1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:05,501 --> 00:00:07,918 (soft music) 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 4 00:01:07,883 --> 00:01:10,550 (ominous music) 5 00:01:15,817 --> 00:01:18,817 (breathing heavily) 6 00:01:46,265 --> 00:01:48,348 (crying) 7 00:01:57,733 --> 00:01:59,983 (knocking) 8 00:02:05,409 --> 00:02:07,909 (mic tapping) 9 00:02:13,133 --> 00:02:15,800 (upbeat music) 10 00:02:19,579 --> 00:02:21,760 - [Charles] How 'bout you start at the very beginning? 11 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,000 Tell us about your early childhood. 12 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,563 - My early childhood. 13 00:02:26,810 --> 00:02:31,453 Well, my parents adopted me when I was a baby. 14 00:02:32,300 --> 00:02:34,410 And about four years later, 15 00:02:34,410 --> 00:02:36,323 they adopted my younger brother, Gabe. 16 00:02:37,393 --> 00:02:38,670 - [Charles] And was he a welcome addition to the family 17 00:02:38,670 --> 00:02:40,053 or an intruder? 18 00:02:42,850 --> 00:02:43,900 - We got along great. 19 00:02:45,890 --> 00:02:48,920 Things were good up until about age nine. 20 00:02:48,920 --> 00:02:50,063 - [Charles] What happened? 21 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:52,570 - Well, my dad took a new job 22 00:02:52,570 --> 00:02:55,003 that kept him out of the house most of the time. 23 00:02:55,850 --> 00:02:59,803 So I barely saw him and I started acting out. 24 00:03:00,658 --> 00:03:02,880 The times that I did see him, 25 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:04,910 I tended to bring more anger out of him. 26 00:03:04,910 --> 00:03:07,980 - Was he ever abusive towards you? 27 00:03:07,980 --> 00:03:09,593 - I wouldn't call it abusive. 28 00:03:10,529 --> 00:03:13,763 It was a stressful time for him and our family. 29 00:03:14,870 --> 00:03:16,203 But unfortunately, 30 00:03:17,346 --> 00:03:19,690 any closeness that I had with my dad 31 00:03:19,690 --> 00:03:21,630 started to unravel at that time. 32 00:03:21,630 --> 00:03:24,376 - [Charles] Did your family have any improvements 33 00:03:24,376 --> 00:03:25,813 by the time you reached your teen years? 34 00:03:26,930 --> 00:03:29,310 - No, things pretty much stayed the same, 35 00:03:29,310 --> 00:03:31,613 but one thing that they changed with me though 36 00:03:31,613 --> 00:03:33,303 is who I started hanging around. 37 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,110 When I was 14, I met this kid named Dave 38 00:03:38,310 --> 00:03:40,090 and it wasn't long before him and I 39 00:03:40,090 --> 00:03:41,603 were real good friends. 40 00:03:49,148 --> 00:03:51,923 - Alright, let's see what we got here. 41 00:03:53,474 --> 00:03:55,057 No, no, no, no, no. 42 00:04:00,482 --> 00:04:02,908 Hey, what's that? 43 00:04:02,908 --> 00:04:04,550 - That's the story I'm writing. 44 00:04:04,550 --> 00:04:06,460 - What are you writing a story for? 45 00:04:06,460 --> 00:04:08,423 - It's for my writing class. 46 00:04:08,423 --> 00:04:09,893 - That stinks, man. 47 00:04:10,730 --> 00:04:13,420 - Well, it's not that bad. 48 00:04:13,420 --> 00:04:14,883 I'm kind of enjoying writing it. 49 00:04:16,137 --> 00:04:17,471 - Whatever, man. 50 00:04:20,392 --> 00:04:23,225 Why isn't there every anything on? 51 00:04:24,411 --> 00:04:25,661 Oh, here we go. 52 00:04:26,608 --> 00:04:28,858 (laughing) 53 00:04:29,832 --> 00:04:32,415 (bell tolling) 54 00:04:41,933 --> 00:04:44,975 - Do you guys value the people in your life? 55 00:04:44,975 --> 00:04:46,663 Do you guys value your friends? 56 00:04:47,530 --> 00:04:49,030 How about your parents and siblings? 57 00:04:49,030 --> 00:04:50,223 Do you guys value them? 58 00:04:51,180 --> 00:04:53,023 How about the bully at your school? 59 00:04:54,430 --> 00:04:56,080 How many of you value him or her? 60 00:04:57,453 --> 00:04:58,843 Nobody ever loves the bullies, do they? 61 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,760 Not something you typically think about, right? 62 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:05,330 But you know what? 63 00:05:05,330 --> 00:05:06,710 Jesus loves them. 64 00:05:06,710 --> 00:05:08,328 In fact, 65 00:05:08,328 --> 00:05:09,161 Jesus loved and approached 66 00:05:09,161 --> 00:05:10,320 the people who were looked down on the most 67 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:11,683 in the society of his day. 68 00:05:13,470 --> 00:05:16,330 The guy we're gonna take a look at was despised. 69 00:05:16,330 --> 00:05:17,163 Like a bully 70 00:05:17,163 --> 00:05:18,660 who might shake down someone for the lunch money, 71 00:05:18,660 --> 00:05:21,010 this guy would shake down people for extra money 72 00:05:21,010 --> 00:05:22,923 on top of what they owed in taxes. 73 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:25,390 His name was Zacchaeus 74 00:05:25,390 --> 00:05:28,160 and we're gonna look at how Jesus responded to this man. 75 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:29,760 Turn with me to Luke chapter 19. 76 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,107 - How was Sunday school boys? 77 00:05:37,107 --> 00:05:38,683 - Good. - Fine. 78 00:05:39,930 --> 00:05:40,880 - What'd you learn? 79 00:05:44,210 --> 00:05:47,540 John, what was the lesson about? 80 00:05:47,540 --> 00:05:48,373 - It was, 81 00:05:49,290 --> 00:05:51,340 he was talking about this short dude 82 00:05:51,340 --> 00:05:55,010 and I think his name was like Zach. 83 00:05:55,010 --> 00:05:56,390 - Zacchaeus? 84 00:05:56,390 --> 00:05:58,894 - Yeah, yeah, I think that was it. 85 00:05:58,894 --> 00:06:00,443 - What'd you learn about Zacchaeus? 86 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:02,950 - I don't remember. 87 00:06:03,970 --> 00:06:05,630 - How many times do I need to tell you 88 00:06:05,630 --> 00:06:08,330 you need to pay attention in class? 89 00:06:08,330 --> 00:06:10,780 Pastor Marcus brought this up several times. 90 00:06:10,780 --> 00:06:12,660 You need to pay attention in class 91 00:06:12,660 --> 00:06:15,520 and stop distracting other kids. 92 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:18,120 How many times do we have to have this conversation? 93 00:06:23,207 --> 00:06:26,360 - Then she came stomping down the stairs in a fury, 94 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,320 stomped her way into the living room 95 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,527 and got right up into her dad's face. 96 00:06:30,527 --> 00:06:33,727 "Why won't you let me go to the prom, " she exclaimed. 97 00:06:34,793 --> 00:06:37,460 (phone ringing) 98 00:06:39,330 --> 00:06:40,300 Hello? 99 00:06:40,300 --> 00:06:42,930 - [Dave] Hey John, you've got to come over, man. 100 00:06:42,930 --> 00:06:44,270 - Why, what's going on? 101 00:06:44,270 --> 00:06:46,543 - My brother invited us to a party tonight. 102 00:06:48,203 --> 00:06:49,279 - I don't know. 103 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:51,505 I'm kind of in the middle of something. 104 00:06:51,505 --> 00:06:52,990 - [Dave] You're not gonna want to miss this party, man. 105 00:06:52,990 --> 00:06:55,830 There's gonna be high school chicks there. 106 00:06:55,830 --> 00:06:56,850 - Really? 107 00:06:56,850 --> 00:06:58,300 - [Dave] Yeah, now come over. 108 00:07:00,139 --> 00:07:01,339 - All right, I'm coming. 109 00:07:02,602 --> 00:07:05,352 (hip hop music) 110 00:07:25,646 --> 00:07:26,479 - Why don't you guys take a look around, 111 00:07:26,479 --> 00:07:27,480 see if you know anybody? 112 00:07:28,843 --> 00:07:29,676 - Come on, let's go. 113 00:08:07,507 --> 00:08:09,300 - Hey, you guys want some of this? 114 00:08:09,300 --> 00:08:10,686 - No, thanks. 115 00:08:10,686 --> 00:08:11,952 - You sure man? 116 00:08:11,952 --> 00:08:13,995 What about you? 117 00:08:13,995 --> 00:08:16,263 - Yeah, yeah, I'll try. 118 00:08:18,764 --> 00:08:20,090 - Oh yeah dude, puff it up, bro. 119 00:08:22,471 --> 00:08:24,721 (coughing) 120 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,206 - It's good, man. 121 00:08:28,206 --> 00:08:29,209 Come on. 122 00:08:29,209 --> 00:08:30,542 - [Male] Try it. 123 00:08:34,661 --> 00:08:37,440 - Man, let me see that thing. 124 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,690 (coughing) 125 00:08:42,407 --> 00:08:44,990 (upbeat music) 126 00:08:57,766 --> 00:09:02,766 (knocking) (ominous music) 127 00:09:25,046 --> 00:09:27,796 - [Female] Jasmine, are you okay? 128 00:09:29,165 --> 00:09:30,332 What happened? 129 00:09:32,926 --> 00:09:34,926 - Please, lock the door. 130 00:09:39,687 --> 00:09:40,689 - [Female] Jasmine, talk to me. 131 00:09:40,689 --> 00:09:41,522 What happened? 132 00:09:44,860 --> 00:09:45,693 - I was raped. 133 00:09:47,853 --> 00:09:48,686 - What? 134 00:09:48,686 --> 00:09:53,223 Oh my God, Jasmine, I am so sorry. 135 00:09:54,070 --> 00:09:56,223 Is there anything, anything I can do? 136 00:10:00,450 --> 00:10:02,190 - Could you stay here a while? 137 00:10:03,751 --> 00:10:06,551 I really don't want to be alone right now. 138 00:10:06,551 --> 00:10:08,468 - Come here, come here. 139 00:10:10,689 --> 00:10:15,189 (crying) (sad music) 140 00:10:28,668 --> 00:10:29,953 - [Charles] So after that party, what happened? 141 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,313 - Dave and I continued smoking weed. 142 00:10:34,460 --> 00:10:36,881 And when we got bored with that, 143 00:10:36,881 --> 00:10:39,133 we started trying other things. 144 00:10:40,833 --> 00:10:43,723 That certainly didn't help things with my parents. 145 00:10:45,230 --> 00:10:47,180 Eventually, it reached a tipping point. 146 00:10:49,648 --> 00:10:52,513 I remember that day so clearly. 147 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:56,593 It was a few days before my 18th birthday, 148 00:10:58,026 --> 00:11:00,650 They gave me an ultimatum and I wasn't having it 149 00:11:00,650 --> 00:11:01,533 so I moved out. 150 00:11:02,849 --> 00:11:03,868 - [Charles] What did you do? 151 00:11:03,868 --> 00:11:04,701 How did you get by? 152 00:11:06,382 --> 00:11:08,232 - I thought I had it all figured out. 153 00:11:09,580 --> 00:11:11,660 I moved in with Dave and his brother 154 00:11:11,660 --> 00:11:14,493 and sure, things were fine for awhile. 155 00:11:15,820 --> 00:11:17,880 But then reality came. 156 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,620 We spent most of our money on drugs 157 00:11:20,620 --> 00:11:24,132 instead of on bills that needed to be paid. 158 00:11:24,132 --> 00:11:26,850 In fact, we even stole from neighbors a couple of times 159 00:11:26,850 --> 00:11:28,647 to come up with money. 160 00:11:28,647 --> 00:11:29,890 - Ugh. 161 00:11:29,890 --> 00:11:32,110 What about your family during this time? 162 00:11:32,110 --> 00:11:35,332 Did they try to reach out to you, try to help you? 163 00:11:35,332 --> 00:11:37,373 - Yeah, they tried. 164 00:11:39,660 --> 00:11:40,803 I just didn't respond. 165 00:11:41,910 --> 00:11:44,790 - Was there anything good that came out of that time? 166 00:11:44,790 --> 00:11:45,623 - Yeah. 167 00:11:46,810 --> 00:11:47,643 I met Kayla. 168 00:11:49,057 --> 00:11:53,453 Then her and I got married in April of 2008. 169 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:57,150 - Did things ever improve with your family? 170 00:11:58,210 --> 00:11:59,043 - A little bit. 171 00:12:00,270 --> 00:12:01,740 As much as I would allow. 172 00:12:01,740 --> 00:12:04,190 Do we really need to go to my parents' house today? 173 00:12:04,190 --> 00:12:05,993 - Yes, we made plans with them. 174 00:12:06,950 --> 00:12:08,727 - Why did I do that? 175 00:12:08,727 --> 00:12:10,303 Can we just cancel with them? 176 00:12:11,166 --> 00:12:14,060 - Look, you've already bought a gift. 177 00:12:14,060 --> 00:12:17,893 Let's just go, have dinner, and then we can leave, okay? 178 00:12:19,210 --> 00:12:20,043 - Yeah, okay. 179 00:12:22,180 --> 00:12:24,433 I'm 'bout to take the dog out. 180 00:12:24,433 --> 00:12:25,266 - Alright. 