1 00:00:10,944 --> 00:00:12,154 Previously on Unexpected... 2 00:00:15,182 --> 00:00:17,522 Like, we’re over the honeymoon phase. 3 00:00:17,551 --> 00:00:19,551 You need to talk to me more, Aden. 4 00:00:21,855 --> 00:00:24,115 I just wish everything was better. 5 00:00:26,660 --> 00:00:29,660 Moving in with Jason was the first time I haven’t lived with my parents. 6 00:00:29,696 --> 00:00:30,996 Now I feel bad. 7 00:00:31,031 --> 00:00:33,571 Why would you feel bad about moving out of your parents’ house? 8 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:35,340 You should feel good about that. 9 00:00:35,369 --> 00:00:37,999 I kind of feel like I’m being left out. 10 00:00:38,038 --> 00:00:40,908 It’s had to tell her, ’cause Jason’s there. 11 00:00:40,941 --> 00:00:45,011 I just feel like Jason stole my baby and he’s brainwashing her. 12 00:00:45,045 --> 00:00:46,345 I want her back. 13 00:00:46,380 --> 00:00:47,250 Hey, baby. 14 00:00:48,682 --> 00:00:51,792 It’s gonna be so hard not to be at the hospital with Emersyn. 15 00:00:51,818 --> 00:00:54,218 And I’m gonna be on pins and needles the whole time. 16 00:00:55,455 --> 00:00:56,955 The pain’s so unbearable. 17 00:00:56,990 --> 00:00:58,020 It’s, like, "What’s happening?" 18 00:01:00,661 --> 00:01:04,101 Maybe the reasoning for Tyra not coming is because Alex is in town. 19 00:01:04,131 --> 00:01:06,431 I feel like she’s just holding on to faith that he will change, 20 00:01:06,466 --> 00:01:09,136 but I don’t think Alex can just decide, 21 00:01:09,169 --> 00:01:11,909 "Oh, I’m gonna be a good man, I’m not gonna cheat anymore." 22 00:01:11,939 --> 00:01:14,039 She makes my life miserable on this couch. 23 00:01:16,109 --> 00:01:17,709 Something’s going on with my car. 24 00:01:17,744 --> 00:01:18,714 We needed to get to the hospital, 25 00:01:18,745 --> 00:01:21,075 because the baby is losing oxygen. 26 00:01:21,114 --> 00:01:22,784 Call Tyra and see if we can borrow her car. 27 00:01:22,816 --> 00:01:24,576 She’s trying to take her anger out on me, 28 00:01:24,618 --> 00:01:28,348 but if there was ever a time where I needed Tyra the most, it would be, like, right now. 29 00:01:37,798 --> 00:01:39,468 Should I get the meat and cheese out? 30 00:01:39,499 --> 00:01:40,529 Sure. 31 00:01:40,567 --> 00:01:42,167 Hey, what time are the guests showing up? 32 00:01:43,103 --> 00:01:44,003 I don’t know. 33 00:01:44,037 --> 00:01:45,167 -Soon. -Soon? 34 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,740 -You better eat fast. -Why? 35 00:01:52,212 --> 00:01:54,352 Jason, it’s not even gonna be done. 36 00:01:55,983 --> 00:01:58,153 -Can you stop? -Go. 37 00:01:58,185 --> 00:01:59,325 Yeah, I know, Mom. 38 00:02:00,487 --> 00:02:03,217 My parents are coming over to Scott and Heidi’s 39 00:02:03,256 --> 00:02:05,886 and we’re having a barbecue, because... 40 00:02:13,834 --> 00:02:16,104 -Nice hat, Jason. -This is our seats? 41 00:02:16,136 --> 00:02:18,236 -That one or this one? -No, that’s my seat and that’s Mike’s seat. 42 00:02:20,807 --> 00:02:21,737 You can have the seat you want. 43 00:02:22,876 --> 00:02:24,306 But that’s Mike’s, that’s mine. 44 00:02:26,046 --> 00:02:28,006 When you’re a daddy, you can pick your seat. 45 00:02:28,749 --> 00:02:29,619 I am. 46 00:02:29,650 --> 00:02:31,520 You’re not a daddy yet. 47 00:02:31,551 --> 00:02:33,591 I don’t think you should worry about seeing your parents 48 00:02:33,620 --> 00:02:35,960 when we have a whole different frickin’ 49 00:02:35,989 --> 00:02:38,589 human being to worry about in a week. 50 00:02:38,625 --> 00:02:41,955 Oh, okay, that’s why we have been hanging out 51 00:02:41,995 --> 00:02:44,255 with your friends for the past two weeks. 52 00:02:44,297 --> 00:02:45,797 -It has not been two weeks, but a week. -Every day. 53 00:02:46,867 --> 00:02:48,767 -No it hasn’t. -Yeah, it has. 54 00:02:48,802 --> 00:02:51,442 Yeah, it’s ’cause I’m not gonna see them for, like, year. 55 00:02:52,506 --> 00:02:53,236 My point. 56 00:02:57,210 --> 00:02:59,750 Everyone in the world sees their parents. 57 00:03:00,981 --> 00:03:01,681 That’s not true. 58 00:03:04,685 --> 00:03:07,025 Every time my parents are around, Jason gets 59 00:03:07,054 --> 00:03:09,094 annoyed with stuff and it pisses me off. 60 00:03:12,392 --> 00:03:14,292 Is that all we need out here right now? 61 00:03:14,327 --> 00:03:15,957 Looks good, Heidi. 62 00:03:15,996 --> 00:03:17,926 All right, just waiting for the guests. 63 00:03:17,964 --> 00:03:21,334 It’s important that Mike and Marie are welcome at our house, 64 00:03:21,368 --> 00:03:24,238 so that they can see their daughter. 65 00:03:24,271 --> 00:03:30,081 But I’m not sure if Jason wants to share Kylen with them. 66 00:03:33,180 --> 00:03:36,250 We invited them over for a cookout and we end up going over there. 67 00:03:36,283 --> 00:03:37,783 Why can’t they come to our house? 68 00:03:38,819 --> 00:03:40,889 Why can’t they come and visit us? 69 00:03:40,921 --> 00:03:45,261 I don’t know if it’s all Jason or Kylen. 70 00:03:45,726 --> 00:03:46,926 I want answers. 71 00:03:48,829 --> 00:03:51,529 Kylen’s in a jam, she don’t know what to do. 72 00:03:51,565 --> 00:03:54,005 And we can’t talk to her about it. 73 00:03:55,102 --> 00:03:57,072 I think that’s why he don’t wanna leave her alone, 74 00:03:57,104 --> 00:04:00,574 ’cause he’s afraid that she comes along with us. 75 00:04:00,607 --> 00:04:04,107 She’s gonna, all of a sudden, decide she don’t wanna go back. 76 00:04:05,679 --> 00:04:10,779 I feel he is purposely trying to keep her away from us. 77 00:04:10,817 --> 00:04:12,347 Yeah, I don’t know what’s going on. 78 00:04:12,385 --> 00:04:14,685 I haven’t seen her in a month. 79 00:04:14,721 --> 00:04:20,491 -And, you know, the time away makes your mind wander. -Yeah. 80 00:04:22,596 --> 00:04:26,526 I kind of get the feeling he don’t want nothing to do with... 81 00:04:26,566 --> 00:04:28,126 -Ours. -...our family at all. 82 00:04:29,236 --> 00:04:30,996 Sometimes, I think the kid’s nuts. 83 00:04:32,205 --> 00:04:34,765 If he’d actually relax and come and visit 84 00:04:34,808 --> 00:04:37,038 and stuff like that and do the normal stuff, 85 00:04:37,077 --> 00:04:38,707 I wouldn’t think bad about him. 86 00:04:38,745 --> 00:04:40,975 But, yes, I’m thinking bad of him. 87 00:04:41,815 --> 00:04:45,495 We need to have a talk with the kids. 88 00:04:45,519 --> 00:04:49,789 I mean, I’d like to know why they don’t want us around. 89 00:04:49,823 --> 00:04:52,493 You should be spending more time with your daughter. 90 00:04:52,526 --> 00:04:55,796 It’s bonding time and you never got that bonding time 91 00:04:55,829 --> 00:04:59,169 with your daughter to bond over... 92 00:04:59,199 --> 00:05:01,199 -I don’t even know... -...this grandchild’s even coming. 