Are you open to being with me and Becky?
If I make a commitment with somebody, I'm there.
Mariam is from Michigan, she's from a Muslim family,
so she's familiar with the plural lifestyle.
So where I live, it's a big Middle-Eastern community.
What if you converted to Christianity?
I don't have plans on converting.
We definitely want to be on the same page religion-wise.
I'm excited about tonight, and nervous.
Really?
Oh, my goodness.
Cheers.
We've got Jasmine over for a little sleepover.
If we're gonna be a band, we all gotta play together.
-Right. -Right.
Sleeping over is a little nerve-wracking, honestly.
Wherever you would feel most comfortable,
you know, if you want to be an end sleeper, uh...
[laughing]
Bringing in an individual that's not meant to be here,
it could make things rocky.
I'm hesitent, I mean it's a big deal
for me to potentially marry someone
and get in that kind of involvement.
[tense music playing]
Are you really certain that
you do want to continue with us down this path?
I mean, actually having someone here
in the flesh, you know what I mean?
Actually doing it, you know, for real?
Are you still okay with this?
The reason why I had Danielle
hang back with me so her and I could chat,
just to double check, make sure
that she's truly okay
with Jasmine spending the night with us
and sleeping with us.
I think Jasmine gets along really well with us,
and she can seem to hang out with us.
It's going really well.
[Nick] Danielle, before when I thought
things were going good,
that's when you left.
I'm kind of, you know...
I'm a little worried about getting excited about this.
I mean, did you have enough time
when you were away from us
to think about what it is that you wanted to do?
I can say, for how things are going,
I think it's going pretty well,
uh, with Jasmine. I think she's...
But I'm not talking about Jasmine.
I'm talking about you.
How are you doing?
Are you okay with how things are?
What do you think, Danielle?
I mean, be honest, be real.
If you are, then yeah.
But if not, I just want to make sure
that you have plenty of space and opportunity
to let me know
if there's some kind of concern.
I mean,
could you see yourself
marrying her?
-I mean-- -You know, it's not like we're gonna propose
to her or anything like that any time soon.
But I'm just saying, like, you know,
that's the kind of considerations that I'm wanting to make about
whoever it is
that comes into our situation.
I naturally get along with her,
as we all do, I'm pretty... pretty sure.
Um, and so, honestly, you know,
dating in general still makes me nervous,
you know. I'm still very new to this
-in different ways and like... -That's fair. That's okay.
-You know... -That's okay.
I'm used to, like, having the power to see, like,
does Danielle want this
or does Danielle not want this?
I'm curious to see how things are gonna
continue to grow.
But I'm feeling pretty good
-and I want to see how things go. -All right.
All right. Well then, enough said.
-Okay. -That's all that needs to be established.
Okay.
Being in this sort of relationship
is extremely difficult,
so I have to appreciate
the fact that there's gonna be
some challenge to overcome.
I think after showing herself that she could
leave the situation,
if that was really what she wanted to do,
and then seeing that
that wasn't what she really wanted to do,
um, I think that's something that she's really taken in.
[both chuckle]
[Danielle] Okay.
It's definitely challenging to
be the one that's like, "Hey, I'm not feeling this."
And so, sometimes I find myself compromising
when I should be just putting my foot down about things,
and that can be kind of hard to do.
Okay, I'm gonna get the pillows
off the bed that we don't use.
[Jasmine] The giant bed looks perfect.
We mapped it out,
and we should have enough room for everybody,
so I don't anticipate that
there will be a problem.
So, you are going dead in the middle.
-Yeah. -Like, dead center.
-Okay. -[Danielle] Yeah.
Oh, nice. That's where all the snuggles happen, yeah?
-[Jennifer] Yes. -[Nick] That's what's up.
I like Jasmine. I really do.
I agreed to the sleepover,
but there has been some jealousy.
There has been some insecurities.
[Jennifer] All right, Jasmine.
You're up next.
And I'm not exactly sure
how this is gonna look with her.
-Comfy? -Yeah.
[Jasmine] All right. Good night.
[giggles]
[April] There's two big things about this sleepover date.
How Danielle's gonna react to it,
and how Jasmine's gonna react to it.
