1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:02,517 Previously on Unexpected... 2 00:00:08,275 --> 00:00:09,275 Between Nate and I, 3 00:00:09,275 --> 00:00:11,965 the maturity level is just very different 4 00:00:11,965 --> 00:00:13,965 because he's 16, I'm 18. 5 00:00:13,965 --> 00:00:15,862 But I am planning to move 6 00:00:15,862 --> 00:00:17,896 into Nate's house after the baby is born, 7 00:00:17,896 --> 00:00:20,620 so that I could have Nate there with me 24/7. 8 00:00:23,068 --> 00:00:24,413 Is it at the hospital? 9 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:30,655 I wanna help her with everything I can, 10 00:00:30,655 --> 00:00:32,620 but I feel like she's always yelling at me. 11 00:00:33,517 --> 00:00:35,137 I lay hands upon you now 12 00:00:35,482 --> 00:00:36,344 to bless you... 13 00:00:37,103 --> 00:00:38,448 I'm hopin' that this christening 14 00:00:38,448 --> 00:00:41,793 just solidifies the fact that we are a family now. 15 00:00:41,793 --> 00:00:43,172 Pray with them 16 00:00:43,172 --> 00:00:46,241 Because you have a strong impact on your children. 17 00:00:46,241 --> 00:00:47,655 Vision of future, 18 00:00:47,655 --> 00:00:49,793 I could see myself marrying Aniyah. 19 00:00:49,793 --> 00:00:51,793 But I need to work at my own speed 20 00:00:51,793 --> 00:00:54,000 to be able to commit to things. 21 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:55,275 Somethings take time. 22 00:00:55,275 --> 00:00:57,758 I'm not about to jump into something I'm not ready for. 23 00:00:57,758 --> 00:00:59,344 Thank you. - You're welcome. 24 00:00:59,344 --> 00:01:00,586 Happy Birthday. 25 00:01:00,586 --> 00:01:02,068 After I broke up with Aden, I mean, 26 00:01:02,068 --> 00:01:05,448 I could never imagine I would be able to move to Myrtle Beach 27 00:01:05,448 --> 00:01:06,793 and be with JJ. 28 00:01:06,793 --> 00:01:08,241 I love him so much. 29 00:01:08,586 --> 00:01:10,241 This is gonna suck. 30 00:01:10,586 --> 00:01:11,586 You're leavin' me. 31 00:01:11,586 --> 00:01:13,448 Aden is the one who agreed to let 32 00:01:13,448 --> 00:01:14,689 Luca and I move to Myrtle 33 00:01:14,689 --> 00:01:16,758 if he didn't have to pay child support. 34 00:01:16,758 --> 00:01:17,689 But for some reason, 35 00:01:17,689 --> 00:01:20,137 he filed for emergency custody, 36 00:01:20,137 --> 00:01:23,241 so now I have to go back to out to him for court. 37 00:01:23,931 --> 00:01:25,448 What the [bleep]? 38 00:01:25,448 --> 00:01:27,068 I think they just arrived. 39 00:01:27,068 --> 00:01:29,448 With Kayleigh's induction only a few days away, 40 00:01:29,448 --> 00:01:32,344 I really think it's important that we're all on the same page. 41 00:01:32,344 --> 00:01:33,689 So, Kayleigh, have you thought about 42 00:01:33,689 --> 00:01:35,689 who all you would like to be in the living room with you? 43 00:01:35,689 --> 00:01:38,034 You and Chloe and then Graham 44 00:01:38,034 --> 00:01:38,758 and Bekki, of course. 45 00:01:39,793 --> 00:01:41,000 Graham's gonna need it. 46 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,448 You're told me that Pitocin is gonna wreck me. 47 00:01:44,448 --> 00:01:46,344 If don't want me gettin' induced, then I won't go. 48 00:01:47,068 --> 00:01:48,344 I know, it's your baby. 49 00:01:48,344 --> 00:01:49,689 I'm not tellin' you what to do. 50 00:01:49,689 --> 00:01:51,241 Everything should be fine. 51 00:01:52,172 --> 00:01:53,172 We hope. 52 00:01:56,896 --> 00:01:59,241 ♪ Oh 53 00:01:59,241 --> 00:02:02,896 ♪ Whoa Oh, oh ♪ 54 00:02:02,896 --> 00:02:05,000 All right. Are we about ready? 55 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,241 Yeah. 56 00:02:06,241 --> 00:02:07,482 I wanna bring my baby pictures 57 00:02:07,482 --> 00:02:09,896 so I can tell Graham he looks like me. 58 00:02:09,896 --> 00:02:13,241 Today is my due date and he's still not here. 59 00:02:13,827 --> 00:02:14,724 And, so, um... 60 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:16,137 gotta get induced. 61 00:02:16,586 --> 00:02:18,000 Even though my mom tried to scare me 62 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:18,896 into not doing it, 63 00:02:18,896 --> 00:02:21,344 I just can't be pregnant anymore. 64 00:02:21,344 --> 00:02:22,655 It's not fun being big. 65 00:02:23,310 --> 00:02:25,137 Hittin' my belly on everything. 66 00:02:25,137 --> 00:02:27,000 And I swear he's attacking my heart, 67 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:28,620 he's kickin' all the way up here. 68 00:02:29,413 --> 00:02:31,758 'Cause I guess he's just trying to stretch it out, 69 00:02:31,758 --> 00:02:33,275 but he doesn't really have room. 70 00:02:33,275 --> 00:02:35,344 If he wants to stretch he should just come out, 71 00:02:35,344 --> 00:02:36,517 'cause then he can just be like... 72 00:02:37,586 --> 00:02:38,517 You know? 73 00:02:38,896 --> 00:02:39,827 So... 74 00:02:40,379 --> 00:02:42,620 Eviction notice served. 75 00:02:45,379 --> 00:02:46,931 Hey, girl. 76 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,000 She's like, "What is going on?" 77 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,586 Next time there'll be a baby. 78 00:02:52,586 --> 00:02:54,793 Me and my mom, we're headin' up to the hospital 79 00:02:54,793 --> 00:02:55,758 for my induction 80 00:02:55,758 --> 00:02:57,689 and we're gonna meet Graham and his mom 81 00:02:57,689 --> 00:02:59,586 at the hospital and later my dad 82 00:02:59,586 --> 00:03:00,896 and sister will show up. 83 00:03:00,896 --> 00:03:02,379 You got everything? 84 00:03:02,379 --> 00:03:04,344 Did we ever grab that blanket? 85 00:03:04,344 --> 00:03:06,827 I didn't grab my blanket. 86 00:03:07,068 --> 00:03:07,965 Okay. 87 00:03:07,965 --> 00:03:10,034 My... My blanket. 88 00:03:10,034 --> 00:03:11,586 Hop on. Did you need another bra? 89 00:03:12,620 --> 00:03:15,172 No. I have... I have one in my bag. You said-- Okay. 90 00:03:15,172 --> 00:03:16,482 There's really no way of knowin' 91 00:03:16,482 --> 00:03:18,379 how long induction is gonna be at this point. 92 00:03:18,379 --> 00:03:22,137 It could be a few hours, it could be 24 hours, it could be a few days. 93 00:03:22,137 --> 00:03:24,206 And we're just preparing for whatever happens. 94 00:03:25,172 --> 00:03:26,413 So you'll bring it up there later? 95 00:03:27,724 --> 00:03:29,137 My blanket. Okay. Yeah, yeah. 96 00:03:29,379 --> 00:03:30,517 All right. 97 00:03:30,517 --> 00:03:31,344 All right, love you. 98 00:03:32,379 --> 00:03:33,896 I still wish you would choose 99 00:03:33,896 --> 00:03:36,103 to wait for Easton to come on his own. 100 00:03:36,103 --> 00:03:40,137 But I know that she has other things that she has to think about. 101 00:03:40,137 --> 00:03:41,551 She's about to be a mama 102 00:03:41,551 --> 00:03:42,689 and that's gonna be hard enough 103 00:03:42,689 --> 00:03:44,413 without me givin' her crap. 104 00:03:46,482 --> 00:03:49,137 Is it comin' more real yet or not yet? 105 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:51,172 It's been real. 106 00:03:51,172 --> 00:03:54,103 No, I mean, like, this it it. Like... 107 00:03:54,103 --> 00:03:55,793 He's... You're gonna be holding... Yeah, I... 108 00:03:55,793 --> 00:03:58,000 I was nervous this morning. 109 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,103 'Cause I'm, like, never been the main person... 110 00:04:00,827 --> 00:04:01,724 to somebody. 111 00:04:02,206 --> 00:04:03,827 Well, to Graham, I guess. 112 00:04:07,586 --> 00:04:08,448 So... 113 00:04:09,379 --> 00:04:10,413 You're about to be dad. 114 00:04:10,896 --> 00:04:11,862 Get your stuff together. 115 00:04:13,482 --> 00:04:14,586 Kayleigh jokes around a lot 116 00:04:14,586 --> 00:04:16,689 but I know she has a lot of concerns, 117 00:04:16,689 --> 00:04:19,034 especially when it comes to Graham and his mom. 118 00:04:19,275 --> 00:04:20,379 And... 119 00:04:20,379 --> 00:04:21,655 To be completely honest, 120 00:04:21,655 --> 00:04:23,793 I have the same concerns. 