1 00:00:00,867 --> 00:00:03,433 Are you open to being with me and Becky? 2 00:00:08,266 --> 00:00:11,166 If I make a commitment with somebody, I'm there. 3 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,967 Mariam is from Michigan, she's from a Muslim family, 4 00:00:21,033 --> 00:00:23,667 so she's familiar with the plural lifestyle. 5 00:00:23,667 --> 00:00:26,567 So where I live, it's a big Middle-Eastern community. 6 00:00:26,634 --> 00:00:28,166 What if you converted to Christianity? 7 00:00:28,166 --> 00:00:30,767 I don't have plans on converting. 8 00:00:30,767 --> 00:00:34,166 We definitely want to be on the same page religion-wise. 9 00:00:34,233 --> 00:00:36,567 I'm excited about tonight, and nervous. 10 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:38,867 Really? 11 00:00:38,867 --> 00:00:42,066 Oh, my goodness. 12 00:00:42,133 --> 00:00:43,066 Cheers. 13 00:00:43,066 --> 00:00:45,867 We've got Jasmine over for a little sleepover. 14 00:00:45,934 --> 00:00:47,967 If we're gonna be a band, we all gotta play together. 15 00:00:48,033 --> 00:00:49,066 -Right. -Right. 16 00:00:49,066 --> 00:00:51,967 Sleeping over is a little nerve-wracking, honestly. 17 00:00:52,033 --> 00:00:53,867 Wherever you would feel most comfortable, 18 00:00:53,867 --> 00:00:56,367 you know, if you want to be an end sleeper, uh... 19 00:00:56,367 --> 00:00:57,567 [laughing] 20 00:00:57,567 --> 00:00:59,467 Bringing in an individual that's not meant to be here, 21 00:00:59,533 --> 00:01:00,834 it could make things rocky. 22 00:01:02,567 --> 00:01:04,767 I'm hesitent, I mean it's a big deal 23 00:01:04,834 --> 00:01:06,367 for me to potentially marry someone 24 00:01:06,367 --> 00:01:08,066 and get in that kind of involvement. 25 00:01:08,066 --> 00:01:09,934 [tense music playing] 26 00:01:24,467 --> 00:01:27,100 Are you really certain that 27 00:01:27,100 --> 00:01:29,767 you do want to continue with us down this path? 28 00:01:29,767 --> 00:01:33,000 I mean, actually having someone here 29 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:34,467 in the flesh, you know what I mean? 30 00:01:34,467 --> 00:01:37,100 Actually doing it, you know, for real? 31 00:01:37,100 --> 00:01:38,934 Are you still okay with this? 32 00:01:43,700 --> 00:01:45,667 The reason why I had Danielle 33 00:01:45,667 --> 00:01:48,266 hang back with me so her and I could chat, 34 00:01:48,266 --> 00:01:50,166 just to double check, make sure 35 00:01:50,166 --> 00:01:51,667 that she's truly okay 36 00:01:51,667 --> 00:01:54,066 with Jasmine spending the night with us 37 00:01:54,066 --> 00:01:55,533 and sleeping with us. 38 00:01:56,367 --> 00:02:00,567 I think Jasmine gets along really well with us, 39 00:02:00,567 --> 00:02:03,467 and she can seem to hang out with us. 40 00:02:03,467 --> 00:02:04,667 It's going really well. 41 00:02:04,667 --> 00:02:06,367 [Nick] Danielle, before when I thought 42 00:02:06,433 --> 00:02:07,867 things were going good, 43 00:02:07,867 --> 00:02:09,133 that's when you left. 44 00:02:11,367 --> 00:02:14,467 I'm kind of, you know... 45 00:02:14,533 --> 00:02:17,266 I'm a little worried about getting excited about this. 46 00:02:17,266 --> 00:02:19,000 I mean, did you have enough time 47 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,166 when you were away from us 48 00:02:20,233 --> 00:02:22,533 to think about what it is that you wanted to do? 49 00:02:25,700 --> 00:02:27,767 I can say, for how things are going, 50 00:02:27,767 --> 00:02:30,066 I think it's going pretty well, 51 00:02:30,066 --> 00:02:32,266 uh, with Jasmine. I think she's... 52 00:02:32,266 --> 00:02:34,266 But I'm not talking about Jasmine. 53 00:02:36,166 --> 00:02:37,867 I'm talking about you. 54 00:02:37,867 --> 00:02:39,066 How are you doing? 55 00:02:39,133 --> 00:02:41,367 Are you okay with how things are? 56 00:02:42,266 --> 00:02:43,567 What do you think, Danielle? 57 00:02:43,567 --> 00:02:44,667 I mean, be honest, be real. 58 00:02:44,667 --> 00:02:45,567 If you are, then yeah. 59 00:02:45,567 --> 00:02:47,266 But if not, I just want to make sure 60 00:02:47,333 --> 00:02:50,100 that you have plenty of space and opportunity 61 00:02:50,100 --> 00:02:51,233 to let me know 62 00:02:51,867 --> 00:02:53,667 if there's some kind of concern. 63 00:02:53,667 --> 00:02:54,734 I mean, 64 00:02:55,500 --> 00:02:56,767 could you see yourself 65 00:02:56,767 --> 00:02:58,233 marrying her? 66 00:03:05,100 --> 00:03:06,467 -I mean-- -You know, it's not like we're gonna propose 67 00:03:06,467 --> 00:03:08,467 to her or anything like that any time soon. 68 00:03:08,467 --> 00:03:10,066 But I'm just saying, like, you know, 69 00:03:10,133 --> 00:03:12,767 that's the kind of considerations that I'm wanting to make about 70 00:03:12,834 --> 00:03:14,266 whoever it is 71 00:03:14,333 --> 00:03:15,867 that comes into our situation. 72 00:03:15,867 --> 00:03:18,100 I naturally get along with her, 73 00:03:18,100 --> 00:03:20,467 as we all do, I'm pretty... pretty sure. 74 00:03:20,467 --> 00:03:23,166 Um, and so, honestly, you know, 75 00:03:23,166 --> 00:03:25,367 dating in general still makes me nervous, 76 00:03:25,433 --> 00:03:27,266 you know. I'm still very new to this 77 00:03:27,266 --> 00:03:29,367 -in different ways and like... -That's fair. That's okay. 78 00:03:29,433 --> 00:03:30,400 -You know... -That's okay. 79 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,000 I'm used to, like, having the power to see, like, 80 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,266 does Danielle want this 81 00:03:34,266 --> 00:03:36,767 or does Danielle not want this? 82 00:03:36,767 --> 00:03:38,667 I'm curious to see how things are gonna 83 00:03:38,667 --> 00:03:40,567 continue to grow. 84 00:03:40,567 --> 00:03:42,867 But I'm feeling pretty good 85 00:03:42,867 --> 00:03:44,867 -and I want to see how things go. -All right. 86 00:03:44,934 --> 00:03:46,467 All right. Well then, enough said. 87 00:03:46,467 --> 00:03:48,667 -Okay. -That's all that needs to be established. 88 00:03:49,567 --> 00:03:50,567 Okay. 89 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,567 Being in this sort of relationship 90 00:03:55,567 --> 00:03:56,967 is extremely difficult, 91 00:03:56,967 --> 00:03:59,567 so I have to appreciate 92 00:03:59,567 --> 00:04:01,166 the fact that there's gonna be 93 00:04:01,166 --> 00:04:03,166 some challenge to overcome. 94 00:04:03,233 --> 00:04:06,467 I think after showing herself that she could 95 00:04:06,467 --> 00:04:07,767 leave the situation, 96 00:04:07,767 --> 00:04:10,166 if that was really what she wanted to do, 97 00:04:10,166 --> 00:04:11,166 and then seeing that 98 00:04:11,233 --> 00:04:13,367 that wasn't what she really wanted to do, 99 00:04:13,433 --> 00:04:16,533 um, I think that's something that she's really taken in. 100 00:04:17,667 --> 00:04:19,333 [both chuckle] 101 00:04:22,300 --> 00:04:23,433 [Danielle] Okay. 102 00:04:24,867 --> 00:04:27,266 It's definitely challenging to 103 00:04:27,266 --> 00:04:30,467 be the one that's like, "Hey, I'm not feeling this." 104 00:04:30,467 --> 00:04:33,266 And so, sometimes I find myself compromising 105 00:04:33,266 --> 00:04:35,367 when I should be just putting my foot down about things, 106 00:04:35,433 --> 00:04:36,834 and that can be kind of hard to do. 107 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:40,066 Okay, I'm gonna get the pillows 108 00:04:40,066 --> 00:04:42,934 off the bed that we don't use. 109 00:04:46,100 --> 00:04:48,467 [Jasmine] The giant bed looks perfect. 110 00:04:48,467 --> 00:04:49,767 We mapped it out, 111 00:04:49,834 --> 00:04:52,367 and we should have enough room for everybody, 112 00:04:52,433 --> 00:04:53,867 so I don't anticipate that 113 00:04:53,934 --> 00:04:55,266 there will be a problem. 114 00:04:55,333 --> 00:04:58,767 So, you are going dead in the middle. 115 00:04:58,767 --> 00:04:59,967 -Yeah. -Like, dead center. 116 00:05:00,100 --> 00:05:01,266 -Okay. -[Danielle] Yeah. 117 00:05:01,333 --> 00:05:03,367 Oh, nice. That's where all the snuggles happen, yeah? 118 00:05:03,367 --> 00:05:05,000 -[Jennifer] Yes. -[Nick] That's what's up. 119 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:06,867 I like Jasmine. I really do. 120 00:05:06,867 --> 00:05:08,667 I agreed to the sleepover, 121 00:05:08,667 --> 00:05:09,767 but there has been some jealousy. 122 00:05:09,767 --> 00:05:10,967 There has been some insecurities. 123 00:05:10,967 --> 00:05:13,567 [Jennifer] All right, Jasmine. 