1 00:00:00,935 --> 00:00:03,268 Arrator] previously on unexpected... 2 00:00:03,304 --> 00:00:05,270 [erica] I want you to be able to bond with the baby, but... 3 00:00:06,707 --> 00:00:09,008 Um, how do you feel about that? 4 00:00:09,043 --> 00:00:12,678 My mom has unreasonable rules but she's not gonna win this one. 5 00:00:14,382 --> 00:00:17,483 Wake me, since somebody needs to be by your side. 6 00:00:17,518 --> 00:00:22,388 This is the birth of his child and he's asleep. That sends a red flag to me. 7 00:00:22,423 --> 00:00:24,289 -[woman screaming] -[baby crying] 8 00:00:24,692 --> 00:00:26,458 [woman speaking] 9 00:00:26,494 --> 00:00:28,227 [mason] this is mateo. 10 00:00:28,262 --> 00:00:30,796 I feel like I'm his everything and he's my everything. 11 00:00:30,831 --> 00:00:33,565 Now, I just can't imagine life without him. 12 00:00:33,601 --> 00:00:37,436 Your iron is super low. I suggest that you restart the iron. 13 00:00:37,471 --> 00:00:41,373 There could be a lot of difficulties with the baby, because my iron is so low. 14 00:00:41,409 --> 00:00:44,209 -My stomach's [bleep] cramping-- -oh! God. 15 00:00:44,245 --> 00:00:47,146 So, I'm kind off just very terrified something wrong is gonna happen. 16 00:00:47,915 --> 00:00:49,782 I was looking at apartments. 17 00:00:49,817 --> 00:00:51,483 Apartments for you and aden? 18 00:00:51,519 --> 00:00:54,253 No. Just luca and I. 19 00:00:54,288 --> 00:00:58,690 Aden's there for luca. But he's not necessarily there for me. 20 00:00:58,726 --> 00:01:01,994 I just need to figure out what I wanna do. 21 00:01:02,029 --> 00:01:05,731 I was surprised you guys didn't wanna birth in the hospital. 22 00:01:05,766 --> 00:01:08,033 At this midwife, they talked to him, 23 00:01:08,069 --> 00:01:10,903 see how he's feeling. How he feels with it. 24 00:01:10,938 --> 00:01:12,871 [scott] jason's controlling everything. 25 00:01:12,907 --> 00:01:16,942 And we're concerned that she's walking into a birth plan that's 26 00:01:16,977 --> 00:01:19,378 set up for his needs and not hers. 27 00:01:23,651 --> 00:01:27,019 ♪ one step closer to you♪ 28 00:01:27,054 --> 00:01:30,556 ♪ and I'm nervous, I'm nervous, I'm nervous♪ 29 00:01:31,559 --> 00:01:35,060 ♪ one look over from you♪ 30 00:01:35,096 --> 00:01:38,263 ♪ and you're perfect, you're perfect, you're perfect♪ 31 00:01:38,299 --> 00:01:39,531 [brushing] 32 00:01:39,567 --> 00:01:42,935 so, today I'm going for my c-section and I'm excited because 33 00:01:42,970 --> 00:01:44,870 I'm sure I did not want to be pregnant anymore. 34 00:01:46,874 --> 00:01:49,775 Even though I'm gonna have to have a c-section, 35 00:01:49,810 --> 00:01:52,511 I've been trying to, at least, 36 00:01:52,546 --> 00:01:55,981 get my labor started somehow, by bouncing on a ball. 37 00:01:56,016 --> 00:01:57,683 Walking up and down the steps. 38 00:01:58,686 --> 00:02:00,385 Dancing with ella. 39 00:02:00,421 --> 00:02:03,455 Honestly, everything. Just trying to get this baby out. 40 00:02:05,126 --> 00:02:06,492 [zipping] 41 00:02:14,969 --> 00:02:16,502 -how would they know? -Where're you gonna put it? 42 00:02:16,537 --> 00:02:18,303 -You're not gonna put in-- -[dee] where the tv is. 43 00:02:18,339 --> 00:02:20,339 -No, I'm saying in what bag? -My bag. 44 00:02:22,042 --> 00:02:23,208 There's gonna be room for that? 45 00:02:27,081 --> 00:02:29,648 [tiarra] I'm just wondering what he's gonna do with that because 46 00:02:29,683 --> 00:02:32,618 that's the last thing he's probably gonna be thinking about at the hospital. 47 00:02:32,653 --> 00:02:35,454 I just figured that one should bring it just incase-- 48 00:02:35,489 --> 00:02:37,489 just in case there's a little bit of free time. 49 00:02:37,525 --> 00:02:38,991 'cause you're gonna be drugged up anyways. 50 00:02:39,026 --> 00:02:40,759 You'll probably be asleep the whole time. 51 00:02:42,530 --> 00:02:44,396 That doesn't mean you get to sit down and play a game. 52 00:02:44,431 --> 00:02:49,902 Plus whenever babies are born they sleep most of the time anyway so... 53 00:02:49,937 --> 00:02:53,238 I just didn't wanna be bored. Especially with us being like locked in the room. 54 00:02:55,176 --> 00:02:56,141 [ella crying] 55 00:02:56,177 --> 00:02:57,242 [mimi] here's your sandwich. 56 00:02:57,678 --> 00:02:59,178 [ella crying] 57 00:02:59,213 --> 00:03:00,512 [shushes] okay. 58 00:03:00,548 --> 00:03:04,082 So, my mom flew to maryland so she can help out with ella 59 00:03:04,118 --> 00:03:06,451 while we go to the hospital to have ensley. 60 00:03:06,487 --> 00:03:08,453 And she'll be staying for couple of weeks. 61 00:03:08,489 --> 00:03:10,756 Mommy's gonna have the baby today. 62 00:03:10,791 --> 00:03:11,657 [ella speaking] 63 00:03:11,959 --> 00:03:13,625 okay. 64 00:03:13,661 --> 00:03:17,329 When we come home from the hospital, you know, she can help me out with ella. 65 00:03:17,364 --> 00:03:19,131 Because ella is a very demanding toddler. 66 00:03:19,967 --> 00:03:21,200 Mm. 67 00:03:23,437 --> 00:03:25,270 -Mimi's. -Mommy's? 68 00:03:25,306 --> 00:03:26,972 -No, mimi's. -Fine. 69 00:03:31,512 --> 00:03:34,646 Dee, better make sure you keep my daughter safe at the hospital today. 70 00:03:35,416 --> 00:03:36,782 And take care of her. 71 00:03:37,484 --> 00:03:40,118 [dee speaking] 72 00:03:40,154 --> 00:03:42,454 [tiarra] mom, you're scaring her about saying the hospital. 73 00:03:42,489 --> 00:03:44,656 [ella crying] no! No! 74 00:03:47,394 --> 00:03:50,462 [dee] you call the doctors and nurses and tell them to keep her safe. 75 00:03:50,497 --> 00:03:53,065 -[mimi] oh okay. -I'm just there for support. 76 00:03:53,100 --> 00:03:55,167 -[mimi] oh! -[tiarra] yeah, support. 77 00:03:55,202 --> 00:03:56,501 [mimi chuckles] 78 00:03:56,537 --> 00:03:59,838 it's so hard on me, I know I can't be there to see ensley born, 79 00:03:59,873 --> 00:04:01,773 since I was there with ella and layla. 80 00:04:02,443 --> 00:04:03,875 And I'm scared because 81 00:04:06,113 --> 00:04:08,580 that can cause her to bleed a lot. 82 00:04:08,616 --> 00:04:11,650 I'm really hoping nothing goes wrong with the c-section. 83 00:04:11,685 --> 00:04:15,887 If it does, I'm hoping dee let's me know right away. 84 00:04:15,923 --> 00:04:18,023 I wouldn't count on dee calling you because if something did happen, 85 00:04:18,058 --> 00:04:19,358 he probably would pass out. 86 00:04:21,295 --> 00:04:23,762 You be like, "dee do this!" 87 00:04:23,797 --> 00:04:26,131 he be like, "but do I have to?" 88 00:04:26,166 --> 00:04:27,633 [tiarra] and I'll punch him in his [indistinct]. 89 00:04:28,402 --> 00:04:29,568 And he'll leave. 90 00:04:32,273 --> 00:04:34,439 -[mimi] you won't leave her. -Ok. Don't care if you leave. 