1 00:00:01,603 --> 00:00:02,602 I have to call Grandma 2 00:00:02,704 --> 00:00:04,237 -and ask her a question. -[child shouting] 3 00:00:04,305 --> 00:00:06,506 I feel like I needed to move out to get a sense of 4 00:00:06,608 --> 00:00:08,207 what motherhood really is. 5 00:00:08,309 --> 00:00:12,512 But it's weird not to have my mom around all the time. 6 00:00:12,614 --> 00:00:14,814 Oh, my God! Y'all got it finished! 7 00:00:16,317 --> 00:00:17,917 [Lawrence] I'm ready for Lilly to be my wife. 8 00:00:17,919 --> 00:00:20,820 But I just spent damn near $10,000 moving to this apartment, 9 00:00:20,822 --> 00:00:22,522 I'm trying to spend another for a wedding? 10 00:00:24,526 --> 00:00:26,025 I'm good right now. 11 00:00:26,093 --> 00:00:29,195 Let's make it clear that I said Mason couldn't sleep in the bed with you 12 00:00:29,197 --> 00:00:30,930 and I caught him sleeping in the bed. 13 00:00:30,999 --> 00:00:32,498 That's why he's not allowed in my house. 14 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:34,634 Because he's completely disrespectful and rude. 15 00:00:41,442 --> 00:00:43,109 My dad's petty. 16 00:00:43,244 --> 00:00:47,346 My mom is emotionally crazy. 17 00:00:47,415 --> 00:00:50,116 To put that in a pot, and... [imitates explosion] 18 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:54,119 Okay. 19 00:00:56,558 --> 00:01:00,726 With Jenna and Aden, it's not normal for that to be that toxic 20 00:01:00,728 --> 00:01:03,029 with such a young relationship. 21 00:01:03,898 --> 00:01:06,999 [straining] 22 00:01:07,001 --> 00:01:10,102 Our birth plan is to not use any medication. 23 00:01:11,239 --> 00:01:12,705 [screaming in agony] 24 00:01:14,442 --> 00:01:16,208 [woman] We're concerned about maternal exhaustion. 25 00:01:16,344 --> 00:01:18,511 That is a high-risk situation 26 00:01:18,513 --> 00:01:21,414 and it's an indication for transport to the hospital. 27 00:01:23,818 --> 00:01:25,818 No, we can't, you dumb [bleep]. 28 00:01:41,302 --> 00:01:43,035 [groaning in pain] 29 00:01:43,137 --> 00:01:45,605 We left the birthing center around midnight. 30 00:01:45,707 --> 00:01:48,307 By the time we got to the hospital, 31 00:01:48,309 --> 00:01:51,444 an hour went by and the pain just kept getting worse. 32 00:01:57,685 --> 00:01:59,919 I'm pissed because I wanted an all-natural birth 33 00:01:59,921 --> 00:02:03,456 and now we have to do it at the stupid [bleep] hospital. 34 00:02:03,557 --> 00:02:05,925 'Cause our whole point was to not go to the hospital 35 00:02:06,461 --> 00:02:07,627 and just be, like... 36 00:02:07,728 --> 00:02:11,497 Doctors suck, nurses suck, midwives suck. 37 00:02:11,499 --> 00:02:15,501 The hospital sucks because they don't treat me good. 38 00:02:15,603 --> 00:02:17,503 Everything is about Kylen. 39 00:02:17,505 --> 00:02:19,639 They don't care what I have to say. 40 00:02:19,740 --> 00:02:21,507 They only care about her 41 00:02:21,609 --> 00:02:24,010 and I think it's pretty [bleep]. 42 00:02:24,012 --> 00:02:26,345 'Cause unless you're married, at hospitals, 43 00:02:26,414 --> 00:02:28,514 they treat you as if you're a friend. 44 00:02:32,820 --> 00:02:35,955 [woman speaking] 45 00:02:51,839 --> 00:02:53,706 We had a birth plan 46 00:02:53,708 --> 00:02:58,044 to where I wasn't going to take anything and do everything all natural. 47 00:02:58,145 --> 00:03:01,047 But I was in labor for 25 hours, 48 00:03:01,115 --> 00:03:03,149 and I couldn't eat or sleep. 49 00:03:03,217 --> 00:03:06,452 So, I think the plan might have to change. 50 00:03:06,554 --> 00:03:09,622 But Jason doesn't like when we change plans. 51 00:03:11,125 --> 00:03:14,894 [Jason speaking] 52 00:03:14,896 --> 00:03:17,730 [Kylen speaking] 53 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,642 -[Jason speaking] -[Kylen] I can't! 54 00:03:30,511 --> 00:03:34,714 -[woman speaking] -[Kylen groaning] 55 00:03:41,055 --> 00:03:42,521 [Jason speaking] 56 00:03:43,491 --> 00:03:47,326 [woman speaking] 57 00:03:49,230 --> 00:03:51,797 I was in a lot of pain for a very long time. 58 00:03:54,102 --> 00:03:55,835 And it was exhausting. 59 00:03:57,305 --> 00:04:00,806 I don't approve of drugs at all. 60 00:04:00,808 --> 00:04:02,942 The epidural has fentanyl in it. 61 00:04:03,043 --> 00:04:05,811 Fentanyl is a very, very addictive drug. 62 00:04:05,813 --> 00:04:07,947 You do it once, you'll be addicted. 63 00:04:08,015 --> 00:04:09,615 I don't care what anyone says. 64 00:04:10,618 --> 00:04:11,717 But she doesn't care about that. 65 00:04:13,621 --> 00:04:18,824 -[Kylen speaking] -[Jason speaking] 66 00:04:18,926 --> 00:04:21,127 [Kylen] It's not being a drug addict. 67 00:04:21,796 --> 00:04:23,095 [Kylen groaning in pain] 68 00:04:23,197 --> 00:04:27,900 [woman speaking] 69 00:04:29,504 --> 00:04:33,239 A human being can give birth without drugs. It's a natural thing. 70 00:04:33,340 --> 00:04:36,942 Do animals have the choice to get an epidural when they're giving birth? 71 00:04:39,013 --> 00:04:40,246 Do they? 72 00:04:40,314 --> 00:04:42,615 Okay, I'm just not gonna talk. 73 00:04:42,617 --> 00:04:45,017 Or don't act like it's a good thing to do it. 74 00:04:45,419 --> 00:04:47,052 I don't support any 75 00:04:47,121 --> 00:04:50,422 person unless you're medically incapable of giving birth to do it 76 00:04:50,424 --> 00:04:53,058 because it's putting your baby in harm and putting you at harm. 77 00:04:55,329 --> 00:04:59,899 [Kylen speaking] 78 00:05:03,304 --> 00:05:06,906 [Jason speaking] 79 00:05:08,142 --> 00:05:09,542 [cellphone ringing] 80 00:05:09,643 --> 00:05:10,643 [Jason] Yes? 81 00:05:10,645 --> 00:05:12,110 -[Kylen groaning in pain] -[Lizzy speaking] 82 00:05:13,714 --> 00:05:16,515 [Jason] Well, she's exhausted because she didn't sleep last night. 83 00:05:18,653 --> 00:05:20,719 [Jason] No, I don't want her to! 84 00:05:20,855 --> 00:05:23,622 I just called Jason to see where they were at 85 00:05:23,624 --> 00:05:25,324 with progress and the labor 86 00:05:25,326 --> 00:05:26,525 and if Kylen 87 00:05:26,594 --> 00:05:27,960 has started pushing yet. 88 00:05:28,296 --> 00:05:30,696 And I was told 89 00:05:30,698 --> 00:05:33,966 that Jason is still not letting Kylen have the epidural. 90 00:05:33,968 --> 00:05:37,036 -[Kylen groaning in pain] -[Lizzy speaking] 91 00:05:37,137 --> 00:05:39,138 -[Kylen groaning in pain] -[Jason speaking] 92 00:05:39,740 --> 00:05:42,741 [Lizzy speaking] 93 00:05:44,045 --> 00:05:45,644 [Jason speaking] 94 00:05:46,113 --> 00:05:49,615 [Lizzy speaking] 95 00:05:50,151 --> 00:05:51,550 [Kylen groaning in pain] 96 00:05:52,954 --> 00:05:55,621 I don't know why Jason's acting like this right now. 97 00:05:55,623 --> 00:05:57,423 I really don't, um, 98 00:05:57,425 --> 00:06:00,025 I think part of it could be 99 00:06:00,027 --> 00:06:03,796 you know, that this is his baby too and he just wants 100 00:06:03,798 --> 00:06:06,532 to do what's best for his son. 101 00:06:06,634 --> 00:06:09,301 He just doesn't understand, if the epidural was a bad thing, 102 00:06:09,436 --> 00:06:11,403 they wouldn't be offering i to people. 