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[Reagan] I'm really excited
for you to meet him
in a few weeks.
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It's an important day
in a man's life.
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First time he, meets
his future father-in-law.
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Your job is to feed
and care for them
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on your shift,
not to be friends.
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It's natural
to have mixed emotions.
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[Kari] But I'm still
mourning Tim.
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[Elizabeth] Well,
then maybe Ryan
being in New York
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right now is a good thing.
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It doesn't feel
like a good thing.
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Sam and I are moving to Texas.
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[Kari] If Texas is where God
needs you to be, then that's
where you'll be.
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But is it where you wanna be?
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It's a great opportunity
for Sam.
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I can't be friends
with you, Ash.
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I have feelings for you.
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I'm moving to California, Ash.
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[monitor beeping]
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[theme song playing]
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♪ 'Cause life has a way
Of pulling us under ♪
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♪ But we'll stick it out ♪
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{\an8}♪ If we got each other ♪
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{\an8}♪ When it all feels too much ♪
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{\an8}♪ I know you'll come running
For me ♪
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{\an8}♪ Through the highs and lows
We'll find our way home ♪
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{\an8}♪ Family ♪
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{\an8}♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
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{\an8}♪ Family ♪
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{\an8}[phone ringing]
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{\an8}[woman] Uh-huh. Alright.
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[cell phone ringing]
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{\an8}- Hi.
- [Elizabeth] Hey, Kari.
It's Mom.
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{\an8}Is this a good time?
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{\an8}[Kari] Yeah. What's up?
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{\an8}Well, I've been going through
my closet...
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{\an8}Finally!
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{\an8}[Elizabeth] And I'm gonna get
rid of some things
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{\an8}and I wanted to check with you
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{\an8}if you might something
before I donated.
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{\an8}I have some really
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{\an8}pretty scarfs
I think you might like.
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{\an8}Wow, Mom, you who has kept
every piece of homework
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{\an8}we've ever done?
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{\an8}I know.
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{\an8}Well, your father might have
had something to do with it.
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{\an8}But, I'm embracing it.
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{\an8}Out with the old
and in with the new.
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{\an8}[sad instrumental
music playing]
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{\an8}Kari?
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{\an8}Sorry, I've just been
struggling with some things
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{\an8}around that exact same theme.
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{\an8}Are you okay?
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{\an8}I've been feeling
really guilty.
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{\an8}[Elizabeth] About what?
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{\an8}About being ready to move on
from mourning Tim.
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{\an8}Is that horrible?
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{\an8}No.
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{\an8}Moving on is an important part
of surviving.
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{\an8}The most important part.
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{\an8}Why does it feel so wrong?
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{\an8}That's how guilt works.
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{\an8}It wants you to stay down,
to give up.
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{\an8}[inhales and exhales]
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{\an8}But I know Tim...
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{\an8}and I know God...
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And I know that they're
both somewhere close by
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waiting to lift you up, honey.
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You just have to let them.
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Thanks, Mom.
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I needed that.
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[Kari] Okay, bye.
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[people chattering
indistinctly]
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[professor] Before we
get started...
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I want to go over your
end of semester assignment,
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which is coming around now.
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Please read
the guidelines carefully.
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This assignment is 30%
of your final grade.
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Each of you will present
a compelling argument,
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both written and oral,
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arguing for and against
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the existence
of a higher being.
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Whatever you believe...
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prove it to me.
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You'll be working
with partners on this
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because I will have
wanted you to have debated
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your conclusions thoroughly.
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Questions?
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Ms. Callahan.
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Are we seriously still having
this debate?
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I mean, really,
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this assignment has been given
in every intro philosophy class
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since the beginning of time
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and we're no closer
to agreeing on anything.
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Half of us are gonna
believe in facts,
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the other half is going to
believe in fantasy.
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What's the point?
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The point is not just
to believe in something
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but to understand the reason
behind that belief,
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which not be as simple
as you think.
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Anyone else?
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Good, right.
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To last week's reading...
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chapter eight.
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- Hey.
- Hi, honey.
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Oh, thanks, Mom.
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I'm happy that these
are gonna find a new home.
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Yeah, I just feel like,
all my clothes are little too
kindergarten teacher.
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[sighs]
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So, when are you leaving?
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In a few weeks.
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Just in time
for the big dinner.
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- How exciting.
- Yeah.
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How do you feel about
me moving?