124 00:05:13,567 --> 00:05:15,767 You're up next. 125 00:05:15,767 --> 00:05:17,567 And I'm not exactly sure 126 00:05:17,634 --> 00:05:19,967 how this is gonna look with her. 127 00:05:20,033 --> 00:05:21,467 -Comfy? -Yeah. 128 00:05:21,467 --> 00:05:23,133 [Jasmine] All right. Good night. 129 00:05:26,567 --> 00:05:27,800 [giggles] 130 00:05:30,367 --> 00:05:32,467 [April] There's two big things about this sleepover date. 131 00:05:32,533 --> 00:05:34,000 How Danielle's gonna react to it, 132 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,367 and how Jasmine's gonna react to it. 133 00:05:36,433 --> 00:05:37,266 I don't know if 134 00:05:37,266 --> 00:05:39,166 Jasmine's gonna actually be comfortable. 135 00:05:39,166 --> 00:05:41,266 But the biggest worry is that 136 00:05:41,333 --> 00:05:42,767 Danielle will have repeat behavior, 137 00:05:42,767 --> 00:05:44,367 that she won't communicate with us 138 00:05:44,433 --> 00:05:46,266 if she's not really comfortable with it. 139 00:05:46,266 --> 00:05:49,567 And honestly, the worst thing that could happen is 140 00:05:49,567 --> 00:05:51,166 that she leaves again. 141 00:05:51,166 --> 00:05:52,367 And... 142 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,834 that would be devastating. 143 00:05:57,100 --> 00:05:58,166 Good night, my loves. 144 00:05:58,166 --> 00:05:59,967 -[Danielle] Good night. -[Jennifer] Good night. 145 00:06:00,100 --> 00:06:01,367 [April] Everyone have enough room? 146 00:06:01,367 --> 00:06:03,233 -[Jasmine] Yes. -[Danielle] I think so. 147 00:06:05,767 --> 00:06:07,233 [April] All right, babes. 148 00:06:08,100 --> 00:06:10,066 -Good night. -[Jennifer] Good night. 149 00:06:10,066 --> 00:06:13,533 [Danielle and Nick chuckle] 150 00:06:28,367 --> 00:06:30,000 [Garrick] You want a glass of wine or something? 151 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,066 -Yeah, I'll take a glass of wine. -[Garrick] Yeah? 152 00:06:32,066 --> 00:06:33,166 -Okay. -[Mariam] Yeah. 153 00:06:33,166 --> 00:06:35,266 [Garrick] Tonight, Mariam and I, 154 00:06:35,266 --> 00:06:37,567 we're gonna have a stay-in date night, um, 155 00:06:37,567 --> 00:06:38,667 just on the couch, uh, 156 00:06:38,734 --> 00:06:40,867 spend a little time together, and, 157 00:06:40,934 --> 00:06:42,767 uh, get to know each other. 158 00:06:42,834 --> 00:06:44,667 -Cheers. -Cheers. 159 00:06:44,667 --> 00:06:45,834 Okay. 160 00:06:46,700 --> 00:06:48,000 I've really been excited 161 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,266 to spend a little time with her alone. 162 00:06:50,333 --> 00:06:51,767 You know, I think that's super special. 163 00:06:51,767 --> 00:06:54,567 I mean, you know, it's not gonna be the same with each wife, 164 00:06:54,567 --> 00:06:56,066 so it's very important for me 165 00:06:56,066 --> 00:06:57,567 to get to know her, 166 00:06:57,567 --> 00:07:00,100 um, and love her and, 167 00:07:00,100 --> 00:07:02,667 you know, and receive love back from her, hopefully. 168 00:07:03,567 --> 00:07:04,867 You like the fireplace? 169 00:07:04,867 --> 00:07:07,166 -Yeah, it's comfy. -[Garrick] Yeah? 170 00:07:07,166 --> 00:07:08,867 -[Mariam] Yeah. -I thought it was nice. 171 00:07:08,934 --> 00:07:10,667 [Mariam] Cozy. I like all of this. 172 00:07:10,667 --> 00:07:12,166 Are you comfortable? 173 00:07:12,166 --> 00:07:13,266 -Mmm-hmm. -Okay. 174 00:07:13,266 --> 00:07:14,333 [chuckles] 175 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:16,166 Let's get closer, huh? 176 00:07:16,166 --> 00:07:17,433 There you go. [chuckles] 177 00:07:21,266 --> 00:07:23,100 But, yeah, I like it. 178 00:07:23,100 --> 00:07:24,100 -Yeah? -Yeah. 179 00:07:25,100 --> 00:07:27,667 I heard you have a good time with Dannielle today. 180 00:07:27,667 --> 00:07:29,767 Yeah, I enjoyed that. We needed that. 181 00:07:29,834 --> 00:07:32,066 -Sorry. My hair is in the way. -That's okay. 182 00:07:32,133 --> 00:07:33,467 -Yeah. -Is this okay? 183 00:07:33,467 --> 00:07:35,266 -Yeah. -Yeah. 184 00:07:35,333 --> 00:07:37,066 Mariam is definitely 185 00:07:37,066 --> 00:07:38,867 a gorgeous, curvy woman. 186 00:07:38,867 --> 00:07:40,567 I mean, she's full-figured, 187 00:07:40,567 --> 00:07:42,567 um, which is nice, 188 00:07:42,634 --> 00:07:45,467 and she definitely knows how to doll up, 189 00:07:45,467 --> 00:07:46,567 which is a nice quality, 190 00:07:46,567 --> 00:07:48,934 'cause some women just don't know how to do that. 191 00:07:49,767 --> 00:07:52,467 I was happy to see you meet all the family. 192 00:07:52,467 --> 00:07:53,867 -Mmm-hmm. -They all seem to 193 00:07:54,567 --> 00:07:55,967 really like you a lot. 194 00:07:56,033 --> 00:07:57,467 I like everyone, too. 195 00:07:57,533 --> 00:07:59,433 -Yeah? -Yeah. I enjoyed my time. 196 00:08:01,066 --> 00:08:03,567 I'm still not at that stage where I feel comfortable, 197 00:08:03,567 --> 00:08:06,667 you know, being touchy-feely. 198 00:08:06,734 --> 00:08:07,867 I feel it's awkward. 199 00:08:07,867 --> 00:08:09,467 It's kind of awkward. 200 00:08:09,533 --> 00:08:12,867 I want him to get to know me more on a deeper, personal, 201 00:08:12,867 --> 00:08:16,066 you know, deeper, personal conversations. 202 00:08:16,066 --> 00:08:17,667 [Garrick] What do you want to do? 203 00:08:17,667 --> 00:08:19,000 Do you have any dreams of... 204 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,667 -[Mariam] What I want to do? -[Garrick] ...aesthetician? 205 00:08:20,734 --> 00:08:22,867 I want to do something in, like, the beauty industry. 206 00:08:22,867 --> 00:08:24,467 So we could team up on that, huh? 207 00:08:24,533 --> 00:08:27,066 In the beauty industry? Do you know anything about it? 208 00:08:27,066 --> 00:08:28,767 I love designing. 209 00:08:28,767 --> 00:08:29,967 I'm artistic. 210 00:08:30,033 --> 00:08:31,266 So my dream is to design 211 00:08:31,266 --> 00:08:33,266 -women's clothing. -[Mariam] Mmm-hmm. 212 00:08:33,266 --> 00:08:34,867 You might be my fashion model. 213 00:08:34,934 --> 00:08:36,333 [laughs] 214 00:08:37,567 --> 00:08:39,100 How would you feel if I was 215 00:08:39,100 --> 00:08:41,266 to put the hijab on, the scarf? 216 00:08:41,333 --> 00:08:43,467 -[Garrick] Hijab? -Yeah. [chuckles] 217 00:08:43,533 --> 00:08:45,667 -How would you feel about it? -I'd say, 218 00:08:45,734 --> 00:08:46,967 "Where's my beautiful wife at?" 219 00:08:46,967 --> 00:08:48,266 -Really? -I'd be trying to pull it off. 220 00:08:48,333 --> 00:08:50,166 -[both laugh] -Like, come... Where you at? 221 00:08:51,667 --> 00:08:54,667 -I do end up planning on putting it on someday. -[Garrick] Yeah? 222 00:08:57,367 --> 00:08:58,867 I mean, I don't think it's bad. 223 00:08:58,867 --> 00:09:00,667 -I just... -You don't like it? 224 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,166 I don't know if it's "I don't like it." 225 00:09:05,266 --> 00:09:06,634 I think you're beautiful. 226 00:09:07,767 --> 00:09:09,100 But I could take it off in the house. 227 00:09:09,100 --> 00:09:10,767 [Garrick] Oh, well, that's fine. 228 00:09:10,767 --> 00:09:12,867 -As long as I get to see you. [chuckles] -[Mariam] Yeah. 229 00:09:14,500 --> 00:09:17,266 [Garrick] You know, the Muslim faith to her is 230 00:09:17,333 --> 00:09:19,367 really important. Um, 231 00:09:19,367 --> 00:09:20,967 and it's kind of intrigued me to 232 00:09:20,967 --> 00:09:23,667 see what it's about so I can meet people 233 00:09:23,667 --> 00:09:25,533 where they're at, you know, because... 234 00:09:26,266 --> 00:09:28,100 I don't know what I'm talking about. 235 00:09:28,100 --> 00:09:29,266 I didn't 236 00:09:29,266 --> 00:09:32,266 love God or live for God when I was younger. 237 00:09:32,266 --> 00:09:35,367 I was pretty bad. I was a playboy. 238 00:09:35,367 --> 00:09:36,867 -[Mariam] Oh, yeah? -Wild boy. 239 00:09:36,867 --> 00:09:38,467 -Yeah. -[Mariam chuckles] 240 00:09:38,533 --> 00:09:41,767 Define bad. What did you do that was so bad? 241 00:09:41,834 --> 00:09:43,367 Started a gang in town. 242 00:09:43,367 --> 00:09:45,166 -[Mariam] What? -[chuckles] 243 00:09:45,233 --> 00:09:47,367 -Tough guy. Cool guy. -[laughing] Oh, my God. 244 00:09:47,433 --> 00:09:50,166 [Garrick] I made people pay me for cash for protection. 