181 00:12:43,678 --> 00:12:46,095 (dark music) 182 00:13:19,825 --> 00:13:21,369 John, you ready to go? 183 00:13:21,369 --> 00:13:23,786 (dark music) 184 00:13:27,494 --> 00:13:29,414 (sighs) 185 00:13:29,414 --> 00:13:31,831 (dark music) 186 00:13:38,934 --> 00:13:39,767 John? 187 00:13:40,896 --> 00:13:43,313 (dark music) 188 00:13:48,876 --> 00:13:50,310 What are you doing? 189 00:13:50,310 --> 00:13:52,543 - The light was on in the garage. 190 00:13:59,728 --> 00:14:01,478 You ready to go? 191 00:14:01,478 --> 00:14:02,518 - Yeah. 192 00:14:02,518 --> 00:14:03,435 - Let's go. 193 00:14:08,881 --> 00:14:10,130 (knocking) 194 00:14:10,130 --> 00:14:13,280 - Hey guys, glad you could make it. 195 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:14,433 - Hey dad. - Hey. 196 00:14:17,692 --> 00:14:18,525 Kayla. - Hi. 197 00:14:20,328 --> 00:14:21,260 - Come on in. - Thanks. 198 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:35,713 - Hey guys. 199 00:14:36,670 --> 00:14:40,010 - Hey Gabe, still haven't moved out of here yet? 200 00:14:40,010 --> 00:14:41,615 - Not yet. 201 00:14:41,615 --> 00:14:43,340 - What are you, like 24? 202 00:14:43,340 --> 00:14:44,750 - 23. 203 00:14:44,750 --> 00:14:46,123 - What's the hold up, man? 204 00:14:47,300 --> 00:14:50,460 - Actually Gabe's working on that right now. 205 00:14:50,460 --> 00:14:53,393 - Oh yeah, how you doing that? 206 00:14:54,250 --> 00:14:56,083 - He's applying around to colleges. 207 00:14:57,580 --> 00:15:00,280 - What are you, his spokesperson, dad? 208 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:01,630 Let him answer for himself. 209 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:07,093 - John, Kayla. 210 00:15:08,504 --> 00:15:09,337 Hey. 211 00:15:09,337 --> 00:15:12,340 Oh, so good to see you. 212 00:15:12,340 --> 00:15:13,480 - Happy mother's day mom. 213 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:14,490 - Ah thanks. 214 00:15:14,490 --> 00:15:16,309 - Happy mother's day. 215 00:15:16,309 --> 00:15:17,309 - They're beautiful. 216 00:15:18,830 --> 00:15:20,483 So how are you two doing? 217 00:15:21,513 --> 00:15:23,900 - We're all right. - Yeah. 218 00:15:23,900 --> 00:15:26,060 - Well, come on in, make yourselves at home. 219 00:15:26,060 --> 00:15:27,233 Dinner's almost ready. 220 00:15:38,913 --> 00:15:40,663 - John, how's the job coming along? 221 00:15:41,510 --> 00:15:42,950 - It's a job. 222 00:15:42,950 --> 00:15:44,213 Nothing new to report. 223 00:15:47,885 --> 00:15:49,231 - Kayla, how about you? 224 00:15:49,231 --> 00:15:50,746 How's the dentist office treating you? 225 00:15:50,746 --> 00:15:52,493 - My job's going great, yeah. 226 00:15:57,194 --> 00:15:58,853 - Got to go to the bathroom. 227 00:15:58,853 --> 00:15:59,936 I'll be back. 228 00:16:09,448 --> 00:16:11,914 - So how was the drive over here, Kayla? 229 00:16:11,914 --> 00:16:13,710 - Oh, it was smooth. 230 00:16:13,710 --> 00:16:15,640 That was until we hit traffic. 231 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:18,090 I swear, couldn't it be just one time in the year 232 00:16:19,104 --> 00:16:19,937 where there's like no construction anywhere? 233 00:16:19,937 --> 00:16:21,940 Just one time, that's all I ask, you know? 234 00:16:23,119 --> 00:16:24,837 - Can you excuse me? 235 00:16:24,837 --> 00:16:25,670 - And maybe it's just me, 236 00:16:25,670 --> 00:16:27,530 but it seems like every time I get 237 00:16:27,530 --> 00:16:28,820 to one of those constructions, 238 00:16:28,820 --> 00:16:31,370 it's right when that sign flips to stop 239 00:16:31,370 --> 00:16:34,333 and then they make me sit there and wait like forever? 240 00:16:35,770 --> 00:16:37,590 You know what I mean? 241 00:16:37,590 --> 00:16:38,423 Yeah? 242 00:16:44,806 --> 00:16:47,639 (toilet flushing) 243 00:16:51,390 --> 00:16:52,440 - Hey dad, what's up? 244 00:16:53,430 --> 00:16:54,623 - Everything okay? 245 00:16:56,490 --> 00:16:57,693 - What do you mean? 246 00:16:59,140 --> 00:17:01,040 - You were in there for quite a while. 247 00:17:07,026 --> 00:17:10,230 - You think I was in there using drugs, don't you? 248 00:17:10,230 --> 00:17:12,314 - I didn't say that, did I? 249 00:17:12,314 --> 00:17:13,400 - You didn't have to say it. 250 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:15,002 I could see it on your face. 251 00:17:16,020 --> 00:17:18,733 Why is it every time I come over here, 252 00:17:18,733 --> 00:17:19,566 you got to do this to me, man? 253 00:17:19,566 --> 00:17:20,829 - I'm just trying to look out for you. 254 00:17:20,829 --> 00:17:22,720 - Oh yeah, by accusing me? 255 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:24,375 By trying to run my life? 256 00:17:24,375 --> 00:17:25,526 - I am not trying to run your life. 257 00:17:25,526 --> 00:17:26,538 - Really? 258 00:17:26,538 --> 00:17:27,531 - Yes really. 259 00:17:27,531 --> 00:17:28,364 - What is going on over here? 260 00:17:28,364 --> 00:17:30,423 - Nothing, we're leaving. 261 00:17:31,850 --> 00:17:35,770 Come on, get your purse. 262 00:17:35,770 --> 00:17:36,603 - What? - Come on. 263 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:38,893 - Please don't go. 264 00:17:40,495 --> 00:17:41,345 - I'm sorry, mom. 265 00:17:42,255 --> 00:17:46,672 (crying) (sad music) 266 00:18:14,154 --> 00:18:16,803 - Why did you get into it with him again? 267 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:21,550 - I'm sorry, I didn't intend to start an argument with him. 268 00:18:21,550 --> 00:18:23,040 - We've talked about this. 269 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,453 You've got to meet him where he's at. 270 00:18:29,470 --> 00:18:30,603 - How do you do it? 271 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:33,713 How do you talk to him? 272 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:38,767 - Try to make him see that you love him. 273 00:18:41,610 --> 00:18:42,860 - You're right. 274 00:18:43,834 --> 00:18:46,167 (sad music) 275 00:19:01,500 --> 00:19:03,940 - Wow, it's like clockwork. 276 00:19:03,940 --> 00:19:05,910 You're always out of here right at three. 277 00:19:05,910 --> 00:19:06,743 - Yep. 278 00:19:08,020 --> 00:19:09,200 - All right, I'll see you tomorrow, man. 279 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:10,243 - See you tomorrow. 280 00:19:12,354 --> 00:19:14,937 (gentle music) 281 00:19:37,326 --> 00:19:39,753 Hey man, hey, where's Dave at? 282 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:42,633 - Kitchen. 283 00:19:49,310 --> 00:19:50,953 - Hey buddy, how you doing? 284 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:53,093 - Hey Dave. 285 00:19:54,695 --> 00:19:55,893 - Got your stuff right here. 286 00:20:06,780 --> 00:20:10,563 Actually, I'm gonna need $150 from you this time. 287 00:20:12,369 --> 00:20:14,160 - I always pay $120 a gram. 288 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:15,010 - What can I say? 289 00:20:15,852 --> 00:20:16,685 The price has gone up. 290 00:20:18,028 --> 00:20:19,009 - You're gonna treat me 291 00:20:19,009 --> 00:20:20,153 like any of your other customers, man? 292 00:20:20,153 --> 00:20:21,303 Come on, we're friends. 293 00:20:22,412 --> 00:20:25,090 - It's business, John, nothing personal. 294 00:20:25,090 --> 00:20:27,533 It's $150, take it or leave it. 295 00:20:30,860 --> 00:20:32,593 - Can't believe I'm doing this. 296 00:20:37,250 --> 00:20:39,433 You know, there's other dealers I can go to. 297 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:43,520 - Yeah, but even at 150 bucks, 298 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,670 you're still getting a better deal from me. 299 00:20:46,890 --> 00:20:47,723 So quit whining. 300 00:20:49,287 --> 00:20:50,551 - Thanks, friend. 301 00:20:50,551 --> 00:20:51,637 - Any time, buddy. 302 00:20:56,855 --> 00:20:59,522 (ominous music) 303 00:21:13,959 --> 00:21:18,959 (grunting) (ominous music) 304 00:22:07,703 --> 00:22:10,650 - Where did you learn your survival skills? 305 00:22:10,650 --> 00:22:12,903 - [Male] Oh, I picked it up along the way through life. 306 00:22:14,215 --> 00:22:15,048 Who taught you to hunt? 307 00:22:17,335 --> 00:22:18,473 - I learned a little along the way. 308 00:22:20,017 --> 00:22:21,567 I'm mainly though, a scavenger. 309 00:22:45,260 --> 00:22:48,665 People need people though, that's how we're designed. 310 00:22:48,665 --> 00:22:51,740 I mean based off of how someone was raised 311 00:22:51,740 --> 00:22:54,373 or how their parents parented them. 312 00:23:05,850 --> 00:23:06,700 - What you doing? 313 00:23:07,827 --> 00:23:09,553 - What's it look like I'm doing? 314 00:23:11,399 --> 00:23:14,310 - You messing with that stupid novel again? 315 00:23:14,310 --> 00:23:16,470 Why do you even waste your time with that? 316 00:23:16,470 --> 00:23:18,630 - It's not a waste of time. 317 00:23:18,630 --> 00:23:20,380 I'm making progress. 318 00:23:20,380 --> 00:23:21,213 - Oh. 319 00:23:21,213 --> 00:23:23,036 - I wrote a page the other day. 320 00:23:23,036 --> 00:23:25,857 - Oh, well woopty doo, you wrote a page. 321 00:23:25,857 --> 00:23:27,340 John, you've been messing with that thing 322 00:23:27,340 --> 00:23:28,400 for as long as I've known you. 323 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:29,790 You're never gonna finish it. 324 00:23:29,790 --> 00:23:32,556 Just accept it, you're not a writer, honey. 325 00:23:32,556 --> 00:23:35,060 - What do you know Kayla? 326 00:23:35,060 --> 00:23:36,430 Just 'cause you have no ambitions, 327 00:23:36,430 --> 00:23:38,160 doesn't mean you got to trample all over mine. 328 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,428 - That is not true and you know it. 329 00:23:40,428 --> 00:23:42,040 - It is true and I know that. 330 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,033 You're still what, a receptionist? 331 00:23:44,033 --> 00:23:45,031 - So? 332 00:23:45,031 --> 00:23:45,870 - You said you wanted to be hygienist, right? 333 00:23:45,870 --> 00:23:47,271 - [Kayla] Yeah. 334 00:23:47,271 --> 00:23:48,284 - What's going on with that? 335 00:23:48,284 --> 00:23:49,117 - I'm still thinking about it. 336 00:23:49,117 --> 00:23:49,950 - Okay, but you're not doing. 337 00:23:49,950 --> 00:23:51,800 I'm doing something here. - I've been looking online. 338 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,080 - Yes, yes, are you looking to do it? 339 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,280 Get a book, start reading, start writing, 340 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:57,927 start pushing yourself. 341 00:23:57,927 --> 00:23:58,920 - What have you done for years? 342 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,289 Nothing! 343 00:24:00,289 --> 00:24:02,311 - I've listened to you run me into the ground. 344 00:24:02,311 --> 00:24:04,280 You're supposed to be my muse. 345 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,710 But every time you come around, I'm uninspired. 346 00:24:06,710 --> 00:24:08,510 I should be here showing you my work 347 00:24:08,510 --> 00:24:09,380 but I'm putting it away. 348 00:24:09,380 --> 00:24:10,590 - How is it my fault? 349 00:24:10,590 --> 00:24:11,743 - It's just your fault. 350 00:24:31,030 --> 00:24:33,447 (dark music) 351 00:25:33,799 --> 00:25:36,549 - Kayla, what are you doing here? 352 00:25:37,710 --> 00:25:38,793 - What am I doing here? 353 00:25:38,793 --> 00:25:39,833 What are you doing in here? 354 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,090 What's that behind your back? 355 00:25:43,090 --> 00:25:44,340 - It's just a socket set. 356 00:25:45,380 --> 00:25:47,292 - Then why are you hiding it behind your back? 357 00:25:47,292 --> 00:25:51,933 - I don't know, you scared me, just, see? 358 00:25:54,063 --> 00:25:55,513 I'm just organizing my tools. 359 00:25:57,870 --> 00:25:59,270 - This early in the morning? 360 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,460 Can I see what's inside the box? 361 00:26:03,460 --> 00:26:04,605 - Why? 362 00:26:04,605 --> 00:26:06,597 Since when are you interested in tools? 