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Us moving?
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[sighs]
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I'm sad of course,
I'm gonna miss you.
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But I'm excited for you.
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This is a great opportunity
for you guys.
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How are you feeling?
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I really wanna be there
for Sam.
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This is his big dream
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and it's gonna make it possible
for our big dream to happen,
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which is incredible.
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So, I feel really blessed.
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You didn't really answer
my question.
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How are you feeling?
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[instrumental music playing]
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You can talk to me, honey.
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You know?
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Or one of your sisters,
we're here for you.
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And you know one of them
is going through some stuff
right now.
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Who?
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Well, you know I don't
gossip about my girls.
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You always find
a way to each other anyway.
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Thanks, Mom.
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[birds chirping]
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[Ashley] Good morning, ladies.
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- Here you go.
- [grunts]
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Get in here please.
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Sit down.
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What's going on?
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I've been calling Hank
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but he can't hear me
in the garage.
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[stressing] Call the police.
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That woman knows where Sue is
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and she won't give us
the information.
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- [Ashley] Hey, it's okay.
- [old lady snorts]
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Did you take here?
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No.
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No, I didn't take her, but
I'm here to help find her.
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Nobody took Sue.
She was just here last week.
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Keep this up and I'll
block her from visiting.
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All it does is rile you up.
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I know you know
where she is.
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You bring my Sue back.
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Or I'll go and... [grunts]
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[yelling] Sue comes here
every week.
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There are no spies.
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Nobody, took her.
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[old lady] No! No!
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No, you're lying.
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[Ashley] Okay.
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Everyone just calm down.
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[old lady sobbing]
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Take a deep breath,
it's okay.
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[Irvel] Hank...
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Sit down.
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I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
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[old lady sobbing]
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It's gonna be a rough day,
as you can see.
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My advice is put them
in their rooms right
after they eat.
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Social time can be too much
on days like this.
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Good luck.
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[sad music playing]
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It's okay.
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- It's okay.
- [breathing shakily]
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- You're okay?
- Hmm.
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[professor] That's it
for today.
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Please read chapter nine
before next class.
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See you all next week.
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Hey. Got a minute?
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Yeah, sure. What's up, Lori?
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So, that assignment.
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I'm thinking it'll be
marginally less painful
if we work together.
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What do you think?
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Um...
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Please, don't make me
suffer alone.
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[people chattering
indistinctly]
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I'm sorry, I think
we're actually on opposite
sides of the debate.
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Oh.
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Um...
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Okay.
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Um...
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- Good luck then.
- Yeah, hey, good luck.
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[knocking]
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Got a sec?
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Whether I do or not,
you're here aren't you, so...
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So, about this morning...
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Is talking to the patients
like that
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and restraining them
when they get up upset
really the best way?
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In cases where it's done
in the interest
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of patient
or staff safety, yes.
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- Okay, but is it--
- No.
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Let me finish.
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Since you're the expert,
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and you feel that I owe
you an explanation,
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tell me...
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What do you think
would have happened
if Irvel had fallen?
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I guess she would have
gotten hurt.
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You guess?
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Do you know what the
likelihood of a broken bone
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from a fall is
for a women her age?
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One in four.
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And should she have,
say, broken a hip...
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...in that fall,
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you want to take a guess at
the likelihood that she'd die
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from complications
within 90 days.
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[sighs]
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[Belinda] Nothing to say now?
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It's 80 percent.
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I'm sorry, I guess
I didn't think.
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Oh, no, you thought.
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You thought you had
all the answers
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and you'd come in here
and make the place over,
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do things your way.
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There's a reason things
are done the way they are
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Maybe she wouldn't have
gotten so upset
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if you weren't talking to
her in the first place.
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Excuse me?
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I just think...
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we can talk to them
in a different way.
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Show a little compassion.
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[instrumental music playing]
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Think about
if it were your mother.
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When it was my mother,
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I wanted someone looking
after her safety.
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You're not gonna win this one.
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You need to follow protocol.
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Get on board or get a new job.
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Okay.
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In the future, e-mail me,
if you'd like to request
a meeting.
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And don't come into my office
without my permission again.
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[man] Thank you so much.
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It's a huge help
that the church
is providing this service.
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But we're really
looking forward to...
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seeing little Stephanie
this Sunday.
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- See you soon.
- Yes, thanks.
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- Bye.
- Bye.
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[sighs]
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Well, that was our 17th family.
