1 00:01:02,758 --> 00:01:05,718 Before, when I first started, I thought I was invincible 2 00:01:05,761 --> 00:01:08,331 and untouchable, and I could never get hurt. 3 00:01:10,461 --> 00:01:13,991 And I knew this was probably like one of the hardest things 4 00:01:14,030 --> 00:01:15,510 my family had to go through. 5 00:01:17,164 --> 00:01:19,434 But I'll be damned if they have to bury me. 6 00:01:21,385 --> 00:01:23,255 Domestic violence and pro wrestling 7 00:01:23,300 --> 00:01:26,000 are not one and the same. 8 00:01:26,042 --> 00:01:30,132 You know, my situation, I didn't talk about it for 20 years. 9 00:01:30,177 --> 00:01:31,737 Nobody knew. 10 00:01:31,787 --> 00:01:33,177 I didn't tell anyone. 11 00:01:33,223 --> 00:01:35,233 My husband was the only person that knew. 12 00:02:50,474 --> 00:02:53,434 Women's wrestling is experiencing a revolution, 13 00:02:53,477 --> 00:02:55,647 and independent promotions everywhere are rising to the 14 00:02:55,697 --> 00:02:59,267 occasion by showcasing female talent from around the world. 15 00:02:59,309 --> 00:03:01,179 We're gonna visit two very different places 16 00:03:01,224 --> 00:03:03,624 to show how women are quickly evolving their sport 17 00:03:03,661 --> 00:03:05,711 beyond stereotypes and misogyny. 18 00:03:05,750 --> 00:03:08,360 The rise of the Fighting Cholitas in Bolivia marks 19 00:03:08,405 --> 00:03:11,535 a distinct and important point in their cultural resurgence. 20 00:03:11,582 --> 00:03:14,852 And in America, Shimmer Women Athletes has created a league 21 00:03:14,890 --> 00:03:17,200 that focuses on the best technical wrestling 22 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:18,890 from across the globe. 23 00:03:18,937 --> 00:03:21,587 For the last 13 years, they've fought to place female athletes 24 00:03:21,636 --> 00:03:24,246 like Mia Yim at the forefront of the independent scene. 25 00:03:24,291 --> 00:03:26,901 In both countries, many of the women involved have overcome 26 00:03:26,945 --> 00:03:29,725 violence in their own lives to fight to create an atmosphere 27 00:03:29,774 --> 00:03:31,914 that promotes female empowerment. 28 00:03:31,950 --> 00:03:34,820 Every ring and stage, women wrestlers are fighting hard, 29 00:03:34,866 --> 00:03:37,646 developing and perfecting their craft and telling stories 30 00:03:37,695 --> 00:03:39,995 that transcend mere match. 31 00:03:40,045 --> 00:03:41,435 And the fans are noticing. 32 00:03:45,834 --> 00:03:47,314 So why don't we do that for the shine, 33 00:03:47,357 --> 00:03:48,527 where like you give me a head scissors, 34 00:03:48,576 --> 00:03:49,926 I'll sell into the corner. 35 00:03:49,968 --> 00:03:51,488 Charge after me, I'll move, I'll charge after you. 36 00:03:51,535 --> 00:03:53,015 You could do the thing. 37 00:03:53,058 --> 00:03:54,408 If you wanna do a victory earlier so we don't have to 38 00:03:54,451 --> 00:03:56,981 blow it up, we could do that victory, maybe roll up, 39 00:03:57,019 --> 00:04:00,239 one, two, spear, boom, one, two, aah. 40 00:04:00,283 --> 00:04:02,333 That probably wasn't English at all to you, 41 00:04:02,372 --> 00:04:03,812 but that totally made sense to us. 42 00:04:03,852 --> 00:04:05,032 You know what, I don't need to know. 43 00:04:05,070 --> 00:04:06,770 All I need to know is that you get it, 44 00:04:06,811 --> 00:04:08,291 and then it's gonna be awesome when I get to see it. 45 00:04:09,684 --> 00:04:10,824 That's all I need to know about that exchange. 46 00:04:15,603 --> 00:04:17,743 Mia Yim is one of the most accomplished women 47 00:04:17,779 --> 00:04:19,519 on the indie circuit. 48 00:04:19,563 --> 00:04:21,913 She trained in Japan, was on television with both 49 00:04:21,957 --> 00:04:24,607 Total Nonstop Action Wrestling and Ring of Honor, 50 00:04:24,655 --> 00:04:26,915 and has worked for many of the top indies, 51 00:04:26,962 --> 00:04:29,232 including CZW, Shine, and Shimmer. 52 00:04:30,531 --> 00:04:33,931 Wrestling is a form of dance. 53 00:04:33,969 --> 00:04:39,369 So one person will do, say, a move to another person, 54 00:04:39,409 --> 00:04:41,409 but they're both taking care of each other. 55 00:04:44,588 --> 00:04:50,418 Although it is violent, in wrestling everything is consent, 56 00:04:50,464 --> 00:04:52,124 and there's proper training behind it. 57 00:04:52,161 --> 00:04:53,821 So if I'm in a ring with somebody, 58 00:04:53,858 --> 00:04:56,468 I'll put them in the headlock, but I'm not 59 00:04:56,513 --> 00:04:58,123 purposefully hurting them. 60 00:05:09,134 --> 00:05:11,924 One, two, three! 