I don't know if
Jasmine's gonna actually be comfortable.
But the biggest worry is that
Danielle will have repeat behavior,
that she won't communicate with us
if she's not really comfortable with it.
And honestly, the worst thing that could happen is
that she leaves again.
And...
that would be devastating.
Good night, my loves.
-[Danielle] Good night. -[Jennifer] Good night.
[April] Everyone have enough room?
-[Jasmine] Yes. -[Danielle] I think so.
[April] All right, babes.
-Good night. -[Jennifer] Good night.
[Danielle and Nick chuckle]
[Garrick] You want a glass of wine or something?
-Yeah, I'll take a glass of wine. -[Garrick] Yeah?
-Okay. -[Mariam] Yeah.
[Garrick] Tonight, Mariam and I,
we're gonna have a stay-in date night, um,
just on the couch, uh,
spend a little time together, and,
uh, get to know each other.
-Cheers. -Cheers.
Okay.
I've really been excited
to spend a little time with her alone.
You know, I think that's super special.
I mean, you know, it's not gonna be the same with each wife,
so it's very important for me
to get to know her,
um, and love her and,
you know, and receive love back from her, hopefully.
You like the fireplace?
-Yeah, it's comfy. -[Garrick] Yeah?
-[Mariam] Yeah. -I thought it was nice.
[Mariam] Cozy. I like all of this.
Are you comfortable?
-Mmm-hmm. -Okay.
[chuckles]
Let's get closer, huh?
There you go. [chuckles]
But, yeah, I like it.
-Yeah? -Yeah.
I heard you have a good time with Dannielle today.
Yeah, I enjoyed that. We needed that.
-Sorry. My hair is in the way. -That's okay.
-Yeah. -Is this okay?
-Yeah. -Yeah.
Mariam is definitely
a gorgeous, curvy woman.
I mean, she's full-figured,
um, which is nice,
and she definitely knows how to doll up,
which is a nice quality,
'cause some women just don't know how to do that.
I was happy to see you meet all the family.
-Mmm-hmm. -They all seem to
really like you a lot.
I like everyone, too.
-Yeah? -Yeah. I enjoyed my time.
I'm still not at that stage where I feel comfortable,
you know, being touchy-feely.
I feel it's awkward.
It's kind of awkward.
I want him to get to know me more on a deeper, personal,
you know, deeper, personal conversations.
[Garrick] What do you want to do?
Do you have any dreams of...
-[Mariam] What I want to do? -[Garrick] ...aesthetician?
I want to do something in, like, the beauty industry.
So we could team up on that, huh?
In the beauty industry? Do you know anything about it?
I love designing.
I'm artistic.
So my dream is to design
-women's clothing. -[Mariam] Mmm-hmm.
You might be my fashion model.
[laughs]
How would you feel if I was
to put the hijab on, the scarf?
-[Garrick] Hijab? -Yeah. [chuckles]
-How would you feel about it? -I'd say,
"Where's my beautiful wife at?"
-Really? -I'd be trying to pull it off.
-[both laugh] -Like, come... Where you at?
-I do end up planning on putting it on someday. -[Garrick] Yeah?
I mean, I don't think it's bad.
-I just... -You don't like it?
I don't know if it's "I don't like it."
I think you're beautiful.
But I could take it off in the house.
[Garrick] Oh, well, that's fine.
-As long as I get to see you. [chuckles] -[Mariam] Yeah.
[Garrick] You know, the Muslim faith to her is
really important. Um,
and it's kind of intrigued me to
see what it's about so I can meet people
where they're at, you know, because...
I don't know what I'm talking about.
I didn't
love God or live for God when I was younger.
I was pretty bad. I was a playboy.
-[Mariam] Oh, yeah? -Wild boy.
-Yeah. -[Mariam chuckles]
Define bad. What did you do that was so bad?
Started a gang in town.
-[Mariam] What? -[chuckles]
-Tough guy. Cool guy. -[laughing] Oh, my God.
[Garrick] I made people pay me for cash for protection.
I was pretty bad.
-[Mariam] You're lying. -[Garrick] No.
I had, like, decals on the trucks of the gang.
-We made them get it on their trucks. -What was your gang name?
