1 00:00:10,978 --> 00:00:13,308 [narrator] Previously on Unexpected... 2 00:00:13,347 --> 00:00:15,317 [Erica] I want you to be able to bond with the baby, but... 3 00:00:16,750 --> 00:00:19,050 Um, how do you feel about that? 4 00:00:19,086 --> 00:00:22,716 My mom has unreasonable rules but she’s not gonna win this one. 5 00:00:24,424 --> 00:00:27,534 Wake me, since somebody needs to be by your side. 6 00:00:27,561 --> 00:00:32,431 This is the birth of his child and he’s asleep. That sends a red flag to me. 7 00:00:32,466 --> 00:00:34,326 -[woman screaming] -[baby crying] 8 00:00:34,735 --> 00:00:36,505 [woman speaking] 9 00:00:36,537 --> 00:00:38,267 [Mason] This is Mateo. 10 00:00:38,305 --> 00:00:40,845 I feel like I’m his everything and he’s my everything. 11 00:00:40,874 --> 00:00:43,614 Now, I just can’t imagine life without him. 12 00:00:43,644 --> 00:00:47,484 Your iron is super low. I suggest that you restart the iron. 13 00:00:47,514 --> 00:00:51,424 There could be a lot of difficulties with the baby, because my iron is so low. 14 00:00:51,451 --> 00:00:54,251 -My stomach’s [bleep] cramping-- -Oh! God. 15 00:00:54,288 --> 00:00:57,188 So, I’m kind off just very terrified something wrong is gonna happen. 16 00:00:57,958 --> 00:00:59,828 I was looking at apartments. 17 00:00:59,860 --> 00:01:01,530 Apartments for you and Aden? 18 00:01:01,562 --> 00:01:04,302 No. Just Luca and I. 19 00:01:04,331 --> 00:01:08,741 Aden’s there for Luca. But he’s not necessarily there for me. 20 00:01:08,769 --> 00:01:12,039 I just need to figure out what I wanna do. 21 00:01:12,072 --> 00:01:15,782 I was surprised you guys didn’t wanna birth in the hospital. 22 00:01:15,809 --> 00:01:18,079 At this midwife, they talked to him, 23 00:01:18,111 --> 00:01:20,951 See how he’s feeling. How he feels with it. 24 00:01:20,981 --> 00:01:22,921 [Scott] Jason’s controlling everything. 25 00:01:22,950 --> 00:01:26,990 And we’re concerned that she’s walking into a birth plan that’s 26 00:01:27,020 --> 00:01:29,420 set up for his needs and not hers. 27 00:01:33,694 --> 00:01:37,064 ♪ One step closer to you♪ 28 00:01:37,097 --> 00:01:40,627 ♪ And I’m nervous, I’m nervous, I’m nervous♪ 29 00:01:41,635 --> 00:01:45,215 ♪ One look over from you♪ 30 00:01:45,238 --> 00:01:48,508 ♪ And you’re perfect, you’re perfect, you’re perfect♪ 31 00:01:48,542 --> 00:01:49,812 [brushing] 32 00:01:49,843 --> 00:01:53,283 So, today I’m going for my C-section and I’m excited because 33 00:01:53,313 --> 00:01:55,283 I’m sure I did not want to be pregnant anymore. 34 00:01:57,317 --> 00:02:00,317 Even though I’m gonna have to have a C-section, 35 00:02:00,354 --> 00:02:03,124 I’ve been trying to, at least, 36 00:02:03,156 --> 00:02:06,656 get my labor started somehow, by bouncing on a ball. 37 00:02:06,693 --> 00:02:08,433 Walking up and down the steps. 38 00:02:09,463 --> 00:02:11,163 Dancing with Ella. 39 00:02:11,198 --> 00:02:14,368 Honestly, everything. Just trying to get this baby out. 40 00:02:16,069 --> 00:02:17,469 [zipping] 41 00:02:26,146 --> 00:02:27,706 -How would they know? -Where’re you gonna put it? 42 00:02:27,748 --> 00:02:29,548 -You’re not gonna put in-- -[Dee] Where the TV is. 43 00:02:29,583 --> 00:02:31,653 -No, I’m saying in what bag? -My bag. 44 00:02:33,387 --> 00:02:34,617 There’s gonna be room for that? 45 00:02:38,525 --> 00:02:41,155 [Tiarra] I’m just wondering what he’s gonna do with that because 46 00:02:41,194 --> 00:02:44,234 That’s the last thing he’s probably gonna be thinking about at the hospital. 47 00:02:44,264 --> 00:02:47,134 I just figured that one should bring it just incase-- 48 00:02:47,167 --> 00:02:49,237 Just in case there’s a little bit of free time. 49 00:02:49,269 --> 00:02:50,769 ’Cause you’re gonna be drugged up anyways. 50 00:02:50,804 --> 00:02:52,614 You’ll probably be asleep the whole time. 51 00:02:54,374 --> 00:02:56,314 That doesn’t mean you get to sit down and play a game. 52 00:02:56,343 --> 00:03:01,953 Plus whenever babies are born they sleep most of the time anyway so... 53 00:03:01,982 --> 00:03:05,392 I just didn’t wanna be bored. Especially with us being like locked in the room. 54 00:03:07,387 --> 00:03:08,347 [Ella crying] 55 00:03:08,388 --> 00:03:09,488 [Mimi] Here’s your sandwich. 56 00:03:09,923 --> 00:03:11,493 [Ella crying] 57 00:03:11,525 --> 00:03:12,835 [shushes] Okay. 58 00:03:12,859 --> 00:03:16,499 So, my mom flew to Maryland so she can help out with Ella 59 00:03:16,530 --> 00:03:18,930 while we go to the hospital to have Ensley. 60 00:03:18,965 --> 00:03:20,965 And she’ll be staying for couple of weeks. 61 00:03:21,001 --> 00:03:23,341 Mommy’s gonna have the baby today. 62 00:03:23,370 --> 00:03:24,270 [Ella speaking] 63 00:03:24,571 --> 00:03:26,271 Okay. 64 00:03:26,306 --> 00:03:30,076 When we come home from the hospital, you know, she can help me out with Ella. 65 00:03:30,110 --> 00:03:31,950 Because Ella is a very demanding toddler. 66 00:03:32,813 --> 00:03:34,083 Mm. 67 00:03:36,349 --> 00:03:38,219 -Mimi’s. -Mommy’s? 68 00:03:38,251 --> 00:03:39,991 -No, Mimi’s. -Fine. 69 00:03:44,591 --> 00:03:47,861 Dee, better make sure you keep my daughter safe at the hospital today. 70 00:03:48,628 --> 00:03:50,028 And take care of her. 71 00:03:50,764 --> 00:03:53,434 [Dee speaking] 72 00:03:53,467 --> 00:03:55,837 [Tiarra] Mom, you’re scaring her about saying the hospital. 73 00:03:55,869 --> 00:03:58,099 [Ella crying] No! No! 74 00:04:00,874 --> 00:04:04,044 [Dee] You call the doctors and nurses and tell them to keep her safe. 75 00:04:04,077 --> 00:04:06,707 -[Mimi] Oh okay. -I’m just there for support. 76 00:04:06,747 --> 00:04:08,877 -[Mimi] Oh! -[Tiarra] Yeah, support. 77 00:04:08,915 --> 00:04:10,215 [Mimi chuckles] 78 00:04:10,250 --> 00:04:13,650 It’s so hard on me, I know I can’t be there to see Ensley born, 79 00:04:13,687 --> 00:04:15,657 since I was there with Ella and Layla. 80 00:04:16,356 --> 00:04:17,816 And I’m scared because 81 00:04:20,093 --> 00:04:22,633 That can cause her to bleed a lot. 82 00:04:22,662 --> 00:04:25,772 I’m really hoping nothing goes wrong with the C-section. 83 00:04:25,799 --> 00:04:30,099 If it does, I’m hoping Dee let’s me know right away. 84 00:04:30,137 --> 00:04:32,307 I wouldn’t count on Dee calling you because if something did happen, 85 00:04:32,339 --> 00:04:33,709 he probably would pass out. 86 00:04:35,675 --> 00:04:38,205 You be like, "Dee do this!" 87 00:04:38,245 --> 00:04:40,615 He be like, "But do I have to?" 88 00:04:40,647 --> 00:04:42,177 [Tiarra] And I’ll punch him in his [indistinct]. 89 00:04:42,949 --> 00:04:44,149 And he’ll leave. 90 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,160 -[Mimi] You won’t leave her. -Ok. Don’t care if you leave. 