61 00:05:14,139 --> 00:05:15,579 There's a lot of people that think oh, 62 00:05:15,619 --> 00:05:18,059 well she got muscle, she wrestles guys, 63 00:05:18,100 --> 00:05:19,800 she can handle her own. 64 00:05:19,841 --> 00:05:23,111 But just because I'm a wrestler, 65 00:05:23,148 --> 00:05:25,408 don't mean it's okay for me to get beat up at home. 66 00:05:29,372 --> 00:05:31,942 At a time in her career when everything was going right 67 00:05:31,983 --> 00:05:34,813 and Mia was solidifying her place on the big stage, 68 00:05:34,856 --> 00:05:37,156 it was a very different story at home. 69 00:05:37,206 --> 00:05:39,246 Mia began experiencing domestic abuse at 70 00:05:39,295 --> 00:05:42,555 the hands of her boyfriend, also a working wrestler. 71 00:05:42,603 --> 00:05:46,823 I was completely blinded by it, and I didn't realize the flags, 72 00:05:46,868 --> 00:05:49,258 but looking back on it, it was all there. 73 00:05:49,305 --> 00:05:52,345 The jealousy, the control. 74 00:05:52,395 --> 00:05:55,615 He was overprotective, which I thought at that time 75 00:05:55,659 --> 00:05:57,489 was flattering because oh, he cares so much. 76 00:05:57,531 --> 00:05:59,361 He's scared somebody's gonna take me away. 77 00:05:59,402 --> 00:06:02,232 But then it became restricting. 78 00:06:03,580 --> 00:06:08,020 We had an argument, and I mentioned my ex, 79 00:06:08,063 --> 00:06:11,943 which he always had a problem with as far as I couldn't be on 80 00:06:11,980 --> 00:06:14,420 the same show as him, we couldn't be friends. 81 00:06:14,461 --> 00:06:18,471 And then during the argument, he put me in a headlock. 82 00:06:21,381 --> 00:06:23,771 Me and my ex, we had matches together, 83 00:06:23,818 --> 00:06:26,688 so to me it was... 84 00:06:26,734 --> 00:06:30,434 okay, I've been in this move my whole wrestling career. 85 00:06:30,477 --> 00:06:32,437 The only difference is why is this hurting 86 00:06:32,479 --> 00:06:33,869 and why can't I breathe? 87 00:06:35,482 --> 00:06:39,222 And that's just because I've never been in a proper headlock. 88 00:06:41,401 --> 00:06:44,841 And then the next day, it was just like nothing ever happened. 89 00:06:46,580 --> 00:06:50,060 Then it would become more and more regular, 90 00:06:50,105 --> 00:06:54,065 where every argument, he would choke me just because, 91 00:06:54,109 --> 00:06:55,549 you know, I'm not... 92 00:06:55,589 --> 00:06:57,369 he doesn't want me walking around with a black eye. 93 00:06:57,417 --> 00:07:02,247 There's no marks on me, so he would choke me 94 00:07:02,291 --> 00:07:04,471 whether it's in the headlock again 95 00:07:04,511 --> 00:07:07,601 or with his bare hands, with a towel. 96 00:07:09,907 --> 00:07:12,867 It was a million thoughts going on at once. 97 00:07:12,910 --> 00:07:15,090 It was confusion. 98 00:07:16,871 --> 00:07:19,181 The guy that tells me he loves me every day and he wants to 99 00:07:19,221 --> 00:07:21,271 marry me, why is he pitting me through this pain? 100 00:07:23,399 --> 00:07:26,919 Why does he keep hurting me and telling me it's never gonna 101 00:07:26,968 --> 00:07:30,488 happen again, but then two weeks later it happens again? 102 00:07:32,713 --> 00:07:34,283 What did I do? 103 00:07:34,323 --> 00:07:35,413 What am I doing wrong? 104 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,070 It's a lot easier said than done to just... 105 00:07:41,112 --> 00:07:43,942 "Why didn't you leave?" or, "Why did you stay?" 106 00:07:43,985 --> 00:07:45,245 "Why didn't you fight back?" 107 00:07:45,290 --> 00:07:47,900 Like of course I fought back, but he's a man. 108 00:07:47,945 --> 00:07:50,375 Like I can't-- I can't knock him out with one punch. 109 00:07:50,426 --> 00:07:54,516 Like he can easily just overpower me. 110 00:08:00,218 --> 00:08:03,128 I decided to come public with it when, 111 00:08:03,178 --> 00:08:06,828 after talking to several of my other female wrestling friends, 112 00:08:06,877 --> 00:08:10,527 I was... pretty much just needed a shoulder to cry on, 113 00:08:10,577 --> 00:08:12,007 so I talked to them. 114 00:08:12,056 --> 00:08:15,536 And a lot of them said, "This is what you need to do. 115 00:08:15,582 --> 00:08:16,932 This is what happened with me, 116 00:08:16,974 --> 00:08:18,324 and this is how I got out of it." 117 00:08:18,367 --> 00:08:21,277 And it was like... wait a minute. 