1 00:00:04,482 --> 00:00:06,484 - Previously on "Dirty John"... 2 00:00:06,528 --> 00:00:08,399 - I'm John. 3 00:00:08,443 --> 00:00:10,532 - Ronnie thinks that John is creepy 4 00:00:10,575 --> 00:00:12,490 and might be a gold digger. 5 00:00:12,534 --> 00:00:14,275 I'm trying to find somebody who's smart 6 00:00:14,318 --> 00:00:17,278 and funny and someone I'm attracted to. 7 00:00:17,321 --> 00:00:19,193 - There's something wrong with him. 8 00:00:19,236 --> 00:00:21,151 Do you not see that? 9 00:00:21,195 --> 00:00:22,587 - I found out some things about you. 10 00:00:22,631 --> 00:00:24,328 You weren't in Iraq. You lived in a trailer park. 11 00:00:24,372 --> 00:00:26,156 You don't even have a medical license. 12 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,158 - You worry about your own sad life. 13 00:00:28,202 --> 00:00:30,334 I'll worry about Debbie. We're married now. 14 00:00:30,378 --> 00:00:32,336 - We hired someone. A private detective. 15 00:00:32,380 --> 00:00:34,643 We need to figure out why he's lying to you. 16 00:00:34,686 --> 00:00:36,427 - John's not a perfect person. 17 00:00:36,471 --> 00:00:39,691 But I love him because he's a good man. 18 00:00:39,735 --> 00:00:42,520 - Did you open my mail? How dare you? 19 00:00:42,564 --> 00:00:43,782 It's a felony to open someone's mail. 20 00:00:43,826 --> 00:00:47,134 [tense music] 21 00:00:47,177 --> 00:00:51,790 ♪ 22 00:00:54,141 --> 00:00:57,187 [soft acoustic music] 23 00:00:57,231 --> 00:01:00,190 [man singing] 24 00:01:00,234 --> 00:01:05,326 ♪ 25 00:01:05,369 --> 00:01:06,718 [door handle shuffles] 26 00:01:06,762 --> 00:01:08,198 - Oh, my God, this place makes me want 27 00:01:08,242 --> 00:01:10,200 to curl up in the fetal position. 28 00:01:10,244 --> 00:01:12,202 - You said one drink. - I say a lot of things. 29 00:01:12,246 --> 00:01:14,117 - Well, I actually listened to this one. 30 00:01:14,161 --> 00:01:16,119 - I should have just gone home and had a bowl of cereal-- 31 00:01:16,163 --> 00:01:18,121 - Greyhound or sea breeze? Greyhound or sea breeze? 32 00:01:18,165 --> 00:01:20,123 - Okay. If this place has grapefruit juice, 33 00:01:20,167 --> 00:01:22,778 I'll pay your next month's rent. 34 00:01:22,821 --> 00:01:25,520 - Hey, Ton. - Hi. 35 00:01:25,563 --> 00:01:27,609 - So anyway, one of my patients today was getting 36 00:01:27,652 --> 00:01:30,568 a quadruple bypass, and his entire family... 37 00:01:30,612 --> 00:01:32,135 [chattering] 38 00:01:32,179 --> 00:01:34,659 And it was getting so annoying because... 39 00:01:34,703 --> 00:01:36,226 - Nice scrubs. 40 00:01:36,270 --> 00:01:38,837 - ♪ It's a song you sing 41 00:01:38,881 --> 00:01:40,796 ♪ When the radio does 42 00:01:40,839 --> 00:01:42,711 - Thanks. 43 00:01:42,754 --> 00:01:44,800 - No, I mean, seriously, like, 44 00:01:44,843 --> 00:01:47,455 it's a great color. 45 00:01:47,498 --> 00:01:49,413 ♪ 46 00:01:49,457 --> 00:01:52,416 - Nice pants. 47 00:01:52,460 --> 00:01:54,679 - You like 'em? - Mm. 48 00:01:54,723 --> 00:01:56,420 - Good. 49 00:01:56,464 --> 00:01:58,118 I was kind of on the fence today. 50 00:01:58,161 --> 00:02:00,294 I wasn't sure whether to go with pants. 51 00:02:00,337 --> 00:02:02,383 And I thought, "Eh, probably. 52 00:02:02,426 --> 00:02:04,907 Probably pants." 53 00:02:04,950 --> 00:02:07,127 - What were your other choices? 54 00:02:07,170 --> 00:02:08,911 - Oh, barrel and suspenders. 55 00:02:08,954 --> 00:02:10,652 Catsuit, uh... 56 00:02:10,695 --> 00:02:15,265 some kind of decorative, you know, paint situation. 57 00:02:15,309 --> 00:02:16,832 - Shorts? 58 00:02:16,875 --> 00:02:18,703 - Shorts. Yeah. 59 00:02:18,747 --> 00:02:22,446 That's definitely a choice people make, right? 60 00:02:22,490 --> 00:02:24,187 So let me get this straight. 61 00:02:24,231 --> 00:02:27,451 So then do you get different anesthesia training? 62 00:02:27,495 --> 00:02:29,149 - No. No, it's the same. 63 00:02:29,192 --> 00:02:31,325 But when a nurse... 64 00:02:31,368 --> 00:02:32,674 anesthetist. 65 00:02:32,717 --> 00:02:34,632 - You can't even say it. 66 00:02:34,676 --> 00:02:36,460 You can't even say it. 67 00:02:36,504 --> 00:02:38,723 - I can say it. I can say it. 68 00:02:38,767 --> 00:02:41,813 But when a nurse anesthetist-- - [slurring] Anesthetist. 69 00:02:41,857 --> 00:02:43,641 - Anes--anesthetist. - Mm-hmm. 70 00:02:43,685 --> 00:02:45,252 - Administers anesthesia, 71 00:02:45,295 --> 00:02:46,470 it's nursing, 72 00:02:46,514 --> 00:02:48,298 so it has to be overseen by a doctor. 73 00:02:48,342 --> 00:02:50,648 But when an anesthesiologist does it, 74 00:02:50,692 --> 00:02:53,434 it's medicine, so it doesn't have to be overseen, so. 75 00:02:53,477 --> 00:02:54,870 - Okay, wait. - That's the difference. 76 00:02:54,913 --> 00:02:57,220 - So you do the same job as anesthesiologist... 77 00:02:57,264 --> 00:02:58,526 - Mm-hmm. 78 00:02:58,569 --> 00:03:00,354 - But with a chaperone for half the money. 79 00:03:00,397 --> 00:03:03,226 - Well, I mean... 80 00:03:03,270 --> 00:03:05,707 half the money is still great money. 81 00:03:05,750 --> 00:03:07,317 And no one really chaperones me anymore... 82 00:03:07,361 --> 00:03:09,363 - But doesn't that make you mad? 83 00:03:09,406 --> 00:03:10,668 - Um... - I mean, that would-- 84 00:03:10,712 --> 00:03:12,627 that would make me mad, I'm sorry. 85 00:03:12,670 --> 00:03:14,237 But I mean, I'm mad for you. 86 00:03:14,281 --> 00:03:17,197 I--I mean... 87 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:18,720 you should be paid more. 88 00:03:18,763 --> 00:03:19,851 - Maybe I should go to law school then. 89 00:03:19,895 --> 00:03:21,331 There's still time. 90 00:03:21,375 --> 00:03:23,681 - Okay, you're making fun of me now. 91 00:03:23,725 --> 00:03:25,509 I see. 92 00:03:25,553 --> 00:03:29,470 You know, I am on the pathway to the, uh... 93 00:03:29,513 --> 00:03:32,603 materially rich, spiritually empty existence 94 00:03:32,647 --> 00:03:33,865 of my dreams. 95 00:03:33,909 --> 00:03:35,389 - [laughing] 96 00:03:35,432 --> 00:03:37,913 - That's not funny at all. That's just sad. 97 00:03:37,956 --> 00:03:40,916 [uneasy music] 98 00:03:40,959 --> 00:03:41,917 ♪ 99 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:43,353 [glass clinking] 100 00:03:45,399 --> 00:03:48,358 [light applause] 101 00:03:48,402 --> 00:03:51,622 - Hi, I'm Ethan, I'm the best man. 102 00:03:51,666 --> 00:03:54,712 Most of you don't know him real well. 103 00:03:54,756 --> 00:03:58,542 I've known him, uh, three or four years now. 104 00:03:58,586 --> 00:04:01,676 And if you talk to any of his friends, 105 00:04:01,719 --> 00:04:05,549 as far as the reaction to him getting married, 106 00:04:05,593 --> 00:04:08,030 you are gonna find out they are just 107 00:04:08,073 --> 00:04:10,728 completely shocked and baffled. 108 00:04:10,772 --> 00:04:12,382 [laughter] 109 00:04:12,426 --> 00:04:13,557 - We are going for pancakes, 110 00:04:13,601 --> 00:04:15,298 and you are not invited 111 00:04:15,342 --> 00:04:16,778 because you are busy. 112 00:04:16,821 --> 00:04:18,562 - No, I'm not. - You've got your hands full. 113 00:04:18,606 --> 00:04:20,521 - I mean, why don't you? - Stop it. 114 00:04:20,564 --> 00:04:22,784 - You don't want a handful of that guy, you must be crazy. 115 00:04:22,827 --> 00:04:24,438 - I will see you tomorrow. 116 00:04:24,481 --> 00:04:25,917 - And the reason why, 117 00:04:25,961 --> 00:04:29,834 I think the reason why is that we're... 118 00:04:29,878 --> 00:04:32,010 skeptical people. [laughter] 119 00:04:32,054 --> 00:04:35,666 So seeing him in love is... 120 00:04:35,710 --> 00:04:38,408 an inspiring thing for me. 121 00:04:38,452 --> 00:04:41,933 And I'm sure for anyone who knows him too. 122 00:04:41,977 --> 00:04:44,588 ♪ 123 00:04:44,632 --> 00:04:45,894 - You're leaving with them? 124 00:04:45,937 --> 00:04:46,938 - Nope. 125 00:04:46,982 --> 00:04:48,723 - But you're leaving. 126 00:04:48,766 --> 00:04:51,900 - [sighs] Yeah. 127 00:04:51,943 --> 00:04:53,945 I--I have a shift tomorrow. 