Always Thuggin' Krew.
Yeah. And we did...
It should be a C, but we did it with a K.
[Mariam] He was telling me about some gang he created
when he was younger,
um, which I found funny,
because Garrick grew up in this town,
and he's, like, six generations in.
So it's like, were you spoiled and just a little rebel
doing what you wanted to do in the city?
So it was kind of funny.
So what are you feeling about,
I guess, me?
-[Mariam] About you? -Mmm-hmm.
Different.
-[Garrick] Yeah? -Yeah. [chuckles]
[Garrick] It's true.
Yeah. I want to get to know you more.
[Garrick] Yeah?
-See where things go. -[Garrick] Yeah.
-Yeah? -[Mariam chuckles]
It's okay.
[Mariam] Yeah.
Yeah. But I don't know about living in this town.
-No? -Mmm-mmm.
What if we have a separate house?
It's not about the house. It's the town.
-Oh, man. No? The town? -[laughs]
-Why? -No.
I hear Mariam saying that
she might not be able to live in a small town,
but I really think
I could change her mind,
you know, by showing her the benefits
of a small town, especially for children.
You know, she may not understand
all the great qualities,
the safety you have, the freedom you have
for your children to enjoy their childhood.
Well, would you give it a try?
As long as there's a vacation home
-too that I could sneak off to. -[Garrick] Okay.
[Mariam] I feel like he didn't take it in
when I was telling him I didn't want to live here.
I'm not comfortable in this town.
I'm probably the only brown...
Well, I'm not brown, but tan skin person there.
[laughs]
All right, Garrick. Good night.
[Garrick] Okay. Good night.
-I'll see you in the morning. -Okay. Yeah.
[Mariam] All right.
I think Garrick has a plan in his head
what he wants to do in life and what he wants to create,
and he wants me to be a part of it.
I'm trying to take my time with them to know
if this is what I really want,
and this is who they really are.
[Garrick] She's kind of standoffish. Um...
Not sure what that is. Um,
if it's a cultural thing, um,
it's a little awkward for sure,
but I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt
and would like to kind of,
you know, learn more about
is this cultural or is this something between
me and her personally, you know.
How do you think things are going?
I don't see any problems.
[Danielle] Last night, it was
a little strange having Jasmine in bed with us.
I do kind of have to address
there has been some difficulties.
I'm not okay with this at all.
[pleasant music playing]
[Nick snoring]
[Nick continues snoring]
[Jasmine] Yeah.
[exhales]
Good morning.
How did you sleep?
Um, pretty good, I would say.
Got some good sleep.
Last night, Jasmine spent the night.
It was a little strange having Jasmine in bed with us.
You know, I mean,
I'm glad that we were able to do that,
but can we do that every night?
I don't know.
What about you?
[Jasmine] Pretty good, actually.
I know it's probably different
laying in bed with all of us.
It was fine.
[Danielle] Okay, good. I'm happy to hear that.
[both laugh]
[Jasmine] I think the night went well.
It was nice and quiet,
and it was great to have
other people around while I slept.
All right. Well, I say
let's go ahead and have a seat outside.
I'm glad Jasmine and I
were the first ones up this morning.
Being the latest wife in the family,
and with her being my potential wife,
it's good for us to have this one-on-one
and kind of open up a bit.
[Jasmine] All right.
[Danielle laughs]
[Danielle] When it comes to dating,
we spend a lot of time collectively,
but I need to know that
when it's just us, my potential wife,
I need to know that it's good.
I don't want it to be necessarily led by everyone else,
and then when we're secluded, it's just weird.
So,
you know, after spending some time together,
and you and Nick got to go on this date,
and just all of us spending some
time together, like,
how do you think things are going?
[chuckles softly] I mean, I don't...
I don't see any problems currently.
Um...
I mean, we're just
getting to know each other for the moment,
so, there's not much that can go wrong,
-I feel like. -[Danielle laughs] Right.
Yeah. Ideally, you know,
as time goes on, I know this is kind of
crazy to bring up already,
but, you know, as things progress,
we would definitely want
you and your son to move in and...
I mean, how would you feel about that?