118 00:08:21,326 --> 00:08:24,196 So we have been sharing the same locker room for X amount of 119 00:08:24,242 --> 00:08:28,162 years, you went through the same challenges I went through 120 00:08:28,203 --> 00:08:29,903 as a female wrestler, and you're telling me 121 00:08:29,944 --> 00:08:32,164 that you've been through this as well? 122 00:08:32,207 --> 00:08:35,247 And it wasn't just one other woman, 123 00:08:35,297 --> 00:08:39,077 it was multiple wrestling women that has told me. 124 00:08:39,127 --> 00:08:42,217 And it was like this has got to stop. 125 00:08:42,260 --> 00:08:45,350 Like this is exactly why domestic violence is happening, 126 00:08:45,394 --> 00:08:46,534 because nobody's talking about it. 127 00:08:48,353 --> 00:08:50,183 I couldn't-- I couldn't stay quiet. 128 00:09:08,765 --> 00:09:10,415 - That's Maria's belt? - Si, si. 129 00:09:10,462 --> 00:09:12,162 I guess like any proud parent 130 00:09:12,203 --> 00:09:16,033 displaying their children's trophies, a proud luchadore 131 00:09:16,077 --> 00:09:18,727 with display their Fighting Cholita's belt. 132 00:09:47,717 --> 00:09:50,807 How did it make you feel the first time you saw your... 133 00:09:50,851 --> 00:09:52,941 your babies, your children in the ring? 134 00:10:23,710 --> 00:10:27,150 El Alto, Bolivia sits 13,000 feet above sea level, 135 00:10:27,191 --> 00:10:29,541 overlooking the capital city of La Paz. 136 00:10:29,585 --> 00:10:31,665 It's home to over a million residents, 137 00:10:31,718 --> 00:10:34,898 most of whom are of the Indigenous Aymara or Quechua. 138 00:10:34,938 --> 00:10:37,328 For decades, Bolivia has had a style of wrestling 139 00:10:37,375 --> 00:10:39,895 highly derivative of Mexican Lucha Libre, 140 00:10:39,943 --> 00:10:42,293 but around 15 years ago in a rapidly changing 141 00:10:42,337 --> 00:10:46,207 political climate, the Fighting Cholitas came into being. 142 00:10:46,254 --> 00:10:49,744 I'm meeting with my local guide and Bolivian historian Valeria 143 00:10:49,779 --> 00:10:52,429 to show me around and to find out who these women are, 144 00:10:52,477 --> 00:10:54,647 and how they came to be wrestlers. 145 00:10:55,437 --> 00:10:58,877 Most of the people in Bolivia, it's a mix between Indigenous 146 00:10:58,919 --> 00:11:01,569 and all our roots from Spanish, 147 00:11:01,617 --> 00:11:06,927 but we have like 75% of our population right now Indigenous. 148 00:11:08,668 --> 00:11:12,058 But all of the Cholitas and all of the Indigenous people 149 00:11:12,106 --> 00:11:16,276 were not identifying themselves as Bolivians, 150 00:11:16,327 --> 00:11:23,027 because even just 15 years ago, Cholitas would not be able to go 151 00:11:23,073 --> 00:11:25,603 on an airplane dressed as Cholitas. 152 00:11:25,641 --> 00:11:29,251 They would be asked to dress differently 153 00:11:29,297 --> 00:11:32,127 in order to board a flight. 154 00:11:35,564 --> 00:11:37,614 Where is this discrimination coming from? 155 00:13:24,064 --> 00:13:25,764 What goes inside. 156 00:13:25,805 --> 00:13:27,235 Oh, like an underskirt? 157 00:13:27,284 --> 00:13:28,464 Ohhh. 158 00:13:41,472 --> 00:13:44,782 At the time that she's wrestling is what you'll see the most. 159 00:13:44,824 --> 00:13:46,394 That's true, you want it to look beautiful. 160 00:13:56,270 --> 00:13:57,450 Ah! 161 00:14:00,448 --> 00:14:02,448 What were people's like to seeing you? 162 00:14:02,493 --> 00:14:04,503 'Cause you're the first women luchadores. 163 00:14:23,384 --> 00:14:27,044 It's amazing looking at the rise of the Fighting Cholitas 164 00:14:27,083 --> 00:14:30,093 and Bolivia as a country, and just how much it's changed 165 00:14:30,130 --> 00:14:31,740 during that period. 166 00:14:31,783 --> 00:14:34,573 Because when you started, it was a really tense time politically. 167 00:14:34,612 --> 00:14:36,052 It was a civil war. 168 00:14:51,803 --> 00:14:54,553 The Bolivian Gas War took place in 2003 169 00:14:54,589 --> 00:14:56,849 with the government's plan to sell off the country's 170 00:14:56,896 --> 00:14:59,156 newly discovered gas reserves. 171 00:14:59,202 --> 00:15:01,682 Fuelled by a deep history of colonial exploitation 172 00:15:01,726 --> 00:15:04,946 of natural resources such as silver and gold, along with 173 00:15:04,991 --> 00:15:07,601 a weakened economy and impoverished living conditions, 174 00:15:07,645 --> 00:15:10,295 Bolivians took to the streets to strike in protest... 175 00:15:11,954 --> 00:15:13,704 ...but were met with a violent response. 