1 00:00:38,583 --> 00:00:39,583 Who is it? 2 00:00:59,958 --> 00:01:03,250 Welcome, little Alejandro. 3 00:01:17,333 --> 00:01:20,916 If someone adopts you, tell them to adopt me too. 4 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,125 I'll be a good brother. What do you say? 5 00:01:24,958 --> 00:01:26,583 Alejandro. Keep moving. 6 00:01:26,666 --> 00:01:28,458 More babies need to be held. 7 00:01:45,958 --> 00:01:46,958 What are you doing? 8 00:01:47,458 --> 00:01:50,875 Seeing if this spot would feel good to a flower. 9 00:01:52,166 --> 00:01:53,083 Does it? 10 00:01:53,166 --> 00:01:54,375 I think so. 11 00:01:56,875 --> 00:01:58,875 There's a baby in there. 12 00:01:59,750 --> 00:02:00,916 That's right. 13 00:02:04,291 --> 00:02:06,791 This one is only for you. 14 00:02:07,500 --> 00:02:09,125 Take good care of it. 15 00:02:09,166 --> 00:02:10,750 Thank you! 16 00:02:21,583 --> 00:02:23,583 Are you sure about this job? 17 00:02:24,333 --> 00:02:26,666 I always thought you would want to work with children. 18 00:02:26,750 --> 00:02:28,583 You're such a sweet boy. 19 00:02:29,125 --> 00:02:31,041 The pay is good, and they provide housing. 20 00:02:31,125 --> 00:02:32,625 Also, please... 21 00:02:32,708 --> 00:02:37,875 don't tell the other guys in the oil field that I'm a sweet boy. 22 00:02:40,125 --> 00:02:41,916 Okay. I won't. 23 00:02:48,958 --> 00:02:50,291 Good luck, Ale. 24 00:02:50,833 --> 00:02:51,833 We'll miss you. 25 00:03:56,666 --> 00:03:58,583 I'm... 26 00:03:58,666 --> 00:03:59,916 I'm Alejandro. 27 00:04:01,458 --> 00:04:02,833 I'm your son. 28 00:04:06,833 --> 00:04:10,166 If it's weird, I get it. 29 00:04:10,250 --> 00:04:11,875 I can hang up right now. 30 00:04:11,958 --> 00:04:13,083 I know it's weird... 31 00:04:13,166 --> 00:04:15,541 No, please. 32 00:04:16,958 --> 00:04:21,875 I just thought my information, that it was sealed. 33 00:04:21,958 --> 00:04:24,708 I unsealed it. 34 00:04:24,791 --> 00:04:26,500 Sorry if... 35 00:04:28,750 --> 00:04:31,083 I'm glad you found me. 36 00:04:32,583 --> 00:04:33,583 You are? 37 00:04:34,583 --> 00:04:35,625 Yes. 38 00:04:36,875 --> 00:04:38,291 I'm just surprised. 39 00:04:39,583 --> 00:04:40,583 Right. 40 00:04:46,625 --> 00:04:50,208 I'll be in Mexico soon to visit my family. 41 00:04:51,250 --> 00:04:54,166 I'd like to meet you. If you'd like that. 42 00:04:55,833 --> 00:04:57,916 I'd like that. 43 00:05:32,208 --> 00:05:34,125 It's good to... 44 00:05:34,208 --> 00:05:35,208 meet you? 45 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,916 You're so... 46 00:05:40,041 --> 00:05:41,125 grown up. 47 00:05:42,250 --> 00:05:43,250 Come in. 48 00:05:47,875 --> 00:05:49,583 I bought you some cookies. 49 00:05:49,666 --> 00:05:50,625 Thank you. 50 00:05:50,708 --> 00:05:52,000 Sit. 51 00:05:56,125 --> 00:05:57,375 Your room is nice. 52 00:05:58,333 --> 00:06:00,000 It's good not having all those pesky walls 53 00:06:00,083 --> 00:06:01,541 breaking up the space. 54 00:06:01,625 --> 00:06:02,875 They just get in the way. 55 00:06:04,500 --> 00:06:07,000 You joke around like my daughter, Alma. 56 00:06:07,083 --> 00:06:08,291 I have a sister? 