I know that's kind of, like,
jumping, you know, in the future,
but just, like, the thought of it.
Like, what do you think?
Um, I mean, the thought of it doesn't bother me at all.
-[Danielle] Okay. -So...
I do want to take it slow, but I do not mind
-thinking about the future, at least. -[Danielle] Right. Okay.
I'm just not going to act on it immediately.
[Danielle] Exactly.
So, there's definitely
a lot of exciting things to look forward to,
but I do kind of have to address, you know,
there has been some difficulties being a sister wife.
Um, I don't want to sit here and act like
it's completely easy, 24-7.
You know, I've definitely struggled with
a lot of issues coming into it.
Um, I've always been monogamous until now.
-[Jasmine] Mmm-hmm. -And so,
I just want you to feel like
you can always vocalize how you're feeling
or what your thoughts are, because I've definitely struggled myself.
And I think, at times, I really wish I would have
spoke up before it just
began to snowball, if you will.
-Yeah. -[Danielle] Um,
it got to the point where
I moved out.
-Oh. -[Danielle] Yeah.
-That's crazy. I had no idea. -[Danielle] Yeah.
It was brief.
Um, it was really brief,
but I did, at one point, consider...
separating.
We've done a lot to work through it
and talk about it. And honestly,
this is a big first step. Like, you know,
this is getting us getting back into dating.
Danielle opens up to me this morning,
and I think that that was really brave of her.
But I do not anticipate that I will have the same issues.
I'm pretty secure
in myself.
I just kind of wanted to be transparent
and not sit here and act like,
you know, everything's all fine and cherries.
And I will say, on a daily basis, like,
we all get along great. Like, our dynamic
-is a lot of fun. -Mmm-hmm.
But with fun comes hard work.
I don't feel like she was engaging with me
as much as she could have been.
And maybe she was just listening.
You know, she might not have much to say,
but I don't feel like she was exactly,
um, really understanding what I was telling her.
I'm not feeling
that everything is in place that it needs to be.
Nothing bad happened. But it's like,
"Girl, you're gonna be potentially my wife."
I can't just let anybody slip into this situation. You know,
a marriage is a true commitment.
At this time, I'm just not sure if
Jasmine could be our potential sister wife.
Hey.
[Becky] Oh, hi.
-How are you? -I'm good. How are you?
-I'm good. -How was everything?
-[kisses] -It was good. You know, we...
sat, hung out, talked for a while.
Had your dinner?
-[Justin] Had dinner. Yeah. -Yeah?
-Let's go sit down. Chill for a minute. -[Becky] Okay.
-Okay. -[Justin] Talk about it.
[Becky] All right.
You just, uh, talked about some important things?
Um, yeah. I mean, I tried to...
tried to push it. See, you know,
if she was really interested or not.
You know, 'cause we've... we've been going out
for several months now...
-Mmm-hmm. -...and, you know, it's still kind of
super slow, which I'm...
kind of cool with after the last round.
Um...
[kisses] Come here, baby.
-Stay. There you go. -Come here.
-Hi. -Good girl.
We had lightning in a bottle with Stephanie.
We were like, "Yeah, let's do...
We're doing life together
for the rest of our lives right now."
Um, and then seeing how, you know, that turned out,
crash and burn, I'm kind of cool with taking it
slower with Yary because I understand
that it's a big jump from...
from regular, normal people life to polygamy.
She didn't say this, but I kind of felt like
it's what she was getting at, was...
I just want a man all to myself.
Oh, did she say that?
[Justin] Yeah. I mean, you know...
She was like, "I want a husband that is, you know...
just for me."
[Becky] Yary saying that she...
wants a man only to herself...
makes me feel like
she's definitely not in the right relationship.
So what was her point to keep...
What is her point to keep going if she doesn't...
She thinks something's gonna change maybe?
I... [laughing]
Okay, she's saying in general,
"Oh, you know, I prefer to have a man to myself."
Or is she actually saying she wants you to herself
and she's thinking that if she holds on with us,
some... some miraculous situation is gonna happen
where she's gonna have you to herself?
I don't see that's what she's looking for.
It's like, "Oh, I'm gonna steal Justin from Becky." You know...
What does she say about like,
potentially in the future, joining our family?
