1 00:00:13,138 --> 00:00:15,766 ["Lonely People" playing] 2 00:00:26,276 --> 00:00:28,904 [song continues] 3 00:01:19,705 --> 00:01:21,707 [song fades] 4 00:01:25,419 --> 00:01:28,463 [meditation bowl chimes repeatedly] 5 00:01:31,592 --> 00:01:32,885 [exhales] 6 00:01:35,387 --> 00:01:36,889 Huh. 7 00:01:39,349 --> 00:01:40,350 Oh. 8 00:01:41,643 --> 00:01:43,228 [whispers, indistinct] 9 00:01:43,312 --> 00:01:45,397 -[retreat leader shushing] -[sighs] 10 00:01:49,026 --> 00:01:50,027 [groans] 11 00:01:54,698 --> 00:01:55,866 [all inhale] 12 00:02:05,167 --> 00:02:06,418 [stomach growling] 13 00:02:17,262 --> 00:02:18,972 [bird shrieks in the distance] 14 00:02:23,685 --> 00:02:26,438 [shrieking continues] 15 00:02:33,737 --> 00:02:36,657 [bird chirps] 16 00:02:42,579 --> 00:02:44,540 [insect buzzing] 17 00:02:48,877 --> 00:02:50,128 [man coughs] 18 00:02:51,046 --> 00:02:53,090 [insect buzzing] 19 00:02:53,173 --> 00:02:57,970 [joints cracking] 20 00:02:59,263 --> 00:03:01,265 -[insect buzzing] -[exhales] 21 00:03:02,015 --> 00:03:03,016 [buzzing stops] 22 00:03:04,601 --> 00:03:05,602 [woman gasps] 23 00:03:12,234 --> 00:03:13,652 [woman whimpers] 24 00:03:22,369 --> 00:03:25,664 [woman crying] 25 00:03:29,126 --> 00:03:30,878 [deep breaths] 26 00:03:33,547 --> 00:03:35,549 [crying resumes] 27 00:03:44,975 --> 00:03:47,269 [woman sobbing] 28 00:04:00,449 --> 00:04:02,951 [inhales deeply, exhales] 29 00:04:06,121 --> 00:04:07,831 [classical music playing] 30 00:04:09,249 --> 00:04:10,667 [sighs] 31 00:04:10,751 --> 00:04:12,085 [classical music stops] 32 00:04:18,257 --> 00:04:20,177 [floor creaks] 33 00:04:39,530 --> 00:04:40,822 [monkey chatters] 34 00:04:42,950 --> 00:04:44,952 [classical music playing] 35 00:04:53,836 --> 00:04:54,878 [classical music stops] 36 00:05:15,357 --> 00:05:18,735 [classical music playing] 37 00:05:29,496 --> 00:05:32,124 [music continues] 38 00:05:56,773 --> 00:05:57,774 [classical music stops] 39 00:06:25,802 --> 00:06:28,597 [person slurping soup] 40 00:06:34,978 --> 00:06:37,606 [slurping] 41 00:06:43,987 --> 00:06:46,657 [slurping continues] 42 00:06:53,372 --> 00:06:54,873 [slurping] 43 00:06:57,918 --> 00:06:58,919 [man clears throat] 44 00:07:36,081 --> 00:07:40,002 [wind howling] 45 00:07:40,085 --> 00:07:43,589 -[seagulls squawking] -[wooden hull creaking] 46 00:07:47,759 --> 00:07:51,305 [waves crashing] 47 00:08:04,818 --> 00:08:08,280 -[bell clanging] -[snoring] 48 00:08:08,363 --> 00:08:10,365 [clanging] 49 00:08:11,283 --> 00:08:13,493 [clanging continues, muffled] 50 00:08:20,250 --> 00:08:21,752 [woman sobs] 51 00:08:21,835 --> 00:08:24,046 [sniffs repeatedly] 52 00:08:28,592 --> 00:08:29,593 [man sneezes] 53 00:08:30,594 --> 00:08:31,929 [man blows nose] 54 00:08:36,099 --> 00:08:37,351 [whimpering continues] 55 00:08:46,652 --> 00:08:48,779 [man] Excuse me. Hi. 56 00:08:51,615 --> 00:08:54,743 -I'm so sorry. Where do I check in-- -[all shushing] 57 00:08:55,369 --> 00:08:56,870 Yeah. Got it. 58 00:08:56,954 --> 00:08:58,372 Shh! 59 00:09:01,542 --> 00:09:02,543 [suppressed laugh] 60 00:09:07,756 --> 00:09:12,553 [tribal music plays] 61 00:09:12,636 --> 00:09:16,431 -[waves crashing] -[seagulls squawking] 62 00:09:20,269 --> 00:09:22,062 [music fades] 63 00:09:30,028 --> 00:09:32,030 [tribal music plays] 64 00:09:32,865 --> 00:09:33,866 [music