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I can't believe little Marty
gonna be a father.
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I remember him sitting
in this chair,
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crying his little eyes out.
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You've been cutting his hair
a long time, huh?
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Oh, no, that was
a couple of months ago,
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after he broke up
with Necie.
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(laughter)
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It wasn't about Necie!
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You nicked me,
and you know it!
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So, Calvin, you're about
to be a grandpa.
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You gonna get
some Velcro shoes?
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(laughter)
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Nah. One of those,
uh, pill trays
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with every day
of the week on it.
Oh.
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Hey, hey, but don't
mix up your days.
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My grandmother did that.
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She took her Thursday
on Tuesday.
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She was gone by Friday.
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Well, you keep talking smack,
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you're gonna see
your grandmama today.
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(laughter)
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Calvin, you should embrace
becoming a grandfather.
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You know, my dad couldn't be
more excited about it.
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Mm.
I thought your kid was 13.
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Ah, yes,
but my dad was indisposed
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for a number of those years.
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A number of years
determined by a judge.
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(laughter)
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I'm just saying, you should
look for the positives.
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You know, as a grandfather,
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you'll be revered
for your wisdom.
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Marty is going to need a lot
of advice on how to raise a kid.
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You know what?
That is true.
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I am the master.
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Eh...
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Eh...
What?
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Look, Dad,
you did a great job.
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I-I'm just planning
on raising my kid
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with a lot less yelling.
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And a lot less belt.
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It's-it's a new era.
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Things are different now.
MALCOLM:
Yeah.
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When I fell off my bike
and hit my head,
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you told me to go take a nap.
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Are you alive?
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Yes.
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Then it worked.
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Dad, no offense,
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but I'm approaching fatherhood
as more of a science.
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You see, I'm going
to read all the books,
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I'm gonna absorb all the data.
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Then I will apply it
in the real world.
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I'm going
to get my PhD in D-A-D.
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QUE:
So, Calvin,
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what's the kid going
to call you?
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Gramps? Papa?
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No. Pee-paw!
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Oh, you know,
Pee-paw has a nice ring to it.
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You know, I may start
calling you Pee-paw.
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You better not call me
no damn Pee-paw.
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I just started liking you,
Dave. Don't ruin it.
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Guys, I'm not some old,
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stuffy, grandpa type,
all right?
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In fact, I'm taking
my lady out
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to see Earth, Wind & Fire
tomorrow.
Okay.
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Yeah.
Ooh, what time's
that concert? 5:00?
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(laughter)
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Oh, that's gonna get in the
way of his early-bird special!
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(laughter)
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No tip?
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Yeah, I got a tip for you.
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Don't clown your customers
before you get your tip.
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♪ Welcome to the block,
welcome to the neighborhood ♪
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♪ Welcome to the hood. ♪
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So you're really going to let
your dad take Grover out solo?
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I don't know why
you're so surprised.
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We're chill.
We're not helicopter parents.
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Yes, you are.
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We totally are.
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(over stereo): * I pull up
with the blick, blick ♪
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♪ I pull up,
make your clique flip ♪
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♪ I pull off in the whip ♪
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♪ And I skert ♪
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♪ Skert ♪ ♪ Skert ♪
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♪ Skert... ♪ ♪ Skert... ♪
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What's up, y'all?
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Hey, Calvin.
Uh, what was that?
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Oh. Oh, yeah.
That was lit, right?
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That was that...
That's that new Lil Side Baby.
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Oh. Oh, so,
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did your radio get stuck
on the wrong station?
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That wasn't the radio, dawg.
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That-that was on my phone.
I-I made a new playlist. Dope.
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Oh. What else is on it?
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Just that one song.
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Okay, Calvin, is this because
we were ribbing you
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at the barbershop
about being a grandfather?
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Look, man, I'm nobody's
grandpa, all right?
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I'm just a man who has a son
who's having a baby.
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Uh, I don't know
what you're talking about,
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'cause I cannot wait for
that baby to call me "Grandma."
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Aw.
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Or Lovey. Or-or Gammy.
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Or Gammy T.
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Ooh, Glammy T.