Like, being a part of our family.
Like, I know that she couldn't steal...
you from me.
-[Justin] Mmm-hmm. -I know that's not a possibility.
But is that what she's hoping for?
Is that the angle she's trying and hoping to eventually get?
'Cause if that's the case, then why are we wasting our time?
I mean, we're just... We're wasting our time.
She's wasting our time.
We're wasting her time.
'Cause that's never gonna happen.
I'm feeling that we're kind of on,
like, a plateau, I guess, so to speak.
I don't feel like things are really going anywhere,
but I don't know if it's because she just
really wants to move that slow
or if she's just really not into it.
I mean, she obviously likes me. She likes you.
Uh, she's just never heard of this,
and so she's not sure what,
-you know... -To expect from it.
Maybe she just needs more time with us. Um...
Maybe to change her mind or come around to that.
It's not as bad as she thinks it would be.
-[Justin] Mmm-hmm. -I don't know.
I mean, hey, if we find somebody in the meantime...
-[Justin] Mmm-hmm. -...obviously we're gonna focus on that person.
Yeah for sure. I mean, I told her that.
[Becky] My relationship with Yary and compared to...
my relationship with Stephanie is not really a comparison.
Like, we were super close.
Like, we talked to each other every day.
You know, we're always planning the next time we're gonna get to see her.
And with Yary,
days will go by, and I won't even hear from her.
So...
[Becky] I'm still trying to figure out
if Yary is a good addition.
We don't... we don't really know for sure. Um...
[Justin] I see Yary as a good potential because,
you know, obviously, she's beautiful, but she's really
conflicted inside of her,
if... if she can do this lifestyle or not.
[Becky] So we're still gonna be continuing to seek
for that perfect sister wife, and, uh...
hopefully, you know, we'll find that.
I mean, there's some people that are looking for
that loving family dynamic to make them feel safe
and protected, and... happy, and...
-Yeah. Sure. -That's what we have to offer.
-Well, thanks for having me. -[April] Yeah.
I am interested in Jasmine.
And I count on my wives
to recognize that I'd like to pursue
a relationship with her further.
-[Jasmine] Good morning. -[Nick] Hello.
-Hey. Good morning. -[Nick] Good morning.
How's everybody doing today?
-How are you feeling? -[Danielle] Good. Good.
[Jasmine] How are you in your little bunny slippers?
[Danielle and Nick laugh]
[laughing] I'm doing all right.
-Good morning. -Hello, Jasmine. Did you sleep all right?
[Jasmine] Yes. I did.
-Did you? -[Nick] I did. Yeah.
[April] Say good morning.
-[Danielle] Good morning. -[Jennifer] Good morning.
I was waking up with Jasmine and the house was fun.
I mean, it was cool. It felt natural.
I was happy that Jasmine felt comfortable
to sleep in the bed the whole night.
Having four women in the bed is,
you know, something I've not experienced yet,
so that was new for me and very fun.
[April] I slept good. How did you sleep?
-Pretty good, actually. -[Nick] With the additional body?
And apparently, I didn't knee anybody. I didn't, like...
...take out anybody with an elbow.
-Yeah. -[Jasmine] I didn't rip the blankets off of nobody.
-So... -I didn't even feel you get out of the bed.
Oh, good. Yeah. I kind of, like...
[all laughing]
Wait. You went under the blanket?
Yes. I, like, slithered down.
And I, like, slipped out the bottom of the blanket.
-I was curious. Do you... -I didn't even notice.
Did any of you ever try that move?
-I usually go out the top. -[April] I have never tried to get out. I mean,
I'm... I'm in the middle sometimes.
Like, in between Danielle and Nick sometimes.
So I've never tried that either. Mmm-mmm.
-Yeah, like get-- -[Nick speaking]
-Slither on out. -[Nick] Yeah.
Stealth mode. We love it.
-[Jasmine] Right. -[chuckles]
I'm so glad that you came over.
-Thank you for coming over... -[Danielle] Yes.
-...and hanging out. -[Nick] Had a wonderful night.
-It was a lot of fun, Jasmine. -Yeah, it was a lot of fun.
[Jasmine] The bubble bath was very, very nice.