103 00:06:11,405 --> 00:06:12,705 But I don't think it's 104 00:06:12,807 --> 00:06:15,007 Jason's decision on if Kylen gets 105 00:06:15,009 --> 00:06:16,308 her epidural or not. 106 00:06:16,410 --> 00:06:17,943 I think that's up to Kylen 107 00:06:18,045 --> 00:06:19,645 and what she wants. 108 00:06:19,714 --> 00:06:20,913 It's her body. 109 00:06:20,915 --> 00:06:22,615 She's going through the labo 110 00:06:22,717 --> 00:06:23,716 He needs to just... 111 00:06:24,852 --> 00:06:26,819 calm his [bleep]. 112 00:06:28,923 --> 00:06:32,191 [Lizzy speaking] 113 00:06:32,193 --> 00:06:34,627 [Jason] No, Liz, it's not gonna make us relaxed. 114 00:06:34,695 --> 00:06:35,728 It will make her relaxed 115 00:06:35,829 --> 00:06:38,297 -and me freak out. -[Lizzy speaking] 116 00:06:46,407 --> 00:06:50,709 [Jason speaking] 117 00:06:52,813 --> 00:06:54,713 [Lizzy speaking] 118 00:07:01,055 --> 00:07:02,621 [Kylen groans in pain] 119 00:07:10,698 --> 00:07:14,400 Jason needs to just stop being 120 00:07:14,502 --> 00:07:19,204 an [bleep] and he needs to just let Kylen get this epidural. 121 00:07:19,307 --> 00:07:23,642 You know, she's young, she's scared, she has no ide what she's doing right now. 122 00:07:23,744 --> 00:07:25,611 They didn't take any classes 123 00:07:25,613 --> 00:07:27,713 and for her to have to be 124 00:07:27,715 --> 00:07:30,950 dealing with Jason acting the way he's acting right now, 125 00:07:31,052 --> 00:07:32,751 I feel bad for her. 126 00:07:37,491 --> 00:07:39,858 I don't want Jason to be [bleep]. 127 00:07:40,361 --> 00:07:43,095 [Lizzy speaking] 128 00:07:47,702 --> 00:07:49,702 -[Kylen groans in pain] -[Jason] It's my [bleep] son. 129 00:07:49,803 --> 00:07:52,638 [Kylen] How do you not see that I'm exhausted? 130 00:07:52,740 --> 00:07:56,141 -I do. We had the same amount. -I mentally and physically cannot do this. 131 00:07:56,210 --> 00:07:57,710 [Lizzy speaking] 132 00:08:04,618 --> 00:08:07,953 [Kylen crying in pain] 133 00:08:08,055 --> 00:08:10,823 -[Jason] I gotta go. We'll see. -[Lizzy speaking] 134 00:08:10,925 --> 00:08:11,924 [beep] 135 00:08:13,227 --> 00:08:16,395 [Kylen cries in pain] 136 00:08:19,233 --> 00:08:23,135 Yes, I can! I don't care what you think anymore. 137 00:08:25,706 --> 00:08:28,040 [groaning] 138 00:08:28,109 --> 00:08:30,943 Usually, I can't speak up for myself. 139 00:08:31,045 --> 00:08:34,346 But now I am 'cause I'm finally pissed off enough. 140 00:08:35,816 --> 00:08:36,949 I'm speaking up. 141 00:08:37,718 --> 00:08:40,019 I'm getting an epidural. 142 00:08:40,021 --> 00:08:42,421 I don't give a [bleep] what you think anymore. 143 00:08:46,861 --> 00:08:49,795 [upbeat song playing] 144 00:09:03,044 --> 00:09:04,810 Yeah. You wanna take him? 145 00:09:04,812 --> 00:09:06,211 [Emersyn] I've been staying at Mason's 146 00:09:06,213 --> 00:09:08,714 since I got in a fight with my mom. 147 00:09:08,716 --> 00:09:11,417 And when I came home to go get some of my stuff 148 00:09:11,485 --> 00:09:14,219 and once I got there, she just went off on me. 149 00:09:14,221 --> 00:09:18,123 At some point, you have got to take responsibility and so does Mason. 150 00:09:18,225 --> 00:09:20,325 He's completely disrespectful and rude. 151 00:09:20,327 --> 00:09:22,061 That's why he's not allowed in my house. 152 00:09:23,497 --> 00:09:25,497 [Emersyn] Like, I thought she'd be mad at me. 153 00:09:25,499 --> 00:09:29,635 But I didn't think she'd go, like, whack. 154 00:09:31,505 --> 00:09:34,807 Mason, he needs to be with his kid too. It's not fair to him. 155 00:09:34,909 --> 00:09:38,243 Yeah, it's important that he's with Mateo. 156 00:09:38,312 --> 00:09:41,113 And then, for Mom to, like, say he can't come over anymore, it's like... 157 00:09:44,418 --> 00:09:46,318 [Abbie] You don't think that can be resolved? 158 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,387 You know, Mason and Mom can talk. 159 00:09:48,389 --> 00:09:49,822 There's no reasoning with her. 160 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:52,925 I am definitely angry 161 00:09:53,060 --> 00:09:54,993 at some of the things that took place, 162 00:09:54,995 --> 00:09:57,629 but I expect Emersyn to be mature enough, 163 00:09:57,698 --> 00:10:00,399 uh, to follow the rules that we have set in place 164 00:10:00,401 --> 00:10:02,101 in our home. 165 00:10:02,103 --> 00:10:07,906 Um, and one of them is for her and Mason not to be laying in the bed together. 166 00:10:07,908 --> 00:10:10,309 I feel like they're old enough. They're having sex. 167 00:10:10,311 --> 00:10:11,643 They're having babies. 168 00:10:11,712 --> 00:10:14,213 I shouldn't have to babysit you guys. 169 00:10:14,215 --> 00:10:18,050 So, he's not welcome in my home anymore at all. 170 00:10:18,119 --> 00:10:21,053 Um, we've given him too much grace period. 171 00:10:21,121 --> 00:10:22,521 It is time for him to grow up 172 00:10:23,524 --> 00:10:25,357 and be responsible for his actions. 173 00:10:25,425 --> 00:10:28,927 Or until he does, he's not welcome in our home. 174 00:10:31,732 --> 00:10:33,832 [Abbie] So how is it over at Mason's house? 175 00:10:33,968 --> 00:10:35,100 [Emersyn] It's different. 176 00:10:35,168 --> 00:10:37,402 [Abbie] So, you feel like you are happier over there? 177 00:10:38,706 --> 00:10:40,439 I don't know. 178 00:10:41,809 --> 00:10:44,710 I'm not going to live with her if she's gonna give me ultimatums all the time. 179 00:10:46,313 --> 00:10:47,312 [sniffles] 180 00:10:49,617 --> 00:10:51,416 Seems like you guys need to talk about that. 181 00:10:56,323 --> 00:10:58,423 I would say she's pretty dramatic. 182 00:10:58,959 --> 00:11:00,359 If I do give her advice, 183 00:11:00,427 --> 00:11:03,529 I feel like Emersyn thinks that I'm siding with my mom. 184 00:11:03,597 --> 00:11:05,931 But I do not want to get in the middle of those two. 185 00:11:07,234 --> 00:11:09,501 So, are you for sure moving over there? 186 00:11:10,938 --> 00:11:13,405 Yeah, I think so. 187 00:11:13,507 --> 00:11:19,311 Well, I thought, you know, Mateo and Vihaan were going to be little buddies. 188 00:11:19,413 --> 00:11:21,146 [Emersyn] I know. I wasn't planning on moving out 189 00:11:22,049 --> 00:11:23,215 for a while. 190 00:11:23,217 --> 00:11:26,652 But I don't want Mom to have that kind of power over me 191 00:11:26,687 --> 00:11:28,620 or control over me. 192 00:11:28,622 --> 00:11:32,324 It's hard to replace, like, the emotional support of, like, being a mother. 193 00:11:32,426 --> 00:11:34,993 Especially like, since my mom had a baby 194 00:11:34,995 --> 00:11:37,596 just before me, it was 195 00:11:37,598 --> 00:11:40,899 kind of comforting knowing that someone in the same house is going through 196 00:11:40,901 --> 00:11:42,534 the same thing as me. 197 00:11:42,603 --> 00:11:44,102 And, like, she could, like, 198 00:11:44,104 --> 00:11:48,807 actively help me knowing how I was feeling in the moment, literally. 199 00:11:48,809 --> 00:11:52,711 But, like, I just don't want to be there if I'm gonna get, like, given ultimatums. 