128 00:04:53,989 --> 00:04:55,295 I should really go. 129 00:04:55,338 --> 00:04:56,513 - Take me with you. 130 00:04:56,557 --> 00:04:58,863 ♪ 131 00:04:58,907 --> 00:05:01,388 No, I--I didn't mean it like that. 132 00:05:01,431 --> 00:05:02,519 I just meant, like, you know, 133 00:05:02,563 --> 00:05:03,520 let's go get a coffee 134 00:05:03,564 --> 00:05:05,000 or go for a drive, 135 00:05:05,043 --> 00:05:06,915 you know, whatever you're comfortable with. 136 00:05:06,958 --> 00:05:08,873 It's just... 137 00:05:08,917 --> 00:05:10,571 I mean, we're having a good time. 138 00:05:10,614 --> 00:05:14,401 Right? I just-- I don't want it to end. 139 00:05:14,444 --> 00:05:16,403 Not yet. 140 00:05:16,446 --> 00:05:20,363 ♪ 141 00:05:20,407 --> 00:05:21,495 - Yeah, okay. 142 00:05:21,538 --> 00:05:23,758 - And so, in closing, 143 00:05:23,801 --> 00:05:26,369 I wish you the best of everything, John. 144 00:05:26,413 --> 00:05:28,458 Let's everybody say, "Cheers!" 145 00:05:28,502 --> 00:05:29,938 all: Cheers! 146 00:05:29,981 --> 00:05:31,940 - May you live happily ever after. 147 00:05:31,983 --> 00:05:34,812 [glasses clinking] 148 00:05:34,856 --> 00:05:38,599 [applause] 149 00:05:38,642 --> 00:05:39,687 - Come on, guys. 150 00:05:39,730 --> 00:05:41,515 Big smile for the camera. 151 00:05:41,558 --> 00:05:47,999 ♪ 152 00:05:48,043 --> 00:05:50,045 [eerie music] 153 00:05:58,096 --> 00:06:05,147 ♪ 154 00:06:11,066 --> 00:06:14,112 [snapshots clicking] 155 00:06:23,644 --> 00:06:29,911 ♪ 156 00:06:29,954 --> 00:06:32,130 - I had a dream about this, by the way. 157 00:06:32,174 --> 00:06:33,305 - You did? - Mm-hmm. 158 00:06:33,349 --> 00:06:34,872 - About eggs? 159 00:06:34,916 --> 00:06:37,962 - Well, eggs served by a beautiful, sexy woman. 160 00:06:38,006 --> 00:06:41,879 I mean, what could be a better dream than that? 161 00:06:41,923 --> 00:06:43,881 Maybe a dream where I could fly. 162 00:06:43,925 --> 00:06:46,406 Maybe. 163 00:06:46,449 --> 00:06:48,408 - [chuckles] 164 00:06:48,451 --> 00:06:49,496 Here you go. 165 00:06:49,539 --> 00:06:51,193 - Thank you. - Mm-hmm. 166 00:06:51,236 --> 00:06:53,195 - What's your day? 167 00:06:53,238 --> 00:06:55,284 - Um, I am... 168 00:06:55,327 --> 00:06:57,242 going to meet with a client 169 00:06:57,286 --> 00:07:00,202 in Mission Viejo. 170 00:07:00,245 --> 00:07:02,378 What's your day? 171 00:07:02,422 --> 00:07:04,467 - I have a clinic in Garden Grove. 172 00:07:04,511 --> 00:07:07,209 I have to help with a root canal. 173 00:07:07,252 --> 00:07:09,864 You ever heard of an endodontist? 174 00:07:09,907 --> 00:07:11,474 An endodontist 175 00:07:11,518 --> 00:07:13,345 is a dentist that specializes 176 00:07:13,389 --> 00:07:15,565 in diseases of the pulp. 177 00:07:15,609 --> 00:07:17,219 Pulp, as in, like, your tooth-- 178 00:07:17,262 --> 00:07:19,482 - [chuckling] I know what an endodontist is. 179 00:07:19,526 --> 00:07:21,484 I don't need to hear any more about that. 180 00:07:21,528 --> 00:07:23,399 [sighs] 181 00:07:23,443 --> 00:07:25,140 - You know, if you taught me 182 00:07:25,183 --> 00:07:28,186 how to cook eggs that awesome French chef way, 183 00:07:28,230 --> 00:07:30,145 I could make them for both of us. 184 00:07:30,188 --> 00:07:32,452 - Oh, you don't have to do that, hon. 185 00:07:32,495 --> 00:07:34,584 You do so much for me already. 186 00:07:37,108 --> 00:07:39,110 [gull caws in distance] 187 00:07:39,154 --> 00:07:45,682 ♪ 188 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,910 - We could also get the court to enter a restraining order 189 00:07:55,953 --> 00:07:57,389 for depletion of capital. 190 00:07:57,433 --> 00:08:00,001 You know, to stop someone from destroying assets. 191 00:08:00,044 --> 00:08:01,524 - Uh... oh, okay. 192 00:08:01,568 --> 00:08:03,657 But that's not those, right? 193 00:08:03,700 --> 00:08:06,442 - No--I mean, well, some of them do mention money, 194 00:08:06,486 --> 00:08:08,096 stolen money, but... 195 00:08:08,139 --> 00:08:11,099 Mm, they seem to mostly be... 196 00:08:11,142 --> 00:08:14,581 threats, harassment, intimidation, yeah. 197 00:08:14,624 --> 00:08:16,583 - Wait, that's why I was wondering, 198 00:08:16,626 --> 00:08:19,324 you know, is it possible that maybe that's... 199 00:08:19,368 --> 00:08:21,109 not him, you know? 200 00:08:21,152 --> 00:08:22,589 I mean, maybe those aren't about him. 201 00:08:22,632 --> 00:08:24,242 - You mean, like, that John Meehan 202 00:08:24,286 --> 00:08:25,243 is a common name? 203 00:08:25,287 --> 00:08:27,071 Yeah, but... 204 00:08:27,115 --> 00:08:29,421 let's not ask him about it just yet, 205 00:08:29,465 --> 00:08:33,121 because you did say that... 206 00:08:33,164 --> 00:08:35,602 this one is his ex-wife, right? Tonia? 207 00:08:35,645 --> 00:08:37,125 - Oh, oh, yeah. 208 00:08:37,168 --> 00:08:38,343 But that, you know, that was a very, 209 00:08:38,387 --> 00:08:39,344 very ugly divorce. 210 00:08:39,388 --> 00:08:41,956 I mean, she... 211 00:08:41,999 --> 00:08:43,610 cheated on him and then 212 00:08:43,653 --> 00:08:45,394 wanted him to come back, 213 00:08:45,437 --> 00:08:48,266 and--and, you know, she fought him for custody 214 00:08:48,310 --> 00:08:50,312 and made all kinds of accusations. 215 00:08:50,355 --> 00:08:52,096 He eventually lost his job. 216 00:08:52,140 --> 00:08:53,576 - Yeah, I'm emailing these to myself, 217 00:08:53,620 --> 00:08:56,013 okay, so that I can, uh, print them out. 218 00:08:56,057 --> 00:08:57,319 - Oh, okay. 219 00:08:57,362 --> 00:08:58,407 And, you know, I-I thought, too, 220 00:08:58,450 --> 00:09:00,017 you know, maybe the, um, 221 00:09:00,061 --> 00:09:02,759 those printouts from some of those online 222 00:09:02,803 --> 00:09:04,718 forums or whatever, 223 00:09:04,761 --> 00:09:06,763 maybe that could have been Tonia too. 224 00:09:06,807 --> 00:09:08,330 'Cause I mean, anybody can 225 00:09:08,373 --> 00:09:11,333 make a profile and post pictures, 226 00:09:11,376 --> 00:09:14,162 and, you know, all kinds of nasty stuff online. 227 00:09:14,205 --> 00:09:18,079 - Yeah. Things can get very out of control online. 228 00:09:18,122 --> 00:09:19,341 [chuckling] That's the understatement 229 00:09:19,384 --> 00:09:20,603 of the century, huh? 230 00:09:20,647 --> 00:09:22,126 Yeah, and I wish I could tell you 231 00:09:22,170 --> 00:09:23,345 that I've never seen this kind of behavior 232 00:09:23,388 --> 00:09:26,130 in family court, but, uh, well, 233 00:09:26,174 --> 00:09:28,611 people do just keep on surprising me. 234 00:09:28,655 --> 00:09:31,353 - [chuckles] 235 00:09:31,396 --> 00:09:33,616 - Are you thinking you want to file for an annulment? 236 00:09:33,660 --> 00:09:37,141 Would that help? 237 00:09:37,185 --> 00:09:38,578 - Oh. 238 00:09:40,841 --> 00:09:42,407 Um... 239 00:09:44,540 --> 00:09:46,455 Oh, I don't know, uh... 240 00:09:46,498 --> 00:09:49,023 - Okay. That's fine. 241 00:09:49,066 --> 00:09:50,677 Look, I know that all of this here 242 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:51,765 is very intimidating. 243 00:09:51,808 --> 00:09:53,418 I do. I understand that. 244 00:09:53,462 --> 00:09:55,377 But I'm gonna figure out what we're dealing with. 245 00:09:55,420 --> 00:09:58,119 Okay? We're gonna figure it out, together. 246 00:09:58,162 --> 00:09:59,424 All right? 247 00:09:59,468 --> 00:10:01,339 - Okay. Thank you. 248 00:10:01,383 --> 00:10:02,558 - Okay, well, 249 00:10:02,602 --> 00:10:04,560 till then, just keep your head down. 250 00:10:04,604 --> 00:10:07,563 [soft music] 251 00:10:07,607 --> 00:10:11,698 ♪ 252 00:10:11,741 --> 00:10:14,788 [dog barking in distance] 253 00:10:25,233 --> 00:10:28,540 - You all right? 254 00:10:28,584 --> 00:10:30,804 - [sighs] Please don't make fun of me, okay? 255 00:10:30,847 --> 00:10:33,720 - I'm not. 256 00:10:33,763 --> 00:10:35,243 Remember, I told you, 257 00:10:35,286 --> 00:10:37,375 you don't even have to do this. 258 00:10:37,419 --> 00:10:38,507 - No, I do. 259 00:10:38,550 --> 00:10:40,248 Your dad's old-school. 260 00:10:40,291 --> 00:10:41,423 He asked your grandpa 261 00:10:41,466 --> 00:10:42,685 for your mom's hand in marriage, 262 00:10:42,729 --> 00:10:44,644 and I'll do the same. 263 00:10:44,687 --> 00:10:47,864 - What if you throw up on him? 264 00:10:47,908 --> 00:10:51,215 I'm kidding. 265 00:10:51,259 --> 00:10:52,564 He loves you. 266 00:10:52,608 --> 00:10:54,741 They all do. Why are you so worried? 267 00:10:56,394 --> 00:10:59,267 - Just... getting married, you know? 268 00:10:59,310 --> 00:11:00,616 Families coming together, 269 00:11:00,660 --> 00:11:03,619 I don't know if I can do that. 270 00:11:03,663 --> 00:11:05,447 - You don't know if you can do what? 271 00:11:05,490 --> 00:11:07,405 - My family, I can't... 272 00:11:07,449 --> 00:11:08,755 do that to yours, like, 273 00:11:08,798 --> 00:11:12,410 dishonor them with mine. 274 00:11:12,454 --> 00:11:14,543 - Oh, you know, I know you say that, 275 00:11:14,586 --> 00:11:16,414 and I know you had a hard time growing up, but-- 276 00:11:16,458 --> 00:11:17,459 - No, you don't. 277 00:11:17,502 --> 00:11:18,765 You couldn't, because, 278 00:11:18,808 --> 00:11:21,724 you know, your family's loving and supportive. 