363 00:26:06,597 --> 00:26:10,150 - I'm not, I just want to see what's inside the box. 364 00:26:10,150 --> 00:26:12,300 - It's just a socket set, Kayla. 365 00:26:12,300 --> 00:26:15,190 - Then you shouldn't have any trouble showing it to me. 366 00:26:15,190 --> 00:26:18,142 - Why don't you just go back inside the house 367 00:26:18,142 --> 00:26:19,040 and leave me alone? 368 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,993 - No, not until you show me what's in that box. 369 00:26:25,500 --> 00:26:27,860 - I told you it was just a socket set. 370 00:26:27,860 --> 00:26:30,469 I shouldn't have to show you what's in this box. 371 00:26:30,469 --> 00:26:31,302 Let it go. 372 00:26:31,302 --> 00:26:32,363 Let it go, let it go. 373 00:26:32,363 --> 00:26:33,891 (glass breaking) 374 00:26:33,891 --> 00:26:36,391 (dark music) 375 00:26:42,776 --> 00:26:44,026 - What is that? 376 00:26:48,700 --> 00:26:49,600 - What do you think it is? 377 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,653 - If I knew, I wouldn't have asked you. 378 00:26:53,220 --> 00:26:55,993 Obviously it's some kind of drug. 379 00:26:57,510 --> 00:26:58,343 What kind? 380 00:27:00,983 --> 00:27:02,439 Answer me! 381 00:27:02,439 --> 00:27:04,459 - It's heroine. 382 00:27:04,459 --> 00:27:05,542 It's heroine. 383 00:27:09,601 --> 00:27:10,434 - How long you been doing this? 384 00:27:14,430 --> 00:27:15,263 - A long time. 385 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,273 - God, since before we met? 386 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:28,883 I can't believe you. 387 00:27:30,657 --> 00:27:32,557 You kept this from me the entire time? 388 00:27:37,105 --> 00:27:39,239 I don't even know who you are. 389 00:27:39,239 --> 00:27:41,800 (ominous music) 390 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:42,913 - Kayla, wait! 391 00:27:57,630 --> 00:27:58,580 What are you doing? 392 00:27:59,463 --> 00:28:00,465 - What does it look like? 393 00:28:00,465 --> 00:28:01,298 I'm leaving. 394 00:28:01,298 --> 00:28:02,481 - Why? 395 00:28:02,481 --> 00:28:03,484 We can work this out. 396 00:28:03,484 --> 00:28:05,760 - Oh, you think it's that simple, huh John? 397 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,610 You kept this from me for the entire time I've known you. 398 00:28:10,204 --> 00:28:11,870 How can I trust anything you say anymore? 399 00:28:17,475 --> 00:28:19,463 I'm going to my mother's house. 400 00:28:19,463 --> 00:28:22,073 - Kayla, how can I fix this? 401 00:28:23,740 --> 00:28:26,310 (dark music) 402 00:28:26,310 --> 00:28:27,143 Don't go. 403 00:28:28,060 --> 00:28:30,477 (dark music) 404 00:28:33,841 --> 00:28:34,674 Bye John. 405 00:28:35,783 --> 00:28:38,116 (sad music) 406 00:29:25,415 --> 00:29:27,998 (gentle music) 407 00:29:48,178 --> 00:29:49,261 - No, no way. 408 00:29:52,130 --> 00:29:54,713 (gentle music) 409 00:29:56,633 --> 00:29:59,115 - [Mother] It's gonna be all right, Jasmine. 410 00:29:59,115 --> 00:30:00,470 - How's it gonna be all right? 411 00:30:00,470 --> 00:30:02,711 - You're gonna go to that clinic 412 00:30:02,711 --> 00:30:05,159 and you're gonna take care of this. 413 00:30:05,159 --> 00:30:06,790 - So you really think I should? 414 00:30:06,790 --> 00:30:09,283 - I don't see that you have any other choice. 415 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:11,823 You're not ready to be a mother. 416 00:30:13,460 --> 00:30:14,410 - Your mom's right. 417 00:30:15,630 --> 00:30:17,277 You didn't ask for this 418 00:30:17,277 --> 00:30:19,177 and you shouldn't be burdened with it. 419 00:30:23,410 --> 00:30:25,230 - I don't know. 420 00:30:25,230 --> 00:30:26,580 - How would you support it? 421 00:30:28,534 --> 00:30:29,773 It's your only good option. 422 00:30:35,837 --> 00:30:38,120 - [Charles] So when your wife walked out, 423 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:39,863 how did you process that? 424 00:30:42,615 --> 00:30:43,763 - Anger, 425 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:46,903 self pity, 426 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:54,440 and honestly, I didn't want to take any of the blame for it. 427 00:30:58,957 --> 00:31:02,327 I made excuses for myself and I blamed everyone else, 428 00:31:04,500 --> 00:31:05,333 including her. 429 00:31:08,271 --> 00:31:09,104 But 430 00:31:12,098 --> 00:31:16,380 I couldn't deny that I wanted her back in my life. 431 00:31:20,514 --> 00:31:22,693 - Was there any kind of a wake up call for you? 432 00:31:24,420 --> 00:31:27,823 - No, quite the contrary, my friend. 433 00:31:29,650 --> 00:31:32,463 I actually spiraled further out of control. 434 00:31:35,575 --> 00:31:38,242 (ominous music) 435 00:32:26,970 --> 00:32:29,463 - Hi John, this is Rick calling again. 436 00:32:30,450 --> 00:32:33,050 I'm wondering why you didn't show up for work today. 437 00:32:34,511 --> 00:32:36,353 You need to call me back ASAP. 438 00:32:38,100 --> 00:32:38,933 Goodbye. 439 00:32:40,430 --> 00:32:43,180 (ominous music) 440 00:32:46,910 --> 00:32:48,320 Okay, alright. 441 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,883 I'll take care of it, yeah. 442 00:32:51,731 --> 00:32:52,564 I got to go. 443 00:32:52,564 --> 00:32:53,960 Come in. 444 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,853 John, close the door, have a seat. 445 00:33:02,430 --> 00:33:03,593 So where were you yesterday? 446 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,320 - I was at home sick. 447 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:08,920 - Why didn't you give us a call? 448 00:33:13,930 --> 00:33:17,150 - I guess I fell asleep 449 00:33:18,617 --> 00:33:21,360 and I lost track of time. 450 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,730 - Well, you know that's no excuse John. 451 00:33:23,730 --> 00:33:25,260 You know, you've got to give us a call 452 00:33:25,260 --> 00:33:26,563 no matter what the reason. 453 00:33:27,470 --> 00:33:28,913 Don't let this happen again. 454 00:33:30,390 --> 00:33:31,223 - I won't. 455 00:33:32,530 --> 00:33:33,363 - Alright. 456 00:33:36,620 --> 00:33:37,533 You okay? 457 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:39,950 You don't look so good. 458 00:33:41,758 --> 00:33:42,890 - I'm fine. 459 00:33:42,890 --> 00:33:43,723 I'm alright. 460 00:33:44,810 --> 00:33:45,643 - Okay. 461 00:33:46,900 --> 00:33:49,277 Well then you can get back to work. 462 00:34:03,794 --> 00:34:06,711 (dark piano music) 463 00:34:44,031 --> 00:34:46,956 (phone buzzing) - Call from John Yessima. 464 00:34:46,956 --> 00:34:51,956 Call from (phone buzzing) 465 00:34:58,171 --> 00:35:00,088 Call from John Yessima. 466 00:35:05,358 --> 00:35:07,358 (sighs) 467 00:35:10,601 --> 00:35:11,817 (beeping) 468 00:35:11,817 --> 00:35:12,650 - [Kayla] This is Kayla. 469 00:35:12,650 --> 00:35:14,574 Sorry you missed me, leave me a message. 470 00:35:14,574 --> 00:35:16,741 (beeping) 471 00:35:19,401 --> 00:35:21,818 (sadd music) 472 00:35:30,105 --> 00:35:31,543 - Gonna this weekend? 473 00:35:33,420 --> 00:35:34,253 - Nope. 474 00:35:37,690 --> 00:35:40,217 - John, is everything all right? 475 00:35:45,286 --> 00:35:47,586 - Just had a rough couple of days, that's all. 476 00:35:48,770 --> 00:35:50,978 - I'm sorry to hear that, man. 477 00:35:50,978 --> 00:35:52,613 Is there anything I can do to help? 478 00:35:57,050 --> 00:36:00,268 - There's nothing you can do for me, George. 479 00:36:00,268 --> 00:36:02,970 - You want to talk about it? 480 00:36:02,970 --> 00:36:03,803 - Nope. 481 00:36:06,213 --> 00:36:08,470 - Well, if you ever change your mind, 482 00:36:09,340 --> 00:36:10,540 I'd love to talk to you. 483 00:36:11,770 --> 00:36:14,290 I've been through some rough things myself, 484 00:36:14,290 --> 00:36:16,490 including some bad habits I had to overcome. 485 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,493 Maybe you can relate to my story in some way. 486 00:36:23,201 --> 00:36:24,493 - What kind of bad habits did you have? 487 00:36:25,803 --> 00:36:27,070 - You name it, man, 488 00:36:27,070 --> 00:36:31,763 alcohol, cocaine, prescription drugs. 489 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,420 I was in really bad shape, 490 00:36:35,609 --> 00:36:38,593 but the Lord came and rescued me when I was at my lowest. 491 00:36:40,090 --> 00:36:41,033 So what about you? 492 00:36:43,479 --> 00:36:45,529 Are you dealing with something like that? 493 00:36:47,490 --> 00:36:49,440 - I don't want to talk about it. 494 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,333 - All right, I respect that. 495 00:36:53,817 --> 00:36:54,993 Well if you decide you want to talk, 496 00:36:55,861 --> 00:36:56,730 you know where to find me. 497 00:36:57,977 --> 00:36:58,810 - Yeah. 498 00:37:05,404 --> 00:37:08,071 (ominous music) 499 00:37:39,215 --> 00:37:40,971 - [Male] John, you love your wife a lot, right? 500 00:37:40,971 --> 00:37:43,381 (phone buzzing) - Call from John. 501 00:37:43,381 --> 00:37:48,381 Call from John. 502 00:37:56,188 --> 00:38:00,230 - Hi John. 503 00:38:00,230 --> 00:38:01,063 - Hi, Kayla. 504 00:38:03,066 --> 00:38:03,899 - What is it, John? 505 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:07,250 - I just want to talk. 506 00:38:08,210 --> 00:38:09,643 - So talk. 507 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:15,467 - Well, how are you doing? 508 00:38:19,567 --> 00:38:21,117 - How am I doing? 509 00:38:21,117 --> 00:38:22,893 How do you think I'm doing? 510 00:38:23,910 --> 00:38:25,280 I found out a couple of days ago 511 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,240 that my husband is a drug addict. 512 00:38:27,240 --> 00:38:29,643 - Kayla, what can I do to say that I'm sorry? 513 00:38:31,730 --> 00:38:32,913 - Stop using drugs. 514 00:38:33,763 --> 00:38:34,596 - I will. 515 00:38:34,596 --> 00:38:35,962 I promise. 516 00:38:35,962 --> 00:38:37,363 - Yeah, I believe that when I see it. 517 00:38:38,287 --> 00:38:39,660 - [John] I will quit. 518 00:38:39,660 --> 00:38:42,033 - I don't trust you anymore, John. 519 00:38:43,290 --> 00:38:45,100 You've lied to me. 520 00:38:45,100 --> 00:38:49,000 - I know that I lied, but I'm not lying now. 521 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:52,549 - All of these years, you've lied to me. 522 00:38:52,549 --> 00:38:53,382 - I will quit. 523 00:38:56,229 --> 00:39:01,175 - Yeah, I heard all that before from my drunk dad. 524 00:39:01,175 --> 00:39:02,342 - I'm not him. 525 00:39:03,410 --> 00:39:04,243 I will quit. 526 00:39:08,820 --> 00:39:13,693 Can I come over there and talk to you in person? 527 00:39:14,550 --> 00:39:17,950 - No, I don't want to see you right now. 528 00:39:17,950 --> 00:39:19,250 - When then? 529 00:39:19,250 --> 00:39:22,810 - You stop using drugs and then we'll talk. 530 00:39:28,338 --> 00:39:29,640 I got to go, bye. 531 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:30,994 - [John] Wait, don't hang... 532 00:39:30,994 --> 00:39:33,327 (sad music) 533 00:39:54,508 --> 00:39:56,675 (yelling) 534 00:39:58,274 --> 00:40:01,024 (dramatic music) 535 00:41:14,098 --> 00:41:15,015 - Hey Dave. 536 00:41:18,054 --> 00:41:20,903 I'm gonna need you to deliver some more to my house. 537 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:24,400 I don't know, bring a bunch. 538 00:41:30,253 --> 00:41:33,703 All right, see you soon. 539 00:41:36,813 --> 00:41:39,480 (ominous music) 540 00:41:52,296 --> 00:41:54,546 (snorting) 541 00:41:56,291 --> 00:41:58,958 (ominous music) 542 00:42:08,218 --> 00:42:10,130 (knocking) 543 00:42:10,130 --> 00:42:11,130 - John you in there? 544 00:42:13,823 --> 00:42:15,420 (knocking) 545 00:42:15,420 --> 00:42:17,233 John, what's up, man? 546 00:42:18,437 --> 00:42:19,333 You want this stuff or not? 547 00:42:25,594 --> 00:42:28,011 (dark music) 548 00:42:29,538 --> 00:42:30,371 John, are you here? 549 00:42:36,157 --> 00:42:37,596 John? 550 00:42:37,596 --> 00:42:38,693 Come on John, wake up, man. 551 00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:44,137 (dark music) 552 00:42:51,901 --> 00:42:54,568 (phone ringing) 553 00:43:00,776 --> 00:43:03,526 (dramatic music) 554 00:43:07,126 --> 00:43:09,478 (crying) 555 00:43:09,478 --> 00:43:11,006 Is John in there? 