[all laughing]
[Jennifer] I think, you know, Jasmine keeps us on our toes.
She keeps things fun and spontaneous.
-And I think that that's really good, you know. -Yeah.
Uh, Danielle, how are you feeling about Jasmine?
Uh, I mean, so far,
there's definitely some awkward moments. But...
she's spunky, she's fun.
We just kind of gotta see how that... that goes with us.
-[April] All right. Well... -Okay.
-...let's go then. -[Jennifer] Time to get ready.
I... I am interested in Jasmine.
I think she's, uh...
very interesting.
This was great.
It was so fun.
I don't even want you to leave.
-Thanks for having me. -[April] Yeah.
It was fun.
[Jasmine] Honestly, the next steps for me
is more of like an information gathering phase.
I want to spend time with everybody
individually and as a whole,
to really get a sense of who they are.
I'm going to be very, very nosy.
-It's good to see you. -See you again soon.
-[Danielle] Thank you. You too. -Of course.
[Nick] Here, let me get the door for you, Jasmine.
I would like to pursue
a relationship with her further.
But it's not just on me
because I count on my wives to...
recognize things that I might miss.
You know, I might be blinded by the beauty
-or something like that. -[all laughing]
I'm not able to see something
that... that my wives are aware of.
But, uh, there is kind of an aspect of it to me
that might be slightly disappointing
if we don't move forward with Jasmine.
It was lovely to see you.
-Look forward to doing this again. -Thank you for having me.
Uh, there'll definitely be a family meeting in order.
You know, as in we'll need to come together
and kind of convene as a group.
Kind of check notes, kind of cross compare.
Uh, see what everybody else is thinking.
-[Dannielle] Almost time to go, huh? -[Garrick] Yeah.
It was a good trip, huh?
Quick, but good.
But, um... Yeah.
Kind of makes me wanna go see her.
[both laughing]
Right.
[Dannielle] We're getting ready to head back to Denver
to take Mariam to the airport.
She flies back to Michigan.
I feel like the trip was a great success.
I mean, it went really well.
But we need to figure out a couple of things,
talk some things out and, uh...
But overall, it was a wonderful trip.
I... I'm very happy.
-Hey, beautiful. -[Mariam] How are you?
[Dannielle] Good. How are you?
Good. How's the baby?
[Dannielle] Good. You haven't felt her kick yet, have you?
-[Mariam] Mmm-mmm. She did. -[Dannielle] Please.
-[Dannielle] Come on. -Well, I felt her butt yesterday or something.
[Dannielle gasps] Ooh, wait.
-No. -[Mariam] No.
-Darn it. -[both chuckle]
I feel closer to Mariam
than I... than I do with Nathalia.
I wish things were different with Nathalia and I,
but it's gonna take a little more time
for her to accept that
we really are still open to searching.
You ready for this drive?
-[Garrick] Um... -Are you ready for me to leave?
-No. -[Mariam] No?
-Aw. -[Mariam] I know.
It's okay.
Well, I'll be back. I told you, like, yesterday.
It's just a see you later.
-[Garrick] Yeah, I know. -Not a goodbye.
Maybe next month or something,
or when the baby's born, I'll come.
-[Garrick and Dannielle] Okay. -Okay?
We're definitely gonna continue with Mariam, dating and courting her
to see if... she's supposed to be in our family as a wife.
I mean, definitely right now,
she's a really good friend, and...
um, definitely a potential.
So let's get our stuff and...
-Okay. -[Mariam and Dannielle] Head out.
-Hey. -[Mariam chuckles]
-Okay. -[Mariam] Okay.
I don't know what the future is. Yeah, we're gonna see.
Um, hopefully we'll continue talking and building, and...
Maybe meet my family.
I think you actually have room this time.
-[Mariam] Boys. -Bye.
-Nice meeting you. -Could you grab my tennis shoes?
[Mariam] Bye. See you guys soon.
If we decided to move forward with Mariam
and tell Nathalia that
Mariam came out here to see us,
I think that would create
some not so good things with Nathalia I feel at this point.
[Garrick] Nathalia was not engaging
with, you know, the fact of a potential sister wife.