93 00:05:01,234 --> 00:05:05,514 ...if she knows I care, because I don’t know how to address it 94 00:05:05,539 --> 00:05:08,809 without him having an opinion or whatever, 95 00:05:08,842 --> 00:05:12,352 but I don’t wanna sabotage their relationship. 96 00:05:12,379 --> 00:05:14,609 I just wanna see my daughter more. 97 00:05:17,083 --> 00:05:18,153 Hey, your parents are here. 98 00:05:23,123 --> 00:05:25,563 Come on, let’s get this over with. 99 00:05:37,337 --> 00:05:38,067 Ella. 100 00:05:39,306 --> 00:05:40,206 What are you doing? 101 00:05:42,809 --> 00:05:44,109 Are you playing? 102 00:05:44,144 --> 00:05:45,314 Yes, I’m here. 103 00:05:47,247 --> 00:05:48,977 Okay. 104 00:05:49,015 --> 00:05:52,545 It’s been a couple weeks since I left Kentucky to be back in Maryland. 105 00:05:52,586 --> 00:05:54,916 Now that I’m back in Maryland, I found a doctor 106 00:05:54,955 --> 00:05:57,825 and my C-section is scheduled in one week. 107 00:05:57,858 --> 00:06:00,728 Having a C-section scheduled is a big relief for me, 108 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:05,430 because now I can kind of, like, get everything ready for my baby. 109 00:06:07,300 --> 00:06:08,630 What are you getting all those out for? 110 00:06:10,136 --> 00:06:11,566 I might get, um... 111 00:06:11,605 --> 00:06:13,245 Put more on the board and then I’m gonna take a picture in her crib. 112 00:06:16,843 --> 00:06:20,953 I’m very excited, ’cause I’m putting together Ensley a boho-themed nursery. 113 00:06:20,981 --> 00:06:22,251 I got the ideas off Pinterest. 114 00:06:23,216 --> 00:06:24,876 I’ve been wanting to do that ever since, 115 00:06:24,918 --> 00:06:26,948 you know, I found out I was pregnant. 116 00:06:29,956 --> 00:06:32,086 It’s gonna be crazy if she comes out as a boy. 117 00:06:33,493 --> 00:06:37,233 It’s never 100% until the baby’s here. 118 00:06:42,903 --> 00:06:46,173 Dee insisted this baby is a boy, but it’s 100% a girl. 119 00:06:46,206 --> 00:06:48,066 And even if it is a boy, this theme is staying, 120 00:06:48,108 --> 00:06:51,378 because I’m putting in too much work for this nursery. 121 00:06:51,411 --> 00:06:53,911 And I’ve always known that I wanted the boho nursery theme. 122 00:06:58,685 --> 00:07:00,555 Seriously, though, I’m just glad this baby is healthy, 123 00:07:00,587 --> 00:07:02,257 because last time I was in Kentucky, 124 00:07:02,289 --> 00:07:04,559 I had a problem with my iron. 125 00:07:04,591 --> 00:07:05,861 They noticed that it was really low 126 00:07:05,892 --> 00:07:09,032 and the baby could be losing oxygen, so it’s very dangerous. 127 00:07:09,062 --> 00:07:12,632 ...baby on the monitor here, it’s just like that. 128 00:07:12,666 --> 00:07:14,826 I’ve drove out to the hospital and they checked out my iron. 129 00:07:14,868 --> 00:07:17,368 Everything was okay, the baby was safe. 130 00:07:17,404 --> 00:07:20,744 And they okayed me to fly back to Maryland, which was a huge relief, 131 00:07:20,774 --> 00:07:23,114 because I didn’t wanna stay in Kentucky longer than I had to. 132 00:07:26,212 --> 00:07:27,652 Are you taking a picture of it? 133 00:07:27,681 --> 00:07:30,151 -Mmm-hmm. -And then you’re gonna, like, post it now? 134 00:07:31,351 --> 00:07:32,621 Yeah. 135 00:07:32,652 --> 00:07:36,462 It’s cute, I like it and I want Tyra to see it. 136 00:07:36,489 --> 00:07:39,089 Tyra and I are fine now, but last time we were with each other, 137 00:07:39,125 --> 00:07:41,955 it was hectic, because when I needed to borrow her car 138 00:07:41,995 --> 00:07:44,765 for the hospital, we got into a fight, so she wouldn’t let me take it. 139 00:07:50,637 --> 00:07:52,767 If something happens to her baby, 140 00:07:52,806 --> 00:07:55,706 you just know, it’s your God damn fault. 141 00:07:57,911 --> 00:08:01,251 Tyra did apologize for the way that she acted. 142 00:08:01,281 --> 00:08:04,981 I just appreciate that she apologized and admitted she was wrong. 143 00:08:05,018 --> 00:08:06,348 Because, me put in that situation, 144 00:08:06,386 --> 00:08:07,816 like, I’m not good at admitting I’m wrong. 145 00:08:09,189 --> 00:08:11,689 Ask Dee how many times I apologize, I don’t apologize for . 146 00:08:14,894 --> 00:08:16,834 No, she’ll just... 147 00:08:16,863 --> 00:08:18,233 Switch it to it being your fault. 148 00:08:18,264 --> 00:08:22,444 Yeah, she’ll do that, or she’ll just act like it never happened. 149 00:08:22,469 --> 00:08:24,699 -And just, like... -You do the same thing. 150 00:08:24,738 --> 00:08:26,668 -...act normal. -When have you apologized to me? 151 00:08:26,706 --> 00:08:28,436 -I apologize all the time. -Okay. 152 00:08:28,475 --> 00:08:31,115 -I apologize for stuff that you do. -Okay. 153 00:08:33,046 --> 00:08:37,176 So, what’s up with Tyra? Do you know if she’s coming or not? 154 00:08:37,217 --> 00:08:40,117 -I don’t know if she’s coming or not yet. -Hmm. 155 00:08:40,153 --> 00:08:43,093 So I knew my mom is gonna come before I have the baby, 156 00:08:43,123 --> 00:08:44,693 and stay a couple of weeks after. 157 00:08:44,724 --> 00:08:47,564 I would love if my sister could come, but I’m not really sure 158 00:08:47,594 --> 00:08:50,004 what’s going on there, if she’s gonna come or not. 159 00:08:50,030 --> 00:08:52,800 I just hope if she comes, she doesn’t start anything 160 00:08:52,832 --> 00:08:54,802 because the last thing I need right now is more stress. 161 00:08:58,638 --> 00:09:00,468 I was looking at apartments. 162 00:09:00,507 --> 00:09:02,207 Apartments for you and Aden? 163 00:09:02,242 --> 00:09:04,712 No, just Luca and I. 164 00:09:04,744 --> 00:09:07,914 It’s a really big decision and I know it would really hurt Aden. 165 00:09:07,947 --> 00:09:11,117 I just need to figure out what I wanna do. 166 00:09:13,653 --> 00:09:16,693 Wake Mason, somebody needs to be by your side. 167 00:09:16,723 --> 00:09:20,293 This is the birth of his child and he’s asleep on the couch. 168 00:09:20,326 --> 00:09:21,726 That’s just not okay. 169 00:09:38,511 --> 00:09:40,311 Of course, Mason is sleeping. 170 00:09:45,652 --> 00:09:47,022 He’s snoring. 171 00:09:47,053 --> 00:09:49,493 I got my epidural around 5 in the morning. 172 00:09:49,522 --> 00:09:51,562 And I was 8 centimeters. 173 00:09:51,591 --> 00:09:54,991 And once they gave me the epidural, I fell right asleep. 174 00:09:55,028 --> 00:09:56,098 Because I needed it. 175 00:09:57,030 --> 00:10:00,430 And, um, I think, about... 176 00:10:00,467 --> 00:10:02,337 an hour and a half later, 177 00:10:02,368 --> 00:10:05,168 when I woke up from like this urge to push. 178 00:10:05,205 --> 00:10:07,545 it felt like I had to take a giant crap. 179 00:10:09,175 --> 00:10:10,805 And it was so much pressure. 