91 00:04:50,891 --> 00:04:56,431 It’s only gonna be me and Dee there. And last time, I remember Dee really wasn’t 92 00:04:56,463 --> 00:04:59,803 much of, like, my support person. It was more like my mom. 93 00:04:59,833 --> 00:05:04,743 So, I think I’m nervous, he’s gonna freak out and not know what to do. 94 00:05:04,771 --> 00:05:06,411 I don’t remember. I just remember-- 95 00:05:06,439 --> 00:05:08,909 You don’t remember ’cause you were sitting on the couch all up in your phone. 96 00:05:08,942 --> 00:05:11,512 Yeah because it was... it was a weird experience, it’s like, 97 00:05:11,545 --> 00:05:14,685 she was pushing. And then they we’re like, "We got to the C-section." 98 00:05:14,714 --> 00:05:17,024 And then our family comes in crying and stuff. It was just weird. 99 00:05:17,050 --> 00:05:19,350 He was just sitting there on his phone whole time and just chilling. 100 00:05:22,389 --> 00:05:23,919 [Tiarra] Bye, I love you. 101 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,339 [cries] 102 00:05:45,679 --> 00:05:49,379 It’s really hitting me that it’s just gonna be Dee and I at the hospital all alone. 103 00:05:50,984 --> 00:05:54,224 And it’s freaking me out a little bit because 104 00:05:54,254 --> 00:05:56,994 I’m used to like my mom always being there, like, when I needed her, 105 00:05:57,023 --> 00:06:00,593 and at this time, she couldn’t be. 106 00:06:00,627 --> 00:06:04,827 I just turned 18 this year, so it’s like I’m just now being able to, like, 107 00:06:04,865 --> 00:06:06,905 make decisions without my mom. 108 00:06:06,933 --> 00:06:09,673 And Dee can’t support me like the same way my mom does. 109 00:06:09,703 --> 00:06:12,213 So that’s, like, scary too. 110 00:06:19,379 --> 00:06:22,079 [music playing] 111 00:06:23,884 --> 00:06:26,654 [Mason] It is currently 12:18 and... 112 00:06:28,054 --> 00:06:34,164 two hours ago, Mateo was taken to get circumcised and... 113 00:06:35,328 --> 00:06:37,358 they checked on his vitals as well. 114 00:06:42,168 --> 00:06:45,098 He’s doing fantastic. He’s tired. 115 00:06:45,672 --> 00:06:46,872 He’s sleeping. 116 00:06:48,575 --> 00:06:51,515 I can’t wait to take him home. 117 00:06:51,544 --> 00:06:55,824 It’s her second day in the hospital and Mateo is one day old. 118 00:06:55,849 --> 00:07:00,149 [Emersyn] After he was born, I stayed up all night. I didn’t sleep at all. 119 00:07:00,186 --> 00:07:05,486 Because I was scared he’d like flip over in the bassinet they gave us. 120 00:07:05,525 --> 00:07:07,855 And they wouldn’t let me sleep with him. 121 00:07:07,894 --> 00:07:12,574 Having a baby is extremely exhausting, but like, rewarding at the same time. 122 00:07:12,599 --> 00:07:16,799 Like, I knew the love would be great but I didn’t know it would feel this, kinda, 123 00:07:16,836 --> 00:07:19,166 -like, this much. -[baby cooing] 124 00:07:19,205 --> 00:07:20,835 Especially as a mom. Yeah. 125 00:07:23,209 --> 00:07:24,679 Yeah. He’s going. 126 00:07:24,711 --> 00:07:25,781 [Emersyn speaking] 127 00:07:32,786 --> 00:07:34,316 Where’s his pacifier? 128 00:07:37,791 --> 00:07:39,631 [cell phone ringing] 129 00:07:39,659 --> 00:07:42,999 -[chimes] -[gasps] Good morning, sunshine. 130 00:07:43,797 --> 00:07:45,197 Morning! 131 00:07:45,231 --> 00:07:47,001 What’s the news? 132 00:07:47,033 --> 00:07:52,713 They just came for me a checkup for discharging. 133 00:07:52,739 --> 00:07:55,679 Okay. What time do you think you’re coming home? 134 00:07:57,143 --> 00:08:00,813 -[Emersyn] Mason says around eleven. -Oh, okay. 135 00:08:00,847 --> 00:08:03,317 -We were just preparing. -[Emersyn] You’re gonna be surprised. 136 00:08:03,350 --> 00:08:05,790 -Okay, love you. -[kisses] Bye. 137 00:08:05,819 --> 00:08:08,019 [kisses] Bye. 138 00:08:08,054 --> 00:08:11,464 [Emersyn] I have mixed feelings about bringing Mateo home. 139 00:08:11,491 --> 00:08:14,761 Just because my mom and Sai have put rules in place. 140 00:08:14,794 --> 00:08:19,774 Mason, he has to stay downstairs and, like, can’t sleep in the same bed. 141 00:08:19,799 --> 00:08:23,839 But I have a newborn. Like, I just need his help. 142 00:08:23,870 --> 00:08:27,810 Even if I’m sleeping like, I just need him there for moral support. 143 00:08:27,841 --> 00:08:30,041 It’s not like we’re gonna do anything-- 144 00:08:30,076 --> 00:08:32,176 -We literally just had a baby. -She just gave... Yeah. 145 00:08:33,013 --> 00:08:34,813 The doctors told us 146 00:08:34,848 --> 00:08:38,778 you can’t have sex until six weeks after post-partum. 147 00:08:38,818 --> 00:08:41,588 Which I’m fine with because I’m exhausted and taking care of the baby 148 00:08:41,621 --> 00:08:44,061 and I’m still healing down there. 149 00:08:44,090 --> 00:08:48,860 So, I’m actually scared to and really pushing it off until I’m ready. 150 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:58,440 [baby crying] 151 00:08:59,806 --> 00:09:01,006 [kids chattering] 152 00:09:04,878 --> 00:09:07,008 -[Leena] Hi, she’s here. -[dog barking] 153 00:09:07,047 --> 00:09:09,277 -[Emersyn] Hi, Leena. -[Leena] Hi. 154 00:09:09,315 --> 00:09:11,245 -[Liam] Does she have her baby? -[baby cooing] 155 00:09:11,284 --> 00:09:12,694 Who wants to hold him first? 156 00:09:13,486 --> 00:09:15,816 [Erica speaking] 157 00:09:18,958 --> 00:09:20,588 Hey baby! 158 00:09:21,161 --> 00:09:23,131 Are you looking around? 159 00:09:23,163 --> 00:09:24,833 -[kisses] -Yu wanna sit down? 160 00:09:24,864 --> 00:09:26,274 Yeah, I’ll sit, I’ll sit. 161 00:09:27,801 --> 00:09:29,671 Hi, little sweetheart. 162 00:09:30,870 --> 00:09:33,870 You are so alert. Yes, you are. 163 00:09:33,907 --> 00:09:36,837 You are just looking at your big beautiful family. Aren’t you? 164 00:09:37,277 --> 00:09:38,537 Aww! 165 00:09:38,578 --> 00:09:44,178 Oh, my gosh! Seeing him for the first time is like... 166 00:09:44,217 --> 00:09:46,917 I’ve never had that feeling before. Even with my own it was 167 00:09:46,953 --> 00:09:50,023 -completely different because-- -It’s the grandparent feeling. 168 00:09:50,056 --> 00:09:54,486 Yeah. And I’ve heard of it before but I didn’t know what that would be like. 169 00:09:54,527 --> 00:09:56,857 But yeah, gosh I love him so much. 170 00:09:56,896 --> 00:09:58,596 I love him just like my own. 171 00:09:58,631 --> 00:10:01,231 But I have to remember he’s not mine. 172 00:10:01,267 --> 00:10:03,637 It was just very emotional for me. 173 00:10:05,271 --> 00:10:08,211 -Are you ready to play with him everyday? -Yeah. 174 00:10:08,241 --> 00:10:10,881 -Play toys. -Yeah. 175 00:10:10,910 --> 00:10:13,480 -We can play toys... -[all laughing] 176 00:10:13,513 --> 00:10:17,183 -Mateo, Mateo... -Yeah, Mateo. 177 00:10:17,217 --> 00:10:18,377 -Yeah. -Yeah. 178 00:10:18,418 --> 00:10:20,548 Oh, my gosh, he’s so heavy. 