ 564 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:45,570 -Hello? -Hi. 565 00:26:45,570 --> 00:26:47,030 -How are you? -[Jenna] Hello, good. 566 00:26:47,030 --> 00:26:48,170 Happy Thanksgiving. 567 00:26:48,170 --> 00:26:49,270 Happy Thanksgiving. 568 00:26:49,270 --> 00:26:50,870 [Jenna] I'm just peeling some potatoes. 569 00:26:50,870 --> 00:26:52,070 Happy Thanksgiving. 570 00:26:52,070 --> 00:26:53,870 [Jenna] Hello. Happy Thanksgiving. 571 00:26:53,870 --> 00:26:54,900 Where's Luca? 572 00:26:54,900 --> 00:26:56,770 -He's playing. -Oh, okay. 573 00:26:56,770 --> 00:26:58,170 It's only been a couple weeks 574 00:26:58,170 --> 00:26:59,730 since I helped move Jenna to Myrtle, 575 00:26:59,730 --> 00:27:03,100 but when she invited us to come back for the holiday, we jumped at the chance. 576 00:27:03,100 --> 00:27:04,430 Right. 577 00:27:04,430 --> 00:27:06,300 And hopefully we can make it through without annoying each other. 578 00:27:06,300 --> 00:27:07,030 [Cathy chuckles] 579 00:27:08,730 --> 00:27:10,030 -Have a hug? -Yes. 580 00:27:10,030 --> 00:27:11,300 -I love you. -I love you, too. 581 00:27:11,300 --> 00:27:12,630 I got you a thermometer. 582 00:27:12,630 --> 00:27:14,300 -Oh, okay. -I don't know if you have one for the turkey or not. 583 00:27:14,300 --> 00:27:15,970 Um, you wanna look at this turkey real quick? 584 00:27:15,970 --> 00:27:17,830 -[Cathy] Sure. -I think I did it. 585 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,800 -[Jenna] That's... -[Cathy] No, that's good. 586 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:22,830 -[Jenna] Is it? -[Cathy] Yeah. 587 00:27:22,830 --> 00:27:24,130 Seriously, it took me... 588 00:27:24,130 --> 00:27:26,830 I didn't do my first turkey until, like, a couple of years ago. 589 00:27:26,830 --> 00:27:31,270 And I had your mom come and help me because I had no clue. 590 00:27:31,270 --> 00:27:34,330 What time are JJ and Andrea coming over? 591 00:27:34,330 --> 00:27:35,900 [Jenna] Um, I think a little bit later. 592 00:27:35,900 --> 00:27:37,570 A couple hours. 593 00:27:37,570 --> 00:27:39,170 [Matt] I'm excited to see JJ again. 594 00:27:39,170 --> 00:27:43,300 We really didn't get a lot of opportunities to talk very much. 595 00:27:43,300 --> 00:27:47,270 I noticed everything that Jenna had told me did seem to check out. 596 00:27:47,270 --> 00:27:48,900 He's a very respectful kid. 597 00:27:48,900 --> 00:27:52,600 But we barely talked about anything during my last visit. 598 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:56,170 Particularly about JJ's intentions with Jenna, but also Luca. 599 00:27:57,630 --> 00:28:01,870 It'll be nice to finally get to meet his mom. 600 00:28:01,870 --> 00:28:03,430 Yeah. 601 00:28:03,430 --> 00:28:06,600 She got Luca a bunch of toys and stuff for her house. 602 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,270 -[Matt] Really? -[Cathy] Well, that's nice. 603 00:28:09,070 --> 00:28:10,300 Yeah. 604 00:28:10,300 --> 00:28:11,900 Is she excited to meet us? 605 00:28:11,900 --> 00:28:13,730 [Jenna] I think so. 606 00:28:13,730 --> 00:28:16,200 -[Matt] So, did you-- -Look, you're bothering me. 607 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:17,470 -I'm sorry. -You made me drop it. 608 00:28:17,470 --> 00:28:20,200 -You want me to shut up? -[Jenna] Yeah. 609 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,970 I really want my dad to make a good first impression with Andrea, 610 00:28:22,970 --> 00:28:25,570 but he can really be an A-hole. 611 00:28:25,570 --> 00:28:29,130 So I hope that he doesn't act that way in front of Andrea and JJ. 612 00:28:31,700 --> 00:28:34,370 Are you gonna still be doing everything for Aniyah, 613 00:28:34,370 --> 00:28:36,900 or are you gonna let her, like, grow up? 614 00:28:36,900 --> 00:28:39,900 DaeDae's mom is being really irritating. 