91 00:04:36,176 --> 00:04:41,546 It's only gonna be me and dee there. And last time, I remember dee really wasn't 92 00:04:41,582 --> 00:04:44,850 much of, like, my support person. It was more like my mom. 93 00:04:44,885 --> 00:04:49,655 So, I think I'm nervous, he's gonna freak out and not know what to do. 94 00:04:49,690 --> 00:04:51,290 I don't remember. I just remember-- 95 00:04:51,325 --> 00:04:53,725 you don't remember 'cause you were sitting on the couch all up in your phone. 96 00:04:53,761 --> 00:04:56,261 Yeah because it was... It was a weird experience, it's like, 97 00:04:56,297 --> 00:04:59,364 she was pushing. And then they we're like, "we got to the c-section." 98 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,633 and then our family comes in crying and stuff. It was just weird. 99 00:05:01,669 --> 00:05:03,869 He was just sitting there on his phone whole time and just chilling. 100 00:05:06,874 --> 00:05:08,340 [tiarra] bye, I love you. 101 00:05:22,890 --> 00:05:25,324 [cries] 102 00:05:29,596 --> 00:05:33,165 it's really hitting me that it's just gonna be dee and I at the hospital all alone. 103 00:05:34,768 --> 00:05:37,936 And it's freaking me out a little bit because 104 00:05:37,971 --> 00:05:40,605 I'm used to like my mom always being there, like, when I needed her, 105 00:05:40,641 --> 00:05:44,142 and at this time, she couldn't be. 106 00:05:44,178 --> 00:05:48,246 I just turned 18 this year, so it's like I'm just now being able to, like, 107 00:05:48,282 --> 00:05:50,282 make decisions without my mom. 108 00:05:50,317 --> 00:05:52,984 And dee can't support me like the same way my mom does. 109 00:05:53,020 --> 00:05:55,420 So that's, like, scary too. 110 00:06:02,429 --> 00:06:05,047 [music playing] 111 00:06:06,834 --> 00:06:09,534 [mason] it is currently 12:18 and... 112 00:06:10,904 --> 00:06:16,842 Two hours ago, mateo was taken to get circumcised and... 113 00:06:18,011 --> 00:06:19,978 They checked on his vitals as well. 114 00:06:24,685 --> 00:06:27,519 He's doing fantastic. He's tired. 115 00:06:28,088 --> 00:06:29,254 He's sleeping. 116 00:06:30,924 --> 00:06:33,792 I can't wait to take him home. 117 00:06:33,827 --> 00:06:37,996 It's her second day in the hospital and mateo is one day old. 118 00:06:38,031 --> 00:06:42,234 [emersyn] after he was born, I stayed up all night. I didn't sleep at all. 119 00:06:42,269 --> 00:06:47,439 Because I was scared he'd like flip over in the bassinet they gave us. 120 00:06:47,474 --> 00:06:49,741 And they wouldn't let me sleep with him. 121 00:06:49,777 --> 00:06:54,346 Having a baby is extremely exhausting, but like, rewarding at the same time. 122 00:06:54,381 --> 00:06:58,450 Like, I knew the love would be great but I didn't know it would feel this, kinda, 123 00:06:58,485 --> 00:07:00,752 -like, this much. -[baby cooing] 124 00:07:00,788 --> 00:07:02,387 especially as a mom. Yeah. 125 00:07:04,691 --> 00:07:06,124 Yeah. He's going. 126 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:07,192 [emersyn speaking] 127 00:07:14,034 --> 00:07:15,534 where's his pacifier? 128 00:07:18,906 --> 00:07:20,705 [cell phone ringing] 129 00:07:20,741 --> 00:07:23,975 -[chimes] -[gasps] good morning, sunshine. 130 00:07:24,778 --> 00:07:26,144 Morning! 131 00:07:26,180 --> 00:07:27,913 What's the news? 132 00:07:27,948 --> 00:07:33,485 They just came for me a checkup for discharging. 133 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,354 Okay. What time do you think you're coming home? 134 00:07:37,791 --> 00:07:41,393 -[emersyn] mason says around eleven. -Oh, okay. 135 00:07:41,428 --> 00:07:43,829 -We were just preparing. -[emersyn] you're gonna be surprised. 136 00:07:43,864 --> 00:07:46,231 -Okay, love you. -[kisses] bye. 137 00:07:46,266 --> 00:07:48,433 [kisses] bye. 138 00:07:48,469 --> 00:07:51,770 [emersyn] I have mixed feelings about bringing mateo home. 139 00:07:51,805 --> 00:07:55,006 Just because my mom and sai have put rules in place. 140 00:07:55,042 --> 00:07:59,878 Mason, he has to stay downstairs and, like, can't sleep in the same bed. 141 00:07:59,913 --> 00:08:03,849 But I have a newborn. Like, I just need his help. 142 00:08:03,884 --> 00:08:07,719 Even if I'm sleeping like, I just need him there for moral support. 143 00:08:07,754 --> 00:08:09,888 It's not like we're gonna do anything-- 144 00:08:09,923 --> 00:08:11,957 -we literally just had a baby. -She just gave... Yeah. 145 00:08:12,759 --> 00:08:14,559 The doctors told us 146 00:08:14,595 --> 00:08:18,430 you can't have sex until six weeks after post-partum. 147 00:08:18,465 --> 00:08:21,132 Which I'm fine with because I'm exhausted and taking care of the baby 148 00:08:21,168 --> 00:08:23,568 and I'm still healing down there. 149 00:08:23,604 --> 00:08:28,206 So, I'm actually scared to and really pushing it off until I'm ready. 150 00:08:33,447 --> 00:08:37,549 [baby crying] 151 00:08:38,919 --> 00:08:40,051 [kids chattering] 152 00:08:43,857 --> 00:08:45,957 -[leena] hi, she's here. -[dog barking] 153 00:08:45,993 --> 00:08:48,159 -[emersyn] hi, leena. -[leena] hi. 154 00:08:48,195 --> 00:08:50,061 -[liam] does she have her baby? -[baby cooing] 155 00:08:50,097 --> 00:08:51,463 who wants to hold him first? 156 00:08:52,232 --> 00:08:54,499 [erica speaking] 157 00:08:57,571 --> 00:08:59,170 hey baby! 158 00:08:59,740 --> 00:09:01,673 Are you looking around? 159 00:09:01,708 --> 00:09:03,308 -[kisses] -yu wanna sit down? 160 00:09:03,343 --> 00:09:04,709 Yeah, I'll sit, I'll sit. 161 00:09:06,213 --> 00:09:08,013 Hi, little sweetheart. 162 00:09:09,216 --> 00:09:12,150 You are so alert. Yes, you are. 163 00:09:12,185 --> 00:09:15,020 You are just looking at your big beautiful family. Aren't you? 164 00:09:15,455 --> 00:09:16,688 Aww! 165 00:09:16,723 --> 00:09:22,193 Oh, my gosh! Seeing him for the first time is like... 166 00:09:22,229 --> 00:09:24,863 I've never had that feeling before. Even with my own it was 167 00:09:24,898 --> 00:09:27,899 -completely different because-- -it's the grandparent feeling. 168 00:09:27,935 --> 00:09:32,237 Yeah. And I've heard of it before but I didn't know what that would be like. 169 00:09:32,272 --> 00:09:34,573 But yeah, gosh I love him so much. 170 00:09:34,608 --> 00:09:36,241 I love him just like my own. 171 00:09:36,276 --> 00:09:38,810 But I have to remember he's not mine. 172 00:09:38,845 --> 00:09:41,146 It was just very emotional for me. 173 00:09:42,783 --> 00:09:45,617 -Are you ready to play with him everyday? -Yeah. 174 00:09:45,652 --> 00:09:48,219 -Play toys. -Yeah. 175 00:09:48,255 --> 00:09:50,755 -We can play toys... -[all laughing] 176 00:09:50,791 --> 00:09:54,359 -mateo, mateo... -Yeah, mateo. 177 00:09:54,394 --> 00:09:55,560 -Yeah. -Yeah. 178 00:09:55,596 --> 00:09:57,662 Oh, my gosh, he's so heavy. 