200 00:11:54,215 --> 00:11:56,114 Yeah. 201 00:11:56,217 --> 00:12:00,552 I think you want to be an adult, make your own decisions. 202 00:12:00,621 --> 00:12:02,955 Even if it leaves me with, like, some bad mistakes, 203 00:12:03,023 --> 00:12:05,457 I think mistakes are meant to be made, 204 00:12:05,526 --> 00:12:07,259 so you can learn from them. 205 00:12:07,327 --> 00:12:09,394 I just think she's mad she can't really 206 00:12:09,396 --> 00:12:13,398 make me stay. So I don't give a [bleep]. 207 00:12:13,533 --> 00:12:15,300 I want to be able to do what I want. 208 00:12:16,303 --> 00:12:18,804 I don't want to be under my mom's thumb anymore. 209 00:12:18,906 --> 00:12:22,207 If I make the wrong decision, at least it's my decision to make. 210 00:12:26,413 --> 00:12:29,214 I'd like to have a wedding ceremony 211 00:12:29,216 --> 00:12:30,214 and all of that. 212 00:12:30,217 --> 00:12:32,217 So wait a little while. There's no rush. 213 00:12:32,219 --> 00:12:35,220 Life is a game of poker. 214 00:12:35,322 --> 00:12:37,756 -I'm ready to game good. -Oh, my God! 215 00:12:37,825 --> 00:12:41,226 Do you really think that it will be beneficial 216 00:12:41,228 --> 00:12:42,928 if I was able to reach out to your mom 217 00:12:43,030 --> 00:12:45,330 to talk to her about, like, our differences? 218 00:12:45,432 --> 00:12:48,033 My entire childhood, they couldn't go two seconds without 219 00:12:48,102 --> 00:12:49,534 screaming and fighting at each other. 220 00:12:49,603 --> 00:12:52,137 So it seems a little too good to be true at the moment. 221 00:12:56,810 --> 00:12:59,044 ♪ What you waiting for? ♪ 222 00:12:59,113 --> 00:13:01,780 ♪ What you waiting for? ♪ 223 00:13:01,782 --> 00:13:03,148 ♪ You... ♪ 224 00:13:04,885 --> 00:13:06,351 [Kim] Lilly, coming out? 225 00:13:06,353 --> 00:13:08,820 [Lilly] Yeah, I'm just making coffee 'cause I have a headache. 226 00:13:08,922 --> 00:13:10,522 Mm, you got to eat. 227 00:13:10,624 --> 00:13:12,057 Make something. 228 00:13:12,159 --> 00:13:14,192 The first few, like, 229 00:13:14,194 --> 00:13:16,695 weeks in the apartment was really overwhelming 230 00:13:16,830 --> 00:13:21,133 'cause I guess I didn't realize how much help I really did have at my Mom's 231 00:13:21,234 --> 00:13:24,536 until I was fully gone. Like, all the cleaning. 232 00:13:24,605 --> 00:13:27,773 'Cause every little thing is on me now 233 00:13:27,775 --> 00:13:31,109 'cause, you know, Lawrence isn't that helpful. 234 00:13:31,945 --> 00:13:33,512 So it's hard. 235 00:13:33,514 --> 00:13:37,716 It's really hard. My mom was just kind of always around and always willing 236 00:13:37,785 --> 00:13:39,785 to help me get things done. 237 00:13:41,021 --> 00:13:45,157 So, have you guys talked about your budget? 238 00:13:45,826 --> 00:13:47,159 Do you have a limit? 239 00:13:47,260 --> 00:13:47,959 [Lilly] What do you mean? 240 00:13:48,061 --> 00:13:49,728 Like, for rent? 241 00:13:49,730 --> 00:13:52,698 [Kim] Well, no. Like, do you have a plan on how much you're gonna spend on 242 00:13:52,766 --> 00:13:54,199 food a week and stuff like that? 243 00:13:54,601 --> 00:13:55,600 [baby cooing] 244 00:13:55,669 --> 00:13:58,537 No, just have to buy what you need to eat. 245 00:13:59,206 --> 00:14:01,139 I can always bring stuff. 246 00:14:02,710 --> 00:14:04,543 We'll have our special days together. 247 00:14:04,645 --> 00:14:07,946 You know, we'll pick a grandma day and we'll come over and visit. 248 00:14:08,749 --> 00:14:10,816 Like, I could fall asleep right now. 249 00:14:10,918 --> 00:14:12,050 Yeah, you look tired. 250 00:14:13,821 --> 00:14:16,321 So, it's tough. Brings back memories 251 00:14:16,323 --> 00:14:19,424 to when I was, you know, a young mom. 252 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:21,526 It's hard. 253 00:14:21,528 --> 00:14:24,396 Lilly has definitely taken on a lot. 254 00:14:24,398 --> 00:14:27,232 It's just like two kids kind of, at once. 255 00:14:27,301 --> 00:14:30,502 She's exhausted and I wish she lived closer. 256 00:14:30,637 --> 00:14:33,305 I wish I could be there more often. 257 00:14:33,307 --> 00:14:35,707 Um, so it's tough to watch, you know. 258 00:14:35,809 --> 00:14:39,511 As a mom, I just want to, like, run in and fix everything. 259 00:14:39,513 --> 00:14:41,713 But I know she has to do this on her own 260 00:14:41,815 --> 00:14:44,883 and it will make her stronger and better. 261 00:14:45,519 --> 00:14:47,185 I guess. 262 00:14:49,022 --> 00:14:54,126 How do you think Lawrence is, um, handling things? He seems so stressed out. 263 00:14:54,128 --> 00:14:57,929 -'Cause there are a lot of money responsibilities now. -Yeah. 264 00:14:58,031 --> 00:15:00,699 He's gotta work. He's not gonna have enough time. 265 00:15:00,801 --> 00:15:03,135 -Yeah. -He only just started this job. 266 00:15:03,203 --> 00:15:05,404 Things with me and Lawrence have been a little tough 267 00:15:05,472 --> 00:15:07,305 'cause I think we're both overwhelmed. 268 00:15:07,307 --> 00:15:09,307 He, you know, he's working all day 269 00:15:09,410 --> 00:15:11,109 and I'm home with the kids all days. 270 00:15:11,111 --> 00:15:13,311 So, by the time he gets home, we're exhausted. 271 00:15:13,414 --> 00:15:16,148 We're not really spending any time together. 272 00:15:16,249 --> 00:15:19,117 And he's, you know, stressed about bills and money. 273 00:15:19,953 --> 00:15:20,952 [LJ mumbling] 274 00:15:25,726 --> 00:15:26,625 Really? 275 00:15:27,327 --> 00:15:28,960 [LJ cooing] 276 00:15:29,062 --> 00:15:31,396 [Kim] So what do you think about getting married now? 277 00:15:31,398 --> 00:15:33,865 Are you gonna rush getting married now that you've moved out? 278 00:15:35,669 --> 00:15:37,803 A year ago, Lawrence and I got engaged. 279 00:15:38,672 --> 00:15:40,806 Oh, my God! No way! 280 00:15:40,874 --> 00:15:42,707 -[Lawrence] Will you marry me? -[Lilly] Oh, my God! 281 00:15:42,809 --> 00:15:45,710 I am ready for Lilly to be my wife. 282 00:15:45,779 --> 00:15:47,712 Not only because we're having a kid together. 283 00:15:47,815 --> 00:15:50,549 I do really love her and she does mean the world to me. 284 00:15:50,617 --> 00:15:52,117 I love you. 285 00:15:54,021 --> 00:15:56,721 The sound of a wedding always sounds nice to me. 286 00:15:57,324 --> 00:15:58,457 But, like, 287 00:15:58,525 --> 00:16:00,625 the wedding is, like, not... 288 00:16:00,727 --> 00:16:03,195 -is not in the budget right now. -Can't actually do it now. 289 00:16:03,297 --> 00:16:05,797 I'm so relieved that the kids are 290 00:16:05,932 --> 00:16:08,800 not talking about the marriage thing seriously right now. 291 00:16:08,869 --> 00:16:12,204 I think that moving out, it's, it's so stressful. 292 00:16:12,339 --> 00:16:14,806 Living together with kids, I mean, 293 00:16:14,875 --> 00:16:17,342 you got to give that time before you 294 00:16:17,411 --> 00:16:19,444 rush to get married. 