1 00:00:01,130 --> 00:00:02,170 [Lilly] Previously on Unexpected... 2 00:00:03,130 --> 00:00:05,670 They said my blood pressure is high 3 00:00:05,670 --> 00:00:08,130 and my feet are really swollen. 4 00:00:08,130 --> 00:00:10,530 The doctor thinks that I have preeclampsia 5 00:00:10,530 --> 00:00:12,000 and she told me that, 6 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:13,230 "We're not gonna induce you right now," 7 00:00:13,230 --> 00:00:16,800 but if my blood pressure gets too high again, 8 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:18,000 we're going to. 9 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:19,770 [LJ babbling] 10 00:00:19,770 --> 00:00:21,230 Daddy ain't been home for two minutes 11 00:00:21,230 --> 00:00:22,230 and y'all arguing already. 12 00:00:22,230 --> 00:00:25,600 I definitely am the default parent 13 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,600 because Lawrence works a lot 14 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:30,470 and my job literally never ends. 15 00:00:30,470 --> 00:00:32,930 What do you think about Christmas Day? 16 00:00:32,930 --> 00:00:35,330 We should tell everyone that we're 17 00:00:35,330 --> 00:00:37,070 moving ahead with wedding plans. 18 00:00:37,070 --> 00:00:39,230 You know my mom, I don't think she's gonna be 19 00:00:39,230 --> 00:00:42,670 happy, but you know she just hates marriage. 20 00:00:42,670 --> 00:00:44,100 [Mandy] Have you heard from Graham's mom? 21 00:00:44,100 --> 00:00:46,670 Is she gonna assist with the baby shower? 22 00:00:46,670 --> 00:00:48,330 Well, I don't know. 23 00:00:48,330 --> 00:00:51,730 I'll ask, but we all know how that usually goes. 24 00:00:51,730 --> 00:00:54,670 I feel like Graham does use a lot of excuses 25 00:00:54,670 --> 00:00:57,170 to get out of stuff, but I just hope that Grandma 26 00:00:57,170 --> 00:00:59,270 and his mom are coming to help for the baby shower. 27 00:00:59,270 --> 00:01:01,930 It's coming to support your kid and your grandson, 28 00:01:01,930 --> 00:01:04,569 which I think you should pull together for. 29 00:01:07,170 --> 00:01:10,000 [upbeat music playing] 30 00:01:19,170 --> 00:01:20,300 I got no choice. 31 00:01:20,300 --> 00:01:21,430 -That was the plan. -Okay. Thank you. 32 00:01:21,430 --> 00:01:22,700 You keep these. 33 00:01:22,700 --> 00:01:24,370 Uh-uh, the bookbag stay with me. 34 00:01:24,370 --> 00:01:27,270 -Okay. -The bookbag stays with me. 35 00:01:27,270 --> 00:01:30,230 If I go into labor, I have to take it with me. 36 00:01:30,230 --> 00:01:33,570 It's about four days after our baby shower, 37 00:01:33,570 --> 00:01:36,300 and we got everything that we needed, 38 00:01:36,300 --> 00:01:37,930 and wanted plus some. 39 00:01:37,930 --> 00:01:38,900 [screams] 40 00:01:38,900 --> 00:01:40,300 You got my tub! 41 00:01:40,300 --> 00:01:41,170 [laughs] 42 00:01:41,170 --> 00:01:43,800 It was great because I think this stuff 43 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,000 will last us a good amount of time, 44 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:47,729 but sorting through all the gifts 45 00:01:47,729 --> 00:01:50,170 was really exhausting and I woke up 46 00:01:50,170 --> 00:01:52,170 just not feeling good. 47 00:01:52,170 --> 00:01:53,229 Here. 48 00:01:55,770 --> 00:01:57,030 You could keep this. 49 00:01:57,030 --> 00:01:58,800 This is for his clothes when you wash 'em 50 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,030 and you can take that laundry detergent too. 51 00:02:07,770 --> 00:02:10,070 Yeah. But like most of the time 52 00:02:10,070 --> 00:02:12,130 I really think we'll just be 53 00:02:12,130 --> 00:02:14,570 at my house 'cause it'll be more comfortable for me 54 00:02:14,570 --> 00:02:15,830 and Aniyas there. 55 00:02:15,830 --> 00:02:16,870 What do you think? 56 00:02:19,570 --> 00:02:20,670 [Aniyah] Yeah. 57 00:02:20,670 --> 00:02:22,870 But like staying the night-wise, 58 00:02:22,870 --> 00:02:25,329 my mom, she's not even gonna let him stay the night, 59 00:02:25,329 --> 00:02:28,000 let alone move in. 60 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,530 I'm hoping she'll let up once the baby gets here. 61 00:02:30,530 --> 00:02:32,570 Hmm. [chuckles] 62 00:02:32,570 --> 00:02:35,070 It will be good to spend the night to help her 63 00:02:35,070 --> 00:02:36,130 take care of the baby, 64 00:02:36,130 --> 00:02:38,300 'cause I know it's hard waking up just to feed him 65 00:02:38,300 --> 00:02:41,200 or kind of change him, stuff like that, 66 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,500 but I doubt it's gonna happen. 67 00:02:43,500 --> 00:02:45,230 So I'm thinking that 68 00:02:45,230 --> 00:02:47,730 the car seat could stay here, 69 00:02:47,730 --> 00:02:49,770 but the piece that go in the car 70 00:02:49,770 --> 00:02:51,030 to sit the car seat in, 71 00:02:51,030 --> 00:02:52,430 you could go ahead and put it in your car. 72 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:54,130 [Dakwon] Like next month 73 00:02:54,130 --> 00:02:55,400 or next week? 74 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:56,870 The due date is on Saturday. 75 00:02:56,870 --> 00:02:58,130 [Dakwon speaking] 76 00:02:58,130 --> 00:02:59,230 -I'll watch you. -Okay. You don't gotta do it 77 00:02:59,230 --> 00:03:00,530 right now, 78 00:03:00,530 --> 00:03:02,530 but take it with you, boo. 79 00:03:02,530 --> 00:03:04,230 As far as over-nights, that's not an option 80 00:03:04,230 --> 00:03:05,170 at my house. 81 00:03:05,170 --> 00:03:07,170 I don't care how grown my daughter is, 82 00:03:07,170 --> 00:03:08,870 she's not getting ready to be laying up in my house 83 00:03:08,870 --> 00:03:09,870 with no man. 84 00:03:09,870 --> 00:03:11,130 Baby daddy, boyfriend, 85 00:03:11,130 --> 00:03:12,430 husband, none of that. 86 00:03:12,430 --> 00:03:15,000 But, Mom, what about just like one night? 87 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:16,500 No. 88 00:03:16,500 --> 00:03:17,800 You can have all the nights you want 89 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:19,200 when you get your own place. 90 00:03:22,930 --> 00:03:24,000 Oh. 91 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,130 Day-day, get the bathtub. 92 00:03:29,130 --> 00:03:31,170 [Dakwon] Whether her mom lets me stay the night or not... 93 00:03:33,329 --> 00:03:34,300 Oh, my God. 94 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:35,970 It is very personal. 95 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:38,370 [Aniyah] Why is it personal? 96 00:03:38,370 --> 00:03:39,530 You would say that. You know why it's personal. 97 00:03:39,530 --> 00:03:41,230 -I mean I'm just asking. -Oh. 98 00:03:41,230 --> 00:03:44,470 It's personal because my bio... 99 00:03:46,270 --> 00:03:50,500 But my biological father, he wasn't really like there 100 00:03:50,500 --> 00:03:52,600 and I don't want to be like him. 101 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,530 I would not be able to live if I do that. 102 00:03:54,530 --> 00:03:57,730 So, like, I have one choice, for to take care of them. 103 00:03:58,500 --> 00:04:02,200 Honestly, I just expect Day-day 104 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,170 to make sure 105 00:04:05,170 --> 00:04:08,230 we are financially okay. 106 00:04:08,230 --> 00:04:10,030 I don't really have any other expectations 107 00:04:10,030 --> 00:04:12,100 because I'll be disappointed 108 00:04:12,100 --> 00:04:14,870 if he doesn't reach my expectations. 109 00:04:14,870 --> 00:04:18,930 So just gonna see how everything goes. 110 00:04:18,930 --> 00:04:21,800 But I think he's gonna be a good dad for the most part. 111 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,170 Say he will be. 112 00:04:23,770 --> 00:04:24,630 Firm. 113 00:04:24,630 --> 00:04:26,800 -[Aniyah] Okay. -Aggression. 114 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:27,970 I know that Day-day is going to be... 115 00:04:27,970 --> 00:04:31,230 No, he will be, it's like put your foot down. 116 00:04:31,230 --> 00:04:33,030 -I just said I know. -He will be. 117 00:04:33,030 --> 00:04:34,100 Like you gotta be like, you got to... 118 00:04:34,100 --> 00:04:35,430 -I just said, I know. -Nah, he ain't know. 119 00:04:35,430 --> 00:04:36,570 I know you. He will be. 120 00:04:36,570 --> 00:04:40,000 Okay. Day-day will be a good father. 121 00:04:41,370 --> 00:04:42,300 Okay. 122 00:04:42,300 --> 00:04:45,230 Pass me that and pass me that. 123 00:04:46,470 --> 00:04:47,700 I'm tired. 124 00:04:47,700 --> 00:04:49,170 I'm tired too. 125 00:04:49,170 --> 00:04:50,130 My throat. 126 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:54,070 [Dakwon speaking] 127 00:04:54,070 --> 00:04:56,230 [Aniyah] I can't even talk how I usually talk. 128 00:04:57,930 --> 00:04:59,900 So we've been at this for hours 129 00:04:59,900 --> 00:05:01,930 and I just started 130 00:05:01,930 --> 00:05:04,730 feeling like very drowsy, 131 00:05:04,730 --> 00:05:05,900 and really hot, 132 00:05:05,900 --> 00:05:08,330 and really like bad stomach pains. 133 00:05:08,330 --> 00:05:10,170 Then I was really uncomfortable. 