179 00:09:57,698 --> 00:10:01,533 You gonna come introduce uncle vihaan to mateo? 180 00:10:01,568 --> 00:10:05,437 Vihaan, look kid, you got a buddy. 181 00:10:05,472 --> 00:10:08,106 Look at this, you got a buddy. 182 00:10:08,141 --> 00:10:10,709 -[leena screaming] -I know. 183 00:10:10,744 --> 00:10:13,812 I know. Look at this, I think he popped again. 184 00:10:13,847 --> 00:10:18,483 It's definitely pretty weird having a baby 185 00:10:18,518 --> 00:10:21,953 that's the same age as my new baby brother. 186 00:10:21,989 --> 00:10:24,990 'cause me and my mom were pregnant at the same time. 187 00:10:25,025 --> 00:10:28,727 And it's just a little stressful for me. 188 00:10:28,762 --> 00:10:33,898 Because there's three little kids... Under the age of three. 189 00:10:33,934 --> 00:10:36,301 So, it's just a little crazy. 190 00:10:37,504 --> 00:10:38,737 [baby crying] 191 00:10:39,773 --> 00:10:43,008 [indistinct] 192 00:10:43,043 --> 00:10:44,275 [emersyn speaking] 193 00:10:47,514 --> 00:10:50,248 [baby crying intensely] 194 00:10:52,619 --> 00:10:54,619 emersyn is extremely attentive. 195 00:10:54,655 --> 00:10:57,989 But it's hard to see emersyn's exhausted and needing help. 196 00:10:58,025 --> 00:11:00,792 It's hard to see mason at notice step right up. 197 00:11:00,827 --> 00:11:02,560 I was just mad 'cause mason's right there. 198 00:11:02,596 --> 00:11:04,996 He's a... I was gonna say "he's a man." 199 00:11:05,532 --> 00:11:07,766 um, he's a boy. 200 00:11:07,801 --> 00:11:09,267 -He's a boy. -He's a boy. 201 00:11:12,239 --> 00:11:13,905 He's probably hungry again. 202 00:11:13,940 --> 00:11:15,674 -You gonna try feeding? -Yeah. 203 00:11:15,709 --> 00:11:17,308 -[baby crying] -[emersyn] okay. 204 00:11:17,744 --> 00:11:18,743 [erica speaking] 205 00:11:18,779 --> 00:11:21,179 is he outside? Probably. 206 00:11:21,214 --> 00:11:22,681 [baby crying] 207 00:11:26,053 --> 00:11:28,753 I wanna say this to mason, um, 208 00:11:28,789 --> 00:11:32,357 you have a grace period right now. [chuckles] 209 00:11:32,392 --> 00:11:35,860 with the whole families not getting on to you about everything, but you know, 210 00:11:35,896 --> 00:11:37,429 just make sure you're staying on top of stuff. 211 00:11:37,464 --> 00:11:39,330 'cause that grace period will end. 212 00:11:39,366 --> 00:11:43,134 And he's responsible for this baby as much as emersyn is. 213 00:11:43,170 --> 00:11:46,938 And we expect the same stuff from both of them. 214 00:11:46,973 --> 00:11:49,641 Be responsible and be good parents. 215 00:11:49,676 --> 00:11:53,344 And make sure that they're actually caring and giving time for the baby. 216 00:11:53,380 --> 00:11:56,347 It's our house rules and they are for a reason. 217 00:11:57,050 --> 00:11:59,517 If you actually break them... 218 00:11:59,553 --> 00:12:00,985 You know, there are consequences. 219 00:12:02,789 --> 00:12:04,089 [baby crying] 220 00:12:06,493 --> 00:12:07,759 [scott] jason, hurry up. 221 00:12:07,794 --> 00:12:08,860 We gotta go, dude. 222 00:12:08,895 --> 00:12:10,829 She's ready to give birth like any moment. 223 00:12:13,633 --> 00:12:17,268 Our birth plan is to not use any medication. 224 00:12:17,304 --> 00:12:20,271 But I don't do well with pain. No! 225 00:12:20,307 --> 00:12:23,141 I'm still wondering what's going on with jen and aden. 226 00:12:23,176 --> 00:12:25,243 It's starting to concern me more and more. 227 00:12:25,278 --> 00:12:28,113 I am going to, like, tread lightly. 228 00:12:28,148 --> 00:12:29,881 But if something's brought to me, 229 00:12:29,916 --> 00:12:32,951 and that's opening a door and then I'm going all the way through. 230 00:12:37,023 --> 00:12:38,556 ♪ back when we were young and reckless ♪ 231 00:12:38,592 --> 00:12:42,794 ♪ shining like diamonds under neon lights♪ 232 00:12:46,533 --> 00:12:49,467 [matt speaking] 233 00:12:49,503 --> 00:12:51,803 -[matt] I don't know this-- -[cathy] all that squeezer thing? 234 00:12:51,838 --> 00:12:53,471 -[cathy] hopefully it works. -[matt] see how it works. 235 00:12:54,341 --> 00:12:56,374 We invited jen over for dinner tonight. 236 00:12:56,409 --> 00:12:58,977 I'm really hoping that they're able to make it over. 237 00:12:59,012 --> 00:13:01,880 'cause she wasn't able to make it over on my birthday. 238 00:13:01,915 --> 00:13:04,716 But we're in a much better place now so... 239 00:13:04,751 --> 00:13:09,187 I honestly feel like things are really getting back to normal with jenna. 240 00:13:09,222 --> 00:13:13,091 Yeah. She's been talking to us more and coming around a lot more. 241 00:13:13,126 --> 00:13:17,228 I mean, I'm not in jenna's head, but I think it was a combination of... 242 00:13:17,264 --> 00:13:21,466 Enough time to heal on our own and I think getting... 243 00:13:21,501 --> 00:13:23,802 "I love you" texts from me everyday. 244 00:13:23,837 --> 00:13:26,104 I was still kind off chipping a waiter. 245 00:13:26,139 --> 00:13:30,041 I didn't just ignore her and act like she wasn't there. I mean... 246 00:13:30,076 --> 00:13:32,677 I'm still gonna let her know. No matter how mad she is at me. 247 00:13:32,712 --> 00:13:34,479 I'm still gonna let her know how much I love her and... 248 00:13:35,148 --> 00:13:38,216 I'm not going anywhere ever. 249 00:13:38,251 --> 00:13:40,785 -[cathy] do you know if aden's coming over tonight or not? -[matt] I'm not sure yet. 250 00:13:40,821 --> 00:13:43,721 I'm not sure, I talked to jenna last night. 251 00:13:43,757 --> 00:13:47,258 It seemed like he was coming. But then... 252 00:13:47,294 --> 00:13:49,227 This morning when I talked to her, 253 00:13:49,262 --> 00:13:51,763 -she was kind off unsure so... -[cathy] okay. 254 00:13:51,798 --> 00:13:53,331 [instrumental music playing] 255 00:13:55,135 --> 00:13:56,234 [baby crying] 256 00:14:03,176 --> 00:14:04,475 [aden speaking] 257 00:14:04,511 --> 00:14:05,643 [jenna speaking] 258 00:14:14,988 --> 00:14:17,088 [jenna] aden and I are headed to my dad's house. 259 00:14:17,123 --> 00:14:21,526 Even though, my dad and I are working on repairing our relationship, 260 00:14:21,561 --> 00:14:24,262 aden and I aren't really in the best place right now. 261 00:14:24,297 --> 00:14:27,031 So, I'm nervous that they're going to ask about it 262 00:14:27,067 --> 00:14:29,100 and I really don't wanna talk about it. 263 00:14:29,135 --> 00:14:33,705 So, I'm hoping that aden just isn't a complete jerk and we can just enjoy dinner. 264 00:14:35,475 --> 00:14:37,542 -What's for dinner? -Aden! 265 00:14:39,045 --> 00:14:41,779 I didn't know a second ago. I'm not gonna know... 266 00:14:41,815 --> 00:14:45,183 When I asked you the first time, that meant like, ask. 267 00:14:47,454 --> 00:14:50,622 I'm still kind of wondering what's going on with jen and aden. 268 00:14:50,657 --> 00:14:53,625 It's starting to concern me more and more. 269 00:14:53,660 --> 00:14:58,263 Let's hope that if things aren't going well that she will talk to us about it. 270 00:14:58,298 --> 00:15:01,799 She doesn't talk much about her feelings. 