245 00:09:50,233 --> 00:09:51,567 I was pretty bad. 246 00:09:51,567 --> 00:09:53,100 -[Mariam] You're lying. -[Garrick] No. 247 00:09:53,100 --> 00:09:55,567 I had, like, decals on the trucks of the gang. 248 00:09:55,634 --> 00:09:58,166 -We made them get it on their trucks. -What was your gang name? 249 00:09:58,166 --> 00:09:59,567 Always Thuggin' Krew. 250 00:09:59,634 --> 00:10:00,867 Yeah. And we did... 251 00:10:00,867 --> 00:10:03,166 It should be a C, but we did it with a K. 252 00:10:03,166 --> 00:10:05,567 [Mariam] He was telling me about some gang he created 253 00:10:05,634 --> 00:10:07,166 when he was younger, 254 00:10:07,166 --> 00:10:08,567 um, which I found funny, 255 00:10:08,567 --> 00:10:10,767 because Garrick grew up in this town, 256 00:10:10,767 --> 00:10:13,467 and he's, like, six generations in. 257 00:10:13,467 --> 00:10:15,967 So it's like, were you spoiled and just a little rebel 258 00:10:15,967 --> 00:10:18,667 doing what you wanted to do in the city? 259 00:10:18,667 --> 00:10:20,233 So it was kind of funny. 260 00:10:21,467 --> 00:10:23,533 So what are you feeling about, 261 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:25,767 I guess, me? 262 00:10:25,834 --> 00:10:27,266 -[Mariam] About you? -Mmm-hmm. 263 00:10:27,266 --> 00:10:28,567 Different. 264 00:10:28,567 --> 00:10:30,166 -[Garrick] Yeah? -Yeah. [chuckles] 265 00:10:30,233 --> 00:10:31,000 [Garrick] It's true. 266 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:32,967 Yeah. I want to get to know you more. 267 00:10:33,033 --> 00:10:33,834 [Garrick] Yeah? 268 00:10:33,834 --> 00:10:35,734 -See where things go. -[Garrick] Yeah. 269 00:10:36,767 --> 00:10:37,867 -Yeah? -[Mariam chuckles] 270 00:10:37,867 --> 00:10:39,166 It's okay. 271 00:10:39,166 --> 00:10:40,567 [Mariam] Yeah. 272 00:10:40,567 --> 00:10:42,667 Yeah. But I don't know about living in this town. 273 00:10:42,734 --> 00:10:44,166 -No? -Mmm-mmm. 274 00:10:44,166 --> 00:10:46,667 What if we have a separate house? 275 00:10:46,667 --> 00:10:48,266 It's not about the house. It's the town. 276 00:10:48,333 --> 00:10:50,166 -Oh, man. No? The town? -[laughs] 277 00:10:50,166 --> 00:10:51,333 -Why? -No. 278 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:54,767 I hear Mariam saying that 279 00:10:54,834 --> 00:10:56,967 she might not be able to live in a small town, 280 00:10:57,033 --> 00:10:58,533 but I really think 281 00:10:59,266 --> 00:11:00,767 I could change her mind, 282 00:11:00,767 --> 00:11:02,266 you know, by showing her the benefits 283 00:11:02,266 --> 00:11:04,367 of a small town, especially for children. 284 00:11:04,367 --> 00:11:06,667 You know, she may not understand 285 00:11:06,734 --> 00:11:07,867 all the great qualities, 286 00:11:07,867 --> 00:11:11,066 the safety you have, the freedom you have 287 00:11:11,133 --> 00:11:14,567 for your children to enjoy their childhood. 288 00:11:15,867 --> 00:11:17,367 Well, would you give it a try? 289 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:20,767 As long as there's a vacation home 290 00:11:20,767 --> 00:11:23,033 -too that I could sneak off to. -[Garrick] Okay. 291 00:11:24,066 --> 00:11:26,166 [Mariam] I feel like he didn't take it in 292 00:11:26,166 --> 00:11:28,567 when I was telling him I didn't want to live here. 293 00:11:29,767 --> 00:11:31,867 I'm not comfortable in this town. 294 00:11:31,867 --> 00:11:33,967 I'm probably the only brown... 295 00:11:34,033 --> 00:11:37,100 Well, I'm not brown, but tan skin person there. 296 00:11:37,100 --> 00:11:38,066 [laughs] 297 00:11:38,133 --> 00:11:39,266 All right, Garrick. Good night. 298 00:11:39,333 --> 00:11:40,333 [Garrick] Okay. Good night. 299 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:42,867 -I'll see you in the morning. -Okay. Yeah. 300 00:11:42,867 --> 00:11:43,867 [Mariam] All right. 301 00:11:43,867 --> 00:11:45,367 I think Garrick has a plan in his head 302 00:11:45,367 --> 00:11:48,066 what he wants to do in life and what he wants to create, 303 00:11:48,066 --> 00:11:50,667 and he wants me to be a part of it. 304 00:11:50,667 --> 00:11:52,467 I'm trying to take my time with them to know 305 00:11:52,467 --> 00:11:53,867 if this is what I really want, 306 00:11:53,867 --> 00:11:55,533 and this is who they really are. 307 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:09,767 [Garrick] She's kind of standoffish. Um... 308 00:12:09,767 --> 00:12:12,266 Not sure what that is. Um, 309 00:12:12,333 --> 00:12:14,567 if it's a cultural thing, um, 310 00:12:14,567 --> 00:12:16,166 it's a little awkward for sure, 311 00:12:16,166 --> 00:12:18,667 but I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt 312 00:12:18,734 --> 00:12:21,166 and would like to kind of, 313 00:12:21,166 --> 00:12:23,000 you know, learn more about 314 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,567 is this cultural or is this something between 315 00:12:25,567 --> 00:12:27,233 me and her personally, you know. 316 00:12:31,500 --> 00:12:32,967 How do you think things are going? 317 00:12:32,967 --> 00:12:34,567 I don't see any problems. 318 00:12:34,634 --> 00:12:36,066 [Danielle] Last night, it was 319 00:12:36,066 --> 00:12:37,767 a little strange having Jasmine in bed with us. 320 00:12:37,767 --> 00:12:40,066 I do kind of have to address 321 00:12:40,133 --> 00:12:41,934 there has been some difficulties. 322 00:12:43,166 --> 00:12:44,834 I'm not okay with this at all. 323 00:12:50,300 --> 00:12:52,333 [pleasant music playing] 324 00:12:58,367 --> 00:12:59,333 [Nick snoring] 325 00:13:13,266 --> 00:13:14,367 [Nick continues snoring] 326 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:29,433 [Jasmine] Yeah. 327 00:13:30,367 --> 00:13:31,367 [exhales] 328 00:13:37,467 --> 00:13:38,567 Good morning. 329 00:13:38,567 --> 00:13:40,166 How did you sleep? 330 00:13:40,166 --> 00:13:42,967 Um, pretty good, I would say. 331 00:13:43,033 --> 00:13:44,867 Got some good sleep. 332 00:13:44,867 --> 00:13:47,166 Last night, Jasmine spent the night. 333 00:13:47,166 --> 00:13:49,166 It was a little strange having Jasmine in bed with us. 334 00:13:49,166 --> 00:13:50,266 You know, I mean, 335 00:13:50,266 --> 00:13:52,266 I'm glad that we were able to do that, 336 00:13:52,333 --> 00:13:53,967 but can we do that every night? 337 00:13:54,033 --> 00:13:55,367 I don't know. 338 00:13:55,433 --> 00:13:56,634 What about you? 339 00:13:57,467 --> 00:13:58,667 [Jasmine] Pretty good, actually. 340 00:13:58,667 --> 00:14:01,166 I know it's probably different 341 00:14:01,166 --> 00:14:03,266 laying in bed with all of us. 342 00:14:03,333 --> 00:14:04,567 It was fine. 343 00:14:04,634 --> 00:14:06,567 [Danielle] Okay, good. I'm happy to hear that. 344 00:14:06,567 --> 00:14:07,867 [both laugh] 345 00:14:07,934 --> 00:14:09,567 [Jasmine] I think the night went well. 346 00:14:09,634 --> 00:14:10,767 It was nice and quiet, 347 00:14:10,767 --> 00:14:12,767 and it was great to have 348 00:14:12,767 --> 00:14:15,934 other people around while I slept. 349 00:14:16,667 --> 00:14:18,767 All right. Well, I say 350 00:14:18,767 --> 00:14:22,266 let's go ahead and have a seat outside. 351 00:14:22,333 --> 00:14:23,667 I'm glad Jasmine and I 352 00:14:23,734 --> 00:14:25,166 were the first ones up this morning. 353 00:14:25,166 --> 00:14:27,100 Being the latest wife in the family, 354 00:14:27,100 --> 00:14:28,767 and with her being my potential wife, 355 00:14:28,834 --> 00:14:30,767 it's good for us to have this one-on-one 356 00:14:30,767 --> 00:14:31,967 and kind of open up a bit. 357 00:14:32,033 --> 00:14:33,066 [Jasmine] All right. 358 00:14:33,133 --> 00:14:33,900 [Danielle laughs] 359 00:14:33,900 --> 00:14:35,166 [Danielle] When it comes to dating, 360 00:14:35,233 --> 00:14:37,066 we spend a lot of time collectively, 361 00:14:37,133 --> 00:14:38,767 but I need to know that 362 00:14:38,767 --> 00:14:40,967 when it's just us, my potential wife, 363 00:14:41,033 --> 00:14:42,767 I need to know that it's good. 364 00:14:42,834 --> 00:14:45,166 I don't want it to be necessarily led by everyone else, 365 00:14:45,233 --> 00:14:47,233 and then when we're secluded, it's just weird. 366 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:49,266 So, 367 00:14:49,266 --> 00:14:51,767 you know, after spending some time together, 368 00:14:51,767 --> 00:14:53,967 and you and Nick got to go on this date, 369 00:14:53,967 --> 00:14:56,767 and just all of us spending some 370 00:14:56,767 --> 00:14:58,100 time together, like, 371 00:14:58,100 --> 00:14:59,834 how do you think things are going? 372 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,166 [chuckles softly] I mean, I don't... 373 00:15:03,166 --> 00:15:06,266 I don't see any problems currently. 