180 00:10:15,715 --> 00:10:17,875 It got to the point where I couldn’t even control it, 181 00:10:17,917 --> 00:10:19,887 like, my body was doing it. 182 00:10:19,919 --> 00:10:22,819 And I was like, "Nurse, nurse." 183 00:10:22,856 --> 00:10:23,986 That’s when I called my mum. 184 00:10:27,127 --> 00:10:30,727 -Hi, honey. 185 00:10:32,332 --> 00:10:33,272 It does? 186 00:10:33,299 --> 00:10:35,229 I wonder why that hurts. 187 00:10:35,268 --> 00:10:37,438 The pressure you think? The baby coming down? 188 00:10:37,470 --> 00:10:38,440 It’s the pressure. 189 00:10:38,471 --> 00:10:39,671 Okay. 190 00:10:39,706 --> 00:10:43,476 It was so hard not to be at the hospital with Emersyn. 191 00:10:43,510 --> 00:10:48,350 Last night, um, I had a really difficult time sleeping. 192 00:10:48,381 --> 00:10:50,951 I had mom guilt the whole time. 193 00:10:50,984 --> 00:10:52,724 I... you know, I was holding my babies 194 00:10:52,752 --> 00:10:55,292 thinking, okay, I’m here because they’re smaller. 195 00:10:55,321 --> 00:10:56,961 And they needed me. 196 00:10:56,990 --> 00:11:02,160 But at the same time, I felt like my 18 year old also needed her mum. 197 00:11:02,195 --> 00:11:05,165 But that’s what happens when you and your daughter 198 00:11:05,198 --> 00:11:07,168 have babies 13 weeks apart. 199 00:11:07,700 --> 00:11:08,630 Yeah. 200 00:11:11,171 --> 00:11:13,141 And everybody’s sleeping? 201 00:11:13,173 --> 00:11:15,913 -Aww. 202 00:11:15,942 --> 00:11:17,712 You could wake ’em up if you need them. 203 00:11:22,415 --> 00:11:24,375 Did she tell you not to push? 204 00:11:29,789 --> 00:11:31,719 Well, call him honey. I your-- 205 00:11:33,092 --> 00:11:34,392 I know, honey. 206 00:11:34,427 --> 00:11:37,357 Wake Mason, somebody needs to be by your side 207 00:11:37,397 --> 00:11:38,527 to coach you. 208 00:11:38,565 --> 00:11:41,305 You don’t need to do this by yourself. 209 00:11:41,334 --> 00:11:43,544 And I thought, my God, what’s going on in there? 210 00:11:43,570 --> 00:11:46,470 She had two support people, my mom and Mason 211 00:11:46,506 --> 00:11:48,006 that were asleep... 212 00:11:48,041 --> 00:11:49,741 while she was 8 centimeters. 213 00:11:49,776 --> 00:11:52,306 I was just like, "Wake them up, wake them up!" 214 00:11:52,345 --> 00:11:54,755 Um, it was hard. It was really hard 215 00:11:54,781 --> 00:11:58,121 to listen from my end and not being able to do anything. 216 00:11:59,652 --> 00:12:03,422 You’re almost there, Emmy, you’re going really fast. 217 00:12:03,456 --> 00:12:06,156 -You’re doin’ a good job. 218 00:12:08,061 --> 00:12:11,131 Your baby is gonna be here soon, honey. 219 00:12:11,164 --> 00:12:13,904 It’s gonna be really tough right now, it’s the hardest probably. 220 00:12:13,933 --> 00:12:14,933 But you’re gonna be okay. 221 00:12:17,904 --> 00:12:19,474 Did Mason wake up yet? 222 00:12:23,776 --> 00:12:26,176 -Breathe. 223 00:12:29,115 --> 00:12:30,915 Okay, honey. Hang up if you need to. 224 00:12:30,950 --> 00:12:33,450 -Love you, too. Bye. 225 00:12:33,486 --> 00:12:34,786 Bye. 226 00:12:34,821 --> 00:12:38,191 I think it’s important to understand that Sai and I are still 227 00:12:38,224 --> 00:12:40,064 really getting to know Mason. 228 00:12:40,093 --> 00:12:42,233 Emersyn went over to his house a lot. 229 00:12:42,262 --> 00:12:46,232 But we... we had very few visits with Mason at our house. 230 00:12:46,266 --> 00:12:48,926 Um, because we didn’t let him spend the night. And, um... 231 00:12:50,503 --> 00:12:53,473 I thought things were going pretty good. 232 00:12:53,506 --> 00:12:57,636 Um, but Mason being asleep on the couch, 233 00:12:57,677 --> 00:12:59,347 that sends a red flag to me. 234 00:13:00,847 --> 00:13:04,277 These are the kids that stay awake playing video games all night. 235 00:13:04,317 --> 00:13:05,077 I have... 236 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,960 Um, I was disappointed. 237 00:13:18,598 --> 00:13:20,598 Let’s try waking Mason up. 238 00:13:29,108 --> 00:13:30,778 He is dead asleep. 239 00:13:33,780 --> 00:13:34,850 Your call has been-- 240 00:13:35,982 --> 00:13:38,222 This is the birth of his child. 241 00:13:38,251 --> 00:13:43,791 This is one of the most precious, exciting, um, moments of his life. 242 00:13:43,823 --> 00:13:45,763 And he’s asleep on the couch. 243 00:13:45,792 --> 00:13:48,332 It does not give me warm and fuzzies 244 00:13:48,361 --> 00:13:51,161 about what kind of parent or partner he will be 245 00:13:51,197 --> 00:13:53,297 to Emersyn and Mateo in the future. 246 00:13:58,137 --> 00:13:59,937 Please leave your message-- 247 00:13:59,972 --> 00:14:03,312 Really bad way to start their life off as a family. 248 00:14:03,343 --> 00:14:08,253 Mason is about to miss the birth of his son and that’s just not okay. 249 00:14:18,257 --> 00:14:19,987 -You wanna walk? 250 00:14:21,627 --> 00:14:23,627 -There he goes. 251 00:14:23,663 --> 00:14:25,463 Here we go. 252 00:14:25,498 --> 00:14:27,368 -He loves it. 253 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:28,900 He’s into walking today. 254 00:14:28,935 --> 00:14:30,245 -Yeah. -Good job. 255 00:14:31,471 --> 00:14:33,271 It’s crazy. 256 00:14:33,306 --> 00:14:36,476 This week Luca took his first few steps. 257 00:14:37,076 --> 00:14:38,836 Did you? Yeah. 258 00:14:38,878 --> 00:14:41,478 -Yeah. 259 00:14:41,514 --> 00:14:45,784 Luca, literally, just stood up and he just took like five steps. 260 00:14:45,818 --> 00:14:50,518 It was insane. I wanted to like cry. 261 00:14:51,524 --> 00:14:53,434 ’Cause he’s not a baby anymore. 262 00:14:56,629 --> 00:14:57,799 Wanna sit down, baby? 263 00:15:01,401 --> 00:15:03,841 My goodness. It’s getting hot out. 264 00:15:07,006 --> 00:15:08,836 I get out of breath so quickly. 265 00:15:08,875 --> 00:15:11,645 I mean, you’re just carrying this weight around. 266 00:15:11,677 --> 00:15:12,947 This bowling ball. 267 00:15:13,980 --> 00:15:17,250 My sister was in Texas in college. 268 00:15:17,283 --> 00:15:20,693 She just came back right after Luca was born. 269 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,620 And I’m happy she moved back home. 270 00:15:24,390 --> 00:15:26,090 I go to Alyssa for everything. 271 00:15:26,125 --> 00:15:29,125 Like, when I’m dealing with issues with Aden. 272 00:15:29,162 --> 00:15:31,002 ’Cause even though we have different dad’s 273 00:15:31,030 --> 00:15:33,100 our relationship is really good. 274 00:15:33,132 --> 00:15:34,432 My sister knows everything. 275 00:15:35,101 --> 00:15:36,571 Down to like the T. 276 00:15:36,602 --> 00:15:39,342 -So how’s he been? How’s everything been? 277 00:15:41,908 --> 00:15:43,378 I was looking at apartments. 