556 00:43:11,006 --> 00:43:12,090 I'm his mom. 557 00:43:12,090 --> 00:43:14,222 - He's alive, but we need to leave 558 00:43:14,222 --> 00:43:15,790 for the hospital right now, okay? 559 00:43:15,790 --> 00:43:18,603 You're welcome to ride along, but we need to go now. 560 00:43:18,603 --> 00:43:19,766 - I'm gonna ride with them. 561 00:43:19,766 --> 00:43:20,785 Can you follow us? 562 00:43:20,785 --> 00:43:21,747 - Yeah. 563 00:43:21,747 --> 00:43:24,164 (dark music) 564 00:43:36,910 --> 00:43:38,745 - I called Gabe and Kayla 565 00:43:38,745 --> 00:43:41,030 and they're both on their way up here. 566 00:43:41,030 --> 00:43:43,020 - How is he? 567 00:43:43,020 --> 00:43:43,853 - He's stable. 568 00:43:44,882 --> 00:43:46,240 He's lucky the paramedics got there when they did. 569 00:43:46,240 --> 00:43:47,550 - How soon can we see him? 570 00:43:47,550 --> 00:43:48,440 - Soon. 571 00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:49,790 I'll come back out and let you know. 572 00:43:49,790 --> 00:43:51,486 - Thank you, doctor. 573 00:43:51,486 --> 00:43:52,836 - Thank you, appreciate it. 574 00:43:56,451 --> 00:43:59,368 (machines beeping) 575 00:44:02,046 --> 00:44:03,870 - [Gabe] Like I said, I'm glad he's fine in recovery. 576 00:44:03,870 --> 00:44:06,830 I'm only saying you guys have to face the facts here, 577 00:44:06,830 --> 00:44:10,523 John's a screw up and he's always gonna be a screw up. 578 00:44:10,523 --> 00:44:11,507 - Keep your voice down. 579 00:44:11,507 --> 00:44:13,209 He's right there. 580 00:44:13,209 --> 00:44:14,042 - [Gabe] I don't care if he hears me. 581 00:44:14,042 --> 00:44:15,810 John is not going to change. 582 00:44:15,810 --> 00:44:17,390 The sooner you guys realize that, 583 00:44:17,390 --> 00:44:19,523 the better off you're going to be. 584 00:44:19,523 --> 00:44:21,856 (sad music) 585 00:44:27,683 --> 00:44:28,516 - Morning, John. 586 00:44:30,250 --> 00:44:31,083 - Morning. 587 00:44:32,210 --> 00:44:33,310 - How are you feeling? 588 00:44:35,510 --> 00:44:36,343 - Miserable. 589 00:44:38,090 --> 00:44:39,540 How else should I be feeling? 590 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:46,783 So, where's everyone else? 591 00:44:48,190 --> 00:44:49,023 - They're here. 592 00:44:50,820 --> 00:44:53,310 - What, they don't want to come in and see me? 593 00:44:53,310 --> 00:44:55,623 - No, they do and they will. 594 00:44:59,235 --> 00:45:01,254 - What about Kayla? 595 00:45:01,254 --> 00:45:02,930 Is she here? 596 00:45:02,930 --> 00:45:03,983 - Yeah, she's here. 597 00:45:08,650 --> 00:45:09,700 - And what about you? 598 00:45:12,323 --> 00:45:13,156 - What about me? 599 00:45:16,471 --> 00:45:18,500 - You come here here to lecture me? 600 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:20,673 - No. 601 00:45:23,907 --> 00:45:24,850 - Then why are you the only one in here dad? 602 00:45:24,850 --> 00:45:25,803 What do you want? 603 00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:33,103 - Where do I begin? 604 00:45:39,350 --> 00:45:40,503 I'm sorry, John. 605 00:45:42,642 --> 00:45:43,559 - For what? 606 00:45:47,260 --> 00:45:49,623 - I'm sorry for being an absent father to you. 607 00:45:55,902 --> 00:45:58,552 My dad when I was younger was always too busy for me. 608 00:46:01,340 --> 00:46:04,293 He was hardly around and I barely got to know him. 609 00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,830 I promised myself when I had kids, 610 00:46:09,830 --> 00:46:13,580 I wouldn't do that, but I did 611 00:46:16,147 --> 00:46:17,123 and I have to own that. 612 00:46:18,686 --> 00:46:19,519 I'm sorry. 613 00:46:22,620 --> 00:46:26,840 So am asking can you forgive me 614 00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,643 for all the times that I've been a lousy father to you? 615 00:46:51,331 --> 00:46:52,164 Thank you. 616 00:46:53,755 --> 00:46:55,443 I love you, John. 617 00:46:57,465 --> 00:46:58,463 I hope you know that. 618 00:47:00,630 --> 00:47:02,320 I'll send the others in. 619 00:47:12,371 --> 00:47:14,454 (crying) 620 00:47:32,350 --> 00:47:33,267 - Love you. 621 00:47:40,585 --> 00:47:41,418 - I love you, John. 622 00:47:42,430 --> 00:47:43,263 - See you later. 623 00:47:49,043 --> 00:47:51,710 (phone ringing) 624 00:48:00,630 --> 00:48:01,503 Hey Dave. 625 00:48:02,420 --> 00:48:04,953 - [Dave] John, how's it going? 626 00:48:04,953 --> 00:48:06,740 - Fine, what do you want? 627 00:48:06,740 --> 00:48:08,250 - Come on, man. 628 00:48:08,250 --> 00:48:11,123 Is that any way to talk to the friend who saved your life? 629 00:48:12,030 --> 00:48:13,430 - So is that why you called? 630 00:48:14,590 --> 00:48:17,140 - Well then, because we never got to make our deal. 631 00:48:17,980 --> 00:48:19,563 - It's not gonna happen, man. 632 00:48:21,246 --> 00:48:24,010 Ruined my marriage, it almost killed me. 633 00:48:24,010 --> 00:48:26,450 - Well, you're fine now, aren't you? 634 00:48:26,450 --> 00:48:29,913 What you think you're the only one who's ever overdosed? 635 00:48:30,810 --> 00:48:31,810 Happens all the time 636 00:48:31,810 --> 00:48:33,840 and people get right back on their feet. 637 00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,053 - The answer's no, Dave. 638 00:48:36,250 --> 00:48:39,160 Don't ever bring that stuff over here again, you got it? 639 00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:40,543 - Come on, John. 640 00:48:48,142 --> 00:48:51,913 - John, where you been the past couple days? 641 00:48:51,913 --> 00:48:54,040 - Long story, George. 642 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,390 - I better warn you, Rick is really mad at you. 643 00:48:58,425 --> 00:49:00,913 Don't look now but here he comes. 644 00:49:04,163 --> 00:49:05,960 - Meet me in my office, John. 645 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:07,333 You and I need to talk. 646 00:49:23,710 --> 00:49:24,910 - So what happened, man? 647 00:49:27,630 --> 00:49:29,040 - What's it look like, man? 648 00:49:30,627 --> 00:49:31,460 He fired me. 649 00:49:37,390 --> 00:49:38,640 Nice knowing you, George. 650 00:49:39,890 --> 00:49:43,523 - Well hey, it doesn't have to end like that. 651 00:49:43,523 --> 00:49:45,067 Get a hold of me sometime. 652 00:49:45,067 --> 00:49:46,146 I don't know, maybe we hang out 653 00:49:46,146 --> 00:49:46,979 and get a burger or something. 654 00:49:48,425 --> 00:49:49,592 - Yeah, maybe. 655 00:50:30,011 --> 00:50:32,678 (ominous music) 656 00:50:50,310 --> 00:50:52,560 (knocking) 657 00:50:58,590 --> 00:51:00,053 - Come on, John, I know you're in there. 658 00:51:01,637 --> 00:51:03,233 Come on, open the door. 659 00:51:05,882 --> 00:51:08,132 (knocking) 660 00:51:09,580 --> 00:51:11,223 - What do you want, Dave? 661 00:51:12,570 --> 00:51:15,080 - I'm just stopping by to see how you're doing. 662 00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:16,030 Come on, let me in. 663 00:51:21,140 --> 00:51:22,700 What's going on man? 664 00:51:22,700 --> 00:51:24,400 You don't got time for me anymore? 665 00:51:35,201 --> 00:51:38,803 - All right, get to the point, Dave. 666 00:51:40,100 --> 00:51:43,353 - Well, I thought you might like to see my new product. 667 00:51:47,141 --> 00:51:49,030 - I told you not to bring that stuff over here. 668 00:51:49,030 --> 00:51:51,233 - Sure, man but I know you better than that. 669 00:51:52,990 --> 00:51:55,440 - Well you're just wasting your time anyway, man. 670 00:51:57,582 --> 00:51:59,107 I just got fired from my job 671 00:51:59,107 --> 00:52:02,573 so you won't be able to make much money off of me. 672 00:52:03,462 --> 00:52:06,370 - That's okay because tonight it's on the house. 673 00:52:06,370 --> 00:52:08,040 I thought you and I could do a line together 674 00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:09,183 for old time's sake. 675 00:52:11,450 --> 00:52:12,710 Man, I'm telling you, 676 00:52:12,710 --> 00:52:16,533 this stuff is the best high you'll ever have. 677 00:52:23,780 --> 00:52:26,430 Johnny, I thought maybe you'd like to have this back. 678 00:52:29,945 --> 00:52:32,612 (ominous music) 679 00:52:56,686 --> 00:52:59,422 I knew you'd come around. 680 00:52:59,422 --> 00:53:02,089 (ominous music) 681 00:53:28,342 --> 00:53:31,009 (gentle music) 682 00:54:02,025 --> 00:54:03,358 - I'm worthless. 683 00:54:08,222 --> 00:54:10,555 God, if you're really there, 684 00:54:16,308 --> 00:54:17,141 show me. 685 00:54:18,513 --> 00:54:20,846 (sad music) 686 00:54:45,683 --> 00:54:46,516 - [George] Hi, John. 687 00:54:46,516 --> 00:54:47,690 I hope you read this. 688 00:54:47,690 --> 00:54:49,030 I slipped this into your lunch bag 689 00:54:49,030 --> 00:54:50,760 while you were meeting with Rick. 690 00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:54,193 My number is 248-555-0199. 691 00:54:55,290 --> 00:54:58,040 I would like to meet up sometime and tell you my story. 692 00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,870 Or if you just want to call and talk, that's fine too. 693 00:55:00,870 --> 00:55:02,513 Your friend, George. 694 00:55:33,726 --> 00:55:34,726 - Hi George. 695 00:55:39,726 --> 00:55:41,476 I'm hanging in there. 696 00:55:45,679 --> 00:55:49,846 I found the message that you left in my lunch bag. 697 00:55:53,140 --> 00:55:53,973 Yeah. 698 00:55:58,108 --> 00:55:59,253 Yeah. 699 00:56:01,969 --> 00:56:02,973 Let's do that. 700 00:56:07,684 --> 00:56:08,517 - So then I tell Rick, 701 00:56:08,517 --> 00:56:11,290 for all I know he's climbing on Mount Everest right now. 702 00:56:11,290 --> 00:56:14,369 So then he stares at me and doesn't even crack a smile. 703 00:56:14,369 --> 00:56:16,169 Then he turns around and walks away. 704 00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,033 All right, enough about work. 705 00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:26,520 So what made you decide to meet with me for lunch 706 00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:27,353 anyway, John? 707 00:56:34,050 --> 00:56:35,363 - My life's a mess, man. 708 00:56:38,846 --> 00:56:39,773 I feel hopeless. 709 00:56:43,550 --> 00:56:46,467 I don't know what to do about that. 710 00:56:48,230 --> 00:56:49,330 - I know that feeling. 711 00:56:50,370 --> 00:56:51,203 I've been there. 712 00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:54,820 - What did you do? 713 00:56:57,949 --> 00:56:59,799 - Well, it took me a while to see it, 714 00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:03,400 but eventually I realized I needed help. 715 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:05,880 I was getting nowhere on my own. 716 00:57:08,470 --> 00:57:10,670 - So how did you get help? 717 00:57:10,670 --> 00:57:11,503 - You remember when I told you 718 00:57:11,503 --> 00:57:13,563 I was going through some rough things, right? 719 00:57:15,100 --> 00:57:16,637 Can I tell you about it? 720 00:57:19,710 --> 00:57:20,543 - Sure. 721 00:57:21,500 --> 00:57:22,333 - All right. 722 00:57:24,250 --> 00:57:29,250 Well, I grew up with a abusive drug dealer for a father. 723 00:57:30,930 --> 00:57:32,950 And even though we despised him, 724 00:57:32,950 --> 00:57:34,870 my brother and I followed his example. 725 00:57:34,870 --> 00:57:36,750 But using and dealing drugs 726 00:57:36,750 --> 00:57:40,240 eventually landed me in prison on a three year sentence. 727 00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:42,080 Yeah, I was miserable. 728 00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:43,370 And believe me at that time, 729 00:57:43,370 --> 00:57:44,970 I wanted nothing to do with God, 730 00:57:45,969 --> 00:57:48,763 but that didn't stop God from reaching out to me. 731 00:57:50,164 --> 00:57:52,064 You see, there was this preacher there 732 00:57:52,990 --> 00:57:55,326 and he would come to the prison every week 733 00:57:55,326 --> 00:57:58,000 and share his testimony and hold Bible studies. 