615 00:28:39,900 --> 00:28:41,800 I don't like to be asked a lot of questions. 616 00:28:45,500 --> 00:28:46,370 [upbeat music playing] 617 00:28:55,100 --> 00:28:56,970 [indistinct conversations] 618 00:28:56,970 --> 00:28:57,930 [woman] You already ate? 619 00:28:57,930 --> 00:28:59,800 No, my food is cold, sitting there, you know? 620 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:00,530 [Latoya speaking] 621 00:29:00,530 --> 00:29:01,500 [Dakwon] Got things to do. 622 00:29:02,570 --> 00:29:04,570 Aniyah was a couple hours late to our baby shower. 623 00:29:04,570 --> 00:29:06,630 So me and my mom had to play host. 624 00:29:06,630 --> 00:29:08,500 Hi, hello, guys. 625 00:29:08,500 --> 00:29:09,670 Nice to meet y'all. 626 00:29:09,670 --> 00:29:11,930 Aniyah takes a long time to get ready, and she knows it. 627 00:29:11,930 --> 00:29:13,870 So I know there's gonna be a big entrance 628 00:29:13,870 --> 00:29:15,330 'cause she likes to be the center of attention. 629 00:29:16,370 --> 00:29:18,400 ♪ This world is my audience ♪ 630 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,100 ♪ All eyes on me ♪ 631 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:24,830 Ooh. 632 00:29:24,830 --> 00:29:26,870 I'm finally at my baby shower. 633 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:30,830 I'm just hoping it looks good, 634 00:29:30,830 --> 00:29:33,400 and I would just hate for people to have already left. 635 00:29:34,230 --> 00:29:35,270 Hey. 636 00:29:35,270 --> 00:29:37,630 Hey, guys! Oh, my gosh, everyone. 637 00:29:37,630 --> 00:29:38,730 [woman] Hey. 638 00:29:38,730 --> 00:29:40,100 I wasn't supposed to be this late. 639 00:29:40,100 --> 00:29:41,270 Thank you. 640 00:29:41,270 --> 00:29:42,270 [woman 1] You look cute. 641 00:29:42,270 --> 00:29:43,230 -[woman 2 speaking] -Thank you, girl. 642 00:29:43,230 --> 00:29:44,400 [woman 2 speaking] 643 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,070 Don't, don't do all of that. 644 00:29:46,730 --> 00:29:48,070 Don't do all of that. 645 00:29:48,070 --> 00:29:49,170 Don't do all of that. 646 00:29:49,170 --> 00:29:51,830 Hey, y'all! I gotta go say hey to my other friends. 647 00:29:51,830 --> 00:29:56,470 People was giving me, like, attitude, kind of, because I was late. 648 00:29:56,470 --> 00:29:58,730 But I was just like, "That wasn't my fault." 649 00:29:58,730 --> 00:30:01,600 Oh, it's cute in here! 650 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,570 But I don't even care. 651 00:30:03,570 --> 00:30:06,070 I appreciate for DaeDae staying and helping out 652 00:30:06,070 --> 00:30:08,800 and holding it down until my mom came and got me. 653 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,570 And when I got there, it just looked amazing. 654 00:30:11,570 --> 00:30:14,270 Like, there's snow all over the stage. 655 00:30:14,270 --> 00:30:17,670 There's a big old picture of me and DaeDae on the floor. 656 00:30:17,670 --> 00:30:19,930 Our Christmas tree just looks... [kisses] 657 00:30:19,930 --> 00:30:21,100 chef's kiss, like, 658 00:30:21,100 --> 00:30:22,900 everything was just amazing. 659 00:30:24,500 --> 00:30:25,570 [Ashley speaking] 660 00:30:27,070 --> 00:30:28,070 Go ahead. 661 00:30:31,870 --> 00:30:34,030 All right. Come on, sit down. 662 00:30:34,030 --> 00:30:37,330 When it comes to my mom, it's really like her way or no way. 663 00:30:37,330 --> 00:30:39,570 And I'm not about to argue with her 664 00:30:39,570 --> 00:30:42,870 when she put the whole baby shower together. 