179 00:10:20,587 --> 00:10:24,517 You gonna come introduce Uncle Vihaan to Mateo? 180 00:10:24,557 --> 00:10:28,527 Vihaan, look kid, you got a buddy. 181 00:10:28,561 --> 00:10:31,261 Look at this, you got a buddy. 182 00:10:31,297 --> 00:10:33,927 -[Leena screaming] -I know. 183 00:10:33,967 --> 00:10:37,097 I know. Look at this, I think he popped again. 184 00:10:37,137 --> 00:10:41,907 It’s definitely pretty weird having a baby 185 00:10:41,941 --> 00:10:45,441 that’s the same age as my new baby brother. 186 00:10:45,478 --> 00:10:48,578 ’Cause me and my mom were pregnant at the same time. 187 00:10:48,615 --> 00:10:52,395 And it’s just a little stressful for me. 188 00:10:52,418 --> 00:10:57,718 Because there’s three little kids... Under the age of three. 189 00:10:57,757 --> 00:11:00,187 So, it’s just a little crazy. 190 00:11:01,394 --> 00:11:02,704 [baby crying] 191 00:11:03,730 --> 00:11:07,070 [indistinct] 192 00:11:07,100 --> 00:11:08,370 [Emersyn speaking] 193 00:11:11,671 --> 00:11:14,471 [baby crying intensely] 194 00:11:16,910 --> 00:11:18,940 Emersyn is extremely attentive. 195 00:11:18,978 --> 00:11:22,418 But it’s hard to see Emersyn’s exhausted and needing help. 196 00:11:22,448 --> 00:11:25,278 It’s hard to see Mason at notice step right up. 197 00:11:25,318 --> 00:11:27,088 I was just mad ’cause Mason’s right there. 198 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,620 He’s a... I was gonna say "He’s a man." 199 00:11:30,156 --> 00:11:32,426 Um, he’s a boy. 200 00:11:32,458 --> 00:11:33,988 -He’s a boy. -He’s a boy. 201 00:11:37,030 --> 00:11:38,730 He’s probably hungry again. 202 00:11:38,765 --> 00:11:40,535 -You gonna try feeding? -Yeah. 203 00:11:40,567 --> 00:11:42,227 -[baby crying] -[Emersyn] Okay. 204 00:11:42,669 --> 00:11:43,699 [Erica speaking] 205 00:11:43,736 --> 00:11:46,206 Is he outside? Probably. 206 00:11:46,239 --> 00:11:47,739 [baby crying] 207 00:11:51,177 --> 00:11:53,947 I wanna say this to Mason, um, 208 00:11:53,980 --> 00:11:57,620 you have a grace period right now. [chuckles] 209 00:11:57,650 --> 00:12:01,220 With the whole families not getting on to you about everything, but you know, 210 00:12:01,254 --> 00:12:02,864 just make sure you’re staying on top of stuff. 211 00:12:02,889 --> 00:12:04,789 ’Cause that grace period will end. 212 00:12:04,824 --> 00:12:08,694 And he’s responsible for this baby as much as Emersyn is. 213 00:12:08,728 --> 00:12:12,598 And we expect the same stuff from both of them. 214 00:12:12,632 --> 00:12:15,332 Be responsible and be good parents. 215 00:12:15,368 --> 00:12:19,168 And make sure that they’re actually caring and giving time for the baby. 216 00:12:19,205 --> 00:12:22,235 It’s our house rules and they are for a reason. 217 00:12:22,976 --> 00:12:25,476 If you actually break them... 218 00:12:25,511 --> 00:12:27,011 You know, there are consequences. 219 00:12:28,848 --> 00:12:30,178 [baby crying] 220 00:12:32,652 --> 00:12:33,952 [Scott] Jason, hurry up. 221 00:12:33,987 --> 00:12:35,047 We gotta go, dude. 222 00:12:35,088 --> 00:12:37,118 She’s ready to give birth like any moment. 223 00:12:39,959 --> 00:12:43,699 Our birth plan is to not use any medication. 224 00:12:43,730 --> 00:12:46,770 But I don’t do well with pain. No! 225 00:12:46,799 --> 00:12:49,699 I’m still wondering what’s going on with Jen and Aden. 226 00:12:49,736 --> 00:12:51,866 It’s starting to concern me more and more. 227 00:12:51,904 --> 00:12:54,814 I am going to, like, tread lightly. 228 00:12:54,841 --> 00:12:56,611 But if something’s brought to me, 229 00:12:56,643 --> 00:12:59,783 and that’s opening a door and then I’m going all the way through. 230 00:13:05,285 --> 00:13:06,895 ♪ Back when we were young and reckless ♪ 231 00:13:06,919 --> 00:13:11,259 ♪ Shining like diamonds under neon lights♪ 232 00:13:15,061 --> 00:13:18,061 [Matt speaking] 233 00:13:18,097 --> 00:13:20,467 -[Matt] I don’t know this-- -[Cathy] All that squeezer thing? 234 00:13:20,500 --> 00:13:22,200 -[Cathy] Hopefully it works. -[Matt] See how it works. 235 00:13:23,069 --> 00:13:25,139 We invited Jen over for dinner tonight. 236 00:13:25,171 --> 00:13:27,811 I’m really hoping that they’re able to make it over. 237 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:30,780 ’Cause she wasn’t able to make it over on my birthday. 238 00:13:30,810 --> 00:13:33,680 But we’re in a much better place now so... 239 00:13:33,713 --> 00:13:38,283 I honestly feel like things are really getting back to normal with Jenna. 240 00:13:38,318 --> 00:13:42,288 Yeah. She’s been talking to us more and coming around a lot more. 241 00:13:42,322 --> 00:13:46,532 I mean, I’m not in Jenna’s head, but I think it was a combination of... 242 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:50,859 Enough time to heal on our own and I think getting... 243 00:13:50,897 --> 00:13:53,267 "I love you" texts from me everyday. 244 00:13:53,299 --> 00:13:55,629 I was still kind off chipping a waiter. 245 00:13:55,668 --> 00:13:59,668 I didn’t just ignore her and act like she wasn’t there. I mean... 246 00:13:59,706 --> 00:14:02,366 I’m still gonna let her know. No matter how mad she is at me. 247 00:14:02,408 --> 00:14:04,238 I’m still gonna let her know how much I love her and... 248 00:14:04,911 --> 00:14:08,011 I’m not going anywhere ever. 249 00:14:08,047 --> 00:14:10,677 -[Cathy] Do you know if Aden’s coming over tonight or not? -[Matt] I’m not sure yet. 250 00:14:10,717 --> 00:14:13,687 I’m not sure, I talked to Jenna last night. 251 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:17,320 It seemed like he was coming. But then... 252 00:14:17,357 --> 00:14:19,327 this morning when I talked to her, 253 00:14:19,359 --> 00:14:21,929 -she was kind off unsure so... -[Cathy] Okay. 254 00:14:21,961 --> 00:14:23,561 [instrumental music playing] 255 00:14:25,398 --> 00:14:26,528 [baby crying] 256 00:14:33,639 --> 00:14:34,969 [Aden speaking] 257 00:14:35,007 --> 00:14:36,177 [Jenna speaking] 258 00:14:45,752 --> 00:14:47,892 [Jenna] Aden and I are headed to my dad’s house. 259 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:52,460 Even though, my dad and I are working on repairing our relationship, 260 00:14:52,492 --> 00:14:55,262 Aden and I aren’t really in the best place right now. 261 00:14:55,294 --> 00:14:58,104 So, I’m nervous that they’re going to ask about it 262 00:14:58,131 --> 00:15:00,201 And I really don’t wanna talk about it. 263 00:15:00,233 --> 00:15:04,973 So, I’m hoping that Aden just isn’t a complete jerk and we can just enjoy dinner. 