278 00:15:44,577 --> 00:15:46,177 Apartments for you and Aden? 279 00:15:46,212 --> 00:15:48,712 No. Just Luca and I. 280 00:15:51,050 --> 00:15:53,390 Why were you looking at apartments just for you guys? 281 00:15:53,419 --> 00:15:55,849 I just, I don’t know 282 00:15:55,888 --> 00:15:58,458 where Aden and I are gonna be in the next couple of months. 283 00:15:58,491 --> 00:15:59,961 Mmm-hmm. 284 00:15:59,992 --> 00:16:01,832 I just don’t know if we’re compatible. 285 00:16:01,861 --> 00:16:04,601 -Mmm-hmm. -You know? 286 00:16:04,630 --> 00:16:07,930 I do understand why Jenna would wanna look at places for her and Luca. 287 00:16:07,967 --> 00:16:10,937 Um, her and Aden still have a fairly new relationship. 288 00:16:10,970 --> 00:16:13,640 And then adding a baby in the mix just makes it much more stressful. 289 00:16:13,673 --> 00:16:17,713 But, I think Jenna is quick to make decisions sometimes, based off her emotions. 290 00:16:17,743 --> 00:16:21,153 And Jenna is a little naive in thinking she can get an apartment at 18, 291 00:16:21,180 --> 00:16:23,580 without a stable job, or a stable income. 292 00:16:23,616 --> 00:16:27,446 Um, but again, I just think that’s due to lack of real world experience. 293 00:16:27,487 --> 00:16:28,687 And that’ll come with time. 294 00:16:28,721 --> 00:16:30,921 You know, even I at 18 was probably naive 295 00:16:30,957 --> 00:16:33,387 as far as getting an apartment, or what first car to get. 296 00:16:33,426 --> 00:16:34,826 Think that everybody goes through that. 297 00:16:36,262 --> 00:16:38,262 As far as, like, you trying to get an apartment on your own. 298 00:16:38,297 --> 00:16:39,997 It’s a really, really big step. 299 00:16:40,032 --> 00:16:43,002 You have to prove, on paper, that you make three times the rent. 300 00:16:43,035 --> 00:16:44,795 -Yeah. -You’ll probably need a co-signer. 301 00:16:44,837 --> 00:16:49,377 Like yeah, see. He didn’t even like that idea either. 302 00:16:49,408 --> 00:16:51,278 You know, it’s just a lot harder than you think. 303 00:16:52,845 --> 00:16:55,905 I mean, like, so did you actually tour apartments? Like how serious did you... 304 00:16:55,948 --> 00:16:59,448 I didn’t tour any yet. I was just weighing out numbers. 305 00:16:59,485 --> 00:17:02,445 And looking in our area. 306 00:17:02,488 --> 00:17:06,528 I don’t have really my own money consistently. 307 00:17:06,993 --> 00:17:07,863 I... 308 00:17:08,594 --> 00:17:10,704 don’t have that independence. 309 00:17:10,730 --> 00:17:12,360 I just use Aden’s cards. 310 00:17:12,398 --> 00:17:13,868 He has... 311 00:17:13,900 --> 00:17:16,940 a card linked to his bank account for me and that’s just what I use. 312 00:17:17,703 --> 00:17:19,043 And I just don’t have credit. 313 00:17:19,071 --> 00:17:21,941 I don’t... I never got a credit card. 314 00:17:21,974 --> 00:17:26,214 I’ve never built... I never built my credit. 315 00:17:33,819 --> 00:17:35,619 I don’t know. 316 00:17:35,655 --> 00:17:38,825 I don’t know. I just know I don’t have any credit. 317 00:17:38,858 --> 00:17:41,588 I need to get some. Otherwise I can’t do anything. 318 00:17:43,396 --> 00:17:44,696 Which is stupid. 319 00:17:44,730 --> 00:17:46,900 How you supposed to buy something to build your credit, 320 00:17:46,933 --> 00:17:48,073 if they won’t approve you for it. 321 00:17:49,769 --> 00:17:51,869 You and Aden definitely need to talk more. 322 00:17:51,904 --> 00:17:54,514 And I think you guys need to make time for each other. 323 00:17:54,540 --> 00:17:58,640 -Because you don’t really ever spend time alone. Ever. -Yeah. 324 00:17:58,678 --> 00:18:01,978 And I don’t feel like you guys ever even got to date because you got pregnant right away. 325 00:18:02,014 --> 00:18:05,124 And so you guys never really even got to learn about each other, just who you are. 326 00:18:05,151 --> 00:18:07,991 Before taking on, like, all these responsibilities. 327 00:18:08,020 --> 00:18:11,520 But Aden is carrying the financial burden of your little family, 328 00:18:11,557 --> 00:18:12,317 that’s a lot. 329 00:18:12,725 --> 00:18:13,465 Yeah. 330 00:18:13,492 --> 00:18:16,702 He does do his part financially. 331 00:18:16,729 --> 00:18:19,999 And he is there for Luca. 332 00:18:20,032 --> 00:18:21,172 But he’s also... 333 00:18:22,535 --> 00:18:24,505 not necessarily there for me. 334 00:18:24,537 --> 00:18:25,697 If that makes sense. 335 00:18:25,738 --> 00:18:28,708 So, it’s hard. It’s a tough situation. 336 00:18:28,741 --> 00:18:32,681 But, it’s just not something that I can, like... 337 00:18:32,712 --> 00:18:34,482 just get up and leave right this minute. 338 00:18:34,513 --> 00:18:35,453 Just ’cause, I mean... 339 00:18:36,382 --> 00:18:38,222 I don’t know. 340 00:18:39,952 --> 00:18:40,892 It’s difficult. 341 00:18:42,355 --> 00:18:44,765 I mean, even just talking about it, you seem pretty nonchalant. 342 00:18:44,790 --> 00:18:48,290 But, if you do get your own space with you and Luca. 343 00:18:48,327 --> 00:18:51,197 Do you think that, you know, it’s gonna affect you differently then? 344 00:18:52,131 --> 00:18:54,201 -Um, maybe. -Think you’re gonna be sad? 345 00:18:54,233 --> 00:18:57,743 -You think you’re gonna feel emotional about it? -I’ll definitely be sad. 346 00:18:57,770 --> 00:19:01,340 -But, like, I won’t know until I live it. You know? -Yeah. 347 00:19:02,174 --> 00:19:03,814 -So it’s hard to say. -Mmm-hmm. 348 00:19:05,711 --> 00:19:07,981 If I were to move out, it’s a really big decision 349 00:19:08,014 --> 00:19:10,584 and I know it would really hurt Aden. 350 00:19:10,616 --> 00:19:13,986 So, I just need to figure out what I wanna do. 351 00:19:14,020 --> 00:19:17,660 But, in the meantime, I need to start looking for a job. 352 00:19:17,690 --> 00:19:21,330 Because I can’t even start to think about moving out, on my own, 353 00:19:21,360 --> 00:19:22,730 without any income. 354 00:19:24,463 --> 00:19:28,833 We just wanna take the next steps to be, like, alone and grownup. 355 00:19:28,868 --> 00:19:30,338 All their asking, dude, 356 00:19:30,369 --> 00:19:32,599 is to have a little involvement. That’s it. 357 00:19:32,638 --> 00:19:33,968 He’s my son, I made him. 358 00:19:34,006 --> 00:19:36,606 But, kinda lacks a little bit of compassion. 359 00:19:36,642 --> 00:19:37,812 And it sucks. 360 00:19:51,691 --> 00:19:54,131 Come on. Let’s get this over with. 361 00:19:55,061 --> 00:19:56,201 You wanna go help them? 362 00:19:57,363 --> 00:19:59,133 -We just got this. 363 00:20:00,433 --> 00:20:01,633 You guys want that out here? 364 00:20:02,702 --> 00:20:04,842 -You wanna go help them? -They’re good. 365 00:20:06,072 --> 00:20:06,912 How ya been, Mike? 366 00:20:06,939 --> 00:20:08,509 -How’s it going? -Good, buddy. 