Let's lock that one in.
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Hey, so what's
a blick, blick?
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Okay, well, if you have to ask,
then the music's not for you.
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Boomers, right?
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♪ Blick, blick,
skert, skert, oh! ♪
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Yo.
Hey.
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Oh, what's all this?
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Oh, Amazon Prime delivered
some parenting books.
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I'm reading up.
By the time this baby arrives,
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I'll know everything
I need to know.
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Okay. (laughs)
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How to Raise a Green Baby.
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Mm-hmm.
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I would hope you're
having a Black baby.
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No. No, see,
this book teaches you
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how to have a kid
that's carbon neutral.
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Oh.
Yeah.
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What the hell
does that mean?
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I don't know,
but in 600 pages, I will.
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Oh, uh, guess who I'm going out
for drinks with tomorrow.
Who?
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My old buddy
Chili Mangold.
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Oh, your old college teammate?
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Yup.
What's he doing in town?
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We're, uh, playing
San Diego State tomorrow.
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He's their new
head coach.
Oh.
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Nice. Uh, head coach. That's...
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Wow. That's-that's big-time.
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Yeah.
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He's a lot younger
than you, isn't he?
(coughs)
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Two years, Marty.
Oh.
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(laughs)
That's not a lot.
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Oh. Yeah.
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Plus, he has
a summer birthday, so...
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Yeah, well, good for him.
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Uh, okay, I'm going to start
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with How to Speak Baby
with Your Baby.
Yeah.
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(laughs) You know, uh,
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just because Chili
is a little ahead of me,
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that does not mean
that I'm behind, so...
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That's fair.
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Yeah. Yeah,
he's a head coach, Marty, okay,
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but San Diego State--
they are not that good.
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Yes, they are undefeated,
okay, but so were we
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till we hit that rough patch
a couple of weeks ago.
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Malcolm, are you okay?
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Yes, I am okay,
and I am very, very happy
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for Chili Mangold!
Okay.
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Okay. Uh, you seem
a bit fussy.
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And according to this book,
you might have gas.
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Can I practice burping you?
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Can I practice punching you?
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Let me burp you, man. Come on.
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(overlapping arguing)
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Let me freaking go!
Let me go!
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Let me burp you!
Let me burp you!
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It's good to see you, Dad.
You're looking good.
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Oh, thanks, son.
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Notice anything
different about me?
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You got your ankle monitor off!
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I did. I'm a free man.
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Except for weekly urine tests.
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Lamar! Thank you
so much for coming.
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Aww.
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Yeah, we both have
such crazy days,
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it really is helpful that you
can drive Grover around for us.
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Oh, I'm happy to do it.
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I missed so much time
with you growing up,
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because of mandatory
minimum sentences.
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(chuckles)
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I want to enjoy
every minute with Grover.
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So Dave says
you bought a car?
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That I did.
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As in paid for?
Legally, it's yours?
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Yes, Gemma.
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Not bad, huh? 1980.
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Still got
the original tires.
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Low mileage?
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Odometer's taped over,
but I'd guess so.
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So, where's Grover?
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No.
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Excuse me?
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Not happening.
Grover can't ride in that.
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It's not safe.
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The seat belt is a rope.
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You can drive Dave's car.
Dave can drive yours to work.
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So it's too dangerous
for Grover to ride in,
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but it's okay for me?
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It's fine. Just get it
back before dark.
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Those headlights do not work.
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You know what?
I-I'll just take an Uber.
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Yeah...
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DAVE:
Oh, hey, Marty!
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You remember
my dad.
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Well, how could I forget
a white man named Lamar?
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I hear you're going
to be a father.
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Good for you.
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Yeah.
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Oh, you're reading
Ready, Set, Toddler.
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It's great, isn't it?
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Well, it's okay.
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It's a little
touchy-feely for me.
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Oh, well, let it
touch you, bro.
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Are you sure?
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Yeah. I mean, trust me,
it is amazing.
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You know, that book was
my GPS to fatherhood.
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It's probably why Grover
has such great life skills.
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GROVER:
Uh, Dad?