295 00:16:20,514 --> 00:16:24,115 I'd like to have a wedding ceremony and all of that, 296 00:16:24,218 --> 00:16:25,884 but it's just too much right now. 297 00:16:26,220 --> 00:16:27,619 Oh, okay. 298 00:16:29,056 --> 00:16:30,422 Mama, mama! 299 00:16:30,524 --> 00:16:32,958 ...that there's no way we can afford a wedding. 300 00:16:34,261 --> 00:16:36,127 Do you think Lawrence is gonna want to wait? 301 00:16:38,899 --> 00:16:40,432 Yeah. 302 00:16:40,434 --> 00:16:43,869 I feel like Lawrence was ready to get married the day he proposed. 303 00:16:43,871 --> 00:16:46,037 So, I thought maybe I would just have the 304 00:16:46,106 --> 00:16:48,139 court house, like, get officially married. 305 00:16:51,311 --> 00:16:53,512 [Kim] Oh, my God! Seriously. 306 00:16:53,514 --> 00:16:55,714 You are just starting your life together. 307 00:16:55,815 --> 00:16:58,517 I think it's good to give it time. 308 00:16:58,519 --> 00:17:00,118 Not that I'm saying anything's wrong 309 00:17:00,253 --> 00:17:02,220 with your relationship or anything like that. 310 00:17:02,222 --> 00:17:05,323 But it's just when you get to know somebody, it takes time. 311 00:17:05,458 --> 00:17:08,460 And you guys keep doing all these things on warp speed, 312 00:17:08,528 --> 00:17:13,398 really fast. So, you might want to just reconsider. 313 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:17,702 Because once you actually get married, it's, like, not like breaking up. 314 00:17:17,771 --> 00:17:19,404 When you break up a marriage, 315 00:17:19,506 --> 00:17:23,441 it's all financials and problems and... 316 00:17:23,510 --> 00:17:26,711 -Who says I'm getting divorced? -[Kim] But you could! 317 00:17:26,813 --> 00:17:29,814 That's why you don't get married unless you're sure. 318 00:17:30,317 --> 00:17:32,951 Life is a game of poker. 319 00:17:35,422 --> 00:17:37,222 -I'm ready to game good. -Oh, my God! 320 00:17:39,626 --> 00:17:41,393 ♪ Here we go again ♪ 321 00:17:41,395 --> 00:17:43,762 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 322 00:17:43,764 --> 00:17:46,431 ♪ And here we go again ♪ 323 00:17:46,533 --> 00:17:47,599 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 324 00:17:47,668 --> 00:17:49,301 ♪ Here we go again ♪ 325 00:17:49,403 --> 00:17:51,202 [Matt] So, what's going on with the beach? 326 00:17:52,306 --> 00:17:53,872 What do you mean? 327 00:17:53,907 --> 00:17:57,876 I don't know. Are there plans for anything? 328 00:17:57,911 --> 00:18:01,680 Every year, my dad and I usually take a beach vacation. 329 00:18:01,682 --> 00:18:04,716 But we didn't go last year because we were still fighting 330 00:18:04,851 --> 00:18:07,719 at that time and it just didn't work out. 331 00:18:07,788 --> 00:18:09,988 I'm glad that we can go this year 332 00:18:09,990 --> 00:18:11,556 and keep the tradition goin 333 00:18:11,658 --> 00:18:12,958 because I want Luca 334 00:18:13,026 --> 00:18:15,126 to have a relationship with his grandfather. 335 00:18:15,495 --> 00:18:17,095 And... 336 00:18:17,197 --> 00:18:20,031 you know, I want my dad to have memories with Luca as well. 337 00:18:20,100 --> 00:18:21,800 I don't want to take that away from him. 338 00:18:26,306 --> 00:18:28,540 Getting cold. Whoa! You all right? 339 00:18:30,944 --> 00:18:32,677 I was thinking I was gonna text Aden 340 00:18:32,679 --> 00:18:34,312 to see if he wanted to go fishing. 341 00:18:34,314 --> 00:18:36,815 [Jenna] Yeah. I think it would be nice. 342 00:18:36,883 --> 00:18:40,318 You and Aden can hang out and keep him entertained. 343 00:18:40,420 --> 00:18:43,421 Is that why... Is that why we're going? Is that the only reason we're going? 344 00:18:43,556 --> 00:18:45,223 -[Jenna] Yeah. -Keep Aden entertained? 345 00:18:45,692 --> 00:18:47,091 [Jenna] Yeah. 346 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:50,762 Honestly, it would be really nice if my dad took Aden fishing, 347 00:18:50,764 --> 00:18:52,931 um, and I could just get some relaxing time 348 00:18:59,172 --> 00:19:00,805 Can I say one thing without... 349 00:19:00,907 --> 00:19:02,207 -Yeah! Go ahead. -Okay. 350 00:19:02,209 --> 00:19:03,708 Aden's a really good dad 351 00:19:03,843 --> 00:19:05,944 and he's a good provider. Just... 352 00:19:06,046 --> 00:19:07,345 He has an attitude problem. 353 00:19:08,415 --> 00:19:10,715 But I just want her to be happy. 354 00:19:10,817 --> 00:19:14,052 I want Luca to be happy and healthy. 355 00:19:14,121 --> 00:19:16,354 I know that your mom and I didn't provide the best example 356 00:19:16,423 --> 00:19:18,623 of how to co-parent, but... 357 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:21,826 I know that you guys can do it. 358 00:19:21,928 --> 00:19:26,031 'Cause you guys are a lot more mature 359 00:19:26,132 --> 00:19:27,532 at your age 360 00:19:27,601 --> 00:19:29,200 than your mother and I were... 361 00:19:30,103 --> 00:19:31,936 when you were younger. 362 00:19:32,005 --> 00:19:35,740 And no matter what happens between you and Aden, 363 00:19:35,742 --> 00:19:38,777 I just hope you understand and know that 364 00:19:38,779 --> 00:19:43,548 I'm behind you 100% whichever way things end up going. 365 00:19:43,617 --> 00:19:44,882 Okay. 366 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:50,422 [Matt] I'm done talking about it and I'm going to shut up. 367 00:19:50,424 --> 00:19:51,690 -[Jenna] Good. -Okay. 368 00:19:53,727 --> 00:19:54,793 [laughs] 369 00:19:56,096 --> 00:19:58,096 I've been talking with Cathy 370 00:19:58,198 --> 00:20:03,101 and I really think that it would be beneficial 371 00:20:03,103 --> 00:20:05,403 for everybody if I was able to reach out to your mom 372 00:20:06,106 --> 00:20:07,405 just to talk to her about, like, 373 00:20:08,008 --> 00:20:10,709 meeting and just, like, 374 00:20:11,611 --> 00:20:14,145 talking through our differences. 375 00:20:14,214 --> 00:20:18,116 I think it could be difficult, honestly, but... 376 00:20:19,319 --> 00:20:20,785 I'm willing... 377 00:20:20,887 --> 00:20:23,722 I'm, er, I don't wanna... I don't even care about the past anymore. 378 00:20:23,790 --> 00:20:24,622 I just wanna... 379 00:20:25,492 --> 00:20:27,425 When did that change? 380 00:20:29,096 --> 00:20:32,997 I mean, it's no secret Jenna's mother and I, we just don't get along. 381 00:20:32,999 --> 00:20:36,401 It just needs to change. It's a shame that we didn't 382 00:20:36,403 --> 00:20:40,138 or we weren't able to do it earlier in life. 383 00:20:41,174 --> 00:20:43,708 It's, like, one of my biggest regrets. 384 00:20:43,810 --> 00:20:45,376 But there's nothing I can do about it now. 385 00:20:45,378 --> 00:20:47,879 Can't change the past. 386 00:20:47,948 --> 00:20:54,819 So, the only thing we can do is both agree to be better moving forward. 387 00:20:55,555 --> 00:20:56,821 [laughs] 388 00:21:03,396 --> 00:21:05,497 Because my entire childhood, they couldn't go 389 00:21:05,499 --> 00:21:07,999 two seconds without screaming and fighting at each other. 390 00:21:08,001 --> 00:21:11,035 So I really don't know why it would be any different now. 391 00:21:11,137 --> 00:21:15,039 It just seems a little too good to be true at the moment. 