121 00:04:23,793 --> 00:04:26,586 But I'm hoping that Graham would step up 122 00:04:26,586 --> 00:04:29,172 and be there for his little family now 123 00:04:29,172 --> 00:04:31,103 for Kayleigh and for Easton. 124 00:04:31,103 --> 00:04:33,551 And that he finally takes the opportunity 125 00:04:33,551 --> 00:04:34,689 to show up today. 126 00:04:38,413 --> 00:04:40,551 Thanks for making me carry my own stuff. 127 00:04:43,172 --> 00:04:44,896 It's your bag, your responsibility. 128 00:04:44,896 --> 00:04:47,000 You're my son. 129 00:04:47,689 --> 00:04:49,586 I do think that it is crazy 130 00:04:49,586 --> 00:04:51,931 that, uh, Kayleigh and Graham are about to have a baby. 131 00:04:52,896 --> 00:04:55,103 It's like, they're babies. 132 00:04:55,103 --> 00:04:57,103 They're babies havin' a baby. 133 00:04:57,827 --> 00:04:59,482 I honestly don't think he knows 134 00:04:59,482 --> 00:05:00,620 what he's in for. 135 00:05:04,379 --> 00:05:06,206 Kayleigh just said, "Where y'all going?" 136 00:05:06,827 --> 00:05:09,000 To the hospital, Kayleigh. 137 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:10,689 - To the hospital. - What do you think? 138 00:05:10,689 --> 00:05:12,034 What do you think? 139 00:05:12,827 --> 00:05:14,241 So are you gettin' excited... 140 00:05:14,586 --> 00:05:15,724 or nervous? 141 00:05:16,482 --> 00:05:17,413 Both. 142 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:20,137 You're both? 143 00:05:20,379 --> 00:05:21,241 Yeah. 144 00:05:21,517 --> 00:05:22,896 I am too. 145 00:05:22,896 --> 00:05:24,827 I'm excited but I think I'm nervous too. 146 00:05:25,827 --> 00:05:28,413 They're not gonna start the Pitocin until when? 147 00:05:29,586 --> 00:05:30,896 The what? 148 00:05:30,896 --> 00:05:33,137 The Pitocin. The start of the... 149 00:05:33,137 --> 00:05:34,793 You don't know... You don't know what that is? 150 00:05:34,793 --> 00:05:35,724 No. 151 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:37,103 Oh, my God. 152 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:39,689 I'm nervous for him. 153 00:05:39,689 --> 00:05:43,275 I couldn't imagine doing it at 16. 154 00:05:43,275 --> 00:05:46,379 I was 21 when I had my first child. 155 00:05:46,379 --> 00:05:49,344 I thought that it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. 156 00:05:49,344 --> 00:05:51,517 They just handed me the baby and I was, like... 157 00:05:52,620 --> 00:05:53,758 panicked. 158 00:05:53,758 --> 00:05:56,172 And now it's stressin' him out 159 00:05:56,172 --> 00:05:57,482 'cause this mornin' I woke up 160 00:05:57,482 --> 00:05:59,413 and could hear him hurlin' in the bathroom. 161 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:03,896 I woke up to you throwin' up, sound of you throwin' up. 162 00:06:03,896 --> 00:06:05,103 I don't know why 163 00:06:05,103 --> 00:06:07,896 you had to make a sound like that 164 00:06:07,896 --> 00:06:10,689 when you throw up. I don't know either. 165 00:06:10,689 --> 00:06:12,448 - I mean... - I just sound like that when I probably... 166 00:06:12,689 --> 00:06:13,862 ...it's like... 167 00:06:13,862 --> 00:06:16,206 It sounded like it was comin' out from your toes. 168 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,137 You make such a awful sound. 169 00:06:19,689 --> 00:06:20,620 It's like... 170 00:06:24,034 --> 00:06:26,379 You just hear that repeatin' about, I don't know, 171 00:06:26,379 --> 00:06:27,862 seven to ten times. 172 00:06:31,896 --> 00:06:34,000 And I'm dead asleep... 173 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,172 - ...with earplugs in and wakes me up. - I'm-- 174 00:06:37,172 --> 00:06:40,517 I've been throwin' up a lot because I know I'm about to be a dad. 175 00:06:41,103 --> 00:06:42,793 I don't know how I'mma do this. 176 00:06:42,793 --> 00:06:44,551 Like, I don't know how I'mma be, 177 00:06:44,551 --> 00:06:46,862 how I'm gonna take care of this kid. 178 00:06:46,862 --> 00:06:48,896 Not only I'm about to be a dad at 16, 179 00:06:48,896 --> 00:06:50,379 but I gotta worry about my mom 180 00:06:50,379 --> 00:06:52,482 and her stress levels and... 181 00:06:52,482 --> 00:06:54,137 Gotta worry about my grades. 182 00:06:54,137 --> 00:06:55,655 And I know Kayleigh's gonna need 183 00:06:55,655 --> 00:06:58,034 a lot of help when Easton is here. 184 00:06:58,034 --> 00:07:01,000 I have a lot on my plate before I even become a dad. 185 00:07:04,068 --> 00:07:05,482 Little bit of my... 186 00:07:19,275 --> 00:07:20,379 Hmm. 187 00:07:20,379 --> 00:07:21,275 I'm actually shocked 188 00:07:21,275 --> 00:07:23,137 that they're not just here 189 00:07:23,137 --> 00:07:25,137 but they're actually here before we are. 190 00:07:25,896 --> 00:07:27,275 Maybe our talk was worth it 191 00:07:27,275 --> 00:07:30,896 and they're taking things a little bit more serious now. 192 00:07:30,896 --> 00:07:32,758 Look, I brought a shirt that says, 193 00:07:33,172 --> 00:07:34,413 "I pooped today!" 194 00:07:36,724 --> 00:07:38,241 Are you joking? 195 00:07:39,724 --> 00:07:41,000 "I pooped today!" 196 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:43,379 I know it means a lot to Kayleigh 197 00:07:43,379 --> 00:07:46,172 seein' him here with her and showin' his support. 198 00:07:46,172 --> 00:07:48,482 And I don't think I've ever seen him 199 00:07:48,482 --> 00:07:50,965 that excited before about anything. 200 00:07:51,689 --> 00:07:53,758 I just hope he's ready for what's to come. 201 00:07:55,379 --> 00:07:58,448 ♪ Baby 202 00:07:58,448 --> 00:08:01,172 ♪ Come back to me now 203 00:08:01,172 --> 00:08:05,000 ♪ 'Cause baby we're gonna be all right ♪ 204 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:06,172 Let me grab that. Oh, you got it. 205 00:08:06,172 --> 00:08:07,275 Yeah, I got it. 206 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,034 So my grandad, he got, um, 207 00:08:10,034 --> 00:08:11,862 an RV, like, a couple years ago 208 00:08:11,862 --> 00:08:12,827 out of nowhere. 209 00:08:12,827 --> 00:08:15,000 He just literally one day called us 210 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:16,344 and just like, 211 00:08:16,344 --> 00:08:17,965 "You know, I got RV. Where do you guys wanna go?" 212 00:08:17,965 --> 00:08:20,103 So we just been goin' on RV trips 213 00:08:20,103 --> 00:08:20,896 ever since. 214 00:08:20,896 --> 00:08:22,068 So, like, they're really fun. 215 00:08:22,068 --> 00:08:23,482 We go to, like, eat dinner. 216 00:08:23,482 --> 00:08:24,724 You know, go to stores. 217 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,068 But it's really not about the destination. 218 00:08:31,068 --> 00:08:33,206 It's really about the family bonding. 219 00:08:33,517 --> 00:08:35,655 This car seat's too big. 220 00:08:35,655 --> 00:08:37,551 I'll just stand up back here or something. 221 00:08:38,310 --> 00:08:39,862 And now that Aniyis is here, 222 00:08:39,862 --> 00:08:43,482 Dede was invited to join us in our RV trips. 223 00:08:43,482 --> 00:08:45,137 Ain't no way. I don't know how... 224 00:08:45,137 --> 00:08:47,620 Ain't no way. He gonna have to sit on the bed real quick. 225 00:08:48,103 --> 00:08:50,517 Dede was already family to me... 226 00:08:51,206 --> 00:08:52,206 because we were together, 227 00:08:52,206 --> 00:08:56,103 but he became a part of the whole family 228 00:08:56,103 --> 00:08:58,482 once Aniyis got here. 229 00:08:58,482 --> 00:09:00,310 Dede, come over here, what you doin'? 230 00:09:17,517 --> 00:09:19,000 All right, we on the way. 231 00:09:21,896 --> 00:09:22,896 Cop-a-squat. 232 00:09:22,896 --> 00:09:24,413 Actually, you sit next to your girlfriend. 233 00:09:29,689 --> 00:09:30,620 No. 234 00:09:32,517 --> 00:09:33,655 How can you ask someone, 235 00:09:33,655 --> 00:09:35,448 "You ain't musty"? 