176 00:15:15,088 --> 00:15:17,348 60 people, mostly from El Alto, were killed, 177 00:15:17,394 --> 00:15:18,964 and many more were wounded. 178 00:17:22,041 --> 00:17:24,391 Domestic abuse is prevalent in Bolivia, 179 00:17:24,434 --> 00:17:27,874 with 53% of Bolivian women having experienced physical 180 00:17:27,916 --> 00:17:30,396 or sexual violence at the hands of a partner, 181 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:32,790 one of the highest rates of any country in South America. 182 00:17:50,156 --> 00:17:53,116 Helen, how did you first find out about this space? 183 00:21:15,012 --> 00:21:16,932 One, two. Good, find the two. 184 00:21:16,971 --> 00:21:18,191 Two three two. 185 00:21:18,233 --> 00:21:20,283 Good, good work, shake it out. 186 00:21:20,322 --> 00:21:22,112 You know, when we talk about domestic violence, 187 00:21:22,150 --> 00:21:24,460 there's always this idea of the perfect victim. 188 00:21:24,500 --> 00:21:28,070 Somebody who is a model citizen, someone who doesn't curse, 189 00:21:28,112 --> 00:21:30,512 someone who doesn't initiate violence, 190 00:21:30,550 --> 00:21:32,070 someone who doesn't partake in violence, right? 191 00:21:32,116 --> 00:21:33,856 Wrestling's a violent sport. 192 00:21:33,901 --> 00:21:36,381 When you think of the perfect victims, 193 00:21:36,425 --> 00:21:39,425 those are the kind of labels we put on people that 194 00:21:39,472 --> 00:21:41,212 if they can subscribe to all of those things, 195 00:21:41,256 --> 00:21:42,816 right, if they can just be perfect, 196 00:21:42,866 --> 00:21:44,776 then they're deserving of support. 197 00:21:44,825 --> 00:21:47,305 And so you look at someone like Mia, 198 00:21:47,349 --> 00:21:49,129 who's a professional wrestler, 199 00:21:49,177 --> 00:21:51,567 and the element of victim blaming comes in, right? 200 00:21:53,094 --> 00:21:54,844 "She could've fought back," or, "Maybe if she didn't date 201 00:21:54,878 --> 00:21:58,618 a wrestler, she wouldn't find herself in this situation." 202 00:22:00,797 --> 00:22:02,187 So what about connecting with her though? 203 00:22:02,233 --> 00:22:04,113 You kind of, I guess at some point though, 204 00:22:04,148 --> 00:22:05,368 crossed that line, right? 205 00:22:05,411 --> 00:22:07,761 - From fan to friend. - To friend. 206 00:22:07,804 --> 00:22:10,154 I mean, I think the world of Mia, she's great. 207 00:22:10,198 --> 00:22:12,458 You know, I think that's the power of social media. 208 00:22:13,897 --> 00:22:17,247 I'm someone who has had friends and family who've been impacted 209 00:22:17,292 --> 00:22:19,082 by domestic violence. 210 00:22:19,120 --> 00:22:22,040 But then I saw that she was retweeting a bunch of different 211 00:22:22,079 --> 00:22:23,989 domestic violence campaigns. 212 00:22:25,735 --> 00:22:29,905 The Put The Nail In It campaign is a campaign that aims to end 213 00:22:29,957 --> 00:22:32,217 the silence around domestic violence. 214 00:22:32,263 --> 00:22:34,833 You know, the idea was that if you painted your left ring 215 00:22:34,875 --> 00:22:37,965 fingernail purple, hopefully somebody would spot it 216 00:22:38,008 --> 00:22:39,968 and ask you a question like, "What's that about?" 217 00:22:41,447 --> 00:22:44,057 And so being a wrestling fan, I saw Mia, 218 00:22:44,101 --> 00:22:47,241 and I saw that she had the painted nail. 219 00:22:47,278 --> 00:22:51,278 And so I said hmm, you know, let me just reach out to Mia 220 00:22:51,326 --> 00:22:54,106 and see if she'd feel comfortable speaking. 221 00:22:55,461 --> 00:22:57,161 He would cry, he would apologize, 222 00:22:57,201 --> 00:22:59,331 he was a changed man, he learned his lesson. 223 00:22:59,378 --> 00:23:03,158 A week later, we'd get into an argument, 224 00:23:03,207 --> 00:23:06,647 he just scoops me up, tossed me in the closet. 225 00:23:06,689 --> 00:23:08,299 And that was my first time I fought back, 226 00:23:08,343 --> 00:23:11,393 'cause I broke down the door, and then I came out swinging 227 00:23:11,433 --> 00:23:13,783 'cause he just stood there like he couldn't believe 228 00:23:13,827 --> 00:23:15,387 I got through the door. 229 00:23:15,437 --> 00:23:17,177 So... 230 00:23:18,701 --> 00:23:20,011 It's okay. 231 00:23:21,661 --> 00:23:25,321 I thought about my family, and how... 232 00:23:25,360 --> 00:23:29,760 I will be damned if my parents have to bury me. 233 00:23:30,887 --> 00:23:34,497 So I broke down the closet, first time I fought back. 234 00:23:34,543 --> 00:23:36,023 Um... 235 00:23:38,547 --> 00:23:43,937 And of course, he just easily just... scooped me up, 236 00:23:43,987 --> 00:23:46,507 put me down, he mounted me and started choking me. 237 00:23:49,384 --> 00:23:53,784 I want to be an advocate, I want to help others 238 00:23:53,823 --> 00:23:55,303 that's been in my situation. 