374 00:15:06,266 --> 00:15:07,667 Um... 375 00:15:07,667 --> 00:15:08,667 I mean, we're just 376 00:15:08,667 --> 00:15:10,266 getting to know each other for the moment, 377 00:15:10,266 --> 00:15:12,367 so, there's not much that can go wrong, 378 00:15:12,433 --> 00:15:14,667 -I feel like. -[Danielle laughs] Right. 379 00:15:14,667 --> 00:15:17,266 Yeah. Ideally, you know, 380 00:15:17,967 --> 00:15:20,166 as time goes on, I know this is kind of 381 00:15:20,166 --> 00:15:21,667 crazy to bring up already, 382 00:15:21,667 --> 00:15:24,100 but, you know, as things progress, 383 00:15:24,100 --> 00:15:26,166 we would definitely want 384 00:15:26,166 --> 00:15:28,667 you and your son to move in and... 385 00:15:28,734 --> 00:15:30,166 I mean, how would you feel about that? 386 00:15:30,166 --> 00:15:31,467 I know that's kind of, like, 387 00:15:31,467 --> 00:15:33,266 jumping, you know, in the future, 388 00:15:33,266 --> 00:15:34,567 but just, like, the thought of it. 389 00:15:34,634 --> 00:15:35,734 Like, what do you think? 390 00:15:35,734 --> 00:15:38,066 Um, I mean, the thought of it doesn't bother me at all. 391 00:15:38,066 --> 00:15:40,066 -[Danielle] Okay. -So... 392 00:15:40,133 --> 00:15:42,867 I do want to take it slow, but I do not mind 393 00:15:42,867 --> 00:15:44,867 -thinking about the future, at least. -[Danielle] Right. Okay. 394 00:15:44,867 --> 00:15:47,767 I'm just not going to act on it immediately. 395 00:15:47,834 --> 00:15:48,934 [Danielle] Exactly. 396 00:15:49,667 --> 00:15:52,100 So, there's definitely 397 00:15:52,100 --> 00:15:55,066 a lot of exciting things to look forward to, 398 00:15:55,133 --> 00:15:58,567 but I do kind of have to address, you know, 399 00:15:58,567 --> 00:16:01,166 there has been some difficulties being a sister wife. 400 00:16:01,166 --> 00:16:04,066 Um, I don't want to sit here and act like 401 00:16:04,133 --> 00:16:06,333 it's completely easy, 24-7. 402 00:16:07,300 --> 00:16:09,266 You know, I've definitely struggled with 403 00:16:09,266 --> 00:16:11,066 a lot of issues coming into it. 404 00:16:11,133 --> 00:16:13,767 Um, I've always been monogamous until now. 405 00:16:13,767 --> 00:16:14,767 -[Jasmine] Mmm-hmm. -And so, 406 00:16:14,767 --> 00:16:16,567 I just want you to feel like 407 00:16:16,634 --> 00:16:18,266 you can always vocalize how you're feeling 408 00:16:18,333 --> 00:16:21,367 or what your thoughts are, because I've definitely struggled myself. 409 00:16:21,433 --> 00:16:24,266 And I think, at times, I really wish I would have 410 00:16:24,333 --> 00:16:25,767 spoke up before it just 411 00:16:25,834 --> 00:16:28,066 began to snowball, if you will. 412 00:16:28,133 --> 00:16:29,767 -Yeah. -[Danielle] Um, 413 00:16:29,767 --> 00:16:31,166 it got to the point where 414 00:16:31,867 --> 00:16:33,266 I moved out. 415 00:16:33,333 --> 00:16:34,767 -Oh. -[Danielle] Yeah. 416 00:16:34,767 --> 00:16:36,867 -That's crazy. I had no idea. -[Danielle] Yeah. 417 00:16:36,867 --> 00:16:37,967 It was brief. 418 00:16:38,033 --> 00:16:39,667 Um, it was really brief, 419 00:16:39,667 --> 00:16:42,667 but I did, at one point, consider... 420 00:16:42,667 --> 00:16:43,767 separating. 421 00:16:43,767 --> 00:16:45,767 We've done a lot to work through it 422 00:16:45,834 --> 00:16:48,066 and talk about it. And honestly, 423 00:16:48,066 --> 00:16:50,166 this is a big first step. Like, you know, 424 00:16:50,233 --> 00:16:52,867 this is getting us getting back into dating. 425 00:16:52,867 --> 00:16:55,000 Danielle opens up to me this morning, 426 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:57,667 and I think that that was really brave of her. 427 00:16:57,667 --> 00:17:01,367 But I do not anticipate that I will have the same issues. 428 00:17:01,367 --> 00:17:03,066 I'm pretty secure 429 00:17:03,066 --> 00:17:04,667 in myself. 430 00:17:04,667 --> 00:17:06,567 I just kind of wanted to be transparent 431 00:17:06,567 --> 00:17:08,467 and not sit here and act like, 432 00:17:08,467 --> 00:17:10,667 you know, everything's all fine and cherries. 433 00:17:10,667 --> 00:17:12,367 And I will say, on a daily basis, like, 434 00:17:12,433 --> 00:17:14,467 we all get along great. Like, our dynamic 435 00:17:14,467 --> 00:17:15,867 -is a lot of fun. -Mmm-hmm. 436 00:17:15,867 --> 00:17:18,066 But with fun comes hard work. 437 00:17:20,166 --> 00:17:22,000 I don't feel like she was engaging with me 438 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:23,567 as much as she could have been. 439 00:17:23,567 --> 00:17:24,967 And maybe she was just listening. 440 00:17:25,033 --> 00:17:26,867 You know, she might not have much to say, 441 00:17:26,867 --> 00:17:29,000 but I don't feel like she was exactly, 442 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:32,066 um, really understanding what I was telling her. 443 00:17:32,133 --> 00:17:33,467 I'm not feeling 444 00:17:33,467 --> 00:17:36,467 that everything is in place that it needs to be. 445 00:17:36,533 --> 00:17:39,166 Nothing bad happened. But it's like, 446 00:17:39,166 --> 00:17:42,066 "Girl, you're gonna be potentially my wife." 447 00:17:42,066 --> 00:17:45,367 I can't just let anybody slip into this situation. You know, 448 00:17:45,367 --> 00:17:48,166 a marriage is a true commitment. 449 00:17:48,233 --> 00:17:49,867 At this time, I'm just not sure if 450 00:17:49,867 --> 00:17:52,667 Jasmine could be our potential sister wife. 451 00:18:08,266 --> 00:18:09,567 Hey. 452 00:18:09,567 --> 00:18:11,166 [Becky] Oh, hi. 453 00:18:11,233 --> 00:18:12,767 -How are you? -I'm good. How are you? 454 00:18:12,834 --> 00:18:14,567 -I'm good. -How was everything? 455 00:18:14,567 --> 00:18:17,667 -[kisses] -It was good. You know, we... 456 00:18:17,667 --> 00:18:19,967 sat, hung out, talked for a while. 457 00:18:20,033 --> 00:18:21,467 Had your dinner? 458 00:18:21,533 --> 00:18:23,100 -[Justin] Had dinner. Yeah. -Yeah? 459 00:18:23,100 --> 00:18:25,266 -Let's go sit down. Chill for a minute. -[Becky] Okay. 460 00:18:25,266 --> 00:18:26,467 -Okay. -[Justin] Talk about it. 461 00:18:26,533 --> 00:18:27,500 [Becky] All right. 462 00:18:32,467 --> 00:18:35,567 You just, uh, talked about some important things? 463 00:18:35,634 --> 00:18:37,467 Um, yeah. I mean, I tried to... 464 00:18:37,533 --> 00:18:39,266 tried to push it. See, you know, 465 00:18:39,266 --> 00:18:40,867 if she was really interested or not. 466 00:18:40,867 --> 00:18:42,867 You know, 'cause we've... we've been going out 467 00:18:42,867 --> 00:18:44,467 for several months now... 468 00:18:44,467 --> 00:18:46,166 -Mmm-hmm. -...and, you know, it's still kind of 469 00:18:46,166 --> 00:18:48,767 super slow, which I'm... 470 00:18:48,767 --> 00:18:51,767 kind of cool with after the last round. 471 00:18:51,767 --> 00:18:52,667 Um... 472 00:18:52,667 --> 00:18:54,166 [kisses] Come here, baby. 473 00:18:54,233 --> 00:18:56,266 -Stay. There you go. -Come here. 474 00:18:56,266 --> 00:18:57,467 -Hi. -Good girl. 475 00:18:57,467 --> 00:18:59,967 We had lightning in a bottle with Stephanie. 476 00:19:00,100 --> 00:19:02,367 We were like, "Yeah, let's do... 477 00:19:02,367 --> 00:19:04,166 We're doing life together 478 00:19:04,233 --> 00:19:06,567 for the rest of our lives right now." 479 00:19:06,567 --> 00:19:10,467 Um, and then seeing how, you know, that turned out, 480 00:19:10,533 --> 00:19:13,166 crash and burn, I'm kind of cool with taking it 481 00:19:13,166 --> 00:19:16,567 slower with Yary because I understand 482 00:19:16,567 --> 00:19:18,467 that it's a big jump from... 483 00:19:18,467 --> 00:19:22,133 from regular, normal people life to polygamy. 484 00:19:23,667 --> 00:19:26,100 She didn't say this, but I kind of felt like 485 00:19:26,100 --> 00:19:28,567 it's what she was getting at, was... 486 00:19:28,634 --> 00:19:30,166 I just want a man all to myself. 487 00:19:31,467 --> 00:19:32,767 Oh, did she say that? 488 00:19:33,467 --> 00:19:34,834 [Justin] Yeah. I mean, you know... 489 00:19:36,667 --> 00:19:39,867 She was like, "I want a husband that is, you know... 490 00:19:39,867 --> 00:19:41,066 just for me." 491 00:19:43,867 --> 00:19:46,367 [Becky] Yary saying that she... 492 00:19:46,433 --> 00:19:48,734 wants a man only to herself... 493 00:19:49,767 --> 00:19:51,667 makes me feel like 494 00:19:51,734 --> 00:19:54,433 she's definitely not in the right relationship. 495 00:19:55,166 --> 00:19:56,867 So what was her point to keep... 496 00:19:56,867 --> 00:19:59,000 What is her point to keep going if she doesn't... 497 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:00,834 She thinks something's gonna change maybe? 