236 00:09:35,448 --> 00:09:38,000 I was very skeptical about Dede 237 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:39,965 when I found out Aniyah was pregnant. 238 00:09:39,965 --> 00:09:44,275 But Dakwon is not what I expected him to be. 239 00:09:44,275 --> 00:09:48,068 He is appearing to be very responsible. 240 00:09:48,068 --> 00:09:49,275 You know, the fact that he'll get up 241 00:09:49,275 --> 00:09:50,586 and go to church with her. 242 00:09:50,586 --> 00:09:52,172 The fact that he'll get up and go to work. 243 00:09:52,172 --> 00:09:54,689 The fact that he's just hands on with his child. 244 00:09:54,689 --> 00:09:58,758 Dede is, at the young age of 17, 245 00:09:58,758 --> 00:10:01,413 more of a man than a lot other man my age. 246 00:10:01,620 --> 00:10:04,482 I know... baby. 247 00:10:04,482 --> 00:10:07,241 But just because someone is around 248 00:10:07,241 --> 00:10:08,448 the beginning, does not mean 249 00:10:08,448 --> 00:10:10,000 that they're gonna be there all the way through. 250 00:10:11,482 --> 00:10:12,586 Ooh, girl, 251 00:10:12,586 --> 00:10:14,896 you got these big crusty buggers in his nose. 252 00:10:14,896 --> 00:10:16,241 That's just the inside of his nose 253 00:10:16,241 --> 00:10:17,137 right there on the side. 254 00:10:18,482 --> 00:10:20,172 Hi, Aniyis. 255 00:10:20,172 --> 00:10:21,482 You wake up? 256 00:10:21,482 --> 00:10:24,034 You wake up. You wake up. 257 00:10:24,034 --> 00:10:25,172 We have arrived. 258 00:10:25,172 --> 00:10:26,551 All out. 259 00:10:26,551 --> 00:10:27,827 Bring my wallet. 260 00:10:29,931 --> 00:10:31,896 Ha, well, I gotta go 261 00:10:31,896 --> 00:10:33,275 to work, but, like... 262 00:10:33,275 --> 00:10:34,379 I wanna do this when everybody 263 00:10:34,379 --> 00:10:35,620 see, I can, like... 264 00:10:35,620 --> 00:10:37,620 You know what I'm sayin'? It's serious. I'll prove it. 265 00:10:39,172 --> 00:10:41,689 I have no idea what Dede is about to do. 266 00:10:41,689 --> 00:10:43,379 It's a little, you know... 267 00:10:43,379 --> 00:10:45,448 Oh, it's... 268 00:10:55,275 --> 00:10:56,379 I'm nervous. 269 00:10:56,379 --> 00:10:59,689 Aden wants emergency custody of Luca 270 00:10:59,689 --> 00:11:02,586 and so we have our special relief hearing today. 271 00:11:02,586 --> 00:11:05,482 The judge can make a custody schedule 272 00:11:05,482 --> 00:11:07,448 so ridiculously difficult 273 00:11:07,448 --> 00:11:10,000 that I cannot go to South Carolina. 274 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:11,482 I'm honestly really worried about what 275 00:11:11,482 --> 00:11:13,034 this court case could do. 276 00:11:13,034 --> 00:11:14,758 This could really pull the carpet out 277 00:11:14,758 --> 00:11:16,241 from underneath her happy life. 278 00:11:20,620 --> 00:11:24,000 I feel like during birth I'mma be super nervous about it. 279 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:25,724 He's probably gonna be worse than me. 280 00:11:33,620 --> 00:11:35,344 ♪ It's about to get ugly 281 00:11:40,482 --> 00:11:42,310 ♪ It's about to get ugly 282 00:11:42,586 --> 00:11:43,827 I'm nervous. 283 00:11:44,793 --> 00:11:45,931 It's gonna be all right. 284 00:11:46,586 --> 00:11:47,758 - You know-- - Is it though? 285 00:11:48,620 --> 00:11:50,275 Today I'm back in Pennsylvania 286 00:11:50,275 --> 00:11:52,000 to go to court. 287 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,586 Basically, Aden filed for special relief, 288 00:11:54,586 --> 00:11:56,103 which is basically saying 289 00:11:56,103 --> 00:12:00,000 he wants emergency custody of Luca. 290 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,620 And so, we have our special relief hearing today... 291 00:12:03,310 --> 00:12:05,482 which is ridiculous. 292 00:12:05,482 --> 00:12:08,724 If everything happens the way it should, I mean... 293 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:13,241 Realistically, everything should be perfectly fine. 294 00:12:13,241 --> 00:12:15,379 Or I don't go and I get stuck here. 295 00:12:17,034 --> 00:12:18,275 You know, Aden is the one 296 00:12:18,275 --> 00:12:20,482 who agreed to let Luca and I move to Myrtle 297 00:12:20,482 --> 00:12:22,103 if he didn't have to pay child support. 298 00:12:23,689 --> 00:12:24,724 I think what happened 299 00:12:24,724 --> 00:12:27,344 is I finally started posting my relationship 300 00:12:27,344 --> 00:12:30,379 on social media and I think that showed Aden 301 00:12:30,379 --> 00:12:34,068 that JJ's in Luca's life a lot more than he thought. 302 00:12:34,068 --> 00:12:37,000 And I don't think Aden wants me to have a boyfriend 303 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:38,137 and I don't think Aden wants me 304 00:12:38,137 --> 00:12:39,827 to have anything at all. 305 00:12:39,827 --> 00:12:42,172 If you ask me, Aden should welcome the fact 306 00:12:42,172 --> 00:12:46,172 that JJ is a good dude and loves Luca. 307 00:12:46,172 --> 00:12:48,586 He should be... He should be happy about that. 308 00:12:48,586 --> 00:12:51,482 Would he... Would he rather you'd be with a [bleep] bag? 309 00:12:51,482 --> 00:12:53,344 I mean, think about it. I don't know. 310 00:12:54,689 --> 00:12:57,068 The judge can make a custody schedule 311 00:12:57,068 --> 00:13:02,344 - so... ridiculously difficult with two hour visits - Yeah. 312 00:13:02,344 --> 00:13:05,034 ...that I cannot go to South Carolina. 313 00:13:05,034 --> 00:13:07,241 That's nothing that you need to... 314 00:13:07,586 --> 00:13:08,655 obsess about. 315 00:13:09,310 --> 00:13:11,482 Um, that's the biggest thing. 316 00:13:11,482 --> 00:13:14,275 They can't tell me I can't live in Myrtle Beach. 317 00:13:14,275 --> 00:13:16,310 Where I'm getting anxious is, 318 00:13:16,793 --> 00:13:17,827 um... 319 00:13:18,103 --> 00:13:19,827 it's like, okay, 320 00:13:19,827 --> 00:13:22,103 so Pennsylvania court really likes 321 00:13:22,103 --> 00:13:24,241 to do this thing where it's every other weekend 322 00:13:24,689 --> 00:13:25,310 for the dad 323 00:13:25,310 --> 00:13:27,482 and Wednesday evenings 324 00:13:27,482 --> 00:13:29,758 but he doesn't stay on Wednesdays. 325 00:13:29,758 --> 00:13:32,931 Now, if I have to bring Luca to Pennsylvania 326 00:13:32,931 --> 00:13:35,137 every Wednesday to spend time with his dad, 327 00:13:35,137 --> 00:13:38,310 it would be impossible for me to be in Myrtle Beach. 328 00:13:38,586 --> 00:13:39,517 So... 329 00:13:40,275 --> 00:13:41,620 I don't know. 330 00:13:42,793 --> 00:13:44,896 Well, you can't obsess about it before it happens. 331 00:13:44,896 --> 00:13:45,724 I mean, you can think about it, 332 00:13:45,724 --> 00:13:47,137 put it in the back of your mind. 333 00:13:48,310 --> 00:13:50,586 But the biggest... The most important thing is 334 00:13:50,586 --> 00:13:53,137 you guys can both put your feelings and... 335 00:13:53,137 --> 00:13:54,758 I have no feelings towards him or-- 336 00:13:54,758 --> 00:13:58,275 Feelings and dislikes towards each other. 337 00:13:58,275 --> 00:14:00,206 I want nothing to do with him. 338 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:02,862 When I first heard Aden was taking Jenna 339 00:14:02,862 --> 00:14:04,379 to court over custody, 340 00:14:04,379 --> 00:14:05,310 my thought was... 341 00:14:05,620 --> 00:14:06,517 "It's [bleep]!" 342 00:14:07,379 --> 00:14:08,379 In my opinion, 343 00:14:08,379 --> 00:14:11,103 he's just tryin' to be a disruptive force 344 00:14:11,103 --> 00:14:13,103 and gettin' in the way of her happiness 345 00:14:13,103 --> 00:14:14,344 down in Myrtle. 346 00:14:14,896 --> 00:14:17,241 Jenna's just trying to do the right thing 347 00:14:17,241 --> 00:14:18,448 and have normalcy. 