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A little help
with this hoodie?
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Oh, uh...
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Son, that's a pair
of sweatpants.
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Oh.
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Uh...
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Why don't you go inside and
take another crack at it, champ?
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You got this.
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Ah.
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You know, I thought
I smelled burning oil out here.
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Did this thing
even pass inspection?
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Ha! I wish.
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I hear congratulations
are in order.
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Oh, well, yes, they are.
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Welcome to the Grandpa Club.
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Tip from an old pro?
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Keep hard candy in
the front sweater pocket,
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kids go bananas for 'em.
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All right,
I'm not "hard candy" old.
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Well, I don't know, Calvin,
you do make sounds
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when you get up, and...
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well, and when
you sit down.
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It's the furniture, Dave.
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Oh, so it's
the furniture that goes...
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(groans) Damn.
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Okay. Look, y'all just hating on
a man that's in his prime.
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I mean, come on,
could an old man do this?
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Oh, watch out now, Daddy.
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Watch out, Daddy. Okay.
Huh?
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Or Shabba Doo like this?
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(loud snap)
Oh!
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(grunts)
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Dad?
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Dad, are-are you okay?
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(grunts) Yeah. Yeah, I'm okay.
Yeah, I'm okay. Yeah.
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(moaning)
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Yeah, this that...
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This that new
Lil Side Baby shuffle.
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It's the Side Baby.
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Skert, skert!
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Okay, good, they're
only a block away.
Well, put your phone away.
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We don't want them to know
we're tracking them.
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Well, what are they gonna think
we're doing standing out here?
254
00:09:48,455 --> 00:09:50,123
Crap. Act natural.
255
00:09:53,293 --> 00:09:55,295
Oh, look,
they're back already.
256
00:09:56,263 --> 00:09:58,732
(horn honks)
Sup, Mom?
257
00:10:05,405 --> 00:10:06,473
(car door closes)
258
00:10:09,342 --> 00:10:10,543
What's happening?
259
00:10:12,212 --> 00:10:14,247
Grandpa Lamar gave me
my first driving lesson.
260
00:10:14,347 --> 00:10:16,784
In a car? On the street?
261
00:10:16,884 --> 00:10:18,986
Mostly on the street.
262
00:10:20,620 --> 00:10:22,656
You let a 13-year-old
drive a car?
263
00:10:22,756 --> 00:10:24,024
Oh, please.
264
00:10:24,124 --> 00:10:25,759
If he can smoke,
he can drive.
265
00:10:27,194 --> 00:10:28,195
I can smoke?
266
00:10:28,295 --> 00:10:29,329
No!
No!
267
00:10:31,865 --> 00:10:33,801
All right, well,
I talked to Dr. Fisher.
268
00:10:33,901 --> 00:10:35,202
He's gonna fit you in.
269
00:10:35,302 --> 00:10:37,470
I don't need to see
a doctor, babe, I'm fine.
270
00:10:37,570 --> 00:10:39,873
No, you're not. Your knee's
the size of a cantaloupe.
271
00:10:43,777 --> 00:10:45,879
Ain't nothing wrong
with a big knee.
272
00:10:45,979 --> 00:10:47,915
I think there is.
273
00:10:48,015 --> 00:10:50,217
Look, babe, I'm telling you
all I need is
274
00:10:50,317 --> 00:10:52,152
a little Bengay and a nap.
275
00:10:52,252 --> 00:10:54,922
Uh-huh. Okay. Well,
are we still going to see
276
00:10:55,022 --> 00:10:56,189
Earth, Wind & Fire tonight?
277
00:10:56,289 --> 00:10:57,390
Sure.
278
00:10:57,490 --> 00:11:00,160
You know, with the traffic
and parking.
279
00:11:00,260 --> 00:11:01,161
You know, we better get going.
280
00:11:01,261 --> 00:11:03,030
Come on.
Sure thing. Nothing to it.
281
00:11:03,130 --> 00:11:05,032
Yep, yep. No doubt.
282
00:11:05,132 --> 00:11:07,034
(cries out)
283
00:11:07,134 --> 00:11:09,002
Whoo. Whoo!