279 00:11:21,768 --> 00:11:25,467 Mine were drug addicts and alcoholics. 280 00:11:25,510 --> 00:11:28,731 Even before the divorce, they hated each other. 281 00:11:28,775 --> 00:11:30,298 When I was little, they hated me, 282 00:11:30,341 --> 00:11:33,301 and I knew that before I even knew what it meant. 283 00:11:33,344 --> 00:11:35,303 - John... - But you can't understand that 284 00:11:35,346 --> 00:11:37,392 because you were raised by people to be a person. 285 00:11:37,435 --> 00:11:40,177 I was raised by monsters. 286 00:11:40,221 --> 00:11:43,441 - Well, I'm here. To listen. 287 00:11:44,791 --> 00:11:47,315 - If I told you what they did to me, 288 00:11:47,358 --> 00:11:49,621 you'll think about me the same way that they did. 289 00:11:49,665 --> 00:11:52,320 You won't be able to help it. 290 00:11:52,363 --> 00:11:54,714 - John, baby, that's not true. 291 00:11:58,413 --> 00:11:59,849 - I told you that I, you know, 292 00:11:59,893 --> 00:12:01,546 don't talk to them much anymore, 293 00:12:01,590 --> 00:12:03,505 but that's not true. 294 00:12:03,548 --> 00:12:06,856 I don't talk to them at all. 295 00:12:06,900 --> 00:12:09,293 - For how long? 296 00:12:09,337 --> 00:12:10,381 - Years. 297 00:12:11,861 --> 00:12:13,210 For years now. 298 00:12:13,254 --> 00:12:16,605 It's just, it was either that or... 299 00:12:16,648 --> 00:12:19,347 I mean, it had to be that. 300 00:12:19,390 --> 00:12:22,698 Listen, I want this life with you more than anything. 301 00:12:22,742 --> 00:12:25,962 I do, it's just... 302 00:12:26,006 --> 00:12:28,399 if we're gonna do this, 303 00:12:28,443 --> 00:12:32,229 my family cannot be a part of it. 304 00:12:32,273 --> 00:12:34,884 Ever. 305 00:12:34,928 --> 00:12:36,930 - Okay. - No, you have to promise me. 306 00:12:36,973 --> 00:12:38,845 Because next thing, we'll have a baby, 307 00:12:38,888 --> 00:12:40,847 and you'll be so in love. 308 00:12:40,890 --> 00:12:42,370 And you'll think, 309 00:12:42,413 --> 00:12:43,675 "They can share in this. 310 00:12:43,719 --> 00:12:45,547 This'll fix everything," but it won't. 311 00:12:45,590 --> 00:12:46,853 They'll poison us, 312 00:12:46,896 --> 00:12:48,376 and you can't let that happen, 313 00:12:48,419 --> 00:12:50,465 so please promise me. 314 00:12:50,508 --> 00:12:51,814 - I... 315 00:12:51,858 --> 00:12:54,512 Yeah, no, I promise. 316 00:13:00,780 --> 00:13:01,955 I promise. 317 00:13:04,958 --> 00:13:06,611 [knocking] 318 00:13:08,352 --> 00:13:09,527 - Hey. 319 00:13:13,531 --> 00:13:15,577 - You married him? 320 00:13:17,622 --> 00:13:19,886 - I-I-I did. 321 00:13:19,929 --> 00:13:22,845 I-I--you know, honey, I was gonna tell you, 322 00:13:22,889 --> 00:13:25,282 but I-I wanted to wait for the right moment 323 00:13:25,326 --> 00:13:26,631 because you--you-- 324 00:13:26,675 --> 00:13:28,982 you know, you hate him so much. 325 00:13:29,025 --> 00:13:31,593 - Toby told me. 326 00:13:31,636 --> 00:13:33,595 John told Toby. 327 00:13:34,944 --> 00:13:37,033 - Oh, I didn't know that. 328 00:13:37,077 --> 00:13:39,775 - No, John wouldn't have told you. 329 00:13:39,819 --> 00:13:41,864 Toby went to the house the day before yesterday. 330 00:13:41,908 --> 00:13:43,953 He wanted to apologize to you. 331 00:13:43,997 --> 00:13:46,521 John told him he was trespassing. 332 00:13:46,564 --> 00:13:48,784 And that he no longer has an aunt. 333 00:13:48,828 --> 00:13:50,699 And that it was a good thing his father shot his mother 334 00:13:50,742 --> 00:13:52,788 before she could see what a loser Toby is. 335 00:13:52,832 --> 00:13:53,876 - Veronica-- - John said that. 336 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:55,747 The man that you married... 337 00:13:57,967 --> 00:14:00,274 ...and didn't tell us that you married him, 338 00:14:00,317 --> 00:14:04,800 said that, about our family. 339 00:14:05,845 --> 00:14:08,456 - I don't--I, you know-- 340 00:14:08,499 --> 00:14:11,459 I don't know about any of that. 341 00:14:11,502 --> 00:14:16,464 - You don't know this man at all. 342 00:14:16,507 --> 00:14:18,466 Or what he is... 343 00:14:18,509 --> 00:14:20,511 potentially capable of. 344 00:14:23,427 --> 00:14:24,907 Do you really, 345 00:14:24,951 --> 00:14:27,301 really believe that he doesn't want your money? 346 00:14:27,344 --> 00:14:28,868 You don't see that that's what he's wanted 347 00:14:28,911 --> 00:14:30,304 from the beginning? 348 00:14:30,347 --> 00:14:32,915 - I am working through some-- 349 00:14:32,959 --> 00:14:33,916 I'm figuring it out. 350 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:35,004 - How? 351 00:14:35,048 --> 00:14:37,659 - I am dealing with it, 352 00:14:37,702 --> 00:14:38,965 Veronica. 353 00:14:39,008 --> 00:14:40,618 - I hope you got a prenup. 354 00:14:43,143 --> 00:14:46,102 [soft music] 355 00:14:46,146 --> 00:14:53,370 ♪ 356 00:15:00,029 --> 00:15:01,639 [door shuts] 357 00:15:01,683 --> 00:15:04,381 ♪ 358 00:15:04,425 --> 00:15:05,992 - Not a science major. 359 00:15:06,035 --> 00:15:07,645 - No. No. 360 00:15:07,689 --> 00:15:09,647 I did do a lot of extra science classes 361 00:15:09,691 --> 00:15:11,388 outside of my major, though. 362 00:15:11,432 --> 00:15:15,088 Growing up, I worked at Stanford Med as an orderly. 363 00:15:15,131 --> 00:15:18,439 - So interested in medicine, peripherally. 364 00:15:18,482 --> 00:15:19,962 - Yeah. 365 00:15:20,006 --> 00:15:22,791 And then I met Tonia, and... 366 00:15:22,834 --> 00:15:24,619 - I've been taking him through all my old textbooks. 367 00:15:24,662 --> 00:15:27,143 He's picking things up way faster than I did. 368 00:15:27,187 --> 00:15:29,450 - Yeah, law school taught me the pros and cons 369 00:15:29,493 --> 00:15:31,756 of every make of luxury car, 370 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:33,019 but at this point, I can't even remember 371 00:15:33,062 --> 00:15:34,759 why I went there. 372 00:15:34,803 --> 00:15:36,413 I mean, if you decide I can't do this, 373 00:15:36,457 --> 00:15:38,589 I-I can't go back to that. 374 00:15:38,633 --> 00:15:41,027 I-I really need some purpose. I really do. 375 00:15:41,070 --> 00:15:42,550 - I will say we do see 376 00:15:42,593 --> 00:15:44,726 a proportionally high rate of success 377 00:15:44,769 --> 00:15:48,121 with our older students. 378 00:15:48,164 --> 00:15:51,776 And you have this one on your side, which helps. 379 00:15:51,820 --> 00:15:54,388 But it's gonna be a lot of work. 380 00:15:54,431 --> 00:15:57,565 More than you even know. 381 00:15:57,608 --> 00:15:58,914 - When I want something, 382 00:15:58,958 --> 00:16:00,960 I know how to buckle down. 383 00:16:03,571 --> 00:16:06,878 [gate opening, footsteps resound] 384 00:16:06,922 --> 00:16:09,881 [thoughtful music] 385 00:16:09,925 --> 00:16:16,976 ♪ 386 00:16:29,162 --> 00:16:31,860 - All right, just let me know when you're finished. 387 00:16:35,646 --> 00:16:37,083 [door handle shuffles] 388 00:16:42,697 --> 00:16:48,616 ♪ 389 00:16:48,659 --> 00:16:50,705 - Well, I have a little cash here in the house 390 00:16:50,748 --> 00:16:52,228 that I just keep here in case, you know, 391 00:16:52,272 --> 00:16:54,665 there's an earthquake, God forbid, or... 392 00:16:54,709 --> 00:16:56,754 - How much is it? 393 00:16:56,798 --> 00:16:58,495 - I don't know, maybe... 394 00:16:58,539 --> 00:17:00,671 80,000 or 90,000? 395 00:17:00,715 --> 00:17:02,238 - I rented a safe deposit box today. 396 00:17:02,282 --> 00:17:03,935 - Oh, yeah? - Yeah, you know. 397 00:17:03,979 --> 00:17:05,981 For like, important papers, passports, 398 00:17:06,025 --> 00:17:07,722 that kind of thing. 399 00:17:07,765 --> 00:17:10,725 I was thinking the cash should go in there too. 400 00:17:10,768 --> 00:17:13,032 In case there's, like, a fire or something. 401 00:17:13,075 --> 00:17:15,077 [kettle whistling] 402 00:17:17,514 --> 00:17:18,820 Hey. - Hi. 403 00:17:18,863 --> 00:17:20,561 - How's it going? 404 00:17:20,604 --> 00:17:22,954 - Good. - Just making myself some tea. 405 00:17:22,998 --> 00:17:24,652 I've got an upset stomach. You want some? 406 00:17:24,695 --> 00:17:26,828 - Oh, no. Yeah, sure. 407 00:17:26,871 --> 00:17:28,525 Thanks. 408 00:17:33,139 --> 00:17:35,576 - So I talked to a buddy. 