348 00:14:18,448 --> 00:14:20,413 Like, the biggest thing is normalcy for Luca. 349 00:14:21,103 --> 00:14:23,275 He needs to be able to get established 350 00:14:23,275 --> 00:14:24,655 and get into some... 351 00:14:24,655 --> 00:14:27,241 activities, get into some schooling. 352 00:14:27,793 --> 00:14:29,000 He just needs... 353 00:14:30,206 --> 00:14:31,517 to lay a foundation. 354 00:14:31,862 --> 00:14:32,827 That's important. 355 00:14:33,586 --> 00:14:34,758 I'm gonna park it back there. 356 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:35,896 Okay. 357 00:14:40,103 --> 00:14:41,620 - All right? - Yeah. 358 00:14:49,793 --> 00:14:51,482 I'm trying to stay positive for Jenna 359 00:14:51,482 --> 00:14:53,068 and because the last thing I wanna do 360 00:14:53,068 --> 00:14:54,586 is make things worse. 361 00:14:54,586 --> 00:14:55,793 But I'm honestly really worried 362 00:14:55,793 --> 00:14:57,931 about what this court case could do. 363 00:14:57,931 --> 00:14:59,827 She is so happy in Myrtle. 364 00:14:59,827 --> 00:15:01,379 And this could really pull the carpet 365 00:15:01,379 --> 00:15:03,310 out from underneath her happy life. 366 00:15:05,310 --> 00:15:06,379 Deep breath. 367 00:15:06,379 --> 00:15:07,551 - Okay. - You good? 368 00:15:08,103 --> 00:15:10,413 - No. - You're gonna be good. 369 00:15:12,206 --> 00:15:14,310 There's a chance that I could lose today's hearing. 370 00:15:15,275 --> 00:15:17,758 And I think the worst possible outcome 371 00:15:17,758 --> 00:15:21,241 is me having to stay in our town 372 00:15:21,793 --> 00:15:23,931 and moving back into my dad's. 373 00:15:24,310 --> 00:15:26,586 I love him, but, Jesus, 374 00:15:26,586 --> 00:15:29,000 I have my own life now and... 375 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,000 I don't wanna be in Pennsylvania. 376 00:15:37,793 --> 00:15:40,034 ♪ All your love 377 00:15:41,620 --> 00:15:42,965 ♪ I took it all 378 00:15:50,482 --> 00:15:52,655 It's 6:00 p.m. and I've been at the hospital 379 00:15:52,655 --> 00:15:53,758 for about an hour. 380 00:15:53,758 --> 00:15:55,379 Whenever they put the bands on my stomach 381 00:15:55,379 --> 00:15:57,655 measuring contractions and his heart rate, 382 00:15:57,655 --> 00:15:59,931 it made it all feel like real all of a sudden. 383 00:15:59,931 --> 00:16:01,724 And I am so excited 384 00:16:02,068 --> 00:16:03,758 'cause I'll get to... 385 00:16:03,758 --> 00:16:07,068 Get to start off my new journey goin' 386 00:16:07,068 --> 00:16:10,379 and... have baby Easton. 387 00:16:10,379 --> 00:16:12,655 I feel like during birth, 388 00:16:12,655 --> 00:16:15,896 or, like, right before, I'mma be super nervous about it. 389 00:16:15,896 --> 00:16:17,655 He's probably gonna be worse than me. 390 00:16:17,655 --> 00:16:20,758 Probably gonna have more freakouts than I will 391 00:16:20,758 --> 00:16:22,827 'cause he is crazy like that. 392 00:16:22,827 --> 00:16:24,310 He can't do nothing right. 393 00:16:25,379 --> 00:16:26,896 He's supposed to be the strong person 394 00:16:26,896 --> 00:16:28,000 but he's not. 395 00:16:28,793 --> 00:16:30,724 He is the weak one. I'm the man. 396 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:33,413 Whatever she says. 397 00:16:57,275 --> 00:17:00,172 I'm very excited. Hoping tomorrow we'll... 398 00:17:00,172 --> 00:17:03,448 start the process of pushing and having this baby. 399 00:17:03,448 --> 00:17:06,793 But I'm a bundle of nerves, actually. I... 400 00:17:06,793 --> 00:17:08,000 I really don't... 401 00:17:09,172 --> 00:17:10,379 know how to feel. 402 00:17:10,379 --> 00:17:13,448 I'm nervous for her 'cause of what's to come 403 00:17:13,448 --> 00:17:17,068 and I'm praying that everything goes smoothly. 404 00:17:17,068 --> 00:17:19,206 But with an induction, you never know. 405 00:17:43,758 --> 00:17:45,034 Most importantly, Graham, 406 00:17:45,034 --> 00:17:46,482 because I want him to be there, like, 407 00:17:46,482 --> 00:17:49,137 for the full ride and my mom... 408 00:17:49,137 --> 00:17:50,896 because she's been there for me this whole time. 409 00:17:50,896 --> 00:17:53,827 And then, my sister, so she has a experience with... 410 00:17:54,275 --> 00:17:55,551 her little nephew. 411 00:17:55,551 --> 00:17:57,896 And then Graham's mom for... 412 00:17:57,896 --> 00:17:59,827 Graham's experience and for her 413 00:17:59,827 --> 00:18:01,379 to have the bond with... 414 00:18:01,379 --> 00:18:02,827 Easton whenever he's here. 415 00:18:03,793 --> 00:18:06,827 I do have a little, um... 416 00:18:07,758 --> 00:18:09,241 I don't know, like a negative feeling 417 00:18:09,241 --> 00:18:11,137 about Bekki being in the delivery room 418 00:18:11,137 --> 00:18:12,034 with Kayleigh because... 419 00:18:13,206 --> 00:18:14,724 I almost feel like... 420 00:18:15,413 --> 00:18:16,310 um... 421 00:18:17,172 --> 00:18:18,206 she doesn't... 422 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:20,586 Gonna... It's gonna sound terrible, 423 00:18:20,586 --> 00:18:23,517 I just feel like in a way she could be a distraction. 424 00:18:23,931 --> 00:18:25,586 We know that she's bipolar. 425 00:18:25,586 --> 00:18:28,000 I don't need to be worried about anyone right now 426 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:29,827 except for my daughter and grandson. 427 00:18:34,689 --> 00:18:35,620 How are we? 428 00:18:40,758 --> 00:18:41,965 I'm really excited 429 00:18:41,965 --> 00:18:44,172 that Kayleigh let me be in the delivery room for this 430 00:18:44,172 --> 00:18:46,241 'cause I do think it's important 431 00:18:46,241 --> 00:18:47,586 to have somebody with him 432 00:18:47,586 --> 00:18:50,620 to be supportive of Graham because... 433 00:18:51,379 --> 00:18:52,862 Like, and... 434 00:18:52,862 --> 00:18:54,620 Don't think he's gonna do real well. 435 00:18:55,793 --> 00:18:57,689 I do honestly believe 436 00:18:57,689 --> 00:18:59,034 he's gonna be one of those ones 437 00:18:59,034 --> 00:19:01,103 that's gonna need a chair, a fan, 438 00:19:01,103 --> 00:19:03,172 a... Maybe a garbage a can. 439 00:19:03,172 --> 00:19:04,931 Maybe even pass out. 440 00:19:04,931 --> 00:19:06,931 He might miss it because of that. 441 00:19:07,793 --> 00:19:10,034 And wake up and there's a baby. 442 00:19:24,482 --> 00:19:25,931 I'll think about that. 443 00:19:27,206 --> 00:19:29,068 I want Graham to be very involved 444 00:19:29,068 --> 00:19:30,275 in the delivery room. 445 00:19:30,275 --> 00:19:32,655 I want him to cut the cord and everything. 446 00:19:33,103 --> 00:19:35,655 So you have to stay awake. 447 00:19:35,655 --> 00:19:37,482 Don't pass out. 448 00:19:37,482 --> 00:19:39,344 'Cause if you do, them I'm just gonna be like, 449 00:19:39,620 --> 00:19:40,448 "Mom, cut it." 450 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:43,137 I wanna be supportive, 451 00:19:43,137 --> 00:19:45,344 but if she, like, poops on herself or something, 452 00:19:45,344 --> 00:19:48,241 I feel like I might pass out or throw up 453 00:19:48,241 --> 00:19:52,275 because I'll probably be, like, super disgusted. 454 00:19:52,275 --> 00:19:54,310 If you make me feel bad if I do poop, 455 00:19:54,689 --> 00:19:55,586 I'm gonna kill you. 456 00:19:57,068 --> 00:19:59,275 I'll grab something closest to me 457 00:19:59,275 --> 00:20:00,620 and stab you. 458 00:20:02,275 --> 00:20:03,827 Kayleigh poo... pooped on herself. 459 00:20:05,482 --> 00:20:07,000 I'd hit you for real. 460 00:20:19,896 --> 00:20:20,827 Okay. 461 00:20:24,586 --> 00:20:25,448 For the baby? 462 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:26,931 No. 463 00:20:37,413 --> 00:20:38,448 Okay. 464 00:20:45,793 --> 00:20:47,413 Okay. 465 00:20:49,275 --> 00:20:50,827 I feel like it's not Bekki's place 466 00:20:50,827 --> 00:20:52,551 to be asking questions 467 00:20:52,551 --> 00:20:54,931 especially as she's only had C-sections 468 00:20:54,931 --> 00:20:57,379 and doesn't know what an induction is like. 469 00:20:57,379 --> 00:20:59,103 She needs to just stay in her lane 470 00:20:59,103 --> 00:21:01,000 and be here to support Graham. 