665 00:30:42,870 --> 00:30:46,730 Okay, she got the whole set going on. 666 00:30:46,730 --> 00:30:48,770 [Ashley] There's too more stuff to open. 667 00:30:48,770 --> 00:30:52,430 We need to start trying to figure out whose car all this stuff is going in. 668 00:30:52,430 --> 00:30:55,600 It's a blessing to have received everything 669 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,500 that she received at the baby shower. 670 00:30:57,500 --> 00:31:00,030 So now my concern is where is she going to put all this stuff? 671 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:01,500 Thank you. 672 00:31:01,500 --> 00:31:04,500 She got me a neck rest for my baby. 673 00:31:04,500 --> 00:31:06,000 I don't got nothing to do with none of that, 674 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:08,900 as long as it's in her room, so she can put it on the wall, in the corner, 675 00:31:08,900 --> 00:31:11,270 in the closet, under the bed, on top of the bed, in the drawer. 676 00:31:11,270 --> 00:31:13,400 I don't... Long as it's in her room. 677 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:14,670 DaeDae, he'll help, too. 678 00:31:14,670 --> 00:31:15,770 He's probably gonna want to help 679 00:31:15,770 --> 00:31:17,870 'cause he want to take some of the stuff with him. 680 00:31:19,430 --> 00:31:20,600 [shrieks] 681 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:22,130 [Ashley] Yeah, my car full of people. 682 00:31:22,130 --> 00:31:23,730 And I got Christmas gifts in the trunk. 683 00:31:23,730 --> 00:31:24,870 Ain't nothing going in my car. 684 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:35,930 I was expecting to play some games, and a little bit more interaction. 685 00:31:35,930 --> 00:31:38,870 I don't think that there was communication. 686 00:31:38,870 --> 00:31:43,830 So, um, we found out today that there were no festivities. 687 00:31:45,570 --> 00:31:48,170 Aw, thank you. 688 00:31:50,270 --> 00:31:52,270 [Latoya] We're still getting to know each other. 689 00:31:52,270 --> 00:31:54,330 Of course, they were girlfriend and boyfriend, 690 00:31:54,330 --> 00:31:56,130 but we thought that was it. 691 00:31:56,130 --> 00:31:58,170 -Obviously, it wasn't. -[Wanda chuckles] 692 00:31:58,170 --> 00:32:03,570 Um, so it was a shock for me because, like, I put a lot of time, 693 00:32:03,570 --> 00:32:07,970 a lot of my time, a lot of my money into him playing basketball. 694 00:32:07,970 --> 00:32:11,030 But he just kind of went cold turkey with it. 695 00:32:11,030 --> 00:32:13,270 I think if he wasn't having a baby right now, 696 00:32:13,270 --> 00:32:14,600 that's what he would be doing. 697 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:18,270 And he would just be living his life as a 17-year-old. 698 00:32:18,270 --> 00:32:20,500 So after the baby come, are you gonna still be 699 00:32:20,500 --> 00:32:23,370 doing everything for Aniyah, or are you gonna let her like, 700 00:32:24,770 --> 00:32:28,700 grow up and take on full responsibility of the baby, 701 00:32:28,700 --> 00:32:30,400 or are you gonna do it every step of the way? 702 00:32:31,900 --> 00:32:32,900 That's her baby. 703 00:32:32,900 --> 00:32:34,030 [Latoya] That's her baby. 704 00:32:34,030 --> 00:32:36,270 That ain't got nothing to do with me. 705 00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,870 When I see my mom talking to DaeDae's mom, 706 00:32:39,870 --> 00:32:42,000 I'm thinking, "This can't be good." 707 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:43,400 [Ashley] She's absolutely correct. 708 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,430 For the most part, I don't like people. 709 00:32:46,330 --> 00:32:49,070 My relationship with Dakwon's mom, 710 00:32:49,070 --> 00:32:53,000 is a relationship of her son and my daughter. 