409 00:17:35,619 --> 00:17:37,926 A guy I met back when I was trying to stop Tonia 410 00:17:37,969 --> 00:17:42,278 from draining me dry after the split. 411 00:17:42,322 --> 00:17:44,759 He used to not mind investing cash for me 412 00:17:44,802 --> 00:17:46,587 through his firm when I needed him to. 413 00:17:46,630 --> 00:17:48,284 So I asked him to, uh, 414 00:17:48,328 --> 00:17:50,852 hook me up with someone out here. 415 00:17:50,895 --> 00:17:54,551 To invest our cash. 416 00:17:54,595 --> 00:17:58,077 So that's why it's not in the safe deposit box anymore. 417 00:18:00,209 --> 00:18:03,169 ♪ 418 00:18:03,212 --> 00:18:04,866 - Oh. 419 00:18:04,909 --> 00:18:06,911 - I have the text alert option. 420 00:18:06,955 --> 00:18:09,000 So I got a text today 421 00:18:09,044 --> 00:18:10,132 saying that you were there. 422 00:18:10,176 --> 00:18:11,133 It didn't tell me why, 423 00:18:11,177 --> 00:18:12,221 but it made me realize 424 00:18:12,265 --> 00:18:13,527 I hadn't told you 425 00:18:13,570 --> 00:18:17,052 that I had taken the cash out. 426 00:18:17,096 --> 00:18:18,923 ♪ 427 00:18:18,967 --> 00:18:21,578 - Oh. All right. 428 00:18:21,622 --> 00:18:23,319 That's fine. 429 00:18:23,363 --> 00:18:25,191 ♪ 430 00:18:25,234 --> 00:18:26,801 - So? 431 00:18:26,844 --> 00:18:28,194 Why were you there? 432 00:18:28,237 --> 00:18:30,979 ♪ 433 00:18:31,022 --> 00:18:33,895 - Well... 434 00:18:33,938 --> 00:18:37,594 Veronica came by the office today. 435 00:18:37,638 --> 00:18:40,119 And, um, 436 00:18:40,162 --> 00:18:43,209 somehow, she knows we're married. 437 00:18:43,252 --> 00:18:45,559 So cat's out of the bag. 438 00:18:45,602 --> 00:18:48,170 [chuckling] 439 00:18:48,214 --> 00:18:49,998 We can wear these now. 440 00:18:50,041 --> 00:18:51,956 ♪ 441 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:53,132 - Really? 442 00:18:54,959 --> 00:19:01,923 ♪ 443 00:19:01,966 --> 00:19:03,229 Aww. 444 00:19:03,272 --> 00:19:04,926 - [chuckles] - We're married. 445 00:19:04,969 --> 00:19:08,016 [both laughing] 446 00:19:16,111 --> 00:19:18,200 [all clapping] 447 00:19:18,244 --> 00:19:21,203 [old-timey vocal music plays over stereo] 448 00:19:21,247 --> 00:19:28,254 ♪ 449 00:19:32,432 --> 00:19:35,609 - Oh. Here we go. 450 00:19:35,652 --> 00:19:38,699 - Look at the camera. 451 00:19:38,742 --> 00:19:40,266 - We should treat every child 452 00:19:40,309 --> 00:19:42,616 not just as a case patient, 453 00:19:42,659 --> 00:19:45,619 but as if they were part of our own family. 454 00:19:45,662 --> 00:19:48,491 Thank you so much for coming. 455 00:19:48,535 --> 00:19:51,581 [applause] 456 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:55,629 - Great talk. Thank you. 457 00:19:55,672 --> 00:19:57,587 - Really appreciate it. You have a good afternoon. 458 00:19:57,631 --> 00:19:59,459 Okay? Take care. - Nice to meet you. 459 00:19:59,502 --> 00:20:01,025 - Nice to meet you. Bye. 460 00:20:02,418 --> 00:20:04,507 - Oh, no, please, sorry. Drink it. 461 00:20:04,551 --> 00:20:06,074 I know everyone wants to talk to you. 462 00:20:06,117 --> 00:20:08,294 - I'm Maggie. - Tonia. 463 00:20:08,337 --> 00:20:10,731 I'm a CRNA at St. Hilda's in Dayton. 464 00:20:10,774 --> 00:20:13,124 - Dayton, yeah, I've heard that's a great hospital. 465 00:20:13,168 --> 00:20:16,040 - Yeah, yeah, I mean-- no, it is. 466 00:20:16,084 --> 00:20:17,694 - [laughs] 467 00:20:17,738 --> 00:20:19,305 - I-I just wanted to tell you 468 00:20:19,348 --> 00:20:21,045 how much I loved your talk. 469 00:20:21,089 --> 00:20:22,525 I always--well, 470 00:20:22,569 --> 00:20:24,788 I just prefer the more anecdotal speeches 471 00:20:24,832 --> 00:20:26,790 to the really technical ones. 472 00:20:26,834 --> 00:20:28,357 - Well, and I know a lot of our colleagues 473 00:20:28,401 --> 00:20:29,750 would like a little more... 474 00:20:29,793 --> 00:20:31,708 [pompously] "Intracranial cysts in children. 475 00:20:31,752 --> 00:20:34,276 "Peritoneal derivation or endoscopic fenestration? 476 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:35,712 Discuss." 477 00:20:35,756 --> 00:20:38,106 But I'm like you, I like to hear about people. 478 00:20:38,149 --> 00:20:40,674 - I--well, I've only worked one pediatric case. 479 00:20:40,717 --> 00:20:42,328 Two months old, hydrocephalus, 480 00:20:42,371 --> 00:20:44,504 VP shunt placement failed. 481 00:20:44,547 --> 00:20:46,723 You would not believe how cute this baby was. 482 00:20:46,767 --> 00:20:48,508 Eyelashes like "swock." 483 00:20:48,551 --> 00:20:50,553 - Oh, I would definitely believe it. 484 00:20:50,597 --> 00:20:52,512 Do you have a family yourself? 485 00:20:52,555 --> 00:20:54,818 - Yep. Married, two kids. Both under five. 486 00:20:54,862 --> 00:20:56,255 - Wow. - I know. 487 00:20:56,298 --> 00:20:58,431 - You are an American hero. 488 00:20:58,474 --> 00:21:00,302 - Well, what about you? 489 00:21:00,346 --> 00:21:02,130 - Uh, not yet. 490 00:21:02,173 --> 00:21:04,480 I used to think I was more effective without kids. 491 00:21:04,524 --> 00:21:06,700 Less emotional, in a good way. 492 00:21:06,743 --> 00:21:08,571 But then a few years ago, I realized 493 00:21:08,615 --> 00:21:10,181 that wasn't true anymore. 494 00:21:10,225 --> 00:21:12,706 - Now you think maybe you might? 495 00:21:12,749 --> 00:21:15,274 - Yeah. Um... 496 00:21:15,317 --> 00:21:16,710 I didn't want to do it alone. 497 00:21:16,753 --> 00:21:18,277 And, you know, it took me a while 498 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,062 to find the person, you know, but... 499 00:21:21,105 --> 00:21:22,368 we're about ten months in now, 500 00:21:22,411 --> 00:21:24,239 and yeah, we're having those conversations. 501 00:21:24,283 --> 00:21:25,719 - Well, congratulations. 502 00:21:25,762 --> 00:21:27,721 That's gonna be one smart kid. - Thank you. 503 00:21:27,764 --> 00:21:30,724 - No, thank you, again, for the talk, really. 504 00:21:30,767 --> 00:21:32,203 - Oh, well, it's my pleasure. 505 00:21:32,247 --> 00:21:35,642 And it was really nice to meet you... 506 00:21:35,685 --> 00:21:37,557 - Tonia. 507 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,733 Tonia Meehan. 508 00:21:39,776 --> 00:21:44,128 - Dayton, you said you're a CRNA in Dayton? 509 00:21:44,172 --> 00:21:45,260 - Yeah. 510 00:21:45,304 --> 00:21:47,393 ♪ 511 00:21:47,436 --> 00:21:49,395 - What does your husband do? 512 00:21:49,438 --> 00:21:51,484 - John? Well, he's actually one too. 513 00:21:51,527 --> 00:21:53,747 He travels a lot more than me. 514 00:21:53,790 --> 00:21:55,792 I stick near home for the kids. 515 00:21:55,836 --> 00:21:57,794 Actually, he's been coming to Indiana a lot. 516 00:21:57,838 --> 00:21:59,666 You might have crossed paths at work. 517 00:21:59,709 --> 00:22:01,581 It wouldn't be surprising at all. 518 00:22:01,624 --> 00:22:04,279 - Uh... [chuckles nervously] 519 00:22:16,552 --> 00:22:19,599 [water gushing, dishes clattering] 520 00:22:27,215 --> 00:22:28,695 - Hey. 521 00:22:28,738 --> 00:22:30,392 How's it going? 522 00:22:32,263 --> 00:22:33,482 You look wiped. 523 00:22:33,526 --> 00:22:37,225 It's a good thing the kids are asleep. 524 00:22:37,268 --> 00:22:39,488 Those conferences are tough, huh? 525 00:22:39,532 --> 00:22:41,490 Not that looking after two kids is easy. 526 00:22:41,534 --> 00:22:44,319 The latest thing is they've taken to pinching each other. 527 00:22:46,365 --> 00:22:48,497 So... 528 00:22:48,541 --> 00:22:51,370 what's the latest in anesthesia care? 529 00:22:51,413 --> 00:22:52,632 Hmm? 530 00:22:56,287 --> 00:22:57,898 No? All right. 531 00:22:57,941 --> 00:23:00,422 Let's start smaller. 532 00:23:00,466 --> 00:23:02,555 What--what'd you learn, hmm? 533 00:23:04,774 --> 00:23:07,342 - I talked to a pediatric neurosurgeon. 534 00:23:07,386 --> 00:23:09,518 - Oh, yeah? They're smart. 535 00:23:12,695 --> 00:23:13,957 - Yeah. 536 00:23:14,001 --> 00:23:16,307 Her name is Maggie Baratta. 537 00:23:26,753 --> 00:23:29,451 - [chuckles] 538 00:23:29,495 --> 00:23:30,452 Huh. 539 00:23:30,496 --> 00:23:33,368 - Are... 540 00:23:33,412 --> 00:23:35,631 are you smiling? 541 00:23:35,675 --> 00:23:38,591 - Okay. All right. 542 00:23:38,634 --> 00:23:41,332 So you want to get into this now? 543 00:23:41,376 --> 00:23:43,813 You want to get into this right now. 544 00:23:43,857 --> 00:23:45,380 Hmm? 545 00:23:45,424 --> 00:23:46,990 [suspenseful music] 546 00:23:47,034 --> 00:23:49,210 - Get into what, John? 547 00:23:49,253 --> 00:23:50,603 What are we getting into? 548 00:23:50,646 --> 00:23:54,520 She said you've been together almost ten months. 