239 00:23:55,346 --> 00:23:56,436 I just don't know how. 240 00:23:58,045 --> 00:24:00,345 And so for Mia, I wanted to let her know that I was interested 241 00:24:00,395 --> 00:24:02,615 in exploring the story with her, and getting it out there, 242 00:24:02,658 --> 00:24:05,268 and that she also had final approval on the piece that 243 00:24:05,313 --> 00:24:07,183 we did submit for The Huffington Post. 244 00:24:08,708 --> 00:24:10,318 And I was a little scared. 245 00:24:10,361 --> 00:24:15,671 Would she be met with that same hyper-masculinity victim blaming 246 00:24:15,715 --> 00:24:18,665 that's so common when women come forward? 247 00:24:18,718 --> 00:24:20,808 But I was surprised. 248 00:24:27,335 --> 00:24:28,545 Annabelle is the youngest of 249 00:24:28,597 --> 00:24:30,557 the Fighting Cholitas in El Alto. 250 00:24:30,599 --> 00:24:32,689 Still in high school, she represents 251 00:24:32,732 --> 00:24:34,392 a new generation of wrestlers. 252 00:25:20,388 --> 00:25:21,648 Oh! 253 00:26:30,284 --> 00:26:34,644 It seems to me the part that's missing is educating men, 254 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,030 'cause the men are the perpetrators of this violence. 255 00:26:37,073 --> 00:26:39,083 What kind of changes are happening there? 256 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:42,599 Is there any efforts being made to kinda adjust society? 257 00:27:30,605 --> 00:27:32,995 I'm to understand that you've gone out and actually formed 258 00:27:33,042 --> 00:27:35,312 your own federation, a women's federation now, right? 259 00:28:50,816 --> 00:28:53,206 The Fighting Cholita's league is still in its infancy, 260 00:28:53,253 --> 00:28:55,263 and has to rely on male promoters for access 261 00:28:55,298 --> 00:28:57,258 to both a ring and a venue. 262 00:28:57,300 --> 00:28:59,090 If they're able to become fully independent, 263 00:28:59,128 --> 00:29:00,868 it will mark an important point in history 264 00:29:00,913 --> 00:29:02,923 for women's wrestling. 265 00:29:02,958 --> 00:29:05,438 Outside of Japan and a few short-lived promotions in 266 00:29:05,482 --> 00:29:08,792 the UK, the Cholitas would be the first promotion to be fully 267 00:29:08,834 --> 00:29:12,054 owned and controlled by the female wrestlers themselves. 268 00:29:26,634 --> 00:29:28,164 Pen! 269 00:29:28,201 --> 00:29:29,901 Thanks for that, Howard. 270 00:29:39,734 --> 00:29:45,784 Shimmer is the WrestleMania of women's independent wrestling. 271 00:29:46,915 --> 00:29:51,175 It is women from all over the world that are known for 272 00:29:51,224 --> 00:29:54,534 their work, rather than just being sexy or whatnot. 273 00:29:55,706 --> 00:30:00,536 This is pro wrestling with female athletes. 274 00:30:00,581 --> 00:30:02,801 We're giving them more of an opportunity. 275 00:30:02,844 --> 00:30:05,724 We're allowing them to showcase their athleticism. 276 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,330 We're not here for a bunch of goofy stories. 277 00:30:09,372 --> 00:30:12,032 We're not here for showing you the goods. 278 00:30:12,071 --> 00:30:13,511 We're not gonna give that to you. 279 00:30:14,943 --> 00:30:17,213 We're not the side dish, we're the main dish. 280 00:30:17,250 --> 00:30:20,990 We are the meat and potatoes of women's wrestling. 281 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,820 You're gonna see brawling, you're gonna see technical 282 00:30:25,867 --> 00:30:28,167 wrestling, you're gonna see high flying, and you're gonna 283 00:30:28,217 --> 00:30:31,997 see women in a capacity you might not normally see. 284 00:30:41,100 --> 00:30:46,890 Mia! Mia! Mia! Mia! Mia! Mia! Mia! Mia! 285 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:57,590 Shimmer is the only league of its kind in America. 286 00:30:57,638 --> 00:31:00,248 While there are other women-centric promotions, 287 00:31:00,293 --> 00:31:01,903 they don't have the same mandate 288 00:31:01,947 --> 00:31:04,297 to specifically highlight female athleticism. 289 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:08,390 Within the American wrestling system, there's been 290 00:31:08,431 --> 00:31:11,701 a lot of talk recently about a women's revolution. 