367 00:20:09,241 --> 00:20:11,311 Scott and Heidi have... 368 00:20:12,211 --> 00:20:13,611 invited us over. 369 00:20:13,646 --> 00:20:16,216 But, it doesn’t feel the same... 370 00:20:17,116 --> 00:20:20,246 to me unless the kids invite us. 371 00:20:21,454 --> 00:20:24,064 Or Jason invite us. 372 00:20:25,124 --> 00:20:27,394 You’d feel more welcomed. 373 00:20:27,426 --> 00:20:28,126 Or... 374 00:20:29,328 --> 00:20:33,198 -more a part of their life. -Yeah. 375 00:20:35,367 --> 00:20:36,867 How much longer on this food, man? 376 00:20:38,070 --> 00:20:40,240 Jason, chillax brother. 377 00:20:40,272 --> 00:20:41,972 Here, get Mike a hotdog, please. 378 00:20:45,945 --> 00:20:49,825 Mike and Marie are always 100% welcome at our house. 379 00:20:49,849 --> 00:20:53,149 It’s important because we know that they miss their daughter. 380 00:20:53,853 --> 00:20:56,323 Right. I really feel for them. 381 00:20:56,355 --> 00:20:59,255 It’s such an important time to be with your child. 382 00:20:59,291 --> 00:21:02,761 -Especially when she’s 17 and she’s your only daughter. -Yeah. 383 00:21:02,795 --> 00:21:04,705 But, uh, I’m not sure 384 00:21:04,730 --> 00:21:08,600 if Jason wants to share Kylen with them. 385 00:21:08,634 --> 00:21:09,404 Yeah. 386 00:21:11,337 --> 00:21:13,507 Here’s that. Do you want ketchup or mustard? 387 00:21:14,907 --> 00:21:16,577 No, I’ll get up and get it. 388 00:21:19,578 --> 00:21:24,378 I think Jason’s jealous of Kylen’s relationship with them. 389 00:21:24,984 --> 00:21:26,524 And how close they are. 390 00:21:26,552 --> 00:21:29,822 But, hopefully Jason can ease up a little bit. 391 00:21:29,855 --> 00:21:32,785 And let Kylen enjoy her time with her parents. 392 00:21:33,759 --> 00:21:36,629 There’s crackers, and cheese, and pepperoni, 393 00:21:36,662 --> 00:21:39,262 and chips and dip if you guys want some. 394 00:21:39,298 --> 00:21:42,668 -Are you good? -Yeah, I’m good. I’m having my drink. 395 00:21:42,701 --> 00:21:44,201 -Okay. -Thirsty. 396 00:21:45,838 --> 00:21:47,568 -Hmm. -Oh, boy. 397 00:21:48,574 --> 00:21:50,814 -How you feeling girl? -Good. 398 00:21:50,843 --> 00:21:52,183 Are you nervous, Kylen? 399 00:21:53,345 --> 00:21:54,005 No. 400 00:21:55,848 --> 00:21:56,718 You should be. 401 00:22:00,252 --> 00:22:02,792 I think you’re full of crap. 402 00:22:02,822 --> 00:22:05,962 I’m nervous and I’m not even having a baby. 403 00:22:05,991 --> 00:22:09,191 Lately Kylen feels withdrawn. 404 00:22:09,228 --> 00:22:11,958 That’s the vibe I get every time they get around us. 405 00:22:11,997 --> 00:22:15,897 I mean, in the beginning it seemed like I was getting details. 406 00:22:15,935 --> 00:22:19,445 Like, how big the baby is. 407 00:22:19,471 --> 00:22:22,411 But now, they’re just not telling me anything. 408 00:22:22,441 --> 00:22:23,111 And that’s... 409 00:22:24,443 --> 00:22:27,553 pretty hard for me to grasp. 410 00:22:30,850 --> 00:22:32,380 We just want to... 411 00:22:33,819 --> 00:22:34,889 How do we put it? 412 00:22:36,288 --> 00:22:40,058 By not communicating with us, it makes us worry. 413 00:22:41,460 --> 00:22:46,730 And when you do communicate it’s short lately. 414 00:22:46,765 --> 00:22:50,295 So I’m not sure where... What I can ask. 415 00:22:51,470 --> 00:22:53,770 Marie and Mike are kinda getting at is, 416 00:22:53,806 --> 00:22:57,506 they kinda wanna feel like they’re included in the whole family thing, you know? 417 00:22:57,543 --> 00:23:00,613 -’Cause you live here so they think we’re right. -I understand that 418 00:23:00,646 --> 00:23:02,306 -You gotta make them feel more... -Right. 419 00:23:02,348 --> 00:23:06,488 No, I get that. But you’re not understanding you. 420 00:23:06,518 --> 00:23:08,118 That I don’t even wanna live here. 421 00:23:08,153 --> 00:23:09,823 I wanna be on my own apartment. 422 00:23:09,855 --> 00:23:11,655 And like, the same relationship 423 00:23:11,690 --> 00:23:13,360 that we have with them with you guys. 424 00:23:13,392 --> 00:23:14,992 Like, I want it to be even. 425 00:23:15,027 --> 00:23:18,657 I feel like that’s why they feel, like, lower. Because we’re living with you. 426 00:23:18,697 --> 00:23:20,067 But if we were on our own. 427 00:23:20,099 --> 00:23:22,899 I just feel like you guys got a problem with us, or something. 428 00:23:24,937 --> 00:23:26,907 I don’t like getting advice from everyone. 429 00:23:26,939 --> 00:23:30,209 I think our parents should just leave us alone. 430 00:23:30,242 --> 00:23:33,952 And not give me all this advice that I don’t need. 431 00:23:33,979 --> 00:23:37,249 When I’m 18, and I’m an adult. I’m gonna be a good parent. 432 00:23:40,019 --> 00:23:41,849 What are you guys mad at us about? 433 00:23:44,790 --> 00:23:46,120 We’re not mad at you. 434 00:23:46,158 --> 00:23:49,258 Well, we feel like you are. And like you don’t want us around. 435 00:23:51,063 --> 00:23:51,833 I don’t like... 436 00:23:52,932 --> 00:23:54,502 the pushiness. 437 00:23:54,533 --> 00:23:58,173 -We’re not pushing. -You don’t get how much stress is on both of us. 438 00:23:58,203 --> 00:24:00,743 We know exactly how much stress is on you guys. 439 00:24:00,773 --> 00:24:02,373 Because we’ve been through it. 440 00:24:02,408 --> 00:24:06,108 -You’re not the first people in this world to have a baby. -No. 441 00:24:06,145 --> 00:24:09,415 I’m just, like, an independent person and I just want this kid, 442 00:24:09,448 --> 00:24:13,288 and, like, we just wanna take the next steps to be, like, 443 00:24:13,319 --> 00:24:14,789 alone and grownup. 444 00:24:14,820 --> 00:24:17,690 All they’re asking, dude, is to have a little involvement. 445 00:24:17,723 --> 00:24:19,063 -That’s it. 446 00:24:20,993 --> 00:24:22,933 Family’s important. 447 00:24:22,962 --> 00:24:26,202 I regret not spending much time with mine. 448 00:24:26,231 --> 00:24:28,631 Mike’s not in the best of shape, and you know. 449 00:24:30,436 --> 00:24:33,306 Ya never know. When your time’s up, your time’s up. 450 00:24:37,810 --> 00:24:40,150 Whatever, Jason. 451 00:24:40,179 --> 00:24:42,449 -Kylen, I wanna go. -What are you guys doing? 452 00:24:43,782 --> 00:24:45,182 Um, going to my friends at00. 453 00:24:47,619 --> 00:24:48,719 What time is it now? 454 00:24:50,222 --> 00:24:52,762 -49, that’s why I was... -Oh. 455 00:24:54,827 --> 00:24:56,127 Yeah, but what’s more important? 456 00:24:56,161 --> 00:24:58,561 -Right, family or friends? -Right. 457 00:24:58,597 --> 00:25:01,567 Family, you always have. Friends, come and go. 458 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,400 Okay, but I made these plans. 459 00:25:04,770 --> 00:25:06,640 You knew about these plans all week. 460 00:25:08,407 --> 00:25:11,307 If it was one of you guys that had plans, it wouldn’t be an issue. 461 00:25:11,343 --> 00:25:12,383 I’m an adult too. 462 00:25:19,418 --> 00:25:20,948 He’s my son, I made him. 463 00:25:20,986 --> 00:25:24,456 But, kinda lacks a little bit of compassion. 