549 00:23:54,563 --> 00:23:56,783 - [sighs] 550 00:23:59,046 --> 00:24:06,009 ♪ 551 00:24:06,053 --> 00:24:09,448 She operates two days a week. 552 00:24:09,491 --> 00:24:12,755 Sees patients two mornings. 553 00:24:12,799 --> 00:24:14,714 She probably makes, I don't know, 554 00:24:14,757 --> 00:24:17,325 like, 500K? 555 00:24:17,368 --> 00:24:18,718 And you saw her. 556 00:24:18,761 --> 00:24:20,981 I mean, she even looks expensive, right? 557 00:24:22,504 --> 00:24:24,767 ♪ 558 00:24:24,811 --> 00:24:26,421 - What are you even... 559 00:24:26,465 --> 00:24:27,814 What--what are you even saying? 560 00:24:27,857 --> 00:24:29,816 Are you trying to upgrade? 561 00:24:29,859 --> 00:24:31,034 You're showing off. 562 00:24:31,078 --> 00:24:32,993 You're putting on some kind of show. 563 00:24:33,036 --> 00:24:35,691 I don't know for who. 564 00:24:35,735 --> 00:24:37,693 What is this, John? 565 00:24:37,737 --> 00:24:40,870 ♪ 566 00:24:40,914 --> 00:24:43,438 What are you doing? 567 00:24:43,482 --> 00:24:45,788 ♪ 568 00:24:45,832 --> 00:24:47,747 - I don't know. 569 00:24:47,790 --> 00:24:53,274 ♪ 570 00:24:53,317 --> 00:24:55,755 It's something. 571 00:24:55,798 --> 00:25:01,543 ♪ 572 00:25:06,809 --> 00:25:08,898 - I'll go over everything with you, 573 00:25:08,942 --> 00:25:10,857 and then I've also printed up a copy. 574 00:25:10,900 --> 00:25:13,860 - Oh, my God. - It's--it's a lot. 575 00:25:13,903 --> 00:25:16,253 Arrest record's on top. 576 00:25:18,778 --> 00:25:20,693 - "Felony, burglary, first degree. 577 00:25:20,736 --> 00:25:22,433 Felony, burglary, second degree." 578 00:25:22,477 --> 00:25:24,218 What is the difference between those two? 579 00:25:24,261 --> 00:25:26,089 - Second is entering a commercial building 580 00:25:26,133 --> 00:25:28,178 with intent to commit. 581 00:25:28,222 --> 00:25:30,441 First is entering a residence. 582 00:25:30,485 --> 00:25:33,053 - So both of those. - Mm-hmm. 583 00:25:33,096 --> 00:25:35,011 - I knew it. 584 00:25:39,015 --> 00:25:42,279 "Felony threat with intent to extort. 585 00:25:42,323 --> 00:25:45,239 "Felony... 586 00:25:45,282 --> 00:25:48,024 Possession of a gun by a felon." 587 00:25:48,068 --> 00:25:50,244 John's a gun guy? He has guns? 588 00:25:50,287 --> 00:25:51,506 - At least once that we know of, 589 00:25:51,550 --> 00:25:55,249 he has been a guy with a gun, yeah. 590 00:25:55,292 --> 00:25:58,731 ♪ 591 00:25:58,774 --> 00:26:00,733 - What are all these numbers here? 592 00:26:00,776 --> 00:26:02,735 - Social Security numbers he's used. 593 00:26:02,778 --> 00:26:06,216 - If he has been arrested for all of these things, 594 00:26:06,260 --> 00:26:08,305 and he's been charged with all of them, 595 00:26:08,349 --> 00:26:09,742 then why is he not in prison? 596 00:26:09,785 --> 00:26:11,918 - He was, and now he's not. 597 00:26:11,961 --> 00:26:14,094 - Okay, but, like, he pled guilty 598 00:26:14,137 --> 00:26:16,009 for stalking and a gun in California. 599 00:26:16,052 --> 00:26:17,576 It says that he was... 600 00:26:17,619 --> 00:26:19,839 "given two concurrent two-year sentences," so-- 601 00:26:19,882 --> 00:26:21,231 - Right, so concurrent means 602 00:26:21,275 --> 00:26:23,407 you serve them at the same time. 603 00:26:23,451 --> 00:26:25,932 So two concurrent sentences, 604 00:26:25,975 --> 00:26:28,456 and the court gave him credit for time served 605 00:26:28,499 --> 00:26:30,414 and good behavior. 606 00:26:30,458 --> 00:26:34,897 So two years minus 541 days credit 607 00:26:34,941 --> 00:26:36,812 is 6 1/3 months. 608 00:26:36,856 --> 00:26:38,466 Now, he should have gone to state prison, 609 00:26:38,509 --> 00:26:41,904 but overcrowding, so he serves 6 1/3 months 610 00:26:41,948 --> 00:26:44,559 at Theo Lacy Jail in Orange, 611 00:26:44,603 --> 00:26:46,605 and he was released. 612 00:26:46,648 --> 00:26:49,259 - The third week of last September. 613 00:26:49,303 --> 00:26:51,131 ♪ 614 00:26:51,174 --> 00:26:53,960 That's when he met my mom. 615 00:26:54,003 --> 00:26:56,484 So where--where did he go when he got out? 616 00:26:56,527 --> 00:26:57,964 Where was he living? 617 00:26:58,007 --> 00:27:00,140 - I haven't found any fixed address for him 618 00:27:00,183 --> 00:27:01,620 in that time frame yet. 619 00:27:01,663 --> 00:27:03,622 ♪ 620 00:27:03,665 --> 00:27:05,885 - So... 621 00:27:05,928 --> 00:27:09,932 when I told my mom I thought he looked homeless, 622 00:27:09,976 --> 00:27:13,153 maybe he actually was homeless. 623 00:27:13,196 --> 00:27:16,852 ♪ 624 00:27:16,896 --> 00:27:20,334 [machines beeping] 625 00:27:20,377 --> 00:27:21,552 - There she is. 626 00:27:21,596 --> 00:27:22,945 You did great, Celia. 627 00:27:22,989 --> 00:27:24,555 You're a Spartan. 628 00:27:24,599 --> 00:27:26,296 - They get it all? 629 00:27:26,340 --> 00:27:28,559 - Yeah, surgeon's on his way down to talk to you. 630 00:27:28,603 --> 00:27:31,519 You got a tube going there, so be careful. 631 00:27:31,562 --> 00:27:33,564 Got a pump for your meds. 632 00:27:33,608 --> 00:27:36,219 How's your pain right now? 633 00:27:36,263 --> 00:27:37,568 From a one to ten? 634 00:27:37,612 --> 00:27:39,570 One, "I feel okay," to... 635 00:27:39,614 --> 00:27:41,921 Ten? Your pain is a ten? 636 00:27:41,964 --> 00:27:43,313 Okay. All right. 637 00:27:43,357 --> 00:27:46,186 I'm gonna take that away. 638 00:27:46,229 --> 00:27:49,276 ♪ 639 00:27:49,319 --> 00:27:52,279 [indistinct announcement over PA] 640 00:27:52,322 --> 00:27:55,282 [foreboding music] 641 00:27:55,325 --> 00:28:01,680 ♪ 642 00:28:09,731 --> 00:28:11,951 - He barely drew out the fentanyl. 643 00:28:11,994 --> 00:28:14,040 I think what he gave her was saline. 644 00:28:14,083 --> 00:28:15,998 I know he didn't give her meds. 645 00:28:16,042 --> 00:28:19,262 And I saw him drop the vials in his pocket. 646 00:28:19,306 --> 00:28:21,047 He didn't put them in the receptacle. 647 00:28:21,090 --> 00:28:23,136 - You seriously think John would steal drugs? 648 00:28:23,179 --> 00:28:24,224 From a patient? 649 00:28:24,267 --> 00:28:26,269 - I'm telling you what I saw. 650 00:28:26,313 --> 00:28:28,489 And... 651 00:28:28,532 --> 00:28:30,099 I reported it to Aikiko. 652 00:28:30,143 --> 00:28:31,579 She's calling the Nursing Board. 653 00:28:31,622 --> 00:28:33,712 - Oh, my God. 654 00:28:33,755 --> 00:28:35,191 Lynn, why would you? 655 00:28:35,235 --> 00:28:37,150 He'll lose his license. 656 00:28:37,193 --> 00:28:40,066 - It was smooth, Tonia, 657 00:28:40,109 --> 00:28:41,371 what he did. 658 00:28:41,415 --> 00:28:43,069 This was not a "day one" thing. 659 00:28:43,112 --> 00:28:44,723 It was just the first time anyone saw him. 660 00:28:44,766 --> 00:28:48,335 ♪ 661 00:28:48,378 --> 00:28:50,250 [indistinct chatter on TV] 662 00:28:50,293 --> 00:28:52,469 [baby babbles] 663 00:28:52,513 --> 00:28:59,563 ♪ 664 00:29:03,785 --> 00:29:05,656 [objects clatter] 665 00:29:08,224 --> 00:29:11,358 ♪ 666 00:29:11,401 --> 00:29:15,101 John is not the only CRNA in your family, Tonia. 667 00:29:15,144 --> 00:29:17,668 If this is a bigger thing 668 00:29:17,712 --> 00:29:19,105 than what I-- 669 00:29:19,148 --> 00:29:20,454 and it ends up with the cops 670 00:29:20,497 --> 00:29:21,498 searching your house for drugs, 671 00:29:21,542 --> 00:29:22,543 they could think that you 672 00:29:22,586 --> 00:29:23,674 were stealing them too. 673 00:29:23,718 --> 00:29:26,547 Or at least that you knew he was. 674 00:29:26,590 --> 00:29:29,550 [eerie ambient music] 675 00:29:29,593 --> 00:29:34,990 ♪ 676 00:29:37,166 --> 00:29:39,603 They could take your kids. 677 00:29:39,647 --> 00:29:41,344 And I know you. 678 00:29:41,388 --> 00:29:42,693 I know you would never. 679 00:29:42,737 --> 00:29:45,218 - [grunting angrily] 680 00:29:45,261 --> 00:29:47,263 ♪ 681 00:29:47,307 --> 00:29:50,092 [pounding, grunting] 682 00:29:50,136 --> 00:29:51,485 - But... 683 00:29:51,528 --> 00:29:55,097 I'm not the one you'd have to prove it to. 684 00:29:55,141 --> 00:30:02,191 ♪ 685 00:30:26,781 --> 00:30:29,828 [musical ringtone chiming] 686 00:30:32,221 --> 00:30:33,614 - Hello? 687 00:30:33,657 --> 00:30:35,094 - Hi, Debra, it's Paula Harding, 688 00:30:35,137 --> 00:30:36,225 the attorney. 689 00:30:36,269 --> 00:30:37,748 - Hi, Paula, how are you? 690 00:30:37,792 --> 00:30:40,403 - Uh, I... 691 00:30:40,447 --> 00:30:42,405 I'm just gonna start. 