284
00:11:09,102 --> 00:11:10,904
All right.
285
00:11:11,004 --> 00:11:12,740
Okay, you know what?
I'm sorry, babe.
286
00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,075
I know you really wanted
to see Earth Wind & Fire, but...
287
00:11:15,175 --> 00:11:17,510
Oh, no, no, it's fine.
288
00:11:17,610 --> 00:11:19,179
No, it's not fine.
289
00:11:19,279 --> 00:11:21,982
You know... I'm old.
290
00:11:22,082 --> 00:11:23,884
The band old.
291
00:11:23,984 --> 00:11:25,352
Everybody old.
292
00:11:27,955 --> 00:11:29,689
I mean, they're already down
to two elements.
293
00:11:29,790 --> 00:11:31,391
I mean, by the time they go
back on tour,
294
00:11:31,491 --> 00:11:33,526
it'll just be Wind.
295
00:11:36,363 --> 00:11:39,432
Okay, so let's get you
to the doctor
296
00:11:39,532 --> 00:11:40,433
so you could get better.
297
00:11:40,533 --> 00:11:43,971
Better to do what?
Nobody needs me.
298
00:11:44,071 --> 00:11:45,072
Come on.
299
00:11:45,172 --> 00:11:46,406
What are you talking
about, Calvin?
300
00:11:46,506 --> 00:11:47,607
Come on, let's just
face it, Tina,
301
00:11:47,707 --> 00:11:49,242
my boys don't need me anymore.
302
00:11:49,342 --> 00:11:51,945
Marty is about to
become a father.
303
00:11:52,045 --> 00:11:54,214
But did he call me
for advice?
304
00:11:54,314 --> 00:11:57,584
No. He just ordered
a bunch of books.
305
00:11:57,684 --> 00:11:59,953
Even Dave fixed
his own lawn mower
306
00:12:00,053 --> 00:12:01,488
without my help.
307
00:12:01,588 --> 00:12:03,891
He just looked at
some video on YouTube.
308
00:12:05,692 --> 00:12:07,594
He tried to ask you,
309
00:12:07,694 --> 00:12:09,462
and you sprayed him
with the hose.
310
00:12:09,562 --> 00:12:10,864
That's our process.
311
00:12:13,366 --> 00:12:15,068
Come on, Grover,
we're gonna be late.
312
00:12:15,168 --> 00:12:17,704
Dave, now your dad's
texting me
313
00:12:17,805 --> 00:12:19,873
because you won't
take his calls.
(sighs)
314
00:12:19,973 --> 00:12:21,474
Maybe we overreacted.
315
00:12:21,574 --> 00:12:23,811
It was one driving lesson.
Grover's safe.
316
00:12:23,911 --> 00:12:25,312
Is it that big a deal?
317
00:12:25,412 --> 00:12:28,215
It's a big deal to me.
318
00:12:28,315 --> 00:12:30,317
You know, driving lessons are
a "dad" thing.
319
00:12:30,417 --> 00:12:32,786
Ever since he was
crawling around,
320
00:12:32,886 --> 00:12:34,154
I've been thinking
about the day
321
00:12:34,254 --> 00:12:36,623
where I got to put him behind
the wheel of a car.
322
00:12:36,723 --> 00:12:38,658
Well, you can still do that.
323
00:12:38,758 --> 00:12:41,161
Yeah, but it won't be
the first time.
324
00:12:41,261 --> 00:12:43,496
He probably just took Grover
around the block.
325
00:12:43,596 --> 00:12:45,933
Wrong. They drove all the way
to that donut place.
326
00:12:46,033 --> 00:12:47,767
You know, the one with
the big, giant donut?
327
00:12:47,868 --> 00:12:50,770
And even worse, Lamar
only got enough donuts
328
00:12:50,871 --> 00:12:53,440
for him and Grover.
329
00:12:53,540 --> 00:12:56,276
That's just rude.
330
00:12:56,376 --> 00:12:57,978
That driving lesson
was a moment
331
00:12:58,078 --> 00:13:00,213
that I'd been waiting for.