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- [door shuts]
- Oh, and I love
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what earlier couples
said about
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this giving them
a chance to worship
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for one hour each week
without distractions.
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I remember when it used
to be that easy.
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[Pastor Mariana] Yeah,
I imagine things change
a bit when they get older.
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[chuckles] Yeah.
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More than a bit.
259
00:11:17,345 --> 00:11:20,056
I have two girls right
now who are
260
00:11:20,056 --> 00:11:22,225
struggling with confusion,
261
00:11:22,225 --> 00:11:23,726
change, loss.
262
00:11:25,019 --> 00:11:26,229
I don't know how to help them.
263
00:11:26,229 --> 00:11:27,689
It is hard
264
00:11:27,689 --> 00:11:30,066
to watch a loved one go
through a challenging time.
265
00:11:30,066 --> 00:11:32,735
It can leave you
feeling hopeless.
266
00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:37,198
I know I need to let them
find their own way.
267
00:11:37,198 --> 00:11:38,283
But...
268
00:11:38,283 --> 00:11:39,284
[sighs]
269
00:11:39,284 --> 00:11:40,743
I don't always like it.
270
00:11:41,953 --> 00:11:43,580
I know your family, Elizabeth.
271
00:11:44,664 --> 00:11:46,332
You and Jon have...
272
00:11:46,332 --> 00:11:49,586
raised five strong
children of faith.
273
00:11:49,586 --> 00:11:52,172
Love them and believe in them,
274
00:11:52,172 --> 00:11:54,174
as you always have...
275
00:11:54,174 --> 00:11:55,842
and always remember,
276
00:11:55,842 --> 00:11:57,260
Psalms 34 tells us...
277
00:11:58,928 --> 00:12:02,599
"The Lord is close
to the broken-hearted..."
278
00:12:02,599 --> 00:12:05,602
[both] "And saves those
who are crushed in spirit."
279
00:12:10,398 --> 00:12:11,274
Thank you.
280
00:12:11,274 --> 00:12:12,192
Of course.
281
00:12:29,918 --> 00:12:30,752
[Kari] Hi, Tim.
282
00:12:31,586 --> 00:12:32,670
It's me.
283
00:12:32,670 --> 00:12:34,756
Just me this time.
Jessie's at home.
284
00:12:41,012 --> 00:12:42,931
Pretty sure she's getting
bigger every day.
285
00:12:50,813 --> 00:12:51,856
[sighs]
286
00:12:53,566 --> 00:12:54,692
I came to say goodbye.
287
00:12:56,361 --> 00:12:58,738
I realized that I've never
actually said that before.
288
00:13:00,406 --> 00:13:01,950
I've been so busy
289
00:13:01,950 --> 00:13:03,785
trying to make sense
of everything...
290
00:13:05,119 --> 00:13:06,162
and keeping it together
for Jessie.
291
00:13:10,041 --> 00:13:11,501
But God gave me
a new purpose...
292
00:13:12,669 --> 00:13:15,046
and I have to
grab onto it.
293
00:13:15,046 --> 00:13:17,549
And I can't do that if I'm
still holding onto you.
294
00:13:20,468 --> 00:13:22,011
I have to let go now.
295
00:13:26,432 --> 00:13:27,475
Thank you...
296
00:13:30,812 --> 00:13:34,232
for everything that you
taught me...
297
00:13:34,232 --> 00:13:38,027
everything we went through
that made me a stronger person.
298
00:13:40,446 --> 00:13:41,614
And for our little girl.
299
00:13:44,075 --> 00:13:46,911
I promise to be
the best mom I can to her.
300
00:13:49,581 --> 00:13:51,332
And I'm gonna live
my life to the fullest.
301
00:13:53,626 --> 00:13:55,211
The way I know
that you'd want me to.
302
00:13:57,922 --> 00:13:59,382
The way God wants me to.
303
00:14:01,884 --> 00:14:02,719
[sighs]
304
00:14:04,095 --> 00:14:05,054
Goodbye, Tim.
305
00:14:08,433 --> 00:14:09,267
Rest well.
306
00:14:20,570 --> 00:14:21,613
[sighs]
307
00:14:26,784 --> 00:14:27,660
[instrumental music playing]
308
00:14:33,166 --> 00:14:34,459
[plates clattering]
309
00:14:34,459 --> 00:14:35,877
[Tom] So, I'm standing there.