692 00:30:42,449 --> 00:30:45,191 - Well, that doesn't sound very good. 693 00:30:45,234 --> 00:30:46,453 - They're him. 694 00:30:46,496 --> 00:30:47,454 The restraining orders 695 00:30:47,497 --> 00:30:49,195 in Ohio and California, 696 00:30:49,238 --> 00:30:51,762 and more in Indiana and Kentucky, all... 697 00:30:51,806 --> 00:30:54,374 it's all the same guy, it's all your husband. 698 00:30:54,417 --> 00:30:57,594 - Oh. Okay. Well... 699 00:30:59,292 --> 00:31:01,424 Are you sure? 700 00:31:01,468 --> 00:31:04,166 - In California and Ohio, he's been in prison. 701 00:31:04,210 --> 00:31:06,734 California more than once. 702 00:31:06,777 --> 00:31:07,822 - Prison for what? 703 00:31:07,866 --> 00:31:09,171 - Stalking a woman. 704 00:31:09,215 --> 00:31:10,433 Violating a restraining order 705 00:31:10,477 --> 00:31:12,261 against a different woman. 706 00:31:12,305 --> 00:31:13,741 Doing drugs. 707 00:31:13,784 --> 00:31:16,135 ♪ 708 00:31:16,178 --> 00:31:18,746 The online purchases were component parts of a handgun, 709 00:31:18,789 --> 00:31:21,096 a Sig Sauer, like he was trying to buy 710 00:31:21,140 --> 00:31:22,576 each piece from a different place 711 00:31:22,619 --> 00:31:25,057 and use them all to build the one gun. 712 00:31:25,100 --> 00:31:26,449 - And was he able to do that? 713 00:31:26,493 --> 00:31:28,712 Was he able to get... 714 00:31:28,756 --> 00:31:30,584 all the pieces? 715 00:31:30,627 --> 00:31:32,281 - I-I don't know. 716 00:31:32,325 --> 00:31:34,240 ♪ 717 00:31:34,283 --> 00:31:35,589 - And what, uh, what-- 718 00:31:35,632 --> 00:31:37,417 so then what should I do? 719 00:31:37,460 --> 00:31:38,722 - [sighs] Look. 720 00:31:38,766 --> 00:31:40,246 This man has sued every lawyer 721 00:31:40,289 --> 00:31:41,551 who's ever filed against him. 722 00:31:41,595 --> 00:31:42,639 Tied them up with complaints. 723 00:31:42,683 --> 00:31:44,293 He's sued his own lawyers 724 00:31:44,337 --> 00:31:45,816 after they've won judgements for him 725 00:31:45,860 --> 00:31:49,733 so they couldn't collect their fees, I-I-- 726 00:31:49,777 --> 00:31:52,345 I-I just can't deal with somebody like that. 727 00:31:52,388 --> 00:31:54,347 ♪ 728 00:31:54,390 --> 00:31:57,089 I'm sorry. 729 00:31:57,132 --> 00:31:59,308 Debra? 730 00:31:59,352 --> 00:32:01,876 - I'm-- okay, so that's it, then? 731 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,573 - The annulment. 732 00:32:03,617 --> 00:32:05,401 You should file on that right away. 733 00:32:05,445 --> 00:32:07,926 And if you have a will and he's in it, 734 00:32:07,969 --> 00:32:09,623 take him out. 735 00:32:09,666 --> 00:32:11,277 If you don't have one, 736 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:12,408 you need to make one right away 737 00:32:12,452 --> 00:32:13,540 that does not mention him. 738 00:32:13,583 --> 00:32:14,541 And you need to make sure 739 00:32:14,584 --> 00:32:15,803 he knows it doesn't. 740 00:32:15,846 --> 00:32:16,847 Because if he thinks he would 741 00:32:16,891 --> 00:32:18,588 be getting your money, 742 00:32:18,632 --> 00:32:20,764 I don't know what he might do. 743 00:32:20,808 --> 00:32:23,115 - The palpitations? Shortness of breath? 744 00:32:23,158 --> 00:32:24,594 Dizziness? You were totally right 745 00:32:24,638 --> 00:32:26,292 to come here, okay? 746 00:32:26,335 --> 00:32:28,207 But it's not your heart. 747 00:32:28,250 --> 00:32:30,296 I'm gonna give you some lorazepam. 748 00:32:30,339 --> 00:32:32,472 ♪ 749 00:32:32,515 --> 00:32:34,213 Anybody waiting? 750 00:32:34,256 --> 00:32:35,344 Do you need me to go out front, 751 00:32:35,388 --> 00:32:37,825 bring anyone back here for you? 752 00:32:37,868 --> 00:32:40,132 Husband? Partner? 753 00:32:40,175 --> 00:32:41,568 - No. 754 00:32:41,611 --> 00:32:42,830 - Well, then, 755 00:32:42,873 --> 00:32:44,440 you just rest here for a bit, 756 00:32:44,484 --> 00:32:45,528 and when I come back with your script, 757 00:32:45,572 --> 00:32:46,747 we'll get you out of here. 758 00:32:46,790 --> 00:32:48,618 Okay? 759 00:32:48,662 --> 00:32:50,838 - Thank you. 760 00:32:52,274 --> 00:32:53,362 [machine beeps] 761 00:32:58,019 --> 00:33:00,456 - Jeff. - Hmm? 762 00:33:00,500 --> 00:33:02,589 - Can you explain to us a little bit about John? 763 00:33:02,632 --> 00:33:04,504 Shush. 764 00:33:04,547 --> 00:33:07,898 Someday, I'll be president, and I will exile this man. 765 00:33:07,942 --> 00:33:09,683 - Okay, uh, let me start by saying 766 00:33:09,726 --> 00:33:12,816 that John Meehan-- John Meehan's nickname 767 00:33:12,860 --> 00:33:15,080 is Filthy John Meehan. 768 00:33:15,123 --> 00:33:16,864 - And can you remember when 769 00:33:16,907 --> 00:33:18,561 you first created that nickname and why? 770 00:33:18,605 --> 00:33:20,041 - Yes, yes, I can. 771 00:33:20,085 --> 00:33:22,000 But it cannot be divulged on camera. 772 00:33:22,043 --> 00:33:23,044 [both laughing] 773 00:33:23,088 --> 00:33:24,176 - I just want to say, 774 00:33:24,219 --> 00:33:25,742 I take showers now. 775 00:33:25,786 --> 00:33:27,048 And baths, okay? 776 00:33:27,092 --> 00:33:28,223 I'm a fan of being clean. 777 00:33:28,267 --> 00:33:29,746 All right? 778 00:33:31,139 --> 00:33:33,881 - I mean, coke, yeah. 779 00:33:33,924 --> 00:33:34,969 We were in grad school. 780 00:33:35,013 --> 00:33:36,449 There was studying 781 00:33:36,492 --> 00:33:38,842 that some of us even took seriously. 782 00:33:38,886 --> 00:33:40,627 But so a few of the guys did coke. 783 00:33:40,670 --> 00:33:41,758 John did it, yeah. 784 00:33:41,802 --> 00:33:44,065 Keep-you-awake kind of stuff. 785 00:33:44,109 --> 00:33:46,937 We were young. Ish. 786 00:33:46,981 --> 00:33:50,637 Also, all of us in the house thought you were great. 787 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,030 Honestly, we kind of wondered 788 00:33:52,073 --> 00:33:54,510 why you would be with him. 789 00:33:54,554 --> 00:33:55,511 - Why? 790 00:33:55,555 --> 00:33:57,078 Why--why wouldn't I? 791 00:33:57,122 --> 00:33:59,559 - Uh, about you being nice and smart, 792 00:33:59,602 --> 00:34:00,821 uh, a nurse. 793 00:34:00,864 --> 00:34:04,651 And just like... [laughing nervously] 794 00:34:04,694 --> 00:34:07,001 Just being, like, a dog with women. 795 00:34:07,045 --> 00:34:08,872 ♪ 796 00:34:08,916 --> 00:34:10,613 - Is that why the name? 797 00:34:10,657 --> 00:34:13,268 He never told me. - Dirty? Filthy? 798 00:34:13,312 --> 00:34:15,836 Yeah, I guess. - Dirty John. 799 00:34:15,879 --> 00:34:18,534 - Yeah. Hello, hi. 800 00:34:18,578 --> 00:34:20,623 Second time asking for coffee. 801 00:34:20,667 --> 00:34:21,668 Whenever you get a chance. 802 00:34:21,711 --> 00:34:22,973 Um, but it was also about 803 00:34:23,017 --> 00:34:24,627 the other kinds of stuff he was up to. 804 00:34:24,671 --> 00:34:26,281 You know, the credit cards, the yard work thing. 805 00:34:26,325 --> 00:34:30,590 ♪ 806 00:34:30,633 --> 00:34:32,505 - Um, what are you talking about? 807 00:34:32,548 --> 00:34:34,681 - He had, uh... [chuckles] God. 808 00:34:34,724 --> 00:34:36,161 He had business cards made up. 809 00:34:36,204 --> 00:34:38,032 Like for roofing, yard work. 810 00:34:38,076 --> 00:34:41,122 Uh, and he'd give them out to older people 811 00:34:41,166 --> 00:34:43,037 and say he'd throw them a break on--thank you-- 812 00:34:43,081 --> 00:34:44,734 shingling or a chimney rebuild. 813 00:34:44,778 --> 00:34:46,258 Just, uh-- that's enough, thanks. 814 00:34:46,301 --> 00:34:47,955 Give them an advance for materials. 815 00:34:47,998 --> 00:34:50,610 And then he'd take the money and not go back. 816 00:34:50,653 --> 00:34:52,742 ♪ 817 00:34:52,786 --> 00:34:54,179 - And what about the credit cards? 818 00:34:54,222 --> 00:34:57,051 - Uh, they'd come in the mail to the house. 819 00:34:57,095 --> 00:34:58,835 All different names. 820 00:34:58,879 --> 00:35:02,709 At first we thought it was a delivery mistake, but... 821 00:35:02,752 --> 00:35:04,232 It wasn't. 822 00:35:04,276 --> 00:35:06,321 ♪ 823 00:35:06,365 --> 00:35:09,194 Also, some of the guys saw him 824 00:35:09,237 --> 00:35:11,239 run into the street at stop signs 825 00:35:11,283 --> 00:35:14,808 and throw himself onto the hood of a car slowing down. 826 00:35:14,851 --> 00:35:16,897 And tell the driver, "Give me 300 bucks 827 00:35:16,940 --> 00:35:19,682 and your premium won't go up." 828 00:35:19,726 --> 00:35:22,032 And they did. 829 00:35:22,076 --> 00:35:25,035 - Um... 830 00:35:25,079 --> 00:35:28,126 uh, how was he keeping all these scams straight 831 00:35:28,169 --> 00:35:31,216 and going to classes too? 832 00:35:31,259 --> 00:35:34,784 - Last semester, second year, he was definitely gone. 833 00:35:34,828 --> 00:35:36,569 But he might have bailed before that. 834 00:35:36,612 --> 00:35:39,311 We weren't in the same classes. 