332
00:13:00,313 --> 00:13:01,514
Lamar stole it
333
00:13:01,614 --> 00:13:03,583
just like he steals everything.
334
00:13:05,953 --> 00:13:08,388
Hey, man.
Hmm?
335
00:13:08,488 --> 00:13:10,257
You said there weren't
any more donuts.
336
00:13:10,357 --> 00:13:12,292
No, I said there were
no extra donuts.
337
00:13:14,027 --> 00:13:15,395
Your pants are inside out.
338
00:13:19,766 --> 00:13:21,701
(sighs heavily)
Hey.
339
00:13:21,801 --> 00:13:24,704
Well, it's official.
340
00:13:24,804 --> 00:13:26,940
Your brother is a loser.
341
00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:28,608
You lost the game?
342
00:13:28,708 --> 00:13:32,312
No, Marty, we won the game.
I'm just losing at life.
343
00:13:32,412 --> 00:13:35,048
Chili Mangold is
a head coach,
344
00:13:35,148 --> 00:13:37,317
and I'm just an assistant
batting coach.
345
00:13:37,417 --> 00:13:39,219
I'm not where I should be
in life.
346
00:13:39,319 --> 00:13:42,222
Oh, man, well, I'm sure
you'll be head coach someday.
347
00:13:42,322 --> 00:13:43,590
Yeah, sure, Marty.
348
00:13:43,690 --> 00:13:46,693
As soon as, like,
eight people above me die.
349
00:13:48,495 --> 00:13:49,596
I mean, that could happen.
350
00:13:49,696 --> 00:13:52,265
You guys are out
in the sun a lot.
351
00:13:52,365 --> 00:13:54,534
I-I shouldn't have said that.
352
00:13:54,634 --> 00:13:56,236
I mean, man, if I'm
really serious about
353
00:13:56,336 --> 00:13:57,504
becoming a head coach,
I'm gonna have to
354
00:13:57,604 --> 00:13:59,406
move someplace
where there's openings.
355
00:13:59,506 --> 00:14:01,108
Hello, Tulsa.
356
00:14:01,208 --> 00:14:02,409
I hear Tulsa's nice.
357
00:14:03,776 --> 00:14:05,512
There are no job openings
in Tulsa.
358
00:14:06,646 --> 00:14:07,881
Then why you keep saying Tulsa?
359
00:14:07,981 --> 00:14:08,916
I don't know, Marty.
360
00:14:09,016 --> 00:14:10,217
Why won't you just let me vent?
361
00:14:10,317 --> 00:14:12,485
Because I'm freaking out,
too, man.
362
00:14:12,585 --> 00:14:14,087
I've been up all night
reading these parenting books,
363
00:14:14,187 --> 00:14:15,422
and it's useless.
364
00:14:15,522 --> 00:14:17,257
It's all psychobabble,
and no two of them agree.
365
00:14:17,357 --> 00:14:18,658
But they all say if you don't
do it their way,
366
00:14:18,758 --> 00:14:20,493
you're gonna end up
raising a monster.
367
00:14:20,593 --> 00:14:23,763
What did I get myself into?
368
00:14:23,863 --> 00:14:26,066
I should just move
to Tulsa with you.
369
00:14:28,435 --> 00:14:30,203
There's no job in Tulsa.
370
00:14:32,639 --> 00:14:34,007
TV REPORTER:
I'm here live at the Forum,
371
00:14:34,107 --> 00:14:37,177
where the stars have come out
to see Earth, Wind & Fire
372
00:14:37,277 --> 00:14:39,279
on the final night
of their tour.
373
00:14:39,379 --> 00:14:42,449
And there's a rumor
the Queen Bey herself
374
00:14:42,549 --> 00:14:43,917
might join the band onstage...
375
00:14:44,017 --> 00:14:45,885
(TV turns off)
376
00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:49,456
I'm sorry, babe.
377
00:14:49,556 --> 00:14:50,823
That's okay, baby.
378
00:14:50,924 --> 00:14:53,226
Who wants to deal with
all that traffic?
Yeah.
379
00:14:53,326 --> 00:14:55,295
Overpriced food.