471 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:02,758 But I'm not gonna say anything 472 00:21:02,758 --> 00:21:05,551 cause I don't want any negative reactions. 473 00:21:15,482 --> 00:21:16,551 Uh... 474 00:21:20,586 --> 00:21:21,689 Yeah, yeah. 475 00:21:21,689 --> 00:21:24,137 Well, uh. Yeah. 476 00:21:28,172 --> 00:21:29,068 Okay? 477 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,586 I'm nervous enough to have a baby 478 00:21:32,586 --> 00:21:34,068 and right now I'm starting to second guess 479 00:21:34,068 --> 00:21:36,172 if I do want her here. 480 00:21:36,172 --> 00:21:39,000 Bekki's done nothing but be negative and freak me out. 481 00:21:41,793 --> 00:21:42,827 Oh-ho. 482 00:21:42,827 --> 00:21:45,586 You did not support his neck, whatsoever. 483 00:21:45,586 --> 00:21:47,275 We've been home from the hospital 484 00:21:47,275 --> 00:21:48,758 for about two weeks 485 00:21:48,758 --> 00:21:52,000 and I think I'm starting to resent Nate. 486 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:55,862 Okay. 487 00:21:55,862 --> 00:21:57,275 I know sooner or later 488 00:21:57,275 --> 00:22:00,000 whether things will get better 489 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:03,206 but at this point I'm not sure. 490 00:22:08,448 --> 00:22:10,724 ♪ It's a green light 491 00:22:11,896 --> 00:22:15,620 ♪ You keep me up all night, All night ♪ 492 00:22:17,379 --> 00:22:18,793 Hm. 493 00:22:25,793 --> 00:22:27,137 8:00? Yes. 494 00:22:28,241 --> 00:22:31,241 We've been home from the hospital for about two weeks 495 00:22:31,241 --> 00:22:33,689 and we're still trying to figure out the whole 496 00:22:33,689 --> 00:22:35,241 parenting thing. 497 00:22:37,275 --> 00:22:38,310 Oh-ho. 498 00:22:38,310 --> 00:22:41,068 You did not support his neck, whatsoever. 499 00:22:42,448 --> 00:22:43,620 Seems okay, though. 500 00:22:46,172 --> 00:22:48,413 Stay in when they're tight, bruh. 501 00:22:49,172 --> 00:22:51,517 Wow, you really got that on really tight. 502 00:22:51,517 --> 00:22:52,517 Should I loosen it up? 503 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:59,241 Too tight? 504 00:22:59,862 --> 00:23:02,586 It's really hard having a relationship 505 00:23:02,586 --> 00:23:04,379 after just having a baby 506 00:23:04,896 --> 00:23:07,137 because everything changes. 507 00:23:07,137 --> 00:23:08,862 It's just not you guys anymore, 508 00:23:08,862 --> 00:23:10,379 it's you guys and a baby 509 00:23:10,379 --> 00:23:11,896 on top of 510 00:23:11,896 --> 00:23:15,620 us being crammed into this small bedroom 511 00:23:15,620 --> 00:23:18,000 and we only leave to wash Westley's bottles 512 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,482 and go to the bathroom because 513 00:23:20,482 --> 00:23:23,000 our room is like our only space that's ours 514 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,862 and the rest is just shared space with Taryn 515 00:23:25,862 --> 00:23:27,517 and Nate's siblings. 516 00:23:27,689 --> 00:23:29,137 I hate it. 517 00:23:29,137 --> 00:23:32,413 And, I feel really angry all the time. 518 00:23:33,586 --> 00:23:35,206 Hm. 519 00:23:41,448 --> 00:23:43,862 I know Nate would much rather stay home with Westley 520 00:23:43,862 --> 00:23:45,517 but he still is a minor. 521 00:23:45,517 --> 00:23:47,586 And, I do have rules in my house 522 00:23:47,586 --> 00:23:50,103 and, pretty simple ones. 523 00:23:50,103 --> 00:23:52,862 Um, go to school, get good grades, graduate 524 00:23:52,862 --> 00:23:56,206 so that you can get a good job and provide for your family. 525 00:23:56,862 --> 00:23:59,931 Having been a teen parent myself 526 00:23:59,931 --> 00:24:03,068 and then struggling for the many years that I did 527 00:24:03,068 --> 00:24:06,103 trying to get jobs that I could pay the bills with. 528 00:24:06,103 --> 00:24:07,827 I know that it's a big difference 529 00:24:07,827 --> 00:24:09,896 in having a high school diploma 530 00:24:09,896 --> 00:24:12,068 versus not having a high school diploma. 531 00:24:12,068 --> 00:24:14,793 I just feel like by continuing his education 532 00:24:14,793 --> 00:24:17,310 he will get into a better quality job. 533 00:24:17,310 --> 00:24:21,172 Um, to better his life, to better Westley's life 534 00:24:21,275 --> 00:24:22,827 long term. 535 00:24:23,862 --> 00:24:26,482 Your mom's gonna get mad if you're late for school. 536 00:24:30,379 --> 00:24:31,758 Can you just stop. 537 00:24:31,758 --> 00:24:32,896 You need to get up. 538 00:24:32,896 --> 00:24:35,482 - I was trying. - No, you're not. 539 00:24:35,482 --> 00:24:37,517 - Hm. No. - You're snoozing. 540 00:24:38,379 --> 00:24:41,310 It's Nate's first week back at school. 541 00:24:41,310 --> 00:24:44,000 And I'm not loving it. I've... 542 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,000 yo take care of Westley all by myself 543 00:24:46,586 --> 00:24:48,000 which is really scary 544 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,000 since it's my first time doing it. 545 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:52,862 Knowing that Emalee has to take care of Westley 546 00:24:52,862 --> 00:24:55,034 all by herself while I'm at school sucks 547 00:24:55,034 --> 00:24:58,000 because, I, I obviously wanna be there 548 00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:59,068 and help out as much as I can 549 00:24:59,068 --> 00:25:01,172 and I also don't wanna go back to school. 550 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,275 Okay. 551 00:25:12,379 --> 00:25:14,586 I think, Emalee is really hard on him. 552 00:25:14,586 --> 00:25:18,862 And, I do wish Nate would stand up for himself. 553 00:25:18,862 --> 00:25:21,310 But, I need them to figure it out 554 00:25:21,310 --> 00:25:24,000 that if this gonna be a relationship that they 555 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,448 make work, they have to figure out 556 00:25:27,448 --> 00:25:29,862 how to communicate with each other 557 00:25:29,862 --> 00:25:33,206 and get through, you know, the ups and downs. 558 00:25:38,896 --> 00:25:41,241 It's cold and wet. 559 00:25:43,689 --> 00:25:44,827 Oh, my God. 560 00:25:48,655 --> 00:25:50,793 Brr. 561 00:25:50,793 --> 00:25:54,103 It definitely has been overwhelming, and like, 562 00:25:54,103 --> 00:25:56,172 things have changed a lot. 563 00:25:56,172 --> 00:25:58,931 Like I, never really imagined, like, 564 00:25:58,931 --> 00:26:02,758 being 16, living with my girlfriend in my mom's house. 565 00:26:02,758 --> 00:26:05,517 But, for me it's important to be a present father 566 00:26:05,517 --> 00:26:08,896 because I wanna see Westley grow and I wanna see 567 00:26:08,896 --> 00:26:11,689 everything that he's able to accomplish in life and just, 568 00:26:11,689 --> 00:26:14,448 be part of everything that he does. 569 00:26:14,448 --> 00:26:17,172 And, I wouldn't be able to do that if my mom 570 00:26:17,172 --> 00:26:19,586 didn't let Emalee come live in her house with us. 571 00:26:19,965 --> 00:26:20,931 So, I owe her a lot, 572 00:26:20,931 --> 00:26:23,310 even if it's not the easiest situation. 573 00:26:24,379 --> 00:26:26,724 I'm so tired and cold 574 00:26:27,344 --> 00:26:28,896 and I didn't brush my teeth. 575 00:26:30,379 --> 00:26:32,241 Why don't you want to brush your teeth? 576 00:26:32,241 --> 00:26:33,482 I did... 577 00:26:35,103 --> 00:26:37,310 - Or every day? - Yeah. 578 00:26:39,275 --> 00:26:40,482 I'm trying to be nice 579 00:26:40,482 --> 00:26:42,862 cause I could say some really mean things right now. 580 00:26:42,862 --> 00:26:44,413 I think 16-year old boys 581 00:26:44,413 --> 00:26:48,000 have a lot of maturing up to do. 582 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,724 And now that he is a father he's gonna need to grow up. 583 00:26:54,241 --> 00:26:56,000 I'm not excited driving you 584 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,000 - to school right now. - Mm-hm. 585 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,206 I'm not excited to go to school right now. 586 00:27:07,482 --> 00:27:09,517 Can I just drop you off in front of the office? 