498 00:20:02,967 --> 00:20:04,266 I... [laughing] 499 00:20:04,266 --> 00:20:05,767 Okay, she's saying in general, 500 00:20:05,767 --> 00:20:08,767 "Oh, you know, I prefer to have a man to myself." 501 00:20:08,767 --> 00:20:12,166 Or is she actually saying she wants you to herself 502 00:20:12,233 --> 00:20:14,000 and she's thinking that if she holds on with us, 503 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:17,567 some... some miraculous situation is gonna happen 504 00:20:17,567 --> 00:20:19,066 where she's gonna have you to herself? 505 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,867 I don't see that's what she's looking for. 506 00:20:21,867 --> 00:20:25,166 It's like, "Oh, I'm gonna steal Justin from Becky." You know... 507 00:20:25,233 --> 00:20:26,467 What does she say about like, 508 00:20:26,467 --> 00:20:29,367 potentially in the future, joining our family? 509 00:20:29,367 --> 00:20:31,066 Like, being a part of our family. 510 00:20:31,133 --> 00:20:33,667 Like, I know that she couldn't steal... 511 00:20:33,667 --> 00:20:34,867 you from me. 512 00:20:34,934 --> 00:20:36,166 -[Justin] Mmm-hmm. -I know that's not a possibility. 513 00:20:36,233 --> 00:20:38,367 But is that what she's hoping for? 514 00:20:38,433 --> 00:20:41,567 Is that the angle she's trying and hoping to eventually get? 515 00:20:41,634 --> 00:20:44,467 'Cause if that's the case, then why are we wasting our time? 516 00:20:44,533 --> 00:20:46,066 I mean, we're just... We're wasting our time. 517 00:20:46,133 --> 00:20:47,066 She's wasting our time. 518 00:20:47,066 --> 00:20:48,767 We're wasting her time. 519 00:20:48,767 --> 00:20:50,166 'Cause that's never gonna happen. 520 00:20:51,467 --> 00:20:54,967 I'm feeling that we're kind of on, 521 00:20:55,033 --> 00:20:57,266 like, a plateau, I guess, so to speak. 522 00:20:57,266 --> 00:20:59,266 I don't feel like things are really going anywhere, 523 00:20:59,333 --> 00:21:00,567 but I don't know if it's because she just 524 00:21:00,567 --> 00:21:02,367 really wants to move that slow 525 00:21:02,367 --> 00:21:04,433 or if she's just really not into it. 526 00:21:05,467 --> 00:21:08,634 I mean, she obviously likes me. She likes you. 527 00:21:09,266 --> 00:21:11,367 Uh, she's just never heard of this, 528 00:21:11,367 --> 00:21:13,567 and so she's not sure what, 529 00:21:13,567 --> 00:21:15,000 -you know... -To expect from it. 530 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:18,667 Maybe she just needs more time with us. Um... 531 00:21:18,667 --> 00:21:22,467 Maybe to change her mind or come around to that. 532 00:21:22,533 --> 00:21:24,467 It's not as bad as she thinks it would be. 533 00:21:24,467 --> 00:21:25,967 -[Justin] Mmm-hmm. -I don't know. 534 00:21:25,967 --> 00:21:28,367 I mean, hey, if we find somebody in the meantime... 535 00:21:28,367 --> 00:21:31,100 -[Justin] Mmm-hmm. -...obviously we're gonna focus on that person. 536 00:21:31,100 --> 00:21:33,133 Yeah for sure. I mean, I told her that. 537 00:21:34,300 --> 00:21:38,166 [Becky] My relationship with Yary and compared to... 538 00:21:38,233 --> 00:21:41,567 my relationship with Stephanie is not really a comparison. 539 00:21:41,567 --> 00:21:43,767 Like, we were super close. 540 00:21:43,834 --> 00:21:46,166 Like, we talked to each other every day. 541 00:21:46,233 --> 00:21:48,967 You know, we're always planning the next time we're gonna get to see her. 542 00:21:48,967 --> 00:21:50,467 And with Yary, 543 00:21:50,533 --> 00:21:52,467 days will go by, and I won't even hear from her. 544 00:21:53,266 --> 00:21:54,266 So... 545 00:21:55,667 --> 00:21:57,567 [Becky] I'm still trying to figure out 546 00:21:57,567 --> 00:21:58,867 if Yary is a good addition. 547 00:21:58,867 --> 00:22:01,467 We don't... we don't really know for sure. Um... 548 00:22:01,467 --> 00:22:04,100 [Justin] I see Yary as a good potential because, 549 00:22:04,100 --> 00:22:07,667 you know, obviously, she's beautiful, but she's really 550 00:22:07,667 --> 00:22:09,467 conflicted inside of her, 551 00:22:09,467 --> 00:22:11,667 if... if she can do this lifestyle or not. 552 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,867 [Becky] So we're still gonna be continuing to seek 553 00:22:14,867 --> 00:22:18,100 for that perfect sister wife, and, uh... 554 00:22:18,100 --> 00:22:20,000 hopefully, you know, we'll find that. 555 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:21,266 I mean, there's some people that are looking for 556 00:22:21,266 --> 00:22:24,066 that loving family dynamic to make them feel safe 557 00:22:24,066 --> 00:22:26,934 and protected, and... happy, and... 558 00:22:27,767 --> 00:22:29,433 -Yeah. Sure. -That's what we have to offer. 559 00:22:33,166 --> 00:22:35,066 -Well, thanks for having me. -[April] Yeah. 560 00:22:35,133 --> 00:22:36,967 I am interested in Jasmine. 561 00:22:36,967 --> 00:22:38,767 And I count on my wives 562 00:22:38,767 --> 00:22:42,066 to recognize that I'd like to pursue 563 00:22:42,066 --> 00:22:44,467 a relationship with her further. 564 00:22:54,500 --> 00:22:55,567 -[Jasmine] Good morning. -[Nick] Hello. 565 00:22:55,634 --> 00:22:57,667 -Hey. Good morning. -[Nick] Good morning. 566 00:22:57,667 --> 00:22:59,367 How's everybody doing today? 567 00:22:59,433 --> 00:23:00,533 -How are you feeling? -[Danielle] Good. Good. 568 00:23:00,533 --> 00:23:02,567 [Jasmine] How are you in your little bunny slippers? 569 00:23:02,634 --> 00:23:04,567 [Danielle and Nick laugh] 570 00:23:04,634 --> 00:23:06,467 [laughing] I'm doing all right. 571 00:23:06,467 --> 00:23:08,266 -Good morning. -Hello, Jasmine. Did you sleep all right? 572 00:23:08,333 --> 00:23:09,867 [Jasmine] Yes. I did. 573 00:23:09,934 --> 00:23:12,367 -Did you? -[Nick] I did. Yeah. 574 00:23:12,367 --> 00:23:14,767 [April] Say good morning. 575 00:23:14,767 --> 00:23:16,867 -[Danielle] Good morning. -[Jennifer] Good morning. 576 00:23:16,867 --> 00:23:19,266 I was waking up with Jasmine and the house was fun. 577 00:23:19,333 --> 00:23:22,000 I mean, it was cool. It felt natural. 578 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,266 I was happy that Jasmine felt comfortable 579 00:23:24,266 --> 00:23:26,266 to sleep in the bed the whole night. 580 00:23:26,266 --> 00:23:28,367 Having four women in the bed is, 581 00:23:28,367 --> 00:23:30,367 you know, something I've not experienced yet, 582 00:23:30,367 --> 00:23:33,467 so that was new for me and very fun. 583 00:23:34,367 --> 00:23:36,166 [April] I slept good. How did you sleep? 584 00:23:36,166 --> 00:23:37,767 -Pretty good, actually. -[Nick] With the additional body? 585 00:23:37,767 --> 00:23:40,567 And apparently, I didn't knee anybody. I didn't, like... 586 00:23:40,634 --> 00:23:42,100 ...take out anybody with an elbow. 587 00:23:42,100 --> 00:23:44,967 -Yeah. -[Jasmine] I didn't rip the blankets off of nobody. 588 00:23:44,967 --> 00:23:47,266 -So... -I didn't even feel you get out of the bed. 589 00:23:47,266 --> 00:23:48,934 Oh, good. Yeah. I kind of, like... 590 00:23:49,767 --> 00:23:51,066 [all laughing] 591 00:23:51,133 --> 00:23:53,166 Wait. You went under the blanket? 592 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,967 Yes. I, like, slithered down. 593 00:23:58,033 --> 00:23:59,967 And I, like, slipped out the bottom of the blanket. 594 00:23:59,967 --> 00:24:02,000 -I was curious. Do you... -I didn't even notice. 595 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,567 Did any of you ever try that move? 596 00:24:03,567 --> 00:24:05,667 -I usually go out the top. -[April] I have never tried to get out. I mean, 597 00:24:05,667 --> 00:24:07,967 I'm... I'm in the middle sometimes. 598 00:24:08,033 --> 00:24:10,367 Like, in between Danielle and Nick sometimes. 599 00:24:10,367 --> 00:24:12,533 So I've never tried that either. Mmm-mmm. 600 00:24:14,900 --> 00:24:16,367 -Yeah, like get-- -[Nick speaking] 601 00:24:16,367 --> 00:24:18,066 -Slither on out. -[Nick] Yeah. 602 00:24:18,133 --> 00:24:19,467 Stealth mode. We love it. 603 00:24:19,533 --> 00:24:20,867 -[Jasmine] Right. -[chuckles] 604 00:24:20,867 --> 00:24:22,166 I'm so glad that you came over. 605 00:24:22,166 --> 00:24:23,266 -Thank you for coming over... -[Danielle] Yes. 606 00:24:23,266 --> 00:24:24,567 -...and hanging out. -[Nick] Had a wonderful night. 607 00:24:24,567 --> 00:24:26,867 -It was a lot of fun, Jasmine. -Yeah, it was a lot of fun. 608 00:24:26,867 --> 00:24:28,967 [Jasmine] The bubble bath was very, very nice. 609 00:24:28,967 --> 00:24:30,667 [all laughing] 610 00:24:30,667 --> 00:24:33,266 [Jennifer] I think, you know, Jasmine keeps us on our toes. 611 00:24:33,266 --> 00:24:35,667 She keeps things fun and spontaneous. 