711 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,300 You know, we've had a couple conversations, 712 00:32:55,300 --> 00:32:59,930 regarding our kids, regarding our grandson, and that's the end of that. 713 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,370 We in agreeance that's their kid-- 714 00:33:03,370 --> 00:33:08,300 No, but, I mean, if she is doing anything 715 00:33:08,300 --> 00:33:10,930 that she don't need to be doing, 716 00:33:10,930 --> 00:33:14,170 then I guess it'll become my baby because it's gonna be what I say 717 00:33:14,170 --> 00:33:16,530 and it's no option because it's wrong, 718 00:33:16,530 --> 00:33:18,800 whatever it is that she might be doing that I don't agree with. 719 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,630 So they're going to need a little bit of guidance, but... 720 00:33:21,630 --> 00:33:25,400 Once we feel comfortable as grandparents to letting them be a parent-- 721 00:33:30,470 --> 00:33:32,000 I don't know about that too much. 722 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:33,370 [Latoya] Okay, Auntie. 723 00:33:33,370 --> 00:33:36,300 My mom doesn't like people in our business, 724 00:33:36,300 --> 00:33:42,200 so she's not gonna, like, justify the way that Aniyis is raised. 725 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,400 [Ashley] I can be a people person what I want to be. 726 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:47,730 But DaeDae's mom is being really irritating. 727 00:33:47,730 --> 00:33:48,670 [Aniyah chuckles] 728 00:33:49,870 --> 00:33:51,400 -Matt. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 729 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:53,530 I'm Andrea and I'm JJ's mom. 730 00:33:53,530 --> 00:33:56,830 What do you know about that promise ring that JJ... Like, what is that? 731 00:33:56,830 --> 00:33:58,430 I don't know anything about it. 732 00:33:58,430 --> 00:34:01,830 I don't know that I would have ever pictured him at 19 733 00:34:01,830 --> 00:34:04,200 being with someone that already had a child. 734 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,070 [Andrea] JJ, what does a promise ring mean? 735 00:34:07,070 --> 00:34:08,270 [JJ] I mean, hold on. 736 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,870 ♪ I'm the kinda chick That does it On her own, yeah ♪ 737 00:34:15,870 --> 00:34:18,400 ♪ Oh, I'm that girl ♪ 738 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,030 -♪ I'm that girl, yeah ♪ -[knocking at door] 739 00:34:20,030 --> 00:34:21,929 -♪ Oh, I'm that girl ♪ - [Luca] Uh-oh! 740 00:34:21,929 --> 00:34:23,230 [Jenna gasps] What, Tootie, who is it? 741 00:34:24,230 --> 00:34:24,969 [Jenna gasps] 742 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,300 -[Jenna] Who is it? -Hi, buddy! 743 00:34:27,670 --> 00:34:29,100 How are you? 744 00:34:29,100 --> 00:34:31,600 -[Jenna] Hello, Happy Thanksgiving. -[Andrea] You too. 745 00:34:33,530 --> 00:34:35,969 [whispering] Chocolate. Two bars. 746 00:34:35,969 --> 00:34:37,530 This is my dad and Cathy. 747 00:34:37,530 --> 00:34:39,230 -Hi. -Hi. Nice to meet you. 748 00:34:39,230 --> 00:34:40,969 -Hi. Nice to meet you. -I'm Andrea. 749 00:34:40,969 --> 00:34:42,630 -Matt. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 750 00:34:42,630 --> 00:34:47,000 We've just heard so many good things about Andrea. 751 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:50,230 I understand that Jenna and Andrea have a very good relationship. 752 00:34:50,230 --> 00:34:51,370 Right. 753 00:34:51,370 --> 00:34:54,830 And it's nice that she has, like, that motherly figure 754 00:34:54,830 --> 00:34:59,270 so close that she can talk to, so we're just really excited to get to know her. 755 00:34:59,270 --> 00:35:03,800 And I'm planning to talk to her and JJ both about the promise ring. 756 00:35:04,530 --> 00:35:06,570 -[Jenna] Hi. -Happy Thanksgiving. 