587 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,310 This is where I'm parking. 588 00:27:21,172 --> 00:27:23,413 - I'm not picking you up. - Thought you can. 589 00:27:25,689 --> 00:27:28,034 Nate doesn't have his license yet 590 00:27:28,034 --> 00:27:32,586 so I'm driving Nate to school, home from school, to work 591 00:27:32,586 --> 00:27:34,689 which is just annoying 592 00:27:34,689 --> 00:27:37,310 especially because he knows how hard it is 593 00:27:37,310 --> 00:27:38,620 to take care of the baby. 594 00:27:40,172 --> 00:27:42,551 Um, can you hurry up so he doesn't get fussy. 595 00:27:42,551 --> 00:27:43,724 I'm trying. 596 00:27:51,137 --> 00:27:53,482 I know, baba, I'm sorry. 597 00:27:54,241 --> 00:27:56,413 I think I'm starting to resent Nate 598 00:27:57,275 --> 00:27:58,758 and that scares me. 599 00:27:59,689 --> 00:28:03,758 I don't know sooner or later whether things will get better 600 00:28:03,758 --> 00:28:05,275 but at this point 601 00:28:05,896 --> 00:28:07,517 I'm not sure. 602 00:28:12,862 --> 00:28:14,344 It should. 603 00:28:14,344 --> 00:28:16,000 Let's get this baby coming. 604 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,000 I just want him out. 605 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,965 Yeah, but once the Pitocin does start 606 00:28:18,965 --> 00:28:21,275 things get real painful. 607 00:28:21,275 --> 00:28:23,724 Kinda little token of commitment in my pocket. 608 00:28:23,724 --> 00:28:25,344 Oh! 609 00:28:38,896 --> 00:28:41,551 ♪ I will be lost without you I will be lost without you ♪ 610 00:28:41,551 --> 00:28:43,655 ♪ I will be lost without you 611 00:28:43,655 --> 00:28:45,551 We have arrived. 612 00:28:45,551 --> 00:28:47,724 Kinda little token of commitment in my pocket. 613 00:28:48,586 --> 00:28:50,241 Before we all get out of the RV... 614 00:28:58,379 --> 00:29:00,655 I'm not expecting no early birthday gift but you can go ahead. 615 00:29:00,655 --> 00:29:02,275 It wasn't for you. It was more like, you know. 616 00:29:02,275 --> 00:29:03,551 You talking to me so I thought. 617 00:29:03,551 --> 00:29:05,137 I can't-- No, I looked at her. 618 00:29:05,137 --> 00:29:06,137 Oh, okay. 619 00:29:06,137 --> 00:29:07,344 You want me to get out of the way? 620 00:29:07,344 --> 00:29:08,413 Nah, you good. 621 00:29:13,586 --> 00:29:16,068 I wanna do this in front of everyone so y'all can like, 622 00:29:16,068 --> 00:29:18,172 know, it's serious, for real. 623 00:29:19,586 --> 00:29:21,344 Saw him reaching into his pocket 624 00:29:21,344 --> 00:29:23,758 I'm like, "Why you reaching into your pocket for? 625 00:29:23,758 --> 00:29:25,551 You know. What you reaching for, a penny? 626 00:29:25,551 --> 00:29:27,896 I'm like, What else could he be reaching for? 627 00:29:27,896 --> 00:29:29,275 This a little, you know. 628 00:29:29,275 --> 00:29:31,448 Oh, it's backwards. Oh! 629 00:29:31,448 --> 00:29:33,724 It's not crazy. You wanna open it? 630 00:29:34,241 --> 00:29:35,655 You want me to open it? 631 00:29:35,655 --> 00:29:37,413 - Okay. - Show it around to everyone. 632 00:29:40,482 --> 00:29:41,724 Let me see. 633 00:29:41,724 --> 00:29:43,793 Let me see... Oh! 634 00:29:43,793 --> 00:29:46,172 I'm really shocked that he 635 00:29:46,172 --> 00:29:49,793 did this in front of my whole family because 636 00:29:49,793 --> 00:29:52,482 he won't even give me a hug in front of my family 637 00:29:52,482 --> 00:29:54,413 so, why you giving me a ring? 638 00:29:55,586 --> 00:29:57,586 Dede, he's not that romantic. 639 00:29:57,586 --> 00:29:59,310 He tries but, 640 00:29:59,310 --> 00:30:01,068 "Why would you wanna propose like this, like?" 641 00:30:01,068 --> 00:30:03,724 I can't tell him how to do it 642 00:30:03,724 --> 00:30:06,655 but definitely not on a RV. 643 00:30:06,655 --> 00:30:11,068 Like, my hair wasn't even how I wanted it to be, like. 644 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,655 Look, even Aniyis opened up her eyes. 645 00:30:15,310 --> 00:30:16,275 Tre how do you do it? 646 00:30:16,275 --> 00:30:18,586 Go ahead. Do your thing. What's that? 647 00:30:18,586 --> 00:30:19,965 Is that an engagement ring? 648 00:30:19,965 --> 00:30:21,586 Nah, it's a little promise ring. 649 00:30:21,793 --> 00:30:23,793 Oh, wow. 650 00:30:23,793 --> 00:30:27,344 Marriage is to me, you know, if that's what you into. 651 00:30:27,344 --> 00:30:29,482 It could potentially make life 652 00:30:29,482 --> 00:30:31,827 easier but it's not mandatory. 653 00:30:32,793 --> 00:30:34,241 In my opinion, for me. 654 00:30:34,241 --> 00:30:36,172 I don't know how she feels, but, 655 00:30:36,172 --> 00:30:39,068 as far as a promise ring, um, 656 00:30:40,551 --> 00:30:42,379 I've had promise rings... 657 00:30:43,689 --> 00:30:46,000 and the promises were not kept. 658 00:30:46,896 --> 00:30:49,310 I would marry Dede if he was to ask me. 659 00:30:49,586 --> 00:30:51,448 But, my mom 660 00:30:51,448 --> 00:30:53,344 she's not really, like, a team player. 661 00:30:53,344 --> 00:30:55,241 She'd rather do it all herself. 662 00:30:55,241 --> 00:30:57,310 I've never heard my mom, 663 00:30:57,310 --> 00:30:59,655 call any of our dads her baby daddy 664 00:30:59,655 --> 00:31:01,724 cause she doesn't even claim that she knows them. 665 00:31:03,413 --> 00:31:05,241 So, you know, 666 00:31:06,103 --> 00:31:09,000 it wasn't even, it wasn't even a chance 667 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,724 that she would get married. 668 00:31:16,482 --> 00:31:18,137 I don't know what she's talking about. 669 00:31:19,482 --> 00:31:21,275 So, what's the promise? What's the commitment? 670 00:31:21,275 --> 00:31:23,413 Yeah, what's the promise? What's the promise? 671 00:31:23,413 --> 00:31:25,000 Gotta make sure you're specific now. 672 00:31:25,689 --> 00:31:27,241 What was the question? 673 00:31:27,241 --> 00:31:29,068 Do y'all plan on getting married? 674 00:31:32,137 --> 00:31:33,379 I... 675 00:31:33,379 --> 00:31:36,206 I don't got no answer like, no type of answer to that. 676 00:31:36,896 --> 00:31:39,034 I'm ready to get for her a promise ring 677 00:31:39,034 --> 00:31:40,413 but marriage that's like 678 00:31:40,413 --> 00:31:42,482 a whole another level of commitment. 679 00:31:42,482 --> 00:31:44,931 And, a lot of things have to happen before that happens. 680 00:31:45,793 --> 00:31:47,068 Like a lot. 681 00:31:47,068 --> 00:31:48,620 Thank you, boo. 682 00:31:49,241 --> 00:31:51,000 Mm-hm. 683 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,068 Speaking of marriage, 684 00:31:52,068 --> 00:31:53,551 what are your plans for the future? 685 00:31:53,551 --> 00:31:55,413 Um, going into military. 686 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,068 All right. What branch? 687 00:31:58,068 --> 00:31:59,517 - Air Force. - Air Force. 688 00:31:59,517 --> 00:32:00,896 - Yes. Yeah. - That's a good choice. 689 00:32:00,896 --> 00:32:02,655 What, what kind of work you plan on looking at? 690 00:32:02,655 --> 00:32:05,000 - Uh, Air Traffic Controller. - ATC. 691 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,655 - Yeah. - All right, that'll work. 692 00:32:06,655 --> 00:32:08,896 He's showing that he's, uh, 693 00:32:08,896 --> 00:32:11,482 uh, accepting his responsibility. 