612 00:24:35,667 --> 00:24:38,166 -And I think that that's really good, you know. -Yeah. 613 00:24:38,166 --> 00:24:40,367 Uh, Danielle, how are you feeling about Jasmine? 614 00:24:40,367 --> 00:24:41,967 Uh, I mean, so far, 615 00:24:42,033 --> 00:24:44,367 there's definitely some awkward moments. But... 616 00:24:44,367 --> 00:24:46,166 she's spunky, she's fun. 617 00:24:46,166 --> 00:24:48,967 We just kind of gotta see how that... that goes with us. 618 00:24:51,467 --> 00:24:52,867 -[April] All right. Well... -Okay. 619 00:24:52,934 --> 00:24:54,934 -...let's go then. -[Jennifer] Time to get ready. 620 00:24:56,567 --> 00:24:59,100 I... I am interested in Jasmine. 621 00:24:59,100 --> 00:25:01,367 I think she's, uh... 622 00:25:01,433 --> 00:25:02,767 very interesting. 623 00:25:02,767 --> 00:25:03,767 This was great. 624 00:25:03,767 --> 00:25:04,867 It was so fun. 625 00:25:04,934 --> 00:25:06,567 I don't even want you to leave. 626 00:25:06,634 --> 00:25:08,133 -Thanks for having me. -[April] Yeah. 627 00:25:09,467 --> 00:25:10,667 It was fun. 628 00:25:10,667 --> 00:25:12,967 [Jasmine] Honestly, the next steps for me 629 00:25:12,967 --> 00:25:16,367 is more of like an information gathering phase. 630 00:25:16,433 --> 00:25:18,367 I want to spend time with everybody 631 00:25:18,367 --> 00:25:20,867 individually and as a whole, 632 00:25:20,867 --> 00:25:24,367 to really get a sense of who they are. 633 00:25:24,367 --> 00:25:26,667 I'm going to be very, very nosy. 634 00:25:27,500 --> 00:25:30,767 -It's good to see you. -See you again soon. 635 00:25:30,767 --> 00:25:33,266 -[Danielle] Thank you. You too. -Of course. 636 00:25:33,333 --> 00:25:34,567 [Nick] Here, let me get the door for you, Jasmine. 637 00:25:34,567 --> 00:25:38,166 I would like to pursue 638 00:25:38,233 --> 00:25:40,367 a relationship with her further. 639 00:25:40,367 --> 00:25:42,867 But it's not just on me 640 00:25:42,867 --> 00:25:45,567 because I count on my wives to... 641 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,667 recognize things that I might miss. 642 00:25:48,667 --> 00:25:50,967 You know, I might be blinded by the beauty 643 00:25:51,033 --> 00:25:52,367 -or something like that. -[all laughing] 644 00:25:52,433 --> 00:25:53,867 I'm not able to see something 645 00:25:53,867 --> 00:25:55,767 that... that my wives are aware of. 646 00:25:55,834 --> 00:25:58,867 But, uh, there is kind of an aspect of it to me 647 00:25:58,867 --> 00:26:00,767 that might be slightly disappointing 648 00:26:00,834 --> 00:26:03,100 if we don't move forward with Jasmine. 649 00:26:03,100 --> 00:26:05,266 It was lovely to see you. 650 00:26:05,333 --> 00:26:07,567 -Look forward to doing this again. -Thank you for having me. 651 00:26:07,567 --> 00:26:10,367 Uh, there'll definitely be a family meeting in order. 652 00:26:10,433 --> 00:26:11,667 You know, as in we'll need to come together 653 00:26:11,667 --> 00:26:13,467 and kind of convene as a group. 654 00:26:13,467 --> 00:26:15,967 Kind of check notes, kind of cross compare. 655 00:26:15,967 --> 00:26:18,066 Uh, see what everybody else is thinking. 656 00:26:34,667 --> 00:26:37,233 -[Dannielle] Almost time to go, huh? -[Garrick] Yeah. 657 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,000 It was a good trip, huh? 658 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:42,367 Quick, but good. 659 00:26:42,367 --> 00:26:45,533 Quick, but good. But, um... Yeah. 660 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:49,166 Kind of makes me wanna go see her. 661 00:26:49,166 --> 00:26:51,100 [both laughing] 662 00:26:51,100 --> 00:26:52,567 Right. 663 00:26:52,634 --> 00:26:54,567 [Dannielle] We're getting ready to head back to Denver 664 00:26:54,567 --> 00:26:56,467 to take Mariam to the airport. 665 00:26:56,533 --> 00:26:57,967 She flies back to Michigan. 666 00:26:58,033 --> 00:27:00,066 I feel like the trip was a great success. 667 00:27:00,066 --> 00:27:01,767 I mean, it went really well. 668 00:27:01,767 --> 00:27:03,567 But we need to figure out a couple of things, 669 00:27:03,567 --> 00:27:05,867 talk some things out and, uh... 670 00:27:05,867 --> 00:27:08,166 But overall, it was a wonderful trip. 671 00:27:08,233 --> 00:27:10,066 I... I'm very happy. 672 00:27:10,133 --> 00:27:11,467 -Hey, beautiful. -[Mariam] How are you? 673 00:27:11,467 --> 00:27:12,467 [Dannielle] Good. How are you? 674 00:27:12,467 --> 00:27:13,867 Good. How's the baby? 675 00:27:13,934 --> 00:27:15,667 [Dannielle] Good. You haven't felt her kick yet, have you? 676 00:27:15,734 --> 00:27:17,066 -[Mariam] Mmm-mmm. She did. -[Dannielle] Please. 677 00:27:17,066 --> 00:27:18,667 -[Dannielle] Come on. -Well, I felt her butt yesterday or something. 678 00:27:18,734 --> 00:27:19,734 [Dannielle gasps] Ooh, wait. 679 00:27:21,367 --> 00:27:22,667 -No. -[Mariam] No. 680 00:27:22,734 --> 00:27:25,066 -Darn it. -[both chuckle] 681 00:27:25,066 --> 00:27:28,467 I feel closer to Mariam 682 00:27:28,467 --> 00:27:30,767 than I... than I do with Nathalia. 683 00:27:30,834 --> 00:27:33,166 I wish things were different with Nathalia and I, 684 00:27:33,166 --> 00:27:34,967 but it's gonna take a little more time 685 00:27:35,033 --> 00:27:36,567 for her to accept that 686 00:27:36,567 --> 00:27:39,533 we really are still open to searching. 687 00:27:40,867 --> 00:27:42,233 You ready for this drive? 688 00:27:43,266 --> 00:27:44,767 -[Garrick] Um... -Are you ready for me to leave? 689 00:27:44,767 --> 00:27:45,767 -No. -[Mariam] No? 690 00:27:45,834 --> 00:27:47,767 -Aw. -[Mariam] I know. 691 00:27:47,767 --> 00:27:48,867 It's okay. 692 00:27:48,867 --> 00:27:50,367 Well, I'll be back. I told you, like, yesterday. 693 00:27:50,433 --> 00:27:51,767 It's just a see you later. 694 00:27:51,834 --> 00:27:54,066 -[Garrick] Yeah, I know. -Not a goodbye. 695 00:27:54,066 --> 00:27:56,467 Maybe next month or something, 696 00:27:56,467 --> 00:27:58,166 or when the baby's born, I'll come. 697 00:27:58,166 --> 00:27:59,667 -[Garrick and Dannielle] Okay. -Okay? 698 00:27:59,667 --> 00:28:03,166 We're definitely gonna continue with Mariam, dating and courting her 699 00:28:03,166 --> 00:28:06,467 to see if... she's supposed to be in our family as a wife. 700 00:28:06,467 --> 00:28:07,567 I mean, definitely right now, 701 00:28:07,634 --> 00:28:09,367 she's a really good friend, and... 702 00:28:09,367 --> 00:28:11,567 um, definitely a potential. 703 00:28:11,567 --> 00:28:13,166 So let's get our stuff and... 704 00:28:13,166 --> 00:28:14,367 -Okay. -[Mariam and Dannielle] Head out. 705 00:28:14,367 --> 00:28:15,467 -Hey. -[Mariam chuckles] 706 00:28:15,467 --> 00:28:16,867 -Okay. -[Mariam] Okay. 707 00:28:16,934 --> 00:28:18,967 I don't know what the future is. Yeah, we're gonna see. 708 00:28:18,967 --> 00:28:22,634 Um, hopefully we'll continue talking and building, and... 709 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:24,934 Maybe meet my family. 710 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:29,767 I think you actually have room this time. 711 00:28:29,834 --> 00:28:31,166 -[Mariam] Boys. -Bye. 712 00:28:31,166 --> 00:28:32,734 -Nice meeting you. -Could you grab my tennis shoes? 713 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,266 [Mariam] Bye. See you guys soon. 714 00:28:36,266 --> 00:28:38,567 If we decided to move forward with Mariam 715 00:28:38,634 --> 00:28:40,567 and tell Nathalia that 716 00:28:40,567 --> 00:28:42,667 Mariam came out here to see us, 717 00:28:42,667 --> 00:28:44,767 I think that would create 718 00:28:44,834 --> 00:28:48,767 some not so good things with Nathalia I feel at this point. 719 00:28:48,834 --> 00:28:51,367 [Garrick] Nathalia was not engaging 720 00:28:51,367 --> 00:28:55,166 with, you know, the fact of a potential sister wife. 721 00:28:55,166 --> 00:28:56,767 You can't just ignore it anymore. 722 00:28:56,767 --> 00:28:59,667 Your problems are really coming out. 723 00:28:59,667 --> 00:29:02,100 Let's deal with them in love as a family, 724 00:29:02,100 --> 00:29:03,467 and I'm a little nervous that 725 00:29:03,467 --> 00:29:06,233 Nathalia might not be willing to do that. 726 00:29:10,367 --> 00:29:12,967 [Danielle] With Jasmine being potentially my future wife, 727 00:29:12,967 --> 00:29:14,867 I want it to be someone I'm head over heels, 728 00:29:14,867 --> 00:29:16,100 like I am about you guys. 729 00:29:16,100 --> 00:29:19,767 I hope we're collectively on this decision together. 