291 00:31:11,739 --> 00:31:14,439 The buzz has grown so popular that even the large corporate 292 00:31:14,481 --> 00:31:16,881 wrestling companies have had to take notice and change 293 00:31:16,918 --> 00:31:18,958 the presentation of women's wrestling. 294 00:31:21,575 --> 00:31:25,185 A great deal of responsibility for this changing tide is owed 295 00:31:25,231 --> 00:31:28,841 to the organizers of Shimmer, and the women they feature. 296 00:31:28,887 --> 00:31:31,797 Without them, the world of pro wrestling would still be 297 00:31:31,846 --> 00:31:33,496 living in the past. 298 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,640 I think out of all the wrestling shows I've been to lately - 299 00:31:40,681 --> 00:31:42,941 and I've been to a lot lately - this is one of the most 300 00:31:42,988 --> 00:31:46,558 respectful audiences, certainly in America or Canada, 301 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,170 that I've ever seen. 302 00:31:48,210 --> 00:31:50,560 Is that something that was like that from the very beginning, 303 00:31:50,604 --> 00:31:52,524 or is that something you've had to cultivate here? 304 00:31:52,562 --> 00:31:56,002 Back when we first started this in 2005, 305 00:31:56,044 --> 00:31:59,134 women were facing the problem, particularly on the indies. 306 00:31:59,178 --> 00:32:02,658 When we would hit the ring at any kind of "regular" show 307 00:32:02,703 --> 00:32:04,793 I would say, like a mostly male show, 308 00:32:04,835 --> 00:32:08,135 fans would openly get up and go to the bar, 309 00:32:08,187 --> 00:32:10,147 get something to drink, get a snack. 310 00:32:10,189 --> 00:32:13,189 I've done shows where the fans pick their chairs up, 311 00:32:13,235 --> 00:32:16,105 turned them around, and sat like this with their backs to us 312 00:32:16,151 --> 00:32:19,681 to make us know that we weren't welcome, that we were 313 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:23,510 taking away from male matches that they wanted to watch. 314 00:32:26,031 --> 00:32:27,771 Where do you think that animosity 315 00:32:27,815 --> 00:32:29,985 towards women's wrestling comes from? 316 00:32:30,035 --> 00:32:31,815 It's just straight up misogyny. 317 00:32:31,862 --> 00:32:35,392 And it goes back to the old school mentality of 318 00:32:35,431 --> 00:32:37,131 men are the leaders. 319 00:32:37,172 --> 00:32:38,832 Men do the heavy lifting. 320 00:32:38,869 --> 00:32:40,999 Women just stay in the background and do this. 321 00:32:41,046 --> 00:32:43,476 And I think deep down, it's engrained in 322 00:32:43,526 --> 00:32:47,096 a lot of fans' heads that this isn't what women do. 323 00:32:47,139 --> 00:32:49,749 And a lot of fans just didn't like it. 324 00:32:49,793 --> 00:32:52,013 They felt we were encroaching on 325 00:32:52,057 --> 00:32:54,797 the territory of something they loved. 326 00:32:54,842 --> 00:32:57,762 We've had women's wrestling over the years, 327 00:32:57,801 --> 00:33:00,801 and then we had GLOW which openly acknowledged 328 00:33:00,848 --> 00:33:04,158 most of those people were actresses playing a part. 329 00:33:04,199 --> 00:33:08,029 So they're used to seeing these amazing athletics from the men, 330 00:33:08,073 --> 00:33:10,383 and then the women are trying to catch up 331 00:33:10,423 --> 00:33:11,823 and given that opportunity. 332 00:33:11,859 --> 00:33:14,299 And the women who could wrestle were held back 333 00:33:14,340 --> 00:33:15,520 for not being pretty enough. 334 00:33:18,692 --> 00:33:21,702 Back then, women's wrestling in my experience, 335 00:33:21,738 --> 00:33:24,568 from what I've been through, it was just sexualized. 336 00:33:24,611 --> 00:33:27,401 Bra and panty matches, mud matches, specialty matches, 337 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:31,050 and I'm sure it was a lot worse before I started. 338 00:33:34,099 --> 00:33:37,889 So when we started Shimmer and Prazak pitched the idea, 339 00:33:37,928 --> 00:33:42,848 we really wanted to find that niche and find the people who 340 00:33:42,890 --> 00:33:46,070 believed in women's wrestling, and believed in the athletes 341 00:33:46,111 --> 00:33:48,161 that we have and that we present. 342 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:51,250 And we started getting away from the cat fights, 343 00:33:51,290 --> 00:33:53,210 and the evening gown matches. 