694 00:32:11,482 --> 00:32:14,517 And just, hoping just keeps it up. 695 00:32:14,517 --> 00:32:16,655 If you ask me do I think that she should get married right now? 696 00:32:16,655 --> 00:32:18,068 Uh-huh, absolutely not. 697 00:32:18,896 --> 00:32:20,275 That's just me. 698 00:32:20,275 --> 00:32:22,241 Because I think that they're young 699 00:32:22,241 --> 00:32:23,551 and they need to live 700 00:32:23,551 --> 00:32:26,827 versus getting married and then realizing 701 00:32:26,827 --> 00:32:27,758 it's another world out there 702 00:32:27,758 --> 00:32:29,965 and they go different directions. 703 00:32:29,965 --> 00:32:33,172 Never probably what she really wants to hear 704 00:32:33,172 --> 00:32:34,517 but it's the truth. 705 00:32:34,862 --> 00:32:36,586 So, you know. 706 00:32:37,689 --> 00:32:40,482 I did 20 in, uh, in the Navy. 707 00:32:40,482 --> 00:32:43,000 And, uh, one thing you gotta keep in mind, um, 708 00:32:43,793 --> 00:32:46,344 you gonna be assigned different places and, 709 00:32:46,344 --> 00:32:48,586 your family doesn't come in your sea bag. 710 00:32:48,586 --> 00:32:50,827 So, all your sea bag goes with you 711 00:32:50,827 --> 00:32:53,172 when you go on diplomas and stuff, so. 712 00:32:53,172 --> 00:32:55,275 That's something you wanna keep in mind too. 713 00:32:55,275 --> 00:32:57,172 That's separation. 714 00:32:58,172 --> 00:33:00,413 And being a dad I can't be broke. 715 00:33:00,413 --> 00:33:02,000 So, I've been trying to go into the military 716 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,241 for this thing called Air Traffic Controller. 717 00:33:04,241 --> 00:33:05,793 It makes a lot of money. 718 00:33:05,793 --> 00:33:08,000 I could possibly retire at 38. 719 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,827 Um, if I would serve at 38 I'd do my years 720 00:33:10,827 --> 00:33:13,068 still get all the benefits and the pay for the rest of my life. 721 00:33:13,068 --> 00:33:15,551 So, I feel like it's pretty worth it. 722 00:33:15,551 --> 00:33:18,172 And I just can't stay here and make minimum wage. 723 00:33:18,172 --> 00:33:21,000 It's not good for anybody. 724 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,689 I don't really care about the money that come with it. 725 00:33:27,586 --> 00:33:29,758 Tre, you see, that's your problem. 726 00:33:29,758 --> 00:33:33,068 I'm not too fond of Dede joining the military 727 00:33:33,068 --> 00:33:35,137 simply because it is really dangerous 728 00:33:35,137 --> 00:33:37,482 and very time consuming and like, 729 00:33:37,482 --> 00:33:39,137 I don't want Aniyis 730 00:33:39,137 --> 00:33:41,965 to forget him before he could even remember him. 731 00:33:41,965 --> 00:33:43,689 'Cause Aniyis is just a baby. 732 00:33:44,379 --> 00:33:46,379 So, I just feel like, we should just, 733 00:33:46,379 --> 00:33:48,551 stay together, stay cooped up. 734 00:33:48,551 --> 00:33:50,827 But, I'm just gonna have to, 735 00:33:50,827 --> 00:33:53,000 build the courage to talk about it to him 736 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:56,068 sooner or later, more so sooner. 737 00:33:56,379 --> 00:33:57,724 You know, cause 738 00:33:58,172 --> 00:33:59,241 time's ticking. 739 00:34:13,344 --> 00:34:14,413 I hear a baby. 740 00:34:20,793 --> 00:34:23,172 Why's everybody having a baby before me? 741 00:34:24,034 --> 00:34:26,310 They just got here. 742 00:34:26,310 --> 00:34:28,827 Kayleigh has started her induction over 24 hours ago 743 00:34:28,827 --> 00:34:31,275 and they've given her three types of medication and, 744 00:34:31,586 --> 00:34:33,000 still no dilation. 745 00:34:33,482 --> 00:34:35,000 And on top of all of that 746 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:36,517 every time a baby is born on this floor 747 00:34:36,517 --> 00:34:37,586 they play a lullaby 748 00:34:37,586 --> 00:34:39,137 and it's like a slap in the face. 749 00:34:39,965 --> 00:34:41,862 Another baby. 750 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:44,931 It's 11:15 again. 751 00:34:45,482 --> 00:34:46,482 What the hay! 752 00:34:46,482 --> 00:34:48,724 It was 11:15 last night when it went off. 753 00:34:49,448 --> 00:34:52,000 We heard the lullaby, like, 20 times 754 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,000 and I'm getting so mad at this point 755 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,482 because I'm still at zero centimeters 756 00:34:55,482 --> 00:34:57,724 when everybody else is just having their baby. 757 00:35:10,103 --> 00:35:12,000 It really have to have a trick. 758 00:35:17,275 --> 00:35:18,620 It's not fair, is it? 759 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:25,862 I can't for the life of me figure out 760 00:35:25,862 --> 00:35:27,793 what Rob is doing here. 761 00:35:28,896 --> 00:35:31,000 It's like being at the restaurant and you sit down to eat 762 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:32,586 then five other people sit down. 763 00:35:32,586 --> 00:35:34,517 You're like, "They all got their food before us. 764 00:35:34,517 --> 00:35:37,931 I was here first. That's not fair." 765 00:35:38,344 --> 00:35:39,620 The plan was, 766 00:35:40,275 --> 00:35:44,000 Bekki was to stay to support Graham 767 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,827 but then Bekki left. 768 00:35:46,655 --> 00:35:47,620 Love you. 769 00:35:47,620 --> 00:35:48,931 Love you. Love you. Love you. 770 00:35:52,344 --> 00:35:53,724 - Okay. - Okay. 771 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,827 - Love you. - Love you. 772 00:36:00,068 --> 00:36:01,724 Uh, where'd your mom go? 773 00:36:02,896 --> 00:36:04,620 Uh, she's like... 774 00:36:08,862 --> 00:36:10,448 So now, there's basically 775 00:36:10,448 --> 00:36:12,931 this stranger in the room that keeps chiming in. 776 00:36:16,862 --> 00:36:18,482 You hear a baby. 777 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,241 Well. 778 00:36:20,241 --> 00:36:22,655 Man, she's pissed. She got to this restaurant first 779 00:36:22,655 --> 00:36:24,000 and those people got served. 780 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,517 No wonder. 781 00:36:27,172 --> 00:36:28,689 That's the worst part. 782 00:36:30,965 --> 00:36:32,000 So, make sure you eat. 783 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,344 This will be your last time eating. 784 00:36:33,344 --> 00:36:36,586 So, Pitocin starts then it's just ice chips. 785 00:36:36,586 --> 00:36:38,793 It sound good? You have any questions for me? 786 00:36:39,448 --> 00:36:40,482 Yeah... 787 00:36:44,551 --> 00:36:46,068 It should. 788 00:36:46,068 --> 00:36:48,000 Whenever they said I could start that Pitocin 789 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,000 I was like, "Let's get this baby coming." 790 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,448 I just want him out. 791 00:36:51,448 --> 00:36:53,482 Yes, but once the Pitocin does start 792 00:36:53,482 --> 00:36:55,586 things get real painful. 793 00:36:58,241 --> 00:36:59,724 That was [bleep]. 794 00:37:00,103 --> 00:37:01,517 Aden and I went to court 795 00:37:01,517 --> 00:37:04,068 to discuss our custody agreement about Luca 796 00:37:04,068 --> 00:37:06,689 and it went about as poorly as it could. 797 00:37:06,689 --> 00:37:10,310 I haven't asked that mother [bleep] anything. 798 00:37:10,448 --> 00:37:11,620 I haven't. 799 00:37:11,620 --> 00:37:13,931 I haven't done anything to him. 800 00:37:13,931 --> 00:37:15,724 I don't want anything from him. 801 00:37:21,379 --> 00:37:24,000 ♪ Your voice Running at night ♪ 802 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:28,068 ♪ Underneath the covers When you tell it in your arms Tonight ♪ 803 00:37:31,482 --> 00:37:33,000 That was [bleep]. 804 00:37:36,103 --> 00:37:37,620 You need to get ahold of him. 805 00:37:38,482 --> 00:37:40,172 You guys need to work something out. 806 00:37:41,241 --> 00:37:43,241 Today, Aden and I went to court 807 00:37:43,241 --> 00:37:46,068 to discuss our custody agreement about Luca 808 00:37:46,068 --> 00:37:48,620 and it went about as poorly as it could. 