734 00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:00,220 He would tell us how God changed him 735 00:58:00,220 --> 00:58:02,420 and took him from being thief to a preacher. 736 00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,080 Yeah, I was still skeptical, 737 00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,990 but I saw joy and peace in this guy that I couldn't ignore. 738 00:58:10,612 --> 00:58:15,612 So a few years later, I find myself a free man, 739 00:58:18,470 --> 00:58:19,720 but I wasn't really free. 740 00:58:20,890 --> 00:58:22,170 After being clean for a few weeks, 741 00:58:22,170 --> 00:58:23,873 I went right back to using drugs. 742 00:58:25,210 --> 00:58:27,410 I bounced from one job to another, 743 00:58:27,410 --> 00:58:30,010 making a enough to survive and supply my drug habit. 744 00:58:32,500 --> 00:58:34,823 Eventually I got evicted from my apartment. 745 00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:39,590 So I stumbled my way over to this Christian run rehab clinic 746 00:58:39,590 --> 00:58:41,340 and while I was there, 747 00:58:41,340 --> 00:58:43,290 this Christian therapist befriended me. 748 00:58:44,274 --> 00:58:46,653 He also told me how Jesus changed him. 749 00:58:47,902 --> 00:58:49,430 And you know what? 750 00:58:49,430 --> 00:58:50,680 I started to believe him. 751 00:58:52,004 --> 00:58:54,153 And I realized Jesus could do the same for me. 752 00:58:55,460 --> 00:58:57,010 He told me that I needed to make Jesus 753 00:58:57,010 --> 00:58:59,883 the Lord and savior of my life and so I did. 754 00:59:01,281 --> 00:59:02,114 And it's true, 755 00:59:02,114 --> 00:59:05,000 Jesus has completely changed my life. 756 00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:07,403 It didn't happen overnight, but it happened. 757 00:59:09,430 --> 00:59:13,820 I am now a different person today and with God's help, 758 00:59:13,820 --> 00:59:16,420 I made it through rehab and eventually stayed clean. 759 00:59:18,150 --> 00:59:20,893 The Lord can help you too, John, and he wants to, 760 00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,250 but he isn't gonna force his way into your life, 761 00:59:24,250 --> 00:59:25,403 you have to let him in. 762 00:59:33,406 --> 00:59:35,213 - Tell me more about this rehab place. 763 00:59:36,259 --> 00:59:37,700 - They have an awesome staff there 764 00:59:37,700 --> 00:59:38,920 that treat you with love and dignity 765 00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,120 and they recognize their great value to God. 766 00:59:42,081 --> 00:59:44,230 They want to see lives change through him. 767 00:59:44,230 --> 00:59:46,063 They'll be a huge help to you, John. 768 00:59:48,601 --> 00:59:49,851 Think about it. 769 00:59:52,694 --> 00:59:55,361 (phone ringing) 770 00:59:59,580 --> 01:00:00,413 - Hello? 771 01:00:01,300 --> 01:00:04,213 - Hey Jasmine, I have some bad news. 772 01:00:06,070 --> 01:00:07,070 Our car won't start. 773 01:00:09,423 --> 01:00:10,763 - Please tell me you're joking. 774 01:00:12,281 --> 01:00:14,148 - [Dad] No, I'm not. 775 01:00:14,148 --> 01:00:15,145 - Of all the days, 776 01:00:15,145 --> 01:00:17,645 your car chooses today to break down? 777 01:00:17,645 --> 01:00:19,380 - I don't know what to tell you. 778 01:00:19,380 --> 01:00:21,124 Maybe you could reschedule. 779 01:00:21,124 --> 01:00:23,182 - No, no, I'm not rescheduling. 780 01:00:23,182 --> 01:00:24,520 I want this done and over with. 781 01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:25,720 I'll just catch the bus. 782 01:00:27,124 --> 01:00:28,250 - Jasmine, your mother and I 783 01:00:28,250 --> 01:00:31,010 really wanted to be there with you today. 784 01:00:31,010 --> 01:00:31,843 - I know. 785 01:00:34,825 --> 01:00:36,622 - We love you. 786 01:00:36,622 --> 01:00:37,872 - Love you too. 787 01:00:52,260 --> 01:00:54,041 Excuse me, do you mind if I sit right here, dear? 788 01:00:54,041 --> 01:00:54,874 - Not at all, dear. 789 01:01:03,102 --> 01:01:04,150 How far along are you? 790 01:01:04,150 --> 01:01:05,143 - Excuse me? 791 01:01:06,950 --> 01:01:10,210 - You're not showing very much, but trust me, 792 01:01:10,210 --> 01:01:12,383 I know when someone's pregnant. 793 01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:16,563 - I'm a little over four months. 794 01:01:17,820 --> 01:01:20,523 - I always wondered what it would be like to have a child. 795 01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:30,286 So you get to find out what it's like in five months, 796 01:01:30,286 --> 01:01:32,353 assuming this is your first child. 797 01:01:35,821 --> 01:01:37,223 Is this is your first child? 798 01:01:38,087 --> 01:01:39,380 - You know, I really don't want to talk about this. 799 01:01:39,380 --> 01:01:40,883 - Okay, I won't press you. 800 01:01:55,490 --> 01:01:56,773 Where are you headed? 801 01:01:57,697 --> 01:01:58,530 - Does it matter? 802 01:01:59,420 --> 01:02:01,443 - You certainly don't have to tell me. 803 01:02:02,630 --> 01:02:04,233 I'm just making conversation. 804 01:02:11,550 --> 01:02:14,223 Do you want to know why I don't have any children? 805 01:02:15,140 --> 01:02:16,830 I was pregnant once, 806 01:02:16,830 --> 01:02:19,140 I was about your age. 807 01:02:19,140 --> 01:02:21,750 I decided I didn't want the baby, 808 01:02:21,750 --> 01:02:24,423 so I went to the clinic and I had an abortion. 809 01:02:27,570 --> 01:02:29,980 Now I know God has forgiven me, 810 01:02:29,980 --> 01:02:31,830 but I've never forgotten about it. 811 01:02:31,830 --> 01:02:34,143 I wish I could take it back, but I can't. 812 01:02:35,741 --> 01:02:37,373 I hope you don't make that same mistake. 813 01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:41,407 Think about what I said before you go through with it. 814 01:02:42,797 --> 01:02:45,130 (sad music) 815 01:02:54,034 --> 01:02:54,867 - So what was it about George 816 01:02:54,867 --> 01:02:56,550 that influenced you to go to rehab? 817 01:02:57,730 --> 01:03:00,723 - George didn't seem like a former addict to me, you know? 818 01:03:01,811 --> 01:03:04,310 He seemed so different 819 01:03:04,310 --> 01:03:06,980 from the former life that he described to me. 820 01:03:06,980 --> 01:03:11,290 So I concluded that it must have been rehab 821 01:03:11,290 --> 01:03:12,530 that did that for him. 822 01:03:12,530 --> 01:03:15,000 - But he did credit Jesus, right? 823 01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:17,223 - Right and I didn't believe him. 824 01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,260 - So here you are 825 01:03:21,260 --> 01:03:23,653 ready to enter this Christian run rehab clinic. 826 01:03:24,780 --> 01:03:27,230 What were your thoughts before you went in there? 827 01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:31,003 - I kept trying to psych myself up, 828 01:03:32,186 --> 01:03:36,690 telling myself if George could do it, I can do it. 829 01:03:36,690 --> 01:03:37,860 - All right, gentlemen, 830 01:03:37,860 --> 01:03:39,800 we have a copy of the schedule 831 01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:41,230 posted out here in the hallway. 832 01:03:41,230 --> 01:03:44,823 Breakfast is at seven, followed by morning meds. 833 01:03:46,137 --> 01:03:47,120 Here's a list of classes, 834 01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:50,000 as well as group and individual therapy sessions. 835 01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:51,720 Now if you need anything at all, 836 01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:54,820 you come find me or one of the other techs. 837 01:03:54,820 --> 01:03:56,220 We'll be glad to assist you. 838 01:03:57,077 --> 01:03:57,910 - All right. 839 01:03:57,910 --> 01:03:58,910 - [Tech] See you around John. 840 01:03:58,910 --> 01:03:59,810 It's good to meet you. 841 01:03:59,810 --> 01:04:00,643 - You too. 842 01:04:02,550 --> 01:04:03,870 - George, you're a good man. 843 01:04:03,870 --> 01:04:04,703 Thank you. 844 01:04:05,750 --> 01:04:06,717 - Ready? 845 01:04:06,717 --> 01:04:07,733 I'll be praying for you, brother. 846 01:04:10,890 --> 01:04:14,550 - Wow, this place brings back memories. 847 01:04:14,550 --> 01:04:15,550 That's a good thing. 848 01:04:16,570 --> 01:04:18,563 This is where everything turned around for me. 849 01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:21,573 - Honestly, George, 850 01:04:24,950 --> 01:04:26,150 I'm having second thoughts 851 01:04:26,150 --> 01:04:28,570 about this whole rehab thing, man. 852 01:04:28,570 --> 01:04:30,020 - You're gonna be fine, John. 853 01:04:30,974 --> 01:04:33,570 I felt the same way when I first came in here. 854 01:04:33,570 --> 01:04:35,170 You have my number. 855 01:04:35,170 --> 01:04:36,453 You can call me anytime. 856 01:04:37,710 --> 01:04:40,137 Believe me, John, I have your back 857 01:04:40,137 --> 01:04:42,100 and the people in here, they're great. 858 01:04:42,100 --> 01:04:44,150 They'll do whatever they can to help you. 859 01:04:48,275 --> 01:04:49,630 (knocking) 860 01:04:49,630 --> 01:04:50,463 - Come in. 861 01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:56,243 Good afternoon, John. 862 01:04:58,540 --> 01:04:59,890 Come on in and have a seat. 863 01:05:02,432 --> 01:05:05,193 So how are you feeling today? 864 01:05:06,110 --> 01:05:07,410 - How do you think I feel? 865 01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:11,190 - I understand if you're not in a good mood, John. 866 01:05:11,190 --> 01:05:14,511 There's nothing easy about detoxing from drugs. 867 01:05:14,511 --> 01:05:17,283 But you're here, that's what counts. 868 01:05:18,670 --> 01:05:21,403 But I have to ask, why did you decide to come here? 869 01:05:22,510 --> 01:05:24,910 - I don't see any other way to get my life back. 870 01:05:26,050 --> 01:05:27,100 - Tell me about that. 871 01:05:28,060 --> 01:05:29,813 What have you lost in your life? 872 01:05:31,210 --> 01:05:36,210 - Well, let's see my wife, my job, my health. 873 01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:39,313 What haven't I lost? 874 01:05:40,421 --> 01:05:42,960 - I'm sorry to hear that, John. 875 01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:44,323 That's a lot to deal with. 876 01:05:45,874 --> 01:05:49,537 Now I want to ask you some things about your family 877 01:05:49,537 --> 01:05:50,370 if that's okay. 878 01:05:50,370 --> 01:05:51,890 - Go ahead. 879 01:05:51,890 --> 01:05:55,530 - Are you close with your parents or brother? 880 01:05:55,530 --> 01:05:56,363 - No. 881 01:05:57,560 --> 01:05:59,784 - How do you feel when you're around them? 882 01:05:59,784 --> 01:06:02,150 - I don't know. 883 01:06:02,150 --> 01:06:07,150 I mean, I'm not around 'em much, but when I am, 884 01:06:08,162 --> 01:06:11,523 I want the visit to end as quickly as possible. 885 01:06:12,584 --> 01:06:13,417 - I see. 886 01:06:14,264 --> 01:06:16,323 And why is it you don't want to be around them? 887 01:06:17,990 --> 01:06:19,363 - It's been a long time, 888 01:06:20,300 --> 01:06:25,224 but I guess it all started 889 01:06:25,224 --> 01:06:28,973 when I had a falling out with my parents as a teenager. 890 01:06:29,842 --> 01:06:31,123 - Tell me about that. 891 01:06:33,870 --> 01:06:38,000 - I remember I felt like they wanted to control me, 892 01:06:45,220 --> 01:06:47,580 especially my dad. 893 01:06:47,580 --> 01:06:49,821 - In what way did they control you? 894 01:06:49,821 --> 01:06:51,190 - I don't know. 895 01:06:51,190 --> 01:06:54,230 Stuff like making me go to church, 896 01:06:54,230 --> 01:06:56,690 trying to keep me from my friends, 897 01:06:56,690 --> 01:06:59,090 setting ridiculous curfews. 898 01:06:59,090 --> 01:07:02,463 And they yelled at me all the time. 899 01:07:04,550 --> 01:07:08,270 Do you think that actions were motivated out of concern 900 01:07:08,270 --> 01:07:10,763 or did they just enjoy telling you what to do? 901 01:07:13,460 --> 01:07:14,873 - Probably out of concern. 