134 00:05:12,030 --> 00:05:16,530 [Aniyah speaking] 135 00:05:16,530 --> 00:05:17,600 Ma? 136 00:05:19,330 --> 00:05:20,870 Ma. 137 00:05:20,870 --> 00:05:24,030 [Dakwon] Take a break 'cause you look out of it. 138 00:05:24,030 --> 00:05:25,100 [Aniyah] Ma. 139 00:05:25,870 --> 00:05:27,430 [tense music playing] 140 00:05:27,430 --> 00:05:28,430 What's wrong? 141 00:05:28,430 --> 00:05:31,330 [Aniyah speaking] 142 00:05:31,330 --> 00:05:33,600 I was feeling completely awful 143 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,830 and it was really worrying me about Aniyas 144 00:05:35,830 --> 00:05:39,100 because I've already had preeclampsia scares 145 00:05:39,100 --> 00:05:42,630 and I already know my blood pressure gets too high. 146 00:05:42,630 --> 00:05:45,470 It can be very deadly. 147 00:05:45,470 --> 00:05:47,000 [Ashley speaking] 148 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:48,270 [Aniyah speaking] 149 00:05:50,300 --> 00:05:51,430 ♪ Yeah ♪ 150 00:05:51,430 --> 00:05:53,070 ♪ Yeah, baby ♪ 151 00:05:53,070 --> 00:05:53,970 ♪ Yeah ♪ 152 00:05:53,970 --> 00:05:55,470 ♪ Yeah, baby ♪ 153 00:05:55,470 --> 00:05:56,530 ♪ Yeah ♪ 154 00:05:56,530 --> 00:05:58,270 ♪ Yeah, yeah ♪ 155 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:00,570 [Mandy] You ready to do this? 156 00:06:00,570 --> 00:06:01,370 [Kayleigh] Yes. 157 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,830 [Kayleigh] My baby shower is tomorrow and tonight, 158 00:06:07,830 --> 00:06:10,470 me, my sister, and my mom are going to go 159 00:06:10,470 --> 00:06:13,230 set up the decorations at the Lions Club. 160 00:06:13,230 --> 00:06:15,300 Graham and his mom are supposed to come and help 161 00:06:15,300 --> 00:06:18,600 but they bailed because apparently Bekki was sick. 162 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,430 Hey, are y'all coming to help with the baby shower? 163 00:06:24,300 --> 00:06:25,370 Why? 164 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,370 Well, always sickness 165 00:06:36,370 --> 00:06:38,230 with you and your family. 166 00:06:38,970 --> 00:06:40,730 Bekki was in the hospital 167 00:06:40,730 --> 00:06:42,300 and I don't really know what for 168 00:06:42,300 --> 00:06:45,200 but anytime Graham tells me that his mom is sick, 169 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:46,770 I know he won't show up. 170 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:50,700 Oh, Lord, you make wide turns. 171 00:06:51,270 --> 00:06:52,870 Will you stop or... 172 00:06:56,870 --> 00:06:57,900 I mean... 173 00:06:58,970 --> 00:07:00,600 [Kayleigh speaking] 174 00:07:01,700 --> 00:07:04,700 My dad legit is like, "Good job, Kayleigh." 175 00:07:04,700 --> 00:07:06,300 You're over here, "Stop." 176 00:07:12,430 --> 00:07:14,770 I don't feel that it's fair that I'm always 177 00:07:14,770 --> 00:07:18,500 the one that gets to be the punching bag 178 00:07:18,500 --> 00:07:20,070 whenever she's upset 179 00:07:20,070 --> 00:07:23,870 or hurt by things that I have no control over. 180 00:07:23,870 --> 00:07:25,670 Um, sometimes I feel that Graham should be 181 00:07:25,670 --> 00:07:27,700 the one that gets some of this. 182 00:07:27,700 --> 00:07:31,530 Especially since when I feel like her stress 183 00:07:31,530 --> 00:07:33,900 is geared towards Graham not being there 184 00:07:33,900 --> 00:07:35,770 and participating as much as she would want 185 00:07:35,770 --> 00:07:37,230 him to be there. 186 00:07:37,230 --> 00:07:38,730 But... 187 00:07:38,730 --> 00:07:40,170 I'm the one that's always here, 188 00:07:40,170 --> 00:07:41,970 so I'm the one that gets the brunt of it. 189 00:07:43,330 --> 00:07:45,070 [Kayleigh] Ah, woo. 190 00:07:48,570 --> 00:07:50,870 [Mandy] Trying not to break anything. 191 00:07:50,870 --> 00:07:52,030 If I'm being honest. 192 00:07:52,030 --> 00:07:53,900 I'm a little annoyed too right now. 193 00:07:53,900 --> 00:07:56,230 Um, there's still a lot to do for the baby shower 194 00:07:56,230 --> 00:07:58,500 and it would've been nice to have the extra help. 195 00:07:59,530 --> 00:08:02,100 We need to get the cake, figure out the foods, 196 00:08:02,100 --> 00:08:03,070 figure out the games, 197 00:08:03,070 --> 00:08:05,170 and set up all the decorations. 198 00:08:05,170 --> 00:08:06,470 It's stressful. 199 00:08:06,900 --> 00:08:07,870 Word. 200 00:08:08,970 --> 00:08:10,230 [Mandy] How in the world? 201 00:08:11,500 --> 00:08:13,630 I really don't know how you wanted these. 202 00:08:13,630 --> 00:08:14,870 [Kayleigh] That looks good. 203 00:08:16,300 --> 00:08:17,930 Oh, you can open this Laffy Taffy. 204 00:08:17,930 --> 00:08:19,870 I can't open it. 205 00:08:19,870 --> 00:08:22,930 [Mandy] I really wish that Graham's mom 206 00:08:22,930 --> 00:08:24,370 could've came and been a part of this. 207 00:08:25,300 --> 00:08:27,630 At least help set up and put in input 208 00:08:27,630 --> 00:08:29,670 what she thought and her ideas. 209 00:08:30,930 --> 00:08:32,470 [Kayleigh] Me too. 210 00:08:32,470 --> 00:08:34,799 [Mandy] Do you even know what the reason was behind that? 211 00:08:34,799 --> 00:08:36,900 I mean, the reason that she said that she couldn't drive? 212 00:08:36,900 --> 00:08:39,030 I think Graham was just trying to make an excuse 213 00:08:39,030 --> 00:08:40,700 'cause his mom didn't wanna come. 214 00:08:41,330 --> 00:08:42,799 What kind of [bleep] is that? 215 00:08:42,799 --> 00:08:45,300 Whenever I've been traveling all this time 216 00:08:45,300 --> 00:08:47,600 for the past three years to get him, 217 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:48,730 bring him to our house, 218 00:08:48,730 --> 00:08:50,270 then bring him back to his house 219 00:08:50,270 --> 00:08:51,670 and then come back to my house. 220 00:08:51,670 --> 00:08:53,600 It's not a very short distance. 221 00:08:57,700 --> 00:09:00,200 I don't really see their involvement changing 222 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,330 because I don't see Graham's mom 223 00:09:02,330 --> 00:09:04,100 coming to bring him anywhere, 224 00:09:04,100 --> 00:09:07,430 or him being able to get someone to take him, 225 00:09:07,430 --> 00:09:10,430 it scares me because I don't really know how he can be 226 00:09:10,430 --> 00:09:12,430 a good father if like he's not there 227 00:09:12,430 --> 00:09:14,900 for Easton. Like you can't just 228 00:09:14,900 --> 00:09:16,630 say that you're a father and not like 229 00:09:16,630 --> 00:09:17,930 be there at least. 230 00:09:17,930 --> 00:09:20,730 He figures out ways to be a part of things 231 00:09:20,730 --> 00:09:22,370 that he wants to be a part of 232 00:09:22,370 --> 00:09:25,230 but when it comes to being a part of Kayleigh 233 00:09:25,230 --> 00:09:27,200 and Easton's life, Graham and his mom 234 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:28,770 need to step up and do the same. 235 00:09:29,670 --> 00:09:31,670 So has she said anything about 236 00:09:31,670 --> 00:09:34,130 when it comes time for delivery? 237 00:09:34,130 --> 00:09:36,830 [Kayleigh] Yeah, she said that she wanted to be in the room. 238 00:09:43,270 --> 00:09:45,330 Honestly, I don't know that Bekki really 239 00:09:45,330 --> 00:09:47,200 earned the right to be in the delivery room 240 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:48,870 because this... 241 00:09:48,870 --> 00:09:51,000 is gonna sound terrible, I just feel like how can 242 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,800 somebody for three straight years always be sick, 243 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,700 you know, and not be able to drive 244 00:09:56,700 --> 00:09:59,200 and not be able to participate in anything? 245 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,770 And I feel bad for Kayleigh 'cause I know 246 00:10:01,770 --> 00:10:06,230 Kayleigh really wants so much more from Bekki. 247 00:10:06,230 --> 00:10:08,330 I don't know exactly what's going on with her, 248 00:10:08,330 --> 00:10:10,600 but I do hope that Bekki and Graham both 249 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:13,670 make that effort to be here tomorrow for you. 250 00:10:13,670 --> 00:10:15,430 I'm not holding my breath to it because I know 251 00:10:15,430 --> 00:10:16,730 it won't happen. 252 00:10:16,730 --> 00:10:17,830 [Mandy] We'll see. 253 00:10:20,530 --> 00:10:22,130 -[Lilly] Merry Christmas. -[Lawrence] Merry Christmas. 254 00:10:22,130 --> 00:10:23,300 [Aaliyah] Oh, my God! 255 00:10:23,300 --> 00:10:24,470 -Oh, my God! -[Lilly] Oh, my goodness. 256 00:10:24,470 --> 00:10:26,370 I am hosting Christmas lunch 257 00:10:26,370 --> 00:10:27,930 for the first time at my house 258 00:10:27,930 --> 00:10:31,130 and I'm on edge because I have to come out and tell everybody 259 00:10:31,130 --> 00:10:34,670 that I picked a super close date for this wedding. 260 00:10:34,670 --> 00:10:36,270 -Hello? -[Lilly] Hi. 261 00:10:36,270 --> 00:10:37,930 And if my mom can't get on board, 262 00:10:37,930 --> 00:10:39,230 it might ruin Christmas 263 00:10:39,230 --> 00:10:41,030 because I'm sick of her [bleep]. 