271 00:15:01,835 --> 00:15:05,937 I think it's hard for her. And she's getting better with it I think. 272 00:15:05,972 --> 00:15:09,440 She needs to, she needs to be able to express herself more. 273 00:15:09,476 --> 00:15:12,911 With jenna and aden, I don't really know exactly what's going on. 274 00:15:12,946 --> 00:15:14,913 I don't know all the details. 275 00:15:14,948 --> 00:15:17,382 But, just the way they talk to each other, like, the way they... 276 00:15:18,451 --> 00:15:20,885 Like the cursing, the back and forth. 277 00:15:20,921 --> 00:15:25,423 It's not normal for that to be that toxic with such a young relationship, 278 00:15:25,458 --> 00:15:26,491 right. 279 00:15:26,526 --> 00:15:28,159 If it keeps going down this road. 280 00:15:28,194 --> 00:15:30,862 Christ they're gonna be killing each other in a couple of years. 281 00:15:30,897 --> 00:15:33,598 -Not literally-- -no but just worst. 282 00:15:33,633 --> 00:15:38,469 It's gonna be awful, but I'm going to like 283 00:15:38,505 --> 00:15:41,572 tread lightly. 'cause jenna and I just got back on track. 284 00:15:41,608 --> 00:15:44,275 And the last thing I wanna do is throw us off course tonight. 285 00:15:47,714 --> 00:15:49,280 Oh, my god! 286 00:15:53,019 --> 00:15:56,354 But if something's brought to me and that ends up opening a door, 287 00:15:56,389 --> 00:15:58,089 then I'm going all the way through. 288 00:15:59,626 --> 00:16:02,794 ♪ dawn of the new day coming♪ 289 00:16:02,829 --> 00:16:05,630 ♪ fresh air's intoxicating♪ 290 00:16:09,235 --> 00:16:10,702 [crickets chirping] 291 00:16:13,974 --> 00:16:17,575 [kylen] I don't feel good right now and I think I'm in labor. 292 00:16:17,610 --> 00:16:22,580 I started feeling pains and my back rotating. And I couldn't sleep. 293 00:16:23,149 --> 00:16:24,315 So, I woke jason up. 294 00:16:25,251 --> 00:16:26,184 Which... 295 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:28,720 He was tired. 296 00:16:31,925 --> 00:16:33,791 [scott] jason hurry up. She's ready. 297 00:16:35,295 --> 00:16:37,328 You gotta go. 298 00:16:37,364 --> 00:16:40,231 Yeah. I heard you dude. You don't need to say this [bleep] 299 00:16:40,266 --> 00:16:42,133 [bleep] stupid. 300 00:16:42,168 --> 00:16:43,801 [bleep] 301 00:16:43,837 --> 00:16:45,069 [jason] well, yeah. 302 00:16:46,473 --> 00:16:49,374 I just woke up and I was like I wanna sleep a bit longer. 303 00:16:49,409 --> 00:16:51,376 And she was like, "nope, the baby's coming out." 304 00:16:51,411 --> 00:16:53,077 and I was like, "nope, he's not." 305 00:16:53,113 --> 00:16:54,979 how would you know? 306 00:16:55,015 --> 00:16:56,881 'cause you got your first contraction. And you're like, 307 00:16:56,916 --> 00:16:58,516 "oh my god, the baby is coming." 308 00:17:05,058 --> 00:17:06,391 she's ready. 309 00:17:06,426 --> 00:17:08,192 -[jason] yeah, you said that. -I know, I can see it. 310 00:17:08,995 --> 00:17:11,329 What's she doing? 311 00:17:11,364 --> 00:17:13,531 [jason] she has to stand up, sit down, stand up, sit down. 312 00:17:13,566 --> 00:17:15,900 [scott] oh, you gotta go dude. Look at her. 313 00:17:15,935 --> 00:17:18,436 [jason] she's been doing this since four in the morning. 314 00:17:18,471 --> 00:17:20,405 I know. She's ready. She needs to go. 315 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:22,206 [jason] jesus, stop. 316 00:17:22,242 --> 00:17:24,909 I think we can wait 'cause it's her first contraction 317 00:17:24,944 --> 00:17:26,878 and everyone needs to calm down. 318 00:17:26,913 --> 00:17:29,147 But that's up to kylen I guess. 319 00:17:30,183 --> 00:17:32,283 I'm feeling a lot of pressure and cramping. 320 00:17:33,486 --> 00:17:36,487 And I think he's starting to come. 321 00:17:36,523 --> 00:17:39,524 So, we're gonna call the midwife at the birth center 322 00:17:39,559 --> 00:17:41,526 to make sure that they will take us now. 323 00:17:43,596 --> 00:17:45,229 [scott] hurry up jason, please. 324 00:17:45,265 --> 00:17:49,467 [jason] we're still calling rebecca. Jesus christ. 325 00:17:49,502 --> 00:17:51,469 You get ready to have a baby, dude. 326 00:17:52,038 --> 00:17:53,838 [jason overlaps] 327 00:17:53,873 --> 00:17:55,106 [jason] stop. 328 00:17:59,279 --> 00:18:02,814 We were trying to get them to rush 'cause I thought she's ready to give birth, 329 00:18:02,849 --> 00:18:04,315 like any moment. 330 00:18:04,350 --> 00:18:07,251 She was up in the morning moaning a lot. So, I could tell. 331 00:18:07,287 --> 00:18:09,687 -She is in pain. -Yeah, she is in a lot of pain. 332 00:18:09,722 --> 00:18:12,356 Crunched up on the floor. I felt bad for her. 333 00:18:14,327 --> 00:18:15,293 [phone ringing] 334 00:18:16,096 --> 00:18:18,362 -[rebecca] good morning! -Hi! 335 00:18:19,499 --> 00:18:21,065 [rebecca] hi, how are you? 336 00:18:21,101 --> 00:18:25,069 Good. So, kylen's having contractions and she wanted me to tell you. 337 00:18:26,239 --> 00:18:27,305 [rebecca speaking] 338 00:18:28,475 --> 00:18:30,308 so, she doesn't know if she's gonna have him today, 339 00:18:30,343 --> 00:18:32,677 but she said she's feeling some pains. 340 00:18:32,712 --> 00:18:34,445 -[kylen speaking] - [rebecca] okay, great. 341 00:18:39,219 --> 00:18:41,519 Five minutes to three minutes. 342 00:18:42,522 --> 00:18:43,688 [rebecca speaking] 343 00:18:45,959 --> 00:18:48,192 -yeah, but they're-- they're long. -That's great. 344 00:18:49,629 --> 00:18:50,962 [rebecca speaking] 345 00:18:50,997 --> 00:18:52,063 yeah. 346 00:18:52,565 --> 00:18:54,232 [rebecca speaking] 347 00:18:56,202 --> 00:18:57,735 okay. 348 00:18:57,770 --> 00:18:59,804 -[rebecca] all right buh-bye. -[both] bye. 349 00:18:59,839 --> 00:19:01,038 [line disconnects] 350 00:19:03,376 --> 00:19:04,842 let's go! 351 00:19:04,878 --> 00:19:06,777 [car starting] 352 00:19:06,813 --> 00:19:11,949 I'm definitely very excited to meet xavier and get to hold him. 353 00:19:11,985 --> 00:19:14,485 I'm super excited for him to come. 354 00:19:15,688 --> 00:19:17,155 I'm more excited. 355 00:19:18,124 --> 00:19:19,123 Uh-huh! 356 00:19:20,026 --> 00:19:20,992 No! 357 00:19:22,762 --> 00:19:24,862 I'm just ready for her to be here. 358 00:19:24,898 --> 00:19:26,564 Him to be here. 359 00:19:26,599 --> 00:19:29,734 You're not the one carrying him around everywhere. 