902 01:07:18,460 --> 01:07:20,520 - Let's digress a little. 903 01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:23,930 You were adopted, right? 904 01:07:23,930 --> 01:07:25,538 - Yes. 905 01:07:25,538 --> 01:07:28,936 - Have you ever met your biological mother or father? 906 01:07:28,936 --> 01:07:30,790 - No. 907 01:07:30,790 --> 01:07:31,840 - Have you wanted to? 908 01:07:33,826 --> 01:07:38,826 - My birth mom, yes, but not my birth dad. 909 01:07:40,810 --> 01:07:43,033 - Why not your birth dad? 910 01:07:46,770 --> 01:07:51,583 - Because he raped my mom. 911 01:07:57,180 --> 01:07:58,730 - I'm sorry to hear that, John. 912 01:08:00,570 --> 01:08:02,920 I can tell that is a sensitive subject for you. 913 01:08:04,653 --> 01:08:05,630 We don't have to talk about that right now 914 01:08:05,630 --> 01:08:06,680 if you don't want to. 915 01:08:10,940 --> 01:08:12,790 - I never talked to anyone about that 916 01:08:14,610 --> 01:08:15,710 other than my parents. 917 01:08:17,357 --> 01:08:20,493 - Well, I'm here to help John, if you want to talk about it, 918 01:08:24,069 --> 01:08:26,940 - I don't even know where to begin with that. 919 01:08:26,940 --> 01:08:29,663 - Well, how old were you 920 01:08:29,663 --> 01:08:31,792 when you found out about the assault? 921 01:08:34,059 --> 01:08:35,510 - I'll never forget that day. 922 01:08:38,587 --> 01:08:41,219 It was right after my 15th birthday. 923 01:08:43,059 --> 01:08:46,719 - What were you feeling when you first found out about it? 924 01:08:46,719 --> 01:08:50,657 - Uh, confused, angry. 925 01:08:56,639 --> 01:08:58,603 Up until that point, 926 01:08:58,603 --> 01:09:01,219 I barely knew anything about my birth mom 927 01:09:02,130 --> 01:09:05,303 and nothing about my birth dad. 928 01:09:08,399 --> 01:09:09,700 I used to wonder about him 929 01:09:11,969 --> 01:09:16,969 But after that, I hated him. 930 01:09:23,870 --> 01:09:28,870 I always used to ask myself why my birth mom gave me up. 931 01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:36,413 But suddenly it all made sense to me. 932 01:09:42,895 --> 01:09:45,062 It made me feel worthless, 933 01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:55,233 like I was a big mistake. 934 01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:01,883 - You're not a mistake, John. 935 01:10:04,064 --> 01:10:05,414 And you're not your father. 936 01:10:07,150 --> 01:10:10,850 You've been created in the image of God 937 01:10:10,850 --> 01:10:12,740 and he loves you and values you 938 01:10:13,869 --> 01:10:15,543 regardless of where you came from. 939 01:10:18,184 --> 01:10:20,413 I really hope that you'll come to accept that. 940 01:10:21,710 --> 01:10:24,583 - Yeah, me too. 941 01:11:00,719 --> 01:11:02,280 - Gabe. 942 01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:03,112 - John. 943 01:11:05,990 --> 01:11:07,900 - All right, well, 944 01:11:07,900 --> 01:11:10,240 I want to thank the three of you for coming in here 945 01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:12,593 to join John and have this talk as a family. 946 01:11:14,180 --> 01:11:16,469 John, I want to start 947 01:11:16,469 --> 01:11:18,790 by asking you to share your thoughts with your family 948 01:11:18,790 --> 01:11:19,903 about why you're here. 949 01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:22,952 - Well, 950 01:11:27,660 --> 01:11:32,630 my life is a mess and 951 01:11:36,460 --> 01:11:38,260 I needed to do something about that. 952 01:11:39,752 --> 01:11:42,187 So I'm here 953 01:11:44,557 --> 01:11:47,974 and I hope that you guys will support me. 954 01:11:51,517 --> 01:11:53,432 - Of course, we'll support you John. 955 01:11:53,432 --> 01:11:55,073 - And we're 100% behind you. 956 01:11:56,317 --> 01:11:58,517 - Yeah, I mean, we're all here for you, man. 957 01:12:01,799 --> 01:12:06,799 - Now, I want each of you to take turns 958 01:12:07,634 --> 01:12:09,300 expressing how you feel towards John 959 01:12:09,300 --> 01:12:10,133 and how you would like 960 01:12:10,133 --> 01:12:13,309 to see your relationship improve with him 961 01:12:13,309 --> 01:12:14,383 and as a family. 962 01:12:16,023 --> 01:12:18,743 Gabe, let's start with you. 963 01:12:21,130 --> 01:12:25,183 - Well, it's good you're getting help. 964 01:12:27,565 --> 01:12:30,173 So how do I feel toward you? 965 01:12:31,148 --> 01:12:33,963 I guess I feel distant, 966 01:12:34,850 --> 01:12:35,683 that's all I can think of. 967 01:12:36,929 --> 01:12:40,210 Would you like to expound on that a little, Gabe? 968 01:12:40,210 --> 01:12:42,483 Why do you feel distant from John? 969 01:12:45,385 --> 01:12:47,903 - I used to look up to you when I was younger, 970 01:12:49,340 --> 01:12:52,698 but then one day you up and left 971 01:12:52,698 --> 01:12:54,340 and it's like you wanted nothing else to do with me 972 01:12:54,340 --> 01:12:55,173 after that. 973 01:12:56,630 --> 01:12:57,710 Why man? 974 01:12:57,710 --> 01:12:59,350 Why did you disown us? 975 01:12:59,350 --> 01:13:01,540 What did we do to drive you away? 976 01:13:01,540 --> 01:13:03,043 Or was it that you cared more about drugs 977 01:13:03,043 --> 01:13:04,923 than you cared about us? 978 01:13:09,393 --> 01:13:12,376 What, you're not going to answer me? 979 01:13:12,376 --> 01:13:13,395 - [Mother] Gabe. 980 01:13:13,395 --> 01:13:15,030 - Well, why isn't he answering me? 981 01:13:15,030 --> 01:13:17,782 What did we do to drive you away? 982 01:13:20,770 --> 01:13:22,202 - You didn't do anything. 983 01:13:26,230 --> 01:13:27,130 None of you did. 984 01:13:29,816 --> 01:13:33,032 I just stopped caring about everything. 985 01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:37,030 - You stopped caring about everything, 986 01:13:37,030 --> 01:13:38,713 including your family? 987 01:13:39,950 --> 01:13:43,040 So where do we stand with you now, John? 988 01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:45,830 - Let's try to keep our tone constructive. 989 01:13:45,830 --> 01:13:47,938 - I asked him a simple question. 990 01:13:47,938 --> 01:13:49,000 - I know you're angry 991 01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:51,770 but let's try to keep a civil tone. 992 01:13:51,770 --> 01:13:52,779 - You know what? 993 01:13:52,779 --> 01:13:53,778 This whole thing is stupid. 994 01:13:53,778 --> 01:13:55,000 I don't even know why I'm here. 995 01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:56,380 - Gabe. 996 01:13:56,380 --> 01:13:57,333 - [Gabe] This isn't helping anything. 997 01:14:02,020 --> 01:14:03,177 - I'll go talk to him. 998 01:14:13,442 --> 01:14:16,920 - You know, he's right about me. 999 01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:18,620 What he said back at the hospital, 1000 01:14:21,141 --> 01:14:22,023 I'm a worthless screw up. 1001 01:14:23,070 --> 01:14:24,163 No dad, I am. 1002 01:14:25,600 --> 01:14:28,400 I don't even know why the two of you would stick around. 1003 01:14:29,464 --> 01:14:32,650 - John, we may not approve of everything you do, 1004 01:14:32,650 --> 01:14:33,670 but we love you 1005 01:14:34,650 --> 01:14:36,452 and nothing's going to change that. 1006 01:14:37,740 --> 01:14:39,487 We'll never give up on you. 1007 01:14:40,482 --> 01:14:42,815 (sad music) 1008 01:14:52,999 --> 01:14:55,832 (inspiring music) 1009 01:15:13,769 --> 01:15:14,602 (knocking) 1010 01:15:14,602 --> 01:15:15,434 - Come in. 1011 01:15:17,260 --> 01:15:20,160 - John, my friend, ready to grab some lunch? 1012 01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:21,673 - Yeah, I'm ready. 1013 01:15:22,537 --> 01:15:25,068 - Hey, you've been reading the Bible? 1014 01:15:25,068 --> 01:15:26,710 - Yeah. 1015 01:15:26,710 --> 01:15:27,930 - Well that's great. 1016 01:15:27,930 --> 01:15:30,076 What are you reading right now? 1017 01:15:30,076 --> 01:15:32,020 - John Chapter 10. 1018 01:15:32,020 --> 01:15:33,500 - I'm very familiar with that chapter. 1019 01:15:33,500 --> 01:15:34,900 You have any thoughts on it? 1020 01:15:35,768 --> 01:15:39,830 - Well, verse 10 really stood out to me. 1021 01:15:39,830 --> 01:15:41,850 I've been sitting here thinking about it. 1022 01:15:41,850 --> 01:15:43,977 - That's a great verse. 1023 01:15:43,977 --> 01:15:48,977 "The thief come not but for to steal, kill and to destroy. 1024 01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:52,600 I am come that they might have life 1025 01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:55,100 and that they might have it more abundantly." 1026 01:15:55,100 --> 01:15:56,744 - Yeah. 1027 01:15:56,744 --> 01:16:00,510 What does Jesus mean by more abundant life? 1028 01:16:00,510 --> 01:16:02,520 - I believe he means that in him 1029 01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:04,513 he wants us to live a thriving life, 1030 01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:07,163 one full of joy and purpose. 1031 01:16:09,151 --> 01:16:12,010 Anybody breathing can live a life, 1032 01:16:12,010 --> 01:16:14,360 but in Jesus that life could mean so much more. 1033 01:16:15,650 --> 01:16:17,903 Take it from me, John, I lived both. 1034 01:16:20,369 --> 01:16:23,019 And thank God I don't have to go back to where I was. 1035 01:16:25,575 --> 01:16:27,110 - John, can't you see it? 1036 01:16:27,110 --> 01:16:31,280 God has been reaching out to you left and right. 1037 01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:33,243 I mean look at your parents. 1038 01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,107 They loved you unconditionally 1039 01:16:36,107 --> 01:16:38,139 and have stood by your side 1040 01:16:38,139 --> 01:16:40,440 with everything they've been through with you. 1041 01:16:41,510 --> 01:16:43,983 That's because of God in their lives. 1042 01:16:45,582 --> 01:16:47,740 And look at George. 1043 01:16:47,740 --> 01:16:50,973 How God's been working through him to reach out to you. 1044 01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:54,743 These are not the coincidences. 1045 01:16:56,295 --> 01:17:00,123 John, what are you waiting for? 1046 01:17:04,812 --> 01:17:05,645 - Why? 1047 01:17:08,559 --> 01:17:12,713 Why has God been trying to reach out to me? 1048 01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:16,933 I've done nothing good in my life. 1049 01:17:20,842 --> 01:17:22,353 - He loves you, John. 1050 01:17:28,900 --> 01:17:33,763 He always has and always will. 1051 01:17:39,780 --> 01:17:41,013 - What do I do now? 1052 01:17:45,630 --> 01:17:46,477 - Let him in. 1053 01:17:47,947 --> 01:17:51,443 Let Jesus in as Lord and savior. 1054 01:18:05,050 --> 01:18:09,620 - Okay, Adam, we will see you in six months. 1055 01:18:09,620 --> 01:18:10,730 - Thanks, have a good day. 1056 01:18:10,730 --> 01:18:11,563 - You too. 1057 01:18:15,998 --> 01:18:18,910 - I have a delivery for our Kayla Gessler. 1058 01:18:18,910 --> 01:18:19,860 - That's me. 1059 01:18:19,860 --> 01:18:21,083 - You, sign here. 1060 01:18:27,790 --> 01:18:29,246 Thank you. 1061 01:18:29,246 --> 01:18:30,231 Have a great day. 1062 01:18:30,231 --> 01:18:31,244 - You too. 1063 01:18:31,244 --> 01:18:33,161 - So who are they from? 1064 01:18:34,056 --> 01:18:37,883 - There's not a name, but it's a poem. 1065 01:18:40,487 --> 01:18:42,270 "I don't deserve you Kayla, this is true, 1066 01:18:42,270 --> 01:18:44,840 but that doesn't stop me from loving you. 1067 01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:46,160 If you love the flowers, 1068 01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:47,800 there's more to bloom. 1069 01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:48,770 Come out of the office, 1070 01:18:48,770 --> 01:18:50,327 I'm in the next room." 1071 01:18:51,702 --> 01:18:52,743 - [Dentist] Who's out there Kayla? 1072 01:18:53,665 --> 01:18:55,082 - I have no idea. 1073 01:18:56,225 --> 01:18:58,808 (gentle music) 1074 01:19:13,825 --> 01:19:14,742 - Hi Kayla. 