264 00:15:06,773 --> 00:15:08,913 -What’s for dinner? -Aden! 265 00:15:10,410 --> 00:15:13,210 I didn’t know a second ago. I’m not gonna know... 266 00:15:13,246 --> 00:15:16,716 When I asked you the first time, that meant like, ask. 267 00:15:19,018 --> 00:15:22,288 I’m still kind of wondering what’s going on with Jen and Aden. 268 00:15:22,321 --> 00:15:25,361 It’s starting to concern me more and more. 269 00:15:25,391 --> 00:15:30,131 Let’s hope that if things aren’t going well that she will talk to us about it. 270 00:15:30,163 --> 00:15:33,733 She doesn’t talk much about her feelings. 271 00:15:33,766 --> 00:15:37,966 I think it’s hard for her. And she’s getting better with it I think. 272 00:15:38,004 --> 00:15:41,574 She needs to, she needs to be able to express herself more. 273 00:15:41,607 --> 00:15:45,137 With Jenna and Aden, I don’t really know exactly what’s going on. 274 00:15:45,178 --> 00:15:47,178 I don’t know all the details. 275 00:15:47,213 --> 00:15:49,753 But, just the way they talk to each other, like, the way they... 276 00:15:50,817 --> 00:15:53,287 Like the cursing, the back and forth. 277 00:15:53,319 --> 00:15:57,989 It’s not normal for that to be that toxic with such a young relationship, 278 00:15:58,024 --> 00:15:59,064 Right. 279 00:15:59,091 --> 00:16:00,761 If it keeps going down this road. 280 00:16:00,793 --> 00:16:03,533 Christ they’re gonna be killing each other in a couple of years. 281 00:16:03,563 --> 00:16:06,333 -Not literally-- -No but just worst. 282 00:16:06,365 --> 00:16:11,335 It’s gonna be awful, but I’m going to like 283 00:16:11,370 --> 00:16:14,510 tread lightly. ’Cause Jenna and I just got back on track. 284 00:16:14,540 --> 00:16:17,310 And the last thing I wanna do is throw us off course tonight. 285 00:16:20,847 --> 00:16:22,447 Oh, my God! 286 00:16:26,252 --> 00:16:29,692 But if something’s brought to me and that ends up opening a door, 287 00:16:29,722 --> 00:16:31,492 then I’m going all the way through. 288 00:16:33,025 --> 00:16:36,295 ♪ Dawn of the new day coming♪ 289 00:16:36,329 --> 00:16:39,199 ♪ Fresh air’s intoxicating♪ 290 00:16:42,902 --> 00:16:44,402 [crickets chirping] 291 00:16:47,740 --> 00:16:51,410 [Kylen] I don’t feel good right now and I think I’m in labor. 292 00:16:51,444 --> 00:16:56,584 I started feeling pains and my back rotating. And I couldn’t sleep. 293 00:16:57,149 --> 00:16:58,379 So, I woke Jason up. 294 00:16:59,318 --> 00:17:00,288 Which... 295 00:17:01,454 --> 00:17:02,894 he was tired. 296 00:17:06,158 --> 00:17:08,088 [Scott] Jason hurry up. She’s ready. 297 00:17:09,629 --> 00:17:11,659 You gotta go. 298 00:17:11,697 --> 00:17:14,667 Yeah. I heard you dude. You don’t need to say this [bleep] 299 00:17:14,700 --> 00:17:16,640 [bleep] stupid. 300 00:17:16,669 --> 00:17:18,339 [bleep] 301 00:17:18,371 --> 00:17:19,641 [Jason] Well, yeah. 302 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:24,040 I just woke up and I was like I wanna sleep a bit longer. 303 00:17:24,076 --> 00:17:26,106 And she was like, "Nope, the baby’s coming out." 304 00:17:26,145 --> 00:17:27,845 And I was like, "Nope, he’s not." 305 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:29,780 How would you know? 306 00:17:29,815 --> 00:17:31,745 ’Cause you got your first contraction. And you’re like, 307 00:17:31,784 --> 00:17:33,424 "Oh my God, the baby is coming." 308 00:17:40,126 --> 00:17:41,486 She’s ready. 309 00:17:41,527 --> 00:17:43,357 -[Jason] Yeah, you said that. -I know, I can see it. 310 00:17:44,163 --> 00:17:46,533 What’s she doing? 311 00:17:46,566 --> 00:17:48,796 [Jason] She has to stand up, sit down, stand up, sit down. 312 00:17:48,834 --> 00:17:51,244 [Scott] Oh, you gotta go dude. Look at her. 313 00:17:51,270 --> 00:17:53,840 [Jason] She’s been doing this since four in the morning. 314 00:17:53,873 --> 00:17:55,873 I know. She’s ready. She needs to go. 315 00:17:55,908 --> 00:17:57,708 [Jason] Jesus, stop. 316 00:17:57,743 --> 00:18:00,483 I think we can wait ’cause it’s her first contraction 317 00:18:00,513 --> 00:18:02,483 and everyone needs to calm down. 318 00:18:02,515 --> 00:18:04,855 But that’s up to Kylen I guess. 319 00:18:05,885 --> 00:18:08,055 I’m feeling a lot of pressure and cramping. 320 00:18:09,255 --> 00:18:12,325 And I think he’s starting to come. 321 00:18:12,358 --> 00:18:15,458 So, we’re gonna call the midwife at the birth center 322 00:18:15,494 --> 00:18:17,534 to make sure that they will take us now. 323 00:18:19,632 --> 00:18:21,302 [Scott] Hurry up Jason, please. 324 00:18:21,334 --> 00:18:25,644 [Jason] We’re still calling Rebecca. Jesus Christ. 325 00:18:25,671 --> 00:18:27,741 You get ready to have a baby, dude. 326 00:18:28,307 --> 00:18:30,137 [Jason overlaps] 327 00:18:30,176 --> 00:18:31,436 [Jason] Stop. 328 00:18:35,681 --> 00:18:39,351 We were trying to get them to rush ’cause I thought she’s ready to give birth, 329 00:18:39,385 --> 00:18:40,855 like any moment. 330 00:18:40,886 --> 00:18:43,886 She was up in the morning moaning a lot. So, I could tell. 331 00:18:43,923 --> 00:18:46,393 -She is in pain. -Yeah, she is in a lot of pain. 332 00:18:46,425 --> 00:18:49,125 Crunched up on the floor. I felt bad for her. 333 00:18:51,163 --> 00:18:52,163 [phone ringing] 334 00:18:52,965 --> 00:18:55,295 -[Rebecca] Good morning! -Hi! 335 00:18:56,435 --> 00:18:58,035 [Rebecca] Hi, how are you? 336 00:18:58,070 --> 00:19:02,170 Good. So, Kylen’s having contractions and she wanted me to tell you. 337 00:19:03,376 --> 00:19:04,476 [Rebecca speaking] 338 00:19:05,645 --> 00:19:07,515 So, she doesn’t know if she’s gonna have him today, 339 00:19:07,546 --> 00:19:09,946 but she said she’s feeling some pains. 340 00:19:09,982 --> 00:19:11,782 -[Kylen speaking] - [Rebecca] Okay, great. 341 00:19:16,656 --> 00:19:19,056 Five minutes to three minutes. 342 00:19:20,059 --> 00:19:21,259 [Rebecca speaking] 343 00:19:23,562 --> 00:19:25,902 -Yeah, but they’re-- They’re long. -That’s great. 344 00:19:27,333 --> 00:19:28,703 [Rebecca speaking] 345 00:19:28,734 --> 00:19:29,844 Yeah. 346 00:19:30,336 --> 00:19:32,066 [Rebecca speaking] 347 00:19:34,073 --> 00:19:35,643 Okay. 348 00:19:35,675 --> 00:19:37,785 -[Rebecca] All right buh-bye. -[both] Bye. 349 00:19:37,810 --> 00:19:39,040 [line disconnects] 350 00:19:41,447 --> 00:19:42,947 Let’s go! 351 00:19:42,982 --> 00:19:44,922 [car starting] 352 00:19:44,950 --> 00:19:50,220 I’m definitely very excited to meet Xavier and get to hold him. 353 00:19:50,256 --> 00:19:52,816 I’m super excited for him to come. 354 00:19:54,060 --> 00:19:55,560 I’m more excited. 355 00:19:56,562 --> 00:19:57,602 Uh-huh! 356 00:19:58,531 --> 00:19:59,501 No! 357 00:20:01,300 --> 00:20:03,470 I’m just ready for her to be here. 358 00:20:03,502 --> 00:20:05,202 Him to be here. 359 00:20:05,237 --> 00:20:08,467 You’re not the one carrying him around everywhere. 