stops] 65 00:09:39,162 --> 00:09:41,164 [tribal music plays] 66 00:09:43,834 --> 00:09:45,586 -[grunts] -[music stops] 67 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:07,900 [frogs croaking, birds chirping] 68 00:10:24,208 --> 00:10:25,918 [sighs] 69 00:10:46,772 --> 00:10:47,773 Mmm! 70 00:11:05,415 --> 00:11:07,417 ["Sister Golden Hair" playing] 71 00:11:17,302 --> 00:11:18,428 [music stops] 72 00:12:10,606 --> 00:12:12,774 [water sprays on dish] 73 00:12:27,789 --> 00:12:29,041 [gasps] 74 00:12:59,530 --> 00:13:01,532 [snoring] 75 00:13:07,496 --> 00:13:10,123 [snoring continues] 76 00:13:28,225 --> 00:13:30,227 [snoring continues] 77 00:13:32,813 --> 00:13:34,731 -[Jack snorts] -[giggles] 78 00:13:40,237 --> 00:13:42,072 [chuckling] 79 00:13:47,911 --> 00:13:49,955 [laughing] 80 00:14:09,391 --> 00:14:10,809 [passes gas] 81 00:14:23,530 --> 00:14:25,532 [snoring continues] 82 00:14:49,264 --> 00:14:50,265 [sniffs] 83 00:14:54,019 --> 00:14:55,729 [sniffs] Mm! 84 00:14:56,772 --> 00:14:57,773 [murmurs] 85 00:15:06,114 --> 00:15:07,950 -[twig snaps] -[gasps, groans] 86 00:15:17,584 --> 00:15:18,961 [Jack murmurs] 87 00:15:23,215 --> 00:15:24,800 Ah, ah, ah, ah. 88 00:15:24,883 --> 00:15:26,593 [breathes heavily] 89 00:15:31,390 --> 00:15:32,558 [tribal music plays] 90 00:15:34,268 --> 00:15:35,269 [music stops] 91 00:15:44,862 --> 00:15:46,071 [yelps] 92 00:15:48,991 --> 00:15:50,993 [tribal music plays] 93 00:15:57,124 --> 00:15:58,125 [moans] 94 00:15:58,208 --> 00:15:59,209 [music stops] 95 00:16:05,924 --> 00:16:07,176 [moaning] 96 00:16:07,259 --> 00:16:09,511 -[tribal music plays] -[groaning] 97 00:16:09,595 --> 00:16:11,388 [baby cries] 98 00:16:11,471 --> 00:16:12,598 [music stops] 99 00:16:13,307 --> 00:16:14,683 [groans] 100 00:16:23,066 --> 00:16:24,985 [laughs] 101 00:16:35,621 --> 00:16:37,831 [Jack groaning] 102 00:16:41,001 --> 00:16:42,002 [Jack yells] 103 00:17:05,651 --> 00:17:07,986 [sniffles] 104 00:17:41,186 --> 00:17:42,980 [owl hoots] 105 00:17:58,745 --> 00:18:00,247 [clears throat] 106 00:18:09,047 --> 00:18:13,468 It's the clapper. The clapper. It's the clapper! How dumb can you be? 107 00:18:22,394 --> 00:18:24,813 I am not the problem. 108 00:18:32,738 --> 00:18:33,822 [snorts] 109 00:18:38,744 --> 00:18:41,288 -[bell jingling in distance] -[exhales] 110 00:18:53,759 --> 00:18:56,345 [jingling continues] 111 00:19:13,362 --> 00:19:16,657 [chuckling] 112 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:28,001 [grunts] 113 00:19:33,966 --> 00:19:35,384 [gasps] 114 00:19:35,509 --> 00:19:36,510 Mmm! [exclaiming] 115 00:19:38,679 --> 00:19:39,680 [chuckles] 116 00:19:46,603 --> 00:19:47,604 [Jack] Ooh. 117 00:19:47,688 --> 00:19:50,023 [PA: "Dancing in the Moonlight" playing] 118 00:19:55,946 --> 00:19:57,281 Hi. Ooh! 119 00:19:57,364 --> 00:19:58,490 [cashier chuckles] 120 00:19:58,991 --> 00:20:00,409 Oh, hungry. 121 00:20:03,370 --> 00:20:05,205 I'm a Sno Ball gal myself. 122 00:20:05,747 --> 00:20:07,332 Ever have the pink ones? 123 00:20:08,083 --> 00:20:09,251 So good. 124 00:20:11,962 --> 00:20:13,380 You guys from around here? 125 00:20:19,052 --> 00:20:20,470 It's 4.18. 