264 00:10:41,030 --> 00:10:43,470 [Aniyah] My stomach hurt and my head hurt. 265 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:46,900 I'm not getting ready to go sit in no hospital 266 00:10:46,900 --> 00:10:47,900 if I don't have to. 267 00:10:47,900 --> 00:10:49,630 [Aniyah] I'm worried about my baby 268 00:10:49,630 --> 00:10:52,100 because preeclampsia can lead up to death. 269 00:10:52,100 --> 00:10:53,100 [sighs in exasperation] 270 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:58,730 [Christmas music playing] 271 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:03,330 [LJ crying] 272 00:11:04,970 --> 00:11:06,870 [Aaliyah] Mom, wake up! 273 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:10,170 Oh, merry Christmas. 274 00:11:10,170 --> 00:11:11,200 Merry Christmas. 275 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,330 [LJ crying] 276 00:11:13,330 --> 00:11:15,970 [Lilly] It's Christmas morning and I am exhausted. 277 00:11:15,970 --> 00:11:19,300 I didn't end up getting to sleep until 1:00 a.m. 278 00:11:19,300 --> 00:11:20,470 Santa's coming. 279 00:11:20,470 --> 00:11:21,900 Santa's coming. 280 00:11:21,900 --> 00:11:23,330 Come on, Aaliyah, let's go brush your teeth. 281 00:11:23,330 --> 00:11:25,030 [LJ crying] 282 00:11:25,830 --> 00:11:27,000 [Lilly] When it comes to the kids, 283 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:30,200 Lawrence definitely has it very easy compared to me. 284 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:32,700 And that was especially true last night. 285 00:11:32,700 --> 00:11:34,330 Come on, lay down. 286 00:11:34,330 --> 00:11:36,230 Lay down, go ahead. 287 00:11:36,230 --> 00:11:39,330 After I put the kids to bed, I was so stressed out 288 00:11:39,330 --> 00:11:41,430 'cause there was just so much left to do 289 00:11:41,430 --> 00:11:42,600 and he's sitting there. 290 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,700 I'm like in my head like, "Oh, my God, get up." 291 00:11:47,030 --> 00:11:48,130 We gotta get moving. 292 00:11:49,900 --> 00:11:52,730 I had to get everything under the tree while Lawrence 293 00:11:52,730 --> 00:11:55,370 sat on the couch with a bag of Doritos and fell asleep. 294 00:11:55,370 --> 00:11:58,170 And usually, I like to leave him on the couch 295 00:11:58,170 --> 00:11:59,330 and I just go to bed. 296 00:11:59,330 --> 00:12:02,130 But I had to wake him up this time because 297 00:12:02,130 --> 00:12:04,570 Santa couldn't come to town with Daddy passed out 298 00:12:04,570 --> 00:12:05,770 on the couch with a bag of Doritos. 299 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,070 All of that to say I was completely wiped out 300 00:12:10,070 --> 00:12:12,470 and the day hasn't even started yet. 301 00:12:12,470 --> 00:12:14,100 Oh, my God! Oh, my God! 302 00:12:15,630 --> 00:12:17,100 Oh, my gosh. Oh, my gosh! 303 00:12:17,100 --> 00:12:18,730 [Lilly] Oh, my goodness. 304 00:12:18,730 --> 00:12:20,570 [LJ speaking] 305 00:12:20,570 --> 00:12:21,570 Go ahead, babe. 306 00:12:21,570 --> 00:12:22,370 [LJ] Yes! 307 00:12:23,370 --> 00:12:25,370 Whoa! 308 00:12:25,370 --> 00:12:27,770 This Christmas is definitely really big. 309 00:12:27,770 --> 00:12:29,900 It's LJ's first year really knowing 310 00:12:29,900 --> 00:12:33,430 what's going on and being able to open presents. 311 00:12:38,700 --> 00:12:41,070 So I'm trying to soak all this in 312 00:12:41,070 --> 00:12:42,100 and enjoy this moment. 313 00:12:42,100 --> 00:12:44,230 But I am just feeling really stressed out 314 00:12:44,230 --> 00:12:47,330 because later on I am hosting Christmas lunch 315 00:12:47,330 --> 00:12:48,830 for the first time at my house 316 00:12:48,830 --> 00:12:51,730 and my mom and both my dads are coming 317 00:12:51,730 --> 00:12:53,670 and Lawrence's mom and we're supposed to be 318 00:12:53,670 --> 00:12:55,430 announcing the plans for our wedding 319 00:12:55,430 --> 00:12:58,100 and I'm just really not prepared for it. 320 00:12:58,100 --> 00:13:00,200 [Aaliyah speaking] 321 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:01,830 [Lilly] Oh, my goodness. 322 00:13:04,030 --> 00:13:06,130 [Lilly speaking] 323 00:13:06,130 --> 00:13:08,070 [Aaliyah] Mom, you... 324 00:13:08,070 --> 00:13:08,870 [Lawrence speaking] 325 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,530 I grew up pretty poor. 326 00:13:14,530 --> 00:13:16,970 I didn't have much like at all. 327 00:13:16,970 --> 00:13:20,570 My mom and my dad separated when I was five. 328 00:13:20,570 --> 00:13:23,270 You know, she was a single mom and like we struggled. 329 00:13:23,270 --> 00:13:26,100 But then when she met Glenn, I never missed out 330 00:13:26,100 --> 00:13:27,800 on anything. 331 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:31,730 And so, if I am able to give my kids 332 00:13:31,730 --> 00:13:32,830 a beautiful life 333 00:13:32,830 --> 00:13:35,270 with everything they could ever want, 334 00:13:35,270 --> 00:13:37,700 I wanna do that for them because they're my kids. 335 00:13:37,700 --> 00:13:39,830 The same way that Glenn did that for me. 336 00:13:45,270 --> 00:13:46,230 [screaming] 337 00:13:46,230 --> 00:13:47,400 [Lilly] Oh, my God, Aaliyah, 338 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:48,330 what is that? 339 00:13:48,330 --> 00:13:49,770 I got an iPhone. 340 00:13:49,770 --> 00:13:52,100 -Oh, my God. -[Aaliyah] Oh, my gosh. 341 00:13:53,330 --> 00:13:54,370 [Lawrence] I get it. 342 00:13:54,370 --> 00:13:57,100 But right now is definitely not the time, 343 00:13:57,100 --> 00:13:59,430 we need to save 20K for the wedding. 344 00:13:59,430 --> 00:14:01,830 And if the kids don't know that they're loved, 345 00:14:01,830 --> 00:14:03,570 we have bigger problems. 346 00:14:04,230 --> 00:14:05,200 LJ, look. 347 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:10,400 They're not going as fast as I thought 348 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:11,600 they would be going. 349 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:14,230 [Lawrence speaking] 350 00:14:14,230 --> 00:14:16,070 -[LJ] Bye-bye, Mommy. -[Lilly] No. 351 00:14:16,070 --> 00:14:18,170 You have to move that table inside. 352 00:14:18,170 --> 00:14:20,000 We're throwing a party. 353 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:21,200 [LJ] Here. 354 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,970 I'm on edge because I have to come out and tell everybody 355 00:14:23,970 --> 00:14:26,600 that I picked a super close date 356 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,430 for this wedding and I'm not sure 357 00:14:28,430 --> 00:14:29,970 how everyone's gonna react. 358 00:14:29,970 --> 00:14:31,600 Especially my mom. 359 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:33,570 She just doesn't like marriage in general 360 00:14:33,570 --> 00:14:35,300 and I think she's worried that I'm not gonna 361 00:14:35,300 --> 00:14:37,370 have enough support from Lawrence. 362 00:14:37,370 --> 00:14:39,930 But I have to say Lawrence is my best friend 363 00:14:39,930 --> 00:14:42,800 and I couldn't picture not being with him 364 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:45,870 or raising my kids 365 00:14:45,870 --> 00:14:50,070 or just doing anything in this crazy life without him. 366 00:14:50,070 --> 00:14:51,770 And if my mom can't get on board, 367 00:14:51,770 --> 00:14:53,930 I'm really going to flip the [bleep] out 368 00:14:53,930 --> 00:14:55,800 because I'm getting sick of her [bleep] 369 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:58,330 when it comes to marrying the man that I love. 370 00:14:58,330 --> 00:14:59,330 ♪ I know what I want ♪ 371 00:14:59,330 --> 00:15:00,200 ♪ I know what I need ♪ 372 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:01,100 ♪ I know what I feel ♪ 373 00:15:01,100 --> 00:15:03,570 ♪ I know that I am a go-getter ♪ 374 00:15:03,570 --> 00:15:05,770 ♪ Yeah, I'm a go-getter ♪ 375 00:15:05,770 --> 00:15:07,230 [line ringing] 376 00:15:08,070 --> 00:15:09,570 -[Jade] Hello. -Hi, sister, 377 00:15:09,570 --> 00:15:11,130 how are you today? 378 00:15:11,130 --> 00:15:12,230 [Jade speaking] 379 00:15:12,230 --> 00:15:15,270 So listen, Aniyah woke up this morning, she was fine, 380 00:15:15,270 --> 00:15:17,630 then out of nowhere she started saying she don't feel good. 381 00:15:17,630 --> 00:15:19,330 [Aniyah speaking] 382 00:15:19,330 --> 00:15:21,100 Oh, Lord. Well, here you tell her dear. 383 00:15:21,100 --> 00:15:23,370 [bleep] you pluck my nerves. 384 00:15:23,370 --> 00:15:25,870 Me and Day-day were, um, splitting up 385 00:15:25,870 --> 00:15:29,630 our gifts and then I just was feeling very hot 386 00:15:29,630 --> 00:15:31,300 and I just was really tired. 387 00:15:31,300 --> 00:15:33,400 Like I felt like I was about to pass out. 388 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:36,030 It's really worrying me about my baby. 389 00:15:36,030 --> 00:15:38,700 So I just called my Aunt Jade because 390 00:15:38,700 --> 00:15:41,670 I didn't feel like my mom was taking me seriously. 