835 00:35:39,354 --> 00:35:40,790 Sorry. 836 00:35:40,834 --> 00:35:42,357 ♪ 837 00:35:42,401 --> 00:35:44,707 - For what? - I lived with him that year. 838 00:35:44,751 --> 00:35:46,796 And we had good times or whatever. 839 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:49,147 But he never talked about things and I never asked. 840 00:35:49,190 --> 00:35:51,323 I don't know why. 841 00:35:51,366 --> 00:35:52,933 So... 842 00:35:52,976 --> 00:35:55,762 I don't know... why. 843 00:35:55,805 --> 00:35:58,199 There's just... 844 00:35:58,243 --> 00:36:00,680 a blank space where the story should be. 845 00:36:02,247 --> 00:36:08,905 ♪ 846 00:36:22,789 --> 00:36:24,225 - Are you okay? - Mm. 847 00:36:24,269 --> 00:36:26,793 - Yeah? Come on. 848 00:36:26,836 --> 00:36:29,883 [garage door buzzes in distance] 849 00:36:38,805 --> 00:36:40,285 [intense music builds] 850 00:36:40,328 --> 00:36:42,025 [door handle shuffles] 851 00:36:49,337 --> 00:36:50,991 - What are you doing here? 852 00:36:51,034 --> 00:36:52,297 - If I ask you a question, 853 00:36:52,340 --> 00:36:54,864 will you answer me honestly? 854 00:36:54,908 --> 00:36:57,867 - John, I am the most honest person you know. 855 00:36:57,911 --> 00:36:59,695 - Okay. 856 00:36:59,739 --> 00:37:02,045 Who called the state Nursing Board? 857 00:37:02,089 --> 00:37:03,438 - I'm not telling you. 858 00:37:03,482 --> 00:37:05,266 Why would I? 859 00:37:10,402 --> 00:37:11,707 - If you won't tell me who it was, 860 00:37:11,751 --> 00:37:12,708 it means it was you. 861 00:37:12,752 --> 00:37:15,798 - Oh, my God. 862 00:37:15,842 --> 00:37:18,018 This is what you care about. 863 00:37:18,061 --> 00:37:20,281 Not the patients whose meds you stole? 864 00:37:20,325 --> 00:37:22,936 People relying on you who you could have killed? 865 00:37:22,979 --> 00:37:24,198 Either because you're so out of it, 866 00:37:24,242 --> 00:37:25,852 you miss something, 867 00:37:25,895 --> 00:37:27,332 or because their hearts could have stopped 868 00:37:27,375 --> 00:37:29,812 from the shock. 869 00:37:29,856 --> 00:37:32,206 Do you know we could have lost the girls over this? 870 00:37:32,250 --> 00:37:34,252 - I have it on excellent authority 871 00:37:34,295 --> 00:37:35,340 that you're the one who called. 872 00:37:35,383 --> 00:37:37,951 - Well, I didn't. 873 00:37:37,994 --> 00:37:39,257 You really sound like you're going 874 00:37:39,300 --> 00:37:40,693 off the deep end, you know that? 875 00:37:40,736 --> 00:37:42,085 - How would you know what I sound like? 876 00:37:42,129 --> 00:37:44,218 You don't even know who I am. 877 00:37:44,262 --> 00:37:46,220 [sighs] 878 00:37:51,312 --> 00:37:54,054 - Well, if you were me, what would you do? 879 00:37:54,097 --> 00:37:55,447 Would you leave? 880 00:37:55,490 --> 00:37:57,797 - I'm not you. 881 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,408 - Well... [giggles] Supposing that you were. 882 00:38:00,452 --> 00:38:02,410 - I can't make this decision for you. 883 00:38:02,454 --> 00:38:04,064 Only you can. 884 00:38:04,107 --> 00:38:05,370 Because only you will know 885 00:38:05,413 --> 00:38:06,893 if you're really ready for what might happen 886 00:38:06,936 --> 00:38:08,068 when you do. 887 00:38:08,111 --> 00:38:09,069 - Wait, what, what do you mean, 888 00:38:09,112 --> 00:38:10,897 "what might happen?" 889 00:38:10,940 --> 00:38:12,377 - His plan is ruined. 890 00:38:12,420 --> 00:38:14,944 Whatever it was, you got the jump on him. 891 00:38:14,988 --> 00:38:17,251 Took him by surprise. 892 00:38:17,295 --> 00:38:18,252 - He's not gonna like that. 893 00:38:18,296 --> 00:38:20,167 - Probably not. 894 00:38:20,210 --> 00:38:23,388 And I don't know if your daughter told you, but... 895 00:38:23,431 --> 00:38:26,391 two of the restraining orders against him 896 00:38:26,434 --> 00:38:28,915 were taken out by... 897 00:38:28,958 --> 00:38:30,264 cops. 898 00:38:30,308 --> 00:38:32,484 Irvine PD. Women. 899 00:38:32,527 --> 00:38:34,834 A detective and a uni, I think? 900 00:38:34,877 --> 00:38:36,139 But still. 901 00:38:36,183 --> 00:38:37,445 Active duty cops. 902 00:38:37,489 --> 00:38:39,317 - So it's not dumb to be scared. 903 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:40,840 - No. 904 00:38:40,883 --> 00:38:41,884 Or to want to leave. 905 00:38:41,928 --> 00:38:42,885 And if you do leave, 906 00:38:42,929 --> 00:38:45,235 it's good to have a plan. 907 00:38:46,498 --> 00:38:48,413 - What kind of a plan? 908 00:38:48,456 --> 00:38:49,936 - Stay in hotels 909 00:38:49,979 --> 00:38:51,503 or places you've never stayed before 910 00:38:51,546 --> 00:38:53,156 but not the same place for too long. 911 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:55,071 - Oh, we should get a new car. Right? 912 00:38:55,115 --> 00:38:56,246 - And different clothes. 913 00:38:56,290 --> 00:38:57,944 Ones that blend in more. 914 00:38:57,987 --> 00:39:00,120 - Uh, her clothes do blend in in Orange County. 915 00:39:00,163 --> 00:39:01,469 It's yours that stand out. 916 00:39:01,513 --> 00:39:03,993 - Snap. 917 00:39:04,037 --> 00:39:05,299 Dye your hair, probably. 918 00:39:05,343 --> 00:39:06,344 - Or wigs. 919 00:39:06,387 --> 00:39:07,910 There are great wigs today. 920 00:39:07,954 --> 00:39:08,955 - When you come into a crowded place, 921 00:39:08,998 --> 00:39:10,391 really study the room. 922 00:39:10,435 --> 00:39:12,959 Try to notice if someone's following you. 923 00:39:13,002 --> 00:39:15,178 Make yourself a difficult target. 924 00:39:15,222 --> 00:39:17,442 ♪ 925 00:39:17,485 --> 00:39:19,139 - I have to go. 926 00:39:19,182 --> 00:39:22,795 Because he's picking me up from work, and... 927 00:39:22,838 --> 00:39:24,318 I don't know... 928 00:39:24,362 --> 00:39:26,189 what he would do if I wasn't there. 929 00:39:26,233 --> 00:39:28,409 So I need to, um-- I'm gonna go. 930 00:39:28,453 --> 00:39:30,150 Thank you. 931 00:39:30,193 --> 00:39:32,108 ♪ 932 00:39:32,152 --> 00:39:33,109 Bye, hon. 933 00:39:33,153 --> 00:39:34,459 - Look, Debra. 934 00:39:34,502 --> 00:39:37,331 Just get yourself out. 935 00:39:37,375 --> 00:39:40,334 That's what I'd do. 936 00:39:40,378 --> 00:39:43,337 - Okay. Thank you. 937 00:39:43,381 --> 00:39:45,557 I'll talk to you later, Ronnie. 938 00:39:48,211 --> 00:39:51,171 [eerie music] 939 00:39:51,214 --> 00:39:58,265 ♪ 940 00:40:04,619 --> 00:40:07,100 Hi. - Hey. 941 00:40:07,143 --> 00:40:10,103 [engine revving] 942 00:40:10,146 --> 00:40:12,105 [tires squeal] 943 00:40:12,148 --> 00:40:14,237 ♪ 944 00:40:14,281 --> 00:40:18,024 [lock jamming, rattling] 945 00:40:18,067 --> 00:40:19,895 I know you're in there, Tonia. I can hear you. 946 00:40:19,939 --> 00:40:21,244 You changed the locks on me? 947 00:40:21,288 --> 00:40:22,550 - I changed them all so you know 948 00:40:22,594 --> 00:40:24,900 your keys don't work anymore. 949 00:40:24,944 --> 00:40:27,120 - You think I can't get in there if I want to? 950 00:40:27,163 --> 00:40:28,600 - Why would you want to, John? 951 00:40:28,643 --> 00:40:30,166 There's nothing for you in here. 952 00:40:30,210 --> 00:40:31,559 - You know what! - Just the kids and me. 953 00:40:31,603 --> 00:40:33,082 What, your drugs? 954 00:40:33,126 --> 00:40:34,475 I got rid of them. 955 00:40:34,519 --> 00:40:36,042 To protect my children. 956 00:40:36,085 --> 00:40:38,087 - [shouting] Let me in! 957 00:40:38,131 --> 00:40:39,132 [pounding, kicking] 958 00:40:39,175 --> 00:40:41,395 Get me my shit! 959 00:40:41,439 --> 00:40:43,223 [suspenseful music] 960 00:40:43,266 --> 00:40:45,399 Give me my shit, Tonia! 961 00:40:45,443 --> 00:40:48,402 [dogs barking in distance] 962 00:40:48,446 --> 00:40:51,057 [engine turning over] 963 00:40:51,100 --> 00:40:54,539 [tires screeching] 964 00:40:58,673 --> 00:41:01,633 [engine revs, tires screech] 965 00:41:04,287 --> 00:41:07,073 - Mommy? - Mommy! 966 00:41:09,554 --> 00:41:12,600 [tone chirping] 967 00:41:15,647 --> 00:41:18,127 - Hello? 968 00:41:18,171 --> 00:41:20,478 - Uh, yes. 969 00:41:20,521 --> 00:41:23,089 I'm sorry to call so late. 970 00:41:23,132 --> 00:41:24,525 Maybe you're having dinner. 971 00:41:24,569 --> 00:41:26,092 California's three hours behind, 972 00:41:26,135 --> 00:41:27,180 so I thought it would be okay. 973 00:41:27,223 --> 00:41:29,443 - Who is this? 974 00:41:29,487 --> 00:41:33,578 - I-I, um... I... - Tonia? 