360 00:19:29,769 --> 00:19:31,169 I wanna be. 361 00:19:32,205 --> 00:19:34,305 I just joked through it other day I was like, 362 00:19:34,340 --> 00:19:35,773 "since you held him for nine months, 363 00:19:35,808 --> 00:19:38,476 you're not getting to touch him the other nine months after he's born." 364 00:19:39,312 --> 00:19:40,444 but I was just kidding. 365 00:19:41,247 --> 00:19:42,346 [exhales heavily] 366 00:19:43,883 --> 00:19:44,849 [crying in pain] 367 00:19:48,354 --> 00:19:49,554 ow! 368 00:19:55,862 --> 00:19:58,229 [crying in pain] 369 00:20:01,201 --> 00:20:02,366 [jason speaking] 370 00:20:04,871 --> 00:20:10,608 our birth plan is to not use any medication. Like, at all, but... 371 00:20:10,643 --> 00:20:12,543 I don't do well with pain, so, 372 00:20:12,579 --> 00:20:15,179 I'm gonna be like, "no, I can't do this." 373 00:20:17,283 --> 00:20:19,817 but we'll see. 374 00:20:19,852 --> 00:20:23,020 When pregnant women take medication or anything like drugs or anything it goes 375 00:20:24,924 --> 00:20:26,023 and I don't support that. 376 00:20:45,912 --> 00:20:50,414 [kylen] I didn't expect contractions to be so painful and uncomfortable. 377 00:20:51,718 --> 00:20:54,018 I'm really nervous. Um... 378 00:20:55,955 --> 00:20:57,021 And scared. 379 00:20:57,690 --> 00:20:59,924 I don't know if I can do this. 380 00:20:59,959 --> 00:21:01,425 And without the epidural, 381 00:21:02,462 --> 00:21:04,929 -I really don't. -[bleep] 382 00:21:09,235 --> 00:21:11,435 I hope I don't have to get a blood transfusion... 383 00:21:11,471 --> 00:21:14,705 When I have the c-section, because my iron is so low, 384 00:21:14,741 --> 00:21:17,008 I could potentially like bleed out. 385 00:21:17,043 --> 00:21:18,242 [dee speaking] 386 00:21:18,278 --> 00:21:19,243 [tiarra speaking] 387 00:21:26,152 --> 00:21:27,268 [upbeat music playing] 388 00:21:30,907 --> 00:21:32,273 [machine beeping] 389 00:21:34,510 --> 00:21:36,410 [tiarra] dee and I just got to the hospital. 390 00:21:36,446 --> 00:21:39,447 And in order to have a c-section, there's like a long process, 391 00:21:39,482 --> 00:21:42,149 you can't eat so many before so... 392 00:21:42,185 --> 00:21:45,953 Ever since like 3:45 in the morning, I haven't had anything to drink or eat. 393 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:52,994 I'm gonna drink some water. 394 00:21:53,029 --> 00:21:55,863 But I'm gonna have to wait hours. 395 00:21:55,898 --> 00:21:58,132 And then there's like a lot of stuff you have to do 396 00:21:58,167 --> 00:21:59,934 in between time before you have the surgery. 397 00:21:59,969 --> 00:22:02,370 Like you have to clean your body with, like, cloth. 398 00:22:02,405 --> 00:22:06,957 They said I have to take my nose ring out. It's gonna hurt. 399 00:22:06,993 --> 00:22:09,260 You've to get changed. They check your blood. 400 00:22:09,295 --> 00:22:11,696 And for me that's super important because my iron 401 00:22:11,731 --> 00:22:13,397 has been low my whole pregnancy. 402 00:22:13,433 --> 00:22:16,133 And they need to see where my levels are before the surgery. 403 00:22:18,504 --> 00:22:21,706 I don't know how long it's gonna be before they take you back. 404 00:22:25,812 --> 00:22:29,180 They said like getting the baby out only takes ten minutes. 405 00:22:29,215 --> 00:22:33,150 So, I'm guessing the process will take more than 30. 406 00:22:33,186 --> 00:22:35,970 Or longer. I don't remember how long it will take. 407 00:22:37,123 --> 00:22:38,756 [deep breath] 408 00:22:38,791 --> 00:22:39,890 [whispering] 409 00:22:44,747 --> 00:22:48,199 I'm hungry. I haven't eaten since last night. 410 00:22:48,234 --> 00:22:50,401 [tiarra speaking] 411 00:22:50,436 --> 00:22:52,303 it's different though. You're getting pumped with fluids. 412 00:22:53,573 --> 00:22:55,339 Even though this is my second c-section. 413 00:22:55,375 --> 00:22:57,641 And I kinda know what to expect, I'm still very nervous. 414 00:22:58,644 --> 00:23:00,978 Having a baby is torture. 415 00:23:01,013 --> 00:23:03,447 Just because I'm waiting for my blood results to come back, 416 00:23:03,483 --> 00:23:06,083 and if my iron's low, I know it's not gonna be good. 417 00:23:11,824 --> 00:23:13,157 So, it's still low. 418 00:23:14,394 --> 00:23:17,728 They checked my iron and because my iron is so low, 419 00:23:17,764 --> 00:23:22,266 I could potentially like bleed out when I have the c-section. 420 00:23:22,301 --> 00:23:23,501 So, it's kind off scary. 421 00:23:26,973 --> 00:23:29,707 Hope I don't have to get a blood transfusion. 422 00:23:29,742 --> 00:23:31,208 I don't wanna nobody's nasty blood. 423 00:23:31,244 --> 00:23:32,376 Do they give you somebody else's blood? 424 00:23:46,826 --> 00:23:47,858 [dee speaking] 425 00:23:52,432 --> 00:23:54,832 I'm not worried about my health at all right now. 426 00:23:54,867 --> 00:23:57,701 I'm kinda just worried about the baby. 427 00:23:57,737 --> 00:24:01,238 If she is okay. Because if anything does go wrong, 428 00:24:01,274 --> 00:24:03,941 it's not only bad for me, it's bad for ensley as well. 429 00:24:07,246 --> 00:24:08,679 [rock music playing] 430 00:24:15,788 --> 00:24:17,721 [jenna] wait. [indistinct] 431 00:24:21,561 --> 00:24:24,929 aden, luca and I are going to my dad and cathy's for dinner. 432 00:24:24,964 --> 00:24:26,831 -[jenna] hey! How are you? -[cathy] good. How are you? 433 00:24:26,866 --> 00:24:28,199 Good. 434 00:24:28,234 --> 00:24:33,170 I think, with my dad and his relationship, is it okay right now? 435 00:24:33,206 --> 00:24:36,974 It's gotten better. But we still have things to work on. 436 00:24:37,009 --> 00:24:38,476 What are you feeding him? 437 00:24:38,511 --> 00:24:40,478 [matt speaking] 438 00:24:40,513 --> 00:24:44,415 I might not always get along with my dad but that doesn't mean that 439 00:24:44,450 --> 00:24:49,386 luca and his relationship should be strained 'cause I have issues with him. 440 00:24:49,422 --> 00:24:52,189 I think it's super important that luca has a relationship 441 00:24:52,225 --> 00:24:54,358 with my dad and all his grandparents. 442 00:24:55,795 --> 00:24:56,660 [indistinct] 443 00:24:56,696 --> 00:24:58,329 we're eatin' already? Right away? 444 00:24:58,364 --> 00:24:59,330 [matt speaking] 445 00:24:59,365 --> 00:25:00,698 all right. We could eat. 446 00:25:05,104 --> 00:25:08,105 It's an amazing feeling them being here. And just being able to... 447 00:25:09,008 --> 00:25:11,008 Hold luca. 448 00:25:11,043 --> 00:25:13,878 When they were living with us, I think I took it for granted 449 00:25:13,913 --> 00:25:15,212 that they're always gonna be there forever. 450 00:25:16,015 --> 00:25:17,548 And then that gap 451 00:25:17,583 --> 00:25:21,685 of luca not being able to come around, it sucked. 452 00:25:21,721 --> 00:25:25,089 And it's just an amazing feeling having them all back and... 453 00:25:25,124 --> 00:25:28,692 I just don't, I'm just not gonna do anything to piss her off again. 