391 00:15:42,970 --> 00:15:45,100 -Hello. -[Jade] Yeah? 392 00:15:45,100 --> 00:15:46,100 I'm sick. 393 00:15:46,930 --> 00:15:48,830 -[Jade] You what? -I'm sick. 394 00:15:48,830 --> 00:15:52,270 Jade is really like the closest in age to me, 395 00:15:52,270 --> 00:15:55,300 so that's why we really talk a lot. 396 00:15:55,300 --> 00:15:58,300 And she has three kids so anything that's going on 397 00:15:58,300 --> 00:16:01,030 with my pregnancy I can call Jade. 398 00:16:01,030 --> 00:16:02,600 [Jade speaking] 399 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:05,200 [Aniyah] My stomach hurts and my head hurt. 400 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:06,770 And it hurt to swallow. 401 00:16:07,370 --> 00:16:10,500 [Jade speaking] 402 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:15,430 No. 403 00:16:16,130 --> 00:16:17,870 [Jade speaking] 404 00:16:18,700 --> 00:16:20,100 Do I need to? 405 00:16:21,170 --> 00:16:22,830 I'm not getting ready to go sit in no hospital 406 00:16:22,830 --> 00:16:23,930 if I don't have to. 407 00:16:23,930 --> 00:16:25,430 [Jade speaking] 408 00:16:29,170 --> 00:16:32,700 [Jade speaking] 409 00:16:32,700 --> 00:16:34,630 Well, my butt always hurts. 410 00:16:35,030 --> 00:16:37,770 [Jade speaking] 411 00:16:38,930 --> 00:16:41,500 [Ashley] Let her try to figure out how does she feel. 412 00:16:41,500 --> 00:16:43,300 No need to run to the hospital. 413 00:16:43,300 --> 00:16:44,770 Every little thing that goes on, 414 00:16:44,770 --> 00:16:46,330 I'm not getting ready to be jumping in. 415 00:16:46,330 --> 00:16:47,830 Oh, my God. Are you going to labor? 416 00:16:47,830 --> 00:16:48,970 She's pregnant. 417 00:16:48,970 --> 00:16:51,870 So what I'm gonna do is give her time to see, 418 00:16:51,870 --> 00:16:53,670 okay, what's going on. 419 00:16:53,670 --> 00:16:56,670 [Aniyah] Since I've already had a preeclampsia scare, 420 00:16:56,670 --> 00:16:59,330 it's really important that I go to the hospital 421 00:16:59,330 --> 00:17:02,370 to make sure that everything is okay. 422 00:17:02,370 --> 00:17:04,800 You know, preeclampsia can lead up to death 423 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:06,869 and I ain't trying to go that far. 424 00:17:07,500 --> 00:17:08,400 [sighs in exasperation] 425 00:17:11,069 --> 00:17:13,400 You might think I'm being dramatic but I'm not. 426 00:17:17,369 --> 00:17:19,430 [Jade speaking] 427 00:17:22,630 --> 00:17:23,569 Okay. 428 00:17:25,569 --> 00:17:28,400 [Aniyah speaking] 429 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:30,430 [Ashley] I told you I was gonna go get my hair done. 430 00:17:30,430 --> 00:17:32,300 That's what I was getting ready to do. 431 00:17:32,300 --> 00:17:35,630 My mom's not really the lovey-dovey type. 432 00:17:35,630 --> 00:17:37,970 Like she doesn't do stuff like that. 433 00:17:37,970 --> 00:17:40,770 Like she will be mad before she will be sad. 434 00:17:40,770 --> 00:17:44,770 So I'm used to my mom being like emotionally distant. 435 00:17:44,770 --> 00:17:47,570 I just think my mom is a little dysfunctional, 436 00:17:47,570 --> 00:17:49,870 but I need someone to take me to the hospital 437 00:17:49,870 --> 00:17:52,170 because I am worried about Aniyas. 438 00:17:53,470 --> 00:17:54,330 Day-day... 439 00:17:55,500 --> 00:17:56,970 [Aniyah speaking] 440 00:17:59,070 --> 00:18:00,370 [Dakwon speaking] 441 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:02,270 [Aniyah] Yeah. 442 00:18:02,270 --> 00:18:03,170 [Dakwon laughs] 443 00:18:03,170 --> 00:18:04,770 Can you not laugh at me? 444 00:18:04,770 --> 00:18:07,630 -Why? -Because I'm sick. 445 00:18:08,330 --> 00:18:09,430 [Dakwon speaking] 446 00:18:09,430 --> 00:18:10,970 [Aniyah] Worst-case scenario, they send me home, 447 00:18:10,970 --> 00:18:14,800 but at least I went and was checked out. 448 00:18:15,300 --> 00:18:16,370 [door creaks] 449 00:18:16,370 --> 00:18:17,330 [Aniyah coughing] 450 00:18:18,370 --> 00:18:19,300 [Aniyah speaking] 451 00:18:23,670 --> 00:18:24,770 Just sit and wait. 452 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:30,800 [Ashley] To see what's going on 453 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,370 'cause it's my only day off. 454 00:18:34,030 --> 00:18:35,600 To provide for my children, 455 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:37,830 I work more than 40 hours a week. 456 00:18:37,830 --> 00:18:39,570 A lot of the times my only day off 457 00:18:39,570 --> 00:18:41,800 is the day we are closed, which is today. 458 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:43,630 And you know, I wasn't sure 459 00:18:43,630 --> 00:18:45,700 if she was going into labor or not. 460 00:18:45,700 --> 00:18:47,230 Is this possible? 461 00:18:47,230 --> 00:18:48,170 I-I don't... I don't... 462 00:18:48,170 --> 00:18:49,230 I'm not a doctor. 463 00:18:52,570 --> 00:18:53,700 [Lilly] Merry Christmas. 464 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:56,430 I'm gonna have to take the leap 465 00:18:56,430 --> 00:18:57,600 to tell everyone about the wedding 466 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:59,870 and I'm not sure how they're gonna take it. 467 00:18:59,870 --> 00:19:03,400 So we do have an announcement. 468 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:04,330 [Glenn] Oh, boy. 469 00:19:04,330 --> 00:19:05,800 I'm gonna [bleep] my pants. 470 00:19:07,730 --> 00:19:09,800 [Kayleigh] Just stick 'em down there for right now. 471 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:11,800 Today is my baby shower. 472 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:12,700 Hey. 473 00:19:13,170 --> 00:19:13,970 [Kayleigh speaking] 474 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:18,000 Just last night, Bekki was just too sick 475 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:20,670 to come to help set up for the baby shower. 476 00:19:20,670 --> 00:19:23,870 And now here we are the day of, bright-eyed 477 00:19:23,870 --> 00:19:26,000 and bushy-tailed ready to hang out with everybody. 478 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,400 What the hell? 479 00:19:30,930 --> 00:19:32,300 [upbeat music playing] 480 00:19:34,270 --> 00:19:35,930 ♪ Light of the night ♪ 481 00:19:38,700 --> 00:19:40,430 [Mandy] Just stick them down there for right now. 482 00:19:41,130 --> 00:19:42,730 [Kayleigh speaking] 483 00:19:43,670 --> 00:19:46,270 Today is my baby shower. 484 00:19:46,270 --> 00:19:48,930 Hey, guys, how are you? 485 00:19:48,930 --> 00:19:50,170 -[woman] How are you? -I'm good. 486 00:19:50,170 --> 00:19:51,230 [woman speaking] 487 00:19:51,230 --> 00:19:53,170 -Yes. -Look cute. 488 00:19:53,170 --> 00:19:54,730 Everybody's starting to show up and there's 489 00:19:54,730 --> 00:19:56,500 still no sign of Bekki and Graham. 490 00:19:56,500 --> 00:19:58,070 But honestly, I'm not surprised 491 00:19:58,070 --> 00:20:00,230 that Graham and Bekki aren't here yet because 492 00:20:00,230 --> 00:20:04,370 every time I have something come up, he's either sick 493 00:20:04,370 --> 00:20:07,470 or his mom's sick and he doesn't have a ride. 494 00:20:07,470 --> 00:20:08,900 It's just crazy. 495 00:20:09,970 --> 00:20:11,330 I agree. 496 00:20:11,330 --> 00:20:13,800 I'm not surprised, but at the same time, 497 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:17,430 I would still be disappointed if neither of them showed up. 498 00:20:17,430 --> 00:20:19,430 You guys can feel free to go ahead and eat 499 00:20:19,430 --> 00:20:21,170 if y'all want to eat anything. 500 00:20:21,170 --> 00:20:22,830 [woman] What are these? 501 00:20:22,830 --> 00:20:24,730 [Mandy] That's wheat, and then, Ritz, 502 00:20:24,730 --> 00:20:25,700 and then, the box, 503 00:20:25,700 --> 00:20:28,070 I can get some more of those crouton things. 504 00:20:31,170 --> 00:20:32,070 Hey. 505 00:20:32,700 --> 00:20:33,500 [Kayleigh speaking] 506 00:20:34,770 --> 00:20:36,870 [Mandy] Oh, look, there she is. 507 00:20:39,630 --> 00:20:40,800 [Kayleigh] Hey. 508 00:20:49,670 --> 00:20:52,000 [Kayleigh] I've known Bekki for three years now 509 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,500 and this is the most friendly she's ever been. 510 00:20:54,500 --> 00:20:57,230 When I'm at Graham's house, she's usually all in her room, 511 00:20:57,230 --> 00:20:59,830 but now she is over here acting can like we're besties 512 00:20:59,830 --> 00:21:01,600 whenever she didn't even show up to help. 513 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,430 It's kinda weirding me out. 514 00:21:04,570 --> 00:21:06,570 It looks good though. Everything looks good. 515 00:21:07,130 --> 00:21:08,570 Really good. 516 00:21:08,570 --> 00:21:10,300 [Kayleigh] It better. 517 00:21:10,300 --> 00:21:12,800 Just last night Bekki was just too sick 518 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,700 to come to help set up for the baby shower. 519 00:21:15,700 --> 00:21:17,800 And now here we are, the day of, 520 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:19,570 bright-eyed and bushy-tailed ready 521 00:21:19,570 --> 00:21:21,200 to hang out with everybody 522 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,600 and what the hell? 523 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,330 [Chloe] I'm kind of surprised 524 00:21:25,330 --> 00:21:26,930 that Bekki showed up for real. 525 00:21:26,930 --> 00:21:28,470 -Who's Bekki? -You know who Bekki is, right? 