464 00:25:24,490 --> 00:25:26,890 It’s not good. And it sucks. 465 00:25:32,331 --> 00:25:34,601 I’m not even done yet. 466 00:25:34,633 --> 00:25:36,503 -Come on, Jason. -Stop. 467 00:25:39,171 --> 00:25:40,511 It’s not my plans. 468 00:25:42,341 --> 00:25:44,081 Well, it’s our plans. 469 00:25:50,916 --> 00:25:53,286 -Yeah. 470 00:25:57,523 --> 00:25:58,223 I’m gonna pee. 471 00:26:04,897 --> 00:26:08,167 -That’s my concern, secrets. -Yeah. 472 00:26:11,870 --> 00:26:15,840 We’re not sure about what’s going on behind closed doors. 473 00:26:15,874 --> 00:26:19,284 But we can’t even get her alone to find out. 474 00:26:19,311 --> 00:26:21,081 We’re tried to be patient. 475 00:26:21,113 --> 00:26:25,523 But, we’re getting to the point where we really can’t take it anymore. 476 00:26:25,551 --> 00:26:29,551 The dam’s gonna break. Or the wall’s gonna come down. 477 00:26:29,588 --> 00:26:30,758 Something’s gonna happen. 478 00:26:35,594 --> 00:26:37,004 -That? -Yeah. 479 00:26:39,498 --> 00:26:41,228 They were saying, like, hurtful things about me. 480 00:26:41,266 --> 00:26:43,536 What the kinda is that? 481 00:27:08,527 --> 00:27:10,697 Yeah. Um, that? 482 00:27:12,764 --> 00:27:14,074 Yeah. 483 00:27:14,099 --> 00:27:16,669 I’m Candice and I’m Taylor’s mother and Evelyn’s nina. 484 00:27:17,503 --> 00:27:19,373 I’m also Melissa’s sister. 485 00:27:19,404 --> 00:27:21,214 And Tyra and Tiarra’s aunt. 486 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,140 And we’re all went through teen pregnancies together. 487 00:27:24,176 --> 00:27:26,176 And we’re a pretty close family. 488 00:27:26,211 --> 00:27:29,611 So, I was really excited about Taylor and Tiarra 489 00:27:29,648 --> 00:27:31,848 going through a second pregnancy together. 490 00:27:31,884 --> 00:27:35,454 And then, when the competition with the nursery started, 491 00:27:35,487 --> 00:27:37,387 that’s when it all kinda, like... 492 00:27:38,624 --> 00:27:39,994 brought the fun out of it. 493 00:27:41,326 --> 00:27:44,256 Kinda hurts my feelings because she knows how much, like, 494 00:27:44,296 --> 00:27:47,866 you invested in, like, doing your nursery that... 495 00:27:47,900 --> 00:27:49,500 The way you wanted to do it. 496 00:27:49,535 --> 00:27:51,505 And then she, kinda-- 497 00:27:52,638 --> 00:27:53,298 Yeah. 498 00:27:54,540 --> 00:27:55,910 -Yeah, basically. -Yeah. 499 00:27:57,476 --> 00:28:01,306 When Tiarra was down here last I showed her the nursery theme I wanted to do. 500 00:28:12,057 --> 00:28:14,287 And she showed me what she had chosen. 501 00:28:14,326 --> 00:28:16,556 Which was a totally different theme. 502 00:28:16,595 --> 00:28:19,635 And then when she left she pretty much re-did her whole nursery 503 00:28:19,665 --> 00:28:22,275 in the theme I was gonna do and didn’t even tell me about it. 504 00:28:22,301 --> 00:28:23,901 It just hurt. Like, it’s just her. 505 00:28:26,405 --> 00:28:30,985 And then seeing my kid hurt over something petty, I know it was petty. 506 00:28:31,009 --> 00:28:34,809 But, her feelings were hurt. She was so excited to share it with Tiarra. 507 00:28:34,846 --> 00:28:37,646 And then for Tiarra to go home and change everything 508 00:28:37,683 --> 00:28:40,123 to the exact same thing that Taylor wanted. 509 00:28:40,152 --> 00:28:42,022 And the thing is, this is not the first time. 510 00:28:42,054 --> 00:28:46,594 From boys, to clothes, to shoes, to friends. 511 00:28:46,625 --> 00:28:48,935 And I’ve never said one thing. 512 00:28:48,961 --> 00:28:51,261 Throughout all these years of how Tiarra’s acted. 513 00:28:51,296 --> 00:28:55,566 And I finally just let it all out. 514 00:28:55,601 --> 00:28:58,541 What got me is, if you would’ve looked at her registry, like... 515 00:28:59,238 --> 00:29:01,268 four weeks before that, 516 00:29:01,306 --> 00:29:03,406 - she had nothing-- -But pink and grey. 517 00:29:03,442 --> 00:29:05,842 Yeah, nothing Boho. 518 00:29:05,877 --> 00:29:09,107 She had a whole different registry at the beginning. 519 00:29:09,147 --> 00:29:11,147 You can literally see that if you go back and look. 520 00:29:12,050 --> 00:29:13,750 Why are you, like, being sneaky? 521 00:29:13,785 --> 00:29:18,655 Why didn’t you just tell me you wanted to do, you know, the Boho rainbow theme too? 522 00:29:18,690 --> 00:29:20,590 Um, ’cause it’s not just Boho. 523 00:29:20,626 --> 00:29:24,026 It’s, like, the exact Boho rainbow theme. 524 00:29:24,062 --> 00:29:26,132 She was like, why didn’t you just, you know, come out and tell me. 525 00:29:26,164 --> 00:29:27,474 And, you know, I would have been fine with it. 526 00:29:27,499 --> 00:29:30,369 But, instead, like, every time I’ve asked you, you said no. 527 00:29:30,402 --> 00:29:34,042 And now, like, everything you have on your registry, 528 00:29:34,072 --> 00:29:36,672 everything that you’re getting is all the rainbow theme. 529 00:29:39,745 --> 00:29:41,685 Of course, Tiarra is the competitive type. 530 00:29:41,713 --> 00:29:43,923 She’s the type that is like... 531 00:29:43,949 --> 00:29:46,679 well, if you like that, I like that too. 532 00:29:46,718 --> 00:29:49,888 Or, um, I’m gonna get it before she does. 533 00:29:49,921 --> 00:29:51,461 So people don’t say that... 534 00:29:52,291 --> 00:29:53,421 I copied them. 535 00:29:53,458 --> 00:29:56,028 Like, they’re copying me now. Because I got it first. 536 00:29:56,061 --> 00:29:57,801 It just hit me the wrong way. 537 00:29:57,829 --> 00:29:59,059 Like, I’d had enough. 538 00:29:59,898 --> 00:30:02,668 And, um, then I went to Instagram. 539 00:30:03,835 --> 00:30:05,865 And commented on an Instagram post. 540 00:30:07,706 --> 00:30:10,636 I felt like she was being selfish and not considerate. 541 00:30:11,910 --> 00:30:13,780 I felt like it was a big slap in the face. 542 00:30:14,946 --> 00:30:16,676 So that’s when I got into it. 543 00:30:16,715 --> 00:30:19,085 - Just went downhill from there. -It went downhill. 544 00:30:20,385 --> 00:30:22,845 It just, like, boom! Just blew up. 545 00:30:24,423 --> 00:30:27,533 Did you see all that stuff that Candice and Taylor had a say on... 546 00:30:27,559 --> 00:30:29,729 uh, social media about the nursery? 547 00:30:38,337 --> 00:30:42,707 Yeah. I think it was like silly drama too. 548 00:30:46,244 --> 00:30:48,714 I’m surprised that my family made it a big deal. 549 00:30:49,548 --> 00:30:51,078 Um, about me doing that theme. 550 00:30:51,116 --> 00:30:54,546 Because, you know, I’d chose to do that as soon as I was pregnant. 551 00:30:54,586 --> 00:30:58,116 Like, I was doing it way before, you know, they started doing it. 552 00:30:58,156 --> 00:30:59,856 And it was never a problem. I was... 553 00:30:59,891 --> 00:31:02,391 I wasn’t, like, oh you bitch! You copied my theme! 