1075 01:19:16,039 --> 01:19:16,871 - Hey. 1076 01:19:21,628 --> 01:19:24,630 - Join me for dinner tonight? 1077 01:19:24,630 --> 01:19:27,030 I made reservations at your favorite restaurant. 1078 01:19:28,469 --> 01:19:29,303 - You did, huh? 1079 01:19:31,090 --> 01:19:32,190 Why should I join you? 1080 01:19:33,880 --> 01:19:38,880 - Kayla, I am so, so sorry that I hurt you. 1081 01:19:42,710 --> 01:19:46,639 And if I could take it all back, I would. 1082 01:19:46,639 --> 01:19:47,520 All I'm asking 1083 01:19:49,059 --> 01:19:53,362 is for you to let me try and earn your trust back. 1084 01:19:57,889 --> 01:19:58,723 - Wow. 1085 01:20:02,930 --> 01:20:04,043 You seem different. 1086 01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:08,760 - Come to dinner with me and I'll tell you all about it. 1087 01:20:14,638 --> 01:20:16,003 - Okay, I'll join you. 1088 01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:20,110 What time? 1089 01:20:20,110 --> 01:20:21,930 - As soon as you're done here. 1090 01:20:21,930 --> 01:20:24,003 I'll be right here sitting right there, 1091 01:20:24,882 --> 01:20:27,110 not going anywhere. 1092 01:20:27,110 --> 01:20:27,943 - Okay. 1093 01:20:33,346 --> 01:20:36,263 Oh by the way, you look good, John. 1094 01:20:42,380 --> 01:20:45,467 - Kayla, you look as beautiful as ever. 1095 01:20:50,050 --> 01:20:52,633 (gentle music) 1096 01:21:22,898 --> 01:21:25,330 (knocking) 1097 01:21:25,330 --> 01:21:27,996 (ominous music) 1098 01:21:51,416 --> 01:21:53,749 (sad music) 1099 01:22:03,790 --> 01:22:07,958 - Hello, read this please before you make your choice. 1100 01:22:07,958 --> 01:22:12,958 (heartbeat pounding) (sad music) 1101 01:22:47,809 --> 01:22:49,687 - Laura Reel. 1102 01:22:49,687 --> 01:22:52,020 (sad music) 1103 01:23:03,447 --> 01:23:05,909 - [Mother] You're not ready to be a mother. 1104 01:23:05,909 --> 01:23:07,212 - [Father] How are you gonna support it? 1105 01:23:07,212 --> 01:23:10,050 It's your only good option. 1106 01:23:10,050 --> 01:23:12,112 - [Female] Read this please, before you make your choice. 1107 01:23:13,840 --> 01:23:15,287 - [Female] Think about what I said 1108 01:23:15,287 --> 01:23:16,787 before you go through with it. 1109 01:23:22,564 --> 01:23:23,692 - Bless you. 1110 01:23:23,692 --> 01:23:26,639 You know, if you like, we can help you at our center. 1111 01:23:26,639 --> 01:23:29,450 We have resources and counselors available. 1112 01:23:29,450 --> 01:23:30,410 Don't hesitate to call us 1113 01:23:30,410 --> 01:23:32,670 if there's anything we can do for you, okay? 1114 01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:36,090 - So what was it like 1115 01:23:36,090 --> 01:23:38,603 to take your first steps as a new believer? 1116 01:23:40,500 --> 01:23:41,403 - It felt great. 1117 01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:43,809 God was opening my eyes 1118 01:23:43,809 --> 01:23:46,173 to all kinds of things that I hadn't seen. 1119 01:23:47,420 --> 01:23:50,143 It was tough in many ways. 1120 01:23:52,300 --> 01:23:54,030 I had hurt a lot of people, 1121 01:23:54,030 --> 01:23:55,870 especially my family, 1122 01:23:55,870 --> 01:23:58,800 and I had a lot of relationships to try to repair, 1123 01:23:58,800 --> 01:24:00,782 but my family could see 1124 01:24:00,782 --> 01:24:02,770 that I was seriously trying to kick my addiction 1125 01:24:03,670 --> 01:24:04,763 and my parents, 1126 01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:09,563 they demonstrated what unconditional love was like. 1127 01:24:10,806 --> 01:24:11,993 - How 'bout the rest of your family? 1128 01:24:12,940 --> 01:24:15,373 - Kayla and Gabe were more of a challenge. 1129 01:24:16,572 --> 01:24:18,230 With Gabe, it took a long time 1130 01:24:19,191 --> 01:24:21,809 before we could really open up to each other. 1131 01:24:21,809 --> 01:24:23,370 - And how about Kayla? 1132 01:24:23,370 --> 01:24:25,219 How did you patch things up with her? 1133 01:24:27,228 --> 01:24:28,407 - She struggled with letting go 1134 01:24:28,407 --> 01:24:30,200 of the past wounds that I had caused her 1135 01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:33,650 and my ongoing battle with drugs didn't help matters, 1136 01:24:33,650 --> 01:24:34,483 but God, 1137 01:24:35,898 --> 01:24:39,690 but God definitely helped me. 1138 01:24:39,690 --> 01:24:42,830 And she could see my growth with my walk with the Lord. 1139 01:24:42,830 --> 01:24:47,830 I can joyfully report that Kayla has now accepted Christ 1140 01:24:48,564 --> 01:24:52,940 and our relationship is healthier having him at the center. 1141 01:24:52,940 --> 01:24:54,230 - Amazing. 1142 01:24:54,230 --> 01:24:56,585 God certainly makes a better captain 1143 01:24:56,585 --> 01:24:58,840 of our lives and relationships than we can. 1144 01:24:58,840 --> 01:25:00,469 Speaking of which, 1145 01:25:00,469 --> 01:25:04,823 how did you eventually surrender your drug addiction to him? 1146 01:25:05,964 --> 01:25:09,719 - I wish that rehab had cured me the first time, 1147 01:25:09,719 --> 01:25:14,719 but I ended up going back twice 1148 01:25:14,725 --> 01:25:16,770 and every time I got out, 1149 01:25:16,770 --> 01:25:20,523 my good old friend, Dave was there to offer me freebies. 1150 01:25:20,523 --> 01:25:24,250 - How did you eventually deal with Dave? 1151 01:25:24,250 --> 01:25:29,059 - Well, I needed help 24/7. 1152 01:25:29,059 --> 01:25:31,193 So after I got out that third time, 1153 01:25:32,139 --> 01:25:33,550 I wasn't left alone 1154 01:25:33,550 --> 01:25:36,350 and Dave never found another opportunity to come around. 1155 01:25:37,650 --> 01:25:39,680 - So here you are, 1156 01:25:39,680 --> 01:25:43,492 off of drugs growing in your relationship with the Lord, 1157 01:25:43,492 --> 01:25:46,070 how did you eventually sense God's calling 1158 01:25:46,070 --> 01:25:47,112 to write your book? 1159 01:25:48,050 --> 01:25:49,490 - Well, I started writing 1160 01:25:49,490 --> 01:25:51,849 just to put my thoughts down on paper 1161 01:25:51,849 --> 01:25:55,940 and then after I prayed and reached out to God about it, 1162 01:25:55,940 --> 01:25:58,290 I felt like he wanted me to write my own story. 1163 01:25:59,190 --> 01:26:02,530 I had no idea what would come of it, 1164 01:26:02,530 --> 01:26:05,250 but I trusted his lead and I started writing. 1165 01:26:05,250 --> 01:26:07,309 - So what's come of it? 1166 01:26:07,309 --> 01:26:08,143 - I released it 1167 01:26:08,143 --> 01:26:10,410 on the fourth year anniversary of my sobriety 1168 01:26:11,593 --> 01:26:16,593 and God no doubt has opened up many doors because of that. 1169 01:26:18,331 --> 01:26:21,353 And invitations flowed 1170 01:26:21,353 --> 01:26:24,973 to speak to various groups about the book and about my life. 1171 01:26:27,330 --> 01:26:29,860 Thank you for coming to hear me tonight 1172 01:26:29,860 --> 01:26:32,112 and please know that I'm here for you guys. 1173 01:26:33,110 --> 01:26:37,903 If you want to talk or need to pray, just let me know. 1174 01:26:39,609 --> 01:26:42,776 (audience applauding) 1175 01:26:44,105 --> 01:26:44,938 Thank you. 1176 01:26:46,126 --> 01:26:47,073 Do any of you have any questions? 1177 01:26:48,639 --> 01:26:49,473 Yes? 1178 01:26:50,625 --> 01:26:51,624 - How long did it take 1179 01:26:51,624 --> 01:26:53,924 before you cravings completely went away? 1180 01:26:53,924 --> 01:26:56,273 - I don't have a clear cut answer for that one. 1181 01:26:57,526 --> 01:27:01,532 Truth is I can't let my guard down even till this day. 1182 01:27:03,230 --> 01:27:05,532 Is it a struggle like it used to be? 1183 01:27:06,870 --> 01:27:07,702 No. 1184 01:27:09,040 --> 01:27:12,059 But I have to be careful 1185 01:27:12,059 --> 01:27:14,380 not to place myself in any situations 1186 01:27:14,380 --> 01:27:16,559 where I can find myself tempted. 1187 01:27:16,559 --> 01:27:17,393 Yes? 1188 01:27:18,270 --> 01:27:20,520 (knocking) 1189 01:27:21,572 --> 01:27:22,405 - Hi John. 1190 01:27:22,405 --> 01:27:24,100 - Hey mom, happy mother's day. 1191 01:27:24,100 --> 01:27:25,406 - Thank you. 1192 01:27:25,406 --> 01:27:26,800 - Happy mother's day. 1193 01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:28,620 - Thank you, Kayla. 1194 01:27:28,620 --> 01:27:30,840 They're beautiful. 1195 01:27:30,840 --> 01:27:31,673 Thank you. 1196 01:27:32,628 --> 01:27:33,886 - You're welcome. 1197 01:27:33,886 --> 01:27:34,719 (timer dinging) 1198 01:27:34,719 --> 01:27:35,552 - Oh, that's the timer. 1199 01:27:35,552 --> 01:27:36,830 I have to go check on the chicken. 1200 01:27:36,830 --> 01:27:38,300 Come on in, make yourselves at home. 1201 01:27:38,300 --> 01:27:39,309 Your dad and Gabe 1202 01:27:39,309 --> 01:27:41,600 are watching the baseball game in the family room. 1203 01:27:41,600 --> 01:27:42,927 - I'm on it. 1204 01:27:42,927 --> 01:27:43,873 - So is there anything I can help you with? 1205 01:27:47,450 --> 01:27:49,250 - What's up guys? 1206 01:27:49,250 --> 01:27:50,112 - Hey John. 1207 01:27:51,120 --> 01:27:52,253 Good to see you. 1208 01:27:52,253 --> 01:27:54,143 - Good to see you too, old man. 1209 01:27:55,342 --> 01:27:56,996 - Hey bro. 1210 01:27:56,996 --> 01:27:58,597 - What's up, bro? 1211 01:27:58,597 --> 01:27:59,430 How you doing man? 1212 01:27:59,430 --> 01:28:01,629 - Good. 1213 01:28:01,629 --> 01:28:02,809 - So how'd your speaking engagement 1214 01:28:02,809 --> 01:28:04,403 go with the kids? 1215 01:28:04,403 --> 01:28:05,236 - I think it went good. 1216 01:28:05,236 --> 01:28:07,000 I got a lot of great questions afterwards 1217 01:28:07,000 --> 01:28:09,300 and I trust that God will touch their hearts 1218 01:28:09,300 --> 01:28:10,520 with some of what I said. 1219 01:28:10,520 --> 01:28:11,820 - I'm sure he will. 1220 01:28:11,820 --> 01:28:13,370 - God does say his word will do 1221 01:28:13,370 --> 01:28:15,550 what it set out to accomplish. 1222 01:28:15,550 --> 01:28:17,459 You planted that seed. 1223 01:28:17,459 --> 01:28:19,063 - Thanks guys. 1224 01:28:20,180 --> 01:28:21,590 So who's winning? 1225 01:28:21,590 --> 01:28:23,960 - The Tigers are up one nothing. 1226 01:28:23,960 --> 01:28:25,003 - All right. 1227 01:28:35,943 --> 01:28:36,777 - Where you going? 1228 01:28:38,307 --> 01:28:40,452 - I'm going to visit Dave today, remember? 1229 01:28:41,290 --> 01:28:42,773 - Oh, okay. 1230 01:28:44,124 --> 01:28:44,957 - What? 1231 01:28:46,647 --> 01:28:50,170 - I was just thinking, why do you keep visiting that guy? 1232 01:28:50,170 --> 01:28:53,264 It sounds like he doesn't want anything to do with you. 1233 01:28:53,264 --> 01:28:56,683 - I know, but I don't want to give up on him. 1234 01:28:59,418 --> 01:29:04,418 - Well, you do what you need to do. 1235 01:29:09,377 --> 01:29:13,800 - Well, I'll be back in a little while. 1236 01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:14,633 - Okay. 1237 01:29:15,501 --> 01:29:16,750 - Love you. - I love you, too. 1238 01:29:21,237 --> 01:29:23,404 (buzzing) 1239 01:29:50,295 --> 01:29:51,128 - Hi Dave. 1240 01:29:52,755 --> 01:29:53,588 - John. 1241 01:29:55,096 --> 01:29:56,590 - How you doing? 1242 01:29:56,590 --> 01:29:57,862 - I'm still here. 1243 01:29:59,070 --> 01:30:01,530 - So you finding activities to do? 1244 01:30:01,530 --> 01:30:03,020 - Why do you come here John? 1245 01:30:03,020 --> 01:30:03,920 - Well I told you. 1246 01:30:04,957 --> 01:30:06,070 - I know he had told me. 1247 01:30:06,070 --> 01:30:07,969 Why do you still consider me a friend? 1248 01:30:13,507 --> 01:30:16,403 - Let me tell you about this person that I know. 1249 01:30:20,180 --> 01:30:21,313 He had a hard heart. 1250 01:30:24,875 --> 01:30:28,452 He didn't care about the people around him, 1251 01:30:28,452 --> 01:30:31,036 didn't even care about himself, 1252 01:30:32,576 --> 01:30:34,770 but then there was someone 1253 01:30:34,770 --> 01:30:36,523 that saw something of value in him 1254 01:30:37,587 --> 01:30:41,253 and he reached out to him with unconditional love. 1255 01:30:43,940 --> 01:30:48,940 That person, he now knows that he's valued, 1256 01:30:51,870 --> 01:30:55,293 he now knows that he's forgiven. 