380
00:14:55,395 --> 00:14:57,397
Floor seats dead center.
381
00:14:57,497 --> 00:14:59,232
(knock on door)
382
00:14:59,332 --> 00:15:02,535
And look, we would have missed
who's knocking at our door.
383
00:15:04,004 --> 00:15:06,239
Oh, Lamar.
384
00:15:06,339 --> 00:15:07,607
Yay.
385
00:15:10,443 --> 00:15:12,145
Hi, Tina.
386
00:15:12,245 --> 00:15:14,547
Can I please borrow
Calvin for a minute?
387
00:15:14,647 --> 00:15:16,183
Of course.
Thank you.
388
00:15:17,217 --> 00:15:18,751
Wow, really hurt
yourself there, huh?
389
00:15:18,851 --> 00:15:21,721
I guess that's why they
call it break dancing.
390
00:15:21,821 --> 00:15:23,256
(chuckles)
391
00:15:23,356 --> 00:15:26,093
You are definitely
Dave's dad.
392
00:15:27,727 --> 00:15:29,096
And that's why I'm here.
393
00:15:29,196 --> 00:15:30,930
I really stepped
in it with him.
394
00:15:31,031 --> 00:15:33,566
I gave Grover
a driving lesson.
395
00:15:33,666 --> 00:15:37,604
Really? The boy can
barely ride an escalator.
396
00:15:39,206 --> 00:15:40,240
He did okay.
397
00:15:40,340 --> 00:15:42,575
Took out a mailbox,
scared some ducks.
398
00:15:44,744 --> 00:15:46,613
I guess I was trying to
share an experience
399
00:15:46,713 --> 00:15:49,316
with my grandson that I never
got to have with my son,
400
00:15:49,416 --> 00:15:50,550
and now Dave's really mad,
401
00:15:50,650 --> 00:15:51,818
and I don't know
what to do about it.
402
00:15:51,918 --> 00:15:55,555
Lamar, look, you can't
change the past.
403
00:15:55,655 --> 00:15:58,658
You're gonna have to stop
obsessing over what you missed.
404
00:15:58,758 --> 00:16:00,827
But I missed his
entire childhood,
405
00:16:00,927 --> 00:16:02,962
and I'll never get it back.
406
00:16:03,063 --> 00:16:05,698
Pop!
407
00:16:05,798 --> 00:16:08,001
I think I've done
my whole life wrong.
408
00:16:09,002 --> 00:16:10,337
What are you talking about?
409
00:16:10,437 --> 00:16:12,072
I'm not even close
to my goals in life,
410
00:16:12,172 --> 00:16:15,142
and meanwhile, Chili Mangold
is younger than me,
411
00:16:15,242 --> 00:16:16,343
and he is killing it.
412
00:16:16,443 --> 00:16:19,346
Good God, look at
the size of your knee!
413
00:16:19,446 --> 00:16:20,813
MARTY:
Daddy!
414
00:16:20,913 --> 00:16:23,116
Daddy!
415
00:16:23,216 --> 00:16:24,384
Daddy, help me.
416
00:16:24,484 --> 00:16:26,653
I am not ready to
be a father. Whoa!
417
00:16:27,887 --> 00:16:29,689
You need to get that
checked out.
418
00:16:31,291 --> 00:16:33,360
Malcolm, get out of my way.
I am having a crisis!
419
00:16:33,460 --> 00:16:35,128
Oh, please, man,
I'm having a crisis, too.
420
00:16:35,228 --> 00:16:36,229
Oh, oh, let me guess.
421
00:16:36,329 --> 00:16:37,964
Is it Chili Mangold?
Yeah.
422
00:16:38,065 --> 00:16:40,500
I've had it up to here
with Chili Mangold, okay?
423
00:16:44,504 --> 00:16:46,906
Daddy, I am totally unprepared
to be a father.
424
00:16:47,006 --> 00:16:49,576
I know nothing, and then
I read everything,
425
00:16:49,676 --> 00:16:50,943
and I feel like I know
even less.
426
00:16:51,044 --> 00:16:52,579
Like, how do you stop
a nosebleed?