392 00:21:16,610 --> 00:21:18,343 I'm not saying it's gonna be easy. 393 00:21:18,378 --> 00:21:21,212 But I do wanna show you that people can change. 394 00:21:21,314 --> 00:21:23,681 And regardless of how you feel about somebody, 395 00:21:24,618 --> 00:21:26,718 co-parenting is possible. 396 00:21:27,454 --> 00:21:28,419 100%. 397 00:21:31,324 --> 00:21:33,525 [Jenna] Yeah, you just call her. 398 00:21:33,527 --> 00:21:35,426 [Matt] Hold on, I just said I wanna call her, 399 00:21:35,495 --> 00:21:37,996 I wanna see if she's open to talking. 400 00:21:39,432 --> 00:21:41,032 Yeah, it sounds like like a good idea. 401 00:21:42,602 --> 00:21:43,701 I don't think it could hurt. 402 00:21:45,405 --> 00:21:47,806 I think you should put my dad and Cathy 403 00:21:47,908 --> 00:21:49,808 and my mom in a room and film it. 404 00:21:49,876 --> 00:21:52,043 No, we're talking about putting me and Heather in a room. 405 00:21:52,145 --> 00:21:54,212 Oh! You should [bleep], you should do it. 406 00:21:54,314 --> 00:21:55,547 That'll be good. 407 00:21:55,615 --> 00:21:56,714 That'll be so funny. 408 00:21:58,118 --> 00:22:01,119 I wanna watch it. [laughs] 409 00:22:02,522 --> 00:22:06,057 We could do that. We could all go to the beach, my mom, my dad, Cathy, 410 00:22:06,526 --> 00:22:07,625 Aden, and I. 411 00:22:09,029 --> 00:22:10,428 It'll be so funny. 412 00:22:10,530 --> 00:22:12,430 I was talking about coffee. 413 00:22:12,532 --> 00:22:16,100 But we can invite her to the beach and just see what she says. 414 00:22:16,203 --> 00:22:17,902 I don't even know if she'll come. 415 00:22:18,805 --> 00:22:21,906 [sighs] I guess we'll just wait and see. 416 00:22:24,811 --> 00:22:26,444 Yeah, we'll just wait and see. 417 00:22:28,782 --> 00:22:30,682 That's the same thing you said. 418 00:22:30,684 --> 00:22:32,951 [Erica] Okay, well, we'll be praying for you. 419 00:22:33,053 --> 00:22:34,953 Think about the baby before you move him into 420 00:22:35,055 --> 00:22:36,821 a home that she's moving him into. 421 00:22:36,890 --> 00:22:39,123 I feel that it was not a healthy place to be. 422 00:22:42,963 --> 00:22:47,498 ♪ To all the ones Who tried to hold me back ♪ 423 00:22:50,503 --> 00:22:52,704 ♪ I'm standing strong ♪ 424 00:22:55,308 --> 00:22:58,243 ♪ I will hold on Through the bad ♪ 425 00:22:58,311 --> 00:23:01,546 ♪ No matter what Comes my way ♪ 426 00:23:01,648 --> 00:23:03,882 [Emersyn] Here's his diaper bag. 427 00:23:03,950 --> 00:23:07,118 I've decided to move out officially. 428 00:23:07,120 --> 00:23:10,989 So, my mom and Sai are driving me to Mason's house because 429 00:23:11,090 --> 00:23:13,124 I'll be staying with Mason 430 00:23:14,127 --> 00:23:16,261 for... I think I'm gonna stay with him 431 00:23:17,097 --> 00:23:18,596 until we get our own place together. 432 00:23:18,698 --> 00:23:20,498 I think... That's my plan. 433 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,401 If you don't want me around, I can go over or something. 434 00:23:23,536 --> 00:23:26,104 -I do. I do want you around. -Okay, then we're good. 435 00:23:27,340 --> 00:23:29,107 -[Mateo cries] -Is Mateo okay? 436 00:23:29,109 --> 00:23:31,509 [Erica] He's looking at the window. 437 00:23:31,511 --> 00:23:33,611 He's good to go. 438 00:23:33,713 --> 00:23:35,513 [Emersyn] Thanks for driving me back. 439 00:23:35,615 --> 00:23:37,315 -[Sai] You're welcome. -[Emersyn] I appreciate it. 440 00:23:37,884 --> 00:23:40,218 I want Emersyn to stay. 441 00:23:40,353 --> 00:23:43,154 I think that she needs to think about the baby 442 00:23:43,222 --> 00:23:46,124 before you move him into a home that she's moving him into. 443 00:23:46,126 --> 00:23:48,526 With Mason's mom and her past, 444 00:23:48,528 --> 00:23:50,662 she's a recovering drug addict 445 00:23:50,664 --> 00:23:53,031 that just got outta prison. 446 00:23:53,132 --> 00:23:58,102 So, I feel that it was not a healthy place to be right now for her and the baby. 447 00:23:58,237 --> 00:24:00,204 But she's 18, you know. 448 00:24:00,307 --> 00:24:02,407 It's a choice that she has to make. 449 00:24:02,509 --> 00:24:04,809 I just think she's making the harder choice. 450 00:24:04,911 --> 00:24:06,678 It's gonna be harder for her. 451 00:24:07,981 --> 00:24:09,047 A harder road. 452 00:24:22,662 --> 00:24:23,727 [Emersyn] Mm-hm. 453 00:24:40,647 --> 00:24:43,514 I don't think it's healthy for her not to learn 454 00:24:43,516 --> 00:24:46,551 to address issues and work out conflict. 455 00:24:46,652 --> 00:24:50,621 That's not adulting. That's running away. 456 00:24:50,724 --> 00:24:53,725 And that's what Emersyn tends to do. Emersyn runs. 457 00:24:53,793 --> 00:24:55,426 She doesn't like conflict. 458 00:24:55,528 --> 00:24:57,428 I just don't know how to work through it 459 00:24:57,430 --> 00:24:59,597 when I'm constantly being yelled at. 460 00:24:59,666 --> 00:25:01,099 And, like, get an ultimatum. 461 00:25:01,234 --> 00:25:03,501 You felt like you were constantly being yelled at? 462 00:25:03,503 --> 00:25:06,137 'Cause it was like 15 minutes 463 00:25:06,206 --> 00:25:08,439 and then we were done. 464 00:25:08,541 --> 00:25:11,142 And then when you said I was leaving, you, like, screamed at me. 465 00:25:11,244 --> 00:25:13,978 -For like, ever. -I didn't scream at you, but I was mad. 466 00:25:16,016 --> 00:25:17,415 Okay. 467 00:25:18,551 --> 00:25:22,020 I want Mason to be able to be with his kid. 468 00:25:22,022 --> 00:25:24,822 And I think I want to be able to be with Mason, 469 00:25:24,891 --> 00:25:26,024 like, all the time. 470 00:25:27,427 --> 00:25:28,725 [Sai speaking] 471 00:25:45,612 --> 00:25:48,446 [Erica] I know that I was the one that went zero to sixty. 472 00:25:48,515 --> 00:25:49,614 I totally get that. 473 00:25:50,917 --> 00:25:52,617 But it was building over... 474 00:25:53,953 --> 00:25:55,253 There was a lot going on. 475 00:25:58,525 --> 00:26:00,792 And my feelings can only take so much. 476 00:26:01,828 --> 00:26:03,227 Before I explode. 477 00:26:04,297 --> 00:26:07,799 Erica, she says, "I'm really angry at her, 478 00:26:07,867 --> 00:26:10,435 she did this, she did that, but at the same time, 479 00:26:10,503 --> 00:26:12,203 I want her in our house. 480 00:26:13,206 --> 00:26:15,606 Why can't she understand me? I want her here." 481 00:26:15,708 --> 00:26:17,442 -[Erica] Oh, Emersyn. -Yeah. 482 00:26:28,321 --> 00:26:29,720 I shouldn't have cussed 483 00:26:29,822 --> 00:26:31,789 and I shouldn't have raised my voice. 484 00:26:32,725 --> 00:26:35,526 But I was emotional and she disrespected us. 485 00:26:35,595 --> 00:26:40,031 And I never expected her to move out to a home like Mason's. 486 00:26:42,402 --> 00:26:44,602 [Sai] So how do you feel about their house? 487 00:26:44,704 --> 00:26:47,605 I have what I need for Mateo, to take care of him. 488 00:26:47,740 --> 00:26:49,307 I think that's most important. 489 00:26:49,309 --> 00:26:52,977 And I don't feel like I'm not safe there or anything. 490 00:27:01,788 --> 00:27:04,355 I just know if I had a bad feeling in my gut about it, 491 00:27:04,424 --> 00:27:06,124 then I wouldn't stay there. 