526 00:21:28,470 --> 00:21:29,800 -No. -Graham's mama. 527 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:30,830 Oh. 528 00:21:30,830 --> 00:21:32,230 Mmm-hmm. 529 00:21:32,230 --> 00:21:33,600 She hasn't really been like... 530 00:21:34,830 --> 00:21:35,700 here. 531 00:21:36,300 --> 00:21:37,430 Oh, well. 532 00:21:37,430 --> 00:21:39,370 I felt really guilty, 533 00:21:39,370 --> 00:21:41,670 um, because I didn't get to help 534 00:21:41,670 --> 00:21:43,730 with the baby shower 'cause I really 535 00:21:43,730 --> 00:21:46,270 was looking forward to it and I wanted to help 536 00:21:46,270 --> 00:21:47,270 but... 537 00:21:48,870 --> 00:21:51,600 And being bipolar, you have good days 538 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:53,070 and you have bad days. 539 00:21:53,070 --> 00:21:56,630 The past two weeks was pretty bad 540 00:21:56,630 --> 00:21:58,330 and I was in the bed a lot. 541 00:21:58,330 --> 00:22:01,500 I'm still down, but I am pushing myself 542 00:22:01,500 --> 00:22:03,870 because Kayleigh, Easton, and all of them 543 00:22:03,870 --> 00:22:04,700 want me to be there. 544 00:22:04,700 --> 00:22:06,270 So I'm pushing today. 545 00:22:07,430 --> 00:22:09,200 So this is my mom. 546 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,270 You remember her from the gender reveal? 547 00:22:11,270 --> 00:22:12,300 -[Patty] Hi. -[Bekki] I remember you. 548 00:22:12,300 --> 00:22:13,430 And this is Bekki, 549 00:22:13,430 --> 00:22:15,700 Graham's mom. 550 00:22:15,700 --> 00:22:17,630 [Graham] It's hard having a parent with bipolar, 551 00:22:17,630 --> 00:22:19,600 because sometimes when she's down, 552 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:20,700 my mom... 553 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:24,930 Since she was sick, she just kept getting 554 00:22:24,930 --> 00:22:26,970 anxiety and stressing out. 555 00:22:26,970 --> 00:22:30,370 But just some things that people don't understand. 556 00:22:34,870 --> 00:22:37,730 We're so not prepared, like the games and stuff. 557 00:22:38,630 --> 00:22:40,170 We're not prepared there. 558 00:22:40,170 --> 00:22:41,700 Um, she wanted to do 559 00:22:41,700 --> 00:22:44,470 the "Guess how big the baby bump is." 560 00:22:44,470 --> 00:22:45,470 Mmm-hmm. 561 00:22:45,470 --> 00:22:46,670 I guess we just have to go around 562 00:22:46,670 --> 00:22:48,100 and ask everybody what they guess. 563 00:22:48,100 --> 00:22:51,630 I mean, do you want to help us out with that? 564 00:22:52,630 --> 00:22:53,900 Well, I'm not good with numbers, 565 00:22:53,900 --> 00:22:55,600 so I wouldn't even be able to guess 566 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,730 what inches she is, anyway. 567 00:22:59,370 --> 00:23:00,230 [Mandy] Okay. 568 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,400 I'm trying to give Bekki an opportunity 569 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:10,500 to help and then she just walked off. [laughs] 570 00:23:10,500 --> 00:23:13,200 I shouldn't be surprised, but I still can't believe it. 571 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:14,700 From what I'm seeing of Bekki, 572 00:23:14,700 --> 00:23:16,330 it just doesn't seem like she wants 573 00:23:16,330 --> 00:23:18,000 to participate at all. 574 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:19,670 [Kayleigh]Graham doesn't either, so I guess it's just 575 00:23:19,670 --> 00:23:21,770 another thing that I'm gonna have to do by myself. 576 00:23:22,970 --> 00:23:25,330 Hey, you guys, come measure my stomach. 577 00:23:25,330 --> 00:23:27,030 Think what your measurement is. 578 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,270 Give a guess. 579 00:23:30,100 --> 00:23:32,200 That's how big I think she is. 580 00:23:33,100 --> 00:23:34,230 Okay. 581 00:23:34,230 --> 00:23:36,000 Everybody see if theirs is close. 582 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,170 [Mandy] Everybody bring your tape up. 583 00:23:38,730 --> 00:23:39,970 [woman] Dang it. 584 00:23:39,970 --> 00:23:41,730 -A little big. -A little long. 585 00:23:41,730 --> 00:23:43,270 [laughs] 586 00:23:43,270 --> 00:23:45,170 [man] Yeah. Mine was... Mine was way too long. 587 00:23:46,130 --> 00:23:47,330 Here it is. 588 00:23:47,930 --> 00:23:49,470 [Bekki] Oh, my gosh. 589 00:23:49,470 --> 00:23:51,830 It's right on it. 590 00:23:51,830 --> 00:23:53,570 It's right on it. 591 00:23:55,070 --> 00:23:58,030 The right same exact size. 592 00:23:58,030 --> 00:23:59,170 I was excited to hear 593 00:23:59,170 --> 00:24:01,030 when I won the belly bump game. 594 00:24:01,030 --> 00:24:03,200 We need somebody to take a picture. 595 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,300 Being a part of the baby shower has made me 596 00:24:05,300 --> 00:24:08,870 very excited to meet Easton. 597 00:24:08,870 --> 00:24:10,830 I hope to be involved in his life a lot. 598 00:24:10,830 --> 00:24:13,230 I want to have him at my house 599 00:24:13,230 --> 00:24:16,200 if Kayleigh's there or if she's not there. 600 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:17,770 But I want him to know me. 601 00:24:17,770 --> 00:24:19,100 You know, like when I walk in the door, 602 00:24:19,100 --> 00:24:22,170 know me, know who I am, come to me. 603 00:24:22,170 --> 00:24:25,800 I don't want him to not know who I am. 604 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,870 Do you need to do a picture with mom-to-be and dad-to-be? 605 00:24:27,870 --> 00:24:30,370 -What does that say? -Poppin' bottles. 606 00:24:30,370 --> 00:24:32,970 -[Kayleigh laughs] -You are silly. 607 00:24:32,970 --> 00:24:35,830 [Graham] I think Kayleigh will be with him 24/7. 608 00:24:35,830 --> 00:24:38,970 And that does kinda worry me because if Easton stays 609 00:24:38,970 --> 00:24:40,700 at Kayleigh's house, 610 00:24:40,700 --> 00:24:42,670 it'd be kind of difficult for him to know 611 00:24:42,670 --> 00:24:44,070 who his granny is. 612 00:24:45,830 --> 00:24:48,100 Okay. I'm gonna go home. 613 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,870 Had a good time. 614 00:24:50,870 --> 00:24:52,170 I will see you. 615 00:24:52,170 --> 00:24:53,300 Okay. 616 00:24:54,370 --> 00:24:55,330 Bye. 617 00:24:55,330 --> 00:24:56,530 [Kayleigh] Bye. 618 00:24:57,170 --> 00:24:59,600 [dramatic music playing] 619 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,370 -[Graham] Okay. I love you. -[Kayleigh] Love you. 620 00:25:02,070 --> 00:25:03,370 Love you, Easton. 621 00:25:05,370 --> 00:25:07,670 Bekki and Graham didn't even help set up 622 00:25:07,670 --> 00:25:09,770 for the baby shower and now they're leaving. 623 00:25:09,770 --> 00:25:11,530 This baby is 50% his 624 00:25:11,530 --> 00:25:13,700 and so this day is 50% his, 625 00:25:13,700 --> 00:25:15,900 so it should be a given that you should be there 626 00:25:15,900 --> 00:25:17,330 to help clean up. 627 00:25:19,670 --> 00:25:20,470 That's the end. 628 00:25:22,870 --> 00:25:24,070 [Mandy speaking] 629 00:25:24,070 --> 00:25:25,170 [Kayleigh] No, she left. 630 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:26,530 She was leaving. 631 00:25:26,530 --> 00:25:27,470 [Mandy] Did she say 632 00:25:27,470 --> 00:25:28,500 see you later? 633 00:25:28,500 --> 00:25:30,170 Yes, she's told me bye. 634 00:25:30,930 --> 00:25:32,570 Oh, okay. 635 00:25:32,570 --> 00:25:36,200 Like, wow, you're here for a second 636 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:37,670 and that was it. 637 00:25:37,670 --> 00:25:40,600 I really was hopeful that, you know, 638 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,430 we would work at this together. 639 00:25:43,370 --> 00:25:44,770 You know, we could rely on each other 640 00:25:44,770 --> 00:25:48,230 on making sure that the kids see each other 641 00:25:48,230 --> 00:25:50,570 at least for the big important dates. 642 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,800 If it continues going the way that it's going now, 643 00:25:55,900 --> 00:25:58,030 which I pray it doesn't, I just... 644 00:25:58,970 --> 00:26:01,930 um, I worry that Kayleigh's gonna be 645 00:26:01,930 --> 00:26:04,470 basically doing this on her own. 646 00:26:05,900 --> 00:26:09,400 ♪ It's Christmas time ♪ 647 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,470 ♪ It's Christmas time ♪ 648 00:26:13,470 --> 00:26:15,070 [Kim] Hello. 649 00:26:16,430 --> 00:26:18,400 -Hello. -Hi. 650 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:19,870 -[Kim] Merry Christmas. -Merry Christmas. 651 00:26:19,870 --> 00:26:21,100 I love your ears. 652 00:26:21,100 --> 00:26:22,500 How are my babies? 653 00:26:22,500 --> 00:26:24,130 Good. 654 00:26:24,130 --> 00:26:25,770 I am on edge. I'm functioning 655 00:26:25,770 --> 00:26:27,370 on almost no sleep 656 00:26:27,370 --> 00:26:30,030 and I'm freaking out because the house is trash 657 00:26:30,030 --> 00:26:31,830 from the Christmas morning chaos. 658 00:26:31,830 --> 00:26:34,100 And guess what Lawrence is doing to help? 659 00:26:34,930 --> 00:26:36,600 Nothing. 