454 00:25:28,728 --> 00:25:29,627 [chuckles softly] 455 00:25:31,163 --> 00:25:34,031 [cathy] luc's starting to looks so much older. 456 00:25:34,066 --> 00:25:37,167 -[jenna] I know. -He doesn't have the baby face anymore. 457 00:25:37,203 --> 00:25:40,571 No, he doesn't. He's like thinned down. He used to be so chunky. 458 00:25:42,942 --> 00:25:45,376 So, what you guys doing today, anything? 459 00:25:46,012 --> 00:25:47,578 No. 460 00:25:48,781 --> 00:25:50,681 -Do you have work aden? -Yeah. 461 00:25:54,687 --> 00:25:56,020 Need anymore? 462 00:26:00,793 --> 00:26:01,725 [laughs] 463 00:26:06,132 --> 00:26:07,998 [matt] obviously, they have issues. 464 00:26:08,034 --> 00:26:10,067 -They're 18 years old. -Right. 465 00:26:10,102 --> 00:26:13,037 It's their first, like, real relationship. 466 00:26:13,072 --> 00:26:15,239 They don't know how to communicate-- 467 00:26:15,274 --> 00:26:19,176 they have a young child, they have their own place, they're paying their bills. 468 00:26:19,211 --> 00:26:21,545 -That's a lot. That's a lot. -Real fast. 469 00:26:21,581 --> 00:26:23,981 That's a lot to be on someone's shoulders. 470 00:26:24,016 --> 00:26:26,450 I think aden enjoys being a breadwinner. 471 00:26:26,485 --> 00:26:29,019 But I think he doesn't understand that 472 00:26:29,055 --> 00:26:31,855 jenna being staying at her mom, gives him the opportunity 473 00:26:31,891 --> 00:26:35,960 to go work so jenna is doing her part. 474 00:26:35,995 --> 00:26:38,462 And aden needs to respect that. 475 00:26:39,432 --> 00:26:41,131 To work effectively... 476 00:26:41,867 --> 00:26:43,334 For all three of them. 477 00:26:49,308 --> 00:26:51,308 -[matt] see ya! -[cathy chuckles] 478 00:26:54,213 --> 00:26:56,480 -[cathy] he's like bye. -[matt] see ya. 479 00:26:56,515 --> 00:26:57,848 [matt speaking] 480 00:26:59,018 --> 00:27:01,118 [cathy] that's probably where he's going. 481 00:27:01,153 --> 00:27:02,453 [jenna] where are you going? 482 00:27:03,189 --> 00:27:04,521 I love being a mom. 483 00:27:04,557 --> 00:27:06,523 But two years ago when I met aden, 484 00:27:06,559 --> 00:27:09,693 I didn't figure this is gonna be my life. I mean, 485 00:27:09,729 --> 00:27:13,297 I don't think anybody at 16, sees a boy and think, in two years 486 00:27:13,332 --> 00:27:17,635 I'm gonna be breast feeding his kid to sleep. Like who thinks that? 487 00:27:17,670 --> 00:27:19,703 Nobody thinks that, um... 488 00:27:19,739 --> 00:27:23,407 I don't think I would have a boyfriend, if I didn't have a baby. 489 00:27:23,442 --> 00:27:25,209 You know, I don't know. I just... 490 00:27:26,612 --> 00:27:28,278 I don't know. I don't know. 491 00:27:32,451 --> 00:27:33,884 -Look! -[honking] 492 00:27:35,621 --> 00:27:37,187 [toy car starts] 493 00:27:37,890 --> 00:27:39,423 [toy car whirs] 494 00:27:39,458 --> 00:27:40,591 [matt] what else is up? 495 00:27:41,727 --> 00:27:42,760 [jenna speaking] 496 00:27:44,130 --> 00:27:45,562 -[cathy] yeah? -[matt] really? 497 00:27:45,898 --> 00:27:47,898 Yeah. 498 00:27:47,933 --> 00:27:50,934 Aden still doesn't know that I'm thinking about getting an apartment. 499 00:27:51,837 --> 00:27:53,037 I haven't told him. 500 00:27:57,677 --> 00:28:01,011 [jenna] if I want to get my own apartment, I need my own money. 501 00:28:01,047 --> 00:28:04,214 And I need to get a job as soon as possible. 502 00:28:04,250 --> 00:28:07,351 I think maybe being a doula is the answer. 503 00:28:09,021 --> 00:28:13,223 But I'm just not ready yet to make this... 504 00:28:13,259 --> 00:28:17,728 Make the step of leaving aden because I'm not sure yet where we are. 505 00:28:17,763 --> 00:28:21,298 So, I wanna get my dad's opinion on becoming a doula. 506 00:28:21,333 --> 00:28:25,235 But I don't wanna talk about the real reason, I want to become a doula. 507 00:28:27,773 --> 00:28:31,241 What made you get interested in becoming a doula? 508 00:28:31,277 --> 00:28:33,143 [jenna] uh! I don't know. 509 00:28:34,013 --> 00:28:36,080 I like to breast feed. 510 00:28:36,115 --> 00:28:38,248 -Cause you like to breast feed. -Yeah. 511 00:28:39,885 --> 00:28:43,353 -I don't know what the hell a doula does or is... -[laughs] 512 00:28:43,389 --> 00:28:46,724 but it is exciting to see jenna interested about the doula thing because 513 00:28:47,226 --> 00:28:49,593 I haven't seen... 514 00:28:49,628 --> 00:28:53,797 Her be interested in doing anything for herself 515 00:28:53,833 --> 00:28:56,166 since before she found out she was pregnant. 516 00:28:56,202 --> 00:29:00,804 As long as it makes her excited and gives her more of a feeling of-- 517 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,540 -independence. -Independence and self-worth, like, 518 00:29:03,576 --> 00:29:06,710 she relies on aden for so much. 519 00:29:06,746 --> 00:29:10,948 And I wanna see her do something. So, she has a fall back planned 520 00:29:10,983 --> 00:29:13,016 in any event that something happens. 521 00:29:13,052 --> 00:29:15,853 You have no idea what tomorrow's gonna bring. 522 00:29:15,888 --> 00:29:20,524 So, why not prepare for the worst, hope for the best. 523 00:29:20,559 --> 00:29:22,226 And just get ahead of a potential problem. 524 00:29:24,196 --> 00:29:26,497 What kind of training's involved in that? 525 00:29:26,532 --> 00:29:30,534 Nothing training really, just education, but like... 526 00:29:30,569 --> 00:29:35,472 Really don't need any certificate or certification in pennsylvania to be one. 527 00:29:35,508 --> 00:29:36,707 Really? 528 00:29:37,943 --> 00:29:39,710 But how does one become one? 529 00:29:39,745 --> 00:29:41,979 -You just call yourself one. -Oh! 530 00:29:42,915 --> 00:29:45,382 -Who pays for that? -Out of pocket. 531 00:29:46,318 --> 00:29:47,284 So, it's like... 532 00:29:47,953 --> 00:29:50,020 [aden speaking] 533 00:29:50,055 --> 00:29:54,958 not necessarily. Just people who don't want medicines shoved on their face. 534 00:29:57,129 --> 00:29:59,830 Well it's good. Whatever keeps you busy and happy. 535 00:30:00,866 --> 00:30:05,269 I think jenna wanting to be a doula is, uh, 536 00:30:06,739 --> 00:30:09,173 stupid as hell. 537 00:30:09,208 --> 00:30:13,777 I think it's best for one of the parents to be like the main source of income. 538 00:30:19,185 --> 00:30:23,487 But for me, it's nice to have another purpose other than just being a mom. 539 00:30:23,522 --> 00:30:25,355 And I can do something else to make money. 540 00:30:26,091 --> 00:30:27,991 -It don't matter. -Okay. 541 00:30:28,828 --> 00:30:31,328 We literally have a joint bank. 542 00:30:31,363 --> 00:30:33,697 She literally has a debit card that... 543 00:30:34,867 --> 00:30:36,900 Our money is just our money. 