975 00:41:33,621 --> 00:41:35,405 Is this Tonia? 976 00:41:35,449 --> 00:41:37,451 - Is this Delores? 977 00:41:37,495 --> 00:41:38,452 Meehan? 978 00:41:38,496 --> 00:41:40,236 - Oh, my God. 979 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,457 I knew you would call. I knew it. 980 00:41:43,501 --> 00:41:45,285 And I wanted you to, and I didn't. 981 00:41:45,328 --> 00:41:46,634 Because that means 982 00:41:46,678 --> 00:41:50,290 it's all gone wrong, hasn't it? 983 00:41:50,333 --> 00:41:52,422 John warned me so many times, 984 00:41:52,466 --> 00:41:54,555 don't ever call you or the kids, 985 00:41:54,599 --> 00:41:56,122 don't even try. 986 00:41:56,165 --> 00:41:58,037 Don't even think about it. 987 00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,431 ♪ 988 00:42:01,475 --> 00:42:04,478 Is he still doing drugs? 989 00:42:04,522 --> 00:42:11,529 ♪ 990 00:42:14,053 --> 00:42:15,010 [loud thud] 991 00:42:15,054 --> 00:42:16,534 - [groaning] 992 00:42:16,577 --> 00:42:18,361 - John? 993 00:42:18,405 --> 00:42:20,712 - [coughing] 994 00:42:20,755 --> 00:42:23,105 - John? 995 00:42:23,149 --> 00:42:25,020 - [groaning] 996 00:42:25,064 --> 00:42:26,631 Can you call someone? - Oh, my God! 997 00:42:26,674 --> 00:42:28,328 - Deb... - What's going on? 998 00:42:28,371 --> 00:42:30,025 - I don't know. - Okay. 999 00:42:30,069 --> 00:42:31,505 Oh, my God. Oh, my God. 1000 00:42:37,337 --> 00:42:39,687 - With the nonmechanical obstruction 1001 00:42:39,731 --> 00:42:41,341 in your intestines, I worry about infection. 1002 00:42:41,384 --> 00:42:42,821 Which, we're okay, but we need to move quickly. 1003 00:42:42,864 --> 00:42:44,300 - What about the pain? 1004 00:42:44,344 --> 00:42:45,475 - You'll be going into surgery 1005 00:42:45,519 --> 00:42:46,520 hopefully tonight, Mr. Meehan. 1006 00:42:46,564 --> 00:42:47,782 - I don't understand. 1007 00:42:47,826 --> 00:42:50,785 He was fine and then he just collapsed. 1008 00:42:50,829 --> 00:42:52,526 - Is the surgery now? 1009 00:42:52,570 --> 00:42:54,572 Like right goddamn now, because if it isn't-- 1010 00:42:54,615 --> 00:42:56,356 - We're giving you 2 milligrams of Dilaudid. 1011 00:42:56,399 --> 00:42:59,359 - I need Dilaudid-HP. Four milligrams. 1012 00:42:59,402 --> 00:43:01,622 - How long have you been on opioids, Mr. Meehan? 1013 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,018 - Deb, this is insane. Come on. 1014 00:43:06,061 --> 00:43:07,628 - Can you tell me, Mrs. Meehan? 1015 00:43:07,672 --> 00:43:08,890 - Tell you-- - How long has your husband 1016 00:43:08,934 --> 00:43:10,500 been taking opioids, or which ones? 1017 00:43:10,544 --> 00:43:12,372 - Because that's something 1018 00:43:12,415 --> 00:43:14,374 to do with his intestines, or... 1019 00:43:14,417 --> 00:43:15,375 - He has a paralytic ileus. 1020 00:43:15,418 --> 00:43:17,769 His blood work... 1021 00:43:17,812 --> 00:43:19,335 could you help me understand 1022 00:43:19,379 --> 00:43:20,598 his history with narcotics? 1023 00:43:20,641 --> 00:43:22,904 - I don't--I don't know it. 1024 00:43:22,948 --> 00:43:24,384 I don't know. 1025 00:43:24,427 --> 00:43:26,865 - I'm on a pain management program. 1026 00:43:26,908 --> 00:43:29,650 I injured--fractured my right ankle. 1027 00:43:29,694 --> 00:43:31,870 I also have a spinal compression. 1028 00:43:31,913 --> 00:43:33,567 So ever since, I've been dealing with 1029 00:43:33,611 --> 00:43:36,439 a cervical radiculopathy. 1030 00:43:36,483 --> 00:43:38,659 - How did you injure yourself? 1031 00:43:40,574 --> 00:43:42,924 - Iraq. 1032 00:43:42,968 --> 00:43:45,666 - Well, I'm not sure, uh, who was helping you here, 1033 00:43:45,710 --> 00:43:47,581 but they shouldn't have let this blockage develop. 1034 00:43:47,625 --> 00:43:48,930 - Pretty bad, huh? 1035 00:43:48,974 --> 00:43:50,758 But right now my tolerance is so high. 1036 00:43:50,802 --> 00:43:53,631 - I'm giving you 4 milligrams of Dilaudid-HP 1037 00:43:53,674 --> 00:43:55,981 every two hours. 1038 00:43:56,024 --> 00:43:57,896 - I, um... 1039 00:43:57,939 --> 00:44:00,638 I don't think I'm gonna stay here for the consult. 1040 00:44:00,681 --> 00:44:01,943 - Oh, it's not a problem. 1041 00:44:01,987 --> 00:44:04,032 - I don't want them to have to dumb it down 1042 00:44:04,076 --> 00:44:06,382 for John, and I'm not very good at 1043 00:44:06,426 --> 00:44:08,907 thinking about blood, and... 1044 00:44:11,083 --> 00:44:13,912 I'm gonna go to the chapel. 1045 00:44:13,955 --> 00:44:16,088 And pray. 1046 00:44:16,131 --> 00:44:17,742 - Okay. 1047 00:44:19,569 --> 00:44:21,093 - I love you. 1048 00:44:27,882 --> 00:44:30,015 You'll be just fine. 1049 00:44:32,713 --> 00:44:35,673 ["Angel Baby" by Rosie and The Originals] 1050 00:44:35,716 --> 00:44:42,723 ♪ 1051 00:44:45,857 --> 00:44:52,864 ♪ 1052 00:44:58,130 --> 00:45:02,003 - ♪ It's just like heaven 1053 00:45:02,047 --> 00:45:05,833 ♪ Being here with you 1054 00:45:05,877 --> 00:45:09,576 ♪ You're like an angel 1055 00:45:09,619 --> 00:45:12,971 ♪ Too good to be true 1056 00:45:13,014 --> 00:45:16,670 ♪ But after all 1057 00:45:16,714 --> 00:45:20,718 ♪ I love you, I do 1058 00:45:20,761 --> 00:45:24,547 ♪ Angel baby 1059 00:45:24,591 --> 00:45:27,725 [phone ringing] 1060 00:45:27,768 --> 00:45:28,900 - ♪ When you... 1061 00:45:28,943 --> 00:45:30,118 - Yes? 1062 00:45:30,162 --> 00:45:31,424 - You know why I have 1063 00:45:31,467 --> 00:45:32,686 this big smile on my face? 1064 00:45:32,730 --> 00:45:34,949 - ♪ My heart skips a beat 1065 00:45:34,993 --> 00:45:35,994 ♪ I can hardly... 1066 00:45:36,037 --> 00:45:37,996 - Why, John? 1067 00:45:38,039 --> 00:45:39,824 - 'Cause trust me. 1068 00:45:39,867 --> 00:45:42,740 Just trust me. That's why. 1069 00:45:42,783 --> 00:45:44,393 - ♪ Because... 1070 00:45:44,437 --> 00:45:45,960 - Trust you what? You're not making any sense. 1071 00:45:46,004 --> 00:45:48,484 - You'll understand when it happens. 1072 00:45:48,528 --> 00:45:51,052 You'll understand it all. 1073 00:45:51,096 --> 00:45:53,489 I won't be anywhere near it. 1074 00:45:53,533 --> 00:45:56,536 I'll be in Bermuda or wherever, 1075 00:45:56,579 --> 00:45:59,408 having a drink with a 22-year-old, 1076 00:45:59,452 --> 00:46:03,195 smiling like I am right now. 1077 00:46:03,238 --> 00:46:06,067 You should enjoy your time left, Tonia. 1078 00:46:06,111 --> 00:46:08,853 Your time left on this earth. 1079 00:46:08,896 --> 00:46:11,856 That's what it's gonna come down to. 1080 00:46:11,899 --> 00:46:14,728 Just, when it happens? 1081 00:46:14,772 --> 00:46:16,512 When you see it in your eyes 1082 00:46:16,556 --> 00:46:17,905 and you know, 1083 00:46:17,949 --> 00:46:20,690 promise you'll remember it was me. 1084 00:46:22,605 --> 00:46:26,566 ♪ 1085 00:46:26,609 --> 00:46:29,917 - ♪ Please never leave me 1086 00:46:29,961 --> 00:46:32,920 ♪ Blue and alone 1087 00:46:32,964 --> 00:46:34,922 - Come here. Come here, okay? 1088 00:46:34,966 --> 00:46:36,837 - ♪ If you ever go 1089 00:46:36,881 --> 00:46:40,841 ♪ I'm sure you'll come back home ♪ 1090 00:46:40,885 --> 00:46:44,453 ♪ Because I love you 1091 00:46:44,497 --> 00:46:46,151 ♪ I love you, I do 1092 00:46:46,194 --> 00:46:47,239 - Do you have any words to say 1093 00:46:47,282 --> 00:46:48,893 to the wedding couple? 1094 00:46:48,936 --> 00:46:50,982 - Just keep your eyes on him, Tonia. 1095 00:46:51,025 --> 00:46:52,200 Don't let him out of your sight. 1096 00:46:52,244 --> 00:46:54,724 - ♪ My angel baby 1097 00:46:54,768 --> 00:46:55,856 - Run! 1098 00:46:55,900 --> 00:46:57,553 [laughter] 1099 00:46:57,597 --> 00:46:58,859 - ♪ It's just like heaven 1100 00:46:58,903 --> 00:47:02,689 ♪ Being with you, dear 1101 00:47:02,732 --> 00:47:05,866 ♪ I could never stay 1102 00:47:05,910 --> 00:47:09,914 ♪ Away without you near 1103 00:47:09,957 --> 00:47:13,004 ♪ Because I love you 1104 00:47:13,047 --> 00:47:17,138 ♪ I love you, I do 1105 00:47:17,182 --> 00:47:20,663 ♪ Angel baby 1106 00:47:20,707 --> 00:47:24,885 ♪ My angel baby 1107 00:47:24,929 --> 00:47:27,932 ♪ Ooh, I love you 1108 00:47:27,975 --> 00:47:31,805 ♪ Ooh, I do 1109 00:47:31,849 --> 00:47:35,156 ♪ No one could love you 1110 00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:38,943 ♪ Like I do 1111 00:47:38,986 --> 00:47:42,598 ♪ Ooh 1112 00:47:42,642 --> 00:47:46,124 ♪ Ooh-hoo-hoo 1113 00:47:46,167 --> 00:47:49,823 ♪ Ooh 1114 00:47:49,867 --> 00:47:53,522 ♪ Ooh-hoo-hoo 1115 00:47:53,566 --> 00:47:56,830 ♪ Ooh-hoo-hoo