554 00:31:02,427 --> 00:31:04,857 Like, no. Like, ’cause that’s immature as . 555 00:31:04,896 --> 00:31:09,166 It’s literally a nursey theme. Like, I don’t understand what the issue is. 556 00:31:09,201 --> 00:31:13,201 So I’m just surprised that they made it a big deal we were doing the same theme. 557 00:31:27,152 --> 00:31:28,392 I mean, I feel like... 558 00:31:30,188 --> 00:31:35,328 I don’t know why Taylor, like, just decided to, like, bring everything up right now. 559 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:40,000 Um, I feel like it was, like, comparing to who’s gonna be better 560 00:31:40,031 --> 00:31:41,631 now that they’re doing the same thing. 561 00:31:41,666 --> 00:31:42,866 It was like a competition thing. 562 00:31:42,901 --> 00:31:45,901 It wasn’t, like, let’s make this cute for our babies. 563 00:31:45,937 --> 00:31:47,607 Like it just makes no sense. 564 00:31:47,639 --> 00:31:50,309 Just a couple months ago we were literally getting ultrasounds done together. 565 00:31:50,342 --> 00:31:51,812 You know, with our girls. 566 00:31:51,843 --> 00:31:54,083 And, you know, we were so close and stuff like that. 567 00:31:54,112 --> 00:31:56,612 And then it all went from that, in the snap of a finger, to now. 568 00:31:56,648 --> 00:32:01,348 Like, I don’t even feel like I wanna talk to her because of the stuff that she said. 569 00:32:01,386 --> 00:32:02,886 I don’t really hold grudges. 570 00:32:02,921 --> 00:32:05,121 But, Tiarra, she’ll like... 571 00:32:05,157 --> 00:32:07,327 hate you for the rest of her life. She doesn’t care. 572 00:32:09,995 --> 00:32:12,135 Yeah. Well, the only reason I felt bad about any of it, is just because 573 00:32:12,164 --> 00:32:14,534 I know Ada and Ella love each other. 574 00:32:14,566 --> 00:32:16,766 -Close, yeah. -They’re close and love playing with each other. 575 00:32:16,802 --> 00:32:19,672 I don’t feel like we should punish them for our stupid drama. 576 00:32:21,072 --> 00:32:23,542 But, I don’t know if we’ll ever be on the same terms we were. 577 00:32:24,810 --> 00:32:27,850 I’m about to have a baby too. So I don’t want this stress. 578 00:32:27,879 --> 00:32:30,979 When they’re ready to talk, then they can come to me, or whatever. 579 00:32:32,818 --> 00:32:34,088 And I agree 100%. 580 00:32:45,664 --> 00:32:47,534 Can’t imagine dealing with something like this. 581 00:32:47,566 --> 00:32:49,696 Like, right before you’re about to have your baby. 582 00:32:52,037 --> 00:32:55,967 I don’t know. I just think it’s difficult for me to forgive them 583 00:32:56,007 --> 00:32:58,507 after, you know, not only did they stress me out 584 00:32:58,543 --> 00:33:00,043 a couple days before going to my c-section. 585 00:33:00,078 --> 00:33:04,348 They also put all this fake news out on the internet 586 00:33:04,382 --> 00:33:05,552 for thousand’s of people to see. 587 00:33:06,151 --> 00:33:09,051 So, I’m not really... 588 00:33:09,087 --> 00:33:12,887 planning on having any type of relationship with Taylor anymore. 589 00:33:12,924 --> 00:33:15,934 I mean, it might be different after I have a baby, and I’m not so hormonal. 590 00:33:15,961 --> 00:33:18,431 But, right now, I don’t really care to. 591 00:33:20,599 --> 00:33:22,369 All right, we’re going. 592 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,340 You know, I keep hoping that something will change. 593 00:33:26,938 --> 00:33:31,108 She’s my baby girl I worry about her all the time. 594 00:33:31,142 --> 00:33:34,752 When I woke up, that’s when you were pushing. Pretty scary. 595 00:33:37,782 --> 00:33:41,622 I am worried. Life tells you, when someone screams, it’s usually not okay. 596 00:33:55,066 --> 00:33:56,726 No one gets, like, what we’re going through. 597 00:33:56,768 --> 00:33:59,438 They just think about themselves, that’s what pisses me off. 598 00:33:59,471 --> 00:34:03,111 I’m pretty sure everybody was thinking about us. But, okay. 599 00:34:03,141 --> 00:34:05,611 You’re the one that’s thinking about yourself. 600 00:34:05,644 --> 00:34:09,714 You knew we had these plans way before your stupid ass friends. 601 00:34:09,748 --> 00:34:11,548 -We really didn’t. -We really did. 602 00:34:13,184 --> 00:34:15,854 We went over there for a cookout. 603 00:34:15,887 --> 00:34:19,217 But, they kept wanting to hide in the back room. 604 00:34:19,257 --> 00:34:22,727 Sometimes I’d like to just scream... 605 00:34:22,761 --> 00:34:24,261 to get them to listen to me. 606 00:34:24,930 --> 00:34:27,330 We’re tried to be patient. 607 00:34:27,365 --> 00:34:29,325 They’re always getting up and doing something 608 00:34:29,367 --> 00:34:32,497 They move here, they move here, or they gotta go with friends. 609 00:34:32,537 --> 00:34:36,337 And it’s just... It’s hard to have a conversation with them. 610 00:34:36,374 --> 00:34:40,984 ’Cause they won’t sit still to let you have that conversation. 611 00:34:43,114 --> 00:34:45,024 There’s one thing of being independent 612 00:34:45,050 --> 00:34:48,550 and there’s another thing of shunning your family away. 613 00:34:48,587 --> 00:34:51,917 -Staying away from your family is not being independent. -No. 614 00:34:53,024 --> 00:34:54,334 That’s being a jackass. 615 00:34:55,727 --> 00:34:57,957 -Don’t be afraid to call him out. -Yes. 616 00:34:57,996 --> 00:35:01,766 Mike looked at me and said, "I wish we could see more of them." 617 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,430 And I said, "don’t tell me, Mike. 618 00:35:04,703 --> 00:35:06,343 Tell them." 619 00:35:06,371 --> 00:35:09,711 Because we’re at our wits end. We’re done. 620 00:35:11,509 --> 00:35:13,309 Jason gonna do, what Jason gonna do. 621 00:35:14,379 --> 00:35:16,149 -Do we speak up? -Yeah. 622 00:35:17,215 --> 00:35:18,475 -Often? -Yes. 623 00:35:19,684 --> 00:35:21,094 -Do we get anywhere? -No. 624 00:35:23,021 --> 00:35:24,761 You know what we get? Swore at. 625 00:35:26,124 --> 00:35:27,834 You’re a . 626 00:35:29,494 --> 00:35:31,204 you, you loser dad. 627 00:35:34,065 --> 00:35:36,425 You know. How much of that can you take? 628 00:35:37,569 --> 00:35:38,999 After this baby comes, 629 00:35:39,037 --> 00:35:41,367 we’re not gonna see a lot of people for a long time. 630 00:35:43,208 --> 00:35:44,438 You realize that, right? 631 00:35:44,476 --> 00:35:47,006 Right. So, it doesn’t mean I can’t see my family. 632 00:35:47,612 --> 00:35:49,312 That I never get to see. 633 00:35:49,347 --> 00:35:51,077 And when I do, you ruin it. 634 00:35:52,250 --> 00:35:53,950 -Right. -You do! 635 00:36:00,025 --> 00:36:03,265 That has nothing to do with growing up. At all. 636 00:36:04,295 --> 00:36:05,295 Not one bit. 637 00:36:06,331 --> 00:36:07,831 Everyone sees their parents. 