544 00:30:42,041 --> 00:30:43,340 [music playing] 545 00:30:48,848 --> 00:30:52,149 -you're starting a doula business. -[jenna] I guess so. 546 00:30:52,184 --> 00:30:55,285 You sub-contact doulas out. 547 00:30:56,689 --> 00:30:58,322 -You know? -Yeah. 548 00:30:58,357 --> 00:31:01,558 I don't know what I want. But I do know, if you have money 549 00:31:01,594 --> 00:31:06,163 you can go get an apartment that day or you could leave the state. 550 00:31:06,198 --> 00:31:09,299 Or you could do whatever you want. But if you have no money, 551 00:31:09,335 --> 00:31:11,535 your options are a lot smaller. 552 00:31:11,570 --> 00:31:15,272 So, I think it's extremely important that I have money 553 00:31:15,307 --> 00:31:18,942 and then I have money saved up. And like, an emergency fund 554 00:31:18,978 --> 00:31:21,378 in case I just need to go somewhere. 555 00:31:23,215 --> 00:31:25,182 You wanna go into your bedroom? 556 00:31:25,217 --> 00:31:26,216 [emersyn speaking] 557 00:31:27,753 --> 00:31:29,353 [emersyn] my mom has a lot of rules. 558 00:31:29,388 --> 00:31:32,689 Mason has to stay downstairs and like can't sleep in the same bed. 559 00:31:32,725 --> 00:31:34,391 And enough is enough. 560 00:31:34,426 --> 00:31:35,425 [emersyn speaking] 561 00:31:42,001 --> 00:31:44,468 [electronic song plays] 562 00:31:52,378 --> 00:31:56,280 taking care of a baby is definitely more challenging than I thought it would be. 563 00:31:56,315 --> 00:31:59,783 Like, I thought I was tired before I was pregnant. But now I'm really tired. 564 00:32:01,086 --> 00:32:03,987 Like, if baby cries, you're up. 565 00:32:04,023 --> 00:32:06,857 If your baby moves, you're up, especially in the night 566 00:32:06,892 --> 00:32:11,361 um, it's just like all your attention is on the baby. 567 00:32:11,397 --> 00:32:15,265 You just got, like, a chain to his hand to yours. 568 00:32:16,035 --> 00:32:17,668 You're just attached to him. 569 00:32:21,740 --> 00:32:24,708 [baby crying] 570 00:32:34,153 --> 00:32:37,521 [emersyn] I slept on the couch last night because mason can't go up in my room. 571 00:32:37,556 --> 00:32:40,357 And to go back and forth is just exhausting. 572 00:32:40,392 --> 00:32:43,026 I was just really annoyed cause I did have a newborn. 573 00:32:43,062 --> 00:32:44,728 I was like, I just need his help. 574 00:32:45,597 --> 00:32:47,030 Like even if I'm sleeping like... 575 00:32:48,167 --> 00:32:50,100 I just need him there for moral support. 576 00:32:50,135 --> 00:32:52,135 [mason] I help with what I can. 577 00:32:52,171 --> 00:32:54,371 Like if she wants a break, I hold him. 578 00:32:54,406 --> 00:32:56,673 But for the most part, she does the lot of the work. 579 00:32:59,078 --> 00:33:01,445 -Emersyn. -I change the most of the diapers. 580 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,180 Every time I ask him, he's like... 581 00:33:03,215 --> 00:33:05,482 "I did it the last time." and I'm like, no you didn't. 582 00:33:06,752 --> 00:33:07,818 It was yesterday. 583 00:33:09,855 --> 00:33:11,188 [baby crying] 584 00:33:16,729 --> 00:33:22,499 I just... Do the best I can with helping and... 585 00:33:22,534 --> 00:33:26,069 I maybe tired but I know she's like really tired. 'cause it's like... 586 00:33:26,105 --> 00:33:29,439 'cause she's the one feeding him and taking care of him. 587 00:33:29,475 --> 00:33:32,376 He's supposed to eat like every one to two hours. 588 00:33:32,411 --> 00:33:35,178 It's like imagine... 589 00:33:35,214 --> 00:33:38,548 At you're pizza place you had a bed in the back, 590 00:33:38,584 --> 00:33:41,918 and you wanted to sleep. But every time someone came up you had to go make a pizza. 591 00:33:41,954 --> 00:33:43,020 And it was 24x7. 592 00:33:43,889 --> 00:33:45,655 'cause someone wanted a pizza. 593 00:33:45,691 --> 00:33:48,091 Interesting analogy, but sure. 594 00:33:48,127 --> 00:33:49,159 Like that. 595 00:33:53,699 --> 00:33:54,631 Mm. 596 00:33:55,100 --> 00:33:56,433 [mason speaking] 597 00:33:56,468 --> 00:33:57,801 [emersyn speaking] 598 00:33:57,836 --> 00:33:59,236 [baby crying] 599 00:34:05,944 --> 00:34:10,380 I think that mason, doesn't really know 600 00:34:10,416 --> 00:34:13,583 how to pull his weight right now in this. I think he thinks he is. 601 00:34:14,053 --> 00:34:15,318 Um, 602 00:34:15,354 --> 00:34:17,888 but I'm not sure he really understands... 603 00:34:19,591 --> 00:34:22,092 Everything that emersyn's going through emotionally. 604 00:34:22,127 --> 00:34:25,228 And I don't think emersyn's speaking up enough to him. 605 00:34:25,264 --> 00:34:29,466 Or putting enough pressure on him to help her... Him to understand 606 00:34:29,501 --> 00:34:31,301 how he can really stress for her. 607 00:34:32,638 --> 00:34:34,104 It's hard to watch sometimes. 608 00:34:36,442 --> 00:34:37,240 Yaay! 609 00:34:38,043 --> 00:34:39,309 [mason] wooh! 610 00:34:48,020 --> 00:34:50,654 -I would have came and got you. -I know. 611 00:34:57,696 --> 00:34:59,196 -[emersyn] oh, wow! -[laughs] 612 00:35:02,434 --> 00:35:07,971 I'm trying to do as much as possible for emersyn and mateo, um, 613 00:35:08,006 --> 00:35:10,674 because I'm only here for a few nights. 614 00:35:10,709 --> 00:35:14,411 It is a little bit more difficult than I expected it to be with 615 00:35:14,446 --> 00:35:17,747 the arrangement and everything and it's just... 616 00:35:17,783 --> 00:35:21,852 Not what parents should be going through. Especially with a newborn. 617 00:35:27,759 --> 00:35:28,792 Okay. 618 00:35:32,297 --> 00:35:34,831 I've been following the rules and I'm tired. 619 00:35:34,867 --> 00:35:37,300 I need mason and so does the baby. 620 00:35:37,336 --> 00:35:41,004 As much as my parents think they know what's best for me, in this instance, 621 00:35:42,174 --> 00:35:43,607 I don't think they do. 622 00:35:43,642 --> 00:35:45,242 [emersyn] and enough is enough. 623 00:35:45,277 --> 00:35:47,577 Hi! We're gonna go upstairs. 624 00:35:47,613 --> 00:35:50,413 I feel like emersyn's mom, she's trying to... 625 00:35:51,283 --> 00:35:52,449 Control... 626 00:35:54,453 --> 00:35:58,722 What she shouldn't be controlling at this point, like, 627 00:35:58,757 --> 00:36:02,425 I think it's her last effort to get in some... 628 00:36:04,429 --> 00:36:08,698 Punishment towards emersyn for you know getting pregnant. 629 00:36:08,734 --> 00:36:11,134 [emersyn speaking] 630 00:36:11,170 --> 00:36:13,136 -[mason] I'll come back for it. -You'll come back for it? 631 00:36:13,172 --> 00:36:14,738 [emersyn] I mean, I've already learnt my lesson. 632 00:36:15,340 --> 00:36:16,506 So... 633 00:36:17,809 --> 00:36:19,242 The damage has already been done. 634 00:36:20,312 --> 00:36:21,912 [tyra] have you talked to your daughter? 