57 00:06:08,375 --> 00:06:09,458 Two, actually. 58 00:06:10,500 --> 00:06:12,041 Alma and Becca. 59 00:06:12,125 --> 00:06:14,166 I always wanted to be a brother. 60 00:06:17,041 --> 00:06:18,916 Wow, they're so cute. 61 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:20,083 If it's okay, 62 00:06:20,166 --> 00:06:22,041 I'd like to meet them someday. 63 00:06:23,166 --> 00:06:25,375 Someday. Maybe. 64 00:06:27,500 --> 00:06:28,541 Are you all right? 65 00:06:28,625 --> 00:06:29,541 Yeah. 66 00:06:29,625 --> 00:06:31,083 There's just a lot of dust. 67 00:06:31,666 --> 00:06:33,625 This job doesn't seem very safe. 68 00:06:34,875 --> 00:06:36,916 Have you thought about something else? 69 00:06:37,708 --> 00:06:39,666 I heard computers pay well. 70 00:06:39,750 --> 00:06:41,500 I could pay for training. 71 00:06:41,583 --> 00:06:44,291 Thank you, but you don't need to do anything for me. 72 00:06:44,375 --> 00:06:45,375 That's not why... 73 00:06:45,458 --> 00:06:46,458 I'd like to. 74 00:06:47,250 --> 00:06:49,125 It's something I can do. 75 00:06:50,166 --> 00:06:51,166 I'll think about it. 76 00:06:52,875 --> 00:06:54,875 You can take the whole tin, if you want. 77 00:06:57,083 --> 00:07:00,375 I will take the tin, but I'll leave you the cookies. 78 00:07:00,458 --> 00:07:01,916 And then next time, 79 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:06,375 I'll come back with the tin full of something homemade for you. 80 00:07:07,125 --> 00:07:08,375 How does that sound? 81 00:07:08,458 --> 00:07:09,458 That sounds nice. 82 00:07:21,916 --> 00:07:23,541 Hello? 83 00:07:24,916 --> 00:07:25,958 It's me. 84 00:07:26,041 --> 00:07:28,125 I'm glad you called. 85 00:07:28,208 --> 00:07:30,375 I can't wait to show you my new apartment. 86 00:07:30,458 --> 00:07:31,750 It has so many walls. 87 00:07:31,833 --> 00:07:33,000 You're going to love it. 88 00:07:33,083 --> 00:07:36,250 It's great that the new job is working out. 89 00:07:37,875 --> 00:07:39,208 Listen... 90 00:07:40,375 --> 00:07:42,750 I can't call you from my house anymore, 91 00:07:42,833 --> 00:07:46,208 and you can't call me. 92 00:07:47,041 --> 00:07:48,583 Do you understand? 93 00:07:50,041 --> 00:07:51,625 Is everything okay? 94 00:07:52,291 --> 00:07:56,375 My husband asked about my calls to you, 95 00:07:56,458 --> 00:08:01,458 and I can't explain it to him right now, so... 96 00:08:01,541 --> 00:08:04,625 Oh, okay... 97 00:08:04,708 --> 00:08:06,083 I understand. 98 00:08:10,375 --> 00:08:12,250 Happy birthday, my love. 99 00:08:12,333 --> 00:08:15,333 I hope this year is fantastic. 100 00:08:15,416 --> 00:08:16,958 Merry Christmas. 101 00:08:17,041 --> 00:08:19,583 May the holiday spirit be with you. 102 00:08:19,666 --> 00:08:21,083 Happy birthday. 103 00:08:21,166 --> 00:08:24,166 I hope you have another wonderful year. 104 00:08:27,166 --> 00:08:28,083 You made it! 105 00:08:28,166 --> 00:08:29,166 Come in. 106 00:08:32,916 --> 00:08:35,291 I'm sorry it took so long. 107 00:08:35,416 --> 00:08:37,541 I do want to visit more often. 108 00:08:37,625 --> 00:08:39,583 I made you cookies. 109 00:08:39,666 --> 00:08:41,083 You remembered. 