757 00:35:06,570 --> 00:35:07,530 Happy Thanksgiving. 758 00:35:07,530 --> 00:35:09,530 -[Luca speaking] -Hey, bro. 759 00:35:09,530 --> 00:35:10,530 How are you? 760 00:35:13,730 --> 00:35:14,870 [Luca speaking] 761 00:35:14,870 --> 00:35:15,930 [Jenna chuckles] 762 00:35:15,930 --> 00:35:17,070 [Luca exclaims] 763 00:35:17,500 --> 00:35:19,130 Happy Thanksgiving. 764 00:35:19,130 --> 00:35:21,000 So how was your trip down? 765 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:22,230 [Cathy] Good. 766 00:35:22,230 --> 00:35:25,200 I'm Andrea and I'm JJ's mom. 767 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,530 Jenna invited me to come along with JJ 768 00:35:27,530 --> 00:35:33,170 to her place for Thanksgiving because she wants me to meet her dad and Cathy. 769 00:35:33,170 --> 00:35:34,870 I am excited. 770 00:35:34,870 --> 00:35:38,030 Wait. I got to start over because I don't want to say I'm excited 771 00:35:38,030 --> 00:35:41,770 because I'm not, like, I didn't really care either way. 772 00:35:41,770 --> 00:35:45,070 I'm not being mean, but I wasn't, like, I could've took it or leave it. 773 00:35:47,870 --> 00:35:49,700 -No, they're not. -Yes, they are. 774 00:35:51,270 --> 00:35:52,500 [Luca crying] 775 00:35:56,470 --> 00:35:57,870 This is gonna be a mess. 776 00:35:58,830 --> 00:36:00,970 Come on. Hey, Let me see. 777 00:36:00,970 --> 00:36:06,000 I like Jenna, but she has a two-year-old, and he has sticky fingers, 778 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:09,600 and he loves to eat and run around and touch everything. 779 00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,030 And I don't want to sound like I'm mean. 780 00:36:12,030 --> 00:36:15,000 I have raised my kids. 781 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,870 I pretty much do what I want when I want. 782 00:36:17,870 --> 00:36:19,570 I don't want grandkids. 783 00:36:20,370 --> 00:36:22,470 It doesn't interest me. 784 00:36:22,470 --> 00:36:24,770 Grandkids would mess up my house too much. 785 00:36:26,900 --> 00:36:27,930 Are you coming over here? 786 00:36:28,530 --> 00:36:29,700 Yeah. 787 00:36:29,700 --> 00:36:31,270 [Jenna speaking] 788 00:36:32,070 --> 00:36:32,830 -No! -Okay. 789 00:36:33,530 --> 00:36:34,700 [Andrea] What's wrong with him? 790 00:36:34,700 --> 00:36:35,770 He wants me to sit. 791 00:36:35,770 --> 00:36:37,270 [Matt laughing] He probably wants you to sit down. 792 00:36:37,270 --> 00:36:40,630 Here's the other thing. I like good kids. 793 00:36:40,630 --> 00:36:44,230 I don't like being around bad kids that are screaming and throwing tantrums 794 00:36:44,230 --> 00:36:47,930 and acting crazy the way Luca does sometimes. 795 00:36:47,930 --> 00:36:49,170 That gets on my nerves. 796 00:36:51,500 --> 00:36:55,370 It's just nice knowing that Jenna has such a good support system down here, 797 00:36:55,370 --> 00:36:56,670 like, knowing that she can come talk to you 798 00:36:56,670 --> 00:36:59,300 because she obviously feels very comfortable with you. 799 00:36:59,300 --> 00:37:02,670 And it's just really important because it makes me feel comfortable 800 00:37:03,470 --> 00:37:07,670 when she's 500 miles away. 801 00:37:07,670 --> 00:37:09,270 [Cathy and Andrea] Right. 802 00:37:09,270 --> 00:37:14,570 It's nice to finally put a face with all the stories that Jenna tells me. 803 00:37:14,570 --> 00:37:18,100 Matt, he seems like a dad that's more involved 804 00:37:18,100 --> 00:37:21,070 in his daughter's life than most dads are. 805 00:37:21,070 --> 00:37:25,430 I really can't say anything about Cathy because I barely know her. 806 00:37:26,470 --> 00:37:27,930 [Luca whining] 807 00:37:28,870 --> 00:37:30,330 [Jenna] I'm gonna take him into the room. 808 00:37:31,030 --> 00:37:32,570 Come on, babe. You coming? 