310
00:14:35,877 --> 00:14:38,129
in the middle
of Reykjavik Harbor
311
00:14:38,129 --> 00:14:40,214
on the top deck
of this boat praying
312
00:14:40,214 --> 00:14:42,508
for the Northern lights,
freezing,
313
00:14:42,508 --> 00:14:44,010
and I turn around
and everybody's gone.
314
00:14:44,010 --> 00:14:45,219
- Everybody had gone.
- [all laughing]
315
00:14:45,219 --> 00:14:46,971
I almost did too
because it was that cold,
316
00:14:46,971 --> 00:14:49,599
but I'm not a quitter
and I was determined
to see the Northern lights.
317
00:14:49,599 --> 00:14:50,808
[Reagan] It sounds like it.
318
00:14:50,808 --> 00:14:53,519
And I did not see
the Northern lights.
319
00:14:53,519 --> 00:14:55,229
[chuckles]
320
00:14:55,229 --> 00:14:56,898
[Reagan] Well, I would like
to thank you both
321
00:14:56,898 --> 00:14:59,233
for holding off on the law talk
until now.
322
00:14:59,233 --> 00:15:01,778
But I do give you both full
permission to just dive in.
323
00:15:02,403 --> 00:15:03,488
[chuckles]
324
00:15:03,488 --> 00:15:05,490
Reagan knows
that I'm a bit obsessed...
325
00:15:05,490 --> 00:15:07,241
- Yes.
- ...with the field.
326
00:15:07,241 --> 00:15:08,618
Our field.
327
00:15:08,618 --> 00:15:09,994
How did you decide
you wanted to study Law, Luke?
328
00:15:09,994 --> 00:15:11,871
Uh, well,
for the longest time,
329
00:15:11,871 --> 00:15:13,956
I thought I wanted to be
a doctor like my dad.
330
00:15:15,291 --> 00:15:16,250
What changed your mind?
331
00:15:16,959 --> 00:15:18,211
Biology 101.
332
00:15:18,211 --> 00:15:19,128
[chuckles]
333
00:15:21,047 --> 00:15:22,465
Uh, yeah.
334
00:15:22,465 --> 00:15:23,508
No, I just...
335
00:15:23,508 --> 00:15:25,009
I realized that, um...
336
00:15:25,009 --> 00:15:26,636
I wasn't actually interested
in medicine.
337
00:15:27,553 --> 00:15:28,388
So, law then.
338
00:15:29,305 --> 00:15:30,139
Why?
339
00:15:30,139 --> 00:15:31,057
I wanna help people.
340
00:15:32,558 --> 00:15:33,393
And, uh,
341
00:15:33,393 --> 00:15:34,894
fight for what's right.
342
00:15:34,894 --> 00:15:38,356
I know that it's not
saving lives in a hospital
but, uh,
343
00:15:38,356 --> 00:15:40,733
I think that justice saves us
in other ways.
344
00:15:42,068 --> 00:15:43,778
That's an altruistic way
of looking at it.
345
00:15:46,739 --> 00:15:48,324
I like it.
346
00:15:48,324 --> 00:15:50,410
- Reminds of me of myself
at you age.
- [chuckles]
347
00:15:50,410 --> 00:15:52,453
Law is a tough road though.
348
00:15:52,453 --> 00:15:54,330
Lot of school,
lots of long hours.
349
00:15:55,498 --> 00:15:57,125
- You up for that?
- Yes, sir.
350
00:15:57,125 --> 00:15:58,918
- Hey, I'm ready to work hard.
- [chuckling]
351
00:15:58,918 --> 00:16:00,545
My Dad always said that, uh...
352
00:16:01,504 --> 00:16:02,547
nothing good comes easy.
353
00:16:03,548 --> 00:16:05,258
That's a wise man.
354
00:16:05,258 --> 00:16:07,510
You should apply for a summer
internship at our firm then.
355
00:16:08,594 --> 00:16:10,054
- Really?
- [Reagan chuckles]
356
00:16:10,054 --> 00:16:12,598
- In New York?
- Send me your resume.
357
00:16:12,598 --> 00:16:13,850
I'll make sure it gets
to the right place.
358
00:16:14,684 --> 00:16:16,728
Yeah, absolutely.
359
00:16:16,728 --> 00:16:18,020
I... I will.
360
00:16:18,020 --> 00:16:18,938
Thank you so much.