660 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,770 But I just do it and survive 661 00:26:38,770 --> 00:26:40,600 off tons of coffee, 662 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,530 because with all the pressure mounting today 663 00:26:42,530 --> 00:26:45,070 and my dad coming over, I need everything in order 664 00:26:45,070 --> 00:26:47,470 or I'm really going to lose it. 665 00:26:47,470 --> 00:26:48,970 Look at all the toys everywhere. 666 00:26:48,970 --> 00:26:50,230 Oh, my goodness. 667 00:26:50,230 --> 00:26:51,430 Whoa. 668 00:26:52,470 --> 00:26:54,370 That's not too bad. 669 00:26:55,170 --> 00:26:56,900 [Lilly speaking] 670 00:26:56,900 --> 00:26:58,130 [Kim] Oh, gosh. 671 00:26:58,470 --> 00:27:00,430 Hey. 672 00:27:00,430 --> 00:27:02,700 -[Aaliyah] Grandma. -[Kim] Merry Christmas. 673 00:27:02,700 --> 00:27:04,630 I have a lot of, lot of, 674 00:27:04,630 --> 00:27:07,070 lot of, lot of, lot of toys. 675 00:27:07,070 --> 00:27:08,570 [Kim] No way. 676 00:27:09,530 --> 00:27:10,870 Hello in there. 677 00:27:11,900 --> 00:27:13,000 Merry Christmas. 678 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,170 [Kim] Everything all ready? 679 00:27:14,170 --> 00:27:15,900 [Lilly] Not everything. 680 00:27:15,900 --> 00:27:17,770 [Kim] Oh, I love the way you have the table here... 681 00:27:17,770 --> 00:27:18,730 [Lilly] Oh, thank you. 682 00:27:18,730 --> 00:27:19,930 [Kim] instead of the other way 683 00:27:19,930 --> 00:27:21,130 I did it last year. 684 00:27:21,130 --> 00:27:23,130 [Lilly] It was too awkward, you know? 685 00:27:23,130 --> 00:27:26,270 Usually, I hosted Christmas 686 00:27:26,270 --> 00:27:28,800 and this year I'm passing the torch. 687 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,900 It's definitely weird to be hosting Christmas 688 00:27:30,900 --> 00:27:32,270 in the house I grew up in, 689 00:27:32,270 --> 00:27:34,900 kind of, like, stepping into my mom's shoes. 690 00:27:34,900 --> 00:27:38,030 But it's exciting and it's fun 691 00:27:38,030 --> 00:27:40,200 and it just feels like real, 692 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,200 real adult stuff. 693 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,000 -Merry Christmas. -Merry Christmas. 694 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:46,730 -I love you. -I love you, too. 695 00:27:46,730 --> 00:27:48,030 Merry Christmas, sweetie. 696 00:27:48,030 --> 00:27:49,100 I love you guys' ears. 697 00:27:49,100 --> 00:27:50,570 -It looks so cute. -Thank you. 698 00:27:50,570 --> 00:27:52,630 -Here, put this by the tree. -Yeah, your mother. 699 00:27:54,500 --> 00:27:56,100 Oh, the gang's here. 700 00:27:56,670 --> 00:27:57,700 All right. 701 00:27:58,900 --> 00:28:00,500 [Lilly] Hey, Grandpa. 702 00:28:00,500 --> 00:28:01,700 [Brett] Hello. 703 00:28:03,470 --> 00:28:07,130 Last time I spent Christmas with my dad? 704 00:28:11,100 --> 00:28:12,970 I honestly couldn't tell you. 705 00:28:12,970 --> 00:28:15,300 [dramatic music playing] 706 00:28:15,300 --> 00:28:17,900 Yeah, Brett, um, has kind of not really been 707 00:28:17,900 --> 00:28:20,330 in the kids' lives since they were young. 708 00:28:20,330 --> 00:28:23,400 I think Lilly was probably like around seven 709 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,730 when he kinda left the picture. 710 00:28:26,730 --> 00:28:28,070 [Lilly] Yeah. 711 00:28:28,070 --> 00:28:30,970 My dad struggled a lot with, like, alcohol 712 00:28:30,970 --> 00:28:32,630 and drug addiction and that's why 713 00:28:32,630 --> 00:28:35,470 our relationship was so spotty. 714 00:28:35,470 --> 00:28:39,470 Um, last winter, he moved back from Florida 715 00:28:39,470 --> 00:28:42,270 and I hadn't seen him in like six years. 716 00:28:42,270 --> 00:28:43,970 So I had brought the kids to the apartment 717 00:28:43,970 --> 00:28:46,330 to meet their grandpa for the first time. 718 00:28:46,330 --> 00:28:49,500 He was like piss drunk. 719 00:28:49,500 --> 00:28:53,070 He hit like the hardest of the rock bottoms. 720 00:28:53,070 --> 00:28:54,230 Yeah. 721 00:28:54,230 --> 00:28:56,000 [Lilly] It was kind of traumatizing. 722 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,400 And then my dad finally actually, 723 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,400 like, went into like a rehab. 724 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,830 So that was amazing. 725 00:29:02,830 --> 00:29:04,730 Um, and he's been doing really well. 726 00:29:04,730 --> 00:29:06,230 But that was the thing about my dad, 727 00:29:06,230 --> 00:29:09,700 he would get clean and then fall off the wagon. 728 00:29:09,700 --> 00:29:11,930 I'm hoping that he's committed 729 00:29:11,930 --> 00:29:14,500 to being clean this time. 730 00:29:19,230 --> 00:29:20,430 -[Brett] Grandma, how are you? -Hey, how are? 731 00:29:20,430 --> 00:29:21,770 [both] Merry Christmas. 732 00:29:21,770 --> 00:29:24,130 -[Brett] You look nice. -Thank you. So do you. 733 00:29:24,130 --> 00:29:25,300 You say hi to Pop-Pop? 734 00:29:25,300 --> 00:29:26,530 -Hello. -[Aaliyah babbling] 735 00:29:26,530 --> 00:29:27,870 -[Brett] Hey, Grandpa. -[Glenn] Merry Christmas, Grandpa. 736 00:29:27,870 --> 00:29:28,900 -How are you? Merry Christmas. -All right. 737 00:29:28,900 --> 00:29:29,830 [Aaliyah] Can you look at my phone? 738 00:29:29,830 --> 00:29:31,330 I was fixing it for you, but you know what? 739 00:29:31,330 --> 00:29:32,400 -How is it going? -Take it. 740 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,870 [Lilly] You don't want your phone. 741 00:29:40,100 --> 00:29:41,730 -It's going, Pop. -It's going, huh? 742 00:29:41,730 --> 00:29:43,970 It's going. Yeah. [laughs] 743 00:29:43,970 --> 00:29:45,170 Me, if I don't know you, 744 00:29:45,170 --> 00:29:47,100 I'm always hesitant about you. 745 00:29:47,100 --> 00:29:48,800 I do feel 746 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,830 it's kind of strangely awkward 747 00:29:51,830 --> 00:29:53,870 to have Lilly's dad 748 00:29:53,870 --> 00:29:56,070 and Glenn together at the same time. 749 00:29:56,070 --> 00:29:58,300 I also feel that's a level of maturity I don't think 750 00:29:58,300 --> 00:30:01,430 I'll ever reach when it comes to me. 751 00:30:01,430 --> 00:30:03,700 I'm not sharing holidays, I'm not sharing parties, 752 00:30:03,700 --> 00:30:06,230 birthday parties with Aaliyah's dad. 753 00:30:06,230 --> 00:30:08,130 That ain't for me. 754 00:30:08,130 --> 00:30:11,770 But, um, I never had my dad past the age of six. 755 00:30:11,770 --> 00:30:13,570 So I'm honestly really happy 756 00:30:13,570 --> 00:30:16,100 that Lilly is able to have her father in her life 757 00:30:16,100 --> 00:30:17,770 and it's very important to her. 758 00:30:17,770 --> 00:30:19,430 She definitely deserves that. 759 00:30:19,430 --> 00:30:21,300 I just hope he doesn't let her down again. 760 00:30:21,300 --> 00:30:22,400 Lilly has enough going on 761 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:23,970 with the wedding three months away. 762 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:26,800 -[Lilly] Hi, Sandy. -[Sandy] Hi. 763 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:27,930 [Kim] Hello, Grandma Sandy. 764 00:30:27,930 --> 00:30:29,200 [Sandy] Hi. 765 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,000 -[Glenn] Hey, Sandy. -[Sandy] Hi. 766 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,430 -[laughs] -[Aaliyah] Grandma Sandy, 767 00:30:32,430 --> 00:30:33,500 I got a phone. 768 00:30:33,500 --> 00:30:34,870 I know, I seen it. 769 00:30:34,870 --> 00:30:37,030 -Merry Christmas. -Merry Christmas. 770 00:30:38,500 --> 00:30:41,400 [Sandy] Oh, Grandma Sandy, come here, baby. 771 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:42,800 -Hi, Sandy. Merry Christmas. -Hi, honey. 772 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:43,930 -How are you? -Same to you. 773 00:30:43,930 --> 00:30:44,930 Oh, sorry, son. 774 00:30:44,930 --> 00:30:46,500 Now that everybody is here 775 00:30:46,500 --> 00:30:48,270 and it's already awkward as [bleep]. 776 00:30:48,270 --> 00:30:49,600 I'm going to have to take the leap 777 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,130 to tell everyone about the wedding 778 00:30:51,130 --> 00:30:53,200 and I'm not sure how they're gonna take it. 779 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,930 -Christmas is so messy. -The outfit is so cute. 780 00:30:55,930 --> 00:30:58,300 -The outfit is so cute. -[Kim] Yeah? 781 00:30:58,300 --> 00:31:00,200 -[Glenn] Oh, yeah. I see it. -[Kim] Oh, my. 782 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,170 I feel like I'm gonna [bleep] my pants. 783 00:31:03,170 --> 00:31:04,930 Um... 784 00:31:04,930 --> 00:31:07,200 I haven't been this nervous since I told everyone 785 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,170 that I was pregnant with LJ. 786 00:31:09,570 --> 00:31:11,300 So we do have, 787 00:31:11,300 --> 00:31:15,870 um, an announcement for everyone. 788 00:31:16,300 --> 00:31:17,200 [Glenn] Oh, boy. 789 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:18,330 Good thing I'm sitting down. 790 00:31:18,330 --> 00:31:19,700 [Sandy] Oh. 791 00:31:19,700 --> 00:31:21,900 I've heard the scary kind of leading up 792 00:31:21,900 --> 00:31:23,930 to those words before 793 00:31:23,930 --> 00:31:26,070 and I'm terrified. 