635 00:36:21,947 --> 00:36:23,713 No, I haven't talked to her yet. 636 00:36:23,749 --> 00:36:26,583 I've been waiting for a phone call from tiarra. 637 00:36:26,618 --> 00:36:30,187 Just to see if the baby's been born yet and still nothing. 638 00:36:30,222 --> 00:36:31,655 So, I got a bit worried. 639 00:36:32,758 --> 00:36:34,624 [mimi] hold on! I got a text. 640 00:36:38,630 --> 00:36:40,931 ♪ I'm strong, work hard I'm a fighter♪ 641 00:36:40,966 --> 00:36:44,167 ♪ tearing down walls and I'm breaking through♪ 642 00:36:47,139 --> 00:36:49,439 -[mimi] hello! -[tyra] hi 643 00:36:49,474 --> 00:36:50,807 [tyra] have you talked to your daughter? 644 00:36:50,842 --> 00:36:52,642 No, I haven't talked to her yet. 645 00:36:52,678 --> 00:36:55,145 She texted me about an hour ago 646 00:36:55,180 --> 00:36:57,614 and said she was waiting on her spinal tap. 647 00:36:57,649 --> 00:37:03,653 Then, I tried to call her back and she didn't answer. So, I'm guessing 648 00:37:03,689 --> 00:37:05,889 that they're doing it now. 649 00:37:05,924 --> 00:37:06,990 -And-- -[tyra speaking] 650 00:37:11,196 --> 00:37:14,564 oh! They must be doing it now 'cause she was-- 651 00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,499 [ella crying] 652 00:37:16,535 --> 00:37:18,201 I'm looking, I'm looking. 653 00:37:19,771 --> 00:37:23,473 I got in your spot. Oh, my... Jesus christ. 654 00:37:23,508 --> 00:37:27,911 I've been sitting here, playing with ella waiting for a phone call from 655 00:37:27,946 --> 00:37:29,613 dee for tiarra. 656 00:37:29,648 --> 00:37:33,316 To see if the baby's been born yet, and still nothing. 657 00:37:33,352 --> 00:37:36,119 So, I'm beginning to get a little bit worried. 658 00:37:38,056 --> 00:37:41,291 We've both been worried about tiarra cause we hadn't heard anything for a while. 659 00:37:44,196 --> 00:37:45,395 [phone vibrating] 660 00:37:45,430 --> 00:37:47,931 oh! Hold on, I got a text. 661 00:37:47,966 --> 00:37:50,600 -[tyra speaking] -dee, seven pounds 662 00:37:50,636 --> 00:37:51,701 [tyra speaking] 663 00:37:52,471 --> 00:37:54,371 we got a baby! 664 00:37:54,406 --> 00:37:55,605 No! [crying] 665 00:37:57,209 --> 00:37:59,709 [tyra] ella, you have a baby sister. 666 00:37:59,745 --> 00:38:01,811 Ella, you're baby sister is here. 667 00:38:02,848 --> 00:38:04,714 [mimi] okay, okay. It's okay. 668 00:38:09,187 --> 00:38:10,320 [lively piano music playing] 669 00:38:13,725 --> 00:38:16,559 so, this is ella's little sister. 670 00:38:16,595 --> 00:38:18,628 The newest addition to our family. 671 00:38:26,605 --> 00:38:28,138 Whenever she was born, 672 00:38:28,173 --> 00:38:32,242 she had some trouble breathing at first so, I was kinda scared. 673 00:38:32,277 --> 00:38:36,680 And they said it was normal because, instead of having a natural birth, 674 00:38:36,715 --> 00:38:38,114 she was pulled out by c-section. 675 00:38:38,150 --> 00:38:40,917 So she didn't get all the stuff out of her lungs. 676 00:38:40,952 --> 00:38:44,688 Um, but now she's doing so great. They monitored her. She started looking good. 677 00:38:45,424 --> 00:38:47,957 So, she's great and healthy now. 678 00:38:47,993 --> 00:38:52,095 I'm healthy now. I didn't have any problems. 679 00:38:52,130 --> 00:38:55,999 No problems with my iron, or my blood, all that was so good. 680 00:38:56,034 --> 00:38:59,002 So, I'm very blessed. So excited that she's here. 681 00:38:59,037 --> 00:39:03,106 And I can't wait to take her home and meet ella 'cause 682 00:39:03,141 --> 00:39:05,675 I know ella is going to be so excited to see her. 683 00:39:06,945 --> 00:39:08,111 [phone chimes] 684 00:39:09,414 --> 00:39:11,348 she's probably getting hungry. 685 00:39:11,383 --> 00:39:15,318 This is ensley joanne ragland. She was born on July 21st. 686 00:39:15,354 --> 00:39:16,953 And she's looking for a titty. 687 00:39:16,988 --> 00:39:20,090 Let's hear you do that. Hey! Keep your hands off. Just go to sleep, like always. 688 00:39:20,125 --> 00:39:22,425 Go to sleep. 689 00:39:22,461 --> 00:39:27,397 She was born July 21st. 7 pounds and 18 inches long. 690 00:39:27,432 --> 00:39:30,266 -She's 19. Head was 14 inches. -Ella was eighteen and half. 691 00:39:31,436 --> 00:39:32,402 Sorry! 692 00:39:33,271 --> 00:39:35,038 Sorry, sorry [indistinct] 693 00:39:41,146 --> 00:39:44,147 [chuckles] the first time I held ensley, I felt... 694 00:39:45,450 --> 00:39:48,585 I don't know. Like damn, I really got two kids. 695 00:39:48,620 --> 00:39:50,086 [both laughing] 696 00:39:52,023 --> 00:39:54,891 [dee] she's been my daughter for nine months. 697 00:39:54,926 --> 00:39:59,229 Well, I think I was the same with dee. Like, "dang, I really have two kids." 698 00:39:59,264 --> 00:40:01,464 but I don't really remember most of it. 699 00:40:02,267 --> 00:40:03,666 So... 700 00:40:03,702 --> 00:40:07,170 But I know I loved ensley ever since I found out I was pregnant. 701 00:40:07,205 --> 00:40:08,838 Even though all she wants is my tit. 702 00:40:18,417 --> 00:40:19,482 [baby cooing] 703 00:40:21,820 --> 00:40:22,852 -[sniffs] mm. -[tiarra] so good. 704 00:40:24,256 --> 00:40:25,488 Still got the new baby smell. 705 00:40:27,592 --> 00:40:29,959 -Okay. She wants a titty. Are we done? -[producer] okay. 706 00:40:33,799 --> 00:40:36,366 [narrator] next time on unexpected... 707 00:40:36,401 --> 00:40:37,634 -[crying in pain] -[jason speaking] 708 00:40:37,669 --> 00:40:38,935 [crying in pain] 709 00:40:38,970 --> 00:40:41,037 I think that you should call the ambulance. 710 00:40:41,072 --> 00:40:41,971 [jason speaking] 711 00:40:42,007 --> 00:40:43,373 [crying] 712 00:40:43,408 --> 00:40:45,408 [tiarra] today is the day that we come home from the hospital. 713 00:40:45,444 --> 00:40:47,911 I'm nervous for how ella would be around ensley. 714 00:40:50,649 --> 00:40:54,250 Just because it's been just her for a while 715 00:40:54,286 --> 00:40:56,619 -I'm just gonna hold her neck. I'm not taking her. -[ella cries] 716 00:40:58,523 --> 00:41:01,724 -[jenna] who is that? -[aden] once I get home everything's a [bleep] mess. 717 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,226 [jenna] so, you clean [bleep] up then. 718 00:41:03,261 --> 00:41:05,728 What the [bleep] do you do all day? 719 00:41:05,764 --> 00:41:09,966 Taking care of the kids, wiping ass, breast feeding, giving baths, showers, 720 00:41:10,001 --> 00:41:13,470 taking kids outside to play, feeding kids, cooking three meals [bleep] 721 00:41:13,505 --> 00:41:16,406 -what you do is not hard. -[bleep] you. 722 00:41:16,441 --> 00:41:19,876 Let's make it clear that I said mason couldn't sleep in the bed with you. 723 00:41:19,911 --> 00:41:23,046 And I caught him sleeping in the bed. That's why he isn't allowed in my house. 724 00:41:23,081 --> 00:41:25,315 Because he is completely disrespectful and rude.