492 00:27:06,126 --> 00:27:07,558 [Sai] Okay. 493 00:27:09,295 --> 00:27:12,763 It's just 'cause me and Mom see both different perspectives 494 00:27:12,765 --> 00:27:15,666 'cause I know his mom a little more than she does. 495 00:27:15,668 --> 00:27:18,503 'Cause she's never met her. She has only heard things. 496 00:27:18,605 --> 00:27:20,605 So it's hard for her, I think, 497 00:27:21,508 --> 00:27:24,142 to know that I'm, like, okay. 498 00:27:25,211 --> 00:27:27,145 I'm scared for her, yeah. 499 00:27:27,246 --> 00:27:31,816 Our choices, little and big, they can make a big impact in your life. 500 00:27:31,918 --> 00:27:35,887 And I see that it's a really big impact in her life 501 00:27:35,955 --> 00:27:38,789 that could go horribly wrong at any moment. 502 00:27:38,791 --> 00:27:41,359 I hope I'm completely wrong. 503 00:27:41,427 --> 00:27:43,528 I know nobody wants to be wrong, 504 00:27:43,629 --> 00:27:46,097 but in this situation, I hope I'm wrong. 505 00:27:46,199 --> 00:27:48,399 I hope it's gonna be great for her. 506 00:27:51,437 --> 00:27:53,704 [Erica] Okay, well, we'll be praying for you. 507 00:27:54,307 --> 00:27:56,207 And I meant what I said. 508 00:27:56,209 --> 00:27:58,976 I hope that I'm wrong and I hope that 509 00:27:59,045 --> 00:28:01,179 everything works out for the good. 510 00:28:01,181 --> 00:28:02,980 Yeah, I think it will. 511 00:28:04,717 --> 00:28:06,717 It's the best thing for your little Mateo. 512 00:28:06,819 --> 00:28:07,618 [Emersyn] Mmm-hmm. 513 00:28:10,890 --> 00:28:12,056 [Sai] All right. 514 00:28:15,061 --> 00:28:16,761 [Erica] I'm sad, yeah. 515 00:28:16,763 --> 00:28:18,596 But yeah, her leaving, it's awful. 516 00:28:26,773 --> 00:28:28,039 It's hard. 517 00:28:28,107 --> 00:28:29,941 The worry of a mother is hard. 518 00:28:31,511 --> 00:28:33,211 [baby cooing] 519 00:28:38,318 --> 00:28:39,717 [Erica] Bye, Mateo. 520 00:28:39,819 --> 00:28:41,252 [boy] Bye-bye, Mateo. 521 00:28:41,321 --> 00:28:43,821 [Erica] The base is right... [indistinct] 522 00:28:43,890 --> 00:28:45,723 -[Erica] All right, make good choices. -[Emersyn] See ya. 523 00:28:45,858 --> 00:28:47,725 -[Erica] Character counts. See you later. -[Emersyn] Bye. 524 00:28:49,128 --> 00:28:50,962 [dog barking] 525 00:28:53,433 --> 00:28:54,432 [Emersyn] Hi. 526 00:28:54,533 --> 00:28:55,399 [dog barks] 527 00:28:56,536 --> 00:28:57,702 Thank you! 528 00:28:57,770 --> 00:28:59,437 [Erica] That was my worst nightmare. 529 00:28:59,505 --> 00:29:01,539 Watching her walk through that door. 530 00:29:02,942 --> 00:29:05,209 Do you think she knows how much she's hurting me? 531 00:29:05,344 --> 00:29:06,210 I don't know. 532 00:29:07,914 --> 00:29:09,046 [sniffles] 533 00:29:09,115 --> 00:29:10,615 [dog barking] 534 00:29:13,987 --> 00:29:15,519 [Jenna] They will fight. 535 00:29:15,521 --> 00:29:16,954 I will put money on it. 536 00:29:17,056 --> 00:29:18,823 When her mother and I get in a room together, 537 00:29:18,958 --> 00:29:20,925 it could go completely sideways. 538 00:29:24,063 --> 00:29:26,497 [upbeat music playing] 539 00:29:37,710 --> 00:29:40,011 I made the decision to reach out to Heather, 540 00:29:40,079 --> 00:29:42,013 so we could get together 541 00:29:42,114 --> 00:29:45,783 and talk about where we have gone wrong 542 00:29:45,785 --> 00:29:47,485 in the past with Jenna. 543 00:29:47,487 --> 00:29:50,254 'Cause our relationship, it's toxic. 544 00:29:50,323 --> 00:29:53,891 And when her mother and I get in a room together, it's just tense. 545 00:29:53,993 --> 00:29:57,395 I have deep-rooted issues with the way Heather 546 00:29:57,397 --> 00:29:59,397 had treated Jenna in the pas 547 00:29:59,499 --> 00:30:02,800 There is multiple awful things said. 548 00:30:02,902 --> 00:30:06,937 You lie. You lied, Matt. You lie. 549 00:30:07,006 --> 00:30:11,809 I truly believe we need to move forward for the betterment of everybody. 550 00:30:11,911 --> 00:30:15,513 But both people have to work together to make that happen 'cause... 551 00:30:15,648 --> 00:30:17,982 -Yeah. -...one person doing it isn't gonna... 552 00:30:18,051 --> 00:30:19,617 -No, you're right. -...make the difference. 553 00:30:19,686 --> 00:30:22,320 Because one person can be neutral and fine, 554 00:30:22,322 --> 00:30:25,523 but if the other person is being difficult all the time, it's still... 555 00:30:25,658 --> 00:30:27,458 -Blowing up. -Yeah. 556 00:30:31,397 --> 00:30:32,963 When Matt reached out, 557 00:30:33,032 --> 00:30:34,765 it was a little shocking. 558 00:30:34,767 --> 00:30:36,400 I didn't expect that. 559 00:30:36,502 --> 00:30:39,937 But I think it's in everyone's best interest to let the past 560 00:30:40,039 --> 00:30:42,606 stay in the past, move forward. 561 00:30:42,708 --> 00:30:45,443 [Jenna] Seems like some [bleep] on a stick. 562 00:30:45,511 --> 00:30:48,346 I'm just saying, like, it's just, in my mind, 563 00:30:48,447 --> 00:30:50,614 it just seems like a bunch of bull-[bleep]. 564 00:30:50,716 --> 00:30:54,418 Because they don't really have a good track record 565 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:58,055 and, I mean, even at the toll, they kind of flipped out on each other and yelled 566 00:30:58,057 --> 00:31:00,624 and tried to point their fingers at each other again. 567 00:31:02,028 --> 00:31:04,195 I hope that I'm wrong. 568 00:31:04,297 --> 00:31:08,599 Because it's gonna be better for Luca to not be around toxic people. 569 00:31:08,701 --> 00:31:09,967 So we'll see. 570 00:31:10,069 --> 00:31:12,336 -I wouldn't say toxic people. -I would say toxic people. 571 00:31:12,405 --> 00:31:14,238 I would say toxic situation. 572 00:31:14,340 --> 00:31:17,308 What's a toxic situation caused by? Toxic people. 573 00:31:17,443 --> 00:31:19,009 Nobody is perfect though. 574 00:31:19,545 --> 00:31:21,345 Okay! 575 00:31:21,414 --> 00:31:24,448 I mean, I hope you never find out what it's like to 576 00:31:24,517 --> 00:31:31,255 separate from somebody and have so much hurt and hate towards someone. 577 00:31:31,324 --> 00:31:33,624 Because it's not good. It's not a good feeling. 578 00:31:40,700 --> 00:31:42,400 -[Matt] Hi. -Hi. 579 00:31:54,113 --> 00:31:58,149 I think it would be good for us to get together to talk about everything. 580 00:31:58,250 --> 00:32:00,818 'Cause it has been uncomfortable in the past, 581 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,287 obviously, for whatever reasons, 582 00:32:03,289 --> 00:32:06,123 and I think it's on both of us equally. 583 00:32:06,993 --> 00:32:08,826 [Jenna] They will fight. 584 00:32:08,961 --> 00:32:10,694 I will put money on it. 585 00:32:10,830 --> 00:32:14,198 She's not 100% off the rails with what she's saying. 586 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:19,103 Because, like, if one of us thinks that the other one might be throwing a pop shot, 587 00:32:20,406 --> 00:32:23,507 I might think she's doing it, she might think I'm doing it. 588 00:32:24,777 --> 00:32:28,679 It could have the potential to go completely sideways. 