730 00:29:19,767 --> 00:29:21,367 I don't know how everyone feels. 731 00:29:21,367 --> 00:29:22,433 But it's a big deal. 732 00:29:35,100 --> 00:29:36,867 [Nick speaking] 733 00:29:36,867 --> 00:29:38,133 [April] Uh... 734 00:29:38,900 --> 00:29:40,166 I don't mind eating out of the takeout. 735 00:29:40,166 --> 00:29:42,467 -Yeah. I really don't either. -Yeah? Okay. 736 00:29:42,467 --> 00:29:44,767 I think you're the only one that likes to eat on a plate. 737 00:29:44,834 --> 00:29:45,800 [Nick and Danielle laughing] 738 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,967 [Nick] Well, now that, uh, we've had a few days 739 00:29:47,967 --> 00:29:49,266 to process Jasmine coming 740 00:29:49,266 --> 00:29:51,767 to spend the night with us as a family, 741 00:29:51,767 --> 00:29:54,667 I think it's time for us all to come together and... 742 00:29:54,667 --> 00:29:56,567 really voice our true opinions 743 00:29:56,634 --> 00:29:58,000 about what we should do. 744 00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:59,967 Oh, look at how your drink 745 00:29:59,967 --> 00:30:02,266 -matches your outfit. -[Nick chuckles] Outfit. 746 00:30:02,266 --> 00:30:05,567 I hope we're collectively on this decision together. 747 00:30:06,367 --> 00:30:08,166 I don't know how everyone feels. 748 00:30:08,166 --> 00:30:09,233 But it's a big deal. 749 00:30:10,867 --> 00:30:11,934 Thank you. 750 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,667 -Nice. -Let's eat. 751 00:30:14,734 --> 00:30:15,567 [Danielle] Looks good. 752 00:30:15,567 --> 00:30:18,967 Um, I've heard from Jasmine a little bit. 753 00:30:19,033 --> 00:30:21,266 Uh, I feel like... 754 00:30:21,266 --> 00:30:23,667 it's just time to... 755 00:30:23,734 --> 00:30:25,467 to discuss if we are trying to get together 756 00:30:25,467 --> 00:30:27,367 -with her again. -Yeah. 757 00:30:27,367 --> 00:30:29,166 The openness that she had in regards to, 758 00:30:29,233 --> 00:30:31,867 like, our the type of relationship, I think, 759 00:30:31,934 --> 00:30:33,467 is pretty, you know... 760 00:30:33,467 --> 00:30:35,767 -Hard to find. -...unique. Yeah, and hard to come by. 761 00:30:35,767 --> 00:30:38,767 You know, and she has a lot of characteristics that could work 762 00:30:38,767 --> 00:30:41,266 in this type of relationship. So... 763 00:30:41,266 --> 00:30:44,567 [Danielle] Um, I guess for me, 764 00:30:44,567 --> 00:30:48,166 um, how Jasmine with... was with us, I admire. 765 00:30:48,166 --> 00:30:50,567 She was bold, she was outgoing. 766 00:30:50,567 --> 00:30:52,266 I love having babies. 767 00:30:52,333 --> 00:30:54,166 I'll populate the whole next generation. 768 00:30:54,166 --> 00:30:57,066 Got a big, huge bed now. 769 00:30:57,066 --> 00:30:59,066 Oh, yeah. I can't wait to see that. 770 00:30:59,700 --> 00:31:02,266 Nothing necessarily went wrong. 771 00:31:02,266 --> 00:31:04,967 -[Jennifer] Yeah. -But it didn't go right enough. 772 00:31:04,967 --> 00:31:07,767 You know, you're a cool chick and I like you. 773 00:31:07,834 --> 00:31:10,767 But with this being potentially my future wife, 774 00:31:10,767 --> 00:31:12,367 I want it to be someone I'm head over heels, 775 00:31:12,367 --> 00:31:13,433 like I am about you guys. 776 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,567 I'm just not sure if moving forward right now 777 00:31:19,567 --> 00:31:21,533 would be the best idea. 778 00:31:23,500 --> 00:31:27,066 It's still hard for me to talk about how I'm feeling. 779 00:31:27,133 --> 00:31:28,567 It's really easy for me to start feeling 780 00:31:28,567 --> 00:31:29,867 kind of insecure and down, 781 00:31:29,867 --> 00:31:31,567 and I kind of put myself in a box. 782 00:31:31,567 --> 00:31:35,367 But things that I've been through made me recognize 783 00:31:35,433 --> 00:31:37,467 I need to speak up if there's any issues. 784 00:31:38,667 --> 00:31:42,166 [April] I mean, I... I get that. I, um... 785 00:31:42,233 --> 00:31:45,100 And honestly for me, Danielle, like, 786 00:31:45,100 --> 00:31:47,367 I'm kind of feeling a little... 787 00:31:48,567 --> 00:31:50,867 reserved with her as well. 788 00:31:50,867 --> 00:31:53,667 Or maybe it's her reserve that I'm feeling. 789 00:31:53,667 --> 00:31:57,767 But at the same time, like, I think overall, like... 790 00:31:57,834 --> 00:32:01,100 I like hearing you be able to express yourself, Danielle. 791 00:32:01,100 --> 00:32:04,767 I mean, if I'm being honest, I-I guess I am a little... 792 00:32:04,767 --> 00:32:06,767 disappointed to hear that. I was 793 00:32:06,767 --> 00:32:11,166 kind of hoping we would move forward with Jasmine. Uh, yeah. 794 00:32:11,233 --> 00:32:13,867 And I thought she... she might be... 795 00:32:13,934 --> 00:32:15,967 an interesting, uh, person to get to know 796 00:32:15,967 --> 00:32:18,834 in a romantic, you know, sense. 797 00:32:19,467 --> 00:32:20,767 But, um... 798 00:32:22,367 --> 00:32:26,000 You know, this is one of those instances, I guess, where... 799 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,967 even I have to accept 800 00:32:27,967 --> 00:32:29,767 the structure that we've created. 801 00:32:29,834 --> 00:32:31,867 You know what I mean? It's not like 802 00:32:31,867 --> 00:32:34,467 my desire to have this individual here 803 00:32:34,467 --> 00:32:36,467 overrides what you all are saying. 804 00:32:36,467 --> 00:32:37,667 [April] I mean, like, but here's the thing. 805 00:32:37,667 --> 00:32:40,066 If you feel like we should move forward with her, 806 00:32:40,066 --> 00:32:42,066 that makes a difference to me. 807 00:32:42,133 --> 00:32:45,266 'Cause that kind of makes me question like, you know, how I'm feeling. 808 00:32:45,266 --> 00:32:47,667 Like, is there just not something maybe... 809 00:32:47,734 --> 00:32:48,867 Like, maybe am I rushing it? 810 00:32:48,867 --> 00:32:50,767 Like, maybe this connection isn't immediately, 811 00:32:50,834 --> 00:32:53,867 and it's something I got to work for in a way, you know what I mean? Like... 812 00:32:53,867 --> 00:32:55,266 -I don't... You know. -Nah. 813 00:32:55,266 --> 00:32:57,266 I didn't... I didn't have to work for a connection with you. 814 00:32:57,266 --> 00:32:59,467 -I didn't have to work for a connection with you. -And I guess we didn't have 815 00:32:59,533 --> 00:33:01,100 -to work with the connection with you. -We just kind of connected. 816 00:33:01,100 --> 00:33:01,967 [April] I guess I wanna... 817 00:33:02,033 --> 00:33:03,333 It was just natural. 818 00:33:04,166 --> 00:33:05,467 Okay. So then, on that note, 819 00:33:05,467 --> 00:33:07,634 are we... are we dating Jasmine or not? 820 00:33:16,767 --> 00:33:19,066 I say no 'cause I agree with Danielle. 821 00:33:19,066 --> 00:33:21,333 -[Danielle] Yeah. -Jenny? 822 00:33:23,166 --> 00:33:24,166 I agree. 823 00:33:25,967 --> 00:33:28,367 [Nick] I was digging Jasmine. 824 00:33:28,367 --> 00:33:30,867 It kind of sucks to see that it didn't really work out. 825 00:33:30,934 --> 00:33:33,266 But I like seeing Danielle 826 00:33:33,266 --> 00:33:36,100 being confident in standing alone 827 00:33:36,100 --> 00:33:38,367 or apart in how she's feeling, 828 00:33:38,367 --> 00:33:40,166 even if April and Jennifer 829 00:33:40,166 --> 00:33:43,367 might have been liking Jasmine more. 830 00:33:43,367 --> 00:33:44,867 [Danielle] I'm honestly very thankful for Jasmine. 831 00:33:44,867 --> 00:33:46,767 And the reason why I say that is because 832 00:33:46,767 --> 00:33:48,166 there was a lot of growth with this. 833 00:33:48,166 --> 00:33:50,166 -Like, honestly, this was really freaking hard. -[April] Yeah. 834 00:33:50,233 --> 00:33:52,634 If you look back a few months ago, we were struggle busing. 835 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:54,967 [Jennifer] Another question is, 836 00:33:54,967 --> 00:33:57,767 do we wanna, like, in general, continue seeking? 837 00:34:01,767 --> 00:34:03,667 Whoever is meant to be with us is out there, 838 00:34:03,734 --> 00:34:05,066 and so we gotta... 839 00:34:05,133 --> 00:34:06,367 We gotta keep pushing forward. 