809 00:37:32,570 --> 00:37:37,100 One of the biggest things that give us comfort is how close her and JJ are, 810 00:37:37,100 --> 00:37:39,230 and the way JJ is with them. 811 00:37:39,230 --> 00:37:41,100 [Andrea] And, of course, you know, JJ has told me 812 00:37:41,100 --> 00:37:44,470 he's not trying to take the place of anyone. 813 00:37:44,470 --> 00:37:46,770 You know, he knows Luca has a dad. 814 00:37:46,770 --> 00:37:47,870 -[Cathy] Right, yeah. -[Andrea] You know? 815 00:37:47,870 --> 00:37:50,570 He's just in his life a little bit. 816 00:37:50,570 --> 00:37:54,000 -You know, be an added bonus. -[Cathy] Exactly. Right. 817 00:37:54,570 --> 00:37:55,830 [Cathy] Exactly. 818 00:37:55,830 --> 00:38:00,670 I think JJ is doing a great job helping Jenna. 819 00:38:00,670 --> 00:38:04,370 I don't know that I would have ever pictured him at 19 820 00:38:04,370 --> 00:38:07,300 being with someone that already had a child. 821 00:38:07,300 --> 00:38:09,170 You gonna lay down? 822 00:38:09,170 --> 00:38:10,930 [Jenna] Don't give him the option. 823 00:38:10,930 --> 00:38:15,070 I definitely didn't see myself in a father figure role at 19, 824 00:38:15,070 --> 00:38:17,270 but it makes me feel really good 825 00:38:17,270 --> 00:38:21,230 that I have that type of impact on this little boy's life. 826 00:38:23,500 --> 00:38:24,530 Come on, Tootie. 827 00:38:24,530 --> 00:38:27,100 Come on, I'm laying down with you. 828 00:38:27,100 --> 00:38:30,930 There definitely is times where I'm with Luca and I feel like he's my son. 829 00:38:30,930 --> 00:38:36,300 But then again, I can't really consistently think like that, 830 00:38:36,300 --> 00:38:39,670 because then it's upsetting whenever it's brought up 831 00:38:40,830 --> 00:38:43,000 that that's not how it actually is. 832 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:45,730 [Matt] What do you know about that promise ring 833 00:38:45,730 --> 00:38:48,530 that JJ, like, what does that even mean? 834 00:38:48,530 --> 00:38:52,100 -I have no idea. -I had never heard of a promise ring before. 835 00:38:52,100 --> 00:38:53,970 I asked Jenna, "What's he promising you?" 836 00:38:53,970 --> 00:38:56,670 They wouldn't, she's like, "It's just a promise ring." 837 00:38:56,670 --> 00:38:58,500 I don't know anything about it. 838 00:38:58,500 --> 00:38:59,530 [Matt chuckles] Oh. 839 00:38:59,530 --> 00:39:01,100 -I don't. -[Cathy chuckles] 840 00:39:01,100 --> 00:39:03,970 I'm really caught off guard by Matt's question, 841 00:39:03,970 --> 00:39:07,000 because this was the first time I ever heard of a promise ring. 842 00:39:07,870 --> 00:39:10,800 I know he's purchased another girlfriend 843 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,730 jewelry and rings and items like that. 844 00:39:13,730 --> 00:39:15,700 I don't know that, in private, 845 00:39:15,700 --> 00:39:17,900 it was said to her, "This is a promise ring." 846 00:39:17,900 --> 00:39:20,030 I don't know that answer. 847 00:39:20,030 --> 00:39:22,570 But I don't think that a promise ring 848 00:39:23,500 --> 00:39:26,730 was really anything, like, crazy significant. 849 00:39:26,730 --> 00:39:31,070 It was just a nice gesture that say that they were boyfriend and girlfriend. 850 00:39:33,030 --> 00:39:34,500 He doesn't want to take a nap. 851 00:39:36,430 --> 00:39:38,730 JJ, what does a promise ring mean? 852 00:39:39,770 --> 00:39:42,830 [Matt stammering] Like, what is it a promise for? 853 00:39:42,830 --> 00:39:44,100 Like, a promise to what? 854 00:39:45,130 --> 00:39:47,300 I mean, hold on. I guess... 