1257 01:30:56,670 --> 01:30:58,007 - Okay, what does that mean? 1258 01:30:58,007 --> 01:30:59,623 Who are you talking about? 1259 01:31:00,612 --> 01:31:01,446 - Me. 1260 01:31:03,791 --> 01:31:05,142 I'm talking about me, Dave. 1261 01:31:06,150 --> 01:31:11,150 God reached out to me and he changed me 1262 01:31:13,120 --> 01:31:14,920 and he changed my heart towards you. 1263 01:31:17,333 --> 01:31:19,750 So I guess the bottom line is 1264 01:31:24,091 --> 01:31:26,083 whether what I'm saying to you makes sense or not, 1265 01:31:27,050 --> 01:31:29,183 I still want to be your friend. 1266 01:31:32,559 --> 01:31:34,153 - I've been playing basketball. 1267 01:31:36,138 --> 01:31:37,253 - What? 1268 01:31:38,555 --> 01:31:39,630 - You asked me about activities, 1269 01:31:39,630 --> 01:31:41,313 I've been playing basketball. 1270 01:31:42,200 --> 01:31:45,073 - Great, that's great, man. 1271 01:31:46,700 --> 01:31:50,059 Are you playing by yourself or playing with other guys? 1272 01:31:50,059 --> 01:31:54,170 - I don't shoot hoops by myself like some loser, no man, 1273 01:31:54,170 --> 01:31:56,330 I play two on two with a couple of guys. 1274 01:31:56,330 --> 01:31:58,380 - That's awesome, man. 1275 01:31:58,380 --> 01:31:59,730 That's progress, right? 1276 01:31:59,730 --> 01:32:00,580 - It's all right. 1277 01:32:02,133 --> 01:32:04,716 (gentle music) 1278 01:32:06,612 --> 01:32:08,183 - You have an amazing story, John. 1279 01:32:09,173 --> 01:32:10,150 But it's not over yet. 1280 01:32:10,150 --> 01:32:12,683 You had a very interesting evening recently. 1281 01:32:13,740 --> 01:32:15,309 Care to give us some details? 1282 01:32:15,309 --> 01:32:16,860 - Absolutely. 1283 01:32:16,860 --> 01:32:18,260 I'll take one more question. 1284 01:32:19,130 --> 01:32:20,500 Yes sir? 1285 01:32:20,500 --> 01:32:25,500 - Yeah, do any of the proceeds of your book go to charity? 1286 01:32:25,690 --> 01:32:26,523 - That's a great question. 1287 01:32:26,523 --> 01:32:28,360 Thank you for asking that. 1288 01:32:28,360 --> 01:32:30,550 I donate to several charities, 1289 01:32:30,550 --> 01:32:32,210 including 10% of the profits 1290 01:32:32,210 --> 01:32:34,273 to Victorious Living Rehab Center. 1291 01:32:35,350 --> 01:32:36,580 As I shared earlier, 1292 01:32:36,580 --> 01:32:38,690 that's where I eventually got clean 1293 01:32:38,690 --> 01:32:40,389 and where I came to know the Lord. 1294 01:32:41,736 --> 01:32:44,800 Well folks, we're going to have to wrap things up here. 1295 01:32:44,800 --> 01:32:46,410 I want to thank each and every one of you 1296 01:32:46,410 --> 01:32:49,290 for allowing me to come and speak to you tonight. 1297 01:32:49,290 --> 01:32:51,653 Be safe and God bless you. 1298 01:32:51,653 --> 01:32:54,091 (audience applause) 1299 01:32:54,091 --> 01:32:56,674 (gentle music) 1300 01:33:26,155 --> 01:33:28,987 (woman screaming) 1301 01:33:31,121 --> 01:33:33,788 (ominous music) 1302 01:33:51,991 --> 01:33:54,824 (woman screaming) 1303 01:33:59,861 --> 01:34:01,028 Lord, help me. 1304 01:34:02,693 --> 01:34:05,361 (ominous music) 1305 01:34:08,923 --> 01:34:11,755 (woman screaming) 1306 01:34:15,840 --> 01:34:17,590 Hey, leave her alone. 1307 01:34:20,094 --> 01:34:22,762 (ominous music) 1308 01:34:24,341 --> 01:34:25,859 Just walk away, man, 1309 01:34:25,859 --> 01:34:27,920 no one has to get hurt here. 1310 01:34:27,920 --> 01:34:30,587 (ominous music) 1311 01:34:35,179 --> 01:34:36,583 - [Male] Should've mind your business. 1312 01:34:37,874 --> 01:34:40,541 (ominous music) 1313 01:34:43,317 --> 01:34:44,320 What's that? 1314 01:34:44,320 --> 01:34:46,070 What's that, come on. 1315 01:34:48,235 --> 01:34:49,666 Come on, boy. 1316 01:34:49,666 --> 01:34:52,416 (dramatic music) 1317 01:34:54,202 --> 01:34:56,452 (grunting) 1318 01:35:04,270 --> 01:35:06,290 - [Therapist] You're not a mistake John 1319 01:35:07,440 --> 01:35:08,273 and you're not your father. 1320 01:35:09,760 --> 01:35:12,343 (gentle music) 1321 01:35:15,317 --> 01:35:18,067 (sirens blaring) 1322 01:35:21,260 --> 01:35:23,843 (gentle music) 1323 01:35:48,164 --> 01:35:51,414 - Oh, come on let's go get some treats. 1324 01:35:53,483 --> 01:35:54,316 Come on. 1325 01:36:04,016 --> 01:36:05,270 - [Male] And for other birds migrating south 1326 01:36:05,270 --> 01:36:06,853 to stop and rest in safety. 1327 01:36:07,900 --> 01:36:09,469 One of the main migratory birds 1328 01:36:09,469 --> 01:36:12,163 that marsh is known for is the redhead duck. 1329 01:36:13,020 --> 01:36:13,969 - Through your mind 1330 01:36:14,971 --> 01:36:16,059 as you ran to save that woman in distress 1331 01:36:16,059 --> 01:36:18,059 and came face to face with her attacker? 1332 01:36:19,020 --> 01:36:23,423 - Honestly, I didn't know what I was getting myself into. 1333 01:36:24,760 --> 01:36:27,809 I kept thinking and praying to God 1334 01:36:27,809 --> 01:36:29,303 the whole time to help me. 1335 01:36:30,370 --> 01:36:34,155 Then, the attacker got violent with me 1336 01:36:34,155 --> 01:36:38,139 so my mind just went into survival mode 1337 01:36:38,139 --> 01:36:42,423 and I did my best to defend her and myself at that point. 1338 01:36:43,300 --> 01:36:45,700 It was just by the grace of God that we made it. 1339 01:36:47,335 --> 01:36:48,543 - Well, we're glad that you're both safe. 1340 01:36:49,393 --> 01:36:50,840 - Thank you, Robin. 1341 01:36:50,840 --> 01:36:53,673 (inspiring music) 1342 01:36:57,755 --> 01:36:58,588 - Oh God. 1343 01:37:02,370 --> 01:37:05,480 - [Charles] I have one final question to ask you. 1344 01:37:05,480 --> 01:37:07,114 - Okay. 1345 01:37:07,114 --> 01:37:07,947 - It's about your birth mother. 1346 01:37:07,947 --> 01:37:09,680 Have you ever thought about tracking her down 1347 01:37:09,680 --> 01:37:10,593 and meeting her? 1348 01:37:11,800 --> 01:37:13,083 - I have. 1349 01:37:14,610 --> 01:37:16,410 I thought about it a lot growing up. 1350 01:37:18,296 --> 01:37:21,803 Life issues and my bad choices distracted me, 1351 01:37:22,820 --> 01:37:27,820 but I haven't determined how or when I would actually do it. 1352 01:37:30,790 --> 01:37:32,940 - Do you have any leads on how to find her? 1353 01:37:33,870 --> 01:37:35,750 - No, not much. 1354 01:37:35,750 --> 01:37:37,200 I know very little about her. 1355 01:37:38,600 --> 01:37:40,100 - If you don't mind me asking, 1356 01:37:42,550 --> 01:37:44,850 what would you say to her if you did find her? 1357 01:37:46,400 --> 01:37:47,300 - I'd let her know 1358 01:37:48,557 --> 01:37:50,480 that I'm grateful that she gave me life 1359 01:37:52,059 --> 01:37:54,072 and I hope to get to know her. 1360 01:37:54,072 --> 01:37:56,155 (crying) 1361 01:37:57,597 --> 01:37:59,960 - I hope you get that opportunity, John. 1362 01:37:59,960 --> 01:38:00,793 - Thanks. 1363 01:38:01,784 --> 01:38:04,415 - [Charles] Thank you so much for joining us 1364 01:38:04,415 --> 01:38:06,337 on Foundations of the Family. 1365 01:38:06,337 --> 01:38:07,873 - [John] Thank you Charles, for having me. 1366 01:38:14,610 --> 01:38:16,252 - John. 1367 01:38:16,252 --> 01:38:19,002 (dramatic music) 1368 01:38:52,633 --> 01:38:55,868 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1369 01:38:55,868 --> 01:38:59,021 ♪ To roll the clouds away ♪ 1370 01:38:59,021 --> 01:39:01,797 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1371 01:39:01,797 --> 01:39:04,818 ♪ To give me day by day ♪ 1372 01:39:04,818 --> 01:39:08,316 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1373 01:39:08,316 --> 01:39:10,920 ♪ All along the way ♪ 1374 01:39:10,920 --> 01:39:14,920 ♪ It's just like his great love ♪ 1375 01:39:17,021 --> 01:39:19,688 (clears throat) 1376 01:39:20,800 --> 01:39:22,170 - I once thought of life 1377 01:39:23,389 --> 01:39:26,243 as having no meaning or purpose. 1378 01:39:27,925 --> 01:39:31,673 We live, we die, 1379 01:39:33,600 --> 01:39:35,500 and nothing in between really matters. 1380 01:39:38,559 --> 01:39:43,559 But I now know that life is so much more than that. 1381 01:39:46,570 --> 01:39:50,993 Yes, life is a journey full of ups and downs, 1382 01:39:52,710 --> 01:39:55,612 joys, heartaches, 1383 01:39:58,160 --> 01:40:01,443 struggles, victories, 1384 01:40:03,588 --> 01:40:08,588 but in the midst of all that, there is meaning and purpose 1385 01:40:10,559 --> 01:40:15,559 and there's a God out there who wants us to know him 1386 01:40:17,600 --> 01:40:19,763 and that purpose for which he created us. 1387 01:40:21,529 --> 01:40:25,903 He wants us to know how greatly valued we really are, 1388 01:40:27,440 --> 01:40:32,243 so much so that he sent his only son to die for us. 1389 01:40:33,611 --> 01:40:36,593 So considering our value to God, 1390 01:40:39,150 --> 01:40:40,600 I've come to this conclusion, 1391 01:40:42,330 --> 01:40:44,653 a life is worth giving birth to, 1392 01:40:49,110 --> 01:40:50,803 worth spending time with, 1393 01:40:54,010 --> 01:40:55,983 worth loving unconditionally, 1394 01:40:59,160 --> 01:41:00,623 worth taking a risk for. 1395 01:41:04,731 --> 01:41:06,133 A life is worth living. 1396 01:41:08,808 --> 01:41:10,746 And I can now say, by God's grace, 1397 01:41:14,540 --> 01:41:15,380 I'm living well. 1398 01:41:16,734 --> 01:41:21,734 (inspiring music) (audience applause) 1399 01:41:23,710 --> 01:41:25,428 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1400 01:41:25,428 --> 01:41:28,169 ♪ To roll the clouds away ♪ 1401 01:41:28,169 --> 01:41:31,468 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1402 01:41:31,468 --> 01:41:34,291 ♪ To keep me day by day ♪ 1403 01:41:34,291 --> 01:41:37,630 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1404 01:41:37,630 --> 01:41:40,233 ♪ All along the way ♪ 1405 01:41:40,233 --> 01:41:45,233 ♪ It's just like his great love ♪ 1406 01:41:46,431 --> 01:41:51,431 ♪ A friend I have called Jesus ♪ 1407 01:41:52,175 --> 01:41:57,175 ♪ Who's love is strong and true ♪ 1408 01:41:57,849 --> 01:42:02,849 ♪ Oh, he never, never fails however tried ♪ 1409 01:42:04,313 --> 01:42:09,313 ♪ No matter what I do ♪ 1410 01:42:09,956 --> 01:42:14,956 ♪ Oh this love of his ♪ 1411 01:42:16,442 --> 01:42:21,442 ♪ But when the nails to pray ♪ 1412 01:42:22,308 --> 01:42:27,308 ♪ Confessing all my guilt to him ♪ 1413 01:42:28,990 --> 01:42:33,990 ♪ The sins are thrown away ♪ 1414 01:42:35,888 --> 01:42:38,889 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1415 01:42:38,889 --> 01:42:41,689 ♪ To roll the clouds away ♪ 1416 01:42:41,689 --> 01:42:44,852 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1417 01:42:44,852 --> 01:42:47,753 ♪ To give me day by day ♪ 1418 01:42:47,753 --> 01:42:51,129 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1419 01:42:51,129 --> 01:42:53,630 ♪ All along the way ♪ 1420 01:42:53,630 --> 01:42:58,630 ♪ It's just like his great love ♪ 1421 01:42:59,833 --> 01:43:04,833 ♪ When sorrows clouds overtake me ♪ 1422 01:43:06,313 --> 01:43:11,313 ♪ Break upon my head ♪ 1423 01:43:11,948 --> 01:43:16,948 ♪ When life seems worse than useless ♪ 1424 01:43:17,727 --> 01:43:22,727 ♪ And I will better days ♪ 1425 01:43:23,855 --> 01:43:28,855 ♪ I take my grief to Jesus ♪ 1426 01:43:29,067 --> 01:43:34,067 ♪ Then nor do I go in grace ♪ 1427 01:43:35,311 --> 01:43:39,161 ♪ For heavenly, heavenly joy ♪ 1428 01:43:39,161 --> 01:43:41,481 ♪ We kiss the tears ♪ 1429 01:43:41,481 --> 01:43:46,481 ♪ Like sunshine after rain ♪ 1430 01:43:48,550 --> 01:43:50,916 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1431 01:43:50,916 --> 01:43:53,775 ♪ To roll the clouds away ♪ 1432 01:43:53,775 --> 01:43:56,868 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1433 01:43:56,868 --> 01:43:59,934 ♪ To keep me day by day ♪ 1434 01:43:59,934 --> 01:44:02,895 ♪ It's just like Jesus ♪ 1435 01:44:02,895 --> 01:44:05,852 ♪ All along the way ♪ 1436 01:44:05,852 --> 01:44:10,852 ♪ It's just like his great love ♪ 1437 01:44:11,992 --> 01:44:16,992 ♪ It's just like his great ♪ 1438 01:44:20,031 --> 01:44:21,948 ♪ Love ♪