344 00:33:53,248 --> 00:33:55,338 And no matter who told us it was wrong, 345 00:33:55,381 --> 00:33:57,601 we knew here and here it was right, 346 00:33:57,644 --> 00:33:59,174 and so we just kept going. 347 00:33:59,211 --> 00:34:00,691 We're like alright, they don't like it, 348 00:34:00,734 --> 00:34:02,524 let's move to the next person. 349 00:34:02,562 --> 00:34:04,092 Mia! Mia! 350 00:34:04,129 --> 00:34:06,609 We weren't gonna be able to change everybody's minds, 351 00:34:06,653 --> 00:34:09,403 but if we worked really hard, we would be able to educate 352 00:34:09,438 --> 00:34:12,348 some people on what we do, and change minds that way. 353 00:34:18,534 --> 00:34:21,414 Everywhere you go that I've been so far around, 354 00:34:21,450 --> 00:34:24,060 you see signs of Evo Morales. 355 00:34:24,105 --> 00:34:25,975 Can you explain a little bit about his presidency 356 00:34:26,020 --> 00:34:27,460 and how he became elected? 357 00:34:27,500 --> 00:34:29,200 He was a natural leader. 358 00:34:29,241 --> 00:34:32,641 He was president of all of the unions in our central area 359 00:34:32,679 --> 00:34:36,069 that we call Chapare, where they produce the coca leaves. 360 00:34:36,117 --> 00:34:40,857 And then he started getting involved in politics, 361 00:34:40,904 --> 00:34:44,304 and he decided to found his own party 362 00:34:44,343 --> 00:34:47,743 that is a movement towards socialism. 363 00:34:49,043 --> 00:34:51,483 So not only was Evo a very progressive force 364 00:34:51,524 --> 00:34:53,004 when it comes to labour and things like that, 365 00:34:53,047 --> 00:34:55,137 but he was also the first Indigenous president, right? 366 00:34:55,180 --> 00:34:56,570 Yes, actually. 367 00:34:56,616 --> 00:34:59,656 How did that affect the psychology of people here? 368 00:34:59,706 --> 00:35:03,006 It created a new identity, 369 00:35:03,057 --> 00:35:08,717 because we have like 75% of our population right now Indigenous. 370 00:35:08,758 --> 00:35:14,678 So during the '70s, people who have Indigenous last names 371 00:35:14,721 --> 00:35:17,461 would not be able to go to university, 372 00:35:17,506 --> 00:35:21,546 but now they are free to do whatever they want. 373 00:35:21,597 --> 00:35:25,687 What Evo Morales has done is that he has created 374 00:35:25,732 --> 00:35:28,522 a new identity of a country. 375 00:35:28,561 --> 00:35:33,261 And part of that identity is the Cholitas as an icon of the city 376 00:35:33,305 --> 00:35:35,515 and of our country. 377 00:35:51,584 --> 00:35:54,804 Watching you two work together, it's amazing, 378 00:35:54,848 --> 00:35:57,978 the trust that you must have and the faith you put in each other. 379 00:35:58,025 --> 00:36:01,025 Is that something that transcends the ring? 380 00:36:01,071 --> 00:36:02,511 - Absolutely! - Yeah. 381 00:36:02,551 --> 00:36:03,771 Half of the stuff we do, 382 00:36:03,813 --> 00:36:05,423 whether we're fighting against each other 383 00:36:05,467 --> 00:36:10,337 or teaming up together, it's all just us being us. 384 00:36:10,385 --> 00:36:12,945 So we don't call any of it, we don't plan any of it. 385 00:36:12,996 --> 00:36:15,346 A majority of it is legit just us. 386 00:36:15,390 --> 00:36:16,830 It's just us being like... 387 00:36:16,870 --> 00:36:18,790 When we got close... 388 00:36:18,828 --> 00:36:20,658 I moved to Florida for my ex. 389 00:36:20,700 --> 00:36:23,530 So then we had our own clique, and that's how we got to bond 390 00:36:23,572 --> 00:36:25,142 and get to know each other. 391 00:36:25,183 --> 00:36:28,713 So not only is she my wrestling friend, 392 00:36:28,751 --> 00:36:30,141 she's my real friend. 393 00:36:31,667 --> 00:36:35,317 So when I finally left, she was there when 394 00:36:35,367 --> 00:36:38,497 all of our mutual friends thought I was exaggerating 395 00:36:38,544 --> 00:36:40,114 or lying or just making it up. 396 00:36:40,154 --> 00:36:43,294 She was there to tell me you do what you gotta do to be safe, 397 00:36:43,331 --> 00:36:44,851 and I'll be there for you. 398 00:36:48,336 --> 00:36:51,026 When Mia first was able to come forward about the abuse 399 00:36:51,078 --> 00:36:54,648 she experienced, there was people around her that went to 400 00:36:54,690 --> 00:36:58,090 the abuser and just protected him, and tried to protect him. 401 00:36:58,128 --> 00:37:02,308 Sometimes I think people protect the abuser because they can't 402 00:37:02,350 --> 00:37:06,010 fathom that the abuser would've actually done that. 403 00:37:06,049 --> 00:37:08,179 "Oh, you're just being hysterical." 