427
00:16:52,679 --> 00:16:53,713
Head forward.
Head back.
428
00:16:53,813 --> 00:16:56,349
See? See?
429
00:16:56,449 --> 00:16:58,585
What about fevers,
or temper tantrums?
430
00:16:58,685 --> 00:17:00,220
Or what if they suck their toes?
431
00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:03,790
Oh, it's so cute when they
suck their little toes.
432
00:17:03,890 --> 00:17:05,858
Is it cute? Sure.
But is it okay?
433
00:17:05,958 --> 00:17:07,394
Like, are toes
a choking hazard?
434
00:17:07,494 --> 00:17:09,629
What about pennies,
Triscuits, Legos?
435
00:17:09,729 --> 00:17:11,198
Legos?!
436
00:17:11,298 --> 00:17:13,900
That baby won't have Legos
for six years, man. Move!
437
00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:15,068
I'm having a problem now.
438
00:17:15,168 --> 00:17:17,204
Malcolm, Marty, that's enough.
439
00:17:19,272 --> 00:17:21,741
Malcolm, you can't
judge yourself
440
00:17:21,841 --> 00:17:24,677
by Chili Mangold
or anybody else.
441
00:17:24,777 --> 00:17:26,946
You're running your own race,
442
00:17:27,046 --> 00:17:28,748
and if you put in the work, son,
443
00:17:28,848 --> 00:17:32,519
everything that's meant for you
will be yours, trust me.
444
00:17:32,619 --> 00:17:33,953
All right, Pop.
445
00:17:34,053 --> 00:17:35,122
And, Marty,
446
00:17:35,222 --> 00:17:38,191
all those books,
they don't mean anything.
447
00:17:38,291 --> 00:17:42,595
In the words of the great
Black philosopher, Mike Tyson...
448
00:17:44,564 --> 00:17:48,067
"Every man has a plan until
449
00:17:48,168 --> 00:17:50,270
he gets punched in the face."
450
00:17:52,439 --> 00:17:54,807
And that's what having
a baby is like.
451
00:17:54,907 --> 00:17:58,145
Yeah, but I don't want to
get punched in the face.
452
00:17:58,245 --> 00:18:00,913
Well, it's a little late
for that.
453
00:18:02,449 --> 00:18:05,152
But trust me,
I will be in your corner,
454
00:18:05,252 --> 00:18:07,487
and I will help you
fight that baby.
455
00:18:09,589 --> 00:18:11,858
And-and, Lamar, look,
456
00:18:11,958 --> 00:18:14,494
I know you missed out
on Dave's childhood,
457
00:18:14,594 --> 00:18:18,431
but trust me, no matter
how old your kid is,
458
00:18:18,531 --> 00:18:21,501
he will always be your kid.
459
00:18:21,601 --> 00:18:24,437
Yeah, maybe there's still
a little kid left in Dave.
460
00:18:24,537 --> 00:18:26,273
Maybe?
(laughs)
461
00:18:26,373 --> 00:18:29,176
If there is any man that
still wants to be a little kid,
462
00:18:29,276 --> 00:18:30,610
it's Dave.
463
00:18:32,179 --> 00:18:34,647
Okay, fellas, time's up.
Calvin needs his rest.
464
00:18:34,747 --> 00:18:36,249
Move along.
Go on, now.
465
00:18:37,250 --> 00:18:38,518
Thanks, Pop.
Thank you.
466
00:18:38,618 --> 00:18:40,520
Thanks, Dad.
467
00:18:40,620 --> 00:18:43,122
You know, Calvin,
I was listening,
468
00:18:43,223 --> 00:18:46,359
and for someone who thinks
he's old and useless,
469
00:18:46,459 --> 00:18:49,829
you just helped three
grown men solve their problems.
Hmm.
470
00:18:49,929 --> 00:18:51,264
I guess I did, didn't I?
471
00:18:51,364 --> 00:18:53,633
Yes, you did.
Oh, well.
472
00:18:53,733 --> 00:18:55,568
If I'm gonna be a grandfather,
473
00:18:55,668 --> 00:18:58,471
then I need to
get myself together.