794 00:31:28,130 --> 00:31:29,430 [Aniyah] Ow. Ow. 795 00:31:29,430 --> 00:31:31,070 I got you. I got you. 796 00:31:31,070 --> 00:31:33,600 [Aniyah] I couldn't remember if I had felt my baby moving 797 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,470 throughout the day, so I'm worried. 798 00:31:36,470 --> 00:31:39,630 Are you sure you're ready to do it? 799 00:31:39,630 --> 00:31:41,670 [Sandy] I think Kim should stay out of it. 800 00:31:41,670 --> 00:31:44,730 Just 'cause if hers didn't make it work the right way, 801 00:31:44,730 --> 00:31:46,530 that don't have nothing to do with theirs. 802 00:31:46,530 --> 00:31:48,670 I don't mean to be a down or a negative Nelly, 803 00:31:48,670 --> 00:31:50,970 but it's a huge mistake. 804 00:31:50,970 --> 00:31:54,030 [tense music playing] 805 00:31:55,570 --> 00:31:57,570 [Christmas music playing] 806 00:32:04,130 --> 00:32:07,100 So we do have, um, 807 00:32:07,770 --> 00:32:11,170 an announcement for everyone. 808 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:15,130 Oh, boy. Good thing I'm sitting down. 809 00:32:15,130 --> 00:32:16,530 [Sandy] Oh. 810 00:32:16,530 --> 00:32:18,870 I've heard the scary kind of leading up 811 00:32:18,870 --> 00:32:20,830 to those words before 812 00:32:20,830 --> 00:32:24,100 and I'm terrified 813 00:32:24,100 --> 00:32:26,330 to hear what Lilly's about to say. 814 00:32:27,030 --> 00:32:30,770 So, um, we picked a wedding date. 815 00:32:31,930 --> 00:32:33,630 I thought you was going to say you was pregnant. 816 00:32:33,630 --> 00:32:35,670 [Lilly] Hell no. Not me. 817 00:32:35,670 --> 00:32:37,270 I don't know why you thought Lilly 818 00:32:37,270 --> 00:32:38,600 -was going to be pregnant again. -[Sandy] Child... 819 00:32:44,830 --> 00:32:46,230 They can have all the babies they want. 820 00:32:46,230 --> 00:32:47,570 I'm just the grandmother. 821 00:32:47,570 --> 00:32:50,930 [laughs] And as far as the wedding concerned, 822 00:32:50,930 --> 00:32:52,270 I'm so excited. 823 00:32:53,370 --> 00:32:54,700 [laughs] 824 00:32:55,870 --> 00:32:59,970 So, um, the wedding is in three months. 825 00:32:59,970 --> 00:33:01,170 -What? -[Aaliyah] Oh, boy. 826 00:33:03,270 --> 00:33:04,470 -[Kim] Three months? -[Lilly] Yeah. 827 00:33:04,470 --> 00:33:05,570 -[Glenn] Three months? -[Lilly] Three months from now. 828 00:33:05,570 --> 00:33:06,700 [Glenn] Oh, my God. 829 00:33:06,700 --> 00:33:08,070 -[Kim] Yup. -[Glenn] That's soon. 830 00:33:08,070 --> 00:33:09,370 Wow. 831 00:33:09,370 --> 00:33:12,230 We got that much time to plan. 832 00:33:12,230 --> 00:33:13,570 Sounds stressful. 833 00:33:13,570 --> 00:33:16,330 Are you sure you want to get married right now? 834 00:33:16,330 --> 00:33:18,070 Mmm-hmm. Yeah. I'm excited. 835 00:33:18,070 --> 00:33:19,370 [Kim] That's crazy. 836 00:33:19,370 --> 00:33:22,070 I do think three months is a little rushed, 837 00:33:22,070 --> 00:33:25,400 but the venue has limited availability 838 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:26,770 for the rest of this year 839 00:33:26,770 --> 00:33:28,500 and I don't want to wait 840 00:33:28,500 --> 00:33:30,230 another year to get married 841 00:33:30,230 --> 00:33:32,900 so I figured I could just go with the flow. 842 00:33:32,900 --> 00:33:36,000 It's a huge mistake to rush a wedding. 843 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,530 I'm not for marriage in the first place, 844 00:33:38,530 --> 00:33:42,670 but rushing it is going to be stressful for everybody. 845 00:33:43,570 --> 00:33:45,470 Do you realize I've been trying for 15 years 846 00:33:45,470 --> 00:33:46,570 to marry your mother? 847 00:33:47,270 --> 00:33:48,900 I finally gave up. 848 00:33:48,900 --> 00:33:50,870 Well, we're still married... 849 00:33:50,870 --> 00:33:52,600 -[Glenn] Well... -...technically. 850 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,830 All I keep hearing it's just a piece of paper. 851 00:33:54,830 --> 00:33:56,730 Yeah. An expensive piece of paper. 852 00:33:56,730 --> 00:33:57,970 -Yeah. -[Glenn] It is expensive. 853 00:33:57,970 --> 00:33:59,130 Very expensive piece of paper. 854 00:33:59,130 --> 00:34:00,500 [Kim] It's expensive to get married 855 00:34:00,500 --> 00:34:01,600 and divorced as we know... 856 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:02,730 -[Brett] Exactly. -...so... 857 00:34:02,730 --> 00:34:04,930 You know what they say, it's cheaper to keep her. 858 00:34:04,930 --> 00:34:06,730 [laughs] 859 00:34:06,730 --> 00:34:09,100 My marriage situation 860 00:34:09,100 --> 00:34:11,429 is definitely complicated. 861 00:34:11,429 --> 00:34:13,730 I'm still technically married 862 00:34:13,730 --> 00:34:15,429 to Lilly's dad, 863 00:34:15,429 --> 00:34:20,230 um, because it's very expensive to get divorced. 864 00:34:20,230 --> 00:34:21,400 -Right. -We figured... 865 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:22,929 -Mmm-hmm. -...you know, what was the rush 866 00:34:22,929 --> 00:34:24,670 if we weren't gonna get married again 867 00:34:24,670 --> 00:34:26,300 anytime soon and life went on. 868 00:34:26,300 --> 00:34:27,770 Yeah. 869 00:34:27,770 --> 00:34:29,900 [Kim] Um, but I think 870 00:34:29,900 --> 00:34:32,199 my reluctance to, like, accept 871 00:34:32,199 --> 00:34:34,429 all of this and Lilly getting married so early 872 00:34:34,429 --> 00:34:38,170 is because of, you know, how early I got married. 873 00:34:38,170 --> 00:34:40,199 I was only 19, 874 00:34:40,199 --> 00:34:41,870 but we were together at 14 875 00:34:41,870 --> 00:34:44,630 and we had our first daughter at 16. 876 00:34:44,630 --> 00:34:48,030 I thought we'd be together forever, but we were young. 877 00:34:48,030 --> 00:34:49,969 We were kids. 878 00:34:49,969 --> 00:34:51,830 It was tough. It was tough. I was very young. 879 00:34:51,830 --> 00:34:54,670 I knew nothing about parenting. 880 00:34:54,670 --> 00:34:58,270 I knew nothing about being a good husband or father. 881 00:34:58,270 --> 00:34:59,570 -Mmm-hmm. -[Brett] You and I had 882 00:34:59,570 --> 00:35:00,730 to grow up overnight. 883 00:35:00,730 --> 00:35:02,170 -We did. -[Brett] Literally. 884 00:35:02,170 --> 00:35:03,670 And from watching this young lady 885 00:35:03,670 --> 00:35:05,270 do the very same thing, 886 00:35:05,830 --> 00:35:08,270 um, it's tough. 887 00:35:09,270 --> 00:35:11,000 Mmm-hmm. You know, they just had a baby 888 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,370 really not long ago 889 00:35:12,370 --> 00:35:15,170 and they're just starting out in life together 890 00:35:15,170 --> 00:35:16,630 and I just don't want them 891 00:35:16,630 --> 00:35:20,400 to make the same mistakes as her dad and I. 892 00:35:21,030 --> 00:35:22,930 [Brett] Yeah. 893 00:35:22,930 --> 00:35:24,370 -[Kim] Are you hungry? -[Glenn] I'm starving. 894 00:35:24,370 --> 00:35:25,600 -[Brett] Very hungry. -[Kim] All right. 895 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:26,900 [Lilly] I'll start lunch. 896 00:35:30,270 --> 00:35:32,530 Okay. Let's start cleaning this up. 897 00:35:36,430 --> 00:35:39,900 So you're sure you're ready to do it? 898 00:35:39,900 --> 00:35:41,170 -Yeah. I don't know. -It's a big day. 899 00:35:41,170 --> 00:35:43,130 You're not nervous, you're happy about it? 900 00:35:43,130 --> 00:35:45,400 I mean, why not? 901 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:46,630 [Kim] Right. 902 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,200 -You know. -[Kim] Right. 903 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:50,830 Well... 904 00:35:50,830 --> 00:35:52,400 like I said, you just wanna make sure 905 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:53,770 you're really sure 906 00:35:53,770 --> 00:35:56,830 because it's so expensive to back out of, you know? 907 00:35:56,830 --> 00:35:58,200 No, I know. 908 00:36:00,170 --> 00:36:02,370 I just feel like usually when someone announces 909 00:36:02,370 --> 00:36:03,670 that they're getting married, 910 00:36:03,670 --> 00:36:05,230 not everyone doesn't come up to them like, 911 00:36:05,230 --> 00:36:06,830 "Oh, are you sure you wanna get married?" 912 00:36:06,830 --> 00:36:09,170 Like I feel like it's kind of like, what the [bleep]. 913 00:36:10,830 --> 00:36:12,370 [Sandy speaking] 914 00:36:12,370 --> 00:36:13,800 'Cause they've been living together 915 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:17,100 since Lawrence left my house at 19 916 00:36:17,100 --> 00:36:19,300 and he been helping with her daughter 917 00:36:19,300 --> 00:36:21,900 and he's raising their son together, 918 00:36:21,900 --> 00:36:23,570 so they might as well get married 919 00:36:23,570 --> 00:36:24,730 just 'cause if hers 920 00:36:24,730 --> 00:36:26,530 didn't make it work the right way, 921 00:36:26,530 --> 00:36:28,730 that don't have nothing to do with theirs. 922 00:36:28,730 --> 00:36:30,070 Everybody is different. 923 00:36:31,870 --> 00:36:34,170 I don't mean to be a downer or a negative Nelly, 924 00:36:34,170 --> 00:36:36,170 but I just, you know, with your dad, 925 00:36:36,170 --> 00:36:37,870 we're not even divorced yet. I'm just... 926 00:36:37,870 --> 00:36:40,000 I know, but I'm not you and Lawrence... 