360 00:20:08,507 --> 00:20:09,937 I wanna be. 361 00:20:10,976 --> 00:20:13,146 I just joked through it other day I was like, 362 00:20:13,179 --> 00:20:14,649 "Since you held him for nine months, 363 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:17,450 you’re not getting to touch him the other nine months after he’s born." 364 00:20:18,284 --> 00:20:19,454 But I was just kidding. 365 00:20:20,252 --> 00:20:21,422 [exhales heavily] 366 00:20:22,955 --> 00:20:23,955 [crying in pain] 367 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:28,790 Ow! 368 00:20:35,267 --> 00:20:37,697 [crying in pain] 369 00:20:40,740 --> 00:20:41,940 [Jason speaking] 370 00:20:44,477 --> 00:20:50,377 Our birth plan is to not use any medication. Like, at all, but... 371 00:20:50,416 --> 00:20:52,346 I don’t do well with pain, so, 372 00:20:52,384 --> 00:20:55,054 I’m gonna be like, "No, I can’t do this." 373 00:20:57,223 --> 00:20:59,793 But we’ll see. 374 00:20:59,825 --> 00:21:03,095 When pregnant women take medication or anything like drugs or anything it goes 375 00:21:05,030 --> 00:21:06,200 And I don’t support that. 376 00:21:26,552 --> 00:21:31,192 [Kylen] I didn’t expect contractions to be so painful and uncomfortable. 377 00:21:32,525 --> 00:21:34,895 I’m really nervous. Um... 378 00:21:36,862 --> 00:21:37,962 And scared. 379 00:21:38,631 --> 00:21:40,931 I don’t know if I can do this. 380 00:21:40,966 --> 00:21:42,496 And without the epidural, 381 00:21:43,536 --> 00:21:46,066 -I really don’t. -[bleep] 382 00:21:50,476 --> 00:21:52,706 I hope I don’t have to get a blood transfusion... 383 00:21:52,745 --> 00:21:56,085 When I have the C-section, because my Iron is so low, 384 00:21:56,115 --> 00:21:58,455 I could potentially like bleed out. 385 00:21:58,484 --> 00:21:59,724 [Dee speaking] 386 00:21:59,752 --> 00:22:00,752 [Tiarra speaking] 387 00:22:08,861 --> 00:22:10,031 [upbeat music playing] 388 00:22:13,732 --> 00:22:15,172 [machine beeping] 389 00:22:17,436 --> 00:22:19,366 [Tiarra] Dee and I just got to the hospital. 390 00:22:19,405 --> 00:22:22,515 And in order to have a C-section, there’s like a long process, 391 00:22:22,541 --> 00:22:25,241 you can’t eat so many before so... 392 00:22:25,277 --> 00:22:29,177 Ever since like 3:45 in the morning, I haven’t had anything to drink or eat. 393 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:36,390 I’m gonna drink some water. 394 00:22:36,422 --> 00:22:39,322 But I’m gonna have to wait hours. 395 00:22:39,358 --> 00:22:41,658 And then there’s like a lot of stuff you have to do 396 00:22:41,694 --> 00:22:43,504 in between time before you have the surgery. 397 00:22:43,529 --> 00:22:45,999 Like you have to clean your body with, like, cloth. 398 00:22:46,031 --> 00:22:50,671 They said I have to take my nose ring out. It’s gonna hurt. 399 00:22:50,703 --> 00:22:53,043 You’ve to get changed. They check your blood. 400 00:22:53,072 --> 00:22:55,542 And for me that’s super important because my iron 401 00:22:55,574 --> 00:22:57,284 has been low my whole pregnancy. 402 00:22:57,309 --> 00:23:00,109 And they need to see where my levels are before the surgery. 403 00:23:02,514 --> 00:23:05,824 I don’t know how long it’s gonna be before they take you back. 404 00:23:09,989 --> 00:23:13,459 They said like getting the baby out only takes ten minutes. 405 00:23:13,492 --> 00:23:17,532 So, I’m guessing the process will take more than 30. 406 00:23:17,563 --> 00:23:20,473 Or longer. I don’t remember how long it will take. 407 00:23:21,634 --> 00:23:23,304 [deep breath] 408 00:23:23,335 --> 00:23:24,465 [whispering] 409 00:23:29,441 --> 00:23:32,981 I’m hungry. I haven’t eaten since last night. 410 00:23:33,012 --> 00:23:35,212 [Tiarra speaking] 411 00:23:35,247 --> 00:23:37,177 It’s different though. You’re getting pumped with fluids. 412 00:23:38,484 --> 00:23:40,294 Even though this is my second C-section. 413 00:23:40,319 --> 00:23:42,649 And I kinda know what to expect, I’m still very nervous. 414 00:23:43,689 --> 00:23:46,059 Having a baby is torture. 415 00:23:46,091 --> 00:23:48,591 Just because I’m waiting for my blood results to come back, 416 00:23:48,627 --> 00:23:51,327 and if my iron’s low, I know it’s not gonna be good. 417 00:23:57,202 --> 00:23:58,572 So, it’s still low. 418 00:23:59,805 --> 00:24:03,235 They checked my Iron and because my Iron is so low, 419 00:24:03,275 --> 00:24:07,905 I could potentially like bleed out when I have the C-section. 420 00:24:07,947 --> 00:24:09,177 So, it’s kind off scary. 421 00:24:12,718 --> 00:24:15,518 Hope I don’t have to get a blood transfusion. 422 00:24:15,554 --> 00:24:17,064 I don’t wanna nobody’s nasty blood. 423 00:24:17,089 --> 00:24:18,289 Do they give you somebody else’s blood? 424 00:24:33,105 --> 00:24:34,175 [Dee speaking] 425 00:24:38,811 --> 00:24:41,281 I’m not worried about my health at all right now. 426 00:24:41,313 --> 00:24:44,223 I’m kinda just worried about the baby. 427 00:24:44,249 --> 00:24:47,849 If she is okay. Because if anything does go wrong, 428 00:24:47,886 --> 00:24:50,656 It’s not only bad for me, it’s bad for Ensley as well. 429 00:24:54,026 --> 00:24:55,486 [rock music playing] 430 00:25:02,768 --> 00:25:04,768 [Jenna] Wait. [indistinct] 431 00:25:08,674 --> 00:25:12,144 Aden, Luca and I are going to my dad and Cathy’s for dinner. 432 00:25:12,177 --> 00:25:14,107 -[Jenna] Hey! How are you? -[Cathy] Good. How are you? 433 00:25:14,146 --> 00:25:15,476 Good. 434 00:25:15,514 --> 00:25:20,594 I think, with my dad and his relationship, is it okay right now? 435 00:25:20,619 --> 00:25:24,519 It’s gotten better. But we still have things to work on. 436 00:25:24,556 --> 00:25:26,056 What are you feeding him? 437 00:25:26,091 --> 00:25:28,091 [Matt speaking] 438 00:25:28,127 --> 00:25:32,097 I might not always get along with my dad but that doesn’t mean that 439 00:25:32,131 --> 00:25:37,201 Luca and his relationship should be strained ’cause I have issues with him. 440 00:25:37,236 --> 00:25:40,106 I think it’s super important that Luca has a relationship 441 00:25:40,139 --> 00:25:42,339 with my dad and all his grandparents. 442 00:25:43,809 --> 00:25:44,679 [indistinct] 443 00:25:44,710 --> 00:25:46,410 We’re eatin’ already? Right away? 444 00:25:46,445 --> 00:25:47,455 [Matt speaking] 445 00:25:47,479 --> 00:25:48,849 All right. We could eat. 446 00:25:53,318 --> 00:25:56,448 It’s an amazing feeling them being here. And just being able to... 447 00:25:57,356 --> 00:25:59,386 hold Luca. 448 00:25:59,425 --> 00:26:02,335 When they were living with us, I think I took it for granted 449 00:26:02,361 --> 00:26:03,731 that they’re always gonna be there forever. 450 00:26:04,530 --> 00:26:06,100 And then that gap 451 00:26:06,131 --> 00:26:10,341 of Luca not being able to come around, it sucked. 