361
00:16:20,481 --> 00:16:22,316
But just promise to
give him back.
362
00:16:22,316 --> 00:16:23,234
Eh, we'll see.
363
00:16:23,234 --> 00:16:26,028
[all chuckling]
364
00:16:26,028 --> 00:16:29,282
Okay. Here are some snacks
for you guys.
365
00:16:29,282 --> 00:16:31,325
There's bowls on the shelves
if you need them.
366
00:16:34,162 --> 00:16:35,163
How do I look?
367
00:16:35,163 --> 00:16:36,789
It depends. Where are you
even going?
368
00:16:37,540 --> 00:16:39,959
I'm... Um...
369
00:16:39,959 --> 00:16:42,462
Gonna meet Erika
after I make a quick stop.
370
00:16:42,462 --> 00:16:44,297
- Where?
- Nowhere important.
371
00:16:44,297 --> 00:16:45,798
Is there anything specific
372
00:16:45,798 --> 00:16:47,633
we should know about
taking care of Cole.
373
00:16:47,633 --> 00:16:49,135
No, I already put him to sleep.
374
00:16:49,135 --> 00:16:50,636
Just make sure he doesn't
get out of bed.
375
00:16:50,636 --> 00:16:52,388
And if he does,
make sure he's still alive
when I get home.
376
00:16:52,388 --> 00:16:53,389
- [chuckles]
- That easy, huh?
377
00:16:53,389 --> 00:16:54,974
Thanks so much, guys.
378
00:16:54,974 --> 00:16:56,601
Listen, when you have
a kid, I'll watch him
whenever you want.
379
00:16:58,978 --> 00:17:00,396
[whispering] Just don't
let me do that.
380
00:17:01,314 --> 00:17:02,148
Bye.
381
00:17:05,443 --> 00:17:07,111
There are bowls for that.
382
00:17:11,282 --> 00:17:13,201
Ashley is lucky to have you.
383
00:17:13,201 --> 00:17:16,287
Yeah, last minute care
isn't easy to come by.
384
00:17:16,287 --> 00:17:18,706
I guess it's something
we gotta think about if
we're living in Dallas.
385
00:17:18,706 --> 00:17:20,416
Oh, we will.
386
00:17:20,416 --> 00:17:22,710
Can't wait till
we live there full-time.
387
00:17:22,710 --> 00:17:24,796
I'm done flying out
for the work week.
388
00:17:25,630 --> 00:17:26,547
Yeah, it'll be hard.
389
00:17:27,089 --> 00:17:27,924
What?
390
00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:29,634
Living there.
391
00:17:30,384 --> 00:17:32,094
What's this about?
392
00:17:32,094 --> 00:17:34,138
I'm just saying that there are
some aspects of the move
393
00:17:34,138 --> 00:17:36,682
that make me really nervous.
394
00:17:36,682 --> 00:17:39,101
Since when? I thought
you said that you were
excited about all this.
395
00:17:39,101 --> 00:17:40,394
I am excited.
396
00:17:40,394 --> 00:17:41,938
And also nervous.
397
00:17:41,938 --> 00:17:44,148
There's nothing to be
nervous about, Erin.
398
00:17:44,148 --> 00:17:46,275
And people move.
Maybe not the Baxters,
399
00:17:46,275 --> 00:17:48,569
but people all over.
400
00:17:48,569 --> 00:17:51,656
I don't think you realize
how much you're asking
me to give up.
401
00:17:51,656 --> 00:17:54,033
Do you have any idea
what I'd be giving up
if I didn't take this job?
402
00:17:54,033 --> 00:17:55,326
I'm not talking about money.
403
00:17:55,326 --> 00:17:57,870
I'm talking about my family,
my job.
404
00:17:57,870 --> 00:17:59,038
You can teach anywhere.
405
00:17:59,038 --> 00:18:01,541
I grew up in that school, Sam.
406
00:18:01,541 --> 00:18:03,376
My siblings grew up
in that school.
407
00:18:03,376 --> 00:18:04,585
It's not just where I work.
408
00:18:04,585 --> 00:18:05,837
It's a part of who I am.
409
00:18:05,837 --> 00:18:08,005
It's a part you're asking me
to walk away from.
410
00:18:08,005 --> 00:18:11,384
Erin, I have spent
my entire adult life
working towards this.
411
00:18:11,384 --> 00:18:14,387
Do you have any idea
how many hours
I put towards this job?