589 00:32:29,949 --> 00:32:31,916 I was a little surprised that you reached out. 590 00:32:32,017 --> 00:32:35,453 I wasn't really expecting anything, since we don't talk very much. 591 00:32:35,521 --> 00:32:37,254 Right. 592 00:32:37,356 --> 00:32:40,057 So that's why I laughed it off whenever Jenna said my dad wants to ask you for coffee. 593 00:32:40,059 --> 00:32:43,761 And I was kind of smart and said, "Since when does your dad drink coffee?" 594 00:32:43,763 --> 00:32:45,129 -Just being smart. -Right. 595 00:32:45,231 --> 00:32:47,097 Then the more I thought about it, I thought, "You know what? 596 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,534 It's probably best just to let bygones be bygones." 597 00:32:50,603 --> 00:32:53,037 -We did things wrong. -Both. 598 00:32:53,138 --> 00:32:54,305 I said "we," yeah. 599 00:32:54,307 --> 00:32:56,307 We did things wrong. 600 00:32:56,309 --> 00:32:59,944 We were both extremely immature at times. 601 00:33:00,012 --> 00:33:02,213 -Most of the time. -Yeah. 602 00:33:02,348 --> 00:33:05,716 I just wish a truce could have been reached before. 603 00:33:05,818 --> 00:33:07,551 Why do you think there wasn't one? 604 00:33:07,653 --> 00:33:09,053 I don't know. 605 00:33:09,121 --> 00:33:11,789 I think that we just picked at each other and I'm not-- 606 00:33:11,791 --> 00:33:13,156 Why? 607 00:33:13,158 --> 00:33:17,094 I really don't know, but it wasn't right and I feel bad. 608 00:33:17,096 --> 00:33:21,499 I mean, I just don't want Jenna to ever feel like she's stuck with Aden. 609 00:33:21,601 --> 00:33:25,603 If she's in fear of, you know, having that type of situation 610 00:33:25,704 --> 00:33:29,106 that we did which was toxic for quite some time. 611 00:33:29,108 --> 00:33:30,508 Right. We just didn't do things 612 00:33:30,510 --> 00:33:34,211 the right way and we could have done so much better. 613 00:33:34,213 --> 00:33:38,115 But it is what it is. We can't change it. All we can do is change 614 00:33:38,117 --> 00:33:43,153 the way Jenna sees everyone able to communicate now. 615 00:33:43,222 --> 00:33:46,423 So, I just think that this is gonna be like a 616 00:33:46,425 --> 00:33:49,927 huge stepping stone for the whole family. 617 00:33:49,995 --> 00:33:53,898 And I think it's gonna be very beneficial for Jenna 618 00:33:53,999 --> 00:33:56,534 -in the long run. Right. -Even Luca, especially. 619 00:33:58,404 --> 00:34:00,404 Feels really good to clear the air between us. 620 00:34:00,539 --> 00:34:02,907 [chuckling] 621 00:34:02,975 --> 00:34:06,243 -I know, that sounds so corny. -[laughs] 622 00:34:06,312 --> 00:34:08,946 It feels good not to hate him so much now. 623 00:34:09,048 --> 00:34:10,046 [both laugh] 624 00:34:11,350 --> 00:34:13,617 [Matt] No, it feels good to clear the air. 625 00:34:13,752 --> 00:34:15,986 And most importantly, what feels good... 626 00:34:17,523 --> 00:34:20,791 is knowing that we're doing everything we can 627 00:34:20,793 --> 00:34:23,861 to show Jenna that co-parenting is possible. 628 00:34:24,530 --> 00:34:25,996 -We can do this. -Yeah. 629 00:34:26,933 --> 00:34:29,066 Miracles do happen. [laughs] 630 00:34:30,236 --> 00:34:31,402 We'll see. 631 00:34:34,340 --> 00:34:36,307 [man] Okay, this is done. You wanna leave right now? 632 00:34:36,309 --> 00:34:38,075 I wanna see my kid be born. 633 00:34:38,077 --> 00:34:41,312 And as of right now, that's not gonna happen. 634 00:34:41,414 --> 00:34:42,713 [man speaking] 635 00:34:47,186 --> 00:34:48,318 ♪ What's the matter? I wanna scream ♪ 636 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:49,887 ♪ What's the matter? I wanna scream ♪ 637 00:34:49,955 --> 00:34:51,322 ♪ I donno what it'll be ♪ 638 00:34:51,324 --> 00:34:53,357 ♪ All I wanna do is scream ♪ 639 00:34:53,459 --> 00:34:55,559 ♪ What's the matter? I wanna scream ♪ 640 00:34:59,699 --> 00:35:00,531 [Kylen] Please. 641 00:35:01,667 --> 00:35:03,434 [Jason speaking] 642 00:35:03,502 --> 00:35:05,302 -No. -[Jason] Then no. 643 00:35:05,404 --> 00:35:08,205 -That's literally childish. -Look at you, you're already high. 644 00:35:08,307 --> 00:35:11,675 -[Kylen] Why am I high? -[woman speaking] 645 00:35:14,914 --> 00:35:17,181 The nurses gave me an option... 646 00:35:18,517 --> 00:35:20,517 to take an epidural or not. 647 00:35:22,989 --> 00:35:25,723 And...yeah. 648 00:35:26,692 --> 00:35:28,726 [Jason] Why don't you just say it? 649 00:35:28,827 --> 00:35:32,930 No, 'cause I'd just rather not talk about it so we don't fight. 650 00:35:32,999 --> 00:35:34,798 If you lie and act like you did nothing wrong 651 00:35:34,900 --> 00:35:36,800 and make me look like a piece of [bleep] 652 00:35:36,869 --> 00:35:40,304 when you were the [bleep] in that situation, then I will get mad. 653 00:35:41,707 --> 00:35:46,310 I was in a lot of pain, so I decided to get the epidural. 654 00:35:47,546 --> 00:35:49,513 Okay, Kylen, act like it's just fine. 655 00:35:52,818 --> 00:35:53,717 [doctor] Hello. 656 00:35:58,057 --> 00:35:58,922 [woman speaking] 657 00:35:59,625 --> 00:36:02,426 [doctor speaking] 658 00:36:04,397 --> 00:36:06,697 [Jason speaking] 659 00:36:07,099 --> 00:36:10,868 [woman speaking] 660 00:36:10,969 --> 00:36:14,038 -[Jason speaking] -[doctor speaking] 661 00:36:20,413 --> 00:36:22,312 We had a birth plan. I told you before 662 00:36:22,415 --> 00:36:24,448 we went to the hospital. In the hospital, 663 00:36:24,483 --> 00:36:27,651 so many times, I begged you not to do it. 664 00:36:27,653 --> 00:36:30,087 And you took me out of the situation. 665 00:36:30,089 --> 00:36:33,624 -No, I wasn't trying to take you-- -I was out of the situation. 666 00:36:35,428 --> 00:36:39,329 [doctor speaking] 667 00:36:42,702 --> 00:36:45,035 [Jason] I don't consent to this, it's my kid too. 668 00:36:45,137 --> 00:36:46,804 [doctor speaking] 669 00:36:57,483 --> 00:36:59,450 -[Kylen speaking] -[doctor speaking] 670 00:36:59,551 --> 00:37:01,318 I think she's a [bleep]. 671 00:37:02,421 --> 00:37:04,988 'Cause she had to stick a [bleep] needle with 672 00:37:05,057 --> 00:37:07,224 epidural in her back that has oxycodone 673 00:37:07,226 --> 00:37:09,727 [bleep] methamphetamine. 674 00:37:09,795 --> 00:37:11,662 It has all kinds of drugs in it. 675 00:37:12,531 --> 00:37:14,865 Often delivered in a combination 676 00:37:14,934 --> 00:37:20,037 with opioids or narcotics such as fentanyl and sufentanil 677 00:37:20,139 --> 00:37:23,674 in order to decrease the required dose of local anesthetic. 678 00:37:23,676 --> 00:37:27,678 Fentanyl is a very addictive drug that, 679 00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,546 even if you do it for a medical reason, 680 00:37:29,615 --> 00:37:31,348 that you can come out of it with an addiction, 681 00:37:31,450 --> 00:37:33,317 which they warn you in the hospital about. 682 00:37:34,420 --> 00:37:36,186 All right, I don't want to talk about it anymore. 