404 00:37:08,226 --> 00:37:11,186 "Oh, calm down, that couldn't have really happened." 405 00:37:11,229 --> 00:37:15,449 And they almost gaslight you in a way of 406 00:37:15,494 --> 00:37:17,414 they make you second guess. 407 00:37:17,452 --> 00:37:19,412 Was it really that bad? 408 00:37:19,454 --> 00:37:21,894 And so that's extremely frustrating. 409 00:37:23,502 --> 00:37:26,852 I couldn't stay quiet and let it keep happening because 410 00:37:26,896 --> 00:37:29,326 the abusers think that oh, well they-- if they talk, 411 00:37:29,377 --> 00:37:31,287 then we're gonna beat them up some more. 412 00:37:32,685 --> 00:37:37,035 It wasn't until when I came out with my story that I realized 413 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,170 how many people were supportive. 414 00:37:40,606 --> 00:37:44,646 It was just crazy that not only is it just like my friends 415 00:37:44,697 --> 00:37:47,737 at Shimmer, or my friends at Impact, 416 00:37:47,787 --> 00:37:50,527 it was everybody, like people I've never even met before. 417 00:37:52,357 --> 00:37:55,617 And it was... it was refreshing to know I'm not crazy. 418 00:37:57,362 --> 00:37:59,932 Some people wanna... wanna criticize it, 419 00:37:59,973 --> 00:38:03,413 that it was a glory grab, it was an attention grab. 420 00:38:03,455 --> 00:38:06,845 I think it was something so unselfish, 421 00:38:06,893 --> 00:38:11,853 because she put strangers ahead of herself, 422 00:38:11,898 --> 00:38:14,198 because she doesn't want anyone else to ever be 423 00:38:14,248 --> 00:38:15,948 in that situation. 424 00:38:15,989 --> 00:38:21,779 And she made us in the locker room feel safe 425 00:38:21,821 --> 00:38:24,301 to start talking about our own situations. 426 00:38:25,912 --> 00:38:29,262 My situation, I didn't talk about it for 20 years. 427 00:38:29,307 --> 00:38:31,437 I didn't tell anyone. 428 00:38:31,483 --> 00:38:34,183 My husband was the only person that knew. 429 00:38:34,224 --> 00:38:37,584 Now I feel better talking about it because 430 00:38:37,619 --> 00:38:41,059 she put herself out there for everybody. 431 00:38:41,101 --> 00:38:44,321 Like a lot of people don't realize what she put on the line 432 00:38:44,365 --> 00:38:45,575 to do that. 433 00:38:45,627 --> 00:38:47,927 That essentially could've ruined her career, 434 00:38:47,977 --> 00:38:50,197 and she did it. 435 00:38:50,240 --> 00:38:51,630 She did it anyway. 436 00:38:57,509 --> 00:39:00,379 That glass ceiling, we're shattering it. 437 00:39:00,425 --> 00:39:03,375 You know, granted, still to this day we're not getting paid 438 00:39:03,428 --> 00:39:06,648 as much as men, and we still have some obstacles, 439 00:39:06,692 --> 00:39:08,612 but we'll take the little victories. 440 00:39:11,653 --> 00:39:16,793 I think with the platform that I am given, 441 00:39:16,832 --> 00:39:19,972 I don't want to be selfish and just focus on me. 442 00:39:20,009 --> 00:39:22,229 It's not about me, it's about the issues 443 00:39:22,272 --> 00:39:24,192 that's going on right now. 444 00:39:24,231 --> 00:39:27,451 When I'm done wrestling, I want people to say, 445 00:39:27,495 --> 00:39:30,625 "She's the one that opened up about domestic violence. 446 00:39:30,672 --> 00:39:34,552 Now look at what's happened with that story." 447 00:41:12,426 --> 00:41:15,296 That's really kind of the other thing that I found interesting 448 00:41:15,342 --> 00:41:18,432 when talking to people, is how much what you do in the ring has 449 00:41:18,476 --> 00:41:20,606 affected the world outside of the ring, 450 00:41:20,652 --> 00:41:23,522 and how much of an important role you've played in sort of 451 00:41:23,568 --> 00:41:26,478 this... I don't know, this amazing period of growth 452 00:41:26,527 --> 00:41:28,007 that's happened in this country. 453 00:41:54,990 --> 00:41:57,560 That's why I think the Fighting Cholitas are so important and 454 00:41:57,602 --> 00:42:02,002 so awesome for all of wrestling, is because it's not just amazing 455 00:42:02,041 --> 00:42:05,171 wrestling, there's also like fighting against discrimination, 456 00:42:05,218 --> 00:42:07,258 fighting against oppression, 457 00:42:07,307 --> 00:42:09,607 and fighting against unfair labour practices. 458 00:42:09,657 --> 00:42:11,827 And that's... you know, and it's just so much more 459 00:42:11,877 --> 00:42:13,177 than just fighting in the ring. 460 00:42:13,226 --> 00:42:14,396 It's fighting outside of the ring that you do 461 00:42:14,444 --> 00:42:16,144 that's so inspiring.