452 00:26:10,369 --> 00:26:13,809 And it’s just an amazing feeling having them all back and... 453 00:26:13,839 --> 00:26:17,539 I just don’t, I’m just not gonna do anything to piss her off again. 454 00:26:17,576 --> 00:26:18,506 [chuckles softly] 455 00:26:20,045 --> 00:26:22,975 [Cathy] Luc’s starting to looks so much older. 456 00:26:23,015 --> 00:26:26,225 -[Jenna] I know. -He doesn’t have the baby face anymore. 457 00:26:26,251 --> 00:26:29,721 No, he doesn’t. He’s like thinned down. He used to be so chunky. 458 00:26:32,124 --> 00:26:34,664 So, what you guys doing today, anything? 459 00:26:35,294 --> 00:26:36,904 No. 460 00:26:38,130 --> 00:26:40,100 -Do you have work Aden? -Yeah. 461 00:26:44,203 --> 00:26:45,573 Need anymore? 462 00:26:50,442 --> 00:26:51,412 [laughs] 463 00:26:55,914 --> 00:26:57,854 [Matt] Obviously, they have issues. 464 00:26:57,883 --> 00:26:59,953 -They’re 18 years old. -Right. 465 00:26:59,985 --> 00:27:02,985 It’s their first, like, real relationship. 466 00:27:03,021 --> 00:27:05,221 They don’t know how to communicate-- 467 00:27:05,257 --> 00:27:09,287 They have a young child, they have their own place, they’re paying their bills. 468 00:27:09,328 --> 00:27:11,728 -That’s a lot. That’s a lot. -Real fast. 469 00:27:11,763 --> 00:27:14,233 That’s a lot to be on someone’s shoulders. 470 00:27:14,266 --> 00:27:16,736 I think Aden enjoys being a breadwinner. 471 00:27:16,768 --> 00:27:19,368 But I think he doesn’t understand that 472 00:27:19,404 --> 00:27:22,314 Jenna being staying at her mom, gives him the opportunity 473 00:27:22,341 --> 00:27:26,511 to go work so Jenna is doing her part. 474 00:27:26,545 --> 00:27:29,085 And Aden needs to respect that. 475 00:27:30,048 --> 00:27:31,818 To work effectively... 476 00:27:32,551 --> 00:27:34,091 for all three of them. 477 00:27:40,192 --> 00:27:42,262 -[Matt] See ya! -[Cathy chuckles] 478 00:27:45,197 --> 00:27:47,567 -[Cathy] He’s like bye. -[Matt] See ya. 479 00:27:47,599 --> 00:27:48,969 [Matt speaking] 480 00:27:50,135 --> 00:27:52,295 [Cathy] That’s probably where he’s going. 481 00:27:52,337 --> 00:27:53,667 [Jenna] Where are you going? 482 00:27:54,439 --> 00:27:55,769 I love being a mom. 483 00:27:55,807 --> 00:27:57,837 But two years ago when I met Aden, 484 00:27:57,876 --> 00:28:01,076 I didn’t figure this is gonna be my life. I mean, 485 00:28:01,113 --> 00:28:04,783 I don’t think anybody at 16, sees a boy and think, in two years 486 00:28:04,816 --> 00:28:09,216 I’m gonna be breast feeding his kid to sleep. Like who thinks that? 487 00:28:09,254 --> 00:28:11,324 Nobody thinks that, um... 488 00:28:11,356 --> 00:28:15,156 I don’t think I would have a boyfriend, if I didn’t have a baby. 489 00:28:15,194 --> 00:28:17,034 You know, I don’t know. I just... 490 00:28:18,430 --> 00:28:20,170 I don’t know. I don’t know. 491 00:28:24,436 --> 00:28:25,896 -Look! -[honking] 492 00:28:27,673 --> 00:28:29,313 [toy car starts] 493 00:28:30,008 --> 00:28:31,578 [toy car whirs] 494 00:28:31,610 --> 00:28:32,780 [Matt] What else is up? 495 00:28:33,946 --> 00:28:35,006 [Jenna speaking] 496 00:28:36,381 --> 00:28:37,881 -[Cathy] Yeah? -[Matt] Really? 497 00:28:38,217 --> 00:28:40,247 Yeah. 498 00:28:40,285 --> 00:28:43,385 Aden still doesn’t know that I’m thinking about getting an apartment. 499 00:28:44,289 --> 00:28:45,559 I haven’t told him. 500 00:28:50,262 --> 00:28:53,702 [Jenna] If I want to get my own apartment, I need my own money. 501 00:28:53,732 --> 00:28:57,002 And I need to get a job as soon as possible. 502 00:28:57,035 --> 00:29:00,235 I think maybe being a doula is the answer. 503 00:29:01,907 --> 00:29:06,207 But I’m just not ready yet to make this... 504 00:29:06,245 --> 00:29:10,855 Make the step of leaving Aden because I’m not sure yet where we are. 505 00:29:10,882 --> 00:29:14,492 So, I wanna get my dad’s opinion on becoming a doula. 506 00:29:14,519 --> 00:29:18,559 But I don’t wanna talk about the real reason, I want to become a doula. 507 00:29:21,126 --> 00:29:24,696 What made you get interested in becoming a doula? 508 00:29:24,730 --> 00:29:26,660 [Jenna] Uh! I don’t know. 509 00:29:27,532 --> 00:29:29,672 I like to breast feed. 510 00:29:29,701 --> 00:29:31,901 -Cause you like to breast feed. -Yeah. 511 00:29:33,538 --> 00:29:37,108 -I don’t know what the hell a doula does or is... -[laughs] 512 00:29:37,142 --> 00:29:40,582 But it is exciting to see Jenna interested about the doula thing because 513 00:29:41,113 --> 00:29:43,523 I haven’t seen... 514 00:29:43,548 --> 00:29:47,818 her be interested in doing anything for herself 515 00:29:47,853 --> 00:29:50,263 since before she found out she was pregnant. 516 00:29:50,289 --> 00:29:54,989 As long as it makes her excited and gives her more of a feeling of-- 517 00:29:55,027 --> 00:29:57,827 -Independence. -Independence and self-worth, like, 518 00:29:57,863 --> 00:30:01,073 She relies on Aden for so much. 519 00:30:01,099 --> 00:30:05,399 And I wanna see her do something. So, she has a fall back planned 520 00:30:05,437 --> 00:30:07,537 in any event that something happens. 521 00:30:07,572 --> 00:30:10,442 You have no idea what tomorrow’s gonna bring. 522 00:30:10,475 --> 00:30:15,205 So, why not prepare for the worst, hope for the best. 523 00:30:15,247 --> 00:30:16,977 And just get ahead of a potential problem. 524 00:30:18,984 --> 00:30:21,354 What kind of training’s involved in that? 525 00:30:21,386 --> 00:30:25,486 Nothing training really, just education, but like... 526 00:30:25,524 --> 00:30:30,564 Really don’t need any certificate or certification in Pennsylvania to be one. 527 00:30:30,595 --> 00:30:31,825 Really? 528 00:30:33,098 --> 00:30:34,898 But how does one become one? 529 00:30:34,933 --> 00:30:37,243 -You just call yourself one. -Oh! 530 00:30:38,203 --> 00:30:40,743 -Who pays for that? -Out of pocket. 531 00:30:41,673 --> 00:30:42,673 So, it’s like... 532 00:30:43,375 --> 00:30:45,445 [Aden speaking] 533 00:30:45,477 --> 00:30:50,547 Not necessarily. Just people who don’t want medicines shoved on their face. 534 00:30:52,751 --> 00:30:55,551 Well it’s good. Whatever keeps you busy and happy. 535 00:30:56,588 --> 00:31:01,128 I think Jenna wanting to be a doula is, uh, 536 00:31:02,627 --> 00:31:05,097 stupid as hell. 537 00:31:05,130 --> 00:31:09,870 I think it’s best for one of the parents to be like the main source of income. 538 00:31:15,374 --> 00:31:19,784 But for me, it’s nice to have another purpose other than just being a mom. 539 00:31:19,811 --> 00:31:21,711 And I can do something else to make money. 540 00:31:22,447 --> 00:31:24,417 -It don’t matter. -Okay. 541 00:31:25,250 --> 00:31:27,820 We literally have a joint bank. 542 00:31:27,853 --> 00:31:30,293 She literally has a debit card that... 543 00:31:31,456 --> 00:31:33,556 Our money is just our money. 