683 00:37:36,188 --> 00:37:37,621 It's pissing me off. 684 00:37:41,827 --> 00:37:42,793 [Kylen groaning] 685 00:37:42,795 --> 00:37:47,030 [woman speaking] 686 00:37:47,099 --> 00:37:48,599 [Jason speaking] 687 00:37:48,700 --> 00:37:51,235 -[woman speaking] -[Jason speaking] 688 00:37:51,336 --> 00:37:53,403 [doctor speaking] 689 00:37:58,444 --> 00:38:00,010 [Jason] Look what you're causing. 690 00:38:00,412 --> 00:38:01,445 [Kylen] No, stop. 691 00:38:01,514 --> 00:38:03,914 [Jason] No, your fault you did drugs. 692 00:38:04,016 --> 00:38:05,916 [Kylen speaking indistinctly] 693 00:38:06,018 --> 00:38:07,785 [Jason] Yeah, they [bleep]. 694 00:38:07,787 --> 00:38:11,321 [Kylen] Please, you're stressing me out, stop! 695 00:38:11,991 --> 00:38:15,325 [woman speaking] 696 00:38:17,596 --> 00:38:21,698 [Kylen] No, he's not leaving. That is my only support, nurse. 697 00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:23,934 [woman speaking] 698 00:38:28,340 --> 00:38:32,009 You can look at me like I'm the [bleep] bad guy and I really don't give a [bleep], 699 00:38:32,077 --> 00:38:37,114 because I think, in reality, I'm doing what's best for my family. 700 00:38:37,216 --> 00:38:41,084 This guy doctor gynecologist, or whatever the [bleep] he does for a living, 701 00:38:41,086 --> 00:38:44,721 puts a needle in her back and then I freak out, I was like, "Bro, 702 00:38:44,790 --> 00:38:46,723 she's literally not even [bleep] there." 703 00:38:46,792 --> 00:38:50,227 Her eyes were rolling back in her head, like, she was literally high off her ass. 704 00:38:50,930 --> 00:38:55,299 [man speaking] 705 00:38:58,871 --> 00:39:03,507 -[Jason] I'm not leaving without Kylen. -[indistinct conversation] 706 00:39:03,609 --> 00:39:05,609 -[man speaking] -[Jason] Yes. 707 00:39:05,711 --> 00:39:07,678 -[Jason] I care about her. -[man] Then why are you being like this? 708 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:08,946 [Jason] I'm here to see my kid being born. 709 00:39:09,047 --> 00:39:11,615 [man speaking] 710 00:39:11,717 --> 00:39:12,716 Yes. 711 00:39:13,452 --> 00:39:16,220 -I gotta pack my stuff. -[man speaking] 712 00:39:19,058 --> 00:39:21,058 -[woman] Yeah, you can call outside. -[man speaking] 713 00:39:21,159 --> 00:39:23,861 [Kylen] I really would like all of you to stop. 714 00:39:23,962 --> 00:39:26,196 And I was like, "I wanna talk to her first, like, 715 00:39:26,298 --> 00:39:27,497 give me a minute." 716 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,099 And then we were trying to figure [bleep] out. 717 00:39:29,201 --> 00:39:31,101 And they were like, "No, let's go now." 718 00:39:31,203 --> 00:39:34,705 So I was like, "I wanna give my girlfriend a kiss before I go." 719 00:39:34,806 --> 00:39:36,907 Even though I was still [bleep] heated at her. 720 00:39:36,976 --> 00:39:39,176 [man speaking] 721 00:39:39,178 --> 00:39:41,044 [Jason] Okay, I'll be right outside the door 722 00:39:41,113 --> 00:39:42,913 and I'll not leave this building until you come outside. 723 00:39:42,982 --> 00:39:43,780 -[line ringing] -[Kylen] Yes. 724 00:39:43,782 --> 00:39:47,184 [man speaking] 725 00:39:47,186 --> 00:39:50,420 [Jason] Hello, I need you to talk to these security guards 726 00:39:50,422 --> 00:39:52,189 that are kicking me out of this [bleep] hospital. 727 00:39:52,191 --> 00:39:54,524 [Scott speaking] 728 00:39:55,327 --> 00:39:57,060 So, we're waiting for a call to see 729 00:39:57,062 --> 00:39:58,495 if the baby's been born. 730 00:39:59,398 --> 00:40:01,431 And instead, we get a call that 731 00:40:01,500 --> 00:40:03,600 Jason's been kicked out of the hospital. 732 00:40:03,702 --> 00:40:09,206 You know, being in a high-stress situation, 733 00:40:09,208 --> 00:40:14,211 I guess I'm not surprised that Jason lost his cool. 734 00:40:14,313 --> 00:40:17,080 If Jason thought, for any reason, an epidural 735 00:40:17,082 --> 00:40:19,716 would have harmed Xavier, that would be the only reason. 736 00:40:19,785 --> 00:40:22,819 I guess, yeah, I hope someday 737 00:40:22,922 --> 00:40:24,721 that Jason would wake up. 738 00:40:26,058 --> 00:40:27,724 Maybe take a good look in the mirror. 739 00:40:27,826 --> 00:40:30,627 I don't know what it's gonna take. I really don't. 740 00:40:30,729 --> 00:40:34,498 Don't get me wrong, I love my son, I'll do whatever I gotta do 741 00:40:34,500 --> 00:40:36,199 and I'll put up with the [bleep]. 742 00:40:36,201 --> 00:40:39,770 I don't want to. I hate it. But I'd do it. 743 00:40:41,307 --> 00:40:44,041 I'd do what I gotta do. 744 00:40:44,109 --> 00:40:47,444 [woman] This is all kind of intense, maybe it's a good thing... 745 00:40:47,546 --> 00:40:49,780 [Jason] Kylen, please tell 'em. I don't know what you have to do. 746 00:40:49,782 --> 00:40:55,619 -You just gotta tell them to [bleep] off. -[man speaking] 747 00:40:55,688 --> 00:40:58,221 -[Jason] Dude, why? What did I even do? -[woman speaking] 748 00:41:00,059 --> 00:41:02,826 Yeah, I am. I want my boyfriend here. 749 00:41:04,096 --> 00:41:06,663 [Kylen] Jason can be a raging dick. 750 00:41:06,665 --> 00:41:09,499 I still wanted him to be in there with me. 751 00:41:09,501 --> 00:41:11,568 It was your fault I got kicked out. 752 00:41:13,872 --> 00:41:16,173 If she didn't even think about doing the epidural, 753 00:41:16,175 --> 00:41:17,874 I wouldn't have got kicked out. 754 00:41:19,211 --> 00:41:23,013 Would have been there for all of it. That's like a moment that I 755 00:41:23,082 --> 00:41:27,451 literally would wait my whole life to see. I want to see my kid be born. 756 00:41:27,519 --> 00:41:30,887 And as of right now, that's not gonna happen. 757 00:41:34,927 --> 00:41:36,727 [narrator] Next time on Unexpected... 758 00:41:36,795 --> 00:41:40,063 [Jenna] My parents' relationship has always been super toxic. 759 00:41:40,065 --> 00:41:43,233 But let's put them in a house and let's see if they can be nice. 760 00:41:43,335 --> 00:41:45,235 [Matt] Going on vacation together, 761 00:41:45,337 --> 00:41:49,306 I think I would rather have fallen into a pit of punji sticks. 762 00:41:51,443 --> 00:41:54,311 Me and Alex, we just kind of, like, co-parent the best that we can. 763 00:41:54,313 --> 00:41:56,713 By still sleeping in the same bed with each other every night 764 00:41:56,815 --> 00:41:58,682 and Alex trying to get some. 765 00:41:58,684 --> 00:42:00,250 [both chuckle] 766 00:42:00,319 --> 00:42:02,219 I get how terrible I made you feel, 767 00:42:02,221 --> 00:42:04,321 but I was just kinda in the middle of it. 768 00:42:04,423 --> 00:42:06,623 I don't care who's right. I don't care who's wrong. 769 00:42:06,692 --> 00:42:09,326 Nobody should be fighting over a baby's room. 770 00:42:09,328 --> 00:42:12,596 That's... We're not gonna remember what the [bleep] looked like anyway. 771 00:42:12,698 --> 00:42:14,931 My water is breaking even more. 772 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,101 [Jason speaking] 773 00:42:18,170 --> 00:42:20,337 Obviously, I wanna be there for my kid's birth, 774 00:42:20,405 --> 00:42:22,039 but the worst could happen. 775 00:42:22,140 --> 00:42:26,676 It makes me wanna [bleep] cry that I can't see my kid come into this world.