809 00:37:49,448 --> 00:37:51,000 He got everything he wanted 810 00:37:52,896 --> 00:37:54,758 and then some. 811 00:37:54,758 --> 00:37:57,310 After only hearing from Aden and I's lawyers 812 00:37:57,310 --> 00:38:00,068 and not looking at a single piece of evidence 813 00:38:00,068 --> 00:38:01,344 the judge agreed with Aden. 814 00:38:01,344 --> 00:38:04,034 And, that means giving Luca to Aden 815 00:38:04,034 --> 00:38:05,931 every other weekend, 816 00:38:05,931 --> 00:38:07,586 every Wednesday 817 00:38:07,586 --> 00:38:10,758 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm and every other Monday 818 00:38:10,758 --> 00:38:12,275 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm 819 00:38:12,275 --> 00:38:16,724 which makes it impossible for me to be in Myrtle Beach. 820 00:38:20,344 --> 00:38:22,137 I'm not living here. 821 00:38:24,862 --> 00:38:27,241 - What's your plan? - I don't know. 822 00:38:29,172 --> 00:38:31,137 What are my options? 823 00:38:31,137 --> 00:38:32,827 Have you tried to make contact with Aden? 824 00:38:32,827 --> 00:38:34,275 Yes, we're talking. 825 00:38:34,275 --> 00:38:36,344 I said, "Hey, can we figure something out until the third?" 826 00:38:36,344 --> 00:38:37,551 He said, "Yes. 827 00:38:37,551 --> 00:38:38,965 Leave Luca with me until the third." 828 00:38:38,965 --> 00:38:40,724 I can't leave Luca for ten days. 829 00:38:40,724 --> 00:38:42,724 Can we figure out something practical, please? 830 00:38:43,586 --> 00:38:45,172 Son of a bitch. You should have that little 831 00:38:45,172 --> 00:38:47,413 - come over to the house. - Why? 832 00:38:47,413 --> 00:38:48,758 Sit down, talk about it. 833 00:38:48,758 --> 00:38:50,724 He's not gonna to come there and talk. 834 00:38:50,724 --> 00:38:53,000 - He won. - I know he won. 835 00:38:53,482 --> 00:38:55,068 He has all the leverage. 836 00:38:55,068 --> 00:38:57,793 I'm not ever dropping child support again. 837 00:38:58,896 --> 00:39:00,034 - We come to an agreement-- - He, 838 00:39:00,034 --> 00:39:03,172 is going to pay me until he legally doesn't have to. 839 00:39:04,241 --> 00:39:07,482 I'm never doing that ever again. 840 00:39:07,482 --> 00:39:10,724 Aden is the one who agreed for me to move to Myrtle 841 00:39:10,724 --> 00:39:13,034 in exchange for him not to pay child support. 842 00:39:13,034 --> 00:39:16,620 So, for him to get lawyers involved is just ridiculous. 843 00:39:16,620 --> 00:39:19,034 Let me tell you, it's a lot of money 844 00:39:19,034 --> 00:39:20,965 and it's stressing me out 845 00:39:20,965 --> 00:39:22,310 because you know, this money 846 00:39:22,310 --> 00:39:24,344 it feels like it's going to waste. 847 00:39:24,344 --> 00:39:26,758 Like, I'm just dishing out thousands of dollars 848 00:39:26,758 --> 00:39:28,586 to an attorney and Aden's doing the same. 849 00:39:28,586 --> 00:39:30,689 Could you imagine if we put everything we both spent 850 00:39:30,689 --> 00:39:32,931 to a [bleep] account for Luca? 851 00:39:32,931 --> 00:39:35,206 Are you kidding? Like, he would have so much money. 852 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:37,448 For real. 853 00:39:37,448 --> 00:39:39,517 It's like, what did I just spend money on? 854 00:39:40,793 --> 00:39:41,931 For what? 855 00:39:44,655 --> 00:39:46,275 For what? 856 00:39:46,275 --> 00:39:47,896 You're, you're blocking the inter-- 857 00:39:47,896 --> 00:39:49,068 Oh, my God. 858 00:39:49,068 --> 00:39:51,724 Jenna, you have to pay attention to what's going on. 859 00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:56,413 You need to work it out. 860 00:39:58,103 --> 00:40:00,689 Like, as soon as you can just come to grips with that 861 00:40:00,689 --> 00:40:03,517 and understand it, you gotta go, "Okay, let's figure it out now." 862 00:40:03,517 --> 00:40:05,586 That's when things can get better. 863 00:40:05,586 --> 00:40:07,241 - You figure out-- - I'm not bargaining 864 00:40:07,241 --> 00:40:08,689 with this little [bleep]... 865 00:40:08,689 --> 00:40:10,689 - You-- - ...on how to live my life. 866 00:40:10,689 --> 00:40:12,827 Like it's bull 867 00:40:12,827 --> 00:40:15,000 - Oh, we... - Okay. 868 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,586 You're out in the intersection. 869 00:40:17,551 --> 00:40:19,482 - All right. - Holy [bleep]. 870 00:40:19,482 --> 00:40:20,965 What, you're, you're yelling at me. 871 00:40:20,965 --> 00:40:23,689 - What are you-- You're gonna get us killed. - Stop! Okay. 872 00:40:29,689 --> 00:40:31,827 - You need to get your head straight for right now. - Yeah. 873 00:40:31,827 --> 00:40:34,310 For real. Like, that's most important. 874 00:40:38,862 --> 00:40:42,413 This whole custody battle's ruining everything for me. 875 00:40:42,413 --> 00:40:44,586 And it's just a really big slap in the face as a mom 876 00:40:44,586 --> 00:40:47,413 because I do everything for Luca. 877 00:40:49,379 --> 00:40:52,275 I'm not saying I don't think Aden deserves time with him, 878 00:40:52,275 --> 00:40:55,344 - I do. I'm not a bitch. - He does. 879 00:40:55,344 --> 00:40:57,172 But, I want to live my life. 880 00:40:57,172 --> 00:41:00,758 I haven't asked that mother [bleep] for anything. 881 00:41:00,758 --> 00:41:02,000 I haven't. 882 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,103 I haven't done anything to him. 883 00:41:04,103 --> 00:41:06,137 I don't want anything from him. 884 00:41:07,137 --> 00:41:10,000 I hate it here. I don't wanna be here. 885 00:41:11,482 --> 00:41:13,275 I just wanted to go away 886 00:41:13,275 --> 00:41:16,275 cause it's not about Luca, it's not. 887 00:41:16,275 --> 00:41:19,103 I think now that I'm happy in Myrtle with JJ, 888 00:41:19,103 --> 00:41:20,793 he wants to mess that up. 889 00:41:21,586 --> 00:41:23,482 And, it's dawning on me now 890 00:41:23,482 --> 00:41:26,620 that I'm really stuck here until I can appeal this. 891 00:41:26,620 --> 00:41:29,413 And you know, I'm worried that there's no way in hell 892 00:41:29,413 --> 00:41:32,000 that Aden's gonna agree to anything I want. 893 00:41:33,344 --> 00:41:35,103 Ah, it's not good. 894 00:41:37,586 --> 00:41:39,793 Next time on Unexpected. 895 00:41:39,793 --> 00:41:41,000 What are y'all doing tonight? 896 00:41:44,241 --> 00:41:45,827 I'm not planning my [bleep]. 897 00:41:45,827 --> 00:41:47,620 So, why aren't you gonna tell them 898 00:41:47,620 --> 00:41:49,827 you're not interested in having no strippers? 899 00:41:51,275 --> 00:41:54,000 Because of who Aden's lawyer is, 900 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,413 you need a go-getter that's not afraid of anybody. 901 00:41:56,413 --> 00:41:58,137 And I'll help you with it. 902 00:41:58,137 --> 00:42:00,068 I have no respect for Aden. 903 00:42:00,068 --> 00:42:02,000 I'll buy him a ticket to come down here 904 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,793 when he's ready to fight after seeing this. 905 00:42:03,793 --> 00:42:05,448 Ah, stop it. 906 00:42:05,448 --> 00:42:06,620 Hear people stories 907 00:42:06,620 --> 00:42:08,689 when they be in the military they be living it up. 908 00:42:08,689 --> 00:42:11,068 Cause I know you not just 24/7 bootcamp. 909 00:42:11,068 --> 00:42:13,000 Kinda feel like all men cheat. 910 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,931 - Wow. - So, I don't really think, 911 00:42:14,931 --> 00:42:17,586 any relationship is 100 percent secure. 912 00:42:21,586 --> 00:42:24,172 do you wanna get smacked in the freaking face? Shut up. 913 00:42:24,172 --> 00:42:26,034 Easton was face up 914 00:42:26,034 --> 00:42:27,551 and they needed him face down. 915 00:42:27,551 --> 00:42:29,827 I need you to just stop. 916 00:42:29,827 --> 00:42:31,931 They're fixing the emergency C-section 917 00:42:31,931 --> 00:42:33,068 cause he won't come out. 918 00:42:33,068 --> 00:42:34,965 I was feeling pretty scared.