638 00:36:09,167 --> 00:36:10,027 Whether it’s... 639 00:36:11,102 --> 00:36:14,842 -freaking five times a year, to-- -Exactly. 640 00:36:14,873 --> 00:36:16,843 Yeah, but, in that five times a year, 641 00:36:16,875 --> 00:36:19,215 their time with them doesn’t get ruined. 642 00:36:20,412 --> 00:36:21,812 All right, are you ready? 643 00:36:23,214 --> 00:36:25,254 I was supposed to leave 5 minutes ago. 644 00:36:28,053 --> 00:36:29,093 All right, we’re going. 645 00:36:30,121 --> 00:36:32,121 Mama, Kylen. Mama, Kylen. 646 00:36:36,861 --> 00:36:38,131 -No. -The bump? No? 647 00:36:39,898 --> 00:36:41,668 -Not moving? -Good seeing you guys. 648 00:36:42,634 --> 00:36:43,574 Nice seeing you. 649 00:36:44,369 --> 00:36:45,999 -Love you, kiddo. -I love you. 650 00:36:47,639 --> 00:36:51,709 I felt like Kylen kinda really wanted to stay and visit with us. 651 00:36:52,911 --> 00:36:54,451 Didn’t wanna leave... 652 00:36:55,146 --> 00:36:58,176 to go with their friends. 653 00:36:58,216 --> 00:37:02,046 I felt like her eyes were starting to water up like she was gonna cry. 654 00:37:04,756 --> 00:37:06,456 I see, I don’t know. 655 00:37:06,491 --> 00:37:10,931 I’m starting... To me, I feel like I’m starting to see sadness in her face. 656 00:37:11,696 --> 00:37:13,656 And not the happiness that... 657 00:37:15,567 --> 00:37:16,297 Yeah. 658 00:37:23,274 --> 00:37:25,514 -Bye. -Bye, drive carefully. 659 00:37:27,645 --> 00:37:29,605 I want her to know that... 660 00:37:30,415 --> 00:37:31,325 she’s always... 661 00:37:32,150 --> 00:37:33,080 welcome home. 662 00:37:34,853 --> 00:37:36,723 She’s not stuck. 663 00:37:37,589 --> 00:37:40,289 If she thinks she’s stuck. 664 00:37:40,325 --> 00:37:44,565 Especially while she’s, like, in an emotional state right now. 665 00:37:44,596 --> 00:37:47,596 Almost ready to have a baby. 666 00:37:47,632 --> 00:37:50,672 You know, I keep hoping that something will change. 667 00:37:52,070 --> 00:37:57,040 She’s my baby girl, you know, I worry about her all the time. 668 00:37:58,243 --> 00:37:59,083 Mmm. 669 00:38:20,098 --> 00:38:23,928 We were up all night because Emersyn was in pain from the contractions. 670 00:38:23,968 --> 00:38:27,968 So when she finally got the epidural we were able to get some sleep. 671 00:38:28,006 --> 00:38:30,006 But when I woke up, that’s when you were pushing. 672 00:38:49,794 --> 00:38:52,334 Life tells you, when someone screams, it’s usually not okay. 673 00:38:53,097 --> 00:38:54,827 You know? So I was just like... 674 00:38:55,466 --> 00:38:56,966 a little worried. 675 00:38:57,001 --> 00:39:00,771 I didn’t think I would scream. But it actually helps to get the baby out. 676 00:39:05,176 --> 00:39:08,946 Ow! It hurts so bad right now. 677 00:39:26,264 --> 00:39:28,204 This is Mateo. 678 00:39:28,233 --> 00:39:31,973 Emersyn pushed him out in a whopping 8 minutes. 679 00:39:32,003 --> 00:39:34,243 He is a beautiful, beautiful baby. 680 00:39:37,008 --> 00:39:40,578 This is Mateo Elias Ramirez. 681 00:39:40,612 --> 00:39:42,612 He was 21 inches long. 682 00:39:42,647 --> 00:39:45,917 -And he weighed um... -7.5. 683 00:39:47,252 --> 00:39:48,392 7.8 pounds. 684 00:39:56,127 --> 00:39:59,497 It was very surreal holding Mateo for the first time. 685 00:39:59,530 --> 00:40:01,230 Love was just like rushed in. 686 00:40:02,533 --> 00:40:03,873 I just felt a lot of love. 687 00:40:05,036 --> 00:40:07,936 I feel like I’m his everything and he’s my everything. 688 00:40:07,972 --> 00:40:09,642 ’Cause, like, he needs me. 689 00:40:09,674 --> 00:40:12,944 -Now I just can’t imagine life without him. -Hi, baby. 690 00:40:13,544 --> 00:40:14,754 Hi, baby boy. 691 00:40:17,282 --> 00:40:21,922 Holding Mateo for the first time was crazy to me. 692 00:40:21,953 --> 00:40:24,323 It was like, wow! You’re mine. 693 00:40:24,355 --> 00:40:27,525 -You know? Not just mine, but. -Yeah, I was about to say. 694 00:40:27,558 --> 00:40:31,228 But, you know, like, you’re mine. You came from me. 695 00:40:31,262 --> 00:40:34,272 You’re not someone else’s. You’re not my mom or dad’s. 696 00:40:34,299 --> 00:40:37,229 So it’s just like, wow! 697 00:40:37,268 --> 00:40:40,438 That’s how it was for me too. When he was just on me I was like, whoa! 698 00:40:40,471 --> 00:40:42,671 Hi, honey. I kept saying "hi" I think. 699 00:40:43,508 --> 00:40:45,608 Hi, little dude. 700 00:40:45,643 --> 00:40:49,153 But I didn’t even cry. I thought I would cry, but, I was just happy. 701 00:40:49,881 --> 00:40:50,981 That it was over. 702 00:40:52,684 --> 00:40:54,084 My gosh! It was horrible. 703 00:40:56,921 --> 00:40:59,121 And it hurts, really bad. 704 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:03,430 Pain’s not over yet. 705 00:41:05,697 --> 00:41:07,257 But he’s worth it. 706 00:41:07,298 --> 00:41:08,728 And he latched right on. 707 00:41:08,766 --> 00:41:10,496 And from then on, I was like, yeah. 708 00:41:12,036 --> 00:41:14,166 And I haven’t changed since. 709 00:41:14,205 --> 00:41:16,365 She really did kick into Mom mode. 710 00:41:16,407 --> 00:41:20,537 Because, like, I saw her take care of her younger brother and sister. 711 00:41:20,578 --> 00:41:24,978 And it’s definitely different when she’s taking care of her own baby. 712 00:41:25,016 --> 00:41:27,116 Compared to her mom’s baby. 713 00:41:27,151 --> 00:41:30,621 I knew beforehand watching my siblings that I’d get a break. 714 00:41:30,655 --> 00:41:33,165 And they’d be with their mom soon. 715 00:41:33,191 --> 00:41:35,231 But with this one, I’m tied to him, so. 716 00:41:36,561 --> 00:41:38,301 -In a good way. -Yeah. 717 00:41:39,897 --> 00:41:42,027 Next time on Unexpected. 718 00:41:48,072 --> 00:41:51,512 Our birth plan is to not use any medication. 719 00:41:51,542 --> 00:41:53,612 But, I don’t do well with pain. 720 00:41:53,644 --> 00:41:54,414 Ow! 721 00:41:56,748 --> 00:41:58,248 My mom has a lot of rules. 722 00:41:58,282 --> 00:42:00,182 Mason has to stay downstairs. 723 00:42:00,218 --> 00:42:02,018 And, like, can’t sleep in the same bed. 724 00:42:02,053 --> 00:42:02,953 It’s ridiculous. 725 00:42:04,689 --> 00:42:08,189 It’s our house rules. If you actually break them there are consequences. 726 00:42:12,330 --> 00:42:13,130 Okay. 727 00:42:15,733 --> 00:42:20,503 With Jenny and Aden. It’s not normal for that to be that toxic. 728 00:42:20,538 --> 00:42:23,138 -With such a young relationship. -Right. 729 00:42:23,174 --> 00:42:25,744 And if it keeps going down this road, Christ, 730 00:42:25,777 --> 00:42:28,277 they’re gonna be killing each other in a couple years. 731 00:42:32,750 --> 00:42:34,720 Today I go in for my c-section. 732 00:42:34,752 --> 00:42:37,092 But, because my iron is so low... 733 00:42:37,121 --> 00:42:39,321 I could potentially bleed out. 734 00:42:39,357 --> 00:42:40,787 So it’s kinda scary.