855 00:39:50,470 --> 00:39:56,030 Kind of how I looked at it is that every single time 856 00:39:56,030 --> 00:39:59,370 that me and Jenna have tried to make things work, 857 00:39:59,370 --> 00:40:01,630 something's gotten in our way, like me moving. 858 00:40:01,630 --> 00:40:06,800 So I looked at it this time as like, "She's here. We're both adults. 859 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,300 The only thing that's stopping us now is each other." 860 00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:14,870 [Matt] Who is this kid? 861 00:40:14,870 --> 00:40:18,530 I'm almost wondering myself, like, "Wait a minute." 862 00:40:18,530 --> 00:40:23,900 I asked JJ what the promise ring meant, and I'm glad that it's not an engagement ring. 863 00:40:23,900 --> 00:40:26,970 From my understanding, it's just him saying... 864 00:40:26,970 --> 00:40:28,670 [Cathy] He's gonna make an effort. 865 00:40:28,670 --> 00:40:33,600 He's gonna make one heck of an effort to make it work and Jenna's important to him. 866 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:37,500 He seems like a great guy, and Andrea was nice. 867 00:40:37,500 --> 00:40:39,130 -[Matt] Andrea seems amazing. - [Cathy] Yeah. 868 00:40:39,130 --> 00:40:42,130 You can see where JJ gets his personality from. 869 00:40:42,130 --> 00:40:43,400 They're very nice people. 870 00:40:46,630 --> 00:40:48,700 -[JJ speaking] -[Andrea] You are? 871 00:40:48,700 --> 00:40:49,430 [knife whirring] 872 00:40:52,370 --> 00:40:54,100 What do you mean? I talk from the heart. 873 00:40:56,830 --> 00:40:58,370 How come I never know about that? 874 00:41:02,330 --> 00:41:04,900 I definitely see Jenna as my wife someday. 875 00:41:04,900 --> 00:41:06,970 I have no timeframe. 876 00:41:06,970 --> 00:41:12,130 But if things keep going the way that they are, I definitely see very soon. 877 00:41:12,130 --> 00:41:15,170 And then I think Luca needs a brother or sister. 878 00:41:15,170 --> 00:41:15,900 [Andrea grunts] 879 00:41:16,700 --> 00:41:18,300 Maybe when he's, like, ten. 880 00:41:18,300 --> 00:41:19,600 When he's, like, ten. 881 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:25,970 Me and Jenna are not using protection. 882 00:41:25,970 --> 00:41:29,300 We've never... Since the first time she came down here, 883 00:41:29,300 --> 00:41:30,300 we haven't. 884 00:41:30,830 --> 00:41:32,500 Don't say that. 885 00:41:32,500 --> 00:41:34,600 It's 100% true. 886 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:37,900 Oh, my God, JJ. That's terrible. 887 00:41:39,930 --> 00:41:42,070 [Kayleigh] Next time on Unexpected... 888 00:41:42,070 --> 00:41:45,400 I really wish that Graham's mom could have came and been part of this. 889 00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,200 My baby shower is tomorrow. 890 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,500 I think Graham is just trying to make an excuse 891 00:41:49,500 --> 00:41:51,100 because his mom didn't want to come. 892 00:41:51,100 --> 00:41:53,170 What kind of [bleep] is that? 893 00:41:53,170 --> 00:41:57,070 I don't think Bekki's showing that she's wanting to be a part of, 894 00:41:57,070 --> 00:42:01,030 not only just Easton's life, but your life as well. 895 00:42:01,030 --> 00:42:02,270 -[Lilly] Merry Christmas. -[Kim] Merry Christmas. 896 00:42:05,070 --> 00:42:07,430 My name is Brett. I'm Lilly's dad. 897 00:42:07,430 --> 00:42:12,630 I've missed out on a lot and I can't ever go backwards and get that back. 898 00:42:12,630 --> 00:42:15,030 It's tough. I'm having a little bit of a tough time. 899 00:42:16,970 --> 00:42:19,230 My stomach hurts, and my head hurts. 900 00:42:19,630 --> 00:42:21,230 [woman speaking] 901 00:42:21,230 --> 00:42:23,700 [Aniyah] I'm nervous because I don't feel good. 902 00:42:23,700 --> 00:42:26,130 So it's really worrying me about my baby.