126 00:20:26,685 --> 00:20:27,895 [Sylviane chuckles] 127 00:20:30,105 --> 00:20:32,733 [stereo: "Sister Golden Hair" playing] 128 00:20:56,882 --> 00:20:59,176 [song fades] 129 00:21:33,919 --> 00:21:36,672 [heartbeat thumping] 130 00:21:40,425 --> 00:21:41,426 [Jack yells] 131 00:21:41,510 --> 00:21:42,719 [screaming] 132 00:21:44,763 --> 00:21:46,849 [echoing] Can't hear that shit anymore! I can't hear that! 133 00:21:49,601 --> 00:21:51,687 [heartbeat continues] 134 00:21:51,770 --> 00:21:53,105 [children laughing] 135 00:21:53,897 --> 00:21:54,898 Daddy! 136 00:21:57,693 --> 00:21:58,986 Shh! 137 00:21:59,611 --> 00:22:01,238 [heartbeat fades] 138 00:22:02,656 --> 00:22:05,284 [whimpering] 139 00:22:08,704 --> 00:22:10,706 [heartbeat thumping] 140 00:22:17,588 --> 00:22:20,007 [out of breath] 141 00:22:26,180 --> 00:22:28,807 [heartbeat slows] 142 00:22:40,986 --> 00:22:44,615 -[woodpecker tapping] -[birds chirping] 143 00:23:19,483 --> 00:23:21,568 [humming softly] 144 00:23:22,194 --> 00:23:24,279 [chuckling] 145 00:23:31,620 --> 00:23:35,457 [thunder rumbling] 146 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,348 -[thunder continues] -[yelps] 147 00:24:04,945 --> 00:24:06,947 [door opens] 148 00:24:34,933 --> 00:24:36,935 [chewing loudly] 149 00:24:44,902 --> 00:24:46,153 [sighs] 150 00:24:47,237 --> 00:24:49,448 [bell chimes] 151 00:24:49,531 --> 00:24:53,410 [retreat leader] Ahh! We've reached the end of our silence. 152 00:24:53,493 --> 00:24:55,662 Remember, most words are meaningless. 153 00:24:55,746 --> 00:24:59,791 It is in the silence between the words that we find true meaning. 154 00:25:01,084 --> 00:25:04,171 As we emerge from a period of noble silence, 155 00:25:04,254 --> 00:25:06,840 we enter into a period of noble speech. 156 00:25:06,924 --> 00:25:09,384 As you return to words, do so carefully. 157 00:25:09,468 --> 00:25:12,888 If you don't feel the impulse to speak, please do not. 158 00:25:13,305 --> 00:25:17,100 But if you would like to share any aspect of your experience, 159 00:25:17,184 --> 00:25:18,936 please feel free to do so now. 160 00:25:23,690 --> 00:25:24,858 Yes. 161 00:25:24,942 --> 00:25:27,694 Hi. I'm Henry. 162 00:25:28,362 --> 00:25:32,824 The hardest part for me was letting go of time, wanting to watch the clock. 163 00:25:32,908 --> 00:25:34,701 Were you able to move past it? 164 00:25:34,785 --> 00:25:35,786 I think that I was. 165 00:25:35,869 --> 00:25:37,120 Mm. 166 00:25:37,204 --> 00:25:39,957 Oh, and, um, I don't know if this counts as noble speech, 167 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:44,837 but you've had a price tag hanging on your tunic the whole retreat. 168 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:46,505 It's been driving me a little crazy. 169 00:25:46,588 --> 00:25:48,257 [everyone chuckles] 170 00:25:48,340 --> 00:25:49,341 Thank you. 171 00:25:55,556 --> 00:25:56,557 Yes. 172 00:25:56,974 --> 00:25:58,350 Uh, I'm Lydia. 173 00:25:59,434 --> 00:26:04,189 I'm recently divorced. And I just had so much anger. 174 00:26:04,815 --> 00:26:10,153 But I feel like I've somehow let some of it go, because I feel lighter. 175 00:26:10,237 --> 00:26:11,613 That's wonderful, Lydia. 176 00:26:12,447 --> 00:26:14,199 My wife left me too. 177 00:26:14,283 --> 00:26:15,701 Oh, I'm sure she did. 178 00:26:16,118 --> 00:26:17,119 What? 179 00:26:17,452 --> 00:26:19,746 Come here. You-- 180 00:26:21,331 --> 00:26:22,958 Oh, good work. 181 00:26:23,041 --> 00:26:25,419 -Thanks. -Really. 