You can't just ignore it anymore.
Your problems are really coming out.
Let's deal with them in love as a family,
and I'm a little nervous that
Nathalia might not be willing to do that.
[Danielle] With Jasmine being potentially my future wife,
I want it to be someone I'm head over heels,
like I am about you guys.
I hope we're collectively on this decision together.
I don't know how everyone feels.
But it's a big deal.
[Nick speaking]
[April] Uh...
I don't mind eating out of the takeout.
-Yeah. I really don't either. -Yeah? Okay.
I think you're the only one that likes to eat on a plate.
[Nick and Danielle laughing]
[Nick] Well, now that, uh, we've had a few days
to process Jasmine coming
to spend the night with us as a family,
I think it's time for us all to come together and...
really voice our true opinions
about what we should do.
Oh, look at how your drink
-matches your outfit. -[Nick chuckles] Outfit.
I hope we're collectively on this decision together.
I don't know how everyone feels.
But it's a big deal.
Thank you.
-Nice. -Let's eat.
[Danielle] Looks good.
Um, I've heard from Jasmine a little bit.
Uh, I feel like...
it's just time to...
to discuss if we are trying to get together
-with her again. -Yeah.
The openness that she had in regards to,
like, our the type of relationship, I think,
is pretty, you know...
-Hard to find. -...unique. Yeah, and hard to come by.
You know, and she has a lot of characteristics that could work
in this type of relationship. So...
[Danielle] Um, I guess for me,
um, how Jasmine with... was with us, I admire.
She was bold, she was outgoing.
I love having babies.
I'll populate the whole next generation.
Got a big, huge bed now.
Oh, yeah. I can't wait to see that.
Nothing necessarily went wrong.
-[Jennifer] Yeah. -But it didn't go right enough.
You know, you're a cool chick and I like you.
But with this being potentially my future wife,
I want it to be someone I'm head over heels,
like I am about you guys.
I'm just not sure if moving forward right now
would be the best idea.
It's still hard for me to talk about how I'm feeling.
It's really easy for me to start feeling
kind of insecure and down,
and I kind of put myself in a box.
But things that I've been through made me recognize
I need to speak up if there's any issues.
[April] I mean, I... I get that. I, um...
And honestly for me, Danielle, like,
I'm kind of feeling a little...
reserved with her as well.
Or maybe it's her reserve that I'm feeling.
But at the same time, like, I think overall, like...
I like hearing you be able to express yourself, Danielle.
I mean, if I'm being honest, I-I guess I am a little...
disappointed to hear that. I was
kind of hoping we would move forward with Jasmine. Uh, yeah.
And I thought she... she might be...
an interesting, uh, person to get to know
in a romantic, you know, sense.
But, um...
You know, this is one of those instances, I guess, where...
even I have to accept
the structure that we've created.
You know what I mean? It's not like
my desire to have this individual here
overrides what you all are saying.
[April] I mean, like, but here's the thing.
If you feel like we should move forward with her,
that makes a difference to me.
'Cause that kind of makes me question like, you know, how I'm feeling.
Like, is there just not something maybe...
Like, maybe am I rushing it?
Like, maybe this connection isn't immediately,
and it's something I got to work for in a way, you know what I mean? Like...
-I don't... You know. -Nah.
I didn't... I didn't have to work for a connection with you.
-I didn't have to work for a connection with you. -And I guess we didn't have
-to work with the connection with you. -We just kind of connected.
[April] I guess I wanna...
It was just natural.
Okay. So then, on that note,
are we... are we dating Jasmine or not?
I say no 'cause I agree with Danielle.
-[Danielle] Yeah. -Jenny?
I agree.
[Nick] I was digging Jasmine.
It kind of sucks to see that it didn't really work out.
But I like seeing Danielle
being confident in standing alone
or apart in how she's feeling,
even if April and Jennifer
might have been liking Jasmine more.
[Danielle] I'm honestly very thankful for Jasmine.
And the reason why I say that is because
there was a lot of growth with this.
-Like, honestly, this was really freaking hard. -[April] Yeah.
If you look back a few months ago, we were struggle busing.
[Jennifer] Another question is,
do we wanna, like, in general, continue seeking?