412
00:18:14,387 --> 00:18:17,515
Yeah, I do, because I've been
alone at the dinner table
for a lot of them.
413
00:18:17,515 --> 00:18:18,683
That is not fair.
414
00:18:18,683 --> 00:18:20,142
I'm sorry.
415
00:18:20,142 --> 00:18:22,144
I love how passionate
and committed you are
to your job.
416
00:18:22,144 --> 00:18:24,939
I just wish that sometimes
you'd give a little more
of that time to your wife.
417
00:18:24,939 --> 00:18:26,399
[Cole] Mommy.
418
00:18:26,399 --> 00:18:27,775
Great, now we woke Cole up.
419
00:18:34,031 --> 00:18:35,116
[knocking at door]
420
00:18:44,292 --> 00:18:45,209
Surprised to see you here.
421
00:18:47,670 --> 00:18:49,463
I came to apologize.
422
00:18:51,591 --> 00:18:53,509
I didn't...
423
00:18:53,509 --> 00:18:55,845
like the way that
we left things at the hospital.
424
00:18:55,845 --> 00:18:57,513
[scoffs] Yeah.
425
00:18:58,973 --> 00:18:59,807
Landon...
426
00:19:00,766 --> 00:19:01,601
I'm sorry.
427
00:19:02,476 --> 00:19:03,311
I misled you.
428
00:19:03,311 --> 00:19:04,395
[instrumental music playing]
429
00:19:10,484 --> 00:19:12,945
I hope that
you can forgive me...
430
00:19:14,322 --> 00:19:16,991
and we can be friends
again, someday.
431
00:19:21,329 --> 00:19:22,330
[whispers] Okay.
432
00:19:24,373 --> 00:19:25,917
I... I know you need to rest.
433
00:19:28,502 --> 00:19:29,337
Hey, Ash.
434
00:19:33,966 --> 00:19:35,676
We don't have to wait
till someday to be friends.
435
00:19:36,636 --> 00:19:37,470
Let's just be friends now.
436
00:19:42,433 --> 00:19:47,939
But I thought you said
that you didn't want to be
unless we could be...
437
00:19:47,939 --> 00:19:49,440
- You know...
- Well, I thought about it.
438
00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:52,693
And, um, I just wanna
spend some time with you
before I go.
439
00:19:53,527 --> 00:19:54,820
If that's okay with you.
440
00:19:57,615 --> 00:19:58,449
Yeah.
441
00:20:00,993 --> 00:20:02,161
Yeah, that'd be cool.
442
00:20:03,079 --> 00:20:04,747
Cool.
443
00:20:04,747 --> 00:20:07,166
So, I was just about to
order some Chinese.
444
00:20:09,794 --> 00:20:10,878
Moo shu pork.
445
00:20:12,254 --> 00:20:13,381
The best.
446
00:20:13,381 --> 00:20:14,298
Wanna join?
447
00:20:16,634 --> 00:20:17,468
[whispers] Sure can.
448
00:20:31,482 --> 00:20:32,316
[sad music playing]
449
00:20:34,527 --> 00:20:35,361
[clicks]
450
00:20:50,418 --> 00:20:51,252
[clicks]
451
00:21:20,740 --> 00:21:23,075
[Elizabeth] Next time
on The Baxters...
452
00:21:23,075 --> 00:21:25,244
[John] Teenage Kari
must have put
453
00:21:25,244 --> 00:21:29,290
something very important
in this box.
454
00:21:29,290 --> 00:21:30,374
[Erika] What are you up to?
455
00:21:30,374 --> 00:21:32,293
Two fun projects...
456
00:21:32,293 --> 00:21:34,545
for two special ladies.
457
00:21:34,545 --> 00:21:35,671
[Luke] I would love it
458
00:21:35,671 --> 00:21:36,839
if you'd come
and you'd meet my family
459
00:21:36,839 --> 00:21:38,007
before you head back
to the city.
460
00:21:38,007 --> 00:21:39,216
Name the time and place.
461
00:21:39,216 --> 00:21:41,093
How about where Reagan
and I first met?
462
00:21:41,093 --> 00:21:43,054
Absolutely.
And the honor's all mine.
463
00:21:43,054 --> 00:21:44,889
Are you sure
the meeting's here?
This place is empty.
464
00:21:54,398 --> 00:21:55,900
[theme music playing]