110 00:08:41,166 --> 00:08:42,083 Yes. 111 00:08:42,166 --> 00:08:43,083 Happy birthday. 112 00:08:43,166 --> 00:08:44,083 Merry Christmas. 113 00:08:44,166 --> 00:08:45,166 Happy birthday. 114 00:08:47,416 --> 00:08:48,666 I hope you like brownies. 115 00:08:49,791 --> 00:08:51,666 I'm glad you could make it. 116 00:09:00,500 --> 00:09:02,916 I've never made peppermint bark before... 117 00:09:07,500 --> 00:09:09,291 You're warm. 118 00:09:09,375 --> 00:09:11,458 Yeah. They think it's bronchitis. 119 00:09:11,541 --> 00:09:14,375 I feel like you've had this cough for years now. 120 00:09:15,458 --> 00:09:16,583 I know. 121 00:09:16,666 --> 00:09:20,916 So when are you going to get a wife to take care of you? 122 00:09:22,791 --> 00:09:24,541 I don't know. 123 00:09:24,625 --> 00:09:25,708 Maybe never. 124 00:09:25,791 --> 00:09:27,041 Never? 125 00:09:27,125 --> 00:09:28,125 Why not? 126 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,291 I'm not... interested in women. 127 00:09:39,791 --> 00:09:41,416 Men? 128 00:09:48,416 --> 00:09:50,000 Then a husband? 129 00:09:51,500 --> 00:09:53,000 I don't know... 130 00:09:53,083 --> 00:09:55,000 I'm pretty shy about relationships. 131 00:09:55,083 --> 00:09:56,291 Why? 132 00:09:56,375 --> 00:09:57,875 You're so wonderful. 133 00:09:57,958 --> 00:10:01,666 I want to be my best self when I approach someone seriously. 134 00:10:02,833 --> 00:10:05,333 I think you're perfect right now. 135 00:10:06,833 --> 00:10:09,500 Thank you. 136 00:10:09,583 --> 00:10:11,416 But if I were your son... 137 00:10:11,500 --> 00:10:12,708 You are my son. 138 00:10:14,083 --> 00:10:17,125 If people knew I was your son, 139 00:10:17,208 --> 00:10:20,208 would it be so easy to accept me? 140 00:10:20,291 --> 00:10:21,583 Yes. 141 00:10:21,666 --> 00:10:22,583 Of course. 142 00:10:22,666 --> 00:10:25,375 I would be proud. 143 00:10:28,083 --> 00:10:30,208 I am proud. 144 00:10:42,708 --> 00:10:44,500 I left you messages and emailed. 145 00:10:44,583 --> 00:10:45,583 I'm in town. 146 00:10:45,666 --> 00:10:48,375 Actually I'm... outside your house. 147 00:11:01,458 --> 00:11:04,291 Alejandro, I'm sorry, but you cannot 148 00:11:04,375 --> 00:11:07,416 just show up to my house like this. 149 00:11:07,500 --> 00:11:09,958 I'm in town for a work conference. 150 00:11:10,041 --> 00:11:11,458 I just wanted to see you. 151 00:11:11,541 --> 00:11:15,083 I've been busy with Becca's wedding. 152 00:11:15,166 --> 00:11:17,375 The whole family is here. 153 00:11:17,458 --> 00:11:20,333 I haven't had time. I'm sorry. 154 00:11:20,416 --> 00:11:23,041 I know this is complicated for you. 155 00:11:23,125 --> 00:11:26,291 But I need to talk to you. 156 00:11:26,375 --> 00:11:28,333 What is it? What's going on? 157 00:11:28,416 --> 00:11:30,583 They found scarring in my lungs. 158 00:11:31,625 --> 00:11:34,833 From the silica dust-- when I worked in the oil fields. 159 00:11:35,916 --> 00:11:37,791 They want to remove lung tissue. 160 00:11:40,500 --> 00:11:43,416 I should have gotten you out of that job earlier. 