544 00:31:38,830 --> 00:31:40,160 [music playing] 545 00:31:45,771 --> 00:31:49,171 -You’re starting a doula business. -[Jenna] I guess so. 546 00:31:49,207 --> 00:31:52,407 You sub-contact doulas out. 547 00:31:53,845 --> 00:31:55,475 -You know? -Yeah. 548 00:31:55,514 --> 00:31:58,824 I don’t know what I want. But I do know, if you have money 549 00:31:58,850 --> 00:32:03,520 you can go get an apartment that day or you could leave the state. 550 00:32:03,555 --> 00:32:06,765 Or you could do whatever you want. But if you have no money, 551 00:32:06,792 --> 00:32:09,062 your options are a lot smaller. 552 00:32:09,094 --> 00:32:12,864 So, I think it’s extremely important that I have money 553 00:32:12,898 --> 00:32:16,668 and then I have money saved up. And like, an emergency fund 554 00:32:16,701 --> 00:32:19,171 in case I just need to go somewhere. 555 00:32:21,039 --> 00:32:23,069 You wanna go into your bedroom? 556 00:32:23,108 --> 00:32:24,138 [Emersyn speaking] 557 00:32:25,677 --> 00:32:27,307 [Emersyn] My mom has a lot of rules. 558 00:32:27,345 --> 00:32:30,745 Mason has to stay downstairs and like can’t sleep in the same bed. 559 00:32:30,782 --> 00:32:32,522 And enough is enough. 560 00:32:32,551 --> 00:32:33,581 [Emersyn speaking] 561 00:32:41,460 --> 00:32:44,030 [electronic song plays] 562 00:32:52,103 --> 00:32:56,113 Taking care of a baby is definitely more challenging than I thought it would be. 563 00:32:56,141 --> 00:32:59,711 Like, I thought I was tired before I was pregnant. But now I’m really tired. 564 00:33:01,046 --> 00:33:04,016 Like, if baby cries, you’re up. 565 00:33:04,049 --> 00:33:06,949 If your baby moves, you’re up, especially in the night 566 00:33:06,985 --> 00:33:11,555 Um, It’s just like all your attention is on the baby. 567 00:33:11,590 --> 00:33:15,590 You just got, like, a chain to his hand to yours. 568 00:33:16,361 --> 00:33:18,061 You’re just attached to him. 569 00:33:22,234 --> 00:33:25,274 [baby crying] 570 00:33:34,913 --> 00:33:38,383 [Emersyn] I slept on the couch last night because Mason can’t go up in my room. 571 00:33:38,416 --> 00:33:41,286 And to go back and forth is just exhausting. 572 00:33:41,319 --> 00:33:44,059 I was just really annoyed cause I did have a newborn. 573 00:33:44,089 --> 00:33:45,789 I was like, I just need his help. 574 00:33:46,691 --> 00:33:48,161 Like even if I’m sleeping like... 575 00:33:49,294 --> 00:33:51,304 I just need him there for moral support. 576 00:33:51,329 --> 00:33:53,359 [Mason] I help with what I can. 577 00:33:53,398 --> 00:33:55,668 Like if she wants a break, I hold him. 578 00:33:55,700 --> 00:33:58,070 But for the most part, she does the lot of the work. 579 00:34:00,505 --> 00:34:02,935 -Emersyn. -I change the most of the diapers. 580 00:34:02,974 --> 00:34:04,714 Every time I ask him, he’s like... 581 00:34:04,743 --> 00:34:07,083 "I did it the last time." And I’m like, no you didn’t. 582 00:34:08,380 --> 00:34:09,480 It was yesterday. 583 00:34:11,550 --> 00:34:12,950 [baby crying] 584 00:34:18,590 --> 00:34:24,500 I just... do the best I can with helping and... 585 00:34:24,529 --> 00:34:28,169 I maybe tired but I know she’s like really tired. ’Cause it’s like... 586 00:34:28,199 --> 00:34:31,639 ’Cause she’s the one feeding him and taking care of him. 587 00:34:31,670 --> 00:34:34,640 He’s supposed to eat like every one to two hours. 588 00:34:34,673 --> 00:34:37,513 It’s like imagine... 589 00:34:37,542 --> 00:34:40,952 at you’re pizza place you had a bed in the back, 590 00:34:40,979 --> 00:34:44,449 and you wanted to sleep. But every time someone came up you had to go make a pizza. 591 00:34:44,482 --> 00:34:45,582 And it was 24x7. 592 00:34:46,451 --> 00:34:48,251 ’Cause someone wanted a pizza. 593 00:34:48,286 --> 00:34:50,756 Interesting analogy, but sure. 594 00:34:50,789 --> 00:34:51,859 Like that. 595 00:34:56,528 --> 00:34:57,498 Mm. 596 00:34:57,963 --> 00:34:59,333 [Mason speaking] 597 00:34:59,364 --> 00:35:00,734 [Emersyn speaking] 598 00:35:00,765 --> 00:35:02,195 [baby crying] 599 00:35:09,074 --> 00:35:13,614 I think that Mason, doesn’t really know 600 00:35:13,645 --> 00:35:16,915 how to pull his weight right now in this. I think he thinks he is. 601 00:35:17,382 --> 00:35:18,682 Um, 602 00:35:18,717 --> 00:35:21,317 but I’m not sure he really understands... 603 00:35:23,054 --> 00:35:25,624 everything that Emersyn’s going through emotionally. 604 00:35:25,657 --> 00:35:28,827 And I don’t think Emersyn’s speaking up enough to him. 605 00:35:28,860 --> 00:35:33,160 Or putting enough pressure on him to help her... him to understand 606 00:35:33,198 --> 00:35:35,068 how he can really stress for her. 607 00:35:36,434 --> 00:35:37,974 It’s hard to watch sometimes. 608 00:35:40,338 --> 00:35:41,168 Yaay! 609 00:35:41,973 --> 00:35:43,313 [Mason] Wooh! 610 00:35:52,183 --> 00:35:54,923 -I would have came and got you. -I know. 611 00:36:02,127 --> 00:36:03,687 -[Emersyn] Oh, wow! -[laughs] 612 00:36:06,965 --> 00:36:12,675 I’m trying to do as much as possible for Emersyn and Mateo, um, 613 00:36:12,704 --> 00:36:15,414 because I’m only here for a few nights. 614 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:19,240 It is a little bit more difficult than I expected it to be with 615 00:36:19,277 --> 00:36:22,677 the arrangement and everything and it’s just... 616 00:36:22,714 --> 00:36:26,924 not what parents should be going through. Especially with a newborn. 617 00:36:32,957 --> 00:36:34,027 Okay. 618 00:36:37,595 --> 00:36:40,195 I’ve been following the rules and I’m tired. 619 00:36:40,231 --> 00:36:42,701 I need Mason and so does the baby. 620 00:36:42,734 --> 00:36:46,544 As much as my parents think they know what’s best for me, in this instance, 621 00:36:47,739 --> 00:36:49,209 I don’t think they do. 622 00:36:49,240 --> 00:36:50,880 [Emersyn] And enough is enough. 623 00:36:50,909 --> 00:36:53,279 Hi! We’re gonna go upstairs. 624 00:36:53,311 --> 00:36:56,211 I feel like Emersyn’s mom, she’s trying to... 625 00:36:57,082 --> 00:36:58,282 control... 626 00:37:00,318 --> 00:37:04,688 what she shouldn’t be controlling at this point, like, 627 00:37:04,723 --> 00:37:08,533 I think it’s her last effort to get in some... 628 00:37:10,528 --> 00:37:14,928 punishment towards Emersyn for you know getting pregnant. 629 00:37:14,966 --> 00:37:17,396 [Emersyn speaking] 630 00:37:17,435 --> 00:37:19,465 -[Mason] I’ll come back for it. -You’ll come back for it? 631 00:37:19,504 --> 00:37:21,144 [Emersyn] I mean, I’ve already learnt my lesson. 632 00:37:21,740 --> 00:37:22,940 So... 633 00:37:24,275 --> 00:37:25,735 The damage has already been done. 634 00:37:26,845 --> 00:37:28,485 [Tyra] Have you talked to your daughter? 