840 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,867 [April] I think now that we see 841 00:34:08,934 --> 00:34:10,867 that you're more comfortable, we see that you 842 00:34:10,867 --> 00:34:13,767 do wanna move forward, that we can do this. 843 00:34:13,834 --> 00:34:15,767 Maybe doing it with someone else 844 00:34:15,834 --> 00:34:18,767 or a couple of other someone's else, 845 00:34:18,767 --> 00:34:21,567 -you know... -[laughing] 846 00:34:21,634 --> 00:34:23,166 -...might be... might be beneficial. -Yeah. 847 00:34:23,166 --> 00:34:24,867 Because here's the thing. Let's date. 848 00:34:24,934 --> 00:34:26,567 Like, let's actually get out there 849 00:34:26,634 --> 00:34:29,266 and let's date a couple of people and see how it feels. 850 00:34:29,333 --> 00:34:31,166 -Yeah. -[Nick] Now, it's like, as much as I was 851 00:34:31,166 --> 00:34:34,367 disappointed about us not being with Jasmine, 852 00:34:34,433 --> 00:34:36,567 whatever this is you guys are talking about... 853 00:34:36,567 --> 00:34:37,767 [all laughing] 854 00:34:37,834 --> 00:34:40,567 ...kind of has me intrigued. [laughing] 855 00:34:40,634 --> 00:34:42,166 There's been some roller coaster 856 00:34:42,166 --> 00:34:44,367 that we've gone through here and there, you know. 857 00:34:44,367 --> 00:34:47,266 Danielle leaving, us coming back together, 858 00:34:47,266 --> 00:34:49,367 meeting someone who could potentially be a wife 859 00:34:49,367 --> 00:34:51,867 and then things not working out. I mean, it's... 860 00:34:51,867 --> 00:34:54,166 It's been a journey that we've gone through. 861 00:34:54,233 --> 00:34:57,967 If we, um, didn't have these issues 862 00:34:58,033 --> 00:34:59,467 and things to work out and resolve, 863 00:34:59,533 --> 00:35:01,667 I don't think we would be as strong as we are today. 864 00:35:01,667 --> 00:35:04,967 We ended this year stronger than we started it, 865 00:35:05,033 --> 00:35:08,567 and I am, um... 866 00:35:08,567 --> 00:35:10,567 just... I don't know. I'm just so happy. 867 00:35:10,567 --> 00:35:12,367 I'm just so happy that, 868 00:35:12,367 --> 00:35:15,166 uh, Danielle has found her voice. 869 00:35:15,166 --> 00:35:18,567 I'm so happy to see that Nick is, um, 870 00:35:18,567 --> 00:35:23,000 truly putting it in the hands of his wives to... 871 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:25,934 um, have us add... 872 00:35:28,767 --> 00:35:29,867 [chuckling] 873 00:35:34,667 --> 00:35:36,767 -I'm such a crybaby. -[all laughing] 874 00:35:38,500 --> 00:35:41,133 I just love the love that we have. 875 00:35:42,700 --> 00:35:44,667 And I'm thankful for each of you, 876 00:35:44,734 --> 00:35:46,433 for everything that you guys do. 877 00:35:47,767 --> 00:35:48,867 [Danielle] Love you. 878 00:35:48,867 --> 00:35:50,266 -[kisses] -[Jennifer] Aw. 879 00:35:50,266 --> 00:35:51,967 That's work, you know what I mean? For real. 880 00:35:51,967 --> 00:35:53,834 -[laughing] -I love you guys. 881 00:35:55,066 --> 00:35:56,266 I love you guys. 882 00:36:13,700 --> 00:36:14,834 [sniffles] 883 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,567 ♪ Been such a lonely ride ♪ 884 00:36:22,967 --> 00:36:26,166 ♪ Trying to find the trust♪ 885 00:36:27,266 --> 00:36:31,066 ♪ In me I know it flows♪ 886 00:36:31,133 --> 00:36:33,967 ♪ The first time♪ 887 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:39,767 I'm just feeling really sad because, um... 888 00:36:39,834 --> 00:36:42,433 things are not good with Nathalia. Um... 889 00:36:44,567 --> 00:36:48,467 A lot has happened in the last six weeks and, um... 890 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:52,467 they just have gotten worse. Um... 891 00:36:52,533 --> 00:36:56,166 Mariam seems to be a really good fit for our family. 892 00:36:56,166 --> 00:36:59,000 And I think Nathalia just didn't expect that to happen. 893 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,934 And now she is very upset, 894 00:37:02,700 --> 00:37:05,667 um, to put it mildly. 895 00:37:05,734 --> 00:37:08,734 And I just don't know if it's gonna work out with her. 896 00:37:10,266 --> 00:37:13,567 You know, I know God's in control of it. Um... 897 00:37:13,567 --> 00:37:17,000 There's a reason, but it's just disheartening. 898 00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:18,967 It's really... [inhales] 899 00:37:19,767 --> 00:37:21,867 I just don't know what's gonna happen. 900 00:37:22,867 --> 00:37:26,166 So... I'm just praying God... 901 00:37:26,867 --> 00:37:28,166 works all this out 902 00:37:28,233 --> 00:37:29,967 'cause I really love her. 903 00:37:29,967 --> 00:37:31,066 [sniffles] 904 00:37:32,467 --> 00:37:34,166 You know, I just wanna have a sister. 905 00:37:34,166 --> 00:37:36,567 Like, I want to have a friend and I'm trying to help her. 906 00:37:36,567 --> 00:37:39,166 But nothing I say even helps. Like... 907 00:37:39,166 --> 00:37:41,467 [sniffles] So... 908 00:37:42,667 --> 00:37:44,367 we'll see what God does. 909 00:37:54,100 --> 00:37:55,166 [in other language] 910 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:49,867 [Garrick in English] Things escalated. 911 00:38:49,867 --> 00:38:52,367 -Like, "I don't want you talking to her." -Very quickly. 912 00:38:52,367 --> 00:38:54,000 Uh, "How dare you? 913 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:55,667 We agreed we'd wait." 914 00:38:55,734 --> 00:38:58,266 I feel like she was fine initially. 915 00:38:58,266 --> 00:39:01,367 Like, she was fine with us meeting Mariam. 916 00:39:01,367 --> 00:39:03,567 Potentially just me more so. 917 00:39:03,567 --> 00:39:05,967 But then Nathalia felt like 918 00:39:06,033 --> 00:39:07,834 we lied to her and tricked her. 919 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:10,867 [Garrick] I'm hurt. 920 00:39:10,867 --> 00:39:12,266 That's my wife. I love her. 921 00:39:12,266 --> 00:39:14,066 Um, I'm heartbroken. 922 00:39:14,767 --> 00:39:17,000 But I feel like Nathalia is 923 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,967 still unwilling... to address 924 00:39:19,967 --> 00:39:24,066 some of her issues in her heart and mind, and... 925 00:39:24,066 --> 00:39:28,166 she's not really being a team player in the family. Like... 926 00:39:28,166 --> 00:39:29,667 You know, you don't wanna lose anybody. 927 00:39:29,667 --> 00:39:30,867 I don't wanna lose a wife. 928 00:39:30,934 --> 00:39:34,166 But if a wife doesn't wanna face her problems, 929 00:39:34,166 --> 00:39:36,367 I mean, it's better it came out now, 930 00:39:36,367 --> 00:39:38,066 that she's just not gonna grow up. 931 00:39:38,066 --> 00:39:40,567 She's not gonna mature, she's not gonna change. 932 00:39:40,567 --> 00:39:42,066 Compared to her getting to America, 933 00:39:42,066 --> 00:39:44,867 I have two kids and then we gotta deal with it. 934 00:39:44,934 --> 00:39:46,634 I mean, it's... it's a blessing. 935 00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,367 [Dannielle] Even with what happened with Nathalia, 936 00:39:53,367 --> 00:39:54,767 we're still seeing Mariam. 937 00:39:54,767 --> 00:39:56,166 We're just kind of taking it slow 938 00:39:56,166 --> 00:39:58,867 and getting to know each other. But, um... 939 00:39:58,934 --> 00:40:00,667 we definitely get along really well. 940 00:40:00,667 --> 00:40:03,467 We have a lot of fun together and it feels very comfortable. 941 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,667 I guess at the end of the day with Nathalia, um... 942 00:40:07,667 --> 00:40:10,767 she's missing out on a... a blessing in her life, 943 00:40:10,834 --> 00:40:12,066 with a family, and... 944 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,834 I know Garrick's a very good husband. 945 00:40:18,100 --> 00:40:21,767 You know, we have a strong relationship with God. 946 00:40:21,767 --> 00:40:24,066 He doesn't make mistakes even in the bad, you know. 947 00:40:24,133 --> 00:40:26,266 Even the... even all these bad things 948 00:40:26,266 --> 00:40:27,367 are for my good. 949 00:40:27,433 --> 00:40:29,967 They're for my perfection and my change. 950 00:40:29,967 --> 00:40:32,667 And, so I can be thankful for all the hurt 951 00:40:32,667 --> 00:40:34,767 and the pain and the suffering. 952 00:40:34,767 --> 00:40:37,967 God is so loving that all that suffering even... 953 00:40:38,700 --> 00:40:40,066 It's beautiful. 954 00:40:40,133 --> 00:40:42,166 It's so good because it... 955 00:40:42,233 --> 00:40:43,467 it's refining you. 956 00:40:43,533 --> 00:40:45,333 It's transforming you, you know. 957 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:18,367 [Nailah] That's what I'm ready for. 958 00:41:18,433 --> 00:41:20,467 Figuring out how we're moving forward. 959 00:41:20,467 --> 00:41:21,634 Like, what's next. 960 00:41:50,700 --> 00:41:52,533 [all] Yay! 961 00:42:05,266 --> 00:42:06,266 [Dannielle laughing] Whoo!