161 00:11:44,375 --> 00:11:46,291 Could you come and stay with me? 162 00:11:46,375 --> 00:11:47,875 Help me? 163 00:11:51,583 --> 00:11:54,500 It's difficult for me to get away right now. 164 00:11:56,458 --> 00:11:58,083 Yeah. 165 00:11:58,166 --> 00:11:59,250 Okay. 166 00:12:01,791 --> 00:12:03,333 That's my daughter. 167 00:12:03,416 --> 00:12:04,875 Please, you have to go. 168 00:12:04,958 --> 00:12:05,875 Can I meet her? 169 00:12:05,958 --> 00:12:06,958 Not now. 170 00:12:07,041 --> 00:12:08,083 She just got married. 171 00:12:08,166 --> 00:12:09,666 I can't surprise her like this. 172 00:12:09,750 --> 00:12:12,041 Just admit it, you're ashamed of me. 173 00:12:12,125 --> 00:12:13,041 No! 174 00:12:13,125 --> 00:12:14,291 That's not it. 175 00:12:14,375 --> 00:12:15,875 I'm ashamed of me. 176 00:12:15,958 --> 00:12:17,333 I'm ashamed of what I did. 177 00:12:17,416 --> 00:12:20,958 This thing you did-- it's me. 178 00:12:24,333 --> 00:12:26,708 I'll send money for the surgery. 179 00:12:26,791 --> 00:12:28,250 I'm sorry. 180 00:13:04,458 --> 00:13:07,666 I brought you some things. 181 00:13:07,750 --> 00:13:09,541 Why did you change your mind? 182 00:13:09,625 --> 00:13:10,833 You ask so little of me, 183 00:13:10,916 --> 00:13:13,125 and my family asks so much... 184 00:13:13,208 --> 00:13:16,375 You shouldn't have to go through this alone. 185 00:13:17,416 --> 00:13:19,291 I panicked. 186 00:13:19,375 --> 00:13:20,958 Please forgive me. 187 00:13:34,791 --> 00:13:36,125 Here. 188 00:13:37,708 --> 00:13:39,666 Thank you for being here. 189 00:13:39,750 --> 00:13:41,625 I'm happy to be here. 190 00:13:57,083 --> 00:13:58,125 Who is it? 191 00:14:49,958 --> 00:14:51,291 Please, come in. 192 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:56,750 No, you rest. 193 00:14:56,833 --> 00:14:57,750 I'll make the tea. 194 00:14:57,833 --> 00:14:59,333 Okay. Thank you. 195 00:16:20,416 --> 00:16:22,666 I gave you a plant that day. 196 00:16:23,541 --> 00:16:26,666 This one is only for you. 197 00:16:26,750 --> 00:16:28,291 Take good care of it. 198 00:16:28,375 --> 00:16:30,125 Thank you! 199 00:16:40,750 --> 00:16:41,750 That was you. 200 00:16:45,291 --> 00:16:48,666 You came, and you didn't take me. 201 00:16:50,541 --> 00:16:52,041 Why? 202 00:16:52,125 --> 00:16:56,000 What can we do about the past? 203 00:16:57,333 --> 00:16:58,875 It's not important anymore. 204 00:16:58,958 --> 00:17:00,958 It's not important? 205 00:17:04,500 --> 00:17:06,000 This is my life. 206 00:17:08,958 --> 00:17:11,291 Everything could have been different, 207 00:17:11,375 --> 00:17:13,416 and you won't tell me why. 208 00:17:14,791 --> 00:17:17,625 Are you all right? 209 00:17:17,708 --> 00:17:19,041 Calm. 210 00:17:20,166 --> 00:17:21,166 Calm. 211 00:17:22,625 --> 00:17:24,500 I need you to go. 212 00:17:31,083 --> 00:17:32,291 I don't want you here. 213 00:17:33,875 --> 00:17:40,125 I'm tired of being what you're hiding-- 214 00:17:40,208 --> 00:17:44,666 what you can't let be part of your life. 215 00:17:44,750 --> 00:17:46,458 No, I want to stay. 216 00:17:47,541 --> 00:17:48,666 I'll bring the tea. 217 00:17:48,750 --> 00:17:50,458 I'll get it. 218 00:17:50,541 --> 00:17:51,541 Please... 219 00:17:54,833 --> 00:17:56,500 ...just leave.