Whoever is meant to be with us is out there,
and so we gotta...
We gotta keep pushing forward.
[April] I think now that we see
that you're more comfortable, we see that you
do wanna move forward, that we can do this.
Maybe doing it with someone else
or a couple of other someone's else,
-you know... -[laughing]
-...might be... might be beneficial. -Yeah.
Because here's the thing. Let's date.
Like, let's actually get out there
and let's date a couple of people and see how it feels.
-Yeah. -[Nick] Now, it's like, as much as I was
disappointed about us not being with Jasmine,
whatever this is you guys are talking about...
[all laughing]
...kind of has me intrigued. [laughing]
There's been some roller coaster
that we've gone through here and there, you know.
Danielle leaving, us coming back together,
meeting someone who could potentially be a wife
and then things not working out. I mean, it's...
It's been a journey that we've gone through.
If we, um, didn't have these issues
and things to work out and resolve,
I don't think we would be as strong as we are today.
We ended this year stronger than we started it,
and I am, um...
just... I don't know. I'm just so happy.
I'm just so happy that,
uh, Danielle has found her voice.
I'm so happy to see that Nick is, um,
truly putting it in the hands of his wives to...
um, have us add...
[chuckling]
-I'm such a crybaby. -[all laughing]
I just love the love that we have.
And I'm thankful for each of you,
for everything that you guys do.
[Danielle] Love you.
-[kisses] -[Jennifer] Aw.
That's work, you know what I mean? For real.
-[laughing] -I love you guys.
I love you guys.
[sniffles]
♪ Been such a lonely ride ♪
♪ Trying to find the trust♪
♪ In me I know it flows♪
♪ The first time♪
I'm just feeling really sad because, um...
things are not good with Nathalia. Um...
A lot has happened in the last six weeks and, um...
they just have gotten worse. Um...
Mariam seems to be a really good fit for our family.
And I think Nathalia just didn't expect that to happen.
And now she is very upset,
um, to put it mildly.
And I just don't know if it's gonna work out with her.
You know, I know God's in control of it. Um...
There's a reason, but it's just disheartening.
It's really... [inhales]
I just don't know what's gonna happen.
So... I'm just praying God...
works all this out
'cause I really love her.
[sniffles]
You know, I just wanna have a sister.
Like, I want to have a friend and I'm trying to help her.
But nothing I say even helps. Like...
[sniffles] So...
we'll see what God does.
[in other language]
[Garrick in English] Things escalated.
-Like, "I don't want you talking to her." -Very quickly.
Uh, "How dare you?
We agreed we'd wait."
I feel like she was fine initially.
Like, she was fine with us meeting Mariam.
Potentially just me more so.
But then Nathalia felt like
we lied to her and tricked her.
[Garrick] I'm hurt.
That's my wife. I love her.
Um, I'm heartbroken.
But I feel like Nathalia is
still unwilling... to address
some of her issues in her heart and mind, and...
she's not really being a team player in the family. Like...
You know, you don't wanna lose anybody.
I don't wanna lose a wife.
But if a wife doesn't wanna face her problems,
I mean, it's better it came out now,
that she's just not gonna grow up.
She's not gonna mature, she's not gonna change.
Compared to her getting to America,
I have two kids and then we gotta deal with it.
I mean, it's... it's a blessing.
[Dannielle] Even with what happened with Nathalia,
we're still seeing Mariam.
We're just kind of taking it slow
and getting to know each other. But, um...
we definitely get along really well.
We have a lot of fun together and it feels very comfortable.
I guess at the end of the day with Nathalia, um...
she's missing out on a... a blessing in her life,
with a family, and...
I know Garrick's a very good husband.
You know, we have a strong relationship with God.
He doesn't make mistakes even in the bad, you know.
Even the... even all these bad things
are for my good.
They're for my perfection and my change.
And, so I can be thankful for all the hurt
and the pain and the suffering.
God is so loving that all that suffering even...
It's beautiful.
It's so good because it...
it's refining you.
It's transforming you, you know.
[Nailah] That's what I'm ready for.
Figuring out how we're moving forward.
Like, what's next.
[all] Yay!
[Dannielle laughing] Whoo!