Mm-hmm.
474
00:18:58,571 --> 00:19:00,373
You mind driving me
to urgent care?
475
00:19:00,473 --> 00:19:02,242
Oh, of course, my little baby.
476
00:19:02,342 --> 00:19:03,643
Okay, be easy, be easy.
477
00:19:03,743 --> 00:19:05,178
I got you.
478
00:19:05,278 --> 00:19:06,846
All right.
479
00:19:06,946 --> 00:19:08,315
You know what, babe?
480
00:19:08,415 --> 00:19:10,049
And I'm sorry about missing
481
00:19:10,149 --> 00:19:12,018
the whole Earth, Wind & Fire
thing.
482
00:19:12,118 --> 00:19:14,521
But you know who's coming
to town next month?
483
00:19:14,621 --> 00:19:16,055
Who?
484
00:19:16,155 --> 00:19:17,390
Lil Side Baby.
485
00:19:17,490 --> 00:19:18,991
Let me hear that song again.
486
00:19:19,091 --> 00:19:20,260
(music playing)
487
00:19:20,360 --> 00:19:21,494
♪ I pull up in a new whip ♪
488
00:19:21,594 --> 00:19:22,495
♪ And I skert! ♪
489
00:19:22,595 --> 00:19:23,563
Yeah.
490
00:19:23,663 --> 00:19:24,864
BOTH:
♪ Skert, skert ♪
491
00:19:24,964 --> 00:19:26,399
♪ You skert
♪ Skert, skert ♪
492
00:19:26,499 --> 00:19:28,167
♪ Then you skert
♪ Skert, skert ♪
493
00:19:28,268 --> 00:19:30,637
♪ Ooh, it hurt! ♪
494
00:19:30,737 --> 00:19:32,305
♪ It hurt, hurt.
Let's go, let's go.
495
00:19:36,576 --> 00:19:38,177
Hey, son.
Yeah.
496
00:19:38,278 --> 00:19:41,548
Keep rolling, old man, I got
nothing to say to you.
497
00:19:42,549 --> 00:19:44,451
Well, I've got something
to say to you.
498
00:19:45,452 --> 00:19:47,920
I guess I was trying
to connect with Grover
499
00:19:48,020 --> 00:19:49,489
because I wanted to make up
500
00:19:49,589 --> 00:19:51,157
for never connecting with you.
501
00:19:51,258 --> 00:19:52,692
You still haven't.
502
00:19:52,792 --> 00:19:54,527
I know, and I'm sorry.
503
00:19:54,627 --> 00:19:57,330
I overreached,
and it will not happen again.
504
00:19:57,430 --> 00:20:01,868
Lamar, did you teach Grover
how to shank somebody
505
00:20:01,968 --> 00:20:04,471
with a sharpened toothbrush?
Come on.
506
00:20:05,572 --> 00:20:07,574
In my defense,
that was meant for
507
00:20:07,674 --> 00:20:09,509
dire situations only.
508
00:20:09,609 --> 00:20:11,778
Fighting cavities,
there's your priority.
509
00:20:17,183 --> 00:20:18,518
What are you doing
with that tire?
510
00:20:18,618 --> 00:20:20,720
Remember when you were
eight years old,
511
00:20:20,820 --> 00:20:23,323
and you really wanted me
to make you a tire swing?
512
00:20:23,423 --> 00:20:24,491
You never did.
513
00:20:24,591 --> 00:20:26,493
Until now.
514
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,830
Dad, I am not
eight years old anymore.
515
00:20:31,831 --> 00:20:34,867
So, no swing?
516
00:20:38,338 --> 00:20:41,474
Well...
517
00:20:41,574 --> 00:20:43,042
we can put it up.
518
00:20:44,777 --> 00:20:48,047
But you cannot push me.
519
00:20:48,147 --> 00:20:50,116
Maybe just a little
to get me going.
520
00:20:56,656 --> 00:20:59,526
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521
00:20:59,626 --> 00:21:02,529
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522
00:21:02,629 --> 00:21:03,830
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