927 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:41,430 -[Kim] I know. -...isn't Dad. 928 00:36:41,430 --> 00:36:43,330 [Kim] But you had a baby young like me. 929 00:36:43,330 --> 00:36:44,530 -Yeah. -[Kim] And, you know, 930 00:36:44,530 --> 00:36:45,930 so many things are strangely similar. 931 00:36:45,930 --> 00:36:47,930 But I feel my cards have already played out 932 00:36:47,930 --> 00:36:49,770 differently than yours by now. 933 00:36:50,970 --> 00:36:52,030 Okay. 934 00:36:53,470 --> 00:36:54,630 All right. 935 00:36:54,630 --> 00:36:58,270 I wish my mom was a little bit more, 936 00:36:58,270 --> 00:37:00,000 I don't know, happier or excited 937 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:01,670 for me to get married. 938 00:37:01,670 --> 00:37:03,600 Me and Lawrence have been together for almost 939 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,900 four years now. We have a... 940 00:37:05,900 --> 00:37:09,030 This whole beautiful life that we've built together. 941 00:37:09,030 --> 00:37:11,570 I may be young, but I'm not the same 942 00:37:11,570 --> 00:37:14,170 young, you know, 16-year-old 943 00:37:14,170 --> 00:37:16,300 naive person I used to be. 944 00:37:16,300 --> 00:37:17,900 And her not accepting my choice 945 00:37:17,900 --> 00:37:19,070 is not only hurtful, 946 00:37:19,070 --> 00:37:21,100 but it's also making me wonder 947 00:37:21,100 --> 00:37:22,830 if I'm not seeing what she's seeing 948 00:37:22,830 --> 00:37:24,370 and that's scary. 949 00:37:25,900 --> 00:37:27,270 [Aniyah] The nurse took my blood pressure 950 00:37:27,270 --> 00:37:29,800 and my blood pressure was through the roof. 951 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,630 [nurse speaking] 952 00:37:35,830 --> 00:37:36,830 We're gonna have a baby... 953 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,300 [upbeat music playing] 954 00:37:49,970 --> 00:37:51,430 [Dakwon speaking] 955 00:37:51,430 --> 00:37:53,670 [Aniyah speaking] 956 00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:04,100 All right. 957 00:38:04,100 --> 00:38:05,300 [Aniyah] Day-day took me to the hospital 958 00:38:05,300 --> 00:38:06,930 because my mom didn't know 959 00:38:06,930 --> 00:38:09,500 what was wrong like if I was going into labor or not 960 00:38:09,500 --> 00:38:10,700 and she didn't wanna drive 961 00:38:10,700 --> 00:38:12,970 all the way to hospital for no reason. 962 00:38:16,300 --> 00:38:18,070 But I wasn't feeling good at all. 963 00:38:18,070 --> 00:38:19,300 I didn't know if it was something wrong 964 00:38:19,300 --> 00:38:21,530 with me, something wrong with the baby. 965 00:38:21,530 --> 00:38:24,330 And I couldn't remember if I had felt my baby moving 966 00:38:24,330 --> 00:38:25,670 throughout the day 967 00:38:25,670 --> 00:38:28,700 and it was like going on 3:00 now. 968 00:38:28,700 --> 00:38:30,170 So I'm just really worried. 969 00:38:30,170 --> 00:38:32,000 So I just started crying. 970 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:33,130 And I didn't know you was thinking that, so like-- 971 00:38:33,130 --> 00:38:34,830 Everything was all over the place. 972 00:38:34,830 --> 00:38:35,830 I didn't know that... 973 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,600 [chuckles] You really think I'm that dramatic? 974 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,230 -Yes, you are. -No. 975 00:38:47,370 --> 00:38:48,400 Ow. 976 00:38:50,130 --> 00:38:51,400 Ow. 977 00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:54,770 Ow. Ow. 978 00:38:54,770 --> 00:38:55,930 Day-day tried 979 00:38:55,930 --> 00:38:57,800 carrying me into the hospital, 980 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,200 but that just made it like 1,000 times worse. 981 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,000 So that... At that point I was crying 982 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:05,100 because I started feeling pain in my stomach. 983 00:39:13,630 --> 00:39:15,070 When I got to the hospital, 984 00:39:15,070 --> 00:39:16,470 they put me in a wheelchair 985 00:39:16,470 --> 00:39:19,130 and rushed me up to the triage room 986 00:39:19,130 --> 00:39:21,870 and then the nurse gave me a COVID test 987 00:39:21,870 --> 00:39:23,570 and also took my blood pressure 988 00:39:23,570 --> 00:39:25,800 and my blood pressure was through the roof. 989 00:39:37,230 --> 00:39:39,200 Being that I was 38 weeks already 990 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,300 and I had a preeclampsia scare 991 00:39:41,300 --> 00:39:42,770 about two weeks ago, 992 00:39:42,770 --> 00:39:45,100 they just decided that they were gonna keep me 993 00:39:45,100 --> 00:39:46,230 and induce me 994 00:39:46,230 --> 00:39:49,000 and we'll have a baby by tomorrow. 995 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:50,570 But I'm still 17, 996 00:39:50,570 --> 00:39:53,000 so I called my mom because I didn't know 997 00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:54,500 if they could keep me 998 00:39:54,500 --> 00:39:57,430 without her permission or anything. 999 00:39:57,430 --> 00:39:58,730 Hello, Mom. 1000 00:39:58,730 --> 00:39:59,870 [Ashley] What? 1001 00:40:02,070 --> 00:40:03,770 [Ashley speaking] 1002 00:40:03,770 --> 00:40:05,500 [Aniyah] The nurse. 1003 00:40:05,500 --> 00:40:06,630 -[Ashley speaking] -Hey, my name is Nurse Ellen. 1004 00:40:06,630 --> 00:40:08,130 [Dakwon] Oh, my... 1005 00:40:08,130 --> 00:40:10,000 [Ellen] I'm taking care of the patient today. 1006 00:40:10,830 --> 00:40:11,830 [Ashley speaking] 1007 00:40:15,130 --> 00:40:16,500 [Ashley speaking] 1008 00:40:16,500 --> 00:40:19,030 [Dakwon] Miss Ashley, oh, my God. 1009 00:40:19,030 --> 00:40:21,730 I wish my mom or her mom was here in the hospital 1010 00:40:21,730 --> 00:40:24,830 because it wasn't just supposed to be us in there. 1011 00:40:24,830 --> 00:40:27,530 The plan for when we went is for it to be me, 1012 00:40:27,530 --> 00:40:29,770 her mom, and my mom 1013 00:40:29,770 --> 00:40:31,070 and I really thought we was just coming here 1014 00:40:31,070 --> 00:40:32,530 because she didn't feel well. 1015 00:40:32,530 --> 00:40:35,100 Not that we were gonna have a baby today, 1016 00:40:35,100 --> 00:40:36,770 so kind of scary. 1017 00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:43,170 [nurse] Labor. Yeah. 1018 00:40:43,170 --> 00:40:44,330 Exactly. 1019 00:40:44,330 --> 00:40:46,630 [Ashley speaking] 1020 00:40:50,700 --> 00:40:52,800 -Hello? -[Ashley speaking] 1021 00:40:56,070 --> 00:40:59,070 [Aniyah] I definitely wish my mom was at the hospital. 1022 00:40:59,070 --> 00:41:00,930 I just feel like, you know, it shouldn't be 1023 00:41:00,930 --> 00:41:02,630 just me and him 1024 00:41:02,630 --> 00:41:05,830 because being that it's our first, 1025 00:41:05,830 --> 00:41:08,100 I want it to be like a smooth 1026 00:41:08,100 --> 00:41:10,130 delivery for both of us, 1027 00:41:10,130 --> 00:41:11,500 as smooth as possible. 1028 00:41:11,500 --> 00:41:13,030 And without an adult with us, 1029 00:41:13,030 --> 00:41:16,300 I'm not really sure if that's gonna happen. 1030 00:41:17,500 --> 00:41:19,570 [Lilly] Next time on Unexpected... 1031 00:41:19,570 --> 00:41:22,500 So the wedding is around the corner. 1032 00:41:22,500 --> 00:41:23,670 Can we definitely set a goal 1033 00:41:23,670 --> 00:41:25,370 to be done with this in a week? 1034 00:41:25,370 --> 00:41:29,430 I'm realizing that I still need to just do everything. 1035 00:41:29,430 --> 00:41:31,470 This is overwhelming, don't you think? 1036 00:41:31,470 --> 00:41:33,230 [Graham speaking] 1037 00:41:33,230 --> 00:41:34,630 -What did you just say? -[Graham] No. 1038 00:41:34,630 --> 00:41:35,730 This is why I didn't want to come 1039 00:41:35,730 --> 00:41:36,900 because it's always something. 1040 00:41:36,900 --> 00:41:39,170 It's always stress, always something. 1041 00:41:39,170 --> 00:41:41,200 Y'all always got to start arguing about something. 1042 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:42,800 I do have a lot on my plate. 1043 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:44,630 It's not just being a 15-year-old 1044 00:41:44,630 --> 00:41:46,070 and having a girl pregnant. 1045 00:41:46,070 --> 00:41:47,470 It's just a lot of stress. 1046 00:41:50,030 --> 00:41:52,300 I don't wanna be pregnant anymore. 1047 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:54,370 I'm over it. 1048 00:41:57,130 --> 00:41:59,030 It drives me crazy. 1049 00:41:59,030 --> 00:42:01,230 Nate just sitting there silent 1050 00:42:01,230 --> 00:42:03,130 when he knows I'm upset. 1051 00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:05,570 Like you have... You're struggling 1052 00:42:05,570 --> 00:42:08,000 but at the same time, I still struggle too. 1053 00:42:08,870 --> 00:42:10,700 [Emalee] I don't wanna talk about it anymore. 1054 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:16,830 [Aniyah coughing] 1055 00:42:20,630 --> 00:42:22,670 [Dakwon speaking] 1056 00:42:25,070 --> 00:42:26,430 [Ashley] I just need to get there 1057 00:42:26,430 --> 00:42:28,830 because I'm very worried.