635 00:37:28,513 --> 00:37:30,313 No, I haven’t talked to her yet. 636 00:37:30,348 --> 00:37:33,248 I’ve been waiting for a phone call from Tiarra. 637 00:37:33,284 --> 00:37:36,954 Just to see if the baby’s been born yet and still nothing. 638 00:37:36,988 --> 00:37:38,488 So, I got a bit worried. 639 00:37:39,591 --> 00:37:41,531 [Mimi] Hold on! I got a text. 640 00:37:46,765 --> 00:37:49,135 ♪ I’m strong, work hard I’m a fighter♪ 641 00:37:49,167 --> 00:37:52,467 ♪ Tearing down walls And I’m breaking through♪ 642 00:37:55,507 --> 00:37:57,837 -[Mimi] Hello! -[Tyra] Hi 643 00:37:57,876 --> 00:37:59,236 [Tyra] Have you talked to your daughter? 644 00:37:59,277 --> 00:38:01,147 No, I haven’t talked to her yet. 645 00:38:01,179 --> 00:38:03,709 She texted me about an hour ago 646 00:38:03,748 --> 00:38:06,218 and said she was waiting on her spinal tap. 647 00:38:06,251 --> 00:38:12,421 Then, I tried to call her back and she didn’t answer. So, I’m guessing 648 00:38:12,457 --> 00:38:14,727 that they’re doing it now. 649 00:38:14,759 --> 00:38:15,859 -And-- -[Tyra speaking] 650 00:38:20,165 --> 00:38:23,635 Oh! They must be doing it now ’cause she was-- 651 00:38:23,668 --> 00:38:25,598 [Ella crying] 652 00:38:25,637 --> 00:38:27,367 I’m looking, I’m looking. 653 00:38:28,940 --> 00:38:32,740 I got in your spot. Oh, my... Jesus Christ. 654 00:38:32,777 --> 00:38:37,317 I’ve been sitting here, playing with Ella waiting for a phone call from 655 00:38:37,348 --> 00:38:39,048 Dee for Tiarra. 656 00:38:39,083 --> 00:38:42,823 To see if the baby’s been born yet, and still nothing. 657 00:38:42,854 --> 00:38:45,724 So, I’m beginning to get a little bit worried. 658 00:38:47,659 --> 00:38:51,029 We’ve both been worried about Tiarra cause we hadn’t heard anything for a while. 659 00:38:53,998 --> 00:38:55,228 [phone vibrating] 660 00:38:55,266 --> 00:38:57,836 Oh! Hold on, I got a text. 661 00:38:57,869 --> 00:39:00,569 -[Tyra speaking] -Dee, seven pounds 662 00:39:00,605 --> 00:39:01,715 [Tyra speaking] 663 00:39:02,473 --> 00:39:04,443 We got a baby! 664 00:39:04,475 --> 00:39:05,705 No! [crying] 665 00:39:07,345 --> 00:39:09,875 [Tyra] Ella, you have a baby sister. 666 00:39:09,914 --> 00:39:12,084 Ella, you’re baby sister is here. 667 00:39:13,117 --> 00:39:15,047 [Mimi] Okay, okay. It’s okay. 668 00:39:19,624 --> 00:39:20,794 [lively piano music playing] 669 00:39:24,262 --> 00:39:27,162 So, this is Ella’s little sister. 670 00:39:27,198 --> 00:39:29,298 The newest addition to our family. 671 00:39:37,475 --> 00:39:39,035 Whenever she was born, 672 00:39:39,077 --> 00:39:43,247 she had some trouble breathing at first so, I was kinda scared. 673 00:39:43,281 --> 00:39:47,821 And they said it was normal because, instead of having a natural birth, 674 00:39:47,852 --> 00:39:49,252 she was pulled out by C-section. 675 00:39:49,287 --> 00:39:52,117 So she didn’t get all the stuff out of her lungs. 676 00:39:52,156 --> 00:39:56,026 Um, but now she’s doing so great. They monitored her. She started looking good. 677 00:39:56,761 --> 00:39:59,361 So, she’s great and healthy now. 678 00:39:59,397 --> 00:40:03,597 I’m healthy now. I didn’t have any problems. 679 00:40:03,635 --> 00:40:07,615 No problems with my iron, or my blood, all that was so good. 680 00:40:07,639 --> 00:40:10,669 So, I’m very blessed. So excited that she’s here. 681 00:40:10,708 --> 00:40:14,878 And I can’t wait to take her home and meet Ella ’cause 682 00:40:14,913 --> 00:40:17,553 I know Ella is going to be so excited to see her. 683 00:40:18,850 --> 00:40:20,050 [phone chimes] 684 00:40:21,352 --> 00:40:23,352 She’s probably getting hungry. 685 00:40:23,388 --> 00:40:27,428 This is Ensley Joanne Ragland. She was born on July 21st. 686 00:40:27,458 --> 00:40:29,058 And she’s looking for a titty. 687 00:40:29,093 --> 00:40:32,333 Let’s hear you do that. Hey! Keep your hands off. Just go to sleep, like always. 688 00:40:32,363 --> 00:40:34,703 Go to sleep. 689 00:40:34,732 --> 00:40:39,802 She was born July 21st. 7 pounds and 18 inches long. 690 00:40:39,837 --> 00:40:42,767 -She’s 19. Head was 14 inches. -Ella was eighteen and half. 691 00:40:43,942 --> 00:40:44,942 Sorry! 692 00:40:45,843 --> 00:40:47,653 Sorry, sorry [indistinct] 693 00:40:53,885 --> 00:40:56,995 [chuckles] The first time I held Ensley, I felt... 694 00:40:58,323 --> 00:41:01,533 I don’t know. Like damn, I really got two kids. 695 00:41:01,559 --> 00:41:03,089 [both laughing] 696 00:41:05,029 --> 00:41:07,969 [Dee] She’s been my daughter for nine months. 697 00:41:07,999 --> 00:41:12,439 Well, I think I was the same with Dee. Like, "Dang, I really have two kids." 698 00:41:12,470 --> 00:41:14,740 But I don’t really remember most of it. 699 00:41:15,573 --> 00:41:16,973 So... 700 00:41:17,008 --> 00:41:20,578 but I know I loved Ensley ever since I found out I was pregnant. 701 00:41:20,611 --> 00:41:22,311 Even though all she wants is my tit. 702 00:41:32,123 --> 00:41:33,223 [baby cooing] 703 00:41:35,593 --> 00:41:36,693 -[sniffs] Mm. -[Tiarra] So good. 704 00:41:38,096 --> 00:41:39,396 Still got the new baby smell. 705 00:41:41,499 --> 00:41:43,969 -Okay. She wants a titty. Are we done? -[producer] Okay. 706 00:41:47,872 --> 00:41:50,512 [narrator] Next time on Unexpected... 707 00:41:50,541 --> 00:41:51,841 -[crying in pain] -[Jason speaking] 708 00:41:51,876 --> 00:41:53,136 [crying in pain] 709 00:41:53,177 --> 00:41:55,307 I think that you should call the ambulance. 710 00:41:55,346 --> 00:41:56,276 [Jason speaking] 711 00:41:56,314 --> 00:41:57,684 [crying] 712 00:41:57,715 --> 00:41:59,775 [Tiarra] Today is the day that we come home from the hospital. 713 00:41:59,817 --> 00:42:02,387 I’m nervous for how Ella would be around Ensley. 714 00:42:05,156 --> 00:42:08,826 Just because it’s been just her for a while 715 00:42:08,860 --> 00:42:11,300 -I’m just gonna hold her neck. I’m not taking her. -[Ella cries] 716 00:42:13,197 --> 00:42:16,467 -[Jenna] Who is that? -[Aden] Once I get home everything’s a [bleep] mess. 717 00:42:16,501 --> 00:42:17,971 [Jenna] So, you clean [bleep] up then. 718 00:42:18,002 --> 00:42:20,472 What the [bleep] do you do all day? 719 00:42:20,505 --> 00:42:24,715 Taking care of the kids, wiping ass, breast feeding, giving baths, showers, 720 00:42:24,742 --> 00:42:28,212 taking kids outside to play, feeding kids, cooking three meals [bleep] 721 00:42:28,246 --> 00:42:31,146 -What you do is not hard. -[bleep] you. 722 00:42:31,182 --> 00:42:34,622 Let’s make it clear that I said Mason couldn’t sleep in the bed with you. 723 00:42:34,652 --> 00:42:37,792 And I caught him sleeping in the bed. that’s why he isn’t allowed in my house. 724 00:42:37,822 --> 00:42:40,062 Because he is completely disrespectful and rude.