182 00:26:25,502 --> 00:26:27,045 I had such an experience, you know. 183 00:26:27,129 --> 00:26:29,590 I mentioned I didn't feel totally enlightened. 184 00:26:29,673 --> 00:26:32,759 And what is the crossover of Buddhism and Judaism? 185 00:26:33,218 --> 00:26:34,219 Buddiasm. 186 00:26:34,761 --> 00:26:36,388 -[man] Sure. -[woman] I think. 187 00:26:39,892 --> 00:26:41,894 [chattering continues] 188 00:26:45,397 --> 00:26:46,940 Hi, I'm Jack. 189 00:26:48,192 --> 00:26:50,360 [clears throat] You know that already. 190 00:26:51,737 --> 00:26:53,655 God, my voice sounds weird. 191 00:26:54,031 --> 00:26:55,324 Uh... [exhales] 192 00:27:02,331 --> 00:27:07,211 I make my own soap. [inhales] I don't even know your name. 193 00:27:10,422 --> 00:27:12,758 [in French] I'm so sorry that I hit you in the face. 194 00:27:12,841 --> 00:27:15,177 I wanted to say something, but we were not allowed to speak. 195 00:27:15,385 --> 00:27:18,013 I don't know what got into me. I was so desperate. 196 00:27:18,096 --> 00:27:20,557 My biggest fear is to be... alone. 197 00:27:20,641 --> 00:27:22,309 Solitude terrifies me. 198 00:27:22,392 --> 00:27:24,895 So I decided to make this big trip to America. 199 00:27:24,978 --> 00:27:26,271 [sputters] 200 00:27:26,355 --> 00:27:27,481 All alone. 201 00:27:27,564 --> 00:27:29,441 As if it would solve everything, but it didn't. 202 00:27:29,525 --> 00:27:31,401 Do you know how it feels to be at the edge of the Grand Canyon, 203 00:27:31,485 --> 00:27:32,986 with no one to share it with? 204 00:27:33,070 --> 00:27:34,071 It's horrible! 205 00:27:34,154 --> 00:27:35,572 It's so sad. 206 00:27:36,114 --> 00:27:38,116 For me America was supposed to be... 207 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:39,868 A promise of a big journey. Like Thor Heyerdahl. 208 00:27:39,952 --> 00:27:41,411 But it was all rest stops and McDonald's. 209 00:27:41,495 --> 00:27:43,789 There are a lot of McDonald's here. 210 00:27:45,165 --> 00:27:47,417 You have no idea what I'm saying... 211 00:27:47,501 --> 00:27:48,502 obviously. 212 00:27:48,585 --> 00:27:50,587 But I like the way you look at me. 213 00:27:50,671 --> 00:27:54,633 You have kind eyes. [chuckles] 214 00:27:55,259 --> 00:27:57,052 Nothing can start between us, though. 215 00:27:57,135 --> 00:27:58,136 Because... 216 00:27:58,220 --> 00:28:00,222 I have to finish working on myself. 217 00:28:00,305 --> 00:28:03,308 To find it in me. 218 00:28:03,892 --> 00:28:05,894 And not through someone else's eyes. 219 00:28:06,186 --> 00:28:08,355 There. I'm sorry. 220 00:28:08,689 --> 00:28:09,731 [exhales] 221 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,568 All I got was "McDonald's." 222 00:28:15,487 --> 00:28:16,697 Okay, I know this is weird, 223 00:28:16,780 --> 00:28:22,953 but, uh, I... am-am building... 224 00:28:24,538 --> 00:28:28,041 a cabin upstate. 225 00:28:28,375 --> 00:28:29,501 Um... 226 00:28:31,003 --> 00:28:33,088 Would you like to come visit me? 227 00:28:33,172 --> 00:28:34,298 Hmm? 228 00:28:35,340 --> 00:28:36,341 Um... 229 00:28:37,092 --> 00:28:40,345 You... come... 230 00:28:42,931 --> 00:28:44,224 with me. 231 00:28:48,353 --> 00:28:52,107 [in English] Yes. Yes. [chuckles] I will come. 232 00:29:01,033 --> 00:29:03,035 ["Ventura Highway" playing] 233 00:29:24,306 --> 00:29:26,308 [song continues]